University of Pleasure

The Naughty "No Thanks." Finding Fun in the Sex that Doesn't Happen

Mon, 28 Jul 2025 10:37:16 -0400

The Reddit Review - Vol 1! Querying the Wacky World of Internet Sex Advice.

Mon, 14 Jul 2025 11:37:10 -0400

SEX NOT GUARANTEED: THE IMPORTANCE OF FLIRTATION WITHOUT EXPECTATION

Mon, 28 Apr 2025 20:51:01 -0400

Existential Dread 101; Lesson 1: Protecting Your Mind From the Dismal Abyss

Mon, 02 Dec 2024 13:55:34 -0500

It Takes a Village.... and Maybe Some Rope! Finding Your Sexual Community.

Mon, 21 Oct 2024 20:55:03 -0400

I've Got a Secret. Now What? Disclosing Difficult Information Like a Full Grown Adult.

Mon, 16 Sep 2024 20:37:54 -0400

Sex Tech Corner: Quick Fix to Premature Ejaculation or Too Good to Be True?

Mon, 22 Jul 2024 18:17:33 -0400

The Sexy Side of Selfish: Learning How to Be a Taker (In a Nice Way)

Mon, 08 Jul 2024 12:53:21 -0400

Naughty? Nice? As Long as It’s Right. Choosing the Erotica That’s Best For You.

Mon, 11 Dec 2023 16:05:29 -0500

Pumpkin Lattes＜ Cozy Sweaters & Sour Mood. Surviving the Seasonal Shift

Mon, 09 Oct 2023 11:07:19 -0400

Truths, Lies, & Penis Size! A Deep Dive into Murky Waters

Mon, 11 Sep 2023 08:38:50 -0400

The Heartbreak Headache PART 2

Wed, 23 Aug 2023 10:56:57 -0400

The Heartbreak Headache. Surviving the Mind F#$k of Lost Love.

Mon, 17 Jul 2023 22:57:12 -0400

D is for Disappointment. Don’t Worry, You CAN Handle it.

Tue, 27 Jun 2023 08:21:25 -0400

The Potential of Patience. An Obnoxious, yet Essential Ingredient in Healing

Tue, 20 Jun 2023 12:36:30 -0400

Vacation Sex: The Great White Whale... A Lesson Sexual Expectation Setting

Mon, 12 Jun 2023 22:52:15 -0400

What!? Huh? Not Sure How That Got in There. Why It Might be Worth Talking to Partners About Your Sex Toys.

Sat, 13 May 2023 10:43:16 -0400

Hey, Jealousy. A Love Hate Story.

Mon, 01 May 2023 15:17:11 -0400

Fighting to Find the Fun. Restoring Playfulness in Long Term Relationships.

Mon, 24 Apr 2023 20:43:34 -0400

Season 3 Finale! First Forays: Prostate Edition. Stories of New Sexual Adventures.

Tue, 27 Dec 2022 11:51:41 -0500

Baby, It’s Cold Inside. Staying Merry & Bright Amidst Holiday Fights

Mon, 19 Dec 2022 09:00:44 -0500

Rub--Dub-Dub, Having Fun in the Tub: Simple Sex Tech for Bath Time

Mon, 05 Dec 2022 13:55:28 -0500

A Dating Survival Guide Volume 1: Protecting Self-Esteem WhileYou Search

Tue, 29 Nov 2022 23:47:38 -0500

Sex Toy Surprise Volume 1: Finding the Products that Can Make a Difference

Mon, 21 Nov 2022 17:25:40 -0500

When Everything SUCKS! ( Or At Least Seems Like it ) Maintaining Mental Health in Times of Mayhem

Mon, 07 Nov 2022 21:12:01 -0500

In the Eye of the Beholder. The Tricky Topic of Attraction

Wed, 14 Sep 2022 16:06:55 -0400

”Could Have Been Better” Sex Stories Volume 5.

Mon, 29 Aug 2022 08:07:23 -0400

I Love You, But I Don’t Like You. When Love Doesn’t Come to the Rescue.

Wed, 17 Aug 2022 09:54:53 -0400

Questioning the Quick Fix. Playing the Long Game for Relational and Sexual Health.

Mon, 08 Aug 2022 11:04:34 -0400

Sex Scene Sabotage: Getting Frisky in Film Volume 2

Tue, 02 Aug 2022 19:59:21 -0400

Hot or Not? Volume 5! Reviewing America’s Classic, Not so Classic, and Controversial Erotica.

Tue, 26 Jul 2022 11:58:26 -0400

Apologies Aren’t Magic. Finding the Action in Making Amends.

Wed, 20 Jul 2022 20:52:04 -0400

If I Could Turn Back Time...... Well You Can’t. Being a Savvy Consumer in the Big Business of Sex and Aging,

Wed, 13 Jul 2022 22:05:14 -0400

When It All Starts to Look the Same. The Benefits of Changing Up Your Pornography Game.

Mon, 20 Jun 2022 11:50:29 -0400

YouMight Not Be Wrong, But You Might Not Be Right. Questioning the ”Right vs. Wrong” Model in Relationships.

