bed hoppers - swinging in the UK

bh223: talking events with Bex & Paul

Mon, 13 Apr 2026 05:41:38 -0300

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast.

In this episode, we revamp the show a little bit and also interview the delightful Bex and Paul from untamed nights.

We talk about their journey, how they got started and what it's like running events. They offer some top tips for heading to events and how to make the most of your experience. We cover items for desert islands and have a great natter about all things swinger lifestyle.

We hope you enjoy the new stuff - thanks for hopping into our bed.

Handy links

You can find out more about untamed nights here: https://www.untamednights.co.uk/
Want to come along to one of our events - reach out at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

bh222: do you put on a show?

Sun, 22 Mar 2026 13:41:06 -0300

Hello and welcome to episode 222 - the last of season one!

In this edition Mrs H poses some questions around performative sexy times. Do you put on a show when you play with someone? Is it performative or are you just being you? We talk about putting on a show and if that's our bag, what we do for solo dates and if we prep more for other people. It's a fun little end to the first season of the bed hoppers podcast.

Until season two arrives, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh221: Bristol Gardens Health Spa & 8 years

Sun, 22 Feb 2026 14:07:49 -0400

In this episode we recount our visit to Bristol Gardens Health Spa in Brighton. We talk about the venue being a professional naturist spa and its features, including a cafe, steam rooms, and private themed playrooms. We ponder if it’s a hook up place or somewhere to relax and unwind… Take a listen to our review to find out more.

We also mark our podcast’s eight-year anniversary. Mr. H reflects on the personal "cost" of production, including the intensive editing time and the emotional toll of negative online feedback. We talk about the future of the show and how you can get involved. Got thoughts? Email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

This one has something for everyone! Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh220: are we swingers?

Sun, 08 Feb 2026 10:18:13 -0400

Welcome to the latest edition of the bed hoppers podcast. We're back after a few weeks of illness for Mr H.

We talk about what we've been up to since Christmas and New Year and take a look at what we've got coming up.

Mr H asks Mrs H if we're really swingers - and what all of this stuff means to us. Are we successful, would or should we change things? Is our approach moving along? It's a pretty big discussion that gets a little pokey (don't worry though - we're all good, promise!). We hope you enjoy it or can take something from it - it was important for us to work through some of these questions, even if we don't know the answers!

If you've had similar discussions, thoughts or theories, we'd love to hear from you - reach out to bedhoppersuk@gmail.com.

Until then, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh219: Secret Stag & Secret Vixen Return

Sun, 11 Jan 2026 04:00:00 -0400

In this episode we invite sexy friends Secret Stag and Secret Vixen behind the mic once more and catch up on what they've been up to over the last year. They talk about adventures in hot wifing, a trip to a hotwife takeover event in the states, answer our questions and share some of their sexiest moments. We cover how they're going in their lifestyle journey and look to what 2026 might mean for them.

It's a handy episode if you've been following them, are interested in hotwifing and hot wife events and if you're up for a cheeky little conversation. Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh218: 2025 and solo party prep

Mon, 29 Dec 2025 07:37:43 -0400

In this episode we talk about 2025 and explore some of our highs and lows for the year. We talk a little about the future and what the coming year might look like for our adventures. We chat about some forthcoming solo dates and our plans for how they might work. Mr H is getting ready to go to a party - so we talk about boundaries, possible situations and how to keep Mrs H involved. It's a handy one if you're exploring solo adventures, thinking about how your year has been and what you might get up to in 2026. If you've got awesome plans - reach out and let us know about them!

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh217: the video side quest

Mon, 15 Dec 2025 10:41:08 -0400

Thanks for checking us out! In this delightful episode we follow up on Mrs H's side quest, which we spoke about in the previous podcast. Essentially, she was challenged to film some naughty content and send it to Mr H whilst he was on his solo date. Did she film it? Did she send it? Was it sexy? For the answers to this and more, take a lovely listen to this show!

We cover how we're feeling about pictures and videos, if that's changed following the side quest and what we might do in the future. Might be a handy discussion starter if you're talking about solo dates, filming content and what to do with pics and clips.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh216: sex pics & videotape

Sun, 23 Nov 2025 07:49:42 -0400

Ahhhh swingers and posting pictures. Have you ever joined a swinging site and recoiled in horror at some of the pictures posted? Perhaps you feel like you could never compete? Or maybe you constantly share pictures and videos every three and a half minutes? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you are prob'ly human! Congratulations! We talk about all things posting pics and vids. We cover what we like, what doesn't work for us and how things have changed. Mrs H accepts a challenge and we share our thoughts on why we do what we do when it comes to spicy images. Hopefully there's plenty of food for thought!

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

PS - Mrs H chose the music on this one. So if you like it, let us know. And if it's not working for you, let us know that too!

bh215: catching up with Mr and Ms J

Sun, 09 Nov 2025 12:19:18 -0400

This episode features delightful guests Mr and Ms J - who talk about their journey into the swinging lifestyle. We cover a whole host of things from dealing with anxiety, diving straight into clubs, what they'd throw in the lifestyle bin and what challenges children might bring into their adventures. Mr and Mrs H also have a bit of a chat about getting videos and pictures - it's only the start of that conversation but we'd love to know your thoughts. Bob us an email at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links and info

In the episode Mr H talks about a book that someone recommended. This is the book: 'When I say "NO", I feel Guilty' by Manuel J. Smith. It's on Spotify as a free audiobook, if you have a premium account. As is The Ethical Slut - which we'd highly recommend.

bh214: back on track

Sun, 26 Oct 2025 13:44:24 -0300

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast. In this episode we talk about our last week or two and how it feels like we’re turning a corner. From awesome threesomes to sexy solo dates and steps in the right direction on meds, it has certainly been a delightful period!

We bring you up to date on our latest escapades, talk about our solo adventures, recount some sexy moments and celebrate how things are on the right track. It might not all be perfect, but it’s lovely to share a slice of the good stuff that’s been going on.

We explore the thrill of solo dates, what’s driving our exploration and talk about how they feature as part of our pic n mix approach to the swinging lifestyle.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh213: single and bi with Sam

Sun, 12 Oct 2025 06:46:50 -0300

This episode starts with an update from us, we check in on Mrs H's menopause progress, chat about the Thrifty shades of grey event and touch on some of our recent adventures. Our main feature is an interview with Sam, an energetic single man in his early 40s, who describes himself as bisexual and "ADHD as hell". Sam is navigating the lifestyle after a 16-year vanilla relationship, exploring experiences while seeking companionship. He talks about some of the challenges, his advice for newcomers and how he'd bring up the lifestyle conversation with a new partner. He's a delightful guest with plenty of stories to share. If you want to reach out to Sam, drop us a message at the usual email address. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh212: new dynamics with Bunny and A

Sun, 28 Sep 2025 09:39:42 -0300

We invite two lovely ladies, Bunny and A, to join us for a chat exploring their journey, swinging lifestyle experiences and what they'd throw into room 101. They talk about their new relationship, how it came about and what it means for them and A's partner. We touch on our recent social event, announce a new one and they fire a question or two at us. It's a fabulous interview, digging into new relationships, exploring new dynamics and finding out more about hot husbanding too.

If you're interested in our Thrifty Shades of Grey event in December, do get in touch in the regular places. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh211: a chat with Jess

Sun, 14 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0300

In this episode we speak to Jess, who shares her personal journey and insights into the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle. Jess, describing herself as a "9-year-old who has been to a lot of therapy", recounts entering the scene through polyamory after university and later discovering swinging post-lockdown.
She identifies as solo poly, preferring to engage in swinging independently, shaped by her own desires and boundaries. Jess emphasises the importance of "doing the work" to unlearn monogamous norms, reframing jealousy, and establishing clear boundaries, particularly not dating monogamous individuals or poly people with negative views on swinging. She covers body image issues and overcoming a hierarchy in the swinging community that sometimes invalidates single participants.

Check out this podcast now for a delightful stroll through Jess's experiences and the usual questions! Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh210: Open House - the good, the bad and the ugly

Sun, 31 Aug 2025 07:53:31 -0300

In this episode we bring you up to date on what's being going on in our lives. From poorly pets, to great lifestyle success, solo dates, all the way through to HRT - we give you a behind the scenes look at life with the bed hoppers. Find out if Mrs H picked up on some recent sexy hints!
We move on to talk about Channel 4's Open House programme. We talk about what worked for us in season three, what could have been better and why we occasionally yelled at the TV. We add some listener views about the show too and talk a bit about our time on television. We'd love your views on Open House - so do reach out if you'd like to share them.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh209: Gav in the spotlight

Sun, 10 Aug 2025 04:00:00 -0300

In this episode we chat to single fella Gav. He talks about his journey, how he's started exploring his bi side and some of the challenges you might face as a single gentleman exploring the swinging lifestyle. We cover advice for newbies, what Gav would put in the lifestyle bin and if we've ever deleted one of our podcast recordings. It's fun romp through one man's journey from newbie to experienced swinger.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy info

Look out for Gav on Fabswingers and other sites at gavla7799.

bh208: a little more on Cap d'Agde

Sun, 27 Jul 2025 06:59:56 -0300

In this episode (part two of two) we talk about our final few days in Cap d'Agde and our experience as part of the Spicy Match and Libertine event. We cover the foam party, Le Glamour and our overall experience in the French naturist village. We pick up where we left off on the question 'are we shit swingers?' and try to figure out what's changed and why. As ever, we'd love your thoughts - so please reach out to bedhoppersuk@gmail.com.

This one is perfect if you're looking to explore Cap d'Agde, thinking about attending events or if you're wondering about your style and approach to swinging.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh207: swinging in Cap d'Agde (part one)

Sun, 20 Jul 2025 04:00:00 -0300

In this episode we talk about our trip to the South of France, visiting the naturist village of Cap d'Agde.

This one is a two parter - with more to follow, but we do explore the first half of our week. We talk about about some of the clubs, events and what we got from our Spicy Match trip. From poolside orgies to cold sores - this one covers a lot of ground! Mr H takes time out to reflect on 'if we are good swingers?' and we talk about our style. If you're heading to Cap, this one might come in handy - likewise if you're not sure if events and clubs might be for you!

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Want to come to our Reassembled social event in Birmingham on 6 September?

Drop us a line at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

bh206: a Parisian solo adventure

Sun, 22 Jun 2025 09:54:07 -0300

In this episode we talk about Mrs H's solo adventure in Paris. Was it all Pokemon hunting or was there something a little more naughty? We explore how it all went, how we felt during the trip and talk a little bit about what Mr H got up to whilst Mrs H was away.

Will Mrs H bring him back a croissant, will it be too hot in Paris, will Mr H have changed the theme tune again and what happens when storm stops play? Find out all of this and more in this delightful edition of the bed hoppers podcast.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Want to come along to our 6 September social in Birmingham? Drop us a message on Swinghub, Fabswingers, X or email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

bh205: Ads and Chantelle

Sun, 08 Jun 2025 06:00:00 -0300

This episode features a candid conversation with delightful guests Ads and Chantelle, about their experiences in the swinging lifestyle.

They discuss how they initially entered the lifestyle through an amateur adult content blog and the subsequent evolution of their relationship, including Chantelle's discovery of her bisexuality and Ads's exploration of his own.

The couple shares insights into overcoming challenges, such as ghosting and boundary violations, and emphasise the importance of communication and building a supportive community within the lifestyle. They also touch upon their role in organising social events and offer advice to newcomers, advocating for open-mindedness and dispelling common misconceptions about swinging.

You can find Ads and Chantelle on Swinghub at MrMrsWood.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh204: were rules made to be broken?

Sun, 25 May 2025 07:04:53 -0300

In this episode we dive into a discussion about rules and boundaries. We talk about how our rules have evolved from when we first started swinging, how they’ve changed and why we’ve changed them. We explore why we have them there in the first place and if we’ve broken any rules along the way.

You might find this a useful listen if you’re about to explore ethical non monogamy and swinging - or it might be a timely reminder to have a discussion about your current rules and boundaries. Either way, we dig into the topic and have some fun along the way.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh203: sexy solo dates

Sun, 04 May 2025 07:14:25 -0300

In this episode we catch up on our solo dating experiences and explore why we've been having some separate play dates over the last few months. We cover what's to come and why we might keep this activity as part of our overall play experience. If you're looking to explore this aspect of Swinging, this one might inspire a conversation or two. And if you're just looking to be entertained, there's nothing better than Mrs H trying to tell a sexy story (we can't back that up).

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/c/bedhoppersuk

bh202: data is sexy

Sun, 13 Apr 2025 12:34:17 -0300

Did you know that data is sexy? Join our episode today and find out about a recent survey we put out about swinging and people's experiences. We make some surprising discoveries about when people started, who brought it up and what people would throw in the swinging lifestyle bin. From age ranges to play-style preferences, we excel at exploring a whole range of data (ha! spreadsheet puns - I wonder what the formula for those is?).

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Come along to the Manchester Mixer - details here: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

bh201: neurodiversity with Rich & Jo

Sun, 30 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0300

This episode features Rich and Jo, who playfully describe each other before discussing their entry into the swinging lifestyle via online platforms and initial club experiences. A key theme is communication, which they highlight as crucial for navigating their relationship and has positively impacted their "vanilla" life. They also delve into their adult ADHD diagnoses, finding relief in understanding their behaviours, and discuss the potential link between neurodiversity and the lifestyle, including the concept of "risky sexual behaviour".

Navigating jealousy and boundaries is explored through personal anecdotes, emphasising that jealousy is normal but manageable within agreed limits. Offering advice to newcomers, they stress having an open mind and recognising the ordinary nature of people in the lifestyle. They playfully critique rigid definitions of labels and the stigma associated with their lifestyle. And their ideal date reflects their relaxed and engaging dynamic.

Thanks for listening and for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find out more about Rich and Jo here: https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/tea-and-biscuits

Come along to the Manchester Mixer - details here: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

bh200: the big 200th episode

Sun, 02 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0400

Thanks for joining our 200th episode! Some very special guests host this one and put us (Mr and Mrs H) under the spotlight. The conversation explores the podcast's origins, our favourite episodes, and memorable guests, and touches on some of the challenges too. We explore events we've have hosted and dream events we'd host if given the chance!

Of course, we trade some playful jabs about our past misadventures. We offer some podcasting advice and future aspirations for the show.

Thanks for hopping into our bed - here's to another 200!

Handy links

UK Swingers, calling all UK Swingers! Join us for an exclusive and unforgettable evening hosted by Wanderlust Swingers Podcast and bed hoppers Podcast. Set in an exclusive VIP suite in Manchester, this social soirée promises a tantalising blend of games, mingling, cocktails, and dazzling performances.

April 19-20, 2025 | Manchester, UK | Hosted by Libertine Events, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, and bed hoppers Podcast

Get your tickets here: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

bh199: our guide to social dates

Sun, 16 Feb 2025 07:11:54 -0400

In this episode we talk about how we've had a few dates recently and offer some top tips on the topic.

We discuss our experiences with 'social dates' - exploring potential romantic connections with other couples or singles within the swinging lifestyle. We share advice on initiating contact, choosing appropriate venues, communicating effectively, and navigating the complexities of physical intimacy on a first date.

Our conversation also touches on pre-date preparations, communication methods, and dealing with post-date reflections. Finally, we offer tips for listeners on how to have successful social dates, emphasising safety, respect, and open communication.

We hope you find it useful - don't forget to send us your thoughts and top tips to bedhoppersuk@gmail.com.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Come to the Wanderhoppers Manchester Mixer on 19 April 2025 - get your tickets here: https://www.tickettailor.com/events/libertineeventsllc/1533529

bh198: Ticket2Ride

Sun, 02 Feb 2025 10:01:47 -0400

In this episode we talk to the delightful Ticket2Ride and quiz them about how they got started, what it's like identifying as a straight girl in a bi-world and how not everyone has a fantasy. We take time out to explore their journey, the ups and downs and what they'd like to throw in the lifestyle bin. We also announce a brand new event - a social in Manchester!

Thanks for hopping into our bed

Handy links

Check out our guests on SwingHub at 'Ticket2Ride' and on Fab at https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/ticket2ride

Come to the Wanderhoppers Manchester Mixer on 19 April 2025 - get your tickets here: https://www.tickettailor.com/events/libertineeventsllc/1533529

bh197: The New Forest Couple

Sun, 19 Jan 2025 04:00:00 -0400

In this episode we talk to the New Forest Couple - that's Andrew and Clare. We explore their journey, approach and some of the challenges they've faced along the way. Clare opens up about how and why events and meets can be a struggle and offers some great advice for anyone with a disability looking to join the lifestyle. This is an open and honest conversation that you will not want to miss.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find out about The New Forest Couple by heading to Swinghub and searching 'Thenewforestcouple'.

