What if nothing is “wrong” with you—but something deeper is off? In this episode of Genuine Life, I sit down with Dr. Eric Moyer and we go straight to the root of what so many of us are dealing with right now—the identity piece underneath anxiety, addiction, burnout, and people-pleasing. Because a lot of us have spent years trying to fix behaviors without ever asking who we’re actually operating from, and if your identity has been shaped by trauma, approval, fear, or survival, then even when you’re doing everything “right,” it’s still going to feel unstable.

We talk about the Four P’s—principles, perspectives, purposes, and priorities—and how they quietly drive everything in your life, why so many people feel stuck in the same patterns, and what it actually looks like to begin changing from the inside out without forcing it or beating yourself up.

This isn’t about saying something is wrong with you—it’s about finally understanding why things haven’t been working and how to rebuild something solid. If you’ve ever thought “why do I keep ending up here?” this one will hit home.

Website: https://redeemingidentity.com

Book: Redeeming Identity: Restoring the Heart of God’s Design

This short (blast from the past) solo episode is being shared between guest episodes as a quick, meaningful pause for reflection. It’s based on one of the most-watched and most-resonant videos on my YouTube channel, and I wanted to make it available here as a Genuine Life episode for anyone who may need it. In this conversation, I talk about the Serenity Prayer, acceptance, courage, and the power of focusing on what we can actually change. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or weighed down by trying to control things that aren’t in your hands, this episode is for you. Sometimes the most healing thing we can do is slow down, let go, and take one honest step forward. I hope this short episode gives you encouragement, clarity, and a little peace in the middle of your day.

What if the reason you don’t feel loved… is because the real you has never been fully seen?

In this powerful episode, with relationship coach and author Lionel Moses, we unpack the connection between approval addiction, imposter syndrome, and leadership—and how so many of us are showing up in life, relationships, and even faith from a place of insecurity rather than identity. When we don’t truly love or know ourselves, we perform. We people-please. We lead reactively. And deep down, we wonder why love never quite reaches us.

But here’s the truth: God doesn’t plant seeds He doesn’t intend to grow.

Through honest conversation and real-life insight, we explore what it means to stop striving for approval and start leading from authenticity—rooted in who God says you are. This episode dives into healing the fear of not being enough, breaking cycles of over-performing, and learning to trust that what God has placed inside you is intentional, purposeful, and meant to flourish.

If you’ve ever felt like an imposter, struggled to feel truly loved, or questioned your ability to lead—this conversation will meet you right where you are and gently call you higher.

This episode features relationship coach and author Lionel Moses, whose book The Marriage Seed: How to Cultivate Relationships You Desire and Deserve explores how to build deeper, more authentic connections in every area of life. 

After losing their son Josh—a gifted musician—to opioid addiction, the Sumners turned unimaginable grief into purpose. Through their film and mission, they’re working to break the stigma, raise awareness, and save lives in the midst of the opioid/fentanyl crisis.

This conversation goes beyond headlines. It reveals the truth about addiction—how it can impact any family, how quickly things can spiral, and why awareness and honest conversations matter now more than ever.

You’ll hear:

• The real story behind their son Josh and the inspiration for Survivors
• How addiction often begins in unexpected ways
• The devastating impact of fentanyl in today’s world
• Why breaking the stigma can save lives
• And where hope, healing, and purpose can still be found

This episode is heartbreaking, eye-opening, and ultimately uplifting—it's a reminder that even in the darkest moments, light can still break through.

🔗 Learn more and watch the film: https://www.notonemoretime.com/

​You can watch the award-winning Survivors documentary for FREE on YouTube or Tubi. It is also available to buy or rent on Amazon Prime. For the latest news on the opioid crisis in America, please follow @NotOneMoreTimeNonProfit on Instagram.

From the outside, his life looked awesome. He worked around the world in places like Haiti, Mali, and Madagascar, building a career in international development. But privately, he was caught in a cycle of psychological and emotional abuse within his marriage.

In this conversation, we talk about how abuse often doesn’t start in overt ways. We delve into the cycle of psychological abuse and how it moves—subtle shifts, small manipulations, and moments of control that gradually become normal. Over time, the danger becomes harder to recognize, and many people find themselves living inside something they never would have accepted at the beginning.

Christopher also shares how trauma doesn’t simply disappear when the situation ends. The body and mind can continue carrying those survival patterns long after the danger is gone. Diagnosed with autism later in life, he reflects on how autism shaped his self-esteem, relationships, and what he was experiencing. 

Most importantly, this episode is about hope—leaving, healing, and rebuilding a life after surviving the unimaginable.

What do you do when survival mode becomes normal — and pain just feels like part of who you are?

In this powerful episode of Genuine Life Recovery, I sit down with Sara Kelsey to talk about a life marked by chronic illness, medical trauma, foster care, deep grief, and years of binge-drinking that felt more like coping than addiction.

For decades, Sara lived with gastroparesis and a feeding tube doctors said would be permanent. Behind the scenes, alcohol became a way to quiet the emotional noise — until the shame and consequences became impossible to ignore.

Then came a turning point. 

Sara and her husband chose sobriety together, changing the trajectory of their marriage and family. Not long after, faith became real and personal. She was baptized in 2025 — not just as a symbol of sobriety, but of surrender. And in a moment that even doctors couldn’t explain, healing came in a way she never saw coming.

This conversation is honest, vulnerable, and full of hope. Because recovery isn’t just about behavior — it’s about letting God meet you in the middle of the mess.

If you’re wondering whether freedom is possible for you — this one’s for you.

Mike Smith joins me, a veteran whose life story is a raw, honest testimony of addiction, mental illness, homelessness, and ultimately, redemption. Mike takes us deep into his journey — from growing up with trauma, battling substance abuse and suicidal attempts, to finding hope through faith and a life-changing encounter with Jesus Christ.

This episode is about real recovery, real pain, and real grace. Mike shares how brokenness shaped his life, how the “gutter” became the place where God met him, and why our stories matter more than our scars. His message is simple but powerful: no one is too far gone, and healing is possible.

Mike is the author of Gutter Gospel: The Road to Redemption, a memoir that dives even deeper into his story and the power of testimony. Today, Mike speaks openly to encourage those who feel stuck, lost, or overwhelmed by addiction, trauma, or mental health struggles.

If this episode resonates with you, Mike welcomes connection and conversation. You can reach him directly at TheGutterGospel.com.

This is a story of faith, recovery, and hope — straight from the gutter to redemption.

What happens when childhood survival turns into adult addiction-and God steps in with redemption?    

In this episode of Genuine Life Recovery, Russell Ramos shares his powerful story of growing up in instability, carrying unhealed wounds into adulthood, and eventually finding freedom through recovery, surrender, and faith. Raised in an environment shaped by fear, confusion, and emotional chaos, Russell learned early how to survive—but those same coping skills later led him into addiction and broken identity.

Through the recovery process and a life-changing encounter with God, Russell began to experience healing that went deeper than sobriety. In this conversation, he opens up about trauma, addiction, shame, grace, and what it truly means to break free from the chains of the past. His story is honest, hopeful, and deeply encouraging for anyone who feels stuck, discouraged, or unsure if real change is possible.

This episode is for those navigating addiction recovery, healing from childhood wounds, or seeking spiritual freedom. Russell’s journey is a reminder that your past does not define you, healing is possible, and redemption is real.

You are not too broken. You are not alone. Freedom is available.

Tune in for a tender but truth-telling journey into how God meets us right in the middle of addiction, trauma, and everyday mess—and slowly, patiently, makes us new. In this episode I talk with author, counselor, and cancer survivor David Zailer as we walk through all 12 steps, showing how they rise straight out of Scripture and how they become a practical path for real people who are hurting, angry, ashamed, and scared to hope again.​

This conversation is deeply personal. David shares how alcohol once felt like his only solution, the thing that quieted a lifetime of pain, and what it was like to have that “solution” stripped away, leaving a raw sadness and shame that nothing could numb anymore. He talks about learning, one shaky day at a time, that addiction is more than bad choices—it is neurological enslavement rooted in trauma and family history—and how honest community, recovery rooms, and the steps gave him language, tools, and companions to walk out of that bondage.​

Together, we move from Step One’s powerless confession to Step Twelve’s call to give it all away, weaving in Romans, James, the Gospels, and the Serenity Prayer. We sit in the hard questions: Why didn’t prayer alone “fix” it? What does it mean to let God define sanity? How do you face inventories, amends, and old anger without collapsing back into shame?​

Grace in Recovery is for anyone who has white-knuckled their way through church, treatment, or life and secretly wondered, “What’s wrong with me that I can’t get this right?” We offers a fiercely compassionate reminder that your addiction grew out of pain, not defectiveness—and that by walking the steps with Jesus and with others, you can learn to live sober, honest, and deeply loved, one surrendered day at a time.​

Learn more about David Zailer and check out his compelling books and curriculum here. 

