Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving Conflicts https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com Are you feeling distant from your spouse while living under the same roof?
Frustrated about the increasing misunderstandings or tension in your marriage?
Do you have a longing desire to feel heard & understood but can’t seem to get through to your spouse?
Wish you spent more time connecting with your spouse instead of engaging in arguments that drain your energy?

If you can relate, you’re not alone.

Building a thriving marriage in these modern times takes hard work. When you add the responsibilities and demands of a growing career, family life, and the other stressors & unexpected challenges that sometimes show up, it can seem almost impossible…but it doesn’t have to be!

Hi, we are David and Ebun, son and daughter of the King, a married couple who are still best friends, and parents of three. After being married for over a decade —while also navigating 3 major family relocations, job losses, financial challenges & major health challenges along the way— we know first-hand some of the challenges couples face in our modern world.

We know what it’s like to feel disconnected as a couple while juggling the demands of work, life, and parenthood because we’ve been there. We also know what it feels like to become more intentional in our marriage and achieve a deeper level of connection & intimacy in a long-term marital relationship.

Yet, through it all, we’ve not only grown stronger as a couple but also as individuals. How did we get here? Get ready to find out because we can’t wait to share what we’ve learned, unlearned, relearned, and continue to learn on this journey.

Welcome to the Reconnected Marriage Partners Podcast!

In this podcast, you will find practical strategies to help you improve communication with your spouse, express your needs clearly, resolve conflicts without fighting, and manage disagreements in more productive ways so you can deepen your connection & understanding of each other, work smarter as a team and feel valued in your relationship. You’ll discover actionable tips & simple systems to help you spend more quality time together while living in a busy & distracted world so you can continue to strengthen your bond, increase intimacy, and stay connected over the years. You will also find life-changing biblical encouragement & inspiration on how to live more intentionally and rise up courageously in your life & marriage while keeping God at the Center.

If you’re tired of growing apart and ready to grow closer as a couple while experiencing more peace, harmony & unity in your home, then you’ve come to the right place! We invite you to join us on this journey, get ready to be inspired and gain valuable marital tips along the way as you take the next courageous step in building the stronger marriage you truly desire!
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[Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy, psychological advice or professional medical care. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance].

]]> Thu, 09 Apr 2026 03:00:00 -0600 https://podbean.com/?v=5.5 en Copyright 2022 All rights reserved. Society & Culture:Relationships 1440 episodic Are you feeling distant from your spouse while living under the same roof? Frustrated about the increasing misunderstandings or tension in your marriage? Do you have a longing desire to feel heard & understood but can’t seem to get through to your spouse? Wish you spent more time connecting with your spouse instead of engaging in arguments that drain your energy? If you can relate, you’re not alone. Building a thriving marriage in these modern times takes hard work. When you add the responsibilities and demands of a growing career, family life, and the other stressors & unexpected challenges that sometimes show up, it can seem almost impossible…but it doesn’t have to be! Hi, we are David and Ebun, son and daughter of the King, a married couple who are still best friends, and parents of three. After being married for over a decade —while also navigating 3 major family relocations, job losses, financial challenges & major health challenges along the way— we know first-hand some of the challenges couples face in our modern world. We know what it’s like to feel disconnected as a couple while juggling the demands of work, life, and parenthood because we’ve been there. We also know what it feels like to become more intentional in our marriage and achieve a deeper level of connection & intimacy in a long-term marital relationship. Yet, through it all, we’ve not only grown stronger as a couple but also as individuals. How did we get here? Get ready to find out because we can’t wait to share what we’ve learned, unlearned, relearned, and continue to learn on this journey. Welcome to the Reconnected Marriage Partners Podcast! In this podcast, you will find practical strategies to help you improve communication with your spouse, express your needs clearly, resolve conflicts without fighting, and manage disagreements in more productive ways so you can deepen your connection & understanding of each other, work smarter as a team and feel valued in your relationship. You’ll discover actionable tips & simple systems to help you spend more quality time together while living in a busy & distracted world so you can continue to strengthen your bond, increase intimacy, and stay connected over the years. You will also find life-changing biblical encouragement & inspiration on how to live more intentionally and rise up courageously in your life & marriage while keeping God at the Center. If you’re tired of growing apart and ready to grow closer as a couple while experiencing more peace, harmony & unity in your home, then you’ve come to the right place! We invite you to join us on this journey, get ready to be inspired and gain valuable marital tips along the way as you take the next courageous step in building the stronger marriage you truly desire! .....................………………………………………......................... ➡️ Have questions about coaching? Pls send a quick email to coach@happymarriedfamily.com to schedule a 15mins free discovery call! ❓For other questions/inquiries: -Email:coach@happymarriedfamily.com [Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy, psychological advice or professional medical care. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance]. Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists No false https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/14280036/Podcast_Cover_Art_RMP_Updated_June_3_2025_74s5v.jpg Reconnected Marriage Partners | Communicate Effectively, Sexual Intimacy, Expectations, Quality Time, Resolving Conflicts https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com 144 144 EP 203 \\ When Your Spouse Isn’t Listening: 2 Communication Mistakes That Could Be Getting in the Way EP 203 \\ When Your Spouse Isn’t Listening: 2 Communication Mistakes That Could Be Getting in the Way https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/when-your-spouse-isnt-listening-communication-mistakes/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/when-your-spouse-isnt-listening-communication-mistakes/#comments Thu, 09 Apr 2026 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/08dabd80-4996-3a7e-abd8-278aa26870db Hi friend,

Have you ever tried to express something important to your spouse—only to feel like your words aren’t landing? That disconnect can be incredibly frustrating, especially when all you want is to feel heard, seen, and understood by the person you love.

Over the years, we've realized that sometimes it’s not just what we say—but how we say it—that either opens the door for connection or quietly pushes it shut. In this episode, we’re diving into two common mistakes couples make when trying to communicate, and how these habits might be keeping your spouse from truly listening.

More importantly, we’ll show you what to do instead—simple shifts that can help you express your heart without creating more distance in the process.

Alright, let's dig in.

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]]> Hi friend,

Have you ever tried to express something important to your spouse—only to feel like your words aren’t landing? That disconnect can be incredibly frustrating, especially when all you want is to feel heard, seen, and understood by the person you love.

Over the years, we've realized that sometimes it’s not just what we say—but how we say it—that either opens the door for connection or quietly pushes it shut. In this episode, we’re diving into two common mistakes couples make when trying to communicate, and how these habits might be keeping your spouse from truly listening.

More importantly, we’ll show you what to do instead—simple shifts that can help you express your heart without creating more distance in the process.

Alright, let's dig in.

.................................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📖 Get your copy of our book: A Couple’s First Ten Years
Available on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 676 full EP 202 \\ Feeling Misunderstood in Your Marriage? 3 Possible Reasons (And What to Do Instead) EP 202 \\ Feeling Misunderstood in Your Marriage? 3 Possible Reasons (And What to Do Instead) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/marriage-misunderstandings-3-reasons-what-to-do/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/marriage-misunderstandings-3-reasons-what-to-do/#comments Thu, 02 Apr 2026 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/15e60f8e-a79e-3255-92a9-366b4d5f259c Hi friend!

Are you feeling frustrated by the growing misunderstandings in your marriage—like no matter how hard you try, you and your spouse keep missing each other? If so, you’re not alone.

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 possible reasons why these misunderstandings may be happening more often—and what you can do to start changing the narrative in your relationship.

Alright, let’s dig in.

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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📖 Get your copy of our book: A Couple’s First Ten Years Available on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

]]> Hi friend!

Are you feeling frustrated by the growing misunderstandings in your marriage—like no matter how hard you try, you and your spouse keep missing each other? If so, you’re not alone.

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 possible reasons why these misunderstandings may be happening more often—and what you can do to start changing the narrative in your relationship.

Alright, let’s dig in.

.................................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📖 Get your copy of our book: A Couple’s First Ten Years
Available on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 718 full Listen Deeply: The Communication Skill That Makes Your Partner Feel Truly Heard | CourageoUS Love Challenge (Week 8) Listen Deeply: The Communication Skill That Makes Your Partner Feel Truly Heard | CourageoUS Love Challenge (Week 8) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/listen-deeply-feel-heard/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/listen-deeply-feel-heard/#comments Thu, 26 Mar 2026 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/68fa3621-3e35-3343-ac39-9b3bb95c54f4 Hi friend, 

One of the greatest gifts you can give your spouse is to truly listen.

In this episode, David explores how deep, intentional listening can improve communication, restore emotional safety, and rebuild trust in a relationship.

You’ll learn why validation, presence, and active listening are essential for creating a deeper emotional connection and reducing defensiveness.

This final step in the CourageoUS Love Challenge will help you listen in a way that makes your partner feel heard, understood, and valued.

Because when someone feels heard, connection begins to grow again.

Your journey doesn’t end here—it continues one courageous step at a time.

.................................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten Years Available on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

]]> Hi friend, 

One of the greatest gifts you can give your spouse is to truly listen.

In this episode, David explores how deep, intentional listening can improve communication, restore emotional safety, and rebuild trust in a relationship.

You’ll learn why validation, presence, and active listening are essential for creating a deeper emotional connection and reducing defensiveness.

This final step in the CourageoUS Love Challenge will help you listen in a way that makes your partner feel heard, understood, and valued.

Because when someone feels heard, connection begins to grow again.

Your journey doesn’t end here—it continues one courageous step at a time.

.................................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten Years
Available on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 596 full Practice Affirmation: The Words That Build Trust and Strengthen Connection in Your Marriage | CourageoUS Love Challenge (Week 7) Practice Affirmation: The Words That Build Trust and Strengthen Connection in Your Marriage | CourageoUS Love Challenge (Week 7) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/practice-affirmation-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/practice-affirmation-marriage/#comments Thu, 19 Mar 2026 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/f15c514e-3d93-3dcd-8a01-d25e9b5eb63b Hi friend,

Affirmation is one of the most powerful ways to strengthen emotional connection in your marriage.

In this episode, David shares how intentional words of appreciation can rebuild trust, restore confidence, and create a sense of emotional safety. When spoken consistently, affirmation helps your spouse feel seen, valued, and deeply supported.

This week’s courageous action will help you begin using your words more intentionally—to strengthen, nurture, and bring life to your marriage.

.................................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten Years Available on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

 

 

]]> Hi friend,

Affirmation is one of the most powerful ways to strengthen emotional connection in your marriage.

In this episode, David shares how intentional words of appreciation can rebuild trust, restore confidence, and create a sense of emotional safety. When spoken consistently, affirmation helps your spouse feel seen, valued, and deeply supported.

This week’s courageous action will help you begin using your words more intentionally—to strengthen, nurture, and bring life to your marriage.

.................................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten Years
Available on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

 

 

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 561 full Lead with Compassion: The Mindset Shift That Transforms Your Marriage | CourageoUS Love Challenge (Week 6) Lead with Compassion: The Mindset Shift That Transforms Your Marriage | CourageoUS Love Challenge (Week 6) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/lead-with-compassion-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/lead-with-compassion-marriage/#comments Thu, 12 Mar 2026 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/976ccb08-ac0c-347b-a148-d8cf7a2ca62d Hi friend,

Transformation often begins in the quiet space of your thoughts.

In this episode, David explores how compassionate thinking can shape your actions, influence your responses, and transform the emotional atmosphere of your marriage. You’ll discover how intentional mindset shifts can create space for patience, grace, and deeper connection.

This week’s courageous step invites you to begin leading your marriage from the inside out—with compassion and intentionality.

Because the way you think about your spouse shapes the way you treat them.

.................................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten Years Available on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

 

 

]]> Hi friend,

Transformation often begins in the quiet space of your thoughts.

In this episode, David explores how compassionate thinking can shape your actions, influence your responses, and transform the emotional atmosphere of your marriage. You’ll discover how intentional mindset shifts can create space for patience, grace, and deeper connection.

This week’s courageous step invites you to begin leading your marriage from the inside out—with compassion and intentionality.

Because the way you think about your spouse shapes the way you treat them.

.................................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten Years
Available on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

 

 

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 485 full Elevate Your Spouse: The Small Acts That Restore Connection in Your Marriage | CourageoUS Love Challenge (Week 5) Elevate Your Spouse: The Small Acts That Restore Connection in Your Marriage | CourageoUS Love Challenge (Week 5) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/elevate-your-spouse-restore-connection-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/elevate-your-spouse-restore-connection-marriage/#comments Thu, 05 Mar 2026 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/5e0794cd-94b3-3e2a-9ab7-0fafb24dc3e1 Hi friend,

When distance enters a marriage, encouragement and appreciation are often the first things to fade.

In this episode, David explores how small, intentional acts of honor and encouragement can begin restoring warmth and connection between you and your spouse.

You’ll learn how simple words, thoughtful gestures, and consistent appreciation create the emotional safety every marriage needs to thrive. Not through dramatic gestures, but through consistent, intentional moments of kindness.

This week’s courageous action will help you begin elevating your spouse through intentional words and actions.

Because what we nurture in a marriage often becomes what grows.

.................................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten Years Available on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

 

 

 ]]> Hi friend,

When distance enters a marriage, encouragement and appreciation are often the first things to fade.

In this episode, David explores how small, intentional acts of honor and encouragement can begin restoring warmth and connection between you and your spouse.

You’ll learn how simple words, thoughtful gestures, and consistent appreciation create the emotional safety every marriage needs to thrive. Not through dramatic gestures, but through consistent, intentional moments of kindness.

This week’s courageous action will help you begin elevating your spouse through intentional words and actions.

Because what we nurture in a marriage often becomes what grows.

.................................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten Years
Available on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

 

 

 ]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 507 full Take Responsibility: The Courageous Step That Changes the Direction of Your Marriage | CourageoUS Love Challenge (Week 4) Take Responsibility: The Courageous Step That Changes the Direction of Your Marriage | CourageoUS Love Challenge (Week 4) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/take-responsibility-in-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/take-responsibility-in-marriage/#comments Thu, 26 Feb 2026 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/738d06f2-51b4-3f8b-8fee-c6047cc7981d It’s easy to believe change will happen when circumstances improve—or when the other person changes first.

But lasting transformation often begins somewhere else.

In this episode, David shares why taking responsibility for your part in the relationship is one of the most powerful steps toward restoring connection and emotional safety in marriage.

You’ll learn how courageous ownership can shift the atmosphere of your relationship—even before external circumstances change.

This week’s CourageoUS Love Challenge invites you to lead with intentionality and humility.

Because marriage direction changes when someone chooses to move first.

.................................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten Years Available on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

 

 

]]> It’s easy to believe change will happen when circumstances improve—or when the other person changes first.

But lasting transformation often begins somewhere else.

In this episode, David shares why taking responsibility for your part in the relationship is one of the most powerful steps toward restoring connection and emotional safety in marriage.

You’ll learn how courageous ownership can shift the atmosphere of your relationship—even before external circumstances change.

This week’s CourageoUS Love Challenge invites you to lead with intentionality and humility.

Because marriage direction changes when someone chooses to move first.

.................................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten Years
Available on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

 

 

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 439 full From Blame to Understanding: The Perspective Shift That Rekindles Connection | CourageoUS Love Challenge (Week 3) From Blame to Understanding: The Perspective Shift That Rekindles Connection | CourageoUS Love Challenge (Week 3) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/blame-to-understanding-rekindle-connection/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/blame-to-understanding-rekindle-connection/#comments Thu, 19 Feb 2026 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/79a645bd-4abe-3bf5-ba8f-03a94bde1e5d Hi friend,

Connection often begins with perspective.

In this episode, David shares how changing the way he viewed his spouse—and his role in the relationship—began transforming the emotional climate of his marriage.

You’ll discover why empathy, understanding, and intentional perspective shifts can soften tension and rebuild emotional closeness.

This week’s courageous action will help you begin seeing your spouse through a new lens—one that makes reconnection possible again.

Sometimes, the shift you long to see in your marriage begins with a shift in your own perspective.

.................................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten Years Available on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

 

]]> Hi friend,

Connection often begins with perspective.

In this episode, David shares how changing the way he viewed his spouse—and his role in the relationship—began transforming the emotional climate of his marriage.

You’ll discover why empathy, understanding, and intentional perspective shifts can soften tension and rebuild emotional closeness.

This week’s courageous action will help you begin seeing your spouse through a new lens—one that makes reconnection possible again.

Sometimes, the shift you long to see in your marriage begins with a shift in your own perspective.

.................................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten Years
Available on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

 

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 463 full Letting Go of Limiting Beliefs: The Lies Creating Distance in Your Marriage | CourageoUS Love Challenge (Week 2) Letting Go of Limiting Beliefs: The Lies Creating Distance in Your Marriage | CourageoUS Love Challenge (Week 2) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/letting-go-of-limiting-beliefs-lies-creating-distance-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/letting-go-of-limiting-beliefs-lies-creating-distance-marriage/#comments Thu, 12 Feb 2026 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/48828080-29cd-3bf1-a2ff-33d3c219e779 Hi friend,

Every marriage is shaped by the beliefs we carry—some bring hope, while others quietly create distance.

In this episode, David explores how limiting beliefs about your spouse, yourself, or your marriage influence how you show up, how you respond, and how you relate.

You’ll learn how identifying and replacing those lies with truth can begin restoring emotional safety, clarity, and connection.

This week’s courageous step will help you reset your mindset and create space for reconnection to grow.

Because when beliefs change, direction changes—and connection can begin again.

.................................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten Years Available on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

 

]]> Hi friend,

Every marriage is shaped by the beliefs we carry—some bring hope, while others quietly create distance.

In this episode, David explores how limiting beliefs about your spouse, yourself, or your marriage influence how you show up, how you respond, and how you relate.

You’ll learn how identifying and replacing those lies with truth can begin restoring emotional safety, clarity, and connection.

This week’s courageous step will help you reset your mindset and create space for reconnection to grow.

Because when beliefs change, direction changes—and connection can begin again.

.................................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten Years
Available on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

 

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 579 full Stop the Drift: How One Courageous Choice Can Reset Your Marriage | CourageoUS Love Challenge (Week 1) Stop the Drift: How One Courageous Choice Can Reset Your Marriage | CourageoUS Love Challenge (Week 1) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/how-one-courageous-choice-can-reset-your-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/how-one-courageous-choice-can-reset-your-marriage/#comments Thu, 05 Feb 2026 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/b0efe87a-98dd-3db2-b655-8b9e4ecd049a Hi friend,

Marriage drift doesn’t happen all at once—it happens quietly.

In this first episode of the CourageoUS Love Challenge, David shares the moment that brought the quiet drift in his marriage into focus—and the courageous choice that changed the direction of his home.

This episode kicks off an 8-week podcast journey designed to help you reset your marriage and reconnect with your spouse through one episode and one courageous action each week.

If you’ve felt more like roommates than partners, overwhelmed by life’s pressures, or unsure where to even begin, this is your starting point.

One episode. One courageous action. One step toward resetting your marriage.

Start here—then join us each week for the next courageous step.

.................................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📖 Get your copy of our new book: A Couple’s First Ten Years Available on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

 

]]> Hi friend,

Marriage drift doesn’t happen all at once—it happens quietly.

In this first episode of the CourageoUS Love Challenge, David shares the moment that brought the quiet drift in his marriage into focus—and the courageous choice that changed the direction of his home.

This episode kicks off an 8-week podcast journey designed to help you reset your marriage and reconnect with your spouse through one episode and one courageous action each week.

If you’ve felt more like roommates than partners, overwhelmed by life’s pressures, or unsure where to even begin, this is your starting point.

One episode.
One courageous action.
One step toward resetting your marriage.

Start here—then join us each week for the next courageous step.

