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<p>Better communication skills will advance your career and business. Are you ready to enhance your understanding and results from better communication? Listen and learn how to deliver Your Intended Message. <br />Are you willing to cross-examine communication from various perspectives? Would you like to deliver your intended message more effectively?<br /><br />Listen to Your Intended Message to gain a powerful advantage in your ability to convey your message to your audience, team, clients or marketplace.<br /><br />Learn from the mistakes and success of communication experts from around the world from different scenarios.</p>
<p>The better communicator has the competitive advantage.<br /><br />Imagine what that means to you when you improve the success of your next conversation, presentation or message.</p>
<p>Your Host - George Torok</p>
<p><a href="https://yourintendedmessage.com/" title="Your Intended Message podcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">https://yourintendedmessage.com/</a></p>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Virtual Speaking Skills: Master Engagement and Timing
How to Run High-Impact Virtual Events That Aren't Boring
<p>Episode 299 (Bernie is based in Detroit)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Bernie DeSantis we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>the shift from in-person to virtual presentation delivery</li>
<li>why engagement—not content—is the biggest challenge in virtual settings</li>
<li>how small delivery details determine audience attention</li>
<li>the role of a virtual producer in supporting presenters</li>
<li>how pattern interrupts help maintain audience focus</li>
<li>why virtual audiences behave differently than live audiences</li>
<li>how to manage time effectively in virtual presentations</li>
<li>the importance of preparation and contingency planning</li>
<li>the limitations of technology and over-reliance on tools</li>
<li>the growing role of virtual delivery in business communication</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Bernie DeSantis:</p>
<p>Bernie is the owner of Insignia Training Partners, a firm that helps organizations and experts design and deliver high-impact virtual egents and learning experiences. He has produced over 6,000 virtual events.</p>
<p>You can book a no-charge <a href='https://scheduling.insigniatraining.com/widget/bookings/engagement-strategy-consult'>strategy session</a> for your next virtual event with Bernie:</p>
<p>Learn more about <a href='https://insigniatraining.com/'>Insignia Trainining Partners</a>.</p>
<p>Attend the workshop, <a href='https://info.insigniatraining.com/registration-human-edge-online'>The Human Edge: Command the Room</a></p>
<p>Bernie and George will lead you through this 90-minute workshop to give you an unbeatable advantage when you present online.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation with Bernie DeSantas:</p>
<ul>
<li>engagement is the defining factor in virtual presentations, not content</li>
<li>small details in delivery matter more than subject expertise</li>
<li>speakers often fail by trying to replicate in-person presentations online</li>
<li>virtual delivery requires intentional use of tools and techniques to maintain attention</li>
<li>pattern interrupts are essential to regain and maintain audience focus</li>
<li>presenters must adapt to unknown audience environments and technology conditions</li>
<li>time discipline is critical—virtual audiences expect meetings to start and end on time</li>
<li>technology supports the experience but cannot replace strong delivery skills</li>
<li>preparation must include backup plans for when technology fails</li>
<li>authentic human delivery remains more important than advanced tools or AI</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Virtual Speaking Skills: Master Engagement and Timing
How to Run High-Impact Virtual Events That Aren't Boring
<p>Episode 299 (Bernie is based in Detroit)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Bernie DeSantis we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>the shift from in-person to virtual presentation delivery</li>
<li>why engagement—not content—is the biggest challenge in virtual settings</li>
<li>how small delivery details determine audience attention</li>
<li>the role of a virtual producer in supporting presenters</li>
<li>how pattern interrupts help maintain audience focus</li>
<li>why virtual audiences behave differently than live audiences</li>
<li>how to manage time effectively in virtual presentations</li>
<li>the importance of preparation and contingency planning</li>
<li>the limitations of technology and over-reliance on tools</li>
<li>the growing role of virtual delivery in business communication</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Bernie DeSantis:</p>
<p>Bernie is the owner of Insignia Training Partners, a firm that helps organizations and experts design and deliver high-impact virtual egents and learning experiences. He has produced over 6,000 virtual events.</p>
<p>You can book a no-charge <a href='https://scheduling.insigniatraining.com/widget/bookings/engagement-strategy-consult'>strategy session</a> for your next virtual event with Bernie:</p>
<p>Learn more about <a href='https://insigniatraining.com/'>Insignia Trainining Partners</a>.</p>
<p>Attend the workshop, <a href='https://info.insigniatraining.com/registration-human-edge-online'>The Human Edge: Command the Room</a></p>
<p>Bernie and George will lead you through this 90-minute workshop to give you an unbeatable advantage when you present online.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation with Bernie DeSantas:</p>
<ul>
<li>engagement is the defining factor in virtual presentations, not content</li>
<li>small details in delivery matter more than subject expertise</li>
<li>speakers often fail by trying to replicate in-person presentations online</li>
<li>virtual delivery requires intentional use of tools and techniques to maintain attention</li>
<li>pattern interrupts are essential to regain and maintain audience focus</li>
<li>presenters must adapt to unknown audience environments and technology conditions</li>
<li>time discipline is critical—virtual audiences expect meetings to start and end on time</li>
<li>technology supports the experience but cannot replace strong delivery skills</li>
<li>preparation must include backup plans for when technology fails</li>
<li>authentic human delivery remains more important than advanced tools or AI</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Virtual Speaking Skills: Master Engagement and Timing
How to Run High-Impact Virtual Events That Aren't Boring
Episode 299 (Bernie is based in Detroit)
In this conversation with Bernie DeSantis we explore:

the shift from in-person to virtual presentation delivery
why engagement—not content—is the biggest challenge in virtual settings
how small delivery details determine audience attention
the role of a virtual producer in supporting presenters
how pattern interrupts help maintain audience focus
why virtual audiences behave differently than live audiences
how to manage time effectively in virtual presentations
the importance of preparation and contingency planning
the limitations of technology and over-reliance on tools
the growing role of virtual delivery in business communication

-----
About our guest, Bernie DeSantis:
Bernie is the owner of Insignia Training Partners, a firm that helps organizations and experts design and deliver high-impact virtual egents and learning experiences. He has produced over 6,000 virtual events.
You can book a no-charge strategy session for your next virtual event with Bernie:
Learn more about Insignia Trainining Partners.
Attend the workshop, The Human Edge: Command the Room
Bernie and George will lead you through this 90-minute workshop to give you an unbeatable advantage when you present online.
-----
Key Lessons from this conversation with Bernie DeSantas:

engagement is the defining factor in virtual presentations, not content
small details in delivery matter more than subject expertise
speakers often fail by trying to replicate in-person presentations online
virtual delivery requires intentional use of tools and techniques to maintain attention
pattern interrupts are essential to regain and maintain audience focus
presenters must adapt to unknown audience environments and technology conditions
time discipline is critical—virtual audiences expect meetings to start and end on time
technology supports the experience but cannot replace strong delivery skills
preparation must include backup plans for when technology fails
authentic human delivery remains more important than advanced tools or AI

-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Podcast Guest Mistakes That Hurt Your Crediblity
Podcast Guesting Tips: Preparation, Presence &amp; Promotion
<p>Episode 299 (Noemi is based in Cyprus)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Noemi Beres we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>why podcast guesting builds authority and long-term visibility</li>
<li>how evergreen content continues to work for you over time</li>
<li>how to identify and target the right podcast audience</li>
<li>why podcast interviews are about the host and audience—not the guest</li>
<li>how relationships formed through podcasts lead to business opportunities</li>
<li>how to repurpose podcast interviews into ongoing content</li>
<li>why preparation and clarity outperform improvisation</li>
<li>how to craft and condense your story for podcast interviews</li>
<li>how authenticity and presence influence audience perception</li>
<li>why consistency and persistence are essential for results</li>
<li>how smaller podcasts provide practice and niche access</li>
<li>how podcast guesting differs from keynote speaking</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Noemi Beres:</p>
<p>Noemi is a podcast guesting expert and entrepreneur who rebuilt her business to six figures after losing it during the pandemic.</p>
<p>She's co-founder of sPodcast Connections, a podcast booking agency that helps thought leaders get booked on the right podcasts.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.podcastconnections.co/'>https://www.podcastconnections.co/</a></p>
<p>----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this Conversation with Noemi Beres:</p>
<ul>
<li>podcast guesting builds brand visibility and authority over time</li>
<li>podcast appearances create long-term SEO and evergreen content value</li>
<li>anyone can find a podcast niche with proper research</li>
<li>successful guesting starts with understanding your ideal audience</li>
<li>podcast interviews are about serving the host and audience, not self-promotion</li>
<li>building relationships with podcast hosts leads to long-term opportunities</li>
<li>repurposing podcast content multiplies marketing reach</li>
<li>preparation is essential—guests should not “wing it”</li>
<li>strong guest storytelling requires clarity and brevity</li>
<li>authenticity and presence create stronger audience connection</li>
<li>consistency and persistence drive long-term results in podcast guesting</li>
<li>smaller podcasts provide valuable practice and targeted audiences</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Podcast Guest Mistakes That Hurt Your Crediblity
Podcast Guesting Tips: Preparation, Presence &amp; Promotion
<p>Episode 299 (Noemi is based in Cyprus)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Noemi Beres we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>why podcast guesting builds authority and long-term visibility</li>
<li>how evergreen content continues to work for you over time</li>
<li>how to identify and target the right podcast audience</li>
<li>why podcast interviews are about the host and audience—not the guest</li>
<li>how relationships formed through podcasts lead to business opportunities</li>
<li>how to repurpose podcast interviews into ongoing content</li>
<li>why preparation and clarity outperform improvisation</li>
<li>how to craft and condense your story for podcast interviews</li>
<li>how authenticity and presence influence audience perception</li>
<li>why consistency and persistence are essential for results</li>
<li>how smaller podcasts provide practice and niche access</li>
<li>how podcast guesting differs from keynote speaking</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Noemi Beres:</p>
<p>Noemi is a podcast guesting expert and entrepreneur who rebuilt her business to six figures after losing it during the pandemic.</p>
<p>She's co-founder of sPodcast Connections, a podcast booking agency that helps thought leaders get booked on the right podcasts.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.podcastconnections.co/'>https://www.podcastconnections.co/</a></p>
<p>----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this Conversation with Noemi Beres:</p>
<ul>
<li>podcast guesting builds brand visibility and authority over time</li>
<li>podcast appearances create long-term SEO and evergreen content value</li>
<li>anyone can find a podcast niche with proper research</li>
<li>successful guesting starts with understanding your ideal audience</li>
<li>podcast interviews are about serving the host and audience, not self-promotion</li>
<li>building relationships with podcast hosts leads to long-term opportunities</li>
<li>repurposing podcast content multiplies marketing reach</li>
<li>preparation is essential—guests should not “wing it”</li>
<li>strong guest storytelling requires clarity and brevity</li>
<li>authenticity and presence create stronger audience connection</li>
<li>consistency and persistence drive long-term results in podcast guesting</li>
<li>smaller podcasts provide valuable practice and targeted audiences</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Podcast Guest Mistakes That Hurt Your Crediblity
Podcast Guesting Tips: Preparation, Presence &amp; Promotion
Episode 299 (Noemi is based in Cyprus)
In this conversation with Noemi Beres we explore:

why podcast guesting builds authority and long-term visibility
how evergreen content continues to work for you over time
how to identify and target the right podcast audience
why podcast interviews are about the host and audience—not the guest
how relationships formed through podcasts lead to business opportunities
how to repurpose podcast interviews into ongoing content
why preparation and clarity outperform improvisation
how to craft and condense your story for podcast interviews
how authenticity and presence influence audience perception
why consistency and persistence are essential for results
how smaller podcasts provide practice and niche access
how podcast guesting differs from keynote speaking

-----
About our guest Noemi Beres:
Noemi is a podcast guesting expert and entrepreneur who rebuilt her business to six figures after losing it during the pandemic.
She's co-founder of sPodcast Connections, a podcast booking agency that helps thought leaders get booked on the right podcasts.
https://www.podcastconnections.co/
----
Key Lessons from this Conversation with Noemi Beres:

podcast guesting builds brand visibility and authority over time
podcast appearances create long-term SEO and evergreen content value
anyone can find a podcast niche with proper research
successful guesting starts with understanding your ideal audience
podcast interviews are about serving the host and audience, not self-promotion
building relationships with podcast hosts leads to long-term opportunities
repurposing podcast content multiplies marketing reach
preparation is essential—guests should not “wing it”
strong guest storytelling requires clarity and brevity
authenticity and presence create stronger audience connection
consistency and persistence drive long-term results in podcast guesting
smaller podcasts provide valuable practice and targeted audiences

-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How Emotions Shape Every Business Negotiation
The Power of Questions in Negotiation Conversations
<p>Episode 298 (Fotini is based in Toronto)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Fotini Iconomopolous we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>why the concept of “winning” in negotiation can damage outcomes</li>
<li>how conflict is a natural and necessary part of negotiation</li>
<li>why emotions—not information—drive most decisions</li>
<li>how perception differs from intention in communication</li>
<li>the importance of considering how others feel during negotiation</li>
<li>the balance between advocating for yourself and serving others</li>
<li>how preparation shapes confidence and effectiveness</li>
<li>why adapting your approach to the individual matters</li>
<li>how asking questions gives you control of the conversation</li>
<li>how to respond when budget objections arise</li>
<li>the role of silence and restraint in high-stakes conversations</li>
<li>how to use language to create alignment and collaboration</li>
<li>why value creation is more effective than price reduction</li>
<li>how negotiation styles shift across contexts and relationships</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Fotini Iconomopolous:</p>
<p>She is author of the book on negotiation "<a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Say-Less-Unconventional-Negotiation-Techniques/dp/1443464589/ref=sr_1_1?crid=29DGOU2KLH7D1&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.mBlPOkOVobGP3uJpmBlrS8sKkaFPNe3UqRN7tiH5Y_jsrH7aBtbS5b-hqQ1pktHXy0J0aSisf7EJQr8n8jUCLhBNQYSQivfaNbC65N4jKlS4BURM5OHUOlkQdrWA6nxX6xWOK6spABE-37GPdIEMfAp0b1KFsqQJn9sxXo29mQqXB5T5c-WiGDuRf6KwbavGgff8VPU2ZzLbLDv4it5xgvcuGgPAxs3o01l9shhTkJldO7VofOW87hfJdiLdMn4PJf5yGiqypFwV8vsS5e8GM04gTp9SqrwcytoFZapkEKc.QjKUTpIvP9qGQkkc6sP_Av7Om4hEXpcDx4CSr5Huxvo&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=say+less+get+more&amp;qid=1774554630&amp;sprefix=%2Caps%2C95&amp;sr=8-1'>Say Less, Get More</a>" which is available in most book stores.</p>
<p>Take the quizz for a free assessment of your natural negotiation style.</p>
<p><a href='https://fotiniicon.com/quiz/'>https://fotiniicon.com/quiz/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation with Fotini:</p>
<ul>
<li>the word “win” creates a losing dynamic in negotiation</li>
<li>negotiation is a form of conflict, but conflict is not inherently negative</li>
<li>misalignment in negotiation is driven more by emotion than information</li>
<li>removing emotion from negotiation is impossible and counterproductive</li>
<li>how you make people feel determines whether they accept your proposal</li>
<li>effective negotiation requires balancing three key questions</li>
<li>preparation is essential and should never be replaced by “winging it”</li>
<li>asking questions early gives you control of the negotiation</li>
<li>open-ended questions prevent immediate rejection and invite collaboration</li>
<li>objections should trigger exploration, not discounting</li>
<li>negotiation requires adapting to the individual, not just the situation</li>
<li>silence is a strategic advantage in negotiation</li>
<li>talking too much weakens your position and reveals vulnerability</li>
<li>value can be created by reframing, not just reducing price</li>
<li>trading value creates better outcomes than making concessions</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How Emotions Shape Every Business Negotiation
The Power of Questions in Negotiation Conversations
<p>Episode 298 (Fotini is based in Toronto)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Fotini Iconomopolous we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>why the concept of “winning” in negotiation can damage outcomes</li>
<li>how conflict is a natural and necessary part of negotiation</li>
<li>why emotions—not information—drive most decisions</li>
<li>how perception differs from intention in communication</li>
<li>the importance of considering how others feel during negotiation</li>
<li>the balance between advocating for yourself and serving others</li>
<li>how preparation shapes confidence and effectiveness</li>
<li>why adapting your approach to the individual matters</li>
<li>how asking questions gives you control of the conversation</li>
<li>how to respond when budget objections arise</li>
<li>the role of silence and restraint in high-stakes conversations</li>
<li>how to use language to create alignment and collaboration</li>
<li>why value creation is more effective than price reduction</li>
<li>how negotiation styles shift across contexts and relationships</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Fotini Iconomopolous:</p>
<p>She is author of the book on negotiation "<a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Say-Less-Unconventional-Negotiation-Techniques/dp/1443464589/ref=sr_1_1?crid=29DGOU2KLH7D1&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.mBlPOkOVobGP3uJpmBlrS8sKkaFPNe3UqRN7tiH5Y_jsrH7aBtbS5b-hqQ1pktHXy0J0aSisf7EJQr8n8jUCLhBNQYSQivfaNbC65N4jKlS4BURM5OHUOlkQdrWA6nxX6xWOK6spABE-37GPdIEMfAp0b1KFsqQJn9sxXo29mQqXB5T5c-WiGDuRf6KwbavGgff8VPU2ZzLbLDv4it5xgvcuGgPAxs3o01l9shhTkJldO7VofOW87hfJdiLdMn4PJf5yGiqypFwV8vsS5e8GM04gTp9SqrwcytoFZapkEKc.QjKUTpIvP9qGQkkc6sP_Av7Om4hEXpcDx4CSr5Huxvo&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=say+less+get+more&amp;qid=1774554630&amp;sprefix=%2Caps%2C95&amp;sr=8-1'>Say Less, Get More</a>" which is available in most book stores.</p>
<p>Take the quizz for a free assessment of your natural negotiation style.</p>
<p><a href='https://fotiniicon.com/quiz/'>https://fotiniicon.com/quiz/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation with Fotini:</p>
<ul>
<li>the word “win” creates a losing dynamic in negotiation</li>
<li>negotiation is a form of conflict, but conflict is not inherently negative</li>
<li>misalignment in negotiation is driven more by emotion than information</li>
<li>removing emotion from negotiation is impossible and counterproductive</li>
<li>how you make people feel determines whether they accept your proposal</li>
<li>effective negotiation requires balancing three key questions</li>
<li>preparation is essential and should never be replaced by “winging it”</li>
<li>asking questions early gives you control of the negotiation</li>
<li>open-ended questions prevent immediate rejection and invite collaboration</li>
<li>objections should trigger exploration, not discounting</li>
<li>negotiation requires adapting to the individual, not just the situation</li>
<li>silence is a strategic advantage in negotiation</li>
<li>talking too much weakens your position and reveals vulnerability</li>
<li>value can be created by reframing, not just reducing price</li>
<li>trading value creates better outcomes than making concessions</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How Emotions Shape Every Business Negotiation
The Power of Questions in Negotiation Conversations
Episode 298 (Fotini is based in Toronto)
In this conversation with Fotini Iconomopolous we explore:

why the concept of “winning” in negotiation can damage outcomes
how conflict is a natural and necessary part of negotiation
why emotions—not information—drive most decisions
how perception differs from intention in communication
the importance of considering how others feel during negotiation
the balance between advocating for yourself and serving others
how preparation shapes confidence and effectiveness
why adapting your approach to the individual matters
how asking questions gives you control of the conversation
how to respond when budget objections arise
the role of silence and restraint in high-stakes conversations
how to use language to create alignment and collaboration
why value creation is more effective than price reduction
how negotiation styles shift across contexts and relationships

-----
About our guest, Fotini Iconomopolous:
She is author of the book on negotiation "Say Less, Get More" which is available in most book stores.
Take the quizz for a free assessment of your natural negotiation style.
https://fotiniicon.com/quiz/
-----
Key Lessons from this conversation with Fotini:

the word “win” creates a losing dynamic in negotiation
negotiation is a form of conflict, but conflict is not inherently negative
misalignment in negotiation is driven more by emotion than information
removing emotion from negotiation is impossible and counterproductive
how you make people feel determines whether they accept your proposal
effective negotiation requires balancing three key questions
preparation is essential and should never be replaced by “winging it”
asking questions early gives you control of the negotiation
open-ended questions prevent immediate rejection and invite collaboration
objections should trigger exploration, not discounting
negotiation requires adapting to the individual, not just the situation
silence is a strategic advantage in negotiation
talking too much weakens your position and reveals vulnerability
value can be created by reframing, not just reducing price
trading value creates better outcomes than making concessions

-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Adaptive Leadership Starts with Communication Discipline
Three Communication Habits for Every Leader to Practice
<p>Episode 297 (Robert is based in Florida)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Robert Mixon we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>the shift from a culture of compliance to a culture of commitment</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why communication must become a two-way process</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how lack of clarity leads to repeated mistakes and wasted effort</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of confirming understanding in leadership communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how fear prevents people from asking questions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why vulnerability strengthens leadership credibility</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of discipline and structure in effective communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how adaptive leadership is built on consistent principles</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the dangers of polarization in modern communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>simple communication habits that improve respect and understanding</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Robert M. Mixon:</p>
<p>Robert served for 33 years in the United States Army and led Soldiers at every level from Platoon to Division.</p>
<p>He worked 7 years in executive leadership in profit and not-for-profit companies before launching his own leadership coman, Level Five Associates, 10 years ago.</p>
<p>He's the author of "The Power of Being All In" and "We're All In: The Journey to a Wold=Class Culture".</p>
<p>Visit his website at <a href='https://www.levelfiveassociates.com'>https://www.levelfiveassociates.com</a></p>
<p>Subscribe to his tips at <a href='https://robertmixon.substack.com'>https://robertmixon.substack.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation with Robert:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>communication must be deliberate and practiced daily</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>leaders must listen with the intent to understand rather than reply</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>clarity in communication requires discipline and structure</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>confirmation of understanding prevents costly mistakes</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>culture of commitment outperforms culture of compliance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>fear prevents people from asking questions and seeking clarity</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>vulnerability strengthens leadership authenticity</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>adaptive leadership is built on consistent principles and behaviors</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>polarization weakens communication and collaboration</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>simple habits like pausing before responding improve communication quality</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Adaptive Leadership Starts with Communication Discipline
Three Communication Habits for Every Leader to Practice
<p>Episode 297 (Robert is based in Florida)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Robert Mixon we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>the shift from a culture of compliance to a culture of commitment</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why communication must become a two-way process</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how lack of clarity leads to repeated mistakes and wasted effort</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of confirming understanding in leadership communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how fear prevents people from asking questions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why vulnerability strengthens leadership credibility</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of discipline and structure in effective communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how adaptive leadership is built on consistent principles</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the dangers of polarization in modern communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>simple communication habits that improve respect and understanding</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Robert M. Mixon:</p>
<p>Robert served for 33 years in the United States Army and led Soldiers at every level from Platoon to Division.</p>
<p>He worked 7 years in executive leadership in profit and not-for-profit companies before launching his own leadership coman, Level Five Associates, 10 years ago.</p>
<p>He's the author of "The Power of Being All In" and "We're All In: The Journey to a Wold=Class Culture".</p>
<p>Visit his website at <a href='https://www.levelfiveassociates.com'>https://www.levelfiveassociates.com</a></p>
<p>Subscribe to his tips at <a href='https://robertmixon.substack.com'>https://robertmixon.substack.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation with Robert:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>communication must be deliberate and practiced daily</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>leaders must listen with the intent to understand rather than reply</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>clarity in communication requires discipline and structure</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>confirmation of understanding prevents costly mistakes</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>culture of commitment outperforms culture of compliance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>fear prevents people from asking questions and seeking clarity</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>vulnerability strengthens leadership authenticity</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>adaptive leadership is built on consistent principles and behaviors</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>polarization weakens communication and collaboration</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>simple habits like pausing before responding improve communication quality</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Adaptive Leadership Starts with Communication Discipline
Three Communication Habits for Every Leader to Practice
Episode 297 (Robert is based in Florida)
In this conversation with Robert Mixon we explore:


the shift from a culture of compliance to a culture of commitment


why communication must become a two-way process


how lack of clarity leads to repeated mistakes and wasted effort


the importance of confirming understanding in leadership communication


how fear prevents people from asking questions


why vulnerability strengthens leadership credibility


the role of discipline and structure in effective communication


how adaptive leadership is built on consistent principles


the dangers of polarization in modern communication


simple communication habits that improve respect and understanding


-----
About our guest, Robert M. Mixon:
Robert served for 33 years in the United States Army and led Soldiers at every level from Platoon to Division.
He worked 7 years in executive leadership in profit and not-for-profit companies before launching his own leadership coman, Level Five Associates, 10 years ago.
He's the author of "The Power of Being All In" and "We're All In: The Journey to a Wold=Class Culture".
Visit his website at https://www.levelfiveassociates.com
Subscribe to his tips at https://robertmixon.substack.com
-----
Key Lessons from this conversation with Robert:


communication must be deliberate and practiced daily


leaders must listen with the intent to understand rather than reply


clarity in communication requires discipline and structure


confirmation of understanding prevents costly mistakes


culture of commitment outperforms culture of compliance


fear prevents people from asking questions and seeking clarity


vulnerability strengthens leadership authenticity


adaptive leadership is built on consistent principles and behaviors


polarization weakens communication and collaboration


simple habits like pausing before responding improve communication quality


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill
 
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        <title>Why Executives Get Fired for Communication Failures: Michael de Lisser</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[The Four Communication Skills Every Leader Must Master
The Communication Skills That Separate Leaders from Managers
<p>Episode 296 (Michael is based in Las Vegas)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why many executives fail because of communication breakdowns rather than lack of expertise</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders get promoted based on technical skills but must later rely on communication ability</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what happens when organizations promote high performers without leadership training</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders shift from doing the work to getting results through others</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the four communication skills leaders use most often: presentations, coaching conversations, meetings, and business writing</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why presentation skills help leaders communicate vision and direction</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how one-on-one coaching conversations strengthen individual performance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of managing meetings to encourage participation and discussion</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how written communication becomes critical during change or important announcements</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why maintaining humor and perspective helps leaders navigate pressure situations</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Michael de Lisser:</p>
<p>Michael's has been focussed on leadership development and executive coching. He is the author of <a href='https://www.delisserconsulting.com/leadership-accelerators-workbook'>Leadership Accelerators:</a> High Impact Communication Skills that Strenghten Rrelationships And Drive Results.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation with Michael:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>many executives lose their roles because of weaknesses in communication skills rather than technical expertise</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>technical ability often leads to promotion, but leadership success requires stronger communication skills</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>organizations frequently promote high performers without providing leadership communication development</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>leaders succeed by learning how to get results through others rather than relying on personal expertise</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>senior leaders communicate through four primary channels: presentations, one-on-one coaching, meetings, and business writing</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>presentation skills allow leaders to convey vision and direction to groups</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>one-on-one coaching helps leaders bring out the best in individuals during critical moments</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>meeting management creates an environment where team members contribute ideas and discuss differences openly</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>business writing becomes especially important during change and important organizational moments</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>humor and perspective can help leaders handle pressure situations more effectively</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[The Four Communication Skills Every Leader Must Master
The Communication Skills That Separate Leaders from Managers
<p>Episode 296 (Michael is based in Las Vegas)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why many executives fail because of communication breakdowns rather than lack of expertise</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders get promoted based on technical skills but must later rely on communication ability</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what happens when organizations promote high performers without leadership training</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders shift from doing the work to getting results through others</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the four communication skills leaders use most often: presentations, coaching conversations, meetings, and business writing</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why presentation skills help leaders communicate vision and direction</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how one-on-one coaching conversations strengthen individual performance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of managing meetings to encourage participation and discussion</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how written communication becomes critical during change or important announcements</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why maintaining humor and perspective helps leaders navigate pressure situations</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Michael de Lisser:</p>
<p>Michael's has been focussed on leadership development and executive coching. He is the author of <a href='https://www.delisserconsulting.com/leadership-accelerators-workbook'>Leadership Accelerators:</a> High Impact Communication Skills that Strenghten Rrelationships And Drive Results.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation with Michael:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>many executives lose their roles because of weaknesses in communication skills rather than technical expertise</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>technical ability often leads to promotion, but leadership success requires stronger communication skills</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>organizations frequently promote high performers without providing leadership communication development</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>leaders succeed by learning how to get results through others rather than relying on personal expertise</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>senior leaders communicate through four primary channels: presentations, one-on-one coaching, meetings, and business writing</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>presentation skills allow leaders to convey vision and direction to groups</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>one-on-one coaching helps leaders bring out the best in individuals during critical moments</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>meeting management creates an environment where team members contribute ideas and discuss differences openly</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>business writing becomes especially important during change and important organizational moments</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>humor and perspective can help leaders handle pressure situations more effectively</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Four Communication Skills Every Leader Must Master
The Communication Skills That Separate Leaders from Managers
Episode 296 (Michael is based in Las Vegas)
In this conversation we explore:


why many executives fail because of communication breakdowns rather than lack of expertise


how leaders get promoted based on technical skills but must later rely on communication ability


what happens when organizations promote high performers without leadership training


how leaders shift from doing the work to getting results through others


the four communication skills leaders use most often: presentations, coaching conversations, meetings, and business writing


why presentation skills help leaders communicate vision and direction


how one-on-one coaching conversations strengthen individual performance


the importance of managing meetings to encourage participation and discussion


how written communication becomes critical during change or important announcements


why maintaining humor and perspective helps leaders navigate pressure situations


-----
About our guest, Michael de Lisser:
Michael's has been focussed on leadership development and executive coching. He is the author of Leadership Accelerators: High Impact Communication Skills that Strenghten Rrelationships And Drive Results.
-----
Key Lessons from this conversation with Michael:


many executives lose their roles because of weaknesses in communication skills rather than technical expertise


technical ability often leads to promotion, but leadership success requires stronger communication skills


organizations frequently promote high performers without providing leadership communication development


leaders succeed by learning how to get results through others rather than relying on personal expertise


senior leaders communicate through four primary channels: presentations, one-on-one coaching, meetings, and business writing


presentation skills allow leaders to convey vision and direction to groups


one-on-one coaching helps leaders bring out the best in individuals during critical moments


meeting management creates an environment where team members contribute ideas and discuss differences openly


business writing becomes especially important during change and important organizational moments


humor and perspective can help leaders handle pressure situations more effectively


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill
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        <title>Niche Marketing to Grow Your Business: Wes Towers</title>
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                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/niche-marketing-to-grow-your-business-wes-towers/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2026 15:02:43 -0500</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Clear Messaging in a Noisy Marketplace
From Threat to Oppoutunity: Turn AI Disruption into Business Growth
<p>Episode 295 (Wes is based in Australia)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Wes Towers, we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how the rise of AI forced a digital agency founder to rethink his business strategy</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why niching into trades and construction improved messaging and positioning</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how specialization makes marketing communication clearer and more compelling</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of podcasts in building industry knowledge and relationships</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why websites today help attract employees as well as customers</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how businesses can differentiate themselves instead of competing on price</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of case studies and real stories in building online credibility</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how AI can streamline processes while reinforcing human messaging</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how search behaviour is changing as people ask AI tools for recommendations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why human connection and communication are becoming more valuable in an automated world</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Wes Towers:</p>
<p>Wes is founder of Uplift 360, a digital marketing agency in Australia tht specilizes in the trades and construction industry.</p>
<p><a href='https://uplift360.com.au/'>https://uplift360.com.au/</a></p>
<p>Wes is host of the podcast, Build, Trusted, Chosen</p>
<p><a href='https://builttrustedchosen.buzzsprout.com/'>https://builttrustedchosen.buzzsprout.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this Conversation with Wes Towers:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>clarity in messaging becomes even more important as AI increases the volume of online content</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>niching your market makes communication clearer and helps businesses stand out</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the best future clients often resemble your best current clients</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>specialization allows you to understand the language, needs, and challenges of a specific industry</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>industry events and conferences become more valuable when you serve a narrow niche</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>hosting a podcast can deepen industry knowledge and strengthen relationships</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>websites today must communicate values and culture to attract both customers and employees</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>businesses must highlight distinctions beyond price to avoid competing only on cost</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>AI works best as a tool that supports human messaging rather than replacing it</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>original stories and case studies help businesses appear in search results and AI recommendations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>human connection and communication become more valuable as automation increases</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the message should guide the design of a website, including text, visuals, and video</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Clear Messaging in a Noisy Marketplace
From Threat to Oppoutunity: Turn AI Disruption into Business Growth
<p>Episode 295 (Wes is based in Australia)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Wes Towers, we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how the rise of AI forced a digital agency founder to rethink his business strategy</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why niching into trades and construction improved messaging and positioning</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how specialization makes marketing communication clearer and more compelling</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of podcasts in building industry knowledge and relationships</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why websites today help attract employees as well as customers</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how businesses can differentiate themselves instead of competing on price</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of case studies and real stories in building online credibility</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how AI can streamline processes while reinforcing human messaging</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how search behaviour is changing as people ask AI tools for recommendations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why human connection and communication are becoming more valuable in an automated world</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Wes Towers:</p>
<p>Wes is founder of Uplift 360, a digital marketing agency in Australia tht specilizes in the trades and construction industry.</p>
<p><a href='https://uplift360.com.au/'>https://uplift360.com.au/</a></p>
<p>Wes is host of the podcast, Build, Trusted, Chosen</p>
<p><a href='https://builttrustedchosen.buzzsprout.com/'>https://builttrustedchosen.buzzsprout.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this Conversation with Wes Towers:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>clarity in messaging becomes even more important as AI increases the volume of online content</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>niching your market makes communication clearer and helps businesses stand out</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the best future clients often resemble your best current clients</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>specialization allows you to understand the language, needs, and challenges of a specific industry</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>industry events and conferences become more valuable when you serve a narrow niche</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>hosting a podcast can deepen industry knowledge and strengthen relationships</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>websites today must communicate values and culture to attract both customers and employees</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>businesses must highlight distinctions beyond price to avoid competing only on cost</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>AI works best as a tool that supports human messaging rather than replacing it</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>original stories and case studies help businesses appear in search results and AI recommendations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>human connection and communication become more valuable as automation increases</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the message should guide the design of a website, including text, visuals, and video</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Clear Messaging in a Noisy Marketplace
From Threat to Oppoutunity: Turn AI Disruption into Business Growth
Episode 295 (Wes is based in Australia)
In this conversation with Wes Towers, we explore:


how the rise of AI forced a digital agency founder to rethink his business strategy


why niching into trades and construction improved messaging and positioning


how specialization makes marketing communication clearer and more compelling


the role of podcasts in building industry knowledge and relationships


why websites today help attract employees as well as customers


how businesses can differentiate themselves instead of competing on price


the role of case studies and real stories in building online credibility


how AI can streamline processes while reinforcing human messaging


how search behaviour is changing as people ask AI tools for recommendations


why human connection and communication are becoming more valuable in an automated world


-----
About our guest, Wes Towers:
Wes is founder of Uplift 360, a digital marketing agency in Australia tht specilizes in the trades and construction industry.
https://uplift360.com.au/
Wes is host of the podcast, Build, Trusted, Chosen
https://builttrustedchosen.buzzsprout.com/
-----
Key Lessons from this Conversation with Wes Towers:


clarity in messaging becomes even more important as AI increases the volume of online content


niching your market makes communication clearer and helps businesses stand out


the best future clients often resemble your best current clients


specialization allows you to understand the language, needs, and challenges of a specific industry


industry events and conferences become more valuable when you serve a narrow niche


hosting a podcast can deepen industry knowledge and strengthen relationships


websites today must communicate values and culture to attract both customers and employees


businesses must highlight distinctions beyond price to avoid competing only on cost


AI works best as a tool that supports human messaging rather than replacing it


original stories and case studies help businesses appear in search results and AI recommendations


human connection and communication become more valuable as automation increases


the message should guide the design of a website, including text, visuals, and video


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill
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        <title>Right Speaker, Right Audience, Right Time: Martin Perelmuter</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Head &amp; Heart: The Formula for Audience Connection
Motivation vs. Information: What Makes a Great Speaker?
<p>Episode 294 (Martin is based in Toronto)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Martin Peremuter we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how evergreen topics like leadership and trust continue to anchor conferences</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why AI dominates current conference agendas</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what an audience can realistically apply from a one-hour keynote</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the balance between information and motivation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why sleeping audiences don’t learn</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how cultural differences affect speaking styles and expectations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the strategic value of the pre-event call</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why the gig starts before stepping on stage</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how integrity off stage affects booking success</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to connect with both analytical and emotional audience members</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why audience interaction must be earned</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how conference organizers should define purpose and desired behavior change</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Martin Permuter:</p>
<p>Martin is the president and co-founder of Speaker's Spotlight, a speaker booking agency. </p>
<p>He has personally booked over 9,000 speaking engagements in the past 30 years. He served on the board of governors of the International Association of Speakers Bureaus, (IASB) for the past three years and was president last year. IASB's membership is made up of speakers' bureaus, lecture agencies, and speaker management companies from around the world. </p>
<p>Learn more about Martin and Speaker's Spotlight at <a href='https://www.speakers.ca/'>https://www.speakers.ca/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this conversation with Martin Perelmuter:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>leadership, communication, trust, and teamwork remain evergreen topics</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>AI is currently in demand, while trends like social media rise and fade</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>an audience realistically applies one or two ideas from an hour keynote</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>speakers must balance valuable content with engagement</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>sleeping audiences don’t learn</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>cultural expectations influence how speakers are received</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the pre-event call is critical to customizing the message</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the gig starts before the speaker steps on stage</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>speakers are judged on integrity both on and off stage</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the best speakers connect with both head and heart</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>audience trust must be earned before asking for interaction</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>conference organizers must start with why and define the desired behavior change</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Head &amp; Heart: The Formula for Audience Connection
Motivation vs. Information: What Makes a Great Speaker?
<p>Episode 294 (Martin is based in Toronto)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Martin Peremuter we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how evergreen topics like leadership and trust continue to anchor conferences</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why AI dominates current conference agendas</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what an audience can realistically apply from a one-hour keynote</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the balance between information and motivation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why sleeping audiences don’t learn</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how cultural differences affect speaking styles and expectations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the strategic value of the pre-event call</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why the gig starts before stepping on stage</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how integrity off stage affects booking success</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to connect with both analytical and emotional audience members</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why audience interaction must be earned</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how conference organizers should define purpose and desired behavior change</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Martin Permuter:</p>
<p>Martin is the president and co-founder of Speaker's Spotlight, a speaker booking agency. </p>
<p>He has personally booked over 9,000 speaking engagements in the past 30 years. He served on the board of governors of the International Association of Speakers Bureaus, (IASB) for the past three years and was president last year. IASB's membership is made up of speakers' bureaus, lecture agencies, and speaker management companies from around the world. </p>
<p>Learn more about Martin and Speaker's Spotlight at <a href='https://www.speakers.ca/'>https://www.speakers.ca/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this conversation with Martin Perelmuter:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>leadership, communication, trust, and teamwork remain evergreen topics</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>AI is currently in demand, while trends like social media rise and fade</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>an audience realistically applies one or two ideas from an hour keynote</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>speakers must balance valuable content with engagement</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>sleeping audiences don’t learn</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>cultural expectations influence how speakers are received</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the pre-event call is critical to customizing the message</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the gig starts before the speaker steps on stage</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>speakers are judged on integrity both on and off stage</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the best speakers connect with both head and heart</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>audience trust must be earned before asking for interaction</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>conference organizers must start with why and define the desired behavior change</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Head &amp; Heart: The Formula for Audience Connection
Motivation vs. Information: What Makes a Great Speaker?
Episode 294 (Martin is based in Toronto)
In this conversation with Martin Peremuter we explore:


how evergreen topics like leadership and trust continue to anchor conferences


why AI dominates current conference agendas


what an audience can realistically apply from a one-hour keynote


the balance between information and motivation


why sleeping audiences don’t learn


how cultural differences affect speaking styles and expectations


the strategic value of the pre-event call


why the gig starts before stepping on stage


how integrity off stage affects booking success


how to connect with both analytical and emotional audience members


why audience interaction must be earned


how conference organizers should define purpose and desired behavior change


-----
About our guest, Martin Permuter:
Martin is the president and co-founder of Speaker's Spotlight, a speaker booking agency. 
He has personally booked over 9,000 speaking engagements in the past 30 years. He served on the board of governors of the International Association of Speakers Bureaus, (IASB) for the past three years and was president last year. IASB's membership is made up of speakers' bureaus, lecture agencies, and speaker management companies from around the world. 
Learn more about Martin and Speaker's Spotlight at https://www.speakers.ca/
-----
Key lessons from this conversation with Martin Perelmuter:


leadership, communication, trust, and teamwork remain evergreen topics


AI is currently in demand, while trends like social media rise and fade


an audience realistically applies one or two ideas from an hour keynote


speakers must balance valuable content with engagement


sleeping audiences don’t learn


cultural expectations influence how speakers are received


the pre-event call is critical to customizing the message


the gig starts before the speaker steps on stage


speakers are judged on integrity both on and off stage


the best speakers connect with both head and heart


audience trust must be earned before asking for interaction


conference organizers must start with why and define the desired behavior change


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill
 
 
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        <title>From Disney to Design Thinking: Creating Fresh Thinking for Big Ideas: Lee Kitchen</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Scoping, Empathy, Ideation: A Structured Process for Innovation
Innovation Catalyst: How to Help Your Team Come Up With the Ideas
<p>Episode 293 (Lee Kitchen is based in south-west Ontario, Repeat of episode 54)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>the role of an innovation catalyst in helping teams think differently</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of scoping before solving</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>walking in the end user’s shoes through empathy</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>defining a clear human truth</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>separating expansive thinking from reductive thinking</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>creating environments that encourage ideation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>mixing diverse perspectives to break river thinking</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>building ownership so ideas gain adoption</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>practicing fresh thinking through exposure to new concepts</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>extending your intended message consistently across experience</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About out guest, Lee Kitchen:</p>
<p>Lee worked at Disney for 32 years. His journey started in Operations and Guest Relations. then moved through Special Events, PR, Marketing and Advertising.</p>
<p>Currently offering his experience as an Innovation Catalyst via his company, Magical Dude Consulting. Visit his website here <a href='https://www.magicaldude.com/'>https://www.magicaldude.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Lessons from this conversation with Lee Kitchen:
<ul>
<li>
<p>how an innovation catalyst helps teams come up with ideas rather than supplying the answer</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why empathy and “human truth” must precede ideation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the structured steps of design thinking: scoping, empathy, ideation, idea development, prototyping, execution</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why expansive and reductive mindsets must stay separate</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how collaboration builds ownership and advocacy</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the value of bringing diverse and unbiased ideators into the room</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how environment influences creativity</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why fresh thinking requires exposure to different concepts and disciplines</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of consistency between intended message and actual experience</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how authentic leadership encourages creative thinking</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Scoping, Empathy, Ideation: A Structured Process for Innovation
Innovation Catalyst: How to Help Your Team Come Up With the Ideas
<p>Episode 293 (Lee Kitchen is based in south-west Ontario, Repeat of episode 54)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>the role of an innovation catalyst in helping teams think differently</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of scoping before solving</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>walking in the end user’s shoes through empathy</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>defining a clear human truth</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>separating expansive thinking from reductive thinking</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>creating environments that encourage ideation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>mixing diverse perspectives to break river thinking</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>building ownership so ideas gain adoption</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>practicing fresh thinking through exposure to new concepts</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>extending your intended message consistently across experience</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About out guest, Lee Kitchen:</p>
<p>Lee worked at Disney for 32 years. His journey started in Operations and Guest Relations. then moved through Special Events, PR, Marketing and Advertising.</p>
<p>Currently offering his experience as an Innovation Catalyst via his company, Magical Dude Consulting. Visit his website here <a href='https://www.magicaldude.com/'>https://www.magicaldude.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Lessons from this conversation with Lee Kitchen:
<ul>
<li>
<p>how an innovation catalyst helps teams come up with ideas rather than supplying the answer</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why empathy and “human truth” must precede ideation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the structured steps of design thinking: scoping, empathy, ideation, idea development, prototyping, execution</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why expansive and reductive mindsets must stay separate</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how collaboration builds ownership and advocacy</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the value of bringing diverse and unbiased ideators into the room</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how environment influences creativity</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why fresh thinking requires exposure to different concepts and disciplines</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of consistency between intended message and actual experience</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how authentic leadership encourages creative thinking</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Scoping, Empathy, Ideation: A Structured Process for Innovation
Innovation Catalyst: How to Help Your Team Come Up With the Ideas
Episode 293 (Lee Kitchen is based in south-west Ontario, Repeat of episode 54)
In this conversation we explore:


the role of an innovation catalyst in helping teams think differently


the importance of scoping before solving


walking in the end user’s shoes through empathy


defining a clear human truth


separating expansive thinking from reductive thinking


creating environments that encourage ideation


mixing diverse perspectives to break river thinking


building ownership so ideas gain adoption


practicing fresh thinking through exposure to new concepts


extending your intended message consistently across experience


-----
About out guest, Lee Kitchen:
Lee worked at Disney for 32 years. His journey started in Operations and Guest Relations. then moved through Special Events, PR, Marketing and Advertising.
Currently offering his experience as an Innovation Catalyst via his company, Magical Dude Consulting. Visit his website here https://www.magicaldude.com/
-----
Key Lessons from this conversation with Lee Kitchen:


how an innovation catalyst helps teams come up with ideas rather than supplying the answer


why empathy and “human truth” must precede ideation


the structured steps of design thinking: scoping, empathy, ideation, idea development, prototyping, execution


why expansive and reductive mindsets must stay separate


how collaboration builds ownership and advocacy


the value of bringing diverse and unbiased ideators into the room


how environment influences creativity


why fresh thinking requires exposure to different concepts and disciplines


the importance of consistency between intended message and actual experience


how authentic leadership encourages creative thinking


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Direct Mail Discipline in the Age of Email Marketing
Over Deliver: Building a Business for a Lifetime
<p>Episode 292 (Repeat of espisode 24, Brian is based in Connecticut)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Brian Kurtz we explored:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why intention must guide every marketing action</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how list selection often matters more than copywriting brilliance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why segmentation allows deeper audience connection</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how direct mail discipline sharpens email marketing</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the danger of damaging trust with incongruent offers</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to mix content and selling without losing loyalty</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the balance between logic and emotion in B2B marketing</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why relationship capital compounds over time</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what it means to be a “serial direct marketer”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to build an online family instead of just an email database</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Brian Kurtz:</p>
<p>Brian, a serial direct marketer offers marketing insights from the lessons of direct mail that can help you become a better email or online marketer. He is responsible for the distribution of over 2 billion pieces of promotion copy in his career.</p>
<p>He is author of the book, Overdeliver. Learn more about the book,<a href='https://www.briankurtz.net/products/'> Overdeliver</a> Visit his website <a href='https://www.briankurtz.net/'>BrianKurtz.net</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this conversation with Brian Kurtz:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>intention drives effective marketing and communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the list (audience) matters more than the creative</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>segmentation allows you to speak to people, not just names</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>discipline from direct mail improves digital marketing</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>every message must accomplish something—revenue or relationship</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>congruence protects trust with your audience</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>selling works best when it aligns with identity and values</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>logic measures results, but emotion builds loyalty</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>relationships compound value beyond direct ROI</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>playing the long game builds a business that lasts</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Direct Mail Discipline in the Age of Email Marketing
Over Deliver: Building a Business for a Lifetime
<p>Episode 292 (Repeat of espisode 24, Brian is based in Connecticut)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Brian Kurtz we explored:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why intention must guide every marketing action</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how list selection often matters more than copywriting brilliance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why segmentation allows deeper audience connection</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how direct mail discipline sharpens email marketing</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the danger of damaging trust with incongruent offers</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to mix content and selling without losing loyalty</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the balance between logic and emotion in B2B marketing</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why relationship capital compounds over time</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what it means to be a “serial direct marketer”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to build an online family instead of just an email database</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Brian Kurtz:</p>
<p>Brian, a serial direct marketer offers marketing insights from the lessons of direct mail that can help you become a better email or online marketer. He is responsible for the distribution of over 2 billion pieces of promotion copy in his career.</p>
<p>He is author of the book, Overdeliver. Learn more about the book,<a href='https://www.briankurtz.net/products/'> Overdeliver</a> Visit his website <a href='https://www.briankurtz.net/'>BrianKurtz.net</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this conversation with Brian Kurtz:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>intention drives effective marketing and communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the list (audience) matters more than the creative</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>segmentation allows you to speak to people, not just names</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>discipline from direct mail improves digital marketing</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>every message must accomplish something—revenue or relationship</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>congruence protects trust with your audience</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>selling works best when it aligns with identity and values</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>logic measures results, but emotion builds loyalty</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>relationships compound value beyond direct ROI</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>playing the long game builds a business that lasts</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Direct Mail Discipline in the Age of Email Marketing
Over Deliver: Building a Business for a Lifetime
Episode 292 (Repeat of espisode 24, Brian is based in Connecticut)
In this conversation with Brian Kurtz we explored:


why intention must guide every marketing action


how list selection often matters more than copywriting brilliance


why segmentation allows deeper audience connection


how direct mail discipline sharpens email marketing


the danger of damaging trust with incongruent offers


how to mix content and selling without losing loyalty


the balance between logic and emotion in B2B marketing


why relationship capital compounds over time


what it means to be a “serial direct marketer”


how to build an online family instead of just an email database


-----
About our guest, Brian Kurtz:
Brian, a serial direct marketer offers marketing insights from the lessons of direct mail that can help you become a better email or online marketer. He is responsible for the distribution of over 2 billion pieces of promotion copy in his career.
He is author of the book, Overdeliver. Learn more about the book, Overdeliver Visit his website BrianKurtz.net
-----
Key lessons from this conversation with Brian Kurtz:


intention drives effective marketing and communication


the list (audience) matters more than the creative


segmentation allows you to speak to people, not just names


discipline from direct mail improves digital marketing


every message must accomplish something—revenue or relationship


congruence protects trust with your audience


selling works best when it aligns with identity and values


logic measures results, but emotion builds loyalty


relationships compound value beyond direct ROI


playing the long game builds a business that lasts


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill
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                                    <description><![CDATA[The Static in Your Message
How Unintended Signals Sabotage Communication
<p>Episode 291 (Solo show with your host, George Torok)</p>
<p>In this episode, we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how intended and unintended messages travel together</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why clarity starts before you speak, not while you speak</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the filters that distort messages before they are accepted</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how beliefs, experience, and emotions block understanding</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why credibility disappears when messages feel inconsistent</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how unintended messages act like static</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the silent influence of vocabulary, grammar, and tone</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why body language often overrides words</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how missing information hijacks attention</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what leaders can do to reduce unintended noise</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Your Host George Torok coaches senior executives to deliver their intended message for greater success. He helps you speak to be clear, consise and confident.</p>
<p>Learn more about the coaching programs at <a href='https://speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>https://speechcoachforexecutives.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key learning points from this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>your message is always a blend of intended and unintended signals</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>lack of clarity before speaking is a primary cause of miscommunication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>audiences filter messages through beliefs, experience, emotions, and recent events</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>misunderstanding doesn’t always mean disagreement—it often means confusion</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>credibility collapses quickly when listeners detect inconsistency or untruths</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>unintended messages act like static that makes the message fuzzy</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>word choice and grammar quietly shape how you are judged</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>body language often overrides spoken words when there is conflict</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>voice inflection and pace can undermine confidence and trust</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what you leave unsaid can distract listeners more than what you say</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>engagement level determines whether your message survives distraction</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[The Static in Your Message
How Unintended Signals Sabotage Communication
<p>Episode 291 (Solo show with your host, George Torok)</p>
<p>In this episode, we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how intended and unintended messages travel together</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why clarity starts before you speak, not while you speak</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the filters that distort messages before they are accepted</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how beliefs, experience, and emotions block understanding</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why credibility disappears when messages feel inconsistent</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how unintended messages act like static</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the silent influence of vocabulary, grammar, and tone</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why body language often overrides words</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how missing information hijacks attention</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what leaders can do to reduce unintended noise</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Your Host George Torok coaches senior executives to deliver their intended message for greater success. He helps you speak to be clear, consise and confident.</p>
<p>Learn more about the coaching programs at <a href='https://speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>https://speechcoachforexecutives.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key learning points from this episode:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>your message is always a blend of intended and unintended signals</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>lack of clarity before speaking is a primary cause of miscommunication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>audiences filter messages through beliefs, experience, emotions, and recent events</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>misunderstanding doesn’t always mean disagreement—it often means confusion</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>credibility collapses quickly when listeners detect inconsistency or untruths</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>unintended messages act like static that makes the message fuzzy</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>word choice and grammar quietly shape how you are judged</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>body language often overrides spoken words when there is conflict</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>voice inflection and pace can undermine confidence and trust</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what you leave unsaid can distract listeners more than what you say</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>engagement level determines whether your message survives distraction</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Static in Your Message
How Unintended Signals Sabotage Communication
Episode 291 (Solo show with your host, George Torok)
In this episode, we explore:


how intended and unintended messages travel together


why clarity starts before you speak, not while you speak


the filters that distort messages before they are accepted


how beliefs, experience, and emotions block understanding


why credibility disappears when messages feel inconsistent


how unintended messages act like static


the silent influence of vocabulary, grammar, and tone


why body language often overrides words


how missing information hijacks attention


what leaders can do to reduce unintended noise


-----
Your Host George Torok coaches senior executives to deliver their intended message for greater success. He helps you speak to be clear, consise and confident.
Learn more about the coaching programs at https://speechcoachforexecutives.com/
-----
Key learning points from this episode:


your message is always a blend of intended and unintended signals


lack of clarity before speaking is a primary cause of miscommunication


audiences filter messages through beliefs, experience, emotions, and recent events


misunderstanding doesn’t always mean disagreement—it often means confusion


credibility collapses quickly when listeners detect inconsistency or untruths


unintended messages act like static that makes the message fuzzy


word choice and grammar quietly shape how you are judged


body language often overrides spoken words when there is conflict


voice inflection and pace can undermine confidence and trust


what you leave unsaid can distract listeners more than what you say


engagement level determines whether your message survives distraction


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskill
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Why Facts Don’t Persuade: Stories Do
How to Tell Business Stories That Create Emotion and Action
<p>Episode 290 (Michael is based in California) Repeat of episode #34</p>
<p>In this conversation with Michael Hague we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why stories persuade more effectively than facts and data</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how emotional connection drives audience engagement and action</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of empathy in powerful storytelling</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why conflict is essential to creating emotional impact</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how everyday experiences make the best business stories</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the difference between narration and storytelling</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of a visible, clearly defined goal</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how transformation makes stories memorable</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the six-step story structure used in Hollywood films</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how business leaders can apply storytelling without exaggeration</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our Guest:</p>
<p>Michael Hauge is a renowned Hollywood script consultant and story expert. He helps Hollywood tell more powerful stories. Imagine how you might use your stories to be more persuasive.</p>
<p>To learn more about his storytelling services, visit the website <a href='https://storymastery.com/'>https://storymastery.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>stories persuade because they create an emotional experience, not because they present information</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>audiences identify with the hero of a story and experience the journey emotionally</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>effective stories require a clear hero, a visible goal, and meaningful conflict</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>emotion is generated through obstacles, not through desire alone</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>powerful stories show transformation, not just events</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>everyday people and ordinary experiences make the most relatable stories</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>business stories work best when the audience subconsciously becomes the hero</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>narration alone is not storytelling</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>structure matters more than style when telling stories</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the aftermath of a story shows why the journey mattered</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Why Facts Don’t Persuade: Stories Do
How to Tell Business Stories That Create Emotion and Action
<p>Episode 290 (Michael is based in California) Repeat of episode #34</p>
<p>In this conversation with Michael Hague we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why stories persuade more effectively than facts and data</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how emotional connection drives audience engagement and action</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of empathy in powerful storytelling</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why conflict is essential to creating emotional impact</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how everyday experiences make the best business stories</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the difference between narration and storytelling</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of a visible, clearly defined goal</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how transformation makes stories memorable</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the six-step story structure used in Hollywood films</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how business leaders can apply storytelling without exaggeration</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our Guest:</p>
<p>Michael Hauge is a renowned Hollywood script consultant and story expert. He helps Hollywood tell more powerful stories. Imagine how you might use your stories to be more persuasive.</p>
<p>To learn more about his storytelling services, visit the website <a href='https://storymastery.com/'>https://storymastery.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>stories persuade because they create an emotional experience, not because they present information</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>audiences identify with the hero of a story and experience the journey emotionally</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>effective stories require a clear hero, a visible goal, and meaningful conflict</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>emotion is generated through obstacles, not through desire alone</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>powerful stories show transformation, not just events</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>everyday people and ordinary experiences make the most relatable stories</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>business stories work best when the audience subconsciously becomes the hero</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>narration alone is not storytelling</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>structure matters more than style when telling stories</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the aftermath of a story shows why the journey mattered</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why Facts Don’t Persuade: Stories Do
How to Tell Business Stories That Create Emotion and Action
Episode 290 (Michael is based in California) Repeat of episode #34
In this conversation with Michael Hague we explore:


why stories persuade more effectively than facts and data


how emotional connection drives audience engagement and action


the role of empathy in powerful storytelling


why conflict is essential to creating emotional impact


how everyday experiences make the best business stories


the difference between narration and storytelling


the importance of a visible, clearly defined goal


how transformation makes stories memorable


the six-step story structure used in Hollywood films


how business leaders can apply storytelling without exaggeration


-----
About our Guest:
Michael Hauge is a renowned Hollywood script consultant and story expert. He helps Hollywood tell more powerful stories. Imagine how you might use your stories to be more persuasive.
To learn more about his storytelling services, visit the website https://storymastery.com/
-----
Key Lessons from this conversation:


stories persuade because they create an emotional experience, not because they present information


audiences identify with the hero of a story and experience the journey emotionally


effective stories require a clear hero, a visible goal, and meaningful conflict


emotion is generated through obstacles, not through desire alone


powerful stories show transformation, not just events


everyday people and ordinary experiences make the most relatable stories


business stories work best when the audience subconsciously becomes the hero


narration alone is not storytelling


structure matters more than style when telling stories


the aftermath of a story shows why the journey mattered


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Communication Techniques from a Retired Spy
Why Deception Fails: The Rule for Rapport
<p>Episode 289 (JJ is based in Ottawa) Repeat of episode #79</p>
<p>In this conversation with JJ Brun, we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how a contact handler succeeds without “shooting your way out”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why names act as a fast track to trust</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why deception breaks rapport and authenticity restores it</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to listen and observe so you earn better information</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to create a safe environment for someone’s real story</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what to say when you can’t promise outcomes but want cooperation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to adapt your message to different communication styles</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to “complete” interactions by finding common ground</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest JJ Brun:</p>
<p>JJ Brun was a "Contact Handler" in a war zone in Bosnia Herzegovina. His official title was Director General Intelligence Strategic Debriefing Officer. He was there to collect information from the people. He survived and succeeded in his role of building a large intelligence network of local people.</p>
<p>Get your free copy of "The 10 Most Effective Ice-Breaking Feel-Good Questions" by sending an email to <a href='mailto:hello@TheRetiredSpy.com'>hello@TheRetiredSpy.com</a></p>
<p>Learn more about JJ Brun and his services at the website <a href='https://theretiredspy.com/'>TheRetiredSpy.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this converation with JJ Brun:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>mentally prepare for high-stakes conversations when you can’t “force” an outcome</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>treat names as a trust signal—get them right</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>avoid deception because trust is fragile and hard to rebuild</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>build influence through listening and observing, not talking</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>create safety so people will tell you the truth they’re holding back</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>use specific phrases that encourage openness and follow-up conversations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>adapt your approach by recognizing personality/communication styles</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>complete the interaction by finding a shared link, like, or love</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Communication Techniques from a Retired Spy
Why Deception Fails: The Rule for Rapport
<p>Episode 289 (JJ is based in Ottawa) Repeat of episode #79</p>
<p>In this conversation with JJ Brun, we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how a contact handler succeeds without “shooting your way out”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why names act as a fast track to trust</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why deception breaks rapport and authenticity restores it</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to listen and observe so you earn better information</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to create a safe environment for someone’s real story</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what to say when you can’t promise outcomes but want cooperation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to adapt your message to different communication styles</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to “complete” interactions by finding common ground</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest JJ Brun:</p>
<p>JJ Brun was a "Contact Handler" in a war zone in Bosnia Herzegovina. His official title was Director General Intelligence Strategic Debriefing Officer. He was there to collect information from the people. He survived and succeeded in his role of building a large intelligence network of local people.</p>
<p>Get your free copy of "The 10 Most Effective Ice-Breaking Feel-Good Questions" by sending an email to <a href='mailto:hello@TheRetiredSpy.com'>hello@TheRetiredSpy.com</a></p>
<p>Learn more about JJ Brun and his services at the website <a href='https://theretiredspy.com/'>TheRetiredSpy.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this converation with JJ Brun:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>mentally prepare for high-stakes conversations when you can’t “force” an outcome</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>treat names as a trust signal—get them right</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>avoid deception because trust is fragile and hard to rebuild</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>build influence through listening and observing, not talking</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>create safety so people will tell you the truth they’re holding back</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>use specific phrases that encourage openness and follow-up conversations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>adapt your approach by recognizing personality/communication styles</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>complete the interaction by finding a shared link, like, or love</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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Why Deception Fails: The Rule for Rapport
Episode 289 (JJ is based in Ottawa) Repeat of episode #79
In this conversation with JJ Brun, we explore:


how a contact handler succeeds without “shooting your way out”


why names act as a fast track to trust


why deception breaks rapport and authenticity restores it


how to listen and observe so you earn better information


how to create a safe environment for someone’s real story


what to say when you can’t promise outcomes but want cooperation


how to adapt your message to different communication styles


how to “complete” interactions by finding common ground


-----
About our guest JJ Brun:
JJ Brun was a "Contact Handler" in a war zone in Bosnia Herzegovina. His official title was Director General Intelligence Strategic Debriefing Officer. He was there to collect information from the people. He survived and succeeded in his role of building a large intelligence network of local people.
Get your free copy of "The 10 Most Effective Ice-Breaking Feel-Good Questions" by sending an email to hello@TheRetiredSpy.com
Learn more about JJ Brun and his services at the website TheRetiredSpy.com
-----
Key lessons from this converation with JJ Brun:


mentally prepare for high-stakes conversations when you can’t “force” an outcome


treat names as a trust signal—get them right


avoid deception because trust is fragile and hard to rebuild


build influence through listening and observing, not talking


create safety so people will tell you the truth they’re holding back


use specific phrases that encourage openness and follow-up conversations


adapt your approach by recognizing personality/communication styles


complete the interaction by finding a shared link, like, or love


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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                                    <description><![CDATA[The Three-Box Storytelling Framework
The Hidden Psychology Behind Stories that Change Behavior
<p>Episode 288 (Graham is based in Singapore) This is a repeat of episode #68.</p>
<p>In this conversation with Graham Brown, we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how the three-box storytelling model simplifies complex ideas</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why backstory builds trust before persuasion begins</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how fear of the unknown blocks decision-making</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why analogies help audiences understand faster</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how familiar stories lower resistance to change</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why emotion outlasts facts in memory</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how storytelling increases confidence over time</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why selling is really about guiding people through uncertainty</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Graham Brown is the founder of Pikkal &amp; Co, an award winning podcast agency based in Singapore. He has the experience of hosting over 400 episodes on his podcast. </p>
<p>Podcast Guesting Pro is a dedicated Podcast Booking Agency that works with B2B thought leaders. They help you reach new audiences and build your authority by booking you on podcasts to showcase your expertise and spread your message. Learn more here...</p>
<p><a href='https://www.podcastguesting.pro/'>https://www.podcastguesting.pro/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation with Graham Brown:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Effective business storytelling follows a simple three-scene structure: past, present, and future</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Audiences connect with backstory before they care about solutions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Selling is about reducing fear of the unknown, not proving superiority</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Familiar stories make unfamiliar ideas easier to accept</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Analogies act as short-form stories that speed understanding</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Trust is built through shared experiences and common ground</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Change happens when staying the same feels riskier than moving forward</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Emotion—not facts—is what people remember after a presentation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Confidence comes from practiced storytelling, not natural talent</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Every presentation improves through testing, feedback, and refinement</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[The Three-Box Storytelling Framework
The Hidden Psychology Behind Stories that Change Behavior
<p>Episode 288 (Graham is based in Singapore) This is a repeat of episode #68.</p>
<p>In this conversation with Graham Brown, we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how the three-box storytelling model simplifies complex ideas</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why backstory builds trust before persuasion begins</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how fear of the unknown blocks decision-making</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why analogies help audiences understand faster</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how familiar stories lower resistance to change</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why emotion outlasts facts in memory</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how storytelling increases confidence over time</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why selling is really about guiding people through uncertainty</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Graham Brown is the founder of Pikkal &amp; Co, an award winning podcast agency based in Singapore. He has the experience of hosting over 400 episodes on his podcast. </p>
<p>Podcast Guesting Pro is a dedicated Podcast Booking Agency that works with B2B thought leaders. They help you reach new audiences and build your authority by booking you on podcasts to showcase your expertise and spread your message. Learn more here...</p>
<p><a href='https://www.podcastguesting.pro/'>https://www.podcastguesting.pro/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation with Graham Brown:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Effective business storytelling follows a simple three-scene structure: past, present, and future</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Audiences connect with backstory before they care about solutions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Selling is about reducing fear of the unknown, not proving superiority</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Familiar stories make unfamiliar ideas easier to accept</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Analogies act as short-form stories that speed understanding</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Trust is built through shared experiences and common ground</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Change happens when staying the same feels riskier than moving forward</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Emotion—not facts—is what people remember after a presentation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Confidence comes from practiced storytelling, not natural talent</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Every presentation improves through testing, feedback, and refinement</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Three-Box Storytelling Framework
The Hidden Psychology Behind Stories that Change Behavior
Episode 288 (Graham is based in Singapore) This is a repeat of episode #68.
In this conversation with Graham Brown, we explore:


how the three-box storytelling model simplifies complex ideas


why backstory builds trust before persuasion begins


how fear of the unknown blocks decision-making


why analogies help audiences understand faster


how familiar stories lower resistance to change


why emotion outlasts facts in memory


how storytelling increases confidence over time


why selling is really about guiding people through uncertainty


-----
Graham Brown is the founder of Pikkal &amp; Co, an award winning podcast agency based in Singapore. He has the experience of hosting over 400 episodes on his podcast. 
Podcast Guesting Pro is a dedicated Podcast Booking Agency that works with B2B thought leaders. They help you reach new audiences and build your authority by booking you on podcasts to showcase your expertise and spread your message. Learn more here...
https://www.podcastguesting.pro/
-----
Key Lessons from this conversation with Graham Brown:


Effective business storytelling follows a simple three-scene structure: past, present, and future


Audiences connect with backstory before they care about solutions


Selling is about reducing fear of the unknown, not proving superiority


Familiar stories make unfamiliar ideas easier to accept


Analogies act as short-form stories that speed understanding


Trust is built through shared experiences and common ground


Change happens when staying the same feels riskier than moving forward


Emotion—not facts—is what people remember after a presentation


Confidence comes from practiced storytelling, not natural talent


Every presentation improves through testing, feedback, and refinement


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[When You Serve First, Business Follows
How a Servant’s Heart Builds Trust, Teams, and Sustainable Sales
<p>Episode 287 (Jim is based in Arizona)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jim Hardwick we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why serving others builds trust faster than traditional selling</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how servant leadership strengthens teams without weakening authority</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of vulnerability in effective leadership</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why intentional service creates long-term business growth</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how listening to employees improves motivation and retention</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the difference between serving from obligation versus passion</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why giving time and advice often returns greater value than money</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how service creates personal fulfillment beyond financial success</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the connection between trust, sales, and sustainable growth</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>practical ways leaders can serve locally without grand gestures</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest:</p>
<p>Jim welcomes your questions about sales. Enjoy a no-charge conversation with him. </p>
<p>Call him - 623-451-1080</p>
<p>Email - <a href='mailto:jhardwick@salesxceleration.com'>jhardwick@salesxceleration.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/jim-hardwick-2b016914/'>Jim Hardwick on Linkedin</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this podcast:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>serving others builds trust, which is the foundation of sustainable business growth</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>a servant’s heart shifts leadership from taking to giving without weakening authority</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>intentional service creates stronger relationships with employees, clients, and communities</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>vulnerability from leaders encourages honesty, loyalty, and higher engagement</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>serving employees’ personal goals increases motivation and performance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>trust grows when leaders focus on helping rather than selling</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>service must come from genuine passion, not obligation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>giving time, advice, or attention often creates greater long-term value than money</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>servant leadership improves sales by focusing on solving real problems</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>meaningful service creates personal fulfillment beyond financial success</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[When You Serve First, Business Follows
How a Servant’s Heart Builds Trust, Teams, and Sustainable Sales
<p>Episode 287 (Jim is based in Arizona)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jim Hardwick we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why serving others builds trust faster than traditional selling</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how servant leadership strengthens teams without weakening authority</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of vulnerability in effective leadership</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why intentional service creates long-term business growth</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how listening to employees improves motivation and retention</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the difference between serving from obligation versus passion</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why giving time and advice often returns greater value than money</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how service creates personal fulfillment beyond financial success</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the connection between trust, sales, and sustainable growth</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>practical ways leaders can serve locally without grand gestures</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest:</p>
<p>Jim welcomes your questions about sales. Enjoy a no-charge conversation with him. </p>
<p>Call him - 623-451-1080</p>
<p>Email - <a href='mailto:jhardwick@salesxceleration.com'>jhardwick@salesxceleration.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/jim-hardwick-2b016914/'>Jim Hardwick on Linkedin</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this podcast:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>serving others builds trust, which is the foundation of sustainable business growth</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>a servant’s heart shifts leadership from taking to giving without weakening authority</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>intentional service creates stronger relationships with employees, clients, and communities</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>vulnerability from leaders encourages honesty, loyalty, and higher engagement</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>serving employees’ personal goals increases motivation and performance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>trust grows when leaders focus on helping rather than selling</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>service must come from genuine passion, not obligation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>giving time, advice, or attention often creates greater long-term value than money</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>servant leadership improves sales by focusing on solving real problems</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>meaningful service creates personal fulfillment beyond financial success</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[When You Serve First, Business Follows
How a Servant’s Heart Builds Trust, Teams, and Sustainable Sales
Episode 287 (Jim is based in Arizona)
In this conversation with Jim Hardwick we explore:


why serving others builds trust faster than traditional selling


how servant leadership strengthens teams without weakening authority


the role of vulnerability in effective leadership


why intentional service creates long-term business growth


how listening to employees improves motivation and retention


the difference between serving from obligation versus passion


why giving time and advice often returns greater value than money


how service creates personal fulfillment beyond financial success


the connection between trust, sales, and sustainable growth


practical ways leaders can serve locally without grand gestures


-----
About our guest:
Jim welcomes your questions about sales. Enjoy a no-charge conversation with him. 
Call him - 623-451-1080
Email - jhardwick@salesxceleration.com
Jim Hardwick on Linkedin
-----
Key lessons from this podcast:


serving others builds trust, which is the foundation of sustainable business growth


a servant’s heart shifts leadership from taking to giving without weakening authority


intentional service creates stronger relationships with employees, clients, and communities


vulnerability from leaders encourages honesty, loyalty, and higher engagement


serving employees’ personal goals increases motivation and performance


trust grows when leaders focus on helping rather than selling


service must come from genuine passion, not obligation


giving time, advice, or attention often creates greater long-term value than money


servant leadership improves sales by focusing on solving real problems


meaningful service creates personal fulfillment beyond financial success


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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        <title>12 Communication Lessons from David Copperfield</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How David Copperfield Creates Belief
What a Master Illustionist Taught Me about Communication and Leadership
<p>This wasn't an intterview. It was me live on stage with David Copperfield at the MGM Grand in Las Vegas. I had no idea that I would learn so much from this experience as a volunteer in his magic act.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this experience:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>there is no magic, only mastery</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>perception matters more than reality</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>people believe what they want to believe</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the audience (customer) is always right</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>preparation and rehearsal create confidence</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>calm response beats visible stress</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>great teams move in harmony</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>hope is a powerful motivator</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>fun strengthens connection</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>vulnerability builds trust</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>technology must support the message, not replace it</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>self-investment is the real secret</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In this live stage performance we explored:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why mastery beats magic every time</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how perception shapes belief</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>influencing belief without controlling people</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>respecting the audience while guiding outcomes</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of rehearsal in consistent performance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>responding calmly when things go wrong</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>building teams that move in sync</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>using hope as a leadership force</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>making professionalism fun</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why vulnerability strengthens credibility</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>keeping technology in its proper place</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>investing in yourself as the ultimate advantage</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How David Copperfield Creates Belief
What a Master Illustionist Taught Me about Communication and Leadership
<p>This wasn't an intterview. It was me live on stage with David Copperfield at the MGM Grand in Las Vegas. I had no idea that I would learn so much from this experience as a volunteer in his magic act.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this experience:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>there is no magic, only mastery</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>perception matters more than reality</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>people believe what they want to believe</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the audience (customer) is always right</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>preparation and rehearsal create confidence</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>calm response beats visible stress</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>great teams move in harmony</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>hope is a powerful motivator</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>fun strengthens connection</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>vulnerability builds trust</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>technology must support the message, not replace it</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>self-investment is the real secret</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In this live stage performance we explored:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why mastery beats magic every time</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how perception shapes belief</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>influencing belief without controlling people</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>respecting the audience while guiding outcomes</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of rehearsal in consistent performance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>responding calmly when things go wrong</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>building teams that move in sync</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>using hope as a leadership force</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>making professionalism fun</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why vulnerability strengthens credibility</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>keeping technology in its proper place</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>investing in yourself as the ultimate advantage</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How David Copperfield Creates Belief
What a Master Illustionist Taught Me about Communication and Leadership
This wasn't an intterview. It was me live on stage with David Copperfield at the MGM Grand in Las Vegas. I had no idea that I would learn so much from this experience as a volunteer in his magic act.
-----
Key Lessons from this experience:


there is no magic, only mastery


perception matters more than reality


people believe what they want to believe


the audience (customer) is always right


preparation and rehearsal create confidence


calm response beats visible stress


great teams move in harmony


hope is a powerful motivator


fun strengthens connection


vulnerability builds trust


technology must support the message, not replace it


self-investment is the real secret


-----
In this live stage performance we explored:


why mastery beats magic every time


how perception shapes belief


influencing belief without controlling people


respecting the audience while guiding outcomes


the role of rehearsal in consistent performance


responding calmly when things go wrong


building teams that move in sync


using hope as a leadership force


making professionalism fun


why vulnerability strengthens credibility


keeping technology in its proper place


investing in yourself as the ultimate advantage


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
 
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        <title>Listening vs Hearing, The Leadership Advantage: Julian Treasure</title>
        <itunes:title>Listening vs Hearing, The Leadership Advantage: Julian Treasure</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[The Missing Leadership Skill: How to listen for Real Results
Listening for Oppportunity, Danger and Challenge 
<p>Episode 285 (Julian is based in the Orkney archipelago northeast of Scotland)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Julian Tresure we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why listening is a learnable skill rather than a personality trait</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the difference between hearing and conscious listening</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how personal filters shape what people hear</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why senior leaders often struggle most with listening</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how validation changes difficult conversations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the impact of poor listening on organizational culture</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why diversity of opinion matters more than agreement</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how listening supports better decision-making in times of change</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Julian Treasure:</p>
<p class="text-break">Julian Treasure is an author and international speaker on sound and communication skills. His five TED talks have been viewed over 150 million times and his book “How To Be Heard” won both Audie and SOVAS awards for best business audiobook. His company The Sound Agency has been helping major global brands to improve their sound since 2003.</p>
<p class="text-break">Learn more about Julian and his programs at </p>
<p class="text-break"><a href='https://www.juliantreasure.com/'>https://www.juliantreasure.com/</a></p>
<p>Books by Julian Treasure</p>
<p><a href='https://www.juliantreasure.com/books'>https://www.juliantreasure.com/books</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key learning points
<ul>
<li>
<p>listening is a learnable skill, not a natural talent</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>most people significantly overestimate how well they listen</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>listening is the foundation of effective communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>every person listens through unique filters shaped by experience and emotion</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>strong emotions reduce the ability to listen well</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>listening becomes more difficult as people gain seniority and authority</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>organizations suffer when leaders avoid listening to bad news</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>validation is essential for productive dialogue and healthy relationships</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>diversity of opinion strengthens decision-making and resilience</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>listening helps leaders detect opportunity, danger, and challenge</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[The Missing Leadership Skill: How to listen for Real Results
Listening for Oppportunity, Danger and Challenge 
<p>Episode 285 (Julian is based in the Orkney archipelago northeast of Scotland)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Julian Tresure we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why listening is a learnable skill rather than a personality trait</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the difference between hearing and conscious listening</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how personal filters shape what people hear</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why senior leaders often struggle most with listening</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how validation changes difficult conversations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the impact of poor listening on organizational culture</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why diversity of opinion matters more than agreement</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how listening supports better decision-making in times of change</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Julian Treasure:</p>
<p class="text-break">Julian Treasure is an author and international speaker on sound and communication skills. His five TED talks have been viewed over 150 million times and his book “How To Be Heard” won both Audie and SOVAS awards for best business audiobook. His company The Sound Agency has been helping major global brands to improve their sound since 2003.</p>
<p class="text-break">Learn more about Julian and his programs at </p>
<p class="text-break"><a href='https://www.juliantreasure.com/'>https://www.juliantreasure.com/</a></p>
<p>Books by Julian Treasure</p>
<p><a href='https://www.juliantreasure.com/books'>https://www.juliantreasure.com/books</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key learning points
<ul>
<li>
<p>listening is a learnable skill, not a natural talent</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>most people significantly overestimate how well they listen</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>listening is the foundation of effective communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>every person listens through unique filters shaped by experience and emotion</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>strong emotions reduce the ability to listen well</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>listening becomes more difficult as people gain seniority and authority</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>organizations suffer when leaders avoid listening to bad news</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>validation is essential for productive dialogue and healthy relationships</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>diversity of opinion strengthens decision-making and resilience</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>listening helps leaders detect opportunity, danger, and challenge</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Missing Leadership Skill: How to listen for Real Results
Listening for Oppportunity, Danger and Challenge 
Episode 285 (Julian is based in the Orkney archipelago northeast of Scotland)
In this conversation with Julian Tresure we explore:


why listening is a learnable skill rather than a personality trait


the difference between hearing and conscious listening


how personal filters shape what people hear


why senior leaders often struggle most with listening


how validation changes difficult conversations


the impact of poor listening on organizational culture


why diversity of opinion matters more than agreement


how listening supports better decision-making in times of change


-----
About our guest Julian Treasure:
Julian Treasure is an author and international speaker on sound and communication skills. His five TED talks have been viewed over 150 million times and his book “How To Be Heard” won both Audie and SOVAS awards for best business audiobook. His company The Sound Agency has been helping major global brands to improve their sound since 2003.
Learn more about Julian and his programs at 
https://www.juliantreasure.com/
Books by Julian Treasure
https://www.juliantreasure.com/books
-----
Key learning points


listening is a learnable skill, not a natural talent


most people significantly overestimate how well they listen


listening is the foundation of effective communication


every person listens through unique filters shaped by experience and emotion


strong emotions reduce the ability to listen well


listening becomes more difficult as people gain seniority and authority


organizations suffer when leaders avoid listening to bad news


validation is essential for productive dialogue and healthy relationships


diversity of opinion strengthens decision-making and resilience


listening helps leaders detect opportunity, danger, and challenge


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Communication, Recovery, and Massive Action
Massive Success Requires Massive Action
<p>Episode 285 (David spends his time between Floirda and Puerto Rico)</p>
<p>In this conversation with David Price we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how a destructive inner narrative keeps people stuck and how to rewrite it</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why massive change requires massive action</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how relocating or disrupting routine can break old patterns</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how listening to successful people accelerates learning and results</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how emotional truth drives better communication and better sales</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to uncover the client’s real fears and desires through deeper questions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why vulnerability and honesty strengthen client trust</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to succeed in selling the most intangible product—life insurance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why heart and resilience matter more than experience in entrepreneurship</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how refusing to quit transforms long-term outcomes and personal identity</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, David Price:</p>
<p>David spent nearly 20 years battling addiction and has been clean and sober for 12 years.</p>
<p>He entered the insurance industry in 2018 and became one of the fastest to reach millionaire status.</p>
<p>In 2004 he walked away from a $2 million annual income to rebuild on his own term after challenging how agents were being treated.</p>
<p>Learn more about David and working with him in the life insurance business at:</p>
<p><a href='https://tpglife.com/'>https://tpglife.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this conversation with David Price:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>change demands massive action, not minor adjustments</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>listen to people who demonstrate results, not those who speak the loudest</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>emotional self-talk shapes choices, progress, and setbacks</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>drastic change in environment can break destructive patterns</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>selling begins with uncovering the client’s emotional reason for buying</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>effective communication requires truth, clarity, and genuine listening</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>emotional sales outperform logical sales, especially for intangible products</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>success in entrepreneurship depends on showing up consistently</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>heart, resilience, and coachability matter more than experience</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>momentum grows when you refuse to quit and commit daily to action</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Communication, Recovery, and Massive Action
Massive Success Requires Massive Action
<p>Episode 285 (David spends his time between Floirda and Puerto Rico)</p>
<p>In this conversation with David Price we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how a destructive inner narrative keeps people stuck and how to rewrite it</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why massive change requires massive action</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how relocating or disrupting routine can break old patterns</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how listening to successful people accelerates learning and results</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how emotional truth drives better communication and better sales</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to uncover the client’s real fears and desires through deeper questions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why vulnerability and honesty strengthen client trust</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to succeed in selling the most intangible product—life insurance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why heart and resilience matter more than experience in entrepreneurship</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how refusing to quit transforms long-term outcomes and personal identity</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, David Price:</p>
<p>David spent nearly 20 years battling addiction and has been clean and sober for 12 years.</p>
<p>He entered the insurance industry in 2018 and became one of the fastest to reach millionaire status.</p>
<p>In 2004 he walked away from a $2 million annual income to rebuild on his own term after challenging how agents were being treated.</p>
<p>Learn more about David and working with him in the life insurance business at:</p>
<p><a href='https://tpglife.com/'>https://tpglife.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this conversation with David Price:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>change demands massive action, not minor adjustments</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>listen to people who demonstrate results, not those who speak the loudest</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>emotional self-talk shapes choices, progress, and setbacks</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>drastic change in environment can break destructive patterns</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>selling begins with uncovering the client’s emotional reason for buying</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>effective communication requires truth, clarity, and genuine listening</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>emotional sales outperform logical sales, especially for intangible products</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>success in entrepreneurship depends on showing up consistently</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>heart, resilience, and coachability matter more than experience</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>momentum grows when you refuse to quit and commit daily to action</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Communication, Recovery, and Massive Action
Massive Success Requires Massive Action
Episode 285 (David spends his time between Floirda and Puerto Rico)
In this conversation with David Price we explore:


how a destructive inner narrative keeps people stuck and how to rewrite it


why massive change requires massive action


how relocating or disrupting routine can break old patterns


how listening to successful people accelerates learning and results


how emotional truth drives better communication and better sales


how to uncover the client’s real fears and desires through deeper questions


why vulnerability and honesty strengthen client trust


how to succeed in selling the most intangible product—life insurance


why heart and resilience matter more than experience in entrepreneurship


how refusing to quit transforms long-term outcomes and personal identity


-----
About our guest, David Price:
David spent nearly 20 years battling addiction and has been clean and sober for 12 years.
He entered the insurance industry in 2018 and became one of the fastest to reach millionaire status.
In 2004 he walked away from a $2 million annual income to rebuild on his own term after challenging how agents were being treated.
Learn more about David and working with him in the life insurance business at:
https://tpglife.com/
-----
Key lessons from this conversation with David Price:


change demands massive action, not minor adjustments


listen to people who demonstrate results, not those who speak the loudest


emotional self-talk shapes choices, progress, and setbacks


drastic change in environment can break destructive patterns


selling begins with uncovering the client’s emotional reason for buying


effective communication requires truth, clarity, and genuine listening


emotional sales outperform logical sales, especially for intangible products


success in entrepreneurship depends on showing up consistently


heart, resilience, and coachability matter more than experience


momentum grows when you refuse to quit and commit daily to action


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[The Donkey Leadership Mindset Every Leader Needs
From "I Don't Know: to Great Leadership
<p>Episode 284 (Gary is based in California)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Gary Ridge we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how humility accelerates learning and strengthens leadership</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why saying “I don’t know” unlocks collective intelligence</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what servant leadership looks like in practice inside WD-40</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders shift from managing to coaching</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why culture requires consistency, not charisma</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what it means to lead from the “stinky locker room”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how clarity about “what an A looks like” transforms performance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why purpose matters more than product</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to protect culture by removing toxins early</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how great leaders help people step into the best version of themselves</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About Our Guest, Gary Ridge:</p>
<p>Garry has 25 years of experience as Chairman and CEO of WD-40 Company. He is also an adjunct professor at the University of San Diego, where he teaches the principles and practices of corporate culture in the Master of Science in Executive Leadership program.</p>
<p>He’s the USA Today Bestselling Author of Any Dumb Ass Can Do It and co-author of Helping People Win at Work with Ken Blanchard.</p>
<p>Learn more about Gary Ridge and his services at</p>
<p><a href='https://thelearningmoment.net/'>https://thelearningmoment.net/</a></p>
<p>Follow Gary on Linkedin   </p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/garryridge/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/garryridge/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Points from this Conversation with Gary Ridge:</p>
<ol>
<li>
<p>Leadership begins with humility and the willingness to say “I don’t know.”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Great leaders embrace the role of forever learner and forever teacher.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Coaching, not managing, is the true work of effective leadership.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Trust is built in the “stinky locker room,” not the corner office.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Culture requires values, behavior, and consistency — not quick fixes.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Purpose gives meaning beyond the product and unites people around impact.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Clarity about “what an A looks like” prevents conflict and accelerates performance.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leaders must remove cultural toxins early, even when performance is high.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Ego destroys leadership; empathy and awareness enable it.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leadership is not about the leader — it is about helping people step into the best version of themselves.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[The Donkey Leadership Mindset Every Leader Needs
From "I Don't Know: to Great Leadership
<p>Episode 284 (Gary is based in California)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Gary Ridge we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how humility accelerates learning and strengthens leadership</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why saying “I don’t know” unlocks collective intelligence</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what servant leadership looks like in practice inside WD-40</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders shift from managing to coaching</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why culture requires consistency, not charisma</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what it means to lead from the “stinky locker room”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how clarity about “what an A looks like” transforms performance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why purpose matters more than product</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to protect culture by removing toxins early</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how great leaders help people step into the best version of themselves</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About Our Guest, Gary Ridge:</p>
<p>Garry has 25 years of experience as Chairman and CEO of WD-40 Company. He is also an adjunct professor at the University of San Diego, where he teaches the principles and practices of corporate culture in the Master of Science in Executive Leadership program.</p>
<p>He’s the USA Today Bestselling Author of Any Dumb Ass Can Do It and co-author of Helping People Win at Work with Ken Blanchard.</p>
<p>Learn more about Gary Ridge and his services at</p>
<p><a href='https://thelearningmoment.net/'>https://thelearningmoment.net/</a></p>
<p>Follow Gary on Linkedin   </p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/garryridge/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/garryridge/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Points from this Conversation with Gary Ridge:</p>
<ol>
<li>
<p>Leadership begins with humility and the willingness to say “I don’t know.”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Great leaders embrace the role of forever learner and forever teacher.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Coaching, not managing, is the true work of effective leadership.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Trust is built in the “stinky locker room,” not the corner office.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Culture requires values, behavior, and consistency — not quick fixes.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Purpose gives meaning beyond the product and unites people around impact.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Clarity about “what an A looks like” prevents conflict and accelerates performance.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leaders must remove cultural toxins early, even when performance is high.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Ego destroys leadership; empathy and awareness enable it.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leadership is not about the leader — it is about helping people step into the best version of themselves.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Donkey Leadership Mindset Every Leader Needs
From "I Don't Know: to Great Leadership
Episode 284 (Gary is based in California)
In this conversation with Gary Ridge we explore:


how humility accelerates learning and strengthens leadership


why saying “I don’t know” unlocks collective intelligence


what servant leadership looks like in practice inside WD-40


how leaders shift from managing to coaching


why culture requires consistency, not charisma


what it means to lead from the “stinky locker room”


how clarity about “what an A looks like” transforms performance


why purpose matters more than product


how to protect culture by removing toxins early


how great leaders help people step into the best version of themselves


-----
About Our Guest, Gary Ridge:
Garry has 25 years of experience as Chairman and CEO of WD-40 Company. He is also an adjunct professor at the University of San Diego, where he teaches the principles and practices of corporate culture in the Master of Science in Executive Leadership program.
He’s the USA Today Bestselling Author of Any Dumb Ass Can Do It and co-author of Helping People Win at Work with Ken Blanchard.
Learn more about Gary Ridge and his services at
https://thelearningmoment.net/
Follow Gary on Linkedin   
https://www.linkedin.com/in/garryridge/
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Key Points from this Conversation with Gary Ridge:


Leadership begins with humility and the willingness to say “I don’t know.”


Great leaders embrace the role of forever learner and forever teacher.


Coaching, not managing, is the true work of effective leadership.


Trust is built in the “stinky locker room,” not the corner office.


Culture requires values, behavior, and consistency — not quick fixes.


Purpose gives meaning beyond the product and unites people around impact.


Clarity about “what an A looks like” prevents conflict and accelerates performance.


Leaders must remove cultural toxins early, even when performance is high.


Ego destroys leadership; empathy and awareness enable it.


Leadership is not about the leader — it is about helping people step into the best version of themselves.


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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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                                    <description><![CDATA[12 Words and Phrases That Sabotage Your Communication
Communication Tips from George Torok
<p>Episode 283</p>
<p>In this episode we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why vague words prevent listeners from seeing what you mean</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how double negatives create confusion and weaken your intent</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>where emotional trigger words derail your message</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how insulting phrases show unintended arrogance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why self-diminishing language lowers your authority</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how dishonest openers destroy trust</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why clichés signal lazy thinking</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>when jargon works and when it alienates people</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how slang phrases degrade the message</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why absolutes distort meaning</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how weak adverbs dilute clarity</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how filler words clutter your message and add noise</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>George Torok is known as The Speech Coach for Executives. He helps business leaders speak with more confidence, clarity and consiness.</p>
<p>Learn more about communication coaching with George at <a href='https://speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>https://speechcoachforexecutives.com/</a></p>
<p>Arrange for weekly presentations tips at <a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Learning Points from George</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>eliminate vague words like “stuff” and “things” because they communicate nothing</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>avoid double negatives which confuse listeners and weaken your intent</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>beware emotional trigger words that create unintended reactions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>drop insulting phrases that imply superiority over your audience</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>stop using self-diminishing phrases that reduce your credibility</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>remove dishonest or insincere qualifiers that signal lack of authenticity</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>avoid clichés that show lazy thinking and add no value</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>use technical jargon only with those who understand it</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>remove slang terms that degrade your message and your audience</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>limit absolutes, which are usually inaccurate exaggerations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>avoid weak adverbs like “very,” “really,” and “pretty”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>eliminate filler words that clutter your message and reduce clarity</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[12 Words and Phrases That Sabotage Your Communication
Communication Tips from George Torok
<p>Episode 283</p>
<p>In this episode we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why vague words prevent listeners from seeing what you mean</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how double negatives create confusion and weaken your intent</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>where emotional trigger words derail your message</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how insulting phrases show unintended arrogance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why self-diminishing language lowers your authority</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how dishonest openers destroy trust</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why clichés signal lazy thinking</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>when jargon works and when it alienates people</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how slang phrases degrade the message</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why absolutes distort meaning</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how weak adverbs dilute clarity</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how filler words clutter your message and add noise</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>George Torok is known as The Speech Coach for Executives. He helps business leaders speak with more confidence, clarity and consiness.</p>
<p>Learn more about communication coaching with George at <a href='https://speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>https://speechcoachforexecutives.com/</a></p>
<p>Arrange for weekly presentations tips at <a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Learning Points from George</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>eliminate vague words like “stuff” and “things” because they communicate nothing</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>avoid double negatives which confuse listeners and weaken your intent</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>beware emotional trigger words that create unintended reactions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>drop insulting phrases that imply superiority over your audience</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>stop using self-diminishing phrases that reduce your credibility</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>remove dishonest or insincere qualifiers that signal lack of authenticity</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>avoid clichés that show lazy thinking and add no value</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>use technical jargon only with those who understand it</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>remove slang terms that degrade your message and your audience</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>limit absolutes, which are usually inaccurate exaggerations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>avoid weak adverbs like “very,” “really,” and “pretty”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>eliminate filler words that clutter your message and reduce clarity</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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Communication Tips from George Torok
Episode 283
In this episode we explore:


why vague words prevent listeners from seeing what you mean


how double negatives create confusion and weaken your intent


where emotional trigger words derail your message


how insulting phrases show unintended arrogance


why self-diminishing language lowers your authority


how dishonest openers destroy trust


why clichés signal lazy thinking


when jargon works and when it alienates people


how slang phrases degrade the message


why absolutes distort meaning


how weak adverbs dilute clarity


how filler words clutter your message and add noise


-----
George Torok is known as The Speech Coach for Executives. He helps business leaders speak with more confidence, clarity and consiness.
Learn more about communication coaching with George at https://speechcoachforexecutives.com/
Arrange for weekly presentations tips at https://toroktips.com/
-----
Key Learning Points from George


eliminate vague words like “stuff” and “things” because they communicate nothing


avoid double negatives which confuse listeners and weaken your intent


beware emotional trigger words that create unintended reactions


drop insulting phrases that imply superiority over your audience


stop using self-diminishing phrases that reduce your credibility


remove dishonest or insincere qualifiers that signal lack of authenticity


avoid clichés that show lazy thinking and add no value


use technical jargon only with those who understand it


remove slang terms that degrade your message and your audience


limit absolutes, which are usually inaccurate exaggerations


avoid weak adverbs like “very,” “really,” and “pretty”


eliminate filler words that clutter your message and reduce clarity


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Fear, AI &amp; Leadership: How to Stay Human in a Digital World
The Truth About Executive Presence
<p>Episode 282 (Roz is based in Florida)</p>
<p>In this coversation with Roz Usheroff we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how authenticity shapes executive presence</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why emotional intelligence matters more than polish</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders can support people through AI-driven uncertainty</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the rise of “quiet cracking” and what it signals</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why psychological safety fuels innovation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>where charisma comes from and how it works</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the power of host behavior in building trust</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders can read the room and adjust</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why embracing imperfections increases credibility</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to seek useful feedback without creating defensiveness</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Roz Usheroff:</p>
<p>Roz is the founder of the Usherfoll Institute whose core mission is to help people discover and understand their unique talens and embrace their leadership capabilities that lead to both personal and corporate profitability.</p>
<p>She is host of The Roz Usheroff Podcast that is designed for professionals who want to enhace their leadership presence, personal brand and career trajectory by developing executive presence.</p>
<p>Learn more about Roz and her services at <a href='https://usheroff.com/'>https://usheroff.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation with Roz Usheroff:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>authenticity is the foundation of executive presence and differentiation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>emotional intelligence is more important than polish or perfection</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>leaders must help people navigate fear, uncertainty and AI disruption</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>psychological safety drives innovation and engagement</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>charisma is not extroversion; it is the ability to connect and make people feel seen</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>host behavior builds trust, approachability and stronger leadership presence</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>leaders must read the room, adapt and adjust based on emotional cues</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>perfection erodes connection; humanity strengthens credibility</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>feedback must be sought strategically through third-party questions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>avoid being an “advice monster”; ask deeper questions before offering solutions</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Fear, AI &amp; Leadership: How to Stay Human in a Digital World
The Truth About Executive Presence
<p>Episode 282 (Roz is based in Florida)</p>
<p>In this coversation with Roz Usheroff we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how authenticity shapes executive presence</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why emotional intelligence matters more than polish</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders can support people through AI-driven uncertainty</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the rise of “quiet cracking” and what it signals</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why psychological safety fuels innovation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>where charisma comes from and how it works</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the power of host behavior in building trust</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders can read the room and adjust</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why embracing imperfections increases credibility</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to seek useful feedback without creating defensiveness</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Roz Usheroff:</p>
<p>Roz is the founder of the Usherfoll Institute whose core mission is to help people discover and understand their unique talens and embrace their leadership capabilities that lead to both personal and corporate profitability.</p>
<p>She is host of The Roz Usheroff Podcast that is designed for professionals who want to enhace their leadership presence, personal brand and career trajectory by developing executive presence.</p>
<p>Learn more about Roz and her services at <a href='https://usheroff.com/'>https://usheroff.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation with Roz Usheroff:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>authenticity is the foundation of executive presence and differentiation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>emotional intelligence is more important than polish or perfection</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>leaders must help people navigate fear, uncertainty and AI disruption</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>psychological safety drives innovation and engagement</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>charisma is not extroversion; it is the ability to connect and make people feel seen</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>host behavior builds trust, approachability and stronger leadership presence</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>leaders must read the room, adapt and adjust based on emotional cues</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>perfection erodes connection; humanity strengthens credibility</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>feedback must be sought strategically through third-party questions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>avoid being an “advice monster”; ask deeper questions before offering solutions</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Fear, AI &amp; Leadership: How to Stay Human in a Digital World
The Truth About Executive Presence
Episode 282 (Roz is based in Florida)
In this coversation with Roz Usheroff we explore:


how authenticity shapes executive presence


why emotional intelligence matters more than polish


how leaders can support people through AI-driven uncertainty


the rise of “quiet cracking” and what it signals


why psychological safety fuels innovation


where charisma comes from and how it works


the power of host behavior in building trust


how leaders can read the room and adjust


why embracing imperfections increases credibility


how to seek useful feedback without creating defensiveness


-----
About our guest Roz Usheroff:
Roz is the founder of the Usherfoll Institute whose core mission is to help people discover and understand their unique talens and embrace their leadership capabilities that lead to both personal and corporate profitability.
She is host of The Roz Usheroff Podcast that is designed for professionals who want to enhace their leadership presence, personal brand and career trajectory by developing executive presence.
Learn more about Roz and her services at https://usheroff.com/
-----
Key Lessons from this conversation with Roz Usheroff:


authenticity is the foundation of executive presence and differentiation


emotional intelligence is more important than polish or perfection


leaders must help people navigate fear, uncertainty and AI disruption


psychological safety drives innovation and engagement


charisma is not extroversion; it is the ability to connect and make people feel seen


host behavior builds trust, approachability and stronger leadership presence


leaders must read the room, adapt and adjust based on emotional cues


perfection erodes connection; humanity strengthens credibility


feedback must be sought strategically through third-party questions


avoid being an “advice monster”; ask deeper questions before offering solutions


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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        <title>A Better Way to Drive Change: Jeff Wetherhold</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Why Top-Down Change Fails and how leaders can fix it
How to lead change without burning out or losing your team
<p>Episode 281 (Jeff is based in Maine)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jeff Wetherhold we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why 88% of change initiatives fail and what leaders consistently overlook</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how treating change as a communication challenge shifts results</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how ambivalence, not resistance, explains employee behaviour</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how motivational interviewing helps leaders reduce resistance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why reflections help people reveal their own motivations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why benefits must be discovered rather than declared</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how top-down directives undermine trust and buy-in</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders can engage skeptics without burning out</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why individual conversations drive organizational change</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders can begin using these tools immediately</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Jeff Wetherfold:</p>
<p>Jeff has 20+ years understanding what helps or hinders change for people and organizations. He is a former behvioral science researcher who has learned and worked extensively in the fields of change management, process improvement, motivational interviewing and leadership communication.</p>
<p>Learn more about Jeff and hisspeaking, training and coaching services at <a href='https://www.jeffwetherhold.com/'>https://www.jeffwetherhold.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this conversation with Jeff:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore why 88% of organizational change fails and what leaders overlook</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore why change is primarily a communication challenge, not a technical one</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore how leaders mistakenly assume employees hold fixed attitudes toward change</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore the concept of ambivalence and why every person has reasons both for and against change</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore why top-down change efforts almost always fail</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore how motivational interviewing helps leaders move people toward change</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore why leaders need more reflections and fewer questions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore how to identify and amplify employees’ intrinsic motivations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore why benefits must be defined by employees, not assumed by leaders</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore why organizational change succeeds only when individuals choose to change</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Why Top-Down Change Fails and how leaders can fix it
How to lead change without burning out or losing your team
<p>Episode 281 (Jeff is based in Maine)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jeff Wetherhold we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why 88% of change initiatives fail and what leaders consistently overlook</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how treating change as a communication challenge shifts results</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how ambivalence, not resistance, explains employee behaviour</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how motivational interviewing helps leaders reduce resistance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why reflections help people reveal their own motivations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why benefits must be discovered rather than declared</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how top-down directives undermine trust and buy-in</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders can engage skeptics without burning out</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why individual conversations drive organizational change</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders can begin using these tools immediately</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Jeff Wetherfold:</p>
<p>Jeff has 20+ years understanding what helps or hinders change for people and organizations. He is a former behvioral science researcher who has learned and worked extensively in the fields of change management, process improvement, motivational interviewing and leadership communication.</p>
<p>Learn more about Jeff and hisspeaking, training and coaching services at <a href='https://www.jeffwetherhold.com/'>https://www.jeffwetherhold.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this conversation with Jeff:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore why 88% of organizational change fails and what leaders overlook</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore why change is primarily a communication challenge, not a technical one</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore how leaders mistakenly assume employees hold fixed attitudes toward change</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore the concept of ambivalence and why every person has reasons both for and against change</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore why top-down change efforts almost always fail</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore how motivational interviewing helps leaders move people toward change</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore why leaders need more reflections and fewer questions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore how to identify and amplify employees’ intrinsic motivations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore why benefits must be defined by employees, not assumed by leaders</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>in this conversation we explore why organizational change succeeds only when individuals choose to change</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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How to lead change without burning out or losing your team
Episode 281 (Jeff is based in Maine)
In this conversation with Jeff Wetherhold we explore:


why 88% of change initiatives fail and what leaders consistently overlook


how treating change as a communication challenge shifts results


how ambivalence, not resistance, explains employee behaviour


how motivational interviewing helps leaders reduce resistance


why reflections help people reveal their own motivations


why benefits must be discovered rather than declared


how top-down directives undermine trust and buy-in


how leaders can engage skeptics without burning out


why individual conversations drive organizational change


how leaders can begin using these tools immediately


-----
About our guest, Jeff Wetherfold:
Jeff has 20+ years understanding what helps or hinders change for people and organizations. He is a former behvioral science researcher who has learned and worked extensively in the fields of change management, process improvement, motivational interviewing and leadership communication.
Learn more about Jeff and hisspeaking, training and coaching services at https://www.jeffwetherhold.com/
-----
Key lessons from this conversation with Jeff:


in this conversation we explore why 88% of organizational change fails and what leaders overlook


in this conversation we explore why change is primarily a communication challenge, not a technical one


in this conversation we explore how leaders mistakenly assume employees hold fixed attitudes toward change


in this conversation we explore the concept of ambivalence and why every person has reasons both for and against change


in this conversation we explore why top-down change efforts almost always fail


in this conversation we explore how motivational interviewing helps leaders move people toward change


in this conversation we explore why leaders need more reflections and fewer questions


in this conversation we explore how to identify and amplify employees’ intrinsic motivations


in this conversation we explore why benefits must be defined by employees, not assumed by leaders


in this conversation we explore why organizational change succeeds only when individuals choose to change


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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        <title>Five Roles Every High-Performing Team Needs: Mark Murphy</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Don't force teamwork, harness your team's superpowers
Great teams don't need to be friends
<p>Episode 280 (Mark is based in Georgia)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Mark Murphy, we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why you don’t have to like your teammates to perform well together</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how forced fun can kill real teamwork</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the five essential roles that make up every high-performing team</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to diagnose what’s missing when your team is stuck</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why adaptive leadership means the best person leads in each situation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how understanding others’ strengths makes collaboration easier</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why leaders should stop trying to fill every role themselves</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how team diversity creates synergy instead of friction</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what new team leaders often get wrong</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how real teamwork feels more like training for a marathon than going to a party</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Mark Murphy:</p>
<p>Mark is a New York Times bestselling author with books, Hiring for Attitude, Hundred Percenters and his latest, Team Players: The Five Critical Roles Your Need to Build a Winning Team.</p>
<p>You can learn more about Mark, his books, reserch and programs at his website</p>
<p><a href='https://www.leadershipiq.com/'>https://www.leadershipiq.com/</a></p>
Take the free quizs to clarify your leadership traits.
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation with Mark Murphy:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>teams don’t need to be friends to be effective</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>fake team-building activities can actually hurt performance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>high-performing teams rely on five critical roles: director, achiever, stabilizer, trailblazer, harmonizer</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>it’s okay not to like everyone on your team—focus on results, not relationships</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>leadership on great teams is adaptive—who leads changes based on the situation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>knowing your strengths and appreciating others’ roles builds trust and efficiency</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>team balance matters more than team bonding</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>great leaders don’t try to play every role—they delegate and empower others</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>when teams stall, identify which missing role is causing the blockage</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>success is measured by outcomes, not by how much fun the team has</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Don't force teamwork, harness your team's superpowers
Great teams don't need to be friends
<p>Episode 280 (Mark is based in Georgia)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Mark Murphy, we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why you don’t have to like your teammates to perform well together</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how forced fun can kill real teamwork</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the five essential roles that make up every high-performing team</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to diagnose what’s missing when your team is stuck</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why adaptive leadership means the best person leads in each situation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how understanding others’ strengths makes collaboration easier</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why leaders should stop trying to fill every role themselves</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how team diversity creates synergy instead of friction</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what new team leaders often get wrong</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how real teamwork feels more like training for a marathon than going to a party</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Mark Murphy:</p>
<p>Mark is a New York Times bestselling author with books, Hiring for Attitude, Hundred Percenters and his latest, Team Players: The Five Critical Roles Your Need to Build a Winning Team.</p>
<p>You can learn more about Mark, his books, reserch and programs at his website</p>
<p><a href='https://www.leadershipiq.com/'>https://www.leadershipiq.com/</a></p>
Take the free quizs to clarify your leadership traits.
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation with Mark Murphy:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>teams don’t need to be friends to be effective</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>fake team-building activities can actually hurt performance</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>high-performing teams rely on five critical roles: director, achiever, stabilizer, trailblazer, harmonizer</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>it’s okay not to like everyone on your team—focus on results, not relationships</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>leadership on great teams is adaptive—who leads changes based on the situation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>knowing your strengths and appreciating others’ roles builds trust and efficiency</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>team balance matters more than team bonding</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>great leaders don’t try to play every role—they delegate and empower others</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>when teams stall, identify which missing role is causing the blockage</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>success is measured by outcomes, not by how much fun the team has</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Don't force teamwork, harness your team's superpowers
Great teams don't need to be friends
Episode 280 (Mark is based in Georgia)
In this conversation with Mark Murphy, we explore:


why you don’t have to like your teammates to perform well together


how forced fun can kill real teamwork


the five essential roles that make up every high-performing team


how to diagnose what’s missing when your team is stuck


why adaptive leadership means the best person leads in each situation


how understanding others’ strengths makes collaboration easier


why leaders should stop trying to fill every role themselves


how team diversity creates synergy instead of friction


what new team leaders often get wrong


how real teamwork feels more like training for a marathon than going to a party


-----
About our guest, Mark Murphy:
Mark is a New York Times bestselling author with books, Hiring for Attitude, Hundred Percenters and his latest, Team Players: The Five Critical Roles Your Need to Build a Winning Team.
You can learn more about Mark, his books, reserch and programs at his website
https://www.leadershipiq.com/
Take the free quizs to clarify your leadership traits.
-----
Key Lessons from this conversation with Mark Murphy:


teams don’t need to be friends to be effective


fake team-building activities can actually hurt performance


high-performing teams rely on five critical roles: director, achiever, stabilizer, trailblazer, harmonizer


it’s okay not to like everyone on your team—focus on results, not relationships


leadership on great teams is adaptive—who leads changes based on the situation


knowing your strengths and appreciating others’ roles builds trust and efficiency


team balance matters more than team bonding


great leaders don’t try to play every role—they delegate and empower others


when teams stall, identify which missing role is causing the blockage


success is measured by outcomes, not by how much fun the team has


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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        <title>Catch People Doing Things Right: Lessons from Ken Blanchard’s Editor Martha Lawrence</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Praise in Public, Criticize in Private
Leadership Lessons with Martha Lawrence
<p>Episode 279 ( Martha is based in San Diego, CA)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Martha Lawrence, we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how the culture of positivity shaped Ken Blanchard’s leadership philosophy</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why The One Minute Manager changed how organizations lead and communicate</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to apply “catch people doing things right” both at work and at home</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the fine line between genuine praise and shallow flattery</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what “servant leadership” really means in practice</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders can help team members by asking better questions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how Martha Lawrence turned trauma into meaningful creative work</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why apologizing and letting go of ego strengthen leadership</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how Ken Blanchard modeled love and humility in leadership</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how positivity and purpose can transform organizations and lives</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Martha Lawrence:</p>
<p>She's a vertern book editor who has edited hundreds of book including major bestsellers - Feel the Fear and Do it Anyways and The One Minute Enrepreneur.</p>
<p>As the executive editor at Blanchard, she worked with business guru, Ken Blanchard for over two decades.</p>
<p>Learn more about Martha and her new book at <a href='https://marthalawrence.com/'>https://marthalawrence.com/</a></p>
<p>Books by Ken Blanchard <a href='https://www.kenblanchardbooks.com/'>https://www.kenblanchardbooks.com/</a></p>
<p>Wow! More resources from Ken Blanchard <a href='https://www.blanchard.com/'>https://www.blanchard.com</a>/</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation with Martha Lawerence:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Positive leadership is rooted in valuing people as much as results.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The One Minute Manager principles — clear goals, one-minute praising, and one-minute redirects — remain timeless leadership tools.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Catching people doing things right is more effective than focusing on mistakes.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Praise in public, criticize in private — simple rule, powerful impact.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Servant leadership means inverting the hierarchy: leaders serve their teams.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leadership is learned behavior; empathy and humility can be practiced.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The best leaders help others grow by asking, “How can I help you do your job better?”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Adversity can become the catalyst for purpose and contribution.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Apologizing well is a leadership strength, not a weakness.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Real leaders let go of ego — as Ken Blanchard says, ego means “edging good out.”</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Praise in Public, Criticize in Private
Leadership Lessons with Martha Lawrence
<p>Episode 279 ( Martha is based in San Diego, CA)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Martha Lawrence, we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how the culture of positivity shaped Ken Blanchard’s leadership philosophy</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why <em>The One Minute Manager</em> changed how organizations lead and communicate</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to apply “catch people doing things right” both at work and at home</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the fine line between genuine praise and shallow flattery</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what “servant leadership” really means in practice</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders can help team members by asking better questions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how Martha Lawrence turned trauma into meaningful creative work</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why apologizing and letting go of ego strengthen leadership</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how Ken Blanchard modeled love and humility in leadership</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how positivity and purpose can transform organizations and lives</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Martha Lawrence:</p>
<p>She's a vertern book editor who has edited hundreds of book including major bestsellers - Feel the Fear and Do it Anyways and The One Minute Enrepreneur.</p>
<p>As the executive editor at Blanchard, she worked with business guru, Ken Blanchard for over two decades.</p>
<p>Learn more about Martha and her new book at <a href='https://marthalawrence.com/'>https://marthalawrence.com/</a></p>
<p>Books by Ken Blanchard <a href='https://www.kenblanchardbooks.com/'>https://www.kenblanchardbooks.com/</a></p>
<p>Wow! More resources from Ken Blanchard <a href='https://www.blanchard.com/'>https://www.blanchard.com</a>/</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation with Martha Lawerence:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Positive leadership is rooted in valuing people as much as results.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The <em>One Minute Manager</em> principles — clear goals, one-minute praising, and one-minute redirects — remain timeless leadership tools.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Catching people doing things right is more effective than focusing on mistakes.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Praise in public, criticize in private — simple rule, powerful impact.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Servant leadership means inverting the hierarchy: leaders serve their teams.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leadership is learned behavior; empathy and humility can be practiced.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The best leaders help others grow by asking, “How can I help you do your job better?”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Adversity can become the catalyst for purpose and contribution.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Apologizing well is a leadership strength, not a weakness.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Real leaders let go of ego — as Ken Blanchard says, ego means “edging good out.”</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Praise in Public, Criticize in Private
Leadership Lessons with Martha Lawrence
Episode 279 ( Martha is based in San Diego, CA)
In this conversation with Martha Lawrence, we explore:


how the culture of positivity shaped Ken Blanchard’s leadership philosophy


why The One Minute Manager changed how organizations lead and communicate


how to apply “catch people doing things right” both at work and at home


the fine line between genuine praise and shallow flattery


what “servant leadership” really means in practice


how leaders can help team members by asking better questions


how Martha Lawrence turned trauma into meaningful creative work


why apologizing and letting go of ego strengthen leadership


how Ken Blanchard modeled love and humility in leadership


how positivity and purpose can transform organizations and lives


-----
About our guest Martha Lawrence:
She's a vertern book editor who has edited hundreds of book including major bestsellers - Feel the Fear and Do it Anyways and The One Minute Enrepreneur.
As the executive editor at Blanchard, she worked with business guru, Ken Blanchard for over two decades.
Learn more about Martha and her new book at https://marthalawrence.com/
Books by Ken Blanchard https://www.kenblanchardbooks.com/
Wow! More resources from Ken Blanchard https://www.blanchard.com/
-----
Key Lessons from this conversation with Martha Lawerence:


Positive leadership is rooted in valuing people as much as results.


The One Minute Manager principles — clear goals, one-minute praising, and one-minute redirects — remain timeless leadership tools.


Catching people doing things right is more effective than focusing on mistakes.


Praise in public, criticize in private — simple rule, powerful impact.


Servant leadership means inverting the hierarchy: leaders serve their teams.


Leadership is learned behavior; empathy and humility can be practiced.


The best leaders help others grow by asking, “How can I help you do your job better?”


Adversity can become the catalyst for purpose and contribution.


Apologizing well is a leadership strength, not a weakness.


Real leaders let go of ego — as Ken Blanchard says, ego means “edging good out.”


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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                                    <description><![CDATA[The Power of Listening—Lessons from Elephants and Lions
Elephant Wisdom: Be Still, Listen, and Lead
<p>Episode 278: (Hugh is based in San Fransico)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Hugh Coppen we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how animals communicate clearly without words</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why listening is a survival skill in nature—and in business</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what elephants and lions can teach us about leadership</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how body language signals intent, trust, and respect</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of belonging and team spirit</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why patience and silence build awareness</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how communication extends across species</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how natural systems model mutual respect and cooperation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how immersion in wilderness renews perspective and purpose</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the elephant’s message for human beings: listen, think, and be content</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Hugh Coppen:</p>
<p>Hugh grew up on his family farm in Zimbabwe where he developed his lifelong passion for wildlife and nature in the African wilderness.</p>
<p>He eagerly spreads his love of nature and lessons from wildlife.</p>
<p>He has severed as CEO of companies in the US, Canada and the UK.</p>
<p>He leads safaris to Zimbabwe to help connect you with nature and the lessons of African wild life. <a href='https://tasimba.com/'>https://tasimba.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this conversation:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Listening deeply reveals more than speaking.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Body language is the oldest and most honest form of communication.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Smell, sound, and stillness carry powerful meaning.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Awareness depends on observation and patience.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Trust and belonging are essential survival messages.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Respect sustains harmony and safety.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Communication includes shared signals across species.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leadership in nature depends on clarity and calm.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Contentment and self-awareness are signs of true wisdom.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Happiness is created, not consumed.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>------</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[The Power of Listening—Lessons from Elephants and Lions
Elephant Wisdom: Be Still, Listen, and Lead
<p>Episode 278: (Hugh is based in San Fransico)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Hugh Coppen we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how animals communicate clearly without words</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why listening is a survival skill in nature—and in business</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what elephants and lions can teach us about leadership</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how body language signals intent, trust, and respect</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of belonging and team spirit</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why patience and silence build awareness</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how communication extends across species</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how natural systems model mutual respect and cooperation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how immersion in wilderness renews perspective and purpose</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the elephant’s message for human beings: listen, think, and be content</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Hugh Coppen:</p>
<p>Hugh grew up on his family farm in Zimbabwe where he developed his lifelong passion for wildlife and nature in the African wilderness.</p>
<p>He eagerly spreads his love of nature and lessons from wildlife.</p>
<p>He has severed as CEO of companies in the US, Canada and the UK.</p>
<p>He leads safaris to Zimbabwe to help connect you with nature and the lessons of African wild life. <a href='https://tasimba.com/'>https://tasimba.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this conversation:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Listening deeply reveals more than speaking.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Body language is the oldest and most honest form of communication.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Smell, sound, and stillness carry powerful meaning.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Awareness depends on observation and patience.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Trust and belonging are essential survival messages.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Respect sustains harmony and safety.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Communication includes shared signals across species.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leadership in nature depends on clarity and calm.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Contentment and self-awareness are signs of true wisdom.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Happiness is created, not consumed.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>------</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Power of Listening—Lessons from Elephants and Lions
Elephant Wisdom: Be Still, Listen, and Lead
Episode 278: (Hugh is based in San Fransico)
In this conversation with Hugh Coppen we explore:


how animals communicate clearly without words


why listening is a survival skill in nature—and in business


what elephants and lions can teach us about leadership


how body language signals intent, trust, and respect


the importance of belonging and team spirit


why patience and silence build awareness


how communication extends across species


how natural systems model mutual respect and cooperation


how immersion in wilderness renews perspective and purpose


the elephant’s message for human beings: listen, think, and be content


-----
About our guest, Hugh Coppen:
Hugh grew up on his family farm in Zimbabwe where he developed his lifelong passion for wildlife and nature in the African wilderness.
He eagerly spreads his love of nature and lessons from wildlife.
He has severed as CEO of companies in the US, Canada and the UK.
He leads safaris to Zimbabwe to help connect you with nature and the lessons of African wild life. https://tasimba.com/
-----
Key lessons from this conversation:


Listening deeply reveals more than speaking.


Body language is the oldest and most honest form of communication.


Smell, sound, and stillness carry powerful meaning.


Awareness depends on observation and patience.


Trust and belonging are essential survival messages.


Respect sustains harmony and safety.


Communication includes shared signals across species.


Leadership in nature depends on clarity and calm.


Contentment and self-awareness are signs of true wisdom.


Happiness is created, not consumed.


------
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Managing Fear and Chaos
The Ant, the Elephant, and the Earthquake
<p>Episode 277 (Vince is based in Dallas, Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Vince Poscente we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how fear operates in both the conscious and subconscious mind</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why alignment between intention and emotion determines progress</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the meaning behind “there’s no linear way out of chaos”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to face personal earthquakes like loss, failure, or crisis</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why breathing is the antidote to panic and paralysis</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how curiosity and letting go create the “third reality” for problem-solving</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of outside perspective in breaking self-sabotaging patterns</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to reframe fear as a source of drive rather than a block</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why connection and community are critical after trauma</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders can model vulnerability and emotional awareness</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our Guest, Vince Poscente:</p>
<p>Vince is a New York Times best selling author of eight books including his latest, The Earthquake.</p>
<p>He is president of Board Developer providing sound advice for high growth companies.</p>
<p>You can learn more about Vince Poscente and order his latest book at </p>
<p><a href='http://www.vinceposcente.com/'>www.VincePoscente.com</a></p>
<p>----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation with Vince Poscente:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Fear grows when we run away from it and shrinks when we face it directly.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The conscious mind (the ant) must align with the subconscious (the elephant) to move forward effectively.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>There’s no straight path out of chaos — progress comes through curiosity and releasing control.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Breathing interrupts the brain’s fear response and helps bypass the amygdala’s freeze-flight-fight loop.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Fear can be reframed as a motivator rather than an obstacle — make fear your friend.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Personal earthquakes (crises) expose misalignment between conscious intention and subconscious patterns.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Healing requires acknowledging pain rather than suppressing it — the “solution loop” starts there.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Outside perspectives can reveal paths we can’t see on our own.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Connection and community are essential for long-term recovery — isolation fuels dysfunction.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Managing Fear and Chaos
The Ant, the Elephant, and the Earthquake
<p>Episode 277 (Vince is based in Dallas, Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Vince Poscente we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how fear operates in both the conscious and subconscious mind</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why alignment between intention and emotion determines progress</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the meaning behind <em>“there’s no linear way out of chaos”</em></p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to face personal earthquakes like loss, failure, or crisis</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why breathing is the antidote to panic and paralysis</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how curiosity and letting go create the “third reality” for problem-solving</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of outside perspective in breaking self-sabotaging patterns</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to reframe fear as a source of drive rather than a block</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why connection and community are critical after trauma</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders can model vulnerability and emotional awareness</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our Guest, Vince Poscente:</p>
<p>Vince is a New York Times best selling author of eight books including his latest, The Earthquake.</p>
<p>He is president of Board Developer providing sound advice for high growth companies.</p>
<p>You can learn more about Vince Poscente and order his latest book at </p>
<p><a href='http://www.vinceposcente.com/'>www.VincePoscente.com</a></p>
<p>----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation with Vince Poscente:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Fear grows when we run away from it and shrinks when we face it directly.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The conscious mind (the ant) must align with the subconscious (the elephant) to move forward effectively.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>There’s no straight path out of chaos — progress comes through curiosity and releasing control.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Breathing interrupts the brain’s fear response and helps bypass the amygdala’s freeze-flight-fight loop.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Fear can be reframed as a motivator rather than an obstacle — make fear your friend.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Personal earthquakes (crises) expose misalignment between conscious intention and subconscious patterns.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Healing requires acknowledging pain rather than suppressing it — the “solution loop” starts there.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Outside perspectives can reveal paths we can’t see on our own.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Connection and community are essential for long-term recovery — isolation fuels dysfunction.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Managing Fear and Chaos
The Ant, the Elephant, and the Earthquake
Episode 277 (Vince is based in Dallas, Texas)
In this conversation with Vince Poscente we explore:


how fear operates in both the conscious and subconscious mind


why alignment between intention and emotion determines progress


the meaning behind “there’s no linear way out of chaos”


how to face personal earthquakes like loss, failure, or crisis


why breathing is the antidote to panic and paralysis


how curiosity and letting go create the “third reality” for problem-solving


the role of outside perspective in breaking self-sabotaging patterns


how to reframe fear as a source of drive rather than a block


why connection and community are critical after trauma


how leaders can model vulnerability and emotional awareness


-----
About our Guest, Vince Poscente:
Vince is a New York Times best selling author of eight books including his latest, The Earthquake.
He is president of Board Developer providing sound advice for high growth companies.
You can learn more about Vince Poscente and order his latest book at 
www.VincePoscente.com
----
Key Lessons from this conversation with Vince Poscente:


Fear grows when we run away from it and shrinks when we face it directly.


The conscious mind (the ant) must align with the subconscious (the elephant) to move forward effectively.


There’s no straight path out of chaos — progress comes through curiosity and releasing control.


Breathing interrupts the brain’s fear response and helps bypass the amygdala’s freeze-flight-fight loop.


Fear can be reframed as a motivator rather than an obstacle — make fear your friend.


Personal earthquakes (crises) expose misalignment between conscious intention and subconscious patterns.


Healing requires acknowledging pain rather than suppressing it — the “solution loop” starts there.


Outside perspectives can reveal paths we can’t see on our own.


Connection and community are essential for long-term recovery — isolation fuels dysfunction.


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Why Logic Doesn’t Sell — and What to Do Instead
Brain Glue: Why Emotion Beats Logic in Business Communication
<p>Episode 276 (James is bases in LA, California)</p>
<p>In this Conversation we Explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Why the emotional brain makes 90% of our decisions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How rhyme, rhythm, and repetition make ideas memorable</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The secret power of metaphors and analogies in persuasion</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>What “Brain Glue” is and how to apply it in marketing and leadership</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why logic kills sales and how to reframe your message emotionally</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The psychology behind successful brand names and slogans</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How humor and passion build trust and connection</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Real-world examples of how a name change or focus can skyrocket sales</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The behavioral triggers that make communication stick</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How leaders can craft messages that resonate, not evaporate</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, James I Bond:</p>
<p>James Bond is one of America's leading behavioral management and marketing specialists. He is author of the bestselling book, BRAIN GLUE - How Selling Becomes Much Easier by Making Your Ideas "Sticky"</p>
<p>Learn more about his book at <a href='http://www.brainglue.com/'>www.BrainGlue.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Learning points from this conversation with James I Bond:</p>
<ol>
<li>
<p>Emotion Drives Decisions</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Over 90% of decision-making (including financial) is emotional, not logical.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Logical arguments alone often fail to persuade because they bypass the emotional brain.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Rhyme and Rhythm Create Memory Hooks</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Poetry, rhyme, and sound patterns activate emotional centers and make ideas unforgettable.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Use Visual or Sensory Context</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Statistics and facts gain impact when tied to vivid imagery or sensory descriptions.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Emotional Selling Beats Logical Selling</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Stories, metaphors, and analogies trigger empathy and attention more effectively than logic.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Metaphor and Analogy Are Powerful Tools</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>“Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus” turned a modest book into a worldwide bestseller.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Alliteration Amplifies Appeal</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Repeated sounds in names and slogans (Coca-Cola, PayPal, Best Buy) make them easier to recall.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Humor Builds Connection</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Laughter produces oxytocin, increasing openness and receptivity to your message.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Renaming Can Transform Success</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>The right name reframes perception — “Sell More” became “Brain Glue,” and sales soared.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Focus Creates Breakthrough Growth</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Simplify your market and message — one clear focus can multiply results.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Passion Is Contagious</p>
</li>
</ol>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Selling is the transference of passion; when you express genuine enthusiasm, others feel it.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Why Logic Doesn’t Sell — and What to Do Instead
Brain Glue: Why Emotion Beats Logic in Business Communication
<p>Episode 276 (James is bases in LA, California)</p>
<p>In this Conversation we Explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Why the emotional brain makes 90% of our decisions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How rhyme, rhythm, and repetition make ideas memorable</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The secret power of metaphors and analogies in persuasion</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>What “Brain Glue” is and how to apply it in marketing and leadership</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why logic kills sales and how to reframe your message emotionally</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The psychology behind successful brand names and slogans</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How humor and passion build trust and connection</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Real-world examples of how a name change or focus can skyrocket sales</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The behavioral triggers that make communication stick</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How leaders can craft messages that resonate, not evaporate</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, James I Bond:</p>
<p>James Bond is one of America's leading behavioral management and marketing specialists. He is author of the bestselling book, BRAIN GLUE - How Selling Becomes Much Easier by Making Your Ideas "Sticky"</p>
<p>Learn more about his book at <a href='http://www.brainglue.com/'>www.BrainGlue.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Learning points from this conversation with James I Bond:</p>
<ol>
<li>
<p>Emotion Drives Decisions</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Over 90% of decision-making (including financial) is emotional, not logical.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Logical arguments alone often fail to persuade because they bypass the emotional brain.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Rhyme and Rhythm Create Memory Hooks</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Poetry, rhyme, and sound patterns activate emotional centers and make ideas unforgettable.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Use Visual or Sensory Context</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Statistics and facts gain impact when tied to vivid imagery or sensory descriptions.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Emotional Selling Beats Logical Selling</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Stories, metaphors, and analogies trigger empathy and attention more effectively than logic.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Metaphor and Analogy Are Powerful Tools</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>“Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus” turned a modest book into a worldwide bestseller.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Alliteration Amplifies Appeal</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Repeated sounds in names and slogans (Coca-Cola, PayPal, Best Buy) make them easier to recall.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Humor Builds Connection</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Laughter produces oxytocin, increasing openness and receptivity to your message.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Renaming Can Transform Success</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>The right name reframes perception — “Sell More” became “Brain Glue,” and sales soared.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Focus Creates Breakthrough Growth</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Simplify your market and message — one clear focus can multiply results.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Passion Is Contagious</p>
</li>
</ol>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Selling is the transference of passion; when you express genuine enthusiasm, others feel it.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why Logic Doesn’t Sell — and What to Do Instead
Brain Glue: Why Emotion Beats Logic in Business Communication
Episode 276 (James is bases in LA, California)
In this Conversation we Explore:


Why the emotional brain makes 90% of our decisions


How rhyme, rhythm, and repetition make ideas memorable


The secret power of metaphors and analogies in persuasion


What “Brain Glue” is and how to apply it in marketing and leadership


Why logic kills sales and how to reframe your message emotionally


The psychology behind successful brand names and slogans


How humor and passion build trust and connection


Real-world examples of how a name change or focus can skyrocket sales


The behavioral triggers that make communication stick


How leaders can craft messages that resonate, not evaporate


-----
About our guest, James I Bond:
James Bond is one of America's leading behavioral management and marketing specialists. He is author of the bestselling book, BRAIN GLUE - How Selling Becomes Much Easier by Making Your Ideas "Sticky"
Learn more about his book at www.BrainGlue.com
-----
Key Learning points from this conversation with James I Bond:


Emotion Drives Decisions


Over 90% of decision-making (including financial) is emotional, not logical.


Logical arguments alone often fail to persuade because they bypass the emotional brain.




Rhyme and Rhythm Create Memory Hooks


Poetry, rhyme, and sound patterns activate emotional centers and make ideas unforgettable.




Use Visual or Sensory Context


Statistics and facts gain impact when tied to vivid imagery or sensory descriptions.




Emotional Selling Beats Logical Selling


Stories, metaphors, and analogies trigger empathy and attention more effectively than logic.




Metaphor and Analogy Are Powerful Tools


“Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus” turned a modest book into a worldwide bestseller.




Alliteration Amplifies Appeal


Repeated sounds in names and slogans (Coca-Cola, PayPal, Best Buy) make them easier to recall.




Humor Builds Connection


Laughter produces oxytocin, increasing openness and receptivity to your message.




Renaming Can Transform Success


The right name reframes perception — “Sell More” became “Brain Glue,” and sales soared.




Focus Creates Breakthrough Growth


Simplify your market and message — one clear focus can multiply results.




Passion Is Contagious




Selling is the transference of passion; when you express genuine enthusiasm, others feel it.


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
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Listen for What Isn’t Said: The Coaching Skill Most Managers Miss
<p>Episode 275 (Keith is based in Philladephia)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Keith Willis, we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why real coaching starts with clarity, not a barrage of questions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how an Army leadership mindset accelerates business coaching outcomes</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the pharma sales reality and why managers must coach for influence over time</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>a practical cadence for field rides, feedback, and field coaching reports</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>a three-step coaching move: say it, support it, then ask for their view</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>spotting belief barriers (like “I hate being closed”) and reframing them with stories</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>listening for the unsaid—naming hesitancy to surface the real issue</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to kick-off a coaching culture with a 7:1 positive feedback ratio</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Keith Willis:</p>
<p>Keith is the president and founder of Core Management Training. He helps organizations build leadership competencies, coaching systems and sales performance frameworks that strengthen managers and elevate teams.</p>
<p>A former U.S. Army Captain he honed his skills in team building, strategic planning and leadering before translating those lessons into coaching for leaders in the pharmaceutical industry.</p>
<p>Learn more about Corel Management Training and their programs <a href='https://coremanagementtraining.com/'>https://coremanagementtraining.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Learning Points:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>change is constant—assume the environment will shift and prepare people to adapt.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>military leadership and great business coaching share more similarities than most think.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>start with assessment before training: interviews, 360s, and gap-mapping.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>pharma selling is influence over time, not a one-meeting close—so coach for the long game.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>field ride-alongs plus clear field coaching reports (FCRs) remain essential.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the common coaching mistake: endless questions that hide the manager’s point of view.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>better sequence: say it, support it with observations/data, then ask for reaction.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>coach beliefs, not only skills (e.g., why a rep avoids closing).</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>listen for what’s not said; name hesitancy and invite the real conversation.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>to launch coaching at scale: begin with positive feedback, aim for a ~7:1 ratio before tougher notes, use a simple model, and weave coaching into 1:1s.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Feedback First: The Starting Point for Better Sales Coaching
Listen for What Isn’t Said: The Coaching Skill Most Managers Miss
<p>Episode 275 (Keith is based in Philladephia)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Keith Willis, we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why real coaching starts with clarity, not a barrage of questions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how an Army leadership mindset accelerates business coaching outcomes</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the pharma sales reality and why managers must coach for influence over time</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>a practical cadence for field rides, feedback, and field coaching reports</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>a three-step coaching move: say it, support it, then ask for their view</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>spotting belief barriers (like “I hate being closed”) and reframing them with stories</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>listening for the unsaid—naming hesitancy to surface the real issue</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to kick-off a coaching culture with a 7:1 positive feedback ratio</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Keith Willis:</p>
<p>Keith is the president and founder of Core Management Training. He helps organizations build leadership competencies, coaching systems and sales performance frameworks that strengthen managers and elevate teams.</p>
<p>A former U.S. Army Captain he honed his skills in team building, strategic planning and leadering before translating those lessons into coaching for leaders in the pharmaceutical industry.</p>
<p>Learn more about Corel Management Training and their programs <a href='https://coremanagementtraining.com/'>https://coremanagementtraining.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Learning Points:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>change is constant—assume the environment will shift and prepare people to adapt.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>military leadership and great business coaching share more similarities than most think.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>start with assessment before training: interviews, 360s, and gap-mapping.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>pharma selling is influence over time, not a one-meeting close—so coach for the long game.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>field ride-alongs plus clear field coaching reports (FCRs) remain essential.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the common coaching mistake: endless questions that hide the manager’s point of view.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>better sequence: say it, support it with observations/data, then ask for reaction.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>coach beliefs, not only skills (e.g., why a rep avoids closing).</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>listen for what’s <em>not</em> said; name hesitancy and invite the real conversation.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>to launch coaching at scale: begin with positive feedback, aim for a ~7:1 ratio before tougher notes, use a simple model, and weave coaching into 1:1s.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Feedback First: The Starting Point for Better Sales Coaching
Listen for What Isn’t Said: The Coaching Skill Most Managers Miss
Episode 275 (Keith is based in Philladephia)
In this conversation with Keith Willis, we explore:


why real coaching starts with clarity, not a barrage of questions


how an Army leadership mindset accelerates business coaching outcomes


the pharma sales reality and why managers must coach for influence over time


a practical cadence for field rides, feedback, and field coaching reports


a three-step coaching move: say it, support it, then ask for their view


spotting belief barriers (like “I hate being closed”) and reframing them with stories


listening for the unsaid—naming hesitancy to surface the real issue


how to kick-off a coaching culture with a 7:1 positive feedback ratio


-----
About our guest, Keith Willis:
Keith is the president and founder of Core Management Training. He helps organizations build leadership competencies, coaching systems and sales performance frameworks that strengthen managers and elevate teams.
A former U.S. Army Captain he honed his skills in team building, strategic planning and leadering before translating those lessons into coaching for leaders in the pharmaceutical industry.
Learn more about Corel Management Training and their programs https://coremanagementtraining.com/
-----
Key Learning Points:


change is constant—assume the environment will shift and prepare people to adapt.


military leadership and great business coaching share more similarities than most think.


start with assessment before training: interviews, 360s, and gap-mapping.


pharma selling is influence over time, not a one-meeting close—so coach for the long game.


field ride-alongs plus clear field coaching reports (FCRs) remain essential.


the common coaching mistake: endless questions that hide the manager’s point of view.


better sequence: say it, support it with observations/data, then ask for reaction.


coach beliefs, not only skills (e.g., why a rep avoids closing).


listen for what’s not said; name hesitancy and invite the real conversation.


to launch coaching at scale: begin with positive feedback, aim for a ~7:1 ratio before tougher notes, use a simple model, and weave coaching into 1:1s.


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Targeted messaging wins: why “market to everybody = market to nobody”
Plateaued growth? Check your vision, strategy, and team empowerment
<p>Episode 274 (Shay is based in Charlotte NC)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Shay Prosser, we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why strategy must come before messaging</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how interviewing customers sharpens language that resonates</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the danger of “laundry list” offerings and what to say instead</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how clear targeting helps the right people self-select (and others opt out)</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to set do/don’t-do boundaries so teams deliver consistently</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>a simple way to stop scope creep in service businesses</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what makes a business scalable beyond the owner</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how 90-day plans with simple metrics create real momentum</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why rebrands should serve a strategic purpose, not vanity</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to refine vision so teams can actually execute</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Shay Prosser:</p>
<p>Shay is fractional chief Marketing and Strategy Officer. She is a founding member of the Birthing of Giants regional cohorts.</p>
<p>She has lived in 10 states plus living abroad.</p>
<p>Learn more about Shay and her services at:</p>
<p><a href='https://north12partners.com/'>https://north12partners.com/</a></p>
<p>Connect with Shay:</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/shayprosser/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/shayprosser/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Learning Points:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>strategy precedes messaging: define who you serve, the problem, and the words they use.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>talk to customers first: use their language to shape offers and copy.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>focus beats laundry lists: communicate the problem you solve, not 25 services.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>repel to attract: clear messages signal who is and isn’t a fit.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>internal alignment matters: communicate what you do/don’t do and set boundaries.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>fight scope creep: “today’s exception is tomorrow’s expectation.”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>services must match promises: align sales, delivery, and scope controls.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>build a scalable business: processes and people so the owner can step back.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>use 90-day plans + simple metrics: create momentum and visible wins.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>vision → strategy → execution: clarify the destination, then pick the route.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>rebrand with purpose: positioning, story, and team rollout—not just colors.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>smart change management: communicate the why, who’s involved, and the plan.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>cross-industry practices help: fractional leaders transfer proven playbooks.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>empower the team: owners are often the bottleneck; promote leadership.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Targeted messaging wins: why “market to everybody = market to nobody”
Plateaued growth? Check your vision, strategy, and team empowerment
<p>Episode 274 (Shay is based in Charlotte NC)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Shay Prosser, we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why strategy must come before messaging</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how interviewing customers sharpens language that resonates</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the danger of “laundry list” offerings and what to say instead</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how clear targeting helps the right people self-select (and others opt out)</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to set do/don’t-do boundaries so teams deliver consistently</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>a simple way to stop scope creep in service businesses</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what makes a business scalable beyond the owner</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how 90-day plans with simple metrics create real momentum</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why rebrands should serve a strategic purpose, not vanity</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to refine vision so teams can actually execute</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Shay Prosser:</p>
<p>Shay is fractional chief Marketing and Strategy Officer. She is a founding member of the Birthing of Giants regional cohorts.</p>
<p>She has lived in 10 states plus living abroad.</p>
<p><em>Learn more about Shay and her services at:</em></p>
<p><a href='https://north12partners.com/'>https://north12partners.com/</a></p>
<p><em>Connect with Shay:</em></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/shayprosser/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/shayprosser/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Learning Points:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>strategy precedes messaging: define who you serve, the problem, and the words they use.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>talk to customers first: use their language to shape offers and copy.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>focus beats laundry lists: communicate the problem you solve, not 25 services.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>repel to attract: clear messages signal who is and isn’t a fit.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>internal alignment matters: communicate what you do/don’t do and set boundaries.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>fight scope creep: “today’s exception is tomorrow’s expectation.”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>services must match promises: align sales, delivery, and scope controls.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>build a scalable business: processes and people so the owner can step back.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>use 90-day plans + simple metrics: create momentum and visible wins.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>vision → strategy → execution: clarify the destination, then pick the route.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>rebrand with purpose: positioning, story, and team rollout—not just colors.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>smart change management: communicate the why, who’s involved, and the plan.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>cross-industry practices help: fractional leaders transfer proven playbooks.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>empower the team: owners are often the bottleneck; promote leadership.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Targeted messaging wins: why “market to everybody = market to nobody”
Plateaued growth? Check your vision, strategy, and team empowerment
Episode 274 (Shay is based in Charlotte NC)
In this conversation with Shay Prosser, we explore:


why strategy must come before messaging


how interviewing customers sharpens language that resonates


the danger of “laundry list” offerings and what to say instead


how clear targeting helps the right people self-select (and others opt out)


how to set do/don’t-do boundaries so teams deliver consistently


a simple way to stop scope creep in service businesses


what makes a business scalable beyond the owner


how 90-day plans with simple metrics create real momentum


why rebrands should serve a strategic purpose, not vanity


how to refine vision so teams can actually execute


-----
About our guest Shay Prosser:
Shay is fractional chief Marketing and Strategy Officer. She is a founding member of the Birthing of Giants regional cohorts.
She has lived in 10 states plus living abroad.
Learn more about Shay and her services at:
https://north12partners.com/
Connect with Shay:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/shayprosser/
-----
Key Learning Points:


strategy precedes messaging: define who you serve, the problem, and the words they use.


talk to customers first: use their language to shape offers and copy.


focus beats laundry lists: communicate the problem you solve, not 25 services.


repel to attract: clear messages signal who is and isn’t a fit.


internal alignment matters: communicate what you do/don’t do and set boundaries.


fight scope creep: “today’s exception is tomorrow’s expectation.”


services must match promises: align sales, delivery, and scope controls.


build a scalable business: processes and people so the owner can step back.


use 90-day plans + simple metrics: create momentum and visible wins.


vision → strategy → execution: clarify the destination, then pick the route.


rebrand with purpose: positioning, story, and team rollout—not just colors.


smart change management: communicate the why, who’s involved, and the plan.


cross-industry practices help: fractional leaders transfer proven playbooks.


empower the team: owners are often the bottleneck; promote leadership.


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Manage Difficult Conversations &amp; Meetings
<p>The 3-step script to calm angry people (ignore words, read feelings, label)</p>
<p>Episode 273 (Doug is based in California)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore…</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>https://dougnoll.com/why decisions are emotional and what that means for leadership credibility</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the 92-second reset protocol that calms intense situations fast</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>a three-step method: ignore words, read emotions, reflect with “you” statements</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the brain science behind affect labeling and rapid de-escalation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why “active listening” backfires and how to respond effectively instead</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the four relaxation signals that tell you it’s safe to problem-solve</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>adopting a compassionate mindset to neutralize personal attacks</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>evidence from prisons to boardrooms proving the method’s transferability</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to prepare for tough meetings with self-labeling and emotion maps</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>a practical path to mastery in 8–12 weeks with deliberate practice</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Doug Noll:</p>
<p>Doug was born with a set of difficult disabilities: nearly visually blind, color blind, two club feet, poor teeth, left-handed, and too smart for his own good.</p>
<p>He found his life’s calling at 50 years of age when he left a successful civil trial practice to become a peacemaker, mediator, author, and teacher.</p>
Free Offer: Peace Under Pressure Kit
<p>The kit consists of my De-Escalate Advisor, which is a ChatGPT agent that will help you work through intense emotions, my 4- week online video course Dealing With Anger and Aggression, and an invitation to my free Stop Arguments Cold Skool Community.</p>
<p>Either DM me on LinkedIn or Facebook @douglasnoll on Instagram @douglasenoll with YOUR INTENDED MESSAGE 25.</p>
<p><a href='https://dougnoll.com/'>https://dougnoll.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/dougnoll/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/dougnoll/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/douglasenoll/'>https://www.instagram.com/douglasenoll/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key learning points:</p>
<ol>
<li>
<p>Emotions drive decisions; treat people as emotional beings first.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The 92-second reset protocol (ignore words, read emotions, reflect with “you” statements) reliably calms people.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Affect labeling interrupts the amygdala and engages executive function.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Avoid “active listening” formulas; use plain “you feel…” reflections instead.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Wait for the four relaxation cues before problem-solving.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mindset shift: see attacks as emotions, not truth; respond with compassion.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Practice builds automaticity; mastery is achievable in ~8–12 weeks.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>These skills scale from prisons to boardrooms and change behavior system-wide.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Self-labeling (silently) stabilizes you during tough meetings.</p>
</li>
<li>Preparation: pre-name likely emotions—yours and theirs—before you enter the room.</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Manage Difficult Conversations &amp; Meetings
<p>The 3-step script to calm angry people (ignore words, read feelings, label)</p>
<p>Episode 273 (Doug is based in California)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore…</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>https://dougnoll.com/why decisions are emotional and what that means for leadership credibility</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the 92-second reset protocol that calms intense situations fast</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>a three-step method: ignore words, read emotions, reflect with “you” statements</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the brain science behind affect labeling and rapid de-escalation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why “active listening” backfires and how to respond effectively instead</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the four relaxation signals that tell you it’s safe to problem-solve</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>adopting a compassionate mindset to neutralize personal attacks</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>evidence from prisons to boardrooms proving the method’s transferability</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to prepare for tough meetings with self-labeling and emotion maps</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>a practical path to mastery in 8–12 weeks with deliberate practice</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Doug Noll:</p>
<p>Doug was born with a set of difficult disabilities: nearly visually blind, color blind, two club feet, poor teeth, left-handed, and too smart for his own good.</p>
<p>He found his life’s calling at 50 years of age when he left a successful civil trial practice to become a peacemaker, mediator, author, and teacher.</p>
Free Offer: Peace Under Pressure Kit
<p>The kit consists of my De-Escalate Advisor, which is a ChatGPT agent that will help you work through intense emotions, my 4- week online video course Dealing With Anger and Aggression, and an invitation to my free Stop Arguments Cold Skool Community.</p>
<p>Either DM me on LinkedIn or Facebook @douglasnoll on Instagram @douglasenoll with YOUR INTENDED MESSAGE 25.</p>
<p><a href='https://dougnoll.com/'>https://dougnoll.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/dougnoll/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/dougnoll/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/douglasenoll/'>https://www.instagram.com/douglasenoll/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key learning points:</p>
<ol>
<li>
<p>Emotions drive decisions; treat people as emotional beings first.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The 92-second reset protocol (ignore words, read emotions, reflect with “you” statements) reliably calms people.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Affect labeling interrupts the amygdala and engages executive function.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Avoid “active listening” formulas; use plain “you feel…” reflections instead.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Wait for the four relaxation cues before problem-solving.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mindset shift: see attacks as emotions, not truth; respond with compassion.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Practice builds automaticity; mastery is achievable in ~8–12 weeks.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>These skills scale from prisons to boardrooms and change behavior system-wide.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Self-labeling (silently) stabilizes you during tough meetings.</p>
</li>
<li>Preparation: pre-name likely emotions—yours and theirs—before you enter the room.</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Manage Difficult Conversations &amp; Meetings
The 3-step script to calm angry people (ignore words, read feelings, label)
Episode 273 (Doug is based in California)
In this conversation we explore…


https://dougnoll.com/why decisions are emotional and what that means for leadership credibility


the 92-second reset protocol that calms intense situations fast


a three-step method: ignore words, read emotions, reflect with “you” statements


the brain science behind affect labeling and rapid de-escalation


why “active listening” backfires and how to respond effectively instead


the four relaxation signals that tell you it’s safe to problem-solve


adopting a compassionate mindset to neutralize personal attacks


evidence from prisons to boardrooms proving the method’s transferability


how to prepare for tough meetings with self-labeling and emotion maps


a practical path to mastery in 8–12 weeks with deliberate practice


-----
About our guest, Doug Noll:
Doug was born with a set of difficult disabilities: nearly visually blind, color blind, two club feet, poor teeth, left-handed, and too smart for his own good.
He found his life’s calling at 50 years of age when he left a successful civil trial practice to become a peacemaker, mediator, author, and teacher.
Free Offer: Peace Under Pressure Kit
The kit consists of my De-Escalate Advisor, which is a ChatGPT agent that will help you work through intense emotions, my 4- week online video course Dealing With Anger and Aggression, and an invitation to my free Stop Arguments Cold Skool Community.
Either DM me on LinkedIn or Facebook @douglasnoll on Instagram @douglasenoll with YOUR INTENDED MESSAGE 25.
https://dougnoll.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/dougnoll/
https://www.instagram.com/douglasenoll/
-----
Key learning points:


Emotions drive decisions; treat people as emotional beings first.


The 92-second reset protocol (ignore words, read emotions, reflect with “you” statements) reliably calms people.


Affect labeling interrupts the amygdala and engages executive function.


Avoid “active listening” formulas; use plain “you feel…” reflections instead.


Wait for the four relaxation cues before problem-solving.


Mindset shift: see attacks as emotions, not truth; respond with compassion.


Practice builds automaticity; mastery is achievable in ~8–12 weeks.


These skills scale from prisons to boardrooms and change behavior system-wide.


Self-labeling (silently) stabilizes you during tough meetings.

Preparation: pre-name likely emotions—yours and theirs—before you enter the room.

-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Build trust in business through authentic storytelling
The brand blueprint: how to define values and tell your story
<p>Episode 272  (Deevo is based in Charlotte, NC)</p>
In this conversation we explore…
<ul>
<li>
<p>how to cut through industry noise with a no-fluff branding approach</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why self-discovery is the foundation of personal branding</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of trust and experience in building client relationships</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how authentic storytelling creates emotional connections</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why honesty and vulnerability make you relatable</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of aligning your values with your business story</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why branding is more than visuals—it’s every customer touchpoint</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how personal struggles and pain points can strengthen your brand</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why your story won’t resonate with everyone (and that’s a good thing)</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what qualities make someone an ideal client for branding work</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Deevo Tindal:</p>
<p>Unapologetically Bold – he says what others won’t, and it lands. Personal Brand-First – he helps people build brands rooted in identity, not imitation. No Fluff, All Fire – Real-world experience meets razor-sharp insights you can act on. It’s Not Just a Talk – It’s an experience. One that will shake your audience into clarity.</p>
<p>Ready to learn more or check out his services? Visit <a href='https://www.thebrandstoryteller.com/'>https://www.thebrandstoryteller.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/fusionphotog/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/fusionphotog/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/deevothebrandstoryteller/'>https://www.instagram.com/deevothebrandstoryteller/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ul>
<li>
<p>the no-fluff approach means dropping templates and discovering your unique story</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>personal branding starts with knowing yourself first, not copying others</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>trust is built through intentional client experiences, not just final products</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>authentic storytelling connects emotionally and sets you apart</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>vulnerability and honesty make your brand relatable</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>your values and problem-solving define the heart of your story</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>branding is every touchpoint in the customer journey, not just logos or colors</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>pain points and struggles can strengthen your story if shared with purpose</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>not everyone will resonate with your brand—and that’s okay</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the best clients are purpose-driven, coachable, and ready to share their genius</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Build trust in business through authentic storytelling
The brand blueprint: how to define values and tell your story
<p>Episode 272  (Deevo is based in Charlotte, NC)</p>
In this conversation we explore…
<ul>
<li>
<p>how to cut through industry noise with a no-fluff branding approach</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why self-discovery is the foundation of personal branding</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of trust and experience in building client relationships</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how authentic storytelling creates emotional connections</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why honesty and vulnerability make you relatable</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of aligning your values with your business story</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why branding is more than visuals—it’s every customer touchpoint</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how personal struggles and pain points can strengthen your brand</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why your story won’t resonate with everyone (and that’s a good thing)</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what qualities make someone an ideal client for branding work</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Deevo Tindal:</p>
<p>Unapologetically Bold – he says what others won’t, and it lands. Personal Brand-First – he helps people build brands rooted in identity, not imitation. No Fluff, All Fire – Real-world experience meets razor-sharp insights you can act on. It’s Not Just a Talk – It’s an experience. One that will shake your audience into clarity.</p>
<p>Ready to learn more or check out his services? Visit <a href='https://www.thebrandstoryteller.com/'>https://www.thebrandstoryteller.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/fusionphotog/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/fusionphotog/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/deevothebrandstoryteller/'>https://www.instagram.com/deevothebrandstoryteller/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ul>
<li>
<p>the no-fluff approach means dropping templates and discovering your unique story</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>personal branding starts with knowing yourself first, not copying others</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>trust is built through intentional client experiences, not just final products</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>authentic storytelling connects emotionally and sets you apart</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>vulnerability and honesty make your brand relatable</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>your values and problem-solving define the heart of your story</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>branding is every touchpoint in the customer journey, not just logos or colors</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>pain points and struggles can strengthen your story if shared with purpose</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>not everyone will resonate with your brand—and that’s okay</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the best clients are purpose-driven, coachable, and ready to share their genius</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Build trust in business through authentic storytelling
The brand blueprint: how to define values and tell your story
Episode 272  (Deevo is based in Charlotte, NC)
In this conversation we explore…


how to cut through industry noise with a no-fluff branding approach


why self-discovery is the foundation of personal branding


the role of trust and experience in building client relationships


how authentic storytelling creates emotional connections


why honesty and vulnerability make you relatable


the importance of aligning your values with your business story


why branding is more than visuals—it’s every customer touchpoint


how personal struggles and pain points can strengthen your brand


why your story won’t resonate with everyone (and that’s a good thing)


what qualities make someone an ideal client for branding work


-----
About our guest, Deevo Tindal:
Unapologetically Bold – he says what others won’t, and it lands. Personal Brand-First – he helps people build brands rooted in identity, not imitation. No Fluff, All Fire – Real-world experience meets razor-sharp insights you can act on. It’s Not Just a Talk – It’s an experience. One that will shake your audience into clarity.
Ready to learn more or check out his services? Visit https://www.thebrandstoryteller.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/fusionphotog/
https://www.instagram.com/deevothebrandstoryteller/
-----
Key Learning Points


the no-fluff approach means dropping templates and discovering your unique story


personal branding starts with knowing yourself first, not copying others


trust is built through intentional client experiences, not just final products


authentic storytelling connects emotionally and sets you apart


vulnerability and honesty make your brand relatable


your values and problem-solving define the heart of your story


branding is every touchpoint in the customer journey, not just logos or colors


pain points and struggles can strengthen your story if shared with purpose


not everyone will resonate with your brand—and that’s okay


the best clients are purpose-driven, coachable, and ready to share their genius


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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        <title>Tackle Wicked Challenges with Human Ingenuity: Ken Tencer</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Build Innovation Teams That Thrive in Ambiguity
Human Ingenuity: Clever, Inventive and Fearless Thinking
<p>Episode 271 (Ken is based in the Greater Toronto Area)</p>
In this conversation we explore…
<ul>
<li>
<p>why innovation often stalls in organizations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the difference between innovation, entrepreneurship, and ingenuity</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to measure and manage openness to ambiguity</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why diversity of thought and background is essential for innovation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leadership roles should rotate during the innovation cycle</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why bias is the greatest barrier to new thinking</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of students and external control groups in innovation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the difference between simple, complex, and wicked challenges</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why human ingenuity requires clever, inventive, and fearless thinking</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how the 90% Rule honors the past while pushing toward the future</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Ken Tencer:</p>
<p>Ken is a long time entrepreneur, author and global speaker.</p>
<p>He is completing a doctorate in human ingenuity - clever, inventive an fearless thinking in the faces of wicked challenges (incomplete information, ambiguity, and uncertainty)</p>
<p>Ken works with organizations to help them identify and resolve their wicked challenges, (strategy, team development and tactics). Learn more and contact him at:   <a href='https://sayhitothefuture.ca/'>https://sayhitothefuture.ca/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Innovation requires three dimensions: innovation (process), entrepreneurship (team), and ingenuity (thinking).</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Ambiguity is a core skill: successful innovation teams must measure and embrace tolerance for ambiguity.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Diversity fuels innovation: variety in backgrounds, perspectives, and disciplines prevents groupthink.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leadership should rotate: the right leader shifts depending on the stage of the innovation cycle.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Bias is the biggest barrier: more than money or time, it blocks new thinking.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>External voices help: student or alumni “control groups” bring fresh, unbiased perspectives.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Understand the three challenge types: simple, complex, and wicked — each requires different approaches.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Human ingenuity demands fearlessness: decisions must be made even without certainty.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The 90% Rule: honor the past while pushing forward to the next 10%.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Future readiness means “saying hi to the future”: embracing macro trends, empathy, and new thinking tools.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Build Innovation Teams That Thrive in Ambiguity
Human Ingenuity: Clever, Inventive and Fearless Thinking
<p>Episode 271 (Ken is based in the Greater Toronto Area)</p>
In this conversation we explore…
<ul>
<li>
<p>why innovation often stalls in organizations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the difference between innovation, entrepreneurship, and ingenuity</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to measure and manage openness to ambiguity</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why diversity of thought and background is essential for innovation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leadership roles should rotate during the innovation cycle</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why bias is the greatest barrier to new thinking</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of students and external control groups in innovation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the difference between simple, complex, and wicked challenges</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why human ingenuity requires clever, inventive, and fearless thinking</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how the 90% Rule honors the past while pushing toward the future</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Ken Tencer:</p>
<p>Ken is a long time entrepreneur, author and global speaker.</p>
<p>He is completing a doctorate in human ingenuity - clever, inventive an fearless thinking in the faces of wicked challenges (incomplete information, ambiguity, and uncertainty)</p>
<p>Ken works with organizations to help them identify and resolve their wicked challenges, (strategy, team development and tactics). Learn more and contact him at:   <a href='https://sayhitothefuture.ca/'>https://sayhitothefuture.ca/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Innovation requires three dimensions: innovation (process), entrepreneurship (team), and ingenuity (thinking).</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Ambiguity is a core skill: successful innovation teams must measure and embrace tolerance for ambiguity.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Diversity fuels innovation: variety in backgrounds, perspectives, and disciplines prevents groupthink.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leadership should rotate: the right leader shifts depending on the stage of the innovation cycle.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Bias is the biggest barrier: more than money or time, it blocks new thinking.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>External voices help: student or alumni “control groups” bring fresh, unbiased perspectives.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Understand the three challenge types: simple, complex, and wicked — each requires different approaches.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Human ingenuity demands fearlessness: decisions must be made even without certainty.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The 90% Rule: honor the past while pushing forward to the next 10%.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Future readiness means “saying hi to the future”: embracing macro trends, empathy, and new thinking tools.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Build Innovation Teams That Thrive in Ambiguity
Human Ingenuity: Clever, Inventive and Fearless Thinking
Episode 271 (Ken is based in the Greater Toronto Area)
In this conversation we explore…


why innovation often stalls in organizations


the difference between innovation, entrepreneurship, and ingenuity


how to measure and manage openness to ambiguity


why diversity of thought and background is essential for innovation


how leadership roles should rotate during the innovation cycle


why bias is the greatest barrier to new thinking


the role of students and external control groups in innovation


the difference between simple, complex, and wicked challenges


why human ingenuity requires clever, inventive, and fearless thinking


how the 90% Rule honors the past while pushing toward the future


-----
About our guest, Ken Tencer:
Ken is a long time entrepreneur, author and global speaker.
He is completing a doctorate in human ingenuity - clever, inventive an fearless thinking in the faces of wicked challenges (incomplete information, ambiguity, and uncertainty)
Ken works with organizations to help them identify and resolve their wicked challenges, (strategy, team development and tactics). Learn more and contact him at:   https://sayhitothefuture.ca/
-----
Key Learning Points


Innovation requires three dimensions: innovation (process), entrepreneurship (team), and ingenuity (thinking).


Ambiguity is a core skill: successful innovation teams must measure and embrace tolerance for ambiguity.


Diversity fuels innovation: variety in backgrounds, perspectives, and disciplines prevents groupthink.


Leadership should rotate: the right leader shifts depending on the stage of the innovation cycle.


Bias is the biggest barrier: more than money or time, it blocks new thinking.


External voices help: student or alumni “control groups” bring fresh, unbiased perspectives.


Understand the three challenge types: simple, complex, and wicked — each requires different approaches.


Human ingenuity demands fearlessness: decisions must be made even without certainty.


The 90% Rule: honor the past while pushing forward to the next 10%.


Future readiness means “saying hi to the future”: embracing macro trends, empathy, and new thinking tools.


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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                                    <description><![CDATA[High-Stakes Communication: Lessons for Leaders
From Crisis to Product Launch: Mastering High-Stakes Messaging
<p>Episode 270 (Angela is based in Massachusetts)</p>
In this conversation we explore…
<ul>
<li>
<p>why every business needs a crisis communication plan</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to identify vulnerabilities and prepare for unexpected risks</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why proactive preparation is a positive mindset</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to communicate with honesty, transparency, and values</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why “no comment” often damages credibility</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how high-stakes opportunities like product launches mirror crises</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of aligning launches with brand and values</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>authentic ways to show gratitude to your “stunt team”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how stories help explain, justify, and inspire in high-stakes situations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why customer service and communication plans drive launch success</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest: Angela Betancourt:</p>
<p>Angela is a strategic communications expert with over 20 years of experience across five continents helping business, nonprofits, political leaders and startups clarify and amplify their messages - especially when the stakes are high.</p>
<p>As founder of Betancourt Group she works with purpose-driven organizations that are tackling today's urgent issues.</p>
<p>Learn more about Angela and her services at:</p>
<p><a href='https://groupbetancourt.com/'>https://groupbetancourt.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ul>
<li>
<p>prepare a crisis communication plan before you need it</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>understand your organization’s unique risks and vulnerabilities</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>proactive preparation is positive thinking, not negative</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>avoid “no comment” and lean into honesty and transparency</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>high-stakes opportunities require the same planning as crises</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>align product launches with your brand and values</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>celebrate wins and show authentic gratitude to your “stunt team”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>storytelling makes complex or high-stakes messages relatable</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>origin stories and narratives reinforce purpose and intention</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>communication plans must include both strategy and customer service</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[High-Stakes Communication: Lessons for Leaders
From Crisis to Product Launch: Mastering High-Stakes Messaging
<p>Episode 270 (Angela is based in Massachusetts)</p>
In this conversation we explore…
<ul>
<li>
<p>why every business needs a crisis communication plan</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to identify vulnerabilities and prepare for unexpected risks</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why proactive preparation is a positive mindset</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to communicate with honesty, transparency, and values</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why “no comment” often damages credibility</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how high-stakes opportunities like product launches mirror crises</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of aligning launches with brand and values</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>authentic ways to show gratitude to your “stunt team”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how stories help explain, justify, and inspire in high-stakes situations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why customer service and communication plans drive launch success</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest: Angela Betancourt:</p>
<p>Angela is a strategic communications expert with over 20 years of experience across five continents helping business, nonprofits, political leaders and startups clarify and amplify their messages - especially when the stakes are high.</p>
<p>As founder of Betancourt Group she works with purpose-driven organizations that are tackling today's urgent issues.</p>
<p>Learn more about Angela and her services at:</p>
<p><a href='https://groupbetancourt.com/'>https://groupbetancourt.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ul>
<li>
<p>prepare a crisis communication plan before you need it</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>understand your organization’s unique risks and vulnerabilities</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>proactive preparation is positive thinking, not negative</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>avoid “no comment” and lean into honesty and transparency</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>high-stakes opportunities require the same planning as crises</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>align product launches with your brand and values</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>celebrate wins and show authentic gratitude to your “stunt team”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>storytelling makes complex or high-stakes messages relatable</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>origin stories and narratives reinforce purpose and intention</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>communication plans must include both strategy and customer service</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[High-Stakes Communication: Lessons for Leaders
From Crisis to Product Launch: Mastering High-Stakes Messaging
Episode 270 (Angela is based in Massachusetts)
In this conversation we explore…


why every business needs a crisis communication plan


how to identify vulnerabilities and prepare for unexpected risks


why proactive preparation is a positive mindset


how to communicate with honesty, transparency, and values


why “no comment” often damages credibility


how high-stakes opportunities like product launches mirror crises


the importance of aligning launches with brand and values


authentic ways to show gratitude to your “stunt team”


how stories help explain, justify, and inspire in high-stakes situations


why customer service and communication plans drive launch success


-----
About our guest: Angela Betancourt:
Angela is a strategic communications expert with over 20 years of experience across five continents helping business, nonprofits, political leaders and startups clarify and amplify their messages - especially when the stakes are high.
As founder of Betancourt Group she works with purpose-driven organizations that are tackling today's urgent issues.
Learn more about Angela and her services at:
https://groupbetancourt.com/
-----
Key Learning Points


prepare a crisis communication plan before you need it


understand your organization’s unique risks and vulnerabilities


proactive preparation is positive thinking, not negative


avoid “no comment” and lean into honesty and transparency


high-stakes opportunities require the same planning as crises


align product launches with your brand and values


celebrate wins and show authentic gratitude to your “stunt team”


storytelling makes complex or high-stakes messages relatable


origin stories and narratives reinforce purpose and intention


communication plans must include both strategy and customer service


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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        <title>Sales Success Starts with Mindset: Ashley Beck Cuellar</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Cold Calling in 2025: Strategies That Still Work
Combining Emotional Intelligence with Artificial Intelligence
<p>Episode 269 (Ashley is based in Indianapolis, Indiana)</p>
In this conversation we explore:
<ul>
<li>
<p>how AI can serve as a no-cost, personalized sales coach</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why combining emotional intelligence with artificial intelligence strengthens selling skills</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of reviewing your own sales calls to identify scarcity language and missed questions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to match your outreach method to the customer’s preferred communication style</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why cold calling still works when it’s targeted and respectful</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the fastest way to build trust in the first 30 seconds of a call</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to sustain energy and focus during repetitive outreach</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the strengths introverts and extroverts each bring to sales</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>ways to confidently discuss money by knowing your value</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why mindset, abundance, and intent matter more than scripts or tools</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Ashley Beck Cuellar:</p>
<p>Ashely worked for 17 years selling to car dealers. She believes that natural curiosity is one of the greatest strengths any seller can have.</p>
<p>Learn more about Ashley and the sales workshops at </p>
<p><a href='https://salessparkcoaching.com/'>https://salessparkcoaching.com/</a></p>
<p>The next 6-month sales coaching programs launches in Oct 2025.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>AI can be a personal sales coach</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Analyze your conversations for missed opportunities</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Match your communication channel to the client’s preference</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Cold calling is still effective when done thoughtfully</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Build trust quickly with honesty</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Energy and resilience are critical in high-volume outreach</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Introverts and extroverts bring different strengths to sales</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Confidently discuss pricing by knowing your value</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Clients often need guidance to make the best decision</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mindset shapes sales performance more than tools</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Cold Calling in 2025: Strategies That Still Work
Combining Emotional Intelligence with Artificial Intelligence
<p>Episode 269 (Ashley is based in Indianapolis, Indiana)</p>
In this conversation we explore:
<ul>
<li>
<p>how AI can serve as a no-cost, personalized sales coach</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why combining emotional intelligence with artificial intelligence strengthens selling skills</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of reviewing your own sales calls to identify scarcity language and missed questions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to match your outreach method to the customer’s preferred communication style</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why cold calling still works when it’s targeted and respectful</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the fastest way to build trust in the first 30 seconds of a call</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to sustain energy and focus during repetitive outreach</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the strengths introverts and extroverts each bring to sales</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>ways to confidently discuss money by knowing your value</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why mindset, abundance, and intent matter more than scripts or tools</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Ashley Beck Cuellar:</p>
<p>Ashely worked for 17 years selling to car dealers. She believes that natural curiosity is one of the greatest strengths any seller can have.</p>
<p>Learn more about Ashley and the sales workshops at </p>
<p><a href='https://salessparkcoaching.com/'>https://salessparkcoaching.com/</a></p>
<p>The next 6-month sales coaching programs launches in Oct 2025.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>AI can be a personal sales coach</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Analyze your conversations for missed opportunities</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Match your communication channel to the client’s preference</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Cold calling is still effective when done thoughtfully</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Build trust quickly with honesty</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Energy and resilience are critical in high-volume outreach</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Introverts and extroverts bring different strengths to sales</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Confidently discuss pricing by knowing your value</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Clients often need guidance to make the best decision</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mindset shapes sales performance more than tools</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Cold Calling in 2025: Strategies That Still Work
Combining Emotional Intelligence with Artificial Intelligence
Episode 269 (Ashley is based in Indianapolis, Indiana)
In this conversation we explore:


how AI can serve as a no-cost, personalized sales coach


why combining emotional intelligence with artificial intelligence strengthens selling skills


the importance of reviewing your own sales calls to identify scarcity language and missed questions


how to match your outreach method to the customer’s preferred communication style


why cold calling still works when it’s targeted and respectful


the fastest way to build trust in the first 30 seconds of a call


how to sustain energy and focus during repetitive outreach


the strengths introverts and extroverts each bring to sales


ways to confidently discuss money by knowing your value


why mindset, abundance, and intent matter more than scripts or tools


-----
About our guest, Ashley Beck Cuellar:
Ashely worked for 17 years selling to car dealers. She believes that natural curiosity is one of the greatest strengths any seller can have.
Learn more about Ashley and the sales workshops at 
https://salessparkcoaching.com/
The next 6-month sales coaching programs launches in Oct 2025.
-----
Key Learning Points


AI can be a personal sales coach


Analyze your conversations for missed opportunities


Match your communication channel to the client’s preference


Cold calling is still effective when done thoughtfully


Build trust quickly with honesty


Energy and resilience are critical in high-volume outreach


Introverts and extroverts bring different strengths to sales


Confidently discuss pricing by knowing your value


Clients often need guidance to make the best decision


Mindset shapes sales performance more than tools


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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        <title>Resourcefulness, Resilience &amp; Collaboration: Mitch Weisburgh</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Stop Your Brain from Sabotaging Your Happiness and Success
Mind Shifting for Leaders: Building Teams That Solve Complex Problems
<p>Episode 268 (Mitch is based in New York State)</p>
In This Conversation We Explore…
<ul>
<li>
<p>how cultural values shape communication and decision-making</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the hidden “lies” that societies accept and how they influence relationships</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why the survival brain reacts faster than the resourceful brain</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what “Part X” is and how it sabotages growth</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the difference between simple, complicated, and complex problems</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to build resilience by experimenting instead of seeking one perfect answer</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why collaboration depends on flexibility in conflict resolution</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the four strategies to move from survival mode to resourceful mode</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the five powers of the resourceful mind and how to use them</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mitch’s mission to teach 5 million people resourcefulness, resilience, and collaboration</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our Guest, Mitchell Weisburgh:</p>
<p>Mitchell is creator of the Mind Shifting Method, a practical brain-based system built from neuroscience, cognitive psychology, and leadership strategy. He helps entrepreneurs, executives, and coaches rewire their internal operating systems — so they can lead, decide, and scale without burning out.</p>
<p>Learn more about Mind Shifting and how Mitch can help you and your team at:</p>
<p><a href='https://www.mindshiftingwithmitch.com/'>https://www.mindshiftingwithmitch.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://mindshiftingwithmitch.blog/'>https://mindshiftingwithmitch.blog/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Cultural norms shape communication—including acceptable “lies” people tell.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The brain’s survival mode reacts instantly and often overrides resourceful thinking.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Part X—the inner critic—tries to keep us “safe” by discouraging change.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Resourcefulness comes from tapping into the creative, empathetic, and executive functions of the brain.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Resilience is about navigating uncertainty, not finding one “right” answer.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Collaboration requires understanding conflict styles and using flexibility, not force.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Recognizing when you’re in survival mode is the first step to shifting your mindset.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Positive self-talk works best when it’s curious and open-ended, not cheerleader-style.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Distraction and trusted allies can help you reset from emotional overload.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The five powers of the resourceful mind—empathy, exploration, innovation, navigate, and focused action—help guide better decisions.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Stop Your Brain from Sabotaging Your Happiness and Success
Mind Shifting for Leaders: Building Teams That Solve Complex Problems
<p>Episode 268 (Mitch is based in New York State)</p>
In This Conversation We Explore…
<ul>
<li>
<p>how cultural values shape communication and decision-making</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the hidden “lies” that societies accept and how they influence relationships</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why the survival brain reacts faster than the resourceful brain</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what “Part X” is and how it sabotages growth</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the difference between simple, complicated, and complex problems</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to build resilience by experimenting instead of seeking one perfect answer</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why collaboration depends on flexibility in conflict resolution</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the four strategies to move from survival mode to resourceful mode</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the five powers of the resourceful mind and how to use them</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mitch’s mission to teach 5 million people resourcefulness, resilience, and collaboration</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our Guest, Mitchell Weisburgh:</p>
<p>Mitchell is creator of the Mind Shifting Method, a practical brain-based system built from neuroscience, cognitive psychology, and leadership strategy. He helps entrepreneurs, executives, and coaches rewire their internal operating systems — so they can lead, decide, and scale without burning out.</p>
<p>Learn more about Mind Shifting and how Mitch can help you and your team at:</p>
<p><a href='https://www.mindshiftingwithmitch.com/'>https://www.mindshiftingwithmitch.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://mindshiftingwithmitch.blog/'>https://mindshiftingwithmitch.blog/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Cultural norms shape communication—including acceptable “lies” people tell.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The brain’s survival mode reacts instantly and often overrides resourceful thinking.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Part X—the inner critic—tries to keep us “safe” by discouraging change.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Resourcefulness comes from tapping into the creative, empathetic, and executive functions of the brain.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Resilience is about navigating uncertainty, not finding one “right” answer.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Collaboration requires understanding conflict styles and using flexibility, not force.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Recognizing when you’re in survival mode is the first step to shifting your mindset.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Positive self-talk works best when it’s curious and open-ended, not cheerleader-style.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Distraction and trusted allies can help you reset from emotional overload.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The five powers of the resourceful mind—empathy, exploration, innovation, navigate, and focused action—help guide better decisions.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://superiorpresentations.net/'>https://superiorpresentations.net/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Stop Your Brain from Sabotaging Your Happiness and Success
Mind Shifting for Leaders: Building Teams That Solve Complex Problems
Episode 268 (Mitch is based in New York State)
In This Conversation We Explore…


how cultural values shape communication and decision-making


the hidden “lies” that societies accept and how they influence relationships


why the survival brain reacts faster than the resourceful brain


what “Part X” is and how it sabotages growth


the difference between simple, complicated, and complex problems


how to build resilience by experimenting instead of seeking one perfect answer


why collaboration depends on flexibility in conflict resolution


the four strategies to move from survival mode to resourceful mode


the five powers of the resourceful mind and how to use them


Mitch’s mission to teach 5 million people resourcefulness, resilience, and collaboration


-----
About our Guest, Mitchell Weisburgh:
Mitchell is creator of the Mind Shifting Method, a practical brain-based system built from neuroscience, cognitive psychology, and leadership strategy. He helps entrepreneurs, executives, and coaches rewire their internal operating systems — so they can lead, decide, and scale without burning out.
Learn more about Mind Shifting and how Mitch can help you and your team at:
https://www.mindshiftingwithmitch.com/
https://mindshiftingwithmitch.blog/
-----
Key Learning Points


Cultural norms shape communication—including acceptable “lies” people tell.


The brain’s survival mode reacts instantly and often overrides resourceful thinking.


Part X—the inner critic—tries to keep us “safe” by discouraging change.


Resourcefulness comes from tapping into the creative, empathetic, and executive functions of the brain.


Resilience is about navigating uncertainty, not finding one “right” answer.


Collaboration requires understanding conflict styles and using flexibility, not force.


Recognizing when you’re in survival mode is the first step to shifting your mindset.


Positive self-talk works best when it’s curious and open-ended, not cheerleader-style.


Distraction and trusted allies can help you reset from emotional overload.


The five powers of the resourceful mind—empathy, exploration, innovation, navigate, and focused action—help guide better decisions.


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://superiorpresentations.net/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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        <title>Craft Stories that Sell: Danny Brassel</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Secret to Memorable Presentations
Be Funny without Offending: Self-Deprecating Humor
<p>Episode 267 (Danny is based in Denver, Colorado)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Danny Brassel we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how to instantly connect with your audience using relatability, authority, and purpose</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why storytelling beats bullet points for memorability and emotional connection</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to mine everyday experiences for meaningful stories that support your message</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why self-deprecating humor is the safest and most effective form of humor in today’s culture</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how sharing personal failures builds stronger trust and audience rapport than bragging</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how business leaders can use storytelling to boost team morale and alignment</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why sad stories must have a hopeful ending to avoid emotional manipulation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to balance facts and feelings to reach both logical and emotional audience members</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of a single clear call to action at the end of your presentation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to structure your talk using the 5C framework: Clarity, Connect, Content, Call to Action, and Close</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Danny Brassel:</p>
<p>A speaker, trainer and coach known as “Jim Carrey with a Ph.D.,” Dr. Danny Brassell (<a href='http://www.dannybrassell.com'>www.DannyBrassell.com</a>) has spoken to over 3,500 audiences worldwide. </p>
<p>He has authored 18 books, including Leadership Begins with Motivation and Misfits and Crackpots. The co-founder of The WellCrafted Story Workshop™, Danny helps entrepreneurs, individuals and organizations leverage speaking on stages as a client lead-source that converts. </p>
<p>Get your free copy of the Storytelling Blueprint <a href='https://wellcraftedstoryworkshop.com/blueprint'>https://wellcraftedstoryworkshop.com/blueprint</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
💡 Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Open strong with R.A.P. – Build connection in the first five minutes by being Relatable, demonstrating Authority, and declaring your Purpose.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Stories beat slides. – People remember stories, not bullet points. Use storytelling to make your message stick and drive action.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>You already have great stories. – Everyday experiences—even small, silly, or embarrassing ones—can become powerful presentation tools when reframed with purpose.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Self-deprecating humor is the safest humor. – When you laugh at yourself, you make the audience comfortable, avoid offending anyone, and build trust.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Your failures build credibility. – Audiences connect more with your struggles than your successes. Vulnerability creates relatability.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Sad stories need hopeful endings. – A story without a resolution leaves the audience emotionally stuck. If you use a heavy story, resolve it with a positive outcome.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Be helpful, not just impressive. – Demonstrating usefulness—even with small tips—builds goodwill and long-term trust.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>One clear call to action is essential. – Don’t overwhelm your audience with options. Give them a single, clear next step.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Appeal to both logic and emotion. – Speak to the “Joe Fridays” (fact-driven) and “Julia Roberts” (feeling-driven) in your audience for maximum engagement.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Training must be ongoing. – A one-day workshop isn’t enough. Repetition and coaching are necessary to truly master effective communication.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Secret to Memorable Presentations
Be Funny without Offending: Self-Deprecating Humor
<p>Episode 267 (Danny is based in Denver, Colorado)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Danny Brassel we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how to instantly connect with your audience using relatability, authority, and purpose</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why storytelling beats bullet points for memorability and emotional connection</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to mine everyday experiences for meaningful stories that support your message</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why self-deprecating humor is the safest and most effective form of humor in today’s culture</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how sharing personal failures builds stronger trust and audience rapport than bragging</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how business leaders can use storytelling to boost team morale and alignment</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why sad stories must have a hopeful ending to avoid emotional manipulation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to balance facts and feelings to reach both logical and emotional audience members</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the importance of a single clear call to action at the end of your presentation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to structure your talk using the 5C framework: Clarity, Connect, Content, Call to Action, and Close</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Danny Brassel:</p>
<p>A speaker, trainer and coach known as “Jim Carrey with a Ph.D.,” Dr. Danny Brassell (<a href='http://www.dannybrassell.com'>www.DannyBrassell.com</a>) has spoken to over 3,500 audiences worldwide. </p>
<p>He has authored 18 books, including <em>Leadership Begins with Motivation</em> and <em>Misfits and Crackpots</em>. The co-founder of The WellCrafted Story Workshop™, Danny helps entrepreneurs, individuals and organizations leverage speaking on stages as a client lead-source that converts. </p>
<p>Get your free copy of the Storytelling Blueprint <a href='https://wellcraftedstoryworkshop.com/blueprint'>https://wellcraftedstoryworkshop.com/blueprint</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
💡 Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Open strong with R.A.P. – Build connection in the first five minutes by being Relatable, demonstrating Authority, and declaring your Purpose.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Stories beat slides. – People remember stories, not bullet points. Use storytelling to make your message stick and drive action.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>You already have great stories. – Everyday experiences—even small, silly, or embarrassing ones—can become powerful presentation tools when reframed with purpose.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Self-deprecating humor is the safest humor. – When you laugh at yourself, you make the audience comfortable, avoid offending anyone, and build trust.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Your failures build credibility. – Audiences connect more with your struggles than your successes. Vulnerability creates relatability.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Sad stories need hopeful endings. – A story without a resolution leaves the audience emotionally stuck. If you use a heavy story, resolve it with a positive outcome.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Be helpful, not just impressive. – Demonstrating usefulness—even with small tips—builds goodwill and long-term trust.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>One clear call to action is essential. – Don’t overwhelm your audience with options. Give them a single, clear next step.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Appeal to both logic and emotion. – Speak to the “Joe Fridays” (fact-driven) and “Julia Roberts” (feeling-driven) in your audience for maximum engagement.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Training must be ongoing. – A one-day workshop isn’t enough. Repetition and coaching are necessary to truly master effective communication.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Secret to Memorable Presentations
Be Funny without Offending: Self-Deprecating Humor
Episode 267 (Danny is based in Denver, Colorado)
In this conversation with Danny Brassel we explore:


how to instantly connect with your audience using relatability, authority, and purpose


why storytelling beats bullet points for memorability and emotional connection


how to mine everyday experiences for meaningful stories that support your message


why self-deprecating humor is the safest and most effective form of humor in today’s culture


how sharing personal failures builds stronger trust and audience rapport than bragging


how business leaders can use storytelling to boost team morale and alignment


why sad stories must have a hopeful ending to avoid emotional manipulation


how to balance facts and feelings to reach both logical and emotional audience members


the importance of a single clear call to action at the end of your presentation


how to structure your talk using the 5C framework: Clarity, Connect, Content, Call to Action, and Close


-----
About our guest, Danny Brassel:
A speaker, trainer and coach known as “Jim Carrey with a Ph.D.,” Dr. Danny Brassell (www.DannyBrassell.com) has spoken to over 3,500 audiences worldwide. 
He has authored 18 books, including Leadership Begins with Motivation and Misfits and Crackpots. The co-founder of The WellCrafted Story Workshop™, Danny helps entrepreneurs, individuals and organizations leverage speaking on stages as a client lead-source that converts. 
Get your free copy of the Storytelling Blueprint https://wellcraftedstoryworkshop.com/blueprint
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💡 Key Learning Points


Open strong with R.A.P. – Build connection in the first five minutes by being Relatable, demonstrating Authority, and declaring your Purpose.


Stories beat slides. – People remember stories, not bullet points. Use storytelling to make your message stick and drive action.


You already have great stories. – Everyday experiences—even small, silly, or embarrassing ones—can become powerful presentation tools when reframed with purpose.


Self-deprecating humor is the safest humor. – When you laugh at yourself, you make the audience comfortable, avoid offending anyone, and build trust.


Your failures build credibility. – Audiences connect more with your struggles than your successes. Vulnerability creates relatability.


Sad stories need hopeful endings. – A story without a resolution leaves the audience emotionally stuck. If you use a heavy story, resolve it with a positive outcome.


Be helpful, not just impressive. – Demonstrating usefulness—even with small tips—builds goodwill and long-term trust.


One clear call to action is essential. – Don’t overwhelm your audience with options. Give them a single, clear next step.


Appeal to both logic and emotion. – Speak to the “Joe Fridays” (fact-driven) and “Julia Roberts” (feeling-driven) in your audience for maximum engagement.


Training must be ongoing. – A one-day workshop isn’t enough. Repetition and coaching are necessary to truly master effective communication.


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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
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        <title>Rank Your Network and get on the Starting Lineup: Donnie Boivin</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Fix What's Broken with Traditional Networking
Replace Referrals with Introductions to Build Your Business
<p>Episode 266 (Donnie is based in Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Donnie Boivin we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why the traditional rules of networking fail in the B2B space</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to eliminate the pitch and still make meaningful connections</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to use LinkedIn QR codes instead of business cards</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what it means to rank your network and why it matters</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to earn a trusted spot on someone’s “starting lineup”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the power of introductions vs. referrals</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to use targeted questions to unlock valuable connections</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what types of professionals are best suited as referral partners</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to use a simple five-word intro to start real conversations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the mindset shift from “get a client” to “be a connector”</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Donnie Boivin:</p>
<p>Donnie started his company at age 40 and was selected for the 40 under 40 list. </p>
<p>He is founder of Success Champion Networking, an online community for serious networkers. <a href='https://successchampionnetworking.com/'>https://successchampionnetworking.com/</a></p>
<p>He is producer of the Bad Ass Business Summit</p>
<p><a href='https://badassbusinesssummit.com/'>https://badassbusinesssummit.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Traditional networking is broken: Most networking advice is based on transactional sales models that don’t apply to modern B2B relationships.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Ditch the business cards and 30-second pitch: These old-school tools no longer serve professionals focused on building real business relationships.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Use technology to connect smartly: Tools like LinkedIn QR codes help maintain control of your contacts and avoid spam.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Your goal isn’t clients—it’s introductions: Real success comes from building relationships with synergistic partners who already sell to your ideal clients.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Rank your network strategically: Donnie’s 4-tier system helps you identify who’s worth nurturing and who’s just noise.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Earn your spot on the ‘starting lineup’: Become the go-to person for strategic partners by opening doors for them first.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Ask better questions at events: Questions like “How did you get into what you do?” lead to meaningful conversations.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Be specific when describing your ideal partner: Help others help you by clearly identifying who you want to meet and why.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Make introductions, not referrals: Introductions are easier, lower-pressure, and can generate more opportunities in the long run.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Network for synergy, not sales: The most powerful connections come from mutual support between professionals with shared clientele but no competition.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Fix What's Broken with Traditional Networking
Replace Referrals with Introductions to Build Your Business
<p>Episode 266 (Donnie is based in Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Donnie Boivin we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>why the traditional rules of networking fail in the B2B space</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to eliminate the pitch and still make meaningful connections</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to use LinkedIn QR codes instead of business cards</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what it means to rank your network and why it matters</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to earn a trusted spot on someone’s “starting lineup”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the power of introductions vs. referrals</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to use targeted questions to unlock valuable connections</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>what types of professionals are best suited as referral partners</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to use a simple five-word intro to start real conversations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the mindset shift from “get a client” to “be a connector”</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Donnie Boivin:</p>
<p>Donnie started his company at age 40 and was selected for the 40 under 40 list. </p>
<p>He is founder of Success Champion Networking, an online community for serious networkers. <a href='https://successchampionnetworking.com/'>https://successchampionnetworking.com/</a></p>
<p>He is producer of the Bad Ass Business Summit</p>
<p><a href='https://badassbusinesssummit.com/'>https://badassbusinesssummit.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Traditional networking is broken: Most networking advice is based on transactional sales models that don’t apply to modern B2B relationships.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Ditch the business cards and 30-second pitch: These old-school tools no longer serve professionals focused on building real business relationships.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Use technology to connect smartly: Tools like LinkedIn QR codes help maintain control of your contacts and avoid spam.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Your goal isn’t clients—it’s introductions: Real success comes from building relationships with synergistic partners who already sell to your ideal clients.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Rank your network strategically: Donnie’s 4-tier system helps you identify who’s worth nurturing and who’s just noise.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Earn your spot on the ‘starting lineup’: Become the go-to person for strategic partners by opening doors for them first.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Ask better questions at events: Questions like “How did you get into what you do?” lead to meaningful conversations.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Be specific when describing your ideal partner: Help others help you by clearly identifying who you want to meet and why.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Make introductions, not referrals: Introductions are easier, lower-pressure, and can generate more opportunities in the long run.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Network for synergy, not sales: The most powerful connections come from mutual support between professionals with shared clientele but no competition.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Fix What's Broken with Traditional Networking
Replace Referrals with Introductions to Build Your Business
Episode 266 (Donnie is based in Texas)
In this conversation with Donnie Boivin we explore:


why the traditional rules of networking fail in the B2B space


how to eliminate the pitch and still make meaningful connections


how to use LinkedIn QR codes instead of business cards


what it means to rank your network and why it matters


how to earn a trusted spot on someone’s “starting lineup”


the power of introductions vs. referrals


how to use targeted questions to unlock valuable connections


what types of professionals are best suited as referral partners


how to use a simple five-word intro to start real conversations


the mindset shift from “get a client” to “be a connector”


-----
About our guest, Donnie Boivin:
Donnie started his company at age 40 and was selected for the 40 under 40 list. 
He is founder of Success Champion Networking, an online community for serious networkers. https://successchampionnetworking.com/
He is producer of the Bad Ass Business Summit
https://badassbusinesssummit.com/
-----
Key Lessons from this conversation:


Traditional networking is broken: Most networking advice is based on transactional sales models that don’t apply to modern B2B relationships.


Ditch the business cards and 30-second pitch: These old-school tools no longer serve professionals focused on building real business relationships.


Use technology to connect smartly: Tools like LinkedIn QR codes help maintain control of your contacts and avoid spam.


Your goal isn’t clients—it’s introductions: Real success comes from building relationships with synergistic partners who already sell to your ideal clients.


Rank your network strategically: Donnie’s 4-tier system helps you identify who’s worth nurturing and who’s just noise.


Earn your spot on the ‘starting lineup’: Become the go-to person for strategic partners by opening doors for them first.


Ask better questions at events: Questions like “How did you get into what you do?” lead to meaningful conversations.


Be specific when describing your ideal partner: Help others help you by clearly identifying who you want to meet and why.


Make introductions, not referrals: Introductions are easier, lower-pressure, and can generate more opportunities in the long run.


Network for synergy, not sales: The most powerful connections come from mutual support between professionals with shared clientele but no competition.


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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        <title>Recognize Your Communication Blind Spots: Diana Fritz</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Stop Hiding Your Flaws—Use Them to Lead
One-Eyed Wisdom: Using Your Flaws to Connect with Others
<p>Episode 265 (Diana is based in Florida)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Diana Fritz we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how Diana uses her literal blind spot to teach about communication blind spots</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why vulnerability builds stronger connections in leadership and teams</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how DISC profiles reveal communication styles and hidden friction</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>strategies to adjust your communication style by reading body language and tone</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how reflection and journaling help leaders reframe adversity and recharge</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the difference between being people-focused vs task-focused in communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how Diana’s cancer journey helped her discover her purpose, not her limit</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>ways to help team members feel seen, heard, and supported—beyond the task</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to coach others to discover their own blind spots through guided questions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why it’s better to be refined by challenges than defined by them</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Diana Fritz:</p>
<p>Diana is author of "Uniquely Imperfect, Uniquely Qualified" which can can find on Amazon and where fine books are sold.</p>
<p>Diana lost her left eye to cancer and leverages her difference to emphasize how to reveal and use our flaws to connect with others and lead authentically.</p>
To learn more and arrange Coaching or Team Workshops  - Navigating Adversity with DISC Communication &amp; Teamwork - Connect with Diana on  or her <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/diana-fritz-b032064/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/diana-fritz-b032064/</a>
website at <a href='http://www.grituiuq.com/'>www.grituiuq.com</a>
-----
 
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>transparency builds trust and invites others to open up</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>everyone has communication blind spots—some are visible, others hidden</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>leaders grow when they admit their weaknesses and build systems to support them</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>DISC profiles help teams understand personality-driven behavior differences</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>vulnerability and authenticity are tools for influence, not weaknesses</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>reading body language and listening are key to adapting communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>daily reflection helps leaders grow from challenges, not just survive them</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>communication is not one-size-fits-all—it must be customized to the listener</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>your physical or emotional scars can become powerful conversation starters</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>reframing adversity can turn pain into purpose and fuel growth</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Stop Hiding Your Flaws—Use Them to Lead
One-Eyed Wisdom: Using Your Flaws to Connect with Others
<p>Episode 265 (Diana is based in Florida)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Diana Fritz we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>how Diana uses her literal blind spot to teach about communication blind spots</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why vulnerability builds stronger connections in leadership and teams</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how DISC profiles reveal communication styles and hidden friction</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>strategies to adjust your communication style by reading body language and tone</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how reflection and journaling help leaders reframe adversity and recharge</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the difference between being people-focused vs task-focused in communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how Diana’s cancer journey helped her discover her purpose, not her limit</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>ways to help team members feel seen, heard, and supported—beyond the task</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to coach others to discover their own blind spots through guided questions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why it’s better to be refined by challenges than defined by them</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Diana Fritz:</p>
<p>Diana is author of "Uniquely Imperfect, Uniquely Qualified" which can can find on Amazon and where fine books are sold.</p>
<p>Diana lost her left eye to cancer and leverages her difference to emphasize how to reveal and use our flaws to connect with others and lead authentically.</p>
To learn more and arrange Coaching or Team Workshops  - Navigating Adversity with DISC Communication &amp; Teamwork - Connect with Diana on  or her <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/diana-fritz-b032064/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/diana-fritz-b032064/</a>
website at <a href='http://www.grituiuq.com/'>www.grituiuq.com</a>
-----
 
<p>Key Lessons from this conversation:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>transparency builds trust and invites others to open up</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>everyone has communication blind spots—some are visible, others hidden</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>leaders grow when they admit their weaknesses and build systems to support them</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>DISC profiles help teams understand personality-driven behavior differences</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>vulnerability and authenticity are tools for influence, not weaknesses</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>reading body language and listening are key to adapting communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>daily reflection helps leaders grow from challenges, not just survive them</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>communication is not one-size-fits-all—it must be customized to the listener</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>your physical or emotional scars can become powerful conversation starters</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>reframing adversity can turn pain into purpose and fuel growth</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Stop Hiding Your Flaws—Use Them to Lead
One-Eyed Wisdom: Using Your Flaws to Connect with Others
Episode 265 (Diana is based in Florida)
In this conversation with Diana Fritz we explore:


how Diana uses her literal blind spot to teach about communication blind spots


why vulnerability builds stronger connections in leadership and teams


how DISC profiles reveal communication styles and hidden friction


strategies to adjust your communication style by reading body language and tone


how reflection and journaling help leaders reframe adversity and recharge


the difference between being people-focused vs task-focused in communication


how Diana’s cancer journey helped her discover her purpose, not her limit


ways to help team members feel seen, heard, and supported—beyond the task


how to coach others to discover their own blind spots through guided questions


why it’s better to be refined by challenges than defined by them


-----
About our guest, Diana Fritz:
Diana is author of "Uniquely Imperfect, Uniquely Qualified" which can can find on Amazon and where fine books are sold.
Diana lost her left eye to cancer and leverages her difference to emphasize how to reveal and use our flaws to connect with others and lead authentically.
To learn more and arrange Coaching or Team Workshops  - Navigating Adversity with DISC Communication &amp; Teamwork - Connect with Diana on  or her https://www.linkedin.com/in/diana-fritz-b032064/
website at www.grituiuq.com
-----
 
Key Lessons from this conversation:


transparency builds trust and invites others to open up


everyone has communication blind spots—some are visible, others hidden


leaders grow when they admit their weaknesses and build systems to support them


DISC profiles help teams understand personality-driven behavior differences


vulnerability and authenticity are tools for influence, not weaknesses


reading body language and listening are key to adapting communication


daily reflection helps leaders grow from challenges, not just survive them


communication is not one-size-fits-all—it must be customized to the listener


your physical or emotional scars can become powerful conversation starters


reframing adversity can turn pain into purpose and fuel growth


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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        <title>Charisma, The Science of Influence &amp; Connection:  Richard Reid</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to Create Psychological Safety in Your Team
From Ego to Empathy: Reframing Executive Presence
<p>Episode 264 (Richard is based in South Africa)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Richard Reid we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>the true meaning of charisma and why it’s more about how others feel than how you appear</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of psychological safety in building trust, influence, and innovation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why self-awareness is the foundation of authentic leadership</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how emotional leakage can sabotage your message and your team culture</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>strategies to reset your internal state between meetings for greater presence</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders can communicate calm during crises through deliberate body language and speech</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the power of micro-habits to improve energy, confidence, and communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how reflection and journaling enhance resilience and leadership effectiveness</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>practical routines to prevent burnout and show up as your best self</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders can foster a growth mindset and create space for others to shine</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Richard Reid:</p>
<p>Richard is the author of "Charisma Unlocked: The Science and Strategy to Captivate, Influence and Succeed in Business".</p>
<p>He was Chief People Officer at a global law firm. He is from the UK and now lives in South Africa.</p>
<p>Learn more about his Masterclasses and coaching at</p>
<p><a href='https://richard-reid.com/live-events/charisma-workshops/'>https://richard-reid.com/live-events/charisma-workshops/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this conversation:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Charisma is about how others feel, not how impressive you appear.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Psychological safety is central to charisma and effective leadership.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Charisma starts with self-awareness and managing your internal world.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Reflective routines enhance emotional regulation and presence.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Effective communication means seeing others as individuals, not objects.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>In a crisis, calm leadership is conveyed through body language and vocal control.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leaders need to be intentional with their energy and meeting schedules.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Small micro-habits, like breathing or posture resets, have a big impact.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>True charisma is sustainable and rooted in authenticity, not performance.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Teams thrive when members feel safe to express themselves and fail forward.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to Create Psychological Safety in Your Team
From Ego to Empathy: Reframing Executive Presence
<p>Episode 264 (Richard is based in South Africa)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Richard Reid we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>the true meaning of charisma and why it’s more about how others feel than how you appear</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the role of psychological safety in building trust, influence, and innovation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why self-awareness is the foundation of authentic leadership</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how emotional leakage can sabotage your message and your team culture</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>strategies to reset your internal state between meetings for greater presence</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders can communicate calm during crises through deliberate body language and speech</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the power of micro-habits to improve energy, confidence, and communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how reflection and journaling enhance resilience and leadership effectiveness</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>practical routines to prevent burnout and show up as your best self</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders can foster a growth mindset and create space for others to shine</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Richard Reid:</p>
<p>Richard is the author of "Charisma Unlocked: The Science and Strategy to Captivate, Influence and Succeed in Business".</p>
<p>He was Chief People Officer at a global law firm. He is from the UK and now lives in South Africa.</p>
<p>Learn more about his Masterclasses and coaching at</p>
<p><a href='https://richard-reid.com/live-events/charisma-workshops/'>https://richard-reid.com/live-events/charisma-workshops/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this conversation:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Charisma is about how others feel, not how impressive you appear.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Psychological safety is central to charisma and effective leadership.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Charisma starts with self-awareness and managing your internal world.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Reflective routines enhance emotional regulation and presence.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Effective communication means seeing others as individuals, not objects.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>In a crisis, calm leadership is conveyed through body language and vocal control.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leaders need to be intentional with their energy and meeting schedules.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Small micro-habits, like breathing or posture resets, have a big impact.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>True charisma is sustainable and rooted in authenticity, not performance.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Teams thrive when members feel safe to express themselves and fail forward.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to Create Psychological Safety in Your Team
From Ego to Empathy: Reframing Executive Presence
Episode 264 (Richard is based in South Africa)
In this conversation with Richard Reid we explore:


the true meaning of charisma and why it’s more about how others feel than how you appear


the role of psychological safety in building trust, influence, and innovation


why self-awareness is the foundation of authentic leadership


how emotional leakage can sabotage your message and your team culture


strategies to reset your internal state between meetings for greater presence


how leaders can communicate calm during crises through deliberate body language and speech


the power of micro-habits to improve energy, confidence, and communication


how reflection and journaling enhance resilience and leadership effectiveness


practical routines to prevent burnout and show up as your best self


how leaders can foster a growth mindset and create space for others to shine


-----
About our guest, Richard Reid:
Richard is the author of "Charisma Unlocked: The Science and Strategy to Captivate, Influence and Succeed in Business".
He was Chief People Officer at a global law firm. He is from the UK and now lives in South Africa.
Learn more about his Masterclasses and coaching at
https://richard-reid.com/live-events/charisma-workshops/
-----
Key lessons from this conversation:


Charisma is about how others feel, not how impressive you appear.


Psychological safety is central to charisma and effective leadership.


Charisma starts with self-awareness and managing your internal world.


Reflective routines enhance emotional regulation and presence.


Effective communication means seeing others as individuals, not objects.


In a crisis, calm leadership is conveyed through body language and vocal control.


Leaders need to be intentional with their energy and meeting schedules.


Small micro-habits, like breathing or posture resets, have a big impact.


True charisma is sustainable and rooted in authenticity, not performance.


Teams thrive when members feel safe to express themselves and fail forward.


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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        <title>Agile Communication Creates Competitive Edge: Meaghan Benjamin</title>
        <itunes:title>Agile Communication Creates Competitive Edge: Meaghan Benjamin</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Help Your Audience Listen Better
Why Curiosity Is the Key to Connection and Leadership
<p>Episode 263 (Meaghan is based in Chicago)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Meaghan Benjamin we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>The difference between credibility and rapport — and why both matter in leadership.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How communication habits are formed and the importance of adapting them.</p>
</li>
<li> </li>
<li>
<p>What it means to practice agile communication in today’s digital world.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How curiosity fosters connection, learning, and innovation.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why tone, gestures, and delivery shape how others receive your message.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to use the Know–Feel–Do framework to craft more persuasive messages.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Ways to build fast rapport in emotionally or professionally high-stakes settings.</p>
</li>
<li>The four levels of listening and how to move conversations to a deeper level.</li>
<li>
<p>How to help your audience become better listeners by how you speak.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The challenge and opportunity of virtual communication for modern professionals.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Meaghan Kane Benjamin:</p>
Meaghan holds a master’s in Speech and Hearing Science and Psychology from THE Ohio State University
 
She’s the CEO and Co-Founder of Studio Reinvent, where she co-developed the Agile Communication™ methodology which brings science of communication and the art of showing up  to transform how leaders connect, influence, and inspire.
 
You can learn more about her program at <a href='https://www.studioreinvent.com/'>https://www.studioreinvent.com/</a>
-----
Key Lessons from this conversation:

<ul>
<li>
<p>Credibility vs Rapport</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Rapport creates emotional connection; credibility is built by consistent follow-through.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Communication as Habit + Adaptability</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Effective communication adapts to the context and people involved.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Agile Communication Framework</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>A methodology based on science, systems thinking, and storytelling.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Power of Curiosity</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Authentic curiosity drives rapport, empathy, and innovation.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Tone Is More Than Words</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Tone, gestures, and expression shape how your message is received.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Know-Feel-Do Framework</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Define what you want the audience to know, feel, and do. Let the "feel" and "do" guide your messaging.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Build Rapport Fast in High-Stakes Moments</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Especially in healthcare and business pitches, rapport often matters more than content volume.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Listening as a Shared Responsibility</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>It's not just about being a better speaker — help others become better listeners too.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Four Levels of Listening</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>From small talk (Level 1) to generative collaboration (Level 4).</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Virtual Communication Challenges</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>With screens reducing non-verbal cues, intentional delivery matters more than ever.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>

<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Help Your Audience Listen Better
Why Curiosity Is the Key to Connection and Leadership
<p>Episode 263 (Meaghan is based in Chicago)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Meaghan Benjamin we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>The difference between credibility and rapport — and why both matter in leadership.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How communication habits are formed and the importance of adapting them.</p>
</li>
<li> </li>
<li>
<p>What it means to practice agile communication in today’s digital world.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How curiosity fosters connection, learning, and innovation.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why tone, gestures, and delivery shape how others receive your message.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to use the Know–Feel–Do framework to craft more persuasive messages.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Ways to build fast rapport in emotionally or professionally high-stakes settings.</p>
</li>
<li>The four levels of listening and how to move conversations to a deeper level.</li>
<li>
<p>How to help your audience become better listeners by how you speak.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The challenge and opportunity of virtual communication for modern professionals.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Meaghan Kane Benjamin:</p>
Meaghan holds a master’s in Speech and Hearing Science and Psychology from THE Ohio State University
 
She’s the CEO and Co-Founder of Studio Reinvent, where she co-developed the Agile Communication™ methodology which brings science of communication and the art of showing up  to transform how leaders connect, influence, and inspire.
 
You can learn more about her program at <a href='https://www.studioreinvent.com/'>https://www.studioreinvent.com/</a>
-----
Key Lessons from this conversation:

<ul>
<li>
<p>Credibility vs Rapport</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Rapport creates emotional connection; credibility is built by consistent follow-through.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Communication as Habit + Adaptability</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Effective communication adapts to the context and people involved.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Agile Communication Framework</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>A methodology based on science, systems thinking, and storytelling.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Power of Curiosity</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Authentic curiosity drives rapport, empathy, and innovation.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Tone Is More Than Words</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Tone, gestures, and expression shape how your message is received.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Know-Feel-Do Framework</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Define what you want the audience to know, feel, and do. Let the "feel" and "do" guide your messaging.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Build Rapport Fast in High-Stakes Moments</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Especially in healthcare and business pitches, rapport often matters more than content volume.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Listening as a Shared Responsibility</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>It's not just about being a better speaker — help others become better listeners too.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Four Levels of Listening</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>From small talk (Level 1) to generative collaboration (Level 4).</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Virtual Communication Challenges</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>With screens reducing non-verbal cues, intentional delivery matters more than ever.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>

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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Help Your Audience Listen Better
Why Curiosity Is the Key to Connection and Leadership
Episode 263 (Meaghan is based in Chicago)
In this conversation with Meaghan Benjamin we explore:


The difference between credibility and rapport — and why both matter in leadership.


How communication habits are formed and the importance of adapting them.

 

What it means to practice agile communication in today’s digital world.


How curiosity fosters connection, learning, and innovation.


Why tone, gestures, and delivery shape how others receive your message.


How to use the Know–Feel–Do framework to craft more persuasive messages.


Ways to build fast rapport in emotionally or professionally high-stakes settings.

The four levels of listening and how to move conversations to a deeper level.

How to help your audience become better listeners by how you speak.


The challenge and opportunity of virtual communication for modern professionals.


-----
About our guest, Meaghan Kane Benjamin:
Meaghan holds a master’s in Speech and Hearing Science and Psychology from THE Ohio State University
 
She’s the CEO and Co-Founder of Studio Reinvent, where she co-developed the Agile Communication™ methodology which brings science of communication and the art of showing up  to transform how leaders connect, influence, and inspire.
 
You can learn more about her program at https://www.studioreinvent.com/
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Key Lessons from this conversation:



Credibility vs Rapport


Rapport creates emotional connection; credibility is built by consistent follow-through.




Communication as Habit + Adaptability


Effective communication adapts to the context and people involved.




Agile Communication Framework


A methodology based on science, systems thinking, and storytelling.




The Power of Curiosity


Authentic curiosity drives rapport, empathy, and innovation.




Tone Is More Than Words


Tone, gestures, and expression shape how your message is received.




The Know-Feel-Do Framework


Define what you want the audience to know, feel, and do. Let the "feel" and "do" guide your messaging.




Build Rapport Fast in High-Stakes Moments


Especially in healthcare and business pitches, rapport often matters more than content volume.




Listening as a Shared Responsibility


It's not just about being a better speaker — help others become better listeners too.




Four Levels of Listening


From small talk (Level 1) to generative collaboration (Level 4).




Virtual Communication Challenges


With screens reducing non-verbal cues, intentional delivery matters more than ever.




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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/

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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to Ask Better Questions Without Saying "Why?"
Stakeholder Whispering: Secret to Better Communication
<p>Episode 262 (Bill is based in New Mexico)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Bill Shander we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>How to uncover what your stakeholders really need—beyond what they ask for</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why your first idea is often just an automated response</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to apply the Socratic method to guide people toward their own insight</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why asking “why” directly can feel hostile, and what to say instead</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The power of “chunky segmentation” to clarify vague communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to balance divergent and convergent questions to get to the truth</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>What aporia means—and why a little confusion leads to breakthrough thinking</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why your visuals must reflect meaning, not just style</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>When and how AI can support visual storytelling and insight</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why it’s crucial to practice stakeholder whispering on yourself first</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Bill Shander:</p>
<p>Bill has been teaching data storytelling and visualization for about 10 years for clients around the world and on on Linkedin Learning.</p>
<p>He is the author of "Stakeholder Whispering: Uncover What People Need Before Doing What they Ask"</p>
<p>You can find his book here:<a href='https://www.amazon.com/Stakeholder-Whisperer-Uncovering-People-Before/dp/1394289529/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3PXU4RCPGX4B&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.d-9Arj1RUIjKe7gYRM8StdAoY2oSqfsmOCg24f9q2N4.pQxFMhEkllkp-wd7_BEmxo16WiMxmlmr-pm--o1hnbM&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=Bill+Shander&amp;qid=1743946662&amp;s=books&amp;sprefix=bill+shander%2Cstripbooks%2C133&amp;sr=1-1'> Stakeholder Whispering</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this conversation:</p>
1. Most stakeholders don’t know what they really need.
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Stakeholder requests are often surface-level assumptions, not true needs. Your job is to dig deeper.</p>
</li>
</ul>

2. Your first idea is usually just an automated response.
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Pause before acting. The first idea might be convenient, but often lacks strategic depth.</p>
</li>
</ul>

3. Use Socratic questioning to help people uncover their own truth.
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Ask layered questions to lead stakeholders into self-awareness rather than handing them answers.</p>
</li>
</ul>

4. Avoid hostile “why” questions—ask with curiosity instead.
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Reframe your language: say “Tell me more about…” instead of “Why did you do that?”</p>
</li>
</ul>

5. Translate ambiguous requests using “chunky segmentation.”
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Break vague statements (e.g., “We do masterclasses”) into discrete elements to clarify meaning.</p>
</li>
</ul>

6. Push stakeholders into a state of puzzlement (aporia).
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Confusion can be a productive step toward clarity—help stakeholders get there.</p>
</li>
</ul>

7. Visuals are communication tools—not just decoration.
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Choose visuals based on the real message, not just what’s easy to draw.</p>
</li>
</ul>

8. AI is a helpful partner, but only if you know your message.
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Tools like AI are only effective after you’ve clarified your intent and message.</p>
</li>
</ul>

9. Leaders should hire people who push back.
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Order-takers may be efficient, but real innovation comes from collaborators who challenge assumptions.</p>
</li>
</ul>

10. Practice stakeholder whispering on yourself first.
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Self-questioning sharpens your ability to lead others through discovery and insight.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to Ask Better Questions Without Saying "Why?"
Stakeholder Whispering: Secret to Better Communication
<p>Episode 262 (Bill is based in New Mexico)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Bill Shander we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>How to uncover what your stakeholders really need—beyond what they ask for</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why your first idea is often just an automated response</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to apply the Socratic method to guide people toward their own insight</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why asking “why” directly can feel hostile, and what to say instead</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The power of “chunky segmentation” to clarify vague communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to balance divergent and convergent questions to get to the truth</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>What aporia means—and why a little confusion leads to breakthrough thinking</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why your visuals must reflect meaning, not just style</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>When and how AI can support visual storytelling and insight</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why it’s crucial to practice stakeholder whispering on yourself first</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Bill Shander:</p>
<p>Bill has been teaching data storytelling and visualization for about 10 years for clients around the world and on on Linkedin Learning.</p>
<p>He is the author of "Stakeholder Whispering: Uncover What People Need Before Doing What they Ask"</p>
<p>You can find his book here:<a href='https://www.amazon.com/Stakeholder-Whisperer-Uncovering-People-Before/dp/1394289529/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3PXU4RCPGX4B&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.d-9Arj1RUIjKe7gYRM8StdAoY2oSqfsmOCg24f9q2N4.pQxFMhEkllkp-wd7_BEmxo16WiMxmlmr-pm--o1hnbM&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=Bill+Shander&amp;qid=1743946662&amp;s=books&amp;sprefix=bill+shander%2Cstripbooks%2C133&amp;sr=1-1'> Stakeholder Whispering</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this conversation:</p>
1. Most stakeholders don’t know what they really need.
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Stakeholder requests are often surface-level assumptions, not true needs. Your job is to dig deeper.</p>
</li>
</ul>

2. Your first idea is usually just an automated response.
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Pause before acting. The first idea might be convenient, but often lacks strategic depth.</p>
</li>
</ul>

3. Use Socratic questioning to help people uncover their own truth.
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Ask layered questions to lead stakeholders into self-awareness rather than handing them answers.</p>
</li>
</ul>

4. Avoid hostile “why” questions—ask with curiosity instead.
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Reframe your language: say “Tell me more about…” instead of “Why did you do that?”</p>
</li>
</ul>

5. Translate ambiguous requests using “chunky segmentation.”
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Break vague statements (e.g., “We do masterclasses”) into discrete elements to clarify meaning.</p>
</li>
</ul>

6. Push stakeholders into a state of puzzlement (aporia).
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Confusion can be a productive step toward clarity—help stakeholders get there.</p>
</li>
</ul>

7. Visuals are communication tools—not just decoration.
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Choose visuals based on the <em>real message</em>, not just what’s easy to draw.</p>
</li>
</ul>

8. AI is a helpful partner, but only if you know your message.
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Tools like AI are only effective after you’ve clarified your intent and message.</p>
</li>
</ul>

9. Leaders should hire people who push back.
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Order-takers may be efficient, but real innovation comes from collaborators who challenge assumptions.</p>
</li>
</ul>

10. Practice stakeholder whispering on yourself first.
<ul>
<li>
<p>Insight: Self-questioning sharpens your ability to lead others through discovery and insight.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to Ask Better Questions Without Saying "Why?"
Stakeholder Whispering: Secret to Better Communication
Episode 262 (Bill is based in New Mexico)
In this conversation with Bill Shander we explore:


How to uncover what your stakeholders really need—beyond what they ask for


Why your first idea is often just an automated response


How to apply the Socratic method to guide people toward their own insight


Why asking “why” directly can feel hostile, and what to say instead


The power of “chunky segmentation” to clarify vague communication


How to balance divergent and convergent questions to get to the truth


What aporia means—and why a little confusion leads to breakthrough thinking


Why your visuals must reflect meaning, not just style


When and how AI can support visual storytelling and insight


Why it’s crucial to practice stakeholder whispering on yourself first


-----
About our guest, Bill Shander:
Bill has been teaching data storytelling and visualization for about 10 years for clients around the world and on on Linkedin Learning.
He is the author of "Stakeholder Whispering: Uncover What People Need Before Doing What they Ask"
You can find his book here: Stakeholder Whispering
-----
Key lessons from this conversation:
1. Most stakeholders don’t know what they really need.


Insight: Stakeholder requests are often surface-level assumptions, not true needs. Your job is to dig deeper.



2. Your first idea is usually just an automated response.


Insight: Pause before acting. The first idea might be convenient, but often lacks strategic depth.



3. Use Socratic questioning to help people uncover their own truth.


Insight: Ask layered questions to lead stakeholders into self-awareness rather than handing them answers.



4. Avoid hostile “why” questions—ask with curiosity instead.


Insight: Reframe your language: say “Tell me more about…” instead of “Why did you do that?”



5. Translate ambiguous requests using “chunky segmentation.”


Insight: Break vague statements (e.g., “We do masterclasses”) into discrete elements to clarify meaning.



6. Push stakeholders into a state of puzzlement (aporia).


Insight: Confusion can be a productive step toward clarity—help stakeholders get there.



7. Visuals are communication tools—not just decoration.


Insight: Choose visuals based on the real message, not just what’s easy to draw.



8. AI is a helpful partner, but only if you know your message.


Insight: Tools like AI are only effective after you’ve clarified your intent and message.



9. Leaders should hire people who push back.


Insight: Order-takers may be efficient, but real innovation comes from collaborators who challenge assumptions.



10. Practice stakeholder whispering on yourself first.


Insight: Self-questioning sharpens your ability to lead others through discovery and insight.


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How Video Builds Trust and Your Bottom Line
How CEOs can Build Authentic Person Brands that Attract Opportunity
<p>Episode 261 (Alan is based in Oakville, Ontario)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Alan McClaren we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>the power of authentic personal branding for CEOs and business leaders</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how a Brand DNA session transforms fear into clarity and confidence</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why video is the most scalable and trustworthy communication tool today</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how personal stories build trust and eliminate competition</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the mindset shift from curated perfection to authentic communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why executives have a responsibility to share their insights publicly</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the step-by-step process of personal branding through content strategy</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders can batch-create video content efficiently</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the real ROI of personal branding: leads, partnerships, and visibility</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to avoid the trap of hiding behind a logo and start showing up online</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Alan McClaren:</p>
<p>Alan is a personal branding expert and co-founder of STRATA Originals. He was CEO of marketing agency - InfinityComm. He's a long time member and officer of Young Presidents' Organization, YPO.</p>
<p>Learn more about STRATA Originals at: <a href='https://strataoriginals.com/'>https://strataoriginals.com/</a></p>
<p>Get your free worksheet to clarify your personal brand: <a href='https://strataoriginals.com/elevate-your-brand-1'>https://strataoriginals.com/elevate-your-brand-1</a></p>
<p>Connect with Alan on Linkedin <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanmclaren/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanmclaren/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this Conversation with Alan McClaren:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Everyone Has a Personal Brand—Most Just Aren’t Leveraging It</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Brand DNA Is the First Step to Unlocking Personal Clarity</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Video Is the Most Authentic and Scalable Communication Medium</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Personal Branding Is About Giving, Not Performing</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Executives Have a Responsibility to Share Their Wisdom Publicly</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Your Story Is Your Protection—No One Can Argue With Lived Experience</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Posting Video Content Builds Trust Before the First Conversation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>You Can Batch Video to Make It Easier and More Efficient</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>You Don't Need to Be Perfect—You Need to Be You</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leaders Who Share Their Perspective Attract More Opportunity</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How Video Builds Trust and Your Bottom Line
How CEOs can Build Authentic Person Brands that Attract Opportunity
<p>Episode 261 (Alan is based in Oakville, Ontario)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Alan McClaren we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>the power of authentic personal branding for CEOs and business leaders</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how a Brand DNA session transforms fear into clarity and confidence</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why video is the most scalable and trustworthy communication tool today</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how personal stories build trust and eliminate competition</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the mindset shift from curated perfection to authentic communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>why executives have a responsibility to share their insights publicly</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the step-by-step process of personal branding through content strategy</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how leaders can batch-create video content efficiently</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>the real ROI of personal branding: leads, partnerships, and visibility</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>how to avoid the trap of hiding behind a logo and start showing up online</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Alan McClaren:</p>
<p>Alan is a personal branding expert and co-founder of STRATA Originals. He was CEO of marketing agency - InfinityComm. He's a long time member and officer of Young Presidents' Organization, YPO.</p>
<p>Learn more about STRATA Originals at: <a href='https://strataoriginals.com/'>https://strataoriginals.com/</a></p>
<p>Get your free worksheet to clarify your personal brand: <a href='https://strataoriginals.com/elevate-your-brand-1'>https://strataoriginals.com/elevate-your-brand-1</a></p>
<p>Connect with Alan on Linkedin <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanmclaren/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanmclaren/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Lessons from this Conversation with Alan McClaren:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Everyone Has a Personal Brand—Most Just Aren’t Leveraging It</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Brand DNA Is the First Step to Unlocking Personal Clarity</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Video Is the Most Authentic and Scalable Communication Medium</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Personal Branding Is About Giving, Not Performing</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Executives Have a Responsibility to Share Their Wisdom Publicly</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Your Story Is Your Protection—No One Can Argue With Lived Experience</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Posting Video Content Builds Trust Before the First Conversation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>You Can Batch Video to Make It Easier and More Efficient</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>You Don't Need to Be Perfect—You Need to Be You</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leaders Who Share Their Perspective Attract More Opportunity</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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How CEOs can Build Authentic Person Brands that Attract Opportunity
Episode 261 (Alan is based in Oakville, Ontario)
In this conversation with Alan McClaren we explore:


the power of authentic personal branding for CEOs and business leaders


how a Brand DNA session transforms fear into clarity and confidence


why video is the most scalable and trustworthy communication tool today


how personal stories build trust and eliminate competition


the mindset shift from curated perfection to authentic communication


why executives have a responsibility to share their insights publicly


the step-by-step process of personal branding through content strategy


how leaders can batch-create video content efficiently


the real ROI of personal branding: leads, partnerships, and visibility


how to avoid the trap of hiding behind a logo and start showing up online


-----
About our guest, Alan McClaren:
Alan is a personal branding expert and co-founder of STRATA Originals. He was CEO of marketing agency - InfinityComm. He's a long time member and officer of Young Presidents' Organization, YPO.
Learn more about STRATA Originals at: https://strataoriginals.com/
Get your free worksheet to clarify your personal brand: https://strataoriginals.com/elevate-your-brand-1
Connect with Alan on Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/alanmclaren/
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Key Lessons from this Conversation with Alan McClaren:


Everyone Has a Personal Brand—Most Just Aren’t Leveraging It


Brand DNA Is the First Step to Unlocking Personal Clarity


Video Is the Most Authentic and Scalable Communication Medium


Personal Branding Is About Giving, Not Performing


Executives Have a Responsibility to Share Their Wisdom Publicly


Your Story Is Your Protection—No One Can Argue With Lived Experience


Posting Video Content Builds Trust Before the First Conversation


You Can Batch Video to Make It Easier and More Efficient


You Don't Need to Be Perfect—You Need to Be You


Leaders Who Share Their Perspective Attract More Opportunity


-----
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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Inside-Out vs. Outside-In Marketing
<p>Episode 260 (James is based in California)</p>
<p>In this conversation with James Hipkin we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>The difference between inside-out and outside-in marketing—and why it matters.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why empathy is a marketer’s most powerful asset.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to design a website that confirms, not converts.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The fatal flaw in “call to action” and what to say instead.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to create “people like you” pathways for segmented audiences.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The power of micro-transactions to build trust and drive decisions.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The six elements your homepage must deliver in under six seconds.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to leverage testimonials and trust signals effectively.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The real value of SEO: understanding search intent.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How AI can build customer avatars and journey maps affordably.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why many marketing efforts fail due to lack of clear strategy and measurement.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About out guest, James Hipkin:</p>
<p>James has worked in marketing and advertising for over 40 years. His clients included Sprint, Apple, Nestle, Toyota and Wells Fargo online bank.</p>
<p>Since 2010 James has helped his client build business with digital marketing. He's the author of "Journey to Success: Digital Marketing for Small Business Owners"</p>
<p>You can take arrange for your website audit at</p>
<p><a href='https://inn8ly.com/six-second-website-audit/'>sixsecondsorless.com</a></p>
<p>Learn more about his marketing services at <a href='https://inn8ly.com/'>https://inn8ly.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this conversation with James:</p>
1. Empathy is the Core of Great Marketing
<ul>
<li>
<p>Learning Point: Effective marketers must understand their audience’s emotions, struggles, and perspective</p>
</li>
</ul>

2. Marketing Should Be Outside-In, Not Inside-Out
<ul>
<li>
<p>Learning Point: Focus on the customer’s needs, not your own accolades.</p>
</li>
</ul>

3. Websites Are for Confirmation, Not Just Conversion
<ul>
<li>
<p>Learning Point: A visitor comes to confirm if you understand their problem—not to be sold instantly.</p>
</li>
</ul>

4. Replace 'Call to Action' with 'People Like You Pathways'
<ul>
<li>
<p>Learning Point: Invite users into their own journey instead of shouting instructions</p>
</li>
</ul>

5. Design Websites Around Micro-Transactions
<ul>
<li>
<p>Learning Point: Every click, visual, and copy element should build trust incrementally.</p>
</li>
</ul>

6. Your Hero Section Must Do Five Things in Six Seconds
<ul>
<li>
<p>Learning Point: In 6 seconds or less, your website must confirm identity, state benefit, show credibility, offer clear navigation, and deliver easy-to-consume content.</p>
</li>
</ul>

7. Testimonials and Credibility Should Be Visible Upfront
<ul>
<li>
<p>Learning Point: Place a compelling testimonial or credibility bar near the top of the page.</p>
</li>
</ul>

8. SEO is Not Dead — It’s Misunderstood
<ul>
<li>
<p>Learning Point: SEO helps you understand search intent more than rank your site.</p>
</li>
</ul>

9. Use AI to Build Customer Avatars and Journey Maps
<ul>
<li>
<p>Learning Point: AI can help generate data-driven insights at a fraction of traditional research costs.</p>
</li>
</ul>

10. Measure What You Do — Or You’re Just Guessing
<ul>
<li>
<p>Learning Point: Without strategy, planning, and measurement, marketing efforts collapse.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Instead of Call-to-Action Do this
Inside-Out vs. Outside-In Marketing
<p>Episode 260 (James is based in California)</p>
<p>In this conversation with James Hipkin we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>The difference between inside-out and outside-in marketing—and why it matters.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why empathy is a marketer’s most powerful asset.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to design a website that confirms, not converts.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The fatal flaw in “call to action” and what to say instead.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to create “people like you” pathways for segmented audiences.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The power of micro-transactions to build trust and drive decisions.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The six elements your homepage must deliver in under six seconds.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to leverage testimonials and trust signals effectively.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The real value of SEO: understanding search intent.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How AI can build customer avatars and journey maps affordably.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why many marketing efforts fail due to lack of clear strategy and measurement.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About out guest, James Hipkin:</p>
<p>James has worked in marketing and advertising for over 40 years. His clients included Sprint, Apple, Nestle, Toyota and Wells Fargo online bank.</p>
<p>Since 2010 James has helped his client build business with digital marketing. He's the author of "Journey to Success: Digital Marketing for Small Business Owners"</p>
<p>You can take arrange for your website audit at</p>
<p><a href='https://inn8ly.com/six-second-website-audit/'>sixsecondsorless.com</a></p>
<p>Learn more about his marketing services at <a href='https://inn8ly.com/'>https://inn8ly.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key lessons from this conversation with James:</p>
1. Empathy is the Core of Great Marketing
<ul>
<li>
<p><em>Learning Point:</em> Effective marketers must understand their audience’s emotions, struggles, and perspective</p>
</li>
</ul>

2. Marketing Should Be Outside-In, Not Inside-Out
<ul>
<li>
<p><em>Learning Point:</em> Focus on the customer’s needs, not your own accolades.</p>
</li>
</ul>

3. Websites Are for Confirmation, Not Just Conversion
<ul>
<li>
<p><em>Learning Point:</em> A visitor comes to confirm if you understand their problem—not to be sold instantly.</p>
</li>
</ul>

4. Replace 'Call to Action' with 'People Like You Pathways'
<ul>
<li>
<p><em>Learning Point:</em> Invite users into their own journey instead of shouting instructions</p>
</li>
</ul>

5. Design Websites Around Micro-Transactions
<ul>
<li>
<p><em>Learning Point:</em> Every click, visual, and copy element should build trust incrementally.</p>
</li>
</ul>

6. Your Hero Section Must Do Five Things in Six Seconds
<ul>
<li>
<p><em>Learning Point:</em> In 6 seconds or less, your website must confirm identity, state benefit, show credibility, offer clear navigation, and deliver easy-to-consume content.</p>
</li>
</ul>

7. Testimonials and Credibility Should Be Visible Upfront
<ul>
<li>
<p><em>Learning Point:</em> Place a compelling testimonial or credibility bar near the top of the page.</p>
</li>
</ul>

8. SEO is Not Dead — It’s Misunderstood
<ul>
<li>
<p><em>Learning Point:</em> SEO helps you understand search intent more than rank your site.</p>
</li>
</ul>

9. Use AI to Build Customer Avatars and Journey Maps
<ul>
<li>
<p><em>Learning Point:</em> AI can help generate data-driven insights at a fraction of traditional research costs.</p>
</li>
</ul>

10. Measure What You Do — Or You’re Just Guessing
<ul>
<li>
<p><em>Learning Point:</em> Without strategy, planning, and measurement, marketing efforts collapse.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Instead of Call-to-Action Do this
Inside-Out vs. Outside-In Marketing
Episode 260 (James is based in California)
In this conversation with James Hipkin we explore:


The difference between inside-out and outside-in marketing—and why it matters.


Why empathy is a marketer’s most powerful asset.


How to design a website that confirms, not converts.


The fatal flaw in “call to action” and what to say instead.


How to create “people like you” pathways for segmented audiences.


The power of micro-transactions to build trust and drive decisions.


The six elements your homepage must deliver in under six seconds.


How to leverage testimonials and trust signals effectively.


The real value of SEO: understanding search intent.


How AI can build customer avatars and journey maps affordably.


Why many marketing efforts fail due to lack of clear strategy and measurement.


-----
About out guest, James Hipkin:
James has worked in marketing and advertising for over 40 years. His clients included Sprint, Apple, Nestle, Toyota and Wells Fargo online bank.
Since 2010 James has helped his client build business with digital marketing. He's the author of "Journey to Success: Digital Marketing for Small Business Owners"
You can take arrange for your website audit at
sixsecondsorless.com
Learn more about his marketing services at https://inn8ly.com/
-----
Key lessons from this conversation with James:
1. Empathy is the Core of Great Marketing


Learning Point: Effective marketers must understand their audience’s emotions, struggles, and perspective



2. Marketing Should Be Outside-In, Not Inside-Out


Learning Point: Focus on the customer’s needs, not your own accolades.



3. Websites Are for Confirmation, Not Just Conversion


Learning Point: A visitor comes to confirm if you understand their problem—not to be sold instantly.



4. Replace 'Call to Action' with 'People Like You Pathways'


Learning Point: Invite users into their own journey instead of shouting instructions



5. Design Websites Around Micro-Transactions


Learning Point: Every click, visual, and copy element should build trust incrementally.



6. Your Hero Section Must Do Five Things in Six Seconds


Learning Point: In 6 seconds or less, your website must confirm identity, state benefit, show credibility, offer clear navigation, and deliver easy-to-consume content.



7. Testimonials and Credibility Should Be Visible Upfront


Learning Point: Place a compelling testimonial or credibility bar near the top of the page.



8. SEO is Not Dead — It’s Misunderstood


Learning Point: SEO helps you understand search intent more than rank your site.



9. Use AI to Build Customer Avatars and Journey Maps


Learning Point: AI can help generate data-driven insights at a fraction of traditional research costs.



10. Measure What You Do — Or You’re Just Guessing


Learning Point: Without strategy, planning, and measurement, marketing efforts collapse.


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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Transform your Networking Mindset from Sales to Service
<p>Episode 259 (Michael is based near Atlanta)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ol>
<li>Why networking should focus on giving rather than receiving.</li>
<li>
<p>How to build trust through active listening.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The FORM method to start conversations naturally.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to practice introductions and grow more confident.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why handwritten thank you notes boost your response rates.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to prepare yourself mentally for networking events.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to use your CRM to build real relationships.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to politely redirect a conversation when someone won’t stop talking.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How Michael’s military experience shaped his leadership and networking approach.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to empower employees and turn them into networking ambassadors.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Michael A. Forman:</p>
<p>Author of the book, Networking Unleashed: Mastering the art of Networking and host of the podcast by the same name.</p>
<p>He's a veteran of the US Air Force and served in Desert Storm.</p>
<p>Learn more about his book and take his digital course at </p>
<p><a href='https://www.michaelaforman.com/'> https://www.michaelaforman.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>📌 Key Learning Points</p>
<ol>
<li>
<p>Networking is about giving, not just receiving.
Michael emphasizes a servant’s heart approach—helping others first without immediate expectations.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Active listening builds trust.
Listening means not planning your reply but really hearing the other person.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Memorable introductions create connection.
Practice making introductions personal and genuine—mention something specific about each person.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Use the FORM method for conversations.
FORM = Family, Occupation, Recreation, Message—it’s a reliable framework to get others talking comfortably.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Handwritten thank you notes have huge impact.
They significantly increase response rates compared to just an email follow-up.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Networking is a skill that requires practice.
Confidence and memory improve over time by consistently introducing others and engaging actively.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Keep track of contacts and conversations.
Use a CRM and note key details from conversations to build real relationships.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How you prepare matters.
Practice conversation openers in front of a mirror, use compliments to start conversations, and smile—even if it’s a “fake” smile at first!</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Know when to politely interrupt.
If someone won’t stop talking, find a respectful way to redirect or pause the conversation.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Military experience shaped Michael’s leadership and networking style.
Building trust and respect in the military laid the foundation for his networking skills.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Networking for Introverts: Break the Ice Confidently
Transform your Networking Mindset from Sales to Service
<p>Episode 259 (Michael is based near Atlanta)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ol>
<li>Why networking should focus on giving rather than receiving.</li>
<li>
<p>How to build trust through active listening.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The FORM method to start conversations naturally.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to practice introductions and grow more confident.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why handwritten thank you notes boost your response rates.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to prepare yourself mentally for networking events.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to use your CRM to build real relationships.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to politely redirect a conversation when someone won’t stop talking.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How Michael’s military experience shaped his leadership and networking approach.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to empower employees and turn them into networking ambassadors.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Michael A. Forman:</p>
<p>Author of the book, Networking Unleashed: Mastering the art of Networking and host of the podcast by the same name.</p>
<p>He's a veteran of the US Air Force and served in Desert Storm.</p>
<p>Learn more about his book and take his digital course at </p>
<p><a href='https://www.michaelaforman.com/'> https://www.michaelaforman.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>📌 Key Learning Points</p>
<ol>
<li>
<p>Networking is about giving, not just receiving.<br>
Michael emphasizes a <em>servant’s heart</em> approach—helping others first without immediate expectations.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Active listening builds trust.<br>
Listening means not planning your reply but <em>really hearing</em> the other person.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Memorable introductions create connection.<br>
Practice making introductions personal and genuine—mention something specific about each person.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Use the FORM method for conversations.<br>
FORM = Family, Occupation, Recreation, Message—it’s a reliable framework to get others talking comfortably.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Handwritten thank you notes have huge impact.<br>
They significantly increase response rates compared to just an email follow-up.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Networking is a skill that requires practice.<br>
Confidence and memory improve over time by consistently introducing others and engaging actively.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Keep track of contacts and conversations.<br>
Use a CRM and note key details from conversations to build real relationships.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How you prepare matters.<br>
Practice conversation openers in front of a mirror, use compliments to start conversations, and smile—even if it’s a “fake” smile at first!</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Know when to politely interrupt.<br>
If someone won’t stop talking, find a respectful way to redirect or pause the conversation.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Military experience shaped Michael’s leadership and networking style.<br>
Building trust and respect in the military laid the foundation for his networking skills.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Networking for Introverts: Break the Ice Confidently
Transform your Networking Mindset from Sales to Service
Episode 259 (Michael is based near Atlanta)
In this conversation we explore:

Why networking should focus on giving rather than receiving.

How to build trust through active listening.


The FORM method to start conversations naturally.


How to practice introductions and grow more confident.


Why handwritten thank you notes boost your response rates.


How to prepare yourself mentally for networking events.


How to use your CRM to build real relationships.


How to politely redirect a conversation when someone won’t stop talking.


How Michael’s military experience shaped his leadership and networking approach.


How to empower employees and turn them into networking ambassadors.


-----
About our guest Michael A. Forman:
Author of the book, Networking Unleashed: Mastering the art of Networking and host of the podcast by the same name.
He's a veteran of the US Air Force and served in Desert Storm.
Learn more about his book and take his digital course at 
 https://www.michaelaforman.com/
-----
📌 Key Learning Points


Networking is about giving, not just receiving.Michael emphasizes a servant’s heart approach—helping others first without immediate expectations.


Active listening builds trust.Listening means not planning your reply but really hearing the other person.


Memorable introductions create connection.Practice making introductions personal and genuine—mention something specific about each person.


Use the FORM method for conversations.FORM = Family, Occupation, Recreation, Message—it’s a reliable framework to get others talking comfortably.


Handwritten thank you notes have huge impact.They significantly increase response rates compared to just an email follow-up.


Networking is a skill that requires practice.Confidence and memory improve over time by consistently introducing others and engaging actively.


Keep track of contacts and conversations.Use a CRM and note key details from conversations to build real relationships.


How you prepare matters.Practice conversation openers in front of a mirror, use compliments to start conversations, and smile—even if it’s a “fake” smile at first!


Know when to politely interrupt.If someone won’t stop talking, find a respectful way to redirect or pause the conversation.


Military experience shaped Michael’s leadership and networking style.Building trust and respect in the military laid the foundation for his networking skills.


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Vocal Confidence: The Hidden Key to Leadership
Voice Training Tips for Team Leaders and Executives
<p>Episode 258 (Tina is based in Florida)</p>
In this conversation we explore…
<ul>
<li>
<p>…why voice pitch influences leadership credibility and income.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how vocal qualities like tempo and sonority affect trust.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…the cultural biases and perceptions surrounding vocal fry.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how to warm up your voice quickly and effectively before a speech.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…why tempo is the #1 indicator of confidence and credibility.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how authors can decide whether to narrate their own audiobook.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…the current limitations and ethical concerns of AI-narrated audiobooks.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how singing and vocal exercises can improve vocal performance.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how to be more curious and less judgmental in conversations.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…what new leaders should do to gain trust and assess team dynamics.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Tina Dietz:</p>
<p>Tina Dietz has launched two companies which have been disrupting the audiobook and publishing industries. Check them out at</p>
<p><a href='https://twinflamesstudios.com/'>https://twinflamesstudios.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.alembicpress.com/'>https://www.alembicpress.com/</a></p>
<p>You can listen to the monthly expert panels for nonfiction authors and publishing pros <a href='https://twinflamesstudios.com/panels/'>https://twinflamesstudios.com/panels/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Lower Pitch = Higher Trust</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Deeper voices are culturally associated with leadership and credibility.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>CEOs with lower voices earned $180,000 more annually on average.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Voice Is a Thumbprint of Identity</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>We recognize people more by voice than face in many contexts.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Self-perception of our voice often misaligns with how others hear it.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Tempo Indicates Confidence</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Comfortable pacing and controlled breathing signal authority.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Speaking too fast or slow undermines credibility.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Vocal Fry Carries Cultural Baggage</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Once linked with lack of credibility, now more accepted.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>May stem from women lowering voices to be taken seriously.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Warm-Ups Improve Vocal Quality</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Breathing, facial massage, yawning, and tongue twisters can reduce tension and increase sonority.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Confidence Can Be Trained</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Singing, vocal exercises, and throat relaxation build vocal presence.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Apps like Vocal Image use AI to measure improvements.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Narrating Your Audiobook? It Depends</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Quality trumps personal voice unless you're skilled and comfortable.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>75% of Tina’s clients successfully narrate their own books with guidance.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>AI Audio Narration Isn’t Ready Yet</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Quality and rights issues persist with AI narration tools.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Human narration still dominates in credibility and listener preference.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Curiosity Beats Judgment</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Openness invites understanding and reduces defensiveness.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Phrases like “Tell me more” and “Let’s explore that” build connection.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>New Leaders Should Lead with Listening</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Assess team culture before imposing change.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Start with questions, not assumptions.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ol>
<p>----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Vocal Confidence: The Hidden Key to Leadership
Voice Training Tips for Team Leaders and Executives
<p>Episode 258 (Tina is based in Florida)</p>
In this conversation we explore…
<ul>
<li>
<p>…why voice pitch influences leadership credibility and income.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how vocal qualities like tempo and sonority affect trust.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…the cultural biases and perceptions surrounding vocal fry.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how to warm up your voice quickly and effectively before a speech.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…why tempo is the #1 indicator of confidence and credibility.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how authors can decide whether to narrate their own audiobook.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…the current limitations and ethical concerns of AI-narrated audiobooks.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how singing and vocal exercises can improve vocal performance.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how to be more curious and less judgmental in conversations.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…what new leaders should do to gain trust and assess team dynamics.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Tina Dietz:</p>
<p>Tina Dietz has launched two companies which have been disrupting the audiobook and publishing industries. Check them out at</p>
<p><a href='https://twinflamesstudios.com/'>https://twinflamesstudios.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.alembicpress.com/'>https://www.alembicpress.com/</a></p>
<p>You can listen to the monthly expert panels for nonfiction authors and publishing pros <a href='https://twinflamesstudios.com/panels/'>https://twinflamesstudios.com/panels/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Lower Pitch = Higher Trust</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Deeper voices are culturally associated with leadership and credibility.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>CEOs with lower voices earned $180,000 more annually on average.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Voice Is a Thumbprint of Identity</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>We recognize people more by voice than face in many contexts.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Self-perception of our voice often misaligns with how others hear it.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Tempo Indicates Confidence</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Comfortable pacing and controlled breathing signal authority.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Speaking too fast or slow undermines credibility.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Vocal Fry Carries Cultural Baggage</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Once linked with lack of credibility, now more accepted.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>May stem from women lowering voices to be taken seriously.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Warm-Ups Improve Vocal Quality</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Breathing, facial massage, yawning, and tongue twisters can reduce tension and increase sonority.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Confidence Can Be Trained</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Singing, vocal exercises, and throat relaxation build vocal presence.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Apps like <em>Vocal Image</em> use AI to measure improvements.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Narrating Your Audiobook? It Depends</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Quality trumps personal voice unless you're skilled and comfortable.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>75% of Tina’s clients successfully narrate their own books with guidance.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>AI Audio Narration Isn’t Ready Yet</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Quality and rights issues persist with AI narration tools.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Human narration still dominates in credibility and listener preference.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Curiosity Beats Judgment</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Openness invites understanding and reduces defensiveness.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Phrases like “Tell me more” and “Let’s explore that” build connection.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>New Leaders Should Lead with Listening</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Assess team culture before imposing change.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Start with questions, not assumptions.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ol>
<p>----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Vocal Confidence: The Hidden Key to Leadership
Voice Training Tips for Team Leaders and Executives
Episode 258 (Tina is based in Florida)
In this conversation we explore…


…why voice pitch influences leadership credibility and income.


…how vocal qualities like tempo and sonority affect trust.


…the cultural biases and perceptions surrounding vocal fry.


…how to warm up your voice quickly and effectively before a speech.


…why tempo is the #1 indicator of confidence and credibility.


…how authors can decide whether to narrate their own audiobook.


…the current limitations and ethical concerns of AI-narrated audiobooks.


…how singing and vocal exercises can improve vocal performance.


…how to be more curious and less judgmental in conversations.


…what new leaders should do to gain trust and assess team dynamics.


-----
About our guest, Tina Dietz:
Tina Dietz has launched two companies which have been disrupting the audiobook and publishing industries. Check them out at
https://twinflamesstudios.com/
https://www.alembicpress.com/
You can listen to the monthly expert panels for nonfiction authors and publishing pros https://twinflamesstudios.com/panels/
-----
Key Learning Points


Lower Pitch = Higher Trust


Deeper voices are culturally associated with leadership and credibility.


CEOs with lower voices earned $180,000 more annually on average.




Voice Is a Thumbprint of Identity


We recognize people more by voice than face in many contexts.


Self-perception of our voice often misaligns with how others hear it.




Tempo Indicates Confidence


Comfortable pacing and controlled breathing signal authority.


Speaking too fast or slow undermines credibility.




Vocal Fry Carries Cultural Baggage


Once linked with lack of credibility, now more accepted.


May stem from women lowering voices to be taken seriously.




Warm-Ups Improve Vocal Quality


Breathing, facial massage, yawning, and tongue twisters can reduce tension and increase sonority.




Confidence Can Be Trained


Singing, vocal exercises, and throat relaxation build vocal presence.


Apps like Vocal Image use AI to measure improvements.




Narrating Your Audiobook? It Depends


Quality trumps personal voice unless you're skilled and comfortable.


75% of Tina’s clients successfully narrate their own books with guidance.




AI Audio Narration Isn’t Ready Yet


Quality and rights issues persist with AI narration tools.


Human narration still dominates in credibility and listener preference.




Curiosity Beats Judgment


Openness invites understanding and reduces defensiveness.


Phrases like “Tell me more” and “Let’s explore that” build connection.




New Leaders Should Lead with Listening


Assess team culture before imposing change.


Start with questions, not assumptions.




----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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Retain Talent and Boost Innovation with Cross-Generational Mentoring
<p>Episode 257 (Summer is based in Washington DC)</p>
In this conversation we explore…
<ol>
<li>
<p>Why traditional mentorship models are no longer effective in today’s multigenerational workforce</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How a horizontal mentorship model fosters mutual respect and learning</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The psychological need for belonging and how it fuels engagement at work</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How ego can sabotage collaboration, communication, and innovation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How Core Mentorship Solutions creates inclusive mentorship systems</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why generational stereotypes hinder productivity and retention</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to identify whether your organization needs a new mentorship approach</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The critical role of intentional onboarding and communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How cross-generational dialogue drives creativity and innovation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The power of message delivery—how tone, timing, and framing affect outcomes</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Summer Watson:</p>
<p>Summer Watson is the owner of KORE Women, which supports companies to develop thriving cross-generational leadership and mentorship programs fostering healthy and sustainable communities. </p>
<p>KORE stands for </p>
<p>Kinetically connect, </p>
<p>Organically learn from one another, </p>
<p>Reshape lives through diverse interaction,</p>
<p>Empower one another to promote change,</p>
<p>Learn more about Summer Watson and KORE at</p>
<p><a href='https://www.korewomen.com/podcast/'> https://www.korewomen.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to Create a Sense of Belonging at Work
Retain Talent and Boost Innovation with Cross-Generational Mentoring
<p>Episode 257 (Summer is based in Washington DC)</p>
<em>In this conversation we explore…</em>
<ol>
<li>
<p>Why traditional mentorship models are no longer effective in today’s multigenerational workforce</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How a horizontal mentorship model fosters mutual respect and learning</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The psychological need for belonging and how it fuels engagement at work</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How ego can sabotage collaboration, communication, and innovation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How Core Mentorship Solutions creates inclusive mentorship systems</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why generational stereotypes hinder productivity and retention</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to identify whether your organization needs a new mentorship approach</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The critical role of intentional onboarding and communication</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How cross-generational dialogue drives creativity and innovation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The power of message delivery—how tone, timing, and framing affect outcomes</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Summer Watson:</p>
<p>Summer Watson is the owner of KORE Women, which supports companies to develop thriving cross-generational leadership and mentorship programs fostering healthy and sustainable communities. </p>
<p>KORE stands for </p>
<p>Kinetically connect, </p>
<p>Organically learn from one another, </p>
<p>Reshape lives through diverse interaction,</p>
<p>Empower one another to promote change,</p>
<p>Learn more about Summer Watson and KORE at</p>
<p><a href='https://www.korewomen.com/podcast/'> https://www.korewomen.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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Retain Talent and Boost Innovation with Cross-Generational Mentoring
Episode 257 (Summer is based in Washington DC)
In this conversation we explore…


Why traditional mentorship models are no longer effective in today’s multigenerational workforce


How a horizontal mentorship model fosters mutual respect and learning


The psychological need for belonging and how it fuels engagement at work


How ego can sabotage collaboration, communication, and innovation


How Core Mentorship Solutions creates inclusive mentorship systems


Why generational stereotypes hinder productivity and retention


How to identify whether your organization needs a new mentorship approach


The critical role of intentional onboarding and communication


How cross-generational dialogue drives creativity and innovation


The power of message delivery—how tone, timing, and framing affect outcomes


-----
About our guest, Summer Watson:
Summer Watson is the owner of KORE Women, which supports companies to develop thriving cross-generational leadership and mentorship programs fostering healthy and sustainable communities. 
KORE stands for 
Kinetically connect, 
Organically learn from one another, 
Reshape lives through diverse interaction,
Empower one another to promote change,
Learn more about Summer Watson and KORE at
 https://www.korewomen.com
-----
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In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/]]></itunes:summary>
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        <title>Culture is the #1 Competitive Advantage: Mike Kerr</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Stop Outsourcing Culture to HR
From Toxic to Terrific: Small moments create big shifts
<p>Episode 256 (Mike is based in Canmore, Alberta)</p>
<p>----</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>The difference between workplace culture and humor—and how humor supports culture.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why culture is a company’s number one competitive advantage.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The visible and invisible signs of strong or weak workplace culture.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The impact of leadership on shaping and sustaining culture.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why every employee contributes to culture—not just HR or leadership.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How intentional values and small behaviors shape long-term culture.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The difference between healthy and toxic conflict at work.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Simple, practical ways to assess and improve workplace culture.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How humor, rituals, and fun foster psychological safety and team connection.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The concept of an "umbrella value" and its influence on decision-making.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Michael Kerr:</p>
<p>Mike is the author of 9 books, including, The Jerk-Free Workplace, The Humor Advantage and Small Moments, Big Outcomes: How Leaders Create Cultures That Fuel Extraordinary Results.</p>
<p>Learn more about Mike Kerr, his services and books at <a href='https://mikekerr.com/'>https://mikekerr.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points from the Interview
<ol>
<li>
<p>Culture is a Competitive Advantage</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Culture impacts productivity, retention, customer loyalty, and overall performance more than strategy alone.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mojo Matters</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Mojo is the vibe or energy of a workplace—it can be felt and should be maintained intentionally.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Humor Fuels Culture</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Humor isn’t fluff; it builds psychological safety, encourages engagement, and reduces burnout.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leadership Sets the Tone</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Leaders act as culture conductors. Their words, mood, and mindset ripple through teams.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Everyone Owns Culture</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Culture isn’t HR’s job alone. Every employee contributes to culture in every interaction.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Small Moments Have Big Outcomes</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>A culture is shaped more by consistent small gestures than by grand slogans or posters.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Define and Live Your Values</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Real values are reflected in daily decisions, not corporate posters. Misaligned values create cynicism.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Conflict is Inevitable—Make It Constructive</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Healthy cultures allow disagreement without blame or fear. Psychological safety matters.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Assess Culture With Gut Checks and Simple Questions</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Ask: Would you recommend this workplace to a friend? What’s one thing you’d change?</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Culture Attracts Talent</p>
</li>
</ol>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Great cultures draw top talent. But to win them, you must showcase culture honestly and creatively.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Stop Outsourcing Culture to HR
From Toxic to Terrific: Small moments create big shifts
<p>Episode 256 (Mike is based in Canmore, Alberta)</p>
<p>----</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>The difference between workplace culture and humor—and how humor supports culture.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why culture is a company’s number one competitive advantage.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The visible and invisible signs of strong or weak workplace culture.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The impact of leadership on shaping and sustaining culture.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why every employee contributes to culture—not just HR or leadership.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How intentional values and small behaviors shape long-term culture.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The difference between healthy and toxic conflict at work.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Simple, practical ways to assess and improve workplace culture.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How humor, rituals, and fun foster psychological safety and team connection.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The concept of an "umbrella value" and its influence on decision-making.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Michael Kerr:</p>
<p>Mike is the author of 9 books, including, The Jerk-Free Workplace, The Humor Advantage and Small Moments, Big Outcomes: How Leaders Create Cultures That Fuel Extraordinary Results.</p>
<p>Learn more about Mike Kerr, his services and books at <a href='https://mikekerr.com/'>https://mikekerr.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points from the Interview
<ol>
<li>
<p>Culture is a Competitive Advantage</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Culture impacts productivity, retention, customer loyalty, and overall performance more than strategy alone.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mojo Matters</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Mojo is the vibe or energy of a workplace—it can be felt and should be maintained intentionally.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Humor Fuels Culture</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Humor isn’t fluff; it builds psychological safety, encourages engagement, and reduces burnout.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leadership Sets the Tone</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Leaders act as culture conductors. Their words, mood, and mindset ripple through teams.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Everyone Owns Culture</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Culture isn’t HR’s job alone. Every employee contributes to culture in every interaction.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Small Moments Have Big Outcomes</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>A culture is shaped more by consistent small gestures than by grand slogans or posters.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Define and Live Your Values</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Real values are reflected in daily decisions, not corporate posters. Misaligned values create cynicism.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Conflict is Inevitable—Make It Constructive</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Healthy cultures allow disagreement without blame or fear. Psychological safety matters.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Assess Culture With Gut Checks and Simple Questions</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Ask: Would you recommend this workplace to a friend? What’s one thing you’d change?</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Culture Attracts Talent</p>
</li>
</ol>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Great cultures draw top talent. But to win them, you must showcase culture honestly and creatively.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Stop Outsourcing Culture to HR
From Toxic to Terrific: Small moments create big shifts
Episode 256 (Mike is based in Canmore, Alberta)
----
In this conversation we explore:


The difference between workplace culture and humor—and how humor supports culture.


Why culture is a company’s number one competitive advantage.


The visible and invisible signs of strong or weak workplace culture.


The impact of leadership on shaping and sustaining culture.


Why every employee contributes to culture—not just HR or leadership.


How intentional values and small behaviors shape long-term culture.


The difference between healthy and toxic conflict at work.


Simple, practical ways to assess and improve workplace culture.


How humor, rituals, and fun foster psychological safety and team connection.


The concept of an "umbrella value" and its influence on decision-making.


-----
About our guest, Michael Kerr:
Mike is the author of 9 books, including, The Jerk-Free Workplace, The Humor Advantage and Small Moments, Big Outcomes: How Leaders Create Cultures That Fuel Extraordinary Results.
Learn more about Mike Kerr, his services and books at https://mikekerr.com/
-----
Key Learning Points from the Interview


Culture is a Competitive Advantage


Culture impacts productivity, retention, customer loyalty, and overall performance more than strategy alone.




Mojo Matters


Mojo is the vibe or energy of a workplace—it can be felt and should be maintained intentionally.




Humor Fuels Culture


Humor isn’t fluff; it builds psychological safety, encourages engagement, and reduces burnout.




Leadership Sets the Tone


Leaders act as culture conductors. Their words, mood, and mindset ripple through teams.




Everyone Owns Culture


Culture isn’t HR’s job alone. Every employee contributes to culture in every interaction.




Small Moments Have Big Outcomes


A culture is shaped more by consistent small gestures than by grand slogans or posters.




Define and Live Your Values


Real values are reflected in daily decisions, not corporate posters. Misaligned values create cynicism.




Conflict is Inevitable—Make It Constructive


Healthy cultures allow disagreement without blame or fear. Psychological safety matters.




Assess Culture With Gut Checks and Simple Questions


Ask: Would you recommend this workplace to a friend? What’s one thing you’d change?




Culture Attracts Talent




Great cultures draw top talent. But to win them, you must showcase culture honestly and creatively.


