Done Being Single

Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Thu, 07 Mar 2024 21:43:27 +0000

If you’ve ever overstayed your welcome in a bad relationship, or struggled with when to call it quits, therapist and author Crystal Jackson knows why: Childhood trauma, low self-esteem, abandonment issues, anxious attachment, even love addiction, could be to blame.

Should you stay or should you go? Should you hang in and work things out, or pack it up and get the hell out? When it comes to ditching bad relationships for healthy love, don't struggle, don't settle, and don't wait. Tune in and find out how.

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Boundaries: Your Best Friend in Dating

Thu, 12 Oct 2023 20:26:42 +0000

If you have a need to be liked, a fear of being unloved, or if you're a people-pleaser or approval seeker, then you might be struggling with boundaries. Boundaries are protective and empowering for both singles and couples, and we're going to show you how to set boundaries and keep them.

With guest Bex Burton, dating & relationship expert.

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When Picky Becomes A Problem

Wed, 13 Sep 2023 19:41:19 +0000

Are you swiping more left than right or using pickiness as an excuse not to date? "I'm too picky" could be another way of saying "I'm not good enough."

Dig a little deeper and you'll find that pickiness is fear-based. It signals insecurity, not selectivity, finding fault, not finding love.

Join Treva and intimacy expert Allana Pratt as they discuss the perils of pickiness and how to overcome it with self-acceptance and compassion.

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Is Masculinity In Crisis?

Sun, 04 Jun 2023 19:05:51 +0000

Modern feminism, MeToo, and changing gender dynamics have put masculinity at a crossroads. Is our current idea of masculinity toxic or progressive? Are men expected to step up or back down? And what does this mean for the current dating culture? On this episode, Simon T. Bailey, author of “Ignite the Power of Women,” discusses how to ignite the power of men to be better men.

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Dating Apps, We Need To Talk

Sun, 20 Nov 2022 22:36:59 +0000

We're giving dating apps a piece of our mind. From bad behavior to no accountability, there's a supply chain issue of basic kindness in dating apps that must be called out!

Author, podcaster, and singles advocate Shani Silver, is just the person to call it out. There are options to dating apps--it's called finding a happy singlehood. Tune in and learn how you can find yours.

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Don’t Say No To Saying YES

Sun, 11 Sep 2022 22:38:56 +0000

When you say "YES," you activate your internal guidance, you connect with your Inner Authority, and you power out of your comfort zone. You don't find your "YES" in your head, you feel it in your heart, and it's not random.

Don't get stuck in "NO." Let relationship coach Ken Bechtel author of the new book "Follow Your YES" show you how to do just that.

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The Lowdown On Love From A Psychic-Medium

Tue, 09 Aug 2022 22:19:42 +0000

World renown psychic-medium Matthew Stapley gives us the lowdown on love, loss, and divine timing, the way the spirits intended. Learn how to trust your intuition, process grief, distinguish between gut feelings and fear, break old cycles, and open yourself up to new possibilities. All you have to do is read the signs, listen to the messages, and tune in.

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Commitment-Phobes & Anxious Daters, Help Is On The Way!

Wed, 27 Jul 2022 00:36:47 +0000

If you have a fear of abandonment, avoid intimacy, or struggle with relationship anxiety, you’ve come to the right podcast. This week, Behavioral Relationship expert Tracy Crossley comes to the rescue with her profound insights on attachment theory, and on how knowing your attachment style can help you feel secure, get close, and find love.

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Men, Is Your Heart Talking To Your Other Parts?

Tue, 07 Jun 2022 01:29:45 +0000

On this episode of Done Being Single, we're connecting heart to c*ck by turning outdated male conditioning & culture into healthy templates for love. Men, it's time to breathe new life into your relationships (and your other parts too!)

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Are We Hardwired To Date A Certain Way?

Tue, 03 May 2022 23:11:27 +0000

45,000 years of evolutionary psychology confirms it: humans are hardwired to date a certain way.

In this episode of Done Being Single, Dr. Duana Welch shares her insights and data on human dating rituals. From playing hard to get, to the prerogative of pursuit, to waiting for sex, Dr. Welch proves that evolution doesn't have an off switch, and that's good news for dating.

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‘Nobody‘s Perfect: Are You Too Picky Or Not Picky Enough?‘

Tue, 16 Nov 2021 03:02:29 +0000

Ever heard someone use the excuse they're too picky and that's why they can't meet anyone? Or, maybe you know someone who isn't picky enough and keeps attracting losers. Haven't we all been a little of both at times? Remember, nobody's perfect--especially in the dating world. Join us as we explore the deeper reasons for pickiness, and it's flip side, not picky enough.

Meet The New Post-Pandemic You

Thu, 10 Jun 2021 16:59:22 +0000

After a year plus of pandemic stress eating and drinking, we're finally getting back to normal, and back into action. But what about those extra pounds and bad habits we picked up along the way? How do we lose the weight and get fit? What kind of diet should we be on, and where do we find the motivation if we've turned into lazy sloths?

Look no further than fitness guru and nutritional expert, Jill Brown, our guest this week on Done Being Single. She's got all the tips and tools you need to get yourself into post-pandemic shape.

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Keeping Sex Alive & Well During COVID

Tue, 09 Mar 2021 23:49:04 +0000

Science geeks and horny bastards, this episode is for you!

Sexpert and sexy brainiac Susan Bratton bares it all with her newest techniques, hottest tips, latest science, and reveals her own struggles and recovery from COVID. From cock rings to hyperbaric oxygen therapy, Susan knows all.

Whether you're looking to spice things up, enhance your intimacy, or are curious about COVID treatments and ways to stay healthy and sexually active during the pandemic, there are takeaways for everybody.

So light some candles, slip into something more comfortable, and tune in!

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The "It Factor" And How To Get It

Fri, 19 Feb 2021 21:04:03 +0000

What does business and dating have in common? The highly desirable, very elusive "It Factor." It's more than charm, looks, and charisma, it's about having conviction and passion about what you do, and who you are.

Our guest this week, author and professor Suneel Gupta, cracks the code on how to pick a winner, how to stand out, and how to get someone to take a chance on you. In other words, how to be "Backable," the name of his forthcoming new book.

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Get Rid Of Dating Anxiety Once and For All!

Fri, 05 Feb 2021 03:48:20 +0000

This episode is like Xanax for dating jitters. Get rid of nerves and performance anxiety by understanding your attachment style, honoring your needs, and practicing science backed coping mechanisms. With Chris Rackliffe's expert guidance and insights, you'll recognize your core gifts, and get the love and affection you deserve--all without a doctor's prescription!

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How To Stop Chasing Love

Wed, 16 Dec 2020 00:38:01 +0000

We've all chased love at one time or another, some of us still do. We do it when we're lonely or insecure, when we're seeking approval or need connection. We chase love because we don't trust it will come on its own. And the harder we try to catch it, the further it stays away.

Not even a pandemic will stop people from chasing!

On this episode, Dasha Schindler, author of the new book "Don't Chase Love, Cut To The Chase: Or, How To Google Your Way To A Happy Relationship," shares her story of childhood trauma, her lifelong pursuit to heal her heart, and her secrets to finding love without having to chase it.

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(Single) Parenting In A Pandemic

Fri, 16 Oct 2020 19:20:57 +0000

Robby and Treva aren't parents, but they're tipping their hats to the (single) parents doing the heavy lifting. Managing home, work, life, kids AND a love life is never easy, but doing it in a pandemic takes mad skills and patience.

This week's guest, licensed marriage and family therapist Kristin MacDermott, shares her tips, tools, and strategies for successful pandemic parenting.

From knowing your roles, to managing expectations and setting healthy boundaries, to instilling respect, creating structure, and building coping skills, we're helping parents of all kinds to get a grip and level-up during the pandemic and beyond.