Join our Patreon and listen to episodes before anyone else by heading here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

Don't forget to leave us a review! iTunes would be a great place to do just that - here's a link to our show: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/bed-hoppers-swinging-in-the-uk/id1361366390

bh196: Pennylane and Starlord

Sun, 05 Jan 2025 03:00:00 -0400

In this episode we interview sexy friends Pennylane and Starlord. Be warned though - it's Mr H's birthday and it's possible that we've had some cocktails. We explore some of the challenges they've faced, what they'd throw in the lifestyle bin and learn how they got started in the swinging lifestyle. Join us for a really fun conversation and exploration into how this couple have navigated their experiences.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find out more about Starlord and Pennylane by heading to fab at: https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/foxmia98 or heading to Swinghub and looking up pennylaneandstarlord

Check out and get tickets to our Candyland event here: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

bh195: Shiv and Tom

Sun, 22 Dec 2024 03:00:00 -0400

In this episode we talk to Shiv and Tom - a couple who are relatively new in their journey. They talk about their experiences, how they got started, advice for folks just starting out and what they'd throw in the lifestyle bin. It's a fun little conversation - with something for everyone.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find Shiv and Tom on Swinghub by searching 'Shiv&Tom'

Want to come along to our awesome Candyland event in January 2025? Head here to grab your tickets: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

bh194: Ruby and Cole

Sun, 08 Dec 2024 07:39:15 -0400

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast!

In this episode we kick off a brand new series of interviews. We'll be chatting to guests about their journey, their thoughts on ethical non monogamy and the highs, lows and challenges that they've faced. This week we are joined by Ruby and Cole who share how they got started, talk about their dynamic and their tips on what to do if you get locked out of your room.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find Ruby and Cole on Swinghub by searching 'RubyandCole'

Want to come along to our awesome Candyland event in January 2025? Head here to grab your tickets: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

bh193: swinger NYE survival

Sun, 17 Nov 2024 08:11:07 -0400

In this episode we explore New Years Eve (NYE) and some of our previous experiences of the night. We talk about what to expect, how to survive and tackle some of our top tips. We touch on house parties, nights at clubs, managing expectations, what to wear and more. If you're thinking of doing a swinger club on NYE (be it your first club visit or your 100th) then this might just be the episode for you!

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Want to come along to our awesome Candyland event in January 2025? Head here to grab your tickets: https://wanderlustswingers.com/london/

bh192: in the sun and man down

Sun, 03 Nov 2024 12:08:51 -0400

In this episode we take time out to explore an article that featured in the Sun. We talk about some of the reactions from the community and how we feel about it. We also share a story where Mr H faces a challenging moment and isn't performing to his normal standards. What went wrong and what have we learned since then?

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Read the article we mention: https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/31158998/gran-canaria-nude-beach-swinging-orgies-sex/

Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/

Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh191: time for a question or two

Sun, 20 Oct 2024 13:55:29 -0300

In this episode we field some questions from our listeners and discord community. Questions include if we see ourselves in the lifestyle in 10 years time, would we ever leave, is there anything we'd change about our journey and who do we admire? We work out which celebs would be on our hall passes and if we've had any negative experiences that have had a lasting impact. It's a fun rambling exploration of our past, present and future.

Thanks for hopping into our podcast!

Handy links

Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/

Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh190: the masturbation station

Sun, 06 Oct 2024 10:50:27 -0300

In this edition of the bed hoppers podcast we talk about female masturbation and put Mrs H in the hot seat. We talk about when she started, how frequently and what it means to her. We both explore the OMGYES site and talk about our experience in trying it out. Mrs H attempts to talk us through some sexy times too.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/

Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

OMGYES: https://start.omgyes.com/join

bh189: solo play for Mrs H

Thu, 26 Sep 2024 05:45:14 -0300

In this episode Mrs H goes on a solo date and has a sexy catch up with a lady friend. We talk about what she got up to (cue awks retelling of sexy times), what the experience was like and if she'd like to do it all again. Since it's us, not everything goes to plan - so we also talk about what went wrong and how we might do things differently. We talk about solo play in general and then a have a recording from some delightful friends covering their experiences in going Han-Solo.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Visit our website here: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/

Check out our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh188: surprising challenges

Sun, 08 Sep 2024 10:33:43 -0300

In this episode we talk about some of the surprising challenges that folks might face whilst being in the swinging lifestyle. We know that things aren't always roses and rainbows, so we asked our community to send in things that shocked them once they had started swinging - and what really surprised them. From costs and cliques to reactions about bi guys and expectations around bi ladies - this one covers a whole bunch of surprising things!

Do let us know what has surprised you since you've started on your adventures. Stay tuned to the very end for a couple of clips from friends of the show too! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh187: party at Vanilla Alternative

Sun, 25 Aug 2024 06:25:11 -0300

In this episode we talk about our Neon Dreams event at Vanilla Alternative. We cover the behind the scenes gossip, the naughty times, the changes to VA and how it went for us. If you've ever wondered what a swingers takeover might be like, how VA has changed over the years or just want a nose about how our recent event went - then this is the episode for you. From lap dances and photography classes to pre-parties and walks of shame, there's something here for everyone!

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find out about Keri Gold here: https://www.instagram.com/keri_gold_/
Find out about VA here: https://www.instagram.com/vanillaalternativeclub/
Check out the Spicy Match Insta here: https://www.instagram.com/spicymatch_official/
Email us bedhoppersuk@gmail.com to come along to our October social
Check out our website: www.bedhoppers.co.uk

bh186: how we started swinging

Sun, 11 Aug 2024 08:09:41 -0300

In this episode we take a trip down memory lane and talk about how our lifestyle journey began. We work through how we've changed in the eight or so years and also reflect on how the scene has changed in that time. If you've ever wondered how we got started or how things have changed in the lifestyle, then this might just be the episode for you.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Tickets to our NEON Dreams event are available here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/
Email us bedhoppersuk@gmail.com to come along to our October social
Check out our website: www.bedhoppers.co.uk

bh185: how to rock a threesome

Sun, 28 Jul 2024 08:11:24 -0300

In this thrilling instalment we take a look at threesomes - and how we rock them (we can't actually back up that we rock them). We talk about some recent experiences, things to think about and how we've negotiated a FMF or two in the past. If you're thinking about sorting something similar, this could be just the pod for you. You might also enjoy it if you like us warbling on for a bit. This one has something for almost everyone. Prob'ly. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Join our neon dreams party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Join Spicy Match and find out about their other events here: https://www.spicymatch.com/

Want to come to our October Southampton Social? Message us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh184: UK Swingers on Spicy Island

Sun, 14 Jul 2024 07:33:09 -0300

In this episode we talk about our adventure to Croatia and the Spicy Match Spicy Island. We run through what to expect, what the accommodation is like, the sort of people there, the playrooms, the food, the nights, our experiences and much, much more. From steampunk to sexy times - if you've never experienced a Spicy Match event - this is the episode for you.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Join our neon dreams party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Join Spicy Match and find out about their other events here: https://www.spicymatch.com/

Want to come to our October Southampton Social? Message us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh183: a chat with our son

Sun, 23 Jun 2024 11:10:25 -0300

In this episode we put our son Morgan in the hot seat. We interview him about being the child (albeit now a grown adult) of swingers, what happened when he found out about our lifestyle, his thoughts on talking to your kids about it and what happened when we were off on adventures.

This one might be useful if you've ever thought about talking to your family about your swinging lifestyle - and understanding how your kids might react. Do get in touch if you have any questions - and thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our neon party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Want to come to our October Southampton Social - message us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh182: events, socials and a bi conversation

Sun, 09 Jun 2024 11:44:03 -0300

In this episode we explore what we've been up to over the last few weeks - from planning events, some lovely social meets and checking out the SSocial Club in Bournemouth. Then, since it's Pride month, we have a chat with Mrs H about her bisexuality - what it means to her and how she discovered that she was bi.

Happy Pride everyone - and thanks for hopping into our podcast!

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our neon party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Want to come to our October Southampton Social - message us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Find out about the SSocial Club here: https://www.instagram.com/the_ssocial_club/

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh181: solo dates for Mr and Mrs H

Sun, 26 May 2024 10:38:58 -0300

In this episode Mr and Mrs H both experience separate dates and solo play! On the same day! With the same person! Without completely spoiling this episode, we both have some adventures and talk about what went right, what could we have done better and how we might change things in future. From taking a swing to robots on the big screen, this one literally has it all. Oh - and it also has the conclusion to the sexy story we've been sharing. Miss that one at your peril!

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our neon party at VA here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh180: the greatest swinging podcast ever

Sun, 12 May 2024 16:05:17 -0300

In this thrilling instalment, we turn to our AI overlords to ask 'what would be the best ever swinging podcast?' We get some ideas and then jump straight online to record them! This one is like a mini-guide to swinging in 50 mins or so. Hopefully there's some fun to be had too!

Oh - and if you liked our sexy story from last time, stick around to the end! There might be a treat just for you!

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh179: an honest conversation

Tue, 30 Apr 2024 13:22:48 -0300

Welcome to the bed hopper podcast.

Over the past few months we've been talking about a shift in our dynamic. Mrs H is much more interested in women - but that's made making new connections much more complicated. So, we do what we do best and sit down and have an honest conversation about what's going on and how we might tackle it. We explore some options, talk about how we're feeling and think through our recent conversations with friends (check out the patreon for a special on that). And to top it off, there might just be a sexy story written by Mr H.

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh178: PJ parties, socials and making the most of it

Sun, 14 Apr 2024 10:27:21 -0300

In this thrilling edition we talk about the Swinghub PJ party and find out why Mrs H had to hunt high and low for Mr H. We delve in to the Swindon Social - and touch on how we could get more from going to events and the like. We announce that we're going to SpicyIsland and talk about what that's gonna be like too.

Thanks for downloading our podcast!

Handy links

Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine

Don't forget to use code Libertine for 10% off!!

bh177: the black and white ball

Tue, 02 Apr 2024 07:41:55 -0300

In this episode we talk about the Black and White Ball, which we hosted with the Lovely Cate from Wanderlust Swingers. We go behind the scenes to talk about how the event went, run through what it's like being a host and also cover some of the sexy times we had during the weekend. Mrs H struggles to tell a sexy story and we delve into why that might be the case.

Thanks for hopping into our podcast.

Handy links

Send Mrs H your phrase at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Join our Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

Check out Wanderlust Swingers here: https://twitter.com/SwingDownUnder

bh176: life updates, top tv and solo dates

Sun, 17 Mar 2024 05:10:00 -0300

In this episode we share an update on what's been going on in our lives lately. We talk about the support we've had from friends in the lifestyle and why things haven't been easy. But don't worry - it's not all doom and gloom - we quickly move onto some lifestyle adjacent TV (think Game of Keys and Couple to Throuple) and then ask Mrs H about what's happening with her solo date!

Thanks for hopping into our podcast!

Handy links

Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

You can read about us in USA Today here: https://eu.usatoday.com/story/life/health-wellness/2024/03/07/swinging-emotions-sex-relationships/72675532007/

Find out about the SSocial Club here: https://www.instagram.com/the_ssocial_club/

bh175: lads, lads, lads

Sun, 03 Mar 2024 04:00:00 -0400

In this episode Mr H catches up with the marvellous Secret Stag for a chat about life, the universe and everything. From hotwifing and taking Secret vixen out on a date - all the way through to top tips for men - this one covers a wide range of random fun topics. Does Secret Stag enjoy the limelight? Will we be tempted by the one ring? How many pop culture references can we fit in one sitting? Find out all of this and more today!

Thanks for hopping in to our podcast!

Handy links

UPDATE: We have an extremely limited amount of club only tickets left for our Black and White Ball with the Wanderlust Swingers. Get yours here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Find Secret Stag here: https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag

Find Secret Vixen on X/Twitter: https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1

Check out her blog: https://secretvixen.blog/

bh174: Mrs H goes one on one with Secret Stag

Sun, 18 Feb 2024 07:00:00 -0400

After taking time out to interview the lovely Secret Vixen in our last episode, Mrs H turns the tables on Secret Stag and interviews him one on one. They delve deeper into the world of hotwifing, cuckolding and stag and vixen dynamics. They explore just what makes Secret Stag tick and what drives his desires. If you've ever thought about being a stag (or cuck) this might just be the episode for you.

Handy links

UPDATE: We have an extremely limited amount of club only tickets left for our Black and White Ball with the Wanderlust Swingers. Get yours here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Find Secret Stag here: https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag

Find Secret Vixen on X/Twitter: https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1

Check out her blog: https://secretvixen.blog/

bh173: one on one with Secret Vixen

Sun, 04 Feb 2024 10:15:43 -0400

In this episode Mrs H goes solo with Secret Vixen for some one on one time and a great conversation. They explore the world of hot wives, what makes SV tick and what she's looking for in a hot date. Mr H and Secret Stag stay out of it for the benefit of all listeners! Download now for a fabulous convo with fabulous ladies. Thanks for hopping into our bed.

Handy links

Find Secret Vixen on X/Twitter: https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1

Check out her blog: https://secretvixen.blog/

Find Secret Stag here: https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag

bh172: from red-lines to escalations

Sun, 21 Jan 2024 07:36:05 -0400

In this episode we take to X (or Twitter, for the old school) to get some listener questions. We cover a fair few topics including our hard red-lines, how to escalate and if we've ever lost friends in the lifestyle. Don't forget, if you'd like to send us a question, hit us up at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Links and stuff

Special thanks to the following for submitting a question on our live stream...

https://twitter.com/Elanjay_UK

https://twitter.com/MistressVixen77

https://twitter.com/jakrox23

https://twitter.com/funcouple512

https://twitter.com/newforestcouple

If we missed you off, sorry!

Don't forget, club tickets to our B&W event with Wanderlust Swingers are still on sale. Head here to grab yours now: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

bh171: glory holes and trouser holes - NYE at Xstasia

Sun, 07 Jan 2024 09:02:11 -0400

Hoppy new year! We hope you had a great one and have started the year with a bang!

This episode is all about our New Years Eve trip to Xstasia (near Birmingham). We cover what it's like returning to the club (we were last there pre-pandemic), some of the amusing stories and a little bit of the sexy times that we had on the night. We also talk about Mr H's birthday (thanks for all of the well wishes) and some of the drama we've been dealing with since the end of December. It's a fun filled episode that we hope we keep those January blues well away!

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

FYI - our Southampton Social for January is now sold out - as are hotel tickets for the B&W Ball with Wanderlust Swingers.

Get club only tickets to the B&W Ball here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Check out our website here: www.bedhoppers.co.uk

Find out more about Xstasia here: https://www.xtasia.co.uk/

bh170: a solo play date

Sun, 17 Dec 2023 04:00:00 -0400

In this episode we follow up on our chat about separate dating - and Mr H goes on a solo play adventure. We talk about how this came about, what happened, how we're feeling and what it might mean for the future. Mrs H reveals what she got up to - and Mr H gives the deets of his sexy story. Would we do it again? You'll just have to listen to find out! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Want to come to our Southampton Social on 27 January? Send us an email (bedhoppersuk@gmail.com) or DM us on X (https://twitter.com/bedhoppersUK)

bh169: the great big UK hotel takeover

Sun, 03 Dec 2023 08:07:57 -0400

This episode is part two (of a two part podcast). The first one is on the Wanderlust Swingers show (https://twitter.com/SwingDownUnder) and is called UK Swingers Hotel Takeover. We chill out with Cate from Wanderlust Swingers and talk about the Winter Wonderland event - our joint event which was the largest swinging hotel takeover that's ever happened in the UK (what a mouthful). We go behind the scenes, talk about our highlights, some of the feedback and how it all went down. Find out more about the room crawl, action on the buses and why we went to bed so late.

We talk a little bit about our next event and also announce our bed hoppers social in January.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Important info

Want to come to our social event on 27 January 2024? Drop us a message and we'll send you the deets as soon as they are available.

bh168: a big discussion on dynamics

Sun, 19 Nov 2023 04:00:00 -0400

Thanks for downloading our podcast.

We take time out to follow up on a discussion we'd started in Miami. For some context, in Florida Mrs H missed out on the opportunity to play with some ladies/one particular lady. This, linked in with some observed changes to our approach, has prompted some discussion about separate play. So, we lay it all out on the table and talk about why this might be a thing, how we're feeling about it and what it could change for our relationship.

Hope you find it a useful discussion.