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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        <title>From Radio to Podcasts: Carl Richards</title>
        <itunes:title>From Radio to Podcasts: Carl Richards</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Podcasting vs. Radio: Carl Richards Explains the Big Shift
The Secrets to Sound Bites: Make Your Message Memorable
<p>Episode 255 (Carl is based in Gananoque, Ontario)</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In this conversation, we explore:</p>
<ol>
<li>
<p>The evolution from radio to podcasting—what changed, what remained.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The core differences between scheduled radio and on-demand podcasting.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why defining your podcast’s purpose is the most important first step.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The myth of instant podcast success and what to expect as a beginner.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why your podcast will (and should) evolve over time.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to handle tough or off-topic interview questions with grace.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>What makes a podcast guest truly engaging and memorable.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The secret to crafting effective sound bites for reels and audiograms.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Lessons learned from 25 years in broadcasting—and how they apply today.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why podcasting is the new “book tour” for subject-matter experts.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Carl Richards:</p>
<p>Carl has spent more that 25 years behind the microphone, on radio and on stage, entertaining and influencings audiences worldwide.</p>
<p>He's a 3 time bestselling author, International Speaker, TEDx speaker, emcee and  podcast host. He's the founder and CEO of Podcast Solutions Made Simple. </p>
<p>Want help to launch and polish your podcast? Visit <a href='https://podcastsolutionsmadesimple.com/'>PodcastSolutionsMadeSimple.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Podcasting is on-demand, radio is scheduled
The flexibility of podcasting suits today’s consumer behavior better than traditional radio.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Start your podcast with clarity of purpose
Many beginners skip this—understanding the "why" of your show is foundational.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>It’s okay—and smart—to evolve your podcast
Goals can shift, formats can change, and that’s part of the process.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Your first 10 episodes will probably suck—and that’s normal
Skill and confidence develop over time with practice.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>There are no rules in podcasting—but there are smart suggestions
Format, length, and style are flexible. The key is knowing your audience and message.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Deflecting tough or irrelevant questions is a skill
You can stay assertive without being aggressive when you don’t have the answer.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Preparation is key—know your host and their style
Doing homework helps avoid surprises and builds trust.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Sound bites need human judgment
Algorithms can’t always pick the best clips. Listen and choose what resonates.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Credibility comes from consistency and authenticity
Be yourself, be present, and bring your best self to the mic.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Podcasting helps subject-matter experts elevate their brand
In today’s world, a podcast may be more relevant than writing a book.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Podcasting vs. Radio: Carl Richards Explains the Big Shift
The Secrets to Sound Bites: Make Your Message Memorable
<p>Episode 255 (Carl is based in Gananoque, Ontario)</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In this conversation, we explore:</p>
<ol>
<li>
<p>The evolution from radio to podcasting—what changed, what remained.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The core differences between scheduled radio and on-demand podcasting.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why defining your podcast’s purpose is the most important first step.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The myth of instant podcast success and what to expect as a beginner.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why your podcast will (and should) evolve over time.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to handle tough or off-topic interview questions with grace.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>What makes a podcast guest truly engaging and memorable.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The secret to crafting effective sound bites for reels and audiograms.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Lessons learned from 25 years in broadcasting—and how they apply today.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why podcasting is the new “book tour” for subject-matter experts.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Carl Richards:</p>
<p>Carl has spent more that 25 years behind the microphone, on radio and on stage, entertaining and influencings audiences worldwide.</p>
<p>He's a 3 time bestselling author, International Speaker, TEDx speaker, emcee and  podcast host. He's the founder and CEO of Podcast Solutions Made Simple. </p>
<p>Want help to launch and polish your podcast? Visit <a href='https://podcastsolutionsmadesimple.com/'>PodcastSolutionsMadeSimple.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Podcasting is on-demand, radio is scheduled<br>
The flexibility of podcasting suits today’s consumer behavior better than traditional radio.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Start your podcast with clarity of purpose<br>
Many beginners skip this—understanding the "why" of your show is foundational.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>It’s okay—and smart—to evolve your podcast<br>
Goals can shift, formats can change, and that’s part of the process.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Your first 10 episodes will probably suck—and that’s normal<br>
Skill and confidence develop over time with practice.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>There are no rules in podcasting—but there are smart suggestions<br>
Format, length, and style are flexible. The key is knowing your audience and message.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Deflecting tough or irrelevant questions is a skill<br>
You can stay assertive without being aggressive when you don’t have the answer.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Preparation is key—know your host and their style<br>
Doing homework helps avoid surprises and builds trust.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Sound bites need human judgment<br>
Algorithms can’t always pick the best clips. Listen and choose what resonates.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Credibility comes from consistency and authenticity<br>
Be yourself, be present, and bring your best self to the mic.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Podcasting helps subject-matter experts elevate their brand<br>
In today’s world, a podcast may be more relevant than writing a book.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Podcasting vs. Radio: Carl Richards Explains the Big Shift
The Secrets to Sound Bites: Make Your Message Memorable
Episode 255 (Carl is based in Gananoque, Ontario)
-----
In this conversation, we explore:


The evolution from radio to podcasting—what changed, what remained.


The core differences between scheduled radio and on-demand podcasting.


Why defining your podcast’s purpose is the most important first step.


The myth of instant podcast success and what to expect as a beginner.


Why your podcast will (and should) evolve over time.


How to handle tough or off-topic interview questions with grace.


What makes a podcast guest truly engaging and memorable.


The secret to crafting effective sound bites for reels and audiograms.


Lessons learned from 25 years in broadcasting—and how they apply today.


Why podcasting is the new “book tour” for subject-matter experts.


-----
About our guest, Carl Richards:
Carl has spent more that 25 years behind the microphone, on radio and on stage, entertaining and influencings audiences worldwide.
He's a 3 time bestselling author, International Speaker, TEDx speaker, emcee and  podcast host. He's the founder and CEO of Podcast Solutions Made Simple. 
Want help to launch and polish your podcast? Visit PodcastSolutionsMadeSimple.com
-----
Key Learning Points


Podcasting is on-demand, radio is scheduledThe flexibility of podcasting suits today’s consumer behavior better than traditional radio.


Start your podcast with clarity of purposeMany beginners skip this—understanding the "why" of your show is foundational.


It’s okay—and smart—to evolve your podcastGoals can shift, formats can change, and that’s part of the process.


Your first 10 episodes will probably suck—and that’s normalSkill and confidence develop over time with practice.


There are no rules in podcasting—but there are smart suggestionsFormat, length, and style are flexible. The key is knowing your audience and message.


Deflecting tough or irrelevant questions is a skillYou can stay assertive without being aggressive when you don’t have the answer.


Preparation is key—know your host and their styleDoing homework helps avoid surprises and builds trust.


Sound bites need human judgmentAlgorithms can’t always pick the best clips. Listen and choose what resonates.


Credibility comes from consistency and authenticityBe yourself, be present, and bring your best self to the mic.


Podcasting helps subject-matter experts elevate their brandIn today’s world, a podcast may be more relevant than writing a book.


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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        <title>Why Profitable Companies Go Broke: David Safeer</title>
        <itunes:title>Why Profitable Companies Go Broke: David Safeer</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Accounting Myths That Sink Small Businesses
How to Forecast Cash Flow and Stop Guessing
<p>Episode 254 (David is based in Salt Lake City, Utah)</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore…</p>
<ol>
<li>
<p>Why traditional accounting fails to protect small businesses.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How cash flow differs from accounting and why it matters more.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The danger of relying on profit and loss statements alone.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to recognize early warning signs of cash trouble.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why even profitable companies run out of money.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The mindset shift needed to forecast financial stability.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The power of the 13-week cash flow model.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to calculate and build sufficient cash reserves.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The role of risk in financial planning and survival.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How strategic timing of payments protects your cash.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest David Safeer:</p>
<p>David has done business in over 40 countries. He restructured a Fortune 100 company from years of losses to profitability in one year.</p>
<p>He is known as the Unconventional Cash Flow Guy.</p>
<p>Improve your cash flow with a free copy of his ebook, "24 Profit Strategies for Business Success" at  <a href='http://cic60.com/'>http://cic60.com/</a></p>
<p>----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Accounting ≠ Cash Flow: Accounting reports don’t reflect the cash available.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Cash Flow Conversations Are Rare but Critical: Business owners often focus on revenue/expenses and overlook cash movement.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Symptoms vs. Root Causes: Issues like payroll trouble often stem from deeper systems or margin problems.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The P&amp;L Illusion: A profit on paper doesn’t mean there’s cash in the bank.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Modeling Is a Lifesaver: The 13-week cash flow model helps foresee challenges.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mental Game of Money: Cash flow stress impacts decision-making and sleep.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Cash Reserves Save Businesses: A few weeks of reserves can prevent shutdown.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Cash Flow Needs Monitoring: Weekly modeling can prevent surprises.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Accountants Aren’t Always Experts in Cash: Many don’t understand or prioritize it.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Liquidity from Hidden Assets: Inventory and unused assets can become emergency cash.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Accounting Myths That Sink Small Businesses
How to Forecast Cash Flow and Stop Guessing
<p>Episode 254 (David is based in Salt Lake City, Utah)</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore…</p>
<ol>
<li>
<p>Why traditional accounting fails to protect small businesses.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How cash flow differs from accounting and why it matters more.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The danger of relying on profit and loss statements alone.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to recognize early warning signs of cash trouble.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why even profitable companies run out of money.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The mindset shift needed to forecast financial stability.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The power of the 13-week cash flow model.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to calculate and build sufficient cash reserves.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The role of risk in financial planning and survival.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How strategic timing of payments protects your cash.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest David Safeer:</p>
<p>David has done business in over 40 countries. He restructured a Fortune 100 company from years of losses to profitability in one year.</p>
<p>He is known as the Unconventional Cash Flow Guy.</p>
<p>Improve your cash flow with a free copy of his ebook, "24 Profit Strategies for Business Success" at  <a href='http://cic60.com/'>http://cic60.com/</a></p>
<p>----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Accounting ≠ Cash Flow: Accounting reports don’t reflect the cash available.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Cash Flow Conversations Are Rare but Critical: Business owners often focus on revenue/expenses and overlook cash movement.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Symptoms vs. Root Causes: Issues like payroll trouble often stem from deeper systems or margin problems.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The P&amp;L Illusion: A profit on paper doesn’t mean there’s cash in the bank.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Modeling Is a Lifesaver: The 13-week cash flow model helps foresee challenges.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mental Game of Money: Cash flow stress impacts decision-making and sleep.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Cash Reserves Save Businesses: A few weeks of reserves can prevent shutdown.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Cash Flow Needs Monitoring: Weekly modeling can prevent surprises.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Accountants Aren’t Always Experts in Cash: Many don’t understand or prioritize it.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Liquidity from Hidden Assets: Inventory and unused assets can become emergency cash.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Accounting Myths That Sink Small Businesses
How to Forecast Cash Flow and Stop Guessing
Episode 254 (David is based in Salt Lake City, Utah)
-----
In this conversation we explore…


Why traditional accounting fails to protect small businesses.


How cash flow differs from accounting and why it matters more.


The danger of relying on profit and loss statements alone.


How to recognize early warning signs of cash trouble.


Why even profitable companies run out of money.


The mindset shift needed to forecast financial stability.


The power of the 13-week cash flow model.


How to calculate and build sufficient cash reserves.


The role of risk in financial planning and survival.


How strategic timing of payments protects your cash.


-----
About our guest David Safeer:
David has done business in over 40 countries. He restructured a Fortune 100 company from years of losses to profitability in one year.
He is known as the Unconventional Cash Flow Guy.
Improve your cash flow with a free copy of his ebook, "24 Profit Strategies for Business Success" at  http://cic60.com/
----
Key Learning Points


Accounting ≠ Cash Flow: Accounting reports don’t reflect the cash available.


Cash Flow Conversations Are Rare but Critical: Business owners often focus on revenue/expenses and overlook cash movement.


Symptoms vs. Root Causes: Issues like payroll trouble often stem from deeper systems or margin problems.


The P&amp;L Illusion: A profit on paper doesn’t mean there’s cash in the bank.


Modeling Is a Lifesaver: The 13-week cash flow model helps foresee challenges.


Mental Game of Money: Cash flow stress impacts decision-making and sleep.


Cash Reserves Save Businesses: A few weeks of reserves can prevent shutdown.


Cash Flow Needs Monitoring: Weekly modeling can prevent surprises.


Accountants Aren’t Always Experts in Cash: Many don’t understand or prioritize it.


Liquidity from Hidden Assets: Inventory and unused assets can become emergency cash.


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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        <title>Personal Branding for Executives: Lesley Everett</title>
        <itunes:title>Personal Branding for Executives: Lesley Everett</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Executive Branding: It's More than a Logo
Build Your Leadership Brand from the Inside Out
<p>Episode 253 (Lesley is based in Monterey, California)</p>
<p>----</p>
<p>In this conversation, we explore…</p>
<ol>
<li>
<p>…why executive branding goes far beyond personal image or a logo.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how to define what you want to be known for—and why that matters.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…why an integrated branding approach across a team amplifies leadership impact.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…the internal journey of discovering your authentic self as a leader.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how mindset shifts influence executive presence and performance.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…strategies for embracing positive feedback and building inner confidence.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how reframing “weaknesses” as overplayed strengths can reshape self-perception.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how to align your personal brand with corporate values without losing authenticity.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…the importance of curiosity, clarity, and critical questioning in communication.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how to establish your leadership brand when stepping into a new role.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Lesley Everett:</p>
<p>Lesley is an Executive Branding Specialist. She is the author of three books. She was president of the Global Speakers Federation in 2014. She is the first female speaker to be awarded the UK Speaker Hall of Fame.</p>
<p>She has appeared on TV as a guest and host on BBC News, Sky News, CNBC, Fox News and Bloomberg.</p>
<p>Learn more about Lesley and her programs at <a href='https://lesleyeverett.com/'>https://lesleyeverett.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Integrated executive branding includes both the individual and their team for meaningful impact.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Personal branding is not about a logo, but about what you’re known for and how people describe you.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Executive presence must be built on authenticity, visibility, and clarity—not surface polish.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Many leaders lack awareness of their true identity and core strengths, often due to imposter syndrome.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mindset change drives behavior and action—but starts with understanding one's purpose.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leaders should learn to accept and internalize positive feedback instead of dismissing it.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>So-called “weaknesses” are often overplayed strengths—a reframing that boosts confidence.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leaders must be able to sum up their brand in a few authentic, outcome-focused words.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The personal and corporate brand can coexist—alignment comes from interpreting company values personally.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Sustainable growth requires continuous reflection and action—branding is an evolving journey.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Executive Branding: It's More than a Logo
Build Your Leadership Brand from the Inside Out
<p>Episode 253 (Lesley is based in Monterey, California)</p>
<p>----</p>
<p>In this conversation, we explore…</p>
<ol>
<li>
<p>…why executive branding goes far beyond personal image or a logo.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how to define what you want to be known for—and why that matters.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…why an integrated branding approach across a team amplifies leadership impact.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…the internal journey of discovering your authentic self as a leader.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how mindset shifts influence executive presence and performance.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…strategies for embracing positive feedback and building inner confidence.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how reframing “weaknesses” as overplayed strengths can reshape self-perception.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how to align your personal brand with corporate values without losing authenticity.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…the importance of curiosity, clarity, and critical questioning in communication.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>…how to establish your leadership brand when stepping into a new role.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Lesley Everett:</p>
<p>Lesley is an Executive Branding Specialist. She is the author of three books. She was president of the Global Speakers Federation in 2014. She is the first female speaker to be awarded the UK Speaker Hall of Fame.</p>
<p>She has appeared on TV as a guest and host on BBC News, Sky News, CNBC, Fox News and Bloomberg.</p>
<p>Learn more about Lesley and her programs at <a href='https://lesleyeverett.com/'>https://lesleyeverett.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Integrated executive branding includes both the individual and their team for meaningful impact.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Personal branding is not about a logo, but about what you’re known for and how people describe you.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Executive presence must be built on authenticity, visibility, and clarity—not surface polish.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Many leaders lack awareness of their true identity and core strengths, often due to imposter syndrome.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mindset change drives behavior and action—but starts with understanding one's purpose.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leaders should learn to accept and internalize positive feedback instead of dismissing it.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>So-called “weaknesses” are often overplayed strengths—a reframing that boosts confidence.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leaders must be able to sum up their brand in a few authentic, outcome-focused words.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The personal and corporate brand can coexist—alignment comes from interpreting company values personally.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Sustainable growth requires continuous reflection and action—branding is an evolving journey.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Executive Branding: It's More than a Logo
Build Your Leadership Brand from the Inside Out
Episode 253 (Lesley is based in Monterey, California)
----
In this conversation, we explore…


…why executive branding goes far beyond personal image or a logo.


…how to define what you want to be known for—and why that matters.


…why an integrated branding approach across a team amplifies leadership impact.


…the internal journey of discovering your authentic self as a leader.


…how mindset shifts influence executive presence and performance.


…strategies for embracing positive feedback and building inner confidence.


…how reframing “weaknesses” as overplayed strengths can reshape self-perception.


…how to align your personal brand with corporate values without losing authenticity.


…the importance of curiosity, clarity, and critical questioning in communication.


…how to establish your leadership brand when stepping into a new role.


-----
About our guest Lesley Everett:
Lesley is an Executive Branding Specialist. She is the author of three books. She was president of the Global Speakers Federation in 2014. She is the first female speaker to be awarded the UK Speaker Hall of Fame.
She has appeared on TV as a guest and host on BBC News, Sky News, CNBC, Fox News and Bloomberg.
Learn more about Lesley and her programs at https://lesleyeverett.com/
-----
Key Learning Points


Integrated executive branding includes both the individual and their team for meaningful impact.


Personal branding is not about a logo, but about what you’re known for and how people describe you.


Executive presence must be built on authenticity, visibility, and clarity—not surface polish.


Many leaders lack awareness of their true identity and core strengths, often due to imposter syndrome.


Mindset change drives behavior and action—but starts with understanding one's purpose.


Leaders should learn to accept and internalize positive feedback instead of dismissing it.


So-called “weaknesses” are often overplayed strengths—a reframing that boosts confidence.


Leaders must be able to sum up their brand in a few authentic, outcome-focused words.


The personal and corporate brand can coexist—alignment comes from interpreting company values personally.


Sustainable growth requires continuous reflection and action—branding is an evolving journey.


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[The Emotional Secret to Better Sales Conversations
Why Raising Your Prices Could Be the Fastest Way to Grow Your Business
<p>Episode 252 (Robin is based in the UK)</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In this conversation, we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Why so many business owners undercharge—and how to fix it</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How fear of rejection limits pricing and profitability</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The fastest path to growing your business (hint: it’s not more marketing)</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>What it really means to sell results instead of services</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to confidently handle pricing conversations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The emotional dynamics of selling and buying</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why shouting into the void (aka social media) doesn’t work</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The five stages of market awareness every buyer goes through</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to identify client pain points and use them in messaging</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to build a business model that’s both sustainable and scalable</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Robin Waite:</p>
<p>Robin is founder of Fearless Business and author of "Take Your Shot" a guide to grow your business, attract more clients ad make more money.</p>
<p>He has surfed 12 foot waves in Morocco and ridden his bicycle downhill at 52.5 mph.</p>
<p>You can get your free hard copy of his book at  <a href='https://www.fearless.biz/tys'>https://www.fearless.biz/tys</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Raising prices is often the fastest path to growth</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Most businesses undercharge and oversell features instead of outcomes</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Emotional resonance is essential in sales conversations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Fear of rejection holds back price increases</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Sales and pricing confidence grows through practice</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Prospects go through five stages of awareness – don’t rush the sale</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Your messaging should speak more about the client than yourself</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Identify and speak to client pain points clearly</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Marketing is more effective when it follows structure, not desperation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>It’s crucial to communicate the ROI in client terms – money, time, or fulfillment</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[The Emotional Secret to Better Sales Conversations
Why Raising Your Prices Could Be the Fastest Way to Grow Your Business
<p>Episode 252 (Robin is based in the UK)</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In this conversation, we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Why so many business owners undercharge—and how to fix it</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How fear of rejection limits pricing and profitability</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The fastest path to growing your business (hint: it’s not more marketing)</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>What it really means to sell results instead of services</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to confidently handle pricing conversations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The emotional dynamics of selling and buying</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why shouting into the void (aka social media) doesn’t work</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The five stages of market awareness every buyer goes through</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to identify client pain points and use them in messaging</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to build a business model that’s both sustainable and scalable</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Robin Waite:</p>
<p>Robin is founder of Fearless Business and author of "Take Your Shot" a guide to grow your business, attract more clients ad make more money.</p>
<p>He has surfed 12 foot waves in Morocco and ridden his bicycle downhill at 52.5 mph.</p>
<p>You can get your free hard copy of his book at  <a href='https://www.fearless.biz/tys'>https://www.fearless.biz/tys</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Raising prices is often the fastest path to growth</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Most businesses undercharge and oversell features instead of outcomes</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Emotional resonance is essential in sales conversations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Fear of rejection holds back price increases</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Sales and pricing confidence grows through practice</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Prospects go through five stages of awareness – don’t rush the sale</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Your messaging should speak more about the client than yourself</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Identify and speak to client pain points clearly</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Marketing is more effective when it follows structure, not desperation</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>It’s crucial to communicate the ROI in client terms – money, time, or fulfillment</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Emotional Secret to Better Sales Conversations
Why Raising Your Prices Could Be the Fastest Way to Grow Your Business
Episode 252 (Robin is based in the UK)
-----
In this conversation, we explore:


Why so many business owners undercharge—and how to fix it


How fear of rejection limits pricing and profitability


The fastest path to growing your business (hint: it’s not more marketing)


What it really means to sell results instead of services


How to confidently handle pricing conversations


The emotional dynamics of selling and buying


Why shouting into the void (aka social media) doesn’t work


The five stages of market awareness every buyer goes through


How to identify client pain points and use them in messaging


How to build a business model that’s both sustainable and scalable


-----
About our guest, Robin Waite:
Robin is founder of Fearless Business and author of "Take Your Shot" a guide to grow your business, attract more clients ad make more money.
He has surfed 12 foot waves in Morocco and ridden his bicycle downhill at 52.5 mph.
You can get your free hard copy of his book at  https://www.fearless.biz/tys
-----
Key Learning Points


Raising prices is often the fastest path to growth


Most businesses undercharge and oversell features instead of outcomes


Emotional resonance is essential in sales conversations


Fear of rejection holds back price increases


Sales and pricing confidence grows through practice


Prospects go through five stages of awareness – don’t rush the sale


Your messaging should speak more about the client than yourself


Identify and speak to client pain points clearly


Marketing is more effective when it follows structure, not desperation


It’s crucial to communicate the ROI in client terms – money, time, or fulfillment


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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        <title>How to Cope with Digital Overwhelm without Quitting Your Job: Craig Mattson</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to stay sane in a noisy world
Instead of digital minimalism consider this alternative
<p>Episode 251 (Craig is based in Grand Rapids Michigan)</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In this conversation with Craig Mattson we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Why acknowledging digital overwhelm is the first step toward healthier communication.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The limitations of digital minimalism and the need for digital flexibility.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Six communication modes professionals rely on to cope with digital stress.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The importance of understanding your default communication style.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to avoid contributing to others’ communication overload.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Simple techniques to reset a failed conversation.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why switching between communication modes helps maintain humanity in digital spaces.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The power of treating all communication as a gift — even criticism.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Craig Mattson:</p>
<p>Craig is the author of "Digital Overwhelm". He writes, researches and teaches at Calvin University.</p>
<p>You can buy his book, <a href='https://www.amazon.com/Digital-Overwhelm-Mid-Career-Guide-Coping/dp/1666772216/?maas=maas_adg_29BD90B937DDF85A6B1798BAD061867E_afap_abs&amp;ref_=aa_maas&amp;tag=maas'>Digital Overwhelm here.</a></p>
<p>Learn more about his programs and register for his newsletter here </p>
<p><a href='https://www.themodeswitch.com/'>https://www.themodeswitch.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.digitaloverwhelm.com/'>https://www.digitaloverwhelm.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points from this Interview
<ol>
<li>
<p>Acknowledge the Overwhelm</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Being overwhelmed by digital inputs is normal; the first step is admitting it.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Digital Flexibility vs. Digital Minimalism</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Minimalism helps, but flexibility is key to adapting and connecting with others.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Avoid Contributing to Others' Overwhelm</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Be mindful of how your communication style might stress others.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Understand Your Default Communication Mode</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Everyone has a go-to style (e.g., long emails, verbal advocacy) — know yours and its limitations.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Adapt Your Style to the Listener’s Needs</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Match your message delivery to where the audience is emotionally and mentally.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Communication as a Social Issue</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Digital overload isn’t just individual; it’s a workplace-wide challenge that requires collective responses.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mode Switching as a Skill</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Learn to shift between styles: emailing, saying, signaling, advocating, meaning, and fixing.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Reflect on Communication Experiences</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Journaling or debriefing helps improve future interactions.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Communication as a Gift</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Even criticism can be seen as a gift — shifting mindset opens deeper dialogue.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Be Willing to Start Again</p>
</li>
</ol>
<ul>
<li>
<p>When conversations derail, it’s okay to pause and restart with clearer intent.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to stay sane in a noisy world
Instead of digital minimalism consider this alternative
<p>Episode 251 (Craig is based in Grand Rapids Michigan)</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In this conversation with Craig Mattson we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Why acknowledging digital overwhelm is the first step toward healthier communication.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The limitations of digital minimalism and the need for digital flexibility.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Six communication modes professionals rely on to cope with digital stress.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The importance of understanding your default communication style.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to avoid contributing to others’ communication overload.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Simple techniques to reset a failed conversation.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why switching between communication modes helps maintain humanity in digital spaces.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The power of treating all communication as a gift — even criticism.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Craig Mattson:</p>
<p>Craig is the author of "Digital Overwhelm". He writes, researches and teaches at Calvin University.</p>
<p>You can buy his book, <a href='https://www.amazon.com/Digital-Overwhelm-Mid-Career-Guide-Coping/dp/1666772216/?maas=maas_adg_29BD90B937DDF85A6B1798BAD061867E_afap_abs&amp;ref_=aa_maas&amp;tag=maas'>Digital Overwhelm here.</a></p>
<p>Learn more about his programs and register for his newsletter here </p>
<p><a href='https://www.themodeswitch.com/'>https://www.themodeswitch.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.digitaloverwhelm.com/'>https://www.digitaloverwhelm.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points from this Interview
<ol>
<li>
<p>Acknowledge the Overwhelm</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Being overwhelmed by digital inputs is normal; the first step is admitting it.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Digital Flexibility vs. Digital Minimalism</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Minimalism helps, but flexibility is key to adapting and connecting with others.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Avoid Contributing to Others' Overwhelm</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Be mindful of how your communication style might stress others.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Understand Your Default Communication Mode</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Everyone has a go-to style (e.g., long emails, verbal advocacy) — know yours and its limitations.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Adapt Your Style to the Listener’s Needs</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Match your message delivery to where the audience is emotionally and mentally.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Communication as a Social Issue</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Digital overload isn’t just individual; it’s a workplace-wide challenge that requires collective responses.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mode Switching as a Skill</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Learn to shift between styles: emailing, saying, signaling, advocating, meaning, and fixing.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Reflect on Communication Experiences</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Journaling or debriefing helps improve future interactions.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Communication as a Gift</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Even criticism can be seen as a gift — shifting mindset opens deeper dialogue.</p>
</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Be Willing to Start Again</p>
</li>
</ol>
<ul>
<li>
<p>When conversations derail, it’s okay to pause and restart with clearer intent.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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Instead of digital minimalism consider this alternative
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-----
In this conversation with Craig Mattson we explore:


Why acknowledging digital overwhelm is the first step toward healthier communication.


The limitations of digital minimalism and the need for digital flexibility.


Six communication modes professionals rely on to cope with digital stress.


The importance of understanding your default communication style.


How to avoid contributing to others’ communication overload.


Simple techniques to reset a failed conversation.


Why switching between communication modes helps maintain humanity in digital spaces.


The power of treating all communication as a gift — even criticism.


-----
About our guest Craig Mattson:
Craig is the author of "Digital Overwhelm". He writes, researches and teaches at Calvin University.
You can buy his book, Digital Overwhelm here.
Learn more about his programs and register for his newsletter here 
https://www.themodeswitch.com/
https://www.digitaloverwhelm.com/
-----
Key Learning Points from this Interview


Acknowledge the Overwhelm


Being overwhelmed by digital inputs is normal; the first step is admitting it.




Digital Flexibility vs. Digital Minimalism


Minimalism helps, but flexibility is key to adapting and connecting with others.




Avoid Contributing to Others' Overwhelm


Be mindful of how your communication style might stress others.




Understand Your Default Communication Mode


Everyone has a go-to style (e.g., long emails, verbal advocacy) — know yours and its limitations.




Adapt Your Style to the Listener’s Needs


Match your message delivery to where the audience is emotionally and mentally.




Communication as a Social Issue


Digital overload isn’t just individual; it’s a workplace-wide challenge that requires collective responses.




Mode Switching as a Skill


Learn to shift between styles: emailing, saying, signaling, advocating, meaning, and fixing.




Reflect on Communication Experiences


Journaling or debriefing helps improve future interactions.




Communication as a Gift


Even criticism can be seen as a gift — shifting mindset opens deeper dialogue.




Be Willing to Start Again




When conversations derail, it’s okay to pause and restart with clearer intent.


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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Build a Linkedin Network that generates revenue
<p>Episode 250 (Daniel is based in Israel)</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In this conversation, we explore…</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Why your personal LinkedIn profile is more valuable than your company page</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The truth about connection quantity vs. quality</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to turn LinkedIn invitations into sales conversations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why vanity metrics won’t grow your business</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>When and why not to post on LinkedIn</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to use mutual connections for warm introductions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why following is better than connecting—at first</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The most effective way to update your profile</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to build meaningful, sustainable LinkedIn relationships</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The surprising reason your last presentation fell flat—and how to fix it</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Daniel Alfon:</p>
<p>Daniel helps business owners how to gain new clients with the power of Linkedin. He is author of "Build a Linkedin Profile for Business Success".</p>
<p>You can arrange a private one-to-one coaching session to review your Linkedin profile and approach here.</p>
<a href='https://www.danielalfon.com/store/personal-1-1-session/'>https://www.danielalfon.com/store/personal-1-1-session/</a>
This is a paid 1:1 session
 
Learn more about the resources available.
<a href='https://www.danielalfon.com/'>https://www.danielalfon.com/</a>
 
Visit and follow Daniel on Linkedin
<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/alfon/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/alfon/</a>
-----

Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Your personal LinkedIn profile is more important than your company page.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Connections should be based on quality, not quantity.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>LinkedIn can work without posting—relationship-building matters more.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Don't accept all invites—assess the lead before connecting.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Vanity metrics (likes, followers) don’t drive revenue.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Use mutual connections to request introductions.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>End presentations with a strong message, not Q&amp;A.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>“What's in it for me?” should drive your messaging.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Use LinkedIn milestones (birthdays, job changes) to maintain real connections.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Your LinkedIn profile needs regular feedback and updating to stay aligned with your business.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>

<p> </p>
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Build a Linkedin Network that generates revenue
<p>Episode 250 (Daniel is based in Israel)</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In this conversation, we explore…</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>Why your personal LinkedIn profile is more valuable than your company page</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The truth about connection quantity vs. quality</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to turn LinkedIn invitations into sales conversations</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why vanity metrics won’t grow your business</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>When and why <em>not</em> to post on LinkedIn</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to use mutual connections for warm introductions</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why following is better than connecting—at first</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The most effective way to update your profile</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to build meaningful, sustainable LinkedIn relationships</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The surprising reason your last presentation fell flat—and how to fix it</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Daniel Alfon:</p>
<p>Daniel helps business owners how to gain new clients with the power of Linkedin. He is author of "Build a Linkedin Profile for Business Success".</p>
<p>You can arrange a private one-to-one coaching session to review your Linkedin profile and approach here.</p>
<a href='https://www.danielalfon.com/store/personal-1-1-session/'>https://www.danielalfon.com/store/personal-1-1-session/</a>
This is a paid 1:1 session
 
Learn more about the resources available.
<a href='https://www.danielalfon.com/'>https://www.danielalfon.com/</a>
 
Visit and follow Daniel on Linkedin
<a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/alfon/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/alfon/</a>
-----

Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Your personal LinkedIn profile is more important than your company page.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Connections should be based on quality, not quantity.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>LinkedIn can work without posting—relationship-building matters more.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Don't accept all invites—assess the lead before connecting.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Vanity metrics (likes, followers) don’t drive revenue.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Use mutual connections to request introductions.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>End presentations with a strong message, not Q&amp;A.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>“What's in it for me?” should drive your messaging.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Use LinkedIn milestones (birthdays, job changes) to maintain real connections.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Your LinkedIn profile needs regular feedback and updating to stay aligned with your business.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>

<p> </p>
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Build a Linkedin Network that generates revenue
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-----
In this conversation, we explore…


Why your personal LinkedIn profile is more valuable than your company page


The truth about connection quantity vs. quality


How to turn LinkedIn invitations into sales conversations


Why vanity metrics won’t grow your business


When and why not to post on LinkedIn


How to use mutual connections for warm introductions


Why following is better than connecting—at first


The most effective way to update your profile


How to build meaningful, sustainable LinkedIn relationships


The surprising reason your last presentation fell flat—and how to fix it


-----
About our guest, Daniel Alfon:
Daniel helps business owners how to gain new clients with the power of Linkedin. He is author of "Build a Linkedin Profile for Business Success".
You can arrange a private one-to-one coaching session to review your Linkedin profile and approach here.
https://www.danielalfon.com/store/personal-1-1-session/
This is a paid 1:1 session
 
Learn more about the resources available.
https://www.danielalfon.com/
 
Visit and follow Daniel on Linkedin
https://www.linkedin.com/in/alfon/
-----

Key Learning Points


Your personal LinkedIn profile is more important than your company page.


Connections should be based on quality, not quantity.


LinkedIn can work without posting—relationship-building matters more.


Don't accept all invites—assess the lead before connecting.


Vanity metrics (likes, followers) don’t drive revenue.


Use mutual connections to request introductions.


End presentations with a strong message, not Q&amp;A.


“What's in it for me?” should drive your messaging.


Use LinkedIn milestones (birthdays, job changes) to maintain real connections.


Your LinkedIn profile needs regular feedback and updating to stay aligned with your business.


-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/

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Avoiding Confirmation Bias in Your Messaging
<p>Episode 249 (Saffana is based in London, England)</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore…</p>
<ul>
<li>How audience mindset shapes effective copywriting</li>
<li>Discovering your brand’s core truth</li>
<li>Using timing strategically to enhance marketing results</li>
<li>The hidden influence of confirmation bias in marketing</li>
<li>Leveraging data to uncover actionable audience insights</li>
<li>How to avoid projecting your assumptions onto your audience</li>
<li>Strategies for unique and impactful product positioning</li>
<li>Why it’s essential to understand who won’t buy from you</li>
<li>Techniques to transform products from “nice-to-haves” into essentials</li>
<li>The importance of removing ego from the copywriting process</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Saffana Monajed:</p>
<p>Saffana conducts workshops to help your marketing team write more persuasive copy.</p>
<p>She has completed two marathons and plans to run an ultra-marathon.</p>
<p>As a math major she brings that appreciation to understand the data that determines best marketing practices.</p>
<p>Learn more about Saffana and her copywriting services and training at:</p>
<p><a href='https://www.saffana.co.uk/'>https://www.saffana.co.uk/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/saffanabanana'>https://www.instagram.com/saffanabanana</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.tiktok.com/@learncopywritingnow'>https://www.tiktok.com/@learncopywritingnow</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Learning Points from this conversation with Saffana Monajed:</p>
<ol>
<li>Audience Mindset Drives Copywriting Success</li>
<li>Discover and Communicate Your Core Truth</li>
<li>Timing is Critical in Marketing</li>
<li>Beware of Confirmation Bias</li>
<li>Data Analysis Reveals Audience Insights</li>
<li>Avoid Projecting Your Assumptions onto Your Audience</li>
<li>Effective Product Positioning is About Being Unique</li>
<li>Understand Who Won’t Buy and Why</li>
<li>Transform Your Product from a Vitamin to a Painkiller</li>
<li>Remove Ego from Your Writing Process</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Identify the core truth of your marketing message
Avoiding Confirmation Bias in Your Messaging
<p>Episode 249 (Saffana is based in London, England)</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore…</p>
<ul>
<li>How audience mindset shapes effective copywriting</li>
<li>Discovering your brand’s core truth</li>
<li>Using timing strategically to enhance marketing results</li>
<li>The hidden influence of confirmation bias in marketing</li>
<li>Leveraging data to uncover actionable audience insights</li>
<li>How to avoid projecting your assumptions onto your audience</li>
<li>Strategies for unique and impactful product positioning</li>
<li>Why it’s essential to understand who <em>won’t</em> buy from you</li>
<li>Techniques to transform products from “nice-to-haves” into essentials</li>
<li>The importance of removing ego from the copywriting process</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Saffana Monajed:</p>
<p>Saffana conducts workshops to help your marketing team write more persuasive copy.</p>
<p>She has completed two marathons and plans to run an ultra-marathon.</p>
<p>As a math major she brings that appreciation to understand the data that determines best marketing practices.</p>
<p>Learn more about Saffana and her copywriting services and training at:</p>
<p><a href='https://www.saffana.co.uk/'>https://www.saffana.co.uk/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/saffanabanana'>https://www.instagram.com/saffanabanana</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.tiktok.com/@learncopywritingnow'>https://www.tiktok.com/@learncopywritingnow</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Key Learning Points from this conversation with Saffana Monajed:</p>
<ol>
<li>Audience Mindset Drives Copywriting Success</li>
<li>Discover and Communicate Your Core Truth</li>
<li>Timing is Critical in Marketing</li>
<li>Beware of Confirmation Bias</li>
<li>Data Analysis Reveals Audience Insights</li>
<li>Avoid Projecting Your Assumptions onto Your Audience</li>
<li>Effective Product Positioning is About Being Unique</li>
<li>Understand Who Won’t Buy and Why</li>
<li>Transform Your Product from a Vitamin to a Painkiller</li>
<li>Remove Ego from Your Writing Process</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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Avoiding Confirmation Bias in Your Messaging
Episode 249 (Saffana is based in London, England)
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In this conversation we explore…

How audience mindset shapes effective copywriting
Discovering your brand’s core truth
Using timing strategically to enhance marketing results
The hidden influence of confirmation bias in marketing
Leveraging data to uncover actionable audience insights
How to avoid projecting your assumptions onto your audience
Strategies for unique and impactful product positioning
Why it’s essential to understand who won’t buy from you
Techniques to transform products from “nice-to-haves” into essentials
The importance of removing ego from the copywriting process

-----
About our guest, Saffana Monajed:
Saffana conducts workshops to help your marketing team write more persuasive copy.
She has completed two marathons and plans to run an ultra-marathon.
As a math major she brings that appreciation to understand the data that determines best marketing practices.
Learn more about Saffana and her copywriting services and training at:
https://www.saffana.co.uk/
https://www.instagram.com/saffanabanana
https://www.tiktok.com/@learncopywritingnow
-----
Key Learning Points from this conversation with Saffana Monajed:

Audience Mindset Drives Copywriting Success
Discover and Communicate Your Core Truth
Timing is Critical in Marketing
Beware of Confirmation Bias
Data Analysis Reveals Audience Insights
Avoid Projecting Your Assumptions onto Your Audience
Effective Product Positioning is About Being Unique
Understand Who Won’t Buy and Why
Transform Your Product from a Vitamin to a Painkiller
Remove Ego from Your Writing Process

-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[The Myth of Brand Loyalty
Herd, Habit, Hassle: The Science Behind Consumer Behavior
<p>Episode 248 (Ethan is based in Boulder, Colorado)</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>The science behind consumer behavior and brand growth.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why brand loyalty is often misunderstood and overrated.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How frequency of purchase correlates directly with customer numbers.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Three core factors driving purchasing decisions: Herd, Habit, and Hassle.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The critical role of hassle reduction in customer retention.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The importance of consistency in advertising for brand recognition.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How humor enhances advertising effectiveness by improving memorability.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The difference between visual branding ('little b') and overall brand perception ('big B').</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why marketers should rely on universal marketing principles rather than frequently changing tactics.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Practical strategies for creating memorable, "sticky" ads.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Ethan Decker:</p>
<p>Ethan is a brand strategist and marketing expert who has spent 20 year creating award-winning brand strategy, advertising and marketing research for some of the world's biggest brands.</p>
<p>A scientist by training and a marketer by trade, he's the missing link between science and creativity.</p>
<p>----</p>
<p>Key Learning Points from Ethan Decker:</p>
<ul>
<li>Brand loyalty is overrated. Real growth comes from increasing your customer base rather than deepening loyalty.</li>
<li>Three forces drive customer behavior: Herd (social influence), Habit (routine buying), and Hassle (avoiding inconvenience).</li>
<li>Frequency of purchase correlates directly with how many customers you have, not how loyal they are.</li>
<li>Sticky advertising—ads that are memorable and clearly linked to your brand—significantly boosts customer recall.</li>
<li>Humor can make ads memorable, but it must be used thoughtfully to avoid alienating customers.</li>
<li>Consistency in branding builds recognition and customer trust more effectively than frequent changes.</li>
<li>Customer buying decisions are influenced primarily by ease, familiarity, and social proof—not brand love.</li>
<li>Great marketing combines art and science—science provides structure; creativity makes it memorable.</li>
<li>Marketers have limited control over influencing how often customers buy; external factors play a bigger role.</li>
<li>Successful brands balance ‘little b’ branding (visual elements) with overall reputation and perception (Big B brand).</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[The Myth of Brand Loyalty
Herd, Habit, Hassle: The Science Behind Consumer Behavior
<p>Episode 248 (Ethan is based in Boulder, Colorado)</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>
<p>The science behind consumer behavior and brand growth.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why brand loyalty is often misunderstood and overrated.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How frequency of purchase correlates directly with customer numbers.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Three core factors driving purchasing decisions: Herd, Habit, and Hassle.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The critical role of hassle reduction in customer retention.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The importance of consistency in advertising for brand recognition.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>How humor enhances advertising effectiveness by improving memorability.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The difference between visual branding ('little b') and overall brand perception ('big B').</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why marketers should rely on universal marketing principles rather than frequently changing tactics.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Practical strategies for creating memorable, "sticky" ads.</p>
</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Ethan Decker:</p>
<p>Ethan is a brand strategist and marketing expert who has spent 20 year creating award-winning brand strategy, advertising and marketing research for some of the world's biggest brands.</p>
<p>A scientist by training and a marketer by trade, he's the missing link between science and creativity.</p>
<p>----</p>
<p>Key Learning Points from Ethan Decker:</p>
<ul>
<li>Brand loyalty is overrated. Real growth comes from increasing your customer base rather than deepening loyalty.</li>
<li>Three forces drive customer behavior: Herd (social influence), Habit (routine buying), and Hassle (avoiding inconvenience).</li>
<li>Frequency of purchase correlates directly with how many customers you have, not how loyal they are.</li>
<li>Sticky advertising—ads that are memorable and clearly linked to your brand—significantly boosts customer recall.</li>
<li>Humor can make ads memorable, but it must be used thoughtfully to avoid alienating customers.</li>
<li>Consistency in branding builds recognition and customer trust more effectively than frequent changes.</li>
<li>Customer buying decisions are influenced primarily by ease, familiarity, and social proof—not brand love.</li>
<li>Great marketing combines art and science—science provides structure; creativity makes it memorable.</li>
<li>Marketers have limited control over influencing how often customers buy; external factors play a bigger role.</li>
<li>Successful brands balance ‘little b’ branding (visual elements) with overall reputation and perception (Big B brand).</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Myth of Brand Loyalty
Herd, Habit, Hassle: The Science Behind Consumer Behavior
Episode 248 (Ethan is based in Boulder, Colorado)
-----
In this conversation we explore:


The science behind consumer behavior and brand growth.


Why brand loyalty is often misunderstood and overrated.


How frequency of purchase correlates directly with customer numbers.


Three core factors driving purchasing decisions: Herd, Habit, and Hassle.


The critical role of hassle reduction in customer retention.


The importance of consistency in advertising for brand recognition.


How humor enhances advertising effectiveness by improving memorability.


The difference between visual branding ('little b') and overall brand perception ('big B').


Why marketers should rely on universal marketing principles rather than frequently changing tactics.


Practical strategies for creating memorable, "sticky" ads.


-----
About our guest, Ethan Decker:
Ethan is a brand strategist and marketing expert who has spent 20 year creating award-winning brand strategy, advertising and marketing research for some of the world's biggest brands.
A scientist by training and a marketer by trade, he's the missing link between science and creativity.
----
Key Learning Points from Ethan Decker:

Brand loyalty is overrated. Real growth comes from increasing your customer base rather than deepening loyalty.
Three forces drive customer behavior: Herd (social influence), Habit (routine buying), and Hassle (avoiding inconvenience).
Frequency of purchase correlates directly with how many customers you have, not how loyal they are.
Sticky advertising—ads that are memorable and clearly linked to your brand—significantly boosts customer recall.
Humor can make ads memorable, but it must be used thoughtfully to avoid alienating customers.
Consistency in branding builds recognition and customer trust more effectively than frequent changes.
Customer buying decisions are influenced primarily by ease, familiarity, and social proof—not brand love.
Great marketing combines art and science—science provides structure; creativity makes it memorable.
Marketers have limited control over influencing how often customers buy; external factors play a bigger role.
Successful brands balance ‘little b’ branding (visual elements) with overall reputation and perception (Big B brand).

-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[What to Say (and Not Say) to Someone Facing a Health Crisis
Navigating Tough Conversations: Lessons from a Cancer Warrior
<p>Episode 246 (Deb is based in Atlanta, Georgia</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ol>
<li>How to communicate effectively during a personal crisis</li>
<li>The challenges of sharing personal health struggles with others</li>
<li>Why specificity in communication leads to better support</li>
<li>How to support someone facing a serious illness in a meaningful way</li>
<li>The role of humor in dealing with difficult situations</li>
<li>How to advocate for yourself in the medical system</li>
<li>The common mistakes people make when trying to offer support</li>
<li>How business leaders should communicate a personal health crisis to their team</li>
<li>What employers can do to support employees facing serious health challenges</li>
<li>How facing adversity reshapes life perspectives and priorities</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Deb Krier:</p>
<p>Deb is a three-time cancer survivor...or warrior as she prefers. The cancers were breast, basal cell carcinoma and thyroid cancer.
She has an MBA and a masters in communication. She founded her marketing firm, Wise Woman Communication in 2009.</p>
<p>You can obtain the Bear Hug Care package here. For a 10% discount, use the coupon code 10special.</p>
<p><a href='https://tryingnottodie.live/bear-hug-care-package/'>https://tryingnottodie.live/bear-hug-care-package/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points from the Podcast
<ol>
<li>
<p>The Challenge of Sharing Personal Struggles</p>
<ul>
<li>Many people hesitate to share their diagnosis due to fear of judgment or burdening others.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Importance of Specificity in Communication</p>
<ul>
<li>Instead of vague offers to help, being specific about what you can do makes a real difference.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to Support Someone Facing a Serious Illness</p>
<ul>
<li>Simple gestures, like sending a card or making a concrete offer, are more helpful than vague sympathy.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Role of Humor in Coping with Difficult Situations</p>
<ul>
<li>Humor can be a powerful tool for dealing with hardship, but it should come from the person experiencing it.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Advocating for Yourself in the Medical System</p>
<ul>
<li>Patients need to be proactive, ask questions, and not hesitate to push for answers from healthcare providers.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Pitfalls of Saying "I Know How You Feel"</p>
<ul>
<li>Everyone’s experience is different, and assuming you understand their emotions can be dismissive.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>How Business Leaders Should Communicate a Health Challenge</p>
<ul>
<li>Transparency is key—sharing information directly helps prevent rumors and misinformation.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>What Employers Can Do to Support an Employee Facing a Health Crisis</p>
<ul>
<li>Providing mental health resources and flexibility in work arrangements can make a big impact.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Power of Living in the Present</p>
<ul>
<li>Facing a serious illness often shifts one’s priorities toward making the most of every day.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why Words Matter More Than Ever in Difficult Times</p>
</li>
</ol>
<ul>
<li>Thoughtful, intentional communication helps people feel supported rather than isolated.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[What to Say (and Not Say) to Someone Facing a Health Crisis
Navigating Tough Conversations: Lessons from a Cancer Warrior
<p>Episode 246 (Deb is based in Atlanta, Georgia</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ol>
<li>How to communicate effectively during a personal crisis</li>
<li>The challenges of sharing personal health struggles with others</li>
<li>Why specificity in communication leads to better support</li>
<li>How to support someone facing a serious illness in a meaningful way</li>
<li>The role of humor in dealing with difficult situations</li>
<li>How to advocate for yourself in the medical system</li>
<li>The common mistakes people make when trying to offer support</li>
<li>How business leaders should communicate a personal health crisis to their team</li>
<li>What employers can do to support employees facing serious health challenges</li>
<li>How facing adversity reshapes life perspectives and priorities</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Deb Krier:</p>
<p>Deb is a three-time cancer survivor...or warrior as she prefers. The cancers were breast, basal cell carcinoma and thyroid cancer.<br>
She has an MBA and a masters in communication. She founded her marketing firm, Wise Woman Communication in 2009.</p>
<p>You can obtain the Bear Hug Care package here. For a 10% discount, use the coupon code 10special.</p>
<p><a href='https://tryingnottodie.live/bear-hug-care-package/'>https://tryingnottodie.live/bear-hug-care-package/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points from the Podcast
<ol>
<li>
<p>The Challenge of Sharing Personal Struggles</p>
<ul>
<li>Many people hesitate to share their diagnosis due to fear of judgment or burdening others.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Importance of Specificity in Communication</p>
<ul>
<li>Instead of vague offers to help, being specific about what you can do makes a real difference.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>How to Support Someone Facing a Serious Illness</p>
<ul>
<li>Simple gestures, like sending a card or making a concrete offer, are more helpful than vague sympathy.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Role of Humor in Coping with Difficult Situations</p>
<ul>
<li>Humor can be a powerful tool for dealing with hardship, but it should come from the person experiencing it.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Advocating for Yourself in the Medical System</p>
<ul>
<li>Patients need to be proactive, ask questions, and not hesitate to push for answers from healthcare providers.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Pitfalls of Saying "I Know How You Feel"</p>
<ul>
<li>Everyone’s experience is different, and assuming you understand their emotions can be dismissive.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>How Business Leaders Should Communicate a Health Challenge</p>
<ul>
<li>Transparency is key—sharing information directly helps prevent rumors and misinformation.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>What Employers Can Do to Support an Employee Facing a Health Crisis</p>
<ul>
<li>Providing mental health resources and flexibility in work arrangements can make a big impact.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Power of Living in the Present</p>
<ul>
<li>Facing a serious illness often shifts one’s priorities toward making the most of every day.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why Words Matter More Than Ever in Difficult Times</p>
</li>
</ol>
<ul>
<li>Thoughtful, intentional communication helps people feel supported rather than isolated.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What to Say (and Not Say) to Someone Facing a Health Crisis
Navigating Tough Conversations: Lessons from a Cancer Warrior
Episode 246 (Deb is based in Atlanta, Georgia
In this conversation we explore:

How to communicate effectively during a personal crisis
The challenges of sharing personal health struggles with others
Why specificity in communication leads to better support
How to support someone facing a serious illness in a meaningful way
The role of humor in dealing with difficult situations
How to advocate for yourself in the medical system
The common mistakes people make when trying to offer support
How business leaders should communicate a personal health crisis to their team
What employers can do to support employees facing serious health challenges
How facing adversity reshapes life perspectives and priorities

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About our guest Deb Krier:
Deb is a three-time cancer survivor...or warrior as she prefers. The cancers were breast, basal cell carcinoma and thyroid cancer.She has an MBA and a masters in communication. She founded her marketing firm, Wise Woman Communication in 2009.
You can obtain the Bear Hug Care package here. For a 10% discount, use the coupon code 10special.
https://tryingnottodie.live/bear-hug-care-package/
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Key Learning Points from the Podcast


The Challenge of Sharing Personal Struggles

Many people hesitate to share their diagnosis due to fear of judgment or burdening others.



The Importance of Specificity in Communication

Instead of vague offers to help, being specific about what you can do makes a real difference.



How to Support Someone Facing a Serious Illness

Simple gestures, like sending a card or making a concrete offer, are more helpful than vague sympathy.



The Role of Humor in Coping with Difficult Situations

Humor can be a powerful tool for dealing with hardship, but it should come from the person experiencing it.



Advocating for Yourself in the Medical System

Patients need to be proactive, ask questions, and not hesitate to push for answers from healthcare providers.



The Pitfalls of Saying "I Know How You Feel"

Everyone’s experience is different, and assuming you understand their emotions can be dismissive.



How Business Leaders Should Communicate a Health Challenge

Transparency is key—sharing information directly helps prevent rumors and misinformation.



What Employers Can Do to Support an Employee Facing a Health Crisis

Providing mental health resources and flexibility in work arrangements can make a big impact.



The Power of Living in the Present

Facing a serious illness often shifts one’s priorities toward making the most of every day.



Why Words Matter More Than Ever in Difficult Times



Thoughtful, intentional communication helps people feel supported rather than isolated.

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In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Selling Digital Solutions: Lessons for Microsoft Partners
<p>Episode 245 (Rick is based in the Toronto area)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>How the buyer journey has changed – Why modern buyers are 80-90% through the process before engaging with sales.</li>
<li>The importance of adapting sales presentations – How to tailor messaging for Microsoft, ISVs, SI partners, and end customers.</li>
<li>Why sales professionals must become guides, not just sellers – Understanding the shift from sales pitches to consultative selling.</li>
<li>The role of content in sales success – How different types of content (videos, white papers, case studies) attract different buyer personas.</li>
<li>How to research meeting participants to improve sales conversations – Using LinkedIn and meeting invites to personalize communication.</li>
<li>The three buyer personas in tech sales – The technical buyer, the business buyer, and the economic buyer, and how to address each.</li>
<li>Common mistakes salespeople make in their presentations – Why using the same sales deck for every audience is a bad strategy.</li>
<li>The necessity of a structured sales process – Using frameworks like CCR (Circumstance, Challenge, ROI) to guide buyers.</li>
<li>How to nurture leads that aren’t ready to buy yet – Why a lack of response doesn’t mean they’re uninterested.</li>
<li>Partner relationship strategies – How to communicate effectively with Microsoft, resellers, and ISVs to strengthen collaboration.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Rick McCutcheon:</p>
<p>Rick has award the Microsoft MVP designation 11 times under the category of business applications. MVP stands for Most valuable professional.</p>
<p>He works with Microsoft business partners, both ISV and SI/VARs.</p>
<p>He hosts the podcast, Partner Talks and has published over 240 episodes over the last four years.</p>
<p>Listen to <a href='https://www.partnertalks.com/'>PartnerTalks.com</a></p>
<p>Learn more about <a href='https://www.fullcontactselling.com/'>Full Contact Selling</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points from the Podcast
<ol>
<li>Understanding the Buyer Journey – Buyers today do extensive research before engaging with sales professionals. Sales teams must adapt to this shift.</li>
<li>Tailoring Your Message to Different Audiences – ISVs, SI Partners, Microsoft, and customers each need a different approach.</li>
<li>Content is Key to Sales Success – Effective content marketing attracts potential buyers and moves them through the sales funnel.</li>
<li>The Role of Sales as a Guide, Not a Pitchman – Sales professionals should act as trusted advisors rather than aggressive sellers.</li>
<li>Customizing Presentations for Different Stakeholders – Sales decks should be adapted based on whether the audience includes technical, business, or economic buyers.</li>
<li>The Importance of Researching Meeting Participants – Checking LinkedIn and attendee lists ensures tailored messaging for decision-makers.</li>
<li>Common Sales Mistakes That Kill Deals – Using the same generic sales deck, failing to understand the buyer’s journey, and pushing a hard sell.</li>
<li>Why White Papers and Videos Work – Different types of content appeal to different buyer personas (technical, business, and economic).</li>
<li>Avoiding Lead Misinterpretation – Researchers may never reply to a salesperson, but that doesn’t mean their company isn’t interested.</li>
<li>Best Practices for Partner Relationship Management – Effective communication strategies for working with Microsoft and resellers.</li>
</ol>
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<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Selling Digital Solutions: Lessons for Microsoft Partners
<p>Episode 245 (Rick is based in the Toronto area)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>How the buyer journey has changed – Why modern buyers are 80-90% through the process before engaging with sales.</li>
<li>The importance of adapting sales presentations – How to tailor messaging for Microsoft, ISVs, SI partners, and end customers.</li>
<li>Why sales professionals must become guides, not just sellers – Understanding the shift from sales pitches to consultative selling.</li>
<li>The role of content in sales success – How different types of content (videos, white papers, case studies) attract different buyer personas.</li>
<li>How to research meeting participants to improve sales conversations – Using LinkedIn and meeting invites to personalize communication.</li>
<li>The three buyer personas in tech sales – The technical buyer, the business buyer, and the economic buyer, and how to address each.</li>
<li>Common mistakes salespeople make in their presentations – Why using the same sales deck for every audience is a bad strategy.</li>
<li>The necessity of a structured sales process – Using frameworks like CCR (Circumstance, Challenge, ROI) to guide buyers.</li>
<li>How to nurture leads that aren’t ready to buy yet – Why a lack of response doesn’t mean they’re uninterested.</li>
<li>Partner relationship strategies – How to communicate effectively with Microsoft, resellers, and ISVs to strengthen collaboration.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Rick McCutcheon:</p>
<p>Rick has award the Microsoft MVP designation 11 times under the category of business applications. MVP stands for Most valuable professional.</p>
<p>He works with Microsoft business partners, both ISV and SI/VARs.</p>
<p>He hosts the podcast, Partner Talks and has published over 240 episodes over the last four years.</p>
<p>Listen to <a href='https://www.partnertalks.com/'>PartnerTalks.com</a></p>
<p>Learn more about <a href='https://www.fullcontactselling.com/'>Full Contact Selling</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points from the Podcast
<ol>
<li>Understanding the Buyer Journey – Buyers today do extensive research before engaging with sales professionals. Sales teams must adapt to this shift.</li>
<li>Tailoring Your Message to Different Audiences – ISVs, SI Partners, Microsoft, and customers each need a different approach.</li>
<li>Content is Key to Sales Success – Effective content marketing attracts potential buyers and moves them through the sales funnel.</li>
<li>The Role of Sales as a Guide, Not a Pitchman – Sales professionals should act as trusted advisors rather than aggressive sellers.</li>
<li>Customizing Presentations for Different Stakeholders – Sales decks should be adapted based on whether the audience includes technical, business, or economic buyers.</li>
<li>The Importance of Researching Meeting Participants – Checking LinkedIn and attendee lists ensures tailored messaging for decision-makers.</li>
<li>Common Sales Mistakes That Kill Deals – Using the same generic sales deck, failing to understand the buyer’s journey, and pushing a hard sell.</li>
<li>Why White Papers and Videos Work – Different types of content appeal to different buyer personas (technical, business, and economic).</li>
<li>Avoiding Lead Misinterpretation – Researchers may never reply to a salesperson, but that doesn’t mean their company isn’t interested.</li>
<li>Best Practices for Partner Relationship Management – Effective communication strategies for working with Microsoft and resellers.</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Selling Digital Solutions: Lessons for Microsoft Partners
Episode 245 (Rick is based in the Toronto area)
In this conversation we explore:

How the buyer journey has changed – Why modern buyers are 80-90% through the process before engaging with sales.
The importance of adapting sales presentations – How to tailor messaging for Microsoft, ISVs, SI partners, and end customers.
Why sales professionals must become guides, not just sellers – Understanding the shift from sales pitches to consultative selling.
The role of content in sales success – How different types of content (videos, white papers, case studies) attract different buyer personas.
How to research meeting participants to improve sales conversations – Using LinkedIn and meeting invites to personalize communication.
The three buyer personas in tech sales – The technical buyer, the business buyer, and the economic buyer, and how to address each.
Common mistakes salespeople make in their presentations – Why using the same sales deck for every audience is a bad strategy.
The necessity of a structured sales process – Using frameworks like CCR (Circumstance, Challenge, ROI) to guide buyers.
How to nurture leads that aren’t ready to buy yet – Why a lack of response doesn’t mean they’re uninterested.
Partner relationship strategies – How to communicate effectively with Microsoft, resellers, and ISVs to strengthen collaboration.

-----
About our guest, Rick McCutcheon:
Rick has award the Microsoft MVP designation 11 times under the category of business applications. MVP stands for Most valuable professional.
He works with Microsoft business partners, both ISV and SI/VARs.
He hosts the podcast, Partner Talks and has published over 240 episodes over the last four years.
Listen to PartnerTalks.com
Learn more about Full Contact Selling
-----
Key Learning Points from the Podcast

Understanding the Buyer Journey – Buyers today do extensive research before engaging with sales professionals. Sales teams must adapt to this shift.
Tailoring Your Message to Different Audiences – ISVs, SI Partners, Microsoft, and customers each need a different approach.
Content is Key to Sales Success – Effective content marketing attracts potential buyers and moves them through the sales funnel.
The Role of Sales as a Guide, Not a Pitchman – Sales professionals should act as trusted advisors rather than aggressive sellers.
Customizing Presentations for Different Stakeholders – Sales decks should be adapted based on whether the audience includes technical, business, or economic buyers.
The Importance of Researching Meeting Participants – Checking LinkedIn and attendee lists ensures tailored messaging for decision-makers.
Common Sales Mistakes That Kill Deals – Using the same generic sales deck, failing to understand the buyer’s journey, and pushing a hard sell.
Why White Papers and Videos Work – Different types of content appeal to different buyer personas (technical, business, and economic).
Avoiding Lead Misinterpretation – Researchers may never reply to a salesperson, but that doesn’t mean their company isn’t interested.
Best Practices for Partner Relationship Management – Effective communication strategies for working with Microsoft and resellers.

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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professiona]]></itunes:summary>
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        <title>Holistic Digital Marketing that Works: George Arabian</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Beyond SEO: The Seven Stages of Marketing Success
How Perception Shapes Marketing (More Than Facts Do)
<p>Episode 244 (George is based in the Toronto area)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>The concept of holistic digital marketing and how it differs from traditional marketing approaches.</li>
<li>The seven stages of the customer journey and why businesses should focus beyond conversion.</li>
<li>The role of client advocacy and how turning customers into brand ambassadors reduces acquisition costs.</li>
<li>Why marketing is both an art and a science and how to balance creativity with data-driven decisions.</li>
<li>Common mistakes businesses make in marketing and how to align strategies with business goals.</li>
<li>How AI is changing digital marketing and why human creativity still matters.</li>
<li>The importance of emotional triggers in marketing and how psychology influences buying decisions.</li>
<li>The power of perception in marketing and why it can be more influential than facts.</li>
<li>The pitfalls of generic outreach and how personalized messaging improves response rates.</li>
<li>How to design a marketing strategy that starts with outcomes rather than tactics.</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, George Arabian:</p>
<p>George has over 25 years experience in marketing starting with his first website in 1996 when the Internet was in it's infancy.</p>
<p>George is the founder and CEO of NVISION, one of Canada's top digital marketing agencies. NVISION is known for combining consulting and executive while focusing on lead generation and brand awareness for mid-market B2B clients in manufacturing, professional services and technology.</p>
<p>Learn more about NVISION here  <a href='https://nvision.co/'>https://nvision.co/</a></p>
<p>Follow George Arabian on Linkedin here <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgearabian/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgearabian/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Holistic Digital Marketing Defined</p>
<ul>
<li>Goes beyond omnichannel strategies to focus on the full customer journey.</li>
<li>Involves digital touchpoints that engage prospects from awareness to advocacy.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Seven Stages of the Customer Journey</p>
<ul>
<li>Awareness → Consideration → Conversion → Engagement → Adoption → Retention → Advocacy.</li>
<li>Many businesses stop at conversion, missing out on advocacy benefits.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Power of Client Advocacy</p>
<ul>
<li>The best customers are those who promote you.</li>
<li>Encouraging referrals and testimonials lowers acquisition costs.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Marketing is Both Art and Science</p>
<ul>
<li>Science: Understanding algorithms, analytics, and user behavior.</li>
<li>Art: Crafting compelling messages, visuals, and emotional appeals.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why Most Businesses Don’t Know If Their Marketing Works</p>
<ul>
<li>Many invest in tactics without tracking real business outcomes.</li>
<li>Successful marketing must align with company goals, not just vanity metrics.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>AI’s Role in Digital Marketing</p>
<ul>
<li>AI is a tool, not a replacement for authentic messaging.</li>
<li>It can enhance efficiency but lacks human creativity and emotional depth.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Emotional Triggers Drive Marketing Success</p>
<ul>
<li>People buy based on emotions, not logic.</li>
<li>Using words and imagery that resonate with customers increases engagement.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Personalization and Perception Matter More Than Facts</p>
<ul>
<li>The way customers feel about a brand determines loyalty more than product specs.</li>
<li>Example: Converse sending personalized birthday discounts builds advocacy.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Pitfalls of Generic Outreach</p>
<ul>
<li>Cold, AI-generated LinkedIn messages and impersonal pitches fail.</li>
<li>Authenticity and research in outreach make a difference.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Marketing Should Start with Outcomes, Not Tactics</p>
</li>
</ol>
<ul>
<li>Instead of asking, “Do I need SEO?” businesses should ask, “What is my goal?”</li>
<li>Clear objectives help marketing agencies design effective strategies.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Beyond SEO: The Seven Stages of Marketing Success
How Perception Shapes Marketing (More Than Facts Do)
<p>Episode 244 (George is based in the Toronto area)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>The concept of holistic digital marketing and how it differs from traditional marketing approaches.</li>
<li>The seven stages of the customer journey and why businesses should focus beyond conversion.</li>
<li>The role of client advocacy and how turning customers into brand ambassadors reduces acquisition costs.</li>
<li>Why marketing is both an art and a science and how to balance creativity with data-driven decisions.</li>
<li>Common mistakes businesses make in marketing and how to align strategies with business goals.</li>
<li>How AI is changing digital marketing and why human creativity still matters.</li>
<li>The importance of emotional triggers in marketing and how psychology influences buying decisions.</li>
<li>The power of perception in marketing and why it can be more influential than facts.</li>
<li>The pitfalls of generic outreach and how personalized messaging improves response rates.</li>
<li>How to design a marketing strategy that starts with outcomes rather than tactics.</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, George Arabian:</p>
<p>George has over 25 years experience in marketing starting with his first website in 1996 when the Internet was in it's infancy.</p>
<p>George is the founder and CEO of NVISION, one of Canada's top digital marketing agencies. NVISION is known for combining consulting and executive while focusing on lead generation and brand awareness for mid-market B2B clients in manufacturing, professional services and technology.</p>
<p>Learn more about NVISION here  <a href='https://nvision.co/'>https://nvision.co/</a></p>
<p>Follow George Arabian on Linkedin here <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgearabian/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgearabian/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Holistic Digital Marketing Defined</p>
<ul>
<li>Goes beyond omnichannel strategies to focus on the full customer journey.</li>
<li>Involves digital touchpoints that engage prospects from awareness to advocacy.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Seven Stages of the Customer Journey</p>
<ul>
<li>Awareness → Consideration → Conversion → Engagement → Adoption → Retention → Advocacy.</li>
<li>Many businesses stop at conversion, missing out on advocacy benefits.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Power of Client Advocacy</p>
<ul>
<li>The best customers are those who promote you.</li>
<li>Encouraging referrals and testimonials lowers acquisition costs.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Marketing is Both Art and Science</p>
<ul>
<li>Science: Understanding algorithms, analytics, and user behavior.</li>
<li>Art: Crafting compelling messages, visuals, and emotional appeals.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Why Most Businesses Don’t Know If Their Marketing Works</p>
<ul>
<li>Many invest in tactics without tracking real business outcomes.</li>
<li>Successful marketing must align with company goals, not just vanity metrics.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>AI’s Role in Digital Marketing</p>
<ul>
<li>AI is a tool, not a replacement for authentic messaging.</li>
<li>It can enhance efficiency but lacks human creativity and emotional depth.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Emotional Triggers Drive Marketing Success</p>
<ul>
<li>People buy based on emotions, not logic.</li>
<li>Using words and imagery that resonate with customers increases engagement.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Personalization and Perception Matter More Than Facts</p>
<ul>
<li>The way customers <em>feel</em> about a brand determines loyalty more than product specs.</li>
<li>Example: Converse sending personalized birthday discounts builds advocacy.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Pitfalls of Generic Outreach</p>
<ul>
<li>Cold, AI-generated LinkedIn messages and impersonal pitches fail.</li>
<li>Authenticity and research in outreach make a difference.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Marketing Should Start with Outcomes, Not Tactics</p>
</li>
</ol>
<ul>
<li>Instead of asking, “Do I need SEO?” businesses should ask, “What is my goal?”</li>
<li>Clear objectives help marketing agencies design effective strategies.</li>
</ul>
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<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Beyond SEO: The Seven Stages of Marketing Success
How Perception Shapes Marketing (More Than Facts Do)
Episode 244 (George is based in the Toronto area)
In this conversation we explore:

The concept of holistic digital marketing and how it differs from traditional marketing approaches.
The seven stages of the customer journey and why businesses should focus beyond conversion.
The role of client advocacy and how turning customers into brand ambassadors reduces acquisition costs.
Why marketing is both an art and a science and how to balance creativity with data-driven decisions.
Common mistakes businesses make in marketing and how to align strategies with business goals.
How AI is changing digital marketing and why human creativity still matters.
The importance of emotional triggers in marketing and how psychology influences buying decisions.
The power of perception in marketing and why it can be more influential than facts.
The pitfalls of generic outreach and how personalized messaging improves response rates.
How to design a marketing strategy that starts with outcomes rather than tactics.

About our guest, George Arabian:
George has over 25 years experience in marketing starting with his first website in 1996 when the Internet was in it's infancy.
George is the founder and CEO of NVISION, one of Canada's top digital marketing agencies. NVISION is known for combining consulting and executive while focusing on lead generation and brand awareness for mid-market B2B clients in manufacturing, professional services and technology.
Learn more about NVISION here  https://nvision.co/
Follow George Arabian on Linkedin here https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgearabian/
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Key Learning Points


Holistic Digital Marketing Defined

Goes beyond omnichannel strategies to focus on the full customer journey.
Involves digital touchpoints that engage prospects from awareness to advocacy.



The Seven Stages of the Customer Journey

Awareness → Consideration → Conversion → Engagement → Adoption → Retention → Advocacy.
Many businesses stop at conversion, missing out on advocacy benefits.



The Power of Client Advocacy

The best customers are those who promote you.
Encouraging referrals and testimonials lowers acquisition costs.



Marketing is Both Art and Science

Science: Understanding algorithms, analytics, and user behavior.
Art: Crafting compelling messages, visuals, and emotional appeals.



Why Most Businesses Don’t Know If Their Marketing Works

Many invest in tactics without tracking real business outcomes.
Successful marketing must align with company goals, not just vanity metrics.



AI’s Role in Digital Marketing

AI is a tool, not a replacement for authentic messaging.
It can enhance efficiency but lacks human creativity and emotional depth.



Emotional Triggers Drive Marketing Success

People buy based on emotions, not logic.
Using words and imagery that resonate with customers increases engagement.



Personalization and Perception Matter More Than Facts

The way customers feel about a brand determines loyalty more than product specs.
Example: Converse sending personalized birthday discounts builds advocacy.



The Pitfalls of Generic Outreach

Cold, AI-generated LinkedIn messages and impersonal pitches fail.
Authenticity and research in outreach make a difference.



Marketing Should Start with Outcomes, Not Tactics



Instead of asking, “Do I need SEO?” businesses should ask, “What is my goal?”
Clear objectives help marketing agencies design effective strategies.

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                                    <description><![CDATA[Breaking the Fear of Judgment
Overcoming the Fear of Public Speaking: Baby Steps to Confidence
<p>Episode 243 (Tim is based in Hilton Head, South Carolina)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ol>
<li>The Root of Public Speaking Fear – Understanding why the fear of judgment holds so many back.</li>
<li>How to Overcome Stage Fright – Proven techniques for managing nervousness before and during a speech.</li>
<li>The Role of Preparation in Confidence – Why practicing like an athlete is the key to success.</li>
<li>How to Sound and Look More Confident – Simple strategies to project confidence, even when you don’t feel it.</li>
<li>Mindset Shifts for Public Speaking Success – How small mental adjustments can transform your speaking ability.</li>
<li>Why Mistakes Make You More Relatable – The surprising way imperfections help connect with an audience.</li>
<li>Engaging the Audience from the Start – Effective opening techniques that grab attention immediately.</li>
<li>The Power of Storytelling and Rhetorical Questions – How these tools captivate listeners and keep them engaged.</li>
<li>The Importance of Audience Research – Why knowing your audience should come before crafting your message.</li>
<li>Using Personal Rituals to Reduce Anxiety – How a ‘walk-up song’ or a simple pre-speech routine can boost confidence.</li>
</ol>
<p>----</p>
<p>About our guest, Tim Newman:</p>
<p>Tim earned a Doctorate in Education in Sport Management from the United States Sports Academy and has been teaching at the undergraduate and graduate level for over 20 years. His expertise is is Sport Marketing and Public Relations.</p>
<p>He created the Formula for Public Speaking to help young professionals become better communicators.</p>
<p>You can check out his course at <a href='https://timnewmanspeaks.com/the-formula-for-public-speaking/'>Formula for Public Speaking</a> </p>
<p>Use the coupon code YIM50OFF to save 50% on this course.</p>
<p>Follow the <a href='https://timnewmanspeaks.com/speaking-with-confidence-podcast/'>Speaking with Confidence Podcast</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points from the Podcast
<ol>
<li>
<p>Fear of Public Speaking Stems from Fear of Judgment</p>
<ul>
<li>Many speakers fear being judged, but most audiences want to see the speaker succeed.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Nervousness Never Truly Disappears—Learn to Manage It</p>
<ul>
<li>Even experienced speakers and athletes feel jitters; preparation is key to handling them.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Practice is Essential—You Wouldn’t Compete Without Training</p>
<ul>
<li>Just like in sports, speaking success comes from consistent preparation.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mindset Shift is Critical to Confidence</p>
<ul>
<li>A change in mindset, from fear to purpose, helps speakers become more effective.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mistakes Are Natural and Can Help You Connect with the Audience</p>
<ul>
<li>Audiences appreciate speakers who push through struggles rather than appearing perfect.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Engagement Starts with the First Two Minutes</p>
<ul>
<li>A strong opening sets the tone; use questions, humor, or audience acknowledgment.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Preparation and Authenticity Create a Confident Sounding Voice</p>
<ul>
<li>Know your content, be yourself, and avoid trying to change your natural voice.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>A Walk-Up Song or Ritual Can Help You Get in the Right Mindset</p>
<ul>
<li>Just like athletes have pre-game rituals, speakers can use music or mental exercises.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Storytelling and Rhetorical Questions Engage the Audience</p>
<ul>
<li>Beginning with a thought-provoking question or story draws people in immediately.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Audience First: Know Who They Are Before Crafting Your Message</p>
</li>
</ol>
<ul>
<li>Content should be tailored to the audience, not just what the speaker wants to say.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Breaking the Fear of Judgment
Overcoming the Fear of Public Speaking: Baby Steps to Confidence
<p>Episode 243 (Tim is based in Hilton Head, South Carolina)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ol>
<li>The Root of Public Speaking Fear – Understanding why the fear of judgment holds so many back.</li>
<li>How to Overcome Stage Fright – Proven techniques for managing nervousness before and during a speech.</li>
<li>The Role of Preparation in Confidence – Why practicing like an athlete is the key to success.</li>
<li>How to Sound and Look More Confident – Simple strategies to project confidence, even when you don’t feel it.</li>
<li>Mindset Shifts for Public Speaking Success – How small mental adjustments can transform your speaking ability.</li>
<li>Why Mistakes Make You More Relatable – The surprising way imperfections help connect with an audience.</li>
<li>Engaging the Audience from the Start – Effective opening techniques that grab attention immediately.</li>
<li>The Power of Storytelling and Rhetorical Questions – How these tools captivate listeners and keep them engaged.</li>
<li>The Importance of Audience Research – Why knowing your audience should come before crafting your message.</li>
<li>Using Personal Rituals to Reduce Anxiety – How a ‘walk-up song’ or a simple pre-speech routine can boost confidence.</li>
</ol>
<p>----</p>
<p>About our guest, Tim Newman:</p>
<p>Tim earned a Doctorate in Education in Sport Management from the United States Sports Academy and has been teaching at the undergraduate and graduate level for over 20 years. His expertise is is Sport Marketing and Public Relations.</p>
<p>He created the Formula for Public Speaking to help young professionals become better communicators.</p>
<p>You can check out his course at <a href='https://timnewmanspeaks.com/the-formula-for-public-speaking/'>Formula for Public Speaking</a> </p>
<p>Use the coupon code YIM50OFF to save 50% on this course.</p>
<p>Follow the <a href='https://timnewmanspeaks.com/speaking-with-confidence-podcast/'>Speaking with Confidence Podcast</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points from the Podcast
<ol>
<li>
<p>Fear of Public Speaking Stems from Fear of Judgment</p>
<ul>
<li>Many speakers fear being judged, but most audiences want to see the speaker succeed.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Nervousness Never Truly Disappears—Learn to Manage It</p>
<ul>
<li>Even experienced speakers and athletes feel jitters; preparation is key to handling them.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Practice is Essential—You Wouldn’t Compete Without Training</p>
<ul>
<li>Just like in sports, speaking success comes from consistent preparation.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mindset Shift is Critical to Confidence</p>
<ul>
<li>A change in mindset, from fear to purpose, helps speakers become more effective.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mistakes Are Natural and Can Help You Connect with the Audience</p>
<ul>
<li>Audiences appreciate speakers who push through struggles rather than appearing perfect.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Engagement Starts with the First Two Minutes</p>
<ul>
<li>A strong opening sets the tone; use questions, humor, or audience acknowledgment.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Preparation and Authenticity Create a Confident Sounding Voice</p>
<ul>
<li>Know your content, be yourself, and avoid trying to change your natural voice.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>A Walk-Up Song or Ritual Can Help You Get in the Right Mindset</p>
<ul>
<li>Just like athletes have pre-game rituals, speakers can use music or mental exercises.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Storytelling and Rhetorical Questions Engage the Audience</p>
<ul>
<li>Beginning with a thought-provoking question or story draws people in immediately.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Audience First: Know Who They Are Before Crafting Your Message</p>
</li>
</ol>
<ul>
<li>Content should be tailored to the audience, not just what the speaker wants to say.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Breaking the Fear of Judgment
Overcoming the Fear of Public Speaking: Baby Steps to Confidence
Episode 243 (Tim is based in Hilton Head, South Carolina)
In this conversation we explore:

The Root of Public Speaking Fear – Understanding why the fear of judgment holds so many back.
How to Overcome Stage Fright – Proven techniques for managing nervousness before and during a speech.
The Role of Preparation in Confidence – Why practicing like an athlete is the key to success.
How to Sound and Look More Confident – Simple strategies to project confidence, even when you don’t feel it.
Mindset Shifts for Public Speaking Success – How small mental adjustments can transform your speaking ability.
Why Mistakes Make You More Relatable – The surprising way imperfections help connect with an audience.
Engaging the Audience from the Start – Effective opening techniques that grab attention immediately.
The Power of Storytelling and Rhetorical Questions – How these tools captivate listeners and keep them engaged.
The Importance of Audience Research – Why knowing your audience should come before crafting your message.
Using Personal Rituals to Reduce Anxiety – How a ‘walk-up song’ or a simple pre-speech routine can boost confidence.

----
About our guest, Tim Newman:
Tim earned a Doctorate in Education in Sport Management from the United States Sports Academy and has been teaching at the undergraduate and graduate level for over 20 years. His expertise is is Sport Marketing and Public Relations.
He created the Formula for Public Speaking to help young professionals become better communicators.
You can check out his course at Formula for Public Speaking 
Use the coupon code YIM50OFF to save 50% on this course.
Follow the Speaking with Confidence Podcast
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Key Learning Points from the Podcast


Fear of Public Speaking Stems from Fear of Judgment

Many speakers fear being judged, but most audiences want to see the speaker succeed.



Nervousness Never Truly Disappears—Learn to Manage It

Even experienced speakers and athletes feel jitters; preparation is key to handling them.



Practice is Essential—You Wouldn’t Compete Without Training

Just like in sports, speaking success comes from consistent preparation.



Mindset Shift is Critical to Confidence

A change in mindset, from fear to purpose, helps speakers become more effective.



Mistakes Are Natural and Can Help You Connect with the Audience

Audiences appreciate speakers who push through struggles rather than appearing perfect.



Engagement Starts with the First Two Minutes

A strong opening sets the tone; use questions, humor, or audience acknowledgment.



Preparation and Authenticity Create a Confident Sounding Voice

Know your content, be yourself, and avoid trying to change your natural voice.



A Walk-Up Song or Ritual Can Help You Get in the Right Mindset

Just like athletes have pre-game rituals, speakers can use music or mental exercises.



Storytelling and Rhetorical Questions Engage the Audience

Beginning with a thought-provoking question or story draws people in immediately.



Audience First: Know Who They Are Before Crafting Your Message



Content should be tailored to the audience, not just what the speaker wants to say.

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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising pro]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Fixing Toxic Leadership: How to Coach Difficult Leaders Back on Track
Leadership Challenges: When High Performers Push People Away
<p>Episode 242 ( Dotty is based in Milwaukee. Repeat of episode 192)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ol>
<li>The challenges of leadership development – Why some leaders struggle despite their experience.</li>
<li>How organizations decide whether to invest in leadership coaching – What factors indicate a leader is worth saving.</li>
<li>Why high performers can still be destructive – The hidden costs of results-driven leadership.</li>
<li>The most common toxic leadership behaviors – Overpowering, micromanaging, dismissing feedback, and creating fear.</li>
<li>How personal triggers affect leadership style – The role of stress, past experiences, and subconscious reactions.</li>
<li>The power of feedback and self-awareness – How leaders can recognize and change harmful behaviors.</li>
<li>The role of gender in leadership feedback – How women are often labeled "too aggressive" or "too emotional."</li>
<li>How to foster constructive workplace conflict – Encouraging open discussion without personal attacks.</li>
<li>Strategies for team members dealing with difficult leaders – How colleagues can provide feedback without confrontation.</li>
<li>Practical steps for leaders to balance authority with empathy – Tools and techniques for creating a more positive impact.</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Dotty Posto:</p>
<p>Dotty Posto helps CEOs and Senior Leaders ignite their stagnant culture to inspire their people to outstanding performance.</p>
<p>Dotty began her coaching and consulting business after working in Organizational Development for Fortune 500 companies such as The Chicago Tribune, Aon-Hewitt and Harley-Davidson Motor Company.</p>
<p>Dotty’s clients say, through their work with her, they’ve experienced new levels creativity,  effectiveness, and well-being...without the struggle they'd become accustomed to.  </p>
<p>Learn more about Dotty and her services at her website</p>
<p><a href='https://inplainsightinc.com/'>https://inplainsightinc.com/</a></p>
<p>You can find a free Energy Assessment and the free videos for Leadership Development.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points from the Interview
<ol>
<li>
<p>Leaders Can Change, But Only If They’re Open to It</p>
<ul>
<li>A company must be committed to supporting a leader’s growth, and the leader must be willing to receive feedback and change.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Toxic Behavior in Leaders Often Comes from Personal Triggers</p>
<ul>
<li>Leaders who struggle with workplace interactions are often reacting from a place of personal stress, past experiences, or subconscious triggers.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>High Performance Doesn’t Justify Poor Behavior</p>
<ul>
<li>A leader may be delivering results, but if they create a toxic environment, the overall impact on the team and company is negative.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Common Signs of Poor Leadership</p>
<ul>
<li>Leaders who overpower conversations, micromanage, dismiss feedback, or create fear among their teams.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Feedback Culture is Key to Leadership Success</p>
<ul>
<li>Constructive feedback should be built into an organization’s culture, ensuring leaders receive honest input and can adjust accordingly.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Power of Self-Observation and Accountability</p>
<ul>
<li>Leaders must recognize their own patterns of behavior and work with trusted colleagues for real-time feedback.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Emotions Play a Role in Leadership, But Shouldn’t Control It</p>
<ul>
<li>Women, in particular, often receive conflicting feedback (too aggressive vs. too emotional), and they need to find their own authentic balance.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leaders Must Learn to Separate Issues from Individuals</p>
<ul>
<li>Workplace debates should be about the idea, not the person. Leaders must be skilled at discussing disagreements without making them personal.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Team Members Can Influence Leadership Behavior</p>
<ul>
<li>Employees can tactfully question and provide feedback to difficult leaders, helping guide them toward better workplace interactions.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Healthy Workplace Cultures Are Built on Trust and Constructive Conflict</p>
</li>
</ol>
<ul>
<li>Leaders should encourage open discussion, embrace challenges, and create a space where their teams feel safe speaking up.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Fixing Toxic Leadership: How to Coach Difficult Leaders Back on Track
Leadership Challenges: When High Performers Push People Away
<p>Episode 242 ( Dotty is based in Milwaukee. Repeat of episode 192)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ol>
<li>The challenges of leadership development – Why some leaders struggle despite their experience.</li>
<li>How organizations decide whether to invest in leadership coaching – What factors indicate a leader is worth saving.</li>
<li>Why high performers can still be destructive – The hidden costs of results-driven leadership.</li>
<li>The most common toxic leadership behaviors – Overpowering, micromanaging, dismissing feedback, and creating fear.</li>
<li>How personal triggers affect leadership style – The role of stress, past experiences, and subconscious reactions.</li>
<li>The power of feedback and self-awareness – How leaders can recognize and change harmful behaviors.</li>
<li>The role of gender in leadership feedback – How women are often labeled "too aggressive" or "too emotional."</li>
<li>How to foster constructive workplace conflict – Encouraging open discussion without personal attacks.</li>
<li>Strategies for team members dealing with difficult leaders – How colleagues can provide feedback without confrontation.</li>
<li>Practical steps for leaders to balance authority with empathy – Tools and techniques for creating a more positive impact.</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Dotty Posto:</p>
<p>Dotty Posto helps CEOs and Senior Leaders ignite their stagnant culture to inspire their people to outstanding performance.</p>
<p>Dotty began her coaching and consulting business after working in Organizational Development for Fortune 500 companies such as The Chicago Tribune, Aon-Hewitt and Harley-Davidson Motor Company.</p>
<p>Dotty’s clients say, through their work with her, they’ve experienced new levels creativity,  effectiveness, and well-being...without the struggle they'd become accustomed to.  </p>
<p>Learn more about Dotty and her services at her website</p>
<p><a href='https://inplainsightinc.com/'>https://inplainsightinc.com/</a></p>
<p>You can find a free Energy Assessment and the free videos for Leadership Development.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points from the Interview
<ol>
<li>
<p>Leaders Can Change, But Only If They’re Open to It</p>
<ul>
<li>A company must be committed to supporting a leader’s growth, and the leader must be willing to receive feedback and change.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Toxic Behavior in Leaders Often Comes from Personal Triggers</p>
<ul>
<li>Leaders who struggle with workplace interactions are often reacting from a place of personal stress, past experiences, or subconscious triggers.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>High Performance Doesn’t Justify Poor Behavior</p>
<ul>
<li>A leader may be delivering results, but if they create a toxic environment, the overall impact on the team and company is negative.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Common Signs of Poor Leadership</p>
<ul>
<li>Leaders who overpower conversations, micromanage, dismiss feedback, or create fear among their teams.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Feedback Culture is Key to Leadership Success</p>
<ul>
<li>Constructive feedback should be built into an organization’s culture, ensuring leaders receive honest input and can adjust accordingly.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Power of Self-Observation and Accountability</p>
<ul>
<li>Leaders must recognize their own patterns of behavior and work with trusted colleagues for real-time feedback.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Emotions Play a Role in Leadership, But Shouldn’t Control It</p>
<ul>
<li>Women, in particular, often receive conflicting feedback (too aggressive vs. too emotional), and they need to find their own authentic balance.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leaders Must Learn to Separate Issues from Individuals</p>
<ul>
<li>Workplace debates should be about the idea, not the person. Leaders must be skilled at discussing disagreements without making them personal.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Team Members Can Influence Leadership Behavior</p>
<ul>
<li>Employees can tactfully question and provide feedback to difficult leaders, helping guide them toward better workplace interactions.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Healthy Workplace Cultures Are Built on Trust and Constructive Conflict</p>
</li>
</ol>
<ul>
<li>Leaders should encourage open discussion, embrace challenges, and create a space where their teams feel safe speaking up.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Fixing Toxic Leadership: How to Coach Difficult Leaders Back on Track
Leadership Challenges: When High Performers Push People Away
Episode 242 ( Dotty is based in Milwaukee. Repeat of episode 192)
In this conversation we explore:

The challenges of leadership development – Why some leaders struggle despite their experience.
How organizations decide whether to invest in leadership coaching – What factors indicate a leader is worth saving.
Why high performers can still be destructive – The hidden costs of results-driven leadership.
The most common toxic leadership behaviors – Overpowering, micromanaging, dismissing feedback, and creating fear.
How personal triggers affect leadership style – The role of stress, past experiences, and subconscious reactions.
The power of feedback and self-awareness – How leaders can recognize and change harmful behaviors.
The role of gender in leadership feedback – How women are often labeled "too aggressive" or "too emotional."
How to foster constructive workplace conflict – Encouraging open discussion without personal attacks.
Strategies for team members dealing with difficult leaders – How colleagues can provide feedback without confrontation.
Practical steps for leaders to balance authority with empathy – Tools and techniques for creating a more positive impact.

-----
About our guest, Dotty Posto:
Dotty Posto helps CEOs and Senior Leaders ignite their stagnant culture to inspire their people to outstanding performance.
Dotty began her coaching and consulting business after working in Organizational Development for Fortune 500 companies such as The Chicago Tribune, Aon-Hewitt and Harley-Davidson Motor Company.
Dotty’s clients say, through their work with her, they’ve experienced new levels creativity,  effectiveness, and well-being...without the struggle they'd become accustomed to.  
Learn more about Dotty and her services at her website
https://inplainsightinc.com/
You can find a free Energy Assessment and the free videos for Leadership Development.
-----
Key Learning Points from the Interview


Leaders Can Change, But Only If They’re Open to It

A company must be committed to supporting a leader’s growth, and the leader must be willing to receive feedback and change.



Toxic Behavior in Leaders Often Comes from Personal Triggers

Leaders who struggle with workplace interactions are often reacting from a place of personal stress, past experiences, or subconscious triggers.



High Performance Doesn’t Justify Poor Behavior

A leader may be delivering results, but if they create a toxic environment, the overall impact on the team and company is negative.



Common Signs of Poor Leadership

Leaders who overpower conversations, micromanage, dismiss feedback, or create fear among their teams.



Feedback Culture is Key to Leadership Success

Constructive feedback should be built into an organization’s culture, ensuring leaders receive honest input and can adjust accordingly.



The Power of Self-Observation and Accountability

Leaders must recognize their own patterns of behavior and work with trusted colleagues for real-time feedback.



Emotions Play a Role in Leadership, But Shouldn’t Control It

Women, in particular, often receive conflicting feedback (too aggressive vs. too emotional), and they need to find their own authentic balance.



Leaders Must Learn to Separate Issues from Individuals

Workplace debates should be about the idea, not the person. Leaders must be skilled at discussing disagreements without making them personal.



Team Members Can Influence Leadership Behavior

Employees can tactfully question and provide feedback to difficult leaders, helping guide them toward better workplace interactions.



Healthy Workplace Cultures Are Built on Trust and Constructive Conflict



Leaders should encourage open discussion, embrace challenges, and create a space where their teams feel safe speaking up.

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Why corporate videos fail: The Power of Unscripted Content
<p>Episode 241 (Pat is based in Philadelphia)</p>
In this conversation, we explore..."
<ol>
<li>The Pitfalls of Traditional Corporate Videos – Why scripted corporate videos often fail to connect with audiences.</li>
<li>The Power of Unscripted Content – How authentic storytelling makes business videos more engaging.</li>
<li>Overcoming Camera Anxiety – Why people freeze on camera and how to help them relax.</li>
<li>The Purpose of Business Videos – How to create videos that solve problems or seize opportunities.</li>
<li>The Role of Storytelling in Recruiting Videos – Why showcasing culture honestly attracts the right employees.</li>
<li>What Makes a Business Video Effective – Tips on video length, engagement, and editing.</li>
<li>Why Over-Preparation Hurts Video Authenticity – The benefits of trusting the process and allowing natural conversations.</li>
<li>How to Use Video to Improve Hiring and Retention – Filtering candidates through transparent company culture stories.</li>
<li>The Importance of Editing in Business Videos – How to refine hours of footage into a compelling final cut.</li>
<li>The Human Element in Video Marketing – The role of humor, music, and emotion in making content memorable.</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About out guest, Pat Taggart:</p>
<p>Pat has been creating authentic, unscripted content for business for 23 years. He detests the traditional corporate videos and his goal is to create the polar opposite. You can learn more about Pat and his video services at </p>
<p><a href='https://www.skybluecreative.com/'>https://www.skybluecreative.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>








Key Learning Points
1. The Problem with Traditional Corporate Videos
<ul>
<li>Corporate videos often feel scripted, unnatural, and intimidating.</li>
<li>Employees struggle to sound genuine when reading a script.</li>
</ul>
2. The Power of Unscripted, Authentic Content
<ul>
<li>Genuine conversations help businesses tell better stories.</li>
<li>The best videos mine existing stories instead of forcing a narrative.</li>
</ul>
3. Overcoming Camera Intimidation
<ul>
<li>People dislike hearing their own voices and seeing themselves on video.</li>
<li>The solution: stop consuming your own content—it’s for the audience, not for you.</li>
</ul>
4. Video’s Purpose in Business
<ul>
<li>A video should solve a business problem or capitalize on an opportunity.</li>
<li>If it doesn't achieve these goals, it's not worth creating.</li>
</ul>
5. The Importance of Storytelling in Recruiting Videos
<ul>
<li>Culture stories should come from employees, not just leadership.</li>
<li>Highlighting who isn’t a fit is just as important as attracting the right talent.</li>
</ul>
6. How to Make a Business Video More Engaging
<ul>
<li>Keep it as short as possible without losing the message.</li>
<li>Use bloopers and humor to make content feel more human.</li>
<li>Music plays a key role in setting the emotional tone of a video.</li>
</ul>
7. Why Over-Preparation Hurts Video Content
<ul>
<li>The more someone prepares specific lines, the more robotic they sound.</li>
<li>The best content comes from spontaneous, real conversations.</li>
</ul>
8. The Role of Editing in Crafting a Strong Message
<ul>
<li>A successful two-minute video might come from hours of footage.</li>
<li>Editing ensures only the most compelling moments remain.</li>
</ul>
9. How Videos Can Improve Employee Retention
<ul>
<li>Accurately showcasing company culture prevents bad hires.</li>
<li>Transparency helps employees self-select the right workplace.</li>
</ul>
10. Simple Ways to Improve On-Camera Performance
<ul>
<li>Positive reinforcement helps subjects relax.</li>
<li>The interviewer’s energy influences the interviewee’s energy.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>







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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Overcoming camera anxiety to boost confidence
Why corporate videos fail: The Power of Unscripted Content
<p>Episode 241 (Pat is based in Philadelphia)</p>
In this conversation, we explore..."
<ol>
<li>The Pitfalls of Traditional Corporate Videos – Why scripted corporate videos often fail to connect with audiences.</li>
<li>The Power of Unscripted Content – How authentic storytelling makes business videos more engaging.</li>
<li>Overcoming Camera Anxiety – Why people freeze on camera and how to help them relax.</li>
<li>The Purpose of Business Videos – How to create videos that solve problems or seize opportunities.</li>
<li>The Role of Storytelling in Recruiting Videos – Why showcasing culture honestly attracts the right employees.</li>
<li>What Makes a Business Video Effective – Tips on video length, engagement, and editing.</li>
<li>Why Over-Preparation Hurts Video Authenticity – The benefits of trusting the process and allowing natural conversations.</li>
<li>How to Use Video to Improve Hiring and Retention – Filtering candidates through transparent company culture stories.</li>
<li>The Importance of Editing in Business Videos – How to refine hours of footage into a compelling final cut.</li>
<li>The Human Element in Video Marketing – The role of humor, music, and emotion in making content memorable.</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About out guest, Pat Taggart:</p>
<p>Pat has been creating authentic, unscripted content for business for 23 years. He detests the traditional corporate videos and his goal is to create the polar opposite. You can learn more about Pat and his video services at </p>
<p><a href='https://www.skybluecreative.com/'>https://www.skybluecreative.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>








Key Learning Points
1. The Problem with Traditional Corporate Videos
<ul>
<li>Corporate videos often feel scripted, unnatural, and intimidating.</li>
<li>Employees struggle to sound genuine when reading a script.</li>
</ul>
2. The Power of Unscripted, Authentic Content
<ul>
<li>Genuine conversations help businesses tell better stories.</li>
<li>The best videos mine existing stories instead of forcing a narrative.</li>
</ul>
3. Overcoming Camera Intimidation
<ul>
<li>People dislike hearing their own voices and seeing themselves on video.</li>
<li>The solution: stop consuming your own content—it’s for the audience, not for you.</li>
</ul>
4. Video’s Purpose in Business
<ul>
<li>A video should solve a business problem or capitalize on an opportunity.</li>
<li>If it doesn't achieve these goals, it's not worth creating.</li>
</ul>
5. The Importance of Storytelling in Recruiting Videos
<ul>
<li>Culture stories should come from employees, not just leadership.</li>
<li>Highlighting who isn’t a fit is just as important as attracting the right talent.</li>
</ul>
6. How to Make a Business Video More Engaging
<ul>
<li>Keep it as short as possible without losing the message.</li>
<li>Use bloopers and humor to make content feel more human.</li>
<li>Music plays a key role in setting the emotional tone of a video.</li>
</ul>
7. Why Over-Preparation Hurts Video Content
<ul>
<li>The more someone prepares specific lines, the more robotic they sound.</li>
<li>The best content comes from spontaneous, real conversations.</li>
</ul>
8. The Role of Editing in Crafting a Strong Message
<ul>
<li>A successful two-minute video might come from hours of footage.</li>
<li>Editing ensures only the most compelling moments remain.</li>
</ul>
9. How Videos Can Improve Employee Retention
<ul>
<li>Accurately showcasing company culture prevents bad hires.</li>
<li>Transparency helps employees self-select the right workplace.</li>
</ul>
10. Simple Ways to Improve On-Camera Performance
<ul>
<li>Positive reinforcement helps subjects relax.</li>
<li>The interviewer’s energy influences the interviewee’s energy.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>







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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Overcoming camera anxiety to boost confidence
Why corporate videos fail: The Power of Unscripted Content
Episode 241 (Pat is based in Philadelphia)
In this conversation, we explore..."

The Pitfalls of Traditional Corporate Videos – Why scripted corporate videos often fail to connect with audiences.
The Power of Unscripted Content – How authentic storytelling makes business videos more engaging.
Overcoming Camera Anxiety – Why people freeze on camera and how to help them relax.
The Purpose of Business Videos – How to create videos that solve problems or seize opportunities.
The Role of Storytelling in Recruiting Videos – Why showcasing culture honestly attracts the right employees.
What Makes a Business Video Effective – Tips on video length, engagement, and editing.
Why Over-Preparation Hurts Video Authenticity – The benefits of trusting the process and allowing natural conversations.
How to Use Video to Improve Hiring and Retention – Filtering candidates through transparent company culture stories.
The Importance of Editing in Business Videos – How to refine hours of footage into a compelling final cut.
The Human Element in Video Marketing – The role of humor, music, and emotion in making content memorable.

-----
About out guest, Pat Taggart:
Pat has been creating authentic, unscripted content for business for 23 years. He detests the traditional corporate videos and his goal is to create the polar opposite. You can learn more about Pat and his video services at 
https://www.skybluecreative.com/
-----








Key Learning Points
1. The Problem with Traditional Corporate Videos

Corporate videos often feel scripted, unnatural, and intimidating.
Employees struggle to sound genuine when reading a script.

2. The Power of Unscripted, Authentic Content

Genuine conversations help businesses tell better stories.
The best videos mine existing stories instead of forcing a narrative.

3. Overcoming Camera Intimidation

People dislike hearing their own voices and seeing themselves on video.
The solution: stop consuming your own content—it’s for the audience, not for you.

4. Video’s Purpose in Business

A video should solve a business problem or capitalize on an opportunity.
If it doesn't achieve these goals, it's not worth creating.

5. The Importance of Storytelling in Recruiting Videos

Culture stories should come from employees, not just leadership.
Highlighting who isn’t a fit is just as important as attracting the right talent.

6. How to Make a Business Video More Engaging

Keep it as short as possible without losing the message.
Use bloopers and humor to make content feel more human.
Music plays a key role in setting the emotional tone of a video.

7. Why Over-Preparation Hurts Video Content

The more someone prepares specific lines, the more robotic they sound.
The best content comes from spontaneous, real conversations.

8. The Role of Editing in Crafting a Strong Message

A successful two-minute video might come from hours of footage.
Editing ensures only the most compelling moments remain.

9. How Videos Can Improve Employee Retention

Accurately showcasing company culture prevents bad hires.
Transparency helps employees self-select the right workplace.

10. Simple Ways to Improve On-Camera Performance

Positive reinforcement helps subjects relax.
The interviewer’s energy influences the interviewee’s energy.

-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 







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Mastering Force vs. Generative Energy
<p>Episode 240 (Chad is based in Florida)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Chad E. Cooper we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>The distinction between serving and selling, especially when working with high performers like billionaires and Olympians.</li>
<li>The connection between spiritual growth and material success.</li>
<li>How to identify and close gaps in personal and professional development.</li>
<li>The transition from force energy to generative energy in achieving lasting success.</li>
<li>The role of purpose-driven actions in leadership and performance.</li>
<li>Practical strategies for time management and avoiding burnout.</li>
<li>Building empathy and compassion as key components of effective leadership.</li>
<li>The importance of unattachment to external validation in maintaining self-worth.</li>
<li>Why discomfort is essential for success and how to avoid unnecessary suffering.</li>
<li>The power of focusing on spiritual intimacy to strengthen all aspects of life.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Chad E. Cooper:</p>
<p>Chad is a coach to high-performers of several industries, billionaires, professional athletes, Gold medal  Olympians and amazing entrepreneurs.</p>
<p>His experiences includes high-performances as an entrepreneur, athlete and in the military.</p>
<p>He is the author of, "Time Isn't the Problem".</p>
<p>To learn more about Chad, his coaching and his book, visit:</p>
<p><a href='https://www.chadecooper.com/'>https://www.chadecooper.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Difference Between Serving and Selling</p>
<ul>
<li>Approach interactions with a mindset to listen and fill gaps, rather than pushing an agenda.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Force vs. Generative Energy</p>
<ul>
<li>High performers often rely on force energy but thrive better when transitioning to generative energy.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Spiritual Intimacy and Its Role in Fulfillment</p>
<ul>
<li>True joy and peace come from internal spiritual connection, not external achievements.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Importance of Purpose</p>
<ul>
<li>Purpose-driven actions provide clarity, motivation, and resilience during challenges.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Compartmentalizing and Setting Boundaries</p>
<ul>
<li>Emotional health and effective leadership require compartmentalizing stress and focusing on controllable factors.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Navigating Challenges Through Resilience</p>
<ul>
<li>Discomfort is part of success, but suffering is optional and often tied to our narratives.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Unattachment to External Validation</p>
<ul>
<li>Success comes from focusing on personal purpose, not the praise or criticism of others.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Empathy and Compassion in Leadership</p>
<ul>
<li>High performers thrive when they integrate empathy and understanding into their decision-making processes.</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Why do billionaires need coaching and how does that help you?
Mastering Force vs. Generative Energy
<p>Episode 240 (Chad is based in Florida)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Chad E. Cooper we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>The distinction between serving and selling, especially when working with high performers like billionaires and Olympians.</li>
<li>The connection between spiritual growth and material success.</li>
<li>How to identify and close gaps in personal and professional development.</li>
<li>The transition from force energy to generative energy in achieving lasting success.</li>
<li>The role of purpose-driven actions in leadership and performance.</li>
<li>Practical strategies for time management and avoiding burnout.</li>
<li>Building empathy and compassion as key components of effective leadership.</li>
<li>The importance of unattachment to external validation in maintaining self-worth.</li>
<li>Why discomfort is essential for success and how to avoid unnecessary suffering.</li>
<li>The power of focusing on spiritual intimacy to strengthen all aspects of life.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Chad E. Cooper:</p>
<p>Chad is a coach to high-performers of several industries, billionaires, professional athletes, Gold medal  Olympians and amazing entrepreneurs.</p>
<p>His experiences includes high-performances as an entrepreneur, athlete and in the military.</p>
<p>He is the author of, "Time Isn't the Problem".</p>
<p>To learn more about Chad, his coaching and his book, visit:</p>
<p><a href='https://www.chadecooper.com/'>https://www.chadecooper.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Difference Between Serving and Selling</p>
<ul>
<li>Approach interactions with a mindset to listen and fill gaps, rather than pushing an agenda.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Force vs. Generative Energy</p>
<ul>
<li>High performers often rely on force energy but thrive better when transitioning to generative energy.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Spiritual Intimacy and Its Role in Fulfillment</p>
<ul>
<li>True joy and peace come from internal spiritual connection, not external achievements.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Importance of Purpose</p>
<ul>
<li>Purpose-driven actions provide clarity, motivation, and resilience during challenges.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Compartmentalizing and Setting Boundaries</p>
<ul>
<li>Emotional health and effective leadership require compartmentalizing stress and focusing on controllable factors.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Navigating Challenges Through Resilience</p>
<ul>
<li>Discomfort is part of success, but suffering is optional and often tied to our narratives.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Unattachment to External Validation</p>
<ul>
<li>Success comes from focusing on personal purpose, not the praise or criticism of others.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Empathy and Compassion in Leadership</p>
<ul>
<li>High performers thrive when they integrate empathy and understanding into their decision-making processes.</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why do billionaires need coaching and how does that help you?
Mastering Force vs. Generative Energy
Episode 240 (Chad is based in Florida)
In this conversation with Chad E. Cooper we explore:

The distinction between serving and selling, especially when working with high performers like billionaires and Olympians.
The connection between spiritual growth and material success.
How to identify and close gaps in personal and professional development.
The transition from force energy to generative energy in achieving lasting success.
The role of purpose-driven actions in leadership and performance.
Practical strategies for time management and avoiding burnout.
Building empathy and compassion as key components of effective leadership.
The importance of unattachment to external validation in maintaining self-worth.
Why discomfort is essential for success and how to avoid unnecessary suffering.
The power of focusing on spiritual intimacy to strengthen all aspects of life.

-----
About our guest, Chad E. Cooper:
Chad is a coach to high-performers of several industries, billionaires, professional athletes, Gold medal  Olympians and amazing entrepreneurs.
His experiences includes high-performances as an entrepreneur, athlete and in the military.
He is the author of, "Time Isn't the Problem".
To learn more about Chad, his coaching and his book, visit:
https://www.chadecooper.com/
-----
Key Learning Points


Difference Between Serving and Selling

Approach interactions with a mindset to listen and fill gaps, rather than pushing an agenda.



Force vs. Generative Energy

High performers often rely on force energy but thrive better when transitioning to generative energy.



Spiritual Intimacy and Its Role in Fulfillment

True joy and peace come from internal spiritual connection, not external achievements.



The Importance of Purpose

Purpose-driven actions provide clarity, motivation, and resilience during challenges.



Compartmentalizing and Setting Boundaries

Emotional health and effective leadership require compartmentalizing stress and focusing on controllable factors.



Navigating Challenges Through Resilience

Discomfort is part of success, but suffering is optional and often tied to our narratives.



Unattachment to External Validation

Success comes from focusing on personal purpose, not the praise or criticism of others.



Empathy and Compassion in Leadership

High performers thrive when they integrate empathy and understanding into their decision-making processes.



-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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        <title>Drive Innovation with Conflict: Vanessa Thompson</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How diversity of thought drives breakthrough ideas
The role of effective communication in innovation
<p>Episode 239 (Vanessa is based in California)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Vanessa Thompson we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>Why conflict is a natural and necessary part of the innovation process.</li>
<li>How a shared vision can align and inspire diverse teams.</li>
<li>The role of small, tangible victories in maintaining momentum toward big goals.</li>
<li>The importance of creating psychological safety to encourage creativity.</li>
<li>How diversity of thought leads to better outcomes and breakthrough ideas.</li>
<li>The power of active listening in unlocking new opportunities.</li>
<li>The dual role of leaders as motivators and active listeners.</li>
<li>Why innovation needs structure: lessons from Pixar and other organizations.</li>
<li>How storytelling can engage teams and reinforce organizational goals.</li>
<li>Practical strategies for overcoming market challenges and driving change through innovation.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Vanessa Thompson:</p>
<p>She has spent the past 10 years working at the intersection of cleantech, finance, and innovation, where I’ve been part of Silicon Valley startups and venture capital groups driving meaningful change.</p>
<p>Vanessa is writing a book on innovation, featuring 60 case studies that provide practical, results-based insights for businesses to break free and thrive, even during challenging times.</p>
<p>Learn more about Vanessa Thompson and how to arrange her to speak to your team.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.vanessathompson.com/'>https://www.vanessathompson.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
1. Conflict is Essential for Innovation
Healthy conflict fosters diverse perspectives, enabling creative problem-solving.
2. Shared Vision Drives Success
<p>A clear, authentic shared vision unites teams and motivates individuals.</p>
3. Small Wins Build Momentum
<p>Celebrating small wins helps teams stay motivated and believe in achieving larger goals.</p>
4. Psychological Safety Enables Creativity
<p>Teams need an environment where dissent is encouraged and valued.</p>
5. Diversity of Thought is Key to Innovation
<p>Diversity in skills and perspectives enhances decision-making and creativity.</p>
6. Listening Unlocks Unexpected Opportunities
<p>Engaging with stakeholders and valuing their input can reveal untapped potential.</p>
7. Leaders as Cheerleaders and Listeners
<p>Leaders must inspire teams and genuinely consider their input.</p>
8. Structure Around Creativity
<p>Establishing dedicated spaces or processes for creative thinking fosters innovation.</p>
9. Storytelling Engages and Motivates Teams
<p>Stories make abstract goals relatable and memorable.</p>
10. Mutually Beneficial Goals Resolve Conflict
<p>Aligning on shared goals helps teams overcome disagreements.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How diversity of thought drives breakthrough ideas
The role of effective communication in innovation
<p>Episode 239 (Vanessa is based in California)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Vanessa Thompson we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>Why conflict is a natural and necessary part of the innovation process.</li>
<li>How a shared vision can align and inspire diverse teams.</li>
<li>The role of small, tangible victories in maintaining momentum toward big goals.</li>
<li>The importance of creating psychological safety to encourage creativity.</li>
<li>How diversity of thought leads to better outcomes and breakthrough ideas.</li>
<li>The power of active listening in unlocking new opportunities.</li>
<li>The dual role of leaders as motivators and active listeners.</li>
<li>Why innovation needs structure: lessons from Pixar and other organizations.</li>
<li>How storytelling can engage teams and reinforce organizational goals.</li>
<li>Practical strategies for overcoming market challenges and driving change through innovation.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Vanessa Thompson:</p>
<p>She has spent the past 10 years working at the intersection of cleantech, finance, and innovation, where I’ve been part of Silicon Valley startups and venture capital groups driving meaningful change.</p>
<p>Vanessa is writing a book on innovation, featuring 60 case studies that provide practical, results-based insights for businesses to break free and thrive, even during challenging times.</p>
<p>Learn more about Vanessa Thompson and how to arrange her to speak to your team.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.vanessathompson.com/'>https://www.vanessathompson.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Key Learning Points
1. Conflict is Essential for Innovation
Healthy conflict fosters diverse perspectives, enabling creative problem-solving.
2. Shared Vision Drives Success
<p>A clear, authentic shared vision unites teams and motivates individuals.</p>
3. Small Wins Build Momentum
<p>Celebrating small wins helps teams stay motivated and believe in achieving larger goals.</p>
4. Psychological Safety Enables Creativity
<p>Teams need an environment where dissent is encouraged and valued.</p>
5. Diversity of Thought is Key to Innovation
<p>Diversity in skills and perspectives enhances decision-making and creativity.</p>
6. Listening Unlocks Unexpected Opportunities
<p>Engaging with stakeholders and valuing their input can reveal untapped potential.</p>
7. Leaders as Cheerleaders and Listeners
<p>Leaders must inspire teams and genuinely consider their input.</p>
8. Structure Around Creativity
<p>Establishing dedicated spaces or processes for creative thinking fosters innovation.</p>
9. Storytelling Engages and Motivates Teams
<p>Stories make abstract goals relatable and memorable.</p>
10. Mutually Beneficial Goals Resolve Conflict
<p>Aligning on shared goals helps teams overcome disagreements.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How diversity of thought drives breakthrough ideas
The role of effective communication in innovation
Episode 239 (Vanessa is based in California)
In this conversation with Vanessa Thompson we explore:

Why conflict is a natural and necessary part of the innovation process.
How a shared vision can align and inspire diverse teams.
The role of small, tangible victories in maintaining momentum toward big goals.
The importance of creating psychological safety to encourage creativity.
How diversity of thought leads to better outcomes and breakthrough ideas.
The power of active listening in unlocking new opportunities.
The dual role of leaders as motivators and active listeners.
Why innovation needs structure: lessons from Pixar and other organizations.
How storytelling can engage teams and reinforce organizational goals.
Practical strategies for overcoming market challenges and driving change through innovation.

-----
About our guest, Vanessa Thompson:
She has spent the past 10 years working at the intersection of cleantech, finance, and innovation, where I’ve been part of Silicon Valley startups and venture capital groups driving meaningful change.
Vanessa is writing a book on innovation, featuring 60 case studies that provide practical, results-based insights for businesses to break free and thrive, even during challenging times.
Learn more about Vanessa Thompson and how to arrange her to speak to your team.
https://www.vanessathompson.com/
-----
Key Learning Points
1. Conflict is Essential for Innovation
Healthy conflict fosters diverse perspectives, enabling creative problem-solving.
2. Shared Vision Drives Success
A clear, authentic shared vision unites teams and motivates individuals.
3. Small Wins Build Momentum
Celebrating small wins helps teams stay motivated and believe in achieving larger goals.
4. Psychological Safety Enables Creativity
Teams need an environment where dissent is encouraged and valued.
5. Diversity of Thought is Key to Innovation
Diversity in skills and perspectives enhances decision-making and creativity.
6. Listening Unlocks Unexpected Opportunities
Engaging with stakeholders and valuing their input can reveal untapped potential.
7. Leaders as Cheerleaders and Listeners
Leaders must inspire teams and genuinely consider their input.
8. Structure Around Creativity
Establishing dedicated spaces or processes for creative thinking fosters innovation.
9. Storytelling Engages and Motivates Teams
Stories make abstract goals relatable and memorable.
10. Mutually Beneficial Goals Resolve Conflict
Aligning on shared goals helps teams overcome disagreements.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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        <title>Boost your brand as a podcast guest: Noemi Beres</title>
        <itunes:title>Boost your brand as a podcast guest: Noemi Beres</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Build your brand and authority with podcast guesting
Be a podcast guest to boost your career and business
<p>Episode 238 (Noemi is based in Cyprus)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Noemi Beres we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>The Growing Value of Podcast Guesting: Why it’s a powerful long-term strategy for building your brand and authority.</li>
<li>Crafting a Memorable Story: Tips to effectively condense and share your story on podcasts.</li>
<li>Building Authentic Relationships: How to develop meaningful connections with podcast hosts and audiences.</li>
<li>Podcast Guest Preparation: Key steps to prepare for podcast appearances, including research and mindset.</li>
<li>Leveraging Podcast Appearances: Strategies to maximize the value of your podcast content post-publication.</li>
<li>The Importance of Consistency: Why guesting on podcasts regularly builds credibility over time.</li>
<li>Avoiding Common Mistakes: Key missteps podcast guests make and how to avoid them.</li>
<li>Authenticity Over Perfection: Embracing your natural self, including overcoming language barriers or nerves.</li>
<li>Balancing Quality and Quantity: Finding the right podcasts that align with your brand and goals.</li>
<li>Repurposing Content Effectively: Creative ways to extend the lifespan of podcast appearances.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Noemi Beres:</p>
<p>Noemi is a podcast guesting expert and entrepreneur who rebuilt her business to six figures after losing it during the pandemic.</p>
<p>She's co-founder of Podcast Connections, a podcast booking agency that helps thought leaders get booked on the right podcasts.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.podcastconnections.co/'>https://www.podcastconnections.co/</a></p>
<p>----</p>
<p>Insights from this conversation</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Advantages of Podcast Guesting:</p>
<ul>
<li>Builds brand authority and boosts online presence through SEO.</li>
<li>Creates evergreen content that remains accessible indefinitely.</li>
<li>Offers a platform for authentic connection with audiences and hosts.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Preparation Is Key:</p>
<ul>
<li>Research the podcast before appearing—listen to episodes to understand style and tone.</li>
<li>Clearly define topics and talking points to avoid "winging it."</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Relationship-Building:</p>
<ul>
<li>Respect and acknowledge the host's effort with gestures like thank-you notes.</li>
<li>Treat podcast guesting as the start of a relationship, not just a promotional opportunity.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Authenticity and Confidence:</p>
<ul>
<li>Be yourself and embrace imperfections, even if English isn't your first language.</li>
<li>Practice and improve with each appearance.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Strategic Approach:</p>
<ul>
<li>Focus on quality over quantity when selecting podcasts.</li>
<li>Consistency and persistence are crucial for long-term success.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Content Repurposing:</p>
<ul>
<li>Maximize the value of appearances by creating clips, quotes, and social media posts.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mindset and Presence:</p>
<ul>
<li>Avoid rushing into interviews; take time to prepare and be mentally present.</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ol>
<p>------</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Build your brand and authority with podcast guesting
Be a podcast guest to boost your career and business
<p>Episode 238 (Noemi is based in Cyprus)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Noemi Beres we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>The Growing Value of Podcast Guesting: Why it’s a powerful long-term strategy for building your brand and authority.</li>
<li>Crafting a Memorable Story: Tips to effectively condense and share your story on podcasts.</li>
<li>Building Authentic Relationships: How to develop meaningful connections with podcast hosts and audiences.</li>
<li>Podcast Guest Preparation: Key steps to prepare for podcast appearances, including research and mindset.</li>
<li>Leveraging Podcast Appearances: Strategies to maximize the value of your podcast content post-publication.</li>
<li>The Importance of Consistency: Why guesting on podcasts regularly builds credibility over time.</li>
<li>Avoiding Common Mistakes: Key missteps podcast guests make and how to avoid them.</li>
<li>Authenticity Over Perfection: Embracing your natural self, including overcoming language barriers or nerves.</li>
<li>Balancing Quality and Quantity: Finding the right podcasts that align with your brand and goals.</li>
<li>Repurposing Content Effectively: Creative ways to extend the lifespan of podcast appearances.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Noemi Beres:</p>
<p>Noemi is a podcast guesting expert and entrepreneur who rebuilt her business to six figures after losing it during the pandemic.</p>
<p>She's co-founder of Podcast Connections, a podcast booking agency that helps thought leaders get booked on the right podcasts.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.podcastconnections.co/'>https://www.podcastconnections.co/</a></p>
<p>----</p>
<p>Insights from this conversation</p>
Key Learning Points
<ol>
<li>
<p>Advantages of Podcast Guesting:</p>
<ul>
<li>Builds brand authority and boosts online presence through SEO.</li>
<li>Creates evergreen content that remains accessible indefinitely.</li>
<li>Offers a platform for authentic connection with audiences and hosts.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Preparation Is Key:</p>
<ul>
<li>Research the podcast before appearing—listen to episodes to understand style and tone.</li>
<li>Clearly define topics and talking points to avoid "winging it."</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Relationship-Building:</p>
<ul>
<li>Respect and acknowledge the host's effort with gestures like thank-you notes.</li>
<li>Treat podcast guesting as the start of a relationship, not just a promotional opportunity.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Authenticity and Confidence:</p>
<ul>
<li>Be yourself and embrace imperfections, even if English isn't your first language.</li>
<li>Practice and improve with each appearance.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Strategic Approach:</p>
<ul>
<li>Focus on quality over quantity when selecting podcasts.</li>
<li>Consistency and persistence are crucial for long-term success.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Content Repurposing:</p>
<ul>
<li>Maximize the value of appearances by creating clips, quotes, and social media posts.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Mindset and Presence:</p>
<ul>
<li>Avoid rushing into interviews; take time to prepare and be mentally present.</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ol>
<p>------</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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Be a podcast guest to boost your career and business
Episode 238 (Noemi is based in Cyprus)
In this conversation with Noemi Beres we explore:

The Growing Value of Podcast Guesting: Why it’s a powerful long-term strategy for building your brand and authority.
Crafting a Memorable Story: Tips to effectively condense and share your story on podcasts.
Building Authentic Relationships: How to develop meaningful connections with podcast hosts and audiences.
Podcast Guest Preparation: Key steps to prepare for podcast appearances, including research and mindset.
Leveraging Podcast Appearances: Strategies to maximize the value of your podcast content post-publication.
The Importance of Consistency: Why guesting on podcasts regularly builds credibility over time.
Avoiding Common Mistakes: Key missteps podcast guests make and how to avoid them.
Authenticity Over Perfection: Embracing your natural self, including overcoming language barriers or nerves.
Balancing Quality and Quantity: Finding the right podcasts that align with your brand and goals.
Repurposing Content Effectively: Creative ways to extend the lifespan of podcast appearances.

-----
About our guest Noemi Beres:
Noemi is a podcast guesting expert and entrepreneur who rebuilt her business to six figures after losing it during the pandemic.
She's co-founder of Podcast Connections, a podcast booking agency that helps thought leaders get booked on the right podcasts.
https://www.podcastconnections.co/
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Insights from this conversation
Key Learning Points


Advantages of Podcast Guesting:

Builds brand authority and boosts online presence through SEO.
Creates evergreen content that remains accessible indefinitely.
Offers a platform for authentic connection with audiences and hosts.



Preparation Is Key:

Research the podcast before appearing—listen to episodes to understand style and tone.
Clearly define topics and talking points to avoid "winging it."



Relationship-Building:

Respect and acknowledge the host's effort with gestures like thank-you notes.
Treat podcast guesting as the start of a relationship, not just a promotional opportunity.



Authenticity and Confidence:

Be yourself and embrace imperfections, even if English isn't your first language.
Practice and improve with each appearance.



Strategic Approach:

Focus on quality over quantity when selecting podcasts.
Consistency and persistence are crucial for long-term success.



Content Repurposing:

Maximize the value of appearances by creating clips, quotes, and social media posts.



Mindset and Presence:

Avoid rushing into interviews; take time to prepare and be mentally present.



------
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Overcoming Fear and Anxiety in Leadership Communication
How to Self-Soothe Before Difficult Conversations
<p>Episode #237 (George is based in New York City)</p>
<p>In this conversation with George J. Rivera we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>The deeper meaning of behavior and communication, and why understanding the 'why' is essential for meaningful interactions.</li>
<li>How to handle difficult conversations with strategies like mental rehearsal and reflection for improved outcomes.</li>
<li>The role of leaders in shaping physical and emotional environments to support team success.</li>
<li>The importance of psychological safety in fostering creativity, collaboration, and authenticity in teams.</li>
<li>Techniques for using humor and empathy to reduce stress and enhance communication.</li>
<li>The critical connection between leadership and environmental awareness, from physical settings to cultural dynamics.</li>
<li>Lessons from nature, like mangrove trees, that reveal how creating the right conditions enables people to thrive.</li>
<li>The value of self-awareness in leadership and its impact on team dynamics and organizational culture.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest George R. Rivera:</p>
A member of Toastmasters International for the last 26 years, and serving as the District 46 Director this year. District 46 includes north of 34th street through Westchester NY.
 
Behavior Analyst the last 20+ years serving families, school districts, and hospitals in the Tri-State area. 
 
Fun fact: Cast and performed in a few Off-Broadway productions including Assassins, Bellevue Sketches, and Man of La Mancha. 
 
Connect with George <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/george-j-rivera-msed-9b689a5/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/george-j-rivera-msed-9b689a5/</a>
-----
 

<p>Here are the key learning points from the interview with George Rivera:</p>
1. Understanding Behavior and Communication
<ul>
<li>Behavior is not labeled as "good" or "bad"; it always serves a function based on context and underlying motives.</li>
<li>Language itself is considered a behavior and reflects deeper thought processes and emotions.</li>
</ul>
2. Strategies for Handling Difficult Conversations
<ul>
<li>Self-Soothing Techniques: Use cognitive behavioral exercises like "time travel" to mentally rehearse the conversation and reflect afterward.</li>
<li>Anticipate possible responses and prepare for them to maintain composure and improve outcomes.</li>
<li>Acknowledge and manage perceived consequences to reduce avoidance or fear.</li>
</ul>
3. Leadership and Environmental Awareness
<ul>
<li>A leader’s awareness of the physical and emotional environment is critical for team success.</li>
<li>Environmental factors, such as physical space, communication systems, and the leader’s demeanor, significantly impact team dynamics.</li>
<li>Leaders themselves are a central part of the environment they influence.</li>
</ul>
4. Psychological Safety in Teams
<ul>
<li>Creating a sense of psychological safety fosters risk-taking, creativity, and authentic communication within teams.</li>
<li>Leaders can encourage openness by modeling vulnerability and gradually introducing opportunities for team members to share thoughts and feelings.</li>
</ul>
5. Building Better Team Communication
<ul>
<li>Structure communication to suit the needs of the team, balancing technology (e.g., email, messaging) with opportunities for live interaction.</li>
<li>Recognize environmental stressors, such as overcrowded or noisy spaces, that can hinder communication.</li>
</ul>
6. Using Humor and Empathy
<ul>
<li>Humor, particularly self-deprecating humor, can reduce stress, build trust, and foster openness in communication.</li>
<li>Empathy allows for better acknowledgment of others’ perspectives, reducing defensiveness and conflict.</li>
</ul>
7. Lessons from Nature: Mangrove Trees and Leadership
<ul>
<li>The mangrove tree analogy highlights the importance of creating an environment conducive to growth and thriving, much like the tree’s ecosystem supports unique organisms.</li>
<li>Leaders should act like "mangrove trees," fostering collaboration, diversity, and interconnectedness.</li>
</ul>
8. Encouraging Collaborative and Inclusive Leadership
<ul>
<li>Leaders should:
<ol>
<li>Reflect inwardly on their role in shaping the environment.</li>
<li>Promote open and honest communication over time.</li>
<li>Foster collaboration and a shared purpose to reduce stress and enhance teamwork.</li>
</ol>
</li>
</ul>
<p>Would you like these summarized for a specific audience, such as LinkedIn readers or podcast listeners?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>

<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Overcoming Fear and Anxiety in Leadership Communication
How to Self-Soothe Before Difficult Conversations
<p>Episode #237 (George is based in New York City)</p>
<p>In this conversation with George J. Rivera we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>The deeper meaning of behavior and communication, and why understanding the 'why' is essential for meaningful interactions.</li>
<li>How to handle difficult conversations with strategies like mental rehearsal and reflection for improved outcomes.</li>
<li>The role of leaders in shaping physical and emotional environments to support team success.</li>
<li>The importance of psychological safety in fostering creativity, collaboration, and authenticity in teams.</li>
<li>Techniques for using humor and empathy to reduce stress and enhance communication.</li>
<li>The critical connection between leadership and environmental awareness, from physical settings to cultural dynamics.</li>
<li>Lessons from nature, like mangrove trees, that reveal how creating the right conditions enables people to thrive.</li>
<li>The value of self-awareness in leadership and its impact on team dynamics and organizational culture.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest George R. Rivera:</p>
A member of Toastmasters International for the last 26 years, and serving as the District 46 Director this year. District 46 includes north of 34th street through Westchester NY.
 
Behavior Analyst the last 20+ years serving families, school districts, and hospitals in the Tri-State area. 
 
Fun fact: Cast and performed in a few Off-Broadway productions including Assassins, Bellevue Sketches, and Man of La Mancha. 
 
Connect with George <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/george-j-rivera-msed-9b689a5/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/george-j-rivera-msed-9b689a5/</a>
-----
 

<p><em>Here are the key learning points from the interview with George Rivera:</em></p>
1. Understanding Behavior and Communication
<ul>
<li>Behavior is not labeled as "good" or "bad"; it always serves a function based on context and underlying motives.</li>
<li>Language itself is considered a behavior and reflects deeper thought processes and emotions.</li>
</ul>
2. Strategies for Handling Difficult Conversations
<ul>
<li>Self-Soothing Techniques: Use cognitive behavioral exercises like "time travel" to mentally rehearse the conversation and reflect afterward.</li>
<li>Anticipate possible responses and prepare for them to maintain composure and improve outcomes.</li>
<li>Acknowledge and manage perceived consequences to reduce avoidance or fear.</li>
</ul>
3. Leadership and Environmental Awareness
<ul>
<li>A leader’s awareness of the physical and emotional environment is critical for team success.</li>
<li>Environmental factors, such as physical space, communication systems, and the leader’s demeanor, significantly impact team dynamics.</li>
<li>Leaders themselves are a central part of the environment they influence.</li>
</ul>
4. Psychological Safety in Teams
<ul>
<li>Creating a sense of psychological safety fosters risk-taking, creativity, and authentic communication within teams.</li>
<li>Leaders can encourage openness by modeling vulnerability and gradually introducing opportunities for team members to share thoughts and feelings.</li>
</ul>
5. Building Better Team Communication
<ul>
<li>Structure communication to suit the needs of the team, balancing technology (e.g., email, messaging) with opportunities for live interaction.</li>
<li>Recognize environmental stressors, such as overcrowded or noisy spaces, that can hinder communication.</li>
</ul>
6. Using Humor and Empathy
<ul>
<li>Humor, particularly self-deprecating humor, can reduce stress, build trust, and foster openness in communication.</li>
<li>Empathy allows for better acknowledgment of others’ perspectives, reducing defensiveness and conflict.</li>
</ul>
7. Lessons from Nature: Mangrove Trees and Leadership
<ul>
<li>The mangrove tree analogy highlights the importance of creating an environment conducive to growth and thriving, much like the tree’s ecosystem supports unique organisms.</li>
<li>Leaders should act like "mangrove trees," fostering collaboration, diversity, and interconnectedness.</li>
</ul>
8. Encouraging Collaborative and Inclusive Leadership
<ul>
<li>Leaders should:
<ol>
<li>Reflect inwardly on their role in shaping the environment.</li>
<li>Promote open and honest communication over time.</li>
<li>Foster collaboration and a shared purpose to reduce stress and enhance teamwork.</li>
</ol>
</li>
</ul>
<p>Would you like these summarized for a specific audience, such as LinkedIn readers or podcast listeners?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>

<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Overcoming Fear and Anxiety in Leadership Communication
How to Self-Soothe Before Difficult Conversations
Episode #237 (George is based in New York City)
In this conversation with George J. Rivera we explore:

The deeper meaning of behavior and communication, and why understanding the 'why' is essential for meaningful interactions.
How to handle difficult conversations with strategies like mental rehearsal and reflection for improved outcomes.
The role of leaders in shaping physical and emotional environments to support team success.
The importance of psychological safety in fostering creativity, collaboration, and authenticity in teams.
Techniques for using humor and empathy to reduce stress and enhance communication.
The critical connection between leadership and environmental awareness, from physical settings to cultural dynamics.
Lessons from nature, like mangrove trees, that reveal how creating the right conditions enables people to thrive.
The value of self-awareness in leadership and its impact on team dynamics and organizational culture.

-----
About our guest George R. Rivera:
A member of Toastmasters International for the last 26 years, and serving as the District 46 Director this year. District 46 includes north of 34th street through Westchester NY.
 
Behavior Analyst the last 20+ years serving families, school districts, and hospitals in the Tri-State area. 
 
Fun fact: Cast and performed in a few Off-Broadway productions including Assassins, Bellevue Sketches, and Man of La Mancha. 
 
Connect with George https://www.linkedin.com/in/george-j-rivera-msed-9b689a5/
-----
 

Here are the key learning points from the interview with George Rivera:
1. Understanding Behavior and Communication

Behavior is not labeled as "good" or "bad"; it always serves a function based on context and underlying motives.
Language itself is considered a behavior and reflects deeper thought processes and emotions.

2. Strategies for Handling Difficult Conversations

Self-Soothing Techniques: Use cognitive behavioral exercises like "time travel" to mentally rehearse the conversation and reflect afterward.
Anticipate possible responses and prepare for them to maintain composure and improve outcomes.
Acknowledge and manage perceived consequences to reduce avoidance or fear.

3. Leadership and Environmental Awareness

A leader’s awareness of the physical and emotional environment is critical for team success.
Environmental factors, such as physical space, communication systems, and the leader’s demeanor, significantly impact team dynamics.
Leaders themselves are a central part of the environment they influence.

4. Psychological Safety in Teams

Creating a sense of psychological safety fosters risk-taking, creativity, and authentic communication within teams.
Leaders can encourage openness by modeling vulnerability and gradually introducing opportunities for team members to share thoughts and feelings.

5. Building Better Team Communication

Structure communication to suit the needs of the team, balancing technology (e.g., email, messaging) with opportunities for live interaction.
Recognize environmental stressors, such as overcrowded or noisy spaces, that can hinder communication.

6. Using Humor and Empathy

Humor, particularly self-deprecating humor, can reduce stress, build trust, and foster openness in communication.
Empathy allows for better acknowledgment of others’ perspectives, reducing defensiveness and conflict.

7. Lessons from Nature: Mangrove Trees and Leadership

The mangrove tree analogy highlights the importance of creating an environment conducive to growth and thriving, much like the tree’s ecosystem supports unique organisms.
Leaders should act like "mangrove trees," fostering collaboration, diversity, and interconnectedness.

8. Encouraging Collaborative and Inclusive Leadership

Leaders should:

Reflect inwardly on their role in shaping the environment.
Promote open and honest communication over time.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Mindset and Mastery for success
How to get started on your path
<p>Episode 236 (Junaid is based in Virginia)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Junaid Ahmed we explore:</p>
<p>1. The essence of the million-dollar mindset and how to cultivate it.
2. Breaking large goals into manageable, actionable steps.
3. How to build a professional-grade home studio on a budget.
4. Lessons from 600 interviews about communication and transformation.
5. The importance of community and mentorship in achieving goals.
6. Overcoming self-doubt and fostering an abundance mindset.
7. Using preparation to make success seem "overnight."
8. Why giving value leads to reciprocal growth.
9. Finding the right people and resources to accelerate learning.
10. Practical advice for mid-career professionals looking to advance.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Junaid Ahmed:</p>
<p>He is the Home Studio Architect and creator of Home Studio Mastery, a program that helps podcasters, content creators and entrepreneurs transform their spaces into professional-grade studios.</p>
<p>He is host of the Hacks and Hobbies podcast where he has interviewed over 600 guests.</p>
<p>He is author of "Seven Stages of Home Studio Evolution". You can learn more about his marketing agency at:</p>
<p><a href='https://humblezone.com/'>https://humblezone.com/</a></p>
<p>Discover how to transform your home studio at: <a href='https://homestudiomastery.com/'>https://homestudiomastery.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Junaid Ahmed:</p>
<p>Key Learning Points:
1. The Power of Starting Now: Delaying actions leads to lost opportunities. Begin immediately, even with small steps.
2. Break Down Big Goals: Simplify large goals (e.g., making a million dollars) into actionable daily steps.
3. Mindset Shift: Adopting an abundance mindset over scarcity fosters opportunities and connections.
4. Preparation Matters: Success often appears sudden but requires years of consistent effort.
5. Learn from Others: Surround yourself with mentors and communities to learn and grow.
6. Give Before You Take: Focus on providing value to others, fostering trust and reciprocity.
7. Leverage Existing Resources: Affordable tools and established methods can help you start quickly.
8. The Importance of Clarity: Define your "why" before embarking on any journey.
9. Continuous Improvement: Reflect on your efforts to identify areas for growth.
10. Community Encouragement: A supportive network can drive perseverance and success.</p>
<p>---</p>
<p>Adopting the Million Dollar Mindset
1. Start Now: Delay only creates missed opportunities.
2. Define Your Goal: Get clear on what you want and why it matters.
3. Break It Down: Divide large goals into achievable tasks.
4. Prepare for Success: Invest the time and effort upfront to enable scalability.
5. Adopt a Positive Mindset: Embrace abundance and openness.
6. Learn from the Best: Seek mentors and communities who share your values.
7. Give Generously: Share your knowledge and resources freely.
8. Practice and Reflect: Continuously improve through feedback.
9. Leverage Affordable Tools: Use existing technology and resources to build your foundation.
10. Find Support Systems: Surround yourself with people who encourage and inspire.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Mindset and Mastery for success
How to get started on your path
<p>Episode 236 (Junaid is based in Virginia)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Junaid Ahmed we explore:</p>
<p>1. The essence of the million-dollar mindset and how to cultivate it.<br>
2. Breaking large goals into manageable, actionable steps.<br>
3. How to build a professional-grade home studio on a budget.<br>
4. Lessons from 600 interviews about communication and transformation.<br>
5. The importance of community and mentorship in achieving goals.<br>
6. Overcoming self-doubt and fostering an abundance mindset.<br>
7. Using preparation to make success seem "overnight."<br>
8. Why giving value leads to reciprocal growth.<br>
9. Finding the right people and resources to accelerate learning.<br>
10. Practical advice for mid-career professionals looking to advance.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Junaid Ahmed:</p>
<p>He is the Home Studio Architect and creator of Home Studio Mastery, a program that helps podcasters, content creators and entrepreneurs transform their spaces into professional-grade studios.</p>
<p>He is host of the Hacks and Hobbies podcast where he has interviewed over 600 guests.</p>
<p>He is author of "Seven Stages of Home Studio Evolution". You can learn more about his marketing agency at:</p>
<p><a href='https://humblezone.com/'>https://humblezone.com/</a></p>
<p>Discover how to transform your home studio at: <a href='https://homestudiomastery.com/'>https://homestudiomastery.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Junaid Ahmed:</p>
<p>Key Learning Points:<br>
1. The Power of Starting Now: Delaying actions leads to lost opportunities. Begin immediately, even with small steps.<br>
2. Break Down Big Goals: Simplify large goals (e.g., making a million dollars) into actionable daily steps.<br>
3. Mindset Shift: Adopting an abundance mindset over scarcity fosters opportunities and connections.<br>
4. Preparation Matters: Success often appears sudden but requires years of consistent effort.<br>
5. Learn from Others: Surround yourself with mentors and communities to learn and grow.<br>
6. Give Before You Take: Focus on providing value to others, fostering trust and reciprocity.<br>
7. Leverage Existing Resources: Affordable tools and established methods can help you start quickly.<br>
8. The Importance of Clarity: Define your "why" before embarking on any journey.<br>
9. Continuous Improvement: Reflect on your efforts to identify areas for growth.<br>
10. Community Encouragement: A supportive network can drive perseverance and success.</p>
<p>---</p>
<p>Adopting the Million Dollar Mindset<br>
1. Start Now: Delay only creates missed opportunities.<br>
2. Define Your Goal: Get clear on what you want and why it matters.<br>
3. Break It Down: Divide large goals into achievable tasks.<br>
4. Prepare for Success: Invest the time and effort upfront to enable scalability.<br>
5. Adopt a Positive Mindset: Embrace abundance and openness.<br>
6. Learn from the Best: Seek mentors and communities who share your values.<br>
7. Give Generously: Share your knowledge and resources freely.<br>
8. Practice and Reflect: Continuously improve through feedback.<br>
9. Leverage Affordable Tools: Use existing technology and resources to build your foundation.<br>
10. Find Support Systems: Surround yourself with people who encourage and inspire.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Mindset and Mastery for success
How to get started on your path
Episode 236 (Junaid is based in Virginia)
In this conversation with Junaid Ahmed we explore:
1. The essence of the million-dollar mindset and how to cultivate it.2. Breaking large goals into manageable, actionable steps.3. How to build a professional-grade home studio on a budget.4. Lessons from 600 interviews about communication and transformation.5. The importance of community and mentorship in achieving goals.6. Overcoming self-doubt and fostering an abundance mindset.7. Using preparation to make success seem "overnight."8. Why giving value leads to reciprocal growth.9. Finding the right people and resources to accelerate learning.10. Practical advice for mid-career professionals looking to advance.
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About our guest, Junaid Ahmed:
He is the Home Studio Architect and creator of Home Studio Mastery, a program that helps podcasters, content creators and entrepreneurs transform their spaces into professional-grade studios.
He is host of the Hacks and Hobbies podcast where he has interviewed over 600 guests.
He is author of "Seven Stages of Home Studio Evolution". You can learn more about his marketing agency at:
https://humblezone.com/
Discover how to transform your home studio at: https://homestudiomastery.com/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Junaid Ahmed:
Key Learning Points:1. The Power of Starting Now: Delaying actions leads to lost opportunities. Begin immediately, even with small steps.2. Break Down Big Goals: Simplify large goals (e.g., making a million dollars) into actionable daily steps.3. Mindset Shift: Adopting an abundance mindset over scarcity fosters opportunities and connections.4. Preparation Matters: Success often appears sudden but requires years of consistent effort.5. Learn from Others: Surround yourself with mentors and communities to learn and grow.6. Give Before You Take: Focus on providing value to others, fostering trust and reciprocity.7. Leverage Existing Resources: Affordable tools and established methods can help you start quickly.8. The Importance of Clarity: Define your "why" before embarking on any journey.9. Continuous Improvement: Reflect on your efforts to identify areas for growth.10. Community Encouragement: A supportive network can drive perseverance and success.
---
Adopting the Million Dollar Mindset1. Start Now: Delay only creates missed opportunities.2. Define Your Goal: Get clear on what you want and why it matters.3. Break It Down: Divide large goals into achievable tasks.4. Prepare for Success: Invest the time and effort upfront to enable scalability.5. Adopt a Positive Mindset: Embrace abundance and openness.6. Learn from the Best: Seek mentors and communities who share your values.7. Give Generously: Share your knowledge and resources freely.8. Practice and Reflect: Continuously improve through feedback.9. Leverage Affordable Tools: Use existing technology and resources to build your foundation.10. Find Support Systems: Surround yourself with people who encourage and inspire.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[The Art of Explaining Complex Ideas with Ease
Communicating Tech to Non-Tech Audiences
<p>Episode 235 (Evgeniy is based in Toronto, Canada)</p>
<p>In this conversation, we explore:</p>
<ol>
<li>The importance of breaking down technical jargon into relatable concepts.</li>
<li>How soft skills can elevate technical professionals' success.</li>
<li>Why feedback and audience awareness are essential in communication.</li>
<li>Techniques for maintaining engagement in virtual meetings.</li>
<li>The role of passion in conveying credibility.</li>
<li>Using hooks and metaphors to make connections.</li>
<li>How to practice communication skills in everyday interactions.</li>
<li>The significance of preparation and habits in presentations.</li>
<li>Strategies for leadership communication in technical fields.</li>
<li>How personal connections can improve professional interactions.</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Evgeniy Kharam:</p>
<p>Has over 40,000 hours of experience in cyber security.</p>
<p>Overcame many speaking challenges, including speaking too fast, stuttering and afraid to speak in groups.</p>
<p>Author of "The Art of Soft Skills in Technical Sales"</p>
<p>Learn more about his book and services at <a href='https://www.softskillstech.ca/'>https://www.softskillstech.ca/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Evengiy Kharam:</p>
Key Learning Points:
<ol>
<li>
<p>Simplifying Complex Ideas: Technical experts need to break down complex ideas using analogies and metaphors that anyone can understand.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Soft Skills Matter: Mastering soft skills, such as emotional intelligence and communication, is critical for technical professionals.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Know Your Audience: Tailoring communication styles to your audience—whether business leaders or customers—helps deliver messages more effectively.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Power of Passion: Genuine enthusiasm and passion can make even the most technical topic engaging.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Feedback is Key: Asking your audience if they understand and adapting to their learning style improves communication effectiveness.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Use Hooks: Create personal connections or points of curiosity (hooks) to engage your audience right away.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Body Language and Eye Contact: Proper virtual communication, such as camera positioning and maintaining eye contact, is crucial in remote settings.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Practice Habits: Develop communication skills by practicing small talk in everyday situations.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Prepare for Presentations: Beyond knowing your slides, focus on breathing, tone, and relaxation techniques to deliver confidently.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leadership Communication: Understanding what motivates your team and management helps align communication for better outcomes.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[The Art of Explaining Complex Ideas with Ease
Communicating Tech to Non-Tech Audiences
<p>Episode 235 (Evgeniy is based in Toronto, Canada)</p>
<p>In this conversation, we explore:</p>
<ol>
<li>The importance of breaking down technical jargon into relatable concepts.</li>
<li>How soft skills can elevate technical professionals' success.</li>
<li>Why feedback and audience awareness are essential in communication.</li>
<li>Techniques for maintaining engagement in virtual meetings.</li>
<li>The role of passion in conveying credibility.</li>
<li>Using hooks and metaphors to make connections.</li>
<li>How to practice communication skills in everyday interactions.</li>
<li>The significance of preparation and habits in presentations.</li>
<li>Strategies for leadership communication in technical fields.</li>
<li>How personal connections can improve professional interactions.</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Evgeniy Kharam:</p>
<p>Has over 40,000 hours of experience in cyber security.</p>
<p>Overcame many speaking challenges, including speaking too fast, stuttering and afraid to speak in groups.</p>
<p>Author of "The Art of Soft Skills in Technical Sales"</p>
<p>Learn more about his book and services at <a href='https://www.softskillstech.ca/'>https://www.softskillstech.ca/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Evengiy Kharam:</p>
Key Learning Points:
<ol>
<li>
<p>Simplifying Complex Ideas: Technical experts need to break down complex ideas using analogies and metaphors that anyone can understand.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Soft Skills Matter: Mastering soft skills, such as emotional intelligence and communication, is critical for technical professionals.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Know Your Audience: Tailoring communication styles to your audience—whether business leaders or customers—helps deliver messages more effectively.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Power of Passion: Genuine enthusiasm and passion can make even the most technical topic engaging.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Feedback is Key: Asking your audience if they understand and adapting to their learning style improves communication effectiveness.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Use Hooks: Create personal connections or points of curiosity (hooks) to engage your audience right away.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Body Language and Eye Contact: Proper virtual communication, such as camera positioning and maintaining eye contact, is crucial in remote settings.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Practice Habits: Develop communication skills by practicing small talk in everyday situations.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Prepare for Presentations: Beyond knowing your slides, focus on breathing, tone, and relaxation techniques to deliver confidently.</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>Leadership Communication: Understanding what motivates your team and management helps align communication for better outcomes.</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Art of Explaining Complex Ideas with Ease
Communicating Tech to Non-Tech Audiences
Episode 235 (Evgeniy is based in Toronto, Canada)
In this conversation, we explore:

The importance of breaking down technical jargon into relatable concepts.
How soft skills can elevate technical professionals' success.
Why feedback and audience awareness are essential in communication.
Techniques for maintaining engagement in virtual meetings.
The role of passion in conveying credibility.
Using hooks and metaphors to make connections.
How to practice communication skills in everyday interactions.
The significance of preparation and habits in presentations.
Strategies for leadership communication in technical fields.
How personal connections can improve professional interactions.

-----
About our guest Evgeniy Kharam:
Has over 40,000 hours of experience in cyber security.
Overcame many speaking challenges, including speaking too fast, stuttering and afraid to speak in groups.
Author of "The Art of Soft Skills in Technical Sales"
Learn more about his book and services at https://www.softskillstech.ca/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Evengiy Kharam:
Key Learning Points:


Simplifying Complex Ideas: Technical experts need to break down complex ideas using analogies and metaphors that anyone can understand.


Soft Skills Matter: Mastering soft skills, such as emotional intelligence and communication, is critical for technical professionals.


Know Your Audience: Tailoring communication styles to your audience—whether business leaders or customers—helps deliver messages more effectively.


The Power of Passion: Genuine enthusiasm and passion can make even the most technical topic engaging.


Feedback is Key: Asking your audience if they understand and adapting to their learning style improves communication effectiveness.


Use Hooks: Create personal connections or points of curiosity (hooks) to engage your audience right away.


Body Language and Eye Contact: Proper virtual communication, such as camera positioning and maintaining eye contact, is crucial in remote settings.


Practice Habits: Develop communication skills by practicing small talk in everyday situations.


Prepare for Presentations: Beyond knowing your slides, focus on breathing, tone, and relaxation techniques to deliver confidently.


Leadership Communication: Understanding what motivates your team and management helps align communication for better outcomes.


-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How Introverts Can Lead and Communicate Effectively
The Super Power of Introverts
<p>Episode 234 ( Stacey is based in New Jersey)</p>
In this conversation, we explore:
<ol>
<li>How introverts can harness their strengths to thrive in leadership roles.</li>
<li>Effective strategies for introverts to participate confidently in meetings.</li>
<li>The misconceptions surrounding introversion and leadership potential.</li>
<li>Ways leaders can create inclusive environments for both introverts and extroverts.</li>
<li>The importance of self-awareness and authenticity in professional growth.</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Stacey Chazin:</p>
<p>She holds a master's in organizational development and leadership, degrees in marketing and communication, and a certification in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator Assessment.</p>
<p>Stacey is a proud introvert who grappled for decades with societal expectations that favored extroversion.</p>
<p>Instead of conforming to societal pressures, she embraced her introverted qualities, turning them into powerful assets that allowed her to thrive, both professionally and personally. She now coaches other introverts to do the same.</p>
<p>Get the free copy of Daily Productivity Hacks for Interviews</p>
<p>https://ifactorleadership.co<a href='https://ifactorleadership.com/productivity/'>https://ifactorleadership.com/productivity/</a>m/productivity/</p>
<p>Get your free copy of Meeting Playbook for Introverts.</p>
<p><a href='https://ifactorleadership.com/gift/'> https://ifactorleadership.com/gift/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Stacey Chazin:</p>
<p>A common misconception is that introverts are shy or incapable of leading. As Stacey explains, “Introversion is not about shyness; it’s about how we get our energy.” While extroverts thrive in group settings, introverts recharge by having time alone or engaging in deep, focused thought.</p>
<p>So, how can introverts succeed in meetings, where speaking up is often equated with competence?</p>
<p>Stacey highlights a three-step approach for introverts to shine:</p>
<ol>
<li>
<p>Before the Meeting: Preparation is key. Request the agenda in advance and develop talking points. As Stacey advises, “Having data or narrative examples ready helps you feel confident.”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>During the Meeting: Don’t pressure yourself to speak first. Set a goal of sharing two or three points and check them off as you go. If asked to respond on the spot, Stacey suggests saying, “I’d love to give this some thought and follow up later.”</p>
</li>
<li>
<p>After the Meeting: Follow up with a well-crafted email. Stacey notes, “Introverts often excel at writing, which allows time to process thoughts.”</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>Introverts also bring unique leadership strengths. Stacey points out that deep listening, empathy, and calmness in conflict are powerful assets. “These qualities help you understand your team and guide them effectively,” she says.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How Introverts Can Lead and Communicate Effectively
The Super Power of Introverts
<p>Episode 234 ( Stacey is based in New Jersey)</p>
In this conversation, we explore:
<ol>
<li>How introverts can harness their strengths to thrive in leadership roles.</li>
<li>Effective strategies for introverts to participate confidently in meetings.</li>
<li>The misconceptions surrounding introversion and leadership potential.</li>
<li>Ways leaders can create inclusive environments for both introverts and extroverts.</li>
<li>The importance of self-awareness and authenticity in professional growth.</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Stacey Chazin:</p>
<p>She holds a master's in organizational development and leadership, degrees in marketing and communication, and a certification in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator Assessment.</p>
<p>Stacey is a proud introvert who grappled for decades with societal expectations that favored extroversion.</p>
<p>Instead of conforming to societal pressures, she embraced her introverted qualities, turning them into powerful assets that allowed her to thrive, both professionally and personally. She now coaches other introverts to do the same.</p>
<p>Get the free copy of Daily Productivity Hacks for Interviews</p>
<p>https://ifactorleadership.co<a href='https://ifactorleadership.com/productivity/'>https://ifactorleadership.com/productivity/</a>m/productivity/</p>
<p>Get your free copy of Meeting Playbook for Introverts.</p>
<p><a href='https://ifactorleadership.com/gift/'> https://ifactorleadership.com/gift/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Stacey Chazin:</p>
<p>A common misconception is that introverts are shy or incapable of leading. As Stacey explains, <em>“Introversion is not about shyness; it’s about how we get our energy.”</em> While extroverts thrive in group settings, introverts recharge by having time alone or engaging in deep, focused thought.</p>
<p>So, how can introverts succeed in meetings, where speaking up is often equated with competence?</p>
<p>Stacey highlights a three-step approach for introverts to shine:</p>
<ol>
<li>
<p>Before the Meeting: Preparation is key. Request the agenda in advance and develop talking points. As Stacey advises, <em>“Having data or narrative examples ready helps you feel confident.”</em></p>
</li>
<li>
<p>During the Meeting: Don’t pressure yourself to speak first. Set a goal of sharing two or three points and check them off as you go. If asked to respond on the spot, Stacey suggests saying, <em>“I’d love to give this some thought and follow up later.”</em></p>
</li>
<li>
<p>After the Meeting: Follow up with a well-crafted email. Stacey notes, <em>“Introverts often excel at writing, which allows time to process thoughts.”</em></p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>Introverts also bring unique leadership strengths. Stacey points out that deep listening, empathy, and calmness in conflict are powerful assets. <em>“These qualities help you understand your team and guide them effectively,”</em> she says.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How Introverts Can Lead and Communicate Effectively
The Super Power of Introverts
Episode 234 ( Stacey is based in New Jersey)
In this conversation, we explore:

How introverts can harness their strengths to thrive in leadership roles.
Effective strategies for introverts to participate confidently in meetings.
The misconceptions surrounding introversion and leadership potential.
Ways leaders can create inclusive environments for both introverts and extroverts.
The importance of self-awareness and authenticity in professional growth.

-----
About our guest, Stacey Chazin:
She holds a master's in organizational development and leadership, degrees in marketing and communication, and a certification in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator Assessment.
Stacey is a proud introvert who grappled for decades with societal expectations that favored extroversion.
Instead of conforming to societal pressures, she embraced her introverted qualities, turning them into powerful assets that allowed her to thrive, both professionally and personally. She now coaches other introverts to do the same.
Get the free copy of Daily Productivity Hacks for Interviews
https://ifactorleadership.cohttps://ifactorleadership.com/productivity/m/productivity/
Get your free copy of Meeting Playbook for Introverts.
 https://ifactorleadership.com/gift/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Stacey Chazin:
A common misconception is that introverts are shy or incapable of leading. As Stacey explains, “Introversion is not about shyness; it’s about how we get our energy.” While extroverts thrive in group settings, introverts recharge by having time alone or engaging in deep, focused thought.
So, how can introverts succeed in meetings, where speaking up is often equated with competence?
Stacey highlights a three-step approach for introverts to shine:


Before the Meeting: Preparation is key. Request the agenda in advance and develop talking points. As Stacey advises, “Having data or narrative examples ready helps you feel confident.”


During the Meeting: Don’t pressure yourself to speak first. Set a goal of sharing two or three points and check them off as you go. If asked to respond on the spot, Stacey suggests saying, “I’d love to give this some thought and follow up later.”


After the Meeting: Follow up with a well-crafted email. Stacey notes, “Introverts often excel at writing, which allows time to process thoughts.”


Introverts also bring unique leadership strengths. Stacey points out that deep listening, empathy, and calmness in conflict are powerful assets. “These qualities help you understand your team and guide them effectively,” she says.
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Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Build a Thriving Business with Clear Communication
Clear the Clutter: Streamline Your Business for Success
<p>Episode 233 (Sonya is based in Australia)</p>
<p>In this conversation, we explore:</p>
<ol>
<li>
<p>The Importance of Systems and Processes in Business</p>
<ul>
<li>How a lack of systems and processes leads to inefficiencies and constant "firefighting."</li>
<li>Strategies for developing effective operating systems that streamline operations and boost profitability.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Effective Communication as the Foundation for Success</p>
<ul>
<li>The critical role clear communication plays in team collaboration and client relationships.</li>
<li>Methods to establish consistent messaging and improve internal and external communications.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Gaining Objectivity Through External Business Assessments</p>
<ul>
<li>The value of bringing in an outside perspective to identify inefficiencies and growth opportunities.</li>
<li>How to conduct a business audit to uncover stress points like cash flow issues and staff turnover.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Managing Ego and Embracing Change for Growth</p>
<ul>
<li>Recognizing when ego hinders business progress and team dynamics.</li>
<li>Tips for being open to feedback and making changes that benefit the whole organization.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Preparation and Mindset: Doing Your Future Self a Favor</p>
<ul>
<li>The concept of preparing today to set yourself up for success tomorrow.</li>
<li>How routines, checklists, and even "uniforms" can enhance productivity and reduce decision fatigue.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Building Genuine Connections Through Energetic Interactions</p>
<ul>
<li>The impact of authentic communication on building trust with clients and team members.</li>
<li>Moving beyond rote phrases to create meaningful and personalized interactions.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Listening to Team Members on the Front Lines</p>
<ul>
<li>Leveraging the insights of employees who handle day-to-day operations.</li>
<li>Involving your team in decision-making to enhance engagement and implement better solutions.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Psychological Benefits of Organization and Planning</p>
<ul>
<li>How feeling organized reduces stress and provides peace of mind.</li>
<li>Small actions that compound over time to significantly improve personal and business efficiency.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Navigating the Unique Challenges of Family Businesses</p>
<ul>
<li>Balancing personal relationships with professional roles within a family-run business.</li>
<li>Establishing clear communication and boundaries to ensure mutual respect and business success.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Accepting Feedback and Turning Challenges into Opportunities</p>
<ul>
<li>Embracing constructive criticism as a catalyst for improvement.</li>
<li>Understanding that change is necessary to achieve different and better outcomes.</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ol>
<p>Join us as we delve into these topics with Sonya Corkery, who shares her expertise on cleaning up businesses, enhancing communication, and setting yourself up for future success.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Sonya Corkery:</p>
<p>Sonya had an extensive corporate career in finance. That includes time as a financial planner, bank manager and commercial lender.</p>
<p>She and her husband owned and operated a successful multimillion-dollar electrical contracting business for 16 years.</p>
<p>Learn more about Sonya and how she might help your business at</p>
<p><a href='https://clearplanconsulting.com.au/'>https://clearplanconsulting.com.au/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Sonya Corkery:</p>
Key Insights from Our Conversation with Sonya Corkery
<p>Get ready to transform your business with actionable insights! In this episode of Your Intended Message, we sat down with Sonya Corkery, a seasoned consultant helping businesses clean up their operations, streamline processes, and achieve sustainable growth. Here’s a sneak peek into the conversation:</p>

Q: What does it mean to "clean up a business"?
<p>Sonya:
We joke about being the “janitors of the business world” because we come in, tie up loose ends, and establish systems and processes. Many businesses lack a framework and operate in constant crisis mode. We help assess these gaps, implement solutions, and make life easier for business owners.</p>

Q: What’s the most common issue you see in businesses?
<p>Sonya:
The biggest problem is a lack of systems and processes. Owners often start with a great idea but don’t have the tools to turn it into an efficient operation. Clear systems streamline workflows, ensure consistency, and make training new team members much easier.</p>

Q: Why is communication such a critical part of business success?
<p>Sonya:
Communication is at the heart of everything. Without clear communication, you’re not giving your team or clients the best chance at success. Documenting processes and ensuring consistent messaging is vital for maintaining quality and alignment within a business.</p>

Q: How do you handle resistance from business owners who don’t want to change?
<p>Sonya:
It’s tough for anyone to hear they’ve made mistakes. I always say, “You’re not alone in this; many people face the same challenges.” We approach the situation objectively, showing how small changes can lead to better outcomes. Sometimes they need time to process feedback, and that’s okay—it’s all part of the journey.</p>

Q: What advice do you have for getting into the right mindset?
<p>Sonya:
I always say, “Do your future self a favor.” Prepare today for what you’ll need tomorrow. Whether it’s making notes for a meeting or setting up a process, these small actions compound over time. Even something as simple as wearing the right “uniform” for a task can help set your mindset for success.</p>

Q: What’s the key to working effectively in a family business?
<p>Sonya:
Communication is even more critical in family-run businesses. Early on, my husband and I had to learn to separate our egos from what was best for the business. Clear boundaries, open dialogue, and mutual respect are essential for balancing personal and professional dynamics.</p>

Q: How can businesses use feedback to improve?
<p>Sonya:
Feedback, even when it’s uncomfortable, is a gift. I tell business owners to sit with it and reflect. Change is hard, but continuing with the same approach will give you the same results. By addressing feedback, you open the door to growth.</p>

<p>Why listen to this episode?
Whether you're a seasoned entrepreneur or just starting, Sonya’s insights on systems, communication, and mindset will inspire you to tackle your business challenges head-on. Don't miss her advice on preparing for success and creating genuine connections in your business.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Build a Thriving Business with Clear Communication
Clear the Clutter: Streamline Your Business for Success
<p>Episode 233 (Sonya is based in Australia)</p>
<p>In this conversation, we explore:</p>
<ol>
<li>
<p>The Importance of Systems and Processes in Business</p>
<ul>
<li>How a lack of systems and processes leads to inefficiencies and constant "firefighting."</li>
<li>Strategies for developing effective operating systems that streamline operations and boost profitability.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Effective Communication as the Foundation for Success</p>
<ul>
<li>The critical role clear communication plays in team collaboration and client relationships.</li>
<li>Methods to establish consistent messaging and improve internal and external communications.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Gaining Objectivity Through External Business Assessments</p>
<ul>
<li>The value of bringing in an outside perspective to identify inefficiencies and growth opportunities.</li>
<li>How to conduct a business audit to uncover stress points like cash flow issues and staff turnover.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Managing Ego and Embracing Change for Growth</p>
<ul>
<li>Recognizing when ego hinders business progress and team dynamics.</li>
<li>Tips for being open to feedback and making changes that benefit the whole organization.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Preparation and Mindset: Doing Your Future Self a Favor</p>
<ul>
<li>The concept of preparing today to set yourself up for success tomorrow.</li>
<li>How routines, checklists, and even "uniforms" can enhance productivity and reduce decision fatigue.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Building Genuine Connections Through Energetic Interactions</p>
<ul>
<li>The impact of authentic communication on building trust with clients and team members.</li>
<li>Moving beyond rote phrases to create meaningful and personalized interactions.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Listening to Team Members on the Front Lines</p>
<ul>
<li>Leveraging the insights of employees who handle day-to-day operations.</li>
<li>Involving your team in decision-making to enhance engagement and implement better solutions.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>The Psychological Benefits of Organization and Planning</p>
<ul>
<li>How feeling organized reduces stress and provides peace of mind.</li>
<li>Small actions that compound over time to significantly improve personal and business efficiency.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Navigating the Unique Challenges of Family Businesses</p>
<ul>
<li>Balancing personal relationships with professional roles within a family-run business.</li>
<li>Establishing clear communication and boundaries to ensure mutual respect and business success.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>
<p>Accepting Feedback and Turning Challenges into Opportunities</p>
<ul>
<li>Embracing constructive criticism as a catalyst for improvement.</li>
<li>Understanding that change is necessary to achieve different and better outcomes.</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ol>
<p>Join us as we delve into these topics with Sonya Corkery, who shares her expertise on cleaning up businesses, enhancing communication, and setting yourself up for future success.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Sonya Corkery:</p>
<p>Sonya had an extensive corporate career in finance. That includes time as a financial planner, bank manager and commercial lender.</p>
<p>She and her husband owned and operated a successful multimillion-dollar electrical contracting business for 16 years.</p>
<p>Learn more about Sonya and how she might help your business at</p>
<p><a href='https://clearplanconsulting.com.au/'>https://clearplanconsulting.com.au/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Sonya Corkery:</p>
Key Insights from Our Conversation with Sonya Corkery
<p>Get ready to transform your business with actionable insights! In this episode of Your Intended Message, we sat down with Sonya Corkery, a seasoned consultant helping businesses clean up their operations, streamline processes, and achieve sustainable growth. Here’s a sneak peek into the conversation:</p>

Q: What does it mean to "clean up a business"?
<p>Sonya:<br>
We joke about being the “janitors of the business world” because we come in, tie up loose ends, and establish systems and processes. Many businesses lack a framework and operate in constant crisis mode. We help assess these gaps, implement solutions, and make life easier for business owners.</p>

Q: What’s the most common issue you see in businesses?
<p>Sonya:<br>
The biggest problem is a lack of systems and processes. Owners often start with a great idea but don’t have the tools to turn it into an efficient operation. Clear systems streamline workflows, ensure consistency, and make training new team members much easier.</p>

Q: Why is communication such a critical part of business success?
<p>Sonya:<br>
Communication is at the heart of everything. Without clear communication, you’re not giving your team or clients the best chance at success. Documenting processes and ensuring consistent messaging is vital for maintaining quality and alignment within a business.</p>

Q: How do you handle resistance from business owners who don’t want to change?
<p>Sonya:<br>
It’s tough for anyone to hear they’ve made mistakes. I always say, “You’re not alone in this; many people face the same challenges.” We approach the situation objectively, showing how small changes can lead to better outcomes. Sometimes they need time to process feedback, and that’s okay—it’s all part of the journey.</p>

Q: What advice do you have for getting into the right mindset?
<p>Sonya:<br>
I always say, “Do your future self a favor.” Prepare today for what you’ll need tomorrow. Whether it’s making notes for a meeting or setting up a process, these small actions compound over time. Even something as simple as wearing the right “uniform” for a task can help set your mindset for success.</p>

Q: What’s the key to working effectively in a family business?
<p>Sonya:<br>
Communication is even more critical in family-run businesses. Early on, my husband and I had to learn to separate our egos from what was best for the business. Clear boundaries, open dialogue, and mutual respect are essential for balancing personal and professional dynamics.</p>

Q: How can businesses use feedback to improve?
<p>Sonya:<br>
Feedback, even when it’s uncomfortable, is a gift. I tell business owners to sit with it and reflect. Change is hard, but continuing with the same approach will give you the same results. By addressing feedback, you open the door to growth.</p>

<p>Why listen to this episode?<br>
Whether you're a seasoned entrepreneur or just starting, Sonya’s insights on systems, communication, and mindset will inspire you to tackle your business challenges head-on. Don't miss her advice on preparing for success and creating genuine connections in your business.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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Clear the Clutter: Streamline Your Business for Success
Episode 233 (Sonya is based in Australia)
In this conversation, we explore:


The Importance of Systems and Processes in Business

How a lack of systems and processes leads to inefficiencies and constant "firefighting."
Strategies for developing effective operating systems that streamline operations and boost profitability.



Effective Communication as the Foundation for Success

The critical role clear communication plays in team collaboration and client relationships.
Methods to establish consistent messaging and improve internal and external communications.



Gaining Objectivity Through External Business Assessments

The value of bringing in an outside perspective to identify inefficiencies and growth opportunities.
How to conduct a business audit to uncover stress points like cash flow issues and staff turnover.



Managing Ego and Embracing Change for Growth

Recognizing when ego hinders business progress and team dynamics.
Tips for being open to feedback and making changes that benefit the whole organization.



Preparation and Mindset: Doing Your Future Self a Favor

The concept of preparing today to set yourself up for success tomorrow.
How routines, checklists, and even "uniforms" can enhance productivity and reduce decision fatigue.



Building Genuine Connections Through Energetic Interactions

The impact of authentic communication on building trust with clients and team members.
Moving beyond rote phrases to create meaningful and personalized interactions.



Listening to Team Members on the Front Lines

Leveraging the insights of employees who handle day-to-day operations.
Involving your team in decision-making to enhance engagement and implement better solutions.



The Psychological Benefits of Organization and Planning

How feeling organized reduces stress and provides peace of mind.
Small actions that compound over time to significantly improve personal and business efficiency.



Navigating the Unique Challenges of Family Businesses

Balancing personal relationships with professional roles within a family-run business.
Establishing clear communication and boundaries to ensure mutual respect and business success.



Accepting Feedback and Turning Challenges into Opportunities

Embracing constructive criticism as a catalyst for improvement.
Understanding that change is necessary to achieve different and better outcomes.



Join us as we delve into these topics with Sonya Corkery, who shares her expertise on cleaning up businesses, enhancing communication, and setting yourself up for future success.
-----
About our guest, Sonya Corkery:
Sonya had an extensive corporate career in finance. That includes time as a financial planner, bank manager and commercial lender.
She and her husband owned and operated a successful multimillion-dollar electrical contracting business for 16 years.
Learn more about Sonya and how she might help your business at
https://clearplanconsulting.com.au/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Sonya Corkery:
Key Insights from Our Conversation with Sonya Corkery
Get ready to transform your business with actionable insights! In this episode of Your Intended Message, we sat down with Sonya Corkery, a seasoned consultant helping businesses clean up their operations, streamline processes, and achieve sustainable growth. Here’s a sneak peek into the conversation:

Q: What does it mean to "clean up a business"?
Sonya:We joke about being the “janitors of the business world” because we come in, tie up loose ends, and establish systems and processes. Many businesses lack a framework and operate in constant crisis mode. We help assess these gaps, implement solutions, and make life easier for business owners.

Q: What’s the most common issue you see in businesses?
Sonya:The biggest problem is a lack of systems and processes. Owners often start with a great idea but don’t have th]]></itunes:summary>
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Your Batman needs an Alfred
<p>Episode 232 (Jackson is based in San Antonio, Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jackson Calame we explore the keys to building a first-class business and the foundational principles for entrepreneurial success."</p>
<ol>
<li>Why first-class service is non-negotiable for thriving businesses.</li>
<li>The hidden power of infrastructure and why it’s often overlooked by entrepreneurs.</li>
<li>How to transition from solopreneur to team leader and scale effectively.</li>
<li>The critical role of assembling the right team and identifying visionary traits in business partners.</li>
<li>The importance of ethics and authenticity in sustainable business growth.</li>
<li>The combine approach to selecting elite talent, inspired by professional sports.</li>
<li>Balancing efficiency with customer experience to create raving fans.</li>
<li>Why relying solely on automation and AI can be risky without a clear communication strategy.</li>
<li>Aligning personal values with business goals to create meaningful success.</li>
<li>How intentional messaging and clear communication set businesses apart from competitors.</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Jackson Calame:</p>
<p>Jackson teaches visionary entrepreneurs how to unlock sustainable revenue growth and expand their legacy by becoming a Power Brand in their market. 96% of businesses fail within the first 10 years. Jackson teaches businesses, not only how to avoid failure, but how to win, by becoming a true leader in their market.</p>
<p>You are invited to attend the Power Launch Webinar.</p>
<p><a href='https://go.firstclassbusiness.io/power-launch-webinar'>https://go.firstclassbusiness.io/power-launch-webinar</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Jackson Calame:</p>
<p>Jackson, let's talk about what first class business does for entrepreneurs that entrepreneurs fail to do for themselves. Where do you start? Absolutely.</p>
<p>Well, come out hitting hard and heavy. So our tagline on our website may make a lot of you laugh in a good and appreciative way.</p>
<p>It says, Hey, Batman, let us be your Alfred, right? And what does that mean? That means one, we want to work with superheroes, people who are contenders in the market, not pretenders.</p>
<p>We also want to come in and provide all of that back end infrastructure that often gets overlooked, maintaining the house, maintaining the balance, making sure that the schedules are operating efficiently, making sure Batman doesn't go out there and die when I was just trying to save the world.</p>
<p>There's so many things that need to be done in order to truly help somebody scale and have a proper balance and serve their market and be there for the family and the whole it's a lot so many entrepreneurs either take that for granted on one side, and we've got to stop doing that if we really want to build.</p>
<p>Or on the other side, if you're the Batman listening into that right now and you're like, oh my gosh, I need that act on it, you know, start looking for who is going to help you build that really unsexy, boring thing that almost no podcasts talk about, called infrastructure, truly that simple infrastructure</p>
<p>-----</p>
First Class business means that we literally cannot provide a second class service. Our clients won't accept it. 
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to Build an Elite Team for Your Business
Your Batman needs an Alfred
<p>Episode 232 (Jackson is based in San Antonio, Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jackson Calame we explore the keys to building a first-class business and the foundational principles for entrepreneurial success."</p>
<ol>
<li>Why first-class service is non-negotiable for thriving businesses.</li>
<li>The hidden power of infrastructure and why it’s often overlooked by entrepreneurs.</li>
<li>How to transition from solopreneur to team leader and scale effectively.</li>
<li>The critical role of assembling the right team and identifying visionary traits in business partners.</li>
<li>The importance of ethics and authenticity in sustainable business growth.</li>
<li>The combine approach to selecting elite talent, inspired by professional sports.</li>
<li>Balancing efficiency with customer experience to create raving fans.</li>
<li>Why relying solely on automation and AI can be risky without a clear communication strategy.</li>
<li>Aligning personal values with business goals to create meaningful success.</li>
<li>How intentional messaging and clear communication set businesses apart from competitors.</li>
</ol>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Jackson Calame:</p>
<p>Jackson teaches visionary entrepreneurs how to unlock sustainable revenue growth and expand their legacy by becoming a Power Brand in their market. 96% of businesses fail within the first 10 years. Jackson teaches businesses, not only how to avoid failure, but how to win, by becoming a true leader in their market.</p>
<p>You are invited to attend the Power Launch Webinar.</p>
<p><a href='https://go.firstclassbusiness.io/power-launch-webinar'>https://go.firstclassbusiness.io/power-launch-webinar</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Jackson Calame:</p>
<p>Jackson, let's talk about what first class business does for entrepreneurs that entrepreneurs fail to do for themselves. Where do you start? Absolutely.</p>
<p>Well, come out hitting hard and heavy. So our tagline on our website may make a lot of you laugh in a good and appreciative way.</p>
<p>It says, Hey, Batman, let us be your Alfred, right? And what does that mean? That means one, we want to work with superheroes, people who are contenders in the market, not pretenders.</p>
<p>We also want to come in and provide all of that back end infrastructure that often gets overlooked, maintaining the house, maintaining the balance, making sure that the schedules are operating efficiently, making sure Batman doesn't go out there and die when I was just trying to save the world.</p>
<p>There's so many things that need to be done in order to truly help somebody scale and have a proper balance and serve their market and be there for the family and the whole it's a lot so many entrepreneurs either take that for granted on one side, and we've got to stop doing that if we really want to build.</p>
<p>Or on the other side, if you're the Batman listening into that right now and you're like, oh my gosh, I need that act on it, you know, start looking for who is going to help you build that really unsexy, boring thing that almost no podcasts talk about, called infrastructure, truly that simple infrastructure</p>
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First Class business means that we literally cannot provide a second class service. Our clients won't accept it. 
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to Build an Elite Team for Your Business
Your Batman needs an Alfred
Episode 232 (Jackson is based in San Antonio, Texas)
In this conversation with Jackson Calame we explore the keys to building a first-class business and the foundational principles for entrepreneurial success."

Why first-class service is non-negotiable for thriving businesses.
The hidden power of infrastructure and why it’s often overlooked by entrepreneurs.
How to transition from solopreneur to team leader and scale effectively.
The critical role of assembling the right team and identifying visionary traits in business partners.
The importance of ethics and authenticity in sustainable business growth.
The combine approach to selecting elite talent, inspired by professional sports.
Balancing efficiency with customer experience to create raving fans.
Why relying solely on automation and AI can be risky without a clear communication strategy.
Aligning personal values with business goals to create meaningful success.
How intentional messaging and clear communication set businesses apart from competitors.

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About our guest, Jackson Calame:
Jackson teaches visionary entrepreneurs how to unlock sustainable revenue growth and expand their legacy by becoming a Power Brand in their market. 96% of businesses fail within the first 10 years. Jackson teaches businesses, not only how to avoid failure, but how to win, by becoming a true leader in their market.
You are invited to attend the Power Launch Webinar.
https://go.firstclassbusiness.io/power-launch-webinar
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Excerpts from this conversation with Jackson Calame:
Jackson, let's talk about what first class business does for entrepreneurs that entrepreneurs fail to do for themselves. Where do you start? Absolutely.
Well, come out hitting hard and heavy. So our tagline on our website may make a lot of you laugh in a good and appreciative way.
It says, Hey, Batman, let us be your Alfred, right? And what does that mean? That means one, we want to work with superheroes, people who are contenders in the market, not pretenders.
We also want to come in and provide all of that back end infrastructure that often gets overlooked, maintaining the house, maintaining the balance, making sure that the schedules are operating efficiently, making sure Batman doesn't go out there and die when I was just trying to save the world.
There's so many things that need to be done in order to truly help somebody scale and have a proper balance and serve their market and be there for the family and the whole it's a lot so many entrepreneurs either take that for granted on one side, and we've got to stop doing that if we really want to build.
Or on the other side, if you're the Batman listening into that right now and you're like, oh my gosh, I need that act on it, you know, start looking for who is going to help you build that really unsexy, boring thing that almost no podcasts talk about, called infrastructure, truly that simple infrastructure
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First Class business means that we literally cannot provide a second class service. Our clients won't accept it. 
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
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                                    <description><![CDATA[7 Life Lessons from Oilfields to Retirement
How Emotional Baggage Impacts Your Finances
<p>Episode 231 (Chad is based in Alaska)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Chad Hufford we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>Why Conventional Wisdom Often Fails in Financial Success</li>
<li>The Role of Emotional Baggage in Financial Decision-Making</li>
<li>The Influence of Financial Media on Misconceptions</li>
<li>The Importance of Shifting Perspectives for Financial Independence</li>
<li>Building a Financial Blueprint for Success</li>
<li>The Difference Between Income and Principal in Financial Freedom</li>
<li>Focusing on What You Can Control in a Volatile Economy</li>
<li>The Role of Trust and Relationships in Financial Advising</li>
<li>Retiring To, Not From: The Importance of Purpose in Financial Independence</li>
<li>The Power of Analogies to Simplify Complex Financial Concepts</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Chad Hufford:</p>
<p>Chad owns a boutique financial planning firm, Vertitas Wealth Management. He partners with Dave Ramsey as one of his SmartVestor Pros. He is the author of Forging Financial Freedom. He is born and raised in Anchorage, Alaska.</p>
<p>You can get your copy of his book along with the free bonuses here</p>
<p><a href='https://www.forgingfinancialfreedom.com/single'>www.forgingfinancialfreedom.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Chad Hufford:</p>
<p>Delighted to be talking with you and I somehow I just think just living and growing up in Alaska is got to give you a different view of the world. Do you agree with that?</p>
<p>Well, quite literally, it gives me a different view of the world. We're so high up on latitude that, yeah, every everything's different up here. But, you know, I think it's been actually really powerful for me.</p>
<p>You know, one of the things we talked about in previous conversations is, you know, when we try to have an intended message come across, sometimes we do have to change somebody's perspective in order to see it clearly.</p>
<p>And I think, coming from Alaska, we do automatically have such a different perspective. It just It lends itself to the reframing or reshaping of somebody's paradigm or perspective, and it's just, it's a wonderful place to live. It's not always easy 35 degrees this morning on my drive into the office.</p>
<p>But you know what? It's beautiful, and it's home- and that's 35 degrees Fahrenheit.</p>
<p>I guess we just started the fall, ended this summer? Yeah, summer here ended a few weeks ago, I think, if we're being honest. But yeah, 35 degrees Fahrenheit.</p>
<p>So like one, one degree, two degrees Celsius, it's, it's, it's crisp out there. But you know what we had? We had a huge black bear come through our yard. The other day.</p>
<p>We had a lynx outside. And where we live in Anchorage. it's 300,000 people. It's a normal town. We're now out in the boonies, but we live on the very edge of Anchorage, so we get wildlife in our backyard all the time. And it's such a blessing.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[7 Life Lessons from Oilfields to Retirement
How Emotional Baggage Impacts Your Finances
<p>Episode 231 (Chad is based in Alaska)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Chad Hufford we explore:</p>
<ul>
<li>Why Conventional Wisdom Often Fails in Financial Success</li>
<li>The Role of Emotional Baggage in Financial Decision-Making</li>
<li>The Influence of Financial Media on Misconceptions</li>
<li>The Importance of Shifting Perspectives for Financial Independence</li>
<li>Building a Financial Blueprint for Success</li>
<li>The Difference Between Income and Principal in Financial Freedom</li>
<li>Focusing on What You Can Control in a Volatile Economy</li>
<li>The Role of Trust and Relationships in Financial Advising</li>
<li>Retiring To, Not From: The Importance of Purpose in Financial Independence</li>
<li>The Power of Analogies to Simplify Complex Financial Concepts</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Chad Hufford:</p>
<p>Chad owns a boutique financial planning firm, Vertitas Wealth Management. He partners with Dave Ramsey as one of his SmartVestor Pros. He is the author of Forging Financial Freedom. He is born and raised in Anchorage, Alaska.</p>
<p>You can get your copy of his book along with the free bonuses here</p>
<p><a href='https://www.forgingfinancialfreedom.com/single'>www.forgingfinancialfreedom.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Chad Hufford:</p>
<p>Delighted to be talking with you and I somehow I just think just living and growing up in Alaska is got to give you a different view of the world. Do you agree with that?</p>
<p>Well, quite literally, it gives me a different view of the world. We're so high up on latitude that, yeah, every everything's different up here. But, you know, I think it's been actually really powerful for me.</p>
<p>You know, one of the things we talked about in previous conversations is, you know, when we try to have an intended message come across, sometimes we do have to change somebody's perspective in order to see it clearly.</p>
<p>And I think, coming from Alaska, we do automatically have such a different perspective. It just It lends itself to the reframing or reshaping of somebody's paradigm or perspective, and it's just, it's a wonderful place to live. It's not always easy 35 degrees this morning on my drive into the office.</p>
<p>But you know what? It's beautiful, and it's home- and that's 35 degrees Fahrenheit.</p>
<p>I guess we just started the fall, ended this summer? Yeah, summer here ended a few weeks ago, I think, if we're being honest. But yeah, 35 degrees Fahrenheit.</p>
<p>So like one, one degree, two degrees Celsius, it's, it's, it's crisp out there. But you know what we had? We had a huge black bear come through our yard. The other day.</p>
<p>We had a lynx outside. And where we live in Anchorage. it's 300,000 people. It's a normal town. We're now out in the boonies, but we live on the very edge of Anchorage, so we get wildlife in our backyard all the time. And it's such a blessing.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[7 Life Lessons from Oilfields to Retirement
How Emotional Baggage Impacts Your Finances
Episode 231 (Chad is based in Alaska)
In this conversation with Chad Hufford we explore:

Why Conventional Wisdom Often Fails in Financial Success
The Role of Emotional Baggage in Financial Decision-Making
The Influence of Financial Media on Misconceptions
The Importance of Shifting Perspectives for Financial Independence
Building a Financial Blueprint for Success
The Difference Between Income and Principal in Financial Freedom
Focusing on What You Can Control in a Volatile Economy
The Role of Trust and Relationships in Financial Advising
Retiring To, Not From: The Importance of Purpose in Financial Independence
The Power of Analogies to Simplify Complex Financial Concepts

About our guest, Chad Hufford:
Chad owns a boutique financial planning firm, Vertitas Wealth Management. He partners with Dave Ramsey as one of his SmartVestor Pros. He is the author of Forging Financial Freedom. He is born and raised in Anchorage, Alaska.
You can get your copy of his book along with the free bonuses here
www.forgingfinancialfreedom.com
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Chad Hufford:
Delighted to be talking with you and I somehow I just think just living and growing up in Alaska is got to give you a different view of the world. Do you agree with that?
Well, quite literally, it gives me a different view of the world. We're so high up on latitude that, yeah, every everything's different up here. But, you know, I think it's been actually really powerful for me.
You know, one of the things we talked about in previous conversations is, you know, when we try to have an intended message come across, sometimes we do have to change somebody's perspective in order to see it clearly.
And I think, coming from Alaska, we do automatically have such a different perspective. It just It lends itself to the reframing or reshaping of somebody's paradigm or perspective, and it's just, it's a wonderful place to live. It's not always easy 35 degrees this morning on my drive into the office.
But you know what? It's beautiful, and it's home- and that's 35 degrees Fahrenheit.
I guess we just started the fall, ended this summer? Yeah, summer here ended a few weeks ago, I think, if we're being honest. But yeah, 35 degrees Fahrenheit.
So like one, one degree, two degrees Celsius, it's, it's, it's crisp out there. But you know what we had? We had a huge black bear come through our yard. The other day.
We had a lynx outside. And where we live in Anchorage. it's 300,000 people. It's a normal town. We're now out in the boonies, but we live on the very edge of Anchorage, so we get wildlife in our backyard all the time. And it's such a blessing.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[The Recipe of Emotions: Crafting Responses for Success
Emotion as Sensation: How Our Past Shapes Our Emotional Responses
<p>Episode 230 (Kim is based in San Francisco)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The Connection Between Emotions and Sensory Experiences</li>
<li>Why Emotional Awareness Matters in Both Life and Leadership</li>
<li>Practical Strategies to Gain Control Over Your Emotions</li>
<li>How to Avoid Being a ‘Slave’ to Your Emotions</li>
<li>The Power of Emotional Granularity</li>
<li>Using Interoception to Improve Emotional and Physical Awareness</li>
<li>How to Rethink Negative Experiences Through Conscious Reframing</li>
<li>Balancing Compassion and Empathy as a Leader</li>
<li>Daily Practices to Connect with Your Emotions</li>
<li>How Emotions Serve as Tools for Learning and Growth</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Kim Korte:</p>
<p>Kim Korte hosts the Flavors of Emotions podcast and is the author of Yucky Yummy Savory Sweet: Understanding the Flavors of Emotions. </p>
<p>She offers a process to help us make sense of our feelings through the lens of a chef understanding flavors in a recipe.</p>
<p>This unique approach to emotion management blends culinary metaphors with emotional education in a digestible format, making the complex world of feelings accessible and actionable.</p>
<p>As a Sensory Perception and Emotion Management Strategist, she aims to help people develop creative action around how they experience the world and their emotions.</p>
<p>Learn more about Kim and and her book <a href='https://www.kimkorte.com/'>https://www.kimkorte.com/</a></p>
<p>Listen to her podcast "Flavors of Emotions: <a href='https://www.flavorsofemotions.com/'>https://www.flavorsofemotions.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Kim Korte:</p>
<p>In your book, you compare emotions to food and and sensation. Food sensations and flavors. How did you come up with that connection?</p>
<p>
I learned about the theory of constructed emotions, which is a very common and probably fairly widely accepted idea that we construct our emotions using our experiences, kind of like ingredients that and a recipe.</p>
<p>And I got this idea after reading how emotions are made, The Secret Life of the Brain, by Lisa Feldman Barrett.</p>
<p>It was an eye popping book, and it got me to think about how if emotions are created from perceptions, then our whole world is like giving us ingredients that we use, and the recipes are everything that we've experienced previously.</p>
<p>So we're always living today in the past, unless we're more conscious of what's going on in our current experience.</p>
<p>That level of consciousness is what helps us to examine and change the quote, unquote recipe if it's not the right one, or if it's not working for us and the process of flavor, it's not a sense sensory system, like everything that we taste, everything we see, all of these things, these are sensory systems.</p>
<p>And taste is a combination of sensory systems you taste with your nose, you taste with your mouth. They even have shown that what you see and what you hear like, if it's crunchy, you think it's fresh, but even music going on around you, you might think, Oh, this music isn't impacting me, but it really can impact the flavor and your experience of food, and the same is true of our emotions.</p>
<p>Everything that we experience is a our emotions, rather are a combination of our sensory experiences. That's what influences us. So this is where I got these food metaphors and cooking metaphors.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Think of it like a pepper. There's different kinds of peppers, there's bell peppers, and there's jalapenos, and there's habaneros.</p>
<p>And yet, we don't attribute hot spiciness to every single pepper out there, right? Because we've learned to distinguish the differences situationally and. Experientially of different peppers.</p>
<p>And so the same can be true with our fears, because we tend to have this like one size fits all approach to a lot of emotions, and we we feel one emotion more than others, and we haven't allowed ourselves to recognize that fear can be like a pepper, even love can be like a pepper, and have different gradations of it, different levels of quote, unquote, heat.</p>
<p>And with that, you are able to break down that fear into seeing it in its different states. It could be irked, could be nervous. It could be irate, you know? It could be, you know, I need to run for the door, panic. Same with love....</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[The Recipe of Emotions: Crafting Responses for Success
Emotion as Sensation: How Our Past Shapes Our Emotional Responses
<p>Episode 230 (Kim is based in San Francisco)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The Connection Between Emotions and Sensory Experiences</li>
<li>Why Emotional Awareness Matters in Both Life and Leadership</li>
<li>Practical Strategies to Gain Control Over Your Emotions</li>
<li>How to Avoid Being a ‘Slave’ to Your Emotions</li>
<li>The Power of Emotional Granularity</li>
<li>Using Interoception to Improve Emotional and Physical Awareness</li>
<li>How to Rethink Negative Experiences Through Conscious Reframing</li>
<li>Balancing Compassion and Empathy as a Leader</li>
<li>Daily Practices to Connect with Your Emotions</li>
<li>How Emotions Serve as Tools for Learning and Growth</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Kim Korte:</p>
<p>Kim Korte hosts the Flavors of Emotions podcast and is the author of Yucky Yummy Savory Sweet: Understanding the Flavors of Emotions. </p>
<p>She offers a process to help us make sense of our feelings through the lens of a chef understanding flavors in a recipe.</p>
<p>This unique approach to emotion management blends culinary metaphors with emotional education in a digestible format, making the complex world of feelings accessible and actionable.</p>
<p>As a Sensory Perception and Emotion Management Strategist, she aims to help people develop creative action around how they experience the world and their emotions.</p>
<p>Learn more about Kim and and her book <a href='https://www.kimkorte.com/'>https://www.kimkorte.com/</a></p>
<p>Listen to her podcast "Flavors of Emotions: <a href='https://www.flavorsofemotions.com/'>https://www.flavorsofemotions.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Kim Korte:</p>
<p>In your book, you compare emotions to food and and sensation. Food sensations and flavors. How did you come up with that connection?</p>
<p><br>
I learned about the theory of constructed emotions, which is a very common and probably fairly widely accepted idea that we construct our emotions using our experiences, kind of like ingredients that and a recipe.</p>
<p>And I got this idea after reading how emotions are made, The Secret Life of the Brain, by Lisa Feldman Barrett.</p>
<p>It was an eye popping book, and it got me to think about how if emotions are created from perceptions, then our whole world is like giving us ingredients that we use, and the recipes are everything that we've experienced previously.</p>
<p>So we're always living today in the past, unless we're more conscious of what's going on in our current experience.</p>
<p>That level of consciousness is what helps us to examine and change the quote, unquote recipe if it's not the right one, or if it's not working for us and the process of flavor, it's not a sense sensory system, like everything that we taste, everything we see, all of these things, these are sensory systems.</p>
<p>And taste is a combination of sensory systems you taste with your nose, you taste with your mouth. They even have shown that what you see and what you hear like, if it's crunchy, you think it's fresh, but even music going on around you, you might think, Oh, this music isn't impacting me, but it really can impact the flavor and your experience of food, and the same is true of our emotions.</p>
<p>Everything that we experience is a our emotions, rather are a combination of our sensory experiences. That's what influences us. So this is where I got these food metaphors and cooking metaphors.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Think of it like a pepper. There's different kinds of peppers, there's bell peppers, and there's jalapenos, and there's habaneros.</p>
<p>And yet, we don't attribute hot spiciness to every single pepper out there, right? Because we've learned to distinguish the differences situationally and. Experientially of different peppers.</p>
<p>And so the same can be true with our fears, because we tend to have this like one size fits all approach to a lot of emotions, and we we feel one emotion more than others, and we haven't allowed ourselves to recognize that fear can be like a pepper, even love can be like a pepper, and have different gradations of it, different levels of quote, unquote, heat.</p>
<p>And with that, you are able to break down that fear into seeing it in its different states. It could be irked, could be nervous. It could be irate, you know? It could be, you know, I need to run for the door, panic. Same with love....</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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Emotion as Sensation: How Our Past Shapes Our Emotional Responses
Episode 230 (Kim is based in San Francisco)
In this conversation we explore:
The Connection Between Emotions and Sensory Experiences
Why Emotional Awareness Matters in Both Life and Leadership
Practical Strategies to Gain Control Over Your Emotions
How to Avoid Being a ‘Slave’ to Your Emotions
The Power of Emotional Granularity
Using Interoception to Improve Emotional and Physical Awareness
How to Rethink Negative Experiences Through Conscious Reframing
Balancing Compassion and Empathy as a Leader
Daily Practices to Connect with Your Emotions
How Emotions Serve as Tools for Learning and Growth
About our guest, Kim Korte:
Kim Korte hosts the Flavors of Emotions podcast and is the author of Yucky Yummy Savory Sweet: Understanding the Flavors of Emotions. 
She offers a process to help us make sense of our feelings through the lens of a chef understanding flavors in a recipe.
This unique approach to emotion management blends culinary metaphors with emotional education in a digestible format, making the complex world of feelings accessible and actionable.
As a Sensory Perception and Emotion Management Strategist, she aims to help people develop creative action around how they experience the world and their emotions.
Learn more about Kim and and her book https://www.kimkorte.com/
Listen to her podcast "Flavors of Emotions: https://www.flavorsofemotions.com/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Kim Korte:
In your book, you compare emotions to food and and sensation. Food sensations and flavors. How did you come up with that connection?
I learned about the theory of constructed emotions, which is a very common and probably fairly widely accepted idea that we construct our emotions using our experiences, kind of like ingredients that and a recipe.
And I got this idea after reading how emotions are made, The Secret Life of the Brain, by Lisa Feldman Barrett.
It was an eye popping book, and it got me to think about how if emotions are created from perceptions, then our whole world is like giving us ingredients that we use, and the recipes are everything that we've experienced previously.
So we're always living today in the past, unless we're more conscious of what's going on in our current experience.
That level of consciousness is what helps us to examine and change the quote, unquote recipe if it's not the right one, or if it's not working for us and the process of flavor, it's not a sense sensory system, like everything that we taste, everything we see, all of these things, these are sensory systems.
And taste is a combination of sensory systems you taste with your nose, you taste with your mouth. They even have shown that what you see and what you hear like, if it's crunchy, you think it's fresh, but even music going on around you, you might think, Oh, this music isn't impacting me, but it really can impact the flavor and your experience of food, and the same is true of our emotions.
Everything that we experience is a our emotions, rather are a combination of our sensory experiences. That's what influences us. So this is where I got these food metaphors and cooking metaphors.
-----
Think of it like a pepper. There's different kinds of peppers, there's bell peppers, and there's jalapenos, and there's habaneros.
And yet, we don't attribute hot spiciness to every single pepper out there, right? Because we've learned to distinguish the differences situationally and. Experientially of different peppers.
And so the same can be true with our fears, because we tend to have this like one size fits all approach to a lot of emotions, and we we feel one emotion more than others, and we haven't allowed ourselves to recognize that fear can be like a pepper, even love can be like a pepper, and have different gradations of it, different levels of quote, unquote, heat.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Unlocking Trust and Authenticity in Content Creation
Build Real Connections and Grow Your Business
<p>Episode 229 (Aaron is based in Australia)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Aaron we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The value of publishing video to build trust</li>
<li>Publish content to offer value to your prospects and clients</li>
<li>Why the content needs to be about your audience and not you</li>
<li>How to discover the questions that your audiences wants answered</li>
<li>How to generate better content by answering questions</li>
<li>How to appear better on camera by making it a conversation</li>
<li>How to get into the flow of recording video</li>
<li>The importance of an attractive hook to hold their attention</li>
<li>When and how to place a call to action</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Aaron Witnish:</p>
<p>He started marketing online in 2008 and launched his first agency in 2010.</p>
<p>You can download the free "30 Days in 90 Minutes Content Creation System"</p>
<p><a href='https://contentonly.au/'>https://contentonly.au/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Aaron Witnish:</p>
<p>It's very fitting that the show is called your intended message, because that ties in beautifully with content creation. The challenge is it has so many moving parts.</p>
<p>Where do you post it? What format do you create? Where do you get the ideas, what tech that you use? And that paralyzes most people into inaction, or there's a fear about being on camera. You're quite vulnerable. When you put yourself online, people can make comments and say things. </p>
<p>-----</p>
When you're writing your content, creating it, or just thinking about what you're going to say, think about your audience and how you can help them.
<p>-----</p>
<p>How do we know which questions to answer for our audience?</p>
<p>
This is one of the biggest obstacles, and I'm glad to say that solving it is quite easy once you know how and full transparency.</p>
<p>Took me 14 years to to find this, and now that I know it's kind of slapped me in the face, but what you do is you take any topic that you might cover with your intended message or in your business, and you just put that keyword or that search into Google.</p>
<p>So let's use a generic example, and we'll say weight loss. So if you put weight loss, type it into Google. Press Enter. All you need to do is scroll down the search a little bit, and there's a section that says people also ask, and that'll have the questions and queries that people are typing in and asking online.</p>
<p>So what you can do is look at the questions that you can add value to and answer, save them to the side, and then you click the down arrow, it'll give you more questions.</p>
<p>You click the down arrow, it'll give you more questions. Then you just take the next topic. So it could be dieting, it could be workouts, it could be nutrition, and then you just keep getting a list of questions that people are asking.</p>
<p>So that way you know what people are searching for online, and you can solve those problems with your content and never. Run out of content ideas with this strategy</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Unlocking Trust and Authenticity in Content Creation
Build Real Connections and Grow Your Business
<p>Episode 229 (Aaron is based in Australia)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Aaron we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The value of publishing video to build trust</li>
<li>Publish content to offer value to your prospects and clients</li>
<li>Why the content needs to be about your audience and not you</li>
<li>How to discover the questions that your audiences wants answered</li>
<li>How to generate better content by answering questions</li>
<li>How to appear better on camera by making it a conversation</li>
<li>How to get into the flow of recording video</li>
<li>The importance of an attractive hook to hold their attention</li>
<li>When and how to place a call to action</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Aaron Witnish:</p>
<p>He started marketing online in 2008 and launched his first agency in 2010.</p>
<p>You can download the free "30 Days in 90 Minutes Content Creation System"</p>
<p><a href='https://contentonly.au/'>https://contentonly.au/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Aaron Witnish:</p>
<p>It's very fitting that the show is called your intended message, because that ties in beautifully with content creation. The challenge is it has so many moving parts.</p>
<p>Where do you post it? What format do you create? Where do you get the ideas, what tech that you use? And that paralyzes most people into inaction, or there's a fear about being on camera. You're quite vulnerable. When you put yourself online, people can make comments and say things. </p>
<p>-----</p>
When you're writing your content, creating it, or just thinking about what you're going to say, think about your audience and how you can help them.
<p>-----</p>
<p>How do we know which questions to answer for our audience?</p>
<p><br>
This is one of the biggest obstacles, and I'm glad to say that solving it is quite easy once you know how and full transparency.</p>
<p>Took me 14 years to to find this, and now that I know it's kind of slapped me in the face, but what you do is you take any topic that you might cover with your intended message or in your business, and you just put that keyword or that search into Google.</p>
<p>So let's use a generic example, and we'll say weight loss. So if you put weight loss, type it into Google. Press Enter. All you need to do is scroll down the search a little bit, and there's a section that says people also ask, and that'll have the questions and queries that people are typing in and asking online.</p>
<p>So what you can do is look at the questions that you can add value to and answer, save them to the side, and then you click the down arrow, it'll give you more questions.</p>
<p>You click the down arrow, it'll give you more questions. Then you just take the next topic. So it could be dieting, it could be workouts, it could be nutrition, and then you just keep getting a list of questions that people are asking.</p>
<p>So that way you know what people are searching for online, and you can solve those problems with your content and never. Run out of content ideas with this strategy</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Unlocking Trust and Authenticity in Content Creation
Build Real Connections and Grow Your Business
Episode 229 (Aaron is based in Australia)
In this conversation with Aaron we explore:
The value of publishing video to build trust
Publish content to offer value to your prospects and clients
Why the content needs to be about your audience and not you
How to discover the questions that your audiences wants answered
How to generate better content by answering questions
How to appear better on camera by making it a conversation
How to get into the flow of recording video
The importance of an attractive hook to hold their attention
When and how to place a call to action
About our guest, Aaron Witnish:
He started marketing online in 2008 and launched his first agency in 2010.
You can download the free "30 Days in 90 Minutes Content Creation System"
https://contentonly.au/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Aaron Witnish:
It's very fitting that the show is called your intended message, because that ties in beautifully with content creation. The challenge is it has so many moving parts.
Where do you post it? What format do you create? Where do you get the ideas, what tech that you use? And that paralyzes most people into inaction, or there's a fear about being on camera. You're quite vulnerable. When you put yourself online, people can make comments and say things. 
-----
When you're writing your content, creating it, or just thinking about what you're going to say, think about your audience and how you can help them.
-----
How do we know which questions to answer for our audience?
This is one of the biggest obstacles, and I'm glad to say that solving it is quite easy once you know how and full transparency.
Took me 14 years to to find this, and now that I know it's kind of slapped me in the face, but what you do is you take any topic that you might cover with your intended message or in your business, and you just put that keyword or that search into Google.
So let's use a generic example, and we'll say weight loss. So if you put weight loss, type it into Google. Press Enter. All you need to do is scroll down the search a little bit, and there's a section that says people also ask, and that'll have the questions and queries that people are typing in and asking online.
So what you can do is look at the questions that you can add value to and answer, save them to the side, and then you click the down arrow, it'll give you more questions.
You click the down arrow, it'll give you more questions. Then you just take the next topic. So it could be dieting, it could be workouts, it could be nutrition, and then you just keep getting a list of questions that people are asking.
So that way you know what people are searching for online, and you can solve those problems with your content and never. Run out of content ideas with this strategy
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Is your image telling your story as intended?
How to look better and real on camera
<p>Episode 228 (Maia is based in Chicago)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Maia Rosenfeld we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How do other judge you based on your photograph?</li>
<li>How a photographer first needs to understand you</li>
<li>How to stop sabotaging your photographs</li>
<li>What a better word than "cheese"</li>
<li>The power of visual messages on trust</li>
<li>The first impression when we see your photo on Linkedin</li>
<li>How might the photograph convey your brand?</li>
<li>Why do people check their reflection when they walk by store windows</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Maia Rosenfeld:</p>
<p>Maia has been a headshot photographer in Chicago, Los Angeles and New York for 28 years.</p>
<p>Some of her corporate clients include BMW, J.P. Morgan Chase, Salesforce, GE Healthcare and The Make-A-Wish Foundation.</p>
<p>She's never met a stranger.</p>
<p>Learn more about her photography services at</p>
<p><a href='https://mrpcreative.com/'>MRPCreative.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Maia Rosenfeld:</p>
Is it welcoming? Do you look smart? Do you look like you're good at what you do? Do you look like someone they want to spend the time reading the next little blurb that's probably only three sentences underneath their chin, getting to figure out what is the unique thing, the differentiator of each client that comes into my studio to figure out how to tell their story, to make sure that their authenticity is represented, is the thing right.
<p>-----</p>
<p>I'm not particularly interested in taking photographs of what you look like. Lucky for me, you already look like what you look like. Thank you very much. I'm interested in taking photos of who you are.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>I've come up with a game that they do, which is I throw a word out at them, and they just repeat that word inside their brain. They just have to think it.</p>
<p>So if I say to you, just with your eyes, say the word power, if you literally just think the word power, you're done. You don't have to give me what you think a powerful look is.</p>
<p>You don't have to define power. You don't have to think of a ton you once felt powerful. Literally, I say power. You say power. I say cat, you say cat. And why does it work?</p>
<p>It works because it keeps George inside the building. That is George, where people tend to derail themselves in photos, any photo, family photo, picture, it out with your friends.</p>
<p>Is the second the camera comes up. Everyone tends to leave the building, right? We're in a big group of people. We say cheese. We don't know how long it's taking. We don't know how many they're taking.</p>
<p>Our faces kind of freeze. We don't know it's, oh, it's the other camera. Are they using a flash? We get that photo back, and we hate how we look, right? You're not in that photo.</p>
<p>You left at least 15 seconds ago, right? So that is one of the places that we derail ourselves and we don't we start to hate how we look.</p>
<p>Now we live in a world, in this selfie culture, where you can watch yourself in the photo, right? Which is almost even worse of a problem. It makes it even more self conscious, right? </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Is your image telling your story as intended?
How to look better and real on camera
<p>Episode 228 (Maia is based in Chicago)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Maia Rosenfeld we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How do other judge you based on your photograph?</li>
<li>How a photographer first needs to understand you</li>
<li>How to stop sabotaging your photographs</li>
<li>What a better word than "cheese"</li>
<li>The power of visual messages on trust</li>
<li>The first impression when we see your photo on Linkedin</li>
<li>How might the photograph convey your brand?</li>
<li>Why do people check their reflection when they walk by store windows</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Maia Rosenfeld:</p>
<p>Maia has been a headshot photographer in Chicago, Los Angeles and New York for 28 years.</p>
<p>Some of her corporate clients include BMW, J.P. Morgan Chase, Salesforce, GE Healthcare and The Make-A-Wish Foundation.</p>
<p>She's never met a stranger.</p>
<p>Learn more about her photography services at</p>
<p><a href='https://mrpcreative.com/'>MRPCreative.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Maia Rosenfeld:</p>
Is it welcoming? Do you look smart? Do you look like you're good at what you do? Do you look like someone they want to spend the time reading the next little blurb that's probably only three sentences underneath their chin, getting to figure out what is the unique thing, the differentiator of each client that comes into my studio to figure out how to tell their story, to make sure that their authenticity is represented, is the thing right.
<p>-----</p>
<p>I'm not particularly interested in taking photographs of what you look like. Lucky for me, you already look like what you look like. Thank you very much. I'm interested in taking photos of who you are.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>I've come up with a game that they do, which is I throw a word out at them, and they just repeat that word inside their brain. They just have to think it.</p>
<p>So if I say to you, just with your eyes, say the word power, if you literally just think the word power, you're done. You don't have to give me what you think a powerful look is.</p>
<p>You don't have to define power. You don't have to think of a ton you once felt powerful. Literally, I say power. You say power. I say cat, you say cat. And why does it work?</p>
<p>It works because it keeps George inside the building. That is George, where people tend to derail themselves in photos, any photo, family photo, picture, it out with your friends.</p>
<p>Is the second the camera comes up. Everyone tends to leave the building, right? We're in a big group of people. We say cheese. We don't know how long it's taking. We don't know how many they're taking.</p>
<p>Our faces kind of freeze. We don't know it's, oh, it's the other camera. Are they using a flash? We get that photo back, and we hate how we look, right? You're not in that photo.</p>
<p>You left at least 15 seconds ago, right? So that is one of the places that we derail ourselves and we don't we start to hate how we look.</p>
<p>Now we live in a world, in this selfie culture, where you can watch yourself in the photo, right? Which is almost even worse of a problem. It makes it even more self conscious, right? </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Is your image telling your story as intended?
How to look better and real on camera
Episode 228 (Maia is based in Chicago)
In this conversation with Maia Rosenfeld we explore:
How do other judge you based on your photograph?
How a photographer first needs to understand you
How to stop sabotaging your photographs
What a better word than "cheese"
The power of visual messages on trust
The first impression when we see your photo on Linkedin
How might the photograph convey your brand?
Why do people check their reflection when they walk by store windows
About our guest, Maia Rosenfeld:
Maia has been a headshot photographer in Chicago, Los Angeles and New York for 28 years.
Some of her corporate clients include BMW, J.P. Morgan Chase, Salesforce, GE Healthcare and The Make-A-Wish Foundation.
She's never met a stranger.
Learn more about her photography services at
MRPCreative.com
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Maia Rosenfeld:
Is it welcoming? Do you look smart? Do you look like you're good at what you do? Do you look like someone they want to spend the time reading the next little blurb that's probably only three sentences underneath their chin, getting to figure out what is the unique thing, the differentiator of each client that comes into my studio to figure out how to tell their story, to make sure that their authenticity is represented, is the thing right.
-----
I'm not particularly interested in taking photographs of what you look like. Lucky for me, you already look like what you look like. Thank you very much. I'm interested in taking photos of who you are.
-----
I've come up with a game that they do, which is I throw a word out at them, and they just repeat that word inside their brain. They just have to think it.
So if I say to you, just with your eyes, say the word power, if you literally just think the word power, you're done. You don't have to give me what you think a powerful look is.
You don't have to define power. You don't have to think of a ton you once felt powerful. Literally, I say power. You say power. I say cat, you say cat. And why does it work?
It works because it keeps George inside the building. That is George, where people tend to derail themselves in photos, any photo, family photo, picture, it out with your friends.
Is the second the camera comes up. Everyone tends to leave the building, right? We're in a big group of people. We say cheese. We don't know how long it's taking. We don't know how many they're taking.
Our faces kind of freeze. We don't know it's, oh, it's the other camera. Are they using a flash? We get that photo back, and we hate how we look, right? You're not in that photo.
You left at least 15 seconds ago, right? So that is one of the places that we derail ourselves and we don't we start to hate how we look.
Now we live in a world, in this selfie culture, where you can watch yourself in the photo, right? Which is almost even worse of a problem. It makes it even more self conscious, right? 
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georg]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Listen to your Mind, Body and Spirit
Your Body is a Team Player
<p>Episode 227 (Mara is based in Virginia, USA)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Mara Benner we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to better connect with our own body, mind and spirit</li>
<li>Why outside communication starts with inside communication</li>
<li>Emotional intelligence is more than only emotions and intelligence</li>
<li>How to prepare yourself for challenging conversation</li>
<li>How to mitigate imposter syndrome</li>
<li>How to balance body, mind and spirit</li>
<li>How are we communicating to ourselves</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Mara Benner:</p>
<p>Mara worked for 25 years in corporate and nonprofit leadership roles. At one time she worked for the CEO of a $2 billion healthcare company.</p>
<p>She has learned how various cultures have combined health, wellness and the min-body-spirit connection.</p>
<p>She studied Qigong in China with the masters.</p>
<p>You can arrange for a 30 minute, no-charge, no-obligation consultation with Mara at <a href='https://truenorthexecutivecoaching.com/'>https://truenorthexecutivecoaching.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Mara Benner:</p>
<p>Your body is a team player with you. And when I say that to leaders, there's a pause. There's that ache that I've been having, that pain that I've been having. I didn't think of as the body being a team player with me, but it is, and you can get to optimal performance, mind, body and spirit when you work on all these different aspects.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>And I'll say one other thing that I think is fascinating about this is those leaders who have done an amazing job of working on the mind, body and spirit, also tap into the ability to create at a whole new level, for innovation and for new approaches, and with time speeding up on how quickly companies have to move and engage in new, innovative approaches for products or services, that ability as a leader, to tap into that creative aspect for the vision of the company and the organization is more important than ever.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>But we come back to a state of homeostasis, which is our natural place to be. And when we're balanced, when our mind and body and spirit are all in a balanced state, the body is able to optimally heal and be at optimal performance, which helps a leader out.</p>
<p>And so again, whether it's yoga or Qigong, or any of these approaches meditation, but it could be also, and this is what I think is really interesting, is for every leader, it's very different as to how they best come back into the state of homeostasis.</p>
<p>So for some it might be going for a run that helps them come back to that state of true balance. When I was in China to go to your point, what I realized is this concept that has always been there of what we call whole person care, which is we are not separated.</p>
<p>Our bodies aren't separated from our mind. Aren't separated from our spirit. It's all one in the same. And we get used to in our healthcare culture right now, we get used to thinking that things are separated out, that one does not impact the other, and that's actually not true.</p>
<p>They're all completely part of the whole so when a doctor says to a patient, this is this illness is stress related, often that person walks out of the doctor's office and may not know what to do with that, like, what? So now do I do if it's stress related? What does that look like?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Listen to your Mind, Body and Spirit
Your Body is a Team Player
<p>Episode 227 (Mara is based in Virginia, USA)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Mara Benner we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to better connect with our own body, mind and spirit</li>
<li>Why outside communication starts with inside communication</li>
<li>Emotional intelligence is more than only emotions and intelligence</li>
<li>How to prepare yourself for challenging conversation</li>
<li>How to mitigate imposter syndrome</li>
<li>How to balance body, mind and spirit</li>
<li>How are we communicating to ourselves</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Mara Benner:</p>
<p>Mara worked for 25 years in corporate and nonprofit leadership roles. At one time she worked for the CEO of a $2 billion healthcare company.</p>
<p>She has learned how various cultures have combined health, wellness and the min-body-spirit connection.</p>
<p>She studied Qigong in China with the masters.</p>
<p>You can arrange for a 30 minute, no-charge, no-obligation consultation with Mara at <a href='https://truenorthexecutivecoaching.com/'>https://truenorthexecutivecoaching.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Mara Benner:</p>
<p>Your body is a team player with you. And when I say that to leaders, there's a pause. There's that ache that I've been having, that pain that I've been having. I didn't think of as the body being a team player with me, but it is, and you can get to optimal performance, mind, body and spirit when you work on all these different aspects.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>And I'll say one other thing that I think is fascinating about this is those leaders who have done an amazing job of working on the mind, body and spirit, also tap into the ability to create at a whole new level, for innovation and for new approaches, and with time speeding up on how quickly companies have to move and engage in new, innovative approaches for products or services, that ability as a leader, to tap into that creative aspect for the vision of the company and the organization is more important than ever.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>But we come back to a state of homeostasis, which is our natural place to be. And when we're balanced, when our mind and body and spirit are all in a balanced state, the body is able to optimally heal and be at optimal performance, which helps a leader out.</p>
<p>And so again, whether it's yoga or Qigong, or any of these approaches meditation, but it could be also, and this is what I think is really interesting, is for every leader, it's very different as to how they best come back into the state of homeostasis.</p>
<p>So for some it might be going for a run that helps them come back to that state of true balance. When I was in China to go to your point, what I realized is this concept that has always been there of what we call whole person care, which is we are not separated.</p>
<p>Our bodies aren't separated from our mind. Aren't separated from our spirit. It's all one in the same. And we get used to in our healthcare culture right now, we get used to thinking that things are separated out, that one does not impact the other, and that's actually not true.</p>
<p>They're all completely part of the whole so when a doctor says to a patient, this is this illness is stress related, often that person walks out of the doctor's office and may not know what to do with that, like, what? So now do I do if it's stress related? What does that look like?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Listen to your Mind, Body and Spirit
Your Body is a Team Player
Episode 227 (Mara is based in Virginia, USA)
In this conversation with Mara Benner we explore:
How to better connect with our own body, mind and spirit
Why outside communication starts with inside communication
Emotional intelligence is more than only emotions and intelligence
How to prepare yourself for challenging conversation
How to mitigate imposter syndrome
How to balance body, mind and spirit
How are we communicating to ourselves
About our guest, Mara Benner:
Mara worked for 25 years in corporate and nonprofit leadership roles. At one time she worked for the CEO of a $2 billion healthcare company.
She has learned how various cultures have combined health, wellness and the min-body-spirit connection.
She studied Qigong in China with the masters.
You can arrange for a 30 minute, no-charge, no-obligation consultation with Mara at https://truenorthexecutivecoaching.com/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Mara Benner:
Your body is a team player with you. And when I say that to leaders, there's a pause. There's that ache that I've been having, that pain that I've been having. I didn't think of as the body being a team player with me, but it is, and you can get to optimal performance, mind, body and spirit when you work on all these different aspects.
-----
And I'll say one other thing that I think is fascinating about this is those leaders who have done an amazing job of working on the mind, body and spirit, also tap into the ability to create at a whole new level, for innovation and for new approaches, and with time speeding up on how quickly companies have to move and engage in new, innovative approaches for products or services, that ability as a leader, to tap into that creative aspect for the vision of the company and the organization is more important than ever.
-----
But we come back to a state of homeostasis, which is our natural place to be. And when we're balanced, when our mind and body and spirit are all in a balanced state, the body is able to optimally heal and be at optimal performance, which helps a leader out.
And so again, whether it's yoga or Qigong, or any of these approaches meditation, but it could be also, and this is what I think is really interesting, is for every leader, it's very different as to how they best come back into the state of homeostasis.
So for some it might be going for a run that helps them come back to that state of true balance. When I was in China to go to your point, what I realized is this concept that has always been there of what we call whole person care, which is we are not separated.
Our bodies aren't separated from our mind. Aren't separated from our spirit. It's all one in the same. And we get used to in our healthcare culture right now, we get used to thinking that things are separated out, that one does not impact the other, and that's actually not true.
They're all completely part of the whole so when a doctor says to a patient, this is this illness is stress related, often that person walks out of the doctor's office and may not know what to do with that, like, what? So now do I do if it's stress related? What does that look like?
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the inte]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to connect with your audience 
<p>Episode 226 (Steve is based in Chicago)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Steve Multer we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The challenge of an American speaking to international audiences</li>
<li>How to adapt your delivery to the audience</li>
<li>How to enter the conversation on their terms</li>
<li>The role of inner and out status when connecting</li>
<li>The three levels of value that we can invest in others</li>
<li>How to boost your self esteem by associating with smart people</li>
<li>How to judge the value of your message</li>
<li>The danger of reading your script instead of adapting </li>
<li>The balance of pathos, logos and ethos</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Steve Multer:</p>
<p>Steve had delivered presentations to executive teams for over 125 brands in 38 states and 25 countries.</p>
<p>He is the author of "Nothing Gets Sold Until the Story Gets Told" Corporate Storytelling for Career Success and Value-Driven Marketing.</p>
<p>Learn more about Steve's services and his book at</p>
<p><a href='https://corporatestorytelling.com/'>https://corporatestorytelling.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Steve Multer:</p>
<p>You walk into a room, you need to know how to read that space and do it in real time. In order to create a winning communication environment. You have to enter on their terms. You have to enter in a space that they feel comfortable and confident with. Because if you don't, you lose every time.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>They're investing in you, like you're investing in them, right? I think that is such a strong concept.</p>
<p>I frequently say to people when they're not sure they're being properly compensated for business. I always say, think about it this way. You are not having to pay for a master's degree in whatever it is that you're working on.</p>
<p>There are many, many ways to get paid. When you talk about the three levels of value, right? When we talk about fiscal value, we talk about psychological value, and we talk about calendar value, the three things that we can invest in, a person, in an idea, in a human to human engagement.</p>
<p>Again, this is whether we're giving a presentation to an arena full of 10,000 people, or speaking one on one with a colleague, a team member, a executive leader, a customer.</p>
<p>There are three things that we can invest in them. We can invest our time in them. Are they or are they not worthy of our time? We can invest our money in them. Is this or is this not worth paying for out of my wallet?</p>
<p>Or we can invest our psychology in them. Is my time and money worth what I will gain from the nature of the engagement, from the message that I'm about to give and the message hopefully I'm about to receive from the person that I'm with.</p>
<p>All three of those investments have extraordinary value.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to connect with your audience 
<p>Episode 226 (Steve is based in Chicago)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Steve Multer we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The challenge of an American speaking to international audiences</li>
<li>How to adapt your delivery to the audience</li>
<li>How to enter the conversation on their terms</li>
<li>The role of inner and out status when connecting</li>
<li>The three levels of value that we can invest in others</li>
<li>How to boost your self esteem by associating with smart people</li>
<li>How to judge the value of your message</li>
<li>The danger of reading your script instead of adapting </li>
<li>The balance of pathos, logos and ethos</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Steve Multer:</p>
<p>Steve had delivered presentations to executive teams for over 125 brands in 38 states and 25 countries.</p>
<p>He is the author of "Nothing Gets Sold Until the Story Gets Told" Corporate Storytelling for Career Success and Value-Driven Marketing.</p>
<p>Learn more about Steve's services and his book at</p>
<p><a href='https://corporatestorytelling.com/'>https://corporatestorytelling.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Steve Multer:</p>
<p>You walk into a room, you need to know how to read that space and do it in real time. In order to create a winning communication environment. You have to enter on their terms. You have to enter in a space that they feel comfortable and confident with. Because if you don't, you lose every time.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>They're investing in you, like you're investing in them, right? I think that is such a strong concept.</p>
<p>I frequently say to people when they're not sure they're being properly compensated for business. I always say, think about it this way. You are not having to pay for a master's degree in whatever it is that you're working on.</p>
<p>There are many, many ways to get paid. When you talk about the three levels of value, right? When we talk about fiscal value, we talk about psychological value, and we talk about calendar value, the three things that we can invest in, a person, in an idea, in a human to human engagement.</p>
<p>Again, this is whether we're giving a presentation to an arena full of 10,000 people, or speaking one on one with a colleague, a team member, a executive leader, a customer.</p>
<p>There are three things that we can invest in them. We can invest our time in them. Are they or are they not worthy of our time? We can invest our money in them. Is this or is this not worth paying for out of my wallet?</p>
<p>Or we can invest our psychology in them. Is my time and money worth what I will gain from the nature of the engagement, from the message that I'm about to give and the message hopefully I'm about to receive from the person that I'm with.</p>
<p>All three of those investments have extraordinary value.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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Episode 226 (Steve is based in Chicago)
In this conversation with Steve Multer we explore:
The challenge of an American speaking to international audiences
How to adapt your delivery to the audience
How to enter the conversation on their terms
The role of inner and out status when connecting
The three levels of value that we can invest in others
How to boost your self esteem by associating with smart people
How to judge the value of your message
The danger of reading your script instead of adapting 
The balance of pathos, logos and ethos
About our guest, Steve Multer:
Steve had delivered presentations to executive teams for over 125 brands in 38 states and 25 countries.
He is the author of "Nothing Gets Sold Until the Story Gets Told" Corporate Storytelling for Career Success and Value-Driven Marketing.
Learn more about Steve's services and his book at
https://corporatestorytelling.com/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Steve Multer:
You walk into a room, you need to know how to read that space and do it in real time. In order to create a winning communication environment. You have to enter on their terms. You have to enter in a space that they feel comfortable and confident with. Because if you don't, you lose every time.
-----
They're investing in you, like you're investing in them, right? I think that is such a strong concept.
I frequently say to people when they're not sure they're being properly compensated for business. I always say, think about it this way. You are not having to pay for a master's degree in whatever it is that you're working on.
There are many, many ways to get paid. When you talk about the three levels of value, right? When we talk about fiscal value, we talk about psychological value, and we talk about calendar value, the three things that we can invest in, a person, in an idea, in a human to human engagement.
Again, this is whether we're giving a presentation to an arena full of 10,000 people, or speaking one on one with a colleague, a team member, a executive leader, a customer.
There are three things that we can invest in them. We can invest our time in them. Are they or are they not worthy of our time? We can invest our money in them. Is this or is this not worth paying for out of my wallet?
Or we can invest our psychology in them. Is my time and money worth what I will gain from the nature of the engagement, from the message that I'm about to give and the message hopefully I'm about to receive from the person that I'm with.
All three of those investments have extraordinary value.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Do you understand their frame of reference?
Your Frame of reference is not their frame of reference
<p>Episode 225 (Mitch is based in Oakville, Canada)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Mitch Fairrais we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Understanding our frame of reference and how it was formed</li>
<li>The challenge of stepping into the frame of others</li>
<li>The difference between a dialogue and the monologue</li>
<li>How can you understand their reality</li>
<li>How to explore their reality without attacking them</li>
<li>Why and how to hear their voice</li>
<li>Encouraging phrases to use with your team</li>
<li>Recognize your inclination to judge and how to put that on hold</li>
<li>The role of leadership vulnerability</li>
<li>The danger of believing in all your "shoulds"</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Mitch Fairrais:</p>
<p>Mitch works with senior leadership teams to help them develop their communication and leadership skills.</p>
<p>He holds a high level of skepticism about many aspects of conventional corporate wisdom.</p>
<p>He is a founder of Socks for Souls Canada, a non-profit that provides unhoused people with warmth, comfort, dignity, mobility and health through new socks.</p>
<p>You can learn more about his training and coaching programs at:</p>
<p><a href='https://www.onthemark.ca/'>https://www.onthemark.ca/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Mitch Fairrais:</p>
<p>You and I, and every leader on the planet lives with some level of being very much caught in their own frame of reference.</p>
<p>Our own upbringing, our own algorithms that have caused us success. How we've dealt with things, our own beliefs, our own values. There are a number of things that each of us comes to any circumstance with and any interaction with, and it's our frame of reference that we cling to, because it's all we know.</p>
<p>And it's very difficult for most human beings to actually step into the frame of reference of others, which, if you ask me, is the single most important skill that any leader could possess, beyond basic language skills or some math skills, some basic skills like that.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Anyone who says to me, "I know how you feel" if I am 1000 human beings out of 1000 human beings being pulled I'm saying I doubt it. I don't think you do.</p>
<p>And for anyone to even suggest that they get how someone else views the world is almost ludicrous, because our frames of reference are so different that odds are, if I'm wise,</p>
<p>I should go in assuming that your frame of reference is going to be wildly different than mine, because you've grown up differently, you know, maybe have come from a different family background, maybe different part of the world than I know, many different things.</p>
<p>And I should assume as a starting point I have no idea what your frame of reference is, unless we've got lots of history. Even then, I want to on any given circumstance, on any given issue, explore what your views are, how you feel about how you're looking at anything that we are talking about in any given moment, even if I've known you for the last 20 years.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you understand their frame of reference?
Your Frame of reference is not their frame of reference
<p>Episode 225 (Mitch is based in Oakville, Canada)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Mitch Fairrais we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Understanding our frame of reference and how it was formed</li>
<li>The challenge of stepping into the frame of others</li>
<li>The difference between a dialogue and the monologue</li>
<li>How can you understand their reality</li>
<li>How to explore their reality without attacking them</li>
<li>Why and how to hear their voice</li>
<li>Encouraging phrases to use with your team</li>
<li>Recognize your inclination to judge and how to put that on hold</li>
<li>The role of leadership vulnerability</li>
<li>The danger of believing in all your "shoulds"</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Mitch Fairrais:</p>
<p>Mitch works with senior leadership teams to help them develop their communication and leadership skills.</p>
<p>He holds a high level of skepticism about many aspects of conventional corporate wisdom.</p>
<p>He is a founder of Socks for Souls Canada, a non-profit that provides unhoused people with warmth, comfort, dignity, mobility and health through new socks.</p>
<p>You can learn more about his training and coaching programs at:</p>
<p><a href='https://www.onthemark.ca/'>https://www.onthemark.ca/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Mitch Fairrais:</p>
<p>You and I, and every leader on the planet lives with some level of being very much caught in their own frame of reference.</p>
<p>Our own upbringing, our own algorithms that have caused us success. How we've dealt with things, our own beliefs, our own values. There are a number of things that each of us comes to any circumstance with and any interaction with, and it's our frame of reference that we cling to, because it's all we know.</p>
<p>And it's very difficult for most human beings to actually step into the frame of reference of others, which, if you ask me, is the single most important skill that any leader could possess, beyond basic language skills or some math skills, some basic skills like that.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Anyone who says to me, "I know how you feel" if I am 1000 human beings out of 1000 human beings being pulled I'm saying I doubt it. I don't think you do.</p>
<p>And for anyone to even suggest that they get how someone else views the world is almost ludicrous, because our frames of reference are so different that odds are, if I'm wise,</p>
<p>I should go in assuming that your frame of reference is going to be wildly different than mine, because you've grown up differently, you know, maybe have come from a different family background, maybe different part of the world than I know, many different things.</p>
<p>And I should assume as a starting point I have no idea what your frame of reference is, unless we've got lots of history. Even then, I want to on any given circumstance, on any given issue, explore what your views are, how you feel about how you're looking at anything that we are talking about in any given moment, even if I've known you for the last 20 years.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you understand their frame of reference?
Your Frame of reference is not their frame of reference
Episode 225 (Mitch is based in Oakville, Canada)
In this conversation with Mitch Fairrais we explore:
Understanding our frame of reference and how it was formed
The challenge of stepping into the frame of others
The difference between a dialogue and the monologue
How can you understand their reality
How to explore their reality without attacking them
Why and how to hear their voice
Encouraging phrases to use with your team
Recognize your inclination to judge and how to put that on hold
The role of leadership vulnerability
The danger of believing in all your "shoulds"
About our guest, Mitch Fairrais:
Mitch works with senior leadership teams to help them develop their communication and leadership skills.
He holds a high level of skepticism about many aspects of conventional corporate wisdom.
He is a founder of Socks for Souls Canada, a non-profit that provides unhoused people with warmth, comfort, dignity, mobility and health through new socks.
You can learn more about his training and coaching programs at:
https://www.onthemark.ca/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Mitch Fairrais:
You and I, and every leader on the planet lives with some level of being very much caught in their own frame of reference.
Our own upbringing, our own algorithms that have caused us success. How we've dealt with things, our own beliefs, our own values. There are a number of things that each of us comes to any circumstance with and any interaction with, and it's our frame of reference that we cling to, because it's all we know.
And it's very difficult for most human beings to actually step into the frame of reference of others, which, if you ask me, is the single most important skill that any leader could possess, beyond basic language skills or some math skills, some basic skills like that.
-----
Anyone who says to me, "I know how you feel" if I am 1000 human beings out of 1000 human beings being pulled I'm saying I doubt it. I don't think you do.
And for anyone to even suggest that they get how someone else views the world is almost ludicrous, because our frames of reference are so different that odds are, if I'm wise,
I should go in assuming that your frame of reference is going to be wildly different than mine, because you've grown up differently, you know, maybe have come from a different family background, maybe different part of the world than I know, many different things.
And I should assume as a starting point I have no idea what your frame of reference is, unless we've got lots of history. Even then, I want to on any given circumstance, on any given issue, explore what your views are, how you feel about how you're looking at anything that we are talking about in any given moment, even if I've known you for the last 20 years.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How can you use stories to convey your message
Tips to tell your stories
<p>Your host, George Torok tells you the three part formula to deliver an effective story.</p>
<p>Then you hear two stories from him, one a business story and the other a personal story. They're both effective when you understand your purpose.</p>
<p>George analyzes each story to point out the key parts and techniques to craft and deliver your stories successfully.</p>
<p>Episode 224</p>
<p> </p>
<p> In this solo episode with George Torok, we explore:
- The power of storytelling in business communication
- How to find and craft compelling stories
- Three key elements of a successful story
- Using personal anecdotes to connect with your audience
- Common mistakes to avoid when telling a story</p>
<p>
Key Takeaways:
- Practice crafting stories that are concise and relevant to your audience.
- Engage your audience with an intriguing opening question or bold statement.
- Use visuals and emotions in your stories to make them memorable.</p>
<p>"When you tell stories about yourself, don't make yourself the hero all the time. Occasionally, maybe, but not all the time, because then you sound self-centered, and it's hard to connect with you."</p>
<p>"The best stories plant visuals in the mind of your listeners and touch their emotions."</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Guests of Your Intended Message who discussed story telling:</p>
<p><a href='https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/68-graham-brown-the-3-box-storytelling-technique/'>Graham Brown</a>: 3-box Story Telling Episode 68</p>
<p><a href='https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/sell-more-with-a-story-that-sizzles-bruce-scheer/'>Bruce Scheer</a>: Inspire your buyers with the right narrative Ep 171</p>
<p><a href='https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/richard-rosser/'>Richard Rosser:</a> How to leverage AI to tell your story EP 170</p>
<p><a href='https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/leadership-story-telling-alan-mcclaren/'>Alan McLaren</a>: Story telling to build your leadership brand EP 108</p>
<p><a href='https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/find-and-tell-your-origin-story-robert-tighe/'>Robert Tighe</a>: Find and tell your origin story Ep 91</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How can you use stories to convey your message
Tips to tell your stories
<p>Your host, George Torok tells you the three part formula to deliver an effective story.</p>
<p>Then you hear two stories from him, one a business story and the other a personal story. They're both effective when you understand your purpose.</p>
<p>George analyzes each story to point out the key parts and techniques to craft and deliver your stories successfully.</p>
<p>Episode 224</p>
<p> </p>
<p> In this solo episode with George Torok, we explore:<br>
- The power of storytelling in business communication<br>
- How to find and craft compelling stories<br>
- Three key elements of a successful story<br>
- Using personal anecdotes to connect with your audience<br>
- Common mistakes to avoid when telling a story</p>
<p><br>
Key Takeaways:<br>
- Practice crafting stories that are concise and relevant to your audience.<br>
- Engage your audience with an intriguing opening question or bold statement.<br>
- Use visuals and emotions in your stories to make them memorable.</p>
<p>"When you tell stories about yourself, don't make yourself the hero all the time. Occasionally, maybe, but not all the time, because then you sound self-centered, and it's hard to connect with you."</p>
<p>"The best stories plant visuals in the mind of your listeners and touch their emotions."</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Guests of Your Intended Message who discussed story telling:</p>
<p><a href='https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/68-graham-brown-the-3-box-storytelling-technique/'>Graham Brown</a>: 3-box Story Telling Episode 68</p>
<p><a href='https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/sell-more-with-a-story-that-sizzles-bruce-scheer/'>Bruce Scheer</a>: Inspire your buyers with the right narrative Ep 171</p>
<p><a href='https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/richard-rosser/'>Richard Rosser:</a> How to leverage AI to tell your story EP 170</p>
<p><a href='https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/leadership-story-telling-alan-mcclaren/'>Alan McLaren</a>: Story telling to build your leadership brand EP 108</p>
<p><a href='https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/find-and-tell-your-origin-story-robert-tighe/'>Robert Tighe</a>: Find and tell your origin story Ep 91</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How can you use stories to convey your message
Tips to tell your stories
Your host, George Torok tells you the three part formula to deliver an effective story.
Then you hear two stories from him, one a business story and the other a personal story. They're both effective when you understand your purpose.
George analyzes each story to point out the key parts and techniques to craft and deliver your stories successfully.
Episode 224
 
 In this solo episode with George Torok, we explore:- The power of storytelling in business communication- How to find and craft compelling stories- Three key elements of a successful story- Using personal anecdotes to connect with your audience- Common mistakes to avoid when telling a story
Key Takeaways:- Practice crafting stories that are concise and relevant to your audience.- Engage your audience with an intriguing opening question or bold statement.- Use visuals and emotions in your stories to make them memorable.
"When you tell stories about yourself, don't make yourself the hero all the time. Occasionally, maybe, but not all the time, because then you sound self-centered, and it's hard to connect with you."
"The best stories plant visuals in the mind of your listeners and touch their emotions."
 
