Reclaiming Destiny https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com Reclaiming Destiny is a show for all those that know they are destined for more! Hosted by author, entrepreneur, life coach, and motivational speaker, Cici Stephen, each episode will dive deeper into the issues and topics that can impact most of our daily lives and have a lingering effect on our purpose. Come join us on the path to reclaiming our destiny, as we begin to challenge the people, places, and things that dare to stand in our way.

]]> Tue, 19 May 2026 23:57:12 -0400 https://podbean.com/?v=5.5 en Copyright 2024 All rights reserved. Society & Culture 1440 episodic Power Angel Media Power Angel Media No false https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/feed.xml https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/18924394/Untitled_design_72_89lt4.png Reclaiming Destiny https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com 144 144 Acceptance vs. Allowance Acceptance vs. Allowance https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/acceptance-vs-allowance/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/acceptance-vs-allowance/#comments Tue, 19 May 2026 23:57:12 -0400 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/cb3052dd-60bf-3bde-9b35-21d51c3319ab In this episode, host Cici explores the important difference between acceptance and allowance, and why understanding that distinction can transform the way we relate to ourselves and others. Acceptance asks us to acknowledge reality honestly, while allowance can look like tolerating behaviors, patterns, or situations that cross our boundaries and compromise our well-being. Through this conversation, listeners are invited to reflect on where they may be confusing peace with passivity and compassion with over-tolerance.

Key Topics
  • The difference between accepting reality and allowing harmful patterns to continue
  • How boundaries help protect peace, self-respect, and emotional well-being
  • Why compassion does not require self-abandonment
  • Recognizing when tolerance has become unhealthy

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]]> In this episode, host Cici explores the important difference between acceptance and allowance, and why understanding that distinction can transform the way we relate to ourselves and others. Acceptance asks us to acknowledge reality honestly, while allowance can look like tolerating behaviors, patterns, or situations that cross our boundaries and compromise our well-being. Through this conversation, listeners are invited to reflect on where they may be confusing peace with passivity and compassion with over-tolerance.

Key Topics
  • The difference between accepting reality and allowing harmful patterns to continue
  • How boundaries help protect peace, self-respect, and emotional well-being
  • Why compassion does not require self-abandonment
  • Recognizing when tolerance has become unhealthy

Shop our exclusive podcast merch:

https://shopcicisbooksmerch.creator-spring.com/ 

 

Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

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]]> Power Angel Media false No 407 2 32 full Sex, Choices, and Consequences Sex, Choices, and Consequences https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/sex-choices-and-consequences/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/sex-choices-and-consequences/#comments Sun, 17 May 2026 01:43:35 -0400 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/c0b38fc9-8d63-3fda-9aaf-af5aa70cc901 In this episode, Cici explores how intimate relationship choices can affect us physically, emotionally, and spiritually. The conversation encourages listeners to make wiser, healthier decisions about closeness and connection, especially when those choices involve the wrong person. This episode reminds us that intimacy is not casual for everyone, it can carry deep personal meaning and lasting consequences.

 

Quote read in the beginning of the episode:

The Power Of the Relationship Cord

 

Podcasts Referenced In This Episode: 

https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/dating-dealbreakers/ 

https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/setting-healthy-boundaries/ 

 

Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

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]]> In this episode, Cici explores how intimate relationship choices can affect us physically, emotionally, and spiritually. The conversation encourages listeners to make wiser, healthier decisions about closeness and connection, especially when those choices involve the wrong person. This episode reminds us that intimacy is not casual for everyone, it can carry deep personal meaning and lasting consequences.

 

Quote read in the beginning of the episode:

The Power Of the Relationship Cord

 

Podcasts Referenced In This Episode: 

https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/dating-dealbreakers/ 

https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/setting-healthy-boundaries/ 

 

Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

 

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]]> Power Angel Media true No 811 1 31 full Introduction to Sex, Choices, and Consequences Introduction to Sex, Choices, and Consequences https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/introduction-to-sex-choices-and-consequences/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/introduction-to-sex-choices-and-consequences/#comments Tue, 12 May 2026 23:41:39 -0400 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/1d601b46-e6fd-31f4-aee3-3dbc5ded856a Cici introduces "Sex, Choices, and Consequences" episode and provides a brief trigger warning before episodes airs. 

]]> Cici introduces "Sex, Choices, and Consequences" episode and provides a brief trigger warning before episodes airs. 

]]> Power Angel Media false No 76 2 30 bonus Pick Me Syndrome Pick Me Syndrome https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/pick-me-syndrome/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/pick-me-syndrome/#comments Tue, 05 May 2026 23:59:25 -0400 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/9aa1027c-2f69-3f5f-b6d6-fa53a52d5a74 In this episode, host Cici dives deep into the complexities of “Pick Me Syndrome”—a pattern where individuals seek validation and acceptance, sometimes at the expense of their own well-being. Cici speaks directly to those who recognize this behavior in themselves, offering heartfelt reassurance that you are worthy, you are enough, and you do not need to rely on others’ approval to feel valued.

Throughout the conversation, Cici unpacks what “Pick Me” behavior looks like, explores its roots, and provides practical strategies for cultivating authentic self-worth. The episode shines a light on recognizing these patterns and offers actionable tools to help listeners move toward greater self-acceptance and healthier relationships, while also encouraging listeners to seek support and guidance in breaking free from the cycle of seeking external validation.

 If you’ve ever felt overlooked, undervalued, or stuck in a loop of needing affirmation, this episode is for you—filled with honesty, compassion, and empowering advice to help you step into your own value.

Listen now as Cici guides you through letting go of external approval and embracing your authentic self. Remember, you deserve respect, love, and acceptance—just as you are.

 

Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

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Connect With Us

Website: www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com   Email: feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com  Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/reclamingdestiny.bsky.social  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reclaimingdestiny 

]]> In this episode, host Cici dives deep into the complexities of “Pick Me Syndrome”—a pattern where individuals seek validation and acceptance, sometimes at the expense of their own well-being. Cici speaks directly to those who recognize this behavior in themselves, offering heartfelt reassurance that you are worthy, you are enough, and you do not need to rely on others’ approval to feel valued.

Throughout the conversation, Cici unpacks what “Pick Me” behavior looks like, explores its roots, and provides practical strategies for cultivating authentic self-worth. The episode shines a light on recognizing these patterns and offers actionable tools to help listeners move toward greater self-acceptance and healthier relationships, while also encouraging listeners to seek support and guidance in breaking free from the cycle of seeking external validation.

 If you’ve ever felt overlooked, undervalued, or stuck in a loop of needing affirmation, this episode is for you—filled with honesty, compassion, and empowering advice to help you step into your own value.

Listen now as Cici guides you through letting go of external approval and embracing your authentic self. Remember, you deserve respect, love, and acceptance—just as you are.

 

Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

 

Connect With Us

Website: www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com  
Email: feedback@reclaimingdestinypodcast.com 
Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/reclamingdestiny.bsky.social 
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@reclaimingdestiny 

]]> Power Angel Media false No 581 2 29 full Learning to Let Go Learning to Let Go https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/learning-to-let-go/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/learning-to-let-go/#comments Thu, 30 Apr 2026 16:04:48 -0400 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/bbca729d-f89e-3918-96ec-79c6fd42df73 In this episode, host Cici explores the process of letting go of relationships that no longer serve our highest good. We discuss how to release connections with compassion, free from guilt and shame, and emphasize the importance of having a safe plan for leaving. The conversation focuses on recognizing when a relationship is holding you back and finding the courage to move forward with clarity and self-kindness.