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Politics & Love: The State of the Union

Fri, 18 Sep 2020 05:04:43 +0000

In an election year that's more contentious than ever, is it possible to hate someone's politics but still love them?

According to our guests Jeanne Safer and Richard Brookhiser, it is.

Jeanne is a Liberal, and the author of the book, "I Love You, But I Hate Your Politics." Richard is a Conservative, and the Sr. Editor of the National Review, the leading conservative journal of opinion. Despite being on opposite sides of the aisle, they've been happily married for 40 years!

There's a secret key to politics and love, but you'll have to put your political differences aside to find out in this episode!

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Older Women/Younger Men, Why The Hell Not?

Thu, 03 Sep 2020 22:21:15 +0000

Cougars are having a moment. Not that midlife women dating and marrying younger men is anything new, it's just that midlife isn't what it used to be. Gone are the rules, parameters, restrictions, and judgement. Today's post-50 women are free to be who they want, date who they want, and be equal partner with the ones they love.

Older women/younger men, your time has come.

Joining the discussion is Vicki Larson, award-winning journalist, and co-author of the book "The New I Do: Reshaping Marriage for Skeptics, Realists and Rebels."

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How To Slay Your Pandemic Anxiety

Fri, 21 Aug 2020 19:50:00 +0000

When you slay your anxiety, you slay your need for control. Dealing with the unknowns and tolerating the uncertainty of a pandemic are skills that need learned and practiced. On this week's episode, we've got the perfect teacher, Lisa Gornall.

A spiritual medium, healer, mindset & energy coach, and author, Lisa has the tools to help you slay anxiety, and connect with your power. Because when it comes to beating back any monster, you're stronger than you think.

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Look For A Spouse Like You Would A House

Tue, 28 Jul 2020 05:50:04 +0000

Who knew dating and real estate had so much in common! Whether it's a looking for a spouse or buying/selling a house, you need to assess the property, stage it properly, be ready to show, make the necessary repairs, and know the worth. The same rules apply for picking the right partner. In fact, there are 99 rules to be exact.

Not only a funny episode, you'll learn a lot about real estate at the same time! With top-selling real estate agent, Brian Belefant, author of the new book "Spouse Hunting: Using The Rules Of Real Estate To Find The Love Of Your Life"

Brian Belefant began his career in Hollywood where he quickly rose in the production ranks as a top director shooting hundreds television commercials for household name brands, and dozens of award-winning art films. Realizing he was looking at a major life change when his child was born with special needs, he relocated to Portland, OR and became one of the top-selling real estate agents in the Pacific Northwest. Following an unexpected divorce, he wondered if he could use the set of 99 Rules of Real Estate he’d developed to re-enter the dating world with the goal of finding a new spouse. As luck would have it, he could – and now readers everywhere can do the same.

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How To Love With Sobriety

Mon, 06 Jul 2020 21:32:58 +0000

If you're dating or in a relationship with someone who's sober, what do you need to know? Does loving a sober person require special protocols or understanding? What are the perils? How can you be a better partner to someone who's sober? How do you protect yourself?

Answering all your questions about loving with sobriety is Dr. Robert Navarra, PsyD, LMFT, MAC, and Certified Gottman Therapist & Master Trainer in addiction recovery.

Perfectly Hidden Depression

Thu, 25 Jun 2020 20:35:16 +0000

You may be able to mask your depression behind a happy face, a good marriage, or a successful career, but in the middle of a pandemic, it becomes much harder.

That's because a crisis like COVID--with the fear, anxiety, and trauma that comes with it--makes Perfectly Hidden Depression more difficult to hide.

On this episode of Done Being Single, clinical psychologist Dr. Margaret Rutherford explains the 10 characteristics of Perfectly Hidden Depression (PHD), teaches us the five C's of healing, and inspires us to take action without shame or guilt.

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Divorce Pandemic Style: What Every Couple Needs To Know

Thu, 18 Jun 2020 21:57:46 +0000

One of the many symptoms of COVID19 is a massive spike in divorce rates. If your marriage was already teetering, and you're in lockdown, chances are, you want out. Since there's no vaccination for a bad marriage, divorce might be the only cure.

So what to expect? Famed divorce lawyer and author James Sexton joins us to discuss the down and dirty of divorce during a pandemic. From hardship changes, to alimony and custody, this "courtroom gunslinger" has all the best practices you'll need for you and your spouse to call it quits.

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Go From Fear To Here

Tue, 19 May 2020 06:54:11 +0000

Acclaimed personal development thought leader Katie Hendricks joins Done Being Single to talk about fear: how to face it and conquer it. In this episode, you'll learn about the five responses to fear: fight, flight, flee, faint, and flee. You’ll learn breathing and movement techniques, plus you’ll get the skills you need to maintain your sense of agency, reclaim your power, and get back into your body.

A must-hear/see show for the times we're living in!

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How To Know When Someone's Lying

Thu, 07 May 2020 20:29:34 +0000

Recorded before the pandemic, but always a relevant issue in life, love, and DATING! You can be your own detective, here's how.

Former FBI Special Agent and counterintelligence specialist Robin Dreeke tells you how to catch a liar using his Five Steps to trust and Six Signs of predicting behavior. Learn how to size people up and recognize manipulation, control, subterfuge, and lack of transparency. Don’t be fooled again!

HOT TIP: If someone’s overcomplicating their answers, they’re probably lying.

“Who Will You Be After Coronavirus?”

Mon, 27 Apr 2020 17:40:59 +0000

When COVID19 is over, how will your life look? New job? No job? Dating or divorced? If there was ever a time to reinvent your life, and design your future YOU it’s now. This is the time to plan, pivot, and put the pieces into place. Giving you the skills and tools you need to jumpstart your reinvention, is the mother of reinvention herself, Kathi Sharpe-Ross, brand & lifestyle guru, and author of the new book, "RE: Invent Your Life! What Are You Waiting For?” Her takeaways for reinvention will reinvigorate and inspire. Click here to see the video of this podcast!

Mars & Venus Quarantined with John Gray

Fri, 10 Apr 2020 06:30:28 +0000

Author of the best-selling relationship book, Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, John Gray joins Done Being Single to discuss what happens when Mars & Venus are quarantined.

How does the power dynamic change when you're quarantined? Can you find balance? What do men need in time of need? What do women need to feel safe? How do you give each other space? Get great tips and takeaways on keeping your sanity, and your love alive in the time of coronavirus.

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The Surprising Secret About Habits

Thu, 02 Apr 2020 07:00:00 +0000

Even though this episode of Done Being Single was recorded just before the coronavirus hit, its message and lessons are right on time. Building habits, maintaining structure, keeping a sense of normalcy is EVERTHING right now. From dating habits to living habits, your survival depends on how well you adapt, change, and rewire. The question is, can you do it? Our guest, behavioral scientist and New York Times best-selling author BJ Fogg, shares small, actionable and science-backed steps to help you make immediate changes in your life.

Mastering Chaos With Phil Morris

Thu, 26 Mar 2020 07:00:00 +0000

Known for his many roles on TV and film, but probably best known for his role as "Jackie Chiles" on "Seinfeld," Phil Morris is way more than a talented actor: he's a martial arts guru, a spiritual seeker, and fountain of wisdom when it comes to mastering a zen attitude in the face of crazy and chaos. He's also Treva & Robby's lifelong friend, and a great guy to talk to when all hell is breaking loose. On this episode, Phil shares his go-to tips and best practices for dealing with panic, fear, being out of work, as well as constructive ways to harness your energy.

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Being Single & COVID19: A Doctor And Dating Expert Speak

Thu, 19 Mar 2020 07:00:00 +0000

There's nothing like a pandemic to cramp your dating style. Should you keep swiping? Get tested before meeting? Can you go on a date and stay 6ft. away? When is it safe to hug, kiss, or get intimate? Physician Dr. Andre Berger and dating expert Sandy Weiner give you the 411 on ways to stay safe AND socially connected in the time of COVID19.