Guests of Your Intended Message who discussed story telling:
Graham Brown: 3-box Story Telling Episode 68
Bruce Scheer: Inspire your buyers with the right narrative Ep 171
Richard Rosser: How to leverage AI to tell your story EP 170
Alan McLaren: Story telling to build your leadership brand EP 108
Robert Tighe: Find and tell your origin story Ep 91
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Communication secrets from magic and hypnotism
How to better connect with people you don't know yet
<p>Episode 210 republished (David is based in Boston)</p>
<p>In this conversation with David Reich we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Magic skills that enhance your communications</li>
<li>The importance of observing your audience</li>
<li>How to watch where people's eyes are</li>
<li>Why you need to break the pattern</li>
<li>How to find common ground</li>
<li>Magic phrases to boost the connection</li>
<li>How to influence decisions</li>
<li>Understanding the perception and motivation of the audience</li>
<li>Why you don't need care about who gets credit</li>
<li>How to adapt when the magic trick doesn't work </li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, David Reich:</p>
<p>David has had a successful career as a technology and thought leader, and combines that with his passion and talent as a magician, mentalist and stage hypnotist, to create unique experiences of Entertainment, Education and Enlightenment.</p>
<p>David discovered how the principles of a mystery performer can be used to become an overall better communicator, and more specifically, he has developed the Tactical Communication Method.</p>
<p>Learn mor about David Reich and his services at his website <a href='https://davidreich.com/'>https://davidreich.com/</a></p>
<p>Get your free copy of the Seven Tools of Tactical Communication </p>
<p><a href='https://davidreich.com/tacticalcommunication/'>https://davidreich.com/tacticalcommunication/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with David Reich:</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Action Items</p>
<ul><li>Practice observation techniques to understand how messages are landing and tailor communication accordingly.</li>
<li>Use phrases like "help me understand" instead of disagreeing to have constructive discussions.</li>
<li>Focus on being authentic, candid and vulnerable in conversations rather than putting on airs.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>The biggest key really is observation.</p>
<p>We have to look at other people, we have messages, we have things we want to say, we want to sell an idea, we want to convey a joke, we want to tell.</p>
<p>And we have to not only know what we want to say, but how it's landing. And that's actually how I came up with this whole tactical communication method.</p>
<p>Because as a magician as a mentalist, as you're going through your performance and your communication, you need to see how things are landing where people's eyes are.</p>
<p>And if it's working, and if it's not. And then and this, this takes a bit of practice, okay, can't do it overnight, just like anything good requires a bit of practice.</p>
<p>But you can start to tailor your message and tailor how you're communicating real time on the fly, to make your message resonate. And that's how you get people to want to hear what you have to say.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Communication secrets from magic and hypnotism
How to better connect with people you don't know yet
<p>Episode 210 republished (David is based in Boston)</p>
<p>In this conversation with David Reich we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Magic skills that enhance your communications</li>
<li>The importance of observing your audience</li>
<li>How to watch where people's eyes are</li>
<li>Why you need to break the pattern</li>
<li>How to find common ground</li>
<li>Magic phrases to boost the connection</li>
<li>How to influence decisions</li>
<li>Understanding the perception and motivation of the audience</li>
<li>Why you don't need care about who gets credit</li>
<li>How to adapt when the magic trick doesn't work </li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, David Reich:</p>
<p>David has had a successful career as a technology and thought leader, and combines that with his passion and talent as a magician, mentalist and stage hypnotist, to create unique experiences of Entertainment, Education and Enlightenment.</p>
<p>David discovered how the principles of a mystery performer can be used to become an overall better communicator, and more specifically, he has developed the Tactical Communication Method.</p>
<p>Learn mor about David Reich and his services at his website <a href='https://davidreich.com/'>https://davidreich.com/</a></p>
<p>Get your free copy of the Seven Tools of Tactical Communication </p>
<p><a href='https://davidreich.com/tacticalcommunication/'>https://davidreich.com/tacticalcommunication/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with David Reich:</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Action Items</p>
<ul><li>Practice observation techniques to understand how messages are landing and tailor communication accordingly.</li>
<li>Use phrases like "help me understand" instead of disagreeing to have constructive discussions.</li>
<li>Focus on being authentic, candid and vulnerable in conversations rather than putting on airs.</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>The biggest key really is observation.</p>
<p>We have to look at other people, we have messages, we have things we want to say, we want to sell an idea, we want to convey a joke, we want to tell.</p>
<p>And we have to not only know what we want to say, but how it's landing. And that's actually how I came up with this whole tactical communication method.</p>
<p>Because as a magician as a mentalist, as you're going through your performance and your communication, you need to see how things are landing where people's eyes are.</p>
<p>And if it's working, and if it's not. And then and this, this takes a bit of practice, okay, can't do it overnight, just like anything good requires a bit of practice.</p>
<p>But you can start to tailor your message and tailor how you're communicating real time on the fly, to make your message resonate. And that's how you get people to want to hear what you have to say.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Communication secrets from magic and hypnotism
How to better connect with people you don't know yet
Episode 210 republished (David is based in Boston)
In this conversation with David Reich we explore:
Magic skills that enhance your communications
The importance of observing your audience
How to watch where people's eyes are
Why you need to break the pattern
How to find common ground
Magic phrases to boost the connection
How to influence decisions
Understanding the perception and motivation of the audience
Why you don't need care about who gets credit
How to adapt when the magic trick doesn't work 
About our guest, David Reich:
David has had a successful career as a technology and thought leader, and combines that with his passion and talent as a magician, mentalist and stage hypnotist, to create unique experiences of Entertainment, Education and Enlightenment.
David discovered how the principles of a mystery performer can be used to become an overall better communicator, and more specifically, he has developed the Tactical Communication Method.
Learn mor about David Reich and his services at his website https://davidreich.com/
Get your free copy of the Seven Tools of Tactical Communication 
https://davidreich.com/tacticalcommunication/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with David Reich:
 
Action Items
Practice observation techniques to understand how messages are landing and tailor communication accordingly.
Use phrases like "help me understand" instead of disagreeing to have constructive discussions.
Focus on being authentic, candid and vulnerable in conversations rather than putting on airs.
-----
The biggest key really is observation.
We have to look at other people, we have messages, we have things we want to say, we want to sell an idea, we want to convey a joke, we want to tell.
And we have to not only know what we want to say, but how it's landing. And that's actually how I came up with this whole tactical communication method.
Because as a magician as a mentalist, as you're going through your performance and your communication, you need to see how things are landing where people's eyes are.
And if it's working, and if it's not. And then and this, this takes a bit of practice, okay, can't do it overnight, just like anything good requires a bit of practice.
But you can start to tailor your message and tailor how you're communicating real time on the fly, to make your message resonate. And that's how you get people to want to hear what you have to say.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to encourage the exchange of feedback
The Power of Empathy as a Leadership Quality
<p>Episode 223 (Bill is based in Atlanta, Georgia)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Bill Dickinson we explored:</p>
<ul><li>The value of empathy for a leader</li>
<li>Understanding the complicated makeup of your people</li>
<li>Distinguishing empathy from sympathy</li>
<li>Avoiding the role of confessor or councilor</li>
<li>Setting guidelines and boundaries</li>
<li>Creating psychological safety</li>
<li>How to provide regular constructive feedback</li>
<li>The 90-day introductory trial period</li>
</ul>
<p>----</p>
<p>About our guest, Bill Dickinson:</p>
<p>Bill has nearly three decades of experience in designing and delivering leadership development programs across industries including, Boeing, Coca-Cola and AbbeVie Biopharmaceutical. He was a Catholic priest for 25 years.</p>
<p>He is on The Harvard Business Review's Advisory Council.</p>
<p>He is the author of "Optimizing Self: A Guided Workbook to Elevate Your Impact as a Leader"</p>
<p>Learn more about his services here <a href='https://www.c3leadership.org/'>https://www.c3leadership.org/</a></p>
<p>You can find his book on Amazon <a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Optimizing-Self-Guided-Workbook-Elevate/dp/B0CTXZ91ZX/ref=sr_1_1?crid=25U49GP5CN590&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.cw-Wqn7vKSuSb6vjsGDJlwq9YhJJQKB2w2cR1P8F7hTkWmSIzylD9Ry5TU6cJ_I6GxD3iMlpSkh5UoveW_g-jANwj4Hmn7k1tsag1-dYcFFZpMWUj6jhHZRqI7t7TLDpw0pYgD2nc1xRq7RzZ5bnzsLnPcPRT221294eenAm5fkNjRTVhiqjBu8L9bID1qKyuFCn2WRLZQmXm_yxan9Uw_5l97r2un1AZXll5YZ94YyK5fSUp5Ze4iNUBEv-N0V5Z2b80cVF2TbmKNLJTWy4jbwUnwr-hWsjAFMvz07XB4c.n7TL2OlteVpjQonUaRBBd0FBBWJO06eg2TtA-7OD2yY&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=optimizing+self&amp;qid=1726158029&amp;sprefix=optimizing+self%2Caps%2C91&amp;sr=8-1'>Optimizing Leadership</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Bill Dickinson:</p>
<p>I think some of the mistakes that leaders can make is they confuse empathy with sympathy. Sympathy is, is simply feeling sorry for someone where empathy is is, I'm not just sorry about what happened to your state or this moment, but I want to understand it.</p>
<p>I want to support you through it. And those are, you know, those are two big differences. So an empathy now gives us the space, the term to understand we can hang with our people in their feelings without creating dependency.</p>
<p>-----</p>
I need two things specifically that I did well, and I need you to share with me two things I could do differently.
<p>-----</p>
<p>There's a model called the SBI model, what's the situation? What was the behavior I observed in the situation, and what was the impact of that behavior?</p>
<p>So the situation is, George, you and I are having a thoughtful conversation on feedback in this podcast, the behavior that I observe is a host who is thoughtful and knowledgeable about leadership and their respect for me in it.</p>
<p>So the impact that has on me is that I want to hang with you. I want to make you look good, and I want to contribute to the quality of this podcast so your listeners walk away with some new learning,</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to encourage the exchange of feedback
The Power of Empathy as a Leadership Quality
<p>Episode 223 (Bill is based in Atlanta, Georgia)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Bill Dickinson we explored:</p>
<ul><li>The value of empathy for a leader</li>
<li>Understanding the complicated makeup of your people</li>
<li>Distinguishing empathy from sympathy</li>
<li>Avoiding the role of confessor or councilor</li>
<li>Setting guidelines and boundaries</li>
<li>Creating psychological safety</li>
<li>How to provide regular constructive feedback</li>
<li>The 90-day introductory trial period</li>
</ul>
<p>----</p>
<p>About our guest, Bill Dickinson:</p>
<p>Bill has nearly three decades of experience in designing and delivering leadership development programs across industries including, Boeing, Coca-Cola and AbbeVie Biopharmaceutical. He was a Catholic priest for 25 years.</p>
<p>He is on The Harvard Business Review's Advisory Council.</p>
<p>He is the author of "Optimizing Self: A Guided Workbook to Elevate Your Impact as a Leader"</p>
<p>Learn more about his services here <a href='https://www.c3leadership.org/'>https://www.c3leadership.org/</a></p>
<p>You can find his book on Amazon <a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Optimizing-Self-Guided-Workbook-Elevate/dp/B0CTXZ91ZX/ref=sr_1_1?crid=25U49GP5CN590&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.cw-Wqn7vKSuSb6vjsGDJlwq9YhJJQKB2w2cR1P8F7hTkWmSIzylD9Ry5TU6cJ_I6GxD3iMlpSkh5UoveW_g-jANwj4Hmn7k1tsag1-dYcFFZpMWUj6jhHZRqI7t7TLDpw0pYgD2nc1xRq7RzZ5bnzsLnPcPRT221294eenAm5fkNjRTVhiqjBu8L9bID1qKyuFCn2WRLZQmXm_yxan9Uw_5l97r2un1AZXll5YZ94YyK5fSUp5Ze4iNUBEv-N0V5Z2b80cVF2TbmKNLJTWy4jbwUnwr-hWsjAFMvz07XB4c.n7TL2OlteVpjQonUaRBBd0FBBWJO06eg2TtA-7OD2yY&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=optimizing+self&amp;qid=1726158029&amp;sprefix=optimizing+self%2Caps%2C91&amp;sr=8-1'>Optimizing Leadership</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Bill Dickinson:</p>
<p>I think some of the mistakes that leaders can make is they confuse empathy with sympathy. Sympathy is, is simply feeling sorry for someone where empathy is is, I'm not just sorry about what happened to your state or this moment, but I want to understand it.</p>
<p>I want to support you through it. And those are, you know, those are two big differences. So an empathy now gives us the space, the term to understand we can hang with our people in their feelings without creating dependency.</p>
<p>-----</p>
I need two things specifically that I did well, and I need you to share with me two things I could do differently.
<p>-----</p>
<p>There's a model called the SBI model, what's the situation? What was the behavior I observed in the situation, and what was the impact of that behavior?</p>
<p>So the situation is, George, you and I are having a thoughtful conversation on feedback in this podcast, the behavior that I observe is a host who is thoughtful and knowledgeable about leadership and their respect for me in it.</p>
<p>So the impact that has on me is that I want to hang with you. I want to make you look good, and I want to contribute to the quality of this podcast so your listeners walk away with some new learning,</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to encourage the exchange of feedback
The Power of Empathy as a Leadership Quality
Episode 223 (Bill is based in Atlanta, Georgia)
In this conversation with Bill Dickinson we explored:
The value of empathy for a leader
Understanding the complicated makeup of your people
Distinguishing empathy from sympathy
Avoiding the role of confessor or councilor
Setting guidelines and boundaries
Creating psychological safety
How to provide regular constructive feedback
The 90-day introductory trial period
----
About our guest, Bill Dickinson:
Bill has nearly three decades of experience in designing and delivering leadership development programs across industries including, Boeing, Coca-Cola and AbbeVie Biopharmaceutical. He was a Catholic priest for 25 years.
He is on The Harvard Business Review's Advisory Council.
He is the author of "Optimizing Self: A Guided Workbook to Elevate Your Impact as a Leader"
Learn more about his services here https://www.c3leadership.org/
You can find his book on Amazon Optimizing Leadership
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Bill Dickinson:
I think some of the mistakes that leaders can make is they confuse empathy with sympathy. Sympathy is, is simply feeling sorry for someone where empathy is is, I'm not just sorry about what happened to your state or this moment, but I want to understand it.
I want to support you through it. And those are, you know, those are two big differences. So an empathy now gives us the space, the term to understand we can hang with our people in their feelings without creating dependency.
-----
I need two things specifically that I did well, and I need you to share with me two things I could do differently.
-----
There's a model called the SBI model, what's the situation? What was the behavior I observed in the situation, and what was the impact of that behavior?
So the situation is, George, you and I are having a thoughtful conversation on feedback in this podcast, the behavior that I observe is a host who is thoughtful and knowledgeable about leadership and their respect for me in it.
So the impact that has on me is that I want to hang with you. I want to make you look good, and I want to contribute to the quality of this podcast so your listeners walk away with some new learning,
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In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
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George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
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How to escape founder-led sales
<p>Episode 222 (Corey is based in Los Angeles)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Corey Quinn we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Knowing the market better than the market specialists</li>
<li>Caring about the clients</li>
<li>How to warm up a cold call</li>
<li>How to transfer your process to another vertical market</li>
<li>How to leverage empathy</li>
<li>Defining your business by the industry of your clients</li>
<li>Leveraging the power of repeatable systems</li>
<li>How to specialize in more than one niche</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Corey Quinn:</p>
<p>As Chief Marketing Officer of Scorpion, he helped them grow from $20M to $150M in 6 years.</p>
<p>He's worked 17 years in the marketing agency business.</p>
<p>He's the author of "Anyone, Not Everyone".</p>
<p>You can get a free copy of the audio book here:</p>
<p><a href='http://www.AnyoneNotEveryone.com'>www.AnyoneNotEveryone.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Corey Quinn:</p>
You need to have repeatable sales process that is not dependent on the on the founder, so you have to strip out all of the variables from the sales process, make it much more operationally or streamlined.
<p>-----</p>
<p>The impact of empathy happens before the cold call. </p>
<p>What I'm a big fan of is interviewing your clients and understanding how and why they buy from you, so you understand the attributes that they're looking for. That's one piece.</p>
<p>The other piece is when I coach my clients, but I do I do this work with with agencies, what I encourage them to do is to think of themselves, not as a in the digital marketing industry, I want them to think of themselves. In their clients industry.</p>
<p>So if you're serving med spas, you are no longer in the business or in the industry of digital marketing. Now you are a member of the med spa industry, and as a result of that, you're going to their conferences. You're joining the associations. You're participating in the associations. You know what's happening in the industry, and you're helping to further the interests of that interest industry, I'll give you an example.</p>
<p>At Scorpion, we worked in the franchise, franchise, multi location business industry is, interestingly, a lot of it's a big segment of our economy, but it's a relatively small industry.</p>
<p>What we did to enter into that world is we became a part of that industry. What I mean by that is our leaders, who focused on franchise they became certified as something that's called the CFE CERTIFIED FINANCIAL executive. That is an 18 month program to become certified in that we also joined a group called the IFA, which is the International Franchise Association.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to accelerate growth by scaling your process
How to escape founder-led sales
<p>Episode 222 (Corey is based in Los Angeles)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Corey Quinn we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Knowing the market better than the market specialists</li>
<li>Caring about the clients</li>
<li>How to warm up a cold call</li>
<li>How to transfer your process to another vertical market</li>
<li>How to leverage empathy</li>
<li>Defining your business by the industry of your clients</li>
<li>Leveraging the power of repeatable systems</li>
<li>How to specialize in more than one niche</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Corey Quinn:</p>
<p>As Chief Marketing Officer of Scorpion, he helped them grow from $20M to $150M in 6 years.</p>
<p>He's worked 17 years in the marketing agency business.</p>
<p>He's the author of "Anyone, Not Everyone".</p>
<p>You can get a free copy of the audio book here:</p>
<p><a href='http://www.AnyoneNotEveryone.com'>www.AnyoneNotEveryone.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Corey Quinn:</p>
You need to have repeatable sales process that is not dependent on the on the founder, so you have to strip out all of the variables from the sales process, make it much more operationally or streamlined.
<p>-----</p>
<p>The impact of empathy happens before the cold call. </p>
<p>What I'm a big fan of is interviewing your clients and understanding how and why they buy from you, so you understand the attributes that they're looking for. That's one piece.</p>
<p>The other piece is when I coach my clients, but I do I do this work with with agencies, what I encourage them to do is to think of themselves, not as a in the digital marketing industry, I want them to think of themselves. In their clients industry.</p>
<p>So if you're serving med spas, you are no longer in the business or in the industry of digital marketing. Now you are a member of the med spa industry, and as a result of that, you're going to their conferences. You're joining the associations. You're participating in the associations. You know what's happening in the industry, and you're helping to further the interests of that interest industry, I'll give you an example.</p>
<p>At Scorpion, we worked in the franchise, franchise, multi location business industry is, interestingly, a lot of it's a big segment of our economy, but it's a relatively small industry.</p>
<p>What we did to enter into that world is we became a part of that industry. What I mean by that is our leaders, who focused on franchise they became certified as something that's called the CFE CERTIFIED FINANCIAL executive. That is an 18 month program to become certified in that we also joined a group called the IFA, which is the International Franchise Association.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
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How to escape founder-led sales
Episode 222 (Corey is based in Los Angeles)
In this conversation with Corey Quinn we explore:
Knowing the market better than the market specialists
Caring about the clients
How to warm up a cold call
How to transfer your process to another vertical market
How to leverage empathy
Defining your business by the industry of your clients
Leveraging the power of repeatable systems
How to specialize in more than one niche
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About our guest, Corey Quinn:
As Chief Marketing Officer of Scorpion, he helped them grow from $20M to $150M in 6 years.
He's worked 17 years in the marketing agency business.
He's the author of "Anyone, Not Everyone".
You can get a free copy of the audio book here:
www.AnyoneNotEveryone.com
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Excerpts from this conversation with Corey Quinn:
You need to have repeatable sales process that is not dependent on the on the founder, so you have to strip out all of the variables from the sales process, make it much more operationally or streamlined.
-----
The impact of empathy happens before the cold call. 
What I'm a big fan of is interviewing your clients and understanding how and why they buy from you, so you understand the attributes that they're looking for. That's one piece.
The other piece is when I coach my clients, but I do I do this work with with agencies, what I encourage them to do is to think of themselves, not as a in the digital marketing industry, I want them to think of themselves. In their clients industry.
So if you're serving med spas, you are no longer in the business or in the industry of digital marketing. Now you are a member of the med spa industry, and as a result of that, you're going to their conferences. You're joining the associations. You're participating in the associations. You know what's happening in the industry, and you're helping to further the interests of that interest industry, I'll give you an example.
At Scorpion, we worked in the franchise, franchise, multi location business industry is, interestingly, a lot of it's a big segment of our economy, but it's a relatively small industry.
What we did to enter into that world is we became a part of that industry. What I mean by that is our leaders, who focused on franchise they became certified as something that's called the CFE CERTIFIED FINANCIAL executive. That is an 18 month program to become certified in that we also joined a group called the IFA, which is the International Franchise Association.
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In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Is there enough Human Spirit in your Marketing?
<p>Episode 221 (Kristof is based in South Carolina)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Kristof Morrow we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The honest perspective from a person with Tourette's Syndrome</li>
<li>The value of revealing a flaw</li>
<li>Talking about internal conflicts</li>
<li>Indirect marketing versus direct marketing</li>
<li>Memorable characters from Super Bowl ads</li>
<li>Understanding the audience that likes and follows you</li>
<li>Recognizing the perspective of the audience, their bias and ignorance</li>
<li>How to show kindness in your marketing</li>
<li>Being transparent about your deficiencies </li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Kristof Morrow:</p>
<p>Kristof is an award wining journalist and the author of two books in the fantasy series, The Second Sun. He is a disabled veteran. He has Tourette's Syndrome which offers him a unique perspective on marketing and communication. His mission is to help people better understand each other.</p>
<p>You can learn more about Kristof and his book, at the website: <a href='https://www.kristofmorrow.com/'>https://www.kristofmorrow.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Kristof Morrow:</p>
Respect is a large part of marketing.
<p>-----</p>
<p>For example, you you just said "Shakespeare" when we weren't even talking about Shakespeare.</p>
<p>And Christophe also has Tourette's Syndrome, which means, and as most people might understand it, that people have tics. They often say things involuntary.</p>
<p>Sometimes they might even have physical tics, I'm guessing. And let's see how that gives Kristoff a particular perspective that most of us can't see. And today we're going to talk about the spirit of marketing.</p>
<p>And that's an interesting phrase that you used Kristoff. Tell us what that means to you.</p>
<p>I think that means ultimately, like, how, how much of yourself, how human your approach to marketing is, how much you deviate from the notion that there has to be sort of a calculated approach. It's very it's a lot more human, I think. Yeah, so, for example, like I have Tourette's.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>You were more transparent that way. And I'm wondering, have you been told that before that you appear to be more transparent with your feelings?</p>
<p>Yeah, that's, um, that's a large, a large part of, I think, I think that's some part, at least a component of my success, is that I don't pretend to have confidence. I'm, yeah, I make no effort to false, to falsify that it doesn't it doesn't help. It doesn't help because people can see it, and then they just sort of pity you in secret.</p>
<p>But if you, if you confront it, I feel like they can get on board with that, and they can, they can think within themselves, like, you know, what would I be doing in this situation, rather than, oh gosh, look what he's doing in this situation.</p>
<p>You know it's, yeah, it allows, again, it allows you to be, for people to Rick, to to acknowledge your humanity, Shakespeare, Shakespeare.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Is there enough Human Spirit in your Marketing?
<p>Episode 221 (Kristof is based in South Carolina)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Kristof Morrow we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The honest perspective from a person with Tourette's Syndrome</li>
<li>The value of revealing a flaw</li>
<li>Talking about internal conflicts</li>
<li>Indirect marketing versus direct marketing</li>
<li>Memorable characters from Super Bowl ads</li>
<li>Understanding the audience that likes and follows you</li>
<li>Recognizing the perspective of the audience, their bias and ignorance</li>
<li>How to show kindness in your marketing</li>
<li>Being transparent about your deficiencies </li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Kristof Morrow:</p>
<p>Kristof is an award wining journalist and the author of two books in the fantasy series, The Second Sun. He is a disabled veteran. He has Tourette's Syndrome which offers him a unique perspective on marketing and communication. His mission is to help people better understand each other.</p>
<p>You can learn more about Kristof and his book, at the website: <a href='https://www.kristofmorrow.com/'>https://www.kristofmorrow.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Kristof Morrow:</p>
Respect is a large part of marketing.
<p>-----</p>
<p>For example, you you just said "Shakespeare" when we weren't even talking about Shakespeare.</p>
<p>And Christophe also has Tourette's Syndrome, which means, and as most people might understand it, that people have tics. They often say things involuntary.</p>
<p>Sometimes they might even have physical tics, I'm guessing. And let's see how that gives Kristoff a particular perspective that most of us can't see. And today we're going to talk about the spirit of marketing.</p>
<p>And that's an interesting phrase that you used Kristoff. Tell us what that means to you.</p>
<p>I think that means ultimately, like, how, how much of yourself, how human your approach to marketing is, how much you deviate from the notion that there has to be sort of a calculated approach. It's very it's a lot more human, I think. Yeah, so, for example, like I have Tourette's.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>You were more transparent that way. And I'm wondering, have you been told that before that you appear to be more transparent with your feelings?</p>
<p>Yeah, that's, um, that's a large, a large part of, I think, I think that's some part, at least a component of my success, is that I don't pretend to have confidence. I'm, yeah, I make no effort to false, to falsify that it doesn't it doesn't help. It doesn't help because people can see it, and then they just sort of pity you in secret.</p>
<p>But if you, if you confront it, I feel like they can get on board with that, and they can, they can think within themselves, like, you know, what would I be doing in this situation, rather than, oh gosh, look what he's doing in this situation.</p>
<p>You know it's, yeah, it allows, again, it allows you to be, for people to Rick, to to acknowledge your humanity, Shakespeare, Shakespeare.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
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Episode 221 (Kristof is based in South Carolina)
In this conversation with Kristof Morrow we explore:
The honest perspective from a person with Tourette's Syndrome
The value of revealing a flaw
Talking about internal conflicts
Indirect marketing versus direct marketing
Memorable characters from Super Bowl ads
Understanding the audience that likes and follows you
Recognizing the perspective of the audience, their bias and ignorance
How to show kindness in your marketing
Being transparent about your deficiencies 
-----
About our guest, Kristof Morrow:
Kristof is an award wining journalist and the author of two books in the fantasy series, The Second Sun. He is a disabled veteran. He has Tourette's Syndrome which offers him a unique perspective on marketing and communication. His mission is to help people better understand each other.
You can learn more about Kristof and his book, at the website: https://www.kristofmorrow.com/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Kristof Morrow:
Respect is a large part of marketing.
-----
For example, you you just said "Shakespeare" when we weren't even talking about Shakespeare.
And Christophe also has Tourette's Syndrome, which means, and as most people might understand it, that people have tics. They often say things involuntary.
Sometimes they might even have physical tics, I'm guessing. And let's see how that gives Kristoff a particular perspective that most of us can't see. And today we're going to talk about the spirit of marketing.
And that's an interesting phrase that you used Kristoff. Tell us what that means to you.
I think that means ultimately, like, how, how much of yourself, how human your approach to marketing is, how much you deviate from the notion that there has to be sort of a calculated approach. It's very it's a lot more human, I think. Yeah, so, for example, like I have Tourette's.
-----
You were more transparent that way. And I'm wondering, have you been told that before that you appear to be more transparent with your feelings?
Yeah, that's, um, that's a large, a large part of, I think, I think that's some part, at least a component of my success, is that I don't pretend to have confidence. I'm, yeah, I make no effort to false, to falsify that it doesn't it doesn't help. It doesn't help because people can see it, and then they just sort of pity you in secret.
But if you, if you confront it, I feel like they can get on board with that, and they can, they can think within themselves, like, you know, what would I be doing in this situation, rather than, oh gosh, look what he's doing in this situation.
You know it's, yeah, it allows, again, it allows you to be, for people to Rick, to to acknowledge your humanity, Shakespeare, Shakespeare.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Authenticity in your marketing and sales conversations
How you can excel when the bar is set so low
<p>Episode 220 (John is based in California)</p>
<p>In this conversation with John Golden we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to start an authentic relationship with your prospects</li>
<li>How to research before the first contact</li>
<li>How to create intellectual curiosity</li>
<li>How much research do you need - not much</li>
<li>How to leverage your customer success stories</li>
<li>Present your vulnerability to build trust</li>
<li>Staying in touch with your customers</li>
<li>How to establish your communication cadence</li>
<li>Where does automation ad AI fit into relationships</li>
<li>The critical role of active listening</li>
<li>Why lean on your CRM</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, John Golden:</p>
<p>John is Chief Marketing &amp; Strategy Officer at Pipeliner CRM.</p>
<p>He is an author, speaker and host of Sales POP! podcast,</p>
<p>You can learn more about Pipeliner CRM and take the free trial at:</p>
<p><a href='https://www.pipelinersales.com/'>https://www.pipelinersales.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with John Golden:</p>
I think there's a few things, George, and one of them, I think, is, is authenticity. I think that is one of the biggest areas that you can focus on now.
<p>-----</p>
<p>Oh, customer success stories, 100% and I think this is where sometimes we forget. It seems so obvious, right? But when I engage personally, when. I engage with another salesperson, right? Or somebody selling something to me?</p>
<p>Yes, you know, I'm interested in what they can do for me, what I'm really interested in what they've done for other people, because that's where it is.</p>
<p>Because, let's face it, we all know that anybody who's brought a product or service to market, you always know that customers end up using it in ways that you could never imagine, right?</p>
<p>And they do things differently, not how you see and therefore learning about what you have done with other people, that is great information for for somebody, for prospect you're engaging with, and that's what I love. I want to hear the things that they've done with other people, how they helped other companies, how they helped other individuals. </p>
<p>And those stories and and we all come from, I mean, culturally, we all kind of come from storytelling traditions, you know, certainly I did, you know, in Ireland, and that's what resonates with people, is stories.</p>
<p>And now you take yourself out of the equation a little bit, and you put, you put your customer, and you say, You know what their issue, what their solution? And then, and here's the nice thing, is, like, you should be enthusiastic and say, and then they did this, or they asked us to do this, right?</p>
<p>They said, hey, if your product could just do this one other thing, and, you know, something, we went back and we discovered, yeah, that's something that would benefit everybody. And then we immediately, you know, implemented it in a way.</p>
<p>So this, there's so much richness in talking about your customer success story.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Authenticity in your marketing and sales conversations
How you can excel when the bar is set so low
<p>Episode 220 (John is based in California)</p>
<p>In this conversation with John Golden we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to start an authentic relationship with your prospects</li>
<li>How to research before the first contact</li>
<li>How to create intellectual curiosity</li>
<li>How much research do you need - not much</li>
<li>How to leverage your customer success stories</li>
<li>Present your vulnerability to build trust</li>
<li>Staying in touch with your customers</li>
<li>How to establish your communication cadence</li>
<li>Where does automation ad AI fit into relationships</li>
<li>The critical role of active listening</li>
<li>Why lean on your CRM</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, John Golden:</p>
<p>John is Chief Marketing &amp; Strategy Officer at Pipeliner CRM.</p>
<p>He is an author, speaker and host of Sales POP! podcast,</p>
<p>You can learn more about Pipeliner CRM and take the free trial at:</p>
<p><a href='https://www.pipelinersales.com/'>https://www.pipelinersales.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with John Golden:</p>
I think there's a few things, George, and one of them, I think, is, is authenticity. I think that is one of the biggest areas that you can focus on now.
<p>-----</p>
<p>Oh, customer success stories, 100% and I think this is where sometimes we forget. It seems so obvious, right? But when I engage personally, when. I engage with another salesperson, right? Or somebody selling something to me?</p>
<p>Yes, you know, I'm interested in what they can do for me, what I'm really interested in what they've done for other people, because that's where it is.</p>
<p>Because, let's face it, we all know that anybody who's brought a product or service to market, you always know that customers end up using it in ways that you could never imagine, right?</p>
<p>And they do things differently, not how you see and therefore learning about what you have done with other people, that is great information for for somebody, for prospect you're engaging with, and that's what I love. I want to hear the things that they've done with other people, how they helped other companies, how they helped other individuals. </p>
<p>And those stories and and we all come from, I mean, culturally, we all kind of come from storytelling traditions, you know, certainly I did, you know, in Ireland, and that's what resonates with people, is stories.</p>
<p>And now you take yourself out of the equation a little bit, and you put, you put your customer, and you say, You know what their issue, what their solution? And then, and here's the nice thing, is, like, you should be enthusiastic and say, and then they did this, or they asked us to do this, right?</p>
<p>They said, hey, if your product could just do this one other thing, and, you know, something, we went back and we discovered, yeah, that's something that would benefit everybody. And then we immediately, you know, implemented it in a way.</p>
<p>So this, there's so much richness in talking about your customer success story.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Authenticity in your marketing and sales conversations
How you can excel when the bar is set so low
Episode 220 (John is based in California)
In this conversation with John Golden we explore:
How to start an authentic relationship with your prospects
How to research before the first contact
How to create intellectual curiosity
How much research do you need - not much
How to leverage your customer success stories
Present your vulnerability to build trust
Staying in touch with your customers
How to establish your communication cadence
Where does automation ad AI fit into relationships
The critical role of active listening
Why lean on your CRM
-----
About our guest, John Golden:
John is Chief Marketing &amp; Strategy Officer at Pipeliner CRM.
He is an author, speaker and host of Sales POP! podcast,
You can learn more about Pipeliner CRM and take the free trial at:
https://www.pipelinersales.com/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with John Golden:
I think there's a few things, George, and one of them, I think, is, is authenticity. I think that is one of the biggest areas that you can focus on now.
-----
Oh, customer success stories, 100% and I think this is where sometimes we forget. It seems so obvious, right? But when I engage personally, when. I engage with another salesperson, right? Or somebody selling something to me?
Yes, you know, I'm interested in what they can do for me, what I'm really interested in what they've done for other people, because that's where it is.
Because, let's face it, we all know that anybody who's brought a product or service to market, you always know that customers end up using it in ways that you could never imagine, right?
And they do things differently, not how you see and therefore learning about what you have done with other people, that is great information for for somebody, for prospect you're engaging with, and that's what I love. I want to hear the things that they've done with other people, how they helped other companies, how they helped other individuals. 
And those stories and and we all come from, I mean, culturally, we all kind of come from storytelling traditions, you know, certainly I did, you know, in Ireland, and that's what resonates with people, is stories.
And now you take yourself out of the equation a little bit, and you put, you put your customer, and you say, You know what their issue, what their solution? And then, and here's the nice thing, is, like, you should be enthusiastic and say, and then they did this, or they asked us to do this, right?
They said, hey, if your product could just do this one other thing, and, you know, something, we went back and we discovered, yeah, that's something that would benefit everybody. And then we immediately, you know, implemented it in a way.
So this, there's so much richness in talking about your customer success story.
-----
----more----
 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.]]></itunes:summary>
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        <title>Listen because you'll miss the point: Julian Treasure</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Listening is a skill that can and must be learned to be more successful
<p>Episode 219 (Julian is based in the Orkney, off the North Coast of Scotland)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Julian Treasure we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How listening helped our survival for thousands of years</li>
<li>Why listening seems so difficult and is ignored</li>
<li>The difference between hearing and listening</li>
<li>Why we seem to focus more on speaking instead of listening</li>
<li>Listening as a skill that needs to be learned and developed</li>
<li>The inverse relationship between emotion and listening</li>
<li>How to have respectful conversations with people who disagree with</li>
<li>Why is listening more difficult the more senior you become in an organization</li>
<li>Why diversity of perspective and opinion is valuable</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Julian Treasure:</p>
<p class="text-break" style="margin-top: 0cm;">Julian Treasure is an author and international speaker on sound and communication skills. His five TED talks have been viewed over 150 million times and his book “How To Be Heard” won both Audie and SOVAS awards for best business audiobook. His company The Sound Agency has been helping major global brands to improve their sound since 2003.</p>
<p class="text-break" style="margin-top: 0cm;">Learn more about Julian and his programs at </p>
<p class="text-break" style="margin-top: 0cm;"><a href='https://www.juliantreasure.com/'>https://www.juliantreasure.com/</a></p>
<p>Books by Julian Treasure</p>
<p><a href='https://www.juliantreasure.com/books'>https://www.juliantreasure.com/books</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.juliantreasure.com/books'>https://www.juliantreasure.com/books</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Julian Treasure:</p>
Most people don't even understand that listening is different from hearing. Hearing is a capability. Listening is a skill. It's a skill you can practice and master, and if you do that, you can gain huge advantages in your life. Because the sad truth is, most people don't listen.
<p>-----</p>
<p>To me, listening is the foundational skill of all of our communication. It's primal, it's critical, and yet we seem to have forgotten about it.</p>
<p>We don't teach it in school, which is mad when you think about it, because if you taught children first how to listen really well, how much more of their education would they absorb and retain than they do now.</p>
<p>Where they're struggling in classrooms built by architects who don't listen, the children can't hear very much a great deal of the time. And if they can hear it, are they actually listening? Not really, because they don't know how to do that.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>The foundation of my work really is that these skills, speaking and listening, have profound effects on three very important things, our happiness, our effectiveness and our well being.</p>
<p>So dear listener, if you don't care about any of those three things, don't bother.</p>
<p>But if those things are important to you, and I rather suspect they are, it really is worth opening these doors to whole new worlds of capability, skill, and, you know, transformed outcomes in those three domains, your happiness, your happiness, your effectiveness and your well, being powerfully affected by how will you speak and how will you listen?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Listening is a skill that can and must be learned to be more successful
<p>Episode 219 (Julian is based in the Orkney, off the North Coast of Scotland)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Julian Treasure we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How listening helped our survival for thousands of years</li>
<li>Why listening seems so difficult and is ignored</li>
<li>The difference between hearing and listening</li>
<li>Why we seem to focus more on speaking instead of listening</li>
<li>Listening as a skill that needs to be learned and developed</li>
<li>The inverse relationship between emotion and listening</li>
<li>How to have respectful conversations with people who disagree with</li>
<li>Why is listening more difficult the more senior you become in an organization</li>
<li>Why diversity of perspective and opinion is valuable</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest Julian Treasure:</p>
<p class="text-break" style="margin-top: 0cm;">Julian Treasure is an author and international speaker on sound and communication skills. His five TED talks have been viewed over 150 million times and his book “How To Be Heard” won both Audie and SOVAS awards for best business audiobook. His company The Sound Agency has been helping major global brands to improve their sound since 2003.</p>
<p class="text-break" style="margin-top: 0cm;">Learn more about Julian and his programs at </p>
<p class="text-break" style="margin-top: 0cm;"><a href='https://www.juliantreasure.com/'>https://www.juliantreasure.com/</a></p>
<p>Books by Julian Treasure</p>
<p><a href='https://www.juliantreasure.com/books'>https://www.juliantreasure.com/books</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.juliantreasure.com/books'>https://www.juliantreasure.com/books</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Julian Treasure:</p>
Most people don't even understand that listening is different from hearing. Hearing is a capability. Listening is a skill. It's a skill you can practice and master, and if you do that, you can gain huge advantages in your life. Because the sad truth is, most people don't listen.
<p>-----</p>
<p>To me, listening is the foundational skill of all of our communication. It's primal, it's critical, and yet we seem to have forgotten about it.</p>
<p>We don't teach it in school, which is mad when you think about it, because if you taught children first how to listen really well, how much more of their education would they absorb and retain than they do now.</p>
<p>Where they're struggling in classrooms built by architects who don't listen, the children can't hear very much a great deal of the time. And if they can hear it, are they actually listening? Not really, because they don't know how to do that.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>The foundation of my work really is that these skills, speaking and listening, have profound effects on three very important things, our happiness, our effectiveness and our well being.</p>
<p>So dear listener, if you don't care about any of those three things, don't bother.</p>
<p>But if those things are important to you, and I rather suspect they are, it really is worth opening these doors to whole new worlds of capability, skill, and, you know, transformed outcomes in those three domains, your happiness, your happiness, your effectiveness and your well, being powerfully affected by how will you speak and how will you listen?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Listening is a skill that can and must be learned to be more successful
Episode 219 (Julian is based in the Orkney, off the North Coast of Scotland)
In this conversation with Julian Treasure we explore:
How listening helped our survival for thousands of years
Why listening seems so difficult and is ignored
The difference between hearing and listening
Why we seem to focus more on speaking instead of listening
Listening as a skill that needs to be learned and developed
The inverse relationship between emotion and listening
How to have respectful conversations with people who disagree with
Why is listening more difficult the more senior you become in an organization
Why diversity of perspective and opinion is valuable
-----
About our guest Julian Treasure:
Julian Treasure is an author and international speaker on sound and communication skills. His five TED talks have been viewed over 150 million times and his book “How To Be Heard” won both Audie and SOVAS awards for best business audiobook. His company The Sound Agency has been helping major global brands to improve their sound since 2003.
Learn more about Julian and his programs at 
https://www.juliantreasure.com/
Books by Julian Treasure
https://www.juliantreasure.com/books
https://www.juliantreasure.com/books
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Julian Treasure:
Most people don't even understand that listening is different from hearing. Hearing is a capability. Listening is a skill. It's a skill you can practice and master, and if you do that, you can gain huge advantages in your life. Because the sad truth is, most people don't listen.
-----
To me, listening is the foundational skill of all of our communication. It's primal, it's critical, and yet we seem to have forgotten about it.
We don't teach it in school, which is mad when you think about it, because if you taught children first how to listen really well, how much more of their education would they absorb and retain than they do now.
Where they're struggling in classrooms built by architects who don't listen, the children can't hear very much a great deal of the time. And if they can hear it, are they actually listening? Not really, because they don't know how to do that.
-----
The foundation of my work really is that these skills, speaking and listening, have profound effects on three very important things, our happiness, our effectiveness and our well being.
So dear listener, if you don't care about any of those three things, don't bother.
But if those things are important to you, and I rather suspect they are, it really is worth opening these doors to whole new worlds of capability, skill, and, you know, transformed outcomes in those three domains, your happiness, your happiness, your effectiveness and your well, being powerfully affected by how will you speak and how will you listen?
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
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        <title>Clear the Marketing Bottlenecks: Marcus Schaller</title>
        <itunes:title>Clear the Marketing Bottlenecks: Marcus Schaller</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Target your marketing specific to one person
<p>Episode 218 (Marcus is based in Ohio)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Marcus Schaller we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How bottlenecks vary from small to large companies</li>
<li>The reality of limited time, energy and money</li>
<li>The misunderstanding of how to scale</li>
<li>Measuring the wrong parameters on social media</li>
<li>Clarifying the ideal customer</li>
<li>How customer service can align with your marketing messages</li>
<li>How compensation criteria contributes to internal conflicts</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Marcus Schaller:</p>
<p>Marcus has over 20 years experience as a marketing strategist, coach and copywriter.</p>
<p>His experience includes creating messaging strategies and campaigns for several industries, including B2B, technology and SaaS.</p>
<p>Learn more about Marcus and the marketing services he offers</p>
<p><a href='https://marcusschaller.com/'>https://marcusschaller.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Marcus Schaller:</p>
<p>How does one decide which way to go? And how many directions should we be going in?</p>
<p>Oh, another really good question, George. Again, dependent on situation, I think the mistake is what not to do is to constantly "Chase every new shiny object".</p>
<p>Now, I think in terms of smaller businesses, that tends to be where my head's at, that's the clients that I tend to work with as a coach. So it's like I'm thinking in terms of your one, or one or two people, or maybe even five or six, it's a small team, you only have so much, again, resources, time, energy money.</p>
<p>The other thing to think about too, is that not only does it spread out too thin trying to do everything, which is just a it's a physics, it's a math equation at that point.</p>
<p>If you think about as a solopreneur, or as an entrepreneur, with a small team, there are certain things that you have certain talents.</p>
<p>You have a background in radio, it makes perfect sense that you would do a podcast, it would be ridiculous for you not to right now.</p>
<p>Would it make sense for you to do something that let's say TicTok and I'm not sure if you're on. But let's say you don't really like being on social media, you don't like TikTok? You don't enjoy? You don't consume it, you don't scroll through it every day.</p>
<p>Does that make sense to us? Probably not. So I think it really starts with the person running the business, if it's a small business, and even with a larger company, do you have the staff? Do you have the team to be able to support multiple, they're going off into multiple directions. And it's kind of that classic problem where there's no actual focus, and they're not really getting any impact? And then of course, you have to integrate that with like, where's your audience?</p>
<p>So if it turns out that you find out that, let's say you personally don't like using YouTube, I know that's not true. But let's say you don't like YouTube, but you find out that that's where the majority of your potential is. You might have to just figure it out.</p>
<p>But I think it really starts with go with your strengths, because there's certain things that we're just good at, and why wouldn't we leverage that as much as possible?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Your brand is not really up to you, we can design what we want our brand to convey. Again, your intended message of your brand, can be something we sit down and we design and this is our intention of what we want to communicate, but ultimately the brand is how your audience and how your customer base sees your company.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Target your marketing specific to one person
<p>Episode 218 (Marcus is based in Ohio)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Marcus Schaller we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How bottlenecks vary from small to large companies</li>
<li>The reality of limited time, energy and money</li>
<li>The misunderstanding of how to scale</li>
<li>Measuring the wrong parameters on social media</li>
<li>Clarifying the ideal customer</li>
<li>How customer service can align with your marketing messages</li>
<li>How compensation criteria contributes to internal conflicts</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About our guest, Marcus Schaller:</p>
<p>Marcus has over 20 years experience as a marketing strategist, coach and copywriter.</p>
<p>His experience includes creating messaging strategies and campaigns for several industries, including B2B, technology and SaaS.</p>
<p>Learn more about Marcus and the marketing services he offers</p>
<p><a href='https://marcusschaller.com/'>https://marcusschaller.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Marcus Schaller:</p>
<p>How does one decide which way to go? And how many directions should we be going in?</p>
<p>Oh, another really good question, George. Again, dependent on situation, I think the mistake is what not to do is to constantly "Chase every new shiny object".</p>
<p>Now, I think in terms of smaller businesses, that tends to be where my head's at, that's the clients that I tend to work with as a coach. So it's like I'm thinking in terms of your one, or one or two people, or maybe even five or six, it's a small team, you only have so much, again, resources, time, energy money.</p>
<p>The other thing to think about too, is that not only does it spread out too thin trying to do everything, which is just a it's a physics, it's a math equation at that point.</p>
<p>If you think about as a solopreneur, or as an entrepreneur, with a small team, there are certain things that you have certain talents.</p>
<p>You have a background in radio, it makes perfect sense that you would do a podcast, it would be ridiculous for you not to right now.</p>
<p>Would it make sense for you to do something that let's say TicTok and I'm not sure if you're on. But let's say you don't really like being on social media, you don't like TikTok? You don't enjoy? You don't consume it, you don't scroll through it every day.</p>
<p>Does that make sense to us? Probably not. So I think it really starts with the person running the business, if it's a small business, and even with a larger company, do you have the staff? Do you have the team to be able to support multiple, they're going off into multiple directions. And it's kind of that classic problem where there's no actual focus, and they're not really getting any impact? And then of course, you have to integrate that with like, where's your audience?</p>
<p>So if it turns out that you find out that, let's say you personally don't like using YouTube, I know that's not true. But let's say you don't like YouTube, but you find out that that's where the majority of your potential is. You might have to just figure it out.</p>
<p>But I think it really starts with go with your strengths, because there's certain things that we're just good at, and why wouldn't we leverage that as much as possible?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Your brand is not really up to you, we can design what we want our brand to convey. Again, your intended message of your brand, can be something we sit down and we design and this is our intention of what we want to communicate, but ultimately the brand is how your audience and how your customer base sees your company.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
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Episode 218 (Marcus is based in Ohio)
In this conversation with Marcus Schaller we explore:
How bottlenecks vary from small to large companies
The reality of limited time, energy and money
The misunderstanding of how to scale
Measuring the wrong parameters on social media
Clarifying the ideal customer
How customer service can align with your marketing messages
How compensation criteria contributes to internal conflicts
-----
About our guest, Marcus Schaller:
Marcus has over 20 years experience as a marketing strategist, coach and copywriter.
His experience includes creating messaging strategies and campaigns for several industries, including B2B, technology and SaaS.
Learn more about Marcus and the marketing services he offers
https://marcusschaller.com/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Marcus Schaller:
How does one decide which way to go? And how many directions should we be going in?
Oh, another really good question, George. Again, dependent on situation, I think the mistake is what not to do is to constantly "Chase every new shiny object".
Now, I think in terms of smaller businesses, that tends to be where my head's at, that's the clients that I tend to work with as a coach. So it's like I'm thinking in terms of your one, or one or two people, or maybe even five or six, it's a small team, you only have so much, again, resources, time, energy money.
The other thing to think about too, is that not only does it spread out too thin trying to do everything, which is just a it's a physics, it's a math equation at that point.
If you think about as a solopreneur, or as an entrepreneur, with a small team, there are certain things that you have certain talents.
You have a background in radio, it makes perfect sense that you would do a podcast, it would be ridiculous for you not to right now.
Would it make sense for you to do something that let's say TicTok and I'm not sure if you're on. But let's say you don't really like being on social media, you don't like TikTok? You don't enjoy? You don't consume it, you don't scroll through it every day.
Does that make sense to us? Probably not. So I think it really starts with the person running the business, if it's a small business, and even with a larger company, do you have the staff? Do you have the team to be able to support multiple, they're going off into multiple directions. And it's kind of that classic problem where there's no actual focus, and they're not really getting any impact? And then of course, you have to integrate that with like, where's your audience?
So if it turns out that you find out that, let's say you personally don't like using YouTube, I know that's not true. But let's say you don't like YouTube, but you find out that that's where the majority of your potential is. You might have to just figure it out.
But I think it really starts with go with your strengths, because there's certain things that we're just good at, and why wouldn't we leverage that as much as possible?
-----
Your brand is not really up to you, we can design what we want our brand to convey. Again, your intended message of your brand, can be something we sit down and we design and this is our intention of what we want to communicate, but ultimately the brand is how your audience and how your customer base sees your company.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
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<p>Episode 217 (Myke is based in New York state)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Dr. Myke Merril we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How do we perceive reality</li>
<li>What does it mean to be emotional?</li>
<li>The power of saying, "Tell me more about that"</li>
<li>Emotions are not good nor bad, it's what you do with it</li>
<li>How can anger be constructive</li>
<li>How to change a reaction to a response</li>
<li>Four words to eliminate from your speaking</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest:</p>
<p>He has written 28 books to make his wealth of knowledge and insights widely available.</p>
<p>Dr. Mike has two mottos of life. One, be constantly curious, learn something about everything, frequently use the expression, tell me more.</p>
<p>And to I cannot do everything, but I can do something. So I will do that.</p>
<p>Learn more about his book and services</p>
<p><a href='https://whydopeopleactthatway.com/'>https://whydopeopleactthatway.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Dr. Myke Merrill:</p>
<p>Tell us a little bit about what is this thing that we call reality?</p>
<p>That is a tremendous philosophical question. But it's also a biological question. How a person how every human being perceives the reality in which they are personally immersed, there isn't a reality of what's happening and some star somewhere 400 light years away.</p>
<p>The reality is, that's not a part of our reality. But when I'm driving along, and somebody cuts me off, that is part of my reality. And the question then is, how do I perceive that moment? Is that an aggressive moment? Or do I have compassion in that moment? Is it somebody who just wet their pants and are trying to get to a bathroom really badly? And they're not thinking about anything else?</p>
<p>Or did they just get fired from work? And they're pretty much at the end of their rope. I mean, I don't know what's going on. But my reality is the journey I'm on.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>But a starting point is it's either a reaction or a response. A reaction is unplanned, spontaneous, and usually less or uncontrolled. A response is reasonable, mature, experienced, and and has a plan. They're both emotional. They're both emotion, emotion is both sides.</p>
<p>But if you have a reaction, can you shift that to a response? Can you say, I know I just gave you the finger because you pulled in front of me. Let me back that up just a little bit.</p>
<p>Because I'd like to take a different course here, or you're in an argument with your your management team and your business. And some new startup comes in with some wild idea. And you immediately trashed the person, not the idea. And to be able to that was my reaction, and to be able to say, I just reacted there, and I don't want to do that. Let me pull that back.</p>
<p>And let me respond, not react. Both of those are emotional, both are intense. loads, it really matters what we're talking about here. But I'm going to respond instead of react. So emotion for me became either the reaction or the response, linking my perceptions to my motivations, and their interactive.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[You can't do everything but you can do something
<p>Episode 217 (Myke is based in New York state)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Dr. Myke Merril we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How do we perceive reality</li>
<li>What does it mean to be emotional?</li>
<li>The power of saying, "Tell me more about that"</li>
<li>Emotions are not good nor bad, it's what you do with it</li>
<li>How can anger be constructive</li>
<li>How to change a reaction to a response</li>
<li>Four words to eliminate from your speaking</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest:</p>
<p>He has written 28 books to make his wealth of knowledge and insights widely available.</p>
<p>Dr. Mike has two mottos of life. One, be constantly curious, learn something about everything, frequently use the expression, tell me more.</p>
<p>And to I cannot do everything, but I can do something. So I will do that.</p>
<p>Learn more about his book and services</p>
<p><a href='https://whydopeopleactthatway.com/'>https://whydopeopleactthatway.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Dr. Myke Merrill:</p>
<p>Tell us a little bit about what is this thing that we call reality?</p>
<p>That is a tremendous philosophical question. But it's also a biological question. How a person how every human being perceives the reality in which they are personally immersed, there isn't a reality of what's happening and some star somewhere 400 light years away.</p>
<p>The reality is, that's not a part of our reality. But when I'm driving along, and somebody cuts me off, that is part of my reality. And the question then is, how do I perceive that moment? Is that an aggressive moment? Or do I have compassion in that moment? Is it somebody who just wet their pants and are trying to get to a bathroom really badly? And they're not thinking about anything else?</p>
<p>Or did they just get fired from work? And they're pretty much at the end of their rope. I mean, I don't know what's going on. But my reality is the journey I'm on.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>But a starting point is it's either a reaction or a response. A reaction is unplanned, spontaneous, and usually less or uncontrolled. A response is reasonable, mature, experienced, and and has a plan. They're both emotional. They're both emotion, emotion is both sides.</p>
<p>But if you have a reaction, can you shift that to a response? Can you say, I know I just gave you the finger because you pulled in front of me. Let me back that up just a little bit.</p>
<p>Because I'd like to take a different course here, or you're in an argument with your your management team and your business. And some new startup comes in with some wild idea. And you immediately trashed the person, not the idea. And to be able to that was my reaction, and to be able to say, I just reacted there, and I don't want to do that. Let me pull that back.</p>
<p>And let me respond, not react. Both of those are emotional, both are intense. loads, it really matters what we're talking about here. But I'm going to respond instead of react. So emotion for me became either the reaction or the response, linking my perceptions to my motivations, and their interactive.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[You can't do everything but you can do something
Episode 217 (Myke is based in New York state)
In this conversation with Dr. Myke Merril we explore:
How do we perceive reality
What does it mean to be emotional?
The power of saying, "Tell me more about that"
Emotions are not good nor bad, it's what you do with it
How can anger be constructive
How to change a reaction to a response
Four words to eliminate from your speaking
About our guest:
He has written 28 books to make his wealth of knowledge and insights widely available.
Dr. Mike has two mottos of life. One, be constantly curious, learn something about everything, frequently use the expression, tell me more.
And to I cannot do everything, but I can do something. So I will do that.
Learn more about his book and services
https://whydopeopleactthatway.com/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Dr. Myke Merrill:
Tell us a little bit about what is this thing that we call reality?
That is a tremendous philosophical question. But it's also a biological question. How a person how every human being perceives the reality in which they are personally immersed, there isn't a reality of what's happening and some star somewhere 400 light years away.
The reality is, that's not a part of our reality. But when I'm driving along, and somebody cuts me off, that is part of my reality. And the question then is, how do I perceive that moment? Is that an aggressive moment? Or do I have compassion in that moment? Is it somebody who just wet their pants and are trying to get to a bathroom really badly? And they're not thinking about anything else?
Or did they just get fired from work? And they're pretty much at the end of their rope. I mean, I don't know what's going on. But my reality is the journey I'm on.
-----
But a starting point is it's either a reaction or a response. A reaction is unplanned, spontaneous, and usually less or uncontrolled. A response is reasonable, mature, experienced, and and has a plan. They're both emotional. They're both emotion, emotion is both sides.
But if you have a reaction, can you shift that to a response? Can you say, I know I just gave you the finger because you pulled in front of me. Let me back that up just a little bit.
Because I'd like to take a different course here, or you're in an argument with your your management team and your business. And some new startup comes in with some wild idea. And you immediately trashed the person, not the idea. And to be able to that was my reaction, and to be able to say, I just reacted there, and I don't want to do that. Let me pull that back.
And let me respond, not react. Both of those are emotional, both are intense. loads, it really matters what we're talking about here. But I'm going to respond instead of react. So emotion for me became either the reaction or the response, linking my perceptions to my motivations, and their interactive.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[12 Secrets from David Copperfield to help your Business
<p>In this episode, your host, George Torok reveals these secrets that he learned while assisting David Copperfield on stage at the MGM Grand in Las Vegas.</p>
<p>George Torok helps executives deliver their high value presentation more effectively. Naturally he studies other presenters and performers to learn from their techniques and styles.</p>
<p>He observed David Copperfield up close and uncovered these gems in his performance that apply to business communication.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this podcast</p>
<p>David Copperfield - live at the MGM Grand Hotel Las Vegas! You might be fascinated to know what I discovered behind the curtain. I was lucky enough to assist him with one segment of his show. Of course I was sworn to secrecy and cannot reveal the magic behind that trick. 

Watching a master at work inspired me to do more than just watch - to observe and learn. I can reveal to you the secrets of David Copperfield that you can apply to your business. 

</p>
<p>What are those 12 Secrets?</p>
<p>There is no magic</p>
<p>Illusion is more powerful than reality</p>
<p>People believe what they want</p>
<p>The audience is always right</p>
<p>Preparation is everything</p>
<p>Prepare for the unexpected</p>
<p>Believe in people</p>
<p>Offer them hope</p>
<p>Make it fun</p>
<p>Be vulnerable</p>
<p>Don't be seduced by technology</p>
<p>You don't need a cape.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[12 Secrets from David Copperfield to help your Business
<p>In this episode, your host, George Torok reveals these secrets that he learned while assisting David Copperfield on stage at the MGM Grand in Las Vegas.</p>
<p>George Torok helps executives deliver their high value presentation more effectively. Naturally he studies other presenters and performers to learn from their techniques and styles.</p>
<p>He observed David Copperfield up close and uncovered these gems in his performance that apply to business communication.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this podcast</p>
<p>David Copperfield - live at the MGM Grand Hotel Las Vegas! You might be fascinated to know what I discovered behind the curtain. I was lucky enough to assist him with one segment of his show. Of course I was sworn to secrecy and cannot reveal the magic behind that trick. <br>
<br>
Watching a master at work inspired me to do more than just watch - to observe and learn. I can reveal to you the secrets of David Copperfield that you can apply to your business. <br>
<br>
</p>
<p>What are those 12 Secrets?</p>
<p>There is no magic</p>
<p>Illusion is more powerful than reality</p>
<p>People believe what they want</p>
<p>The audience is always right</p>
<p>Preparation is everything</p>
<p>Prepare for the unexpected</p>
<p>Believe in people</p>
<p>Offer them hope</p>
<p>Make it fun</p>
<p>Be vulnerable</p>
<p>Don't be seduced by technology</p>
<p>You don't need a cape.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[12 Secrets from David Copperfield to help your Business
In this episode, your host, George Torok reveals these secrets that he learned while assisting David Copperfield on stage at the MGM Grand in Las Vegas.
George Torok helps executives deliver their high value presentation more effectively. Naturally he studies other presenters and performers to learn from their techniques and styles.
He observed David Copperfield up close and uncovered these gems in his performance that apply to business communication.
-----
Excerpts from this podcast
David Copperfield - live at the MGM Grand Hotel Las Vegas! You might be fascinated to know what I discovered behind the curtain. I was lucky enough to assist him with one segment of his show. Of course I was sworn to secrecy and cannot reveal the magic behind that trick. Watching a master at work inspired me to do more than just watch - to observe and learn. I can reveal to you the secrets of David Copperfield that you can apply to your business. 
What are those 12 Secrets?
There is no magic
Illusion is more powerful than reality
People believe what they want
The audience is always right
Preparation is everything
Prepare for the unexpected
Believe in people
Offer them hope
Make it fun
Be vulnerable
Don't be seduced by technology
You don't need a cape.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[10 Lessons to launch your product on KickStarter
<p>Episode 215 (Aurora is based in Vancouver, Canada)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Aurora Winter we we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why is Kickstarter a good place to launch your new product?</li>
<li>The nature and importance of the KickStarter community</li>
<li>What are the benefits to those who pledge their support?</li>
<li>What types of creative products can be launched?</li>
<li>The appeal of being part of a community of creators</li>
<li>Raising money is only part of the benefit to creators</li>
<li>How else can authors make money?</li>
<li>Appreciating the love of reading.</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest and offer:</p>
<p>To participate in the book launch, visit this site before July 16, 20224</p>
<p><a href='https://magicmysteryandthemultiverse.com/'>https://magicmysteryandthemultiverse.com/</a></p>
<p>After this date, you can still visit this url for the latest on this series of fantasy books from Aurora Winter.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Aurora Winter:</p>
<p>The quick summary on Kickstarter is that it is it is a crowd funding platform that is specifically oriented for supporting the creation of new products.</p>
<p>So that would include books, but it also could include a backpack or a watch or a new kind of jacket or glasses, and or jewelry. So many creators have fun or even a film, many creators have funded their project on Kickstarter.</p>
<p>Kickstarter is distinct from other crowdfunding platforms. It's not like a GoFundMe, it's not please, please, please, I need money, it's more, I have this exciting idea. It's so wonderful. And I would really like to give you the opportunity exclusively to get this hot off the press before it's available to the general public.</p>
<p>And usually, you will also get something different and distinct from what is available for the general public.</p>
<p>So people who like first editions, people who want signed editions or they want something collectors, Kickstarter is really great for that. And one more thing I learned about Kickstarter, and I've a number of things to share.</p>
<p>But one other thing that people might like to know is Kickstarter is your first stop, it doesn't take away from selling your product on Amazon or wherever you might sell it. But if you go to Kickstarter, first, you offer that exclusive window, and you don't have to ship the following day.</p>
<p>So you can use the funds to create your movie, or to finish, you know, your design of the book cover. In my case, my book is already done. So that wasn't the case.</p>
<p>But Kickstarter does give you the opportunity for a little window of time to finish your creative project. Like my son did a video game on Kickstarter.</p>
<p>So it's something and it's something that's, I think, really exciting and fun, because you get to meet the creators.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[10 Lessons to launch your product on KickStarter
<p>Episode 215 (Aurora is based in Vancouver, Canada)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Aurora Winter we we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why is Kickstarter a good place to launch your new product?</li>
<li>The nature and importance of the KickStarter community</li>
<li>What are the benefits to those who pledge their support?</li>
<li>What types of creative products can be launched?</li>
<li>The appeal of being part of a community of creators</li>
<li>Raising money is only part of the benefit to creators</li>
<li>How else can authors make money?</li>
<li>Appreciating the love of reading.</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest and offer:</p>
<p>To participate in the book launch, visit this site before July 16, 20224</p>
<p><a href='https://magicmysteryandthemultiverse.com/'>https://magicmysteryandthemultiverse.com/</a></p>
<p>After this date, you can still visit this url for the latest on this series of fantasy books from Aurora Winter.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Aurora Winter:</p>
<p>The quick summary on Kickstarter is that it is it is a crowd funding platform that is specifically oriented for supporting the creation of new products.</p>
<p>So that would include books, but it also could include a backpack or a watch or a new kind of jacket or glasses, and or jewelry. So many creators have fun or even a film, many creators have funded their project on Kickstarter.</p>
<p>Kickstarter is distinct from other crowdfunding platforms. It's not like a GoFundMe, it's not please, please, please, I need money, it's more, I have this exciting idea. It's so wonderful. And I would really like to give you the opportunity exclusively to get this hot off the press before it's available to the general public.</p>
<p>And usually, you will also get something different and distinct from what is available for the general public.</p>
<p>So people who like first editions, people who want signed editions or they want something collectors, Kickstarter is really great for that. And one more thing I learned about Kickstarter, and I've a number of things to share.</p>
<p>But one other thing that people might like to know is Kickstarter is your first stop, it doesn't take away from selling your product on Amazon or wherever you might sell it. But if you go to Kickstarter, first, you offer that exclusive window, and you don't have to ship the following day.</p>
<p>So you can use the funds to create your movie, or to finish, you know, your design of the book cover. In my case, my book is already done. So that wasn't the case.</p>
<p>But Kickstarter does give you the opportunity for a little window of time to finish your creative project. Like my son did a video game on Kickstarter.</p>
<p>So it's something and it's something that's, I think, really exciting and fun, because you get to meet the creators.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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Episode 215 (Aurora is based in Vancouver, Canada)
In this conversation with Aurora Winter we we explore:
Why is Kickstarter a good place to launch your new product?
The nature and importance of the KickStarter community
What are the benefits to those who pledge their support?
What types of creative products can be launched?
The appeal of being part of a community of creators
Raising money is only part of the benefit to creators
How else can authors make money?
Appreciating the love of reading.
About our guest and offer:
To participate in the book launch, visit this site before July 16, 20224
https://magicmysteryandthemultiverse.com/
After this date, you can still visit this url for the latest on this series of fantasy books from Aurora Winter.
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Aurora Winter:
The quick summary on Kickstarter is that it is it is a crowd funding platform that is specifically oriented for supporting the creation of new products.
So that would include books, but it also could include a backpack or a watch or a new kind of jacket or glasses, and or jewelry. So many creators have fun or even a film, many creators have funded their project on Kickstarter.
Kickstarter is distinct from other crowdfunding platforms. It's not like a GoFundMe, it's not please, please, please, I need money, it's more, I have this exciting idea. It's so wonderful. And I would really like to give you the opportunity exclusively to get this hot off the press before it's available to the general public.
And usually, you will also get something different and distinct from what is available for the general public.
So people who like first editions, people who want signed editions or they want something collectors, Kickstarter is really great for that. And one more thing I learned about Kickstarter, and I've a number of things to share.
But one other thing that people might like to know is Kickstarter is your first stop, it doesn't take away from selling your product on Amazon or wherever you might sell it. But if you go to Kickstarter, first, you offer that exclusive window, and you don't have to ship the following day.
So you can use the funds to create your movie, or to finish, you know, your design of the book cover. In my case, my book is already done. So that wasn't the case.
But Kickstarter does give you the opportunity for a little window of time to finish your creative project. Like my son did a video game on Kickstarter.
So it's something and it's something that's, I think, really exciting and fun, because you get to meet the creators.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Leadership lessons from dog training
How can you lead your team like training a dog
<p>Episode 214 (Brady is based in Austin, Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Brady Foulk we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What dog training has in common with leadership skills</li>
<li>How to understand their world - the dog or your team</li>
<li>Connect and build new patterns of behavior</li>
<li>The importance of along time</li>
<li>How to allow a safe place to cool off </li>
<li>Pavlov's lessons of classical conditioning still applies to people and dogs</li>
<li>How to associate desired behaviors with rewards</li>
<li>The freeze, flight or fight response</li>
<li>The misuse of anger and punishment in training</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Brady Foulk:</p>
<p>A passionate and knowledgeable dog trainer whose expertise transcends conventional boundaries.</p>
<p>With a rich tapestry of experience and certifications in Dog training, Lifestyle Coaching, NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), and ABA therapy. Brady, at 29, has dedicated the last 6 years of his life to crafting the perfect canine companions.</p>
<p>Whether it's honing the skills of service dogs or instilling a sense of calm and security in emotional support animals, Brady's holistic approach resonates deeply with every furry friend and their loving owners, fostering a harmonious and enriching bond.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Join the dog training community.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.newdirectiondogtraining.com/free-community1'>https://www.newdirectiondogtraining.com/free-community1</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
It's not about giving your people dog treats. It's more about understanding their perspective and seeking to direct their behavior.
<p>-----</p>
<p>And I want your audience to know if you have a dog, you're in the right place. We're going to talk about some dog training tips and tricks, I got lots to share.</p>
<p>And yeah, if you don't have a dog, I want you to know, you're also in the right place. We're gonna talk about effective, elegant leadership, we're gonna talk about how it applies to your business and how it applies to your life.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>And so let's address the issue of punishment. Yeah. When does punishment fit and what are relevant punishments do we do we take a rolled up newspaper and hit the dog on the nose?</p>
<p>Yeah, I don't believe in physical punishments. I feel like there's we've evolved to a point where we can communicate more effectively. It's like it's not appropriate for me to hit you. If I get mad at you. I have to figure out how to communicate to you to work with you. And most of the time, you probably don't feel heard.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Leadership lessons from dog training
How can you lead your team like training a dog
<p>Episode 214 (Brady is based in Austin, Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Brady Foulk we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What dog training has in common with leadership skills</li>
<li>How to understand their world - the dog or your team</li>
<li>Connect and build new patterns of behavior</li>
<li>The importance of along time</li>
<li>How to allow a safe place to cool off </li>
<li>Pavlov's lessons of classical conditioning still applies to people and dogs</li>
<li>How to associate desired behaviors with rewards</li>
<li>The freeze, flight or fight response</li>
<li>The misuse of anger and punishment in training</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Brady Foulk:</p>
<p>A passionate and knowledgeable dog trainer whose expertise transcends conventional boundaries.</p>
<p>With a rich tapestry of experience and certifications in Dog training, Lifestyle Coaching, NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), and ABA therapy. Brady, at 29, has dedicated the last 6 years of his life to crafting the perfect canine companions.</p>
<p>Whether it's honing the skills of service dogs or instilling a sense of calm and security in emotional support animals, Brady's holistic approach resonates deeply with every furry friend and their loving owners, fostering a harmonious and enriching bond.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Join the dog training community.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.newdirectiondogtraining.com/free-community1'>https://www.newdirectiondogtraining.com/free-community1</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
It's not about giving your people dog treats. It's more about understanding their perspective and seeking to direct their behavior.
<p>-----</p>
<p>And I want your audience to know if you have a dog, you're in the right place. We're going to talk about some dog training tips and tricks, I got lots to share.</p>
<p>And yeah, if you don't have a dog, I want you to know, you're also in the right place. We're gonna talk about effective, elegant leadership, we're gonna talk about how it applies to your business and how it applies to your life.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>And so let's address the issue of punishment. Yeah. When does punishment fit and what are relevant punishments do we do we take a rolled up newspaper and hit the dog on the nose?</p>
<p>Yeah, I don't believe in physical punishments. I feel like there's we've evolved to a point where we can communicate more effectively. It's like it's not appropriate for me to hit you. If I get mad at you. I have to figure out how to communicate to you to work with you. And most of the time, you probably don't feel heard.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Leadership lessons from dog training
How can you lead your team like training a dog
Episode 214 (Brady is based in Austin, Texas)
In this conversation with Brady Foulk we explore:
What dog training has in common with leadership skills
How to understand their world - the dog or your team
Connect and build new patterns of behavior
The importance of along time
How to allow a safe place to cool off 
Pavlov's lessons of classical conditioning still applies to people and dogs
How to associate desired behaviors with rewards
The freeze, flight or fight response
The misuse of anger and punishment in training
About our guest, Brady Foulk:
A passionate and knowledgeable dog trainer whose expertise transcends conventional boundaries.
With a rich tapestry of experience and certifications in Dog training, Lifestyle Coaching, NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), and ABA therapy. Brady, at 29, has dedicated the last 6 years of his life to crafting the perfect canine companions.
Whether it's honing the skills of service dogs or instilling a sense of calm and security in emotional support animals, Brady's holistic approach resonates deeply with every furry friend and their loving owners, fostering a harmonious and enriching bond.
-----
Join the dog training community.
https://www.newdirectiondogtraining.com/free-community1
-----
It's not about giving your people dog treats. It's more about understanding their perspective and seeking to direct their behavior.
-----
And I want your audience to know if you have a dog, you're in the right place. We're going to talk about some dog training tips and tricks, I got lots to share.
And yeah, if you don't have a dog, I want you to know, you're also in the right place. We're gonna talk about effective, elegant leadership, we're gonna talk about how it applies to your business and how it applies to your life.
-----
And so let's address the issue of punishment. Yeah. When does punishment fit and what are relevant punishments do we do we take a rolled up newspaper and hit the dog on the nose?
Yeah, I don't believe in physical punishments. I feel like there's we've evolved to a point where we can communicate more effectively. It's like it's not appropriate for me to hit you. If I get mad at you. I have to figure out how to communicate to you to work with you. And most of the time, you probably don't feel heard.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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        <title>Career Success Depends on your Communication Skills: Ty Hoesgen</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Advance your career success with better communication skills
Simple steps to become an effective communicator
<p>Episode 213 (Ty is based in Toronto, Canada)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Ty Hoesgen, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The lack of proper communication skills for students</li>
<li>The danger of depending only on your technical expertise</li>
<li>Communication is a learnable skill</li>
<li>Even shy, clumsy introverts can learn how to communicate</li>
<li>Why people start talking before they speak</li>
<li>The importance of relevant structure and organization</li>
<li>Coaching your team to improve</li>
<li>How to use the PREP structure (Point, Reason, Example, Point)</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Ty Hoesgen:</p>
<p>Ty Hoesgen grew up as a shy, awkward farm kid near a town of 800 people. He's the author of "Elite Communication Skills".</p>
<p>You can take the free course, "Speak like a Confident Leader in 7 Days:</p>
<p>at <a href='https://howtospeakbetter.com/'>https://howtospeakbetter.com/</a></p>
<p>Follow at <a href='https://www.instagram.com/tyhoesgen/'>https://www.instagram.com/tyhoesgen/</a></p>
<p>Connect at <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/tyhoesgen/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/tyhoesgen/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Ty Hoesgen:</p>
<p>There's a famous scene from the show The Office, if any of your listeners have seen the office, and it's Michael Scott, who is the head boss there, and he says, Sometimes I just start a sentence. And I don't really know where it's going. But I just hope I find it along the way. </p>
<p>And that's what a lot of people seem to do, especially in the corporate world, when it matters the most, to be clear, to have people understand, to be persuasive to be powerful.</p>
<p>And so one of the biggest mistakes is just having no structure, no organization, in the way that you are explaining something, you're just rolling the dice and hoping for the best when you open your mouth.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>So how can someone better structure their message?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>This is something that should absolutely be taught in schools structuring your message. So first, what is your intended message? This is something that you should know, before you start speaking. I teach a framework that a lot of my clients find very easy, and they find it very useful.</p>
<p>It's called the PRP framework. So it's point. Reason. Point. It's very simple. If you get asked a question, you start with your main point first.</p>
<p>So your intended message first, what's really the main thing you want them to know? Then the reasons so why do you think this? Where did this point come from? Why do you believe this? And so you give your reasons for that. And then because people tend to hear and remember the things that they hear first, and the things that they hear last the most.</p>
<p>Whereas you want to restate our point at the end, because we want the last thing they hear to be that main message. So we've got our point, first, than our reason or reasons.</p>
<p>And we restate it with a point at the end, the Restatement at the end, very underrated and necessary. Because if you ever been in a situation where the conversation just kind of gets off track, sometimes that's because somebody has ended their point with something that's a little bit off. And people respond to whatever they hear most recently.</p>
<p>So if we restate the main point, at the end, it's a lot less likely those conversations are going to get off track.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Advance your career success with better communication skills
Simple steps to become an effective communicator
<p>Episode 213 (Ty is based in Toronto, Canada)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Ty Hoesgen, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The lack of proper communication skills for students</li>
<li>The danger of depending only on your technical expertise</li>
<li>Communication is a learnable skill</li>
<li>Even shy, clumsy introverts can learn how to communicate</li>
<li>Why people start talking before they speak</li>
<li>The importance of relevant structure and organization</li>
<li>Coaching your team to improve</li>
<li>How to use the PREP structure (Point, Reason, Example, Point)</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Ty Hoesgen:</p>
<p>Ty Hoesgen grew up as a shy, awkward farm kid near a town of 800 people. He's the author of "Elite Communication Skills".</p>
<p>You can take the free course, "Speak like a Confident Leader in 7 Days:</p>
<p>at <a href='https://howtospeakbetter.com/'>https://howtospeakbetter.com/</a></p>
<p>Follow at <a href='https://www.instagram.com/tyhoesgen/'>https://www.instagram.com/tyhoesgen/</a></p>
<p>Connect at <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/tyhoesgen/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/tyhoesgen/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Ty Hoesgen:</p>
<p>There's a famous scene from the show The Office, if any of your listeners have seen the office, and it's Michael Scott, who is the head boss there, and he says, Sometimes I just start a sentence. And I don't really know where it's going. But I just hope I find it along the way. </p>
<p>And that's what a lot of people seem to do, especially in the corporate world, when it matters the most, to be clear, to have people understand, to be persuasive to be powerful.</p>
<p>And so one of the biggest mistakes is just having no structure, no organization, in the way that you are explaining something, you're just rolling the dice and hoping for the best when you open your mouth.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>So how can someone better structure their message?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>This is something that should absolutely be taught in schools structuring your message. So first, what is your intended message? This is something that you should know, before you start speaking. I teach a framework that a lot of my clients find very easy, and they find it very useful.</p>
<p>It's called the PRP framework. So it's point. Reason. Point. It's very simple. If you get asked a question, you start with your main point first.</p>
<p>So your intended message first, what's really the main thing you want them to know? Then the reasons so why do you think this? Where did this point come from? Why do you believe this? And so you give your reasons for that. And then because people tend to hear and remember the things that they hear first, and the things that they hear last the most.</p>
<p>Whereas you want to restate our point at the end, because we want the last thing they hear to be that main message. So we've got our point, first, than our reason or reasons.</p>
<p>And we restate it with a point at the end, the Restatement at the end, very underrated and necessary. Because if you ever been in a situation where the conversation just kind of gets off track, sometimes that's because somebody has ended their point with something that's a little bit off. And people respond to whatever they hear most recently.</p>
<p>So if we restate the main point, at the end, it's a lot less likely those conversations are going to get off track.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Advance your career success with better communication skills
Simple steps to become an effective communicator
Episode 213 (Ty is based in Toronto, Canada)
In this conversation with Ty Hoesgen, we explore:
The lack of proper communication skills for students
The danger of depending only on your technical expertise
Communication is a learnable skill
Even shy, clumsy introverts can learn how to communicate
Why people start talking before they speak
The importance of relevant structure and organization
Coaching your team to improve
How to use the PREP structure (Point, Reason, Example, Point)
About our guest, Ty Hoesgen:
Ty Hoesgen grew up as a shy, awkward farm kid near a town of 800 people. He's the author of "Elite Communication Skills".
You can take the free course, "Speak like a Confident Leader in 7 Days:
at https://howtospeakbetter.com/
Follow at https://www.instagram.com/tyhoesgen/
Connect at https://www.linkedin.com/in/tyhoesgen/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Ty Hoesgen:
There's a famous scene from the show The Office, if any of your listeners have seen the office, and it's Michael Scott, who is the head boss there, and he says, Sometimes I just start a sentence. And I don't really know where it's going. But I just hope I find it along the way. 
And that's what a lot of people seem to do, especially in the corporate world, when it matters the most, to be clear, to have people understand, to be persuasive to be powerful.
And so one of the biggest mistakes is just having no structure, no organization, in the way that you are explaining something, you're just rolling the dice and hoping for the best when you open your mouth.
-----
So how can someone better structure their message?
 
This is something that should absolutely be taught in schools structuring your message. So first, what is your intended message? This is something that you should know, before you start speaking. I teach a framework that a lot of my clients find very easy, and they find it very useful.
It's called the PRP framework. So it's point. Reason. Point. It's very simple. If you get asked a question, you start with your main point first.
So your intended message first, what's really the main thing you want them to know? Then the reasons so why do you think this? Where did this point come from? Why do you believe this? And so you give your reasons for that. And then because people tend to hear and remember the things that they hear first, and the things that they hear last the most.
Whereas you want to restate our point at the end, because we want the last thing they hear to be that main message. So we've got our point, first, than our reason or reasons.
And we restate it with a point at the end, the Restatement at the end, very underrated and necessary. Because if you ever been in a situation where the conversation just kind of gets off track, sometimes that's because somebody has ended their point with something that's a little bit off. And people respond to whatever they hear most recently.
So if we restate the main point, at the end, it's a lot less likely those conversations are going to get off track.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Helping managers become executive leaders
Leading is different from managing
<p>Episode 212 (Vanessa is based in Toronto, Canada)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Vanessa Judelman we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The three aspects of being strategic</li>
<li>How to conduct an accountability meeting</li>
<li>The power of regular one-on-one meetings with your people</li>
<li>How to build trust with your team</li>
<li>How to become a leader who coaches your team</li>
<li>Why and how to become a better listener</li>
<li>How to delegate effectively </li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Vanessa Judelman:</p>
<p>Vanessa is a leadership consultant and executive coach. Over the past 20 years she has trained and coached thousands of people across the globe in organizations including Campbells Soup, HelloFresh, the SickKids Foundation and the Four Seasons Hotels and Resorts.</p>
<p>Learn more about her book </p>
<p>"Mastering Leadership: What it Takes to Lead in Today's Fast Paced World" at: <a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.mosaicpd.com%2F&amp;data=05%7C02%7C%7C946f87ac10cf41ca4fef08dc660655b5%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638497424616733431%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=4o0iozk36AxryjFX8v6udbLmpfW5c5NTR%2BGdUXljbQo%3D&amp;reserved=0'>www.mosaicpd.com </a>     </p>
<p>------</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Vanessa Yudelman:</p>
<p>And I just want to develop the muscle of listening because I it's not something that we were taught at school.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>I always tell leaders, first of all, think about your intention for the meeting. Why do you want to meet with them?</p>
<p>Is it an accountability meeting where you want to make sure they're, they're moving their goals forward? Is it a coaching meeting, where this is someone who's new, and you want to develop them? Like, what's the purpose?</p>
<p>So that's the first place to start is, so I would recommend you identify the purpose, then share it with your team? You know, a lot of leaders think that just because they're a leader, they have to have all the answers. And I always say that's not true.</p>
<p> You, as a leader need to have the questions.</p>
<p>You don't necessarily need to have the answers. So say to your team, hey, you know, I really feel like I'm not getting you're new to the team and not giving you enough time to develop your skill in this area. And so I was thinking we could do a one on one.</p>
<p>Would that be helpful for you? Again, check in? Oh, yeah, that'd be great. Okay, let's do the agenda together. Here's what I was thinking. I was thinking, like, I always asked, you know, what the suggestion I was thinking we could talk about, you know, this certain skill, what did you do to work on the skill last week?</p>
<p>What are some of your gaps, what support you need for me? Right. And so again, it's a lot of questions. And by giving them the agenda in advance, people know what to expect, and they can prepare for the meeting.</p>
<p>So they know, every Monday, you know, my leader is going to ask me what I did to work on the skill last week, and where I'm still feeling stuck. So you can either Yeah, so those are a couple of suggestions to get those meetings started.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Helping managers become executive leaders
Leading is different from managing
<p>Episode 212 (Vanessa is based in Toronto, Canada)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Vanessa Judelman we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The three aspects of being strategic</li>
<li>How to conduct an accountability meeting</li>
<li>The power of regular one-on-one meetings with your people</li>
<li>How to build trust with your team</li>
<li>How to become a leader who coaches your team</li>
<li>Why and how to become a better listener</li>
<li>How to delegate effectively </li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Vanessa Judelman:</p>
<p>Vanessa is a leadership consultant and executive coach. Over the past 20 years she has trained and coached thousands of people across the globe in organizations including Campbells Soup, HelloFresh, the SickKids Foundation and the Four Seasons Hotels and Resorts.</p>
<p>Learn more about her book </p>
<p>"Mastering Leadership: What it Takes to Lead in Today's Fast Paced World" at: <a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.mosaicpd.com%2F&amp;data=05%7C02%7C%7C946f87ac10cf41ca4fef08dc660655b5%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638497424616733431%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=4o0iozk36AxryjFX8v6udbLmpfW5c5NTR%2BGdUXljbQo%3D&amp;reserved=0'>www.mosaicpd.com </a>     </p>
<p>------</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Vanessa Yudelman:</p>
<p>And I just want to develop the muscle of listening because I it's not something that we were taught at school.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>I always tell leaders, first of all, think about your intention for the meeting. Why do you want to meet with them?</p>
<p>Is it an accountability meeting where you want to make sure they're, they're moving their goals forward? Is it a coaching meeting, where this is someone who's new, and you want to develop them? Like, what's the purpose?</p>
<p>So that's the first place to start is, so I would recommend you identify the purpose, then share it with your team? You know, a lot of leaders think that just because they're a leader, they have to have all the answers. And I always say that's not true.</p>
<p> You, as a leader need to have the questions.</p>
<p>You don't necessarily need to have the answers. So say to your team, hey, you know, I really feel like I'm not getting you're new to the team and not giving you enough time to develop your skill in this area. And so I was thinking we could do a one on one.</p>
<p>Would that be helpful for you? Again, check in? Oh, yeah, that'd be great. Okay, let's do the agenda together. Here's what I was thinking. I was thinking, like, I always asked, you know, what the suggestion I was thinking we could talk about, you know, this certain skill, what did you do to work on the skill last week?</p>
<p>What are some of your gaps, what support you need for me? Right. And so again, it's a lot of questions. And by giving them the agenda in advance, people know what to expect, and they can prepare for the meeting.</p>
<p>So they know, every Monday, you know, my leader is going to ask me what I did to work on the skill last week, and where I'm still feeling stuck. So you can either Yeah, so those are a couple of suggestions to get those meetings started.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Helping managers become executive leaders
Leading is different from managing
Episode 212 (Vanessa is based in Toronto, Canada)
In this conversation with Vanessa Judelman we explore:
The three aspects of being strategic
How to conduct an accountability meeting
The power of regular one-on-one meetings with your people
How to build trust with your team
How to become a leader who coaches your team
Why and how to become a better listener
How to delegate effectively 
About our guest, Vanessa Judelman:
Vanessa is a leadership consultant and executive coach. Over the past 20 years she has trained and coached thousands of people across the globe in organizations including Campbells Soup, HelloFresh, the SickKids Foundation and the Four Seasons Hotels and Resorts.
Learn more about her book 
"Mastering Leadership: What it Takes to Lead in Today's Fast Paced World" at: www.mosaicpd.com      
------
Excerpts from this conversation with Vanessa Yudelman:
And I just want to develop the muscle of listening because I it's not something that we were taught at school.
-----
I always tell leaders, first of all, think about your intention for the meeting. Why do you want to meet with them?
Is it an accountability meeting where you want to make sure they're, they're moving their goals forward? Is it a coaching meeting, where this is someone who's new, and you want to develop them? Like, what's the purpose?
So that's the first place to start is, so I would recommend you identify the purpose, then share it with your team? You know, a lot of leaders think that just because they're a leader, they have to have all the answers. And I always say that's not true.
 You, as a leader need to have the questions.
You don't necessarily need to have the answers. So say to your team, hey, you know, I really feel like I'm not getting you're new to the team and not giving you enough time to develop your skill in this area. And so I was thinking we could do a one on one.
Would that be helpful for you? Again, check in? Oh, yeah, that'd be great. Okay, let's do the agenda together. Here's what I was thinking. I was thinking, like, I always asked, you know, what the suggestion I was thinking we could talk about, you know, this certain skill, what did you do to work on the skill last week?
What are some of your gaps, what support you need for me? Right. And so again, it's a lot of questions. And by giving them the agenda in advance, people know what to expect, and they can prepare for the meeting.
So they know, every Monday, you know, my leader is going to ask me what I did to work on the skill last week, and where I'm still feeling stuck. So you can either Yeah, so those are a couple of suggestions to get those meetings started.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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        <itunes:title>Are You an Entrepreneur with ADHD? ST Rappaport</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to improve your thinking skills regardless of your strengths
Strengths and opportunities for ADHD entrepreneurs
<p>Episode 211 (ST is based in Florida)</p>
<p>In this conversation with ST Rappaport we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Appreciating the 28 thinking skills</li>
<li>How to recognize ADHD challenges</li>
<li>How to deal with overwhelm</li>
<li>How to leverage our five senses to organize new information</li>
<li>The three phases of thinking and how to </li>
<li>Why ADHD people can be the movers and shakers</li>
<li>How to use curious questions and learning to keep your brain young</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, St Rappaport:</p>
Been studying how the brain thinks (&amp; what we can do to improve it) since the age of 11
Always looking to solve the root cause of any issue (instead of just putting on a band aid)
Absolutely love learning but not school. Dropped out of school at 16 
 
ST Rappaport
Helping ADHD entrepreneurs optimize their brain so growing their business is easier.
Grab your copy of <a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.lifepixuniversity.com%2Fguide&amp;data=05%7C02%7C%7C9589d7f58e1b4e8dcb8608dc55273f3d%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638478874300813174%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=h%2FFkxxKUH8UcBsDYNBaiT1s%2FzwqlQ%2BuQ%2FJpqXYVi%2BJU%3D&amp;reserved=0'>Your Essential Guide to Cognitive Functions</a>
 
Free Thinking Skills Assessment: <a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.lifepixuniversity.com%2Fbrain&amp;data=05%7C02%7C%7C9589d7f58e1b4e8dcb8608dc55273f3d%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638478874300784539%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=dcADNaI%2Bo0JAJ1s99L8XjrtUrEv4wuBUu0%2F%2BFaeXWko%3D&amp;reserved=0'>www.lifepixuniversity.com/brain</a>
 


<p> </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with ST Rappaport:</p>
I think that people with ADHD are the real movers and shakers of this world. Anyone who's done anything really big in this world, most definitely has ADHD. And I just love being around such people.
<p>-----</p>
<p>And sometimes it's a good idea not to consider all the details, because if you did, it would overwhelm you and scare you.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Do you believe that people can multitask? </p>
<p>No.</p>
<p>What we do is we task switch. Yes, we are switching tasks really, really quickly from tasks that is includes if you have ADHD, and a lot of people think they have ADHD, and they can multitask really well.</p>
<p>But if you observe yourself, what you're actually doing is you're switching from task to task really, really quickly. only exception to this is when you're doing a task that doesn't require brainpower.</p>
<p>Then let's say for example, if you're driving driving down the highway, 60 miles an hour, and it's like, just not thinking and you have a podcast playing, you could still be listening to your intended message, right?</p>
<p>You're still listening to the podcast. However, if out of nowhere, a car comes and cuts you off. Or all of a sudden, like there's a bike that like a pedestrian or something that you think you weren't expecting those few seconds to settle and stop and you were focused on the road,</p>
<p>You're more focused on the road, your brain didn't hear what was in that podcast, you will literally if you want to hear what was said, we'll have to go back there a couple of seconds to hear it because your brain was shut off.</p>
<p>So you can multitask until one of the things don't need brain power.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>You want to make sure you are always, always always always doing new and challenging tasks. If you want to keep your brain young, you want to do new and challenging,</p>
<p>not just new and not just challenging, but those two together, those are the best way for you to keep your brain young and provide any of the elderly diseases that none of us want related to the brain.</p>
<p>-------</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to improve your thinking skills regardless of your strengths
Strengths and opportunities for ADHD entrepreneurs
<p>Episode 211 (ST is based in Florida)</p>
<p>In this conversation with ST Rappaport we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Appreciating the 28 thinking skills</li>
<li>How to recognize ADHD challenges</li>
<li>How to deal with overwhelm</li>
<li>How to leverage our five senses to organize new information</li>
<li>The three phases of thinking and how to </li>
<li>Why ADHD people can be the movers and shakers</li>
<li>How to use curious questions and learning to keep your brain young</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, St Rappaport:</p>
Been studying how the brain thinks (&amp; what we can do to improve it) since the age of 11
Always looking to solve the root cause of any issue (instead of just putting on a band aid)
Absolutely love learning but not school. Dropped out of school at 16 
 
ST Rappaport
<em>Helping ADHD entrepreneurs optimize their brain so growing their business is easier.</em>
Grab your copy of <a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.lifepixuniversity.com%2Fguide&amp;data=05%7C02%7C%7C9589d7f58e1b4e8dcb8608dc55273f3d%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638478874300813174%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=h%2FFkxxKUH8UcBsDYNBaiT1s%2FzwqlQ%2BuQ%2FJpqXYVi%2BJU%3D&amp;reserved=0'>Your Essential Guide to Cognitive Functions</a>
 
Free Thinking Skills Assessment: <a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.lifepixuniversity.com%2Fbrain&amp;data=05%7C02%7C%7C9589d7f58e1b4e8dcb8608dc55273f3d%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638478874300784539%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=dcADNaI%2Bo0JAJ1s99L8XjrtUrEv4wuBUu0%2F%2BFaeXWko%3D&amp;reserved=0'>www.lifepixuniversity.com/brain</a>
 


<p> </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with ST Rappaport:</p>
I think that people with ADHD are the real movers and shakers of this world. Anyone who's done anything really big in this world, most definitely has ADHD. And I just love being around such people.
<p>-----</p>
<p>And sometimes it's a good idea not to consider all the details, because if you did, it would overwhelm you and scare you.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Do you believe that people can multitask? </p>
<p>No.</p>
<p>What we do is we task switch. Yes, we are switching tasks really, really quickly from tasks that is includes if you have ADHD, and a lot of people think they have ADHD, and they can multitask really well.</p>
<p>But if you observe yourself, what you're actually doing is you're switching from task to task really, really quickly. only exception to this is when you're doing a task that doesn't require brainpower.</p>
<p>Then let's say for example, if you're driving driving down the highway, 60 miles an hour, and it's like, just not thinking and you have a podcast playing, you could still be listening to your intended message, right?</p>
<p>You're still listening to the podcast. However, if out of nowhere, a car comes and cuts you off. Or all of a sudden, like there's a bike that like a pedestrian or something that you think you weren't expecting those few seconds to settle and stop and you were focused on the road,</p>
<p>You're more focused on the road, your brain didn't hear what was in that podcast, you will literally if you want to hear what was said, we'll have to go back there a couple of seconds to hear it because your brain was shut off.</p>
<p>So you can multitask until one of the things don't need brain power.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>You want to make sure you are always, always always always doing new and challenging tasks. If you want to keep your brain young, you want to do new and challenging,</p>
<p>not just new and not just challenging, but those two together, those are the best way for you to keep your brain young and provide any of the elderly diseases that none of us want related to the brain.</p>
<p>-------</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to improve your thinking skills regardless of your strengths
Strengths and opportunities for ADHD entrepreneurs
Episode 211 (ST is based in Florida)
In this conversation with ST Rappaport we explore:
Appreciating the 28 thinking skills
How to recognize ADHD challenges
How to deal with overwhelm
How to leverage our five senses to organize new information
The three phases of thinking and how to 
Why ADHD people can be the movers and shakers
How to use curious questions and learning to keep your brain young
About our guest, St Rappaport:
Been studying how the brain thinks (&amp; what we can do to improve it) since the age of 11
Always looking to solve the root cause of any issue (instead of just putting on a band aid)
Absolutely love learning but not school. Dropped out of school at 16 
 
ST Rappaport
Helping ADHD entrepreneurs optimize their brain so growing their business is easier.
Grab your copy of Your Essential Guide to Cognitive Functions
 
Free Thinking Skills Assessment: www.lifepixuniversity.com/brain
 


 
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with ST Rappaport:
I think that people with ADHD are the real movers and shakers of this world. Anyone who's done anything really big in this world, most definitely has ADHD. And I just love being around such people.
-----
And sometimes it's a good idea not to consider all the details, because if you did, it would overwhelm you and scare you.
-----
Do you believe that people can multitask? 
No.
What we do is we task switch. Yes, we are switching tasks really, really quickly from tasks that is includes if you have ADHD, and a lot of people think they have ADHD, and they can multitask really well.
But if you observe yourself, what you're actually doing is you're switching from task to task really, really quickly. only exception to this is when you're doing a task that doesn't require brainpower.
Then let's say for example, if you're driving driving down the highway, 60 miles an hour, and it's like, just not thinking and you have a podcast playing, you could still be listening to your intended message, right?
You're still listening to the podcast. However, if out of nowhere, a car comes and cuts you off. Or all of a sudden, like there's a bike that like a pedestrian or something that you think you weren't expecting those few seconds to settle and stop and you were focused on the road,
You're more focused on the road, your brain didn't hear what was in that podcast, you will literally if you want to hear what was said, we'll have to go back there a couple of seconds to hear it because your brain was shut off.
So you can multitask until one of the things don't need brain power.
-----
You want to make sure you are always, always always always doing new and challenging tasks. If you want to keep your brain young, you want to do new and challenging,
not just new and not just challenging, but those two together, those are the best way for you to keep your brain young and provide any of the elderly diseases that none of us want related to the brain.
-------
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to promote your business with video
What are your video choices?
<p>Episode 209 (Mark is based in Austin, Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Mark Wonderlin we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Where to start with simple phone videos</li>
<li>What are the different types of videos you can publish for your business</li>
<li>Why value in the video content is more important than quality</li>
<li>The best uses of selfie videos vs professional videos</li>
<li>Understand the intent of viewers on the different social media</li>
<li>How long to make your video depending on the platform</li>
<li>How to split a longer video into to short videos in a funnel</li>
<li>How to start by shooting your own video</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Mark Wonderlin:</p>
<p>Mark is owner of Mosaic Media Films, the highest-rated video company in Austin Texas.</p>
<p>His team creates cinematic business videos with marketing in mind.</p>
<p>He loves to travel and much as he loves creating video content.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>You can access the free video resources at his site</p>
<p><a href='https://mosaicmediafilms.com/resources/'>https://mosaicmediafilms.com/resources/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Mark Wonderlin:</p>
<p>What kind of videos should they be producing at first? Where do you start that?</p>
<p>So most of the time, when clients are looking for video from us, they're looking for typically what's called a business promo video. And that's usually where we try to steer them.</p>
<p>So the conversation that we have about video is a little bit different than most other production companies out there. I really want to understand what are you doing for marketing? what's working, what's not working?</p>
<p>What is the problem we're trying to solve that this type of video or other types of videos will help solve in your marketing strategy. So sometimes it's a promo video, sometimes it's a case story, or testimonial video, sometimes it's a series of videos that work in your funnel to increase trust and credibility.</p>
<p>So we really try to understand what is the problem that they have? And how can video what type of video will work, or what series of videos will really help them.</p>
<p>The two most popular videos that we do is what's called a business promo video. Some people call it a company video, some people call it a Brand Story Video, it's essentially a two minute video that tells the story about what you do, and what makes you uniquely different.</p>
<p>And I say tells the story about you very lightly, because I often have to explain to clients that it's not really a story about you, as much as is a story about your customers journey.</p>
<p>So it's really about what is the problem or the pain that your customer has? How could you uniquely solve that? And what does their life look like, once you've worked with them.</p>
<p>And that's really what you want to do. Because However, people are seeking you out with your primary marketing objectives, whether it's SEO, or pay per click or social, when they come into your business or brand, they essentially are acknowledging that they have a problem. And they want to make sure that you can kind of solve that problem.</p>
<p>They're there's a story that they're already playing in their head, and they want someone that's gonna help change and transform that story, whether it's in the form of a product for a result that they want, or a service, or an objective that they're trying to achieve in their life, whether it's their business, or personally.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to promote your business with video
What are your video choices?
<p>Episode 209 (Mark is based in Austin, Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Mark Wonderlin we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Where to start with simple phone videos</li>
<li>What are the different types of videos you can publish for your business</li>
<li>Why value in the video content is more important than quality</li>
<li>The best uses of selfie videos vs professional videos</li>
<li>Understand the intent of viewers on the different social media</li>
<li>How long to make your video depending on the platform</li>
<li>How to split a longer video into to short videos in a funnel</li>
<li>How to start by shooting your own video</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Mark Wonderlin:</p>
<p>Mark is owner of Mosaic Media Films, the highest-rated video company in Austin Texas.</p>
<p>His team creates cinematic business videos with marketing in mind.</p>
<p>He loves to travel and much as he loves creating video content.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>You can access the free video resources at his site</p>
<p><a href='https://mosaicmediafilms.com/resources/'>https://mosaicmediafilms.com/resources/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Mark Wonderlin:</p>
<p>What kind of videos should they be producing at first? Where do you start that?</p>
<p>So most of the time, when clients are looking for video from us, they're looking for typically what's called a business promo video. And that's usually where we try to steer them.</p>
<p>So the conversation that we have about video is a little bit different than most other production companies out there. I really want to understand what are you doing for marketing? what's working, what's not working?</p>
<p>What is the problem we're trying to solve that this type of video or other types of videos will help solve in your marketing strategy. So sometimes it's a promo video, sometimes it's a case story, or testimonial video, sometimes it's a series of videos that work in your funnel to increase trust and credibility.</p>
<p>So we really try to understand what is the problem that they have? And how can video what type of video will work, or what series of videos will really help them.</p>
<p>The two most popular videos that we do is what's called a business promo video. Some people call it a company video, some people call it a Brand Story Video, it's essentially a two minute video that tells the story about what you do, and what makes you uniquely different.</p>
<p>And I say tells the story about you very lightly, because I often have to explain to clients that it's not really a story about you, as much as is a story about your customers journey.</p>
<p>So it's really about what is the problem or the pain that your customer has? How could you uniquely solve that? And what does their life look like, once you've worked with them.</p>
<p>And that's really what you want to do. Because However, people are seeking you out with your primary marketing objectives, whether it's SEO, or pay per click or social, when they come into your business or brand, they essentially are acknowledging that they have a problem. And they want to make sure that you can kind of solve that problem.</p>
<p>They're there's a story that they're already playing in their head, and they want someone that's gonna help change and transform that story, whether it's in the form of a product for a result that they want, or a service, or an objective that they're trying to achieve in their life, whether it's their business, or personally.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to promote your business with video
What are your video choices?
Episode 209 (Mark is based in Austin, Texas)
In this conversation with Mark Wonderlin we explore:
Where to start with simple phone videos
What are the different types of videos you can publish for your business
Why value in the video content is more important than quality
The best uses of selfie videos vs professional videos
Understand the intent of viewers on the different social media
How long to make your video depending on the platform
How to split a longer video into to short videos in a funnel
How to start by shooting your own video
About our guest, Mark Wonderlin:
Mark is owner of Mosaic Media Films, the highest-rated video company in Austin Texas.
His team creates cinematic business videos with marketing in mind.
He loves to travel and much as he loves creating video content.
-----
You can access the free video resources at his site
https://mosaicmediafilms.com/resources/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Mark Wonderlin:
What kind of videos should they be producing at first? Where do you start that?
So most of the time, when clients are looking for video from us, they're looking for typically what's called a business promo video. And that's usually where we try to steer them.
So the conversation that we have about video is a little bit different than most other production companies out there. I really want to understand what are you doing for marketing? what's working, what's not working?
What is the problem we're trying to solve that this type of video or other types of videos will help solve in your marketing strategy. So sometimes it's a promo video, sometimes it's a case story, or testimonial video, sometimes it's a series of videos that work in your funnel to increase trust and credibility.
So we really try to understand what is the problem that they have? And how can video what type of video will work, or what series of videos will really help them.
The two most popular videos that we do is what's called a business promo video. Some people call it a company video, some people call it a Brand Story Video, it's essentially a two minute video that tells the story about what you do, and what makes you uniquely different.
And I say tells the story about you very lightly, because I often have to explain to clients that it's not really a story about you, as much as is a story about your customers journey.
So it's really about what is the problem or the pain that your customer has? How could you uniquely solve that? And what does their life look like, once you've worked with them.
And that's really what you want to do. Because However, people are seeking you out with your primary marketing objectives, whether it's SEO, or pay per click or social, when they come into your business or brand, they essentially are acknowledging that they have a problem. And they want to make sure that you can kind of solve that problem.
They're there's a story that they're already playing in their head, and they want someone that's gonna help change and transform that story, whether it's in the form of a product for a result that they want, or a service, or an objective that they're trying to achieve in their life, whether it's their business, or personally.
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In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
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                                    <description><![CDATA[If you had to choose between feeling confident or appearing confident what would you choose?
<p>Listen in to discover the answer and why it is important to you.</p>
<p>In this solo show George offers you a whole body. mind and soul experience to enhance your confidence.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Insights from this episode about feeling and appearing confidence when you speak in public.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>These quotes from your episode were generated by Headliner AI. If you enjoy them please tell other podcasters by giving a shoutout to https://headliner.app in your episode ✨</p>
<p>---</p>
<p>🗣️ Quotes from George Torok</p>
"How can you be more confident when it's your turn to speak?"
"It's more important that you appear confident."
"The audience doesn't need to know what's going on in your head or in your body."
"Clarify your purpose by asking yourself this three-part question: As a result of this presentation, what do you want people to think, feel, or do?"
"Don't read it, know it, and then deliver it."
"Remember to breathe."
"When you smile, you are more attractive."
"Believe in yourself and your ability."
"Your message has value."
<p>---</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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<p>Listen in to discover the answer and why it is important to you.</p>
<p>In this solo show George offers you a whole body. mind and soul experience to enhance your confidence.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Insights from this episode about feeling and appearing confidence when you speak in public.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>These quotes from your episode were generated by Headliner AI. If you enjoy them please tell other podcasters by giving a shoutout to https://headliner.app in your episode ✨</p>
<p>---</p>
<p>🗣️ Quotes from George Torok</p>
"How can you be more confident when it's your turn to speak?"
"It's more important that you appear confident."
"The audience doesn't need to know what's going on in your head or in your body."
"Clarify your purpose by asking yourself this three-part question: As a result of this presentation, what do you want people to think, feel, or do?"
"Don't read it, know it, and then deliver it."
"Remember to breathe."
"When you smile, you are more attractive."
"Believe in yourself and your ability."
"Your message has value."
<p>---</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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Listen in to discover the answer and why it is important to you.
In this solo show George offers you a whole body. mind and soul experience to enhance your confidence.
 
Insights from this episode about feeling and appearing confidence when you speak in public.
 
These quotes from your episode were generated by Headliner AI. If you enjoy them please tell other podcasters by giving a shoutout to https://headliner.app in your episode ✨
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🗣️ Quotes from George Torok
"How can you be more confident when it's your turn to speak?"
"It's more important that you appear confident."
"The audience doesn't need to know what's going on in your head or in your body."
"Clarify your purpose by asking yourself this three-part question: As a result of this presentation, what do you want people to think, feel, or do?"
"Don't read it, know it, and then deliver it."
"Remember to breathe."
"When you smile, you are more attractive."
"Believe in yourself and your ability."
"Your message has value."
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In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
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https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Everything begins with a conversation
A solid conversation starts with trust
<p>Episode 207 ( Mary is based in Minnesota)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Mary Schmid we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why do 9 out of 10 conversations fail?</li>
<li>How are the chemical releases in the brain shaping your feelings?</li>
<li>Why we don't trust when we are stressed or threatened</li>
<li>Why we don't make pure logical decisions</li>
<li>The three levels of conversation</li>
<li>How to move conversation to cooperation</li>
<li>How to lead with trust</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Mary Schmid:</p>
<p class="text-break" style="margin-top: 0cm;">Mary Schmid, MBA, has expertise in trust-based conversations. As the author of “Make or Break Conversations,” she offers valuable insights rooted in neuroscience. </p>
<p class="text-break" style="margin-top: 0cm;">With her deep understanding of evidence-based neuroscience, Mary delivers transformative programs that elevate good conversation to trust building interactions. </p>
<p class="text-break" style="margin-top: 0cm;">Mary’s unique ability lies in translating scientific knowledge into practical, actionable steps that you can apply in your next conversation, ensuring others feel heard, seen, and valued.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Connect with Mary on Linkedin</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryschmid/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryschmid/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Learn more about her services at the website</p>
<p><a href='https://maryschmid.com/'>https://maryschmid.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Highlights from this conversation with Mary Schmid:</p>
Practice active listening skills like paraphrasing, asking open questions, and summarizing to build understanding.
Slow down conversations and take time to discover other perspectives before deciding on solutions.
Prepare for difficult conversations by getting clarity on the purpose and considering different perspectives.
Use plain language instead of jargon to be understood and build connection.
Get to know team members personally before instituting changes as a new leader.
<p>-----</p>
<p>Exactly. And what really happened in the brain before those good feelings, feeling in sync is that something happened in that conversation, who knows what it is, it's verbal, it's nonverbal is a feeling or a memory that you've had talking to a person perhaps like this person that was good, it just felt good.</p>
<p>What really happened is your brain sensed respect, safety. And all of a sudden, it opened up. So what happened is when your brain senses this respect, and safety and going back and forth, talking with each other, there's a chemical release called oxytocin.</p>
<p>And oxytocin opens up the prefrontal cortex, the smart part of our brain, the executive part of our brain that's responsible for innovation, problem solving, connection, cost, and it feels like a good conversation.</p>
<p>But what happens preceding that feeling like it was a good conversation was this invisible chemical reaction that happens in your brain, and my brain and the brain of all humans.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>There's three levels of conversation, and one is not better than the other. That's what people immediately think like, Oh, my God, I know that we need to understand the three levels, and how we can use them and how they impact the people so that our intended message reaches the people rather than go astray.</p>
<p>So the first level of conversation is what I call an informational conversation. We use it all day long. In our life, you ask a question, I give an answer. Here's, where's the meeting? What time is this? What's where do we go for that? Question? Answer? That's fine. Sometimes that's all we need is to get the question answered, and get the information.</p>
<p>However, when we're in conversations, when we're in meetings with other people, I think we need we may need more than just a question and answer to build trust. Because data, information, logic does not build trust. So we're in a meeting, perhaps, and we ask a few questions, you know, we're not totally blind to other people.</p>
<p>So we ask a few questions. And what our brain does is it automatically says, Oh, I know the answer. I'm going to tell them. So with a few pieces of information, a little bit of data, lickety split, away we go, we talk to people and tell people what to do based on a limited amount of information.</p>
<p>And we think that's going to do the trick. We're thinking that we're being helpful, but we're really not we're shutting them down. And so we not only tell them what to do, we are really helpful, George, and we're going to tell them how they need to do it.</p>
<p>------</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Everything begins with a conversation
A solid conversation starts with trust
<p>Episode 207 ( Mary is based in Minnesota)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Mary Schmid we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why do 9 out of 10 conversations fail?</li>
<li>How are the chemical releases in the brain shaping your feelings?</li>
<li>Why we don't trust when we are stressed or threatened</li>
<li>Why we don't make pure logical decisions</li>
<li>The three levels of conversation</li>
<li>How to move conversation to cooperation</li>
<li>How to lead with trust</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Mary Schmid:</p>
<p class="text-break" style="margin-top: 0cm;">Mary Schmid, MBA, has expertise in trust-based conversations. As the author of “Make or Break Conversations,” she offers valuable insights rooted in neuroscience. </p>
<p class="text-break" style="margin-top: 0cm;">With her deep understanding of evidence-based neuroscience, Mary delivers transformative programs that elevate good conversation to trust building interactions. </p>
<p class="text-break" style="margin-top: 0cm;">Mary’s unique ability lies in translating scientific knowledge into practical, actionable steps that you can apply in your next conversation, ensuring others feel heard, seen, and valued.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Connect with Mary on Linkedin</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryschmid/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryschmid/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Learn more about her services at the website</p>
<p><a href='https://maryschmid.com/'>https://maryschmid.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Highlights from this conversation with Mary Schmid:</p>
Practice active listening skills like paraphrasing, asking open questions, and summarizing to build understanding.
Slow down conversations and take time to discover other perspectives before deciding on solutions.
Prepare for difficult conversations by getting clarity on the purpose and considering different perspectives.
Use plain language instead of jargon to be understood and build connection.
Get to know team members personally before instituting changes as a new leader.
<p>-----</p>
<p>Exactly. And what really happened in the brain before those good feelings, feeling in sync is that something happened in that conversation, who knows what it is, it's verbal, it's nonverbal is a feeling or a memory that you've had talking to a person perhaps like this person that was good, it just felt good.</p>
<p>What really happened is your brain sensed respect, safety. And all of a sudden, it opened up. So what happened is when your brain senses this respect, and safety and going back and forth, talking with each other, there's a chemical release called oxytocin.</p>
<p>And oxytocin opens up the prefrontal cortex, the smart part of our brain, the executive part of our brain that's responsible for innovation, problem solving, connection, cost, and it feels like a good conversation.</p>
<p>But what happens preceding that feeling like it was a good conversation was this invisible chemical reaction that happens in your brain, and my brain and the brain of all humans.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>There's three levels of conversation, and one is not better than the other. That's what people immediately think like, Oh, my God, I know that we need to understand the three levels, and how we can use them and how they impact the people so that our intended message reaches the people rather than go astray.</p>
<p>So the first level of conversation is what I call an informational conversation. We use it all day long. In our life, you ask a question, I give an answer. Here's, where's the meeting? What time is this? What's where do we go for that? Question? Answer? That's fine. Sometimes that's all we need is to get the question answered, and get the information.</p>
<p>However, when we're in conversations, when we're in meetings with other people, I think we need we may need more than just a question and answer to build trust. Because data, information, logic does not build trust. So we're in a meeting, perhaps, and we ask a few questions, you know, we're not totally blind to other people.</p>
<p>So we ask a few questions. And what our brain does is it automatically says, Oh, I know the answer. I'm going to tell them. So with a few pieces of information, a little bit of data, lickety split, away we go, we talk to people and tell people what to do based on a limited amount of information.</p>
<p>And we think that's going to do the trick. We're thinking that we're being helpful, but we're really not we're shutting them down. And so we not only tell them what to do, we are really helpful, George, and we're going to tell them how they need to do it.</p>
<p>------</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Everything begins with a conversation
A solid conversation starts with trust
Episode 207 ( Mary is based in Minnesota)
In this conversation with Mary Schmid we explore:
Why do 9 out of 10 conversations fail?
How are the chemical releases in the brain shaping your feelings?
Why we don't trust when we are stressed or threatened
Why we don't make pure logical decisions
The three levels of conversation
How to move conversation to cooperation
How to lead with trust
About our guest, Mary Schmid:
Mary Schmid, MBA, has expertise in trust-based conversations. As the author of “Make or Break Conversations,” she offers valuable insights rooted in neuroscience. 
With her deep understanding of evidence-based neuroscience, Mary delivers transformative programs that elevate good conversation to trust building interactions. 
Mary’s unique ability lies in translating scientific knowledge into practical, actionable steps that you can apply in your next conversation, ensuring others feel heard, seen, and valued.
-----
Connect with Mary on Linkedin
https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryschmid/
 
Learn more about her services at the website
https://maryschmid.com/
-----
Highlights from this conversation with Mary Schmid:
Practice active listening skills like paraphrasing, asking open questions, and summarizing to build understanding.
Slow down conversations and take time to discover other perspectives before deciding on solutions.
Prepare for difficult conversations by getting clarity on the purpose and considering different perspectives.
Use plain language instead of jargon to be understood and build connection.
Get to know team members personally before instituting changes as a new leader.
-----
Exactly. And what really happened in the brain before those good feelings, feeling in sync is that something happened in that conversation, who knows what it is, it's verbal, it's nonverbal is a feeling or a memory that you've had talking to a person perhaps like this person that was good, it just felt good.
What really happened is your brain sensed respect, safety. And all of a sudden, it opened up. So what happened is when your brain senses this respect, and safety and going back and forth, talking with each other, there's a chemical release called oxytocin.
And oxytocin opens up the prefrontal cortex, the smart part of our brain, the executive part of our brain that's responsible for innovation, problem solving, connection, cost, and it feels like a good conversation.
But what happens preceding that feeling like it was a good conversation was this invisible chemical reaction that happens in your brain, and my brain and the brain of all humans.
-----
There's three levels of conversation, and one is not better than the other. That's what people immediately think like, Oh, my God, I know that we need to understand the three levels, and how we can use them and how they impact the people so that our intended message reaches the people rather than go astray.
So the first level of conversation is what I call an informational conversation. We use it all day long. In our life, you ask a question, I give an answer. Here's, where's the meeting? What time is this? What's where do we go for that? Question? Answer? That's fine. Sometimes that's all we need is to get the question answered, and get the information.
However, when we're in conversations, when we're in meetings with other people, I think we need we may need more than just a question and answer to build trust. Because data, information, logic does not build trust. So we're in a meeting, perhaps, and we ask a few questions, you know, we're not totally blind to other people.
So we ask a few questions. And what our brain does is it automatically says, Oh, I know the answer. I'm going to tell them. So with a few pieces of information, a little bit of data, lickety split, away we go, we talk to people and tell people what to do based on a limited amount of information.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to Turn Words into Wealth
How to meet the needs of your three brain barriers
<p>Episode 206 (Aurora is based in Vancouver)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Aurora Winter we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How does the brain understand words</li>
<li>The wrong way to communicate</li>
<li>The three levels of brain activity</li>
<li>The critical role of the croc brain</li>
<li>The connection between the mid brain and cerebral cortex</li>
<li>The 27x effect of adding a story of significance</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Aurora Winter:</p>
<p>She's the award winning Best Selling Author of half a dozen books, including Turn Words into Wealth, A blueprint for your business brand and book to create multiple streams of income and impact</p>
<p>Aurora learned how to reinvent herself and her life the hard way, when her 33 year old husband died suddenly leaving her widowed with a four year old son.</p>
<p>She later learned how to master reinvention and pivoting and has launched three different businesses in different industries, which grew each to over seven figures.</p>
<p>Learn more about Aurora and her services at:</p>
<p><a href='https://www.aurorawinter.com/'>https://www.aurorawinter.com/</a></p>
<p>Check out her latest fiction books at</p>
<p><a href='https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/magicmystery/fantasy-novel-magic-mystery-and-the-multiverse'>MagicMysteryAndtheMultiverse.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Aurora Winter</p>
<p>"It's our heart that provides the meaning and purpose and the values."</p>
<p>"The right words in the right sequence, to the right audience, can change your mind, can change your business, can change your wealth in 20 minutes or less."</p>
<p>"Human beings survived over the millennia by being cautious about where they want to expend calories or expend fat. The brain uses a lot of fat to process information."</p>
<p>"We buy with emotion, we take action with emotion, either something we want to move toward or something we want to move away from."</p>
<p>"People love to be a part of something that's bigger than themselves. People are hungry for meaning and purpose."</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In the world of communication, the difference between a missed opportunity and a life-changing conversation can be as simple as choosing the right words. This week's podcast episode features Aurora Winter, a master of reinvention and a beacon of wisdom on how to leverage language for success.</p>
<p>Aurora's journey is nothing short of inspiring. From the tragic loss of her husband to building million-dollar businesses, her experiences have culminated in a profound understanding of how to craft messages that resonate. In our conversation, Aurora delves into the neuroscience of communication, explaining how the brain processes information and why this matters for anyone looking to make an impact.</p>
<p>With her book, "Turn Words into Wealth," Aurora provides a blueprint for those seeking to create influence and generate income through effective communication. She emphasizes the importance of addressing the 'croc brain' with a compelling hook, engaging the social 'midbrain', and finally, satisfying the intellectual 'cerebral cortex' with the substance of your message.</p>
<p>But it's not just about the science. Aurora's approach is deeply rooted in the heart. She believes that numbers can't provide meaning and purpose—our values and passion do. Her insights on the emotional and social triggers that drive human behavior are invaluable for anyone from entrepreneurs to leaders to aspiring professionals.</p>
<p>Listeners will find themselves armed with actionable tips, from crafting attention-grabbing titles to framing their offerings in a way that adds value and builds trust. Aurora's advice is a testament to the power of generosity and authenticity in building a brand and a legacy.</p>
<p>This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to elevate their communication game. Whether you're pitching a business idea, writing a book, or simply looking to connect more deeply with others, Aurora's guidance will help you turn your words into a wealth of opportunities.</p>
<p>So, if you're eager to learn how to articulate your mission, convey your value, and truly connect with your audience, tune in to this enlightening conversation. It's time to transform your words into a tool for unparalleled success.</p>
<p>Listen to the full episode now and join the ranks of those who know that the right message, delivered the right way, can indeed change the world.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to Turn Words into Wealth
How to meet the needs of your three brain barriers
<p>Episode 206 (Aurora is based in Vancouver)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Aurora Winter we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How does the brain understand words</li>
<li>The wrong way to communicate</li>
<li>The three levels of brain activity</li>
<li>The critical role of the croc brain</li>
<li>The connection between the mid brain and cerebral cortex</li>
<li>The 27x effect of adding a story of significance</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Aurora Winter:</p>
<p>She's the award winning Best Selling Author of half a dozen books, including Turn Words into Wealth, A blueprint for your business brand and book to create multiple streams of income and impact</p>
<p>Aurora learned how to reinvent herself and her life the hard way, when her 33 year old husband died suddenly leaving her widowed with a four year old son.</p>
<p>She later learned how to master reinvention and pivoting and has launched three different businesses in different industries, which grew each to over seven figures.</p>
<p><em>Learn more about Aurora and her services at:</em></p>
<p><a href='https://www.aurorawinter.com/'>https://www.aurorawinter.com/</a></p>
<p>Check out her latest fiction books at</p>
<p><a href='https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/magicmystery/fantasy-novel-magic-mystery-and-the-multiverse'>MagicMysteryAndtheMultiverse.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Aurora Winter</p>
<p>"It's our heart that provides the meaning and purpose and the values."</p>
<p>"The right words in the right sequence, to the right audience, can change your mind, can change your business, can change your wealth in 20 minutes or less."</p>
<p>"Human beings survived over the millennia by being cautious about where they want to expend calories or expend fat. The brain uses a lot of fat to process information."</p>
<p>"We buy with emotion, we take action with emotion, either something we want to move toward or something we want to move away from."</p>
<p>"People love to be a part of something that's bigger than themselves. People are hungry for meaning and purpose."</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In the world of communication, the difference between a missed opportunity and a life-changing conversation can be as simple as choosing the right words. This week's podcast episode features Aurora Winter, a master of reinvention and a beacon of wisdom on how to leverage language for success.</p>
<p>Aurora's journey is nothing short of inspiring. From the tragic loss of her husband to building million-dollar businesses, her experiences have culminated in a profound understanding of how to craft messages that resonate. In our conversation, Aurora delves into the neuroscience of communication, explaining how the brain processes information and why this matters for anyone looking to make an impact.</p>
<p>With her book, "Turn Words into Wealth," Aurora provides a blueprint for those seeking to create influence and generate income through effective communication. She emphasizes the importance of addressing the 'croc brain' with a compelling hook, engaging the social 'midbrain', and finally, satisfying the intellectual 'cerebral cortex' with the substance of your message.</p>
<p>But it's not just about the science. Aurora's approach is deeply rooted in the heart. She believes that numbers can't provide meaning and purpose—our values and passion do. Her insights on the emotional and social triggers that drive human behavior are invaluable for anyone from entrepreneurs to leaders to aspiring professionals.</p>
<p>Listeners will find themselves armed with actionable tips, from crafting attention-grabbing titles to framing their offerings in a way that adds value and builds trust. Aurora's advice is a testament to the power of generosity and authenticity in building a brand and a legacy.</p>
<p>This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to elevate their communication game. Whether you're pitching a business idea, writing a book, or simply looking to connect more deeply with others, Aurora's guidance will help you turn your words into a wealth of opportunities.</p>
<p>So, if you're eager to learn how to articulate your mission, convey your value, and truly connect with your audience, tune in to this enlightening conversation. It's time to transform your words into a tool for unparalleled success.</p>
<p>Listen to the full episode now and join the ranks of those who know that the right message, delivered the right way, can indeed change the world.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to Turn Words into Wealth
How to meet the needs of your three brain barriers
Episode 206 (Aurora is based in Vancouver)
In this conversation with Aurora Winter we explore:
How does the brain understand words
The wrong way to communicate
The three levels of brain activity
The critical role of the croc brain
The connection between the mid brain and cerebral cortex
The 27x effect of adding a story of significance
About our guest, Aurora Winter:
She's the award winning Best Selling Author of half a dozen books, including Turn Words into Wealth, A blueprint for your business brand and book to create multiple streams of income and impact
Aurora learned how to reinvent herself and her life the hard way, when her 33 year old husband died suddenly leaving her widowed with a four year old son.
She later learned how to master reinvention and pivoting and has launched three different businesses in different industries, which grew each to over seven figures.
Learn more about Aurora and her services at:
https://www.aurorawinter.com/
Check out her latest fiction books at
MagicMysteryAndtheMultiverse.com
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Aurora Winter
"It's our heart that provides the meaning and purpose and the values."
"The right words in the right sequence, to the right audience, can change your mind, can change your business, can change your wealth in 20 minutes or less."
"Human beings survived over the millennia by being cautious about where they want to expend calories or expend fat. The brain uses a lot of fat to process information."
"We buy with emotion, we take action with emotion, either something we want to move toward or something we want to move away from."
"People love to be a part of something that's bigger than themselves. People are hungry for meaning and purpose."
-----
In the world of communication, the difference between a missed opportunity and a life-changing conversation can be as simple as choosing the right words. This week's podcast episode features Aurora Winter, a master of reinvention and a beacon of wisdom on how to leverage language for success.
Aurora's journey is nothing short of inspiring. From the tragic loss of her husband to building million-dollar businesses, her experiences have culminated in a profound understanding of how to craft messages that resonate. In our conversation, Aurora delves into the neuroscience of communication, explaining how the brain processes information and why this matters for anyone looking to make an impact.
With her book, "Turn Words into Wealth," Aurora provides a blueprint for those seeking to create influence and generate income through effective communication. She emphasizes the importance of addressing the 'croc brain' with a compelling hook, engaging the social 'midbrain', and finally, satisfying the intellectual 'cerebral cortex' with the substance of your message.
But it's not just about the science. Aurora's approach is deeply rooted in the heart. She believes that numbers can't provide meaning and purpose—our values and passion do. Her insights on the emotional and social triggers that drive human behavior are invaluable for anyone from entrepreneurs to leaders to aspiring professionals.
Listeners will find themselves armed with actionable tips, from crafting attention-grabbing titles to framing their offerings in a way that adds value and builds trust. Aurora's advice is a testament to the power of generosity and authenticity in building a brand and a legacy.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to elevate their communication game. Whether you're pitching a business idea, writing a book, or simply looking to connect more deeply with others, Aurora's guidance will help you turn your words into a wealth of opportunities.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Why did Forbes call Geoff Ramm a Game Changer?
Why the extra mile and exceeding expectations is not enough
<p>Episode 205 (Geoff is based in north east England)</p>
<p>In this this conversation with Geoff Ramm we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What is the key question you need to ask to surpass the competition?</li>
<li>How would you treat the A list celebrity differently?</li>
<li>How would you serve George Clooney or Angelina Jolie?</li>
<li>How big or small is the gap to deliver celebrity service?</li>
<li>How to forge a strong emotional connection with your audience</li>
<li>Why is personalization and how might you apply it to your business?</li>
<li>What can you learn from successful customer service stories</li>
<li>What's the difference between good service and celebrity service?</li>
</ul>
<p>About Our Guest Geoff Ramm:</p>
<p>Forbes stated "Geoff  Ramm is a Game Changer in the world of customer service".</p>
<p>He is the author of two books, Celebrity Service and Celebrity Service Super Stars.</p>
<p>He has delivered his message to audiences in 50 countries.</p>
<p>Learn more about his books and service at </p>
<p><a href='https://www.geofframm.com/'>https://www.geofframm.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Geoff Ramm:</p>
<p>For anybody listening, I've got my hand up quite high, Jeff, we're pretty good. But there's always room for improvement.</p>
<p>And I will challenge the audience and say, Where does that improvement come from? Because if you go the extra mile and exceed expectations, those are the words that your competition are talking about right now.</p>
<p>And I said, in six months time, you'll have all got, you know, an extra mile further forward. But it's hardly the LEAP you could make unless you change your mindset.</p>
<p>And you change your mindset with one question. And that question is a philosophy. It's a philosophy that I've wrote about, that I speak about all over the world. It's the philosophy that every audience, every team, every brand gets within seconds.</p>
<p>And this is what I hope Forbes may have just seen in me. So as you write, how do you go from a seven to an eight to a nine to a 10? And beyond?</p>
<p>It's this one question if your next customer, client, passenger member, guest, we're an A list, celebrity, Hollywood, God, or goddess, if your next client were Taylor Swift, George Clooney, Denzel Washington, what would you say?</p>
<p>What would you do? How would you react? What would be the difference in the way that you would treat them?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>But what I have George on screen, and you've seen this many times, when we've spoken internationally together, I show pictures of my daughter, and her love for coloring in and an art.</p>
<p>And so I show these photographs of when she was little coloring in and so the audience can see what my dog, they know her name, they know what she loves.</p>
<p>But now they can see her. And that connection to the audience is very, very strong. But I'm telling the story of this experience in a toy shop.</p>
<p>But I see the funny and I see the quirky and all of the stories that I tell. And it was a beautiful piece of selling, it was a beautiful piece of customer experience.</p>
<p>But it was all about personalization, which I talk a lot about, because people talk about personalization. But I don't see many examples. So when I deliver my stories, they're packed full of examples. But hopefully, there's some key tips and learnings from that that a business can go.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Why did Forbes call Geoff Ramm a Game Changer?
Why the extra mile and exceeding expectations is not enough
<p>Episode 205 (Geoff is based in north east England)</p>
<p>In this this conversation with Geoff Ramm we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What is the key question you need to ask to surpass the competition?</li>
<li>How would you treat the A list celebrity differently?</li>
<li>How would you serve George Clooney or Angelina Jolie?</li>
<li>How big or small is the gap to deliver celebrity service?</li>
<li>How to forge a strong emotional connection with your audience</li>
<li>Why is personalization and how might you apply it to your business?</li>
<li>What can you learn from successful customer service stories</li>
<li>What's the difference between good service and celebrity service?</li>
</ul>
<p>About Our Guest Geoff Ramm:</p>
<p>Forbes stated "Geoff  Ramm is a Game Changer in the world of customer service".</p>
<p>He is the author of two books, Celebrity Service and Celebrity Service Super Stars.</p>
<p>He has delivered his message to audiences in 50 countries.</p>
<p>Learn more about his books and service at </p>
<p><a href='https://www.geofframm.com/'>https://www.geofframm.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Geoff Ramm:</p>
<p>For anybody listening, I've got my hand up quite high, Jeff, we're pretty good. But there's always room for improvement.</p>
<p>And I will challenge the audience and say, Where does that improvement come from? Because if you go the extra mile and exceed expectations, those are the words that your competition are talking about right now.</p>
<p>And I said, in six months time, you'll have all got, you know, an extra mile further forward. But it's hardly the LEAP you could make unless you change your mindset.</p>
<p>And you change your mindset with one question. And that question is a philosophy. It's a philosophy that I've wrote about, that I speak about all over the world. It's the philosophy that every audience, every team, every brand gets within seconds.</p>
<p>And this is what I hope Forbes may have just seen in me. So as you write, how do you go from a seven to an eight to a nine to a 10? And beyond?</p>
<p>It's this one question if your next customer, client, passenger member, guest, we're an A list, celebrity, Hollywood, God, or goddess, if your next client were Taylor Swift, George Clooney, Denzel Washington, what would you say?</p>
<p>What would you do? How would you react? What would be the difference in the way that you would treat them?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>But what I have George on screen, and you've seen this many times, when we've spoken internationally together, I show pictures of my daughter, and her love for coloring in and an art.</p>
<p>And so I show these photographs of when she was little coloring in and so the audience can see what my dog, they know her name, they know what she loves.</p>
<p>But now they can see her. And that connection to the audience is very, very strong. But I'm telling the story of this experience in a toy shop.</p>
<p>But I see the funny and I see the quirky and all of the stories that I tell. And it was a beautiful piece of selling, it was a beautiful piece of customer experience.</p>
<p>But it was all about personalization, which I talk a lot about, because people talk about personalization. But I don't see many examples. So when I deliver my stories, they're packed full of examples. But hopefully, there's some key tips and learnings from that that a business can go.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why did Forbes call Geoff Ramm a Game Changer?
Why the extra mile and exceeding expectations is not enough
Episode 205 (Geoff is based in north east England)
In this this conversation with Geoff Ramm we explore:
What is the key question you need to ask to surpass the competition?
How would you treat the A list celebrity differently?
How would you serve George Clooney or Angelina Jolie?
How big or small is the gap to deliver celebrity service?
How to forge a strong emotional connection with your audience
Why is personalization and how might you apply it to your business?
What can you learn from successful customer service stories
What's the difference between good service and celebrity service?
About Our Guest Geoff Ramm:
Forbes stated "Geoff  Ramm is a Game Changer in the world of customer service".
He is the author of two books, Celebrity Service and Celebrity Service Super Stars.
He has delivered his message to audiences in 50 countries.
Learn more about his books and service at 
https://www.geofframm.com/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Geoff Ramm:
For anybody listening, I've got my hand up quite high, Jeff, we're pretty good. But there's always room for improvement.
And I will challenge the audience and say, Where does that improvement come from? Because if you go the extra mile and exceed expectations, those are the words that your competition are talking about right now.
And I said, in six months time, you'll have all got, you know, an extra mile further forward. But it's hardly the LEAP you could make unless you change your mindset.
And you change your mindset with one question. And that question is a philosophy. It's a philosophy that I've wrote about, that I speak about all over the world. It's the philosophy that every audience, every team, every brand gets within seconds.
And this is what I hope Forbes may have just seen in me. So as you write, how do you go from a seven to an eight to a nine to a 10? And beyond?
It's this one question if your next customer, client, passenger member, guest, we're an A list, celebrity, Hollywood, God, or goddess, if your next client were Taylor Swift, George Clooney, Denzel Washington, what would you say?
What would you do? How would you react? What would be the difference in the way that you would treat them?
-----
But what I have George on screen, and you've seen this many times, when we've spoken internationally together, I show pictures of my daughter, and her love for coloring in and an art.
And so I show these photographs of when she was little coloring in and so the audience can see what my dog, they know her name, they know what she loves.
But now they can see her. And that connection to the audience is very, very strong. But I'm telling the story of this experience in a toy shop.
But I see the funny and I see the quirky and all of the stories that I tell. And it was a beautiful piece of selling, it was a beautiful piece of customer experience.
But it was all about personalization, which I talk a lot about, because people talk about personalization. But I don't see many examples. So when I deliver my stories, they're packed full of examples. But hopefully, there's some key tips and learnings from that that a business can go.
-----
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Write email that gets you the results you want.
Avoid sending email that shows up in the news, or in court
<p>Episode 204 (repeat of #134, Liz is based in L.A.)</p>
<p>Listen to this conversation with Liz Danziger before you send that toxic email and save yourself grief.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>About Liz Danziger:</p>
<p>Liz is the author of four books published by major publishers including business writing guide, Get to the Point! She is also a columnist on Inc.com</p>
<p></p>
<p>She has decades of experience in helping teams to write clearly and confidently. </p>
<p>Her goal is to empower people to wield the power of words to create success.</p>
<p>To receive her monthly writing tips called Writamins visit <a href='https://worktalk.com/'>www,WorkTalk.com</a></p>
<p>At the same site you can get your copy of Ten Tips for Communicating Effectively in a Fast-Paced World.</p>
<p>You can arrange a complimentary 30-minute call to explore communication issues in your organization. Select a time on her calendar</p>
<p><a href='https://calendly.com/worktalk'>https://calendly.com/worktalk</a></p>
<p>------</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Liz Danziger:</p>
<p>Mistakes that right off the bat, you could say, okay, stop doing this, this and this, and people's writing will dramatically improve?</p>
<p>Yes, one thing is that they could know their purpose before they start and know their point before they start. My view is that most writing problems happen before a person starts to write.</p>
<p>They happen in the thinking phase when people don't think about their purpose. And that's why I'm so pleased to be on this podcast, your intended message, because that's exactly what the worktop trainings are about is having people be clear on their intentions, and then target their readers.</p>
<p>And so the first thing is to know your purpose and your point. The second thing would be to think about your reader it astonishes me sometimes, how people will just sit down and they're just tap it, tap it tap, but they're writing away.</p>
<p>And then if I stopped them in coaching or in training, and I asked them, so what do you think your readers interested in? And they're like, oh, that's an interesting question. So they need to think about the reader and they need to use clear language.</p>
<p>And the last thing I will say is, people have to reread before they send. It's a common common error that people just tap it tap and send without proofreading. And they live to bear the consequences.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Write email that gets you the results you want.
Avoid sending email that shows up in the news, or in court
<p>Episode 204 (repeat of #134, Liz is based in L.A.)</p>
<p>Listen to this conversation with Liz Danziger before you send that toxic email and save yourself grief.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>About Liz Danziger:</p>
<p>Liz is the author of four books published by major publishers including business writing guide, Get to the Point! She is also a columnist on Inc.com</p>
<p></p>
<p>She has decades of experience in helping teams to write clearly and confidently. </p>
<p>Her goal is to empower people to wield the power of words to create success.</p>
<p>To receive her monthly writing tips called Writamins visit <a href='https://worktalk.com/'>www,WorkTalk.com</a></p>
<p>At the same site you can get your copy of Ten Tips for Communicating Effectively in a Fast-Paced World.</p>
<p>You can arrange a complimentary 30-minute call to explore communication issues in your organization. Select a time on her calendar</p>
<p><a href='https://calendly.com/worktalk'>https://calendly.com/worktalk</a></p>
<p>------</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Liz Danziger:</p>
<p>Mistakes that right off the bat, you could say, okay, stop doing this, this and this, and people's writing will dramatically improve?</p>
<p>Yes, one thing is that they could know their purpose before they start and know their point before they start. My view is that most writing problems happen before a person starts to write.</p>
<p>They happen in the thinking phase when people don't think about their purpose. And that's why I'm so pleased to be on this podcast, your intended message, because that's exactly what the worktop trainings are about is having people be clear on their intentions, and then target their readers.</p>
<p>And so the first thing is to know your purpose and your point. The second thing would be to think about your reader it astonishes me sometimes, how people will just sit down and they're just tap it, tap it tap, but they're writing away.</p>
<p>And then if I stopped them in coaching or in training, and I asked them, so what do you think your readers interested in? And they're like, oh, that's an interesting question. So they need to think about the reader and they need to use clear language.</p>
<p>And the last thing I will say is, people have to reread before they send. It's a common common error that people just tap it tap and send without proofreading. And they live to bear the consequences.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Write email that gets you the results you want.
Avoid sending email that shows up in the news, or in court
Episode 204 (repeat of #134, Liz is based in L.A.)
Listen to this conversation with Liz Danziger before you send that toxic email and save yourself grief.
 
About Liz Danziger:
Liz is the author of four books published by major publishers including business writing guide, Get to the Point! She is also a columnist on Inc.com

She has decades of experience in helping teams to write clearly and confidently. 
Her goal is to empower people to wield the power of words to create success.
To receive her monthly writing tips called Writamins visit www,WorkTalk.com
At the same site you can get your copy of Ten Tips for Communicating Effectively in a Fast-Paced World.
You can arrange a complimentary 30-minute call to explore communication issues in your organization. Select a time on her calendar
https://calendly.com/worktalk
------
Excerpts from this conversation with Liz Danziger:
Mistakes that right off the bat, you could say, okay, stop doing this, this and this, and people's writing will dramatically improve?
Yes, one thing is that they could know their purpose before they start and know their point before they start. My view is that most writing problems happen before a person starts to write.
They happen in the thinking phase when people don't think about their purpose. And that's why I'm so pleased to be on this podcast, your intended message, because that's exactly what the worktop trainings are about is having people be clear on their intentions, and then target their readers.
And so the first thing is to know your purpose and your point. The second thing would be to think about your reader it astonishes me sometimes, how people will just sit down and they're just tap it, tap it tap, but they're writing away.
And then if I stopped them in coaching or in training, and I asked them, so what do you think your readers interested in? And they're like, oh, that's an interesting question. So they need to think about the reader and they need to use clear language.
And the last thing I will say is, people have to reread before they send. It's a common common error that people just tap it tap and send without proofreading. And they live to bear the consequences.
 
 
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Do you have copycat competitors?
Does your message sound and look like everyone else?
<p>Episode 203 (Daniel is based in Florida)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Daniel Den we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to be so different that they can even begin to copy you</li>
<li>What is the danger of looking like your competition?</li>
<li>How can you position yourself in your niche?</li>
<li>How to layer on more than one differentiating factor</li>
<li>How to turn your product into an experience</li>
<li>Why create a family of brands that support each other - like Apple</li>
<li>How to start defining your difference</li>
<li>How to describe your avatar to attract the right prospect</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Daniel Den:</p>
<p>Daniel became fascinated with marketing and sales almost two decades ago. Today he is the co-creator of the X Factor Effect methodology where he and his team have helped over 20,000 students and clients grow their businesses. Daniel teaches that “Different is the new Better” and his framework includes nine pillars for differentiating your business so that you can become a market leader or category king or queen. </p>
<p>Daniel Den is the author of the new book "Ideas That Influence," that was built to help business owners discover their own WILDLY SUCCESSFUL MARKETING IDEAS!</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Get your Big Ideas Box at </p>
<p><a href='https://www.bigideasbox.com/free-box-ideas-that-influence'>https://www.bigideasbox.com/free-box-ideas-that-influence</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Daniel Den:</p>
If we are doing things exactly like our competition, then we end up becoming the average of our competition and the average competition goes out of business within about five years.
<p>-----</p>
<p>And what we discovered is that if we take one big difference, but then stack that with another big difference, and then stack that with two or three big differences, additional differences, then you can get to the point where you become such a unicorn in your market, where the barrier of copy ability is just too high.</p>
<p>And where it would be laughable if somebody decided to copy you, after you had implemented all of those differences. And so amongst the nine different pillars that we've come up with, we help people become drastically different to the point where they are a unicorn inside of their market, where they can quickly become a market leader, or a category king or category queen.</p>
<p>And that makes all the difference that makes all the difference.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>We call it joining the age of experience. And the age of experience, what we've found, George, is that we all have enough stuff. We all are blessed.</p>
<p>Today, we all have lots of stuff. mass produced, we can pretty much get access to anything. And in today's world, stuff is not what people want anymore. What people want more, is a great experience, and they're willing to spend their disposable income on a great experience.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Any damn fool can put on a deal. But it takes genius, faith and perseverance to create a brand.  Dan Ogilvy,
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you have copycat competitors?
Does your message sound and look like everyone else?
<p>Episode 203 (Daniel is based in Florida)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Daniel Den we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to be so different that they can even begin to copy you</li>
<li>What is the danger of looking like your competition?</li>
<li>How can you position yourself in your niche?</li>
<li>How to layer on more than one differentiating factor</li>
<li>How to turn your product into an experience</li>
<li>Why create a family of brands that support each other - like Apple</li>
<li>How to start defining your difference</li>
<li>How to describe your avatar to attract the right prospect</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Daniel Den:</p>
<p>Daniel became fascinated with marketing and sales almost two decades ago. Today he is the co-creator of the X Factor Effect methodology where he and his team have helped over 20,000 students and clients grow their businesses. Daniel teaches that “Different is the new Better” and his framework includes nine pillars for differentiating your business so that you can become a market leader or category king or queen. </p>
<p>Daniel Den is the author of the new book "Ideas That Influence," that was built to help business owners discover their own WILDLY SUCCESSFUL MARKETING IDEAS!</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Get your Big Ideas Box at </p>
<p><a href='https://www.bigideasbox.com/free-box-ideas-that-influence'>https://www.bigideasbox.com/free-box-ideas-that-influence</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Daniel Den:</p>
If we are doing things exactly like our competition, then we end up becoming the average of our competition and the average competition goes out of business within about five years.
<p>-----</p>
<p>And what we discovered is that if we take one big difference, but then stack that with another big difference, and then stack that with two or three big differences, additional differences, then you can get to the point where you become such a unicorn in your market, where the barrier of copy ability is just too high.</p>
<p>And where it would be laughable if somebody decided to copy you, after you had implemented all of those differences. And so amongst the nine different pillars that we've come up with, we help people become drastically different to the point where they are a unicorn inside of their market, where they can quickly become a market leader, or a category king or category queen.</p>
<p>And that makes all the difference that makes all the difference.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>We call it joining the age of experience. And the age of experience, what we've found, George, is that we all have enough stuff. We all are blessed.</p>
<p>Today, we all have lots of stuff. mass produced, we can pretty much get access to anything. And in today's world, stuff is not what people want anymore. What people want more, is a great experience, and they're willing to spend their disposable income on a great experience.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Any damn fool can put on a deal. But it takes genius, faith and perseverance to create a brand.  Dan Ogilvy,
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you have copycat competitors?
Does your message sound and look like everyone else?
Episode 203 (Daniel is based in Florida)
In this conversation with Daniel Den we explore:
How to be so different that they can even begin to copy you
What is the danger of looking like your competition?
How can you position yourself in your niche?
How to layer on more than one differentiating factor
How to turn your product into an experience
Why create a family of brands that support each other - like Apple
How to start defining your difference
How to describe your avatar to attract the right prospect
About our guest Daniel Den:
Daniel became fascinated with marketing and sales almost two decades ago. Today he is the co-creator of the X Factor Effect methodology where he and his team have helped over 20,000 students and clients grow their businesses. Daniel teaches that “Different is the new Better” and his framework includes nine pillars for differentiating your business so that you can become a market leader or category king or queen. 
Daniel Den is the author of the new book "Ideas That Influence," that was built to help business owners discover their own WILDLY SUCCESSFUL MARKETING IDEAS!
-----
Get your Big Ideas Box at 
https://www.bigideasbox.com/free-box-ideas-that-influence
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Daniel Den:
If we are doing things exactly like our competition, then we end up becoming the average of our competition and the average competition goes out of business within about five years.
-----
And what we discovered is that if we take one big difference, but then stack that with another big difference, and then stack that with two or three big differences, additional differences, then you can get to the point where you become such a unicorn in your market, where the barrier of copy ability is just too high.
And where it would be laughable if somebody decided to copy you, after you had implemented all of those differences. And so amongst the nine different pillars that we've come up with, we help people become drastically different to the point where they are a unicorn inside of their market, where they can quickly become a market leader, or a category king or category queen.
And that makes all the difference that makes all the difference.
-----
We call it joining the age of experience. And the age of experience, what we've found, George, is that we all have enough stuff. We all are blessed.
Today, we all have lots of stuff. mass produced, we can pretty much get access to anything. And in today's world, stuff is not what people want anymore. What people want more, is a great experience, and they're willing to spend their disposable income on a great experience.
-----
Any damn fool can put on a deal. But it takes genius, faith and perseverance to create a brand.  Dan Ogilvy,
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Make PowerPoint Enhance Your Presentation
Don't be a PowerPoint Fool
<p>Episode 202 (Ellen is based in Iowa)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Ellen Finkelstein we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Common mistakes to avoid when presenting with PowerPoint</li>
<li>How to take a more productive approach to your presentation</li>
<li>How your words, slides and delivery contribute to your success</li>
<li>Why text on your slides stop people from listening</li>
<li>How non-designers can create attractive slides</li>
<li>The importance of practicing your presentation</li>
<li>Your secret helpers - Text Pane and Presenter View</li>
<li>Guidelines and tests for effective slide design</li>
<li>How to fix boring slides</li>
</ul>
<p>About our Guest Ellen Finkelstein:</p>
<p>She's a PowerPoint MVP and has been one since 2010. That's a Microsoft award and it stands for Most Valuable Professional. There are only 18 in the United States.</p>
<p>Ellen has been training and writing about PowerPoint since before 1999, including several books (written quite a while ago) and her PowerPoint Tip blog.</p>
<p>She isn't a designer so she loves to help non-designers create great PowerPoint slides that communicate clearly, command attention, and help the audience understand and remember the message.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>The Techniques that Will Make Designing Your Slides EASY!"</p>
<p><a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.ellenfinkelstein.com%2Fpptblog%2Fgetstarted%2F&amp;data=05%7C02%7C%7Ce57641f505bc48d0b06c08dc39999aeb%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638448579231276157%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=OdJcUbzY%2FH%2BY0RT7jkBPrZFb%2BjY6dXMtgo5ZzcZZE7Q%3D&amp;reserved=0'>https://www.ellenfinkelstein.com/pptblog/getstarted/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>And so that's what how you have to write the content. And I do recommend doing that outside of PowerPoint and it's thinking about what you're saying.</p>
<p>So number two, I'll just go really quickly on the slide poor but everybody knows what death by PowerPoint is there's just lots and lots of text on a slide, slide after slide of text.</p>
<p>There's a fair amount of research that shows that we can't listen and look at the same time. That research is why there are some states that have laws against even being on the phone while you're you're listening to someone and talking to somebody while you're driving.</p>
<p>Okay, because you can't really listen and see at the same time, probably what the person is saying on the phone is a lot more interesting than what's in front of you.</p>
<p>So when you put up a slide with a lot of text, people start to read it, we're more visual, the part of the brain that that takes in visual information is much bigger than the part that takes an auditory information.</p>
<p>People read it, but they can read faster than you could speak. So they read ahead of you, they're not listening. And then when they're finished, they go back to listening to you. And they see that, oh, I've already read that.</p>
<p>So why should I pay attention to the speaker?</p>
<p>-----</p>
That image should help people understand and remember what you are saying.
<p>-----</p>
<p>I mentioned that presenters screen which functions a little bit like a teleprompter, and so the audience doesn't see it, you see your notes that you've put in the Text Pane, but they just see the slides.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Never make text move. So don't make text fly in or fly up.</p>
<p>It's almost always annoying to the audience. Because as the text is flying in, they see it and trying to read it, but it's moving.</p>
<p>It gives people a headache. It's not nice to the audience to do that. So I would say I almost always use either appear or fade, if I'm using it on text, you know, it doesn't move at all.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Make PowerPoint Enhance Your Presentation
Don't be a PowerPoint Fool
<p>Episode 202 (Ellen is based in Iowa)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Ellen Finkelstein we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Common mistakes to avoid when presenting with PowerPoint</li>
<li>How to take a more productive approach to your presentation</li>
<li>How your words, slides and delivery contribute to your success</li>
<li>Why text on your slides stop people from listening</li>
<li>How non-designers can create attractive slides</li>
<li>The importance of practicing your presentation</li>
<li>Your secret helpers - Text Pane and Presenter View</li>
<li>Guidelines and tests for effective slide design</li>
<li>How to fix boring slides</li>
</ul>
<p>About our Guest Ellen Finkelstein:</p>
<p>She's a PowerPoint MVP and has been one since 2010. That's a Microsoft award and it stands for Most Valuable Professional. There are only 18 in the United States.</p>
<p>Ellen has been training and writing about PowerPoint since before 1999, including several books (written quite a while ago) and her PowerPoint Tip blog.</p>
<p>She isn't a designer so she loves to help non-designers create great PowerPoint slides that communicate clearly, command attention, and help the audience understand and remember the message.</p>
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<p>The Techniques that Will Make Designing Your Slides EASY!"</p>
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<p>And so that's what how you have to write the content. And I do recommend doing that outside of PowerPoint and it's thinking about what you're saying.</p>
<p>So number two, I'll just go really quickly on the slide poor but everybody knows what death by PowerPoint is there's just lots and lots of text on a slide, slide after slide of text.</p>
<p>There's a fair amount of research that shows that we can't listen and look at the same time. That research is why there are some states that have laws against even being on the phone while you're you're listening to someone and talking to somebody while you're driving.</p>
<p>Okay, because you can't really listen and see at the same time, probably what the person is saying on the phone is a lot more interesting than what's in front of you.</p>
<p>So when you put up a slide with a lot of text, people start to read it, we're more visual, the part of the brain that that takes in visual information is much bigger than the part that takes an auditory information.</p>
<p>People read it, but they can read faster than you could speak. So they read ahead of you, they're not listening. And then when they're finished, they go back to listening to you. And they see that, oh, I've already read that.</p>
<p>So why should I pay attention to the speaker?</p>
<p>-----</p>
That image should help people understand and remember what you are saying.
<p>-----</p>
<p>I mentioned that presenters screen which functions a little bit like a teleprompter, and so the audience doesn't see it, you see your notes that you've put in the Text Pane, but they just see the slides.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Never make text move. So don't make text fly in or fly up.</p>
<p>It's almost always annoying to the audience. Because as the text is flying in, they see it and trying to read it, but it's moving.</p>
<p>It gives people a headache. It's not nice to the audience to do that. So I would say I almost always use either appear or fade, if I'm using it on text, you know, it doesn't move at all.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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Don't be a PowerPoint Fool
Episode 202 (Ellen is based in Iowa)
In this conversation with Ellen Finkelstein we explore:
Common mistakes to avoid when presenting with PowerPoint
How to take a more productive approach to your presentation
How your words, slides and delivery contribute to your success
Why text on your slides stop people from listening
How non-designers can create attractive slides
The importance of practicing your presentation
Your secret helpers - Text Pane and Presenter View
Guidelines and tests for effective slide design
How to fix boring slides
About our Guest Ellen Finkelstein:
She's a PowerPoint MVP and has been one since 2010. That's a Microsoft award and it stands for Most Valuable Professional. There are only 18 in the United States.
Ellen has been training and writing about PowerPoint since before 1999, including several books (written quite a while ago) and her PowerPoint Tip blog.
She isn't a designer so she loves to help non-designers create great PowerPoint slides that communicate clearly, command attention, and help the audience understand and remember the message.
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The Techniques that Will Make Designing Your Slides EASY!"
https://www.ellenfinkelstein.com/pptblog/getstarted/
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And so that's what how you have to write the content. And I do recommend doing that outside of PowerPoint and it's thinking about what you're saying.
So number two, I'll just go really quickly on the slide poor but everybody knows what death by PowerPoint is there's just lots and lots of text on a slide, slide after slide of text.
There's a fair amount of research that shows that we can't listen and look at the same time. That research is why there are some states that have laws against even being on the phone while you're you're listening to someone and talking to somebody while you're driving.
Okay, because you can't really listen and see at the same time, probably what the person is saying on the phone is a lot more interesting than what's in front of you.
So when you put up a slide with a lot of text, people start to read it, we're more visual, the part of the brain that that takes in visual information is much bigger than the part that takes an auditory information.
People read it, but they can read faster than you could speak. So they read ahead of you, they're not listening. And then when they're finished, they go back to listening to you. And they see that, oh, I've already read that.
So why should I pay attention to the speaker?
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That image should help people understand and remember what you are saying.
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I mentioned that presenters screen which functions a little bit like a teleprompter, and so the audience doesn't see it, you see your notes that you've put in the Text Pane, but they just see the slides.
-----
Never make text move. So don't make text fly in or fly up.
It's almost always annoying to the audience. Because as the text is flying in, they see it and trying to read it, but it's moving.
It gives people a headache. It's not nice to the audience to do that. So I would say I almost always use either appear or fade, if I'm using it on text, you know, it doesn't move at all.
-----
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended me]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to use Three-Box Storytelling to build Relationships
A simple method to frame and tell your stories
<p>Episode 201 (Repeat of #68)</p>
<p>At the time of this interview, Graham Brown was based in Singapore</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Highlights from this conversation about storytelling</p>
<p> </p>
<p>The Heart as an Analogy (00:00:00)
An analogy for the heart as a symbol of music, love, and relationships.</p>
<p>Introduction of Graham Brown (00:01:22)
Overview of Graham Brown's background and achievements.</p>
<p>Introduction to Three Box Storytelling Technique (00:02:45)
Explanation of the three-box storytelling technique and its application in business communication and sales presentations.</p>
<p>Three Scenes of a Story (00:04:03)
Explanation of the three scenes in a story using the example of "A Christmas Carol."</p>
<p>Application of Three Box Technique in Sales Presentation (00:06:07)
Demonstration of how a business leader can use the three-box technique in a sales presentation.</p>
<p>Transformation and Crossing the River (00:10:44)
Discussion on the transformation journey in storytelling and the symbolism of crossing the river as a challenge.</p>
<p>Importance of Trust in Storytelling (00:12:22)
The significance of establishing trust through commonality and backstory in storytelling.</p>
<p>Power of Analogies in Communication (00:14:52)
Exploration of analogies as short form stories and their effectiveness in communicating unfamiliar concepts.</p>
<p>Creating Familiar Territory in Communication (00:20:04)
Emphasizing the importance of finding familiar territory in introducing new ideas or technologies.</p>
<p>Behavior Change and Familiarity (00:21:48)
Highlighting the role of familiarity in facilitating behavior change and acceptance of new concepts.</p>
<p>The familiarity part (00:22:56)
Neuropsychological studies show the brain can't distinguish between past, present, and future, making familiarity crucial in storytelling.</p>
<p>Archetypes and plot lines (00:24:42)
Joseph Campbell's hero's journey and the use of existing archetypes and plot lines in storytelling.</p>
<p>Podcast guesting agency (00:27:03)
Graham Brown's agency, Podcast Guesting Pro, helps people get booked on podcasts and navigate the process.</p>
<p>Effective use of stories in sales presentations (00:29:52)
Maya Angelou's advice on making people feel something, using the power of the backstory, and the importance of practice in storytelling.</p>
<p>----</p>
<p>Podcast Guesting Pro is a dedicated Podcast Booking Agency that works with B2B thought leaders. They help you reach new audiences and build your authority by booking you on podcasts to showcase your expertise and spread your message. Learn more here...</p>
<p><a href='https://www.podcastguesting.pro/'>https://www.podcastguesting.pro/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to use Three-Box Storytelling to build Relationships
A simple method to frame and tell your stories
<p>Episode 201 (Repeat of #68)</p>
<p>At the time of this interview, Graham Brown was based in Singapore</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Highlights from this conversation about storytelling</p>
<p> </p>
<p>The Heart as an Analogy (00:00:00)<br>
An analogy for the heart as a symbol of music, love, and relationships.</p>
<p>Introduction of Graham Brown (00:01:22)<br>
Overview of Graham Brown's background and achievements.</p>
<p>Introduction to Three Box Storytelling Technique (00:02:45)<br>
Explanation of the three-box storytelling technique and its application in business communication and sales presentations.</p>
<p>Three Scenes of a Story (00:04:03)<br>
Explanation of the three scenes in a story using the example of "A Christmas Carol."</p>
<p>Application of Three Box Technique in Sales Presentation (00:06:07)<br>
Demonstration of how a business leader can use the three-box technique in a sales presentation.</p>
<p>Transformation and Crossing the River (00:10:44)<br>
Discussion on the transformation journey in storytelling and the symbolism of crossing the river as a challenge.</p>
<p>Importance of Trust in Storytelling (00:12:22)<br>
The significance of establishing trust through commonality and backstory in storytelling.</p>
<p>Power of Analogies in Communication (00:14:52)<br>
Exploration of analogies as short form stories and their effectiveness in communicating unfamiliar concepts.</p>
<p>Creating Familiar Territory in Communication (00:20:04)<br>
Emphasizing the importance of finding familiar territory in introducing new ideas or technologies.</p>
<p>Behavior Change and Familiarity (00:21:48)<br>
Highlighting the role of familiarity in facilitating behavior change and acceptance of new concepts.</p>
<p>The familiarity part (00:22:56)<br>
Neuropsychological studies show the brain can't distinguish between past, present, and future, making familiarity crucial in storytelling.</p>
<p>Archetypes and plot lines (00:24:42)<br>
Joseph Campbell's hero's journey and the use of existing archetypes and plot lines in storytelling.</p>
<p>Podcast guesting agency (00:27:03)<br>
Graham Brown's agency, Podcast Guesting Pro, helps people get booked on podcasts and navigate the process.</p>
<p>Effective use of stories in sales presentations (00:29:52)<br>
Maya Angelou's advice on making people feel something, using the power of the backstory, and the importance of practice in storytelling.</p>
<p>----</p>
<p>Podcast Guesting Pro is a dedicated Podcast Booking Agency that works with B2B thought leaders. They help you reach new audiences and build your authority by booking you on podcasts to showcase your expertise and spread your message. Learn more here...</p>
<p><a href='https://www.podcastguesting.pro/'>https://www.podcastguesting.pro/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to use Three-Box Storytelling to build Relationships
A simple method to frame and tell your stories
Episode 201 (Repeat of #68)
At the time of this interview, Graham Brown was based in Singapore
 
Highlights from this conversation about storytelling
 
The Heart as an Analogy (00:00:00)An analogy for the heart as a symbol of music, love, and relationships.
Introduction of Graham Brown (00:01:22)Overview of Graham Brown's background and achievements.
Introduction to Three Box Storytelling Technique (00:02:45)Explanation of the three-box storytelling technique and its application in business communication and sales presentations.
Three Scenes of a Story (00:04:03)Explanation of the three scenes in a story using the example of "A Christmas Carol."
Application of Three Box Technique in Sales Presentation (00:06:07)Demonstration of how a business leader can use the three-box technique in a sales presentation.
Transformation and Crossing the River (00:10:44)Discussion on the transformation journey in storytelling and the symbolism of crossing the river as a challenge.
Importance of Trust in Storytelling (00:12:22)The significance of establishing trust through commonality and backstory in storytelling.
Power of Analogies in Communication (00:14:52)Exploration of analogies as short form stories and their effectiveness in communicating unfamiliar concepts.
Creating Familiar Territory in Communication (00:20:04)Emphasizing the importance of finding familiar territory in introducing new ideas or technologies.
Behavior Change and Familiarity (00:21:48)Highlighting the role of familiarity in facilitating behavior change and acceptance of new concepts.
The familiarity part (00:22:56)Neuropsychological studies show the brain can't distinguish between past, present, and future, making familiarity crucial in storytelling.
Archetypes and plot lines (00:24:42)Joseph Campbell's hero's journey and the use of existing archetypes and plot lines in storytelling.
Podcast guesting agency (00:27:03)Graham Brown's agency, Podcast Guesting Pro, helps people get booked on podcasts and navigate the process.
Effective use of stories in sales presentations (00:29:52)Maya Angelou's advice on making people feel something, using the power of the backstory, and the importance of practice in storytelling.
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Podcast Guesting Pro is a dedicated Podcast Booking Agency that works with B2B thought leaders. They help you reach new audiences and build your authority by booking you on podcasts to showcase your expertise and spread your message. Learn more here...
https://www.podcastguesting.pro/
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Why is listening a life saving skill in nature
Let's learn communication skills from the elephants 
In this enlightening episode, host George Torok chats with leadership consultant and coach, Hugh Coppen.
<p>Episode #200 (Repeat of #57)</p>
<p>When he's not on safari in Zimbabwe, Hugh lives in California. </p>
<p>Coming from a Zimbabwean farm, Coppen has a deep-seated love for wildlife. Now, as a leadership consultant, he channels his passion into valuable lessons for CEOs worldwide. His company, Tasimba, provides immersive safari experiences in Zimbabwe, creating a unique environment for personal and professional growth.</p>
<p>In this discussion, Coppin draws fascinating parallels between wild animal communication (especially elephants) and how we as humans can use similar communication methods. From understanding body language to acknowledging the power of silence, we explore lessons from the wild that can enhance our effectiveness in communication.</p>
<p>We delve deeper into 'listening' - not just to spoken words, but to non-verbal cues and our surrounding environment. Given their lack of speech, wild animals embrace body language and other communication modes that are insightful to us.</p>
<p>Coppen uses practical examples from the animal kingdom, like the positioning of an elephant's head or a flapping of the ears, to underline the importance of body language in effective communication and building listeners’ trust.</p>
<p>This episode, combining adventurous storytelling with critical leadership insights, is a must-listen for professionals looking to enhance their communication skills or anybody interested in learning from nature.</p>
<p>We also look at advanced communication skills in wilderness creatures like Rams and impalas,, especially during their mating seasons. These creatures have evolved complex vocalization methods and an astounding sense of sound, facilitating communication across great distances, safeguarding them from predators.</p>
<p>Another point of discussion is the intricate sub-aural communication method elephant families use. These communications, mostly unheard by humans and predators, help elephants coordinate complicated activities and respect for each other. The example of Cape buffalo herds coming together in large numbers during scarce resources is another humbling lesson to humanity.</p>
<p>Finally, we examine the immersive safari tours in Zimbabwe hosted by <a href='https://www.tasimba.com/'>Tasimba</a>. These tours provide a unique opportunity to understand nature’s wonders more deeply and learn valuable lessons about living harmoniously with nature. Many guests return with a renewed commitment to conserve wildlife and their habitats following these transformative experiences.</p>
<p>Consider the perspective of how observing wilderness communication can provide profound insights into better communication, collective living, and harmonizing with nature's wisdom.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Enjoy the<a href='https://www.tasimba.com/photo-gallery/'> beautiful wilderness photos here.</a></p>
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<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Why is listening a life saving skill in nature
Let's learn communication skills from the elephants 
In this enlightening episode, host George Torok chats with leadership consultant and coach, Hugh Coppen.
<p>Episode #200 (Repeat of #57)</p>
<p>When he's not on safari in Zimbabwe, Hugh lives in California. </p>
<p>Coming from a Zimbabwean farm, Coppen has a deep-seated love for wildlife. Now, as a leadership consultant, he channels his passion into valuable lessons for CEOs worldwide. His company, Tasimba, provides immersive safari experiences in Zimbabwe, creating a unique environment for personal and professional growth.</p>
<p>In this discussion, Coppin draws fascinating parallels between wild animal communication (especially elephants) and how we as humans can use similar communication methods. From understanding body language to acknowledging the power of silence, we explore lessons from the wild that can enhance our effectiveness in communication.</p>
<p>We delve deeper into 'listening' - not just to spoken words, but to non-verbal cues and our surrounding environment. Given their lack of speech, wild animals embrace body language and other communication modes that are insightful to us.</p>
<p>Coppen uses practical examples from the animal kingdom, like the positioning of an elephant's head or a flapping of the ears, to underline the importance of body language in effective communication and building listeners’ trust.</p>
<p>This episode, combining adventurous storytelling with critical leadership insights, is a must-listen for professionals looking to enhance their communication skills or anybody interested in learning from nature.</p>
<p>We also look at advanced communication skills in wilderness creatures like Rams and impalas,, especially during their mating seasons. These creatures have evolved complex vocalization methods and an astounding sense of sound, facilitating communication across great distances, safeguarding them from predators.</p>
<p>Another point of discussion is the intricate sub-aural communication method elephant families use. These communications, mostly unheard by humans and predators, help elephants coordinate complicated activities and respect for each other. The example of Cape buffalo herds coming together in large numbers during scarce resources is another humbling lesson to humanity.</p>
<p>Finally, we examine the immersive safari tours in Zimbabwe hosted by <a href='https://www.tasimba.com/'>Tasimba</a>. These tours provide a unique opportunity to understand nature’s wonders more deeply and learn valuable lessons about living harmoniously with nature. Many guests return with a renewed commitment to conserve wildlife and their habitats following these transformative experiences.</p>
<p>Consider the perspective of how observing wilderness communication can provide profound insights into better communication, collective living, and harmonizing with nature's wisdom.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Enjoy the<a href='https://www.tasimba.com/photo-gallery/'> beautiful wilderness photos here.</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why is listening a life saving skill in nature
Let's learn communication skills from the elephants 
In this enlightening episode, host George Torok chats with leadership consultant and coach, Hugh Coppen.
Episode #200 (Repeat of #57)
When he's not on safari in Zimbabwe, Hugh lives in California. 
Coming from a Zimbabwean farm, Coppen has a deep-seated love for wildlife. Now, as a leadership consultant, he channels his passion into valuable lessons for CEOs worldwide. His company, Tasimba, provides immersive safari experiences in Zimbabwe, creating a unique environment for personal and professional growth.
In this discussion, Coppin draws fascinating parallels between wild animal communication (especially elephants) and how we as humans can use similar communication methods. From understanding body language to acknowledging the power of silence, we explore lessons from the wild that can enhance our effectiveness in communication.
We delve deeper into 'listening' - not just to spoken words, but to non-verbal cues and our surrounding environment. Given their lack of speech, wild animals embrace body language and other communication modes that are insightful to us.
Coppen uses practical examples from the animal kingdom, like the positioning of an elephant's head or a flapping of the ears, to underline the importance of body language in effective communication and building listeners’ trust.
This episode, combining adventurous storytelling with critical leadership insights, is a must-listen for professionals looking to enhance their communication skills or anybody interested in learning from nature.
We also look at advanced communication skills in wilderness creatures like Rams and impalas,, especially during their mating seasons. These creatures have evolved complex vocalization methods and an astounding sense of sound, facilitating communication across great distances, safeguarding them from predators.
Another point of discussion is the intricate sub-aural communication method elephant families use. These communications, mostly unheard by humans and predators, help elephants coordinate complicated activities and respect for each other. The example of Cape buffalo herds coming together in large numbers during scarce resources is another humbling lesson to humanity.
Finally, we examine the immersive safari tours in Zimbabwe hosted by Tasimba. These tours provide a unique opportunity to understand nature’s wonders more deeply and learn valuable lessons about living harmoniously with nature. Many guests return with a renewed commitment to conserve wildlife and their habitats following these transformative experiences.
Consider the perspective of how observing wilderness communication can provide profound insights into better communication, collective living, and harmonizing with nature's wisdom.
-----
Enjoy the beautiful wilderness photos here.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/mitigate-emotional-triggers-for-personal-growth-and-professional-success/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Thu, 21 Mar 2024 11:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[You can calm that angry person in 90 seconds or less
Treat anger as a normal emotional response that you can control
<p>Episode 199 (Doug is based in California and this is a repeat of episode 117)</p>
<p>Why you need to listen to this episode now.</p>
<p>If you ever need to face angry people and want a better way to manage the situation, listen to this conversation to save the situation and relationship.</p>
<p>If you ever feel out of control from your own anger, examine this perspective to maintain your dignity while deescalating the situation.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>George Torok and special guest, Doug Knoll - an attorney turned peacemaker - explore the nuanced world of anger and its impact on both personal and professional environments. Focusing on de-escalation strategies and the key role of active listening, this podcast sheds light on how to manage one's emotions, particularly anger, in challenging situations.</p>
<p>Knoll provides a unique perspective on anger, viewing it as a response to boundary violations rather than labeling it as “good” or “bad”.</p>
<p>His de-escalation strategies have found success in the most unlikely of places, including maximum-security prisons, attesting to their effectiveness.</p>
<p>The takeaways from this episode can help leaders better understand their team's emotions, promote effective conflict resolution, and ensure a healthier, more empathetic workspace.</p>
<p>The podcast dives deep into the concept of triggers and their role in hijacking rationality, offering effective tactics to anticipate, understand, and respond to these emotional triggers.</p>
<p>The importance of self-awareness and self-regulation are highlighted, along with a novel approach to redirect the frustration caused by commonly-encountered triggers.</p>
<p>Transitioning into the more sensitive realm of emotional invalidation, the episode examines its harmful effects in personal and professional relationships.</p>
<p>The discussion is geared towards parents, teachers, team leaders, and anyone looking to foster emotional safety and create deeper, healthier relationships.</p>
<p>The importance of emotional validation is underpinned, coupled with practical techniques to effectively validate and address emotions.</p>
<p>Notably, this episode not only offers intellectual paths to managing anger but also guidance for those grappling with pervasive anger issues stemming from trauma.</p>
<p>Prepare to be drawn into a riveting conversation about controlling anger for personal growth and professional success as you tune into this podcast.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About Doug Noll</p>
<p>Doug Noll is a lawyer-turned-peacemaker. In addition to his law degree, he has a Masters Degree in Peacemaking and Conflict Studies.  In 2000, he left a successful law practice as a civil trial lawyer to help people resolve conflicts without litigation or conflict.</p>
<p>Doug was born nearly blind, partially deaf, and with two clubbed feet. His disabilities were challenging to overcome….and he did</p>
<p>He’s a second-degree black belt and tai chi master, a certified ski instructor, an airplane and helicopter pilot, a white-water river rafter, and a jazz violinist.</p>
<p>Doug teaches people how to de-escalate angry people in 90 seconds or less. His fourth book, an Amazon bestseller, is called De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less. Doug has online video courses and provides workshops and coaching to individuals and organizations desiring to increase their emotional competency.</p>
<p>As a listener of Your Intended Message you are entitled to receive a free book, How to Listen Others into Existence.</p>
<p>Learn more Doug Noll here <a href='https://dougnoll.com/'>https://dougnoll.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[You can calm that angry person in 90 seconds or less
Treat anger as a normal emotional response that you can control
<p>Episode 199 (Doug is based in California and this is a repeat of episode 117)</p>
<p>Why you need to listen to this episode now.</p>
<p>If you ever need to face angry people and want a better way to manage the situation, listen to this conversation to save the situation and relationship.</p>
<p>If you ever feel out of control from your own anger, examine this perspective to maintain your dignity while deescalating the situation.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>George Torok and special guest, Doug Knoll - an attorney turned peacemaker - explore the nuanced world of anger and its impact on both personal and professional environments. Focusing on de-escalation strategies and the key role of active listening, this podcast sheds light on how to manage one's emotions, particularly anger, in challenging situations.</p>
<p>Knoll provides a unique perspective on anger, viewing it as a response to boundary violations rather than labeling it as “good” or “bad”.</p>
<p>His de-escalation strategies have found success in the most unlikely of places, including maximum-security prisons, attesting to their effectiveness.</p>
<p>The takeaways from this episode can help leaders better understand their team's emotions, promote effective conflict resolution, and ensure a healthier, more empathetic workspace.</p>
<p>The podcast dives deep into the concept of triggers and their role in hijacking rationality, offering effective tactics to anticipate, understand, and respond to these emotional triggers.</p>
<p>The importance of self-awareness and self-regulation are highlighted, along with a novel approach to redirect the frustration caused by commonly-encountered triggers.</p>
<p>Transitioning into the more sensitive realm of emotional invalidation, the episode examines its harmful effects in personal and professional relationships.</p>
<p>The discussion is geared towards parents, teachers, team leaders, and anyone looking to foster emotional safety and create deeper, healthier relationships.</p>
<p>The importance of emotional validation is underpinned, coupled with practical techniques to effectively validate and address emotions.</p>
<p>Notably, this episode not only offers intellectual paths to managing anger but also guidance for those grappling with pervasive anger issues stemming from trauma.</p>
<p>Prepare to be drawn into a riveting conversation about controlling anger for personal growth and professional success as you tune into this podcast.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About Doug Noll</p>
<p>Doug Noll is a lawyer-turned-peacemaker. In addition to his law degree, he has a Masters Degree in Peacemaking and Conflict Studies.  In 2000, he left a successful law practice as a civil trial lawyer to help people resolve conflicts without litigation or conflict.</p>
<p>Doug was born nearly blind, partially deaf, and with two clubbed feet. His disabilities were challenging to overcome….and he did</p>
<p>He’s a second-degree black belt and tai chi master, a certified ski instructor, an airplane and helicopter pilot, a white-water river rafter, and a jazz violinist.</p>
<p>Doug teaches people how to de-escalate angry people in 90 seconds or less. His fourth book, an Amazon bestseller, is called De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less. Doug has online video courses and provides workshops and coaching to individuals and organizations desiring to increase their emotional competency.</p>
<p>As a listener of Your Intended Message you are entitled to receive a free book, How to Listen Others into Existence.</p>
<p>Learn more Doug Noll here <a href='https://dougnoll.com/'>https://dougnoll.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[You can calm that angry person in 90 seconds or less
Treat anger as a normal emotional response that you can control
Episode 199 (Doug is based in California and this is a repeat of episode 117)
Why you need to listen to this episode now.
If you ever need to face angry people and want a better way to manage the situation, listen to this conversation to save the situation and relationship.
If you ever feel out of control from your own anger, examine this perspective to maintain your dignity while deescalating the situation.
-----
George Torok and special guest, Doug Knoll - an attorney turned peacemaker - explore the nuanced world of anger and its impact on both personal and professional environments. Focusing on de-escalation strategies and the key role of active listening, this podcast sheds light on how to manage one's emotions, particularly anger, in challenging situations.
Knoll provides a unique perspective on anger, viewing it as a response to boundary violations rather than labeling it as “good” or “bad”.
His de-escalation strategies have found success in the most unlikely of places, including maximum-security prisons, attesting to their effectiveness.
The takeaways from this episode can help leaders better understand their team's emotions, promote effective conflict resolution, and ensure a healthier, more empathetic workspace.
The podcast dives deep into the concept of triggers and their role in hijacking rationality, offering effective tactics to anticipate, understand, and respond to these emotional triggers.
The importance of self-awareness and self-regulation are highlighted, along with a novel approach to redirect the frustration caused by commonly-encountered triggers.
Transitioning into the more sensitive realm of emotional invalidation, the episode examines its harmful effects in personal and professional relationships.
The discussion is geared towards parents, teachers, team leaders, and anyone looking to foster emotional safety and create deeper, healthier relationships.
The importance of emotional validation is underpinned, coupled with practical techniques to effectively validate and address emotions.
Notably, this episode not only offers intellectual paths to managing anger but also guidance for those grappling with pervasive anger issues stemming from trauma.
Prepare to be drawn into a riveting conversation about controlling anger for personal growth and professional success as you tune into this podcast.
-----
About Doug Noll
Doug Noll is a lawyer-turned-peacemaker. In addition to his law degree, he has a Masters Degree in Peacemaking and Conflict Studies.  In 2000, he left a successful law practice as a civil trial lawyer to help people resolve conflicts without litigation or conflict.
Doug was born nearly blind, partially deaf, and with two clubbed feet. His disabilities were challenging to overcome….and he did
He’s a second-degree black belt and tai chi master, a certified ski instructor, an airplane and helicopter pilot, a white-water river rafter, and a jazz violinist.
Doug teaches people how to de-escalate angry people in 90 seconds or less. His fourth book, an Amazon bestseller, is called De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less. Doug has online video courses and provides workshops and coaching to individuals and organizations desiring to increase their emotional competency.
As a listener of Your Intended Message you are entitled to receive a free book, How to Listen Others into Existence.
Learn more Doug Noll here https://dougnoll.com/
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
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        <title>Seven Magic Words to Influence People: Tim David</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[The Magic Words to Motivate, Engage &amp; Influence
Seven simple words to boost the power of your message
<p>Episode 198 (Tim is based in Boston)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Tim David we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What we can learn from magicians about recognizing other's perspective</li>
<li>Magic techniques to grab the attention of your audience</li>
<li>What is it about magic that capture our imagination?</li>
<li>How to connect with people</li>
<li>How to leverage intended mistakes or flaws to appear more human</li>
<li>How your subconscious brain reacts to these magic words</li>
<li>Why you pick words that sound like their name</li>
<li>The sin of being an irresponsible communicator</li>
<li>The five ways to get the best results from saying thanks</li>
</ul>
<p>About our Guest Tim David:</p>
<p>Tim is the author of several books, including, "Magic Words: The Science and Secrets Behind 7 Words that Motivate, Engage and Influence".</p>
<p>A CNN piece listed him as the 9th best motivational speaker in the world.</p>
<p>For 8 years, he was a professional magician touring and delivering up to 300 shows a year.</p>
<p>Learn more about his latest book here:</p>
<p><a href='https://www.goodatpeople.com/'>Magic Words: The Science and Secrets Behind 7 Words that Motivate, Engage and Influence</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.goodatpeople.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this Conversation with Tim David:</p>
<p>The thing that magicians really focus on is the other person's perspective.</p>
<p>And if you think about it, a magician is going to practice for hours in front of a mirror so that we can see what you see, we're going to video record ourselves, we're going to hire coaches to sit in different seats of the theatre, so that we know exactly what each audience member is experiencing.</p>
<p>In fact, there's a phrase that magicians tell each other all the time when they're critiquing each other. And the phrase is, watch your angles.</p>
<p>-----</p>
One of my speaking coaches said to me, I need you to pretend that half of your audience is blind, and half of your audience is deaf. That way you can cater your audio and you can cater your visual messages and treat each one independently.
<p>-----</p>
The seven words are yes, but if because, help, thanks, and a person's name, and a person's name.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[The Magic Words to Motivate, Engage &amp; Influence
Seven simple words to boost the power of your message
<p>Episode 198 (Tim is based in Boston)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Tim David we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What we can learn from magicians about recognizing other's perspective</li>
<li>Magic techniques to grab the attention of your audience</li>
<li>What is it about magic that capture our imagination?</li>
<li>How to connect with people</li>
<li>How to leverage intended mistakes or flaws to appear more human</li>
<li>How your subconscious brain reacts to these magic words</li>
<li>Why you pick words that sound like their name</li>
<li>The sin of being an irresponsible communicator</li>
<li>The five ways to get the best results from saying thanks</li>
</ul>
<p>About our Guest Tim David:</p>
<p>Tim is the author of several books, including, "Magic Words: The Science and Secrets Behind 7 Words that Motivate, Engage and Influence".</p>
<p>A CNN piece listed him as the 9th best motivational speaker in the world.</p>
<p>For 8 years, he was a professional magician touring and delivering up to 300 shows a year.</p>
<p>Learn more about his latest book here:</p>
<p><a href='https://www.goodatpeople.com/'>Magic Words: The Science and Secrets Behind 7 Words that Motivate, Engage and Influence</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.goodatpeople.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this Conversation with Tim David:</p>
<p>The thing that magicians really focus on is the other person's perspective.</p>
<p>And if you think about it, a magician is going to practice for hours in front of a mirror so that we can see what you see, we're going to video record ourselves, we're going to hire coaches to sit in different seats of the theatre, so that we know exactly what each audience member is experiencing.</p>
<p>In fact, there's a phrase that magicians tell each other all the time when they're critiquing each other. And the phrase is, watch your angles.</p>
<p>-----</p>
One of my speaking coaches said to me, I need you to pretend that half of your audience is blind, and half of your audience is deaf. That way you can cater your audio and you can cater your visual messages and treat each one independently.
<p>-----</p>
The seven words are yes, but if because, help, thanks, and a person's name, and a person's name.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Magic Words to Motivate, Engage &amp; Influence
Seven simple words to boost the power of your message
Episode 198 (Tim is based in Boston)
In this conversation with Tim David we explore:
What we can learn from magicians about recognizing other's perspective
Magic techniques to grab the attention of your audience
What is it about magic that capture our imagination?
How to connect with people
How to leverage intended mistakes or flaws to appear more human
How your subconscious brain reacts to these magic words
Why you pick words that sound like their name
The sin of being an irresponsible communicator
The five ways to get the best results from saying thanks
About our Guest Tim David:
Tim is the author of several books, including, "Magic Words: The Science and Secrets Behind 7 Words that Motivate, Engage and Influence".
A CNN piece listed him as the 9th best motivational speaker in the world.
For 8 years, he was a professional magician touring and delivering up to 300 shows a year.
Learn more about his latest book here:
Magic Words: The Science and Secrets Behind 7 Words that Motivate, Engage and Influence

-----
Excerpts from this Conversation with Tim David:
The thing that magicians really focus on is the other person's perspective.
And if you think about it, a magician is going to practice for hours in front of a mirror so that we can see what you see, we're going to video record ourselves, we're going to hire coaches to sit in different seats of the theatre, so that we know exactly what each audience member is experiencing.
In fact, there's a phrase that magicians tell each other all the time when they're critiquing each other. And the phrase is, watch your angles.
-----
One of my speaking coaches said to me, I need you to pretend that half of your audience is blind, and half of your audience is deaf. That way you can cater your audio and you can cater your visual messages and treat each one independently.
-----
The seven words are yes, but if because, help, thanks, and a person's name, and a person's name.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Face to Face Networking is back and more important
How to get out and meet people in person
<p>Episode 197 (Will is based in the UK)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Will Kintish, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The three fears that people face when networking</li>
<li>The myths and realities of face-to-face networking</li>
<li>How to boost your self-confidence when attending an event</li>
<li>How to go to an event with a friend for support</li>
<li>Recognizing open versus closed groups</li>
<li>How to introduce yourself to strangers</li>
<li>Better ways to open the conversation</li>
<li>How to build the relationships - the real purpose</li>
<li>The importance of follow-up after the first meeting</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Will Kintish:</p>
<p>Will’s expertise and knowledge helps develop face-to face networking skills to ensure successful careers</p>
<p>The key to success in todays’ modern world is to be visible and proactive. Will gives you the tools to be able to do these.</p>
<p>Will is in his 60th year of work and knows his subject matter is  as relevant today as it was when he started working</p>
<p>Learn more about his book: <a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=http%3A%2F%2Ftinyurl.com%2Fytv833u4&amp;data=05%7C02%7C%7C0bd5cc519de74519e9d508dc26fbacc9%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638428109606118229%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=JKfCxhGDeLGQR4bM7YeiBYHrFUjfP8h6%2BFUJlMPDFPk%3D&amp;reserved=0'>Business Networking: The Survival Guide</a></p>
<p><a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=http%3A%2F%2Ftinyurl.com%2Fytv833u4&amp;data=05%7C02%7C%7C0bd5cc519de74519e9d508dc26fbacc9%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638428109606118229%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=JKfCxhGDeLGQR4bM7YeiBYHrFUjfP8h6%2BFUJlMPDFPk%3D&amp;reserved=0'></a></p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Will Kintish:</p>
People have got to know who you are, people have got to know what you do. And people need to know what is going on in the marketplace. And those are the three key reasons why we all need to be out there.
<p>-----</p>
<p>if you're going to a networking event, people are there for the same reason you're there to meet other people.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>They're all everybody's there for the same reason. They're looking for what I call the aha moment, the light bulb moment, we are looking to going back to our friend Dale Carnegie, we are there to make friends and influence people.</p>
<p>Your program is called your intended message. And the message has to be you're just going to create new relationships, no selling whatever you do, don't go selling other than your personality. Simple as that.</p>
<p>And, for example, how do we get the show on the road? How do we get that first question out? I mean, the easiest people to join, even if you go with if you go on your own, George that person standing alone against the wall is the easiest person to approach.</p>
<p>You go up to them slowly, you smile at them, you look them in the eye and say "Hello there, please may I introduce myself?" I mean, what can be easier, or "Please may I join you?" Simple as that.</p>
<p>And then you start with that, and you introduce yourselves. Now it's at this moment, a lot of people get it wrong, right from the start. Because 90% of people admit it to me. I'm rubbish with names, I forget their name immediately.</p>
<p>And I say no, you don't forget their name. You didn't hear it good. You're not listening to names. When it comes to networking at relationship building is fundamental.</p>
<p>So if I go up to you, I am going to concentrate on the listening for your name. If you say it very, very quickly, George Torok.</p>
<p>And it's a noisy room and I don't hear, "Sorry, tell me again". you're never going to say to me, I've told you once, I'm not going to tell you again. You're never going people aren't ever going to say that.</p>
<p>But by making sure you get their name, you use their name a couple of times, and make sure it sticks. You're not going to remember everybody's name at the event.</p>
<p>But whilst I'm talking to you, George, I'm going to remember your name. Because what happens if my friend Mary comes over and I have to introduce you. And I've forgotten your name. That is very, very embarrassing.</p>
<p>And you're not going to feel good about me. Because I've forgotten your name. So I work very hard at remembering your name.</p>
<p>Now, maybe 20 minutes later, when I've gone off to meet other groups, I might have forgotten your name. But while you and I are in that conversation, your name is going to stick with me.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Face to Face Networking is back and more important
How to get out and meet people in person
<p>Episode 197 (Will is based in the UK)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Will Kintish, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The three fears that people face when networking</li>
<li>The myths and realities of face-to-face networking</li>
<li>How to boost your self-confidence when attending an event</li>
<li>How to go to an event with a friend for support</li>
<li>Recognizing open versus closed groups</li>
<li>How to introduce yourself to strangers</li>
<li>Better ways to open the conversation</li>
<li>How to build the relationships - the real purpose</li>
<li>The importance of follow-up after the first meeting</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Will Kintish:</p>
<p>Will’s expertise and knowledge helps develop face-to face networking skills to ensure successful careers</p>
<p>The key to success in todays’ modern world is to be visible and proactive. Will gives you the tools to be able to do these.</p>
<p>Will is in his 60th year of work and knows his subject matter is  as relevant today as it was when he started working</p>
<p>Learn more about his book: <a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=http%3A%2F%2Ftinyurl.com%2Fytv833u4&amp;data=05%7C02%7C%7C0bd5cc519de74519e9d508dc26fbacc9%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638428109606118229%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=JKfCxhGDeLGQR4bM7YeiBYHrFUjfP8h6%2BFUJlMPDFPk%3D&amp;reserved=0'>Business Networking: The Survival Guide</a></p>
<p><a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=http%3A%2F%2Ftinyurl.com%2Fytv833u4&amp;data=05%7C02%7C%7C0bd5cc519de74519e9d508dc26fbacc9%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638428109606118229%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C0%7C%7C%7C&amp;sdata=JKfCxhGDeLGQR4bM7YeiBYHrFUjfP8h6%2BFUJlMPDFPk%3D&amp;reserved=0'></a></p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Will Kintish:</p>
People have got to know who you are, people have got to know what you do. And people need to know what is going on in the marketplace. And those are the three key reasons why we all need to be out there.
<p>-----</p>
<p>if you're going to a networking event, people are there for the same reason you're there to meet other people.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>They're all everybody's there for the same reason. They're looking for what I call the aha moment, the light bulb moment, we are looking to going back to our friend Dale Carnegie, we are there to make friends and influence people.</p>
<p>Your program is called your intended message. And the message has to be you're just going to create new relationships, no selling whatever you do, don't go selling other than your personality. Simple as that.</p>
<p>And, for example, how do we get the show on the road? How do we get that first question out? I mean, the easiest people to join, even if you go with if you go on your own, George that person standing alone against the wall is the easiest person to approach.</p>
<p>You go up to them slowly, you smile at them, you look them in the eye and say "Hello there, please may I introduce myself?" I mean, what can be easier, or "Please may I join you?" Simple as that.</p>
<p>And then you start with that, and you introduce yourselves. Now it's at this moment, a lot of people get it wrong, right from the start. Because 90% of people admit it to me. I'm rubbish with names, I forget their name immediately.</p>
<p>And I say no, you don't forget their name. You didn't hear it good. You're not listening to names. When it comes to networking at relationship building is fundamental.</p>
<p>So if I go up to you, I am going to concentrate on the listening for your name. If you say it very, very quickly, George Torok.</p>
<p>And it's a noisy room and I don't hear, "Sorry, tell me again". you're never going to say to me, I've told you once, I'm not going to tell you again. You're never going people aren't ever going to say that.</p>
<p>But by making sure you get their name, you use their name a couple of times, and make sure it sticks. You're not going to remember everybody's name at the event.</p>
<p>But whilst I'm talking to you, George, I'm going to remember your name. Because what happens if my friend Mary comes over and I have to introduce you. And I've forgotten your name. That is very, very embarrassing.</p>
<p>And you're not going to feel good about me. Because I've forgotten your name. So I work very hard at remembering your name.</p>
<p>Now, maybe 20 minutes later, when I've gone off to meet other groups, I might have forgotten your name. But while you and I are in that conversation, your name is going to stick with me.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Face to Face Networking is back and more important
How to get out and meet people in person
Episode 197 (Will is based in the UK)
In this conversation with Will Kintish, we explore:
The three fears that people face when networking
The myths and realities of face-to-face networking
How to boost your self-confidence when attending an event
How to go to an event with a friend for support
Recognizing open versus closed groups
How to introduce yourself to strangers
Better ways to open the conversation
How to build the relationships - the real purpose
The importance of follow-up after the first meeting
About our guest, Will Kintish:
Will’s expertise and knowledge helps develop face-to face networking skills to ensure successful careers
The key to success in todays’ modern world is to be visible and proactive. Will gives you the tools to be able to do these.
Will is in his 60th year of work and knows his subject matter is  as relevant today as it was when he started working
Learn more about his book: Business Networking: The Survival Guide

Excerpts from this conversation with Will Kintish:
People have got to know who you are, people have got to know what you do. And people need to know what is going on in the marketplace. And those are the three key reasons why we all need to be out there.
-----
if you're going to a networking event, people are there for the same reason you're there to meet other people.
-----
They're all everybody's there for the same reason. They're looking for what I call the aha moment, the light bulb moment, we are looking to going back to our friend Dale Carnegie, we are there to make friends and influence people.
Your program is called your intended message. And the message has to be you're just going to create new relationships, no selling whatever you do, don't go selling other than your personality. Simple as that.
And, for example, how do we get the show on the road? How do we get that first question out? I mean, the easiest people to join, even if you go with if you go on your own, George that person standing alone against the wall is the easiest person to approach.
You go up to them slowly, you smile at them, you look them in the eye and say "Hello there, please may I introduce myself?" I mean, what can be easier, or "Please may I join you?" Simple as that.
And then you start with that, and you introduce yourselves. Now it's at this moment, a lot of people get it wrong, right from the start. Because 90% of people admit it to me. I'm rubbish with names, I forget their name immediately.
And I say no, you don't forget their name. You didn't hear it good. You're not listening to names. When it comes to networking at relationship building is fundamental.
So if I go up to you, I am going to concentrate on the listening for your name. If you say it very, very quickly, George Torok.
And it's a noisy room and I don't hear, "Sorry, tell me again". you're never going to say to me, I've told you once, I'm not going to tell you again. You're never going people aren't ever going to say that.
But by making sure you get their name, you use their name a couple of times, and make sure it sticks. You're not going to remember everybody's name at the event.
But whilst I'm talking to you, George, I'm going to remember your name. Because what happens if my friend Mary comes over and I have to introduce you. And I've forgotten your name. That is very, very embarrassing.
And you're not going to feel good about me. Because I've forgotten your name. So I work very hard at remembering your name.
Now, maybe 20 minutes later, when I've gone off to meet other groups, I might have forgotten your name. But while you and I are in that conversation, your name is going to stick with me.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Use the pause to emphasize your message when speaking
Solo show featuring George Torok 
<p>Episode 196</p>
<p>In this show you will hear 10 reasons to make tactical use of the pause in your speaking</p>
<p>George Torok is known as the Speech Coach for Executives. He coaches executives to deliver more powerful and confidence presentations.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/</a></p>
<p>He trains professionals to deliver Superior Presentations.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this episode about the pause:</p>
Pause for Power: Why you need to become comfortable with silence!
<p>Do you remember that cliché “Silence is Golden”?</p>
<p>There are times when you might appreciate some silence in your life. On the other hand, silence can feel disquieting, disturbing and anxiety ridden.</p>
<p>When you are speaking to an audience you might consider silence the enemy or the sign of a bad presentation.</p>
<p>Imagine that you get lost in your thoughts and stop speaking. You go silent and anguish while trying to recover and start speaking again.</p>
<p>You might even feel that any noise is preferable to silence. That’s when the umms and ahhs escape your lips.</p>
<p>Don’t panic. Consider the positive benefits of pauses in your presentation. Even an unplanned pause can be perceived as a positive light.</p>
<p>Imagine how you can improve the power of your presentation by inserting tactical pauses throughout the presentation. The ability to pause might be the most important technique that all speakers need to learn.</p>
<p>It might sound simple but like many simple lessons, it’s not easy.</p>
<p>It can be extremely difficult to pause when you are delivering a presentation. You might feel compelled to speak because you believe silence is the enemy. You perceive pausing as a sign of weakness. The reality is that silence could be your most powerful communication tool.</p>
<p>Perhaps you’re not convinced. That’s understandable. Consider these examples and reasons to pause during your presentation.</p>
<p>Let’s follow the advice from Simon Sinek and start with the why.</p>
<p>Listen to these 10 reasons to use the pause in your presentation.</p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Use the pause to emphasize your message when speaking
Solo show featuring George Torok 
<p>Episode 196</p>
<p>In this show you will hear 10 reasons to make tactical use of the pause in your speaking</p>
<p>George Torok is known as the Speech Coach for Executives. He coaches executives to deliver more powerful and confidence presentations.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/</a></p>
<p>He trains professionals to deliver Superior Presentations.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this episode about the pause:</p>
Pause for Power: Why you need to become comfortable with silence!
<p>Do you remember that cliché “Silence is Golden”?</p>
<p>There are times when you might appreciate some silence in your life. On the other hand, silence can feel disquieting, disturbing and anxiety ridden.</p>
<p>When you are speaking to an audience you might consider silence the enemy or the sign of a bad presentation.</p>
<p>Imagine that you get lost in your thoughts and stop speaking. You go silent and anguish while trying to recover and start speaking again.</p>
<p>You might even feel that any noise is preferable to silence. That’s when the umms and ahhs escape your lips.</p>
<p>Don’t panic. Consider the positive benefits of pauses in your presentation. Even an unplanned pause can be perceived as a positive light.</p>
<p>Imagine how you can improve the power of your presentation by inserting tactical pauses throughout the presentation. The ability to pause might be the most important technique that all speakers need to learn.</p>
<p>It might sound simple but like many simple lessons, it’s not easy.</p>
<p>It can be extremely difficult to pause when you are delivering a presentation. You might feel compelled to speak because you believe silence is the enemy. You perceive pausing as a sign of weakness. The reality is that silence could be your most powerful communication tool.</p>
<p>Perhaps you’re not convinced. That’s understandable. Consider these examples and reasons to pause during your presentation.</p>
<p>Let’s follow the advice from Simon Sinek and start with the why.</p>
<p>Listen to these 10 reasons to use the pause in your presentation.</p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Use the pause to emphasize your message when speaking
Solo show featuring George Torok 
Episode 196
In this show you will hear 10 reasons to make tactical use of the pause in your speaking
George Torok is known as the Speech Coach for Executives. He coaches executives to deliver more powerful and confidence presentations.
https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/
He trains professionals to deliver Superior Presentations.
-----
Excerpts from this episode about the pause:
Pause for Power: Why you need to become comfortable with silence!
Do you remember that cliché “Silence is Golden”?
There are times when you might appreciate some silence in your life. On the other hand, silence can feel disquieting, disturbing and anxiety ridden.
When you are speaking to an audience you might consider silence the enemy or the sign of a bad presentation.
Imagine that you get lost in your thoughts and stop speaking. You go silent and anguish while trying to recover and start speaking again.
You might even feel that any noise is preferable to silence. That’s when the umms and ahhs escape your lips.
Don’t panic. Consider the positive benefits of pauses in your presentation. Even an unplanned pause can be perceived as a positive light.
Imagine how you can improve the power of your presentation by inserting tactical pauses throughout the presentation. The ability to pause might be the most important technique that all speakers need to learn.
It might sound simple but like many simple lessons, it’s not easy.
It can be extremely difficult to pause when you are delivering a presentation. You might feel compelled to speak because you believe silence is the enemy. You perceive pausing as a sign of weakness. The reality is that silence could be your most powerful communication tool.
Perhaps you’re not convinced. That’s understandable. Consider these examples and reasons to pause during your presentation.
Let’s follow the advice from Simon Sinek and start with the why.
Listen to these 10 reasons to use the pause in your presentation.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How can you apply Design Thinking to your presentation?
What is the total experience of your audience?
<p>Episode 195 (Ben is based in the UK)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Ben Sauer, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How might design thinking apply to presentation design and delivery?</li>
<li>How to think from the audience perspective?</li>
<li>Why the details mater</li>
<li>How to design your presentation on the wall with post-it notes</li>
<li>Why design is more about "how it works" vs "how it looks"</li>
<li>What is the empathy gap that you need to recognize</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Ben Sauer:</p>
<p>Ben is a designer who helped designers present more effectively. He's since learn how to apply design thinking to presentation development and delivery. He is the author of the book, Death by Screens, How to Present High Stakes Digital Work,</p>
<p>Check out his book here.</p>
<p><a href='https://bensauer.net/deathbyscreens/'>https://bensauer.net/deathbyscreens/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Ben Sauer:</p>
<p>We're coming at communication from a different angle today from the concept of how designers think and what you've learned from that process and how you've translated that into better communication.</p>
<p>So let's start with how do designers think and how do they communicate?</p>
<p>That's a great question. Well, you know, I coached designers on how to communicate. So you know, they still have some ways to go.</p>
<p>What I would say about that is, they really like to think in depth about how something affects the audience or the users.</p>
<p>And so what I would suggest that other people can learn from designers is, if you can learn a bit about how they think it can really improve how you deliver your intended message. And then there's also the process.</p>
<p>So how do they go about crafting a message or a piece of communication? These are all skills, you know, we tend to think of design. When most people hear the word design, they think of it in the aesthetic sense.</p>
<p>But that's not really how most designers think they like to think about how something works, what the experiences that somebody is receiving at the other end.</p>
<p>And I believe Steve Jobs, I'm paraphrasing badly, but he said something like this, you know, design people think design is the surface, but actually it's how something works. Yeah. Hmm.</p>
<p>-----</p>
So designers like to go into these details about what somebody is experiencing, whether it's the thing, the screen, as well as the voice and the story, the environment to you know, this is why we have this phrase called user experience design. So what is that person experiencing?
<p>-----</p>
<p>I think there's a, there's effectively an empathy gap. That's what you're talking about, right?</p>
<p>Which is how does somebody with an idea about what should happen ie a designer, or somebody crafting a message, actually connect with the state of mind of the person who's going to receive it or use it?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How can you apply Design Thinking to your presentation?
What is the total experience of your audience?
<p>Episode 195 (Ben is based in the UK)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Ben Sauer, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How might design thinking apply to presentation design and delivery?</li>
<li>How to think from the audience perspective?</li>
<li>Why the details mater</li>
<li>How to design your presentation on the wall with post-it notes</li>
<li>Why design is more about "how it works" vs "how it looks"</li>
<li>What is the empathy gap that you need to recognize</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Ben Sauer:</p>
<p>Ben is a designer who helped designers present more effectively. He's since learn how to apply design thinking to presentation development and delivery. He is the author of the book, Death by Screens, How to Present High Stakes Digital Work,</p>
<p><em>Check out his book here.</em></p>
<p><a href='https://bensauer.net/deathbyscreens/'>https://bensauer.net/deathbyscreens/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Ben Sauer:</p>
<p>We're coming at communication from a different angle today from the concept of how designers think and what you've learned from that process and how you've translated that into better communication.</p>
<p>So let's start with how do designers think and how do they communicate?</p>
<p>That's a great question. Well, you know, I coached designers on how to communicate. So you know, they still have some ways to go.</p>
<p>What I would say about that is, they really like to think in depth about how something affects the audience or the users.</p>
<p>And so what I would suggest that other people can learn from designers is, if you can learn a bit about how they think it can really improve how you deliver your intended message. And then there's also the process.</p>
<p>So how do they go about crafting a message or a piece of communication? These are all skills, you know, we tend to think of design. When most people hear the word design, they think of it in the aesthetic sense.</p>
<p>But that's not really how most designers think they like to think about how something works, what the experiences that somebody is receiving at the other end.</p>
<p>And I believe Steve Jobs, I'm paraphrasing badly, but he said something like this, you know, design people think design is the surface, but actually it's how something works. Yeah. Hmm.</p>
<p>-----</p>
So designers like to go into these details about what somebody is experiencing, whether it's the thing, the screen, as well as the voice and the story, the environment to you know, this is why we have this phrase called user experience design. So what is that person experiencing?
<p>-----</p>
<p>I think there's a, there's effectively an empathy gap. That's what you're talking about, right?</p>
<p>Which is how does somebody with an idea about what should happen ie a designer, or somebody crafting a message, actually connect with the state of mind of the person who's going to receive it or use it?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How can you apply Design Thinking to your presentation?
What is the total experience of your audience?
Episode 195 (Ben is based in the UK)
In this conversation with Ben Sauer, we explore:
How might design thinking apply to presentation design and delivery?
How to think from the audience perspective?
Why the details mater
How to design your presentation on the wall with post-it notes
Why design is more about "how it works" vs "how it looks"
What is the empathy gap that you need to recognize
About our guest Ben Sauer:
Ben is a designer who helped designers present more effectively. He's since learn how to apply design thinking to presentation development and delivery. He is the author of the book, Death by Screens, How to Present High Stakes Digital Work,
Check out his book here.
https://bensauer.net/deathbyscreens/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Ben Sauer:
We're coming at communication from a different angle today from the concept of how designers think and what you've learned from that process and how you've translated that into better communication.
So let's start with how do designers think and how do they communicate?
That's a great question. Well, you know, I coached designers on how to communicate. So you know, they still have some ways to go.
What I would say about that is, they really like to think in depth about how something affects the audience or the users.
And so what I would suggest that other people can learn from designers is, if you can learn a bit about how they think it can really improve how you deliver your intended message. And then there's also the process.
So how do they go about crafting a message or a piece of communication? These are all skills, you know, we tend to think of design. When most people hear the word design, they think of it in the aesthetic sense.
But that's not really how most designers think they like to think about how something works, what the experiences that somebody is receiving at the other end.
And I believe Steve Jobs, I'm paraphrasing badly, but he said something like this, you know, design people think design is the surface, but actually it's how something works. Yeah. Hmm.
-----
So designers like to go into these details about what somebody is experiencing, whether it's the thing, the screen, as well as the voice and the story, the environment to you know, this is why we have this phrase called user experience design. So what is that person experiencing?
-----
I think there's a, there's effectively an empathy gap. That's what you're talking about, right?
Which is how does somebody with an idea about what should happen ie a designer, or somebody crafting a message, actually connect with the state of mind of the person who's going to receive it or use it?
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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        <title>Your Linkedin Profile Might be Hurting You: Donna Serdula</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[What does your Linkedin profile say about you and your organization?
Using Linkedin to project your personal brand
<p>Episode 194 (Donna is based in Pennsylvania)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Donna Serdula we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What can executive leader gain from enhancing their Linkedin Profile</li>
<li>Why Linkedin is more than a job board</li>
<li>Why leaders should help their employees enhance their profiles</li>
<li>How to clarify the purpose of your Linkedin presence</li>
<li>Is your profile current or ancient history?</li>
<li>Who are you and what do you stand for?</li>
<li>Why your profile must not look like a resume even if you are searching</li>
<li>Why the company might help their staff look better on Linkedin</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Donna Serdula:</p>
<p>Donna wrote a "For Dummies" book on the topic of Linkedin profiles. She started her business in 2009 and has since branded over 8,000 executives, entrepreneurs and professionals on Linkedin and beyond.</p>
<p>Review and upgrade your Linkedin profile by visiting</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin-makeover.com/order-today/'>https://www.linkedin-makeover.com/order-today/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Donna Serdula:</p>
The LinkedIn profile, it's not the resume. It's a digital introduction. It's a first impression, it is your manifesto.
<p>-----</p>
<p>If you want to be a thought leader, if you really want to dominate the platform, you want to post more than less, but at the same time, you can truly engage with your network and get seen by posting once a week.</p>
<p>It's not so much the quantity as much as it's the quality.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>LinkedIn wants fresh profiles showing up active people, people who have something to say. So by making sure that your profile is up to date, it would be more apt to show up in the search results, versus one that hasn't been touched in six months, right.</p>
<p>When you think of it like that, it makes sense. Keep your profile fresh, you're going to do better in search results.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>How do you decide when you connect versus simply let them follow?</p>
<p>Oh, that's a great question because there is a difference right? connection versus a Follow Follow is one one way street. It's you saying, hey, I want to subscribe to that person's updates.</p>
<p>Whereas when you connect, it's saying, Hey, I know this person, I like I trust this person. And not only am I subscribing to them, but they're going to subscribe to me, and they're going to be in my network, they're grew to become first degree connections, and all of their connections are going to become second degree connections, and all of those connections, connections are going to become third degree connections.</p>
<p>So it really does extend your reach when you connect, when that's a good thing.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[What does your Linkedin profile say about you and your organization?
Using Linkedin to project your personal brand
<p>Episode 194 (Donna is based in Pennsylvania)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Donna Serdula we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What can executive leader gain from enhancing their Linkedin Profile</li>
<li>Why Linkedin is more than a job board</li>
<li>Why leaders should help their employees enhance their profiles</li>
<li>How to clarify the purpose of your Linkedin presence</li>
<li>Is your profile current or ancient history?</li>
<li>Who are you and what do you stand for?</li>
<li>Why your profile must not look like a resume even if you are searching</li>
<li>Why the company might help their staff look better on Linkedin</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Donna Serdula:</p>
<p>Donna wrote a "For Dummies" book on the topic of Linkedin profiles. She started her business in 2009 and has since branded over 8,000 executives, entrepreneurs and professionals on Linkedin and beyond.</p>
<p><em>Review and upgrade your Linkedin profile by visiting</em></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin-makeover.com/order-today/'>https://www.linkedin-makeover.com/order-today/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Donna Serdula:</p>
The LinkedIn profile, it's not the resume. It's a digital introduction. It's a first impression, it is your manifesto.
<p>-----</p>
<p>If you want to be a thought leader, if you really want to dominate the platform, you want to post more than less, but at the same time, you can truly engage with your network and get seen by posting once a week.</p>
<p>It's not so much the quantity as much as it's the quality.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>LinkedIn wants fresh profiles showing up active people, people who have something to say. So by making sure that your profile is up to date, it would be more apt to show up in the search results, versus one that hasn't been touched in six months, right.</p>
<p>When you think of it like that, it makes sense. Keep your profile fresh, you're going to do better in search results.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>How do you decide when you connect versus simply let them follow?</p>
<p>Oh, that's a great question because there is a difference right? connection versus a Follow Follow is one one way street. It's you saying, hey, I want to subscribe to that person's updates.</p>
<p>Whereas when you connect, it's saying, Hey, I know this person, I like I trust this person. And not only am I subscribing to them, but they're going to subscribe to me, and they're going to be in my network, they're grew to become first degree connections, and all of their connections are going to become second degree connections, and all of those connections, connections are going to become third degree connections.</p>
<p>So it really does extend your reach when you connect, when that's a good thing.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What does your Linkedin profile say about you and your organization?
Using Linkedin to project your personal brand
Episode 194 (Donna is based in Pennsylvania)
In this conversation with Donna Serdula we explore:
What can executive leader gain from enhancing their Linkedin Profile
Why Linkedin is more than a job board
Why leaders should help their employees enhance their profiles
How to clarify the purpose of your Linkedin presence
Is your profile current or ancient history?
Who are you and what do you stand for?
Why your profile must not look like a resume even if you are searching
Why the company might help their staff look better on Linkedin
About our guest Donna Serdula:
Donna wrote a "For Dummies" book on the topic of Linkedin profiles. She started her business in 2009 and has since branded over 8,000 executives, entrepreneurs and professionals on Linkedin and beyond.
Review and upgrade your Linkedin profile by visiting
https://www.linkedin-makeover.com/order-today/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Donna Serdula:
The LinkedIn profile, it's not the resume. It's a digital introduction. It's a first impression, it is your manifesto.
-----
If you want to be a thought leader, if you really want to dominate the platform, you want to post more than less, but at the same time, you can truly engage with your network and get seen by posting once a week.
It's not so much the quantity as much as it's the quality.
-----
LinkedIn wants fresh profiles showing up active people, people who have something to say. So by making sure that your profile is up to date, it would be more apt to show up in the search results, versus one that hasn't been touched in six months, right.
When you think of it like that, it makes sense. Keep your profile fresh, you're going to do better in search results.
-----
How do you decide when you connect versus simply let them follow?
Oh, that's a great question because there is a difference right? connection versus a Follow Follow is one one way street. It's you saying, hey, I want to subscribe to that person's updates.
Whereas when you connect, it's saying, Hey, I know this person, I like I trust this person. And not only am I subscribing to them, but they're going to subscribe to me, and they're going to be in my network, they're grew to become first degree connections, and all of their connections are going to become second degree connections, and all of those connections, connections are going to become third degree connections.
So it really does extend your reach when you connect, when that's a good thing.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
 
 
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to write smarter emails
Writing is a learned skill
<p>Episode 193 (Grace is based in Washington DC)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Grace Foster we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why we need to learn how to write smarter emails</li>
<li>The danger of emotional writing</li>
<li>Checking your writing for tone</li>
<li>Consider the New York Times test</li>
<li>Recognizing our negative bias</li>
<li>Why you don't want to "bury the lead"</li>
<li>How to kick start the writing process</li>
<li>Recognizing the difference between the terrible drafts and final edit</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest:</p>
<p>Grace Aldridge Foster is co-founder of Bold Type, a WBENC certified 100% women owned company that trains people how to write more effectively in the workplace.</p>
<p>Learn more about her company and services here </p>
<p><a href='https://www.boldtype.us/'>https://www.boldtype.us/</a></p>
<p>Get the free guide to remove clutter from your writing</p>
<p><a href='https://www.boldtype.us/clutterbust'>https://www.boldtype.us/clutterbust</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Grace Foster:</p>
Your writing speaks for you when you're not in the room. So you have to work harder to make sure that that your message is being received the way you intended it, because you aren't there to walk it back or to course correct.
<p>-----</p>
<p>George, where do I start? I'll first say that I have a lot of sympathy for people writing emails, because we're all expected to do it. We write emails all day, every day, they are the cornerstone of workplace communication.</p>
<p>And yet no one actually has been taught how to write good emails, what happens is we just get into the workplace, and we start observing how other people do it. And we start emulating them.</p>
<p>Well, what happens if everyone who's already there is already writing terrible emails, you never sort of had a chance, right? So I just want to say there are a lot of people out there who are very smart, and actually very good writers, but who still write terrible emails.</p>
<p>And mostly it's because they've never been taught to do better. Things that I noticed are, of course, terrible subject lines, mostly people actually include subject lines these days, thankfully, gone are the days of kind of empty subject lines, because their spam filters, you know, latch on to those completely.</p>
<p>But a lot of times, folks are just way too vague in their subject lines. And I think one of the reasons for that is people forget one of the primary purposes of sending an email versus something else picking up the phone and calling for example, is that you have a record, your inbox is an archive, you can search your inbox looking for a particular conversation or message from someone.</p>
<p>But when you have a very vague subject line, it gets much more difficult to search for a particular email or particular conversation that you had previously. So it's not just that they're vague, which is a problem the first time you receive them that it becomes a problem also, if you want to find that email again later.</p>
<p>So that is certainly a common problem that I see. There. Also, too long. Emails are too long. They are too wordy. They're either too formal or not formal enough, right. The level of formality often doesn't fit the audience and the purpose of a particular message.</p>
<p>And something that we may talk about is that the frustration that I hear over and over from managers who engage in bold type to do email training is why don't my employees just know how to do it right. It's a judgement call.</p>
<p>All it's a judgement issue, you know, why don't they just understand why don't they just get that that email of a sent wasn't right. But that's a difficult thing to learn, it takes time.</p>
<p>-----</p>
You should email like, your messages might end up on the front page of The New York Times because it's happened.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to write smarter emails
Writing is a learned skill
<p>Episode 193 (Grace is based in Washington DC)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Grace Foster we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why we need to learn how to write smarter emails</li>
<li>The danger of emotional writing</li>
<li>Checking your writing for tone</li>
<li>Consider the New York Times test</li>
<li>Recognizing our negative bias</li>
<li>Why you don't want to "bury the lead"</li>
<li>How to kick start the writing process</li>
<li>Recognizing the difference between the terrible drafts and final edit</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest:</p>
<p>Grace Aldridge Foster is co-founder of Bold Type, a WBENC certified 100% women owned company that trains people how to write more effectively in the workplace.</p>
<p>Learn more about her company and services here </p>
<p><a href='https://www.boldtype.us/'>https://www.boldtype.us/</a></p>
<p>Get the free guide to remove clutter from your writing</p>
<p><a href='https://www.boldtype.us/clutterbust'>https://www.boldtype.us/clutterbust</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Grace Foster:</p>
Your writing speaks for you when you're not in the room. So you have to work harder to make sure that that your message is being received the way you intended it, because you aren't there to walk it back or to course correct.
<p>-----</p>
<p>George, where do I start? I'll first say that I have a lot of sympathy for people writing emails, because we're all expected to do it. We write emails all day, every day, they are the cornerstone of workplace communication.</p>
<p>And yet no one actually has been taught how to write good emails, what happens is we just get into the workplace, and we start observing how other people do it. And we start emulating them.</p>
<p>Well, what happens if everyone who's already there is already writing terrible emails, you never sort of had a chance, right? So I just want to say there are a lot of people out there who are very smart, and actually very good writers, but who still write terrible emails.</p>
<p>And mostly it's because they've never been taught to do better. Things that I noticed are, of course, terrible subject lines, mostly people actually include subject lines these days, thankfully, gone are the days of kind of empty subject lines, because their spam filters, you know, latch on to those completely.</p>
<p>But a lot of times, folks are just way too vague in their subject lines. And I think one of the reasons for that is people forget one of the primary purposes of sending an email versus something else picking up the phone and calling for example, is that you have a record, your inbox is an archive, you can search your inbox looking for a particular conversation or message from someone.</p>
<p>But when you have a very vague subject line, it gets much more difficult to search for a particular email or particular conversation that you had previously. So it's not just that they're vague, which is a problem the first time you receive them that it becomes a problem also, if you want to find that email again later.</p>
<p>So that is certainly a common problem that I see. There. Also, too long. Emails are too long. They are too wordy. They're either too formal or not formal enough, right. The level of formality often doesn't fit the audience and the purpose of a particular message.</p>
<p>And something that we may talk about is that the frustration that I hear over and over from managers who engage in bold type to do email training is why don't my employees just know how to do it right. It's a judgement call.</p>
<p>All it's a judgement issue, you know, why don't they just understand why don't they just get that that email of a sent wasn't right. But that's a difficult thing to learn, it takes time.</p>
<p>-----</p>
You should email like, your messages might end up on the front page of The New York Times because it's happened.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to write smarter emails
Writing is a learned skill
Episode 193 (Grace is based in Washington DC)
In this conversation with Grace Foster we explore:
Why we need to learn how to write smarter emails
The danger of emotional writing
Checking your writing for tone
Consider the New York Times test
Recognizing our negative bias
Why you don't want to "bury the lead"
How to kick start the writing process
Recognizing the difference between the terrible drafts and final edit
About our guest:
Grace Aldridge Foster is co-founder of Bold Type, a WBENC certified 100% women owned company that trains people how to write more effectively in the workplace.
Learn more about her company and services here 
https://www.boldtype.us/
Get the free guide to remove clutter from your writing
https://www.boldtype.us/clutterbust
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Grace Foster:
Your writing speaks for you when you're not in the room. So you have to work harder to make sure that that your message is being received the way you intended it, because you aren't there to walk it back or to course correct.
-----
George, where do I start? I'll first say that I have a lot of sympathy for people writing emails, because we're all expected to do it. We write emails all day, every day, they are the cornerstone of workplace communication.
And yet no one actually has been taught how to write good emails, what happens is we just get into the workplace, and we start observing how other people do it. And we start emulating them.
Well, what happens if everyone who's already there is already writing terrible emails, you never sort of had a chance, right? So I just want to say there are a lot of people out there who are very smart, and actually very good writers, but who still write terrible emails.
And mostly it's because they've never been taught to do better. Things that I noticed are, of course, terrible subject lines, mostly people actually include subject lines these days, thankfully, gone are the days of kind of empty subject lines, because their spam filters, you know, latch on to those completely.
But a lot of times, folks are just way too vague in their subject lines. And I think one of the reasons for that is people forget one of the primary purposes of sending an email versus something else picking up the phone and calling for example, is that you have a record, your inbox is an archive, you can search your inbox looking for a particular conversation or message from someone.
But when you have a very vague subject line, it gets much more difficult to search for a particular email or particular conversation that you had previously. So it's not just that they're vague, which is a problem the first time you receive them that it becomes a problem also, if you want to find that email again later.
So that is certainly a common problem that I see. There. Also, too long. Emails are too long. They are too wordy. They're either too formal or not formal enough, right. The level of formality often doesn't fit the audience and the purpose of a particular message.
And something that we may talk about is that the frustration that I hear over and over from managers who engage in bold type to do email training is why don't my employees just know how to do it right. It's a judgement call.
All it's a judgement issue, you know, why don't they just understand why don't they just get that that email of a sent wasn't right. But that's a difficult thing to learn, it takes time.
-----
You should email like, your messages might end up on the front page of The New York Times because it's happened.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Help the toxic star and save your team
"Does not play well with others"
<p>Episode 192 (Dotty is based in Milwaukee)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Dotty Posto we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why do some leaders get mean, and degrading?</li>
<li>How to address this challenge with promising leaders</li>
<li>Identifying the anger and frustration and how to redirect it</li>
<li>Can we save this toxic person to become a true team supporter</li>
<li>The process of diagnosing and correcting destructive behavior</li>
<li>Looking for the balance in their life</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Dotty Posto:</p>
<p>Dotty Posto helps CEOs and Senior Leaders ignite their stagnant culture to inspire their people to outstanding performance.</p>
<p>Dotty began her coaching and consulting business after working in Organizational Development for Fortune 500 companies such as The Chicago Tribune, Aon-Hewitt and Harley-Davidson Motor Company.</p>
<p>Dotty’s clients say, through their work with her, they’ve experienced new levels creativity,  effectiveness, and well-being...without the struggle they'd become accustomed to.  </p>
<p>Learn more about Dotty and her services at her website</p>
<p><a href='https://inplainsightinc.com/'>https://inplainsightinc.com/</a></p>
<p>You can find a free Energy Assessment and the free videos for Leadership Development</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Dotty Posto:</p>
I've seen leaders really get mean, I've seen leaders get judgmental and degrading, and to me that has no place in the workplace.
<p>-----</p>
<p>And that's what's making that action, whatever action is causing the  "does not play well with others" on my report card.</p>
<p>Some people call it a personality conflict, which I do not like that term. It is,, we are in such a brain state of reactivity, that something happens out there that we've seen or heard or experienced before, and it's triggering us and our amygdala is saying that our brain is saying you're not safe.</p>
<p>And it goes into fight, flight or freeze or there's also tend-to. befriend or fawn-on that some women do.</p>
<p> A woman might go into people pleasing, might go into, oh, everything's great, everything's fine. And, and never challenge anyone, or someone might be in the fight, and really go into challenging others and, and being very defensive and angry and upset, and, and so there's these two sides of the spectrum that people can react to when they have those triggers.</p>
<p>And it's creating what I work with people to do is create that space of choice to be able to first realize that it isn't what's out there.</p>
<p>It's got nothing to do with what's out there. It's what's happening in here. And in here, what's going on in our body? What's going on with that anger, that frustration? And what are the thoughts that are sending me there from an anger, frustration perspective?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>I think there's a few things. When I first started working at Harley, one of my managers gave me three leadership principles.</p>
<p>And one of them was get curious. Before you get furious, I am a huge proponent of providing feedback. And if they see an escalating situation, it might even be get curious, ask a question.</p>
<p>Say, Hey, you seem to be getting upset. What's happening that's creating this frustration, help us understand why you're getting frustrated here.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Help the toxic star and save your team
"Does not play well with others"
<p>Episode 192 (Dotty is based in Milwaukee)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Dotty Posto we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why do some leaders get mean, and degrading?</li>
<li>How to address this challenge with promising leaders</li>
<li>Identifying the anger and frustration and how to redirect it</li>
<li>Can we save this toxic person to become a true team supporter</li>
<li>The process of diagnosing and correcting destructive behavior</li>
<li>Looking for the balance in their life</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Dotty Posto:</p>
<p>Dotty Posto helps CEOs and Senior Leaders ignite their stagnant culture to inspire their people to outstanding performance.</p>
<p>Dotty began her coaching and consulting business after working in Organizational Development for Fortune 500 companies such as The Chicago Tribune, Aon-Hewitt and Harley-Davidson Motor Company.</p>
<p>Dotty’s clients say, through their work with her, they’ve experienced new levels creativity,  effectiveness, and well-being...without the struggle they'd become accustomed to.  </p>
<p>Learn more about Dotty and her services at her website</p>
<p><a href='https://inplainsightinc.com/'>https://inplainsightinc.com/</a></p>
<p>You can find a free Energy Assessment and the free videos for Leadership Development</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Dotty Posto:</p>
I've seen leaders really get mean, I've seen leaders get judgmental and degrading, and to me that has no place in the workplace.
<p>-----</p>
<p>And that's what's making that action, whatever action is causing the  "does not play well with others" on my report card.</p>
<p>Some people call it a personality conflict, which I do not like that term. It is,, we are in such a brain state of reactivity, that something happens out there that we've seen or heard or experienced before, and it's triggering us and our amygdala is saying that our brain is saying you're not safe.</p>
<p>And it goes into fight, flight or freeze or there's also tend-to. befriend or fawn-on that some women do.</p>
<p> A woman might go into people pleasing, might go into, oh, everything's great, everything's fine. And, and never challenge anyone, or someone might be in the fight, and really go into challenging others and, and being very defensive and angry and upset, and, and so there's these two sides of the spectrum that people can react to when they have those triggers.</p>
<p>And it's creating what I work with people to do is create that space of choice to be able to first realize that it isn't what's out there.</p>
<p>It's got nothing to do with what's out there. It's what's happening in here. And in here, what's going on in our body? What's going on with that anger, that frustration? And what are the thoughts that are sending me there from an anger, frustration perspective?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>I think there's a few things. When I first started working at Harley, one of my managers gave me three leadership principles.</p>
<p>And one of them was get curious. Before you get furious, I am a huge proponent of providing feedback. And if they see an escalating situation, it might even be get curious, ask a question.</p>
<p>Say, Hey, you seem to be getting upset. What's happening that's creating this frustration, help us understand why you're getting frustrated here.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Help the toxic star and save your team
"Does not play well with others"
Episode 192 (Dotty is based in Milwaukee)
In this conversation with Dotty Posto we explore:
Why do some leaders get mean, and degrading?
How to address this challenge with promising leaders
Identifying the anger and frustration and how to redirect it
Can we save this toxic person to become a true team supporter
The process of diagnosing and correcting destructive behavior
Looking for the balance in their life
About our guest Dotty Posto:
Dotty Posto helps CEOs and Senior Leaders ignite their stagnant culture to inspire their people to outstanding performance.
Dotty began her coaching and consulting business after working in Organizational Development for Fortune 500 companies such as The Chicago Tribune, Aon-Hewitt and Harley-Davidson Motor Company.
Dotty’s clients say, through their work with her, they’ve experienced new levels creativity,  effectiveness, and well-being...without the struggle they'd become accustomed to.  
Learn more about Dotty and her services at her website
https://inplainsightinc.com/
You can find a free Energy Assessment and the free videos for Leadership Development
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Excerpts from this conversation with Dotty Posto:
I've seen leaders really get mean, I've seen leaders get judgmental and degrading, and to me that has no place in the workplace.
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And that's what's making that action, whatever action is causing the  "does not play well with others" on my report card.
Some people call it a personality conflict, which I do not like that term. It is,, we are in such a brain state of reactivity, that something happens out there that we've seen or heard or experienced before, and it's triggering us and our amygdala is saying that our brain is saying you're not safe.
And it goes into fight, flight or freeze or there's also tend-to. befriend or fawn-on that some women do.
 A woman might go into people pleasing, might go into, oh, everything's great, everything's fine. And, and never challenge anyone, or someone might be in the fight, and really go into challenging others and, and being very defensive and angry and upset, and, and so there's these two sides of the spectrum that people can react to when they have those triggers.
And it's creating what I work with people to do is create that space of choice to be able to first realize that it isn't what's out there.
It's got nothing to do with what's out there. It's what's happening in here. And in here, what's going on in our body? What's going on with that anger, that frustration? And what are the thoughts that are sending me there from an anger, frustration perspective?
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I think there's a few things. When I first started working at Harley, one of my managers gave me three leadership principles.
And one of them was get curious. Before you get furious, I am a huge proponent of providing feedback. And if they see an escalating situation, it might even be get curious, ask a question.
Say, Hey, you seem to be getting upset. What's happening that's creating this frustration, help us understand why you're getting frustrated here.
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com]]></itunes:summary>
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        <title>The Human Side of AI: Manuj Aggarwal</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Is your business ready for AI? Are you?
Frankenstein technology or loyal servant?
<p>Episode 191 (Manuj is based in Vancouver BC)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Manuj Aggarwal we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The promise and threat of Artificial Intelligence</li>
<li>The possible impact of AI on your business success</li>
<li>How AI can improve healthcare</li>
<li>How to teach music to millions of students</li>
<li>How you are already using AI almost every day</li>
<li>And much more</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Manuj Aggarawal:</p>
<p>He started as a $2/day factory worker. Now he is a global thought leader in Startups and AI who speaks in the boardrooms of Fortune 500 companies. </p>
<p>President Obama and Bill Gates have praised his education technology.</p>
<p>You can follow or connect with him on Linkedin</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/manujaggarwal/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/manujaggarwal/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Manuj Aggarwal:</p>
Whatever AI learns it is based on the data that humans produce through their real actions in the world. AI then uses that data and says, Oh, okay, this is how humans behave.
<p>So let me help them produce more data. So you know, it's a circle that we are in where technology and humans interact with each other to produce more and more data.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>And the idea here, again, is lthe repetitive tasks, which we have come to know as our job that can be offloaded to AI.</p>
<p>But what that will produce is more time for us to focus on more creative efforts, more efforts where we can really understand human needs for what people are looking for.</p>
<p>I was talking to a neurosurgeon, and they said that 80% of their time goes into administrative work, like entering data about the patient and things of that nature.</p>
<p>They imagine all that overhead is offloaded to AI, that will free up so much more time for the neuroscientists and physicians to focus on their patients.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>We are working with a corporation, where they are trying to manage a lot of complex infrastructure that they have deployed in the field. And in order to manage all that people are spending like 20 hours a week, in meetings, and spreadsheets and emails.</p>
<p>And that's not very good for productivity. So with automation, and the AI, we can bring it down to maybe a couple of hours of meeting a week, and you know, free up all that time for more growth oriented activities for the company.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>So we really need to start thinking about how AI can solve some real problems, which tend to fall in three categories, save some time, help us save some money, or find areas to make more money.</p>
<p>That's the definition of becoming more productive. Right now. We are not thinking deep enough. We are just trying to automate the existing flows that we have in our life. Of course, it will save money, but sometimes you also need to think whether we even need to do this step. And can we just eliminate it altogether</p>
<p>------</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Is your business ready for AI? Are you?
Frankenstein technology or loyal servant?
<p>Episode 191 (Manuj is based in Vancouver BC)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Manuj Aggarwal we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The promise and threat of Artificial Intelligence</li>
<li>The possible impact of AI on your business success</li>
<li>How AI can improve healthcare</li>
<li>How to teach music to millions of students</li>
<li>How you are already using AI almost every day</li>
<li>And much more</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Manuj Aggarawal:</p>
<p>He started as a $2/day factory worker. Now he is a global thought leader in Startups and AI who speaks in the boardrooms of Fortune 500 companies. </p>
<p>President Obama and Bill Gates have praised his education technology.</p>
<p>You can follow or connect with him on Linkedin</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/manujaggarwal/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/manujaggarwal/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Manuj Aggarwal:</p>
Whatever AI learns it is based on the data that humans produce through their real actions in the world. AI then uses that data and says, Oh, okay, this is how humans behave.
<p>So let me help them produce more data. So you know, it's a circle that we are in where technology and humans interact with each other to produce more and more data.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>And the idea here, again, is lthe repetitive tasks, which we have come to know as our job that can be offloaded to AI.</p>
<p>But what that will produce is more time for us to focus on more creative efforts, more efforts where we can really understand human needs for what people are looking for.</p>
<p>I was talking to a neurosurgeon, and they said that 80% of their time goes into administrative work, like entering data about the patient and things of that nature.</p>
<p>They imagine all that overhead is offloaded to AI, that will free up so much more time for the neuroscientists and physicians to focus on their patients.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>We are working with a corporation, where they are trying to manage a lot of complex infrastructure that they have deployed in the field. And in order to manage all that people are spending like 20 hours a week, in meetings, and spreadsheets and emails.</p>
<p>And that's not very good for productivity. So with automation, and the AI, we can bring it down to maybe a couple of hours of meeting a week, and you know, free up all that time for more growth oriented activities for the company.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>So we really need to start thinking about how AI can solve some real problems, which tend to fall in three categories, save some time, help us save some money, or find areas to make more money.</p>
<p>That's the definition of becoming more productive. Right now. We are not thinking deep enough. We are just trying to automate the existing flows that we have in our life. Of course, it will save money, but sometimes you also need to think whether we even need to do this step. And can we just eliminate it altogether</p>
<p>------</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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Frankenstein technology or loyal servant?
Episode 191 (Manuj is based in Vancouver BC)
In this conversation with Manuj Aggarwal we explore:
The promise and threat of Artificial Intelligence
The possible impact of AI on your business success
How AI can improve healthcare
How to teach music to millions of students
How you are already using AI almost every day
And much more
About our guest Manuj Aggarawal:
He started as a $2/day factory worker. Now he is a global thought leader in Startups and AI who speaks in the boardrooms of Fortune 500 companies. 
President Obama and Bill Gates have praised his education technology.
You can follow or connect with him on Linkedin
https://www.linkedin.com/in/manujaggarwal/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Manuj Aggarwal:
Whatever AI learns it is based on the data that humans produce through their real actions in the world. AI then uses that data and says, Oh, okay, this is how humans behave.
So let me help them produce more data. So you know, it's a circle that we are in where technology and humans interact with each other to produce more and more data.
-----
And the idea here, again, is lthe repetitive tasks, which we have come to know as our job that can be offloaded to AI.
But what that will produce is more time for us to focus on more creative efforts, more efforts where we can really understand human needs for what people are looking for.
I was talking to a neurosurgeon, and they said that 80% of their time goes into administrative work, like entering data about the patient and things of that nature.
They imagine all that overhead is offloaded to AI, that will free up so much more time for the neuroscientists and physicians to focus on their patients.
-----
We are working with a corporation, where they are trying to manage a lot of complex infrastructure that they have deployed in the field. And in order to manage all that people are spending like 20 hours a week, in meetings, and spreadsheets and emails.
And that's not very good for productivity. So with automation, and the AI, we can bring it down to maybe a couple of hours of meeting a week, and you know, free up all that time for more growth oriented activities for the company.
-----
So we really need to start thinking about how AI can solve some real problems, which tend to fall in three categories, save some time, help us save some money, or find areas to make more money.
That's the definition of becoming more productive. Right now. We are not thinking deep enough. We are just trying to automate the existing flows that we have in our life. Of course, it will save money, but sometimes you also need to think whether we even need to do this step. And can we just eliminate it altogether
------
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Enter the mind of your prospects
Create and convey a stronger Brand message
<p>Episode 190 (Chaya is based in New Jersey)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Chaya Glatt we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to charge more for your services</li>
<li>Why do we need to discover our brand DNA?</li>
<li>What makes up our brand DNA?</li>
<li>Convince with words or the images for impact</li>
<li>Your thought process in creating an effective message</li>
<li>How to target the right customer</li>
<li>How to prove your claims of excellence</li>
</ul>
<p>About out guest Chaya Glatt:</p>
<p>Chaya Glatt is a brand strategist, business name specialist and copywriter who helps high-performing businesses transform into big-league brands.</p>
<p>She's the creator of the MAD brand strategy formula and developer of Brand Authority, a training program for marketing creatives.</p>
<p>Review the online courses and free resources to boost your brand marketing...</p>
<p><a href='https://chayaglatt.thrivecart.com/chaya-glatts-courses-and-guides/'>https://chayaglatt.thrivecart.com/chaya-glatts-courses-and-guides/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Chaya Glatt:</p>
The MAD formula - Market, Audience, DNA
<p>When we talk about market, that's your competitors. What's already out there, what everybody else is already doing, then they're done that the audience is your audience who you're trying to sell to the DNA is who you are as a brand.</p>
<p>What makes you awesome, the areas where you've innovated the team that you've put together, that is sometimes one of your biggest uniques. So we dig down into all those things, and that's your brand DNA.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Like the name of your podcast, your intended message is to tell the customer, why they should buy from you. </p>
<p>And when the customer hears, we've been around for 25 years, we have good service, we have a guarantee.</p>
<p>Those things are, one, something we hear from everybody else as well. It's very rare that a message like that is truly unique.</p>
<p>And two, those things are hard to believe they're not persuasive. Right? So you've been around for 25 years. So what maybe you've been doing a terrible job for 25 years. So why should I care?</p>
<p>We have good service, what does that even mean? Right? I want to know how that's going to change my life, how that's going to make a difference how that's going to solve a problem for me.</p>
<p>And the guarantee, okay, but I don't even care about your guarantee, because I don't know you, if I want your product. Once I know I want your product. If I hear there's a guarantee. That's cool.</p>
<p>That's the icing on the cake. Awesome, I have no reason to say no. But it doesn't make a difference to me yet, if I don't know that I want your product. And I think that's really like one of the biggest mistakes that brands may is just thinking that they can say whatever they want, and it doesn't need to really be met very meaningful at all.</p>
<p>And somehow their customer is going to get it that they are an industry leader that they are truly experienced, they are not going to get it because you haven't said anything meaningful to them.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Enter the mind of your prospects
Create and convey a stronger Brand message
<p>Episode 190 (Chaya is based in New Jersey)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Chaya Glatt we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to charge more for your services</li>
<li>Why do we need to discover our brand DNA?</li>
<li>What makes up our brand DNA?</li>
<li>Convince with words or the images for impact</li>
<li>Your thought process in creating an effective message</li>
<li>How to target the right customer</li>
<li>How to prove your claims of excellence</li>
</ul>
<p>About out guest Chaya Glatt:</p>
<p>Chaya Glatt is a brand strategist, business name specialist and copywriter who helps high-performing businesses transform into big-league brands.</p>
<p>She's the creator of the MAD brand strategy formula and developer of Brand Authority, a training program for marketing creatives.</p>
<p><em>Review the online courses and free resources to boost your brand marketing...</em></p>
<p><a href='https://chayaglatt.thrivecart.com/chaya-glatts-courses-and-guides/'>https://chayaglatt.thrivecart.com/chaya-glatts-courses-and-guides/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Chaya Glatt:</p>
The MAD formula - Market, Audience, DNA
<p>When we talk about market, that's your competitors. What's already out there, what everybody else is already doing, then they're done that the audience is your audience who you're trying to sell to the DNA is who you are as a brand.</p>
<p>What makes you awesome, the areas where you've innovated the team that you've put together, that is sometimes one of your biggest uniques. So we dig down into all those things, and that's your brand DNA.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Like the name of your podcast, your intended message is to tell the customer, why they should buy from you. </p>
<p>And when the customer hears, we've been around for 25 years, we have good service, we have a guarantee.</p>
<p>Those things are, one, something we hear from everybody else as well. It's very rare that a message like that is truly unique.</p>
<p>And two, those things are hard to believe they're not persuasive. Right? So you've been around for 25 years. So what maybe you've been doing a terrible job for 25 years. So why should I care?</p>
<p>We have good service, what does that even mean? Right? I want to know how that's going to change my life, how that's going to make a difference how that's going to solve a problem for me.</p>
<p>And the guarantee, okay, but I don't even care about your guarantee, because I don't know you, if I want your product. Once I know I want your product. If I hear there's a guarantee. That's cool.</p>
<p>That's the icing on the cake. Awesome, I have no reason to say no. But it doesn't make a difference to me yet, if I don't know that I want your product. And I think that's really like one of the biggest mistakes that brands may is just thinking that they can say whatever they want, and it doesn't need to really be met very meaningful at all.</p>
<p>And somehow their customer is going to get it that they are an industry leader that they are truly experienced, they are not going to get it because you haven't said anything meaningful to them.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Enter the mind of your prospects
Create and convey a stronger Brand message
Episode 190 (Chaya is based in New Jersey)
In this conversation with Chaya Glatt we explore:
How to charge more for your services
Why do we need to discover our brand DNA?
What makes up our brand DNA?
Convince with words or the images for impact
Your thought process in creating an effective message
How to target the right customer
How to prove your claims of excellence
About out guest Chaya Glatt:
Chaya Glatt is a brand strategist, business name specialist and copywriter who helps high-performing businesses transform into big-league brands.
She's the creator of the MAD brand strategy formula and developer of Brand Authority, a training program for marketing creatives.
Review the online courses and free resources to boost your brand marketing...
https://chayaglatt.thrivecart.com/chaya-glatts-courses-and-guides/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Chaya Glatt:
The MAD formula - Market, Audience, DNA
When we talk about market, that's your competitors. What's already out there, what everybody else is already doing, then they're done that the audience is your audience who you're trying to sell to the DNA is who you are as a brand.
What makes you awesome, the areas where you've innovated the team that you've put together, that is sometimes one of your biggest uniques. So we dig down into all those things, and that's your brand DNA.
-----
Like the name of your podcast, your intended message is to tell the customer, why they should buy from you. 
And when the customer hears, we've been around for 25 years, we have good service, we have a guarantee.
Those things are, one, something we hear from everybody else as well. It's very rare that a message like that is truly unique.
And two, those things are hard to believe they're not persuasive. Right? So you've been around for 25 years. So what maybe you've been doing a terrible job for 25 years. So why should I care?
We have good service, what does that even mean? Right? I want to know how that's going to change my life, how that's going to make a difference how that's going to solve a problem for me.
And the guarantee, okay, but I don't even care about your guarantee, because I don't know you, if I want your product. Once I know I want your product. If I hear there's a guarantee. That's cool.
That's the icing on the cake. Awesome, I have no reason to say no. But it doesn't make a difference to me yet, if I don't know that I want your product. And I think that's really like one of the biggest mistakes that brands may is just thinking that they can say whatever they want, and it doesn't need to really be met very meaningful at all.
And somehow their customer is going to get it that they are an industry leader that they are truly experienced, they are not going to get it because you haven't said anything meaningful to them.
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In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Align your team, strategy and actions
How to get your team on the same page
<p>Episode 189 (Anthony is based in Vancouver, BC)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Anthony Taylor we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The challenge and process of aligning the elements of the strategic plan</li>
<li>The importance of focusing on one destination</li>
<li>How to think of the organization first and your department second</li>
<li>Why culture is central to strategy</li>
<li>How long should your strategic plan be?</li>
<li>The necessary questions around priorities and resources</li>
<li>The relevance of vision, mission and values</li>
<li>The importance of clarifying your intended message to your team</li>
<li>How many pages should your strategic plan be?</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Anthony Taylor:</p>
<p>Anthony is the CEO of SEM Strategy, which facilitates strategic planning for SME companies and non-profits. </p>
<p>Learn more about Anthony and the services of his company here</p>
<p><a href='https://www.smestrategy.net/'>https://www.smestrategy.net/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Anthony Taylor:</p>
<p>Anthony, as we prepare to wrap up, if you could sit down with a business leader, who's planning to have a how redoing type meeting, you know, let's review. We put together the strategy last year, and it's time for him to get him or her to get together with their team.</p>
<p>And if you could give them one, two or three pieces of advice going into this meeting to make this meeting more effective checking in, how are we doing? What, one, two or three pieces of advice would you offer?</p>
<p>Just before I do, I just want to say thank you for having me on that your intended message podcast. It's been super fun. I love this conversation.</p>
<p>And so for leaders that are about to get into how we're doing meeting, and a couple kind of best practices, I think one is focus on creating a safe space with your team.</p>
<p>Okay, and when we say safe, you know, we can't say necessarily psychological safe, we tried to talk about accountable, but really have the intention clear, you know, we're trying to focus on the process versus the people.</p>
<p>So if you can kind of separate the individuals from the outcomes and just say, hey, the purpose is to look at the outcome. And I'll give you the agenda is what did we do well, and what didn't we do well, and focus not on who did it or who didn't do it.</p>
<p>Look, as a company, you'll have everybody more willing to discuss criticism and challenges and that kind of thing. So focus on process versus people. Number two, is create the framework for like, why are we doing this? You know, we're doing this review, so that we can move forward to that next level.</p>
<p>And so if everybody is clear about what the next level is, then they'll recognize kind of what's at stake for doing the review. And the way that I say it a different way or way to reframe it is the work that we put in is a function of our goals.</p>
<p>If we have small goals, it'll be Don't we have to do less work for it. It's less challenging. So if we have big ambitious goals, then we need to do big ambitious work to get there. So it kind of helps you overcome those challenges. So one process and people to have something big at stake. And if there's a third one, just make it fun. team's got to be out, you know, sometimes it's stressful.</p>
<p>They have to be out of work. It's psychologically heavy work. You know, just make it enjoyable. Say, Hey, we love our jobs. We'd like to work we do, hopefully, like your job. And saying, like, Let's just enjoy today. It doesn't need to be doom and gloom. Let's take the opportunity to celebrate all of the good things that happened in the year.</p>
<p>And then you'll say, Wow, we actually accomplished more than we thought. Most people just focus on the negative versus looking at like, hey, the only reason we have as much negative bad stuff as much stuff we didn't do is because we did so much they built the next level that's more challenging.</p>
<p>That's just levels. So if you can get your team doing that, and focus on continually improving, focusing on the process and having something bigger at stake, you'll have a great meeting, and your team will be even more aligned than before.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Align your team, strategy and actions
How to get your team on the same page
<p>Episode 189 (Anthony is based in Vancouver, BC)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Anthony Taylor we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The challenge and process of aligning the elements of the strategic plan</li>
<li>The importance of focusing on one destination</li>
<li>How to think of the organization first and your department second</li>
<li>Why culture is central to strategy</li>
<li>How long should your strategic plan be?</li>
<li>The necessary questions around priorities and resources</li>
<li>The relevance of vision, mission and values</li>
<li>The importance of clarifying your intended message to your team</li>
<li>How many pages should your strategic plan be?</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Anthony Taylor:</p>
<p>Anthony is the CEO of SEM Strategy, which facilitates strategic planning for SME companies and non-profits. </p>
<p>Learn more about Anthony and the services of his company here</p>
<p><a href='https://www.smestrategy.net/'>https://www.smestrategy.net/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Anthony Taylor:</p>
<p>Anthony, as we prepare to wrap up, if you could sit down with a business leader, who's planning to have a how redoing type meeting, you know, let's review. We put together the strategy last year, and it's time for him to get him or her to get together with their team.</p>
<p>And if you could give them one, two or three pieces of advice going into this meeting to make this meeting more effective checking in, how are we doing? What, one, two or three pieces of advice would you offer?</p>
<p>Just before I do, I just want to say thank you for having me on that your intended message podcast. It's been super fun. I love this conversation.</p>
<p>And so for leaders that are about to get into how we're doing meeting, and a couple kind of best practices, I think one is focus on creating a safe space with your team.</p>
<p>Okay, and when we say safe, you know, we can't say necessarily psychological safe, we tried to talk about accountable, but really have the intention clear, you know, we're trying to focus on the process versus the people.</p>
<p>So if you can kind of separate the individuals from the outcomes and just say, hey, the purpose is to look at the outcome. And I'll give you the agenda is what did we do well, and what didn't we do well, and focus not on who did it or who didn't do it.</p>
<p>Look, as a company, you'll have everybody more willing to discuss criticism and challenges and that kind of thing. So focus on process versus people. Number two, is create the framework for like, why are we doing this? You know, we're doing this review, so that we can move forward to that next level.</p>
<p>And so if everybody is clear about what the next level is, then they'll recognize kind of what's at stake for doing the review. And the way that I say it a different way or way to reframe it is the work that we put in is a function of our goals.</p>
<p>If we have small goals, it'll be Don't we have to do less work for it. It's less challenging. So if we have big ambitious goals, then we need to do big ambitious work to get there. So it kind of helps you overcome those challenges. So one process and people to have something big at stake. And if there's a third one, just make it fun. team's got to be out, you know, sometimes it's stressful.</p>
<p>They have to be out of work. It's psychologically heavy work. You know, just make it enjoyable. Say, Hey, we love our jobs. We'd like to work we do, hopefully, like your job. And saying, like, Let's just enjoy today. It doesn't need to be doom and gloom. Let's take the opportunity to celebrate all of the good things that happened in the year.</p>
<p>And then you'll say, Wow, we actually accomplished more than we thought. Most people just focus on the negative versus looking at like, hey, the only reason we have as much negative bad stuff as much stuff we didn't do is because we did so much they built the next level that's more challenging.</p>
<p>That's just levels. So if you can get your team doing that, and focus on continually improving, focusing on the process and having something bigger at stake, you'll have a great meeting, and your team will be even more aligned than before.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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How to get your team on the same page
Episode 189 (Anthony is based in Vancouver, BC)
In this conversation with Anthony Taylor we explore:
The challenge and process of aligning the elements of the strategic plan
The importance of focusing on one destination
How to think of the organization first and your department second
Why culture is central to strategy
How long should your strategic plan be?
The necessary questions around priorities and resources
The relevance of vision, mission and values
The importance of clarifying your intended message to your team
How many pages should your strategic plan be?
About our guest Anthony Taylor:
Anthony is the CEO of SEM Strategy, which facilitates strategic planning for SME companies and non-profits. 
Learn more about Anthony and the services of his company here
https://www.smestrategy.net/

-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Anthony Taylor:
Anthony, as we prepare to wrap up, if you could sit down with a business leader, who's planning to have a how redoing type meeting, you know, let's review. We put together the strategy last year, and it's time for him to get him or her to get together with their team.
And if you could give them one, two or three pieces of advice going into this meeting to make this meeting more effective checking in, how are we doing? What, one, two or three pieces of advice would you offer?
Just before I do, I just want to say thank you for having me on that your intended message podcast. It's been super fun. I love this conversation.
And so for leaders that are about to get into how we're doing meeting, and a couple kind of best practices, I think one is focus on creating a safe space with your team.
Okay, and when we say safe, you know, we can't say necessarily psychological safe, we tried to talk about accountable, but really have the intention clear, you know, we're trying to focus on the process versus the people.
So if you can kind of separate the individuals from the outcomes and just say, hey, the purpose is to look at the outcome. And I'll give you the agenda is what did we do well, and what didn't we do well, and focus not on who did it or who didn't do it.
Look, as a company, you'll have everybody more willing to discuss criticism and challenges and that kind of thing. So focus on process versus people. Number two, is create the framework for like, why are we doing this? You know, we're doing this review, so that we can move forward to that next level.
And so if everybody is clear about what the next level is, then they'll recognize kind of what's at stake for doing the review. And the way that I say it a different way or way to reframe it is the work that we put in is a function of our goals.
If we have small goals, it'll be Don't we have to do less work for it. It's less challenging. So if we have big ambitious goals, then we need to do big ambitious work to get there. So it kind of helps you overcome those challenges. So one process and people to have something big at stake. And if there's a third one, just make it fun. team's got to be out, you know, sometimes it's stressful.
They have to be out of work. It's psychologically heavy work. You know, just make it enjoyable. Say, Hey, we love our jobs. We'd like to work we do, hopefully, like your job. And saying, like, Let's just enjoy today. It doesn't need to be doom and gloom. Let's take the opportunity to celebrate all of the good things that happened in the year.
And then you'll say, Wow, we actually accomplished more than we thought. Most people just focus on the negative versus looking at like, hey, the only reason we have as much negative bad stuff as much stuff we didn't do is because we did so much they built the next level that's more challenging.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[What can business leaders learn from religion and preaching?
Model organization culture by studying religion
<p>Episode 188 (Richard is based in Glasgow UK)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Richard Hagen we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to tell an old story in a more compelling way</li>
<li>How to craft a disruptive message to change the relevance</li>
<li>How to place your audience on wobble boards when you start</li>
<li>The difference between a gimmick and truly being disruptive</li>
<li>How leaders can connect with their audience through empathy</li>
<li>How to expose the controversy to grab their attention</li>
<li>Why emotional connection must precede information</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Richard Hagen:</p>
<p>Richard severed as a Catholic priest and preacher for 20 years. He runs a book, online course and transmedia publishing company.</p>
<p>Learn more about his services at <a href='https://hagendoes.com/'>https://hagendoes.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Richard Hagen:</p>
<p>What lessons can you take from there from being a preacher? To help business leaders improve their communication, and especially the presentation skills? What can you take right away,</p>
<p>So you've hit on something quite profound about that kind of whole religious environment.</p>
<p>It's an environment of rituals, of repeated practices, of physical movement of chants, of common phrases, common language, common stories and narratives.</p>
<p>And that is both incredibly powerful, and incredibly constricting. And so as a preacher, what are the challenges is how the heck do you get someone to hear this story that one of the parables, for example, they've had, literally 1000 times?</p>
<p>How do you get them to hear it, not just to let it kind of, boy, yeah, I know this one. But to hear it perhaps for the first time, in a really profound way, and be touched by it, be changed by it, and go out with your narrative shift.</p>
<p>Because if you've been living in a constricted model, and you want to create an empowering vision for somebody else, then you've got to do something that the hearing that they feel it the case that the the the are inspired and moved by it.</p>
<p>And that's the biggest challenge. And I think it's a it's a big challenge, any business leader or any business as when we are surrounded by by the a world of sameness, and a world where in your own business, there are rituals, there are narratives, there are common phrases, or we don't do it that way here or the said, do that.</p>
<p>But you know, we'll just do what we've always done. You know, so these narratives are all operating these rituals are operating as a leader, what is it you need to do to disrupt that in a healthy dynamic way not to break it, but to disrupt it.</p>
<p>-----</p>
There's no question that if you keep saying everything the same way, people don't hear it anymore. It doesn't get noticed. And so you somehow need to disrupt how it's received or perceived, in order to for people to do exactly that saying, uh huh. I thought I understood that. But I didn't understand and now I do.
<p>-----</p>
Shouldn't a business leader be presenting a vision, something that people want to stand behind and move forward. And that that is something that is not just data, it is something which is profoundly personal for everyone in that organization, it makes a difference for them.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[What can business leaders learn from religion and preaching?
Model organization culture by studying religion
<p>Episode 188 (Richard is based in Glasgow UK)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Richard Hagen we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to tell an old story in a more compelling way</li>
<li>How to craft a disruptive message to change the relevance</li>
<li>How to place your audience on wobble boards when you start</li>
<li>The difference between a gimmick and truly being disruptive</li>
<li>How leaders can connect with their audience through empathy</li>
<li>How to expose the controversy to grab their attention</li>
<li>Why emotional connection must precede information</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Richard Hagen:</p>
<p>Richard severed as a Catholic priest and preacher for 20 years. He runs a book, online course and transmedia publishing company.</p>
<p>Learn more about his services at <a href='https://hagendoes.com/'>https://hagendoes.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Richard Hagen:</p>
<p>What lessons can you take from there from being a preacher? To help business leaders improve their communication, and especially the presentation skills? What can you take right away,</p>
<p>So you've hit on something quite profound about that kind of whole religious environment.</p>
<p>It's an environment of rituals, of repeated practices, of physical movement of chants, of common phrases, common language, common stories and narratives.</p>
<p>And that is both incredibly powerful, and incredibly constricting. And so as a preacher, what are the challenges is how the heck do you get someone to hear this story that one of the parables, for example, they've had, literally 1000 times?</p>
<p>How do you get them to hear it, not just to let it kind of, boy, yeah, I know this one. But to hear it perhaps for the first time, in a really profound way, and be touched by it, be changed by it, and go out with your narrative shift.</p>
<p>Because if you've been living in a constricted model, and you want to create an empowering vision for somebody else, then you've got to do something that the hearing that they feel it the case that the the the are inspired and moved by it.</p>
<p>And that's the biggest challenge. And I think it's a it's a big challenge, any business leader or any business as when we are surrounded by by the a world of sameness, and a world where in your own business, there are rituals, there are narratives, there are common phrases, or we don't do it that way here or the said, do that.</p>
<p>But you know, we'll just do what we've always done. You know, so these narratives are all operating these rituals are operating as a leader, what is it you need to do to disrupt that in a healthy dynamic way not to break it, but to disrupt it.</p>
<p>-----</p>
There's no question that if you keep saying everything the same way, people don't hear it anymore. It doesn't get noticed. And so you somehow need to disrupt how it's received or perceived, in order to for people to do exactly that saying, uh huh. I thought I understood that. But I didn't understand and now I do.
<p>-----</p>
Shouldn't a business leader be presenting a vision, something that people want to stand behind and move forward. And that that is something that is not just data, it is something which is profoundly personal for everyone in that organization, it makes a difference for them.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What can business leaders learn from religion and preaching?
Model organization culture by studying religion
Episode 188 (Richard is based in Glasgow UK)
In this conversation with Richard Hagen we explore:
How to tell an old story in a more compelling way
How to craft a disruptive message to change the relevance
How to place your audience on wobble boards when you start
The difference between a gimmick and truly being disruptive
How leaders can connect with their audience through empathy
How to expose the controversy to grab their attention
Why emotional connection must precede information
About our guest Richard Hagen:
Richard severed as a Catholic priest and preacher for 20 years. He runs a book, online course and transmedia publishing company.
Learn more about his services at https://hagendoes.com/
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Excerpts from this conversation with Richard Hagen:
What lessons can you take from there from being a preacher? To help business leaders improve their communication, and especially the presentation skills? What can you take right away,
So you've hit on something quite profound about that kind of whole religious environment.
It's an environment of rituals, of repeated practices, of physical movement of chants, of common phrases, common language, common stories and narratives.
And that is both incredibly powerful, and incredibly constricting. And so as a preacher, what are the challenges is how the heck do you get someone to hear this story that one of the parables, for example, they've had, literally 1000 times?
How do you get them to hear it, not just to let it kind of, boy, yeah, I know this one. But to hear it perhaps for the first time, in a really profound way, and be touched by it, be changed by it, and go out with your narrative shift.
Because if you've been living in a constricted model, and you want to create an empowering vision for somebody else, then you've got to do something that the hearing that they feel it the case that the the the are inspired and moved by it.
And that's the biggest challenge. And I think it's a it's a big challenge, any business leader or any business as when we are surrounded by by the a world of sameness, and a world where in your own business, there are rituals, there are narratives, there are common phrases, or we don't do it that way here or the said, do that.
But you know, we'll just do what we've always done. You know, so these narratives are all operating these rituals are operating as a leader, what is it you need to do to disrupt that in a healthy dynamic way not to break it, but to disrupt it.
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There's no question that if you keep saying everything the same way, people don't hear it anymore. It doesn't get noticed. And so you somehow need to disrupt how it's received or perceived, in order to for people to do exactly that saying, uh huh. I thought I understood that. But I didn't understand and now I do.
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Shouldn't a business leader be presenting a vision, something that people want to stand behind and move forward. And that that is something that is not just data, it is something which is profoundly personal for everyone in that organization, it makes a difference for them.
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In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Diversity and Inclusion are two parts to the formula
How to encourage those that are different to fit in?
<p>Episode 187 (repeat of #32) Simma is based in California</p>
<p>In this conversation with Simma Lieberman we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The difference between diversity and inclusion</li>
<li>What it means for people to feel safe, understood and valued</li>
<li>How to encourage productive and creative workplaces</li>
<li>The magic formula of "breaking bread" together</li>
<li>Why we need to start with open conversations</li>
<li>How leaders can encourage inclusion on their diverse teams</li>
<li>How to tap into the hidden brilliance of people</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Simma Lieberman:</p>
<p>Simma is known as the "Inclusionlist". She works with organizations to build upon diversity and enhance inclusion to tap into the brilliance of diverse people. </p>
<p>It starts with an open conversation. You can start with the conversation with Simma to learn more about her programs and services at </p>
<p><a href='https://simmalieberman.com/'>https://simmalieberman.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excepts from this conversation with Simma Lieberman:</p>
<p>And I look at work cultures in terms of who's in the organization, how do people feel about working in the organization, if they feel included, if they really feel included, or if they're made to feel included, then they feel like they belong.</p>
<p>If they feel like they belong, it means that then they're very comfortable to attributing their best work attributing the genius in the organization, they're willing to take risks, they're willing to stand to be willing to speak up. And when people don't feel included when they feel excluded, they don't feel part of the organization.</p>
<p>And they're more afraid to share their ideas. They don't really see how they fit into the whole organization. They don't have a sense of belonging. And they're just there. And oftentimes, people will leave if people don't feel included in organizations, they don't feel like they're really being valued as an individual, they're gone.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Diversity is all the differences and similarities that people bring to the workplace and the complexities and tensions that go along with that.
You want to have diversity. But oftentimes, when people think diversity, they just think representation of people who look different.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Diversity and Inclusion are two parts to the formula
How to encourage those that are different to fit in?
<p>Episode 187 (repeat of #32) Simma is based in California</p>
<p>In this conversation with Simma Lieberman we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The difference between diversity and inclusion</li>
<li>What it means for people to feel safe, understood and valued</li>
<li>How to encourage productive and creative workplaces</li>
<li>The magic formula of "breaking bread" together</li>
<li>Why we need to start with open conversations</li>
<li>How leaders can encourage inclusion on their diverse teams</li>
<li>How to tap into the hidden brilliance of people</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Simma Lieberman:</p>
<p>Simma is known as the "Inclusionlist". She works with organizations to build upon diversity and enhance inclusion to tap into the brilliance of diverse people. </p>
<p>It starts with an open conversation. You can start with the conversation with Simma to learn more about her programs and services at </p>
<p><a href='https://simmalieberman.com/'>https://simmalieberman.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excepts from this conversation with Simma Lieberman:</p>
<p>And I look at work cultures in terms of who's in the organization, how do people feel about working in the organization, if they feel included, if they really feel included, or if they're made to feel included, then they feel like they belong.</p>
<p>If they feel like they belong, it means that then they're very comfortable to attributing their best work attributing the genius in the organization, they're willing to take risks, they're willing to stand to be willing to speak up. And when people don't feel included when they feel excluded, they don't feel part of the organization.</p>
<p>And they're more afraid to share their ideas. They don't really see how they fit into the whole organization. They don't have a sense of belonging. And they're just there. And oftentimes, people will leave if people don't feel included in organizations, they don't feel like they're really being valued as an individual, they're gone.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Diversity is all the differences and similarities that people bring to the workplace and the complexities and tensions that go along with that.
You want to have diversity. But oftentimes, when people think diversity, they just think representation of people who look different.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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How to encourage those that are different to fit in?
Episode 187 (repeat of #32) Simma is based in California
In this conversation with Simma Lieberman we explore:
The difference between diversity and inclusion
What it means for people to feel safe, understood and valued
How to encourage productive and creative workplaces
The magic formula of "breaking bread" together
Why we need to start with open conversations
How leaders can encourage inclusion on their diverse teams
How to tap into the hidden brilliance of people
About our guest Simma Lieberman:
Simma is known as the "Inclusionlist". She works with organizations to build upon diversity and enhance inclusion to tap into the brilliance of diverse people. 
It starts with an open conversation. You can start with the conversation with Simma to learn more about her programs and services at 
https://simmalieberman.com/
-----
Excepts from this conversation with Simma Lieberman:
And I look at work cultures in terms of who's in the organization, how do people feel about working in the organization, if they feel included, if they really feel included, or if they're made to feel included, then they feel like they belong.
If they feel like they belong, it means that then they're very comfortable to attributing their best work attributing the genius in the organization, they're willing to take risks, they're willing to stand to be willing to speak up. And when people don't feel included when they feel excluded, they don't feel part of the organization.
And they're more afraid to share their ideas. They don't really see how they fit into the whole organization. They don't have a sense of belonging. And they're just there. And oftentimes, people will leave if people don't feel included in organizations, they don't feel like they're really being valued as an individual, they're gone.
-----
Diversity is all the differences and similarities that people bring to the workplace and the complexities and tensions that go along with that.
You want to have diversity. But oftentimes, when people think diversity, they just think representation of people who look different.
-----
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Get more referrals for your business
If you hate cold calling - listen now!
<p>Episode 186 (repeat of #21) Joanne is based in California</p>
<p>In this conversation with Joanne Black we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why referrals can be a lucrative source of new business </li>
<li>Why you need a repeatable referral getting process</li>
<li>How to get over the fear of asking for referrals?</li>
<li>How to stop cold calling and start warm calling</li>
<li>The magic phrase to ask client to get more referrals</li>
<li>And much more about referrals...</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Joanne Black:</p>
<p>Joanne is considered to be America's leading authority on referral selling. She is the author of "Pick Up the Damn Phone" and "No More Cold Calling:.</p>
<p>Visit her website <a href='https://www.nomorecoldcalling.com/'>https://www.nomorecoldcalling.com/</a></p>
<p>        </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Joanne Black:</p>
Are you asking every one of your clients for referrals?
<p>-----</p>
<p>I added a question on the last round. Would you be willing to be a referral to this company?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Everybody loves referrals, and we just love receiving them. But it's not an outbound proactive, intentional approach. And so what I did is, I said, What do I need to do to close that gap? And make referrals? Not only common sense, but common practice?</p>
<p>And, would you and I developed a very straightforward system to make it happen, because I'm a salesperson. I don't like complicated. So it's simple. It's not easy, because if it were, everyone would be doing it. And referrals are our biggest competitive differentiator, because when we're introduced, we get in, we get in early, we have time to build relationships and make connections. We get the inside track and we hear things no one else does.</p>
<p>That's the power of referral selling.</p>
<p>-----</p>
And therefore a better way to ask the question would be, who are one or two people you know, I should meet? Or who are one or two people in your network? You can introduce me to?
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Get more referrals for your business
If you hate cold calling - listen now!
<p>Episode 186 (repeat of #21) Joanne is based in California</p>
<p>In this conversation with Joanne Black we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why referrals can be a lucrative source of new business </li>
<li>Why you need a repeatable referral getting process</li>
<li>How to get over the fear of asking for referrals?</li>
<li>How to stop cold calling and start warm calling</li>
<li>The magic phrase to ask client to get more referrals</li>
<li>And much more about referrals...</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Joanne Black:</p>
<p>Joanne is considered to be America's leading authority on referral selling. She is the author of "Pick Up the Damn Phone" and "No More Cold Calling:.</p>
<p>Visit her website <a href='https://www.nomorecoldcalling.com/'>https://www.nomorecoldcalling.com/</a></p>
<p>        </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Joanne Black:</p>
Are you asking every one of your clients for referrals?
<p>-----</p>
<p>I added a question on the last round. Would you be willing to be a referral to this company?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Everybody loves referrals, and we just love receiving them. But it's not an outbound proactive, intentional approach. And so what I did is, I said, What do I need to do to close that gap? And make referrals? Not only common sense, but common practice?</p>
<p>And, would you and I developed a very straightforward system to make it happen, because I'm a salesperson. I don't like complicated. So it's simple. It's not easy, because if it were, everyone would be doing it. And referrals are our biggest competitive differentiator, because when we're introduced, we get in, we get in early, we have time to build relationships and make connections. We get the inside track and we hear things no one else does.</p>
<p>That's the power of referral selling.</p>
<p>-----</p>
And therefore a better way to ask the question would be, who are one or two people you know, I should meet? Or who are one or two people in your network? You can introduce me to?
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Get more referrals for your business
If you hate cold calling - listen now!
Episode 186 (repeat of #21) Joanne is based in California
In this conversation with Joanne Black we explore:
Why referrals can be a lucrative source of new business 
Why you need a repeatable referral getting process
How to get over the fear of asking for referrals?
How to stop cold calling and start warm calling
The magic phrase to ask client to get more referrals
And much more about referrals...
About our guest Joanne Black:
Joanne is considered to be America's leading authority on referral selling. She is the author of "Pick Up the Damn Phone" and "No More Cold Calling:.
Visit her website https://www.nomorecoldcalling.com/
        
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Joanne Black:
Are you asking every one of your clients for referrals?
-----
I added a question on the last round. Would you be willing to be a referral to this company?
-----
Everybody loves referrals, and we just love receiving them. But it's not an outbound proactive, intentional approach. And so what I did is, I said, What do I need to do to close that gap? And make referrals? Not only common sense, but common practice?
And, would you and I developed a very straightforward system to make it happen, because I'm a salesperson. I don't like complicated. So it's simple. It's not easy, because if it were, everyone would be doing it. And referrals are our biggest competitive differentiator, because when we're introduced, we get in, we get in early, we have time to build relationships and make connections. We get the inside track and we hear things no one else does.
That's the power of referral selling.
-----
And therefore a better way to ask the question would be, who are one or two people you know, I should meet? Or who are one or two people in your network? You can introduce me to?
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to package and sell yourself as a desirable product
Why you need to be the brand manager of your career
<p>Episode 185 (repeat of #14) Martin is based in Horseshow Valley, Ontario</p>
<p>In this conversation with Martin Buckland we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The most common and most damaging resume mistakes </li>
<li>The pivotal mind shift that career builders need to face</li>
<li>How to identify your key benefits and sell yourself</li>
<li>Why accomplishments are far more relevant than responsibilities</li>
<li>How to tell your STAR stories</li>
<li>Get your resume past both computer and human screening</li>
<li>And much more about career transition and building</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Martin Buckland:</p>
<p>As a globally acclaimed Executive Career Coach and Executive Resume Writer, Martin has helped thousands of individuals across the world manage their careers, climb the corporate ladder, and land the job they deserve.</p>
<p>Martin is a Subject Matter Expert in nurturing the careers of EMBA candidates and alumni, ambitious professionals, mining executives, and the C-Suite community in over 74 countries since 1993.</p>
<p>After a distinguished Law Enforcement career, specifically with the renowned London Metropolitan Police and Scotland Yard, Martin retired and started Elite Resumes. Martin provides career management services customized to the client’s job level, sector and career goal.</p>
<p>Learn more about Martin Buckland and his services at the website: <a href='https://aneliteresume.com/'>https://aneliteresume.com/</a></p>
<p>Follow or connect with Martin on Linkedin at: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/mbuckland/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/mbuckland/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Martin Buckland:</p>
<p>Martin Buckland. What's your personal brand?</p>
<p>I am an expert in helping nurturing coaching senior executives and other business professionals with a lot of ambition to reach their career goals. Now,</p>
<p>I noticed a lot of specific words in there. So you're looking senior senior executives, and you're only looking for ambitious ones you're not looking for you don't want to help the lazy ones. lazy ones can stay away. Exactly. So if they come to you, they right off the bat. They're saying that okay, I'm willing to work at this.</p>
<p>Yeah. So career management is a full time gig. You know, especially when you're in career transition. So you have to work at your career management.</p>
<p>Sadly, people don't they have no idea on career management. So when you're when you're gainfully employed and you should always be managing your career, I don't want to see you disappear off LinkedIn, you don't have to be on LinkedIn as much as you did when you were in career transition.</p>
<p>But once in a while, show me you're there it shows, do some activity, share some content, share a blog, or comment on something, or publish your own blog.</p>
<p>------</p>
<p>Be active on social media. If you avoid social media, I can't find you and you can't find them. On social media. If you haven't got LinkedIn profile, you're committing career suicide, but then not only just having a profile, you need to be active on that profile, you need to fill it in from top to bottom because it's, it's it's scroll, you can scroll all the way down.</p>
<p>So make sure you're active on social media. Convert to the sales mode, which we talked about earlier.</p>
<p>You are selling yourself to the market. And then make sure you have an up to date resume or CV ATS friendly. And then just keep up your network, your network you need to network network network. We're in a network age. If you don't network, that's going to bring that's going to diminish your chances of getting up to the top level.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to package and sell yourself as a desirable product
Why you need to be the brand manager of your career
<p>Episode 185 (repeat of #14) Martin is based in Horseshow Valley, Ontario</p>
<p>In this conversation with Martin Buckland we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The most common and most damaging resume mistakes </li>
<li>The pivotal mind shift that career builders need to face</li>
<li>How to identify your key benefits and sell yourself</li>
<li>Why accomplishments are far more relevant than responsibilities</li>
<li>How to tell your STAR stories</li>
<li>Get your resume past both computer and human screening</li>
<li>And much more about career transition and building</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Martin Buckland:</p>
<p>As a globally acclaimed Executive Career Coach and Executive Resume Writer, Martin has helped thousands of individuals across the world manage their careers, climb the corporate ladder, and land the job they deserve.</p>
<p>Martin is a Subject Matter Expert in nurturing the careers of EMBA candidates and alumni, ambitious professionals, mining executives, and the C-Suite community in over 74 countries since 1993.</p>
<p>After a distinguished Law Enforcement career, specifically with the renowned London Metropolitan Police and Scotland Yard, Martin retired and started Elite Resumes. Martin provides career management services customized to the client’s job level, sector and career goal.</p>
<p>Learn more about Martin Buckland and his services at the website: <a href='https://aneliteresume.com/'>https://aneliteresume.com/</a></p>
<p>Follow or connect with Martin on Linkedin at: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/mbuckland/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/mbuckland/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Martin Buckland:</p>
<p>Martin Buckland. What's your personal brand?</p>
<p>I am an expert in helping nurturing coaching senior executives and other business professionals with a lot of ambition to reach their career goals. Now,</p>
<p>I noticed a lot of specific words in there. So you're looking senior senior executives, and you're only looking for ambitious ones you're not looking for you don't want to help the lazy ones. lazy ones can stay away. Exactly. So if they come to you, they right off the bat. They're saying that okay, I'm willing to work at this.</p>
<p>Yeah. So career management is a full time gig. You know, especially when you're in career transition. So you have to work at your career management.</p>
<p>Sadly, people don't they have no idea on career management. So when you're when you're gainfully employed and you should always be managing your career, I don't want to see you disappear off LinkedIn, you don't have to be on LinkedIn as much as you did when you were in career transition.</p>
<p>But once in a while, show me you're there it shows, do some activity, share some content, share a blog, or comment on something, or publish your own blog.</p>
<p>------</p>
<p>Be active on social media. If you avoid social media, I can't find you and you can't find them. On social media. If you haven't got LinkedIn profile, you're committing career suicide, but then not only just having a profile, you need to be active on that profile, you need to fill it in from top to bottom because it's, it's it's scroll, you can scroll all the way down.</p>
<p>So make sure you're active on social media. Convert to the sales mode, which we talked about earlier.</p>
<p>You are selling yourself to the market. And then make sure you have an up to date resume or CV ATS friendly. And then just keep up your network, your network you need to network network network. We're in a network age. If you don't network, that's going to bring that's going to diminish your chances of getting up to the top level.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to package and sell yourself as a desirable product
Why you need to be the brand manager of your career
Episode 185 (repeat of #14) Martin is based in Horseshow Valley, Ontario
In this conversation with Martin Buckland we explore:
The most common and most damaging resume mistakes 
The pivotal mind shift that career builders need to face
How to identify your key benefits and sell yourself
Why accomplishments are far more relevant than responsibilities
How to tell your STAR stories
Get your resume past both computer and human screening
And much more about career transition and building
About our guest Martin Buckland:
As a globally acclaimed Executive Career Coach and Executive Resume Writer, Martin has helped thousands of individuals across the world manage their careers, climb the corporate ladder, and land the job they deserve.
Martin is a Subject Matter Expert in nurturing the careers of EMBA candidates and alumni, ambitious professionals, mining executives, and the C-Suite community in over 74 countries since 1993.
After a distinguished Law Enforcement career, specifically with the renowned London Metropolitan Police and Scotland Yard, Martin retired and started Elite Resumes. Martin provides career management services customized to the client’s job level, sector and career goal.
Learn more about Martin Buckland and his services at the website: https://aneliteresume.com/
Follow or connect with Martin on Linkedin at: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mbuckland/
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Excerpts from this conversation with Martin Buckland:
Martin Buckland. What's your personal brand?
I am an expert in helping nurturing coaching senior executives and other business professionals with a lot of ambition to reach their career goals. Now,
I noticed a lot of specific words in there. So you're looking senior senior executives, and you're only looking for ambitious ones you're not looking for you don't want to help the lazy ones. lazy ones can stay away. Exactly. So if they come to you, they right off the bat. They're saying that okay, I'm willing to work at this.
Yeah. So career management is a full time gig. You know, especially when you're in career transition. So you have to work at your career management.
Sadly, people don't they have no idea on career management. So when you're when you're gainfully employed and you should always be managing your career, I don't want to see you disappear off LinkedIn, you don't have to be on LinkedIn as much as you did when you were in career transition.
But once in a while, show me you're there it shows, do some activity, share some content, share a blog, or comment on something, or publish your own blog.
------
Be active on social media. If you avoid social media, I can't find you and you can't find them. On social media. If you haven't got LinkedIn profile, you're committing career suicide, but then not only just having a profile, you need to be active on that profile, you need to fill it in from top to bottom because it's, it's it's scroll, you can scroll all the way down.
So make sure you're active on social media. Convert to the sales mode, which we talked about earlier.
You are selling yourself to the market. And then make sure you have an up to date resume or CV ATS friendly. And then just keep up your network, your network you need to network network network. We're in a network age. If you don't network, that's going to bring that's going to diminish your chances of getting up to the top level.
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In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How can you be more persistent and consistent with your messages?
What does intelligent valuable repetition feel like?
<p>Episode 184 (repeat of #11) Jeff is based in Chicago</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jeff Blackman we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The correlation between intelligent repetition and execution</li>
<li>The challenge of a first grade boy unable to pronounce "listen and rabbit"</li>
<li>The lifelong impact of that first grade teacher</li>
<li>How not to sound like everyone else when opening a first conversation</li>
<li>How to instantly connect when you answer, "What do you do?"</li>
<li>Critical words that enhance your credibility and perceived value</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Jeff Blackman:</p>
<p>Jeff is a speaker, author, success coach, broadcast personality and lawyer. He heads Blackman &amp; Associates—a results-producing business-growth firm. Jeff’s clients call him, a “business-growth specialist.” His customized Referrals: Your Road to Results learning-system, helped one financial services client—generate $230 million directly from referrals, in only 23 months!</p>
<p>His bestselling books include; the new 5th edition of Peak Your Profits!®, Stop Whining! Start Selling!, Opportunity $elling®, RESULT$ and Carpe A.M. • Carpe P.M. – Seize Your Destiny™.</p>
<p>Learn more about Jeff and his services and obtain free resources at the website <a href='http://www.jeffblackman.com'>www.jeffblackman.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Jeff Blackman:</p>
I really work with my clients on an ongoing basis with the significance of intelligent valuable repetition and I tell them that repetition and reinforcement is what eventually drives internalization and internalization is what drives execution.
<p>-----</p>
<p>George: Jeff so what do you do?</p>
<p>Jeff Blackman: George my clients’ say, I’m a business growth specialist. I help folks like you CEOs, your senior leadership team, sales people and other executives sleep really well at night and then I pause and typically what happens is they say - well how do you do that?</p>
<p>George everybody is different what’s cooking in your business. So, I make it all about you. It is not about me and that's when it leads into the ability to ask really good questions.</p>
<p>So, at a minimum I’m going to encourage your listeners now to develop what I call their dynamic dozen and a dynamic dozen Georgia’s at least 12open-ended need development questions or power probes they begin with a who, a what, a when, a where, a why, a witch, a how or a tell me more about. They cannot be answered yes or no.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How can you be more persistent and consistent with your messages?
What does intelligent valuable repetition feel like?
<p>Episode 184 (repeat of #11) Jeff is based in Chicago</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jeff Blackman we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The correlation between intelligent repetition and execution</li>
<li>The challenge of a first grade boy unable to pronounce "listen and rabbit"</li>
<li>The lifelong impact of that first grade teacher</li>
<li>How not to sound like everyone else when opening a first conversation</li>
<li>How to instantly connect when you answer, "What do you do?"</li>
<li>Critical words that enhance your credibility and perceived value</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Jeff Blackman:</p>
<p>Jeff is a speaker, author, success coach, broadcast personality and lawyer. He heads Blackman &amp; Associates—a results-producing business-growth firm. Jeff’s clients call him, a “business-growth specialist.” His customized <em>Referrals: Your Road to Results</em> learning-system, helped one financial services client—generate $230 million directly from referrals, in only 23 months!</p>
<p>His bestselling books include; the new 5th edition of <em>Peak Your Profits!</em>®<em>, Stop Whining! Start Selling!</em>, <em>Opportunity $elling</em>®, <em>RESULT$</em> and <em>Carpe A.M. </em><em>•</em><em> Carpe P.M. – Seize Your Destiny</em><em>™</em>.</p>
<p>Learn more about Jeff and his services and obtain free resources at the website <a href='http://www.jeffblackman.com'>www.jeffblackman.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Jeff Blackman:</p>
I really work with my clients on an ongoing basis with the significance of intelligent valuable repetition and I tell them that repetition and reinforcement is what eventually drives internalization and internalization is what drives execution.
<p>-----</p>
<p>George: Jeff so what do you do?</p>
<p>Jeff Blackman: George my clients’ say, I’m a business growth specialist. I help folks like you CEOs, your senior leadership team, sales people and other executives sleep really well at night and then I pause and typically what happens is they say - well how do you do that?</p>
<p>George everybody is different what’s cooking in your business. So, I make it all about you. It is not about me and that's when it leads into the ability to ask really good questions.</p>
<p>So, at a minimum I’m going to encourage your listeners now to develop what I call their dynamic dozen and a dynamic dozen Georgia’s at least 12open-ended need development questions or power probes they begin with a who, a what, a when, a where, a why, a witch, a how or a tell me more about. They cannot be answered yes or no.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How can you be more persistent and consistent with your messages?
What does intelligent valuable repetition feel like?
Episode 184 (repeat of #11) Jeff is based in Chicago
In this conversation with Jeff Blackman we explore:
The correlation between intelligent repetition and execution
The challenge of a first grade boy unable to pronounce "listen and rabbit"
The lifelong impact of that first grade teacher
How not to sound like everyone else when opening a first conversation
How to instantly connect when you answer, "What do you do?"
Critical words that enhance your credibility and perceived value
About our guest Jeff Blackman:
Jeff is a speaker, author, success coach, broadcast personality and lawyer. He heads Blackman &amp; Associates—a results-producing business-growth firm. Jeff’s clients call him, a “business-growth specialist.” His customized Referrals: Your Road to Results learning-system, helped one financial services client—generate $230 million directly from referrals, in only 23 months!
His bestselling books include; the new 5th edition of Peak Your Profits!®, Stop Whining! Start Selling!, Opportunity $elling®, RESULT$ and Carpe A.M. • Carpe P.M. – Seize Your Destiny™.
Learn more about Jeff and his services and obtain free resources at the website www.jeffblackman.com
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Excerpts from this conversation with Jeff Blackman:
I really work with my clients on an ongoing basis with the significance of intelligent valuable repetition and I tell them that repetition and reinforcement is what eventually drives internalization and internalization is what drives execution.
-----
George: Jeff so what do you do?
Jeff Blackman: George my clients’ say, I’m a business growth specialist. I help folks like you CEOs, your senior leadership team, sales people and other executives sleep really well at night and then I pause and typically what happens is they say - well how do you do that?
George everybody is different what’s cooking in your business. So, I make it all about you. It is not about me and that's when it leads into the ability to ask really good questions.
So, at a minimum I’m going to encourage your listeners now to develop what I call their dynamic dozen and a dynamic dozen Georgia’s at least 12open-ended need development questions or power probes they begin with a who, a what, a when, a where, a why, a witch, a how or a tell me more about. They cannot be answered yes or no.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[What are the words that sabotage your intended message?
Stop saying these words that label you as a poor communicator
<p>Episode 183 (repeat of #138)</p>
<p>In this episode George Torok offers his insights about:</p>
<ul><li>Why your words matter and how to weed out the landmines</li>
<li>The common phrases that we use without thinking about their meaning</li>
<li>What perceptions people might form of you when you use these words</li>
<li>Why you need to be in control of what you say and stop blaming others</li>
<li>The dirty dozen phrases to stop using now!</li>
</ul>
<p>George Torok is a specialist in communication skills. He coaches executives to deliver their message more successfully. That might be in conversation or presentation.</p>
<p>Learn more about his programs and the results of his clients at </p>
<p><a href='https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this episode:</p>
<p>Another one that might come under this category is - everybody knows.</p>
<p>Well, maybe not. Maybe everybody doesn't know. And by the way, who is everybody?  Who is the everybody you're talking about here, which is a vague reference. What does that mean? And when you say everybody knows what if someone in the audience doesn't know, how did you make them feel? So avoid these insulting phrases?</p>
<p>The next category comes under self diminishing and false modesty, self diminishing and fall modesty. What does that mean? Well, how do you feel when you hear the speaker using these phrases?</p>
<p>In my humble opinion? Are they really being humble? Are they being humble? If you say you're humble, you're not humble. The Dalai Lama is humble and never says, in my humble opinion. </p>
<p>If you stating an opinion, then state your opinion. If you're stating a position based on your experience, by the way, your experience is more valuable than your opinion, in my experience in my observations, but my humble opinion, you right off the bat said, Okay, it's a humble opinion.</p>
<p>So we might as well just not listen, a variation of this is my two cents worth. If all you've got is two cents, we don't want to hear it, keep it Keep the change. And we're only looking for the big dollar ideas here. Forget your keep your two cents to yourself, you're wasting your time.</p>
<p>Another variation is, well, I'm just saying. I'm just saying. And people say that, almost as if they're apologizing for what they said, I'm just saying, well, if it's valuable, it's valuable. If it's not, you don't have to add saying I'm just saying adds no value it doesn't modify does nothing to make the point stronger.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>If you're looking for more ideas on presentation skills, and you haven't yet, be sure to sign up for the weekly tips on present superior presentations.</p>
<p>And you can do that at  <a href='https://toroktips.com/'>www.TorokTips.com</a></p>
<p>Remember to come back every week because most of the time we interview guest experts on communication from around the world. So far, we've had guests from 14 countries, which gives us a terrific perspective.</p>
<p>And every once in a while, you can tune into one of these solo shows where I will offer you some of my insights.</p>
<p>Remember, if you want to get your message across, get rid of the dirty dozen words and phrases that sabotage your message so that you can deliver your intended message.</p>
<p>If you liked what you heard, tell your friends and post your five star review on Apple podcasts because that helps more listeners find us come back every week for more practical insights to help you deliver your intended message.</p>
<p>I'm your host, George Torok</p>
<p>If you found this helpful and entertaining, be sure to listen to the upcoming Weed Word Alerts. They are short rants about silly words that people say.</p>
<p>-----</p>
What other silly words and phrases do you add to this list?
<p> </p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[What are the words that sabotage your intended message?
Stop saying these words that label you as a poor communicator
<p>Episode 183 (repeat of #138)</p>
<p>In this episode George Torok offers his insights about:</p>
<ul><li>Why your words matter and how to weed out the landmines</li>
<li>The common phrases that we use without thinking about their meaning</li>
<li>What perceptions people might form of you when you use these words</li>
<li>Why you need to be in control of what you say and stop blaming others</li>
<li>The dirty dozen phrases to stop using now!</li>
</ul>
<p>George Torok is a specialist in communication skills. He coaches executives to deliver their message more successfully. That might be in conversation or presentation.</p>
<p>Learn more about his programs and the results of his clients at </p>
<p><a href='https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this episode:</p>
<p>Another one that might come under this category is - everybody knows.</p>
<p>Well, maybe not. Maybe everybody doesn't know. And by the way, who is everybody?  Who is the everybody you're talking about here, which is a vague reference. What does that mean? And when you say everybody knows what if someone in the audience doesn't know, how did you make them feel? So avoid these insulting phrases?</p>
<p>The next category comes under self diminishing and false modesty, self diminishing and fall modesty. What does that mean? Well, how do you feel when you hear the speaker using these phrases?</p>
<p>In my humble opinion? Are they really being humble? Are they being humble? If you say you're humble, you're not humble. The Dalai Lama is humble and never says, in my humble opinion. </p>
<p>If you stating an opinion, then state your opinion. If you're stating a position based on your experience, by the way, your experience is more valuable than your opinion, in my experience in my observations, but my humble opinion, you right off the bat said, Okay, it's a humble opinion.</p>
<p>So we might as well just not listen, a variation of this is my two cents worth. If all you've got is two cents, we don't want to hear it, keep it Keep the change. And we're only looking for the big dollar ideas here. Forget your keep your two cents to yourself, you're wasting your time.</p>
<p>Another variation is, well, I'm just saying. I'm just saying. And people say that, almost as if they're apologizing for what they said, I'm just saying, well, if it's valuable, it's valuable. If it's not, you don't have to add saying I'm just saying adds no value it doesn't modify does nothing to make the point stronger.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>If you're looking for more ideas on presentation skills, and you haven't yet, be sure to sign up for the weekly tips on present superior presentations.</p>
<p>And you can do that at  <a href='https://toroktips.com/'>www.TorokTips.com</a></p>
<p>Remember to come back every week because most of the time we interview guest experts on communication from around the world. So far, we've had guests from 14 countries, which gives us a terrific perspective.</p>
<p>And every once in a while, you can tune into one of these solo shows where I will offer you some of my insights.</p>
<p>Remember, if you want to get your message across, get rid of the dirty dozen words and phrases that sabotage your message so that you can deliver your intended message.</p>
<p>If you liked what you heard, tell your friends and post your five star review on Apple podcasts because that helps more listeners find us come back every week for more practical insights to help you deliver your intended message.</p>
<p>I'm your host, George Torok</p>
<p>If you found this helpful and entertaining, be sure to listen to the upcoming Weed Word Alerts. They are short rants about silly words that people say.</p>
<p>-----</p>
What other silly words and phrases do you add to this list?
<p> </p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What are the words that sabotage your intended message?
Stop saying these words that label you as a poor communicator
Episode 183 (repeat of #138)
In this episode George Torok offers his insights about:
Why your words matter and how to weed out the landmines
The common phrases that we use without thinking about their meaning
What perceptions people might form of you when you use these words
Why you need to be in control of what you say and stop blaming others
The dirty dozen phrases to stop using now!
George Torok is a specialist in communication skills. He coaches executives to deliver their message more successfully. That might be in conversation or presentation.
Learn more about his programs and the results of his clients at 
https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/
-----
Excerpts from this episode:
Another one that might come under this category is - everybody knows.
Well, maybe not. Maybe everybody doesn't know. And by the way, who is everybody?  Who is the everybody you're talking about here, which is a vague reference. What does that mean? And when you say everybody knows what if someone in the audience doesn't know, how did you make them feel? So avoid these insulting phrases?
The next category comes under self diminishing and false modesty, self diminishing and fall modesty. What does that mean? Well, how do you feel when you hear the speaker using these phrases?
In my humble opinion? Are they really being humble? Are they being humble? If you say you're humble, you're not humble. The Dalai Lama is humble and never says, in my humble opinion. 
If you stating an opinion, then state your opinion. If you're stating a position based on your experience, by the way, your experience is more valuable than your opinion, in my experience in my observations, but my humble opinion, you right off the bat said, Okay, it's a humble opinion.
So we might as well just not listen, a variation of this is my two cents worth. If all you've got is two cents, we don't want to hear it, keep it Keep the change. And we're only looking for the big dollar ideas here. Forget your keep your two cents to yourself, you're wasting your time.
Another variation is, well, I'm just saying. I'm just saying. And people say that, almost as if they're apologizing for what they said, I'm just saying, well, if it's valuable, it's valuable. If it's not, you don't have to add saying I'm just saying adds no value it doesn't modify does nothing to make the point stronger.
-----
If you're looking for more ideas on presentation skills, and you haven't yet, be sure to sign up for the weekly tips on present superior presentations.
And you can do that at  www.TorokTips.com
Remember to come back every week because most of the time we interview guest experts on communication from around the world. So far, we've had guests from 14 countries, which gives us a terrific perspective.
And every once in a while, you can tune into one of these solo shows where I will offer you some of my insights.
Remember, if you want to get your message across, get rid of the dirty dozen words and phrases that sabotage your message so that you can deliver your intended message.
If you liked what you heard, tell your friends and post your five star review on Apple podcasts because that helps more listeners find us come back every week for more practical insights to help you deliver your intended message.
I'm your host, George Torok
If you found this helpful and entertaining, be sure to listen to the upcoming Weed Word Alerts. They are short rants about silly words that people say.
-----
What other silly words and phrases do you add to this list?
 
