https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com Your podcast centers on the intersection of faith, recovery, and personal transformation, particularly for men seeking freedom from pornography and sexual addiction. Drawing from your experience as a pastor, recovery coach, and sexual addiction therapist, the show explores the spiritual, emotional, and relational dimensions of healing. Each episode addresses real struggles—shame, betrayal, intimacy, identity, and accountability—while pointing listeners toward restoration through truth, disciplined recovery, and the redemptive work of Christ. The goal is not only sobriety but integrity, renewed relationships, and a deeper walk with God, helping men move from secrecy and bondage into honesty, healing, and lasting freedom.

]]> Tue, 26 May 2026 02:34:50 -0500 https://podbean.com/?v=5.5 en Copyright 2026 All rights reserved. Health & Fitness:Mental Health 1440 episodic This podcast is dedicated to helping men understand and overcome pornography struggles by addressing the deeper emotional and spiritual roots behind them. Through honest conversations and practical insight, it guides listeners toward restored integrity, renewed identity, and healthier relationships. Cleveland Wilde Cleveland Wilde No true https://feed.podbean.com/rebelliousnature/feed.xml https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/22168214/Concierge_Black_Icon_z95yxb.png https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com 144 144 Episode 7 Part 2 Begin Rebuilding Trust https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com/e/episode-7-part-2-begin-rebuilding-trust/ https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com/e/episode-7-part-2-begin-rebuilding-trust/#comments Tue, 26 May 2026 02:34:50 -0500 rebelliousnature.podbean.com/72a533eb-5a8b-3f5c-8383-b7ec85856121 Episode 7 Part 2, “Becoming Safe Again: How a Husband Begins Rebuilding Trust,” focuses on what must happen after betrayal trauma has been acknowledged. This episode speaks directly to husbands about the long, humble, consistent work of becoming safe again for their wives—not by demanding forgiveness, rushing healing, or defending intentions, but by taking ownership, telling the truth, practicing empathy, answering pain with patience, and rebuilding trust through repeated actions over time. It reminds men that their wife’s fear, questions, triggers, and emotional responses are not obstacles to get past, but wounds to understand with compassion. The heart of the episode is a call for husbands to become steady, transparent, repentant, and Christlike men who stop protecting their image and start protecting their wife’s heart.

]]> Episode 7 Part 2, “Becoming Safe Again: How a Husband Begins Rebuilding Trust,” focuses on what must happen after betrayal trauma has been acknowledged. This episode speaks directly to husbands about the long, humble, consistent work of becoming safe again for their wives—not by demanding forgiveness, rushing healing, or defending intentions, but by taking ownership, telling the truth, practicing empathy, answering pain with patience, and rebuilding trust through repeated actions over time. It reminds men that their wife’s fear, questions, triggers, and emotional responses are not obstacles to get past, but wounds to understand with compassion. The heart of the episode is a call for husbands to become steady, transparent, repentant, and Christlike men who stop protecting their image and start protecting their wife’s heart.

]]> Episode 7 Part 2, **“Becoming Safe Again: How a Husband Begins Rebuilding Trust,”** focuses on what must happen after betrayal trauma has been acknowledged. This episode speaks directly to husbands about the long, humble, consistent work of becoming safe again for their wives—not by demanding forgiveness, rushing healing, or defending intentions, but by taking ownership, telling the truth, practicing empathy, answering pain with patience, and rebuilding trust through repeated actions over time. It reminds men that their wife’s fear, questions, triggers, and emotional responses are not obstacles to get past, but wounds to understand with compassion. The heart of the episode is a call for husbands to become steady, transparent, repentant, and Christlike men who stop protecting their image and start protecting their wife’s heart. Cleveland Wilde true No 1804 1 7 full Episode 7 Part 1 The Trauma From Betrayal https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com/e/episode-7-part-1-the-trauma-from-betrayal/ https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com/e/episode-7-part-1-the-trauma-from-betrayal/#comments Mon, 18 May 2026 23:23:22 -0500 rebelliousnature.podbean.com/825b2fea-2e62-3d68-8839-8af57c548484 Episode 7 Part 1 is about betrayal trauma and the deep impact pornography addiction has on a wife’s heart, mind, and sense of safety. It explains that her pain is not simply disappointment or hurt feelings, but often a trauma response caused by secrecy, deception, and broken trust. This episode helps husbands begin to see the damage through their wives’ eyes, understand why she may feel unsafe, hypervigilant, angry, or emotionally overwhelmed, and recognize that real recovery must include compassion, honesty, patience, and a willingness to rebuild trust without defensiveness.