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How To Care For Aging Parents And Still Have A Life

Thu, 12 Mar 2020 07:00:00 +0000

At a certain age, most of us will find ourselves caring for aging parents or elderly loved ones. How do you do it and still have a life? If you're single, how do you balance caring for a parent with dating and relationships? Even if you’re married, how do you find balance and set proper boundaries? What kind of self-care techniques should you be practicing to save your love life and sanity? On this episode, Treva and Robby open up about their aging parents, the challenges they’re facing, and how they’re protecting their marriage through it all.

How To Deal With Your Midlife Crisis

Thu, 05 Mar 2020 08:00:00 +0000

Whether you're a Boomer or GenX, the midlife crisis is true, and the struggle is real. Buying fast cars and dating younger women are nothing compared to the existential despair of financial worry, unmet expectations, self-doubt, hormonal changes, aging parents, and the pressures of social media. On this episode, New York Times best-selling journalist and author Ada Calhoun shares her eye-opening, groundbreaking research on the new midlife crisis and how to deal with it.

Time To Kick The Sh*t Out Of Your Inner Bully

Thu, 27 Feb 2020 08:00:00 +0000

Your inner bully has been kicking the sh*t out of your self-esteem and confidence for years, convincing you you're not good enough. Now it's time to tell your inner bully (and anyone else who tries to bully you) who's boss. Empowering you with inspiration is our guest Theresa Byrne, global defense expert, business owner, 4th degree Black Belt, and a badass at slaying the inner bully. Her 2019 TEDx talk on "The Dangers of the Inner Bully," was recently listed as one of the "Top Ten Most Meaningful TED Talks" by Thrive Global magazine.

Beware Dating Burn-Out & Bitterness!

Thu, 20 Feb 2020 08:00:00 +0000

Daters, beware: it can happen if you're not careful. Getting burned out and bitter from being single too long is all too common, especially if you've suffered through repeated disappointments or chronic rejection. If you're going to be in the game, if you want to be a successful dater and find love, you're going to need endurance, staying power, and a better attitude. Coaching you with insight and experience, is psychologist and dating expert, Dr. Karin Anderson Abrell.

How To Find Love While Finding Yourself

Thu, 13 Feb 2020 08:00:00 +0000

On this week's episode, we're proving you don't need to have your shit totally together to find love. We're all a work in progress, and the quest for betterment is noble, but trying to find yourself shouldn't preclude you from finding love. You shouldn't have to wait. As a wellness expert and single woman, guest Debi Carlin Boyle shows you how to do both.

Getting To The Heart of Love & Loss

Thu, 06 Feb 2020 08:00:00 +0000

In this very real and raw episode of Done Being Single, we share our stories of losing loved ones: from processing grief and finding healing, to understanding the impact of loss on relationships and dating, to surrendering to the power of love. Joining the conversation with his own inspiring story is midlife dating coach Jonathon Aslay.

Bad Dating Habits To Break In 2020

Thu, 16 Jan 2020 08:00:00 +0000

Breadcrumbing, benching, gaslighting, and ghosting, are just a few hideous dating behaviors that must go in 2020. So are putting up obstacles and making excuses in your dating life. Whether you're a perpetrator or a victim of bad dating habits, make it your resolution to clean up your act and take back your power. With expert guidance from Behavioral Relationship expert, Tracy Crossley.

How To Get Past Your Past

Thu, 09 Jan 2020 08:00:00 +0000

You can’t be fully present, free of limiting beliefs, and living your best life unless you take deliberate steps to unshackle yourself from your past. No matter what mistakes you made, or who you were then, there's always a chance to course correct. Your past was then; your potential is now. Don't take your past into your future. Hit the reset button with best-selling author and acclaimed self-realization expert Guy Finley.

Who's Got The Power?

Thu, 19 Dec 2019 08:00:00 +0000

When it comes to the gatekeepers of sex and relationships, who has the power, women or men? Who's got control? Is there even such a thing as power dynamics in today's modern world of love? Offering expert insights, keen observations, and smart takeaways, is Love & Life Transformational Coach, Suzanne Oshima.

Making The Case For Dating Age-Appropriate Women

Thu, 12 Dec 2019 08:00:00 +0000

Hitting midlife is no laughing matter, but it is on this episode of Done Being Single! Allison Cane & Jillian Franklyn, hosts of the hilarious YouTube show “Pretty Over,” are laughing about all things post-50: sex and menopause, aging gracefully (or trying to), hormones (they love them), relationships, and dating age-appropriate people. As Frank & Alli say, there’s nothing sexier than a man who dates a woman his own age! Most of all, they laugh at themselves, because that’s really all you can do. For sheer laughs, honesty, candor, and the truth about what being over 50 can feel and look like, take a listen to these ladies. They’re sexy, sassy, smart, inspirational, aspirational, and hot all over. They make their own rules and tell it like it is. in other words, they’re exactly the kind of women you want to be (or date) in midlife!

Face It, You Need Therapy

Thu, 05 Dec 2019 08:00:00 +0000

If life sucks, and you're mad as hell, depressed as shit, or confused AF, and it’s not getting any better, you may need some therapy. For pros who’ve been on the couch before, you know the drill, but for those who’ve never unloaded in front of a therapist, the next hour is for you. Guiding you through the process is Gottman Institute psychotherapist, and Clinical Trauma Professional, Jenny TeGrotenhuis.

Are You Crazy For Chaos?

Thu, 21 Nov 2019 08:00:00 +0000

Are you a love junkie? Do you need a fix of drama or a hit of psycho to make you feel alive? Does danger turn you on? Are you jonsing for crazy, or attracted to people who drive you insane? HEALTHY love isn't always about the thrill, chase, or buzz. You may need to seek treatment, but this week, the treatment comes to you. Our guest, Dr. Jud Brewer MD, will help you break your love addiction & craving for unstable relationships once and for all. Tune in and get your sanity back!

The 4 Habits Of ALL Successful Relationships

Thu, 14 Nov 2019 08:00:00 +0000

Looking to improve your marriage, friendships, or business partnerships? Look no further. Your keys to relationship success are right here, and their names are Dr. Andrea & Jon Taylor-Cummings. Dr. Andrea & Jon are the foremost voices in building great relationships. Their 4-Habits is a simple, yet brilliant method that fosters better understanding, communication, emotional wellbeing, and it works for every kind of relationship. Tune in and get the keys to relationship success right now.

To Swipe Or Not To Swipe

Thu, 07 Nov 2019 08:00:00 +0000

To swipe or not to swipe, that is the question. What are the Dos and Don'ts of online dating? What should you look for in a profile? What are some red flags to watch out for? How can you design a profile that will get you maximum attention and traction? Answering all your digital dating questions with awesome cyber-insights is digital dating expert, Julie Spira. She's got everything you need to get a right swipe on the right person!

Keeping Married Sex Alive!

Thu, 31 Oct 2019 07:00:00 +0000

There's no one better to speak on the topic of married sex and keeping it alive than our guest, Susan Bratton--sex guru, goddess, and trusted sex advisor to millions. She and husband Tim (who joined us for the interview) are a wealth of information, insight, and ideas. From the 30-minute orgasm to clit massage to old-fashioned collaboration and communication, Susan and Tim offer their tips and tools to keeping married sex hot. Tune in! (your husband or wife will thank you)

How To Be A Confident MF'er

Thu, 24 Oct 2019 07:00:00 +0000

David Snyder, a world renown expert on hypnosis and neurolinguistic programming says, “Confidence is relentless determination combined with expectations of a positive result.” This was put to the test when Treva, who’s been recovering from bronchial pneumonia, experienced a little coughing fit, which enabled David to do a live on-air hypnosis with her. With guidance and visualization, Treva was able to calm down and regain her confidence. As David says, “Confidence happens in the absence of fear.” When you stop being afraid, you find your confidence. Tune in and get all the relentless determination you need to become a confident MF’er.