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 556 full EP 193 \\ Unity & Boundaries: Protecting Your Marriage with the Right People and Practices EP 193 \\ Unity & Boundaries: Protecting Your Marriage with the Right People and Practices https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/unity-boundaries-protecting-your-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/unity-boundaries-protecting-your-marriage/#comments Thu, 29 Jan 2026 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e5c91f28-f566-3815-81de-319d581bdfb3 Hi friend,

The men who came to David were united, disciplined, and brought provision—support that strengthened the mission. Marriage needs that too: unity, boundaries, and a wise support system. In this episode, we talk about building a “marriage circle” that protects connection: mentors, friends, family boundaries, spiritual covering, and practical supports that reduce load. You’ll learn how to fight the real enemy together and strengthen connection and stability in your home. 

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]]> Hi friend,

The men who came to David were united, disciplined, and brought provision—support that strengthened the mission. Marriage needs that too: unity, boundaries, and a wise support system. In this episode, we talk about building a “marriage circle” that protects connection: mentors, friends, family boundaries, spiritual covering, and practical supports that reduce load. You’ll learn how to fight the real enemy together and strengthen connection and stability in your home. 

.................................................................................................................

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 1007 full EP 192 \\ Understanding Your Marriage Season: Knowing What to Do in This Chapter of Your Relationship EP 192 \\ Understanding Your Marriage Season: Knowing What to Do in This Chapter of Your Relationship https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/seasons-what-to-do-in-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/seasons-what-to-do-in-marriage/#comments Thu, 22 Jan 2026 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/bddc0a56-c18e-3b09-ad2a-48304490558f Hi friend,

The sons of Issachar were known for understanding the times and knowing what to do. Many couples don’t fail from lack of love—they struggle because they misread their season. In this episode, you'll uncover your current season  (parenting, grief, relocation, rebuilding trust, burnout, financial pressure) and adjust expectations and strategies accordingly. You’ll get a simple “season check-in” framework to reduce tension and increase teamwork.

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]]> Hi friend,

The sons of Issachar were known for understanding the times and knowing what to do. Many couples don’t fail from lack of love—they struggle because they misread their season. In this episode, you'll uncover your current season  (parenting, grief, relocation, rebuilding trust, burnout, financial pressure) and adjust expectations and strategies accordingly. You’ll get a simple “season check-in” framework to reduce tension and increase teamwork.

.................................................................................................................

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 957 full EP 191 \\ Relationship Skills: Becoming a Skilled Spouse for a Stronger Marriage EP 191 \\ Relationship Skills: Becoming a Skilled Spouse for a Stronger Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/relationship-skills-stronger-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/relationship-skills-stronger-marriage/#comments Thu, 15 Jan 2026 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/ac2748f1-cac5-3019-a886-84c11de65839 Hi friend,

David’s supporters weren’t only loyal—they were trained, ready, and dependable. What if your marriage didn’t just need more love, but better skills? In this episode, we connect 1 Chronicles 11–12 to practical marriage tools: healthy communication, repair after conflict, emotional regulation, and daily rhythms that keep love steady. You’ll learn how to “train for connection” so your home feels safer, warmer, and more united—even during stressful weeks.

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]]> Hi friend,

David’s supporters weren’t only loyal—they were trained, ready, and dependable. What if your marriage didn’t just need more love, but better skills? In this episode, we connect 1 Chronicles 11–12 to practical marriage tools: healthy communication, repair after conflict, emotional regulation, and daily rhythms that keep love steady. You’ll learn how to “train for connection” so your home feels safer, warmer, and more united—even during stressful weeks.

.................................................................................................................

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 1099 full EP 190 \\ Covenant Loyalty: Staying Connected in Marriage When You Feel Emotionally Distant EP 190 \\ Covenant Loyalty: Staying Connected in Marriage When You Feel Emotionally Distant https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/staying-connected-in-marriage-when-you-feel-distant/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/staying-connected-in-marriage-when-you-feel-distant/#comments Thu, 08 Jan 2026 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/a9f38418-5a21-3371-8425-832020c1f4c6 Hi friend, 

When marriage feels distant, it’s easy to withdraw, keep score, or assume the worst. In 1 Chronicles 11–12, people supported David before his story looked “successful.” In this episode, we translate that kind of loyalty into marriage: what it looks like to stay emotionally present, speak with honor, and keep choosing connection even when feelings are low. You’ll leave with simple ways to rebuild safety and closeness—one faithful moment at a time.

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]]> Hi friend, 

When marriage feels distant, it’s easy to withdraw, keep score, or assume the worst. In 1 Chronicles 11–12, people supported David before his story looked “successful.” In this episode, we translate that kind of loyalty into marriage: what it looks like to stay emotionally present, speak with honor, and keep choosing connection even when feelings are low. You’ll leave with simple ways to rebuild safety and closeness—one faithful moment at a time.

.................................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 986 full EP 189 \\ New Year, Stronger Us: Building Your Marriage Support System EP 189 \\ New Year, Stronger Us: Building Your Marriage Support System https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/building-your-marriage-support-system/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/building-your-marriage-support-system/#comments Thu, 01 Jan 2026 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/7218c872-9a50-3ed0-9d08-3997e84f53c8 Hi friend, 

Want to start the new year with a marriage reset that actually lasts? In this January 1 episode, David unpacks how 1 Chronicles 11–12 reveals the power of a strong support system—one built on loyalty, wisdom, unity, and practical reinforcement. You’ll be introduced to the C.I.R.C.L.E. framework, a simple approach to strengthening connection, protecting peace, and building rhythms that help your marriage grow closer all year long.

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]]> Hi friend, 

Want to start the new year with a marriage reset that actually lasts? In this January 1 episode, David unpacks how 1 Chronicles 11–12 reveals the power of a strong support system—one built on loyalty, wisdom, unity, and practical reinforcement. You’ll be introduced to the C.I.R.C.L.E. framework, a simple approach to strengthening connection, protecting peace, and building rhythms that help your marriage grow closer all year long.

.................................................................................................................

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 1226 full EP 188 \\ Hope, Joy, Peace & Love: Encouragement for Your Marriage During the Christmas Season EP 188 \\ Hope, Joy, Peace & Love: Encouragement for Your Marriage During the Christmas Season https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/hope-joy-peace-love-encouragement-for-your-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/hope-joy-peace-love-encouragement-for-your-marriage/#comments Thu, 25 Dec 2025 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/ebc4bef5-01b8-3e3f-93fd-91429377e265 Hi friend,

Merry Christmas!

Here is a message of hope, joy, peace and love for your marriage.

We pray this episode blesses you:)

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]]> Hi friend,

Merry Christmas!

Here is a message of hope, joy, peace and love for your marriage.

We pray this episode blesses you:)

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 891 full EP 187 \\ How One Habit Can Change the Direction of Your Marriage EP 187 \\ How One Habit Can Change the Direction of Your Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/how-one-habit-can-change-the-direction-of-your-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/how-one-habit-can-change-the-direction-of-your-marriage/#comments Thu, 18 Dec 2025 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/2b4dfc0d-a4be-385d-818b-6e01c0c76489 Hi friend!

As we move through different seasons of marriage and life, it’s easy to find yourself focusing more on what’s not working than on what is—especially when responsibilities increase, and challenges arise. Over time, this pattern can slowly influence the atmosphere of your home, your mindset, and even the direction your marriage is heading.

In today’s episode, we’re talking about one powerful habit that can help shift this pattern. It’s a simple, intentional practice that has the potential to change how you think, how you relate to your spouse, and how you experience your marriage—even during difficult seasons.

So how can one habit make such a meaningful difference?

Tune in to listen and find out more!

We hope this episode blesses you.

 

Links mentioned in this episode:   -Giving thanks can make you happier by Harvard Health Publishing blog https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthbeat/giving-thanks-can-make-you-happier   Additional resources you may be interested in:   A Devotional by Youversion on Gratitude YouVersion plan 'How to Be Grateful for Your Life'. Check it out here:https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/22405   -The Word for Today by Bob and Debby Gass  https://vision.org.au/the-word-for-today/associated-blog/the-word-for-today-devotional-content/gratitude/

 

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]]> Hi friend!

As we move through different seasons of marriage and life, it’s easy to find yourself focusing more on what’s not working than on what is—especially when responsibilities increase, and challenges arise. Over time, this pattern can slowly influence the atmosphere of your home, your mindset, and even the direction your marriage is heading.

In today’s episode, we’re talking about one powerful habit that can help shift this pattern. It’s a simple, intentional practice that has the potential to change how you think, how you relate to your spouse, and how you experience your marriage—even during difficult seasons.

So how can one habit make such a meaningful difference?

Tune in to listen and find out more!

We hope this episode blesses you.

 

Links mentioned in this episode:   -Giving thanks can make you happier by Harvard Health Publishing blog https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthbeat/giving-thanks-can-make-you-happier   Additional resources you may be interested in:   A Devotional by Youversion on Gratitude YouVersion plan 'How to Be Grateful for Your Life'. Check it out here:https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/22405
  -The Word for Today by Bob and Debby Gass  https://vision.org.au/the-word-for-today/associated-blog/the-word-for-today-devotional-content/gratitude/

 

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 487 full EP 186 \\ Our Book Launch: A Couple's First Ten Years Is Officially Here! EP 186 \\ Our Book Launch: A Couple's First Ten Years Is Officially Here! https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/a-couples-first-ten-years-is-here/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/a-couples-first-ten-years-is-here/#comments Thu, 11 Dec 2025 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/f7acaa30-91cd-3434-82ee-1e32c5a7f55c Hi friend!

Today’s episode is a short but very exciting one — because our brand-new marriage book, A Couple’s First Ten Years, has officially launched!

In this book, we open up about our first ten years of marriage: the highs and lows, the unexpected turns, and the faith that carried us through each season. We share honest, behind-the-scenes stories from our journey — along with practical tools, reflections, and insights designed to help you strengthen your own marriage in real life, not just in theory.

If you’re in your first ten years… or even twenty years into marriage… and you desire a stronger, more connected marriage in partnership with God — this book is for you.

 Special launch pricing is happening now through December 31! Grab your copy on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

If this show has blessed you, here are three meaningful ways to support the launch:

  • Tell someone about the book Share this episode with someone who might need encouragement today. Your share might reach a couple right in the middle of a hard season.
  • Leave a review on Amazon Your review helps this message reach more people
  • Grab a copy For yourself, for a friend, or as a gift for a couple you love. A portion of this month’s sales will be donated to an organization that supports families in need — so your purchase makes an impact beyond your home.

We’re so grateful to have you on this journey with us. Thank you for your love and support!

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]]> Hi friend!

Today’s episode is a short but very exciting one — because our brand-new marriage book, A Couple’s First Ten Years, has officially launched!

In this book, we open up about our first ten years of marriage: the highs and lows, the unexpected turns, and the faith that carried us through each season. We share honest, behind-the-scenes stories from our journey — along with practical tools, reflections, and insights designed to help you strengthen your own marriage in real life, not just in theory.

If you’re in your first ten years… or even twenty years into marriage… and you desire a stronger, more connected marriage in partnership with God — this book is for you.

 Special launch pricing is happening now through December 31!
Grab your copy on Amazon: https://mybook.to/ACouplesFirstTenYears

If this show has blessed you, here are three meaningful ways to support the launch:

  • Tell someone about the book
    Share this episode with someone who might need encouragement today.
    Your share might reach a couple right in the middle of a hard season.
  • Leave a review on Amazon
    Your review helps this message reach more people
  • Grab a copy
    For yourself, for a friend, or as a gift for a couple you love.
    A portion of this month’s sales will be donated to an organization that supports families in need — so your purchase makes an impact beyond your home.

We’re so grateful to have you on this journey with us.
Thank you for your love and support!

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 195 full EP 185 \\ Rebuilding Connection Through God’s Guidance: Courageous Moves for a Connected Marriage EP 185 \\ Rebuilding Connection Through God’s Guidance: Courageous Moves for a Connected Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/rebuilding-connection-through-gods-guidance/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/rebuilding-connection-through-gods-guidance/#comments Thu, 04 Dec 2025 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/c6925258-c75c-33be-8c9c-ac308ef15925 Hi friend, 

If you’ve been married for a while, you already know this truth: staying connected as a couple goes far beyond paying the bills, keeping the home running, or juggling everyday responsibilities. And yes, these are important. But if you’re longing for more intimacy, emotional closeness, and unity in your marriage, one powerful choice you can make today is to partner with God and take courageous steps in your marriage—even when it feels uncomfortable or in the absence of immediate gratification.

Whether you’re walking through a challenging season or simply hoping to strengthen the bond you already share, this episode offers gentle, biblical encouragement to help you move toward a more connected, God-centered marriage.

We pray this episode blesses you:)

🎁FREE GIFT: While you wait for the official release of our upcoming book, A Couple's First Ten Years, you can download a free chapter as a special preview of the book. Get your early access chapter at www.happymarriedfamily.com.

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]]> Hi friend, 

If you’ve been married for a while, you already know this truth: staying connected as a couple goes far beyond paying the bills, keeping the home running, or juggling everyday responsibilities. And yes, these are important. But if you’re longing for more intimacy, emotional closeness, and unity in your marriage, one powerful choice you can make today is to partner with God and take courageous steps in your marriage—even when it feels uncomfortable or in the absence of immediate gratification.

Whether you’re walking through a challenging season or simply hoping to strengthen the bond you already share, this episode offers gentle, biblical encouragement to help you move toward a more connected, God-centered marriage.

We pray this episode blesses you:)

🎁FREE GIFT: While you wait for the official release of our upcoming book, A Couple's First Ten Years, you can download a free chapter as a special preview of the book. Get your early access chapter at www.happymarriedfamily.com.

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 853 full EP 184 \\ Feeling Furious With Your Spouse? Pause and Ask These 5 Questions First EP 184 \\ Feeling Furious With Your Spouse? Pause and Ask These 5 Questions First https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/questions-to-ask-yourself-when-angry/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/questions-to-ask-yourself-when-angry/#comments Thu, 27 Nov 2025 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/b1955837-8152-3ae8-9ba5-f98e8eaa83d5 Hi friend!

Are you in a season of marriage where you feel deeply hurt or upset by something your spouse has said or done? Maybe you’re overwhelmed with anger and you’re trying to decide how to respond without escalating the situation or creating a bigger conflict.

If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you. We’re walking through five powerful questions to ask yourself before you respond or take the next step. These questions help you pause, reflect, and approach the moment with clarity instead of emotion.

(Hint: They follow the simple five-letter acronym P.R.E.F.R.)

🎁FREE GIFT: While you wait for the official release of our upcoming book, A Couple's First Ten Years, you can download a free chapter as a special preview of the book. Get your early access chapter at www.happymarriedfamily.com.

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]]> Hi friend!

Are you in a season of marriage where you feel deeply hurt or upset by something your spouse has said or done? Maybe you’re overwhelmed with anger and you’re trying to decide how to respond without escalating the situation or creating a bigger conflict.

If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you. We’re walking through five powerful questions to ask yourself before you respond or take the next step. These questions help you pause, reflect, and approach the moment with clarity instead of emotion.

(Hint: They follow the simple five-letter acronym P.R.E.F.R.)

🎁FREE GIFT: While you wait for the official release of our upcoming book, A Couple's First Ten Years, you can download a free chapter as a special preview of the book. Get your early access chapter at www.happymarriedfamily.com.

..................................................................................................................

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 821 full EP 183 \\ On the Verge of Giving Up on Your Marriage? Here are 5 Tips to Try EP 183 \\ On the Verge of Giving Up on Your Marriage? Here are 5 Tips to Try https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/on-the-verge-of-giving-up-tips-to-try/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/on-the-verge-of-giving-up-tips-to-try/#comments Thu, 20 Nov 2025 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/698d4cfc-144d-3e18-b7c3-f69f80a84039 Hi friend!

Are you on the verge of giving up on your marriage? Have you been facing difficult challenges that are weighing you down? Does it seem like you are growing farther apart from each other with every passing day?  

If this is where you are right now, you are not alone. In this episode, I will be sharing 5 tips to try so you can start working towards building the strong & connected marriage you so desire.

🎁FREE GIFT: While you wait for the official release of our upcoming book, A Couple's First Ten Years, you can download a free chapter as a special preview of the book. Get your early access chapter at www.happymarriedfamily.com.

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]]> Hi friend!

Are you on the verge of giving up on your marriage? Have you been facing difficult challenges that are weighing you down? Does it seem like you are growing farther apart from each other with every passing day?  

If this is where you are right now, you are not alone. In this episode, I will be sharing 5 tips to try so you can start working towards building the strong & connected marriage you so desire.

🎁FREE GIFT: While you wait for the official release of our upcoming book, A Couple's First Ten Years, you can download a free chapter as a special preview of the book. Get your early access chapter at www.happymarriedfamily.com.

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 710 full EP 182 \\ New Marriage Book: A Couple’s First Ten Years is Launching Soon! (Access a Free Chapter Today) EP 182 \\ New Marriage Book: A Couple’s First Ten Years is Launching Soon! (Access a Free Chapter Today) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/new-marriage-book-launching-soon/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/new-marriage-book-launching-soon/#comments Thu, 13 Nov 2025 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/fb27f100-64eb-3a15-8e43-9de002d2375c Hi friend!

In today’s short and exciting announcement episode, we’re sharing some big news — our brand-new marriage book, A Couple’s First Ten Years, is launching soon!

This book is a tender, honest, and hope-filled look at our first decade of marriage: the highs, the lows, the unexpected turns, and the faith that carried us through each season. Inside, we share real stories from our journey, along with practical tools, reflections, and insights designed to support you in your own relationship journey.

🎁FREE GIFT: While you wait for the official release, you can download a free chapter as a special preview of the book. Get your early access chapter at www.happymarriedfamily.com.

We’re so excited for you to hear this announcement and even more excited to share the full book with you soon.

Tune in to listen, grab your favorite snack and enjoy the episode!

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]]> Hi friend!

In today’s short and exciting announcement episode, we’re sharing some big news — our brand-new marriage book, A Couple’s First Ten Years, is launching soon!

This book is a tender, honest, and hope-filled look at our first decade of marriage: the highs, the lows, the unexpected turns, and the faith that carried us through each season. Inside, we share real stories from our journey, along with practical tools, reflections, and insights designed to support you in your own relationship journey.

🎁FREE GIFT: While you wait for the official release, you can download a free chapter as a special preview of the book. Get your early access chapter at www.happymarriedfamily.com.

We’re so excited for you to hear this announcement and even more excited to share the full book with you soon.

Tune in to listen, grab your favorite snack and enjoy the episode!

................................................................................................

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 258 full EP 181 \\ Overcoming Fear Together: Trusting God in Your Marriage EP 181 \\ Overcoming Fear Together: Trusting God in Your Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/overcoming-fear-trusting-god-in-your-marriage-journey/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/overcoming-fear-trusting-god-in-your-marriage-journey/#comments Thu, 06 Nov 2025 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/ba67a01b-20da-36ad-b28f-2af73cf1c8bc Hi friend!

Have you ever noticed how fear shows up in marriage? It’s not always loud or dramatic. Sometimes fear whispers. It looks like withholding how you really feel because you don’t want to be misunderstood. It appears as distance, when avoiding a hard conversation feels safer than being vulnerable. Fear builds walls—quietly, slowly, and over time.

But trust? Trust opens doors. Trust invites God to be the center. Trust turns two individuals into a team.

In today’s episode, we’re talking about what it looks like to overcome fear together—not by trying harder, but by trusting God to guide your heart, your words, and your connection. Whether you’re newlyweds or years into the journey, this conversation will help you move closer, communicate more honestly, and love more courageously.

Let’s grow in faith. Let’s choose trust.

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]]> Hi friend!