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to clarify your direction and stay on track
The magic formula of intent, responsibility and action
<p>Episode 182 (Erin is based in Chicago)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Erin Marcus we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The importance of being more in control of yourself</li>
<li>The need for black and white language in a grey world</li>
<li>How to develop and employ litmus tests for yourself</li>
<li>The importance of debriefing every event, project or activity</li>
<li>The role of both emotion and logic in every buying decision</li>
<li>Recognizing the dangers of insecurity and desperation</li>
<li>Aligning your marketing plan with your personality</li>
<li>A powerful daily exercise to keep you moving toward your short term goals</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Erin Marcus:</p>
<p>Erin Marcus is the founder and CEO of Conquer Your Business, an
international company helping driven entrepreneurs and small business
owners get the financial and emotional freedom they need to build a
business and a life they're proud of.</p>
<p>Having made the successful leap from corporate executive to
entrepreneur, Erin uses that experience, along with her MBA education and
street smart upbringing, to help her clients reach heights they never
dreamed possible. And have fun doing it!</p>
<p>She is host of the podcast, Ready Yet?</p>
<p>Learn more about her podcast and her services at</p>
<p><a href='https://conqueryourbusiness.com/'>https://conqueryourbusiness.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://conqueryourbusiness.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Erin Marcus:</p>
You're either moving towards your goal or away from it.
<p>-----</p>
<p>And one of the things that I learned being immersed in that world is soft language and euphemisms, just give you an out rate soft language and euphemisms for the reality of your situation makes you think you have more time to take care of something makes you think things might not be as hard as they are.</p>
<p>And so to your point, it's a test. I use very bumpers in my gutters, strong litmus tests to set my stage for better decision making.</p>
<p>And that suggests that we need to be willing to make bad decisions and admit that.</p>
<p>I make tons I do. Oh, my God. You can't screw things up more than I've screwed them up. However, it's your decision. And you can't sit back and say, well, it's not my fault. I tried. And they didn't let me.</p>
<p>Yeah, I mean, and I watched that play out over and over and over again. Because the truth is, there's a lot of things in, you know, just, let's just keep in careers and business. There's so much that has to change.</p>
<p>There's so much that has to change with discrimination and access and representation and opportunity. There is so much that has to change. However, you as one individual do not have time to sit back and wait for that change, before you create the life you want for you.</p>
<p>That type of systemic institutional change can take a while. Why would you wait for it? Why would you give that much power away? By waiting for things to happen waiting for change. And I know it's you know, it's an outcome of different dynamics in our society, it's easier to blame other people than take responsibility to wait, you know, the litigiousness of if that's where it is that it is now.</p>
<p>Right, the litigiousness to repeat a potentially new word of our society, like there's this thing we have done to create blame. And it doesn't have to be so myopic, right? It doesn't have to be you whether or not this institution is right or wrong doesn't mean that I don't have to take responsibility for myself.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>And I'm a big fan of debrief. I analyze everything, as we record this, we're coming into November, and there's a lot of people that are going to be doing their business planning. Business Planning is something that happens daily.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to clarify your direction and stay on track
The magic formula of intent, responsibility and action
<p>Episode 182 (Erin is based in Chicago)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Erin Marcus we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The importance of being more in control of yourself</li>
<li>The need for black and white language in a grey world</li>
<li>How to develop and employ litmus tests for yourself</li>
<li>The importance of debriefing every event, project or activity</li>
<li>The role of both emotion and logic in every buying decision</li>
<li>Recognizing the dangers of insecurity and desperation</li>
<li>Aligning your marketing plan with your personality</li>
<li>A powerful daily exercise to keep you moving toward your short term goals</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Erin Marcus:</p>
<p>Erin Marcus is the founder and CEO of Conquer Your Business, an<br>
international company helping driven entrepreneurs and small business<br>
owners get the financial and emotional freedom they need to build a<br>
business and a life they're proud of.</p>
<p>Having made the successful leap from corporate executive to<br>
entrepreneur, Erin uses that experience, along with her MBA education and<br>
street smart upbringing, to help her clients reach heights they never<br>
dreamed possible. And have fun doing it!</p>
<p>She is host of the podcast, Ready Yet?</p>
<p>Learn more about her podcast and her services at</p>
<p><a href='https://conqueryourbusiness.com/'>https://conqueryourbusiness.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://conqueryourbusiness.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Erin Marcus:</p>
You're either moving towards your goal or away from it.
<p>-----</p>
<p>And one of the things that I learned being immersed in that world is soft language and euphemisms, just give you an out rate soft language and euphemisms for the reality of your situation makes you think you have more time to take care of something makes you think things might not be as hard as they are.</p>
<p>And so to your point, it's a test. I use very bumpers in my gutters, strong litmus tests to set my stage for better decision making.</p>
<p>And that suggests that we need to be willing to make bad decisions and admit that.</p>
<p>I make tons I do. Oh, my God. You can't screw things up more than I've screwed them up. However, it's your decision. And you can't sit back and say, well, it's not my fault. I tried. And they didn't let me.</p>
<p>Yeah, I mean, and I watched that play out over and over and over again. Because the truth is, there's a lot of things in, you know, just, let's just keep in careers and business. There's so much that has to change.</p>
<p>There's so much that has to change with discrimination and access and representation and opportunity. There is so much that has to change. However, you as one individual do not have time to sit back and wait for that change, before you create the life you want for you.</p>
<p>That type of systemic institutional change can take a while. Why would you wait for it? Why would you give that much power away? By waiting for things to happen waiting for change. And I know it's you know, it's an outcome of different dynamics in our society, it's easier to blame other people than take responsibility to wait, you know, the litigiousness of if that's where it is that it is now.</p>
<p>Right, the litigiousness to repeat a potentially new word of our society, like there's this thing we have done to create blame. And it doesn't have to be so myopic, right? It doesn't have to be you whether or not this institution is right or wrong doesn't mean that I don't have to take responsibility for myself.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>And I'm a big fan of debrief. I analyze everything, as we record this, we're coming into November, and there's a lot of people that are going to be doing their business planning. Business Planning is something that happens daily.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to clarify your direction and stay on track
The magic formula of intent, responsibility and action
Episode 182 (Erin is based in Chicago)
In this conversation with Erin Marcus we explore:
The importance of being more in control of yourself
The need for black and white language in a grey world
How to develop and employ litmus tests for yourself
The importance of debriefing every event, project or activity
The role of both emotion and logic in every buying decision
Recognizing the dangers of insecurity and desperation
Aligning your marketing plan with your personality
A powerful daily exercise to keep you moving toward your short term goals
About our guest Erin Marcus:
Erin Marcus is the founder and CEO of Conquer Your Business, aninternational company helping driven entrepreneurs and small businessowners get the financial and emotional freedom they need to build abusiness and a life they're proud of.
Having made the successful leap from corporate executive toentrepreneur, Erin uses that experience, along with her MBA education andstreet smart upbringing, to help her clients reach heights they neverdreamed possible. And have fun doing it!
She is host of the podcast, Ready Yet?
Learn more about her podcast and her services at
https://conqueryourbusiness.com/

-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Erin Marcus:
You're either moving towards your goal or away from it.
-----
And one of the things that I learned being immersed in that world is soft language and euphemisms, just give you an out rate soft language and euphemisms for the reality of your situation makes you think you have more time to take care of something makes you think things might not be as hard as they are.
And so to your point, it's a test. I use very bumpers in my gutters, strong litmus tests to set my stage for better decision making.
And that suggests that we need to be willing to make bad decisions and admit that.
I make tons I do. Oh, my God. You can't screw things up more than I've screwed them up. However, it's your decision. And you can't sit back and say, well, it's not my fault. I tried. And they didn't let me.
Yeah, I mean, and I watched that play out over and over and over again. Because the truth is, there's a lot of things in, you know, just, let's just keep in careers and business. There's so much that has to change.
There's so much that has to change with discrimination and access and representation and opportunity. There is so much that has to change. However, you as one individual do not have time to sit back and wait for that change, before you create the life you want for you.
That type of systemic institutional change can take a while. Why would you wait for it? Why would you give that much power away? By waiting for things to happen waiting for change. And I know it's you know, it's an outcome of different dynamics in our society, it's easier to blame other people than take responsibility to wait, you know, the litigiousness of if that's where it is that it is now.
Right, the litigiousness to repeat a potentially new word of our society, like there's this thing we have done to create blame. And it doesn't have to be so myopic, right? It doesn't have to be you whether or not this institution is right or wrong doesn't mean that I don't have to take responsibility for myself.
-----
And I'm a big fan of debrief. I analyze everything, as we record this, we're coming into November, and there's a lot of people that are going to be doing their business planning. Business Planning is something that happens daily.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
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        <title>The Secret Language of Success: Jeff Buehner</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to leverage the power of imagination
What is your super-power that you might have forgotten?
<p>Episode 181 ( Jeff is based in Utah)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jeff Buehner we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Lessons from the writings of the richest man on earth (its not who think)</li>
<li>How to direct your self-talk for better results</li>
<li>What are the seven secrets of Sultan Musa of Mali</li>
<li>The special language that you can use everyday</li>
<li>Why the words are less significant when using this language</li>
<li>What can you find 'out there somewhere'</li>
<li>The magic of an "out of body experience"</li>
<li>Understanding the role you are playing and why</li>
<li>How your subconscious mind controls your life</li>
<li>The impact of your imagination, beliefs and feelings</li>
<li>How to guide your feelings to boost your success</li>
<li>How to create and maintain your vision</li>
<li>The lesson metaphors from Aladdin and the Magic Lamp</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Jeff Buehner:</p>
<p>Jeff is author of the bestseller, The Sultan's 7 Secrets. He started as a struggling concrete contractor who didn't like talking to people. Within a year of learning the secrets, he had a $20 million dollar company.</p>
<p>You can buy his book on Amazon or get a free copy of the video version here</p>
<p><a href='https://sultans7secrets.com/'>https://sultans7secrets.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Jeff Buehner:</p>
<p> </p>
Unless you're speaking this special language in a way that attracts it. So we're going to jump into that, because that's the intended message. And right now you are sending a message to the world. And you're getting back exactly what you're saying in this language. So if there's anything in your life that you're not happy with, you need to change your intended message.
<p>-----</p>
<p>The next thing he learned is that not only did he have two bodies, but he had two minds working simultaneously.</p>
<p>So there's the conscious mind, that's the part of us that we think of us second. But then there's something called what he called the Veiled mind, the hidden mind. But we can relate to this, because we've all kind of been made aware of this concept of a subconscious mind.</p>
<p>So if I use those two terms interchangeably, you'll understand the Veiled mind, and the subconscious mind. And he said, The veiled mind, is the mechanism that really controls and steers your life, it determines what you get out of life, what your personality is, where you're headed, what you experience, what how much money you're going to have, how many friends you're going to have, how energetic and vibrant you're going to be. Or if you're going to be like really tired all the time and sickly, it determines all of this.</p>
<p>Now, it makes all these important decisions about your life, based on one criteria, and that is what it believes, is true for you.</p>
<p>Or, in other words, what role you're playing what it believes your role is. Now, this is the part that really struck me, all of us are simply playing a role that we're dedicated to, we get into character, and we stay in character.</p>
<p>So if you think of the conscious mind, as an actor, and the subconscious mind as a really good stage manager, that's what you're dealing with. Now, the stage manager is going to set the stage of your life, cars, houses, friends, money, career, all of its going to set the stage of your life with everything that it believes to be congruent with the role you're playing.</p>
<p>And it will pretty much keep everything off the stage that isn't congruent with that role.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to leverage the power of imagination
What is your super-power that you might have forgotten?
<p>Episode 181 ( Jeff is based in Utah)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jeff Buehner we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Lessons from the writings of the richest man on earth (its not who think)</li>
<li>How to direct your self-talk for better results</li>
<li>What are the seven secrets of Sultan Musa of Mali</li>
<li>The special language that you can use everyday</li>
<li>Why the words are less significant when using this language</li>
<li>What can you find 'out there somewhere'</li>
<li>The magic of an "out of body experience"</li>
<li>Understanding the role you are playing and why</li>
<li>How your subconscious mind controls your life</li>
<li>The impact of your imagination, beliefs and feelings</li>
<li>How to guide your feelings to boost your success</li>
<li>How to create and maintain your vision</li>
<li>The lesson metaphors from Aladdin and the Magic Lamp</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Jeff Buehner:</p>
<p>Jeff is author of the bestseller, The Sultan's 7 Secrets. He started as a struggling concrete contractor who didn't like talking to people. Within a year of learning the secrets, he had a $20 million dollar company.</p>
<p>You can buy his book on Amazon or get a free copy of the video version here</p>
<p><a href='https://sultans7secrets.com/'>https://sultans7secrets.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Jeff Buehner:</p>
<p> </p>
Unless you're speaking this special language in a way that attracts it. So we're going to jump into that, because that's the intended message. And right now you are sending a message to the world. And you're getting back exactly what you're saying in this language. So if there's anything in your life that you're not happy with, you need to change your intended message.
<p>-----</p>
<p>The next thing he learned is that not only did he have two bodies, but he had two minds working simultaneously.</p>
<p>So there's the conscious mind, that's the part of us that we think of us second. But then there's something called what he called the Veiled mind, the hidden mind. But we can relate to this, because we've all kind of been made aware of this concept of a subconscious mind.</p>
<p>So if I use those two terms interchangeably, you'll understand the Veiled mind, and the subconscious mind. And he said, The veiled mind, is the mechanism that really controls and steers your life, it determines what you get out of life, what your personality is, where you're headed, what you experience, what how much money you're going to have, how many friends you're going to have, how energetic and vibrant you're going to be. Or if you're going to be like really tired all the time and sickly, it determines all of this.</p>
<p>Now, it makes all these important decisions about your life, based on one criteria, and that is what it believes, is true for you.</p>
<p>Or, in other words, what role you're playing what it believes your role is. Now, this is the part that really struck me, all of us are simply playing a role that we're dedicated to, we get into character, and we stay in character.</p>
<p>So if you think of the conscious mind, as an actor, and the subconscious mind as a really good stage manager, that's what you're dealing with. Now, the stage manager is going to set the stage of your life, cars, houses, friends, money, career, all of its going to set the stage of your life with everything that it believes to be congruent with the role you're playing.</p>
<p>And it will pretty much keep everything off the stage that isn't congruent with that role.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to leverage the power of imagination
What is your super-power that you might have forgotten?
Episode 181 ( Jeff is based in Utah)
In this conversation with Jeff Buehner we explore:
Lessons from the writings of the richest man on earth (its not who think)
How to direct your self-talk for better results
What are the seven secrets of Sultan Musa of Mali
The special language that you can use everyday
Why the words are less significant when using this language
What can you find 'out there somewhere'
The magic of an "out of body experience"
Understanding the role you are playing and why
How your subconscious mind controls your life
The impact of your imagination, beliefs and feelings
How to guide your feelings to boost your success
How to create and maintain your vision
The lesson metaphors from Aladdin and the Magic Lamp
About our guest Jeff Buehner:
Jeff is author of the bestseller, The Sultan's 7 Secrets. He started as a struggling concrete contractor who didn't like talking to people. Within a year of learning the secrets, he had a $20 million dollar company.
You can buy his book on Amazon or get a free copy of the video version here
https://sultans7secrets.com/
 

-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Jeff Buehner:
 
Unless you're speaking this special language in a way that attracts it. So we're going to jump into that, because that's the intended message. And right now you are sending a message to the world. And you're getting back exactly what you're saying in this language. So if there's anything in your life that you're not happy with, you need to change your intended message.
-----
The next thing he learned is that not only did he have two bodies, but he had two minds working simultaneously.
So there's the conscious mind, that's the part of us that we think of us second. But then there's something called what he called the Veiled mind, the hidden mind. But we can relate to this, because we've all kind of been made aware of this concept of a subconscious mind.
So if I use those two terms interchangeably, you'll understand the Veiled mind, and the subconscious mind. And he said, The veiled mind, is the mechanism that really controls and steers your life, it determines what you get out of life, what your personality is, where you're headed, what you experience, what how much money you're going to have, how many friends you're going to have, how energetic and vibrant you're going to be. Or if you're going to be like really tired all the time and sickly, it determines all of this.
Now, it makes all these important decisions about your life, based on one criteria, and that is what it believes, is true for you.
Or, in other words, what role you're playing what it believes your role is. Now, this is the part that really struck me, all of us are simply playing a role that we're dedicated to, we get into character, and we stay in character.
So if you think of the conscious mind, as an actor, and the subconscious mind as a really good stage manager, that's what you're dealing with. Now, the stage manager is going to set the stage of your life, cars, houses, friends, money, career, all of its going to set the stage of your life with everything that it believes to be congruent with the role you're playing.
And it will pretty much keep everything off the stage that isn't congruent with that role.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Convey more confidence in a meeting or hallway conversation
Be intentional with your body language
<p>Episode 180 (Dianna is based in Dallas, Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Dianna Booher, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Techniques to convey more confidence when surprised</li>
<li>How to speak up in a meeting with more intention and confidence</li>
<li>Nervous body ticks that can sabotage your message</li>
<li>How to train your body to send positive signals</li>
<li>How to slow down a conversation while demonstrating calm and comfort</li>
<li>Handy transition phrases to keep audience attention</li>
<li>How to handle a brain freeze</li>
<li>How to encourage your team to participate more readily in meetings</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Dianna Booher:</p>
<p>Dianna Booher is the author of 50 books—all published by major US publishers (Penguin Random House, Simon and Schuster, HarperCollins, McGraw-Hill), with these available in 62 foreign editions.</p>
<p>As a communication consultant and presentation coach, Dianna has among her clients more than one-third of the Fortune 500 organizations.</p>
<p>Dianna hosts Booher Book Camps, where she helps professionals develop their own bestsellers to get their “intended message” out into the world.</p>
<p><a href='http://www.BooherBookCamp.com'>www.BooherBookCamp.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Dianna Booher:</p>
How people how business leaders can feel and look more confident when they are speaking whether it's a presentation or whether it's simply a meeting discussion, when you work with your clients to help them look and feel more confident.
<p>-----</p>
<p>One that sort of universally applicable is in your body language.</p>
<p>When you start to speak. If you picture somebody right now standing up to give a briefing or something in your conference room. If they look like they're conferring on their notes, their their eyes are downcast, they're fidgeting, they're stepping back and forward, stepping back and forth. That's nervous movement.</p>
<p>And that tells you that they're not confident about what they're about to say, that may not be your intention, that may not be what you're thinking. But that's how people interpret they interpret monotonous, or repetitive gestures.</p>
<p>Like some people just swirl their hands around often, or they'll put their hands in the pocket out of the pocket in the pocket out of the pocket, or they take one step forward, one step back one step forward, one step back, I used to call that when I was teaching classes on presentation skills, the dance step, you know, the two step,</p>
<p>Your body language communicates, I'm confident, I believe in what I'm about to say, I have some great information that's going to be useful to you. Or it says, I'm really not quite sure that this is going to land correctly, or got the right points with the right audience. They're picking up all of that, from the moment you stand up from your chair, to walk to the front of a conference room, to being on stage, seeing you walk up, you know, I don't care if you're a celebrity speaker walking down an aisle to music, you either look confident and like you're relaxed and going to enjoy the time with them. Are you down? And that communicates a great deal.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>So larger movements look more confident.</p>
<p>Yes, taking up more space. You walk into a room and somebody who's walked in, they put either their iPad or their their laptop right in front of them.</p>
<p>And then they throw a jacket over the next chair, and then they pull that chair back so that they can see the angle, they want to be their perspective, they choose that they're taking up space.</p>
<p>But I'm just saying that body language communicates attitude.</p>
<p>------</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Convey more confidence in a meeting or hallway conversation
Be intentional with your body language
<p>Episode 180 (Dianna is based in Dallas, Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Dianna Booher, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Techniques to convey more confidence when surprised</li>
<li>How to speak up in a meeting with more intention and confidence</li>
<li>Nervous body ticks that can sabotage your message</li>
<li>How to train your body to send positive signals</li>
<li>How to slow down a conversation while demonstrating calm and comfort</li>
<li>Handy transition phrases to keep audience attention</li>
<li>How to handle a brain freeze</li>
<li>How to encourage your team to participate more readily in meetings</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Dianna Booher:</p>
<p>Dianna Booher is the author of 50 books—all published by major US publishers (Penguin Random House, Simon and Schuster, HarperCollins, McGraw-Hill), with these available in 62 foreign editions.</p>
<p>As a communication consultant and presentation coach, Dianna has among her clients more than one-third of the Fortune 500 organizations.</p>
<p>Dianna hosts Booher Book Camps, where she helps professionals develop their own bestsellers to get their “intended message” out into the world.</p>
<p><a href='http://www.BooherBookCamp.com'>www.BooherBookCamp.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Dianna Booher:</p>
How people how business leaders can feel and look more confident when they are speaking whether it's a presentation or whether it's simply a meeting discussion, when you work with your clients to help them look and feel more confident.
<p>-----</p>
<p>One that sort of universally applicable is in your body language.</p>
<p>When you start to speak. If you picture somebody right now standing up to give a briefing or something in your conference room. If they look like they're conferring on their notes, their their eyes are downcast, they're fidgeting, they're stepping back and forward, stepping back and forth. That's nervous movement.</p>
<p>And that tells you that they're not confident about what they're about to say, that may not be your intention, that may not be what you're thinking. But that's how people interpret they interpret monotonous, or repetitive gestures.</p>
<p>Like some people just swirl their hands around often, or they'll put their hands in the pocket out of the pocket in the pocket out of the pocket, or they take one step forward, one step back one step forward, one step back, I used to call that when I was teaching classes on presentation skills, the dance step, you know, the two step,</p>
<p>Your body language communicates, I'm confident, I believe in what I'm about to say, I have some great information that's going to be useful to you. Or it says, I'm really not quite sure that this is going to land correctly, or got the right points with the right audience. They're picking up all of that, from the moment you stand up from your chair, to walk to the front of a conference room, to being on stage, seeing you walk up, you know, I don't care if you're a celebrity speaker walking down an aisle to music, you either look confident and like you're relaxed and going to enjoy the time with them. Are you down? And that communicates a great deal.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>So larger movements look more confident.</p>
<p>Yes, taking up more space. You walk into a room and somebody who's walked in, they put either their iPad or their their laptop right in front of them.</p>
<p>And then they throw a jacket over the next chair, and then they pull that chair back so that they can see the angle, they want to be their perspective, they choose that they're taking up space.</p>
<p>But I'm just saying that body language communicates attitude.</p>
<p>------</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Convey more confidence in a meeting or hallway conversation
Be intentional with your body language
Episode 180 (Dianna is based in Dallas, Texas)
In this conversation with Dianna Booher, we explore:
Techniques to convey more confidence when surprised
How to speak up in a meeting with more intention and confidence
Nervous body ticks that can sabotage your message
How to train your body to send positive signals
How to slow down a conversation while demonstrating calm and comfort
Handy transition phrases to keep audience attention
How to handle a brain freeze
How to encourage your team to participate more readily in meetings
About our guest, Dianna Booher:
Dianna Booher is the author of 50 books—all published by major US publishers (Penguin Random House, Simon and Schuster, HarperCollins, McGraw-Hill), with these available in 62 foreign editions.
As a communication consultant and presentation coach, Dianna has among her clients more than one-third of the Fortune 500 organizations.
Dianna hosts Booher Book Camps, where she helps professionals develop their own bestsellers to get their “intended message” out into the world.
www.BooherBookCamp.com
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Dianna Booher:
How people how business leaders can feel and look more confident when they are speaking whether it's a presentation or whether it's simply a meeting discussion, when you work with your clients to help them look and feel more confident.
-----
One that sort of universally applicable is in your body language.
When you start to speak. If you picture somebody right now standing up to give a briefing or something in your conference room. If they look like they're conferring on their notes, their their eyes are downcast, they're fidgeting, they're stepping back and forward, stepping back and forth. That's nervous movement.
And that tells you that they're not confident about what they're about to say, that may not be your intention, that may not be what you're thinking. But that's how people interpret they interpret monotonous, or repetitive gestures.
Like some people just swirl their hands around often, or they'll put their hands in the pocket out of the pocket in the pocket out of the pocket, or they take one step forward, one step back one step forward, one step back, I used to call that when I was teaching classes on presentation skills, the dance step, you know, the two step,
Your body language communicates, I'm confident, I believe in what I'm about to say, I have some great information that's going to be useful to you. Or it says, I'm really not quite sure that this is going to land correctly, or got the right points with the right audience. They're picking up all of that, from the moment you stand up from your chair, to walk to the front of a conference room, to being on stage, seeing you walk up, you know, I don't care if you're a celebrity speaker walking down an aisle to music, you either look confident and like you're relaxed and going to enjoy the time with them. Are you down? And that communicates a great deal.
-----
So larger movements look more confident.
Yes, taking up more space. You walk into a room and somebody who's walked in, they put either their iPad or their their laptop right in front of them.
And then they throw a jacket over the next chair, and then they pull that chair back so that they can see the angle, they want to be their perspective, they choose that they're taking up space.
But I'm just saying that body language communicates attitude.
------
----more----
 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to read the body language of the room
Master your body language to be more persuasive
<p>Episode 179 (Melinda is based in Dallas, Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Melinda Marcus we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why it's important to show  and move your hands when you speak</li>
<li>The perceptions of freeze, fight or flight response</li>
<li>What are the myths about body language</li>
<li>How to detect the hidden message by combining verbal and nonverbal</li>
<li>How to notice and decode hot spots or stress signals</li>
<li>What do self self pacifying movements suggest?</li>
<li>How to clarify a suspect stress signal from a meaningless fidget</li>
<li>How to ready body language of people in a Zoom meeting</li>
<li>How to use your body language to program your self conscious</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Melinda Marcus:</p>
<p>As a consultant, Melinda has helped executives open doors and close multi-million-dollar deals by showing them how to leverage body language and persuasive psychology strategies.</p>
<p>She is one of 5 people to earn her Master certification in Body Language from Joe Navarro, (the former special agent who trained the FBI).</p>
<p>You can order her book, <a href='https://readthezoom.com/'>Read the Zoom</a> here</p>
<p>Find and follow Melinda on Linkedin</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/melinda-marcus-m-a-csp-6816484/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/melinda-marcus-m-a-csp-6816484/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Melinda Marcus:</p>
<p> </p>
When we are confident we tend to be big. When we are being more aggressive. We tend to be big. So again, privately, I like to do very big things, because nonverbals are a two way street, they are communicating to others, and they're communicating to your own brain. 
<p>-----</p>
<p>Hotspots is referring to when I see stress signals every time, I asked you a question that is a hotspot for you. Okay, so I may just say something like, Where'd you go to lunch today? And if for some reason, you didn't want me to know about that?</p>
<p>You may answer, but you may not tell me the truth, or you may dodge it, but you will probably show some stress signal with it. So once you know, I'll give you an example of a stress signal.</p>
<p>One thing may be if you were asked me the same question, where did you go to lunch today, and who were you with or something, and I went, Oh, you know, I just went to a place locally around town, it was nothing. I mean, just like a hamburger, the hand coming up to the neck, that tends to be a very clear sign of stress.</p>
<p>Now, it doesn't mean a lie, it means I have stress around that topic. And the reason we do that is the neck is very vulnerable part of the body. And our hand being there protects it.</p>
<p>But also did you notice I started rubbing it, okay, we have something called the vagus nerve that goes down here. And if you massage that, it actually lowers your blood pressure and your pulse rate. So it will come you know, when I see people, when I ask them a question go in here, I know there's a little stress around that.</p>
<p> </p>
Ah, so that's a self soothing move.
<p>-----</p>
<p>So a test of a stressful topic is to talk about it go away and come back later and look for a stress signal.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Your brain, your unconscious, is always trying to go to comfort. So it does little things to make you feel more comfortable.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to read the body language of the room
Master your body language to be more persuasive
<p>Episode 179 (Melinda is based in Dallas, Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Melinda Marcus we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why it's important to show  and move your hands when you speak</li>
<li>The perceptions of freeze, fight or flight response</li>
<li>What are the myths about body language</li>
<li>How to detect the hidden message by combining verbal and nonverbal</li>
<li>How to notice and decode hot spots or stress signals</li>
<li>What do self self pacifying movements suggest?</li>
<li>How to clarify a suspect stress signal from a meaningless fidget</li>
<li>How to ready body language of people in a Zoom meeting</li>
<li>How to use your body language to program your self conscious</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Melinda Marcus:</p>
<p>As a consultant, Melinda has helped executives open doors and close multi-million-dollar deals by showing them how to leverage body language and persuasive psychology strategies.</p>
<p>She is one of 5 people to earn her Master certification in Body Language from Joe Navarro, (the former special agent who trained the FBI).</p>
<p>You can order her book, <a href='https://readthezoom.com/'>Read the Zoom</a> here</p>
<p>Find and follow Melinda on Linkedin</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/melinda-marcus-m-a-csp-6816484/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/melinda-marcus-m-a-csp-6816484/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Melinda Marcus:</p>
<p> </p>
When we are confident we tend to be big. When we are being more aggressive. We tend to be big. So again, privately, I like to do very big things, because nonverbals are a two way street, they are communicating to others, and they're communicating to your own brain. 
<p>-----</p>
<p>Hotspots is referring to when I see stress signals every time, I asked you a question that is a hotspot for you. Okay, so I may just say something like, Where'd you go to lunch today? And if for some reason, you didn't want me to know about that?</p>
<p>You may answer, but you may not tell me the truth, or you may dodge it, but you will probably show some stress signal with it. So once you know, I'll give you an example of a stress signal.</p>
<p>One thing may be if you were asked me the same question, where did you go to lunch today, and who were you with or something, and I went, Oh, you know, I just went to a place locally around town, it was nothing. I mean, just like a hamburger, the hand coming up to the neck, that tends to be a very clear sign of stress.</p>
<p>Now, it doesn't mean a lie, it means I have stress around that topic. And the reason we do that is the neck is very vulnerable part of the body. And our hand being there protects it.</p>
<p>But also did you notice I started rubbing it, okay, we have something called the vagus nerve that goes down here. And if you massage that, it actually lowers your blood pressure and your pulse rate. So it will come you know, when I see people, when I ask them a question go in here, I know there's a little stress around that.</p>
<p> </p>
Ah, so that's a self soothing move.
<p>-----</p>
<p>So a test of a stressful topic is to talk about it go away and come back later and look for a stress signal.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Your brain, your unconscious, is always trying to go to comfort. So it does little things to make you feel more comfortable.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to read the body language of the room
Master your body language to be more persuasive
Episode 179 (Melinda is based in Dallas, Texas)
In this conversation with Melinda Marcus we explore:
Why it's important to show  and move your hands when you speak
The perceptions of freeze, fight or flight response
What are the myths about body language
How to detect the hidden message by combining verbal and nonverbal
How to notice and decode hot spots or stress signals
What do self self pacifying movements suggest?
How to clarify a suspect stress signal from a meaningless fidget
How to ready body language of people in a Zoom meeting
How to use your body language to program your self conscious
About our guest Melinda Marcus:
As a consultant, Melinda has helped executives open doors and close multi-million-dollar deals by showing them how to leverage body language and persuasive psychology strategies.
She is one of 5 people to earn her Master certification in Body Language from Joe Navarro, (the former special agent who trained the FBI).
You can order her book, Read the Zoom here
Find and follow Melinda on Linkedin
https://www.linkedin.com/in/melinda-marcus-m-a-csp-6816484/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Melinda Marcus:
 
When we are confident we tend to be big. When we are being more aggressive. We tend to be big. So again, privately, I like to do very big things, because nonverbals are a two way street, they are communicating to others, and they're communicating to your own brain. 
-----
Hotspots is referring to when I see stress signals every time, I asked you a question that is a hotspot for you. Okay, so I may just say something like, Where'd you go to lunch today? And if for some reason, you didn't want me to know about that?
You may answer, but you may not tell me the truth, or you may dodge it, but you will probably show some stress signal with it. So once you know, I'll give you an example of a stress signal.
One thing may be if you were asked me the same question, where did you go to lunch today, and who were you with or something, and I went, Oh, you know, I just went to a place locally around town, it was nothing. I mean, just like a hamburger, the hand coming up to the neck, that tends to be a very clear sign of stress.
Now, it doesn't mean a lie, it means I have stress around that topic. And the reason we do that is the neck is very vulnerable part of the body. And our hand being there protects it.
But also did you notice I started rubbing it, okay, we have something called the vagus nerve that goes down here. And if you massage that, it actually lowers your blood pressure and your pulse rate. So it will come you know, when I see people, when I ask them a question go in here, I know there's a little stress around that.
 
Ah, so that's a self soothing move.
-----
So a test of a stressful topic is to talk about it go away and come back later and look for a stress signal.
-----
Your brain, your unconscious, is always trying to go to comfort. So it does little things to make you feel more comfortable.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Keep the communication open within your company
People need to know and want to know
<p>Episode 178 (Alicia is based in Chicago)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Alicia Webb, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How do discover gaps in internal communication</li>
<li>Lessons from the pandemic to stay in touch</li>
<li>The danger of out-of-sight on out-of-mind</li>
<li>Why people leave when they don't feel connected</li>
<li>The need to stay informed</li>
<li>How might you keep your people engaged</li>
<li>What options and tools might you consider?</li>
<li>How to communicate major change to everyone effectively</li>
<li>How to build trust, align goals and reinforce direction</li>
<li>Why more meetings might not be the answer</li>
<li>The importance of telling a story</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Alicia Webb:</p>
<p>Alicia is founder and principal of Bright Spot Public Relations. She began her career as a general assignment reporter at an ABC affiliate. You can learn about her services at</p>
<p><a href='https://brightspotpr.com/'>https://brightspotpr.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Alicia Webb:</p>
they were leaving, because they felt like they weren't part of the team. So internal communications is a good place to start. It's a good foundation, to get people keep people engaged, get them to stay
<p>-----</p>
<p>And I can see that failing to keep your employees informed demonstrates that one you don't trust them. You don't respect.</p>
<p>That's a great way to put it. Now, what about the use of a video message from the CEO on a monthly basis?</p>
<p>That's awesome. Great. I think I mean, that we've got great tools. That's the other thing. We're where we've come in our technology, those there's great tools out there that you can use, just make sure using them appropriately.</p>
<p>A video message from the CEO announcing a brand new initiative, that type of thing, a very positive message, I think is great. I would not use a video message to announce significant layoffs or some type of organizational overhaul, I wouldn't do that.</p>
<p>But if you've got some big exciting news and your your stock price has done well or something like that, absolutely, video was a great tool. And honestly, video was a good tool. And I think you know, the short, people don't read as much anymore. People have very, very short attention spans.</p>
<p>So if you can put together a minute a minute 30 video, absolutely, it's a great way to still get your message out in a good way if your leader is is comfortable with it. I know some leaders don't particularly like video.</p>
<p>So be mindful of that get to know your leader and how they feel about being on video because it's not everybody's favourite thing. But I think that this Brian, there's so many great tools out there monthly newsletters, there's so many great ways you can engage your your audience.</p>
<p>And I suppose that you need to engage your audience in more than one way more than one channel. It's too easy to say well, didn't you read the newsletter?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Keep the communication open within your company
People need to know and want to know
<p>Episode 178 (Alicia is based in Chicago)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Alicia Webb, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How do discover gaps in internal communication</li>
<li>Lessons from the pandemic to stay in touch</li>
<li>The danger of out-of-sight on out-of-mind</li>
<li>Why people leave when they don't feel connected</li>
<li>The need to stay informed</li>
<li>How might you keep your people engaged</li>
<li>What options and tools might you consider?</li>
<li>How to communicate major change to everyone effectively</li>
<li>How to build trust, align goals and reinforce direction</li>
<li>Why more meetings might not be the answer</li>
<li>The importance of telling a story</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Alicia Webb:</p>
<p>Alicia is founder and principal of Bright Spot Public Relations. She began her career as a general assignment reporter at an ABC affiliate. You can learn about her services at</p>
<p><a href='https://brightspotpr.com/'>https://brightspotpr.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Alicia Webb:</p>
they were leaving, because they felt like they weren't part of the team. So internal communications is a good place to start. It's a good foundation, to get people keep people engaged, get them to stay
<p>-----</p>
<p>And I can see that failing to keep your employees informed demonstrates that one you don't trust them. You don't respect.</p>
<p>That's a great way to put it. Now, what about the use of a video message from the CEO on a monthly basis?</p>
<p>That's awesome. Great. I think I mean, that we've got great tools. That's the other thing. We're where we've come in our technology, those there's great tools out there that you can use, just make sure using them appropriately.</p>
<p>A video message from the CEO announcing a brand new initiative, that type of thing, a very positive message, I think is great. I would not use a video message to announce significant layoffs or some type of organizational overhaul, I wouldn't do that.</p>
<p>But if you've got some big exciting news and your your stock price has done well or something like that, absolutely, video was a great tool. And honestly, video was a good tool. And I think you know, the short, people don't read as much anymore. People have very, very short attention spans.</p>
<p>So if you can put together a minute a minute 30 video, absolutely, it's a great way to still get your message out in a good way if your leader is is comfortable with it. I know some leaders don't particularly like video.</p>
<p>So be mindful of that get to know your leader and how they feel about being on video because it's not everybody's favourite thing. But I think that this Brian, there's so many great tools out there monthly newsletters, there's so many great ways you can engage your your audience.</p>
<p>And I suppose that you need to engage your audience in more than one way more than one channel. It's too easy to say well, didn't you read the newsletter?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Keep the communication open within your company
People need to know and want to know
Episode 178 (Alicia is based in Chicago)
In this conversation with Alicia Webb, we explore:
How do discover gaps in internal communication
Lessons from the pandemic to stay in touch
The danger of out-of-sight on out-of-mind
Why people leave when they don't feel connected
The need to stay informed
How might you keep your people engaged
What options and tools might you consider?
How to communicate major change to everyone effectively
How to build trust, align goals and reinforce direction
Why more meetings might not be the answer
The importance of telling a story
About our guest Alicia Webb:
Alicia is founder and principal of Bright Spot Public Relations. She began her career as a general assignment reporter at an ABC affiliate. You can learn about her services at
https://brightspotpr.com/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Alicia Webb:
they were leaving, because they felt like they weren't part of the team. So internal communications is a good place to start. It's a good foundation, to get people keep people engaged, get them to stay
-----
And I can see that failing to keep your employees informed demonstrates that one you don't trust them. You don't respect.
That's a great way to put it. Now, what about the use of a video message from the CEO on a monthly basis?
That's awesome. Great. I think I mean, that we've got great tools. That's the other thing. We're where we've come in our technology, those there's great tools out there that you can use, just make sure using them appropriately.
A video message from the CEO announcing a brand new initiative, that type of thing, a very positive message, I think is great. I would not use a video message to announce significant layoffs or some type of organizational overhaul, I wouldn't do that.
But if you've got some big exciting news and your your stock price has done well or something like that, absolutely, video was a great tool. And honestly, video was a good tool. And I think you know, the short, people don't read as much anymore. People have very, very short attention spans.
So if you can put together a minute a minute 30 video, absolutely, it's a great way to still get your message out in a good way if your leader is is comfortable with it. I know some leaders don't particularly like video.
So be mindful of that get to know your leader and how they feel about being on video because it's not everybody's favourite thing. But I think that this Brian, there's so many great tools out there monthly newsletters, there's so many great ways you can engage your your audience.
And I suppose that you need to engage your audience in more than one way more than one channel. It's too easy to say well, didn't you read the newsletter?
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Leadership and innovation lessons from Amazon
The communication tool that Amazon used to think clearly
<p>Episode 177 (John is based in Washington state)</p>
<p>In this conversation with John Rossman, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The Amazon principles of leadership</li>
<li>How to drive innovation successfully</li>
<li>The launch of Amazon's marketplace business</li>
<li>How to build a trusted-customer experience</li>
<li>How did Amazon push past the online ecommerce leader (EBay)</li>
<li>Clarifying the mission and purpose of innovation</li>
<li>How communicating and debating by memos leads to better thinking</li>
<li>How Amazon made their meetings more productive</li>
<li>Apply meeting hygiene</li>
<li>Jeff Bezos' communication style</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest John Rossman:</p>
<p>A leadership and digital transformation expert, John Rossman is the author of four books on leadership and business innovation including the best seller "The Amazon Way". He is an early Amazon executive who played a key role in launching the Amazon marketplace business in 2002.</p>
His next book, Big Bet Leadership, will launch in Feb 2024. You can get a free copy of the ebook by registering here
<p><a href='https://bigbetleadership.com/'>https://bigbetleadership.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with John Rossman:</p>
Communication, I believe is one of the oftentimes forgotten, or underplayed elements of what makes successful innovation or transformation.
<p>Amazon has this culture of memo writing. And what we would do is we would write out any new proposal, any problematic situation, any new idea we wanted to do, we would write out and debate in memos. It takes both the writing and the debating to make these things work.</p>
<p>And so Amazon, they call that approach working backwards. So starting with the customer, starting with the outcome that you want, and working backwards.</p>
<p>And a lot of the work that I've done some since Amazon has been taking that philosophy and molding it and mixing it and adapting it into the client's situation. So I have a new book coming out in February of 2024, called Big Bet Leadership.</p>
<p>Part of the underpinnings of Big Bet Leadership is about thinking about outcomes and using memos to help articulate what we believe the problem is that we are solving - what we believe the future state is that we are going to create - what the couple of critical assumptions or operating capabilities are there doing that and then debating those that is essential communication within a core team that has to decide is this the right Innovation?</p>
<p>Is this the right idea? Is this the right big bet for us to do. And so that Amazon philosophy so back to 2002, the market the launch of the marketplace, I wrote the future press release for the marketplace business, there was one line in it that made all the difference to that line was...</p>
A third party should be able to register, sell an item fulfil an order and delight a customer as though Amazon the retailer had done it without talking to anybody in the middle of the night.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Leadership and innovation lessons from Amazon
The communication tool that Amazon used to think clearly
<p>Episode 177 (John is based in Washington state)</p>
<p>In this conversation with John Rossman, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The Amazon principles of leadership</li>
<li>How to drive innovation successfully</li>
<li>The launch of Amazon's marketplace business</li>
<li>How to build a trusted-customer experience</li>
<li>How did Amazon push past the online ecommerce leader (EBay)</li>
<li>Clarifying the mission and purpose of innovation</li>
<li>How communicating and debating by memos leads to better thinking</li>
<li>How Amazon made their meetings more productive</li>
<li>Apply meeting hygiene</li>
<li>Jeff Bezos' communication style</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest John Rossman:</p>
<p>A leadership and digital transformation expert, John Rossman is the author of four books on leadership and business innovation including the best seller "The Amazon Way". He is an early Amazon executive who played a key role in launching the Amazon marketplace business in 2002.</p>
His next book, Big Bet Leadership, will launch in Feb 2024. You can get a free copy of the ebook by registering here
<p><a href='https://bigbetleadership.com/'>https://bigbetleadership.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with John Rossman:</p>
Communication, I believe is one of the oftentimes forgotten, or underplayed elements of what makes successful innovation or transformation.
<p>Amazon has this culture of memo writing. And what we would do is we would write out any new proposal, any problematic situation, any new idea we wanted to do, we would write out and debate in memos. It takes both the writing and the debating to make these things work.</p>
<p>And so Amazon, they call that approach working backwards. So starting with the customer, starting with the outcome that you want, and working backwards.</p>
<p>And a lot of the work that I've done some since Amazon has been taking that philosophy and molding it and mixing it and adapting it into the client's situation. So I have a new book coming out in February of 2024, called Big Bet Leadership.</p>
<p>Part of the underpinnings of Big Bet Leadership is about thinking about outcomes and using memos to help articulate what we believe the problem is that we are solving - what we believe the future state is that we are going to create - what the couple of critical assumptions or operating capabilities are there doing that and then debating those that is essential communication within a core team that has to decide is this the right Innovation?</p>
<p>Is this the right idea? Is this the right big bet for us to do. And so that Amazon philosophy so back to 2002, the market the launch of the marketplace, I wrote the future press release for the marketplace business, there was one line in it that made all the difference to that line was...</p>
A third party should be able to register, sell an item fulfil an order and delight a customer as though Amazon the retailer had done it without talking to anybody in the middle of the night.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Leadership and innovation lessons from Amazon
The communication tool that Amazon used to think clearly
Episode 177 (John is based in Washington state)
In this conversation with John Rossman, we explore:
The Amazon principles of leadership
How to drive innovation successfully
The launch of Amazon's marketplace business
How to build a trusted-customer experience
How did Amazon push past the online ecommerce leader (EBay)
Clarifying the mission and purpose of innovation
How communicating and debating by memos leads to better thinking
How Amazon made their meetings more productive
Apply meeting hygiene
Jeff Bezos' communication style
About our guest John Rossman:
A leadership and digital transformation expert, John Rossman is the author of four books on leadership and business innovation including the best seller "The Amazon Way". He is an early Amazon executive who played a key role in launching the Amazon marketplace business in 2002.
His next book, Big Bet Leadership, will launch in Feb 2024. You can get a free copy of the ebook by registering here
https://bigbetleadership.com/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with John Rossman:
Communication, I believe is one of the oftentimes forgotten, or underplayed elements of what makes successful innovation or transformation.
Amazon has this culture of memo writing. And what we would do is we would write out any new proposal, any problematic situation, any new idea we wanted to do, we would write out and debate in memos. It takes both the writing and the debating to make these things work.
And so Amazon, they call that approach working backwards. So starting with the customer, starting with the outcome that you want, and working backwards.
And a lot of the work that I've done some since Amazon has been taking that philosophy and molding it and mixing it and adapting it into the client's situation. So I have a new book coming out in February of 2024, called Big Bet Leadership.
Part of the underpinnings of Big Bet Leadership is about thinking about outcomes and using memos to help articulate what we believe the problem is that we are solving - what we believe the future state is that we are going to create - what the couple of critical assumptions or operating capabilities are there doing that and then debating those that is essential communication within a core team that has to decide is this the right Innovation?
Is this the right idea? Is this the right big bet for us to do. And so that Amazon philosophy so back to 2002, the market the launch of the marketplace, I wrote the future press release for the marketplace business, there was one line in it that made all the difference to that line was...
A third party should be able to register, sell an item fulfil an order and delight a customer as though Amazon the retailer had done it without talking to anybody in the middle of the night.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Get a better return from your trade show booth 
How can you people to work the booth for maximum results
<p>Episode 176 (Anders is based in Winnipeg)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Anders Boulanger, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The importance of sticking your message to a visual metaphor</li>
<li>How to find your visual metaphor</li>
<li>How to grab attention and attract the right people to stop at your exhibit</li>
<li>How to harness the power of engagement drivers</li>
<li>How to leverage the power of inductive learning to stick your message</li>
<li>Mistakes that booth staff make and how to avoid them</li>
<li>How to attract prospect to stop instead of repelling them with your behavior</li>
<li>To sit or not to sit in your trade show booth?</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Anders Boulanger:</p>
<p>He has performed at over 200 trade shows. His exhibit clients average a 54% increase is trade show leads.</p>
<p>As well as performing at trade shows, he offers Trade Show Infotaining to prepare your staff for a more productive trade show experience.</p>
<p>Visit <a href='https://engagify.ai/'>engagify.ai</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Anders Boulanger:</p>
<p>We bring in our unique form of entertainment, that is often magic, mentalism mathematics, martial arts demonstrations, different visual metaphors that we can hang messaging on, to make it memorable and making it exciting and build crowds of people are.</p>
So that's kind of how we help our clients is by attracting attention, keeping them there qualifying the people that are qualified leads and then sending them on through the booth so that they can have that deeper, richer experience.
<p>-----</p>
<p>if you could sit down with a team leader that's about to head off to a trade show with their team, and they haven't been wise enough to hire you to help them out. But if you could still give them one, two or three pieces of advice that they can share with their team. What might be that one, two or three pieces of advice?</p>
<p>Yeah, I would definitely say that, you know, to do a little talk before the show to talk about expectations and goals and unite the team around what is that?</p>
<p>You know, what is the the objective that they have in front of them, if they want to kind of mention a few do's or don'ts to do at least a basic training, that would be a good idea.</p>
<p>And then the last piece I think I would say Georgia is to really go for it. It's like swinging for the fences, the entire show, because so many people on that last day, they phone it in, they phone it in and nobody tries.</p>
<p>And I find the last days my favourite day, because we still go for it. And we can build sometimes bigger crowds than we did on the other days because everyone else stopped trying.</p>
So you know really wring every dollar of value out of your tradeshow investments by working the entire three or four days however long the show is powerful advice.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Get a better return from your trade show booth 
How can you people to work the booth for maximum results
<p>Episode 176 (Anders is based in Winnipeg)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Anders Boulanger, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The importance of sticking your message to a visual metaphor</li>
<li>How to find your visual metaphor</li>
<li>How to grab attention and attract the right people to stop at your exhibit</li>
<li>How to harness the power of engagement drivers</li>
<li>How to leverage the power of inductive learning to stick your message</li>
<li>Mistakes that booth staff make and how to avoid them</li>
<li>How to attract prospect to stop instead of repelling them with your behavior</li>
<li>To sit or not to sit in your trade show booth?</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Anders Boulanger:</p>
<p>He has performed at over 200 trade shows. His exhibit clients average a 54% increase is trade show leads.</p>
<p>As well as performing at trade shows, he offers Trade Show Infotaining to prepare your staff for a more productive trade show experience.</p>
<p>Visit <a href='https://engagify.ai/'>engagify.ai</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Anders Boulanger:</p>
<p>We bring in our unique form of entertainment, that is often magic, mentalism mathematics, martial arts demonstrations, different visual metaphors that we can hang messaging on, to make it memorable and making it exciting and build crowds of people are.</p>
So that's kind of how we help our clients is by attracting attention, keeping them there qualifying the people that are qualified leads and then sending them on through the booth so that they can have that deeper, richer experience.
<p>-----</p>
<p>if you could sit down with a team leader that's about to head off to a trade show with their team, and they haven't been wise enough to hire you to help them out. But if you could still give them one, two or three pieces of advice that they can share with their team. What might be that one, two or three pieces of advice?</p>
<p>Yeah, I would definitely say that, you know, to do a little talk before the show to talk about expectations and goals and unite the team around what is that?</p>
<p>You know, what is the the objective that they have in front of them, if they want to kind of mention a few do's or don'ts to do at least a basic training, that would be a good idea.</p>
<p>And then the last piece I think I would say Georgia is to really go for it. It's like swinging for the fences, the entire show, because so many people on that last day, they phone it in, they phone it in and nobody tries.</p>
<p>And I find the last days my favourite day, because we still go for it. And we can build sometimes bigger crowds than we did on the other days because everyone else stopped trying.</p>
So you know really wring every dollar of value out of your tradeshow investments by working the entire three or four days however long the show is powerful advice.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Get a better return from your trade show booth 
How can you people to work the booth for maximum results
Episode 176 (Anders is based in Winnipeg)
In this conversation with Anders Boulanger, we explore:
The importance of sticking your message to a visual metaphor
How to find your visual metaphor
How to grab attention and attract the right people to stop at your exhibit
How to harness the power of engagement drivers
How to leverage the power of inductive learning to stick your message
Mistakes that booth staff make and how to avoid them
How to attract prospect to stop instead of repelling them with your behavior
To sit or not to sit in your trade show booth?
About our guest Anders Boulanger:
He has performed at over 200 trade shows. His exhibit clients average a 54% increase is trade show leads.
As well as performing at trade shows, he offers Trade Show Infotaining to prepare your staff for a more productive trade show experience.
Visit engagify.ai
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Anders Boulanger:
We bring in our unique form of entertainment, that is often magic, mentalism mathematics, martial arts demonstrations, different visual metaphors that we can hang messaging on, to make it memorable and making it exciting and build crowds of people are.
So that's kind of how we help our clients is by attracting attention, keeping them there qualifying the people that are qualified leads and then sending them on through the booth so that they can have that deeper, richer experience.
-----
if you could sit down with a team leader that's about to head off to a trade show with their team, and they haven't been wise enough to hire you to help them out. But if you could still give them one, two or three pieces of advice that they can share with their team. What might be that one, two or three pieces of advice?
Yeah, I would definitely say that, you know, to do a little talk before the show to talk about expectations and goals and unite the team around what is that?
You know, what is the the objective that they have in front of them, if they want to kind of mention a few do's or don'ts to do at least a basic training, that would be a good idea.
And then the last piece I think I would say Georgia is to really go for it. It's like swinging for the fences, the entire show, because so many people on that last day, they phone it in, they phone it in and nobody tries.
And I find the last days my favourite day, because we still go for it. And we can build sometimes bigger crowds than we did on the other days because everyone else stopped trying.
So you know really wring every dollar of value out of your tradeshow investments by working the entire three or four days however long the show is powerful advice.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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        <title>How leaders must communicate: Andy Bounds</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[A leader needs to communicate on many levels
What must leaders learn about communication?
<p>Episode 175 (Andy is based in the UK)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Andy Bounds we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Critical communications lesson from his blind mother</li>
<li>The preparation technique of "guess and ask"</li>
<li>What's more important than your intended message</li>
<li>Why the message is simply part of the process</li>
<li>How to cater your road show presentation to different audiences</li>
<li>The power of changing the subtitle on your opening slide</li>
<li>Why your message starts with the desired outcomes</li>
<li>Why follow-up is crucial to achieving the end goal</li>
<li>The four steps to achieve the goal</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Andy Bounds:</p>
<p class="xxxmsonormal" style="margin: 0cm; background: white;"> </p>
<p class="xxxmsonormal" style="margin: 0cm; background: white;">Award winning sales consultant – Andy was voted the UK’s Sales Trainer of the Year, as a result of all the sales that I helped my clients win (over $35billion so far)</p>
<p class="xxxmsonormal" style="margin: 0cm; background: white;"> </p>
<p class="xxxmsonormal" style="margin: 0cm; background: white;">Best-selling author – his three books on leadership communication and sales are all international best sellers.  In fact, the first of them was only kept off the Amazon #1 slot by the final Harry Potter book!</p>
<p class="xxxmsonormal" style="margin: 0cm; background: white;"> </p>
<p class="xxxmsonormal" style="margin: 0cm; background: white;">Blind mother – his mum is blind.  This has given Andy a lifetime’s experience of communicating from the other person’s point of view. A critical skill for leaders to master – especially since others who are blind to what they are trying to achieve!</p>
<p class="xxxmsonormal" style="margin: 0cm; background: white;">-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Andy Bounds:</p>
<p>There is a wonderful quote by the Irish author, George George Bernard Shaw. And he said, the single biggest illusion with communication is the fact that it has taken place.</p>
<p>In other words, let's use simpler language, the biggest mistake people make is they think they've done the communication so it's finished. Okay, or they do a 20 minute events and think that will change everybody for the next year.</p>
<p>The world doesn't work that way.</p>
Yeah, bluntly, habits are long term things. And communication is a short term thing. So we need rigorous reinforcement.
<p>And that's another thing when I'm talking with leaders and how we're going to reinforce things, I say, what are the questions you're going to relentlessly ask?</p>
<p>So make sure people have adopted the new strategy? So let's say we have a new strategy, and it's going to be I don't know, we're going to speak to our customers more?</p>
<p>Well, the leader needs to ask their team almost every single time they see them. How many customers have you contacted this week? Every time so as you walk towards me, I want you thinking Andy's going to ask me how many customers I've contact because he always does.</p>
<p>There has to be this relentless, consistent follow up. Because as a leader, if you ignore that behaviour, you empower it, right? If you ignore that behaviour, you empower it. So if someone doesn't do what you want, if you ignore that, you're empowering them not to do what you want.</p>
So you have to continually reinforce it, use charm, be persuasive, but you can't just ignore it. Otherwise, you're saying you just carry on.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[A leader needs to communicate on many levels
What must leaders learn about communication?
<p>Episode 175 (Andy is based in the UK)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Andy Bounds we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Critical communications lesson from his blind mother</li>
<li>The preparation technique of "guess and ask"</li>
<li>What's more important than your intended message</li>
<li>Why the message is simply part of the process</li>
<li>How to cater your road show presentation to different audiences</li>
<li>The power of changing the subtitle on your opening slide</li>
<li>Why your message starts with the desired outcomes</li>
<li>Why follow-up is crucial to achieving the end goal</li>
<li>The four steps to achieve the goal</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Andy Bounds:</p>
<p class="xxxmsonormal" style="margin: 0cm; background: white;"> </p>
<p class="xxxmsonormal" style="margin: 0cm; background: white;">Award winning sales consultant – Andy was voted the <em>UK’s Sales Trainer of the Year</em>, as a result of all the sales that I helped my clients win (over $35billion so far)</p>
<p class="xxxmsonormal" style="margin: 0cm; background: white;"> </p>
<p class="xxxmsonormal" style="margin: 0cm; background: white;">Best-selling author – his three books on leadership communication and sales are all international best sellers.  In fact, the first of them was only kept off the Amazon #1 slot by the final Harry Potter book!</p>
<p class="xxxmsonormal" style="margin: 0cm; background: white;"> </p>
<p class="xxxmsonormal" style="margin: 0cm; background: white;">Blind mother – his mum is blind.  This has given Andy a lifetime’s experience of communicating <em>from the other person’s point of view</em>. A critical skill for leaders to master – especially since others who are blind to what they are trying to achieve!</p>
<p class="xxxmsonormal" style="margin: 0cm; background: white;">-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Andy Bounds:</p>
<p>There is a wonderful quote by the Irish author, George George Bernard Shaw. And he said, the single biggest illusion with communication is the fact that it has taken place.</p>
<p>In other words, let's use simpler language, the biggest mistake people make is they think they've done the communication so it's finished. Okay, or they do a 20 minute events and think that will change everybody for the next year.</p>
<p>The world doesn't work that way.</p>
Yeah, bluntly, habits are long term things. And communication is a short term thing. So we need rigorous reinforcement.
<p>And that's another thing when I'm talking with leaders and how we're going to reinforce things, I say, what are the questions you're going to relentlessly ask?</p>
<p>So make sure people have adopted the new strategy? So let's say we have a new strategy, and it's going to be I don't know, we're going to speak to our customers more?</p>
<p>Well, the leader needs to ask their team almost every single time they see them. How many customers have you contacted this week? Every time so as you walk towards me, I want you thinking Andy's going to ask me how many customers I've contact because he always does.</p>
<p>There has to be this relentless, consistent follow up. Because as a leader, if you ignore that behaviour, you empower it, right? If you ignore that behaviour, you empower it. So if someone doesn't do what you want, if you ignore that, you're empowering them not to do what you want.</p>
So you have to continually reinforce it, use charm, be persuasive, but you can't just ignore it. Otherwise, you're saying you just carry on.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[A leader needs to communicate on many levels
What must leaders learn about communication?
Episode 175 (Andy is based in the UK)
In this conversation with Andy Bounds we explore:
Critical communications lesson from his blind mother
The preparation technique of "guess and ask"
What's more important than your intended message
Why the message is simply part of the process
How to cater your road show presentation to different audiences
The power of changing the subtitle on your opening slide
Why your message starts with the desired outcomes
Why follow-up is crucial to achieving the end goal
The four steps to achieve the goal
About our guest, Andy Bounds:
 
Award winning sales consultant – Andy was voted the UK’s Sales Trainer of the Year, as a result of all the sales that I helped my clients win (over $35billion so far)
 
Best-selling author – his three books on leadership communication and sales are all international best sellers.  In fact, the first of them was only kept off the Amazon #1 slot by the final Harry Potter book!
 
Blind mother – his mum is blind.  This has given Andy a lifetime’s experience of communicating from the other person’s point of view. A critical skill for leaders to master – especially since others who are blind to what they are trying to achieve!
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Andy Bounds:
There is a wonderful quote by the Irish author, George George Bernard Shaw. And he said, the single biggest illusion with communication is the fact that it has taken place.
In other words, let's use simpler language, the biggest mistake people make is they think they've done the communication so it's finished. Okay, or they do a 20 minute events and think that will change everybody for the next year.
The world doesn't work that way.
Yeah, bluntly, habits are long term things. And communication is a short term thing. So we need rigorous reinforcement.
And that's another thing when I'm talking with leaders and how we're going to reinforce things, I say, what are the questions you're going to relentlessly ask?
So make sure people have adopted the new strategy? So let's say we have a new strategy, and it's going to be I don't know, we're going to speak to our customers more?
Well, the leader needs to ask their team almost every single time they see them. How many customers have you contacted this week? Every time so as you walk towards me, I want you thinking Andy's going to ask me how many customers I've contact because he always does.
There has to be this relentless, consistent follow up. Because as a leader, if you ignore that behaviour, you empower it, right? If you ignore that behaviour, you empower it. So if someone doesn't do what you want, if you ignore that, you're empowering them not to do what you want.
So you have to continually reinforce it, use charm, be persuasive, but you can't just ignore it. Otherwise, you're saying you just carry on.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[You can become a more confident public speaker
How to beat speech anxiety and nervousness
<p>Episode 174 (This is a repeat of the popular episode #103 with Natasha)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Natasha Bazilevych we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to channel your anxiety as positive energy</li>
<li>How to apply exposure therapy to your fears or anxieties</li>
<li>What can you learn from running marathons to help your speaking skills</li>
<li>How to develop your public speaking skills to boost your career</li>
<li>How to tap your unique energy </li>
<li>How to be a better speaker and still be you</li>
</ul>
<p>About Natasha Bazilevych:</p>
<p>Natasha is a public speaking coach and trainer. As president of ChangeView Academy she helps entrepreneurs develop[ their business skills do they can create a successful business and life.</p>
<p>Learn more about <a href='https://changeview.org/'>ChangeView here.</a></p>
<p>She has run 7 marathons and 11 half-marathons. She hosts the podcast, Speak with Power Podcast. </p>
<p>To learn more about Natasha and her services visit the website</p>
<p><a href='http://www.natashabazilevych.com/'>www.NatashaBazilevych.com</a></p>
<p>When you are there you can sign up for the free Public Speaking 101 video course.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Natasha Bazilevych:</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Natasha, were you a natural, natural, natural at public speaking?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>No, I wouldn't say that I was natural. I developed it as a skill. When I was young, I was really shy. I was very shy.</p>
<p>People didn't notice me teachers wouldn't pick me for performances. I actually was kind of like, I was shy, but at the same time, I was an action taker. So I was initiating.</p>
<p>There were several times that I remember I came to my teachers. And I said, can I go, we had this performance on the stage and one girl dropped out, they needed a replacement. So I remember I said, can I go and this teacher, she looks at me up and down like this.</p>
<p>And he's like, No, you go, and then she picks another girl. And this goes into my brain so much. It's like, okay, and then there was one more moment was second grade, actually, when I came to teachers and said, I can sing this song. Then I started singing a song to them. And they, they smiled to each other and said, No, that's okay. You don't, you don't have to.</p>
<p>It's like I tried. But I was not a person that was natural that people would just pick and teachers would think that I'm so great. No. And then eventually, I worked on this my best friend, and that was my teenage years.</p>
<p>She said, When will you stop being so shy? After a couple of times when I just wouldn't do what we wanted to do together? And I thought, well, yeah, when enough is enough, I should develop my confidence.</p>
<p>And I still have that entry. In my diary, when I wrote, I want to be confident because I wanted to be a journalist and an interpreter and travel the world. And Phil, I wrote, I want to develop confidence, I will do 123. And I was writing points.</p>
<p>Because I've read so many different books, I was always this bookworm I loved different magazines and different educational pieces where I would learn how to develop my own personality, even being a teenager was into personal development.</p>
<p>So I found ways of how to grow confidence. And my first public speaking experience was my valedictorian speech, when I shared on the stage. So from there, I went on, and I started teaching, training and speaking, but before that, no, I was not natural.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[You can become a more confident public speaker
How to beat speech anxiety and nervousness
<p>Episode 174 (This is a repeat of the popular episode #103 with Natasha)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Natasha Bazilevych we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to channel your anxiety as positive energy</li>
<li>How to apply exposure therapy to your fears or anxieties</li>
<li>What can you learn from running marathons to help your speaking skills</li>
<li>How to develop your public speaking skills to boost your career</li>
<li>How to tap your unique energy </li>
<li>How to be a better speaker and still be you</li>
</ul>
<p>About Natasha Bazilevych:</p>
<p>Natasha is a public speaking coach and trainer. As president of ChangeView Academy she helps entrepreneurs develop[ their business skills do they can create a successful business and life.</p>
<p>Learn more about <a href='https://changeview.org/'>ChangeView here.</a></p>
<p>She has run 7 marathons and 11 half-marathons. She hosts the podcast, Speak with Power Podcast. </p>
<p>To learn more about Natasha and her services visit the website</p>
<p><a href='http://www.natashabazilevych.com/'>www.NatashaBazilevych.com</a></p>
<p>When you are there you can sign up for the free Public Speaking 101 video course.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Natasha Bazilevych:</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Natasha, were you a natural, natural, natural at public speaking?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>No, I wouldn't say that I was natural. I developed it as a skill. When I was young, I was really shy. I was very shy.</p>
<p>People didn't notice me teachers wouldn't pick me for performances. I actually was kind of like, I was shy, but at the same time, I was an action taker. So I was initiating.</p>
<p>There were several times that I remember I came to my teachers. And I said, can I go, we had this performance on the stage and one girl dropped out, they needed a replacement. So I remember I said, can I go and this teacher, she looks at me up and down like this.</p>
<p>And he's like, No, you go, and then she picks another girl. And this goes into my brain so much. It's like, okay, and then there was one more moment was second grade, actually, when I came to teachers and said, I can sing this song. Then I started singing a song to them. And they, they smiled to each other and said, No, that's okay. You don't, you don't have to.</p>
<p>It's like I tried. But I was not a person that was natural that people would just pick and teachers would think that I'm so great. No. And then eventually, I worked on this my best friend, and that was my teenage years.</p>
<p>She said, When will you stop being so shy? After a couple of times when I just wouldn't do what we wanted to do together? And I thought, well, yeah, when enough is enough, I should develop my confidence.</p>
<p>And I still have that entry. In my diary, when I wrote, I want to be confident because I wanted to be a journalist and an interpreter and travel the world. And Phil, I wrote, I want to develop confidence, I will do 123. And I was writing points.</p>
<p>Because I've read so many different books, I was always this bookworm I loved different magazines and different educational pieces where I would learn how to develop my own personality, even being a teenager was into personal development.</p>
<p>So I found ways of how to grow confidence. And my first public speaking experience was my valedictorian speech, when I shared on the stage. So from there, I went on, and I started teaching, training and speaking, but before that, no, I was not natural.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[You can become a more confident public speaker
How to beat speech anxiety and nervousness
Episode 174 (This is a repeat of the popular episode #103 with Natasha)
In this conversation with Natasha Bazilevych we explore:
How to channel your anxiety as positive energy
How to apply exposure therapy to your fears or anxieties
What can you learn from running marathons to help your speaking skills
How to develop your public speaking skills to boost your career
How to tap your unique energy 
How to be a better speaker and still be you
About Natasha Bazilevych:
Natasha is a public speaking coach and trainer. As president of ChangeView Academy she helps entrepreneurs develop[ their business skills do they can create a successful business and life.
Learn more about ChangeView here.
She has run 7 marathons and 11 half-marathons. She hosts the podcast, Speak with Power Podcast. 
To learn more about Natasha and her services visit the website
www.NatashaBazilevych.com
When you are there you can sign up for the free Public Speaking 101 video course.
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Natasha Bazilevych:
 
Natasha, were you a natural, natural, natural at public speaking?
 
No, I wouldn't say that I was natural. I developed it as a skill. When I was young, I was really shy. I was very shy.
People didn't notice me teachers wouldn't pick me for performances. I actually was kind of like, I was shy, but at the same time, I was an action taker. So I was initiating.
There were several times that I remember I came to my teachers. And I said, can I go, we had this performance on the stage and one girl dropped out, they needed a replacement. So I remember I said, can I go and this teacher, she looks at me up and down like this.
And he's like, No, you go, and then she picks another girl. And this goes into my brain so much. It's like, okay, and then there was one more moment was second grade, actually, when I came to teachers and said, I can sing this song. Then I started singing a song to them. And they, they smiled to each other and said, No, that's okay. You don't, you don't have to.
It's like I tried. But I was not a person that was natural that people would just pick and teachers would think that I'm so great. No. And then eventually, I worked on this my best friend, and that was my teenage years.
She said, When will you stop being so shy? After a couple of times when I just wouldn't do what we wanted to do together? And I thought, well, yeah, when enough is enough, I should develop my confidence.
And I still have that entry. In my diary, when I wrote, I want to be confident because I wanted to be a journalist and an interpreter and travel the world. And Phil, I wrote, I want to develop confidence, I will do 123. And I was writing points.
Because I've read so many different books, I was always this bookworm I loved different magazines and different educational pieces where I would learn how to develop my own personality, even being a teenager was into personal development.
So I found ways of how to grow confidence. And my first public speaking experience was my valedictorian speech, when I shared on the stage. So from there, I went on, and I started teaching, training and speaking, but before that, no, I was not natural.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help l]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Power Words to influence people
What can you say to get more of what you want
<p>Episode 173 (Shelle is based in Hamilton, Canada)</p>
<p>This is a repeat of the popular episode #10 from Oct 2020</p>
<p>In this conversation with Shelle Rose Charvet we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Recognizing that others don't think like you do</li>
<li>The danger of trying to dig your way out of a hole</li>
<li>Understanding the difference between suggestion and command language</li>
<li>How to find the people who are most likely to say yes to your offer</li>
<li>Why you might want to people around you who think differently</li>
<li>What's the difference between "away from " vs "towards" language</li>
<li>The difference between value and interesting</li>
<li>How to decode their language before you respond</li>
<li>When do you choose between options, process, details</li>
<li>Internal vs external modes of influence</li>
<li>Why you might use the phrase "but it's up to you"</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Shelle Rose Charvet:</p>
<p>She is an expert in Influencing and Persuasion  and author of Words that Change Minds.</p>
<p>Shelle works with organizations around the world and now remotely to help them understand what really motivates their clients.</p>
<p>When we recorded this interview she lived in Hamilton, Canada and spent time in Berlin. She speaks English, French, Spanish and is learning German.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Shelle Rose Charvet:</p>
<p>Well, the very first mistake that people make is that they unconsciously believe, like sometimes they are not aware of having this belief, they unconsciously believe that other people think the same way they do.</p>
<p>So, the mistake they make is they use the same strategy to convince other people that they used to convince themselves of something and then they are shocked and dismayed when other people do not just leap onto their bus and go wherever they want, what is wrong with those people, do not they get it.</p>
<p>Well, the issue is they need to get it in a way that is different than how I get it or how you get it and that is one of the very big mistakes.</p>
<p> So, other people do not necessarily think like me. I cannot find it hard to believe.</p>
<p>I know, is not it? Are they weird, is there something wrong with them?</p>
<p>Did not they go to school, did not they learn anything? Clearly they must understand me.</p>
<p>And I am a logical person, why are not they?</p>
<p>So, how do we overcome that challenge? I suppose, the first thing we need to recognize is that they are not necessarily trying to be difficult. They just think differently and not necessarily wrong, just differently. So, how do we overcome that challenge?</p>
<p>So, this is what the book words that change minds is all about. We need to understand that people have different values and criteria for making decisions so what is important to me may not be important to them, like one of the ways I like to convince people is I tell them things are interesting.</p>
<p>Well, interesting is my word for valuable and worth looking at, would not it be great if you asked somebody, well how do something is worthwhile taking a look at?</p>
<p>So, George, let me ask you just for a minute, how do you know that something is worthwhile to take a look at.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Power Words to influence people
What can you say to get more of what you want
<p>Episode 173 (Shelle is based in Hamilton, Canada)</p>
<p>This is a repeat of the popular episode #10 from Oct 2020</p>
<p>In this conversation with Shelle Rose Charvet we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Recognizing that others don't think like you do</li>
<li>The danger of trying to dig your way out of a hole</li>
<li>Understanding the difference between suggestion and command language</li>
<li>How to find the people who are most likely to say yes to your offer</li>
<li>Why you might want to people around you who think differently</li>
<li>What's the difference between "away from " vs "towards" language</li>
<li>The difference between value and interesting</li>
<li>How to decode their language before you respond</li>
<li>When do you choose between options, process, details</li>
<li>Internal vs external modes of influence</li>
<li>Why you might use the phrase "but it's up to you"</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Shelle Rose Charvet:</p>
<p>She is an expert in Influencing and Persuasion  and author of Words that Change Minds.</p>
<p>Shelle works with organizations around the world and now remotely to help them understand what really motivates their clients.</p>
<p>When we recorded this interview she lived in Hamilton, Canada and spent time in Berlin. She speaks English, French, Spanish and is learning German.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Shelle Rose Charvet:</p>
<p>Well, the very first mistake that people make is that they unconsciously believe, like sometimes they are not aware of having this belief, they unconsciously believe that other people think the same way they do.</p>
<p>So, the mistake they make is they use the same strategy to convince other people that they used to convince themselves of something and then they are shocked and dismayed when other people do not just leap onto their bus and go wherever they want, what is wrong with those people, do not they get it.</p>
<p>Well, the issue is they need to get it in a way that is different than how I get it or how you get it and that is one of the very big mistakes.</p>
<p> So, other people do not necessarily think like me. I cannot find it hard to believe.</p>
<p>I know, is not it? Are they weird, is there something wrong with them?</p>
<p>Did not they go to school, did not they learn anything? Clearly they must understand me.</p>
<p>And I am a logical person, why are not they?</p>
<p>So, how do we overcome that challenge? I suppose, the first thing we need to recognize is that they are not necessarily trying to be difficult. They just think differently and not necessarily wrong, just differently. So, how do we overcome that challenge?</p>
<p>So, this is what the book words that change minds is all about. We need to understand that people have different values and criteria for making decisions so what is important to me may not be important to them, like one of the ways I like to convince people is I tell them things are interesting.</p>
<p>Well, interesting is my word for valuable and worth looking at, would not it be great if you asked somebody, well how do something is worthwhile taking a look at?</p>
<p>So, George, let me ask you just for a minute, how do you know that something is worthwhile to take a look at.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Power Words to influence people
What can you say to get more of what you want
Episode 173 (Shelle is based in Hamilton, Canada)
This is a repeat of the popular episode #10 from Oct 2020
In this conversation with Shelle Rose Charvet we explore:
Recognizing that others don't think like you do
The danger of trying to dig your way out of a hole
Understanding the difference between suggestion and command language
How to find the people who are most likely to say yes to your offer
Why you might want to people around you who think differently
What's the difference between "away from " vs "towards" language
The difference between value and interesting
How to decode their language before you respond
When do you choose between options, process, details
Internal vs external modes of influence
Why you might use the phrase "but it's up to you"
About our guest Shelle Rose Charvet:
She is an expert in Influencing and Persuasion  and author of Words that Change Minds.
Shelle works with organizations around the world and now remotely to help them understand what really motivates their clients.
When we recorded this interview she lived in Hamilton, Canada and spent time in Berlin. She speaks English, French, Spanish and is learning German.
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Shelle Rose Charvet:
Well, the very first mistake that people make is that they unconsciously believe, like sometimes they are not aware of having this belief, they unconsciously believe that other people think the same way they do.
So, the mistake they make is they use the same strategy to convince other people that they used to convince themselves of something and then they are shocked and dismayed when other people do not just leap onto their bus and go wherever they want, what is wrong with those people, do not they get it.
Well, the issue is they need to get it in a way that is different than how I get it or how you get it and that is one of the very big mistakes.
 So, other people do not necessarily think like me. I cannot find it hard to believe.
I know, is not it? Are they weird, is there something wrong with them?
Did not they go to school, did not they learn anything? Clearly they must understand me.
And I am a logical person, why are not they?
So, how do we overcome that challenge? I suppose, the first thing we need to recognize is that they are not necessarily trying to be difficult. They just think differently and not necessarily wrong, just differently. So, how do we overcome that challenge?
So, this is what the book words that change minds is all about. We need to understand that people have different values and criteria for making decisions so what is important to me may not be important to them, like one of the ways I like to convince people is I tell them things are interesting.
Well, interesting is my word for valuable and worth looking at, would not it be great if you asked somebody, well how do something is worthwhile taking a look at?
So, George, let me ask you just for a minute, how do you know that something is worthwhile to take a look at.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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        <title>Stop your geek speak and help me understand: Gary Simonds</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Don't try to impress me with big words
Speak so I understand you
<p>Episode 172 (Gary is based in North Carolina)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Gary Simonds we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Recognizing the language of your profession and expertise</li>
<li>The challenge that language creates for your patients, clients, colleagues</li>
<li>Speaking to be clearly understood is not brain surgery</li>
<li>How clear understanding builds trust</li>
<li>How an analogy can help convey the message </li>
<li>The damage when we assume that we speak the same language</li>
<li>How ego of an expert can interfere with clear communication</li>
<li>Are you aware of how many different technical languages you speak?</li>
<li>Why you need to check with your audience on their understanding</li>
<li>The power of analogy, simile and clichés</li>
<li>Why you need to be prepared for how you present the message</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Gary Simonds:</p>
<p>Gary is a neurosurgeon who created and developed a university-level neurosurgery department and residency training program at Virginia Tech and the Carilion Clinic in Virginia.</p>
<p>He has written three non-fiction books and a a recently released novel, Death's Pale Flag, focusing on professional burnout and building personal resilience.</p>
<p>Learn more about his books at</p>
<p><a href='https://garyrsimonds.com/'>https://garyrsimonds.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Gary Simonds:</p>
And quite often, you know, people would be there nodding as if everybody understood you would leave the room and they go, what the heck did they just tell us?
<p>-----</p>
<p>I think it also helps, after delivering your intended message to ask them specifically, what do you understand about what I've been telling you?</p>
<p>What do you understand about the problem right now or the issue right now. And you can be really shocked sometimes, because you may think I've just made it as clear as can be.</p>
<p>And they come back with something that is in no way close to what your message was. So then you're going to have to refine it and readdress it and repeat it.</p>
<p>And Gary, I can see that same a similar scenario playing out in a meeting room.</p>
<p>Perhaps the the president of the company, or maybe the VP of engineering has come in and explained a project or a problem. And simply believe that because they explained it for themselves that everyone in the room understands.</p>
<p>And perhaps that's a good time to go to the room and saying,</p>
Who here would like to tell me what your understanding is of what I just said?
<p>And if anyone's brave enough to go and say that, then that leader might find that they didn't get across their message? I absolutely thinks that you have to have been in those scenarios, haven't you, George?</p>
<p>Very much. So yes. And and there are times and I admit there were times when I was reluctant to speak up? Because I didn't want to be the only person that I thought who didn't understand.</p>
<p>And so you're not going to say I didn't understand, please explain it to me, because you're you're the junior guy. Right? And you don't want to be the one person with and yet you look around the room and you notice that nobody else is getting it.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Don't try to impress me with big words
Speak so I understand you
<p>Episode 172 (Gary is based in North Carolina)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Gary Simonds we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Recognizing the language of your profession and expertise</li>
<li>The challenge that language creates for your patients, clients, colleagues</li>
<li>Speaking to be clearly understood is not brain surgery</li>
<li>How clear understanding builds trust</li>
<li>How an analogy can help convey the message </li>
<li>The damage when we assume that we speak the same language</li>
<li>How ego of an expert can interfere with clear communication</li>
<li>Are you aware of how many different technical languages you speak?</li>
<li>Why you need to check with your audience on their understanding</li>
<li>The power of analogy, simile and clichés</li>
<li>Why you need to be prepared for how you present the message</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Gary Simonds:</p>
<p>Gary is a neurosurgeon who created and developed a university-level neurosurgery department and residency training program at Virginia Tech and the Carilion Clinic in Virginia.</p>
<p>He has written three non-fiction books and a a recently released novel, Death's Pale Flag, focusing on professional burnout and building personal resilience.</p>
<p>Learn more about his books at</p>
<p><a href='https://garyrsimonds.com/'>https://garyrsimonds.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Gary Simonds:</p>
And quite often, you know, people would be there nodding as if everybody understood you would leave the room and they go, what the heck did they just tell us?
<p>-----</p>
<p>I think it also helps, after delivering your intended message to ask them specifically, what do you understand about what I've been telling you?</p>
<p>What do you understand about the problem right now or the issue right now. And you can be really shocked sometimes, because you may think I've just made it as clear as can be.</p>
<p>And they come back with something that is in no way close to what your message was. So then you're going to have to refine it and readdress it and repeat it.</p>
<p>And Gary, I can see that same a similar scenario playing out in a meeting room.</p>
<p>Perhaps the the president of the company, or maybe the VP of engineering has come in and explained a project or a problem. And simply believe that because they explained it for themselves that everyone in the room understands.</p>
<p>And perhaps that's a good time to go to the room and saying,</p>
Who here would like to tell me what your understanding is of what I just said?
<p>And if anyone's brave enough to go and say that, then that leader might find that they didn't get across their message? I absolutely thinks that you have to have been in those scenarios, haven't you, George?</p>
<p>Very much. So yes. And and there are times and I admit there were times when I was reluctant to speak up? Because I didn't want to be the only person that I thought who didn't understand.</p>
<p>And so you're not going to say I didn't understand, please explain it to me, because you're you're the junior guy. Right? And you don't want to be the one person with and yet you look around the room and you notice that nobody else is getting it.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Don't try to impress me with big words
Speak so I understand you
Episode 172 (Gary is based in North Carolina)
In this conversation with Gary Simonds we explore:
Recognizing the language of your profession and expertise
The challenge that language creates for your patients, clients, colleagues
Speaking to be clearly understood is not brain surgery
How clear understanding builds trust
How an analogy can help convey the message 
The damage when we assume that we speak the same language
How ego of an expert can interfere with clear communication
Are you aware of how many different technical languages you speak?
Why you need to check with your audience on their understanding
The power of analogy, simile and clichés
Why you need to be prepared for how you present the message
About our guest Gary Simonds:
Gary is a neurosurgeon who created and developed a university-level neurosurgery department and residency training program at Virginia Tech and the Carilion Clinic in Virginia.
He has written three non-fiction books and a a recently released novel, Death's Pale Flag, focusing on professional burnout and building personal resilience.
Learn more about his books at
https://garyrsimonds.com/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Gary Simonds:
And quite often, you know, people would be there nodding as if everybody understood you would leave the room and they go, what the heck did they just tell us?
-----
I think it also helps, after delivering your intended message to ask them specifically, what do you understand about what I've been telling you?
What do you understand about the problem right now or the issue right now. And you can be really shocked sometimes, because you may think I've just made it as clear as can be.
And they come back with something that is in no way close to what your message was. So then you're going to have to refine it and readdress it and repeat it.
And Gary, I can see that same a similar scenario playing out in a meeting room.
Perhaps the the president of the company, or maybe the VP of engineering has come in and explained a project or a problem. And simply believe that because they explained it for themselves that everyone in the room understands.
And perhaps that's a good time to go to the room and saying,
Who here would like to tell me what your understanding is of what I just said?
And if anyone's brave enough to go and say that, then that leader might find that they didn't get across their message? I absolutely thinks that you have to have been in those scenarios, haven't you, George?
Very much. So yes. And and there are times and I admit there were times when I was reluctant to speak up? Because I didn't want to be the only person that I thought who didn't understand.
And so you're not going to say I didn't understand, please explain it to me, because you're you're the junior guy. Right? And you don't want to be the one person with and yet you look around the room and you notice that nobody else is getting it.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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        <title>Sell More with a Story that Sizzles: Bruce Scheer</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How can you inspire your buyers with the right narrative?
Why is it important for the leaders to get the stories straight
<p>Episode 171 (Bruce is based in Seattle, Washington)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Bruce Scheer we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The dangers of radon acts and hence random results</li>
<li>Is everyone on your team telling the same story?</li>
<li>Why you need to identify the problem domain</li>
<li>Clarifying the real target buyer - the bully with the juice</li>
<li>Painting the picture of the big hairy problem</li>
<li>Talking about the solution versus features and benefits</li>
<li>How to remind the buyer that they might feel trapped</li>
<li>Three traps that leaders need to avoid</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Bruce Scheer:</p>
<p>His company has been on Delloite's fastest growing private companies 3 years in a row. He has won multiple b2b campaign of the year awards. His book achieved Amazon #1 Best Sell status across 5 categories.</p>
<p>Get your copy of his books here  <a href='https://inspireyourbuyers.com/books/'>https://inspireyourbuyers.com/books/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://inspireyourbuyers.com/books/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Bruce Scheer:</p>
Just to recap on this whole thing, my brother, he sold me a boat that I didn't know I needed or wanted.
<p>And I detested boats prior to that, thinking, you know, hey, they're polluting the world. And they're horrible. But you know, the first thing my brother did, he's not dumb. He targeted the right buyer, somebody that had money to buy that thing, but had a place to store it could maintain it.</p>
<p>You know, he knew more than I did. But he tired the he targeted the right buyer. And then from there, he helped spotlight that problem, that big hairy problem I had being stuck on an island, especially when an earthquake came and I'm in the pandemic, I'm already afraid and scared, I don't want to die and I want to protect my family. I need that boat.</p>
<p>That's enough of a reason that's a big problem that I needed to solve for. And he nailed that problem, name that problem and one word trapped. And then from there, once we had agreement there, then he moved forward then in remember, this is the next day where he started helping me paint a picture about, you know, this desired outcome that I was looking for.</p>
<p>He helped me envision that you know, talking about the fun, I'd have some adventure cruising around on a boat and then a happy wife. Very important, George, you know, we've been married 32 years and I don't want to break that track record. So her happiness is a key feature in my my happy life.</p>
<p>Then he took me to the solution. And he didn't sell me on a bunch of features, functions and benefits. And I normally see that mistake all the time. I didn't care. I all I cared about was not being trapped and having some fun and adventure with my wife and a happy wife.</p>
<p>So he sold me on the concept of boating effectively. And then all he did is let me know that hey, what he had to offer my dad's boat fit within there and what's going to help me and then he just laid out these clear next steps.</p>
<p>Of course I'm on my second boat now and I've been very close to getting the third but he got me on way, he all he exposed that unconsidered need that I had, in a way that...</p>
he really planted that big problem and just took me all the way through and helped me with that buyer journey that set up next steps.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How can you inspire your buyers with the right narrative?
Why is it important for the leaders to get the stories straight
<p>Episode 171 (Bruce is based in Seattle, Washington)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Bruce Scheer we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The dangers of radon acts and hence random results</li>
<li>Is everyone on your team telling the same story?</li>
<li>Why you need to identify the problem domain</li>
<li>Clarifying the real target buyer - the bully with the juice</li>
<li>Painting the picture of the big hairy problem</li>
<li>Talking about the solution versus features and benefits</li>
<li>How to remind the buyer that they might feel trapped</li>
<li>Three traps that leaders need to avoid</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Bruce Scheer:</p>
<p>His company has been on Delloite's fastest growing private companies 3 years in a row. He has won multiple b2b campaign of the year awards. His book achieved Amazon #1 Best Sell status across 5 categories.</p>
<p>Get your copy of his books here  <a href='https://inspireyourbuyers.com/books/'>https://inspireyourbuyers.com/books/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://inspireyourbuyers.com/books/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Bruce Scheer:</p>
Just to recap on this whole thing, my brother, he sold me a boat that I didn't know I needed or wanted.
<p>And I detested boats prior to that, thinking, you know, hey, they're polluting the world. And they're horrible. But you know, the first thing my brother did, he's not dumb. He targeted the right buyer, somebody that had money to buy that thing, but had a place to store it could maintain it.</p>
<p>You know, he knew more than I did. But he tired the he targeted the right buyer. And then from there, he helped spotlight that problem, that big hairy problem I had being stuck on an island, especially when an earthquake came and I'm in the pandemic, I'm already afraid and scared, I don't want to die and I want to protect my family. I need that boat.</p>
<p>That's enough of a reason that's a big problem that I needed to solve for. And he nailed that problem, name that problem and one word trapped. And then from there, once we had agreement there, then he moved forward then in remember, this is the next day where he started helping me paint a picture about, you know, this desired outcome that I was looking for.</p>
<p>He helped me envision that you know, talking about the fun, I'd have some adventure cruising around on a boat and then a happy wife. Very important, George, you know, we've been married 32 years and I don't want to break that track record. So her happiness is a key feature in my my happy life.</p>
<p>Then he took me to the solution. And he didn't sell me on a bunch of features, functions and benefits. And I normally see that mistake all the time. I didn't care. I all I cared about was not being trapped and having some fun and adventure with my wife and a happy wife.</p>
<p>So he sold me on the concept of boating effectively. And then all he did is let me know that hey, what he had to offer my dad's boat fit within there and what's going to help me and then he just laid out these clear next steps.</p>
<p>Of course I'm on my second boat now and I've been very close to getting the third but he got me on way, he all he exposed that unconsidered need that I had, in a way that...</p>
he really planted that big problem and just took me all the way through and helped me with that buyer journey that set up next steps.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How can you inspire your buyers with the right narrative?
Why is it important for the leaders to get the stories straight
Episode 171 (Bruce is based in Seattle, Washington)
In this conversation with Bruce Scheer we explore:
The dangers of radon acts and hence random results
Is everyone on your team telling the same story?
Why you need to identify the problem domain
Clarifying the real target buyer - the bully with the juice
Painting the picture of the big hairy problem
Talking about the solution versus features and benefits
How to remind the buyer that they might feel trapped
Three traps that leaders need to avoid
About our guest Bruce Scheer:
His company has been on Delloite's fastest growing private companies 3 years in a row. He has won multiple b2b campaign of the year awards. His book achieved Amazon #1 Best Sell status across 5 categories.
Get your copy of his books here  https://inspireyourbuyers.com/books/

-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Bruce Scheer:
Just to recap on this whole thing, my brother, he sold me a boat that I didn't know I needed or wanted.
And I detested boats prior to that, thinking, you know, hey, they're polluting the world. And they're horrible. But you know, the first thing my brother did, he's not dumb. He targeted the right buyer, somebody that had money to buy that thing, but had a place to store it could maintain it.
You know, he knew more than I did. But he tired the he targeted the right buyer. And then from there, he helped spotlight that problem, that big hairy problem I had being stuck on an island, especially when an earthquake came and I'm in the pandemic, I'm already afraid and scared, I don't want to die and I want to protect my family. I need that boat.
That's enough of a reason that's a big problem that I needed to solve for. And he nailed that problem, name that problem and one word trapped. And then from there, once we had agreement there, then he moved forward then in remember, this is the next day where he started helping me paint a picture about, you know, this desired outcome that I was looking for.
He helped me envision that you know, talking about the fun, I'd have some adventure cruising around on a boat and then a happy wife. Very important, George, you know, we've been married 32 years and I don't want to break that track record. So her happiness is a key feature in my my happy life.
Then he took me to the solution. And he didn't sell me on a bunch of features, functions and benefits. And I normally see that mistake all the time. I didn't care. I all I cared about was not being trapped and having some fun and adventure with my wife and a happy wife.
So he sold me on the concept of boating effectively. And then all he did is let me know that hey, what he had to offer my dad's boat fit within there and what's going to help me and then he just laid out these clear next steps.
Of course I'm on my second boat now and I've been very close to getting the third but he got me on way, he all he exposed that unconsidered need that I had, in a way that...
he really planted that big problem and just took me all the way through and helped me with that buyer journey that set up next steps.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[What does a filmmaker and master storyteller say about AI?
How might you use AI to help you tell your stories?
<p>Episode 170 (Richard is based in Los Angeles)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Richard Rosser we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Communicating through story telling</li>
<li>How can AI be use to enhance your stories?</li>
<li>How AI is similar to the Gutenberg Press</li>
<li>AI doesn't replace you because you need to separate the gems from the crap</li>
<li>Effective use of AI means we need to ask better questions (prompts)</li>
<li>AI is simply another tool</li>
<li>How to use AI with your marketing plan</li>
<li>The importance of personalizing the AI responses</li>
<li>How to use AI to speak the language of your audience</li>
<li>What is Narrative Transport and how can you use it?</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Richard Rosser:</p>
<p>Richard is a filmmaker and master storyteller. He worked on the hit TV shows: Gray's Anatomy, Chicago Med, This is Us and 24.</p>
<p>He is the author of "ChatGTP Simplified". </p>
<p>To learn more and get you copy of this book visit  <a href='https://aiexplained.ai/'>https://aiexplained.ai/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://aiexplained.ai/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Richard Rosser:</p>
<p>The exciting part is the ability to create things that again, that we never conceptualize that we never thought of.</p>
<p>If we go back in past, George, let's go back way into the past to the 1450s. And imagine that we are storytellers in the oral tradition. Right so I may be a bard, you're a you're a minstrel we have a friend of ours is a is a court jester. And we tell stories or we sing stories, or we regale stories to the masses.</p>
<p>And all of a sudden, there's this new technology, the Gutenberg Press has just been invented. And there's this new technology, the printing press, and this new technology called books, that people won't need to hear stories anymore. They can just simply read them.</p>
<p>Well imagine the anxiety that all of those performers in those in those oral storytellers went through at that point in time about this new technology books that was going to put them out of business and replace them.</p>
<p>We'll think about now, how many ever years later, 600 years later, and now, how many people make their living as actors stand up comedians, singer, songwriters, performers, artists, there are so many ways of expressing ourselves other than just the written word, and a lot of those folks perform and perform in the oral tradition.</p>
<p>And so, to me, this is sort of a sea change moment again, just like the printing press, AI It is going to usher in a new, a new time that we as creators can use a new technology just similar to the internet and, and create amazing things.</p>
<p>And so so the folks who really embrace this technology and work to understand it, and how they can implement it can really benefit from it</p>
<p>-----</p>
And I get this excitement that bubbles up. And we can dive in a little bit more detail about that. But but as a storyteller, I love the creative process and the technology that can help me and you know, the folks that I work with amplify that creativity.
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[What does a filmmaker and master storyteller say about AI?
How might you use AI to help you tell your stories?
<p>Episode 170 (Richard is based in Los Angeles)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Richard Rosser we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Communicating through story telling</li>
<li>How can AI be use to enhance your stories?</li>
<li>How AI is similar to the Gutenberg Press</li>
<li>AI doesn't replace you because you need to separate the gems from the crap</li>
<li>Effective use of AI means we need to ask better questions (prompts)</li>
<li>AI is simply another tool</li>
<li>How to use AI with your marketing plan</li>
<li>The importance of personalizing the AI responses</li>
<li>How to use AI to speak the language of your audience</li>
<li>What is Narrative Transport and how can you use it?</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Richard Rosser:</p>
<p>Richard is a filmmaker and master storyteller. He worked on the hit TV shows: Gray's Anatomy, Chicago Med, This is Us and 24.</p>
<p>He is the author of "ChatGTP Simplified". </p>
<p>To learn more and get you copy of this book visit  <a href='https://aiexplained.ai/'>https://aiexplained.ai/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://aiexplained.ai/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Richard Rosser:</p>
<p>The exciting part is the ability to create things that again, that we never conceptualize that we never thought of.</p>
<p>If we go back in past, George, let's go back way into the past to the 1450s. And imagine that we are storytellers in the oral tradition. Right so I may be a bard, you're a you're a minstrel we have a friend of ours is a is a court jester. And we tell stories or we sing stories, or we regale stories to the masses.</p>
<p>And all of a sudden, there's this new technology, the Gutenberg Press has just been invented. And there's this new technology, the printing press, and this new technology called books, that people won't need to hear stories anymore. They can just simply read them.</p>
<p>Well imagine the anxiety that all of those performers in those in those oral storytellers went through at that point in time about this new technology books that was going to put them out of business and replace them.</p>
<p>We'll think about now, how many ever years later, 600 years later, and now, how many people make their living as actors stand up comedians, singer, songwriters, performers, artists, there are so many ways of expressing ourselves other than just the written word, and a lot of those folks perform and perform in the oral tradition.</p>
<p>And so, to me, this is sort of a sea change moment again, just like the printing press, AI It is going to usher in a new, a new time that we as creators can use a new technology just similar to the internet and, and create amazing things.</p>
<p>And so so the folks who really embrace this technology and work to understand it, and how they can implement it can really benefit from it</p>
<p>-----</p>
And I get this excitement that bubbles up. And we can dive in a little bit more detail about that. But but as a storyteller, I love the creative process and the technology that can help me and you know, the folks that I work with amplify that creativity.
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What does a filmmaker and master storyteller say about AI?
How might you use AI to help you tell your stories?
Episode 170 (Richard is based in Los Angeles)
In this conversation with Richard Rosser we explore:
Communicating through story telling
How can AI be use to enhance your stories?
How AI is similar to the Gutenberg Press
AI doesn't replace you because you need to separate the gems from the crap
Effective use of AI means we need to ask better questions (prompts)
AI is simply another tool
How to use AI with your marketing plan
The importance of personalizing the AI responses
How to use AI to speak the language of your audience
What is Narrative Transport and how can you use it?
About our guest Richard Rosser:
Richard is a filmmaker and master storyteller. He worked on the hit TV shows: Gray's Anatomy, Chicago Med, This is Us and 24.
He is the author of "ChatGTP Simplified". 
To learn more and get you copy of this book visit  https://aiexplained.ai/

-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Richard Rosser:
The exciting part is the ability to create things that again, that we never conceptualize that we never thought of.
If we go back in past, George, let's go back way into the past to the 1450s. And imagine that we are storytellers in the oral tradition. Right so I may be a bard, you're a you're a minstrel we have a friend of ours is a is a court jester. And we tell stories or we sing stories, or we regale stories to the masses.
And all of a sudden, there's this new technology, the Gutenberg Press has just been invented. And there's this new technology, the printing press, and this new technology called books, that people won't need to hear stories anymore. They can just simply read them.
Well imagine the anxiety that all of those performers in those in those oral storytellers went through at that point in time about this new technology books that was going to put them out of business and replace them.
We'll think about now, how many ever years later, 600 years later, and now, how many people make their living as actors stand up comedians, singer, songwriters, performers, artists, there are so many ways of expressing ourselves other than just the written word, and a lot of those folks perform and perform in the oral tradition.
And so, to me, this is sort of a sea change moment again, just like the printing press, AI It is going to usher in a new, a new time that we as creators can use a new technology just similar to the internet and, and create amazing things.
And so so the folks who really embrace this technology and work to understand it, and how they can implement it can really benefit from it
-----
And I get this excitement that bubbles up. And we can dive in a little bit more detail about that. But but as a storyteller, I love the creative process and the technology that can help me and you know, the folks that I work with amplify that creativity.
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to promote your success without feeling guilty
You can be proud of your achievements
<p>Episode 169 (Lisa is based in Toronto, Canada)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Lisa Bragg we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why your success story can help others succeed</li>
<li>Change the conversation from failure to talking about success</li>
<li>Self promotion is self love</li>
<li>Why did bragging get such a bad rap</li>
<li>How bragging energizes you and moves you to more success</li>
<li>How a culture of sharing success stories strengthens your team</li>
<li>Don't make people feel like hidden gems</li>
<li>The myths that holds people back</li>
<li>You don't need to be loud and bombastic</li>
<li>You can be a team player when you say "my contribution"</li>
<li>What if people don't like to hear your success story</li>
<li>Why start a brag book or smile file</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Lisa Bragg:</p>
<p>Lisa is the author of the Bragging Rights: How to Talk about Your Work Using Purposeful Self-Promotion</p>
<p>After a career as a journalist, she has been an entrepreneur for more than 16 years.</p>
<p>You can find the book at all major retailers.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Learn more about Lisa Bragg and her services at</p>
<p><a href='https://www.lisabragg.com/'>https://www.lisabragg.com/</a></p>
<p>-------------</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Lisa Bragg:</p>
<p>Delighted to be talking with you today, in particular about your book Bragging Rights. Partly because bragging when I was a kid, it was a bad word,</p>
<p>George, it's such a taboo topic. It really is. And that's why I really want us to start talking about it. Because, you know, we are products of where we've come from. So a lot of us, you know, our parents, it's the factory era.</p>
<p>So they were taught to put your head down, do good work, and eventually someone will notice you. They've passed that on to us. But it's comes from the factory era where we were cogs in a machine. Before that, we wanted to just get a steady paycheck.</p>
<p>But now I'm going to just quickly Fast Forward us. We're now in the information and imagination era. And we all know we compete and collaborate globally. So we need to shift the mindset of what bragging and self promotion is to what it really needs to be.</p>
<p>And I'll get out right off the top for our audience and for everyone. Bragging means to talk about your success with pride. And pride means self love, and I believe we all need more of that self love. But we get it confused with self aggrandizement.</p>
<p>I think it's because self aggrandizement is one of those mouthful words. It's a big word. So and that means that's the puffery that that achiness that we think is bragging, that's the oh, I'm better than you kind of attitude, which is not bragging, bragging is really talking about your success.</p>
<p>------</p>
Talk from a scar, not a wound, when you're telling your stories, it shouldn't be something that you're writing right now and emotionally draining to you.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to promote your success without feeling guilty
Y<em>ou can be proud of your achievements</em>
<p><em>Episode 169 (Lisa is based in Toronto, Canada)</em></p>
<p><em>In this conversation with Lisa Bragg we explore:</em></p>
<ul><li><em>Why your success story can help others succeed</em></li>
<li><em>Change the conversation from failure to talking about success</em></li>
<li><em>Self promotion is self love</em></li>
<li><em>Why did bragging get such a bad rap</em></li>
<li><em>How bragging energizes you and moves you to more success</em></li>
<li><em>How a culture of sharing success stories strengthens your team</em></li>
<li><em>Don't make people feel like hidden gems</em></li>
<li><em>The myths that holds people back</em></li>
<li><em>You don't need to be loud and bombastic</em></li>
<li><em>You can be a team player when you say "my contribution"</em></li>
<li><em>What if people don't like to hear your success story</em></li>
<li><em>Why start a brag book or smile file</em></li>
</ul>
<p><em>About our guest Lisa Bragg:</em></p>
<p><em>Lisa is the author of the Bragging Rights: How to Talk about Your Work Using Purposeful Self-Promotion</em></p>
<p><em>After a career as a journalist, she has been an entrepreneur for more than 16 years.</em></p>
<p><em>You can find the book at all major retailers.</em></p>
<p><em></em></p>
<p><em>Learn more about Lisa Bragg and her services at</em></p>
<p><a href='https://www.lisabragg.com/'>https://www.lisabragg.com/</a></p>
<p>-------------</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Lisa Bragg:</p>
<p>Delighted to be talking with you today, in particular about your book Bragging Rights. Partly because bragging when I was a kid, it was a bad word,</p>
<p>George, it's such a taboo topic. It really is. And that's why I really want us to start talking about it. Because, you know, we are products of where we've come from. So a lot of us, you know, our parents, it's the factory era.</p>
<p>So they were taught to put your head down, do good work, and eventually someone will notice you. They've passed that on to us. But it's comes from the factory era where we were cogs in a machine. Before that, we wanted to just get a steady paycheck.</p>
<p>But now I'm going to just quickly Fast Forward us. We're now in the information and imagination era. And we all know we compete and collaborate globally. So we need to shift the mindset of what bragging and self promotion is to what it really needs to be.</p>
<p>And I'll get out right off the top for our audience and for everyone. Bragging means to talk about your success with pride. And pride means self love, and I believe we all need more of that self love. But we get it confused with self aggrandizement.</p>
<p>I think it's because self aggrandizement is one of those mouthful words. It's a big word. So and that means that's the puffery that that achiness that we think is bragging, that's the oh, I'm better than you kind of attitude, which is not bragging, bragging is really talking about your success.</p>
<p>------</p>
Talk from a scar, not a wound, when you're telling your stories, it shouldn't be something that you're writing right now and emotionally draining to you.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to promote your success without feeling guilty
You can be proud of your achievements
Episode 169 (Lisa is based in Toronto, Canada)
In this conversation with Lisa Bragg we explore:
Why your success story can help others succeed
Change the conversation from failure to talking about success
Self promotion is self love
Why did bragging get such a bad rap
How bragging energizes you and moves you to more success
How a culture of sharing success stories strengthens your team
Don't make people feel like hidden gems
The myths that holds people back
You don't need to be loud and bombastic
You can be a team player when you say "my contribution"
What if people don't like to hear your success story
Why start a brag book or smile file
About our guest Lisa Bragg:
Lisa is the author of the Bragging Rights: How to Talk about Your Work Using Purposeful Self-Promotion
After a career as a journalist, she has been an entrepreneur for more than 16 years.
You can find the book at all major retailers.

Learn more about Lisa Bragg and her services at
https://www.lisabragg.com/
-------------
Excerpts from this conversation with Lisa Bragg:
Delighted to be talking with you today, in particular about your book Bragging Rights. Partly because bragging when I was a kid, it was a bad word,
George, it's such a taboo topic. It really is. And that's why I really want us to start talking about it. Because, you know, we are products of where we've come from. So a lot of us, you know, our parents, it's the factory era.
So they were taught to put your head down, do good work, and eventually someone will notice you. They've passed that on to us. But it's comes from the factory era where we were cogs in a machine. Before that, we wanted to just get a steady paycheck.
But now I'm going to just quickly Fast Forward us. We're now in the information and imagination era. And we all know we compete and collaborate globally. So we need to shift the mindset of what bragging and self promotion is to what it really needs to be.
And I'll get out right off the top for our audience and for everyone. Bragging means to talk about your success with pride. And pride means self love, and I believe we all need more of that self love. But we get it confused with self aggrandizement.
I think it's because self aggrandizement is one of those mouthful words. It's a big word. So and that means that's the puffery that that achiness that we think is bragging, that's the oh, I'm better than you kind of attitude, which is not bragging, bragging is really talking about your success.
------
Talk from a scar, not a wound, when you're telling your stories, it shouldn't be something that you're writing right now and emotionally draining to you.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[The mysteries, myths and magic of non-verbal communication
How to better read and convey body language
<p>Episode 168 (Richard is based near London in the UK)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Richard Newman:</p>
<ul><li>Why your words alone might not convey emotion</li>
<li>Sending congruent messages from verbal and non-verbal channels</li>
<li>The mistakes we make when we only hear the words</li>
<li>Body language and tone of voice presents the palate</li>
<li>The three minds that evaluate the message -survival emotional, logical</li>
<li>Why you need to see and hear beyond the words</li>
<li>How do we evaluate the truth</li>
<li>Why the CEO and CFO need to align their body language with the words</li>
<li>How to read body language in context and from clusters</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Richard Newman:</p>
<p>Richard is the Founder of Body Talk. Over the past 23 years his team have trained over 120,000 business leaders around the world, to improve their communication and impact, including one client who gained over $1 Billion in new business in just one year, using the strategies that Richard teaches. </p>
<p>Richard’s research on non-verbal communication was published in the Journal of Psychology. His study proved that you can increase your leadership ratings by 44% and win 59% more votes in an election by changing a few simple behaviors.</p>
<p><a href='https://liftyourimpact.com/thebook'>Richard’s new book ‘Lift Your Impact’</a> explores how you can ‘Transform your mindset, influence and future, to elevate your work, team and life’.</p>
<p>Learn more about Richard and his services at the website</p>
<p><a href='https://ukbodytalk.com/'>https://ukbodytalk.com/</a> </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Richard Newman:</p>
<p>Do we use body language as an indicator of emotion or an indicator of truth versus untruth?</p>
<p>Yeah, so I think a palette of emotions the great way to explain this and I should say that, I love words, I'm passionate about words. I've written a couple of books. I was very proud to win a speech writing award and going back a few years ago.</p>
<p>And so words can be extraordinarily valuable. But then you got to think about if you are with people, then your body language and your tone of voice is there as the palette that brings this to life and though you don't want to just have a grey Canvas, you need to express it, you need to express what that message really means.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>I was terrified to stand up and speak in class, because I just didn't have any confidence around communication. And now I was onstage teaching in front of 1000s of people and enjoying it not just teaching but teaching communication.</p>
<p>And so it's one of those things that you can learn. And if you think about it a little bit like this, you know, it's worthwhile learning lessons where if you approach tennis the same way as as body language, if you think well, you're just a natural or you're not then imagine any of the great tennis players who's doing well at the moment like Novak Djokovic.</p>
<p>If you imagine when he was five years old, his parents said to him, oh, there's a tennis court over there. Just go and be yourself just be natural, you'd be a terrible player, he wouldn't have any idea how to play the game, you wouldn't be a champion.</p>
<p>But instead what happened is he had lessons around forehand backhand serve volley and everything else around the game. And then he built that up in his own way, his own method, his own style, too, as his own personality on the court.</p>
<p>The same goes with body language is that you can start to learn what the principles are. And the important thing around that is that you make them your own.</p>
<p>-------</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[The mysteries, myths and magic of non-verbal communication
How to better read and convey body language
<p>Episode 168 (Richard is based near London in the UK)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Richard Newman:</p>
<ul><li>Why your words alone might not convey emotion</li>
<li>Sending congruent messages from verbal and non-verbal channels</li>
<li>The mistakes we make when we only hear the words</li>
<li>Body language and tone of voice presents the palate</li>
<li>The three minds that evaluate the message -survival emotional, logical</li>
<li>Why you need to see and hear beyond the words</li>
<li>How do we evaluate the truth</li>
<li>Why the CEO and CFO need to align their body language with the words</li>
<li>How to read body language in context and from clusters</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Richard Newman:</p>
<p>Richard is the Founder of Body Talk. Over the past 23 years his team have trained over 120,000 business leaders around the world, to improve their communication and impact, including one client who gained over $1 Billion in new business in just one year, using the strategies that Richard teaches. </p>
<p>Richard’s research on non-verbal communication was published in the Journal of Psychology. His study proved that you can increase your leadership ratings by 44% and win 59% more votes in an election by changing a few simple behaviors.</p>
<p><a href='https://liftyourimpact.com/thebook'>Richard’s new book ‘Lift Your Impact’</a> explores how you can ‘Transform your mindset, influence and future, to elevate your work, team and life’.</p>
<p>Learn more about Richard and his services at the website</p>
<p><a href='https://ukbodytalk.com/'>https://ukbodytalk.com/</a> </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Richard Newman:</p>
<p>Do we use body language as an indicator of emotion or an indicator of truth versus untruth?</p>
<p>Yeah, so I think a palette of emotions the great way to explain this and I should say that, I love words, I'm passionate about words. I've written a couple of books. I was very proud to win a speech writing award and going back a few years ago.</p>
<p>And so words can be extraordinarily valuable. But then you got to think about if you are with people, then your body language and your tone of voice is there as the palette that brings this to life and though you don't want to just have a grey Canvas, you need to express it, you need to express what that message really means.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>I was terrified to stand up and speak in class, because I just didn't have any confidence around communication. And now I was onstage teaching in front of 1000s of people and enjoying it not just teaching but teaching communication.</p>
<p>And so it's one of those things that you can learn. And if you think about it a little bit like this, you know, it's worthwhile learning lessons where if you approach tennis the same way as as body language, if you think well, you're just a natural or you're not then imagine any of the great tennis players who's doing well at the moment like Novak Djokovic.</p>
<p>If you imagine when he was five years old, his parents said to him, oh, there's a tennis court over there. Just go and be yourself just be natural, you'd be a terrible player, he wouldn't have any idea how to play the game, you wouldn't be a champion.</p>
<p>But instead what happened is he had lessons around forehand backhand serve volley and everything else around the game. And then he built that up in his own way, his own method, his own style, too, as his own personality on the court.</p>
<p>The same goes with body language is that you can start to learn what the principles are. And the important thing around that is that you make them your own.</p>
<p>-------</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The mysteries, myths and magic of non-verbal communication
How to better read and convey body language
Episode 168 (Richard is based near London in the UK)
In this conversation with Richard Newman:
Why your words alone might not convey emotion
Sending congruent messages from verbal and non-verbal channels
The mistakes we make when we only hear the words
Body language and tone of voice presents the palate
The three minds that evaluate the message -survival emotional, logical
Why you need to see and hear beyond the words
How do we evaluate the truth
Why the CEO and CFO need to align their body language with the words
How to read body language in context and from clusters
About our guest Richard Newman:
Richard is the Founder of Body Talk. Over the past 23 years his team have trained over 120,000 business leaders around the world, to improve their communication and impact, including one client who gained over $1 Billion in new business in just one year, using the strategies that Richard teaches. 
Richard’s research on non-verbal communication was published in the Journal of Psychology. His study proved that you can increase your leadership ratings by 44% and win 59% more votes in an election by changing a few simple behaviors.
Richard’s new book ‘Lift Your Impact’ explores how you can ‘Transform your mindset, influence and future, to elevate your work, team and life’.
Learn more about Richard and his services at the website
https://ukbodytalk.com/ 
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Richard Newman:
Do we use body language as an indicator of emotion or an indicator of truth versus untruth?
Yeah, so I think a palette of emotions the great way to explain this and I should say that, I love words, I'm passionate about words. I've written a couple of books. I was very proud to win a speech writing award and going back a few years ago.
And so words can be extraordinarily valuable. But then you got to think about if you are with people, then your body language and your tone of voice is there as the palette that brings this to life and though you don't want to just have a grey Canvas, you need to express it, you need to express what that message really means.
-----
I was terrified to stand up and speak in class, because I just didn't have any confidence around communication. And now I was onstage teaching in front of 1000s of people and enjoying it not just teaching but teaching communication.
And so it's one of those things that you can learn. And if you think about it a little bit like this, you know, it's worthwhile learning lessons where if you approach tennis the same way as as body language, if you think well, you're just a natural or you're not then imagine any of the great tennis players who's doing well at the moment like Novak Djokovic.
If you imagine when he was five years old, his parents said to him, oh, there's a tennis court over there. Just go and be yourself just be natural, you'd be a terrible player, he wouldn't have any idea how to play the game, you wouldn't be a champion.
But instead what happened is he had lessons around forehand backhand serve volley and everything else around the game. And then he built that up in his own way, his own method, his own style, too, as his own personality on the court.
The same goes with body language is that you can start to learn what the principles are. And the important thing around that is that you make them your own.
-------
----more----
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Stop wasting time in painful meetings and make them more productive
Meetings can be useful when you prepare for the real purpose
<p>Episode 167 (Mark is based in Toronto, Canada)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Mark Ellwood we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to protect ourselves from painful meetings</li>
<li>Clarifying and communicating the purpose of your meeting</li>
<li>How might we train for effective meetings</li>
<li>When the meeting is finished, how will you know if it was a success</li>
<li>Why everyone is responsible for the meeting out come</li>
<li>How to facilitate a planning meeting</li>
<li>How to leverage meeting icebreakers</li>
<li>How to harvest the diverse ideas while focusing the discussion</li>
<li>Managing conflicting viewpoints without trying to convince</li>
<li>Key questions to advance the conversation</li>
<li>Managing facts versus feelings</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Mark Ellwood:</p>
<p>Mark helps organizations develop their strategic plan. He serves as facilitator, trainer, team builder and time study consultant.</p>
<p>He is an inventor, a poet and a keen puzzle solver.</p>
<p>Learn more about Mark and his services at</p>
<p><a href='https://getmoredone.com/'>https://getmoredone.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://terrificteams.com/'>https://terrificteams.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Mark Ellwood:</p>
<p>Mark, we're going to take a look at what some people hate about business, and how to make it better. And that thing we hate is called meetings. Where do you come across a meeting? Should we have more meetings, Less Meeting shorter meetings, longer meetings? What the heck can we do at these meetings,</p>
<p>We should have effective meetings, you know, you mentioned my sports. In the beginning, I was thinking about my son, who trains incredibly hard to, you know, rowing regatta and rowing races, like five minutes or so. And he really trains hard for that.</p>
<p>How much training we do, or do we do for a meeting that lasts an hour or an hour and a half? Not much at all.</p>
<p>And so the advantage of a meeting is you're bringing all these different people together, we've got different backgrounds and training and input and so on. And that's also the disadvantage, they all bring their own agendas or their own points of view.</p>
<p>And that's why people have trouble with meetings, because all these different personalities. Whereas if you can get them to work, well, then you're on your way.</p>
<p>And we talk about your intended message. And part of that is communicating well during the meeting, so that you're not going astray all over the place, I do have a definition of a meeting the purpose of a meeting, and people go, you know, what are we doing the weekly meeting updates this and that, and so on.</p>
<p>I have studied this for many years, my definition of the purpose is quite simple. It's to convene stakeholders to make decisions that lead to action,</p>
to convene stakeholders who make decisions that lead to action,
<p>When you have that focus on decisions and action that gives a focus to your meeting. Now, there's a couple of exceptions, safety meetings and daily hubs and so forth. But for the most part, that will make our meetings more efficient.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Stop wasting time in painful meetings and make them more productive
Meetings can be useful when you prepare for the real purpose
<p>Episode 167 (Mark is based in Toronto, Canada)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Mark Ellwood we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to protect ourselves from painful meetings</li>
<li>Clarifying and communicating the purpose of your meeting</li>
<li>How might we train for effective meetings</li>
<li>When the meeting is finished, how will you know if it was a success</li>
<li>Why everyone is responsible for the meeting out come</li>
<li>How to facilitate a planning meeting</li>
<li>How to leverage meeting icebreakers</li>
<li>How to harvest the diverse ideas while focusing the discussion</li>
<li>Managing conflicting viewpoints without trying to convince</li>
<li>Key questions to advance the conversation</li>
<li>Managing facts versus feelings</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Mark Ellwood:</p>
<p>Mark helps organizations develop their strategic plan. He serves as facilitator, trainer, team builder and time study consultant.</p>
<p>He is an inventor, a poet and a keen puzzle solver.</p>
<p>Learn more about Mark and his services at</p>
<p><a href='https://getmoredone.com/'>https://getmoredone.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://terrificteams.com/'>https://terrificteams.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Mark Ellwood:</p>
<p>Mark, we're going to take a look at what some people hate about business, and how to make it better. And that thing we hate is called meetings. Where do you come across a meeting? Should we have more meetings, Less Meeting shorter meetings, longer meetings? What the heck can we do at these meetings,</p>
<p>We should have effective meetings, you know, you mentioned my sports. In the beginning, I was thinking about my son, who trains incredibly hard to, you know, rowing regatta and rowing races, like five minutes or so. And he really trains hard for that.</p>
<p>How much training we do, or do we do for a meeting that lasts an hour or an hour and a half? Not much at all.</p>
<p>And so the advantage of a meeting is you're bringing all these different people together, we've got different backgrounds and training and input and so on. And that's also the disadvantage, they all bring their own agendas or their own points of view.</p>
<p>And that's why people have trouble with meetings, because all these different personalities. Whereas if you can get them to work, well, then you're on your way.</p>
<p>And we talk about your intended message. And part of that is communicating well during the meeting, so that you're not going astray all over the place, I do have a definition of a meeting the purpose of a meeting, and people go, you know, what are we doing the weekly meeting updates this and that, and so on.</p>
<p>I have studied this for many years, my definition of the purpose is quite simple. It's to convene stakeholders to make decisions that lead to action,</p>
to convene stakeholders who make decisions that lead to action,
<p>When you have that focus on decisions and action that gives a focus to your meeting. Now, there's a couple of exceptions, safety meetings and daily hubs and so forth. But for the most part, that will make our meetings more efficient.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Stop wasting time in painful meetings and make them more productive
Meetings can be useful when you prepare for the real purpose
Episode 167 (Mark is based in Toronto, Canada)
In this conversation with Mark Ellwood we explore:
How to protect ourselves from painful meetings
Clarifying and communicating the purpose of your meeting
How might we train for effective meetings
When the meeting is finished, how will you know if it was a success
Why everyone is responsible for the meeting out come
How to facilitate a planning meeting
How to leverage meeting icebreakers
How to harvest the diverse ideas while focusing the discussion
Managing conflicting viewpoints without trying to convince
Key questions to advance the conversation
Managing facts versus feelings
About our guest Mark Ellwood:
Mark helps organizations develop their strategic plan. He serves as facilitator, trainer, team builder and time study consultant.
He is an inventor, a poet and a keen puzzle solver.
Learn more about Mark and his services at
https://getmoredone.com/
https://terrificteams.com/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Mark Ellwood:
Mark, we're going to take a look at what some people hate about business, and how to make it better. And that thing we hate is called meetings. Where do you come across a meeting? Should we have more meetings, Less Meeting shorter meetings, longer meetings? What the heck can we do at these meetings,
We should have effective meetings, you know, you mentioned my sports. In the beginning, I was thinking about my son, who trains incredibly hard to, you know, rowing regatta and rowing races, like five minutes or so. And he really trains hard for that.
How much training we do, or do we do for a meeting that lasts an hour or an hour and a half? Not much at all.
And so the advantage of a meeting is you're bringing all these different people together, we've got different backgrounds and training and input and so on. And that's also the disadvantage, they all bring their own agendas or their own points of view.
And that's why people have trouble with meetings, because all these different personalities. Whereas if you can get them to work, well, then you're on your way.
And we talk about your intended message. And part of that is communicating well during the meeting, so that you're not going astray all over the place, I do have a definition of a meeting the purpose of a meeting, and people go, you know, what are we doing the weekly meeting updates this and that, and so on.
I have studied this for many years, my definition of the purpose is quite simple. It's to convene stakeholders to make decisions that lead to action,
to convene stakeholders who make decisions that lead to action,
When you have that focus on decisions and action that gives a focus to your meeting. Now, there's a couple of exceptions, safety meetings and daily hubs and so forth. But for the most part, that will make our meetings more efficient.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
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        <title>Intuition, the secret backdoor communication channel: Sunil Godse</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Use Intuitive triggers to persuade and sell more
Why are so many important decisions based on intuition?
<p>Episode 166 (Sunil is based in London, Ontario)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Sunil Godse we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why intuition is real and valuable to your decision making</li>
<li>What does scientific research say about intuition</li>
<li>How fast does it act and why is it so fast</li>
<li>How does intuition affect your level of trust with others</li>
<li>What is the connection with your subconscious</li>
<li>What signals can you look for</li>
<li>What are the four types of intuition</li>
<li>The symptoms -this feels right, my gut, the voice in my head</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Sunil Godse:</p>
<p>Sunil's intuitive branding services helped a struggling $400,000 company earn $3.5 million in just over 2 years.</p>
<p>He is the author of two books, "Gut: What it is. How to trust it. How to use it." and "Fail Fast. Succeed Faster".</p>
<p>Learn about about his intuitive branding services at <a href='https://sunilgodse.com/'>https://sunilgodse.com/</a></p>
<p>Buy his books <a href='https://sunilgodse.com/books/'>https://sunilgodse.com/books/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Sunil Godse:</p>
<p>All because they finally listen to their intuition and their signals. And that's how it works for every single person.</p>
<p>Sunil I'm hearing that what we initially thought intuition was just your body reactions might actually be or according to what you're saying there is actually something happening in in the brain in the amygdala, accessing our subconscious library of information experiences, conversations.</p>
<p>And it happens quickly, so quickly that we can't quote the here's the source of the information. But we know the answer intuitively, we know the answer. And our body is telling us the answer.</p>
<p>Absolutely, absolutely.</p>
<p>There was a reporter that tested - he couldn't believe that this research paper is saying 33 milliseconds and 1014. That's impossible. He put a number of people in the MRI and an MRI machine showed a picture and the brain lit up when the picture came in within 3333 milliseconds.</p>
<p>He said, we're measuring this look at this thing. And by the time they actually pressed a button 10 to 14 seconds, he goes oh my god, like it's actually he's testing it. Right.</p>
<p>And that's one of the things you want to do is research really good research, there's got to be repeatability factor, right. So and I'm really trying to scrape YouTube to find this because this because I want to deal with this stuff. I can't just start putting these stats out if I if I can't believe the research, because it's very important for my reputation.</p>
<p>But that's essentially what happened. And what happens is even if you fail, that failure goes also into the subconscious because now you're going to learn from that.</p>
<p>So as you continually improve your intuition by by succeeding and failing, that's all going to subconscious.</p>
So failure is an amazing result. If you failed before, fantastic, you should celebrate that because there's lessons in what you've learned from those failures that your intuition is picking up on.
<p>Because it's gonna say don't do that again, steal it, just like the person who got shot and killed. I knew the signals the signals were I need to talk to her she was being stalked by someone and my intuitive signal saying meet with her that afternoon.</p>
<p>But somebody else wanted to go for a beer. I said, Can you meet me two days later, and the very next day that shot that stalker? walked up through and put a bullet through her forehead. I'd never, I'm never going to make that mistake again.</p>
<p>Or the business that was struggling at $400,000. Because of trust, nobody trusted the two CEOs. They didn't want to work for them. They were all the employees were looking to leave.</p>
<p>They were six months cash left in their bank account I came in, because they needed somebody to help them. Very first thing I do is I increase the salaries of everyone, they were being grossly underpaid, there's a cash crunch. But I said, the first thing is I need to build trust. And I need to ask them how to fix the business.</p>
<p>When I gained the employees trust, we were able to stabilise and they actually started helping me expand from the three and a half million year in your two. They're the ones that came up to the they spent extra time putting the procedure manuals and they started putting in, you know, extra time to help expand another location, even though was eight hours away, they wanted to do around by themselves.</p>
<p>So that's where they went from struggling 400,000 to 10 million.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Use Intuitive triggers to persuade and sell more
Why are so many important decisions based on intuition?
<p>Episode 166 (Sunil is based in London, Ontario)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Sunil Godse we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why intuition is real and valuable to your decision making</li>
<li>What does scientific research say about intuition</li>
<li>How fast does it act and why is it so fast</li>
<li>How does intuition affect your level of trust with others</li>
<li>What is the connection with your subconscious</li>
<li>What signals can you look for</li>
<li>What are the four types of intuition</li>
<li>The symptoms -this feels right, my gut, the voice in my head</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Sunil Godse:</p>
<p>Sunil's intuitive branding services helped a struggling $400,000 company earn $3.5 million in just over 2 years.</p>
<p>He is the author of two books, "Gut: What it is. How to trust it. How to use it." and "Fail Fast. Succeed Faster".</p>
<p>Learn about about his intuitive branding services at <a href='https://sunilgodse.com/'>https://sunilgodse.com/</a></p>
<p>Buy his books <a href='https://sunilgodse.com/books/'>https://sunilgodse.com/books/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Sunil Godse:</p>
<p>All because they finally listen to their intuition and their signals. And that's how it works for every single person.</p>
<p>Sunil I'm hearing that what we initially thought intuition was just your body reactions might actually be or according to what you're saying there is actually something happening in in the brain in the amygdala, accessing our subconscious library of information experiences, conversations.</p>
<p>And it happens quickly, so quickly that we can't quote the here's the source of the information. But we know the answer intuitively, we know the answer. And our body is telling us the answer.</p>
<p>Absolutely, absolutely.</p>
<p>There was a reporter that tested - he couldn't believe that this research paper is saying 33 milliseconds and 1014. That's impossible. He put a number of people in the MRI and an MRI machine showed a picture and the brain lit up when the picture came in within 3333 milliseconds.</p>
<p>He said, we're measuring this look at this thing. And by the time they actually pressed a button 10 to 14 seconds, he goes oh my god, like it's actually he's testing it. Right.</p>
<p>And that's one of the things you want to do is research really good research, there's got to be repeatability factor, right. So and I'm really trying to scrape YouTube to find this because this because I want to deal with this stuff. I can't just start putting these stats out if I if I can't believe the research, because it's very important for my reputation.</p>
<p>But that's essentially what happened. And what happens is even if you fail, that failure goes also into the subconscious because now you're going to learn from that.</p>
<p>So as you continually improve your intuition by by succeeding and failing, that's all going to subconscious.</p>
So failure is an amazing result. If you failed before, fantastic, you should celebrate that because there's lessons in what you've learned from those failures that your intuition is picking up on.
<p>Because it's gonna say don't do that again, steal it, just like the person who got shot and killed. I knew the signals the signals were I need to talk to her she was being stalked by someone and my intuitive signal saying meet with her that afternoon.</p>
<p>But somebody else wanted to go for a beer. I said, Can you meet me two days later, and the very next day that shot that stalker? walked up through and put a bullet through her forehead. I'd never, I'm never going to make that mistake again.</p>
<p>Or the business that was struggling at $400,000. Because of trust, nobody trusted the two CEOs. They didn't want to work for them. They were all the employees were looking to leave.</p>
<p>They were six months cash left in their bank account I came in, because they needed somebody to help them. Very first thing I do is I increase the salaries of everyone, they were being grossly underpaid, there's a cash crunch. But I said, the first thing is I need to build trust. And I need to ask them how to fix the business.</p>
<p>When I gained the employees trust, we were able to stabilise and they actually started helping me expand from the three and a half million year in your two. They're the ones that came up to the they spent extra time putting the procedure manuals and they started putting in, you know, extra time to help expand another location, even though was eight hours away, they wanted to do around by themselves.</p>
<p>So that's where they went from struggling 400,000 to 10 million.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Use Intuitive triggers to persuade and sell more
Why are so many important decisions based on intuition?
Episode 166 (Sunil is based in London, Ontario)
In this conversation with Sunil Godse we explore:
Why intuition is real and valuable to your decision making
What does scientific research say about intuition
How fast does it act and why is it so fast
How does intuition affect your level of trust with others
What is the connection with your subconscious
What signals can you look for
What are the four types of intuition
The symptoms -this feels right, my gut, the voice in my head
About our guest Sunil Godse:
Sunil's intuitive branding services helped a struggling $400,000 company earn $3.5 million in just over 2 years.
He is the author of two books, "Gut: What it is. How to trust it. How to use it." and "Fail Fast. Succeed Faster".
Learn about about his intuitive branding services at https://sunilgodse.com/
Buy his books https://sunilgodse.com/books/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Sunil Godse:
All because they finally listen to their intuition and their signals. And that's how it works for every single person.
Sunil I'm hearing that what we initially thought intuition was just your body reactions might actually be or according to what you're saying there is actually something happening in in the brain in the amygdala, accessing our subconscious library of information experiences, conversations.
And it happens quickly, so quickly that we can't quote the here's the source of the information. But we know the answer intuitively, we know the answer. And our body is telling us the answer.
Absolutely, absolutely.
There was a reporter that tested - he couldn't believe that this research paper is saying 33 milliseconds and 1014. That's impossible. He put a number of people in the MRI and an MRI machine showed a picture and the brain lit up when the picture came in within 3333 milliseconds.
He said, we're measuring this look at this thing. And by the time they actually pressed a button 10 to 14 seconds, he goes oh my god, like it's actually he's testing it. Right.
And that's one of the things you want to do is research really good research, there's got to be repeatability factor, right. So and I'm really trying to scrape YouTube to find this because this because I want to deal with this stuff. I can't just start putting these stats out if I if I can't believe the research, because it's very important for my reputation.
But that's essentially what happened. And what happens is even if you fail, that failure goes also into the subconscious because now you're going to learn from that.
So as you continually improve your intuition by by succeeding and failing, that's all going to subconscious.
So failure is an amazing result. If you failed before, fantastic, you should celebrate that because there's lessons in what you've learned from those failures that your intuition is picking up on.
Because it's gonna say don't do that again, steal it, just like the person who got shot and killed. I knew the signals the signals were I need to talk to her she was being stalked by someone and my intuitive signal saying meet with her that afternoon.
But somebody else wanted to go for a beer. I said, Can you meet me two days later, and the very next day that shot that stalker? walked up through and put a bullet through her forehead. I'd never, I'm never going to make that mistake again.
Or the business that was struggling at $400,000. Because of trust, nobody trusted the two CEOs. They didn't want to work for them. They were all the employees were looking to leave.
They were six months cash left in their bank account I came in, because they needed somebody to help them. Very first thing I do is I increase the salaries of everyone, they were being grossly underpaid, there's a cash crunch. But I said, the first thing is I need to build trust. And I need to ask them how to fix the business.
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        <title>I dare you, Make me Laugh: June Cline</title>
        <itunes:title>I dare you, Make me Laugh: June Cline</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Let's start by laughing at yourself
Yes you can be funny if you are human
<p>Episode 165 (June is based in Georgia)</p>
<p>In this conversation with June Cline we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why use humor in a business presentation</li>
<li>The risks of using humor and why some speaker avoid it</li>
<li>How laughter can bring people together and move them towards a goal</li>
<li>The undiscovered value of our flaws and foibles</li>
<li>How to find your humor even if you believe you aren't funny</li>
<li>How to use humor in your presentations</li>
<li>The four humor styles and why some don't laugh</li>
<li>You can still be taken seriously</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, June Cline:</p>
<p>A certified, speaking professional showing you how to craft an engagingly powerful speech.</p>
<p>She is an official coach for TEDx St. George, Utah, and known as “The Talking Strategist.”</p>
<p>For 18 years, June has been known as the southern, sassy, and savvy Harley-riding Humorist. She named her motorcycle, "Good Golly Miss Molly".</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Learn how June can work with you at</p>
<p><a href='https://standouttalking.com/'>https://standouttalking.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Take the humor quiz to determine your humor style at</p>
<p><a href='https://junecline.com/'>https://junecline.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with June Cline:</p>
<p>02:25</p>
<p>I've talked to some executives and they say, Well, you know, we're serious. This is serious business. This is this is trucking, or this is banking, or this is just serious business. We can't be laughing all the time and making jokes. What do you say to them?</p>
<p>02:42</p>
<p>You know what I, I've heard that. And I've gotten major pushback through the many, many years that I've been teaching this. And I just know that's wrong.</p>
<p>And especially if you can come up with what I call an IMO, which executives and everybody hates because it's an idiot moment. But don't we all have them?</p>
<p>Haven't we all experienced locking our keys in the car. And as one client executive found out after we'd call the tow truck and everything his window was down, all they had to do was reach.</p>
<p>So it's just fun stuff like that. And there are some execs and entrepreneurs that will not go there. T</p>
<p>hey just don't want to drop that wall down and allow people in but if you can tell, not a crazy idiot moment, but something that they all happen every day all the time.</p>
So I encourage you to find that IMO idiot moment that will connect you with others.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Let's start by laughing at yourself
Yes you can be funny if you are human
<p>Episode 165 (June is based in Georgia)</p>
<p>In this conversation with June Cline we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why use humor in a business presentation</li>
<li>The risks of using humor and why some speaker avoid it</li>
<li>How laughter can bring people together and move them towards a goal</li>
<li>The undiscovered value of our flaws and foibles</li>
<li>How to find your humor even if you believe you aren't funny</li>
<li>How to use humor in your presentations</li>
<li>The four humor styles and why some don't laugh</li>
<li>You can still be taken seriously</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, June Cline:</p>
<p>A certified, speaking professional showing you how to craft an engagingly powerful speech.</p>
<p>She is an official coach for TEDx St. George, Utah, and known as “The Talking Strategist.”</p>
<p>For 18 years, June has been known as the southern, sassy, and savvy Harley-riding Humorist. She named her motorcycle, "Good Golly Miss Molly".</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p><em>Learn how June can work with you at</em></p>
<p><a href='https://standouttalking.com/'>https://standouttalking.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Take the humor quiz to determine your humor style at</em></p>
<p><a href='https://junecline.com/'>https://junecline.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with June Cline:</p>
<p>02:25</p>
<p>I've talked to some executives and they say, Well, you know, we're serious. This is serious business. This is this is trucking, or this is banking, or this is just serious business. We can't be laughing all the time and making jokes. What do you say to them?</p>
<p>02:42</p>
<p>You know what I, I've heard that. And I've gotten major pushback through the many, many years that I've been teaching this. And I just know that's wrong.</p>
<p>And especially if you can come up with what I call an IMO, which executives and everybody hates because it's an idiot moment. But don't we all have them?</p>
<p>Haven't we all experienced locking our keys in the car. And as one client executive found out after we'd call the tow truck and everything his window was down, all they had to do was reach.</p>
<p>So it's just fun stuff like that. And there are some execs and entrepreneurs that will not go there. T</p>
<p>hey just don't want to drop that wall down and allow people in but if you can tell, not a crazy idiot moment, but something that they all happen every day all the time.</p>
So I encourage you to find that IMO idiot moment that will connect you with others.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Let's start by laughing at yourself
Yes you can be funny if you are human
Episode 165 (June is based in Georgia)
In this conversation with June Cline we explore:
Why use humor in a business presentation
The risks of using humor and why some speaker avoid it
How laughter can bring people together and move them towards a goal
The undiscovered value of our flaws and foibles
How to find your humor even if you believe you aren't funny
How to use humor in your presentations
The four humor styles and why some don't laugh
You can still be taken seriously
About our guest, June Cline:
A certified, speaking professional showing you how to craft an engagingly powerful speech.
She is an official coach for TEDx St. George, Utah, and known as “The Talking Strategist.”
For 18 years, June has been known as the southern, sassy, and savvy Harley-riding Humorist. She named her motorcycle, "Good Golly Miss Molly".
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Learn how June can work with you at
https://standouttalking.com/
 
Take the humor quiz to determine your humor style at
https://junecline.com/
 
 
Excerpts from this conversation with June Cline:
02:25
I've talked to some executives and they say, Well, you know, we're serious. This is serious business. This is this is trucking, or this is banking, or this is just serious business. We can't be laughing all the time and making jokes. What do you say to them?
02:42
You know what I, I've heard that. And I've gotten major pushback through the many, many years that I've been teaching this. And I just know that's wrong.
And especially if you can come up with what I call an IMO, which executives and everybody hates because it's an idiot moment. But don't we all have them?
Haven't we all experienced locking our keys in the car. And as one client executive found out after we'd call the tow truck and everything his window was down, all they had to do was reach.
So it's just fun stuff like that. And there are some execs and entrepreneurs that will not go there. T
hey just don't want to drop that wall down and allow people in but if you can tell, not a crazy idiot moment, but something that they all happen every day all the time.
So I encourage you to find that IMO idiot moment that will connect you with others.
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----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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        <title>What Message are You Telling Yourself? Terry Tucker</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Control your Mind so it Doesn't Control You
Imagine Your Life when you practice smarter self-talk 
<p>Episode 164 (Terry is based in Denver, CO)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Terry Tucker we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The self talk journey when facing horrible circumstances</li>
<li>How to transition from blame to taking responsibility</li>
<li>The positive energy from helping others</li>
<li>How to listen to understand</li>
<li>Communication lessons from hostage negotiation</li>
<li>How to say constructive messages to self</li>
<li>Start a new venture with baby steps</li>
<li>Where to focus our energy when facing challenging conditions</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Terry Tucker:</p>
<p>Terry is a former SWAT Team Hostage Negotiator with the Cincinnati Police Department. He has trained with FBI's Hostage Negotiation Team. He's a cancer survivor.  </p>
<p>He is the author of the book, Sustainable Excellence, Ten Principles to Leading Your Uncommon and Extraordinary Life.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08GLGVTVS'>Get your copy of his book</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Terry Tucker:</p>
<p>And then she looked at me and she said, well, well, Coach, what do you think my purpose is, I said, I have no idea what your purpose is.</p>
<p>But that's what your life should be about finding the reason you were put on the face of this earth, using your unique gifts and talents and living that reason. So that was one conversation.</p>
<p>And then I had a young man reach out to me from college on social media and asked me what I thought were the most important things, he should learn not to just be successful in his job or in business, but to be successful in life.</p>
<p>And you know, George, I didn't, I didn't want to give them that, you know, get up early, work hard, help others kind of not that those aren't important. Those are incredibly important.</p>
<p>And I wanted to see if I could go deeper with them. So I spent some time taking some notes and eventually had these these 10 thoughts, these 10 ideas, these 10 principles. And so I sent them to him. And then I stepped back and I was like, you know, I got a life story that fits underneath that principle, or I know somebody's life emulates this principle.</p>
<p>So literally, I've been battling cancer for 11 years after I had my leg amputated. And before I started chemotherapy, I had a three or four month period where I was healing. I sat down at the computer every day, and I built stories and there were real stories about real people underneath each of the principles. And that's how sustainable excellence came to be.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Most people think with their fears and their insecurities instead of using their minds.
<p>And I know I've done that in my life, Georgia, and I've been like, Oh, I'd like to do this. Oh, wait a minute, you know, Am I smart enough? Or do I have enough information? Or what will people think about me? If I fail in this endeavor that's thinking with our fears and our insecurities, that's not thinking with our minds.</p>
<p>And I always tell especially when I speak in person to young people always tell him if there's something in your heart, something in your soul that you believe you're supposed to do, but it scares you. Go ahead and do it.</p>
<p>Because at the end of your life, the things you're going to regret are not going to be the things you did, they're going to be those things you didn't do. And by then it's going to be too late to go back and do.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Control your Mind so it Doesn't Control You
Imagine Your Life when you practice smarter self-talk 
<p>Episode 164 (Terry is based in Denver, CO)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Terry Tucker we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The self talk journey when facing horrible circumstances</li>
<li>How to transition from blame to taking responsibility</li>
<li>The positive energy from helping others</li>
<li>How to listen to understand</li>
<li>Communication lessons from hostage negotiation</li>
<li>How to say constructive messages to self</li>
<li>Start a new venture with baby steps</li>
<li>Where to focus our energy when facing challenging conditions</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Terry Tucker:</p>
<p>Terry is a former SWAT Team Hostage Negotiator with the Cincinnati Police Department. He has trained with FBI's Hostage Negotiation Team. He's a cancer survivor.  </p>
<p>He is the author of the book, Sustainable Excellence, Ten Principles to Leading Your Uncommon and Extraordinary Life.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08GLGVTVS'>Get your copy of his book</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Terry Tucker:</p>
<p>And then she looked at me and she said, well, well, Coach, what do you think my purpose is, I said, I have no idea what your purpose is.</p>
<p>But that's what your life should be about finding the reason you were put on the face of this earth, using your unique gifts and talents and living that reason. So that was one conversation.</p>
<p>And then I had a young man reach out to me from college on social media and asked me what I thought were the most important things, he should learn not to just be successful in his job or in business, but to be successful in life.</p>
<p>And you know, George, I didn't, I didn't want to give them that, you know, get up early, work hard, help others kind of not that those aren't important. Those are incredibly important.</p>
<p>And I wanted to see if I could go deeper with them. So I spent some time taking some notes and eventually had these these 10 thoughts, these 10 ideas, these 10 principles. And so I sent them to him. And then I stepped back and I was like, you know, I got a life story that fits underneath that principle, or I know somebody's life emulates this principle.</p>
<p>So literally, I've been battling cancer for 11 years after I had my leg amputated. And before I started chemotherapy, I had a three or four month period where I was healing. I sat down at the computer every day, and I built stories and there were real stories about real people underneath each of the principles. And that's how sustainable excellence came to be.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Most people think with their fears and their insecurities instead of using their minds.
<p>And I know I've done that in my life, Georgia, and I've been like, Oh, I'd like to do this. Oh, wait a minute, you know, Am I smart enough? Or do I have enough information? Or what will people think about me? If I fail in this endeavor that's thinking with our fears and our insecurities, that's not thinking with our minds.</p>
<p>And I always tell especially when I speak in person to young people always tell him if there's something in your heart, something in your soul that you believe you're supposed to do, but it scares you. Go ahead and do it.</p>
<p>Because at the end of your life, the things you're going to regret are not going to be the things you did, they're going to be those things you didn't do. And by then it's going to be too late to go back and do.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Control your Mind so it Doesn't Control You
Imagine Your Life when you practice smarter self-talk 
Episode 164 (Terry is based in Denver, CO)
In this conversation with Terry Tucker we explore:
The self talk journey when facing horrible circumstances
How to transition from blame to taking responsibility
The positive energy from helping others
How to listen to understand
Communication lessons from hostage negotiation
How to say constructive messages to self
Start a new venture with baby steps
Where to focus our energy when facing challenging conditions
About our guest, Terry Tucker:
Terry is a former SWAT Team Hostage Negotiator with the Cincinnati Police Department. He has trained with FBI's Hostage Negotiation Team. He's a cancer survivor.  
He is the author of the book, Sustainable Excellence, Ten Principles to Leading Your Uncommon and Extraordinary Life.
Get your copy of his book
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Terry Tucker:
And then she looked at me and she said, well, well, Coach, what do you think my purpose is, I said, I have no idea what your purpose is.
But that's what your life should be about finding the reason you were put on the face of this earth, using your unique gifts and talents and living that reason. So that was one conversation.
And then I had a young man reach out to me from college on social media and asked me what I thought were the most important things, he should learn not to just be successful in his job or in business, but to be successful in life.
And you know, George, I didn't, I didn't want to give them that, you know, get up early, work hard, help others kind of not that those aren't important. Those are incredibly important.
And I wanted to see if I could go deeper with them. So I spent some time taking some notes and eventually had these these 10 thoughts, these 10 ideas, these 10 principles. And so I sent them to him. And then I stepped back and I was like, you know, I got a life story that fits underneath that principle, or I know somebody's life emulates this principle.
So literally, I've been battling cancer for 11 years after I had my leg amputated. And before I started chemotherapy, I had a three or four month period where I was healing. I sat down at the computer every day, and I built stories and there were real stories about real people underneath each of the principles. And that's how sustainable excellence came to be.
-----
Most people think with their fears and their insecurities instead of using their minds.
And I know I've done that in my life, Georgia, and I've been like, Oh, I'd like to do this. Oh, wait a minute, you know, Am I smart enough? Or do I have enough information? Or what will people think about me? If I fail in this endeavor that's thinking with our fears and our insecurities, that's not thinking with our minds.
And I always tell especially when I speak in person to young people always tell him if there's something in your heart, something in your soul that you believe you're supposed to do, but it scares you. Go ahead and do it.
Because at the end of your life, the things you're going to regret are not going to be the things you did, they're going to be those things you didn't do. And by then it's going to be too late to go back and do.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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        <title>All staff can be marketers: Laura Templeton</title>
        <itunes:title>All staff can be marketers: Laura Templeton</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Workplace marketing, when everyone is marketing the organization
Nurture the power of the people to spread your message
<p>Episode 163 (Laura is based in Tampa, Florida)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Laura Templeton we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to transform all employees into company marketers</li>
<li>How to tap into the power of workplace referrals</li>
<li>How to build stronger and stable teams with referrals</li>
<li>Common values, common goals, common connections</li>
<li>Talking about your customers and client testimonials</li>
<li>Spreading the company stories on social media</li>
<li>How to connect your passion at work and a play</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Laura Templeton:</p>
<p>Laura educates audiences about client attraction a d brand communication. She is the author of the bestselling book, 30 Second Success: Ditch the pitch and start connecting.</p>
<p>Learn more about the website: </p>
<p><a href='https://30secondsuccess.com/'>https://30secondsuccess.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Laura Templeton</p>
<p>Well, the first thing is, is if you have a referral program, review it to see how many people are actually using it. If they are great, if they're not ask your employees, if they know about it, when if they do, why they're not using it, your employees are going to tell you why.</p>
<p>Okay, the other pieces is educating your organization, educating our everybody, you know, just give them tips, here's something that we're looking for, let them know, here's your, your ideal client, we need more clients like this.</p>
<p>And then the third piece here testimonials, share the testimonials that your clients are getting in your organization. Hey guys, you You're doing a great job we just heard from you know, this client and this is what they had to say about our organization.</p>
<p>You did this! Do you give your employees the credit when those testimonials come in, because everybody has a part in making those testimonials happen?</p>
<p>Right. So when you start to share your your testimonials, you understand how your referral program is working, and then educating your everybody in your organization on how to use the referral program. It's going to change things for your company and your culture as a whole.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Workplace marketing, when everyone is marketing the organization
Nurture the power of the people to spread your message
<p>Episode 163 (Laura is based in Tampa, Florida)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Laura Templeton we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to transform all employees into company marketers</li>
<li>How to tap into the power of workplace referrals</li>
<li>How to build stronger and stable teams with referrals</li>
<li>Common values, common goals, common connections</li>
<li>Talking about your customers and client testimonials</li>
<li>Spreading the company stories on social media</li>
<li>How to connect your passion at work and a play</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Laura Templeton:</p>
<p>Laura educates audiences about client attraction a d brand communication. She is the author of the bestselling book, 30 Second Success: Ditch the pitch and start connecting.</p>
<p>Learn more about the website: </p>
<p><a href='https://30secondsuccess.com/'>https://30secondsuccess.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Laura Templeton</p>
<p>Well, the first thing is, is if you have a referral program, review it to see how many people are actually using it. If they are great, if they're not ask your employees, if they know about it, when if they do, why they're not using it, your employees are going to tell you why.</p>
<p>Okay, the other pieces is educating your organization, educating our everybody, you know, just give them tips, here's something that we're looking for, let them know, here's your, your ideal client, we need more clients like this.</p>
<p>And then the third piece here testimonials, share the testimonials that your clients are getting in your organization. Hey guys, you You're doing a great job we just heard from you know, this client and this is what they had to say about our organization.</p>
<p>You did this! Do you give your employees the credit when those testimonials come in, because everybody has a part in making those testimonials happen?</p>
<p>Right. So when you start to share your your testimonials, you understand how your referral program is working, and then educating your everybody in your organization on how to use the referral program. It's going to change things for your company and your culture as a whole.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Workplace marketing, when everyone is marketing the organization
Nurture the power of the people to spread your message
Episode 163 (Laura is based in Tampa, Florida)
In this conversation with Laura Templeton we explore:
How to transform all employees into company marketers
How to tap into the power of workplace referrals
How to build stronger and stable teams with referrals
Common values, common goals, common connections
Talking about your customers and client testimonials
Spreading the company stories on social media
How to connect your passion at work and a play
About our guest, Laura Templeton:
Laura educates audiences about client attraction a d brand communication. She is the author of the bestselling book, 30 Second Success: Ditch the pitch and start connecting.
Learn more about the website: 
https://30secondsuccess.com/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Laura Templeton
Well, the first thing is, is if you have a referral program, review it to see how many people are actually using it. If they are great, if they're not ask your employees, if they know about it, when if they do, why they're not using it, your employees are going to tell you why.
Okay, the other pieces is educating your organization, educating our everybody, you know, just give them tips, here's something that we're looking for, let them know, here's your, your ideal client, we need more clients like this.
And then the third piece here testimonials, share the testimonials that your clients are getting in your organization. Hey guys, you You're doing a great job we just heard from you know, this client and this is what they had to say about our organization.
You did this! Do you give your employees the credit when those testimonials come in, because everybody has a part in making those testimonials happen?
Right. So when you start to share your your testimonials, you understand how your referral program is working, and then educating your everybody in your organization on how to use the referral program. It's going to change things for your company and your culture as a whole.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[What are the telltale signs of your company culture?
How you contribute to the culture
<p>Episode 162 (Michael is based in Oakville, Ontario)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Michael Grochmal we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What is company culture?</li>
<li>How is culture set?</li>
<li>Who influences the culture?</li>
<li>What messages does culture send to the world about your organization?</li>
<li>How to shape culture on purpose</li>
<li>How to notice and identify current culture</li>
<li>How culture influences relationships with your clients</li>
<li>What are the various aspects of culture?</li>
<li>How are emotions and personal energy affected</li>
<li>How to align activities with the culture</li>
<li>What is a Culture book and what might it include?</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Michael Grochmal:</p>
<p>Michael is Director of Culture for CEO Global Network. He's been a member for 14 years. </p>
<p>Before selling the company. he was President of AtlasCare for 12 years.</p>
<p>Learn more about CEO Global Network </p>
<p><a href='https://ceoglobalnetwork.com/'>https://ceoglobalnetwork.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Michael Grochmal</p>
<p>And that's the other part. I think when it comes to culture, it's about getting agreement. And so anyone thinking facilitator training would say, Do we all agree hands up, we're going to start this meeting on time.</p>
<p>And everyone puts their hands up, look around the room, we've all agreed to this. And so we're now all in a position to hold each other accountable to this idea. It's not about shoving though it down people's throats.</p>
<p>And we live in a world I think today where people want to know the why.</p>
<p>Twenty-five years ago, you could just say do it. And they said, Okay, I'm following orders. I'm a good soldier.</p>
<p>And I would say that people are struggling to some degree with younger generation.</p>
<p>And a lot of times, we don't have a good why. So we say just do it. And the answer is they won't. They actually want to know why. But if you give them the why they will work every bit as part and smarter than previous generations.</p>
<p>This kind of a while you're doing it. And so if you don't know why you can't tell them why and you can't tell them why that's not what you're gonna get. And so I really do believe that everything has to be purposeful as to why you're doing it.</p>
<p>But if it is, the right people will say, Well, that makes sense. That's what we're gonna get dressed up, or that's why we're going to start on time, or that's why we're going to end on time, because they buy into the why, but they don't buy into the why.</p>
<p>I don't know how to put controls in place that would just make people do stuff. And I think we actually have a lot of time and effort is spent trying to but it's really a false thought fallacy that you know, you have to win people's hearts and minds. And the way to do that is to explain why you're doing things.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[What are the telltale signs of your company culture?
How you contribute to the culture
<p>Episode 162 (Michael is based in Oakville, Ontario)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Michael Grochmal we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What is company culture?</li>
<li>How is culture set?</li>
<li>Who influences the culture?</li>
<li>What messages does culture send to the world about your organization?</li>
<li>How to shape culture on purpose</li>
<li>How to notice and identify current culture</li>
<li>How culture influences relationships with your clients</li>
<li>What are the various aspects of culture?</li>
<li>How are emotions and personal energy affected</li>
<li>How to align activities with the culture</li>
<li>What is a Culture book and what might it include?</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Michael Grochmal:</p>
<p>Michael is Director of Culture for CEO Global Network. He's been a member for 14 years. </p>
<p>Before selling the company. he was President of AtlasCare for 12 years.</p>
<p><em>Learn more about CEO Global Network </em></p>
<p><a href='https://ceoglobalnetwork.com/'>https://ceoglobalnetwork.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Michael Grochmal</p>
<p>And that's the other part. I think when it comes to culture, it's about getting agreement. And so anyone thinking facilitator training would say, Do we all agree hands up, we're going to start this meeting on time.</p>
<p>And everyone puts their hands up, look around the room, we've all agreed to this. And so we're now all in a position to hold each other accountable to this idea. It's not about shoving though it down people's throats.</p>
<p>And we live in a world I think today where people want to know the why.</p>
<p>Twenty-five years ago, you could just say do it. And they said, Okay, I'm following orders. I'm a good soldier.</p>
<p>And I would say that people are struggling to some degree with younger generation.</p>
<p>And a lot of times, we don't have a good why. So we say just do it. And the answer is they won't. They actually want to know why. But if you give them the why they will work every bit as part and smarter than previous generations.</p>
<p>This kind of a while you're doing it. And so if you don't know why you can't tell them why and you can't tell them why that's not what you're gonna get. And so I really do believe that everything has to be purposeful as to why you're doing it.</p>
<p>But if it is, the right people will say, Well, that makes sense. That's what we're gonna get dressed up, or that's why we're going to start on time, or that's why we're going to end on time, because they buy into the why, but they don't buy into the why.</p>
<p>I don't know how to put controls in place that would just make people do stuff. And I think we actually have a lot of time and effort is spent trying to but it's really a false thought fallacy that you know, you have to win people's hearts and minds. And the way to do that is to explain why you're doing things.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What are the telltale signs of your company culture?
How you contribute to the culture
Episode 162 (Michael is based in Oakville, Ontario)
In this conversation with Michael Grochmal we explore:
What is company culture?
How is culture set?
Who influences the culture?
What messages does culture send to the world about your organization?
How to shape culture on purpose
How to notice and identify current culture
How culture influences relationships with your clients
What are the various aspects of culture?
How are emotions and personal energy affected
How to align activities with the culture
What is a Culture book and what might it include?
About our guest, Michael Grochmal:
Michael is Director of Culture for CEO Global Network. He's been a member for 14 years. 
Before selling the company. he was President of AtlasCare for 12 years.
Learn more about CEO Global Network 
https://ceoglobalnetwork.com/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Michael Grochmal
And that's the other part. I think when it comes to culture, it's about getting agreement. And so anyone thinking facilitator training would say, Do we all agree hands up, we're going to start this meeting on time.
And everyone puts their hands up, look around the room, we've all agreed to this. And so we're now all in a position to hold each other accountable to this idea. It's not about shoving though it down people's throats.
And we live in a world I think today where people want to know the why.
Twenty-five years ago, you could just say do it. And they said, Okay, I'm following orders. I'm a good soldier.
And I would say that people are struggling to some degree with younger generation.
And a lot of times, we don't have a good why. So we say just do it. And the answer is they won't. They actually want to know why. But if you give them the why they will work every bit as part and smarter than previous generations.
This kind of a while you're doing it. And so if you don't know why you can't tell them why and you can't tell them why that's not what you're gonna get. And so I really do believe that everything has to be purposeful as to why you're doing it.
But if it is, the right people will say, Well, that makes sense. That's what we're gonna get dressed up, or that's why we're going to start on time, or that's why we're going to end on time, because they buy into the why, but they don't buy into the why.
I don't know how to put controls in place that would just make people do stuff. And I think we actually have a lot of time and effort is spent trying to but it's really a false thought fallacy that you know, you have to win people's hearts and minds. And the way to do that is to explain why you're doing things.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Are you ready to stand out from the competition?
What can you do to be more attractive to your customers?
<p>Episode 161 (Zac is based in Salt Lake City)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Zac Garside we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why you should call your competition</li>
<li>How does your automation help the customer?</li>
<li>Why compete on price when there are better ways to compete</li>
<li>Three steps to appear different to your customers</li>
<li>What is the role of customer service?</li>
<li>Treat your customer service the way you want them to treat your customers</li>
<li>How can you use those customer service call-recordings</li>
<li>How are you attempting to intimidate your customers?</li>
<li>How to cultivate more constructive feedback for your CS reps</li>
<li>How to get your people to care</li>
<li>Why customer service starts with the leader</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Zac Garside:</p>
<p>Zac became the CEO of Power Selling Pros at age 27 simply by asking the Founder to make him CEO.</p>
<p>Zac speaks to business owners all over the US teaching them how to grow their business with the power of customer service.</p>
<p>You can get your copy of his newsletter, The Storytelling Habit at this website. Tell him you heard him on Your Intended Message to receive a discount code for his courses or coaching programs.</p>
<p><a href='http://www.ZacGarside.com'>www.ZacGarside.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Zac Garside</p>
<p>If you call a Delta customer service representative to get help. After the call ends, it will ask you one question. And I love this question.</p>
<p>Because this is helping them I think the question is, on a scale of one to five. If you owned a business, how likely are you to hire the person you just talked to?</p>
<p>Oh, wow, would it be five for yes and one for no? Amazing question. Big and now they're taking that feedback, which is so much better than on a scale of one to 10. How are you how well how good was our service? Right?</p>
<p>How likely are you to hire the person who just helped you? And you take that feedback back to your team? That's motivating because that is a direct reflection of the type of service you provided.</p>
<p>Last time I called delta. I couldn't book a flight online for some reason wasn't working. So I called them this representative was so positive so kind and she found that I had like $700 worth of EA credits in my account that I didn't even know were there.</p>
<p>She finds it, she, she applies it for me. She said something was broken and went and brought somebody else to get involved. I just, I felt like she really cares. He or she, she like actually means what she's saying to me, which is very, very different from most companies.</p>
<p>Because even if you have the right words, and you technically say the right things, if I don't feel like you care, you mean it, it actually can work against you. It's like the slick used car salesman who says the right things, but you just don't feel right about it, you know, versus a more a more clumsy salesperson who kind of tripped over their words, the pitch isn't perfect.</p>
<p>But you feel like they mean it, you feel like they really, really care. And so you're inclined to look at beyond the mistakes and do business with them.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Are you ready to stand out from the competition?
What can you do to be more attractive to your customers?
<p>Episode 161 (Zac is based in Salt Lake City)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Zac Garside we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why you should call your competition</li>
<li>How does your automation help the customer?</li>
<li>Why compete on price when there are better ways to compete</li>
<li>Three steps to appear different to your customers</li>
<li>What is the role of customer service?</li>
<li>Treat your customer service the way you want them to treat your customers</li>
<li>How can you use those customer service call-recordings</li>
<li>How are you attempting to intimidate your customers?</li>
<li>How to cultivate more constructive feedback for your CS reps</li>
<li>How to get your people to care</li>
<li>Why customer service starts with the leader</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Zac Garside:</p>
<p>Zac became the CEO of Power Selling Pros at age 27 simply by asking the Founder to make him CEO.</p>
<p>Zac speaks to business owners all over the US teaching them how to grow their business with the power of customer service.</p>
<p>You can get your copy of his newsletter, The Storytelling Habit at this website. Tell him you heard him on Your Intended Message to receive a discount code for his courses or coaching programs.</p>
<p><a href='http://www.ZacGarside.com'>www.ZacGarside.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Zac Garside</p>
<p>If you call a Delta customer service representative to get help. After the call ends, it will ask you one question. And I love this question.</p>
<p>Because this is helping them I think the question is, on a scale of one to five. If you owned a business, how likely are you to hire the person you just talked to?</p>
<p>Oh, wow, would it be five for yes and one for no? Amazing question. Big and now they're taking that feedback, which is so much better than on a scale of one to 10. How are you how well how good was our service? Right?</p>
<p>How likely are you to hire the person who just helped you? And you take that feedback back to your team? That's motivating because that is a direct reflection of the type of service you provided.</p>
<p>Last time I called delta. I couldn't book a flight online for some reason wasn't working. So I called them this representative was so positive so kind and she found that I had like $700 worth of EA credits in my account that I didn't even know were there.</p>
<p>She finds it, she, she applies it for me. She said something was broken and went and brought somebody else to get involved. I just, I felt like she really cares. He or she, she like actually means what she's saying to me, which is very, very different from most companies.</p>
<p>Because even if you have the right words, and you technically say the right things, if I don't feel like you care, you mean it, it actually can work against you. It's like the slick used car salesman who says the right things, but you just don't feel right about it, you know, versus a more a more clumsy salesperson who kind of tripped over their words, the pitch isn't perfect.</p>
<p>But you feel like they mean it, you feel like they really, really care. And so you're inclined to look at beyond the mistakes and do business with them.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you ready to stand out from the competition?
What can you do to be more attractive to your customers?
Episode 161 (Zac is based in Salt Lake City)
In this conversation with Zac Garside we explore:
Why you should call your competition
How does your automation help the customer?
Why compete on price when there are better ways to compete
Three steps to appear different to your customers
What is the role of customer service?
Treat your customer service the way you want them to treat your customers
How can you use those customer service call-recordings
How are you attempting to intimidate your customers?
How to cultivate more constructive feedback for your CS reps
How to get your people to care
Why customer service starts with the leader
About our guest, Zac Garside:
Zac became the CEO of Power Selling Pros at age 27 simply by asking the Founder to make him CEO.
Zac speaks to business owners all over the US teaching them how to grow their business with the power of customer service.
You can get your copy of his newsletter, The Storytelling Habit at this website. Tell him you heard him on Your Intended Message to receive a discount code for his courses or coaching programs.
www.ZacGarside.com
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Zac Garside
If you call a Delta customer service representative to get help. After the call ends, it will ask you one question. And I love this question.
Because this is helping them I think the question is, on a scale of one to five. If you owned a business, how likely are you to hire the person you just talked to?
Oh, wow, would it be five for yes and one for no? Amazing question. Big and now they're taking that feedback, which is so much better than on a scale of one to 10. How are you how well how good was our service? Right?
How likely are you to hire the person who just helped you? And you take that feedback back to your team? That's motivating because that is a direct reflection of the type of service you provided.
Last time I called delta. I couldn't book a flight online for some reason wasn't working. So I called them this representative was so positive so kind and she found that I had like $700 worth of EA credits in my account that I didn't even know were there.
She finds it, she, she applies it for me. She said something was broken and went and brought somebody else to get involved. I just, I felt like she really cares. He or she, she like actually means what she's saying to me, which is very, very different from most companies.
Because even if you have the right words, and you technically say the right things, if I don't feel like you care, you mean it, it actually can work against you. It's like the slick used car salesman who says the right things, but you just don't feel right about it, you know, versus a more a more clumsy salesperson who kind of tripped over their words, the pitch isn't perfect.
But you feel like they mean it, you feel like they really, really care. And so you're inclined to look at beyond the mistakes and do business with them.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Build irresistible first time offers to accelerate high ticket sales
How to attract the right customer while repelling the wrong customer
<p>Episode 160 (Craig is based in Austin, Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Craig Acosta we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why a first time offer helps you address fears and risks of buying</li>
<li>When to use a first time offer</li>
<li>How to price your first time offer relative to your main offering</li>
<li>What's the ideal price range for B to B selling?</li>
<li>What to address with the first time offer</li>
<li>How many deliverables to include</li>
<li>How to structure the offer to leverage cognitive bias</li>
<li>The danger of a free offer or freebies</li>
<li>How to justify the temporary low price offer</li>
<li>Why you must clearly describe your ideal client</li>
<li>The three necessary components</li>
<li>Why you need to know the live time value of your customer</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Craig Andrews:</p>
<p>Craig has driven over weight for half a billion dollars in revenue.</p>
<p>He helps business build irresistible first time offers that accelerate high ticket sales. His wife had the chance to pull the plug and did not. That's why he's still here.</p>
<p>Learn more and connect at</p>
<p><a href='https://allies4me.com/'>https://allies4me.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/craig-andrews/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/craig-andrews/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/allies4me'>https://www.facebook.com/allies4me</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Free Offer:</p>
<p>1. Get the guide to build your First Time Offer</p>
<p>2. Take the 23-day self-paced course to develop your First Time Offer</p>
<p><a href='https://allies4me.com/'>https://allies4me.com/yourintendedmessage</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Craig Andrews</p>
<p>There are three components that determine that. The first is what you're offering has to be high value. And I've actually had prospects coming through that when they hear us asking the questions we're asking, they realize, oh, these guys aren't some Mickey Mouse firm.</p>
<p>These guys are serious players that know what they're doing. And they actually say partway before we even got to the offer, say, I don't think we're in the same price range. anyone said anything about price, they just took that from they realize what we did, they realize the value of it, and they knew it was not cheap.</p>
<p>So that's the first thing is whatever you're selling has to be high value. And they have to know it's high value.</p>
<p>The second thing is you have to set expectations on what the market value is, if they don't already know that. And so that's why I say if you come back in two or three weeks, this is what this price will be.</p>
<p>So we're telling them, this is the value of what we're doing. So that's also setting expectations that's putting them in the ballpark of what we would normally charge for our work.</p>
<p>And then the third thing that I mentioned a couple minutes ago, is a plausible reason for why it's heavily discounted this time. And the plausible reason can depend upon different things I would not recommend you ever use all because we're not hitting their sales numbers this month, we're offering a special that's please don't do that. No, no, no, that lead makes you look too cheap and desperate.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Build irresistible first time offers to accelerate high ticket sales
How to attract the right customer while repelling the wrong customer
<p>Episode 160 (Craig is based in Austin, Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Craig Acosta we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why a first time offer helps you address fears and risks of buying</li>
<li>When to use a first time offer</li>
<li>How to price your first time offer relative to your main offering</li>
<li>What's the ideal price range for B to B selling?</li>
<li>What to address with the first time offer</li>
<li>How many deliverables to include</li>
<li>How to structure the offer to leverage cognitive bias</li>
<li>The danger of a free offer or freebies</li>
<li>How to justify the temporary low price offer</li>
<li>Why you must clearly describe your ideal client</li>
<li>The three necessary components</li>
<li>Why you need to know the live time value of your customer</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Craig Andrews:</p>
<p>Craig has driven over weight for half a billion dollars in revenue.</p>
<p>He helps business build irresistible first time offers that accelerate high ticket sales. His wife had the chance to pull the plug and did not. That's why he's still here.</p>
<p><em>Learn more and connect at</em></p>
<p><a href='https://allies4me.com/'>https://allies4me.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/craig-andrews/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/craig-andrews/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/allies4me'>https://www.facebook.com/allies4me</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Free Offer:</p>
<p>1. Get the guide to build your First Time Offer</p>
<p>2. Take the 23-day self-paced course to develop your First Time Offer</p>
<p><a href='https://allies4me.com/'>https://allies4me.com/yourintendedmessage</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Craig Andrews</p>
<p>There are three components that determine that. The first is what you're offering has to be high value. And I've actually had prospects coming through that when they hear us asking the questions we're asking, they realize, oh, these guys aren't some Mickey Mouse firm.</p>
<p>These guys are serious players that know what they're doing. And they actually say partway before we even got to the offer, say, I don't think we're in the same price range. anyone said anything about price, they just took that from they realize what we did, they realize the value of it, and they knew it was not cheap.</p>
<p>So that's the first thing is whatever you're selling has to be high value. And they have to know it's high value.</p>
<p>The second thing is you have to set expectations on what the market value is, if they don't already know that. And so that's why I say if you come back in two or three weeks, this is what this price will be.</p>
<p>So we're telling them, this is the value of what we're doing. So that's also setting expectations that's putting them in the ballpark of what we would normally charge for our work.</p>
<p>And then the third thing that I mentioned a couple minutes ago, is a plausible reason for why it's heavily discounted this time. And the plausible reason can depend upon different things I would not recommend you ever use all because we're not hitting their sales numbers this month, we're offering a special that's please don't do that. No, no, no, that lead makes you look too cheap and desperate.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Build irresistible first time offers to accelerate high ticket sales
How to attract the right customer while repelling the wrong customer
Episode 160 (Craig is based in Austin, Texas)
In this conversation with Craig Acosta we explore:
Why a first time offer helps you address fears and risks of buying
When to use a first time offer
How to price your first time offer relative to your main offering
What's the ideal price range for B to B selling?
What to address with the first time offer
How many deliverables to include
How to structure the offer to leverage cognitive bias
The danger of a free offer or freebies
How to justify the temporary low price offer
Why you must clearly describe your ideal client
The three necessary components
Why you need to know the live time value of your customer
About our guest Craig Andrews:
Craig has driven over weight for half a billion dollars in revenue.
He helps business build irresistible first time offers that accelerate high ticket sales. His wife had the chance to pull the plug and did not. That's why he's still here.
Learn more and connect at
https://allies4me.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/craig-andrews/
https://www.facebook.com/allies4me
 
Free Offer:
1. Get the guide to build your First Time Offer
2. Take the 23-day self-paced course to develop your First Time Offer
https://allies4me.com/yourintendedmessage
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Craig Andrews
There are three components that determine that. The first is what you're offering has to be high value. And I've actually had prospects coming through that when they hear us asking the questions we're asking, they realize, oh, these guys aren't some Mickey Mouse firm.
These guys are serious players that know what they're doing. And they actually say partway before we even got to the offer, say, I don't think we're in the same price range. anyone said anything about price, they just took that from they realize what we did, they realize the value of it, and they knew it was not cheap.
So that's the first thing is whatever you're selling has to be high value. And they have to know it's high value.
The second thing is you have to set expectations on what the market value is, if they don't already know that. And so that's why I say if you come back in two or three weeks, this is what this price will be.
So we're telling them, this is the value of what we're doing. So that's also setting expectations that's putting them in the ballpark of what we would normally charge for our work.
And then the third thing that I mentioned a couple minutes ago, is a plausible reason for why it's heavily discounted this time. And the plausible reason can depend upon different things I would not recommend you ever use all because we're not hitting their sales numbers this month, we're offering a special that's please don't do that. No, no, no, that lead makes you look too cheap and desperate.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[What if your social media marketing isn't working?
How can you get valid leads with social media?
<p>Episode 159 ( Hannah is based in Raleigh, NC)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Hannah Acosta we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Should you publish content on social media</li>
<li>What are the different type of contacts on social media?</li>
<li>How can you create evangelists to spread your message?</li>
<li>Why Social media isn't enough to create evangelists</li>
<li>How to better engage your clients, fans and prospects?</li>
<li>Which social media should you use?</li>
<li>How to reach out and monitor the social media conversations</li>
<li>What else might you include in your content to interest your customers?</li>
<li>Who might you partner with when posting on social media?</li>
<li>What mistakes are made in social media posting?</li>
<li>How might you appeal to human feelings?</li>
<li>How to educate your customers without making them feel stupid</li>
<li>How to excite your customers to promote your message on social media</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Hannah Acosta:</p>
<p>Hannah has launched over 5,000 social campaigns. She has helped generate over 25,000 leads for her clients.</p>
<p>She is the leader of the Social Media Department at Ugly Mug Marketing.</p>
<p>Learn more at </p>
<p><a href='https://www.uglymugmarketing.com/'>https://www.uglymugmarketing.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/hannahacosta/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/hannahacosta/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/uglymugmarketing/'>https://www.instagram.com/uglymugmarketing/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>So the natural progression is this idea of moving people, from stranger to friend to customer and ultimately to an evangelist.</p>
<p>An evangelist is somebody who is going to rant and rave about your product or service or about your podcast. And they're going to go and tell all of their friends and family about how they they need to experience your product or service. Right.</p>
<p>And that's ultimately our goal as business owners as entrepreneurs. We want to create evangelists for our business, I hear time and time again, from our clients that referrals are their best clients, right?</p>
<p>If they get a referral, it's so much easier to sell to someone when they've been recommended. Or they talked with a friend or family member or another business owner colleague about why your product or service is the best for them. And so when we approach social media, it's about maintaining the relationship with our existing customers, to get them to feel like we really care about them outside of just that exchange of money, right?</p>
<p>A lot of people think that that journey ends once someone becomes a paying customer. But that's really just the beginning of it because we want to try and get that referral. We want to get them to rant and rave so that they become an evangelist, because that takes a step out of the progression for us.</p>
<p>Once someone becomes an evangelist. They're much more likely to recommend our product or service to their friends and family. So we have to do less work in that stranger area.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[What if your social media marketing isn't working?
How can you get valid leads with social media?
<p>Episode 159 ( Hannah is based in Raleigh, NC)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Hannah Acosta we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Should you publish content on social media</li>
<li>What are the different type of contacts on social media?</li>
<li>How can you create evangelists to spread your message?</li>
<li>Why Social media isn't enough to create evangelists</li>
<li>How to better engage your clients, fans and prospects?</li>
<li>Which social media should you use?</li>
<li>How to reach out and monitor the social media conversations</li>
<li>What else might you include in your content to interest your customers?</li>
<li>Who might you partner with when posting on social media?</li>
<li>What mistakes are made in social media posting?</li>
<li>How might you appeal to human feelings?</li>
<li>How to educate your customers without making them feel stupid</li>
<li>How to excite your customers to promote your message on social media</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest Hannah Acosta:</p>
<p>Hannah has launched over 5,000 social campaigns. She has helped generate over 25,000 leads for her clients.</p>
<p>She is the leader of the Social Media Department at Ugly Mug Marketing.</p>
<p><em>Learn more at </em></p>
<p><a href='https://www.uglymugmarketing.com/'>https://www.uglymugmarketing.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/hannahacosta/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/hannahacosta/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/uglymugmarketing/'>https://www.instagram.com/uglymugmarketing/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>So the natural progression is this idea of moving people, from stranger to friend to customer and ultimately to an evangelist.</p>
<p>An evangelist is somebody who is going to rant and rave about your product or service or about your podcast. And they're going to go and tell all of their friends and family about how they they need to experience your product or service. Right.</p>
<p>And that's ultimately our goal as business owners as entrepreneurs. We want to create evangelists for our business, I hear time and time again, from our clients that referrals are their best clients, right?</p>
<p>If they get a referral, it's so much easier to sell to someone when they've been recommended. Or they talked with a friend or family member or another business owner colleague about why your product or service is the best for them. And so when we approach social media, it's about maintaining the relationship with our existing customers, to get them to feel like we really care about them outside of just that exchange of money, right?</p>
<p>A lot of people think that that journey ends once someone becomes a paying customer. But that's really just the beginning of it because we want to try and get that referral. We want to get them to rant and rave so that they become an evangelist, because that takes a step out of the progression for us.</p>
<p>Once someone becomes an evangelist. They're much more likely to recommend our product or service to their friends and family. So we have to do less work in that stranger area.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if your social media marketing isn't working?
How can you get valid leads with social media?
Episode 159 ( Hannah is based in Raleigh, NC)
In this conversation with Hannah Acosta we explore:
Should you publish content on social media
What are the different type of contacts on social media?
How can you create evangelists to spread your message?
Why Social media isn't enough to create evangelists
How to better engage your clients, fans and prospects?
Which social media should you use?
How to reach out and monitor the social media conversations
What else might you include in your content to interest your customers?
Who might you partner with when posting on social media?
What mistakes are made in social media posting?
How might you appeal to human feelings?
How to educate your customers without making them feel stupid
How to excite your customers to promote your message on social media
About our guest Hannah Acosta:
Hannah has launched over 5,000 social campaigns. She has helped generate over 25,000 leads for her clients.
She is the leader of the Social Media Department at Ugly Mug Marketing.
Learn more at 
https://www.uglymugmarketing.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/hannahacosta/
https://www.instagram.com/uglymugmarketing/
-----
So the natural progression is this idea of moving people, from stranger to friend to customer and ultimately to an evangelist.
An evangelist is somebody who is going to rant and rave about your product or service or about your podcast. And they're going to go and tell all of their friends and family about how they they need to experience your product or service. Right.
And that's ultimately our goal as business owners as entrepreneurs. We want to create evangelists for our business, I hear time and time again, from our clients that referrals are their best clients, right?
If they get a referral, it's so much easier to sell to someone when they've been recommended. Or they talked with a friend or family member or another business owner colleague about why your product or service is the best for them. And so when we approach social media, it's about maintaining the relationship with our existing customers, to get them to feel like we really care about them outside of just that exchange of money, right?
A lot of people think that that journey ends once someone becomes a paying customer. But that's really just the beginning of it because we want to try and get that referral. We want to get them to rant and rave so that they become an evangelist, because that takes a step out of the progression for us.
Once someone becomes an evangelist. They're much more likely to recommend our product or service to their friends and family. So we have to do less work in that stranger area.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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        <title>Weed Words: You Guys</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Beware of the Weed Words that Choke your intended message.
Avoid the phrase "YOU GUYS"
<p>Episode 158 </p>
<p>You guys</p>
<p>When you’re talking to me, please don’t address me as you guys. Even if I’m part of a group, I don’t want to be addressed as you guys because</p>
<p>That’s gang talk, low class, disrespectful.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Beware of the Weed Words that Choke your intended message.
Avoid the phrase "YOU GUYS"
<p>Episode 158 </p>
<p>You guys</p>
<p>When you’re talking to me, please don’t address me as you guys. Even if I’m part of a group, I don’t want to be addressed as you guys because</p>
<p>That’s gang talk, low class, disrespectful.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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Avoid the phrase "YOU GUYS"
Episode 158 
You guys
When you’re talking to me, please don’t address me as you guys. Even if I’m part of a group, I don’t want to be addressed as you guys because
That’s gang talk, low class, disrespectful.
-----
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/]]></itunes:summary>
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        <title>What’s your point and how to convey it: Joel Schwartzberg</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Get to the point! Do you know what your point is?
How to make your point
<p>Episode 157 (Joel is based in New Jersey)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Joel Schwartzberg we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What is a valid point?</li>
<li>The structure and litmus test of a point</li>
<li>How to tie sub-points to the big mission</li>
<li>How many points are too many?</li>
<li>How to create a meeting agenda based on points</li>
<li>What the magic words to clarify your point?</li>
<li>The importance of an action step</li>
<li>The role of inspiration in your point</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Joel Schwartzberg:</p>
<p>He was the national champion in public speaking on the collegiate level. He's a frequent contributor to Harvard Business Review, Inc.com and Toastmaster magazine.</p>
<p>He is the author of Get to the Point, Sharpen your Message and make your Words Matter. His clients include State Farm Insurance, Comedy Central, and Brennan Centre for justice.</p>
<p>Learn about his books and services at</p>
<p><a href='http://www.joelschwartzberg.com'>www.joelschwartzberg.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpt from this conversation with Joel Schwartzberg:</p>
<p>So the funny thing about points is, we assume we know what one is because we use that language all the time.</p>
Get to the point, what's your point? Did you make your point, and it's presumed that it's something like an idea or a topic may be even a theme.
<p>But the truth of the matter, and what's most instructive and helpful for us is if we reimagined this word point, as something very specific, it's not a topic, it's not a theme.</p>
<p>In essence, it's an argument or a proposition, you're basically making a case for something that if you nail it, your audience will think a new, or they'll take an action step that you want them to take.</p>
<p>And that only happens when you make this proposition, this argument to them a case and you can tell it's a point because you can prove it with data with storytelling with reasonability, with all of Aristotle's tools, going way back when, but just as an example, because that's a description, and I like to really drill down.</p>
<p>Let's talk about podcasting. So if I said to you, George, or you said to me, I want to talk today about podcasting. That's your topic.</p>
<p>But what have you told me about podcasting? Is it on the rise? Or is it becoming antiquated? Is podcasting a good thing or a bad thing? Have there been evolutions in podcasting? Is there a good way to podcast a bad way to podcast? I have no idea the point you're trying to make if you use the word podcasting, and even if you said the importance of podcasting, or the evolution of podcasting?</p>
Are those things good or bad? Is it going up or down? This is why it's so important to distinguish between a theme and a topic or a point.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Get to the point! Do you know what your point is?
How to make your point
<p>Episode 157 (Joel is based in New Jersey)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Joel Schwartzberg we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What is a valid point?</li>
<li>The structure and litmus test of a point</li>
<li>How to tie sub-points to the big mission</li>
<li>How many points are too many?</li>
<li>How to create a meeting agenda based on points</li>
<li>What the magic words to clarify your point?</li>
<li>The importance of an action step</li>
<li>The role of inspiration in your point</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Joel Schwartzberg:</p>
<p>He was the national champion in public speaking on the collegiate level. He's a frequent contributor to Harvard Business Review, Inc.com and Toastmaster magazine.</p>
<p>He is the author of Get to the Point, Sharpen your Message and make your Words Matter. His clients include State Farm Insurance, Comedy Central, and Brennan Centre for justice.</p>
<p>Learn about his books and services at</p>
<p><a href='http://www.joelschwartzberg.com'>www.joelschwartzberg.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpt from this conversation with Joel Schwartzberg:</p>
<p>So the funny thing about points is, we assume we know what one is because we use that language all the time.</p>
Get to the point, what's your point? Did you make your point, and it's presumed that it's something like an idea or a topic may be even a theme.
<p>But the truth of the matter, and what's most instructive and helpful for us is if we reimagined this word point, as something very specific, it's not a topic, it's not a theme.</p>
<p>In essence, it's an argument or a proposition, you're basically making a case for something that if you nail it, your audience will think a new, or they'll take an action step that you want them to take.</p>
<p>And that only happens when you make this proposition, this argument to them a case and you can tell it's a point because you can prove it with data with storytelling with reasonability, with all of Aristotle's tools, going way back when, but just as an example, because that's a description, and I like to really drill down.</p>
<p>Let's talk about podcasting. So if I said to you, George, or you said to me, I want to talk today about podcasting. That's your topic.</p>
<p>But what have you told me about podcasting? Is it on the rise? Or is it becoming antiquated? Is podcasting a good thing or a bad thing? Have there been evolutions in podcasting? Is there a good way to podcast a bad way to podcast? I have no idea the point you're trying to make if you use the word podcasting, and even if you said the importance of podcasting, or the evolution of podcasting?</p>
Are those things good or bad? Is it going up or down? This is why it's so important to distinguish between a theme and a topic or a point.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Get to the point! Do you know what your point is?
How to make your point
Episode 157 (Joel is based in New Jersey)
In this conversation with Joel Schwartzberg we explore:
What is a valid point?
The structure and litmus test of a point
How to tie sub-points to the big mission
How many points are too many?
How to create a meeting agenda based on points
What the magic words to clarify your point?
The importance of an action step
The role of inspiration in your point
About our guest, Joel Schwartzberg:
He was the national champion in public speaking on the collegiate level. He's a frequent contributor to Harvard Business Review, Inc.com and Toastmaster magazine.
He is the author of Get to the Point, Sharpen your Message and make your Words Matter. His clients include State Farm Insurance, Comedy Central, and Brennan Centre for justice.
Learn about his books and services at
www.joelschwartzberg.com
-----
Excerpt from this conversation with Joel Schwartzberg:
So the funny thing about points is, we assume we know what one is because we use that language all the time.
Get to the point, what's your point? Did you make your point, and it's presumed that it's something like an idea or a topic may be even a theme.
But the truth of the matter, and what's most instructive and helpful for us is if we reimagined this word point, as something very specific, it's not a topic, it's not a theme.
In essence, it's an argument or a proposition, you're basically making a case for something that if you nail it, your audience will think a new, or they'll take an action step that you want them to take.
And that only happens when you make this proposition, this argument to them a case and you can tell it's a point because you can prove it with data with storytelling with reasonability, with all of Aristotle's tools, going way back when, but just as an example, because that's a description, and I like to really drill down.
Let's talk about podcasting. So if I said to you, George, or you said to me, I want to talk today about podcasting. That's your topic.
But what have you told me about podcasting? Is it on the rise? Or is it becoming antiquated? Is podcasting a good thing or a bad thing? Have there been evolutions in podcasting? Is there a good way to podcast a bad way to podcast? I have no idea the point you're trying to make if you use the word podcasting, and even if you said the importance of podcasting, or the evolution of podcasting?
Are those things good or bad? Is it going up or down? This is why it's so important to distinguish between a theme and a topic or a point.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to be more persuasive with emotional triggers
Discover the word tricks to magically be more convincing
<p>Episode 156 (James is based in L.A, California)</p>
<p>In this conversation with James I. bond we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why logic often fails to convince</li>
<li>How to sell using emotional word triggers</li>
<li>How to make ideas sticky</li>
<li>How to get people to make decisions faster</li>
<li>The power of poetry, analogy, alliteration, humor</li>
<li>14 techniques to tap into brain glue</li>
<li>How you can brainstorm for brain glue ideas</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, James I Bond:</p>
<p>James Bond is one of America's leading behavioral management and marketing specialists. He is author of the bestselling book, BRAIN GLUE - How Selling Becomes Much Easier by Making Your Ideas "Sticky"</p>
<p>Learn more about his book at <a href='http://www.BrainGlue.com'>www.BrainGlue.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your message is not just words. It's not just numbers. It's passionate emotion. When you can transfer that emotion to the other person, they're more likely to buy from you.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to be more persuasive with emotional triggers
Discover the word tricks to magically be more convincing
<p>Episode 156 (James is based in L.A, California)</p>
<p>In this conversation with James I. bond we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why logic often fails to convince</li>
<li>How to sell using emotional word triggers</li>
<li>How to make ideas sticky</li>
<li>How to get people to make decisions faster</li>
<li>The power of poetry, analogy, alliteration, humor</li>
<li>14 techniques to tap into brain glue</li>
<li>How you can brainstorm for brain glue ideas</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, James I Bond:</p>
<p>James Bond is one of America's leading behavioral management and marketing specialists. He is author of the bestselling book, BRAIN GLUE - How Selling Becomes Much Easier by Making Your Ideas "Sticky"</p>
<p>Learn more about his book at <a href='http://www.BrainGlue.com'>www.BrainGlue.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your message is not just words. It's not just numbers. It's passionate emotion. When you can transfer that emotion to the other person, they're more likely to buy from you.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to be more persuasive with emotional triggers
Discover the word tricks to magically be more convincing
Episode 156 (James is based in L.A, California)
In this conversation with James I. bond we explore:
Why logic often fails to convince
How to sell using emotional word triggers
How to make ideas sticky
How to get people to make decisions faster
The power of poetry, analogy, alliteration, humor
14 techniques to tap into brain glue
How you can brainstorm for brain glue ideas
About our guest, James I Bond:
James Bond is one of America's leading behavioral management and marketing specialists. He is author of the bestselling book, BRAIN GLUE - How Selling Becomes Much Easier by Making Your Ideas "Sticky"
Learn more about his book at www.BrainGlue.com
-----
Your message is not just words. It's not just numbers. It's passionate emotion. When you can transfer that emotion to the other person, they're more likely to buy from you.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit
https://toroktips.com/]]></itunes:summary>
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        <title>Weed Words: Living under a rock</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[The Weed Words are words you need to avoid when you speak, because they choke your intended message.
Unless you’ve living under a rock
<p>Sweet words of praise – right? Just the opposite.</p>
<p>When you hear this phrase how do you feel?</p>
<p>Respected or insulted?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Why would a speaker use this phrase?</p>
<p>Is this speaker trying to build rapport by suggesting that you are living under a rock?</p>
<p>Is the speaker under the rock with you or standing on top of the rock and grinding down on you?</p>
<p>Is the speaker suggesting that you are equal to them or beneath them?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Perhaps the speaker is proud of something they know that you don’t.</p>
<p>Ha, ha, I know more than you. You’re ignorant and I’m not because I don’t live under the rock like you.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>When you hear that phrase, how do you feel?</p>
<p>The speaker suggested that you’ve been living under a rock? What does that say about how the speaker sees you? Is this a sign of respect?</p>
<p>Why would they even suggest such an insulting scenario?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>When you hear this phrase what do you see?</p>
<p>What lives under a rock?</p>
<p>Slugs.</p>
<p>Did the speaker just call you a slug?</p>
<p>Why does the speaker see you as a disgusting creature living under a rock.</p>
<p>Would you ever say that to a person that you care about or want to develop a trusting relationship with?</p>
<p>You must be a slimy ignorant creature and I’m here to enlighten you because I am the anointed one.</p>
<p>You’ve been hiding under a rock like a slug and I’m here to enlighten you with my wisdom.</p>
<p>Now bow down to my greatness – you slug.</p>
<p>Should I respond with thanks for calling me a slug you arrogant jerk, now just watch me slime you.</p>
<p>Or should I throw the rock at the speaker?</p>
Beware of the Weed Words
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[The Weed Words are words you need to avoid when you speak, because they choke your intended message.
Unless you’ve living under a rock
<p>Sweet words of praise – right? Just the opposite.</p>
<p>When you hear this phrase how do you feel?</p>
<p>Respected or insulted?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Why would a speaker use this phrase?</p>
<p>Is this speaker trying to build rapport by suggesting that you are living under a rock?</p>
<p>Is the speaker under the rock with you or standing on top of the rock and grinding down on you?</p>
<p>Is the speaker suggesting that you are equal to them or beneath them?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Perhaps the speaker is proud of something they know that you don’t.</p>
<p>Ha, ha, I know more than you. You’re ignorant and I’m not because I don’t live under the rock like you.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>When you hear that phrase, how do you feel?</p>
<p>The speaker suggested that you’ve been living under a rock? What does that say about how the speaker sees you? Is this a sign of respect?</p>
<p>Why would they even suggest such an insulting scenario?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>When you hear this phrase what do you see?</p>
<p>What lives under a rock?</p>
<p>Slugs.</p>
<p>Did the speaker just call you a slug?</p>
<p>Why does the speaker see you as a disgusting creature living under a rock.</p>
<p>Would you ever say that to a person that you care about or want to develop a trusting relationship with?</p>
<p>You must be a slimy ignorant creature and I’m here to enlighten you because I am the anointed one.</p>
<p>You’ve been hiding under a rock like a slug and I’m here to enlighten you with my wisdom.</p>
<p>Now bow down to my greatness – you slug.</p>
<p>Should I respond with thanks for calling me a slug you arrogant jerk, now just watch me slime you.</p>
<p>Or should I throw the rock at the speaker?</p>
Beware of the Weed Words
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Weed Words are words you need to avoid when you speak, because they choke your intended message.
Unless you’ve living under a rock
Sweet words of praise – right? Just the opposite.
When you hear this phrase how do you feel?
Respected or insulted?
 
Why would a speaker use this phrase?
Is this speaker trying to build rapport by suggesting that you are living under a rock?
Is the speaker under the rock with you or standing on top of the rock and grinding down on you?
Is the speaker suggesting that you are equal to them or beneath them?
 
Perhaps the speaker is proud of something they know that you don’t.
Ha, ha, I know more than you. You’re ignorant and I’m not because I don’t live under the rock like you.
 
When you hear that phrase, how do you feel?
The speaker suggested that you’ve been living under a rock? What does that say about how the speaker sees you? Is this a sign of respect?
Why would they even suggest such an insulting scenario?
 
When you hear this phrase what do you see?
What lives under a rock?
Slugs.
Did the speaker just call you a slug?
Why does the speaker see you as a disgusting creature living under a rock.
Would you ever say that to a person that you care about or want to develop a trusting relationship with?
You must be a slimy ignorant creature and I’m here to enlighten you because I am the anointed one.
You’ve been hiding under a rock like a slug and I’m here to enlighten you with my wisdom.
Now bow down to my greatness – you slug.
Should I respond with thanks for calling me a slug you arrogant jerk, now just watch me slime you.
Or should I throw the rock at the speaker?
Beware of the Weed Words
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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        <title>Selling has changed. Have you adapted? Jim Pancero</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[You can always sell more if you want to
How has selling evolved and how must you adapt?
<p>Episode 154 (Jim is based in Dallas, Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jim Pancero:</p>
<ul><li>How the sales person has lost their power</li>
<li>The loss of trust in sales</li>
<li>Where is the sales person in the process of researching a purchase?</li>
<li>How can the sales rep save the customer from misinformation?</li>
<li>How are you conveying your distinct difference and advantage?</li>
<li>What is the evolution of selling and what's next?</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Jim Pancero:</p>
<p>Jim Pancero is a sales and sales leadership speaker, trainer and consultant with over 40 years of experience in sales.</p>
<p>Connect with or follow Jim on Linkedin to see his weekly short sales tips videos.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/jimpancero/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/jimpancero/</a></p>
<p>Check out the sales online training at</p>
<p><a href='https://www.advancedsalesuniversity.com/'>https://www.advancedsalesuniversity.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In this podcast episode, sales and sales leadership expert Jim Pancero discusses the challenges of modern sales and how they have evolved over time. He notes that buyers are more skeptical of experts and sales reps are being brought in later in the buying process.</p>
<p>Jim emphasizes the importance of balancing technical product skills, selling skills, and business and financial skills in order to gain a competitive advantage in sales. He also discusses the changing role of salespeople and sales managers and the critical turning point in the sales process.</p>
<p>Jim offers valuable advice for sales managers and emphasizes the need for sales organizations to adapt to changing customer expectations and market conditions.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Jim Pancero</p>
<p>We better make damn sure we get their attention when we do perform. And the other point is just supporting a customer, giving 'em great service isn't good enough anymore. It's losing to the eyes of the customer. It's like, so what else have you done for me?</p>
<p>I have a salesperson say, boy, my customer's loyal. Why he is still loyal. They say, well, when they order something, we get 'em the right thing. We get it to 'em on time. We answer their questions when they call and we know what we're talking about. .</p>
<p>And I started laughing and saying, isn't that kind of minimum requirements to the job? That's your competitive advantage. That's what you're bragging about is you, you took care of 'em.</p>
<p>So what, what else have you done? And so it's looking at this that's reactive selling is just not effective today like it used to be.</p>
<p>It used to be if you took care of a customer, you service them. They kept around long term. Now they're saying, what else have you done for me lately?</p>
<p>And then the final point is we need to make sure that we keep reminding our customers that if we do have differences, we remind them of them.</p>
<p>I believe the toughest single question in selling is when a buyer sits there and says, okay to a sales rep says, okay, look, you're the third vendor I've talked to this week about this stuff.</p>
<p>Why based on all the competitive options available to me, do I wanna buy from you? And look at how people don't have their, their answers organized, they give generic responses. Uh, and they, they, they're not reminding the customer. The customer assumes everybody's equal. </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[You can always sell more if you want to
How has selling evolved and how must you adapt?
<p>Episode 154 (Jim is based in Dallas, Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jim Pancero:</p>
<ul><li>How the sales person has lost their power</li>
<li>The loss of trust in sales</li>
<li>Where is the sales person in the process of researching a purchase?</li>
<li>How can the sales rep save the customer from misinformation?</li>
<li>How are you conveying your distinct difference and advantage?</li>
<li>What is the evolution of selling and what's next?</li>
</ul>
<p>About our guest, Jim Pancero:</p>
<p>Jim Pancero is a sales and sales leadership speaker, trainer and consultant with over 40 years of experience in sales.</p>
<p>Connect with or follow Jim on Linkedin to see his weekly short sales tips videos.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/jimpancero/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/jimpancero/</a></p>
<p>Check out the sales online training at</p>
<p><a href='https://www.advancedsalesuniversity.com/'>https://www.advancedsalesuniversity.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>In this podcast episode, sales and sales leadership expert Jim Pancero discusses the challenges of modern sales and how they have evolved over time. He notes that buyers are more skeptical of experts and sales reps are being brought in later in the buying process.</p>
<p>Jim emphasizes the importance of balancing technical product skills, selling skills, and business and financial skills in order to gain a competitive advantage in sales. He also discusses the changing role of salespeople and sales managers and the critical turning point in the sales process.</p>
<p>Jim offers valuable advice for sales managers and emphasizes the need for sales organizations to adapt to changing customer expectations and market conditions.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Jim Pancero</p>
<p>We better make damn sure we get their attention when we do perform. And the other point is just supporting a customer, giving 'em great service isn't good enough anymore. It's losing to the eyes of the customer. It's like, so what else have you done for me?</p>
<p>I have a salesperson say, boy, my customer's loyal. Why he is still loyal. They say, well, when they order something, we get 'em the right thing. We get it to 'em on time. We answer their questions when they call and we know what we're talking about. .</p>
<p>And I started laughing and saying, isn't that kind of minimum requirements to the job? That's your competitive advantage. That's what you're bragging about is you, you took care of 'em.</p>
<p>So what, what else have you done? And so it's looking at this that's reactive selling is just not effective today like it used to be.</p>
<p>It used to be if you took care of a customer, you service them. They kept around long term. Now they're saying, what else have you done for me lately?</p>
<p>And then the final point is we need to make sure that we keep reminding our customers that if we do have differences, we remind them of them.</p>
<p>I believe the toughest single question in selling is when a buyer sits there and says, okay to a sales rep says, okay, look, you're the third vendor I've talked to this week about this stuff.</p>
<p>Why based on all the competitive options available to me, do I wanna buy from you? And look at how people don't have their, their answers organized, they give generic responses. Uh, and they, they, they're not reminding the customer. The customer assumes everybody's equal. </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[You can always sell more if you want to
How has selling evolved and how must you adapt?
Episode 154 (Jim is based in Dallas, Texas)
In this conversation with Jim Pancero:
How the sales person has lost their power
The loss of trust in sales
Where is the sales person in the process of researching a purchase?
How can the sales rep save the customer from misinformation?
How are you conveying your distinct difference and advantage?
What is the evolution of selling and what's next?
About our guest, Jim Pancero:
Jim Pancero is a sales and sales leadership speaker, trainer and consultant with over 40 years of experience in sales.
Connect with or follow Jim on Linkedin to see his weekly short sales tips videos.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jimpancero/
Check out the sales online training at
https://www.advancedsalesuniversity.com/
-----
In this podcast episode, sales and sales leadership expert Jim Pancero discusses the challenges of modern sales and how they have evolved over time. He notes that buyers are more skeptical of experts and sales reps are being brought in later in the buying process.
Jim emphasizes the importance of balancing technical product skills, selling skills, and business and financial skills in order to gain a competitive advantage in sales. He also discusses the changing role of salespeople and sales managers and the critical turning point in the sales process.
Jim offers valuable advice for sales managers and emphasizes the need for sales organizations to adapt to changing customer expectations and market conditions.
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Jim Pancero
We better make damn sure we get their attention when we do perform. And the other point is just supporting a customer, giving 'em great service isn't good enough anymore. It's losing to the eyes of the customer. It's like, so what else have you done for me?
I have a salesperson say, boy, my customer's loyal. Why he is still loyal. They say, well, when they order something, we get 'em the right thing. We get it to 'em on time. We answer their questions when they call and we know what we're talking about. .
And I started laughing and saying, isn't that kind of minimum requirements to the job? That's your competitive advantage. That's what you're bragging about is you, you took care of 'em.
So what, what else have you done? And so it's looking at this that's reactive selling is just not effective today like it used to be.
It used to be if you took care of a customer, you service them. They kept around long term. Now they're saying, what else have you done for me lately?
And then the final point is we need to make sure that we keep reminding our customers that if we do have differences, we remind them of them.
I believe the toughest single question in selling is when a buyer sits there and says, okay to a sales rep says, okay, look, you're the third vendor I've talked to this week about this stuff.
Why based on all the competitive options available to me, do I wanna buy from you? And look at how people don't have their, their answers organized, they give generic responses. Uh, and they, they, they're not reminding the customer. The customer assumes everybody's equal. 
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit
https://toroktips.com/
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        <title>Weed Words: Very</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Are you using or abusing the word VERY?
Here's a Weed Word to remove from your speaking
<p>The Weed Words are words and phrases that can choke your intended message like nasty weeds. These short clips will highlight one word or phrase each week so you can remove these weeds from your speaking.</p>
<p>Episode 153 </p>
<p>V E R Y</p>
Stop using the word very because it is vague, lazy and deceptive.
<p>Very is an adverb. That means its purpose is to modify an adjective, verb or other adverb. Adverbs have a broad range of work. Maybe that’s why they are often misused.</p>
<p>I’ve noticed that very shows up as the most overused and misused adverb.</p>
<p>That should be enough reason to stop using it.</p>
<p>When you use the word very, you are not standing out. You are simply repeating a word that too many people use and misuse.</p>
<p>Very is a lazy word. What do I mean? People use very when they are lazy. They can’t be bothered to search for a better word, so they say very.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>It was very cold. Did you mean freezing or frigid?</p>
<p>It was very hot. Did you mean boiling or stifling?</p>
<p>I was very hungry. Did you mean famished?</p>
<p>It was a very slow. Did you mean sluggish?</p>
<p>It was very important. Did you mean crucial?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Just when you thought that the word very couldn’t be more abused, we are tormented with the phrase - very unique.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>What does that mean?</p>
<p>Unique means one of a kind. Unlike any other. There’s nothing else like it.</p>
<p>There are no degrees of unique. No shades of gray. Simply one of a kind. Unique.</p>
<p>You can’t modify the word unique. It’s unique or it’s not.</p>
<p>It gets worse.</p>
<p>Have you heard very, very unique?   That’s ridicules. It’s lazy talk and it’s a lie.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>The mistake that people make is believing that adding the word very in front of their description makes it stronger. Instead, it makes it vague and weaker.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Are you smart or very smart?</p>
<p>Did you mean brilliant?</p>
<p>The word very is a vague expression of more. However, it’s not visual and it’s not measurable. It’s vague. It’s a lazy word choice.</p>
<p>We can’t see or feel it.</p>
<p>When you use the word very, you confuse your audience because they don’t know what you mean.</p>
<p>Instead select words that are clear, measurable or visual.</p>
Beware of the Weed Words.
<p>Listen to these Weed Word Alerts every week. Then listen to the latest episode where we explore aspects of business communication skills.</p>
<p>George Torok</p>
<p>Watch the Weed Word videos</p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj'>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj</a></p>
<p>our host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Are you using or abusing the word VERY?
Here's a Weed Word to remove from your speaking
<p>The Weed Words are words and phrases that can choke your intended message like nasty weeds. These short clips will highlight one word or phrase each week so you can remove these weeds from your speaking.</p>
<p>Episode 153 </p>
<p>V E R Y</p>
Stop using the word very because it is vague, lazy and deceptive.
<p>Very is an adverb. That means its purpose is to modify an adjective, verb or other adverb. Adverbs have a broad range of work. Maybe that’s why they are often misused.</p>
<p>I’ve noticed that very shows up as the most overused and misused adverb.</p>
<p>That should be enough reason to stop using it.</p>
<p>When you use the word very, you are not standing out. You are simply repeating a word that too many people use and misuse.</p>
<p>Very is a lazy word. What do I mean? People use very when they are lazy. They can’t be bothered to search for a better word, so they say very.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>It was very cold. Did you mean freezing or frigid?</p>
<p>It was very hot. Did you mean boiling or stifling?</p>
<p>I was very hungry. Did you mean famished?</p>
<p>It was a very slow. Did you mean sluggish?</p>
<p>It was very important. Did you mean crucial?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Just when you thought that the word very couldn’t be more abused, we are tormented with the phrase - very unique.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>What does that mean?</p>
<p>Unique means one of a kind. Unlike any other. There’s nothing else like it.</p>
<p>There are no degrees of unique. No shades of gray. Simply one of a kind. Unique.</p>
<p>You can’t modify the word unique. It’s unique or it’s not.</p>
<p>It gets worse.</p>
<p>Have you heard very, very unique?   That’s ridicules. It’s lazy talk and it’s a lie.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>The mistake that people make is believing that adding the word very in front of their description makes it stronger. Instead, it makes it vague and weaker.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Are you smart or very smart?</p>
<p>Did you mean brilliant?</p>
<p>The word very is a vague expression of more. However, it’s not visual and it’s not measurable. It’s vague. It’s a lazy word choice.</p>
<p>We can’t see or feel it.</p>
<p>When you use the word very, you confuse your audience because they don’t know what you mean.</p>
<p>Instead select words that are clear, measurable or visual.</p>
Beware of the Weed Words.
<p>Listen to these Weed Word Alerts every week. Then listen to the latest episode where we explore aspects of business communication skills.</p>
<p>George Torok</p>
<p>Watch the Weed Word videos</p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj'>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj</a></p>
<p>our host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you using or abusing the word VERY?
Here's a Weed Word to remove from your speaking
The Weed Words are words and phrases that can choke your intended message like nasty weeds. These short clips will highlight one word or phrase each week so you can remove these weeds from your speaking.
Episode 153 
V E R Y
Stop using the word very because it is vague, lazy and deceptive.
Very is an adverb. That means its purpose is to modify an adjective, verb or other adverb. Adverbs have a broad range of work. Maybe that’s why they are often misused.
I’ve noticed that very shows up as the most overused and misused adverb.
That should be enough reason to stop using it.
When you use the word very, you are not standing out. You are simply repeating a word that too many people use and misuse.
Very is a lazy word. What do I mean? People use very when they are lazy. They can’t be bothered to search for a better word, so they say very.
 
It was very cold. Did you mean freezing or frigid?
It was very hot. Did you mean boiling or stifling?
I was very hungry. Did you mean famished?
It was a very slow. Did you mean sluggish?
It was very important. Did you mean crucial?
 
Just when you thought that the word very couldn’t be more abused, we are tormented with the phrase - very unique.
 
What does that mean?
Unique means one of a kind. Unlike any other. There’s nothing else like it.
There are no degrees of unique. No shades of gray. Simply one of a kind. Unique.
You can’t modify the word unique. It’s unique or it’s not.
It gets worse.
Have you heard very, very unique?   That’s ridicules. It’s lazy talk and it’s a lie.
 
The mistake that people make is believing that adding the word very in front of their description makes it stronger. Instead, it makes it vague and weaker.
 
Are you smart or very smart?
Did you mean brilliant?
The word very is a vague expression of more. However, it’s not visual and it’s not measurable. It’s vague. It’s a lazy word choice.
We can’t see or feel it.
When you use the word very, you confuse your audience because they don’t know what you mean.
Instead select words that are clear, measurable or visual.
Beware of the Weed Words.
Listen to these Weed Word Alerts every week. Then listen to the latest episode where we explore aspects of business communication skills.
George Torok
Watch the Weed Word videos
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj
our host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
 
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        <title>Harness the Power of the Pause when Speaking</title>
        <itunes:title>Harness the Power of the Pause when Speaking</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Ten ways you can use the pause in your presentation for greater impact
Why is the pause such a powerful tool yet abused
<p>Episode 152: </p>
<p>In this episode George Torok examines the power of the pause and presents 10 reasons and examples to use in your presentation for greater success.</p>
<ul><li>Are you using the purpose on purpose to engage your audience?</li>
<li>What lessons can you take from comedy about the pause?</li>
<li>When are good times to insert the pause?</li>
<li>How long should you pause?</li>
<li>What if you pause by mistake?</li>
<li>How can you embrace and enhance your comfort with the pause?</li>
</ul>
<p>George Torok is a specialist in communication skills. He coaches executives to deliver their message more successfully. That might be in conversation or presentation.</p>
<p>Learn more about his programs and the results of his clients at </p>
<p><a href='https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Get your weekly presentation tips at</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this episode:</p>
<p>The old cliché suggests that “Silence is Golden”. There are times when you might appreciate some silence in your life. On the other hand, silence can feel disquieting, disturbing and anxiety ridden.</p>
<p>When you are speaking to an audience you might consider silence the enemy or the sign of a bad presentation. Imagine that you get lost in your thoughts and stop speaking. You go silent and anguished while trying to recover and start speaking again. You might even feel that any noise is preferable to silence. That’s when the umms and ahhs escape your lips.</p>
<p>Don’t panic. Consider the positive benefits of pauses in your presentation. Even an unplanned pause can be perceived positively by the audience.</p>
<p>Many speakers would improve the power of their presentation if they inserted tactical pauses throughout their presentation. The ability to pause might be the most important technique that speakers need to learn. It might sound simple but like many simple lessons, it’s not easy.</p>
<p>It can be extremely difficult to pause when you are delivering a presentation. You might feel compelled to speak because you believe silence is the enemy. You perceive pausing as a sign of weakness. The reality is that silence could be your most powerful communication tool.</p>
<p>Perhaps you’re not convinced. That’s understandable. Consider these examples and reasons to pause during your presentation.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Recapture Attention</p>
<p>It’s almost impossible to hold the attention of the audience throughout your presentation. You need to recapture their attention. Pausing is an effective way to do that. Simply look at the audience with a calm smile and say nothing for as long as it takes. That could be several seconds that feels like eons to you.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Invite Interaction</p>
<p>When you want the audience to speak you must allow them that silence to think and respond. When you want a response, ask a question and wait in silence for the first answer. Then prod the group for another opinion and wait.</p>
Pausing while standing before your audience can feel horrendous, yet it might be the most powerful presentation technique for you to master.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Ten ways you can use the pause in your presentation for greater impact
Why is the pause such a powerful tool yet abused
<p>Episode 152: </p>
<p>In this episode George Torok examines the power of the pause and presents 10 reasons and examples to use in your presentation for greater success.</p>
<ul><li>Are you using the purpose on purpose to engage your audience?</li>
<li>What lessons can you take from comedy about the pause?</li>
<li>When are good times to insert the pause?</li>
<li>How long should you pause?</li>
<li>What if you pause by mistake?</li>
<li>How can you embrace and enhance your comfort with the pause?</li>
</ul>
<p>George Torok is a specialist in communication skills. He coaches executives to deliver their message more successfully. That might be in conversation or presentation.</p>
<p>Learn more about his programs and the results of his clients at </p>
<p><a href='https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Get your weekly presentation tips at</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this episode:</p>
<p>The old cliché suggests that “Silence is Golden”. There are times when you might appreciate some silence in your life. On the other hand, silence can feel disquieting, disturbing and anxiety ridden.</p>
<p>When you are speaking to an audience you might consider silence the enemy or the sign of a bad presentation. Imagine that you get lost in your thoughts and stop speaking. You go silent and anguished while trying to recover and start speaking again. You might even feel that any noise is preferable to silence. That’s when the umms and ahhs escape your lips.</p>
<p>Don’t panic. Consider the positive benefits of pauses in your presentation. Even an unplanned pause can be perceived positively by the audience.</p>
<p>Many speakers would improve the power of their presentation if they inserted tactical pauses throughout their presentation. The ability to pause might be the most important technique that speakers need to learn. It might sound simple but like many simple lessons, it’s not easy.</p>
<p>It can be extremely difficult to pause when you are delivering a presentation. You might feel compelled to speak because you believe silence is the enemy. You perceive pausing as a sign of weakness. The reality is that silence could be your most powerful communication tool.</p>
<p>Perhaps you’re not convinced. That’s understandable. Consider these examples and reasons to pause during your presentation.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Recapture Attention</p>
<p>It’s almost impossible to hold the attention of the audience throughout your presentation. You need to recapture their attention. Pausing is an effective way to do that. Simply look at the audience with a calm smile and say nothing for as long as it takes. That could be several seconds that feels like eons to you.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Invite Interaction</p>
<p>When you want the audience to speak you must allow them that silence to think and respond. When you want a response, ask a question and wait in silence for the first answer. Then prod the group for another opinion and wait.</p>
Pausing while standing before your audience can feel horrendous, yet it might be the most powerful presentation technique for you to master.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Ten ways you can use the pause in your presentation for greater impact
Why is the pause such a powerful tool yet abused
Episode 152: 
In this episode George Torok examines the power of the pause and presents 10 reasons and examples to use in your presentation for greater success.
Are you using the purpose on purpose to engage your audience?
What lessons can you take from comedy about the pause?
When are good times to insert the pause?
How long should you pause?
What if you pause by mistake?
How can you embrace and enhance your comfort with the pause?
George Torok is a specialist in communication skills. He coaches executives to deliver their message more successfully. That might be in conversation or presentation.
Learn more about his programs and the results of his clients at 
https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/
 
Get your weekly presentation tips at
https://toroktips.com/
-----
Excerpts from this episode:
The old cliché suggests that “Silence is Golden”. There are times when you might appreciate some silence in your life. On the other hand, silence can feel disquieting, disturbing and anxiety ridden.
When you are speaking to an audience you might consider silence the enemy or the sign of a bad presentation. Imagine that you get lost in your thoughts and stop speaking. You go silent and anguished while trying to recover and start speaking again. You might even feel that any noise is preferable to silence. That’s when the umms and ahhs escape your lips.
Don’t panic. Consider the positive benefits of pauses in your presentation. Even an unplanned pause can be perceived positively by the audience.
Many speakers would improve the power of their presentation if they inserted tactical pauses throughout their presentation. The ability to pause might be the most important technique that speakers need to learn. It might sound simple but like many simple lessons, it’s not easy.
It can be extremely difficult to pause when you are delivering a presentation. You might feel compelled to speak because you believe silence is the enemy. You perceive pausing as a sign of weakness. The reality is that silence could be your most powerful communication tool.
Perhaps you’re not convinced. That’s understandable. Consider these examples and reasons to pause during your presentation.
-----
Recapture Attention
It’s almost impossible to hold the attention of the audience throughout your presentation. You need to recapture their attention. Pausing is an effective way to do that. Simply look at the audience with a calm smile and say nothing for as long as it takes. That could be several seconds that feels like eons to you.
 
Invite Interaction
When you want the audience to speak you must allow them that silence to think and respond. When you want a response, ask a question and wait in silence for the first answer. Then prod the group for another opinion and wait.
Pausing while standing before your audience can feel horrendous, yet it might be the most powerful presentation technique for you to master.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit
https://toroktips.com/
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        <title>Weed Words: Thanks for having me</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[If I have you, how would you feel?
If you were had how would you feel?
What is gross about this phrase?
Welcome to Weed Words, the weekly micro tip on words to avoid so you can have more credibility when you speak.
<p>-----</p>
<p>Thanks for having me</p>
<p>What do you feel or see when you hear this phrase? Thanks for having me.</p>
<p>I cringe. The visual associated with this phrase is yucky.</p>
<p>I hosted a radio show for 19 years and interviewed over 600 guests. I continue to interview guests on my podcast, Your Intended Message. Please tune in because it’s the podcast about communication in business. Your Intended Message.</p>
<p>Sometimes the guest says, thank you for having me.</p>
<p>Yuck, I didn’t have you.</p>
<p>There are two ways to interpret this phrase.</p>
<p>You were either - duped or eaten.</p>
<p>The past tense of have is had. If you were had, that usually means</p>
<p>you were cheated. I didn’t cheat you.</p>
<p>The other interpretation of have is eaten.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>What did you have for lunch? A hamburger. It was delicious.</p>
<p>What did you have for dessert? A crème Brule.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Who did you have yesterday? That’s a relevant question for Hannibal Lector. Remember Hannibal the Cannibal.</p>
<p>He could answer, I had a census taker along with a nice chianti and fava beans.</p>
<p>I suppose that the ghost of that census taker could say, “Thank you for having me. Trust that I was delicious”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Stop saying thank you for having me. It’s gross.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Instead, you can say</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Delighted to be on (name of program)</p>
<p>Thank you for the opportunity to talk to your audience about (the topic)</p>
<p>It was a pleasure to discuss how people can (benefit of the topic)</p>
<p>Thanks for inviting to speak to your audience on (name of program)</p>
<p>Thank you for the engaging conversation about (the topic)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Notice how these phrases are much more thoughtful, engaging and friendly.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Until I switch to the cannibal diet, I’m not going to have you. So please don’t say, thank you for having me.</p>
<p> </p>
Beware of the Weed Words
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[If I have you, how would you feel?
If you were had how would you feel?
What is gross about this phrase?
Welcome to Weed Words, the weekly micro tip on words to avoid so you can have more credibility when you speak.
<p>-----</p>
<p>Thanks for having me</p>
<p>What do you feel or see when you hear this phrase? Thanks for having me.</p>
<p>I cringe. The visual associated with this phrase is yucky.</p>
<p>I hosted a radio show for 19 years and interviewed over 600 guests. I continue to interview guests on my podcast, Your Intended Message. Please tune in because it’s the podcast about communication in business. Your Intended Message.</p>
<p>Sometimes the guest says, thank you for having me.</p>
<p>Yuck, I didn’t have you.</p>
<p>There are two ways to interpret this phrase.</p>
<p>You were either - duped or eaten.</p>
<p>The past tense of have is had. If you were had, that usually means</p>
<p>you were cheated. I didn’t cheat you.</p>
<p>The other interpretation of have is eaten.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>What did you have for lunch? A hamburger. It was delicious.</p>
<p>What did you have for dessert? A crème Brule.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Who did you have yesterday? That’s a relevant question for Hannibal Lector. Remember Hannibal the Cannibal.</p>
<p>He could answer, I had a census taker along with a nice chianti and fava beans.</p>
<p>I suppose that the ghost of that census taker could say, “Thank you for having me. Trust that I was delicious”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Stop saying thank you for having me. It’s gross.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Instead, you can say</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Delighted to be on (name of program)</p>
<p>Thank you for the opportunity to talk to your audience about (the topic)</p>
<p>It was a pleasure to discuss how people can (benefit of the topic)</p>
<p>Thanks for inviting to speak to your audience on (name of program)</p>
<p>Thank you for the engaging conversation about (the topic)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Notice how these phrases are much more thoughtful, engaging and friendly.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Until I switch to the cannibal diet, I’m not going to have you. So please don’t say, thank you for having me.</p>
<p> </p>
Beware of the Weed Words
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[If I have you, how would you feel?
If you were had how would you feel?
What is gross about this phrase?
Welcome to Weed Words, the weekly micro tip on words to avoid so you can have more credibility when you speak.
-----
Thanks for having me
What do you feel or see when you hear this phrase? Thanks for having me.
I cringe. The visual associated with this phrase is yucky.
I hosted a radio show for 19 years and interviewed over 600 guests. I continue to interview guests on my podcast, Your Intended Message. Please tune in because it’s the podcast about communication in business. Your Intended Message.
Sometimes the guest says, thank you for having me.
Yuck, I didn’t have you.
There are two ways to interpret this phrase.
You were either - duped or eaten.
The past tense of have is had. If you were had, that usually means
you were cheated. I didn’t cheat you.
The other interpretation of have is eaten.
 
What did you have for lunch? A hamburger. It was delicious.
What did you have for dessert? A crème Brule.
 
Who did you have yesterday? That’s a relevant question for Hannibal Lector. Remember Hannibal the Cannibal.
He could answer, I had a census taker along with a nice chianti and fava beans.
I suppose that the ghost of that census taker could say, “Thank you for having me. Trust that I was delicious”
 
Stop saying thank you for having me. It’s gross.
 
Instead, you can say
 
Delighted to be on (name of program)
Thank you for the opportunity to talk to your audience about (the topic)
It was a pleasure to discuss how people can (benefit of the topic)
Thanks for inviting to speak to your audience on (name of program)
Thank you for the engaging conversation about (the topic)
 
Notice how these phrases are much more thoughtful, engaging and friendly.
 
Until I switch to the cannibal diet, I’m not going to have you. So please don’t say, thank you for having me.
 
Beware of the Weed Words
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit
https://toroktips.com/
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        <title>The Battle Between Sales &amp; Marketing: Gary Garth</title>
        <itunes:title>The Battle Between Sales &amp; Marketing: Gary Garth</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Why doesn't sales and marketing play well together?
How can we get sales and marketing on the same team?
<p>Episode 150 (Gary is based in Medellin, Columbia)</p>
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<p dir="ltr">Go to 👉 <a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fgarygarth.com%2Fproduct%2Fzero-to-100-million-sales-blueprint%2F&data=05%7C01%7C%7Cbb0586aeccea4bcb81d908db429c2ba7%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638177010758117563%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C3000%7C%7C%7C&sdata=cKaVV4NF%2BuI3tOsyFJOdsDZMhKOaTWcGTogmbNuzVak%3D&reserved=0'>https://garygarth.com/product/zero-to-100-million-sales-blueprint/</a></p>
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<p>Summary</p>
<ul><li>The importance of sales and marketing alignment. <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=0s'>0:00</a>
<ul><li>Three facts to know about Gary Garth</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>There’s often a disconnect between sales and marketing. <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=135s'>2:14</a>
<ul><li>The disconnect between sales and marketing.</li>
<li>How to solve the problem.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>How can one department contribute towards the other? How can we make sure that we’re speaking the same language? What kind of priorities can <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=264s'>4:24</a>
<ul><li>How one department can contribute to the other one.</li>
<li>Best practices for sales and marketing.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>The importance of having sales and marketing as an army in the same front. <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=389s'>6:28</a>
<ul><li>Creating a chief revenue officer.</li>
<li>Creating a weekly sales and marketing meeting.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>Why you need to understand your ideal customer profile from a sales and marketing standpoint. <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=524s'>8:43</a>
<ul><li>The 20 metrics sales and marketing should have locked down.</li>
<li>Understanding the ideal customer profile.</li>
<li>The first obstacle is creating awareness about the solution.</li>
<li>The two different value propositions.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>What is the alignment between sales and marketing? How does it fit into the equation? <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=740s'>12:20</a>
<ul><li>Alignment between sales and marketing.</li>
<li>Addressing the misalignment between marketing and sales.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>The third thing is to establish equal KPI. <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=876s'>14:35</a>
<ul><li>Aligning tools to make a tremendous impact.</li>
<li>Establishing equal kpi.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>Practical examples of success for marketing and sales. <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=986s'>16:25</a>
<ul><li>Practical example, direct response marketing campaign.</li>
<li>70% of all leads come through phone calls.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>Sales and marketing each come with their own bias. Did you struggle with marketing people? <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=1131s'>18:50</a>
<ul><li>Sales and marketing have their own biases.</li>
<li>How to make sales and marketing work together.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>How to get your sales and marketing departments to work together. <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=1280s'>21:20</a>
<ul><li>Marketing and sales need to be more open and willing to ask questions.</li>
<li>The first step is collaboration.</li>
<li>Aligning the two customer journeys.</li>
<li>Step one, mapping out the entire customer journey.</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>About Gary Garth</p>
<p>Gary is a serial entrepreneur, founder and CEO of elevate.io. He's authored the zero to 100 million sales blueprint book, and the Goals Grit and Greatness Planner.</p>
<p>He's been featured in Inc, Forbes, Success and many other prominent publications as a serial entrepreneurs since 2002.</p>
<p>Gary has started and successfully exited six companies, including large outbound sales, call centres, radio advertising networks, and an award winning eight figure, digital marketing agency.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p><a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fgarygarth.com%2Fproduct%2Fzero-to-100-million-sales-blueprint%2F&data=05%7C01%7C%7Ce930ba40f11c4cb61cc308db351d6f53%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638162172762523111%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C3000%7C%7C%7C&sdata=R2lO89TG%2FX5wIdMrbiLEBGP1IWVTVRtZbpPa%2BpqIDAI%3D&reserved=0'></a></p>
<p dir="ltr">Gary Garth's current projects include:</p>
<p dir="ltr"><a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.elev8.io%2F&data=05%7C01%7C%7Cbb0586aeccea4bcb81d908db429c2ba7%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638177010758117563%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C3000%7C%7C%7C&sdata=MTDduHBVR0rqfKZ2S7P5TiacMeKVr%2FazwUQfO9V%2F13Y%3D&reserved=0'>www.elev8.io</a></p>
<p dir="ltr"><a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.goalsgritandgreatness.com%2F&data=05%7C01%7C%7Cbb0586aeccea4bcb81d908db429c2ba7%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638177010758117563%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C3000%7C%7C%7C&sdata=Y2%2BVlXeFpDeubeSy6aRjPBURENuvaB3CBb1E80S74e0%3D&reserved=0'>www.goalsgritandgreatness.com</a></p>
<p dir="ltr"><a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.0to100million.com%2F&data=05%7C01%7C%7Cbb0586aeccea4bcb81d908db429c2ba7%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638177010758117563%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C3000%7C%7C%7C&sdata=F4BisYq6lU3xjz7GRn4jebZLcmsZ%2BQYEqCHEaW6ncj8%3D&reserved=0'>https://www.0to100million.com</a></p>
<p dir="ltr">-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Gary Garth</p>
<p>That's, I guess that's the million dollar question here.</p>
<p>What I see in nine out of 10 scenarios, when I work with companies, the very first thing you can do to get an immediate assessment of how much collaboration there is between these two departments, how well they understand each other, and what areas of opportunity you can address is get them in a room together, and then had them both map out the entire customer journey.</p>
<p>So before they even become a customer, their prospect and that whole process to when they become a customer and understanding also, if you're looking at it from a as a as a business owner standpoint, their ability to cross sell, upsell products, collect testimonials, create case studies, how many referrals</p>
<p>Do you have understanding that whole process and aligning on all the different metrics? You will probably get one very clear picture from sales. And another picture for marketing.</p>
<p>So aligning those two customer journeys, less as and heavy one universal one will always tend to spark a lot opportunities because sometimes, the customer is continuously has communication with the account manager account executive in b2b, for example, but do they know exactly when to identify an upsell across an opportunity and how to promote it?</p>
<p>Could marketing for example, provide some content or collateral case studies, an ROI calculator that can demonstrate if you did x, y, z and expanded your service from Package A to B or added this or the product to the equation?</p>
<p>Here's the expected impact financially speaking as a result of that, all of a sudden, you'll see a lot of revenue opportunities.</p>
So just mapping out the entire customer journey. That would be step number one.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
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<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Why doesn't sales and marketing play well together?
How can we get sales and marketing on the same team?
<p>Episode 150 (Gary is based in Medellin, Columbia)</p>
<p dir="ltr">__CRACK THE CODE ON SALES AND 10X YOUR REVENUE___</p>
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<p dir="ltr">Go to 👉 <a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fgarygarth.com%2Fproduct%2Fzero-to-100-million-sales-blueprint%2F&data=05%7C01%7C%7Cbb0586aeccea4bcb81d908db429c2ba7%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638177010758117563%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C3000%7C%7C%7C&sdata=cKaVV4NF%2BuI3tOsyFJOdsDZMhKOaTWcGTogmbNuzVak%3D&reserved=0'>https://garygarth.com/product/zero-to-100-million-sales-blueprint/</a></p>
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<p>Summary</p>
<ul><li>The importance of sales and marketing alignment. <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=0s'>0:00</a>
<ul><li>Three facts to know about Gary Garth</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>There’s often a disconnect between sales and marketing. <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=135s'>2:14</a>
<ul><li>The disconnect between sales and marketing.</li>
<li>How to solve the problem.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>How can one department contribute towards the other? How can we make sure that we’re speaking the same language? What kind of priorities can <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=264s'>4:24</a>
<ul><li>How one department can contribute to the other one.</li>
<li>Best practices for sales and marketing.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>The importance of having sales and marketing as an army in the same front. <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=389s'>6:28</a>
<ul><li>Creating a chief revenue officer.</li>
<li>Creating a weekly sales and marketing meeting.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>Why you need to understand your ideal customer profile from a sales and marketing standpoint. <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=524s'>8:43</a>
<ul><li>The 20 metrics sales and marketing should have locked down.</li>
<li>Understanding the ideal customer profile.</li>
<li>The first obstacle is creating awareness about the solution.</li>
<li>The two different value propositions.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>What is the alignment between sales and marketing? How does it fit into the equation? <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=740s'>12:20</a>
<ul><li>Alignment between sales and marketing.</li>
<li>Addressing the misalignment between marketing and sales.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>The third thing is to establish equal KPI. <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=876s'>14:35</a>
<ul><li>Aligning tools to make a tremendous impact.</li>
<li>Establishing equal kpi.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>Practical examples of success for marketing and sales. <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=986s'>16:25</a>
<ul><li>Practical example, direct response marketing campaign.</li>
<li>70% of all leads come through phone calls.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>Sales and marketing each come with their own bias. Did you struggle with marketing people? <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=1131s'>18:50</a>
<ul><li>Sales and marketing have their own biases.</li>
<li>How to make sales and marketing work together.</li>
</ul>
</li>
<li>How to get your sales and marketing departments to work together. <a href='https://otter.ai/u/tSMS7tzqsZsnJ26ghBTj2dQB0vs?tab=summary&t=1280s'>21:20</a>
<ul><li>Marketing and sales need to be more open and willing to ask questions.</li>
<li>The first step is collaboration.</li>
<li>Aligning the two customer journeys.</li>
<li>Step one, mapping out the entire customer journey.</li>
</ul>
</li>
</ul>
<p>About Gary Garth</p>
<p>Gary is a serial entrepreneur, founder and CEO of elevate.io. He's authored the zero to 100 million sales blueprint book, and the Goals Grit and Greatness Planner.</p>
<p>He's been featured in Inc, Forbes, Success and many other prominent publications as a serial entrepreneurs since 2002.</p>
<p>Gary has started and successfully exited six companies, including large outbound sales, call centres, radio advertising networks, and an award winning eight figure, digital marketing agency.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p><a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fgarygarth.com%2Fproduct%2Fzero-to-100-million-sales-blueprint%2F&data=05%7C01%7C%7Ce930ba40f11c4cb61cc308db351d6f53%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638162172762523111%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C3000%7C%7C%7C&sdata=R2lO89TG%2FX5wIdMrbiLEBGP1IWVTVRtZbpPa%2BpqIDAI%3D&reserved=0'></a></p>
<p dir="ltr">Gary Garth's current projects include:</p>
<p dir="ltr"><a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.elev8.io%2F&data=05%7C01%7C%7Cbb0586aeccea4bcb81d908db429c2ba7%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638177010758117563%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C3000%7C%7C%7C&sdata=MTDduHBVR0rqfKZ2S7P5TiacMeKVr%2FazwUQfO9V%2F13Y%3D&reserved=0'>www.elev8.io</a></p>
<p dir="ltr"><a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.goalsgritandgreatness.com%2F&data=05%7C01%7C%7Cbb0586aeccea4bcb81d908db429c2ba7%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638177010758117563%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C3000%7C%7C%7C&sdata=Y2%2BVlXeFpDeubeSy6aRjPBURENuvaB3CBb1E80S74e0%3D&reserved=0'>www.goalsgritandgreatness.com</a></p>
<p dir="ltr"><a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.0to100million.com%2F&data=05%7C01%7C%7Cbb0586aeccea4bcb81d908db429c2ba7%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638177010758117563%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C3000%7C%7C%7C&sdata=F4BisYq6lU3xjz7GRn4jebZLcmsZ%2BQYEqCHEaW6ncj8%3D&reserved=0'>https://www.0to100million.com</a></p>
<p dir="ltr">-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Gary Garth</p>
<p>That's, I guess that's the million dollar question here.</p>
<p>What I see in nine out of 10 scenarios, when I work with companies, the very first thing you can do to get an immediate assessment of how much collaboration there is between these two departments, how well they understand each other, and what areas of opportunity you can address is get them in a room together, and then had them both map out the entire customer journey.</p>
<p>So before they even become a customer, their prospect and that whole process to when they become a customer and understanding also, if you're looking at it from a as a as a business owner standpoint, their ability to cross sell, upsell products, collect testimonials, create case studies, how many referrals</p>
<p>Do you have understanding that whole process and aligning on all the different metrics? You will probably get one very clear picture from sales. And another picture for marketing.</p>
<p>So aligning those two customer journeys, less as and heavy one universal one will always tend to spark a lot opportunities because sometimes, the customer is continuously has communication with the account manager account executive in b2b, for example, but do they know exactly when to identify an upsell across an opportunity and how to promote it?</p>
<p>Could marketing for example, provide some content or collateral case studies, an ROI calculator that can demonstrate if you did x, y, z and expanded your service from Package A to B or added this or the product to the equation?</p>
<p>Here's the expected impact financially speaking as a result of that, all of a sudden, you'll see a lot of revenue opportunities.</p>
So just mapping out the entire customer journey. That would be step number one.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why doesn't sales and marketing play well together?
How can we get sales and marketing on the same team?
Episode 150 (Gary is based in Medellin, Columbia)
__CRACK THE CODE ON SALES AND 10X YOUR REVENUE___
Because you are a loyal listener of "Your Intended Message" get your
FREE 'The Zero to 100 Million Sales Blueprint' endorsed by:
- Head of Channel Sales at Amazon
- Director of Partner Program at Microsoft
- Head of Global Sales Enablement at Google
 
Go to 👉 https://garygarth.com/product/zero-to-100-million-sales-blueprint/
Apply at checkout COUPON: yourintendedmessage
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Summary
The importance of sales and marketing alignment. 0:00
Three facts to know about Gary Garth

There’s often a disconnect between sales and marketing. 2:14
The disconnect between sales and marketing.
How to solve the problem.

How can one department contribute towards the other? How can we make sure that we’re speaking the same language? What kind of priorities can 4:24
How one department can contribute to the other one.
Best practices for sales and marketing.

The importance of having sales and marketing as an army in the same front. 6:28
Creating a chief revenue officer.
Creating a weekly sales and marketing meeting.

Why you need to understand your ideal customer profile from a sales and marketing standpoint. 8:43
The 20 metrics sales and marketing should have locked down.
Understanding the ideal customer profile.
The first obstacle is creating awareness about the solution.
The two different value propositions.

What is the alignment between sales and marketing? How does it fit into the equation? 12:20
Alignment between sales and marketing.
Addressing the misalignment between marketing and sales.

The third thing is to establish equal KPI. 14:35
Aligning tools to make a tremendous impact.
Establishing equal kpi.

Practical examples of success for marketing and sales. 16:25
Practical example, direct response marketing campaign.
70% of all leads come through phone calls.

Sales and marketing each come with their own bias. Did you struggle with marketing people? 18:50
Sales and marketing have their own biases.
How to make sales and marketing work together.

How to get your sales and marketing departments to work together. 21:20
Marketing and sales need to be more open and willing to ask questions.
The first step is collaboration.
Aligning the two customer journeys.
Step one, mapping out the entire customer journey.

About Gary Garth
Gary is a serial entrepreneur, founder and CEO of elevate.io. He's authored the zero to 100 million sales blueprint book, and the Goals Grit and Greatness Planner.
He's been featured in Inc, Forbes, Success and many other prominent publications as a serial entrepreneurs since 2002.
Gary has started and successfully exited six companies, including large outbound sales, call centres, radio advertising networks, and an award winning eight figure, digital marketing agency.
 