Key Topics
  • Understanding the art and challenge of letting go
  • Knowing when a relationship has served its purpose
  • Letting go without guilt or shame
  • Practicing compassion—for yourself and others—during transitions
  • Creating a safe and thoughtful exit plan
Cici’s Top Four Signs It’s Time to Leave
  1. The relationship turns abusive.
  2. The negatives outweigh the positives.
  3. There is uneasiness in your body.
  4. You’re at peace—when you imagine moving on, you feel a sense of relief and calm.

National Domestic Violence Hotline 

800-799-7233 or text BEGIN to 88788

Podcasts Referenced In This Episode: 

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/oprah-explores-the-rising-trend-of-going-no-contact/id1782960381?i=1000738306637 

https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-truth-about-soulmates/ 

https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/leaving-abusive-relationships/ 

 

Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

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]]> In this episode, host Cici explores the process of letting go of relationships that no longer serve our highest good. We discuss how to release connections with compassion, free from guilt and shame, and emphasize the importance of having a safe plan for leaving. The conversation focuses on recognizing when a relationship is holding you back and finding the courage to move forward with clarity and self-kindness.

Key Topics
  • Understanding the art and challenge of letting go
  • Knowing when a relationship has served its purpose
  • Letting go without guilt or shame
  • Practicing compassion—for yourself and others—during transitions
  • Creating a safe and thoughtful exit plan
Cici’s Top Four Signs It’s Time to Leave
  1. The relationship turns abusive.
  2. The negatives outweigh the positives.
  3. There is uneasiness in your body.
  4. You’re at peace—when you imagine moving on, you feel a sense of relief and calm.

National Domestic Violence Hotline 

800-799-7233 or text BEGIN to 88788

Podcasts Referenced In This Episode: 

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/oprah-explores-the-rising-trend-of-going-no-contact/id1782960381?i=1000738306637 

https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-truth-about-soulmates/ 

https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/leaving-abusive-relationships/ 

 

Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

 

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]]> Power Angel Media false No 1375 1 28 full Learning to Let Go Introduction Learning to Let Go Introduction https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/learning-to-let-go-introduction/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/learning-to-let-go-introduction/#comments Tue, 28 Apr 2026 23:18:24 -0400 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/cddd3f3c-588a-3faa-b903-225a01c4f268 Cici introduces "Learning to Let Go" episode and provides a brief trigger warning before episodes airs. 

]]> Cici introduces "Learning to Let Go" episode and provides a brief trigger warning before episodes airs. 

]]> Power Angel Media false No 73 2 27 bonus Attracting...or Chasing? Attracting...or Chasing? https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/attractingor-chasing/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/attractingor-chasing/#comments Tue, 21 Apr 2026 22:06:01 -0400 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/0f0b1428-889c-3f90-b2a9-2f5135aa3c43 "And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength;’ this is the first commandment." (Mark 12:30 KJV)

 

In this episode, we explore a fundamental question for anyone seeking meaningful relationships: Are you attracting love, or are you chasing after it? Join us as we break down the crucial differences between inviting genuine connection into your life and tirelessly pursuing it.

  • Being in the Flow: Discover why it’s essential to be in harmony with the universe and allow your desires to come to you, rather than forcing outcomes.
  • Energetic Match: Learn how becoming an energetic match to what you want creates space for authentic love and abundance to enter your life.
  • The Price of Chasing: We discuss how chasing after love or other desires can sometimes lead to disappointment or result in getting what you want—but at a cost that leaves you feeling unfulfilled.

Resources Mentioned:

MS Now: Rising Level of Dating App Burnout Strikes 78 Percent of Users

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YBJVkFCmJaA 

Oprah Talks to Salma Hayek

https://www.oprah.com/omagazine/oprah-interviews-actress-and-producer-salma-hayek_1 

 

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]]> "And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength;’ this is the first commandment." (Mark 12:30 KJV)

 

In this episode, we explore a fundamental question for anyone seeking meaningful relationships: Are you attracting love, or are you chasing after it? Join us as we break down the crucial differences between inviting genuine connection into your life and tirelessly pursuing it.

  • Being in the Flow: Discover why it’s essential to be in harmony with the universe and allow your desires to come to you, rather than forcing outcomes.
  • Energetic Match: Learn how becoming an energetic match to what you want creates space for authentic love and abundance to enter your life.
  • The Price of Chasing: We discuss how chasing after love or other desires can sometimes lead to disappointment or result in getting what you want—but at a cost that leaves you feeling unfulfilled.

Resources Mentioned:

MS Now: Rising Level of Dating App Burnout Strikes 78 Percent of Users

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YBJVkFCmJaA 

Oprah Talks to Salma Hayek

https://www.oprah.com/omagazine/oprah-interviews-actress-and-producer-salma-hayek_1 

 

Shop our exclusive podcast merch:

https://shopcicisbooksmerch.creator-spring.com/ 

 

Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

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]]> Power Angel Media false No 702 2 26 full Are You Attracting Individuals that Are Anti-Love? Are You Attracting Individuals that Are Anti-Love? https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/are-you-attracting-individuals-that-are-anti-love/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/are-you-attracting-individuals-that-are-anti-love/#comments Tue, 14 Apr 2026 22:27:15 -0400 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/51df0428-b147-33c4-9052-6c5feafbe98e
  • Episode Summary: Explore why you might find yourself repeatedly connecting with people who resist love, vulnerability, or emotional openness. Discover how to identify “anti-love” patterns and what steps you can take to create healthier relationships.
  • Key Topics Discussed:
  • Recognizing the signs of emotional resistance in friends and partners
  • Understanding why some people struggle with affection and intimacy
  • The impact of past experiences and beliefs on relationship choices
  • Practical strategies to break unhealthy cycles and attract more loving connections
  • How to nurture vulnerability and openness within yourself
  • Takeaways:
  • Self-awareness is the first step toward change
  • Healthy boundaries and communication can transform your relationships
  • It’s possible to shift your patterns and invite love into your life
  • Listener Challenge: Reflect on your recent relationships or friendships. Are there patterns of emotional distance or resistance? What can you do differently to foster more genuine connection?

    • Shop our exclusive podcast merch:

    https://shopcicisbooksmerch.creator-spring.com/ 

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

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    ]]>
  • Episode Summary: Explore why you might find yourself repeatedly connecting with people who resist love, vulnerability, or emotional openness. Discover how to identify “anti-love” patterns and what steps you can take to create healthier relationships.
  • Key Topics Discussed:
  • Recognizing the signs of emotional resistance in friends and partners
  • Understanding why some people struggle with affection and intimacy
  • The impact of past experiences and beliefs on relationship choices
  • Practical strategies to break unhealthy cycles and attract more loving connections
  • How to nurture vulnerability and openness within yourself
  • Takeaways:
  • Self-awareness is the first step toward change
  • Healthy boundaries and communication can transform your relationships
  • It’s possible to shift your patterns and invite love into your life
  • Listener Challenge: Reflect on your recent relationships or friendships. Are there patterns of emotional distance or resistance? What can you do differently to foster more genuine connection?