We'd love to hear your thoughts and if you've tackled a similar topic. If so, reach out to us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com or at https://twitter.com/bedhoppersUK

bh167: the Miami PCAP recap

Sun, 05 Nov 2023 07:40:06 -0400

Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this episode we talk about our recent adventure to Florida and how Miami Podcast-A-Palooza (PCAP) went for us. We cover what it was like at the event, what we got up to and our thoughts on returning. There's some theme park talk and a little bit of naughty too - something for everyone!

Handy links

Find out more about about PCAP and other Libertine events here: https://libertineevents.com/

bh166: SwingHub and Open House with Olivia and Gage

Sun, 15 Oct 2023 05:00:00 -0300

In this episode we speak to the lovely Olivia and Gage about Swinghub (their new lifestyle dating app), appearances on TV (including Open House) and also explore how they met and what they do with their spare time! We have some fun along the way, chat about our shared TV experiences and find out much more about them too!

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find out about SwingHub:

Check out Vistawife:

And Gage:

bh165: the pre event conversation

Sun, 01 Oct 2023 08:08:02 -0300

In this episode we have a chat about some upcoming events and talk through our approach. What are our expectations, some of our rules and boundaries - and how are we going to make the best of our experience. Take a listen to find out how we prep for events - and have some honest conversations about how we think it might go! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Come to our Winter Wonderland event: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

bh164: Swindon Swingers Club

Sun, 17 Sep 2023 07:12:44 -0300

In this episode we have a quick catch-up on Mrs H's birthday and then dive right in to the topic of the day - our visit to Swindon Swingers Club. We give you the basics on how it works, what it's like and try to remember the layout off the top of our heads. It's a handy guide if you're planning to visit for the first time! We also cover a little bit about how we're feeling when visiting clubs and how we're a little out of practice.

Special thanks to the Swindon team for being so welcoming. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Check out Swindon Swingers Club here: https://swindonswingers.com/

Grab your tickets to our Winter Wonderland event here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

bh163: masturbation and eye opening moments

Sun, 03 Sep 2023 07:41:33 -0300

Thanks for downloading our show! In this episode we answer some listener questions - from making a great first impression and recovering from an illness - all the way through to an exploration of masturbation (thanks for that one, Mrs H!). We also announce our brand new event (Winter Wonderland) that we're hosting with the amazing Wanderlust Swingers. We offer an update on our home lives and talk a little about what's to come! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Come to our Winter Wonderland event

Get ready for the most amazing event of the year... The UK's FIRST EVER Full Swingers Hotel Takeover is here!

Mark your calendars for November 18th, because it's going to be an unforgettable night of excitement and adventure. Hosted by Wanderlust Swingers Podcast and the bed hoppers Podcast, this event promises to be an epic journey into the world of pleasure and connection.

What can you expect?

Meet and Mingle Floor Crawl: Mix and mingle with like-minded individuals as you explore every corner of the hotel. Make new friends, connect with old ones, and start your evening off on the right foot.

Pre-party Extravaganza: Get the party started early with a pre-party that will set the mood for an unforgettable night. Music, drinks, and electrifying energy await you.

Party Bus Adventure: Buckle up for an exciting ride as the party bus takes you to the Swingers Club Takeover.

Swingers Club Takeover: The grand finale! Dive headfirst into a world of sensuality, pleasure, and passion as you take over the swingers club for a night of unforgettable experiences at Penthouse Playrooms.

Tickets are available NOW: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

bh162: lose yourself in the moment

Sun, 20 Aug 2023 06:22:53 -0300

Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this episode we talk about some of the sexy times we had on our Going Dutch adventure. From six in a tiny room to a show for two - this one has it all. We cover the naughty times but also deep dive into a something of a hiccup on the Sunday afternoon. We talk about losing yourself in the moment and how much you give to your play partners - and we wonder how much hanger plays into our play experience.

Get in touch and tell us about how you handle losing yourself in the moment: https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/social-media

Handy links

People mentioned in this episode include...

bh161: Fata Morgana and Fun4Two

Sun, 06 Aug 2023 07:38:25 -0300

Thanks for downloading our podcast! In this episode we talk about our Going Dutch event with the Wanderlust Swingers. We cover the basics on the trip and explore the two clubs that we visited - Fata Morgana and Fun4Two. We compare the two and reveal our favourite - handy if you're heading to Amsterdam and the like. Do get in touch if you've been to either club or have some other recommendations.

Handy links

Our site - https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/

Fun4Two - https://fun4two.nl/english/index.html

Fata Morgana - https://www.fata-morgana.nl/prijzen-tijden/

Wanderlust Swingers - https://www.swingingdownunder.com/

bh160: the hot summer nights event

Sun, 23 Jul 2023 12:43:26 -0300

Thanks for taking a look at our podcast. In this episode we talk about our Hot Summer Nights event at Penthouse Playrooms (co-hosted with the Wanderlust Swingers) and how it went for us and for special guests HiscockHertail (LV and VI). We cover what's been going on at home and the lead up to the event - along with a few spicy details about the night.

Special thanks go to...

Cate and Darrell for co-hosting with us and helping to make the event extra awesome
Penthouse Playrooms for having such a lovely venue and letting us return
Secret Stag, Secret Vixen and Max and Mabel for their support on the night (and all other times!)
LV and VI (HiscockHertail) for coming on the show and for being as awesome as ever
Everyone else who came along to the event and supported us!

Handy links

Find out more about...

LV and VI - https://twitter.com/HisCockHerTail
Cate and Darrell - https://www.swingingdownunder.com/
Max and Mabel - https://twitter.com/maxandmabel1
Secret Stag - https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag
Secret Vixen - https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1 and https://secretvixen.blog/
Penthouse Playrooms - https://www.penthouseplayrooms.com/

bh159: our top three UK swingers clubs

Sun, 09 Jul 2023 09:46:16 -0300

Thanks for downloading our show. In this episode we answer popular listener question - what are our favourite clubs in the UK? So, we talk about our top three and explore just why we'd recommend them, the good, the bad and the ugly. Well, mostly the good - we're pretty positive. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

The Vanilla Alternative: https://va2.co.uk/

Le Boudoir: https://leboudoir.club/sessions/new

Penthouse Playrooms: https://www.penthouseplayrooms.com/

bh158: our worst experience

Sun, 25 Jun 2023 06:31:46 -0300

Thanks for picking our podcast! In this episode we talk about our worst experience ever. We delve into some of the meets that have gone wrong and then into a situation that we'd never want to repeat. We explore a weekend break from several years back that we've never discussed on the podcast before. Trigger warning - it includes a hospital trip and a seizure - so please keep that in mind as you listen.

Handy links

Come to our Hot Summer Night event here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

bh157: a slutty weekend

Sun, 11 Jun 2023 08:14:15 -0300

Thanks for downloading our podcast! In this episode we talk about a rather exciting weekend. From bottomless drinks and hosting friends all the way through to our social event and a very sexy threesome. Sounds like a great weekend to us. Secret kisses and sleepy hand jobs too! We also talk about attending a rather lovely social event in Oxford. Apologies in advance for Mr H's voice - I'm sorry, I have a cold!

Handy links

Join our Hot Summer Nights event here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Follow these folks to find out more about the Oxford social...

bh156: questions for your lover

Sun, 28 May 2023 12:07:53 -0300

Thanks for downloading our podcast. This one is a chat between us - we decided to ask each other some questions that we think everyone might benefit from. So, consider this a lifestyle and relationship check-in. The questions are...

1. Why are we doing this?

2. Are we having fun?

3. What does the future look like?

4. How are we staying connected?

5. Is there anything you'd like to tell me?

We run through the questions and come up with some (perhaps) surprising answers. Hope you enjoy it - do let us know how you get on if you decide to ask and answer the questions too!

Handy links

Come to our Hot Summer Nights event - https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Come along to our Going Dutch event - https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swinging-in-the-netherlands/

bh155: just the twoofus

Sun, 14 May 2023 09:35:38 -0300

Thanks for downloading our show. In this episode we interview great friends the Twoofus (or the Twoofers) - and find out more about how they came to join the lifestyle, their favourite clubs and who they'd have over for tea. There's some fun along the way with favourite sandwiches and who'd play us and them in our own film.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Find out more about the Twoofus here: https://twitter.com/Thetwoofus2019

Join our Going Dutch event here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swinging-in-the-netherlands/

And come to our Hot Summer Nights event here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

bh154: busting makes us feel good

Sun, 30 Apr 2023 07:00:07 -0300

In this episode we tackle some of the great swinger myths - where they might come from, if any of them are actually true and which are just urban legends. Mrs H pulls together a list of her favourites and tests Mr H on the fact or fiction. A fun little adventure through some of those crazy things we've heard in the swinging lifestyle. Thanks for hopping into our show!

Handy Links

Hot Summer Nights event: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Going Dutch event: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swinging-in-the-netherlands/

bh153: a matter of guilt

Sun, 16 Apr 2023 04:34:00 -0300

In this episode we invite fabulous friends Secret Vixen and Secret Stag on for a discussion on guilt. We cover feeling guilty as parents, carers and friends as we take time out to explore our sexuality and the swinging and hot-wifing lifestyles. If you've ever felt bad for dropping your friends, leaving your kids with the grand-parents or having your own life - this might just be the topic for you.

Thanks for hopping into our podcast!

Handy links

Our guests

Secret Vixen on Twitter: https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1
Secret Stag on Twitter: https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag
The Secret Vixen blog: https://secretvixen.blog/
The Secret Stag blog: https://secretvixen.blog/secret-stag/

Our events

Going Dutch event: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swinging-in-the-netherlands/
Hot Summer Night event: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

bh152: bed hoppers on TV

Mon, 03 Apr 2023 15:33:09 -0300

Did you know that we were on TV again? In the UK we were on 5Star (a Channel 5 thing) on a show called Adults Only - swingers wanted. At the time of publishing, it's still available on catch up. We talk about filming, what on earth made us do TV again and what we thought about the programme. We compare it to our previous effort on television and work through what worked well and what wasn't for us. We also talk about some of the great events we've got coming up!

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Going Dutch event - https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swinging-in-the-netherlands/

Hot Summer Nights - https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

The Channel 4 TV show (the previous one) - https://youtu.be/Tmedrw-i8_c

bh151: some random questions

Sun, 19 Mar 2023 07:44:55 -0300

We delve into some random listener questions - from the ultimate Batman to perfecting your profile. Should you sh1t on your own doorstep and how long have we been name and face out? There's some serious discussion and some fun to be had too. Also - look out for the slightly new intro!

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

Handy links

Want to come to our Going Dutch event?

Head here to get tickets and find out more: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/swinging-in-the-netherlands/

bh150: the RED HOT Party and a look back at our favourites

Sun, 05 Mar 2023 07:41:57 -0400

Thanks for downloading our show.

In this episode we take a look at our recent Red Hot Party (hosted with the delightful Wanderlust Swingers). We talk event prep, how it went on the night and how Mr H has been feeling reflecting back on it.

And, since it's our 150th episode, we also take a stroll through memory lane and recall some of our favourite bed hopper episodes - and why they mean so much to us.

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

Handy links

People mentioned in this episode, include...

https://twitter.com/SwingDownUnder

https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag

https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1

https://twitter.com/maxandmabel1

https://twitter.com/UkBehind

https://twitter.com/HisCockHerTail

https://twitter.com/MsClitbang

And here’s a link to the YouTube walkthrough of Penthouse Playrooms - https://youtu.be/VwzDpAAn4mc

Find out more about them at https://www.penthouseplayrooms.com

bh149: surviving events

Sun, 19 Feb 2023 05:00:00 -0400

In this episode the delightful Cate from Wanderlust Swingers Podcast joins us - and we talk about making the most of events. We cover our top tips for a successful event, some of the dos and don'ts and how to get the best errr bang for your buck. Cate's experience in running events comes in really handy - as does our ability to get it wrong!

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Want to find out more about Cate?

Head to their site at https://www.swingingdownunder.com/

More of us?

Check out our website at www.bedhoppers.co.uk

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh148: a couple of naughty weekends

Sun, 05 Feb 2023 04:00:00 -0400

Thanks for checking out our show. In this episode we talk about a couple of naughty weekends and what we got up to. For the first, we stay away to see some amazing folks and, for the second, we have some delightful guests stay the night. We talk about some sexy times, cover some interesting questions that get raised as result and have some fun along the way.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

People in this episode include...

https://twitter.com/starlordandpen

https://twitter.com/sluttypants_

https://twitter.com/_MrSluttyPants\

Check out our website at www.bedhoppers.co.uk

Join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

bh147: we didn’t expect that!

Sun, 22 Jan 2023 06:04:36 -0400

Thanks for downloading the bed hoppers podcast!

In this episode we talk about some of the stuff we didn't expect when we entered the swinging lifestyle. We reflect on the good stuff and take a walk through the not-so-good stuff too. From increasing costs to fabulous friends and more - it's a fun reflection on some of the more surprising things we've discovered.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Handy links

Become a member of our Patreon - www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

Visit our website - www.bedhoppers.co.uk

bh146: Fun4two and the New Year tantric tent

Sun, 08 Jan 2023 08:41:24 -0400

In this episode we fly out to a club in Rotterdam (Fun4two) and give you a low down on if it's hot or not. We explore the rooms, restaurant and what it's like partying on NYE! We hang round with delightful friends Cate and Darrell from the Wanderlust Swingers - and talk about how we saw the New Year in with a bang! From tantric tents to full body massage, this one has it all...

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Want to find out more about Cate and Darrell?

Head to their site at https://www.swingingdownunder.com/

Want to check out Fun4two?

Here’s a handy link: https://fun4two.nl/

Come along to our event at Penthouse Playrooms on 25 February 2023

We’re hosting an event with the delightful Wanderlust Swingers. Get your tickets here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh145: our end of year review

Sun, 25 Dec 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Thanks for downloading our podcast!

This time around we take time out to reflect on 2022 and have a think about what we're looking forward to in 2023. We walk through some of our highlights, what's on our fucket list for the new year and what we're planning!

Come along to our event at Penthouse Playrooms on 25 February 2023

We’re hosting an event with the delightful Wanderlust Swingers. Get your tickets here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh144: three threesomes

Sun, 11 Dec 2022 05:00:00 -0400

Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this episode things go right and we talk about three recent threesomes that we've had. That's three encounters with some single ladies! Is it a bit humble-braggy? Maybe! But we reflect on what's gone right, how we've navigated them and the learnings we've taken from some of our adventures of late.

We're aware that the sound on this one isn't up to our usual standard - but hopefully you'll enjoy the show regardless! Thanks for hopping into our bed.

Come along to our event at Penthouse Playrooms on 25 February 2023

We’re hosting an event with the delightful Wanderlust Swingers. Get your tickets here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh143: 13 in a bed at halloween

Sun, 27 Nov 2022 09:37:53 -0400

Thanks for downloading our show! This time around we talk about our trip to Vanilla Alternative at Halloween. It’s our first ever swinging lifestyle Halloween party - we talk costumes, partying and playtimes! We also had something of a hiccup - so we talk about what went wrong and how we dealt with it. A number of sexy friends join us to describe their naughty night, too!

People mentioned in this episode include…

https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag

https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1

https://twitter.com/sluttypants_

https://twitter.com/_MrSluttyPants

https://twitter.com/MsClitbang

https://twitter.com/AfterhoursKp

https://twitter.com/2_pinacoladas

https://twitter.com/maxandmabel1

https://twitter.com/Dis_nerds

Come along to our event at Penthouse Playrooms on 25 February 2023

We’re hosting an event with the delightful Wanderlust Swingers. Get your tickets here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh142: Penthouse Playrooms

Sun, 13 Nov 2022 07:32:03 -0400

Thanks for downloading our show. In this episode we take our first visit to Swinger club Penthouse Playrooms and review the club. We talk about a hiccup that we faced, what went down and how we handled it. We give you some insight into a sexy moment in one of the rooms (which has an unusual ending). We also announce our new event with Wanderlust Swingers!

Find out about Penthouse here: https://www.penthouseplayrooms.com

Red Hot Party

Want to come to our new event on 25 February?

Here's the link: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh141: Locktober with Wizard and Jester

Sun, 30 Oct 2022 15:23:38 -0300

In this episode we talk to good friends Wizard and Jester about their journey so far. We explore Locktober and just why Wizard is wearing a cage. It's a bit of a deep dive into chastity play and what that dynamic looks like for couples in the swinging and Hotwire lifestyle.

Ever wanted to know about cock-cages, power dynamics and denial? This might just be the episode for you!

Handy links

People we mentioned include:

Check out our site at www.bedhoppers.co.uk

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh140: you don’t do that with me!