 
-----

Gary Garth's current projects include:
www.elev8.io
www.goalsgritandgreatness.com
https://www.0to100million.com
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Gary Garth
That's, I guess that's the million dollar question here.
What I see in nine out of 10 scenarios, when I work with companies, the very first thing you can do to get an immediate assessment of how much collaboration there is between these two departments, how well they understand each other, and what areas of opportunity you can address is get them in a room together, and then had them both map out the entire customer journey.
So before they even become a customer, their prospect and that whole process to when they become a customer and understanding also, if you're looking at it from a as a as a business owner standpoint, their ability to cross sell, upsell products, collect testimonials, create case studies, how many referrals
Do you have understanding that whole process and aligning on all the different metrics? You will probably get one very clear picture from sales. A]]></itunes:summary>
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        <title>Weed Words: A bunch</title>
        <itunes:title>Weed Words: A bunch</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[What does a bunch mean to you?
When you hear the word, what do you think?
When you say it, what do your listeners think?
Welcome to Weed Words, the weekly micro tip on words to avoid so you can have more credibility when you speak.
<p>-----</p>
<p>Hey, I got a bunch. Do you want to buy a bunch? How many bunches do you want?</p>
<p>How excited do you get when you hear the word - bunch?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>How do you think your clients or team feels when you talk - bunch talk?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Do you provide a bunch of products or services?</p>
<p>Are you proud of the bunch of options you offer to you clients?</p>
<p>Are you asking your team to generate a bunch of ideas?</p>
<p>What are you trying to say? What do you want people to think, see or feel when you say that?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>What’s a bunch? Go ahead. Think of a bunch. What comes to mind?</p>
<p>Bananas.  What else? Grapes, flowers</p>
<p>When you talk to monkeys how can you get them excited? Say “I’ve got a bunch for you.”</p>
<p>When you want to score with that attractive monkey, simply coo, “Come up to my place, I’ve got a bunch.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>When talking to humans about a bunch, they’ll recognize that you want to date monkeys.</p>
<p>Say bunch to humans, and they’ll think, Oh you’re not talking to me.</p>
<p>Let me introduce you to my monkey.</p>
<p>And don’t try to dress it up by calling it a whole bunch, a big bunch or bunches.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Instead, toss the bananas and find words that are clear and descriptive:</p>
<p>You provide an assortment of products or services.</p>
<p>You’re proud of the selection of options you offer.</p>
<p>You ask your team for a dozen ideas.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Be clear and descriptive.</p>
<p>Keep the bunch talk for monkey-tinder.</p>
Beware of the weed words.
<p>Listen to these Weed Word Alerts every week. Then listen to the latest episode where we explore aspects of business communication skills.</p>
<p>George Torok</p>
<p>Watch the Weed Word videos</p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj'>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj</a></p>
<p>our host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[What does a bunch mean to you?
When you hear the word, what do you think?
When you say it, what do your listeners think?
Welcome to Weed Words, the weekly micro tip on words to avoid so you can have more credibility when you speak.
<p>-----</p>
<p>Hey, I got a bunch. Do you want to buy a bunch? How many bunches do you want?</p>
<p>How excited do you get when you hear the word - bunch?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>How do you think your clients or team feels when you talk - bunch talk?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Do you provide a bunch of products or services?</p>
<p>Are you proud of the bunch of options you offer to you clients?</p>
<p>Are you asking your team to generate a bunch of ideas?</p>
<p>What are you trying to say? What do you want people to think, see or feel when you say that?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>What’s a bunch? Go ahead. Think of a bunch. What comes to mind?</p>
<p>Bananas.  What else? Grapes, flowers</p>
<p>When you talk to monkeys how can you get them excited? Say “I’ve got a bunch for you.”</p>
<p>When you want to score with that attractive monkey, simply coo, “Come up to my place, I’ve got a bunch.”</p>
<p> </p>
<p>When talking to humans about a bunch, they’ll recognize that you want to date monkeys.</p>
<p>Say bunch to humans, and they’ll think, Oh you’re not talking to me.</p>
<p>Let me introduce you to my monkey.</p>
<p>And don’t try to dress it up by calling it a whole bunch, a big bunch or bunches.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Instead, toss the bananas and find words that are clear and descriptive:</p>
<p>You provide an assortment of products or services.</p>
<p>You’re proud of the selection of options you offer.</p>
<p>You ask your team for a dozen ideas.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Be clear and descriptive.</p>
<p>Keep the bunch talk for monkey-tinder.</p>
Beware of the weed words.
<p>Listen to these Weed Word Alerts every week. Then listen to the latest episode where we explore aspects of business communication skills.</p>
<p>George Torok</p>
<p>Watch the Weed Word videos</p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj'>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj</a></p>
<p>our host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What does a bunch mean to you?
When you hear the word, what do you think?
When you say it, what do your listeners think?
Welcome to Weed Words, the weekly micro tip on words to avoid so you can have more credibility when you speak.
-----
Hey, I got a bunch. Do you want to buy a bunch? How many bunches do you want?
How excited do you get when you hear the word - bunch?
 
How do you think your clients or team feels when you talk - bunch talk?
 
Do you provide a bunch of products or services?
Are you proud of the bunch of options you offer to you clients?
Are you asking your team to generate a bunch of ideas?
What are you trying to say? What do you want people to think, see or feel when you say that?
 
What’s a bunch? Go ahead. Think of a bunch. What comes to mind?
Bananas.  What else? Grapes, flowers
When you talk to monkeys how can you get them excited? Say “I’ve got a bunch for you.”
When you want to score with that attractive monkey, simply coo, “Come up to my place, I’ve got a bunch.”
 
When talking to humans about a bunch, they’ll recognize that you want to date monkeys.
Say bunch to humans, and they’ll think, Oh you’re not talking to me.
Let me introduce you to my monkey.
And don’t try to dress it up by calling it a whole bunch, a big bunch or bunches.
 
Instead, toss the bananas and find words that are clear and descriptive:
You provide an assortment of products or services.
You’re proud of the selection of options you offer.
You ask your team for a dozen ideas.
 
Be clear and descriptive.
Keep the bunch talk for monkey-tinder.
Beware of the weed words.
Listen to these Weed Word Alerts every week. Then listen to the latest episode where we explore aspects of business communication skills.
George Torok
Watch the Weed Word videos
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj
our host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Boost your productivity with less distractions
What if you delayed checking your messages for at least 20 minutes?
<p>Episode 148 (Ann is based in Toronto, Canada)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Ann Gomez we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What is the warrior mentality and how can you apply it to your work?</li>
<li>Why are distractions so addictive and so damaging?</li>
<li>The conversation you need to have with yourself and then your team</li>
<li>Why being brilliant and driven can work against you?</li>
<li>Three challenges that overcomplicate our day and how to address them</li>
<li>A hack to have shorter meetings and end on time</li>
<li>The power of short bursts of focus</li>
<li>Assessing the urgency and best channel for the message</li>
</ul>
<p>About Ann Gomez:</p>
<p>Ann is the founding president of Clear Concept Inc., an international training organization. Her latest book is, Workday Warrior: A proven path to reclaiming your time.</p>
<p>For almost 20 years, Ann and her team have been training the world's busiest people to thrive at work.</p>
<p>Learn more about Ann and Clear Concept Inc, at</p>
<p><a href='https://clearconceptinc.ca/'>https://clearconceptinc.ca/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>Learn more about her books at</p>
<p><a href='https://clearconceptinc.ca/books/'>https://clearconceptinc.ca/books/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Ann Gomez:</p>
<p>03:29</p>
<p>Okay. So the first step is to clarify what is most important, too many people are trying to do too many things. I was one of those people for many years.</p>
<p>So what I hear is people say, Oh, I have too many priorities, I don't have enough time to go around. And and it's true that most people are spreading themselves too thin.</p>
<p>And so this obviously is a conversation you'd want to have with your your team with your leader, to make sure you're all clear on the core priorities. But it's really important to know what your top priorities are and what your future priorities are.</p>
<p>And there's a difference here. There's a ton of great ideas out there. There's no end in sight of things we can spend our time on, we just need to define what are we doing now versus later. </p>
<p>And that later could be a week from now a month from now a year from now, like you decide what's appropriate for you.</p>
<p>But in terms of core priorities, there's a magic number of three, three core priorities. </p>
<p>And this is not discrete tasks. This is project so one of my core priorities is serving clients and that I dedicated about half of my week to serving clients. It's a big category of work.</p>
<p>And I often have many clients on the go all wrap up one project to take on another so it's not like it's one task. There's multiple tasks in that core priority.</p>
<p>Right leaders often have their team as another core priority. Sales and Marketing might have business development activities as part of their core priorities. And this is not just one task. It's a bucket of work. It's a category of work.</p>
<p>But when we think about our work in that way, we start to get more strategic But what we're saying yes to right now. So that's the first thing to be clear on your top priorities.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>05:43</p>
<p>So the second step is to combat this not enough time syndrome that so many of us have. And the strategy is to pay yourself first.</p>
<p>So once we know what our core priorities are, then we want to block that time in our calendar before other things get in the way.</p>
<p>So we've heard this concept, pay yourself first with financial resources. Now we're applying that same principle to our time, our limited resource, right? As you said, Can't make more time we get our 24 hours.</p>
<p>So how are we spending it. And so we want to be very proactive about building routines around our core priorities, and then leaving the leftovers for all of those other things.</p>
<p>So for example, protect focus work time, most of us need to have time for independent work that doesn't include email, chats, informal conversations, like independent work, to build a document, edit, and a spreadsheet, whatever that may be.</p>
<p>And so we want that time to be uninterrupted when our alerts are off, minimize email, minimize, chat, whatever it may be, close our door and focus.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Boost your productivity with less distractions
What if you delayed checking your messages for at least 20 minutes?
<p>Episode 148 (Ann is based in Toronto, Canada)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Ann Gomez we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What is the warrior mentality and how can you apply it to your work?</li>
<li>Why are distractions so addictive and so damaging?</li>
<li>The conversation you need to have with yourself and then your team</li>
<li>Why being brilliant and driven can work against you?</li>
<li>Three challenges that overcomplicate our day and how to address them</li>
<li>A hack to have shorter meetings and end on time</li>
<li>The power of short bursts of focus</li>
<li>Assessing the urgency and best channel for the message</li>
</ul>
<p>About Ann Gomez:</p>
<p>Ann is the founding president of Clear Concept Inc., an international training organization. Her latest book is, Workday Warrior: A proven path to reclaiming your time.</p>
<p>For almost 20 years, Ann and her team have been training the world's busiest people to thrive at work.</p>
<p>Learn more about Ann and Clear Concept Inc, at</p>
<p><a href='https://clearconceptinc.ca/'>https://clearconceptinc.ca/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>Learn more about her books at</p>
<p><a href='https://clearconceptinc.ca/books/'>https://clearconceptinc.ca/books/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Ann Gomez:</p>
<p>03:29</p>
<p>Okay. So the first step is to clarify what is most important, too many people are trying to do too many things. I was one of those people for many years.</p>
<p>So what I hear is people say, Oh, I have too many priorities, I don't have enough time to go around. And and it's true that most people are spreading themselves too thin.</p>
<p>And so this obviously is a conversation you'd want to have with your your team with your leader, to make sure you're all clear on the core priorities. But it's really important to know what your top priorities are and what your future priorities are.</p>
<p>And there's a difference here. There's a ton of great ideas out there. There's no end in sight of things we can spend our time on, we just need to define what are we doing now versus later. </p>
<p>And that later could be a week from now a month from now a year from now, like you decide what's appropriate for you.</p>
<p>But in terms of core priorities, there's a magic number of three, three core priorities. </p>
<p>And this is not discrete tasks. This is project so one of my core priorities is serving clients and that I dedicated about half of my week to serving clients. It's a big category of work.</p>
<p>And I often have many clients on the go all wrap up one project to take on another so it's not like it's one task. There's multiple tasks in that core priority.</p>
<p>Right leaders often have their team as another core priority. Sales and Marketing might have business development activities as part of their core priorities. And this is not just one task. It's a bucket of work. It's a category of work.</p>
<p>But when we think about our work in that way, we start to get more strategic But what we're saying yes to right now. So that's the first thing to be clear on your top priorities.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>05:43</p>
<p>So the second step is to combat this not enough time syndrome that so many of us have. And the strategy is to pay yourself first.</p>
<p>So once we know what our core priorities are, then we want to block that time in our calendar before other things get in the way.</p>
<p>So we've heard this concept, pay yourself first with financial resources. Now we're applying that same principle to our time, our limited resource, right? As you said, Can't make more time we get our 24 hours.</p>
<p>So how are we spending it. And so we want to be very proactive about building routines around our core priorities, and then leaving the leftovers for all of those other things.</p>
<p>So for example, protect focus work time, most of us need to have time for independent work that doesn't include email, chats, informal conversations, like independent work, to build a document, edit, and a spreadsheet, whatever that may be.</p>
<p>And so we want that time to be uninterrupted when our alerts are off, minimize email, minimize, chat, whatever it may be, close our door and focus.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Boost your productivity with less distractions
What if you delayed checking your messages for at least 20 minutes?
Episode 148 (Ann is based in Toronto, Canada)
In this conversation with Ann Gomez we explore:
What is the warrior mentality and how can you apply it to your work?
Why are distractions so addictive and so damaging?
The conversation you need to have with yourself and then your team
Why being brilliant and driven can work against you?
Three challenges that overcomplicate our day and how to address them
A hack to have shorter meetings and end on time
The power of short bursts of focus
Assessing the urgency and best channel for the message
About Ann Gomez:
Ann is the founding president of Clear Concept Inc., an international training organization. Her latest book is, Workday Warrior: A proven path to reclaiming your time.
For almost 20 years, Ann and her team have been training the world's busiest people to thrive at work.
Learn more about Ann and Clear Concept Inc, at
https://clearconceptinc.ca/

Learn more about her books at
https://clearconceptinc.ca/books/

-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Ann Gomez:
03:29
Okay. So the first step is to clarify what is most important, too many people are trying to do too many things. I was one of those people for many years.
So what I hear is people say, Oh, I have too many priorities, I don't have enough time to go around. And and it's true that most people are spreading themselves too thin.
And so this obviously is a conversation you'd want to have with your your team with your leader, to make sure you're all clear on the core priorities. But it's really important to know what your top priorities are and what your future priorities are.
And there's a difference here. There's a ton of great ideas out there. There's no end in sight of things we can spend our time on, we just need to define what are we doing now versus later. 
And that later could be a week from now a month from now a year from now, like you decide what's appropriate for you.
But in terms of core priorities, there's a magic number of three, three core priorities. 
And this is not discrete tasks. This is project so one of my core priorities is serving clients and that I dedicated about half of my week to serving clients. It's a big category of work.
And I often have many clients on the go all wrap up one project to take on another so it's not like it's one task. There's multiple tasks in that core priority.
Right leaders often have their team as another core priority. Sales and Marketing might have business development activities as part of their core priorities. And this is not just one task. It's a bucket of work. It's a category of work.
But when we think about our work in that way, we start to get more strategic But what we're saying yes to right now. So that's the first thing to be clear on your top priorities.
-----
05:43
So the second step is to combat this not enough time syndrome that so many of us have. And the strategy is to pay yourself first.
So once we know what our core priorities are, then we want to block that time in our calendar before other things get in the way.
So we've heard this concept, pay yourself first with financial resources. Now we're applying that same principle to our time, our limited resource, right? As you said, Can't make more time we get our 24 hours.
So how are we spending it. And so we want to be very proactive about building routines around our core priorities, and then leaving the leftovers for all of those other things.
So for example, protect focus work time, most of us need to have time for independent work that doesn't include email, chats, informal conversations, like independent work, to build a document, edit, and a spreadsheet, whatever that may be.
And so we want that time to be uninterrupted when our alerts are off, minimize email, minimize, chat, whatever it may be, close our door and focus.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
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                                    <description><![CDATA[In my humble opinion
<p>When you hear this phrase what do you think? How do you feel about the speaker? Are you eager to hear a humble opinion?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Do you feel that they are truly humble? Do you believe that their opinion is valid? Do you prepare yourself for a less than humble opinion? Do you think, Who asked for your opinion?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>The words humble and opinion do not belong in the same sentence. Put them together and warning bells ring in our heads.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>When I hear this phrase, the question that pops up is “Are you expressing your opinion or are you pretending to be humble?”</p>
<p>If you are truly humble, why are you expressing your opinion? A humble person doesn’t express an opinion. They keep their mouth shut.</p>
<p>I imagine that your humbleness doesn’t compare to the Dalia Lama. He doesn’t claim to be humble. He simply is. If you are humble, you don’t need to say it. We will recognize your humbleness by the way you speak and treat others.</p>
<p>So your claim to being humble is … what’s the word I’m searching for… weak, false, phony – a lie.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>If you are humble why express your opinion?</p>
<p>If your opinion has value, why is it humble?</p>
<p>If your opinion is valid and is more than an opinion – why degrade it?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>What I find curious and revealing is that this phrase doesn’t suggest that you are humble, instead it’s only this particular opinion that is humble. Other opinions might not be humble.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>If your opinion is humble – don’t express it.</p>
<p>If you believe you must pretend to be humble because you don’t have faith in your opinion, shut up.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>If you want your opinion to be taken seriously, don’t pretend to be humble and don’t call it an opinion.</p>
<p>Instead say, “Based on my experience…</p>
<p>Based on my research,</p>
<p>Based on my perspective</p>
<p> </p>
<p>If you offer value, there’s no reason to fake humble. If your message is valuable, don’t give it crutches by calling it humble.</p>
<p>Say what you mean and mean what you say.</p>
Beware of the weed words.
<p>Listen to these Weed Word Alerts every week. Then listen to the latest episode where we explore aspects of business communication skills.</p>
<p>George Torok</p>
<p>Watch the Weed Word videos</p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj'>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj</a></p>
<p>our host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[In my humble opinion
<p>When you hear this phrase what do you think? How do you feel about the speaker? Are you eager to hear a humble opinion?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Do you feel that they are truly humble? Do you believe that their opinion is valid? Do you prepare yourself for a less than humble opinion? Do you think, Who asked for your opinion?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>The words humble and opinion do not belong in the same sentence. Put them together and warning bells ring in our heads.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>When I hear this phrase, the question that pops up is “Are you expressing your opinion or are you pretending to be humble?”</p>
<p>If you are truly humble, why are you expressing your opinion? A humble person doesn’t express an opinion. They keep their mouth shut.</p>
<p>I imagine that your humbleness doesn’t compare to the Dalia Lama. He doesn’t claim to be humble. He simply is. If you are humble, you don’t need to say it. We will recognize your humbleness by the way you speak and treat others.</p>
<p>So your claim to being humble is … what’s the word I’m searching for… weak, false, phony – a lie.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>If you are humble why express your opinion?</p>
<p>If your opinion has value, why is it humble?</p>
<p>If your opinion is valid and is more than an opinion – why degrade it?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>What I find curious and revealing is that this phrase doesn’t suggest that you are humble, instead it’s only this particular opinion that is humble. Other opinions might not be humble.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>If your opinion is humble – don’t express it.</p>
<p>If you believe you must pretend to be humble because you don’t have faith in your opinion, shut up.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>If you want your opinion to be taken seriously, don’t pretend to be humble and don’t call it an opinion.</p>
<p>Instead say, “Based on my experience…</p>
<p>Based on my research,</p>
<p>Based on my perspective</p>
<p> </p>
<p>If you offer value, there’s no reason to fake humble. If your message is valuable, don’t give it crutches by calling it humble.</p>
<p>Say what you mean and mean what you say.</p>
Beware of the weed words.
<p>Listen to these Weed Word Alerts every week. Then listen to the latest episode where we explore aspects of business communication skills.</p>
<p>George Torok</p>
<p>Watch the Weed Word videos</p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj'>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj</a></p>
<p>our host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In my humble opinion
When you hear this phrase what do you think? How do you feel about the speaker? Are you eager to hear a humble opinion?
 
Do you feel that they are truly humble? Do you believe that their opinion is valid? Do you prepare yourself for a less than humble opinion? Do you think, Who asked for your opinion?
 
The words humble and opinion do not belong in the same sentence. Put them together and warning bells ring in our heads.
 
When I hear this phrase, the question that pops up is “Are you expressing your opinion or are you pretending to be humble?”
If you are truly humble, why are you expressing your opinion? A humble person doesn’t express an opinion. They keep their mouth shut.
I imagine that your humbleness doesn’t compare to the Dalia Lama. He doesn’t claim to be humble. He simply is. If you are humble, you don’t need to say it. We will recognize your humbleness by the way you speak and treat others.
So your claim to being humble is … what’s the word I’m searching for… weak, false, phony – a lie.
 
If you are humble why express your opinion?
If your opinion has value, why is it humble?
If your opinion is valid and is more than an opinion – why degrade it?
 
What I find curious and revealing is that this phrase doesn’t suggest that you are humble, instead it’s only this particular opinion that is humble. Other opinions might not be humble.
 
If your opinion is humble – don’t express it.
If you believe you must pretend to be humble because you don’t have faith in your opinion, shut up.
 
If you want your opinion to be taken seriously, don’t pretend to be humble and don’t call it an opinion.
Instead say, “Based on my experience…
Based on my research,
Based on my perspective
 
If you offer value, there’s no reason to fake humble. If your message is valuable, don’t give it crutches by calling it humble.
Say what you mean and mean what you say.
Beware of the weed words.
Listen to these Weed Word Alerts every week. Then listen to the latest episode where we explore aspects of business communication skills.
George Torok
Watch the Weed Word videos
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj
our host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[The mind of a scientist and the passion of an entrepreneur
How to get people to understand your message
<p>Episode 146 (Hasan in based in Munich, Germany)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Hasan Ibne Akram we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why does an engineer need to be a T shape communicator?</li>
<li>How does a scientist talk to investors and get the money?</li>
<li>How  engineers and scientists can communicate with business executives</li>
<li>Why is empathy critical to effective communication and less stress</li>
<li>How to develop your empathy as a skill set</li>
<li>Stories, analogies and authenticity oh my!</li>
<li>Managing your perspective to change your world</li>
</ul>
<p>About Hasan Akram:</p>
<p>Dr. Hasan is a serial entrepreneur. He is a computer scientist working in the domain of Autonomous Vehicle Safety. He is passionate about high performance.</p>
<p>He is the author of The Million Dollar Monk, which examines high performance.</p>
Train your brain to overcome brain burn-out and leverage more of your brain's power with the use of science-based training programs.
<p><a href='https://brainvincible.com/'>https://brainvincible.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Hasan Ibne Akram:</p>
<p>Another amazing person that I have really tried to learn from him, who is an amazing communicator, and a scientist Neil deGrasse Tyson.</p>
<p>Neil deGrasse, Tyson takes those concepts of physics, astrophysics, that you that only a handful of scientists will be able to read in their journals. And he sells it to everybody.</p>
<p>And that is an amazing way of communicating. The recent book that I'm almost done with, I'm about to publish is called a brief history of autonomous vehicle, because that's the domain I work in.</p>
<p>And I really try to follow Neil deGrasse Tyson, because the book is or everyone. And that's like communicating at that level. So that everybody understands, is really the name of the game.</p>
<p>Because there was one joke, somebody said that, you know, we have such a good professor coming in that he's so good that nobody will understand him.</p>
<p>But that's not a good professor, a good professor, is one that even the guests will understand everything.</p>
<p>Terrific reminder, interesting analogy. Yes, he's so good that no one will understand him. And that's not something that anyone wants to have said about themselves.</p>
<p>-----</p>
I have to also train my people, don't give me the details, I only need three numbers because there are like 2000 things on my table. If I go to the details, there's no way I can.
<p>-----</p>
<p>First. I would say empathize - empathy, empathy and empathy.</p>
<p>Empathy is really the key. Once you're able to empathize, the second part is if you're if you're a leader, you have to be precise.</p>
<p>And one very interesting thing that the difference between leader and a manager, your job is not to give a task of a leader.</p>
<p>A leaders job is to give a mission, and how can you articulate that mission and the vision with your team, and somehow li that mission and vision with their life mission and vision, using empathy?</p>
<p>That's the formula and a curious challenge for all leaders out there and definitely something worth working on.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[The mind of a scientist and the passion of an entrepreneur
How to get people to understand your message
<p>Episode 146 (Hasan in based in Munich, Germany)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Hasan Ibne Akram we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why does an engineer need to be a T shape communicator?</li>
<li>How does a scientist talk to investors and get the money?</li>
<li>How  engineers and scientists can communicate with business executives</li>
<li>Why is empathy critical to effective communication and less stress</li>
<li>How to develop your empathy as a skill set</li>
<li>Stories, analogies and authenticity oh my!</li>
<li>Managing your perspective to change your world</li>
</ul>
<p>About Hasan Akram:</p>
<p>Dr. Hasan is a serial entrepreneur. He is a computer scientist working in the domain of Autonomous Vehicle Safety. He is passionate about high performance.</p>
<p>He is the author of The Million Dollar Monk, which examines high performance.</p>
Train your brain to overcome brain burn-out and leverage more of your brain's power with the use of science-based training programs.
<p><a href='https://brainvincible.com/'>https://brainvincible.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Hasan Ibne Akram:</p>
<p>Another amazing person that I have really tried to learn from him, who is an amazing communicator, and a scientist Neil deGrasse Tyson.</p>
<p>Neil deGrasse, Tyson takes those concepts of physics, astrophysics, that you that only a handful of scientists will be able to read in their journals. And he sells it to everybody.</p>
<p>And that is an amazing way of communicating. The recent book that I'm almost done with, I'm about to publish is called a brief history of autonomous vehicle, because that's the domain I work in.</p>
<p>And I really try to follow Neil deGrasse Tyson, because the book is or everyone. And that's like communicating at that level. So that everybody understands, is really the name of the game.</p>
<p>Because there was one joke, somebody said that, you know, we have such a good professor coming in that he's so good that nobody will understand him.</p>
<p>But that's not a good professor, a good professor, is one that even the guests will understand everything.</p>
<p>Terrific reminder, interesting analogy. Yes, he's so good that no one will understand him. And that's not something that anyone wants to have said about themselves.</p>
<p>-----</p>
I have to also train my people, don't give me the details, I only need three numbers because there are like 2000 things on my table. If I go to the details, there's no way I can.
<p>-----</p>
<p>First. I would say empathize - empathy, empathy and empathy.</p>
<p>Empathy is really the key. Once you're able to empathize, the second part is if you're if you're a leader, you have to be precise.</p>
<p>And one very interesting thing that the difference between leader and a manager, your job is not to give a task of a leader.</p>
<p>A leaders job is to give a mission, and how can you articulate that mission and the vision with your team, and somehow li that mission and vision with their life mission and vision, using empathy?</p>
<p>That's the formula and a curious challenge for all leaders out there and definitely something worth working on.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The mind of a scientist and the passion of an entrepreneur
How to get people to understand your message
Episode 146 (Hasan in based in Munich, Germany)
In this conversation with Hasan Ibne Akram we explore:
Why does an engineer need to be a T shape communicator?
How does a scientist talk to investors and get the money?
How  engineers and scientists can communicate with business executives
Why is empathy critical to effective communication and less stress
How to develop your empathy as a skill set
Stories, analogies and authenticity oh my!
Managing your perspective to change your world
About Hasan Akram:
Dr. Hasan is a serial entrepreneur. He is a computer scientist working in the domain of Autonomous Vehicle Safety. He is passionate about high performance.
He is the author of The Million Dollar Monk, which examines high performance.
Train your brain to overcome brain burn-out and leverage more of your brain's power with the use of science-based training programs.
https://brainvincible.com/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Hasan Ibne Akram:
Another amazing person that I have really tried to learn from him, who is an amazing communicator, and a scientist Neil deGrasse Tyson.
Neil deGrasse, Tyson takes those concepts of physics, astrophysics, that you that only a handful of scientists will be able to read in their journals. And he sells it to everybody.
And that is an amazing way of communicating. The recent book that I'm almost done with, I'm about to publish is called a brief history of autonomous vehicle, because that's the domain I work in.
And I really try to follow Neil deGrasse Tyson, because the book is or everyone. And that's like communicating at that level. So that everybody understands, is really the name of the game.
Because there was one joke, somebody said that, you know, we have such a good professor coming in that he's so good that nobody will understand him.
But that's not a good professor, a good professor, is one that even the guests will understand everything.
Terrific reminder, interesting analogy. Yes, he's so good that no one will understand him. And that's not something that anyone wants to have said about themselves.
-----
I have to also train my people, don't give me the details, I only need three numbers because there are like 2000 things on my table. If I go to the details, there's no way I can.
-----
First. I would say empathize - empathy, empathy and empathy.
Empathy is really the key. Once you're able to empathize, the second part is if you're if you're a leader, you have to be precise.
And one very interesting thing that the difference between leader and a manager, your job is not to give a task of a leader.
A leaders job is to give a mission, and how can you articulate that mission and the vision with your team, and somehow li that mission and vision with their life mission and vision, using empathy?
That's the formula and a curious challenge for all leaders out there and definitely something worth working on.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit
https://toroktips.com/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[I just want to
<p>When the person starts their talk with this phrase, how do you feel?</p>
<p>Whose interest are they speaking to? You or themself?</p>
<p>Does this make you feel valued?</p>
<p>Not me!</p>
<p>Why would you care what the speaker wants?</p>
<p>Why would the speaker believe you care what they want?</p>
<p>What would you listen to what they want?</p>
<p>The speaker isn’t talking for your benefit but for their own purpose.</p>
<p>It’s about what they want.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>When you see this phrase in writing, often its proper English – I just want to</p>
<p>Notice there are three ts in that phrase.</p>
<p>What happens when the person speaks this phrase?</p>
<p>It mutates into I jus wanna</p>
<p>What was simply annoying, has become repulsive.</p>
<p>What happened to the letter t?</p>
<p>Why the street slang talk?</p>
<p>Why are they so lazy when speaking? Why is it so hard to enunciate the letter t?</p>
<p>I just wanna</p>
<p>How do you feel when you hear that phrase?</p>
<p>Do you feel special?</p>
<p>Do you feel that you are about to hear something profound?</p>
<p>Or are you already discounting what follows this gutter talk?</p>
<p>When I hear the word wanna – I’m reminded of guano. That’s bird poop.</p>
<p>The next time the speaker says, I jus wanna –</p>
<p>you might respond with “bird poop”. Now I know what you mean.</p>
<p>The easiest way to avoid sounding like poop, is to speak for the benefit of your listener and not for your self gratification.</p>
<p>We don’t care what you wanna.</p>
<p> </p>
Beware of the Weed Words.
<p>Listen to these Weed Word Alerts every week. Then listen to the latest episode where we explore aspects of business communication skills.</p>
<p>George Torok</p>
<p>Watch the Weed Word videos</p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj'>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>What are your suggestions for weed words?</p>
<p>Listen to these Weed Word Alerts every week. Then listen to the latest episode where we explore aspects of business communication skills.</p>
<p>George Torok</p>
<p>Watch the Weed Word videos</p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj'>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj</a></p>
<p>our host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[I just want to
<p>When the person starts their talk with this phrase, how do you feel?</p>
<p>Whose interest are they speaking to? You or themself?</p>
<p>Does this make you feel valued?</p>
<p>Not me!</p>
<p>Why would you care what the speaker wants?</p>
<p>Why would the speaker believe you care what they want?</p>
<p>What would you listen to what they want?</p>
<p>The speaker isn’t talking for your benefit but for their own purpose.</p>
<p>It’s about what they want.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>When you see this phrase in writing, often its proper English – I just want to</p>
<p>Notice there are three ts in that phrase.</p>
<p>What happens when the person speaks this phrase?</p>
<p>It mutates into I jus wanna</p>
<p>What was simply annoying, has become repulsive.</p>
<p>What happened to the letter t?</p>
<p>Why the street slang talk?</p>
<p>Why are they so lazy when speaking? Why is it so hard to enunciate the letter t?</p>
<p>I just wanna</p>
<p>How do you feel when you hear that phrase?</p>
<p>Do you feel special?</p>
<p>Do you feel that you are about to hear something profound?</p>
<p>Or are you already discounting what follows this gutter talk?</p>
<p>When I hear the word wanna – I’m reminded of guano. That’s bird poop.</p>
<p>The next time the speaker says, I jus wanna –</p>
<p>you might respond with “bird poop”. Now I know what you mean.</p>
<p>The easiest way to avoid sounding like poop, is to speak for the benefit of your listener and not for your self gratification.</p>
<p>We don’t care what you wanna.</p>
<p> </p>
Beware of the Weed Words.
<p>Listen to these Weed Word Alerts every week. Then listen to the latest episode where we explore aspects of business communication skills.</p>
<p>George Torok</p>
<p>Watch the Weed Word videos</p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj'>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>What are your suggestions for weed words?</p>
<p>Listen to these Weed Word Alerts every week. Then listen to the latest episode where we explore aspects of business communication skills.</p>
<p>George Torok</p>
<p>Watch the Weed Word videos</p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj'>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj</a></p>
<p>our host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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When the person starts their talk with this phrase, how do you feel?
Whose interest are they speaking to? You or themself?
Does this make you feel valued?
Not me!
Why would you care what the speaker wants?
Why would the speaker believe you care what they want?
What would you listen to what they want?
The speaker isn’t talking for your benefit but for their own purpose.
It’s about what they want.
 
When you see this phrase in writing, often its proper English – I just want to
Notice there are three ts in that phrase.
What happens when the person speaks this phrase?
It mutates into I jus wanna
What was simply annoying, has become repulsive.
What happened to the letter t?
Why the street slang talk?
Why are they so lazy when speaking? Why is it so hard to enunciate the letter t?
I just wanna
How do you feel when you hear that phrase?
Do you feel special?
Do you feel that you are about to hear something profound?
Or are you already discounting what follows this gutter talk?
When I hear the word wanna – I’m reminded of guano. That’s bird poop.
The next time the speaker says, I jus wanna –
you might respond with “bird poop”. Now I know what you mean.
The easiest way to avoid sounding like poop, is to speak for the benefit of your listener and not for your self gratification.
We don’t care what you wanna.
 
Beware of the Weed Words.
Listen to these Weed Word Alerts every week. Then listen to the latest episode where we explore aspects of business communication skills.
George Torok
Watch the Weed Word videos
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj
 
What are your suggestions for weed words?
Listen to these Weed Word Alerts every week. Then listen to the latest episode where we explore aspects of business communication skills.
George Torok
Watch the Weed Word videos
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj
our host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Why is sustainable leadership critical to team success?
What is the science of effective leadership?
<p>Episode 144 (Niels is based in London, England)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Niels Brabrandt, we explored:</p>
<ul><li>What is the science behind effective leadership?</li>
<li>Why leaders must discard silly motivation phrases</li>
<li>What are the tools of sustainable leadership and hence sustainable teams</li>
<li>What is the difference between transactional and transformational world?</li>
<li>Why is the role of an opinion critical to the team?</li>
<li>How to lead in the hybrid workplace</li>
</ul>
<p>About Niels Brabandt:</p>
<p>He successfully built and sold a business, so he speaks from real-world experience regarding leadership.</p>
<p>Unlike others, he did the scientific research on leadership which means that he has proof and evidence for his claims.</p>
<p>Niels not only practiced leadership in business but also in sports: he was a professional football (soccer) referee for decades.</p>
<p>Learn more about Niels and his programs at</p>
<p><a href='http://www.nb-networks.com/'>http://www.nb-networks.com/</a></p>
<p>Connect with Niels at</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/nielsbrabandt/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/nielsbrabandt/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Niels Brabandt:</p>
<p>Yeah, sustainable teams are part of that definitely a different team phase, which are probably known however, many people only connect sustainability to aspects like the environment or recycling and that is not the only aspect we need to talk about.</p>
<p>It's about employee retention. It is about focusing on your employees. But most importantly, we need people who know their craft, do a podcast as you do here without doing the research, how to do the tech how to do the audio, the video, the lighting, however, we often have people who became leaders basically either because someone else quit and they were promoted, or someone else thought they are a good leader and they will just pick or unfortunately quite often based on their network.</p>
<p>I don't want to pull out cronyism and nepotism here however in many cases people became leader because other people said I like you I know you and here you are with your leadership job if you do not know the scientific background if you do not know the tools, and I do not mean opinions.</p>
<p>I mean proper scientifically proven tools if you do not know them, there's no chance you can be a good leader some people have a bit more talent maybe a bit more empathy, a bit more approach to it naturally but that will not work in the long run.</p>
<p>You still need the proper tools and scientific evidence tells you if something works or not. No motivational or inspirational one line ever paid the rent or made a team go the extra mile for longer than probably 24 hours.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>The leader has to figure out because sometimes people don't know about these concepts, transactional transformation, and they don't have to know it's the leaders job to know that they have to figure out who in my team is transactional, who in my team is transformational.</p>
<p>Because we have a certain effect, which unfortunately, effect recruiting, people like to recruit people who are exactly like themselves. It's called isomorphism, ISO Greek for equal more for parents.</p>
<p>So when someone is exactly like you, you prefer to work together with them. However, when you are a transformational leader, you have a transactional job to give away, you hire a person who prefers to work transformation, because they are just like you.</p>
<p>They probably quit within the first couple of months, because they will say, look, I was looking for something where I have time on my own, and I can decide and steer people and lead people, you basically gave me a repetitive task to do every single day that's complete.</p>
<p>So it's very important, the leader has to figure out who is transactional, and who is transformational.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Why is sustainable leadership critical to team success?
What is the science of effective leadership?
<p>Episode 144 (Niels is based in London, England)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Niels Brabrandt, we explored:</p>
<ul><li>What is the science behind effective leadership?</li>
<li>Why leaders must discard silly motivation phrases</li>
<li>What are the tools of sustainable leadership and hence sustainable teams</li>
<li>What is the difference between transactional and transformational world?</li>
<li>Why is the role of an opinion critical to the team?</li>
<li>How to lead in the hybrid workplace</li>
</ul>
<p>About Niels Brabandt:</p>
<p>He successfully built and sold a business, so he speaks from real-world experience regarding leadership.</p>
<p>Unlike others, he did the scientific research on leadership which means that he has proof and evidence for his claims.</p>
<p>Niels not only practiced leadership in business but also in sports: he was a professional football (soccer) referee for decades.</p>
<p>Learn more about Niels and his programs at</p>
<p><a href='http://www.nb-networks.com/'>http://www.nb-networks.com/</a></p>
<p>Connect with Niels at</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/nielsbrabandt/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/nielsbrabandt/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Niels Brabandt:</p>
<p>Yeah, sustainable teams are part of that definitely a different team phase, which are probably known however, many people only connect sustainability to aspects like the environment or recycling and that is not the only aspect we need to talk about.</p>
<p>It's about employee retention. It is about focusing on your employees. But most importantly, we need people who know their craft, do a podcast as you do here without doing the research, how to do the tech how to do the audio, the video, the lighting, however, we often have people who became leaders basically either because someone else quit and they were promoted, or someone else thought they are a good leader and they will just pick or unfortunately quite often based on their network.</p>
<p>I don't want to pull out cronyism and nepotism here however in many cases people became leader because other people said I like you I know you and here you are with your leadership job if you do not know the scientific background if you do not know the tools, and I do not mean opinions.</p>
<p>I mean proper scientifically proven tools if you do not know them, there's no chance you can be a good leader some people have a bit more talent maybe a bit more empathy, a bit more approach to it naturally but that will not work in the long run.</p>
<p>You still need the proper tools and scientific evidence tells you if something works or not. No motivational or inspirational one line ever paid the rent or made a team go the extra mile for longer than probably 24 hours.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>The leader has to figure out because sometimes people don't know about these concepts, transactional transformation, and they don't have to know it's the leaders job to know that they have to figure out who in my team is transactional, who in my team is transformational.</p>
<p>Because we have a certain effect, which unfortunately, effect recruiting, people like to recruit people who are exactly like themselves. It's called isomorphism, ISO Greek for equal more for parents.</p>
<p>So when someone is exactly like you, you prefer to work together with them. However, when you are a transformational leader, you have a transactional job to give away, you hire a person who prefers to work transformation, because they are just like you.</p>
<p>They probably quit within the first couple of months, because they will say, look, I was looking for something where I have time on my own, and I can decide and steer people and lead people, you basically gave me a repetitive task to do every single day that's complete.</p>
<p>So it's very important, the leader has to figure out who is transactional, and who is transformational.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why is sustainable leadership critical to team success?
What is the science of effective leadership?
Episode 144 (Niels is based in London, England)
In this conversation with Niels Brabrandt, we explored:
What is the science behind effective leadership?
Why leaders must discard silly motivation phrases
What are the tools of sustainable leadership and hence sustainable teams
What is the difference between transactional and transformational world?
Why is the role of an opinion critical to the team?
How to lead in the hybrid workplace
About Niels Brabandt:
He successfully built and sold a business, so he speaks from real-world experience regarding leadership.
Unlike others, he did the scientific research on leadership which means that he has proof and evidence for his claims.
Niels not only practiced leadership in business but also in sports: he was a professional football (soccer) referee for decades.
Learn more about Niels and his programs at
http://www.nb-networks.com/
Connect with Niels at
https://www.linkedin.com/in/nielsbrabandt/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Niels Brabandt:
Yeah, sustainable teams are part of that definitely a different team phase, which are probably known however, many people only connect sustainability to aspects like the environment or recycling and that is not the only aspect we need to talk about.
It's about employee retention. It is about focusing on your employees. But most importantly, we need people who know their craft, do a podcast as you do here without doing the research, how to do the tech how to do the audio, the video, the lighting, however, we often have people who became leaders basically either because someone else quit and they were promoted, or someone else thought they are a good leader and they will just pick or unfortunately quite often based on their network.
I don't want to pull out cronyism and nepotism here however in many cases people became leader because other people said I like you I know you and here you are with your leadership job if you do not know the scientific background if you do not know the tools, and I do not mean opinions.
I mean proper scientifically proven tools if you do not know them, there's no chance you can be a good leader some people have a bit more talent maybe a bit more empathy, a bit more approach to it naturally but that will not work in the long run.
You still need the proper tools and scientific evidence tells you if something works or not. No motivational or inspirational one line ever paid the rent or made a team go the extra mile for longer than probably 24 hours.
-----
The leader has to figure out because sometimes people don't know about these concepts, transactional transformation, and they don't have to know it's the leaders job to know that they have to figure out who in my team is transactional, who in my team is transformational.
Because we have a certain effect, which unfortunately, effect recruiting, people like to recruit people who are exactly like themselves. It's called isomorphism, ISO Greek for equal more for parents.
So when someone is exactly like you, you prefer to work together with them. However, when you are a transformational leader, you have a transactional job to give away, you hire a person who prefers to work transformation, because they are just like you.
They probably quit within the first couple of months, because they will say, look, I was looking for something where I have time on my own, and I can decide and steer people and lead people, you basically gave me a repetitive task to do every single day that's complete.
So it's very important, the leader has to figure out who is transactional, and who is transformational.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and p]]></itunes:summary>
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        <title>Weed Words: introduction to these Weed Word Alerts</title>
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                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/weed-words-introduction-to-these-weed-word-alerts/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Tue, 18 Apr 2023 11:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to this series of mini reports about the words that can sabotage your intended message.</p>
<p>We expose the Weed Words that get in the way of your message. Listen in to learn about these rascals and how to avoid these mistakes.</p>
<p>These alert will usually be less than two minutes yet offer value tips in a fun way.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Are you talking to me?</p>
<p>Are you talking to me?</p>
<p>Did you want me to listen to what you say?</p>
<p>If you want me to listen, then say something worthwhile.</p>
<p>Do you want me to listen to every word or only the important words? How will I know the difference?</p>
<p>Will you deliver a clear message – the one that you intend to deliver?</p>
<p>Or might you obscure it with words that confuse, clutter and cloud your intended message?</p>
<p>How hard are you going to make me work to decipher your message?</p>
<p>Are you going to speak and then say, Well, you know what I mean?</p>
<p>No, I don’t. I only know what I believe I heard.</p>
<p>Did you consider that my perception of your message might be vastly different from your intended message?</p>
<p>Why might that be? Perhaps you peppered your speaking with filler words, trigger words or vague words.</p>
<p>Did you speak in code, slang or sloppy language?</p>
<p>We are judged by how our message is perceived. The core of our message is in the words we use. Those words can reinforce our message or choke it like weeds.</p>
<p>What are those Weed Words that you need to avoid? Listen to my posts so you can become aware of those weed words.</p>
<p>Imagine the difference when people listen to and appreciate all your words.</p>
<p>When you speak, deliver a clear and powerful message without the weed words.</p>
<p>Listen to these Weed Word Alerts every week. Then listen to the latest episode where we explore aspects of business communication skills.</p>
<p>George Torok</p>
<p>Watch the Weed Word videos</p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj'>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj</a></p>
<p>our host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to this series of mini reports about the words that can sabotage your intended message.</p>
<p>We expose the Weed Words that get in the way of your message. Listen in to learn about these rascals and how to avoid these mistakes.</p>
<p>These alert will usually be less than two minutes yet offer value tips in a fun way.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Are you talking to me?</p>
<p>Are you talking to me?</p>
<p>Did you want me to listen to what you say?</p>
<p>If you want me to listen, then say something worthwhile.</p>
<p>Do you want me to listen to every word or only the important words? How will I know the difference?</p>
<p>Will you deliver a clear message – the one that you intend to deliver?</p>
<p>Or might you obscure it with words that confuse, clutter and cloud your intended message?</p>
<p>How hard are you going to make me work to decipher your message?</p>
<p>Are you going to speak and then say, Well, you know what I mean?</p>
<p>No, I don’t. I only know what I believe I heard.</p>
<p>Did you consider that my perception of your message might be vastly different from your intended message?</p>
<p>Why might that be? Perhaps you peppered your speaking with filler words, trigger words or vague words.</p>
<p>Did you speak in code, slang or sloppy language?</p>
<p>We are judged by how our message is perceived. The core of our message is in the words we use. Those words can reinforce our message or choke it like weeds.</p>
<p>What are those Weed Words that you need to avoid? Listen to my posts so you can become aware of those weed words.</p>
<p>Imagine the difference when people listen to and appreciate all your words.</p>
<p>When you speak, deliver a clear and powerful message without the weed words.</p>
<p>Listen to these Weed Word Alerts every week. Then listen to the latest episode where we explore aspects of business communication skills.</p>
<p>George Torok</p>
<p>Watch the Weed Word videos</p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj'>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj</a></p>
<p>our host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to this series of mini reports about the words that can sabotage your intended message.
We expose the Weed Words that get in the way of your message. Listen in to learn about these rascals and how to avoid these mistakes.
These alert will usually be less than two minutes yet offer value tips in a fun way.
-----
Are you talking to me?
Are you talking to me?
Did you want me to listen to what you say?
If you want me to listen, then say something worthwhile.
Do you want me to listen to every word or only the important words? How will I know the difference?
Will you deliver a clear message – the one that you intend to deliver?
Or might you obscure it with words that confuse, clutter and cloud your intended message?
How hard are you going to make me work to decipher your message?
Are you going to speak and then say, Well, you know what I mean?
No, I don’t. I only know what I believe I heard.
Did you consider that my perception of your message might be vastly different from your intended message?
Why might that be? Perhaps you peppered your speaking with filler words, trigger words or vague words.
Did you speak in code, slang or sloppy language?
We are judged by how our message is perceived. The core of our message is in the words we use. Those words can reinforce our message or choke it like weeds.
What are those Weed Words that you need to avoid? Listen to my posts so you can become aware of those weed words.
Imagine the difference when people listen to and appreciate all your words.
When you speak, deliver a clear and powerful message without the weed words.
Listen to these Weed Word Alerts every week. Then listen to the latest episode where we explore aspects of business communication skills.
George Torok
Watch the Weed Word videos
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ahi1kt3n4g0&list=PLE0OVNUcJBI7KHEm4YyhhNQLuo10hUzjj
our host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
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        <title>Workplace Engagement: Paul ter Wal</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Are you ready to better engage your workplace team?
What are the benefits of better engagement in the workplace?
<p>Episode 142 (Paul is based in the Netherlands)</p>
<ul><li>How workplace engagement contributes to profitability</li>
<li>Why core values and non-negotiables become more relevant</li>
<li>Why leaders need to become better listeners</li>
<li>How the pandemic and younger generations are reshaping the workplace</li>
<li>Why people need a direction and purpose</li>
<li>What's more important than money</li>
<li>Why alignment is critical and how to create it.</li>
</ul>
<p>About Paul ter Wal:</p>
<p>Paul says that core values are non-negotiable for Gen Y & Z.</p>
<p>Paul was President of the Global Speakers Federation in 2019-2020 and learned how to create stronger belonging via the internet.</p>
<p>Take the employee engagement survey - no charge</p>
<p><a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fteam-andare.com%2Femployee-engagement-survey&data=05%7C01%7C%7C6595d5cd563f4f01ba5108db1e4e981b%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638137095168325356%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C3000%7C%7C%7C&sdata=IZK8y9CChvyP3rHsrS53s8p%2BihNjzTteu%2FOE3cBKJSQ%3D&reserved=0'>https://team-andare.com/employee-engagement-survey</a> </p>
<p>See how you think your team is doing.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/paulterwal'>https://www.youtube.com/user/paulterwal</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Paul ter Wal</p>
<p> </p>
<p>You know your own core values, know your own non negotiables? Who are you? What are you standing for, then be sure that you are aligned with the core values, the mission and vision of the organization. Because that's the base. Walk your talk. If you can't walk the talk of the organization, you can't be a good leader.</p>
<p>-----</p>
The advantages of having engaged employees are very important for profitability. So it's no longer Well, if you don't like it anymore, go away, we will find somebody else. Now the employer has to work on engagement to get the retention.
<p>-----</p>
<p>Simon Sinek and Aristotle told us a long time ago that you need to find your why.</p>
<p>And I think younger people are much more aware of the question.</p>
<p>Why am I doing what I'm doing? Is that what really gets me fun? So yeah, it's it's not that they don't like the money.</p>
<p>But it was for a long time, the absolute number one, work hard, be successful be ribs.</p>
<p>Now it is seeking purpose, work hard, and maybe you will be successful. So what we teach older employees and older people thought after fighting wars, that we said, well, we need well being we need more money, we want to have more material.</p>
<p>They have it all. They have a car, they're have a house. So then the only stuff is not in material is not a money. It's more in why am I doing this? What is what is my purpose in life.</p>
<p>And I think that change too, because we became less religious, less connected to Protestant, Roman, Catholic, Anglican, communist socialist, we add those core values that were put upon us, by others in church or whatever, that's gone, especially in Europe.</p>
<p>It's gone. You need to find your own why. And I think that's one of the reasons that a lot of younger people have mental issues as well. They are looking for, why am I doing what I'm doing?</p>
<p>What is my purpose in life? Why am I here? And normally, the priest or the vicar will tell you why you were here. I think over the years spotted the genius at still now that changed. And that's what I see. I'm becoming much more aware of it.</p>
<p>That suddenly we want to know what our core values as negotiables are. And then it's Our individual core values. And that is connecting to your why.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Are you ready to better engage your workplace team?
What are the benefits of better engagement in the workplace?
<p>Episode 142 (Paul is based in the Netherlands)</p>
<ul><li>How workplace engagement contributes to profitability</li>
<li>Why core values and non-negotiables become more relevant</li>
<li>Why leaders need to become better listeners</li>
<li>How the pandemic and younger generations are reshaping the workplace</li>
<li>Why people need a direction and purpose</li>
<li>What's more important than money</li>
<li>Why alignment is critical and how to create it.</li>
</ul>
<p>About Paul ter Wal:</p>
<p>Paul says that core values are non-negotiable for Gen Y & Z.</p>
<p>Paul was President of the Global Speakers Federation in 2019-2020 and learned how to create stronger belonging via the internet.</p>
<p>Take the employee engagement survey - no charge</p>
<p><a href='https://na01.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fteam-andare.com%2Femployee-engagement-survey&data=05%7C01%7C%7C6595d5cd563f4f01ba5108db1e4e981b%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C638137095168325356%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C3000%7C%7C%7C&sdata=IZK8y9CChvyP3rHsrS53s8p%2BihNjzTteu%2FOE3cBKJSQ%3D&reserved=0'>https://team-andare.com/employee-engagement-survey</a> </p>
<p>See how you think your team is doing.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/paulterwal'>https://www.youtube.com/user/paulterwal</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Paul ter Wal</p>
<p> </p>
<p>You know your own core values, know your own non negotiables? Who are you? What are you standing for, then be sure that you are aligned with the core values, the mission and vision of the organization. Because that's the base. Walk your talk. If you can't walk the talk of the organization, you can't be a good leader.</p>
<p>-----</p>
The advantages of having engaged employees are very important for profitability. So it's no longer Well, if you don't like it anymore, go away, we will find somebody else. Now the employer has to work on engagement to get the retention.
<p>-----</p>
<p>Simon Sinek and Aristotle told us a long time ago that you need to find your why.</p>
<p>And I think younger people are much more aware of the question.</p>
<p>Why am I doing what I'm doing? Is that what really gets me fun? So yeah, it's it's not that they don't like the money.</p>
<p>But it was for a long time, the absolute number one, work hard, be successful be ribs.</p>
<p>Now it is seeking purpose, work hard, and maybe you will be successful. So what we teach older employees and older people thought after fighting wars, that we said, well, we need well being we need more money, we want to have more material.</p>
<p>They have it all. They have a car, they're have a house. So then the only stuff is not in material is not a money. It's more in why am I doing this? What is what is my purpose in life.</p>
<p>And I think that change too, because we became less religious, less connected to Protestant, Roman, Catholic, Anglican, communist socialist, we add those core values that were put upon us, by others in church or whatever, that's gone, especially in Europe.</p>
<p>It's gone. You need to find your own why. And I think that's one of the reasons that a lot of younger people have mental issues as well. They are looking for, why am I doing what I'm doing?</p>
<p>What is my purpose in life? Why am I here? And normally, the priest or the vicar will tell you why you were here. I think over the years spotted the genius at still now that changed. And that's what I see. I'm becoming much more aware of it.</p>
<p>That suddenly we want to know what our core values as negotiables are. And then it's Our individual core values. And that is connecting to your why.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you ready to better engage your workplace team?
What are the benefits of better engagement in the workplace?
Episode 142 (Paul is based in the Netherlands)
How workplace engagement contributes to profitability
Why core values and non-negotiables become more relevant
Why leaders need to become better listeners
How the pandemic and younger generations are reshaping the workplace
Why people need a direction and purpose
What's more important than money
Why alignment is critical and how to create it.
About Paul ter Wal:
Paul says that core values are non-negotiable for Gen Y & Z.
Paul was President of the Global Speakers Federation in 2019-2020 and learned how to create stronger belonging via the internet.
Take the employee engagement survey - no charge
https://team-andare.com/employee-engagement-survey 
See how you think your team is doing.
https://www.youtube.com/user/paulterwal

-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Paul ter Wal
 
You know your own core values, know your own non negotiables? Who are you? What are you standing for, then be sure that you are aligned with the core values, the mission and vision of the organization. Because that's the base. Walk your talk. If you can't walk the talk of the organization, you can't be a good leader.
-----
The advantages of having engaged employees are very important for profitability. So it's no longer Well, if you don't like it anymore, go away, we will find somebody else. Now the employer has to work on engagement to get the retention.
-----
Simon Sinek and Aristotle told us a long time ago that you need to find your why.
And I think younger people are much more aware of the question.
Why am I doing what I'm doing? Is that what really gets me fun? So yeah, it's it's not that they don't like the money.
But it was for a long time, the absolute number one, work hard, be successful be ribs.
Now it is seeking purpose, work hard, and maybe you will be successful. So what we teach older employees and older people thought after fighting wars, that we said, well, we need well being we need more money, we want to have more material.
They have it all. They have a car, they're have a house. So then the only stuff is not in material is not a money. It's more in why am I doing this? What is what is my purpose in life.
And I think that change too, because we became less religious, less connected to Protestant, Roman, Catholic, Anglican, communist socialist, we add those core values that were put upon us, by others in church or whatever, that's gone, especially in Europe.
It's gone. You need to find your own why. And I think that's one of the reasons that a lot of younger people have mental issues as well. They are looking for, why am I doing what I'm doing?
What is my purpose in life? Why am I here? And normally, the priest or the vicar will tell you why you were here. I think over the years spotted the genius at still now that changed. And that's what I see. I'm becoming much more aware of it.
That suddenly we want to know what our core values as negotiables are. And then it's Our individual core values. And that is connecting to your why.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit
https://toroktips.com/
 
 
 
 
 
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to participate in more productive conversation
What must you do in the first minute?
<p>Episode 141 (Chris is based in The Netherlands)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Chris Fenning we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to structure your conversation before you speak</li>
<li>How to clarify the conversation in your head from the spoken one</li>
<li>The three step GPS model to frame your conversation like a story</li>
<li>Why you might need to zoom in and out when discussing details</li>
<li>How to use the validation checkpoint to ensure interest and timing</li>
<li>Recognize the danger of your assumptions</li>
</ul>
<p>About Chris Fenning:</p>
<p>Chris has written several books on business communication, including his latest, The First Minute.</p>
<p>Organizations that he teaches at include Google, Pepsi and NATO.</p>
<p>Chris has a goal to give away one million communication skills books to students around the world to help them prepare for careers in business.</p>
<p>Learn more about Chris Fenning, his products and services at his website:</p>
<p><a href='https://www.chrisfenning.com/'>https://www.chrisfenning.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.chrisfenning.com/books/'></a></p>
<p>Check out his book, The First Minute</p>
<p><a href='https://www.chrisfenning.com/books/'>https://www.chrisfenning.com/books/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Chris Fenning</p>
<p> </p>
We start at the beginning in our heads. And then we start talking, we're already partway through the chain of though. So the conversation begins in the detail.
<p>-----</p>
<p>01:58</p>
<p>The first minute is a practical how to guide for how to be clear and concise when you start communicating verbally or written.</p>
<p>It's about planning and delivering that first minute of a corridor conversation, rather than meeting of an email, or chat or a meeting that you've got with your boss.</p>
<p>So how to structure that message so that you get to the point, make your intentions clear, which ties in nicely with your intended message, because it's all about making sure your intended message comes across clearly and concisely. And really make sense to the person or people that you're talking to.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>30:20</p>
<p>There's a summary of some of what I've  said. and it's, it's this, never assume your team knows what you're talking about.</p>
<p>All the things we've talked about today about assuming people understand the context of the topic, or I thought my intention was clear, I didn't maybe not exactly say it, but it was obvious what I meant.</p>
<p>All of those things. Never assume the team knows, always start from the beginning of the story. And do that zoom out.</p>
<p>So never assume that they know the context. Never assume they know the intent, make it clear why saying it.</p>
<p>Here's the topic we're going to going to talk about, here's why I'm talking to you about it. You need to take action, you need to listen to this information and work out if it impacts you.</p>
<p>Those sorts of things should be explicitly stated. And that by itself will remove a lot of frustration in teams, particularly the conversations that end up having Well you never You never asked me to do it. Yes, I did. I told you about this situation.</p>
<p>Well, you guessed but you've never told me that back and forth. Get really explicit. Never assume. Always. state very clearly.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to participate in more productive conversation
What must you do in the first minute?
<p>Episode 141 (Chris is based in The Netherlands)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Chris Fenning we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to structure your conversation before you speak</li>
<li>How to clarify the conversation in your head from the spoken one</li>
<li>The three step GPS model to frame your conversation like a story</li>
<li>Why you might need to zoom in and out when discussing details</li>
<li>How to use the validation checkpoint to ensure interest and timing</li>
<li>Recognize the danger of your assumptions</li>
</ul>
<p>About Chris Fenning:</p>
<p>Chris has written several books on business communication, including his latest, The First Minute.</p>
<p>Organizations that he teaches at include Google, Pepsi and NATO.</p>
<p>Chris has a goal to give away one million communication skills books to students around the world to help them prepare for careers in business.</p>
<p>Learn more about Chris Fenning, his products and services at his website:</p>
<p><a href='https://www.chrisfenning.com/'>https://www.chrisfenning.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.chrisfenning.com/books/'></a></p>
<p>Check out his book, The First Minute</p>
<p><a href='https://www.chrisfenning.com/books/'>https://www.chrisfenning.com/books/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Chris Fenning</p>
<p> </p>
We start at the beginning in our heads. And then we start talking, we're already partway through the chain of though. So the conversation begins in the detail.
<p>-----</p>
<p>01:58</p>
<p>The first minute is a practical how to guide for how to be clear and concise when you start communicating verbally or written.</p>
<p>It's about planning and delivering that first minute of a corridor conversation, rather than meeting of an email, or chat or a meeting that you've got with your boss.</p>
<p>So how to structure that message so that you get to the point, make your intentions clear, which ties in nicely with your intended message, because it's all about making sure your intended message comes across clearly and concisely. And really make sense to the person or people that you're talking to.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>30:20</p>
<p>There's a summary of some of what I've  said. and it's, it's this, never assume your team knows what you're talking about.</p>
<p>All the things we've talked about today about assuming people understand the context of the topic, or I thought my intention was clear, I didn't maybe not exactly say it, but it was obvious what I meant.</p>
<p>All of those things. Never assume the team knows, always start from the beginning of the story. And do that zoom out.</p>
<p>So never assume that they know the context. Never assume they know the intent, make it clear why saying it.</p>
<p>Here's the topic we're going to going to talk about, here's why I'm talking to you about it. You need to take action, you need to listen to this information and work out if it impacts you.</p>
<p>Those sorts of things should be explicitly stated. And that by itself will remove a lot of frustration in teams, particularly the conversations that end up having Well you never You never asked me to do it. Yes, I did. I told you about this situation.</p>
<p>Well, you guessed but you've never told me that back and forth. Get really explicit. Never assume. Always. state very clearly.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to participate in more productive conversation
What must you do in the first minute?
Episode 141 (Chris is based in The Netherlands)
In this conversation with Chris Fenning we explore:
How to structure your conversation before you speak
How to clarify the conversation in your head from the spoken one
The three step GPS model to frame your conversation like a story
Why you might need to zoom in and out when discussing details
How to use the validation checkpoint to ensure interest and timing
Recognize the danger of your assumptions
About Chris Fenning:
Chris has written several books on business communication, including his latest, The First Minute.
Organizations that he teaches at include Google, Pepsi and NATO.
Chris has a goal to give away one million communication skills books to students around the world to help them prepare for careers in business.
Learn more about Chris Fenning, his products and services at his website:
https://www.chrisfenning.com/

Check out his book, The First Minute
https://www.chrisfenning.com/books/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Chris Fenning
 
We start at the beginning in our heads. And then we start talking, we're already partway through the chain of though. So the conversation begins in the detail.
-----
01:58
The first minute is a practical how to guide for how to be clear and concise when you start communicating verbally or written.
It's about planning and delivering that first minute of a corridor conversation, rather than meeting of an email, or chat or a meeting that you've got with your boss.
So how to structure that message so that you get to the point, make your intentions clear, which ties in nicely with your intended message, because it's all about making sure your intended message comes across clearly and concisely. And really make sense to the person or people that you're talking to.
-----
30:20
There's a summary of some of what I've  said. and it's, it's this, never assume your team knows what you're talking about.
All the things we've talked about today about assuming people understand the context of the topic, or I thought my intention was clear, I didn't maybe not exactly say it, but it was obvious what I meant.
All of those things. Never assume the team knows, always start from the beginning of the story. And do that zoom out.
So never assume that they know the context. Never assume they know the intent, make it clear why saying it.
Here's the topic we're going to going to talk about, here's why I'm talking to you about it. You need to take action, you need to listen to this information and work out if it impacts you.
Those sorts of things should be explicitly stated. And that by itself will remove a lot of frustration in teams, particularly the conversations that end up having Well you never You never asked me to do it. Yes, I did. I told you about this situation.
Well, you guessed but you've never told me that back and forth. Get really explicit. Never assume. Always. state very clearly.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit
https://toroktips.com/
 
 
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        <title>Ace that job interview: Fatemah Mirza</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to prepare for that critical job interview
Prepare for the standard and the unexpected questions
<p>Episode 140 (Fatemah is based in Los Angeles, California)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Fatemah Mirza we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to feel more comfortable with job interviews</li>
<li>How to address those standard questions</li>
<li>What "tell me about yourself" really means</li>
<li>How to mitigate your red flags and time gaps</li>
<li>How to tell enough without telling all</li>
<li>Testing the fit between your personality and their culture</li>
</ul>
<p>About Fatemah Mirza:</p>
<p>Fatemah started CareerTuners in 2010, through which she helps ambitious job seekers find, apply for and get higher-paying, more fulfilling jobs.</p>
<p>She helps job seekers take control of their job search. There are free resources about resume writing, Linkedin, salary negotiation and interviewing on the website.</p>
<p><a href='https://careertuners.com/podcast/'>https://careertuners.com/podcast/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Fatemah Mirza</p>
<p>The interview process itself is a key part of that. And that's something that a lot of people approach with, with trepidation. They're quite nervous, and they don't necessarily perform well. Why do you think they suffer so so greatly in an interview situation?</p>
<p>I think it's because you're putting yourself worth on the line. And that's really difficult for a lot of people, you're asking to be judged. And that's not fun. But if that's something you're struggling with, I recommend going out there and interviewing with companies that you just don't even want to work with. This will give you practice, you can even practice negotiating with them.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>I always wondered about the question. "Tell me about yourself". And I used to think that that was a lazy question. But then later I realized it's actually a brilliant question because people tend to answer it poorly. What did they do wrong? What should they do instead?</p>
<p>I think people tend to focus too much on themselves and their history as opposed to contextualize in what they've done to whatever the job is hiring for.</p>
<p>Transitions are so common now like transitioning from one field to another. So focusing too much on the field that you're trying to leave is not a good idea.</p>
<p>Even in that question. Tell me about yourself. You have to talk about, basically give the interviewer this message that I am the exact right fit for this position. I've been working towards this position my entire career history.</p>
<p>I have the adequate training for this position and I know the hard work that it's going to take for me to succeed in that position.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>You should ideally try to keep your answers to one to two minutes, you want to give the interviewer a chance to kind of mentally reset, because if you keep talking for too long, they might get disengaged, they only have a very limited attention span.</p>
<p>One to two minutes is about five to 10 sentences. And if you're like man, I'm really like short selling myself. I should be talking more about this once in a while. It's okay for one of your answers to be a little bit longer.</p>
I could talk more about this if you like
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to prepare for that critical job interview
Prepare for the standard and the unexpected questions
<p>Episode 140 (Fatemah is based in Los Angeles, California)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Fatemah Mirza we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to feel more comfortable with job interviews</li>
<li>How to address those standard questions</li>
<li>What "tell me about yourself" really means</li>
<li>How to mitigate your red flags and time gaps</li>
<li>How to tell enough without telling all</li>
<li>Testing the fit between your personality and their culture</li>
</ul>
<p>About Fatemah Mirza:</p>
<p>Fatemah started CareerTuners in 2010, through which she helps ambitious job seekers find, apply for and get higher-paying, more fulfilling jobs.</p>
<p>She helps job seekers take control of their job search. There are free resources about resume writing, Linkedin, salary negotiation and interviewing on the website.</p>
<p><a href='https://careertuners.com/podcast/'>https://careertuners.com/podcast/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Fatemah Mirza</p>
<p>The interview process itself is a key part of that. And that's something that a lot of people approach with, with trepidation. They're quite nervous, and they don't necessarily perform well. Why do you think they suffer so so greatly in an interview situation?</p>
<p>I think it's because you're putting yourself worth on the line. And that's really difficult for a lot of people, you're asking to be judged. And that's not fun. But if that's something you're struggling with, I recommend going out there and interviewing with companies that you just don't even want to work with. This will give you practice, you can even practice negotiating with them.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>I always wondered about the question. "Tell me about yourself". And I used to think that that was a lazy question. But then later I realized it's actually a brilliant question because people tend to answer it poorly. What did they do wrong? What should they do instead?</p>
<p>I think people tend to focus too much on themselves and their history as opposed to contextualize in what they've done to whatever the job is hiring for.</p>
<p>Transitions are so common now like transitioning from one field to another. So focusing too much on the field that you're trying to leave is not a good idea.</p>
<p>Even in that question. Tell me about yourself. You have to talk about, basically give the interviewer this message that I am the exact right fit for this position. I've been working towards this position my entire career history.</p>
<p>I have the adequate training for this position and I know the hard work that it's going to take for me to succeed in that position.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>You should ideally try to keep your answers to one to two minutes, you want to give the interviewer a chance to kind of mentally reset, because if you keep talking for too long, they might get disengaged, they only have a very limited attention span.</p>
<p>One to two minutes is about five to 10 sentences. And if you're like man, I'm really like short selling myself. I should be talking more about this once in a while. It's okay for one of your answers to be a little bit longer.</p>
I could talk more about this if you like
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to prepare for that critical job interview
Prepare for the standard and the unexpected questions
Episode 140 (Fatemah is based in Los Angeles, California)
In this conversation with Fatemah Mirza we explore:
How to feel more comfortable with job interviews
How to address those standard questions
What "tell me about yourself" really means
How to mitigate your red flags and time gaps
How to tell enough without telling all
Testing the fit between your personality and their culture
About Fatemah Mirza:
Fatemah started CareerTuners in 2010, through which she helps ambitious job seekers find, apply for and get higher-paying, more fulfilling jobs.
She helps job seekers take control of their job search. There are free resources about resume writing, Linkedin, salary negotiation and interviewing on the website.
https://careertuners.com/podcast/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Fatemah Mirza
The interview process itself is a key part of that. And that's something that a lot of people approach with, with trepidation. They're quite nervous, and they don't necessarily perform well. Why do you think they suffer so so greatly in an interview situation?
I think it's because you're putting yourself worth on the line. And that's really difficult for a lot of people, you're asking to be judged. And that's not fun. But if that's something you're struggling with, I recommend going out there and interviewing with companies that you just don't even want to work with. This will give you practice, you can even practice negotiating with them.
-----
I always wondered about the question. "Tell me about yourself". And I used to think that that was a lazy question. But then later I realized it's actually a brilliant question because people tend to answer it poorly. What did they do wrong? What should they do instead?
I think people tend to focus too much on themselves and their history as opposed to contextualize in what they've done to whatever the job is hiring for.
Transitions are so common now like transitioning from one field to another. So focusing too much on the field that you're trying to leave is not a good idea.
Even in that question. Tell me about yourself. You have to talk about, basically give the interviewer this message that I am the exact right fit for this position. I've been working towards this position my entire career history.
I have the adequate training for this position and I know the hard work that it's going to take for me to succeed in that position.
-----
You should ideally try to keep your answers to one to two minutes, you want to give the interviewer a chance to kind of mentally reset, because if you keep talking for too long, they might get disengaged, they only have a very limited attention span.
One to two minutes is about five to 10 sentences. And if you're like man, I'm really like short selling myself. I should be talking more about this once in a while. It's okay for one of your answers to be a little bit longer.
I could talk more about this if you like
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit
https://toroktips.com/
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        <title>More Confidence for the CEO to Speak: Tim Hart</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Pubic Speaking is a Skill that can be Learned even for the CEO
How to feel more confident and sound more natural
<p>Episode 139 (Tim is based in Beverly Hills. CA)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Tim Hart we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The challenge of negative self talk</li>
<li>How to make that connection with your audience</li>
<li>The importance of addressing your leadership communications skills</li>
<li>The power of stories and especially secret stories</li>
</ul>
<p>About Tim Hart:</p>
<p>As founder and President of Leading CEO, the the past 20 years, Tim has trained thousands of executives in presentation skills.</p>
<p>Previously, he was CEO of two major US advertising agencies. He produced advertising for seven automobile brands comprised of American, Japanese, German and Korean car companies.</p>
<p>He is co-author of "Out Loud - How Public Speaking can Change Your Life and the World".</p>
<p>Learn more about Tim Hart and his programs at</p>
<p>https://www.leadingceo.com/</p>
<p><a href='https://www.leadingceo.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Tim Hart</p>
<p>I have a client who is CEO of one of the biggest companies in the world. And the thing with what happened with that, and the story about that is this, he wanted no one to know that he's working with me.</p>
<p>So this became this top secret thing. And they kind of snuck me into the building. And yet with him, I probably had the best time because we opened up in the very beginning to talk about stories.</p>
<p>I told him a story that I've never told anyone. And he told me the same thing story that he had never told anyone from that point on, we were bonded.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>06:56</p>
<p>And I suppose it's helpful to examine oneself, with some self thought, but it's destructive to be constantly flogging oneself. I'm bad, I'm bad.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>07:10</p>
<p>Absolutely, I'll tell you one of the key things that I do. And this is kind of if there's a secret sauce in terms of what I do. Anytime I do any training, I ask everybody to give the person who's speaking feedback.</p>
<p>But ask them to tell them what they liked about it. I never asked them to criticize anybody. And so you're getting positive feedback from everybody in the room, which is great.</p>
<p>If I see something that I want to change, I'll just go in and change it. And it's very different. So they get the positive feedback. And then the way I handle it is, can we first thing I say to all kind of work with you on this, I have to get their permission.</p>
<p>And then they say yes, no one's ever said no to me, by the way. And so they say yes. And then I'll go in there and work with them on specific things that I think they need to learn and change.</p>
<p>And they do. It's fast how people change when you have that kind of one on one exchange. So no change right in front of everybody.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Tell me a story and I will connect with you. That's how it works.</p>
<p>And that's why I encourage people here and I'll give everybody that's watching this an assignment I do with all my clients. Sit down and write out plenty stories of your own</p>
<p>We've all got 20, at least. Write down 20 meaningful stories and go through them and make sure that you understand each one of them. And then after you've done that, throw it away.</p>
<p>And they're all in your head. And what happens is that when you're giving a presentation, you can grab one of those stories and tell it if it's if it's relevant to what you're talking about.</p>
<p>Because the the thing about stories is they should be relevant to your conversation.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Pubic Speaking is a Skill that can be Learned even for the CEO
How to feel more confident and sound more natural
<p>Episode 139 (Tim is based in Beverly Hills. CA)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Tim Hart we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The challenge of negative self talk</li>
<li>How to make that connection with your audience</li>
<li>The importance of addressing your leadership communications skills</li>
<li>The power of stories and especially secret stories</li>
</ul>
<p>About Tim Hart:</p>
<p>As founder and President of Leading CEO, the the past 20 years, Tim has trained thousands of executives in presentation skills.</p>
<p>Previously, he was CEO of two major US advertising agencies. He produced advertising for seven automobile brands comprised of American, Japanese, German and Korean car companies.</p>
<p>He is co-author of "Out Loud - How Public Speaking can Change Your Life and the World".</p>
<p>Learn more about Tim Hart and his programs at</p>
<p>https://www.leadingceo.com/</p>
<p><a href='https://www.leadingceo.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Tim Hart</p>
<p>I have a client who is CEO of one of the biggest companies in the world. And the thing with what happened with that, and the story about that is this, he wanted no one to know that he's working with me.</p>
<p>So this became this top secret thing. And they kind of snuck me into the building. And yet with him, I probably had the best time because we opened up in the very beginning to talk about stories.</p>
<p>I told him a story that I've never told anyone. And he told me the same thing story that he had never told anyone from that point on, we were bonded.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>06:56</p>
<p>And I suppose it's helpful to examine oneself, with some self thought, but it's destructive to be constantly flogging oneself. I'm bad, I'm bad.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>07:10</p>
<p>Absolutely, I'll tell you one of the key things that I do. And this is kind of if there's a secret sauce in terms of what I do. Anytime I do any training, I ask everybody to give the person who's speaking feedback.</p>
<p>But ask them to tell them what they liked about it. I never asked them to criticize anybody. And so you're getting positive feedback from everybody in the room, which is great.</p>
<p>If I see something that I want to change, I'll just go in and change it. And it's very different. So they get the positive feedback. And then the way I handle it is, can we first thing I say to all kind of work with you on this, I have to get their permission.</p>
<p>And then they say yes, no one's ever said no to me, by the way. And so they say yes. And then I'll go in there and work with them on specific things that I think they need to learn and change.</p>
<p>And they do. It's fast how people change when you have that kind of one on one exchange. So no change right in front of everybody.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Tell me a story and I will connect with you. That's how it works.</p>
<p>And that's why I encourage people here and I'll give everybody that's watching this an assignment I do with all my clients. Sit down and write out plenty stories of your own</p>
<p>We've all got 20, at least. Write down 20 meaningful stories and go through them and make sure that you understand each one of them. And then after you've done that, throw it away.</p>
<p>And they're all in your head. And what happens is that when you're giving a presentation, you can grab one of those stories and tell it if it's if it's relevant to what you're talking about.</p>
<p>Because the the thing about stories is they should be relevant to your conversation.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Pubic Speaking is a Skill that can be Learned even for the CEO
How to feel more confident and sound more natural
Episode 139 (Tim is based in Beverly Hills. CA)
In this conversation with Tim Hart we explore:
The challenge of negative self talk
How to make that connection with your audience
The importance of addressing your leadership communications skills
The power of stories and especially secret stories
About Tim Hart:
As founder and President of Leading CEO, the the past 20 years, Tim has trained thousands of executives in presentation skills.
Previously, he was CEO of two major US advertising agencies. He produced advertising for seven automobile brands comprised of American, Japanese, German and Korean car companies.
He is co-author of "Out Loud - How Public Speaking can Change Your Life and the World".
Learn more about Tim Hart and his programs at
https://www.leadingceo.com/

-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Tim Hart
I have a client who is CEO of one of the biggest companies in the world. And the thing with what happened with that, and the story about that is this, he wanted no one to know that he's working with me.
So this became this top secret thing. And they kind of snuck me into the building. And yet with him, I probably had the best time because we opened up in the very beginning to talk about stories.
I told him a story that I've never told anyone. And he told me the same thing story that he had never told anyone from that point on, we were bonded.
-----
06:56
And I suppose it's helpful to examine oneself, with some self thought, but it's destructive to be constantly flogging oneself. I'm bad, I'm bad.
 
07:10
Absolutely, I'll tell you one of the key things that I do. And this is kind of if there's a secret sauce in terms of what I do. Anytime I do any training, I ask everybody to give the person who's speaking feedback.
But ask them to tell them what they liked about it. I never asked them to criticize anybody. And so you're getting positive feedback from everybody in the room, which is great.
If I see something that I want to change, I'll just go in and change it. And it's very different. So they get the positive feedback. And then the way I handle it is, can we first thing I say to all kind of work with you on this, I have to get their permission.
And then they say yes, no one's ever said no to me, by the way. And so they say yes. And then I'll go in there and work with them on specific things that I think they need to learn and change.
And they do. It's fast how people change when you have that kind of one on one exchange. So no change right in front of everybody.
-----
Tell me a story and I will connect with you. That's how it works.
And that's why I encourage people here and I'll give everybody that's watching this an assignment I do with all my clients. Sit down and write out plenty stories of your own
We've all got 20, at least. Write down 20 meaningful stories and go through them and make sure that you understand each one of them. And then after you've done that, throw it away.
And they're all in your head. And what happens is that when you're giving a presentation, you can grab one of those stories and tell it if it's if it's relevant to what you're talking about.
Because the the thing about stories is they should be relevant to your conversation.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit
https://toroktips.com/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[If you knew the words that sabotage your message, would you stop using them?
Learn what words to avoid and how to clean up your messages.
<p>Episode 138</p>
<p>In this episode George Torok offers his insights about:</p>
<ul><li>Why you need to select your words thoughtfully</li>
<li>What common phrases could you stop using to be better understood</li>
<li>What are the perceptions that people might form based on your word choice</li>
<li>Why it's important that the words you use are your choice, no excuses</li>
<li>What are these 12 dirty phrases to stop using</li>
</ul>
<p>George Torok is a specialist in communication skills. He coaches executives to deliver their message more successfully. That might be in conversation or presentation.</p>
<p>Learn more about his programs and the results of his clients at </p>
<p><a href='https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this episode:</p>
<p>Let's review the dirty dozen words and phrases that sabotage your message. Take these words and phrases out of your messages, and you're more likely to be effective and successful when you speak. What are these Dirty Dozen?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>The first category is the category of vague words, vagueness. And it's hard to come up with a vague word. If I tell you to come up with a vague word you probably it's difficult to come up with one because the concept itself vagueness does not help us think it does not help us see, what are the two biggest common mistakes of vagueness that people use.</p>
<p>They talk about stuff, get your stuff together, get your stuff, pick up your stuff. Well, what is stuff? What does stuff look like? What does stuff feel like? What does it smell like? When they say stuff? Do they mean your gear? Do they mean your books? Do they mean your materials? Do they mean the groceries?</p>
<p>What is the stuff? The only time that stuff is a good phrase is when you're talking about what you put in the turkey? Don't be a turkey stopped using stuff.</p>
<p>And the other one is things. And yes, there was a song from the sound of music. These are a few of my favourite things. And that case, it's okay. But other than that, stop using the word things. Why? Because again, what do you see?</p>
<p>What do you feel when you hear that word things? Oh, yeah, I really get it now. Now I understand. You're talking about things. It's vague. It doesn't tell us what you're talking about.</p>
<p>When you say things? What is it? You mean? Are you talking about benefits? Are you talking about products? Are you talking about problems? Are you talking about steps in a process? Are you talking about trucks? Are you talking about machinery? Are you talking about ideas?</p>
<p>Those are specific, and help people see and understand what you're talking about stuff and things are not clear. Get rid of them?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>If you're looking for more ideas on presentation skills, and you haven't yet, be sure to sign up for the weekly tips on present superior presentations.</p>
<p>And you can do that at  <a href='https://toroktips.com/'>www.TorokTips.com</a></p>
<p>Remember to come back every week because most of the time we interview guest experts on communication from around the world. So far, we've had guests from 13 countries, which gives us a terrific perspective.</p>
<p>And every once in a while, you can tune into one of these solo shows where I will offer you some of my insights.</p>
<p>Remember, if you want to get your message across, get rid of the dirty dozen words and phrases that sabotage your message so that you can deliver your intended message.</p>
<p>If you liked what you heard, tell your friends and post your five star review on Apple podcasts because that helps more listeners find us come back every week for more practical insights to help you deliver your intended message.</p>
<p>I'm your host, George Torok</p>
<p>If you found this helpful and entertaining, be sure to listen to the upcoming Weed Word Alerts. They are short rants about silly words that people say.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[If you knew the words that sabotage your message, would you stop using them?
Learn what words to avoid and how to clean up your messages.
<p>Episode 138</p>
<p>In this episode George Torok offers his insights about:</p>
<ul><li>Why you need to select your words thoughtfully</li>
<li>What common phrases could you stop using to be better understood</li>
<li>What are the perceptions that people might form based on your word choice</li>
<li>Why it's important that the words you use are your choice, no excuses</li>
<li>What are these 12 dirty phrases to stop using</li>
</ul>
<p>George Torok is a specialist in communication skills. He coaches executives to deliver their message more successfully. That might be in conversation or presentation.</p>
<p>Learn more about his programs and the results of his clients at </p>
<p><a href='https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this episode:</p>
<p>Let's review the dirty dozen words and phrases that sabotage your message. Take these words and phrases out of your messages, and you're more likely to be effective and successful when you speak. What are these Dirty Dozen?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>The first category is the category of vague words, vagueness. And it's hard to come up with a vague word. If I tell you to come up with a vague word you probably it's difficult to come up with one because the concept itself vagueness does not help us think it does not help us see, what are the two biggest common mistakes of vagueness that people use.</p>
<p>They talk about stuff, get your stuff together, get your stuff, pick up your stuff. Well, what is stuff? What does stuff look like? What does stuff feel like? What does it smell like? When they say stuff? Do they mean your gear? Do they mean your books? Do they mean your materials? Do they mean the groceries?</p>
<p>What is the stuff? The only time that stuff is a good phrase is when you're talking about what you put in the turkey? Don't be a turkey stopped using stuff.</p>
<p>And the other one is things. And yes, there was a song from the sound of music. These are a few of my favourite things. And that case, it's okay. But other than that, stop using the word things. Why? Because again, what do you see?</p>
<p>What do you feel when you hear that word things? Oh, yeah, I really get it now. Now I understand. You're talking about things. It's vague. It doesn't tell us what you're talking about.</p>
<p>When you say things? What is it? You mean? Are you talking about benefits? Are you talking about products? Are you talking about problems? Are you talking about steps in a process? Are you talking about trucks? Are you talking about machinery? Are you talking about ideas?</p>
<p>Those are specific, and help people see and understand what you're talking about stuff and things are not clear. Get rid of them?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>If you're looking for more ideas on presentation skills, and you haven't yet, be sure to sign up for the weekly tips on present superior presentations.</p>
<p>And you can do that at  <a href='https://toroktips.com/'>www.TorokTips.com</a></p>
<p>Remember to come back every week because most of the time we interview guest experts on communication from around the world. So far, we've had guests from 13 countries, which gives us a terrific perspective.</p>
<p>And every once in a while, you can tune into one of these solo shows where I will offer you some of my insights.</p>
<p>Remember, if you want to get your message across, get rid of the dirty dozen words and phrases that sabotage your message so that you can deliver your intended message.</p>
<p>If you liked what you heard, tell your friends and post your five star review on Apple podcasts because that helps more listeners find us come back every week for more practical insights to help you deliver your intended message.</p>
<p>I'm your host, George Torok</p>
<p>If you found this helpful and entertaining, be sure to listen to the upcoming Weed Word Alerts. They are short rants about silly words that people say.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you knew the words that sabotage your message, would you stop using them?
Learn what words to avoid and how to clean up your messages.
Episode 138
In this episode George Torok offers his insights about:
Why you need to select your words thoughtfully
What common phrases could you stop using to be better understood
What are the perceptions that people might form based on your word choice
Why it's important that the words you use are your choice, no excuses
What are these 12 dirty phrases to stop using
George Torok is a specialist in communication skills. He coaches executives to deliver their message more successfully. That might be in conversation or presentation.
Learn more about his programs and the results of his clients at 
https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/
-----
Excerpts from this episode:
Let's review the dirty dozen words and phrases that sabotage your message. Take these words and phrases out of your messages, and you're more likely to be effective and successful when you speak. What are these Dirty Dozen?
 
The first category is the category of vague words, vagueness. And it's hard to come up with a vague word. If I tell you to come up with a vague word you probably it's difficult to come up with one because the concept itself vagueness does not help us think it does not help us see, what are the two biggest common mistakes of vagueness that people use.
They talk about stuff, get your stuff together, get your stuff, pick up your stuff. Well, what is stuff? What does stuff look like? What does stuff feel like? What does it smell like? When they say stuff? Do they mean your gear? Do they mean your books? Do they mean your materials? Do they mean the groceries?
What is the stuff? The only time that stuff is a good phrase is when you're talking about what you put in the turkey? Don't be a turkey stopped using stuff.
And the other one is things. And yes, there was a song from the sound of music. These are a few of my favourite things. And that case, it's okay. But other than that, stop using the word things. Why? Because again, what do you see?
What do you feel when you hear that word things? Oh, yeah, I really get it now. Now I understand. You're talking about things. It's vague. It doesn't tell us what you're talking about.
When you say things? What is it? You mean? Are you talking about benefits? Are you talking about products? Are you talking about problems? Are you talking about steps in a process? Are you talking about trucks? Are you talking about machinery? Are you talking about ideas?
Those are specific, and help people see and understand what you're talking about stuff and things are not clear. Get rid of them?
-----
If you're looking for more ideas on presentation skills, and you haven't yet, be sure to sign up for the weekly tips on present superior presentations.
And you can do that at  www.TorokTips.com
Remember to come back every week because most of the time we interview guest experts on communication from around the world. So far, we've had guests from 13 countries, which gives us a terrific perspective.
And every once in a while, you can tune into one of these solo shows where I will offer you some of my insights.
Remember, if you want to get your message across, get rid of the dirty dozen words and phrases that sabotage your message so that you can deliver your intended message.
If you liked what you heard, tell your friends and post your five star review on Apple podcasts because that helps more listeners find us come back every week for more practical insights to help you deliver your intended message.
I'm your host, George Torok
If you found this helpful and entertaining, be sure to listen to the upcoming Weed Word Alerts. They are short rants about silly words that people say.
-----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He deli]]></itunes:summary>
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                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/why-is-your-website-not-working-chris-davidson/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Tue, 07 Mar 2023 14:27:00 -0500</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Where do you start when fixing your website?
What is the purpose of your website and how can you make it work for you?
<p>Episode 137 (Chris is based in the UK)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Chris Davidson we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why your website might not be working</li>
<li>How to test the results of your website</li>
<li>How to sharpen your target focus</li>
<li>How to leverage content on your website</li>
<li>Guidelines to boost the power of your site blog</li>
<li>Advertising or SEO which to follow and why</li>
</ul>
<p>About Chris Davidson:</p>
<p>Chris is a highly experienced engineer and consultant, who started working in the IT sector more than 40 years ago. He specializes in website tools and services for SME service-oriented companies, and is the author of 'Why Your Website Doesn't Work'.</p>
<p>Learn more about Chris Davidson and his services at</p>
<p><a href='https://www.activepresence.com/'>https://www.activepresence.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Why-Your-Website-Doesnt-Work/dp/1739230701/ref=sr_1_1?crid=RG45WHWPQM2J&keywords=why+your+website+doesn%27t+work&qid=1678301433&s=books&sprefix=why+your+website+doe%2Cstripbooks%2C88&sr=1-1'>Why Your Website Doesn't Work</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Chris Davidson</p>
<p>02:24</p>
<p>The biggest reason is weak target focus. That's the biggest reason there isn't a strong focus on exactly what their intended, perfect customer or client is.</p>
<p>And that means that there then isn't enough information about any product or service they're selling. There can't be because they haven't got in mind a clear idea of who their their perfect client is.</p>
<p>Now, this is making an assumption, of course, that all the other underlying foundations are in good shape. They may be they might not be you know that you can't tell from looking at a house, whether the foundations are in good shape.</p>
<p>That's why you have it surveyed before you buy it. So there is a number of steps that one could go through a number of tears, five, in fact, but the biggest issue, the biggest issue is this weak target focus, weak target focus, and let's come back to those tears in a moment.</p>
<p>But first, let's have a clear understanding of what you mean by weak target focus people.</p>
<p>So people come to my website, and I'm offering coaching for executive presentations. What's wrong with that?</p>
<p>Yeah, so there's nothing wrong with that, George, that is, that is okay. You know, that is your intended message, no pun intended. That is your intended message, isn't it? That you offer presentation training for executive? Okay, that's clear. That's clear.</p>
<p>But I might say, Well, what sort of markets, George do your, most of your clients from? And you might respond by saying, Oh, they're spread across all these sectors?</p>
<p>Or you might say, well, actually, Chris, you know, 80% of my business comes from the finance sector for just for the sake of example, right? And then I might say,</p>
<p>Well, if that's the case, George, why don't you just go all out and say, I do executive presentation coaching for finance executives, because if you then focus all of your marketing efforts on that particular that niche, you're going to get the other 20% Anyway, they're gonna get caught up in the wake of the passing ship and dragged along and you can decide whether you Want to service them how you want to service them as and when they arrive. But the sharper you make the point, the deeper it's going to dig in.</p>
<p>So I think that would be the point I would make to anybody out there, I would just come back to them and say, look, what is your intended message? And who is it really for? Is it really cross sector?</p>
<p>Or, actually is 80% of your business coming from SME sized businesses? Okay, in what sector? Well, most of its in most of it actually thinking about his professional services?</p>
<p>Okay, well, then let's just do that. It's very rare that you're gonna come across somebody who is genuinely so spread out that they're picking up business equally from all sectors, you know, it doesn't happen that way. Because, you know, people get referred to one another.</p>
<p>And what have you is that always there's a, there's always, if you dig into the numbers, there's always a sector in the lead somewhere. And why not just focus on that.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Where do you start when fixing your website?
What is the purpose of your website and how can you make it work for you?
<p>Episode 137 (Chris is based in the UK)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Chris Davidson we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why your website might not be working</li>
<li>How to test the results of your website</li>
<li>How to sharpen your target focus</li>
<li>How to leverage content on your website</li>
<li>Guidelines to boost the power of your site blog</li>
<li>Advertising or SEO which to follow and why</li>
</ul>
<p>About Chris Davidson:</p>
<p>Chris is a highly experienced engineer and consultant, who started working in the IT sector more than 40 years ago. He specializes in website tools and services for SME service-oriented companies, and is the author of 'Why Your Website Doesn't Work'.</p>
<p>Learn more about Chris Davidson and his services at</p>
<p><a href='https://www.activepresence.com/'>https://www.activepresence.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Why-Your-Website-Doesnt-Work/dp/1739230701/ref=sr_1_1?crid=RG45WHWPQM2J&keywords=why+your+website+doesn%27t+work&qid=1678301433&s=books&sprefix=why+your+website+doe%2Cstripbooks%2C88&sr=1-1'>Why Your Website Doesn't Work</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Chris Davidson</p>
<p>02:24</p>
<p>The biggest reason is weak target focus. That's the biggest reason there isn't a strong focus on exactly what their intended, perfect customer or client is.</p>
<p>And that means that there then isn't enough information about any product or service they're selling. There can't be because they haven't got in mind a clear idea of who their their perfect client is.</p>
<p>Now, this is making an assumption, of course, that all the other underlying foundations are in good shape. They may be they might not be you know that you can't tell from looking at a house, whether the foundations are in good shape.</p>
<p>That's why you have it surveyed before you buy it. So there is a number of steps that one could go through a number of tears, five, in fact, but the biggest issue, the biggest issue is this weak target focus, weak target focus, and let's come back to those tears in a moment.</p>
<p>But first, let's have a clear understanding of what you mean by weak target focus people.</p>
<p>So people come to my website, and I'm offering coaching for executive presentations. What's wrong with that?</p>
<p>Yeah, so there's nothing wrong with that, George, that is, that is okay. You know, that is your intended message, no pun intended. That is your intended message, isn't it? That you offer presentation training for executive? Okay, that's clear. That's clear.</p>
<p>But I might say, Well, what sort of markets, George do your, most of your clients from? And you might respond by saying, Oh, they're spread across all these sectors?</p>
<p>Or you might say, well, actually, Chris, you know, 80% of my business comes from the finance sector for just for the sake of example, right? And then I might say,</p>
<p>Well, if that's the case, George, why don't you just go all out and say, I do executive presentation coaching for finance executives, because if you then focus all of your marketing efforts on that particular that niche, you're going to get the other 20% Anyway, they're gonna get caught up in the wake of the passing ship and dragged along and you can decide whether you Want to service them how you want to service them as and when they arrive. But the sharper you make the point, the deeper it's going to dig in.</p>
<p>So I think that would be the point I would make to anybody out there, I would just come back to them and say, look, what is your intended message? And who is it really for? Is it really cross sector?</p>
<p>Or, actually is 80% of your business coming from SME sized businesses? Okay, in what sector? Well, most of its in most of it actually thinking about his professional services?</p>
<p>Okay, well, then let's just do that. It's very rare that you're gonna come across somebody who is genuinely so spread out that they're picking up business equally from all sectors, you know, it doesn't happen that way. Because, you know, people get referred to one another.</p>
<p>And what have you is that always there's a, there's always, if you dig into the numbers, there's always a sector in the lead somewhere. And why not just focus on that.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Where do you start when fixing your website?
What is the purpose of your website and how can you make it work for you?
Episode 137 (Chris is based in the UK)
In this conversation with Chris Davidson we explore:
Why your website might not be working
How to test the results of your website
How to sharpen your target focus
How to leverage content on your website
Guidelines to boost the power of your site blog
Advertising or SEO which to follow and why
About Chris Davidson:
Chris is a highly experienced engineer and consultant, who started working in the IT sector more than 40 years ago. He specializes in website tools and services for SME service-oriented companies, and is the author of 'Why Your Website Doesn't Work'.
Learn more about Chris Davidson and his services at
https://www.activepresence.com/
 

Why Your Website Doesn't Work

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Excerpts from this conversation with Chris Davidson
02:24
The biggest reason is weak target focus. That's the biggest reason there isn't a strong focus on exactly what their intended, perfect customer or client is.
And that means that there then isn't enough information about any product or service they're selling. There can't be because they haven't got in mind a clear idea of who their their perfect client is.
Now, this is making an assumption, of course, that all the other underlying foundations are in good shape. They may be they might not be you know that you can't tell from looking at a house, whether the foundations are in good shape.
That's why you have it surveyed before you buy it. So there is a number of steps that one could go through a number of tears, five, in fact, but the biggest issue, the biggest issue is this weak target focus, weak target focus, and let's come back to those tears in a moment.
But first, let's have a clear understanding of what you mean by weak target focus people.
So people come to my website, and I'm offering coaching for executive presentations. What's wrong with that?
Yeah, so there's nothing wrong with that, George, that is, that is okay. You know, that is your intended message, no pun intended. That is your intended message, isn't it? That you offer presentation training for executive? Okay, that's clear. That's clear.
But I might say, Well, what sort of markets, George do your, most of your clients from? And you might respond by saying, Oh, they're spread across all these sectors?
Or you might say, well, actually, Chris, you know, 80% of my business comes from the finance sector for just for the sake of example, right? And then I might say,
Well, if that's the case, George, why don't you just go all out and say, I do executive presentation coaching for finance executives, because if you then focus all of your marketing efforts on that particular that niche, you're going to get the other 20% Anyway, they're gonna get caught up in the wake of the passing ship and dragged along and you can decide whether you Want to service them how you want to service them as and when they arrive. But the sharper you make the point, the deeper it's going to dig in.
So I think that would be the point I would make to anybody out there, I would just come back to them and say, look, what is your intended message? And who is it really for? Is it really cross sector?
Or, actually is 80% of your business coming from SME sized businesses? Okay, in what sector? Well, most of its in most of it actually thinking about his professional services?
Okay, well, then let's just do that. It's very rare that you're gonna come across somebody who is genuinely so spread out that they're picking up business equally from all sectors, you know, it doesn't happen that way. Because, you know, people get referred to one another.
And what have you is that always there's a, there's always, if you dig into the numbers, there's always a sector in the lead somewhere. And why not just focus on that.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[If you work with people you need to persuade
What can you learn from effective selling techniques?
<p>Episode 136 (Jim is based in Dallas, Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jim Pancero we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The best way to be more persuasive</li>
<li>How to sell your ideas and yourself without feeling salesy</li>
<li>Why the first step is to lower resistance and how to do that</li>
<li>The power of asking questions and listening</li>
<li>Why you can't simply throw the weight of your authority around</li>
<li>How to accept unwelcomed suggestions with grace</li>
</ul>
<p>About Jim Pancero:</p>
<p>Jim has worked as a sales and sales leadership speaker, trainer and consultant for over 40 years.</p>
<p>He has been recognized with many awards including being inducted into the National Speakers Association Hall of Fame.</p>
<p>He has volunteered as a photographer for Dallas area Special Olympics and a musical non-profit organization.</p>
<p>Connect with Jim on Linkedin where he publishes three brief sales videos every week.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/jimpancero/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/jimpancero/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>Watch the sales training videos at</p>
<p><a href='https://www.advancedsalesuniversity.com/'>AdvancedSalesUniversity.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Jim Pancero:</p>
<p>02:32</p>
<p>And certainly sales is important for any business. And but I want to take a look at the people who are not in sales, or at least think they're not in sales, but they really are. And maybe there's something they could learn from sales, if they can only get over the aversion to being called a salesperson, Jim, how can we help those people?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>So over half the people I've trained did not choose sales as a profession, but wound up having to be persuasive and sales in their job. The second part of it is if we look at in remove the word selling and sales, and just say what's happening here, we're trying to be persuasive.</p>
<p>I don't know of any job that does not require you to be persuasive, at least to somebody, whether it's to your customers, if you're in retail, whether it's to your boss, if you're in an administrative position of doing something, whether it's to your co workers to get them to help you with the project, or just how you get along with your family parenting is the toughest persuasive position there is because you're trying to persuade a five year old not to do something that they think is completely reasonable, like throwing ketchup on the wall. or something?</p>
<p>So it's how do we persuade? How do we convince because you can't just order anybody. Because even if you can get away with it, because you're their boss, or you're their parent, they resent you for it starts to cause a distance and you become less effective.</p>
<p>If we really look, if we want to be effective in life, our job is we have to motivate others. The challenge though, of doing that, is there some real specific rules of motivation?</p>
<p>The first rule of motivation is you can't motivate anybody to do anything. It's just it's a fact. So how do we become persuasive in that environment?</p>
<p>Well, it's the second rule, everybody's already highly motivated Zig Ziglar, the motivational speaker used to say, I can show you a bunch of unmotivated people it's called a cemetery.</p>
<p>And if we looked at everybody's already highly motivated, the problem is rule number three, and that is people are motivated for their reasons, their bias, their background, their culture, their beliefs, everything about them biases, how they view what motivates what they want to be motivated about.</p>
<p>So if we look at as a leader, as a manager, even as a co worker, all we can do is build an environment so that people want to motivate themselves. And if we look at how do we do that?</p>
<p>How do we create an environment, whether it's with a peer, a boss, an employee, or with a customer, or a neighbor, any of these things, if we look at it, what it comes down to is, if we're more persuasive, and we're more effective, and how we communicate,</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[If you work with people you need to persuade
What can you learn from effective selling techniques?
<p>Episode 136 (Jim is based in Dallas, Texas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jim Pancero we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The best way to be more persuasive</li>
<li>How to sell your ideas and yourself without feeling salesy</li>
<li>Why the first step is to lower resistance and how to do that</li>
<li>The power of asking questions and listening</li>
<li>Why you can't simply throw the weight of your authority around</li>
<li>How to accept unwelcomed suggestions with grace</li>
</ul>
<p>About Jim Pancero:</p>
<p>Jim has worked as a sales and sales leadership speaker, trainer and consultant for over 40 years.</p>
<p>He has been recognized with many awards including being inducted into the National Speakers Association Hall of Fame.</p>
<p>He has volunteered as a photographer for Dallas area Special Olympics and a musical non-profit organization.</p>
<p>Connect with Jim on Linkedin where he publishes three brief sales videos every week.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/jimpancero/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/jimpancero/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>Watch the sales training videos at</p>
<p><a href='https://www.advancedsalesuniversity.com/'>AdvancedSalesUniversity.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Jim Pancero:</p>
<p>02:32</p>
<p>And certainly sales is important for any business. And but I want to take a look at the people who are not in sales, or at least think they're not in sales, but they really are. And maybe there's something they could learn from sales, if they can only get over the aversion to being called a salesperson, Jim, how can we help those people?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>So over half the people I've trained did not choose sales as a profession, but wound up having to be persuasive and sales in their job. The second part of it is if we look at in remove the word selling and sales, and just say what's happening here, we're trying to be persuasive.</p>
<p>I don't know of any job that does not require you to be persuasive, at least to somebody, whether it's to your customers, if you're in retail, whether it's to your boss, if you're in an administrative position of doing something, whether it's to your co workers to get them to help you with the project, or just how you get along with your family parenting is the toughest persuasive position there is because you're trying to persuade a five year old not to do something that they think is completely reasonable, like throwing ketchup on the wall. or something?</p>
<p>So it's how do we persuade? How do we convince because you can't just order anybody. Because even if you can get away with it, because you're their boss, or you're their parent, they resent you for it starts to cause a distance and you become less effective.</p>
<p>If we really look, if we want to be effective in life, our job is we have to motivate others. The challenge though, of doing that, is there some real specific rules of motivation?</p>
<p>The first rule of motivation is you can't motivate anybody to do anything. It's just it's a fact. So how do we become persuasive in that environment?</p>
<p>Well, it's the second rule, everybody's already highly motivated Zig Ziglar, the motivational speaker used to say, I can show you a bunch of unmotivated people it's called a cemetery.</p>
<p>And if we looked at everybody's already highly motivated, the problem is rule number three, and that is people are motivated for their reasons, their bias, their background, their culture, their beliefs, everything about them biases, how they view what motivates what they want to be motivated about.</p>
<p>So if we look at as a leader, as a manager, even as a co worker, all we can do is build an environment so that people want to motivate themselves. And if we look at how do we do that?</p>
<p>How do we create an environment, whether it's with a peer, a boss, an employee, or with a customer, or a neighbor, any of these things, if we look at it, what it comes down to is, if we're more persuasive, and we're more effective, and how we communicate,</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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What can you learn from effective selling techniques?
Episode 136 (Jim is based in Dallas, Texas)
In this conversation with Jim Pancero we explore:
The best way to be more persuasive
How to sell your ideas and yourself without feeling salesy
Why the first step is to lower resistance and how to do that
The power of asking questions and listening
Why you can't simply throw the weight of your authority around
How to accept unwelcomed suggestions with grace
About Jim Pancero:
Jim has worked as a sales and sales leadership speaker, trainer and consultant for over 40 years.
He has been recognized with many awards including being inducted into the National Speakers Association Hall of Fame.
He has volunteered as a photographer for Dallas area Special Olympics and a musical non-profit organization.
Connect with Jim on Linkedin where he publishes three brief sales videos every week.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jimpancero/

Watch the sales training videos at
AdvancedSalesUniversity.com
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Jim Pancero:
02:32
And certainly sales is important for any business. And but I want to take a look at the people who are not in sales, or at least think they're not in sales, but they really are. And maybe there's something they could learn from sales, if they can only get over the aversion to being called a salesperson, Jim, how can we help those people?
-----
So over half the people I've trained did not choose sales as a profession, but wound up having to be persuasive and sales in their job. The second part of it is if we look at in remove the word selling and sales, and just say what's happening here, we're trying to be persuasive.
I don't know of any job that does not require you to be persuasive, at least to somebody, whether it's to your customers, if you're in retail, whether it's to your boss, if you're in an administrative position of doing something, whether it's to your co workers to get them to help you with the project, or just how you get along with your family parenting is the toughest persuasive position there is because you're trying to persuade a five year old not to do something that they think is completely reasonable, like throwing ketchup on the wall. or something?
So it's how do we persuade? How do we convince because you can't just order anybody. Because even if you can get away with it, because you're their boss, or you're their parent, they resent you for it starts to cause a distance and you become less effective.
If we really look, if we want to be effective in life, our job is we have to motivate others. The challenge though, of doing that, is there some real specific rules of motivation?
The first rule of motivation is you can't motivate anybody to do anything. It's just it's a fact. So how do we become persuasive in that environment?
Well, it's the second rule, everybody's already highly motivated Zig Ziglar, the motivational speaker used to say, I can show you a bunch of unmotivated people it's called a cemetery.
And if we looked at everybody's already highly motivated, the problem is rule number three, and that is people are motivated for their reasons, their bias, their background, their culture, their beliefs, everything about them biases, how they view what motivates what they want to be motivated about.
So if we look at as a leader, as a manager, even as a co worker, all we can do is build an environment so that people want to motivate themselves. And if we look at how do we do that?
How do we create an environment, whether it's with a peer, a boss, an employee, or with a customer, or a neighbor, any of these things, if we look at it, what it comes down to is, if we're more persuasive, and we're more effective, and how we communicate,
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Channel the fear of public speaking into positive energy
Competence breeds confidence
<p>Episode 135 (Peter is based in Rhode Island)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Peter George we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to channel the fear of public speaking as positive energy</li>
<li>What's the real fears that create anxiety</li>
<li>How to control the energy to boost your performance</li>
<li>Why it's critical to realize that perfection is not the goal</li>
<li>How changing your focus to the audience makes it easier for you</li>
<li>Harness the power of visualizing your positive outcome</li>
</ul>
<p>About Peter George:</p>
<p>Throughout his childhood, Peter dealt with a lisp and a stutter. Consequently, he grew up shy and introverted, avoiding communication with others.</p>
<p>For the past 17 years, he has been coaching professionals to be calm, confident and credible when they speak.</p>
<p>He is the host of the Public Speaking with Peter George podcast.</p>
<p>He is the author of The Captivating Public Speaker, Engage, Impact and Inspire Your Audience Every Time.</p>
<p>Learn more about Peter George and find free resources at...</p>
<p><a href='https://petergeorgepublicspeaking.com/'>https://petergeorgepublicspeaking.com/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Peter George:</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:55</p>
<p>I imagine not everyone needs to go through the therapy with Cruella and tears every every Tuesday morning. When you work with people, and you help them address the fear of public speaking, where do you start?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>04:17</p>
<p>First of all, I don't believe there is such a thing. And I say that sort of tongue in cheek, but if we look at why we get nervous about speaking, it's adrenaline.</p>
<p>Our adrenaline's flowing. So George, let's say you and I are going to an amusement park and you love roller coasters. And this amusement park has a brand new roller coaster. It does all these flips and you're hanging from the top and everything else.</p>
<p>And I'm looking at the line and looking at the roller coaster go on. I don't think so. You and I are probably feeling the same thing. You're getting an adrenaline rush and that's what you consider it this is going to be great</p>
<p>Oh, my heart's beating, My blood pressure's up, I'm getting sweaty, I'm so excited to get on this roller coaster, I'm going to be standing there going, this is the last thing in the world, I want to do my heart's racing,</p>
<p>My blood pressure's going up and getting all sweaty. It's adrenaline. Now how we label it might be different. And that's just one aspect of it. But a lot of us are afraid of public speaking, if you will. Because we don't want to make fools out ourselves. </p>
<p>We don't want to be embarrassed. And I certainly get that. Or we, we know that we're not sufficiently prepared, or we don't know how to prepare.</p>
<p>So all these things make us nervous as they should, if you don't know how to do something, and then you have to go do it in front of other people.</p>
<p>It would be me going to Yankee Stadium, having never faced a 90 mile an hour fastball before 50,000 people in the stands, and I'm at home plate. What are the odds, I'm going to hit this ball, slim to none. And I know that.</p>
<p>So I would be nervous up there that I'm going to make a fool out of myself. This might be making it very light. But that's really what it comes down to.</p>
<p>And the idea that public speaking is the greatest fear known to humanity. I don't agree with that either. If you look at studies, it's well behind spiders, snakes, even clowns. So I'm one who's petrified of clowns, by the way.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>16:37</p>
<p>Hmm, and maybe a good mantra to to keep in mind when when people are speaking to heck with them. You don't like it The heck with you. </p>
<p>And Peter, I'm also wondering, I noticed when you you started telling us those two stories about your family, but about first about your your dad to firefighter, and then your your great grandma.</p>
<p>Might that be a technique that a person can use when they're delivering a speech or a presentation by bringing in a personal or a family story?</p>
<p>Because they'll that will automatically make them feel good, because they're talking about something that they care about.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Channel the fear of public speaking into positive energy
Competence breeds confidence
<p>Episode 135 (Peter is based in Rhode Island)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Peter George we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to channel the fear of public speaking as positive energy</li>
<li>What's the real fears that create anxiety</li>
<li>How to control the energy to boost your performance</li>
<li>Why it's critical to realize that perfection is not the goal</li>
<li>How changing your focus to the audience makes it easier for you</li>
<li>Harness the power of visualizing your positive outcome</li>
</ul>
<p>About Peter George:</p>
<p>Throughout his childhood, Peter dealt with a lisp and a stutter. Consequently, he grew up shy and introverted, avoiding communication with others.</p>
<p>For the past 17 years, he has been coaching professionals to be calm, confident and credible when they speak.</p>
<p>He is the host of the Public Speaking with Peter George podcast.</p>
<p>He is the author of The Captivating Public Speaker, Engage, Impact and Inspire Your Audience Every Time.</p>
<p>Learn more about Peter George and find free resources at...</p>
<p><a href='https://petergeorgepublicspeaking.com/'>https://petergeorgepublicspeaking.com/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Peter George:</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:55</p>
<p>I imagine not everyone needs to go through the therapy with Cruella and tears every every Tuesday morning. When you work with people, and you help them address the fear of public speaking, where do you start?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>04:17</p>
<p>First of all, I don't believe there is such a thing. And I say that sort of tongue in cheek, but if we look at why we get nervous about speaking, it's adrenaline.</p>
<p>Our adrenaline's flowing. So George, let's say you and I are going to an amusement park and you love roller coasters. And this amusement park has a brand new roller coaster. It does all these flips and you're hanging from the top and everything else.</p>
<p>And I'm looking at the line and looking at the roller coaster go on. I don't think so. You and I are probably feeling the same thing. You're getting an adrenaline rush and that's what you consider it this is going to be great</p>
<p>Oh, my heart's beating, My blood pressure's up, I'm getting sweaty, I'm so excited to get on this roller coaster, I'm going to be standing there going, this is the last thing in the world, I want to do my heart's racing,</p>
<p>My blood pressure's going up and getting all sweaty. It's adrenaline. Now how we label it might be different. And that's just one aspect of it. But a lot of us are afraid of public speaking, if you will. Because we don't want to make fools out ourselves. </p>
<p>We don't want to be embarrassed. And I certainly get that. Or we, we know that we're not sufficiently prepared, or we don't know how to prepare.</p>
<p>So all these things make us nervous as they should, if you don't know how to do something, and then you have to go do it in front of other people.</p>
<p>It would be me going to Yankee Stadium, having never faced a 90 mile an hour fastball before 50,000 people in the stands, and I'm at home plate. What are the odds, I'm going to hit this ball, slim to none. And I know that.</p>
<p>So I would be nervous up there that I'm going to make a fool out of myself. This might be making it very light. But that's really what it comes down to.</p>
<p>And the idea that public speaking is the greatest fear known to humanity. I don't agree with that either. If you look at studies, it's well behind spiders, snakes, even clowns. So I'm one who's petrified of clowns, by the way.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>16:37</p>
<p>Hmm, and maybe a good mantra to to keep in mind when when people are speaking to heck with them. You don't like it The heck with you. </p>
<p>And Peter, I'm also wondering, I noticed when you you started telling us those two stories about your family, but about first about your your dad to firefighter, and then your your great grandma.</p>
<p>Might that be a technique that a person can use when they're delivering a speech or a presentation by bringing in a personal or a family story?</p>
<p>Because they'll that will automatically make them feel good, because they're talking about something that they care about.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Channel the fear of public speaking into positive energy
Competence breeds confidence
Episode 135 (Peter is based in Rhode Island)
In this conversation with Peter George we explore:
How to channel the fear of public speaking as positive energy
What's the real fears that create anxiety
How to control the energy to boost your performance
Why it's critical to realize that perfection is not the goal
How changing your focus to the audience makes it easier for you
Harness the power of visualizing your positive outcome
About Peter George:
Throughout his childhood, Peter dealt with a lisp and a stutter. Consequently, he grew up shy and introverted, avoiding communication with others.
For the past 17 years, he has been coaching professionals to be calm, confident and credible when they speak.
He is the host of the Public Speaking with Peter George podcast.
He is the author of The Captivating Public Speaker, Engage, Impact and Inspire Your Audience Every Time.
Learn more about Peter George and find free resources at...
https://petergeorgepublicspeaking.com/

-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Peter George:
 
03:55
I imagine not everyone needs to go through the therapy with Cruella and tears every every Tuesday morning. When you work with people, and you help them address the fear of public speaking, where do you start?
 
04:17
First of all, I don't believe there is such a thing. And I say that sort of tongue in cheek, but if we look at why we get nervous about speaking, it's adrenaline.
Our adrenaline's flowing. So George, let's say you and I are going to an amusement park and you love roller coasters. And this amusement park has a brand new roller coaster. It does all these flips and you're hanging from the top and everything else.
And I'm looking at the line and looking at the roller coaster go on. I don't think so. You and I are probably feeling the same thing. You're getting an adrenaline rush and that's what you consider it this is going to be great
Oh, my heart's beating, My blood pressure's up, I'm getting sweaty, I'm so excited to get on this roller coaster, I'm going to be standing there going, this is the last thing in the world, I want to do my heart's racing,
My blood pressure's going up and getting all sweaty. It's adrenaline. Now how we label it might be different. And that's just one aspect of it. But a lot of us are afraid of public speaking, if you will. Because we don't want to make fools out ourselves. 
We don't want to be embarrassed. And I certainly get that. Or we, we know that we're not sufficiently prepared, or we don't know how to prepare.
So all these things make us nervous as they should, if you don't know how to do something, and then you have to go do it in front of other people.
It would be me going to Yankee Stadium, having never faced a 90 mile an hour fastball before 50,000 people in the stands, and I'm at home plate. What are the odds, I'm going to hit this ball, slim to none. And I know that.
So I would be nervous up there that I'm going to make a fool out of myself. This might be making it very light. But that's really what it comes down to.
And the idea that public speaking is the greatest fear known to humanity. I don't agree with that either. If you look at studies, it's well behind spiders, snakes, even clowns. So I'm one who's petrified of clowns, by the way.
-----
16:37
Hmm, and maybe a good mantra to to keep in mind when when people are speaking to heck with them. You don't like it The heck with you. 
And Peter, I'm also wondering, I noticed when you you started telling us those two stories about your family, but about first about your your dad to firefighter, and then your your great grandma.
Might that be a technique that a person can use when they're delivering a speech or a presentation by bringing in a personal or a family story?
Because they'll that will automatically make them feel good, because they're talking about something that they care about.
-----
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        <title>Write email that Grabs Attention and doesn’t Offend: Liz Danziger</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Check your email with the "you idiot" test before you send
How to write emails that are more productive
<p>Episode 134 (Liz is based in L.A.)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Liz Danziger we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to write emails that work effectively</li>
<li>What to check when you reread before sending</li>
<li>The three P's to prepare your message</li>
<li>The New York Times and court room guide for emails</li>
<li>How to write and email that people read</li>
<li>The right type of emotional language</li>
</ul>
<p>About Liz Danziger:</p>
<p>Liz is the author of four books published by major publishers including business writing guide, Get to the Point! She is also a columnist on Inc.com</p>
<p></p>
<p>She has decades of experience in helping teams to write clearly and confidently. </p>
<p>Her goal is to empower people to wield the power of words to create success.</p>
<p>To receive her monthly writing tips called Writamins visit <a href='https://worktalk.com/'>www,WorkTalk.com</a></p>
<p>At the same site you can get your copy of Ten Tips for Communicating Effectively in a Fast-Paced World.</p>
<p>You can arrange a complimentary 30-minute call to explore communication issues in your organization. Select a time on her calendar</p>
<p><a href='https://calendly.com/worktalk'>https://calendly.com/worktalk</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Liz Danziger:</p>
<p>02:53</p>
<p>Yes, one thing is that they could know their purpose before they start and know their point before they start. My view is that most writing problems happen before a person starts to write. They happen in the thinking phase when people don't think about their purpose.</p>
<p>And that's why I'm so pleased to be on this podcast, your intended message, because that's exactly what the worktop trainings are about is having people be clear on their intentions, and then target their readers.</p>
<p>And so the first thing is to know your purpose and your point. The second thing would be to think about your reader it astonishes me sometimes, how people will just sit down and they're just tap it, tap it tap, but they're writing away.</p>
<p>And then if I stopped them in coaching or in training, and I asked them, so what do you think your readers interested in? And they're like, oh, that's an interesting question. So they need to think about the reader and they need to use clear language.</p>
<p>And the last thing I will say is, people have to reread before they send. It's a common common error that people just tap it tap and send without proofreading. And they live to bear the consequences.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>And the way to use email, when you have an emotional message to send is to send the person an email saying, There's something I need to discuss with you, are you available next Tuesday at 1015.</p>
<p>That's how you use email when you have emotions. Because the emotional email will come back to bite you.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>And sometimes you can do some short, persuasive emails. I just want to backtrack a little bit and talk about when your topic, your theme, which is your intended message, which I just love.</p>
<p>And there are basically three main purposes that business documents have. And those are to inform, to request and to persuade.</p>
<p>If you look at every email you ever wrote, you will see that in all likelihood, it falls into one of those categories you're telling, you're asking or you're selling. And we need to know which of those we're doing in order to effectively convey our message.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Check your email with the "you idiot" test before you send
How to write emails that are more productive
<p>Episode 134 (Liz is based in L.A.)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Liz Danziger we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to write emails that work effectively</li>
<li>What to check when you reread before sending</li>
<li>The three P's to prepare your message</li>
<li>The New York Times and court room guide for emails</li>
<li>How to write and email that people read</li>
<li>The right type of emotional language</li>
</ul>
<p>About Liz Danziger:</p>
<p>Liz is the author of four books published by major publishers including business writing guide, Get to the Point! She is also a columnist on Inc.com</p>
<p></p>
<p>She has decades of experience in helping teams to write clearly and confidently. </p>
<p>Her goal is to empower people to wield the power of words to create success.</p>
<p>To receive her monthly writing tips called Writamins visit <a href='https://worktalk.com/'>www,WorkTalk.com</a></p>
<p>At the same site you can get your copy of Ten Tips for Communicating Effectively in a Fast-Paced World.</p>
<p>You can arrange a complimentary 30-minute call to explore communication issues in your organization. Select a time on her calendar</p>
<p><a href='https://calendly.com/worktalk'>https://calendly.com/worktalk</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Liz Danziger:</p>
<p>02:53</p>
<p>Yes, one thing is that they could know their purpose before they start and know their point before they start. My view is that most writing problems happen before a person starts to write. They happen in the thinking phase when people don't think about their purpose.</p>
<p>And that's why I'm so pleased to be on this podcast, your intended message, because that's exactly what the worktop trainings are about is having people be clear on their intentions, and then target their readers.</p>
<p>And so the first thing is to know your purpose and your point. The second thing would be to think about your reader it astonishes me sometimes, how people will just sit down and they're just tap it, tap it tap, but they're writing away.</p>
<p>And then if I stopped them in coaching or in training, and I asked them, so what do you think your readers interested in? And they're like, oh, that's an interesting question. So they need to think about the reader and they need to use clear language.</p>
<p>And the last thing I will say is, people have to reread before they send. It's a common common error that people just tap it tap and send without proofreading. And they live to bear the consequences.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>And the way to use email, when you have an emotional message to send is to send the person an email saying, There's something I need to discuss with you, are you available next Tuesday at 1015.</p>
<p>That's how you use email when you have emotions. Because the emotional email will come back to bite you.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>And sometimes you can do some short, persuasive emails. I just want to backtrack a little bit and talk about when your topic, your theme, which is your intended message, which I just love.</p>
<p>And there are basically three main purposes that business documents have. And those are to inform, to request and to persuade.</p>
<p>If you look at every email you ever wrote, you will see that in all likelihood, it falls into one of those categories you're telling, you're asking or you're selling. And we need to know which of those we're doing in order to effectively convey our message.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Check your email with the "you idiot" test before you send
How to write emails that are more productive
Episode 134 (Liz is based in L.A.)
In this conversation with Liz Danziger we explore:
How to write emails that work effectively
What to check when you reread before sending
The three P's to prepare your message
The New York Times and court room guide for emails
How to write and email that people read
The right type of emotional language
About Liz Danziger:
Liz is the author of four books published by major publishers including business writing guide, Get to the Point! She is also a columnist on Inc.com

She has decades of experience in helping teams to write clearly and confidently. 
Her goal is to empower people to wield the power of words to create success.
To receive her monthly writing tips called Writamins visit www,WorkTalk.com
At the same site you can get your copy of Ten Tips for Communicating Effectively in a Fast-Paced World.
You can arrange a complimentary 30-minute call to explore communication issues in your organization. Select a time on her calendar
https://calendly.com/worktalk

-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Liz Danziger:
02:53
Yes, one thing is that they could know their purpose before they start and know their point before they start. My view is that most writing problems happen before a person starts to write. They happen in the thinking phase when people don't think about their purpose.
And that's why I'm so pleased to be on this podcast, your intended message, because that's exactly what the worktop trainings are about is having people be clear on their intentions, and then target their readers.
And so the first thing is to know your purpose and your point. The second thing would be to think about your reader it astonishes me sometimes, how people will just sit down and they're just tap it, tap it tap, but they're writing away.
And then if I stopped them in coaching or in training, and I asked them, so what do you think your readers interested in? And they're like, oh, that's an interesting question. So they need to think about the reader and they need to use clear language.
And the last thing I will say is, people have to reread before they send. It's a common common error that people just tap it tap and send without proofreading. And they live to bear the consequences.
-----
And the way to use email, when you have an emotional message to send is to send the person an email saying, There's something I need to discuss with you, are you available next Tuesday at 1015.
That's how you use email when you have emotions. Because the emotional email will come back to bite you.
-----
And sometimes you can do some short, persuasive emails. I just want to backtrack a little bit and talk about when your topic, your theme, which is your intended message, which I just love.
And there are basically three main purposes that business documents have. And those are to inform, to request and to persuade.
If you look at every email you ever wrote, you will see that in all likelihood, it falls into one of those categories you're telling, you're asking or you're selling. And we need to know which of those we're doing in order to effectively convey our message.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit
https://toroktips.com/
 
 
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        <title>The Whole Message = Your Intended Message + The Unintended Message</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Are you clear on the difference and interference between your intended and unintended messages?
<p>Episode 133</p>
<p>In this episode, George Torok offers his insights about:</p>
<ul><li>What are the two blended components of the whole message?</li>
<li>What are the filters that might distort your intended message?</li>
<li>What is that static that can sabotage your intended message?</li>
<li>What are the elements that generate the unintended messages?</li>
</ul>
<p>George Torok is a specialist in communication skills. He coaches executives to deliver their message more successfully. That might be in conversation or presentation.</p>
<p>Learn more about his programs and the results of his clients at </p>
<p><a href='https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this episode:</p>
<p>Today, let's look at the title of this podcast, your intended message. That is part of the message that you send. When you send a message.</p>
<p>Did you know that there are two distinct parts not so distinct, mixed together within your message, your whole message is actually a blend of your intended message and the unintended messages. Let's look at the challenges of both. And once you are aware of these challenges, you can deal with them more effectively, and communicate more successfully. Start let's start with the intended message.</p>
<p>The intended message, of course, is the message that you want to send you hope to send and you believe you sent. However, it's not necessarily the message that was received and understood. And you can probably guess why is that the case? Well, here's four possible reasons why your message might not get through the intended message might not get through one.</p>
<p>Perhaps you failed to clarify your message before sending. And this is a common mistake when it's more common when speaking than writing, we can do it in writing. The good news about is when you write a message, you have time to review and edit before you send. And if it's a particularly thorny message, you might be wise enough to write it, review it, put it aside for a day and come back to it the next day where you can review it and edit and maybe not send it at all.</p>
<p>However, when you're speaking, the danger is you don't have the opportunity to edit unless you have prepared and rehearsed this message that you are delivering, which I suggest you do whenever you can.</p>
<p>So perhaps the first reason why your intended message doesn't get across is maybe you simply failed to clarify your message before sending clarify your message before you start speaking. And that might mean pausing and thinking before you speak.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>To you, it's a mess. To me, it makes sense. And your head. What's going on your head makes sense to you, because you've had all your life to get used to the mess in your head.</p>
<p>And when you want to send a message, you need to take that message in your head, convert it into words, speak the words, they hear the words and convert it into the mess in their head, there's a couple of translations going on. Good opportunity for things to go wrong. And one of the areas of things might go wrong, is the filters that we use, to that we put your message through before we even consider it.</p>
<p>And the filters, we have filters, we filter your message because we are bombarded by messages every day. And we need to make quick decisions. And sometimes those filters work against you getting your intended message across.</p>
<p>What are some of those filters? Well, the first one is beliefs. What are the beliefs that they have? The beliefs they have about you, your company, your organisation, the group you hang around? When what beliefs the topic, your topic, you're talking about that you're telling them? What do they believe? How do they believe differently? And are you addressing those beliefs? Are you clarifying the message,</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Are you clear on the difference and interference between your intended and unintended messages?
<p>Episode 133</p>
<p>In this episode, George Torok offers his insights about:</p>
<ul><li>What are the two blended components of the whole message?</li>
<li>What are the filters that might distort your intended message?</li>
<li>What is that static that can sabotage your intended message?</li>
<li>What are the elements that generate the unintended messages?</li>
</ul>
<p>George Torok is a specialist in communication skills. He coaches executives to deliver their message more successfully. That might be in conversation or presentation.</p>
<p>Learn more about his programs and the results of his clients at </p>
<p><a href='https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this episode:</p>
<p>Today, let's look at the title of this podcast, your intended message. That is part of the message that you send. When you send a message.</p>
<p>Did you know that there are two distinct parts not so distinct, mixed together within your message, your whole message is actually a blend of your intended message and the unintended messages. Let's look at the challenges of both. And once you are aware of these challenges, you can deal with them more effectively, and communicate more successfully. Start let's start with the intended message.</p>
<p>The intended message, of course, is the message that you want to send you hope to send and you believe you sent. However, it's not necessarily the message that was received and understood. And you can probably guess why is that the case? Well, here's four possible reasons why your message might not get through the intended message might not get through one.</p>
<p>Perhaps you failed to clarify your message before sending. And this is a common mistake when it's more common when speaking than writing, we can do it in writing. The good news about is when you write a message, you have time to review and edit before you send. And if it's a particularly thorny message, you might be wise enough to write it, review it, put it aside for a day and come back to it the next day where you can review it and edit and maybe not send it at all.</p>
<p>However, when you're speaking, the danger is you don't have the opportunity to edit unless you have prepared and rehearsed this message that you are delivering, which I suggest you do whenever you can.</p>
<p>So perhaps the first reason why your intended message doesn't get across is maybe you simply failed to clarify your message before sending clarify your message before you start speaking. And that might mean pausing and thinking before you speak.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>To you, it's a mess. To me, it makes sense. And your head. What's going on your head makes sense to you, because you've had all your life to get used to the mess in your head.</p>
<p>And when you want to send a message, you need to take that message in your head, convert it into words, speak the words, they hear the words and convert it into the mess in their head, there's a couple of translations going on. Good opportunity for things to go wrong. And one of the areas of things might go wrong, is the filters that we use, to that we put your message through before we even consider it.</p>
<p>And the filters, we have filters, we filter your message because we are bombarded by messages every day. And we need to make quick decisions. And sometimes those filters work against you getting your intended message across.</p>
<p>What are some of those filters? Well, the first one is beliefs. What are the beliefs that they have? The beliefs they have about you, your company, your organisation, the group you hang around? When what beliefs the topic, your topic, you're talking about that you're telling them? What do they believe? How do they believe differently? And are you addressing those beliefs? Are you clarifying the message,</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Are you clear on the difference and interference between your intended and unintended messages?
Episode 133
In this episode, George Torok offers his insights about:
What are the two blended components of the whole message?
What are the filters that might distort your intended message?
What is that static that can sabotage your intended message?
What are the elements that generate the unintended messages?
George Torok is a specialist in communication skills. He coaches executives to deliver their message more successfully. That might be in conversation or presentation.
Learn more about his programs and the results of his clients at 
https://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/
-----
Excerpts from this episode:
Today, let's look at the title of this podcast, your intended message. That is part of the message that you send. When you send a message.
Did you know that there are two distinct parts not so distinct, mixed together within your message, your whole message is actually a blend of your intended message and the unintended messages. Let's look at the challenges of both. And once you are aware of these challenges, you can deal with them more effectively, and communicate more successfully. Start let's start with the intended message.
The intended message, of course, is the message that you want to send you hope to send and you believe you sent. However, it's not necessarily the message that was received and understood. And you can probably guess why is that the case? Well, here's four possible reasons why your message might not get through the intended message might not get through one.
Perhaps you failed to clarify your message before sending. And this is a common mistake when it's more common when speaking than writing, we can do it in writing. The good news about is when you write a message, you have time to review and edit before you send. And if it's a particularly thorny message, you might be wise enough to write it, review it, put it aside for a day and come back to it the next day where you can review it and edit and maybe not send it at all.
However, when you're speaking, the danger is you don't have the opportunity to edit unless you have prepared and rehearsed this message that you are delivering, which I suggest you do whenever you can.
So perhaps the first reason why your intended message doesn't get across is maybe you simply failed to clarify your message before sending clarify your message before you start speaking. And that might mean pausing and thinking before you speak.
-----
To you, it's a mess. To me, it makes sense. And your head. What's going on your head makes sense to you, because you've had all your life to get used to the mess in your head.
And when you want to send a message, you need to take that message in your head, convert it into words, speak the words, they hear the words and convert it into the mess in their head, there's a couple of translations going on. Good opportunity for things to go wrong. And one of the areas of things might go wrong, is the filters that we use, to that we put your message through before we even consider it.
And the filters, we have filters, we filter your message because we are bombarded by messages every day. And we need to make quick decisions. And sometimes those filters work against you getting your intended message across.
What are some of those filters? Well, the first one is beliefs. What are the beliefs that they have? The beliefs they have about you, your company, your organisation, the group you hang around? When what beliefs the topic, your topic, you're talking about that you're telling them? What do they believe? How do they believe differently? And are you addressing those beliefs? Are you clarifying the message,
-----
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        <title>Write Your Book: Michael Levin</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[You can publish your book with a ghost writer
How do you know if it's time to publish your book?
<p>Episode 132 (Michael is based in New Jersey)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Michael Levin we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Recognizing if you are at the right point to publish your book</li>
<li>Why a book is an interim report and not a final report</li>
<li>Your message must be of value to your readers</li>
<li>How your book can shift the narrative</li>
<li>Why a thought leader must publish their book</li>
<li>The 90-minute book plan</li>
<li>The benefit of independent publishing</li>
</ul>
<p>About Michael Levin:</p>
<p>Michael is a New York Times bestselling author and is the most prolific and experienced business ghostwriter in the US publishing industry.</p>
<p>He has written more than 20 legitimate national bestsellers and multiple number bestselling books for his clients.</p>
<p>To explore working with Michael to write your book, you can call him at</p>
<p>617-543-3747</p>
<p>Learn more at his website: <a href='https://www.michaellevinwrites.com/'>https://www.michaellevinwrites.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Michael Levin:</p>
Books are magic
<p>-----</p>
The first chapter is about the readers' problems
<p>-----</p>
<p>03:02</p>
<p>Writing a book for yourself is one skill. But then the other skill is writing it as a ghostwriter. Putting someone else's ideas into words. What mental shift do you need to make when you go into ghostwriter mode?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:22</p>
<p>Yeah, that's a great question. George, I met Amy Tan, I actually shot pool with Amy Tan, it's a long story. And she she wrote the kitchen, God's wife and the Joy Luck Club and a lot of other best selling really important books.</p>
<p>She says that whenever she was getting into a different character, she would look at her shoes. And just imagine she was physically in the shoes of the other character.</p>
<p>I don't really look at my shoes. But I do think a lot about what's this person's worldview? How do they grow up? What did they see that I haven't seen? How do they express themselves?</p>
<p>And I'll study the transcript of the call because that's going to give me clues as to their syntax, and how and then their word choice, their mode of expression. Do they like short sentences? Do they go on as I am now.</p>
<p>And you put that all together? And it's sort of a mimicry skill combined with the ability to write writing someone else's voice and put material together, you put that all together and and you can generally find your way into somebody's voice. I mean, I've been doing this long enough.</p>
<p>So I've been doing this for 30 years. So you know, this is what I do.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Yeah, so I'm hearing there, that one possible sign or signal that you might be ready to write a book is when you're going through a major change in your own growth, own development?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>09:34</p>
<p>Yeah, that's true. That one of the times to write a book is when you're about to make a great leap forward in your career and you want the world to understand who you are, as opposed to seeing the world seeing you as who you've been.</p>
<p>And then at the same time, there are other folks who are most of the most of the people I work with, as I said, they're already successful.</p>
<p>And they just simply they want more, you know, they want more clients. They want more assets under management. They, they want more fame, they want their brand to be out there in a bigger way.</p>
<p>They want it to be easier to acquire new clients, they don't want to have to, you know, get out there and speak or hustle or do all that they want the book to do the work for them. And that's what books do.</p>
<p>Books are magic. I always say that, when you do a book magic happens, you cannot predict from which direction the magical calm or what it will look like. But time after time after time, the results for the clients are indeed magical</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[You can publish your book with a ghost writer
How do you know if it's time to publish your book?
<p>Episode 132 (Michael is based in New Jersey)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Michael Levin we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Recognizing if you are at the right point to publish your book</li>
<li>Why a book is an interim report and not a final report</li>
<li>Your message must be of value to your readers</li>
<li>How your book can shift the narrative</li>
<li>Why a thought leader must publish their book</li>
<li>The 90-minute book plan</li>
<li>The benefit of independent publishing</li>
</ul>
<p>About Michael Levin:</p>
<p>Michael is a New York Times bestselling author and is the most prolific and experienced business ghostwriter in the US publishing industry.</p>
<p>He has written more than 20 legitimate national bestsellers and multiple number bestselling books for his clients.</p>
<p>To explore working with Michael to write your book, you can call him at</p>
<p>617-543-3747</p>
<p>Learn more at his website: <a href='https://www.michaellevinwrites.com/'>https://www.michaellevinwrites.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Michael Levin:</p>
Books are magic
<p>-----</p>
The first chapter is about the readers' problems
<p>-----</p>
<p>03:02</p>
<p>Writing a book for yourself is one skill. But then the other skill is writing it as a ghostwriter. Putting someone else's ideas into words. What mental shift do you need to make when you go into ghostwriter mode?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:22</p>
<p>Yeah, that's a great question. George, I met Amy Tan, I actually shot pool with Amy Tan, it's a long story. And she she wrote the kitchen, God's wife and the Joy Luck Club and a lot of other best selling really important books.</p>
<p>She says that whenever she was getting into a different character, she would look at her shoes. And just imagine she was physically in the shoes of the other character.</p>
<p>I don't really look at my shoes. But I do think a lot about what's this person's worldview? How do they grow up? What did they see that I haven't seen? How do they express themselves?</p>
<p>And I'll study the transcript of the call because that's going to give me clues as to their syntax, and how and then their word choice, their mode of expression. Do they like short sentences? Do they go on as I am now.</p>
<p>And you put that all together? And it's sort of a mimicry skill combined with the ability to write writing someone else's voice and put material together, you put that all together and and you can generally find your way into somebody's voice. I mean, I've been doing this long enough.</p>
<p>So I've been doing this for 30 years. So you know, this is what I do.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Yeah, so I'm hearing there, that one possible sign or signal that you might be ready to write a book is when you're going through a major change in your own growth, own development?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>09:34</p>
<p>Yeah, that's true. That one of the times to write a book is when you're about to make a great leap forward in your career and you want the world to understand who you are, as opposed to seeing the world seeing you as who you've been.</p>
<p>And then at the same time, there are other folks who are most of the most of the people I work with, as I said, they're already successful.</p>
<p>And they just simply they want more, you know, they want more clients. They want more assets under management. They, they want more fame, they want their brand to be out there in a bigger way.</p>
<p>They want it to be easier to acquire new clients, they don't want to have to, you know, get out there and speak or hustle or do all that they want the book to do the work for them. And that's what books do.</p>
<p>Books are magic. I always say that, when you do a book magic happens, you cannot predict from which direction the magical calm or what it will look like. But time after time after time, the results for the clients are indeed magical</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[You can publish your book with a ghost writer
How do you know if it's time to publish your book?
Episode 132 (Michael is based in New Jersey)
In this conversation with Michael Levin we explore:
Recognizing if you are at the right point to publish your book
Why a book is an interim report and not a final report
Your message must be of value to your readers
How your book can shift the narrative
Why a thought leader must publish their book
The 90-minute book plan
The benefit of independent publishing
About Michael Levin:
Michael is a New York Times bestselling author and is the most prolific and experienced business ghostwriter in the US publishing industry.
He has written more than 20 legitimate national bestsellers and multiple number bestselling books for his clients.
To explore working with Michael to write your book, you can call him at
617-543-3747
Learn more at his website: https://www.michaellevinwrites.com/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Michael Levin:
Books are magic
-----
The first chapter is about the readers' problems
-----
03:02
Writing a book for yourself is one skill. But then the other skill is writing it as a ghostwriter. Putting someone else's ideas into words. What mental shift do you need to make when you go into ghostwriter mode?
 
03:22
Yeah, that's a great question. George, I met Amy Tan, I actually shot pool with Amy Tan, it's a long story. And she she wrote the kitchen, God's wife and the Joy Luck Club and a lot of other best selling really important books.
She says that whenever she was getting into a different character, she would look at her shoes. And just imagine she was physically in the shoes of the other character.
I don't really look at my shoes. But I do think a lot about what's this person's worldview? How do they grow up? What did they see that I haven't seen? How do they express themselves?
And I'll study the transcript of the call because that's going to give me clues as to their syntax, and how and then their word choice, their mode of expression. Do they like short sentences? Do they go on as I am now.
And you put that all together? And it's sort of a mimicry skill combined with the ability to write writing someone else's voice and put material together, you put that all together and and you can generally find your way into somebody's voice. I mean, I've been doing this long enough.
So I've been doing this for 30 years. So you know, this is what I do.
-----
Yeah, so I'm hearing there, that one possible sign or signal that you might be ready to write a book is when you're going through a major change in your own growth, own development?
 
09:34
Yeah, that's true. That one of the times to write a book is when you're about to make a great leap forward in your career and you want the world to understand who you are, as opposed to seeing the world seeing you as who you've been.
And then at the same time, there are other folks who are most of the most of the people I work with, as I said, they're already successful.
And they just simply they want more, you know, they want more clients. They want more assets under management. They, they want more fame, they want their brand to be out there in a bigger way.
They want it to be easier to acquire new clients, they don't want to have to, you know, get out there and speak or hustle or do all that they want the book to do the work for them. And that's what books do.
Books are magic. I always say that, when you do a book magic happens, you cannot predict from which direction the magical calm or what it will look like. But time after time after time, the results for the clients are indeed magical
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater s]]></itunes:summary>
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        <title>Networking, Connecting &amp; Giving: Larry Kaufman</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Build a stronger support system by connecting and giving to others
Build life-changing relationships from college to retirement
<p>Episode 131 (Larry is based in Chicago)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Larry Kaufman we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Recognizing the value of a strong and supportive network</li>
<li>How to build stronger connections by giving and open to help others</li>
<li>Understanding that there are many forms of giving</li>
<li>Distinguishing your inner circle from your outer circle</li>
<li>How to start the conversation if you are in career transition</li>
<li>How to handle a person who is only a taker</li>
</ul>
<p>About Larry Kaufman:</p>
<p>Larry is the author of the best-selling book, The NCG Factor - a Formula for Building Life-Changing Relationships from College to Retirement.</p>
<p>He is a connector, giver and rainmaker who lives his life to help others.</p>
<p>Larry is the Managing Director for the Midwest Region at Jefferson Wells.</p>
<p>Learn more about Larry at the website <a href='http://www.Kaufman-Larry.com'>www.Kaufman-Larry.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.com/dp/173306351X/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=the+ncg+factor&qid=1564530274&s=gateway&sr=8-1'>Learn more about the book, on Amazon.</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Larry Kaufman:</p>
It's really getting to know people, more authentically learning about them, and finding ways to be a connector and a giver.
<p>-----</p>
<p>04:32</p>
<p>So that concept of giving could be as simple as connecting someone to a better source a better resource?</p>
<p>04:41</p>
<p>Right! Because I'm not always the best resource. You know, if you if you needed, you know, someone to fix the electrical in your house. I have to refer you to some people, my network, we're going to be without power.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>07:38</p>
<p>It does. I don't give with expectation for the GET. And if you do, you're doing it wrong. However, I've been very giving and it's very fulfilling. I enjoy it.</p>
<p>Like it's it's a big thrill. It's euphoric, when I hear back, Larry, this connection led to a job or helped my charity or did this for me and my family.</p>
<p>But sometimes you will need that favour George, you'll need it for a family member for yourself. And it's those people, you know, those in transition with a job that never built a network, they were working 70 hour work weeks, all sudden, 20 years later, they're out of a job.</p>
<p>They're like, I don't have a network. And they're asking people they don't know for favours and they're like, I don't really know you. And so I can help my children, my spouse, those in my inner circle, outer circle, I have built a great network.</p>
<p>And usually it's not for myself that a call on those favours. It's for other people that need help.</p>
<p>But I have needed favours you have to read the book to read about a favour I called in for my son but it really is important to build relationships because you can't do the Godfather ask for that favour. Someday I'll need that favour.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>15:08</p>
<p>So you don't necessarily need to be emailing them every week or every month, if the relationship ended on a strong positive, there's a pretty good chance is still that strong positive?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>15:24</p>
<p>Yeah, because I've reached out to people, and I got them a job five years ago and said, Hey, Mary, I need your help, Larry, whatever you want, you know, I'm in my job because of you.</p>
<p>Well, you know, I didn't get them the job. So I could call them later for a favour. But I know when I call them, it's like, hey, we pick up where we left off. And so it's, it's wonderful. It's hard to keep in touch with 1000s of people. But, it happens, it happens naturally, or unexpectedly, and it's good.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Build a stronger support system by connecting and giving to others
Build life-changing relationships from college to retirement
<p>Episode 131 (Larry is based in Chicago)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Larry Kaufman we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Recognizing the value of a strong and supportive network</li>
<li>How to build stronger connections by giving and open to help others</li>
<li>Understanding that there are many forms of giving</li>
<li>Distinguishing your inner circle from your outer circle</li>
<li>How to start the conversation if you are in career transition</li>
<li>How to handle a person who is only a taker</li>
</ul>
<p>About Larry Kaufman:</p>
<p>Larry is the author of the best-selling book, The NCG Factor - a Formula for Building Life-Changing Relationships from College to Retirement.</p>
<p>He is a connector, giver and rainmaker who lives his life to help others.</p>
<p>Larry is the Managing Director for the Midwest Region at Jefferson Wells.</p>
<p>Learn more about Larry at the website <a href='http://www.Kaufman-Larry.com'>www.Kaufman-Larry.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.com/dp/173306351X/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=the+ncg+factor&qid=1564530274&s=gateway&sr=8-1'>Learn more about the book, on Amazon.</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Larry Kaufman:</p>
It's really getting to know people, more authentically learning about them, and finding ways to be a connector and a giver.
<p>-----</p>
<p>04:32</p>
<p>So that concept of giving could be as simple as connecting someone to a better source a better resource?</p>
<p>04:41</p>
<p>Right! Because I'm not always the best resource. You know, if you if you needed, you know, someone to fix the electrical in your house. I have to refer you to some people, my network, we're going to be without power.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>07:38</p>
<p>It does. I don't give with expectation for the GET. And if you do, you're doing it wrong. However, I've been very giving and it's very fulfilling. I enjoy it.</p>
<p>Like it's it's a big thrill. It's euphoric, when I hear back, Larry, this connection led to a job or helped my charity or did this for me and my family.</p>
<p>But sometimes you will need that favour George, you'll need it for a family member for yourself. And it's those people, you know, those in transition with a job that never built a network, they were working 70 hour work weeks, all sudden, 20 years later, they're out of a job.</p>
<p>They're like, I don't have a network. And they're asking people they don't know for favours and they're like, I don't really know you. And so I can help my children, my spouse, those in my inner circle, outer circle, I have built a great network.</p>
<p>And usually it's not for myself that a call on those favours. It's for other people that need help.</p>
<p>But I have needed favours you have to read the book to read about a favour I called in for my son but it really is important to build relationships because you can't do the Godfather ask for that favour. Someday I'll need that favour.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>15:08</p>
<p>So you don't necessarily need to be emailing them every week or every month, if the relationship ended on a strong positive, there's a pretty good chance is still that strong positive?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>15:24</p>
<p>Yeah, because I've reached out to people, and I got them a job five years ago and said, Hey, Mary, I need your help, Larry, whatever you want, you know, I'm in my job because of you.</p>
<p>Well, you know, I didn't get them the job. So I could call them later for a favour. But I know when I call them, it's like, hey, we pick up where we left off. And so it's, it's wonderful. It's hard to keep in touch with 1000s of people. But, it happens, it happens naturally, or unexpectedly, and it's good.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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Build life-changing relationships from college to retirement
Episode 131 (Larry is based in Chicago)
In this conversation with Larry Kaufman we explore:
Recognizing the value of a strong and supportive network
How to build stronger connections by giving and open to help others
Understanding that there are many forms of giving
Distinguishing your inner circle from your outer circle
How to start the conversation if you are in career transition
How to handle a person who is only a taker
About Larry Kaufman:
Larry is the author of the best-selling book, The NCG Factor - a Formula for Building Life-Changing Relationships from College to Retirement.
He is a connector, giver and rainmaker who lives his life to help others.
Larry is the Managing Director for the Midwest Region at Jefferson Wells.
Learn more about Larry at the website www.Kaufman-Larry.com
 

Learn more about the book, on Amazon.
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Larry Kaufman:
It's really getting to know people, more authentically learning about them, and finding ways to be a connector and a giver.
-----
04:32
So that concept of giving could be as simple as connecting someone to a better source a better resource?
04:41
Right! Because I'm not always the best resource. You know, if you if you needed, you know, someone to fix the electrical in your house. I have to refer you to some people, my network, we're going to be without power.
-----
07:38
It does. I don't give with expectation for the GET. And if you do, you're doing it wrong. However, I've been very giving and it's very fulfilling. I enjoy it.
Like it's it's a big thrill. It's euphoric, when I hear back, Larry, this connection led to a job or helped my charity or did this for me and my family.
But sometimes you will need that favour George, you'll need it for a family member for yourself. And it's those people, you know, those in transition with a job that never built a network, they were working 70 hour work weeks, all sudden, 20 years later, they're out of a job.
They're like, I don't have a network. And they're asking people they don't know for favours and they're like, I don't really know you. And so I can help my children, my spouse, those in my inner circle, outer circle, I have built a great network.
And usually it's not for myself that a call on those favours. It's for other people that need help.
But I have needed favours you have to read the book to read about a favour I called in for my son but it really is important to build relationships because you can't do the Godfather ask for that favour. Someday I'll need that favour.
-----
15:08
So you don't necessarily need to be emailing them every week or every month, if the relationship ended on a strong positive, there's a pretty good chance is still that strong positive?
 
15:24
Yeah, because I've reached out to people, and I got them a job five years ago and said, Hey, Mary, I need your help, Larry, whatever you want, you know, I'm in my job because of you.
Well, you know, I didn't get them the job. So I could call them later for a favour. But I know when I call them, it's like, hey, we pick up where we left off. And so it's, it's wonderful. It's hard to keep in touch with 1000s of people. But, it happens, it happens naturally, or unexpectedly, and it's good.
-----
----more----
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Is your conscious and subconscious on the same team?
What is the path out of chaos?
<p>Episode 130 (Vince is based in Dallas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Vince Poscente we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Recognizing the conflict between your conscious and subconscious</li>
<li>Why you must resolve that conflict before you can pursue success</li>
<li>How to face an earthquake in your personal life</li>
<li>Understanding the role of fear and how you might harness your fears</li>
<li>Creating your own solution loop to escape the earthquake</li>
<li>Appreciating the value of an outside perspective</li>
</ul>
<p>About Vince Poscente:</p>
<p>Vince is a New York Times best selling author of eight books including his latest, The Earthquake.</p>
<p></p>
<p>He is president of Board Developer providing sound advice for high growth companies.</p>
<p>You can learn more about Vince Poscente and order his latest book at </p>
<p><a href='http://www.VincePoscente.com'>www.VincePoscente.com</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Vince Poscente:</p>
There is no linear way out of chaos.
<p>-----</p>
<p>But to answer your question about the earthquake, sometimes we experience a personal earthquake, where we're incapacitated, or we're catatonic or just paralysed by fear of maybe it's bankruptcy, maybe it's divorce, maybe it's a health scare, maybe it's losing a child. I mean, these personal earthquakes that can add absolutely devastate us can create this environment of chaos.</p>
<p>And therefore, how do you get through that chaos? How do you get unparaandlysed and move forward? How do you engage in that way?</p>
<p>And so I'd taken from my own personal financial earthquake, and then turned it into another parable about the ant and the elephant experiencing an earthquake at the very outset of the book, and then how do you get out of this, this chaos? What is this way to get there?</p>
<p>And so that was the challenge of the book.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>08:35</p>
<p>Well, here's a fact.</p>
When you run away from fear, it gets larger. When you run towards fear, it gets smaller.
<p>And that is not part of our human experience. Is it like if you run towards something, it gets bigger normally, but fear is insidious. It is. And it's, it's, it's obviously when you get in the middle of it, the reason it gets smaller, you go, Oh, I can handle this, you know.</p>
<p>So those fears, correlate to being able to kind of go against your instinct, which is to run and hide, right? Because there's a part of the brain called the amygdala.</p>
<p>And the amygdala is the oldest part of the brain. And it's quite small about the size of a walnut but that's the gatekeeper for thought, meaning that if you can't get past the amygdala, meaning let's say there's a tiger in the bushes somewhere, right?</p>
<p>The amygdala is going to kick in to do one of three things. It's going to either freeze. That's the first instinct.</p>
<p>The second instinct is to flight to run away. And then the third instinct which would kick you gotta get past these three.</p>
<p>The third one is to fight right so freeze think of a rabbit in the in a field right a little bunny rabbit, and here's a predator, right? What does it do? It first freezes and it just looks around and hopefully you don't see me you don't see me they don't see any. If the predator sees the little bunny, the bunny is going to take off, right?</p>
<p>And then if it's cornered, it's going to rear and then fight, okay, none of those three responses as part of this human condition is to is going to be efficacious, there's going to be very little progress made if you freeze, flight or fight.</p>
<p>So, the hack, by the way, in case you're wondering, let's say you get scared going on stage, speaking to a bunch of people. The reason you've had a bad experience in the past and don't want to do it, again, is that you forgot to breathe, you're not breathing.</p>
<p>And that's trigger for the amygdala, the trigger for the freeze flight or fright flight, or fight freeze flight or fight is to, is to lack of oxygen flow, which is shallow breathing.</p>
<p>So when you're scared, let a scary movie, just notice what your breathing is. It's like it's shallow. It's Oh, no, what's right, and that is triggering the amygdala.</p>
<p>Now it's very safe in a movie theatre to just be there. But if in real life, you're in any of those three states, you're not going to make progress. In fact, the opposite is gonna you're gonna get hurt, something's going to, you know, create a truth in the subconscious mind that this is not a good feeling, but maybe it becomes something like a lack of deserve ability, or there's all sorts of dysfunction that can happen from fear taking hold.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Is your conscious and subconscious on the same team?
What is the path out of chaos?
<p>Episode 130 (Vince is based in Dallas)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Vince Poscente we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Recognizing the conflict between your conscious and subconscious</li>
<li>Why you must resolve that conflict before you can pursue success</li>
<li>How to face an earthquake in your personal life</li>
<li>Understanding the role of fear and how you might harness your fears</li>
<li>Creating your own solution loop to escape the earthquake</li>
<li>Appreciating the value of an outside perspective</li>
</ul>
<p>About Vince Poscente:</p>
<p>Vince is a New York Times best selling author of eight books including his latest, The Earthquake.</p>
<p></p>
<p>He is president of Board Developer providing sound advice for high growth companies.</p>
<p>You can learn more about Vince Poscente and order his latest book at </p>
<p><a href='http://www.VincePoscente.com'>www.VincePoscente.com</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Vince Poscente:</p>
There is no linear way out of chaos.
<p>-----</p>
<p>But to answer your question about the earthquake, sometimes we experience a personal earthquake, where we're incapacitated, or we're catatonic or just paralysed by fear of maybe it's bankruptcy, maybe it's divorce, maybe it's a health scare, maybe it's losing a child. I mean, these personal earthquakes that can add absolutely devastate us can create this environment of chaos.</p>
<p>And therefore, how do you get through that chaos? How do you get unparaandlysed and move forward? How do you engage in that way?</p>
<p>And so I'd taken from my own personal financial earthquake, and then turned it into another parable about the ant and the elephant experiencing an earthquake at the very outset of the book, and then how do you get out of this, this chaos? What is this way to get there?</p>
<p>And so that was the challenge of the book.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>08:35</p>
<p>Well, here's a fact.</p>
When you run away from fear, it gets larger. When you run towards fear, it gets smaller.
<p>And that is not part of our human experience. Is it like if you run towards something, it gets bigger normally, but fear is insidious. It is. And it's, it's, it's obviously when you get in the middle of it, the reason it gets smaller, you go, Oh, I can handle this, you know.</p>
<p>So those fears, correlate to being able to kind of go against your instinct, which is to run and hide, right? Because there's a part of the brain called the amygdala.</p>
<p>And the amygdala is the oldest part of the brain. And it's quite small about the size of a walnut but that's the gatekeeper for thought, meaning that if you can't get past the amygdala, meaning let's say there's a tiger in the bushes somewhere, right?</p>
<p>The amygdala is going to kick in to do one of three things. It's going to either freeze. That's the first instinct.</p>
<p>The second instinct is to flight to run away. And then the third instinct which would kick you gotta get past these three.</p>
<p>The third one is to fight right so freeze think of a rabbit in the in a field right a little bunny rabbit, and here's a predator, right? What does it do? It first freezes and it just looks around and hopefully you don't see me you don't see me they don't see any. If the predator sees the little bunny, the bunny is going to take off, right?</p>
<p>And then if it's cornered, it's going to rear and then fight, okay, none of those three responses as part of this human condition is to is going to be efficacious, there's going to be very little progress made if you freeze, flight or fight.</p>
<p>So, the hack, by the way, in case you're wondering, let's say you get scared going on stage, speaking to a bunch of people. The reason you've had a bad experience in the past and don't want to do it, again, is that you forgot to breathe, you're not breathing.</p>
<p>And that's trigger for the amygdala, the trigger for the freeze flight or fright flight, or fight freeze flight or fight is to, is to lack of oxygen flow, which is shallow breathing.</p>
<p>So when you're scared, let a scary movie, just notice what your breathing is. It's like it's shallow. It's Oh, no, what's right, and that is triggering the amygdala.</p>
<p>Now it's very safe in a movie theatre to just be there. But if in real life, you're in any of those three states, you're not going to make progress. In fact, the opposite is gonna you're gonna get hurt, something's going to, you know, create a truth in the subconscious mind that this is not a good feeling, but maybe it becomes something like a lack of deserve ability, or there's all sorts of dysfunction that can happen from fear taking hold.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Is your conscious and subconscious on the same team?
What is the path out of chaos?
Episode 130 (Vince is based in Dallas)
In this conversation with Vince Poscente we explore:
Recognizing the conflict between your conscious and subconscious
Why you must resolve that conflict before you can pursue success
How to face an earthquake in your personal life
Understanding the role of fear and how you might harness your fears
Creating your own solution loop to escape the earthquake
Appreciating the value of an outside perspective
About Vince Poscente:
Vince is a New York Times best selling author of eight books including his latest, The Earthquake.

He is president of Board Developer providing sound advice for high growth companies.
You can learn more about Vince Poscente and order his latest book at 
www.VincePoscente.com

-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Vince Poscente:
There is no linear way out of chaos.
-----
But to answer your question about the earthquake, sometimes we experience a personal earthquake, where we're incapacitated, or we're catatonic or just paralysed by fear of maybe it's bankruptcy, maybe it's divorce, maybe it's a health scare, maybe it's losing a child. I mean, these personal earthquakes that can add absolutely devastate us can create this environment of chaos.
And therefore, how do you get through that chaos? How do you get unparaandlysed and move forward? How do you engage in that way?
And so I'd taken from my own personal financial earthquake, and then turned it into another parable about the ant and the elephant experiencing an earthquake at the very outset of the book, and then how do you get out of this, this chaos? What is this way to get there?
And so that was the challenge of the book.
-----
08:35
Well, here's a fact.
When you run away from fear, it gets larger. When you run towards fear, it gets smaller.
And that is not part of our human experience. Is it like if you run towards something, it gets bigger normally, but fear is insidious. It is. And it's, it's, it's obviously when you get in the middle of it, the reason it gets smaller, you go, Oh, I can handle this, you know.
So those fears, correlate to being able to kind of go against your instinct, which is to run and hide, right? Because there's a part of the brain called the amygdala.
And the amygdala is the oldest part of the brain. And it's quite small about the size of a walnut but that's the gatekeeper for thought, meaning that if you can't get past the amygdala, meaning let's say there's a tiger in the bushes somewhere, right?
The amygdala is going to kick in to do one of three things. It's going to either freeze. That's the first instinct.
The second instinct is to flight to run away. And then the third instinct which would kick you gotta get past these three.
The third one is to fight right so freeze think of a rabbit in the in a field right a little bunny rabbit, and here's a predator, right? What does it do? It first freezes and it just looks around and hopefully you don't see me you don't see me they don't see any. If the predator sees the little bunny, the bunny is going to take off, right?
And then if it's cornered, it's going to rear and then fight, okay, none of those three responses as part of this human condition is to is going to be efficacious, there's going to be very little progress made if you freeze, flight or fight.
So, the hack, by the way, in case you're wondering, let's say you get scared going on stage, speaking to a bunch of people. The reason you've had a bad experience in the past and don't want to do it, again, is that you forgot to breathe, you're not breathing.
And that's trigger for the amygdala, the trigger for the freeze flight or fright flight, or fight freeze flight or fight is to, is to lack of oxygen flow, which is shallow breathing.
So when you're scared, let a scary movie, just notice what your breathing is. It's like it's shallow. It's Oh, no, what's right, and that is triggering th]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[In your job what fires you up? What sucks?
Why both are part of your work and how to find the right balance?
<p>Episode 129 (Chris is based in Atlanta, Georgia)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Chris Tuff we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What is the right balance of work you love and work that sucks?</li>
<li>How the different generations view work differently</li>
<li>Why the grass isn't always greener elsewhere</li>
<li>What does work flexibility mean and how is it changing?</li>
<li>The value of more constructive feedback</li>
<li>How to develop authentic connection with the team</li>
<li>How to be nice and still fire someone</li>
</ul>
<p>About Chris Tuff</p>
<p>Chris is the author of "Save Your Asks" and "The Millennial Whisperer".</p>
<p>Through his energy, humor and storytelling, Chris demonstrates how connection can accelerate business growth as well as recruitment and retention.</p>
<p>Learn more about Chris at the website <a href='http://www.ChrisTuff.me'>www.ChrisTuff.me</a></p>
<p>Books by Chris Tuff</p>
<p>     </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Chris Tuff</p>
<p>-----</p>
There is nothing worse in life than complacency.
<p>-----</p>
<p>So 70%, generally speaking, of your job should actually fire you up and actually put this into tactics where on the first week that someone joins my team, I will have them take their job description and figure out what's in your 70% zone of excellence and fire you up.</p>
<p>And then what's in your 30% zone of suck, right? Because the harsh reality, and I tell this to anyone willing to listen is that 30% of all of our jobs are gonna suck.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>I went into an organization that had, okay, so they have 100,000 employees, but 2500 HR leaders, all right, which will give you perspective to just how much they put in their people and culture 2500 people.</p>
<p>And so I dissected their data we did, we spent two months prepping for this meeting. And it all came down to just one big takeaway, which is just make it easy, everyone loves it here.</p>
<p>But you make it so hard for people to actually move laterally to other parts of that organization. The simplest thing you can do is allow people to make those lateral job moves, because people are not leaving, because you make it so difficult, because you end up prioritizing those, those jobs for people from the outside.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Effective, authentic connection. How do you how do you know if it feels right?</p>
<p>So authenticity is one of the things that's so few and far between in this world and my whole platform is around authentic connection. And, you know, one of the things that I emphasize is what I call the art of the fly by. </p>
<p>And the art of the fly by is simply going by anyone on your team's desk and just saying, or, you know, in a hybrid workforce, texting them a video text message and say, George, that vacation you took last weekend look, epic.</p>
<p>Tell me more about it. Like, I saw that you hung out at the beach and tried out surfing, that's awesome. Props to you. How did it go? Right? It's just taking a little bit of that vested interest in their daily lives,</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[In your job what fires you up? What sucks?
Why both are part of your work and how to find the right balance?
<p>Episode 129 (Chris is based in Atlanta, Georgia)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Chris Tuff we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What is the right balance of work you love and work that sucks?</li>
<li>How the different generations view work differently</li>
<li>Why the grass isn't always greener elsewhere</li>
<li>What does work flexibility mean and how is it changing?</li>
<li>The value of more constructive feedback</li>
<li>How to develop authentic connection with the team</li>
<li>How to be nice and still fire someone</li>
</ul>
<p>About Chris Tuff</p>
<p>Chris is the author of "Save Your Asks" and "The Millennial Whisperer".</p>
<p>Through his energy, humor and storytelling, Chris demonstrates how connection can accelerate business growth as well as recruitment and retention.</p>
<p>Learn more about Chris at the website <a href='http://www.ChrisTuff.me'>www.ChrisTuff.me</a></p>
<p>Books by Chris Tuff</p>
<p>     </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Chris Tuff</p>
<p>-----</p>
There is nothing worse in life than complacency.
<p>-----</p>
<p>So 70%, generally speaking, of your job should actually fire you up and actually put this into tactics where on the first week that someone joins my team, I will have them take their job description and figure out what's in your 70% zone of excellence and fire you up.</p>
<p>And then what's in your 30% zone of suck, right? Because the harsh reality, and I tell this to anyone willing to listen is that 30% of all of our jobs are gonna suck.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>I went into an organization that had, okay, so they have 100,000 employees, but 2500 HR leaders, all right, which will give you perspective to just how much they put in their people and culture 2500 people.</p>
<p>And so I dissected their data we did, we spent two months prepping for this meeting. And it all came down to just one big takeaway, which is just make it easy, everyone loves it here.</p>
<p>But you make it so hard for people to actually move laterally to other parts of that organization. The simplest thing you can do is allow people to make those lateral job moves, because people are not leaving, because you make it so difficult, because you end up prioritizing those, those jobs for people from the outside.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Effective, authentic connection. How do you how do you know if it feels right?</p>
<p>So authenticity is one of the things that's so few and far between in this world and my whole platform is around authentic connection. And, you know, one of the things that I emphasize is what I call the art of the fly by. </p>
<p>And the art of the fly by is simply going by anyone on your team's desk and just saying, or, you know, in a hybrid workforce, texting them a video text message and say, George, that vacation you took last weekend look, epic.</p>
<p>Tell me more about it. Like, I saw that you hung out at the beach and tried out surfing, that's awesome. Props to you. How did it go? Right? It's just taking a little bit of that vested interest in their daily lives,</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In your job what fires you up? What sucks?
Why both are part of your work and how to find the right balance?
Episode 129 (Chris is based in Atlanta, Georgia)
In this conversation with Chris Tuff we explore:
What is the right balance of work you love and work that sucks?
How the different generations view work differently
Why the grass isn't always greener elsewhere
What does work flexibility mean and how is it changing?
The value of more constructive feedback
How to develop authentic connection with the team
How to be nice and still fire someone
About Chris Tuff
Chris is the author of "Save Your Asks" and "The Millennial Whisperer".
Through his energy, humor and storytelling, Chris demonstrates how connection can accelerate business growth as well as recruitment and retention.
Learn more about Chris at the website www.ChrisTuff.me
Books by Chris Tuff
     
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Chris Tuff
-----
There is nothing worse in life than complacency.
-----
So 70%, generally speaking, of your job should actually fire you up and actually put this into tactics where on the first week that someone joins my team, I will have them take their job description and figure out what's in your 70% zone of excellence and fire you up.
And then what's in your 30% zone of suck, right? Because the harsh reality, and I tell this to anyone willing to listen is that 30% of all of our jobs are gonna suck.
-----
I went into an organization that had, okay, so they have 100,000 employees, but 2500 HR leaders, all right, which will give you perspective to just how much they put in their people and culture 2500 people.
And so I dissected their data we did, we spent two months prepping for this meeting. And it all came down to just one big takeaway, which is just make it easy, everyone loves it here.
But you make it so hard for people to actually move laterally to other parts of that organization. The simplest thing you can do is allow people to make those lateral job moves, because people are not leaving, because you make it so difficult, because you end up prioritizing those, those jobs for people from the outside.
-----
Effective, authentic connection. How do you how do you know if it feels right?
So authenticity is one of the things that's so few and far between in this world and my whole platform is around authentic connection. And, you know, one of the things that I emphasize is what I call the art of the fly by. 
And the art of the fly by is simply going by anyone on your team's desk and just saying, or, you know, in a hybrid workforce, texting them a video text message and say, George, that vacation you took last weekend look, epic.
Tell me more about it. Like, I saw that you hung out at the beach and tried out surfing, that's awesome. Props to you. How did it go? Right? It's just taking a little bit of that vested interest in their daily lives,
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit
https://toroktips.com/
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        <title>Convey Your Message with a Short Book: Mike Capuzzi</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[If you have experience and expertise you can publish a book
Let's explore the magic of short books to boost your intended message
<p>Episode 128 (Mike is based in eastern Pennsylvania)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Mike Capuzzi, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why a short book can help your business differentiate from the competition</li>
<li>Why a short can boost your career and help build your team</li>
<li>Where do you start when planning a book</li>
<li>Why a short book is better than a long book</li>
<li>How do approach your book project</li>
<li>The magic of short books and free books</li>
</ul>
<p>About Mike Capuzzi:</p>
<p>Mike has written and published 19 books, including two Amazon @1 Best Sellers.</p>
<p>He has helped over 225 business owners, entrepreneurs and corporate leaders publish their own short books.</p>
<p>He started his career in engineering and shifted to marketing in 1994.</p>
<p>Grab the offer of three free ebooks about the magic of publishing short books here <a href='https://mikecapuzzi.com/magic/'>https://mikecapuzzi.com/magic/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Mike Capuzzi</p>
<p>-----</p>
The thought is always about serving the reader first
<p>-----</p>
<p>I think most of us are short on time, or at least we appear to be, therefore lets appreciate it - this idea of a short book that can be read in an hour or so.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About two thirds of our clients are local business owners, the local retailer, the local physician, the local chiropractor, the local insurance agent.</p>
<p>And that person that woman, or man who writes that book, they typically want to be what I call five mile famous, they want to be the number one chiropractor, the most sought after Dentist, the you know, insurance agent who's known for XYZ, whatever it might be.</p>
<p>So they're not looking to be a worldwide phenomena, they are looking to be an established authority in their community.</p>
<p>So for them, it's really about being different than their competition. Each one of those types of business owners has a ton of competition, most of their competition, if not all have never written a book.</p>
<p>So right there differentiates them. So being five mile famous for the local business owner is definitely one of the biggest benefits.</p>
<p>For the corporate leader, the entrepreneur, the business owner, like myself, who has a worldwide audience, we have clients all over the world, it's a bit different, it is more about establishing your authority, your expertise on a worldwide level doesn't necessarily mean speaking, though. I have spoken on stage several times over the years.</p>
<p>But it's really about being a credible source of podcast guest, you know, immediate interview potential prospect for media.</p>
<p>And it's really about using your book to establish that expertise, that authority, that credibility.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[If you have experience and expertise you can publish a book
Let's explore the magic of short books to boost your intended message
<p>Episode 128 (Mike is based in eastern Pennsylvania)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Mike Capuzzi, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why a short book can help your business differentiate from the competition</li>
<li>Why a short can boost your career and help build your team</li>
<li>Where do you start when planning a book</li>
<li>Why a short book is better than a long book</li>
<li>How do approach your book project</li>
<li>The magic of short books and free books</li>
</ul>
<p>About Mike Capuzzi:</p>
<p>Mike has written and published 19 books, including two Amazon @1 Best Sellers.</p>
<p>He has helped over 225 business owners, entrepreneurs and corporate leaders publish their own short books.</p>
<p>He started his career in engineering and shifted to marketing in 1994.</p>
<p>Grab the offer of three free ebooks about the magic of publishing short books here <a href='https://mikecapuzzi.com/magic/'>https://mikecapuzzi.com/magic/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Mike Capuzzi</p>
<p>-----</p>
The thought is always about serving the reader first
<p>-----</p>
<p>I think most of us are short on time, or at least we appear to be, therefore lets appreciate it - this idea of a short book that can be read in an hour or so.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>About two thirds of our clients are local business owners, the local retailer, the local physician, the local chiropractor, the local insurance agent.</p>
<p>And that person that woman, or man who writes that book, they typically want to be what I call five mile famous, they want to be the number one chiropractor, the most sought after Dentist, the you know, insurance agent who's known for XYZ, whatever it might be.</p>
<p>So they're not looking to be a worldwide phenomena, they are looking to be an established authority in their community.</p>
<p>So for them, it's really about being different than their competition. Each one of those types of business owners has a ton of competition, most of their competition, if not all have never written a book.</p>
<p>So right there differentiates them. So being five mile famous for the local business owner is definitely one of the biggest benefits.</p>
<p>For the corporate leader, the entrepreneur, the business owner, like myself, who has a worldwide audience, we have clients all over the world, it's a bit different, it is more about establishing your authority, your expertise on a worldwide level doesn't necessarily mean speaking, though. I have spoken on stage several times over the years.</p>
<p>But it's really about being a credible source of podcast guest, you know, immediate interview potential prospect for media.</p>
<p>And it's really about using your book to establish that expertise, that authority, that credibility.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you have experience and expertise you can publish a book
Let's explore the magic of short books to boost your intended message
Episode 128 (Mike is based in eastern Pennsylvania)
In this conversation with Mike Capuzzi, we explore:
Why a short book can help your business differentiate from the competition
Why a short can boost your career and help build your team
Where do you start when planning a book
Why a short book is better than a long book
How do approach your book project
The magic of short books and free books
About Mike Capuzzi:
Mike has written and published 19 books, including two Amazon @1 Best Sellers.
He has helped over 225 business owners, entrepreneurs and corporate leaders publish their own short books.
He started his career in engineering and shifted to marketing in 1994.
Grab the offer of three free ebooks about the magic of publishing short books here https://mikecapuzzi.com/magic/

 
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Mike Capuzzi
-----
The thought is always about serving the reader first
-----
I think most of us are short on time, or at least we appear to be, therefore lets appreciate it - this idea of a short book that can be read in an hour or so.
-----
About two thirds of our clients are local business owners, the local retailer, the local physician, the local chiropractor, the local insurance agent.
And that person that woman, or man who writes that book, they typically want to be what I call five mile famous, they want to be the number one chiropractor, the most sought after Dentist, the you know, insurance agent who's known for XYZ, whatever it might be.
So they're not looking to be a worldwide phenomena, they are looking to be an established authority in their community.
So for them, it's really about being different than their competition. Each one of those types of business owners has a ton of competition, most of their competition, if not all have never written a book.
So right there differentiates them. So being five mile famous for the local business owner is definitely one of the biggest benefits.
For the corporate leader, the entrepreneur, the business owner, like myself, who has a worldwide audience, we have clients all over the world, it's a bit different, it is more about establishing your authority, your expertise on a worldwide level doesn't necessarily mean speaking, though. I have spoken on stage several times over the years.
But it's really about being a credible source of podcast guest, you know, immediate interview potential prospect for media.
And it's really about using your book to establish that expertise, that authority, that credibility.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit
https://toroktips.com/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[You communicate on many channels and must get it right every time
How do you manage the emotional messages?
<p>Episode 127 (Sandra is based in Toronto)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Sandra Bekhor, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The communication challenges of professional service firms</li>
<li>How to polish your customer service messaging</li>
<li>How to handle angry customers</li>
<li>The importance of modern thinking and adopting the scientist mindset</li>
<li>Why start with scripts and how to use them</li>
<li>How to make promises that you can fulfil</li>
</ul>
<p>About Sandra Bekhor:</p>
<p>Sandra is the subject matter expert for the comprehensive, "Marketing for Architects" course offered by the Royal Architectural Institute of Canada.</p>
<p>Bekhor Management provides strategic and authentic practice development coaching for small to mid-sized professional service firms.</p>
<p>Learn more about her services at <a href='http://www.Bekhor.ca'>www.Bekhor.ca</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.bekhor.ca/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Sandra Bekhor</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Communication isn't one thing. So just because you're great at doing your presentation, your pitch to your client, well doesn't mean that you know, how to give someone feedback.</p>
<p>And it doesn't mean that you know, how to handle conflict. Right. So, there are so many different aspects of communication.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>So you have to write a script. And that's your starting point. </p>
<p>And then practice it with situations that are safe. And then eventually you do learn that language that is authentic to you.</p>
<p>So that when you go into the real world, and and use the script, and it's just a starting point, it's not that you're going to stick to that language Exactly. But you will actually feel bolstered.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>So your renovation firm doing some renovations on the house. And I'm on the phone with you and say well...</p>
<p>I thought you were going to your people were going to show up on Monday, and it's now Tuesday afternoon and they still aren't here and I didn't get any calls.</p>
<p>What the hell's the matter with you people?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>09:36</p>
<p>Are I'm going to jump in here as Samantha. Oh, George, I am so glad you told me this happened. You know, this week, things have just gotten out of control with people being sick and having family emergencies.</p>
<p>And I didn't realize that this happened this morning. I don't know how I will fix this for you. But just give me an hour. I'm going to check in with my team and I promise to call you back in an hour.</p>
<p>And then we will discuss what what we can do about this.</p>
<p>10:15</p>
<p>Okay, now I'm calm.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>18:22</p>
<p>Ah, wonderful. See? And again, you you, you calm the situation. And you didn't over promise you didn't make excuses. And you pointed out I don't know, I'll have to find it and get back to you. And sometimes that's good enough.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>18:41</p>
<p>You know, this is such an interesting point. Most professionals are scared to say I don't know. And it's actually a secret weapon.</p>
<p>Just Just remember that people calm down when they see your own. I don't know, transparency.</p>
<p>You know, if you say I don't know, it doesn't mean your failure. It doesn't mean you're not good at your job doesn't mean that you're not smart. It means you don't know this exact moment, that specific very thing.</p>
<p>And you're making a promise that you will go find out for the person who does know, and you will get back to them.</p>
<p>You didn't lose anything in admitting that you don't know. In fact, the person calmed down, because you said that instead of pretending, pretending that you know something that you don't know, which would have made it worse.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[You communicate on many channels and must get it right every time
How do you manage the emotional messages?
<p>Episode 127 (Sandra is based in Toronto)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Sandra Bekhor, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The communication challenges of professional service firms</li>
<li>How to polish your customer service messaging</li>
<li>How to handle angry customers</li>
<li>The importance of modern thinking and adopting the scientist mindset</li>
<li>Why start with scripts and how to use them</li>
<li>How to make promises that you can fulfil</li>
</ul>
<p>About Sandra Bekhor:</p>
<p>Sandra is the subject matter expert for the comprehensive, "Marketing for Architects" course offered by the Royal Architectural Institute of Canada.</p>
<p>Bekhor Management provides strategic and authentic practice development coaching for small to mid-sized professional service firms.</p>
<p>Learn more about her services at <a href='http://www.Bekhor.ca'>www.Bekhor.ca</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.bekhor.ca/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Sandra Bekhor</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Communication isn't one thing. So just because you're great at doing your presentation, your pitch to your client, well doesn't mean that you know, how to give someone feedback.</p>
<p>And it doesn't mean that you know, how to handle conflict. Right. So, there are so many different aspects of communication.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>So you have to write a script. And that's your starting point. </p>
<p>And then practice it with situations that are safe. And then eventually you do learn that language that is authentic to you.</p>
<p>So that when you go into the real world, and and use the script, and it's just a starting point, it's not that you're going to stick to that language Exactly. But you will actually feel bolstered.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>So your renovation firm doing some renovations on the house. And I'm on the phone with you and say well...</p>
<p>I thought you were going to your people were going to show up on Monday, and it's now Tuesday afternoon and they still aren't here and I didn't get any calls.</p>
<p>What the hell's the matter with you people?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>09:36</p>
<p>Are I'm going to jump in here as Samantha. Oh, George, I am so glad you told me this happened. You know, this week, things have just gotten out of control with people being sick and having family emergencies.</p>
<p>And I didn't realize that this happened this morning. I don't know how I will fix this for you. But just give me an hour. I'm going to check in with my team and I promise to call you back in an hour.</p>
<p>And then we will discuss what what we can do about this.</p>
<p>10:15</p>
<p>Okay, now I'm calm.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>18:22</p>
<p>Ah, wonderful. See? And again, you you, you calm the situation. And you didn't over promise you didn't make excuses. And you pointed out I don't know, I'll have to find it and get back to you. And sometimes that's good enough.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>18:41</p>
<p>You know, this is such an interesting point. Most professionals are scared to say I don't know. And it's actually a secret weapon.</p>
<p>Just Just remember that people calm down when they see your own. I don't know, transparency.</p>
<p>You know, if you say I don't know, it doesn't mean your failure. It doesn't mean you're not good at your job doesn't mean that you're not smart. It means you don't know this exact moment, that specific very thing.</p>
<p>And you're making a promise that you will go find out for the person who does know, and you will get back to them.</p>
<p>You didn't lose anything in admitting that you don't know. In fact, the person calmed down, because you said that instead of pretending, pretending that you know something that you don't know, which would have made it worse.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[You communicate on many channels and must get it right every time
How do you manage the emotional messages?
Episode 127 (Sandra is based in Toronto)
In this conversation with Sandra Bekhor, we explore:
The communication challenges of professional service firms
How to polish your customer service messaging
How to handle angry customers
The importance of modern thinking and adopting the scientist mindset
Why start with scripts and how to use them
How to make promises that you can fulfil
About Sandra Bekhor:
Sandra is the subject matter expert for the comprehensive, "Marketing for Architects" course offered by the Royal Architectural Institute of Canada.
Bekhor Management provides strategic and authentic practice development coaching for small to mid-sized professional service firms.
Learn more about her services at www.Bekhor.ca

-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Sandra Bekhor
-----
Communication isn't one thing. So just because you're great at doing your presentation, your pitch to your client, well doesn't mean that you know, how to give someone feedback.
And it doesn't mean that you know, how to handle conflict. Right. So, there are so many different aspects of communication.
-----
So you have to write a script. And that's your starting point. 
And then practice it with situations that are safe. And then eventually you do learn that language that is authentic to you.
So that when you go into the real world, and and use the script, and it's just a starting point, it's not that you're going to stick to that language Exactly. But you will actually feel bolstered.
-----
So your renovation firm doing some renovations on the house. And I'm on the phone with you and say well...
I thought you were going to your people were going to show up on Monday, and it's now Tuesday afternoon and they still aren't here and I didn't get any calls.
What the hell's the matter with you people?
 
09:36
Are I'm going to jump in here as Samantha. Oh, George, I am so glad you told me this happened. You know, this week, things have just gotten out of control with people being sick and having family emergencies.
And I didn't realize that this happened this morning. I don't know how I will fix this for you. But just give me an hour. I'm going to check in with my team and I promise to call you back in an hour.
And then we will discuss what what we can do about this.
10:15
Okay, now I'm calm.
-----
18:22
Ah, wonderful. See? And again, you you, you calm the situation. And you didn't over promise you didn't make excuses. And you pointed out I don't know, I'll have to find it and get back to you. And sometimes that's good enough.
 
18:41
You know, this is such an interesting point. Most professionals are scared to say I don't know. And it's actually a secret weapon.
Just Just remember that people calm down when they see your own. I don't know, transparency.
You know, if you say I don't know, it doesn't mean your failure. It doesn't mean you're not good at your job doesn't mean that you're not smart. It means you don't know this exact moment, that specific very thing.
And you're making a promise that you will go find out for the person who does know, and you will get back to them.
You didn't lose anything in admitting that you don't know. In fact, the person calmed down, because you said that instead of pretending, pretending that you know something that you don't know, which would have made it worse.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Be emotionally intelligent to lead motivated teams
When you lead, you can't be the smartest person in the room
<p>Episode 126 (Susan is based in San Francisco)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Susan Schwartz, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Making the transition from star performer to team leader</li>
<li>Developing an insider code when working with different personality types</li>
<li>The difference between emotional intelligence and emotionally intelligent</li>
<li>When technical expertise encounters the challenge of leadership</li>
<li>Building the team by delegating responsibilities and developing skills</li>
<li>The leaders' dirty little secret about leading</li>
</ul>
<p>About Susan Schwartz:</p>
<p>Susan is author of, Creating a Greater Whole: A Project Manager's Guide to Becoming a Leader. It's the main textbook for a Project Management Communication course at Georgetown University.</p>
<p>Susan developed an Expert to Excellence leadership program that uses practical, measurable Emotional Intelligence methods that help people understand intangible leadership skills and create tangible action plans</p>
<p>Learn more about Susan and her programs at</p>
<p><a href='https://www.riverbirchgroup.com/'>expertisetoexcellence.me</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.riverbirchgroup.com/'></a></p>
<p>------</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Susan Schwartz</p>
Emotional intelligence is about observations and behaviors
<p>-----</p>
<p>And what happens when a technical person is promoted for their expertise. And all those years, they spent honing that knowledge. They've had a mindset, that's all about them.</p>
<p>What is their expertise, people come to them. They are the expert. When you get promoted to be a manager or a leadership role, all of a sudden, it's not about you.</p>
<p>It's about them. And that's awfully scary because your performance evaluation is not based on what you achieved. Your performance evaluation is based on what the people who work with you or for you, and perhaps even partners outside of your company.</p>
<p>So you have to really start paying attention to them</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>07:00</p>
<p>Right. And you've got to delegate. That's perhaps the one of two most important skills because you're so busy doing their job, you can't do your job till after five o'clock.</p>
<p>You can't get promoted if you're busy doing your people's work, because you are so very important. And nobody else can do what you can do. That can't possibly promote you, because you're too valuable in your current role.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>07:31</p>
<p>And I heard of a pearl of wisdom there that I want to repeat for people, if you are a leader, a team leader, a manager, if you're the only one that can do the job, then you aren't doing your job. </p>
<p>If you're the only one who can do what it is that your your department your team delivers, then you're really not doing it properly. Because you're not the manager, you think you're still the star.</p>
<p>And your success is dependent on their success. And so that comes back to you have to start being open, and realize that your success is by giving people professional development, helping them grow.</p>
<p>And that's the second piece of the puzzle. And this is why I love the name of your podcast is these new, expert knowledge experts transforming to leadership role, sometimes have difficulty assuring that the message they intended is received as they intended.</p>
<p>And because how often I've done it a lot of you sure you've done it altogether. That's not what I meant. And it still happens to me today. And it's not what I meant.</p>
<p>Because you you just made an assumption that they think exactly like you think. So if you're explaining it in your terms, of course they should know it. And then you end up getting frustrated doing it yourself.</p>
<p>And then people leave, because they're just humiliated. They think they're stupid. And then because you're not your message isn't being received as you intended. And you get frustrated because they're not smart enough or fast enough. So then you take it back and you do it yourself.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Be emotionally intelligent to lead motivated teams
When you lead, you can't be the smartest person in the room
<p>Episode 126 (Susan is based in San Francisco)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Susan Schwartz, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Making the transition from star performer to team leader</li>
<li>Developing an insider code when working with different personality types</li>
<li>The difference between emotional intelligence and emotionally intelligent</li>
<li>When technical expertise encounters the challenge of leadership</li>
<li>Building the team by delegating responsibilities and developing skills</li>
<li>The leaders' dirty little secret about leading</li>
</ul>
<p>About Susan Schwartz:</p>
<p>Susan is author of, Creating a Greater Whole: A Project Manager's Guide to Becoming a Leader. It's the main textbook for a Project Management Communication course at Georgetown University.</p>
<p>Susan developed an Expert to Excellence leadership program that uses practical, measurable Emotional Intelligence methods that help people understand intangible leadership skills and create tangible action plans</p>
<p>Learn more about Susan and her programs at</p>
<p><a href='https://www.riverbirchgroup.com/'>expertisetoexcellence.me</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.riverbirchgroup.com/'></a></p>
<p>------</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Susan Schwartz</p>
Emotional intelligence is about observations and behaviors
<p>-----</p>
<p>And what happens when a technical person is promoted for their expertise. And all those years, they spent honing that knowledge. They've had a mindset, that's all about them.</p>
<p>What is their expertise, people come to them. They are the expert. When you get promoted to be a manager or a leadership role, all of a sudden, it's not about you.</p>
<p>It's about them. And that's awfully scary because your performance evaluation is not based on what you achieved. Your performance evaluation is based on what the people who work with you or for you, and perhaps even partners outside of your company.</p>
<p>So you have to really start paying attention to them</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>07:00</p>
<p>Right. And you've got to delegate. That's perhaps the one of two most important skills because you're so busy doing their job, you can't do your job till after five o'clock.</p>
<p>You can't get promoted if you're busy doing your people's work, because you are so very important. And nobody else can do what you can do. That can't possibly promote you, because you're too valuable in your current role.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>07:31</p>
<p>And I heard of a pearl of wisdom there that I want to repeat for people, if you are a leader, a team leader, a manager, if you're the only one that can do the job, then you aren't doing your job. </p>
<p>If you're the only one who can do what it is that your your department your team delivers, then you're really not doing it properly. Because you're not the manager, you think you're still the star.</p>
<p>And your success is dependent on their success. And so that comes back to you have to start being open, and realize that your success is by giving people professional development, helping them grow.</p>
<p>And that's the second piece of the puzzle. And this is why I love the name of your podcast is these new, expert knowledge experts transforming to leadership role, sometimes have difficulty assuring that the message they intended is received as they intended.</p>
<p>And because how often I've done it a lot of you sure you've done it altogether. That's not what I meant. And it still happens to me today. And it's not what I meant.</p>
<p>Because you you just made an assumption that they think exactly like you think. So if you're explaining it in your terms, of course they should know it. And then you end up getting frustrated doing it yourself.</p>
<p>And then people leave, because they're just humiliated. They think they're stupid. And then because you're not your message isn't being received as you intended. And you get frustrated because they're not smart enough or fast enough. So then you take it back and you do it yourself.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Be emotionally intelligent to lead motivated teams
When you lead, you can't be the smartest person in the room
Episode 126 (Susan is based in San Francisco)
In this conversation with Susan Schwartz, we explore:
Making the transition from star performer to team leader
Developing an insider code when working with different personality types
The difference between emotional intelligence and emotionally intelligent
When technical expertise encounters the challenge of leadership
Building the team by delegating responsibilities and developing skills
The leaders' dirty little secret about leading
About Susan Schwartz:
Susan is author of, Creating a Greater Whole: A Project Manager's Guide to Becoming a Leader. It's the main textbook for a Project Management Communication course at Georgetown University.
Susan developed an Expert to Excellence leadership program that uses practical, measurable Emotional Intelligence methods that help people understand intangible leadership skills and create tangible action plans
Learn more about Susan and her programs at
expertisetoexcellence.me

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Excerpts from this conversation with Susan Schwartz
Emotional intelligence is about observations and behaviors
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And what happens when a technical person is promoted for their expertise. And all those years, they spent honing that knowledge. They've had a mindset, that's all about them.
What is their expertise, people come to them. They are the expert. When you get promoted to be a manager or a leadership role, all of a sudden, it's not about you.
It's about them. And that's awfully scary because your performance evaluation is not based on what you achieved. Your performance evaluation is based on what the people who work with you or for you, and perhaps even partners outside of your company.
So you have to really start paying attention to them
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07:00
Right. And you've got to delegate. That's perhaps the one of two most important skills because you're so busy doing their job, you can't do your job till after five o'clock.
You can't get promoted if you're busy doing your people's work, because you are so very important. And nobody else can do what you can do. That can't possibly promote you, because you're too valuable in your current role.
 
07:31
And I heard of a pearl of wisdom there that I want to repeat for people, if you are a leader, a team leader, a manager, if you're the only one that can do the job, then you aren't doing your job. 
If you're the only one who can do what it is that your your department your team delivers, then you're really not doing it properly. Because you're not the manager, you think you're still the star.
And your success is dependent on their success. And so that comes back to you have to start being open, and realize that your success is by giving people professional development, helping them grow.
And that's the second piece of the puzzle. And this is why I love the name of your podcast is these new, expert knowledge experts transforming to leadership role, sometimes have difficulty assuring that the message they intended is received as they intended.
And because how often I've done it a lot of you sure you've done it altogether. That's not what I meant. And it still happens to me today. And it's not what I meant.
Because you you just made an assumption that they think exactly like you think. So if you're explaining it in your terms, of course they should know it. And then you end up getting frustrated doing it yourself.
And then people leave, because they're just humiliated. They think they're stupid. And then because you're not your message isn't being received as you intended. And you get frustrated because they're not smart enough or fast enough. So then you take it back and you do it yourself.
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        <title>Build your network one conversation at a time: Rob Thomas</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to network effectively without being a pest
Identify, Maximize, Refine and Nurture your Network of Contacts
<p>Episode 125 (Rob is based in Connecticut)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to start conversation at a networking event</li>
<li>How to flip the conversation when the other person attacks in sales mode</li>
<li>How to meet the most prominent people at the event</li>
<li>Are business cards still relevant and what is the  protocol?</li>
<li>Spot the early warnings that this person is poison</li>
<li>How to take the pressure off yourself at a networking event</li>
</ul>
<p>About Rob Thomas:</p>
<p>Rob is the founder and president of RobThomasGLOBAL and creator of the Rob Thomas Method, (RTM). He is the author of "Who Do You NEED to Meet?"</p>
<p>Rob teaches and coaches business, owners, senior executives, sales professionals and entrepreneurs how to Identify, Maximize, Refine and Nurture your network of contacts.</p>
<p>Learn more about Rob Thomas and his programs at the website</p>
<p><a href='https://robthomasglobal.com/'>RobThomasGlobal.com</a></p>
<p>You can find Rob Thomas on Linkedin</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/robert-l-thomas/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/robert-l-thomas/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Rob Thomas about Networking</p>
<p>03:28</p>
<p>Well, because I used to be that guy. So when I do my public talks out and about, I talked about how I wasn't always like this, I had to learn my lesson.</p>
<p>I was that sales guy that you would see it those different grip and grins, and I would come up to you, I would push my business card into your face. And I would say, hey, so let's have a conversation about how I can sell you. </p>
<p>Essentially, I didn't say exactly that, but close enough. I didn't ask for your card. I don't want your card. And you know, people wouldn't say that, but they'd be very nice.</p>
<p>And then next thing, you know, they would end up throwing out the card. And I would never keep track of them. Because of course, you know, I would never ask for theirs. And I would follow up and they didn't want to talk to me.</p>
<p>So it wasn't until I sat down at a diner with my dear friend Brian. And he and I were about ready to talk about one of the different sales gigs I had been a part of over the years.</p>
<p>And he started off by saying, Alright, Rob, so we ordered our coffee. What are you going to sell me today?</p>
<p>I didn't have a reply to that. I didn't know what to say. And it was from that point on that my business coach at the time.</p>
<p>We sat after that and he said congratulations, you've arrived. You have now figured out that it isn't always about you.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to network effectively without being a pest
Identify, Maximize, Refine and Nurture your Network of Contacts
<p>Episode 125 (Rob is based in Connecticut)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to start conversation at a networking event</li>
<li>How to flip the conversation when the other person attacks in sales mode</li>
<li>How to meet the most prominent people at the event</li>
<li>Are business cards still relevant and what is the  protocol?</li>
<li>Spot the early warnings that this person is poison</li>
<li>How to take the pressure off yourself at a networking event</li>
</ul>
<p>About Rob Thomas:</p>
<p>Rob is the founder and president of RobThomasGLOBAL and creator of the Rob Thomas Method, (RTM). He is the author of "Who Do You NEED to Meet?"</p>
<p>Rob teaches and coaches business, owners, senior executives, sales professionals and entrepreneurs how to Identify, Maximize, Refine and Nurture your network of contacts.</p>
<p>Learn more about Rob Thomas and his programs at the website</p>
<p><a href='https://robthomasglobal.com/'>RobThomasGlobal.com</a></p>
<p>You can find Rob Thomas on Linkedin</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/robert-l-thomas/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/robert-l-thomas/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Rob Thomas about Networking</p>
<p>03:28</p>
<p>Well, because I used to be that guy. So when I do my public talks out and about, I talked about how I wasn't always like this, I had to learn my lesson.</p>
<p>I was that sales guy that you would see it those different grip and grins, and I would come up to you, I would push my business card into your face. And I would say, hey, so let's have a conversation about how I can sell you. </p>
<p>Essentially, I didn't say exactly that, but close enough. I didn't ask for your card. I don't want your card. And you know, people wouldn't say that, but they'd be very nice.</p>
<p>And then next thing, you know, they would end up throwing out the card. And I would never keep track of them. Because of course, you know, I would never ask for theirs. And I would follow up and they didn't want to talk to me.</p>
<p>So it wasn't until I sat down at a diner with my dear friend Brian. And he and I were about ready to talk about one of the different sales gigs I had been a part of over the years.</p>
<p>And he started off by saying, Alright, Rob, so we ordered our coffee. What are you going to sell me today?</p>
<p>I didn't have a reply to that. I didn't know what to say. And it was from that point on that my business coach at the time.</p>
<p>We sat after that and he said congratulations, you've arrived. You have now figured out that it isn't always about you.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to network effectively without being a pest
Identify, Maximize, Refine and Nurture your Network of Contacts
Episode 125 (Rob is based in Connecticut)
In this conversation we explore:
How to start conversation at a networking event
How to flip the conversation when the other person attacks in sales mode
How to meet the most prominent people at the event
Are business cards still relevant and what is the  protocol?
Spot the early warnings that this person is poison
How to take the pressure off yourself at a networking event
About Rob Thomas:
Rob is the founder and president of RobThomasGLOBAL and creator of the Rob Thomas Method, (RTM). He is the author of "Who Do You NEED to Meet?"
Rob teaches and coaches business, owners, senior executives, sales professionals and entrepreneurs how to Identify, Maximize, Refine and Nurture your network of contacts.
Learn more about Rob Thomas and his programs at the website
RobThomasGlobal.com
You can find Rob Thomas on Linkedin
https://www.linkedin.com/in/robert-l-thomas/
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Excerpts from this conversation with Rob Thomas about Networking
03:28
Well, because I used to be that guy. So when I do my public talks out and about, I talked about how I wasn't always like this, I had to learn my lesson.
I was that sales guy that you would see it those different grip and grins, and I would come up to you, I would push my business card into your face. And I would say, hey, so let's have a conversation about how I can sell you. 
Essentially, I didn't say exactly that, but close enough. I didn't ask for your card. I don't want your card. And you know, people wouldn't say that, but they'd be very nice.
And then next thing, you know, they would end up throwing out the card. And I would never keep track of them. Because of course, you know, I would never ask for theirs. And I would follow up and they didn't want to talk to me.
So it wasn't until I sat down at a diner with my dear friend Brian. And he and I were about ready to talk about one of the different sales gigs I had been a part of over the years.
And he started off by saying, Alright, Rob, so we ordered our coffee. What are you going to sell me today?
I didn't have a reply to that. I didn't know what to say. And it was from that point on that my business coach at the time.
We sat after that and he said congratulations, you've arrived. You have now figured out that it isn't always about you.
-----
----more----
 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit
https://toroktips.com/
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        <title>Linkedin is a Watercooler: Marc W, Halpert</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Be visible, attention-grabbing and relevant
How to leverage Linkedin as your personal marketing platform
<p>Episode 124 (Marc is based in New York city)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>When and why to connect with others</li>
<li>How to invite connections</li>
<li>Appreciation for the privilege of connections</li>
<li>How to be amazing-er</li>
<li>What to include in every Linkedin post</li>
<li>Please don't try to sell me your bridge</li>
<li>When to report inappropriate activity</li>
<li>How to attract captivating recommendations</li>
</ul>
<p>About Marc W. Halpert</p>
<p>Marc coaches individuals, trains groups, speaks, writes and comments on all thinks Linkedin. </p>
<p>He works to make each professional look amazing-er than their competitors in all walks and stages of professional life, with expertise in working with professional practitioners, nonprofit officers and particularly baby boomers maneuvering with the workforce.</p>
<p>Visit his website at <a href='https://connect2collaborate.com/'>https://connect2collaborate.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://connect2collaborate.com/'></a></p>
<p>Naturally you can visit his profile on Linkedin. You can easily follow him to see his regular posts.</p>
<p>If you want to connect be sure to listen to this interview and use the magic word.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/marchalpert/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/marchalpert/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Marc W. Halpert</p>
Linkedin is NOT a job board
<p>-----</p>
<p>05:04</p>
<p>Mark and you caught my attention with LinkedIn is not a job board. But that was the original purpose. And both you and I, as entrepreneurs, as business owners, we know that we need to be constantly marketing and selling, but a person who has a job, they think they can stop spreading their message, stop promoting themselves. And that's a danger.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>05:40</p>
<p>It's a big mistake, worse than a danger. Because the moment you stop promoting yourself, your company is just making you one of the rats in the maze.</p>
<p>All right, you're just rolling around. If you can't convince other people in your company, maybe in other departments, or you want to rise to some other position about the value you bring to the company by how you project the company, marketing strategy, the marketing message, then you're just a worker bee.</p>
<p>Who wants to be a worker bee?</p>
<p>If you are not consistently adding material about what you accomplish on behalf of the company. You're not differentiating yourself within the company. You're not going to be in that company for you all your life your whole life.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Find the amazing in every person
<p>-----</p>
<p>But it makes it a privilege to connect to somebody. So I like to use the metaphor, someone walks up to your front door of your house, knock knock.</p>
<p>You say who's there? This, they'll say, Hi, I'm here knocking at your door. So hi, I'm here. with you on LinkedIn. What do you want? Why should I let you into my metaphorical house? Where my metaphorical family of connections that I nurture and take very good care of live?</p>
<p>Why? If you can't tell me at Knock, number one, that's not a knock number two.</p>
<p>Number three, sorry, I asked you twice.</p>
<p>I just don't. But sometimes I get people say, Well, I offered to connect with you. I didn't know you could do that. And I'm a good friend of so and so. And they said, Well, why don't you tell me that? Why didn't you sell save yourself and me the effort of volley balling this whole thing around? Oh, I didn't think about that. Well, why?</p>
<p>Then I'm beginning to make my own mental image of do I really want to be involved with this knucklehead? I mean, really? And who would I ever refer this person to if they don't do their homework and see, so if you read my LinkedIn profile, anybody listening?</p>
<p>Anybody listening, you read my LinkedIn profile, and you want to connect with me, there is this magic secret word in my profile that you have to include in your LinkedIn connection request to me, then I'll go, you're worth considering.</p>
<p>Because you took the time to read and you saw what I said.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Be visible, attention-grabbing and relevant
How to leverage Linkedin as your personal marketing platform
<p>Episode 124 (Marc is based in New York city)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>When and why to connect with others</li>
<li>How to invite connections</li>
<li>Appreciation for the privilege of connections</li>
<li>How to be amazing-er</li>
<li>What to include in every Linkedin post</li>
<li>Please don't try to sell me your bridge</li>
<li>When to report inappropriate activity</li>
<li>How to attract captivating recommendations</li>
</ul>
<p>About Marc W. Halpert</p>
<p>Marc coaches individuals, trains groups, speaks, writes and comments on all thinks Linkedin. </p>
<p>He works to make each professional look amazing-er than their competitors in all walks and stages of professional life, with expertise in working with professional practitioners, nonprofit officers and particularly baby boomers maneuvering with the workforce.</p>
<p>Visit his website at <a href='https://connect2collaborate.com/'>https://connect2collaborate.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://connect2collaborate.com/'></a></p>
<p>Naturally you can visit his profile on Linkedin. You can easily follow him to see his regular posts.</p>
<p>If you want to connect be sure to listen to this interview and use the magic word.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/marchalpert/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/marchalpert/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Marc W. Halpert</p>
Linkedin is NOT a job board
<p>-----</p>
<p>05:04</p>
<p>Mark and you caught my attention with LinkedIn is not a job board. But that was the original purpose. And both you and I, as entrepreneurs, as business owners, we know that we need to be constantly marketing and selling, but a person who has a job, they think they can stop spreading their message, stop promoting themselves. And that's a danger.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>05:40</p>
<p>It's a big mistake, worse than a danger. Because the moment you stop promoting yourself, your company is just making you one of the rats in the maze.</p>
<p>All right, you're just rolling around. If you can't convince other people in your company, maybe in other departments, or you want to rise to some other position about the value you bring to the company by how you project the company, marketing strategy, the marketing message, then you're just a worker bee.</p>
<p>Who wants to be a worker bee?</p>
<p>If you are not consistently adding material about what you accomplish on behalf of the company. You're not differentiating yourself within the company. You're not going to be in that company for you all your life your whole life.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Find the amazing in every person
<p>-----</p>
<p>But it makes it a privilege to connect to somebody. So I like to use the metaphor, someone walks up to your front door of your house, knock knock.</p>
<p>You say who's there? This, they'll say, Hi, I'm here knocking at your door. So hi, I'm here. with you on LinkedIn. What do you want? Why should I let you into my metaphorical house? Where my metaphorical family of connections that I nurture and take very good care of live?</p>
<p>Why? If you can't tell me at Knock, number one, that's not a knock number two.</p>
<p>Number three, sorry, I asked you twice.</p>
<p>I just don't. But sometimes I get people say, Well, I offered to connect with you. I didn't know you could do that. And I'm a good friend of so and so. And they said, Well, why don't you tell me that? Why didn't you sell save yourself and me the effort of volley balling this whole thing around? Oh, I didn't think about that. Well, why?</p>
<p>Then I'm beginning to make my own mental image of do I really want to be involved with this knucklehead? I mean, really? And who would I ever refer this person to if they don't do their homework and see, so if you read my LinkedIn profile, anybody listening?</p>
<p>Anybody listening, you read my LinkedIn profile, and you want to connect with me, there is this magic secret word in my profile that you have to include in your LinkedIn connection request to me, then I'll go, you're worth considering.</p>
<p>Because you took the time to read and you saw what I said.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Be visible, attention-grabbing and relevant
How to leverage Linkedin as your personal marketing platform
Episode 124 (Marc is based in New York city)
In this conversation we explore:
When and why to connect with others
How to invite connections
Appreciation for the privilege of connections
How to be amazing-er
What to include in every Linkedin post
Please don't try to sell me your bridge
When to report inappropriate activity
How to attract captivating recommendations
About Marc W. Halpert
Marc coaches individuals, trains groups, speaks, writes and comments on all thinks Linkedin. 
He works to make each professional look amazing-er than their competitors in all walks and stages of professional life, with expertise in working with professional practitioners, nonprofit officers and particularly baby boomers maneuvering with the workforce.
Visit his website at https://connect2collaborate.com/
 

Naturally you can visit his profile on Linkedin. You can easily follow him to see his regular posts.
If you want to connect be sure to listen to this interview and use the magic word.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/marchalpert/
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Excerpts from this conversation with Marc W. Halpert
Linkedin is NOT a job board
-----
05:04
Mark and you caught my attention with LinkedIn is not a job board. But that was the original purpose. And both you and I, as entrepreneurs, as business owners, we know that we need to be constantly marketing and selling, but a person who has a job, they think they can stop spreading their message, stop promoting themselves. And that's a danger.
 
05:40
It's a big mistake, worse than a danger. Because the moment you stop promoting yourself, your company is just making you one of the rats in the maze.
All right, you're just rolling around. If you can't convince other people in your company, maybe in other departments, or you want to rise to some other position about the value you bring to the company by how you project the company, marketing strategy, the marketing message, then you're just a worker bee.
Who wants to be a worker bee?
If you are not consistently adding material about what you accomplish on behalf of the company. You're not differentiating yourself within the company. You're not going to be in that company for you all your life your whole life.
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Find the amazing in every person
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But it makes it a privilege to connect to somebody. So I like to use the metaphor, someone walks up to your front door of your house, knock knock.
You say who's there? This, they'll say, Hi, I'm here knocking at your door. So hi, I'm here. with you on LinkedIn. What do you want? Why should I let you into my metaphorical house? Where my metaphorical family of connections that I nurture and take very good care of live?
Why? If you can't tell me at Knock, number one, that's not a knock number two.
Number three, sorry, I asked you twice.
I just don't. But sometimes I get people say, Well, I offered to connect with you. I didn't know you could do that. And I'm a good friend of so and so. And they said, Well, why don't you tell me that? Why didn't you sell save yourself and me the effort of volley balling this whole thing around? Oh, I didn't think about that. Well, why?
Then I'm beginning to make my own mental image of do I really want to be involved with this knucklehead? I mean, really? And who would I ever refer this person to if they don't do their homework and see, so if you read my LinkedIn profile, anybody listening?
Anybody listening, you read my LinkedIn profile, and you want to connect with me, there is this magic secret word in my profile that you have to include in your LinkedIn connection request to me, then I'll go, you're worth considering.
Because you took the time to read and you saw what I said.
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        <title>Networking in the Room: Frank Agin</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Build your relationships, build your network
How to show up in the room for networking 
<p>Episode 123 (Frank is based in Ohio)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to prepare your mindset for networking events</li>
<li>How to start the conversation and move it forward</li>
<li>Why it's more than harvesting leads</li>
<li>Helping others via referrals, introductions and encouragement</li>
<li>The role of karma, faith and trust</li>
<li>Your secret weapon is the Cloak of Invincibility</li>
<li>How to be more memorable</li>
</ul>
<p>About Frank Agin</p>
<p>Frank is president of <a href='https://www.amspirit.com/'>AmSpirit</a> Business Connections and organization that empowers entrepreneurs, sales representatives and professionals to become successful through networking.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.amspirit.com/'>https://www.amspirit.com/</a></p>
<p>He is host of the Network Rx Podcast a weekly short-form podcast with insights and interviews related to better business relationships.</p>
<p><a href='https://frankagin.com/'>https://frankagin.com/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Frank Agin</p>
And  I define networking as two or more people working towards their mutual benefit.
<p>-----</p>
<p>06:31</p>
<p>You know, it's, yeah, there are both extremes. And I had a psychologist on my podcast several years ago. And he kind of dissected, he said, there are really three people in the room, he said, There's the wallflower, there's the person who is braggadocious.</p>
<p>And then, there's the person who's trying to make the quick sale. And that really, the fourth person in the room is the person doing it, right.</p>
<p>And he said, the thing that all of them have in common, all four of them have in common, is they're all insecure.</p>
<p>The person who feels like they need to always be talking. They're insecure, I gotta get my message out, the person who needs to make the sale, they're insecure, they just need to close the deal. The person who's the wallflower feels insecure.</p>
<p>But the person who does it right is insecure as well, but just has learned how to deal with that insecurity.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>08:58</p>
<p>Nobody's going to reject that person who's there to help other people. And so all of a sudden, you kind of transform yourself from, I don't need to be the wallflower I'm here to help other people. And the reason the person's the wallflowers they're afraid that they're going to be rejected.</p>
<p>And so if they just kind of stepped into, I want to hear what this other person has to say, because there might be a way I might have information that will help them, I might have an introduction that will help them I might have, you know, somebody to refer them to depending upon the situation.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Be very interested in them. And so you sort of get them talking about the things that they you know that they're a value to them.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Build your relationships, build your network
How to show up in the room for networking 
<p>Episode 123 (Frank is based in Ohio)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to prepare your mindset for networking events</li>
<li>How to start the conversation and move it forward</li>
<li>Why it's more than harvesting leads</li>
<li>Helping others via referrals, introductions and encouragement</li>
<li>The role of karma, faith and trust</li>
<li>Your secret weapon is the Cloak of Invincibility</li>
<li>How to be more memorable</li>
</ul>
<p>About Frank Agin</p>
<p>Frank is president of <a href='https://www.amspirit.com/'>AmSpirit</a> Business Connections and organization that empowers entrepreneurs, sales representatives and professionals to become successful through networking.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.amspirit.com/'>https://www.amspirit.com/</a></p>
<p>He is host of the Network Rx Podcast a weekly short-form podcast with insights and interviews related to better business relationships.</p>
<p><a href='https://frankagin.com/'>https://frankagin.com/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Frank Agin</p>
And  I define networking as two or more people working towards their mutual benefit.
<p>-----</p>
<p>06:31</p>
<p>You know, it's, yeah, there are both extremes. And I had a psychologist on my podcast several years ago. And he kind of dissected, he said, there are really three people in the room, he said, There's the wallflower, there's the person who is braggadocious.</p>
<p>And then, there's the person who's trying to make the quick sale. And that really, the fourth person in the room is the person doing it, right.</p>
<p>And he said, the thing that all of them have in common, all four of them have in common, is they're all insecure.</p>
<p>The person who feels like they need to always be talking. They're insecure, I gotta get my message out, the person who needs to make the sale, they're insecure, they just need to close the deal. The person who's the wallflower feels insecure.</p>
<p>But the person who does it right is insecure as well, but just has learned how to deal with that insecurity.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>08:58</p>
<p>Nobody's going to reject that person who's there to help other people. And so all of a sudden, you kind of transform yourself from, I don't need to be the wallflower I'm here to help other people. And the reason the person's the wallflowers they're afraid that they're going to be rejected.</p>
<p>And so if they just kind of stepped into, I want to hear what this other person has to say, because there might be a way I might have information that will help them, I might have an introduction that will help them I might have, you know, somebody to refer them to depending upon the situation.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Be very interested in them. And so you sort of get them talking about the things that they you know that they're a value to them.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Build your relationships, build your network
How to show up in the room for networking 
Episode 123 (Frank is based in Ohio)
In this conversation we explore:
How to prepare your mindset for networking events
How to start the conversation and move it forward
Why it's more than harvesting leads
Helping others via referrals, introductions and encouragement
The role of karma, faith and trust
Your secret weapon is the Cloak of Invincibility
How to be more memorable
About Frank Agin
Frank is president of AmSpirit Business Connections and organization that empowers entrepreneurs, sales representatives and professionals to become successful through networking.
https://www.amspirit.com/
He is host of the Network Rx Podcast a weekly short-form podcast with insights and interviews related to better business relationships.
https://frankagin.com/


 
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Excerpts from this conversation with Frank Agin
And  I define networking as two or more people working towards their mutual benefit.
-----
06:31
You know, it's, yeah, there are both extremes. And I had a psychologist on my podcast several years ago. And he kind of dissected, he said, there are really three people in the room, he said, There's the wallflower, there's the person who is braggadocious.
And then, there's the person who's trying to make the quick sale. And that really, the fourth person in the room is the person doing it, right.
And he said, the thing that all of them have in common, all four of them have in common, is they're all insecure.
The person who feels like they need to always be talking. They're insecure, I gotta get my message out, the person who needs to make the sale, they're insecure, they just need to close the deal. The person who's the wallflower feels insecure.
But the person who does it right is insecure as well, but just has learned how to deal with that insecurity.
-----
08:58
Nobody's going to reject that person who's there to help other people. And so all of a sudden, you kind of transform yourself from, I don't need to be the wallflower I'm here to help other people. And the reason the person's the wallflowers they're afraid that they're going to be rejected.
And so if they just kind of stepped into, I want to hear what this other person has to say, because there might be a way I might have information that will help them, I might have an introduction that will help them I might have, you know, somebody to refer them to depending upon the situation.
-----
Be very interested in them. And so you sort of get them talking about the things that they you know that they're a value to them.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit
https://toroktips.com/
 
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        <title>Boost your Presence with Gravitas: Diane DiResta</title>
        <itunes:title>Boost your Presence with Gravitas: Diane DiResta</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[You don't need to be an executive to have presence
Check your gravitas, communication and appearance
<p>Episode 122 (Diane is based in New York)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The contributing components of presence</li>
<li>What are the elements of gravitas, communication and appearance?</li>
<li>The power of confidence and decisiveness</li>
<li>How to align your communication</li>
<li>How to establish your grounding position before you speak</li>
<li>How to wield the power of the pause to your overwhelming advantage</li>
<li>How to show up (and mistakes) for virtual meetings</li>
</ul>
<p>About Diane DiResta</p>
<p>A speech pathologist, professional speaker, executive speech coach and past president of National Speakers Association NYC. She has spoken on 4 continents and is the author of Amazon category bestseller, Knockout Presentations.</p>
<p>Learn more about Diane at her website <a href='https://www.diresta.com/'>https://www.diresta.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.diresta.com/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Knockout-Presentations-Deliver-Message-Pizzazz/dp/1683508793/ref=sr_1_1?crid=5LYEQSMEE41X&keywords=knockout+presentations&qid=1669306116&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjAwIiwicXNhIjoiMC4wMCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMDAifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=knockout%2520presentations%2Caps%2C84&sr=8-1'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Diane DiResta</p>
Gravitas is the biggest component and it makes up 67% of the message. Or the definition communication is 28%. And your appearance is 5%. of executive presence.
<p>-----</p>
<p>They're not grounded. So I give people actual practical tools that they can use. So here's one that I'll share with your listeners.</p>
<p>Whether you are on a screen or in a in person meeting, the first thing you want to do is establish a grounding position. Why? Because a lot of times in the beginning, we're fidgeting we have energy, we don't know what to do with it.</p>
<p>So here's what you can do, put both feet flat on the floor, lean in at a 15 degree angle with both hands on the table. I don't know if you can see this.</p>
<p>And what this does is it creates a presence and a grounding. So even if your heart is pounding out of your chest, we don't see it, you look confident.</p>
<p>So then the audience responds to you as if you are confident and then you start to feel more confident. You start to feel their respect and attention. So it starts with little things.</p>
<p>But what I've discovered is it's the little things that make the greatest impact. So nobody listening today has to do a big total makeover, but little tweaks along the way will get you to where you want to go.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>So when you talk about appearance, looking polished, and you're being authentic part of that your background when you're on screen.</p>
<p>So how are you showing up, and I've had people with beds in the background, not good.</p>
<p>So you can have a branding background, a background, like what I have, or you can use your home as long as it's professional looking, or an office. But all of these little things add up to an impression, a brand and executive presence.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>22:58</p>
<p>So energy is good. Enthusiasm is good, absolutely. But you can still be really enthusiastic, and come to a pause. So it's like a stop sign. Don't go past the stop sign, come to a complete stop, and then move. Let people have time to process.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='http://www.TorokTips.com'>www.TorokTips.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[You don't need to be an executive to have presence
Check your gravitas, communication and appearance
<p>Episode 122 (Diane is based in New York)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The contributing components of presence</li>
<li>What are the elements of gravitas, communication and appearance?</li>
<li>The power of confidence and decisiveness</li>
<li>How to align your communication</li>
<li>How to establish your grounding position before you speak</li>
<li>How to wield the power of the pause to your overwhelming advantage</li>
<li>How to show up (and mistakes) for virtual meetings</li>
</ul>
<p>About Diane DiResta</p>
<p>A speech pathologist, professional speaker, executive speech coach and past president of National Speakers Association NYC. She has spoken on 4 continents and is the author of Amazon category bestseller, Knockout Presentations.</p>
<p>Learn more about Diane at her website <a href='https://www.diresta.com/'>https://www.diresta.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.diresta.com/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Knockout-Presentations-Deliver-Message-Pizzazz/dp/1683508793/ref=sr_1_1?crid=5LYEQSMEE41X&keywords=knockout+presentations&qid=1669306116&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjAwIiwicXNhIjoiMC4wMCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMDAifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=knockout%2520presentations%2Caps%2C84&sr=8-1'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Diane DiResta</p>
Gravitas is the biggest component and it makes up 67% of the message. Or the definition communication is 28%. And your appearance is 5%. of executive presence.
<p>-----</p>
<p>They're not grounded. So I give people actual practical tools that they can use. So here's one that I'll share with your listeners.</p>
<p>Whether you are on a screen or in a in person meeting, the first thing you want to do is establish a grounding position. Why? Because a lot of times in the beginning, we're fidgeting we have energy, we don't know what to do with it.</p>
<p>So here's what you can do, put both feet flat on the floor, lean in at a 15 degree angle with both hands on the table. I don't know if you can see this.</p>
<p>And what this does is it creates a presence and a grounding. So even if your heart is pounding out of your chest, we don't see it, you look confident.</p>
<p>So then the audience responds to you as if you are confident and then you start to feel more confident. You start to feel their respect and attention. So it starts with little things.</p>
<p>But what I've discovered is it's the little things that make the greatest impact. So nobody listening today has to do a big total makeover, but little tweaks along the way will get you to where you want to go.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>So when you talk about appearance, looking polished, and you're being authentic part of that your background when you're on screen.</p>
<p>So how are you showing up, and I've had people with beds in the background, not good.</p>
<p>So you can have a branding background, a background, like what I have, or you can use your home as long as it's professional looking, or an office. But all of these little things add up to an impression, a brand and executive presence.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>22:58</p>
<p>So energy is good. Enthusiasm is good, absolutely. But you can still be really enthusiastic, and come to a pause. So it's like a stop sign. Don't go past the stop sign, come to a complete stop, and then move. Let people have time to process.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><em><a href='http://www.TorokTips.com'>www.TorokTips.com</a></em></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[You don't need to be an executive to have presence
Check your gravitas, communication and appearance
Episode 122 (Diane is based in New York)
In this conversation we explore:
The contributing components of presence
What are the elements of gravitas, communication and appearance?
The power of confidence and decisiveness
How to align your communication
How to establish your grounding position before you speak
How to wield the power of the pause to your overwhelming advantage
How to show up (and mistakes) for virtual meetings
About Diane DiResta
A speech pathologist, professional speaker, executive speech coach and past president of National Speakers Association NYC. She has spoken on 4 continents and is the author of Amazon category bestseller, Knockout Presentations.
Learn more about Diane at her website https://www.diresta.com/

 

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Excerpts from this conversation with Diane DiResta
Gravitas is the biggest component and it makes up 67% of the message. Or the definition communication is 28%. And your appearance is 5%. of executive presence.
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They're not grounded. So I give people actual practical tools that they can use. So here's one that I'll share with your listeners.
Whether you are on a screen or in a in person meeting, the first thing you want to do is establish a grounding position. Why? Because a lot of times in the beginning, we're fidgeting we have energy, we don't know what to do with it.
So here's what you can do, put both feet flat on the floor, lean in at a 15 degree angle with both hands on the table. I don't know if you can see this.
And what this does is it creates a presence and a grounding. So even if your heart is pounding out of your chest, we don't see it, you look confident.
So then the audience responds to you as if you are confident and then you start to feel more confident. You start to feel their respect and attention. So it starts with little things.
But what I've discovered is it's the little things that make the greatest impact. So nobody listening today has to do a big total makeover, but little tweaks along the way will get you to where you want to go.
-----
So when you talk about appearance, looking polished, and you're being authentic part of that your background when you're on screen.
So how are you showing up, and I've had people with beds in the background, not good.
So you can have a branding background, a background, like what I have, or you can use your home as long as it's professional looking, or an office. But all of these little things add up to an impression, a brand and executive presence.
-----
22:58
So energy is good. Enthusiasm is good, absolutely. But you can still be really enthusiastic, and come to a pause. So it's like a stop sign. Don't go past the stop sign, come to a complete stop, and then move. Let people have time to process.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
 
For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit
www.TorokTips.com
 
 
 
 
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Are you asking questions to build or to tear down?
What is the difference between a learner and a judger mindset?
<p>Episode 121 ( Marilee is based in New Jersey)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The polar opposites of learner versus judger mindsets</li>
<li>How to recognize your current mindset</li>
<li>How to shift your mindset with the choice map</li>
<li>How to be a stronger leader by asking stronger questions</li>
<li>How to ask better questions of yourself</li>
<li>Why decisions can be more productive when you are in learner mode</li>
</ul>
<p>About Marilee Adams</p>
<p>Written 4 books, in August released two new books: (1) 4th edition of Change Your Questions, Change Your Life: 12 Powerful Tools for Leadership, Coaching, and Results—a business and leadership fable. (2) Change Your Questions Change Your Life Workbook: Master Your Mindset with Question Thinking. Note that the fable book has sold over 400,000 copies in 22 languages, mostly by word of mouth.</p>
<p>Marilee is the Founder and CEO of the Inquiry Institute, a consulting, coaching and educational organization that works internationally with organizations and government agencies large and small.</p>
<p>Marilee is a Senior Brown Belt in Karate, though that was 20 years ago; these days it’s mostly yoga for her!</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Download your free copy of the Choice Map here and start making more productive choices about your mindset</p>
<p><a href='http://www.InquiryInstitute.com'>www.InquiryInstitute.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Change-Your-Questions-Life-Powerful/dp/1576756009'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Marilee Adams</p>
I think the most powerful leaders are the ones who can ask the most powerful questions and who encourage people around them to do the same thing.
<p>-----</p>
<p>04:59</p>
<p>And you you raise the the learner mindset versus the judging mindset. And that's something that you talk in your book about. Please tell us, what's the difference? What's the distinction? And why is it important?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>05:13</p>
<p>Okay, I'm gonna describe each and I'm also going to show you a model that makes it easier to do that.</p>
<p>So first of all, let's assume that all of us, every human being has two mindsets. One I call judger. And the other I call learner, it's important to remember we all have both, both are normal.</p>
<p>And we will always have them, because we are not only neurologically hardwired for them, but we're also socially ingrained in them. So when I talk about being in judger, mindset, that means that I'm being more close minded more, putting myself or others down, being more judgmental, because judging means judgement fall.</p>
<p>And it can lead to a lot of self doubt, and also interacting with other people in ways that are not respectful and may actually be dismissive. So, but that's part of all of us.</p>
<p>And even if we don't like that part, that doesn't mean it's not there. And it's really useful to say, oh, yeah, that's me to accept all the parts of me. And if we can speak that we would be speaking from learner mindset, which we all have.</p>
<p>And when we're in learner mindset, we're more open minded, more accepting, more able to look from other people's point of view, and be dedicated to what can I create and learn in this situation with this person? So we all have both mindsets all the time.</p>
<p>What makes the powerful is that when we can observe the mindset we're in, and then ask ourselves, will this mindset let's say, it's judger? Well, this mindset helped me get to where I want to go in this situation. Most of the time, the answer's no.</p>
<p>But unless we can observe our mindsets, we might not even notice that. So it's important to note that I'm just going to, I'm going to show this and I'm going to make a comment about it to your listeners and your viewers. So this right, here it is, I get this confused. But this is called the choice map.</p>
<p>And we all have both mindsets, the judger mindset, and the learner mindset. And at any moment, we're in one or the other. And if we're in if we notice, we're in judger, we can start to use the switching lane. So it becomes a very practical how to.</p>
<p>So I know that this podcast is mostly auditory, which means people are not seeing it. But I do want to say that if you're interested in the choice map, go to my website, which is www inquiry institute.com.</p>
<p>So you can go to my website, you can get the choice map for free. So there's a protocol for how to do it, you take a short quiz, which is also gives you some useful information.</p>
<p>But then you can have the choice map and use it. And it's the core of not only change your questions, change your life, but all the other books that I've written and the work that I do that George, you mentioned a bit in the beginning. So does that answer your question?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p> </p>
<p>25:25</p>
<p>Do you discourage people from being the judge?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>25:33</p>
<p>I would change that question a little bit. So, when they learn about the model of learner judger, and they start to see what the costs have been in their lives, and in particular situations of being in judger, rather than learner, then I don't need to convince them of anything, they start to go, oh, this problem occurred because I was in judger.</p>
<p>And I was just obstinate, maybe there's a different way to go about it. And truthfully, judger is, is human beings, it's always our default position. It's where we go. It's when we go reactive, it's it's fear based.</p>
<p>And it's very useful to accept that part of us. Because it is part of us, and then to see what there is to learn from it. It's also important, George not to go judge her on other people when they are in judgement.</p>
<p>Because then you end up with, like judges squared. Moving to a position where you can actually listen to each other, relate to each other, and maybe come up with some shared solutions together.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Are you asking questions to build or to tear down?
What is the difference between a learner and a judger mindset?
<p>Episode 121 ( Marilee is based in New Jersey)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The polar opposites of learner versus judger mindsets</li>
<li>How to recognize your current mindset</li>
<li>How to shift your mindset with the choice map</li>
<li>How to be a stronger leader by asking stronger questions</li>
<li>How to ask better questions of yourself</li>
<li>Why decisions can be more productive when you are in learner mode</li>
</ul>
<p>About Marilee Adams</p>
<p>Written 4 books, in August released two new books: (1) 4th edition of <em>Change Your Questions, Change Your Life: 12 Powerful Tools for Leadership, Coaching, and Results</em>—a business and leadership fable. (2) <em>Change Your Questions Change Your Life Workbook: Master Your Mindset with Question Thinking</em>. Note that the fable book has sold over 400,000 copies in 22 languages, mostly by word of mouth.</p>
<p>Marilee is the Founder and CEO of the Inquiry Institute, a consulting, coaching and educational organization that works internationally with organizations and government agencies large and small.</p>
<p>Marilee is a Senior Brown Belt in Karate, though that was 20 years ago; these days it’s mostly yoga for her!</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Download your free copy of the Choice Map here and start making more productive choices about your mindset</p>
<p><a href='http://www.InquiryInstitute.com'>www.InquiryInstitute.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Change-Your-Questions-Life-Powerful/dp/1576756009'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Marilee Adams</p>
I think the most powerful leaders are the ones who can ask the most powerful questions and who encourage people around them to do the same thing.
<p>-----</p>
<p>04:59</p>
<p>And you you raise the the learner mindset versus the judging mindset. And that's something that you talk in your book about. Please tell us, what's the difference? What's the distinction? And why is it important?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>05:13</p>
<p>Okay, I'm gonna describe each and I'm also going to show you a model that makes it easier to do that.</p>
<p>So first of all, let's assume that all of us, every human being has two mindsets. One I call judger. And the other I call learner, it's important to remember we all have both, both are normal.</p>
<p>And we will always have them, because we are not only neurologically hardwired for them, but we're also socially ingrained in them. So when I talk about being in judger, mindset, that means that I'm being more close minded more, putting myself or others down, being more judgmental, because judging means judgement fall.</p>
<p>And it can lead to a lot of self doubt, and also interacting with other people in ways that are not respectful and may actually be dismissive. So, but that's part of all of us.</p>
<p>And even if we don't like that part, that doesn't mean it's not there. And it's really useful to say, oh, yeah, that's me to accept all the parts of me. And if we can speak that we would be speaking from learner mindset, which we all have.</p>
<p>And when we're in learner mindset, we're more open minded, more accepting, more able to look from other people's point of view, and be dedicated to what can I create and learn in this situation with this person? So we all have both mindsets all the time.</p>
<p>What makes the powerful is that when we can observe the mindset we're in, and then ask ourselves, will this mindset let's say, it's judger? Well, this mindset helped me get to where I want to go in this situation. Most of the time, the answer's no.</p>
<p>But unless we can observe our mindsets, we might not even notice that. So it's important to note that I'm just going to, I'm going to show this and I'm going to make a comment about it to your listeners and your viewers. So this right, here it is, I get this confused. But this is called the choice map.</p>
<p>And we all have both mindsets, the judger mindset, and the learner mindset. And at any moment, we're in one or the other. And if we're in if we notice, we're in judger, we can start to use the switching lane. So it becomes a very practical how to.</p>
<p>So I know that this podcast is mostly auditory, which means people are not seeing it. But I do want to say that if you're interested in the choice map, go to my website, which is www inquiry institute.com.</p>
<p>So you can go to my website, you can get the choice map for free. So there's a protocol for how to do it, you take a short quiz, which is also gives you some useful information.</p>
<p>But then you can have the choice map and use it. And it's the core of not only change your questions, change your life, but all the other books that I've written and the work that I do that George, you mentioned a bit in the beginning. So does that answer your question?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p> </p>
<p>25:25</p>
<p>Do you discourage people from being the judge?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>25:33</p>
<p>I would change that question a little bit. So, when they learn about the model of learner judger, and they start to see what the costs have been in their lives, and in particular situations of being in judger, rather than learner, then I don't need to convince them of anything, they start to go, oh, this problem occurred because I was in judger.</p>
<p>And I was just obstinate, maybe there's a different way to go about it. And truthfully, judger is, is human beings, it's always our default position. It's where we go. It's when we go reactive, it's it's fear based.</p>
<p>And it's very useful to accept that part of us. Because it is part of us, and then to see what there is to learn from it. It's also important, George not to go judge her on other people when they are in judgement.</p>
<p>Because then you end up with, like judges squared. Moving to a position where you can actually listen to each other, relate to each other, and maybe come up with some shared solutions together.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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What is the difference between a learner and a judger mindset?
Episode 121 ( Marilee is based in New Jersey)
In this conversation we explore:
The polar opposites of learner versus judger mindsets
How to recognize your current mindset
How to shift your mindset with the choice map
How to be a stronger leader by asking stronger questions
How to ask better questions of yourself
Why decisions can be more productive when you are in learner mode
About Marilee Adams
Written 4 books, in August released two new books: (1) 4th edition of Change Your Questions, Change Your Life: 12 Powerful Tools for Leadership, Coaching, and Results—a business and leadership fable. (2) Change Your Questions Change Your Life Workbook: Master Your Mindset with Question Thinking. Note that the fable book has sold over 400,000 copies in 22 languages, mostly by word of mouth.
Marilee is the Founder and CEO of the Inquiry Institute, a consulting, coaching and educational organization that works internationally with organizations and government agencies large and small.
Marilee is a Senior Brown Belt in Karate, though that was 20 years ago; these days it’s mostly yoga for her!
-----
Download your free copy of the Choice Map here and start making more productive choices about your mindset
www.InquiryInstitute.com

 
Excerpts from this conversation with Marilee Adams
I think the most powerful leaders are the ones who can ask the most powerful questions and who encourage people around them to do the same thing.
-----
04:59
And you you raise the the learner mindset versus the judging mindset. And that's something that you talk in your book about. Please tell us, what's the difference? What's the distinction? And why is it important?
 
05:13
Okay, I'm gonna describe each and I'm also going to show you a model that makes it easier to do that.
So first of all, let's assume that all of us, every human being has two mindsets. One I call judger. And the other I call learner, it's important to remember we all have both, both are normal.
And we will always have them, because we are not only neurologically hardwired for them, but we're also socially ingrained in them. So when I talk about being in judger, mindset, that means that I'm being more close minded more, putting myself or others down, being more judgmental, because judging means judgement fall.
And it can lead to a lot of self doubt, and also interacting with other people in ways that are not respectful and may actually be dismissive. So, but that's part of all of us.
And even if we don't like that part, that doesn't mean it's not there. And it's really useful to say, oh, yeah, that's me to accept all the parts of me. And if we can speak that we would be speaking from learner mindset, which we all have.
And when we're in learner mindset, we're more open minded, more accepting, more able to look from other people's point of view, and be dedicated to what can I create and learn in this situation with this person? So we all have both mindsets all the time.
What makes the powerful is that when we can observe the mindset we're in, and then ask ourselves, will this mindset let's say, it's judger? Well, this mindset helped me get to where I want to go in this situation. Most of the time, the answer's no.
But unless we can observe our mindsets, we might not even notice that. So it's important to note that I'm just going to, I'm going to show this and I'm going to make a comment about it to your listeners and your viewers. So this right, here it is, I get this confused. But this is called the choice map.
And we all have both mindsets, the judger mindset, and the learner mindset. And at any moment, we're in one or the other. And if we're in if we notice, we're in judger, we can start to use the switching lane. So it becomes a very practical how to.
So I know that this podcast is mostly auditory, which means people are not seeing it. But I do want to say that if y]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Burnout is a Real Threat and You Can Prevent It
Mental health doesn't show up like a broken bone, yet it's present
<p>Episode 120 (Janice is based in San Francisco)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The challenges of identifying and mitgating burnout</li>
<li>The difference between stress and burnout - and the connection</li>
<li>That burnout is not an on-off switch but a downward spiral</li>
<li>Simple course corrections - outdoors, sunlight and social interaction</li>
<li>Our health includes mental, physical and emotional</li>
<li>How burnout might be temporary</li>
<li>How to have supportive conversations with your team</li>
</ul>
<p>About Janice Litvin</p>
<p>Author of Banish Burnout Toolkit. (Available at Amazon or her website: JaniceLitvin.com/Book (can download a free first chapter)</p>
<p>Keynote speaker and workshop leader who helps leaders and their teams prevent burnout so they can come to work healthy and happy and be productive.</p>
<p>She also helps employees change their reactions to stress from the inside out. And she makes it memorable and fun.</p>
<p>Learn more at <a href='http://www.JaniceLivin.com'>www.JaniceLitvin.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://janicelitvin.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Janice Litvin</p>
<p>01:21</p>
<p>Well, I use the World Health Organization's definition of burnout, which is chronic workplace stress that has not been successfully managed. Actually, they call the syndrome caused by chronic workplace stress that has not been successfully managed.</p>
<p>Now, a lot of people confuse the term stress with burnout. A lot of people say Oh, I'm so burned out. True burnout is complete mental, physical and emotional exhaustion to the point where you really have to take an extended leave.</p>
<p>Really, when people say, Oh, I'm so burned out, I think what they really mean is, I'm very stressed out. And I might be approaching burnout. And that's important to note as well.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:11</p>
<p>And how can one make a determination or distinction? I'm feeling lousy right now? How do I know if I'm stressed, or if I'm burned out?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:23</p>
<p>It all starts with the brain. When someone says I'm feeling lousy, that's a very broad statement that could mean physical, that can be emotional, can be mental.</p>
<p>And so it all starts with the thoughts. If you're waking up in the morning, and the first thought on your mind is something you have on your to-do list, you might be a little stressed.</p>
<p>And you might want to start thinking about spending a few moments throughout the day, not focused on work, whether that means taking a five minute break outside in the sun, which releases a lot of happiness, chemicals, or calling a friend.</p>
<p>And having a nice chat with a friend just checking in say, How's your day going? You know, I have all this work to do. I'm feeling nervous, and the friend can say, well, and that reminds you of things you already know, take it one step at a time.</p>
<p>Let our emotions run our thoughts, do the most important thing first, all the things we already know sometimes our thoughts, a lot of our brain with fear. And we just need to come back down to earth.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p> </p>
<p>13:54</p>
<p>Well, I want to say this. When someone is struggling, a lot of people are afraid of being labelled mentally ill. So they're not going to go to their boss and say I'm feeling mentally ill today.</p>
<p>They're not gonna go to their bosses, I'm struggling because they don't want to be labelled as that person can't do the job. Everybody wants to come across as being adept at their work and successful at their work. And yet, it's important to it really goes back to what I said earlier, which is people knowing each other and having a good team cohesion.</p>
<p>That might mean a team off-site once a month where you go do a charity project like a cleanup day, or, or go feed the hungry or go read to some children something or go on a Heart Walk or whatever it is or left the team, vote on a charity and they want to raise, do their own little fun. charity drive for who walks the most number of minutes or the most number of steps or whatever you want to do.</p>
<p>Does everybody chip in, so much money for however many steps they took, and donate that money to a cause that the team votes on whether it's a heart association or, or a school or whatever, and build, begin to take these baby steps toward building a really strong unit team.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Burnout is a Real Threat and You Can Prevent It
Mental health doesn't show up like a broken bone, yet it's present
<p>Episode 120 (Janice is based in San Francisco)</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The challenges of identifying and mitgating burnout</li>
<li>The difference between stress and burnout - and the connection</li>
<li>That burnout is not an on-off switch but a downward spiral</li>
<li>Simple course corrections - outdoors, sunlight and social interaction</li>
<li>Our health includes mental, physical and emotional</li>
<li>How burnout might be temporary</li>
<li>How to have supportive conversations with your team</li>
</ul>
<p>About Janice Litvin</p>
<p>Author of <em>Banish Burnout Toolkit</em><em>. (Available at Amazon or her website: JaniceLitvin.com/Book (can download a free first chapter)</em></p>
<p>Keynote speaker and workshop leader who helps leaders and their teams prevent burnout so they can come to work healthy and happy and be productive.</p>
<p>She also helps employees change their reactions to stress from the inside out. And she makes it memorable and fun.</p>
<p>Learn more at <a href='http://www.JaniceLivin.com'>www.JaniceLitvin.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://janicelitvin.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Janice Litvin</p>
<p>01:21</p>
<p>Well, I use the World Health Organization's definition of burnout, which is chronic workplace stress that has not been successfully managed. Actually, they call the syndrome caused by chronic workplace stress that has not been successfully managed.</p>
<p>Now, a lot of people confuse the term stress with burnout. A lot of people say Oh, I'm so burned out. True burnout is complete mental, physical and emotional exhaustion to the point where you really have to take an extended leave.</p>
<p>Really, when people say, Oh, I'm so burned out, I think what they really mean is, I'm very stressed out. And I might be approaching burnout. And that's important to note as well.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:11</p>
<p>And how can one make a determination or distinction? I'm feeling lousy right now? How do I know if I'm stressed, or if I'm burned out?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:23</p>
<p>It all starts with the brain. When someone says I'm feeling lousy, that's a very broad statement that could mean physical, that can be emotional, can be mental.</p>
<p>And so it all starts with the thoughts. If you're waking up in the morning, and the first thought on your mind is something you have on your to-do list, you might be a little stressed.</p>
<p>And you might want to start thinking about spending a few moments throughout the day, not focused on work, whether that means taking a five minute break outside in the sun, which releases a lot of happiness, chemicals, or calling a friend.</p>
<p>And having a nice chat with a friend just checking in say, How's your day going? You know, I have all this work to do. I'm feeling nervous, and the friend can say, well, and that reminds you of things you already know, take it one step at a time.</p>
<p>Let our emotions run our thoughts, do the most important thing first, all the things we already know sometimes our thoughts, a lot of our brain with fear. And we just need to come back down to earth.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p> </p>
<p>13:54</p>
<p>Well, I want to say this. When someone is struggling, a lot of people are afraid of being labelled mentally ill. So they're not going to go to their boss and say I'm feeling mentally ill today.</p>
<p>They're not gonna go to their bosses, I'm struggling because they don't want to be labelled as that person can't do the job. Everybody wants to come across as being adept at their work and successful at their work. And yet, it's important to it really goes back to what I said earlier, which is people knowing each other and having a good team cohesion.</p>
<p>That might mean a team off-site once a month where you go do a charity project like a cleanup day, or, or go feed the hungry or go read to some children something or go on a Heart Walk or whatever it is or left the team, vote on a charity and they want to raise, do their own little fun. charity drive for who walks the most number of minutes or the most number of steps or whatever you want to do.</p>
<p>Does everybody chip in, so much money for however many steps they took, and donate that money to a cause that the team votes on whether it's a heart association or, or a school or whatever, and build, begin to take these baby steps toward building a really strong unit team.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Burnout is a Real Threat and You Can Prevent It
Mental health doesn't show up like a broken bone, yet it's present
Episode 120 (Janice is based in San Francisco)
In this conversation we explore:
The challenges of identifying and mitgating burnout
The difference between stress and burnout - and the connection
That burnout is not an on-off switch but a downward spiral
Simple course corrections - outdoors, sunlight and social interaction
Our health includes mental, physical and emotional
How burnout might be temporary
How to have supportive conversations with your team
About Janice Litvin
Author of Banish Burnout Toolkit. (Available at Amazon or her website: JaniceLitvin.com/Book (can download a free first chapter)
Keynote speaker and workshop leader who helps leaders and their teams prevent burnout so they can come to work healthy and happy and be productive.
She also helps employees change their reactions to stress from the inside out. And she makes it memorable and fun.
Learn more at www.JaniceLitvin.com

-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Janice Litvin
01:21
Well, I use the World Health Organization's definition of burnout, which is chronic workplace stress that has not been successfully managed. Actually, they call the syndrome caused by chronic workplace stress that has not been successfully managed.
Now, a lot of people confuse the term stress with burnout. A lot of people say Oh, I'm so burned out. True burnout is complete mental, physical and emotional exhaustion to the point where you really have to take an extended leave.
Really, when people say, Oh, I'm so burned out, I think what they really mean is, I'm very stressed out. And I might be approaching burnout. And that's important to note as well.
 
02:11
And how can one make a determination or distinction? I'm feeling lousy right now? How do I know if I'm stressed, or if I'm burned out?
 
02:23
It all starts with the brain. When someone says I'm feeling lousy, that's a very broad statement that could mean physical, that can be emotional, can be mental.
And so it all starts with the thoughts. If you're waking up in the morning, and the first thought on your mind is something you have on your to-do list, you might be a little stressed.
And you might want to start thinking about spending a few moments throughout the day, not focused on work, whether that means taking a five minute break outside in the sun, which releases a lot of happiness, chemicals, or calling a friend.
And having a nice chat with a friend just checking in say, How's your day going? You know, I have all this work to do. I'm feeling nervous, and the friend can say, well, and that reminds you of things you already know, take it one step at a time.
Let our emotions run our thoughts, do the most important thing first, all the things we already know sometimes our thoughts, a lot of our brain with fear. And we just need to come back down to earth.
-----
 
13:54
Well, I want to say this. When someone is struggling, a lot of people are afraid of being labelled mentally ill. So they're not going to go to their boss and say I'm feeling mentally ill today.
They're not gonna go to their bosses, I'm struggling because they don't want to be labelled as that person can't do the job. Everybody wants to come across as being adept at their work and successful at their work. And yet, it's important to it really goes back to what I said earlier, which is people knowing each other and having a good team cohesion.
That might mean a team off-site once a month where you go do a charity project like a cleanup day, or, or go feed the hungry or go read to some children something or go on a Heart Walk or whatever it is or left the team, vote on a charity and they want to raise, do their own little fun. charity drive for who walks the most number of minutes or the most number of steps or whatever you want to do.
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        <title>Presentation Lessons from Clown School: Don Colliver</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Learn from Clown School, Blue Man Group and Improv, oh my!
How to use clown presence in your presentation
<p>Episode 119 (Don is based in San Francisco)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Don Colliver, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How clown training helps you leverage your flaws for human connection</li>
<li>The importance of getting well prepared for your presentation</li>
<li>How to shine through an embarrassing moment</li>
<li>The ATM method to handle distractions and interruptions</li>
<li>How to use the clown techniques of complicity and wink</li>
<li>Why you need to become more aware of your emotional and state</li>
<li>Why it's okay to reveal your kryptonite</li>
<li>A crazy and effective way to rehearse your presentation</li>
</ul>
<p>About Don Colliver</p>
<p>Don Colliver teaches popular public speaking courses internally at Google and around the world; leads improv, clown, and sketch comedy classes for the Berkeley Rep School of Theatre; and speaks professionally for Fortune 500 companies including Adobe, Cisco, and Medtronic.</p>
<p>Don has performed with the Blue Man Group, toured internationally as a theatrical Clown for contemporary circus Spiegelworld, and is listed in the Cirque du Soleil performer database.</p>
Try this exercise to gauge the level of engagement with your audience.
<p>Get your free copy of the exercise here. <a href='https://www.doncolliver.com/engage'>https://www.doncolliver.com/engage</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://www.doncolliver.com/winkbook'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Don Colliver</p>
<p>That is fascinating, Don, because what I'm hearing is that we want you to be good, we want you to be prepared, we want you to show up and ready to present and we want you to be the best that you can.</p>
<p>And if we see that you put in that effort, then we forgive a flaw or mistake. However, we will not forgive when you are not prepared.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>07:38</p>
<p>A well put and I will take it even further. Forgive makes it sound like you're like I'm going to ignore that. I found that a small bobble actually gets the audience more on your side, if you're properly prepared, it makes them and that's what the clown that's what I mean by the clown element.</p>
<p>A basic structure of a clown Act is the clown comes out, ready to deliver something to the audience very excited, full of hope. Of course something goes wrong. The clown shares the vulnerability; the clown is vulnerable to the audience like that did not go as I planned.</p>
<p>No problem, I'm going to keep trying. And the audience is like okay, and then the clown of course, has another mistake, another failure even more extravagant.</p>
<p>And this continues on this pattern continues on the audience gets more and more on the side of the clown. Until usually in a clown bit the clown fails into some sublime unintended beauty.</p>
<p>This is not presentation this is this is where it diverts from what we're talking about. I'm just saying, if you are prepared enough, if you are properly prepared, a little bit of humanity will actually get the audience on your side.</p>
<p>-----</p>
This is what I do before all of my presentations, I rehearse five to seven times, front to back without stopping.
<p>But two of those times I do a very specific method. One time, I will go through my presentation, and I'll do extremely big body movements. Like crazy, I'll close the door, no one can see me I'll pull the shades down. So it's, it's private.</p>
<p>And, and I'll like wave my hands around, I'll jump on the couch, I'll crawl on the ground. Depending upon what I'm talking about. Just as much as I can, I'll use my entire body.</p>
<p>Of course, you never do this in the real presentation. But what it's going to leave a residual amount of appropriate movement, because you'll end up finding that you are acting crazy during the most important and emphatic parts of your presentation, it will just kind of sort out. You don't have to script it, it'll just happen.</p>
<p>The second one is do the same thing. But with vocal variety. Again, close the door, pull the shades down, make sure nobody's watching.</p>
<p>But really talk up and down and whisper and light and yell and really hit your points hard. And again, you won't speak like that during the presentation. But the residual will be your voice.</p>
<p>We'll have a lot more interesting vocal variety when you give that presentation that wasn't there before. A lot of folks, non native speakers struggle and ask how can I help my vocal variety? This is a tip I often throw their way of practice.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Let's have fun!</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Learn from Clown School, Blue Man Group and Improv, oh my!
How to use clown presence in your presentation
<p>Episode 119 (Don is based in San Francisco)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Don Colliver, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How clown training helps you leverage your flaws for human connection</li>
<li>The importance of getting well prepared for your presentation</li>
<li>How to shine through an embarrassing moment</li>
<li>The ATM method to handle distractions and interruptions</li>
<li>How to use the clown techniques of complicity and wink</li>
<li>Why you need to become more aware of your emotional and state</li>
<li>Why it's okay to reveal your kryptonite</li>
<li>A crazy and effective way to rehearse your presentation</li>
</ul>
<p>About Don Colliver</p>
<p>Don Colliver teaches popular public speaking courses internally at Google and around the world; leads improv, clown, and sketch comedy classes for the Berkeley Rep School of Theatre; and speaks professionally for Fortune 500 companies including Adobe, Cisco, and Medtronic.</p>
<p>Don has performed with the Blue Man Group, toured internationally as a theatrical Clown for contemporary circus Spiegelworld, and is listed in the Cirque du Soleil performer database.</p>
Try this exercise to gauge the level of engagement with your audience.
<p><em>Get your free copy of the exercise here</em>. <a href='https://www.doncolliver.com/engage'>https://www.doncolliver.com/engage</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://www.doncolliver.com/winkbook'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Don Colliver</p>
<p>That is fascinating, Don, because what I'm hearing is that we want you to be good, we want you to be prepared, we want you to show up and ready to present and we want you to be the best that you can.</p>
<p>And if we see that you put in that effort, then we forgive a flaw or mistake. However, we will not forgive when you are not prepared.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>07:38</p>
<p>A well put and I will take it even further. Forgive makes it sound like you're like I'm going to ignore that. I found that a small bobble actually gets the audience more on your side, if you're properly prepared, it makes them and that's what the clown that's what I mean by the clown element.</p>
<p>A basic structure of a clown Act is the clown comes out, ready to deliver something to the audience very excited, full of hope. Of course something goes wrong. The clown shares the vulnerability; the clown is vulnerable to the audience like that did not go as I planned.</p>
<p>No problem, I'm going to keep trying. And the audience is like okay, and then the clown of course, has another mistake, another failure even more extravagant.</p>
<p>And this continues on this pattern continues on the audience gets more and more on the side of the clown. Until usually in a clown bit the clown fails into some sublime unintended beauty.</p>
<p>This is not presentation this is this is where it diverts from what we're talking about. I'm just saying, if you are prepared enough, if you are properly prepared, a little bit of humanity will actually get the audience on your side.</p>
<p>-----</p>
This is what I do before all of my presentations, I rehearse five to seven times, front to back without stopping.
<p>But two of those times I do a very specific method. One time, I will go through my presentation, and I'll do extremely big body movements. Like crazy, I'll close the door, no one can see me I'll pull the shades down. So it's, it's private.</p>
<p>And, and I'll like wave my hands around, I'll jump on the couch, I'll crawl on the ground. Depending upon what I'm talking about. Just as much as I can, I'll use my entire body.</p>
<p>Of course, you never do this in the real presentation. But what it's going to leave a residual amount of appropriate movement, because you'll end up finding that you are acting crazy during the most important and emphatic parts of your presentation, it will just kind of sort out. You don't have to script it, it'll just happen.</p>
<p>The second one is do the same thing. But with vocal variety. Again, close the door, pull the shades down, make sure nobody's watching.</p>
<p>But really talk up and down and whisper and light and yell and really hit your points hard. And again, you won't speak like that during the presentation. But the residual will be your voice.</p>
<p>We'll have a lot more interesting vocal variety when you give that presentation that wasn't there before. A lot of folks, non native speakers struggle and ask how can I help my vocal variety? This is a tip I often throw their way of practice.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Let's have fun!</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Learn from Clown School, Blue Man Group and Improv, oh my!
How to use clown presence in your presentation
Episode 119 (Don is based in San Francisco)
In this conversation with Don Colliver, we explore:
How clown training helps you leverage your flaws for human connection
The importance of getting well prepared for your presentation
How to shine through an embarrassing moment
The ATM method to handle distractions and interruptions
How to use the clown techniques of complicity and wink
Why you need to become more aware of your emotional and state
Why it's okay to reveal your kryptonite
A crazy and effective way to rehearse your presentation
About Don Colliver
Don Colliver teaches popular public speaking courses internally at Google and around the world; leads improv, clown, and sketch comedy classes for the Berkeley Rep School of Theatre; and speaks professionally for Fortune 500 companies including Adobe, Cisco, and Medtronic.
Don has performed with the Blue Man Group, toured internationally as a theatrical Clown for contemporary circus Spiegelworld, and is listed in the Cirque du Soleil performer database.
Try this exercise to gauge the level of engagement with your audience.
Get your free copy of the exercise here. https://www.doncolliver.com/engage
 

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Excerpts from this conversation with Don Colliver
That is fascinating, Don, because what I'm hearing is that we want you to be good, we want you to be prepared, we want you to show up and ready to present and we want you to be the best that you can.
And if we see that you put in that effort, then we forgive a flaw or mistake. However, we will not forgive when you are not prepared.
 
