Life With The Müllers

Getting Out Of The Dumps - 010

Mon, 19 Aug 2024 06:00:00 -0400

If you have ever been to a place of stagnation or want to avoid a marriage that is transactional and dull, this episode will bring you some practical ideas on how to keep your marriage fresh, and how to restore a marriage that might be in the dumps.

Keep your relationship hopeful, growing, and thriving!

Navigating Change - 009

Mon, 05 Aug 2024 06:00:00 -0400

One of the main issues couples face is change. We have sat with many people who have started the conversation by saying "s/he changed!"

Whether it's personal development, family planning, or simply evolving and maturing, change will happen, and how we navigate change can determine success or failure in a relationship.

In this episode, The Müllers offer 3 tools to help you navigate change in a healthy and positive way.

We hope this episode helps you live better!

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Communication: Little White Lies - 008

Wed, 28 Jun 2023 05:00:00 -0400

Why do spouses lie? Are there good lies?

In this episode, the Müllers will explore the ramifications of little white lies in marriage, why you should give them up, and what to do instead.

We hope this episode helps your marriage grow and stay strong.

To submit topics, follow us on instagram @marriagewiththemullers, or email us at marriagewiththemullers@connectcommunity.org

Communication: Difficult Conversations - 007

Wed, 14 Jun 2023 10:45:09 -0400

Have you put off a difficult conversation because you don't know how to start? In this episode, the Müllers will give you 5 essentials for having a difficult conversations. Also, a tip on how to split the workload with your spouse in days when your capacity differs. And a revealing "the people wanna know" segment.

We hope this episode helps your marriage grow stronger.

To submit topics, email marriagewiththemullers@connectcommunity.org, or DM us on instagram at @marriagewiththemullers.

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Communication: Praise Is Essential - 006

Tue, 19 Jul 2022 16:00:34 -0400

For every negative effect in your marriage there is a positive counterpart. People who feel like there is a lot to complain and fix tend to forget about what is praiseworthy. In this episode, the Müllers present compelling reasoning for introducing and maintaining praise, compliments, and acknowledgement of what is good in your marriage.

Bonus: if you are single of you have single friends, the first 20 minutes will be helpful.

We hope this episode helps make your marriage stronger. To request topics, follow us on instagram, or email us at: marriagewiththemullers@connectcommunity.org

Rebuilding Broken Trust - 005

Tue, 28 Jun 2022 15:26:06 -0400

Once trust has been broken, how can you rebuild it?

Whether trust was broken little by little because a small thing was repeated so often that it became a problem overtime, or trust is suddenly shattered when a big event hits the marriage like an earthquake, rebuilding trust takes effort, commitment, and time.

The Müllers address this difficult topic and share some practical things you can do to address the issue and move forward to better days.

We hope you enjoy this episode.

Forming A Healthy Finance Culture At Home - 004

Tue, 14 Jun 2022 14:24:48 -0400

The Müllers address a request made by multiple listeners to talk about finances in marriage. In this episode, you will hear practical steps on how to create a healthy money culture in the home.

Marriage and Submission - 003

Tue, 31 May 2022 05:00:00 -0400

In this episode, The Müllers address a topic that has been requested multiple times: Submission in marriage. What's up with that? Whether or not you are religious, JD and Alini bring a fresh perspective about the importance and role of submission. (there is also bonus content on meeting "the one".)

Thank you for making the time investment to make your marriage grow stronger. Please subscribe, share, and participate by submitting topics for the next episode via instagram, or by emailing marriagewiththemullers@connectcommunity.org

Avoiding Bitterness Before It Starts - 002

Thu, 19 May 2022 06:00:00 -0400

In this episode, The Müllers address the following question from a listener: "How to not hold on to things so they don't turn to bitterness against your spouse?" -- Marriage is the most intimate of relationships, and if you are doing it right your spouse is the person with whom you are most vulnerable; you are meant to be fully seen, and to fully see your spouse. You know each other like no one else does. With all that exposure you are bound to have things done or said that are hurtful. How do avoid bitterness to set in? Let's talk.

How To Keep Your Relationship Vibrant - 001

Tue, 03 May 2022 14:45:10 -0400

JD and Alini Müller introduce, Marriage With the Müllers, an interactive podcast where listeners submit topics for JD and Alini to discuss. In this first episode, JD and Alini answer the question: How to keep your relationship vibrant when life gets monotonous and routined?

You can't cry over spilled milk, but you can clean it up.