Listen and watch for an honest and compassionate conversation with author and recovery leader David Zailer as we explore the impact of childhood trauma and the long road toward healing.

David opens up about surviving sexual abuse within the church, growing up with a narcissistic parent, and carrying the emotional fallout of a deeply dysfunctional home. Together, we talk through the coping mechanisms he developed, the shame and confusion he carried for years, and how these early wounds helped shape his addiction.

We also dive into the realities of gaslighting, family dynamics, and that moment in recovery when Scripture and faith finally began to feel real. David shares how therapy, safe people, and spiritual awakening became turning points in his healing journey.

This episode is raw, hope-filled, and deeply relatable for anyone navigating their own recovery or supporting someone they love. It’s the first in a two-part series — with Part 2 focusing on the Christian 12 Steps and David’s book Our Journey Home.

Join us for this powerful episode of Genuine Life Recovery, with author and speaker Emily Wierenga, who nearly starved to death as a young girl but now feeds bodies and souls with the love of God. Emily shares her remarkable journey from battling anorexia and fear to finding healing, identity, and purpose through Christ.

As the author of The God Who Became Bread: A True Story of Starving, Feasting, and Feeding Others, Emily opens up about the moment God met her in a hospital room, the deep faith lessons she learned in Africa, and how those experiences led her to found The Lulu Tree, a nonprofit ministry serving mothers and children in Uganda and Sierra Leone.

Her story reminds us that God still works miracles — in our hearts, our families, and across the world. Through surrender, grace, and community, we can all learn what it means to be truly fed.

Learn more about Emily’s ministry and writing at www.emilywierenga.com. 

After years of heroin addiction, homelessness, and a near-fatal overdose caught on camera, Adam Vibe Gunton was out of options—until a supernatural encounter in an IHOP changed everything. In this episode of Genuine Life Recovery, I talk with Adam about his dramatic journey from despair to purpose, his powerful vision of Jesus, and how that moment set him free from addiction for good.

Adam now leads Recovered on Purpose, a national movement helping others share their stories, eliminate shame, and find lasting hope through faith and recovery. This raw and redemptive conversation dives deep into fentanyl’s deadly grip, the broken treatment system, and how God’s grace can reach anyone—no matter how far they’ve fallen.

About Adam’s Work: Through Recovered on Purpose, Adam and his team provide a free 50-state resource guide for people seeking addiction treatment—especially those on or eligible for Medicaid. His for-profit agency, Behavioral Health Partners, helps ethical, mission-driven treatment centers grow and serve clients with excellence. Adam is also a partner in Radix Recovery, opening 68 new detox beds to help people begin their healing journey.

In this special episode of Genuine Life Recovery, I’m hanging out with my husband, Aaron, as we co-host an honest conversation with Josh and Heidi Case from The Sober Buzz Podcast. Since Aaron and I have been married in sobriety for nearly two decades, it was powerful to talk with another couple navigating marriage, recovery, and real life.

Josh and Heidi’s story is full of every emotion—roller-coaster highs and crushing lows. We talk about the pain of relapse, the lies we tell ourselves in addiction, and what it looks like to keep rebuilding even when everything seems broken. Heidi shares about her 18-year misdiagnosis with bipolar disorder, the devastating side effects of unnecessary treatments, and how her true healing began when she finally stepped away from the medications that masked her pain. Josh opens up about spending hundreds of thousands of dollars on rehab, trying geographical moves to escape his problems, and the breaking point that finally led him to lasting sobriety. 

Together we laugh, reflect, and talk about codependency, family dynamics, and the surprising joy of marriage in recovery.

👉 Learn more about Josh and Heidi at sober.buzz and check out their podcasts Sober.Buzz: Spreading the Good Buzz and Swarm Up.

Mallary opens up about losing her mother at a young age, how grief and control fueled her eating disorder, and why she now embraces what she calls the “middle place” in recovery—where slips and setbacks are not failures, but part of the healing process. Together, we discuss the overlap between eating disorders and addiction, the importance of vulnerability, and the daily practices that can help move us toward more recovery—even when it’s messy. 

Learn more about Mallary’s work, her book Slip, and her ongoing advocacy for those in recovery at mallarytenoretarpley.com

“Are you hustling your way to success… with a side of secret snacks?”

In this episode of Genuine Life Recovery, we dive into the surprising truth about food addiction—especially in the world of busy entrepreneurs. Is it really just about overeating, or is something deeper at play?

Licensed therapist Jennifer Schrappe joins me to unpack:

• The difference between a sweet tooth and a true addiction 

• How stress, dopamine, and those late-night hustle sessions fuel compulsive eating

• Why high-achievers are so prone to emotional eating during launches, deadlines, and financial stress

• Practical ways to break the shame cycle and build a healthier relationship with food—without sacrificing your goals

We also explore the connection between food, mental health, and faith—because your body isn’t a stress dumpster; it’s part of your calling.

If you’ve ever told yourself, “I’m just too busy to eat right,” this episode is for you.

Are you codependent — but not in the way everyone talks about?

Most people think codependency is only about caretaking, rescuing, and sacrificing yourself to meet everyone else’s needs. And yes, that’s one form — but it’s not the only one. For me, codependency showed up in my career, performance, and need for approval. My identity rose and fell with ratings, audience feedback, and what people thought of me. If the show was a hit, I felt worthy. If the phones were silent or the criticism loud, I felt like a failure.

In this video, we explore hidden forms of codependency — not just the fixer or caretaker, but the performer, the people-pleaser, the overachiever. You’ll discover:

• How codependency can show up in parenting, ministry, volunteering, and the workplace
• Why our self-worth often gets tied to others’ expectations or achievements
• The connection between codependency, perfectionism, and people-pleasing
• The psychological roots of codependency — from low self-esteem to attachment wounds
• How faith and biblical truth can break the cycle of performance-based identity

Whether your codependency comes from childhood trauma, dysfunctional family dynamics, or a lifetime of chasing approval, this episode will help you see that God’s love isn’t performance-based. Galatians 6 reminds us to carry our own load, not live someone else’s life — and to stop finding our worth in what we produce or how much we please others.    

If you’ve been over-performing, over-pleasing, or over-sacrificing just to feel “enough,” it’s time to let that go. You are already loved. Already worthy. Already enough — in Him

In this episode, we explore how identity is at the heart of recovery. It’s not just about resisting the next drink or behavior—it’s about confronting the deep, often hidden beliefs you hold about who you are. And many of us, especially in early sobriety, don’t realize we’ve been living from a false self shaped by trauma, shame, and survival. We unpack the core idea from Gabor Maté—that our two basic human needs are authenticity and attachment, and how many of us traded our authenticity to be loved. That trade-off, often made in childhood, can leave us fractured and unaware of who we really are.

Recovery is where that false identity begins to crack—and where God begins to reveal the true self He created. You’ll hear teachings and insights woven from my own personal story plus: Henri Nouwen on belovedness and the lies we believe David Benner on discovering your identity in Christ—not in what you do or how others see you Dallas Willard on spiritual formation and surrender Peter Scazzero on the “Wall” and the dark night of the soul Eugene Peterson on obedience and calling in hidden seasons All rooted in the truth of 2 Corinthians 5:17—“If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation…”

This episode will help you recognize the old patterns and labels trying to keep you stuck, and invite you to begin walking in your true name, your God-given identity, and your purpose in sobriety. 

Have you ever wondered how to rebuild broken relationships after addiction? In this video, we dive deep into the emotional and spiritual steps of making amends, restoring trust, and setting healthy boundaries — all through the lens of biblical wisdom. We'll cover: ✅ The damage addiction causes in relationships — and why amends matter (Steps 8 & 9) ✅ How biblical forgiveness and reconciliation work (Colossians 3:13) ✅ The crucial difference between forgiveness and reconciliation ✅ How resentment and negative emotions can fuel relapse ✅ Setting healthy, biblical boundaries (Proverbs 4:23) ✅ Practical steps for making amends with wisdom and godly counsel If you're in recovery, starting over, or just longing for healing in your relationships, this video is packed with real talk, encouragement, and actionable tools to help you move forward — stronger and more rooted in Christ. 🔔 Subscribe for more biblical recovery and mental health content! 📢 Like, share, and watch the extended live version next for deeper insight.

Welcome to Part 3 of our 5-part series, Challenges in Early Sobriety. In this episode, we delve into the emotional complexities that often surface during the early stages of recovery. If you've ever felt overwhelmed by emotions like guilt, shame, anger, or fear—and found yourself reaching for numbing behaviors—this conversation is for you. We explore how unprocessed trauma and grief can manifest physically, leading to issues like chronic stress, digestive problems, or even autoimmune conditions.