Sun, 16 Oct 2022 08:37:10 -0300

This week we bring you up to date with our latest adventures and trials and take time out to talk about how you might do different things with your play partners. Do you kiss them differently? Do you do things with them that you don’t do with your own partner?

We explore roles and boundaries, along with play styles to find out how to navigate this tricksy conversation.

Don’t forget to head to www.bedhoppers.co.uk to check out our website.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh139: an orgy at the Glitz

Wed, 05 Oct 2022 15:28:24 -0300

Thanks for downloading our podcast!

In this episode we talk about our event at Le boudoir - a Night at the Glitz. We cover the highs, the lows and also share a sexy story which involved something of an orgy in one of the playrooms. Don't forget to check out Wanderlust Swingers podcast for their take on the event. Thanks to everyone who helped to make the night special.

Handy links

People we mentioned include:

Check out our site at www.bedhoppers.co.uk

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh138: Mrs H takes command of the threesome

Sun, 18 Sep 2022 08:16:49 -0300

Thanks for downloading our podcast!

In this episode we talk about a very sexy threesome with our good friends Secret Stag and Secret Vixen. Mrs H take a backseat and directs the action. This one gets a little spicy!

That leads us nicely into a deep conversation about our fantasies and where we might end up in the future. Are things changing or are they staying the same? Are we being honest with our wants and desires? You'll just have to listen to find out...

Also - a heads up, our Night at the Glitz (with the Wanderlust Swingers) is now sold out! No more tickets available.

Handy links

People we mentioned include:

Check out our site at www.bedhoppers.co.uk

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh137: bed hoppers flip you off - the XXXFiles

Sun, 04 Sep 2022 06:42:33 -0300

Thanks for downloading our show. This time around we get flipped off by bed hopper patrons Mr and Mrs Nerd (also known as the XXXFiles). We ask them a bunch of questions and then the tables get turned and they probe us! From favourite body parts and sandwiches, all the way through to living without Pokemon and robots - this is a fun little episode that you won't want to miss.

The XXXFiles will be joining us at our Night at the Glitz event in September. If you'd like to come along, check out the link below.

Handy links

Want to come to the amazing Night at the Glitz? Point your browser to https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Find the XXXFiles here: https://twitter.com/thexxxfilesRnR

Check out our site at www.bedhoppers.co.uk

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh136: swinging braintrust with Wanderlust Swingers

Sun, 21 Aug 2022 06:56:09 -0300

Welcome to episode 136. This time around we catch up with the amazing Cate and Darrell from Wanderlust Swingers podcast. We answer questions from a whole host of listeners and apply our swinging experiences to offer some advice, stories and have some fun along the way. Topics include warning other people about poor behaviours, jealousy and being emotionally in the right place - and Darrell's approach to avoiding getting punched.

This is part one of a two parter - you can find part two on the Wanderlust Swingers show (links below).

Handy links

Want to come to the amazing Night at the Glitz? Point your browser to https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Check out Wanderlust Swingers here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/ and on Twitter @swingingdownunder

Check out our site at www.bedhoppers.co.uk

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh135: bed hoppers flip you off - Secret Stag and Secret Vixen

Sun, 07 Aug 2022 08:06:50 -0300

Welcome to our second flip you off special - where we interview our good friends Secret Stag and Secret Vixen and then the tables get turned and they interview us. From snog, marry and avoid with the avengers - all the way through to what we love most about each other, this one covers a whole range of topics. Be sure to stay to the very end for something of a sing-a-long!

Handy links

Want to come to the amazing Night at the Glitz? Point your browser to https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Find Secret Stag here: https://twitter.com/Secret_Stag

Find Secret Vixen here: https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1

And find their blog here: https://secretvixen.blog/

Check out our site at www.bedhoppers.co.uk

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh134: bed hoppers flip you off - Max and Mabel

Sun, 24 Jul 2022 07:32:31 -0300

Welcome to episode 134 and our new bed hoppers flip you off series!

What's flip you off about? We interview guests and find out all about them - and then the tables get turned (or flipped) and they interview us! It's a great chance to find out about other people in the lifestyle and explore their unique perspective! Kicking off this series is delightful couple (and bed hopper Patrons) Max and Mabel - who talk about their dog, how they met and which super power we should have.

Handy links

Want to come to the amazing Night at the Glitz? Point your browser to https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Find Max and Mabel here: https://twitter.com/maxandmabel1

Check out our site at www.bedhoppers.co.uk

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh133: confidence is a preference for the habitual voyeur...

Sun, 10 Jul 2022 14:42:04 -0300

Thanks for taking a look at our show!

In this episode we finally announce our next event - A Night at the Glitz! It's being held in Le Boudoir, London on 24 September 2022. If you're interested, there's a link below. We talk about the end of our American holiday and visiting the delightful Sapphic Swingers and the Trapeze club in Fort Lauderdale. And for the main part of the episode Mrs H questions Mr H on his confidence and why he's not as confident as he sounds. It's an intimate conversation that might help you if you're facing confidence issues too.

Handy links

Want to come to the amazing Night at the Glitz? Point your browser to https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/

Find out about the Sapphic Swingers here https://sapphicswingers.blogspot.com/

Learn about Trapeze on this link https://trapezeclub.com/

Check out our new site at www.bedhoppers.co.uk

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh132: reflecting on Podcast-A-Palooza

Sun, 26 Jun 2022 07:20:20 -0300

Thanks for downloading our show. This time around we talk about PCAP and cover some of our highlights for the event. We reflect on our experiences and discuss why we didn't play and how we were feeling. We offer some tips for attending similar events - and what we'd do differently in the future.

Handy links

Check out 4OURPLAY here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqOv9wSOOfiXXdeGAuRTtbg
Find out about BlacknKinky here: https://twitter.com/Blacknkinky
And hear from Swinger University here: https://twitter.com/SwingerUPodcast

Check out our site at www.bedhoppers.co.uk

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh131: flying Casual at PCAP

Sun, 12 Jun 2022 13:35:36 -0300

This episode was recorded on the last day of PCAP (that's PodCast-A-Palooza). Mickey and Mallory from the Casual Swingers join us to talk about PCAP, their session, some random observations and a bit of a chin wag. We cover some top tips for filming and explore swearing in the UK and USA. The big question is, will our voices hold up? Hopefully this episode will be Mallory approved!

Handy links

Find out more about the Casual Swingers at https://casualswinger.com/

Treat yourself to a new sex toy at https://www.casualtoys.com/

Check out our new site at www.bedhoppers.co.uk

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh130: almost a fivesome in le boudoir

Sun, 29 May 2022 06:00:00 -0300

This time around we talk about a recent visit to the Le Boudoir swingers club in London. We offer some thoughts on the club, talk through our night (including a hint of sexy times) and solve the mystery of where Mrs H went.

We also talk about Eurovision and a slightly inebriated Mr H (drinking Mega Pints of SnakeJuice, no less). This one has a little something for everyone.

Handy links

Check out our new site at www.bedhoppers.co.uk

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

The Le Boudoir site - https://leboudoir.club/

View the Wanderlust Swingers video on Le Boudoir: https://youtu.be/2aRB5d64lPg

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh129: the bed hoppers come together

Sun, 15 May 2022 08:22:26 -0300

Thanks for downloading our show.

This episode is all about our recent come together event - where we took over Vanilla Alternative for an evening and hosted nearly 100 amazing swingers. We chat about what went well, what we'd do to improve it and cover all of the behind the scenes gossip. Tune in to find out who wore the same dress as Mrs H, why Mr H now has a towel with his face on it and if we ever made it to the hot tub.

Handy links

Check out our new site at www.bedhoppers.co.uk

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

Want to join us in Palm Springs at PCAP? Head to https://podcast-a-palooza.com/bedhoppers

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh128: celebrating the no and opening the box

Fri, 22 Apr 2022 10:08:26 -0300

Thanks for downloading our show.

This time around we talk about some questions that came up from a recent threesome - and if it was really going to be a booty call. This leads on to a little chat about consent, asking for what you want, celebrating saying no and, of course, Schrödinger's cat. We dive into the Little Mermaid and touch on body language and Hogwarts houses. Like us - it's a short one, but a good one!

Handy links

Check out our site at www.bedhoppers.co.uk

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

Want to join us in Palm Springs at PCAP? Head to https://podcast-a-palooza.com/bedhoppers

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh127: where does he get those wonderful toys?

Sun, 10 Apr 2022 12:23:52 -0300

Thanks for downloading our show.

This week we cover three Hot Octopuss toys - the Kurve, the Jett and the Pulse Duo. We natter about bass, treble and Mickey Mouse ears. We also take time out to talk about using toys in the lifestyle and why Mrs H isn't always keen on the idea.

Handy links

Head this way for the amazing Hot Octopuss toys.

Check out our new site at www.bedhoppers.co.uk

Want to come to our come together takeover event at Vanilla Alternative on 23 April? Message us on Twitter, Fab, on our site or email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

It's £70 for couples and £30 for single ladies - and kicks off at 6pm.

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

Want to join us in Palm Springs at PCAP? Head to https://podcast-a-palooza.com/bedhoppers

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh126: event horizon with Cate

Sun, 27 Mar 2022 11:08:42 -0300

Thanks for downloading our show.

In this episode we speak to the delightful Cate from the Wanderlust Swingers about all things events. What makes a good one, what makes a bad one, what should you wear - we cover it all. We talk about value for money and offer some tips for first timers too. If you're thinking about attending an event - this is a great place to start!

We also announce our brand new website and blog - check out the links below for more info.

Handy links

Check out the Wanderlust Swingers here: https://www.swingingdownunder.com

Check out our new site at www.bedhoppers.co.uk

Want to come to our come together takeover event at Vanilla Alternative on 23 April? Message us on Twitter, Fab or email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

It's £70 for couples and £30 for single ladies - and kicks off at 6pm.

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

Want to join us in Palm Springs at PCAP? Head to https://podcast-a-palooza.com/bedhoppers

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh125: unbelieva-BULL chat with Ashely Del Toro

Sun, 13 Mar 2022 08:47:49 -0300

Thanks for downloading our podcast. Ever wanted to know what it's like being a bull? This is the episode for you!

We chat to Ashley Del Toro, Chicago’s Premier Hotwife Lover, about all things bull, hotwife, stag and vixen. He gives us some insight into life as a bull, his top tips for finding the right single guy for you and what it's like flying across the world for a special meet. We cover a huge range of stuff including women being bulls, amazing experiences and the difference between a single guy and a bull. He's very relatabull!

Handy links

Find out more about Ashley Del Toro here - https://twitter.com/AshleyDelToro23

Want to come to our come together takeover event at Vanilla Alternative on 23 April? Message us on Twitter, Fab or email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

It's £70 for couples and £30 for single ladies - and kicks off at 6pm.

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

Want to join us in Palm Springs at PCAP? Head to https://podcast-a-palooza.com/bedhoppers

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh124: MFM surprise!

Sun, 27 Feb 2022 07:32:48 -0400

Thanks for downloading our podcast.

In this episode we talk about a surprise MFM - and what it might mean (along with our forthcoming event) for our ever developing approach to the lifestyle. We announce that tickets for our Vanilla Alternative takeover event are now on sale. And we have a good ole natter about rules and boundaries.

Handy links

Want to come to our come together takeover event at Vanilla Alternative on 23 April? Message us on Twitter, Fab or email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

It's £70 for couples and £30 for single ladies - and kicks off at 6pm.

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

Want to join us in Palm Springs at PCAP? Head to https://podcast-a-palooza.com/bedhoppers

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh123: an orgy in the hopp inn and a peek at hotwifing

Sun, 20 Feb 2022 08:29:26 -0400

Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this bonus episode we talk about night two of our social 2.0. Why's that interesting? Well, there's an orgy with some amazing friends, for one. We spill the beans on some naughtiness. We also take time out to reflect on seeing our good friends Secret Stag and Secret Vixen do their Hotwife thing. We talk about how we felt seeing a very different dynamic.

We also finally announce our plans for an event at the Vanilla Alternative on 23 April. Look out for tickets soon!

Handy links

Find out about Kelly Gordon and Pleasure Rebels here: https://twitter.com/mskelgee

Find out about Room77 here: https://twitter.com/Room77podcast

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

Want to join us in Palm Springs at PCAP? Head to https://podcast-a-palooza.com/bedhoppers

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh122: social 2.0

Sun, 13 Feb 2022 07:04:21 -0400

Thanks for downloading our podcast.

Trigger warning - this one is a little bit of a name dropping humblebrag. We talk about our second social event and how it went. Mrs H names and shames the people who misbehaved, we talk about a couple of surprise guests and we have some audio clips from people who attended. We speak about what went well and how we could improve it for next time.

Oh, and we tease something awesome that's coming on 23 April and a bonus episode for next week.

Handy links

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

Want to join us in Palm Springs at PCAP? Head to https://podcast-a-palooza.com/bedhoppers

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh121: the orgy in Vanilla Alternative

Sun, 30 Jan 2022 06:01:00 -0400

We return to the Vanilla Alternative after a couple of years off (blooming pandemic, eh?). We give our thoughts on the updated club and interview some folks who went along with us, along with some listeners we bumped into.

Then it all gets a little bit hot. We talk about a seven person orgy that we hosted in our room on the night - and a few other things that we got up to in VA. Stay tuned to the very end for a bonus morning after 'interview'. It's a long one (giggity) but hopefully there's a lot to enjoy!

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

Handy links

Find out about our guests on the show:

https://twitter.com/Boooty82

https://twitter.com/starlordandpen

https://twitter.com/sluttypants_

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

Want to join us in Palm Springs at PCAP? Head to https://podcast-a-palooza.com/bedhoppers

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh120: the violent croissant

Sat, 15 Jan 2022 05:26:00 -0400

Thanks for downloading our podcast.

In this episode we announce that our second social has now sold out (thank you everyone) and speak to our incredible friend and special guest Violet (https://twitter.com/WhatVioletDid).

We talk about findom, pay pigs, camming, photography, us (hey, it is OUR show) and lots of other interesting things as we get to know Violet better. It's a fabulous insight into her crazy, crazy world and just why we call her the violent croissant.

Handy links

Find out about our guest at https://twitter.com/WhatVioletDid

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

Want to join us in Palm Springs at PCAP? Head to https://podcast-a-palooza.com/bedhoppers

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh119: getting started with Secret Stag and Secret Vixen

Sun, 02 Jan 2022 06:23:13 -0400

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast!

This time we are joined by our delightful friends Secret Stag and Secret Vixen. We talk about getting started in the swinging and Hotwife lifestyles (since it's a New Year and all that jazz). So, if you've decided to do something exciting for the New Year, this could be just what you're after. We offer some hints and tips and also explore some of our own journeys too.

We announce our second social, forget to talk about our Christmas special (link below) and generally ramble along.

Here's to a great 2022 and thank you for hopping into our bed!

Links and stuff

Find out about our friends on Twitter at @Secret_Stag and @secret_vixen1 and head to https://secretvixen.blog/

Want to come to our social on 4 February in Southampton? Message us on Twitter at @bedhoppersuk or email bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Want to join us in Palm Springs at PCAP? Head to https://podcast-a-palooza.com/bedhoppers

Missed the Christmas Youtube video? Check it out: https://youtu.be/0X1Aju5pAvo

bh118: Visiting Clitbang and an end of year review

Sat, 18 Dec 2021 05:22:00 -0400

Thanks for downloading our show. This time around we take a trip to meet the delightful Clitbang (https://twitter.com/ms_clt) and Essex Sprite. We talk about our naughty night with them and then chat about a nice little social visit with Starlord and Pennylane (https://twitter.com/starlordandpen). We talk about sexy times, missed opportunities and why Mr H has to be involved at all times. We then give a nice overview on our highlights for the year and some thoughts on 2022.

Want to join our patreon? Head to https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk?

Also, since recording, we've confirmed our second social for 4 Feb in Southampton. Want to attend? Message us on Twitter (https://twitter.com/bedhoppersUK) or email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

And, as ever, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh117: Up the Brum and a surprise orgy

Sun, 05 Dec 2021 07:19:20 -0400

Thanks for downloading our show.

This time around we head to Birmingham for the Up the Brum social event - and stay in an AirBNB with the delightful DisNerds and PennyLane and Starlord. We talk about how the social went for us and some of the naughty things that happened later on in the evening.

We also cover some of the challenges of sorting out Social V2 and a bit about how we're feeling about our bodies.