Have you ever noticed how fear shows up in marriage? It’s not always loud or dramatic. Sometimes fear whispers. It looks like withholding how you really feel because you don’t want to be misunderstood. It appears as distance, when avoiding a hard conversation feels safer than being vulnerable. Fear builds walls—quietly, slowly, and over time.

But trust?
Trust opens doors.
Trust invites God to be the center.
Trust turns two individuals into a team.

In today’s episode, we’re talking about what it looks like to overcome fear together—not by trying harder, but by trusting God to guide your heart, your words, and your connection. Whether you’re newlyweds or years into the journey, this conversation will help you move closer, communicate more honestly, and love more courageously.

Let’s grow in faith.
Let’s choose trust.

................................................................................................

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 821 full EP 180 \\ Faith Beyond Sunday: Bringing What You Believe into Your Marriage EP 180 \\ Faith Beyond Sunday: Bringing What You Believe into Your Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/faith-beyond-sunday-bringing-what-you-believe-into-your-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/faith-beyond-sunday-bringing-what-you-believe-into-your-marriage/#comments Thu, 30 Oct 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/76cb0536-1a60-31b7-96a6-30660b1eb68e Hi friend,

Faith is more than a Sunday-morning declaration—it’s a daily walk. In this episode, we unpack what “living out your faith” really means, especially within marriage. Together, we’ll explore how to bring faith from words to action—in the way we speak, forgive, and serve each other every day.

If you’ve ever wondered what faith looks like in real life—not just in church, but in the quiet, ordinary moments of marriage—this conversation is for you.

Alright, let’s dig in!

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]]> Hi friend,

Faith is more than a Sunday-morning declaration—it’s a daily walk. In this episode, we unpack what “living out your faith” really means, especially within marriage. Together, we’ll explore how to bring faith from words to action—in the way we speak, forgive, and serve each other every day.

If you’ve ever wondered what faith looks like in real life—not just in church, but in the quiet, ordinary moments of marriage—this conversation is for you.

Alright, let’s dig in!

................................................................................................

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 550 full EP 179 \\ Who Do You Say Your Spouse Is? Seeing Each Other Through God’s Eyes in Marriage EP 179 \\ Who Do You Say Your Spouse Is? Seeing Each Other Through God’s Eyes in Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/seeing-each-other-through-gods-eyes-in-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/seeing-each-other-through-gods-eyes-in-marriage/#comments Thu, 23 Oct 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/a4181851-fb5a-36e2-9e8d-15bad2b0d47f Hi friend!

Have you ever noticed how the way you see your spouse shapes the way you treat them? When you focus only on their flaws, your words can become sharp and your patience thin. But when you choose to see them through God’s eyes—through His love and grace—your heart softens, and your connection deepens. In this episode, we’re asking: Who do you say your spouse is?

................................................................................................

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]]> Hi friend!

Have you ever noticed how the way you see your spouse shapes the way you treat them? When you focus only on their flaws, your words can become sharp and your patience thin. But when you choose to see them through God’s eyes—through His love and grace—your heart softens, and your connection deepens. In this episode, we’re asking: Who do you say your spouse is?

................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

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Ready for a marriage reset?
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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 671 full EP 178 \\ 5 Practical Ways to Reaffirm Love and Deepen Intimacy in Marriage EP 178 \\ 5 Practical Ways to Reaffirm Love and Deepen Intimacy in Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/reaffirming-love-in-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/reaffirming-love-in-marriage/#comments Thu, 16 Oct 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/02910a8a-73cf-3231-acb6-faad1ec743df Hi friend!

“Do you love me?” Jesus asked Peter this question three times by the fire—not because He doubted Peter’s heart, but because He wanted Peter to say it, to reaffirm it, to make it known. In marriage, that same question can linger unspoken: Do you love me? And, more importantly, how do I know? In this episode, we explore why reaffirming love through both words and actions matters—and how simple, intentional practices can deepen intimacy and strengthen your bond in marriage.

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Ready for a marriage reset? 🎁 Join the Courageous Marriage Reset Challenge for free at [reset.happymarriedfamily.com]

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]]> Hi friend!

“Do you love me?” Jesus asked Peter this question three times by the fire—not because He doubted Peter’s heart, but because He wanted Peter to say it, to reaffirm it, to make it known. In marriage, that same question can linger unspoken: Do you love me? And, more importantly, how do I know? In this episode, we explore why reaffirming love through both words and actions matters—and how simple, intentional practices can deepen intimacy and strengthen your bond in marriage.

................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

Ready for a marriage reset?
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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 558 full EP 177 \\ Are You Really Listening? How to Hear Your Spouse’s Heart EP 177 \\ Are You Really Listening? How to Hear Your Spouse’s Heart https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/are-you-really-listening/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/are-you-really-listening/#comments Thu, 09 Oct 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/043595fb-4313-38c9-8c16-90d6b659f98b Hi friend!

Have you ever been in a conversation with your spouse where you walked away thinking, “They just don’t get me”? Or maybe you thought you were listening, only to realize later that you completely missed the heart of what they were really saying. Listening isn’t just about words—it’s about understanding the language of the heart. In this episode, you'll discover how to really listen to your spouse's heart. Alright, let's dig in.

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]]> Hi friend!

Have you ever been in a conversation with your spouse where you walked away thinking, “They just don’t get me”? Or maybe you thought you were listening, only to realize later that you completely missed the heart of what they were really saying. Listening isn’t just about words—it’s about understanding the language of the heart. In this episode, you'll discover how to really listen to your spouse's heart. Alright, let's dig in.

................................................................................................

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Ready for a marriage reset?
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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 552 full EP 176 \\ Stop Waiting: Taking Responsibility to Restore Your Marriage EP 176 \\ Stop Waiting: Taking Responsibility to Restore Your Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/taking-responsibility-in-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/taking-responsibility-in-marriage/#comments Thu, 02 Oct 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/45dcad72-aca2-3fc9-92a7-b4481ed4c912 Hi friend!

Have you ever gone through a season in marriage where things just felt… off? Maybe a little distant, a little disconnected, or just kind of stuck?

If so, you’re not alone.

In this episode, we’re kicking off our new Questions Jesus Asked series — exploring powerful questions from Scripture through the lens of marriage. Our first stop is John 5:6–8 (NIV), where Jesus looks at a man who had been stuck for 38 years and asks: “Do you want to get well?”

At first glance, it sounds simple — but it cuts deep. Because sometimes, dysfunction feels familiar. Even comfortable. And before healing can begin in marriage, this question has to be answered honestly:

Do you really want to get well?

Whether your marriage feels distant or disconnected, this episode offers hope, encouragement, and a reminder: healing begins with a choice.

We pray this episode blesses you.

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]]> Hi friend!

Have you ever gone through a season in marriage where things just felt… off? Maybe a little distant, a little disconnected, or just kind of stuck?

If so, you’re not alone.

In this episode, we’re kicking off our new Questions Jesus Asked series — exploring powerful questions from Scripture through the lens of marriage. Our first stop is John 5:6–8 (NIV), where Jesus looks at a man who had been stuck for 38 years and asks:
“Do you want to get well?”

At first glance, it sounds simple — but it cuts deep. Because sometimes, dysfunction feels familiar. Even comfortable. And before healing can begin in marriage, this question has to be answered honestly:

Do you really want to get well?

Whether your marriage feels distant or disconnected, this episode offers hope, encouragement, and a reminder: healing begins with a choice.

We pray this episode blesses you.

................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

Ready for a marriage reset?
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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 1118 full EP 175 \\ 3 “Easily Overlooked” Habits Blocking a Deeper Connection in Marriage (It’s Probably Not What You Think) EP 175 \\ 3 “Easily Overlooked” Habits Blocking a Deeper Connection in Marriage (It’s Probably Not What You Think) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/habits-blocking-deeper-connection-in-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/habits-blocking-deeper-connection-in-marriage/#comments Thu, 25 Sep 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/dab02528-8397-32cb-a9aa-75f56c89f57e Hi friend,

Even when there aren’t any “big” problems, couples can still feel a quiet distance. In this episode, we unpack three easily overlooked habits—certain patterns that act like barriers—that block couples from achieving a deeper connection in marriage. We’ve struggled with at least one of them ourselves, so if you recognize any of this, don’t be discouraged. Choose to take a step forward so you can enjoy a more exciting and satisfying marriage. If you’re ready to spot what’s been getting in the way (it’s probably not what you think) and start closing the gap, tune in now.

 

Related episodes:   EP 35 \\ Raising a family with limited time? Strengthen your marriage by adding THIS KEY INGREDIENT...even as busy parents!   EP 43 \\ No Time for “Me Time”? Why You Need to Create a Simple Self-Care Routine Even if You’re Married with Kids (& How to Make Time for Self-Care)!

 

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]]> Hi friend,

Even when there aren’t any “big” problems, couples can still feel a quiet distance. In this episode, we unpack three easily overlooked habits—certain patterns that act like barriers—that block couples from achieving a deeper connection in marriage. We’ve struggled with at least one of them ourselves, so if you recognize any of this, don’t be discouraged. Choose to take a step forward so you can enjoy a more exciting and satisfying marriage. If you’re ready to spot what’s been getting in the way (it’s probably not what you think) and start closing the gap, tune in now.

 

Related episodes:   EP 35 \\ Raising a family with limited time? Strengthen your marriage by adding THIS KEY INGREDIENT...even as busy parents!   EP 43 \\ No Time for “Me Time”? Why You Need to Create a Simple Self-Care Routine Even if You’re Married with Kids (& How to Make Time for Self-Care)!

 

................................................................................................

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📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

Ready for a marriage reset?
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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 575 full EP 174 \\ How to Express Yourself in Marriage Without Causing Conflict EP 174 \\ How to Express Yourself in Marriage Without Causing Conflict https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/express-yourself-in-marriage-without-causing-conflict/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/express-yourself-in-marriage-without-causing-conflict/#comments Thu, 18 Sep 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/d4450a9e-9efa-3f6c-b8e0-f593f059bf3c Do you ever feel like when you try to share your feelings with your spouse, it doesn’t land the way you intended? Maybe you’re simply trying to resolve an issue and be honest, but instead your spouse reacts defensively, gets upset, or feels attacked.

You don’t want to sweep things under the carpet—because you know that leads to resentment—but you also don’t want constant conflict. So, how do you express yourself in a way that creates connection instead of tension?

In this episode, you’ll learn how to share your heart honestly without causing unnecessary conflict, and how to create a safe space where both of you feel heard and connected.

  Curious to discover more? Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!   We pray this episode blesses you.  

................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

Ready for a marriage reset? 🎁 Join the Courageous Marriage Reset Challenge for free at [reset.happymarriedfamily.com]

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]]> Do you ever feel like when you try to share your feelings with your spouse, it doesn’t land the way you intended? Maybe you’re simply trying to resolve an issue and be honest, but instead your spouse reacts defensively, gets upset, or feels attacked.

You don’t want to sweep things under the carpet—because you know that leads to resentment—but you also don’t want constant conflict. So, how do you express yourself in a way that creates connection instead of tension?

In this episode, you’ll learn how to share your heart honestly without causing unnecessary conflict, and how to create a safe space where both of you feel heard and connected.

  Curious to discover more? Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!   We pray this episode blesses you.  

................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

Ready for a marriage reset?
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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 636 full EP 173 \\ Husbands, Want to Grow Closer to Your Wife? Embrace These 3 Leadership Types EP 173 \\ Husbands, Want to Grow Closer to Your Wife? Embrace These 3 Leadership Types https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/grow-closer-to-wife-embrace-these-3-leadership-types/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/grow-closer-to-wife-embrace-these-3-leadership-types/#comments Thu, 11 Sep 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/f7d119f9-79c1-3f29-939c-26e323643c33 Hi friend!

If you’re a husband who desires to enjoy a deeper connection with his wife while also honouring God in your marriage, then this episode is for you. In this episode, I will be talking about leadership in the home, a debated topic in these modern times. Get ready to discover 3 types of leadership to embrace as a husband to improve the connection with your wife in marriage.

Curious to find out? Alright then, tune in to listen to find out more!

................................................................................................

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Ready for a marriage reset? 🎁 Join the Courageous Marriage Reset Challenge for free at [reset.happymarriedfamily.com]

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]]> Hi friend!

If you’re a husband who desires to enjoy a deeper connection with his wife while also honouring God in your marriage, then this episode is for you. In this episode, I will be talking about leadership in the home, a debated topic in these modern times. Get ready to discover 3 types of leadership to embrace as a husband to improve the connection with your wife in marriage.

Curious to find out? Alright then, tune in to listen to find out more!

................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

Ready for a marriage reset?
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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 880 full EP 172 \\ Stop Doing This One Thing If You Want a Deeper Marriage Connection EP 172 \\ Stop Doing This One Thing If You Want a Deeper Marriage Connection https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/stop-doing-this-if-you-want-a-deeper-marriage-connection/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/stop-doing-this-if-you-want-a-deeper-marriage-connection/#comments Thu, 04 Sep 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/ebb5b066-7b2f-3878-a653-a512e0313e85 Hi friend!

We all know that building a thriving marriage takes effort. And when we think about strengthening our relationships, we often jump straight to the “how-to” tips — more date nights, better communication, deeper intimacy.

But what if there’s something you need to stop doing first?

Over the years, we’ve realized that sometimes, in order to create the deeper connection and intimacy we long for, it’s not about doing more — it’s about letting go of certain habits. And today, we’re unpacking one of the most common (and sneaky!) ones.

Curious? Tune in to find out what might be quietly keeping you and your spouse from the closeness you truly desire.

................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

Ready for a marriage reset? 🎁 Join the Courageous Marriage Reset Challenge for free at [reset.happymarriedfamily.com]

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]]> Hi friend!

We all know that building a thriving marriage takes effort. And when we think about strengthening our relationships, we often jump straight to the “how-to” tips — more date nights, better communication, deeper intimacy.

But what if there’s something you need to stop doing first?

Over the years, we’ve realized that sometimes, in order to create the deeper connection and intimacy we long for, it’s not about doing more — it’s about letting go of certain habits. And today, we’re unpacking one of the most common (and sneaky!) ones.

Curious? Tune in to find out what might be quietly keeping you and your spouse from the closeness you truly desire.

................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

Ready for a marriage reset?
🎁 Join the Courageous Marriage Reset Challenge for free at [reset.happymarriedfamily.com]

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 945 full EP 171 \\ Strengthen Your Marriage with This Simple Shift...Even If You're Low on Time! EP 171 \\ Strengthen Your Marriage with This Simple Shift...Even If You're Low on Time! https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/strengthen-your-marriage-with-this-simple-shift/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/strengthen-your-marriage-with-this-simple-shift/#comments Thu, 28 Aug 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/0b0f4e91-de08-3c0a-a8d0-5d204e0708b9 Hi friend!

Feel like you’re juggling a million things—kids, work, home life—and your marriage sometimes takes the backseat?

In this episode, you will discover ONE simple shift that can help strengthen your marriage starting today… even if you’re raising a family and don’t have a lot of time to spare.

It's something that has helped us grow in our relationship—even while parenting three children, living far from extended family, and managing the demands of everyday life here in North America.

We’re sharing this because it’s more important now than ever—especially in a fast-paced world filled with distractions constantly fighting for your attention.

✨ Want to know what it is?

🎧 Tune in to listen to find out more!

We pray this episode blesses you :)

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]]> Hi friend!

Feel like you’re juggling a million things—kids, work, home life—and your marriage sometimes takes the backseat?

In this episode, you will discover ONE simple shift that can help strengthen your marriage starting today… even if you’re raising a family and don’t have a lot of time to spare.

It's something that has helped us grow in our relationship—even while parenting three children, living far from extended family, and managing the demands of everyday life here in North America.

We’re sharing this because it’s more important now than ever—especially in a fast-paced world filled with distractions constantly fighting for your attention.

✨ Want to know what it is?

🎧 Tune in to listen to find out more!

We pray this episode blesses you :)

................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 738 full EP 170 \\ Increased Misunderstandings in Marriage: 3 Root Causes You Might Be Overlooking (And What to Do Instead) EP 170 \\ Increased Misunderstandings in Marriage: 3 Root Causes You Might Be Overlooking (And What to Do Instead) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/increased-misunderstandings-in-marriage-3-root-causes/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/increased-misunderstandings-in-marriage-3-root-causes/#comments Thu, 21 Aug 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/35a8b615-ed4e-3f90-abe9-d92d27db16df Hi friend!

Are you feeling frustrated by the growing misunderstandings in your marriage that seem to be pulling you and your spouse further apart? If so, you're not alone.

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 possible reasons why these misunderstandingsq may be happening more often — and what you can do to change the narrative in your relationship.

Alright, let's dig in!

 

Interested in coaching? 2 FREE Coaching Calls with Coach David for 2 individuals. For more information, pls read description below: 

Are you a wife who longs to feel seen and heard but you're struggling to get through to your husband? It seems like the more you try to communicate, the more you grow apart from each other.    Are you a husband who desires more intimacy in your marriage but you’re struggling to communicate your feelings & needs to your wife without it turning into an argument or fight?    Are you a spouse feeling frustrated about the increasing tension in your marriage?    Do you wish to truly connect with your spouse so you can enjoy your marriage…even if it has been a while?    If any of these sounds familiar, then I have something for you.    I am working on building my coaching offer and offering 2 free calls to the first 2 people who email me at coach@happymarriedfamily.com.   

You’ll receive personalized support tailored to your situation, and in return, I’ll gain valuable market research to help shape my coaching services. It’s a win-win, first 2 people only, you can email me right now at coach@happymarriedfamily.com to claim your spot.

Looking forward to connecting with you!

~David Lead Coach at Happy Married Family

 

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]]> Hi friend!

Are you feeling frustrated by the growing misunderstandings in your marriage that seem to be pulling you and your spouse further apart? If so, you're not alone.

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 possible reasons why these misunderstandingsq may be happening more often — and what you can do to change the narrative in your relationship.


Alright, let's dig in!

 

Interested in coaching? 2 FREE Coaching Calls with Coach David for 2 individuals. For more information, pls read description below: 

Are you a wife who longs to feel seen and heard but you're struggling to get through to your husband? It seems like the more you try to communicate, the more you grow apart from each other.    Are you a husband who desires more intimacy in your marriage but you’re struggling to communicate your feelings & needs to your wife without it turning into an argument or fight?    Are you a spouse feeling frustrated about the increasing tension in your marriage?    Do you wish to truly connect with your spouse so you can enjoy your marriage…even if it has been a while?    If any of these sounds familiar, then I have something for you.    I am working on building my coaching offer and offering 2 free calls to the first 2 people who email me at coach@happymarriedfamily.com.   

You’ll receive personalized support tailored to your situation, and in return, I’ll gain valuable market research to help shape my coaching services. It’s a win-win, first 2 people only, you can email me right now at coach@happymarriedfamily.com to claim your spot.

Looking forward to connecting with you!

~David
Lead Coach at Happy Married Family

 

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 803 full EP 169 \\ Feeling Unheard in Your Marriage? 2 Hidden Communication Mistakes That Could Be Blocking Real Connection EP 169 \\ Feeling Unheard in Your Marriage? 2 Hidden Communication Mistakes That Could Be Blocking Real Connection https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/communication-mistakes-blocking-connection/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/communication-mistakes-blocking-connection/#comments Thu, 14 Aug 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/dfdfe058-ea9f-39ac-b8c8-01a67fa080f8 Hi friend,

Have you ever tried to express something important to your spouse—only to feel like your words aren’t landing? That disconnect can be incredibly frustrating, especially when all you want is to feel heard, seen, and understood by the person you love.