]]> Episode 7 Part 1 is about betrayal trauma and the deep impact pornography addiction has on a wife’s heart, mind, and sense of safety. It explains that her pain is not simply disappointment or hurt feelings, but often a trauma response caused by secrecy, deception, and broken trust. This episode helps husbands begin to see the damage through their wives’ eyes, understand why she may feel unsafe, hypervigilant, angry, or emotionally overwhelmed, and recognize that real recovery must include compassion, honesty, patience, and a willingness to rebuild trust without defensiveness.

]]> Episode 7 Part 1 is about **betrayal trauma and the deep impact pornography addiction has on a wife’s heart, mind, and sense of safety**. It explains that her pain is not simply disappointment or hurt feelings, but often a trauma response caused by secrecy, deception, and broken trust. This episode helps husbands begin to see the damage through their wives’ eyes, understand why she may feel unsafe, hypervigilant, angry, or emotionally overwhelmed, and recognize that real recovery must include compassion, honesty, patience, and a willingness to rebuild trust without defensiveness. Cleveland Wilde true No 1274 1 7 full Part 2 Begin Rebuilding https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com/e/part-2-begin-rebuilding/ https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com/e/part-2-begin-rebuilding/#comments Mon, 11 May 2026 14:28:16 -0500 rebelliousnature.podbean.com/4c94e75f-5c2c-37d3-81cc-bd12f8ba10f4 Episode 6, Part 2 of Rebellious by Nature continues the conversation on how pornography destroys intimacy, but this time it presses deeper into the heart of the marriage. This episode speaks directly to husbands about the emotional, spiritual, and relational damage their secrecy can cause, especially in the heart of a wife who longs to feel safe, chosen, protected, and deeply loved. Rather than treating pornography as a private struggle, this episode exposes how it reshapes connection, weakens trust, creates emotional distance, and teaches a man to pursue escape instead of true covenant intimacy. With a pastoral and recovery-focused approach, this episode calls men to repentance, honesty, responsibility, and the hard but hopeful work of rebuilding trust—reminding them that intimacy can be restored, but only through truth, humility, consistency, and the grace of God.

]]> Episode 6, Part 2 of Rebellious by Nature continues the conversation on how pornography destroys intimacy, but this time it presses deeper into the heart of the marriage. This episode speaks directly to husbands about the emotional, spiritual, and relational damage their secrecy can cause, especially in the heart of a wife who longs to feel safe, chosen, protected, and deeply loved. Rather than treating pornography as a private struggle, this episode exposes how it reshapes connection, weakens trust, creates emotional distance, and teaches a man to pursue escape instead of true covenant intimacy. With a pastoral and recovery-focused approach, this episode calls men to repentance, honesty, responsibility, and the hard but hopeful work of rebuilding trust—reminding them that intimacy can be restored, but only through truth, humility, consistency, and the grace of God.

]]> Episode 6, Part 2 of **Rebellious by Nature** continues the conversation on how pornography destroys intimacy, but this time it presses deeper into the heart of the marriage. This episode speaks directly to husbands about the emotional, spiritual, and relational damage their secrecy can cause, especially in the heart of a wife who longs to feel safe, chosen, protected, and deeply loved. Rather than treating pornography as a private struggle, this episode exposes how it reshapes connection, weakens trust, creates emotional distance, and teaches a man to pursue escape instead of true covenant intimacy. With a pastoral and recovery-focused approach, this episode calls men to repentance, honesty, responsibility, and the hard but hopeful work of rebuilding trust—reminding them that intimacy can be restored, but only through truth, humility, consistency, and the grace of God. Cleveland Wilde true No 2364 1 7 full What You Do In Secret https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com/e/what-you-do-in-secret/ https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com/e/what-you-do-in-secret/#comments Mon, 11 May 2026 14:23:48 -0500 rebelliousnature.podbean.com/10c8cc73-b002-3a54-9c7b-9f56937e2ee0 What are secrets?  Why do we hold onto them?  What do we do to overcome them?

]]> What are secrets?  Why do we hold onto them?  What do we do to overcome them?

]]> Cleveland Wilde true No 1283 1 2 full Defining Addiction https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com/e/defining-addiction/ https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com/e/defining-addiction/#comments Mon, 11 May 2026 14:22:47 -0500 rebelliousnature.podbean.com/b1b33f7e-37a5-37d7-a10e-34ab6b936272 Learn what addiction is and what are some real concerns about it.

]]> Learn what addiction is and what are some real concerns about it.

