Nobody Asked, But... https://nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com A podcast for opinions that were not requested but are extremely ready to be shared. We’re two moms with very different lives but very similar brains. This is not advice. This is not self-help. This is just two women saying the quiet part out loud about motherhood, marriage, ambition, friendship, and whatever else comes up after bedtime. If you’re looking for answers, this might not be your podcast. But if you’re looking for honesty, humor and someone to say, “Wait, you too?” Welcome. Let’s get into it!

]]> Tue, 26 May 2026 16:29:57 -0600 https://podbean.com/?v=5.5 en Copyright 2026 All rights reserved. Society & Culture 1440 episodic nobodyaskedbut nobodyaskedbut No false https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/22071008/Nobody_Asked_ButPOD_IMAGEjpg8x6ny.jpg Nobody Asked, But... https://nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com 144 144 Episode 6: Friendships & Our First Times Episode 6: Friendships & Our First Times https://nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com/e/episode/ https://nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com/e/episode/#comments Tue, 26 May 2026 16:29:57 -0600 nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com/deeecd71-5820-3e6e-acc1-698f24485d9e Cheers to friendships and a slight digression to our first times... 

]]> Cheers to friendships and a slight digression to our first times... 

]]> nobodyaskedbut false No 3406 6 full Episode 5: Working 9-5 Episode 5: Working 9-5 https://nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com/e/episode-5-working-9-5/ https://nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com/e/episode-5-working-9-5/#comments Thu, 30 Apr 2026 14:33:48 -0600 nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com/85e54e00-00c3-3a14-9254-cd8089894f70 Do you actually want to be successful… or do you just want the vibe of being successful?

]]> Do you actually want to be successful… or do you just want the vibe of being successful?

]]> nobodyaskedbut false No 3218 1 5 full Episode 4: IsThis It?! Episode 4: IsThis It?! https://nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com/e/episode-4-isthis-it/ https://nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com/e/episode-4-isthis-it/#comments Tue, 10 Mar 2026 03:00:00 -0600 nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com/93702705-97c8-305e-80b8-73c72c924525 Have you ever looked at your perfectly good life and thought… is this it? In this episode, we unpack the quiet panic of adulthood — the urge to reinvent everything, disappear for a new life, or just take a nap. Is it dissatisfaction, ambition, or exhaustion? Maybe the real question isn’t “Is this it?” but “What do I want to make of it?”

]]> Have you ever looked at your perfectly good life and thought… is this it? In this episode, we unpack the quiet panic of adulthood — the urge to reinvent everything, disappear for a new life, or just take a nap. Is it dissatisfaction, ambition, or exhaustion? Maybe the real question isn’t “Is this it?” but “What do I want to make of it?”

]]> nobodyaskedbut false No 2253 1 4 full Episode 3: We Were Cooler Before Episode 3: We Were Cooler Before https://nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com/e/episode-3-we-were-cooler-before/ https://nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com/e/episode-3-we-were-cooler-before/#comments Tue, 03 Mar 2026 03:00:00 -0600 nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com/91d8291e-e13d-33f2-a08b-698c9f178b60 This week, we say the quiet parts out loud. How much of marriage is romance… and how much is Google Calendar? When does love turn into maintenance? 

We’re talking long-term partnership reality — sex changes, frequency drops, resentment builds, and sometimes passion has to be scheduled. We get honest about mental load, roommate mode, emotional labor in straight vs. queer relationships, and the weird pressure both dynamics carry.

Stability can feel boring. Passion takes effort. And you can deeply love your life while still grieving who you used to be.

]]> This week, we say the quiet parts out loud. How much of marriage is romance… and how much is Google Calendar? When does love turn into maintenance? 

We’re talking long-term partnership reality — sex changes, frequency drops, resentment builds, and sometimes passion has to be scheduled. We get honest about mental load, roommate mode, emotional labor in straight vs. queer relationships, and the weird pressure both dynamics carry.

Stability can feel boring. Passion takes effort. And you can deeply love your life while still grieving who you used to be.

]]> nobodyaskedbut false No 1729 1 3 full Episode 2: Marriage is Weird... Episode 2: Marriage is Weird... https://nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com/e/episode-2-marriage-is-weird/ https://nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com/e/episode-2-marriage-is-weird/#comments Thu, 19 Feb 2026 21:55:27 -0600 nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com/a08a3012-e4a0-3cb5-abab-3d0dff4ed7af Quiet part? Straight marriage is assumed stable. Queer marriage has to prove it. Straight women over-function. Lesbians over-communicate. Different dynamics. Same maintenance.

]]> Quiet part? Straight marriage is assumed stable. Queer marriage has to prove it. Straight women over-function. Lesbians over-communicate. Different dynamics. Same maintenance.

]]> nobodyaskedbut false No 2075 2 full Episode 1: Nobody Asked, But... Here We Are Episode 1: Nobody Asked, But... Here We Are https://nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com/e/episode-1-nobody-asked-but-here-we-are/ https://nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com/e/episode-1-nobody-asked-but-here-we-are/#comments Mon, 16 Feb 2026 22:40:19 -0600 nobodyaskedbut.podbean.com/1e6d9b39-cb83-3864-aa2a-9589e832b4a5 We’re just two ladies saying the quiet part out loud about motherhood, marriage, ambition, friendship, and whatever comes up after too many glasses of wine. 

]]> We’re just two ladies saying the quiet part out loud about motherhood, marriage, ambition, friendship, and whatever comes up after too many glasses of wine. 

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