Over the years, we've realized that sometimes it’s not just what we say—but how we say it—that either opens the door for connection or quietly pushes it shut. In this episode, we’re diving into two common mistakes couples make when trying to communicate, and how these habits might be keeping your spouse from truly listening.

More importantly, we’ll show you what to do instead—simple shifts that can help you express your heart without creating more distance in the process.

Alright, let's dig in.

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]]> Hi friend,

Have you ever tried to express something important to your spouse—only to feel like your words aren’t landing? That disconnect can be incredibly frustrating, especially when all you want is to feel heard, seen, and understood by the person you love.

Over the years, we've realized that sometimes it’s not just what we say—but how we say it—that either opens the door for connection or quietly pushes it shut. In this episode, we’re diving into two common mistakes couples make when trying to communicate, and how these habits might be keeping your spouse from truly listening.

More importantly, we’ll show you what to do instead—simple shifts that can help you express your heart without creating more distance in the process.

Alright, let's dig in.

................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

Ready for a marriage reset?
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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 676 full EP 168 \\ Marriage & Submission: Debunking the Lies That Divide Us EP 168 \\ Marriage & Submission: Debunking the Lies That Divide Us https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/marriage-and-submission/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/marriage-and-submission/#comments Thu, 07 Aug 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/4a86cc68-bfa0-3318-829f-aa1495fc68a7 Hi friend!

Submission has picked up a lot of baggage over the years—and not all of it is biblical. In this episode, we’re unpacking some of the most common lies about submission in marriage, including the belief that it means passivity, weakness, or one-sided obedience.

It’s time to strip away the distortions, return to Scripture, and rediscover the freedom found in God’s original design.

Let’s do this.

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]]> Hi friend!

Submission has picked up a lot of baggage over the years—and not all of it is biblical. In this episode, we’re unpacking some of the most common lies about submission in marriage, including the belief that it means passivity, weakness, or one-sided obedience.

It’s time to strip away the distortions, return to Scripture, and rediscover the freedom found in God’s original design.

Let’s do this.

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 1064 full EP 167 \\ Why You Shouldn’t Wait for Your Spouse to Get On Board Before Working on Your Marriage EP 167 \\ Why You Shouldn’t Wait for Your Spouse to Get On Board Before Working on Your Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/dont-wait-for-your-spouse-to-get-on-board/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/dont-wait-for-your-spouse-to-get-on-board/#comments Thu, 31 Jul 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/bc548e59-6f7c-3b87-b1eb-e9c5262ab455 Hi friend,

We often hear that it takes two committed individuals to make a marriage work but what if we told you that it takes one courageous spouse willing to make the move towards progress to begin this process.

Being a courageous spouse means choosing to partner with God and making courageous moves needed for a more loving & connected marriage…even if your spouse is not currently on board!

We’ve both had to play that role at different points in our journey, and we’ve seen firsthand how powerful one person’s faith and action can be in shifting the tone and direction of the relationship.

So if you desire a deeper connection in your marriage, but feel stuck because your spouse isn’t showing up right now, this episode is for you.

In this conversation, you’ll discover:

  • 3 reasons why waiting for your spouse to get on board before working on your marriage could be holding you back

  • How to begin moving forward and creating change — even on your own

  • Simple steps to start building the stronger marriage you truly long for

We pray this blesses you!

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]]> Hi friend,

We often hear that it takes two committed individuals to make a marriage work but what if we told you that it takes one courageous spouse willing to make the move towards progress to begin this process.

Being a courageous spouse means choosing to partner with God and making courageous moves needed for a more loving & connected marriage…even if your spouse is not currently on board!

We’ve both had to play that role at different points in our journey, and we’ve seen firsthand how powerful one person’s faith and action can be in shifting the tone and direction of the relationship.

So if you desire a deeper connection in your marriage, but feel stuck because your spouse isn’t showing up right now, this episode is for you.

In this conversation, you’ll discover:

  • 3 reasons why waiting for your spouse to get on board before working on your marriage could be holding you back

  • How to begin moving forward and creating change — even on your own

  • Simple steps to start building the stronger marriage you truly long for

We pray this blesses you!

................................................................................................

👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

Ready for a marriage reset?
🎁 Join the Courageous Marriage Reset Challenge for free at [reset.happymarriedfamily.com]

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 657 full EP 166 \\ The Fight We Don’t Remember...But Will Never Forget (Anniversary Gift Inside!) EP 166 \\ The Fight We Don’t Remember...But Will Never Forget (Anniversary Gift Inside!) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/courageous-marriage-reset-anniversary-episode/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/courageous-marriage-reset-anniversary-episode/#comments Thu, 24 Jul 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/c179bfbd-19e5-3f9b-8634-75f9c8cd6dea Hi friend!

Have you ever had a fight in your marriage so intense that you don’t even remember what started it—but you’ll never forget how it made you feel?

In this short but heartfelt anniversary episode, David and Ebun get vulnerable about one unforgettable moment in their marriage—the turning point that moved them from disconnection and conflict to intentional connection and deeper intimacy.

They also introduce the FREE 5-Day Courageous Marriage Reset Challenge — a simple, email-based journey built on five real-life-tested moves that helped them communicate better, reconnect emotionally, and grow stronger as a couple over the years.

🎁 Join the challenge for free at [reset.happymarriedfamily.com] ✅ One practical step per day ✅ Rooted in Scripture ✅ Designed for you — even if your spouse isn’t on board yet

Ready for a marriage reset? Tune in now to hear more and take your first courageous step today!

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]]> Hi friend!

Have you ever had a fight in your marriage so intense that you don’t even remember what started it—but you’ll never forget how it made you feel?

In this short but heartfelt anniversary episode, David and Ebun get vulnerable about one unforgettable moment in their marriage—the turning point that moved them from disconnection and conflict to intentional connection and deeper intimacy.

They also introduce the FREE 5-Day Courageous Marriage Reset Challenge — a simple, email-based journey built on five real-life-tested moves that helped them communicate better, reconnect emotionally, and grow stronger as a couple over the years.

🎁 Join the challenge for free at [reset.happymarriedfamily.com]
✅ One practical step per day
✅ Rooted in Scripture
✅ Designed for you — even if your spouse isn’t on board yet

Ready for a marriage reset? Tune in now to hear more and take your first courageous step today!

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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 350 full EP 165 \\ From Frustration to Reconnection: Navigating Unmet Expectations in Marriage EP 165 \\ From Frustration to Reconnection: Navigating Unmet Expectations in Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/navigating-unmet-expectations-in-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/navigating-unmet-expectations-in-marriage/#comments Thu, 17 Jul 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/4e044b49-2aef-3249-8451-c77a6bcaec4b Hi friend!

When we get married—and as the years go by—we bring expectations into the relationship. Some are spoken, others unspoken. But what happens when those expectations aren’t met?

Disappointment can quietly build up and create distance, especially when it happens repeatedly. But here’s the truth: how we respond to unmet expectations can either drive a wedge between us or open the door to deeper connection.

In this episode, we have an honest conversation about navigating disappointment in marriage. You’ll discover practical ways to handle unmet expectations—even if it’s not the first time—so you can move from frustration to reconnection.

We pray this episode blesses you and offers a fresh perspective on your marriage journey.

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]]> Hi friend!

When we get married—and as the years go by—we bring expectations into the relationship. Some are spoken, others unspoken. But what happens when those expectations aren’t met?

Disappointment can quietly build up and create distance, especially when it happens repeatedly.

But here’s the truth: how we respond to unmet expectations can either drive a wedge between us or open the door to deeper connection.

In this episode, we have an honest conversation about navigating disappointment in marriage. You’ll discover practical ways to handle unmet expectations—even if it’s not the first time—so you can move from frustration to reconnection.

We pray this episode blesses you and offers a fresh perspective on your marriage journey.

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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 661 full EP 164 \\ No Time? 5 Quick Ways to Reconnect With Your Spouse During a Busy Season (Under 5 Minutes!) EP 164 \\ No Time? 5 Quick Ways to Reconnect With Your Spouse During a Busy Season (Under 5 Minutes!) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/5-quick-ways-to-reconnect-with-spouse/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/5-quick-ways-to-reconnect-with-spouse/#comments Thu, 10 Jul 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/a943edd5-7dbe-3148-a18e-c28a5feb9c10 Hi friend! 

Marriage isn’t built on grand gestures—it’s forged in the small, often overlooked moments.

In the chaos of daily life—between meetings, errands, sports practices, and parenting—true connection can feel like a luxury you can’t afford. But what if it didn’t take hours? What if just five minutes could shift the tone of your entire day?

In this episode, we’re sharing 5 quick ways to reconnect with your spouse—each under 5 minutes. These are practical, meaningful, and doable even in your busiest season. Whether your marriage feels distant or just needs a boost of warmth, these micro-moves can make a big impact.

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🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

]]> Hi friend! 

Marriage isn’t built on grand gestures—it’s forged in the small, often overlooked moments.

In the chaos of daily life—between meetings, errands, sports practices, and parenting—true connection can feel like a luxury you can’t afford. But what if it didn’t take hours? What if just five minutes could shift the tone of your entire day?

In this episode, we’re sharing 5 quick ways to reconnect with your spouse—each under 5 minutes. These are practical, meaningful, and doable even in your busiest season. Whether your marriage feels distant or just needs a boost of warmth, these micro-moves can make a big impact.

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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 582 full EP 163 \\ The One Ingredient Your Marriage Needs to Improve Intimacy: Rest EP 163 \\ The One Ingredient Your Marriage Needs to Improve Intimacy: Rest https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/one-ingredient-marriage-needs-to-improve-intimacy/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/one-ingredient-marriage-needs-to-improve-intimacy/#comments Thu, 03 Jul 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/363a8503-b1c1-3f09-afce-27adc9bb657e Hi friend!

Let’s talk about something often overlooked—but essential—for a healthy, thriving marriage: REST. Not just physical rest, but the kind that restores your mind, heart, and your connection with your spouse.

What if the closeness you’re craving isn’t about more time or better communication, but about learning to slow down together?

In a world that celebrates busyness, many couples are quietly running on empty—tired, disconnected, and just trying to keep up. But what if rest isn’t a luxury? What if it’s one of the keys to thriving in your relationship?

In today’s episode, we unpack why rest—not more effort—might be exactly what your marriage needs this season. If you desire deeper intimacy, emotional connection, and closeness, then this episode is for you.

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]]> Hi friend!

Let’s talk about something often overlooked—but essential—for a healthy, thriving marriage: REST. Not just physical rest, but the kind that restores your mind, heart, and your connection with your spouse.

What if the closeness you’re craving isn’t about more time or better communication, but about learning to slow down together?

In a world that celebrates busyness, many couples are quietly running on empty—tired, disconnected, and just trying to keep up. But what if rest isn’t a luxury? What if it’s one of the keys to thriving in your relationship?

In today’s episode, we unpack why rest—not more effort—might be exactly what your marriage needs this season. If you desire deeper intimacy, emotional connection, and closeness, then this episode is for you.

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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 979 full EP 162 \\ Men’s Mental Health: You Are Not Alone EP 162 \\ Men’s Mental Health: You Are Not Alone https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/mental-health-conversation-for-men/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/mental-health-conversation-for-men/#comments Thu, 26 Jun 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/b5bc5d63-1686-321f-918c-e3f5cc8b2f06 Men’s Mental Health: You Are Not Alone

“I can’t hide myself I don’t expect you to understand I just hope I can explain What it’s like to be a man It’s a lonely road, and they don’t care about what you know It’s not about how you feel but what you provide inside that home.” — Dax, “To Be a Man”

This is the chorus of Dax’s song “To Be a Man”—and I know some husbands out there can really relate. The pressure. The silence. The weight of holding it all together by providing.

So as we wrap up June and Men’s Health Month, I want to speak directly to my brothers:

You don’t have to walk through it alone.

Taking care of your mental and physical health isn’t weakness — it’s wisdom. It’s strength.

And it’s one of the greatest things you can do for yourself, your marriage and your family.

No matter where you are in this season—or how deep the struggle feels right now—know this:

There is hope. And there is help.

Let’s talk about it.

David 

 

Mentioned in this episode:

Dax - "To Be A Man" (Official Music Video) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tHxip2x-PLc&ab_channel=Dax   Related episodes: EP 73 \\ Your Marriage and Mental Health : Prioritizing Your Mental Health and Support for Spouses with Dr. Adeola Adeyemi (Part 1)   EP 74 \\ Your Marriage and Mental Health: Prioritizing Your Mental Health and Support for Spouses with Dr. Adeola Adeyemi (Part 2)

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]]> Men’s Mental Health: You Are Not Alone

“I can’t hide myself
I don’t expect you to understand
I just hope I can explain
What it’s like to be a man
It’s a lonely road, and they don’t care about what you know
It’s not about how you feel but what you provide inside that home.”
— Dax, “To Be a Man”

This is the chorus of Dax’s song “To Be a Man”—and I know some husbands out there can really relate.
The pressure.
The silence.
The weight of holding it all together by providing.

So as we wrap up June and Men’s Health Month, I want to speak directly to my brothers:

You don’t have to walk through it alone.

Taking care of your mental and physical health isn’t weakness — it’s wisdom. It’s strength.

And it’s one of the greatest things you can do for yourself, your marriage and your family.

No matter where you are in this season—or how deep the struggle feels right now—know this:

There is hope. And there is help.

Let’s talk about it.

David 

 

Mentioned in this episode:

Dax - "To Be A Man" (Official Music Video) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tHxip2x-PLc&ab_channel=Dax   Related episodes: EP 73 \\ Your Marriage and Mental Health : Prioritizing Your Mental Health and Support for Spouses with Dr. Adeola Adeyemi (Part 1)   EP 74 \\ Your Marriage and Mental Health: Prioritizing Your Mental Health and Support for Spouses with Dr. Adeola Adeyemi (Part 2)

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 903 full EP 161 \\ How to Respond When Your Spouse Isn’t Meeting Your Needs in Marriage EP 161 \\ How to Respond When Your Spouse Isn’t Meeting Your Needs in Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/when-needs-are-not-met-in-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/when-needs-are-not-met-in-marriage/#comments Thu, 19 Jun 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/368e3ab5-ad5b-3384-b3ab-5a3a36b5a085 Hi friend!

Feeling like your needs aren’t being met in your marriage? Wondering if love is starting to feel one-sided? You’re not alone—and you need a P.L.A.N.

Marriage was designed to reflect God’s love. But what happens when you feel unseen, unheard, or emotionally disconnected?

In today’s episode, we’re unpacking how to respond when your spouse isn’t meeting your emotional or relational needs—not with bitterness or shutdown, but with wisdom rooted in God’s Word.

We’ll walk you through a simple, godly P.L.A.N. to help you respond with faith, courage, and intentional love—no matter where you are in your marriage.

Whether you’re in a difficult season or just feeling the slow drift of disconnection, this conversation will help you lead with love, stay anchored in the Truth of God's Word, and invite God into the unmet places of your heart.

Let’s dive in.

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]]> Hi friend!

Feeling like your needs aren’t being met in your marriage? Wondering if love is starting to feel one-sided? You’re not alone—and you need a P.L.A.N.

Marriage was designed to reflect God’s love. But what happens when you feel unseen, unheard, or emotionally disconnected?

In today’s episode, we’re unpacking how to respond when your spouse isn’t meeting your emotional or relational needs—not with bitterness or shutdown, but with wisdom rooted in God’s Word.

We’ll walk you through a simple, godly P.L.A.N. to help you respond with faith, courage, and intentional love—no matter where you are in your marriage.

Whether you’re in a difficult season or just feeling the slow drift of disconnection, this conversation will help you lead with love, stay anchored in the Truth of God's Word, and invite God into the unmet places of your heart.

Let’s dive in.

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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 769 full EP 160 \\ Want to Strengthen Emotional Closeness in Your Marriage? S.T.U.D.Y Your Spouse EP 160 \\ Want to Strengthen Emotional Closeness in Your Marriage? S.T.U.D.Y Your Spouse https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/strengthen-emotional-closeness-in-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/strengthen-emotional-closeness-in-marriage/#comments Thu, 12 Jun 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e995e6ba-3a8e-3cc4-a22b-da05693800a9 Hi friend!

Big shifts in marriage don’t usually come from big, dramatic turning points—they’re built through small, intentional moments, day by day.

In this episode, we explore one powerful (and often overlooked) habit that can deepen emotional closeness, rebuild connection, and strengthen your friendship in marriage: studying your spouse.

"What does it mean to S.T.U.D.Y my spouse?" We’ll walk through a simple, memorable framework to help you tune in, grow together, and create space for deeper connection—one conversation, one gesture, one choice at a time.

Whether your marriage feels distant or just needs a fresh reset, this episode will guide you toward deeper emotional intimacy and closeness.

Alright, let’s dig in!

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]]> Hi friend!

Big shifts in marriage don’t usually come from big, dramatic turning points—they’re built through small, intentional moments, day by day.

In this episode, we explore one powerful (and often overlooked) habit that can deepen emotional closeness, rebuild connection, and strengthen your friendship in marriage: studying your spouse.

"What does it mean to S.T.U.D.Y my spouse?" We’ll walk through a simple, memorable framework to help you tune in, grow together, and create space for deeper connection—one conversation, one gesture, one choice at a time.

Whether your marriage feels distant or just needs a fresh reset, this episode will guide you toward deeper emotional intimacy and closeness.

Alright, let’s dig in!

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🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 1029 full EP 159 \\ 4 Reasons Not To Wait for the "Perfect Time" to Connect With Your Spouse (Even In a Busy Season) EP 159 \\ 4 Reasons Not To Wait for the "Perfect Time" to Connect With Your Spouse (Even In a Busy Season) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/reasons-not-to-wait-to-connect-as-a-couple/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/reasons-not-to-wait-to-connect-as-a-couple/#comments Thu, 05 Jun 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/acd77ff9-f9b6-3b04-9a87-bf381c7677a3 Hi friend! 

You’ve probably said it—or at least thought it: “Once things calm down... once I get that promotion... once the timing feels right, then we'll reconnect."

It’s so easy to fall into the trap of waiting for the perfect time to connect with your spouse. But here’s the truth: waiting might be hurting your marriage more than helping it.

In this episode, we’re unpacking 4 powerful reasons why you shouldn’t delay meaningful connection with your spouse—including how waiting for the “right time” can quietly sabotage intimacy and what to do instead.

Whether you’ve felt emotionally distant lately or simply “too busy,” this loving (and practical!) conversation will give you the nudge you need to prioritize your marriage right now—in the middle of real life.

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]]> Hi friend! 

You’ve probably said it—or at least thought it:
“Once things calm down... once I get that promotion... once the timing feels right, then we'll reconnect."

It’s so easy to fall into the trap of waiting for the perfect time to connect with your spouse. But here’s the truth: waiting might be hurting your marriage more than helping it.

In this episode, we’re unpacking 4 powerful reasons why you shouldn’t delay meaningful connection with your spouse—including how waiting for the “right time” can quietly sabotage intimacy and what to do instead.

Whether you’ve felt emotionally distant lately or simply “too busy,” this loving (and practical!) conversation will give you the nudge you need to prioritize your marriage right now—in the middle of real life.

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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

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🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 614 full EP 158 \\ How Your Phone Is Quietly Competing With Your Spouse—And How to Reconnect in Marriage EP 158 \\ How Your Phone Is Quietly Competing With Your Spouse—And How to Reconnect in Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/phone-distraction-and-marrriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/phone-distraction-and-marrriage/#comments Thu, 29 May 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/7326cb6f-a980-3c01-b5c7-ed92ecffa28a Hi friend!

It’s always with us—our phones. They wake us up, keep us company, and fill every quiet moment. But what happens when that constant connection starts pulling us away from the people right in front of us—especially our spouse?