Tue, 14 Jun 2022 21:25:55 -0400

Splish-Splash, Having a Blast. Demystifying Female Ejaculation.

Mon, 06 Jun 2022 09:04:47 -0400

For the Sake of Seduction. Separating Flirtation from Sexual Expectation

Tue, 24 May 2022 13:53:28 -0400

THROWBACK EPISODE!!!! The Dilemma: Don’t Worry a Sex Toy Isn’t Going to Replace You.

Mon, 16 May 2022 18:33:04 -0400

THROWBACK! Season 1 Episode 2 ”Condom Sense and Decision Making. Rules of Etiquette, Strategies for Success.

Wed, 11 May 2022 11:09:18 -0400

Ch-Ch-Changes Sexual Lives Rearranged. Renegotiating Sexual Relationships After Children.

Mon, 02 May 2022 22:32:19 -0400

Conundrums in Casual Sex. Escaping the Traps of Toxic Masculinity in the Quest for Sex .

Mon, 25 Apr 2022 12:29:39 -0400

The Magic in Mediocrity. Unwinding Ourselves from the Web of Exceptionalism.

Mon, 18 Apr 2022 06:55:11 -0400

Rebounding from the Rebuff. When the One You Want Doesn’t Want You.

Sun, 10 Apr 2022 20:45:35 -0400

Persevering Through Pleasure. Navigating Sex and Intimacy After Traumatic Experiences PART 2

Mon, 04 Apr 2022 07:18:37 -0400

Persevering Through Pleasure. Navigating Sex and Intimacy After Traumatic Experiences PART 2

Persevering Through Pleasure. Navigating Sex and Intimacy After Traumatic Experiences. Part 1

Mon, 28 Mar 2022 16:23:46 -0400

Persevering Through Pleasure. Navigating Sex and Intimacy After Traumatic Experiences. Part 1

Sex Tech Corner Volume 3!

Tue, 22 Mar 2022 14:08:39 -0400

Hurts So Good: Mistaking Chaos for Passion. Untwining the Knot of Good Sex and Turbulent Relationships.

Wed, 09 Mar 2022 07:50:43 -0500

Asking For A Friend! Volume 1

Tue, 22 Feb 2022 08:33:42 -0500

NEW!! Sex Therapist Shoot the Sh#t! PODCAST

Thu, 17 Feb 2022 20:55:23 -0500

I Want It. I Hate It. I Love It. Our Complex Relationship with Pleasure.

Mon, 14 Feb 2022 10:53:46 -0500

Resolution Pollution: New Year, Same Old Fear. The Challenge of Putting Action Behind Your Best Intentions.

Wed, 22 Dec 2021 14:21:47 -0500

A Holiday Guide to Sexy Gift Giving. Thinking Twice When Deciding to Give Something Naughty or Nice.

Tue, 14 Dec 2021 10:13:47 -0500

The Ghosts of Relationships Past. When Our Mistakes Come to Haunt Us!

Tue, 07 Dec 2021 09:59:50 -0500

”Digging out of Depression. ‘Tis the Season to Be Down for No Reason.

Mon, 22 Nov 2021 21:57:24 -0500

The Enchantment of ”Enhancement.” Taking a Closer Look at Sexual Functioning & the ”Quick Fix.”

Mon, 15 Nov 2021 21:55:46 -0500

Good Advice? Bad Advice? Or ”Who the F&%K Knows?” Examining the Sexual Guidance from Our Yesteryears.

Tue, 09 Nov 2021 11:11:12 -0500

You Can‘t Always Get What You Want. But You Still Need to Ask for What you Need!

Tue, 02 Nov 2021 09:13:16 -0400

”Could Have Been Better” Sex Stories! Volume 4

Tue, 19 Oct 2021 09:18:25 -0400

Hot or Not? Volume 4! Reviewing America‘s Most Classic, Not So Classic, and Controversial Erotica.

Tue, 12 Oct 2021 09:57:10 -0400

Future Tense: Sex Tech & Us. Are We Ready for What We‘ve Created?

Tue, 28 Sep 2021 08:14:17 -0400

Should I Stay or Should I Go? Finding Your Way Out of Relational Purgatory.

Tue, 21 Sep 2021 10:31:02 -0400

From Easy Rider to Fast and Furious: Car Sex! MakeYour Automobile Exploits Fun, Sexy,& Safe.

Mon, 13 Sep 2021 17:52:45 -0400

Power Play. Give a Little, Get a Little. The Pleasure in Playing with Power Dynamics.

Wed, 08 Sep 2021 07:13:38 -0400

Paradoxes in Pornography! The Good, the Bad, and Everything in Between! Interview with Former Adult Film Star, Nolina Nyx!

Mon, 30 Aug 2021 13:34:13 -0400

VACATION REPEAT REWIND: Sex Scene Sabotage. Volume 1

Mon, 16 Aug 2021 19:38:05 -0400

Who,Me? Anxious? No Way. Yes Way. Settleing the nerves for better sex! Myths, Tips and Tricks.

Mon, 09 Aug 2021 23:32:44 -0400

Sex Scene Sabotage: "Volume 1" Getting Frisky in Film: A Closer Look at Steamy and Not So Steamy Movie Moments

Mon, 02 Aug 2021 13:01:04 -0400

"Could Have Been Better Sex Stories" Volume 3!

