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About Our Host: Susan E. Guthrie, Esq.

Susan E. Guthrie is one of the nation's leading family law and mediation attorneys, with more than 35 years of experience helping individuals navigate divorce with clarity and strategy. She is the Immediate Past Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution, a best-selling author, and a sought-after speaker and trainer.

Susan recently appeared as the featured expert on The Oprah Podcast and has been cited in The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, The Washington Post, NewsNation, and NBC Chicago Today, among others.

As the creator and host of Divorce & Beyond, ranked in the top 1% of all podcasts worldwide with millions of downloads and an Apple Top 100 Self-Help designation, Susan brings together top legal and mental health experts to help listeners move through divorce and into what comes next.

Learn more at https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/about

Disclaimer: The commentary and opinions shared on this podcast are for informational and entertainment purposes only and do not constitute legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your state regarding your specific situation.

When Your Partner Becomes a Stranger: Renowned Divorce Attorney Marilyn Chinitz Reveals the Red Flags You Didn’t See Coming on Divorce & Beyond #420

Mon, 04 May 2026 05:00:00 -0500

Most people who go through divorce will tell you the same thing: "I was blindsided." But were they really? Or were the signs there all along, just not recognized for what they were?

That is the question at the center of this conversation, and Susan Guthrie is bringing in one of the true icons of family law to answer it. Marilyn Chinitz, partner at Blank Rome and renowned matrimonial attorney with more than four decades of experience, has sat across from thousands of clients who never saw it coming. She knows the red flags. She knows the financial blind spots. And she does not mince words.

Right now, a memoir is taking over the national conversation. Strangers: A Memoir of Marriage by Belle Burden has ignited a bellwether of attention. This book has people everywhere asking, "How did she not see it?" Susan and Marilyn use this moment as a launching pad to go somewhere deeper: the patterns, the red flags, and the financial realities that every person in a marriage or contemplating one needs to understand.

Covered in this episode:

The red flags hiding in plain sight, including subtle communication patterns, financial avoidance, and how your spouse treats others
A client story that shows exactly how a prenup gives you a heads up about who you are marrying
How trusts work in a marriage, why they are often set up completely legitimately, and when they cross into "funny business" that courts will not tolerate
Why you do not divorce the same person you married, and what that really means for how you need to prepare

THIS CONVERSATION ALSO DIGS INTO WHY BEING AN EQUAL PARTNER MEANS BEING AN INFORMED ONE

Assets could be held in a trust you did not know about. The home could be rented. The wealth could be encumbered by debt. And if you never asked, you may not find out until you are sitting across from a divorce attorney.

Ask to sit down and go through the finances together, even once a year

Review bank statements, tax returns, and credit card accounts

Understand what is in your name, what is joint, and what is held in a trust

If your spouse brushes you off or refuses, that is a red flag worth taking seriously

Get professionals around you: a financial advisor, a forensic accountant, and an attorney, even before anything goes wrong

This is not about suspicion. It is about being an equal partner and an informed one. The time to understand what you have is during a happy, intact marriage, not across a conference table from a divorce attorney. You are better off having that conversation early.

FREE DOWNLOAD: The Red Flags You Didn’t See Checklist + Companion Article

Susan has created two resources to help you move from hearing this to actually using it.The Red Flags You Didn't See Checklist walks you through the patterns discussed in this episode and gives you a way to reflect more intentionally on your own situation. The companion article goes deeper into the topic, drawing from this broader conversation and what is playing out in real life right now. Both are available at divorceandbeyondpod.com.

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Books Referenced:
Strangers: A Memoir of Marriage, Belle Burden

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This Week’s Guest: Marilyn Chinitz

Marilyn Chinitz is a Partner at Blank Rome with 40 years of experience in every facet of family law. She is known for representing A-list celebrities and influential, high-profile clients in cases that have received national and international attention.

This Week's Sponsor: Hello Divorce

Hello Divorce is a modern platform designed to support people before, during, and beyond divorce, providing legal information, tools, and access to professionals who help individuals navigate the process more thoughtfully.

Resources created specifically for Divorce & Beyond listeners are available at HelloDivorce.com/Susan.

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About Our Host: Susan E. Guthrie, Esq.

Susan recently appeared as the featured expert on The Oprah Podcast and has been cited in The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, The Washington Post, NewsNation, and NBC Chicago Today, among others.

Learn more at https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/about

This Isn’t a Bad Divorce. It’s Domestic Violence. And We Need to Stop Getting It Wrong with Susan Guthrie on Divorce & Beyond #419

Mon, 27 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0500

Over the past couple of weeks, headlines have described a tragic murder suicide involving a couple going through a divorce, once again framing it as a "contentious divorce." Let's be very clear about something: divorce did not cause what happened. Divorce does not cause murder. Domestic violence causes murder.

That is why Susan Guthrie is doing this difficult but important solo episode. She walks through the patterns of abuse, the high risk indicators that change a situation entirely, why the moment of separation is so dangerous, and what a thoughtful, strategic exit actually looks like.

This conversation moves from awareness to action, so if any part of what you hear feels familiar, you have something calm and structured to carry with you as you think through your next steps.

Covered in this episode:

Why the moment of separation is often the most dangerous time, and how understanding that allows you to move more thoughtfully and strategically.
The high risk indicators to take seriously: strangulation, threats to kill, access to firearms, stalking, extreme jealousy or control, and statements like "if I can't have you, no one will."
What a thoughtful, strategic exit actually looks like, from quiet planning and digital safety to building a small, trusted circle of support.
Why your children and pets must be part of your safety plan from the very beginning.

⚠️ IMPORTANT: ACCESS TO A FIREARM SIGNIFICANTLY INCREASES YOUR RISK

If there is access to a firearm and you are leaving, you have to take that seriously. It significantly increases risk. This is where having professional guidance before you leave, and as you are making your plan, becomes critical.

Find a domestic violence advocate
Find a divorce coach who specializes in helping people experiencing domestic abuse or violence
Meet with an attorney who understands the risks
Include your children and your pets in your safety plan from the beginning
Do not announce your plan before you are ready, as that can increase your risk

This is not a time for informal arrangements. The structure of your plan will matter, and getting guidance early on and plotting your strategy so that it is fully developed can make a meaningful difference.

FREE DOWNLOAD: Your Safety First, A Practical Exit and Protection Plan for High-Risk Relationships

Susan created a companion guide to go along with this episode. In a moment like this, you should not have to remember everything you are hearing on a podcast episode. This is a calm, structured, step-by-step resource to help you think through your situation and your next steps. Find it here.

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Referenced Episodes from the Archive

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Aimee Says: Support for Survivors Creating a Safety Plan

Aimee Says is a private, AI-powered tool designed to support survivors navigating post-separation abuse by helping you document experiences, identify patterns of coercive control, and organize your story with greater clarity. This can be especially valuable when creating a safety plan, preparing to communicate with professionals, or navigating the legal system. It is a supportive tool, not a substitute for professional help, and if you are in immediate danger, please contact a domestic violence hotline or local resource.

Learn more here: https://www.aimeesays.com/en/home?via=susan and use code SUSAN for a special listener offer.

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About Our Host: Susan E. Guthrie, Esq.

Susan recently appeared as the featured expert on The Oprah Podcast and has been cited in The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, The Washington Post, NewsNation, and NBC Chicago Today, among others.

Learn more at https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/about

The 7 Most-Asked Divorce Questions on ChatGPT, Answered by a Top Family Law Attorney with Susan Guthrie on Divorce & Beyond #418

Mon, 20 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0500

You have probably done it. Typed a question about your divorce into ChatGPT or another AI tool late at night, when you did not want to call anyone else. You are not alone.

In this solo episode, family law attorney and mediator Susan Guthrie answers the 7 most common divorce questions people are asking AI, with the depth and 35-plus years of experience that make the difference between a good-enough answer and the right one.

The 7 questions covered:

What are the most common mistakes people make during divorce?
How can I find the right resources and support to help me through divorce?
What are the best ways to communicate with my ex-spouse?
What are effective strategies for co-parenting after divorce?
How can I use divorce as an opportunity for growth and transformation?
How do I protect my financial future during and after divorce?
What should I know about the legal process my attorney might not tell me?

Susan also covers how to use AI smartly during your divorce, including three legal risks every person in an active proceeding should understand before typing private details into a commercial AI.

IMPORTANT: A LEGAL CAUTION ABOUT USING AI IN YOUR DIVORCE

This episode covers what AI gets right and wrong about divorce. It also addresses something rarely discussed in public: the legal risks of using commercial AI tools like ChatGPT or Gemini while going through a divorce proceeding.

Do not enter private financial details, asset information, or custody specifics into commercial AI platforms
Case law is still developing, but courts have already ruled that AI conversations can be subject to discovery in legal proceedings
Entering attorney-client privileged communications, therapist notes, doctor-patient information, or financial professional advice into a commercial AI may waive those legal privileges permanently

Use AI to understand general concepts. Keep the specific details of your situation in privileged, protected spaces: your attorney's office, your therapist's room, your mediator's table.

FREE DOWNLOAD: The Divorce Questions Everyone Is Asking AI, a companion guide with key takeaways and resources. Find it here

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Resources created specifically for Divorce & Beyond listeners are available at HelloDivorce.com/Susan.

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About Our Host: Susan E. Guthrie, Esq.

Susan recently appeared as the featured expert on The Oprah Podcast and has been cited in The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, The Washington Post, NewsNation, and NBC Chicago Today, among others.

Learn more at https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/about

Disclaimer: The commentary and opinions shared on this podcast are for informational and entertainment purposes only and do not constitute legal advice. Consult a licensed attorney in your state regarding your specific situation.

The Digital Trail: How Tech Is Rewriting Divorce (and What Everyone Is Getting Wrong) with Susan Guthrie on Divorce & Beyond #417

Mon, 13 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0500

What If Your Divorce Case Is Already Building Itself Without You Knowing?

Your texts. Your Venmo transactions. Your location history. Your Google searches. Even the files you thought you deleted. In divorce, your digital life is not just part of your story. It is the evidence. And right now, the advice circulating on social media about how to handle it is often incomplete, misleading, and in some cases dangerously wrong.

In this solo episode, Susan Guthrie, top divorce attorney, mediator, and host of Divorce & Beyond, cuts through the noise with the clarity that comes from more than 35 years in the courtroom. She walks through what is trending on TikTok and Instagram right now, what popular media is actually getting right, and where the real legal risks live for people who act on bad information.

Because access to information is not the same as having the legal right to use it. And one decision made in a moment of frustration can create consequences that follow your case all the way to its end.

What You Will Learn

What social media is getting right about digital footprints in divorce, and exactly where the advice breaks down
Why the most damaging mistakes happen in moments of urgency, not deliberate choices
The critical difference between building a case strategy and simply trying to catch your spouse, and why that distinction matters legally
What courts are actually ruling about AI tools in divorce, including a real decision finding that AI chat logs were discoverable by the other side
Why more information does not automatically strengthen your position, and how improperly obtained evidence can become leverage against you
Five actionable takeaways, including why you must assume your entire digital life is discoverable from the moment divorce becomes a possibility

Free Resource: The Tech Mistakes That Can Destroy Your Divorce Case

Seven costly errors people are making right now with digital evidence in divorce, and what to do instead. This practical guide includes a before-you-act checklist, a social media reality check, and clear guidance on AI tools. Written by a nationally recognized divorce attorney.

Get instant access at divorceandbeyondpod.com or click here: https://divorcebeyond.com/tech-traps-resource

This Week's Sponsor: Hello Divorce

Resources created specifically for Divorce & Beyond listeners are available at HelloDivorce.com/Susan.

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About Susan E. Guthrie, Esq.

Susan recently appeared as the featured expert on The Oprah Podcast and has been cited in The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, The Washington Post, NewsNation, and NBC Chicago Today, among others.

Learn more at https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/about

The 5 Most Costly Divorce Agreement Mistakes (and How to Avoid Them Before It’s Too Late) with Susan Guthrie on Divorce & Beyond #416

Mon, 06 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0500

Most people assume the hardest part of divorce is getting through it. What they do not realize is that the agreement they sign at the end is what they are going to live with long after it is over.

Susan Guthrie has spent more than 35 years watching the same costly patterns show up in her work. What attorneys, mediators, and post-divorce litigation trends are revealing is that many of the most expensive problems people face after divorce are coming directly from how their agreements were structured in the first place. In so many of those situations, the real issue did not start with enforcement. It started with how the agreement was written, and how it was negotiated.

In this solo episode, Susan walks through the five most costly mistakes people are making in divorce agreements right now, the patterns that keep showing up again and again, and how to avoid them before it is too late.

What You’ll Learn

Why rushing to be done is the most common and costly mistake in divorce, and why the agreement you rushed through today is the one you will wish you had slowed down for later
How financial misunderstanding leads people to agree to things they do not fully understand, and why confusion in divorce is not neutral, it is expensive
Why vague agreements do not create flexibility, they create conflict
How emotional decision making during divorce leads to long-term consequences that people did not anticipate, and the one question Susan wants every listener to ask themselves before agreeing to anything
Why not thinking about the beyond is one of the biggest drivers of future problems, and how to make sure your agreement is built to support your future, not just end your marriage

Resources Mentioned in This Episode Hello Divorce

Hello Divorce is a modern platform designed to support people before, during, and beyond divorce. The platform provides legal information, tools, and access to professionals who help individuals navigate divorce more thoughtfully and constructively.

Explore resources created specifically for Divorce & Beyond listeners:

HelloDivorce.com/Susan

Free Resource: Before You Sign: 15 Questions to Ask Before You Sign Your Divorce Agreement

Before you sign anything, download Susan's free companion resource for this episode: Before You Sign: 15 Questions to Ask Before You Sign Your Divorce Agreement. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do in this process is ask better questions and make sure the decisions you are making today are the ones your future self can live with.

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Susan E. Guthrie®, Esq. is one of the nation’s leading family law and mediation experts, with more than 35 years of experience helping individuals and families navigate divorce and conflict with clarity and compassion. She is the Immediate Past Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution, a best-selling author, and a sought-after speaker, trainer, and practice-building consultant.

Susan recently appeared as the featured expert on The Oprah Podcast, where she shared her insights on gray divorce and the changing landscape of relationships. Her expertise has also been featured in The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, The Washington Post, NewsNation, and NBC’s Chicago Today, among many others.

