The hosts also dig into practical complaints about gig work, taxes and hiring practices, share funny TV and product finds, and tease upcoming guests and episodes.

The conversation then shifts to workplace life: raw, funny, and frank tales from customer service and call-center experiences, dealing with rude callers, office gossip, and boundary-setting.

Listen for honest reflections, sharp humor, and behind-the-scenes anecdotes from both dating and the service floor.

The episode also captures a live reaction to major political news, blending pop culture commentary with frank and sometimes controversial banter.

The conversation veers into packed sports talk about the NFL playoffs, Dak Prescott and surprising upsets, plus a cheeky segment asking studs about explicit habits. The episode mixes blunt opinions, humor, and hot takes throughout.

The episode also covers relationship pitfalls like unchecked assumptions, communication breakdowns, and the importance of apologies and honesty in keeping partnerships healthy.

In this podcast episode, hosts Big Smooth and Rashard Kennedy discuss co-parenting challenges, relationship dynamics, and social media's impact on modern relationships. They share personal experiences and offer advice on putting children first, avoiding public arguments, and building healthy relationships.

• (01:17) Co-parenting challenges: Co-parenting is difficult because people let their negative feelings about the failed relationship affect their parenting. Parents should not take out their bitterness on the children or use them as pawns, such as denying visitation or refusing to provide support. The focus should always be on the child's well-being, not personal grievances.
• (05:14) Personal co-parenting story: Big Smooth shares his experience with his ex-wife, who initially threatened to move away and limit his access to their son. He persisted in communication and involvement, eventually earning her respect and building a cooperative co-parenting relationship. They now communicate regularly and support each other in parenting decisions.
• (09:49) Child support misuse: Child support is meant for the child's welfare, not for the parent's personal expenses like nails, hair, or club outings. If a father is actively providing for the child's needs, such as school supplies, clothes, and attending events, child support should not be a contentious issue. Some women misuse child support, which creates resentment.
• (15:26) Gift card tip: To ensure child support is used for the child, men can give store-specific gift cards (e.g., Food City, Foot Locker, diapers.com) instead of cash or prepaid cards. If the mother gets upset, it indicates she may be using the money for herself rather than the child. This helps verify that funds are spent on the child's needs.
• (17:15) Avoid social media drama: People should not air out relationship or co-parenting issues on social media, as it invites unnecessary drama and fake news. Posting screenshots or arguments publicly is disrespectful and unproductive. Instead, handle conflicts privately and keep personal matters off public platforms.
• (21:53) Know your worth: Women should know their worth and not waste time on men who don't want to be with them. Presenting oneself with self-respect attracts better partners. Physical intimacy alone (WAP) won't keep a man; building a genuine connection is more important.
• (29:59) 90-day rule: The 90-day rule, where a couple waits 90 days before having sex, can help determine if a man is genuinely interested. If he's only after sex, he'll likely leave or complain. If he's serious, he'll respect the boundary and the relationship can build on a stronger foundation.
• (36:31) Dating with kids: People with children should not refuse to date others who have kids, especially if they have kids themselves. The focus should be on whether the person treats the children well, not on past relationships. Co-parenting should not interfere with new relationships unless it's for the children's benefit.
• (41:57) Catfishing story: Big Smooth helped his ex-wife uncover a catfish who was posing as a different person online. He created a fake profile and discovered the man was a 26-year-old white guy pretending to be a 36-year-old black man. This highlights the importance of being cautious about who you meet online, especially when children are involved.
• (43:41) Putting kids first: Parents should always prioritize their children over new partners. If a child needs you, you should go, even if it means leaving a date or interrupting time with a partner. This commitment to the child's well-being is essential for healthy co-parenting.
• (46:36) Avoid upstaging: New partners should not try to upstage the child's other parent by buying bigger gifts or making grand gestures. This creates unnecessary competition and can confuse the child. Instead, coordinate with the other parent to ensure the child's needs are met without rivalry.
• (52:46) Social media relationship status: Some people consider a relationship official only when it's announced on Facebook, which is a modern phenomenon. However, not everyone wants to share their relationship status publicly, and that's okay. Social media can be a double-edged sword, causing unnecessary drama and insecurity.

• (00:00) Signs of Narcissism: A key sign of being involved with a narcissist is that everything revolves around them. They dismiss your feelings and needs, even in emergencies, and instead focus on their own issues. For example, if you are in the hospital, they might complain about a headache and demand you take care of them.
• (02:35) Ignoring and Excuses: Narcissists often ignore you for days or weeks, leaving messages on read, and then provide excuses like a dead phone or being out of service, even when evidence contradicts them. This behavior is intentional and designed to control and manipulate.
• (04:28) Never Their Fault: Narcissists never take responsibility for their actions. If they cheat, they blame you, saying things like 'if you cooked more' or 'if you paid more attention.' This constant blame-shifting is meant to lower your self-esteem and elevate themselves.
• (06:11) Endorphin Bond: Some women release endorphins during sex that are compared to those of childbirth, creating a strong bond similar to a mother's connection with her child. This biological bond can make it extremely difficult for women to leave a narcissistic partner, even when faced with clear evidence of wrongdoing.
• (08:10) Tragic Consequences: Kedrick shares a personal story of a friend who died by overdose 24 hours after her narcissistic partner told her she was worthless and that no one else would want her. This highlights the severe emotional and psychological damage narcissists can inflict, sometimes leading to fatal outcomes.
• (09:29) Helping Friends: It is often impossible to help someone in a narcissistic relationship unless they themselves want to leave. Even with proof and support, they will make excuses and rationalize the behavior. The only way out is if the person decides to leave on their own.