    • Shop our exclusive podcast merch:

    https://shopcicisbooksmerch.creator-spring.com/ 

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

    Connect With Us

     

    ]]>     Power Angel Media false No 1532 2 25 full     Building a Closer Relationship with The Divine Building a Closer Relationship with The Divine https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/building-a-closer-relationship-with-the-divine/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/building-a-closer-relationship-with-the-divine/#comments Tue, 07 Apr 2026 23:48:14 -0400 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/28785560-d80d-3101-a1f0-50a58a493ccd
  • Episode Overview: Discover the transformative journey of deepening your spiritual connection. This episode explores various ways to build a closer relationship with God and experience the Divine in everyday life.
  • Key Topics:
  • The importance of faith, stillness, breathwork, and prayer as pathways to spiritual growth
  • How nurturing your spiritual life can bring peace, guidance, and fulfillment
  • Practical steps for strengthening your relationship with the Divine
  • Personal stories and insights on connecting with spirituality
  • Reflecting on purpose and the meaning of experiencing the Divine daily
  • Takeaways:
  • Simple practices to invite spirituality into your routine
  • How to find peace and guidance through spiritual connection
  • Encouragement to reflect on what the Divine means for you

    •  

    Check out my free guide: Building A Closer Relationship With The Divine

     

    Conversations with God, by Neale Donald Walsch 

    https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-complete-conversations-with-god-neale-donald-walsch/1139137296?ean=9780399153297 

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

    Connect With Us

    ]]>
  • Episode Overview: Discover the transformative journey of deepening your spiritual connection. This episode explores various ways to build a closer relationship with God and experience the Divine in everyday life.
  • Key Topics:
  • The importance of faith, stillness, breathwork, and prayer as pathways to spiritual growth
  • How nurturing your spiritual life can bring peace, guidance, and fulfillment
  • Practical steps for strengthening your relationship with the Divine
  • Personal stories and insights on connecting with spirituality
  • Reflecting on purpose and the meaning of experiencing the Divine daily
  • Takeaways:
  • Simple practices to invite spirituality into your routine
  • How to find peace and guidance through spiritual connection
  • Encouragement to reflect on what the Divine means for you

    •  

    Check out my free guide: Building A Closer Relationship With The Divine

     

    Conversations with God, by Neale Donald Walsch 

    https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-complete-conversations-with-god-neale-donald-walsch/1139137296?ean=9780399153297 

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

    Connect With Us

    ]]>     Power Angel Media false No 1133 2 24 full     Dating Dealbreakers Dating Dealbreakers https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/dating-dealbreakers/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/dating-dealbreakers/#comments Tue, 31 Mar 2026 22:53:20 -0400 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/55c2250d-a418-3cfc-836a-15dd8971c4d3 In this episode, we explore the world of "dating dealbreakers” those red flags and non-negotiables that can determine if a relationship sinks or swims. Our discussion covers everything from conflicting values and incompatible lifestyles to habits that just don't mesh. Along the way, we share candid stories from real experiences, expert advice on identifying dealbreakers, and tips for approaching these conversations with honesty and respect.

    • What are dating dealbreakers, and why do they matter?
    • Common dealbreakers: values, lifestyle, communication, and more
    • Personal stories from listeners and hosts
    • Expert insights on how to recognize and address dealbreakers
    • Strategies for building healthier, more fulfilling relationships

    Tune in to hear why recognizing your own dealbreakers—and respecting those of others—can help you find a better match and avoid unnecessary heartbreak. 

     

    Social Media breeding unrealistic dating culture?- The Cindy Noir/Instagram 

    https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWNXv5mDRXi/?igsh=MXQ0dW1tbTFvdjU2Mw==

     

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

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    ]]>     In this episode, we explore the world of "dating dealbreakers” those red flags and non-negotiables that can determine if a relationship sinks or swims. Our discussion covers everything from conflicting values and incompatible lifestyles to habits that just don't mesh. Along the way, we share candid stories from real experiences, expert advice on identifying dealbreakers, and tips for approaching these conversations with honesty and respect.

    • What are dating dealbreakers, and why do they matter?
    • Common dealbreakers: values, lifestyle, communication, and more
    • Personal stories from listeners and hosts
    • Expert insights on how to recognize and address dealbreakers
    • Strategies for building healthier, more fulfilling relationships

    Tune in to hear why recognizing your own dealbreakers—and respecting those of others—can help you find a better match and avoid unnecessary heartbreak. 

     

    Social Media breeding unrealistic dating culture?- The Cindy Noir/Instagram 

    https://www.instagram.com/reel/DWNXv5mDRXi/?igsh=MXQ0dW1tbTFvdjU2Mw==

     

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

    Connect With Us

    ]]>     Power Angel Media false No 901 2 23 full     Loving in the Dark: The High Cost of Secret Relationships Loving in the Dark: The High Cost of Secret Relationships https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/loving-in-the-dark-the-high-cost-of-secret-relationships/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/loving-in-the-dark-the-high-cost-of-secret-relationships/#comments Tue, 24 Mar 2026 21:01:34 -0400 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/dcb80146-aeb0-3e35-a24f-229535bb8afe There is nothing concealed that will not be disclosed, or hidden that will not be made known.  What you have said in the dark will be heard in the daylight, and what you have whispered in the ear in the inner rooms will be proclaimed from the roofs. - (Luke 12:2-3)

     

    Today's episode dives into the reality of "loving in the dark," exploring secret (DL) relationships, why people hide, the emotional toll of secrecy, and how those dynamics affect trust and personal growth. Drawing on personal stories and practical insight, Cici urges listeners to seek openness, self-worth, and healthier expressions of love.

     

    Lyrics to Love In The Dark: By Adele

    https://genius.com/Adele-love-in-the-dark-lyrics 

     

    Resources Mentioned

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-of-love/202603/why-do-single-women-prefer-affairs-with-married-men 

    https://www.bbc.com/bbcthree/article/689c930b-f8c6-4bfe-afab-bc0488125f55

    https://relationship2021.medium.com/what-single-men-get-when-they-date-married-women-59ec91eb0bbd

     

     

    Podcasts Referenced In This Episode

     

     

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-truth-about-soulmates/ 

     

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

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    ]]>     There is nothing concealed that will not be disclosed, or hidden that will not be made known.  What you have said in the dark will be heard in the daylight, and what you have whispered in the ear in the inner rooms will be proclaimed from the roofs. - (Luke 12:2-3)

     

    Today's episode dives into the reality of "loving in the dark," exploring secret (DL) relationships, why people hide, the emotional toll of secrecy, and how those dynamics affect trust and personal growth. Drawing on personal stories and practical insight, Cici urges listeners to seek openness, self-worth, and healthier expressions of love.

     

    Lyrics to Love In The Dark: By Adele

    https://genius.com/Adele-love-in-the-dark-lyrics 

     

    Resources Mentioned

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-the-name-of-love/202603/why-do-single-women-prefer-affairs-with-married-men 

    https://www.bbc.com/bbcthree/article/689c930b-f8c6-4bfe-afab-bc0488125f55

    https://relationship2021.medium.com/what-single-men-get-when-they-date-married-women-59ec91eb0bbd

     

     

    Podcasts Referenced In This Episode

     

     

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-truth-about-soulmates/ 

     

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

    Connect With Us

    ]]>     Power Angel Media false No 1205 2 22 full     Cultivating Healthy Relationships Cultivating Healthy Relationships https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/cultivating-healthy-relationships/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/cultivating-healthy-relationships/#comments Tue, 17 Mar 2026 23:55:22 -0400 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/dceb9849-bd98-33f0-8e7c-19756ab38575 In this episode, we delve into the essential elements of building and maintaining healthy relationships, whether with family, friends, romantic partners, or colleagues. Our discussion highlights the importance of focusing on ourselves as the foundation for strong connections. We explore how healing from past experiences, setting and respecting boundaries, taking accountability for our actions, practicing honesty, and setting reasonable expectations all play a crucial role in nurturing relationships that are supportive and fulfilling.