As the creator and host of the award-winning Divorce & Beyond® Podcast, ranked in the top 1% of all podcasts worldwide with more than 3.4 million downloads, Susan brings together top experts and powerful personal stories to help listeners move through divorce and beyond with confidence, insight, and hope.

Learn more about Susan and her work at susaneguthrie.com.

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Walking on Eggshells in Family Court: Meet Aimee Says, the AI Tool Transforming Survivor Support with Anne Wintemute on Divorce & Beyond #415

Mon, 30 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0500

Two of Susan Guthrie's greatest passions, divorce and family law, and the world of AI, come together in this episode, and the result is something truly powerful.

Post-separation abuse is something far too many people experience, but the legal system still struggles to understand. Many people assume that once someone leaves an abusive relationship, the danger is over. But in reality, the abuse often changes form. It can show up as litigation abuse, weaponized communication, or ongoing coercive control that leaves survivors feeling like they are still walking on eggshells, even in family court.

Susan is joined by Anne Wintemute, co-founder and CEO of AimeeSays, an AI tool built specifically to support survivors of relationship abuse. AimeeSays helps survivors document their experiences, identify patterns of coercive control, and organize their story in a way that professionals and courts can actually understand. This is the bridge that has been missing.

What You Will Learn

Why the legal system tends to focus on isolated incidents rather than patterns of behavior, and why that gap can be so damaging for survivors
How documenting patterns of coercive control, rather than individual incidents, can change the way a story is received in court
Why survivors often struggle to tell their story clearly, and how trauma directly impacts testimony
How AI technology is helping survivors organize their experiences and communicate what they have lived through in ways that courts and professionals can actually understand
Why legal professionals need to know about tools like AimeeSays and how it can help them help their clients

Golden Nuggets

Leaving an abusive relationship does not always end the abuse. For many survivors, the abuse simply changes form, often showing up as litigation abuse, coercive control, and weaponized communication during and after divorce.
One of the greatest challenges survivors face in family court is that the system tends to look for isolated incidents, while abuse often exists as a pattern of behavior over time. Being able to document those patterns clearly can make an enormous difference in how a story is understood.
Technology may finally be helping to bridge that gap. Tools like AimeeSays are helping survivors organize their experiences, recognize patterns, and communicate what they have been living through in ways that courts and professionals can better understand.

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Resources Mentioned in This Episode Hello Divorce

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Free Resource: The Post-Separation Abuse Self-Assessment and Pattern Recognition Checklist

If you or someone you know is navigating life after leaving an abusive relationship, Susan has created a resource to help you start making sense of what you have been experiencing.

The Post-Separation Abuse Self-Assessment and Pattern Recognition Checklist is designed for survivors who are trying to identify patterns of coercive control and post-separation abuse, something that is honestly hard to see clearly when you are in the middle of it.

Download the free Divorce Clarity Starter Guide here or on the website at:

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About the Guest

Anne Wintemute is the Co-Founder and CEO of Aimee Says, the Al assistant for victims and survivors of relationship abuse. She is a fierce champion for the rights of survivors and children, and systems that hold perpetrators accountable.

Prior to working with survivors, Anne founded and directed an elementary school that became a model for micro schools across the United States. In her spare time, she enjoys urban homesteading with her family in Denver,

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It Is Not the Divorce That Breaks People. It Is the Years Leading Up to It with Erin Levine, Founder of Hello Divorce on Divorce & Beyond #414

Mon, 23 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0500

When most people think about divorce, they picture the legal process. They imagine paperwork, lawyers, and courtrooms. But the reality is that divorce often begins long before any legal step is taken.

In this episode, Susan Guthrie sits down with Erin Levine, founder of Hello Divorce, to talk about the stage of divorce that almost no one talks about: the years of uncertainty before a decision is ever made.

For many people, the hardest part of divorce is not the legal process itself. It is the emotional limbo that happens beforehand. The sleepless nights. The constant questioning. The fear about what life might look like on the other side.

Susan and Erin explore why so many people spend years wrestling with the decision to leave a marriage, what happens emotionally during that time, and how having the right information and support can dramatically change the experience.

If you are currently wondering whether to stay or go, this episode will help you understand that what you are feeling is incredibly common and that there are ways to move forward with more clarity and less fear.

What You Will Learn

• Why many people contemplate divorce for three to five years before taking action

• Why the emotional uncertainty before divorce can be the most exhausting stage

• How lack of information often keeps people stuck in limbo

• Why most divorces do not need to become courtroom battles

• How mediation and other structured processes can help families move through divorce more constructively

• Why preparation and clarity can dramatically change divorce outcomes

Key Takeaways from This Conversation The Hidden Stage of Divorce

Divorce often begins years before anyone files paperwork. Many people spend long periods quietly struggling with whether their marriage can be saved or whether it is time to move on.

Living in Uncertainty Is Emotionally Draining

The constant question of whether to stay or leave can take an enormous emotional toll. By the time someone actually moves forward with divorce, they may already feel mentally and emotionally exhausted.

Information Creates Clarity

Fear thrives in uncertainty. When people begin learning about their options and understanding the divorce process, they are able to make decisions from a place of knowledge rather than panic.

Divorce Does Not Have to Be a War

Many couples are able to resolve their divorce through mediation or negotiated agreements outside of court. Understanding these options can significantly reduce conflict and stress.

Golden Nuggets from This Episode

• Divorce itself is often not what breaks people. It is the years of uncertainty leading up to the decision.

• Many people live in emotional limbo for years before they ever speak to a professional about divorce.

• When people have access to information and structured support, they are far more likely to resolve their divorce outside of court.

• Preparation and clarity allow people to approach divorce more thoughtfully and with less fear.

• Divorce does not have to be a battle. With the right guidance, it can be a transition toward a healthier future.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode Hello Divorce

Explore resources created specifically for Divorce & Beyond listeners:

HelloDivorce.com/Susan

Free Resource: Divorce Clarity Starter Guide

If you are currently in the stage of wondering whether divorce might be the right path, Susan has created a resource to help you begin thinking through the process with greater clarity.

The Divorce Clarity Starter Guide is designed for people who are in the early stages of considering divorce and want to better understand their options before making major decisions.

Inside the guide you will find:

• Questions to help you clarify what is really happening in your relationship

• Practical steps to take before making legal decisions

• Insight into different divorce paths, including mediation

• Guidance to help you approach this transition thoughtfully rather than reactively

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About the Guest

Erin’s innovative, disruptive approach to how Americans interact with the law make her both a loved and feared force in the legal world. With her groundbreaking divorce navigator platform, she’s revolutionizing the broken divorce process, making it affordable and available to everyone. Erin’s access to justice work has been recognized by the legal industry and beyond, with awards and recognition from the likes of Women Founders Network, Forbes, Entrepreneur, and the American Bar Association. And though she’s been a sought-after family law attorney for more than 16 years, she vows to never practice law again.

Website: https://hellodivorce.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hellodivorce/

Erin's past episodes on Divorce & Beyond:

Divorce Reimagined: How Hello Divorce Has Disrupted the Divorce Industry for the Better with Founder and CEO Erin Levine

The FYI on DIY Divorce from the Founder and CEO of Hello Divorce, Erin Levine

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Gray Divorce and Adult Children: The Hidden Impact No One Talks About with Carol Hughes on Divorce & Beyond #413

Mon, 16 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0500

When people talk about gray divorce, the conversation usually focuses on the couple: finances, retirement, and starting over later in life. But there is another group deeply affected by these late in life separations that often goes overlooked: adult children.

The divorce rate for couples over 50 has more than doubled in recent decades, and as more long term marriages end later in life, families are navigating a transition many never expected. Even when children are fully grown, the divorce of their parents can reshape family dynamics, create loyalty conflicts, and disrupt long standing family roles.

In this episode of the Divorce & Beyond Podcast, Susan Guthrie welcomes back Carol Hughes, co author of the groundbreaking book Home Will Never Be the Same Again. Carol first joined the podcast in 2021 with co author Bruce Fredenburg to discuss their research on adult children of gray divorce. She returns to share updated insights from both research and real world experiences about how adult children are affected when their parents divorce later in life.

Together, Susan and Carol explore why gray divorce can be more emotionally disruptive for adult children than many parents realize, the common mistakes parents unintentionally make during this transition, and the powerful ways families can protect relationships even as the family structure changes.

This is an essential conversation for anyone navigating divorce after 50, adult children trying to understand their parents’ separation, or professionals working with families where gray divorce is reshaping the entire family system.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• Why gray divorce affects the entire family, not just the couple
• How loyalty conflicts can place adult children in painful and inappropriate roles
• Why feeling unheard is one of the leading causes of estrangement between parents and adult children after divorce
• How empathy, healthy boundaries, and thoughtful communication can help protect family relationships

Additional Resources

If you want to explore this topic further, be sure to read the companion blog article for this episode on the Divorce & Beyond website.

You can also download Susan’s practical guide:

How to Tell Your Adult Children You Are Getting Divorced: A Conversation Planning Guide

This supportive resource helps parents prepare for one of the most difficult conversations families face during gray divorce, with insights on what adult children often experience, what to say, what to avoid, and how to approach the conversation with empathy and care.

Visit the blog page for this episode at DivorceAndBeyondPod.com to read the article and download the guide.

About the Guest

Carol Hughes holds her doctorate in Clinical Psychology, achieving both summa cum laude and Phi Beta Kappa honors. She is also a two-time Fulbright Scholar. In 2003, Carol was a co-founder of Collaborative Divorce Solutions of Orange County, an interdisciplinary practice group of divorce professionals dedicated to respectful, peaceful divorce solutions for families. In her practice in Laguna Hills, CA, as a California licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and family-focused divorce professional, for more than thirty years, she has assisted hundreds of divorcing families as a therapist, child and co-parenting specialist, divorce coach, and mediator.

Connect with Carol Hughes

Website: http://divorcepeacemaking.com

Book: Home Will Never Be the Same Again: A Guide for Adult Children of Gray Divorce https://amzn.to/4blt1jx

Carol’s Workbook for Parents Going Through Gray Divorce:

https://divorcepeacemaking.com/register-for-a-free-gift/

Episodes Mentioned:

Gray Divorce: What It Takes. What It Gives Back. With Maryjane Sweet

Special Episode Resource: Gray Divorce and the Impact on Adult Children

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From Stuck to Unstuck: Healing the Long Shadow of Betrayal and Infidelity with Dr. Debi Silber on Divorce & Beyond #412

Mon, 09 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0500

Time is supposed to heal everything. But for the millions of people navigating divorce after betrayal, that promise falls flat. They're functioning, managing the kids, showing up to work, doing all the things, and still carrying the weight of something that happened years, sometimes decades, ago. Fine, it turns out, is not the same as healed.

In this powerful episode, Susan Guthrie welcomes back Dr. Debi Silber, founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute and author of the new book Unstuck:The Practitioner's Guide to Moving Betrayal Clients from Survival to Transformation. Together, they unpack why so many people who have experienced betrayal, whether infidelity, financial deception, or the shattering of expectations that comes with divorce itself, get trapped in a cycle that looks like survival but feels like anything but living. Dr. Debi's research, drawn from over 100,000 people tested, reveals that healing from betrayal is not just possible. It is predictable.

This conversation is for anyone who has ever asked, "Why am I still not over this?" Whether you are in the middle of a divorce, just discovering a betrayal, or years out and still feeling its grip, the lessons in this episode apply. It is also essential listening for the legal professionals, coaches, therapists, and mediators who want to understand what is truly going on beneath the surface.

What You’ll Learn

Betrayal in divorce is not just about infidelity. It is a collapse of trust on every level
How Post Betrayal Syndrome keeps people physically, mentally, and emotionally stuck long after the relationship has ended
The five proven, predictable stages of betrayal recovery and why most people unknowingly park in Stage Three
Why self-trust is the real wound of betrayal and how rebuilding it through boundaries, intuition, and small kept promises is where healing actually begins
How the Window of Willingness reveals whether the person who betrayed you is genuinely doing the work, and what that means for your path forward
Why transformation does not begin until Stage Four and how Dr. Debi's new book Unstuck gives practitioners a roadmap for guiding betrayal clients all the way through, not just to fine

About the Guest

Dr. Debi Silber, Founder and CEO of The PBT (Post Betrayal Transformation) Institute and National Forgiveness Day, is an award-winning speaker and 2-time #1 International bestselling author. Her podcast, From Betrayal to Breakthrough, ranks in the top 1.5% globally. Her groundbreaking PhD study revealed 3 discoveries that completely revolutionized our understanding of betrayal-and how to achieve full healing physically, mentally, and emotionally. Creator of the world's #1 betrayal recovery certification for life, business, health, and leadership coaches, Dr. Debi equips practitioners globally with her evidence-based framework so they can deliver exponentially better results with their existing clients. Featured on FOX, CBS, The Dr. Oz Show, and TEDx (twice), she equips practitioners with the missing framework-helping them move from uncertainty to confidence, from using general tools that keep clients stuck to specialized approaches that create genuine transformation.

Connect with Dr. Debi Silber

Website: http://thepbtinstitute.com

Book: Unstuck: The Practitioner's Guide to Moving Betrayal Clients from Survival to Transformation

Special Episode Resource: Rebuilding Self-Trust After Betrayal, A Guided Workbook

If this episode resonated and you are ready to start moving from stuck to unstuck, download Susan's free guided workbook, Rebuilding Self-Trust After Betrayal. It walks you step by step through where self-trust was shaken, how to reset your boundaries, and how to begin the deliberate work of healing.

Download the guide here: https://6091f38a-6f36-42ef-8f98-d1cf174bdc28.lovableproject.com/episode/b2a06e0a-b3e1-42f6-b9b8-2f1889c9577c#resource

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Divorcing Under the Same Roof: How to Survive Living Together After It’s Over with Jenny Stevens on Divorce & Beyond #411

Mon, 02 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0600

Divorce does not always change living arrangements overnight. Many couples file for divorce, expect everything to shift, and then walk back into the same home… with the same routines… and often even more tension than before. Living under the same roof after deciding a marriage is over can quickly become emotionally volatile if it is not handled intentionally.

That is why Susan Guthrie welcomes back divorce and co-parenting coach Jenny Stevens. Together, they break down what it really takes to live under the same roof while divorcing, including how to create boundaries, communicate without escalating, and protect your emotional stability during a phase that can feel like navigating a daily minefield.