]]> Cleveland Wilde true No 2702 1 1 full Episode 6 part 1 Why Your Wife Feels Alone https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com/e/episode-6-part-1-why-your-wife-feels-alone/ https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com/e/episode-6-part-1-why-your-wife-feels-alone/#comments Mon, 04 May 2026 22:48:17 -0500 rebelliousnature.podbean.com/9e8a6ad6-6626-3c06-9b60-b08bdf8a1061 Episode 6, Part 1 begins a two-part conversation on how pornography damages real intimacy. In this episode, we look beyond the behavior itself and consider how secrecy, fantasy, lust, shame, and emotional disconnection reshape the way a man sees his wife, himself, and the covenant of marriage. With both pastoral conviction and recovery-coaching insight, this episode speaks directly to husbands about the hidden cost of pornography, while also helping wives feel seen, understood, and validated in the pain they have carried. At the heart of the episode is a clear call: intimacy cannot be rebuilt through denial, defensiveness, or secrecy, but through truth, repentance, safety, and the restoring grace of God.

]]> Episode 6, Part 1 begins a two-part conversation on how pornography damages real intimacy. In this episode, we look beyond the behavior itself and consider how secrecy, fantasy, lust, shame, and emotional disconnection reshape the way a man sees his wife, himself, and the covenant of marriage. With both pastoral conviction and recovery-coaching insight, this episode speaks directly to husbands about the hidden cost of pornography, while also helping wives feel seen, understood, and validated in the pain they have carried. At the heart of the episode is a clear call: intimacy cannot be rebuilt through denial, defensiveness, or secrecy, but through truth, repentance, safety, and the restoring grace of God.

]]> Cleveland Wilde true No 2280 1 6 full Episode 5 What Are We Really Running From? https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com/e/episode-5-what-are-we-really-running-from/ https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com/e/episode-5-what-are-we-really-running-from/#comments Tue, 28 Apr 2026 02:26:56 -0500 rebelliousnature.podbean.com/60084afa-4995-3aae-82dd-c01dd7b2aa20 Pornography addiction is not merely a sexual problem. It is often a coping problem, an intimacy problem, an emotional regulation problem, a pain problem, a secrecy problem, and ultimately a worship problem. The behavior matters. The sin matters. But if we only attack the behavior and never address the root, many men will keep relapsing because they are still carrying the same loneliness, stress, rejection, boredom, shame, trauma, immaturity, and spiritual emptiness underneath.

]]> Pornography addiction is not merely a sexual problem. It is often a coping problem, an intimacy problem, an emotional regulation problem, a pain problem, a secrecy problem, and ultimately a worship problem. The behavior matters. The sin matters. But if we only attack the behavior and never address the root, many men will keep relapsing because they are still carrying the same loneliness, stress, rejection, boredom, shame, trauma, immaturity, and spiritual emptiness underneath.

]]> Pornography addiction is not merely a sexual problem. It is often a coping problem, an intimacy problem, an emotional regulation problem, a pain problem, a secrecy problem, and ultimately a worship problem. The behavior matters. The sin matters. But if we only attack the behavior and never address the root, many men will keep relapsing because they are still carrying the same loneliness, stress, rejection, boredom, shame, trauma, immaturity, and spiritual emptiness underneath. Cleveland Wilde true No 2895 1 5 full Shame - The fuel of addiction https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com/e/shame-the-fuel-of-addiction/ https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com/e/shame-the-fuel-of-addiction/#comments Tue, 21 Apr 2026 18:42:32 -0500 rebelliousnature.podbean.com/1398cba0-37a3-3f3a-bc51-d1e755c41611 Have you ever felt shame over a choice you made?  Have you ever felt guilt?  Did you know that one fuels addiction and causes a harmful cycle.  Tune in to episode 4 and learn what shame is and what it does.  More importantly, learn how to fight back!!!

]]> Have you ever felt shame over a choice you made?  Have you ever felt guilt?  Did you know that one fuels addiction and causes a harmful cycle.  Tune in to episode 4 and learn what shame is and what it does.  More importantly, learn how to fight back!!!

]]> Cleveland Wilde true No 1440 4 full Episode 3 Why We Feel Trapped https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com/e/episode-3-why-we-feel-trapped/ https://rebelliousnature.podbean.com/e/episode-3-why-we-feel-trapped/#comments Mon, 13 Apr 2026 12:41:10 -0500 rebelliousnature.podbean.com/2d350ce6-f0f5-3dc3-8b9e-d59484c7db6a Have you ever felt trapped by addiction?  What do you do when you feel this?  Do you want to know their is help?

]]> Have you ever felt trapped by addiction?  What do you do when you feel this?  Do you want to know their is help?

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