Drawing from both biblical wisdom and clinical strategies, we discuss practical tools to help you face these emotions head-on. From understanding the psychosomatic connections between mind and body to integrating faith-based practices, we aim to provide a holistic approach to emotional healing. Whether you're navigating early sobriety yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode offers insights to help you move from emotional overwhelm to resilience and peace.

Key Topics Covered: Emotional challenges in early recovery The impact of unprocessed trauma on physical health Biblical perspectives on emotional healing Clinical tools for managing intense emotions The mind-body connection in sobriety Resources Mentioned: Romans 12:2 – Renewing the mind through scripture Support groups and therapy options for emotional management Don't miss the upcoming episodes in our series, where we'll explore relationships in recovery, finding purpose post-addiction, and building a fulfilling sober life. Subscribe now to continue your journey toward healing.

(Previously Aired Live) Christian Sobriety Series | Recovery Tools for Triggers, Cravings & Temptation

Early sobriety is one of the hardest roads you’ll ever walk—and if you’re in it right now, you know exactly how it feels. The temptation to drink or use again can sneak up like a storm cloud: one emotional trigger, one bad day, one old memory—and suddenly, you’re white-knuckling your way through cravings, shame, and overwhelm. But what if you didn’t have to fight this battle alone? What if you had practical tools—and spiritual power? This episode is Week 2 of our 5-week live series: “Faith-Based & Therapeutic Tools to Resist the Urge to Drink or Use in Early Sobriety.” We’re going beyond surface-level advice and digging into the real reasons why you feel triggered, tempted, and emotionally raw in early recovery—and how God, His Word, and real-world recovery strategies can give you strength to keep going. 

▶️ In this episode

• Why temptation and emotional triggers hit so hard in early sobriety

• How to resist the urge to drink without relying on willpower alone

• What cravings and withdrawals are really trying to tell you

• Biblical truth and clinical insights that bring comfort, clarity, and courage

• How to build a God-centered support system that truly helps

• Practical tools for when you feel overwhelmed and close to relapse

You’ll also learn how past trauma, emotional invalidation, PTSD, and childhood experiences fuel addiction—and how Jesus wants to step into those very places and bring healing, not just sobriety.

📖 Featured Scriptures:

• 1 Corinthians 10:13 – “God is faithful; He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear…”

• Psalm 107:13–14 – “He brought them out of darkness… and broke away their chains.”

• Isaiah 61 – “To comfort those who mourn… to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes…”

• Ecclesiastes 4:12 – “A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”

This isn’t just about staying clean—it’s about becoming whole. 👥 Whether you're watching live or catching the replay, join the community by subscribing and sharing l so you never miss a session in this series.

Let’s talk about putting God in the driver’s seat—and finally stop letting temptation take the wheel.

Breaking free from addiction begins with one crucial choice: surrender. But let's be honest—letting go of control is one of the toughest challenges in early sobriety. Don't miss this 5 part series addressing some of the biggest challenges in early sobriety and how to overcome them. In this conversation, we’ll dive into the struggles of surrendering to God, the key to lasting addiction recovery, and how to push through fear and doubt when everything in you wants to hold on.

Together, we’ll explore how trusting God, letting go, and embracing faith can guide us toward healing. Recovery is possible, and you're not alone in this journey.  

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Have you ever felt overwhelmed and emotionally numb — like you can’t name what you’re feeling, let alone express it? Maybe you've relapsed or shut down and thought, “What’s wrong with me?”

The truth is, it’s not about willpower — it’s about emotional literacy. In this powerful episode, we unpack the hidden emotional roots of relapse, addiction, and disconnection. You’ll learn why so many of us were never taught how to feel, and how that disconnect plays a huge role in mental health and recovery.

🎯 What you'll learn:

• The connection between alexithymia and addiction

• The 7 core emotions and how to identify them

• Why childhood emotional neglect can lead to emotional shut down

• A biblical perspective on healing through emotions

• Tools to feel again — and recover from the inside out

Whether you’re in recovery, love someone who is, or want to grow emotionally and spiritually — this episode is for you.

✨ Don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes on mental health, faith, and real-life recovery.

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Craig Perra is a world-renowned coach who helps people break free from sex, porn, and digital addictions. A former addict himself, Craig hit rock bottom over a decade ago—losing his job and nearly losing his family. That crisis became the catalyst for something powerful: The Mindful Habit® System—a alternative to traditional recovery programs. His work has been featured on The Steve Harvey Show, A&E’s Digital Addiction, The Katie Couric Show, Good Day Sacramento, and more.

Together, we unpack the often-overlooked connection between dyslexia, addiction, anxiety, and menta health; as well as the critical importance of early support and understanding, especially for kids. This episode sheds light on how dyslexia influences identity and mental wellness, the unique gifts that come with neurodivergence, and the role faith and community play in recovery.

Whether you're navigating these challenges yourself or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers encouragement, perspective, and practical tools for the journey. Juliet Hahn is an inspirational podcast host and keynote speaker. Visit her website here! 

#AddictionRecovery,#HeroinAddict,#HomelessToHope,#OvercomingAddiction,#MentalHealthMatters,#RecoveryIsPossible,#SubstanceAbuseAwareness,#SoberLife,#AddictsInRecovery,#RecoveryCommunity,#FaithAndRecovery,#DrugAddictionHelp,#RockBottomStory,#RapperTestimony,#FromAddictToArtist,#MusicAndRecovery,#RedemptionStory,#RealLifeTestimony,#PhillyRapper,#GritAndGrace,#TrueStory,#InspiringStories,#PodcastInterview,#YouTubePodcast,#MustWatch,#PowerfulTestimony,#RealTalk,#SurvivorStory,#YouTubeRecovery

#RecoveryJourney #HealingAndHope #RiseAbove #BreakTheCycle #GenuineLifeRecovery

In this episode of Genuine Life Recovery, Mike shares his journey from substance addiction to discovering the hidden dangers of sugar dependency. We explore how sugar affects the brain like a drug, why so many in recovery turn to sweets, and how to break free from the addiction swap. Mike also dives into the role of faith in healing, how the Serenity Prayer helped him surrender his cravings, and practical steps to quit sugar for good.

If you’ve ever reached for candy instead of a drink, felt powerless over sugar cravings, or just want to understand how addiction works on a deeper level—this episode is for you! Tune in for eye-opening insights, recovery wisdom, and the tools you need to take control of your health and freedom. Click HERE to find out about Mike's program and get the FREE book THE LAST RESORT SUGAR DETOX GUIDE

Why do people become addicted to sex and love? Is it really just about physical desire, or is there something deeper? In this powerful episode, we speak with therapist Mike Vaughn, a leading expert on sex addiction recovery, to uncover the underlying issues behind these struggles. We discuss how trauma plays a major role in all forms of addiction, why shame keeps people silent, and how the world’s distortion of sex has led to unhealthy cycles of addiction. We also explore the deep emotional and relational wounds that often drive people toward sex and love addiction as a way to self-soothe or seek connection. Additionally, we address an important but often overlooked reality: women struggle with sexual addiction, too, yet many feel too ashamed to seek help. But there is hope. Recovery is possible, and healing begins with truth, grace, and a biblical understanding of sex as a gift from God. Whether you’re battling addiction, supporting a loved one, or simply curious about the topic, this episode offers real talk, biblical wisdom, and practical steps toward freedom.

Raised in an environment of brokenness and rejection, Patrick Quezada turned to addiction and the pursuit of an identity that left him empty. After years of battling same-sex attraction and crystal meth addiction, his struggles were compounded by the trauma of being sexually exploited by a pastor—an experience that deepened his wounds and highlighted the painful misunderstandings surrounding abuse and identity within church culture. But after a radical encounter with God, Patrick found true healing, freedom, and purpose. In this episode, we explore his powerful testimony, the impact of generational strongholds, and how the Serenity Prayer offers wisdom for  overcoming addiction, identity struggles, and deep spiritual wounds.

Patrick shares how faith transformed his life and how he now helps others find freedom. To learn more about his story, check out his book Open My Encrypted Heart, available at openmyencryptedheart.com. 

Lisa shares her incredible journey of walking away from a 23-year corporate career—a decision fueled by the heartbreak of losing her mother and best friend in less than a year. But what seemed like chaos at first turned into a divine invitation for transformation. Through grief, career upheaval, and soul-deep healing, Lisa discovered the beauty of trusting God with the unknown.

From redefining success beyond the 9-to-5 grind to finding comfort in programs like Celebrate Recovery, Lisa’s story is a testament to God’s ability to bring purpose from pain. If you’re navigating loss, burnout, or a major crossroads, this conversation will give you the hope and courage to embrace your God-led adventure!

What would you do if your darkest secrets were suddenly exposed? In this gripping episode, we dive deep into the life of Chad Gaines—a man who lived through unimaginable trauma, addiction, and self-destruction but refused to let his story end in tragedy. From abuse and bullying to surviving multiple suicide attempts, Chad’s journey is raw, real, and unforgettable.