In today’s episode, we’re unpacking the subtle yet powerful impact phone distraction can have on your marriage. We’ll explore how this everyday habit might be quietly competing with your spouse—and more importantly, how to reclaim connection, intimacy, and intentional love in your relationship.

If you’ve ever felt more connected to your screen than your spouse, this episode is for you.

Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!

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]]> Hi friend!

It’s always with us—our phones. They wake us up, keep us company, and fill every quiet moment. But what happens when that constant connection starts pulling us away from the people right in front of us—especially our spouse?

In today’s episode, we’re unpacking the subtle yet powerful impact phone distraction can have on your marriage. We’ll explore how this everyday habit might be quietly competing with your spouse—and more importantly, how to reclaim connection, intimacy, and intentional love in your relationship.

If you’ve ever felt more connected to your screen than your spouse, this episode is for you.

Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!

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🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 850 full EP 157 \\ Struggling In Your Marriage? H.O.P.E Is Still Possible EP 157 \\ Struggling In Your Marriage? H.O.P.E Is Still Possible https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/struggling-in-marriage-hope-is-still-possible/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/struggling-in-marriage-hope-is-still-possible/#comments Thu, 22 May 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e19a7e75-8893-34cb-b086-a893cdee0fc0 Hi friend!

Marriage is one of the most beautiful bonds we can experience — but when it's struggling, it can also feel like one of the loneliest places to be.

If you’re feeling worn down, unheard, or unsure how to keep going, you’re not alone. 

Today’s episode is for the couples holding on by a thread…

The ones still showing up even when it’s hard…and anyone who needs a reminder that hope is still possible.

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]]> Hi friend!

Marriage is one of the most beautiful bonds we can experience — but when it's struggling, it can also feel like one of the loneliest places to be.

If you’re feeling worn down, unheard, or unsure how to keep going, you’re not alone. 

Today’s episode is for the couples holding on by a thread…

The ones still showing up even when it’s hard…and anyone who needs a reminder that hope is still possible.

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 813 full EP 156 \\ 4 Things Husbands Wish Their Wives Would Stop Doing EP 156 \\ 4 Things Husbands Wish Their Wives Would Stop Doing https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/4-things-husbands-wish-wives-would-stop-doing/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/4-things-husbands-wish-wives-would-stop-doing/#comments Thu, 15 May 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/9231a199-f3d9-3d8c-9d4b-ffd3c218608d Hey friend!

Today, we’re diving into one of those topics that might feel a little uncomfortable—but that’s exactly why it’s so important to talk about.

Every marriage has its ups and downs. And sometimes, without even realizing it, we slip into habits that slowly create distance instead of building connection. In this episode, we’re talking about a few things husbands often wish their wives would stop doing—not because they’re trying to control or complain, but because they truly care. They’re longing to feel closer, more understood, and more at peace in the relationship.

This isn’t about blame or finger-pointing—it’s about understanding each other better and growing together.

So, whether you’re listening on your own or with your spouse, take a deep breath and lean in with an open heart. Some of it might sting a little—but it just might open the door to something really beautiful.

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]]> Hey friend!


Today, we’re diving into one of those topics that might feel a little uncomfortable—but that’s exactly why it’s so important to talk about.

Every marriage has its ups and downs. And sometimes, without even realizing it, we slip into habits that slowly create distance instead of building connection. In this episode, we’re talking about a few things husbands often wish their wives would stop doing—not because they’re trying to control or complain, but because they truly care. They’re longing to feel closer, more understood, and more at peace in the relationship.

This isn’t about blame or finger-pointing—it’s about understanding each other better and growing together.

So, whether you’re listening on your own or with your spouse, take a deep breath and lean in with an open heart. Some of it might sting a little—but it just might open the door to something really beautiful.

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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 1232 full EP 155 \\ 4 Things Wives Wish Their Husbands Would Stop Doing EP 155 \\ 4 Things Wives Wish Their Husbands Would Stop Doing https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/4-things-wives-wish-their-husbands-would-stop-doing/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/4-things-wives-wish-their-husbands-would-stop-doing/#comments Thu, 08 May 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/c224e9d6-fcda-3f11-a126-72b44cfda1a1 Hi friend!

Marriage is a beautiful journey—but let’s be honest, it’s not always easy. Between work, life, and everyday routines, we can slip into habits we don’t even realize are hurting the very people we love most.

That’s why today, we’re diving into a topic that hits home for so many couples:

“4 Things Wives Wish Their Husbands Would Stop Doing.”

We’re talking about those small, everyday moments—things that might make her feel unseen, unheard, or unappreciated… even if that was never your intention.

These habits, if left unchecked, can slowly chip away at trust, intimacy, and connection.

But here’s the good news: this isn’t about guilt—it’s about growth.

Backed by biblical truth and practical wisdom, we’re unpacking what it really means to lead, love, and listen with intention. Whether you’re newly married or decades in, the fact that you’re here says something powerful: you care. And that’s exactly where change begins.

This episode will challenge and equip you to love better—starting today.

So open your heart, guys… and let’s get into it.

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]]> Hi friend!

Marriage is a beautiful journey—but let’s be honest, it’s not always easy. Between work, life, and everyday routines, we can slip into habits we don’t even realize are hurting the very people we love most.

That’s why today, we’re diving into a topic that hits home for so many couples:

“4 Things Wives Wish Their Husbands Would Stop Doing.”

We’re talking about those small, everyday moments—things that might make her feel unseen, unheard, or unappreciated… even if that was never your intention.

These habits, if left unchecked, can slowly chip away at trust, intimacy, and connection.

But here’s the good news: this isn’t about guilt—it’s about growth.

Backed by biblical truth and practical wisdom, we’re unpacking what it really means to lead, love, and listen with intention. Whether you’re newly married or decades in, the fact that you’re here says something powerful: you care. And that’s exactly where change begins.

This episode will challenge and equip you to love better—starting today.

So open your heart, guys… and let’s get into it.

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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

 

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 1247 full EP 154 \\ Unfiltered Honesty In Marriage: Its Effects—And What To Do Instead EP 154 \\ Unfiltered Honesty In Marriage: Its Effects—And What To Do Instead https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/unfiltered-honesty-in-marriage-its-effects-what-to-do-instead/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/unfiltered-honesty-in-marriage-its-effects-what-to-do-instead/#comments Thu, 01 May 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/44f7dbc5-3743-3679-9d59-1da4b6fb512b Hi friend!

There’s a popular saying: “Honesty is the best policy.”

But does that mean we should say everything that crosses our minds—no matter how raw, blunt, or unfiltered?

In today’s episode, we’re exploring a truth many couples overlook: Unfiltered honesty can do more harm than good in your marriage.

Words that are unprocessed or spoken in the heat of the moment—without thought or care—can slowly erode emotional safety, trust, and intimacy.

More importantly, we’ll talk about what to do instead: 👉 How can you be honest and kind? 👉 How do you speak without damaging your connection?

This episode is a must-listen if you want to build a marriage where honesty and compassion co-exist beautifully.

🎧 Tune in and discover how to say what’s true—without breaking the bond God is helping you build.

Related episode:  

EP 142 \\ This Five-Letter Word Can Save Your Marriage!

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]]> Hi friend!

There’s a popular saying: “Honesty is the best policy.”

But does that mean we should say everything that crosses our minds—no matter how raw, blunt, or unfiltered?

In today’s episode, we’re exploring a truth many couples overlook: Unfiltered honesty can do more harm than good in your marriage.

Words that are unprocessed or spoken in the heat of the moment—without thought or care—can slowly erode emotional safety, trust, and intimacy.

More importantly, we’ll talk about what to do instead:
👉 How can you be honest and kind?
👉 How do you speak without damaging your connection?

This episode is a must-listen if you want to build a marriage where honesty and compassion co-exist beautifully.

🎧 Tune in and discover how to say what’s true—without breaking the bond God is helping you build.


Related episode:  

EP 142 \\ This Five-Letter Word Can Save Your Marriage!

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 947 full EP 153 \\ Are Assumptions Silently Hurting Your Marriage? Here's The Truth EP 153 \\ Are Assumptions Silently Hurting Your Marriage? Here's The Truth https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/are-assumptions-silently-hurting-your-marriage-the-truth/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/are-assumptions-silently-hurting-your-marriage-the-truth/#comments Thu, 24 Apr 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/b3087228-b04f-396c-a3dc-db5307c590e0 Hi friend!

What if the biggest threat to your marriage wasn’t arguments, finances, or stress? Today, we’re unpacking something sneaky — something that can quietly unravel even the strongest relationships: assumptions.

You know the ones: “They should know what I need.” “If they really cared, they’d act differently.” “I already know how they’ll respond, so why bother?”

Sound familiar? Yeah, I’ve been there too.

But here’s the truth: assumptions aren’t facts. And when we stop asking, stop listening, and start assuming, we slowly stop truly connecting.

In this episode, we’re diving into:

  • Why we make assumptions in marriage

  • The damage they do (even when we don’t realize it)

  • How to break the habit — before it breaks us. 

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]]> Hi friend!

What if the biggest threat to your marriage wasn’t arguments, finances, or stress? Today, we’re unpacking something sneaky — something that can quietly unravel even the strongest relationships: assumptions.

You know the ones:
“They should know what I need.”
“If they really cared, they’d act differently.”
“I already know how they’ll respond, so why bother?”

Sound familiar? Yeah, I’ve been there too.

But here’s the truth: assumptions aren’t facts. And when we stop asking, stop listening, and start assuming, we slowly stop truly connecting.

In this episode, we’re diving into:

  • Why we make assumptions in marriage

  • The damage they do (even when we don’t realize it)

  • How to break the habit — before it breaks us. 

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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📧 Got questions or just want to say hi? Send an email to: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

 

 

 

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 1041 full EP 152 \\ 5 Thoughtful Questions To Deepen Your Connection In Marriage EP 152 \\ 5 Thoughtful Questions To Deepen Your Connection In Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/5-questions-to-deepen-connection-in-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/5-questions-to-deepen-connection-in-marriage/#comments Thu, 17 Apr 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/3c8d4989-e123-3ee1-aacb-622bb3afc624 Hi friend!

When was the last time you asked your spouse a question that made them pause and feel truly seen?

In this episode, we're diving into 5 endearing, heartfelt questions you can ask your spouse to spark deeper connection, emotional intimacy, and meaningful conversation in your marriage.

Whether you’ve been married for 5 months or 5 years, these questions will help you go beyond surface talk and truly show your spouse that you see them, hear them, and care deeply about who they are and what they’re going through.

Grab a pen (or hit save!)—because these questions might just open the door to some of the most powerful conversations you’ve had in a while.

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]]> Hi friend!

When was the last time you asked your spouse a question that made them pause and feel truly seen?

In this episode, we're diving into 5 endearing, heartfelt questions you can ask your spouse to spark deeper connection, emotional intimacy, and meaningful conversation in your marriage.

Whether you’ve been married for 5 months or 5 years, these questions will help you go beyond surface talk and truly show your spouse that you see them, hear them, and care deeply about who they are and what they’re going through.

Grab a pen (or hit save!)—because these questions might just open the door to some of the most powerful conversations you’ve had in a while.

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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📩 Become an Insider! Get weekly podcast updates, marriage tips, and exclusive offers sent straight to your inbox → https://rmpinsider.ck.page

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🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

 

 

 

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 642 full EP 151 \\ 3 Overlooked Ways to Show Love to Your Spouse That Will Impact Your Marriage EP 151 \\ 3 Overlooked Ways to Show Love to Your Spouse That Will Impact Your Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/3-ways-to-show-love-to-your-spouse/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/3-ways-to-show-love-to-your-spouse/#comments Thu, 10 Apr 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/34faafd7-cc80-3a9e-a045-c2f6bf9c1023 Hi friend!

Looking for ways to show love to your spouse this week? In this episode, we’re diving into 3 intentional ways to express love in your marriage that will make a lasting impact. These simple yet powerful gestures will help your spouse feel truly seen, valued, and deeply loved.

Whether your goal is to reconnect or strengthen your bond in marriage, here’s your gentle reminder: showing love doesn’t have to be complicated to be impactful. Small, intentional acts of love can create lasting change in your marriage.

🎧 Tune in, take notes, and let’s build a deeper, more connected marriage—one intentional act at a time.

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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📩 Become an Insider! Get weekly podcast updates, marriage tips, and exclusive offers sent straight to your inbox → https://rmpinsider.ck.page

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]]> Hi friend!

Looking for ways to show love to your spouse this week? In this episode, we’re diving into 3 intentional ways to express love in your marriage that will make a lasting impact. These simple yet powerful gestures will help your spouse feel truly seen, valued, and deeply loved.

Whether your goal is to reconnect or strengthen your bond in marriage, here’s your gentle reminder: showing love doesn’t have to be complicated to be impactful. Small, intentional acts of love can create lasting change in your marriage.

🎧 Tune in, take notes, and let’s build a deeper, more connected marriage—one intentional act at a time.

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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📩 Become an Insider! Get weekly podcast updates, marriage tips, and exclusive offers sent straight to your inbox → https://rmpinsider.ck.page

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 777 full EP 150 \\ Want a Healthy Home & Marriage? Use These 5 Powerful "I" Statements! EP 150 \\ Want a Healthy Home & Marriage? Use These 5 Powerful "I" Statements! https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/5-powerful-i-statements-to-use-in-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/5-powerful-i-statements-to-use-in-marriage/#comments Thu, 03 Apr 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/1b25c17a-a16a-36d0-86ae-d77577ace1a3 Hi Friend! 

The words we use in marriage matter—and sometimes, a simple shift in how we speak can make all the difference. That’s why in today’s episode, we’re diving into 5 powerful “I” statements that can help you strengthen communication, build trust, and create a deeper emotional connection with your spouse.

Because let’s be real—sometimes, it’s not just what we say, but how we say it that makes or breaks a conversation. So why not choose words that bring you closer instead of further apart?

Ready to improve communication and deepen your connection?

🎧 Hit play and let’s dive in!

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🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

]]> Hi Friend! 

The words we use in marriage matter—and sometimes, a simple shift in how we speak can make all the difference. That’s why in today’s episode, we’re diving into 5 powerful “I” statements that can help you strengthen communication, build trust, and create a deeper emotional connection with your spouse.

Because let’s be real—sometimes, it’s not just what we say, but how we say it that makes or breaks a conversation. So why not choose words that bring you closer instead of further apart?

Ready to improve communication and deepen your connection?

🎧 Hit play and let’s dive in!

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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📩 Become an Insider! Get weekly podcast updates, marriage tips, and exclusive offers sent straight to your inbox → https://rmpinsider.ck.page

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 747 full EP 149 \\ 5 Phrases to Try During a Difficult Conversation in Marriage EP 149 \\ 5 Phrases to Try During a Difficult Conversation in Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/5-phrases-to-try-during-a-difficult-conversation-in-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/5-phrases-to-try-during-a-difficult-conversation-in-marriage/#comments Thu, 27 Mar 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/b9f2bc15-0362-3fa6-9151-7087d209344e Hi friend! 

Have you ever avoided a difficult conversation with your spouse, hoping to keep the peace, only to feel the tension build up over time? You’re not alone. It might feel easier in the moment, but unresolved issues can lead to frustration, distance, and even resentment in the long run.

Even though difficult conversations sometimes come up in marriage, how we handle them makes all the difference. A tough discussion can either bring you closer together or create disconnection.

That’s why in this episode, I’m sharing 5 simple yet powerful phrases that can help you navigate these moments with more understanding and connection. You’ll also learn how to respond when your spouse shares their concerns, so both of you feel heard, valued, and respected.

Add these phrases to your “marriage toolbox” and continue building a strong, lasting relationship! 

🎧 Ready to transform the way you and your spouse communicate? Hit play and let’s dive in!

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👇 Let’s Stay Connected!

📩 Become an Insider! Get weekly podcast updates, marriage tips, and exclusive offers sent straight to your inbox → https://rmpinsider.ck.page

❓ Have questions or just want to say hi? 📧 Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode

#MarriageCommunication #HealthyMarriage #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #FaithBasedMarriage #StrongerTogether

   

 

]]> Hi friend! 

Have you ever avoided a difficult conversation with your spouse, hoping to keep the peace, only to feel the tension build up over time? You’re not alone. It might feel easier in the moment, but unresolved issues can lead to frustration, distance, and even resentment in the long run.

Even though difficult conversations sometimes come up in marriage, how we handle them makes all the difference. A tough discussion can either bring you closer together or create disconnection.

That’s why in this episode, I’m sharing 5 simple yet powerful phrases that can help you navigate these moments with more understanding and connection. You’ll also learn how to respond when your spouse shares their concerns, so both of you feel heard, valued, and respected.

Add these phrases to your “marriage toolbox” and continue building a strong, lasting relationship! 

🎧 Ready to transform the way you and your spouse communicate? Hit play and let’s dive in!

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 664 full EP 148 \\ 5 More Pieces of Marriage Advice That You Should Do Away With This Year (And What To Do Instead!) EP 148 \\ 5 More Pieces of Marriage Advice That You Should Do Away With This Year (And What To Do Instead!) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/5-more-pieces-of-marriage-advice-to-do-away-with/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/5-more-pieces-of-marriage-advice-to-do-away-with/#comments Thu, 20 Mar 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/a3b62a6f-cc65-3671-9546-e795d3a41aba Hi friend!

**This is the continuation of Episode 139 \\ 5 Pieces of Marriage Advice That You Should Do Away With This Year (And What to Do Instead!)**   When we get married, we may come across marriage advice from well-meaning individuals. This can either benefit your marriage or bring about issues in your relationship. Even though not all marriage advice is harmful, however, there are some you should ignore to avoid disconnection in your relationship. This is why in this episode, you will discover 5 more pieces of marriage advice you should do away with this year and what to do instead!   Ready to learn more?   Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!   To listen to the first part of this series, click below: EP 139 \\ 5 Pieces of Marriage Advice That You Should Do Away With This Year (And What to Do Instead!) .............................................................................................................  

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]]> Hi friend!

**This is the continuation of Episode 139 \\ 5 Pieces of Marriage Advice That You Should Do Away With This Year (And What to Do Instead!)**   When we get married, we may come across marriage advice from well-meaning individuals. This can either benefit your marriage or bring about issues in your relationship. Even though not all marriage advice is harmful, however, there are some you should ignore to avoid disconnection in your relationship. This is why in this episode, you will discover 5 more pieces of marriage advice you should do away with this year and what to do instead!   Ready to learn more?   Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!   To listen to the first part of this series, click below: EP 139 \\ 5 Pieces of Marriage Advice That You Should Do Away With This Year (And What to Do Instead!) .............................................................................................................  

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 747 full EP 147 \\ Prayers Are Not Enough To Save Your Marriage. Here's Why EP 147 \\ Prayers Are Not Enough To Save Your Marriage. Here's Why https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/prayers-are-not-enough-to-save-your-marriage-here-is-why/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/prayers-are-not-enough-to-save-your-marriage-here-is-why/#comments Thu, 13 Mar 2025 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/b1e15857-42f1-3a01-8cbe-975d2e291cb8 and despite all your prayers there has been no change. And you’re wondering, “Is God going to change my spouse?” In this episode, you will discover why prayers are not enough to save your marriage.

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        ]]> and despite all your prayers there has been no change. And you’re wondering, “Is God going to change my spouse?” In this episode, you will discover why prayers are not enough to save your marriage.

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        ]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 670 full EP 146 \\ Angry With Spouse? Ask Yourself These 5 Questions Before Responding EP 146 \\ Angry With Spouse? Ask Yourself These 5 Questions Before Responding https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/angry-with-spouse-5-questions-to-ask/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/angry-with-spouse-5-questions-to-ask/#comments Thu, 06 Mar 2025 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/714d5df7-e7e6-3efb-9f10-9a7f83c52f01 Hi friend!