Find our lovely friends at https://twitter.com/Dis_nerds and https://twitter.com/starlordandpen

Look out for https://twitter.com/Thetwoofus2019 and https://twitter.com/sluttypants_

And... don't forget to send us your cute animal pics for our Winter special - we're at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Want to join us in Palm Springs at PCAP? Head to https://podcast-a-palooza.com/bedhoppers

But mostly, thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh116: Single guys, Kinky Dating and Swingers TV with Martyn

Sun, 21 Nov 2021 05:04:00 -0400

Thanks for downloading our podcast!

Martyn from the Swingers TV show makes a welcome return to talk about being a single guy in the lifestyle and give us the behind the scenes info about his appearance on the Kinky Dating TV show. We reflect on our TV time and also our not so recent social.

Martyn offers some top tips for single guys too - handy if you're trying to make an impression in the swinging lifestyle.

Catch Martyn at https://twitter.com/MartynMelgar

Get in touch with us at bedhoppersuk on Twitter - and join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh115: the Thai food conundrum

Sun, 07 Nov 2021 09:34:11 -0400

Thanks for listening to our show!

This one is all about a recent sexy date and how things went a little bit wrong. Just like the song says - we fuck things up and make mistakes! Don't worry though - it all turned out ok in the end. Honest. We cover a few of the things that have gone wrong on other dates too. And we have our final Secret Vixen blog at the end (this time Secret Stag reads his take on things).

Like what you hear? Please leave us a review - or get in touch at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com or tweet us @bedhoppersuk.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh114: TV hopping time

Sun, 24 Oct 2021 07:30:43 -0300

Thanks for checking out our show. After some travel and adventures, we come back home to find that El juego de las llaves (Game of keys) season two is now available on Amazon Prime. We talk about the show and explore some other Swing based TV shows and movies that you might enjoy (and some you probably won't).

We also have another reading of the Secret Vixen blog (https://secretvixen.blog/), which gets a little naughty. Don't forget, the reader is being a little distracted too.

Get in touch with us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com and don't forget to give us a review on iTunes (please). Tweet us at bedhoppersuk.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh113: Mrs H sees all

Sun, 10 Oct 2021 07:20:32 -0300

Thanks for checking out the bed hoppers podcast. This time around we head to the Unseen Lounge social in Nottingham with Secret Vixen.

We talk about some sexy fun, with Mrs H taking a back seat and watching the action. You'll hear her report to Secret Stag - wow, that gets a little hot. And just when you think things are coming to an end, we have a special guest who reads a chapter of her blog (all while Mr H is attempting to distract her).

Find the Secret Vixen blog here: https://secretvixen.blog/

Message us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Join our Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

And finally, if you like the show, please consider leaving us a review on apple podcasts (or on any podcast provider). Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh112: socially acceptable

Sun, 26 Sep 2021 09:41:00 -0300

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast. This time around we talk about our social. That's right - the one we've been banging on about for ages. We host our first ever social event. Was it a success? Did we party too hard the night before? Did we fail to host an orgy? Did we make up for it the next day? What on earth was pizza-gate? And why should you keep your eye on the naughty corner?

We answer all of these questions and more. As ever, there's some fun stuff, some laughs, some love, some life and some learnings. A huge thank you to everyone who came along - and to those who tried - and to those who were there in spirit.

Want to sign up to our Patreon? Head to https://patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

Get in touch at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com or head to Twitter @bedhoppersuk

Thanks for hopping into our social!

bh111: The BBW interview

Sun, 12 Sep 2021 06:14:13 -0300

Thanks for taking a look at our show. This week we interview fabulous guests Kitty Dagger and Emerald Debauchery about all things BBW (that's Big Beautiful Women). We find out about their lifestyle experiences, the ups and and downs and their advice on body confidence and ethical non monogamy.

If you've got thoughts about this episode and would like to get in touch - hit us up on Twitter (@bedhoppersuk) or at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Want to find out more about our lovely guests? Find them on Twitter at @KittyDagger and @EmeraldDebauch1. Find their fellas at @TheBoywho and @limes_blurred.

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh110: the superhero conundrum

Sun, 29 Aug 2021 06:14:49 -0300

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast!

In this episode we talk about our weekend away with Hiscockhertail and Secret Stag and Secret Vixen. We cover some sexy play times but also reflect on introducing friends to friends and jumping back on the saddle. We catch up on Secret Vixen's blog and talk about the bed hopper's social.

Find out about our friends at @HisCockHerTail, @Secret_Stag and @secret_vixen1.

Take part in our song competition by sending your choice to bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh109: a multiverse of topics

Sun, 15 Aug 2021 06:41:51 -0300

Welcome to episode 109!

We take to Twitter to ask for topics and questions and get a great range of things to cover. From what men should wear to a club to challenges with babysitting and more. We tease (quite literally) some recent adventures and also speak about rebuilding trust after breaking some rules. If you sent a question or topic our way - thank you!

If you'd like to comment on the episode or send us your questions, please tweet us @bedhoppersuk or email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com. Want to get involved with our Patreon? Please head to : https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh108: bed hoppers rulez

Sun, 01 Aug 2021 05:01:00 -0300

Thanks for downloading the bed hoppers podcast.

In this episode we talk about rules (yes - we know that's a trigger word for some) and how they've evolved over the last 18 months in particular. We cover three different occasions (with some sexy bits) where it seems that Mrs H has broken our rules/boundaries. Angelic Mr H doesn't gloat at all about this (honest). People of Twitter join in and add their thoughts to rules and boundaries too - so you might just get a mention!

Special thanks to our Patrons - you totally rock! If you'd like to sign up - here's a link: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

Find us on Twitter @bedhoppersuk or email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh107: house party Star Trek style

Sun, 18 Jul 2021 06:24:41 -0300

What an epic story!

This one is all about Clit Bangs' (@ms_clt) Star Trek themed birthday party. Hint - it turns into something of a borgy (borg orgy). We talk about all of the hot stuff, what (and who) went down and about a slight break in our rules. From nerves of playing again through to giant purple hats, this one literally has it all.

Want to find out more about the other party people? They were:

@ms_clt

@VioletBesant

@secret_vixen1

@Secret_Stag

@sluttypants_

Want to sign up to our Patreon? You'll get special editions of episodes, access to our discord chat and more. Here's the link: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh106: pussy galore

Sun, 04 Jul 2021 05:06:23 -0300

Thanks for downloading our show. This time around Mrs H talks to the delightful @secret_vixen1, Vanilla Ice off of @HisCockHerTail and @ms_clt. Massive thanks to those amazing ladies for hopping into our show.

The topic? This one is all about lady parts, vulvas, pussy, flaps, minges and more. Do they like their own? Do they like other peoples? What about labiaplasty? This one covers some serious grounds but also offers some advice on gondolas and pergolas. And it has like 85% less Mr H (you win some, you lose some, right?).

Have some thoughts about this episode? Email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com or message us on Twitter @bedhoppersuk.

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh105: Mr H's sister and chums

Sun, 20 Jun 2021 06:55:35 -0300

Thanks for taking a look at our show. In this happy instalment Mr H's sister (and her two friends) interview us on everything they'd like to know about the swinging lifestyle.

From jealousy to rules to 'please don't spill that on my recording equipment' - this one has it all. Well, maybe not all but it has us answering some fun questions and having a good time.

Special thanks to Chopper (Mr H's sister - making a return to the show), Hot Ness and Almondo.

If you'd like to get in touch with us - you probably already know how by now. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh104: breaking the seal

Sun, 06 Jun 2021 07:21:02 -0300

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast!

In this episode we talk about breaking the seal and getting back into some adventures. There are a couple of stories - one about Mrs H's friend and one about a recent encounter with the amazing Secret Stag and Secret Vixen (off of the Twitters).

There's some moral story, sexy times and 80s cartoons. Sounds like a perfect mix to us!

Find Team Secret at @Secret_Stag and @secret_vixen1 on Twitter.

You can get in touch with us @bedhoppersuk on Twitter or email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh103: A few more swinging sites

Sun, 23 May 2021 09:27:37 -0300

Thanks for downloading our show.

In episode 103 we tackle a few more swinging sites, including swing-pro, virtualswingin, Natterish and Killing Kittens.

We take a look at the user experience, number of users, how they feel and much, much more. If you're a member of these sites, do say hello!

Next time around we'll be talking about lady parts - so if you have thoughts on that, please get in touch at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com or on Twitter at bedhoppersuk.

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh102: Swinging by swinger sites

Sun, 09 May 2021 07:02:23 -0300

Welcome to episode 102 - where we take a look at some of the different swinger dating sites (mostly with a UK focus). We talk functionality, security, look and feel - and much, much more. The sites we cover are...

Do you have a favourite site? Do you use one of the above? What did you think? Get in touch with us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com or on Twitter at bedhoppersuk. Or find us on the sites above!

Thank you for hopping into our bed!

bh101: Room 101 take two

Sun, 25 Apr 2021 11:19:16 -0300

Thanks for downloading the bed hoppers podcast.

Since this is episode 101, Mrs H thought it was a great opportunity to moan about some of the stuff we don't like about the swinging lifestyle. So we chuck some of the things we don't like in the Room 101 bin - and head to Twitter to see what some of listeners would throw away too. Listen now to find out what really grinds our gears.

Have you got something you'd get rid of in the swinging lifestyle? Let us know on Twitter (bedhoppersuk) or send us an email at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

BTW - hope you like the new music. Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh100: Ten measures for ten pleasures

Sun, 11 Apr 2021 09:52:37 -0300

Welcome to episode 100! Thank you very much for downloading our show.

This week we celebrate the 100th episode by taking part in 'ten measures for ten pleasures'. What's that, you might say? Well, we take a shot every four minutes and review 10 sex toys from our toy chest.

If you fancy playing along, get your shots at the ready - this could get messy! Look out for the video version on YouTube - that's right, video!

We hope you enjoy the show - if you have any comments or messages, please check us out on Twitter (we're currently doing 30 days of lingerie) or send us an email at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh99: HUMP! with By the Bi (part two)

Sun, 04 Apr 2021 08:05:35 -0300

Before you start this one - go and listen to Ep253 (called Hump! with the bed hoppers) of the By the Bi podcast. This is part two of that show - where we hang out with the delightful By the Bi (and the Gentleman) and talk about Dan Savage's HUMP! porn festival.

In part one we talk about the festival itself and pick out our favourite clips - and why they struck a chord. In part two (this show) we finish that up and chat about what we'd submit, given the chance.

From sign language and pup play to corn 'fun' on a CGI field - this one covers some interesting bits and bobs!

You can find out about HUMP! here: https://www.humpfilmfest.com/

You can find out about By the Bi here: https://www.bythebi.com.au/

And you can get in touch with us on Twitter @bedhoppersuk or on email at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

bh98: Jealousy, envy and FOMO with HisCockHerTail

Sun, 28 Mar 2021 07:28:12 -0300

Thanks for downloading our show. In this episode we speak to amazing chums LV and Vanilla Ice (HisCockHerTail off of Twitter, Fab, Insta and other places) about jealousy, envy and FOMO in the lifestyle.

The conversation takes a look at a few different angles - from being possessive over other play partners, moments of jealousy we didn't expect and what's the difference between all of these things anyway!

We Suckleback around on a few things too. If you've experienced moments of jealousy, FOMO or envy - get in touch and let us know about them. Write to us on Twitter (bedhoppersuk) or email us (bedhoppersuk@gmail.com).

Get in touch with LV and VI at HisCockHerTail pretty much everywhere.

Like what you heard? Vote for us at the ASN awards or write a review on iTunes.

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh97: OnlyFans talk with the Nerdy Introverts

Sun, 14 Mar 2021 09:30:00 -0300

Thanks for downloading the bed hoppers podcast.

In this episode we talk to OnlyFans content producers the Nerdy Introverts about their two year journey on the platform. We get to know them a little better, find out about their experiences and what polyamory means to them.

Want to check out their content? Head to Twitter to find @IntrovertsNerdy and @HNerdyintrovert. Subscribe to their OnlyFans too - you won't regret it.

Want to get in touch about this episode? Find us on twitter @bedhoppersuk or email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com. Don't forget to vote for your favourite podcasters (or us) at the ASN awards: https://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/vote

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh96: OnlyFans with Soleofanangel and Curious Kitty

Sun, 28 Feb 2021 07:43:21 -0400

Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this episode we explore OnlyFans and interview the delightful duo of Soleofanangel and get to know Curious Kitty too. We quiz them on why they got started, what the experience has been like and what the future holds.

It's a fun little look into the world of OnlyFans and what it means to be a content producer. Find them on Twitter @soleofan and @curiouskitty345. Check them out now!

Also - in the show we mention that we've been nominated for an award on the ASN Lifestyle Magazine Awards show. If you'd like to vote for us (or, indeed anyone else) - here's a link: https://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/vote

Next time around we'll be talking to the Nerdy Introverts about OnlyFans. Check them out in advance of the show - @introvertsnerdy and @hnerdyintrovert

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh95: from fantasy to reality

Sun, 14 Feb 2021 07:13:38 -0400

Thanks for downloading our podcast!

In this charming little number we talk about fantasy. Since many of us are locked down, there's no better time to have that chat with your partner(s).

We cover some listener fantasies and then jump into some of the things we've been thinking about. From tentacles and orgies to trips to the hopp inn - this one has it all. Well, maybe not everything - but it should prove an interesting insight into the minds of Mr and Mrs H.

Got some thoughts about this episode? Send them to us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com or message us @bedhoppersuk on Twitter. If you're feeling generous, leave us a review on iTunes (thanks in advance!).

And lastly, thank you for hopping into our bed.

PS - happy Valentine's day, you sexy mofo!

bh94: talking polyamory with Cooper S Beckett

Sun, 31 Jan 2021 07:10:09 -0400

Thanks for downloading the bed hoppers podcast.

This time around, we chat to Cooper S Beckett (from the Life on the swingset podcast and lots of books) about life, polyamory and much, much more.

We investigate the line between swinging and poly and even get some time to explore Schrodinger's cat and how it could help you. Mrs H might flirt a little too.

Find out more about Cooper here: https://coopersbeckett.com

Something to say about this episode? Let us know on Twitter at bedhoppersuk or email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com. Don't forget to give us a review on iTunes.

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh93: Mrs H loses her mojo

Sun, 17 Jan 2021 06:51:46 -0400

Thanks for downloading our show!

This week we talk about Mrs H losing her mojo and explore some of the things that have had an impact on her drive for sexy times. From menopause to losing a parent through to 2020 (spits on the ground), we take a moment to reflect. It's an honest, open discussion - and we cover some of the things we're doing to change matters.

If you've had a similar experience, get in touch with us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com or on Twitter at bedhoppersuk.

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh92: twenty for 20

Sun, 03 Jan 2021 12:55:59 -0400

Thanks for downloading our show. We hope you had a fabulous holiday, Christmas and New Year and are all set for an amazing 2021!

In this episode we take a positive look back at 2020 - honestly, it wasn't all bad. We aim for being optimist primes, rather than negatrons! We pick ten things we loved about the year, five fun things about us in 2020 and five or six (math!) things we'd like for 2021.

We'd love to hear your top things about last year and what your plans are for this new one. Write to us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com or find us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk.

Don't forget to take part in our competition by watching our YouTube Christmas special - here's a link: https://youtu.be/HtAfbkZYgHo

Thank you for hopping into our bed!

bh91: getting started in Covid times

Sun, 20 Dec 2020 09:27:40 -0400

Thanks for downloading the bed hoppers podcast!

In this episode we catch up on what's been happening at home and talk a little bit about Covid, the media and swinging. We take to the Fabswingers forum to find out what people want to hear about and pull together some top tips for people thinking about entering the lifestyle.

Look out for our Youtube video on Christmas day. If we don't speak before then, have a lovely holiday - and we hope your 2021 is infinitely better than your 2020!

If you'd like to get in touch, reach us at bedhoppersuk on Twitter and on bedhoppersuk@gmail.com. Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh90: putting pen to paper with Swingfessions

Sun, 06 Dec 2020 08:17:21 -0400

Thanks for downloading our podcast. This week we talk to creative comic creators Swingfessions about the launch of their new book, creating lifestyle cartoons and a little bit about them too!

Mrs H takes us all to a dark place with some inventive imagination and we enjoy some laughs along the way.

Find out about Jay and Jane (Swingfessions) at their website - https://swingfessions.blogspot.com and find them on Twitter at swingfessions.

Want to reach us? Find us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk and email us bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

If you've enjoyed this show, please leave us review on iTunes or wherever you've listened. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh89: talkingTownhouse with Vicky

Sun, 22 Nov 2020 07:50:49 -0400

Thanks for downloading our show! In this episode we talk to Vicky from the Townhouse club, near Liverpool.