What Does 'Doing The Work' Really Mean?

Thu, 17 Oct 2019 07:00:00 +0000

"Doing the work" means everything and anything you need to do in order to heal, grow, change, evolve, and get stronger. It can include therapy, journaling, exercise, meditation, self-help books, blogs, coaching, even 12-step programs. This week, life coach Bex Burton expertly guides a client through the pain of divorce. As she shares her story, we witness first-hand what "doing the work" really means. A truly profound and personal episode you won't want to miss.

When Quitting Is The Best Thing You Can Do

Thu, 10 Oct 2019 07:00:00 +0000

If your current path isn't getting you anywhere, if you keep grinding it out without joy, if you keep hitting walls, or fail to get the results you want, it's time to quit. That’s right. QUIT. Contrary to popular belief, quitting isn’t only for losers. It actually can be a winning move, and used properly, it could be one of the strongest weapons in your arsenal. Giving you the expert tools and strategies to quit smart is "goal disengagement" expert Dr. Stanley Robertson, aka "The Quit Doctor."

I'm Doing Everything Right, So What's Going Wrong?

Thu, 03 Oct 2019 07:00:00 +0000

I'm Doing Everything Right, So What's Going Wrong? Episode Description This episode is dedicated to those of us who despite all our good intentions, desire, and hard work, still come up empty. Many things can be blocking us or holding us back: unconscious beliefs, lack of self-worth, negative mindset, old patterns, But this week, we're going to breakthrough. With life coach/entrepreneurial coach, relationship expert, Survivor contestant, and all-around inspiration, Francesca Hogi.

What Triggers You?

Thu, 26 Sep 2019 07:00:00 +0000

Getting triggered by things/people/events is debilitating and defeating, and it keeps happening. You might get triggered because of an old wound that hasn't healed, a memory that keeps replaying, or buttons that keep getting pushed. You also get triggered by the stories you tell yourself, and the unprocessed emotions you still carry. But there's hope and help on the way, and her name is Veronica Grant, a love coach who specializes in reparenting techniques and healing the inner child.

Be A Master Of Seduction

Thu, 19 Sep 2019 07:00:00 +0000

Anybody can be a master of seduction, you don't need sex appeal, a ton of money, or movie star looks. You just need to meet the unmet need in someone. A really good seduction is invisible, and it's everywhere. Life is a seduction, love is a seduction, even sales is a seduction. It happens on micro levels throughout your day. You can be a master of seduction. Tune in this week to hear our guest psychiatrist Dr. Raj Persaud tell you how.

Stop Choking And Start Dating With Confidence

Thu, 12 Sep 2019 07:00:00 +0000

Choking under pressure and performance anxiety are dating killers. Fear of failure will singlehandedly sabotage any budding relationship if you do not get a handle on it. On this weeks episode, clinical psychologist Aimee Daramus shares her expert techniques to build confidence, stay calm, and relax under pressure, especially when the dating stakes are high.

I Love You, But I Hate Your Politics

Thu, 05 Sep 2019 07:00:00 +0000

Like it or not, politics is everywhere: social media, around the dinner table, and in our personal lives. Politics have divided families, broken up friendships, and turned dating into a minefield. Can you love someone but hate their politics? Can you date someone across the aisle? Can we save our relationships from mutual destruction? The answer is yes, and our guests this week are going to tell you how. Author, psychoanalyst, and Liberal Democrat Jeanne Safer and her husband Rick Brookhiser, Conservative Republican and Sr. Editor of the National Review have 39 years of marriage under their belt, and a world of knowledge to share when it comes to making politics and love work together.

Confessions of a Professional Wingman

Thu, 29 Aug 2019 07:00:00 +0000

A real life "Hitch," Thomas Edwards is a mans transformation coach and the founder of The Professional Wingman. When it comes to dating and relationships, he is mans best friend. Guys, if you want to sharpen your social skills, smooth out your rough edges, increase your confidence, and up your game, take a page out of Thomas professional wingman playbook and tune in

The Secret To Love No One Tells You but Arielle Ford will

Thu, 22 Aug 2019 07:00:00 +0000

It's no secret that love is hard to find, but there is a secret to manifesting it faster, and keeping it longer. Our guest this week is Arielle Ford, international best-selling author, and relationship expert. As an advocate of the Law of Attraction, Arielle tells us how to magnetize love by trusting the process, being mindful of negative thoughts, and understanding the power of surrender. Love is out there for you, let Arielle show you the way.

Hater To Dater In 60 Minutes Flat

Thu, 15 Aug 2019 07:00:00 +0000

What stops daters from becoming haters? Attitude. A good attitude is man-magnet a bad attitude is a chick repellent. The choice is yours. It's all about your mindset, and it's all about to change. Dating haters, give us 60 minutes and we'll change your attitude forever. With relationship expert, love coach, best-selling author, and the smartest woman in the room, Susan Winter.

Dating Is Like Sports, Here's How To Train For It

Thu, 08 Aug 2019 07:00:00 +0000

Just like sports, dating requires endurance, stamina, power and strength. Being single is like a long distance race and a sprint all at the same times. It will kick your ass! And just like an athlete, you need training. You need skills and strategy, mental toughness and discipline, and great coaches to guide you. With Gary Collins, with best-selling author, military intelligence officer, and college sports consultant.

Stop Dating Your Unresolved Issues!

Thu, 01 Aug 2019 07:00:00 +0000

Codependency, low self-esteem, poor boundaries, whatever your issue, if you don't fix it, you're destined to date it. Your unresolved issues will keep showing up in the form of people you date, and play out in your relationships. If you want to get healthy, and attract healthy partners, the cycle must stop. Instead of waiting around for others to change, you can empower yourself to change. Learn how this week with great insights from therapist and writer, Crystal Jackson.

Are Men Still From Mars, And Women From Venus?

Thu, 25 Jul 2019 07:00:00 +0000

In one word, YES. 27 years after John Gray's best-selling book, "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus," little has changed in the way we communicate our needs with each other. Women still need to be heard, men still need to be needed. Women want safety, men want solutions. But times have changed too, so have the dynamics. Author & relationship counselor John Gray brings us up to speed with best practices to understanding the feminine/masculine, to improving your communication skills, and enhancing intimacy. A must-hear episode!

How To Be Your Authentic Self Without Scaring People Away

Thu, 18 Jul 2019 07:00:00 +0000

You want to be real with who you are, and what you want in life. You want to be honest with your partner about your needs, goals, desires, issues, and fears, but how? How do you open up and be your true self without scaring the shit out of someone? This week, we're giving you all the tools and courage you need to stand up, speak up, and be your authentic self, with the help of licensed therapist and intuitive guide, Madeline Charles.

Looks Aren't Everything - But They Matter!

Thu, 11 Jul 2019 07:00:00 +0000

It's true, looks aren't everything, but they do count for something. Whether you're newly single or single forever, you gotta look good. You've got to make an effort, practice self-care, and take pride in your personal presentation. Remember, dating (especially online) is visual! To help you look your best, we're bringing in the experts: Image consultant and confidence coach, Kimberly Seltzer, and fitness expert Jill Brown.

The Surprising Truth About Masculinity

Thu, 27 Jun 2019 07:00:00 +0000

Masculinity might be about money, power, and success, but it's also about having the strength to be vulnerable, sensitive, and emotionally honest. A real man can be both, he just needs to know how. Joining us to discuss the truth about masculinity, and how men can find their true worth and value, is blogger, life coach, and therapist, John Kim.