    • Self-Focus as the Starting Point: Learn why prioritizing your own growth and well-being positively impacts every relationship in your life.
    • Healing: Discover strategies for acknowledging and addressing past wounds to prevent them from negatively influencing your current connections.
    • Boundaries: Understand how to set healthy limits, communicate them clearly, and respect those of others to create safe and balanced interactions.
    • Accountability: Find out why taking responsibility for your actions and reactions is essential for trust and mutual respect.
    • Honesty: Uncover the power of open and sincere communication in deepening bonds and resolving conflicts.
    • Reasonable Expectations: Learn how to set and communicate realistic expectations to foster understanding and reduce disappointment.

    Tune in for practical tips and heartfelt insights that will empower you to cultivate relationships that bring joy, support, and growth to your life.

    Resources Mentioned

     

    Podcasts Referenced In This Episode

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/setting-healthy-boundaries/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/toxic-friendships/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-truth-about-soulmates/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/surviving-traumatic-childhoods/ 

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

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    ]]>     In this episode, we delve into the essential elements of building and maintaining healthy relationships, whether with family, friends, romantic partners, or colleagues. Our discussion highlights the importance of focusing on ourselves as the foundation for strong connections. We explore how healing from past experiences, setting and respecting boundaries, taking accountability for our actions, practicing honesty, and setting reasonable expectations all play a crucial role in nurturing relationships that are supportive and fulfilling.

    • Self-Focus as the Starting Point: Learn why prioritizing your own growth and well-being positively impacts every relationship in your life.
    • Healing: Discover strategies for acknowledging and addressing past wounds to prevent them from negatively influencing your current connections.
    • Boundaries: Understand how to set healthy limits, communicate them clearly, and respect those of others to create safe and balanced interactions.
    • Accountability: Find out why taking responsibility for your actions and reactions is essential for trust and mutual respect.
    • Honesty: Uncover the power of open and sincere communication in deepening bonds and resolving conflicts.
    • Reasonable Expectations: Learn how to set and communicate realistic expectations to foster understanding and reduce disappointment.

    Tune in for practical tips and heartfelt insights that will empower you to cultivate relationships that bring joy, support, and growth to your life.

    Resources Mentioned

     

    Podcasts Referenced In This Episode

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/setting-healthy-boundaries/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/toxic-friendships/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-truth-about-soulmates/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/surviving-traumatic-childhoods/ 

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

    Connect With Us

     

    ]]>     Power Angel Media false No 980 2 21 full     Setting Healthy Boundaries Setting Healthy Boundaries https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/setting-healthy-boundaries/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/setting-healthy-boundaries/#comments Tue, 10 Mar 2026 23:52:07 -0400 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/bc6fcadd-a2a0-3588-af25-086edbe0f971 Welcome to today’s episode, where we dive deep into the topic of setting healthy boundaries, one of the most essential yet misunderstood self-care skills. If you’ve ever struggled to say “no” or felt overwhelmed trying to protect your time and energy, this episode is for you.

    Episode Highlights
    • Understanding Boundaries vs. Rules: We recap a thought-provoking episode of Checking In with Michelle Williams, featuring Dr. Raquel Martin. Dr. Martin explains the crucial differences between “rules”—which often feel rigid and controlling—and “boundaries,” which are about personal clarity and self-respect. She shares how boundaries can foster genuine connections without leading to resentment or burnout.
    • Common Misconceptions: We discuss why the word “boundary” can bring up feelings of guilt or fear of conflict, and how reframing boundaries as tools for connection (not separation) can empower us in all our relationships.
    • 5 Ways to Set Healthy Boundaries: Drawing from PositivePsychology.com, we also break down five practical steps anyone can do to set clear boundaries.
    Takeaways
    • Boundaries aren’t about shutting others out, they’re about showing up authentically and protecting what matters most to you.
    • Learning the difference between rules and boundaries can transform your relationships with others and yourself.
    • Implementing clear, healthy boundaries is a form of self-care that allows you to be more present, kind, and fulfilled.
    Resources Mentioned
    • Checking In with Michelle Williams featuring Dr. Raquel Martin
    • PositivePsychology.com: How to Set Healthy Boundaries

    Tune in now to learn how you can start setting boundaries that honor your needs, nurture your relationships, and support your well-being!

    Podcasts Referenced In This Episode

    https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/where-healing-meets-liberation/id1539709262?i=1000746047648 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/leaving-abusive-relationships/  

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/radiating-self-love/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/toxic-friendships/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/what-are-karmic-relationships/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/in-sickness-and-in-health/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/loving-ourselves-through-adversity/ 

    Additional Resources 

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/boundaries 

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

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    ]]>     Welcome to today’s episode, where we dive deep into the topic of setting healthy boundaries, one of the most essential yet misunderstood self-care skills. If you’ve ever struggled to say “no” or felt overwhelmed trying to protect your time and energy, this episode is for you.

    Episode Highlights
    • Understanding Boundaries vs. Rules: We recap a thought-provoking episode of Checking In with Michelle Williams, featuring Dr. Raquel Martin. Dr. Martin explains the crucial differences between “rules”—which often feel rigid and controlling—and “boundaries,” which are about personal clarity and self-respect. She shares how boundaries can foster genuine connections without leading to resentment or burnout.
    • Common Misconceptions: We discuss why the word “boundary” can bring up feelings of guilt or fear of conflict, and how reframing boundaries as tools for connection (not separation) can empower us in all our relationships.
    • 5 Ways to Set Healthy Boundaries: Drawing from PositivePsychology.com, we also break down five practical steps anyone can do to set clear boundaries.
    Takeaways
    • Boundaries aren’t about shutting others out, they’re about showing up authentically and protecting what matters most to you.
    • Learning the difference between rules and boundaries can transform your relationships with others and yourself.
    • Implementing clear, healthy boundaries is a form of self-care that allows you to be more present, kind, and fulfilled.
    Resources Mentioned
    • Checking In with Michelle Williams featuring Dr. Raquel Martin
    • PositivePsychology.com: How to Set Healthy Boundaries

    Tune in now to learn how you can start setting boundaries that honor your needs, nurture your relationships, and support your well-being!

    Podcasts Referenced In This Episode

    https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/where-healing-meets-liberation/id1539709262?i=1000746047648 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/leaving-abusive-relationships/  

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/radiating-self-love/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/toxic-friendships/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/what-are-karmic-relationships/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/in-sickness-and-in-health/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/loving-ourselves-through-adversity/ 

    Additional Resources 

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/boundaries 

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

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    ]]>     Power Angel Media true No 1073 2 20 full     Leaving Abusive Relationships Leaving Abusive Relationships https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/leaving-abusive-relationships/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/leaving-abusive-relationships/#comments Sun, 08 Mar 2026 01:12:38 -0500 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/7d525501-7b4e-369d-bbfa-559c4b03353d Content warning: This episode includes discussion of emotional, verbal, psychological, and physical abuse, coercive control, trauma responses, and family estrangement.

    Important note: This episode is educational and not a substitute for professional medical, mental health, or legal advice. If you are in immediate danger, call local emergency services. If it’s safe to do so, consider contacting a local domestic violence hotline/shelter for confidential safety planning.