His story is so powerful, Angel Studios is making a movie about it called Pocket of Hope. —and after hearing this episode, you’ll understand why. Chad takes us behind the scenes of his unrelenting fight for survival, the moments that brought him to the brink, and how he found the courage to rise above it all.

This episode doesn’t shy away from the hard truths, addressing topics like mental health, the aftermath of abuse, and the dangerous allure of addiction. It's not just a conversation; it’s a testament to human resilience and the will to fight for a better life.

⚠ Trigger Warning: This episode includes graphic discussions of suicide, abuse, and self-harm, which may be difficult for some listeners. Please listen with care.

Join us as we uncover the layers of Chad’s story and explore the deep scars—and incredible redemption—that define his journey. His raw honesty might just change the way you view survival, hope, and healing.

Don’t miss “A Will to Survive: The Chad Gaines Story.” Tune in now for one of the most powerful stories you’ll hear this year. Read Chad's book and find out about the movie here: https://www.gaineschad.com/

Lisa shares her personal journey of finding peace in the midst of disappointment and fear, offering practical ways to lean on God’s wisdom when life doesn’t go according to plan. Whether you’re managing a broken relationship, a missed opportunity, or a season of uncertainty, this conversation will encourage you to let go of control, embrace God’s plan, and discover serenity in the chaos.

If you’ve ever wondered how to find peace when life feels off course, this episode is for you. Tune in and take the first step toward acceptance, faith, and healing.

Join me, Jodie Stevens, and my husband, Aaron, as we kick off the Serenity Series on the Genuine Life Recovery Podcast. In this powerful first episode, we dive into the meaning behind the Serenity Prayer, read the entire prayer, and explore its practical application in everyday life. We share the intimate story of our own journey toward serenity, discussing how we’ve navigated life’s challenges, built trust, and found healing together. If you’re looking for hope, inspiration, and a deeper understanding of the Serenity Prayer’s impact on recovery, this episode is for you.

You guessed it, to celebrate 150 episodes, we Spill the Tea! I'm joined by Marva E'lane Dupree who is a mom, worship leader, coach, author, and speaker. Marva reveals her personal journey of healing from childhood trauma and finding her way back to deeper faith and living from her true center. Growing up as a pastor’s kid, Marva shares how early hurts, church expectations, and trauma left a lasting impact on her self-worth. She talks openly about the “false self” that many trauma survivors put on as a way to protect themselves and how reconnecting with God’s love helped her finally let go and embrace who she really is. Marva also offers insights on how faith communities can be safer, more welcoming places for those working through pain. This episode is a hopeful reminder that wherever you’re at in life, healing and transformation are possible. (And don't miss Marva sing a beautiful song at the end). Find out more about Marva and her work at MarvaElane.com and get a copy of her book Spilling the Tea here.

In this episode of Genuine Life Recovery, I'm joined by Bill Vanderbush, pastor and author of Reckless Grace; the Gift. The Mystery. The Embrace., to discuss the radical impact of grace and forgiveness in the journey of mental health and recovery. True recovery isn’t just about overcoming addiction or trauma, but finding our true identity in Christ. As Jesus restores God’s image in us, we begin to live authentically, free from shame, guilt, and the masks we once wore.

We also talk forgiveness and how it plays a central role in our restoration. Whether it’s forgiving others or forgiving ourselves, the power of grace transforms our recovery journey. Bill explains that we cannot forgive or heal in our own strength; it’s through surrender to God's 'reckless grace' that we find lasting healing.

Learn how grace allows us to release resentment—a root cause of relapse—and experience the freedom that comes from letting go of the need for earthly justice. This episode is a powerful reminder that grace, identity, and forgiveness are essential to living a life of recovery, mental health, and peace.

In this 'thought-provoking' episode, I’m joined by Barbara Grant who brings over 65 years of cumulative life experience with the neurodiverse mind through her relationships—both in marriages and with family members. Her insights are invaluable as we dive deep into the world of neurodiversity, unpacking what it means to be neurodivergent and the rich tapestry of minds that fall under this umbrella. From the creative thinker who sees the world through a unique lens to those facing everyday challenges, we’ll explore various types of neurodivergent experiences, including dyslexia (I will share my personal journey) and ADHD. Together, we'll shine a light on how these diverse minds approach creative thinking, addiction, and recovery. As we navigate the challenges and strengths inherent in neurodivergent brains, we’ll also discuss how the church can play a vital role in embracing and supporting these individuals. Join us for a fun, heartfelt, and informative discussion filled with insights, stories, and practical tips on how to foster understanding and acceptance within our communities!

Barbara has more than 25 years of experience in faith-based coaching, mentoring, and counseling and is a trained Biblical counselor with a Master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy. She was featured in the book Uniquely Us, which explores the complicated connection between Autism, Marriage, and Faith and provides a path forward for the neurodiverse couples.  

What happens when the image you see in the mirror doesn’t match who you are? In this raw and real episode, I sit down with author, spiritual coach, and recovery advocate Brit Eaton to unpack the heavy topic of body dysmorphia. We dive into how societal pressures, trauma, and even church messages can distort our view of ourselves. (Plus a few deep theological discussions). But it’s not all dark! Brit shares her powerful journey to healing through God’s grace and reveals how reclaiming her true identity changed everything. Whether you’ve struggled with body image or know someone who has, this episode will equip you with hope. Tune in to discover the power of grace in restoring how we see ourselves.

George Wood understands the broken, the addicted, and the "lost" because he has been one of them. George has survived multiple suicide attempts, abuse, trauma and is in long-term recovery from alcohol and drugs. 

In this episode George takes us through his transformative journey from addiction to authenticity. George opens up about his personal struggles with addiction and trauma, sharing how he found a path to healing through his unique approach, the Uncovery Method. We dive into his story of overcoming deep personal challenges and how he discovered new ways to heal beyond traditional methods. George also discusses the various recovery perspectives he’s encountered and how they’ve shaped his understanding of what it means to truly recover. 

Through his story, George offers insights into the challenges of healing from trauma and the various ways people can find genuine recovery. Whether you’re looking for new perspectives on healing or just interested in a powerful personal story, this episode will inspire you.

George Wood is a speaker, ministry leader, recovery advocate, and author of "The Uncovery, Understanding the Power of Community to Heal Trauma."

This episode is all about boundaries—the kind that help you maintain your mental and emotional health. We start by defining what boundaries are and why they’re crucial for everyone, especially those in recovery. We will talk about the types of people who struggle with boundaries and why. Next, we explore the different types of boundaries—emotional, physical, and even spiritual—and how to recognize where you might need stronger ones. We also discuss how boundaries evolve over time and how to adapt to those changes without compromising your well-being. With real-life examples and practical tips, you’ll learn how to communicate your boundaries clearly and effectively, even in challenging situations. Whether you’re new to setting boundaries or looking to refine your skills, this episode provides a guide to establishing boundaries in all areas of life.

Christian coach, author, and pastor Mark Collins joins us as we dive into faith, identity, and purpose. Mark shares his personal transformation from a career-focused life to one centered around God’s purpose. We explore the crucial role of identity in overcoming addiction and mental health challenges, discussing how embracing God’s love can lead to profound healing. Mark’s wisdom and experience is a guide for anyone struggling to understand their purpose and navigate life’s difficulties. Tune in for an insightful conversation as we mix personal stories with spiritual insights, offering hope and direction for those seeking to align their lives with their true calling.

In this episode I share my personal journey with addiction and recovery and break down the 11 signs of alcohol and drug addiction from the DSM-5, the guide used by mental health professionals. I'll explain these signs in simple terms and share how they showed up in my own life. From drinking more than planned to missing important events, I'll walk you through my struggles and the turning points that led me to seek help. Whether you're facing addiction yourself or know someone who is, this episode offers insights and hope. Tune in for an honest, heartfelt conversation about recognizing addiction and taking the first steps toward recovery.

In this episode, we dive into the pivotal role of triggers in the recovery process. Triggers are emotional and environmental cues that can spark intense emotions and lead us back into destructive behaviors like drinking, drug use, sex, shopping, gambling, or other addictions or emotional challenges. By understanding what triggers are and how they manifest, we can protect ourselves from relapse. We explore how triggers often stem from past experiences, particularly childhood trauma, and how they can manifest as emotions, thoughts, or physical sensations. This episode also delves into the power of incorporating faith and spirituality into recovery, offering hope and reassurance by recognizing God’s role in understanding our triggers. We discuss the importance of mindfulness and being present in the moment to recognize our triggers and make better choices. Through practical advice on developing healthy coping strategies, building a support network, and practicing self-compassion, learn valuable insights to help you navigate your recovery journey. Join us as we uncover how awareness and understanding of triggers can empower your path to healing and transformation.