Saying I Do At Midlife

Thu, 20 Jun 2019 07:00:00 +0000

From prenups to premarital counseling, if you're getting married at midlife, you need to be equipped. You might be older, but you need to be wiser too. We're talking legal, financial, and family matters, and how to negotiate it all. To help you navigate the process, we're bringing in the experts: family attorney Lauren Petkin, and licensed marriage and family therapist, Virginia Gilbert.

Attachment Theory: Your Missing Link To Love

Thu, 13 Jun 2019 07:00:00 +0000

Whether you have a secure style, an anxious style, or avoidant style, when you figure out attachment theory, you'll figure out everything. It's literally the missing link to life, love, and all relationships. And no one knows this better than our guest this week, Dr. Gary Salyer, the authority on attachment theory. Tune in and find out how you can identify your style and create the love you deserve!

Why Do The Best Of Us Get Dumped?

Thu, 06 Jun 2019 07:00:00 +0000

It doesn't matter who you are, what you look like, or how successful you are, even the best of us get dumped. Smart, successful, beautiful, it happens to everyone. The key is knowing where you went wrong, not taking it personally, and using the lesson to propel you forward. Our guest this week is internationally acclaimed dating coach Renee Slansky, who just happens to be smart, successful and beautiful. Even she knows a thing or two about getting dumped and the power of prevailing.

Dating Is A Numbers Game, Here's How To Play It

Thu, 30 May 2019 07:00:00 +0000

If you think there's some magical formula to meeting people and getting dates, think again. It's really a combination math equation and law of physics. More effort plus wider net equals bigger pay-off. Our guest this week, dating coach Mike Goldstein of EZ Dating, uses data from the major online dating sites to get an 83% success rate for his clients. Play your numbers right and tune in. It might be your lucky day!

Sex, Marriage, and Rock and Roll

Thu, 23 May 2019 07:00:00 +0000

Ever wonder how rockers ever get married and stay married? In a business not exactly known for loyalty or longevity, you're about to meet a married couple who's managed to accomplish both. John Cowsill of the Cowsill Family, best known for the hit song "Hair," and Vicki Peterson of the Bangles, have been married for over 15 years and going strong. And now, they're sharing their stories about finding love, being on the road, and making beautiful music together, this week on DONE BEING SINGLE.

Channel Your Inner Stud, Bring Back Your Swagger

Thu, 09 May 2019 07:00:00 +0000

Inside every guy there's an inner stud that's just dying to get out, and this week, dating & relationship expert Spencer Burnett is making it happen. Whether you want to connect with your alpha male, develop your natural charisma, get out of the friend zone, or leverage your sexy nerd, now's the time and episode to do it! Learn skills, techniques, and new approaches to dating, and lasting relationships.

Suddenly Single, Now What?

Thu, 02 May 2019 07:00:00 +0000

You just got divorced, just ended a relationship, or your BF/GF just dumped you. You're suddenly single, now what? How fast do you get back on the market? Should you online date, get fixed up, take a break, or get laid as fast as possible? Should you get a makeover, cut your bangs, hit the gym, or hire a shrink? You've got questions, we've got answers. Giving you great advice is dating coach & romance expert, Lauren Frances.

Conquering Betrayal

Thu, 25 Apr 2019 07:00:00 +0000

If you've ever been cheated on, lied to, or betrayed, you know the pain. If you've ever cheated, lied, or betrayed someone, you also know the pain. It cuts both ways, so does the guilt, shame, and humiliation, which can be devastating to all parties concerned. Is it the death knell, or can a relationship survive? This week, Anita Chlipala MFT shares her practical tips, tools, and therapy insights, to help heal our wounds, mend our hearts, and show us we can love again with trust and faith.

Love British Style

Thu, 18 Apr 2019 07:00:00 +0000

Ever wonder what dating is like across the pond? Are Brits any different than Americans in how they meet, greet, match, swipe and connect? This week, acclaimed British sex writer, dating expert/historian, and former dominatrix, Nichi Hodgson chats with us about the culture of dating, and shares her insider tips on dating apps, romance, and secrets from the sexual underworld.

Love and Money

Thu, 11 Apr 2019 07:00:00 +0000

Money can be a tricky subject in marriages, relationships, even when you're dating. Who pays? Who has the power? Who makes the rules? Does the balance shift when the woman makes more money? How do you set boundaries with money? Does it really buy you love? This week, financial therapist Kine Corder tackles the tricky subject of love & money, so you don't have to tackle it yourself.

Single Life At Midlife: What Every Woman Should Know

Thu, 04 Apr 2019 07:00:00 +0000

Welcome to single life at midlife: a new and exciting time to be on the market. You've got freedom, hot sex, independence, choices galore. The advantages of being single at this age are many, but so are the perils. This week, we're giving you everything you need to stay strong and sane, equipped and empowered, in the new post-50 dating world. Joining us with expert tips and tools are midlife inspirations, Sandy Weiner of Last First Date, and Silke Schwarzkopf of 2ndActTV.

Is Love Written In The Stars?

Thu, 28 Mar 2019 07:00:00 +0000

When it comes to love, attraction, and commitment, all it takes is a good astrologer and some planetary alignments to see if you (and your partner) have what it takes. Beyond sun signs and drug store horoscopes, professional Vedic astrologer Carol Allen tells us what to look for in a mate, in a chart, and in the heavens, so you can determine what the perfect match is for you.

Dating With Depression

Thu, 21 Mar 2019 07:00:00 +0000

Dating is tough enough, but when you're dealing with mental health issues, it's even tougher. This week, find out how to deal with depression, anxiety, trauma, even suicidal thinking, when you're trying to date and find love. Joining us for a very honest and candid conversation is Catrien Villamil, LMFT, and Sharon Greenwald, writer and suicide survivor.

Executive Coaching For Dating Success?

Thu, 07 Mar 2019 08:00:00 +0000

What can an Executive Coach teach you about dating success? Everything. What we know from business can be applied to love: best practices, communication skills, leadership, conflict management, confidence building, etc. Tune in this week as Executive Coach Bill Hart shares his professional business savvy to help you level up and give you the edge in life and love.

Things Your GF/BF Will Never Tell You

Thu, 28 Feb 2019 08:00:00 +0000

What does your girlfriend or boyfriend, date or partner, secretly like, want, and need? What little gestures do they love, but will never tell you? For those of you who can't read minds, we've got the next best thing: dating and relationship expert Marni Battista. True or false, fact or fiction, Marni's going to confirm or refute what GFs and BFs are thinking, and the secrets they want you to know.

Don't ScrewUp Your RelationshipGoals

Thu, 21 Feb 2019 08:00:00 +0000

Everyday w see #RelationshipGoals on social media, with happy, loving couples, smiling, laughing, and enjoying life. It looks so easy, but it's also easy to screw it all up. Avoiding communication, taking partners for granted, settling, and phoning it in, are just a few ways we #ScrewUp our relationships. David Steele, MFT and founder of the Relationship Coaching Institute joins us with practical tools and best practices to achieve and preserve your #RelationshipGoals.

Forget New Year's Resolutions, Make Valentine's Resolutions

Thu, 14 Feb 2019 08:00:00 +0000

We make New Year's resolutions to improve our we live, why not make Valentine's resolutions to improve how we love? If you're a couple, resolve to be a better partner, or to work harder at your relationship. If you're single, resolve to be happier by yourself, or less stigmatized by your single status. By next Valentine's Day 2020, resolve to feel love, have love, and be loved, regardless of your relationship status. Helping you make resolutions, set goals and intentions, is renown psychotherapist and love expert, Ken Page LCSW.

We Got Your Valentine's Day Ideas Right Here!