This conversation explores the practical realities of cohabiting during divorce and why structure, communication, and intentional boundaries are essential to getting through this transitional period without creating additional conflict or long-term damage.

What You’ll Learn

Living together during divorce becomes more manageable when you accept it as a practical reality and approach it with intentional planning, clear communication, and emotional awareness.
Structure protects stability by creating clear boundaries, defined household expectations, and consistent communication that reduces conflict.
Shifting mentally from partners to roommates helps lower emotional intensity and makes daily interactions more functional and less reactive.
Small triggers are less likely to escalate when boundaries are clear and communication stays respectful and intentional.
Viewing this phase as temporary helps you stay focused on moving through it with stability and clarity instead of creating unnecessary long term damage.

About the Guest

Jenny Stevens is a divorce and life transition coach known as The Champion of Change. Based in Chicago and working with clients nationwide, she helps individuals navigate divorce, co-parenting, and major life transitions with clarity and confidence.

With a Master’s in Professional Counseling, advanced training in conflict management and communication, and mediation training from Northwestern University, Jenny brings both clinical insight and real-world strategy to her work. She specializes in helping clients establish healthy boundaries, improve communication, and move through change in a way that protects their well-being and their children.

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Connect with Jenny Stevens

Website: http://www.jennystevenscoach.com

Other Episodes Mentioned:

What a Tsunami of Hard Times Taught Jenny Stevens About Surfing Life’s Changes
Co-Parenting Under One Roof: 6 Tips to Make it Work - Part One - from Parenting Expert, Christina McGhee
Co-Parenting Under One Roof: 6 Tips to Make it Work - Part Two - from Parenting Expert, Christina McGhee

Special Episode Resource: The Under One Roof Divorce Survival Guide

If you are navigating divorce while still living under the same roof, you do not have to figure this out alone. Access the companion blog and downloadable guide specifically for this phase called The Under One Roof Divorce Survival Guide.

Inside, you’ll find the seven ground rules we discussed in this episode, along with practical worksheets you can use immediately to clarify boundaries, reset expectations, and reduce unnecessary conflict in your home.

This guide will help you create structure, protect your peace, and move through this chapter with intention.

Read the blog and download the guide here.

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Codependency & Divorce: The Fear, The Anger, and The Way Out of One-Sided Relationships with Michelle Farris on Divorce & Beyond #410

Mon, 23 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0600

Susan Guthrie welcomes special guest Michelle Farris for a powerful conversation about codependency, the hidden dynamic beneath many struggling relationships. Michelle is a licensed psychotherapist, codependency expert, and anger management specialist. Together, they explore what codependency really is, why it often begins in childhood, and how it can quietly shape both a marriage and the way a divorce unfolds.

Susan and Michelle unpack the patterns of overgiving, overfunctioning, and self-sacrifice that leave so many people depleted and resentful, often without fully understanding why. They also explore why anger can erupt during divorce, how long-standing relationship patterns repeat when left unexamined, and what it takes to begin building boundaries and self-trust moving forward.

This conversation is especially meaningful for anyone who feels stuck in one-sided relationships, struggles to say no, or wonders why they keep giving more than they receive. It offers an honest, practical look at how recognizing codependency can change not only your divorce, but everything that comes after it.

What You’ll Learn

Codependency is not about kindness. It is a pattern of overfunctioning to feel secure, often leaving you exhausted and resentful
Why anger during divorce is often stored pain from years of saying yes when you meant no, and how to channel it constructively
The difference between being nice and being clear, and why self-advocacy is essential for a healthy divorce process
How overgiving, avoiding conflict, or agreeing too quickly can cost you emotionally and financially during divorce
Why identifying your boundaries, triggers, and non-negotiables is key to approaching divorce from a grounded and empowered place

About the Guest

Michelle Farris is a psychotherapist, codependency expert, and anger management specialist with a passion for helping people break free from codependent patterns and manage emotions with confidence. She's been featured in several online publications and podcasts, known for her down-to-earth approach and expertise. Through her online courses and digital resources, she teaches practical tools for codependency recovery, emotional regulation, self-trust, and lasting relationship success.

Connect with Michelle Farris

Website: https://counselingrecovery.com
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MichelleFarrismft

Grab Michelle’s Free Resource: 7 Steps to Healing One-sided Relationships https://counselingrecovery.lpages.co/codependent-relationship-freebie/

Special Episode Resource: The Codependent Divorce Mistakes That Cost You Thousands + Divorce Boundaries Planning Worksheet

If this conversation is resonating with you, Susan has created a companion blog and downloadable resource, The Codependent Divorce Mistakes That Cost You Thousands.

It includes a Divorce Boundaries Planning Worksheet to help you define your limits, recognize your emotional triggers, and approach your divorce from a more grounded and confident place.

Read the blog post and download the worksheet here.

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Before You Call a Divorce Attorney: Financial Preparation with Karen Chellew & Catherine Shanahan on Divorce & Beyond #409

Mon, 16 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0600

Divorce season is in full swing, and for many listeners, that means overwhelm, fear, and financial uncertainty. Susan Guthrie welcomes back two of her favorite returning experts, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan of My Divorce Solution, to talk about what truly matters in the earliest days of divorce: financial clarity before legal action.

Divorce may be a legal process, but in the beginning, it feels emotional and financial. Fear can drive rushed decisions. Anger can fuel unnecessary conflict. And too often, people hire attorneys before they understand what they actually own, owe, or need. Karen and Catherine specialize in helping individuals slow down, gather the facts, and understand what is truly in the marital “pie” before anyone starts slicing it up.

Through their structured preparation platform and signature MDS Financial Portrait™, they help people turn panic into power and confusion into confidence. This conversation is about avoiding early mistakes, preventing unnecessary legal costs, and building a foundation that supports smart, informed decisions from day one.

What You’ll Learn

Why divorce should often begin with financial clarity, not immediate legal action
How emotional agreements like “you keep the house, I’ll keep my retirement” can create long-term financial damage
What really happens when couples rely on spreadsheets without full documentation
The difference between financial literacy and financial empowerment during divorce
How understanding the financial impact of decisions allows you to pivot confidently during negotiations
Why assembling the right professional team depends on first understanding the complexity of your financial picture

Episode Blog Article: What Is the #1 Financial Mistake Before Filing for Divorce?

Free Episode Resource: Before You File: Divorce Financial Readiness Checklist

About the Guests

Catherine Shanahan, CDFA
After 25 years in the financial industry, having raised five children and endured her own experience with divorce, Catherine became a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA), trained Mediator and Daily Money Manager(PDMM). Catherine is collaboratively trained and was a member of the Bucks County Collaborative Law Group. She is a member of the American Association of Daily Money Managers (AADMM) the Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts, and the Association of Divorce Financial Planners (ADFP). Catherine is fully dedicated to helping clients understand and navigate all aspects of divorce including planning a secure financial future post-divorce.

Karen Chellew, Legal Liaison
For over 30 years, Karen has worked in the legal field as a paralegal and business manager. During her career, she served as an affiliated member of the Pennsylvania Bar Association and President Elect of the ALA (Association of Legal Administrators). Karen now serves clients and the professional team in her role as legal liaison. She is also a certified QDRO Administrator, Founder and President of Sisters U Foundation, and an Auditor of East Rockhill Township. As the mom of three children and one granddaughter, Karen is extremely passionate about helping women in all that she does.

My Divorce Solution
Through their professional and personal experiences, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan have created a unique and comprehensive process that greets divorce in a whole new way – a way that empowers those who experience this major life transition. Our mission is simple: to help people move through the divorce process with financial clarity and confidence so they can make the rest of their lives the best of their lives.

The MDS Financial Portrait™ is a compilation of data and financial records utilizing the family’s key and supporting documentation. The MDS Financial Portrait provides a clear neutral snapshot of the family’s marital and non-marital estate for purposes of determining alimony, child support, and the division of assets and liabilities. This comprehensive Portrait can then be used by divorce professionals as verification of marital/non-marital assets, and the blueprint when considering various scenarios, alternatives and the resulting implications of any financial decisions.

Our services, specialties and certifications help individuals and couples develop a transparent and comprehensive financial plan that will optimize the outcome of their divorce. We meet with couples in our virtual office so we can assist you no matter where you live!

Connect with Karen and Catherine of My Divorce Solution

Website: http://mydivorcesolution.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mydivorcesolution

Podcast: https://mydivorcesolution.com/we-chat-divorce-podcast/

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Dating Again in Midlife: Bela Gandhi Takes You From Fear to Confidence on Divorce & Beyond #408

Mon, 09 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0600

Dating again in midlife can stir up a mix of curiosity, hope, and very real hesitation. After divorce, it’s not just about meeting someone new, it’s about trusting your instincts and believing that love can feel different this time. Susan Guthrie welcomes back one of Divorce & Beyond’s most trusted and favorite guests, Bela Gandhi, for an honest, encouraging conversation about what it truly takes to move from fear to confidence when dating again in midlife.

Known as America’s go-to dating coach and beloved by the Divorce & Beyond community, Bela brings warmth, optimism, and refreshingly practical wisdom to a chapter that often feels overwhelming. Together, Susan and Bela unpack why midlife dating can actually be better than ever, how to stop repeating old patterns that no longer serve you, and what smart, intentional dating looks like when you’re choosing differently and more consciously this time around.

What You’ll Learn

Why fear around dating after divorce is normal
How those “rollercoaster butterflies” are usually a sign of anxiety, not chemistry, and how to recognize calm as a healthier sign of compatibility
How dating today offers more options, visibility, and agency than ever before, especially for midlife daters
Why confidence in dating comes from having a clear plan, not luck, timing, or instant sparks
How slowing down and allowing connection to develop over time leads to better long-term outcomes

About the Guest

Bela Gandhi is a dating/relationship expert, TEDx speaker, founder of Smart Dating AcademyÒ and has been featured on most national/local media outlets including Good Morning America, Steve Harvey, the Today Show, Kelly Clarkson, Access, ABC, NBC, Fox, and more.

Bela realized her gift for love when she was in college and started matchmaking and coaching her friends – watching them sail on to relationship bliss and marriage. Using her own system, Bela found her own amazing husband of over 20 years, and in 2009, founded Smart Dating AcademyÒ. Smart Dating Academy teaches singles all over the globe the Smart DatingÒ four phase system – 1) Preparing to Date, 2) Dating, 3) Exclusivity and 4) Happily Ever After. They specialize in VIP 1:1 coaching, and with clients that have followed their system, they’ve had ‘zero divorces.’ They help singles to ‘fix their pickers’ because their coaches are deep in the weeds with clients, helping read profiles, message, and rate each date after it happens – she makes dating fun, easy and successful!

Before starting Smart Dating Academy, Bela earned dual degrees in Finance and German from the University of Illinois in Urbana/Champaign. Bela worked in mergers and acquisitions for Arthur Andersen in Chicago for a year before joining her family's chemicals manufacturing company (called CCC), where she divided her time between Chicago and Europe helping to expand the business. When they sold the business to Fortune 500 company Akzo Nobel, she was asked to remain its leader and became Akzo Nobel Non-Stick Coating’s Global Vice President of Housewares. While climbing the corporate ladder, she realized it was time to unveil her system to the world, and it was her best decision ever.

Bela lives in Lincoln Park with her husband Andy and 2 children, Jaden and Max, and is going to be an empty nester next year!

Connect with Bela Gandhi

Website: http://smartdatingacademy.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/smartdatingacademy

Podcast: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/podcast

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Gray Divorce: What It Takes. What It Gives Back. With Maryjane Sweet on Divorce & Beyond #407

Mon, 02 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0600

Gray divorce is one of the fastest-growing divorce trends, yet it remains one of the least talked-about experiences. It is not just the end of a marriage. It is the unraveling of decades of shared life, identity, routines, and expectations.

In this episode, Susan Guthrie is joined by gray divorce coach Maryjane Sweet, whom she first met when they were both featured on the Oprah Podcast in a powerful conversation about gray divorce. Maryjane appeared alongside her adult daughter, and their story stood out for its honesty, depth, and the grace with which Maryjane navigated this life-altering transition.

Together, Susan and Maryjane explore what it truly takes to move through gray divorce with intention, emotional awareness, and integrity. They discuss why gray divorce can feel especially destabilizing, particularly when it arrives unexpectedly, and how the losses extend far beyond the marriage itself. The conversation dives into grief, identity shifts, nervous system overwhelm, and the invisible emotional labor women carry as they work to hold themselves and their families together during profound change.

This is not a conversation about quick fixes. It is about honoring loss, building emotional safety, and discovering what gray divorce can give back on the other side.

What You’ll Learn

Why gray divorce is not just a legal ending, but a profound emotional and identity shift after decades of shared life
Why rituals around loss, such as leaving a family home or removing wedding rings, help create closure and support healing
How daily anchors like sleep, nourishment, movement, and connection are essential tools during divorce
Why adult children are deeply impacted by gray divorce and how parents can model integrity, resilience, and self-compassion
How focusing on how you want to feel can help guide decisions when the future feels like a black hole
Why coaching support can be critical during gray divorce and how it helps women move forward without getting stuck in the past

About the Guest

Maryjane is a gray divorce coach and consultant. She combines the lived experience of ending a 26-year marriage with deep professional training to help women navigate the emotional and practical complexities of gray divorce. She holds a master's in Organizational Behavior and is an !CF-certified PCC coach with over 1,500 client hours worldwide. She's trained in mindfulness and meditation through Duke University, is a certified trauma-informed yoga instructor, and has taught university courses on well-being and neuroscience-based stress regulation. With more than twenty years in leadership development and human transformation, she offers women a grounded, evidence-based pathway through midlife divorce - one that honors both the unraveling and the rising.

Connect with Maryjane Sweet

Website: http://maryjanesweet.com

Instagram: @thegreydivorcecoach

Blog Article + Free Downloadable Resource

📝 Rituals for Grief in Gray Divorce: Why Closure Matters

In this companion article, Susan explores why gray divorce requires more than legal resolution. It requires emotional closure. Drawing from this conversation, she explains how intentional rituals, such as marking the end of a marriage, leaving a longtime home, or acknowledging decades of shared life, can help the nervous system process loss and support healing during profound transition.

You’ll also find a simple, downloadable resource designed to help you reflect on what closure might look like for you.