07:38
A well put and I will take it even further. Forgive makes it sound like you're like I'm going to ignore that. I found that a small bobble actually gets the audience more on your side, if you're properly prepared, it makes them and that's what the clown that's what I mean by the clown element.
A basic structure of a clown Act is the clown comes out, ready to deliver something to the audience very excited, full of hope. Of course something goes wrong. The clown shares the vulnerability; the clown is vulnerable to the audience like that did not go as I planned.
No problem, I'm going to keep trying. And the audience is like okay, and then the clown of course, has another mistake, another failure even more extravagant.
And this continues on this pattern continues on the audience gets more and more on the side of the clown. Until usually in a clown bit the clown fails into some sublime unintended beauty.
This is not presentation this is this is where it diverts from what we're talking about. I'm just saying, if you are prepared enough, if you are properly prepared, a little bit of humanity will actually get the audience on your side.
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This is what I do before all of my presentations, I rehearse five to seven times, front to back without stopping.
But two of those times I do a very specific method. One time, I will go through my presentation, and I'll do extremely big body movements. Like crazy, I'll close the door, no one can see me I'll pull the shades down. So it's, it's private.
And, and I'll like wave my hands around, I'll jump on the couch, I'll crawl on the ground. Depending upon what I'm talking about. Just as much as I can, I'll use my entire body.
Of course, you never do this in the real presentation. But what it's going to leave a residual amount of appropriate movement, because you'll end up finding that you are acting crazy during the most important and emphatic parts of your presentation, it will just kind of sort out. You don't have to script it, it'll just happen.
The second one is do the same thing. But with vocal variety. Again, close the door, pull the shades down, make sure nobody's watching.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How can you build your charisma?
How does Greek mythology offer constructive leadership analogies?
<p>Episode 118 (Scott is based in New York City)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Scott Mason, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Charisma as a leadership quality</li>
<li>The difference between entertainment and charisma</li>
<li>Why powerful charisma both attracts and repels</li>
<li>Why we need heroes that are flawed</li>
<li>How to recognize charisma</li>
<li>The importance of enabling the connection between your head and heart</li>
<li>The rich litanies of Greek mythology</li>
<li>Why Greek myths are a safe source of leadership lessons</li>
</ul>
<p>About Scott Mason</p>
<p>Scott is a graduate of Columbia Law School and worked as legal counsel & a senior executive with government and nonprofit organizations for a quarter of a century.</p>
<p>Scott's insights on Greek mythology and business success have appeared in book compilations and online magazines and blogs; he additionally was the founding host of the Greater New York City area's official podcast for Toastmasters International, the world's largest public speaking organization.</p>
<p>Scott encourages everyone he knows to find a personal mythological avatar whose characteristics inspire them and keep them reaching high; his is Helios, the god of the sun, and has been ever since he was a little boy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Arrange for your complimentary Charisma Assessment with Scott. Select a meeting time from his calendar.</p>
<p><a href='https://nam12.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalendly.com%2Fscottmasonllc%2Fignite-your-charisma&data=05%7C01%7C%7C4257946da01f4fb2a65608da911b0108%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C637981842486953101%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C3000%7C%7C%7C&sdata=GneDeY8kjBTct54qIX03YyLF8J55T45n%2FH3pYb3cXP0%3D&reserved=0'>https://calendly.com/scottmasonllc/ignite-your-charisma</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://calendly.com/scottmasonllc/ignite-your-charisma'></a></p>
<p>----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Scott Mason</p>
<p>06:26</p>
<p>Actually, I'm gonna bust you out a little bit, George, before we started taping you and I had a conversation about some apprentices that you're bringing on, and they were from Africa, and you wanted to work with them to help them help you.</p>
<p>I find it interesting in light of that conversation that you mentioned Perseus because Perseus from a symbolic perspective, and I actually wrote a series of essays about this for LinkedIn and Instagram represents also someone who understands the need to ask for help.</p>
<p>When it comes to achieving their goals. He literally saw the thought originally, he made the promise to kill Medusa basically as a boast.</p>
<p>But then the king that he made this boast in front of held him to it, he realised pretty quickly, I can't do this alone. This is more than any one person can handle.</p>
<p>And so he sought the help of the gods Athena, and Hermes, who literally walked him through an entire process along with some other folks along on the way to find Medusa. And then to destroy her.</p>
<p>On the way back, he stopped in Ethiopia to help some other people out. That was a woman who was being chained to a rock to be eaten by a monster as a as a sacrifice. He used Medusa his head, or maybe actually use a sword to kill that monster.</p>
<p>But in any event, he's left with this woman, Andromeda, who was an Ethiopian Princess, flew back to Greece, and they found it actually the greatest ancient Greek civilization of Mycenae.</p>
<p>And so I think that in terms of what you just said to me, about what you're doing in your own professional life right now, as a growing business person, where you want to go, and the possible outcomes of what your work with other people could lead to Perseus as perhaps an even greater and more profound metaphor than you even realised.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Anyone can be charismatic so long as they take the four foundational steps and apply them into their lives to become charismatic, and it manifests itself very differently depending on who you are and what age and stage and and other characteristics you have in your mind.
<p>-----</p>
<p>22:19</p>
<p>Your intended message could not be a more appropriate set of words, for the answer to that question.</p>
<p>When I decided to land upon this framework as the tool for passing on my message, I knew that there would be a lot of people that responded to it exactly, as you just described. And in fact, one of the things that I viewed initially, as a sign that this ultimately would succeed, was the amount of negativity that I received, unsolicited online.</p>
<p>I had people, by the way, who didn't seem to understand that I realised that Greek myths, right, like Zeus doesn't really exist. So I had people that were concerned about my immortal soul, or people who, you know, reminded me that I wasn't talking about the Bible, that sort of stuff.</p>
<p>And I also, though, had people including some in my immediate circle, who felt the need to send me text messages, or DM saying that what I was doing sucked.</p>
<p>Actually, George, that's charisma. Because I tell you, how many times when you're scrolling through social media, do you feel the need to stop and tell someone that you hate what they're doing? Usually, most people just scroll on, it said to me, it had an impact.</p>
<p>My message is not intended to go to everyone. If you don't like Greek myths, well, I can get you to like them. But if you don't like allegory, if you don't like something that's out of the box, and creative, and there's nothing wrong with folks that aren't that way, I don't judge them. This ain't for you.</p>
<p>The clients I have, make no mistake, they are committed. I have a client who began my program, we start talking about ethics from the beginning, because ethics do relate to charisma and less direct way.</p>
<p>He started reading Aristotelian ethics. This on his free time because of that, that's commitment.</p>
<p>I have other clients who when we do the actual mission statement that we sent her their charismatic exercises around, found an obscure Greek goddess that really spoke to her and that helped her frame her message and tighten and understand exactly who and what she needs to be.</p>
<p>This program is not for those who are just interested in what I call pep rally motivation, or you go girl sort of encouragement of what you need.</p>
<p>This is for those who are seriously seeking transformation as as cerebral. I'll be fun as the Greek myths are That's the depth that I seek for my clients to go to. The deeper you dig George, the more you find</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How can you build your charisma?
How does Greek mythology offer constructive leadership analogies?
<p>Episode 118 (Scott is based in New York City)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Scott Mason, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Charisma as a leadership quality</li>
<li>The difference between entertainment and charisma</li>
<li>Why powerful charisma both attracts and repels</li>
<li>Why we need heroes that are flawed</li>
<li>How to recognize charisma</li>
<li>The importance of enabling the connection between your head and heart</li>
<li>The rich litanies of Greek mythology</li>
<li>Why Greek myths are a safe source of leadership lessons</li>
</ul>
<p>About Scott Mason</p>
<p>Scott is a graduate of Columbia Law School and worked as legal counsel & a senior executive with government and nonprofit organizations for a quarter of a century.</p>
<p>Scott's insights on Greek mythology and business success have appeared in book compilations and online magazines and blogs; he additionally was the founding host of the Greater New York City area's official podcast for Toastmasters International, the world's largest public speaking organization.</p>
<p>Scott encourages everyone he knows to find a personal mythological avatar whose characteristics inspire them and keep them reaching high; his is Helios, the god of the sun, and has been ever since he was a little boy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Arrange for your complimentary Charisma Assessment with Scott. Select a meeting time from his calendar.</p>
<p><a href='https://nam12.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fcalendly.com%2Fscottmasonllc%2Fignite-your-charisma&data=05%7C01%7C%7C4257946da01f4fb2a65608da911b0108%7C84df9e7fe9f640afb435aaaaaaaaaaaa%7C1%7C0%7C637981842486953101%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C3000%7C%7C%7C&sdata=GneDeY8kjBTct54qIX03YyLF8J55T45n%2FH3pYb3cXP0%3D&reserved=0'>https://calendly.com/scottmasonllc/ignite-your-charisma</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://calendly.com/scottmasonllc/ignite-your-charisma'></a></p>
<p>----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Scott Mason</p>
<p>06:26</p>
<p>Actually, I'm gonna bust you out a little bit, George, before we started taping you and I had a conversation about some apprentices that you're bringing on, and they were from Africa, and you wanted to work with them to help them help you.</p>
<p>I find it interesting in light of that conversation that you mentioned Perseus because Perseus from a symbolic perspective, and I actually wrote a series of essays about this for LinkedIn and Instagram represents also someone who understands the need to ask for help.</p>
<p>When it comes to achieving their goals. He literally saw the thought originally, he made the promise to kill Medusa basically as a boast.</p>
<p>But then the king that he made this boast in front of held him to it, he realised pretty quickly, I can't do this alone. This is more than any one person can handle.</p>
<p>And so he sought the help of the gods Athena, and Hermes, who literally walked him through an entire process along with some other folks along on the way to find Medusa. And then to destroy her.</p>
<p>On the way back, he stopped in Ethiopia to help some other people out. That was a woman who was being chained to a rock to be eaten by a monster as a as a sacrifice. He used Medusa his head, or maybe actually use a sword to kill that monster.</p>
<p>But in any event, he's left with this woman, Andromeda, who was an Ethiopian Princess, flew back to Greece, and they found it actually the greatest ancient Greek civilization of Mycenae.</p>
<p>And so I think that in terms of what you just said to me, about what you're doing in your own professional life right now, as a growing business person, where you want to go, and the possible outcomes of what your work with other people could lead to Perseus as perhaps an even greater and more profound metaphor than you even realised.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Anyone can be charismatic so long as they take the four foundational steps and apply them into their lives to become charismatic, and it manifests itself very differently depending on who you are and what age and stage and and other characteristics you have in your mind.
<p>-----</p>
<p>22:19</p>
<p>Your intended message could not be a more appropriate set of words, for the answer to that question.</p>
<p>When I decided to land upon this framework as the tool for passing on my message, I knew that there would be a lot of people that responded to it exactly, as you just described. And in fact, one of the things that I viewed initially, as a sign that this ultimately would succeed, was the amount of negativity that I received, unsolicited online.</p>
<p>I had people, by the way, who didn't seem to understand that I realised that Greek myths, right, like Zeus doesn't really exist. So I had people that were concerned about my immortal soul, or people who, you know, reminded me that I wasn't talking about the Bible, that sort of stuff.</p>
<p>And I also, though, had people including some in my immediate circle, who felt the need to send me text messages, or DM saying that what I was doing sucked.</p>
<p>Actually, George, that's charisma. Because I tell you, how many times when you're scrolling through social media, do you feel the need to stop and tell someone that you hate what they're doing? Usually, most people just scroll on, it said to me, it had an impact.</p>
<p>My message is not intended to go to everyone. If you don't like Greek myths, well, I can get you to like them. But if you don't like allegory, if you don't like something that's out of the box, and creative, and there's nothing wrong with folks that aren't that way, I don't judge them. This ain't for you.</p>
<p>The clients I have, make no mistake, they are committed. I have a client who began my program, we start talking about ethics from the beginning, because ethics do relate to charisma and less direct way.</p>
<p>He started reading Aristotelian ethics. This on his free time because of that, that's commitment.</p>
<p>I have other clients who when we do the actual mission statement that we sent her their charismatic exercises around, found an obscure Greek goddess that really spoke to her and that helped her frame her message and tighten and understand exactly who and what she needs to be.</p>
<p>This program is not for those who are just interested in what I call pep rally motivation, or you go girl sort of encouragement of what you need.</p>
<p>This is for those who are seriously seeking transformation as as cerebral. I'll be fun as the Greek myths are That's the depth that I seek for my clients to go to. The deeper you dig George, the more you find</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How can you build your charisma?
How does Greek mythology offer constructive leadership analogies?
Episode 118 (Scott is based in New York City)
In this conversation with Scott Mason, we explore:
Charisma as a leadership quality
The difference between entertainment and charisma
Why powerful charisma both attracts and repels
Why we need heroes that are flawed
How to recognize charisma
The importance of enabling the connection between your head and heart
The rich litanies of Greek mythology
Why Greek myths are a safe source of leadership lessons
About Scott Mason
Scott is a graduate of Columbia Law School and worked as legal counsel & a senior executive with government and nonprofit organizations for a quarter of a century.
Scott's insights on Greek mythology and business success have appeared in book compilations and online magazines and blogs; he additionally was the founding host of the Greater New York City area's official podcast for Toastmasters International, the world's largest public speaking organization.
Scott encourages everyone he knows to find a personal mythological avatar whose characteristics inspire them and keep them reaching high; his is Helios, the god of the sun, and has been ever since he was a little boy.
 
Arrange for your complimentary Charisma Assessment with Scott. Select a meeting time from his calendar.
https://calendly.com/scottmasonllc/ignite-your-charisma
 

----
Excerpts from this conversation with Scott Mason
06:26
Actually, I'm gonna bust you out a little bit, George, before we started taping you and I had a conversation about some apprentices that you're bringing on, and they were from Africa, and you wanted to work with them to help them help you.
I find it interesting in light of that conversation that you mentioned Perseus because Perseus from a symbolic perspective, and I actually wrote a series of essays about this for LinkedIn and Instagram represents also someone who understands the need to ask for help.
When it comes to achieving their goals. He literally saw the thought originally, he made the promise to kill Medusa basically as a boast.
But then the king that he made this boast in front of held him to it, he realised pretty quickly, I can't do this alone. This is more than any one person can handle.
And so he sought the help of the gods Athena, and Hermes, who literally walked him through an entire process along with some other folks along on the way to find Medusa. And then to destroy her.
On the way back, he stopped in Ethiopia to help some other people out. That was a woman who was being chained to a rock to be eaten by a monster as a as a sacrifice. He used Medusa his head, or maybe actually use a sword to kill that monster.
But in any event, he's left with this woman, Andromeda, who was an Ethiopian Princess, flew back to Greece, and they found it actually the greatest ancient Greek civilization of Mycenae.
And so I think that in terms of what you just said to me, about what you're doing in your own professional life right now, as a growing business person, where you want to go, and the possible outcomes of what your work with other people could lead to Perseus as perhaps an even greater and more profound metaphor than you even realised.
-----
Anyone can be charismatic so long as they take the four foundational steps and apply them into their lives to become charismatic, and it manifests itself very differently depending on who you are and what age and stage and and other characteristics you have in your mind.
-----
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Your intended message could not be a more appropriate set of words, for the answer to that question.
When I decided to land upon this framework as the tool for passing on my message, I knew that there would be a lot of people that responded to it exactly, as you just described. And in fact, one of the things that I viewed initially, as a sign that this ultimately would succeed, was the amount of negativity that I received, unsolicited online.
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Anger is a normal emotion and you can manage those angry people in your life
<p>Episode 117 (Doug is based in California)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Doug Noll, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>That angry is simply one part of our emotional personality</li>
<li>How to quickly sooth the angry soul</li>
<li>Anger is an indication of a boundary violation</li>
<li>What is emotional invalidation and how does it harm</li>
<li>Mistakes to avoid with facing angry people</li>
<li>Why anger is not necessarily bad</li>
<li>How to manage your own anger and recognize the triggers</li>
<li>Why ranting is not a helpful solution</li>
</ul>
<p>About Doug Noll</p>
<p>Doug Noll is a lawyer-turned-peacemaker. In addition to his law degree, he has a Masters Degree in Peacemaking and Conflict Studies.  In 2000, he left a successful law practice as a civil trial lawyer to help people resolve conflicts without litigation or conflict.</p>
<p>Doug was born nearly blind, partially deaf, and with two clubbed feet. His disabilities were challenging to overcome….and he did</p>
<p>He’s a second-degree black belt and tai chi master, a certified ski instructor, an airplane and helicopter pilot, a white-water river rafter, and a jazz violinist.</p>
<p>Doug teaches people how to de-escalate angry people in 90 seconds or less. His fourth book, an Amazon bestseller, is called De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less. Doug has online video courses and provides workshops and coaching to individuals and organizations desiring to increase their emotional competency.</p>
<p>As a listener of Your Intended Message you are entitled to receive a free book, How to Listen Others into Existence.</p>
<p>Take advantage of this offer here <a href='http://www.DougNoll.co/intended-message'>www.DougNoll.co/intended-message</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Doug Noll:</p>
<p>03:04</p>
<p>Well, it's very interesting. There are at least 12 Different kinds of anger. And we don't have time to go into all the different kinds of anger there are, but there are at least 12 Different kinds of anger.</p>
<p>And at its root, of course, Anger is an emotion. And there are many levels and intensities of anger.</p>
<p>So you can be frustrated, which is an anger, emotion, you can be annoyed, you can be enraged, you can be irritated, you can be you can have hatred, so many, many different levels.</p>
<p>The key to all of these emotions are that when we get triggered into an angry emotion, the emotional centres of our brain take over. And they shut down the thinking part of our brain.</p>
<p>And we've all had this experience when we've seen it, you get angry, you can't think what some really interesting brain scanning studies show is that when the listener labels the anger to the angry person, the speaker, the anchor goes away in about 90 seconds.</p>
<p>And all I would say is something like this, Hey, George, you are really pissed off, you're angry, you're frustrated, you feel completely disrespected and ignored. You don't feel appreciated.</p>
<p>You feel a little bit of anxiety and worry about all of this. And you're sad because you feel betrayed. And the whole thing is just really frustrating to you. If you were really angry by me saying those words in that way to you, your brain would literally calm itself down.</p>
<p>What's effectively happening is that because your prefrontal cortex is offline when you're angry, when I tell you what you're feeling, it allows your prefrontal cortex to grab a hold and figure things out and all of a sudden calm itself down. And it's how every human brain is hardwired. And it happens in less 90 seconds. It's how it works,</p>
<p> </p>
<p>05:04</p>
<p>Doug, if if we did nothing else in this conversation today that that phrase that you just did, you just delivered there is enough to provide tremendous value. Because what I'm noticing is one when you said that you were not responding, anger to anger, which is the typical response, well, you're angry, I'll be even angrier.</p>
<p>Yes, I can be a bigger jerk than you no problem. That's the typical response. And then we wonder why he was so unproductive. And we both go away feeling frustrated and unsatisfied. But when you said that, and even though I mimicked anger before, I wasn't angry, but I could imagine if you were saying that to me, and I was angry, it's like, oh, you get me? You understand me?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>05:50</p>
<p>Exactly. That's exactly right. And here's what's happening. angry people need to be listened to, they're angry because they're not being heard at a deep emotional level. And when you can fulfil that need by validating their emotional experience, when I call listening another person into existence, anger goes away instantly.</p>
<p>And it happens every single time without failure. And I have had 12 years of field experience teaching murderers and maximum security prisons, how to become peacemakers and mediators to stop prison violence.</p>
<p>And I've taught over 20,000 inmates these skills, and every single one of them has had success with it in many cases. We started in 2010, my colleague Wolkoff and I started in 2010, in the largest, most violent women's prison in the world. Valley State Prison for Women and Chowchilla, California.</p>
<p>Two years into the program, we trained 800 women out of a population of 3600. We got an unsolicited letter from the warden saying the prisoner quieted down because of prisoner peace. It works.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>----more----</p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Imagine the results when you can calm an angry person in 90 seconds - or less
Anger is a normal emotion and you can manage those angry people in your life
<p>Episode 117 (Doug is based in California)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Doug Noll, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>That angry is simply one part of our emotional personality</li>
<li>How to quickly sooth the angry soul</li>
<li>Anger is an indication of a boundary violation</li>
<li>What is emotional invalidation and how does it harm</li>
<li>Mistakes to avoid with facing angry people</li>
<li>Why anger is not necessarily bad</li>
<li>How to manage your own anger and recognize the triggers</li>
<li>Why ranting is not a helpful solution</li>
</ul>
<p>About Doug Noll</p>
<p>Doug Noll is a lawyer-turned-peacemaker. In addition to his law degree, he has a Masters Degree in Peacemaking and Conflict Studies.  In 2000, he left a successful law practice as a civil trial lawyer to help people resolve conflicts without litigation or conflict.</p>
<p>Doug was born nearly blind, partially deaf, and with two clubbed feet. His disabilities were challenging to overcome….and he did</p>
<p>He’s a second-degree black belt and tai chi master, a certified ski instructor, an airplane and helicopter pilot, a white-water river rafter, and a jazz violinist.</p>
<p>Doug teaches people how to de-escalate angry people in 90 seconds or less. His fourth book, an Amazon bestseller, is called De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less. Doug has online video courses and provides workshops and coaching to individuals and organizations desiring to increase their emotional competency.</p>
<p>As a listener of Your Intended Message you are entitled to receive a free book, How to Listen Others into Existence.</p>
<p>Take advantage of this offer here <a href='http://www.DougNoll.co/intended-message'>www.DougNoll.co/intended-message</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Doug Noll:</p>
<p>03:04</p>
<p>Well, it's very interesting. There are at least 12 Different kinds of anger. And we don't have time to go into all the different kinds of anger there are, but there are at least 12 Different kinds of anger.</p>
<p>And at its root, of course, Anger is an emotion. And there are many levels and intensities of anger.</p>
<p>So you can be frustrated, which is an anger, emotion, you can be annoyed, you can be enraged, you can be irritated, you can be you can have hatred, so many, many different levels.</p>
<p>The key to all of these emotions are that when we get triggered into an angry emotion, the emotional centres of our brain take over. And they shut down the thinking part of our brain.</p>
<p>And we've all had this experience when we've seen it, you get angry, you can't think what some really interesting brain scanning studies show is that when the listener labels the anger to the angry person, the speaker, the anchor goes away in about 90 seconds.</p>
<p>And all I would say is something like this, Hey, George, you are really pissed off, you're angry, you're frustrated, you feel completely disrespected and ignored. You don't feel appreciated.</p>
<p>You feel a little bit of anxiety and worry about all of this. And you're sad because you feel betrayed. And the whole thing is just really frustrating to you. If you were really angry by me saying those words in that way to you, your brain would literally calm itself down.</p>
<p>What's effectively happening is that because your prefrontal cortex is offline when you're angry, when I tell you what you're feeling, it allows your prefrontal cortex to grab a hold and figure things out and all of a sudden calm itself down. And it's how every human brain is hardwired. And it happens in less 90 seconds. It's how it works,</p>
<p> </p>
<p>05:04</p>
<p>Doug, if if we did nothing else in this conversation today that that phrase that you just did, you just delivered there is enough to provide tremendous value. Because what I'm noticing is one when you said that you were not responding, anger to anger, which is the typical response, well, you're angry, I'll be even angrier.</p>
<p>Yes, I can be a bigger jerk than you no problem. That's the typical response. And then we wonder why he was so unproductive. And we both go away feeling frustrated and unsatisfied. But when you said that, and even though I mimicked anger before, I wasn't angry, but I could imagine if you were saying that to me, and I was angry, it's like, oh, you get me? You understand me?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>05:50</p>
<p>Exactly. That's exactly right. And here's what's happening. angry people need to be listened to, they're angry because they're not being heard at a deep emotional level. And when you can fulfil that need by validating their emotional experience, when I call listening another person into existence, anger goes away instantly.</p>
<p>And it happens every single time without failure. And I have had 12 years of field experience teaching murderers and maximum security prisons, how to become peacemakers and mediators to stop prison violence.</p>
<p>And I've taught over 20,000 inmates these skills, and every single one of them has had success with it in many cases. We started in 2010, my colleague Wolkoff and I started in 2010, in the largest, most violent women's prison in the world. Valley State Prison for Women and Chowchilla, California.</p>
<p>Two years into the program, we trained 800 women out of a population of 3600. We got an unsolicited letter from the warden saying the prisoner quieted down because of prisoner peace. It works.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Imagine the results when you can calm an angry person in 90 seconds - or less
Anger is a normal emotion and you can manage those angry people in your life
Episode 117 (Doug is based in California)
In this conversation with Doug Noll, we explore:
That angry is simply one part of our emotional personality
How to quickly sooth the angry soul
Anger is an indication of a boundary violation
What is emotional invalidation and how does it harm
Mistakes to avoid with facing angry people
Why anger is not necessarily bad
How to manage your own anger and recognize the triggers
Why ranting is not a helpful solution
About Doug Noll
Doug Noll is a lawyer-turned-peacemaker. In addition to his law degree, he has a Masters Degree in Peacemaking and Conflict Studies.  In 2000, he left a successful law practice as a civil trial lawyer to help people resolve conflicts without litigation or conflict.
Doug was born nearly blind, partially deaf, and with two clubbed feet. His disabilities were challenging to overcome….and he did
He’s a second-degree black belt and tai chi master, a certified ski instructor, an airplane and helicopter pilot, a white-water river rafter, and a jazz violinist.
Doug teaches people how to de-escalate angry people in 90 seconds or less. His fourth book, an Amazon bestseller, is called De-Escalate: How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less. Doug has online video courses and provides workshops and coaching to individuals and organizations desiring to increase their emotional competency.
As a listener of Your Intended Message you are entitled to receive a free book, How to Listen Others into Existence.
Take advantage of this offer here www.DougNoll.co/intended-message
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Doug Noll:
03:04
Well, it's very interesting. There are at least 12 Different kinds of anger. And we don't have time to go into all the different kinds of anger there are, but there are at least 12 Different kinds of anger.
And at its root, of course, Anger is an emotion. And there are many levels and intensities of anger.
So you can be frustrated, which is an anger, emotion, you can be annoyed, you can be enraged, you can be irritated, you can be you can have hatred, so many, many different levels.
The key to all of these emotions are that when we get triggered into an angry emotion, the emotional centres of our brain take over. And they shut down the thinking part of our brain.
And we've all had this experience when we've seen it, you get angry, you can't think what some really interesting brain scanning studies show is that when the listener labels the anger to the angry person, the speaker, the anchor goes away in about 90 seconds.
And all I would say is something like this, Hey, George, you are really pissed off, you're angry, you're frustrated, you feel completely disrespected and ignored. You don't feel appreciated.
You feel a little bit of anxiety and worry about all of this. And you're sad because you feel betrayed. And the whole thing is just really frustrating to you. If you were really angry by me saying those words in that way to you, your brain would literally calm itself down.
What's effectively happening is that because your prefrontal cortex is offline when you're angry, when I tell you what you're feeling, it allows your prefrontal cortex to grab a hold and figure things out and all of a sudden calm itself down. And it's how every human brain is hardwired. And it happens in less 90 seconds. It's how it works,
 
05:04
Doug, if if we did nothing else in this conversation today that that phrase that you just did, you just delivered there is enough to provide tremendous value. Because what I'm noticing is one when you said that you were not responding, anger to anger, which is the typical response, well, you're angry, I'll be even angrier.
Yes, I can be a bigger jerk than you no problem. That's the typical response. And then we wonder why he was so unproductive. And we both go away feeli]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Positive Self Talk leads to Positive Habits 
Your action speaks louder than your words
<p>Episode 116 (Kevin is based in New Hampshire)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Kevin Palmieri, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The power of both positive and negative habits</li>
<li>Recognize the value and purpose of pain</li>
<li>Leading your team by enhancing their value</li>
<li>The importance of seeking the next level of development</li>
<li>When mistakes can be valuable</li>
<li>Why it's powerful to do something for the first time</li>
<li>How you can escape self-imposed traps & limits</li>
</ul>
<p>About Kevin Palmieri</p>
<p>Kevin is the CFO, Founder & Co-Host of Next Level University, a Global Top 100 Self-Improvement podcast with more than 1000 episodes reaching over 600 thousand people in more than 125 countries.</p>
<p>After overcoming depression and suicidal ideation, Kevin became passionate about self-improvement and entrepreneurship. Through his podcasting and speaking, he made it his life's purpose to make a positive impact on as many people as possible.</p>
<p>Kevin believes in a heart-driven, no BS approach to holistic self-improvement while teaching people to get to the next level of their lives.</p>
<p> </p>
Are you ready to explore the next level of your life? Then take this course to challenge your thinking and actions. (This course is free.)
<p><a href='https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/next-level-5-to-thrive-registration/'>https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/next-level-5-to-thrive-registration/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Kevin Palmieri:</p>
<p>03:10</p>
<p>So next level suggests that we are a continuous work in progress.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:18</p>
<p>Yes, yeah. 100%. When you build a house, you don't just build a house and then leave it.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>You have to clean the house, you have to maintain the house, you have to keep up with the times, maybe you have to change your wiring, when the electrical codes change, there's always something going on.</p>
<p>So by definition, Nothing ever stays the same. If something is quote, unquote, in maintenance mode, it's probably getting worse. And I'm not saying that as a human intrinsically, you're getting worse.</p>
<p>But if you're not creating new skills, if you're not becoming a better communicator, if you're not honing your leadership skills, you're probably losing ground and you're losing momentum, and you're not going to get the opportunities and the impact that you want out of life. It's a never ending game.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>05:07</p>
<p>And Kevin, I, I think I heard a powerful insight there, you mentioned about when you improve, when you get better, you feel better, you feel good about yourself. And it perhaps to me that, that feeling good about yourself is those little accomplishments that you you make every day, every week, every year,</p>
<p> </p>
<p>05:30</p>
<p>I grew up with very low self worth, George. And I always wondered why.</p>
<p>And I think a lot of the reason behind that was I wasn't willing to try new things. And I wasn't willing to prove to myself that I actually was more capable than I gave myself credit for.</p>
<p>And by doing that, I actually kept lowering my worth, lowering my worth, lowering my worth.</p>
<p>So when you do things that maybe you didn't believe, were possible, when you learn something that helps you understand yourself at a deeper level, I think you can start to value yourself internally at the appropriate level. And I think it takes self awareness, which is going to take learning, ultimately, yeah.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>06:09</p>
<p>Hmm. And you, you said you lowered yourself, your self worth your self esteem.</p>
<p>And it sounds like at one point, you lowered it so much that you even thought, well, what's the point of living anymore? I'm not worth anything.</p>
<p>How did you escape from that? That prison?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>06:31</p>
<p>I think that for me, I had found quote, unquote, success. So I was a six figure earner at 26. And I remember when I opened my final pay stub, I said,</p>
<p>Why aren't I happier than I am, this is exactly what I wanted. I have everything I could ever want, what's going on here?</p>
<p>So I think I got all this awareness at once about what true happiness quote unquote, and success was.</p>
<p>Now, luckily, I had a very supportive group of people around me. </p>
<p>So the day that I felt the worst, the day that I was having these suicidal thoughts, I texted somebody close to me. And I said, Hey, I'm having these thoughts. I'm having these feelings, I'm having these emotions. I don't know what's going on. I don't know what to do. </p>
<p>And I think two things happened. One, I was in enough pain to reach out to somebody to the person I reached out to gave me permission to make a different choice that day.</p>
<p>He said, Well, so much has changed for you, but your environment.</p>
<p>So they're saying, Of course you don't feel valued, you're hanging out in places where you're not valued.</p>
<p>And if you were hanging out where you should be hanging out, you would be valued, and you'd feel more valuable, and your self worth would be higher.</p>
<p>But if I reached out to somebody, George, and I said, Hey, I'm feeling a certain way, I don't know what to do. And they said, Well, Kevin, nobody likes their job. Everybody hates their job that's par for the course, then what are the odds, I would have felt safe enough, courageous enough and supported enough to actually leave?</p>
<p>So in a weird way, Alan is the person I reached out to, his intended message was you should really do what's going to make you the most happy and fulfilled.</p>
<p>And he gave me the permission to do that, which I know a lot of people wouldn't necessarily have in that situation.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Positive Self Talk leads to Positive Habits 
Your action speaks louder than your words
<p>Episode 116 (Kevin is based in New Hampshire)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Kevin Palmieri, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The power of both positive and negative habits</li>
<li>Recognize the value and purpose of pain</li>
<li>Leading your team by enhancing their value</li>
<li>The importance of seeking the next level of development</li>
<li>When mistakes can be valuable</li>
<li>Why it's powerful to do something for the first time</li>
<li>How you can escape self-imposed traps & limits</li>
</ul>
<p>About Kevin Palmieri</p>
<p>Kevin is the CFO, Founder & Co-Host of Next Level University, a Global Top 100 Self-Improvement podcast with more than 1000 episodes reaching over 600 thousand people in more than 125 countries.</p>
<p>After overcoming depression and suicidal ideation, Kevin became passionate about self-improvement and entrepreneurship. Through his podcasting and speaking, he made it his life's purpose to make a positive impact on as many people as possible.</p>
<p>Kevin believes in a heart-driven, no BS approach to holistic self-improvement while teaching people to get to the next level of their lives.</p>
<p> </p>
Are you ready to explore the next level of your life? Then take this course to challenge your thinking and actions. (This course is free.)
<p><a href='https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/next-level-5-to-thrive-registration/'>https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/next-level-5-to-thrive-registration/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Kevin Palmieri:</p>
<p>03:10</p>
<p>So next level suggests that we are a continuous work in progress.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:18</p>
<p>Yes, yeah. 100%. When you build a house, you don't just build a house and then leave it.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>You have to clean the house, you have to maintain the house, you have to keep up with the times, maybe you have to change your wiring, when the electrical codes change, there's always something going on.</p>
<p>So by definition, Nothing ever stays the same. If something is quote, unquote, in maintenance mode, it's probably getting worse. And I'm not saying that as a human intrinsically, you're getting worse.</p>
<p>But if you're not creating new skills, if you're not becoming a better communicator, if you're not honing your leadership skills, you're probably losing ground and you're losing momentum, and you're not going to get the opportunities and the impact that you want out of life. It's a never ending game.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>05:07</p>
<p>And Kevin, I, I think I heard a powerful insight there, you mentioned about when you improve, when you get better, you feel better, you feel good about yourself. And it perhaps to me that, that feeling good about yourself is those little accomplishments that you you make every day, every week, every year,</p>
<p> </p>
<p>05:30</p>
<p>I grew up with very low self worth, George. And I always wondered why.</p>
<p>And I think a lot of the reason behind that was I wasn't willing to try new things. And I wasn't willing to prove to myself that I actually was more capable than I gave myself credit for.</p>
<p>And by doing that, I actually kept lowering my worth, lowering my worth, lowering my worth.</p>
<p>So when you do things that maybe you didn't believe, were possible, when you learn something that helps you understand yourself at a deeper level, I think you can start to value yourself internally at the appropriate level. And I think it takes self awareness, which is going to take learning, ultimately, yeah.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>06:09</p>
<p>Hmm. And you, you said you lowered yourself, your self worth your self esteem.</p>
<p>And it sounds like at one point, you lowered it so much that you even thought, well, what's the point of living anymore? I'm not worth anything.</p>
<p>How did you escape from that? That prison?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>06:31</p>
<p>I think that for me, I had found quote, unquote, success. So I was a six figure earner at 26. And I remember when I opened my final pay stub, I said,</p>
<p>Why aren't I happier than I am, this is exactly what I wanted. I have everything I could ever want, what's going on here?</p>
<p>So I think I got all this awareness at once about what true happiness quote unquote, and success was.</p>
<p>Now, luckily, I had a very supportive group of people around me. </p>
<p>So the day that I felt the worst, the day that I was having these suicidal thoughts, I texted somebody close to me. And I said, Hey, I'm having these thoughts. I'm having these feelings, I'm having these emotions. I don't know what's going on. I don't know what to do. </p>
<p>And I think two things happened. One, I was in enough pain to reach out to somebody to the person I reached out to gave me permission to make a different choice that day.</p>
<p>He said, Well, so much has changed for you, but your environment.</p>
<p>So they're saying, Of course you don't feel valued, you're hanging out in places where you're not valued.</p>
<p>And if you were hanging out where you should be hanging out, you would be valued, and you'd feel more valuable, and your self worth would be higher.</p>
<p>But if I reached out to somebody, George, and I said, Hey, I'm feeling a certain way, I don't know what to do. And they said, Well, Kevin, nobody likes their job. Everybody hates their job that's par for the course, then what are the odds, I would have felt safe enough, courageous enough and supported enough to actually leave?</p>
<p>So in a weird way, Alan is the person I reached out to, his intended message was you should really do what's going to make you the most happy and fulfilled.</p>
<p>And he gave me the permission to do that, which I know a lot of people wouldn't necessarily have in that situation.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Positive Self Talk leads to Positive Habits 
Your action speaks louder than your words
Episode 116 (Kevin is based in New Hampshire)
In this conversation with Kevin Palmieri, we explore:
The power of both positive and negative habits
Recognize the value and purpose of pain
Leading your team by enhancing their value
The importance of seeking the next level of development
When mistakes can be valuable
Why it's powerful to do something for the first time
How you can escape self-imposed traps & limits
About Kevin Palmieri
Kevin is the CFO, Founder & Co-Host of Next Level University, a Global Top 100 Self-Improvement podcast with more than 1000 episodes reaching over 600 thousand people in more than 125 countries.
After overcoming depression and suicidal ideation, Kevin became passionate about self-improvement and entrepreneurship. Through his podcasting and speaking, he made it his life's purpose to make a positive impact on as many people as possible.
Kevin believes in a heart-driven, no BS approach to holistic self-improvement while teaching people to get to the next level of their lives.
 
Are you ready to explore the next level of your life? Then take this course to challenge your thinking and actions. (This course is free.)
https://www.nextleveluniverse.com/next-level-5-to-thrive-registration/
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Excerpts from this conversation with Kevin Palmieri:
03:10
So next level suggests that we are a continuous work in progress.
 
03:18
Yes, yeah. 100%. When you build a house, you don't just build a house and then leave it.
 
You have to clean the house, you have to maintain the house, you have to keep up with the times, maybe you have to change your wiring, when the electrical codes change, there's always something going on.
So by definition, Nothing ever stays the same. If something is quote, unquote, in maintenance mode, it's probably getting worse. And I'm not saying that as a human intrinsically, you're getting worse.
But if you're not creating new skills, if you're not becoming a better communicator, if you're not honing your leadership skills, you're probably losing ground and you're losing momentum, and you're not going to get the opportunities and the impact that you want out of life. It's a never ending game.
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05:07
And Kevin, I, I think I heard a powerful insight there, you mentioned about when you improve, when you get better, you feel better, you feel good about yourself. And it perhaps to me that, that feeling good about yourself is those little accomplishments that you you make every day, every week, every year,
 
05:30
I grew up with very low self worth, George. And I always wondered why.
And I think a lot of the reason behind that was I wasn't willing to try new things. And I wasn't willing to prove to myself that I actually was more capable than I gave myself credit for.
And by doing that, I actually kept lowering my worth, lowering my worth, lowering my worth.
So when you do things that maybe you didn't believe, were possible, when you learn something that helps you understand yourself at a deeper level, I think you can start to value yourself internally at the appropriate level. And I think it takes self awareness, which is going to take learning, ultimately, yeah.
 
06:09
Hmm. And you, you said you lowered yourself, your self worth your self esteem.
And it sounds like at one point, you lowered it so much that you even thought, well, what's the point of living anymore? I'm not worth anything.
How did you escape from that? That prison?
 
06:31
I think that for me, I had found quote, unquote, success. So I was a six figure earner at 26. And I remember when I opened my final pay stub, I said,
Why aren't I happier than I am, this is exactly what I wanted. I have everything I could ever want, what's going on here?
So I think I got all this awareness at once about what true happiness quote unquote, and success was.
Now, luckily, I had a very supportive group of people around me. 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to boost your cross culture communication results
Your culture is simply your perspective of the world
<p>Episode 115 (Katja is based in Den Hagg, Netherlands)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Katja Schleicher, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What are the challenges of cross culture communication?</li>
<li>How to establish a positive relationship</li>
<li>How to recognize the traps that might blind you to your bias</li>
<li>Why you need to be a tourist more often</li>
<li>How food can bridge the cultural divide</li>
<li>How to build your multicultural team</li>
<li>When you should not use Oregano</li>
</ul>
<p>About Katja Schleicher</p>
<p>KATJA SCHLEICHER knew already at an early stage that talking is gold and silence the beginning of all troubles…</p>
<p>Known for her provocative style and her sense of humor on stage she looks deeper in our communication troubles – and is not afraid to talk about them.</p>
<p>After her studies (German & English language & Literature. Linguistics & psychology) she pursued an international career in PR, Advertising and Corporate Communications for Media & HiTech Companies.</p>
<p>For more than a decade she now passionately enables effective & empathic communication with all the clients she works with. From big banking, conservative pharma to ambitious startups. From 1:1 dialogues to the big stages.</p>
<p>With three languages, two passports and an European heart, Katja travels across borders constantly to bring people and ideas closer through communication. She speaks at conferences about communicative misunderstandings and how to initiate change through communication.</p>
<p>Learn more about Katja and her programs at the website</p>
<p><a href='https://www.katjaschleicher.com/'>katajashleicher.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.katjaschleicher.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Katja Schleicher:</p>
<p>02:27</p>
<p>You know, you correctly said that I really love to be around people that come from different backgrounds and mindsets, because and that brings me to intercultural communication in a straight line.</p>
<p>This is where it's getting interesting. Where everything is the same or a similar a over time, it's getting less interesting. We are getting sloppy. We think, oh, yeah, he or she, they will understand me anyway, even if I do not pronounce clearly, even if I'm, you know, I'm in sloppiness, right?</p>
<p>And that was one of the reasons why I liked the title of your podcast,  Your Intended Message so much, often the intention doesn't get through, it simply gets lost in translation.</p>
<p>And you see that not just in business, you see that in relationships. A lot. That after a certain time, it's like Yeah, yeah, you know, oh, yeah, George. Yeah, yeah, yeah, of course. I love George. Yeah. Huh. And the intention behind it kind of gets lost.</p>
<p>So in intercultural context, this is one of the biggest challenges and that is one of the most beautiful things that you it's never getting boring, because there's always an impulse.</p>
<p>There's always a notch there was always something that happens, right and the end, especially in intercultural contexts, we try we as human beings, it's in us, we try in particular to get our intended message across and we take effort we, we check back.</p>
<p>If you ever had a relationship with someone from a different cultural or language background, you know that you make double and triple Sure, okay. Did sweetheart get what I meant? Or did he just hear my words and that to me is the way we should face all the challenges in intercultural communication.</p>
<p>So, accept there is someone from a different intercultural background and again, intercultural gene does not mean just countries, it could be in the same company that you speak to someone from the purchasing department and if you're from the marketing department, I can assure you there are quite some cultural differences and communication, right?</p>
So, the more foreign the more strange, the better, because that keeps us sharp, it keeps us alert.
<p>Of course, this is tiresome. Yes, it is much more easy if you have somebody mumbling and you know what you mean? Yep. But on the other hand, it gets boring, so fast. So, this is so the challenge to bring it back to this one send the challenge is in intercultural communication.</p>
<p>That is, it really requires everything from you. But it rewards you with everything is now you will learn so many new things in my perspective.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>21:39</p>
<p>How do you feel about a leader in the workforce? Learning more about the other people's culture, language or beliefs? How can they do that without appearing to intrude?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>22:01</p>
<p>Now there is this wonderful balance between interrogation or intruding and curiosity.</p>
<p>And what I invite my clients to do very often is to treat their teams as a destination and behave themselves as the best tourist they could be.</p>
<p>Because when we go somewhere, we are curious, right? We are usually more wired for question. When we started, you just asked me in German, "Wo ist der Bahnhof?" </p>
<p>Where is the station? Right? So as a tourist we are wired for questions, because we know that maybe our message or intended message is not getting through. So asking a question is very helpful here.</p>
<p>And if you're if you're in leadership position, and you have a team to lead, I recommend that highly be a tourist in your own team. Be curious, not intruding and interrogating.</p>
<p>But be curious. Like you see, you go on a sightseeing tour every day.</p>
<p>Oh, George, I've never I've never seen someone doing this or that in my entire life. How did that evolve? Right? It's like, if I will be your boss, George, I'd be on go on George sightseeing.</p>
<p>So I think that this is because then people get a chance to respond. Right? You could tell me no oh, you know, that evolved like this or that. And this is the reasons why I'm very picky with my words.</p>
<p>And all these all the things we already we already talked about. And that is when you when you build as if when you're when you're leading a team, or you build a reservoir that you can use when you when you have a tough time with your team.</p>
<p>So be curious.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to boost your cross culture communication results
Your culture is simply your perspective of the world
<p>Episode 115 (Katja is based in Den Hagg, Netherlands)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Katja Schleicher, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What are the challenges of cross culture communication?</li>
<li>How to establish a positive relationship</li>
<li>How to recognize the traps that might blind you to your bias</li>
<li>Why you need to be a tourist more often</li>
<li>How food can bridge the cultural divide</li>
<li>How to build your multicultural team</li>
<li>When you should not use Oregano</li>
</ul>
<p>About Katja Schleicher</p>
<p>KATJA SCHLEICHER knew already at an early stage that talking is gold and silence the beginning of all troubles…</p>
<p>Known for her provocative style and her sense of humor on stage she looks deeper in our communication troubles – and is not afraid to talk about them.</p>
<p>After her studies (German & English language & Literature. Linguistics & psychology) she pursued an international career in PR, Advertising and Corporate Communications for Media & HiTech Companies.</p>
<p>For more than a decade she now passionately enables effective & empathic communication with all the clients she works with. From big banking, conservative pharma to ambitious startups. From 1:1 dialogues to the big stages.</p>
<p>With three languages, two passports and an European heart, Katja travels across borders constantly to bring people and ideas closer through communication. She speaks at conferences about communicative misunderstandings and how to initiate change through communication.</p>
<p>Learn more about Katja and her programs at the website</p>
<p><a href='https://www.katjaschleicher.com/'>katajashleicher.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.katjaschleicher.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Katja Schleicher:</p>
<p>02:27</p>
<p>You know, you correctly said that I really love to be around people that come from different backgrounds and mindsets, because and that brings me to intercultural communication in a straight line.</p>
<p>This is where it's getting interesting. Where everything is the same or a similar a over time, it's getting less interesting. We are getting sloppy. We think, oh, yeah, he or she, they will understand me anyway, even if I do not pronounce clearly, even if I'm, you know, I'm in sloppiness, right?</p>
<p>And that was one of the reasons why I liked the title of your podcast,  Your Intended Message so much, often the intention doesn't get through, it simply gets lost in translation.</p>
<p>And you see that not just in business, you see that in relationships. A lot. That after a certain time, it's like Yeah, yeah, you know, oh, yeah, George. Yeah, yeah, yeah, of course. I love George. Yeah. Huh. And the intention behind it kind of gets lost.</p>
<p>So in intercultural context, this is one of the biggest challenges and that is one of the most beautiful things that you it's never getting boring, because there's always an impulse.</p>
<p>There's always a notch there was always something that happens, right and the end, especially in intercultural contexts, we try we as human beings, it's in us, we try in particular to get our intended message across and we take effort we, we check back.</p>
<p>If you ever had a relationship with someone from a different cultural or language background, you know that you make double and triple Sure, okay. Did sweetheart get what I meant? Or did he just hear my words and that to me is the way we should face all the challenges in intercultural communication.</p>
<p>So, accept there is someone from a different intercultural background and again, intercultural gene does not mean just countries, it could be in the same company that you speak to someone from the purchasing department and if you're from the marketing department, I can assure you there are quite some cultural differences and communication, right?</p>
So, the more foreign the more strange, the better, because that keeps us sharp, it keeps us alert.
<p>Of course, this is tiresome. Yes, it is much more easy if you have somebody mumbling and you know what you mean? Yep. But on the other hand, it gets boring, so fast. So, this is so the challenge to bring it back to this one send the challenge is in intercultural communication.</p>
<p>That is, it really requires everything from you. But it rewards you with everything is now you will learn so many new things in my perspective.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>21:39</p>
<p>How do you feel about a leader in the workforce? Learning more about the other people's culture, language or beliefs? How can they do that without appearing to intrude?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>22:01</p>
<p>Now there is this wonderful balance between interrogation or intruding and curiosity.</p>
<p>And what I invite my clients to do very often is to treat their teams as a destination and behave themselves as the best tourist they could be.</p>
<p>Because when we go somewhere, we are curious, right? We are usually more wired for question. When we started, you just asked me in German, "Wo ist der Bahnhof?" </p>
<p>Where is the station? Right? So as a tourist we are wired for questions, because we know that maybe our message or intended message is not getting through. So asking a question is very helpful here.</p>
<p>And if you're if you're in leadership position, and you have a team to lead, I recommend that highly be a tourist in your own team. Be curious, not intruding and interrogating.</p>
<p>But be curious. Like you see, you go on a sightseeing tour every day.</p>
<p>Oh, George, I've never I've never seen someone doing this or that in my entire life. How did that evolve? Right? It's like, if I will be your boss, George, I'd be on go on George sightseeing.</p>
<p>So I think that this is because then people get a chance to respond. Right? You could tell me no oh, you know, that evolved like this or that. And this is the reasons why I'm very picky with my words.</p>
<p>And all these all the things we already we already talked about. And that is when you when you build as if when you're when you're leading a team, or you build a reservoir that you can use when you when you have a tough time with your team.</p>
<p>So be curious.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to boost your cross culture communication results
Your culture is simply your perspective of the world
Episode 115 (Katja is based in Den Hagg, Netherlands)
In this conversation with Katja Schleicher, we explore:
What are the challenges of cross culture communication?
How to establish a positive relationship
How to recognize the traps that might blind you to your bias
Why you need to be a tourist more often
How food can bridge the cultural divide
How to build your multicultural team
When you should not use Oregano
About Katja Schleicher
KATJA SCHLEICHER knew already at an early stage that talking is gold and silence the beginning of all troubles…
Known for her provocative style and her sense of humor on stage she looks deeper in our communication troubles – and is not afraid to talk about them.
After her studies (German & English language & Literature. Linguistics & psychology) she pursued an international career in PR, Advertising and Corporate Communications for Media & HiTech Companies.
For more than a decade she now passionately enables effective & empathic communication with all the clients she works with. From big banking, conservative pharma to ambitious startups. From 1:1 dialogues to the big stages.
With three languages, two passports and an European heart, Katja travels across borders constantly to bring people and ideas closer through communication. She speaks at conferences about communicative misunderstandings and how to initiate change through communication.
Learn more about Katja and her programs at the website
katajashleicher.com

-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Katja Schleicher:
02:27
You know, you correctly said that I really love to be around people that come from different backgrounds and mindsets, because and that brings me to intercultural communication in a straight line.
This is where it's getting interesting. Where everything is the same or a similar a over time, it's getting less interesting. We are getting sloppy. We think, oh, yeah, he or she, they will understand me anyway, even if I do not pronounce clearly, even if I'm, you know, I'm in sloppiness, right?
And that was one of the reasons why I liked the title of your podcast,  Your Intended Message so much, often the intention doesn't get through, it simply gets lost in translation.
And you see that not just in business, you see that in relationships. A lot. That after a certain time, it's like Yeah, yeah, you know, oh, yeah, George. Yeah, yeah, yeah, of course. I love George. Yeah. Huh. And the intention behind it kind of gets lost.
So in intercultural context, this is one of the biggest challenges and that is one of the most beautiful things that you it's never getting boring, because there's always an impulse.
There's always a notch there was always something that happens, right and the end, especially in intercultural contexts, we try we as human beings, it's in us, we try in particular to get our intended message across and we take effort we, we check back.
If you ever had a relationship with someone from a different cultural or language background, you know that you make double and triple Sure, okay. Did sweetheart get what I meant? Or did he just hear my words and that to me is the way we should face all the challenges in intercultural communication.
So, accept there is someone from a different intercultural background and again, intercultural gene does not mean just countries, it could be in the same company that you speak to someone from the purchasing department and if you're from the marketing department, I can assure you there are quite some cultural differences and communication, right?
So, the more foreign the more strange, the better, because that keeps us sharp, it keeps us alert.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to communicate during a crisis
Crisis management and communication 
<p>Episode 114 (Edward is based in Washington, DC)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Edward Segal, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to be better prepared for your next crisis (hope isn't a plan)</li>
<li>Silly phrases to avoid and what you should and can say</li>
<li>Why it's never "off the record"</li>
<li>What to include in your crisis management plan</li>
<li>What to say when you still don't know what caused the problem</li>
<li>How to deliver a clear message that is understood and believed</li>
<li>How to prepare for the media, especially when facing serious accusations</li>
</ul>
<p>About Edward Segal:</p>
<p>Bestselling author of the award-winning book, Crisis Ahead: 101 Ways to Prepare for and Bounce Back from Disasters, Scandals and Other Emergencies, published in 2020 by Nicholas Brealey</p>
<p>A leadership Strategy Senior Contributor for Forbes.com where he covers crisis-related news, topics and issues</p>
<p>Host of the weekly podcast, the Crisis Management Minute</p>
<p>Learn more about the book and working with Edward Segal here</p>
<p><a href='https://publicrelations.com/'>https://publicrelations.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://publicrelations.com/'></a></p>
You can get a copy of the ebook at 50% off.
Click this link and use the code CRISIS
<a href='https://nblibrary.papertrell.com/redeem'>https://nblibrary.papertrell.com/redeem</a>
Get a free copy of the crisis management template by requesting it from Edward at this email address EdwardSegalCommunication@gmail.com
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Edward Segal:</p>
<p>02:09</p>
<p>Well, mistake number one is that they often do not have a crisis management plan. And a crisis management plan can act as a roadmap guidebook to how to respond, manage and recover from a crisis.</p>
<p>But even if a company has a plan in place, the chances are pretty good that they have not looked at it, reviewed it or updated it in quite some time.</p>
<p>And even worse, they haven't even practiced the plan against various scenarios to make sure it will work when needed.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>06:18</p>
<p>And that template sounds like a handy tool because I can imagine a lot of people just thinking about a crisis plan, get overwhelmed, and don't know where to start or are reluctant to start. In one of the challenges must be which crisis do we pay? Do we prepare for it? Because there are so many?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>06:38</p>
<p>Well, that's the purpose of the plan. A plan and crisis management plan helps you to prepare for every possible crisis, every possible contingency.</p>
<p>There are some things you can plan for and say, well, we might have a problem such as bad weather, whether it's flooding, snow, hurricanes, tornadoes, depending upon where in the country you live.</p>
<p>You should take steps immediately to prepare for those Mother Nature related crises.</p>
<p>Other crisis situations, such as allegations of sexual harassment, fraud, counterfeit, all those kinds of things, especially accounting, or book or bookkeeping related issues, there are ways to take steps to mitigate if not totally prevent those kinds of crisis.</p>
<p>I've identified more than 100 Different crisis triggers. And it's kind of like it's an extension of Murphy's Law. If anything can go wrong, it will. </p>
<p>Well, my law is if you it's not a matter of if you're going to have a crisis, it's when how bad it's going to be, how are you going to handle it, and how you're going to recover from it.</p>
<p>And that's what the book and the crisis management plan template is designed to help people address those issues.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to communicate during a crisis
Crisis management and communication 
<p>Episode 114 (Edward is based in Washington, DC)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Edward Segal, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to be better prepared for your next crisis (hope isn't a plan)</li>
<li>Silly phrases to avoid and what you should and can say</li>
<li>Why it's never "off the record"</li>
<li>What to include in your crisis management plan</li>
<li>What to say when you still don't know what caused the problem</li>
<li>How to deliver a clear message that is understood and believed</li>
<li>How to prepare for the media, especially when facing serious accusations</li>
</ul>
<p>About Edward Segal:</p>
<p>Bestselling author of the award-winning book, Crisis Ahead: 101 Ways to Prepare for and Bounce Back from Disasters, Scandals and Other Emergencies, published in 2020 by Nicholas Brealey</p>
<p>A leadership Strategy Senior Contributor for Forbes.com where he covers crisis-related news, topics and issues</p>
<p>Host of the weekly podcast, the Crisis Management Minute</p>
<p>Learn more about the book and working with Edward Segal here</p>
<p><a href='https://publicrelations.com/'>https://publicrelations.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://publicrelations.com/'></a></p>
You can get a copy of the ebook at 50% off.
Click this link and use the code CRISIS
<a href='https://nblibrary.papertrell.com/redeem'>https://nblibrary.papertrell.com/redeem</a>
Get a free copy of the crisis management template by requesting it from Edward at this email address EdwardSegalCommunication@gmail.com
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Edward Segal:</p>
<p>02:09</p>
<p>Well, mistake number one is that they often do not have a crisis management plan. And a crisis management plan can act as a roadmap guidebook to how to respond, manage and recover from a crisis.</p>
<p>But even if a company has a plan in place, the chances are pretty good that they have not looked at it, reviewed it or updated it in quite some time.</p>
<p>And even worse, they haven't even practiced the plan against various scenarios to make sure it will work when needed.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>06:18</p>
<p>And that template sounds like a handy tool because I can imagine a lot of people just thinking about a crisis plan, get overwhelmed, and don't know where to start or are reluctant to start. In one of the challenges must be which crisis do we pay? Do we prepare for it? Because there are so many?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>06:38</p>
<p>Well, that's the purpose of the plan. A plan and crisis management plan helps you to prepare for every possible crisis, every possible contingency.</p>
<p>There are some things you can plan for and say, well, we might have a problem such as bad weather, whether it's flooding, snow, hurricanes, tornadoes, depending upon where in the country you live.</p>
<p>You should take steps immediately to prepare for those Mother Nature related crises.</p>
<p>Other crisis situations, such as allegations of sexual harassment, fraud, counterfeit, all those kinds of things, especially accounting, or book or bookkeeping related issues, there are ways to take steps to mitigate if not totally prevent those kinds of crisis.</p>
<p>I've identified more than 100 Different crisis triggers. And it's kind of like it's an extension of Murphy's Law. If anything can go wrong, it will. </p>
<p>Well, my law is if you it's not a matter of if you're going to have a crisis, it's when how bad it's going to be, how are you going to handle it, and how you're going to recover from it.</p>
<p>And that's what the book and the crisis management plan template is designed to help people address those issues.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to communicate during a crisis
Crisis management and communication 
Episode 114 (Edward is based in Washington, DC)
In this conversation with Edward Segal, we explore:
How to be better prepared for your next crisis (hope isn't a plan)
Silly phrases to avoid and what you should and can say
Why it's never "off the record"
What to include in your crisis management plan
What to say when you still don't know what caused the problem
How to deliver a clear message that is understood and believed
How to prepare for the media, especially when facing serious accusations
About Edward Segal:
Bestselling author of the award-winning book, Crisis Ahead: 101 Ways to Prepare for and Bounce Back from Disasters, Scandals and Other Emergencies, published in 2020 by Nicholas Brealey
A leadership Strategy Senior Contributor for Forbes.com where he covers crisis-related news, topics and issues
Host of the weekly podcast, the Crisis Management Minute
Learn more about the book and working with Edward Segal here
https://publicrelations.com/
 

You can get a copy of the ebook at 50% off.
Click this link and use the code CRISIS
https://nblibrary.papertrell.com/redeem
Get a free copy of the crisis management template by requesting it from Edward at this email address EdwardSegalCommunication@gmail.com
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Edward Segal:
02:09
Well, mistake number one is that they often do not have a crisis management plan. And a crisis management plan can act as a roadmap guidebook to how to respond, manage and recover from a crisis.
But even if a company has a plan in place, the chances are pretty good that they have not looked at it, reviewed it or updated it in quite some time.
And even worse, they haven't even practiced the plan against various scenarios to make sure it will work when needed.
-----
06:18
And that template sounds like a handy tool because I can imagine a lot of people just thinking about a crisis plan, get overwhelmed, and don't know where to start or are reluctant to start. In one of the challenges must be which crisis do we pay? Do we prepare for it? Because there are so many?
 
06:38
Well, that's the purpose of the plan. A plan and crisis management plan helps you to prepare for every possible crisis, every possible contingency.
There are some things you can plan for and say, well, we might have a problem such as bad weather, whether it's flooding, snow, hurricanes, tornadoes, depending upon where in the country you live.
You should take steps immediately to prepare for those Mother Nature related crises.
Other crisis situations, such as allegations of sexual harassment, fraud, counterfeit, all those kinds of things, especially accounting, or book or bookkeeping related issues, there are ways to take steps to mitigate if not totally prevent those kinds of crisis.
I've identified more than 100 Different crisis triggers. And it's kind of like it's an extension of Murphy's Law. If anything can go wrong, it will. 
Well, my law is if you it's not a matter of if you're going to have a crisis, it's when how bad it's going to be, how are you going to handle it, and how you're going to recover from it.
And that's what the book and the crisis management plan template is designed to help people address those issues.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers train]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[The Marketing crisis for small business and startups
Beware of the trap of choosing efficiency over effectiveness
<p>Episode 113 (Gee is based in Strasbourg, France)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Gee Ranasinha, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why marketing is broken and the resulting marketing crisis </li>
<li>Appreciating the value of differentiation and danger of not</li>
<li>How to recognize "the people who call themselves marketers"</li>
<li>Why it starts and ends with how people feel</li>
<li>Why you want to consider the amygdala in your marketing plans</li>
<li>The real purpose of branding when connecting with your decisions</li>
</ul>
<p>About Gee Ranasinha:</p>
<p>Founder and CEO of  KEXINO, an award-winning start-up and small business marketing agency.</p>
<p>Gee's background is in B2B marketing, small business marketing, branding, differentiation, and customer behavior. </p>
<p>Gee's been in marketing since the days of dial-up modems. For seven years Gee was Worldwide Director of Marketing for a software company, working with clients such as IKEA, Marvel, Nestlé, Airbus, and Time Magazine. For the past 14 years he has been CEO of KEXINO, an award-winning marketing agency specializing in helping startups and small businesses around the world deploy next-generation marketing within - and across - their organizations.</p>
<p>A Fellow of the Chartered Institute Of Marketing, Gee is also Visiting Professor at European business school IEF, teaching final-year MBA students on Marketing and Behavioral Economics.</p>
<p>Connect with Gee and learn more at <a href='https://kexino.com/'>Kexino.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://kexino.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Gee Ranasinha:</p>
<p>01:59</p>
<p>It's quite simple, really, it goes to my history, way back when, for seven years, I was worldwide director of marketing for a software company, fairly large software company in Europe serving blue chip clients such as timing can IKEA, Nestle, Airbus Marvel people like that.</p>
<p>And whenever I was invited, to have marketing agencies come in to pitch for our business, I was always amazed at how little notice they took towards any fiduciary responsibility for the marketing plans that they proposed. </p>
<p>And at the same time, this is back in 2007 or so the thing called the internet was beginning to affect our daily lives. I don't know George, maybe you've heard of it, this thing called the internet.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:51</p>
<p>It was, it was the big brands who were the ones taking advantage of the potential of the internet because they had greater technical experience. And obviously, deeper pockets.</p>
<p>And small businesses and startups are getting left behind. And so I figured that there was an opportunity for a marketing agency resource, specifically aimed at helping small businesses and startups that could help them leverage the power of online engagement and the evolution of customer buying processes.</p>
<p>And so that's why in January 2008, I resigned my comfortable corporate position, with all its trappings and international travel and company cars and expense accounts, and all that sort of stuff. And we launched our marketing agency.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>12:51</p>
<p>So firstly, I think marketing is in crisis, because it is ideologically disliked, in the higher tiers of business. Okay. And secondly, I mean, I'll expand upon this in a minute. Secondly, I think marketing is in crisis, because much of the work conducted by people who call themselves marketers, notice I didn't call the marketers I said people who call themselves marketers is only a tiny bit of what marketing is actually about.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>13:26</p>
And what the people who call themselves marketers are actually doing is communications is promotion.
<p> </p>
<p>13:38</p>
<p>Which if we go back to the four P's of marketing is you know, only 25% of what marketing is.</p>
<p>And so, as a result of just focusing on comms and communications and messaging, marketing has been relegated to a sales support function. Right. And within so many organizations, the marketing function is seen as, producing brochures, updating the website, getting some tote bags made, getting some stress balls printed, and at the other end, marketing is being used as an automation tool to automate lead generation and advertising.</p>
<p>But it's delivering substandard and increasingly ineffectual results. So what do I mean that CEOs have a dislike to marketing?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>14:36</p>
<p>I think they have an inherent distrust in marketing because it goes against the way they think, CEOs and CFOs, accountants, numbers-people, that they look at other areas of the business. And those areas are very pragmatic and they're very, they're based on rationality. They're based on sequential thought.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Businesses are looking to create a, a data driven repeatable process, but one that's devoid of creativity, salience, or resonance, and then they wonder why their marketing doesn't work.
<p>-----</p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
It needs to have in in my opinion, it needs to have somebody who understands a customer. There are far too many conversations that I have with business owners with people who call themselves marketers who haven't spoken to a customer in the past six weeks. Now to me that tantamount to a dereliction of duty,
<p>-----</p>
<p>The book he mentioned, Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman.</p>
<p></p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[The Marketing crisis for small business and startups
Beware of the trap of choosing efficiency over effectiveness
<p>Episode 113 (Gee is based in Strasbourg, France)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Gee Ranasinha, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why marketing is broken and the resulting marketing crisis </li>
<li>Appreciating the value of differentiation and danger of not</li>
<li>How to recognize "the people who call themselves marketers"</li>
<li>Why it starts and ends with how people feel</li>
<li>Why you want to consider the amygdala in your marketing plans</li>
<li>The real purpose of branding when connecting with your decisions</li>
</ul>
<p>About Gee Ranasinha:</p>
<p>Founder and CEO of  KEXINO, an award-winning start-up and small business marketing agency.</p>
<p>Gee's background is in B2B marketing, small business marketing, branding, differentiation, and customer behavior. </p>
<p>Gee's been in marketing since the days of dial-up modems. For seven years Gee was Worldwide Director of Marketing for a software company, working with clients such as IKEA, Marvel, Nestlé, Airbus, and Time Magazine. For the past 14 years he has been CEO of KEXINO, an award-winning marketing agency specializing in helping startups and small businesses around the world deploy next-generation marketing within - and across - their organizations.</p>
<p>A Fellow of the Chartered Institute Of Marketing, Gee is also Visiting Professor at European business school IEF, teaching final-year MBA students on Marketing and Behavioral Economics.</p>
<p>Connect with Gee and learn more at <a href='https://kexino.com/'>Kexino.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://kexino.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Gee Ranasinha:</p>
<p>01:59</p>
<p>It's quite simple, really, it goes to my history, way back when, for seven years, I was worldwide director of marketing for a software company, fairly large software company in Europe serving blue chip clients such as timing can IKEA, Nestle, Airbus Marvel people like that.</p>
<p>And whenever I was invited, to have marketing agencies come in to pitch for our business, I was always amazed at how little notice they took towards any fiduciary responsibility for the marketing plans that they proposed. </p>
<p>And at the same time, this is back in 2007 or so the thing called the internet was beginning to affect our daily lives. I don't know George, maybe you've heard of it, this thing called the internet.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:51</p>
<p>It was, it was the big brands who were the ones taking advantage of the potential of the internet because they had greater technical experience. And obviously, deeper pockets.</p>
<p>And small businesses and startups are getting left behind. And so I figured that there was an opportunity for a marketing agency resource, specifically aimed at helping small businesses and startups that could help them leverage the power of online engagement and the evolution of customer buying processes.</p>
<p>And so that's why in January 2008, I resigned my comfortable corporate position, with all its trappings and international travel and company cars and expense accounts, and all that sort of stuff. And we launched our marketing agency.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>12:51</p>
<p>So firstly, I think marketing is in crisis, because it is ideologically disliked, in the higher tiers of business. Okay. And secondly, I mean, I'll expand upon this in a minute. Secondly, I think marketing is in crisis, because much of the work conducted by people who call themselves marketers, notice I didn't call the marketers I said people who call themselves marketers is only a tiny bit of what marketing is actually about.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>13:26</p>
And what the people who call themselves marketers are actually doing is communications is promotion.
<p> </p>
<p>13:38</p>
<p>Which if we go back to the four P's of marketing is you know, only 25% of what marketing is.</p>
<p>And so, as a result of just focusing on comms and communications and messaging, marketing has been relegated to a sales support function. Right. And within so many organizations, the marketing function is seen as, producing brochures, updating the website, getting some tote bags made, getting some stress balls printed, and at the other end, marketing is being used as an automation tool to automate lead generation and advertising.</p>
<p>But it's delivering substandard and increasingly ineffectual results. So what do I mean that CEOs have a dislike to marketing?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>14:36</p>
<p>I think they have an inherent distrust in marketing because it goes against the way they think, CEOs and CFOs, accountants, numbers-people, that they look at other areas of the business. And those areas are very pragmatic and they're very, they're based on rationality. They're based on sequential thought.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Businesses are looking to create a, a data driven repeatable process, but one that's devoid of creativity, salience, or resonance, and then they wonder why their marketing doesn't work.
<p>-----</p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
It needs to have in in my opinion, it needs to have somebody who understands a customer. There are far too many conversations that I have with business owners with people who call themselves marketers who haven't spoken to a customer in the past six weeks. Now to me that tantamount to a dereliction of duty,
<p>-----</p>
<p>The book he mentioned, Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman.</p>
<p></p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Marketing crisis for small business and startups
Beware of the trap of choosing efficiency over effectiveness
Episode 113 (Gee is based in Strasbourg, France)
In this conversation with Gee Ranasinha, we explore:
Why marketing is broken and the resulting marketing crisis 
Appreciating the value of differentiation and danger of not
How to recognize "the people who call themselves marketers"
Why it starts and ends with how people feel
Why you want to consider the amygdala in your marketing plans
The real purpose of branding when connecting with your decisions
About Gee Ranasinha:
Founder and CEO of  KEXINO, an award-winning start-up and small business marketing agency.
Gee's background is in B2B marketing, small business marketing, branding, differentiation, and customer behavior. 
Gee's been in marketing since the days of dial-up modems. For seven years Gee was Worldwide Director of Marketing for a software company, working with clients such as IKEA, Marvel, Nestlé, Airbus, and Time Magazine. For the past 14 years he has been CEO of KEXINO, an award-winning marketing agency specializing in helping startups and small businesses around the world deploy next-generation marketing within - and across - their organizations.
A Fellow of the Chartered Institute Of Marketing, Gee is also Visiting Professor at European business school IEF, teaching final-year MBA students on Marketing and Behavioral Economics.
Connect with Gee and learn more at Kexino.com

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Excerpts from this conversation with Gee Ranasinha:
01:59
It's quite simple, really, it goes to my history, way back when, for seven years, I was worldwide director of marketing for a software company, fairly large software company in Europe serving blue chip clients such as timing can IKEA, Nestle, Airbus Marvel people like that.
And whenever I was invited, to have marketing agencies come in to pitch for our business, I was always amazed at how little notice they took towards any fiduciary responsibility for the marketing plans that they proposed. 
And at the same time, this is back in 2007 or so the thing called the internet was beginning to affect our daily lives. I don't know George, maybe you've heard of it, this thing called the internet.
 
02:51
It was, it was the big brands who were the ones taking advantage of the potential of the internet because they had greater technical experience. And obviously, deeper pockets.
And small businesses and startups are getting left behind. And so I figured that there was an opportunity for a marketing agency resource, specifically aimed at helping small businesses and startups that could help them leverage the power of online engagement and the evolution of customer buying processes.
And so that's why in January 2008, I resigned my comfortable corporate position, with all its trappings and international travel and company cars and expense accounts, and all that sort of stuff. And we launched our marketing agency.
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12:51
So firstly, I think marketing is in crisis, because it is ideologically disliked, in the higher tiers of business. Okay. And secondly, I mean, I'll expand upon this in a minute. Secondly, I think marketing is in crisis, because much of the work conducted by people who call themselves marketers, notice I didn't call the marketers I said people who call themselves marketers is only a tiny bit of what marketing is actually about.
 
13:26
And what the people who call themselves marketers are actually doing is communications is promotion.
 
13:38
Which if we go back to the four P's of marketing is you know, only 25% of what marketing is.
And so, as a result of just focusing on comms and communications and messaging, marketing has been relegated to a sales support function. Right. And within so many organizations, the marketing function is seen as, producing brochures, updating the website, getting some tote bags made, getting some stress balls printed, and at the other end, marketing is being used as an au]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Connect with Listeners with Your True Voice
How can you uncover and leverage your authentic voice
<p>Episode 112 {Susan is based in North Carolina)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Susan Murphy, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why is your authentic voice critical to your success?</li>
<li>What mental and physical exercises can you use to uncover that voice?</li>
<li>The three simple techniques to improve your voice today</li>
<li>What can you learn from the voices of Darth Vader and Jar Jar Binks?</li>
<li>How to connect with the audience when telling the story</li>
<li>Recognizing that the presentation is part of a process</li>
<li>What grade level so you speak from?</li>
</ul>
<p>About Susan Murphy:</p>
<p>Susan has been in the broadcast industry for more than 40 years and she is always open to reinvention. Voice coaching is the most rewarding job she has ever had.</p>
<p>Her primary clients are in the broadcast industry and she can you improve your voice to deliver a more powerful and intentional message.</p>
<p>Visit her website to learn more and arrange an initial consultation at</p>
<p><a href='https://susanmurphyvosot.com/'>wwwSusanMurphyVOSOT.com</a></p>
<p>Connect with Susan on Linkedin</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/susan-murphy-a649406/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/susan-murphy-a649406/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Susan Murphy:</p>
<p>02:31</p>
<p>I work with reporters and anchors at TV stations around the country. And the primary thing I work with is finding helping them to find their authentic voices.</p>
<p>They all have them. It's just that women in particular, don't tend to use them. Which I think goes back to their childhood where that breathy girlish Barbie doll voice probably served a need back then got them the attention they wanted or needed, allowed them to navigate, perhaps a sort of dysfunctional home life or whatever.</p>
<p>But it doesn't serve them well getting into adulthood. So what I do is, I don't teach anything that they don't already have, you know, in their bodies, I just help them discover it, I just uncover their authentic voices.</p>
<p>So once you do that, already, you have started with a rising a blossoming confidence. </p>
<p>And that's what a lot of reporters lack too. But that's mostly because of their age.</p>
<p>So the authenticity piece starts and then I move into some writing with them, because they all go out on different stories every day, or they're looking at anchor copy different every day. Are you making an intentional connection to this story?</p>
<p>And they look, and you wouldn't do a story with a grieving mother the same way you would do a St. Patrick's Day parade, which you Okay, everybody gets that.</p>
<p>But there's more to it than that. So making that intentional connection, not only with the story, but how about with the people you work for?</p>
<p>Oh, and that's not your bosses, the people you work for is the audience. If you can't make an intentional connection to what you're talking about, or to what you're delivering, I try never to say reading because there's a difference.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Write your script, like a fifth grader, how old are you in fifth grade, you're 10. Deliver it, like a college professor.
<p>-----</p>
<p>10:47</p>
<p>Short sentences are a reporter's best friend. You can do so much more with the tone of your voice in a short sentence, then you can do in a long one, because in a long one, you're just trying to get from A to Z.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>11:03</p>
<p>If you keep the sentences short, if you make sure you take those pauses between the sentences, tone happens, you almost don't have to manufacture it, because those words will automatically trigger tone.</p>
<p>And when you're not worried about tripping over the next word, or the next thought. It's amazing how authentic that delivery can be.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>24:38</p>
<p>If you were going to rephrase all of that, say for a group of seventh graders, is there a way you could explain it to maybe seventh graders that might be better for my audience?</p>
<p>Oh, okay. And then hopefully, they'll be able to explain it in a way that helps the seventh graders but then it allows you to write it better.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Scientists who explained complex ideas in simple sentences include:
Albert Einstein
Carl Sagan
Neil deGrasse Tyson
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Connect with Listeners with Your True Voice
How can you uncover and leverage your authentic voice
<p>Episode 112 {Susan is based in North Carolina)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Susan Murphy, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why is your authentic voice critical to your success?</li>
<li>What mental and physical exercises can you use to uncover that voice?</li>
<li>The three simple techniques to improve your voice today</li>
<li>What can you learn from the voices of Darth Vader and Jar Jar Binks?</li>
<li>How to connect with the audience when telling the story</li>
<li>Recognizing that the presentation is part of a process</li>
<li>What grade level so you speak from?</li>
</ul>
<p>About Susan Murphy:</p>
<p>Susan has been in the broadcast industry for more than 40 years and she is always open to reinvention. Voice coaching is the most rewarding job she has ever had.</p>
<p>Her primary clients are in the broadcast industry and she can you improve your voice to deliver a more powerful and intentional message.</p>
<p><em>Visit her website to learn more and arrange an initial consultation at</em></p>
<p><a href='https://susanmurphyvosot.com/'>wwwSusanMurphyVOSOT.com</a></p>
<p><em>Connect with Susan on Linkedin</em></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/susan-murphy-a649406/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/susan-murphy-a649406/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Susan Murphy:</p>
<p>02:31</p>
<p>I work with reporters and anchors at TV stations around the country. And the primary thing I work with is finding helping them to find their authentic voices.</p>
<p>They all have them. It's just that women in particular, don't tend to use them. Which I think goes back to their childhood where that breathy girlish Barbie doll voice probably served a need back then got them the attention they wanted or needed, allowed them to navigate, perhaps a sort of dysfunctional home life or whatever.</p>
<p>But it doesn't serve them well getting into adulthood. So what I do is, I don't teach anything that they don't already have, you know, in their bodies, I just help them discover it, I just uncover their authentic voices.</p>
<p>So once you do that, already, you have started with a rising a blossoming confidence. </p>
<p>And that's what a lot of reporters lack too. But that's mostly because of their age.</p>
<p>So the authenticity piece starts and then I move into some writing with them, because they all go out on different stories every day, or they're looking at anchor copy different every day. Are you making an intentional connection to this story?</p>
<p>And they look, and you wouldn't do a story with a grieving mother the same way you would do a St. Patrick's Day parade, which you Okay, everybody gets that.</p>
<p>But there's more to it than that. So making that intentional connection, not only with the story, but how about with the people you work for?</p>
<p>Oh, and that's not your bosses, the people you work for is the audience. If you can't make an intentional connection to what you're talking about, or to what you're delivering, I try never to say reading because there's a difference.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Write your script, like a fifth grader, how old are you in fifth grade, you're 10. Deliver it, like a college professor.
<p>-----</p>
<p>10:47</p>
<p>Short sentences are a reporter's best friend. You can do so much more with the tone of your voice in a short sentence, then you can do in a long one, because in a long one, you're just trying to get from A to Z.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>11:03</p>
<p>If you keep the sentences short, if you make sure you take those pauses between the sentences, tone happens, you almost don't have to manufacture it, because those words will automatically trigger tone.</p>
<p>And when you're not worried about tripping over the next word, or the next thought. It's amazing how authentic that delivery can be.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>24:38</p>
<p>If you were going to rephrase all of that, say for a group of seventh graders, is there a way you could explain it to maybe seventh graders that might be better for my audience?</p>
<p>Oh, okay. And then hopefully, they'll be able to explain it in a way that helps the seventh graders but then it allows you to write it better.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Scientists who explained complex ideas in simple sentences include:
Albert Einstein
Carl Sagan
Neil deGrasse Tyson
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Connect with Listeners with Your True Voice
How can you uncover and leverage your authentic voice
Episode 112 {Susan is based in North Carolina)
In this conversation with Susan Murphy, we explore:
Why is your authentic voice critical to your success?
What mental and physical exercises can you use to uncover that voice?
The three simple techniques to improve your voice today
What can you learn from the voices of Darth Vader and Jar Jar Binks?
How to connect with the audience when telling the story
Recognizing that the presentation is part of a process
What grade level so you speak from?
About Susan Murphy:
Susan has been in the broadcast industry for more than 40 years and she is always open to reinvention. Voice coaching is the most rewarding job she has ever had.
Her primary clients are in the broadcast industry and she can you improve your voice to deliver a more powerful and intentional message.
Visit her website to learn more and arrange an initial consultation at
wwwSusanMurphyVOSOT.com
Connect with Susan on Linkedin
https://www.linkedin.com/in/susan-murphy-a649406/
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Excerpts from this conversation with Susan Murphy:
02:31
I work with reporters and anchors at TV stations around the country. And the primary thing I work with is finding helping them to find their authentic voices.
They all have them. It's just that women in particular, don't tend to use them. Which I think goes back to their childhood where that breathy girlish Barbie doll voice probably served a need back then got them the attention they wanted or needed, allowed them to navigate, perhaps a sort of dysfunctional home life or whatever.
But it doesn't serve them well getting into adulthood. So what I do is, I don't teach anything that they don't already have, you know, in their bodies, I just help them discover it, I just uncover their authentic voices.
So once you do that, already, you have started with a rising a blossoming confidence. 
And that's what a lot of reporters lack too. But that's mostly because of their age.
So the authenticity piece starts and then I move into some writing with them, because they all go out on different stories every day, or they're looking at anchor copy different every day. Are you making an intentional connection to this story?
And they look, and you wouldn't do a story with a grieving mother the same way you would do a St. Patrick's Day parade, which you Okay, everybody gets that.
But there's more to it than that. So making that intentional connection, not only with the story, but how about with the people you work for?
Oh, and that's not your bosses, the people you work for is the audience. If you can't make an intentional connection to what you're talking about, or to what you're delivering, I try never to say reading because there's a difference.
-----
Write your script, like a fifth grader, how old are you in fifth grade, you're 10. Deliver it, like a college professor.
-----
10:47
Short sentences are a reporter's best friend. You can do so much more with the tone of your voice in a short sentence, then you can do in a long one, because in a long one, you're just trying to get from A to Z.
 
11:03
If you keep the sentences short, if you make sure you take those pauses between the sentences, tone happens, you almost don't have to manufacture it, because those words will automatically trigger tone.
And when you're not worried about tripping over the next word, or the next thought. It's amazing how authentic that delivery can be.
-----
24:38
If you were going to rephrase all of that, say for a group of seventh graders, is there a way you could explain it to maybe seventh graders that might be better for my audience?
Oh, okay. And then hopefully, they'll be able to explain it in a way that helps the seventh graders but then it allows you to write it better.
-----
Scientists who explained complex ideas in simple sentences include:
Albert Einstein
Carl Sagan
Neil deGrasse Tyson
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to use a book to promote your business
Write and publish your book, then promote it to boost your success
<p>Episode 111 {Judy is based in California)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Judy Baker we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to leverage your book as a business marketing tool</li>
<li>Five mistakes to avoid when marketing your book</li>
<li>Why give your book to clients and prospects as a gift</li>
<li>What you and me have in common with the armadillo</li>
<li>How to positive your service business with a competitive advantage</li>
<li>What you can learn from the reshaping of the wine business in North America</li>
<li>What you can learn about marketing even if you don't have a book</li>
</ul>
<p>About Judy Baker:</p>
<p>Book Marketing Mentor, Judy M. Baker, helps business authors get more bang for their book, turning content into cash long after a book launch.</p>
<p>After conquering cancer in 2014, she became an author advocate and self-publishing evangelist. Her memoir will publish in 2022.</p>
<p>Her workshops and one-on-one mentoring sessions have inspired hundreds of author to build awareness about themselves, their books and their businesses.</p>
<p><a href='https://bookmarketingmentor.com/'>bookmarketingmentor.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://bookmarketingmentor.com/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Are you a nonfiction author that wants to revisit your book marketing strategy? then visit Book Buzz Audit to arrange your 30 minute mentoring session with Judy Baker. No charge, no obligation.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.bookbuzzaudit.com/'>BookBuzz.Audit.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.bookbuzzaudit.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Judy Baker:</p>
<p> </p>
<p>04:59</p>
<p>Oh, Well, you brought up a good point because that would make a great subtitle.</p>
<p>But if your intention is, how do you know it's about your brand, or how you show up or how you make an impression on people, you want to look at a title that is, well, and these days, this is even more important.</p>
<p>Most of the time, people are not walking into a physical bookstore, they're looking for you online. And so a short title, one or two words is far better.</p>
<p>And then you can have a humongous subtitle, you could have, I think it's up to, like 30 words in the subtitle.</p>
<p>So amplify what that book is about, but grab people's attention with something that is very important to them, and tells them what they're going to get out of it.</p>
<p>You're You're completely right on that someone I just interviewed recently has a book out called raise your fees, without losing clients? Well, yeah, you know, immediately what that's about.</p>
<p>Now, that's a little bit longer title than, then I would typically say, but because she knows her audience really well, she came up with the title after she was working on the book.</p>
<p>And that's the other thing, you probably are going to have a working title, great.</p>
<p>But what you wind up at the end, might be something different. And you can find out if it resonates with people, because you ask them.</p>
<p>And that's, that's a that's another thing authors often do that can hold them back. You write on your own, but at some point, you need to collaborate with editors, with your book designer, you need to interact with the people you intend the book for, and get their feedback.</p>
<p>And if you've ever looked at any of the successful book, funding campaigns, crowdfunding, Indiegogo, or Kickstarter, you're going to see that people are saying, Oh, here's my ideas. What do you think? And do you have any suggestions?</p>
<p>And if you know, here's, here are my possible covers. So when you get engagement going on as early as possible, that's fabulous. But sometimes you don't know until after.</p>
<p>And if you're self published, it's a lot easier to change your book cover and your book title. But even if you are working with a team, listen to what other people say, we can't we don't see ourselves the way others do.</p>
<p>We don't see that our books the way other people do. So we need to ask questions.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>24:36</p>
<p>Judy, you told us some of the mistakes they made. What are some of the best practices that you've seen people do?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>24:55</p>
<p>Well, one of the one of the best strategies  I've seen is creating companion pieces to your book. </p>
<p>Some authors are now are now creating a limited series podcast where they're sharing information about the book.</p>
<p>And that makes it a little more manageable.</p>
<p>But if you say, Okay, I'm going to do a series based on my book, and maybe I'm gonna go chapter by chapter and are just part of it, then you're revealing information, but you're inviting people in.</p>
<p>So that's really great. The other strategy that seems to be very effective is not only audio, but video.</p>
<p>So if you are a nonfiction author, and you serve your clients, there's probably something you're doing that's included in your book that you could do short short videos about, and put that out there.</p>
<p>And this is another tip. If you're doing video, yes, put it up on YouTube, because YouTube is one of the largest search engines.</p>
<p>But you want to make sure that video in its native form, if you're going to use it on social uploaded in its original form, on to say LinkedIn, or Facebook or Twitter or Instagram.</p>
<p>Because there's a bias on all of those rented platforms, for native information, they don't want you going out the door, they want to keep you on the platform, but you still have your video in all of those places. And you can include it wherever you want to share it.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to use a book to promote your business
Write and publish your book, then promote it to boost your success
<p>Episode 111 {Judy is based in California)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Judy Baker we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to leverage your book as a business marketing tool</li>
<li>Five mistakes to avoid when marketing your book</li>
<li>Why give your book to clients and prospects as a gift</li>
<li>What you and me have in common with the armadillo</li>
<li>How to positive your service business with a competitive advantage</li>
<li>What you can learn from the reshaping of the wine business in North America</li>
<li>What you can learn about marketing even if you don't have a book</li>
</ul>
<p>About Judy Baker:</p>
<p>Book Marketing Mentor, Judy M. Baker, helps business authors get more bang for their book, turning content into cash long after a book launch.</p>
<p>After conquering cancer in 2014, she became an author advocate and self-publishing evangelist. Her memoir will publish in 2022.</p>
<p>Her workshops and one-on-one mentoring sessions have inspired hundreds of author to build awareness about themselves, their books and their businesses.</p>
<p><a href='https://bookmarketingmentor.com/'>bookmarketingmentor.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://bookmarketingmentor.com/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Are you a nonfiction author that wants to revisit your book marketing strategy? then visit Book Buzz Audit to arrange your 30 minute mentoring session with Judy Baker. No charge, no obligation.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.bookbuzzaudit.com/'>BookBuzz.Audit.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.bookbuzzaudit.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Judy Baker:</p>
<p> </p>
<p>04:59</p>
<p>Oh, Well, you brought up a good point because that would make a great subtitle.</p>
<p>But if your intention is, how do you know it's about your brand, or how you show up or how you make an impression on people, you want to look at a title that is, well, and these days, this is even more important.</p>
<p>Most of the time, people are not walking into a physical bookstore, they're looking for you online. And so a short title, one or two words is far better.</p>
<p>And then you can have a humongous subtitle, you could have, I think it's up to, like 30 words in the subtitle.</p>
<p>So amplify what that book is about, but grab people's attention with something that is very important to them, and tells them what they're going to get out of it.</p>
<p>You're You're completely right on that someone I just interviewed recently has a book out called raise your fees, without losing clients? Well, yeah, you know, immediately what that's about.</p>
<p>Now, that's a little bit longer title than, then I would typically say, but because she knows her audience really well, she came up with the title after she was working on the book.</p>
<p>And that's the other thing, you probably are going to have a working title, great.</p>
<p>But what you wind up at the end, might be something different. And you can find out if it resonates with people, because you ask them.</p>
<p>And that's, that's a that's another thing authors often do that can hold them back. You write on your own, but at some point, you need to collaborate with editors, with your book designer, you need to interact with the people you intend the book for, and get their feedback.</p>
<p>And if you've ever looked at any of the successful book, funding campaigns, crowdfunding, Indiegogo, or Kickstarter, you're going to see that people are saying, Oh, here's my ideas. What do you think? And do you have any suggestions?</p>
<p>And if you know, here's, here are my possible covers. So when you get engagement going on as early as possible, that's fabulous. But sometimes you don't know until after.</p>
<p>And if you're self published, it's a lot easier to change your book cover and your book title. But even if you are working with a team, listen to what other people say, we can't we don't see ourselves the way others do.</p>
<p>We don't see that our books the way other people do. So we need to ask questions.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>24:36</p>
<p>Judy, you told us some of the mistakes they made. What are some of the best practices that you've seen people do?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>24:55</p>
<p>Well, one of the one of the best strategies  I've seen is creating companion pieces to your book. </p>
<p>Some authors are now are now creating a limited series podcast where they're sharing information about the book.</p>
<p>And that makes it a little more manageable.</p>
<p>But if you say, Okay, I'm going to do a series based on my book, and maybe I'm gonna go chapter by chapter and are just part of it, then you're revealing information, but you're inviting people in.</p>
<p>So that's really great. The other strategy that seems to be very effective is not only audio, but video.</p>
<p>So if you are a nonfiction author, and you serve your clients, there's probably something you're doing that's included in your book that you could do short short videos about, and put that out there.</p>
<p>And this is another tip. If you're doing video, yes, put it up on YouTube, because YouTube is one of the largest search engines.</p>
<p>But you want to make sure that video in its native form, if you're going to use it on social uploaded in its original form, on to say LinkedIn, or Facebook or Twitter or Instagram.</p>
<p>Because there's a bias on all of those rented platforms, for native information, they don't want you going out the door, they want to keep you on the platform, but you still have your video in all of those places. And you can include it wherever you want to share it.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to use a book to promote your business
Write and publish your book, then promote it to boost your success
Episode 111 {Judy is based in California)
In this conversation with Judy Baker we explore:
How to leverage your book as a business marketing tool
Five mistakes to avoid when marketing your book
Why give your book to clients and prospects as a gift
What you and me have in common with the armadillo
How to positive your service business with a competitive advantage
What you can learn from the reshaping of the wine business in North America
What you can learn about marketing even if you don't have a book
About Judy Baker:
Book Marketing Mentor, Judy M. Baker, helps business authors get more bang for their book, turning content into cash long after a book launch.
After conquering cancer in 2014, she became an author advocate and self-publishing evangelist. Her memoir will publish in 2022.
Her workshops and one-on-one mentoring sessions have inspired hundreds of author to build awareness about themselves, their books and their businesses.
bookmarketingmentor.com
 

 
Are you a nonfiction author that wants to revisit your book marketing strategy? then visit Book Buzz Audit to arrange your 30 minute mentoring session with Judy Baker. No charge, no obligation.
BookBuzz.Audit.com

-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Judy Baker:
 
04:59
Oh, Well, you brought up a good point because that would make a great subtitle.
But if your intention is, how do you know it's about your brand, or how you show up or how you make an impression on people, you want to look at a title that is, well, and these days, this is even more important.
Most of the time, people are not walking into a physical bookstore, they're looking for you online. And so a short title, one or two words is far better.
And then you can have a humongous subtitle, you could have, I think it's up to, like 30 words in the subtitle.
So amplify what that book is about, but grab people's attention with something that is very important to them, and tells them what they're going to get out of it.
You're You're completely right on that someone I just interviewed recently has a book out called raise your fees, without losing clients? Well, yeah, you know, immediately what that's about.
Now, that's a little bit longer title than, then I would typically say, but because she knows her audience really well, she came up with the title after she was working on the book.
And that's the other thing, you probably are going to have a working title, great.
But what you wind up at the end, might be something different. And you can find out if it resonates with people, because you ask them.
And that's, that's a that's another thing authors often do that can hold them back. You write on your own, but at some point, you need to collaborate with editors, with your book designer, you need to interact with the people you intend the book for, and get their feedback.
And if you've ever looked at any of the successful book, funding campaigns, crowdfunding, Indiegogo, or Kickstarter, you're going to see that people are saying, Oh, here's my ideas. What do you think? And do you have any suggestions?
And if you know, here's, here are my possible covers. So when you get engagement going on as early as possible, that's fabulous. But sometimes you don't know until after.
And if you're self published, it's a lot easier to change your book cover and your book title. But even if you are working with a team, listen to what other people say, we can't we don't see ourselves the way others do.
We don't see that our books the way other people do. So we need to ask questions.
-----
24:36
Judy, you told us some of the mistakes they made. What are some of the best practices that you've seen people do?
 
24:55
Well, one of the one of the best strategies  I've seen is creating companion pieces to your book. 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to be communicate to your team in a positive way
How to tame the negative thoughts in your head that can sabotage your success
<p>Pamela Jett is a leadership and communication skills expert who has been working with leaders for almost three decades to them communicate, lead and succeed.</p>
<p>Episode 110 (Pamela is based in Arizona)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Pamela Jett we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The critical difference between being relentlessly positive instead of pursing happiness (happiness is an unrealistic goal)</li>
<li>Words to chose and words to lose (stop sabotaging your intended message)</li>
<li>How to stop the negative ranting in your head</li>
<li>The three principles of positive communication</li>
<li>Situational life-saving phrases to escape emotional traps</li>
<li>How to communicate as an effective leader in any situation</li>
</ul>
<p>About Pamela Jett:</p>
<p>As an internationally recognized communication and leadership expert, speaker, author, and executive advisor, Pamela Jett works with professionals to better understand that choosing to be “Relentlessly Positive” even in difficult situations isn’t naïve… it’s leadership.</p>
<p>After graduating from San Diego State University with a degree in Speech Communication and receiving recognition as one of the top 20 speech and debate competitors in the country, Pamela went on to earn her master’s degree in Communication. It was while pursuing her Ph.D. at the University of Utah that her love of teaching adults powerful success skills was kindled.</p>
<p>Learn more about Pamela Jett and her programs at her website <a href='http://www.PamelaJett.com'>www.PamelaJett.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://relentlessly-positive.com/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Learn more about the turnkey <a href='https://relentlessly-positive.com/more-programs/'>leadership academy here.</a></p>
<p>No charge to check out this <a href='https://relentlessly-positive.com/small-group-coaching/'>coaching assessment quiz.</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Pamela Jett:</p>
So I believe in instead of chasing happiness, I believe and fostering relentless positivity or choosing to be relentlessly positive. Because when I am relentlessly positive, my likelihood of having happiness increases. So in many ways, relentlessly positive attitude is one of the key drivers of happiness. And relentless positivity is all about our mindset.
<p>-----</p>
<p>03:39</p>
<p>Okay, so we just had a fire in the plant. How can I be positive about that?</p>
<p>Well, here's the key. </p>
<p>Relentlessly positive communicators focus not on the past, they focus on the future. </p>
<p>So they would acknowledge the devastation or the challenge. So a great leader would say something like, we have just had a very devastating fire. And I am confident that we as a team can put together a fast recovery plan so that we can get back on track in a timely fashion.</p>
<p>So there are a couple of keys to that.</p>
<p>The first is acknowledging that something bad happened because if you're a leader after a devastating fire in a plant, and you go in and you say hey, it's gonna be a great day, and you use that rah rah, cheerleader, kind of happy clappy positivity, that doesn't work.</p>
<p>But if I say, yes, we've had something bad happen, we've had this bad fire. And so the word and is a word to choose the word but is a word to lose.</p>
<p>Because if I said, Oh, we've had this devastating fire, but it really kind of negates that empathy piece that I just gave as a leader.</p>
<p>And if I don't acknowledge that this was tough, everybody's gonna think that I am as a leader, completely delusional that I don't have any empathy that I have no feeling for what they're going through.</p>
<p>But if I say, hey, this was a really, really devastating fire, and I'm confident that we as a team can put together a great recovery plan, I use the and it doesn't negate my empathy.</p>
<p>And then I'm using another principle of relentlessly positive communication, which is the future focus. </p>
<p>And I'm confident we can put together a great recovery plan. So it gets us working on solutions, not sitting there moaning and groaning over the problem.</p>
<p>Now, that's a very simplistic example. That is how relentlessly positive communication differs from that rah rah cheerleader, have a good attitude, always be positive.</p>
<p>Look, on the bright side, it's very strategic. I'm doing it intentionally to build trust with my team. And I'm doing it to also help move forward into problem solving.</p>
<p>-----</p>
But if I just accept, or even simply say, Wow, that was interesting, which is a neutral statement. Wow. That was interesting.
<p>-----</p>
<p>16:07</p>
<p>Feelings drive decisions, not logic, not reason. </p>
<p>And I know, when people are listening to this, they might be thinking, wow, that's not true. I decided to buy my car because I researched and I did and yes, you do that, and you have your data and your logic and rationale to back it up.</p>
<p>And some people have the space between the feeling and their decision is just so minuet that they can't be they don't recognise that they're gathering those facts.</p>
<p>For some of us, Hey, I know I've got a feeling. And I am aware now that I'm gathering facts, and I've made my decision, neither way is right or wrong.</p>
<p>It's just some people make their decisions so differently, and they gather their facts so quickly, they can't really recognise that they went through a feeling phase because they aren't really thinking about their feelings, because feelings aren't thinking they're feeling.</p>
<p>So every decision we make is starts out as a feeling person that's been proven, by the way our brains architecture works, it's just how our brains are.</p>
<p>And how this impacts us as humans is obviously on an individual level, I need to be aware of my feelings, because that impacts the decisions I make.</p>
<p>I also know that as a leader, if I want to have a team that's engaged, if I want to have a team that thinks that their work is meaningful and important, and decide to come in with a problem solving attitude, that they come in, ready to work, and to be focused and to be collaborative, and all those decisions we want our team members to make.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to be communicate to your team in a positive way
How to tame the negative thoughts in your head that can sabotage your success
<p>Pamela Jett is a leadership and communication skills expert who has been working with leaders for almost three decades to them communicate, lead and succeed.</p>
<p>Episode 110 (Pamela is based in Arizona)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Pamela Jett we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The critical difference between being relentlessly positive instead of pursing happiness (happiness is an unrealistic goal)</li>
<li>Words to chose and words to lose (stop sabotaging your intended message)</li>
<li>How to stop the negative ranting in your head</li>
<li>The three principles of positive communication</li>
<li>Situational life-saving phrases to escape emotional traps</li>
<li>How to communicate as an effective leader in any situation</li>
</ul>
<p>About Pamela Jett:</p>
<p>As an internationally recognized communication and leadership expert, speaker, author, and executive advisor, Pamela Jett works with professionals to better understand that choosing to be “Relentlessly Positive” even in difficult situations isn’t naïve… it’s leadership.</p>
<p>After graduating from San Diego State University with a degree in Speech Communication and receiving recognition as one of the top 20 speech and debate competitors in the country, Pamela went on to earn her master’s degree in Communication. It was while pursuing her Ph.D. at the University of Utah that her love of teaching adults powerful success skills was kindled.</p>
<p>Learn more about Pamela Jett and her programs at her website <a href='http://www.PamelaJett.com'>www.PamelaJett.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://relentlessly-positive.com/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Learn more about the turnkey <a href='https://relentlessly-positive.com/more-programs/'>leadership academy here.</a></p>
<p>No charge to check out this <a href='https://relentlessly-positive.com/small-group-coaching/'>coaching assessment quiz.</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Pamela Jett:</p>
So I believe in instead of chasing happiness, I believe and fostering relentless positivity or choosing to be relentlessly positive. Because when I am relentlessly positive, my likelihood of having happiness increases. So in many ways, relentlessly positive attitude is one of the key drivers of happiness. And relentless positivity is all about our mindset.
<p>-----</p>
<p>03:39</p>
<p>Okay, so we just had a fire in the plant. How can I be positive about that?</p>
<p>Well, here's the key. </p>
<p>Relentlessly positive communicators focus not on the past, they focus on the future. </p>
<p>So they would acknowledge the devastation or the challenge. So a great leader would say something like, we have just had a very devastating fire. And I am confident that we as a team can put together a fast recovery plan so that we can get back on track in a timely fashion.</p>
<p>So there are a couple of keys to that.</p>
<p>The first is acknowledging that something bad happened because if you're a leader after a devastating fire in a plant, and you go in and you say hey, it's gonna be a great day, and you use that rah rah, cheerleader, kind of happy clappy positivity, that doesn't work.</p>
<p>But if I say, yes, we've had something bad happen, we've had this bad fire. And so the word and is a word to choose the word but is a word to lose.</p>
<p>Because if I said, Oh, we've had this devastating fire, but it really kind of negates that empathy piece that I just gave as a leader.</p>
<p>And if I don't acknowledge that this was tough, everybody's gonna think that I am as a leader, completely delusional that I don't have any empathy that I have no feeling for what they're going through.</p>
<p>But if I say, hey, this was a really, really devastating fire, and I'm confident that we as a team can put together a great recovery plan, I use the and it doesn't negate my empathy.</p>
<p>And then I'm using another principle of relentlessly positive communication, which is the future focus. </p>
<p>And I'm confident we can put together a great recovery plan. So it gets us working on solutions, not sitting there moaning and groaning over the problem.</p>
<p>Now, that's a very simplistic example. That is how relentlessly positive communication differs from that rah rah cheerleader, have a good attitude, always be positive.</p>
<p>Look, on the bright side, it's very strategic. I'm doing it intentionally to build trust with my team. And I'm doing it to also help move forward into problem solving.</p>
<p>-----</p>
But if I just accept, or even simply say, Wow, that was interesting, which is a neutral statement. Wow. That was interesting.
<p>-----</p>
<p>16:07</p>
<p>Feelings drive decisions, not logic, not reason. </p>
<p>And I know, when people are listening to this, they might be thinking, wow, that's not true. I decided to buy my car because I researched and I did and yes, you do that, and you have your data and your logic and rationale to back it up.</p>
<p>And some people have the space between the feeling and their decision is just so minuet that they can't be they don't recognise that they're gathering those facts.</p>
<p>For some of us, Hey, I know I've got a feeling. And I am aware now that I'm gathering facts, and I've made my decision, neither way is right or wrong.</p>
<p>It's just some people make their decisions so differently, and they gather their facts so quickly, they can't really recognise that they went through a feeling phase because they aren't really thinking about their feelings, because feelings aren't thinking they're feeling.</p>
<p>So every decision we make is starts out as a feeling person that's been proven, by the way our brains architecture works, it's just how our brains are.</p>
<p>And how this impacts us as humans is obviously on an individual level, I need to be aware of my feelings, because that impacts the decisions I make.</p>
<p>I also know that as a leader, if I want to have a team that's engaged, if I want to have a team that thinks that their work is meaningful and important, and decide to come in with a problem solving attitude, that they come in, ready to work, and to be focused and to be collaborative, and all those decisions we want our team members to make.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to be communicate to your team in a positive way
How to tame the negative thoughts in your head that can sabotage your success
Pamela Jett is a leadership and communication skills expert who has been working with leaders for almost three decades to them communicate, lead and succeed.
Episode 110 (Pamela is based in Arizona)
In this conversation with Pamela Jett we explore:
The critical difference between being relentlessly positive instead of pursing happiness (happiness is an unrealistic goal)
Words to chose and words to lose (stop sabotaging your intended message)
How to stop the negative ranting in your head
The three principles of positive communication
Situational life-saving phrases to escape emotional traps
How to communicate as an effective leader in any situation
About Pamela Jett:
As an internationally recognized communication and leadership expert, speaker, author, and executive advisor, Pamela Jett works with professionals to better understand that choosing to be “Relentlessly Positive” even in difficult situations isn’t naïve… it’s leadership.
After graduating from San Diego State University with a degree in Speech Communication and receiving recognition as one of the top 20 speech and debate competitors in the country, Pamela went on to earn her master’s degree in Communication. It was while pursuing her Ph.D. at the University of Utah that her love of teaching adults powerful success skills was kindled.
Learn more about Pamela Jett and her programs at her website www.PamelaJett.com
 

 
Learn more about the turnkey leadership academy here.
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Excerpts from this conversation with Pamela Jett:
So I believe in instead of chasing happiness, I believe and fostering relentless positivity or choosing to be relentlessly positive. Because when I am relentlessly positive, my likelihood of having happiness increases. So in many ways, relentlessly positive attitude is one of the key drivers of happiness. And relentless positivity is all about our mindset.
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03:39
Okay, so we just had a fire in the plant. How can I be positive about that?
Well, here's the key. 
Relentlessly positive communicators focus not on the past, they focus on the future. 
So they would acknowledge the devastation or the challenge. So a great leader would say something like, we have just had a very devastating fire. And I am confident that we as a team can put together a fast recovery plan so that we can get back on track in a timely fashion.
So there are a couple of keys to that.
The first is acknowledging that something bad happened because if you're a leader after a devastating fire in a plant, and you go in and you say hey, it's gonna be a great day, and you use that rah rah, cheerleader, kind of happy clappy positivity, that doesn't work.
But if I say, yes, we've had something bad happen, we've had this bad fire. And so the word and is a word to choose the word but is a word to lose.
Because if I said, Oh, we've had this devastating fire, but it really kind of negates that empathy piece that I just gave as a leader.
And if I don't acknowledge that this was tough, everybody's gonna think that I am as a leader, completely delusional that I don't have any empathy that I have no feeling for what they're going through.
But if I say, hey, this was a really, really devastating fire, and I'm confident that we as a team can put together a great recovery plan, I use the and it doesn't negate my empathy.
And then I'm using another principle of relentlessly positive communication, which is the future focus. 
And I'm confident we can put together a great recovery plan. So it gets us working on solutions, not sitting there moaning and groaning over the problem.
Now, that's a very simplistic example. That is how relentlessly positive communication differs from that rah rah cheerleader, have a good attitude, always be positive.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Self Awareness and Openness Builds Winning Teams
What can we learn from the Special Forces to build workplace teams?
<p>Noel DiBona has served on high performance teams in private business and in military Special Operations. </p>
<p>Episode 109 (Noel is based in North Carolina)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Noel DiBona we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How self awareness is the foundation for strong teams</li>
<li>The importance of sharing strengths and blind spots</li>
<li>Recognizing the effects of stress on you and your teammates</li>
<li>Behavioral analysis and how to use it</li>
<li>How not to forgo your perspective and authentic self</li>
<li>When independence and collaboration clash</li>
</ul>
<p>About Noel DiBona:</p>
<p>Noel began his career as an operations supervisor in a Clorox manufacturing facility and he was frustrated at the lack of productivity.</p>
<p>He set out on a mission looking for ways to build better teams. Over 35 years he served on high-performing teams in military special operations and business.</p>
<p>While serving in executive management at Fluor Corporate, CH2M and Tetra Tech he perfected a system to develop high-performing teams.</p>
<p>As a consultant he has helped clients save millions of dollars through better resource use. His clients included Electrolux, DuPont, GSK and many others.</p>
<p>Learn more about Noel DiBona and his services for building high-performing teams at the website <a href='http://www.ConsultDiBona.com'>www.ConsultDiBona.com</a></p>
<p>You can arrange for a Team Improvement Plan (no charge) at the website.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.consultdibona.com/'></a></p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Noel DiBona:</p>
<p>02:13</p>
<p>Delighted to be talking with you all. And I'm curious of all the teams you worked on, I would imagine working in Special Forces, one really learns how to appreciate all the nuances of a team working together for one purpose.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:31</p>
<p>Absolutely George, in a team such as that high performance team, we all knew what our jobs were, we could fill in with for each other, we were cross trained, and were brutally honest with each other.</p>
<p>But we would put our lives on the line for one another. So it was what you would consider to be the utmost highest respect, trust and open communication that you could possibly expect of any high performance team.</p>
<p>It was truly a pleasure and an honor for me to be part of that through my career.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:03</p>
<p>And Noel, did you find that you could take lessons learned in that team environment and apply it into business?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:11</p>
<p>Absolutely, George, one of the things that we were able to do, when I came out of the military was really understand how people are orienting themselves towards getting their work done and how everybody works just a little bit differently.</p>
<p>And when I came out of the military, I was very prone to looking forward to talking to people to understand what they were doing.</p>
<p>And to just put myself in the learn mode. I was very inquisitive, asked lots of questions. I wanted to know how everything worked.</p>
<p>And I got that from being in the military, because we're in contact with so many people, so many different folks from different walks of life, that I'm extremely comfortable dealing with many, many different types of individuals.</p>
<p>And so right from the very beginning, when I got out of the military, I was focused on really building relationships with the people I worked with.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>06:52</p>
<p>In taking a deep dive into understanding ourself, and perhaps putting into words, features, characteristics that we never put into words, that's probably good for ourself.</p>
<p>Is that also meant to be shared with the team saying, Hey, guys, here's how I think here's how I think through things. So please don't take it wrong when I do this?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>07:18</p>
<p>Absolutely. The second part of this is for each individual on the team, to have an honest conversation with one another about their strengths, and their potential blind spots, the things that might make them a little bit not so easy to get along with when there's pressure and stress.</p>
<p>We can talk with each other very openly, honestly, and in a cordial way, when there's no heat on us. But as the team comes under stress, the stress of everyday business, depending on what's happening in that company, people begin to work in a way where they might over utilize their strengths.</p>
<p>And when they over utilize their strengths, there's a flipside to the good things that we do.  For example, we might be really proactive, and we might be independent minded, which is a really good thing when you're trying to bring change about in the organization.</p>
<p>However, if the other people are more collaborative, and I'm under a lot of stress, then it's going to come across in a way that might not really be that good to build teamwork from it might tear down teamwork a little bit.</p>
<p>So we want every individual to have an open and honest conversation with one another, in order to gain a better sense of appreciation of who we are.</p>
<p>And we can do this with people that have worked with each other for years and years. And sometimes they know, obviously, a little bit more than if they had just started working with each other.</p>
<p>But it's really, really interesting to note that in most cases, they learn things about people that they never knew.</p>
<p>-----</p>
That's what we want is a situational awareness, in terms of what we're doing, and how we might need to do something different in order to bring the results that we're after.
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Self Awareness and Openness Builds Winning Teams
What can we learn from the Special Forces to build workplace teams?
<p>Noel DiBona has served on high performance teams in private business and in military Special Operations. </p>
<p>Episode 109 (Noel is based in North Carolina)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Noel DiBona we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How self awareness is the foundation for strong teams</li>
<li>The importance of sharing strengths and blind spots</li>
<li>Recognizing the effects of stress on you and your teammates</li>
<li>Behavioral analysis and how to use it</li>
<li>How not to forgo your perspective and authentic self</li>
<li>When independence and collaboration clash</li>
</ul>
<p>About Noel DiBona:</p>
<p>Noel began his career as an operations supervisor in a Clorox manufacturing facility and he was frustrated at the lack of productivity.</p>
<p>He set out on a mission looking for ways to build better teams. Over 35 years he served on high-performing teams in military special operations and business.</p>
<p>While serving in executive management at Fluor Corporate, CH2M and Tetra Tech he perfected a system to develop high-performing teams.</p>
<p>As a consultant he has helped clients save millions of dollars through better resource use. His clients included Electrolux, DuPont, GSK and many others.</p>
<p>Learn more about Noel DiBona and his services for building high-performing teams at the website <a href='http://www.ConsultDiBona.com'>www.ConsultDiBona.com</a></p>
<p>You can arrange for a Team Improvement Plan (no charge) at the website.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.consultdibona.com/'></a></p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Noel DiBona:</p>
<p>02:13</p>
<p>Delighted to be talking with you all. And I'm curious of all the teams you worked on, I would imagine working in Special Forces, one really learns how to appreciate all the nuances of a team working together for one purpose.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:31</p>
<p>Absolutely George, in a team such as that high performance team, we all knew what our jobs were, we could fill in with for each other, we were cross trained, and were brutally honest with each other.</p>
<p>But we would put our lives on the line for one another. So it was what you would consider to be the utmost highest respect, trust and open communication that you could possibly expect of any high performance team.</p>
<p>It was truly a pleasure and an honor for me to be part of that through my career.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:03</p>
<p>And Noel, did you find that you could take lessons learned in that team environment and apply it into business?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:11</p>
<p>Absolutely, George, one of the things that we were able to do, when I came out of the military was really understand how people are orienting themselves towards getting their work done and how everybody works just a little bit differently.</p>
<p>And when I came out of the military, I was very prone to looking forward to talking to people to understand what they were doing.</p>
<p>And to just put myself in the learn mode. I was very inquisitive, asked lots of questions. I wanted to know how everything worked.</p>
<p>And I got that from being in the military, because we're in contact with so many people, so many different folks from different walks of life, that I'm extremely comfortable dealing with many, many different types of individuals.</p>
<p>And so right from the very beginning, when I got out of the military, I was focused on really building relationships with the people I worked with.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>06:52</p>
<p>In taking a deep dive into understanding ourself, and perhaps putting into words, features, characteristics that we never put into words, that's probably good for ourself.</p>
<p>Is that also meant to be shared with the team saying, Hey, guys, here's how I think here's how I think through things. So please don't take it wrong when I do this?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>07:18</p>
<p>Absolutely. The second part of this is for each individual on the team, to have an honest conversation with one another about their strengths, and their potential blind spots, the things that might make them a little bit not so easy to get along with when there's pressure and stress.</p>
<p>We can talk with each other very openly, honestly, and in a cordial way, when there's no heat on us. But as the team comes under stress, the stress of everyday business, depending on what's happening in that company, people begin to work in a way where they might over utilize their strengths.</p>
<p>And when they over utilize their strengths, there's a flipside to the good things that we do.  For example, we might be really proactive, and we might be independent minded, which is a really good thing when you're trying to bring change about in the organization.</p>
<p>However, if the other people are more collaborative, and I'm under a lot of stress, then it's going to come across in a way that might not really be that good to build teamwork from it might tear down teamwork a little bit.</p>
<p>So we want every individual to have an open and honest conversation with one another, in order to gain a better sense of appreciation of who we are.</p>
<p>And we can do this with people that have worked with each other for years and years. And sometimes they know, obviously, a little bit more than if they had just started working with each other.</p>
<p>But it's really, really interesting to note that in most cases, they learn things about people that they never knew.</p>
<p>-----</p>
That's what we want is a situational awareness, in terms of what we're doing, and how we might need to do something different in order to bring the results that we're after.
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Self Awareness and Openness Builds Winning Teams
What can we learn from the Special Forces to build workplace teams?
Noel DiBona has served on high performance teams in private business and in military Special Operations. 
Episode 109 (Noel is based in North Carolina)
In this conversation with Noel DiBona we explore:
How self awareness is the foundation for strong teams
The importance of sharing strengths and blind spots
Recognizing the effects of stress on you and your teammates
Behavioral analysis and how to use it
How not to forgo your perspective and authentic self
When independence and collaboration clash
About Noel DiBona:
Noel began his career as an operations supervisor in a Clorox manufacturing facility and he was frustrated at the lack of productivity.
He set out on a mission looking for ways to build better teams. Over 35 years he served on high-performing teams in military special operations and business.
While serving in executive management at Fluor Corporate, CH2M and Tetra Tech he perfected a system to develop high-performing teams.
As a consultant he has helped clients save millions of dollars through better resource use. His clients included Electrolux, DuPont, GSK and many others.
Learn more about Noel DiBona and his services for building high-performing teams at the website www.ConsultDiBona.com
You can arrange for a Team Improvement Plan (no charge) at the website.

Excerpts from this conversation with Noel DiBona:
02:13
Delighted to be talking with you all. And I'm curious of all the teams you worked on, I would imagine working in Special Forces, one really learns how to appreciate all the nuances of a team working together for one purpose.
 
02:31
Absolutely George, in a team such as that high performance team, we all knew what our jobs were, we could fill in with for each other, we were cross trained, and were brutally honest with each other.
But we would put our lives on the line for one another. So it was what you would consider to be the utmost highest respect, trust and open communication that you could possibly expect of any high performance team.
It was truly a pleasure and an honor for me to be part of that through my career.
 
03:03
And Noel, did you find that you could take lessons learned in that team environment and apply it into business?
 
03:11
Absolutely, George, one of the things that we were able to do, when I came out of the military was really understand how people are orienting themselves towards getting their work done and how everybody works just a little bit differently.
And when I came out of the military, I was very prone to looking forward to talking to people to understand what they were doing.
And to just put myself in the learn mode. I was very inquisitive, asked lots of questions. I wanted to know how everything worked.
And I got that from being in the military, because we're in contact with so many people, so many different folks from different walks of life, that I'm extremely comfortable dealing with many, many different types of individuals.
And so right from the very beginning, when I got out of the military, I was focused on really building relationships with the people I worked with.
-----
06:52
In taking a deep dive into understanding ourself, and perhaps putting into words, features, characteristics that we never put into words, that's probably good for ourself.
Is that also meant to be shared with the team saying, Hey, guys, here's how I think here's how I think through things. So please don't take it wrong when I do this?
 
07:18
Absolutely. The second part of this is for each individual on the team, to have an honest conversation with one another about their strengths, and their potential blind spots, the things that might make them a little bit not so easy to get along with when there's pressure and stress.
We can talk with each other very openly, honestly, and in a cordial way, when there's no heat on us. But as the team comes under stress, the str]]></itunes:summary>
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        <title>Leadership Story Telling: Alan McLaren</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Why Leaders Need to Tell their Stories
How story telling teaches, builds the brand and humanizes you
<p>Alan McLaren was the global chairman of YPO (Young Presidents' Organization)</p>
<p>Episode 108 (Alan is based in Oakville, Ontario)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Alan McLaren we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why leaders might be obligated to tell their stories</li>
<li>How story telling helps the business</li>
<li>The effective use of story telling as a teaching tool</li>
<li>The relationship between passion and authenticity</li>
<li>The writing on your tombstone</li>
<li>Overcoming the challenge of impostor syndrome</li>
<li>Story telling though videos</li>
</ul>
<p>About Alan McLaren:</p>
<p>Alan has served as CEO of InfinityComm, a creative marketing agency, for 17 years.</p>
<p>As Global Chair of YPO, he lead a board of 15 global CEOs serving 32,000 members in 150 countries with aggregate company revenues of more than $9 trillion.</p>
<p>STRATA Originals is the program for leaders who want to raise their voice and start a conversation that will engage audiences and build trust.</p>
<p>Learn more at the website, <a href='http://www.infinitycomm.ca/home-1'>InfinityComm.ca</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.infinitycomm.ca/strata-home'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Alan McLaren</p>
<p>03:46</p>
<p>CEOs need to get their voice out there in a big way. Because?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:52</p>
<p>Well think about this for a moment. I think there's one part is a bit of a mandate. Our view is, if you've reached a certain level of success in life, isn't it important to give back the things you've learned?</p>
<p>And only you have learned them. By the way. We could argue that there have been 10,000, maybe more books on the topic of leadership.</p>
<p>There's only one human that's experienced your leadership journey. And that's you. So wouldn't that be awesome to be able to to express your learnings to others?</p>
<p>So that's kind of number one, we think it's imperative on leaders to be able to spread that message. But there are other reasons there's building your personal brand, it can actually help grow your business.</p>
<p>I've got a dozen reasons why. But it leads to credibility. You can develop strategic relationships. George, how did we connect again, you saw me on LinkedIn, because I'm out there with my voice and giving me an opportunity to now to share that with your audience.</p>
<p>That's how the game is played. When you're out there, stuff will hit you. So what a great opportunity to get out there teach and then also get opportunities to grow your business and grow your brand.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>05:01</p>
<p>Teach? CEOs don't often think of themself as teachers. Should they?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>05:09</p>
<p>Well, let's think about it in the context of leadership and coaching. We all know that great leaders are also great coaches.</p>
<p>It doesn't mean that everybody with a title is a great leader. Right? We all heard that before.</p>
<p>But a good coach is someone who asks great questions. And by the nature of asking great questions, you need to be very knowledgeable about the topic. So you can have really insightful questions asked, right.</p>
<p>We've all worked for people who were incredible leaders, because what they asked us questions that got us thinking about things. So what we want to do is encourage, and it's part of the learning as well as if you're not a good teacher.</p>
<p>Let us teach you to be a storyteller. So if we teach you to be a storyteller, I mean, George, in your world, as you know, you teach people to be storytellers to be able to get their message out there. It's not just here's the three things on the PowerPoint and go from because it bores the crap out of people.</p>
<p>You want people, engulfed in your story and engulfed in your message. So we want to teach people to do that. And through stories, they will express their experiences and ergo teach people.</p>
<p>So it's not in a traditional way of going to school and learning these three things. No, it's let me share my experience with you. And hopefully, you'll garner something from that. So that's why we we help them do that.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>17:01</p>
<p>Alan, you mentioned that when you started creating videos, what took off wasn't your expertise, but it was what you were passionate about.</p>
<p>And my guess is that that passion was easy to identify, when watching the videos, like clearly this guy is passionate about this as opposed to lecturing.</p>
<p>And is that a criteria that a CEO needs to examine before they start spreading their thought leadership?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>17:35</p>
<p>George, thank you for that. It's the number one thing when you discover passion.</p>
<p>There's nothing that can be faked about that. And so when we look at that, and sometimes by the way, that passion doesn't necessarily relate to the business.</p>
<p>We have a client, who is a competition lawyer, but his passion and his stories come around the power of ideas, to spread my message, which is about hope for the world.</p>
<p>And so it's nothing to do with it. His experience, obviously is helpful. But his passion is about helping people.</p>
<p>So that's what we do with him as we discover that and there are many permutations, by the way of all the customers we have, there's not one that's exactly the same.</p>
<p>Their passions relate sometimes directly to their business, but often they don't. So they're either adjacent or supplementary. And, and we can work with either side of that, but it comes down passion first.</p>
<p>Because then authenticity comes up the passion record, you can't fake it. If I decided to, you know, learn about, I don't know, repairing printers, it wouldn't be passionate about me, I could teach you how to do it. But would you feel it, people feel it, people can feel it through these digital screens, if I'm excited about something, and they can see when it's full of crap.</p>
So that's why passion is number one. And everything else flows from that.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Why Leaders Need to Tell their Stories
How story telling teaches, builds the brand and humanizes you
<p>Alan McLaren was the global chairman of YPO (Young Presidents' Organization)</p>
<p>Episode 108 (Alan is based in Oakville, Ontario)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Alan McLaren we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why leaders might be obligated to tell their stories</li>
<li>How story telling helps the business</li>
<li>The effective use of story telling as a teaching tool</li>
<li>The relationship between passion and authenticity</li>
<li>The writing on your tombstone</li>
<li>Overcoming the challenge of impostor syndrome</li>
<li>Story telling though videos</li>
</ul>
<p>About Alan McLaren:</p>
<p>Alan has served as CEO of InfinityComm, a creative marketing agency, for 17 years.</p>
<p>As Global Chair of YPO, he lead a board of 15 global CEOs serving 32,000 members in 150 countries with aggregate company revenues of more than $9 trillion.</p>
<p>STRATA Originals is the program for leaders who want to raise their voice and start a conversation that will engage audiences and build trust.</p>
<p>Learn more at the website, <a href='http://www.infinitycomm.ca/home-1'>InfinityComm.ca</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.infinitycomm.ca/strata-home'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Alan McLaren</p>
<p>03:46</p>
<p>CEOs need to get their voice out there in a big way. Because?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:52</p>
<p>Well think about this for a moment. I think there's one part is a bit of a mandate. Our view is, if you've reached a certain level of success in life, isn't it important to give back the things you've learned?</p>
<p>And only you have learned them. By the way. We could argue that there have been 10,000, maybe more books on the topic of leadership.</p>
<p>There's only one human that's experienced your leadership journey. And that's you. So wouldn't that be awesome to be able to to express your learnings to others?</p>
<p>So that's kind of number one, we think it's imperative on leaders to be able to spread that message. But there are other reasons there's building your personal brand, it can actually help grow your business.</p>
<p>I've got a dozen reasons why. But it leads to credibility. You can develop strategic relationships. George, how did we connect again, you saw me on LinkedIn, because I'm out there with my voice and giving me an opportunity to now to share that with your audience.</p>
<p>That's how the game is played. When you're out there, stuff will hit you. So what a great opportunity to get out there teach and then also get opportunities to grow your business and grow your brand.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>05:01</p>
<p>Teach? CEOs don't often think of themself as teachers. Should they?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>05:09</p>
<p>Well, let's think about it in the context of leadership and coaching. We all know that great leaders are also great coaches.</p>
<p>It doesn't mean that everybody with a title is a great leader. Right? We all heard that before.</p>
<p>But a good coach is someone who asks great questions. And by the nature of asking great questions, you need to be very knowledgeable about the topic. So you can have really insightful questions asked, right.</p>
<p>We've all worked for people who were incredible leaders, because what they asked us questions that got us thinking about things. So what we want to do is encourage, and it's part of the learning as well as if you're not a good teacher.</p>
<p>Let us teach you to be a storyteller. So if we teach you to be a storyteller, I mean, George, in your world, as you know, you teach people to be storytellers to be able to get their message out there. It's not just here's the three things on the PowerPoint and go from because it bores the crap out of people.</p>
<p>You want people, engulfed in your story and engulfed in your message. So we want to teach people to do that. And through stories, they will express their experiences and ergo teach people.</p>
<p>So it's not in a traditional way of going to school and learning these three things. No, it's let me share my experience with you. And hopefully, you'll garner something from that. So that's why we we help them do that.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>17:01</p>
<p>Alan, you mentioned that when you started creating videos, what took off wasn't your expertise, but it was what you were passionate about.</p>
<p>And my guess is that that passion was easy to identify, when watching the videos, like clearly this guy is passionate about this as opposed to lecturing.</p>
<p>And is that a criteria that a CEO needs to examine before they start spreading their thought leadership?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>17:35</p>
<p>George, thank you for that. It's the number one thing when you discover passion.</p>
<p>There's nothing that can be faked about that. And so when we look at that, and sometimes by the way, that passion doesn't necessarily relate to the business.</p>
<p>We have a client, who is a competition lawyer, but his passion and his stories come around the power of ideas, to spread my message, which is about hope for the world.</p>
<p>And so it's nothing to do with it. His experience, obviously is helpful. But his passion is about helping people.</p>
<p>So that's what we do with him as we discover that and there are many permutations, by the way of all the customers we have, there's not one that's exactly the same.</p>
<p>Their passions relate sometimes directly to their business, but often they don't. So they're either adjacent or supplementary. And, and we can work with either side of that, but it comes down passion first.</p>
<p>Because then authenticity comes up the passion record, you can't fake it. If I decided to, you know, learn about, I don't know, repairing printers, it wouldn't be passionate about me, I could teach you how to do it. But would you feel it, people feel it, people can feel it through these digital screens, if I'm excited about something, and they can see when it's full of crap.</p>
So that's why passion is number one. And everything else flows from that.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by improving your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in executive communication skills. That includes conversation and presentation. He’s fascinated by way we communicate and influence behaviors. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>For weekly tips to improve your presentations visit</em></p>
<p><a href='https://toroktips.com/'>https://toroktips.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why Leaders Need to Tell their Stories
How story telling teaches, builds the brand and humanizes you
Alan McLaren was the global chairman of YPO (Young Presidents' Organization)
Episode 108 (Alan is based in Oakville, Ontario)
In this conversation with Alan McLaren we explore:
Why leaders might be obligated to tell their stories
How story telling helps the business
The effective use of story telling as a teaching tool
The relationship between passion and authenticity
The writing on your tombstone
Overcoming the challenge of impostor syndrome
Story telling though videos
About Alan McLaren:
Alan has served as CEO of InfinityComm, a creative marketing agency, for 17 years.
As Global Chair of YPO, he lead a board of 15 global CEOs serving 32,000 members in 150 countries with aggregate company revenues of more than $9 trillion.
STRATA Originals is the program for leaders who want to raise their voice and start a conversation that will engage audiences and build trust.
Learn more at the website, InfinityComm.ca

-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Alan McLaren
03:46
CEOs need to get their voice out there in a big way. Because?
 
03:52
Well think about this for a moment. I think there's one part is a bit of a mandate. Our view is, if you've reached a certain level of success in life, isn't it important to give back the things you've learned?
And only you have learned them. By the way. We could argue that there have been 10,000, maybe more books on the topic of leadership.
There's only one human that's experienced your leadership journey. And that's you. So wouldn't that be awesome to be able to to express your learnings to others?
So that's kind of number one, we think it's imperative on leaders to be able to spread that message. But there are other reasons there's building your personal brand, it can actually help grow your business.
I've got a dozen reasons why. But it leads to credibility. You can develop strategic relationships. George, how did we connect again, you saw me on LinkedIn, because I'm out there with my voice and giving me an opportunity to now to share that with your audience.
That's how the game is played. When you're out there, stuff will hit you. So what a great opportunity to get out there teach and then also get opportunities to grow your business and grow your brand.
-----
05:01
Teach? CEOs don't often think of themself as teachers. Should they?
 
05:09
Well, let's think about it in the context of leadership and coaching. We all know that great leaders are also great coaches.
It doesn't mean that everybody with a title is a great leader. Right? We all heard that before.
But a good coach is someone who asks great questions. And by the nature of asking great questions, you need to be very knowledgeable about the topic. So you can have really insightful questions asked, right.
We've all worked for people who were incredible leaders, because what they asked us questions that got us thinking about things. So what we want to do is encourage, and it's part of the learning as well as if you're not a good teacher.
Let us teach you to be a storyteller. So if we teach you to be a storyteller, I mean, George, in your world, as you know, you teach people to be storytellers to be able to get their message out there. It's not just here's the three things on the PowerPoint and go from because it bores the crap out of people.
You want people, engulfed in your story and engulfed in your message. So we want to teach people to do that. And through stories, they will express their experiences and ergo teach people.
So it's not in a traditional way of going to school and learning these three things. No, it's let me share my experience with you. And hopefully, you'll garner something from that. So that's why we we help them do that.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Critical Thinking and Communication Skills are Linked
How effective communication skills can save time and money
<p>Jim Rowe has 45 years in marketing both on the client side and the agency side.</p>
<p>Episode 107 ( Jim is based on Long Island, New York)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jim Rowe we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The skills gap and why we should change STEM learning to STEAM</li>
<li>The skills gap in problem solving and writing skills</li>
<li>Why writing is essential to critical thinking</li>
<li>Why writing skills have suffered and what can we do</li>
<li>Why people don't know what they don't know</li>
<li>How communication challenges wastes executives' time</li>
<li>The importance of getting messages down to one page</li>
</ul>
<p>About Jim Rowe:</p>
<p>Jim served as Brand Manager with Coke, VP Marketing with Cutty Sark and President of two small Satchi divisions. Currently leading Jim Rowe Marketing. Jim published a 2-book series, <a href='https://www.jimrowemarketing.com/getyourducksinarowe'>Get Your Ducks in a Rowe</a>. It's a fable that helps executives address the skills gap of their new employees.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://www.jimrowemarketing.com/getyourducksinarowe'></a>     <a href='https://www.jimrowemarketing.com/getyourducksinarowe'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Jim Rowe</p>
To write is to think
<p>-----</p>
ADAPTER
<p>Analyze - Deduce - Author - Preform - Tackle - Evaluate - Refine</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>03:38</p>
<p>What has happened is that the we are not really teaching our young executives and young people in school, we're not teaching them to be disciplined thinkers in order to communicate better.</p>
<p>And I think what happens is, you know, if you say to somebody, do you know how to write and you know how to think, and you know, how to communicate, everybody's gonna say, yes, because we do it all day long on social media.</p>
<p>However, there is so little training as it relates to writing and that to me, my fundamental premise, here is five words - to write is to think.</p>
<p>And I think we do so little writing that doesn't fit we don't, and students in general, and a lot of executives, if we don't spend our time writing, we're not training ourselves to think clearly. And I think that's really a big part of the problem.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>34:06</p>
<p>And Jim, I think I heard a message in there is that investing in improving the communication skills, saves money.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>34:14</p>
<p>Well, yeah, it saves money. And because what is the big phrase that we've heard all of our lives "Time is money".</p>
<p>And think about the senior executive, his most precious personal resource is time. And wouldn't you know, when I walk into a meeting, and everybody's not sure nobody had an agenda,</p>
<p>I have a very good friend who was just hired away from a big company to go be the account person at another huge company. We know all the names. And in the interview, because he read the book, and he loved it, and he and he said to me, You know what, one of the questions they said and the point they made, it would be great if you could just get here and get everybody to have an agenda for the meeting.</p>
<p>Isn't that incredible? Isn't that incredible than an enormous organization is concerned that nobody is pulling the team together.</p>
<p>I have another friend who's in a small company read the book Love that. He said, I'm thinking of using this for everybody because our zoom meetings because they're all over the country, they're chaotic and people are talking.</p>
<p>Just go through the simple 10 step process. You know when you're setting up for a golf swing, there's about six steps you got to do and trying to keep them on your mind is one thing.</p>
<p>The same goes true for communication and thinking, follow the format and everything is going to be a little bit easier for you.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Critical Thinking and Communication Skills are Linked
How effective communication skills can save time and money
<p>Jim Rowe has 45 years in marketing both on the client side and the agency side.</p>
<p>Episode 107 ( Jim is based on Long Island, New York)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jim Rowe we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The skills gap and why we should change STEM learning to STEAM</li>
<li>The skills gap in problem solving and writing skills</li>
<li>Why writing is essential to critical thinking</li>
<li>Why writing skills have suffered and what can we do</li>
<li>Why people don't know what they don't know</li>
<li>How communication challenges wastes executives' time</li>
<li>The importance of getting messages down to one page</li>
</ul>
<p>About Jim Rowe:</p>
<p>Jim served as Brand Manager with Coke, VP Marketing with Cutty Sark and President of two small Satchi divisions. Currently leading Jim Rowe Marketing. Jim published a 2-book series, <a href='https://www.jimrowemarketing.com/getyourducksinarowe'>Get Your Ducks in a Rowe</a>. It's a fable that helps executives address the skills gap of their new employees.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://www.jimrowemarketing.com/getyourducksinarowe'></a>     <a href='https://www.jimrowemarketing.com/getyourducksinarowe'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Jim Rowe</p>
To write is to think
<p>-----</p>
ADAPTER
<p>Analyze - Deduce - Author - Preform - Tackle - Evaluate - Refine</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>03:38</p>
<p>What has happened is that the we are not really teaching our young executives and young people in school, we're not teaching them to be disciplined thinkers in order to communicate better.</p>
<p>And I think what happens is, you know, if you say to somebody, do you know how to write and you know how to think, and you know, how to communicate, everybody's gonna say, yes, because we do it all day long on social media.</p>
<p>However, there is so little training as it relates to writing and that to me, my fundamental premise, here is five words - to write is to think.</p>
<p>And I think we do so little writing that doesn't fit we don't, and students in general, and a lot of executives, if we don't spend our time writing, we're not training ourselves to think clearly. And I think that's really a big part of the problem.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>34:06</p>
<p>And Jim, I think I heard a message in there is that investing in improving the communication skills, saves money.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>34:14</p>
<p>Well, yeah, it saves money. And because what is the big phrase that we've heard all of our lives "Time is money".</p>
<p>And think about the senior executive, his most precious personal resource is time. And wouldn't you know, when I walk into a meeting, and everybody's not sure nobody had an agenda,</p>
<p>I have a very good friend who was just hired away from a big company to go be the account person at another huge company. We know all the names. And in the interview, because he read the book, and he loved it, and he and he said to me, You know what, one of the questions they said and the point they made, it would be great if you could just get here and get everybody to have an agenda for the meeting.</p>
<p>Isn't that incredible? Isn't that incredible than an enormous organization is concerned that nobody is pulling the team together.</p>
<p>I have another friend who's in a small company read the book Love that. He said, I'm thinking of using this for everybody because our zoom meetings because they're all over the country, they're chaotic and people are talking.</p>
<p>Just go through the simple 10 step process. You know when you're setting up for a golf swing, there's about six steps you got to do and trying to keep them on your mind is one thing.</p>
<p>The same goes true for communication and thinking, follow the format and everything is going to be a little bit easier for you.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Critical Thinking and Communication Skills are Linked
How effective communication skills can save time and money
Jim Rowe has 45 years in marketing both on the client side and the agency side.
Episode 107 ( Jim is based on Long Island, New York)
In this conversation with Jim Rowe we explore:
The skills gap and why we should change STEM learning to STEAM
The skills gap in problem solving and writing skills
Why writing is essential to critical thinking
Why writing skills have suffered and what can we do
Why people don't know what they don't know
How communication challenges wastes executives' time
The importance of getting messages down to one page
About Jim Rowe:
Jim served as Brand Manager with Coke, VP Marketing with Cutty Sark and President of two small Satchi divisions. Currently leading Jim Rowe Marketing. Jim published a 2-book series, Get Your Ducks in a Rowe. It's a fable that helps executives address the skills gap of their new employees.
 
     
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Excerpts from this conversation with Jim Rowe
To write is to think
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ADAPTER
Analyze - Deduce - Author - Preform - Tackle - Evaluate - Refine
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03:38
What has happened is that the we are not really teaching our young executives and young people in school, we're not teaching them to be disciplined thinkers in order to communicate better.
And I think what happens is, you know, if you say to somebody, do you know how to write and you know how to think, and you know, how to communicate, everybody's gonna say, yes, because we do it all day long on social media.
However, there is so little training as it relates to writing and that to me, my fundamental premise, here is five words - to write is to think.
And I think we do so little writing that doesn't fit we don't, and students in general, and a lot of executives, if we don't spend our time writing, we're not training ourselves to think clearly. And I think that's really a big part of the problem.
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34:06
And Jim, I think I heard a message in there is that investing in improving the communication skills, saves money.
 
34:14
Well, yeah, it saves money. And because what is the big phrase that we've heard all of our lives "Time is money".
And think about the senior executive, his most precious personal resource is time. And wouldn't you know, when I walk into a meeting, and everybody's not sure nobody had an agenda,
I have a very good friend who was just hired away from a big company to go be the account person at another huge company. We know all the names. And in the interview, because he read the book, and he loved it, and he and he said to me, You know what, one of the questions they said and the point they made, it would be great if you could just get here and get everybody to have an agenda for the meeting.
Isn't that incredible? Isn't that incredible than an enormous organization is concerned that nobody is pulling the team together.
I have another friend who's in a small company read the book Love that. He said, I'm thinking of using this for everybody because our zoom meetings because they're all over the country, they're chaotic and people are talking.
Just go through the simple 10 step process. You know when you're setting up for a golf swing, there's about six steps you got to do and trying to keep them on your mind is one thing.
The same goes true for communication and thinking, follow the format and everything is going to be a little bit easier for you.
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Giving will reward you more than taking
Yes, you can build your business and life with the intention to serve
<p>Jim Hardwick is a Fractional VP Sales who has started leading a C suite executive retreat to Kenya. </p>
<p>Episode 106 (Jim is based in Phoenix, Arizona)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jim Hardwick we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What does it mean to embrace your servant's heart?</li>
<li>How can you get more success by giving instead of taking?</li>
<li>What if people take advantage of your generosity?</li>
<li>Why did you start leading dental expeditions to Kenya?</li>
<li>What benefit does a fractional VP Sales bring to a corporation?</li>
</ul>
<p>About Jim Hardwick:</p>
<p>Jim is president of Aspire Sales. He has over 25 years experience as a VP Sales and offers his service as a fractional VP sales for corporations.</p>
<p>He and his wife, Jody lead a dental team to Kenya each year.</p>
<p>In 2023 Jim will lead a safari experience to Kenya for C suite executives with an emphasis on how to embrace your servant's heart.</p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
<p>Jim welcomes your questions about sales. Enjoy a no-charge conversation with him. </p>
<p>Call him - 623-451-1080</p>
<p>Email - <a href='mailto:jhardwick@salesxceleration.com'>jhardwick@salesxceleration.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/jim-hardwick-2b016914/'>Jim Hardwick on Linkedin</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Jim Hardwick</p>
Don't serve to say, "I served". It's not a checkbox
<p>---</p>
<p>But if you don't have that passion, then serving becomes a chore. And when it's a chore, then it's not your heart that's serving.  .You're serving because you feel  obligated to serve. Once you find that passion like we found in Kenya, the place we never wanted to go, It's amazing what transpires.</p>
<p>-----</p>
I give away free advice. If you have sales pain, if you need a question about sales, call me. I'm here, call me.
<p>When I do that. George, I get calls. I talked to a CEO of a health care company, I was in healthcare for 36 years. And he knows software, unbelievable. He's got a great program, but he's still trying to learn about health care, I spent an hour with the gentleman. I didn't bill them for my time, because if I can help him elevate his business, guess what, we all win, because that's going to come back to me someday.</p>
<p>And that's, that's the way I live my life. I don't worry about where my next clients gonna come from.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>26:59</p>
<p>I would say be real, be vulnerable with your employees build trust, when you can gain that trust, and the employees know that you're there to help them be successful.</p>
<p>And they sincerely feel that your business is going to take off. It's just taking that extra two minutes, sometimes just to praise somebody when they've done a good job with recognition.</p>
<p>And you've acknowledged them. I've seen it a lot where in this is not necessarily the case in small business owners, but for large corporations, when the CEO walks in walks in, you can tell a joke and it might not be funny, but everybody laughs right, because that's the right thing to do.</p>
<p>The important thing for those folks, is it down on the level of your employees understand what their issues are. Don't surround yourself with all the Yes Men.</p>
<p>We'll be out in the field, talk to your customers, your customers that are buying from you. If they're not buying from you better darn well figure out why because ultimately, it's your responsibility.</p>
<p>So it's not hard. The people make it hard. It's that trust. It's that vulnerability, and then lead with passion and lead with that servant's heart.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Giving will reward you more than taking
Yes, you can build your business and life with the intention to serve
<p>Jim Hardwick is a Fractional VP Sales who has started leading a C suite executive retreat to Kenya. </p>
<p>Episode 106 (Jim is based in Phoenix, Arizona)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jim Hardwick we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What does it mean to embrace your servant's heart?</li>
<li>How can you get more success by giving instead of taking?</li>
<li>What if people take advantage of your generosity?</li>
<li>Why did you start leading dental expeditions to Kenya?</li>
<li>What benefit does a fractional VP Sales bring to a corporation?</li>
</ul>
<p>About Jim Hardwick:</p>
<p>Jim is president of Aspire Sales. He has over 25 years experience as a VP Sales and offers his service as a fractional VP sales for corporations.</p>
<p>He and his wife, Jody lead a dental team to Kenya each year.</p>
<p>In 2023 Jim will lead a safari experience to Kenya for C suite executives with an emphasis on how to embrace your servant's heart.</p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
<p>Jim welcomes your questions about sales. Enjoy a no-charge conversation with him. </p>
<p>Call him - 623-451-1080</p>
<p>Email - <a href='mailto:jhardwick@salesxceleration.com'>jhardwick@salesxceleration.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/jim-hardwick-2b016914/'>Jim Hardwick on Linkedin</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Jim Hardwick</p>
Don't serve to say, "I served". It's not a checkbox
<p>---</p>
<p>But if you don't have that passion, then serving becomes a chore. And when it's a chore, then it's not your heart that's serving.  .You're serving because you feel  obligated to serve. Once you find that passion like we found in Kenya, the place we never wanted to go, It's amazing what transpires.</p>
<p>-----</p>
I give away free advice. If you have sales pain, if you need a question about sales, call me. I'm here, call me.
<p>When I do that. George, I get calls. I talked to a CEO of a health care company, I was in healthcare for 36 years. And he knows software, unbelievable. He's got a great program, but he's still trying to learn about health care, I spent an hour with the gentleman. I didn't bill them for my time, because if I can help him elevate his business, guess what, we all win, because that's going to come back to me someday.</p>
<p>And that's, that's the way I live my life. I don't worry about where my next clients gonna come from.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>26:59</p>
<p>I would say be real, be vulnerable with your employees build trust, when you can gain that trust, and the employees know that you're there to help them be successful.</p>
<p>And they sincerely feel that your business is going to take off. It's just taking that extra two minutes, sometimes just to praise somebody when they've done a good job with recognition.</p>
<p>And you've acknowledged them. I've seen it a lot where in this is not necessarily the case in small business owners, but for large corporations, when the CEO walks in walks in, you can tell a joke and it might not be funny, but everybody laughs right, because that's the right thing to do.</p>
<p>The important thing for those folks, is it down on the level of your employees understand what their issues are. Don't surround yourself with all the Yes Men.</p>
<p>We'll be out in the field, talk to your customers, your customers that are buying from you. If they're not buying from you better darn well figure out why because ultimately, it's your responsibility.</p>
<p>So it's not hard. The people make it hard. It's that trust. It's that vulnerability, and then lead with passion and lead with that servant's heart.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Giving will reward you more than taking
Yes, you can build your business and life with the intention to serve
Jim Hardwick is a Fractional VP Sales who has started leading a C suite executive retreat to Kenya. 
Episode 106 (Jim is based in Phoenix, Arizona)
In this conversation with Jim Hardwick we explore:
What does it mean to embrace your servant's heart?
How can you get more success by giving instead of taking?
What if people take advantage of your generosity?
Why did you start leading dental expeditions to Kenya?
What benefit does a fractional VP Sales bring to a corporation?
About Jim Hardwick:
Jim is president of Aspire Sales. He has over 25 years experience as a VP Sales and offers his service as a fractional VP sales for corporations.
He and his wife, Jody lead a dental team to Kenya each year.
In 2023 Jim will lead a safari experience to Kenya for C suite executives with an emphasis on how to embrace your servant's heart.
 

Jim welcomes your questions about sales. Enjoy a no-charge conversation with him. 
Call him - 623-451-1080
Email - jhardwick@salesxceleration.com
Jim Hardwick on Linkedin
 
Excerpts from this conversation with Jim Hardwick
Don't serve to say, "I served". It's not a checkbox
---
But if you don't have that passion, then serving becomes a chore. And when it's a chore, then it's not your heart that's serving.  .You're serving because you feel  obligated to serve. Once you find that passion like we found in Kenya, the place we never wanted to go, It's amazing what transpires.
-----
I give away free advice. If you have sales pain, if you need a question about sales, call me. I'm here, call me.
When I do that. George, I get calls. I talked to a CEO of a health care company, I was in healthcare for 36 years. And he knows software, unbelievable. He's got a great program, but he's still trying to learn about health care, I spent an hour with the gentleman. I didn't bill them for my time, because if I can help him elevate his business, guess what, we all win, because that's going to come back to me someday.
And that's, that's the way I live my life. I don't worry about where my next clients gonna come from.
 
26:59
I would say be real, be vulnerable with your employees build trust, when you can gain that trust, and the employees know that you're there to help them be successful.
And they sincerely feel that your business is going to take off. It's just taking that extra two minutes, sometimes just to praise somebody when they've done a good job with recognition.
And you've acknowledged them. I've seen it a lot where in this is not necessarily the case in small business owners, but for large corporations, when the CEO walks in walks in, you can tell a joke and it might not be funny, but everybody laughs right, because that's the right thing to do.
The important thing for those folks, is it down on the level of your employees understand what their issues are. Don't surround yourself with all the Yes Men.
We'll be out in the field, talk to your customers, your customers that are buying from you. If they're not buying from you better darn well figure out why because ultimately, it's your responsibility.
So it's not hard. The people make it hard. It's that trust. It's that vulnerability, and then lead with passion and lead with that servant's heart.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
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        <title>Communicate in the Hybrid Workplace: Brenden Kumarasamy</title>
        <itunes:title>Communicate in the Hybrid Workplace: Brenden Kumarasamy</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to communicate in the changing workplace
Build smarter relationships with the people around you
<p>Brenden Kumarasamy publishes instructional videos on his YouTube channel, MasterTalk with over 25,000 subscribers.</p>
<p>Episode 105 (Brenden is based in Montreal, Canada)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Brenden we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The challenges of communicating well in a hybrid workplace</li>
<li>How to build stronger relationships by managing your energy</li>
<li>How questions can improve your communication and hence relationships</li>
<li>Why a phone call or video message can make a big difference</li>
<li>How to rate your relationships on value</li>
<li>Why treating people fairly doesn't mean treating them all the same</li>
<li>Three exercises to boost your communication skills</li>
<li>Why you need to care better for your best relationships</li>
</ul>
<p>About Brenden Kumarasamy:</p>
<p>Brenden is the founder of MasterTalk, he coaches ambitious executives &amp; entrepreneurs to become top 1% communicators in their industry.</p>
<p>He also has a popular YouTube channel called MasterTalk, with the goal of providing free access to communication tools for everyone in the world.</p>
<p>For free resources on how to improve your communication skills, visit </p>
<p><a href='https://www.rockstarcommunicator.com/'>RockStarCommunicator.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://www.rockstarcommunicator.com/'></a></p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Brenden Kumarasamy</p>
If you communicate 20% better, not 200% better, not 200,000% better. If you communicate 20% better than your competition, you will stand out 100% of the time.
<p> </p>
<p>02:21</p>
<p>So the way that I think about this, George is communication is so much more than giving a presentation at work or doing a job interview.</p>
<p>It's every interaction we'll have with every human being will meet for the rest of our lives. It's the way we talk to our families. It's the way we order food at a restaurant, and we talk to the waiter. It's the way that we travel.</p>
<p>When we meet strangers, we don't know we have to speak their language and figure out how to talk to them. So we can have a good time communication.</p>
<p>Once we realize George is not just about increasing the bottom line, but leading a fulfilling life. That's when we start to take it more seriously.</p>
<p>And the question to think about as we get this conversation started, George is how would your life change?</p>
<p>If you are an exceptional communicator, a lot of us dream about our vacations, we dream about the expensive things we want to buy.</p>
<p>But we don't dream hard enough about a world in which we're a great communicator in it.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>28:13</p>
<p>And And now, what does that mean to people when they go back into the workplace? If they had a set of rules for Okay, when I'm in a online meeting versus an in person meeting? What should I do differently?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>28:28</p>
<p>100%. So there's three key differences.</p>
<p>The first one is eye contact. So in their virtual George, your eyes generally just stay in one direction, which is the camera lens, whether you're speaking to one person or 10,000.</p>
<p>But in person, meaning let's assume 16 People for the purposes of this podcast, you have to move your eyes across, because there's just looking at one direction, most of you gonna be like, oh, did this person care about me does this person and human beings start to invent stories in their mind around while you're not looking at them.</p>
<p>Human beings are fascinating creatures. So that's the first thing is I would start there.</p>
<p>The second difference between online and in person is there's the less friction to get feedback. So in an virtual meeting, if you want to get feedback on how it went, things we could do differently. You have to really sit them down one on one, get a zoom call, it's a lot more formal.</p>
<p>In person, you'll say Okay, guys, how did that go? What can we do next time it's a lot more. It's not the right term is but it's a lot more vivacious. It's more live, it's more like it's within the energy, it's in the flow of the group.</p>
<p>Whereas in virtual, it's not as it's not as cool. It's not as interesting. That's probably the second key difference.</p>
<p>And then the third difference is the follow up. So the follow up means if you're in a meeting with somebody in person, I mean, you guys can hang out after the meeting. Right? You can get some dinner after it's a lot easier.</p>
<p>It's much harder, virtually. So my best bet now I gave different advice at the height of the pandemic but I'll So my advice now is if you're having too many virtual meetings with your team, try to find a way to meet them in person, if you can, if you can, if not do the virtual social hour if you want.</p>
<p>But ideally, you want to try and get those things back in person. And one special tip I'll give, that a lot of leaders I coach don't really do enough, is if you all have a fully remote team, write down everyone's location, so that when people join the company, introducing the people in their own city so that at least they can meet in many groups, I'm so surprised at the fact that nobody really takes that extra step.</p>
<p>And it really makes a difference.</p>
<p>-----</p>
So at Rockstar communicator.com, you'll find access to a ton of free trainings that we do on communication, we have a zoom call that I do every few week.
I facilitate it. So for those of you who are interested, feel free to register for it. And it's completely free. And it's fun, and it's interactive. And I hope to see you there.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to communicate in the changing workplace
Build smarter relationships with the people around you
<p>Brenden Kumarasamy publishes instructional videos on his YouTube channel, MasterTalk with over 25,000 subscribers.</p>
<p>Episode 105 (Brenden is based in Montreal, Canada)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Brenden we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The challenges of communicating well in a hybrid workplace</li>
<li>How to build stronger relationships by managing your energy</li>
<li>How questions can improve your communication and hence relationships</li>
<li>Why a phone call or video message can make a big difference</li>
<li>How to rate your relationships on value</li>
<li>Why treating people fairly doesn't mean treating them all the same</li>
<li>Three exercises to boost your communication skills</li>
<li>Why you need to care better for your best relationships</li>
</ul>
<p>About Brenden Kumarasamy:</p>
<p>Brenden is the founder of MasterTalk, he coaches ambitious executives &amp; entrepreneurs to become top 1% communicators in their industry.</p>
<p>He also has a popular YouTube channel called MasterTalk, with the goal of providing free access to communication tools for everyone in the world.</p>
<p>For free resources on how to improve your communication skills, visit </p>
<p><a href='https://www.rockstarcommunicator.com/'>RockStarCommunicator.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://www.rockstarcommunicator.com/'></a></p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Brenden Kumarasamy</p>
If you communicate 20% better, not 200% better, not 200,000% better. If you communicate 20% better than your competition, you will stand out 100% of the time.
<p> </p>
<p>02:21</p>
<p>So the way that I think about this, George is communication is so much more than giving a presentation at work or doing a job interview.</p>
<p>It's every interaction we'll have with every human being will meet for the rest of our lives. It's the way we talk to our families. It's the way we order food at a restaurant, and we talk to the waiter. It's the way that we travel.</p>
<p>When we meet strangers, we don't know we have to speak their language and figure out how to talk to them. So we can have a good time communication.</p>
<p>Once we realize George is not just about increasing the bottom line, but leading a fulfilling life. That's when we start to take it more seriously.</p>
<p>And the question to think about as we get this conversation started, George is how would your life change?</p>
<p>If you are an exceptional communicator, a lot of us dream about our vacations, we dream about the expensive things we want to buy.</p>
<p>But we don't dream hard enough about a world in which we're a great communicator in it.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>28:13</p>
<p>And And now, what does that mean to people when they go back into the workplace? If they had a set of rules for Okay, when I'm in a online meeting versus an in person meeting? What should I do differently?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>28:28</p>
<p>100%. So there's three key differences.</p>
<p>The first one is eye contact. So in their virtual George, your eyes generally just stay in one direction, which is the camera lens, whether you're speaking to one person or 10,000.</p>
<p>But in person, meaning let's assume 16 People for the purposes of this podcast, you have to move your eyes across, because there's just looking at one direction, most of you gonna be like, oh, did this person care about me does this person and human beings start to invent stories in their mind around while you're not looking at them.</p>
<p>Human beings are fascinating creatures. So that's the first thing is I would start there.</p>
<p>The second difference between online and in person is there's the less friction to get feedback. So in an virtual meeting, if you want to get feedback on how it went, things we could do differently. You have to really sit them down one on one, get a zoom call, it's a lot more formal.</p>
<p>In person, you'll say Okay, guys, how did that go? What can we do next time it's a lot more. It's not the right term is but it's a lot more vivacious. It's more live, it's more like it's within the energy, it's in the flow of the group.</p>
<p>Whereas in virtual, it's not as it's not as cool. It's not as interesting. That's probably the second key difference.</p>
<p>And then the third difference is the follow up. So the follow up means if you're in a meeting with somebody in person, I mean, you guys can hang out after the meeting. Right? You can get some dinner after it's a lot easier.</p>
<p>It's much harder, virtually. So my best bet now I gave different advice at the height of the pandemic but I'll So my advice now is if you're having too many virtual meetings with your team, try to find a way to meet them in person, if you can, if you can, if not do the virtual social hour if you want.</p>
<p>But ideally, you want to try and get those things back in person. And one special tip I'll give, that a lot of leaders I coach don't really do enough, is if you all have a fully remote team, write down everyone's location, so that when people join the company, introducing the people in their own city so that at least they can meet in many groups, I'm so surprised at the fact that nobody really takes that extra step.</p>
<p>And it really makes a difference.</p>
<p>-----</p>
So at Rockstar communicator.com, you'll find access to a ton of free trainings that we do on communication, we have a zoom call that I do every few week.
I facilitate it. So for those of you who are interested, feel free to register for it. And it's completely free. And it's fun, and it's interactive. And I hope to see you there.
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to communicate in the changing workplace
Build smarter relationships with the people around you
Brenden Kumarasamy publishes instructional videos on his YouTube channel, MasterTalk with over 25,000 subscribers.
Episode 105 (Brenden is based in Montreal, Canada)
In this conversation with Brenden we explore:
The challenges of communicating well in a hybrid workplace
How to build stronger relationships by managing your energy
How questions can improve your communication and hence relationships
Why a phone call or video message can make a big difference
How to rate your relationships on value
Why treating people fairly doesn't mean treating them all the same
Three exercises to boost your communication skills
Why you need to care better for your best relationships
About Brenden Kumarasamy:
Brenden is the founder of MasterTalk, he coaches ambitious executives &amp; entrepreneurs to become top 1% communicators in their industry.
He also has a popular YouTube channel called MasterTalk, with the goal of providing free access to communication tools for everyone in the world.
For free resources on how to improve your communication skills, visit 
RockStarCommunicator.com
 

Excerpts from this conversation with Brenden Kumarasamy
If you communicate 20% better, not 200% better, not 200,000% better. If you communicate 20% better than your competition, you will stand out 100% of the time.
 
02:21
So the way that I think about this, George is communication is so much more than giving a presentation at work or doing a job interview.
It's every interaction we'll have with every human being will meet for the rest of our lives. It's the way we talk to our families. It's the way we order food at a restaurant, and we talk to the waiter. It's the way that we travel.
When we meet strangers, we don't know we have to speak their language and figure out how to talk to them. So we can have a good time communication.
Once we realize George is not just about increasing the bottom line, but leading a fulfilling life. That's when we start to take it more seriously.
And the question to think about as we get this conversation started, George is how would your life change?
If you are an exceptional communicator, a lot of us dream about our vacations, we dream about the expensive things we want to buy.
But we don't dream hard enough about a world in which we're a great communicator in it.
-----
28:13
And And now, what does that mean to people when they go back into the workplace? If they had a set of rules for Okay, when I'm in a online meeting versus an in person meeting? What should I do differently?
 
28:28
100%. So there's three key differences.
The first one is eye contact. So in their virtual George, your eyes generally just stay in one direction, which is the camera lens, whether you're speaking to one person or 10,000.
But in person, meaning let's assume 16 People for the purposes of this podcast, you have to move your eyes across, because there's just looking at one direction, most of you gonna be like, oh, did this person care about me does this person and human beings start to invent stories in their mind around while you're not looking at them.
Human beings are fascinating creatures. So that's the first thing is I would start there.
The second difference between online and in person is there's the less friction to get feedback. So in an virtual meeting, if you want to get feedback on how it went, things we could do differently. You have to really sit them down one on one, get a zoom call, it's a lot more formal.
In person, you'll say Okay, guys, how did that go? What can we do next time it's a lot more. It's not the right term is but it's a lot more vivacious. It's more live, it's more like it's within the energy, it's in the flow of the group.
Whereas in virtual, it's not as it's not as cool. It's not as interesting. That's probably the second key difference.
And then the third difference is the follow up. So the follow up means if yo]]></itunes:summary>
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Talk to the media to convey your corporate messages with personal flavor
<p>Ed Barks has 25 years experience as a specialist in media communications.</p>
<p>Episode 104 (Ed is based in Washington DC)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Ed Barks we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why business leaders should develop positive relations with the media</li>
<li>How to approach the media to help spread your message</li>
<li>How to prepare for media interviews</li>
<li>How to answer questions that you don't want to address</li>
<li>Why you should never say "No comment"</li>
<li>When the office sceptic becomes an asset</li>
<li>How to develop your soundbites</li>
</ul>
<p>About Ed Barks:</p>
<p>Ed is president of Barks Communications with 25 years experience working with communication and government relations executives to help their companies reach long-term business and public policy goals. </p>
<p>He is the author of four books. The most recent is "Insider Strategies for the Confident Communicator: How to Master Meetings, Presentations, Interviews and Advocacy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://barkscomm.com/eds-books/'>https://barkscomm.com/eds-books/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Ed Barks</p>
Internalize your message so you can verbalize your message.
<p> </p>
<p>02:57</p>
<p>I'm going to kind of flip that a little bit George, if you don't mind and talk about the positives of it.</p>
<p>And when you look at how you're interacting with the media, you need a number of things. And let me focus on two right at the top.</p>
<p>First is your message, you need a magnetic message or George as you refer to it your intended message. So it's a matter of knowing what you're going to say it's developing that message ahead of time, and it's being able to stick to it during the course of your interview.</p>
<p>No matter what questions come up, and what questions the reporter may toss out, you need to keep coming back to that message. Now the second key that I'll mention is the notion of sustained professional development.</p>
<p>You can't just do one interview and think you've got it nailed. Or certainly you can't go into your first ever interview without any preparation in any planning. So what that indicates is that you need to over the long haul, sharpen your communications edge.</p>
<p>And that involves starting off perhaps with low risk situations, maybe you're talking to a local shop or a kind of newspaper or a trade journal that doesn't get a whole lot of circulation. And then you build upon that until maybe one day you're ready for CNN or the New York Times. So those are a couple of things that are key right off the top.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>18:22</p>
<p>And when when one is being interviewed by a reporter, is it is the rule that you must answer every question.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>18:34</p>
<p>Well, you have to answer every question. Sure. But on your terms, and what I mean by that we talked we spoke a few moments ago about some techniques for dealing with Q&A.</p>
<p>And so you need to look at how you can manage those questions and build a bridge from that question to your intended answer your intended message.</p>
<p>So look at how you can take the question and build upon it and you don't want to be accused of spin.</p>
<p>You know, we've all heard these, Sunday morning talk shows where the host says to the senator, well, gee, isn't this a beautiful day outdoors, and the senator says, Well, yes, my favorite color is red.</p>
<p>You can't be talking on on two distinct planes like this, you have to find a way to meet in the middle. So that's where those techniques for Q&A come into play. And I go into those in depth in both Reporters Don't Hate You and in the most recent book, Insider Strategies for the Confident Communicator.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Why and how to talk to the media?
Talk to the media to convey your corporate messages with personal flavor
<p>Ed Barks has 25 years experience as a specialist in media communications.</p>
<p>Episode 104 (Ed is based in Washington DC)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Ed Barks we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why business leaders should develop positive relations with the media</li>
<li>How to approach the media to help spread your message</li>
<li>How to prepare for media interviews</li>
<li>How to answer questions that you don't want to address</li>
<li>Why you should never say "No comment"</li>
<li>When the office sceptic becomes an asset</li>
<li>How to develop your soundbites</li>
</ul>
<p>About Ed Barks:</p>
<p>Ed is president of Barks Communications with 25 years experience working with communication and government relations executives to help their companies reach long-term business and public policy goals. </p>
<p>He is the author of four books. The most recent is "Insider Strategies for the Confident Communicator: How to Master Meetings, Presentations, Interviews and Advocacy.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://barkscomm.com/eds-books/'>https://barkscomm.com/eds-books/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Ed Barks</p>
Internalize your message so you can verbalize your message.
<p> </p>
<p>02:57</p>
<p>I'm going to kind of flip that a little bit George, if you don't mind and talk about the positives of it.</p>
<p>And when you look at how you're interacting with the media, you need a number of things. And let me focus on two right at the top.</p>
<p>First is your message, you need a magnetic message or George as you refer to it your intended message. So it's a matter of knowing what you're going to say it's developing that message ahead of time, and it's being able to stick to it during the course of your interview.</p>
<p>No matter what questions come up, and what questions the reporter may toss out, you need to keep coming back to that message. Now the second key that I'll mention is the notion of sustained professional development.</p>
<p>You can't just do one interview and think you've got it nailed. Or certainly you can't go into your first ever interview without any preparation in any planning. So what that indicates is that you need to over the long haul, sharpen your communications edge.</p>
<p>And that involves starting off perhaps with low risk situations, maybe you're talking to a local shop or a kind of newspaper or a trade journal that doesn't get a whole lot of circulation. And then you build upon that until maybe one day you're ready for CNN or the New York Times. So those are a couple of things that are key right off the top.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>18:22</p>
<p>And when when one is being interviewed by a reporter, is it is the rule that you must answer every question.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>18:34</p>
<p>Well, you have to answer every question. Sure. But on your terms, and what I mean by that we talked we spoke a few moments ago about some techniques for dealing with Q&A.</p>
<p>And so you need to look at how you can manage those questions and build a bridge from that question to your intended answer your intended message.</p>
<p>So look at how you can take the question and build upon it and you don't want to be accused of spin.</p>
<p>You know, we've all heard these, Sunday morning talk shows where the host says to the senator, well, gee, isn't this a beautiful day outdoors, and the senator says, Well, yes, my favorite color is red.</p>
<p>You can't be talking on on two distinct planes like this, you have to find a way to meet in the middle. So that's where those techniques for Q&A come into play. And I go into those in depth in both Reporters Don't Hate You and in the most recent book, Insider Strategies for the Confident Communicator.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why and how to talk to the media?
Talk to the media to convey your corporate messages with personal flavor
Ed Barks has 25 years experience as a specialist in media communications.
Episode 104 (Ed is based in Washington DC)
In this conversation with Ed Barks we explore:
Why business leaders should develop positive relations with the media
How to approach the media to help spread your message
How to prepare for media interviews
How to answer questions that you don't want to address
Why you should never say "No comment"
When the office sceptic becomes an asset
How to develop your soundbites
About Ed Barks:
Ed is president of Barks Communications with 25 years experience working with communication and government relations executives to help their companies reach long-term business and public policy goals. 
He is the author of four books. The most recent is "Insider Strategies for the Confident Communicator: How to Master Meetings, Presentations, Interviews and Advocacy.
 

PS: You can download a free copy of this book from his website. 
https://barkscomm.com/eds-books/
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Ed Barks
Internalize your message so you can verbalize your message.
 
02:57
I'm going to kind of flip that a little bit George, if you don't mind and talk about the positives of it.
And when you look at how you're interacting with the media, you need a number of things. And let me focus on two right at the top.
First is your message, you need a magnetic message or George as you refer to it your intended message. So it's a matter of knowing what you're going to say it's developing that message ahead of time, and it's being able to stick to it during the course of your interview.
No matter what questions come up, and what questions the reporter may toss out, you need to keep coming back to that message. Now the second key that I'll mention is the notion of sustained professional development.
You can't just do one interview and think you've got it nailed. Or certainly you can't go into your first ever interview without any preparation in any planning. So what that indicates is that you need to over the long haul, sharpen your communications edge.
And that involves starting off perhaps with low risk situations, maybe you're talking to a local shop or a kind of newspaper or a trade journal that doesn't get a whole lot of circulation. And then you build upon that until maybe one day you're ready for CNN or the New York Times. So those are a couple of things that are key right off the top.
-----
18:22
And when when one is being interviewed by a reporter, is it is the rule that you must answer every question.
 
18:34
Well, you have to answer every question. Sure. But on your terms, and what I mean by that we talked we spoke a few moments ago about some techniques for dealing with Q&A.
And so you need to look at how you can manage those questions and build a bridge from that question to your intended answer your intended message.
So look at how you can take the question and build upon it and you don't want to be accused of spin.
You know, we've all heard these, Sunday morning talk shows where the host says to the senator, well, gee, isn't this a beautiful day outdoors, and the senator says, Well, yes, my favorite color is red.
You can't be talking on on two distinct planes like this, you have to find a way to meet in the middle. So that's where those techniques for Q&A come into play. And I go into those in depth in both Reporters Don't Hate You and in the most recent book, Insider Strategies for the Confident Communicator.
-----
----more----
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How can you become a more confident public speaker?
<p>Natasha Bazilevych has been teaching presentation skills for about 15 years.</p>
<p>Episode 103 (Natasha is based in Delaware)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Natasha Bazilevych we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to channel anxiety as energy</li>
<li>How to use exposure therapy to overcome your fears</li>
<li>Why you need to focus on the audience instead of yourself</li>
<li>How to build your speaking skills like any other skill set</li>
<li>Why your past does not determine your future</li>
</ul>
<p>About Natasha Bazilevych:</p>
<p>Natasha is a public speaking coach and trainer. As president of ChangeView Academy she helps entrepreneurs develop[ their business skills do they can create a successful business and life.</p>
<p>Learn more about <a href='https://changeview.org/'>ChangeView here.</a></p>
<p>She has run 7 marathons and 11 half-marathons. She hosts the podcast, Speak with Power Podcast. </p>
<p>To learn more about Natasha and her services visit the website</p>
<p><a href='http://www.NatashaBazilevych.com'>www.NatashaBazilevych.com</a></p>
<p>When you are there you can sign up for the free Public Speaking 101 video course.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Natasha Bazilevych</p>
<p>03:03</p>
<p>When I present, I experience a little bit of nervousness at the beginning, which I love. And that's another rush. And then I turn those emotions, that nervousness into energy and excitement.</p>
<p>So for me when I speak, it's a very similar experience when I love it. That's why I actually love it when I use this excitement and this adrenaline because it's normal to be nervous to be a little bit afraid, we would say but even say that that's just nervousness not necessarily fear.</p>
<p>And when you have this little bit of, of these kind of emotions at the beginning, then you can understand, okay, hey, this is not really nervousness, necessarily, it's excitement. And then you can turn it into passion and deliver a great message.</p>
<p>Because that's what it helps me make other people also passionate about my topic is because I use this nervous energy, turn it into excitement, and then show it through passion so that people love the message and enjoy it as much as I do.</p>
<p>So it is very similar to when we just start so this is not even about finishing a marathon. It's more like starting a marathon or studying some kind of event like this.</p>
<p>When so much excitement in the air and also nervousness because you're studying you don't know what time will you run with Will you be able to finish? It's still unknown. And so it's this this whole adrenaline energy that you use to keep going.</p>
<p>And then of course when you finish it's the feeling of victory.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>10:17</p>
<p>Yes. So this particular client, she also had a fear of public speaking. And what's interesting, we could dig out the moment that created this fear for her. So it wasn't just all the time, all her life, it wasn't psyche, cardio, or anything connected with her health.</p>
<p>But it was in her mind. It wasn't even physical necessarily. But in her mind, she kept remembering one moment, that was a failure for her, she gave a presentation, and people in the audience mocked her.</p>
<p>So she felt like a loser like a failure plus that some of those people were really respected by her. So that created this negative memory in her mind, that kept being a block for her to go and present again. And so anytime she needed to present afterwards, she had to, she just had public speaking fear, she had all that anxiety because of this block because of that memory.</p>
<p>So what we needed to do is to go back, use visualization. And remember the moments when she was very successful in her presentations before that, and even after, and anchor the feeling of that success.</p>
<p>And just remember how good she was then plus also, we needed to go back into the moment of when she was not successful. And when she failed, and we had to recreate reframe that experience of hers, so that she could see the positive of that negative experience so that you could see that it doesn't really matter to her what those people are thinking.</p>
<p>And then it was easier for her to look at it differently. Because this is actually a very deep work. When you go into your mindset. And you have to reframe, recreate, delete those old beliefs, and then seeing it differently, because that is what's blocking.</p>
<p>So the first thing we did with this client was to go into the memory and retrieve the moments of success, retrieve the moments of failure, and start reframing them emotionally.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>12:25</p>
<p>And what I'm hearing there, Natasha is when we retrieve that moment of failure, for example, we can we can reframe it, we can say, Yeah, I wasn't as good as I intended to be. But I wasn't as bad as they said, I could have been a lot worse.</p>
<p>And so that's the beginning. And I suppose we can all also look back and say, Well, you know what? That was just, that was just practice, I can get better.</p>
<p>So we need to say that, hey, it was a it didn't go well. But it doesn't make me a failure.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How can you handle the fear of public speaking?
How can you become a more confident public speaker?
<p>Natasha Bazilevych has been teaching presentation skills for about 15 years.</p>
<p>Episode 103 (Natasha is based in Delaware)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Natasha Bazilevych we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to channel anxiety as energy</li>
<li>How to use exposure therapy to overcome your fears</li>
<li>Why you need to focus on the audience instead of yourself</li>
<li>How to build your speaking skills like any other skill set</li>
<li>Why your past does not determine your future</li>
</ul>
<p>About Natasha Bazilevych:</p>
<p>Natasha is a public speaking coach and trainer. As president of ChangeView Academy she helps entrepreneurs develop[ their business skills do they can create a successful business and life.</p>
<p>Learn more about <a href='https://changeview.org/'>ChangeView here.</a></p>
<p>She has run 7 marathons and 11 half-marathons. She hosts the podcast, Speak with Power Podcast. </p>
<p>To learn more about Natasha and her services visit the website</p>
<p><a href='http://www.NatashaBazilevych.com'>www.NatashaBazilevych.com</a></p>
<p>When you are there you can sign up for the free Public Speaking 101 video course.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Natasha Bazilevych</p>
<p>03:03</p>
<p>When I present, I experience a little bit of nervousness at the beginning, which I love. And that's another rush. And then I turn those emotions, that nervousness into energy and excitement.</p>
<p>So for me when I speak, it's a very similar experience when I love it. That's why I actually love it when I use this excitement and this adrenaline because it's normal to be nervous to be a little bit afraid, we would say but even say that that's just nervousness not necessarily fear.</p>
<p>And when you have this little bit of, of these kind of emotions at the beginning, then you can understand, okay, hey, this is not really nervousness, necessarily, it's excitement. And then you can turn it into passion and deliver a great message.</p>
<p>Because that's what it helps me make other people also passionate about my topic is because I use this nervous energy, turn it into excitement, and then show it through passion so that people love the message and enjoy it as much as I do.</p>
<p>So it is very similar to when we just start so this is not even about finishing a marathon. It's more like starting a marathon or studying some kind of event like this.</p>
<p>When so much excitement in the air and also nervousness because you're studying you don't know what time will you run with Will you be able to finish? It's still unknown. And so it's this this whole adrenaline energy that you use to keep going.</p>
<p>And then of course when you finish it's the feeling of victory.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>10:17</p>
<p>Yes. So this particular client, she also had a fear of public speaking. And what's interesting, we could dig out the moment that created this fear for her. So it wasn't just all the time, all her life, it wasn't psyche, cardio, or anything connected with her health.</p>
<p>But it was in her mind. It wasn't even physical necessarily. But in her mind, she kept remembering one moment, that was a failure for her, she gave a presentation, and people in the audience mocked her.</p>
<p>So she felt like a loser like a failure plus that some of those people were really respected by her. So that created this negative memory in her mind, that kept being a block for her to go and present again. And so anytime she needed to present afterwards, she had to, she just had public speaking fear, she had all that anxiety because of this block because of that memory.</p>
<p>So what we needed to do is to go back, use visualization. And remember the moments when she was very successful in her presentations before that, and even after, and anchor the feeling of that success.</p>
<p>And just remember how good she was then plus also, we needed to go back into the moment of when she was not successful. And when she failed, and we had to recreate reframe that experience of hers, so that she could see the positive of that negative experience so that you could see that it doesn't really matter to her what those people are thinking.</p>
<p>And then it was easier for her to look at it differently. Because this is actually a very deep work. When you go into your mindset. And you have to reframe, recreate, delete those old beliefs, and then seeing it differently, because that is what's blocking.</p>
<p>So the first thing we did with this client was to go into the memory and retrieve the moments of success, retrieve the moments of failure, and start reframing them emotionally.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>12:25</p>
<p>And what I'm hearing there, Natasha is when we retrieve that moment of failure, for example, we can we can reframe it, we can say, Yeah, I wasn't as good as I intended to be. But I wasn't as bad as they said, I could have been a lot worse.</p>
<p>And so that's the beginning. And I suppose we can all also look back and say, Well, you know what? That was just, that was just practice, I can get better.</p>
<p>So we need to say that, hey, it was a it didn't go well. But it doesn't make me a failure.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How can you handle the fear of public speaking?
How can you become a more confident public speaker?
Natasha Bazilevych has been teaching presentation skills for about 15 years.
Episode 103 (Natasha is based in Delaware)
In this conversation with Natasha Bazilevych we explore:
How to channel anxiety as energy
How to use exposure therapy to overcome your fears
Why you need to focus on the audience instead of yourself
How to build your speaking skills like any other skill set
Why your past does not determine your future
About Natasha Bazilevych:
Natasha is a public speaking coach and trainer. As president of ChangeView Academy she helps entrepreneurs develop[ their business skills do they can create a successful business and life.
Learn more about ChangeView here.
She has run 7 marathons and 11 half-marathons. She hosts the podcast, Speak with Power Podcast. 
To learn more about Natasha and her services visit the website
www.NatashaBazilevych.com
When you are there you can sign up for the free Public Speaking 101 video course.
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Excerpts from this conversation with Natasha Bazilevych
03:03
When I present, I experience a little bit of nervousness at the beginning, which I love. And that's another rush. And then I turn those emotions, that nervousness into energy and excitement.
So for me when I speak, it's a very similar experience when I love it. That's why I actually love it when I use this excitement and this adrenaline because it's normal to be nervous to be a little bit afraid, we would say but even say that that's just nervousness not necessarily fear.
And when you have this little bit of, of these kind of emotions at the beginning, then you can understand, okay, hey, this is not really nervousness, necessarily, it's excitement. And then you can turn it into passion and deliver a great message.
Because that's what it helps me make other people also passionate about my topic is because I use this nervous energy, turn it into excitement, and then show it through passion so that people love the message and enjoy it as much as I do.
So it is very similar to when we just start so this is not even about finishing a marathon. It's more like starting a marathon or studying some kind of event like this.
When so much excitement in the air and also nervousness because you're studying you don't know what time will you run with Will you be able to finish? It's still unknown. And so it's this this whole adrenaline energy that you use to keep going.
And then of course when you finish it's the feeling of victory.
-----
10:17
Yes. So this particular client, she also had a fear of public speaking. And what's interesting, we could dig out the moment that created this fear for her. So it wasn't just all the time, all her life, it wasn't psyche, cardio, or anything connected with her health.
But it was in her mind. It wasn't even physical necessarily. But in her mind, she kept remembering one moment, that was a failure for her, she gave a presentation, and people in the audience mocked her.
So she felt like a loser like a failure plus that some of those people were really respected by her. So that created this negative memory in her mind, that kept being a block for her to go and present again. And so anytime she needed to present afterwards, she had to, she just had public speaking fear, she had all that anxiety because of this block because of that memory.
So what we needed to do is to go back, use visualization. And remember the moments when she was very successful in her presentations before that, and even after, and anchor the feeling of that success.
And just remember how good she was then plus also, we needed to go back into the moment of when she was not successful. And when she failed, and we had to recreate reframe that experience of hers, so that she could see the positive of that negative experience so that you could see that it doesn't really matter to her what those people are thinking.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How can you get in the news with a good news story?
How do you catch the attention of the media and how do you show up?
<p>Malika Dudley has studied the science of communication and is a TV reporter. </p>
<p>Episode 102 (Malika is based in Hawaii)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Malika Dudley we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to get your good news story noticed by the media</li>
<li>How to make your offer irresistible</li>
<li>How to communicate with the media</li>
<li>Why one "No" doesn't really mean "No"</li>
<li>How to build ongoing positive relationships with the media</li>
<li>How to talk on television in studio or on Zoom</li>
</ul>
<p>About Malika Dudley:</p>
<p>Malika is a TV reporter based in Hawaii.</p>
<p>She is a multi-award winning journalist with 2 Emmy nominations, a Murrow and multiple SPJ (Society for Professional Journalists) awards.</p>
<p>She is host of The Communification Podcast - a podcast that will help you unlock your communication potential and feel less alone in your communication struggles.</p>
<p>Visit the podcast here or click image below</p>
<p><a href='https://www.communificationpodcast.com/'>https://www.communificationpodcast.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.communificationpodcast.com/podcast'></a></p>
<p>This is Malika's second appearance on Your Intended Message. You can listen to her first appearance in episode 82.</p>
<p>Here's an example of a good news story done well. Malika interviews community volunteer, Kaimana Brummel, talking about "Kaukau 4 Keiki" a food share program for children when they are not in school.</p>
<p>Notice how well Kaimana conveys her message.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.kitv.com/news/local/urgent-need-for-volunteer-delivery-drivers-to-feed-maui-countys-hungry/article_422fc328-60fe-11ec-a0c3-cf510670aeab.html'>https://www.kitv.com/news/local/urgent-need-for-volunteer-delivery-drivers-to-feed-maui-countys-hungry/article_422fc328-60fe-11ec-a0c3-cf510670aeab.html</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Malika Dudley</p>
<p>02:48</p>
<p>Probably the newscast that you're going to identify and try to get on would be the morning show, instead of the evening show. Morning shows are longer. Number one, they are more fluid. And they allow for that good news to kind of work its way into the forecast. Every newscast wants to also have good news.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:13</p>
<p>If you're trying to get into an evening newscast, you're trying to get in the kicker, probably. So that's the last little tidbit that gets shown right before they say goodbye.</p>
<p>And usually it's something light and fun to kind of wrap up the show and not leave people with that bad taste in their mouth of the everything is doom and gloom.</p>
<p>It's the universe, the kids from the University of Hawaii, that won in Las Vegas with their driverless remote control car.</p>
<p>So it's something that is intriguing, but not necessarily a new story, but can be fun.  Oh, that's cool. You kind of want to be in that category of, Oh, that's cool.</p>
<p>If you're going for the evening newscasts, it would be something small like that. So there are several different things that you can do. One thing is make it easy for us.</p>
<p>How do you make it easy for the reporter or the producer or the anchor to have you on the show? One way is to offer up your party's as something that you can link this to current events. So what's going on right now?</p>
<p>And how can you help someone to solve that problem? And this is something that you've thought about a lot. All business leaders do. So you probably already know the answer to that question.</p>
<p>So let's say that you're a Life Consultant, and it happens to be January. Send out your press release and explain the things that you would be able to say on the air.</p>
<p>Now keep in mind that you're probably going to get, at most three minutes of time. So a three minute interview.</p>
<p>So you don't want to overwhelm the press release with all the things, you know, you want to give them bullet points.</p>
<p>So get good at writing press releases. Here's a paragraph about what I do. Here's what I can tell you on the newscast. Bullet points. Here is a little bit about me and my background, and, and then provide assets.</p>
<p>Media assets, like video, headshots, just whatever you think they might be able to use on the newscast, we definitely need visuals.</p>
<p>If you're talking about, so let's let's go with that life coach analogy. Here are the five things that you can do to have a great year this year.</p>
<p>And you have B roll of one of your coaching clients exercising, right, and that's number one is exercise. So you send them a 15 second clip of you know, someone exercising, sure, we could go through our files and find the B roll video of exercise.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>12:37</p>
<p>So if you can get your friends to email the news at whatever the news station email is because that email goes to everybody in the news organization, if you can get your people to email in and say, hey, wow, thank you so much for that segment by data data that this morning, I learned data data data, I would so love to see more of that.</p>
<p>It doesn't go on deaf ears. I mean, I can't tell you, if you guys didn't listen to the last podcast that we did, that I did with George, where we talked about 20% of the people love you 20% of the people hate you. And then the ones in the middle are indifferent.</p>
<p>The indifferent ones never email the news. The haters do. And the lovers Oh, I wish they did more.</p>
<p>And so when we get one of those emails, the news director legit will send that out to everyone and say, Look, guys, we did such a great job. And just know that when you're doing your job, people like Eddie, appreciate it.</p>
<p>And so I can't tell you how much that could actually influence whether or not you as this expert.</p>
<p>Hopefully you're really good at what you're doing. Right and you are good on camera and it's something that definitely helps right I mean, if you if this is in your wheelhouse and you can talk in sound bites, you've got a really great pitch. I don't see why they wouldn't say yes to something like that. And when you have your peeps your squad, you know emailing in to say hey, that was great.</p>
<p>That could help so get your your friends your fans to to vouch for you. Because because the media notices when people right, the media probably gets enough nasty messages and not enough encouraging messages.</p>
<p>When they do get encouraging messages, hey, we're doing something good. Maybe we should do more of that. Yeah, and don't overwhelm them though, right? I mean, you don't want to ask, like don't put it on social media, and then they get 50 emails.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How can you get in the news with a good news story?
How do you catch the attention of the media and how do you show up?
<p>Malika Dudley has studied the science of communication and is a TV reporter. </p>
<p>Episode 102 (Malika is based in Hawaii)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Malika Dudley we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to get your good news story noticed by the media</li>
<li>How to make your offer irresistible</li>
<li>How to communicate with the media</li>
<li>Why one "No" doesn't really mean "No"</li>
<li>How to build ongoing positive relationships with the media</li>
<li>How to talk on television in studio or on Zoom</li>
</ul>
<p>About Malika Dudley:</p>
<p>Malika is a TV reporter based in Hawaii.</p>
<p>She is a multi-award winning journalist with 2 Emmy nominations, a Murrow and multiple SPJ (Society for Professional Journalists) awards.</p>
<p>She is host of The Communification Podcast - a podcast that will help you unlock your communication potential and feel less alone in your communication struggles.</p>
<p>Visit the podcast here or click image below</p>
<p><a href='https://www.communificationpodcast.com/'>https://www.communificationpodcast.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.communificationpodcast.com/podcast'></a></p>
<p>This is Malika's second appearance on Your Intended Message. You can listen to her first appearance in episode 82.</p>
<p>Here's an example of a good news story done well. Malika interviews community volunteer, Kaimana Brummel, talking about "Kaukau 4 Keiki" a food share program for children when they are not in school.</p>
<p>Notice how well Kaimana conveys her message.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.kitv.com/news/local/urgent-need-for-volunteer-delivery-drivers-to-feed-maui-countys-hungry/article_422fc328-60fe-11ec-a0c3-cf510670aeab.html'>https://www.kitv.com/news/local/urgent-need-for-volunteer-delivery-drivers-to-feed-maui-countys-hungry/article_422fc328-60fe-11ec-a0c3-cf510670aeab.html</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Malika Dudley</p>
<p>02:48</p>
<p>Probably the newscast that you're going to identify and try to get on would be the morning show, instead of the evening show. Morning shows are longer. Number one, they are more fluid. And they allow for that good news to kind of work its way into the forecast. Every newscast wants to also have good news.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:13</p>
<p>If you're trying to get into an evening newscast, you're trying to get in the kicker, probably. So that's the last little tidbit that gets shown right before they say goodbye.</p>
<p>And usually it's something light and fun to kind of wrap up the show and not leave people with that bad taste in their mouth of the everything is doom and gloom.</p>
<p>It's the universe, the kids from the University of Hawaii, that won in Las Vegas with their driverless remote control car.</p>
<p>So it's something that is intriguing, but not necessarily a new story, but can be fun.  Oh, that's cool. You kind of want to be in that category of, Oh, that's cool.</p>
<p>If you're going for the evening newscasts, it would be something small like that. So there are several different things that you can do. One thing is make it easy for us.</p>
<p>How do you make it easy for the reporter or the producer or the anchor to have you on the show? One way is to offer up your party's as something that you can link this to current events. So what's going on right now?</p>
<p>And how can you help someone to solve that problem? And this is something that you've thought about a lot. All business leaders do. So you probably already know the answer to that question.</p>
<p>So let's say that you're a Life Consultant, and it happens to be January. Send out your press release and explain the things that you would be able to say on the air.</p>
<p>Now keep in mind that you're probably going to get, at most three minutes of time. So a three minute interview.</p>
<p>So you don't want to overwhelm the press release with all the things, you know, you want to give them bullet points.</p>
<p>So get good at writing press releases. Here's a paragraph about what I do. Here's what I can tell you on the newscast. Bullet points. Here is a little bit about me and my background, and, and then provide assets.</p>
<p>Media assets, like video, headshots, just whatever you think they might be able to use on the newscast, we definitely need visuals.</p>
<p>If you're talking about, so let's let's go with that life coach analogy. Here are the five things that you can do to have a great year this year.</p>
<p>And you have B roll of one of your coaching clients exercising, right, and that's number one is exercise. So you send them a 15 second clip of you know, someone exercising, sure, we could go through our files and find the B roll video of exercise.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>12:37</p>
<p>So if you can get your friends to email the news at whatever the news station email is because that email goes to everybody in the news organization, if you can get your people to email in and say, hey, wow, thank you so much for that segment by data data that this morning, I learned data data data, I would so love to see more of that.</p>
<p>It doesn't go on deaf ears. I mean, I can't tell you, if you guys didn't listen to the last podcast that we did, that I did with George, where we talked about 20% of the people love you 20% of the people hate you. And then the ones in the middle are indifferent.</p>
<p>The indifferent ones never email the news. The haters do. And the lovers Oh, I wish they did more.</p>
<p>And so when we get one of those emails, the news director legit will send that out to everyone and say, Look, guys, we did such a great job. And just know that when you're doing your job, people like Eddie, appreciate it.</p>
<p>And so I can't tell you how much that could actually influence whether or not you as this expert.</p>
<p>Hopefully you're really good at what you're doing. Right and you are good on camera and it's something that definitely helps right I mean, if you if this is in your wheelhouse and you can talk in sound bites, you've got a really great pitch. I don't see why they wouldn't say yes to something like that. And when you have your peeps your squad, you know emailing in to say hey, that was great.</p>
<p>That could help so get your your friends your fans to to vouch for you. Because because the media notices when people right, the media probably gets enough nasty messages and not enough encouraging messages.</p>
<p>When they do get encouraging messages, hey, we're doing something good. Maybe we should do more of that. Yeah, and don't overwhelm them though, right? I mean, you don't want to ask, like don't put it on social media, and then they get 50 emails.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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How do you catch the attention of the media and how do you show up?
Malika Dudley has studied the science of communication and is a TV reporter. 
Episode 102 (Malika is based in Hawaii)
In this conversation with Malika Dudley we explore:
How to get your good news story noticed by the media
How to make your offer irresistible
How to communicate with the media
Why one "No" doesn't really mean "No"
How to build ongoing positive relationships with the media
How to talk on television in studio or on Zoom
About Malika Dudley:
Malika is a TV reporter based in Hawaii.
She is a multi-award winning journalist with 2 Emmy nominations, a Murrow and multiple SPJ (Society for Professional Journalists) awards.
She is host of The Communification Podcast - a podcast that will help you unlock your communication potential and feel less alone in your communication struggles.
Visit the podcast here or click image below
https://www.communificationpodcast.com/

This is Malika's second appearance on Your Intended Message. You can listen to her first appearance in episode 82.
Here's an example of a good news story done well. Malika interviews community volunteer, Kaimana Brummel, talking about "Kaukau 4 Keiki" a food share program for children when they are not in school.
Notice how well Kaimana conveys her message.
https://www.kitv.com/news/local/urgent-need-for-volunteer-delivery-drivers-to-feed-maui-countys-hungry/article_422fc328-60fe-11ec-a0c3-cf510670aeab.html
 
Excerpts from this conversation with Malika Dudley
02:48
Probably the newscast that you're going to identify and try to get on would be the morning show, instead of the evening show. Morning shows are longer. Number one, they are more fluid. And they allow for that good news to kind of work its way into the forecast. Every newscast wants to also have good news.
 
03:13
If you're trying to get into an evening newscast, you're trying to get in the kicker, probably. So that's the last little tidbit that gets shown right before they say goodbye.
And usually it's something light and fun to kind of wrap up the show and not leave people with that bad taste in their mouth of the everything is doom and gloom.
It's the universe, the kids from the University of Hawaii, that won in Las Vegas with their driverless remote control car.
So it's something that is intriguing, but not necessarily a new story, but can be fun.  Oh, that's cool. You kind of want to be in that category of, Oh, that's cool.
If you're going for the evening newscasts, it would be something small like that. So there are several different things that you can do. One thing is make it easy for us.
How do you make it easy for the reporter or the producer or the anchor to have you on the show? One way is to offer up your party's as something that you can link this to current events. So what's going on right now?
And how can you help someone to solve that problem? And this is something that you've thought about a lot. All business leaders do. So you probably already know the answer to that question.
So let's say that you're a Life Consultant, and it happens to be January. Send out your press release and explain the things that you would be able to say on the air.
Now keep in mind that you're probably going to get, at most three minutes of time. So a three minute interview.
So you don't want to overwhelm the press release with all the things, you know, you want to give them bullet points.
So get good at writing press releases. Here's a paragraph about what I do. Here's what I can tell you on the newscast. Bullet points. Here is a little bit about me and my background, and, and then provide assets.
Media assets, like video, headshots, just whatever you think they might be able to use on the newscast, we definitely need visuals.
If you're talking about, so let's let's go with that life coach analogy. Here are the five things that you can do to have a great year this year.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Are you generic or unique? First discover that uniqueness, then leverage it.
The market craves and rewards uniqueness
<p>Jamie Greenberg is know as "The Imaginologist" igniting sparks of imagination and inspiration in others and then turning that inspiration into business.</p>
<p>Episode 101 (Jamie is based in New Jersey, New York)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jamie Greenberg we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How entrepreneurs struggle with finding and sending their intended message</li>
<li>Why discovering and interpreting your uniqueness is critical to success</li>
<li>The gorgeous chaos of random creativity</li>
<li>Finding and leveraging the divine downloads</li>
<li>The systematic process that must follow the creativity</li>
</ul>
<p>Jamie Greenberg dramatically increases experts' reach and income by helping them "Capitalize on their mission and uniqueness" with a differentiator that earns them money they are really worth.</p>
<p>You can arrange a complementary 30-minute business Development Evaluation call here</p>
<p><a href='https://jamiegreenberg.as.me/meetandgreet'>https://jamiegreenberg.as.me/meetandgreet</a></p>
<p><a href='https://jamiegreenberg.as.me/meetandgreet'></a></p>
Get your free copy of the mini E-book, <a href='https://iseekunique.com/'>The Four Steps to Stand Out So Your High-Ticket Clients can Find You!</a>
<p><a href='https://iseekunique.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Jamie Greenberg</p>
<p>You can't worry about the how, and the creative at the same, it's like having your foot on the brake in the gas at the same time, you have to give yourself permission to have that creative process.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>09:00</p>
<p>Jamie, the divine downloads, clarify for us, please. These are thoughtful insights we have or these are crazy ideas or these are these are just chaotic thoughts in our mind that may or may not fit together?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>09:21</p>
<p>This is a great question. And if it fits into the title of your show, beautiful because when you create an intention, you know, I really want to be an entrepreneur, I want to be an exit strategist, entrepreneur. I'm coming from corporate for, you know, 2030 years I really want to get into consulting and consulting or coaching.</p>
<p>There's something burning inside me I have this passion. And I don't know exactly what it is. But my intention is to move out of this miserable space that I'm in that I'm putting up with and experience myself in a completely different way and learn the entrepreneurial way of life where Creating an intention.</p>
<p>So we put that out into the universe. You know, we've where we're sort of designing inadvertently, we we do this every second of our lives. So when we put it out in the universe, now you're giving the universe something to grab onto.</p>
<p>And that big manager in the sky starts to conjure up the things that you're asking for, I know, it sounds a little magical. And we've heard the term law of attraction.</p>
<p>But the law of attraction is as much as the law as gravity. We don't question gravity. But because, you know, the law of attraction is a little harder to touch. But it's just as real.</p>
<p>So those intentions come out. The universe gets it, they start to, it pulls that which is likened to itself is drawn. And things start showing up, don't they for you? Have you ever had that kind of experience?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>33:14</p>
<p>Jamie, if people want to find out more about about how you can help, I believe you offer a 30 minute consultation, no charge, no sales pitch, just a consultation? How do they take advantage of that?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>33:30</p>
<p>Well, we have a link that we're going to put at the bottom of the podcast in the description. It's a free business development, evaluation of whether you're emerging or whether you want to scale your business, we just take a bird's eye view a 360 view of where you are here.</p>
<p>And then I'm going to help you with some strategies and put together a little roadmap to see if we can get some clarity around the next step on how to scale where you want to go next.</p>
<p>And also, for everybody on the podcast, we're gonna give away a free little mini ebook that talks about our whole signature system platform from which they can then start putting in their divine downloads, putting in their pop out themes and take their first shot at it.</p>
<p>And then they can also bring that to the core. And we can start the process right on that core of codifying and organizing their uniqueness. Right on they're in a very process dependent way to see what methodology can arise from this so they can use that to design their offers and their price ladder from that.</p>
<p>They'll get they're essentially generators like their webinars, seminar and keynotes and all those modules We create which there's about 22 of them in the signature platform is their get video visible, social selling marketing plan.</p>
<p>And that's how they're going to become the inspirational face for their business.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Are you generic or unique? First discover that uniqueness, then leverage it.
The market craves and rewards uniqueness
<p>Jamie Greenberg is know as "The Imaginologist" igniting sparks of imagination and inspiration in others and then turning that inspiration into business.</p>
<p>Episode 101 (Jamie is based in New Jersey, New York)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Jamie Greenberg we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How entrepreneurs struggle with finding and sending their intended message</li>
<li>Why discovering and interpreting your uniqueness is critical to success</li>
<li>The gorgeous chaos of random creativity</li>
<li>Finding and leveraging the divine downloads</li>
<li>The systematic process that must follow the creativity</li>
</ul>
<p>Jamie Greenberg dramatically increases experts' reach and income by helping them "Capitalize on their mission and uniqueness" with a differentiator that earns them money they are really worth.</p>
<p>You can arrange a complementary 30-minute business Development Evaluation call here</p>
<p><a href='https://jamiegreenberg.as.me/meetandgreet'>https://jamiegreenberg.as.me/meetandgreet</a></p>
<p><a href='https://jamiegreenberg.as.me/meetandgreet'></a></p>
Get your free copy of the mini E-book, <a href='https://iseekunique.com/'>The Four Steps to Stand Out So Your High-Ticket Clients can Find You!</a>
<p><a href='https://iseekunique.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Jamie Greenberg</p>
<p>You can't worry about the how, and the creative at the same, it's like having your foot on the brake in the gas at the same time, you have to give yourself permission to have that creative process.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>09:00</p>
<p>Jamie, the divine downloads, clarify for us, please. These are thoughtful insights we have or these are crazy ideas or these are these are just chaotic thoughts in our mind that may or may not fit together?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>09:21</p>
<p>This is a great question. And if it fits into the title of your show, beautiful because when you create an intention, you know, I really want to be an entrepreneur, I want to be an exit strategist, entrepreneur. I'm coming from corporate for, you know, 2030 years I really want to get into consulting and consulting or coaching.</p>
<p>There's something burning inside me I have this passion. And I don't know exactly what it is. But my intention is to move out of this miserable space that I'm in that I'm putting up with and experience myself in a completely different way and learn the entrepreneurial way of life where Creating an intention.</p>
<p>So we put that out into the universe. You know, we've where we're sort of designing inadvertently, we we do this every second of our lives. So when we put it out in the universe, now you're giving the universe something to grab onto.</p>
<p>And that big manager in the sky starts to conjure up the things that you're asking for, I know, it sounds a little magical. And we've heard the term law of attraction.</p>
<p>But the law of attraction is as much as the law as gravity. We don't question gravity. But because, you know, the law of attraction is a little harder to touch. But it's just as real.</p>
<p>So those intentions come out. The universe gets it, they start to, it pulls that which is likened to itself is drawn. And things start showing up, don't they for you? Have you ever had that kind of experience?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>33:14</p>
<p>Jamie, if people want to find out more about about how you can help, I believe you offer a 30 minute consultation, no charge, no sales pitch, just a consultation? How do they take advantage of that?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>33:30</p>
<p>Well, we have a link that we're going to put at the bottom of the podcast in the description. It's a free business development, evaluation of whether you're emerging or whether you want to scale your business, we just take a bird's eye view a 360 view of where you are here.</p>
<p>And then I'm going to help you with some strategies and put together a little roadmap to see if we can get some clarity around the next step on how to scale where you want to go next.</p>
<p>And also, for everybody on the podcast, we're gonna give away a free little mini ebook that talks about our whole signature system platform from which they can then start putting in their divine downloads, putting in their pop out themes and take their first shot at it.</p>
<p>And then they can also bring that to the core. And we can start the process right on that core of codifying and organizing their uniqueness. Right on they're in a very process dependent way to see what methodology can arise from this so they can use that to design their offers and their price ladder from that.</p>
<p>They'll get they're essentially generators like their webinars, seminar and keynotes and all those modules We create which there's about 22 of them in the signature platform is their get video visible, social selling marketing plan.</p>
<p>And that's how they're going to become the inspirational face for their business.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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The market craves and rewards uniqueness
Jamie Greenberg is know as "The Imaginologist" igniting sparks of imagination and inspiration in others and then turning that inspiration into business.
Episode 101 (Jamie is based in New Jersey, New York)
In this conversation with Jamie Greenberg we explore:
How entrepreneurs struggle with finding and sending their intended message
Why discovering and interpreting your uniqueness is critical to success
The gorgeous chaos of random creativity
Finding and leveraging the divine downloads
The systematic process that must follow the creativity
Jamie Greenberg dramatically increases experts' reach and income by helping them "Capitalize on their mission and uniqueness" with a differentiator that earns them money they are really worth.
You can arrange a complementary 30-minute business Development Evaluation call here
https://jamiegreenberg.as.me/meetandgreet

Get your free copy of the mini E-book, The Four Steps to Stand Out So Your High-Ticket Clients can Find You!

-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Jamie Greenberg
You can't worry about the how, and the creative at the same, it's like having your foot on the brake in the gas at the same time, you have to give yourself permission to have that creative process.
-----
09:00
Jamie, the divine downloads, clarify for us, please. These are thoughtful insights we have or these are crazy ideas or these are these are just chaotic thoughts in our mind that may or may not fit together?
 
09:21
This is a great question. And if it fits into the title of your show, beautiful because when you create an intention, you know, I really want to be an entrepreneur, I want to be an exit strategist, entrepreneur. I'm coming from corporate for, you know, 2030 years I really want to get into consulting and consulting or coaching.
There's something burning inside me I have this passion. And I don't know exactly what it is. But my intention is to move out of this miserable space that I'm in that I'm putting up with and experience myself in a completely different way and learn the entrepreneurial way of life where Creating an intention.
So we put that out into the universe. You know, we've where we're sort of designing inadvertently, we we do this every second of our lives. So when we put it out in the universe, now you're giving the universe something to grab onto.
And that big manager in the sky starts to conjure up the things that you're asking for, I know, it sounds a little magical. And we've heard the term law of attraction.
But the law of attraction is as much as the law as gravity. We don't question gravity. But because, you know, the law of attraction is a little harder to touch. But it's just as real.
So those intentions come out. The universe gets it, they start to, it pulls that which is likened to itself is drawn. And things start showing up, don't they for you? Have you ever had that kind of experience?
-----
33:14
Jamie, if people want to find out more about about how you can help, I believe you offer a 30 minute consultation, no charge, no sales pitch, just a consultation? How do they take advantage of that?
 
33:30
Well, we have a link that we're going to put at the bottom of the podcast in the description. It's a free business development, evaluation of whether you're emerging or whether you want to scale your business, we just take a bird's eye view a 360 view of where you are here.
And then I'm going to help you with some strategies and put together a little roadmap to see if we can get some clarity around the next step on how to scale where you want to go next.
And also, for everybody on the podcast, we're gonna give away a free little mini ebook that talks about our whole signature system platform from which they can then start putting in their divine downloads, putting in their pop out themes and take their first shot at it.
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The practice of intentionally influencing your thinking, feeling and actions towards your objectives
<p>Andrew Bryant is passionate about waking people up to their best possible selves, whether that is the C-Suite of a company or disadvantaged teenagers.</p>
<p>Episode 100 (Andrew is living in Portugal. He has ties to England, Australia, Singapore and Brazil)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Andrew Bryant we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The three pillars of self leadership</li>
<li>The enduring significance of Aristotle's Logos, Pathos and Ethos</li>
<li>The difference between who you are and what you do</li>
<li>The underpinning of self esteem to self confidence</li>
<li>The importance of self validation</li>
<li>The value of experiencing failure and crisis</li>
</ul>
<p> Andrew Bryant is author of four books, including Self Leadership and his latest, The New Leadership Playbook, Being Human Whist Delivering Accelerated Results.</p>
<p>Learn more about this book and his offers at <a href='http://www.TheNewLeadershipPlaybook.com'>www.TheNewLeadershipPlaybook.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://thenewleadershipplaybook.com/playbook'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Learn more about Andrew's programs on developing Self Leadership at</p>
<p><a href='http://www.SelfLeadership.com'>www.SelfLeadership.com</a> </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Andrew Bryant</p>
The three pillars of self leadership:
<ol><li>
Self awareness
</li>
<li>
Self regulation
</li>
<li>
Self learning
</li>
</ol><p>-----</p>
<p>07:15</p>
<p>That's curious, sometimes labelling the activity is enough to provide the insight to fix it. </p>
<p> </p>
<p>07:29</p>
<p>Can be. I love the metaphor of dragons, and the mythical creatures, but we all have our own dragons, you know, whether that's a negative self talk, or a lack of self belief or self worth.</p>
<p>And an interesting thing is that we feed our own dragons don't we?</p>
<p>We talk negatively about ourselves or other people. And those dragons get bigger and bigger and bigger, fatter, and fatter and fatter.</p>
<p>And at some point in coaching and recognizing that in a narrative way, you got to just stop feeding that dragon, you got to put it on a die, you've got to stop this.</p>
<p>And then the dragon gets smaller and smaller. But the trick is to never let the dragon go away completely.</p>
<p>Because those dragons serve as a purpose that the negative self talk that the pessimism, it actually protects us from hubris. It protects us from doing really stupid things.</p>
<p>I've got a good friendly relationship with my own dragons.</p>
<p>These are some things that if I feed them, you know, will get me in a lot of trouble. Thankfully, I'm at an age where I've tamed those dragons and I have people around me that can hold me accountable.</p>
<p>They go, hey, you know, Andrew, you've gone a bit too far this way. Ah, yes. playing that one out.</p>
<p>So that's where this you move from self awareness into self regulation or self management, which is the second pillar of self leadership is okay, I know that, you know, I can be a victim of hubris or arrogance or ridiculousness or whatever your particular Dragon is.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Well, it was breaking the dragon down. So dragons are a construct, right? They are anything in our brain is a construct. I mean, we, we, as human beings are meaning making machines, we we construct meaning out of anything that happens, right?
<p>-----</p>
<p>15:23</p>
<p>Hmm. And it sounds like part of self-leadership is self-validation, being willing to, to validate oneself without depending on that external validation, which is nice once in a while. It's always nice to hear somebody say something and mean it. Yeah, but we need to be comfortable with ourselves.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>15:46</p>
<p>Yeah, a lot of time people, particularly for executives, they're looking for executive presence, the ability to project gravitas and confidence and poise under pressure.</p>
<p>And so they're looking for that confidence that a lot of people say to me, Andrew, I really need to develop my confidence.</p>
<p>And sometimes it is confidence they need, but to what you're speaking is the self esteem that is underneath the confidence. Confidence is I've done in the past, I'm doing it now. And therefore I can project into the future that I'm unlikely to be able to be successful doing that again.</p>
<p>But self esteem is the self value underneath that. Because the word esteem is an old word for value, isn't it? So it's self value. And it's it's actually a verb, not a noun, we don't have self esteem as a fixed quantity, it's a daily process, like taking a shower, you know, it works for a few hours. And then you're going to need another one, we need to self value on a regular basis to know what our value proposition is.</p>
<p>And so some people who say I lacked confidence actually are not they don't know their own value. One of the exercises I do in my my workshops, whether that's in person or online, is I get people to say, Hi, my name is fill in blank, my value to my organization is, and you know, people really struggle with this.</p>
<p>They talk about their role and the things they do. Yeah, all of those things are great, but we could find somebody else to fill that role to do that job.</p>
<p>What is your value? What is it that you uniquely bring to your position? And a lot of people struggle with that. But when they get it Oh, actually, I'm valuable, and then they usually realize they're being undervalued.</p>
<p>And then it's when we use the self leadership to move into the executive presence, and then into the influence capital, you know, how do I get paid? And or how do I generate a business for, for the value that I'm providing?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>And the third one is have fun.</p>
<p>I mean, just don't be a leader all the time. Go spend time with your family, go to spend time with friends and do something for your community.</p>
<p>But and this is where I the in the introduction where I worked with at risk teenagers in Singapore with a charity where they gave some of my time where I could I could teach the self esteem self confidence, communication and leadership skills to teenagers that helped me grow as a human being some Much more than the stuff I was getting paid for.</p>
<p>And I find that the best leaders are doing something outside of the day to day nine to five stuff that they're being paid for. And it makes them grow as human beings. And I'm very proud to to some of the philanthropy that has been set up by some of my clients who go,</p>
<p>Okay, well, I'm been making millions of dollars my company, but why could I not set up a not for profit and make a difference there?</p>
<p>They are so much more energized by that and it prevents them reaching burnout.</p>
Because anytime you do something for somebody else, what you get back is tenfold
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Mastering Self is True Strength
The practice of intentionally influencing your thinking, feeling and actions towards your objectives
<p>Andrew Bryant is passionate about waking people up to their best possible selves, whether that is the C-Suite of a company or disadvantaged teenagers.</p>
<p>Episode 100 (Andrew is living in Portugal. He has ties to England, Australia, Singapore and Brazil)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Andrew Bryant we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The three pillars of self leadership</li>
<li>The enduring significance of Aristotle's Logos, Pathos and Ethos</li>
<li>The difference between who you are and what you do</li>
<li>The underpinning of self esteem to self confidence</li>
<li>The importance of self validation</li>
<li>The value of experiencing failure and crisis</li>
</ul>
<p> Andrew Bryant is author of four books, including Self Leadership and his latest, The New Leadership Playbook, Being Human Whist Delivering Accelerated Results.</p>
<p>Learn more about this book and his offers at <a href='http://www.TheNewLeadershipPlaybook.com'>www.TheNewLeadershipPlaybook.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://thenewleadershipplaybook.com/playbook'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Learn more about Andrew's programs on developing Self Leadership at</p>
<p><a href='http://www.SelfLeadership.com'>www.SelfLeadership.com</a> </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Andrew Bryant</p>
The three pillars of self leadership:
<ol><li>
Self awareness
</li>
<li>
Self regulation
</li>
<li>
Self learning
</li>
</ol><p>-----</p>
<p>07:15</p>
<p>That's curious, sometimes labelling the activity is enough to provide the insight to fix it. </p>
<p> </p>
<p>07:29</p>
<p>Can be. I love the metaphor of dragons, and the mythical creatures, but we all have our own dragons, you know, whether that's a negative self talk, or a lack of self belief or self worth.</p>
<p>And an interesting thing is that we feed our own dragons don't we?</p>
<p>We talk negatively about ourselves or other people. And those dragons get bigger and bigger and bigger, fatter, and fatter and fatter.</p>
<p>And at some point in coaching and recognizing that in a narrative way, you got to just stop feeding that dragon, you got to put it on a die, you've got to stop this.</p>
<p>And then the dragon gets smaller and smaller. But the trick is to never let the dragon go away completely.</p>
<p>Because those dragons serve as a purpose that the negative self talk that the pessimism, it actually protects us from hubris. It protects us from doing really stupid things.</p>
<p>I've got a good friendly relationship with my own dragons.</p>
<p>These are some things that if I feed them, you know, will get me in a lot of trouble. Thankfully, I'm at an age where I've tamed those dragons and I have people around me that can hold me accountable.</p>
<p>They go, hey, you know, Andrew, you've gone a bit too far this way. Ah, yes. playing that one out.</p>
<p>So that's where this you move from self awareness into self regulation or self management, which is the second pillar of self leadership is okay, I know that, you know, I can be a victim of hubris or arrogance or ridiculousness or whatever your particular Dragon is.</p>
<p>-----</p>
Well, it was breaking the dragon down. So dragons are a construct, right? They are anything in our brain is a construct. I mean, we, we, as human beings are meaning making machines, we we construct meaning out of anything that happens, right?
<p>-----</p>
<p>15:23</p>
<p>Hmm. And it sounds like part of self-leadership is self-validation, being willing to, to validate oneself without depending on that external validation, which is nice once in a while. It's always nice to hear somebody say something and mean it. Yeah, but we need to be comfortable with ourselves.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>15:46</p>
<p>Yeah, a lot of time people, particularly for executives, they're looking for executive presence, the ability to project gravitas and confidence and poise under pressure.</p>
<p>And so they're looking for that confidence that a lot of people say to me, Andrew, I really need to develop my confidence.</p>
<p>And sometimes it is confidence they need, but to what you're speaking is the self esteem that is underneath the confidence. Confidence is I've done in the past, I'm doing it now. And therefore I can project into the future that I'm unlikely to be able to be successful doing that again.</p>
<p>But self esteem is the self value underneath that. Because the word esteem is an old word for value, isn't it? So it's self value. And it's it's actually a verb, not a noun, we don't have self esteem as a fixed quantity, it's a daily process, like taking a shower, you know, it works for a few hours. And then you're going to need another one, we need to self value on a regular basis to know what our value proposition is.</p>
<p>And so some people who say I lacked confidence actually are not they don't know their own value. One of the exercises I do in my my workshops, whether that's in person or online, is I get people to say, Hi, my name is fill in blank, my value to my organization is, and you know, people really struggle with this.</p>
<p>They talk about their role and the things they do. Yeah, all of those things are great, but we could find somebody else to fill that role to do that job.</p>
<p>What is your value? What is it that you uniquely bring to your position? And a lot of people struggle with that. But when they get it Oh, actually, I'm valuable, and then they usually realize they're being undervalued.</p>
<p>And then it's when we use the self leadership to move into the executive presence, and then into the influence capital, you know, how do I get paid? And or how do I generate a business for, for the value that I'm providing?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>And the third one is have fun.</p>
<p>I mean, just don't be a leader all the time. Go spend time with your family, go to spend time with friends and do something for your community.</p>
<p>But and this is where I the in the introduction where I worked with at risk teenagers in Singapore with a charity where they gave some of my time where I could I could teach the self esteem self confidence, communication and leadership skills to teenagers that helped me grow as a human being some Much more than the stuff I was getting paid for.</p>
<p>And I find that the best leaders are doing something outside of the day to day nine to five stuff that they're being paid for. And it makes them grow as human beings. And I'm very proud to to some of the philanthropy that has been set up by some of my clients who go,</p>
<p>Okay, well, I'm been making millions of dollars my company, but why could I not set up a not for profit and make a difference there?</p>
<p>They are so much more energized by that and it prevents them reaching burnout.</p>
Because anytime you do something for somebody else, what you get back is tenfold
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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The practice of intentionally influencing your thinking, feeling and actions towards your objectives
Andrew Bryant is passionate about waking people up to their best possible selves, whether that is the C-Suite of a company or disadvantaged teenagers.
Episode 100 (Andrew is living in Portugal. He has ties to England, Australia, Singapore and Brazil)
In this conversation with Andrew Bryant we explore:
The three pillars of self leadership
The enduring significance of Aristotle's Logos, Pathos and Ethos
The difference between who you are and what you do
The underpinning of self esteem to self confidence
The importance of self validation
The value of experiencing failure and crisis
 Andrew Bryant is author of four books, including Self Leadership and his latest, The New Leadership Playbook, Being Human Whist Delivering Accelerated Results.
Learn more about this book and his offers at www.TheNewLeadershipPlaybook.com
 

 
Learn more about Andrew's programs on developing Self Leadership at
www.SelfLeadership.com 
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Andrew Bryant
The three pillars of self leadership:

Self awareness


Self regulation


Self learning

-----
07:15
That's curious, sometimes labelling the activity is enough to provide the insight to fix it. 
 
07:29
Can be. I love the metaphor of dragons, and the mythical creatures, but we all have our own dragons, you know, whether that's a negative self talk, or a lack of self belief or self worth.
And an interesting thing is that we feed our own dragons don't we?
We talk negatively about ourselves or other people. And those dragons get bigger and bigger and bigger, fatter, and fatter and fatter.
And at some point in coaching and recognizing that in a narrative way, you got to just stop feeding that dragon, you got to put it on a die, you've got to stop this.
And then the dragon gets smaller and smaller. But the trick is to never let the dragon go away completely.
Because those dragons serve as a purpose that the negative self talk that the pessimism, it actually protects us from hubris. It protects us from doing really stupid things.
I've got a good friendly relationship with my own dragons.
These are some things that if I feed them, you know, will get me in a lot of trouble. Thankfully, I'm at an age where I've tamed those dragons and I have people around me that can hold me accountable.
They go, hey, you know, Andrew, you've gone a bit too far this way. Ah, yes. playing that one out.
So that's where this you move from self awareness into self regulation or self management, which is the second pillar of self leadership is okay, I know that, you know, I can be a victim of hubris or arrogance or ridiculousness or whatever your particular Dragon is.
-----
Well, it was breaking the dragon down. So dragons are a construct, right? They are anything in our brain is a construct. I mean, we, we, as human beings are meaning making machines, we we construct meaning out of anything that happens, right?
-----
15:23
Hmm. And it sounds like part of self-leadership is self-validation, being willing to, to validate oneself without depending on that external validation, which is nice once in a while. It's always nice to hear somebody say something and mean it. Yeah, but we need to be comfortable with ourselves.
 
15:46
Yeah, a lot of time people, particularly for executives, they're looking for executive presence, the ability to project gravitas and confidence and poise under pressure.
And so they're looking for that confidence that a lot of people say to me, Andrew, I really need to develop my confidence.
And sometimes it is confidence they need, but to what you're speaking is the self esteem that is underneath the confidence. Confidence is I've done in the past, I'm doing it now. And therefore I can project into the future that I'm unlikely to be able to be successful doing that again.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Speak with a human voice, not like a robot
Allow your voice to reflect your emotions
<p>Andrew Churchill demonstrates the value and power of voice when presenting your message.</p>
<p>Episode 99 (Andrew is based in Montreal)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Andrew Churchill we discuss:</p>
<ul><li>The common mistake of business and technical presenters</li>
<li>How to move your voice outside of the "professional zone"</li>
<li>A simple exercise to explore your other voices</li>
<li>The curious connection between voice and emotion</li>
<li>Why audio quality and voice is more important for virtual presentations</li>
<li>How your body language effects your voice</li>
</ul>
<p>Andrew Churchill specializes in helping entrepreneurs, academics and technical experts deliver their messages in a clear way.</p>
<p>He teaches engineers at McGill University how to connect with their audiences. </p>
<p>You can find Andrew on Linkedin at <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrewhchurchill/'>Andrew H Churchill</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrewhchurchill/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Andrew Churchill</p>
I don't try and change your voice I try and just allow you can actually use your voice. Because really what happens for most people is they fall into a professional voice. And the and the professional voice is the range of the professional voice is very, very narrow. And what happens if you present in that range is you're essentially become monotone.
<p>-----</p>
<p>So if you have any three or four year olds kicking around in your life, go to the library of children's stories that they would enjoy hearing and read them.</p>
<p>Read them one of those stories and then with your phone, record yourself.</p>
<p>And what you'll hear is you actually have an enormously rich, dynamic storytelling voice.</p>
<p>And what happens when most people do academic presentations is they may eliminate 90% of their voice. And, and what we need to do is give you permission to use the whole thing.</p>
<p>And one way to recognize that is, is actually it's I'm not really just trying to be funny, when I say children's stories.</p>
<p>I actually do this exercise with academics and in classrooms at McGill University. </p>
<p>I actually bring children's books into McGill University classrooms, and have students close their eyes. And listen to someone read a children's story, right after having listened to the person read an academic abstract of a journal article.</p>
<p>And I tend to not have to say much more, I just do that, and simply say, Okay, who would you rather listen to, and they get the point.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>What you always want to think about doing as a presenter is getting the audience to lean in. </p>
<p>And if I'm too loud, so if I come too loud and too hard at you, you're actually going to lean backwards, I'm actually pushing you away.</p>
<p>And what I want to do is I want to pull you in, people don't realize so sometimes your most important message should be done quietly.</p>
<p>Because people will lean in and listen. Because people think it's a secret.</p>
<p>They think it's important. When we talk about things that are most important. We actually tend to talk quieter, not louder. T</p>
<p>hat's where if as a speaker, you can let yourself feel this is a problem with memorization, people memorize and then they stop feeling because they're just reading the script.</p>
<p>And then they're in that professional voice because they want to sound professional and they're reading a script in their head. Even if it's memorized your your brain is still reading it. It's reading your memory, versus delivering it and allowing yourself to feel.</p>
<p>And that's the danger of memorization is we as we no longer feel it's why a podcast conversation sounds like conversation, but a presentation often sounds like someone talking at us instead of with us.</p>
<p>-----</p>
So if I was only going to make one investment if I only had 100 bucks or 150 bucks to spend, I'd spend it on the mic, not the camera.
<p>-----</p>
<p>21:11</p>
<p>And Andrew, there's there's an interesting point I thought you raised there. And that's that, even though the audience might not be looking, observing our body language, we are aware of our body language, and how we receive the messages from our body shows up in our voice.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Speak with a human voice, not like a robot
Allow your voice to reflect your emotions
<p>Andrew Churchill demonstrates the value and power of voice when presenting your message.</p>
<p>Episode 99 (Andrew is based in Montreal)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Andrew Churchill we discuss:</p>
<ul><li>The common mistake of business and technical presenters</li>
<li>How to move your voice outside of the "professional zone"</li>
<li>A simple exercise to explore your other voices</li>
<li>The curious connection between voice and emotion</li>
<li>Why audio quality and voice is more important for virtual presentations</li>
<li>How your body language effects your voice</li>
</ul>
<p>Andrew Churchill specializes in helping entrepreneurs, academics and technical experts deliver their messages in a clear way.</p>
<p>He teaches engineers at McGill University how to connect with their audiences. </p>
<p>You can find Andrew on Linkedin at <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrewhchurchill/'>Andrew H Churchill</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrewhchurchill/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Andrew Churchill</p>
I don't try and change your voice I try and just allow you can actually use your voice. Because really what happens for most people is they fall into a professional voice. And the and the professional voice is the range of the professional voice is very, very narrow. And what happens if you present in that range is you're essentially become monotone.
<p>-----</p>
<p>So if you have any three or four year olds kicking around in your life, go to the library of children's stories that they would enjoy hearing and read them.</p>
<p>Read them one of those stories and then with your phone, record yourself.</p>
<p>And what you'll hear is you actually have an enormously rich, dynamic storytelling voice.</p>
<p>And what happens when most people do academic presentations is they may eliminate 90% of their voice. And, and what we need to do is give you permission to use the whole thing.</p>
<p>And one way to recognize that is, is actually it's I'm not really just trying to be funny, when I say children's stories.</p>
<p>I actually do this exercise with academics and in classrooms at McGill University. </p>
<p>I actually bring children's books into McGill University classrooms, and have students close their eyes. And listen to someone read a children's story, right after having listened to the person read an academic abstract of a journal article.</p>
<p>And I tend to not have to say much more, I just do that, and simply say, Okay, who would you rather listen to, and they get the point.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>What you always want to think about doing as a presenter is getting the audience to lean in. </p>
<p>And if I'm too loud, so if I come too loud and too hard at you, you're actually going to lean backwards, I'm actually pushing you away.</p>
<p>And what I want to do is I want to pull you in, people don't realize so sometimes your most important message should be done quietly.</p>
<p>Because people will lean in and listen. Because people think it's a secret.</p>
<p>They think it's important. When we talk about things that are most important. We actually tend to talk quieter, not louder. T</p>
<p>hat's where if as a speaker, you can let yourself feel this is a problem with memorization, people memorize and then they stop feeling because they're just reading the script.</p>
<p>And then they're in that professional voice because they want to sound professional and they're reading a script in their head. Even if it's memorized your your brain is still reading it. It's reading your memory, versus delivering it and allowing yourself to feel.</p>
<p>And that's the danger of memorization is we as we no longer feel it's why a podcast conversation sounds like conversation, but a presentation often sounds like someone talking at us instead of with us.</p>
<p>-----</p>
So if I was only going to make one investment if I only had 100 bucks or 150 bucks to spend, I'd spend it on the mic, not the camera.
<p>-----</p>
<p>21:11</p>
<p>And Andrew, there's there's an interesting point I thought you raised there. And that's that, even though the audience might not be looking, observing our body language, we are aware of our body language, and how we receive the messages from our body shows up in our voice.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Speak with a human voice, not like a robot
Allow your voice to reflect your emotions
Andrew Churchill demonstrates the value and power of voice when presenting your message.
Episode 99 (Andrew is based in Montreal)
In this conversation with Andrew Churchill we discuss:
The common mistake of business and technical presenters
How to move your voice outside of the "professional zone"
A simple exercise to explore your other voices
The curious connection between voice and emotion
Why audio quality and voice is more important for virtual presentations
How your body language effects your voice
Andrew Churchill specializes in helping entrepreneurs, academics and technical experts deliver their messages in a clear way.
He teaches engineers at McGill University how to connect with their audiences. 
You can find Andrew on Linkedin at Andrew H Churchill

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Excerpts from this conversation with Andrew Churchill
I don't try and change your voice I try and just allow you can actually use your voice. Because really what happens for most people is they fall into a professional voice. And the and the professional voice is the range of the professional voice is very, very narrow. And what happens if you present in that range is you're essentially become monotone.
-----
So if you have any three or four year olds kicking around in your life, go to the library of children's stories that they would enjoy hearing and read them.
Read them one of those stories and then with your phone, record yourself.
And what you'll hear is you actually have an enormously rich, dynamic storytelling voice.
And what happens when most people do academic presentations is they may eliminate 90% of their voice. And, and what we need to do is give you permission to use the whole thing.
And one way to recognize that is, is actually it's I'm not really just trying to be funny, when I say children's stories.
I actually do this exercise with academics and in classrooms at McGill University. 
I actually bring children's books into McGill University classrooms, and have students close their eyes. And listen to someone read a children's story, right after having listened to the person read an academic abstract of a journal article.
And I tend to not have to say much more, I just do that, and simply say, Okay, who would you rather listen to, and they get the point.
-----
What you always want to think about doing as a presenter is getting the audience to lean in. 
And if I'm too loud, so if I come too loud and too hard at you, you're actually going to lean backwards, I'm actually pushing you away.
And what I want to do is I want to pull you in, people don't realize so sometimes your most important message should be done quietly.
Because people will lean in and listen. Because people think it's a secret.
They think it's important. When we talk about things that are most important. We actually tend to talk quieter, not louder. T
hat's where if as a speaker, you can let yourself feel this is a problem with memorization, people memorize and then they stop feeling because they're just reading the script.
And then they're in that professional voice because they want to sound professional and they're reading a script in their head. Even if it's memorized your your brain is still reading it. It's reading your memory, versus delivering it and allowing yourself to feel.
And that's the danger of memorization is we as we no longer feel it's why a podcast conversation sounds like conversation, but a presentation often sounds like someone talking at us instead of with us.
-----
So if I was only going to make one investment if I only had 100 bucks or 150 bucks to spend, I'd spend it on the mic, not the camera.
-----
21:11
And Andrew, there's there's an interesting point I thought you raised there. And that's that, even though the audience might not be looking, observing our body language, we are aware of our body language, and how we receive the messages from our body shows up in ou]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Prospecting on Linkedin does work when you follow a process
First create your prospecting plan, then follow it
<p>Austin McCulloh helps his clients bring in qualified leads week after week. </p>
<p>Episode 98 (Austin is based in Iowa City, Iowa)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to leverage automation without spamming</li>
<li>How to cut through the clutter</li>
<li>How to leverage connection and CRM software to stay visible</li>
<li>Why an initial negative response is a good sign</li>
<li>How to integrate inbound and outbound marketing</li>
<li>Better questions to ask to build the relationship</li>
</ul>
<p> </p>
<p>Mistakes to avoid:</p>
<ul><li>Too focused on self </li>
<li>Commission breath</li>
<li>Thinking short term</li>
<li>Not following a system</li>
<li>Asking strangers, "How are you?"</li>
</ul>
<p>About Austin McCulloh:</p>
<p>Austin has personally made over 16,000 prospecting contacts on Linkedin. He has helped clients make over 25,000 prospecting contacts.</p>
<p>Get your copy of the <a href='https://www.mccullohadvising.com/free-tools'>10-Step Effective Prospecting Process here</a></p>
<p>If you're looking for help to bring in new qualified leads to set up weekly meetings, <a href='https://www.mccullohadvising.com/'>learn more here.</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.mccullohadvising.com/'></a></p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Austin McCulloh</p>
<p>02:43</p>
<p>LinkedIn is LinkedIn is the social media of business, or that's how we think of it. And, and a lot of us are on there. And I keep hearing from people saying, well, I've tried prospecting on LinkedIn, but it doesn't work. What do you say to that?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:03</p>
<p>You want the honest response?</p>
<p>I want the truth, the brutal truth.</p>
<p>I'm saying they don't work. I'm saying they're not doing it the right way. I mean, that's just the raw truth.</p>
<p>And the reason why I'm laughing and I say it, and do I, whoever the listener is, if they're not having success, why they should be optimistic is because they're right now listening to somebody who is, has done it more than 99.9% of the world.</p>
<p>I've failed on it, I've done well on it. So the first thing I'll say is, they probably don't have a process.</p>
<p>So they don't know who they're reaching out to. If you don't know who you're reaching out to, you don't know what to say to them, you don't know how to engage in conversation.</p>
<p>So really, they don't have the components all lined up. And then another key point, and we're going to come back to all these, but they're too focused on themselves, trying to push what they have to offer excited about what they have to offer.</p>
<p>And that's not what resonates with your prospects, especially when they're complete strangers.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>16:57</p>
<p>It's okay to be direct in terms of asking questions, if you're really trying to solve a pain point for somebody, because if it's a real pain, and you're trying to solve it, trying to help them with something.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>17:08</p>
<p>But don't have the intention to go close them right away.</p>
<p>Kind of like what you talked about George have the intention of being curious, being kind of like a researcher, ask the open ended questions, get a sense to see if it's good for them.</p>
<p>And then if anything, your intention should be to set a meeting to learn more, not close business. So focus on the meeting, not on the client yet.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>18:02</p>
<p>Somebody either accepts it, or they don't accept the connection request.</p>
<p>if they don't accept it, never gonna communicate with them not in contact with them. I</p>
<p>f they accept it, and they reply, then the conversation is ongoing. If they accept it, and they don't reply to the first message, I have it set that 92 minutes later, another follow up message will be sent.</p>
<p>And then about two days and 22 minutes later, another one is sent, I have about three total follow up messages.</p>
<p>So four total that go out, there's the connection request and the message that goes along with it, three follow ups.</p>
<p>Now sometimes you get some people who never end up, they'll accept it, but they never respond to any of those four messages. And then you get other people who respond to the first, the second, the third or the fourth, you get where I'm coming from. So that's that once somebody replies,</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>32:00</p>
<p>Just take another look at it take another go. Great question.</p>
<p>If you have not had success with prospecting online, or even if you haven't done it before, so regardless, you haven't had success because he did it or you've never done, take 30 minutes to an hour before you even start or before you restart and put together an actual plan.</p>
<p>Now obviously, working with somebody who has done it before can can critique your plan can help you a lot with it.</p>
<p>But if you know who you're reaching out to, you already have a few scripts put together already know what questions you want to ask and you know what you want your end result to be, it's all going to work much better.</p>
<p>And then also know what you want to measure for it too.</p>
<p>So have expectations of if I'm doing so many contacts, I want to see how many accepted connection requests I get, how many responses I get, because then you can tell if it was a success or failure or and also meeting set as well.</p>
<p>So that's what I'd have to say I know it's a lot of different variables, but a lot of people are just kind of shooting from the hip.</p>
<p>And when you have a plan to follow. You're much more likely to get the results that you want.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Prospecting on Linkedin does work when you follow a process
First create your prospecting plan, then follow it
<p>Austin McCulloh helps his clients bring in qualified leads week after week. </p>
<p>Episode 98 (Austin is based in Iowa City, Iowa)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to leverage automation without spamming</li>
<li>How to cut through the clutter</li>
<li>How to leverage connection and CRM software to stay visible</li>
<li>Why an initial negative response is a good sign</li>
<li>How to integrate inbound and outbound marketing</li>
<li>Better questions to ask to build the relationship</li>
</ul>
<p> </p>
<p>Mistakes to avoid:</p>
<ul><li>Too focused on self </li>
<li>Commission breath</li>
<li>Thinking short term</li>
<li>Not following a system</li>
<li>Asking strangers, "How are you?"</li>
</ul>
<p>About Austin McCulloh:</p>
<p>Austin has personally made over 16,000 prospecting contacts on Linkedin. He has helped clients make over 25,000 prospecting contacts.</p>
<p>Get your copy of the <a href='https://www.mccullohadvising.com/free-tools'>10-Step Effective Prospecting Process here</a></p>
<p>If you're looking for help to bring in new qualified leads to set up weekly meetings, <a href='https://www.mccullohadvising.com/'>learn more here.</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.mccullohadvising.com/'></a></p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Austin McCulloh</p>
<p>02:43</p>
<p>LinkedIn is LinkedIn is the social media of business, or that's how we think of it. And, and a lot of us are on there. And I keep hearing from people saying, well, I've tried prospecting on LinkedIn, but it doesn't work. What do you say to that?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:03</p>
<p>You want the honest response?</p>
<p>I want the truth, the brutal truth.</p>
<p>I'm saying they don't work. I'm saying they're not doing it the right way. I mean, that's just the raw truth.</p>
<p>And the reason why I'm laughing and I say it, and do I, whoever the listener is, if they're not having success, why they should be optimistic is because they're right now listening to somebody who is, has done it more than 99.9% of the world.</p>
<p>I've failed on it, I've done well on it. So the first thing I'll say is, they probably don't have a process.</p>
<p>So they don't know who they're reaching out to. If you don't know who you're reaching out to, you don't know what to say to them, you don't know how to engage in conversation.</p>
<p>So really, they don't have the components all lined up. And then another key point, and we're going to come back to all these, but they're too focused on themselves, trying to push what they have to offer excited about what they have to offer.</p>
<p>And that's not what resonates with your prospects, especially when they're complete strangers.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>16:57</p>
<p>It's okay to be direct in terms of asking questions, if you're really trying to solve a pain point for somebody, because if it's a real pain, and you're trying to solve it, trying to help them with something.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>17:08</p>
<p>But don't have the intention to go close them right away.</p>
<p>Kind of like what you talked about George have the intention of being curious, being kind of like a researcher, ask the open ended questions, get a sense to see if it's good for them.</p>
<p>And then if anything, your intention should be to set a meeting to learn more, not close business. So focus on the meeting, not on the client yet.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>18:02</p>
<p>Somebody either accepts it, or they don't accept the connection request.</p>
<p>if they don't accept it, never gonna communicate with them not in contact with them. I</p>
<p>f they accept it, and they reply, then the conversation is ongoing. If they accept it, and they don't reply to the first message, I have it set that 92 minutes later, another follow up message will be sent.</p>
<p>And then about two days and 22 minutes later, another one is sent, I have about three total follow up messages.</p>
<p>So four total that go out, there's the connection request and the message that goes along with it, three follow ups.</p>
<p>Now sometimes you get some people who never end up, they'll accept it, but they never respond to any of those four messages. And then you get other people who respond to the first, the second, the third or the fourth, you get where I'm coming from. So that's that once somebody replies,</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>32:00</p>
<p>Just take another look at it take another go. Great question.</p>
<p>If you have not had success with prospecting online, or even if you haven't done it before, so regardless, you haven't had success because he did it or you've never done, take 30 minutes to an hour before you even start or before you restart and put together an actual plan.</p>
<p>Now obviously, working with somebody who has done it before can can critique your plan can help you a lot with it.</p>
<p>But if you know who you're reaching out to, you already have a few scripts put together already know what questions you want to ask and you know what you want your end result to be, it's all going to work much better.</p>
<p>And then also know what you want to measure for it too.</p>
<p>So have expectations of if I'm doing so many contacts, I want to see how many accepted connection requests I get, how many responses I get, because then you can tell if it was a success or failure or and also meeting set as well.</p>
<p>So that's what I'd have to say I know it's a lot of different variables, but a lot of people are just kind of shooting from the hip.</p>
<p>And when you have a plan to follow. You're much more likely to get the results that you want.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Prospecting on Linkedin does work when you follow a process
First create your prospecting plan, then follow it
Austin McCulloh helps his clients bring in qualified leads week after week. 
Episode 98 (Austin is based in Iowa City, Iowa)
 
In this conversation we explore:
How to leverage automation without spamming
How to cut through the clutter
How to leverage connection and CRM software to stay visible
Why an initial negative response is a good sign
How to integrate inbound and outbound marketing
Better questions to ask to build the relationship
 
Mistakes to avoid:
Too focused on self 
Commission breath
Thinking short term
Not following a system
Asking strangers, "How are you?"
About Austin McCulloh:
Austin has personally made over 16,000 prospecting contacts on Linkedin. He has helped clients make over 25,000 prospecting contacts.
Get your copy of the 10-Step Effective Prospecting Process here
If you're looking for help to bring in new qualified leads to set up weekly meetings, learn more here.

Excerpts from this conversation with Austin McCulloh
02:43
LinkedIn is LinkedIn is the social media of business, or that's how we think of it. And, and a lot of us are on there. And I keep hearing from people saying, well, I've tried prospecting on LinkedIn, but it doesn't work. What do you say to that?
 
03:03
You want the honest response?
I want the truth, the brutal truth.
I'm saying they don't work. I'm saying they're not doing it the right way. I mean, that's just the raw truth.
And the reason why I'm laughing and I say it, and do I, whoever the listener is, if they're not having success, why they should be optimistic is because they're right now listening to somebody who is, has done it more than 99.9% of the world.
I've failed on it, I've done well on it. So the first thing I'll say is, they probably don't have a process.
So they don't know who they're reaching out to. If you don't know who you're reaching out to, you don't know what to say to them, you don't know how to engage in conversation.
So really, they don't have the components all lined up. And then another key point, and we're going to come back to all these, but they're too focused on themselves, trying to push what they have to offer excited about what they have to offer.
And that's not what resonates with your prospects, especially when they're complete strangers.
-----
16:57
It's okay to be direct in terms of asking questions, if you're really trying to solve a pain point for somebody, because if it's a real pain, and you're trying to solve it, trying to help them with something.
 
17:08
But don't have the intention to go close them right away.
Kind of like what you talked about George have the intention of being curious, being kind of like a researcher, ask the open ended questions, get a sense to see if it's good for them.
And then if anything, your intention should be to set a meeting to learn more, not close business. So focus on the meeting, not on the client yet.
-----
18:02
Somebody either accepts it, or they don't accept the connection request.
if they don't accept it, never gonna communicate with them not in contact with them. I
f they accept it, and they reply, then the conversation is ongoing. If they accept it, and they don't reply to the first message, I have it set that 92 minutes later, another follow up message will be sent.
And then about two days and 22 minutes later, another one is sent, I have about three total follow up messages.
So four total that go out, there's the connection request and the message that goes along with it, three follow ups.
Now sometimes you get some people who never end up, they'll accept it, but they never respond to any of those four messages. And then you get other people who respond to the first, the second, the third or the fourth, you get where I'm coming from. So that's that once somebody replies,
-----
32:00
Just take another look at it take another go. Great question.
If you have not had success with]]></itunes:summary>
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What are the differences and relationships amongst them?
<p>Fredrik Haren is The Creativity Explorer. He's on a journey to explore creativity around the world from diverse perspectives and experiences.</p>
<p>Episode 97 (Fredrik was living in Singapore and moving back to Sweden)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why it's important to discover your inner theme</li>
<li>How the right brand moniker distinguishes you from the competition</li>
<li>The danger of being labeled an expert</li>
<li>Why you need to start your presentation from the position of the audience</li>
<li>How message and mission are connected</li>
<li>A place to inspire your creativity</li>
</ul>
<p>About Fredrik Haren"</p>
<p>Fredrik is known as The Creativity Explorer. He has interviewed thousands of people in 70 countries on six continents about their creative process. </p>
<p>His book, The Idea Book, was included in "The 100 Best Business Books of All Time".</p>
<p>Fredrik owns three islands. One of them, known as "Ideas Island" (<a href='http://www.IdeasIsland.com'>www.IdeasIsland.com</a>) he never stays on. Instead he lends the island out, for free, to creative people from around the world who want to spend a week to work on a creative project.</p>
<p>Fredrik helps people find their Inner Theme to help them get clarity on their purpose and true message. It's an intense one hour, on-off, session.</p>
<p>To learn more about the Clarity session contact Fredrik at <a href='mailto:clarity@interesting.org'>clarity@interesting.org</a></p>
<p>Or connect on Linkedin <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/fredrikharen/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/fredrikharen/</a></p>
<p>Visit his website at <a href='http://www.FredrikHaren.com'>www.FredrikHaren.com</a></p>
<p>His Inner Theme: Humanity to the power of ideas</p>
<p>His Brand Moniker: The Creativity Explorer</p>
<p>His Core Message: Helping humanity create its potential</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Fredrik Haren</p>
The topic is creativity, my inner theme is humanity to the power of ideas. So what that means is I believe in the potential of humanity, and I believe in the power of human creativity, so the humanity to the power of ideas, that's my inner theme.
<p>07:55</p>
<p>Moniker is like a nickname, but it's based on the character of a person.</p>
<p>So a brand moniker is basically a description of your character as a speaker, based on what you speak on. My brand moniker is the Creativity Explorer.</p>
<p>And there are many, many creativity speakers, but there's only one Creativity Explorer. And to explore means to venture into unknown territory in order to learn more about it.</p>
<p>Instead of being a creativity expert, which 1000s of people are an expert kind of implies that you know, everything about a topic, and explore it knows nothing about the topic, but he's desperate, very, very keen and curious to find out as much as he can.</p>
<p>So I explore human creativity, I'd much rather be the creativity explorer than the creativity expert. And that makes me do those very unusual interviews with going to Mongolia and interviewing the nomads, or paper artists in Bangkok are those kind of people that I interview to truly understand human creativity, regardless of industry, country culture, or whatever.</p>
<p>If there's one thousand Creativity speakers, there's only one Creativity explorer.</p>
<p>So the brand moniker this makes me stand out against all the other people who have similar topics to speak on.</p>
<p>And the inner theme is that resonating the resonance to that message that only that only I can, that only I can deliver the only that only I can deliver, but that everyone needs to hear, which is that everyone should be more everyone should be more creative.</p>
<p>And everyone should learn from everyone around the world to pick up the best ideas regardless where they might be.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>14:33</p>
<p>Start where the audience mentally is. Where, what's their understanding of the topic you're going to speak on, and you have to start there and then you can bring them all the way to where you are, if you're skilled enough, or rhetorically strong enough or or if sometimes you might not.</p>
<p>I would argue it's always possible as long as you start where they are.</p>
<p>There's the one of my classical rhetorical trick. Formula is the four piece of material whereas its position problem possibility proposal. </p>
<p>And the first one is the most important position means where are we now? And it's and you just basically describe where what the world looks like in words that makes an audience say, Yes, this is true.</p>
<p>This is where we are right now, then comes the problem. And most people start with a problem right away. If you start with a problem right away, and people haven't agree that that is the problem, then that you have lost them.</p>
<p>So you start with where we are, then you say the problem, then you paint the picture. Imagine if we don't have this picture if we don't have this problem anymore. And therefore, then comes the proposal. What do we need to do now?</p>
<p>Very simple rhetorical trick to deliver any speech.</p>
<p>America used to be great, but now we have lost our position that was, the problem is we're not the superpower. We're not a great country that we used to be. We are getting getting immigrants are coming in and they're raping our women.</p>
<p>Therefore, I suggest, but imagine if you live in a country that was as safe and innovative as we used to be good old days. Therefore, I propose to build we build a wall against Mexico.</p>
<p>Classic, very simple rhetoric.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>25:40</p>
<p>For example, I love the name of your podcast. And you know, message, the word. In the terminology, I'm very much into words, the meaning of words at the ethnology of message is actually the same as meaning of the word mission.</p>
<p>So a message is a mission. Message and mission is the same word. I mean, if you go far back in history. So a message you could say is you on a mission></p>
<p>That's how I interpret it. If it's done right. Then when you communicate your words are on a mission to communicate that your inner thoughts and, and convey convictions.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>26:20</p>
<p>And I'm I'm curious, and I know we don't have time to do it right now, Frederick. But if you were to go deeper on me, and and you write the word message, the word message does resonate strongly with me it it didn't just wasn't by accident, I played with several themes and the word I kept coming back to the word message.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>26:43</p>
<p>I wouldn't start with message.</p>
<p>I would start with intended.</p>
<p>Why did you choose intended? That would be my that would be my first question. If I was gonna go deeper on this podcast, like why did you choose to do a podcast on this?</p>
<p>Because that is that is a very good word. You words that are unusual that people use are usually much more, there's much more value, there's more gold there than use the words that everyone uses. Why did you pick intended?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>27:19</p>
<p>Because in my mind, when we communicate, we send intended messages, and we send unintended messages. And often the unintended gets in the way, and that and people are blind to their unintended message.</p>
<p>Well, that's not what I said, Well, that's the way you said it. That's what I heard. And certainly, I've learned from my own mistakes there, too. I've said something and it's up that didn't come out right. Now what was in here, it's not what I really meant to say, to say, but it came out wrong. And so yeah, so that's my challenge.</p>
<p>I suppose that's my mission, to help people deliver their intended message more successfully.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Inner Theme, Brand Moniker & Core Message
What are the differences and relationships amongst them?
<p>Fredrik Haren is The Creativity Explorer. He's on a journey to explore creativity around the world from diverse perspectives and experiences.</p>
<p>Episode 97 (Fredrik was living in Singapore and moving back to Sweden)</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>In this conversation we explore:</em></p>
<ul><li>Why it's important to discover your inner theme</li>
<li>How the right brand moniker distinguishes you from the competition</li>
<li>The danger of being labeled an expert</li>
<li>Why you need to start your presentation from the position of the audience</li>
<li>How message and mission are connected</li>
<li>A place to inspire your creativity</li>
</ul>
<p>About Fredrik Haren"</p>
<p>Fredrik is known as The Creativity Explorer. He has interviewed thousands of people in 70 countries on six continents about their creative process. </p>
<p>His book, The Idea Book, was included in "The 100 Best Business Books of All Time".</p>
<p>Fredrik owns three islands. One of them, known as "Ideas Island" (<a href='http://www.IdeasIsland.com'>www.IdeasIsland.com</a>) he never stays on. Instead he lends the island out, for free, to creative people from around the world who want to spend a week to work on a creative project.</p>
<p>Fredrik helps people find their Inner Theme to help them get clarity on their purpose and true message. It's an intense one hour, on-off, session.</p>
<p>To learn more about the Clarity session contact Fredrik at <a href='mailto:clarity@interesting.org'>clarity@interesting.org</a></p>
<p>Or connect on Linkedin <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/fredrikharen/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/fredrikharen/</a></p>
<p>Visit his website at <a href='http://www.FredrikHaren.com'>www.FredrikHaren.com</a></p>
<p>His Inner Theme: Humanity to the power of ideas</p>
<p>His Brand Moniker: The Creativity Explorer</p>
<p>His Core Message: Helping humanity create its potential</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Fredrik Haren</p>
The topic is creativity, my inner theme is humanity to the power of ideas. So what that means is I believe in the potential of humanity, and I believe in the power of human creativity, so the humanity to the power of ideas, that's my inner theme.
<p>07:55</p>
<p>Moniker is like a nickname, but it's based on the character of a person.</p>
<p>So a brand moniker is basically a description of your character as a speaker, based on what you speak on. My brand moniker is the Creativity Explorer.</p>
<p>And there are many, many creativity speakers, but there's only one Creativity Explorer. And to explore means to venture into unknown territory in order to learn more about it.</p>
<p>Instead of being a creativity expert, which 1000s of people are an expert kind of implies that you know, everything about a topic, and explore it knows nothing about the topic, but he's desperate, very, very keen and curious to find out as much as he can.</p>
<p>So I explore human creativity, I'd much rather be the creativity explorer than the creativity expert. And that makes me do those very unusual interviews with going to Mongolia and interviewing the nomads, or paper artists in Bangkok are those kind of people that I interview to truly understand human creativity, regardless of industry, country culture, or whatever.</p>
<p>If there's one thousand Creativity speakers, there's only one Creativity explorer.</p>
<p>So the brand moniker this makes me stand out against all the other people who have similar topics to speak on.</p>
<p>And the inner theme is that resonating the resonance to that message that only that only I can, that only I can deliver the only that only I can deliver, but that everyone needs to hear, which is that everyone should be more everyone should be more creative.</p>
<p>And everyone should learn from everyone around the world to pick up the best ideas regardless where they might be.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>14:33</p>
<p>Start where the audience mentally is. Where, what's their understanding of the topic you're going to speak on, and you have to start there and then you can bring them all the way to where you are, if you're skilled enough, or rhetorically strong enough or or if sometimes you might not.</p>
<p>I would argue it's always possible as long as you start where they are.</p>
<p>There's the one of my classical rhetorical trick. Formula is the four piece of material whereas its position problem possibility proposal. </p>
<p>And the first one is the most important position means where are we now? And it's and you just basically describe where what the world looks like in words that makes an audience say, Yes, this is true.</p>
<p>This is where we are right now, then comes the problem. And most people start with a problem right away. If you start with a problem right away, and people haven't agree that that is the problem, then that you have lost them.</p>
<p>So you start with where we are, then you say the problem, then you paint the picture. Imagine if we don't have this picture if we don't have this problem anymore. And therefore, then comes the proposal. What do we need to do now?</p>
<p>Very simple rhetorical trick to deliver any speech.</p>
<p>America used to be great, but now we have lost our position that was, the problem is we're not the superpower. We're not a great country that we used to be. We are getting getting immigrants are coming in and they're raping our women.</p>
<p>Therefore, I suggest, but imagine if you live in a country that was as safe and innovative as we used to be good old days. Therefore, I propose to build we build a wall against Mexico.</p>
<p>Classic, very simple rhetoric.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>25:40</p>
<p>For example, I love the name of your podcast. And you know, message, the word. In the terminology, I'm very much into words, the meaning of words at the ethnology of message is actually the same as meaning of the word mission.</p>
<p>So a message is a mission. Message and mission is the same word. I mean, if you go far back in history. So a message you could say is you on a mission></p>
<p>That's how I interpret it. If it's done right. Then when you communicate your words are on a mission to communicate that your inner thoughts and, and convey convictions.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>26:20</p>
<p>And I'm I'm curious, and I know we don't have time to do it right now, Frederick. But if you were to go deeper on me, and and you write the word message, the word message does resonate strongly with me it it didn't just wasn't by accident, I played with several themes and the word I kept coming back to the word message.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>26:43</p>
<p>I wouldn't start with message.</p>
<p>I would start with intended.</p>
<p>Why did you choose intended? That would be my that would be my first question. If I was gonna go deeper on this podcast, like why did you choose to do a podcast on this?</p>
<p>Because that is that is a very good word. You words that are unusual that people use are usually much more, there's much more value, there's more gold there than use the words that everyone uses. Why did you pick intended?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>27:19</p>
<p>Because in my mind, when we communicate, we send intended messages, and we send unintended messages. And often the unintended gets in the way, and that and people are blind to their unintended message.</p>
<p>Well, that's not what I said, Well, that's the way you said it. That's what I heard. And certainly, I've learned from my own mistakes there, too. I've said something and it's up that didn't come out right. Now what was in here, it's not what I really meant to say, to say, but it came out wrong. And so yeah, so that's my challenge.</p>
<p>I suppose that's my mission, to help people deliver their intended message more successfully.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Inner Theme, Brand Moniker & Core Message
What are the differences and relationships amongst them?
Fredrik Haren is The Creativity Explorer. He's on a journey to explore creativity around the world from diverse perspectives and experiences.
Episode 97 (Fredrik was living in Singapore and moving back to Sweden)
 
In this conversation we explore:
Why it's important to discover your inner theme
How the right brand moniker distinguishes you from the competition
The danger of being labeled an expert
Why you need to start your presentation from the position of the audience
How message and mission are connected
A place to inspire your creativity
About Fredrik Haren"
Fredrik is known as The Creativity Explorer. He has interviewed thousands of people in 70 countries on six continents about their creative process. 
His book, The Idea Book, was included in "The 100 Best Business Books of All Time".
Fredrik owns three islands. One of them, known as "Ideas Island" (www.IdeasIsland.com) he never stays on. Instead he lends the island out, for free, to creative people from around the world who want to spend a week to work on a creative project.
Fredrik helps people find their Inner Theme to help them get clarity on their purpose and true message. It's an intense one hour, on-off, session.
To learn more about the Clarity session contact Fredrik at clarity@interesting.org
Or connect on Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/fredrikharen/
Visit his website at www.FredrikHaren.com
His Inner Theme: Humanity to the power of ideas
His Brand Moniker: The Creativity Explorer
His Core Message: Helping humanity create its potential
 
Excerpts from this conversation with Fredrik Haren
The topic is creativity, my inner theme is humanity to the power of ideas. So what that means is I believe in the potential of humanity, and I believe in the power of human creativity, so the humanity to the power of ideas, that's my inner theme.
07:55
Moniker is like a nickname, but it's based on the character of a person.
So a brand moniker is basically a description of your character as a speaker, based on what you speak on. My brand moniker is the Creativity Explorer.
And there are many, many creativity speakers, but there's only one Creativity Explorer. And to explore means to venture into unknown territory in order to learn more about it.
Instead of being a creativity expert, which 1000s of people are an expert kind of implies that you know, everything about a topic, and explore it knows nothing about the topic, but he's desperate, very, very keen and curious to find out as much as he can.
So I explore human creativity, I'd much rather be the creativity explorer than the creativity expert. And that makes me do those very unusual interviews with going to Mongolia and interviewing the nomads, or paper artists in Bangkok are those kind of people that I interview to truly understand human creativity, regardless of industry, country culture, or whatever.
If there's one thousand Creativity speakers, there's only one Creativity explorer.
So the brand moniker this makes me stand out against all the other people who have similar topics to speak on.
And the inner theme is that resonating the resonance to that message that only that only I can, that only I can deliver the only that only I can deliver, but that everyone needs to hear, which is that everyone should be more everyone should be more creative.
And everyone should learn from everyone around the world to pick up the best ideas regardless where they might be.
-----
14:33
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I would argue it's always possible as long as you start where they are.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Better Marketing Starts with the Fundamentals
Create your marketing plan by asking the right questions
<p>Tim Fitzpatrick is the president of Rialto Marketing. He points out that marketing doesn't need to be difficult when you create the right plan.</p>
<p>Episode 96 (Tim is based in Colorado)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What are the fundamentals of marketing?</li>
<li>What else should you know about your customers?</li>
<li>What descriptors might you use to describe your best customers?</li>
<li>How many key markets should you have?</li>
<li>What questions do you need to ask of yourself?</li>
<li>Why your customer needs to be the hero while you are the guide?</li>
</ul>
<p>About Tim Fitzpatrick:</p>
<p>Tim has been an entrepreneur for more than 25 years. His first company grew 60% before being acquired in 2005.</p>
<p>Tim has been described as displaying an incredibly dry sense of humor. When you think he's serious, he might be joking.</p>
<p>Learn more about Tim and <a href='https://www.rialtomarketing.com/'>Rialto Marketing here</a>.</p>
<p>Get your free copy of the <a href='http://www.GrowthMarketingPlan.com'>90-day marketing plan here</a>.</p>
<p><a href='http://www.GrowthMarketingPlan.com'>www.GrowthMarketingPlan.com</a></p>
<p>Tim Fitzpatrick is the host of <a href='https://www.rialtomarketing.com/rialto-marketing-podcast/'>The Rialto Marketing Podcast</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Tim Ftizpatrick</p>
<p>02:00</p>
<p>I would say marketing shouldn't be difficult. All you need is the right plan.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:05</p>
<p>The right plan? And that suggests that a people either don't have a plan yet, or for some reason they they create the wrong plan. Why does that happen?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:20</p>
<p>I think the biggest reason that happens is just information overload.</p>
<p>There's the first business I was involved in you mentioned wholesale distribution company. When I was in that business, it was mid 90s.</p>
<p>When I got into that business, and marketing then was totally different than it is now. You know, websites were informational brochures, there was no social media, there wasn't search engines at that point. It was totally different.</p>
<p>Now, there's all kinds of marketing channels, you know, you you have paid online advertising, you've got email marketing, you have social, you have content, you have your website, right, the list goes on and on and on. And within those channels, there's all kinds of tactics.</p>
<p>And so so many people are just battling information overload. They're like, what do I do? Like, what's the next step that I need to take based on where I am? To get to where I want to go?</p>
<p>And there's too many choices. We're just overloaded. You know, it's like going into the grocery store, and you're at the cereal aisle, it's like, people that aren't from the US to come into the cereal aisle in the US are like, Oh, my God, what the hell? Like you have like four different kinds of Chex. What's going on?</p>
<p>There's too many choices. And people don't know what the next best thing is for them to focus on. That's the biggest problem.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>16:10</p>
<p>Sounds sounds like an ideal working relationship working with people you like to work with, and profitable at the same time, I can't think of a better combination. And and I imagine that those ideal people, we probably are, we probably need to be having more conversations with them to dig deeper into what's motivating them, we probably need to be coming up with more questions. And if there's a question or two that, that you know that we might go out to those ideal customers, if we could have coffee with them or, or lunch with them or breakfast, or just sit down at a and just ask them one or two, three questions, what would be those kinds of questions that would help us better understand them and better serve them?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>16:57</p>
<p>Yeah. So I love this question. And this leads right into, you have the your intended message podcast here. That's what we're moving into.</p>
<p>As you interview clients, you cannot create messaging that is going to gain your audience's attention and interest until you understand them completely.</p>
<p>You need to be able to enter the conversation they're having in their head as it relates to what you do. And we need to speak in their language, not our own. And the only way we can do that is by doing research.</p>
<p>And the easiest place to start is exactly what you just said, we always recommend people interview their existing and past customers.</p>
<p>Once you know who those ideal clients are, then you can reach out to him. Say, Hey, you know, as a current or past customer, we we value your opinion, you know, we would love to just chat with you and ask you a little bit more about your what your experience has been with us.</p>
<p>Would you be willing to take 10 or 15 minutes? Awesome, great, cool. So when you sit down and have that conversation, there's a lot of different questions you can ask. But they're all they all need to fall in this realm.</p>
<p>One, when when you started looking for companies like ours, what was the problem that you had that you needed to solve? How, how? How had you tried to solve that problem? In the past? And it didn't work? How is it making you feel?</p>
<p>How did you find us? Why did you choose us? What about us? versus our competitors? Made you choose us? In working with us? What's been the biggest benefit or result that you've gained in working with us? You know, why do you love working with us? And in some of these, we need to dig deeper.</p>
<p>Like, you know, somebody says, Well, gosh, you have great customer service. Well, awesome. Anybody can say that. Who cares? Right? So when they say, Well, you have great customer service. Hey, can you? Thank you?</p>
<p>Can you give me a time or two that we were we showed that great customer service? Like what did that? What happened that made you feel that way?</p>
<p>So sometimes we need to dig below the surface, because what we really want to get to is, you know, the results that they're looking for, right? Or the results that we've given them, their surface level results, right? Oh, well, we help them generate more leads. So they grew their business. Why was that important?</p>
<p>We want to get to the stuff that's at the heart of them. Because when we can dig below the surface, it's those things that are really going to hit on, you know, so it's like, do we help them spend be able to spend more time with our family, right?</p>
<p>You know, a lot of people talk about helping people make more money well, great. but it's not it's not about the money. It's about what the money can do for them. So what is it that that money can do for them that they're looking for? We want to understand that. Because when we can talk about those things, that's what's really going to hit them emotionally and get them to entice them to take that next step. So it's questions like that.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://www.rialtomarketing.com/'></a></p>
<p>Get your free copy of the 90-Day Marketing Plan tool kit here</p>
<p><a href='http://www.GrowthMarketingPlan.com'>www.GrowthMarketingPlan.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Better Marketing Starts with the Fundamentals
Create your marketing plan by asking the right questions
<p>Tim Fitzpatrick is the president of Rialto Marketing. He points out that marketing doesn't need to be difficult when you create the right plan.</p>
<p>Episode 96 (Tim is based in Colorado)</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>In this conversation we explore:</em></p>
<ul><li>What are the fundamentals of marketing?</li>
<li>What else should you know about your customers?</li>
<li>What descriptors might you use to describe your best customers?</li>
<li>How many key markets should you have?</li>
<li>What questions do you need to ask of yourself?</li>
<li>Why your customer needs to be the hero while you are the guide?</li>
</ul>
<p>About Tim Fitzpatrick:</p>
<p>Tim has been an entrepreneur for more than 25 years. His first company grew 60% before being acquired in 2005.</p>
<p>Tim has been described as displaying an incredibly dry sense of humor. When you think he's serious, he might be joking.</p>
<p>Learn more about Tim and <a href='https://www.rialtomarketing.com/'>Rialto Marketing here</a>.</p>
<p>Get your free copy of the <a href='http://www.GrowthMarketingPlan.com'>90-day marketing plan here</a>.</p>
<p><a href='http://www.GrowthMarketingPlan.com'>www.GrowthMarketingPlan.com</a></p>
<p>Tim Fitzpatrick is the host of <a href='https://www.rialtomarketing.com/rialto-marketing-podcast/'>The Rialto Marketing Podcast</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Tim Ftizpatrick</p>
<p>02:00</p>
<p>I would say marketing shouldn't be difficult. All you need is the right plan.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:05</p>
<p>The right plan? And that suggests that a people either don't have a plan yet, or for some reason they they create the wrong plan. Why does that happen?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:20</p>
<p>I think the biggest reason that happens is just information overload.</p>
<p>There's the first business I was involved in you mentioned wholesale distribution company. When I was in that business, it was mid 90s.</p>
<p>When I got into that business, and marketing then was totally different than it is now. You know, websites were informational brochures, there was no social media, there wasn't search engines at that point. It was totally different.</p>
<p>Now, there's all kinds of marketing channels, you know, you you have paid online advertising, you've got email marketing, you have social, you have content, you have your website, right, the list goes on and on and on. And within those channels, there's all kinds of tactics.</p>
<p>And so so many people are just battling information overload. They're like, what do I do? Like, what's the next step that I need to take based on where I am? To get to where I want to go?</p>
<p>And there's too many choices. We're just overloaded. You know, it's like going into the grocery store, and you're at the cereal aisle, it's like, people that aren't from the US to come into the cereal aisle in the US are like, Oh, my God, what the hell? Like you have like four different kinds of Chex. What's going on?</p>
<p>There's too many choices. And people don't know what the next best thing is for them to focus on. That's the biggest problem.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>16:10</p>
<p>Sounds sounds like an ideal working relationship working with people you like to work with, and profitable at the same time, I can't think of a better combination. And and I imagine that those ideal people, we probably are, we probably need to be having more conversations with them to dig deeper into what's motivating them, we probably need to be coming up with more questions. And if there's a question or two that, that you know that we might go out to those ideal customers, if we could have coffee with them or, or lunch with them or breakfast, or just sit down at a and just ask them one or two, three questions, what would be those kinds of questions that would help us better understand them and better serve them?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>16:57</p>
<p>Yeah. So I love this question. And this leads right into, you have the your intended message podcast here. That's what we're moving into.</p>
<p>As you interview clients, you cannot create messaging that is going to gain your audience's attention and interest until you understand them completely.</p>
<p>You need to be able to enter the conversation they're having in their head as it relates to what you do. And we need to speak in their language, not our own. And the only way we can do that is by doing research.</p>
<p>And the easiest place to start is exactly what you just said, we always recommend people interview their existing and past customers.</p>
<p>Once you know who those ideal clients are, then you can reach out to him. Say, Hey, you know, as a current or past customer, we we value your opinion, you know, we would love to just chat with you and ask you a little bit more about your what your experience has been with us.</p>
<p>Would you be willing to take 10 or 15 minutes? Awesome, great, cool. So when you sit down and have that conversation, there's a lot of different questions you can ask. But they're all they all need to fall in this realm.</p>
<p>One, when when you started looking for companies like ours, what was the problem that you had that you needed to solve? How, how? How had you tried to solve that problem? In the past? And it didn't work? How is it making you feel?</p>
<p>How did you find us? Why did you choose us? What about us? versus our competitors? Made you choose us? In working with us? What's been the biggest benefit or result that you've gained in working with us? You know, why do you love working with us? And in some of these, we need to dig deeper.</p>
<p>Like, you know, somebody says, Well, gosh, you have great customer service. Well, awesome. Anybody can say that. Who cares? Right? So when they say, Well, you have great customer service. Hey, can you? Thank you?</p>
<p>Can you give me a time or two that we were we showed that great customer service? Like what did that? What happened that made you feel that way?</p>
<p>So sometimes we need to dig below the surface, because what we really want to get to is, you know, the results that they're looking for, right? Or the results that we've given them, their surface level results, right? Oh, well, we help them generate more leads. So they grew their business. Why was that important?</p>
<p>We want to get to the stuff that's at the heart of them. Because when we can dig below the surface, it's those things that are really going to hit on, you know, so it's like, do we help them spend be able to spend more time with our family, right?</p>
<p>You know, a lot of people talk about helping people make more money well, great. but it's not it's not about the money. It's about what the money can do for them. So what is it that that money can do for them that they're looking for? We want to understand that. Because when we can talk about those things, that's what's really going to hit them emotionally and get them to entice them to take that next step. So it's questions like that.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://www.rialtomarketing.com/'></a></p>
<p>Get your free copy of the 90-Day Marketing Plan tool kit here</p>
<p><a href='http://www.GrowthMarketingPlan.com'>www.GrowthMarketingPlan.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Better Marketing Starts with the Fundamentals
Create your marketing plan by asking the right questions
Tim Fitzpatrick is the president of Rialto Marketing. He points out that marketing doesn't need to be difficult when you create the right plan.
Episode 96 (Tim is based in Colorado)
 
In this conversation we explore:
What are the fundamentals of marketing?
What else should you know about your customers?
What descriptors might you use to describe your best customers?
How many key markets should you have?
What questions do you need to ask of yourself?
Why your customer needs to be the hero while you are the guide?
About Tim Fitzpatrick:
Tim has been an entrepreneur for more than 25 years. His first company grew 60% before being acquired in 2005.
Tim has been described as displaying an incredibly dry sense of humor. When you think he's serious, he might be joking.
Learn more about Tim and Rialto Marketing here.
Get your free copy of the 90-day marketing plan here.
www.GrowthMarketingPlan.com
Tim Fitzpatrick is the host of The Rialto Marketing Podcast
 
Excerpts from this conversation with Tim Ftizpatrick
02:00
I would say marketing shouldn't be difficult. All you need is the right plan.
 