This conversation explores interracial dating through personal memories of racism, cultural misunderstandings, attraction, and relationship expectations. The speakers compare how people from different racial and cultural backgrounds may approach dating, while emphasizing that individual personality matters more than stereotypes. They then examine the benefits and dangers of long-distance relationships, especially the need for communication and trust. The discussion concludes with a candid account of a marriage that grew out of distance and the complications of dating in a tightly connected small-town social circle.

1. Refusing Available Help The hosts discuss a person who admits to having mental health issues but won't travel to get treatment, claiming it's too far. Both hosts strongly argue that if you need help, distance shouldn't be a barrier — there are options like telehealth, rides from friends, Uber, and even primary care doctors who can now diagnose and refer patients for mental health treatment.

2. Accountability and Mental Health Both hosts share personal experiences with mental health. Lamar attends weekly therapy and drives 20 minutes to his appointments without complaint. Big Smooth Ked Jones manages his depression independently but emphasizes that if his condition worsened, he would seek professional help immediately, especially given his responsibilities as a parent and caregiver.

3. The Danger of Compounding Problems They warn that ignoring mental health issues causes problems to pile up — eventually you "crack," and the fallout affects not just you but everyone around you. Pushing away the people trying to help leaves you completely alone when things get worst.

4. Brutal Honesty vs. Yes-Men A major theme is the value of friends who tell you the raw truth versus those who just agree with everything you say. The hosts argue that yes-men ultimately screw you over by validating bad decisions, while honest friends — even if it hurts your feelings — are the ones who actually care.

5. Social Media Performative Grief The hosts call out people who dismiss someone's struggles while they're alive, then post angel-wing tribute photos on Facebook after tragedy strikes, claiming they were "always there" for that person. They find this deeply hypocritical and frustrating.

6. The Truth Nobody Wants to Swallow They note that people often seek advice hoping to hear what they want rather than the truth — and when a close friend tells them the same thing a therapist or stranger later tells them, they'll accept it from the stranger but reject it from the friend.

The hosts tease an upcoming second episode covering why people block others on social media, get mad, and then send a friend request back weeks later — and the double standard around brutal honesty in relationships.

I emphasize the need for adults to communicate openly and honestly, sharing personal anecdotes about my experiences with people who have led me on or made excuses. We touch on the frustrations of being ignored while others complain about their lack of attention, and I express my belief that if someone isn't interested, they should just say so upfront.

Lamar and I also explore the idea of matching attitudes with actions, particularly in the context of social media and dating. We critique the superficiality of Instagram culture, where many present a false image of themselves, and discuss how this affects real-life interactions.

As we wrap up, we hint at future episodes, including a discussion on the dynamics of "thoughts" versus "fuckboys" and our upcoming fantasy football picks. Overall, this episode is a candid exploration of honesty, communication, and the challenges of modern dating.

Hosts Kendrick and Lamar tackle the serious issue of intimate partner violence, sharing hard statistics and personal experiences about men who put their hands on women. They discuss prevention, anger management, parenting lessons, and the overlooked reality of male victims, while calling for accountability and safer responses.

The episode blends candid storytelling with practical advice and raises complex questions about how society responds to abuse, including how cases are often flipped or dismissed and how to protect loved ones.

In this episode Kendrick and Lamar tackle the controversial Texas decision to roll back Roe v. Wade, discussing what the change means, potential consequences for women, and the controversial enforcement measures being proposed.

They then shift to relationships — how past partners, pride, and flaked plans can control your present — offering blunt advice on boundaries, honesty, and moving on. The hosts also announce plans to go live on Podbean with listener call-ins and occasional contests.

He also tackles double standards in relationships — especially around jealousy, exes, and controlling behavior — and previews future episodes with guests and conversations aimed at open, uncensored dialogue.

He contrasts his former wrestling persona with the emotional reality of living with chronic illness, describing diet limits, pain, itching, and how it affects relationships and confidence.

He explains his goal to get back on the transplant list, the obstacles he faces, and why he created this podcast as a place to vent and connect while asking listeners to pray for him.

The episode wraps with Week 5 predictions for every game, commentary on team standings, and a preview of upcoming matchups — inviting listener reactions and saying a co-host may join next week.

They also preview possible storylines, pick favorites like Lash and Trick for briefcases, and promise more reviews and follow-ups on Raw, SmackDown, NXT and future live events.

He also discusses the toxicity of social media arguments, how the controversy affected personal friendships, and invites respectful listeners to join a future podcast conversation.

He argues that social media skews perceptions of love and dating—highlighting one-sided posts, exaggerated drama, and unrealistic expectations—and shares how that shaped his boundaries and approach to dating.

The episode closes with candid thoughts on gender roles, responsibility, and emotional control, plus a tease about a possible guest and upcoming Money in the Bank predictions.