Read here: https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/blog

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It Was Never Just the Dishes: Mental Load, Gender Power, and the Truth About Modern Marriage with Kate Anthony on Divorce & Beyond #406

Mon, 26 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0600

It was never about the dishes…
It’s about mental load, invisible labor, and power inside modern marriage.

To dig into why so many women feel this strain inside their marriages, Susan Guthrie is joined by Kate Anthony, a globally recognized divorce coach, feminist thought leader, and the author of The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage. Kate is also the creator and host of the top-ranked Divorce Survival Guide Podcast.

Together, Susan and Kate talk candidly about how deeply ingrained expectations still shape modern relationships, often in ways people don’t recognize until the damage is done. They explore why patriarchy harms women while also isolating men, what real partnership actually looks like in practice, and how patterns like deflection, denial, and quietly erode trust over time. The conversation also addresses the very real impact these dynamics have on women’s emotional and physical safety, and why naming them clearly can be a powerful first step toward change.

What You’ll Learn

How mental load becomes a proxy for deeper issues of power, responsibility, and respect
How patriarchy shapes modern marriage in ways that harm women while also isolating men and fueling resentment
What real partnership looks like in practice and why occasional help is not the same as shared ownership
What it often means when one partner says they were “blindsided” by divorce and how invisible labor plays a role
Why naming these dynamics clearly can be a critical first step toward safety, clarity, and meaningful change

About the Guest

Kate Anthony is a feminist thought leader, divorce coach, and author of The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage. As the host of The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast (3.5M+ downloads; globally ranked in the top 0.5%), Kate brings fierce clarity and grounded compassion to conversations about coercive control, codependency, and the complex dynamics that shape women’s relationships and choices.

For well over a decade, Kate has guided women through the emotional and practical challenges of deciding whether to stay or leave their marriages, helping them rebuild self-trust, navigate high-conflict partners, and dismantle patriarchal conditioning. Her work blends feminist analysis, relational insight, and practical communication tools that empower women to make safe, self-led decisions.

Kate is also developing a groundbreaking project exploring true crime as women’s survival literature, illuminating the coercive control patterns and systemic failures embedded in headline cases.

Connect with Kate Anthony

Website: http://kateanthony.com

Instagram: @kateanthony_divorcecoach

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Not Every Marriage Is Meant to Be Saved: Dr. Jenn Mann on Knowing When to Let Go on Divorce & Beyond #405

Mon, 19 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0600

For many people quietly navigating divorce season, one question lingers beneath the surface:

Is this just a rough season, or is this relationship truly over?

In this powerful and deeply honest episode of Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie sits down with renowned psychotherapist Dr. Jenn Mann to explore how to tell the difference, and why clarity, not guilt, is often the most caring path forward.

Inspired by Dr. Jenn’s widely shared insight, “Not every relationship is meant to be saved,” this conversation goes far beyond the familiar stay-or-leave debate. Together, Susan and Dr. Jenn examine how therapy can sometimes help repair a marriage and other times provide the clarity needed to trust yourself enough to let go.

They discuss the emotional cost of staying too long, the deal breakers people often rationalize away, and why ending a marriage can be an act of courage and strength rather than failure.

This is a compassionate, nuanced conversation for anyone questioning what comes next.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

How to tell the difference between a rough season and a relationship that has truly run its course
Why therapy is not always about fixing the marriage, but often about gaining clarity
The deal breakers people ignore for years, including emotional unavailability and refusal to seek help
Why “staying for the kids” is far more complex than it sounds and what children actually absorb
How leaving a marriage can build confidence, resilience, and deeper self-trust

About the Guest

Dr. Jenn Mann is one of the most widely recognized psychotherapists in the country, with nearly three decades of clinical experience as a licensed Marriage, Family, and Child Therapist (LMFT).

She is best known as the longtime host and therapist on VH1’s hit series Couples Therapy with Dr. Jenn and Family Therapy with Dr. Jenn, and has appeared as a trusted expert on hundreds of television programs, including The Today Show, Dr. Oz, The Wendy Williams Show, The Doctors, Steve Harvey, Entertainment Tonight, Access Hollywood, and Jimmy Kimmel Live.

Dr. Jenn is the author of multiple bestselling books, including The Relationship Fix, SuperBaby, and The A to Z Guide to Raising Happy Confident Kids, which have collectively spent weeks on national bestseller lists. She is also the co-author of the children’s book Rockin’ Babies, written with her mother, Grammy-award-winning songwriter Cynthia Weil.

In addition to her television and publishing work, Dr. Jenn hosted The Dr. Jenn Show on SiriusXM for five years and has contributed award-winning writing to national parenting and family publications.

She lives in Beverly Hills, California, with her partner and twin daughters.

🔗 Dr. Jenn Mann’s Book:
The Relationship Fix
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📲 Connect with Dr. Jenn Mann:
Instagram: @drjennmann

Website: https://doctorjenn.com/

Blog Article + Free Downloadable Resource

📝 Staying for the Kids? What Children Actually Absorb From Unhappy Marriages

This companion article explores why children are deeply sensitive to emotional environments and how thoughtful decisions, whether staying or leaving, shape their long-term wellbeing.

Read here: https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/blog

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Susan E. Guthrie®, Esq. is one of the nation’s leading family law and mediation experts, with more than 35 years of experience helping individuals and families navigate divorce with clarity and compassion.

She is the Immediate Past Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution, a bestselling author, and a sought-after speaker, trainer, and practice-building consultant. Susan recently appeared as a featured expert on The Oprah Podcast, sharing insights on gray divorce and the changing landscape of relationships.

Her work has been featured in The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, The Washington Post, NewsNation, and NBC’s Chicago Today.

As the creator and host of the award-winning Divorce & Beyond® Podcast, ranked in the top 1% of podcasts worldwide with millions of downloads, Susan brings together trusted experts and powerful lived experiences to help listeners move through divorce and beyond with confidence and hope.

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You Signed the Agreement. So Why Aren’t You Getting Paid? Critical Insights from Expert, Kelly Lise Murray on Divorce & Beyond #404

Mon, 12 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0600

You signed the divorce agreement. You thought it was over.

But for many people, the real problems begin after the ink dries, when they discover that what they negotiated is not actually enforceable.

In this essential episode of Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie is joined by Kelly Lise Murray, a nationally recognized legal scholar whose work focuses on what happens when divorce settlements fall apart in real life, particularly in cases involving homes, mortgages, retirement assets, and complex property divisions.

This conversation is especially important during divorce season, when many listeners are early in the process and assuming that reaching agreement automatically means protection. It does not.

What You’ll Learn

Why a signed divorce agreement does not guarantee you will receive what you were promised
How enforcement failures leave people owed money or assets they never receive
Why homes and retirement accounts are the highest-risk areas in divorce settlements
How missing deadlines and contingencies quietly undermine agreements
The questions you should ask your lawyer before signing anything

About the Guest

Prof. Kelly Murray, J.D. is a legal scholar, former law professor, and serial entrepreneur advancing Realty Asset Dispute Resolution nationwide.

She earned her undergraduate degree Phi Beta Kappa from Stanford University and her law degree cum laude from Harvard Law School, and served for 18 years as faculty at a Top 20 U.S. law school.

Kelly is the Lead Investigator and Faculty Member for the National Family Court Project on Housing and Financial Justice, where her work focuses on preserving homeownership eligibility and financial stability in family disputes, including divorce, trusts, elder law, and probate matters.

Her expertise is grounded in real litigated cases involving enforcement failures, not theory. She is also the host of the Wealth Litigated Podcast.

Blog Article + Free Resource

To help you go deeper, Susan has written a companion blog article for this episode:

📝 Blog Article:
The Most Dangerous Words in Divorce: “We’ll Handle That Later”
This article explains why enforcement issues are so often overlooked and how seemingly reasonable agreements fail when enforcement is not planned from the start.

📄 Free Resource from Kelly Lise Murray:
Kelly has created a free enforcement resource to help consumers understand what to ask and what to watch for when negotiating divorce agreements. Get the resource here: Beyond.DivorceThisHouse.com

🔗 Enforce the Divorce:
https://EnforceTheDivorce.com

👉 You’ll find links to both the blog article and the free resource in the show notes and on the latest episode page at divorceandbeyondpod.com/latest-episode.

Additional Resources Mentioned

Divorce Real Estate & Mortgage Specialists (RCS-D Directory):
https://divorcethishouse.com/member-directory-rcs-ds-divorce-real-estate-specialists/

Continuing Education for Lawyers & Financial Professionals:
https://vettingthehouse.com/

Connect with Kelly Lise Murray

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellylisemurray/
Instagram: @kellylisemurray

Final Thought

If you cannot enforce the agreement you signed, you may not receive what you negotiated.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating divorce, mediation, or settlement discussions.

🎧 Listen now, and review the blog article and free resource before you sign anything.

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Divorce Day 2026: The Five Things You Need to Know on Day One with Susan Guthrie on Divorce & Beyond #403

Mon, 05 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0600

It is Divorce Day. January 5, 2026. And if you are listening on the day this episode drops, divorce is everywhere. It is on the news, across social media, whispered in conversations, and quietly sitting in the background for many people as the holidays come to an end.

Here is a simple truth: Divorce Day creates more noise than clarity. This episode is designed to help you slow down, get oriented, and understand what actually matters on Day One.

In fact, after more than three decades as a divorce attorney and mediator, Susan Guthrie knows this truth better than anyone: Advice is loud. Opinions are everywhere. Much of what circulates today is designed to provoke urgency, fear, or dramatic action.

The biggest mistake people make on Divorce Day is believing this day requires action. It does not. What it requires is understanding.

In this grounded, compassionate solo episode, Susan walks listeners through the five things you need to know on Day One, sharing the foundational truths that separate people who navigate divorce intentionally from those who spend years undoing a rushed beginning.

If divorce is on your mind today, this episode offers clarity, steadiness, and permission to pause.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU WILL LEARN:

Why Divorce Day is about readiness, not action, and how confusing the two leads to regret rather than relief.
Why information must come before strategy, and how accurate, jurisdiction-specific knowledge calms fear and prevents avoidable mistakes.
How the way divorce begins shapes everything that follows, including tone, communication, and long-term outcomes.
Why divorce is not one decision but a series of decisions, and how choosing how you decide matters more than deciding everything at once.
Why your divorce team matters more than you think, and how choosing the wrong professionals early can cost years of stress and unnecessary expense.

MORE SUPPORT:

If today’s episode resonated with you, Susan has also written a companion blog article titled Before You Say Anything: The Conversations That Can Make or Break Your Divorce, which explores why the earliest conversations often shape the entire divorce process. We have paired it with a free downloadable guide, Before You Say Anything: A Divorce Conversation Prep Guide, designed to help you slow down, choose your words intentionally, and protect your options before anything is filed. You can find them on the website at https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/Blog

MENTIONED EPISODES:

The Divorce & Beyond episode archive is designed to support you at the very beginning of this process, when questions feel overwhelming and clarity feels out of reach and as you move through your divorce journey.

Inside the archive, you will find conversations like:

You can search the full Divorce & Beyond archive by topic at divorceandbeyondpod.com and start with the episodes that speak most directly to where you are right now.

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Divorce Season Is Coming: What You Need to Know Before You Make a Big Decision with Susan Guthrie on Divorce & Beyond #402

Mon, 29 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0600

It is the quiet week between Christmas and New Year’s. The guests have gone home, the adrenaline has worn off, and you are likely left with a heavy realization: The holidays didn’t fix it.

If you are currently Googling "how to get a divorce" or secretly looking up attorneys while your spouse is in the other room, you are not alone. Next Monday, January 5th, is known in the legal industry as "Divorce Day," where inquiries skyrocket by 25%.

But before you make a call that you cannot unmake, Susan Guthrie has a message for you: Stop. Just breathe.

In this urgent and deeply practical solo episode, Susan reveals why the "smartest people" wait until March to file, and exactly what they do in January instead. Drawing on 35 years of practice, she breaks down the "Broken Promise" theory, the danger of the "New Year's Resolution Bomb," and why urgency is the enemy of a good divorce.

If you are feeling the pressure to act, this episode is your permission slip to pause, plan, and protect your future before you ever step foot in a courtroom.

IN THIS EPISODE, YOU WILL LEARN:

The "Broken Promise" Theory: Why the holidays amplify marital cracks rather than fixing them.
The January vs. March Strategy: Why amateurs rush to file in January, while strategists use the month for "vetting and verification".
The 3 Critical Questions: What you must ask yourself before you hire a professional (hint: do you know the "business reality" of your marriage?).
The "First Responder" Rule: Why your first call should almost never be to a lawyer—and who you should call instead.
The Financial Reality Check: The sobering statistic about the 41% drop in household income for women post-divorce and how to prevent it.
Mistakes to Avoid: Why hiring a "shark" out of fear is the fastest way to burn through $30,000+.

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NEW BLOG ARTICLE: "Why the Smartest People Wait Until March to File" Dive deeper into the strategy behind waiting and learn the specific steps to take right now to prepare for a better outcome. 👉 Read the Full Article Here

MENTIONED EPISODES:

"Divorce Triage" with Susan Guthrie: Learn more about selecting the right "First Responder" for your specific crisis. https://divorcebeyond.com/divorce-triage

"We Need to Talk" with Kate Anthony: The ultimate guide to having the "I want a divorce" conversation without blowing up your life. https://divorcebeyond.com/The-Talk

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Co-Parenting Will Never Be Easy. BeAligned Makes It Easier: Breaking the Conflict Cycle with Trina Nudson on Divorce & Beyond #401

Mon, 22 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0600

As Divorce & Beyond closes out 2025, Susan Guthrie welcomes back Trina Nudson for a powerful bookend conversation exploring BeAligned, a revolutionary AI-powered reflection platform designed to help parents regulate emotions, interrupt the cycle of conflict, and problem-solve with their children’s wellbeing at the center.

BeAligned is not another communication app, and it is not about getting co-parents to agree or behave perfectly. Instead, Trina explains how the platform meets parents where they are, supports emotional regulation in real time, and helps interrupt the conflict cycles that so often take over co-parenting relationships.

Susan and Trina also explore how even one parent can shift the entire family dynamic, why co-parenting is about awareness rather than perfection, and how using technology intentionally can make co-parenting easier during emotionally charged moments.