02:05
The right plan? And that suggests that a people either don't have a plan yet, or for some reason they they create the wrong plan. Why does that happen?
 
02:20
I think the biggest reason that happens is just information overload.
There's the first business I was involved in you mentioned wholesale distribution company. When I was in that business, it was mid 90s.
When I got into that business, and marketing then was totally different than it is now. You know, websites were informational brochures, there was no social media, there wasn't search engines at that point. It was totally different.
Now, there's all kinds of marketing channels, you know, you you have paid online advertising, you've got email marketing, you have social, you have content, you have your website, right, the list goes on and on and on. And within those channels, there's all kinds of tactics.
And so so many people are just battling information overload. They're like, what do I do? Like, what's the next step that I need to take based on where I am? To get to where I want to go?
And there's too many choices. We're just overloaded. You know, it's like going into the grocery store, and you're at the cereal aisle, it's like, people that aren't from the US to come into the cereal aisle in the US are like, Oh, my God, what the hell? Like you have like four different kinds of Chex. What's going on?
There's too many choices. And people don't know what the next best thing is for them to focus on. That's the biggest problem.
-----
16:10
Sounds sounds like an ideal working relationship working with people you like to work with, and profitable at the same time, I can't think of a better combination. And and I imagine that those ideal people, we probably are, we probably need to be having more conversations with them to dig deeper into what's motivating them, we probably need to be coming up with more questions. And if there's a question or two that, that you know that we might go out to those ideal customers, if we could have coffee with them or, or lunch with them or breakfast, or just sit down at a and just ask them one or two, three questions, what would be those kinds of questions that would help us better understand them and better serve them?
 
16:57
Yeah. So I love this question. And this leads right into, you have the your intended message podcast here. That's what we're moving into.
As you interview clients, you cannot create messaging that is going to gain your audience's attention and interest until you understand them completely.
You need to be able to enter the conversation they're having in their head as it relates to what you do. And we need to speak in their language, not our own. And the only way we can do that is by doing research.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to build and nurture a stronger more productive network
A strong network is based on strong relationships
<p>Michael Hughes is the networking guy. He shares his insights about networking online, in person and in a hybrid world.</p>
<p>Episode 95 (Michael is based in Ottawa, Canada)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to center your mind for a better networking experience</li>
<li>How to use Linkedin to start the conversation</li>
<li>The nuances of virtual versus live networking</li>
<li>The importance of establishing trust as the foundation </li>
<li>The importance of value exchange in networking</li>
<li>Leverage your curiosity</li>
<li>The strengths and challenges of introverts and extraverts</li>
</ul>
<p>About Michael Hughes:</p>
<p>Michael has invested the past 20 years researching networking as a business strategy and professional competency.</p>
<p>He is known as North America's Networking Guru.</p>
<p>He is a past chair of the Board of Directors of the Ottawa Board of Trade, one of the oldest and most respected Chambers of Commerce in Canada.</p>
<p>Learn more Michael Hughes and his programs at <a href='http://www.NetworkingForResults.com'>www.NetworkingForResults.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://networkingforresults.com/'></a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/networkingforresults/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/networkingforresults/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Michael Hughes</p>
<p>11:58
Here's the reality. The reality is, every person has the potential to help you in some way, to the extent that they're willing to enable your mission.</p>
<p>Our mission is to discover their ability as we grow and develop a relationship with them. So rather than having that one dimensional perspective of, "I just connected with George, I want to I want him as a client, I want him to give me money".</p>
<p>It's about understanding, George, you and I are both professionals. And there's a way that we can help one another.</p>
<p>Networking is not a sales arena. It's a peer to peer connection environment. And the more you focus on building a relationship, from a peer to peer perspective, and those opportunities are always here, as you connect with people as you interact with them to talk about their career, talk about their background, talking about their interests, talk about what's important to them.</p>
<p>And the more you can position yourself, so that you can build that relationship. Now relationships are about three things.</p>
<p>They're about trust, value, and contribution. Every important relationship in your life is based on trust. But it's built on value. And we all have a value. And then the third thing is contribution.</p>
<p>So the smartest thing you can do as you connect with people engage in these conversations, is find some way to, to contribute to them, to be helpful for them. And that's, that's the biggest piece.</p>
<p>The most difficult part for most professionals, when it comes to online networking and relationship building, is transitioning their mindset, from a technical perspective, to a personal perspective, and growing a professional relationship to see how we can help one another. That's my perspective.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>24:47</p>
<p>Michael if you could talk to to a business leader who's preparing to go to a networking event. And perhaps they're a little cautious, uncertain, nervous?</p>
<p>What if you could give them one, two or three pieces of advice? And maybe it starts with what self talk should they have?</p>
<p>What talks should they have with themselves before they go into the room?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>25:19</p>
<p>Just an excellent question</p>
<p>because too many people get so stressed and worked up about walking into a room full of people. And so what I suggest to people is just before you walk into the room, take 10 or 15 seconds and remind yourself that success you've had in the past.</p>
<p>First of all, what's one event I went to where I'm in a good context. The second thing is, is to think in terms to prepare for success. And I'm going to meet somebody here who can have an impact on my career, or my life.</p>
<p>So that's the starting point is, is prepare yourself as you walk. And the second thing is, once you while you walk in is be yourself. So many times we try and be someone else. And it just doesn't work to be yourself.</p>
<p>And the third thing is think in terms of connecting with people making friends. Remember, I keep telling people networking is not a sales environment. It's a peer to peer connection network. People don't go to networking events to be sold.</p>
<p>Consider that you're going to meet other professionals and discover the value they have and see how you can work together.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to build and nurture a stronger more productive network
A strong network is based on strong relationships
<p>Michael Hughes is the networking guy. He shares his insights about networking online, in person and in a hybrid world.</p>
<p>Episode 95 (Michael is based in Ottawa, Canada)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to center your mind for a better networking experience</li>
<li>How to use Linkedin to start the conversation</li>
<li>The nuances of virtual versus live networking</li>
<li>The importance of establishing trust as the foundation </li>
<li>The importance of value exchange in networking</li>
<li>Leverage your curiosity</li>
<li>The strengths and challenges of introverts and extraverts</li>
</ul>
<p>About Michael Hughes:</p>
<p>Michael has invested the past 20 years researching networking as a business strategy and professional competency.</p>
<p>He is known as North America's Networking Guru.</p>
<p>He is a past chair of the Board of Directors of the Ottawa Board of Trade, one of the oldest and most respected Chambers of Commerce in Canada.</p>
<p>Learn more Michael Hughes and his programs at <a href='http://www.NetworkingForResults.com'>www.NetworkingForResults.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://networkingforresults.com/'></a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/networkingforresults/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/networkingforresults/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Michael Hughes</p>
<p>11:58<br>
Here's the reality. The reality is, every person has the potential to help you in some way, to the extent that they're willing to enable your mission.</p>
<p>Our mission is to discover their ability as we grow and develop a relationship with them. So rather than having that one dimensional perspective of, "I just connected with George, I want to I want him as a client, I want him to give me money".</p>
<p>It's about understanding, George, you and I are both professionals. And there's a way that we can help one another.</p>
<p>Networking is not a sales arena. It's a peer to peer connection environment. And the more you focus on building a relationship, from a peer to peer perspective, and those opportunities are always here, as you connect with people as you interact with them to talk about their career, talk about their background, talking about their interests, talk about what's important to them.</p>
<p>And the more you can position yourself, so that you can build that relationship. Now relationships are about three things.</p>
<p>They're about trust, value, and contribution. Every important relationship in your life is based on trust. But it's built on value. And we all have a value. And then the third thing is contribution.</p>
<p>So the smartest thing you can do as you connect with people engage in these conversations, is find some way to, to contribute to them, to be helpful for them. And that's, that's the biggest piece.</p>
<p>The most difficult part for most professionals, when it comes to online networking and relationship building, is transitioning their mindset, from a technical perspective, to a personal perspective, and growing a professional relationship to see how we can help one another. That's my perspective.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>24:47</p>
<p>Michael if you could talk to to a business leader who's preparing to go to a networking event. And perhaps they're a little cautious, uncertain, nervous?</p>
<p>What if you could give them one, two or three pieces of advice? And maybe it starts with what self talk should they have?</p>
<p>What talks should they have with themselves before they go into the room?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>25:19</p>
<p>Just an excellent question</p>
<p>because too many people get so stressed and worked up about walking into a room full of people. And so what I suggest to people is just before you walk into the room, take 10 or 15 seconds and remind yourself that success you've had in the past.</p>
<p>First of all, what's one event I went to where I'm in a good context. The second thing is, is to think in terms to prepare for success. And I'm going to meet somebody here who can have an impact on my career, or my life.</p>
<p>So that's the starting point is, is prepare yourself as you walk. And the second thing is, once you while you walk in is be yourself. So many times we try and be someone else. And it just doesn't work to be yourself.</p>
<p>And the third thing is think in terms of connecting with people making friends. Remember, I keep telling people networking is not a sales environment. It's a peer to peer connection network. People don't go to networking events to be sold.</p>
<p>Consider that you're going to meet other professionals and discover the value they have and see how you can work together.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to build and nurture a stronger more productive network
A strong network is based on strong relationships
Michael Hughes is the networking guy. He shares his insights about networking online, in person and in a hybrid world.
Episode 95 (Michael is based in Ottawa, Canada)
 
In this conversation we explore:
How to center your mind for a better networking experience
How to use Linkedin to start the conversation
The nuances of virtual versus live networking
The importance of establishing trust as the foundation 
The importance of value exchange in networking
Leverage your curiosity
The strengths and challenges of introverts and extraverts
About Michael Hughes:
Michael has invested the past 20 years researching networking as a business strategy and professional competency.
He is known as North America's Networking Guru.
He is a past chair of the Board of Directors of the Ottawa Board of Trade, one of the oldest and most respected Chambers of Commerce in Canada.
Learn more Michael Hughes and his programs at www.NetworkingForResults.com

https://www.linkedin.com/in/networkingforresults/
 
Excerpts from this conversation with Michael Hughes
11:58Here's the reality. The reality is, every person has the potential to help you in some way, to the extent that they're willing to enable your mission.
Our mission is to discover their ability as we grow and develop a relationship with them. So rather than having that one dimensional perspective of, "I just connected with George, I want to I want him as a client, I want him to give me money".
It's about understanding, George, you and I are both professionals. And there's a way that we can help one another.
Networking is not a sales arena. It's a peer to peer connection environment. And the more you focus on building a relationship, from a peer to peer perspective, and those opportunities are always here, as you connect with people as you interact with them to talk about their career, talk about their background, talking about their interests, talk about what's important to them.
And the more you can position yourself, so that you can build that relationship. Now relationships are about three things.
They're about trust, value, and contribution. Every important relationship in your life is based on trust. But it's built on value. And we all have a value. And then the third thing is contribution.
So the smartest thing you can do as you connect with people engage in these conversations, is find some way to, to contribute to them, to be helpful for them. And that's, that's the biggest piece.
The most difficult part for most professionals, when it comes to online networking and relationship building, is transitioning their mindset, from a technical perspective, to a personal perspective, and growing a professional relationship to see how we can help one another. That's my perspective.
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24:47
Michael if you could talk to to a business leader who's preparing to go to a networking event. And perhaps they're a little cautious, uncertain, nervous?
What if you could give them one, two or three pieces of advice? And maybe it starts with what self talk should they have?
What talks should they have with themselves before they go into the room?
 
25:19
Just an excellent question
because too many people get so stressed and worked up about walking into a room full of people. And so what I suggest to people is just before you walk into the room, take 10 or 15 seconds and remind yourself that success you've had in the past.
First of all, what's one event I went to where I'm in a good context. The second thing is, is to think in terms to prepare for success. And I'm going to meet somebody here who can have an impact on my career, or my life.
So that's the starting point is, is prepare yourself as you walk. And the second thing is, once you while you walk in is be yourself. So many times we try and be someone else. And it just doesn't work to be yourself.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Everything happens because of a conversation
How can you shape your conversations for more positive results?
<p> </p>
<p>Jackie Stavros and Cheri Torres challenge us and guide us on how to create and participate with more productive conversations - both with ourselves and others.</p>
<p>Episode 94 (Jackie is based in Michigan. Cheri is based in North Carolina)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The difference between appreciative and depreciative conversations</li>
<li>How to use curiosity as a conversational tool</li>
<li>The concept and practice of Appreciative Inquiry</li>
<li>How to manage the conversation in your head</li>
<li>How to build a stronger team with better questions</li>
<li>The power of generative questions and positive reframing</li>
</ul>
<p> </p>
<p>About my guests:</p>
<p>They are co-authors of the book, Conversations Worth Having: Using Appreciative Inquiry to Fuel Productive and Meaningful Engagement</p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://conversationsworthhaving.today/'>Learn more about Conversations Worth Having and the free resources here.</a></p>
<p><a href='https://conversationsworthhaving.today/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Jackie Stavros is known for creating a program called SOAR. That's a positive approach to strategic thinking, planning and leading. She's worked in 25 countries using appreciative inquiry to help 1,000s of people. </p>
<p>Cheri Torres is a serial entrepreneur having started one nonprofit and two for profit organizations. She holds a Master's in transpersonal psychology and PhD in educational psychology.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Jackie Stavos and Cheri Torres</p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:50</p>
<p>The book is called Conversations worth having. And it is it's focused on the idea that everything we do happens in conversation, whether in conversation with others, or a conversation with ourselves.</p>
<p>And so if we want to have the outcomes we are hoping for, we need to be careful about the conversations we have, we need to choose to have conversations that move us towards what we want conversations that invite strong relationships, and bring us well being as well in the way we engage in those conversations.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:33</p>
<p>Now, I'm curious, I imagine that all conversations, start with the conversation with ourselves. And I'm also wondering, How much control do we have over those self conversations?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:48</p>
<p>That's a great question, George. I think if you're aware of it, and we're talking about it now, you are you have an intention to decide, am I going to come into a conversation above the line from an appreciative space?</p>
<p>Or, you know, am I am I below the line? And in our book, we talk about the importance of tuning into yourself, and simply asking a question, Where am I?</p>
<p>Am I above the line, or that depreciated place below the line. And if you're below the line, and you're listening to this, just try this technique to pause. Take a deep breath, see how that feels in you and get curious and just pausing and breathing. Get you to move above the line. It just resets your whole body mindset.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>04:33</p>
<p>Jackie, I want to clarify what the line represents.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>04:37</p>
<p>So imagine a straight line. If you're above the line, that's called an appreciative space where I value you, George, I value the situation that we're in. And I want to add value so that's appreciation.</p>
<p>If you're below that line, you're in that depreciated space where you know I may not be valuing you I may not value the situation. mission.</p>
<p>And sometimes, if you don't think about your intended message, you could fall, the words can take you below the line. And even if you don't get enough sleep or have enough water, or, you know, just just your physiologic can push it below that line. So think about where am I?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>12:57</p>
<p>Now, Sherry, I noticed some, some powerful wisdom in there and advice. And what, what resonated with me is that when one when we think we're being criticised that instead of responding in anger, or defending, or counter attacking, we respond with curiosity.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>13:26</p>
<p>Hey, George, that's exactly right. Get curious.</p>
<p>Jackie mentioned that tuning in that,  can we be intentional with our conversations?</p>
<p>That when you someone criticises you, it's normal to feel defensive, or like wanting to lash back.</p>
<p>But if you pause, that interrupts that pattern, and it also interrupts the, the biochemical soup that is starting to be dumped into your system.</p>
<p>And if you then take several deep breaths, which is what Jackie mentioned, that deep breathing kicks in the parasympathetic nervous system, which further tamps down the cortisol and testosterone, and then getting curious is a positive emotion, which pushes you into the executive functions of the brain, where you can ask a question, you can be intentional with your conversations.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>14:27</p>
<p>And I just add that there's a magazine behind me that says the business case for curiosity. So Harvard Business Review did an article on the business case for curiosity for business leaders, and there, you think about their intended messages.</p>
<p>And if you were to just look up curiosity, all the health benefits of curiosity. And if you're naturally curious, it's easier it's more natural. You'll be asking general questions.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Everything happens because of a conversation
How can you shape your conversations for more positive results?
<p> </p>
<p>Jackie Stavros and Cheri Torres challenge us and guide us on how to create and participate with more productive conversations - both with ourselves and others.</p>
<p>Episode 94 (Jackie is based in Michigan. Cheri is based in North Carolina)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The difference between appreciative and depreciative conversations</li>
<li>How to use curiosity as a conversational tool</li>
<li>The concept and practice of Appreciative Inquiry</li>
<li>How to manage the conversation in your head</li>
<li>How to build a stronger team with better questions</li>
<li>The power of generative questions and positive reframing</li>
</ul>
<p> </p>
<p>About my guests:</p>
<p>They are co-authors of the book, Conversations Worth Having: Using Appreciative Inquiry to Fuel Productive and Meaningful Engagement</p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://conversationsworthhaving.today/'>Learn more about Conversations Worth Having and the free resources here.</a></p>
<p><a href='https://conversationsworthhaving.today/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Jackie Stavros is known for creating a program called SOAR. That's a positive approach to strategic thinking, planning and leading. She's worked in 25 countries using appreciative inquiry to help 1,000s of people. </p>
<p>Cheri Torres is a serial entrepreneur having started one nonprofit and two for profit organizations. She holds a Master's in transpersonal psychology and PhD in educational psychology.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Jackie Stavos and Cheri Torres</p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:50</p>
<p>The book is called Conversations worth having. And it is it's focused on the idea that everything we do happens in conversation, whether in conversation with others, or a conversation with ourselves.</p>
<p>And so if we want to have the outcomes we are hoping for, we need to be careful about the conversations we have, we need to choose to have conversations that move us towards what we want conversations that invite strong relationships, and bring us well being as well in the way we engage in those conversations.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:33</p>
<p>Now, I'm curious, I imagine that all conversations, start with the conversation with ourselves. And I'm also wondering, How much control do we have over those self conversations?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:48</p>
<p>That's a great question, George. I think if you're aware of it, and we're talking about it now, you are you have an intention to decide, am I going to come into a conversation above the line from an appreciative space?</p>
<p>Or, you know, am I am I below the line? And in our book, we talk about the importance of tuning into yourself, and simply asking a question, Where am I?</p>
<p>Am I above the line, or that depreciated place below the line. And if you're below the line, and you're listening to this, just try this technique to pause. Take a deep breath, see how that feels in you and get curious and just pausing and breathing. Get you to move above the line. It just resets your whole body mindset.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>04:33</p>
<p>Jackie, I want to clarify what the line represents.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>04:37</p>
<p>So imagine a straight line. If you're above the line, that's called an appreciative space where I value you, George, I value the situation that we're in. And I want to add value so that's appreciation.</p>
<p>If you're below that line, you're in that depreciated space where you know I may not be valuing you I may not value the situation. mission.</p>
<p>And sometimes, if you don't think about your intended message, you could fall, the words can take you below the line. And even if you don't get enough sleep or have enough water, or, you know, just just your physiologic can push it below that line. So think about where am I?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>12:57</p>
<p>Now, Sherry, I noticed some, some powerful wisdom in there and advice. And what, what resonated with me is that when one when we think we're being criticised that instead of responding in anger, or defending, or counter attacking, we respond with curiosity.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>13:26</p>
<p>Hey, George, that's exactly right. Get curious.</p>
<p>Jackie mentioned that tuning in that,  can we be intentional with our conversations?</p>
<p>That when you someone criticises you, it's normal to feel defensive, or like wanting to lash back.</p>
<p>But if you pause, that interrupts that pattern, and it also interrupts the, the biochemical soup that is starting to be dumped into your system.</p>
<p>And if you then take several deep breaths, which is what Jackie mentioned, that deep breathing kicks in the parasympathetic nervous system, which further tamps down the cortisol and testosterone, and then getting curious is a positive emotion, which pushes you into the executive functions of the brain, where you can ask a question, you can be intentional with your conversations.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>14:27</p>
<p>And I just add that there's a magazine behind me that says the business case for curiosity. So Harvard Business Review did an article on the business case for curiosity for business leaders, and there, you think about their intended messages.</p>
<p>And if you were to just look up curiosity, all the health benefits of curiosity. And if you're naturally curious, it's easier it's more natural. You'll be asking general questions.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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How can you shape your conversations for more positive results?
 
Jackie Stavros and Cheri Torres challenge us and guide us on how to create and participate with more productive conversations - both with ourselves and others.
Episode 94 (Jackie is based in Michigan. Cheri is based in North Carolina)
 
In this conversation we explore:
The difference between appreciative and depreciative conversations
How to use curiosity as a conversational tool
The concept and practice of Appreciative Inquiry
How to manage the conversation in your head
How to build a stronger team with better questions
The power of generative questions and positive reframing
 
About my guests:
They are co-authors of the book, Conversations Worth Having: Using Appreciative Inquiry to Fuel Productive and Meaningful Engagement
 
Learn more about Conversations Worth Having and the free resources here.

 
Jackie Stavros is known for creating a program called SOAR. That's a positive approach to strategic thinking, planning and leading. She's worked in 25 countries using appreciative inquiry to help 1,000s of people. 
Cheri Torres is a serial entrepreneur having started one nonprofit and two for profit organizations. She holds a Master's in transpersonal psychology and PhD in educational psychology.
 
Excerpts from this conversation with Jackie Stavos and Cheri Torres
 
02:50
The book is called Conversations worth having. And it is it's focused on the idea that everything we do happens in conversation, whether in conversation with others, or a conversation with ourselves.
And so if we want to have the outcomes we are hoping for, we need to be careful about the conversations we have, we need to choose to have conversations that move us towards what we want conversations that invite strong relationships, and bring us well being as well in the way we engage in those conversations.
 
03:33
Now, I'm curious, I imagine that all conversations, start with the conversation with ourselves. And I'm also wondering, How much control do we have over those self conversations?
 
03:48
That's a great question, George. I think if you're aware of it, and we're talking about it now, you are you have an intention to decide, am I going to come into a conversation above the line from an appreciative space?
Or, you know, am I am I below the line? And in our book, we talk about the importance of tuning into yourself, and simply asking a question, Where am I?
Am I above the line, or that depreciated place below the line. And if you're below the line, and you're listening to this, just try this technique to pause. Take a deep breath, see how that feels in you and get curious and just pausing and breathing. Get you to move above the line. It just resets your whole body mindset.
 
04:33
Jackie, I want to clarify what the line represents.
 
04:37
So imagine a straight line. If you're above the line, that's called an appreciative space where I value you, George, I value the situation that we're in. And I want to add value so that's appreciation.
If you're below that line, you're in that depreciated space where you know I may not be valuing you I may not value the situation. mission.
And sometimes, if you don't think about your intended message, you could fall, the words can take you below the line. And even if you don't get enough sleep or have enough water, or, you know, just just your physiologic can push it below that line. So think about where am I?
-----
12:57
Now, Sherry, I noticed some, some powerful wisdom in there and advice. And what, what resonated with me is that when one when we think we're being criticised that instead of responding in anger, or defending, or counter attacking, we respond with curiosity.
 
13:26
Hey, George, that's exactly right. Get curious.
Jackie mentioned that tuning in that,  can we be intentional with our conversations?
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                                    <description><![CDATA[You can have more influence, persuasion or close deals faster
Understand personality styles and leverage the data about persuasion
<p> </p>
<p>Benjamin Bressington offers insights into the science of persuasion and selling based on behavioral research.</p>
<p>Episode 93 (Ben is an Australian living in Florida)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why AIDA is a selling model that is out of date (150 years)</li>
<li>The difference between closing and committing</li>
<li>Key questions to ask to tap their emotional needs</li>
<li>The bird conflict that you need to understand to avoid</li>
<li>The common theme between professionals sales people and start athletes</li>
<li>Why you should record your sales conversations </li>
<li>The role of data in selling</li>
</ul>
<p>About Benjamin Bressington</p>
<p>Ben applies lessons from criminology and gamification to help companies and sales people close deals faster.</p>
<p>Ben is the CEO of Behavior Sales, a leading personality intelligence company.</p>
<p>His latest book is “People Ignorant: Unlocking Success, Confidence & Influence.”</p>
<p>Learn more about how you can use the Behavior Sales techniques to boos your sales at <a href='http://www.BehaviorSales.com'>www.BehaviorSales.com</a></p>
<p>Download your free copy of the<a href='https://get.behaviorsales.com/'> Behavior Sales book free download</a></p>
<p><a href='https://get.behaviorsales.com/'></a></p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Benjamin Bressington</p>
<p> </p>
The worst thing you want to do in handling an objection is go feature benefit feature benefit because people become product pushers and not problem solvers.
<p> </p>
<p>02:28</p>
<p>It was designed for a different type of consumer behaviour. And one of the things is, you need to understand what we call sales resistance.</p>
<p>And a lot of the things people are doing in today's communication is creating unintended resistance, hence, you get ghosted. Hence, people go, Hey, that sounds interesting. Will you send me a flyer? Will you send me an email?</p>
<p>That's them brushing you off? Because what's going to happen next, they're going to ghost you, right? So the thing is, is people need to be aware of the words, they're saying how they're saying it because you're actually creating subconscious emotional resistance, which we call sales resistance, and therefore, you're actually sabotaging your own sales.</p>
<p>So you can do this with body language, and you can do it linguistically. And that's what we're why we're sharing so much about behavioural intelligence, and how this has really changed.</p>
<p>There's the old school of selling. And now there's the new school of selling, which actually uses data to actually provide people with a feedback loop on how to improve their communication.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Ben in wrapping up, if you could offer a sales leader, one, two or three bits of advice, and maybe it's something you've already said, but they're gonna they're gonna go meet with 13 for a sales meeting, and what might they be saying about we're going to change the way we're selling.</p>
<p>And here's what I want you to do. Number one, is start addressing personality, understand personality and understand how to have personality driven conversations to create the connection to is look at how you're using your sales rep. recordings.</p>
<p>A lot of people use record calls, but never do anything with them. They don't create, we can actually help a company create a winning conversation baseline that allows you to compare every conversation you're having against that to find out well, was my tonality different was my questions different, that type of stuff, right?</p>
<p>So out like we've got immense data you're not even using. So therefore you're losing massive amounts of data.</p>
<p>And three would be starting to look at how you're using persuasion. Are you using external or internal and if you're still using external I can promise you your sales are being killed.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[You can have more influence, persuasion or close deals faster
Understand personality styles and leverage the data about persuasion
<p> </p>
<p>Benjamin Bressington offers insights into the science of persuasion and selling based on behavioral research.</p>
<p>Episode 93 (Ben is an Australian living in Florida)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Why AIDA is a selling model that is out of date (150 years)</li>
<li>The difference between closing and committing</li>
<li>Key questions to ask to tap their emotional needs</li>
<li>The bird conflict that you need to understand to avoid</li>
<li>The common theme between professionals sales people and start athletes</li>
<li>Why you should record your sales conversations </li>
<li>The role of data in selling</li>
</ul>
<p>About Benjamin Bressington</p>
<p>Ben applies lessons from criminology and gamification to help companies and sales people close deals faster.</p>
<p>Ben is the CEO of Behavior Sales, a leading personality intelligence company.</p>
<p>His latest book is “People Ignorant: Unlocking Success, Confidence & Influence.”</p>
<p>Learn more about how you can use the Behavior Sales techniques to boos your sales at <a href='http://www.BehaviorSales.com'>www.BehaviorSales.com</a></p>
<p>Download your free copy of the<a href='https://get.behaviorsales.com/'> Behavior Sales book free download</a></p>
<p><a href='https://get.behaviorsales.com/'></a></p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Benjamin Bressington</p>
<p> </p>
The worst thing you want to do in handling an objection is go feature benefit feature benefit because people become product pushers and not problem solvers.
<p> </p>
<p>02:28</p>
<p>It was designed for a different type of consumer behaviour. And one of the things is, you need to understand what we call sales resistance.</p>
<p>And a lot of the things people are doing in today's communication is creating unintended resistance, hence, you get ghosted. Hence, people go, Hey, that sounds interesting. Will you send me a flyer? Will you send me an email?</p>
<p>That's them brushing you off? Because what's going to happen next, they're going to ghost you, right? So the thing is, is people need to be aware of the words, they're saying how they're saying it because you're actually creating subconscious emotional resistance, which we call sales resistance, and therefore, you're actually sabotaging your own sales.</p>
<p>So you can do this with body language, and you can do it linguistically. And that's what we're why we're sharing so much about behavioural intelligence, and how this has really changed.</p>
<p>There's the old school of selling. And now there's the new school of selling, which actually uses data to actually provide people with a feedback loop on how to improve their communication.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Ben in wrapping up, if you could offer a sales leader, one, two or three bits of advice, and maybe it's something you've already said, but they're gonna they're gonna go meet with 13 for a sales meeting, and what might they be saying about we're going to change the way we're selling.</p>
<p>And here's what I want you to do. Number one, is start addressing personality, understand personality and understand how to have personality driven conversations to create the connection to is look at how you're using your sales rep. recordings.</p>
<p>A lot of people use record calls, but never do anything with them. They don't create, we can actually help a company create a winning conversation baseline that allows you to compare every conversation you're having against that to find out well, was my tonality different was my questions different, that type of stuff, right?</p>
<p>So out like we've got immense data you're not even using. So therefore you're losing massive amounts of data.</p>
<p>And three would be starting to look at how you're using persuasion. Are you using external or internal and if you're still using external I can promise you your sales are being killed.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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Understand personality styles and leverage the data about persuasion
 
Benjamin Bressington offers insights into the science of persuasion and selling based on behavioral research.
Episode 93 (Ben is an Australian living in Florida)
 
In this conversation we explore:
Why AIDA is a selling model that is out of date (150 years)
The difference between closing and committing
Key questions to ask to tap their emotional needs
The bird conflict that you need to understand to avoid
The common theme between professionals sales people and start athletes
Why you should record your sales conversations 
The role of data in selling
About Benjamin Bressington
Ben applies lessons from criminology and gamification to help companies and sales people close deals faster.
Ben is the CEO of Behavior Sales, a leading personality intelligence company.
His latest book is “People Ignorant: Unlocking Success, Confidence & Influence.”
Learn more about how you can use the Behavior Sales techniques to boos your sales at www.BehaviorSales.com
Download your free copy of the Behavior Sales book free download

Excerpts from this conversation with Benjamin Bressington
 
The worst thing you want to do in handling an objection is go feature benefit feature benefit because people become product pushers and not problem solvers.
 
02:28
It was designed for a different type of consumer behaviour. And one of the things is, you need to understand what we call sales resistance.
And a lot of the things people are doing in today's communication is creating unintended resistance, hence, you get ghosted. Hence, people go, Hey, that sounds interesting. Will you send me a flyer? Will you send me an email?
That's them brushing you off? Because what's going to happen next, they're going to ghost you, right? So the thing is, is people need to be aware of the words, they're saying how they're saying it because you're actually creating subconscious emotional resistance, which we call sales resistance, and therefore, you're actually sabotaging your own sales.
So you can do this with body language, and you can do it linguistically. And that's what we're why we're sharing so much about behavioural intelligence, and how this has really changed.
There's the old school of selling. And now there's the new school of selling, which actually uses data to actually provide people with a feedback loop on how to improve their communication.
-----
Ben in wrapping up, if you could offer a sales leader, one, two or three bits of advice, and maybe it's something you've already said, but they're gonna they're gonna go meet with 13 for a sales meeting, and what might they be saying about we're going to change the way we're selling.
And here's what I want you to do. Number one, is start addressing personality, understand personality and understand how to have personality driven conversations to create the connection to is look at how you're using your sales rep. recordings.
A lot of people use record calls, but never do anything with them. They don't create, we can actually help a company create a winning conversation baseline that allows you to compare every conversation you're having against that to find out well, was my tonality different was my questions different, that type of stuff, right?
So out like we've got immense data you're not even using. So therefore you're losing massive amounts of data.
And three would be starting to look at how you're using persuasion. Are you using external or internal and if you're still using external I can promise you your sales are being killed.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to leverage your content by reusing and recycling it in other formats
Stay in touch with your market with bite sized messages
<p> </p>
<p>Sally Curtis points out the marketing power of bite sized messages and reveals how to leverage your existing content to reconnect to stay remembered.</p>
<p>Episode 92 (Sally Curtis is based in Australia)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to repurpose content from your book or whitepaper</li>
<li>Where to find content even if you haven't written a book or whitepaper</li>
<li>How to create your messages bites to be easily consumable</li>
<li>How to create teachable moments that linger with your target audience</li>
<li>The role of the right image for your tiles</li>
<li>How you can use a question in your bite sized message to engage</li>
</ul>
<p>About Sally Curtis</p>
<p>Sally is a content repurposing and marketing strategist who helps authors consultants, speakers and professionals leverage their wisdom to educate and retain their clients.</p>
<p>She is the chapter president of the South Australian Professional Speakers of Australia.</p>
<p>Learn more Sally Curtis and her programs at <a href='http://www.SallyCurtis.biz'>www.SallyCurtis.biz</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://www.sallyacurtis.biz/'></a></p>
<p>Get your free copy of the ebook, <a href='https://sallycurtis.ac-page.com/the-3-easy-steps-to-turn-your-book-into-2-years-worth-of-content'>The 3 Easy Steps to Turn Your Book into 2 years Worth of Content</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://sallycurtis.ac-page.com/the-3-easy-steps-to-turn-your-book-into-2-years-worth-of-content'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Sally Curtis</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:30</p>
<p>The reports and the white papers and the blog post don't go away, we still need words to to gather the information. But within the words, there are key points, key reminders. And if we can, it seems to me if we could represent those key points in a visual way that people need to be reminded.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:57</p>
<p>Absolutely, and that's the key thing when your intended message is to create an impact for your audience.</p>
<p>And you've got all of this great content. One of my beliefs is that your, your clients need to be able to consume you on their worst day. </p>
<p>So if someone's having a few think back to your own as scenario, when you're having a really bad day, the last thing you want to do is read a long email. And that's when we get into ticking and flicking emails.</p>
<p>So if you transport or parallel that across your articles, people aren't going to want to read a long article when they're having a bad day. So if you're wanting to create that impact by making it bite sized, you're actually making it easy to consume, easy for them to understand and easy for them to remain connected to you, even when they're having a very, very bad day.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>04:50</p>
<p>And that makes sense to me because there's some days when I when I pick up the newspaper. I just I read the headlines and I read the comics</p>
<p> </p>
<p>05:00</p>
<p>Yes, absolutely. There you go. Yep. And that's, that's the whole thing, what you've done there is you've automatically gone, it's that that is too hard.</p>
<p>I'm going to read something that's fun, that's entertaining, that's inspiring, and potentially educational. And those little snippets are exactly what's occurred for you.</p>
<p>So you've gravitated to something that's going to help you have forward movement that day, or being more of an inspired or educated state. And that's exactly what turning that long form content into that bite sized content enables your audience to have we the messaging is getting much more intentional.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>07:14</p>
<p>Hmm. So we need to reach our clients in a way that is easy for them, that feels useful to them. And and they might even I suppose would it be ideal?</p>
<p>A good test is if I'd put out a bite sized piece of content or put out content? Would it be neat if people started quoting me?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>07:49</p>
<p>Absolutely. And that's where when you have written a white paper on it, and these are the things that I say a white paper or book, we all have a we talked about this earlier,</p>
<p>I have Sally isms. But we all have something you know, our name isms, we've all got rants, we've all got particular sayings that we say.</p>
<p>And if you're extracting them and bringing them to your audience in a new way. And that repetition of ever coming out helps people identify with you. And then those bite size bits go, oh, that's one of Sally's or that's one of George's pieces, because it becomes instantly recognizable, and said,</p>
<p>Here's the difference with visibility. Now you're recognizable now you're familiar. And one of the things that I find when you've got that authority piece, you've broken it down, you're now educating, inspiring, and helping your audience have forward movement</p>
<p>Is often what happens is these people that are consuming you, and engaging with you, they actually see us start to send you referrals, and they start talking about you and this is before they actually even do business with you. So the bit they do business with you after the after they've actually become an advocate of you and they've started to send people to you.</p>
<p>And that's where those repeatable or quotable messages, make it easy for them to tell a story about you because it was bite size again.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to leverage your content by reusing and recycling it in other formats
Stay in touch with your market with bite sized messages
<p> </p>
<p>Sally Curtis points out the marketing power of bite sized messages and reveals how to leverage your existing content to reconnect to stay remembered.</p>
<p>Episode 92 (Sally Curtis is based in Australia)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to repurpose content from your book or whitepaper</li>
<li>Where to find content even if you haven't written a book or whitepaper</li>
<li>How to create your messages bites to be easily consumable</li>
<li>How to create teachable moments that linger with your target audience</li>
<li>The role of the right image for your tiles</li>
<li>How you can use a question in your bite sized message to engage</li>
</ul>
<p>About Sally Curtis</p>
<p>Sally is a content repurposing and marketing strategist who helps authors consultants, speakers and professionals leverage their wisdom to educate and retain their clients.</p>
<p>She is the chapter president of the South Australian Professional Speakers of Australia.</p>
<p>Learn more Sally Curtis and her programs at <a href='http://www.SallyCurtis.biz'>www.SallyCurtis.biz</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://www.sallyacurtis.biz/'></a></p>
<p>Get your free copy of the ebook, <a href='https://sallycurtis.ac-page.com/the-3-easy-steps-to-turn-your-book-into-2-years-worth-of-content'>The 3 Easy Steps to Turn Your Book into 2 years Worth of Content</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://sallycurtis.ac-page.com/the-3-easy-steps-to-turn-your-book-into-2-years-worth-of-content'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Sally Curtis</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:30</p>
<p>The reports and the white papers and the blog post don't go away, we still need words to to gather the information. But within the words, there are key points, key reminders. And if we can, it seems to me if we could represent those key points in a visual way that people need to be reminded.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:57</p>
<p>Absolutely, and that's the key thing when your intended message is to create an impact for your audience.</p>
<p>And you've got all of this great content. One of my beliefs is that your, your clients need to be able to consume you on their worst day. </p>
<p>So if someone's having a few think back to your own as scenario, when you're having a really bad day, the last thing you want to do is read a long email. And that's when we get into ticking and flicking emails.</p>
<p>So if you transport or parallel that across your articles, people aren't going to want to read a long article when they're having a bad day. So if you're wanting to create that impact by making it bite sized, you're actually making it easy to consume, easy for them to understand and easy for them to remain connected to you, even when they're having a very, very bad day.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>04:50</p>
<p>And that makes sense to me because there's some days when I when I pick up the newspaper. I just I read the headlines and I read the comics</p>
<p> </p>
<p>05:00</p>
<p>Yes, absolutely. There you go. Yep. And that's, that's the whole thing, what you've done there is you've automatically gone, it's that that is too hard.</p>
<p>I'm going to read something that's fun, that's entertaining, that's inspiring, and potentially educational. And those little snippets are exactly what's occurred for you.</p>
<p>So you've gravitated to something that's going to help you have forward movement that day, or being more of an inspired or educated state. And that's exactly what turning that long form content into that bite sized content enables your audience to have we the messaging is getting much more intentional.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>07:14</p>
<p>Hmm. So we need to reach our clients in a way that is easy for them, that feels useful to them. And and they might even I suppose would it be ideal?</p>
<p>A good test is if I'd put out a bite sized piece of content or put out content? Would it be neat if people started quoting me?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>07:49</p>
<p>Absolutely. And that's where when you have written a white paper on it, and these are the things that I say a white paper or book, we all have a we talked about this earlier,</p>
<p>I have Sally isms. But we all have something you know, our name isms, we've all got rants, we've all got particular sayings that we say.</p>
<p>And if you're extracting them and bringing them to your audience in a new way. And that repetition of ever coming out helps people identify with you. And then those bite size bits go, oh, that's one of Sally's or that's one of George's pieces, because it becomes instantly recognizable, and said,</p>
<p>Here's the difference with visibility. Now you're recognizable now you're familiar. And one of the things that I find when you've got that authority piece, you've broken it down, you're now educating, inspiring, and helping your audience have forward movement</p>
<p>Is often what happens is these people that are consuming you, and engaging with you, they actually see us start to send you referrals, and they start talking about you and this is before they actually even do business with you. So the bit they do business with you after the after they've actually become an advocate of you and they've started to send people to you.</p>
<p>And that's where those repeatable or quotable messages, make it easy for them to tell a story about you because it was bite size again.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to leverage your content by reusing and recycling it in other formats
Stay in touch with your market with bite sized messages
 
Sally Curtis points out the marketing power of bite sized messages and reveals how to leverage your existing content to reconnect to stay remembered.
Episode 92 (Sally Curtis is based in Australia)
 
In this conversation we explore:
How to repurpose content from your book or whitepaper
Where to find content even if you haven't written a book or whitepaper
How to create your messages bites to be easily consumable
How to create teachable moments that linger with your target audience
The role of the right image for your tiles
How you can use a question in your bite sized message to engage
About Sally Curtis
Sally is a content repurposing and marketing strategist who helps authors consultants, speakers and professionals leverage their wisdom to educate and retain their clients.
She is the chapter president of the South Australian Professional Speakers of Australia.
Learn more Sally Curtis and her programs at www.SallyCurtis.biz
 

Get your free copy of the ebook, The 3 Easy Steps to Turn Your Book into 2 years Worth of Content
 

 
Excerpts from this conversation with Sally Curtis
 
03:30
The reports and the white papers and the blog post don't go away, we still need words to to gather the information. But within the words, there are key points, key reminders. And if we can, it seems to me if we could represent those key points in a visual way that people need to be reminded.
 
03:57
Absolutely, and that's the key thing when your intended message is to create an impact for your audience.
And you've got all of this great content. One of my beliefs is that your, your clients need to be able to consume you on their worst day. 
So if someone's having a few think back to your own as scenario, when you're having a really bad day, the last thing you want to do is read a long email. And that's when we get into ticking and flicking emails.
So if you transport or parallel that across your articles, people aren't going to want to read a long article when they're having a bad day. So if you're wanting to create that impact by making it bite sized, you're actually making it easy to consume, easy for them to understand and easy for them to remain connected to you, even when they're having a very, very bad day.
 
04:50
And that makes sense to me because there's some days when I when I pick up the newspaper. I just I read the headlines and I read the comics
 
05:00
Yes, absolutely. There you go. Yep. And that's, that's the whole thing, what you've done there is you've automatically gone, it's that that is too hard.
I'm going to read something that's fun, that's entertaining, that's inspiring, and potentially educational. And those little snippets are exactly what's occurred for you.
So you've gravitated to something that's going to help you have forward movement that day, or being more of an inspired or educated state. And that's exactly what turning that long form content into that bite sized content enables your audience to have we the messaging is getting much more intentional.
-----
07:14
Hmm. So we need to reach our clients in a way that is easy for them, that feels useful to them. And and they might even I suppose would it be ideal?
A good test is if I'd put out a bite sized piece of content or put out content? Would it be neat if people started quoting me?
 
07:49
Absolutely. And that's where when you have written a white paper on it, and these are the things that I say a white paper or book, we all have a we talked about this earlier,
I have Sally isms. But we all have something you know, our name isms, we've all got rants, we've all got particular sayings that we say.
And if you're extracting them and bringing them to your audience in a new way. And that repetition of ever coming out helps people identify with you. And then those bite size bits go, oh, that's one of Sally's or that's one of Georg]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Why are you you - and why are you here?
Explore the stories that shape you, change you and define you
<p> </p>
<p>Robert Tighe leads us on the discovery of our Origin stories. As a journalist he was inspired to find and help people tell their amazing stories. (Everyone has amazing stories.)</p>
<p>Episode 91 (Robert Tighe is based in New Zealand)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What is the origin story and why is it so important?</li>
<li>Searching through the stages of life to find key stories</li>
<li>The relevance of stories that shape you, change you and define you</li>
<li>Telling good stories starts with story finding</li>
<li>Addressing the question "why?"</li>
<li>The relevance and danger of sharing painful stories</li>
<li>Using story telling as a leadership and teambuilding tool</li>
</ul>
<p>About Robert Tighe</p>
<p>Robert helps business leaders reflect on their past to create a more purposeful future.</p>
<p>Irish born, Robert explored various pursuits before returning to his first dream of becoming a journalist. He enjoys finding and conveying stories.</p>
<p>Learn more about Robert and book your Story Strategy call at <a href='https://roberttighe.com/'>www.RobertTighe.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://roberttighe.com/'></a></p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Robert Tighe</p>
<p>05:22</p>
<p>Robert, you you brought up Simon Sinek. And in the power of why I'm wondering how important is why in discerning one's origin story?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>05:36</p>
<p>Yeah. I think it's really important. I think it's really key because I think the best businesses have a really authentic, why behind you know what they do.</p>
<p>And listen, I know, there'll be some sceptics out there who feel that, you know, I sell widgets, and I make really good widgets, and I sell them for a lot of money.</p>
<p>And I don't really care about my why. And that's fine, too, that there's that I totally understand that perspective. But I think more and more so now than ever before.</p>
<p>You know, we're all in the people business. You know, we're all kind of that it's that horrible cliché people buy from people.</p>
<p>But if they don't know about you as a person, then it's really hard for them to trust you, it's really hard for them to get a sense of why you or your company or your product, or your service is the right person to help them solve their problem.</p>
<p>And I think if you can demonstrate an authentic why and the origin story isn't about making up a story here, I think it's probably good to get that across.</p>
<p>But if you can get across your why and on in a real a very real and authentic manner. I think it just really helps you stand out from the crowd of other people, in your space, in your industry, in your sector, whatever it might be.</p>
<p>And it's particularly important, I should add, George, if you're in any kind of business, where you're selling your expertise, right, you know, where you're in that kind of people to people type business, because,  if people know your why, they can get your why then it can really kind of give them a sense of okay, yeah, this is, this is I'm in the right place here.</p>
<p>This is the right person to help me solve my problem.</p>
<p>15:26</p>
<p>You mentioned the term that you're more of a story finder, than a storyteller. How, what are what questions do you pose to people to help them find their best stories?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>15:42</p>
<p>Yeah, I don't know, if I have like a template of questions that I asked it is very much a conversation.</p>
<p>And it is very much as I've talked before, about really making it easy for them by asking them to go back to you know, a few different stages in their lives, to take them back to their their, their earliest memories.</p>
<p>One question that I love to ask people is, what is your earliest understanding our kind of realization of the concept of what you do now?</p>
<p>So it might have been said, say the industry you're in now. Or if you're in sales, what was your very first understanding of what selling was?</p>
<p>What was your first understanding of say what a customer was, I worked with a customer experience consultant recently who he talked to me about what he did, but he spent 20 minutes talking in jargon about UX, and CX and all these terms and acronyms.</p>
<p>And that meant nothing to me. When I stopped and asked him to think back to his very first understanding of what a customer was, and and what a customer meant, he told me about his first job working as a paperboy during a paper round.</p>
<p>And he realized very quickly that if he didn't get out of bed on time, the papers didn't get delivered on time, the customer wasn't happy, and his boss wasn't happy, and he didn't get paid.</p>
<p>So see immediately kind of grasp that the customer was key. You know, from the very early ages, it was very first job, he realized that, you know, keeping the customer satisfied was the most important part of his job.</p>
<p>And I just said, listen, that's, that's it, you've made that you're working in customer experience now. And essentially, that is still the same kind of thing that you need to focus on. Right.</p>
<p>So in terms of questions, I think, rather than questions, it really is helping people identify stories that maybe they don't recognize the value in themselves.</p>
<p>Because I think a lot of the time we're too close to our own stories, right. You know, we've lived with them for so long, and we kind of discount the value in them.</p>
<p>So I think that's, that's a key part of the process. George is helping people identify the value in their stories.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Why are you you - and why are you here?
Explore the stories that shape you, change you and define you
<p> </p>
<p>Robert Tighe leads us on the discovery of our Origin stories. As a journalist he was inspired to find and help people tell their amazing stories. (Everyone has amazing stories.)</p>
<p>Episode 91 (Robert Tighe is based in New Zealand)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What is the origin story and why is it so important?</li>
<li>Searching through the stages of life to find key stories</li>
<li>The relevance of stories that shape you, change you and define you</li>
<li>Telling good stories starts with story finding</li>
<li>Addressing the question "why?"</li>
<li>The relevance and danger of sharing painful stories</li>
<li>Using story telling as a leadership and teambuilding tool</li>
</ul>
<p>About Robert Tighe</p>
<p>Robert helps business leaders reflect on their past to create a more purposeful future.</p>
<p>Irish born, Robert explored various pursuits before returning to his first dream of becoming a journalist. He enjoys finding and conveying stories.</p>
<p>Learn more about Robert and book your Story Strategy call at <a href='https://roberttighe.com/'>www.RobertTighe.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://roberttighe.com/'></a></p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Robert Tighe</p>
<p>05:22</p>
<p>Robert, you you brought up Simon Sinek. And in the power of why I'm wondering how important is why in discerning one's origin story?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>05:36</p>
<p>Yeah. I think it's really important. I think it's really key because I think the best businesses have a really authentic, why behind you know what they do.</p>
<p>And listen, I know, there'll be some sceptics out there who feel that, you know, I sell widgets, and I make really good widgets, and I sell them for a lot of money.</p>
<p>And I don't really care about my why. And that's fine, too, that there's that I totally understand that perspective. But I think more and more so now than ever before.</p>
<p>You know, we're all in the people business. You know, we're all kind of that it's that horrible cliché people buy from people.</p>
<p>But if they don't know about you as a person, then it's really hard for them to trust you, it's really hard for them to get a sense of why you or your company or your product, or your service is the right person to help them solve their problem.</p>
<p>And I think if you can demonstrate an authentic why and the origin story isn't about making up a story here, I think it's probably good to get that across.</p>
<p>But if you can get across your why and on in a real a very real and authentic manner. I think it just really helps you stand out from the crowd of other people, in your space, in your industry, in your sector, whatever it might be.</p>
<p>And it's particularly important, I should add, George, if you're in any kind of business, where you're selling your expertise, right, you know, where you're in that kind of people to people type business, because,  if people know your why, they can get your why then it can really kind of give them a sense of okay, yeah, this is, this is I'm in the right place here.</p>
<p>This is the right person to help me solve my problem.</p>
<p>15:26</p>
<p>You mentioned the term that you're more of a story finder, than a storyteller. How, what are what questions do you pose to people to help them find their best stories?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>15:42</p>
<p>Yeah, I don't know, if I have like a template of questions that I asked it is very much a conversation.</p>
<p>And it is very much as I've talked before, about really making it easy for them by asking them to go back to you know, a few different stages in their lives, to take them back to their their, their earliest memories.</p>
<p>One question that I love to ask people is, what is your earliest understanding our kind of realization of the concept of what you do now?</p>
<p>So it might have been said, say the industry you're in now. Or if you're in sales, what was your very first understanding of what selling was?</p>
<p>What was your first understanding of say what a customer was, I worked with a customer experience consultant recently who he talked to me about what he did, but he spent 20 minutes talking in jargon about UX, and CX and all these terms and acronyms.</p>
<p>And that meant nothing to me. When I stopped and asked him to think back to his very first understanding of what a customer was, and and what a customer meant, he told me about his first job working as a paperboy during a paper round.</p>
<p>And he realized very quickly that if he didn't get out of bed on time, the papers didn't get delivered on time, the customer wasn't happy, and his boss wasn't happy, and he didn't get paid.</p>
<p>So see immediately kind of grasp that the customer was key. You know, from the very early ages, it was very first job, he realized that, you know, keeping the customer satisfied was the most important part of his job.</p>
<p>And I just said, listen, that's, that's it, you've made that you're working in customer experience now. And essentially, that is still the same kind of thing that you need to focus on. Right.</p>
<p>So in terms of questions, I think, rather than questions, it really is helping people identify stories that maybe they don't recognize the value in themselves.</p>
<p>Because I think a lot of the time we're too close to our own stories, right. You know, we've lived with them for so long, and we kind of discount the value in them.</p>
<p>So I think that's, that's a key part of the process. George is helping people identify the value in their stories.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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Explore the stories that shape you, change you and define you
 
Robert Tighe leads us on the discovery of our Origin stories. As a journalist he was inspired to find and help people tell their amazing stories. (Everyone has amazing stories.)
Episode 91 (Robert Tighe is based in New Zealand)
 
In this conversation we explore:
What is the origin story and why is it so important?
Searching through the stages of life to find key stories
The relevance of stories that shape you, change you and define you
Telling good stories starts with story finding
Addressing the question "why?"
The relevance and danger of sharing painful stories
Using story telling as a leadership and teambuilding tool
About Robert Tighe
Robert helps business leaders reflect on their past to create a more purposeful future.
Irish born, Robert explored various pursuits before returning to his first dream of becoming a journalist. He enjoys finding and conveying stories.
Learn more about Robert and book your Story Strategy call at www.RobertTighe.com

Excerpts from this conversation with Robert Tighe
05:22
Robert, you you brought up Simon Sinek. And in the power of why I'm wondering how important is why in discerning one's origin story?
 
05:36
Yeah. I think it's really important. I think it's really key because I think the best businesses have a really authentic, why behind you know what they do.
And listen, I know, there'll be some sceptics out there who feel that, you know, I sell widgets, and I make really good widgets, and I sell them for a lot of money.
And I don't really care about my why. And that's fine, too, that there's that I totally understand that perspective. But I think more and more so now than ever before.
You know, we're all in the people business. You know, we're all kind of that it's that horrible cliché people buy from people.
But if they don't know about you as a person, then it's really hard for them to trust you, it's really hard for them to get a sense of why you or your company or your product, or your service is the right person to help them solve their problem.
And I think if you can demonstrate an authentic why and the origin story isn't about making up a story here, I think it's probably good to get that across.
But if you can get across your why and on in a real a very real and authentic manner. I think it just really helps you stand out from the crowd of other people, in your space, in your industry, in your sector, whatever it might be.
And it's particularly important, I should add, George, if you're in any kind of business, where you're selling your expertise, right, you know, where you're in that kind of people to people type business, because,  if people know your why, they can get your why then it can really kind of give them a sense of okay, yeah, this is, this is I'm in the right place here.
This is the right person to help me solve my problem.
15:26
You mentioned the term that you're more of a story finder, than a storyteller. How, what are what questions do you pose to people to help them find their best stories?
 
15:42
Yeah, I don't know, if I have like a template of questions that I asked it is very much a conversation.
And it is very much as I've talked before, about really making it easy for them by asking them to go back to you know, a few different stages in their lives, to take them back to their their, their earliest memories.
One question that I love to ask people is, what is your earliest understanding our kind of realization of the concept of what you do now?
So it might have been said, say the industry you're in now. Or if you're in sales, what was your very first understanding of what selling was?
What was your first understanding of say what a customer was, I worked with a customer experience consultant recently who he talked to me about what he did, but he spent 20 minutes talking in jargon about UX, and CX and all these terms and acronyms.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to Get More Business from Linkedin 
Linkedin is NOT intuitive
<p> </p>
<p>Daniel Alfon offers thoughtful advice about how to wisely using Linkedin to achieve your career or business goals. He points out several common misunderstandings that lead to costly mistakes.</p>
<p>Episode 90 (Daniel Alfon is based in Israel near Tel Aviv)</p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Recognizing the common misconceptions about Linkedin</li>
<li>A smart approach to setting up your Linkedin profile</li>
<li>The critical self-reflection you need to examine before you do anything</li>
<li>Why more connections might not be valuable to you</li>
<li>How to make the tool work for you instead of falling victim to the tool</li>
<li>The advantage in making the most of your banner</li>
<li>How Google is supporting your Linkedin profile</li>
</ul>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>About Daniel Alfon</p>
<p>Daniel helps business owners leverage Linkedin to get more leads to grow the business.</p>
<p>Daniel joined Linkedin in Feb 2004. He takes a strategic approach with this online tool. He makes the tool work for him and his clients instead of getting seduced by the shinny object.</p>
<p>You can start improving your Linkedin profile by writing a headline that grabs your target audience. Get a <a href='https://www.danielalfon.com/'>free copy of the cheat sheet here</a>.</p>
<p>Or visit the site <a href='https://www.danielalfon.com/'>www.DanielAlfon.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Daniel Alfon</p>
Exposure is overrated on LinkedIn. Think of your own profile as a website and not as a CV.
<p>05:33</p>
<p>You're absolutely right, it boils down to your intended message. What should be your intended message?</p>
<p>And in three quick steps, Who's your ideal reader? Exactly?</p>
<p>Like you said, the second step question is, what would you like those people? What action would you like those people to perform after they visit your profile?</p>
<p>And the third, are you providing them with the information in the right order for their brain to process it and say, hey, I want to reach out to that person.</p>
<p>I was listening to an episode we had with Diana Booher (Episode 48), the executive presence coach.</p>
<p>You divided it in, you divided it into four buckets, if I remember correctly. The first was the first impression and how we speak as the leader, and how you handle questions. And lastly, about your personality.</p>
<p>We may transform those four buckets to LinkedIn quite easily.</p>
<p>The first impression is what we see when you we visit your profile or when we see you as one of the search results. So it's really the banner and the headline, that that in two seconds, that's what most people see. And then it's the term you use.</p>
<p>And the way you make people understand they need to scroll and discover a little more about you. And the way you handle questions would be the way you interact on LinkedIn. Whether you share whether you comment, whether you like or ask questions on LinkedIn, and your personality should reflect your real life personality.</p>
<p>You shouldn't create a personality for LinkedIn. LinkedIn is here to serve you as a business leader, and not the other way around.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>08:35</p>
<p>Yes, the banner is a great place to to highlight or to showcase your thought leadership.</p>
<p>And one of the things we need to remember is that whenever someone Google's our name, then our LinkedIn profile will be one of the very top results.</p>
<p>When I Googled George Torok. It's the third results. Even though you published books, and you were on a lot of other platforms, LinkedIn is rated very highly on your on Google.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p> </p>
<p>09:11</p>
<p>Now Now that's interesting, Daniel, because that's, and I've noticed that too, but I didn't put much thought into that. And it's probably something that a lot of people don't think about that. LinkedIn, your LinkedIn profile is, comes up high in the Google search.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>09:27</p>
<p>That's absolutely right. And it doesn't matter for the sake of our conversation that maybe the business leader has not visited their LinkedIn profile or hasn't logged in for two years. It doesn't matter. It's not about us. It's about them. It's about our audience.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>14:36</p>
<p>Daniel, you have I think around 1200 contacts on LinkedIn. My first impression was when I looked Oh, this guy's a LinkedIn expert doesn't have a lot of contacts.</p>
<p>That was my first first impression. Those contacts I'm guessing you selected each one specifically, and your criteria Are you for picking for connecting with them? What's your criteria?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>15:04</p>
<p>You're absolutely right. And it's a great question, I have actually less than that. Some of them are followers who have less than 1000, real life connections if you'd like.</p>
<p>And for me, connection, or hitting accept is the end of a process. So if we had a meaningful conversation, then I would either accept the invitation or send one.</p>
<p>But if I'm asking myself, well, that person went asking, in two years time will remember anything from our conversation. And it naturally happens, you know, pre COVID.</p>
<p>If we work together, side by side, for some time, we had some mutual relationship that lasted who was significant enough? And instead of just saying, Wow, I'm, I'm hot and popular have 5k. Just ask yourself, are you translating those connections into business? Are you managing to transform those contacts into revenues?</p>
<p>And instead of chasing LinkedIn metrics, Chase real life metrics, revenues, orders, meetings, inquiries, because that's how a build is how businesses are built.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to Get More Business from Linkedin 
Linkedin is NOT intuitive
<p> </p>
<p>Daniel Alfon offers thoughtful advice about how to wisely using Linkedin to achieve your career or business goals. He points out several common misunderstandings that lead to costly mistakes.</p>
<p>Episode 90 (Daniel Alfon is based in Israel near Tel Aviv)</p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>In this conversation we explore:</em></p>
<ul><li>Recognizing the common misconceptions about Linkedin</li>
<li>A smart approach to setting up your Linkedin profile</li>
<li>The critical self-reflection you need to examine before you do anything</li>
<li>Why more connections might not be valuable to you</li>
<li>How to make the tool work for you instead of falling victim to the tool</li>
<li>The advantage in making the most of your banner</li>
<li>How Google is supporting your Linkedin profile</li>
</ul>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>About Daniel Alfon</p>
<p>Daniel helps business owners leverage Linkedin to get more leads to grow the business.</p>
<p>Daniel joined Linkedin in Feb 2004. He takes a strategic approach with this online tool. He makes the tool work for him and his clients instead of getting seduced by the shinny object.</p>
<p>You can start improving your Linkedin profile by writing a headline that grabs your target audience. Get a <a href='https://www.danielalfon.com/'>free copy of the cheat sheet here</a>.</p>
<p>Or visit the site <a href='https://www.danielalfon.com/'>www.DanielAlfon.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Daniel Alfon</p>
Exposure is overrated on LinkedIn. Think of your own profile as a website and not as a CV.
<p>05:33</p>
<p>You're absolutely right, it boils down to your intended message. What should be your intended message?</p>
<p>And in three quick steps, Who's your ideal reader? Exactly?</p>
<p>Like you said, the second step question is, what would you like those people? What action would you like those people to perform after they visit your profile?</p>
<p>And the third, are you providing them with the information in the right order for their brain to process it and say, hey, I want to reach out to that person.</p>
<p>I was listening to an episode we had with Diana Booher (Episode 48), the executive presence coach.</p>
<p>You divided it in, you divided it into four buckets, if I remember correctly. The first was the first impression and how we speak as the leader, and how you handle questions. And lastly, about your personality.</p>
<p>We may transform those four buckets to LinkedIn quite easily.</p>
<p>The first impression is what we see when you we visit your profile or when we see you as one of the search results. So it's really the banner and the headline, that that in two seconds, that's what most people see. And then it's the term you use.</p>
<p>And the way you make people understand they need to scroll and discover a little more about you. And the way you handle questions would be the way you interact on LinkedIn. Whether you share whether you comment, whether you like or ask questions on LinkedIn, and your personality should reflect your real life personality.</p>
<p>You shouldn't create a personality for LinkedIn. LinkedIn is here to serve you as a business leader, and not the other way around.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>08:35</p>
<p>Yes, the banner is a great place to to highlight or to showcase your thought leadership.</p>
<p>And one of the things we need to remember is that whenever someone Google's our name, then our LinkedIn profile will be one of the very top results.</p>
<p>When I Googled George Torok. It's the third results. Even though you published books, and you were on a lot of other platforms, LinkedIn is rated very highly on your on Google.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p> </p>
<p>09:11</p>
<p>Now Now that's interesting, Daniel, because that's, and I've noticed that too, but I didn't put much thought into that. And it's probably something that a lot of people don't think about that. LinkedIn, your LinkedIn profile is, comes up high in the Google search.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>09:27</p>
<p>That's absolutely right. And it doesn't matter for the sake of our conversation that maybe the business leader has not visited their LinkedIn profile or hasn't logged in for two years. It doesn't matter. It's not about us. It's about them. It's about our audience.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>14:36</p>
<p>Daniel, you have I think around 1200 contacts on LinkedIn. My first impression was when I looked Oh, this guy's a LinkedIn expert doesn't have a lot of contacts.</p>
<p>That was my first first impression. Those contacts I'm guessing you selected each one specifically, and your criteria Are you for picking for connecting with them? What's your criteria?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>15:04</p>
<p>You're absolutely right. And it's a great question, I have actually less than that. Some of them are followers who have less than 1000, real life connections if you'd like.</p>
<p>And for me, connection, or hitting accept is the end of a process. So if we had a meaningful conversation, then I would either accept the invitation or send one.</p>
<p>But if I'm asking myself, well, that person went asking, in two years time will remember anything from our conversation. And it naturally happens, you know, pre COVID.</p>
<p>If we work together, side by side, for some time, we had some mutual relationship that lasted who was significant enough? And instead of just saying, Wow, I'm, I'm hot and popular have 5k. Just ask yourself, are you translating those connections into business? Are you managing to transform those contacts into revenues?</p>
<p>And instead of chasing LinkedIn metrics, Chase real life metrics, revenues, orders, meetings, inquiries, because that's how a build is how businesses are built.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to Get More Business from Linkedin 
Linkedin is NOT intuitive
 
Daniel Alfon offers thoughtful advice about how to wisely using Linkedin to achieve your career or business goals. He points out several common misunderstandings that lead to costly mistakes.
Episode 90 (Daniel Alfon is based in Israel near Tel Aviv)

 
In this conversation we explore:
Recognizing the common misconceptions about Linkedin
A smart approach to setting up your Linkedin profile
The critical self-reflection you need to examine before you do anything
Why more connections might not be valuable to you
How to make the tool work for you instead of falling victim to the tool
The advantage in making the most of your banner
How Google is supporting your Linkedin profile

 
About Daniel Alfon
Daniel helps business owners leverage Linkedin to get more leads to grow the business.
Daniel joined Linkedin in Feb 2004. He takes a strategic approach with this online tool. He makes the tool work for him and his clients instead of getting seduced by the shinny object.
You can start improving your Linkedin profile by writing a headline that grabs your target audience. Get a free copy of the cheat sheet here.
Or visit the site www.DanielAlfon.com
 
Excerpts from this conversation with Daniel Alfon
Exposure is overrated on LinkedIn. Think of your own profile as a website and not as a CV.
05:33
You're absolutely right, it boils down to your intended message. What should be your intended message?
And in three quick steps, Who's your ideal reader? Exactly?
Like you said, the second step question is, what would you like those people? What action would you like those people to perform after they visit your profile?
And the third, are you providing them with the information in the right order for their brain to process it and say, hey, I want to reach out to that person.
I was listening to an episode we had with Diana Booher (Episode 48), the executive presence coach.
You divided it in, you divided it into four buckets, if I remember correctly. The first was the first impression and how we speak as the leader, and how you handle questions. And lastly, about your personality.
We may transform those four buckets to LinkedIn quite easily.
The first impression is what we see when you we visit your profile or when we see you as one of the search results. So it's really the banner and the headline, that that in two seconds, that's what most people see. And then it's the term you use.
And the way you make people understand they need to scroll and discover a little more about you. And the way you handle questions would be the way you interact on LinkedIn. Whether you share whether you comment, whether you like or ask questions on LinkedIn, and your personality should reflect your real life personality.
You shouldn't create a personality for LinkedIn. LinkedIn is here to serve you as a business leader, and not the other way around.
-----
08:35
Yes, the banner is a great place to to highlight or to showcase your thought leadership.
And one of the things we need to remember is that whenever someone Google's our name, then our LinkedIn profile will be one of the very top results.
When I Googled George Torok. It's the third results. Even though you published books, and you were on a lot of other platforms, LinkedIn is rated very highly on your on Google.
-----
 
09:11
Now Now that's interesting, Daniel, because that's, and I've noticed that too, but I didn't put much thought into that. And it's probably something that a lot of people don't think about that. LinkedIn, your LinkedIn profile is, comes up high in the Google search.
 
09:27
That's absolutely right. And it doesn't matter for the sake of our conversation that maybe the business leader has not visited their LinkedIn profile or hasn't logged in for two years. It doesn't matter. It's not about us. It's about them. It's about our audience.
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14:36
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Demonstrate a unique understanding of your market
You don't have to be different from everyone who offers what you do. You simply need to appear to be different.
<p>Steve Lowell explains how to apply Deep Thought Strategy to your marketing positioning and sales conversations to entice clients to buy from you.</p>
<p>Episode 89 (Steve is based in Ottawa, Canada)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this discussion we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to get people to say, "Hmm, I've never thought of it that way before"</li>
<li>What can you learn from the tennis instructor's mistake and epiphany</li>
<li>Why the language of your offer is critical</li>
<li>How to reveal the hidden problem they weren't aware of</li>
<li>Why you don't want to be seen as an expert and what the better label is</li>
<li>How to address different target audiences while following the same path</li>
<li>What is the process of Deep Thought Strategy</li>
<li>Leveraging your book as a marketing tool</li>
</ul>
<p>About Steve Lowell</p>
<p>Steve is the 2022 president of the Global Speakers Federation representing over 6,500 professional speaker s around the globe.</p>
<p>Steve Lowell CSP, has been speaking and performing on the live stage since the age of 6, that’s over 53 years ago.</p>
<p>Steve is the author of <a href='https://stevelowell.com/store/'>three books and five online courses</a>.</p>
<p><a href='https://stevelowell.com/store/'></a></p>
<p>If you are a non-fiction author and ready to leverage the power of your book, watch this eye-opening webinar "<a href='https://stevelowell.com/nowwhat/'>You're an Author... Now What?"</a></p>
<p>(no charge)</p>
<p><a href='https://stevelowell.com/nowwhat/'>WebinarforAuthors.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Excerpts from this conversation with Steve Lowell 
<p>02:30</p>
<p>So it's a big process, I call it deep thought strategy. And we kind of look at it from this angle. The objective is to demonstrate a unique understanding of your market or prospects or audience's world from a perspective they have never considered before.</p>
<p>So the process starts with exploring not your solution. And not all the great things that you've created, but exploring the market and trying to find an angle that the market has not considered before.</p>
<p>And then what we do is we take the complex idea or solution and we break it down into its most basic components, and craft a very simple straightforward message that doesn't present another solution as much as it presents another problem.</p>
<p>So it's sort of the objective is to bring their awareness to a problem they never even knew they had, I'm talking about the audience or the prospect of the market.</p>
<p>And the desired outcome of this whole process is to get the market or the audience to kind of do this, you want them to go, Hmm, I've never thought of it like that before. And that's the desired outcome that we work towards.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>20:49</p>
<p>The question is, "What is my unique understanding of your condition? From a perspective you have never considered before? How am I going to demonstrate that I know your condition better than you know your condition?"</p>
<p>You see, if I'm trying to sell you my complex idea, the worst thing I can do is try and sell you my complex idea.</p>
<p>What I need to do is I need to open your perspective, so that you understand that you need my complex idea.</p>
<p>I need you to tell me that you need my complex idea. If I sit here and try and convince you that you need my complex idea. I'm just another sales guy. And I look like everybody else.</p>
<p>So the question we work towards is, how am I going to demonstrate to you as my prospect? How am I going to demonstrate to you a unique understanding of your condition, from a perspective you have never considered before.</p>
<p>I want you to be able to go, I've never heard it like this before. No wonder I can't do that. No wonder I can't reach this outcome. And only until we achieve that, at that point, then my solution becomes relevant to you.</p>
<p>Up until that point, it doesn't, it's not even relevant. It's just you know, another checkmark on the shopping list and all of the different people you've seen in your life.</p>
<p>So that's it. That's a tough mindset shift to make sometimes.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Demonstrate a unique understanding of your market
You don't have to be different from everyone who offers what you do. You simply need to appear to be different.
<p>Steve Lowell explains how to apply Deep Thought Strategy to your marketing positioning and sales conversations to entice clients to buy from you.</p>
<p>Episode 89 (Steve is based in Ottawa, Canada)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this discussion we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to get people to say, "Hmm, I've never thought of it that way before"</li>
<li>What can you learn from the tennis instructor's mistake and epiphany</li>
<li>Why the language of your offer is critical</li>
<li>How to reveal the hidden problem they weren't aware of</li>
<li>Why you don't want to be seen as an expert and what the better label is</li>
<li>How to address different target audiences while following the same path</li>
<li>What is the process of Deep Thought Strategy</li>
<li>Leveraging your book as a marketing tool</li>
</ul>
<p><em>About Steve Lowell</em></p>
<p>Steve is the 2022 president of the Global Speakers Federation representing over 6,500 professional speaker s around the globe.</p>
<p>Steve Lowell CSP, has been speaking and performing on the live stage since the age of 6, that’s over 53 years ago.</p>
<p>Steve is the author of <a href='https://stevelowell.com/store/'>three books and five online courses</a>.</p>
<p><a href='https://stevelowell.com/store/'></a></p>
<p>If you are a non-fiction author and ready to leverage the power of your book, watch this eye-opening webinar "<a href='https://stevelowell.com/nowwhat/'>You're an Author... Now What?"</a></p>
<p>(no charge)</p>
<p><a href='https://stevelowell.com/nowwhat/'>WebinarforAuthors.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Excerpts from this conversation with Steve Lowell 
<p>02:30</p>
<p>So it's a big process, I call it deep thought strategy. And we kind of look at it from this angle. The objective is to demonstrate a unique understanding of your market or prospects or audience's world from a perspective they have never considered before.</p>
<p>So the process starts with exploring not your solution. And not all the great things that you've created, but exploring the market and trying to find an angle that the market has not considered before.</p>
<p>And then what we do is we take the complex idea or solution and we break it down into its most basic components, and craft a very simple straightforward message that doesn't present another solution as much as it presents another problem.</p>
<p>So it's sort of the objective is to bring their awareness to a problem they never even knew they had, I'm talking about the audience or the prospect of the market.</p>
<p>And the desired outcome of this whole process is to get the market or the audience to kind of do this, you want them to go, Hmm, I've never thought of it like that before. And that's the desired outcome that we work towards.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>20:49</p>
<p>The question is, "What is my unique understanding of your condition? From a perspective you have never considered before? How am I going to demonstrate that I know your condition better than you know your condition?"</p>
<p>You see, if I'm trying to sell you my complex idea, the worst thing I can do is try and sell you my complex idea.</p>
<p>What I need to do is I need to open your perspective, so that you understand that you need my complex idea.</p>
<p>I need you to tell me that you need my complex idea. If I sit here and try and convince you that you need my complex idea. I'm just another sales guy. And I look like everybody else.</p>
<p>So the question we work towards is, how am I going to demonstrate to you as my prospect? How am I going to demonstrate to you a unique understanding of your condition, from a perspective you have never considered before.</p>
<p>I want you to be able to go, I've never heard it like this before. No wonder I can't do that. No wonder I can't reach this outcome. And only until we achieve that, at that point, then my solution becomes relevant to you.</p>
<p>Up until that point, it doesn't, it's not even relevant. It's just you know, another checkmark on the shopping list and all of the different people you've seen in your life.</p>
<p>So that's it. That's a tough mindset shift to make sometimes.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Demonstrate a unique understanding of your market
You don't have to be different from everyone who offers what you do. You simply need to appear to be different.
Steve Lowell explains how to apply Deep Thought Strategy to your marketing positioning and sales conversations to entice clients to buy from you.
Episode 89 (Steve is based in Ottawa, Canada)
 
In this discussion we explore:
How to get people to say, "Hmm, I've never thought of it that way before"
What can you learn from the tennis instructor's mistake and epiphany
Why the language of your offer is critical
How to reveal the hidden problem they weren't aware of
Why you don't want to be seen as an expert and what the better label is
How to address different target audiences while following the same path
What is the process of Deep Thought Strategy
Leveraging your book as a marketing tool
About Steve Lowell
Steve is the 2022 president of the Global Speakers Federation representing over 6,500 professional speaker s around the globe.
Steve Lowell CSP, has been speaking and performing on the live stage since the age of 6, that’s over 53 years ago.
Steve is the author of three books and five online courses.

If you are a non-fiction author and ready to leverage the power of your book, watch this eye-opening webinar "You're an Author... Now What?"
(no charge)
WebinarforAuthors.com
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Steve Lowell 
02:30
So it's a big process, I call it deep thought strategy. And we kind of look at it from this angle. The objective is to demonstrate a unique understanding of your market or prospects or audience's world from a perspective they have never considered before.
So the process starts with exploring not your solution. And not all the great things that you've created, but exploring the market and trying to find an angle that the market has not considered before.
And then what we do is we take the complex idea or solution and we break it down into its most basic components, and craft a very simple straightforward message that doesn't present another solution as much as it presents another problem.
So it's sort of the objective is to bring their awareness to a problem they never even knew they had, I'm talking about the audience or the prospect of the market.
And the desired outcome of this whole process is to get the market or the audience to kind of do this, you want them to go, Hmm, I've never thought of it like that before. And that's the desired outcome that we work towards.
-----
20:49
The question is, "What is my unique understanding of your condition? From a perspective you have never considered before? How am I going to demonstrate that I know your condition better than you know your condition?"
You see, if I'm trying to sell you my complex idea, the worst thing I can do is try and sell you my complex idea.
What I need to do is I need to open your perspective, so that you understand that you need my complex idea.
I need you to tell me that you need my complex idea. If I sit here and try and convince you that you need my complex idea. I'm just another sales guy. And I look like everybody else.
So the question we work towards is, how am I going to demonstrate to you as my prospect? How am I going to demonstrate to you a unique understanding of your condition, from a perspective you have never considered before.
I want you to be able to go, I've never heard it like this before. No wonder I can't do that. No wonder I can't reach this outcome. And only until we achieve that, at that point, then my solution becomes relevant to you.
Up until that point, it doesn't, it's not even relevant. It's just you know, another checkmark on the shopping list and all of the different people you've seen in your life.
So that's it. That's a tough mindset shift to make sometimes.
-----
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Build stronger teams that work in-person, virtually and hybrid
Effective teams face and overcome the challenges, while weak teams use the challenges as excuses
<p>Anne Thornley-Brown explores the challenges and paths to effective team building. She reminds us that team members need the confidence to tell the emperor he has no clothes.</p>
<p>Episode 88 (Anne is based in Toronto, Canada)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this discussion we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The challenges of virtual and hybrid teams</li>
<li>The difference between socializing, recreation and enhancing communication skills</li>
<li>The silliness of some team-building exercises </li>
<li>The danger of group think and dominating personalities</li>
<li>Why we need to listen to the minority viewpoints</li>
<li>The opportunities of new technology including virtual worlds</li>
<li>Why it's critical to diagnose the problem correctly before deciding on the solution</li>
<li>Who else should you include on your team that you might be missing?</li>
</ul>
<p>About Anne Thornley-Brown</p>
<p>Anne is the founder and owner of Executive Oasis International.</p>
<p>This Toronto-based team-building firm has designed and facilitated executive retreats, meetings and team building for companies from 19 countries</p>
<p>She is also a professional actress, and an emerging novelist seeking a literary agent for her first two novels.</p>
<p>Anne and her team at Executive Oasis International help organizations build stronger teams around the world.</p>
<p>Learn more about the team building programs at <a href='http://www.ExecutiveOasis.com'>www.ExecutiveOasis.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.executiveoasis.com/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
Excerpts from this conversations with Anne Thornley-Brown
<p> </p>
<p>02:56</p>
<p>Tell us what some of those challenges are, particularly during the pandemic.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:03</p>
<p>Well, the biggest challenge, of course, is working from home. And, and building a cohesive unit, when you're not seeing each other face to face every day.</p>
<p>Silos were a problem long before the pandemic, but now that people are spread out and they're not engaging face to face, they becoming even more entrenched.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:27</p>
<p>Have you (to overuse the word) pivoted your building exercises to include hybrid and virtual teams.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:39</p>
<p>Absolutely, it was essential you and I both live, the Greater Toronto Area. And in Canada. For the past two years, we've had meeting bans, travel bans.</p>
<p>Some venues have had to close. I was speaking with one of the resorts that I've used, and we just came back out of another lockdown two weeks ago. And they just closed down because they couldn't open their dining or their meeting rooms.</p>
<p>So they rescheduled all of their corporate business. It became essential to make virtual and now hybrid options available to clients.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>10:17</p>
<p>Those who are waiting to get back to normal before we start training again, or building the team, what's your advice to them?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>10:28</p>
<p>Don't wait. And the other thing is don't think that throwing a recreational activity at your team is going to solve your issues of communication.</p>
<p>It's not going to happen. It's not going to resolve conflicts. I've seen companies doing things like ukulele lessons and virtual escape rooms.</p>
<p>Now, please don't get me wrong. I'm not a party pooper. I'm Jamaican. I love to party. I love to dance. I love to have fun. But there's a time and place.</p>
<p>And that type of activity, while it has its place is not a substitute for doing the targeted and focus work on building your teams.</p>
<p>I don't know, George, you go into corporations. Have you observed this tendency to? Well, how do they put it fiddle while Rome was burning?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>11:20</p>
<p>Yeah, you're right. And and I'll tell you the one that the the activity that that irks me the most, it's we're going to have a team building exercise, and we're going to  go Axe Throwing,</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>32:31</p>
<p>And in wrapping up, if you could offer team leaders, one, two or three pieces of advice on what they can be doing right now, to reinforce their team, to keep their team cohesive. What might be that one, two or three pieces of advice.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>32:51</p>
<p>One thing I would say is, I was I worked for an organization and the CEO was brilliant, he would have these things called breakfast with Bob, where he would bring frontline people in to have breakfast with him.</p>
<p>And he would listen to them. He would hear what they have to say about what was going on with their clients.</p>
<p>And in the industry. We can still do that virtually. I mean, let's get creative folks. Yes, we can have a virtual breakfast, where we meet via technology and tech, we can send the breakfast to the homes of the various team members.</p>
<p>In Ontario. we just opened up dining rooms two weeks ago, restaurants and caterers are hurting, they need the business to stay afloat. Let's get creative. And in that way, we will help keep the local economy afloat.</p>
<p>So that's the first thing have sessions in which your senior people are actually interfacing with your frontline people, but has to go further. We need to also hear from our clients.</p>
<p>We need sessions like that where clients are letting us know what their main concerns are, and how we can improve what we're offering. And the other piece is a whole supply chain.</p>
<p>That's one thing that COVID-19 has brought to the fore, not just for manufacturers, even for services supply chain is critical. We need to talk with our suppliers regularly.</p>
<p>And I do think that leaders would benefit from having some sessions where they include suppliers and clients. In fact, I have some clients who do that whenever they do team building, whether it's face to face hybrid or virtual.</p>
<p>They do invite some clients and they do invite some suppliers. And let me tell you, it makes a huge difference.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Build stronger teams that work in-person, virtually and hybrid
Effective teams face and overcome the challenges, while weak teams use the challenges as excuses
<p>Anne Thornley-Brown explores the challenges and paths to effective team building. She reminds us that team members need the confidence to tell the emperor he has no clothes.</p>
<p>Episode 88 (Anne is based in Toronto, Canada)</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>In this discussion we explore:</em></p>
<ul><li>The challenges of virtual and hybrid teams</li>
<li>The difference between socializing, recreation and enhancing communication skills</li>
<li>The silliness of some team-building exercises </li>
<li>The danger of group think and dominating personalities</li>
<li>Why we need to listen to the minority viewpoints</li>
<li>The opportunities of new technology including virtual worlds</li>
<li>Why it's critical to diagnose the problem correctly before deciding on the solution</li>
<li>Who else should you include on your team that you might be missing?</li>
</ul>
<p>About Anne Thornley-Brown</p>
<p>Anne is the founder and owner of Executive Oasis International.</p>
<p>This Toronto-based team-building firm has designed and facilitated executive retreats, meetings and team building for companies from 19 countries</p>
<p>She is also a professional actress, and an emerging novelist seeking a literary agent for her first two novels.</p>
<p>Anne and her team at Executive Oasis International help organizations build stronger teams around the world.</p>
<p><em>Learn more about the team building programs at</em> <a href='http://www.ExecutiveOasis.com'>www.ExecutiveOasis.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.executiveoasis.com/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
Excerpts from this conversations with Anne Thornley-Brown
<p> </p>
<p>02:56</p>
<p>Tell us what some of those challenges are, particularly during the pandemic.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:03</p>
<p>Well, the biggest challenge, of course, is working from home. And, and building a cohesive unit, when you're not seeing each other face to face every day.</p>
<p>Silos were a problem long before the pandemic, but now that people are spread out and they're not engaging face to face, they becoming even more entrenched.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:27</p>
<p>Have you (to overuse the word) pivoted your building exercises to include hybrid and virtual teams.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:39</p>
<p>Absolutely, it was essential you and I both live, the Greater Toronto Area. And in Canada. For the past two years, we've had meeting bans, travel bans.</p>
<p>Some venues have had to close. I was speaking with one of the resorts that I've used, and we just came back out of another lockdown two weeks ago. And they just closed down because they couldn't open their dining or their meeting rooms.</p>
<p>So they rescheduled all of their corporate business. It became essential to make virtual and now hybrid options available to clients.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>10:17</p>
<p>Those who are waiting to get back to normal before we start training again, or building the team, what's your advice to them?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>10:28</p>
<p>Don't wait. And the other thing is don't think that throwing a recreational activity at your team is going to solve your issues of communication.</p>
<p>It's not going to happen. It's not going to resolve conflicts. I've seen companies doing things like ukulele lessons and virtual escape rooms.</p>
<p>Now, please don't get me wrong. I'm not a party pooper. I'm Jamaican. I love to party. I love to dance. I love to have fun. But there's a time and place.</p>
<p>And that type of activity, while it has its place is not a substitute for doing the targeted and focus work on building your teams.</p>
<p>I don't know, George, you go into corporations. Have you observed this tendency to? Well, how do they put it fiddle while Rome was burning?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>11:20</p>
<p>Yeah, you're right. And and I'll tell you the one that the the activity that that irks me the most, it's we're going to have a team building exercise, and we're going to  go Axe Throwing,</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>32:31</p>
<p>And in wrapping up, if you could offer team leaders, one, two or three pieces of advice on what they can be doing right now, to reinforce their team, to keep their team cohesive. What might be that one, two or three pieces of advice.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>32:51</p>
<p>One thing I would say is, I was I worked for an organization and the CEO was brilliant, he would have these things called breakfast with Bob, where he would bring frontline people in to have breakfast with him.</p>
<p>And he would listen to them. He would hear what they have to say about what was going on with their clients.</p>
<p>And in the industry. We can still do that virtually. I mean, let's get creative folks. Yes, we can have a virtual breakfast, where we meet via technology and tech, we can send the breakfast to the homes of the various team members.</p>
<p>In Ontario. we just opened up dining rooms two weeks ago, restaurants and caterers are hurting, they need the business to stay afloat. Let's get creative. And in that way, we will help keep the local economy afloat.</p>
<p>So that's the first thing have sessions in which your senior people are actually interfacing with your frontline people, but has to go further. We need to also hear from our clients.</p>
<p>We need sessions like that where clients are letting us know what their main concerns are, and how we can improve what we're offering. And the other piece is a whole supply chain.</p>
<p>That's one thing that COVID-19 has brought to the fore, not just for manufacturers, even for services supply chain is critical. We need to talk with our suppliers regularly.</p>
<p>And I do think that leaders would benefit from having some sessions where they include suppliers and clients. In fact, I have some clients who do that whenever they do team building, whether it's face to face hybrid or virtual.</p>
<p>They do invite some clients and they do invite some suppliers. And let me tell you, it makes a huge difference.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Build stronger teams that work in-person, virtually and hybrid
Effective teams face and overcome the challenges, while weak teams use the challenges as excuses
Anne Thornley-Brown explores the challenges and paths to effective team building. She reminds us that team members need the confidence to tell the emperor he has no clothes.
Episode 88 (Anne is based in Toronto, Canada)
 
In this discussion we explore:
The challenges of virtual and hybrid teams
The difference between socializing, recreation and enhancing communication skills
The silliness of some team-building exercises 
The danger of group think and dominating personalities
Why we need to listen to the minority viewpoints
The opportunities of new technology including virtual worlds
Why it's critical to diagnose the problem correctly before deciding on the solution
Who else should you include on your team that you might be missing?
About Anne Thornley-Brown
Anne is the founder and owner of Executive Oasis International.
This Toronto-based team-building firm has designed and facilitated executive retreats, meetings and team building for companies from 19 countries
She is also a professional actress, and an emerging novelist seeking a literary agent for her first two novels.
Anne and her team at Executive Oasis International help organizations build stronger teams around the world.
Learn more about the team building programs at www.ExecutiveOasis.com

 
Excerpts from this conversations with Anne Thornley-Brown
 
02:56
Tell us what some of those challenges are, particularly during the pandemic.
 
03:03
Well, the biggest challenge, of course, is working from home. And, and building a cohesive unit, when you're not seeing each other face to face every day.
Silos were a problem long before the pandemic, but now that people are spread out and they're not engaging face to face, they becoming even more entrenched.
 
03:27
Have you (to overuse the word) pivoted your building exercises to include hybrid and virtual teams.
 
03:39
Absolutely, it was essential you and I both live, the Greater Toronto Area. And in Canada. For the past two years, we've had meeting bans, travel bans.
Some venues have had to close. I was speaking with one of the resorts that I've used, and we just came back out of another lockdown two weeks ago. And they just closed down because they couldn't open their dining or their meeting rooms.
So they rescheduled all of their corporate business. It became essential to make virtual and now hybrid options available to clients.
-----
10:17
Those who are waiting to get back to normal before we start training again, or building the team, what's your advice to them?
 
10:28
Don't wait. And the other thing is don't think that throwing a recreational activity at your team is going to solve your issues of communication.
It's not going to happen. It's not going to resolve conflicts. I've seen companies doing things like ukulele lessons and virtual escape rooms.
Now, please don't get me wrong. I'm not a party pooper. I'm Jamaican. I love to party. I love to dance. I love to have fun. But there's a time and place.
And that type of activity, while it has its place is not a substitute for doing the targeted and focus work on building your teams.
I don't know, George, you go into corporations. Have you observed this tendency to? Well, how do they put it fiddle while Rome was burning?
 
11:20
Yeah, you're right. And and I'll tell you the one that the the activity that that irks me the most, it's we're going to have a team building exercise, and we're going to  go Axe Throwing,
-----
32:31
And in wrapping up, if you could offer team leaders, one, two or three pieces of advice on what they can be doing right now, to reinforce their team, to keep their team cohesive. What might be that one, two or three pieces of advice.
 
32:51
One thing I would say is, I was I worked for an organization and the CEO was brilliant, he would have these things called breakfast with Bob, w]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[When compassion is missing, what can you do?
Technical competency is not the same as compassion. Yet both are critical in healthcare.
<p>Dr. Joseph Stern is a neurosurgeon who discovered that compassion was missing from healthcare, when his younger sister, Victoria, developed leukemia, had a bone marrow transplant and died.</p>
<p>Episode 87</p>
<p>In this conversation with Dr. Joseph Stern, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The importance of emotional agility</li>
<li>There's a time for compassion and a time for technical expertise</li>
<li>Understanding the patient's anxiety and terror</li>
<li>Developing shared vulnerability to communicate in an empathetic way</li>
<li>How routine can get in the way of connecting with people</li>
<li>Shifting from empathy to technical precision</li>
<li>Why it's critical for health care professionals to manager their own emotional care</li>
<li>Recognizing and removing the emotional armor</li>
</ul>
<p>Dr. Joseph Stern is a neurosurgeon. He is the author of "Grief Connects Us: A Neurosurgeon's Lessons on Love, Loss and Compassion.</p>
<p>You can find the book on <a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Grief-Connects-Us-Neurogsurgeons-Compassion-ebook/dp/B08DM7DXCY/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1FOD1YSB5YZPJ&keywords=grief+connects+us&qid=1648135253&sprefix=grief%2520connects%2520us%2Caps%2C71&sr=8-1'>Amazon or click the link here</a>.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Grief-Connects-Us-Neurogsurgeons-Compassion-ebook/dp/B08DM7DXCY/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1FOD1YSB5YZPJ&keywords=grief+connects+us&qid=1648135253&sprefix=grief%2520connects%2520us%2Caps%2C71&sr=8-1'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Dr. Joseph Stern</p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:51</p>
<p>So everything is about the focus on training and education as a neurosurgeon is about becoming technically proficient and mastering very difficult subject matter.</p>
<p>But we're working with people. And these people are generally terrified, and whether or not they're dying, they need a compassionate connection with their doctor.</p>
<p>And that's where I feel that in neurosurgery training, but particularly in medicine, I think we fall down on the job in terms of the importance of what it is to connect with patients and in with what they're going through.</p>
<p>So I feel that was what my sister brought, to me, it wasn't so much that I was that it's only when people are dying, it's that anyone who is getting medical care, is at a low point and needs a compassionate connection, you need to have shared vulnerability and an ability to communicate in an empathic way with patient.</p>
<p>-----</p>
You're a stronger, better person by allowing yourself to be vulnerable
<p>-----</p>
<p>15:39</p>
<p>I'm assuming that you have become a more compassionate doctor, more compassionate surgeon. What language Have you started to use more of that you didn't use before?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>15:57</p>
<p>I think I listened more, I listened more and tried to talk less.</p>
<p>I sit and I give people time, and I want to hear what they are concerned about and what matters to them.</p>
<p>And so I feel that the meaningful relationships with patients are really what sustained me that actually, you know, by the time I'm fairly advanced, in my career, I've been doing a surgery for a long time, I liked doing surgery. But I also really like the the relationship, the trust that the patients put in me and kind of our relationship.</p>
<p>So I cultivate that. I also think that I'm not afraid to ask questions about what they're feeling or what their goals are, and what what it is that they're experiencing, what is it, they're worried about? What scares them?</p>
<p>So I think a lot of times in the past, I probably would have shut down a topic like that and moved on to a medical treatment or bombing people with facts.</p>
<p>I'm, I'm going to give them all the facts about their illness. And it's, in reality, they're multiple planes of communication are going on at the same time.</p>
<p>One is the fact information dump, you know, which a lot of times doctors do, but the other is like, what are you experiencing?</p>
<p>What are you taking away from this? What are your worries? What are your goals? What concerns you here?</p>
<p>And I think that those ability or willingness to get a little bit uncomfortable, maybe to cry, maybe two, but more to listen.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>24:42</p>
<p>Well, we're looking at a time in healthcare where burnout is at very, very high rates.</p>
<p>And I believe that some of the reason for burnout is our we're not kind to ourselves, so there's no self compassion.</p>
<p>We don't we don't take time to make sure that we're okay. And because we push away the grief and these other experiences, we, it ends up being a very fragile relationship that we have that we have when we could really dig in and be more connected and get more pleasure and more value out of work.</p>
<p>And so I, I would urge them to make some of these transitions toward honest communication, really being in touch with their own emotional experiences not shying away from these connections and conversations, and, and the emotional agility part that you need to be a successful provider of healthcare.</p>
<p>You need to be able to have that connection and also have the technical expertise.</p>
<p>And if you can learn to bounce between those two, you're really going to be a very wonderful provider.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[When compassion is missing, what can you do?
Technical competency is not the same as compassion. Yet both are critical in healthcare.
<p>Dr. Joseph Stern is a neurosurgeon who discovered that compassion was missing from healthcare, when his younger sister, Victoria, developed leukemia, had a bone marrow transplant and died.</p>
<p>Episode 87</p>
<p>In this conversation with Dr. Joseph Stern, we explore:</p>
<ul><li>The importance of emotional agility</li>
<li>There's a time for compassion and a time for technical expertise</li>
<li>Understanding the patient's anxiety and terror</li>
<li>Developing shared vulnerability to communicate in an empathetic way</li>
<li>How routine can get in the way of connecting with people</li>
<li>Shifting from empathy to technical precision</li>
<li>Why it's critical for health care professionals to manager their own emotional care</li>
<li>Recognizing and removing the emotional armor</li>
</ul>
<p>Dr. Joseph Stern is a neurosurgeon. He is the author of "Grief Connects Us: A Neurosurgeon's Lessons on Love, Loss and Compassion.</p>
<p>You can find the book on <a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Grief-Connects-Us-Neurogsurgeons-Compassion-ebook/dp/B08DM7DXCY/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1FOD1YSB5YZPJ&keywords=grief+connects+us&qid=1648135253&sprefix=grief%2520connects%2520us%2Caps%2C71&sr=8-1'>Amazon or click the link here</a>.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Grief-Connects-Us-Neurogsurgeons-Compassion-ebook/dp/B08DM7DXCY/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1FOD1YSB5YZPJ&keywords=grief+connects+us&qid=1648135253&sprefix=grief%2520connects%2520us%2Caps%2C71&sr=8-1'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Excerpts from this conversation with Dr. Joseph Stern</em></p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:51</p>
<p>So everything is about the focus on training and education as a neurosurgeon is about becoming technically proficient and mastering very difficult subject matter.</p>
<p>But we're working with people. And these people are generally terrified, and whether or not they're dying, they need a compassionate connection with their doctor.</p>
<p>And that's where I feel that in neurosurgery training, but particularly in medicine, I think we fall down on the job in terms of the importance of what it is to connect with patients and in with what they're going through.</p>
<p>So I feel that was what my sister brought, to me, it wasn't so much that I was that it's only when people are dying, it's that anyone who is getting medical care, is at a low point and needs a compassionate connection, you need to have shared vulnerability and an ability to communicate in an empathic way with patient.</p>
<p>-----</p>
You're a stronger, better person by allowing yourself to be vulnerable
<p>-----</p>
<p>15:39</p>
<p>I'm assuming that you have become a more compassionate doctor, more compassionate surgeon. What language Have you started to use more of that you didn't use before?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>15:57</p>
<p>I think I listened more, I listened more and tried to talk less.</p>
<p>I sit and I give people time, and I want to hear what they are concerned about and what matters to them.</p>
<p>And so I feel that the meaningful relationships with patients are really what sustained me that actually, you know, by the time I'm fairly advanced, in my career, I've been doing a surgery for a long time, I liked doing surgery. But I also really like the the relationship, the trust that the patients put in me and kind of our relationship.</p>
<p>So I cultivate that. I also think that I'm not afraid to ask questions about what they're feeling or what their goals are, and what what it is that they're experiencing, what is it, they're worried about? What scares them?</p>
<p>So I think a lot of times in the past, I probably would have shut down a topic like that and moved on to a medical treatment or bombing people with facts.</p>
<p>I'm, I'm going to give them all the facts about their illness. And it's, in reality, they're multiple planes of communication are going on at the same time.</p>
<p>One is the fact information dump, you know, which a lot of times doctors do, but the other is like, what are you experiencing?</p>
<p>What are you taking away from this? What are your worries? What are your goals? What concerns you here?</p>
<p>And I think that those ability or willingness to get a little bit uncomfortable, maybe to cry, maybe two, but more to listen.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>24:42</p>
<p>Well, we're looking at a time in healthcare where burnout is at very, very high rates.</p>
<p>And I believe that some of the reason for burnout is our we're not kind to ourselves, so there's no self compassion.</p>
<p>We don't we don't take time to make sure that we're okay. And because we push away the grief and these other experiences, we, it ends up being a very fragile relationship that we have that we have when we could really dig in and be more connected and get more pleasure and more value out of work.</p>
<p>And so I, I would urge them to make some of these transitions toward honest communication, really being in touch with their own emotional experiences not shying away from these connections and conversations, and, and the emotional agility part that you need to be a successful provider of healthcare.</p>
<p>You need to be able to have that connection and also have the technical expertise.</p>
<p>And if you can learn to bounce between those two, you're really going to be a very wonderful provider.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[When compassion is missing, what can you do?
Technical competency is not the same as compassion. Yet both are critical in healthcare.
Dr. Joseph Stern is a neurosurgeon who discovered that compassion was missing from healthcare, when his younger sister, Victoria, developed leukemia, had a bone marrow transplant and died.
Episode 87
In this conversation with Dr. Joseph Stern, we explore:
The importance of emotional agility
There's a time for compassion and a time for technical expertise
Understanding the patient's anxiety and terror
Developing shared vulnerability to communicate in an empathetic way
How routine can get in the way of connecting with people
Shifting from empathy to technical precision
Why it's critical for health care professionals to manager their own emotional care
Recognizing and removing the emotional armor
Dr. Joseph Stern is a neurosurgeon. He is the author of "Grief Connects Us: A Neurosurgeon's Lessons on Love, Loss and Compassion.
You can find the book on Amazon or click the link here.

 
Excerpts from this conversation with Dr. Joseph Stern
 
02:51
So everything is about the focus on training and education as a neurosurgeon is about becoming technically proficient and mastering very difficult subject matter.
But we're working with people. And these people are generally terrified, and whether or not they're dying, they need a compassionate connection with their doctor.
And that's where I feel that in neurosurgery training, but particularly in medicine, I think we fall down on the job in terms of the importance of what it is to connect with patients and in with what they're going through.
So I feel that was what my sister brought, to me, it wasn't so much that I was that it's only when people are dying, it's that anyone who is getting medical care, is at a low point and needs a compassionate connection, you need to have shared vulnerability and an ability to communicate in an empathic way with patient.
-----
You're a stronger, better person by allowing yourself to be vulnerable
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15:39
I'm assuming that you have become a more compassionate doctor, more compassionate surgeon. What language Have you started to use more of that you didn't use before?
 
15:57
I think I listened more, I listened more and tried to talk less.
I sit and I give people time, and I want to hear what they are concerned about and what matters to them.
And so I feel that the meaningful relationships with patients are really what sustained me that actually, you know, by the time I'm fairly advanced, in my career, I've been doing a surgery for a long time, I liked doing surgery. But I also really like the the relationship, the trust that the patients put in me and kind of our relationship.
So I cultivate that. I also think that I'm not afraid to ask questions about what they're feeling or what their goals are, and what what it is that they're experiencing, what is it, they're worried about? What scares them?
So I think a lot of times in the past, I probably would have shut down a topic like that and moved on to a medical treatment or bombing people with facts.
I'm, I'm going to give them all the facts about their illness. And it's, in reality, they're multiple planes of communication are going on at the same time.
One is the fact information dump, you know, which a lot of times doctors do, but the other is like, what are you experiencing?
What are you taking away from this? What are your worries? What are your goals? What concerns you here?
And I think that those ability or willingness to get a little bit uncomfortable, maybe to cry, maybe two, but more to listen.
-----
24:42
Well, we're looking at a time in healthcare where burnout is at very, very high rates.
And I believe that some of the reason for burnout is our we're not kind to ourselves, so there's no self compassion.
We don't we don't take time to make sure that we're okay. And because we push away the grief and these other experiences, we, it ends up being a ver]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[What is EFT? Emotional Freedom Techniques. How might it help you?
You don't need to fear being trapped by your emotions. You can exert control.
<p>Brad Yates walks us through understanding and using EFT, (also known as tapping) to relieve stress, build confidence and manage our personal energy.</p>
<p>Episode 86 (Brad is from California)</p>
<p>In this conversation with Brad Yates we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How not to feel trapped by our emotions</li>
<li>How to build a better understanding and control of our emotions</li>
<li>What is tapping, (EFT) and how might you start using it for your benefit?</li>
<li>How does tapping leverage our understanding of acupuncture?</li>
<li>How might tapping encourage positive self talk?</li>
<li>What is the science that supports Emotional Freedom Techniques?</li>
<li>What is the connection with self hypnosis, rhythm and sensory feedback?</li>
<li>How might you start tapping with Brad? (no obligation and no charge)</li>
</ul>
<p>Who is Brad Yates and what has he done?</p>
<p>Brad Yates is known internationally for his creative and often humorous use of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT).</p>
<p>He has also been a presenter at a number of events, including Jack Canfield's Breakthrough to Success, has done teleseminars with “The Secret” stars Bob Doyle and Dr. Joe Vitale, and has been heard internationally on a number of internet radio talk shows. </p>
<p>There are over 1,000 videos on his <a href='https://www.youtube.com/c/tapwithbrad'>YouTube</a>, that have been viewed over 36 million times. </p>
<p>Invited by Jack Canfield to speak at his Breakthrough to Success event. Featured speaker on all 14 Tapping World Summits  Graduate of Ringling Bros. and Barnum and Bailey Clown College. </p>
<p>Visit his website <a href='https://www.tapwithbrad.com/'>TappWithBrad.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Brad Yates</p>
<p> </p>
<p>It helps us control our mind and our emotions. Because so often those run away and we feel like we're at the mercy of our emotions. And that's why we have EFT, which is short for Emotional Freedom Techniques.</p>
<p>It's a simple mind body technique for giving us more freedom in terms of our emotions, rather than being trapped by the discomfort of fear, anger, sadness, and these all these natural emotions, but that sometimes we get sucked into and really limits the quality of our lives.</p>
<p>Now, that's curious. If I'm hearing that, right, you're saying that we can become captive, or a slave to our emotions and and perhaps we need to be a little bit more free from some of the emotions. It's not that we make the emotions go away, we just need to be in better control.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>07:06</p>
<p>Brad, so the tapping is tapping with your finger on parts of your body. And you were just tapping on your, your face there in two or three places. And, and it was it's about one tap a second, roughly.</p>
<p>And while you're talking so I'm curious, is it the tapping that on the spot? Or is it is it a way of self hypnotism?</p>
<p>There are, there are similarities. I started out as hypnotherapist before getting into this. You know, after being a clown, and, and an actor, I'm not a doctor, but I played one on TV.</p>
<p>But there are there have been studies done to show that the tapping is an active part of the process.</p>
<p>So and you can actually tap without saying any words and you will calm down, it will down regulate your stress, even without the words now adding in the words and particular using affirmations using hypnotic language using cognitive behavioural therapy.</p>
<p>There's different ways of using wording, even NLP that can then help that process.</p>
<p>So you're getting the benefits of the the physical downregulation of stress with the tapping along with the mindset training at the same time is is then the the chief result of the tapping a reduction in stress.</p>
<p>Yes, that's the most the most obvious one. And so when you look at when you consider that most if not all of the issues that trouble us, both physically and emotionally, are either caused by or worsened by stress, then you'll see why a stress relief tool like this can be so helpful in so many different areas of life, including our physical well being our emotional well being and even our behaviour and our attempts to be more successful.</p>
<p>Because we then have that freedom to do things that we were afraid to do before. Alright, so let's, let's take a look at and how this works.</p>
<p>And here I am listening and looking at you and I'm thinking okay, my first thought is just sounds a little weird. And in so how do we get past that obstacle? How do we get past that brand?</p>
<p>Yeah, absolutely. George and I totally understand anyone who's there at that. I have introduced this to a lot of people and and sometimes people will be almost violent in their reactions.</p>
<p>Like this is the stupidest thing. I'll get comments on YouTube from people you know, saying things like that.</p>
<p>And then I'll often get comments from people later saying, I thought this was so stupid and now I am so grateful that I have this process. So there is that that resistance.</p>
<p>And as mentioned, I went to clown college. So when I learned this, this was not the strangest thing I've ever done, so I had an easier time.</p>
<p>But for the rest of you who didn't have the advantage of going to clown College, again, there's a lot of this growing body of scientific evidence validating it.</p>
<p>We have people from all walks of life using it, you there, there's video of Olympic athletes using it before their performance. I've worked with Olympic athletes worked with lawyers, doctors, award winning actors. So lots of people are using this.</p>
<p>So it's not just a lunatic fringe that's using a lot of people that you look up to people that you know, are you this is their secret weapon for feeling better, doing better and living better.</p>
<p>And again, a lot of people just say, look at acupuncture and say, oh, yeah, no, I understand acupuncture. That doesn't look weird. It's just the same thing without the needles. So for a lot of people, it should be, oh, it's acupuncture, but without having to use needles. </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[What is EFT? Emotional Freedom Techniques. How might it help you?
You don't need to fear being trapped by your emotions. You can exert control.
<p>Brad Yates walks us through understanding and using EFT, (also known as tapping) to relieve stress, build confidence and manage our personal energy.</p>
<p>Episode 86 (Brad is from California)</p>
<p><em>In this conversation with Brad Yates we explore:</em></p>
<ul><li>How not to feel trapped by our emotions</li>
<li>How to build a better understanding and control of our emotions</li>
<li>What is tapping, (EFT) and how might you start using it for your benefit?</li>
<li>How does tapping leverage our understanding of acupuncture?</li>
<li>How might tapping encourage positive self talk?</li>
<li>What is the science that supports Emotional Freedom Techniques?</li>
<li>What is the connection with self hypnosis, rhythm and sensory feedback?</li>
<li>How might you start tapping with Brad? (no obligation and no charge)</li>
</ul>
<p>Who is Brad Yates and what has he done?</p>
<p>Brad Yates is known internationally for his creative and often humorous use of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT).</p>
<p>He has also been a presenter at a number of events, including Jack Canfield's <em>Breakthrough to Success</em>, has done teleseminars with “The Secret” stars Bob Doyle and Dr. Joe Vitale, and has been heard internationally on a number of internet radio talk shows. </p>
<p>There are over 1,000 videos on his <a href='https://www.youtube.com/c/tapwithbrad'>YouTube</a>, that have been viewed over 36 million times. </p>
<p>Invited by Jack Canfield to speak at his Breakthrough to Success event. Featured speaker on all 14 Tapping World Summits  Graduate of Ringling Bros. and Barnum and Bailey Clown College. </p>
<p>Visit his website <a href='https://www.tapwithbrad.com/'>TappWithBrad.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Brad Yates</p>
<p> </p>
<p>It helps us control our mind and our emotions. Because so often those run away and we feel like we're at the mercy of our emotions. And that's why we have EFT, which is short for Emotional Freedom Techniques.</p>
<p>It's a simple mind body technique for giving us more freedom in terms of our emotions, rather than being trapped by the discomfort of fear, anger, sadness, and these all these natural emotions, but that sometimes we get sucked into and really limits the quality of our lives.</p>
<p>Now, that's curious. If I'm hearing that, right, you're saying that we can become captive, or a slave to our emotions and and perhaps we need to be a little bit more free from some of the emotions. It's not that we make the emotions go away, we just need to be in better control.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>07:06</p>
<p>Brad, so the tapping is tapping with your finger on parts of your body. And you were just tapping on your, your face there in two or three places. And, and it was it's about one tap a second, roughly.</p>
<p>And while you're talking so I'm curious, is it the tapping that on the spot? Or is it is it a way of self hypnotism?</p>
<p>There are, there are similarities. I started out as hypnotherapist before getting into this. You know, after being a clown, and, and an actor, I'm not a doctor, but I played one on TV.</p>
<p>But there are there have been studies done to show that the tapping is an active part of the process.</p>
<p>So and you can actually tap without saying any words and you will calm down, it will down regulate your stress, even without the words now adding in the words and particular using affirmations using hypnotic language using cognitive behavioural therapy.</p>
<p>There's different ways of using wording, even NLP that can then help that process.</p>
<p>So you're getting the benefits of the the physical downregulation of stress with the tapping along with the mindset training at the same time is is then the the chief result of the tapping a reduction in stress.</p>
<p>Yes, that's the most the most obvious one. And so when you look at when you consider that most if not all of the issues that trouble us, both physically and emotionally, are either caused by or worsened by stress, then you'll see why a stress relief tool like this can be so helpful in so many different areas of life, including our physical well being our emotional well being and even our behaviour and our attempts to be more successful.</p>
<p>Because we then have that freedom to do things that we were afraid to do before. Alright, so let's, let's take a look at and how this works.</p>
<p>And here I am listening and looking at you and I'm thinking okay, my first thought is just sounds a little weird. And in so how do we get past that obstacle? How do we get past that brand?</p>
<p>Yeah, absolutely. George and I totally understand anyone who's there at that. I have introduced this to a lot of people and and sometimes people will be almost violent in their reactions.</p>
<p>Like this is the stupidest thing. I'll get comments on YouTube from people you know, saying things like that.</p>
<p>And then I'll often get comments from people later saying, I thought this was so stupid and now I am so grateful that I have this process. So there is that that resistance.</p>
<p>And as mentioned, I went to clown college. So when I learned this, this was not the strangest thing I've ever done, so I had an easier time.</p>
<p>But for the rest of you who didn't have the advantage of going to clown College, again, there's a lot of this growing body of scientific evidence validating it.</p>
<p>We have people from all walks of life using it, you there, there's video of Olympic athletes using it before their performance. I've worked with Olympic athletes worked with lawyers, doctors, award winning actors. So lots of people are using this.</p>
<p>So it's not just a lunatic fringe that's using a lot of people that you look up to people that you know, are you this is their secret weapon for feeling better, doing better and living better.</p>
<p>And again, a lot of people just say, look at acupuncture and say, oh, yeah, no, I understand acupuncture. That doesn't look weird. It's just the same thing without the needles. So for a lot of people, it should be, oh, it's acupuncture, but without having to use needles. </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What is EFT? Emotional Freedom Techniques. How might it help you?
You don't need to fear being trapped by your emotions. You can exert control.
Brad Yates walks us through understanding and using EFT, (also known as tapping) to relieve stress, build confidence and manage our personal energy.
Episode 86 (Brad is from California)
In this conversation with Brad Yates we explore:
How not to feel trapped by our emotions
How to build a better understanding and control of our emotions
What is tapping, (EFT) and how might you start using it for your benefit?
How does tapping leverage our understanding of acupuncture?
How might tapping encourage positive self talk?
What is the science that supports Emotional Freedom Techniques?
What is the connection with self hypnosis, rhythm and sensory feedback?
How might you start tapping with Brad? (no obligation and no charge)
Who is Brad Yates and what has he done?
Brad Yates is known internationally for his creative and often humorous use of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT).
He has also been a presenter at a number of events, including Jack Canfield's Breakthrough to Success, has done teleseminars with “The Secret” stars Bob Doyle and Dr. Joe Vitale, and has been heard internationally on a number of internet radio talk shows. 
There are over 1,000 videos on his YouTube, that have been viewed over 36 million times. 
Invited by Jack Canfield to speak at his Breakthrough to Success event. Featured speaker on all 14 Tapping World Summits  Graduate of Ringling Bros. and Barnum and Bailey Clown College. 
Visit his website TappWithBrad.com
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Brad Yates
 
It helps us control our mind and our emotions. Because so often those run away and we feel like we're at the mercy of our emotions. And that's why we have EFT, which is short for Emotional Freedom Techniques.
It's a simple mind body technique for giving us more freedom in terms of our emotions, rather than being trapped by the discomfort of fear, anger, sadness, and these all these natural emotions, but that sometimes we get sucked into and really limits the quality of our lives.
Now, that's curious. If I'm hearing that, right, you're saying that we can become captive, or a slave to our emotions and and perhaps we need to be a little bit more free from some of the emotions. It's not that we make the emotions go away, we just need to be in better control.
-----
07:06
Brad, so the tapping is tapping with your finger on parts of your body. And you were just tapping on your, your face there in two or three places. And, and it was it's about one tap a second, roughly.
And while you're talking so I'm curious, is it the tapping that on the spot? Or is it is it a way of self hypnotism?
There are, there are similarities. I started out as hypnotherapist before getting into this. You know, after being a clown, and, and an actor, I'm not a doctor, but I played one on TV.
But there are there have been studies done to show that the tapping is an active part of the process.
So and you can actually tap without saying any words and you will calm down, it will down regulate your stress, even without the words now adding in the words and particular using affirmations using hypnotic language using cognitive behavioural therapy.
There's different ways of using wording, even NLP that can then help that process.
So you're getting the benefits of the the physical downregulation of stress with the tapping along with the mindset training at the same time is is then the the chief result of the tapping a reduction in stress.
Yes, that's the most the most obvious one. And so when you look at when you consider that most if not all of the issues that trouble us, both physically and emotionally, are either caused by or worsened by stress, then you'll see why a stress relief tool like this can be so helpful in so many different areas of life, including our physical well being our emotional well being and even our behaviour and ou]]></itunes:summary>
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Transforming complex concepts into simple ideas people can understand
<p>Andrew Churchill leads us through the process of dissecting complicated issues reimaging the key points into a clear and compelling message.</p>
<p>Episode 85</p>
<p>In this conversation with Andrew Churchill we examine:</p>
<ul><li>How to get better feedback when preparing your presentation</li>
<li>Recognizing the presence of unintended messages</li>
<li>How one entrepreneur made a successful pitch for his spinal surgery tool</li>
<li>Why it's critical to consider how the audience will feel</li>
<li>Why the audience doesn't need to know everything</li>
<li>The danger of false focal points</li>
</ul>
<p>Andrew Churchill specializes in helping founders and researchers deliver technical messages in a clear way.</p>
<p>He teaches engineers at McGill University how to connect with their audiences. </p>
<p>You can find Andrew on Linkedin at <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrewhchurchill/'>Andrew H Churchill</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation</p>
What do you want to know more about? How did you feel? And what did the person actually say?
<p>-----</p>
<p> And the challenge is, as an academic, how do you present your research to people in three minutes that aren't in your discipline? So how do we go from that technical, unfamiliar world of my work? So you can understand me? And understand what I'm doing? The three minute thesis competition,</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>I talk about connection, comprehension and credibility.</p>
<p>George, you probably immediately recognise those as logos, pathos, and ethos. Communication is not changing very rapidly.</p>
<p>I mean, yeah, we have a microphone now and an electronic screen. But But, but the way humans relate to each other. The things we remember, the things that draw us in our capacity to remember, one of the things I'm one of the things I'm always talking with people is it's not.</p>
<p>You don't have to dumb it down. But you can't give us a lot of detail. Because we can't remember a lot. And we can't process a lot. So so it's not so when people say don't use jargon, I always say don't use technical words, use plain language.</p>
<p>I don't think I don't actually think that's so so here's a, here's maybe a controversial take. Academic academics should use technical language. They should use plain language too. But they shouldn't shy away from the language of their field.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>12:41</p>
<p>They should teach it to us, they should bring us to their language. So because plain language doesn't work, there, you know, there there needs to be a plain language.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>18:39</p>
<p>When we try and present technical information to a non technical audience. So it's not just about definitions, and explanation. The worst thing you can do is sound like a Wikipedia article.</p>
<p>And most people start with a Wikipedia article worth of information, which is fine. That's what the whiteboards for. You put the that information on the whiteboard, then you figure out what you want people to remember.</p>
<p>And then you figure out how to tell it in a way that people are going to become curious and motivated to listen. And, and then you try and finish in a way that people are going to be motivated to do whatever you're hoping they'll do after.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>19:40</p>
<p>And Andrew I notice at least three important parts or elements to that that presentation. </p>
<p>They started with something we know or at least are familiar with the flight simulator and they related that to the spinal surgery so they built a connection</p>
<p>If they just started in with spinal surgeon  Ha, we don't know, we don't know anything about that.</p>
<p>But they made that connection. So they started where we know that made a connection made us curious, introduced only one technical word, which then was explained, which now goes in our memory.</p>
<p>And we might feel good, I learned a new word today, haptic and even know what it means. I can use it in the sentence. It's like, when you're stirring the soup, and you feel that resistance, that's haptic feedback, you know, the right thickness of your stew.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>20:35</p>
<p>That's a great analogy is perfect. See, it worked. And that message was received, because now George can explain haptic feedback.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>But it's about being very strategic, and only choosing to highlight the ones you need and deleting way more than you think. The more you can delete, the more likely people are to understand and and stay with you.</p>
<p>I think there are two things that go on there. At least I think about this two ways. Be interesting to see if this resonates for you. One is a concept I call cognitive overload. Whereas you give me things eventually. can't take anymore. I'm done. And then I shut down.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>32:15</p>
<p>And then the other one is a concept that I think of is false focal point.</p>
<p>I give you a detail. You think it's important. It's not. So I've created a false focal point. Because you're going to you pick up on things.</p>
<p>As you listen, you're like, Oh, that's interesting. But if it's not important if it's not central, but it's interesting. I've actually undermining myself. Because I've created interest in something. That's not what I'm talking about. It's not critical to what I'm talking about.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>32:58</p>
<p>And and is that reinforcement and do that just because something's interesting doesn't mean it should be in our presentation.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[For Engineers and Technical Professionals when presenting to a non-technical audience
Transforming complex concepts into simple ideas people can understand
<p>Andrew Churchill leads us through the process of dissecting complicated issues reimaging the key points into a clear and compelling message.</p>
<p>Episode 85</p>
<p>In this conversation with Andrew Churchill we examine:</p>
<ul><li>How to get better feedback when preparing your presentation</li>
<li>Recognizing the presence of unintended messages</li>
<li>How one entrepreneur made a successful pitch for his spinal surgery tool</li>
<li>Why it's critical to consider how the audience will feel</li>
<li>Why the audience doesn't need to know everything</li>
<li>The danger of false focal points</li>
</ul>
<p>Andrew Churchill specializes in helping founders and researchers deliver technical messages in a clear way.</p>
<p>He teaches engineers at McGill University how to connect with their audiences. </p>
<p>You can find Andrew on Linkedin at <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrewhchurchill/'>Andrew H Churchill</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation</p>
What do you want to know more about? How did you feel? And what did the person actually say?
<p>-----</p>
<p> And the challenge is, as an academic, how do you present your research to people in three minutes that aren't in your discipline? So how do we go from that technical, unfamiliar world of my work? So you can understand me? And understand what I'm doing? The three minute thesis competition,</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>I talk about connection, comprehension and credibility.</p>
<p>George, you probably immediately recognise those as logos, pathos, and ethos. Communication is not changing very rapidly.</p>
<p>I mean, yeah, we have a microphone now and an electronic screen. But But, but the way humans relate to each other. The things we remember, the things that draw us in our capacity to remember, one of the things I'm one of the things I'm always talking with people is it's not.</p>
<p>You don't have to dumb it down. But you can't give us a lot of detail. Because we can't remember a lot. And we can't process a lot. So so it's not so when people say don't use jargon, I always say don't use technical words, use plain language.</p>
<p>I don't think I don't actually think that's so so here's a, here's maybe a controversial take. Academic academics should use technical language. They should use plain language too. But they shouldn't shy away from the language of their field.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>12:41</p>
<p>They should teach it to us, they should bring us to their language. So because plain language doesn't work, there, you know, there there needs to be a plain language.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>18:39</p>
<p>When we try and present technical information to a non technical audience. So it's not just about definitions, and explanation. The worst thing you can do is sound like a Wikipedia article.</p>
<p>And most people start with a Wikipedia article worth of information, which is fine. That's what the whiteboards for. You put the that information on the whiteboard, then you figure out what you want people to remember.</p>
<p>And then you figure out how to tell it in a way that people are going to become curious and motivated to listen. And, and then you try and finish in a way that people are going to be motivated to do whatever you're hoping they'll do after.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>19:40</p>
<p>And Andrew I notice at least three important parts or elements to that that presentation. </p>
<p>They started with something we know or at least are familiar with the flight simulator and they related that to the spinal surgery so they built a connection</p>
<p>If they just started in with spinal surgeon  Ha, we don't know, we don't know anything about that.</p>
<p>But they made that connection. So they started where we know that made a connection made us curious, introduced only one technical word, which then was explained, which now goes in our memory.</p>
<p>And we might feel good, I learned a new word today, haptic and even know what it means. I can use it in the sentence. It's like, when you're stirring the soup, and you feel that resistance, that's haptic feedback, you know, the right thickness of your stew.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>20:35</p>
<p>That's a great analogy is perfect. See, it worked. And that message was received, because now George can explain haptic feedback.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>But it's about being very strategic, and only choosing to highlight the ones you need and deleting way more than you think. The more you can delete, the more likely people are to understand and and stay with you.</p>
<p>I think there are two things that go on there. At least I think about this two ways. Be interesting to see if this resonates for you. One is a concept I call cognitive overload. Whereas you give me things eventually. can't take anymore. I'm done. And then I shut down.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>32:15</p>
<p>And then the other one is a concept that I think of is false focal point.</p>
<p>I give you a detail. You think it's important. It's not. So I've created a false focal point. Because you're going to you pick up on things.</p>
<p>As you listen, you're like, Oh, that's interesting. But if it's not important if it's not central, but it's interesting. I've actually undermining myself. Because I've created interest in something. That's not what I'm talking about. It's not critical to what I'm talking about.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>32:58</p>
<p>And and is that reinforcement and do that just because something's interesting doesn't mean it should be in our presentation.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[For Engineers and Technical Professionals when presenting to a non-technical audience
Transforming complex concepts into simple ideas people can understand
Andrew Churchill leads us through the process of dissecting complicated issues reimaging the key points into a clear and compelling message.
Episode 85
In this conversation with Andrew Churchill we examine:
How to get better feedback when preparing your presentation
Recognizing the presence of unintended messages
How one entrepreneur made a successful pitch for his spinal surgery tool
Why it's critical to consider how the audience will feel
Why the audience doesn't need to know everything
The danger of false focal points
Andrew Churchill specializes in helping founders and researchers deliver technical messages in a clear way.
He teaches engineers at McGill University how to connect with their audiences. 
You can find Andrew on Linkedin at Andrew H Churchill
-----
Excerpts from this conversation
What do you want to know more about? How did you feel? And what did the person actually say?
-----
 And the challenge is, as an academic, how do you present your research to people in three minutes that aren't in your discipline? So how do we go from that technical, unfamiliar world of my work? So you can understand me? And understand what I'm doing? The three minute thesis competition,
-----
I talk about connection, comprehension and credibility.
George, you probably immediately recognise those as logos, pathos, and ethos. Communication is not changing very rapidly.
I mean, yeah, we have a microphone now and an electronic screen. But But, but the way humans relate to each other. The things we remember, the things that draw us in our capacity to remember, one of the things I'm one of the things I'm always talking with people is it's not.
You don't have to dumb it down. But you can't give us a lot of detail. Because we can't remember a lot. And we can't process a lot. So so it's not so when people say don't use jargon, I always say don't use technical words, use plain language.
I don't think I don't actually think that's so so here's a, here's maybe a controversial take. Academic academics should use technical language. They should use plain language too. But they shouldn't shy away from the language of their field.
 
12:41
They should teach it to us, they should bring us to their language. So because plain language doesn't work, there, you know, there there needs to be a plain language.
-----
18:39
When we try and present technical information to a non technical audience. So it's not just about definitions, and explanation. The worst thing you can do is sound like a Wikipedia article.
And most people start with a Wikipedia article worth of information, which is fine. That's what the whiteboards for. You put the that information on the whiteboard, then you figure out what you want people to remember.
And then you figure out how to tell it in a way that people are going to become curious and motivated to listen. And, and then you try and finish in a way that people are going to be motivated to do whatever you're hoping they'll do after.
 
19:40
And Andrew I notice at least three important parts or elements to that that presentation. 
They started with something we know or at least are familiar with the flight simulator and they related that to the spinal surgery so they built a connection
If they just started in with spinal surgeon  Ha, we don't know, we don't know anything about that.
But they made that connection. So they started where we know that made a connection made us curious, introduced only one technical word, which then was explained, which now goes in our memory.
And we might feel good, I learned a new word today, haptic and even know what it means. I can use it in the sentence. It's like, when you're stirring the soup, and you feel that resistance, that's haptic feedback, you know, the right thickness of your stew.
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Know your personality style so you can leverage your strengths and mitigate your weaknesses
<p>Joni Peddie guides us through the 9 personality styles of the Enneagram model</p>
<p>Episode 84</p>
<p>When you know and understand your hard wired personality style you will:</p>
<ul><li>Recognize your blind spots</li>
<li>Appreciate your natural resting state</li>
<li>Be more comfortable with your internal dialogue</li>
<li>Have greater control of your reactions when stressed</li>
</ul>
<p>The nine personality styles of the Enneagram in the sequence discussed:</p>
<p>8. Challenger</p>
<p>9. Peacemaker</p>
<p>1. Reformer</p>
<p>2. Helper</p>
<p>3. Achiever</p>
<p>4. Individual</p>
<p>5. Investigator</p>
<p>6. Loyalist</p>
<p>7. Enthusiast</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Joni Peddie is the co-author of: The FAB Quotient: Experience Resilience and Fight Fatigue. </p>
<p>She is co-author of: Resilience Up Assessment (in 200 countries).</p>
<p>Joni is based in South Africa.</p>
<p>To learn more about her programs visit <a href='https://resilientpeople.co.za/'>www.ResilientPeople.co,za</a></p>
<p><a href='https://resilientpeople.co.za/'></a></p>
<p>You can access your own resilience in 4 dimensions: Physical, Mental, Emotional and Purpose Driven Resilience.</p>
<p>Contact Joni by email to get the assessment at <a href='mailto:joni@resliientpeople.co,za'>joni@resliientpeople.co,za</a></p>
<p>There is a $25 fee for the assessment.</p>
<p> -----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Joni Peddie</p>
<p>06:19</p>
<p>And why is it important for us to understand our, our strongest personality type?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>06:27</p>
<p>Because for personal growth and personal transformation, you need to know your own personality type to say, right journey.</p>
<p>If your personality type is called the top three in the Enneagram, then, what is the fear of the top three?  What does that shadow kind of fear?</p>
<p>You and I spoke a few minutes ago about the internal dialogue. And that can be largely driven by the fear and the desires of their personality type and the attitude of their personality type.</p>
<p>So if you know, with specificity, which one you were born, you can start to self manage in different ways, so that your fears and your blind spots don't trip you up.</p>
<p>And you can personally grow and be able to self manage differently, and then communicate in different ways to different personality styles to other people who are born different personality styles.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>18:13</p>
<p>And does that mean that if a person is in one of those neighbourhoods, that they are also more likely to have shoulder personality of the other two types?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>18:26</p>
<p>Very good insight there not a lot of people ask that question, George. And I've been teaching this for 25 years. So yep, very good question.</p>
<p>If they could have, we actually call it wings, but shoulders would work. So you're born a header, you know, that's your type. And then on either side, you've got a shoulder connected to the head.</p>
<p>So that's always on the circumference of the circle. So if we're talking about a type, clearly there could have a shoulder of an 8 or shoulder over one.</p>
<p>But certainly a type one couldn't have a shoulder of a non or shoulder to so the shoulders don't have to be in that neighbourhood that can kind of straddle neighbourhoods.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>26:24</p>
<p>Do these strengths become a haven when we're stressed, stressed or threatened?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>26:32</p>
<p>They certainly do. An earlier starting point, which was good, you know, you kind of revert back to the type that you were born.</p>
<p>So they become a haven because you you're hardwired that way. It's so it's automatic behaviour.</p>
<p>And actually, when people are stressed, the FBI uses the Enneagram. Because they can show when world leaders are stressed, those habits are automated, and you kind of play out an automated set of habits.</p>
<p>However, when you're not stressed, and you're more mindful, and you're more present, and you're more self aware.</p>
<p>Socrates said, self awareness is the beginning of wisdom. So when you're more self aware, you actually then will choose how you respond to people.</p>
<p>And in what way, you will choose that whole behaviour set according to the person you're speaking to the task, that issue were the businesses and the business growth.</p>
<p>People will not easily know your Enneagram type. And I find those leaders that I deal with are exemplary because they are not stuck in a certain automated pattern. They are free of it.</p>
<p>So there's a little bit of an oxymoron here is you need to for personal growth, know which type you are born.</p>
<p>And then you want to kick that box away and you want to go right I don't want to be a slave to that Enneagram type, I want to be agile, and use different behaviour sets according to the situation, the people that I'm working with.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Know your personality style so you can leverage your strengths and mitigate your weaknesses
<p>Joni Peddie guides us through the 9 personality styles of the Enneagram model</p>
<p>Episode 84</p>
<p>When you know and understand your hard wired personality style you will:</p>
<ul><li>Recognize your blind spots</li>
<li>Appreciate your natural resting state</li>
<li>Be more comfortable with your internal dialogue</li>
<li>Have greater control of your reactions when stressed</li>
</ul>
<p>The nine personality styles of the Enneagram in the sequence discussed:</p>
<p>8. Challenger</p>
<p>9. Peacemaker</p>
<p>1. Reformer</p>
<p>2. Helper</p>
<p>3. Achiever</p>
<p>4. Individual</p>
<p>5. Investigator</p>
<p>6. Loyalist</p>
<p>7. Enthusiast</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Joni Peddie is the co-author of: The FAB Quotient: Experience Resilience and Fight Fatigue. </p>
<p>She is co-author of: Resilience Up Assessment (in 200 countries).</p>
<p>Joni is based in South Africa.</p>
<p>To learn more about her programs visit <a href='https://resilientpeople.co.za/'>www.ResilientPeople.co,za</a></p>
<p><a href='https://resilientpeople.co.za/'></a></p>
<p>You can access your own resilience in 4 dimensions: Physical, Mental, Emotional and Purpose Driven Resilience.</p>
<p>Contact Joni by email to get the assessment at <a href='mailto:joni@resliientpeople.co,za'>joni@resliientpeople.co,za</a></p>
<p>There is a $25 fee for the assessment.</p>
<p> -----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Joni Peddie</p>
<p>06:19</p>
<p>And why is it important for us to understand our, our strongest personality type?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>06:27</p>
<p>Because for personal growth and personal transformation, you need to know your own personality type to say, right journey.</p>
<p>If your personality type is called the top three in the Enneagram, then, what is the fear of the top three?  What does that shadow kind of fear?</p>
<p>You and I spoke a few minutes ago about the internal dialogue. And that can be largely driven by the fear and the desires of their personality type and the attitude of their personality type.</p>
<p>So if you know, with specificity, which one you were born, you can start to self manage in different ways, so that your fears and your blind spots don't trip you up.</p>
<p>And you can personally grow and be able to self manage differently, and then communicate in different ways to different personality styles to other people who are born different personality styles.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>18:13</p>
<p>And does that mean that if a person is in one of those neighbourhoods, that they are also more likely to have shoulder personality of the other two types?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>18:26</p>
<p>Very good insight there not a lot of people ask that question, George. And I've been teaching this for 25 years. So yep, very good question.</p>
<p>If they could have, we actually call it wings, but shoulders would work. So you're born a header, you know, that's your type. And then on either side, you've got a shoulder connected to the head.</p>
<p>So that's always on the circumference of the circle. So if we're talking about a type, clearly there could have a shoulder of an 8 or shoulder over one.</p>
<p>But certainly a type one couldn't have a shoulder of a non or shoulder to so the shoulders don't have to be in that neighbourhood that can kind of straddle neighbourhoods.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>26:24</p>
<p>Do these strengths become a haven when we're stressed, stressed or threatened?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>26:32</p>
<p>They certainly do. An earlier starting point, which was good, you know, you kind of revert back to the type that you were born.</p>
<p>So they become a haven because you you're hardwired that way. It's so it's automatic behaviour.</p>
<p>And actually, when people are stressed, the FBI uses the Enneagram. Because they can show when world leaders are stressed, those habits are automated, and you kind of play out an automated set of habits.</p>
<p>However, when you're not stressed, and you're more mindful, and you're more present, and you're more self aware.</p>
<p>Socrates said, self awareness is the beginning of wisdom. So when you're more self aware, you actually then will choose how you respond to people.</p>
<p>And in what way, you will choose that whole behaviour set according to the person you're speaking to the task, that issue were the businesses and the business growth.</p>
<p>People will not easily know your Enneagram type. And I find those leaders that I deal with are exemplary because they are not stuck in a certain automated pattern. They are free of it.</p>
<p>So there's a little bit of an oxymoron here is you need to for personal growth, know which type you are born.</p>
<p>And then you want to kick that box away and you want to go right I don't want to be a slave to that Enneagram type, I want to be agile, and use different behaviour sets according to the situation, the people that I'm working with.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Know your personality style so you can leverage your strengths and mitigate your weaknesses
Joni Peddie guides us through the 9 personality styles of the Enneagram model
Episode 84
When you know and understand your hard wired personality style you will:
Recognize your blind spots
Appreciate your natural resting state
Be more comfortable with your internal dialogue
Have greater control of your reactions when stressed
The nine personality styles of the Enneagram in the sequence discussed:
8. Challenger
9. Peacemaker
1. Reformer
2. Helper
3. Achiever
4. Individual
5. Investigator
6. Loyalist
7. Enthusiast
 
Joni Peddie is the co-author of: The FAB Quotient: Experience Resilience and Fight Fatigue. 
She is co-author of: Resilience Up Assessment (in 200 countries).
Joni is based in South Africa.
To learn more about her programs visit www.ResilientPeople.co,za

You can access your own resilience in 4 dimensions: Physical, Mental, Emotional and Purpose Driven Resilience.
Contact Joni by email to get the assessment at joni@resliientpeople.co,za
There is a $25 fee for the assessment.
 -----
Excerpts from this conversation with Joni Peddie
06:19
And why is it important for us to understand our, our strongest personality type?
 
06:27
Because for personal growth and personal transformation, you need to know your own personality type to say, right journey.
If your personality type is called the top three in the Enneagram, then, what is the fear of the top three?  What does that shadow kind of fear?
You and I spoke a few minutes ago about the internal dialogue. And that can be largely driven by the fear and the desires of their personality type and the attitude of their personality type.
So if you know, with specificity, which one you were born, you can start to self manage in different ways, so that your fears and your blind spots don't trip you up.
And you can personally grow and be able to self manage differently, and then communicate in different ways to different personality styles to other people who are born different personality styles.
-----
18:13
And does that mean that if a person is in one of those neighbourhoods, that they are also more likely to have shoulder personality of the other two types?
 
18:26
Very good insight there not a lot of people ask that question, George. And I've been teaching this for 25 years. So yep, very good question.
If they could have, we actually call it wings, but shoulders would work. So you're born a header, you know, that's your type. And then on either side, you've got a shoulder connected to the head.
So that's always on the circumference of the circle. So if we're talking about a type, clearly there could have a shoulder of an 8 or shoulder over one.
But certainly a type one couldn't have a shoulder of a non or shoulder to so the shoulders don't have to be in that neighbourhood that can kind of straddle neighbourhoods.
-----
26:24
Do these strengths become a haven when we're stressed, stressed or threatened?
 
26:32
They certainly do. An earlier starting point, which was good, you know, you kind of revert back to the type that you were born.
So they become a haven because you you're hardwired that way. It's so it's automatic behaviour.
And actually, when people are stressed, the FBI uses the Enneagram. Because they can show when world leaders are stressed, those habits are automated, and you kind of play out an automated set of habits.
However, when you're not stressed, and you're more mindful, and you're more present, and you're more self aware.
Socrates said, self awareness is the beginning of wisdom. So when you're more self aware, you actually then will choose how you respond to people.
And in what way, you will choose that whole behaviour set according to the person you're speaking to the task, that issue were the businesses and the business growth.
People will not easily know your Enneagram type. And I find those leaders that I deal with are exemplary because they are not stu]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Let's deconstruct TED Talks to discover whey they were so popular
Devin Marks, the TED Talk Whisperer, reveals his findings and lessons from the success of TED Talks
<p>Episode 83</p>
Be sure to add your review on Apple podcasts
<p> </p>
<p>Topics and ideas we discuss:</p>
<ul><li>History lesson from Billy Graham</li>
<li>Finding your story from your history to support the big idea</li>
<li>Why you need a Sherpa to Climb Mount Everest</li>
<li>How did the story raise $200 M for a start-up?</li>
<li>Presenting stronger online</li>
<li>How the big idea is underpinned with three key points</li>
<li>How to use the Athenian temple model to frame your presentation</li>
</ul>
A clearly focused message, a story wrapped message and an action inspiring message
<p>Devin Marks has trained hundreds of speakers to deliver TED, TEDX and TED-style talks. </p>
<p>Get your copy of <a href='http://www.connecttocompelnow.com/'>Top 3 Secrets for Connecting with Online Viewer</a>s.</p>
<p>Click the link or visit <a href='http://www.connecttocompelnow.com/'>ConnectToCompel.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://connecttocompelnow.com/'></a></p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Devin Marks</p>
<p>06:36</p>
<p>When you're working with potential Ted, or TEDx speakers, or Ted type talks, where do you start with them?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>06:46</p>
<p>Always with their story. One of my favourite questions is what brought you to this invitation to deliver a talk?</p>
<p>Just walk me through the career path, the life path, the relationship path that led to today? What I it's always fun, especially when I'm working with engineers who always preface that with I don't have any stories.</p>
<p>There's a rich seedbed of story in the career, the relational and the life path, and it probably is connected. That's what the rearview mirror is for, to what they're doing today.</p>
<p>The big idea they're called to share. And then from there, we typically begin to ask, what is that big idea?</p>
<p>And can we mill it down and begin refining it through a six step process? I call that the idea mill.</p>
<p>Focusing on that first principle.</p>
<p>There's probably about 400 words and about a three and a half minute discourse. And it's unwieldy and misshapen. And it's sometimes their pre idea, and they've got six of these floating around, we want to hone in on that one over time.</p>
<p>And then begin tweaking, refining, balancing it, tightening it concentrating it, we want it to be tweet length, or shorter, memorable, illiterate, etc.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>11:17</p>
<p>I've been told that most people take too long setting up the story.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>11:24</p>
<p>So true, too much detail too much this that the other just enough, we need just enough. I liken a TED Talk to climbing Mount Everest.</p>
<p>And I'm not going to ask you to do that on your own. I'm a Sherpa. I'm a servant to your ambition.</p>
<p>And so I'll lead you up Mount Everest, we've been up and down many, many, many times. I know where the gravel crumbles, I know where the wind is bad and the sun is too hot and waters good or bad.</p>
<p>We can go a number of ways. But trust me in this path. Well, I mean, they're grappling hooks, we need to toss onto the side of that mountain and pull up.</p>
<p>And those are those relatable details. Those are those little two or three is all you need to establish credibility and ideally share something of your story that's relatable, and that the audience can import into their own story and future.</p>
<p>Right. I've done that before. Oh, I want to go with you on this journey.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>19:59</p>
<p>What mistakes do you see business leaders committing in their style or delivery, when they come to you that you need to cleanse out of their system.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>20:17</p>
<p>Too often they're accustomed to being the sage on stage, the authority figure that no one tells them, they're doing anything wrong.</p>
<p>And so that that certainty that they got it is a confidence but also it hobbles them in the delivery that is a TED talk.</p>
<p>Because a TED talk or a TED level delivery in any context, involves a great deal of rehearsing a great deal of coaching and a great deal of feedback from general audience members.</p>
<p>And that feedback loop improves the delivery every time. And that, that takes a little bit of courage to let go of control.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Let's deconstruct TED Talks to discover whey they were so popular
Devin Marks, the TED Talk Whisperer, reveals his findings and lessons from the success of TED Talks
<p>Episode 83</p>
Be sure to add your review on Apple podcasts
<p> </p>
<p>Topics and ideas we discuss:</p>
<ul><li>History lesson from Billy Graham</li>
<li>Finding your story from your history to support the big idea</li>
<li>Why you need a Sherpa to Climb Mount Everest</li>
<li>How did the story raise $200 M for a start-up?</li>
<li>Presenting stronger online</li>
<li>How the big idea is underpinned with three key points</li>
<li>How to use the Athenian temple model to frame your presentation</li>
</ul>
A clearly focused message, a story wrapped message and an action inspiring message
<p>Devin Marks has trained hundreds of speakers to deliver TED, TEDX and TED-style talks. </p>
<p>Get your copy of <a href='http://www.connecttocompelnow.com/'>Top 3 Secrets for Connecting with Online Viewer</a>s.</p>
<p>Click the link or visit <a href='http://www.connecttocompelnow.com/'>ConnectToCompel.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://connecttocompelnow.com/'></a></p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Devin Marks</p>
<p>06:36</p>
<p>When you're working with potential Ted, or TEDx speakers, or Ted type talks, where do you start with them?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>06:46</p>
<p>Always with their story. One of my favourite questions is what brought you to this invitation to deliver a talk?</p>
<p>Just walk me through the career path, the life path, the relationship path that led to today? What I it's always fun, especially when I'm working with engineers who always preface that with I don't have any stories.</p>
<p>There's a rich seedbed of story in the career, the relational and the life path, and it probably is connected. That's what the rearview mirror is for, to what they're doing today.</p>
<p>The big idea they're called to share. And then from there, we typically begin to ask, what is that big idea?</p>
<p>And can we mill it down and begin refining it through a six step process? I call that the idea mill.</p>
<p>Focusing on that first principle.</p>
<p>There's probably about 400 words and about a three and a half minute discourse. And it's unwieldy and misshapen. And it's sometimes their pre idea, and they've got six of these floating around, we want to hone in on that one over time.</p>
<p>And then begin tweaking, refining, balancing it, tightening it concentrating it, we want it to be tweet length, or shorter, memorable, illiterate, etc.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>11:17</p>
<p>I've been told that most people take too long setting up the story.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>11:24</p>
<p>So true, too much detail too much this that the other just enough, we need just enough. I liken a TED Talk to climbing Mount Everest.</p>
<p>And I'm not going to ask you to do that on your own. I'm a Sherpa. I'm a servant to your ambition.</p>
<p>And so I'll lead you up Mount Everest, we've been up and down many, many, many times. I know where the gravel crumbles, I know where the wind is bad and the sun is too hot and waters good or bad.</p>
<p>We can go a number of ways. But trust me in this path. Well, I mean, they're grappling hooks, we need to toss onto the side of that mountain and pull up.</p>
<p>And those are those relatable details. Those are those little two or three is all you need to establish credibility and ideally share something of your story that's relatable, and that the audience can import into their own story and future.</p>
<p>Right. I've done that before. Oh, I want to go with you on this journey.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>19:59</p>
<p>What mistakes do you see business leaders committing in their style or delivery, when they come to you that you need to cleanse out of their system.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>20:17</p>
<p>Too often they're accustomed to being the sage on stage, the authority figure that no one tells them, they're doing anything wrong.</p>
<p>And so that that certainty that they got it is a confidence but also it hobbles them in the delivery that is a TED talk.</p>
<p>Because a TED talk or a TED level delivery in any context, involves a great deal of rehearsing a great deal of coaching and a great deal of feedback from general audience members.</p>
<p>And that feedback loop improves the delivery every time. And that, that takes a little bit of courage to let go of control.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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Devin Marks, the TED Talk Whisperer, reveals his findings and lessons from the success of TED Talks
Episode 83
Be sure to add your review on Apple podcasts
 
Topics and ideas we discuss:
History lesson from Billy Graham
Finding your story from your history to support the big idea
Why you need a Sherpa to Climb Mount Everest
How did the story raise $200 M for a start-up?
Presenting stronger online
How the big idea is underpinned with three key points
How to use the Athenian temple model to frame your presentation
A clearly focused message, a story wrapped message and an action inspiring message
Devin Marks has trained hundreds of speakers to deliver TED, TEDX and TED-style talks. 
Get your copy of Top 3 Secrets for Connecting with Online Viewers.
Click the link or visit ConnectToCompel.com
 

Excerpts from this conversation with Devin Marks
06:36
When you're working with potential Ted, or TEDx speakers, or Ted type talks, where do you start with them?
 
06:46
Always with their story. One of my favourite questions is what brought you to this invitation to deliver a talk?
Just walk me through the career path, the life path, the relationship path that led to today? What I it's always fun, especially when I'm working with engineers who always preface that with I don't have any stories.
There's a rich seedbed of story in the career, the relational and the life path, and it probably is connected. That's what the rearview mirror is for, to what they're doing today.
The big idea they're called to share. And then from there, we typically begin to ask, what is that big idea?
And can we mill it down and begin refining it through a six step process? I call that the idea mill.
Focusing on that first principle.
There's probably about 400 words and about a three and a half minute discourse. And it's unwieldy and misshapen. And it's sometimes their pre idea, and they've got six of these floating around, we want to hone in on that one over time.
And then begin tweaking, refining, balancing it, tightening it concentrating it, we want it to be tweet length, or shorter, memorable, illiterate, etc.
-----
11:17
I've been told that most people take too long setting up the story.
 
11:24
So true, too much detail too much this that the other just enough, we need just enough. I liken a TED Talk to climbing Mount Everest.
And I'm not going to ask you to do that on your own. I'm a Sherpa. I'm a servant to your ambition.
And so I'll lead you up Mount Everest, we've been up and down many, many, many times. I know where the gravel crumbles, I know where the wind is bad and the sun is too hot and waters good or bad.
We can go a number of ways. But trust me in this path. Well, I mean, they're grappling hooks, we need to toss onto the side of that mountain and pull up.
And those are those relatable details. Those are those little two or three is all you need to establish credibility and ideally share something of your story that's relatable, and that the audience can import into their own story and future.
Right. I've done that before. Oh, I want to go with you on this journey.
-----
19:59
What mistakes do you see business leaders committing in their style or delivery, when they come to you that you need to cleanse out of their system.
 
20:17
Too often they're accustomed to being the sage on stage, the authority figure that no one tells them, they're doing anything wrong.
And so that that certainty that they got it is a confidence but also it hobbles them in the delivery that is a TED talk.
Because a TED talk or a TED level delivery in any context, involves a great deal of rehearsing a great deal of coaching and a great deal of feedback from general audience members.
And that feedback loop improves the delivery every time. And that, that takes a little bit of courage to let go of control.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Want to get better on Zoom? Study the TV newscasters. They know how to speak to the camera.
Malika Dudley reveals tips and mistakes from her experience as a TV weather reporter and interviewer.
<p>Episode 82</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Ideas and topics we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Similarities between speaking on Zoom and on TV</li>
<li>Handling anxiety when speaking - live or virtual</li>
<li>Why it's important to appear to make eye contact</li>
<li>Preparing for on camera interviews</li>
<li>Reminder that you can't please everyone</li>
<li>How to leverage your video recordings</li>
</ul>
<p>Malika Dudley is an award winning TV journalist. She is a former Miss Hawaii. She studied Communicology, (the scientific study of human communication).</p>
<p>She hosts <a href='https://www.communificationpodcast.com/'>The Communification Podcast</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://www.communificationpodcast.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Malika Dudley</p>
<p>One of my biggest tips would be to look at the lens of the camera instead of the face, because then you will be connecting with your audience more.</p>
<p>So you need to sacrifice a little bit yourself. Because for you, it's nice to have that connection and look at the faces that you're looking at. But my recommendation would be to at least go back and forth, if you can.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>07:05</p>
<p>Oh, absolutely. I think everyone can relate to that, right. And what's awful about zoom, is that a lot people are not good audience members.</p>
<p>So maybe one thing for our audience members is that when you are attending a zoom, make sure that you're doing the same things that you would do in person.</p>
<p>you don't want to look bored, or maybe you're someone could be reacting to some, they're looking at their phone, and they get some kind of a whatever on their phone.</p>
<p>And so they have this weird look on their face, you would never know because you're you have no idea what's happening in their room.</p>
<p>So it's very different than in person where I can tell when someone's checked out, and they're looking at their phone, maybe they're reacting to their phone, or if I have everyone's engagement, and so as an audience member, it's really important to nod your head and smile, use those facial expressions to really give encouragement to your speaker.</p>
<p>And then yes, as the speaker, you, you kind of have to take it all with a grain of salt. And in fact, when I do speeches that are online, or if I have a presentation, I actually will put my notes up on top like in my screen, so I won't be able to actually see faces.</p>
<p>And, my dad always told me that you need to practice until it looks like you never practice today and in your in your life.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>26:53</p>
<p>Communification</p>
<p>Did a word search online. And this was a word in the urban dictionary. And so they combined communication with beautification. So it's the beautification of your communication.</p>
<p>But also the more I searched online, I found that some people use this word communification to describe the unification of community. And both of those things are the goals and the vision for my podcast.</p>
<p>And when you listen to the podcast, not only will it help you to unlock your communication potential by teaching you these tangible research, base communication, strategies for navigating through things like apologizing, you know, when someone lies to you, or if you are being deceptive.</p>
<p>My first season is about communication and technology. So a lot of things like cyber bullying and phubbing, which is phone snubbing. So, you know, it's, it's just a place for us to learn and grow.</p>
<p>And then the opposite side of it is I think people need to feel like they are not alone. They want to know that when they're struggling, and we all feel this way.</p>
<p>We just think, oh, my gosh, I'm the I'm the only one I'm the failure. I'm the one that just sucks at this. But no, you are not alone. So many people struggle with the same issues.</p>
<p>I have a guest on usually, it's a celebrity, like my first episode was with the bucket list family, who has two and a half million followers on Instagram and all over, all over the internet. They're, they're very, very popular. And we talked about how social media, you know, impacts their communication.</p>
<p>And so it's really great to kind of hear from these people that live this day in and day out, when you see that they struggle. I mean, this woman who has millions of followers, is feeling depressed and judged and needs to take a break, then I think that makes us normal people feel so much better.</p>
<p>When we go, oh, wow, I feel the same way. But I thought I was all alone. And look at this girl who is liked by millions of people and still feels the very same exact way.</p>
<p>Because guess what? We're all human.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Want to get better on Zoom? Study the TV newscasters. They know how to speak to the camera.
Malika Dudley reveals tips and mistakes from her experience as a TV weather reporter and interviewer.
<p>Episode 82</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Ideas and topics we explore:</p>
<ul><li>Similarities between speaking on Zoom and on TV</li>
<li>Handling anxiety when speaking - live or virtual</li>
<li>Why it's important to appear to make eye contact</li>
<li>Preparing for on camera interviews</li>
<li>Reminder that you can't please everyone</li>
<li>How to leverage your video recordings</li>
</ul>
<p>Malika Dudley is an award winning TV journalist. She is a former Miss Hawaii. She studied Communicology, (the scientific study of human communication).</p>
<p>She hosts <a href='https://www.communificationpodcast.com/'>The Communification Podcast</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://www.communificationpodcast.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Malika Dudley</p>
<p>One of my biggest tips would be to look at the lens of the camera instead of the face, because then you will be connecting with your audience more.</p>
<p>So you need to sacrifice a little bit yourself. Because for you, it's nice to have that connection and look at the faces that you're looking at. But my recommendation would be to at least go back and forth, if you can.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>07:05</p>
<p>Oh, absolutely. I think everyone can relate to that, right. And what's awful about zoom, is that a lot people are not good audience members.</p>
<p>So maybe one thing for our audience members is that when you are attending a zoom, make sure that you're doing the same things that you would do in person.</p>
<p>you don't want to look bored, or maybe you're someone could be reacting to some, they're looking at their phone, and they get some kind of a whatever on their phone.</p>
<p>And so they have this weird look on their face, you would never know because you're you have no idea what's happening in their room.</p>
<p>So it's very different than in person where I can tell when someone's checked out, and they're looking at their phone, maybe they're reacting to their phone, or if I have everyone's engagement, and so as an audience member, it's really important to nod your head and smile, use those facial expressions to really give encouragement to your speaker.</p>
<p>And then yes, as the speaker, you, you kind of have to take it all with a grain of salt. And in fact, when I do speeches that are online, or if I have a presentation, I actually will put my notes up on top like in my screen, so I won't be able to actually see faces.</p>
<p>And, my dad always told me that you need to practice until it looks like you never practice today and in your in your life.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>26:53</p>
<p>Communification</p>
<p>Did a word search online. And this was a word in the urban dictionary. And so they combined communication with beautification. So it's the beautification of your communication.</p>
<p>But also the more I searched online, I found that some people use this word communification to describe the unification of community. And both of those things are the goals and the vision for my podcast.</p>
<p>And when you listen to the podcast, not only will it help you to unlock your communication potential by teaching you these tangible research, base communication, strategies for navigating through things like apologizing, you know, when someone lies to you, or if you are being deceptive.</p>
<p>My first season is about communication and technology. So a lot of things like cyber bullying and phubbing, which is phone snubbing. So, you know, it's, it's just a place for us to learn and grow.</p>
<p>And then the opposite side of it is I think people need to feel like they are not alone. They want to know that when they're struggling, and we all feel this way.</p>
<p>We just think, oh, my gosh, I'm the I'm the only one I'm the failure. I'm the one that just sucks at this. But no, you are not alone. So many people struggle with the same issues.</p>
<p>I have a guest on usually, it's a celebrity, like my first episode was with the bucket list family, who has two and a half million followers on Instagram and all over, all over the internet. They're, they're very, very popular. And we talked about how social media, you know, impacts their communication.</p>
<p>And so it's really great to kind of hear from these people that live this day in and day out, when you see that they struggle. I mean, this woman who has millions of followers, is feeling depressed and judged and needs to take a break, then I think that makes us normal people feel so much better.</p>
<p>When we go, oh, wow, I feel the same way. But I thought I was all alone. And look at this girl who is liked by millions of people and still feels the very same exact way.</p>
<p>Because guess what? We're all human.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Want to get better on Zoom? Study the TV newscasters. They know how to speak to the camera.
Malika Dudley reveals tips and mistakes from her experience as a TV weather reporter and interviewer.
Episode 82
 
Ideas and topics we explore:
Similarities between speaking on Zoom and on TV
Handling anxiety when speaking - live or virtual
Why it's important to appear to make eye contact
Preparing for on camera interviews
Reminder that you can't please everyone
How to leverage your video recordings
Malika Dudley is an award winning TV journalist. She is a former Miss Hawaii. She studied Communicology, (the scientific study of human communication).
She hosts The Communification Podcast
 

-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Malika Dudley
One of my biggest tips would be to look at the lens of the camera instead of the face, because then you will be connecting with your audience more.
So you need to sacrifice a little bit yourself. Because for you, it's nice to have that connection and look at the faces that you're looking at. But my recommendation would be to at least go back and forth, if you can.
-----
07:05
Oh, absolutely. I think everyone can relate to that, right. And what's awful about zoom, is that a lot people are not good audience members.
So maybe one thing for our audience members is that when you are attending a zoom, make sure that you're doing the same things that you would do in person.
you don't want to look bored, or maybe you're someone could be reacting to some, they're looking at their phone, and they get some kind of a whatever on their phone.
And so they have this weird look on their face, you would never know because you're you have no idea what's happening in their room.
So it's very different than in person where I can tell when someone's checked out, and they're looking at their phone, maybe they're reacting to their phone, or if I have everyone's engagement, and so as an audience member, it's really important to nod your head and smile, use those facial expressions to really give encouragement to your speaker.
And then yes, as the speaker, you, you kind of have to take it all with a grain of salt. And in fact, when I do speeches that are online, or if I have a presentation, I actually will put my notes up on top like in my screen, so I won't be able to actually see faces.
And, my dad always told me that you need to practice until it looks like you never practice today and in your in your life.
-----
26:53
Communification
Did a word search online. And this was a word in the urban dictionary. And so they combined communication with beautification. So it's the beautification of your communication.
But also the more I searched online, I found that some people use this word communification to describe the unification of community. And both of those things are the goals and the vision for my podcast.
And when you listen to the podcast, not only will it help you to unlock your communication potential by teaching you these tangible research, base communication, strategies for navigating through things like apologizing, you know, when someone lies to you, or if you are being deceptive.
My first season is about communication and technology. So a lot of things like cyber bullying and phubbing, which is phone snubbing. So, you know, it's, it's just a place for us to learn and grow.
And then the opposite side of it is I think people need to feel like they are not alone. They want to know that when they're struggling, and we all feel this way.
We just think, oh, my gosh, I'm the I'm the only one I'm the failure. I'm the one that just sucks at this. But no, you are not alone. So many people struggle with the same issues.
I have a guest on usually, it's a celebrity, like my first episode was with the bucket list family, who has two and a half million followers on Instagram and all over, all over the internet. They're, they're very, very popular. And we talked about how social media, you know, impacts their c]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[What can we learn about communication and team building from playing and coaching sports teams?
Don't throw the ball the way you want to. Throw the ball the way they can catch it. The same rule applies to communication.
<p>Episode 81</p>
<p>Former basketball coach, Diana Cutaia, offers inspiration and practical advice on how to build stronger teams.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Concepts and ideas that we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to reframe and address a behavior problem</li>
<li>Reminder about the lure of anger when communicating</li>
<li>Focus on process not the outcome, because process determines results</li>
<li>Celebrate other's results</li>
<li>Beware of the weakest link and the danger of tolerance</li>
<li>Why might the team resist change, again?</li>
<li>The role of the coach in supporting the team It's more than a pep talk</li>
</ul>
<p>Diana Cutaia is founder of Coaching Peace Consulting. They help organizations boost workplace efficiency by building stronger teams and nurturing a healthy environment.</p>
<p>Coaching Peace provides virtual programs and multiday retreats. </p>
<p>Diana Cutaia is based in Oregon, USA.</p>
<p>Learn more at<a href='https://coachingpeace.com/'> CoachingPeace.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://coachingpeace.com/'></a></p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Diana Cutaia:</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:07</p>
<p>Yeah, I think you hit on a good point there. George, I think one of the things to begin to think about when we think about behaviour, whether that's behaviour of a child, or adults.</p>
<p>Either way is they are trying to communicate with us and let us know, and there is a reaction. I mean, we always say, you can't change someone else, but you can change the way you interact with them.</p>
<p>And that, thus may change their behaviour. I think it's really important for us to understand if I'm a manager, and I walk into a meeting with one of my employees, and we're doing a performance evaluation, and they come in and they're wildly defensive, before I say anything.</p>
<p>I could get angry as a manager and say, hey, you know, no, we're not gonna, if you're gonna come in here and be defensive.</p>
<p>Or I could try to understand what feels threatening for them in this space, that they need to be defensive. And how have I contributed to that? And how might I approach this differently now that I have some understanding about how they're perceiving what we are doing?</p>
<p>And I think that's really important for us to kind of recognise and understand is that, you know, that connection and that communication becomes really important.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>10:09</p>
<p>Lessons from sports teams?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Oh, gosh, there's so many, I think, the first of which is team, right, and how we kind of operate as a team.</p>
<p>And I think one thing that we learned in sport that I wish we could really translate, there's some businesses that do this really well, some companies that we've worked with, that we have been so impressed with how they do this is oftentimes we think about empathy, only in the context of sadness or tragedy, like when something bad happens, how are we empathising with someone?</p>
<p>How are we being in that space with them? And I think one of the things that we learn in sport is empathy, is also about connecting with someone else's joy.</p>
<p>So when you know your teammate hits a last second shot, and scores that basket, whether you win or lose, you think this is amazing, this is the best thing that ever happened. And there's this unbelievable amount of joy over their success.</p>
<p>When I coached, I would always say, if the other team makes a great basket, there are times I'll cheer him on, as a basketball coac., I'll cheer him on if you did something.</p>
<p>I'm not going to not recognise greatness and good things that happen. I'm going to share you have amazing joy.</p>
<p>How do we do that? In businesses? How do we celebrate each other's successes?</p>
<p>How do we cheer folks on when they need it, and also acknowledge them in those moments and not make it where it's adversarial or competitive in the way that we are using competition as a comparison, not a collaboration?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[What can we learn about communication and team building from playing and coaching sports teams?
Don't throw the ball the way you want to. Throw the ball the way they can catch it. The same rule applies to communication.
<p>Episode 81</p>
<p>Former basketball coach, Diana Cutaia, offers inspiration and practical advice on how to build stronger teams.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Concepts and ideas that we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to reframe and address a behavior problem</li>
<li>Reminder about the lure of anger when communicating</li>
<li>Focus on process not the outcome, because process determines results</li>
<li>Celebrate other's results</li>
<li>Beware of the weakest link and the danger of tolerance</li>
<li>Why might the team resist change, again?</li>
<li>The role of the coach in supporting the team It's more than a pep talk</li>
</ul>
<p>Diana Cutaia is founder of Coaching Peace Consulting. They help organizations boost workplace efficiency by building stronger teams and nurturing a healthy environment.</p>
<p>Coaching Peace provides virtual programs and multiday retreats. </p>
<p>Diana Cutaia is based in Oregon, USA.</p>
<p>Learn more at<a href='https://coachingpeace.com/'> CoachingPeace.com</a></p>
<p><a href='https://coachingpeace.com/'></a></p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Diana Cutaia:</p>
<p> </p>
<p>03:07</p>
<p>Yeah, I think you hit on a good point there. George, I think one of the things to begin to think about when we think about behaviour, whether that's behaviour of a child, or adults.</p>
<p>Either way is they are trying to communicate with us and let us know, and there is a reaction. I mean, we always say, you can't change someone else, but you can change the way you interact with them.</p>
<p>And that, thus may change their behaviour. I think it's really important for us to understand if I'm a manager, and I walk into a meeting with one of my employees, and we're doing a performance evaluation, and they come in and they're wildly defensive, before I say anything.</p>
<p>I could get angry as a manager and say, hey, you know, no, we're not gonna, if you're gonna come in here and be defensive.</p>
<p>Or I could try to understand what feels threatening for them in this space, that they need to be defensive. And how have I contributed to that? And how might I approach this differently now that I have some understanding about how they're perceiving what we are doing?</p>
<p>And I think that's really important for us to kind of recognise and understand is that, you know, that connection and that communication becomes really important.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>10:09</p>
<p>Lessons from sports teams?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Oh, gosh, there's so many, I think, the first of which is team, right, and how we kind of operate as a team.</p>
<p>And I think one thing that we learned in sport that I wish we could really translate, there's some businesses that do this really well, some companies that we've worked with, that we have been so impressed with how they do this is oftentimes we think about empathy, only in the context of sadness or tragedy, like when something bad happens, how are we empathising with someone?</p>
<p>How are we being in that space with them? And I think one of the things that we learn in sport is empathy, is also about connecting with someone else's joy.</p>
<p>So when you know your teammate hits a last second shot, and scores that basket, whether you win or lose, you think this is amazing, this is the best thing that ever happened. And there's this unbelievable amount of joy over their success.</p>
<p>When I coached, I would always say, if the other team makes a great basket, there are times I'll cheer him on, as a basketball coac., I'll cheer him on if you did something.</p>
<p>I'm not going to not recognise greatness and good things that happen. I'm going to share you have amazing joy.</p>
<p>How do we do that? In businesses? How do we celebrate each other's successes?</p>
<p>How do we cheer folks on when they need it, and also acknowledge them in those moments and not make it where it's adversarial or competitive in the way that we are using competition as a comparison, not a collaboration?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What can we learn about communication and team building from playing and coaching sports teams?
Don't throw the ball the way you want to. Throw the ball the way they can catch it. The same rule applies to communication.
Episode 81
Former basketball coach, Diana Cutaia, offers inspiration and practical advice on how to build stronger teams.
 
Concepts and ideas that we explore:
How to reframe and address a behavior problem
Reminder about the lure of anger when communicating
Focus on process not the outcome, because process determines results
Celebrate other's results
Beware of the weakest link and the danger of tolerance
Why might the team resist change, again?
The role of the coach in supporting the team It's more than a pep talk
Diana Cutaia is founder of Coaching Peace Consulting. They help organizations boost workplace efficiency by building stronger teams and nurturing a healthy environment.
Coaching Peace provides virtual programs and multiday retreats. 
Diana Cutaia is based in Oregon, USA.
Learn more at CoachingPeace.com

Excerpts from this conversation with Diana Cutaia:
 
03:07
Yeah, I think you hit on a good point there. George, I think one of the things to begin to think about when we think about behaviour, whether that's behaviour of a child, or adults.
Either way is they are trying to communicate with us and let us know, and there is a reaction. I mean, we always say, you can't change someone else, but you can change the way you interact with them.
And that, thus may change their behaviour. I think it's really important for us to understand if I'm a manager, and I walk into a meeting with one of my employees, and we're doing a performance evaluation, and they come in and they're wildly defensive, before I say anything.
I could get angry as a manager and say, hey, you know, no, we're not gonna, if you're gonna come in here and be defensive.
Or I could try to understand what feels threatening for them in this space, that they need to be defensive. And how have I contributed to that? And how might I approach this differently now that I have some understanding about how they're perceiving what we are doing?
And I think that's really important for us to kind of recognise and understand is that, you know, that connection and that communication becomes really important.
-----
10:09
Lessons from sports teams?
 
Oh, gosh, there's so many, I think, the first of which is team, right, and how we kind of operate as a team.
And I think one thing that we learned in sport that I wish we could really translate, there's some businesses that do this really well, some companies that we've worked with, that we have been so impressed with how they do this is oftentimes we think about empathy, only in the context of sadness or tragedy, like when something bad happens, how are we empathising with someone?
How are we being in that space with them? And I think one of the things that we learn in sport is empathy, is also about connecting with someone else's joy.
So when you know your teammate hits a last second shot, and scores that basket, whether you win or lose, you think this is amazing, this is the best thing that ever happened. And there's this unbelievable amount of joy over their success.
When I coached, I would always say, if the other team makes a great basket, there are times I'll cheer him on, as a basketball coac., I'll cheer him on if you did something.
I'm not going to not recognise greatness and good things that happen. I'm going to share you have amazing joy.
How do we do that? In businesses? How do we celebrate each other's successes?
How do we cheer folks on when they need it, and also acknowledge them in those moments and not make it where it's adversarial or competitive in the way that we are using competition as a comparison, not a collaboration?
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Leverage the power of podcasting to build your brand.
<p>Alex Sanfilippo is an entrepreneur who started his first business at the age of 10. He recently launched services to help podcasts guests and hosts to make podcasting simpler and more fulfilling.</p>
<p>Episode 80:</p>
<p>We explore:</p>
<ul><li>Addressing the "Why?" of podcast hosting or guesting</li>
<li>Why podcasting is a powerful channel to nurture trust and build relationships</li>
<li>Five key points to cover when pitching to a podcast host</li>
<li>How to sound and feel when on the podcast</li>
<li>How to handle awkward moments during the interview</li>
<li>How to prepare yourself for your podcast appearance</li>
</ul>
<p> </p>
<p>Alex Sanfilippo founded <a href='https://podpros.com/'>PodPros.com</a> a provider of services for podcast hosts and guests.</p>
<p><a href='https://podmatch.com/'>PodMatch.com</a> -  Automatically Matches Ideal Podcast Hosts And Guests For Interviews</p>
<p><a href='https://podmatch.com/'></a></p>
<p>
<a href='https://podcastsop.com/'>PodcastSOP.com</a> - Software For Podcasters To Manage The Workflow Of Each New Episode Release</p>
<p><a href='https://podcastsop.com/'></a></p>
<p>Alex Sanfilippo is based in Florida, USA.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation between Alex Sanfilippo and George Torok</p>
<p> </p>
<p>09:56</p>
<p>There are listeners who because of their experience, expertise and wisdom are potential guests for podcasts. What what can they do that might help them appear attractive to a host? </p>
<p>The first thing I would say, and you mentioned pod match, which I'm so thankful that you mentioned that George.</p>
<p>Have a place whether it's pod match or not, where you can have all of your information. So you don't have to put it all in a message is that what you can put that link into a message with here's the 30 things I've done, here's a picture of me, here's this, right, have all those things somewhere.</p>
And I can easily get you and your audience kind of a list of the things that they should have, that's pretty easy to find, I can get you a link for that. Actually, if you just go to podpros.com/guesting.
<a href='https://podpros.com/12-steps-for-being-a-great-guest-on-podcasts-and-how-to-get-booked/'>Get Your copy of the free checklist</a>
There's a list of 12 things you can look at, that will help you be able to set up a really nice one sheet.
<p>Again, you don't need to use my services, that's something you can just look at as a free resource. But once you're actually getting to the pitch, and you want to keep it short, so we can have that link where you can send them more details.</p>
<p>But the first thing I always tell people is to lead with value. Lead with value. Leading with value simply means to me to to actually care is to start off so George, like when I when I reached out to you to be on your show. I liked the name of the show. I liked the description. I liked your voice. I was like, Man, that sounds pretty cool.</p>
<p>But that wasn't enough. I could have led with that. I was like, No, I'm gonna listen to an episode. I picked an episode.</p>
<p>As a matter of fact, I want to recommend that episode because it goes well, we're talking about today, because we're not going to get into storytelling today. But as with Graham Brown, and he talked about the three bucks storytelling technique, that's episode 68 of your intended message, go listen to that episode.</p>
<p>Phenomenal. As soon as I listened to that I had the lead with value section done, I had listened to that. I liked it a lot. And I liked it so much I left to review the podcast.</p>
<p>So when I reached out to George I told him, Hey, I left you a review of your podcasts I listened to Episode I got a lot from it, I learned how to tell better stories.</p>
<p>And then once I did that, the next thing I did, so number two, that's lead with value number two, is to make a meaningful request.</p>
<p>A lot of people when they're doing pitching, they don't actually ever make the request. They just kind of leave it open ended. And a lot of podcast hosts or potential clients are it's kind of like, well, what am I supposed to do with this?</p>
<p>Give them a clear action, something they can take. So I actually made a meaningful request. I told George, hey, here's a spot that I think I could add value to your audience, would you be willing and interested to having me on the podcast, and that left it very, that gave him the chance to actually say yes or no to me.</p>
<p>The third thing I'll mention is to offer credibility. And offering credibility simply means that if I know somebody that knows George, I'm going to reference their name and be like, hey, you know, if you want to talk to Tiffany, she's a mutual friend of ours. </p>
<p>You can reach out to her I was on her podcast, anything to add a little bit of credibility to show that you know what, you have some skin in the game that place or I spoke at this conference last year, I've been on 30 podcasts and last year, anything that's going to help something really short.</p>
<p>And then the next thing I'm going to mention is to to make it easy to say no, this is kind of how I end the thing is I usually make it really easy.</p>
<p>A lot of people, they just don't hear back, you don't hear back from people that you're pitching about your business idea, or that you're pitching to be on their podcast because they don't want to break your heart. If you already did all those nice things.</p>
<p>Now they're feeling like they can't really hurt your feelings. I always say, hey, no pressure at all. I only want to be on your podcast, if you think I can add value the audience. If not, it's probably better that we don't do this.</p>
<p>Leaving open like that. I've heard a lot of no's in my time a lot people have said no, no, thank you, I really appreciate it.</p>
<p>They wouldn't usually respond to other people, which is laid out in limbo forever. I personally like to hear back. And so that's something that's really worked for me.</p>
<p>And the last thing I always like to do is when I kind of have like a signing off tagline is I like to mention they'll share the episode. Because in all honesty, I will I love to share episodes I've been a guest on. And not all guests do that.</p>
<p>So if you do that only if you're willing to like don't lie, if you're willing to share it mention that because that as a host is like oh great, this guest is actually gonna help me promote a little bit, which is a tough thing that we have to deal with on the hosting side of the mic.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Watch the video of this interview here</p>
<p>https://youtu.be/jzTYEdsWWVg</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Podcasting is an easy way for people to get to know, like and trust you.
Leverage the power of podcasting to build your brand.
<p>Alex Sanfilippo is an entrepreneur who started his first business at the age of 10. He recently launched services to help podcasts guests and hosts to make podcasting simpler and more fulfilling.</p>
<p>Episode 80:</p>
<p>We explore:</p>
<ul><li>Addressing the "Why?" of podcast hosting or guesting</li>
<li>Why podcasting is a powerful channel to nurture trust and build relationships</li>
<li>Five key points to cover when pitching to a podcast host</li>
<li>How to sound and feel when on the podcast</li>
<li>How to handle awkward moments during the interview</li>
<li>How to prepare yourself for your podcast appearance</li>
</ul>
<p> </p>
<p>Alex Sanfilippo founded <a href='https://podpros.com/'>PodPros.com</a> a provider of services for podcast hosts and guests.</p>
<p><a href='https://podmatch.com/'>PodMatch.com</a> -  Automatically Matches Ideal Podcast Hosts And Guests For Interviews</p>
<p><a href='https://podmatch.com/'></a></p>
<p><br>
<a href='https://podcastsop.com/'>PodcastSOP.com</a> - Software For Podcasters To Manage The Workflow Of Each New Episode Release</p>
<p><a href='https://podcastsop.com/'></a></p>
<p>Alex Sanfilippo is based in Florida, USA.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation between Alex Sanfilippo and George Torok</p>
<p> </p>
<p>09:56</p>
<p>There are listeners who because of their experience, expertise and wisdom are potential guests for podcasts. What what can they do that might help them appear attractive to a host? </p>
<p>The first thing I would say, and you mentioned pod match, which I'm so thankful that you mentioned that George.</p>
<p>Have a place whether it's pod match or not, where you can have all of your information. So you don't have to put it all in a message is that what you can put that link into a message with here's the 30 things I've done, here's a picture of me, here's this, right, have all those things somewhere.</p>
And I can easily get you and your audience kind of a list of the things that they should have, that's pretty easy to find, I can get you a link for that. Actually, if you just go to podpros.com/guesting.
<a href='https://podpros.com/12-steps-for-being-a-great-guest-on-podcasts-and-how-to-get-booked/'>Get Your copy of the free checklist</a>
There's a list of 12 things you can look at, that will help you be able to set up a really nice one sheet.
<p>Again, you don't need to use my services, that's something you can just look at as a free resource. But once you're actually getting to the pitch, and you want to keep it short, so we can have that link where you can send them more details.</p>
<p>But the first thing I always tell people is to lead with value. Lead with value. Leading with value simply means to me to to actually care is to start off so George, like when I when I reached out to you to be on your show. I liked the name of the show. I liked the description. I liked your voice. I was like, Man, that sounds pretty cool.</p>
<p>But that wasn't enough. I could have led with that. I was like, No, I'm gonna listen to an episode. I picked an episode.</p>
<p>As a matter of fact, I want to recommend that episode because it goes well, we're talking about today, because we're not going to get into storytelling today. But as with Graham Brown, and he talked about the three bucks storytelling technique, that's episode 68 of your intended message, go listen to that episode.</p>
<p>Phenomenal. As soon as I listened to that I had the lead with value section done, I had listened to that. I liked it a lot. And I liked it so much I left to review the podcast.</p>
<p>So when I reached out to George I told him, Hey, I left you a review of your podcasts I listened to Episode I got a lot from it, I learned how to tell better stories.</p>
<p>And then once I did that, the next thing I did, so number two, that's lead with value number two, is to make a meaningful request.</p>
<p>A lot of people when they're doing pitching, they don't actually ever make the request. They just kind of leave it open ended. And a lot of podcast hosts or potential clients are it's kind of like, well, what am I supposed to do with this?</p>
<p>Give them a clear action, something they can take. So I actually made a meaningful request. I told George, hey, here's a spot that I think I could add value to your audience, would you be willing and interested to having me on the podcast, and that left it very, that gave him the chance to actually say yes or no to me.</p>
<p>The third thing I'll mention is to offer credibility. And offering credibility simply means that if I know somebody that knows George, I'm going to reference their name and be like, hey, you know, if you want to talk to Tiffany, she's a mutual friend of ours. </p>
<p>You can reach out to her I was on her podcast, anything to add a little bit of credibility to show that you know what, you have some skin in the game that place or I spoke at this conference last year, I've been on 30 podcasts and last year, anything that's going to help something really short.</p>
<p>And then the next thing I'm going to mention is to to make it easy to say no, this is kind of how I end the thing is I usually make it really easy.</p>
<p>A lot of people, they just don't hear back, you don't hear back from people that you're pitching about your business idea, or that you're pitching to be on their podcast because they don't want to break your heart. If you already did all those nice things.</p>
<p>Now they're feeling like they can't really hurt your feelings. I always say, hey, no pressure at all. I only want to be on your podcast, if you think I can add value the audience. If not, it's probably better that we don't do this.</p>
<p>Leaving open like that. I've heard a lot of no's in my time a lot people have said no, no, thank you, I really appreciate it.</p>
<p>They wouldn't usually respond to other people, which is laid out in limbo forever. I personally like to hear back. And so that's something that's really worked for me.</p>
<p>And the last thing I always like to do is when I kind of have like a signing off tagline is I like to mention they'll share the episode. Because in all honesty, I will I love to share episodes I've been a guest on. And not all guests do that.</p>
<p>So if you do that only if you're willing to like don't lie, if you're willing to share it mention that because that as a host is like oh great, this guest is actually gonna help me promote a little bit, which is a tough thing that we have to deal with on the hosting side of the mic.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Watch the video of this interview here</p>
<p>https://youtu.be/jzTYEdsWWVg</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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Leverage the power of podcasting to build your brand.
Alex Sanfilippo is an entrepreneur who started his first business at the age of 10. He recently launched services to help podcasts guests and hosts to make podcasting simpler and more fulfilling.
Episode 80:
We explore:
Addressing the "Why?" of podcast hosting or guesting
Why podcasting is a powerful channel to nurture trust and build relationships
Five key points to cover when pitching to a podcast host
How to sound and feel when on the podcast
How to handle awkward moments during the interview
How to prepare yourself for your podcast appearance
 
Alex Sanfilippo founded PodPros.com a provider of services for podcast hosts and guests.
PodMatch.com -  Automatically Matches Ideal Podcast Hosts And Guests For Interviews

PodcastSOP.com - Software For Podcasters To Manage The Workflow Of Each New Episode Release

Alex Sanfilippo is based in Florida, USA.
-----
Excerpts from this conversation between Alex Sanfilippo and George Torok
 
09:56
There are listeners who because of their experience, expertise and wisdom are potential guests for podcasts. What what can they do that might help them appear attractive to a host? 
The first thing I would say, and you mentioned pod match, which I'm so thankful that you mentioned that George.
Have a place whether it's pod match or not, where you can have all of your information. So you don't have to put it all in a message is that what you can put that link into a message with here's the 30 things I've done, here's a picture of me, here's this, right, have all those things somewhere.
And I can easily get you and your audience kind of a list of the things that they should have, that's pretty easy to find, I can get you a link for that. Actually, if you just go to podpros.com/guesting.
Get Your copy of the free checklist
There's a list of 12 things you can look at, that will help you be able to set up a really nice one sheet.
Again, you don't need to use my services, that's something you can just look at as a free resource. But once you're actually getting to the pitch, and you want to keep it short, so we can have that link where you can send them more details.
But the first thing I always tell people is to lead with value. Lead with value. Leading with value simply means to me to to actually care is to start off so George, like when I when I reached out to you to be on your show. I liked the name of the show. I liked the description. I liked your voice. I was like, Man, that sounds pretty cool.
But that wasn't enough. I could have led with that. I was like, No, I'm gonna listen to an episode. I picked an episode.
As a matter of fact, I want to recommend that episode because it goes well, we're talking about today, because we're not going to get into storytelling today. But as with Graham Brown, and he talked about the three bucks storytelling technique, that's episode 68 of your intended message, go listen to that episode.
Phenomenal. As soon as I listened to that I had the lead with value section done, I had listened to that. I liked it a lot. And I liked it so much I left to review the podcast.
So when I reached out to George I told him, Hey, I left you a review of your podcasts I listened to Episode I got a lot from it, I learned how to tell better stories.
And then once I did that, the next thing I did, so number two, that's lead with value number two, is to make a meaningful request.
A lot of people when they're doing pitching, they don't actually ever make the request. They just kind of leave it open ended. And a lot of podcast hosts or potential clients are it's kind of like, well, what am I supposed to do with this?
Give them a clear action, something they can take. So I actually made a meaningful request. I told George, hey, here's a spot that I think I could add value to your audience, would you be willing and interested to having me on the podcast]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Imagine being sent into a war zone with the mission of collecting information and influencing behavior of combatants.
Unlike James Bond, you don't have a license to kill, Nor do you have a fancy car and fancy devices.
You survive and succeed by communicating effectively.
<p>Episode 79</p>
<p>JJ Brun was a "Contact Handler" in a war zone in Bosnia Herzegovina. His official title was Director General Intelligence Strategic Debriefing Officer. He was there to collect information from the people. He survived and succeeded in his role of building a large intelligence network of local people.</p>
<p>Ideas and concepts that we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to mentally prepare when you know you can't shoot your way out</li>
<li>The importance of appreciating names and getting them right</li>
<li>Why deception is not the best approach</li>
<li>Developing your listening and observing skills</li>
<li>Key phrases to build trust and encourage open conversation</li>
<li>Assessing personal types and adapting your approach</li>
</ul>
<p>Get your free copy of "The 10 Most Effective Ice-Breaking Feel-Good Questions" by sending an email to <a href='mailto:hello@TheRetiredSpy.com'>hello@TheRetiredSpy.com</a></p>
<p>Learn more about JJ Brun and his services at the website <a href='https://theretiredspy.com/'>TheRetiredSpy.com</a></p>
<p>YES, you heard that right, JJ Brun offered to provide a no-charge workshop of up to 60 minutes on "Making Sense of the People Puzzle in Times of Change"</p>
<p>To learn more about that program and to arrange that for your team, contact JJ Brun at <a href='mailto:hello@TheRetiredSpy.com'>hello@TheRetiredSpy.com</a></p>
<p>Tell him you heard about this offer on the podcast, Your Intended Message.</p>
<p>His first book, Sell Naked on the Phone, sold over 60,000 copies.</p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this discussion with JJ Brun</p>
<p>2:25</p>
<p>Now a contact handler. Very unique skill set is a person where he or she is sent into a hostile environment where he or she has to cultivate sources within that environment and determine their intentions, or even modify their behaviours if and when required.</p>
<p>Without the use of any Jedi mind tricks. So my claim to fame within the intelligence community is that I was the first one volunteered to be a contact handler.</p>
<p>I was sent over to the UK to be trained to learn the skill sets and then I deployed into Bosnia Herzegovina being the first Canadian trained within this field since the Second World War.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>7:31</p>
<p>Perfect. I was provided with my identity. Gov stories, funds, everything that I need all the little administrational aspect and I was provided with my weapon.</p>
<p>And that was a shock to me, because I was provided with a pistol two empty magazines that can hold 10 bullets each and 10 bullets, one pistol, two magazines, 10 bullets.</p>
<p>And I'm like, where's the rest of the bullets? As in? I've got two magazines. Should I not have 20 bullets?</p>
<p>To which we had an argument. Either I sign that off and I have to then come when I leave, bring back the pistol, the two magazine and the 10 bullets.</p>
<p>I was in trouble when I said to the gentlemen, what if I use one and I only bring nine bullets? Do I have to bring you the empty casing to prove that I've used one. He responded with if you don't bring me 10 bullets, you're going to get court martial.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>13:38</p>
<p>JJ, I heard two, two points here that intrigued me. One is that you provided them with a voice. You were simply a conduit to allow them to have a voice. And my question is, why was that important to them? And even more than that, you said you had a network of bad guys. And why would the bad guys want you to convey their message?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>14:05</p>
<p>Okay, well, the first one is that everybody wants to talk. And there's a saying, I don't know who's the author from this? Or who came up with this, but people don't care how much you know, until they know how much you care.</p>
<p>Right. That's a famous statement, and applies also across across cultures. Over there. There's different ethnicities? Well, back then he was the Serbs and Croats and the Muslims.</p>
<p>And everyone wants to be heard everyone wants to share their story. And you just have to provide them a safe environment where you want to receive their story.</p>
<p>And they want you to document they want you to to know that you're looking to make a difference. Now we were trained, we can't promise anything. You don't fake it, you don't promise the moon, you have to be authentic.</p>
<p>And quite often I would say, I can't promise you anything. Let me go back review what you've just shared with me. And Let's reconnect, when would be a good time for you Tuesday or Wednesday of next week, morning or afternoon, we'll book a meeting from a meeting.</p>
<p>And people, if you come with the sincere interest of sharing the story, right that their life mattered. And I was more of a reporter, in a sense of you're going there, you're looking to build a canal to find a connection with now, in every interaction we have with people either going to compete or complete that interaction.</p>
<p>Right, either going to compete or complete. Now, English is my second language. And when I'm reading the word complete and complete, one has the letter L. And so my brain was goes to well, What's the L factor in order to complete an interaction?</p>
<p>Until you can find a common link, a common luck or common love, no connection. As soon as you can find a common link common, like a common love, you have an opportunity to make that connection.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Imagine being sent into a war zone with the mission of collecting information and influencing behavior of combatants.
Unlike James Bond, you don't have a license to kill, Nor do you have a fancy car and fancy devices.
You survive and succeed by communicating effectively.
<p>Episode 79</p>
<p>JJ Brun was a "Contact Handler" in a war zone in Bosnia Herzegovina. His official title was Director General Intelligence Strategic Debriefing Officer. He was there to collect information from the people. He survived and succeeded in his role of building a large intelligence network of local people.</p>
<p>Ideas and concepts that we explore:</p>
<ul><li>How to mentally prepare when you know you can't shoot your way out</li>
<li>The importance of appreciating names and getting them right</li>
<li>Why deception is not the best approach</li>
<li>Developing your listening and observing skills</li>
<li>Key phrases to build trust and encourage open conversation</li>
<li>Assessing personal types and adapting your approach</li>
</ul>
<p>Get your free copy of "The 10 Most Effective Ice-Breaking Feel-Good Questions" by sending an email to <a href='mailto:hello@TheRetiredSpy.com'>hello@TheRetiredSpy.com</a></p>
<p>Learn more about JJ Brun and his services at the website <a href='https://theretiredspy.com/'>TheRetiredSpy.com</a></p>
<p>YES, you heard that right, JJ Brun offered to provide a no-charge workshop of up to 60 minutes on "Making Sense of the People Puzzle in Times of Change"</p>
<p>To learn more about that program and to arrange that for your team, contact JJ Brun at <a href='mailto:hello@TheRetiredSpy.com'>hello@TheRetiredSpy.com</a></p>
<p>Tell him you heard about this offer on the podcast, Your Intended Message.</p>
<p>His first book, Sell Naked on the Phone, sold over 60,000 copies.</p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this discussion with JJ Brun</p>
<p>2:25</p>
<p>Now a contact handler. Very unique skill set is a person where he or she is sent into a hostile environment where he or she has to cultivate sources within that environment and determine their intentions, or even modify their behaviours if and when required.</p>
<p>Without the use of any Jedi mind tricks. So my claim to fame within the intelligence community is that I was the first one volunteered to be a contact handler.</p>
<p>I was sent over to the UK to be trained to learn the skill sets and then I deployed into Bosnia Herzegovina being the first Canadian trained within this field since the Second World War.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>7:31</p>
<p>Perfect. I was provided with my identity. Gov stories, funds, everything that I need all the little administrational aspect and I was provided with my weapon.</p>
<p>And that was a shock to me, because I was provided with a pistol two empty magazines that can hold 10 bullets each and 10 bullets, one pistol, two magazines, 10 bullets.</p>
<p>And I'm like, where's the rest of the bullets? As in? I've got two magazines. Should I not have 20 bullets?</p>
<p>To which we had an argument. Either I sign that off and I have to then come when I leave, bring back the pistol, the two magazine and the 10 bullets.</p>
<p>I was in trouble when I said to the gentlemen, what if I use one and I only bring nine bullets? Do I have to bring you the empty casing to prove that I've used one. He responded with if you don't bring me 10 bullets, you're going to get court martial.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>13:38</p>
<p>JJ, I heard two, two points here that intrigued me. One is that you provided them with a voice. You were simply a conduit to allow them to have a voice. And my question is, why was that important to them? And even more than that, you said you had a network of bad guys. And why would the bad guys want you to convey their message?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>14:05</p>
<p>Okay, well, the first one is that everybody wants to talk. And there's a saying, I don't know who's the author from this? Or who came up with this, but people don't care how much you know, until they know how much you care.</p>
<p>Right. That's a famous statement, and applies also across across cultures. Over there. There's different ethnicities? Well, back then he was the Serbs and Croats and the Muslims.</p>
<p>And everyone wants to be heard everyone wants to share their story. And you just have to provide them a safe environment where you want to receive their story.</p>
<p>And they want you to document they want you to to know that you're looking to make a difference. Now we were trained, we can't promise anything. You don't fake it, you don't promise the moon, you have to be authentic.</p>
<p>And quite often I would say, I can't promise you anything. Let me go back review what you've just shared with me. And Let's reconnect, when would be a good time for you Tuesday or Wednesday of next week, morning or afternoon, we'll book a meeting from a meeting.</p>
<p>And people, if you come with the sincere interest of sharing the story, right that their life mattered. And I was more of a reporter, in a sense of you're going there, you're looking to build a canal to find a connection with now, in every interaction we have with people either going to compete or complete that interaction.</p>
<p>Right, either going to compete or complete. Now, English is my second language. And when I'm reading the word complete and complete, one has the letter L. And so my brain was goes to well, What's the L factor in order to complete an interaction?</p>
<p>Until you can find a common link, a common luck or common love, no connection. As soon as you can find a common link common, like a common love, you have an opportunity to make that connection.</p>
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<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
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Unlike James Bond, you don't have a license to kill, Nor do you have a fancy car and fancy devices.
You survive and succeed by communicating effectively.
Episode 79
JJ Brun was a "Contact Handler" in a war zone in Bosnia Herzegovina. His official title was Director General Intelligence Strategic Debriefing Officer. He was there to collect information from the people. He survived and succeeded in his role of building a large intelligence network of local people.
Ideas and concepts that we explore:
How to mentally prepare when you know you can't shoot your way out
The importance of appreciating names and getting them right
Why deception is not the best approach
Developing your listening and observing skills
Key phrases to build trust and encourage open conversation
Assessing personal types and adapting your approach
Get your free copy of "The 10 Most Effective Ice-Breaking Feel-Good Questions" by sending an email to hello@TheRetiredSpy.com
Learn more about JJ Brun and his services at the website TheRetiredSpy.com
YES, you heard that right, JJ Brun offered to provide a no-charge workshop of up to 60 minutes on "Making Sense of the People Puzzle in Times of Change"
To learn more about that program and to arrange that for your team, contact JJ Brun at hello@TheRetiredSpy.com
Tell him you heard about this offer on the podcast, Your Intended Message.
His first book, Sell Naked on the Phone, sold over 60,000 copies.

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Excerpts from this discussion with JJ Brun
2:25
Now a contact handler. Very unique skill set is a person where he or she is sent into a hostile environment where he or she has to cultivate sources within that environment and determine their intentions, or even modify their behaviours if and when required.
Without the use of any Jedi mind tricks. So my claim to fame within the intelligence community is that I was the first one volunteered to be a contact handler.
I was sent over to the UK to be trained to learn the skill sets and then I deployed into Bosnia Herzegovina being the first Canadian trained within this field since the Second World War.
 
7:31
Perfect. I was provided with my identity. Gov stories, funds, everything that I need all the little administrational aspect and I was provided with my weapon.
And that was a shock to me, because I was provided with a pistol two empty magazines that can hold 10 bullets each and 10 bullets, one pistol, two magazines, 10 bullets.
And I'm like, where's the rest of the bullets? As in? I've got two magazines. Should I not have 20 bullets?
To which we had an argument. Either I sign that off and I have to then come when I leave, bring back the pistol, the two magazine and the 10 bullets.
I was in trouble when I said to the gentlemen, what if I use one and I only bring nine bullets? Do I have to bring you the empty casing to prove that I've used one. He responded with if you don't bring me 10 bullets, you're going to get court martial.
 
13:38
JJ, I heard two, two points here that intrigued me. One is that you provided them with a voice. You were simply a conduit to allow them to have a voice. And my question is, why was that important to them? And even more than that, you said you had a network of bad guys. And why would the bad guys want you to convey their message?
 
14:05
Okay, well, the first one is that everybody wants to talk. And there's a saying, I don't know who's the author from this? Or who came up with this, but people don't care how much you know, until they know how much you care.
Right. That's a famous statement, and applies also across across cultures. Over there. There's different ethnicities? Well, back then he was the Serbs and Croats and the Muslims.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Mission Driven Leaders have a higher calling, more than profit
Ethan Martin and his team at PFD Group coach high growth, mission driven companies to greater heights
<p>Episode 78</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What does it mean to be a mission driven leader?</li>
<li>How does that clear vision and mission nurture a strong team?</li>
<li>Why might three year goals and plans be more successful?</li>
<li>Why it's okay to adjust plans along the way?</li>
<li>What does love have to do with it?</li>
<li>What can an entrepreneur learn from flying a plane?</li>
</ul>
<p> </p>
<p>Ethan Martin is president of PFD Group. PFD Group focuses on helping high growth companies identify their strategic goals, build high performing teams, and execute their plans, by leveraging their expertise as industry CEOs.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.pfd-group.com/'>Learn more about PFD Group here</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.pfd-group.com/'></a></p>
<p>Ethan Martin is Rockefeller Habits and 3HAG certified. He is author of "The Mentorship Engine" </p>
<p><a href='https://www.mentorshipengine.com/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Ethan Martin is a pilot who also teaches entrepreneurs to fly and make the connection between flying and entrepreneurship.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Ethan Martin</p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:11</p>
<p>What we're seeing with our clients all over the world, George, is the importance of having a higher calling tied to your business. When there's, we call it a BHAG.</p>
<p>This is from Jim Collins and the fantastic research that Jim has done with From Good to Great, and his other books, especially Beyond Entrepreneurship 2.0, which we absolutely love, just so much wisdom in that book.</p>
<p>As leaders, we have a calling, we have an opportunity to truly steward the lives of those people working for us. And what we see when we align our business to a higher calling, some big problem that may take most of our life to solve, if not even beyond our lives.</p>
<p>Iit helps us to attract and retain the best talent. people I think we are realizing from this pandemic, that life is short, and who we choose to spend our time with is critically important.</p>
<p>And so when as leaders, we align ourselves to these higher calling what's really on our heart, what we're really passionate about, it is amazing how that is really key to building a great business that will grow, that will be very profitable, that will really solve everything.</p>
<p>But it all begins with having that kind of powerful mission tied to your company.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>04:29</p>
<p>So it goes beyond simply being in love what you do. It sounds like there's some direction setting and prioritizing of what exactly you're going to do.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>04:40</p>
<p>Yeah. It's one of the things we see with all of our clients is it's important to have a vision.</p>
<p>And this is created with a CEO in collaboration with his or her leadership team really important to pick what mountain are we going to climb?</p>
<p>Where do we want to be in about 10 years?  Where we want to be in three years - because three years is this magical timeframe.</p>
<p>George, in terms of communication being so, so clear, we'll oftentimes see in companies we call this mid mountain fog.</p>
<p>Where if the leadership team has this bold vision, but they haven't kind of chunked it into like a three year time frame, that's real. Because in three years, we have 12 quarters, to make all kinds of great investments, and people and product and partnerships, all kinds of things can happen.</p>
<p>But it's also close enough in that it's real. We see a lot of companies struggle with things like a five year wild ass guess, where the CEO, the leadership team, the ambassadors, all know, there's really not a lot tied to it, and then ends up being really stressful, because no one's really sure how to get there, or who they need to get there.</p>
<p>So three years becomes absolutely magical for really focusing leadership teams around where they want to go.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Mission Driven Leaders have a higher calling, more than profit
Ethan Martin and his team at PFD Group coach high growth, mission driven companies to greater heights
<p>Episode 78</p>
<p>In this conversation we explore:</p>
<ul><li>What does it mean to be a mission driven leader?</li>
<li>How does that clear vision and mission nurture a strong team?</li>
<li>Why might three year goals and plans be more successful?</li>
<li>Why it's okay to adjust plans along the way?</li>
<li>What does love have to do with it?</li>
<li>What can an entrepreneur learn from flying a plane?</li>
</ul>
<p> </p>
<p>Ethan Martin is president of PFD Group. PFD Group focuses on helping high growth companies identify their strategic goals, build high performing teams, and execute their plans, by leveraging their expertise as industry CEOs.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.pfd-group.com/'>Learn more about PFD Group here</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.pfd-group.com/'></a></p>
<p>Ethan Martin is Rockefeller Habits and 3HAG certified. He is author of "The Mentorship Engine" </p>
<p><a href='https://www.mentorshipengine.com/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Ethan Martin is a pilot who also teaches entrepreneurs to fly and make the connection between flying and entrepreneurship.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Ethan Martin</p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:11</p>
<p>What we're seeing with our clients all over the world, George, is the importance of having a higher calling tied to your business. When there's, we call it a BHAG.</p>
<p>This is from Jim Collins and the fantastic research that Jim has done with From Good to Great, and his other books, especially Beyond Entrepreneurship 2.0, which we absolutely love, just so much wisdom in that book.</p>
<p>As leaders, we have a calling, we have an opportunity to truly steward the lives of those people working for us. And what we see when we align our business to a higher calling, some big problem that may take most of our life to solve, if not even beyond our lives.</p>
<p>Iit helps us to attract and retain the best talent. people I think we are realizing from this pandemic, that life is short, and who we choose to spend our time with is critically important.</p>
<p>And so when as leaders, we align ourselves to these higher calling what's really on our heart, what we're really passionate about, it is amazing how that is really key to building a great business that will grow, that will be very profitable, that will really solve everything.</p>
<p>But it all begins with having that kind of powerful mission tied to your company.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>04:29</p>
<p>So it goes beyond simply being in love what you do. It sounds like there's some direction setting and prioritizing of what exactly you're going to do.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>04:40</p>
<p>Yeah. It's one of the things we see with all of our clients is it's important to have a vision.</p>
<p>And this is created with a CEO in collaboration with his or her leadership team really important to pick what mountain are we going to climb?</p>
<p>Where do we want to be in about 10 years?  Where we want to be in three years - because three years is this magical timeframe.</p>
<p>George, in terms of communication being so, so clear, we'll oftentimes see in companies we call this mid mountain fog.</p>
<p>Where if the leadership team has this bold vision, but they haven't kind of chunked it into like a three year time frame, that's real. Because in three years, we have 12 quarters, to make all kinds of great investments, and people and product and partnerships, all kinds of things can happen.</p>
<p>But it's also close enough in that it's real. We see a lot of companies struggle with things like a five year wild ass guess, where the CEO, the leadership team, the ambassadors, all know, there's really not a lot tied to it, and then ends up being really stressful, because no one's really sure how to get there, or who they need to get there.</p>
<p>So three years becomes absolutely magical for really focusing leadership teams around where they want to go.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Mission Driven Leaders have a higher calling, more than profit
Ethan Martin and his team at PFD Group coach high growth, mission driven companies to greater heights
Episode 78
In this conversation we explore:
What does it mean to be a mission driven leader?
How does that clear vision and mission nurture a strong team?
Why might three year goals and plans be more successful?
Why it's okay to adjust plans along the way?
What does love have to do with it?
What can an entrepreneur learn from flying a plane?
 
Ethan Martin is president of PFD Group. PFD Group focuses on helping high growth companies identify their strategic goals, build high performing teams, and execute their plans, by leveraging their expertise as industry CEOs.
Learn more about PFD Group here

Ethan Martin is Rockefeller Habits and 3HAG certified. He is author of "The Mentorship Engine" 

 
Ethan Martin is a pilot who also teaches entrepreneurs to fly and make the connection between flying and entrepreneurship.
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Ethan Martin
 
02:11
What we're seeing with our clients all over the world, George, is the importance of having a higher calling tied to your business. When there's, we call it a BHAG.
This is from Jim Collins and the fantastic research that Jim has done with From Good to Great, and his other books, especially Beyond Entrepreneurship 2.0, which we absolutely love, just so much wisdom in that book.
As leaders, we have a calling, we have an opportunity to truly steward the lives of those people working for us. And what we see when we align our business to a higher calling, some big problem that may take most of our life to solve, if not even beyond our lives.
Iit helps us to attract and retain the best talent. people I think we are realizing from this pandemic, that life is short, and who we choose to spend our time with is critically important.
And so when as leaders, we align ourselves to these higher calling what's really on our heart, what we're really passionate about, it is amazing how that is really key to building a great business that will grow, that will be very profitable, that will really solve everything.
But it all begins with having that kind of powerful mission tied to your company.
-----
04:29
So it goes beyond simply being in love what you do. It sounds like there's some direction setting and prioritizing of what exactly you're going to do.
 
04:40
Yeah. It's one of the things we see with all of our clients is it's important to have a vision.
And this is created with a CEO in collaboration with his or her leadership team really important to pick what mountain are we going to climb?
Where do we want to be in about 10 years?  Where we want to be in three years - because three years is this magical timeframe.
George, in terms of communication being so, so clear, we'll oftentimes see in companies we call this mid mountain fog.
Where if the leadership team has this bold vision, but they haven't kind of chunked it into like a three year time frame, that's real. Because in three years, we have 12 quarters, to make all kinds of great investments, and people and product and partnerships, all kinds of things can happen.
But it's also close enough in that it's real. We see a lot of companies struggle with things like a five year wild ass guess, where the CEO, the leadership team, the ambassadors, all know, there's really not a lot tied to it, and then ends up being really stressful, because no one's really sure how to get there, or who they need to get there.
So three years becomes absolutely magical for really focusing leadership teams around where they want to go.
-----
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We are individuals, yet we each need our daily shot of motivation in our own way, every day. What might we learn from Pavel Verbnyak, a motivational speaker from Russia?
<p>Episode 77</p>
<p>On this interview, Pavel Verbnyack from Moscow, Russia, offers his insights about pursuing success - and helping those around you do the same.</p>
<p>You might believe that the definition of success various by person, nation, perspective and challenges - and you would be right. You might be surprised that the challenges and techniques to motivate and grow are similar, regardless of circumstances.</p>
<p>How do you find mentors?</p>
<p>What do you need to do each day to think, feel and do more success?</p>
<p>Why you should not fear the word, "No".</p>
<p>The power of books that you have at your fingertips.</p>
<p>Why you might stop searching for the latest thing and instead look back 2,000 years.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>PS: You might notice that that my (George) audio is poor on this episode. I apologize. I got a new Logitech camera which messed up my microphone settings. Go figure.</p>
<p>I trust that you will enjoy this discussion with Pavel Verbnyak. He's a young Russian who is clearly motivated and motivating and striving for greatness.</p>
<p></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/pavelverbnyak/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/pavelverbnyak/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/verbnyak'>https://www.facebook.com/verbnyak</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Pavel Verbnyak</p>
<p>9:14  </p>
<p>Yeah, thank you for your question. George. I had a very nice wise grandfather, who who just participated in World War Two. He was born in 1923. And he is my first role model.</p>
<p>He passed away around 90 years old in 2013 and he was always positive. He loved people. He had hundreds of friends in the city we lived in and he taught us - me and my brother because my father passed away when I was seven and my grandfather was like a father.</p>
<p>He didn't blame others. He understood everything if he got some people who, maybe I did something wrong with him, but he, I didn't hear any bad words from from him.</p>
<p>And the same for me, George, when I shared with him, he taught me to play chess, he, I felt this love from him and his acceptance for who I am. It doesn't really matter if I took some mistakes, and, and even this dream, this goes, he and my mom supported me,</p>
<p>George, but first couple of years, I didn't share with all of my thoughts and ideas to them. I just did something every single day. I have some books. I've read, I developed myself. Absolutely. They know what I do. But they supported me.</p>
<p>Yeah, George, it's very important to have this kind of support. And if someone is negative to you, don't say you don't share your goals and dreams. Just do something.</p>
<p>When you develop yourself. Other people will see Wow, he's different while he's doing something nice, while he's confident or he's getting better. And because of that, they started to ask you Wow, George, Pavel, what do you do you are different now?</p>
<p>What what do you read? What can you recommend me. And if they ask you, you can recommend that. But I never recommend or provide some ideas or thoughts to people who doesn't ask me to do that.</p>
<p>So it's very important, George. And support is very important. But it doesn't really matter. If nobody is supporting you. You have yourself you have your supporting group, by yourself just one person, you can do something great just by yourself, and other people will support you on your journey.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>24:46  
Right, George. And there are a lot of beautiful books.</p>
<p>So read, decide exactly what you want and read that kind of books. If you would love to become a great salesperson. Great. books on sales, or negotiation or psychology of communication of in something like that.</p>
<p>If you would love to be to become successful, you should learn from successful people, you should model successful people.</p>
<p>If we think and act as other successful people think and follow the law of cause and effect, we become like them step by step.</p>
<p>And we can achieve these kinds of results or them. So the cause and effect goes, thoughts and action and effect its results.</p>
<p>So 1000s of people achieve that kind of results and goals and successes we would love to achieve.</p>
<p>So learn from them, ask for help, ask for recommendation, write them a message, send them a message in LinkedIn as I did with George. And if they say no, okay, next, no.</p>
<p>Next, would you become my mentor? Next? No. But someone say yes, someone would ask George says, Yep, I would. I would love to talk with you in a zoom. Let's, let's get to know each other.</p>
<p>And that's why we became friends, and I'm on your podcast because I send a message.</p>
<p>But most of the people say No, today in their hands in their heads. They say no, he's, he's, he's too busy. He's so successful, he's going to say no to me. But this eliminate this fear of rejection, eliminate this fear of, of failure, fear of you and success.</p>
<p>And so there are a lot of limiting beliefs and fears. You should go forward to your dreams and you will achieve great results and ask for help. Ask for what you want.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Motivation is like a shower. You need it every day.
We are individuals, yet we each need our daily shot of motivation in our own way, every day. What might we learn from Pavel Verbnyak, a motivational speaker from Russia?
<p>Episode 77</p>
<p>On this interview, Pavel Verbnyack from Moscow, Russia, offers his insights about pursuing success - and helping those around you do the same.</p>
<p>You might believe that the definition of success various by person, nation, perspective and challenges - and you would be right. You might be surprised that the challenges and techniques to motivate and grow are similar, regardless of circumstances.</p>
<p>How do you find mentors?</p>
<p>What do you need to do each day to think, feel and do more success?</p>
<p>Why you should not fear the word, "No".</p>
<p>The power of books that you have at your fingertips.</p>
<p>Why you might stop searching for the latest thing and instead look back 2,000 years.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>PS: You might notice that that my (George) audio is poor on this episode. I apologize. I got a new Logitech camera which messed up my microphone settings. Go figure.</p>
<p>I trust that you will enjoy this discussion with Pavel Verbnyak. He's a young Russian who is clearly motivated and motivating and striving for greatness.</p>
<p></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/pavelverbnyak/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/pavelverbnyak/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/verbnyak'>https://www.facebook.com/verbnyak</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Pavel Verbnyak</p>
<p>9:14  </p>
<p>Yeah, thank you for your question. George. I had a very nice wise grandfather, who who just participated in World War Two. He was born in 1923. And he is my first role model.</p>
<p>He passed away around 90 years old in 2013 and he was always positive. He loved people. He had hundreds of friends in the city we lived in and he taught us - me and my brother because my father passed away when I was seven and my grandfather was like a father.</p>
<p>He didn't blame others. He understood everything if he got some people who, maybe I did something wrong with him, but he, I didn't hear any bad words from from him.</p>
<p>And the same for me, George, when I shared with him, he taught me to play chess, he, I felt this love from him and his acceptance for who I am. It doesn't really matter if I took some mistakes, and, and even this dream, this goes, he and my mom supported me,</p>
<p>George, but first couple of years, I didn't share with all of my thoughts and ideas to them. I just did something every single day. I have some books. I've read, I developed myself. Absolutely. They know what I do. But they supported me.</p>
<p>Yeah, George, it's very important to have this kind of support. And if someone is negative to you, don't say you don't share your goals and dreams. Just do something.</p>
<p>When you develop yourself. Other people will see Wow, he's different while he's doing something nice, while he's confident or he's getting better. And because of that, they started to ask you Wow, George, Pavel, what do you do you are different now?</p>
<p>What what do you read? What can you recommend me. And if they ask you, you can recommend that. But I never recommend or provide some ideas or thoughts to people who doesn't ask me to do that.</p>
<p>So it's very important, George. And support is very important. But it doesn't really matter. If nobody is supporting you. You have yourself you have your supporting group, by yourself just one person, you can do something great just by yourself, and other people will support you on your journey.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>24:46  <br>
Right, George. And there are a lot of beautiful books.</p>
<p>So read, decide exactly what you want and read that kind of books. If you would love to become a great salesperson. Great. books on sales, or negotiation or psychology of communication of in something like that.</p>
<p>If you would love to be to become successful, you should learn from successful people, you should model successful people.</p>
<p>If we think and act as other successful people think and follow the law of cause and effect, we become like them step by step.</p>
<p>And we can achieve these kinds of results or them. So the cause and effect goes, thoughts and action and effect its results.</p>
<p>So 1000s of people achieve that kind of results and goals and successes we would love to achieve.</p>
<p>So learn from them, ask for help, ask for recommendation, write them a message, send them a message in LinkedIn as I did with George. And if they say no, okay, next, no.</p>
<p>Next, would you become my mentor? Next? No. But someone say yes, someone would ask George says, Yep, I would. I would love to talk with you in a zoom. Let's, let's get to know each other.</p>
<p>And that's why we became friends, and I'm on your podcast because I send a message.</p>
<p>But most of the people say No, today in their hands in their heads. They say no, he's, he's, he's too busy. He's so successful, he's going to say no to me. But this eliminate this fear of rejection, eliminate this fear of, of failure, fear of you and success.</p>
<p>And so there are a lot of limiting beliefs and fears. You should go forward to your dreams and you will achieve great results and ask for help. Ask for what you want.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Motivation is like a shower. You need it every day.
We are individuals, yet we each need our daily shot of motivation in our own way, every day. What might we learn from Pavel Verbnyak, a motivational speaker from Russia?
Episode 77
On this interview, Pavel Verbnyack from Moscow, Russia, offers his insights about pursuing success - and helping those around you do the same.
You might believe that the definition of success various by person, nation, perspective and challenges - and you would be right. You might be surprised that the challenges and techniques to motivate and grow are similar, regardless of circumstances.
How do you find mentors?
What do you need to do each day to think, feel and do more success?
Why you should not fear the word, "No".
The power of books that you have at your fingertips.
Why you might stop searching for the latest thing and instead look back 2,000 years.
 
PS: You might notice that that my (George) audio is poor on this episode. I apologize. I got a new Logitech camera which messed up my microphone settings. Go figure.
I trust that you will enjoy this discussion with Pavel Verbnyak. He's a young Russian who is clearly motivated and motivating and striving for greatness.

https://www.linkedin.com/in/pavelverbnyak/
https://www.facebook.com/verbnyak
 
 
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Pavel Verbnyak
9:14  
Yeah, thank you for your question. George. I had a very nice wise grandfather, who who just participated in World War Two. He was born in 1923. And he is my first role model.
He passed away around 90 years old in 2013 and he was always positive. He loved people. He had hundreds of friends in the city we lived in and he taught us - me and my brother because my father passed away when I was seven and my grandfather was like a father.
He didn't blame others. He understood everything if he got some people who, maybe I did something wrong with him, but he, I didn't hear any bad words from from him.
And the same for me, George, when I shared with him, he taught me to play chess, he, I felt this love from him and his acceptance for who I am. It doesn't really matter if I took some mistakes, and, and even this dream, this goes, he and my mom supported me,
George, but first couple of years, I didn't share with all of my thoughts and ideas to them. I just did something every single day. I have some books. I've read, I developed myself. Absolutely. They know what I do. But they supported me.
Yeah, George, it's very important to have this kind of support. And if someone is negative to you, don't say you don't share your goals and dreams. Just do something.
When you develop yourself. Other people will see Wow, he's different while he's doing something nice, while he's confident or he's getting better. And because of that, they started to ask you Wow, George, Pavel, what do you do you are different now?
What what do you read? What can you recommend me. And if they ask you, you can recommend that. But I never recommend or provide some ideas or thoughts to people who doesn't ask me to do that.
So it's very important, George. And support is very important. But it doesn't really matter. If nobody is supporting you. You have yourself you have your supporting group, by yourself just one person, you can do something great just by yourself, and other people will support you on your journey.
-----
24:46  Right, George. And there are a lot of beautiful books.
So read, decide exactly what you want and read that kind of books. If you would love to become a great salesperson. Great. books on sales, or negotiation or psychology of communication of in something like that.
If you would love to be to become successful, you should learn from successful people, you should model successful people.
If we think and act as other successful people think and follow the law of cause and effect, we become like them step by step.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[If you are a business or community leader how can you succeed as a podcast guest?
Brandy Whalen is a facilitator of meaningful conversations.
She is co-founder of Kitcaster, an agency that books and prepares leaders to appear on podcasts.
<p>Episode 76</p>
<p>Our discussion explores podcast guesting as an avenue to convey your messages in a more meaningful way.</p>
<p>Why would leaders appear on podcasts?</p>
<p>Why is podcasting a more attractive channel than social media?</p>
<p>How can you prepare to be an effective and memorable guest?</p>
<p>What can you do to feel more comfortable when being interviewed?</p>
<p>How can you convey a more human feel to your message?</p>
<p>What can you do when the host stumbles or asks inappropriate questions?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Kitcaster books business leaders on the right podcasts to best convey their intended message. </p>
<p>Learn more and<a href='https://kitcaster.com/'> Kitcaster and their services here</a>.</p>
<p><a href='https://kitcaster.com/'></a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/company/kitcaster/'>https://www.linkedin.com/company/kitcaster/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/brandy-whalen/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/brandy-whalen/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://twitter.com/kitcasterpod'>https://twitter.com/kitcasterpod</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this discussion with Brandy Whalen of Kitcaster podcast agency...</p>
<p> </p>
<p>2:05 </p>
<p>Who would want to be on a podcast as a guest? And why?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Well, I think that anyone and everybody should be on a podcast, I tell our clients that everyone has a story to share with the world.</p>
<p>It's just sometimes people have a little bit more of a hard time finding their story.</p>
<p>Our clients are typically C level executives. So they are CEOs CFOs, head of human resource CTOs. They're looking to get in front of audiences to really showcase their expertise in whatever whatever area they they tend to land.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Are they delivering a corporate message? Or is it more of a personal message?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Yeah, that's a really that's a really good question, George. And, you know, I love the the name of your podcast, your intended message, because I feel like I that is what I preach every single day.</p>
<p>And really, what I tell our clients is that there is not a single podcast out there that I think would want to have you on as a guest to you can pitch your product or service.</p>
<p>That would be a terrible listen. What we tell our clients is that podcasts provide this unique opportunity for potential customers, customers, employees, to really get a good look at who it is that's behind the curtain of whatever company you're out there representing.</p>
<p>And maybe bring in your personal -  always bring in your personal story.</p>
<p>Then your professional journey as well.</p>
<p>No, it doesn't have to be a sales pitch.</p>
<p>You don't have to run through your corporate talking points. Those will come naturally if you do it right. And you're weaving the conversation together in a more organic way.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[If you are a business or community leader how can you succeed as a podcast guest?
Brandy Whalen is a facilitator of meaningful conversations.
She is co-founder of Kitcaster, an agency that books and prepares leaders to appear on podcasts.
<p>Episode 76</p>
<p>Our discussion explores podcast guesting as an avenue to convey your messages in a more meaningful way.</p>
<p>Why would leaders appear on podcasts?</p>
<p>Why is podcasting a more attractive channel than social media?</p>
<p>How can you prepare to be an effective and memorable guest?</p>
<p>What can you do to feel more comfortable when being interviewed?</p>
<p>How can you convey a more human feel to your message?</p>
<p>What can you do when the host stumbles or asks inappropriate questions?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Kitcaster books business leaders on the right podcasts to best convey their intended message. </p>
<p>Learn more and<a href='https://kitcaster.com/'> Kitcaster and their services here</a>.</p>
<p><a href='https://kitcaster.com/'></a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/company/kitcaster/'>https://www.linkedin.com/company/kitcaster/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/brandy-whalen/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/brandy-whalen/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://twitter.com/kitcasterpod'>https://twitter.com/kitcasterpod</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this discussion with Brandy Whalen of Kitcaster podcast agency...</p>
<p> </p>
<p>2:05 </p>
<p>Who would want to be on a podcast as a guest? And why?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Well, I think that anyone and everybody should be on a podcast, I tell our clients that everyone has a story to share with the world.</p>
<p>It's just sometimes people have a little bit more of a hard time finding their story.</p>
<p>Our clients are typically C level executives. So they are CEOs CFOs, head of human resource CTOs. They're looking to get in front of audiences to really showcase their expertise in whatever whatever area they they tend to land.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Are they delivering a corporate message? Or is it more of a personal message?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Yeah, that's a really that's a really good question, George. And, you know, I love the the name of your podcast, your intended message, because I feel like I that is what I preach every single day.</p>
<p>And really, what I tell our clients is that there is not a single podcast out there that I think would want to have you on as a guest to you can pitch your product or service.</p>
<p>That would be a terrible listen. What we tell our clients is that podcasts provide this unique opportunity for potential customers, customers, employees, to really get a good look at who it is that's behind the curtain of whatever company you're out there representing.</p>
<p>And maybe bring in your personal -  always bring in your personal story.</p>
<p>Then your professional journey as well.</p>
<p>No, it doesn't have to be a sales pitch.</p>
<p>You don't have to run through your corporate talking points. Those will come naturally if you do it right. And you're weaving the conversation together in a more organic way.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you are a business or community leader how can you succeed as a podcast guest?
Brandy Whalen is a facilitator of meaningful conversations.
She is co-founder of Kitcaster, an agency that books and prepares leaders to appear on podcasts.
Episode 76
Our discussion explores podcast guesting as an avenue to convey your messages in a more meaningful way.
Why would leaders appear on podcasts?
Why is podcasting a more attractive channel than social media?
How can you prepare to be an effective and memorable guest?
What can you do to feel more comfortable when being interviewed?
How can you convey a more human feel to your message?
What can you do when the host stumbles or asks inappropriate questions?
 
Kitcaster books business leaders on the right podcasts to best convey their intended message. 
Learn more and Kitcaster and their services here.

https://www.linkedin.com/company/kitcaster/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/brandy-whalen/
https://twitter.com/kitcasterpod
 
Excerpts from this discussion with Brandy Whalen of Kitcaster podcast agency...
 
2:05 
Who would want to be on a podcast as a guest? And why?
 
Well, I think that anyone and everybody should be on a podcast, I tell our clients that everyone has a story to share with the world.
It's just sometimes people have a little bit more of a hard time finding their story.
Our clients are typically C level executives. So they are CEOs CFOs, head of human resource CTOs. They're looking to get in front of audiences to really showcase their expertise in whatever whatever area they they tend to land.
 
Are they delivering a corporate message? Or is it more of a personal message?
 
Yeah, that's a really that's a really good question, George. And, you know, I love the the name of your podcast, your intended message, because I feel like I that is what I preach every single day.
And really, what I tell our clients is that there is not a single podcast out there that I think would want to have you on as a guest to you can pitch your product or service.
That would be a terrible listen. What we tell our clients is that podcasts provide this unique opportunity for potential customers, customers, employees, to really get a good look at who it is that's behind the curtain of whatever company you're out there representing.
And maybe bring in your personal -  always bring in your personal story.
Then your professional journey as well.
No, it doesn't have to be a sales pitch.
You don't have to run through your corporate talking points. Those will come naturally if you do it right. And you're weaving the conversation together in a more organic way.
-----
----more----
 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[With more than two million podcasts, It's time to create a YouTube of audio content
Audio publishing is exploding online with more than two million podcasts and 48 million episodes. How can this audio content be organized and searched?
<p>Episode 75</p>
<p>Amit Kukreja (CEO & Founder) has launched Audea.io  - the answer to the quest for organized and aggregated audio content. Let's learn more about this new platform, the gap it fills and the future of published audio online.</p>
<p>Why is audio content so attractive and easy to consume?</p>
<p>What are the missing pieces in podcast distribution?</p>
<p>Why are the podcast distributors unlikely to promote most podcasts?</p>
<p>What lessons can we learn from YouTube videos that can be applied to audio?</p>
<a href='https://www.audea.io/home'>Visit Audea.io</a>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this discussion:</p>
<p>01:12</p>
<p>Let's find out about audio. And people might have said that, when TV came out that radio was going to die, but it didn't. It maybe even got stronger over the years. And people might have said that when when video came out, like YouTube came out, audio is gonna die. But it hasn't.</p>
<p>In fact, there's been a proliferation. And I believe the number of podcast audio podcasts is somewhere in the millions, which sounds crazy. What's happening? What's the attraction of audio? Why is it still here? And what in fact, why is it growing?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>01:52</p>
<p>I think the recent pandemic definitely gave people a lot more time on their hands over the past two years, and they had more time to do different things.</p>
<p>And audio became one of those core forefronts of how they were ultimately consuming content.</p>
<p>I think one of the big things to understand about audio, and the reason I'm so bullish on it to the point where I made a whole technology company and platform around it, is that I think that it's sort of the next wave of how humans are going to be able to be productive, while still consuming content, content creation and production.</p>
<p>And as you said, the proliferation of it, there's never been a better time to be alive. If you are a content creator, whether you're creating articles, video or audio.</p>
<p>The problem with that no barrier to entry is that there are literally millions of billions of different pieces of content created every day and distributed on major technology platforms. If that's the case, the question then becomes what's vying for our attention.</p>
<p>And audio is one of those mediums where you don't need to stare at the screen, or you don't need to have a sort of intimate relationship with the with the content in a way that it consumes your time, you're actually able to do other things while consuming content on the go and the ability to be productive, which is what we all care about.</p>
<p>But still get the information, which is what we also care about, to me creates a symbiotic relationship with audio as a medium and content as a an emerging democratised way of people consuming different things.</p>
<p>So I think at that point, if audio has platforms that are able to support it and help a and are able to help get it discovered more in the mainstream, then it just becomes a no brainer in terms of how big it can get</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>27:12</p>
<p>Where do you see Audea a year from now. And five years from now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Our goal is to get it to the point where we can hit critical mass, I think when we hit a critical mass, we'll be able to get some funding from venture capitalists. We tried to get funding over the past four months actually.</p>
<p>And it was such a rocky experience. It was a tonne of rejections. And it wasn't rejections in the context of the idea is bad. It was rejections in the context of you don't have the numbers, we need yet to justify giving you a couple million dollars.</p>
<p>Because it was a lot of cold emails to a lot of people in Silicon Valley. And I was getting the meetings, you know, people were actually sitting down and talking with me through Zoom. And these are meetings that are very hard to get with people who have very limited amount of time.</p>
<p>So the idea has the interest we know from the venture community. Now it's just a question of us building up enough intestinal fortitude, and empirical data to justify that this is an idea worth funding.</p>
<p>So, best case scenario a year from now I think we hit enough critical mass, we have 1015 20,000 users.</p>
<p>And at that point, we can get some funding from some venture capitalist. And once we get that funding, it's off to the moon in the next five years.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[With more than two million podcasts, It's time to create a YouTube of audio content
Audio publishing is exploding online with more than two million podcasts and 48 million episodes. How can this audio content be organized and searched?
<p>Episode 75</p>
<p>Amit Kukreja (CEO & Founder) has launched Audea.io  - the answer to the quest for organized and aggregated audio content. Let's learn more about this new platform, the gap it fills and the future of published audio online.</p>
<p>Why is audio content so attractive and easy to consume?</p>
<p>What are the missing pieces in podcast distribution?</p>
<p>Why are the podcast distributors unlikely to promote most podcasts?</p>
<p>What lessons can we learn from YouTube videos that can be applied to audio?</p>
<a href='https://www.audea.io/home'>Visit Audea.io</a>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Excerpts from this discussion:</em></p>
<p>01:12</p>
<p>Let's find out about audio. And people might have said that, when TV came out that radio was going to die, but it didn't. It maybe even got stronger over the years. And people might have said that when when video came out, like YouTube came out, audio is gonna die. But it hasn't.</p>
<p>In fact, there's been a proliferation. And I believe the number of podcast audio podcasts is somewhere in the millions, which sounds crazy. What's happening? What's the attraction of audio? Why is it still here? And what in fact, why is it growing?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>01:52</p>
<p>I think the recent pandemic definitely gave people a lot more time on their hands over the past two years, and they had more time to do different things.</p>
<p>And audio became one of those core forefronts of how they were ultimately consuming content.</p>
<p>I think one of the big things to understand about audio, and the reason I'm so bullish on it to the point where I made a whole technology company and platform around it, is that I think that it's sort of the next wave of how humans are going to be able to be productive, while still consuming content, content creation and production.</p>
<p>And as you said, the proliferation of it, there's never been a better time to be alive. If you are a content creator, whether you're creating articles, video or audio.</p>
<p>The problem with that no barrier to entry is that there are literally millions of billions of different pieces of content created every day and distributed on major technology platforms. If that's the case, the question then becomes what's vying for our attention.</p>
<p>And audio is one of those mediums where you don't need to stare at the screen, or you don't need to have a sort of intimate relationship with the with the content in a way that it consumes your time, you're actually able to do other things while consuming content on the go and the ability to be productive, which is what we all care about.</p>
<p>But still get the information, which is what we also care about, to me creates a symbiotic relationship with audio as a medium and content as a an emerging democratised way of people consuming different things.</p>
<p>So I think at that point, if audio has platforms that are able to support it and help a and are able to help get it discovered more in the mainstream, then it just becomes a no brainer in terms of how big it can get</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>27:12</p>
<p>Where do you see Audea a year from now. And five years from now.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Our goal is to get it to the point where we can hit critical mass, I think when we hit a critical mass, we'll be able to get some funding from venture capitalists. We tried to get funding over the past four months actually.</p>
<p>And it was such a rocky experience. It was a tonne of rejections. And it wasn't rejections in the context of the idea is bad. It was rejections in the context of you don't have the numbers, we need yet to justify giving you a couple million dollars.</p>
<p>Because it was a lot of cold emails to a lot of people in Silicon Valley. And I was getting the meetings, you know, people were actually sitting down and talking with me through Zoom. And these are meetings that are very hard to get with people who have very limited amount of time.</p>
<p>So the idea has the interest we know from the venture community. Now it's just a question of us building up enough intestinal fortitude, and empirical data to justify that this is an idea worth funding.</p>
<p>So, best case scenario a year from now I think we hit enough critical mass, we have 1015 20,000 users.</p>
<p>And at that point, we can get some funding from some venture capitalist. And once we get that funding, it's off to the moon in the next five years.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[With more than two million podcasts, It's time to create a YouTube of audio content
Audio publishing is exploding online with more than two million podcasts and 48 million episodes. How can this audio content be organized and searched?
Episode 75
Amit Kukreja (CEO & Founder) has launched Audea.io  - the answer to the quest for organized and aggregated audio content. Let's learn more about this new platform, the gap it fills and the future of published audio online.
Why is audio content so attractive and easy to consume?
What are the missing pieces in podcast distribution?
Why are the podcast distributors unlikely to promote most podcasts?
What lessons can we learn from YouTube videos that can be applied to audio?
Visit Audea.io
 
Excerpts from this discussion:
01:12
Let's find out about audio. And people might have said that, when TV came out that radio was going to die, but it didn't. It maybe even got stronger over the years. And people might have said that when when video came out, like YouTube came out, audio is gonna die. But it hasn't.
In fact, there's been a proliferation. And I believe the number of podcast audio podcasts is somewhere in the millions, which sounds crazy. What's happening? What's the attraction of audio? Why is it still here? And what in fact, why is it growing?
 
01:52
I think the recent pandemic definitely gave people a lot more time on their hands over the past two years, and they had more time to do different things.
And audio became one of those core forefronts of how they were ultimately consuming content.
I think one of the big things to understand about audio, and the reason I'm so bullish on it to the point where I made a whole technology company and platform around it, is that I think that it's sort of the next wave of how humans are going to be able to be productive, while still consuming content, content creation and production.
And as you said, the proliferation of it, there's never been a better time to be alive. If you are a content creator, whether you're creating articles, video or audio.
The problem with that no barrier to entry is that there are literally millions of billions of different pieces of content created every day and distributed on major technology platforms. If that's the case, the question then becomes what's vying for our attention.
And audio is one of those mediums where you don't need to stare at the screen, or you don't need to have a sort of intimate relationship with the with the content in a way that it consumes your time, you're actually able to do other things while consuming content on the go and the ability to be productive, which is what we all care about.
But still get the information, which is what we also care about, to me creates a symbiotic relationship with audio as a medium and content as a an emerging democratised way of people consuming different things.
So I think at that point, if audio has platforms that are able to support it and help a and are able to help get it discovered more in the mainstream, then it just becomes a no brainer in terms of how big it can get
-----
27:12
Where do you see Audea a year from now. And five years from now.
 
Our goal is to get it to the point where we can hit critical mass, I think when we hit a critical mass, we'll be able to get some funding from venture capitalists. We tried to get funding over the past four months actually.
And it was such a rocky experience. It was a tonne of rejections. And it wasn't rejections in the context of the idea is bad. It was rejections in the context of you don't have the numbers, we need yet to justify giving you a couple million dollars.
Because it was a lot of cold emails to a lot of people in Silicon Valley. And I was getting the meetings, you know, people were actually sitting down and talking with me through Zoom. And these are meetings that are very hard to get with people who have very limited amount of time.
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        <title>Speak from the Emotional Perspective of the Audience: Neil Gordon</title>
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                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/speak-from-the-emotional-perspective-of-the-audience-neil-gordon/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Thu, 23 Dec 2021 11:51:00 -0500</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[To connect with your audience, they must realise that you understand them and care
Neil Gordon reveals the Silver Bullet of speaking.
<p> </p>
<p>We explore:</p>
<ul><li>The problem that experts and knowledgeable speakers face</li>
<li>Why and how to take the focus off you and focus on your audience</li>
<li>How to make that emotional connection </li>
<li>How to distill that complicated message into a silver bullet</li>
<li>The power of one idea</li>
<li>Valuing the listener more than the speaker</li>
<li>The fallacy about information</li>
</ul>
<p> </p>
<p>Neil Gordon is a former editor at Penguin Book where he worked with New York Times bestselling authors. Neil helps speakers transform their audiences into audiences that are attentive, transfixed, hungry and empowered. Neil wasn't a natural with words. For most of his first 20 years, he abhorred reading. Then a switch flipped and he pursed writing and speaking with a vengeance.</p>
<p>Neil says there are 5 types of public speakers. Which are you? Take the free quiz here</p>
<p><a href='https://go.bucketquizzes.com/sf/a2fd5e6c'>Public Speaker Type Quiz</a></p>
<p>Learn more about Neil Gordon, his pubic speaking programs and the free introductory course here.</p>
<p><a href='https://neilcanhelp.com/'>Neil Can Help</a></p>
<p><a href='https://neilcanhelp.com/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this discussion with Neil Gordon:</p>
<p>02:31</p>
<p>One of the things that so many speakers struggle with George is that they know a lot, a lot, a lot of information, they have a lot of knowledge, they've been developing their expertise for often decades.</p>
<p>But the larger issue they face is that they basically have forgotten what it's like not to know something. And then they go out on stage, or they give a virtual presentation, and they do what we call the show up and throw up.</p>
<p>They just vomit out all of their information. They cram. If they have 45 minutes to talk, they cram as much of their content into that 45 minutes as they can.</p>
<p>But for a person who doesn't know what they know, right, who is a newbie who is a beginner at whatever their subject matter expertise is, they might find value in all of that content.</p>
<p>But because learning is so metabolically expensive, it can be overwhelming. And then the friction comes when they don't actually look like they don't actually make anything actionable.</p>
<p>Once the talk is over and saying, Oh, that was really good. And then they move on, they really forgotten about it.</p>
<p>I know that I've been in an audience member like that many times over where I appreciated the value that they had to share. But I just couldn't sort it out in my own mind. And I couldn't make it actionable. Or at least I didn't. </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>03:56</p>
<p>And when you talk when you coach a speaker, do they push back and say, but I can't leave something out? What if I leave something out? And they think I don't know.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>04:10</p>
<p>Yeah. And what you are highlighting there, George is a larger issue that so many experts have and it's not even just picking on experts, people are like this, in general, is that they go about solving a problem from their perspective.</p>
<p>A person is going up on stage and they're thinking, Am I going to seem authoritative enough? Are people going to be paying attention? Are they going to have me back? Am I going to get Am I being paid enough for this? Or how do I actually get paid for this?</p>
<p>They're focused on their stuff. But effective communication values the recipient over the sender and they focus on the audience</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>11:34</p>
<p>How do we transfix the audience?</p>
<p>But the opening of a talk is sort of like the start of a race. A race has this really high point of tension...</p>
<p>On your mark, get set. And that moment, right between get set and go or the gun going off, is that highest point of tension, because anything can happen.</p>
<p>Anything is possible, but nothing yet has. And similarly at the start of a talk, you've walked out on stage, you're there, your audience is there, nothing has happened yet.</p>
<p>Anything is possible. It's very pregnant, a point of tension.</p>
<p>Versus saying, Oh, thank you so much. It's so nice to be here does is it squanders that tension and disperses it.</p>
<p>And one of my favourite examples is a former client of mine, and she had this big national keynote for her for company's national conference. And she just started with,</p>
<p>"A longtime friend of mine didn't know what to do."</p>
<p>And that was it. And at that point, you could hear the pin drop, because she took all that tension and she harnessed it.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>28:36</p>
<p>I will give one piece of advice, per your question, George.</p>
<p>And that is to become absolutely religious, about the problems that your participants your employees are experiencing.</p>
<p>As they understand it, and to create your message as an extension of solving those problems to whatever extent you have the capacity to do.</p>
<p>And so again, people are most likely to embrace the solution must provide within the context of a problem they care about solving.</p>
<p>And if your solution, your vision for the company for the next quarter is a certain thing, they will get on board, much more likely to get on board, if you first help them to feel seen and heard.</p>
<p>It starts with the problem as they understand it.</p>
<p>You learn what are you guys struggling with right now? What does it feel like for you? And then you talk about that at the beginning, and then artfully transition into things from your own perspective, and they'll come along with you for the ride.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[To connect with your audience, they must realise that you understand them and care
Neil Gordon reveals the Silver Bullet of speaking.
<p> </p>
<p><em>We explore:</em></p>
<ul><li>The problem that experts and knowledgeable speakers face</li>
<li>Why and how to take the focus off you and focus on your audience</li>
<li>How to make that emotional connection </li>
<li>How to distill that complicated message into a silver bullet</li>
<li>The power of one idea</li>
<li>Valuing the listener more than the speaker</li>
<li>The fallacy about information</li>
</ul>
<p> </p>
<p>Neil Gordon is a former editor at Penguin Book where he worked with New York Times bestselling authors. Neil helps speakers transform their audiences into audiences that are attentive, transfixed, hungry and empowered. Neil wasn't a natural with words. For most of his first 20 years, he abhorred reading. Then a switch flipped and he pursed writing and speaking with a vengeance.</p>
<p>Neil says there are 5 types of public speakers. Which are you? Take the free quiz here</p>
<p><a href='https://go.bucketquizzes.com/sf/a2fd5e6c'>Public Speaker Type Quiz</a></p>
<p>Learn more about Neil Gordon, his pubic speaking programs and the free introductory course here.</p>
<p><a href='https://neilcanhelp.com/'>Neil Can Help</a></p>
<p><a href='https://neilcanhelp.com/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this discussion with Neil Gordon:</p>
<p>02:31</p>
<p>One of the things that so many speakers struggle with George is that they know a lot, a lot, a lot of information, they have a lot of knowledge, they've been developing their expertise for often decades.</p>
<p>But the larger issue they face is that they basically have forgotten what it's like not to know something. And then they go out on stage, or they give a virtual presentation, and they do what we call the show up and throw up.</p>
<p>They just vomit out all of their information. They cram. If they have 45 minutes to talk, they cram as much of their content into that 45 minutes as they can.</p>
<p>But for a person who doesn't know what they know, right, who is a newbie who is a beginner at whatever their subject matter expertise is, they might find value in all of that content.</p>
<p>But because learning is so metabolically expensive, it can be overwhelming. And then the friction comes when they don't actually look like they don't actually make anything actionable.</p>
<p>Once the talk is over and saying, Oh, that was really good. And then they move on, they really forgotten about it.</p>
<p>I know that I've been in an audience member like that many times over where I appreciated the value that they had to share. But I just couldn't sort it out in my own mind. And I couldn't make it actionable. Or at least I didn't. </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>03:56</p>
<p>And when you talk when you coach a speaker, do they push back and say, but I can't leave something out? What if I leave something out? And they think I don't know.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>04:10</p>
<p>Yeah. And what you are highlighting there, George is a larger issue that so many experts have and it's not even just picking on experts, people are like this, in general, is that they go about solving a problem from their perspective.</p>
<p>A person is going up on stage and they're thinking, Am I going to seem authoritative enough? Are people going to be paying attention? Are they going to have me back? Am I going to get Am I being paid enough for this? Or how do I actually get paid for this?</p>
<p>They're focused on their stuff. But effective communication values the recipient over the sender and they focus on the audience</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>11:34</p>
<p>How do we transfix the audience?</p>
<p>But the opening of a talk is sort of like the start of a race. A race has this really high point of tension...</p>
<p>On your mark, get set. And that moment, right between get set and go or the gun going off, is that highest point of tension, because anything can happen.</p>
<p>Anything is possible, but nothing yet has. And similarly at the start of a talk, you've walked out on stage, you're there, your audience is there, nothing has happened yet.</p>
<p>Anything is possible. It's very pregnant, a point of tension.</p>
<p>Versus saying, Oh, thank you so much. It's so nice to be here does is it squanders that tension and disperses it.</p>
<p>And one of my favourite examples is a former client of mine, and she had this big national keynote for her for company's national conference. And she just started with,</p>
<p>"A longtime friend of mine didn't know what to do."</p>
<p>And that was it. And at that point, you could hear the pin drop, because she took all that tension and she harnessed it.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>28:36</p>
<p>I will give one piece of advice, per your question, George.</p>
<p>And that is to become absolutely religious, about the problems that your participants your employees are experiencing.</p>
<p>As they understand it, and to create your message as an extension of solving those problems to whatever extent you have the capacity to do.</p>
<p>And so again, people are most likely to embrace the solution must provide within the context of a problem they care about solving.</p>
<p>And if your solution, your vision for the company for the next quarter is a certain thing, they will get on board, much more likely to get on board, if you first help them to feel seen and heard.</p>
<p>It starts with the problem as they understand it.</p>
<p>You learn what are you guys struggling with right now? What does it feel like for you? And then you talk about that at the beginning, and then artfully transition into things from your own perspective, and they'll come along with you for the ride.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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Neil Gordon reveals the Silver Bullet of speaking.
 