     

    In this episode, we talk about what it can look like to leave abusive relationships —moments, cycles, or patterns that keep repeating in a relationship—and how to create safer distance when a relationship shows abusive or toxic tendencies. We focus on practical tools (planning, documentation, boundaries, support networks, and nervous-system regulation) while acknowledging that leaving can be complex, non-linear, and different for every person. We also discuss The Oprah Podcast episode “Oprah Explores the Rising Trend of Going No Contact with Your Family,” and we break down the five trauma responses: Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn, and Flop.

    Cici also discusses the concept of “spiritually vetting” our most important relationships.

     

    National Domestic Violence Hotline 

    800-799-7233 or text BEGIN to 88788

     

    Resources/Articles Referenced In This Episode:

    https://www.thehotline.org/ 

    https://www.apa.org/topics/stress/body 

    https://www.virtualpsychiatriccare.com/understanding-the-five-fs-of-trauma-fight-flight-freeze-fawn-and-flop 

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abuse 

     

    Podcasts Referenced In This Episode: 

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/oprah-explores-the-rising-trend-of-going-no-contact/id1782960381?i=1000738306637 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-truth-about-soulmates/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/toxic-friendships/ 

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

    Connect With Us

     

     

    ]]>     Content warning: This episode includes discussion of emotional, verbal, psychological, and physical abuse, coercive control, trauma responses, and family estrangement.

    Important note: This episode is educational and not a substitute for professional medical, mental health, or legal advice. If you are in immediate danger, call local emergency services. If it’s safe to do so, consider contacting a local domestic violence hotline/shelter for confidential safety planning.

     

    In this episode, we talk about what it can look like to leave abusive relationships —moments, cycles, or patterns that keep repeating in a relationship—and how to create safer distance when a relationship shows abusive or toxic tendencies. We focus on practical tools (planning, documentation, boundaries, support networks, and nervous-system regulation) while acknowledging that leaving can be complex, non-linear, and different for every person. We also discuss The Oprah Podcast episode “Oprah Explores the Rising Trend of Going No Contact with Your Family,” and we break down the five trauma responses: Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn, and Flop.

    Cici also discusses the concept of “spiritually vetting” our most important relationships.

     

    National Domestic Violence Hotline 

    800-799-7233 or text BEGIN to 88788

     

    Resources/Articles Referenced In This Episode:

    https://www.thehotline.org/ 

    https://www.apa.org/topics/stress/body 

    https://www.virtualpsychiatriccare.com/understanding-the-five-fs-of-trauma-fight-flight-freeze-fawn-and-flop 

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abuse 

     

    Podcasts Referenced In This Episode: 

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/oprah-explores-the-rising-trend-of-going-no-contact/id1782960381?i=1000738306637 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-truth-about-soulmates/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/toxic-friendships/ 

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly: Shining Your Light In Challenging Times

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

    Connect With Us

     

     

    ]]>     Power Angel Media false No 1862 2 19 full     Leaving Abusive Relationships Introduction Leaving Abusive Relationships Introduction https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/leaving-abusive-relationships-introduction/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/leaving-abusive-relationships-introduction/#comments Tue, 03 Mar 2026 22:58:35 -0500 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/7a3a80c2-cdb8-3475-a76d-d83185c7c76c Cici introduces "Leaving Abusive Relationships" episode and provides a brief trigger warning before episodes airs. 

    ]]>     Cici introduces "Leaving Abusive Relationships" episode and provides a brief trigger warning before episodes airs. 

    ]]>     Power Angel Media false No 104 2 18 bonus     Radiating Self-Love Radiating Self-Love https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/radiating-self-love/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/radiating-self-love/#comments Tue, 24 Feb 2026 22:49:24 -0500 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/cbb7466b-e0c1-3ec1-91c5-c7503f1a024b "Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit... Therefore honor God with your bodies." - (1 Corinthians 6:19-20)

     

    Welcome to this week’s episode, where we dive deep into the powerful practice of radiating self-love. Join us as we explore what it truly means to love yourself from the inside out, and how cultivating self-acceptance can positively impact every area of your life.

    Resources/Articles Referenced In This Episode:

    https://www.verywellmind.com/self-care-strategies-overall-stress-reduction-3144729 

     

    Podcasts Referenced In This Episode: 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/loving-ourselves-through-adversity/ 

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

    Connect With Us

     

     

    ]]>     "Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit... Therefore honor God with your bodies." - (1 Corinthians 6:19-20)

     

    Welcome to this week’s episode, where we dive deep into the powerful practice of radiating self-love. Join us as we explore what it truly means to love yourself from the inside out, and how cultivating self-acceptance can positively impact every area of your life.

    Resources/Articles Referenced In This Episode:

    https://www.verywellmind.com/self-care-strategies-overall-stress-reduction-3144729 

     

    Podcasts Referenced In This Episode: 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/loving-ourselves-through-adversity/ 

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

    Connect With Us

     

     

    ]]>     Power Angel Media false No 1127 2 17 full     Toxic Friendships Toxic Friendships https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/toxic-friendships/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/toxic-friendships/#comments Tue, 17 Feb 2026 20:31:09 -0500 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/f3a84de4-c448-3eb5-8b08-2918f6738f4e "Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy" (Proverbs 27:6) ESV

     

    "Real friendship isn't about fun. It's about depth. It's about the people who stay when life isn't easy to show up for. That kind of friendship is rare." - Robert Dial Jr.

     

    In this episode, we dive deep into the topic of toxic friendships, what they are, how to recognize them, and why breaking free can be so challenging. Our host shares candid personal stories about past toxic friendships, offering insight into the emotional impact and the lessons learned along the way. We discuss common behaviors that signal toxicity, the importance of setting boundaries, and practical strategies for moving forward.

     

    Podcasts Referenced In this Episode:

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-mentor/id1033048640 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/surviving-traumatic-childhoods/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/loving-ourselves-through-adversity/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/in-sickness-and-in-health/ 

     

    Resources:

    https://www.verywellmind.com/signs-of-a-toxic-friend-8430982 

    https://lifehopeandtruth.com/relationships/friendship/toxic-friendships/ 

    https://www.businessinsider.com/ended-ghosted-toxic-friendships-feel-happier-2025-2 

     

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

    Connect With Us

     

     

     

     

    ]]>     "Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy" (Proverbs 27:6) ESV

     

    "Real friendship isn't about fun. It's about depth. It's about the people who stay when life isn't easy to show up for. That kind of friendship is rare." - Robert Dial Jr.

     

    In this episode, we dive deep into the topic of toxic friendships, what they are, how to recognize them, and why breaking free can be so challenging. Our host shares candid personal stories about past toxic friendships, offering insight into the emotional impact and the lessons learned along the way. We discuss common behaviors that signal toxicity, the importance of setting boundaries, and practical strategies for moving forward.

     

    Podcasts Referenced In this Episode:

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-mindset-mentor/id1033048640 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/surviving-traumatic-childhoods/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/loving-ourselves-through-adversity/ 

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/in-sickness-and-in-health/ 

     

    Resources:

    https://www.verywellmind.com/signs-of-a-toxic-friend-8430982 

    https://lifehopeandtruth.com/relationships/friendship/toxic-friendships/ 

    https://www.businessinsider.com/ended-ghosted-toxic-friendships-feel-happier-2025-2 

     

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

    Connect With Us

     

     

     

     

    ]]>     Power Angel Media false No 1580 2 16 full     What Are Karmic Relationships? What Are Karmic Relationships? https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/what-are-karmic-relationships/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/what-are-karmic-relationships/#comments Thu, 12 Feb 2026 23:47:07 -0500 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/a094dede-5a08-3d66-8960-2bce27e90ac5
  • Karmic and counterfeit relationships are connections that may feel intense or fated, but often leave us feeling unsettled or diverted from our authentic path.
  • These relationships are typically marked by recurring patterns, emotional highs and lows, and lessons that push us to grow through challenges.
  • They can enter our lives to test our boundaries, highlight unresolved issues, or reveal what we truly want out of our connections.
  • Recognizing the signs of a karmic or counterfeit relationship can help us realign with our purpose and choose relationships that nurture our growth.
  • This episode explores how to identify these connections, the role they play in our personal journey, and tips for moving forward with greater self-awareness.