Are you in a place in your marriage where you’re feeling deeply upset with your spouse? Are you feeling so angry with your spouse about something he/she did and you’re just trying to figure out a way around it so you do not escalate the situation?

If this sounds familiar, tune in to listen to this episode as we explore 5 questions  to ask yourself before you respond or proceed to act on that next thought (Hint: The 5 questions can be found in the five-letter pneumonic, P.R.E.F.R).

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]]> Hi friend!

Are you in a place in your marriage where you’re feeling deeply upset with your spouse? Are you feeling so angry with your spouse about something he/she did and you’re just trying to figure out a way around it so you do not escalate the situation?

If this sounds familiar, tune in to listen to this episode as we explore 5 questions  to ask yourself before you respond or proceed to act on that next thought (Hint: The 5 questions can be found in the five-letter pneumonic, P.R.E.F.R).

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 824 full EP 145 \\ Feeling Unappreciated In Your Marriage? Here Are 3 Tips To Try EP 145 \\ Feeling Unappreciated In Your Marriage? Here Are 3 Tips To Try https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/feeling-unappreciated-in-marriage-tips-to-try/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/feeling-unappreciated-in-marriage-tips-to-try/#comments Thu, 27 Feb 2025 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/90a175c2-dc9f-3bde-ba6c-c1b5cfffb634 Hi friend!

Are you in a season in your marriage when you're not feeling appreciated in your relationship? If you are currently thinking: “I feel unappreciated in my marriage” and you’re wondering what to do, you’re not alone. In this episode, I will share some possible reasons why this may be happening and some actions you can take or tips to try that could bring about positive results in your marriage.

Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy or psychological advice. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance.

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]]> Hi friend!

Are you in a season in your marriage when you're not feeling appreciated in your relationship? If you are currently thinking: “I feel unappreciated in my marriage” and you’re wondering what to do, you’re not alone. In this episode, I will share some possible reasons why this may be happening and some actions you can take or tips to try that could bring about positive results in your marriage.



Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy or psychological advice. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance.

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 821 full EP 144 \\ L.O.V.E In Action: Loving Your Spouse Courageously In Marriage (Part 2) EP 144 \\ L.O.V.E In Action: Loving Your Spouse Courageously In Marriage (Part 2) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/loving-your-spouse-in-marriage-2/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/loving-your-spouse-in-marriage-2/#comments Thu, 20 Feb 2025 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/91717888-932d-3aa2-8e07-c4e20907f7c6 Hi friend!

*This is Part 2 of a 2-part episode series.* There are times wherein life just happens...maybe a new job comes into the picture, a new child is added to the family, a move to a new location or relocation occurs and it now begins to feel as though love is starting to dissipate or disappear in marriage and a different kind of feeling emerges...resulting in feeling unloved. This is why in this episode, we will be talking about loving our spouses through difficult seasons of life or challenging times in marriage by choosing to love courageously in marriage...even if you're not feeling loved.

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]]> Hi friend!

*This is Part 2 of a 2-part episode series.* There are times wherein life just happens...maybe a new job comes into the picture, a new child is added to the family, a move to a new location or relocation occurs and it now begins to feel as though love is starting to dissipate or disappear in marriage and a different kind of feeling emerges...resulting in feeling unloved. This is why in this episode, we will be talking about loving our spouses through difficult seasons of life or challenging times in marriage by choosing to love courageously in marriage...even if you're not feeling loved.

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 1052 full EP 143 \\ L.O.V.E In Action: Loving Your Spouse Courageously In Marriage (Part 1) EP 143 \\ L.O.V.E In Action: Loving Your Spouse Courageously In Marriage (Part 1) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/loving-your-spouse-in-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/loving-your-spouse-in-marriage/#comments Thu, 13 Feb 2025 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/c8db0d89-9557-3e2e-9c64-f785403bddc7 Hi friend!

*This is Part 1 of a 2-part episode series.* There are times wherein life just happens...maybe a new job comes into the picture, a new child is added to the family, a move to a new location or relocation occurs and it now begins to feel as though love is starting to dissipate or disappear in marriage and a different kind of feeling emerges...resulting in feeling unloved. This is why in this episode, we will be talking about loving our spouses through difficult seasons of life or challenging times in marriage by choosing to love courageously in marriage...even if you're not feeling loved.

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]]> Hi friend!

*This is Part 1 of a 2-part episode series.* There are times wherein life just happens...maybe a new job comes into the picture, a new child is added to the family, a move to a new location or relocation occurs and it now begins to feel as though love is starting to dissipate or disappear in marriage and a different kind of feeling emerges...resulting in feeling unloved. This is why in this episode, we will be talking about loving our spouses through difficult seasons of life or challenging times in marriage by choosing to love courageously in marriage...even if you're not feeling loved.

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 910 full EP 142 \\This Five-Letter Word Can Save Your Marriage! EP 142 \\This Five-Letter Word Can Save Your Marriage! https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/this-five-letter-word-can-save-your-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/this-five-letter-word-can-save-your-marriage/#comments Thu, 06 Feb 2025 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/eb63958e-edf3-3c6b-aa4c-128c7ccbe605 Hi friend!

Are you in a tough season in your marriage where it seems like you are struggling to get through to your spouse? Do you desire to reconnect with your spouse? In this episode, you will discover one five-letter word that has benefited our marriage in amazing ways. For example, it has helped prevent conflicts from escalating & unnecessary conflicts from taking place and as a result, we enjoy a stronger connection in marriage. So, if your desire is to go from surviving to thriving in marriage, then, get ready to learn more about this five-letter word - one that can save your marriage!

Curious to find out? Then, tune in to listen to find out more!

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]]> Hi friend!

Are you in a tough season in your marriage where it seems like you are struggling to get through to your spouse? Do you desire to reconnect with your spouse? In this episode, you will discover one five-letter word that has benefited our marriage in amazing ways. For example, it has helped prevent conflicts from escalating & unnecessary conflicts from taking place and as a result, we enjoy a stronger connection in marriage. So, if your desire is to go from surviving to thriving in marriage, then, get ready to learn more about this five-letter word - one that can save your marriage!

Curious to find out? Then, tune in to listen to find out more!

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 749 full EP 141 \\ One Thing That Could Be Causing An Increase In Conflict In Your Marriage (& How To Deal With It) EP 141 \\ One Thing That Could Be Causing An Increase In Conflict In Your Marriage (& How To Deal With It) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/one-thing-could-be-the-reason-for-the-increase-in-conflict-in-marriage-how-to-deal-with-it/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/one-thing-could-be-the-reason-for-the-increase-in-conflict-in-marriage-how-to-deal-with-it/#comments Thu, 30 Jan 2025 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/75435543-680f-38b7-a740-b61335044d01 Hi friend!

Are you feeling frustrated about the increasing misunderstandings & fights in your marriage? Have you ever thought about what could be causing this increase in conflict in your marriage? We get it. Marriage can feel so tough when there is so much conflict and disconnection present. And there are different reasons why this sometimes show up in marriages. In this episode, you will discover one thing that could be the culprit and how to deal with it. 

Curious to know more?

Then tune in to listen to find out more!

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]]> Hi friend!

Are you feeling frustrated about the increasing misunderstandings & fights in your marriage? Have you ever thought about what could be causing this increase in conflict in your marriage? We get it. Marriage can feel so tough when there is so much conflict and disconnection present. And there are different reasons why this sometimes show up in marriages. In this episode, you will discover one thing that could be the culprit and how to deal with it. 

Curious to know more?

Then tune in to listen to find out more!

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 690 full EP 140 \\ Feel Like Giving Up On Your Marriage? Here Are 5 Tips To Try EP 140 \\ Feel Like Giving Up On Your Marriage? Here Are 5 Tips To Try https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/feel-like-giving-up-on-marriage-5-tips-to-try/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/feel-like-giving-up-on-marriage-5-tips-to-try/#comments Thu, 23 Jan 2025 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/4bafd257-5b74-3265-b11a-022f3c6f986c Hi friend!

Are you on the verge of giving up on your marriage? Have you been facing difficult challenges that are weighing you down? Does it seem like you are growing farther apart from each other with every passing day?  

If this is where you are right now, you are not alone. In this episode, I will be sharing 5 tips to try so you can start working towards building the strong & connected marriage you so desire.

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]]> Hi friend!

Are you on the verge of giving up on your marriage? Have you been facing difficult challenges that are weighing you down? Does it seem like you are growing farther apart from each other with every passing day?  

If this is where you are right now, you are not alone. In this episode, I will be sharing 5 tips to try so you can start working towards building the strong & connected marriage you so desire.

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 718 full EP 139 \\ 5 Pieces of Marriage Advice That You Should Do Away With This Year (And What To Do Instead!) EP 139 \\ 5 Pieces of Marriage Advice That You Should Do Away With This Year (And What To Do Instead!) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/marriage-advice-to-do-away-with/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/marriage-advice-to-do-away-with/#comments Thu, 16 Jan 2025 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/ec63f178-638c-35d6-99ad-564e4d56b44f Hi friend!

When we get married, we may come across marriage advice from well-meaning individuals. This can either benefit your marriage or bring about issues in your relationship. Even though not all marriage advice is harmful, however, there are some you should ignore to avoid disconnection in your relationship. This is why in this episode, you will discover 5 pieces of marriage advice you should do away with this year and what to do instead!   Ready to learn more?   Alright, tune in to listen to find out more! .............................................................................................................  

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]]> Hi friend!

When we get married, we may come across marriage advice from well-meaning individuals. This can either benefit your marriage or bring about issues in your relationship. Even though not all marriage advice is harmful, however, there are some you should ignore to avoid disconnection in your relationship. This is why in this episode, you will discover 5 pieces of marriage advice you should do away with this year and what to do instead!   Ready to learn more?   Alright, tune in to listen to find out more! .............................................................................................................  

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 767 full EP 138 \\ Frustrated About The Frequent Misunderstandings In Your Marriage? Here Are Some Hacks To Try EP 138 \\ Frustrated About The Frequent Misunderstandings In Your Marriage? Here Are Some Hacks To Try https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/frustrated-about-frequent-misunderstandings-in-marriage-hacks-to-try/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/frustrated-about-frequent-misunderstandings-in-marriage-hacks-to-try/#comments Thu, 09 Jan 2025 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/c98cd1c3-d78b-3b52-809e-685c3d388597 📩 Become an Insider: Receive weekly podcast updates, marital tips, early access to special offers & giveaways right in your inbox...https://rmpinsider.ck.page

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 671 full EP 137 \\ 5 Simple Ways To Invest In Your Marriage in 2025 EP 137 \\ 5 Simple Ways To Invest In Your Marriage in 2025 https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/simple-ways-to-invest-in-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/simple-ways-to-invest-in-marriage/#comments Thu, 02 Jan 2025 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/553dccad-9709-3051-b28b-1fba010101c0 Hi friend!

Happy New Year!!!

A new year has begun...this presents us with an opportunity to reflect, think about what we really want our marriages to look like, and set some goals in the new year (if we haven't done so already). If your desire is to enjoy a stronger and more connected marriage in the new year, this is an episode you don't want to miss. In this episode, you will discover 5 simple ways to invest in your marriage in 2025.

Ready to find out?

Alright then, tune in to listen to find out more!

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]]> Hi friend!

Happy New Year!!!

A new year has begun...this presents us with an opportunity to reflect, think about what we really want our marriages to look like, and set some goals in the new year (if we haven't done so already). If your desire is to enjoy a stronger and more connected marriage in the new year, this is an episode you don't want to miss. In this episode, you will discover 5 simple ways to invest in your marriage in 2025.

Ready to find out?

Alright then, tune in to listen to find out more!

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 890 full EP 136 \\ A Message of Hope, Joy, Peace & Love For Your Marriage EP 136 \\ A Message of Hope, Joy, Peace & Love For Your Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/a-message-of-hope-joy-peace-and-love-for-your-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/a-message-of-hope-joy-peace-and-love-for-your-marriage/#comments Thu, 26 Dec 2024 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/03e931eb-c077-361c-8c2d-bbcbc7af8aa1 📩 Become an Insider: Receive weekly podcast updates, marital tips, early access to special offers & giveaways right in your inbox...https://rmpinsider.ck.page

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     ]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 892 full EP 135 \\ Strengthen Your Marriage By Adding THIS KEY INGREDIENT...Even If You're Raising A Family With Limited Time! EP 135 \\ Strengthen Your Marriage By Adding THIS KEY INGREDIENT...Even If You're Raising A Family With Limited Time! https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/strengthen-marriage-by-adding-this-key-ingredient/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/strengthen-marriage-by-adding-this-key-ingredient/#comments Thu, 19 Dec 2024 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/175d6067-ba93-34ff-acd4-f6d50361b2ef 📩 Become an Insider: Receive weekly podcast updates, marital tips, early access to special offers & giveaways right in your inbox...https://rmpinsider.ck.page

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     ]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 738 full EP 134 \\ 3 Essential Areas of Growth For A Stronger And Happier Marriage EP 134 \\ 3 Essential Areas of Growth For A Stronger And Happier Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/3-areas-of-growth-for-a-stronger-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/3-areas-of-growth-for-a-stronger-marriage/#comments Thu, 12 Dec 2024 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/98d21b83-cf0a-3bea-8319-274915ce0c58 📩 Become an Insider: Receive weekly podcast updates, marital tips, early access to special offers & giveaways right in your inbox...https://rmpinsider.ck.page

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 1155 full EP 133 \\ Frustrated about the conflicts in your marriage? Here are 3 virtues you need EP 133 \\ Frustrated about the conflicts in your marriage? Here are 3 virtues you need https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/frustrated-about-conflicts-in-marriage-here-are-3-virtues/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/frustrated-about-conflicts-in-marriage-here-are-3-virtues/#comments Thu, 05 Dec 2024 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/219a709e-3ef5-3f31-9e63-44ecf7aca829 Hi friend!

In today’s episode, we delve into 3 virtues that you need in your marriage to keep the peace. Many of us do well with the first two, but the last one is where we fall short. What are these virtues and how do you go about attaining them? 

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In today’s episode, we delve into 3 virtues that you need in your marriage to keep the peace. Many of us do well with the first two, but the last one is where we fall short. What are these virtues and how do you go about attaining them? 

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 782 full EP 132 \\ Here's ONE Habit That Can Transform Your Life And Marriage! EP 132 \\ Here's ONE Habit That Can Transform Your Life And Marriage! https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/one-habit-that-can-transform-your-life-and-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/one-habit-that-can-transform-your-life-and-marriage/#comments Thu, 28 Nov 2024 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/a5f6f9d0-e368-30f6-a06a-c982d5140583 https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthbeat/giving-thanks-can-make-you-happier   Additional resources you may be interested in:   A Devotional by Youversion on Gratitude YouVersion plan 'How to Be Grateful for Your Life'. Check it out here:https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/22405   -The Word for Today by Bob and Debby Gass  https://vision.org.au/the-word-for-today/associated-blog/the-word-for-today-devotional-content/gratitude/

 

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Want to know more?   Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!   Links mentioned in this episode:   -Giving thanks can make you happier by Havard Health Publishing blog https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthbeat/giving-thanks-can-make-you-happier   Additional resources you may be interested in:   A Devotional by Youversion on Gratitude YouVersion plan 'How to Be Grateful for Your Life'. Check it out here:https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/22405
  -The Word for Today by Bob and Debby Gass  https://vision.org.au/the-word-for-today/associated-blog/the-word-for-today-devotional-content/gratitude/

 

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 487 full EP 131 \\ 5 Marriage Myths To Stop Believing To Avoid Frustration In Your Relationship EP 131 \\ 5 Marriage Myths To Stop Believing To Avoid Frustration In Your Relationship https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/5-marriage-myths-to-stop-believing/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/5-marriage-myths-to-stop-believing/#comments Thu, 21 Nov 2024 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/106d4651-7ef7-35d7-bb0a-84f6be428f18 📩 Become an Insider: Receive weekly podcast updates, marital tips, early access to special offers & giveaways right in your inbox...https://rmpinsider.ck.page

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 999 full EP 130 \\ Want to Resolve Conflicts Faster? Be a H.O.T Spouse! EP 130 \\ Want to Resolve Conflicts Faster? Be a H.O.T Spouse! https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/want-to-resolve-conflicts-faster-be-a-hot-spouse/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/want-to-resolve-conflicts-faster-be-a-hot-spouse/#comments Thu, 14 Nov 2024 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/00f248c7-037f-3990-a053-dd9d4acdf68a Hi friend!

Have you ever wondered if there was a way to resolve conflicts or disagreements faster when they show up in marriage? If so, this is an episode you do not want to miss. In this episode, you will discover what it means to be a H.O.T Spouse and how this approach can help you as you navigate those tough conversations in marriage during conflict. 

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Have you ever wondered if there was a way to resolve conflicts or disagreements faster when they show up in marriage? If so, this is an episode you do not want to miss. In this episode, you will discover what it means to be a H.O.T Spouse and how this approach can help you as you navigate those tough conversations in marriage during conflict. 

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Interested in coaching? 2 FREE Coaching Calls with Coach David for 2 individuals. For more information, pls read description below: 

Are you a wife who longs to feel seen and heard but you're struggling to get through to your husband? It seems like the more you try to communicate, the more you grow apart from each other.    Are you a husband who desires more intimacy in your marriage but you’re struggling to communicate your feelings & needs to your wife without it turning into an argument or fight?    Are you a spouse feeling frustrated about the increasing tension in your marriage?    Do you wish to truly connect with your spouse so you can enjoy your marriage…even if it has been a while?    If any of these sounds familiar, then I have something for you.    I am working on building my coaching offer and offering 2 free calls to the first 2 people who email me at coach@happymarriedfamily.com.    You would be getting free coaching and I am going to gain some market research. It’s a win-win, first 2 people only, you can email me right now at coach@happymarriedfamily.com


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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 851 full EP 129 \\ 3 Possible Reasons Why Misunderstandings Have Increased In Your Marriage (And How To Change That!) EP 129 \\ 3 Possible Reasons Why Misunderstandings Have Increased In Your Marriage (And How To Change That!) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/reasons-for-increased-misunderstandings-in-marriage-and-how-to-change-that/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/reasons-for-increased-misunderstandings-in-marriage-and-how-to-change-that/#comments Thu, 07 Nov 2024 03:00:00 -0700 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/07aec56a-5f41-331e-9f3a-92f02837cb65 Hi friend!

Are you feeling frustrated about the increasing misunderstandings in your marriage pulling you apart from each other? If so, you're not alone. In this episode, I will be sharing 3 possible reasons that could be at play here and what to do to change the narrative in your relationship.

Alright, let's dig in!

 

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Are you a wife who longs to feel seen and heard but you're struggling to get through to your husband? It seems like the more you try to communicate, the more you grow apart from each other.    Are you a husband who desires more intimacy in your marriage but you’re struggling to communicate your feelings & needs to your wife without it turning into an argument or fight?    Are you a spouse feeling frustrated about the increasing tension in your marriage?    Do you wish to truly connect with your spouse so you can enjoy your marriage…even if it has been a while?    If any of these sounds familiar, then I have something for you.    I am working on building my coaching offer and offering 2 free calls to the first 2 people who email me at coach@happymarriedfamily.com.    You would be getting free coaching and I am going to gain some market research. It’s a win-win, first 2 people only, you can email me right now at coach@happymarriedfamily.com

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]]> Hi friend!

Are you feeling frustrated about the increasing misunderstandings in your marriage pulling you apart from each other? If so, you're not alone. In this episode, I will be sharing 3 possible reasons that could be at play here and what to do to change the narrative in your relationship.