We explore:
The problem that experts and knowledgeable speakers face
Why and how to take the focus off you and focus on your audience
How to make that emotional connection 
How to distill that complicated message into a silver bullet
The power of one idea
Valuing the listener more than the speaker
The fallacy about information
 
Neil Gordon is a former editor at Penguin Book where he worked with New York Times bestselling authors. Neil helps speakers transform their audiences into audiences that are attentive, transfixed, hungry and empowered. Neil wasn't a natural with words. For most of his first 20 years, he abhorred reading. Then a switch flipped and he pursed writing and speaking with a vengeance.
Neil says there are 5 types of public speakers. Which are you? Take the free quiz here
Public Speaker Type Quiz
Learn more about Neil Gordon, his pubic speaking programs and the free introductory course here.
Neil Can Help

 
Excerpts from this discussion with Neil Gordon:
02:31
One of the things that so many speakers struggle with George is that they know a lot, a lot, a lot of information, they have a lot of knowledge, they've been developing their expertise for often decades.
But the larger issue they face is that they basically have forgotten what it's like not to know something. And then they go out on stage, or they give a virtual presentation, and they do what we call the show up and throw up.
They just vomit out all of their information. They cram. If they have 45 minutes to talk, they cram as much of their content into that 45 minutes as they can.
But for a person who doesn't know what they know, right, who is a newbie who is a beginner at whatever their subject matter expertise is, they might find value in all of that content.
But because learning is so metabolically expensive, it can be overwhelming. And then the friction comes when they don't actually look like they don't actually make anything actionable.
Once the talk is over and saying, Oh, that was really good. And then they move on, they really forgotten about it.
I know that I've been in an audience member like that many times over where I appreciated the value that they had to share. But I just couldn't sort it out in my own mind. And I couldn't make it actionable. Or at least I didn't. 
-----
03:56
And when you talk when you coach a speaker, do they push back and say, but I can't leave something out? What if I leave something out? And they think I don't know.
 
04:10
Yeah. And what you are highlighting there, George is a larger issue that so many experts have and it's not even just picking on experts, people are like this, in general, is that they go about solving a problem from their perspective.
A person is going up on stage and they're thinking, Am I going to seem authoritative enough? Are people going to be paying attention? Are they going to have me back? Am I going to get Am I being paid enough for this? Or how do I actually get paid for this?
They're focused on their stuff. But effective communication values the recipient over the sender and they focus on the audience
-----
11:34
How do we transfix the audience?
But the opening of a talk is sort of like the start of a race. A race has this really high point of tension...
On your mark, get set. And that moment, right between get set and go or the gun going off, is that highest point of tension, because anything can happen.
Anything is possible, but nothing yet has. And similarly at the start of a talk, you've walked out on stage, you're there, your audience is there, nothing has happened yet.
Anything is possible. It's very pregnant, a point of tension.
Versus saying, Oh, thank you so much. It's so nice to be here does is it squanders that tension and disperses it.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Empathy is not an inborn trait. It can be taught and learned.
Dr Helen Riess is an empathy researcher at Harvard Medical School and a clinical psychiatrist at Massachusetts General Hospital.
<p>We examine these aspects about empathy:</p>
<ul><li>What is empathy and what is not?</li>
<li>Why is empathy critical to effective communication?</li>
<li>How might we demonstrate true empathy over fake sympathy?</li>
<li>How to guard against empathy overload?</li>
<li>How can leaders apply empathy in building their teams?</li>
</ul>
<p>Dr Helen Riess is the author of the bestselling book, <a href='https://empathetics.com/the-empathy-effect/'>The Empathy Effect</a>: Seven Neuroscience Keys for Transforming how We Live, Love work and connect across Differences.</p>
<p><a href='https://empathetics.com/the-empathy-effect/'></a></p>
<p>Dr Helen Riess is the CEO and Founder of <a href='https://empathetics.com/'>Empthetics</a>, a tech ed company that offers online and blended empathy and relationship skills training for healthcare, business and law enforcement.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://empathetics.com/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Dr Riess's <a href='https://youtu.be/baHrcC8B4WM'>TEDX talk "The Power of Empathy"</a> has received more than 650,000 views. </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this interview:</p>
<p>Most of us have probably heard the word, many people probably have their own idea of what they think it is. Please tell us your definition of what Empathy means to you? And most importantly, what it's not.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:50</p>
<p>That is a great opening question, George, because many people have a sense that they know what empathy is. But it's actually more than one thing. It's an umbrella term. Because people often confuse empathy with just being nice or kind.</p>
<p>Empathy is, is involved quite a few brain structures that enable us to perceive the emotions of others. Of course, that means we have to pay attention to the emotional signals, right? So it helps with perception of emotion, it helps with taking the perspective of other people. So it means taking off our own spectacles and putting on the lens that somebody else is wearing to see the world through their eyes.</p>
<p>Empathy involves what's called an effect sharing, which means that when we see somebody in an intense emotion, we actually share that emotion to some degree, because of how our brains map other people's emotions on our own brain structures, which is why when we see somebody really sad and sorrowful, sometimes we get a little misty and teary ourselves, or when we're around people that are just elated and happy it buoys everybody up.</p>
<p>That's called shared aspects or shared emotions. And then empathy works with all of these brain parts to process what other people are thinking and feeling. Which then motivates empathic concern, which is really what gets us to do things to help other people.</p>
<p>And then the output after we feel that concern, is what I call caring compassion, because that's what comes out of us. So empathy is really the input that allows us to perceive and understand and then based on many factors, including just how well we're doing taking care of ourselves, we have the ability to show caring and compassionate behaviour coming out of us.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>10:11</p>
<p>I'm curious about the concept that empathy can be learned. So if it is a skill that can be learned and can be honed, where does one start? Where does one start to say, Okay? How's my empathy level? How do I improve it?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>10:39</p>
<p>So, importantly, empathy is a mutable human trait, which means it changes, it's not the same, I don't have the same empathy every single day, and neither does anyone else.</p>
<p>When we talk about empathy, we have to realise it can be blunted. So as I said before, if you're around too much pain and suffering, you at some point, might have to limit your exposure, or take a breath and step back, or even take a day off.</p>
<p>Because there's only so much the human mind and heart can absorb. So when we tamp down empathy, we are at risk for losing it if we don't replenish, and we don't kind of reset to be sensitive to other people.</p>
<p>And the reason I got into all of this empathy research is that, through my own experience, working with patients and just reading the media, there has been a time when patients are really saying they don't get enough empathy and care from their doctors.</p>
<p>And I was seeing that as a major problem. Because if you don't feel cared about, you're not that likely to follow recommendations or even want to come back and see that doctor. I was really on a quest to see if if you can beat empathy out of people, can you also bring it back? And a lot of people said no, if once you burned out, that's probably it like, or maybe those people never had any to begin with.</p>
<p>And through my research, I realised that we are most empathetic when our challenge channels are open, when we're really focusing on the other person and not so much on ourselves.</p>
<p>And that there are ways to enhance our perception of other people, for example, by learning to read their faces accurately, because the human face is actually a roadmap of emotion. But if we're not looking at each other, you're going to be missing what people are feeling.</p>
<p>And of course, during this pandemic we're in when half our faces are covered, it's even more important to pay attention to what people are saying with their eyes. And, our eyes and our forehead is where most emotion is actually expressed.</p>
<p>So the good thing is that even if we cover our mouths, where we can, you know, it's easy to fake a smile, but it's very hard to fake the other emotions because they're expressed in the eyes.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Empathy is not an inborn trait. It can be taught and learned.
Dr Helen Riess is an empathy researcher at Harvard Medical School and a clinical psychiatrist at Massachusetts General Hospital.
<p><em>We examine these aspects about empathy:</em></p>
<ul><li>What is empathy and what is not?</li>
<li>Why is empathy critical to effective communication?</li>
<li>How might we demonstrate true empathy over fake sympathy?</li>
<li>How to guard against empathy overload?</li>
<li>How can leaders apply empathy in building their teams?</li>
</ul>
<p>Dr Helen Riess is the author of the bestselling book, <a href='https://empathetics.com/the-empathy-effect/'>The Empathy Effect</a>: Seven Neuroscience Keys for Transforming how We Live, Love work and connect across Differences.</p>
<p><a href='https://empathetics.com/the-empathy-effect/'></a></p>
<p>Dr Helen Riess is the CEO and Founder of <a href='https://empathetics.com/'>Empthetics</a>, a tech ed company that offers online and blended empathy and relationship skills training for healthcare, business and law enforcement.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://empathetics.com/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Dr Riess's <a href='https://youtu.be/baHrcC8B4WM'>TEDX talk "The Power of Empathy"</a> has received more than 650,000 views. </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Excerpts from this interview:</p>
<p>Most of us have probably heard the word, many people probably have their own idea of what they think it is. Please tell us your definition of what Empathy means to you? And most importantly, what it's not.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>02:50</p>
<p>That is a great opening question, George, because many people have a sense that they know what empathy is. But it's actually more than one thing. It's an umbrella term. Because people often confuse empathy with just being nice or kind.</p>
<p>Empathy is, is involved quite a few brain structures that enable us to perceive the emotions of others. Of course, that means we have to pay attention to the emotional signals, right? So it helps with perception of emotion, it helps with taking the perspective of other people. So it means taking off our own spectacles and putting on the lens that somebody else is wearing to see the world through their eyes.</p>
<p>Empathy involves what's called an effect sharing, which means that when we see somebody in an intense emotion, we actually share that emotion to some degree, because of how our brains map other people's emotions on our own brain structures, which is why when we see somebody really sad and sorrowful, sometimes we get a little misty and teary ourselves, or when we're around people that are just elated and happy it buoys everybody up.</p>
<p>That's called shared aspects or shared emotions. And then empathy works with all of these brain parts to process what other people are thinking and feeling. Which then motivates empathic concern, which is really what gets us to do things to help other people.</p>
<p>And then the output after we feel that concern, is what I call caring compassion, because that's what comes out of us. So empathy is really the input that allows us to perceive and understand and then based on many factors, including just how well we're doing taking care of ourselves, we have the ability to show caring and compassionate behaviour coming out of us.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>10:11</p>
<p>I'm curious about the concept that empathy can be learned. So if it is a skill that can be learned and can be honed, where does one start? Where does one start to say, Okay? How's my empathy level? How do I improve it?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>10:39</p>
<p>So, importantly, empathy is a mutable human trait, which means it changes, it's not the same, I don't have the same empathy every single day, and neither does anyone else.</p>
<p>When we talk about empathy, we have to realise it can be blunted. So as I said before, if you're around too much pain and suffering, you at some point, might have to limit your exposure, or take a breath and step back, or even take a day off.</p>
<p>Because there's only so much the human mind and heart can absorb. So when we tamp down empathy, we are at risk for losing it if we don't replenish, and we don't kind of reset to be sensitive to other people.</p>
<p>And the reason I got into all of this empathy research is that, through my own experience, working with patients and just reading the media, there has been a time when patients are really saying they don't get enough empathy and care from their doctors.</p>
<p>And I was seeing that as a major problem. Because if you don't feel cared about, you're not that likely to follow recommendations or even want to come back and see that doctor. I was really on a quest to see if if you can beat empathy out of people, can you also bring it back? And a lot of people said no, if once you burned out, that's probably it like, or maybe those people never had any to begin with.</p>
<p>And through my research, I realised that we are most empathetic when our challenge channels are open, when we're really focusing on the other person and not so much on ourselves.</p>
<p>And that there are ways to enhance our perception of other people, for example, by learning to read their faces accurately, because the human face is actually a roadmap of emotion. But if we're not looking at each other, you're going to be missing what people are feeling.</p>
<p>And of course, during this pandemic we're in when half our faces are covered, it's even more important to pay attention to what people are saying with their eyes. And, our eyes and our forehead is where most emotion is actually expressed.</p>
<p>So the good thing is that even if we cover our mouths, where we can, you know, it's easy to fake a smile, but it's very hard to fake the other emotions because they're expressed in the eyes.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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Dr Helen Riess is an empathy researcher at Harvard Medical School and a clinical psychiatrist at Massachusetts General Hospital.
We examine these aspects about empathy:
What is empathy and what is not?
Why is empathy critical to effective communication?
How might we demonstrate true empathy over fake sympathy?
How to guard against empathy overload?
How can leaders apply empathy in building their teams?
Dr Helen Riess is the author of the bestselling book, The Empathy Effect: Seven Neuroscience Keys for Transforming how We Live, Love work and connect across Differences.

Dr Helen Riess is the CEO and Founder of Empthetics, a tech ed company that offers online and blended empathy and relationship skills training for healthcare, business and law enforcement.
 

 
Dr Riess's TEDX talk "The Power of Empathy" has received more than 650,000 views. 
 
Excerpts from this interview:
Most of us have probably heard the word, many people probably have their own idea of what they think it is. Please tell us your definition of what Empathy means to you? And most importantly, what it's not.
 
02:50
That is a great opening question, George, because many people have a sense that they know what empathy is. But it's actually more than one thing. It's an umbrella term. Because people often confuse empathy with just being nice or kind.
Empathy is, is involved quite a few brain structures that enable us to perceive the emotions of others. Of course, that means we have to pay attention to the emotional signals, right? So it helps with perception of emotion, it helps with taking the perspective of other people. So it means taking off our own spectacles and putting on the lens that somebody else is wearing to see the world through their eyes.
Empathy involves what's called an effect sharing, which means that when we see somebody in an intense emotion, we actually share that emotion to some degree, because of how our brains map other people's emotions on our own brain structures, which is why when we see somebody really sad and sorrowful, sometimes we get a little misty and teary ourselves, or when we're around people that are just elated and happy it buoys everybody up.
That's called shared aspects or shared emotions. And then empathy works with all of these brain parts to process what other people are thinking and feeling. Which then motivates empathic concern, which is really what gets us to do things to help other people.
And then the output after we feel that concern, is what I call caring compassion, because that's what comes out of us. So empathy is really the input that allows us to perceive and understand and then based on many factors, including just how well we're doing taking care of ourselves, we have the ability to show caring and compassionate behaviour coming out of us.
-----
10:11
I'm curious about the concept that empathy can be learned. So if it is a skill that can be learned and can be honed, where does one start? Where does one start to say, Okay? How's my empathy level? How do I improve it?
 
10:39
So, importantly, empathy is a mutable human trait, which means it changes, it's not the same, I don't have the same empathy every single day, and neither does anyone else.
When we talk about empathy, we have to realise it can be blunted. So as I said before, if you're around too much pain and suffering, you at some point, might have to limit your exposure, or take a breath and step back, or even take a day off.
Because there's only so much the human mind and heart can absorb. So when we tamp down empathy, we are at risk for losing it if we don't replenish, and we don't kind of reset to be sensitive to other people.
And the reason I got into all of this empathy research is that, through my own experience, working with patients and just reading the media, there has been a time when patients are really saying they don't get enough empathy and care from their doctors.
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Why is opening more important than closing for success in sales? How to turn an apparent disadvantage to your advantage? 
Selling is a competitive pursuit, and it can be difficult. It can be challenging and rewarding. It doesn't need to be scary. It requires thought, preparation and habits. Most important is the mindset and self-talk. What are you telling yourself to win or sabotage your success.
<p>Highlights from this conversation with Austin McCulloh</p>
<p>Rewiring your response to the word, "No"</p>
<p>Setting daily routines to maintain your energy levels</p>
<p>How to open the connection with a prospect and why this is important</p>
<p>How a guy only 5 foot 7 became a team leader in college football</p>
<p><a href='https://www.mccullohadvising.com/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Austin McCulloh, is a specialist in lead generation. He has personally made more than 16,000 prospecting contacts on Linkedin. He's helped his clients generate more than 25,000 prospecting contacts. He manages his energy levels and follows repeatable systems to build relationships and spur business growth.  </p>
<p>You can learn more about Austin and his services here <a href='http://www.mccullohadvising.com'>www.mccullohadvising.com</a></p>
<p>You can also book a free, no-obligation call on his calendar at the website.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Austin McCulloh about the sales conversation:</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I'm guessing that you gained lessons from that experience that has helped you today. And if there are one, two or three lessons from your experience playing football being a smaller guy than the rest of them, what what are those lessons that have stayed with you?</p>
<p>02:36</p>
<p>Hmm, that's a really good question. I've never had anybody actually asked me that question. The one thing that's coming to mind is, it's not always a bad thing to have disadvantages.</p>
<p>Now, was it a pain because I was smaller. So I didn't have the physics on my side. Yeah. But I believe life is always preparing you for where you need to go. And obviously, my intention was never or my plans were never to be in the NFL.</p>
<p>But because I needed to compete with these guys, much larger than I was on the football field, I had to work out harder, I had to work out more. And that taught me to be more consistent taught me to be more disciplined.</p>
<p>And for example, our coach even wanted to be one of those leaders who, whenever we're doing something and he was up on stage, he would always call me up to demonstrate an exercise when we were lifting.</p>
<p>So that taught me to be a leader in front of others of my actions, not just in my words. So I guess now that I'm an entrepreneur, and I have been for years, playing college football, especially at the size disadvantage ended up being a benefit, because it just taught me how to be consistent taught me how to be a hard worker.</p>
<p>03:41</p>
<p>And, if we talked about nothing else, Austin that that one point would probably make this interview valuable by itself.</p>
<p>So having a disadvantage is actually an advantage. Because you learn to get to get over the disadvantage. You learn to use it to your, your, your benefit.</p>
<p>And that's probably the best lesson especially when it comes to sales. Because selling anything is tough. There's you've always got competition.</p>
<p>Let's talk about the sales conversation. You help people improve and make their sales conversation more effective. Where does the conversation start?</p>
<p>04:27</p>
<p>That's a great question, George. So I always like to say there are four steps, okay. And I go from the first to the fourth, top to bottom for anybody who's watching.</p>
<p>The first point in sales is making the contact. The second stage right below that is the conversation and that's what we're going to come back to that's the answer to your question, George.</p>
<p>The third one is you need to set up meetings and is obviously the fourth is closing the business. So I kind of fumbled around so to recap this contact Conversation, meeting or meetings, and then new business close business.</p>
<p>So to answer your question, the most important one, there is the conversation. Because in today's world, it's not that hard to make a contact, especially on social media, you reach out to your family and friends, there are a lot of people who contact, okay.</p>
<p>When you get a meeting set, it's not as tough to make a sale. Because if you say the wrong word or their objections, we all know that it's easier to handle those actually on the call, and then closing business. Have you ever heard sales is about opening? It's not about closing?</p>
<p>You know what I'm talking about? Huh? Got it. A lot of people think it's about closing. So really, the bread and butter out of those four steps is in the conversation piece. And of course, I'm more than happy to elaborate on that.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Why is opening more important than closing for success in sales? How to turn an apparent disadvantage to your advantage? 
Selling is a competitive pursuit, and it can be difficult. It can be challenging and rewarding. It doesn't need to be scary. It requires thought, preparation and habits. Most important is the mindset and self-talk. What are you telling yourself to win or sabotage your success.
<p><em>Highlights from this conversation with Austin McCulloh</em></p>
<p>Rewiring your response to the word, "No"</p>
<p>Setting daily routines to maintain your energy levels</p>
<p>How to open the connection with a prospect and why this is important</p>
<p>How a guy only 5 foot 7 became a team leader in college football</p>
<p><a href='https://www.mccullohadvising.com/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Austin McCulloh, is a specialist in lead generation. He has personally made more than 16,000 prospecting contacts on Linkedin. He's helped his clients generate more than 25,000 prospecting contacts. He manages his energy levels and follows repeatable systems to build relationships and spur business growth.  </p>
<p>You can learn more about Austin and his services here <a href='http://www.mccullohadvising.com'>www.mccullohadvising.com</a></p>
<p>You can also book a free, no-obligation call on his calendar at the website.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Excerpts from this conversation with Austin McCulloh about the sales conversation:</p>
<p> </p>
<p>I'm guessing that you gained lessons from that experience that has helped you today. And if there are one, two or three lessons from your experience playing football being a smaller guy than the rest of them, what what are those lessons that have stayed with you?</p>
<p>02:36</p>
<p>Hmm, that's a really good question. I've never had anybody actually asked me that question. The one thing that's coming to mind is, it's not always a bad thing to have disadvantages.</p>
<p>Now, was it a pain because I was smaller. So I didn't have the physics on my side. Yeah. But I believe life is always preparing you for where you need to go. And obviously, my intention was never or my plans were never to be in the NFL.</p>
<p>But because I needed to compete with these guys, much larger than I was on the football field, I had to work out harder, I had to work out more. And that taught me to be more consistent taught me to be more disciplined.</p>
<p>And for example, our coach even wanted to be one of those leaders who, whenever we're doing something and he was up on stage, he would always call me up to demonstrate an exercise when we were lifting.</p>
<p>So that taught me to be a leader in front of others of my actions, not just in my words. So I guess now that I'm an entrepreneur, and I have been for years, playing college football, especially at the size disadvantage ended up being a benefit, because it just taught me how to be consistent taught me how to be a hard worker.</p>
<p>03:41</p>
<p>And, if we talked about nothing else, Austin that that one point would probably make this interview valuable by itself.</p>
<p>So having a disadvantage is actually an advantage. Because you learn to get to get over the disadvantage. You learn to use it to your, your, your benefit.</p>
<p>And that's probably the best lesson especially when it comes to sales. Because selling anything is tough. There's you've always got competition.</p>
<p>Let's talk about the sales conversation. You help people improve and make their sales conversation more effective. Where does the conversation start?</p>
<p>04:27</p>
<p>That's a great question, George. So I always like to say there are four steps, okay. And I go from the first to the fourth, top to bottom for anybody who's watching.</p>
<p>The first point in sales is making the contact. The second stage right below that is the conversation and that's what we're going to come back to that's the answer to your question, George.</p>
<p>The third one is you need to set up meetings and is obviously the fourth is closing the business. So I kind of fumbled around so to recap this contact Conversation, meeting or meetings, and then new business close business.</p>
<p>So to answer your question, the most important one, there is the conversation. Because in today's world, it's not that hard to make a contact, especially on social media, you reach out to your family and friends, there are a lot of people who contact, okay.</p>
<p>When you get a meeting set, it's not as tough to make a sale. Because if you say the wrong word or their objections, we all know that it's easier to handle those actually on the call, and then closing business. Have you ever heard sales is about opening? It's not about closing?</p>
<p>You know what I'm talking about? Huh? Got it. A lot of people think it's about closing. So really, the bread and butter out of those four steps is in the conversation piece. And of course, I'm more than happy to elaborate on that.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why is opening more important than closing for success in sales? How to turn an apparent disadvantage to your advantage? 
Selling is a competitive pursuit, and it can be difficult. It can be challenging and rewarding. It doesn't need to be scary. It requires thought, preparation and habits. Most important is the mindset and self-talk. What are you telling yourself to win or sabotage your success.
Highlights from this conversation with Austin McCulloh
Rewiring your response to the word, "No"
Setting daily routines to maintain your energy levels
How to open the connection with a prospect and why this is important
How a guy only 5 foot 7 became a team leader in college football

 
Austin McCulloh, is a specialist in lead generation. He has personally made more than 16,000 prospecting contacts on Linkedin. He's helped his clients generate more than 25,000 prospecting contacts. He manages his energy levels and follows repeatable systems to build relationships and spur business growth.  
You can learn more about Austin and his services here www.mccullohadvising.com
You can also book a free, no-obligation call on his calendar at the website.
-----
Excerpts from this conversation with Austin McCulloh about the sales conversation:
 
I'm guessing that you gained lessons from that experience that has helped you today. And if there are one, two or three lessons from your experience playing football being a smaller guy than the rest of them, what what are those lessons that have stayed with you?
02:36
Hmm, that's a really good question. I've never had anybody actually asked me that question. The one thing that's coming to mind is, it's not always a bad thing to have disadvantages.
Now, was it a pain because I was smaller. So I didn't have the physics on my side. Yeah. But I believe life is always preparing you for where you need to go. And obviously, my intention was never or my plans were never to be in the NFL.
But because I needed to compete with these guys, much larger than I was on the football field, I had to work out harder, I had to work out more. And that taught me to be more consistent taught me to be more disciplined.
And for example, our coach even wanted to be one of those leaders who, whenever we're doing something and he was up on stage, he would always call me up to demonstrate an exercise when we were lifting.
So that taught me to be a leader in front of others of my actions, not just in my words. So I guess now that I'm an entrepreneur, and I have been for years, playing college football, especially at the size disadvantage ended up being a benefit, because it just taught me how to be consistent taught me how to be a hard worker.
03:41
And, if we talked about nothing else, Austin that that one point would probably make this interview valuable by itself.
So having a disadvantage is actually an advantage. Because you learn to get to get over the disadvantage. You learn to use it to your, your, your benefit.
And that's probably the best lesson especially when it comes to sales. Because selling anything is tough. There's you've always got competition.
Let's talk about the sales conversation. You help people improve and make their sales conversation more effective. Where does the conversation start?
04:27
That's a great question, George. So I always like to say there are four steps, okay. And I go from the first to the fourth, top to bottom for anybody who's watching.
The first point in sales is making the contact. The second stage right below that is the conversation and that's what we're going to come back to that's the answer to your question, George.
The third one is you need to set up meetings and is obviously the fourth is closing the business. So I kind of fumbled around so to recap this contact Conversation, meeting or meetings, and then new business close business.
So to answer your question, the most important one, there is the conversation. Because in today's world, it's not that hard to make a contact, ]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Fractional work. Is it right for you? Is it right for your team?
John Arms writes, speaks and advocates for the professional gig economy which is becoming part of the new normal for work. He serves as a fractional Chief Marketing Officer.
<p> </p>
<p>In this interview we explore:</p>
<p>How is fractional work different from consulting?</p>
<p>Why might fractional team leaders be attractive to a growing business?</p>
<p>Why might fractional work be attractive to experienced professionals?</p>
<p>How might a stagnant business leverage the wisdom of fractional team leaders?</p>
<p>What are the challenges of fractional work?</p>
<p>How might fractional workers freshen the workplace culture?</p>
<p> </p>
John Arms is co-founder of Voyageur University, a learning community for people transitioning to an independent career. Learn more about <a href='https://voyageuru.com/'>Voyageur U here</a>.
<p><a href='https://voyageuru.com/'></a></p>
<p>You can get 30 days free with the code NEWTRAIL</p>
<p><a href='https://voyageur-u.salesreach.io/freedom'>https://voyageur-u.salesreach.io/freedom</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Want to know more before you go further? <a href='https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/k6uajj/VoyageurU-eBook-1220-02-LinkedIn.pdf'>Check this free guide book.</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Find John Arms on Linkedin <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnarms/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnarms/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Fractional work. Is it right for you? Is it right for your team?
John Arms writes, speaks and advocates for the professional gig economy which is becoming part of the new normal for work. He serves as a fractional Chief Marketing Officer.
<p> </p>
<p>In this interview we explore:</p>
<p>How is fractional work different from consulting?</p>
<p>Why might fractional team leaders be attractive to a growing business?</p>
<p>Why might fractional work be attractive to experienced professionals?</p>
<p>How might a stagnant business leverage the wisdom of fractional team leaders?</p>
<p>What are the challenges of fractional work?</p>
<p>How might fractional workers freshen the workplace culture?</p>
<p> </p>
John Arms is co-founder of Voyageur University, a learning community for people transitioning to an independent career. Learn more about <a href='https://voyageuru.com/'>Voyageur U here</a>.
<p><a href='https://voyageuru.com/'></a></p>
<p>You can get 30 days free with the code NEWTRAIL</p>
<p><a href='https://voyageur-u.salesreach.io/freedom'>https://voyageur-u.salesreach.io/freedom</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Want to know more before you go further? <a href='https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/k6uajj/VoyageurU-eBook-1220-02-LinkedIn.pdf'>Check this free guide book.</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Find John Arms on Linkedin <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnarms/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnarms/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Fractional work. Is it right for you? Is it right for your team?
John Arms writes, speaks and advocates for the professional gig economy which is becoming part of the new normal for work. He serves as a fractional Chief Marketing Officer.
 
In this interview we explore:
How is fractional work different from consulting?
Why might fractional team leaders be attractive to a growing business?
Why might fractional work be attractive to experienced professionals?
How might a stagnant business leverage the wisdom of fractional team leaders?
What are the challenges of fractional work?
How might fractional workers freshen the workplace culture?
 
John Arms is co-founder of Voyageur University, a learning community for people transitioning to an independent career. Learn more about Voyageur U here.

You can get 30 days free with the code NEWTRAIL
https://voyageur-u.salesreach.io/freedom
 
Want to know more before you go further? Check this free guide book.
-----
Find John Arms on Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnarms/
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----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
 
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        <title>70 Jason Hunt, Social Media Marketing?</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Does social media marketing work? When does it work best? How to integrate your online marketing funnel?
Jason Hunt is Co-founder of Merged Media, a full service digital marketing agency. We explore the integration of social media, paid advertising, lead magnets, podcasting and email within your marketing outreach.
<p>To experience success with digital marketing, you need to connect the dots of the various platforms and approaches. Jason Hunt describes how that process works.</p>
<p>We explore the strengths and challenges of these platforms:</p>
<p>Facebook- still the ruler of the social media jungle</p>
<p>Google Ads - more pricey now, yet still effective because of the intent of the searcher</p>
<p>Linkedin - more focused on B to B </p>
<p>YouTube - the video variation of Google</p>
<p>Tik Tok - it's evolving into more than a place for dancing videos</p>
<p>Pinterest - a visual experience most relevant for reaching national markets</p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://merged.ca/'></a></p>
<p>Learn more about <a href='https://merged.ca/'>Merged Media</a> and the <a href='https://merged.ca/podcast/'>Merged Marketing podcast</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this excerpt, Jason Hunt describes the funnel.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>A great example of this is an episode that we recently did with a man by the name of Joe Garcia, and we talked about the five steps to manifesting your dream. Okay, that was the topic of the podcast episode. And we put it out there to the world of Facebook.</p>
<p>And what I did was this was important because the target audience is very important, the closer we can marry that message to the person seeing it, the better click cost, you're going to get better lead gen cost, you're going to get just got to marry that message up as as as the best as best as possible with that user that seeing it.</p>
<p>So in this specific episode, the five steps of manifesting your dream, it was a quick clip of Joe talking about one of those steps.</p>
<p>And we use that clip and targeted an audience of people that were entrepreneurs, but also showed interest in law of attraction. Okay, so by narrowing the audience down to not just entrepreneurs, but entrepreneurs that are interested in the law of attraction, this is a very good audience for this particular podcast episode.</p>
<p>So those click costs to get somebody from Facebook, to go to see that ad, watch the ad and then go over to our podcast was like three cents a click.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Links for Merged Media</p>
<p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/mergedmedialtd/?ref=br_rs'>https://www.facebook.com/mergedmedialtd/?ref=br_rs</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/mergedmedia/'>https://www.instagram.com/mergedmedia/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCH3SVt5G6ZzT8DqNwN2Y9GQ'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCH3SVt5G6ZzT8DqNwN2Y9GQ</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Does social media marketing work? When does it work best? How to integrate your online marketing funnel?
Jason Hunt is Co-founder of Merged Media, a full service digital marketing agency. We explore the integration of social media, paid advertising, lead magnets, podcasting and email within your marketing outreach.
<p>To experience success with digital marketing, you need to connect the dots of the various platforms and approaches. Jason Hunt describes how that process works.</p>
<p><em>We explore the strengths and challenges of these platforms:</em></p>
<p>Facebook- still the ruler of the social media jungle</p>
<p>Google Ads - more pricey now, yet still effective because of the intent of the searcher</p>
<p>Linkedin - more focused on B to B </p>
<p>YouTube - the video variation of Google</p>
<p>Tik Tok - it's evolving into more than a place for dancing videos</p>
<p>Pinterest - a visual experience most relevant for reaching national markets</p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://merged.ca/'></a></p>
<p>Learn more about <a href='https://merged.ca/'>Merged Media</a> and the <a href='https://merged.ca/podcast/'>Merged Marketing podcast</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this excerpt, Jason Hunt describes the funnel.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>A great example of this is an episode that we recently did with a man by the name of Joe Garcia, and we talked about the five steps to manifesting your dream. Okay, that was the topic of the podcast episode. And we put it out there to the world of Facebook.</p>
<p>And what I did was this was important because the target audience is very important, the closer we can marry that message to the person seeing it, the better click cost, you're going to get better lead gen cost, you're going to get just got to marry that message up as as as the best as best as possible with that user that seeing it.</p>
<p>So in this specific episode, the five steps of manifesting your dream, it was a quick clip of Joe talking about one of those steps.</p>
<p>And we use that clip and targeted an audience of people that were entrepreneurs, but also showed interest in law of attraction. Okay, so by narrowing the audience down to not just entrepreneurs, but entrepreneurs that are interested in the law of attraction, this is a very good audience for this particular podcast episode.</p>
<p>So those click costs to get somebody from Facebook, to go to see that ad, watch the ad and then go over to our podcast was like three cents a click.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Links for Merged Media</p>
<p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/mergedmedialtd/?ref=br_rs'>https://www.facebook.com/mergedmedialtd/?ref=br_rs</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/mergedmedia/'>https://www.instagram.com/mergedmedia/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCH3SVt5G6ZzT8DqNwN2Y9GQ'>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCH3SVt5G6ZzT8DqNwN2Y9GQ</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Does social media marketing work? When does it work best? How to integrate your online marketing funnel?
Jason Hunt is Co-founder of Merged Media, a full service digital marketing agency. We explore the integration of social media, paid advertising, lead magnets, podcasting and email within your marketing outreach.
To experience success with digital marketing, you need to connect the dots of the various platforms and approaches. Jason Hunt describes how that process works.
We explore the strengths and challenges of these platforms:
Facebook- still the ruler of the social media jungle
Google Ads - more pricey now, yet still effective because of the intent of the searcher
Linkedin - more focused on B to B 
YouTube - the video variation of Google
Tik Tok - it's evolving into more than a place for dancing videos
Pinterest - a visual experience most relevant for reaching national markets
 

Learn more about Merged Media and the Merged Marketing podcast
 
In this excerpt, Jason Hunt describes the funnel.
-----
A great example of this is an episode that we recently did with a man by the name of Joe Garcia, and we talked about the five steps to manifesting your dream. Okay, that was the topic of the podcast episode. And we put it out there to the world of Facebook.
And what I did was this was important because the target audience is very important, the closer we can marry that message to the person seeing it, the better click cost, you're going to get better lead gen cost, you're going to get just got to marry that message up as as as the best as best as possible with that user that seeing it.
So in this specific episode, the five steps of manifesting your dream, it was a quick clip of Joe talking about one of those steps.
And we use that clip and targeted an audience of people that were entrepreneurs, but also showed interest in law of attraction. Okay, so by narrowing the audience down to not just entrepreneurs, but entrepreneurs that are interested in the law of attraction, this is a very good audience for this particular podcast episode.
So those click costs to get somebody from Facebook, to go to see that ad, watch the ad and then go over to our podcast was like three cents a click.
-----
Links for Merged Media
https://www.facebook.com/mergedmedialtd/?ref=br_rs
https://www.instagram.com/mergedmedia/
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCH3SVt5G6ZzT8DqNwN2Y9GQ
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----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
 
 
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Communication starts within your body, not necessarily within your brain. How do you feel about that thought?
I Think, Therefore I am Wrong, is the title of the latest book from Dr Howard Rankin. How does the title of that book make you feel? Does it intrigue you or disgust you? Why?
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Think-Therefore-Wrong-Political-Correctness-ebook/dp/B081LJQ3NV/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=i+think+therefore+i+am+wrong&qid=1637183258&sr=8-1'></a></p>
<p>Your body and mind are designed to communicate effectively within the body. Yet, communication with other people might not work so well because the body/mind relationship is based on survival and energy conservation.</p>
<p>Topics and Ideas that we explore in this discussion:</p>
<ul><li>I think, therefore I am wrong. What does that mean?</li>
<li>Why might we ignore facts or distort reality?</li>
<li>Your brain is an energy hog.</li>
<li>Why do we experience binary thinking? And why is that dangerous?</li>
<li>How might physical activity help you recharge or rewire your brain?</li>
<li>When was the last time you truly enjoyed eating a grape?</li>
<li>How might nature help you reset?</li>
</ul>
<a href='https://www.drhowardrankin.online/'>Communicate with Influence</a>
<p>Check this online training program from Dr Howard Rankin on how to be more successful with your communication.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Communication starts within your body, not necessarily within your brain. How do you feel about that thought?
I Think, Therefore I am Wrong, is the title of the latest book from Dr Howard Rankin. How does the title of that book make you feel? Does it intrigue you or disgust you? Why?
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Think-Therefore-Wrong-Political-Correctness-ebook/dp/B081LJQ3NV/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=i+think+therefore+i+am+wrong&qid=1637183258&sr=8-1'></a></p>
<p>Your body and mind are designed to communicate effectively within the body. Yet, communication with other people might not work so well because the body/mind relationship is based on survival and energy conservation.</p>
<p>Topics and Ideas that we explore in this discussion:</p>
<ul><li>I think, therefore I am wrong. What does that mean?</li>
<li>Why might we ignore facts or distort reality?</li>
<li>Your brain is an energy hog.</li>
<li>Why do we experience binary thinking? And why is that dangerous?</li>
<li>How might physical activity help you recharge or rewire your brain?</li>
<li>When was the last time you truly enjoyed eating a grape?</li>
<li>How might nature help you reset?</li>
</ul>
<a href='https://www.drhowardrankin.online/'>Communicate with Influence</a>
<p>Check this online training program from Dr Howard Rankin on how to be more successful with your communication.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Communication starts within your body, not necessarily within your brain. How do you feel about that thought?
I Think, Therefore I am Wrong, is the title of the latest book from Dr Howard Rankin. How does the title of that book make you feel? Does it intrigue you or disgust you? Why?

Your body and mind are designed to communicate effectively within the body. Yet, communication with other people might not work so well because the body/mind relationship is based on survival and energy conservation.
Topics and Ideas that we explore in this discussion:
I think, therefore I am wrong. What does that mean?
Why might we ignore facts or distort reality?
Your brain is an energy hog.
Why do we experience binary thinking? And why is that dangerous?
How might physical activity help you recharge or rewire your brain?
When was the last time you truly enjoyed eating a grape?
How might nature help you reset?
Communicate with Influence
Check this online training program from Dr Howard Rankin on how to be more successful with your communication.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to build your story on the framework of The Christmas Carol and it's not Bah Humbug!
Graham Brown offers analysis, practical insights and artistic encouragement to storytelling in business.
<p>Highlights from this discussion with Graham Brown</p>
<p>Leveraging the power of the journey</p>
<p>Move people to change while making them feel that they are on familiar territory</p>
<p>How to diminish the fear of the unknown</p>
<p>The power of analogy when you want to become the Uber of ...</p>
<p>People forget what you said, yet remember how you made them feel</p>
<p>The importance of allowing listener to fill in some of the blanks</p>
<p>How to rehearse and refine your key stories</p>
<p>The relevance of the back story. Why are you here?</p>
<p>Why old stories are the best</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Graham Brown is the founder of Pikkal & Co, an award winning podcast agency based in Singapore. He has the experience of hosting over 400 episodes on his podcast. He is an author on the subject of The Digital Transformation of Communication. His works include The Human Communication Playbook and The Mobile Youth: Voices of the Connect Generation.</p>
<p>Podcast Guesting Pro is a dedicated Podcast Booking Agency that works with B2B thought leaders. They help you reach new audiences and build your authority by booking you on podcasts to showcase your expertise and spread your message. Learn more here...</p>
<p><a href='https://www.podcastguesting.pro/'>https://www.podcastguesting.pro/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to build your story on the framework of The Christmas Carol and it's not Bah Humbug!
Graham Brown offers analysis, practical insights and artistic encouragement to storytelling in business.
<p>Highlights from this discussion with Graham Brown</p>
<p>Leveraging the power of the journey</p>
<p>Move people to change while making them feel that they are on familiar territory</p>
<p>How to diminish the fear of the unknown</p>
<p>The power of analogy when you want to become the Uber of ...</p>
<p>People forget what you said, yet remember how you made them feel</p>
<p>The importance of allowing listener to fill in some of the blanks</p>
<p>How to rehearse and refine your key stories</p>
<p>The relevance of the back story. Why are you here?</p>
<p>Why old stories are the best</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Graham Brown is the founder of Pikkal & Co, an award winning podcast agency based in Singapore. He has the experience of hosting over 400 episodes on his podcast. He is an author on the subject of The Digital Transformation of Communication. His works include The Human Communication Playbook and The Mobile Youth: Voices of the Connect Generation.</p>
<p>Podcast Guesting Pro is a dedicated Podcast Booking Agency that works with B2B thought leaders. They help you reach new audiences and build your authority by booking you on podcasts to showcase your expertise and spread your message. Learn more here...</p>
<p><a href='https://www.podcastguesting.pro/'>https://www.podcastguesting.pro/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to build your story on the framework of The Christmas Carol and it's not Bah Humbug!
Graham Brown offers analysis, practical insights and artistic encouragement to storytelling in business.
Highlights from this discussion with Graham Brown
Leveraging the power of the journey
Move people to change while making them feel that they are on familiar territory
How to diminish the fear of the unknown
The power of analogy when you want to become the Uber of ...
People forget what you said, yet remember how you made them feel
The importance of allowing listener to fill in some of the blanks
How to rehearse and refine your key stories
The relevance of the back story. Why are you here?
Why old stories are the best
 
Graham Brown is the founder of Pikkal & Co, an award winning podcast agency based in Singapore. He has the experience of hosting over 400 episodes on his podcast. He is an author on the subject of The Digital Transformation of Communication. His works include The Human Communication Playbook and The Mobile Youth: Voices of the Connect Generation.
Podcast Guesting Pro is a dedicated Podcast Booking Agency that works with B2B thought leaders. They help you reach new audiences and build your authority by booking you on podcasts to showcase your expertise and spread your message. Learn more here...
https://www.podcastguesting.pro/
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Leverage your body language to convey more powerful stories
You might have heard that story telling is an effective way to convey your message. However, are you using your body to support your story or might your body be sabotaging your intended message?
<p>Holley Mignosi is a former model, acting coach and fitness coach who appreciates the nuances of body form, posture and movement. She helps speakers coordinate their body language with the power of stories.</p>
Get your free copy of the 15 Hottest Hand Gestures so you can add Sizzle to your presentations.   <a href='https://www.holleymignosi.com/hot15'>https://www.holleymignosi.com/hot15</a>
<p><a href='https://www.holleymignosi.com/hot15'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Listen to her powerful life-changing story. (It starts at 16:59 if you can't wait.)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Insights from this interview with Holley Mignosi:</p>
<ul><li>Your body is communicating 100% of the time, whether you are award of it or not</li>
<li>Athletes and dancers are keenly aware of every movement of their body</li>
<li>Your presentation doesn't start when you start to speak, it starts when you enter the room</li>
<li>We are looking at you and judging based on what we see</li>
<li>Hands are trust triggers; Let people see your hands</li>
<li>Why the underdog story is so powerful and why you need to heal before you tell it</li>
</ul>
<p>The Four Es of Engagement</p>
<ol><li>Expanded Posture</li>
<li>Engaging Eye Contact</li>
<li>Emotional State Control</li>
<li>Echo Technique</li>
</ol><p>The Four Pillars of Charisma</p>
<ol><li>Curiosity</li>
<li>Playfulness</li>
<li>Resilience</li>
<li>Victorious</li>
</ol><p>Learn more about Holley Mignosi and her programs for the Art of Storytelling and Hypnotic Stage Presentations at her website  <a href='https://www.holleymignosi.com/'>https://www.holleymignosi.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Leverage your body language to convey more powerful stories
You might have heard that story telling is an effective way to convey your message. However, are you using your body to support your story or might your body be sabotaging your intended message?
<p>Holley Mignosi is a former model, acting coach and fitness coach who appreciates the nuances of body form, posture and movement. She helps speakers coordinate their body language with the power of stories.</p>
Get your free copy of the 15 Hottest Hand Gestures so you can add Sizzle to your presentations.   <a href='https://www.holleymignosi.com/hot15'>https://www.holleymignosi.com/hot15</a>
<p><a href='https://www.holleymignosi.com/hot15'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Listen to her powerful life-changing story. (It starts at 16:59 if you can't wait.)</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Insights from this interview with Holley Mignosi:</p>
<ul><li>Your body is communicating 100% of the time, whether you are award of it or not</li>
<li>Athletes and dancers are keenly aware of every movement of their body</li>
<li>Your presentation doesn't start when you start to speak, it starts when you enter the room</li>
<li>We are looking at you and judging based on what we see</li>
<li>Hands are trust triggers; Let people see your hands</li>
<li>Why the underdog story is so powerful and why you need to heal before you tell it</li>
</ul>
<p>The Four Es of Engagement</p>
<ol><li>Expanded Posture</li>
<li>Engaging Eye Contact</li>
<li>Emotional State Control</li>
<li>Echo Technique</li>
</ol><p>The Four Pillars of Charisma</p>
<ol><li>Curiosity</li>
<li>Playfulness</li>
<li>Resilience</li>
<li>Victorious</li>
</ol><p>Learn more about Holley Mignosi and her programs for the Art of Storytelling and Hypnotic Stage Presentations at her website  <a href='https://www.holleymignosi.com/'>https://www.holleymignosi.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Leverage your body language to convey more powerful stories
You might have heard that story telling is an effective way to convey your message. However, are you using your body to support your story or might your body be sabotaging your intended message?
Holley Mignosi is a former model, acting coach and fitness coach who appreciates the nuances of body form, posture and movement. She helps speakers coordinate their body language with the power of stories.
Get your free copy of the 15 Hottest Hand Gestures so you can add Sizzle to your presentations.   https://www.holleymignosi.com/hot15

 
Listen to her powerful life-changing story. (It starts at 16:59 if you can't wait.)
 
Insights from this interview with Holley Mignosi:
Your body is communicating 100% of the time, whether you are award of it or not
Athletes and dancers are keenly aware of every movement of their body
Your presentation doesn't start when you start to speak, it starts when you enter the room
We are looking at you and judging based on what we see
Hands are trust triggers; Let people see your hands
Why the underdog story is so powerful and why you need to heal before you tell it
The Four Es of Engagement
Expanded Posture
Engaging Eye Contact
Emotional State Control
Echo Technique
The Four Pillars of Charisma
Curiosity
Playfulness
Resilience
Victorious
Learn more about Holley Mignosi and her programs for the Art of Storytelling and Hypnotic Stage Presentations at her website  https://www.holleymignosi.com/
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
 
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        <title>66 Peter de Jager, Problem Solving - Where is the Box</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Problem Solving: First we need to see the box
Peter de Jager explores the challenges, beliefs and joys of effective problem solving
<p>Problem solving is a fundamental skill, yet many get it wrong. They approach problem solving like mathematics in their search for the right answer.</p>
<p>Insights from this discussion with Peter de Jager</p>
<ul><li>There is no spoon</li>
<li>Your box might not be my box</li>
<li>There is no one right answer</li>
<li>The problem is not the situation</li>
<li>The problem you see might not be the real problem</li>
<li>The first step is to reassess the situation</li>
<li>Your solution might address the situation while not addressing my problem</li>
<li>The problem might be a matter of perception</li>
</ul>
<p>Peter de Jager has been addressing problem solving and change for more than 40 years. He is an agent of change and champion of problem solving. And yes, his perspective has changed over those decades as he continues to change...</p>
<p>He has produced more than 100 webinars on the topic of change. You can find the library of his webinars here...</p>
<p><a href='https://technobility.online/'>wwwTechnobility.online</a></p>
<p><a href='https://technobility.online/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Fact about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Problem Solving: First we need to see the box
Peter de Jager explores the challenges, beliefs and joys of effective problem solving
<p>Problem solving is a fundamental skill, yet many get it wrong. They approach problem solving like mathematics in their search for the right answer.</p>
<p>Insights from this discussion with Peter de Jager</p>
<ul><li>There is no spoon</li>
<li>Your box might not be my box</li>
<li>There is no one right answer</li>
<li>The problem is not the situation</li>
<li>The problem you see might not be the real problem</li>
<li>The first step is to reassess the situation</li>
<li>Your solution might address the situation while not addressing my problem</li>
<li>The problem might be a matter of perception</li>
</ul>
<p>Peter de Jager has been addressing problem solving and change for more than 40 years. He is an agent of change and champion of problem solving. And yes, his perspective has changed over those decades as he continues to change...</p>
<p>He has produced more than 100 webinars on the topic of change. You can find the library of his webinars here...</p>
<p><a href='https://technobility.online/'>wwwTechnobility.online</a></p>
<p><a href='https://technobility.online/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Fact about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Problem Solving: First we need to see the box
Peter de Jager explores the challenges, beliefs and joys of effective problem solving
Problem solving is a fundamental skill, yet many get it wrong. They approach problem solving like mathematics in their search for the right answer.
Insights from this discussion with Peter de Jager
There is no spoon
Your box might not be my box
There is no one right answer
The problem is not the situation
The problem you see might not be the real problem
The first step is to reassess the situation
Your solution might address the situation while not addressing my problem
The problem might be a matter of perception
Peter de Jager has been addressing problem solving and change for more than 40 years. He is an agent of change and champion of problem solving. And yes, his perspective has changed over those decades as he continues to change...
He has produced more than 100 webinars on the topic of change. You can find the library of his webinars here...
wwwTechnobility.online

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----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Fact about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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        <title>65 John Wilson, Boost employee engagement</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Employee engagement is at all-time lows. Why and what can you do about it?
John Wilson examines the crisis of low employee engagement.
<p>Insights</p>
<p>Every employee has the right to a good leader.</p>
<p>Bad leaders make bad bosses.</p>
<p>Better employee engagement is a competitive advantage.</p>
<p>Who owns the responsibility for employee engagement. (Hint, it's not HR.)</p>
<p>What does low engagement cost the organization?</p>
<p>How does low engagement effect mental health?</p>
<p>What is the CEO disease?</p>
John Wilson is the founder and CEO of <a href='https://ceoglobalnetwork.com/'>CEO Global Network</a>. 
<p>This is where  CEOs go to learn from other successful CEOs.</p>
<p>CEO Global Network is on a mission to significantly improve the success and lives of CEOs and executives, their families and their companies.</p>
<p>Learn more about CEO Global Network by clicking on the logo.</p>
<p><a href='https://ceoglobalnetwork.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Fact about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Employee engagement is at all-time lows. Why and what can you do about it?
John Wilson examines the crisis of low employee engagement.
<p>Insights</p>
<p>Every employee has the right to a good leader.</p>
<p>Bad leaders make bad bosses.</p>
<p>Better employee engagement is a competitive advantage.</p>
<p>Who owns the responsibility for employee engagement. (Hint, it's not HR.)</p>
<p>What does low engagement cost the organization?</p>
<p>How does low engagement effect mental health?</p>
<p>What is the CEO disease?</p>
John Wilson is the founder and CEO of <a href='https://ceoglobalnetwork.com/'>CEO Global Network</a>. 
<p>This is where  CEOs go to learn from other successful CEOs.</p>
<p>CEO Global Network is on a mission to significantly improve the success and lives of CEOs and executives, their families and their companies.</p>
<p><em>Learn more about CEO Global Network by clicking on the logo.</em></p>
<p><a href='https://ceoglobalnetwork.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Fact about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Employee engagement is at all-time lows. Why and what can you do about it?
John Wilson examines the crisis of low employee engagement.
Insights
Every employee has the right to a good leader.
Bad leaders make bad bosses.
Better employee engagement is a competitive advantage.
Who owns the responsibility for employee engagement. (Hint, it's not HR.)
What does low engagement cost the organization?
How does low engagement effect mental health?
What is the CEO disease?
John Wilson is the founder and CEO of CEO Global Network. 
This is where  CEOs go to learn from other successful CEOs.
CEO Global Network is on a mission to significantly improve the success and lives of CEOs and executives, their families and their companies.
Learn more about CEO Global Network by clicking on the logo.

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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Fact about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
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        <title>64 Kristin Arnold, Speak and Shine on Panels</title>
        <itunes:title>64 Kristin Arnold, Speak and Shine on Panels</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How can you leverage panels to spread your message and enhance your image as an expert?
Do you speak as a panel guest or panel moderator? Would you like to deliver a more effective and professional image while providing a message of value to the audience?
<p>Join Kristin Arnold as we examine:</p>
<p>How to prepare for the panel?</p>
<p>How to deliver soundbites?</p>
<p>How to say less while conveying more?</p>
<p>How to generate more panel opportunities?</p>
<p>How to create a more interesting and engaging experience?</p>
Kristin Arnold is a professional meeting facilitator and leading authority on moderating panel discussions. She is the author of six books including, "123 Ways to Add Pizzazz to a Panel Discussion"
<p> </p>
<p><a href='http://www.PanelPizzazz.com'></a></p>
<p>Learn more about the book here <a href='http://www.PanelPizzazz.com'>www.PanelPizzazz.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Fact about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How can you leverage panels to spread your message and enhance your image as an expert?
Do you speak as a panel guest or panel moderator? Would you like to deliver a more effective and professional image while providing a message of value to the audience?
<p>Join Kristin Arnold as we examine:</p>
<p>How to prepare for the panel?</p>
<p>How to deliver soundbites?</p>
<p>How to say less while conveying more?</p>
<p>How to generate more panel opportunities?</p>
<p>How to create a more interesting and engaging experience?</p>
Kristin Arnold is a professional meeting facilitator and leading authority on moderating panel discussions. She is the author of six books including, "123 Ways to Add Pizzazz to a Panel Discussion"
<p> </p>
<p><a href='http://www.PanelPizzazz.com'></a></p>
<p>Learn more about the book here <a href='http://www.PanelPizzazz.com'>www.PanelPizzazz.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Fact about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How can you leverage panels to spread your message and enhance your image as an expert?
Do you speak as a panel guest or panel moderator? Would you like to deliver a more effective and professional image while providing a message of value to the audience?
Join Kristin Arnold as we examine:
How to prepare for the panel?
How to deliver soundbites?
How to say less while conveying more?
How to generate more panel opportunities?
How to create a more interesting and engaging experience?
Kristin Arnold is a professional meeting facilitator and leading authority on moderating panel discussions. She is the author of six books including, "123 Ways to Add Pizzazz to a Panel Discussion"
 

Learn more about the book here www.PanelPizzazz.com
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----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Fact about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
 
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        <title>63 Jason Voiovich, Blending Story  Telling, Marketing and History</title>
        <itunes:title>63 Jason Voiovich, Blending Story  Telling, Marketing and History</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA["Your Intended Message is Your Intended Story"
Effective marketing is based on telling powerful stories. You can create powerful stories when based on lessons from history.
<p>Jason Voiovich Is a marketer and story teller who studies the lessons of history.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Insights from this conversation</p>
<p>History doesn't repeat itself but it does rhyme.</p>
<p>Gain a competitive story telling edge from history lessons</p>
<p>Stories build on minimal facts - then additional facts are added to fill in the gaps</p>
<p>Why did each of the four participants in the War of 1812 tell a different story?</p>
<p>The story contains a hero, villain and conflict</p>
<p>Abraham Lincoln was an excellent story teller and joke teller</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Over 25 years, Jason Voiovich has launched hundreds of new products. His success as a marketer is based on his power of observation of people and history. He studied the presidents of the United States from the perspective as Marketer in Chief and published his findings in his book, Marketer In Chief.</p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>You can find his book at all the usual book distributers and learn more at this website </p>
<p><a href='https://marketerinchief.com/'>https://marketerinchief.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA["Your Intended Message is Your Intended Story"
Effective marketing is based on telling powerful stories. You can create powerful stories when based on lessons from history.
<p>Jason Voiovich Is a marketer and story teller who studies the lessons of history.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Insights from this conversation</p>
<p>History doesn't repeat itself but it does rhyme.</p>
<p>Gain a competitive story telling edge from history lessons</p>
<p>Stories build on minimal facts - then additional facts are added to fill in the gaps</p>
<p>Why did each of the four participants in the War of 1812 tell a different story?</p>
<p>The story contains a hero, villain and conflict</p>
<p>Abraham Lincoln was an excellent story teller and joke teller</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Over 25 years, Jason Voiovich has launched hundreds of new products. His success as a marketer is based on his power of observation of people and history. He studied the presidents of the United States from the perspective as Marketer in Chief and published his findings in his book, Marketer In Chief.</p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>You can find his book at all the usual book distributers and learn more at this website </p>
<p><a href='https://marketerinchief.com/'>https://marketerinchief.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA["Your Intended Message is Your Intended Story"
Effective marketing is based on telling powerful stories. You can create powerful stories when based on lessons from history.
Jason Voiovich Is a marketer and story teller who studies the lessons of history.
 
Insights from this conversation
History doesn't repeat itself but it does rhyme.
Gain a competitive story telling edge from history lessons
Stories build on minimal facts - then additional facts are added to fill in the gaps
Why did each of the four participants in the War of 1812 tell a different story?
The story contains a hero, villain and conflict
Abraham Lincoln was an excellent story teller and joke teller
 
Over 25 years, Jason Voiovich has launched hundreds of new products. His success as a marketer is based on his power of observation of people and history. He studied the presidents of the United States from the perspective as Marketer in Chief and published his findings in his book, Marketer In Chief.

 
You can find his book at all the usual book distributers and learn more at this website 
https://marketerinchief.com/
-----
----more----
 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills
 
 
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        <title>62 Mark Brown, Business Story Telling</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Enhance your Business Message with story telling
How might you use stories more easily and effectively in you business messages. That might be in a team meeting, a sales presentation, or a leadership presentation.
Mark Brown is the 1995 Toastmasters World Champion of Public Speaking
<p>He conveyed powerful stories in that presentation. He continues to help speakers, presenters and leaders deliver more effective messages through the power of story.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Insights from this conversation with Mark Brown</p>
<p>How to find your stories? Look at the photos on your phone.</p>
<p>What amazed you? What amused you? What moved you?</p>
<p>Authenticity plus Vulnerability = Credibility</p>
<p>The common connects</p>
<p>Stories mirror our lives</p>
<p>Stories add meaning to your corporate message</p>
<p>Look for the humanity behind the numbers</p>
<p>Stories convert data into three dimensional meaning</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Mark Brown offers speech and presentation coaching for leaders. Learn more about his coaching programs here:</p>
<p><a href='https://markbrownspeaks.com/executive-coaching/'>https://markbrownspeaks.com/executive-coaching/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Enhance your Business Message with story telling
How might you use stories more easily and effectively in you business messages. That might be in a team meeting, a sales presentation, or a leadership presentation.
Mark Brown is the 1995 Toastmasters World Champion of Public Speaking
<p>He conveyed powerful stories in that presentation. He continues to help speakers, presenters and leaders deliver more effective messages through the power of story.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Insights from this conversation with Mark Brown</p>
<p>How to find your stories? Look at the photos on your phone.</p>
<p>What amazed you? What amused you? What moved you?</p>
<p>Authenticity plus Vulnerability = Credibility</p>
<p>The common connects</p>
<p>Stories mirror our lives</p>
<p>Stories add meaning to your corporate message</p>
<p>Look for the humanity behind the numbers</p>
<p>Stories convert data into three dimensional meaning</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Mark Brown offers speech and presentation coaching for leaders. Learn more about his coaching programs here:</p>
<p><a href='https://markbrownspeaks.com/executive-coaching/'>https://markbrownspeaks.com/executive-coaching/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Enhance your Business Message with story telling
How might you use stories more easily and effectively in you business messages. That might be in a team meeting, a sales presentation, or a leadership presentation.
Mark Brown is the 1995 Toastmasters World Champion of Public Speaking
He conveyed powerful stories in that presentation. He continues to help speakers, presenters and leaders deliver more effective messages through the power of story.

Insights from this conversation with Mark Brown
How to find your stories? Look at the photos on your phone.
What amazed you? What amused you? What moved you?
Authenticity plus Vulnerability = Credibility
The common connects
Stories mirror our lives
Stories add meaning to your corporate message
Look for the humanity behind the numbers
Stories convert data into three dimensional meaning
 
Mark Brown offers speech and presentation coaching for leaders. Learn more about his coaching programs here:
https://markbrownspeaks.com/executive-coaching/
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
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        <title>61 Lisa Barry, Misson Led Content</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Marketing can be ethical.
Lisa Barry explores the use of Mission Led Content. 
<p>When you market with honesty, transparency and integrity - you attract your ideal customers that reflect your values. They are easier to serve and you feel better about helping them.</p>
<p>There's no need to SPAM, lie or be manipulative to attract business. Produce marketing messages that reveal your values to attract the right business.</p>
<p>Before you write your marketing copy, start by getting into the right mindset. one that focuses on your mission and sees the ripple effect.</p>
<p>What is the ripple effect? Listen in to hear how your actions create ripples across the market and community.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Lisa Barry helps small business owners create effective marketing content that reflects honest, transparency and integrity.</p>
Learn more about the online program that offers support for your ongoing marketing needs at
<p><a href='https://www.lisabarryonline.com/mlc365/'>https://www.lisabarryonline.com/mlc365/</a></p>
<p>Try it for the first month. It's free. Then decide to continue for a monthly fee.</p>
<p>If you ever needed a boost when writing your marketing content, this program will do that for you - every month.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Marketing can be ethical.
Lisa Barry explores the use of Mission Led Content. 
<p>When you market with honesty, transparency and integrity - you attract your ideal customers that reflect your values. They are easier to serve and you feel better about helping them.</p>
<p>There's no need to SPAM, lie or be manipulative to attract business. Produce marketing messages that reveal your values to attract the right business.</p>
<p>Before you write your marketing copy, start by getting into the right mindset. one that focuses on your mission and sees the ripple effect.</p>
<p>What is the ripple effect? Listen in to hear how your actions create ripples across the market and community.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Lisa Barry helps small business owners create effective marketing content that reflects honest, transparency and integrity.</p>
Learn more about the online program that offers support for your ongoing marketing needs at
<p><a href='https://www.lisabarryonline.com/mlc365/'>https://www.lisabarryonline.com/mlc365/</a></p>
<p>Try it for the first month. It's free. Then decide to continue for a monthly fee.</p>
<p>If you ever needed a boost when writing your marketing content, this program will do that for you - every month.</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Marketing can be ethical.
Lisa Barry explores the use of Mission Led Content. 
When you market with honesty, transparency and integrity - you attract your ideal customers that reflect your values. They are easier to serve and you feel better about helping them.
There's no need to SPAM, lie or be manipulative to attract business. Produce marketing messages that reveal your values to attract the right business.
Before you write your marketing copy, start by getting into the right mindset. one that focuses on your mission and sees the ripple effect.
What is the ripple effect? Listen in to hear how your actions create ripples across the market and community.

Lisa Barry helps small business owners create effective marketing content that reflects honest, transparency and integrity.
Learn more about the online program that offers support for your ongoing marketing needs at
https://www.lisabarryonline.com/mlc365/
Try it for the first month. It's free. Then decide to continue for a monthly fee.
If you ever needed a boost when writing your marketing content, this program will do that for you - every month.
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
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                                    <description><![CDATA[What is your personal brand? How do you know? How can you define it?
Lesley Everett, author of Walking Tall, reveals insights about personal branding that you might want to know now.
<p>Personal Brand</p>
<ul><li>Why might that be important to your success?</li>
<li>What do people say when you leave the room?</li>
<li>How can you take more control of your personal brand?</li>
<li>Why is it critical to be consistent and authentic?</li>
<li>Why do you need to show vulnerability?</li>
<li>What is the Espresso effect?</li>
<li>Insights from a conversation with Richard Branson.</li>
</ul>
<p></p>
<p>Learn more about Walking Tall and the programs from Lesley Everett.</p>
<p><a href='https://walkingtall.org/'>https://walkingtall.org/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Review or register for the online programs for Personal Branding </p>
<p><a href='https://walkingtalltraining.square.site/'>https://walkingtalltraining.square.site/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[What is your personal brand? How do you know? How can you define it?
Lesley Everett, author of Walking Tall, reveals insights about personal branding that you might want to know now.
<p>Personal Brand</p>
<ul><li>Why might that be important to your success?</li>
<li>What do people say when you leave the room?</li>
<li>How can you take more control of your personal brand?</li>
<li>Why is it critical to be consistent and authentic?</li>
<li>Why do you need to show vulnerability?</li>
<li>What is the Espresso effect?</li>
<li>Insights from a conversation with Richard Branson.</li>
</ul>
<p></p>
<p>Learn more about Walking Tall and the programs from Lesley Everett.</p>
<p><a href='https://walkingtall.org/'>https://walkingtall.org/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Review or register for the online programs for Personal Branding </p>
<p><a href='https://walkingtalltraining.square.site/'>https://walkingtalltraining.square.site/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What is your personal brand? How do you know? How can you define it?
Lesley Everett, author of Walking Tall, reveals insights about personal branding that you might want to know now.
Personal Brand
Why might that be important to your success?
What do people say when you leave the room?
How can you take more control of your personal brand?
Why is it critical to be consistent and authentic?
Why do you need to show vulnerability?
What is the Espresso effect?
Insights from a conversation with Richard Branson.

Learn more about Walking Tall and the programs from Lesley Everett.
https://walkingtall.org/
 
Review or register for the online programs for Personal Branding 
https://walkingtalltraining.square.site/
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----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
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        <title>59 Brett Halliday, Building a strong and enduring team</title>
        <itunes:title>59 Brett Halliday, Building a strong and enduring team</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Recruiting, Retaining and Enumeration - the keys to building and sustaining a strong team
Brett Halliday discusses his experience in growing his career and building a national retail organization from 12 to 86 locations.
<p>What are the keys to building a strong national retail organization?</p>
<p>How best to address the typical retail challenges of high turnover and low pay? (Do you think the two might be related?)</p>
<p>The important role of individual coaching and training.</p>
<p>How to highlight the opportunity for career growth.</p>
<p>How might customers' experience help you attract new team members.</p>
<p>The importance of transparency with enumeration.</p>
<p>Provide access to two levels above.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>The career path for Brett Halliday crossed 27 years with Michael Hill Jeweller - starting in Australia and leading to Canada.</p>
<p> </p>
Brett Halliday is available to help ambitious retail business looking for growth, expansion and rapid increase in sales. You can contact him at the website...
<p><a href='https://www.froggo.ca/'>https://www.froggo.ca/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Recruiting, Retaining and Enumeration - the keys to building and sustaining a strong team
Brett Halliday discusses his experience in growing his career and building a national retail organization from 12 to 86 locations.
<p>What are the keys to building a strong national retail organization?</p>
<p>How best to address the typical retail challenges of high turnover and low pay? (Do you think the two might be related?)</p>
<p>The important role of individual coaching and training.</p>
<p>How to highlight the opportunity for career growth.</p>
<p>How might customers' experience help you attract new team members.</p>
<p>The importance of transparency with enumeration.</p>
<p>Provide access to two levels above.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>The career path for Brett Halliday crossed 27 years with Michael Hill Jeweller - starting in Australia and leading to Canada.</p>
<p> </p>
Brett Halliday is available to help ambitious retail business looking for growth, expansion and rapid increase in sales. You can contact him at the website...
<p><a href='https://www.froggo.ca/'>https://www.froggo.ca/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Recruiting, Retaining and Enumeration - the keys to building and sustaining a strong team
Brett Halliday discusses his experience in growing his career and building a national retail organization from 12 to 86 locations.
What are the keys to building a strong national retail organization?
How best to address the typical retail challenges of high turnover and low pay? (Do you think the two might be related?)
The important role of individual coaching and training.
How to highlight the opportunity for career growth.
How might customers' experience help you attract new team members.
The importance of transparency with enumeration.
Provide access to two levels above.
 
The career path for Brett Halliday crossed 27 years with Michael Hill Jeweller - starting in Australia and leading to Canada.
 
Brett Halliday is available to help ambitious retail business looking for growth, expansion and rapid increase in sales. You can contact him at the website...
https://www.froggo.ca/

-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
 
 
 
 
 
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        <itunes:block>No</itunes:block>
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                <itunes:episode>59</itunes:episode>
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        <title>58 Marilyn Gist, Power of Leader Humility</title>
        <itunes:title>58 Marilyn Gist, Power of Leader Humility</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Leader Humility - Feeling and displaying a deep regard for others' dignity
When you are the leader, the team is observing and judging you. These three silent questions come to mind.
<ol><li>Who are you?</li>
<li>Where are we going?</li>
<li>Do you see me?</li>
</ol><p></p>
<p>The six behaviors of a leader with humility:</p>
<ol><li>Balanced ego</li>
<li>Robust integrity</li>
<li>Compelling vision</li>
<li>Ethical strategies</li>
<li>Generous inclusion</li>
<li>Helping people develop</li>
</ol><p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Marilyn Gist is a recognized expert who augments direct leadership experience in business with deep academic credentials.  She has served as Professor of Management, and Executive Director of university leadership programs.</p>
<p>She has studied why leader humility is the essential foundation of all healthy organizations and validated her work with interviews of prominent CEOs of companies including the Mayo Clinic, Ford, Starbucks and Costco. </p>
<p>The Extraordinary Power of Leader Humility (available on Amazon, Barnes and Noble, and other book retailers)</p>
<p>Take the free Assessment Tests on Leader HumilityYou can take these on their own and receive confidential, instant results.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.marilyngist.com/leader-humility-assessment-tools'>https://www.marilyngist.com/leader-humility-assessment-tools</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Learn more about the Master Class: Leader Humility: The Essence of Working Together</p>
<p><a href='https://www.marilyngist.com/a-master-class'>https://www.marilyngist.com/a-master-class</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Leader Humility - Feeling and displaying a deep regard for others' dignity
When you are the leader, the team is observing and judging you. These three silent questions come to mind.
<ol><li>Who are you?</li>
<li>Where are we going?</li>
<li>Do you see me?</li>
</ol><p></p>
<p>The six behaviors of a leader with humility:</p>
<ol><li>Balanced ego</li>
<li>Robust integrity</li>
<li>Compelling vision</li>
<li>Ethical strategies</li>
<li>Generous inclusion</li>
<li>Helping people develop</li>
</ol><p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Marilyn Gist is a recognized expert who augments direct leadership experience in business with deep academic credentials.  She has served as Professor of Management, and Executive Director of university leadership programs.</p>
<p>She has studied why leader humility is the essential foundation of all healthy organizations and validated her work with interviews of prominent CEOs of companies including the Mayo Clinic, Ford, Starbucks and Costco. </p>
<p>The Extraordinary Power of Leader Humility (available on Amazon, Barnes and Noble, and other book retailers)</p>
<p>Take the free Assessment Tests on Leader HumilityYou can take these on their own and receive confidential, instant results.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.marilyngist.com/leader-humility-assessment-tools'>https://www.marilyngist.com/leader-humility-assessment-tools</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Learn more about the Master Class: Leader Humility: The Essence of Working Together</p>
<p><a href='https://www.marilyngist.com/a-master-class'>https://www.marilyngist.com/a-master-class</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Leader Humility - Feeling and displaying a deep regard for others' dignity
When you are the leader, the team is observing and judging you. These three silent questions come to mind.
Who are you?
Where are we going?
Do you see me?

The six behaviors of a leader with humility:
Balanced ego
Robust integrity
Compelling vision
Ethical strategies
Generous inclusion
Helping people develop

 
Marilyn Gist is a recognized expert who augments direct leadership experience in business with deep academic credentials.  She has served as Professor of Management, and Executive Director of university leadership programs.
She has studied why leader humility is the essential foundation of all healthy organizations and validated her work with interviews of prominent CEOs of companies including the Mayo Clinic, Ford, Starbucks and Costco. 
The Extraordinary Power of Leader Humility (available on Amazon, Barnes and Noble, and other book retailers)
Take the free Assessment Tests on Leader HumilityYou can take these on their own and receive confidential, instant results.
https://www.marilyngist.com/leader-humility-assessment-tools
 
Learn more about the Master Class: Leader Humility: The Essence of Working Together
https://www.marilyngist.com/a-master-class
-----
 
 
 
 
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                <itunes:episode>58</itunes:episode>
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        <title>57 Hugh Coppen, communication lessons from nature</title>
        <itunes:title>57 Hugh Coppen, communication lessons from nature</itunes:title>
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                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/57-hugh-coppen-communication-lessons-from-nature/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Wed, 25 Aug 2021 11:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[What can we learn from nature to improve our communication skills?
<p>Nature communicates effectively across species and yet we humans seem to have lost some of that natural understanding. What might an immersion in the African wildlife teach us about effective communication skills?</p>
Hugh Coppen leads safaris into the African wildlife of Zimbabwe.  
<p></p>
<p>See the gallery of fabulous photos here <a href='https://www.tasimba.com/photo-gallery/'>https://www.tasimba.com/photo-gallery/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this discussion, he offers insights about how African wildlife communicate effectively. What might we learn from studying their communication challenges and techniques?</p>
<p>The three primary communication methods for animals:</p>
<ol><li>Body Language</li>
<li>Scent</li>
<li>Listening</li>
</ol><p>Why are elephants the great communicators?</p>
<p>Did you know that elephants have a private communication channel?</p>
<p>How do you hug an elephant?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>What are the primary lessons we can take from Hugh's observations?</p>
<p>Ironic that one of them is the power of listening. Be sure to listen to this conversation with Hugh Coppen.</p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Learn more about this African wildlife adventure <a href='https://www.tasimba.com/'>https://www.tasimba.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[What can we learn from nature to improve our communication skills?
<p>Nature communicates effectively across species and yet we humans seem to have lost some of that natural understanding. What might an immersion in the African wildlife teach us about effective communication skills?</p>
Hugh Coppen leads safaris into the African wildlife of Zimbabwe.  
<p></p>
<p>See the gallery of fabulous photos here <a href='https://www.tasimba.com/photo-gallery/'>https://www.tasimba.com/photo-gallery/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>In this discussion, he offers insights about how African wildlife communicate effectively. What might we learn from studying their communication challenges and techniques?</p>
<p>The three primary communication methods for animals:</p>
<ol><li>Body Language</li>
<li>Scent</li>
<li>Listening</li>
</ol><p>Why are elephants the great communicators?</p>
<p>Did you know that elephants have a private communication channel?</p>
<p>How do you hug an elephant?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>What are the primary lessons we can take from Hugh's observations?</p>
<p>Ironic that one of them is the power of listening. Be sure to listen to this conversation with Hugh Coppen.</p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Learn more about this African wildlife adventure <a href='https://www.tasimba.com/'>https://www.tasimba.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What can we learn from nature to improve our communication skills?
Nature communicates effectively across species and yet we humans seem to have lost some of that natural understanding. What might an immersion in the African wildlife teach us about effective communication skills?
Hugh Coppen leads safaris into the African wildlife of Zimbabwe.  

See the gallery of fabulous photos here https://www.tasimba.com/photo-gallery/
 
In this discussion, he offers insights about how African wildlife communicate effectively. What might we learn from studying their communication challenges and techniques?
The three primary communication methods for animals:
Body Language
Scent
Listening
Why are elephants the great communicators?
Did you know that elephants have a private communication channel?
How do you hug an elephant?
 
What are the primary lessons we can take from Hugh's observations?
Ironic that one of them is the power of listening. Be sure to listen to this conversation with Hugh Coppen.

 
Learn more about this African wildlife adventure https://www.tasimba.com/
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
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        <itunes:block>No</itunes:block>
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                <itunes:episode>57</itunes:episode>
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        <title>56 Robert Gignac, The Money Conversations</title>
        <itunes:title>56 Robert Gignac, The Money Conversations</itunes:title>
        <link>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/56-robert-gignac-the-money-conversations/</link>
                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/56-robert-gignac-the-money-conversations/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Thu, 19 Aug 2021 11:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[What are the three big money conversations with your family?
Robert Gignac points out the importance of these conversations, the pitfalls and offers advice on how to approach them and the people.
<p>The three family money conversations are:</p>
<ol><li>Parent to young child to set life lessons</li>
<li>Partner to partner - especially early in the relationship</li>
<li>Adult child to elderly parent about safety and security</li>
</ol><p>What makes money conversations so emotional?</p>
<p>The lost lessons of the piggy bank?</p>
<p>How might money be used as a weapon in a relationship?</p>
<p>Where does money come from?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Robert Gignac is the author of the Canadian best-seller "Rich is a State of Mind" available only at <a href='https://richisastateofmind.com/order/'>https://richisastateofmind.com/order/ </a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://richisastateofmind.com/order/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Robert Gignac speaks to companies, associations and groups about personal finance, doing better/different things with your money and creating the future you want.</p>
<p>Learn more about Robert and his programs here</p>
<p><a href='https://robertgignac.com/'>https://robertgignac.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[What are the three big money conversations with your family?
Robert Gignac points out the importance of these conversations, the pitfalls and offers advice on how to approach them and the people.
<p><em>The three family money conversations are:</em></p>
<ol><li>Parent to young child to set life lessons</li>
<li>Partner to partner - especially early in the relationship</li>
<li>Adult child to elderly parent about safety and security</li>
</ol><p>What makes money conversations so emotional?</p>
<p>The lost lessons of the piggy bank?</p>
<p>How might money be used as a weapon in a relationship?</p>
<p>Where does money come from?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Robert Gignac is the author of the Canadian best-seller "Rich is a State of Mind" available only at <a href='https://richisastateofmind.com/order/'>https://richisastateofmind.com/order/ </a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://richisastateofmind.com/order/'></a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Robert Gignac speaks to companies, associations and groups about personal finance, doing better/different things with your money and creating the future you want.</p>
<p>Learn more about Robert and his programs here</p>
<p><a href='https://robertgignac.com/'>https://robertgignac.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></content:encoded>
                                    
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What are the three big money conversations with your family?
Robert Gignac points out the importance of these conversations, the pitfalls and offers advice on how to approach them and the people.
The three family money conversations are:
Parent to young child to set life lessons
Partner to partner - especially early in the relationship
Adult child to elderly parent about safety and security
What makes money conversations so emotional?
The lost lessons of the piggy bank?
How might money be used as a weapon in a relationship?
Where does money come from?
-----
Robert Gignac is the author of the Canadian best-seller "Rich is a State of Mind" available only at https://richisastateofmind.com/order/ 
 

 
Robert Gignac speaks to companies, associations and groups about personal finance, doing better/different things with your money and creating the future you want.
Learn more about Robert and his programs here
https://robertgignac.com/
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
 
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        <title>55 Ed Rush, F-18 pilot, Business Growth Consultant</title>
        <itunes:title>55 Ed Rush, F-18 pilot, Business Growth Consultant</itunes:title>
        <link>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/55-ed-rush-f-18-pilot/</link>
                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/55-ed-rush-f-18-pilot/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Thu, 12 Aug 2021 10:09:12 -0400</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[What can flying a F-18 fighter from the deck of a carrier teach you about building a better business?
Ed Rush reveals the challenges, fears, lessons and nuances of flying faster than the speed of sound - and how he translates those into building blocks for a healthy business.
<p>What is it important to fail fast and move on?</p>
<p>What looks smooth is an illusion.</p>
<p>What are the three stages of screwing up?</p>
<p>Why is it important to push conscious thinking to the subconscious?</p>
<p>When does perceived value transform to real value and why is that significant?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>  </p>
<p>Ed Rush was a F-18 pilot who flew over 50 combat missions. He served as one of the top instructors on aerial dog fighting (think Top Gun). He is a 5 time bestselling author.</p>
<p>He helps business become more profitable based on his life lessons.</p>
<p>Learn more about Ed Rush and his programs at <a href='https://edrush.com/'>https://edrush.com/</a></p>
<p>Learn about the book here <a href='http://www.EdRushBook.com'>www.EdRushBook.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[What can flying a F-18 fighter from the deck of a carrier teach you about building a better business?
Ed Rush reveals the challenges, fears, lessons and nuances of flying faster than the speed of sound - and how he translates those into building blocks for a healthy business.
<p>What is it important to fail fast and move on?</p>
<p>What looks smooth is an illusion.</p>
<p>What are the three stages of screwing up?</p>
<p>Why is it important to push conscious thinking to the subconscious?</p>
<p>When does perceived value transform to real value and why is that significant?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>  </p>
<p>Ed Rush was a F-18 pilot who flew over 50 combat missions. He served as one of the top instructors on aerial dog fighting (think Top Gun). He is a 5 time bestselling author.</p>
<p>He helps business become more profitable based on his life lessons.</p>
<p>Learn more about Ed Rush and his programs at <a href='https://edrush.com/'>https://edrush.com/</a></p>
<p>Learn about the book here <a href='http://www.EdRushBook.com'>www.EdRushBook.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What can flying a F-18 fighter from the deck of a carrier teach you about building a better business?
Ed Rush reveals the challenges, fears, lessons and nuances of flying faster than the speed of sound - and how he translates those into building blocks for a healthy business.
What is it important to fail fast and move on?
What looks smooth is an illusion.
What are the three stages of screwing up?
Why is it important to push conscious thinking to the subconscious?
When does perceived value transform to real value and why is that significant?
 
  
Ed Rush was a F-18 pilot who flew over 50 combat missions. He served as one of the top instructors on aerial dog fighting (think Top Gun). He is a 5 time bestselling author.
He helps business become more profitable based on his life lessons.
Learn more about Ed Rush and his programs at https://edrush.com/
Learn about the book here www.EdRushBook.com
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
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        <title>54 Lee Kitchen, Innovation &amp; Creativity</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Lee Kitchen aka the Magical Dude is also called; Innovation Catalyst, Design Thinking Trainer and Culture-Change Agent
<ul><li>What is the process to innovation and creative problem solving?</li>
<li>What is design thinking and how to apply it?</li>
<li>How to cultivate fresh thinking?</li>
<li>Why is empathy important to this process of change?</li>
</ul>
<p>We explore the process and nuances of innovation, creative problem solving and design thinking. We explore the advice that Mickey Mouse might offer.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Lee Kitchen worked at Disney for 32 years. His journey started in Operations & Guest Relations, then moved through Special Events, PR, Marketing and Advertising. </p>
<p>Currently offering his experience as an Innovation Catalyst via his company, Magical Dude Consulting. Visit his website here <a href='https://www.magicaldude.com/'>https://www.magicaldude.com/</a></p>
<p>You can arrange for a keynote for your conference, training workshops for your team or consulting for your strategic needs.</p>
<p>Lee Kitchen is also a streamer with two programs, Inspiration in a Box and Beats-Party-Magic on</p>
<p><a href='https://www.twitch.tv/leebeexlt'>https://www.twitch.tv/leebeexlt</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Lee Kitchen aka the Magical Dude is also called; Innovation Catalyst, Design Thinking Trainer and Culture-Change Agent
<ul><li>What is the process to innovation and creative problem solving?</li>
<li>What is design thinking and how to apply it?</li>
<li>How to cultivate fresh thinking?</li>
<li>Why is empathy important to this process of change?</li>
</ul>
<p>We explore the process and nuances of innovation, creative problem solving and design thinking. We explore the advice that Mickey Mouse might offer.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Lee Kitchen worked at Disney for 32 years. His journey started in Operations & Guest Relations, then moved through Special Events, PR, Marketing and Advertising. </p>
<p>Currently offering his experience as an Innovation Catalyst via his company, Magical Dude Consulting. Visit his website here <a href='https://www.magicaldude.com/'>https://www.magicaldude.com/</a></p>
<p>You can arrange for a keynote for your conference, training workshops for your team or consulting for your strategic needs.</p>
<p>Lee Kitchen is also a streamer with two programs, Inspiration in a Box and Beats-Party-Magic on</p>
<p><a href='https://www.twitch.tv/leebeexlt'>https://www.twitch.tv/leebeexlt</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Lee Kitchen aka the Magical Dude is also called; Innovation Catalyst, Design Thinking Trainer and Culture-Change Agent
What is the process to innovation and creative problem solving?
What is design thinking and how to apply it?
How to cultivate fresh thinking?
Why is empathy important to this process of change?
We explore the process and nuances of innovation, creative problem solving and design thinking. We explore the advice that Mickey Mouse might offer.

Lee Kitchen worked at Disney for 32 years. His journey started in Operations & Guest Relations, then moved through Special Events, PR, Marketing and Advertising. 
Currently offering his experience as an Innovation Catalyst via his company, Magical Dude Consulting. Visit his website here https://www.magicaldude.com/
You can arrange for a keynote for your conference, training workshops for your team or consulting for your strategic needs.
Lee Kitchen is also a streamer with two programs, Inspiration in a Box and Beats-Party-Magic on
https://www.twitch.tv/leebeexlt
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----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
 
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        <title>53 George O'Neill, Communicate with your Board</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to communicate with your board of directors.
George O'Neill examines communication with, from and within a board. What are the roles and responsibilities of the CEO, board chair and board members?
<ul><li>As CEO, how might you establish a positive working relationship with your board?</li>
<li>What information does the board need?</li>
<li>What challenges might a CEO encounter and how best to address them?</li>
<li>How might the board clarify focus?</li>
<li>Why should the board chair be "nose in and fingers out"?</li>
</ul>
<p>When you are a board member:</p>
<ul><li>How can you be better qualified to join a board?</li>
<li>What are your true responsibilities?</li>
</ul>
<p>What are the key differences between for-profit and non-profit boards?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p></p>
<p>George O'Neill started his career as an aerospace engineer and worked his way through roles as management consultant, CEO and board director positions.</p>
<p>He has experience in both public and private sector technology focused companies while working helping manage the CEO-Board relationship.</p>
<p>George O'Neill is partner in, Revalio.com, a start-up company focused on aiding the residential real estate experience for home seller and sellers.</p>
<p>For instant home evaluation visit <a href='https://revalio.com/'>https://revalio.com/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to communicate with your board of directors.
George O'Neill examines communication with, from and within a board. What are the roles and responsibilities of the CEO, board chair and board members?
<ul><li>As CEO, how might you establish a positive working relationship with your board?</li>
<li>What information does the board need?</li>
<li>What challenges might a CEO encounter and how best to address them?</li>
<li>How might the board clarify focus?</li>
<li>Why should the board chair be "nose in and fingers out"?</li>
</ul>
<p>When you are a board member:</p>
<ul><li>How can you be better qualified to join a board?</li>
<li>What are your true responsibilities?</li>
</ul>
<p>What are the key differences between for-profit and non-profit boards?</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p></p>
<p>George O'Neill started his career as an aerospace engineer and worked his way through roles as management consultant, CEO and board director positions.</p>
<p>He has experience in both public and private sector technology focused companies while working helping manage the CEO-Board relationship.</p>
<p>George O'Neill is partner in, Revalio.com, a start-up company focused on aiding the residential real estate experience for home seller and sellers.</p>
<p>For instant home evaluation visit <a href='https://revalio.com/'>https://revalio.com/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to communicate with your board of directors.
George O'Neill examines communication with, from and within a board. What are the roles and responsibilities of the CEO, board chair and board members?
As CEO, how might you establish a positive working relationship with your board?
What information does the board need?
What challenges might a CEO encounter and how best to address them?
How might the board clarify focus?
Why should the board chair be "nose in and fingers out"?
When you are a board member:
How can you be better qualified to join a board?
What are your true responsibilities?
What are the key differences between for-profit and non-profit boards?
-----

George O'Neill started his career as an aerospace engineer and worked his way through roles as management consultant, CEO and board director positions.
He has experience in both public and private sector technology focused companies while working helping manage the CEO-Board relationship.
George O'Neill is partner in, Revalio.com, a start-up company focused on aiding the residential real estate experience for home seller and sellers.
For instant home evaluation visit https://revalio.com/

-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
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        <title>52 Fred Miller, No Sweat Public Speaking</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[No Sweat Public Speaking and No Sweat Elevator Speech - tips from Fred Miller
<p>In this fun and engaging conversation we explore how to approach the networking question, "So what do you do?"</p>
<p>We highlight communication and presentation challenges and your choices to convey your message effectively.</p>
<p>Better communications skills can make the difference between receiving more recognition and opportunities - or being shunted to the back room, away from the action.</p>
<p> </p>
<ul><li>What are the sticky spots and why do you need to practice them more?</li>
<li>What are the guidelines for practising your presentation?</li>
<li>What four ways should you review the video of your presentation?</li>
<li>Why are the opening and the close so important to your message?</li>
<li>Why perfect presentation isn't the goal and what is?</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Fred Miller is a speaker and public speaking coach. He;s the author of the No Sweat series.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Learn more about Fred Miller and his programs at his site  <a href='https://nosweatpublicspeaking.com/'>https://nosweatpublicspeaking.com/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[No Sweat Public Speaking and No Sweat Elevator Speech - tips from Fred Miller
<p>In this fun and engaging conversation we explore how to approach the networking question, "So what do you do?"</p>
<p>We highlight communication and presentation challenges and your choices to convey your message effectively.</p>
<p>Better communications skills can make the difference between receiving more recognition and opportunities - or being shunted to the back room, away from the action.</p>
<p> </p>
<ul><li>What are the sticky spots and why do you need to practice them more?</li>
<li>What are the guidelines for practising your presentation?</li>
<li>What four ways should you review the video of your presentation?</li>
<li>Why are the opening and the close so important to your message?</li>
<li>Why perfect presentation isn't the goal and what is?</li>
</ul>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Fred Miller is a speaker and public speaking coach. He;s the author of the No Sweat series.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Learn more about Fred Miller and his programs at his site  <a href='https://nosweatpublicspeaking.com/'>https://nosweatpublicspeaking.com/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[No Sweat Public Speaking and No Sweat Elevator Speech - tips from Fred Miller
In this fun and engaging conversation we explore how to approach the networking question, "So what do you do?"
We highlight communication and presentation challenges and your choices to convey your message effectively.
Better communications skills can make the difference between receiving more recognition and opportunities - or being shunted to the back room, away from the action.
 
What are the sticky spots and why do you need to practice them more?
What are the guidelines for practising your presentation?
What four ways should you review the video of your presentation?
Why are the opening and the close so important to your message?
Why perfect presentation isn't the goal and what is?
-----
Fred Miller is a speaker and public speaking coach. He;s the author of the No Sweat series.

Learn more about Fred Miller and his programs at his site  https://nosweatpublicspeaking.com/

-----
----more----
 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
 
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        <title>51 John Watkis, The musical principles of pubic speaking</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[What can public speakers learn from music?
What key principles of music would help you deliver a superior speech?
John Watkis is a professional public speaker, singer, musician and Lion King performer. What lessons does he offer to  make your presentation, speech or talk more effective?
 You don't need to be a singer or musician to learn from these principles and techniques to improve your presentations.
<p>How might a speaker follow the principles and leverage the techniques of mood, chorus and rhythm?</p>
<p>How can you take advantage of the powerful pause?</p>
<p>How can you tune your instrument?</p>
<p>What lessons can you take from practising scales?</p>
<p></p>
<p>To learn more about High Stakes Performance Connects - contact John Watkis by email at <a href='mailto:john@johnwatkis.com'>john@johnwatkis.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[What can public speakers learn from music?
What key principles of music would help you deliver a superior speech?
John Watkis is a professional public speaker, singer, musician and Lion King performer. What lessons does he offer to  make your presentation, speech or talk more effective?
 You don't need to be a singer or musician to learn from these principles and techniques to improve your presentations.
<p>How might a speaker follow the principles and leverage the techniques of mood, chorus and rhythm?</p>
<p>How can you take advantage of the powerful pause?</p>
<p>How can you tune your instrument?</p>
<p>What lessons can you take from practising scales?</p>
<p></p>
<p>To learn more about High Stakes Performance Connects - contact John Watkis by email at <a href='mailto:john@johnwatkis.com'>john@johnwatkis.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What can public speakers learn from music?
What key principles of music would help you deliver a superior speech?
John Watkis is a professional public speaker, singer, musician and Lion King performer. What lessons does he offer to  make your presentation, speech or talk more effective?
 You don't need to be a singer or musician to learn from these principles and techniques to improve your presentations.
How might a speaker follow the principles and leverage the techniques of mood, chorus and rhythm?
How can you take advantage of the powerful pause?
How can you tune your instrument?
What lessons can you take from practising scales?

To learn more about High Stakes Performance Connects - contact John Watkis by email at john@johnwatkis.com
 
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[When was the last time you examined or edited your bio?
Nancy Juetten offers a refreshing perspective and valuable insights about the importance of a well written biography, (bio).
<p>Consider these relevant questions:</p>
<ul><li>What does your bio (really) say about you?</li>
<li>What is the purpose of your bio?</li>
<li>How do you know if it's working?</li>
<li>What are red flags that you want to avoid?</li>
<li>Where might you publish your bio and why must it adapt to the platform and purpose?</li>
</ul>
<p>Do you want your bio to help you:</p>
<ol><li>Encourage new contacts on Linkedin?</li>
<li>Invite prospects to contact you?</li>
<li>Solicit media interviews?</li>
<li>Develop speaking engagements?</li>
</ol><p>Are you clearly addressing the focus questions of What, Who and Wow?</p>
<p></p>
Nancy Juetten is the author of "Bye Bye Boring Bio", a workbook to help you transform your bio into a powerful marketing statement for you and the value you offer to your market.
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two Free Gifts from Nancy Juetten</p>
<p>Preview of Bye Bye Boring Bio: <a href='https://njuetten.lpages.co/your-2020-bye-bye-boring-bio-preview/'>https://njuetten.lpages.co/your-2020-bye-bye-boring-bio-preview/</a></p>
<p>Media one sheet gift template: <a href='https://njuetten.lpages.co/media-one-sheet-template/'>https://njuetten.lpages.co/media-one-sheet-template/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[When was the last time you examined or edited your bio?
Nancy Juetten offers a refreshing perspective and valuable insights about the importance of a well written biography, (bio).
<p>Consider these relevant questions:</p>
<ul><li>What does your bio (really) say about you?</li>
<li>What is the purpose of your bio?</li>
<li>How do you know if it's working?</li>
<li>What are red flags that you want to avoid?</li>
<li>Where might you publish your bio and why must it adapt to the platform and purpose?</li>
</ul>
<p>Do you want your bio to help you:</p>
<ol><li>Encourage new contacts on Linkedin?</li>
<li>Invite prospects to contact you?</li>
<li>Solicit media interviews?</li>
<li>Develop speaking engagements?</li>
</ol><p>Are you clearly addressing the focus questions of What, Who and Wow?</p>
<p></p>
Nancy Juetten is the author of "Bye Bye Boring Bio", a workbook to help you transform your bio into a powerful marketing statement for you and the value you offer to your market.
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Two Free Gifts from Nancy Juetten</p>
<p>Preview of Bye Bye Boring Bio: <a href='https://njuetten.lpages.co/your-2020-bye-bye-boring-bio-preview/'>https://njuetten.lpages.co/your-2020-bye-bye-boring-bio-preview/</a></p>
<p>Media one sheet gift template: <a href='https://njuetten.lpages.co/media-one-sheet-template/'>https://njuetten.lpages.co/media-one-sheet-template/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[When was the last time you examined or edited your bio?
Nancy Juetten offers a refreshing perspective and valuable insights about the importance of a well written biography, (bio).
Consider these relevant questions:
What does your bio (really) say about you?
What is the purpose of your bio?
How do you know if it's working?
What are red flags that you want to avoid?
Where might you publish your bio and why must it adapt to the platform and purpose?
Do you want your bio to help you:
Encourage new contacts on Linkedin?
Invite prospects to contact you?
Solicit media interviews?
Develop speaking engagements?
Are you clearly addressing the focus questions of What, Who and Wow?

Nancy Juetten is the author of "Bye Bye Boring Bio", a workbook to help you transform your bio into a powerful marketing statement for you and the value you offer to your market.

 
Two Free Gifts from Nancy Juetten
Preview of Bye Bye Boring Bio: https://njuetten.lpages.co/your-2020-bye-bye-boring-bio-preview/
Media one sheet gift template: https://njuetten.lpages.co/media-one-sheet-template/
 
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----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[The New Normal involves Serious Change
<ul><li>
Are we simply moving from chaos to new chaos?
</li>
<li>
Why will the new normal not really be normal?
</li>
<li>
Why so we often resist change?
</li>
<li>
How can we manage the change more effectively?
</li>
<li>
What steps can we take to ease the friction of change?
</li>
<li>
What messages must leaders be sending?
</li>
</ul>
<p></p>
<p>Peter de Jager, is a specialist and speaker on Change Management with 35 years of international experience. You can visit his online library of resources for managers at <a href='https://technobility.online/'>https://technobility.online/</a></p>
<p>There are over 100 webinars at this site. You can explore as much as you want, free for one month. Then decide if you want more. You can also register for the monthly webinars.</p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>You can listen to Peter de Jager's podcast, Y2K: An Autobiography on iTunes and other podcast apps.</p>
<p><a href='https://yy2k.podbean.com/'>https://yy2k.podbean.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[The New Normal involves Serious Change
<ul><li>
Are we simply moving from chaos to new chaos?
</li>
<li>
Why will the new normal not really be normal?
</li>
<li>
Why so we often resist change?
</li>
<li>
How can we manage the change more effectively?
</li>
<li>
What steps can we take to ease the friction of change?
</li>
<li>
What messages must leaders be sending?
</li>
</ul>
<p></p>
<p>Peter de Jager, is a specialist and speaker on Change Management with 35 years of international experience. You can visit his online library of resources for managers at <a href='https://technobility.online/'>https://technobility.online/</a></p>
<p>There are over 100 webinars at this site. You can explore as much as you want, free for one month. Then decide if you want more. You can also register for the monthly webinars.</p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>You can listen to Peter de Jager's podcast, Y2K: An Autobiography on iTunes and other podcast apps.</p>
<p><a href='https://yy2k.podbean.com/'>https://yy2k.podbean.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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Are we simply moving from chaos to new chaos?


Why will the new normal not really be normal?


Why so we often resist change?


How can we manage the change more effectively?


What steps can we take to ease the friction of change?


What messages must leaders be sending?


Peter de Jager, is a specialist and speaker on Change Management with 35 years of international experience. You can visit his online library of resources for managers at https://technobility.online/
There are over 100 webinars at this site. You can explore as much as you want, free for one month. Then decide if you want more. You can also register for the monthly webinars.
 

 
You can listen to Peter de Jager's podcast, Y2K: An Autobiography on iTunes and other podcast apps.
https://yy2k.podbean.com/
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Creating Personal Presence with Dianna Booher
<p>It might be difficult to describe, yet you probably recognize it when you see it. You also know when its missing. This thing we call presence is more important to our success in our career and as a leader.</p>
<p>Dianna Booher describes four buckets that compose leadership presence.</p>
<p>1. How you appear (sets first impressions)</p>
<p>2. How you speak - voice, word choice</p>
<p>3. How you think - logic, clarity, organized messages</p>
<p>4. Other - includes your values, personality, competence, commitment</p>
<p>      </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Of these four buckets, you'll notice that the first three can be learned and are simply how you express the most important bucket, number 4.</p>
<p>What does it really mean when you're told to polish your communication skills?</p>
<p>What steps can you take to start enhancing your personal presence now?</p>
<p>Why might it be important for a leader to write a real book?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Dianna Booher is the author of 49 books - all published by major US publishers also available in 62 foreign editions.</p>
<p>As a communication consultant and presentation coach, her clients include one-third of the Fortune 500.</p>
<p>Dianna hosts Booher Book Camps where she helps professionals develop their own bestsellers to get there "intended message" out into the world.</p>
<p>Learn more here <a href='https://booherresearch.com/booher-book-camp/'>BooherBookCamp.com </a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Creating Personal Presence with Dianna Booher
<p>It might be difficult to describe, yet you probably recognize it when you see it. You also know when its missing. This thing we call presence is more important to our success in our career and as a leader.</p>
<p>Dianna Booher describes four buckets that compose leadership presence.</p>
<p>1. How you appear (sets first impressions)</p>
<p>2. How you speak - voice, word choice</p>
<p>3. How you think - logic, clarity, organized messages</p>
<p>4. Other - includes your values, personality, competence, commitment</p>
<p>      </p>
<p> </p>
<p>Of these four buckets, you'll notice that the first three can be learned and are simply how you express the most important bucket, number 4.</p>
<p>What does it really mean when you're told to polish your communication skills?</p>
<p>What steps can you take to start enhancing your personal presence now?</p>
<p>Why might it be important for a leader to write a real book?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Dianna Booher is the author of 49 books - all published by major US publishers also available in 62 foreign editions.</p>
<p>As a communication consultant and presentation coach, her clients include one-third of the Fortune 500.</p>
<p>Dianna hosts Booher Book Camps where she helps professionals develop their own bestsellers to get there "intended message" out into the world.</p>
<p>Learn more here <a href='https://booherresearch.com/booher-book-camp/'>BooherBookCamp.com </a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Creating Personal Presence with Dianna Booher
It might be difficult to describe, yet you probably recognize it when you see it. You also know when its missing. This thing we call presence is more important to our success in our career and as a leader.
Dianna Booher describes four buckets that compose leadership presence.
1. How you appear (sets first impressions)
2. How you speak - voice, word choice
3. How you think - logic, clarity, organized messages
4. Other - includes your values, personality, competence, commitment
      
 
Of these four buckets, you'll notice that the first three can be learned and are simply how you express the most important bucket, number 4.
What does it really mean when you're told to polish your communication skills?
What steps can you take to start enhancing your personal presence now?
Why might it be important for a leader to write a real book?
 
Dianna Booher is the author of 49 books - all published by major US publishers also available in 62 foreign editions.
As a communication consultant and presentation coach, her clients include one-third of the Fortune 500.
Dianna hosts Booher Book Camps where she helps professionals develop their own bestsellers to get there "intended message" out into the world.
Learn more here BooherBookCamp.com 
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
 
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        <title>47 Elsewine Rietveld, Confidence and Presence</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[What's the most common challenge with public speaking?
What's the biggest challenge with speaking on camera?
The answer to both questions is the same - it's the discomfort, anxiety and feeling inadequate.
<p>What might you do to feel more comfortable and more confident when speaking - especially on camera?</p>
<p>That's the question that this podcast conversation will address with author, Elsewine Reitveld, as our guest.</p>
<p>What can you learn from the martial arts or meditation to calm yourself when speaking?</p>
<p>If you could only change one aspect of your live and on-camera presentations - what would that be?</p>
<p>The most common answer that I hear is - "I want to feel more comfortable and confidence".</p>
<p>That's why you should listen to this conversation with Elsewine Reitveld.</p>
<p><a href='https://getcomfortableoncamerabook.com/'></a></p>
<p><a href='https://getcomfortableoncamerabook.com/'>Get Comfortable on Camera </a>- you can get your copy of this book to boost your on-camera experience and success.</p>
<p><a href='https://getcomfortableoncamerabook.com/'>https://getcomfortableoncamerabook.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[What's the most common challenge with public speaking?
What's the biggest challenge with speaking on camera?
The answer to both questions is the same - it's the discomfort, anxiety and feeling inadequate.
<p>What might you do to feel more comfortable and more confident when speaking - especially on camera?</p>
<p>That's the question that this podcast conversation will address with author, Elsewine Reitveld, as our guest.</p>
<p>What can you learn from the martial arts or meditation to calm yourself when speaking?</p>
<p>If you could only change one aspect of your live and on-camera presentations - what would that be?</p>
<p>The most common answer that I hear is - "I want to feel more comfortable and confidence".</p>
<p>That's why you should listen to this conversation with Elsewine Reitveld.</p>
<p><a href='https://getcomfortableoncamerabook.com/'></a></p>
<p><a href='https://getcomfortableoncamerabook.com/'>Get Comfortable on Camera </a>- you can get your copy of this book to boost your on-camera experience and success.</p>
<p><a href='https://getcomfortableoncamerabook.com/'>https://getcomfortableoncamerabook.com/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What's the most common challenge with public speaking?
What's the biggest challenge with speaking on camera?
The answer to both questions is the same - it's the discomfort, anxiety and feeling inadequate.
What might you do to feel more comfortable and more confident when speaking - especially on camera?
That's the question that this podcast conversation will address with author, Elsewine Reitveld, as our guest.
What can you learn from the martial arts or meditation to calm yourself when speaking?
If you could only change one aspect of your live and on-camera presentations - what would that be?
The most common answer that I hear is - "I want to feel more comfortable and confidence".
That's why you should listen to this conversation with Elsewine Reitveld.

Get Comfortable on Camera - you can get your copy of this book to boost your on-camera experience and success.
https://getcomfortableoncamerabook.com/
-----
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How Painful are your Meetings. Want to make them more productive and less tiring?
<p>In this discussion with Caterina Kostoula, she reveals practical insights and ideas to:</p>
<ol><li>Avoid the common mistakes of painful meetings</li>
<li>How to better clarify the purpose of your meeting</li>
<li>Why you need to identify the different types of meetings</li>
<li>Invite the right people to meetings</li>
<li>Understand the danger of too many attendees</li>
<li>A better way to frame your agenda</li>
<li>Why the first agenda item is important</li>
<li>How to encourage more inclusion and participation</li>
</ol><p>Want to stimulate creative thinking and harvest more creative ideas? You'll be excited to hear these ideas.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Caterina Kostoula is the author of Hold Success Meetings.</p>
<p>She worked as a global business leader for Google in London, England for 8 years. </p>
<p>You can rate your meetings with this simple (free) quiz at <a href='http://www.theleaderpath.com/quiz'>www.theleaderpath.com/quiz</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How Painful are your Meetings. Want to make them more productive and less tiring?
<p>In this discussion with Caterina Kostoula, she reveals practical insights and ideas to:</p>
<ol><li>Avoid the common mistakes of painful meetings</li>
<li>How to better clarify the purpose of your meeting</li>
<li>Why you need to identify the different types of meetings</li>
<li>Invite the right people to meetings</li>
<li>Understand the danger of too many attendees</li>
<li>A better way to frame your agenda</li>
<li>Why the first agenda item is important</li>
<li>How to encourage more inclusion and participation</li>
</ol><p>Want to stimulate creative thinking and harvest more creative ideas? You'll be excited to hear these ideas.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Caterina Kostoula is the author of Hold Success Meetings.</p>
<p>She worked as a global business leader for Google in London, England for 8 years. </p>
<p>You can rate your meetings with this simple (free) quiz at <a href='http://www.theleaderpath.com/quiz'>www.theleaderpath.com/quiz</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How Painful are your Meetings. Want to make them more productive and less tiring?
In this discussion with Caterina Kostoula, she reveals practical insights and ideas to:
Avoid the common mistakes of painful meetings
How to better clarify the purpose of your meeting
Why you need to identify the different types of meetings
Invite the right people to meetings
Understand the danger of too many attendees
A better way to frame your agenda
Why the first agenda item is important
How to encourage more inclusion and participation
Want to stimulate creative thinking and harvest more creative ideas? You'll be excited to hear these ideas.
 
Caterina Kostoula is the author of Hold Success Meetings.
She worked as a global business leader for Google in London, England for 8 years. 
You can rate your meetings with this simple (free) quiz at www.theleaderpath.com/quiz

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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Trust, the foundation of every business or personal relationship
<p>Yoram Solomon explores the...</p>
<ul><li>8 Laws of Trust</li>
<li>6 Components of trustworthiness</li>
<li>Impact of clear communication</li>
<li>Role of constructive disagreement</li>
<li>Responsibilities of the leader and the team</li>
<li>Impact on buying decisions</li>
</ul>
<p>How might we establish and nurture trust?</p>
<p>How do we tend to measure trustworthiness?</p>
<p>How might our words and body language damage trust?</p>
<p>How much more could you charge for your services when you have a strong relationship of trust with the buyer?</p>
<p>What role does trust play if you want a culture of innovation?</p>
Yoram Solomon is the author of The Book of Trust, plus 7 other books.
<p></p>
<p>Check the special resources page for listeners of Your Intended Message at <a href='https://www.yoramsolomon.com/yourintendedmessage'>https://www.yoramsolomon.com/yourintendedmessage</a></p>
<p>You'll find free tips lists, links to his books plus a coupon for 25% off the online courses.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.yoramsolomon.com/yourintendedmessage'>https://www.yoramsolomon.com/yourintendedmessage</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p>   </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Trust, the foundation of every business or personal relationship
<p>Yoram Solomon explores the...</p>
<ul><li>8 Laws of Trust</li>
<li>6 Components of trustworthiness</li>
<li>Impact of clear communication</li>
<li>Role of constructive disagreement</li>
<li>Responsibilities of the leader and the team</li>
<li>Impact on buying decisions</li>
</ul>
<p>How might we establish and nurture trust?</p>
<p>How do we tend to measure trustworthiness?</p>
<p>How might our words and body language damage trust?</p>
<p>How much more could you charge for your services when you have a strong relationship of trust with the buyer?</p>
<p>What role does trust play if you want a culture of innovation?</p>
Yoram Solomon is the author of The Book of Trust, plus 7 other books.
<p></p>
<p>Check the special resources page for listeners of Your Intended Message at <a href='https://www.yoramsolomon.com/yourintendedmessage'>https://www.yoramsolomon.com/yourintendedmessage</a></p>
<p>You'll find free tips lists, links to his books plus a coupon for 25% off the online courses.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.yoramsolomon.com/yourintendedmessage'>https://www.yoramsolomon.com/yourintendedmessage</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p>   </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Trust, the foundation of every business or personal relationship
Yoram Solomon explores the...
8 Laws of Trust
6 Components of trustworthiness
Impact of clear communication
Role of constructive disagreement
Responsibilities of the leader and the team
Impact on buying decisions
How might we establish and nurture trust?
How do we tend to measure trustworthiness?
How might our words and body language damage trust?
How much more could you charge for your services when you have a strong relationship of trust with the buyer?
What role does trust play if you want a culture of innovation?
Yoram Solomon is the author of The Book of Trust, plus 7 other books.

Check the special resources page for listeners of Your Intended Message at https://www.yoramsolomon.com/yourintendedmessage
You'll find free tips lists, links to his books plus a coupon for 25% off the online courses.
https://www.yoramsolomon.com/yourintendedmessage
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
   
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        <title>44 Randall Craig, Costs, Risk &amp; Caveats of Social Media</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Is your business wasting time & money on social media?
<p>Randall Craig explores the value, risk and role of social media in your marketing campaign.</p>
<p>Maybe your business should NOT be on social media!</p>
<p>We explore these questions and issues:</p>
<p>How much can you trust social media?</p>
<p>Are you clear on the trust and privacy violations?</p>
<p>Are you transparent and honest with your clients?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Randall Craig is one of Canada's internet pioneers: He put the Toronto Star Online, The Globe and Mail's GlobeInvestor, Workopolis, and over 100 other well known sites online.</p>
<p>He is the author of 8 books, over 600 articles, 36 white papers, all on digital strategy.</p>
<p>Randall helps organizations land their digital strategy, as a speaker, consultant, and leadership coach.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Get your free copy of the white paper - Driving the Client Journey: Relationship Marketing in the Digital World.</p>
<p><a href='http://www.RandallCraig.net/relationship'>www.RandallCraig.net/relationships</a></p>
<p>Learn more about Randall Craig and his services and programs.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.randallcraig.com/'>https://www.randallcraig.com/</a></p>
<p>Listen to the songs from the Musical Esther</p>
<p><a href='https://www.musicalesther.com/'>https://www.musicalesther.com/</a></p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Is your business wasting time & money on social media?
<p>Randall Craig explores the value, risk and role of social media in your marketing campaign.</p>
<p>Maybe your business should NOT be on social media!</p>
<p>We explore these questions and issues:</p>
<p>How much can you trust social media?</p>
<p>Are you clear on the trust and privacy violations?</p>
<p>Are you transparent and honest with your clients?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Randall Craig is one of Canada's internet pioneers: He put the Toronto Star Online, The Globe and Mail's GlobeInvestor, Workopolis, and over 100 other well known sites online.</p>
<p>He is the author of 8 books, over 600 articles, 36 white papers, all on digital strategy.</p>
<p>Randall helps organizations land their digital strategy, as a speaker, consultant, and leadership coach.</p>
<p></p>
<p><em>Get your free copy of the white paper </em>- Driving the Client Journey: Relationship Marketing in the Digital World.</p>
<p><a href='http://www.RandallCraig.net/relationship'>www.RandallCraig.net/relationships</a></p>
<p>Learn more about Randall Craig and his services and programs.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.randallcraig.com/'>https://www.randallcraig.com/</a></p>
<p>Listen to the songs from the Musical Esther</p>
<p><a href='https://www.musicalesther.com/'>https://www.musicalesther.com/</a></p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Is your business wasting time & money on social media?
Randall Craig explores the value, risk and role of social media in your marketing campaign.
Maybe your business should NOT be on social media!
We explore these questions and issues:
How much can you trust social media?
Are you clear on the trust and privacy violations?
Are you transparent and honest with your clients?
 
Randall Craig is one of Canada's internet pioneers: He put the Toronto Star Online, The Globe and Mail's GlobeInvestor, Workopolis, and over 100 other well known sites online.
He is the author of 8 books, over 600 articles, 36 white papers, all on digital strategy.
Randall helps organizations land their digital strategy, as a speaker, consultant, and leadership coach.

Get your free copy of the white paper - Driving the Client Journey: Relationship Marketing in the Digital World.
www.RandallCraig.net/relationships
Learn more about Randall Craig and his services and programs.
https://www.randallcraig.com/
Listen to the songs from the Musical Esther
https://www.musicalesther.com/
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
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        <title>43 James Burchill on Chatter Robots</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Automated Marketing, Chatter Robots, AI, Chat Bots
<ul><li>What's that all about and why might you consider those marketing tools?</li>
<li>What should you be aware of when setting them up?</li>
<li>What happens when bots go wrong?</li>
</ul>
James Burchill works best in the intersection between marketing and technology. You might say that he brings a human side to automation. 
<p>In this conversation - without bots or AI - we have a human to human conversation about...</p>
<ol><li>Managing the repetitive conversations of lead generation</li>
<li>Differentiating between transactions and relationships</li>
<li>Filtering out the tire-kickers</li>
<li>Attracting the serious prospects</li>
<li>Creating and leveraging Therapy Bots</li>
</ol><p>Special offer from James Burchill</p>
<p><a href='http://www.LeaveNoLeadBehind.com'>LeaveNoLeadBehind.com</a></p>
<p>Check out this Free online course to automate your lead followup because what could more important than follow up?</p>
<p>Learn more about James Burchill and his programs here</p>
<p><a href='https://jamesburchill.teachable.com/'>https://jamesburchill.teachable.com/</a></p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Automated Marketing, Chatter Robots, AI, Chat Bots
<ul><li>What's that all about and why might you consider those marketing tools?</li>
<li>What should you be aware of when setting them up?</li>
<li>What happens when bots go wrong?</li>
</ul>
James Burchill works best in the intersection between marketing and technology. You might say that he brings a human side to automation. 
<p>In this conversation - without bots or AI - we have a human to human conversation about...</p>
<ol><li>Managing the repetitive conversations of lead generation</li>
<li>Differentiating between transactions and relationships</li>
<li>Filtering out the tire-kickers</li>
<li>Attracting the serious prospects</li>
<li>Creating and leveraging Therapy Bots</li>
</ol><p>Special offer from James Burchill</p>
<p><a href='http://www.LeaveNoLeadBehind.com'>LeaveNoLeadBehind.com</a></p>
<p>Check out this Free online course to automate your lead followup because what could more important than follow up?</p>
<p>Learn more about James Burchill and his programs here</p>
<p><a href='https://jamesburchill.teachable.com/'>https://jamesburchill.teachable.com/</a></p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Automated Marketing, Chatter Robots, AI, Chat Bots
What's that all about and why might you consider those marketing tools?
What should you be aware of when setting them up?
What happens when bots go wrong?
James Burchill works best in the intersection between marketing and technology. You might say that he brings a human side to automation. 
In this conversation - without bots or AI - we have a human to human conversation about...
Managing the repetitive conversations of lead generation
Differentiating between transactions and relationships
Filtering out the tire-kickers
Attracting the serious prospects
Creating and leveraging Therapy Bots
Special offer from James Burchill
LeaveNoLeadBehind.com
Check out this Free online course to automate your lead followup because what could more important than follow up?
Learn more about James Burchill and his programs here
https://jamesburchill.teachable.com/
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
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                                    <description><![CDATA[<p>The 7 Essential Stories that Charismatic Leaders Tell</p>
<p>Kurian Tharakan offers insights from his book. Before we examine the 7 stories, we first visited the 7 Pillars of Culture because the stories are determined by the culture.</p>
<p>What are the 7 Pillars of Culture and why are they significant for an organization and the resulting stories? Listen in to learn those answers.</p>
<p>What are the connections between religion, stories and marketing?</p>
<p>What are the 7 essential stories that leaders and marketers need to appreciate and repeat?</p>
<p>How do stories effect your sales and marketing efforts and results?</p>
<p>Why is one of the key stories about your customer? How must your story portray the relationship between you and your customer?</p>
<p>What is the damage to your product offering when you don't tell a powerful story?</p>
Be sure to listen and act quickly on the special free offer of his book.
<p>-----</p>
<p>Kurian Mathew Tharakan is the founder of the sales and marketing strategy firm StrategyPeak Sales & Marketing Advisors and a 27-year veteran of the sales and marketing industry. He has consulted for companies in numerous sectors.</p>
<p>Mr. Tharakan is also the author of the Amazon Bestseller, “The 7 Essential Stories Charismatic Leaders Tell,” which details how anyone can move people and mountains with the power of story.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.com/Essential-Stories-Charismatic-Leaders-Tell-ebook/dp/B083JL4D44'>Click to get your copy from Amazon</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.com/Essential-Stories-Charismatic-Leaders-Tell-ebook/dp/B083JL4D44'></a></p>
<p>Learn more about Kurian Tharakan and his marketing services at the website <a href='https://strategypeak.com/'>https://strategypeak.com/</a></p>
<p>Connect with him on Linkedin <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/kuriantharakan/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/kuriantharakan/</a></p>
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The 7 Essential Stories that Charismatic Leaders Tell</p>
<p>Kurian Tharakan offers insights from his book. Before we examine the 7 stories, we first visited the 7 Pillars of Culture because the stories are determined by the culture.</p>
<p>What are the 7 Pillars of Culture and why are they significant for an organization and the resulting stories? Listen in to learn those answers.</p>
<p>What are the connections between religion, stories and marketing?</p>
<p>What are the 7 essential stories that leaders and marketers need to appreciate and repeat?</p>
<p>How do stories effect your sales and marketing efforts and results?</p>
<p>Why is one of the key stories about your customer? How must your story portray the relationship between you and your customer?</p>
<p>What is the damage to your product offering when you don't tell a powerful story?</p>
Be sure to listen and act quickly on the special free offer of his book.
<p>-----</p>
<p>Kurian Mathew Tharakan is the founder of the sales and marketing strategy firm StrategyPeak Sales & Marketing Advisors and a 27-year veteran of the sales and marketing industry. He has consulted for companies in numerous sectors.</p>
<p>Mr. Tharakan is also the author of the Amazon Bestseller, “The 7 Essential Stories Charismatic Leaders Tell,” which details how anyone can move people and mountains with the power of story.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.com/Essential-Stories-Charismatic-Leaders-Tell-ebook/dp/B083JL4D44'>Click to get your copy from Amazon</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.com/Essential-Stories-Charismatic-Leaders-Tell-ebook/dp/B083JL4D44'></a></p>
<p>Learn more about Kurian Tharakan and his marketing services at the website <a href='https://strategypeak.com/'>https://strategypeak.com/</a></p>
<p>Connect with him on Linkedin <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/kuriantharakan/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/kuriantharakan/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The 7 Essential Stories that Charismatic Leaders Tell
Kurian Tharakan offers insights from his book. Before we examine the 7 stories, we first visited the 7 Pillars of Culture because the stories are determined by the culture.
What are the 7 Pillars of Culture and why are they significant for an organization and the resulting stories? Listen in to learn those answers.
What are the connections between religion, stories and marketing?
What are the 7 essential stories that leaders and marketers need to appreciate and repeat?
How do stories effect your sales and marketing efforts and results?
Why is one of the key stories about your customer? How must your story portray the relationship between you and your customer?
What is the damage to your product offering when you don't tell a powerful story?
Be sure to listen and act quickly on the special free offer of his book.
-----
Kurian Mathew Tharakan is the founder of the sales and marketing strategy firm StrategyPeak Sales & Marketing Advisors and a 27-year veteran of the sales and marketing industry. He has consulted for companies in numerous sectors.
Mr. Tharakan is also the author of the Amazon Bestseller, “The 7 Essential Stories Charismatic Leaders Tell,” which details how anyone can move people and mountains with the power of story.
Click to get your copy from Amazon

Learn more about Kurian Tharakan and his marketing services at the website https://strategypeak.com/
Connect with him on Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/kuriantharakan/
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
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        <title>41 Irvine Nugent, Emotional Intelligence</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Why is Emotional Intelligence a critical leadership quality?
Irvine Nugent offers his insights on emotional intelligence including...
<ol><li>How to be more self aware</li>
<li>Tools to manage emotions and hence behavior</li>
<li>How to recognize emotional intelligence in others</li>
<li>Managing relationships</li>
</ol><p>In this interview we explore...</p>
<ul><li>Appreciating the gift of anger</li>
<li>What might be your trigger print?</li>
<li>How can you use the 7-second reset?</li>
<li>Understanding the role of conflict in life and leadership</li>
<li>What can we learn about leadership from Irish pubs?</li>
</ul>
<p></p>
<p>Irvine Nugent has worked extensively with executive and emerging leaders as an executive coach and consultant helping them become more self-aware, manage their emotions, read the emotions of others and
manage their relationships.

Born in Northern Ireland, Irvine brings to his audiences a rich and varied experience. Growing up in a society torn apart by division and violence he has seen first-hand the damage done when communication breaks down and people fail to listen and understand.

Learn more about Irvine Nugent and his services at <a href='http://www.IrvineNugent.com'>www.IrvineNugent.com</a></p>
Review your emotional intelligence and map out the path to develop it more with this free online course - his gift to you.
<p><a href='http://www.IrvineNugent.com/gift'>www.IrvineNugent.com/gift</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Why is Emotional Intelligence a critical leadership quality?
Irvine Nugent offers his insights on emotional intelligence including...
<ol><li>How to be more self aware</li>
<li>Tools to manage emotions and hence behavior</li>
<li>How to recognize emotional intelligence in others</li>
<li>Managing relationships</li>
</ol><p>In this interview we explore...</p>
<ul><li>Appreciating the gift of anger</li>
<li>What might be your trigger print?</li>
<li>How can you use the 7-second reset?</li>
<li>Understanding the role of conflict in life and leadership</li>
<li>What can we learn about leadership from Irish pubs?</li>
</ul>
<p></p>
<p>Irvine Nugent has worked extensively with executive and emerging leaders as an executive coach and consultant helping them become more self-aware, manage their emotions, read the emotions of others and<br>
manage their relationships.<br>
<br>
Born in Northern Ireland, Irvine brings to his audiences a rich and varied experience. Growing up in a society torn apart by division and violence he has seen first-hand the damage done when communication breaks down and people fail to listen and understand.<br>
<br>
Learn more about Irvine Nugent and his services at <a href='http://www.IrvineNugent.com'>www.IrvineNugent.com</a></p>
Review your emotional intelligence and map out the path to develop it more with this free online course - his gift to you.
<p><a href='http://www.IrvineNugent.com/gift'>www.IrvineNugent.com/gift</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why is Emotional Intelligence a critical leadership quality?
Irvine Nugent offers his insights on emotional intelligence including...
How to be more self aware
Tools to manage emotions and hence behavior
How to recognize emotional intelligence in others
Managing relationships
In this interview we explore...
Appreciating the gift of anger
What might be your trigger print?
How can you use the 7-second reset?
Understanding the role of conflict in life and leadership
What can we learn about leadership from Irish pubs?

Irvine Nugent has worked extensively with executive and emerging leaders as an executive coach and consultant helping them become more self-aware, manage their emotions, read the emotions of others andmanage their relationships.Born in Northern Ireland, Irvine brings to his audiences a rich and varied experience. Growing up in a society torn apart by division and violence he has seen first-hand the damage done when communication breaks down and people fail to listen and understand.Learn more about Irvine Nugent and his services at www.IrvineNugent.com
Review your emotional intelligence and map out the path to develop it more with this free online course - his gift to you.
www.IrvineNugent.com/gift
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
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        <title>40 Dave Bricker, Story Sailing</title>
        <itunes:title>40 Dave Bricker, Story Sailing</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Stories are about people.
Make your story a metaphor for your listener's story.
<p>Advice from Dave Bricker, story teller, ocean sailor blender of both experiences for his audiences and clients.</p>
<p>Dave Bricker is a story teller. He tells and performs stories to deliver his messages to audiences. He helps presenters and speakers prepare and deliver their stories for impact.</p>
<p>Stories move people from conflict to transformation.</p>
<p>Stories provide meaning to the facts and figures.</p>
<p>Everyone is on a journey and stories are about that journey.</p>
<p>You want your listeners to think, "What happened next?"</p>
<p></p>
<p>Learn more about Dave Bricker and his story telling programs at <a href='https://storysailing.com/'>StorySailing,com</a></p>
<p>Discover the 52 Speaking Blunders and what to do about them</p>
<p><a href='http://52speakingblunders.com/'>52SpeakingBlunders.com</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Stories are about people.
Make your story a metaphor for your listener's story.
<p>Advice from Dave Bricker, story teller, ocean sailor blender of both experiences for his audiences and clients.</p>
<p>Dave Bricker is a story teller. He tells and performs stories to deliver his messages to audiences. He helps presenters and speakers prepare and deliver their stories for impact.</p>
<p>Stories move people from conflict to transformation.</p>
<p>Stories provide meaning to the facts and figures.</p>
<p>Everyone is on a journey and stories are about that journey.</p>
<p>You want your listeners to think, "What happened next?"</p>
<p></p>
<p>Learn more about Dave Bricker and his story telling programs at <a href='https://storysailing.com/'>StorySailing,com</a></p>
<p>Discover the 52 Speaking Blunders and what to do about them</p>
<p><a href='http://52speakingblunders.com/'>52SpeakingBlunders.com</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Stories are about people.
Make your story a metaphor for your listener's story.
Advice from Dave Bricker, story teller, ocean sailor blender of both experiences for his audiences and clients.
Dave Bricker is a story teller. He tells and performs stories to deliver his messages to audiences. He helps presenters and speakers prepare and deliver their stories for impact.
Stories move people from conflict to transformation.
Stories provide meaning to the facts and figures.
Everyone is on a journey and stories are about that journey.
You want your listeners to think, "What happened next?"

Learn more about Dave Bricker and his story telling programs at StorySailing,com
Discover the 52 Speaking Blunders and what to do about them
52SpeakingBlunders.com

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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
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        <title>39 Sarah McVanel, Chief Recognition Officer</title>
        <itunes:title>39 Sarah McVanel, Chief Recognition Officer</itunes:title>
        <link>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/39-sarah-mcvanel-chief-recognition-officer/</link>
                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/39-sarah-mcvanel-chief-recognition-officer/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Thu, 22 Apr 2021 15:58:25 -0400</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Chief Recognition Officer - who holds that responsibility on your team?
Sarah McVanel is known as Canada's Recognition Expert
<p>How important is it to be recognized?</p>
<p>Why should you recognized your team?</p>
<p>What happens when people don't feel recognized?</p>
<p>What does it mean recognize a person?</p>
<p>What behaviours do you want to recognize?</p>
<p>How can you recognize your team more consistently?</p>
<p></p>
<p>Learn more about Sarah McVanel, her programs and free resources at her website</p>
<p><a href='https://greatnessmagnified.com/'>https://greatnessmagnified.com/</a></p>
<p>Be sure to check out the Cool Stuff</p>
<p><a href='https://greatnessmagnified.com/cool-stuff/'>https://greatnessmagnified.com/cool-stuff/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Chief Recognition Officer - who holds that responsibility on your team?
Sarah McVanel is known as Canada's Recognition Expert
<p>How important is it to be recognized?</p>
<p>Why should you recognized your team?</p>
<p>What happens when people don't feel recognized?</p>
<p>What does it mean recognize a person?</p>
<p>What behaviours do you want to recognize?</p>
<p>How can you recognize your team more consistently?</p>
<p></p>
<p>Learn more about Sarah McVanel, her programs and free resources at her website</p>
<p><a href='https://greatnessmagnified.com/'>https://greatnessmagnified.com/</a></p>
<p>Be sure to check out the Cool Stuff</p>
<p><a href='https://greatnessmagnified.com/cool-stuff/'>https://greatnessmagnified.com/cool-stuff/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Chief Recognition Officer - who holds that responsibility on your team?
Sarah McVanel is known as Canada's Recognition Expert
How important is it to be recognized?
Why should you recognized your team?
What happens when people don't feel recognized?
What does it mean recognize a person?
What behaviours do you want to recognize?
How can you recognize your team more consistently?

Learn more about Sarah McVanel, her programs and free resources at her website
https://greatnessmagnified.com/
Be sure to check out the Cool Stuff
https://greatnessmagnified.com/cool-stuff/
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
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        <title>38 Michael Solomon, Author of Consumer Behavior: Buying, Having &amp; Being</title>
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                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/38-michael-solomon-author-of-consumer-behavior-buying-having-being/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2021 14:36:56 -0400</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[We don't buy brands for what they do. We buy for what they mean to us.
Michael Solomon examines what influences why we buy.
<ul><li>Attributes vs. Benefits</li>
<li>Rational vs. Irrational</li>
<li>What vs. Why</li>
</ul>
How to market during a crisis?
<ul><li>What needs to stay the same?</li>
<li>What needs to change?</li>
<li>What stories do brands need to convey?</li>
<li>What roles do relationships play?</li>
<li>How do you address markets of one?</li>
</ul>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.com/New-Chameleons-Connect-Consumers-Categorization-ebook/dp/B08PQ2B8XH/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=the+new+chameleons&qid=1607611137&sr=8-1'></a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.com/New-Chameleons-Connect-Consumers-Categorization-ebook/dp/B08PQ2B8XH/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=the+new+chameleons&qid=1607611137&sr=8-1'>The New Chameleons</a></p>
<p>Consumers are changing but the marketing categories used to identify them have not. Engage with this new generation of consumers who increasingly take for granted that products and advertising will blend their multiple brand identities rather than market to them as a specific subculture.</p>
<p>Michael Solomon “wrote the book” on understanding consumers.  Literally. Hundreds of thousands of business students have learned about Marketing from his books including Consumer Behavior: Buying, Having, and Being -- the most widely used book on the subject in the world.  </p>
    
 
Learn more about Michael Solomon, his books and services at the website
<a href='https://www.michaelsolomon.com/'>https://www.michaelsolomon.com/</a>
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>

<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[We don't buy brands for what they do. We buy for what they mean to us.
Michael Solomon examines what influences why we buy.
<ul><li>Attributes vs. Benefits</li>
<li>Rational vs. Irrational</li>
<li>What vs. Why</li>
</ul>
How to market during a crisis?
<ul><li>What needs to stay the same?</li>
<li>What needs to change?</li>
<li>What stories do brands need to convey?</li>
<li>What roles do relationships play?</li>
<li>How do you address markets of one?</li>
</ul>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.com/New-Chameleons-Connect-Consumers-Categorization-ebook/dp/B08PQ2B8XH/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=the+new+chameleons&qid=1607611137&sr=8-1'></a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.com/New-Chameleons-Connect-Consumers-Categorization-ebook/dp/B08PQ2B8XH/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=the+new+chameleons&qid=1607611137&sr=8-1'>The New Chameleons</a></p>
<p>Consumers are changing but the marketing categories used to identify them have not. Engage with this new generation of consumers who increasingly take for granted that products and advertising will blend their multiple brand identities rather than market to them as a specific subculture.</p>
<p>Michael Solomon “wrote the book” on understanding consumers.  Literally. Hundreds of thousands of business students have learned about Marketing from his books including Consumer Behavior: Buying, Having, and Being -- the most widely used book on the subject in the world.  </p>
    
 
Learn more about Michael Solomon, his books and services at the website
<a href='https://www.michaelsolomon.com/'>https://www.michaelsolomon.com/</a>
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>

<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[We don't buy brands for what they do. We buy for what they mean to us.
Michael Solomon examines what influences why we buy.
Attributes vs. Benefits
Rational vs. Irrational
What vs. Why
How to market during a crisis?
What needs to stay the same?
What needs to change?
What stories do brands need to convey?
What roles do relationships play?
How do you address markets of one?

The New Chameleons
Consumers are changing but the marketing categories used to identify them have not. Engage with this new generation of consumers who increasingly take for granted that products and advertising will blend their multiple brand identities rather than market to them as a specific subculture.
Michael Solomon “wrote the book” on understanding consumers.  Literally. Hundreds of thousands of business students have learned about Marketing from his books including Consumer Behavior: Buying, Having, and Being -- the most widely used book on the subject in the world.  
    
 
Learn more about Michael Solomon, his books and services at the website
https://www.michaelsolomon.com/
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1

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        <title>37 Denise Brosseau, Thought Leader on Thought Leadership</title>
        <itunes:title>37 Denise Brosseau, Thought Leader on Thought Leadership</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Thought Leadership. How might you recognize it?
Denise Brosseau address these questions about Thought Leadership.
<ol><li>Are you ready to be a Thought Leader?</li>
<li>What does it take to be a Thought Leader?</li>
<li>What's the difference between a Leader and a Thought Leader?</li>
<li>What qualities and tools does a Thought Leader need?</li>
<li>How does Thought Leadership play into career insurance?</li>
</ol>Denise Brosseau on Thought Leadership, 
<p>"I think about it as the difference between a leader and a thought leader, if a leader is often trying to influence or impact the people that they have a direct connection to they manage these folks that work with these folks, they have some sort of relationship with them. Whereas thought leadership is how do we impact those that we have no connection to. How do we get ideas to spread?"</p>
<p>Denise Brosseau is the author of the bestseller, Ready to be a Thought Leader? and is known as a "Thought Leader on Thought Leadership".</p>
<p></p>
<p>You can register for this popular course on Linkedin Learning - <a href='https://linkedin-learning.pxf.io/bK7eb'>Becoming a Thought Leader.</a></p>
<p>Learn more about Denise Brosseau and her programs at the website</p>
<p><a href='https://thoughtleadershiplab.com/'>https://thoughtleadershiplab.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://thoughtleadershiplab.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Thought Leadership. How might you recognize it?
Denise Brosseau address these questions about Thought Leadership.
<ol><li>Are you ready to be a Thought Leader?</li>
<li>What does it take to be a Thought Leader?</li>
<li>What's the difference between a Leader and a Thought Leader?</li>
<li>What qualities and tools does a Thought Leader need?</li>
<li>How does Thought Leadership play into career insurance?</li>
</ol>Denise Brosseau on Thought Leadership, 
<p>"I think about it as the difference between a leader and a thought leader, if a leader is often trying to influence or impact the people that they have a direct connection to they manage these folks that work with these folks, they have some sort of relationship with them. Whereas thought leadership is how do we impact those that we have no connection to. How do we get ideas to spread?"</p>
<p>Denise Brosseau is the author of the bestseller, Ready to be a Thought Leader? and is known as a "Thought Leader on Thought Leadership".</p>
<p></p>
<p>You can register for this popular course on Linkedin Learning - <a href='https://linkedin-learning.pxf.io/bK7eb'>Becoming a Thought Leader.</a></p>
<p>Learn more about Denise Brosseau and her programs at the website</p>
<p><a href='https://thoughtleadershiplab.com/'>https://thoughtleadershiplab.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://thoughtleadershiplab.com/'></a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Thought Leadership. How might you recognize it?
Denise Brosseau address these questions about Thought Leadership.
Are you ready to be a Thought Leader?
What does it take to be a Thought Leader?
What's the difference between a Leader and a Thought Leader?
What qualities and tools does a Thought Leader need?
How does Thought Leadership play into career insurance?
Denise Brosseau on Thought Leadership, 
"I think about it as the difference between a leader and a thought leader, if a leader is often trying to influence or impact the people that they have a direct connection to they manage these folks that work with these folks, they have some sort of relationship with them. Whereas thought leadership is how do we impact those that we have no connection to. How do we get ideas to spread?"
Denise Brosseau is the author of the bestseller, Ready to be a Thought Leader? and is known as a "Thought Leader on Thought Leadership".

You can register for this popular course on Linkedin Learning - Becoming a Thought Leader.
Learn more about Denise Brosseau and her programs at the website
https://thoughtleadershiplab.com/
 

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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
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        <title>36 Lori Baker Schena, Workplace communication</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Workplace communication. How well is your workplace communicating?
<p>Let's explore challenges and best practices. </p>
<p>How can you manage hybrid teams - with people both working at home and in the office?</p>
<p>How important is confidence to effective communication in the workplace?</p>
<p>Are you really listening to the intended and unintended messages that you and others send?</p>
<p>How might you inject some fun into a meeting with the game, "two truths and a lie"?</p>
<p></p>
<p>Dr. Lori Baker-Schena delivers solid, practical leadership advice in an entertaining and fun way – leaving listeners/viewers laughing and learning as they acquire new strategies for moving forward in their careers. Her extensive leadership and university teaching experience, combined with her sense of humor and ability to relate to her audience, inspire participants to inject more positivity, productivity and joy into their personal and professional lives.</p>
<p>You can connect with Lori Baker-Schena at her website</p>
<p><a href='https://www.loribakerschena.com/contact'>https://www.loribakerschena.com/contact</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Workplace communication. How well is your workplace communicating?
<p>Let's explore challenges and best practices. </p>
<p>How can you manage hybrid teams - with people both working at home and in the office?</p>
<p>How important is confidence to effective communication in the workplace?</p>
<p>Are you really listening to the intended and unintended messages that you and others send?</p>
<p>How might you inject some fun into a meeting with the game, "two truths and a lie"?</p>
<p></p>
<p>Dr. Lori Baker-Schena delivers solid, practical leadership advice in an entertaining and fun way – leaving listeners/viewers laughing and learning as they acquire new strategies for moving forward in their careers. Her extensive leadership and university teaching experience, combined with her sense of humor and ability to relate to her audience, inspire participants to inject more positivity, productivity and joy into their personal and professional lives.</p>
<p>You can connect with Lori Baker-Schena at her website</p>
<p><a href='https://www.loribakerschena.com/contact'>https://www.loribakerschena.com/contact</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Workplace communication. How well is your workplace communicating?
Let's explore challenges and best practices. 
How can you manage hybrid teams - with people both working at home and in the office?
How important is confidence to effective communication in the workplace?
Are you really listening to the intended and unintended messages that you and others send?
How might you inject some fun into a meeting with the game, "two truths and a lie"?

Dr. Lori Baker-Schena delivers solid, practical leadership advice in an entertaining and fun way – leaving listeners/viewers laughing and learning as they acquire new strategies for moving forward in their careers. Her extensive leadership and university teaching experience, combined with her sense of humor and ability to relate to her audience, inspire participants to inject more positivity, productivity and joy into their personal and professional lives.
You can connect with Lori Baker-Schena at her website
https://www.loribakerschena.com/contact
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1]]></itunes:summary>
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        <title>35 Randall Craig, Digital Strategy &amp; Thought Leadership</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How does Digital Strategy fit with Thought Leadership?
Randall Craig addresses these questions and more...
<p>How might you recognize thought leadership?</p>
<p>What's the difference between thought leadership and expertise?</p>
<p>What are the 10 tests to measure the degree of thought leadership?</p>
<p></p>
<p>Learn more about Randall Craig and his services to support your digital strategy at his website </p>
<p><a href='https://www.randallcraig.com/'>https://www.randallcraig.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Randall Craig is an internet pioneer who led the digital strategies for several major market newspapers, consulting firms, and financial institutions since 1994.  He has helped over 100 organizations rethink their approach at the intersection of marketing and technology… and land their digital strategy airplane.</p>
<p>He's the author of eight books on digital strategy.</p>
<p>You can download you copy of the white paper - "Driving the Client Journey: Relationship Marketing in the Digital World"</p>
<p><a href='http://randallcraig.net/relationship'>http://randallcraig.net/relationship</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How does Digital Strategy fit with Thought Leadership?
Randall Craig addresses these questions and more...
<p>How might you recognize thought leadership?</p>
<p>What's the difference between thought leadership and expertise?</p>
<p>What are the 10 tests to measure the degree of thought leadership?</p>
<p></p>
<p>Learn more about Randall Craig and his services to support your digital strategy at his website </p>
<p><a href='https://www.randallcraig.com/'>https://www.randallcraig.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Randall Craig is an internet pioneer who led the digital strategies for several major market newspapers, consulting firms, and financial institutions since 1994.  He has helped over 100 organizations rethink their approach at the intersection of marketing and technology… and land their digital strategy airplane.</p>
<p>He's the author of eight books on digital strategy.</p>
<p><em>You can download you copy of the white paper</em> - "Driving the Client Journey: Relationship Marketing in the Digital World"</p>
<p><a href='http://randallcraig.net/relationship'>http://randallcraig.net/relationship</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How does Digital Strategy fit with Thought Leadership?
Randall Craig addresses these questions and more...
How might you recognize thought leadership?
What's the difference between thought leadership and expertise?
What are the 10 tests to measure the degree of thought leadership?

Learn more about Randall Craig and his services to support your digital strategy at his website 
https://www.randallcraig.com/
 
Randall Craig is an internet pioneer who led the digital strategies for several major market newspapers, consulting firms, and financial institutions since 1994.  He has helped over 100 organizations rethink their approach at the intersection of marketing and technology… and land their digital strategy airplane.
He's the author of eight books on digital strategy.
You can download you copy of the white paper - "Driving the Client Journey: Relationship Marketing in the Digital World"
http://randallcraig.net/relationship
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1]]></itunes:summary>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[If you want to tell better stories then learn from the meca of story telling - Hollywood.
<p>Michael Hauge is a renowned Hollywood script consultant and story expert. He helps Hollywood tell more powerful stories. Imagine how you might use your stories to be more persuasive.</p>
<p>In this interview he illustrates his six step to story success. You can use this simple process to craft your stories for your leadership or sales presentations.</p>
<p>Get your copy of the 6-Step Success Stories map here</p>
<p><a href='https://www.storymastery.com/success'>https://www.storymastery.com/success</a></p>
<p>Will Smith, star of Men in Black, I Am Legend and more - said this about our guest...</p>
"No one is better than Michael Hauge at finding what is most authentic in every moment of a story."
<p>Here's Michael Hauge's latest book on storytelling...</p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[If you want to tell better stories then learn from the meca of story telling - Hollywood.
<p>Michael Hauge is a renowned Hollywood script consultant and story expert. He helps Hollywood tell more powerful stories. Imagine how you might use your stories to be more persuasive.</p>
<p>In this interview he illustrates his six step to story success. You can use this simple process to craft your stories for your leadership or sales presentations.</p>
<p><em>Get your copy of the 6-Step Success Stories map here</em></p>
<p><a href='https://www.storymastery.com/success'>https://www.storymastery.com/success</a></p>
<p><em>Will Smith, star of Men in Black, I Am Legend and more - said this about our guest...</em></p>
"No one is better than Michael Hauge at finding what is most authentic in every moment of a story."
<p>Here's Michael Hauge's latest book on storytelling...</p>
<p></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you want to tell better stories then learn from the meca of story telling - Hollywood.
Michael Hauge is a renowned Hollywood script consultant and story expert. He helps Hollywood tell more powerful stories. Imagine how you might use your stories to be more persuasive.
In this interview he illustrates his six step to story success. You can use this simple process to craft your stories for your leadership or sales presentations.
Get your copy of the 6-Step Success Stories map here
https://www.storymastery.com/success
Will Smith, star of Men in Black, I Am Legend and more - said this about our guest...
"No one is better than Michael Hauge at finding what is most authentic in every moment of a story."
Here's Michael Hauge's latest book on storytelling...

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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
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        <title>33 Tsufit, Coaching Experts to Get Noticed</title>
        <itunes:title>33 Tsufit, Coaching Experts to Get Noticed</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[What do Big Ass fans, siblings fighting over estates and middle aged woman shopping for condos have in common?
<p>Hint: They represent targeted niches. Listen in to learn more about targeting a niche market and why you might want to polarize people.</p>
<p>Who is Tsufit and how has her career journey from rising star litigator to singer,  actress, comedienne, entrepreneur, author, consultant, speaker and coach shaped her perspective on getting noticed?</p>
What can you do to stand out in a crowded market?
How can you become known as the expert?
How can you enter the conversation in the mind of your prospect?
<p><a href='http://www.Spotlightbook.com'>www.Spotlightbook.com</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>Join the discussion in the Linkedin group at <a href='http://www.Spotlightgroup.com'>www.Spotlightgroup.com</a></p>
<p>Grab your copy of the 11 Spot Light secrets at <a href='http://www.SpotlightSecrets.com'>www.SpotlightSecrets.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[What do Big Ass fans, siblings fighting over estates and middle aged woman shopping for condos have in common?
<p>Hint: They represent targeted niches. Listen in to learn more about targeting a niche market and why you might want to polarize people.</p>
<p>Who is Tsufit and how has her career journey from rising star litigator to singer,  actress, comedienne, entrepreneur, author, consultant, speaker and coach shaped her perspective on getting noticed?</p>
What can you do to stand out in a crowded market?
How can you become known as the expert?
How can you enter the conversation in the mind of your prospect?
<p><a href='http://www.Spotlightbook.com'>www.Spotlightbook.com</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>Join the discussion in the Linkedin group at <a href='http://www.Spotlightgroup.com'>www.Spotlightgroup.com</a></p>
<p>Grab your copy of the 11 Spot Light secrets at <a href='http://www.SpotlightSecrets.com'>www.SpotlightSecrets.com</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What do Big Ass fans, siblings fighting over estates and middle aged woman shopping for condos have in common?
Hint: They represent targeted niches. Listen in to learn more about targeting a niche market and why you might want to polarize people.
Who is Tsufit and how has her career journey from rising star litigator to singer,  actress, comedienne, entrepreneur, author, consultant, speaker and coach shaped her perspective on getting noticed?
What can you do to stand out in a crowded market?
How can you become known as the expert?
How can you enter the conversation in the mind of your prospect?
www.Spotlightbook.com

Join the discussion in the Linkedin group at www.Spotlightgroup.com
Grab your copy of the 11 Spot Light secrets at www.SpotlightSecrets.com
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
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        <title>32 Simma Lieberman, The Inclusionist</title>
        <itunes:title>32 Simma Lieberman, The Inclusionist</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Diversity and Inclusion
<p>What do they mean? How are they related? What is the goal? What are the benefits? What are challenges? How can you help create a more diverse, inclusive and productive culture within your organization? </p>
Simma Lieberman boldly points out that she is white, female, Jewish, a Baby Boomer, lesbian and from the Bronx.
<p>If you see her as one of those labels, then you've relegated her to the group we call - those people.</p>
Do you say, "Hello" to people who don't look like you?
Diversity is the collective mixture characterized by differences, similarities and related tensions and complexities.
<p>Diversity is important, yet it's inclusion that is the critical step in making people feel safe, welcome, understood and productive.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Simma Liberman helps leaders create inclusive workplaces and communities. For more information you can visit her website</p>
<p><a href='https://simmalieberman.com/'>https://simmalieberman.com/</a></p>
<p>------</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Diversity and Inclusion
<p>What do they mean? How are they related? What is the goal? What are the benefits? What are challenges? How can you help create a more diverse, inclusive and productive culture within your organization? </p>
Simma Lieberman boldly points out that she is white, female, Jewish, a Baby Boomer, lesbian and from the Bronx.
<p>If you see her as one of those labels, then you've relegated her to the group we call - those people.</p>
Do you say, "Hello" to people who don't look like you?
Diversity is the collective mixture characterized by differences, similarities and related tensions and complexities.
<p>Diversity is important, yet it's inclusion that is the critical step in making people feel safe, welcome, understood and productive.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Simma Liberman helps leaders create inclusive workplaces and communities. For more information you can visit her website</p>
<p><a href='https://simmalieberman.com/'>https://simmalieberman.com/</a></p>
<p>------</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Diversity and Inclusion
What do they mean? How are they related? What is the goal? What are the benefits? What are challenges? How can you help create a more diverse, inclusive and productive culture within your organization? 
Simma Lieberman boldly points out that she is white, female, Jewish, a Baby Boomer, lesbian and from the Bronx.
If you see her as one of those labels, then you've relegated her to the group we call - those people.
Do you say, "Hello" to people who don't look like you?
Diversity is the collective mixture characterized by differences, similarities and related tensions and complexities.
Diversity is important, yet it's inclusion that is the critical step in making people feel safe, welcome, understood and productive.

Simma Liberman helps leaders create inclusive workplaces and communities. For more information you can visit her website
https://simmalieberman.com/
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
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        <title>31 Scott Bloom, Virtual Event Emcee, World's #1 Faux Author</title>
        <itunes:title>31 Scott Bloom, Virtual Event Emcee, World's #1 Faux Author</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[The Power of Laughter - The Language of Business
<p>Scott Bloom use's humor to Emcee virtual corporate events. That role might be described as the "palette cleanser" between speakers.</p>
<p>As both an Emcee and keynote speaker he uses the language of business to help audiences laugh at his antics and find the humor in themselves. </p>
<p>He reveals insights about the challenges and adapting to delivering humor virtually. If you need to laugh in your Zoom meetings, then listen to this interview with Scott.</p>
<p>He reminds us that using humor means a lot of preparation plus the willingness to be in the moment with your audience.</p>
<p>Arrange for Scott to be your</p>
<a href='http://www.ScottBloomConnects.com'>Virtual Event Emcee </a>
<p><a href='http://scottbloom.net/'></a></p>
What is a Faux Author and what has he published?
<p> </p>
<p>   </p>
<p>------</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[The Power of Laughter - The Language of Business
<p>Scott Bloom use's humor to Emcee virtual corporate events. That role might be described as the "palette cleanser" between speakers.</p>
<p>As both an Emcee and keynote speaker he uses the language of business to help audiences laugh at his antics and find the humor in themselves. </p>
<p>He reveals insights about the challenges and adapting to delivering humor virtually. If you need to laugh in your Zoom meetings, then listen to this interview with Scott.</p>
<p>He reminds us that using humor means a lot of preparation plus the willingness to be in the moment with your audience.</p>
<p><em>Arrange for Scott to be your</em></p>
<a href='http://www.ScottBloomConnects.com'>Virtual Event Emcee </a>
<p><a href='http://scottbloom.net/'></a></p>
What is a Faux Author and what has he published?
<p> </p>
<p>   </p>
<p>------</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Power of Laughter - The Language of Business
Scott Bloom use's humor to Emcee virtual corporate events. That role might be described as the "palette cleanser" between speakers.
As both an Emcee and keynote speaker he uses the language of business to help audiences laugh at his antics and find the humor in themselves. 
He reveals insights about the challenges and adapting to delivering humor virtually. If you need to laugh in your Zoom meetings, then listen to this interview with Scott.
He reminds us that using humor means a lot of preparation plus the willingness to be in the moment with your audience.
Arrange for Scott to be your
Virtual Event Emcee 

What is a Faux Author and what has he published?
 
   
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
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        <title>30 Michael Kerr, Humor in the workplace</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Imagine a Jerk Free Workplace
<p>What does that mean? How might you achieve that in your workplace? How might humor help? Are you willing to laugh at yourself? What's the role of the office clown?</p>
<p>Michael Kerr, addresses the role of humor, the danger of humor and the best humor medicine for a sick workplace.</p>
<p>You might disagree but you will laugh.</p>
Ha, ha ha. If those words are missing from your workplace, you need to listen to this interview with Michael Kerr.
<p>------</p>
<p>Get the list "100 ways to inject humor into your meeting"...</p>
<p><a href='https://mikekerr.com/'>https://mikekerr.com/</a></p>
<p>Michael Kerr is a champion of humor in the workplace because it simply makes life easier and more productive. Laugh and feel better about yourself, your work and your life.</p>
<p>  </p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Imagine a Jerk Free Workplace
<p>What does that mean? How might you achieve that in your workplace? How might humor help? Are you willing to laugh at yourself? What's the role of the office clown?</p>
<p>Michael Kerr, addresses the role of humor, the danger of humor and the best humor medicine for a sick workplace.</p>
<p>You might disagree but you will laugh.</p>
Ha, ha ha. If those words are missing from your workplace, you need to listen to this interview with Michael Kerr.
<p>------</p>
<p>Get the list "100 ways to inject humor into your meeting"...</p>
<p><a href='https://mikekerr.com/'>https://mikekerr.com/</a></p>
<p>Michael Kerr is a champion of humor in the workplace because it simply makes life easier and more productive. Laugh and feel better about yourself, your work and your life.</p>
<p>  </p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Imagine a Jerk Free Workplace
What does that mean? How might you achieve that in your workplace? How might humor help? Are you willing to laugh at yourself? What's the role of the office clown?
Michael Kerr, addresses the role of humor, the danger of humor and the best humor medicine for a sick workplace.
You might disagree but you will laugh.
Ha, ha ha. If those words are missing from your workplace, you need to listen to this interview with Michael Kerr.
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Get the list "100 ways to inject humor into your meeting"...
https://mikekerr.com/
Michael Kerr is a champion of humor in the workplace because it simply makes life easier and more productive. Laugh and feel better about yourself, your work and your life.
  
 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
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        <title>29 Patricia Fripp, Sales Presentation Guru</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Companies hire Patricia Fripp to increase sales by perfecting their important conversations and presentations.
<p>In this conversation with Patricia Fripp, (her second appearance on Your Intended Message) we explore...</p>
<p>If you sound the same as everybody else, you have no advantage.</p>
<p>Key words you must include in your sales presentations</p>
<p>Common message-destroying words to avoid</p>
<p>The importance of specificity</p>
<p>The typical (wrong) way to deliver a sales presentation</p>
<p>How to connect with your audience by addressing their interest</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Learn more about Patrica Fripp at her site <a href='https://www.fripp.com/'>https://www.fripp.com/</a></p>
<p>Check out the online training at <a href='https://www.frippvt.com/'>https://www.frippvt.com/</a></p>
<p>11 Biggest Mistakes Sales Professionals Make in Their Presentations (free resource)</p>
<p><a href='https://www.fripp.com/solutions/public-speaking-resources/'>https://www.fripp.com/solutions/public-speaking-resources/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Companies hire Patricia Fripp to increase sales by perfecting their important conversations and presentations.
<p>In this conversation with Patricia Fripp, (her second appearance on Your Intended Message) we explore...</p>
<p>If you sound the same as everybody else, you have no advantage.</p>
<p>Key words you must include in your sales presentations</p>
<p>Common message-destroying words to avoid</p>
<p>The importance of specificity</p>
<p>The typical (wrong) way to deliver a sales presentation</p>
<p>How to connect with your audience by addressing their interest</p>
<p>-----</p>
<p>Learn more about Patrica Fripp at her site <a href='https://www.fripp.com/'>https://www.fripp.com/</a></p>
<p>Check out the online training at <a href='https://www.frippvt.com/'>https://www.frippvt.com/</a></p>
<p>11 Biggest Mistakes Sales Professionals Make in Their Presentations (free resource)</p>
<p><a href='https://www.fripp.com/solutions/public-speaking-resources/'>https://www.fripp.com/solutions/public-speaking-resources/</a></p>
<p>-----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Companies hire Patricia Fripp to increase sales by perfecting their important conversations and presentations.
In this conversation with Patricia Fripp, (her second appearance on Your Intended Message) we explore...
If you sound the same as everybody else, you have no advantage.
Key words you must include in your sales presentations
Common message-destroying words to avoid
The importance of specificity
The typical (wrong) way to deliver a sales presentation
How to connect with your audience by addressing their interest
-----
Learn more about Patrica Fripp at her site https://www.fripp.com/
Check out the online training at https://www.frippvt.com/
11 Biggest Mistakes Sales Professionals Make in Their Presentations (free resource)
https://www.fripp.com/solutions/public-speaking-resources/
-----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
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        <title>28 Ed Tate, Winning High Stakes Business Presentations</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[World Champion of Public Speaking, Ed Tate helps you deliver High Stakes Presentations
People claim that the number one fear is public speaking. Ed Tate counters that claim by pointing out that the number one fear is public embarrassment.
<p>He should know because he was a stutterer who feared that other children would make fun of him.</p>
<p>What was his path from childhood embarrassment to World Champion of Public Speaking?</p>
<p>Why are stories sticky and how might you use stories in your business presentation?</p>
<p>What mistakes must you avoid when delivering a technical message to a non-technical audience?</p>
<p>Why must you remember - "Don't bury the lead"?</p>
<p>Why is video your best friend in improving your presentation skills?</p>
Want to be better prepared for your next high stakes presentation? Take advantage of Ed Tate's offer for a no charge 20-minute Clarity Assessment. Click here arrange time with Ed Tate...
<p><a href='http://bit.ly/20Clarity'>http://bit.ly/20Clarity</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>Learn more about Ed Tate and his programs here <a href='https://edtate.com/'>https://edtate.com/</a></p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[World Champion of Public Speaking, Ed Tate helps you deliver High Stakes Presentations
People claim that the number one fear is public speaking. Ed Tate counters that claim by pointing out that the number one fear is public embarrassment.
<p>He should know because he was a stutterer who feared that other children would make fun of him.</p>
<p><em>What was his path from childhood embarrassment to World Champion of Public Speaking?</em></p>
<p>Why are stories sticky and how might you use stories in your business presentation?</p>
<p>What mistakes must you avoid when delivering a technical message to a non-technical audience?</p>
<p>Why must you remember - "Don't bury the lead"?</p>
<p>Why is video your best friend in improving your presentation skills?</p>
Want to be better prepared for your next high stakes presentation? Take advantage of Ed Tate's offer for a no charge 20-minute Clarity Assessment. Click here arrange time with Ed Tate...
<p><a href='http://bit.ly/20Clarity'>http://bit.ly/20Clarity</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>Learn more about Ed Tate and his programs here <a href='https://edtate.com/'>https://edtate.com/</a></p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[World Champion of Public Speaking, Ed Tate helps you deliver High Stakes Presentations
People claim that the number one fear is public speaking. Ed Tate counters that claim by pointing out that the number one fear is public embarrassment.
He should know because he was a stutterer who feared that other children would make fun of him.
What was his path from childhood embarrassment to World Champion of Public Speaking?
Why are stories sticky and how might you use stories in your business presentation?
What mistakes must you avoid when delivering a technical message to a non-technical audience?
Why must you remember - "Don't bury the lead"?
Why is video your best friend in improving your presentation skills?
Want to be better prepared for your next high stakes presentation? Take advantage of Ed Tate's offer for a no charge 20-minute Clarity Assessment. Click here arrange time with Ed Tate...
http://bit.ly/20Clarity

Learn more about Ed Tate and his programs here https://edtate.com/
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
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        <title>27 Shelle Rose Charvet, Expert in Influence and Persuasion</title>
        <itunes:title>27 Shelle Rose Charvet, Expert in Influence and Persuasion</itunes:title>
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                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/27-shelle-rose-charvet-expert-in-influence-and-persuasion/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2021 13:12:38 -0500</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Influence and Persuasion: How to deal with controversy and conflict
Shelle Rose Charvet addresses these questions and challenges:
<ol><li>
How should you respond?
</li>
<li>
How can you take the discussion to a higher viewpoint?
</li>
<li>
How might you disagree without being combative?
</li>
<li>
When and how can you use humor to disarm the attacker?
</li>
<li>
Words that leaders can use to more the conversation forward.
</li>
<li>
When is feeling angry and hurt a positive sign
</li>
<li>
Systemic Racism - how to uncover and address it
</li>
</ol><p>Forbes ranked this book as, Best Management Book for Executives and Entrepreneurs.</p>
<p>Rated number 1 in Good Reads in Influence.</p>
<p>Find the book on Amazon - <a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Words-That-Change-Minds-Mastering-ebook/dp/B07PVSR2J4/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1RZW47Y2GOCGH&dchild=1&keywords=words+that+change+minds&qid=1601493804&sprefix=words+that+chan%2Caps%2C160&sr=8-1'>Words That Change Minds</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>Check your email before you send them to save embarrassment and relationships by running through the filter at <a href='http://www.libretta.com'>Libretta.com</a></p>
<p>Learn more about Shelle Rose Charvet and her programs to communicate and influence more effectively.</p>
<p><a href='https://instituteforinfluence.com/'>https://instituteforinfluence.com/</a></p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Influence and Persuasion: How to deal with controversy and conflict
Shelle Rose Charvet addresses these questions and challenges:
<ol><li>
How should you respond?
</li>
<li>
How can you take the discussion to a higher viewpoint?
</li>
<li>
How might you disagree without being combative?
</li>
<li>
When and how can you use humor to disarm the attacker?
</li>
<li>
Words that leaders can use to more the conversation forward.
</li>
<li>
When is feeling angry and hurt a positive sign
</li>
<li>
Systemic Racism - how to uncover and address it
</li>
</ol><p>Forbes ranked this book as, Best Management Book for Executives and Entrepreneurs.</p>
<p>Rated number 1 in Good Reads in Influence.</p>
<p>Find the book on Amazon - <a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Words-That-Change-Minds-Mastering-ebook/dp/B07PVSR2J4/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1RZW47Y2GOCGH&dchild=1&keywords=words+that+change+minds&qid=1601493804&sprefix=words+that+chan%2Caps%2C160&sr=8-1'>Words That Change Minds</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>Check your email before you send them to save embarrassment and relationships by running through the filter at <a href='http://www.libretta.com'>Libretta.com</a></p>
<p>Learn more about Shelle Rose Charvet and her programs to communicate and influence more effectively.</p>
<p><a href='https://instituteforinfluence.com/'>https://instituteforinfluence.com/</a></p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Influence and Persuasion: How to deal with controversy and conflict
Shelle Rose Charvet addresses these questions and challenges:

How should you respond?


How can you take the discussion to a higher viewpoint?


How might you disagree without being combative?


When and how can you use humor to disarm the attacker?


Words that leaders can use to more the conversation forward.


When is feeling angry and hurt a positive sign


Systemic Racism - how to uncover and address it

Forbes ranked this book as, Best Management Book for Executives and Entrepreneurs.
Rated number 1 in Good Reads in Influence.
Find the book on Amazon - Words That Change Minds

Check your email before you send them to save embarrassment and relationships by running through the filter at Libretta.com
Learn more about Shelle Rose Charvet and her programs to communicate and influence more effectively.
https://instituteforinfluence.com/
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests.
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
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        <title>26 Jeff Mowatt, Customer Experience Strategist</title>
        <itunes:title>26 Jeff Mowatt, Customer Experience Strategist</itunes:title>
        <link>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/26-jeff-mowatt-customer-experience-strategist/</link>
                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/26-jeff-mowatt-customer-experience-strategist/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2021 11:02:00 -0500</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Customer experience. How important is that to you - for your customers?
What are you doing to enhance the experience for your customers?
Are you sure you are building trust?
<p>Jeff Mowatt, reveals insights from the customer perspective. Perhaps you meant well, but did your words convey the intended message? What might you say instead? How might smarter word choices build more trust with your customers and cement the loyalty of your relationship?</p>
<p>How might you position yourself as a trusted advisor instead of a phony friend? Why is that important to your business success?</p>
<p>Imagine your success when you enhance trust and differentiate your service to render price less relevant.</p>
<p>Are you tuned into the BS detector of your clients and customers?</p>
<p>What might you say to ensure that you continue to exceed expectations?</p>
<p>Your words matter because they determine the messages received and remembered by your listeners.</p>
<p>Listen in to learn how you can receive your copy of the 50 phrases that pay.</p>
<p></p>
Learn more about Jeff's programs to become a trusted advisor and obtain your copy of 50 phrases that pay at the website
<p><a href='https://jeffmowatt.com/'>https://jeffmowatt.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Customer experience. How important is that to you - for your customers?
What are you doing to enhance the experience for your customers?
Are you sure you are building trust?
<p>Jeff Mowatt, reveals insights from the customer perspective. Perhaps you meant well, but did your words convey the intended message? What might you say instead? How might smarter word choices build more trust with your customers and cement the loyalty of your relationship?</p>
<p>How might you position yourself as a trusted advisor instead of a phony friend? Why is that important to your business success?</p>
<p>Imagine your success when you enhance trust and differentiate your service to render price less relevant.</p>
<p>Are you tuned into the BS detector of your clients and customers?</p>
<p>What might you say to ensure that you continue to exceed expectations?</p>
<p>Your words matter because they determine the messages received and remembered by your listeners.</p>
<p>Listen in to learn how you can receive your copy of the 50 phrases that pay.</p>
<p></p>
Learn more about Jeff's programs to become a trusted advisor and obtain your copy of 50 phrases that pay at the website
<p><a href='https://jeffmowatt.com/'>https://jeffmowatt.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Customer experience. How important is that to you - for your customers?
What are you doing to enhance the experience for your customers?
Are you sure you are building trust?
Jeff Mowatt, reveals insights from the customer perspective. Perhaps you meant well, but did your words convey the intended message? What might you say instead? How might smarter word choices build more trust with your customers and cement the loyalty of your relationship?
How might you position yourself as a trusted advisor instead of a phony friend? Why is that important to your business success?
Imagine your success when you enhance trust and differentiate your service to render price less relevant.
Are you tuned into the BS detector of your clients and customers?
What might you say to ensure that you continue to exceed expectations?
Your words matter because they determine the messages received and remembered by your listeners.
Listen in to learn how you can receive your copy of the 50 phrases that pay.

Learn more about Jeff's programs to become a trusted advisor and obtain your copy of 50 phrases that pay at the website
https://jeffmowatt.com/
 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests
He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing
By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
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        <title>25 Helen Wilkie, Executive Book Coach</title>
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                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/25-helen-wilkie-executive-book-coach/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2021 15:36:09 -0500</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Why might you write a book?
<ol><li>
To safe guard your legacy
</li>
<li>
A How to book - or marketing document
</li>
<li>
A memoir for your family and friends
</li>
</ol><p>Helen Wilkie is The Executives Book Coach. She helps executives write their book, faster, smarter and more effectively.</p>
<p>If you've every thought about writing a book, listen to this interview with Helen Wilkie.</p>
<p>If you don't plan to write a book, listen to discover the obstacles one must face to write and publish a book successfully.</p>
<p>How is writing a book different from writing articles?</p>
<p>What are the three types of energy in writing a book?</p>
<p>Why is writing space and time critical?</p>
<p>What is more difficult than starting?</p>
<p>In this conversation, Helen Wilkie offers insights about what it takes to write a book and ideas about how to overcome the challenges.</p>
<p><a href='https://theexecutivesbookcoach.com/'>https://theexecutivesbookcoach.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999135679/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr='></a></p>
<p>Grab your copy of <a href='https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999135679/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr='>Helen's new book on Amazon</a></p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Why might you write a book?
<ol><li>
To safe guard your legacy
</li>
<li>
A How to book - or marketing document
</li>
<li>
A memoir for your family and friends
</li>
</ol><p>Helen Wilkie is The Executives Book Coach. She helps executives write their book, faster, smarter and more effectively.</p>
<p>If you've every thought about writing a book, listen to this interview with Helen Wilkie.</p>
<p>If you don't plan to write a book, listen to discover the obstacles one must face to write and publish a book successfully.</p>
<p>How is writing a book different from writing articles?</p>
<p>What are the three types of energy in writing a book?</p>
<p>Why is writing space and time critical?</p>
<p>What is more difficult than starting?</p>
<p>In this conversation, Helen Wilkie offers insights about what it takes to write a book and ideas about how to overcome the challenges.</p>
<p><a href='https://theexecutivesbookcoach.com/'>https://theexecutivesbookcoach.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999135679/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr='></a></p>
<p>Grab your copy of <a href='https://www.amazon.com/dp/1999135679/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr='>Helen's new book on Amazon</a></p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Why might you write a book?

To safe guard your legacy


A How to book - or marketing document


A memoir for your family and friends

Helen Wilkie is The Executives Book Coach. She helps executives write their book, faster, smarter and more effectively.
If you've every thought about writing a book, listen to this interview with Helen Wilkie.
If you don't plan to write a book, listen to discover the obstacles one must face to write and publish a book successfully.
How is writing a book different from writing articles?
What are the three types of energy in writing a book?
Why is writing space and time critical?
What is more difficult than starting?
In this conversation, Helen Wilkie offers insights about what it takes to write a book and ideas about how to overcome the challenges.
https://theexecutivesbookcoach.com/

Grab your copy of Helen's new book on Amazon
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests
He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing
By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Direct marketing reaches both emotion and logic and calls upon both art and science.
<p>Brian Kurtz, a serial direct marketer offers marketing insights from the lessons of direct mail marketing that can help you become a better email or online marketer.</p>
<p>Insights from this Conversation with Brian Kurtz</p>
<p>When you have to pay for printing and postage you learn the lessons of direct marketing quickly - or you fail miserably.</p>
<p>What might be the cost of failed email marketing? Damaged relationships.</p>
<p>How might you use the PS or the PPS in your email for better marketing?</p>
<p>Be a human in the B to B marketplace.</p>
<p>It's not the brilliant burger - its the hungry audience that makes the difference.</p>
<p>Marketing isn't everything. It's the only thing.</p>
Brian Kurtz is responsible for the distribution of over 2 billion pieces of promotion copy in his career  (online and offline).
<p><a href='https://www.briankurtz.net/products/'></a></p>
<p>Brian's latest book - <a href='https://www.briankurtz.net/products/'>OVERDELIVER</a> does that. It over delivers on value because when you buy the book you get access to invaluable direct marketing resources in the form of pdfs, videos and insights from marketing gurus.</p>
<p>Learn more about Brian at his website</p>
<p><a href='https://www.briankurtz.net/'>https://www.briankurtz.net/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Direct marketing reaches both emotion and logic and calls upon both art and science.
<p>Brian Kurtz, a serial direct marketer offers marketing insights from the lessons of direct mail marketing that can help you become a better email or online marketer.</p>
<p>Insights from this Conversation with Brian Kurtz</p>
<p>When you have to pay for printing and postage you learn the lessons of direct marketing quickly - or you fail miserably.</p>
<p>What might be the cost of failed email marketing? Damaged relationships.</p>
<p>How might you use the PS or the PPS in your email for better marketing?</p>
<p>Be a human in the B to B marketplace.</p>
<p>It's not the brilliant burger - its the hungry audience that makes the difference.</p>
<p>Marketing isn't everything. It's the only thing.</p>
Brian Kurtz is responsible for the distribution of over 2 billion pieces of promotion copy in his career  (online and offline).
<p><a href='https://www.briankurtz.net/products/'></a></p>
<p>Brian's latest book - <a href='https://www.briankurtz.net/products/'>OVERDELIVER</a> does that. It over delivers on value because when you buy the book you get access to invaluable direct marketing resources in the form of pdfs, videos and insights from marketing gurus.</p>
<p><em>Learn more about Brian at his website</em></p>
<p><a href='https://www.briankurtz.net/'>https://www.briankurtz.net/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Direct marketing reaches both emotion and logic and calls upon both art and science.
Brian Kurtz, a serial direct marketer offers marketing insights from the lessons of direct mail marketing that can help you become a better email or online marketer.
Insights from this Conversation with Brian Kurtz
When you have to pay for printing and postage you learn the lessons of direct marketing quickly - or you fail miserably.
What might be the cost of failed email marketing? Damaged relationships.
How might you use the PS or the PPS in your email for better marketing?
Be a human in the B to B marketplace.
It's not the brilliant burger - its the hungry audience that makes the difference.
Marketing isn't everything. It's the only thing.
Brian Kurtz is responsible for the distribution of over 2 billion pieces of promotion copy in his career  (online and offline).

Brian's latest book - OVERDELIVER does that. It over delivers on value because when you buy the book you get access to invaluable direct marketing resources in the form of pdfs, videos and insights from marketing gurus.
Learn more about Brian at his website
https://www.briankurtz.net/
 
 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests
He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing
By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
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        <title>23 Jordan Berman, Measurement of your communication</title>
        <itunes:title>23 Jordan Berman, Measurement of your communication</itunes:title>
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                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/23-jordan-berman-measurement-of-your-communication/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Thu, 31 Dec 2020 10:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[<ul><li>
How do you measure the success of your communication?
</li>
<li>
Are you evaluating more than simple analytics?
</li>
<li>
How might you review the quality of your messaging?
</li>
<li>
How well are you addressing the trust challenge?
</li>
</ul>
<p>Jordan Berman, Vice President Global Corporate Affairs reveals lessons about staying connected with your workforce around the world - in normal times and especially during a pandemic.</p>
<p>Jordan Berman adds insights about communicating internally within your corporation with lessons learned about the best use of the various communication channels that might include:</p>
<ul><li>Email</li>
<li>Social media</li>
<li>Newsletter</li>
<li>Town hall</li>
<li>Leadership meeting</li>
<li>Roundtable</li>
</ul>
<p>Learn more about Jordan Berman here</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/jordanberman1/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/jordanberman1/</a></p>
<p>How to build stronger trust - Jordan's book - The Trust Trifecta</p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Trust-Trifecta-Leaders-Hitting-Jackpot/dp/1771804203/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2HLCO2ZKICQ8W&dchild=1&keywords=trust+trifecta&qid=1609364811&sprefix=trust+trife%2Caps%2C179&sr=8-1'></a></p>
<p>Much has been written about trust, but not about fostering it through meaningful connections built on powerful and impactful communication. This type of communication helps to build high-trust leaders and organizations and delivers concrete results: higher employee engagement, better-aligned organizations, more collaborative workforces, lower rates of attrition and stronger business performance.</p>
<p>Backed by compelling research, tangible examples and personal anecdotes, The Trust Trifecta explores leadership and connection-building through a new lens: communication. It examines three types of communication proven to establish and sustain meaningful and long-lasting connections.</p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<ul><li>
How do you measure the success of your communication?
</li>
<li>
Are you evaluating more than simple analytics?
</li>
<li>
How might you review the quality of your messaging?
</li>
<li>
How well are you addressing the trust challenge?
</li>
</ul>
<p>Jordan Berman, Vice President Global Corporate Affairs reveals lessons about staying connected with your workforce around the world - in normal times and especially during a pandemic.</p>
<p>Jordan Berman adds insights about communicating internally within your corporation with lessons learned about the best use of the various communication channels that might include:</p>
<ul><li>Email</li>
<li>Social media</li>
<li>Newsletter</li>
<li>Town hall</li>
<li>Leadership meeting</li>
<li>Roundtable</li>
</ul>
<p>Learn more about Jordan Berman here</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/jordanberman1/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/jordanberman1/</a></p>
<p>How to build stronger trust - Jordan's book - The Trust Trifecta</p>
<p><a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Trust-Trifecta-Leaders-Hitting-Jackpot/dp/1771804203/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2HLCO2ZKICQ8W&dchild=1&keywords=trust+trifecta&qid=1609364811&sprefix=trust+trife%2Caps%2C179&sr=8-1'></a></p>
<p>Much has been written about trust, but not about fostering it through meaningful connections built on powerful and impactful communication. This type of communication helps to build high-trust leaders and organizations and delivers concrete results: higher employee engagement, better-aligned organizations, more collaborative workforces, lower rates of attrition and stronger business performance.</p>
<p>Backed by compelling research, tangible examples and personal anecdotes, <em>The Trust Trifecta</em> explores leadership and connection-building through a new lens: communication. It examines three types of communication proven to establish and sustain meaningful and long-lasting connections.</p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[
How do you measure the success of your communication?


Are you evaluating more than simple analytics?


How might you review the quality of your messaging?


How well are you addressing the trust challenge?

Jordan Berman, Vice President Global Corporate Affairs reveals lessons about staying connected with your workforce around the world - in normal times and especially during a pandemic.
Jordan Berman adds insights about communicating internally within your corporation with lessons learned about the best use of the various communication channels that might include:
Email
Social media
Newsletter
Town hall
Leadership meeting
Roundtable
Learn more about Jordan Berman here
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jordanberman1/
How to build stronger trust - Jordan's book - The Trust Trifecta

Much has been written about trust, but not about fostering it through meaningful connections built on powerful and impactful communication. This type of communication helps to build high-trust leaders and organizations and delivers concrete results: higher employee engagement, better-aligned organizations, more collaborative workforces, lower rates of attrition and stronger business performance.
Backed by compelling research, tangible examples and personal anecdotes, The Trust Trifecta explores leadership and connection-building through a new lens: communication. It examines three types of communication proven to establish and sustain meaningful and long-lasting connections.
 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests
He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing
By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Communication challenges for charities and non-profits
<p>Who are the distinct audiences for a charity?</p>
<p>What's the nuances to consider when communicating?</p>
<p>What're the similarities among the distinct audiences?</p>
<p>What are the results of negative versus positive messaging?</p>
<p>What are the challenges of coordinating a national message in two languages?</p>
Yves Savoie reveals the perspective of communication from charities. He is the former CEO of Heart and Stroke Canada, and before that, the CEO of Multiple Sclerosis Society of Canada.
<p>Yves Savoie provides advise and consulting on governance, strategy and impact to charities.</p>
<p>Learn more at his website</p>
<p><a href='https://www.yvessavoie.ca/'>https://www.yvessavoie.ca/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/yves-savoie-b4925916/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/yves-savoie-b4925916/</a></p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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<p>Who are the distinct audiences for a charity?</p>
<p>What's the nuances to consider when communicating?</p>
<p>What're the similarities among the distinct audiences?</p>
<p>What are the results of negative versus positive messaging?</p>
<p>What are the challenges of coordinating a national message in two languages?</p>
Yves Savoie reveals the perspective of communication from charities. He is the former CEO of Heart and Stroke Canada, and before that, the CEO of Multiple Sclerosis Society of Canada.
<p>Yves Savoie provides advise and consulting on governance, strategy and impact to charities.</p>
<p>Learn more at his website</p>
<p><a href='https://www.yvessavoie.ca/'>https://www.yvessavoie.ca/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/yves-savoie-b4925916/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/yves-savoie-b4925916/</a></p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Communication challenges for charities and non-profits
Who are the distinct audiences for a charity?
What's the nuances to consider when communicating?
What're the similarities among the distinct audiences?
What are the results of negative versus positive messaging?
What are the challenges of coordinating a national message in two languages?
Yves Savoie reveals the perspective of communication from charities. He is the former CEO of Heart and Stroke Canada, and before that, the CEO of Multiple Sclerosis Society of Canada.
Yves Savoie provides advise and consulting on governance, strategy and impact to charities.
Learn more at his website
https://www.yvessavoie.ca/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/yves-savoie-b4925916/
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests
He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing
By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
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        <title>21 Joanne Black, Referral Selling</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to get more referral business?
The importance of following a referral system
Why should you ask for referrals?
Who should you ask for referrals?
How can you ask for referrals without appearing or feeling desperate?
<p>These are some of the questions that Joanne Black addresses in this interview. There's a reason why her website is called <a href='https://www.nomorecoldcalling.com/'>No More Cold Calling</a></p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>She points out that it's simple but not easy.</p>
Joanne Black is known as America's leading authority on referral selling.
<p>How might referrals help you?</p>
<ul><li>Find a new job</li>
<li>Advance your career</li>
<li>Discover new clients</li>
<li>Build your social network</li>
</ul>
<p>Test yourself. Take the referral selling quiz here</p>
<p><a href='https://www.nomorecoldcalling.com/referral-selling-insights'>https://www.nomorecoldcalling.com/referral-selling-insights</a></p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to get more referral business?
The importance of following a referral system
Why should you ask for referrals?
Who should you ask for referrals?
How can you ask for referrals without appearing or feeling desperate?
<p>These are some of the questions that Joanne Black addresses in this interview. There's a reason why her website is called <a href='https://www.nomorecoldcalling.com/'>No More Cold Calling</a></p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>She points out that it's simple but not easy.</p>
Joanne Black is known as America's leading authority on referral selling.
<p>How might referrals help you?</p>
<ul><li>Find a new job</li>
<li>Advance your career</li>
<li>Discover new clients</li>
<li>Build your social network</li>
</ul>
<p>Test yourself. Take the referral selling quiz here</p>
<p><a href='https://www.nomorecoldcalling.com/referral-selling-insights'>https://www.nomorecoldcalling.com/referral-selling-insights</a></p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to get more referral business?
The importance of following a referral system
Why should you ask for referrals?
Who should you ask for referrals?
How can you ask for referrals without appearing or feeling desperate?
These are some of the questions that Joanne Black addresses in this interview. There's a reason why her website is called No More Cold Calling

 
She points out that it's simple but not easy.
Joanne Black is known as America's leading authority on referral selling.
How might referrals help you?
Find a new job
Advance your career
Discover new clients
Build your social network
Test yourself. Take the referral selling quiz here
https://www.nomorecoldcalling.com/referral-selling-insights
 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests
He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing
By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
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        <title>20 Derek Arden, Negotiating Expert</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Did you know that you can become a better negotiator by learning the principles and practising the skills?
Derek Arden offers negotiating insights and simple tips from his international bestselling book, Win Win.
<p>Discover why it's critical to have a "Walk away position".</p>
<p>How does the 80/20 rule apply to the negotiation period?</p>
<p>Learn how to use the power of the flinch.</p>
<p>Why should you take advantage of a "time out"?</p>
<p>Are you tapping the negotiation power of the "higher authority"?</p>
Listen to this episode to become a better negotiator. 
<p>Then you might consider boosting your skills by reading his book.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://www.derekarden.co.uk/'></a></p>
The Negotiator
Derek Arden has been negotiating worldwide for over 25 years. He has studied the subject at Harvard, written best selling books on the subject and his Masterclasses get fast results. His company the negotiating agency provides confidential advice on negotiating situations, with either Derek in attendance at the meetings or coaching behind the scenes.
 
Visit his website for more resources on negotiation or to work with Derek Arden 
<a href='https://www.derekarden.co.uk/'>https://www.derekarden.co.uk/</a>
 

George Torok is your podcast host.
<p>He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.</p>
<p>He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.</p>
<p>George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.</p>
<p>Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.</p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>

 ]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Did you know that you can become a better negotiator by learning the principles and practising the skills?
Derek Arden offers negotiating insights and simple tips from his international bestselling book, Win Win.
<p>Discover why it's critical to have a "Walk away position".</p>
<p>How does the 80/20 rule apply to the negotiation period?</p>
<p>Learn how to use the power of the flinch.</p>
<p>Why should you take advantage of a "time out"?</p>
<p>Are you tapping the negotiation power of the "higher authority"?</p>
Listen to this episode to become a better negotiator. 
<p>Then you might consider boosting your skills by reading his book.</p>
<p> </p>
<p><a href='https://www.derekarden.co.uk/'></a></p>
The Negotiator
Derek Arden has been negotiating worldwide for over 25 years. He has studied the subject at Harvard, written best selling books on the subject and his Masterclasses get fast results. His company the negotiating agency provides confidential advice on negotiating situations, with either Derek in attendance at the meetings or coaching behind the scenes.
 
Visit his website for more resources on negotiation or to work with Derek Arden 
<a href='https://www.derekarden.co.uk/'>https://www.derekarden.co.uk/</a>
 

George Torok is your podcast host.
<p>He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.</p>
<p>He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.</p>
<p>George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.</p>
<p>Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.</p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>

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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Did you know that you can become a better negotiator by learning the principles and practising the skills?
Derek Arden offers negotiating insights and simple tips from his international bestselling book, Win Win.
Discover why it's critical to have a "Walk away position".
How does the 80/20 rule apply to the negotiation period?
Learn how to use the power of the flinch.
Why should you take advantage of a "time out"?
Are you tapping the negotiation power of the "higher authority"?
Listen to this episode to become a better negotiator. 
Then you might consider boosting your skills by reading his book.
 

The Negotiator
Derek Arden has been negotiating worldwide for over 25 years. He has studied the subject at Harvard, written best selling books on the subject and his Masterclasses get fast results. His company the negotiating agency provides confidential advice on negotiating situations, with either Derek in attendance at the meetings or coaching behind the scenes.
 
Visit his website for more resources on negotiation or to work with Derek Arden 
https://www.derekarden.co.uk/
 

George Torok is your podcast host.
He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.
He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.
George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.
Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1

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        <title>19 Sam Horn, Helping you stand out in a crowd</title>
        <itunes:title>19 Sam Horn, Helping you stand out in a crowd</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to find, create and deliver that phrase that pays - so you are unforgettable.
How to stand out in a crowd,
<p>Use words to your advantage in a creative and memorable way.</p>
<p>Ensure that people remember, relate to and act upon your words. Imagine that.</p>
<p>Sam Horn is back for this second interview She demonstrates the power of your words when you select them wisely and deliver them profoundly.</p>
<p>Sam Horn offer specific tips and clear examples of how you can make your intended message more effective with a bit of thought and these simple techniques.</p>
<p>It's not word play - but word profit.</p>
<p>Sam Horn is the author of Tongue Fu, POP! Stand Out in Any Crowd and Got Your Attention.</p>
<p>She was the Executive Director of the Maui Writers Conference for 17 years - and helped thousands of writers get their book out of their head and into the world.</p>
<p>Learn more about her programs here <a href='https://www.intrigueagency.com/'>https://www.intrigueagency.com/</a></p>
Check out the POP Master Class starting Jan 2021
https://www.intrigueagency.com/popmasterclass
And listen to this discussion to discover how you can get a $100 discount for the Pop Master Class.
<p> </p>
<p>   </p>
<p> </p>
George Torok is your podcast host.
<p>He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.</p>
<p>He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.</p>
<p>George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.</p>
<p>Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.</p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to find, create and deliver that phrase that pays - so you are unforgettable.
How to stand out in a crowd,
<p>Use words to your advantage in a creative and memorable way.</p>
<p>Ensure that people remember, relate to and act upon your words. Imagine that.</p>
<p>Sam Horn is back for this second interview She demonstrates the power of your words when you select them wisely and deliver them profoundly.</p>
<p>Sam Horn offer specific tips and clear examples of how you can make your intended message more effective with a bit of thought and these simple techniques.</p>
<p>It's not word play - but word profit.</p>
<p>Sam Horn is the author of Tongue Fu, POP! Stand Out in Any Crowd and Got Your Attention.</p>
<p>She was the Executive Director of the Maui Writers Conference for 17 years - and helped thousands of writers get their book out of their head and into the world.</p>
<p>Learn more about her programs here <a href='https://www.intrigueagency.com/'>https://www.intrigueagency.com/</a></p>
Check out the POP Master Class starting Jan 2021
https://www.intrigueagency.com/popmasterclass
And listen to this discussion to discover how you can get a $100 discount for the Pop Master Class.
<p> </p>
<p>   </p>
<p> </p>
George Torok is your podcast host.
<p>He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.</p>
<p>He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.</p>
<p>George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.</p>
<p>Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.</p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to find, create and deliver that phrase that pays - so you are unforgettable.
How to stand out in a crowd,
Use words to your advantage in a creative and memorable way.
Ensure that people remember, relate to and act upon your words. Imagine that.
Sam Horn is back for this second interview She demonstrates the power of your words when you select them wisely and deliver them profoundly.
Sam Horn offer specific tips and clear examples of how you can make your intended message more effective with a bit of thought and these simple techniques.
It's not word play - but word profit.
Sam Horn is the author of Tongue Fu, POP! Stand Out in Any Crowd and Got Your Attention.
She was the Executive Director of the Maui Writers Conference for 17 years - and helped thousands of writers get their book out of their head and into the world.
Learn more about her programs here https://www.intrigueagency.com/
Check out the POP Master Class starting Jan 2021
https://www.intrigueagency.com/popmasterclass
And listen to this discussion to discover how you can get a $100 discount for the Pop Master Class.
 
   
 
George Torok is your podcast host.
He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.
He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.
George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.
Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1]]></itunes:summary>
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        <title>18 Rob Ferre, Game Show Host</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Gamification. How might you use games to connect with your team, audience and marketplace? 
Are you engaging? Are you connecting? Are you building rapport? Are you encouraging people to have fun?
<p>Gamification might be an effective way to accomplish that. Imagine how people might feel about you and your message when you help them feel better about the process.</p>
<p>Rob Ferre, is a specialist in creating and playing games with your audience. He can help you conduct more effective team meetings, take the sting off of training sessions and feel the energy of fun connections.</p>
<p>Games might offer physical, mental, memory or popular culture challenges.</p>
<p>The key point is that games engage the audience - either as an active participant or curious observer.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Learn more about Rob Ferre and his programs at the<a href='https://robferre.com/'> website Rob Ferre</a> </p>
<p></p>
George Torok is your podcast host.
<p>He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.</p>
<p>He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.</p>
<p>George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.</p>
<p>Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.</p>
<p>Connect with George Torok</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Gamification. How might you use games to connect with your team, audience and marketplace? 
Are you engaging? Are you connecting? Are you building rapport? Are you encouraging people to have fun?
<p>Gamification might be an effective way to accomplish that. Imagine how people might feel about you and your message when you help them feel better about the process.</p>
<p>Rob Ferre, is a specialist in creating and playing games with your audience. He can help you conduct more effective team meetings, take the sting off of training sessions and feel the energy of fun connections.</p>
<p>Games might offer physical, mental, memory or popular culture challenges.</p>
<p>The key point is that games engage the audience - either as an active participant or curious observer.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Learn more about Rob Ferre and his programs at the<a href='https://robferre.com/'> website Rob Ferre</a> </p>
<p></p>
George Torok is your podcast host.
<p>He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.</p>
<p>He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.</p>
<p>George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.</p>
<p>Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.</p>
<p><em>Connect with George Torok</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Gamification. How might you use games to connect with your team, audience and marketplace? 
Are you engaging? Are you connecting? Are you building rapport? Are you encouraging people to have fun?
Gamification might be an effective way to accomplish that. Imagine how people might feel about you and your message when you help them feel better about the process.
Rob Ferre, is a specialist in creating and playing games with your audience. He can help you conduct more effective team meetings, take the sting off of training sessions and feel the energy of fun connections.
Games might offer physical, mental, memory or popular culture challenges.
The key point is that games engage the audience - either as an active participant or curious observer.
 
Learn more about Rob Ferre and his programs at the website Rob Ferre 

George Torok is your podcast host.
He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.
He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.
George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.
Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.
Connect with George Torok
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1]]></itunes:summary>
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        <title>17 Anders Boulanger, Engagement Artist, Attention Grabber</title>
        <itunes:title>17 Anders Boulanger, Engagement Artist, Attention Grabber</itunes:title>
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                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/17-anders-boulanger-engagement-artist/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Fri, 20 Nov 2020 09:14:21 -0500</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How can you grab attention? How can you stir interest? What might you do to get people to listen to you?
<p>Anders Boulanger is an expert at that. He’s been performing since age five. He’s earned his chops delivering Walk Around Magic. He’s attracted attention to boring tradeshow booths. He knows what works if you what to capture attention and have people participate more.</p>
<p>Many people are</p>
<ul><li>Unaware of the unintended messages they are sending</li>
<li>Untrained on how to connect with the audience</li>
<li>Unremarkable with their delivery – especially with virtual presentations</li>
</ul>
<p>What is the engagement gap? What happens to 33% of the energy?</p>
Listen in to learn about his exclusive offer for listeners of this podcast – 33% off the regular fee of his online course on - How to be More Engaging Online.
<p>Here's that link to the Virtual Engagement training program. This is an exclusive offer for listeners of Your Intended Message </p>
<p>Zurl.co/W6yV</p>
<p> </p>
<p>For more information about Anders Boulanger and his programs visit the website <a href='https://engagify.ai/'>https://engagify.ai/</a></p>
<p></p>
George Torok is your podcast host.
<p>He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.</p>
<p>He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.</p>
<p>George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.</p>
<p>Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.</p>
<p>Connect with George Torok</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How can you grab attention? How can you stir interest? What might you do to get people to listen to you?
<p>Anders Boulanger is an expert at that. He’s been performing since age five. He’s earned his chops delivering Walk Around Magic. He’s attracted attention to boring tradeshow booths. He knows what works if you what to capture attention and have people participate more.</p>
<p>Many people are</p>
<ul><li>Unaware of the unintended messages they are sending</li>
<li>Untrained on how to connect with the audience</li>
<li>Unremarkable with their delivery – especially with virtual presentations</li>
</ul>
<p>What is the engagement gap? What happens to 33% of the energy?</p>
Listen in to learn about his exclusive offer for listeners of this podcast – 33% off the regular fee of his online course on - How to be More Engaging Online.
<p>Here's that link to the Virtual Engagement training program. This is an exclusive offer for listeners of Your Intended Message </p>
<p>Zurl.co/W6yV</p>
<p> </p>
<p>For more information about Anders Boulanger and his programs visit the website <a href='https://engagify.ai/'>https://engagify.ai/</a></p>
<p></p>
George Torok is your podcast host.
<p>He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.</p>
<p>He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.</p>
<p>George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.</p>
<p>Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.</p>
<p><em>Connect with George Torok</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How can you grab attention? How can you stir interest? What might you do to get people to listen to you?
Anders Boulanger is an expert at that. He’s been performing since age five. He’s earned his chops delivering Walk Around Magic. He’s attracted attention to boring tradeshow booths. He knows what works if you what to capture attention and have people participate more.
Many people are
Unaware of the unintended messages they are sending
Untrained on how to connect with the audience
Unremarkable with their delivery – especially with virtual presentations
What is the engagement gap? What happens to 33% of the energy?
Listen in to learn about his exclusive offer for listeners of this podcast – 33% off the regular fee of his online course on - How to be More Engaging Online.
Here's that link to the Virtual Engagement training program. This is an exclusive offer for listeners of Your Intended Message 
Zurl.co/W6yV
 
For more information about Anders Boulanger and his programs visit the website https://engagify.ai/

George Torok is your podcast host.
He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.
He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.
George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.
Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.
Connect with George Torok
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1]]></itunes:summary>
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        <title>16 Susan RoAne - Author of How to Work a Room</title>
        <itunes:title>16 Susan RoAne - Author of How to Work a Room</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Susan RoAne is known as the Mingling Maven. Forbes.com called her the Networking Guru. Sir Richard Branson quoted her for his top ten list.
<p>Susan conveys networking tips and advice with the combination of Chicago style in-your-face attitude, California optimism and grandmotherly practicality.</p>
What does Susan RoAne say about networking?
<ul><li>Networking is mandatory.</li>
<li>Networking is the key to visibility.</li>
<li>Networking is the art of communication.</li>
</ul>
<p>She points out that how you deliver the message is part of the intended message.</p>
<p>Her books are bestsellers and ‘How to Work a Room” has sold over 1.2 million copies.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>   </p>
<p>Learn more about Susan RoAne and her programs at her website</p>
<p><a href='https://www.susanroane.com/'>https://www.susanroane.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
George Torok is your podcast host.
<p>He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.</p>
<p>He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.</p>
<p>George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.</p>
<p>Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.</p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Susan RoAne is known as the Mingling Maven. Forbes.com called her the Networking Guru. Sir Richard Branson quoted her for his top ten list.
<p>Susan conveys networking tips and advice with the combination of Chicago style in-your-face attitude, California optimism and grandmotherly practicality.</p>
What does Susan RoAne say about networking?
<ul><li>Networking is mandatory.</li>
<li>Networking is the key to visibility.</li>
<li>Networking is the art of communication.</li>
</ul>
<p>She points out that how you deliver the message is part of the intended message.</p>
<p>Her books are bestsellers and ‘How to Work a Room” has sold over 1.2 million copies.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>   </p>
<p>Learn more about Susan RoAne and her programs at her website</p>
<p><a href='https://www.susanroane.com/'>https://www.susanroane.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
George Torok is your podcast host.
<p>He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.</p>
<p>He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.</p>
<p>George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.</p>
<p>Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.</p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Susan RoAne is known as the Mingling Maven. Forbes.com called her the Networking Guru. Sir Richard Branson quoted her for his top ten list.
Susan conveys networking tips and advice with the combination of Chicago style in-your-face attitude, California optimism and grandmotherly practicality.
What does Susan RoAne say about networking?
Networking is mandatory.
Networking is the key to visibility.
Networking is the art of communication.
She points out that how you deliver the message is part of the intended message.
Her books are bestsellers and ‘How to Work a Room” has sold over 1.2 million copies.
 
   
Learn more about Susan RoAne and her programs at her website
https://www.susanroane.com/
 
George Torok is your podcast host.
He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.
He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.
George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.
Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
 
 
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        <title>15 Sam Horn, Bestselling Author, Founder of the Intrigue Agency</title>
        <itunes:title>15 Sam Horn, Bestselling Author, Founder of the Intrigue Agency</itunes:title>
        <link>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/15-sam-horn-bestselling-author-founder-of-the-intrigue-agency/</link>
                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/15-sam-horn-bestselling-author-founder-of-the-intrigue-agency/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Thu, 05 Nov 2020 10:35:22 -0500</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How to deliver your 60-second introduction.
<p>How to make your elevator speech not feel like a pitch.</p>
<p>How to have them at hello.</p>
<p>How to build rapport with the people you meet and become more memorable.</p>
<p>How to turn the vague into the visible.</p>
<p>These are the gems that Sam Horn reveals in this discussion.</p>
<p>Sam Horn is the author of Tongue Fu, POP! Stand Out in Any Crowd and Got Your Attention.</p>
<p>She was the Executive Director of the Maui Writers Conference for 17 years - and helped thousands of writers get their book out of their head and into the world.</p>
<p>Learn more about her programs here <a href='https://www.intrigueagency.com/'>https://www.intrigueagency.com/</a></p>
<p>------------------</p>
<p>The Importance of Asking Questions [00:03:01]
Sam Horn discusses the importance of asking questions instead of delivering a one-way monologue during self-introductions at networking events.</p>
<p>Engaging in a Meaningful Conversation [00:05:03]
Sam Horn explains how asking follow-up questions and showing genuine interest in the other person's response can lead to a more engaging and meaningful conversation.</p>
<p>Turning Elevator Speeches into Elevator Questions [00:08:18]
Sam Horn shares an example of how to transform an elevator speech into an elevator question, emphasizing the need to make the conversation more real and interactive.</p>
<p>The Elevator Introduction [00:11:49]
Discussion on tailoring self-introductions to different groups and situations, including virtual meetings and networking events.</p>
<p>Writing Copy for Podcast/Webinar [00:13:52]
Exploring how to write engaging copy for virtual presentations by asking relevant questions and creating meaningful dialogue.</p>
<p>Turning the Vague into the Visual [00:18:14]
Using specific examples and visuals to make self-introductions more relatable and clear, increasing engagement and conversation.</p>
<p>The Empathy Telescope [00:24:19]
The power of empathy and how it can mobilize people to take action and make a difference.</p>
<p>Using Individual Stories [00:25:32]
The importance of using individual stories to make a connection with others and inspire them to take action.</p>
<p>Using Numbers for Impact [00:28:27]
How to effectively use numbers to impress decision makers and convey the impact of a project or idea.</p>
<p> </p>
Check out the POP Master Class starting Jan 2021
https://www.intrigueagency.com/popmasterclass
And listen to this discussion to discover how you can get a $100 discount for the Pop Master Class.
<p> </p>
<p>  </p>
<p> </p>
George Torok is your podcast host.
<p>He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.</p>
<p>He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.</p>
<p>George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.</p>
<p>Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.</p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How to deliver your 60-second introduction.
<p>How to make your elevator speech not feel like a pitch.</p>
<p>How to have them at hello.</p>
<p>How to build rapport with the people you meet and become more memorable.</p>
<p>How to turn the vague into the visible.</p>
<p>These are the gems that Sam Horn reveals in this discussion.</p>
<p>Sam Horn is the author of Tongue Fu, POP! Stand Out in Any Crowd and Got Your Attention.</p>
<p>She was the Executive Director of the Maui Writers Conference for 17 years - and helped thousands of writers get their book out of their head and into the world.</p>
<p>Learn more about her programs here <a href='https://www.intrigueagency.com/'>https://www.intrigueagency.com/</a></p>
<p>------------------</p>
<p>The Importance of Asking Questions [00:03:01]<br>
Sam Horn discusses the importance of asking questions instead of delivering a one-way monologue during self-introductions at networking events.</p>
<p>Engaging in a Meaningful Conversation [00:05:03]<br>
Sam Horn explains how asking follow-up questions and showing genuine interest in the other person's response can lead to a more engaging and meaningful conversation.</p>
<p>Turning Elevator Speeches into Elevator Questions [00:08:18]<br>
Sam Horn shares an example of how to transform an elevator speech into an elevator question, emphasizing the need to make the conversation more real and interactive.</p>
<p>The Elevator Introduction [00:11:49]<br>
Discussion on tailoring self-introductions to different groups and situations, including virtual meetings and networking events.</p>
<p>Writing Copy for Podcast/Webinar [00:13:52]<br>
Exploring how to write engaging copy for virtual presentations by asking relevant questions and creating meaningful dialogue.</p>
<p>Turning the Vague into the Visual [00:18:14]<br>
Using specific examples and visuals to make self-introductions more relatable and clear, increasing engagement and conversation.</p>
<p>The Empathy Telescope [00:24:19]<br>
The power of empathy and how it can mobilize people to take action and make a difference.</p>
<p>Using Individual Stories [00:25:32]<br>
The importance of using individual stories to make a connection with others and inspire them to take action.</p>
<p>Using Numbers for Impact [00:28:27]<br>
How to effectively use numbers to impress decision makers and convey the impact of a project or idea.</p>
<p> </p>
Check out the POP Master Class starting Jan 2021
https://www.intrigueagency.com/popmasterclass
And listen to this discussion to discover how you can get a $100 discount for the Pop Master Class.
<p> </p>
<p>  </p>
<p> </p>
George Torok is your podcast host.
<p>He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.</p>
<p>He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.</p>
<p>George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.</p>
<p>Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.</p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com/'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.speechcoachforexecutives.com/'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.superiorpresentations.net/'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How to deliver your 60-second introduction.
How to make your elevator speech not feel like a pitch.
How to have them at hello.
How to build rapport with the people you meet and become more memorable.
How to turn the vague into the visible.
These are the gems that Sam Horn reveals in this discussion.
Sam Horn is the author of Tongue Fu, POP! Stand Out in Any Crowd and Got Your Attention.
She was the Executive Director of the Maui Writers Conference for 17 years - and helped thousands of writers get their book out of their head and into the world.
Learn more about her programs here https://www.intrigueagency.com/
------------------
The Importance of Asking Questions [00:03:01]Sam Horn discusses the importance of asking questions instead of delivering a one-way monologue during self-introductions at networking events.
Engaging in a Meaningful Conversation [00:05:03]Sam Horn explains how asking follow-up questions and showing genuine interest in the other person's response can lead to a more engaging and meaningful conversation.
Turning Elevator Speeches into Elevator Questions [00:08:18]Sam Horn shares an example of how to transform an elevator speech into an elevator question, emphasizing the need to make the conversation more real and interactive.
The Elevator Introduction [00:11:49]Discussion on tailoring self-introductions to different groups and situations, including virtual meetings and networking events.
Writing Copy for Podcast/Webinar [00:13:52]Exploring how to write engaging copy for virtual presentations by asking relevant questions and creating meaningful dialogue.
Turning the Vague into the Visual [00:18:14]Using specific examples and visuals to make self-introductions more relatable and clear, increasing engagement and conversation.
The Empathy Telescope [00:24:19]The power of empathy and how it can mobilize people to take action and make a difference.
Using Individual Stories [00:25:32]The importance of using individual stories to make a connection with others and inspire them to take action.
Using Numbers for Impact [00:28:27]How to effectively use numbers to impress decision makers and convey the impact of a project or idea.
 
Check out the POP Master Class starting Jan 2021
https://www.intrigueagency.com/popmasterclass
And listen to this discussion to discover how you can get a $100 discount for the Pop Master Class.
 
  
 
George Torok is your podcast host.
He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.
He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.
George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.
Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 ]]></itunes:summary>
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        <title>14 Martin Buckland, Executive career coach. Executive resume writer</title>
        <itunes:title>14 Martin Buckland, Executive career coach. Executive resume writer</itunes:title>
        <link>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/14-martin-buckland-executive-career-coach-executive-resume-writer/</link>
                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/14-martin-buckland-executive-career-coach-executive-resume-writer/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Thu, 29 Oct 2020 10:01:00 -0400</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Manage your executive career. Write a better executive resume. Prepare for the executive job interview.
<p>What might an ex-Scotland Yard terrorist squad member teach you about taking control of your executive career?</p>
<p>What are you selling and how best to sell yourself?</p>
<p>That's what you'll learn from Martin Buckland in this interview.</p>
<p>Your intended message and delivered message is critical to your career. Martin Buckland offers advice and more on how to be successful.</p>
Be sure to contact Martin for a 30-minute critique of your resume - no charge and no obligation. 
<p>Visit the website <a href='https://aneliteresume.com/'>https://aneliteresume.com/</a></p>
<p>If you are a promising executive and want ideas on how to advance your career - listen to this podcast.</p>
<p>If you are building your executive team - listen to this interview.</p>
George Torok is your podcast host.
<p>He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.</p>
<p>George Torok co-authored the bestselling book, Secrets of Power Marketing. It’s a practical guide to personal marketing. The book was published in at least seven countries.</p>
<p>He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.</p>
<p>George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.</p>
<p>Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.</p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Manage your executive career. Write a better executive resume. Prepare for the executive job interview.
<p>What might an ex-Scotland Yard terrorist squad member teach you about taking control of your executive career?</p>
<p>What are you selling and how best to sell yourself?</p>
<p>That's what you'll learn from Martin Buckland in this interview.</p>
<p>Your intended message and delivered message is critical to your career. Martin Buckland offers advice and more on how to be successful.</p>
Be sure to contact Martin for a 30-minute critique of your resume - no charge and no obligation. 
<p>Visit the website <a href='https://aneliteresume.com/'>https://aneliteresume.com/</a></p>
<p>If you are a promising executive and want ideas on how to advance your career - listen to this podcast.</p>
<p>If you are building your executive team - listen to this interview.</p>
George Torok is your podcast host.
<p>He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.</p>
<p>George Torok co-authored the bestselling book, Secrets of Power Marketing. It’s a practical guide to personal marketing. The book was published in at least seven countries.</p>
<p>He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.</p>
<p>George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.</p>
<p>Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.</p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Manage your executive career. Write a better executive resume. Prepare for the executive job interview.
What might an ex-Scotland Yard terrorist squad member teach you about taking control of your executive career?
What are you selling and how best to sell yourself?
That's what you'll learn from Martin Buckland in this interview.
Your intended message and delivered message is critical to your career. Martin Buckland offers advice and more on how to be successful.
Be sure to contact Martin for a 30-minute critique of your resume - no charge and no obligation. 
Visit the website https://aneliteresume.com/
If you are a promising executive and want ideas on how to advance your career - listen to this podcast.
If you are building your executive team - listen to this interview.
George Torok is your podcast host.
He hosted the weekly radio show, Business in Motion, on 93.3 CFMU for 19 years. During that time, he interviewed over 500 entrepreneurs, business authors and community leaders.
George Torok co-authored the bestselling book, Secrets of Power Marketing. It’s a practical guide to personal marketing. The book was published in at least seven countries.
He’s known as “The Speech Coach for Executives” because he helps executives deliver more effective presentations. He does that through private coaching.
George is the creator of Superior Presentations – a presentation training program for managers, professionals, and sales teams.
Most importantly, George Torok is a student of communication. He examines the nuances, challenges, and secrets of effective communication.
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1]]></itunes:summary>
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        <title>13 Jason Hewlett, Entertainer, Romantic, Man with a Weird Gift</title>
        <itunes:title>13 Jason Hewlett, Entertainer, Romantic, Man with a Weird Gift</itunes:title>
        <link>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/13-jason-hewlett-entertainer-romantic-man-with-a-weird-gift/</link>
                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/13-jason-hewlett-entertainer-romantic-man-with-a-weird-gift/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2020 10:02:00 -0400</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Jason Hewlett is a big stage performer who received a lucrative offer to headline a show in Las Vegas - and he turned it down???
Why did he do that and how does the Vegas establishment react when you say no?
Although Jason is a performer - dancer, singer, impressionist - in this conversation we explore the power of self talk.
<p>What's the difference between a goal and a promise?</p>
<p>How can writing a journal keep you focused?</p>
<p>How can you purge the poison from your thoughts?</p>
<p>You'll find this interview to be insightful, inspiring and entertaining.</p>
<p>There's more and when you hear about the weird ways he manipulates his face you will want to watch the video on our YouTube channel.</p>
<p><a href='https://jasonhewlett.com/'>https://jasonhewlett.com/</a></p>
<p></p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Jason Hewlett is a big stage performer who received a lucrative offer to headline a show in Las Vegas - and he turned it down???
Why did he do that and how does the Vegas establishment react when you say no?
Although Jason is a performer - dancer, singer, impressionist - in this conversation we explore the power of self talk.
<p>What's the difference between a goal and a promise?</p>
<p>How can writing a journal keep you focused?</p>
<p>How can you purge the poison from your thoughts?</p>
<p>You'll find this interview to be insightful, inspiring and entertaining.</p>
<p>There's more and when you hear about the weird ways he manipulates his face you will want to watch the video on our YouTube channel.</p>
<p><a href='https://jasonhewlett.com/'>https://jasonhewlett.com/</a></p>
<p></p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Jason Hewlett is a big stage performer who received a lucrative offer to headline a show in Las Vegas - and he turned it down???
Why did he do that and how does the Vegas establishment react when you say no?
Although Jason is a performer - dancer, singer, impressionist - in this conversation we explore the power of self talk.
What's the difference between a goal and a promise?
How can writing a journal keep you focused?
How can you purge the poison from your thoughts?
You'll find this interview to be insightful, inspiring and entertaining.
There's more and when you hear about the weird ways he manipulates his face you will want to watch the video on our YouTube channel.
https://jasonhewlett.com/

Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests
He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing
By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
 
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        <title>12 Jeff Civillico, Juggler, Las Vegas headline Entertainer, Virtual Event Host</title>
        <itunes:title>12 Jeff Civillico, Juggler, Las Vegas headline Entertainer, Virtual Event Host</itunes:title>
        <link>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/12-jeff-civillico-juggler-las-vegas-headline-entertainer-virtual-event-host/</link>
                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/12-jeff-civillico-juggler-las-vegas-headline-entertainer-virtual-event-host/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2020 10:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[<p>At the age of 10, Jeff started entertaining his grandparents in the kitchen. Years later, he headlined a show at a casino on the Las Vegas strip - for ten years.</p>
<p>What did he learn about engaging the audience? What did he discover about clarifying the intended message? How did he apply his lessons to help children?</p>
<p>That's what you'll hear on this interview with Jeff Civillico on Your Intended Message.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.jeffcivillico.com/'>https://www.jeffcivillico.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://youtu.be/7ZfCp905Gl0'>https://youtu.be/7ZfCp905Gl0</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At the age of 10, Jeff started entertaining his grandparents in the kitchen. Years later, he headlined a show at a casino on the Las Vegas strip - for ten years.</p>
<p>What did he learn about engaging the audience? What did he discover about clarifying the intended message? How did he apply his lessons to help children?</p>
<p>That's what you'll hear on this interview with Jeff Civillico on Your Intended Message.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.jeffcivillico.com/'>https://www.jeffcivillico.com/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://youtu.be/7ZfCp905Gl0'>https://youtu.be/7ZfCp905Gl0</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
<p>Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.</p>
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[At the age of 10, Jeff started entertaining his grandparents in the kitchen. Years later, he headlined a show at a casino on the Las Vegas strip - for ten years.
What did he learn about engaging the audience? What did he discover about clarifying the intended message? How did he apply his lessons to help children?
That's what you'll hear on this interview with Jeff Civillico on Your Intended Message.
https://www.jeffcivillico.com/
https://youtu.be/7ZfCp905Gl0
 

Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests
He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing
By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
 
 
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        <itunes:block>No</itunes:block>
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        <title>11 Jeff Blackman, Business Growth Specialist</title>
        <itunes:title>11 Jeff Blackman, Business Growth Specialist</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[What role does persistence play in being an effective communicator?
<p>The importance of results, benefits, and outcomes [00:00:00]
Jeff emphasizes that decision makers are driven by the results, benefits, and outcomes that can be delivered to them.</p>
<p>Introduction of Jeff Blackman [00:00:38]
George introduces Jeff Blackman as a speaker, author, success coach, and lawyer, and mentions some interesting facts about him.</p>
<p>Jeff's personal experience with overcoming a speech impediment [00:04:48]
Jeff shares his personal story of overcoming a speech impediment in first grade and how it shaped his career as a communicator.</p>
<p>The Beatles concert experience [00:10:42]
Jeff shares his experience of attending a Beatles concert in Chicago in 1964.</p>
<p>Meeting Ringo Starr in Monaco [00:12:57]
Jeff recounts his encounter with Ringo Starr in Monaco and how he approached him with a unique question.</p>
<p>Improving the response to "What do you do?" [00:16:19]
Jeff discusses strategies for answering the common networking question and emphasizes the importance of focusing on results, benefits, advantages, and outcomes.</p>
<p>The importance of open-ended questions [00:21:13]
Jeff discusses the significance of using open-ended questions in communication and provides examples.</p>
<p>Creating trust through questions [00:22:43]
Jeff explains how asking specific questions can build trust and create a collaborative relationship.</p>
<p>Effective word choice [00:25:09]
Jeff emphasizes the importance of using precise language and replacing subjective opinions with objective experiences.</p>
<p>The importance of collaboration and trust [00:31:32]
Establishing a peer relationship, being collaborative, and building trust are crucial for success.</p>
<p>Insights from Jeff's book "Peak Your Profit" [00:32:08]
Jeff discusses the insights and strategies that readers can gain from his book "Peak Your Profit."</p>
<p>The world's fastest strategic plan [00:37:37]
Jeff shares a three-question strategic plan that can be used by CEOs, salespeople, and anyone in a business setting to determine their current position, desired goals, and how to achieve them.</p>
What's a better way to answer the question, "So what do you do?"
How to talk with C-suite decision makers.
Jeff Blackman is a speaker, author, success coach, broadcast personality and lawyer. He heads Blackman &amp; Associates—a results-producing business-growth firm in the Chicagoland area. Jeff’s clients call him, a “business-growth specialist.”
His customized Referrals: Your Road to Results learning-system, helped one financial services client—generate $230 million directly from referrals, in only 23 months!
<p>For over four decades, Jeff has shared his positive and profit-producing</p>
<p>messages with numerous; Fortune 500 companies, closely-held businesses, entrepreneurial driven organizations, solo practitioners and association audiences throughout the world.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Did you hear about his offer of the Sweet Sixteen?</p>
<p>To receive your copy of this list of powerful questions, send an email to <a href='mailto:sheryl@jeffblackman'>sheryl@jeffblackman</a> and put this in the Subject - Sweet Sixteen George Rocks</p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[What role does persistence play in being an effective communicator?
<p>The importance of results, benefits, and outcomes [00:00:00]<br>
Jeff emphasizes that decision makers are driven by the results, benefits, and outcomes that can be delivered to them.</p>
<p>Introduction of Jeff Blackman [00:00:38]<br>
George introduces Jeff Blackman as a speaker, author, success coach, and lawyer, and mentions some interesting facts about him.</p>
<p>Jeff's personal experience with overcoming a speech impediment [00:04:48]<br>
Jeff shares his personal story of overcoming a speech impediment in first grade and how it shaped his career as a communicator.</p>
<p>The Beatles concert experience [00:10:42]<br>
Jeff shares his experience of attending a Beatles concert in Chicago in 1964.</p>
<p>Meeting Ringo Starr in Monaco [00:12:57]<br>
Jeff recounts his encounter with Ringo Starr in Monaco and how he approached him with a unique question.</p>
<p>Improving the response to "What do you do?" [00:16:19]<br>
Jeff discusses strategies for answering the common networking question and emphasizes the importance of focusing on results, benefits, advantages, and outcomes.</p>
<p>The importance of open-ended questions [00:21:13]<br>
Jeff discusses the significance of using open-ended questions in communication and provides examples.</p>
<p>Creating trust through questions [00:22:43]<br>
Jeff explains how asking specific questions can build trust and create a collaborative relationship.</p>
<p>Effective word choice [00:25:09]<br>
Jeff emphasizes the importance of using precise language and replacing subjective opinions with objective experiences.</p>
<p>The importance of collaboration and trust [00:31:32]<br>
Establishing a peer relationship, being collaborative, and building trust are crucial for success.</p>
<p>Insights from Jeff's book "Peak Your Profit" [00:32:08]<br>
Jeff discusses the insights and strategies that readers can gain from his book "Peak Your Profit."</p>
<p>The world's fastest strategic plan [00:37:37]<br>
Jeff shares a three-question strategic plan that can be used by CEOs, salespeople, and anyone in a business setting to determine their current position, desired goals, and how to achieve them.</p>
What's a better way to answer the question, "So what do you do?"
How to talk with C-suite decision makers.
Jeff Blackman is a speaker, author, success coach, broadcast personality and lawyer. He heads Blackman &amp; Associates—a results-producing business-growth firm in the Chicagoland area. Jeff’s clients call him, a “business-growth specialist.”
His customized <em>Referrals: Your Road to Results</em> learning-system, helped one financial services client—generate $230 million directly from referrals, in only 23 months!
<p>For over four decades, Jeff has shared his positive and profit-producing</p>
<p>messages with numerous; Fortune 500 companies, closely-held businesses, entrepreneurial driven organizations, solo practitioners and association audiences throughout the world.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Did you hear about his offer of the Sweet Sixteen?</p>
<p>To receive your copy of this list of powerful questions, send an email to <a href='mailto:sheryl@jeffblackman'>sheryl@jeffblackman</a> and put this in the Subject - Sweet Sixteen George Rocks</p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What role does persistence play in being an effective communicator?
The importance of results, benefits, and outcomes [00:00:00]Jeff emphasizes that decision makers are driven by the results, benefits, and outcomes that can be delivered to them.
Introduction of Jeff Blackman [00:00:38]George introduces Jeff Blackman as a speaker, author, success coach, and lawyer, and mentions some interesting facts about him.
Jeff's personal experience with overcoming a speech impediment [00:04:48]Jeff shares his personal story of overcoming a speech impediment in first grade and how it shaped his career as a communicator.
The Beatles concert experience [00:10:42]Jeff shares his experience of attending a Beatles concert in Chicago in 1964.
Meeting Ringo Starr in Monaco [00:12:57]Jeff recounts his encounter with Ringo Starr in Monaco and how he approached him with a unique question.
Improving the response to "What do you do?" [00:16:19]Jeff discusses strategies for answering the common networking question and emphasizes the importance of focusing on results, benefits, advantages, and outcomes.
The importance of open-ended questions [00:21:13]Jeff discusses the significance of using open-ended questions in communication and provides examples.
Creating trust through questions [00:22:43]Jeff explains how asking specific questions can build trust and create a collaborative relationship.
Effective word choice [00:25:09]Jeff emphasizes the importance of using precise language and replacing subjective opinions with objective experiences.
The importance of collaboration and trust [00:31:32]Establishing a peer relationship, being collaborative, and building trust are crucial for success.
Insights from Jeff's book "Peak Your Profit" [00:32:08]Jeff discusses the insights and strategies that readers can gain from his book "Peak Your Profit."
The world's fastest strategic plan [00:37:37]Jeff shares a three-question strategic plan that can be used by CEOs, salespeople, and anyone in a business setting to determine their current position, desired goals, and how to achieve them.
What's a better way to answer the question, "So what do you do?"
How to talk with C-suite decision makers.
Jeff Blackman is a speaker, author, success coach, broadcast personality and lawyer. He heads Blackman &amp; Associates—a results-producing business-growth firm in the Chicagoland area. Jeff’s clients call him, a “business-growth specialist.”
His customized Referrals: Your Road to Results learning-system, helped one financial services client—generate $230 million directly from referrals, in only 23 months!
For over four decades, Jeff has shared his positive and profit-producing
messages with numerous; Fortune 500 companies, closely-held businesses, entrepreneurial driven organizations, solo practitioners and association audiences throughout the world.

Did you hear about his offer of the Sweet Sixteen?
To receive your copy of this list of powerful questions, send an email to sheryl@jeffblackman and put this in the Subject - Sweet Sixteen George Rocks
 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests
He wrote Secrets of Power Mark]]></itunes:summary>
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        <title>10 Shelle Rose Charvet, Author of Words That Change Minds</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Have you ever wondered if the words you were using were helping you or hurting you? If so, listen to this interview with Shelle Rose Charvet - author of the best selling book - Words that Change Minds.
<p>In this interview we examine and decode how the words influence decisions and more importantly - how listening to the words that your clients, staff and family use indicate how best to communicate with them.</p>
<p>Are you using words that close minds or open minds?</p>
<p>Do you recognize the difference between "away from" language and "toward" language and are you adapting your language?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Forbes ranked this book as, Best Management Book for Executives and Entrepreneurs.</p>
<p>Rate number 1 in Good Reads in Influence.</p>
<p>Find the book on Amazon - <a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Words-That-Change-Minds-Mastering-ebook/dp/B07PVSR2J4/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1RZW47Y2GOCGH&dchild=1&keywords=words+that+change+minds&qid=1601493804&sprefix=words+that+chan%2Caps%2C160&sr=8-1'>Words That Change Minds</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>Check your email before you send them to save embarrassment and relationships by running through the filter at <a href='http://www.libretta.com'>Libretta.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Have you ever wondered if the words you were using were helping you or hurting you? If so, listen to this interview with Shelle Rose Charvet - author of the best selling book - Words that Change Minds.
<p>In this interview we examine and decode how the words influence decisions and more importantly - how listening to the words that your clients, staff and family use indicate how best to communicate with them.</p>
<p>Are you using words that close minds or open minds?</p>
<p>Do you recognize the difference between "away from" language and "toward" language and are you adapting your language?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Forbes ranked this book as, Best Management Book for Executives and Entrepreneurs.</p>
<p>Rate number 1 in Good Reads in Influence.</p>
<p>Find the book on Amazon - <a href='https://www.amazon.ca/Words-That-Change-Minds-Mastering-ebook/dp/B07PVSR2J4/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1RZW47Y2GOCGH&dchild=1&keywords=words+that+change+minds&qid=1601493804&sprefix=words+that+chan%2Caps%2C160&sr=8-1'>Words That Change Minds</a></p>
<p></p>
<p>Check your email before you send them to save embarrassment and relationships by running through the filter at <a href='http://www.libretta.com'>Libretta.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever wondered if the words you were using were helping you or hurting you? If so, listen to this interview with Shelle Rose Charvet - author of the best selling book - Words that Change Minds.
In this interview we examine and decode how the words influence decisions and more importantly - how listening to the words that your clients, staff and family use indicate how best to communicate with them.
Are you using words that close minds or open minds?
Do you recognize the difference between "away from" language and "toward" language and are you adapting your language?
 
Forbes ranked this book as, Best Management Book for Executives and Entrepreneurs.
Rate number 1 in Good Reads in Influence.
Find the book on Amazon - Words That Change Minds

Check your email before you send them to save embarrassment and relationships by running through the filter at Libretta.com
 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests
He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing
By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
 
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        <title>09 Vince Poscente, Olympian, New York Times Bestselling author</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[<p>Put your audience into your story so they experience it.</p>
<p>New York Times Bestselling author and Olympic athlete, Vince Poscente discusses the challenges of leadership communication, conscious versus subconscious conflict and drawing the audience into your stories.</p>
<p>Imagine the insights you can gain from listening to this interview with Vince Poscente. </p>
<p>Who is Vince and how might he help you? </p>
<p>Learn more here  <a href='https://www.vinceposcente.com/'>https://www.vinceposcente.com/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Put your audience into your story so they experience it.</p>
<p>New York Times Bestselling author and Olympic athlete, Vince Poscente discusses the challenges of leadership communication, conscious versus subconscious conflict and drawing the audience into your stories.</p>
<p>Imagine the insights you can gain from listening to this interview with Vince Poscente. </p>
<p>Who is Vince and how might he help you? </p>
<p>Learn more here  <a href='https://www.vinceposcente.com/'>https://www.vinceposcente.com/</a></p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Put your audience into your story so they experience it.
New York Times Bestselling author and Olympic athlete, Vince Poscente discusses the challenges of leadership communication, conscious versus subconscious conflict and drawing the audience into your stories.
Imagine the insights you can gain from listening to this interview with Vince Poscente. 
Who is Vince and how might he help you? 
Learn more here  https://www.vinceposcente.com/

 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests
He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing
By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
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        <title>08 Chantel, Broten, Jan Kelley Marketing</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Imagine that. A hundred-year-old advertising agency continues to adapt with the times and challenges. Markets, marketing and customers have changed. Yet, Jan Kelley Marketing, one of Canada’s oldest marketing agencies reinvents itself as a creative digital marketing agency.
<p>Chantel Broten, President and CEO, discusses the challenges of Radical Transparency, the power of Thought Leadership and the opportunities of digital marketing.</p>
<p>Jan Kelley helps businesses grow by using their proprietary digital growth framework to develop, optimize and iterate strong, digital-first marketing strategies and programs. The company's philosophy brings together the power of technology and the brilliance of humanity to spark ideas, generate momentum and drive lasting results.</p>
<p>Learn more about Jan Kelley hear - <a href='https://jankelley.com/'>https://jankelley.com/</a></p>
<p>Connect with Chantel Broten - <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/chantel-broten-084a153/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/chantel-broten-084a153/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Imagine that. A hundred-year-old advertising agency continues to adapt with the times and challenges. Markets, marketing and customers have changed. Yet, Jan Kelley Marketing, one of Canada’s oldest marketing agencies reinvents itself as a creative digital marketing agency.
<p>Chantel Broten, President and CEO, discusses the challenges of Radical Transparency, the power of Thought Leadership and the opportunities of digital marketing.</p>
<p>Jan Kelley helps businesses grow by using their proprietary digital growth framework to develop, optimize and iterate strong, digital-first marketing strategies and programs. The company's philosophy brings together the power of technology and the brilliance of humanity to spark ideas, generate momentum and drive lasting results.</p>
<p>Learn more about Jan Kelley hear - <a href='https://jankelley.com/'>https://jankelley.com/</a></p>
<p>Connect with Chantel Broten - <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/chantel-broten-084a153/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/chantel-broten-084a153/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Imagine that. A hundred-year-old advertising agency continues to adapt with the times and challenges. Markets, marketing and customers have changed. Yet, Jan Kelley Marketing, one of Canada’s oldest marketing agencies reinvents itself as a creative digital marketing agency.
Chantel Broten, President and CEO, discusses the challenges of Radical Transparency, the power of Thought Leadership and the opportunities of digital marketing.
Jan Kelley helps businesses grow by using their proprietary digital growth framework to develop, optimize and iterate strong, digital-first marketing strategies and programs. The company's philosophy brings together the power of technology and the brilliance of humanity to spark ideas, generate momentum and drive lasting results.
Learn more about Jan Kelley hear - https://jankelley.com/
Connect with Chantel Broten - https://www.linkedin.com/in/chantel-broten-084a153/
 

 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests
He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing
By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
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        <title>07 Steve Slaunwhite, Copywriting expert</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Copywriting is the art and science of writing persuasive marketing and sales copy. That might take the form of a sales letter, a prospecting email, web page, advertisement, blog post, landing page and more.
<p>Steve Slaunwhite discusses the steps and techniques to write effective emails that stimulate sales through a series of call to action steps.</p>
<p>He consults, trains and advises on how to write effective sales and marketing copy. He also provides copywriting for special clients.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Key insights in this interview</p>
<ol><li>The importance of differentiation (and the magic phrase)</li>
<li>Make it easy to say yes to your offer</li>
<li>Benefits!</li>
</ol><p></p>
<p>Click here to register for his weekly newsletter, Copywriting Smarts, offering practical tips on how to write more persuasive copy.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.steveslaunwhite.com/'>https://www.steveslaunwhite.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Copywriting is the art and science of writing persuasive marketing and sales copy. That might take the form of a sales letter, a prospecting email, web page, advertisement, blog post, landing page and more.
<p>Steve Slaunwhite discusses the steps and techniques to write effective emails that stimulate sales through a series of call to action steps.</p>
<p>He consults, trains and advises on how to write effective sales and marketing copy. He also provides copywriting for special clients.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Key insights in this interview</p>
<ol><li>The importance of differentiation (and the magic phrase)</li>
<li>Make it easy to say yes to your offer</li>
<li>Benefits!</li>
</ol><p></p>
<p>Click here to register for his weekly newsletter, Copywriting Smarts, offering practical tips on how to write more persuasive copy.</p>
<p><a href='https://www.steveslaunwhite.com/'>https://www.steveslaunwhite.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Copywriting is the art and science of writing persuasive marketing and sales copy. That might take the form of a sales letter, a prospecting email, web page, advertisement, blog post, landing page and more.
Steve Slaunwhite discusses the steps and techniques to write effective emails that stimulate sales through a series of call to action steps.
He consults, trains and advises on how to write effective sales and marketing copy. He also provides copywriting for special clients.
 
Key insights in this interview
The importance of differentiation (and the magic phrase)
Make it easy to say yes to your offer
Benefits!

Click here to register for his weekly newsletter, Copywriting Smarts, offering practical tips on how to write more persuasive copy.
https://www.steveslaunwhite.com/
 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests
He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing
By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
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        <title>06 Terry Flynn, Crisis Communication</title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[In this interview with Terry Flynn, we discussed communication during a crisis in particular – how to prepare and how to respond.
<p>Terry Flynn talks about three corporate crisis – the Tylenol poisoning of 1982, the Walkerton ecoli outbreak of 2000 and the Maple Leaf listeriosis outbreak of 2008.</p>
<p>He extracts lessons from these crises for business leaders and entrepreneurs. How to be more authentic and credible during a crisis and how you might emerge better than you were before the challenge.</p>
<p>Also notice that he used the term “New Normal” in this interview which was conducted in Dec 2013.</p>
<p></p>
<p>This interview is from the archives of my radio show, Business in Motion, which I hosted for 19 years.</p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[In this interview with Terry Flynn, we discussed communication during a crisis in particular – how to prepare and how to respond.
<p>Terry Flynn talks about three corporate crisis – the Tylenol poisoning of 1982, the Walkerton ecoli outbreak of 2000 and the Maple Leaf listeriosis outbreak of 2008.</p>
<p>He extracts lessons from these crises for business leaders and entrepreneurs. How to be more authentic and credible during a crisis and how you might emerge better than you were before the challenge.</p>
<p>Also notice that he used the term “New Normal” in this interview which was conducted in Dec 2013.</p>
<p></p>
<p>This interview is from the archives of my radio show, Business in Motion, which I hosted for 19 years.</p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this interview with Terry Flynn, we discussed communication during a crisis in particular – how to prepare and how to respond.
Terry Flynn talks about three corporate crisis – the Tylenol poisoning of 1982, the Walkerton ecoli outbreak of 2000 and the Maple Leaf listeriosis outbreak of 2008.
He extracts lessons from these crises for business leaders and entrepreneurs. How to be more authentic and credible during a crisis and how you might emerge better than you were before the challenge.
Also notice that he used the term “New Normal” in this interview which was conducted in Dec 2013.

This interview is from the archives of my radio show, Business in Motion, which I hosted for 19 years.
 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests
He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing
By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
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        <title>05 Wayne Lee, Peak Performance Expert</title>
        <itunes:title>05 Wayne Lee, Peak Performance Expert</itunes:title>
        <link>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/05-wayne-lee-peak-performance-expert/</link>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[In this episode we talked about how to be better at influencing others and especially about how to program yourself for success. Imagine mastering the power of positive self talk. When you visualize your goals – you can see the path to success.
<p>As a peak performance expert, Wayne Lee awakens audiences to their full potential. For 20+ years, Wayne has helped over 6,000 global organizations achieve sustainable peak performance through a positive mindset, collective alignment and the power to overcome what seemed impossible yesterday.</p>
<p>The Power of Visualization [00:00:00]
Discussion on the importance of visualization in achieving peak performance and how Olympic gold medalists use it.</p>
<p>Introduction to Wayne Lee [00:01:24]
Introducing Wayne Lee, his background as a Canadian wrestling champion, and his use of hypnosis to entertain and help people.</p>
<p>The Purpose of Hypnosis [00:03:42]
Exploration of the purpose of hypnosis, whether it is to convince someone to do something they don't want to do or to discover what they really want to do.</p>
<p>The Connection between Body and Mind [00:10:54]
The speaker discusses the importance of movement and exercise in breaking free from limiting beliefs and achieving a state of flow.</p>
<p>Using Hypnosis for Self-Programming [00:13:49]
The speaker explains how individuals can use hypnosis to reprogram their subconscious mind and create new mind triggers for positive change.</p>
<p>Overcoming Self-Limiting Beliefs [00:16:54]
The speaker shares strategies for identifying and overturning negative thoughts and self-destructive beliefs, emphasizing the importance of focusing on what one wants and practicing self-acceptance.</p>
<p>The Promise of Making the Olympics [00:19:43]
Wayne Lee shares his goal of making the Olympics in amateur wrestling and the profound promise he made to himself.</p>
<p>Overcoming a Devastating Injury [00:20:23]
Wayne Lee discusses his serious neck injury that threatened his wrestling career and how he used visualization to heal himself.</p>
<p>Advice for Dealing with Crises [00:23:32]
Wayne Lee offers advice on going within, visualizing what you want, and creating daily disciplines to stay in a good state during challenging times.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Learn more at <a href='http://www.WayneLee.com'>www.WayneLee.com</a>  </p>
<p>Join the Face Book group - Conscious Creators</p>
<p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/599526277311162/?ref=share'>https://www.facebook.com/groups/599526277311162/?ref=share</a></p>
<p>How to CREATE the LIFE You DESIRE. It’s about living with more Joy, Freedom and Love and Creating more Health, Wealth and Happiness.</p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[In this episode we talked about how to be better at influencing others and especially about how to program yourself for success. Imagine mastering the power of positive self talk. When you visualize your goals – you can see the path to success.
<p>As a peak performance expert, Wayne Lee awakens audiences to their full potential. For 20+ years, Wayne has helped over 6,000 global organizations achieve sustainable peak performance through a positive mindset, collective alignment and the power to overcome what seemed impossible yesterday.</p>
<p>The Power of Visualization [00:00:00]<br>
Discussion on the importance of visualization in achieving peak performance and how Olympic gold medalists use it.</p>
<p>Introduction to Wayne Lee [00:01:24]<br>
Introducing Wayne Lee, his background as a Canadian wrestling champion, and his use of hypnosis to entertain and help people.</p>
<p>The Purpose of Hypnosis [00:03:42]<br>
Exploration of the purpose of hypnosis, whether it is to convince someone to do something they don't want to do or to discover what they really want to do.</p>
<p>The Connection between Body and Mind [00:10:54]<br>
The speaker discusses the importance of movement and exercise in breaking free from limiting beliefs and achieving a state of flow.</p>
<p>Using Hypnosis for Self-Programming [00:13:49]<br>
The speaker explains how individuals can use hypnosis to reprogram their subconscious mind and create new mind triggers for positive change.</p>
<p>Overcoming Self-Limiting Beliefs [00:16:54]<br>
The speaker shares strategies for identifying and overturning negative thoughts and self-destructive beliefs, emphasizing the importance of focusing on what one wants and practicing self-acceptance.</p>
<p>The Promise of Making the Olympics [00:19:43]<br>
Wayne Lee shares his goal of making the Olympics in amateur wrestling and the profound promise he made to himself.</p>
<p>Overcoming a Devastating Injury [00:20:23]<br>
Wayne Lee discusses his serious neck injury that threatened his wrestling career and how he used visualization to heal himself.</p>
<p>Advice for Dealing with Crises [00:23:32]<br>
Wayne Lee offers advice on going within, visualizing what you want, and creating daily disciplines to stay in a good state during challenging times.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Learn more at <a href='http://www.WayneLee.com'>www.WayneLee.com</a>  </p>
<p>Join the Face Book group - Conscious Creators</p>
<p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/599526277311162/?ref=share'>https://www.facebook.com/groups/599526277311162/?ref=share</a></p>
<p>How to CREATE the LIFE You DESIRE. It’s about living with more Joy, Freedom and Love and Creating more Health, Wealth and Happiness.</p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode we talked about how to be better at influencing others and especially about how to program yourself for success. Imagine mastering the power of positive self talk. When you visualize your goals – you can see the path to success.
As a peak performance expert, Wayne Lee awakens audiences to their full potential. For 20+ years, Wayne has helped over 6,000 global organizations achieve sustainable peak performance through a positive mindset, collective alignment and the power to overcome what seemed impossible yesterday.
The Power of Visualization [00:00:00]Discussion on the importance of visualization in achieving peak performance and how Olympic gold medalists use it.
Introduction to Wayne Lee [00:01:24]Introducing Wayne Lee, his background as a Canadian wrestling champion, and his use of hypnosis to entertain and help people.
The Purpose of Hypnosis [00:03:42]Exploration of the purpose of hypnosis, whether it is to convince someone to do something they don't want to do or to discover what they really want to do.
The Connection between Body and Mind [00:10:54]The speaker discusses the importance of movement and exercise in breaking free from limiting beliefs and achieving a state of flow.
Using Hypnosis for Self-Programming [00:13:49]The speaker explains how individuals can use hypnosis to reprogram their subconscious mind and create new mind triggers for positive change.
Overcoming Self-Limiting Beliefs [00:16:54]The speaker shares strategies for identifying and overturning negative thoughts and self-destructive beliefs, emphasizing the importance of focusing on what one wants and practicing self-acceptance.
The Promise of Making the Olympics [00:19:43]Wayne Lee shares his goal of making the Olympics in amateur wrestling and the profound promise he made to himself.
Overcoming a Devastating Injury [00:20:23]Wayne Lee discusses his serious neck injury that threatened his wrestling career and how he used visualization to heal himself.
Advice for Dealing with Crises [00:23:32]Wayne Lee offers advice on going within, visualizing what you want, and creating daily disciplines to stay in a good state during challenging times.

Learn more at www.WayneLee.com  
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Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests
He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing
By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1]]></itunes:summary>
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        <title>04 Patricia Fripp, Executive Speech Coach</title>
        <itunes:title>04 Patricia Fripp, Executive Speech Coach</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Executive Speech Coach, Patricia Fripp offers advice to leaders in finding and telling their stories because stories connect with listeners and make your message memorable.
<p>The Everyday Heroes [00:11:26]
Leaders need to have stories about everyday heroes in their organizations who go above and beyond their duties without complaint.</p>
<p>Finding Relevant Stories [00:10:14]
Leaders can find relevant stories by probing for personal experiences and memories, and by focusing on the story behind the statistics.</p>
<p>Steps to Help Leaders Transition [00:03:01]
To help leaders become rock stars within their organizations, Patricia Fripp helps them identify pivotal moments in their lives and incorporate personal stories into their speeches.</p>
<p>The power of storytelling in business [00:15:39]
Using stories to improve communication and efficiency in the workplace, with a specific example of cost-saving through combining shipments.</p>
<p>Using TED Talks for skill development [00:17:33]
How a company used TED Talks as a tool for developing storytelling skills and fostering a sense of heroism within the organization.</p>
<p>The process of becoming a better speaker [00:21:14]
The importance of self-realization, training, and continuous improvement in becoming a confident and effective speaker.</p>
<p>The importance of audience focus [00:28:47]
Strategies that prioritize the audience's needs and interests for effective sales and job security.</p>
<p>The power of storytelling [00:28:47]
Using stories to explain complex ideas, teach, motivate, and inspire, with examples of a great opening and closing.</p>
<p>Techniques for a strong closing [00:34:20]
A formula for ending a presentation, including a rhetorical question, reviewing key points, challenging the audience to take action, and leaving a lasting pithy point.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>In the world of professional speaking, Patricia is considered a rock star.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Patricia simplifies and demystifies the process of preparing and presenting powerful, persuasive presentations. She delivers her message through keynote speeches, breakout sessions, and in-depth customized training and coaching. Patricia is now virtually everywhere with <a href='http://frippvt.com/'>FrippVT</a>, her interactive, learn-at-your-own-pace, virtual presentation skills training.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Learn more at <a href='http://www.Fripp.com'>www.Fripp.com</a></p>
<p>Learn how to transform your presentations at <a href='http://www.FrippVT.com'>www.FrippVT.com</a></p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George Torok</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Executive Speech Coach, Patricia Fripp offers advice to leaders in finding and telling their stories because stories connect with listeners and make your message memorable.
<p>The Everyday Heroes [00:11:26]<br>
Leaders need to have stories about everyday heroes in their organizations who go above and beyond their duties without complaint.</p>
<p>Finding Relevant Stories [00:10:14]<br>
Leaders can find relevant stories by probing for personal experiences and memories, and by focusing on the story behind the statistics.</p>
<p>Steps to Help Leaders Transition [00:03:01]<br>
To help leaders become rock stars within their organizations, Patricia Fripp helps them identify pivotal moments in their lives and incorporate personal stories into their speeches.</p>
<p>The power of storytelling in business [00:15:39]<br>
Using stories to improve communication and efficiency in the workplace, with a specific example of cost-saving through combining shipments.</p>
<p>Using TED Talks for skill development [00:17:33]<br>
How a company used TED Talks as a tool for developing storytelling skills and fostering a sense of heroism within the organization.</p>
<p>The process of becoming a better speaker [00:21:14]<br>
The importance of self-realization, training, and continuous improvement in becoming a confident and effective speaker.</p>
<p>The importance of audience focus [00:28:47]<br>
Strategies that prioritize the audience's needs and interests for effective sales and job security.</p>
<p>The power of storytelling [00:28:47]<br>
Using stories to explain complex ideas, teach, motivate, and inspire, with examples of a great opening and closing.</p>
<p>Techniques for a strong closing [00:34:20]<br>
A formula for ending a presentation, including a rhetorical question, reviewing key points, challenging the audience to take action, and leaving a lasting pithy point.</p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p>In the world of professional speaking, Patricia is considered a rock star.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Patricia simplifies and demystifies the process of preparing and presenting powerful, persuasive presentations. She delivers her message through keynote speeches, breakout sessions, and in-depth customized training and coaching. Patricia is now <em>virtually</em> everywhere with <a href='http://frippvt.com/'>FrippVT</a>, her interactive, learn-at-your-own-pace, virtual presentation skills training.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Learn more at <a href='http://www.Fripp.com'>www.Fripp.com</a></p>
<p><em>Learn how to transform your presentations at</em> <a href='http://www.FrippVT.com'>www.FrippVT.com</a></p>
<p>----more----</p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George Torok</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Executive Speech Coach, Patricia Fripp offers advice to leaders in finding and telling their stories because stories connect with listeners and make your message memorable.
The Everyday Heroes [00:11:26]Leaders need to have stories about everyday heroes in their organizations who go above and beyond their duties without complaint.
Finding Relevant Stories [00:10:14]Leaders can find relevant stories by probing for personal experiences and memories, and by focusing on the story behind the statistics.
Steps to Help Leaders Transition [00:03:01]To help leaders become rock stars within their organizations, Patricia Fripp helps them identify pivotal moments in their lives and incorporate personal stories into their speeches.
The power of storytelling in business [00:15:39]Using stories to improve communication and efficiency in the workplace, with a specific example of cost-saving through combining shipments.
Using TED Talks for skill development [00:17:33]How a company used TED Talks as a tool for developing storytelling skills and fostering a sense of heroism within the organization.
The process of becoming a better speaker [00:21:14]The importance of self-realization, training, and continuous improvement in becoming a confident and effective speaker.
The importance of audience focus [00:28:47]Strategies that prioritize the audience's needs and interests for effective sales and job security.
The power of storytelling [00:28:47]Using stories to explain complex ideas, teach, motivate, and inspire, with examples of a great opening and closing.
Techniques for a strong closing [00:34:20]A formula for ending a presentation, including a rhetorical question, reviewing key points, challenging the audience to take action, and leaving a lasting pithy point.
 
 
In the world of professional speaking, Patricia is considered a rock star.

Patricia simplifies and demystifies the process of preparing and presenting powerful, persuasive presentations. She delivers her message through keynote speeches, breakout sessions, and in-depth customized training and coaching. Patricia is now virtually everywhere with FrippVT, her interactive, learn-at-your-own-pace, virtual presentation skills training.

Learn more at www.Fripp.com
Learn how to transform your presentations at www.FrippVT.com
----more----
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests
He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing
By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries
 
Connect with George Torok
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
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        <title>03 Darrell Keezer, Candy Box Marketing</title>
        <itunes:title>03 Darrell Keezer, Candy Box Marketing</itunes:title>
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                    <comments>https://yourintendedmessage.podbean.com/e/03-darrel-keezer-candy-box-marketing/#comments</comments>        <pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2020 14:11:07 -0400</pubDate>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[How are you sending your messages on social media? Should you send your messages on social media? How might that help your business? What can you do to make your social media message more productive and profitable for you?
<p>Let’s talk to Darrell Keezer, CEO of Candy Box Marketing, one of the fastest growing digital marketing agencies in Canada. On the Growth 500 list.</p>
<p>Darrell reveals insights about online marketing and how to make smarter decisions about your digital marketing choices.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Darrell has been a keynote speaker at events across North America. He is the author of the book, Pick Up Your Freakin Phone – The New Rules for Entrepreneurs.</p>
<p>You can learn more at  <a href='http://www.CandyBoxMarketing.com'>www.CandyBoxMarketing.com</a></p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
]]></description>
                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[How are you sending your messages on social media? Should you send your messages on social media? How might that help your business? What can you do to make your social media message more productive and profitable for you?
<p>Let’s talk to Darrell Keezer, CEO of Candy Box Marketing, one of the fastest growing digital marketing agencies in Canada. On the Growth 500 list.</p>
<p>Darrell reveals insights about online marketing and how to make smarter decisions about your digital marketing choices.</p>
<p></p>
<p>Darrell has been a keynote speaker at events across North America. He is the author of the book, Pick Up Your Freakin Phone – The New Rules for Entrepreneurs.</p>
<p>You can learn more at  <a href='http://www.CandyBoxMarketing.com'>www.CandyBoxMarketing.com</a></p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How are you sending your messages on social media? Should you send your messages on social media? How might that help your business? What can you do to make your social media message more productive and profitable for you?
Let’s talk to Darrell Keezer, CEO of Candy Box Marketing, one of the fastest growing digital marketing agencies in Canada. On the Growth 500 list.
Darrell reveals insights about online marketing and how to make smarter decisions about your digital marketing choices.

Darrell has been a keynote speaker at events across North America. He is the author of the book, Pick Up Your Freakin Phone – The New Rules for Entrepreneurs.
You can learn more at  www.CandyBoxMarketing.com

 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your career and business success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests
He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing
By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
 
 
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        <title>02 Peter Legge, Canada Wide Media Limited</title>
        <itunes:title>02 Peter Legge, Canada Wide Media Limited</itunes:title>
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                                    <description><![CDATA[Peter Legge is chairman of Canada Wide Media Limited, a multimillion-dollar magazine publishing company in western Canada.
<p>He is a company leader, successful salesperson, keynote speaker and author of 23 books.</p>
<p>He knows how to communicate effectively with the written word and the spoken word.</p>
<p>In this interview we talk about the power of words and the effective use of stories. Notice how Peter tells stories throughout this interview to convey his intended message.</p>
<p>Peter had been recognized for his philanthropic work with among other awards – The Order of British Columbia.</p>
<p>His speaking skills have been recognized by Toastmasters International with their Golden Gavel Award. His professional speaking has been recognized by the National Speakers Association of the USA with their CPAE designation.</p>
<p>Connect with Peter Legge</p>
<p><a href='https://peterlegge.com/'>https://peterlegge.com/</a> </p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/peterblegge/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/peterblegge/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/peterlegge1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/peterlegge1</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/insights.of.a.ceo/'>https://www.instagram.com/insights.of.a.ceo/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
His most recent book is Under the Influence: How Influence Shapes the Person You Become
<p></p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your communication success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[Peter Legge is chairman of Canada Wide Media Limited, a multimillion-dollar magazine publishing company in western Canada.
<p>He is a company leader, successful salesperson, keynote speaker and author of 23 books.</p>
<p>He knows how to communicate effectively with the written word and the spoken word.</p>
<p>In this interview we talk about the power of words and the effective use of stories. Notice how Peter tells stories throughout this interview to convey his intended message.</p>
<p>Peter had been recognized for his philanthropic work with among other awards – The Order of British Columbia.</p>
<p>His speaking skills have been recognized by Toastmasters International with their Golden Gavel Award. His professional speaking has been recognized by the National Speakers Association of the USA with their CPAE designation.</p>
<p><em>Connect with Peter Legge</em></p>
<p><a href='https://peterlegge.com/'>https://peterlegge.com/</a> </p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/peterblegge/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/peterblegge/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/peterlegge1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/peterlegge1</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/insights.of.a.ceo/'>https://www.instagram.com/insights.of.a.ceo/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
His most recent book is Under the Influence: How Influence Shapes the Person You Become
<p></p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your communication success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Peter Legge is chairman of Canada Wide Media Limited, a multimillion-dollar magazine publishing company in western Canada.
He is a company leader, successful salesperson, keynote speaker and author of 23 books.
He knows how to communicate effectively with the written word and the spoken word.
In this interview we talk about the power of words and the effective use of stories. Notice how Peter tells stories throughout this interview to convey his intended message.
Peter had been recognized for his philanthropic work with among other awards – The Order of British Columbia.
His speaking skills have been recognized by Toastmasters International with their Golden Gavel Award. His professional speaking has been recognized by the National Speakers Association of the USA with their CPAE designation.
Connect with Peter Legge
https://peterlegge.com/ 
https://www.linkedin.com/in/peterblegge/
https://www.youtube.com/user/peterlegge1
https://www.instagram.com/insights.of.a.ceo/
 

His most recent book is Under the Influence: How Influence Shapes the Person You Become

 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your communication success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests
He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing
By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
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                                    <description><![CDATA[The leader of the organization builds stronger teams with regular communication with the team.
<p>In this discussion we explore the power and techniques of the monthly one-to-one meeting with the direct reports of the CEO, president, General manager or managing director.</p>
<p>If you want to build an A team - you must communicate with them regularly. Don't leave them in the dark. Talk to your key people regularly. </p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
<p>Our Guest: </p>
John Wilson is the founder and CEO of CEO Global Network - a peer mentoring organization for company leaders.
<p>Learn more about CEO Global Network here <a href='https://ceoglobalnetwork.com/'>https://ceoglobalnetwork.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with John Wilson</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnwilson-ceo/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnwilson-ceo/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>John Wilson is the author of the book. Great CEOs and How They are Made: The Seven Imperatives.</p>
You can request your free copy of the book by sending an email directly to John Wilson and mentioning this podcast.
<p><a href='mailto:jwilson@ceoglobalnetwork.com'>jwilson@ceoglobalnetwork.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your communication success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with George</p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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                                                            <content:encoded><![CDATA[The leader of the organization builds stronger teams with regular communication with the team.
<p>In this discussion we explore the power and techniques of the monthly one-to-one meeting with the direct reports of the CEO, president, General manager or managing director.</p>
<p>If you want to build an A team - you must communicate with them regularly. Don't leave them in the dark. Talk to your key people regularly. </p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
<p>Our Guest: </p>
John Wilson is the founder and CEO of CEO Global Network - a peer mentoring organization for company leaders.
<p>Learn more about CEO Global Network here <a href='https://ceoglobalnetwork.com/'>https://ceoglobalnetwork.com/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p>Connect with John Wilson</p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnwilson-ceo/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnwilson-ceo/</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p></p>
<p> </p>
<p>John Wilson is the author of the book. Great CEOs and How They are Made: The Seven Imperatives.</p>
You can request your free copy of the book by sending an email directly to John Wilson and mentioning this podcast.
<p><a href='mailto:jwilson@ceoglobalnetwork.com'>jwilson@ceoglobalnetwork.com</a></p>
<p> </p>
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your communication success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
<p>In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Your host is George Torok</p>
<p>George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Facts about George Torok</p>
<p>He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests</p>
<p>He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing</p>
<p>By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries</p>
<p> </p>
<p><em>Connect with George</em></p>
<p><a href='http://www.torok.com'>www.torok.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com'>www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com</a></p>
<p><a href='http://www.SuperiorPresentations.net'>www.SuperiorPresentations.net</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/'>https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/</a></p>
<p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1'>https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1</a></p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
<p> </p>
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        <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The leader of the organization builds stronger teams with regular communication with the team.
In this discussion we explore the power and techniques of the monthly one-to-one meeting with the direct reports of the CEO, president, General manager or managing director.
If you want to build an A team - you must communicate with them regularly. Don't leave them in the dark. Talk to your key people regularly. 
 

Our Guest: 
John Wilson is the founder and CEO of CEO Global Network - a peer mentoring organization for company leaders.
Learn more about CEO Global Network here https://ceoglobalnetwork.com/
 
Connect with John Wilson
https://www.linkedin.com/in/johnwilson-ceo/
 

 
John Wilson is the author of the book. Great CEOs and How They are Made: The Seven Imperatives.
You can request your free copy of the book by sending an email directly to John Wilson and mentioning this podcast.
jwilson@ceoglobalnetwork.com
 
Your Intended Message is the podcast about how you can boost your communication success by honing your communication skills. We’ll examine the aspects of how we communicate one-to-one, one to few and one to many – plus that important conversation, one to self.
In these interviews we will explore presentation skills, public speaking, conversation, persuasion, negotiation, sales conversations, marketing, team meetings, social media, branding, self talk and more.
 
Your host is George Torok
George is a specialist in communication skills. Especially presentation. He’s fascinated by the links between communication and influencing behaviours. He delivers training and coaching programs to help leaders and promising professionals deliver the intended message for greater success.
 
Facts about George Torok
He hosted the radio show, Business in Motion for 19 years, interviewing over 500 guests
He wrote Secrets of Power Marketing, the bestselling book of personal marketing
By the age of 21 he had visited 35 countries
 
Connect with George
www.torok.com
www.SpeechCoachforExecutives.com
www.SuperiorPresentations.net
https://www.linkedin.com/in/georgetorokpresentations/
https://www.instagram.com/georgetorok/
https://www.youtube.com/user/presentationskills1
 
 
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