Why This Conversation Matters

Co-parenting is hard even in intact families. Add divorce, grief, fear, and conflict, and it can feel overwhelming. Many parents know what they should do but struggle to access those tools in the moment when emotions take over.

This conversation matters because BeAligned acknowledges the reality of human emotions and provides support in real time. It helps parents step out of fight, flight, freeze, or fawn, see the bigger picture, and create solutions that protect childhoods without relying on blame, shame, or court intervention.

You Will Learn:

Why it only takes one parent to shift the co-parenting dynamic
Why co-parenting is not about perfection, but about awareness and regulation
How BeAligned helps parents move from reaction to alignment and interrupt the cycle of conflict
How technology can support calmer communication without replacing attorneys, therapists, or coaches
Why focusing on children’s needs changes everything

Special Offer from Trina Nudson and BeAligned:

Trina is generously offering Divorce & Beyond listeners 90 days of free access to BeAligned using code BEYOND. No credit card required. You’ll get full access to the platform’s reflection tools and support resources, and an invitation to share feedback that helps improve and expand its impact.

Visit http://BeAligned.app to get started.

About the Guest:

Trina Nudson is a family law attorney, mediator, court-appointed guardian ad litem, child advocate, Certified Divorce Coach® (CDC®), Divorce Coaching Academy® graduate (DCA®), and Licensed Bachelor Social Worker with more than 25 years of experience in the trenches of high-conflict co-parenting and family systems.

She is the founder of The Layne Project, owner of My Child Advocate, PA, and the creator of the evidence-based BeH2O® co-parenting system and BeAligned™, an AI-powered reflection platform that helps parents move from reaction to alignment.

Across thousands of cases, Trina has worked alongside judges, attorneys, therapists, and schools to center children’s wellbeing while helping parents navigate some of the hardest seasons of their lives. Her mission is simple and non-negotiable: safeguarding childhoods by helping adults show up with clarity, steadiness, and purpose—especially when it’s hard.

Websites:

BeAligned: http://bealigned.app

BeH20: http://BeH2OCoparenting.com

Social Media:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/trina-nudson-19b169149/

Divorce and Beyond Appearances:

The Business of Co-Parenting: How Neuroscience and Mindset Coaching Are Transforming Conflict into Collaboration with Trina Nudson on Divorce & Beyond

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Emotional Overload: Why Divorce Hits So Hard and the Tools to Steady Yourself with Dr. Beth Karassik & Louise Zito, Esq on Divorce & Beyond #400

Mon, 15 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0600

Divorce can feel like you’re unravelling from the inside out, and today Dr. Beth Karassik and Louise Zito, Esq. join Susan E. Guthrie to explain why and how you can regain your emotional footing.

If you’re overwhelmed, scared, or emotionally flooded in the middle of divorce, there is a scientific reason for it and there are ways to steady yourself, even when everything around you feels chaotic. In this powerful conversation, Susan Guthrie is joined by clinical psychologist and neuropsychologist Dr. Beth Karassik and longtime mediator and collaborative professional Louise Zito, Esq. to break down what’s happening in your brain and body during divorce and share practical tools for restoring calm, clarity, and control.

Together, they help you understand why your reactions feel so big, why everyday decisions suddenly feel impossible, and what you can do right now to support your nervous system through one of the most destabilizing experiences of your life. Plus, for legal practitioners, discover how Beth and Louise’s work can help you re-align, re-center, and rein in the chaos of divorce work.

Why This Conversation Matters

When you’re navigating divorce without understanding what’s happening in your nervous system, it’s easy to blame yourself, question your decisions, or feel like you’re failing. But the truth is this: divorce places an extraordinary cognitive and emotional load on you.

When you know why you’re reacting the way you are and you have tools that actually help you communicate more effectively, you make better choices, and you’re able to protect your well-being through every stage of the process.

And for the professionals who support divorcing individuals, understanding these emotional dynamics (and tending to their own regulation) directly affects their ability to guide clients forward. A grounded professional creates a grounded process, leading to healthier outcomes for everyone involved.

This conversation supports both sides of the experience: the people living through divorce and the practitioners walking beside them.

You Will Learn:

Why divorce triggers fear, confusion, and emotional flooding
How stress impacts communication, decision-making, and co-parenting
Signs that your overwhelm is actually a trauma response
Practical grounding tools you can use today
Scripts for setting emotional boundaries during conflict
How to build a support system that keeps you steady
Why the emotional health of your divorce professional affects your experience
Insight into the Calma Collective Retreat supporting divorce professionals

Download the Calming Exercise Guide from this Episode:

Access the grounding tools discussed in this episode. These simple practices, including the three deep breaths and hands-on-heart reset, can help steady your mind and body during stressful moments. Keep it nearby for quick support whenever you need it.

Download your guide here: https://divorcebeyond.com/staying-grounded

About the Guests:

Dr. Beth Karassik is a clinical psychologist who, after many years as a Collaborative Divorce Coach and a Mediator, has partnered with Louise Zito, Esq. in Calma Collective, LLC, a company that provides transformational retreats and professional training.

Beth is a member of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals, President of Divorce Solutions of Connecticut, and a member of the Collaborative Divorce Team of CT. She is a member of the Professional Development Committee and a Board and Executive Committee member of the Connecticut Council for Non-adversarial Divorce (CCND – www.gooddivorcect.com). She is committed to supporting children, adults, and families in having their lives align with their values, serve their best interests, and be expressions of what matters most to them.

Learn more about Dr. Karassik: https://www.drbethkarassik.com

For more information on Calma Collective Retreats, visit: calma-collective-retreats.com

Louise Zito, Esq has mediated family and related matters for over 30 years and draws heavily on her Mediation experience in her Collaborative Divorce work. She is Of-Counsel to Dolan Family Law, in Connecticut, giving consultations on collaboration, family matters and impasse, as well as giving second opinions. She is partners with Beth Karassik, PhD in Calma Collective, LLC a Retreat and Training collaboration. She trains Attorneys, Family Specialists and Financial Specialists in Basic and Advanced Family Mediation and offers advanced trainings to Collaborative Law Professionals. Louise is a Senior Fellow to the Quinnipiac School of Law Center on Dispute Resolution, she is the co-developer and trainer of the APFM Verified 40 Hour Basic Divorce Mediation Training (CT Family Mediation Training Group) and an APFM Certified Advanced Practitioner. She developed an advanced training "In Whose Best Interest, or When To Call It Quits' (addressing screening methods to prevent termination and how and when to terminate Mediation and Collaborative Divorce proceedings.) She leads retreats for mediators and collaborative professionals and other family law practitioners.

She co-founded the Divorce Solutions of CT and the Ct Family Mediation Training Group. She is a member of the Collaborative Divorce Team of CT, Connecticut Summit of Collaborative Professionals, Connecticut Collaborative Connection, Mediate.com, APFM and IACP. Louise is a member of the Board of Directors and Past President of the Connecticut Council for Non-adversarial Divorce (CCND).

Learn more about Lousie: https://dolanfamilylaw.com/louise-r-zito/

For more information on Calma Collective Retreats, visit: calma-collective-retreats.com

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Love Wars: A Child’s View of High-Conflict Divorce and Co-Parenting with Bill Eddy and Matthew A. Tower on Divorce & Beyond #399

Mon, 08 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0600

Susan Guthrie welcomes two extraordinary guests whose combined perspectives offer something rarely seen in the world of divorce. Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq., returns to the show alongside author Matthew A. Tower, whose new book Love Wars: Clash of the Parents gives listeners an unprecedented inside look at what high-conflict divorce feels like through the eyes of a child. Together, their insights reveal the emotional reality children carry, the predictable patterns behind high-conflict behaviors, and the steps parents can take to protect their kids from the fallout.

Love Wars follows Matthew’s journey from ages six to eleven as he navigated two volatile households, emotional unpredictability, parentification, negative advocates, and the relentless pressure to choose sides. His story is raw, illuminating, and at times difficult to hear, yet it is also deeply important. Bill helps contextualize Matthew’s lived experience through High Conflict Personality Theory and offers guidance parents and professionals can use immediately. This conversation is a powerful companion to Bill’s book Splitting and the perfect next step for anyone committed to changing the emotional climate for their children.

Why This Conversation Matters

High-conflict divorce leaves a lasting imprint on children, but the full internal experience is almost never visible to parents, courts, or professionals. Matthew’s story pulls back the curtain on what children absorb, what they fear, how they cope, and why the conflict shapes them long after the legal case is over.

Bill explains how splitting, emotional volatility, and personality-driven dynamics create confusion, fear, and reactivity for children who do not yet have the capacity to regulate intense emotions. He also highlights why professionals often miss what is really happening, and how parents can change the trajectory by lowering conflict, creating predictability, and becoming the steady emotional anchor their children desperately need.

Together, Bill and Matthew offer clarity, compassion, and a path forward for families caught in high-conflict cycles.

In this episode, you will learn:

What children internalize during high-conflict divorce and why they absorb the emotional intensity around them
Why parentification is so damaging and how children become emotional caregivers when adults are dysregulated
How high-conflict parents recruit negative advocates and why these dynamics intensify the conflict
Why kids shut down, freeze, or dissociate when the emotional environment becomes overwhelming
How calm, consistent adults like Matthew’s stepmother Holly can become a lifeline
What courts and professionals often overlook when evaluating children’s preferences or resistance
What parents can do right now to lower reactivity, reduce conflict, and create safety for their children

About the Guests:

Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. - Bill Eddy is a lawyer, therapist, mediator, best-selling author, co-founder, and Chief Innovation Officer of the High Conflict Institute. He pioneered the High Conflict Personality Theory (HCP Theory) and has become an international expert on managing disputes involving high conflict personalities and personality disorders. He provides training to lawyers, judges, mediators, managers, human resource professionals, businesspersons, healthcare administrators, college administrators, homeowners’ association managers, ombudspersons, law enforcement, therapists and others. He has been a speaker and trainer in over 30 U.S. states and 10 countries.

Visit the High Conflict Institute to find out more about Bill, the Institute's wealth of resources for managing high conflict relationships and more of Bill's books!

https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/

Listen to Bill's other episode, "Get Ready to BIFF Your High Conflict Co-Parent" on Divorce & Beyond here: https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-q3hpd-f87a79

Get your copy of Splitting: How to Protect Yourself When Divorcing a Narcissist or Borderline here: https://amzn.to/3C22aGH

Matthew A. Tower - Matthew A. Tower is an author, art director, audiobook narrator, and entrepreneur. He first saw Star Wars in theaters at age three. Love Wars: Clash of the Parents, A True Divorce Story is his debut work of literature.

Previously, he was founder and CEO of Versus Books, and published more than 50 gaming strategy guides for hits like The Legend of Zelda, selling over 5 million copies.

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Learn more at: https://lovewars.com

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No. 1 Episode: Divorcing a Narcissist or Borderline? How to Protect Yourself with Bill Eddy on Divorce & Beyond #398

Mon, 01 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0600

This week on Divorce & Beyond, we are bringing back the number one episode of all time, my conversation with the incomparable Bill Eddy about his groundbreaking book Splitting: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

This encore episode is more timely than ever and is also the perfect lead-in to next week’s very special conversation with author Matthew A. Tower and Bill Eddy about Matthew’s new book Love Wars: Clash of the Parents. That episode takes you inside the emotional experience of a child living through a high-conflict divorce. Today’s replay sets the foundation for everything we will discuss next week.

Why This Episode Matters

There is a reason this conversation has remained the most downloaded episode in the history of Divorce and Beyond. Bill Eddy’s insights have helped countless listeners understand what is happening in their high conflict divorce, why the conflict feels impossible to manage, and how to protect themselves and their children from the fallout. If you are facing a high-conflict situation, or if your co-parent has patterns of narcissistic, borderline, or antisocial behavior, this episode will give you the clarity and direction you need.

In this episode you will learn:

• What borderline, narcissistic, and antisocial personality patterns look like during divorce, and why they escalate conflict

• The biggest mistakes people make when trying to “diagnose” or explain their spouse’s behavior

• How to communicate effectively using Bill’s BIFF method (Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm)

• Why judges often get high-conflict cases wrong, and what you can do to present your case clearly and effectively

• How to document incidents safely and strategically

• What to expect when divorcing a high-conflict person and how to pace yourself for the long haul

• When mediation works, when it does not, and why preparation matters

• How to stay calm and grounded when your spouse appears calm in court and you do not

• The three biggest patterns you must highlight to the court so your case is understood

• Why support systems, emotional boundaries, and strategic planning are essential for survival

Bill’s wisdom is clear, practical, and actionable. Whether you are preparing for divorce, in the thick of litigation, or co-parenting with a high-conflict ex, this episode gives you tools that truly make a difference.

About Bill Eddy

Bill Eddy is a therapist, lawyer, mediator, and co-founder of the High Conflict Institute. He has authored more than 20 books, including Splitting, BIFF for Co-Parents, and Mediating High Conflict Disputes, and is recognized worldwide as the leading expert on high-conflict personalities and their impact on divorce and family court. He is also one of the most popular and trusted guests in the history of Divorce and Beyond.

A Perfect Lead-in to Next Week

Be sure to tune in next week when Bill joins me again along with author Matthew A. Tower for a powerful new episode unpacking Matthew’s true story of growing up in a high-conflict divorce in Love Wars: Clash of the Parents. It is an unforgettable look at how conflict affects children from the inside.

Resources Mentioned

• Splitting:Second Edition: Protecting Yourself While Divorcing Someone with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorder by Bill Eddy and Randi Kreger: https://amzn.to/48eSPfu

• High Conflict Institute: https://www.highconflictinstitute.com

• BIFF for Co-Parent Communication by Bill Eddy: https://amzn.to/4iqZ18X

• Mediating High Conflict Disputes by Bill Eddy: https://amzn.to/4rlQgkD

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The Truth About Starting Over at 52: What Women Really Face After Gray Divorce with Kelly James on Divorce & Beyond #397

Mon, 24 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0600

Susan Guthrie welcomes journalist and author Kelly James for a powerful, candid conversation about the financial realities and career reinvention that often accompany gray divorce. Kelly brings humor, vulnerability, and a generous heart as she reflects on starting over at 52, returning to the corporate world after decades as a freelancer, and navigating the emotional load of single parenting.