    •  

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

    Connect With Us

    ]]>
  • Karmic and counterfeit relationships are connections that may feel intense or fated, but often leave us feeling unsettled or diverted from our authentic path.
  • These relationships are typically marked by recurring patterns, emotional highs and lows, and lessons that push us to grow through challenges.
  • They can enter our lives to test our boundaries, highlight unresolved issues, or reveal what we truly want out of our connections.
  • Recognizing the signs of a karmic or counterfeit relationship can help us realign with our purpose and choose relationships that nurture our growth.
  • This episode explores how to identify these connections, the role they play in our personal journey, and tips for moving forward with greater self-awareness.

    •  

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

    Connect With Us

    ]]>     Power Angel Media false No 891 2 15 full     The Truth About Soulmates The Truth About Soulmates https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-truth-about-soulmates/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-truth-about-soulmates/#comments Thu, 12 Feb 2026 22:13:33 -0500 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/1d97cc49-3f95-35e6-988c-546190954ed5 In this episode, we dive deep into the real meaning of soulmates and explore why the concept is so much more than just finding a romantic partner. Join us as we challenge some of the common myths about soulmates and open new perspectives on connection, friendship, and personal growth.

     

    Key Takeaways
    • Soulmates aren’t limited to romance—they can be anyone who profoundly impacts your journey.
    • Deep connections often teach us important life lessons, whether they last forever or not.
    • Being open to different types of soulmate relationships can enrich your life in unexpected ways.

    Check out my free guide on The Four Types of Soulmates:

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

    Connect With Us

    ]]>     In this episode, we dive deep into the real meaning of soulmates and explore why the concept is so much more than just finding a romantic partner. Join us as we challenge some of the common myths about soulmates and open new perspectives on connection, friendship, and personal growth.

     

    Key Takeaways
    • Soulmates aren’t limited to romance—they can be anyone who profoundly impacts your journey.
    • Deep connections often teach us important life lessons, whether they last forever or not.
    • Being open to different types of soulmate relationships can enrich your life in unexpected ways.

    Check out my free guide on The Four Types of Soulmates:

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

    Connect With Us

    ]]>     Power Angel Media false No 892 2 14 full     In Sickness and In Health In Sickness and In Health https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/in-sickness-and-in-health/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/in-sickness-and-in-health/#comments Thu, 12 Feb 2026 21:00:00 -0500 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/04cfc50c-ffb5-3fa8-b51d-5a6465928e38 In this episode of "In Sickness and In Health," we dive deep into the ways health challenges impact marriages and long-term partnerships. Join us as we discuss the promises, the pressures, and the profound moments couples face when illness enters the relationship.

    We’ll explore how couples navigate the vows of "in sickness and in health," sharing real stories and expert insights.

    Notably, a 2015 study from Iowa State University found that 32% of marriages in their sample ended in divorce, highlighting the real challenges couples may face when health issues arise.

    Whether you’re in a relationship, supporting someone who is, or just curious about the impact of health on love and commitment, this episode offers valuable perspectives and practical tips.

    Tune in for an honest conversation about love, resilience, and the realities couples face when health is on the line.

    Podcasts Referenced In This Episode:

    Resources – Iyanla R spot episode:  https://www.iheart.com/podcast/1119-the-r-spot-with-iyanla-99762091/episode/grief-shows-you-how-people-love-114821146

    Shannon Doherty Let’s Be Clear episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lets-be-clear-this-is-only-the-beginning/id1718531401?i=1000637642219

    Reclaiming Destiny episode:

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/loving-ourselves-through-adversity/id1757034675?i=1000749526702 

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

    Connect With Us

     

    ]]>     In this episode of "In Sickness and In Health," we dive deep into the ways health challenges impact marriages and long-term partnerships. Join us as we discuss the promises, the pressures, and the profound moments couples face when illness enters the relationship.

    We’ll explore how couples navigate the vows of "in sickness and in health," sharing real stories and expert insights.

    Notably, a 2015 study from Iowa State University found that 32% of marriages in their sample ended in divorce, highlighting the real challenges couples may face when health issues arise.

    Whether you’re in a relationship, supporting someone who is, or just curious about the impact of health on love and commitment, this episode offers valuable perspectives and practical tips.

    Tune in for an honest conversation about love, resilience, and the realities couples face when health is on the line.

    Podcasts Referenced In This Episode:

    Resources – Iyanla R spot episode:  https://www.iheart.com/podcast/1119-the-r-spot-with-iyanla-99762091/episode/grief-shows-you-how-people-love-114821146

    Shannon Doherty Let’s Be Clear episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lets-be-clear-this-is-only-the-beginning/id1718531401?i=1000637642219

    Reclaiming Destiny episode:

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/loving-ourselves-through-adversity/id1757034675?i=1000749526702 

     

    Download or read my new free eBook- Firefly

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

     

    Connect With Us

     

    ]]>     Power Angel Media false No 1361 2 13 full     Loving Ourselves Through Adversity Loving Ourselves Through Adversity https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/loving-ourselves-through-adversity/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/loving-ourselves-through-adversity/#comments Thu, 12 Feb 2026 19:59:03 -0500 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/2731a512-1fc1-31a1-b91f-42a11e4d6573 "For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light". - (Ephesians 5:8 (NIV))

     

    In this episode, we dive deep into the topic of self-love and resilience, exploring how we can nurture ourselves even when life gets tough. Through honest conversation and personal stories, we discuss practical ways to embrace compassion for ourselves, especially during adversity.

    One highlight of this episode is the introduction of my new eBook, Firefly: Shining Your Light in Challenging Times. I share insights from the book, including tips and exercises designed to help you rediscover your inner light when facing difficulties. Whether you’re struggling or simply seeking encouragement, this episode offers thoughtful guidance and inspiration.

     

    Podcasts referenced in this episode:

    Reclaiming Destiny:

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-2024-election-results-what-happens-now/id1757034675?i=1000677929068 

    Episodes you should listen to after this episode: 

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/happiness-starts-now/id1757034675?i=1000675070019 

     

    To download or read my new eBook click the link below:

    https://linktr.ee/cicistephen 

    Connect With Us

     

     

    ]]>     "For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light". - (Ephesians 5:8 (NIV))

     

    In this episode, we dive deep into the topic of self-love and resilience, exploring how we can nurture ourselves even when life gets tough. Through honest conversation and personal stories, we discuss practical ways to embrace compassion for ourselves, especially during adversity.

    One highlight of this episode is the introduction of my new eBook, Firefly: Shining Your Light in Challenging Times. I share insights from the book, including tips and exercises designed to help you rediscover your inner light when facing difficulties. Whether you’re struggling or simply seeking encouragement, this episode offers thoughtful guidance and inspiration.