We cover the history of the club, how they are coping in difficult Covid times and touch on online parties. You can find out about Townhouse at http://www.townhouseswingers.co.uk and help out with their fundraising at https://townhousefundraising.com

We also mentioned Kink! by Alix Fox - a great little audio exploration of kink on audible. Find out more here: https://www.audible.co.uk/pd/Kink-Audiobook/B08L6PNNN2?qid=1606045630&sr=1-1&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_1&pf_rd_p=c6e316b8-14da-418d-8f91-b3cad83c5183&pf_rd_r=VQP4X762JCNTM9WTNPK2

Get in touch with us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk. If you like the show, we'd appreciate a review on iTunes (cheers!). And, finally, thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh88: fun times with Sapphic Swingers

Sun, 08 Nov 2020 08:14:04 -0400

Thanks for downloading our show.

In this episode we switch things up a little and have a fun time with awesome podcasters the Sapphic Swingers. We pull out some random questions to get to know them better. From dragons having sex with cars to songs about putting the dishes away - we cover it all.

You can find them on Twitter @sapphicswingers and here: https://sapphicswingers.blogspot.com

Get in touch with us on Twitter @bedhoppersuk and email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com. Grab a T-shirt here: https://shop.spreadshirt.co.uk/bed-hoppers/

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh87: the third wheel

Sun, 25 Oct 2020 07:26:06 -0300

Thanks for downloading the bed hoppers podcast.

In this episode Mr H talks about some stuff that's been on his mind - covering jealousy, envy and feeling a little left out. We cover the difference between men and lady pics, the messages we've been getting recently and some of the interactions we've had.

We offer an update on our home lives too (RIP Mr Kitty) and go over some of the challenges we've been facing.

If you'd like to purchase a T-shirt, hat or another piece of merchandise, please check out our new store:

https://shop.spreadshirt.co.uk/bed-hoppers/

Enjoyed this episode? Review us on iTunes or get in touch at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh86: DVP, DP and double ended dildos

Sun, 11 Oct 2020 06:31:41 -0300

Welcome to episode 86!

In this episode LV and VI (our sexy friends also known as Hiscockhertail) join us to talk about an amazing day we shared together.

We cover a lot of firsts - double vaginal penetration, double penetration and double ended dildos (there's a double theme, right?). We talk about our nerves, the build up to the day, how we may have had a drink or two - and a whole lot of sexy talk. From scissoring to cock to cock contact - this one has it all!

Want to know more about Hiscockhertail? Check them out on Twitter, Insta and Fabswingers.

Want to get in touch with us? We are bedhoppersuk on Twitter, email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com and bed hoppers on Fabswingers.

Like this episode? We'd love a review on iTunes!

Thank you for hopping into our bed!

bh85: Siobhan from the Swingers show

Sun, 27 Sep 2020 06:30:00 -0300

Did you watch the Swingers TV show? If so, you might remember sixty something lovely lady Siobhan. She joins us on this episode for an interview about her experience on the show, her journey into the swinging lifestyle and a bit about some of her other escapades!

Discover Mrs H's secret crush, if we think the show represented swinger clubs and which other famous folks Siobhan has been hanging around with!

Get in touch with us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com or bedhoppersuk on Twitter. Like what you hear? Give us a review on iTunes (please).

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh84: Martyn from the Swingers show

Sun, 13 Sep 2020 06:30:00 -0300

Welcome to episode 84. This week we interview single guy Martyn from the Channel 4 Swingers show.

We met Martyn whilst filming the show - and it was an absolute pleasure to catch up once more.

We find out what filming was like for him, if there was any fallout from being on TV and if the show was real or staged. Then we quiz him on his top tips for single guys in the swinging lifestyle.

You can find him on Twitter @martynmelgar and on Fabswingers at moreno0969.

Get in touch with us @bedhoppersuk and at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh83: Swingers on TV

Fri, 28 Aug 2020 09:42:38 -0300

Welcome to episode 83. In this one we cover the Swingers TV show that was on Channel 4 in the UK. We were on the show (we're Carolyn and Simon) and talk about how we feel about it.

Was it good? Was it bad? Did they represent the lifestyle well? Did we do alright? What we would we change? What has the feedback been like? We go through all of that stuff and more.

If you've watched the show, we'd love to hear what you thought. Email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com, tweet us at bedhoppersuk, Fab us on bed hoppers and follow us on instagram (you should be able to work that one out).

Thank you to everyone who has supported us and offered constructive feedback over the last week. You've been awesome. And lastly, thank you all for hopping into our bed!

bh82: we talk tv and sharing with more

Sun, 16 Aug 2020 13:11:39 -0300

Welcome to episode 82. This one is a game of two halves.

In the first half we talk about our upcoming TV appearance on the Channel 4 documentary Swingers. In the second, we interview Kiwi and Cherie from the Sharing is Caring podcast. We talk about why they've been a little quiet and why they've reason to celebrate.

You can find out about PCAP here: https://podcast-a-palooza.com

You can find out about the Sharing is Caring podcast here: http://sharingiscaringpodcast.com

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh81: we get FAQ'd!

Sun, 02 Aug 2020 14:59:13 -0300

Welcome to episode 81! In this fun edition our sexy chums Bradford and Angela, from By the Bi, FAQ the hell out of us. They pull out some top interview questions - which will help you get to know us a little better. If you're new to our show but don't want to dig through loads of episodes - this might be a good taster!

From how we met all the way through to our play style - it's all here.

If you like what you hear, don't forget to rate us on iTunes. Want to get in touch? Email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com. Most of all, thank you for hopping into our bed! Bok!

bh80: bed hoppers FAQ off - age and body confidence

Sun, 19 Jul 2020 12:18:10 -0300

Welcome to another FAQ off! special. This time we tackle the topic of body confidence and age in the swinging lifestyle. We bring sexy friends Cate and Darrell from the Swinging Down Under podcast along for the ride. We cover body issues, what we find sexy, how age plays a part in swinging and a whole lot more. This one is packed with thoughts, feelings, opinions and ramblings!

Check out Cate and Darrell's stuff at http://www.swingingdownunder.com and on Youtube too.

Get in touch with us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com and at bedhoppersuk on Twitter. Don't forget to leave a review on iTunes or other good podcast places.

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh79: bed hoppers FAQ off - being bisexual

Sun, 05 Jul 2020 10:21:19 -0300

Welcome to bed hoppers - and our latest FAQ off! This time we tackle bisexuality in the swinging lifestyle.

We bring in sexy guests Kiwi and Cherie from the Sharing is Caring podcast to discuss all things bi. From men playing with men in clubs to not all women being bi - we explore a whole range of topics.

You can find out more about about Sharing is Caring at http://www.sharingiscaringpodcast.com or @KiwiAndCherie on Twitter.

Want to get in touch with us - sling us an email at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Don't forget to ping us a review on iTunes - we'd love to hear from you!

bh78: bed hoppers FAQ off - should I get tested?

Sun, 21 Jun 2020 12:02:34 -0300

Welcome to another bed hoppers FAQ off special!

In this edition we tackle the question 'should I get tested in the lifestyle?' with very special guests Fin and Emma from the Normalizing Non Monogamy podcast.

We talk STIs, risks, testing and terrible cuts on the penis.

Check out Fin and Emma at https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com (they've got loads of handy links and discounts for STI testing too) and take a listen to the episode with Dr Evelin Dacker here: https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/post/ffs1episode3

If you're UK based - here's a handy NHS link: https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/sexual-health/

Find us at double date nation, fab swingers and on twitter (@bedhoppersuk). Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh77: bed hoppers FAQ off - first club visits

Sun, 07 Jun 2020 14:58:40 -0300

Welcome to bed hoppers episode 77. It's one of our FAQ off specials, where we tackle your questions about going to a swingers club or resort for the first time.

We bring on amazing friends Angela and Bradford from By the Bi to talk about what to wear, what to do, what to think about and much, much more. Hopefully it's a handy resource for your first club visit - or, failing that, a fun listen with friends.

Of course, we all need to get through Coronavirus to get to a club - but it's nice to have something to look forward to, right?

Want to find out more about By the Bi - head to their website at http://bythebi.com.au

Get in touch with us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk. Thanks for hopping into our FAQing bed!

bh76: bed hoppers FAQ off - how do I get into kink?

Sun, 24 May 2020 08:00:02 -0300

Thanks for downloading the bed hoppers podcast. In the latest 'FAQ off' we ask: how do I get into kink?

Have you watched 50 Shades of Grey and thought that might be for me? Or thought hmm... I'd like to be spanked? Or would like to tie your partner up (in a fun, sexy way, not a I'm fed up with this lockdown thing)?

If you have - then this might just be the episode for you. We call in sexy kink expert Naughtia Black to help guide us through the world of kink and BDSM. Want to know more about Naughtia? You can find her on Twitter @naughtiablack

Get in touch with us on Twitter @bedhoppersuk, Double Date Nation, Fabswingers and on email bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Thanks for hopping into our kinky bed!

bh75: bed hoppers FAQ off - how do I get into hot-wifing?

Sun, 10 May 2020 06:00:00 -0300

Welcome to bed hoppers - swinging in the UK! In this episode we crack on with our 'bed hoppers FAQ off!' mini-series and tackle the question 'how do I get into hot-wifing?'

Fortunately, we have sexy chums Secret Stag and Secret Vixen along to provide some much needed expertise. If you're thinking about being a hot wife or that it might be something you're interested in - this is the episode for you.

Find out more about Secret Stag and Vixen on Twitter @secret_stag and @secret_vixen1 - and find their blog at www.secretvixen.blog

Want to reach us?

We're on Twitter @bedhoppersuk and on Fabswingers, Double Date Nation (don't forget our code bed hoppers for three free months) and at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh74: bed hoppers FAQ off - how do I come up with a great online profile?

Sun, 03 May 2020 10:02:16 -0300

Thanks for downloading the bed hoppers podcast. This episode kicks of a series of features called 'bed hoppers FAQ off!' where we attempt to answer the most popular questions we get sent with some special guests.

This weeks' question is...

How do I come up with a great online profile?

This one is all about coming up with a great online profile - and covers everything from pictures, profile details, messaging and more.

We invite sexy chums Dave and Andi from Doubledate Nation to talk through their top tips and try to solve one of the top questions we get asked.

Find out more about them at www.doubledatenation.com (use bedhoppers as a promo code to get three free months), follow them on Twitter at @datenation or see them on YouTube by looking for the Celibate Swingers.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh73: the ten or twenty things we couldn't live without

Sun, 26 Apr 2020 13:43:01 -0300

Thanks for downloading the bed hoppers podcast. In this episode we, inspired by too many Youtube videos, list the ten things we couldn't live without. We explain why we didn't publish last week and why our little world has been especially shit.

Not so much swinging or lifestyle stuff in this one - but you will learn a little more about us. We have some much needed fun and laughter and also talk about things we could do without.

Thank you again for all of your love and support. You've helped us get through some incredibly tough times.

Check us out at bedhoppersuk on Twitter and bed hoppers on fabswingers.com

bh72: hanging with the unseen lounge

Sun, 05 Apr 2020 15:38:11 -0300

Thanks for downloading our show. We catch up with Barney and Emma Stone about their journey in the lifestyle, experiences with kink and trips to Desire and Temptations.

We touch on the benefits of swinging, how they've got on running their own event and a whole lot more. You can find out more about their events by heading to https://theunseenlounge.co.uk.

Find us on YouTube (bed hoppers), Twitter (bedhoppersuk) and Fab Swingers (bed hoppers). We're also on insta and on email too - bedhoppersuk@gmail.com.

Stay safe - and keep on hopping!

bh71: state of the isolation nation

Sun, 22 Mar 2020 07:48:50 -0300

As the world gets put on lockdown, we offer up some ideas to help you stay swing and sexy friendly.

We run through our top twenty ideas which we wrote down (twice, no less). There's some common sense, not so common sense and also some truly random things in there.

If you've got some suggestions, please drop us a line at bedhoppersuk on Twitter or bedhoppersuk@gmail.com - your message might just make the next show.

Sadly our forthcoming social has been postponed - but worry not, it'll soon be back and in greater numbers.

Keep on hoppin'!

bh70: two years and seventy episodes in...

Thu, 19 Mar 2020 06:39:18 -0300

Join us for a special episode - it's been two years of the show and 70 eps! Blimey! So this one gets a little bit self indulgent (sorry - 'normal' service will resume shortly). After all the crap going on (ill parents, Mrs H being ill, coronavirus, cancellations left and right etc.) it's finally good to have something nice to celebrate.

None of this would have been possible without you - so thank you very much. You are AMAZING. So go and treat yourself by watching our new youtube clip.

And remember to stay safe out there - and to keep on hopping (where possible and safe to do so).

Much love, Mr and Mrs H

xxx

bh69: Paging Dr Grant

Sun, 08 Mar 2020 07:37:56 -0300

Welcome to episode sixty nine! That's right, 69! And it's also nearly our two year poderversary. Hurrah!

So what's this episode about? Well, we invited Mrs H's good friend Dr Grant over for a good ole chat and debate about swinging and non monogamy.

We cover the latest on our home life (still shit), answer some questions Mrs H has prepared (barely) and take a walk through some of the philosophical things surrounding the lifestyle (much grander sounding than it really was).

Get in touch with us on Twitter (bedhoppersuk), Instagram (bedhoppers) or on email at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com. Thanks for hopping into our bed. OR Just keep hopping (it's a new thing - let us know if it works).

bh68: Unseen lounging around

Sun, 23 Feb 2020 05:00:00 -0400

In this episode we give an update on our Homelife (spoiler - it's all a bit crap right now) and then play some interviews taken at the Nottingham Social (by Unseen Lounge). We've got tips for attending and hosting socials, some insight into the couples we talk to and a whole bunch of shameless flirting. Apologies for both the quality of the recording and for Mr H banging on about anal for the first interview. It's not all gold but there are definitely nuggets in there.

Catch us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk. Thank you for hopping into our bed!

bh67: incredible lifestyle lexicon with Disnerds

Sun, 09 Feb 2020 15:06:24 -0400

Welcome to bed hoppers - swinging in the UK. This edition has some special guests - our delightful friends Mr and Mrs Incredible (also known as Dis_nerds on Twitter). We bunker down in Wales to talk about some of the popular terms in swinging and the lifestyle.

We may not always get the terms right (it is us, after all) but they may come in handy if you're new or don't want your google history tarnished. Either way, we had a lovely time chatting with these sexy folks - so hope you will too.

Find us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk or bed hoppers on fabswingers.com. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh66: swinging in tough times (with Our Naughty Escapades)

Sun, 26 Jan 2020 06:06:26 -0400

In this episode we talk to our lovely friends Our Naughty Escapades about swinging in tough times. We touch on how the lifestyle has supported us, how it offers a level of escapism and just how great swinging friends can be.

This one isn't a 'laugh out loud riot' though and we talk about some pretty emotional things - from death in the family to life changing illness. We chat through how we've coped and how the lifestyle has helped.

To find out more about Our Naughty Escapades, go here: https://ournaughtyescapades.com

To get in touch with us, find us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk, fab swingers (bed hoppers) and on email at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com. Do leave us an iTunes review too - that would be swell of you.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh65: NYE in Abfabs and the missing Mrs H

Sun, 12 Jan 2020 07:08:31 -0400

Thanks for downloading the bed hoppers podcast. This episode is all about our NYE trip to UK club Abfabs. Here's a hint - it doesn't go as planned (when does it?). There's also a short sex toy review - this time we take a look at the womaniser duo (no, it is not anything to do with Britney).

If you like the show, why not drop us a review on iTunes? Or send us an email to bedhoppersuk@gmail.com. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh64: end of 2019 wrap-up

Sun, 29 Dec 2019 06:00:00 -0400

Here we are - at the end of 2019. We look back at the year and recall some of our favourite moments (Mr H has a top five and Mrs H heads to the diary for a full summary). We do it all a little bit under the influence - we're good like that.

It's a little self indulgent but it is the season of goodwill and all. There isn't a funny bit at the end this time - as this was all put together in between hospital visits and more - so apologies all round!

Anywho, thanks for hopping into our bed. We hope you've had a great 2019 and that you have an amazing 2020!

Get in touch on Twitter (bedhoppersuk), fab swingers (bed hoppers), Double Date Nation (bed hoppers) and on email (bedhoppersuk@gmail.com). Want to make our day? Please give us a review on iTunes or any other podcasting provider. Ta!

bh63: Her name was Rio

Wed, 25 Dec 2019 05:00:00 -0400

Bonus episode agogo! In this one we talk about club Rio and our recent trip to London - along with a sexy day off. We also spend some time talking about mental health support.