Together, Susan and Kelly explore the truth behind the fears, the unfair expectations, the unexpected challenges, and the surprising strengths that emerge when life takes a turn you never planned for.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode

The financial reality of starting over in midlife is real and heavy, but not impossible
Reinvention in your fifties isn’t about dramatic leaps, in fact, Kelly explains how losing a financial safety net pushed her back into corporate life after 20 years as a freelancer
How the emotional load can be heavy, but but one courageous choice at a time can help you steer your own life

EPISODE RESOURCES: Article: Gray Divorce Is Different: Financial Realities No One Tells You and the Episode FREE Downloadable Resource: The Midlife Divorce Financial Reset Checklist

More About Our Special Guest: Kelly K. James "escaped from the law" more than 25 years ago to become a fulltime freelance journalist. The former attorney is the author of books including The Book That (Almost) Got Me Fired: How I (Barely) Survived a Year in Corporate America; Writer for Hire: 101 Secrets to Freelance Success, and Six-Figure Freelancing: The Writer's Guide to Making More Money, Second Edition. She's now a full-time legal content manager and part-time freelancer who works, writes, plays 8-ball, and attempts to golf from her home outside Chicago, which she shares with two teens, a rescue pup, and an extra-chunky spoiled cat.

Kelly's Website and Book:

The Book That (Almost) Got Me Fired: https://amzn.to/48kPmNA

kellykjames.net

Social Media:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellykjames

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Is Your Lawyer Helping Or Hurting Your Divorce? How To Hire, Fire, And Trust Your Attorney with Susan Guthrie on Divorce & Beyond #396

Mon, 17 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0600

Are you secretly wondering if you hired the wrong divorce lawyer, but feel too far in, too scared, or too overwhelmed to do anything about it?

You are not the only one. Listeners write in every week saying things like, “I hired someone in a panic and now I feel stuck,” or “I feel dismissed, but I am afraid to change attorneys midstream.”

In this solo episode, Susan uses more than thirty five years of experience as a leading divorce attorney and mediator to give you a clear framework for how to choose, evaluate, and, if necessary, replace your lawyer so you can move through your divorce with more confidence and less chaos.

You will learn:

Why so many people “panic hire” the wrong attorney in the early days of divorce
How a good divorce coach can help you get grounded before you hire anyone
The key questions to ask in an attorney consultation so you can spot a real fit
Red flags that your current lawyer may not be serving your goals or values
When the problem is the system, not your attorney
How to have a reset conversation and, if needed, make a clean, professional change

Susan has also created a free downloadable checklist with the questions and red flags she covers in the episode. DOWNLOAD HERE

If you are confused about your attorney client relationship or worried you made the wrong choice, this episode will help you understand your options and take back your power in your own case.

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All’s Fair… or Is It? Real-Life Top Divorce Attorneys Break Down Hulu’s All-Female Divorce Firm Drama on Divorce & Beyond #395

Mon, 10 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0600

We’re talking all about Hulu’s new hit All’s Fair and its glossy world of powerhouse, all-female divorce attorneys. The show is everywhere right now, but how much of it reflects what really happens in high-stakes family law?

Susan Guthrie is joined by two of the most trusted experts in the field, Beth F. McCormack and Kimberly A. Cook, Esq., to break down what the series gets right, where it leans into pure Hollywood, and what it leaves out entirely about the real work of guiding families through divorce.

If you’ve been wondering whether All’s Fair captures the truth or just the drama, this episode gives you the inside view.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode

Where All’s Fair nails the reality of female attorneys breaking away to build something better
What the show gets wrong about divorce law and why those myths can mislead real clients
How strategy and preparation matter far more than the aggressive “never settle” persona
“Adding a zero” isn’t how settlements actually work
Why representation in legal dramas matters and how this show misses key opportunities to get it right

More About Our Special Guests:

Kimberly A. Cook, Esq.

Kimberly A. Cook is a Partner with Schiller DuCanto & Fleck, LLP, one of the nation’s premier divorce and family law firms. Known for her ability to both fiercely advocate and thoughtfully problem-solve, Kimberly represents C-suite executives, professional athletes, entertainers, and other high-profile clients in complex family law matters.

Before joining Schiller, Kimberly founded Dovetail Conflict Resolution, LLC, where she focused exclusively on divorce and family mediation, helping families identify creative solutions and reach lasting agreements. She also hosts the Grown Girl Divorce podcast, where she empowers listeners to navigate family transitions with clarity and confidence.

Kimberly shares her knowledge as an adjunct law professor, mentor, and frequent speaker, and has been featured in Crain’s Chicago, Black Enterprise, Thrive Global, and Business Insider. She has been consistently recognized among the Best Lawyers in America and Super Lawyers for her excellence and leadership in the field.

Contact Kimberly: growngirldivorce.com or https://sdflaw.com

Beth F. McCormack

Beth F. McCormack is a highly respected family law attorney known for her skill in handling the most complex and sensitive divorce and parenting matters. Based in Chicago, Beth is equally at home in the courtroom, in mediation, and in collaborative law, always centering her practice on compassion and empathy.

She has been consistently recognized as a Best Lawyer, Super Lawyer, and Leading Lawyer, including being named one of the Top 50 Women Super Lawyers. In addition to her thriving practice, Beth mentors the next generation of family law professionals and writes a monthly column for the Chicago Daily Law Bulletin. She is especially known for her advocacy on behalf of children and her ability to navigate high-profile, high-net-worth divorces with discretion and care.

Contact Beth: beermannlaw.com

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How to Raise Resilient Kids In Divorce When You Can’t Control What Happens in the Other House with Laila Aitken Ali on Divorce & Beyond #394

Mon, 03 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0600

Co-parenting with someone who parents in a totally different way can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re trying to protect your kids and you don’t have control over what happens in the other home.

Susan Guthrie welcomes back Laila Aitken Ali, co-founder of Split FYI and creator of the Raising Resilient Kids Through Divorce Masterclass, to talk about what you can control and how to stay steady when things get tough.

Laila explains why the goal isn’t trying to make your kids “happy” all the time but helping them build real resilience. And even if you are the only calm, grounded parent in the mix, that is more powerful than you think. As Laila puts it, your peace is your child’s safety plan.

You’ll hear simple scripts, mindset shifts, and nervous-system-friendly ways to stay anchored so you can support your kids without getting pulled into chaos, stress, or power struggles.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode

You can’t control the other parent, but you can control the emotional world your kids experience in your home
How practicing DEEP allows you to take a pause and avoid being pulled into chaos
The best way to protect your kids is to protect your own nervous system
Shadow work matters. Notice stories you tell yourself, question old beliefs, and lead from your empowered self

More About Our Special Guest Laila Aitken Ali: Laila Aitken Ali, The Split Coach, is a Certified Divorce Coach®, Accredited Mediator, and Co-Founder of Split.fyi, a platform supporting people through divorce, co-parenting, and life transitions. After navigating her own divorce while pregnant, Laila committed to helping others move through separation with clarity, strategy, and confidence. She specializes in guiding parents to break old patterns and build healthier dynamics post-divorce. Laila also teaches co-parenting strategy at the Certified Divorce Coach (CDC) program, equipping new coaches with practical tools.

Website and Links:

SplitFYI.com

Raising Resilient Kids Through Divorce Masterclass and other events:
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TheSplitCoach.com

Why You Need to Stop Calling Your Ex a Narcissist with Laila Aitken, Founder of Split.fyi on Divorce & Beyond

Social Media:

http://instagram.com/thesplitcoach

http://instagram.com/splitfyi

https://www.linkedin.com/in/lailaaitken/

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Narcissistic Playbook Exposed: How Manipulation and Lies Drive Family Estrangement with Tracy Malone on Divorce & Beyond #393

Mon, 20 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie welcomes back Tracy Malone, a leading expert on narcissistic abuse and family estrangement, for a raw and eye-opening conversation about one of the most painful aftermaths of toxic relationships: being cut off from your own child (aka estrangement).

When estrangement happens, it can feel like your world has been shattered overnight. Tracy, founder of NarcissistAbuseSupport.com and author of Estranged By Lies: How Narcissistic Partners Use Power & Control To Destroy Your Family, helps unpack how manipulation, gaslighting, and control tactics can fracture families and rewrite history in devastating ways.

Together, Susan and Tracy explore how these dynamics play out and, most importantly, what parents can take to begin healing.

Tracy’s compassionate wisdom, drawn from both personal experience and years of coaching, offers validation, hope, and strategies to help listeners find peace and strength through the storm.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode

How estrangement differs from alienation and why it’s on the rise
The narcissistic playbook and how lies and control can turn loved ones against you
The importance of emotional regulation when you can’t control others’ choices
How awareness shifts everything and helps you rebuild your boundaries
Why it’s essential to release self-blame and focus on your own healing

More About Our Special Guest, Tracy Malone: Tracy A. Malone is a coach, author, and the founder of NarcissistAbuseSupport.com, a global resource helping victims in more than 145 countries reclaim their lives after emotional abuse. She’s also a surTHRIVER herself, and her wisdom comes not just from research and coaching, but from lived experience.

Her latest book, Estranged By Lies: How Narcissistic Partners Use Power & Control To Destroy Your Family, exposes the gaslighting, smearing, and rewriting of history that can steal your adult child and devastate entire families.

Website and Book:

Estranged By Lies: How Narcissistic Partners Use Power & Control To Destroy Your Family
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https://narcissistabusesupport.com/

Social Media:

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFtt3fhMMCBKGRMGyN2D2GQ

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SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, has been nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country for more than 30 years. Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://susaneguthrie.com

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Move Forward Confidently: Post-Divorce Money Moves That Build Your Future with Patrick Kilbane on Divorce & Beyond #392

Mon, 06 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie welcomes Patrick Kilbane, J.D., CDFA®, partner at Ullman Wealth Partners and Director of the Divorce Advisory Group, to talk about one of the most overlooked but critical phases of divorce: what happens to your finances after the papers are signed.

Instead of stopping at the settlement, Patrick shows you how to step into your financial “2.0” with confidence. We talk about creating clarity around your monthly cashflow, setting up systems to cover everyday expenses, and simplifying your accounts so they’re easy to manage. Patrick also shares how to plan ahead during the divorce, not just after, so you negotiate with your future in mind.

You’ll hear practical strategies for rebuilding credit, organizing your retirement and investment accounts, making smart housing decisions, and avoiding costly mistakes that can derail your long-term security.

Patrick’s decades of experience as both an attorney and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst make this a must-listen for anyone ready to move beyond survival mode and build a strong, strategic financial foundation for the next chapter of life.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode

How to recognize when it’s time to shift from divorce survival to planning your independent future
Simple steps to clarify monthly cashflow and set up systems to cover bills and savings
Why involving a financial advisor before settlement helps you plan smarter and avoid gaps
How strategic planning beyond the settlement sets you up for lasting stability and confidence

More About Our Special Guest, Patrick Kilbane, J.D., CDFA®: Pat is a Partner at the firm and serves as both a Wealth Advisor and General Counsel. He brings over a decade of experience helping clients coordinate and implement comprehensive wealth management strategies. In his legal role, he manages all legal matters for the firm and assists clients with navigating their own legal questions by connecting them to trusted resources.

Pat also leads our Divorce Advisory Group, where he supports high-net-worth clients before, during, and after the divorce process. Drawing on his extensive background in family law and his Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®) designation, Pat helps clients make informed, confident financial decisions at every stage of marital dissolution.

Before joining our firm, Pat built a successful legal career in matrimonial and family law, serving as a Shareholder at two respected statewide firms—GrayRobinson, P.A. and Rogers Towers, P.A.—in Jacksonville.

Pat is deeply involved in the Jacksonville community and has served on numerous civic and professional boards. He has received several gubernatorial appointments, including to the Jacksonville Aviation Authority—where he served as Chairman from 2017–2018 and again from 2020–2021—and to the 4th Judicial Circuit Judicial Nominating Commission, where he served as Chairman from 2017–2019. Most recently, he was appointed by Governor Ron DeSantis to the Jacksonville Port Authority in 2024 and to the Florida Elections Commission in 2025.

His leadership extends to the Jacksonville Bar Association, where he served on the Board of Governors and as President of its Young Lawyers Section. He is a graduate of Leadership Florida (Class XXXV) and currently serves as President of the Jacksonville Lawyers Chapter of the Federalist Society.

Pat previously served as President of the Board of Directors of the Notre Dame Alumni Club of Greater Jacksonville and as a member of the Foundation Board for St. Vincent’s Hospital. In 2017, he was appointed by Bishop Felipe Estévez to the Savings and Loan Board for the Diocese of St. Augustine. In 2020, he was elected to the Board of Trustees for Adrian College, which will honor him as its 2025 Distinguished Alumnus.

Pat earned his J.D. from the University of Notre Dame and holds a B.B.A. from Adrian College, where he graduated summa cum laude. He is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® and co-author of Move Forward Confidently: A Woman's Guide to Navigating the High-Net-Worth Divorce.

Website and Book

http://ullmannwealthpartners.com

Pat’s book: Move Forward Confidently: A Woman's Guide to Navigating the High-Net-Worth Divorce.

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The Billion Dollar Divorce Playbook: Lessons from the Dream Team You Can Use Too, Part 2 on Divorce & Beyond #391

Mon, 29 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie welcomes back three powerhouse professionals to Divorce & Beyond for part two of a very special series that turns the billion-dollar divorce playbook into practical strategies you can use in your own divorce, no matter your net worth.

Together, Michelle Smith, Beth McCormack, and Jenny Stevens make up what Susan calls the Billion Dollar Dream Team. Between them, they bring decades of experience guiding clients through some of the most complex, high-stakes divorces in the country. From untangling billion-dollar assets to protecting children’s well-being to helping clients stay grounded in the storm, this team delivers legal, financial, and emotional strategies that can benefit anyone facing divorce.

In part one, we pulled back the curtain on what divorce looks like when billions of dollars are at stake: the unique challenges, the strategies, and the inside perspective that only comes from decades of experience handling ultra-high-net-worth cases. The lessons from those cases aren’t just for billionaires.