Tune in as I talk with therapist, author, and recovery advocate Roger Marum about the journey of faith, recovery, and self-discovery. Growing up in a conservative evangelical family, Roger shares his personal story of breaking free from strict beliefs, struggling with identity, and dealing with alcohol use as an act of defiance. His honest account is a unique look into the challenges of keeping faith alive during doubt and recovery.

Roger discusses how the COVID-19 pandemic changed his practice, focusing on the shift to telehealth and how it has affected his relationships with clients. As the conversation unfolds, Roger talks about his turning point, where he embraced change through Alcoholics Anonymous and began seeking authenticity and self-acceptance.

Roger also shares insights into the importance of community support and creating a recovery path that works for each individual. His story highlights the power of embracing who you really are and building a closer relationship with God.

This episode is an inspiring listen for anyone on their own journey of healing and self-discovery, showing how resilience and faith can help us overcome life's challenges.

Curious about how addiction treatment plans are made? Episode 139 of "Genuine Life Recovery" is for you! We’re diving into the ASAM Criteria—a set of guidelines that treatment centers use to personalize care. We’ll talk about the six (plus one I added) key areas we look at, including your mental health, readiness to change, relapse potential, withdrawal, and living situation. This approach helps create a plan that fits your unique needs, making recovery more achievable. Whether you’re in recovery or supporting someone who is, this episode will give you the insights you need.

Join us for an intimate and enlightening conversation with Lisa Grantham, a survivor whose 20-year journey from addiction to sobriety offers amazing insights and inspiration. Listen as Lisa dives into the raw realities of addiction, the pivotal moments of transformation, and the strategies that have sustained her recovery.

Lisa opens up about her early struggles with alcohol, sharing how what started as a coping mechanism soon spiraled into a cycle of dependency and despair. She recounts her multiple attempts at recovery, the setbacks she faced, and the turning point that finally propelled her towards lasting sobriety.

We dive into Lisa's journey of recovery, discussing how faith and support from her community, along with the healing power of writing her memoir, have given her valuable lessons and stories that anyone facing similar challenges can relate to on a personal level.

We go beyond personal stories to explore bigger topics like how addiction affects the brain, why it’s crucial to heal from past trauma, and how recovery changes over time. Lisa’s journey shows how strong we can be, and gives listeners practical tips to take back control from addiction and start living again.

Whether you’re seeking guidance on supporting a loved one in recovery or navigating your own path towards sobriety, tune in to gain valuable perspectives, practical advice, and a renewed sense of hope from Lisa’s remarkable journey of healing and transformation.

This episode is a comprehensive look at codependency, far beyond its common association with enabling behavior. Discover how early family dynamics and attachment styles contribute to the development of codependent patterns, and understand the psychological mechanisms at play, such as a fragile sense of self, a need for control, and emotional suppression. We’ll examine how codependency affects romantic, familial, and platonic relationships, leading to imbalanced dynamics and personal sacrifices. More importantly, learn practical strategies for overcoming these patterns, from setting healthy boundaries and seeking therapy to building self-esteem, independence, and autonomy. Tune in and unravel the complexities of codependency, while gaining insights and tools to help you or someone you care about break free from its grip and cultivate healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

In this enlightening episode, we sit down with Steven Campbell, a professor, author, and speaker renowned for his work on brain retraining. Together, we explore the transformative power of replacing negative self-talk with positive affirmations. Steven shares personal stories and insights into how our brains believe everything we tell them, a concept known as neuroplasticity. We discuss practical tips for retraining your brain, emphasizing the importance of framing mental efforts as "replacement" rather than "change." Whether you're recovering from addiction, trauma, or low self-esteem, this episode offers valuable tools and hope for personal transformation. Tune in to learn how to actively manage your self-talk and reshape your self-image for a healthier, more positive mindset. Steven is the author of Making your Mind Magnificat and you can find it by clicking here. 

Tune in to this transformative episode as we dive into the five pillars of addiction recovery: Connectedness, Hope, Identity, Meaning, and Empowerment. Learn invaluable insights on building supportive relationships, fostering hope, reclaiming one's identity, finding purpose, and embracing empowerment. Through heartfelt discussions and biblical references, discover how to navigate the challenges of sobriety, develop coping strategies, and maintain a positive outlook. Whether you're in recovery or supporting someone who is, this episode offers practical advice and spiritual guidance to help you reclaim your life and build a better future.

Everything changed in a single moment of surrender. Alone in a hotel bathroom, with heroin in his hand, Mike cried out to God and experienced a divine intervention. The next morning, he woke up without the expected withdrawal symptoms, igniting a profound faith that would guide his recovery journey.

Mike's story is one of relentless perseverance, deep faith, and the transformative power of community. Through intensive Christ-centered therapy, supportive faith communities, and a commitment to personal growth, Mike overcame his addiction and rebuilt his life. Today, he is a successful entrepreneur, a devoted husband, and a passionate advocate for recovery.

Tune in to hear Mike’s candid reflections on addiction, faith, and healing, and discover how his journey from the depths of despair to a life of purpose can inspire and guide others on their own paths to redemption. Click here to connect with Mike and read his book called Reinvented. 

Tune in as we unravel the intricacies of shame's impact on addiction and recovery. Through reflections, personal stories and insights, discover the difference between false guilt and shame, confront the roots of shame, and learn practical strategies for overcoming its grip. Explore the power of forgiveness, self-compassion, and authentic self-discovery in breaking free from shame's suffocating embrace. Let this episode guide you towards a life of genuine recovery and authenticity.

Join us on this episode of Genuine Life Recovery as we delve into the heartbreaking yet inspiring story of Tonya Doucette, founder of Project Trey. Tonya opens up about the loss of her son, Trey, to fentanyl poisoning in 2020 and how it led her to start Project Trey. Dedicated to educating families about the dangers of fentanyl and other drugs, Project Trey aims to prevent tragedies like Trey's from happening to others.

In this emotional conversation, Tanya shares Trey's journey with addiction, emphasizes the importance of community awareness and support. She discusses the devastating impact of fentanyl, a synthetic drug increasingly prevalent in today's society, and highlights the urgent need for education and Narcan availability.

Through faith and resilience, Tonya finds strength to turn her pain into purpose, advocating for change and offering hope to those affected by addiction. Listen in as she shares valuable insights and resources to empower families and save lives. 

In this episode, we dig into the world of medication-assisted treatment (MAT) for addiction recovery. Join us as we explore MAT, including the types of medications used, the pros and cons, how they act in the brain, and their role in facilitating recovery. By combining pharmacological interventions with counseling, behavioral therapies, and addressing underlying mental health challenges, MAT can help individuals on their journey towards long-term recovery. Tune in to discover how MAT enhances treatment outcomes, reduces relapse rates, and provides a comprehensive solution for those navigating addiction recovery.

In this episode I'm joined by addiction counselor, mental health therapist, and author Eric Fisher. Join us as we dive into the complex landscape of addiction and recovery, untangling the journey individuals face when grappling with addiction and the professionals guiding them towards healing. From understanding the role of faith and community connections to exploring assessment processes and levels of care, we navigate the multifaceted approach needed in addiction therapy. Join us as we challenge stigma surrounding addiction and medication, emphasizing the importance of boundaries and self-value in the journey towards healing. We also explore the interplay between addiction, mental health, and treatment strategies, discussing the effectiveness of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and intensive therapies like Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) in trauma treatment. Eric's book The Martial Art of Recovery: Self-Mastery Practices to Subdue Addiction and Achieve Mental Wellness comes out in May!

Embark on a journey of empowerment and transformation as we unveil seven tips for maintaining sobriety. In this episode, we dive into practical strategies and wisdom to guide you through the challenges of recovery. 

From the importance of self-awareness to the transformative power of seeking help, each tip will help you navigate the path to sobriety. We explore the role of emotions in addiction, uncovering how self-awareness can empower you to recognize and manage triggers effectively. Discover the value of embracing serenity and surrendering control, as we delve into the principles of acceptance and faith.

Join us as we discuss the significance of self-efficacy in overcoming obstacles and achieving lasting sobriety. From setting achievable goals to cultivating confidence, each tip serves as a stepping stone towards a life of fulfillment and freedom from addiction. Whether you're at the beginning of your recovery journey or seeking to enhance your sobriety, these seven tips will empower you to thrive on the path to lasting recovery.

In this enlightening episode, I'm joined by Myra Richards, a seasoned counselor with expertise in addiction and trauma recovery. Together, we delve into the role of emotions in recovering from addiction and trauma, sharing practical tips for identifying emotions and understanding how they relate to past trauma. By drawing from various treatment methods like EMDR and spiritual practices, we show how emotional awareness can lead to healing. Drawing parallels between Christian and secular counseling modalities, we highlight the shared emphasis on compassion, empathy, and holistic treatment approaches. Whether you're on your own journey of self-discovery or supporting someone else, this episode offers hope and guidance, emphasizing the importance of spirituality and embracing emotions as part of the healing process. Tune in to unravel the complexities of addiction recovery and cultivate resilience on the path to wholeness. For more information about Myra Richards and her counseling services, visit remainconnectedllc.com

Tune in for a deep dive into addiction in this episode, where we break down its complexities and discuss effective treatment options. We demystify addiction, clearing up common misunderstandings and shining a light on its different types, from substance misuse to behavioral addictions.