Mon, 26 Jul 2021 17:03:55 -0400

Desiring Danger. Sexy or Stupid? When High Risk and Sexual Play Unite!

Mon, 19 Jul 2021 23:33:23 -0400

To the Extreme.... But Not in a Fun Way Bitterness. Blame & Other Guaranteed Ways to Ruin a Date.

Mon, 12 Jul 2021 15:54:16 -0400

Happy 4th!!! Enjoy this Repeat Episode on Mens Sexual Health!

Sun, 04 Jul 2021 12:12:40 -0400

Historical Blunders in Sex Education. Surviving the Miseducation of Our Yesteryears!

Mon, 28 Jun 2021 20:13:15 -0400

Into the Great Unknown... of Men's Health Sexual Health. The Bermuda Triangle of the Penis, Prostate, and the Pelvic Floor.

Mon, 21 Jun 2021 20:23:25 -0400

What if It's No One's Fault? Beyond the Blame Game. Alternative Approaches to Sexual and Romantic Conflict.

Mon, 14 Jun 2021 19:08:03 -0400

Hot or Not? Volume3! Reviewing America's Most Classic, Not so Classic, and Controversial Erotica.

Mon, 07 Jun 2021 20:42:22 -0400

Happy Memorial Day! See you next Monday!

Mon, 31 May 2021 10:06:20 -0400

Ghost Stories Volume 1. Coming Back After the No Call No Show!

Mon, 24 May 2021 20:37:54 -0400

The Complexities of Consent. VOLUME 2! "No" means "No" but what about the rest?

Tue, 18 May 2021 11:08:14 -0400

Setting Out the Sides. Strategies for Building Your Sexual Buffet

Mon, 10 May 2021 22:18:19 -0400

REPEAT/REWIND The Doc is on Vacation! The Pickup Hiccup.......

Mon, 03 May 2021 20:57:55 -0400

Sex Robots! Friend, Foe, or We Don't Really Know? Ethical Dilemmas in Sex and Artificial Intelligence.

Tue, 27 Apr 2021 12:35:06 -0400

Escaping the Emoji.Dusting Off Our Skill Set for In-Person Dating, Flirting, and Initiation.

Tue, 20 Apr 2021 07:50:50 -0400

Hot or Not? Vol. 2 Reviewing America's Most Classic, Not So Classic, and Controversial Erotica.

Tue, 13 Apr 2021 06:15:23 -0400

Revising the Cheat Sheet. Mix Ups, Misperceptions and Morals: Rethinking Infidelity.

Thu, 08 Apr 2021 06:13:01 -0400

Repeat/Rewind an Important Episode "The Complexities of Consent"

Tue, 30 Mar 2021 06:13:13 -0400

It Can't All Be Great! "Could Have Been Better" Sex Stories Volume II

Mon, 22 Mar 2021 22:10:03 -0400

The Pickup Hiccup! Through the Maze of "Pickup Artistry" and other "One-Size-Fits All" Approaches to Sex, Dating & Relationships.

Mon, 15 Mar 2021 20:09:10 -0400

The Complexities of Consent. 'No' means 'No' But What About the Rest?

Tue, 09 Mar 2021 05:52:38 -0500

F@#king From Afar or The Across Town Get Down. A Different City Doesn't Mean You Can't Get Busy.

Mon, 01 Mar 2021 21:36:13 -0500

Sober Sex. Try It. You Might Like It. Why Its Worth Giving It a Go Stone Cold Sober.

Tue, 23 Feb 2021 07:21:18 -0500

Sex Is Absurd. Serious Doesn't Always Equal Sexy.

Mon, 15 Feb 2021 17:48:33 -0500

SEASON 2 HAPPY VALENTINES DAY Or NOT!!!! "TRAILER"

Sun, 14 Feb 2021 10:10:46 -0500

The Illusion of Normal. Redefining Sexual Health to Include the Typical, Atypical, and Everything in Between.

Mon, 04 Jan 2021 17:02:45 -0500

Sugar Spice, and Who Cares is if It's Naughty or Nice. All is Not Calm, But Let Your Holiday Sex Be Bright.

Wed, 23 Dec 2020 11:40:03 -0500

Sometimes S#@T Gets Complicated. Coming Back From Painful Sexual and Romantic Experiences

Mon, 14 Dec 2020 20:17:38 -0500

Hot or Not? Vol. 1 Reviewing America's Classic, Not So Classic, and Controversial Erotica.

Tue, 01 Dec 2020 00:47:47 -0500

Happy Thanksgiving! A Holiday Repeat!

Thu, 26 Nov 2020 12:12:29 -0500

Carnal Quagmires. Surviving Sticky Situations in Sexual Situations.

Mon, 16 Nov 2020 20:02:22 -0500

Just Friends? Or Friends With an "f"? The Sticky Situation of Friendships, Sex, and Gender Expectations.

Mon, 09 Nov 2020 19:38:13 -0500

Election Repeat!

Mon, 02 Nov 2020 21:58:30 -0500