This week, in part two, we’re taking those big-dollar insights and showing you how they apply to your divorce, no matter your net worth or no matter where you are in the process.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode

How to trust your gut when choosing the professionals on your dream team
Why knowing the true cost of your life is essential for smart financial decisions
The power of defining priorities and fears early to shape your legal strategy
Why emotional healing often takes longer than the legal process and how to honor that timeline

Meet the Billion Dollar Dream Team

Michelle Smith
Michelle Smith is one of the nation’s most sought-after divorce financial specialists, holding the Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® designation. She is the founder of Wife2CFO, a platform created to empower women to understand and manage their wealth with confidence. Michelle is also the co-author of Divorce & Your Finances and a regular contributor to national financial media. With more than three decades of experience advising ultra high net worth families, she brings unmatched expertise in investment strategy, wealth transfer, and philanthropic planning — and a unique ability to simplify even the most complex financial landscapes.

Contact Michelle: https://savantwealth.com

Beth F. McCormack
Beth McCormack is a highly respected family law attorney, known for her skill in handling the most complex and sensitive divorce and parenting matters. Based in Chicago, Beth is equally at home in the courtroom, in mediation, and in collaborative law, always centering her practice on compassion and empathy. She has been consistently recognized as a Best Lawyer, Super Lawyer, and Leading Lawyer, including being named one of the Top 50 Women Super Lawyers. In addition to her thriving practice, Beth mentors the next generation of family law professionals and writes a monthly column for the Chicago Daily Law Bulletin. She is especially known for her advocacy on behalf of children and her ability to navigate high-profile, high-net worth divorces with discretion and care.

Contact Beth: https://beermannlaw.com

Jenny Stevens
Jenny Stevens is a counselor, divorce coach, and adolescent coach who has built her career around helping people navigate life’s toughest transitions. With a master’s degree in professional counseling and extensive mediation training, Jenny brings both clinical expertise and a no-nonsense, approachable style to her coaching. She has lived through her own share of profound life changes — from loss to illness to divorce — and uses that experience to guide clients with empathy, honesty, and practical strategies. Jenny helps individuals and families regulate emotions, build resilience, and create the foundations for a life they love. Her work emphasizes emotional regulation, self-care, and values-based co-parenting, making her an invaluable support for anyone facing the upheaval of divorce.

Contact Jenny: https://jennystevenscoach.com

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The Billion Dollar Divorce Playbook: Lessons from the Dream Team You Can Use Too, Part 1 on Divorce & Beyond #390

Mon, 22 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie welcomes three powerhouse professionals to Divorce & Beyond for a very special two-part series that pulls back the curtain on ultra high net worth divorces and reveals strategies that can help anyone navigating divorce.

This conversation highlights not only the extraordinary circumstances of billion-dollar cases but also the universal truths: divorce is emotionally scrambling, requires strong communication, and benefits enormously from a cohesive team approach.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode

The unique legal complexities of managing billion-dollar assets, foundations, and family offices.
The importance of asking the right financial questions without escalating conflict
How privacy, reputation management, and creative solutions play a critical role in high-stakes cases

What’s Next

This is just part one. Next week, Michelle, Beth, and Jenny return to translate the billion-dollar lessons into practical, actionable strategies for your own divorce journey, whether you’re just beginning, in the thick of it, or finding your new Beyond.

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Meet the Billion Dollar Dream Team

Contact Michelle: https://savantwealth.com

Beth F. McCormack
Beth McCormack is a highly respected family law attorney, known for her skill in handling the most complex and sensitive divorce and parenting matters. Based in Chicago, Beth’s practice includes guiding her clients whether they are litigating, mediating or collaborative law, all with compassion and empathy.

She has been consistently recognized as a Best Lawyer, Super Lawyer, and Leading Lawyer, including being named one of the Top 50 Women Super Lawyers. In addition to her thriving practice, Beth mentors the next generation of family law professionals. She is especially known for her advocacy on behalf of children and her ability to navigate high-profile, high-net worth divorces with discretion and care.

Contact Beth: https://beermannlaw.com

Contact Jenny: https://jennystevenscoach.com

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The Selfish Year: How Choosing Yourself After Divorce Can Transform Your Life with Valerie Jones on Divorce & Beyond #389

Mon, 08 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie welcomes Valerie Jones, author of The Selfish Year, to share a radically different perspective on what it means to put yourself first after divorce. Valerie’s story of going from broke, divorced, stay-at-home mom to thriving six-figure entrepreneur began with one powerful decision: to be selfish. In this conversation, she redefines selfishness as being “full of self” and shows how embracing it can become the gateway to healing, clarity, and abundance.

As this episode highlights, “selfish” is a word most women have been conditioned to fear. Yet, as Valerie explains, choosing yourself isn’t only allowed: it’s essential. Her journey and strategies offer inspiration and practical steps for anyone navigating divorce or life transitions.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode

Why selfish is not arrogance but becoming “full of self” instead of self-less
How small, daily acts of selfishness create transformation
The importance of saying no, setting boundaries, and breaking free from people-pleasing patterns
Valerie’s “selfish strategies” that help you reconnect with your intuition, reclaim your power, and act as if you love yourself

More About Our Special Guest, Valerie Jones: Valerie Jones is the author of The Selfish Year (remeased September 3, 2025), host of The Selfish Woman podcast, and founder of The Selfish Woman movement, a global collective of women rising into their power and claiming the life they deserve. A thought leader in midlife reinvention and the sacred rebellion of women daring to put themselves first, Valerie is redefining what it means to be selfish. Her work helps women ditch the good girl conditioning, stop performing for approval, and step unapologetically into desire, self-trust, and overflow. Through her bold storytelling, viral social media presence, and fast-growing global community, she is leading a new era for women who are ready to stop surviving and start shining — without apology.

Website and Book:

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Stop Shoulding on Yourself: The Bold New Path After Divorce with Jessica Frew on Divorce & Beyond #388

Mon, 25 Aug 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie welcomes Jessica Frew back to Divorce and Beyond for a powerful conversation about releasing the “shoulds” that may box you in after divorce and reclaiming your decision-making power. Jessica is a wife, ex-wife, mom, stepmom, founder of The Bold Logic, and author of the upcoming book Shove the Shoulds: Become a Decision-Making Badass to Live the Bold Life You Deserve.

If you’ve ever felt weighed down by guilt, judgment, or that pesky inner voice telling you what you “should” be doing, this episode will help you break free. Plus, one lucky listener will win a free copy of Jessica’s new book, listen through to the end for details!

Stop living a life of “shoulds” and start today. Jessica shows you how to shove them right out the door and step confidently into your next chapter after divorce.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

How “shoulds” are often just judgment in disguise and why recognizing them is the first step to freedom
The role conditioning and past relationships play in breaking down self-trust
Why true post-divorce freedom comes from reclaiming your decision-making power
Jessica’s Be, Be, Be formula: Be Gentle, Be Humble, Be Bold, and how it can transform your life
Practical ways to start rebuilding trust in yourself, one small decision at a time

More About Our Special Guest, Jessica Frew: Jessica Frew is a wife, ex-wife, mom, stepmom, and BOLD action taker. She’s the founder of The BOLD Logic, a company devoted to helping women understand their decision making patterns to take back their voice. Jessica teaches women how to trust themselves by owning their decision-making power so they can live boldly, love honestly, and stop abandoning themselves to keep the peace.

Websites:

Enter to win a FREE copy of Jessica’s brand new book “Shove Your Shoulds: Become a Decision-Making Badass to Live the BOLD Life You Deserve”, just for listeners of the Divorce & Beyond Podcast with Susan Guthrie. https://shoveyourshoulds.com/enter

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We Think You'll Like: Intentional Divorce Insights with Leah Hadley – Season 4 Premiere

Thu, 14 Aug 2025 05:00:00 -0500

This week on Divorce & Beyond, we're doing something a little different, and something truly special.

We’re honored to share the premiere episode of Season 4 of the Intentional Divorce Insights podcast, hosted by Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and Accredited Financial Counselor, Leah Hadley.

If you caught Monday’s episode with Leah on Divorce & Beyond®, you already know what a valuable and grounded voice she brings to the complex financial realities of divorce today. In this solo episode, Leah takes us deeper, sharing the personal story and values that inspire her work and fuel her mission to support those navigating divorce with clarity, confidence, and compassion.

You’ll hear:

How Leah’s mother shaped her approach to money, reinvention, and resilience
The five pillars of Leah’s Intentional Money Method
A powerful reminder that it’s never too late to grow, shift paths, or start fresh
The importance of building financial freedom intentionally, especially in times of transition

Whether you’re facing divorce, considering a new direction in life, or simply looking to feel more empowered around your finances, this episode offers wisdom, warmth, and a clear next step.

Be sure to listen to our Monday conversation with Leah if you haven’t already, where we dig into what recent economic shifts mean for your divorce strategy in 2025 and beyond. Here’s the link: https://divorcebeyond.com/Leah-Hadley

And if you’re over 50 and contemplating divorce, don’t miss Leah’s free upcoming webinar: Divorce After 50: Protecting Your Retirement and Securing Your Future. Details and Registration link here: https://www.greatlakesdfs.com/divorce-after-50

More About Leah Hadley:

Leah is the founder of Intentional Divorce Solutions and Intentional Wealth Partners. She’s a nationally recognized financial expert, author, speaker, and host of Intentional Divorce Insights. With a background in both education and finance, Leah is passionate about helping people make thoughtful, values-aligned financial decisions, especially during life’s most challenging transitions.

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Why Intentional Strategy Is Your Greatest Asset When Divorcing in a Volatile Economy with Leah Hadley on Divorce & Beyond #387

Mon, 11 Aug 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie welcomes accredited financial counselor and CDFA® Leah Hadley to explore the changing financial landscape of divorce in today’s unpredictable economy. From rising healthcare costs to a volatile housing market and shifting tax laws, the economic realities of 2025 are reshaping how couples need to approach divorce settlements. Leah shares how thoughtful financial planning, strategic modeling, and expert guidance can help protect your long-term stability, especially if you're divorcing later in life.

If you’re navigating divorce in this climate, this episode offers timely, essential insights to help you negotiate smarter and move forward with confidence.

You'll hear:

The truth about healthcare costs and how subsidy cuts may affect you
How to plan for (and afford) health insurance post-divorce
How housing market trends are shifting common divorce strategies
Tips for reducing stress and avoiding costly financial mistakes
The top mistake people divorcing after 50 make and how to avoid it

More About Our Special Guest, Leah Hadley, AFC®, CDFA®, MAFF® As the Founder of Intentional Divorce Solutions (formerly known as Great Lakes Divorce Financial Solutions) and Intentional Wealth Partners. Leah Hadley is committed to guiding clients to financial independence through thoughtful and strategic planning.

An influential voice in the financial community, Leah is a sought-after speaker and expert in overcoming financial setbacks and navigating the financial complexities of divorce. She's a frequent guest on podcasts and has contributed her insights to numerous books and online platforms. Leah is also the author of "When It's Just Not Working: A Practical Divorce Guide for Stay-At-Home Moms." At the heart of her practice, Leah finds genuine satisfaction in empowering her clients to achieve their most heartfelt financial goals.

In her leisure time, she enjoys reading, hiking, and spending quality time with her husband, three children, and three dogs.

Websites:

Intentional Divorce Insights Podcast
https://www.greatlakesdfs.com/podcasts/intentional-divorce-insights

FREE WEBINAR: If you’re over 50 and contemplating divorce, don’t miss Leah’s free upcoming webinar:

Divorce After 50: Protecting Your Retirement and Securing Your Future. https://www.greatlakesdfs.com/divorce-after-50

https://www.watchherthrive.co

Social Media:

http://instagram.com/watchherthrive

https://www.linkedin.com/in/leahhadley

Also referenced in this episode:
Divorcing in 2025: The High Cost of Uncertainty on Divorce

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Divorce Triage: Who to Call First and How to Build the Right Support Team with Susan Guthrie on Divorce & Beyond #386

Mon, 21 Jul 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Have you found yourself wondering, “What do I do first when I find out I’m getting divorced?" In this solo episode, top family law expert and mediator Susan Guthrie introduces the concept of Divorce Triage: a clear, strategic approach to navigating those overwhelming first days of divorce. Whether you’re the one who’s decided to file or you’ve just been hit with the news, knowing who to call first (and why) can make all the difference.

Divorce isn't one-size-fits-all. And the first steps you take can shape your entire journey. This episode helps you figure out where to begin based on your unique circumstances so you can avoid costly missteps.

With more than 30 years of experience as a family law attorney and mediator, Susan walks you through how to stabilize your emotional, financial, and legal footing so you can move forward with strength and strategy, not panic.

What You’ll Discover In This Episode:

Why your “first call” might not be an attorney and how to know who to call first
How to navigate emotional trauma after infidelity, financial betrayal, or a surprise divorce request
The key players on your divorce team, attorney, mediator, coach, therapist, CDFA, and when to bring them in
Why too many outside opinions can cause confusion, not clarity
Susan’s #1 piece of advice if you’re unsure where to start

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Divorce Danger Zones for Business Owners with Gabriella Martinelli on Divorce & Beyond #385

Mon, 07 Jul 2025 05:00:00 -0500

When divorce and entrepreneurship collide, things get complicated - fast. The emotional, financial, and legal entanglements are real, and one wrong move could cost you big.

To help us navigate these divorce danger zones, Susan Guthrie welcomes Gabriella Martinelli to the show. Gabriella is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® and the founder of Ever After Wealth®, bringing over two decades of experience, including 16 years working closely with top family law attorneys. She’s worked with countless business owners to protect their financial futures through even the most complex divorces.

She’s also the host of the new podcast Divorce and Money, where she shares no-nonsense financial strategies to help you feel informed and empowered around the money side of divorce. And yes, she brings that same clarity to this conversation.

Whether you’re the business owner or divorcing one, Gabriella unpacks exactly what can go wrong when business finances are intertwined with personal ones, why it matters, and what you can do before things spiral. From messy bookkeeping to emotional attachment and sudden income deficit disorder, this episode gets into the real-world complications and how to avoid them.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

Why divorcing with a business is a “whole new level of hell”
How emotional attachment to a business can cloud financial decisions
Why running personal expenses through your business is a divorce disaster
What to do now if you think divorce may be on the horizon
How to avoid costly mistakes, distrust, and tax trouble down the line
The power of financial clarity and when to bring in a CDFA® to support your team

More About Our Special Guest, Gabriella Martinelli: Gabriella Martinelli is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®) and founder of Ever After Wealth®. With 21 years of experience in divorce finance, including 16 working alongside top attorneys, Gabriella helps individuals and professionals navigate the financial complexities of divorce with clarity and confidence. She makes complex financial topics easy to understand, offering real-world strategies that empower listeners to take control of their financial future.