Through conversation and insights, we explore addiction's impact on individuals and society at large. From decoding the diagnostic criteria for Substance Use Disorder (SUD) to examining how trauma influences addiction, we provide a full picture of addiction and the road to recovery.

Join us as we journey through various treatment methods, from medical detox to therapy and support groups. Learn how these strategies tackle addiction from all angles – biological, psychological, social, and spiritual – empowering individuals to take back control of their lives and find healing.

Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of addiction, cultivate empathy, and witness the life-changing power of recovery. Let's unravel the complexities of addiction together and embark on a journey toward understanding and healing.

Join us for a powerful episode as we dive into the heartbreaking story of Marcus, a young man whose life was tragically cut short by a fentanyl overdose. Through a heartfelt conversation with Tracy Norris, Marcus's mother, we explore the early years of Marcus's life. Tracy shares her journey as a single mother and the challenges she faced in raising Marcus amidst turbulent circumstances.

As Marcus's story unfolds, we discuss the harsh realities of addiction and the horrifying threat posed by fentanyl. Tracy's advocacy for awareness and prevention serves as a beacon of hope amid the darkness of loss, inspiring action at both the individual and societal levels.

Listen in as we examine the root causes of addiction, the challenges of navigating treatment and rehabilitation, and the urgent need for proactive measures to combat the fentanyl epidemic. From destigmatizing addiction to empowering communities with education and resources, Tracy's message resonates with a call to action for change.

Tune in to gain insights, perspective, and inspiration as we honor Marcus's memory and work towards a future where lives are valued, and tragedies are prevented. You can find out more about Tracy's advocacy work and her book Shadows of Grief by clicking HERE. 

Tune in as we explore the profound impact of gratitude on the journey of recovery and beyond. In this show, we delve into the heart of gratitude, uncovering its essence beyond mere thankfulness.

Join us as we navigate through personal reflections and expert insights, exploring how gratitude serves as a guiding light in the face of life's challenges. From addiction to trauma, adversity to recovery, discover how practicing gratitude can shift our perspectives, attitudes, and relationships.

We will unravel the layers of gratitude, understanding its role in healing, restoration, and hope. Through shared experiences and uplifting stories, we'll explore how cultivating gratitude can transform despair into joy, wounds into healing, and uncertainty into possibility.

This episode offers practical wisdom, heartfelt encouragement, scriptures, and actionable steps towards embracing gratitude as a way of life. Join us on the path to healing, renewal, and transformation through the power of gratitude.

Tune in for a heartfelt conversation as Celebrate Recovery's Regional Director Jeff Redmond shares his remarkable journey from the depths of addiction to a life filled with purpose and faith, all thanks to Celebrate Recovery. This isn't just any recovery program—it's a lifeline for those seeking healing and transformation. Join us as we peel back the layers of Celebrate Recovery, exploring its powerful principles and the impact it's had on Jeff's life. But that's not all! Jeff also shares about the upcoming Leadership Summit at Bayside Church. This summit is for anyone with a heart to bring hope and healing to their community. If you've ever considered bringing Celebrate Recovery to your church or simply want to learn more about leading change in your neighborhood, this episode is for you. Don't miss out on this inspiring conversation about faith, resilience, and the power of community to change lives.

In Episode 123 - Part 2, join us for an amazing discussion with Therapist and Addiction Counselor Betsy Byler as we dig into the intricacies of addiction treatment.

If you've ever grappled with the idea of addiction treatment for yourself or a loved one, this episode is a must-listen. Betsy shares invaluable insights and advice, offering guidance on what to expect and how to navigate the journey towards recovery.

From understanding the nuances of clinical assessments to demystifying the processes of detox, inpatient versus outpatient treatment, and addressing co-occurring disorders, Betsy equips listeners with essential knowledge to make informed decisions.

Discover the significance of referrals, the importance of aftercare planning, and gain a deeper understanding of what unfolds within the realm of addiction treatment. Whether you're seeking answers for yourself or seeking support for a loved one, this episode provides a comprehensive guide to navigating the path towards healing.

Tune in and empower yourself with the tools and understanding needed to embark on the journey of addiction treatment with confidence and clarity.

In Episode 122 - Part 1, join us as we journey through the transformative story of Betsy Byler, a remarkable individual who transitioned from battling addiction as a teenager to becoming a beacon of hope as a counselor and therapist.

Betsy's story unfolds as she shares her tumultuous journey of seeking help, from enduring numerous therapists to finding solace in one who changed her life forever. Delve into the pivotal moments that propelled Betsy towards her calling, as she reflects on her own struggles with addiction and the profound impact they had on shaping her career path.

Discover the insights of a seasoned trauma therapist and addiction counselor, as Betsy sheds light on her personal experiences, from recognizing early signs of addictive behavior to navigating the path to sobriety and professional fulfillment.

In Part 1, we explore Betsy's compelling story, offering a glimpse into her resilience and determination to overcome adversity. Stay tuned for Part 2, where we delve deeper into practical guidance for parents grappling with addicted children and unravel the intricacies of assessment and treatment for substance use. Tune in and be inspired by Betsy's journey of triumph and transformation. 

In this episode, we uncover the truths behind relapse, debunking common misconceptions and highlighting its role as a normal part of the journey towards sobriety. From understanding the abstinence violation effect to embracing self-compassion amidst setbacks, we navigate the emotional terrain of relapse with empathy and insight. Join us as we discuss the power of support systems, the transformative potential of the Serenity Prayer, and the importance of confronting underlying trauma in the recovery process. Whether you're a recovering addict, a concerned loved one, or simply curious about the realities of addiction recovery, this podcast offers valuable perspectives and practical guidance for navigating the ebb and flow of the journey with courage and resilience.

Step into the world of trauma and addiction recovery with our latest podcast episode, where we explore the impact of emotional masks on our lives. Join us as we embark on a journey of healing and self-discovery with special guest Jocelyn Jones, who shares her personal insights and experiences. From confronting societal pressures to embracing vulnerability, discover the importance of authenticity in breaking free from the grips of perfectionism. Tune in for inspiring stories and advice on reclaiming yourself and finding wholeness in the midst of adversity. Click here to find out more about Jocelyn, get a copy of her book, and discover free healing resources. 

Tune in as I explore what surrender means and why it's so important in the journey to stop addictive habits. From a biblical perspective, I discuss how surrender is about trusting a higher power.

Throughout the show, I will share stories about letting go of control, dealing with difficult emotions, and finding courage in recovery. I also touch on the challenges of depending on others, especially if there's been past hurt.

The podcast looks at the connection between surrender and finding peace, echoing the idea of the serenity prayer. Learn why surrender is a brave choice, not a weakness, and how it's a daily practice - a courageous step toward healing.

The episode explores recovery tools like acceptance and commitment therapy, highlighting how surrender can be a powerful force in transforming lives.

Tune in and explore the power of surrender on the road to recovery.

Join us for an eye-opening podcast where David Zailer shares the impact of childhood trauma and addiction. He bravely opens up about facing sexual abuse within the church and growing up with a narcissistic parent. Join us on his journey, from developing coping mechanisms to the turning point in therapy. Discover how literature and faith played key roles in his recovery, offering relatable insights from scripture. Dive into discussions on family struggles, gaslighting, and the transformative power of ongoing growth. This show is a beacon of hope, guiding you through a compelling journey from brokenness to redemption. It's a must-listen for anyone navigating their own path of recovery and self-discovery. Check out David's books here.

Delve into self-discovery with Beneath the Surface. This episode questions societal norms and will help you untangle the threads of external influences that tend to shape our identities. Drawing from personal victories over addiction and co-dependency, I share insights and practical tools to help you uncover your authentic self. Join us on this introspective journey as we navigate the intricacies of authenticity and reclaim our unique identity, the one God created us to be. 

Join us as we delve into the intimate and often muted struggles within marriages, centering on the powerful narrative of Rosie Makinney as she navigates her husband's porn addiction. Join us as we peel back the layers of challenges, resilience, and healing in this captivating story.

The journey commences before marriage, with Rosie reflecting on her past relationship with an unrepentant porn addict. Despite desperate attempts to salvage that relationship, all efforts prove futile, leading to a transformative moment empowered by the Holy Spirit. Fast forward to a foreign country, where Rosie encounters her future husband at a church gathering, despite his admission of past struggles with porn.