There's Samaritans, mind, Blurt foundation, timetochange, Shout and some apps including headspace, Calm and Rootd. To google for more info!

Finally we wish all of our listeners a Merry Christmas, happy holidays and all the best.

Catch us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk. Thanks for holiday hopping into our bed.

bh62: House parties, fleshlights and what's in it for Mrs H?

Sun, 15 Dec 2019 06:30:00 -0400

Episode 62 - this one is all about a recent house party. It wasn't the smash we'd hoped for - but it does lead to some interesting conversations. We try and figure out what the lifestyle means for Mrs H (nothing too big then!). We talk about our latest sex toy purchase too (flesh! ohhhhh ohhhh saviour of the universe).

And, as a special bonus, there's an extra at the end - taken from a podcast recording session at Desire. There's Life on the Swingset, By the Bi and us too! Get in touch at Twitter at bedhoppersuk and if you're feeling fancy, leave us a review on iTunes. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh61: A few of our favourite things

Sun, 01 Dec 2019 07:26:26 -0400

Thanks for downloading our show! This episode is all about some of our favourite things - from lube and condoms to toys and clubs. More than anything though, it's another excuse for us to crack out a fun little song.

If you'd like to share your favourite things with us, get in touch at bedhoppersuk on Twitter, bed hoppers on fabswingers.com and double date nation and on email at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com. Don't forget - you can see us at Podcast-A-Palooza in Miami (May 2020).

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh60: Do we desire the Swingset?

Sun, 17 Nov 2019 11:09:04 -0400

Thanks for downloading this episode of bed hoppers. This time we take a trip to Desire (in Mexico) with the Life on the Swingset podcast. Rather than a blow by blow, day by day review we cover our favourite moments, the highlights and the what-went-wrong bits.

If you're looking to find out more about the resort in general (this time we went to Desire RM) listen to Room 77 or check out By the Bi - who did a great comparison episode way back in November/December 2018.

Lots of people to thank - but that's pretty much all in the show. So, start listening now to find out why we're singing meatloaf, why we were covered in paint and what pegging and gang bangs have in common (well, sort of).

Oh - if our voices sound a bit crappy, that's because we both have Desire crud/swinger flu.

Thanks for hopping into our bed. Reach us on Twitter, Fab, email and all the usual places if you have questions, comments or complaints (which may be deleted).

bh59: room 101 or what grinds our gears

Sun, 03 Nov 2019 06:00:00 -0400

It's the much talked about Room 101 episode! Thanks for downloading the bed hoppers podcast, by the way. In this one we (well, mostly Mrs H) have a moan about what grinds our gears in the lifestyle. From bad pics to hairy dicks, we cover a huge range of things that tick us off!

If you sent in a room 101 moment - thank you. If you did and we forgot you, sorry! If you thought of one and didn't send it in but now want to - well that's life, sorry. You can still send it to us at bedhoppersuk on Twitter or find us on fabswingers.com and Double Date Nation.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

PS - apologies to Jason Momoa and anyone else we lovingly offended in this episode...

bh58: taking one for the team

Sun, 20 Oct 2019 04:58:56 -0300

This one is all about taking one for the team. We take time out to pick the phrase apart - is it really a thing, is someone always taking one for the team and have we ever done it?

It's a big rambling discussion that may or may not reach a conclusion. Special props to Barney and Emma Stone - for letting us stay over, being amazing hosts and (more importantly) giving us their wifi password.

Thanks for hopping into our bed! Get in touch at bedhoppersuk on Twitter - or email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

bh57: lady talk with Vanilla Ice

Sun, 06 Oct 2019 06:34:52 -0300

Welcome to episode fifty seven - we're calling this one the lady episode. Vanilla Ice (our chum, not the rapper) joins Mrs H for a chat on all things ladies. From body issues and confidence to use of the 'P' word and asking for what you want.

Want to find Vanilla Ice - check them out on Twitter, Fab and Insta at Hiscockhertail.

Next time round we're talking taking one for the team and creating a room 101 for the lifestyle. Got thoughts? Get in touch at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com or bedhoppersuk on Twitter.

Thanks for hopping into our bed.

PS - they were talking bout American Pie 2 - the window cleaning scene.

bh56: going bi with Sharing is Caring, LV and VI

Mon, 23 Sep 2019 05:00:00 -0300

What a nice surprise! A bonus episode all about bi-visibility, for bi-visibility day (no less). With fantastic guests including the Sharing is Caring show and our good chums LV and Vanilla Ice, we all have a good ole chat about what it means to be bi in the lifestyle.

It might sound like we are in a giant hall but worry not, we're all gathered around the table having a very cosy time. Want to check out the song mentioned? Here's a link:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5e7844P77Is

Catch our friends on Twitter at @Hiscockhertail and @kiwiandcherie. Find us at bedhoppersuk. Thanks for bi-hopping into our bed!

bh55: mentalk with LV

Sun, 22 Sep 2019 06:00:00 -0300

It's raining men! Hallelujah! Well, there's at least two of us on this episode anyway. That's right, Mrs H takes something of a backseat while good friend LV jumps in and talks all things men with Mr H.

We talk about body issues, performance thoughts and social things - along with answering some listener questions and comments. Hope you enjoy the show - episode 57 is all things ladies.

Don't forget to get in touch on fabswingers.com, Double Date Nation and Twitter - look out for bedhoppersuk. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh54: listener questions with tea and coffee

Sun, 08 Sep 2019 08:38:52 -0300

What's this episode all about? Well, there are some listener questions, some updates on what we've been up to and we get all sciencey over tea and coffee.

We talk about pre-match rituals, how close is too close and work out what's worse - a bad kiss or no kiss at all.

If you like this episode or any others, do jump on to iTunes and give us a quick review. Go on, you know you want to! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

Don't forget to follow us on Twitter (bedhoppersuk) or find us on fabswingers.com or doubledatenation! Oh and come see us in Miami too at PCAP!

bh53: Dublin up and down

Sun, 25 Aug 2019 07:13:57 -0300

Welcome to episode fifty three! In this jam packed (but at the same time rambling and sprawling) epic we talk about some adventures to Dublin and how things didn't quite go to plan. Don't panic though, we do sort our shit out. After talk of sexy times with sexy couples, we answer some listener questions about body image and transitioning to lifestyle sites.

There's singing, laughter, issues, resolutions and so much more. We don't even talk about how we were able to catch up with, friend of the show, Barney. Hey Barney - good to see you!

So, if you'd like to meet us, come and see us at PCAP (see twitter for more info) in Miami. Get in touch at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com too. OR check out our insta - though be warned, there are a lot of dog pictures there.

Until then - thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh52: Abfabs and home-life drags

Sun, 11 Aug 2019 06:00:00 -0300

Welcome to episode fifty two. In this fun little number we announce that we're going to Miami in May 2020, give some home-life updates and review Heathrow based club Abfabs.

We talk about how our chums nearly chundermuff the night - and somehow get onto the topic of odd celebrity crushes.

Want to join us for Podcast-a-palooza 2020? Click here now!

Want to get in touch and tell us about your weird crush? Hit us up at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com or tweet us at bedhoppersuk.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh51: the hot wifing interviews

Sun, 28 Jul 2019 06:00:00 -0300

Welcome to ep51. Wanna find out about hot wifing? What about the stag and vixen scenario? If so, you've come to the right place. This delightfully fun episode (if we do say so ourselves) is a double interview with sexy and lovely chums Secret Stag, Secret Vixen and Behind Closed Doors UK.

We chat about their approach to non monogamy - exploring all of the above and more (all while flirting shamelessly). Pets interrupt, things get said, we make bad jokes - you know the deal!

You can find them on Twitter at Secret_vixen1, Secret_stag and UKbehind. Give them a follow - they are pretty hot and funny (or pretty, hot and funny).

Like the show? Why not give us a rating on iTunes? Don't like the show - just complain to friends. Wanna meet us? Look out for updates soon - or follow us on Twitter at bedhopperSUK.

Until then - thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh50: our top 50 learnings and Sharing is Caring

Sun, 14 Jul 2019 05:00:00 -0300

Welcome to episode fifty! Wow. That's quite a lot of episodes. If you've made it this far - well done and thank you! This edition is quite the special one. But, before we tell you what's in it, there's a quick update on our home lives.

Unfortunately Mrs H's father suffered a stroke just after we had recorded this episode. At the time of publishing we're still in and out of hospital and are not sure what the future holds. With this in mind, we haven't spent as much time on this episode as we'd have liked - having edited much of it in waiting rooms and on the hoof. Still - getting it out there has given us a slice of normal - so we felt it important to publish as it.

We want to offer a huge thank you to our lifestyle friends who have been nothing short of incredible with their support and love. You folks are amazing.

As for the content? Well there's our top fifty things we've learned (cut reasonably down to five each), Mrs H reading a naughty story and a lovely little interview with some special guests; Kiwi and Cherie from the Sharing is Caring podcast. Thank you to both for taking the time to visit and for being on the show.

We hope you enjoy it and that it makes you smile as much as it did us when we were working on it. Thanks for hopping into our bed. Mr and Mrs H xxx

bh49: emotional reactions in Oz

Sun, 30 Jun 2019 05:00:00 -0300

Thanks for taking a look at the bed hoppers podcast. Episode forty nine is a little bit reflective. We look back at our Australian adventure (it wasn't all super awesome amazing) and talk about how Mrs H had a bit of an emotional reaction on a couple of occasions. We talk about jealousy, tactile friends, drunken reactions, Mr H running off and starting a new life and much, much, more.

It's a tough discussion but we manage it with a few laughs and smiles too - well, it is us!

Thanks for hopping into our bed. Want more of us? Find us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk and on email at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

bh48: road head on the Oz adventure

Sun, 16 Jun 2019 05:43:59 -0300

Thanks for taking a look (or should that be a listen) at episode 48. It's really part two of our Australian adventures - and features all sorts of delightful moments; from finger blasting to pizza eating.

Mr H continues to gush over our amazing friends, whilst Mrs H resumes the travel blog. Looking back at our earlier adventures we're so pleased to be able to share some good times - and demonstrate that things can go really well (or so we thought - stay tuned for the next episode).

Thank you to everyone who is mentioned in this episode - you're all legends!

And finally, thank you for hopping into our bed - don't forget to check us out at twitter (bedhoppersuk) and to email us on bedhoppersuk@gmail.com.

bh47: the big Swingapore and Oz trip

Sun, 02 Jun 2019 05:43:03 -0300

Welcome to episode forty seven. This one is all about our trip to Swingapore and Oz. It's part one of what we think will be a two parter but don't let that put you off. We chat about our adventures, visiting friends, going to Our Secret Spot in Sydney, sexy times and much, much more. Mrs H shows us her scepticism and utter belief in random things and Mr H struggles through the pain of jet-lag.

Thank you for hopping into our bed. Find us at bedhoppersuk on Twitter and bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Super special thanks to Swinging Down Under, By the Bi, Naughty and Exploring, Lolo Lady, OSS, the Gentleman, the A Slut podcast and anyone else we've clearly forgotten. You made our trip amazing (not a spoiler) and we hope to see you all again!

bh46: back to Vanilla Alternative (with Barney and Emma)

Sun, 26 May 2019 14:41:33 -0300

Well hello there. Thanks for downloading episode forty six of the bed hoppers podcast. We've been in Oz and Singapore for the last few weeks - so are having trouble humaning (so, if this ep is a duffer, sorry). We reach back into our jet lagged heads and talk about Vanilla Alternative, review the club and recall a recent meet. We chat a bit about what to do if you finish before your partner too. There are some hints about our holibobs and mild spoilers about them (sorry). Special shout out to Barney and Emma.

Find out more about the club by heading here: https://www.thevanillaalternative.co.uk

Reach us at fabswingers.com (bed hoppers) and on Twitter at bedhoppersuk. You can email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com too!

bh45: Vanilla Ice and Lord Voldermort

Sun, 05 May 2019 06:00:00 -0300

Welcome to bed hoppers - episode forty five. In this saucy little number we hang out in a hotel (apparently quite nice) with our sexy chums Vanilla Ice and Lord Voldermort. They talk a bit about their journey, how they met us, the dark depths of Reddit and explore a little bit of religion. Look up hiscockhertail to find out more about them. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh44: SDU come and quack like a duck

Sun, 21 Apr 2019 13:07:21 -0300

Welcome to episode 44! In this charming little number (well, actually our longest show ever) we talk about our visit from sexy chums Cate and Darrell from Swinging Down Under.

They meet Yoko, stay with us for a bit and then we all head to London for some magical adventures. We also have a special feature where we talk about the rumours Mrs H has been facing at work. The SDU gang join us via Skype - as we couldn't fit in any podcasting on the trip/were having too much fun.

Anywho - we hope you like it. Don't forget to look up 'quack like a duck' on youtube and to join us in Australia at the meet and greet (www.oursecretspot.com.au). Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh43: our first MFM

Sun, 07 Apr 2019 05:00:00 -0300

Thanks for downloading our show. This episode (forty three) is all about a visit from a special chum and our very first MFM. We talk about what went down (Mrs H) and how we felt. It's all part of our journey in the lifestyle.

We also ask for your views on work colleagues finding out about the lifestyle - so please get in touch at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com or bedhoppersuk on Twitter.

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh42: the SBC house party

Sun, 24 Mar 2019 16:14:40 -0300

Episode 42 - the one where we go to a mansion house party thing and Mrs H doesn't like napping but does like having a drink. Our lovely friends at SBC are the hosts with the most - and we meet a bunch of new people (who are not dickheads). We talk about what's coming up and just how busy things are over the next few weeks.

Get in touch at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com and bedhoppersuk on Twitter. Find us on fab as bed hoppers and send a pigeon to our regular address.

bh41: 12 months of bed hopping times

Tue, 19 Mar 2019 05:00:00 -0300

Well hello there! It's only episode 41 - the one where we've been podcasting for a whole year.

That's right it's our poderversary! With that in mind, we become a little self indulgent and talk about what we've loved over the last 12 months (no, not who we loved), some of the great stories (and worst ones), what's changed and perhaps a little bit about what might be coming up.

There's some nods and winks to people we've met (and if we forgot you, we're really sorry) and some time spent reflecting on the journey so far.

Want to get in touch - email us at bedhopperSUK@gmail.com or tweet on and around us at bedhopperSUK. Find us on fabswingers.com at bed hoppers

bh40: going down Townhouse

Sun, 10 Mar 2019 10:12:51 -0300

It's episode forty! In this rambling adventure we talk about our recent visit to the Townhouse club, near Liverpool. We walk you through the many floors and give thrilling details like how many loos there are. We also have a little bit of a pep talk about putting ourselves out there and not being such snooty snoots.

Get in touch with us on Twitter - bedhoppersuk, email - bedhoppersuk@gmail.com and on FabSwingers.com at bed hoppers. Please rate us on iTunes and send us some Pokemon Go friend requests (go on, you know you want to). Thanks for hopping in and around our bed.

bh39: Purple Mamba number five

Sun, 17 Feb 2019 06:17:48 -0400

Well hello there episode thirty nine, you little minx. What's that you say? This one is all about our club review of purple mamba? It sure is! We took a little trip North just to check out the club - and talk about our experience. No spoilers but we liked it.

We also have a little feature on ghosting (since we got, well, ghosted). Try not to hum the Ghostbusters theme. We didn't.

If you want to find out about the club, you can head to https://www.purplemambaclub.com or tweet them at @PurpleMambaClub

Want to get in touch with us? Send us Owls at the usual address (under the stairs) or tweet us @bedhoppersuk or email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh38: great first meet expectations

Sun, 03 Feb 2019 09:09:43 -0400

It's only episode thirty eight. In this glorious edition we talk about a recent social meet with a new couple, explore what to expect from your first meet up and natter about a special feature that we haven't quite decided on. There's the return of just the tip and some interesting stories about towels too. Tweet us at bedhoppersuk and don't forget to leave us a review on iTunes. Go on. You know you want to! Thanks, also, for hopping into our bed!

bh37: Bristol social and geeky sex toys

Sun, 20 Jan 2019 06:00:00 -0400

In this exciting episode we talk about the Bristol Social (what it was like, what worked, what didn't and so on) and about our road trip and palace suite there. We also review some lovely toys from Geekysextoys.com and announce the winner of our 'how many times did we have sex in 2018' competition.

Don't forget to review us on iTunes, get in touch with us on Twitter (bedhoppersuk) or to send us an email at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh36: we're not loving Angels instead

Sun, 06 Jan 2019 06:59:05 -0400

Welcome to episode thirty six! This time we visit the Angels club in Melksham (that's not too far from Bristol) and talk a little about the date we had on the same night. We have a feature on the cost of the lifestyle - spoiler alert - it can be a bit costly! We talk about some of travel plans for this year too - hint; Mrs H wants to throw another shrimp on the barbie...