Alright, let's dig in!

 

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Are you a wife who longs to feel seen and heard but you're struggling to get through to your husband? It seems like the more you try to communicate, the more you grow apart from each other.    Are you a husband who desires more intimacy in your marriage but you’re struggling to communicate your feelings & needs to your wife without it turning into an argument or fight?    Are you a spouse feeling frustrated about the increasing tension in your marriage?    Do you wish to truly connect with your spouse so you can enjoy your marriage…even if it has been a while?    If any of these sounds familiar, then I have something for you.    I am working on building my coaching offer and offering 2 free calls to the first 2 people who email me at coach@happymarriedfamily.com.    You would be getting free coaching and I am going to gain some market research. It’s a win-win, first 2 people only, you can email me right now at coach@happymarriedfamily.com


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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 803 full EP 128 \\ Are you struggling in your marriage? Here is some encouragement for you EP 128 \\ Are you struggling in your marriage? Here is some encouragement for you https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/struggling-in-marriage-some-encouragement-for-you/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/struggling-in-marriage-some-encouragement-for-you/#comments Thu, 31 Oct 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/7d90c78f-8ecb-35b4-8a88-2be7fe42fa0d Hi friend!

Are you struggling in your marriage? Are you feeling frustrated about the increasing tension in your relationship? Do you desire to grow closer as an intimate couple while experiencing more peace, harmony, and unity in your home?

If this describes your current experience, you're not alone. This episode was created just for you...to encourage you on your marital journey.

I invite you to tune in to listen and grab some encouragement along the way!

 

Interested in coaching? 2 FREE Coaching Calls with Coach David for 2 individuals. For more information, pls read description below: 

Are you a wife who longs to feel seen and heard but you're struggling to get through to your husband? It seems like the more you try to communicate, the more you grow apart from each other.    Are you a husband who desires more intimacy in your marriage but you’re struggling to communicate your feelings & needs to your wife without it turning into a fight?    Are you a spouse feeling frustrated about the increasing tension in your marriage?    Maybe you’ve begun to notice that when an opportunity for discussion arises, you get into more arguments and misunderstandings than pleasant and relaxing conversations with your spouse. Then, to avoid this cycle of discomfort, you begin to avoid having conversations with your spouse and choose to save up the energy to invest in your relationship with your kids, work or other interests.   Do you wish to truly connect with your spouse so you can enjoy your marriage…even if it has been a while?    If any of these sounds familiar, then I have something for you.    I am working on building my coaching offer and offering 2 free calls to the first 2 people who email me at coach@happymarriedfamily.com.    You would be getting free coaching and I am going to gain some market research. It’s a win-win, first 2 people only, you can email me right now at coach@happymarriedfamily.com

 

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]]> Hi friend!

Are you struggling in your marriage? Are you feeling frustrated about the increasing tension in your relationship? Do you desire to grow closer as an intimate couple while experiencing more peace, harmony, and unity in your home?

If this describes your current experience, you're not alone. This episode was created just for you...to encourage you on your marital journey.

I invite you to tune in to listen and grab some encouragement along the way!

 

Interested in coaching? 2 FREE Coaching Calls with Coach David for 2 individuals. For more information, pls read description below: 

Are you a wife who longs to feel seen and heard but you're struggling to get through to your husband? It seems like the more you try to communicate, the more you grow apart from each other.    Are you a husband who desires more intimacy in your marriage but you’re struggling to communicate your feelings & needs to your wife without it turning into a fight?    Are you a spouse feeling frustrated about the increasing tension in your marriage?    Maybe you’ve begun to notice that when an opportunity for discussion arises, you get into more arguments and misunderstandings than pleasant and relaxing conversations with your spouse. Then, to avoid this cycle of discomfort, you begin to avoid having conversations with your spouse and choose to save up the energy to invest in your relationship with your kids, work or other interests.   Do you wish to truly connect with your spouse so you can enjoy your marriage…even if it has been a while?    If any of these sounds familiar, then I have something for you.    I am working on building my coaching offer and offering 2 free calls to the first 2 people who email me at coach@happymarriedfamily.com.    You would be getting free coaching and I am going to gain some market research. It’s a win-win, first 2 people only, you can email me right now at coach@happymarriedfamily.com

 

~David 

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 769 full EP 127 \\ Changing Your Perspective: A Powerful Hack That Can Positively Impact Your Spouse And Marriage EP 127 \\ Changing Your Perspective: A Powerful Hack That Can Positively Impact Your Spouse And Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/changing-your-perspective-for-a-stronger-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/changing-your-perspective-for-a-stronger-marriage/#comments Thu, 24 Oct 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/823248b0-ecdc-3fca-a30e-c418404d095b ....................……………………………………….................

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]]> We all know too well that when we have done something for so long we can become bored with it and begin to take it for granted. Interestingly, we treat our marriages and relationships this way. But what happens if your spouse refuses to upgrade? Or when you feel they are not meeting your expectations? Is there another approach you could use? What about having a different perspective? In this episode, I share what it means to change your perspective in marriage.   Want to know more? So get ready, set, and tune in to listen to find out more!  

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 558 full EP 125 \\ Finances in Marriage: Do We Need a Joint Bank Account For a Strong and Successful Marriage? EP 125 \\ Finances in Marriage: Do We Need a Joint Bank Account For a Strong and Successful Marriage? https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/finances-in-marriage-joint-account/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/finances-in-marriage-joint-account/#comments Thu, 10 Oct 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/f1fe20ad-e52f-3199-992b-9d8686bb5eb1 Hi friend!

Wondering if a married couple needs a joint bank account for a strong and successful marriage? Then, get ready to tune in to listen to this episode as I address one of the questions that come up in marriage and money conversations.

We pray this episode blesses you:)

 

Any information, commentary, recommendations or statements of opinion provided in this episode are for general information purposes only. It is not intended be personalised investment advice or a solicitation for the purchase or sale of securities.   

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Wondering if a married couple needs a joint bank account for a strong and successful marriage? Then, get ready to tune in to listen to this episode as I address one of the questions that come up in marriage and money conversations.

We pray this episode blesses you:)

 

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 ]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 869 full EP 122 \\ 5 Essential Things To Know For Effective Conflict Management in Marriage EP 122 \\ 5 Essential Things To Know For Effective Conflict Management in Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/essential-considerations-for-effective-conflict-management-in-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/essential-considerations-for-effective-conflict-management-in-marriage/#comments Thu, 19 Sep 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/088082e0-07ed-35e8-bc61-fb3d8b364700 Hi friend!

We cannot tell you that you will never experience conflict in marriage but what we can tell you is that if you know how to manage conflict or disagreements better, it will benefit your marriage. This will save you more time and energy not just in the present moment but also in the long run. This is why in this episode, I will be sharing 5 essential things to know for better conflict management in marriage so you can enjoy a closer and more connected relationship.    So get Ready...Set...Tune in to listen to find out more!   Links mentioned in this episode   Understanding Conflict - Meaning and Phases of Conflict by Management Study Guide https://www.managementstudyguide.com/understanding-conflict.htm#  

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We cannot tell you that you will never experience conflict in marriage but what we can tell you is that if you know how to manage conflict or disagreements better, it will benefit your marriage. This will save you more time and energy not just in the present moment but also in the long run. This is why in this episode, I will be sharing 5 essential things to know for better conflict management in marriage so you can enjoy a closer and more connected relationship.    So get Ready...Set...Tune in to listen to find out more!   Links mentioned in this episode   Understanding Conflict - Meaning and Phases of Conflict by Management Study Guide https://www.managementstudyguide.com/understanding-conflict.htm#  

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 813 full EP 121 \\ HELP! I Want To Have Sex, My Spouse Wants To Have Deep Conversations. Different needs, Same Goal in Marriage? EP 121 \\ HELP! I Want To Have Sex, My Spouse Wants To Have Deep Conversations. Different needs, Same Goal in Marriage? https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/when-spouses-have-different-needs-in-marriage-at-the-same-time/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/when-spouses-have-different-needs-in-marriage-at-the-same-time/#comments Thu, 12 Sep 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/8cafac84-4151-36fd-b0fd-90094e45889c Hi friend!

What do you do when you have different needs in marriage simultaneously? For example, when your spouse wants to engage in a deep conversation with you and you want to have sex...both happening around the same time.  How can we navigate this scenario especially when the end goal is to build connection and improve intimacy in marriage?

If this sounds like something you've experienced, you're not alone. We've been there too. In this episode, you will learn about our experience and what we did when faced with a similar situation...and be prepared to also grab some valuable marital tips along the way!

Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!

 

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EP 42 \\ HELP! We Talk to Each Other But are Feeling Disconnected in Marriage. Start this Non-Sexual Couple Ritual, Grow Closer to Your Spouse & Build More Intimacy...Even as Parents!

 

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]]> Hi friend!

What do you do when you have different needs in marriage simultaneously? For example, when your spouse wants to engage in a deep conversation with you and you want to have sex...both happening around the same time.  How can we navigate this scenario especially when the end goal is to build connection and improve intimacy in marriage?

If this sounds like something you've experienced, you're not alone. We've been there too. In this episode, you will learn about our experience and what we did when faced with a similar situation...and be prepared to also grab some valuable marital tips along the way!

Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!

 

Related episodes:

EP 62 \\ Want to have more marriage sex after kids? These 5 tips could help!

EP 42 \\ HELP! We Talk to Each Other But are Feeling Disconnected in Marriage. Start this Non-Sexual Couple Ritual, Grow Closer to Your Spouse & Build More Intimacy...Even as Parents!

 

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 713 full EP 120 \\ Want To Prevent Conflicts From Escalating? Here are 3 Communication Mistakes to Avoid In Your Marriage EP 120 \\ Want To Prevent Conflicts From Escalating? Here are 3 Communication Mistakes to Avoid In Your Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/3-communication-mistakes-to-avoid-in-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/3-communication-mistakes-to-avoid-in-marriage/#comments Thu, 05 Sep 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/0a6b608e-a4d6-358e-b8c1-ff98fe27082c Hi friend, Have you ever wondered or been curious about how to improve communication in your marriage? If so, you're not alone.

One of the ways we have strengthened our marriage and grown together as a team has involved communicating better with each other. The way we communicate with our spouses can either strengthen or weaken our connection in marriage or even result in the escalation of conflicts.

Communication is such a broad topic to discuss in one episode but today I will be sharing 3 communication blunders or mistakes to avoid for a stronger connection with your spouse. When these communication blunders are made from time to time,  it becomes harder for spouses to connect. This can eventually result in creating distance between spouses.

If you desire to communicate to connect better with your spouse, then get ready to discover these three communication mistakes to avoid so you can begin to prevent conflicts from escalating and also enjoy a stronger bond & connection in marriage. 

Ready...Set...

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]]> Hi friend,

Have you ever wondered or been curious about how to improve communication in your marriage? If so, you're not alone.

One of the ways we have strengthened our marriage and grown together as a team has involved communicating better with each other. The way we communicate with our spouses can either strengthen or weaken our connection in marriage or even result in the escalation of conflicts.

Communication is such a broad topic to discuss in one episode but today I will be sharing 3 communication blunders or mistakes to avoid for a stronger connection with your spouse. When these communication blunders are made from time to time,  it becomes harder for spouses to connect. This can eventually result in creating distance between spouses.

If you desire to communicate to connect better with your spouse, then get ready to discover these three communication mistakes to avoid so you can begin to prevent conflicts from escalating and also enjoy a stronger bond & connection in marriage. 

Ready...Set...

Tune in to listen to find out more!

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 771 full EP 119 \\ This ONE Thing Could Be Hindering You From Building A Stronger Connection In Your Marriage EP 119 \\ This ONE Thing Could Be Hindering You From Building A Stronger Connection In Your Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/one-thing-hindering-stronger-connection-in-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/one-thing-hindering-stronger-connection-in-marriage/#comments Thu, 29 Aug 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/6bcafa65-8aad-3039-b37d-220e8ada2345 Hi friend!

It is no longer news that building a thriving marriage takes hard work. When we think about investing in our marriages, what often comes to mind are actionable tips to deepen connection, grow stronger in marriage and stay connected as a couple.

But over the years, we’ve realized that sometimes, in order to achieve the deeper connection and intimacy we desire in our marriages, we need to stop doing certain things and one of them will be the topic of discussion today.

Want to know more?

Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!

 

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   ]]> Hi friend!

It is no longer news that building a thriving marriage takes hard work. When we think about investing in our marriages, what often comes to mind are actionable tips to deepen connection, grow stronger in marriage and stay connected as a couple.

But over the years, we’ve realized that sometimes, in order to achieve the deeper connection and intimacy we desire in our marriages, we need to stop doing certain things and one of them will be the topic of discussion today.

Want to know more?

Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!

 

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   ]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 947 full EP 118 \\ Ditching the Comparison Trap: How To Stop Comparisonitis For A More Connected Marriage (Part 2) EP 118 \\ Ditching the Comparison Trap: How To Stop Comparisonitis For A More Connected Marriage (Part 2) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/comparisonitis-and-marriage-2/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/comparisonitis-and-marriage-2/#comments Thu, 22 Aug 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/345438da-241c-3920-831a-f4b96793330f Hi friend!

We live in a global village. We don’t have to live in the same neighborhood to know about the life of another person living in another neighborhood on another continent.

Enter the world of technology & the internet. A world where you see beautiful pictures and videos of couples and individuals... Depending on the current state of your marriage, subconsciously you may find yourself comparing your spouse or marriage to another person’s spouse or marriage.

Then, the "Comparison Trap"...Comparisonitis sets in...

"If only my spouse were like this person or that person's spouse..."  

In this episode (part 2 of this episode series), you will discover how to stop comparisonitis from hurting your relationship with your spouse so you can enjoy a more connected marriage.

We pray this episode blesses you.

Alright, tune in and let's dig in:)

 

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    ]]> Hi friend!

We live in a global village. We don’t have to live in the same neighborhood to know about the life of another person living in another neighborhood on another continent.

Enter the world of technology & the internet. A world where you see beautiful pictures and videos of couples and individuals... Depending on the current state of your marriage, subconsciously you may find yourself comparing your spouse or marriage to another person’s spouse or marriage.

Then, the "Comparison Trap"...Comparisonitis sets in...

"If only my spouse were like this person or that person's spouse..."  

In this episode (part 2 of this episode series), you will discover how to stop comparisonitis from hurting your relationship with your spouse so you can enjoy a more connected marriage.

We pray this episode blesses you.

Alright, tune in and let's dig in:)

 

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    ]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 648 full EP 117 \\ Wish Your Spouse Were Like Someone Else? Why You Should STOP Engaging In Comparisonitis (Part 1) EP 117 \\ Wish Your Spouse Were Like Someone Else? Why You Should STOP Engaging In Comparisonitis (Part 1) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/comparisonitis-and-marriage-1/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/comparisonitis-and-marriage-1/#comments Thu, 15 Aug 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/676ccc3f-c9f4-3ded-92dc-7506b20863c9 Hi friend! 

We live in a global village. We don’t have to live in the same neighborhood to know about the life of another person living in another neighborhood on another continent.

Enter the world of technology & the internet. A world where you see beautiful pictures and videos of couples and individuals... Depending on the current state of your marriage, subconsciously you may find yourself comparing your spouse or marriage to another person’s spouse or marriage or even your parents (mum or dad).

Then, the "Comparison Trap"...Comparisonitis sets in...

"If only my spouse were like this person or that person's spouse..."  

In this episode, you will discover what comparisonitis entails and why you should stop engaging in comparisonitis, including its possible effects on your marriage.

We pray this episode blesses you.

Alright, tune in and let's dig in:)

 

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  ]]> Hi friend! 

We live in a global village. We don’t have to live in the same neighborhood to know about the life of another person living in another neighborhood on another continent.

Enter the world of technology & the internet. A world where you see beautiful pictures and videos of couples and individuals... Depending on the current state of your marriage, subconsciously you may find yourself comparing your spouse or marriage to another person’s spouse or marriage or even your parents (mum or dad).

Then, the "Comparison Trap"...Comparisonitis sets in...

"If only my spouse were like this person or that person's spouse..."  

In this episode, you will discover what comparisonitis entails and why you should stop engaging in comparisonitis, including its possible effects on your marriage.

We pray this episode blesses you.

Alright, tune in and let's dig in:)

 

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  ]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 1007 full EP 116 \\ STOP Waiting For Your Spouse To Reconnect In Your Marriage! Do THIS Instead. EP 116 \\ STOP Waiting For Your Spouse To Reconnect In Your Marriage! Do THIS Instead. https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/why-you-should-not-wait-for-spouse-to-get-on-board-before-working-on-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/why-you-should-not-wait-for-spouse-to-get-on-board-before-working-on-marriage/#comments Thu, 08 Aug 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/966b285a-6f16-3329-973e-91ea47266e7a Hi friend!

We often hear that it takes two committed individuals to make a marriage work but what if we told you that it takes one courageous spouse willing to make the move towards progress to begin this process. Being a courageous spouse means choosing to partner with God and making courageous moves needed for a more loving & connected marriage…even if your spouse is not currently on board!

 As individuals who have had to be courageous spouses at different points during our marital journey, we have seen positive results in our marriage as it continues to grow stronger over time. So, if your desire is to have a more connected marriage and you’re wondering how to move forward or make progress in your marriage even if your spouse is not currently showing up on their end, then, this episode is for you. In this episode, you will discover 3 reasons why you should not wait for your spouse to get on board before working on your marriage…or investing in your marriage and steps you can begin to take towards building the strong and connected marriage you truly desire.

We pray this blesses you:)

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 ]]> Hi friend!

We often hear that it takes two committed individuals to make a marriage work but what if we told you that it takes one courageous spouse willing to make the move towards progress to begin this process. Being a courageous spouse means choosing to partner with God and making courageous moves needed for a more loving & connected marriage…even if your spouse is not currently on board!

 As individuals who have had to be courageous spouses at different points during our marital journey, we have seen positive results in our marriage as it continues to grow stronger over time. So, if your desire is to have a more connected marriage and you’re wondering how to move forward or make progress in your marriage even if your spouse is not currently showing up on their end, then, this episode is for you. In this episode, you will discover 3 reasons why you should not wait for your spouse to get on board before working on your marriage…or investing in your marriage and steps you can begin to take towards building the strong and connected marriage you truly desire.

We pray this blesses you:)

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 ]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 571 full EP 115 \\ 5 Reasons Why Your Spouse Is Avoiding Having Meaningful Conversations With You (And What To Do About Them) EP 115 \\ 5 Reasons Why Your Spouse Is Avoiding Having Meaningful Conversations With You (And What To Do About Them) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/why-spouse-is-avoiding-meaningful-conversations/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/why-spouse-is-avoiding-meaningful-conversations/#comments Thu, 01 Aug 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/4df3dda8-2bcb-3eb3-a3e0-fc70d38d1ffb Hi friend!

In the early years of marriage, engaging in meaningful conversations with our spouses boosts connection and draws us closer to each other. Over the years, these conversations can begin to fade, especially when most of our communication become centered around the running of the household, activities the kids have to attend and other functional aspects of the relationship. For a deeper connection and intimacy in marriage, it is important to continue to engage in meaningful conversations as a couple, that is, conversations that go deeper. Maybe you truly desire to have deep and meaningful conversations with your spouse but it seems like you're miles apart when you talk or communicate with each other. If you can relate to this, you’re not alone. This is why in this episode, we will be addressing 5 possible reasons why your spouse may be avoiding having meaningful conversations with you and what to do about them.

So, get ready..set...tune in to listen to find out more!

We pray this episode blesses you:)

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]]> Hi friend!