Thu, 07 Feb 2019 08:00:00 +0000

From flowers and designer chocolate to romantic getaways, from jewelry and sex toys, to candlelight dinners, from great wine suggestions to suggestions on sealing the deal, we've got what you need to create the hottest, sexiest, most romantic Valentine's Day yet! Tune in for ideas and inspiration from the Peninsula Hotels, Bordeaux Wine Shop, Compartes Chocolate, Pro Travel, Lizzy Shaw Studios, Chivalry Flowers, and sensual products from Warm, Inc. If this episode doesn't get you laid, nothing will! Special Thanks to all of our Amazing Guests: Bob Cranston Bordeaux Wine Shop Jonathan Grahm Compartes Chocolatier Hannah An The District by Hannah An Lizzy Shaw Lizzy Shaw Studios Janine WARM, Inc. Frank Parr The Peninsula Beverly Hills Pamela Appleby ProTravel

Are You Done With Dating?

Thu, 31 Jan 2019 08:00:00 +0000

Are you down on dating? Are you becoming jaded and hardened? Are you more hater than dater these days? Dating burn outs, we hear you! Just don't throw in the towel or give up on dating until you hear this episode. Our expert dating tips and ideas will keep things fresh, and restore your faith in dating. Our guests on this show are Beth Cone Kramer and Mark Burton.

The Best/Worst Dating Advice You're Ever Going To Hear

Thu, 24 Jan 2019 08:00:00 +0000

On this week's episode, it's a one-stop shopping place for dating advice. Some of it is brilliant and should be practiced often, some of it is terrible and should be avoided at all costs. Helping us to discern and decipher, is dating expert, author, and psychologist Dr. Karin Anderson Abrell. Between Treva, Karin, and Robby, we'll get you on the right path with smart and solid advice.

Support Can Be Beautiful

Thu, 17 Jan 2019 08:00:00 +0000

Whether you're suffering through menopause, in a nasty divorce, stuck in dating hell, or just found your first gray pube, it's good to have the support of like-minded women to help you through. That's what the Woolfer's popular online community is for. It's a safe place to vent, rant, exchange ideas, bare your soul, and find support. On this episode, we're going inside the world of the Woolfers with founders Nina Lorez Collins and Hillary Richard.

Done Being An Idiot: Comedian Larry Miller On Dating

Thu, 10 Jan 2019 08:00:00 +0000

Larry Miller, one of the funniest voices in comedy, film, and TV, joins DONE BEING SINGLE to give his advice on how to date, court, romance, and close the deal without being an idiot. Even though he's happily married, Larry still has chops when it comes to being single and not being stupid. If his unique insights don't help you, at least they'll make you laugh. So don't be an idiot, tune in!

A Little Self-Help To Help Find Love

Sat, 29 Dec 2018 08:00:00 +0000

If you want to find love, if you want to be a better dater and attract better people, you must first become a better YOU. On this week's episode, we're borrowing from the world of self-improvement and personal growth to help you become the best version of yourself. You are the most important mover of your chances in love, and clinical psychologist Dr. Terry Simpson will be joining us with insights to show you how to move in the right direction, and make love happen.

Dating Single Parents/Blending Families: The Good, Bad, and Ugly

Sat, 22 Dec 2018 08:00:00 +0000

On this week's DONE BEING SINGLE, we're dating single parents. We're dealing with their emotional baggage, custody issues, and challenges of blending families. We're also loving them. Here's the deal: If you're a single parent, or dating one, be prepared for the worst, the best, and everything in between. Preparing you with expert insight and guidance to handle it all, is Monica Hurt, a licensed marriage and family therapist, and former single parent herself.

Looking For A Few Good Men

Sat, 08 Dec 2018 08:00:00 +0000

They say a good man is hard to find, but we know for a fact they're out there--in all shapes, ages, and sizes, and unlike unicorns, they really do exist. Even if you're over 50, it's possible to find a good man, you just need to know how. We've got just the person to show you: Lisa Copeland, internationally recognized love coach and dating expert for women over 50.

Matchmaker, Matchmaker, Make Me A Match!

Sat, 01 Dec 2018 08:00:00 +0000

When dating websites aren't cutting it, when dating apps can't get the job done, when you're striking out IRL, it's time to bring in the big guns. Hiring a matchmaker or dating service, can be the smartest move you can make. Picking up where traditional apps leave off, matchmakers come with curated clients, personalized attention, and custom matches. One of the best in the business, Kailen Rosenberg, joins us this week to discuss the truth about matchmaking, and the secrets to finding love online and off.

Romance Is Dying, Here's How To Save It

Sat, 24 Nov 2018 08:00:00 +0000

Romance is a lost art, and you're losing your touch. You're forgetting how to meet IRL, how to flirt, how to court. Technology is killing romance and it's taking your dating skills with it. But dating expert and psychologist Dr. Diana Kirschner is coming to the rescue with advice on surviving online dating, and tips on how you can save romance from digital death.

Who Needs Marriage Anyway?

Sat, 17 Nov 2018 08:00:00 +0000

Do you believe in marriage? How about remarrying? If you married again, how would you do it differently? Do you believe marriage is even necessary? What are the alternatives? Marriage, and the times, are a changin’, and nobody knows this better than our guest, Susan Pease Gadoua, licensed therapist, marriage and divorce expert, and author of the book, "The New I Do, Reshaping Marriage for Skeptics, Realists and Rebels", co-authored with Vicki Larson. From Starter Marriages, Parenting Marriages, Live Apart Together Marriages, Companion Marriages, to Open Marriages, and more, you'll learn which kind of union is right for you.

An Intimate Conversation With Stacey Nelkin

Sat, 10 Nov 2018 08:00:00 +0000

You could say actress and relationship expert Stacey Nelkin’s been around the block a few times. She dated Woody Allen when she was 17, she’s been married three times, she grew up in show business, she’s got stories to tell, wisdom to share, and she’s doing it all on this week’s DONE BEING SINGLE! Join us for an intimate conversation about love, sex, marriage, parenting, divorce, ex's, dating and relationships, with a true expert who saw it, lived it, and mastered it all.

Admit It, You Suck At Relationships

Sat, 03 Nov 2018 07:00:00 +0000

If you give great date, but suck at relationships, then you need Guy Finley, internationally renowned spiritual teacher, and relationship guru. He's working his relationship magic on this week's DONE BEING SINGLE. Whether you have intimacy issues and can't get close, or you're a commitment-phobe and can't go the distance, Guy's transformative tips and tools will make your love last longer and your relationships suck less.

The Gloves Are Off: How To Fight Right

Sat, 27 Oct 2018 07:00:00 +0000

If you avoid conflict (or have too much of it in your relationships), if you have anger issues, or confuse rage for passion, then you better listen to this episode or we will kick your ass. Jumping into this week's fray and pulling no punches is conflict healer, Dave Gerber, and therapist Lesley Alderman. With their help, you’ll learn how to temper your temper, and turn your inner fighter into a lover.

Does Love Happen By Accident Or On Purpose?

Sat, 20 Oct 2018 07:00:00 +0000

What's the best plan for finding love? Pursue it, or let it pursue you? Proactively seek it, or passively receive it? Let it happen by accident, or make it happen on purpose? It's a question for the ages, and we're about to answer it in this episode. Joining us with the grand plan for love, and how to attract it, are relationship experts, Orna & Matthew Walters.

Let That Sh-t Go, Let Love In

Sat, 13 Oct 2018 07:00:00 +0000

Nothing stops love from coming in than negative thinking going on. Negative thinking holds us back, thwarts our creativity, and keeps us from truly feeling alive. It's time to let that shit go, and personal growth pioneer, Gay Hendricks is going to show you how, by bringing out your inner genius. Learn how to recognize Genius Moments, master the Genius Move, and get other genius ideas to live fully and love better, from Gay's new life-changing book, "The Joy of Genius."