There's also a competition to win some of our awesome stickers. All you have to do is tell us how many times we had some sort of sexual encounter in 2018. Send us your guess by 18 January 2018 via email or Twitter (bedhoppersuk@gmail.com or bedhoppersuk). Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh35: Christmas times with Normalizing Non Monogamy

Tue, 25 Dec 2018 06:00:00 -0400

It's our special Christmas edition. Are you alone over the holidays? Well, we hope we (along with our good chums from Normalizing Non Monogamy) can keep you company. We catch up and talk about some of our funny experiences in the lifestyle (so there's some old stuff and some new stuff). Need some support? Email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com, reach Fin and Emma at https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com or find some more resources at www.blurtitout.org www.thecalmzone.net www.mhaustralia.org www.mind.org.uk www.samaritans.org www.samaritans.au www.samaritansusa.org www.verywellmind.com ...Wherever you are and whatever you do, we hope you have a great holiday or, at the very least, we've been able to help! Much love, Mr and Mrs H. PS - Thanks for hopping into our Santa sack!

bh34: last thoughts on Desire and Liberty Elite

Sun, 23 Dec 2018 05:00:00 -0400

Welcome to episode thirty four. The first half is our summary of Desire - was it good value for money, how are our emotional states, and would we go back? The second half is all about a trip to Liberty Elite - a swinging club in the UK. We review the experience as we catch up with friends. Got some comments or feedback - you can catch us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk. Don't forget to leave a review on iTunes too! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh33: last few days of Desire

Sun, 09 Dec 2018 06:10:43 -0400

Welcome to bed hoppers - episode thirty three. In this charming little number we talk about Wednesday to Saturday of our Desire trip. There's some imagination applied to a hot tub situation, sexy photos, a return of the week that was and also some sexy times. Next week will be our Desire summary and a step towards normal service. Don't forget to follow us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh32: the first four days of Desire

Fri, 30 Nov 2018 06:58:21 -0400

A bonus episode you say? About our first four days in Desire? Go on then - welcome to number 32. Following on from our crossover episode last week, we kick off with an update addressing some of things we've been reading about online relating to consent at Desire, we talk about arriving in Desire, how we fuck up a bit and how we also make some great connections. As ever our journey is super bumpy but this time there are some amazingly brill times too. Want to get in touch, hit us up on Twitter at bedhoppersuk. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh31: Desiring By the Bi

Sun, 25 Nov 2018 06:06:23 -0400

We're back, baby! Episode 31! This one is a special cross-over with our good (and sexy, handsome, pretty) chums at By the Bi podcast (Bradford might just be Mr H's brother from another mother). It was recorded half way through our stay at Desire and covers a host of things - from consent to compersion to well, you'll just have to wait and see. We give a run down on how we're feeling, who is stealing the champagne and who gets a pillow fort fall down on them. Don't forget to hook up with us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk or to get our gameoflifestyle discount with the BH10 code. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh30: getting set for Desire

Sun, 04 Nov 2018 06:00:00 -0400

Episode thirty - this one is all about the week before we set sail for Mexico and a good status check on how we're feeling about the Desire trip. It's not been easy but we're pretty much ready to go (at last). Join us as we talk about our costumes, our crappy week in the wind up to Desire and what we're looking forward to. We also talk about our little break - so see you at the end of November! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh29: get us into bed hopper bingo

Sun, 28 Oct 2018 05:57:58 -0300

Welcome to episode twenty nine! In this edition we go back to our journey and talk about two different couples we met following our time in the kink house. One is a long time investment and the other a curious experience. We also have a little fun with a special feature called 'get us in bed hopper bingo'. You can play along too and see if you can predict the tips to get us into bed. Although in hindsight, they aren't really tips - more things we like. Oh well, Mrs H doesn't always follow the rules! Catch us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh28: from gin tours to sex clubs

Sun, 21 Oct 2018 06:17:26 -0300

Thanks for downloading us and getting episode twenty eight in and around your ears. This time we catch you up on our lovely weekend (gin tours, buses, sex clubs, shirtless wonders and sexy friends). We also have a special feature for anyone looking to visit the UK and get their swing on. We talk about moving to a fortnightly show and what bed hoppers might look like post Desire. Join in the conversation at bedhoppersuk on Twitter or email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh27: talking latex and BDSM with a lovely unicorn

Sun, 14 Oct 2018 06:06:57 -0300

It's the bed hoppers, episode twenty seven. In this exciting episode we talk about a recent house party (with doors) and interview a sexy unicorn about her experiences with us two, latex and BDSM. Mr H doesn't get to make a bear joke and is still sore about it even now. So, the usual fun and nonsense! Don't forget to check us out on Twitter at bedhoppersuk. Thanks for hopping into our bed! PS - this episode was uploaded in a pub, fact fans.

bh26: hello to the Average Swingers

Sun, 07 Oct 2018 05:44:04 -0300

Welcome to bed hoppers, episode twenty six. In this episode we have some special guests (well hello there, Average Swingers!), talk about a recent party and explore some of the fun and sexy things that went on. If the audio drops out with our skyping chums, don't worry it's just our technical abilities and not your ears. Hit us up on Twitter at bedhoppersuk. Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh25: sexy party prep

Sun, 30 Sep 2018 09:37:55 -0300

Thanks for downloading bed hoppers, episode twenty five. Well, assuming you have - you could just be reading this while browsing. In which case, go on, give us a shot. In this episode we talk about our sexy party prep, our journey (with a weekend away in an educational house) and also have some tips on rejection. Thanks for hopping into our bed and letting us whisper naughty nothings in your ears. Got a question? Get in touch on Twitter at bedhoppersuk or on email at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com.

bh24: Le Boudoir

Sun, 23 Sep 2018 08:30:00 -0300

Thanks for downloading the bed hoppers podcast. This is episode twenty four - which is all about our recent club visit, Mrs H's potty mouth and a just the tip that's all about online communication. There's a new intro and a little bit of an out-take too. Get in touch at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com or twit us at bedhoppersuk. If you're in the UK - friend us on on FABSwingers.com. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh23: first messages and Mr H nearly quits

Sun, 16 Sep 2018 11:16:37 -0300

Great Scott, Marty! It's only episode twenty three of the bed hoppers podcast. In this edition we talk about our adventures with one couple in particular and how Mr H nearly quit the lifestyle. Trying to work out what to say in your first message to a couple? We've got just the tip for that! And Mrs H hangs her head in shame after using the 'p' word... whatever happens, thanks for hopping into our bed! Find us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk or email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com

bh22: all the wrong words

Sun, 09 Sep 2018 05:58:12 -0300

Welcome to episode twenty two. This week we finally pick up our journey of old and talk about a couple who make texting tough and how the wrong words can certainly send you over the edge. We ketchup on a last minute cancellation and some plan Bs what done good. There's also a just the tip for users of fabswingers.com (and other sites too). Say hello to us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk or on email at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com. Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh21: the second house party

Sun, 02 Sep 2018 06:34:08 -0300

Episode twenty one and we're back, baby! After a two week podcation we're here to give you an update on our second house party, offer some tips about checking in pre-date and also review the atom from British sex toy makers hotoctopuss.com. It's our usual blend of songs, references and madness - oh and Mrs H finally does the chicken impression. Follow us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk or email us at bedhoppersuk@gmail.com. Thanks for hopping into our beds (again!).

bh20: yurty goodness and the kids find out

Sun, 12 Aug 2018 10:57:40 -0300

Episode twenty - here at last. This one really is a game of two halves (think that's a sport reference but can't be sure). First part is all about our recent house party and the fun, sexy and odd times we had (yurt sex?!?). Second bit is all about when the kids found out. It gets a little bit serious. There's also a just the tip where Mrs H needs your help. Find us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk and email us bedhoppersuk@gmail.com. Like what you hear? Give us a review on iTunes - go on, you know you want to! Thanks for hopping into our beds.

bh19: pen pals with By the Bi

Sun, 05 Aug 2018 08:29:18 -0300

Want the score on episode nineteen, eh? Well, this one sees the bed hoppers answer some pen pal questions from our good chums at By the Bi. There's some fun questions, interesting topics and really challenging ones like 'who is your favourite Batman?'. Just the tip returns after having a brief holiday (that's vacation to some listeners across the globe). We hope you enjoy this one as much as we enjoyed making it. Catch us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk. Thanks for hopping into our bed! xx

b18: listener questions part two: the revenge

Sun, 29 Jul 2018 07:00:00 -0300

Welcome to bed hoppers - episode eighteen. This week sees us follow on from our last episode and answer listener questions from Twitter, email and Reddit. If you sent one our way - thank you very much! Watch out - there's some singing, tough topics and the usual bants. Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast on iTunes, Podbean, Stitcher and some other places - and/or follow us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk. Thanks for hopping into our bed, love Mr and Mrs H! xxx

bh17: the listener question show

Sun, 22 Jul 2018 11:54:27 -0300

Thanks for taking a look at bed hoppers - episode seventeen. We're Mr and Mrs H! This week we asked listeners to submit their questions and boy did you folks come through. We didn't get chance to answer them all in this edition - but there will definitely be a part two. We talk about everything from condoms, racial play, what worries us most to the future of swinging in the UK. There's some laughs, honesty and us tackling tricksy questions precious. Got more questions? Head to Twitter at bedhoppersuk (and come back next week too). Thanks for hopping into our moist sli... we mean beds. x

bh16: sexy fun in a hotel

Sun, 15 Jul 2018 09:50:10 -0300

Welcome to episode sixteen. In this edition we talk about our first naughty hotel meet, a spooky encounter and safety in the lifestyle. Mrs H uses the 'p' word (twice) and Mr H throws some amazing impressions out there (well it's me writing this, so I would say that). We hope you have fun listening. Let us know your safety tips by getting in touch on Twitter at bedhoppersuk. Thanks for hopping into our bed (or on our sofa or whatever we decided in the end). xxx

bh15: the week of five meets

Sun, 08 Jul 2018 10:27:48 -0300

Welcome to bed hoppers - episode fifteen. Back to our journey this week - and the week of five meets (we might cheat slightly on that, but it does sound good, right?). We talk about our tips on getting through a dry spell and talk a little bit about playstyle. There maybe a slight doggo based moment too. Hope you enjoy - despite us moaning our way through the weather. See us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk. Thank you for hopping into our (very hot and uncomfotable) bed. xxx

bh14: Vanilla Alternative altercation

Sun, 01 Jul 2018 06:28:04 -0300

This is bed hoppers - episode 14. In this edition we talk about our recent club visit to the Vanilla Alternative, have some difficult conversations (with Mrs H experiencing unexpected uncovered action), share our tips and follow up on our single guy thoughts. We'd love your feedback, thoughts or comments - so join us on Twitter (bedhoppersuk), email (we still can't remember but it's mentioned in the show, honest), Fab Swingers (the UK site) or leave us a review on iTunes. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh13: dressing up for torture garden

Sun, 24 Jun 2018 11:42:16 -0300

Episode thirteen of bed hoppers - you're welcome. In this lucky (or unlucky) chat we talk about our journey (including a visit to torture garden, with man-makeup), have some top tips about messages and being brave and have a bonus topic on thinking about single guys. We hope you like it - do drop us a line on twitter at bedhoppersuk. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh12: full swap download and Mrs H hates

Sun, 17 Jun 2018 10:27:16 -0300

Welcome to bed hoppers - episode twelve. Last week we spoke about our first full swap - this time around we talk about how it made us feel and how we coped. We discover that Mrs H likes neither pussy, dick or a long stay in pound town. Mr H tries not to talk over her so much, with varying degrees of success. If it sounds like we might still be eating and drinking it might be becasue we were nomming down some choccies and some lovely wine. Enjoy - and thanks for hopping into our beds!

bh11: chatting with a single guy

Sun, 10 Jun 2018 06:55:22 -0300

Welcome to bed hoppers episode 11. We're back after a two week break! Lots has happened (or not as the case may be) since our last episode. In this one we talk about our first full swap, there's an interview with a single guy that's part of a 'friends with benefits couple' (not the words Mr H uses), managing that 'oh' feeling and more. This one is a long one but Mrs H has said that before! Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh10: misters' sister

Sun, 20 May 2018 12:56:42 -0300

Welcome to bed hoppers - episode ten. In this amusing edition we see the return of our first couple (and a swift exit after some sexy dance moves), an interview with Mr H's sister (keep it in the family) and Mr H takes a visit to the clinic. We'll now be taking a couple weeks off - but will be back real soon, promise. In the meantime, find us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk. Thanks for hopping into our bed! x

bh9: return of special brew

Sun, 13 May 2018 15:04:18 -0300

Welcome to bed hoppers episode nine! In this sexy edition we talk about our journey (and the return of our worst meet evs), a bit about what's good about the lifestyle, just the tip and more. There's singing, jokes, laughter, a little sexiness and maybe, just maybe, some useful information. Get in touch with us on twitter at bedhoppersuk - go on, you know you want to! Thanks for hopping into our bed and all that...

bh8: chundermuff

Sun, 06 May 2018 19:46:54 -0300

bed hoppers - episode eight. Following a night out at a lifestyle club, Mr H has a confession to make. We also cover more of our journey (our first couples hook up) and talk a little about body issues and confidence. Of course we offer some top tips too - with our just the tips segment. Don't forget, you can find us on Twitter at bedhoppersuk. This episode also has some naughty language - sorry! Thanks for hopping into our bed.

bh7: special brew

Sun, 29 Apr 2018 10:07:03 -0300

bed hoppers episode seven! BOOM! Here it is. Once more it's an update from our journey in the swinging lifestyle - this time our worst meet. The one that nearly put us off. We talk a bit about where we went wrong (pretty much everywhere), communication, a toy review and our just the tip section. Despite still recovering from some bloomin' awful colds, we dive right in to some juicy topics (we know, we know - we're heroes). Don't forget - if you want to get in touch you can find us on twitter at bedhoppersuk - don't be shy, you lovely sexy people!

bh6: thunder-chat ho!

Sun, 22 Apr 2018 17:45:25 -0300

Welcome to bed hoppers - episode six. In this sexy edition we interview a couple new to the lifestyle (while it thunders, pours down and the dog goes crazy), we talk about limits, offer some swinger tips (we said tips - get your mind out of the gutter, please) and have a swinger SOS where Mrs H needs your help. From made up apps to kakaws - we hope you enjoy it. Follow us and get in touch on twitter at bedhoppersuk. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh5: the first club visit

Sat, 14 Apr 2018 18:32:14 -0300

Welcome to bed hoppers, episode five. This is our journey into the swinging lifestyle. In this episode we talk about jealousy (a first for Mrs H), our first visit to a swing club, a toy review and an update on Mr H's beard. This one is a little raw, honest, open and just a little bit fexy (funny + sexy). Find us on twitter at bedhoppersuk! PS - this one has some swear words - sorry!

bh4: jealousy and our journey

Sun, 08 Apr 2018 16:00:05 -0300

bed hoppers episode four? Who'd have thought it? In this edition Mr and Mrs H are feeling a little rough after a sexy night out (and not following thier own tips). We talk about our journey, jealousy, a toy review (well sort of) and our just the tip section. Listen in for our lifestyle podcast and for these two whittering on. We're on twitter at bedhoppersuk. Thanks for hopping into our bed!

bh3: first swaps and beard loss

Sun, 01 Apr 2018 11:35:40 -0300

Welcome to bed hoppers, episode three - all about our adventures in the lifestyle. In this thrilling edition we talk about the tragic loss of Mr H's beard, finger-blasting, soft and full swap and more about our journey. Hope you like it - find us on twitter at bedhoppersuk. Mr and Mrs H xxx

bh2: lingo and our journey

Sun, 25 Mar 2018 11:01:01 -0300

Welcome to bed hoppers episode two. We're in our early forties (one of us earlier than the other) having fun and adventures in the swinging lifestyle. In this edition we cover more of our journey and talk about some of the lingo that new people might encounter. Mrs H tries to talk about her favourite topic but has to save it for another episode. We're on twitter now too (how frightfully modern) - look us up at bedhoppersUK!

bh1: let's start at the beginning

Mon, 19 Mar 2018 18:17:07 -0300

We are Mr and Mrs H. We're a married couple in their 40s (only just, mind) and having fun and adventures in the swinging lifestyle. We've had plenty of ups, some downs and even more ups and downs. We're relatively new but we'd like to share our experiences, what we've learned and have a good ole natter about what we've been up to.

Each week, we talk about our journey, our top tips and tackle a question or two.