The honeymoon phase transforms into a trial, revealing red flags reminiscent of Rosie's past. Seeking help, they uncover her husband's sex addiction, prompting a bold decision that becomes a pivotal point in their journey to recovery. Embark on an exploration of the multifaceted impact of porn addiction on intimacy within a marriage, shedding light on coping mechanisms and the path to healing.

Engage in a profound conversation about the intricacies of intimacy, addiction, and healing within the context of marriage. It unfolds as a story of resilience and hope, dismantling the walls of silence and stigma surrounding sensitive topics. Join us in fostering understanding and empathy for those encountering similar challenges in their relationships. Find out more about Rosie's ministry here:  https://fightforloveministries.org/

Embark on a transformative journey through Dry January with Genuine Life Recovery, where we explore the intersection of coping strategies, biblical principles, and personal growth. In this episode, we delve into the significance of abstaining from alcohol (and other substances), the importance of finding alternative coping mechanisms, and the role of faith in building resilience.

Join us as we discuss the challenges individuals face when replacing old habits with healthier coping strategies. Discover the power of mindfulness, exercise, journaling, and other constructive activities that not only aid in overcoming temptations but also contribute to emotional well-being.

We explore the profound impact of relying on God for strength during Dry January. Uncover the role of prayer, biblical teachings, and community support in creating a solid foundation for a successful sobriety journey. We share relevant scriptures and practical techniques for incorporating prayer into moments of weakness, emphasizing the unique connection between spirituality and recovery.

This podcast takes a closer look at the health benefits—both physical and mental—of participating in Dry January. From improved sleep quality to enhanced mental clarity and better liver health, we discuss the positive transformations that can result from a month of abstinence.

Learn about incorporating new coping strategies, from exercise and mindfulness to volunteering and music therapy. Discover how building a supportive community and engaging in self-reflection are key components in celebrating achievements, adjusting goals, and fostering personal growth throughout the month.

Whether you're navigating Dry January for the first time or seeking fresh perspectives on your sobriety journey, this podcast offers valuable insights, practical tips, and uplifting stories. Tune in to explore the holistic approach to sobriety that combines coping strategies, biblical principles, and a commitment to personal well-being.

Delve into the profound significance of uncovering one's God-given purpose. In this enlightening podcast, I am joined by Shariz Saddique—an accomplished author, speaker, and the visionary founder of Christian Business Harvest, dedicated to helping individuals tap into their God-given capacities. Together, we navigate the intricate landscapes of recovery, mental health, and faith, unveiling the unique strengths inherent in each person.

We go beyond the ordinary in our conversation, delving into the power of purpose-driven healing. Through riveting stories and profound discussions, discover how aligning with one's God-given purpose becomes not just a choice but a compelling necessity on the journey to healing, recovery, and mental strength. Immerse yourself in the conversation, unraveling the idea that finding one's purpose is not merely a goal but a fundamental cornerstone in the quest for enduring mental resilience.

In this captivating podcast, I'm joined by my husband Aaron as we explore addiction and recovery through our combined 39 years of sobriety. With a focus on the elusive concept of a cure for addiction, the episode navigates through scientific, psychological, and spiritual dimensions. Can addiction truly be cured? We share our personal journey's, emphasizing the ongoing nature of recovery and the importance of surrender and community support. Uncover the role of spirituality in rewiring the brain and the transformative power of seeking meaning and purpose. This podcast challenges preconceptions, offering a nuanced perspective on the perpetual pursuit of victory over addiction.

In this episode of Genuine Life Recovery, we welcome you to a transformative journey of self-discovery and healing with Dr. Mark McNear. As a licensed clinical social worker and author of "Finding My Words: A Ruthless Commitment to Healing Gently after Trauma," Dr. McNear shares his personal journey of overcoming trauma, abuse, and addiction. Join me as I engage in an intimate conversation with Dr. McNear, delving into the profound impact of trauma on addiction and the healing power of faith. Together, we explore practical daily practices for regulating physical, mental, and emotional well-being, offering insights into the holistic approach necessary for recovery.

Embark on a transformative journey with me as I delve into the intricate layers of identity in this episode. Navigating through the challenges of addiction and codependency, we explore the profound concept of self-discovery. Drawing wisdom from "The Gift of Being Yourself" by David Banner, we uncover the transformative power that lies in truly knowing oneself and God.

Through transparent introspection, I share my experiences of shedding the false self—the mask we wear to seek approval—and embracing the authentic self. Join me in the exploration of Ephesians 2 and John Calvin's insights, where true wisdom unfolds in understanding God and oneself. In this narrative, we confront the harsh truth crucial for healing: the struggle for redemption and the impact of external factors on our identity.

This podcast is an exploration of acknowledging personal worth, dismantling self-sufficiency, and confronting the pervasive fear of rejection rooted in shame. Ultimately, it's a testament to the enduring hope found in God's redemptive love, guiding us towards genuine self-identity in Christ.

I'm joined by my lifelong friend Lisa Weiss Williams as we discuss Celebrate Recovery and its impact on Lisa's life. Join us as we pull back the curtains on our own experiences, sharing raw moments of transformation. From the wild landscapes of Alaska to the heart of our own recoveries, we're diving into the power of programs like Celebrate Recovery. Tune in for insights into the transformative power of this program and how it provides a Christ-centered approach to healing. 

My husband's life journey encompassed a battle with alcohol addiction, prompting severe health complications and a quest for sustained sobriety. Facing immense health issues at 325 pounds in his early thirties, he encountered numerous hurdles and began his journey to sobriety amidst despair and declining health.

Early Struggles and Recognition of Addiction

His tryst with alcohol began at the young age of 14, signaling an early onset of problematic drinking behavior. Throughout his teenage years, the consequences of his drinking were profound, and signs of alcoholism emerged early. Despite the evident struggle, achieving sobriety seemed like an insurmountable task, leading to multiple failed attempts.

Nature vs. Nurture: Unraveling the Roots of Addiction

His story delves into the complexity of addiction, exploring the interplay between genetic predisposition and environmental influences. Understanding the impact of his upbringing, personal experiences, and the amalgamation of nature and nurture were pivotal in comprehending the depth of his substance abuse struggle.

The Journey to Sobriety: Surrender and Self-Reflection

For my husband, the turning point was surrender – a critical moment that ignited change. Acknowledging the need for transformation, he reflected on the destructive patterns in his life, striving for a deeper understanding of his addiction's root causes. Taking responsibility for personal growth became a fundamental step in his journey.

Recovery Tools and Coping Mechanisms

Throughout his journey, my husband discovered the significance of recovery tools, spiritual growth, self-reflection, and gratitude in maintaining sobriety. Consistent efforts in these areas became cornerstones in his sustained recovery.

Challenges Along the Way

Recently, a necessary surgery and prescribed pain medication shook his decades-long sobriety, triggering unexpected cravings. Despite the temptation, his steadfast commitment to sobriety and his coping mechanisms enabled him to resist further use. This experience highlighted the enduring challenges of addiction, even after years of sobriety.

Conclusion: Perseverance and Continuous Growth

His journey depicts the ongoing battle against addiction, emphasizing the significance of resilience, continual self-improvement, and the power of choice in maintaining sobriety. The voyage toward overcoming addiction is portrayed as an enduring process, comprising surrender, self-reflection, and perpetual spiritual and personal growth.

Robin Padilla with Damsel in Defense shares her story of surviving domestic violence as a child and escaping an abusive marriage. Learn the impact of childhood trauma in adulthood; character traits of someone capable of domestic violence; the cycle of abuse; mental vs physical self-defense, and what perpetrators look for in a victim. Plus, Robin will share (and demonstrate) safety/self-defense tools for women for general protection or for those trying to escape a violent relationship. Learn about protection products or how to become a safety educator at DefendableMe.com.

In this episode we are talking about acceptance. What does it mean to practice acceptance? What are we actually supposed to accept and why? And... why is acceptance so important in the recovery process?

Learn four huge components of acceptance:

1. Asking for help

2. Forgiveness

3. Living with things we can’t change

4. Surrendering to God

I will share real life examples from my own life as I had to learn to practice acceptance throughout my sobriety and difficult times. 

We are in a massive mental health crisis in America, and facing an even worse addiction and opioid epidemic. In addition to being addicted, so many others are drifting through life sad, depressed, hopeless and lacking meaning and purpose in their lives. In this episode we dive into why, and how discovering our higher calling is so vital in the recovery process and how it helps nurture our lives. Learn about some important people who have made a huge impact in our world through finding meaning and purpose, even during horrific pain and tragedy and how it saved their lives. Find out how this concept is cultivated in recovery; and how faith in God and the good news of the gospel takes this idea to an entirely different level, one of eternal perspective.

Tanya was not only lost in her addiction, she was living a life of lies and deceit to hide her shame and feelings of inadequacy. In this episode Tanya gets REAL about her past! She shares what it took to get sober and HONEST about her life and recovery. Tanya also reveals the family dynamics that led to her addictive behaviors and the underlying mental and emotional challenges. Learn about the importance of community and how Tanya found new coping strategies and recovery techniques. Today Tanya is a wife, mom, and woman in recovery who has turned her own struggles with addiction into a powerful mission to bring hope and healing to others. Click here to find out more about her program Radiant Redemption. 