The Woman Whisperer

Sat, 29 Sep 2018 07:00:00 +0000

Ladies, if you want to know the secret to finding love, attracting healthy partners, and getting your needs met, then listen carefully, because relationship mentor Ken Bechtel, is about to clue you in. As creator of the Finding Success In Love Program, Ken not only brings you the real story from a man’s perspective of what it takes to be loved and adored by a great guy, he'll share his secrets on what it takes to love and adore yourself.

National Singles Day, Your Call To Action

Sat, 22 Sep 2018 07:00:00 +0000

September 22nd is Singles Appreciation Day, and we're celebrating the occasion with a call to action. Embrace your singleness! Be proud of your singleness! Own your singleness! There ain't no shame in the game, so be all you can be, single people! This week, we're featuring a new twist on date night from Do Good Date Night, a new dating app called Blue, and dating expertise from dating coach Cheryl Besner. Enjoy your singleness today, because tomorrow you are done being single! Power to the single people!

Smarter Sex

Sat, 15 Sep 2018 07:00:00 +0000

If you want to be a genius in the sack, you gotta get smart. Master the moves, know the techniques, learn best practices, and get on top of what works and what doesn't. Here to enlighten you with new ideas for the bedroom, are acclaimed sex advisors Susan Bratton and Jim Benson. With their guidance, you'll get sexier and smarter in only an hour. So tune in and turn on!

The Magic Is In You

Sat, 08 Sep 2018 07:00:00 +0000

If you question why you're still single, and haven't found love yet, ponder no more. You may not realize it, but you have the answers; you have what it takes, and can manifest it anytime. The magic is in you. Love, abundance, and happiness are all within reach, you just need to know how to access it, and attract it. Joining us to discuss and enlighten, is personal growth expert, and Law of Attraction advocate, Arielle Ford, affectionately known as "The Cupid of Consciousness."

Men, What Say You?

Sat, 01 Sep 2018 07:00:00 +0000

What happens when three single guys start talking? You get a no-holds barred discussion about women, dating, aging, work, divorce, E.D., porn, getting laid, and definitely finding love. Nothing is off-limits, everything's on the table. It's as close to locker room talk as you're going to get. No bragging about grabbing women by the pussy, we promise!!

Cracking The Man Code

Sat, 11 Aug 2018 07:00:00 +0000

Men shouldn't need an instruction manual or combination lock to figure out what they're thinking, what they want, or what makes them tick. Everyone says guys are simple, but we still wonder: what IS going on in their brains? Joining us this week is midlife dating and relationship coach, Jonathan Aslay. With his help, we'll crack the man code, unlock the male mind, and figure out what the hell is going on in there.

What Women Really Want

Sat, 04 Aug 2018 07:00:00 +0000

What happens when four single chicks get together to shoot the shit about men, dating, and finding love? A gabfest of epic proportions. If you're curious about what women really want, you've come to the right place. From online dating to sex, to old-fashioned courtship, you're about to hear it straight and uncensored. Be a fly on the wall for this candid, no-holds barred roundtable discussion.

Don't Take Dating So Damn Seriously!

Sat, 28 Jul 2018 07:00:00 +0000

When it comes to dating, comedian Craig Shoemaker aka The Love Master, wants you to stop taking it so damn seriously! Yes, single life sucks, but you won't survive it unless you keep your sense of humor, and keep laughing it off when things go south. That's what Craig learned to do after two failed marriages, single fatherhood, and other personal difficulties. Laughter is the best medicine. That, and good weed. Mastering the art of not giving a shit is what it's all about, so tune in and learn from the master himself.

How To Date In A Feminist World

Sat, 21 Jul 2018 07:00:00 +0000

Today, women have the power. They have more money, influence, and authority than ever. On more equal footing with men, women are taking control and leading the charge. But what about in dating? Who takes the lead? Who’s in control? Who makes the first move, and who should pay? If you’re an old-fashioned type who believes in traditional courtship, is feminism and the #MeToo movement empowering you, or is it turning your dating world upside down? Joining us to discuss is acclaimed sex expert and girl boss, Susan Bratton, and Bumble dating app Chief Brand Officer, Alex Williamson. So whether you’re an alpha female, beta male, girly girl, or manly man, we’re going to get to the bottom of who should be on top.

Dating TMI: Let It Rip, Or Keep It Zipped

Sat, 14 Jul 2018 07:00:00 +0000

When you’re dating, honesty is always the best policy, but how much is too much? In the interest of full disclosure, how much should you reveal and when? If you know you have issues, should you drop the bomb sooner, later, or not at all? What’s the difference between TMI, and truth in dating anyway? On this week’s episode, we’re inviting love coach Bex Burton and medical therapist Dr. Gretchen Kubacky to share their thoughts on the perils and pluses of letting it rip and keeping it zipped when dating.

Surviving Breakup Hell

Sat, 07 Jul 2018 07:00:00 +0000

Breaking up is hard to do, in fact, it can be pure hell. But in this week's episode, we're going to show how to do it without losing your sanity or soul. To help you survive breakup hell, we're inviting acclaimed psychotherapist Dr. Fran Walfish, and divorce attorney Michelle Afont, to give you their best advice and guidance to piecing your heart and life back together. In addition, we've got other practical tools and survival skills to heal your psyche, boost your confidence, and get you back in the game.

Everything You Wanted To Know About Sex But Were Afraid To Ask

Sat, 30 Jun 2018 07:00:00 +0000

"Everything You Wanted To Know About Sex But Were Afraid To Ask" is an old Woody Allen movie from the 70s, but it's also what we're talking about this week. Sex never gets old, never goes out of style, and can never be explained enough. That's why we're inviting sex educator Lou Paget to get down and dirty with her knowledge about all things sex. From oral to anal, from masturbation to #metoo, we're going there. You've got questions, we've got answers. So tune in, turn on, and don't be afraid!

Everything You Want Is On The Other Side Of Fear

Sat, 23 Jun 2018 07:00:00 +0000

Everything you want in life: abundance, success, a great relationship, is on the other side of fear. It's on the other side of your limiting beliefs and self-defeating thoughts too. You are deserving and worthy of love, and nothing is keeping you from it except YOU. Fear will conquer you if you don't conquer it first. Our guests this week are personal growth pioneers Gay and Katie Hendricks. In their 40 years of coaching work, they've seen first-hand how fear manifests itself in all areas of life; how it cripples progress and stunts growth. Everything you want is on the other side of fear, and Gay and Katie are going to show you how to get there with some breakthrough ideas, inspired thinking, and fear-slaying techniques.

Bad Boys and Crazy Chicks: Are You Addicted To Chaos?

Sat, 16 Jun 2018 07:00:00 +0000

If you're constantly attracted to crazy chicks, if you're always getting burned by bad boys, if you can't enjoy a relationship without drama or get turned on by someone stable, if sex isn't hot without a hot mess, then you might be addicted to chaos. Dating doesn't have to be dysfunctional, and neither do you! We welcome board certified psychiatrist Dr. Dale Archer to share his insights, and provide counsel to those in the grip of chaos addiction.

Date Ready: From Manscaping To Anti-Aging

Sat, 09 Jun 2018 07:00:00 +0000

If you're just entering the dating world, or have been dating forever, it might be a good time to take a look in the mirror. Do you like what you see? Are you the best version of yourself? Do you look and feel date ready? Maybe it's time to make some changes, update your look, get in shape, or "freshen up" a bit with some cosmetic procedures. Or maybe you just need an attitude adjustment and fresh perspective. If you're single and on the market, it takes work. Upkeep isn't just a chick thing, men need maintenance too. On this week's episode, we're inviting image consultant Kimberly Seltzer, and anti-aging medical expert Dr. Andre Berger to discuss their secret tips and tricks to looking good and being date ready.