In the early years of marriage, engaging in meaningful conversations with our spouses boosts connection and draws us closer to each other. Over the years, these conversations can begin to fade, especially when most of our communication become centered around the running of the household, activities the kids have to attend and other functional aspects of the relationship. For a deeper connection and intimacy in marriage, it is important to continue to engage in meaningful conversations as a couple, that is, conversations that go deeper. Maybe you truly desire to have deep and meaningful conversations with your spouse but it seems like you're miles apart when you talk or communicate with each other. If you can relate to this, you’re not alone. This is why in this episode, we will be addressing 5 possible reasons why your spouse may be avoiding having meaningful conversations with you and what to do about them.

So, get ready..set...tune in to listen to find out more!

We pray this episode blesses you:)

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 1310 full EP 114 \\ Is It Your Spouse or Stress? How a Simple Self-care Routine Can Benefit Your Marriage EP 114 \\ Is It Your Spouse or Stress? How a Simple Self-care Routine Can Benefit Your Marriage https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/self-care-and-your-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/self-care-and-your-marriage/#comments Thu, 25 Jul 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/16d2ec84-1592-3f2a-8b31-02a70fe11f8f by clicking here ( 5 spots available for 5 spouses and couples until July 27). (For more information about the Anniversary Giveaway, listen to  EP 112 \\ How You Can Invest in Yourself To Significantly Impact Your Marriage & Life (Anniversary Giveaway Inside!)   .....................……………………………………….................   Want to work with us?   

 

]]> by clicking here ( 5 spots available for 5 spouses and couples until July 27). (For more information about the Anniversary Giveaway, listen to  EP 112 \\ How You Can Invest in Yourself To Significantly Impact Your Marriage & Life (Anniversary Giveaway Inside!)   .....................……………………………………….................   Want to work with us? 

 

 

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 578 full EP 113 \\ Is It Wrong To Express Myself Or Communicate My Thoughts To My Spouse? EP 113 \\ Is It Wrong To Express Myself Or Communicate My Thoughts To My Spouse? https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/expressing-myself-to-spouse/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/expressing-myself-to-spouse/#comments Thu, 18 Jul 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/8df77e55-bc2f-39bf-ae9f-29cf6de1a3a6 by clicking here ( 5 spots available for 5 spouses and couples until July 27). (For more information about the Anniversary Giveaway, listen to  EP 112 \\ How You Can Invest in Yourself To Significantly Impact Your Marriage & Life (Anniversary Giveaway Inside!)     .....................……………………………………….................   Want to work with us?     ]]> by clicking here ( 5 spots available for 5 spouses and couples until July 27). (For more information about the Anniversary Giveaway, listen to  EP 112 \\ How You Can Invest in Yourself To Significantly Impact Your Marriage & Life (Anniversary Giveaway Inside!)     .....................……………………………………….................   Want to work with us?     ]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 673 full EP 112 \\ How You Can Invest in Yourself To Significantly Impact Your Marriage & Life (Anniversary Giveaway Inside!) EP 112 \\ How You Can Invest in Yourself To Significantly Impact Your Marriage & Life (Anniversary Giveaway Inside!) https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/invest-in-yourself-significantly-impact-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/invest-in-yourself-significantly-impact-marriage/#comments Thu, 11 Jul 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/b25c5369-4a8d-3c07-bfc2-e610288c7d59 by clicking here ( 5 spots available for 5 spouses and couples until July 27). .....................……………………………………….   Want to work with us?  ]]> **Anniversary Giveaway sign up details below**
Guess what! It is our 14th year wedding anniversary week and we are so glad for how far God has seen us through on this journey. You see…to be honest, it has not been all rosy. We’ve faced challenges and transitions over the course of the years and we are happy that we are still here together…and together, we’ve grown as a stronger team. So, in this episode, we will be sharing our personal experience and part of our marriage story as we discuss how we can invest in ourselves to significantly & positively impact us as individuals as well as our marriages. There is also an anniversary giveaway waiting for you:) (pls see below for the link to participate)!   Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!    We pray this episode blesses you.   **Anniversary Giveaway**   Book a FREE Communicate to Connect Coaching 1hr Session by clicking here ( 5 spots available for 5 spouses and couples until July 27).

.....................……………………………………….   Want to work with us?  ]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 944 full EP 111 \\ My Wife Is Not Taking Our Sex Life Seriously. HELP! EP 111 \\ My Wife Is Not Taking Our Sex Life Seriously. HELP! https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/wife-not-taking-sex-life-seriously-what-to-do-instead/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/wife-not-taking-sex-life-seriously-what-to-do-instead/#comments Thu, 04 Jul 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/ee05107e-474d-3568-b841-a316c105719e Hi friend!

Do you love your wife but you’re feeling frustrated about your married sex life? Or perhaps when it comes to sex, it seems to be a major source of conflict in your marriage? You wish to experience more physical connection with your spouse and increase sexual intimacy in your marriage so you can feel closer to your wife but it seems like most times, you hit a roadblock in this area. If this sounds familiar, you are not alone. In this episode, come prepared to discover 4 possible reasons why this may be happening and the steps you can begin to take…as you make progress towards building the more connected marriage you truly desire. 

We pray this episode blesses you.

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]]> Hi friend!

Do you love your wife but you’re feeling frustrated about your married sex life? Or perhaps when it comes to sex, it seems to be a major source of conflict in your marriage? You wish to experience more physical connection with your spouse and increase sexual intimacy in your marriage so you can feel closer to your wife but it seems like most times, you hit a roadblock in this area. If this sounds familiar, you are not alone. In this episode, come prepared to discover 4 possible reasons why this may be happening and the steps you can begin to take…as you make progress towards building the more connected marriage you truly desire. 

We pray this episode blesses you.

.............................................................................................................   For questions/inquiries/coaching: Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com    The Happy Married Family Online Shop: https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 811 full EP 110 \\ 3 Simple "Easily Overlooked" Ways To Grow Closer In Your Marriage This Summer...Without Waiting For A Couples Getaway! EP 110 \\ 3 Simple "Easily Overlooked" Ways To Grow Closer In Your Marriage This Summer...Without Waiting For A Couples Getaway! https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/ways-to-grow-closer-as-a-couple/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/ways-to-grow-closer-as-a-couple/#comments Thu, 27 Jun 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/b60c181d-52e0-3dbe-a432-b3afb46632d2 Hi friend!

Summer is here and people are camping, getting away to exotic places, traveling and so on. Maybe you've discovered that going on a couples getaway is not one of your plans this summer but you also want to strengthen the bond and connection in your marriage. Guess what! You don't necessarily need to get away to achieve the deeper connection and intimacy you truly desire in your marriage. This is why we will be sharing 3 simple and powerful ways to grow closer as a couple this summer...without waiting for a romantic couples getaway.

Ready to feel more connected to your spouse & enjoy more quality time together while enjoying some summer fun as a couple?

Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!

We pray this episode blesses you.

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]]> Hi friend!

Summer is here and people are camping, getting away to exotic places, traveling and so on. Maybe you've discovered that going on a couples getaway is not one of your plans this summer but you also want to strengthen the bond and connection in your marriage. Guess what! You don't necessarily need to get away to achieve the deeper connection and intimacy you truly desire in your marriage. This is why we will be sharing 3 simple and powerful ways to grow closer as a couple this summer...without waiting for a romantic couples getaway.

Ready to feel more connected to your spouse & enjoy more quality time together while enjoying some summer fun as a couple?

Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!

We pray this episode blesses you.

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 1119 full EP 109 \\ How To Get Your Spouse To Pay Attention To You Without Starting An Argument EP 109 \\ How To Get Your Spouse To Pay Attention To You Without Starting An Argument https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/how-to-get-spouse-to-pay-attention-to-you/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/how-to-get-spouse-to-pay-attention-to-you/#comments Thu, 20 Jun 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/fdb04893-f571-37ff-8f9e-d9b25442f826 Hi friend!

As spouses and individuals, we want to feel seen in our marriages. When it seems like our spouses are not paying attention to us the way we desire, or feel like we’re being taken for granted, disconnection and loneliness could begin to build up  in marriage. The reality is that you may be doing things together and running a household but you feel this disconnect between you and your spouse. If this sounds like you, you’re not alone. We find that it is so easy for couples to fall into this lifestyle especially while living abroad with increasing demands and responsibilities in their lives. If your desire is to feel more connected to your spouse, in this episode we will be sharing 5 practical tips on how to get your spouse to pay more attention to you without starting an argument so you can feel seen in your marriage and start moving towards the goal of achieving a deeper connection in your relationship.

We pray this episode blesses you.

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As spouses and individuals, we want to feel seen in our marriages. When it seems like our spouses are not paying attention to us the way we desire, or feel like we’re being taken for granted, disconnection and loneliness could begin to build up  in marriage. The reality is that you may be doing things together and running a household but you feel this disconnect between you and your spouse. If this sounds like you, you’re not alone. We find that it is so easy for couples to fall into this lifestyle especially while living abroad with increasing demands and responsibilities in their lives. If your desire is to feel more connected to your spouse, in this episode we will be sharing 5 practical tips on how to get your spouse to pay more attention to you without starting an argument so you can feel seen in your marriage and start moving towards the goal of achieving a deeper connection in your relationship.

We pray this episode blesses you.

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]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 1041 full EP 108 \\ Feeling disappointed? How to deal with unmet expectations in marriage..even if it's not the first time! EP 108 \\ Feeling disappointed? How to deal with unmet expectations in marriage..even if it's not the first time! https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/how-to-deal-with-unmet-expectations-in-marriage/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/how-to-deal-with-unmet-expectations-in-marriage/#comments Thu, 13 Jun 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/c3b5c47e-6d57-389a-bbd3-3097d126180a Hi friend!

When we get married and over the years, we have certain expectations in marriage. However, when these expectations are not met in marriage or our spouses do not meet these expectations, we can feel disappointed. We've come to realize that the way we deal with unmet expectations in our marriages can either draw us farther apart from our partners or result in strengthening our connection in marriage. If the latter is what you desire, then get ready to listen to discover practical ways to deal with unmet expectations in marriage…even if it’s not the first time!

We pray this episode blesses you.

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]]> Hi friend!

When we get married and over the years, we have certain expectations in marriage. However, when these expectations are not met in marriage or our spouses do not meet these expectations, we can feel disappointed. We've come to realize that the way we deal with unmet expectations in our marriages can either draw us farther apart from our partners or result in strengthening our connection in marriage. If the latter is what you desire, then get ready to listen to discover practical ways to deal with unmet expectations in marriage…even if it’s not the first time!

We pray this episode blesses you.

.............................................................................................................   For questions/inquiries/coaching: Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com    The Happy Married Family Online Shop: https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/

 

 

 

 

 

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 664 full EP 107 \\ Spouse Not Listening? 2 Mistakes You May Be Making While Communicating In Your Marriage! EP 107 \\ Spouse Not Listening? 2 Mistakes You May Be Making While Communicating In Your Marriage! https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/2-communication-mistakes-what-to-do-instead/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/2-communication-mistakes-what-to-do-instead/#comments Thu, 06 Jun 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/a1dfae8c-e5fe-3e30-adb3-fcca58901150 Hi friend!

Over the years, we've come to realize that though we love each other, when conflict occurs or when we want to express ourselves to our partners, we may end up creating more distance between us instead of feeling heard in the process. One reason for this could be as a result of how we communicate our concerns or express our frustrations with our spouses. Maybe you are trying to get your spouse to listen to you but it seems like you can't get through to your spouse. We know how frustrating this can be especially because this is your spouse & life partner and you just want to feel heard. This is why in this episode, we will be sharing 2 mistakes you may be unintentionally making while communicating in your marriage...making it more challenging for your spouse to listen to you, and what to do instead.

We pray this episode blesses you.     .............................................................................................................   For questions/inquiries/coaching: Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com    The Happy Married Family Online Shop: https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/

 

 

 

 

   ]]> Hi friend!

Over the years, we've come to realize that though we love each other, when conflict occurs or when we want to express ourselves to our partners, we may end up creating more distance between us instead of feeling heard in the process. One reason for this could be as a result of how we communicate our concerns or express our frustrations with our spouses. Maybe you are trying to get your spouse to listen to you but it seems like you can't get through to your spouse. We know how frustrating this can be especially because this is your spouse & life partner and you just want to feel heard. This is why in this episode, we will be sharing 2 mistakes you may be unintentionally making while communicating in your marriage...making it more challenging for your spouse to listen to you, and what to do instead.

We pray this episode blesses you.     .............................................................................................................   For questions/inquiries/coaching: Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com    The Happy Married Family Online Shop: https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/

 

 

 

 

   ]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 680 full EP 106 \\ Struggling With Your Mental Health? Here Is A Special Letter & Message For You EP 106 \\ Struggling With Your Mental Health? Here Is A Special Letter & Message For You https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/struggling-with-mental-health-a-special-letter-for-you/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/struggling-with-mental-health-a-special-letter-for-you/#comments Thu, 30 May 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/b542b326-72fa-3aee-9aea-d48d4650781a  

A letter…a special letter.

  A letter born out of my pain…    A letter I wrote during one of the toughest moments of my life as I struggled with my mental health…and thoughts that I so badly wanted to run away from…   A letter I wrote as I thought about you…your pain…and what you could be going through...   A letter I wrote during a challenging period in my life…when I found myself in a place that felt more like a prison…   Just like you…a prison of my thoughts    And now, I want to read that letter to you as I think of you and many others that have found themselves in this prison at this time of the year…   A prison so familiar...   Tune in to listen to this episode to find out more plus grab some encouragement along the way!   Sending love, prayers, and comfort your way…   I pray this episode blesses you.     .............................................................................................................   For questions/inquiries/coaching: Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com    The Happy Married Family Online Shop: https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/

 

[Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy, psychological advice or professional medical care. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance].    

 

 

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A letter…a special letter.

  A letter born out of my pain…    A letter I wrote during one of the toughest moments of my life as I struggled with my mental health…and thoughts that I so badly wanted to run away from…   A letter I wrote as I thought about you…your pain…and what you could be going through...   A letter I wrote during a challenging period in my life…when I found myself in a place that felt more like a prison…   Just like you…a prison of my thoughts    And now, I want to read that letter to you as I think of you and many others that have found themselves in this prison at this time of the year…   A prison so familiar...   Tune in to listen to this episode to find out more plus grab some encouragement along the way!   Sending love, prayers, and comfort your way…   I pray this episode blesses you.     .............................................................................................................   For questions/inquiries/coaching: Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com    The Happy Married Family Online Shop: https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/

 

[Disclaimer: The content presented in this podcast is provided solely for educational purposes and should be considered as general information. It is not intended to serve as therapy, psychological advice or professional medical care. We strongly recommend consulting your physician or mental health provider for personalized advice, support, or treatment concerning your well-being. In the event of a crisis, please dial 911 for immediate assistance].    

 

 

   ]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 601 full EP 105 \\ Staying connected as a couple while dealing with the challenges in life EP 105 \\ Staying connected as a couple while dealing with the challenges in life https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/staying-connected-as-a-couple-while-dealing-with-challenges-in-life/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/staying-connected-as-a-couple-while-dealing-with-challenges-in-life/#comments Thu, 23 May 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e0162561-97f3-30ba-bc10-f2af2daf68b3 Hi friend!

When we look at the state of the economy, rising interest rates, high cost of living, or when we encounter personal challenges like job loss or health issues...the list can go on and on, discouragement could begin to set in and cause a disconnect in marriages. How we respond to these challenges can either strengthen our marriages or result in us drifting apart from each other. Here is the reality: Challenges of life don’t stop when one gets married…but we can choose to stay as a united team instead of a divided team in marriage despite the challenges that may arise. This is why we will be sharing 5 powerful tips for staying connected as a couple while dealing with life's challenges.

Ready to know more?

Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!   .............................................................................................................   For questions/inquiries/coaching: Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com    The Happy Married Family Online Shop: https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/

 

 

 

 

]]> Hi friend!

When we look at the state of the economy, rising interest rates, high cost of living, or when we encounter personal challenges like job loss or health issues...the list can go on and on, discouragement could begin to set in and cause a disconnect in marriages. How we respond to these challenges can either strengthen our marriages or result in us drifting apart from each other. Here is the reality: Challenges of life don’t stop when one gets married…but we can choose to stay as a united team instead of a divided team in marriage despite the challenges that may arise. This is why we will be sharing 5 powerful tips for staying connected as a couple while dealing with life's challenges.

Ready to know more?

Alright, tune in to listen to find out more!   .............................................................................................................   For questions/inquiries/coaching: Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com    The Happy Married Family Online Shop: https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/

 

 

 

 

]]> Dr. Ebun and David Haastrup | Christian Marriage Coaches & Couple Connection Strategists false No 568 full EP 104 \\ Building a Thriving Marriage While Caring for Children With Disabilities with Kristin & Todd Evans EP 104 \\ Building a Thriving Marriage While Caring for Children With Disabilities with Kristin & Todd Evans https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/building-a-thriving-marriage-while-caring-for-children-with-disabilities/ https://happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/e/building-a-thriving-marriage-while-caring-for-children-with-disabilities/#comments Thu, 16 May 2024 03:00:00 -0600 happyafricanmarriage.podbean.com/f0668709-554d-34d4-a1d5-a88503e34c9c Hi friend! 

Building a strong and thriving marriage takes hard work. Now, adding a child makes it feel even more challenging. For married couples caring for a child or children with disabilities, a thriving marriage can seem impossible. Research has shown that these couples face unique and intense stressors and are at increased risk for divorce. The additional challenges, responsibilities, and grief can take a toll.

In this enlightening episode, our special guests, Kristin and Todd Evans will be taking us on a journey as they share their knowledge, experience, and story as it relates to the title of their new book: How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities.

So, stay tuned and get ready to be enlightened as we delve into the topic for today.

 

Kristin Faith Evans, MA, MS, LMSW and Todd Evans, Phd, MA, are award-winning authors, speakers, and disability parents. They earned their MA in Christian educational ministries at Wheaton College in Illinois and have served together in full-time ministry in church, camping, and retreat settings. Todd received his PhD from Vanderbilt University’s School of Engineering and currently manages his own business. Kristin earned her MSW from the University of Tennessee and is a Licensed Master Social Worker experienced in couples, child and family, substance abuse, and crisis counseling.

You can connect with Kristin and Todd Evans by visiting their website where you will find out more about their resources and their book: How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities.

https://disabilityparenting.com/

 

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]]> Hi friend! 

Building a strong and thriving marriage takes hard work. Now, adding a child makes it feel even more challenging. For married couples caring for a child or children with disabilities, a thriving marriage can seem impossible. Research has shown that these couples face unique and intense stressors and are at increased risk for divorce. The additional challenges, responsibilities, and grief can take a toll.

In this enlightening episode, our special guests, Kristin and Todd Evans will be taking us on a journey as they share their knowledge, experience, and story as it relates to the title of their new book: How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities.

So, stay tuned and get ready to be enlightened as we delve into the topic for today.

 

Kristin Faith Evans, MA, MS, LMSW and Todd Evans, Phd, MA, are award-winning authors, speakers, and disability parents. They earned their MA in Christian educational ministries at Wheaton College in Illinois and have served together in full-time ministry in church, camping, and retreat settings. Todd received his PhD from Vanderbilt University’s School of Engineering and currently manages his own business. Kristin earned her MSW from the University of Tennessee and is a Licensed Master Social Worker experienced in couples, child and family, substance abuse, and crisis counseling.

You can connect with Kristin and Todd Evans by visiting their website where you will find out more about their resources and their book: How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities.

https://disabilityparenting.com/

 

.............................................................................................................   For questions/inquiries/coaching: Email: coach@happymarriedfamily.com    The Happy Married Family Online Shop: https://happymarriedfamily.etsy.com/

 

 

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