It is said in the rooms of recovery that resentment is the number one killer. Forgiveness is imperative in the recovery process and it is also instrumental in good mental health. However, many people struggle to forgive because they think it means they have to open the door to that person and risk being hurt all over again. In this episode you will learn the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation. You will also learn how to forgive and how you know when you have forgiven! 

In the last several years fentanyl has killed more individuals than guns and auto accident alone. Last year the DEA seized enough fentanyl to kill every American. In this powerful episode Rocky Herron shares insight gained from 31 years of experience as a DEA Special Agent investigating drug trafficking at the local, national, and international levels. Rocky has also spent 16 years teaching drug prevention in 700 plus presentations in 14 different countries. You will learn about fentanyl, where it is coming from, how to protect your family, how to educate them on prevention, and tons more!   

Former NFL star Randy Grimes shares his story of drug addiction that started during his NFL career due to injuries and the pressure to perform through pain. He shares about the downward spiral of addiction and playing nationally televised games in a blackout. Randy shares what finally led him into recovery literally crawling on his hands and knees. Learn about the pressure to perform in the NFL, the enabling environment, the nature of opioid addiction, God’s power in Randy’s life and more. Today Randy has been sober almost 14 years and has founded Athletes in recovery, helping athletes overcome addictions. You can read more about Randy’s story in his book Off Center RX.

Is there a moral cause for addiction? Is addiction a disease? Can it be both? In this episode I'm joined by Michael Cossette who is a retired pharmaceutical chemist, author, scientist, and recovery advocate. We discuss God, science, and addiction and how they all fit together, or not. Michael shares his story of recovery and we examine the "war within ourselves" discussed in Romans 7:15-25 - wanting to do what is right and failing. We also talk about the importance of love and connection in the recovery process; what it means to suffer in silence; and the possibility that we are on the cusp of a major paradigm shift in the world of recovery understanding and treatment.

Turning to drugs and alcohol for comfort is a common and understandable response to childhood trauma. One of the reasons this is so common is that trauma victims are ‘taught’ through abuse and neglect that they are powerless over their circumstances and the trajectory of their lives. In this episode, author and speaker Teresa Nickell shares the grueling circumstances that paved the way for addiction, homelessness, incarceration and more. With God’s help, a solid recovery program, and a loving sponsor, Teresa was able to turn her life around and become victorious and incredibly successful! Tune in as we explore the intersection between trauma and addiction; the difference between being a victim and ‘using it’ to get our needs met; how to practice acceptance around things we are powerless over; and learning how to overcome the victim mentality so that we CAN make decisions and ask for our needs. Today, Teresa Nickell is an inspirational speaker, entrepreneur, and author of the powerful book The Girl is your wallet.

Porn and sex addiction nearly cost Timothy everything including his family. Thanks to God's amazing grace and hard work, Timothy was able to overcome his addiction, turn his life around, and now he is helping men all over the world do the same. In this episode Timothy shares what his life was like during the darkest point of his addiction and the moment he got 'exposed' and everything changed. Today Timothy is a coach, author, chaplain, and founder of Into the Wilderness Ministries. We will also answer and discuss the following questions:

What is porn addiction about?

Is porn addiction about sex?

What is sexualizing emotions?

How do I heal from porn/sex addiction?

Why do so many people relapse? 

How is the church handling the issue of pornography and what can they do better?

What is the church not teaching about sex and what do they miss about this issue?

Is there a difference between porn addiction and other addictions? 

Is God mad at me because of my porn addiction?

Why is porn so bad in our world today and why is it such a problem?

Why would young men in their twenties and thirties need Viagra and other erectile dysfunction drugs?

How do you heal and move past the images and re-wire your brain?

Have you ever felt like no matter how hard you try, you just can't seem to give up your addiction or life controlling habit? I have been there too. In this episode I will share how God freed me from my addiction to drugs and alcohol; and how I was able to work through the underlying issues of anger, anxiety, shame, low self-esteem, and more. You will come away understanding the paradox of powerlessness; how to surrender to gain back your power; the three enemies of our soul as described in the bible; the self run on self will vs the self guided by the Holy Spirit; the cycle of addiction and how to break it; and the first step toward developing better coping skill so we no longer need to turn to our addiction or habit.

The secrecy of porn addiction keeps many people trapped in shame, secrecy, darkness, and pain. In this episode author, speaker, coach, and porn addiction overcomer Caleb Harris shares his story of deliverance. "You can't move on from what you don't address" says Caleb. Join us as we explore the similarities in all addictions; finding identity and recovery in community; the importance of accountability; learning through relapse; surrendering our addiction and control issues; porn addiction and the church, and much more. We examine all these issues and more with a biblical perspective. 

What happens in an addiction treatment center? If you or a loved one is struggling with an addiction, you may have asked yourself this question. Having a basic knowledge of what happens in a recovery center and what clinicians should be looking for, can help you determine the best course of treatment for you or your loved one. In this episode I will explain the process and importance of an assessment/screening and how a counselor, therapist, or coach determines the best course of treatment. 

I am joined by author, speaker and bible teacher Shadia Hrichi who shares her story of teen pregnancy and abortion. She takes us on a journey into the trauma, shame and secrecy that often comes after an abortion and how her life spiraled out of control into drugs, alcohol, and an abusive marriage. She shares how God grabbed her heart, turned her life around, and showed her the difference between forgiveness and healing. Learn how Shadia overcame her past and became the successful author and speaker she is today. “It’s ok to regret our poor choices but we don’t live in shame because that dishonors the cross” – Shadia Hrichi

What happens when your past comes careening back and you realize your abuser and your protector are one in the same? In this episode Cindy Benezra talks about being sexually abused by her father, how she suppressed it, and how it all came flooding back. Cindy shares about the process of writing through trauma, how she eventually confronted her father, and how he confessed it. Learn about the denial and dysfunctional dynamics that permeate families with abuse. Find out how Cindy healed from the PTSD of her childhood, the tools she used, and how she was able to forgive her father in the end. Cindy wrote a powerful memoir called Under the Orange Blossom and today her mission is to be a voice to normalize speaking about sexual abuse and give hope to others that their story matters and healing is possible. She is founder of the Cindy Talks platform where she discusses healing tools and stories of hope for other trauma survivors.

In this show we talk about narcissistic abuse and so much more. I’m joined by my friend Christy Johnson who shares her experience living in an abusive marriage for 18 years and how she finally got out. You will learn about Narcissist abuse, what it looks like and how confusing it is-and how the abuser twists things around and tries to make themselves look like the victim when they are the abuser. Learn about the importance of knowing your identity in Christ; the importance of community; how to respond to abuse; and of course-how NOT to ignore your instincts.  

Trauma bonding is a psychological response to emotional, physical, and even spiritual abuse. In this episode I’m joined by Simon Andrade, host of the Free and Redeemed podcast. Tune is as we dive into the topic of trauma bonding. Learn what trauma bonding is and what causes it. Find out how addiction and trauma bonding are connected and how we know if we are in a trauma bond. You will also hear biblical examples of trauma bonds and the phases of abuse within trauma bonding relationships.  

What do you do when you keep trying to help your kids and nothing is working? What happens to our kids when we continue to rescue them? What does being a ‘fixer’ parent teach our kids about themselves? Is ‘tough love’ the answer and does it even work? How can we love and support our kids who are struggling and still take care of ourselves? In this episode author Maureen Towns shares her journey as a mom of children with addiction and mental illness. Learn how she found freedom from the co-dependent relating patterns that were damaging her and hurting her relationships. Gain a clearer understanding of codependency and how it manifests. Listen as she shares the difference between boundaries and rules. If you have tried everything and feel ‘broken open,’ hopeless and confused this is the episode for you. Maureen provides experienced care for struggling families. She is author of the book Broken Open-A Mother’s Journey to Survive Her Children’s Addiction and Mental Illness: “Filled with rich true stories from a mother who fought to put her family on a sober path, Broken Open is your path back to calm. 

Everything you need to know about teenagers, addiction, and substance use and abuse is in this episode with therapist, addiction counselor, and author Richard Capriola. In this episode you will learn:

What is happening with teens and substance use before and after the pandemic.

The difference between adult addiction and teen addiction.

The types of substances kid and teens are using and experimenting with today.

The importance of a comprehensive assessment.

The danger of delaying treatment and assessment.

The critical impact of early intervention.

How to talk to your kids about drugs.

What questions to ask a treatment provider.

What to look for in a good treatment provider,

Richard’s book is called The Addicted Child – A Parents Guide to Adolescent Substance Abuse. Find it here:  https://helptheaddictedchild.com/