Got Chemistry? The Metaphysics Of Dating

Sat, 02 Jun 2018 07:00:00 +0000

As the old joke goes: a human behavioralist, a palm reader, and a psychic, all walk into a bar... What they discover is they all have something in common: the ability to intuit, look deeper, and find hidden signs and meaning into human behavior and personality. On this week's DONE BEING SINGLE, we're inviting metaphysical experts to help explain chemistry and attraction, specifically what to look for in a mate, how to know if a relationship has staying power, and if a person is marriage material. From the psychic realm, to palm reading, to astrological charts, to human assessment tools, we're thinking outside the box to help you get a leg up in the dating world.

Don't Let A Tough Childhood Stop You From Finding Love

Sat, 12 May 2018 07:00:00 +0000

You might've had a tough childhood. You might've been a child of divorce, or from a broken home, or without good role models to show you love, or how to function in a healthy, stable relationship. Your past--regardless of how dysfunctional or tumultuous--shouldn't stop you (or keep you) from finding love and attracting healthy relationships. You don't have to be a legacy to what you experienced growing up. You can overcome incredible odds and obstacles, you just need the right guidance. Our guest this week, clinical psychologist Dr. Margaret Rutherford, will give you practical tools, skills, and insight to help you get over your past, and onward to healthy love.

Be Your Own Happiness Boss

Sat, 05 May 2018 07:00:00 +0000

Think that finding a girlfriend/boyfriend/relationship or getting married is what's going to make you happy? Think again! Your happiness is not attached to something or someone outside yourself. It comes from within, and it's all within reach. You can be the boss of your own happiness, and we're going to show you how. On this episode of DONE BEING SINGLE, Happiness Coach Ricky Powell, and former CNN anchor and syndicated newspaper columnist Daryn Kagan, will share their tools and secrets not just for finding happiness, but taking charge of it.

Sex and the Single Girl

Sat, 28 Apr 2018 07:00:00 +0000

Sex and the Single Girl was wildly popular non-fiction book written in 1962 by Helen Gurley Brown, editor of Cosmopolitan Magazine. It broke taboos and sold millions by encouraging women to take charge of their sex lives at a time when men had all the power in the bedroom. 56 years later, the single girl might have more say and more power, but she still has questions about sex, and she isn’t afraid to ask. Whether you’re a single gal worried about her sexual mojo, or a guy wondering how to turn his girl on, all your questions will be answered by our guest this week, psychotherapist, writer, and sex coach, Vanessa Marin.

So You Want To Be In A Relationship?

Sat, 21 Apr 2018 07:00:00 +0000

You say you want to be in a relationship, but do you even know how? Do you know what it takes to find a healthy, stable partner? Do you know what's required to sustain a happy partnership? Treva and Robby are still learning, and want to share their discoveries and insights with you. So they're hitting the couch for some live, on-air, couples counseling with Jonathan Robinson, psychotherapist and author of the bestselling book, "Communication Miracles for Couples."

Is 'Good Enough' Good Enough?

Sat, 14 Apr 2018 07:00:00 +0000

The Rolling Stones once said: “You can’t always get what you want, but if you try sometime, you find you get what you need.” But when you’re single and dating, can you get what you need without settling? Is even a little settling too much? How do you keep your bar raised, your standards high, and still be realistic? The real truth is, you get what you need when you stop searching, and start settling. Settling isn’t a dirty word, it’s just misunderstood. On this week’s episode of DONE BEING SINGLE, we’re inviting Lori Gottlieb, psychotherapist and author of the New York Times bestseller, “MARRY HIM: The Case For Marrying Mr. Good Enough,” to put a different spin on settling. And she should know—she wrote the book on it.

Dating With Baggage

Sat, 07 Apr 2018 07:00:00 +0000

Dating with baggage--you may have it, or you may be dating someone who has it. Kids, a crazy ex, an ugly divorce, personal issues, all qualify as stuff we bring with us when we date and get into new relationships. The baggage might be heavy, but it doesn't have to weigh you down. Our guest this week, Tom Carouso, MFT, will help you unpack your baggage, unload your stuff, and free yourself up to love.

Singles Sex: When To Have It, When Not To Have It

Sat, 31 Mar 2018 07:00:00 +0000

Sex when you're single can be wild and fun if you're adventurous, or it can spell doom and gloom if you're not careful. It all depends on where you're at, what your needs are, and what kind of shape your ego is in. Long term relationship? Marriage? Fuck buddy? Casual hook-up? There's something for everybody, you just gotta be clear on what you want first. Tune into DONE BEING SINGLE and let Treva and Robby help guide you through the Wild West of singles sex.

Online Dating: Are You A Pro Or A Con?

Sat, 24 Mar 2018 07:00:00 +0000

Who are you online? A straight shooter or con job? Do you lie about your age, height, weight, income, marital status, etc. on dating apps? Or, do you tell the truth and hope for the best? On this week’s DONE BEING SINGLE, we’re delving into the shady world of online dating, with its liars, bullshitters, and yes, some very good people too. Adding her insights to the discussion will be cyber-dating expert Julie Spira, author of the bestseller, “The Perils of Cyber-Dating: Confessions of a Hopeful Romantic Looking for Love Online.”

Deal Breakers: Dig them or ditch them?

Sat, 17 Mar 2018 07:00:00 +0000

We all have them—some are harsh, some are unreasonable, and some are more deal points than deal breakers. Won’t date a guy who’s separated? Won’t date a woman with small kids? Don’t want to be a nurse or a purse? Don’t want to date someone who isn’t a college grad, great looking, or rich enough? Good luck with that. As we discussed in last week’s episode, nobody’s perfect, but shouldn’t everyone have a few non-negotiables when they’re dating? There's great debate on whether deal breakers are self-protective, or self-sabotage--especially if used to put up obstacles or make excuses. Tune in this week when we debate deal breakers with Brian Howie, host and creator of the Great Love Debate world tour, and the Great Love Debate podcast, the top-rated dating & relationship podcast on iTunes since 2016.

Are Politics Screwing Your Love Life?

Sat, 03 Mar 2018 08:00:00 +0000

If you’re single in this political climate, chances are politics are either wreaking havoc on your love life, or if you’re lucky, helping you get lucky. Are you dating across the aisle, or only along party lines? These days, the politics of dating are screwing everybody. We’ll be talking to singles on the political spectrum—from diehard Dems to staunch Conservatives—to hear their take on dating in the age of Trump.

Is There Such A Thing As Right Person, Wrong Time?

Sat, 24 Feb 2018 08:00:00 +0000

Does the concept of "Right Person, Wrong Time" really exist? Or, is it that you just haven't met the right person yet, regardless of what time it is and where you are in life? Are the people we meet at the wrong time actually just the wrong people? Or, is there something wrong with us? We'll debate these age old questions with psychologist and late blooming bride, Dr. Karin Abrell Anderson, author of the book "Single is the New Black: Don't Wear White 'Til It's Right." We'll also be sharing dating tips, rants, raves, dating stories from hell, and conducting real-time dating intervention!

How To Know When You're Done

Sat, 17 Feb 2018 08:00:00 +0000

You can't just say "I'm done!" you have to be willing to make the changes to get what you want. That means taking a hard look at yourself, your choices, and your actions. If you're mad as hell and not going to take it anymore, good for you! You're on your way to being done. In their first episode, Treva and Robby will tell their story: how they met, why they were single for so long, what they learned, and how they knew they were done being single. Also in this episode, you'll meet Shannon Colleary, blogger, author, speaker, and life coach. Her new book, "She Dated The Asshats, But Married The Good Guy," will help you make better choices, and get the love you deserve. She's got great tips and tools for happier dating and healthier relationships. Treva and Robby will be answering your questions, taking your calls, and dispensing some serious ass kicking, so assume the position and prepare for impact!