     

    Podcasts referenced in this episode:

    Reclaiming Destiny:

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-2024-election-results-what-happens-now/id1757034675?i=1000677929068 

    Episodes you should listen to after this episode: 

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/happiness-starts-now/id1757034675?i=1000675070019 

     

    To download or read my new eBook click the link below:

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    ]]>     Power Angel Media false No 889 2 12 full     Season 2 Trailer Season 2 Trailer https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/season-2-trailer/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/season-2-trailer/#comments Tue, 03 Feb 2026 06:01:00 -0500 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/ffee9105-e2bf-33b0-b354-fdf2035bc1c9 Welcome to a new season of Reclaiming Destiny! This year, we're diving deep into the heart of what it means to love, heal, and grow-both in our relationships and within ourselves. In this trailer, get a sneak peek at the transformative conversations coming your way.

    • Attracting or…Chasing? – Explore whether you’re seeking love or if love is seeking you.
    • Learning to Let Go – Find out how to move on and discover the freedom that comes with release.
    • Pick Me Syndrome – Unpack what it means to crave validation and how to step into self-love, even when it feels like you’re in the dark.
    • Acceptance vs. Allowance – Understand the difference between truly accepting others and merely tolerating behavior.
    • Are You Ready for Love? – Ask yourself the ultimate question about your readiness for a new chapter.
    • How to Love Ourselves Through Adversity – Learn practical ways to nurture self-love, especially during tough times.

    This season is about more than just love-it’s about personal growth, healing, and thriving in every kind of relationship: romantic, platonic, and everything in between. But most importantly, it’s about you...reclaiming your destiny and writing your next chapter.

    Subscribe now and join us for a season full of hope, transformation, and new beginnings. Your heart’s waiting. Are you ready?

    Listen to Reclaiming Destiny on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, or anywhere you get your podcasts.

    ]]>     Welcome to a new season of Reclaiming Destiny! This year, we're diving deep into the heart of what it means to love, heal, and grow-both in our relationships and within ourselves. In this trailer, get a sneak peek at the transformative conversations coming your way.

    • Attracting or…Chasing? – Explore whether you’re seeking love or if love is seeking you.
    • Learning to Let Go – Find out how to move on and discover the freedom that comes with release.
    • Pick Me Syndrome – Unpack what it means to crave validation and how to step into self-love, even when it feels like you’re in the dark.
    • Acceptance vs. Allowance – Understand the difference between truly accepting others and merely tolerating behavior.
    • Are You Ready for Love? – Ask yourself the ultimate question about your readiness for a new chapter.
    • How to Love Ourselves Through Adversity – Learn practical ways to nurture self-love, especially during tough times.

    This season is about more than just love-it’s about personal growth, healing, and thriving in every kind of relationship: romantic, platonic, and everything in between. But most importantly, it’s about you...reclaiming your destiny and writing your next chapter.

    Subscribe now and join us for a season full of hope, transformation, and new beginnings. Your heart’s waiting. Are you ready?

    Listen to Reclaiming Destiny on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, or anywhere you get your podcasts.

    ]]>     Power Angel Media false No 181 2 trailer     The Best of Season One The Best of Season One https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-best-of-season-one/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/the-best-of-season-one/#comments Tue, 23 Dec 2025 18:00:00 -0500 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/9d1ea41e-b064-3e28-9857-72cdeb51584b Welcome to a special edition of Reclaiming Destiny! In this episode, we're celebrating our journey so far by counting down Cici's favorite episodes from Season One. Whether you’re a longtime listener or just tuning in, this is a perfect way to revisit some of the most impactful conversations and moments from the season.

    Each of these episodes reflects the heart of our show: real stories, transformative moments, and the courage to reclaim destiny.

    We are grateful for all of our guests and listeners who made Season One so special.

    A huge thank you to everyone who tuned in, shared feedback, and supported the podcast this season. Your voices and stories inspire every episode.

    Stay tuned for Season Two of Reclaiming Destiny! We have new guests, deeper conversations, and more journeys to share.

    Follow us on  https://bsky.app/profile/reclamingdestiny.bsky.social and subscribe to never miss an episode.

     

    1. #4: [Surviving Traumatic Childhoods]
    2. #3: [Cooking with Purpose w/ Joy Rothberg]
    3. #2: [Reciprocal vs. Transactional Relationships]
    4. #1: [Happiness Starts Now]

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/ 

     

     

    ]]>     Welcome to a special edition of Reclaiming Destiny! In this episode, we're celebrating our journey so far by counting down Cici's favorite episodes from Season One. Whether you’re a longtime listener or just tuning in, this is a perfect way to revisit some of the most impactful conversations and moments from the season.

    Each of these episodes reflects the heart of our show: real stories, transformative moments, and the courage to reclaim destiny.

    We are grateful for all of our guests and listeners who made Season One so special.

    A huge thank you to everyone who tuned in, shared feedback, and supported the podcast this season. Your voices and stories inspire every episode.

    Stay tuned for Season Two of Reclaiming Destiny! We have new guests, deeper conversations, and more journeys to share.

    Follow us on  https://bsky.app/profile/reclamingdestiny.bsky.social and subscribe to never miss an episode.

     

    1. #4: [Surviving Traumatic Childhoods]
    2. #3: [Cooking with Purpose w/ Joy Rothberg]
    3. #2: [Reciprocal vs. Transactional Relationships]
    4. #1: [Happiness Starts Now]

    https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/ 

     

     

    ]]>     Power Angel Media false No 883 10 bonus     Surviving Traumatic Childhoods Surviving Traumatic Childhoods https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/surviving-traumatic-childhoods/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/surviving-traumatic-childhoods/#comments Tue, 17 Dec 2024 18:59:18 -0500 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/26177aee-b3b7-3c11-b75f-361a4901e5ca On the season finale, Cici will be introducing part one of the Breaking Generational Patterns series...where we will be discussing the statistics from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention that states 61% of adults have experienced at least one example of what they call “ACEs" or Adverse Childhood Experiences. Cici will also be sharing some personal stories, as well as some tips and tools to help those that may be coping on how to deal with traumatic childhoods and much more.

     

    Podcasts referenced in this episode:

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/overcoming-the-fear-of-rejection/id1757034675?i=1000678348901

     

    "We must begin to get into the mindset of healing the things that were sent to destroy us." -Cici 

    ]]>     On the season finale, Cici will be introducing part one of the Breaking Generational Patterns series...where we will be discussing the statistics from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention that states 61% of adults have experienced at least one example of what they call “ACEs" or Adverse Childhood Experiences. Cici will also be sharing some personal stories, as well as some tips and tools to help those that may be coping on how to deal with traumatic childhoods and much more.

     

    Podcasts referenced in this episode:

    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/overcoming-the-fear-of-rejection/id1757034675?i=1000678348901

     

    "We must begin to get into the mindset of healing the things that were sent to destroy us." -Cici 

    ]]>     Power Angel Media false No 1596 1 9 full     Reciprocal vs. Transactional Relationships Reciprocal vs. Transactional Relationships https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/reciprocal-vs-transactional-relationships/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/reciprocal-vs-transactional-relationships/#comments Tue, 10 Dec 2024 19:19:48 -0500 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/0fc32a56-11ea-397c-a158-6c681a2a7c7c On today's episode, we will be discussing how to examine our closest relationships and decipher between those that are safe and those that may take from us...without giving back equally in return.

     

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    ]]>     On today's episode, we will be discussing how to examine our closest relationships and decipher between those that are safe and those that may take from us...without giving back equally in return.

