But what happens when that sense of urgency actually gets in the way?

In Episode 136 of the Only Trying to Help podcast, Hilary Logan joins the conversation to explore why helpers so often assume that every problem requires immediate action. Together, we discuss how this “emergency mindset” can change the way we think, speak, and respond to others. When we feel pressure to solve things right away, we may become more reactive, less curious, and more likely to say things we later regret.

This episode looks at the subtle ways urgency can interfere with effective helping—and how learning to slow down can create more thoughtful, supportive conversations.