     

    https://people.com/music/david-archuleta-crowd-members-left-christmas-show-after-queer-identity-speech/ 

     

     

    ]]>     Power Angel Media false No 797 1 8 full     Overcoming The Fear Of Rejection Overcoming The Fear Of Rejection https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/overcoming-rejection-embrace-your-destiny/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/overcoming-rejection-embrace-your-destiny/#comments Tue, 26 Nov 2024 20:16:05 -0500 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/25dafc6c-1ac5-39aa-a7ff-a09628c8932a Welcome to another empowering episode of Reclaiming Destiny with your host Cici Stephen. In this episode, we dive deep into understanding the impact of social rejection on our lives and how it correlates to physical pain. Discover how fear of rejection can hinder us from living the life we are meant to lead.

    Join Cici as we explore the concept that rejection is not a setback but rather a divine protection guiding us towards our true path. Through personal anecdotes and reflective insights, Cici shares their journey of overcoming rejection and the lessons learned along the way.

    Learn how to face rejection head-on, break free from societal pressures, and manifest your dreams into reality by standing firm in your unique purpose. You are enough, and everything you need is already within you.

    Tune in to feel inspired, affirmed, and ready to reclaim your destiny.

     

    "Feel the fear and do it anyway." - Susan Jeffers

    ]]>     Welcome to another empowering episode of Reclaiming Destiny with your host Cici Stephen. In this episode, we dive deep into understanding the impact of social rejection on our lives and how it correlates to physical pain. Discover how fear of rejection can hinder us from living the life we are meant to lead.

    Join Cici as we explore the concept that rejection is not a setback but rather a divine protection guiding us towards our true path. Through personal anecdotes and reflective insights, Cici shares their journey of overcoming rejection and the lessons learned along the way.

    Learn how to face rejection head-on, break free from societal pressures, and manifest your dreams into reality by standing firm in your unique purpose. You are enough, and everything you need is already within you.

    Tune in to feel inspired, affirmed, and ready to reclaim your destiny.

     

    "Feel the fear and do it anyway." - Susan Jeffers

    ]]>     Power Angel Media false No 897 1 7 full     After the 2024 Election Results: What Happens Now? After the 2024 Election Results: What Happens Now? https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/after-the-2024-election-results-what-happens-now/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/after-the-2024-election-results-what-happens-now/#comments Fri, 22 Nov 2024 12:52:59 -0500 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/c75aa7ef-7f09-3a9a-80e3-6eae6422238b On this special episode... we will be discussing the emotional fallout of the 2024 presidential election and how many individuals can begin to shift out of feelings of anger, heartbreak, fear, betrayal, non-productiveness, isolation etc., and being able to remember to trust that everything will be okay.

     

    "Not all leaders are born...some are created in the moment, by the moment. If ever there were a time where we need both...it is now."- Cici Stephen

     

    Episode 2: Happiness Starts Now

    https://reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/e/happiness-starts-now/

     

    ]]>     On this special episode... we will be discussing the emotional fallout of the 2024 presidential election and how many individuals can begin to shift out of feelings of anger, heartbreak, fear, betrayal, non-productiveness, isolation etc., and being able to remember to trust that everything will be okay.

     

    "Not all leaders are born...some are created in the moment, by the moment. If ever there were a time where we need both...it is now."- Cici Stephen

     

    Episode 2: Happiness Starts Now

    https://reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/e/happiness-starts-now/

     

    ]]>     reclaimingdestinypodcast false No 1095 1 6 bonus     Cooking With Purpose Part Two w/Joy Rothberg Cooking With Purpose Part Two w/Joy Rothberg https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/cooking-with-purpose-part-two-wjoy-rothberg/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/cooking-with-purpose-part-two-wjoy-rothberg/#comments Thu, 31 Oct 2024 15:05:50 -0400 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/2d76a8b3-2a63-38db-9601-7e2f96645cae Cici continues the conversation with Rhoda's Cookie Club Founder, Joy Rothberg.

     

    Rhoda's Cookie Club Facebook Page

    https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61561988486576&mibextid=ZbWKwL

    ]]>     Cici continues the conversation with Rhoda's Cookie Club Founder, Joy Rothberg.

     

    Rhoda's Cookie Club Facebook Page

    https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61561988486576&mibextid=ZbWKwL

    ]]>     reclaimingdestinypodcast false No 2544 1 5 full     Cooking with Purpose Part One w/ Joy Rothberg Cooking with Purpose Part One w/ Joy Rothberg https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/cooking-with-purpose-w-joy-rothberg-part-one/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/cooking-with-purpose-w-joy-rothberg-part-one/#comments Wed, 30 Oct 2024 18:00:23 -0400 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/21fcf78b-567d-32cc-aa7c-19e17496bd19 On todays episode... Cici will be speaking with Joy Rothberg, the founder of Rhoda's Cookie Club.

     

    Rhoda's Cookie Club Facebook Page

    https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61561988486576&mibextid=ZbWKwL

    ]]>     On todays episode... Cici will be speaking with Joy Rothberg, the founder of Rhoda's Cookie Club.

     

    Rhoda's Cookie Club Facebook Page

    https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61561988486576&mibextid=ZbWKwL

    ]]>     reclaimingdestinypodcast false No 2563 1 4 full     Happiness Starts Now Happiness Starts Now https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/happiness-starts-now/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/happiness-starts-now/#comments Wed, 30 Oct 2024 12:32:13 -0400 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/e31d1b11-9dfb-3f16-b5b9-63a98f88e110 On today's episode we will be discussing how to manifest more joy and abundance in our lives.

    We will also be talking about how to experience happiness starting now.

    "It's rigged-everything, in your favor." - Rumi

     

    If you or someone you know needs help please call or text 988 to the Suicide and Crisis Hotline.

    ]]>     On today's episode we will be discussing how to manifest more joy and abundance in our lives.

    We will also be talking about how to experience happiness starting now.

    "It's rigged-everything, in your favor." - Rumi

     

    If you or someone you know needs help please call or text 988 to the Suicide and Crisis Hotline.

    ]]>     reclaimingdestinypodcast false No 1464 1 3 full     Reclaiming Our Destiny Reclaiming Our Destiny https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/reclaiming-our-destiny/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/reclaiming-our-destiny/#comments Mon, 28 Oct 2024 18:17:34 -0400 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/a02ca2be-dc42-3bc5-a472-d34275e93e1b On today's episode, we are introduced to the host Cici Stephen, as we will be discussing what it means to step into our purpose. Cici will also be sharing some personal stories, in addition to providing specific tips anyone can apply to your life right now... on the journey to "reclaiming their destiny".

     

    '"Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you; before you were born, I sanctified you; and I ordained you a prophet to the nations'" -(Jeremiah 1:5)

    ]]>     On today's episode, we are introduced to the host Cici Stephen, as we will be discussing what it means to step into our purpose. Cici will also be sharing some personal stories, in addition to providing specific tips anyone can apply to your life right now... on the journey to "reclaiming their destiny".

     

    '"Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you; before you were born, I sanctified you; and I ordained you a prophet to the nations'" -(Jeremiah 1:5)

    ]]>     reclaimingdestinypodcast false No 484 1 2 full     Introducing: Reclaiming Destiny Podcast Introducing: Reclaiming Destiny Podcast https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/introducing-reclaiming-destiny-podcast/ https://www.reclaimingdestinypodcast.com/e/introducing-reclaiming-destiny-podcast/#comments Sat, 22 Jun 2024 16:16:01 -0400 reclaimingdestinypodcast.podbean.com/078c47ac-8243-3a11-bb4a-d92c9ae9af90 Power Angel Media presents: Reclaiming Destiny with Cici Stephen.

     

    ]]>     Power Angel Media presents: Reclaiming Destiny with Cici Stephen.

     

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