If you want more of Gabriella’s straight-shooting advice, be sure to check out her new podcast, Divorce and Money, available now on all major platforms.

Website:

Contact:

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Divorcing in 2025: The High Cost of Uncertainty on Divorce & Beyond #384

Mon, 23 Jun 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie is back with a solo episode to unpack how today’s economic instability is reshaping every stage of divorce. We are living in uncertain times: rising inflation, interest rates that won’t budge, increased job losses and layoffs, and even potential cuts to government programs like Medicare and Medicaid. All of this uncertainty affects how divorce unfolds, from spousal support to housing and healthcare.

In this episode, Susan walks you through the key financial and legal challenges divorcing couples are facing right now and explains how to protect yourself and your family as you navigate your divorce.

Whether you're in the early stages or mid-process, this is a must-listen conversation to help you think ahead, protect yourself, and prepare.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

How to stay financially agile when the economy throws curveballs like layoffs, pay cuts, and high inflation
Smart ways to adapt when real estate is frozen and interest rates make buying or selling a home difficult
Why it’s worth revisiting your parenting plan to include contingencies for job changes, relocations, and shifting schedules
What you need to know about potential Medicare and Medicaid cuts, and how to start exploring alternative healthcare options
How to future-proof your divorce strategy by auditing your financial benefits and modeling different outcomes with a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst

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Surviving the Narcissist: The 5 Stages of a Strategic Divorce on Divorce & Beyond #383

Mon, 09 Jun 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Dr. Justine Weber joins Susan Guthrie to share what it really looks like to navigate a relationship with someone who exhibits narcissistic or high-conflict behavior - from the moment someone starts questioning things to the long road of healing on the other side.

Together, Susan and Justine walk through the five stages of divorcing a narcissist, from the first signs of doubt to post-divorce healing. Whether a listener is thinking about leaving, stuck in the thick of it, or still reeling years after the divorce, Justine offers insights for every stage. As both a therapist and coach, she’s helped countless individuals move from confusion and survival mode to clarity and stability.

Susan and Justine explore what it means to leave strategically, how to stay safe and grounded, and why documenting behavior, no matter how small, can be one of the most important steps a person can take. Justine also shares guidance on supporting children through the chaos and what it takes to rebuild life after abuse. This episode is a reminder that no one has to do it alone, and they shouldn’t. Justine’s tips, contact information, and downloadable resource are all linked in the show notes.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

Document everything - privately and securely - to stay grounded and protect yourself.
Don’t leave impulsively. Build a plan, gather support, and consult professionals first.
Ask attorneys about handling manipulation, not labels like “narcissist.”
Be the calm, safe parent your kids can count on—listen, don’t gaslight.
Healing is possible, but you can’t do it alone. Support and strategy make all the difference.

More About Our Special Guest, Justine Weber: Justine Weber is a licensed clinical psychologist, author, and coach. Justine is dedicated to helping individuals heal, grow and find meaning in life. Justine has a unique specialty in helping people heal and thrive from narcissistic relationships and break free from life’s dysfunctional barriers. With years of experience in providing therapy, Justine is known for her authentic and empathic approach, fostering growth.

Beyond relationship healing, Justine specializes in helping those who feel stuck in life, unable to move forward. She empowers individuals to harness the energy of fear as a catalyst for transformation—shifting from a place of stagnation to a life of growth and fulfillment. Through targeted strategies, she helps reframe limiting beliefs into motivating perspectives, allowing individuals to recognize their potential and embrace meaningful change.

Her commitment to creating a supportive and transformative space enables clients to break free from dysfunctional patterns, develop self-awareness, and step into a thriving, purpose-driven life. If you are ready to move beyond fear, overcome limiting beliefs, and cultivate a life of meaning and success, Justine is here to guide you every step of the way.

Websites: http://sereneshift.com and drjustineweber.com

Book: How the F*ck Do I Heal from This?: Understanding Narcissistic Abuse and how to Put Your Life Back Together

Social Media:

https://www.instagram.com/drjustineweber/

https://www.tiktok.com/@drjustineweber

http://facebook.com/drjustineweberhealing

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Also Mentioned in This Episode:

The Incredible Tale of One Mom’s Successful 10-Year Battle to Be Free of a Narcissist with Tina Swithin

Domestic Abuse Part Two: Turning the Focus to Post-Separation Abuse with Dr. Christine Cocchiola

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The Worst Divorce Advice on Social Media—And What You Need to Know Instead on Divorce & Beyond #382

Mon, 26 May 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Social media can be an incredible space for support and connection, but when it comes to divorce, it’s also packed with advice that sounds empowering but can actually do real damage. In this solo episode, Susan Guthrie breaks down some of the most viral (and misleading) divorce tips making the rounds on TikTok, Instagram, and beyond. And, shares what you really need to know instead.

With more than 35 years of experience as a top divorce attorney and mediator, Susan cuts through the noise to expose what’s myth and what’s smart strategy. Whether it’s the temptation of a $99 DIY divorce, the urge to vent online, or slapping labels on your ex, Susan helps you sidestep the traps and make choices that truly support your future.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

Why even friendly divorces need legal review, because templates aren’t enough
The real risks of social media announcements and glow-up posts
Why labeling your ex a narcissist can backfire in court
How hiding assets + oversharing on social media can blow up your entire case

Also mentioned in this episode:
The FYI on DIY Divorce from the Founder and CEO of Hello Divorce, Erin Levine
Your Roadmap to Resolution: 80+ Ways to Divorce Amicably (Yes, Really!) with Tracy Ann Moore-Grant
Why You Need to Stop Calling Your Ex a Narcissist with Laila Aitken, Founder of Split.fyi

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Your Roadmap to Resolution: 80+ Ways to Divorce Amicably (Yes, Really!) with Tracy Ann Moore-Grant on Divorce & Beyond #381

Mon, 12 May 2025 05:00:00 -0500

What if divorce didn’t have to be a battlefield? Susan Guthrie welcomes back Tracy Ann Moore-Grant to share a refreshingly different approach, one that skips the chaos and centers on resolution, respect, and real strategy. Tracy Ann, a seasoned family law attorney and founder of the Amicable Divorce Network, is changing the game with her court-free model that prioritizes clarity and calm over conflict.

They dig into Tracy Ann’s groundbreaking new book Divorce Amicably: Your Roadmap to Resolution, which brings together the wisdom of over 40 professionals (yes, including Susan!). From navigating emotional landmines to using AI tools for smarter decisions, the book covers 80+ essential topics for a smoother split.

Whether you’re in the thick of it or planning ahead, this conversation proves you do have options and a powerful roadmap to guide the way.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

Why amicable doesn’t mean easy, and how choosing the right professionals can keep things resolution-focused instead of conflict-driven
How the Amicable Divorce Network’s flat-fee, court-free approach helps you get clear on costs and timelines from the start
The surprising impact your divorce team has on the process and why hiring for peace beats hiring for revenge
Tools and tech that streamline divorce, from secure platforms to AI-powered support
Why your divorce can look different and how this new roadmap helps you make empowered, intentional choices

More About Our Special Guest, Tracy Ann Moore-Grant: Tracy Ann Moore-Grant is a family law attorney, mediator, arbitrator, and parent coordinator based in Georgia. A founding partner of Patterson Moore Butler, she focuses exclusively on helping families resolve divorce and custody matters outside of court.

She is the founder of the Amicable Divorce Network, an international association of vetted professionals committed to low-conflict, efficient divorce. Tracy Ann is also the host of the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast and the author of Divorce Amicably: Your Roadmap to Resolution.

Recognized for her impact on the legal field, she is the recipient of both the Georgia Legal Award and the Southeastern Legal Award. Tracy Ann lives in Georgia with her husband, stepchildren, and beloved schnauzers.

Websites:
https://www.amicabledivorcenetwork.com/, https://www.divorceamicably.com/

Book:
Divorce Amicably: Your Roadmap to Resolution https://a.co/d/0Gj18Ly

Social Media:

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http://instagram.com/divorceamicably

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The 4 Divorce Truths No One Tells You (Until It's Too Late!) with Attorney Morghan Richardson on Divorce & Beyond #380

Mon, 28 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie welcomes family law powerhouse Morghan Richardson for a conversation that reveals essential truths about divorce that no one warns you about, but everyone needs to know. Walk into your divorce with eyes wide open and your strategy locked in.

With years of experience navigating high-net-worth divorces in New York, Morghan shares the top four shockers that catch divorcing clients off guard, truths that will save you time, energy, and heartbreak if you hear them early enough.

From the myth of fairness in financial division to the reality of parenting dynamics post-separation, this episode is your behind-the-scenes look at what really happens in divorce court and why setting expectations early could be the best legal strategy of all.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

Why divorce courts don’t reward you for your sacrifices during marriage
The real reason "bad behavior" doesn’t equal legal consequences
Custody decisions: how they are made and why they might not reflect past parenting roles
What feels fair in asset division isn’t always what the law says is fair
Why hiring a “shark attorney” might cost you more than it’s worth

More About Our Special Guest, Morghan Richardson: Morghan Richardson is a partner and co-chair of the Matrimonial & Family Law Practice at Tarter Krinsky & Drogin in New York. A skilled litigator, mediator, and consultant, Morghan is known for her holistic approach to family law, representing high-net-worth individuals, celebrities, and award-winning innovators with compassion and confidentiality.

She handles complex divorce, custody matters, alimony, pre- and post-nuptial agreements, and collaborative and LGBT family law cases. A seasoned professional, Morghan draws on her past commercial litigation experience to help clients navigate high-stakes family disputes.

Morghan is an Executive Board member of the Women in Law Section of the New York State Bar Association and teaches at Pace Law School. She also shares her insights as a content creator, blogger at The Divorce Artist, and contributor to The Huffington Post and Good Men’s Project, working to destigmatize divorce and support people through every stage of the process.

Websites: https://www.tarterkrinsky.com/morghan-richardson, https://www.morghanrichardson.com/

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ARCHIVE EPISODE: Your Child’s Best Interests: What the Law Actually Says with Professor Stephanie Tang on Divorce & Beyond

Mon, 14 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0500

In this must-listen archived episode Susan Guthrie, Esq. is joined by Professor Stephanie Tang to unpack one of the most talked-about, and misunderstood, topics in family court: the “best interests of the child” standard.

Listeners often ask what this phrase actually means when it comes to custody decisions, and as Susan and Professor Tang explore, it’s far more nuanced than most realize.

From the wide-ranging factors judges consider to the pivotal role of judicial discretion, Professor Tang explains why this seemingly simple concept is actually one of the most complex aspects of family law.

Whether you're a parent navigating custody, a legal professional, or just curious about how the courts operate, this episode offers a thoughtful, eye-opening perspective you won't want to miss.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

Where the “best interests of the child” standard originated
Family court considerations of factors related to custody hearings
What judges look at when it comes to a child’s professed wishes
Stephanie answers, “Can a parent request a change to custodial orders over time if they don’t agree with the best interests of children's determination?”
Does the bearing of what a parent wants come into play?

More About Our Special Guest, Stephanie Tang: Stephanie L. Tang is an Assistant Professor of Law at Baylor Law School, teaching Family Law. Before joining Baylor, Professor Tang was a Partner at a family law firm in Chicago, where she specialized in all areas of family law. She obtained multiple certifications as a mediator, fellow with Collaborative Divorce Illinois, and a Certified Financial Litigator with the American Academy for Certified Financial Litigators. Professor Tang received a B.A. in Psychology and Legal Studies with Honors from Northwestern University in 2012. She then graduated from University of Illinois College of Law in 2015, Magna Cum Laude with pro bono notation. Professor Tang is the current Chair of the Illinois State Bar Association Family Law Section Council.

Websites:

Stephanie’s Best Interests of the Child and the Expanding Family article: https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=4390144

Read Stephanie’s other scholarly papers: https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/cf_dev/AbsByAuth.cfm?per_id=2508965

On social media:

Stephanie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephanie-tang/

Stephanie on Instagram: http://instagram/com/FamilyLawProf

Stephanie on Twitter: http://twitter.com/FamilyLawProf

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Divorce Wars: The Craziest Things Couples Have Fought Over on Divorce & Beyond #379

Mon, 31 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie welcomes you back for a jaw-dropping look at the bizarre and unexpected items couples have battled over during divorce. From beloved pets to vintage toys, Susan shares some of the most outrageous courtroom disputes, and yes, the Beanie Babies story is real.

Beneath the shock and laughter lies a deeper truth. Susan breaks down why these petty fights happen and how the emotional toll of divorce can lead even the most level-headed people to dig in over trivial things. More importantly, she shares how you can avoid getting stuck in a similar spiral.

You’ll Discover in This Episode:

The craziest things couples have fought over during divorce
Why self-awareness is key: understanding your emotional triggers can prevent unnecessary conflicts
How respectful dialogue fosters amicable resolutions
Seek professional guidance when necessary: mediators and therapists can provide valuable support during this challenging time
Why knowing your motivations can help you move beyond the battles

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Feeling Angry About Your Divorce? Here’s Why That’s Actually a Good Thing! on Divorce & Beyond #378

Mon, 17 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Anger is a natural part of divorce, but what if it’s not something to suppress or fear, but a tool for healing? This week, Susan Guthrie welcomes psychotherapist, speaker, and author Bronwyn Schweigerdt, host of Angry at the Right Things to speak about why anger is actually a good thing. In fact, Bronwyn believes anger isn’t a problem to fix but a guide leading us toward clarity, boundaries, and emotional freedom.

In this episode, Bronwyn helps us reframe our relationship with anger and how suppressing it can fuel anxiety, depression, and even physical illness. She also shares practical techniques, like the ‘fantasy letter’ exercise, to process anger in a healthy way.

If you’ve ever struggled with anger, your own or an ex’s, we hope this conversation will help you rethink anger and maybe even embrace it as a force for good. Anger can be a tool for healing and self-trust.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

Why anger is a warning light, not a flaw—and how to listen to it.
The hidden impact of suppressed anger on your body.
How building a healthy relationship with anger can transform your emotional well-being.
Boundaries, assertive communication, and accountability can help you move through anger with confidence.

More About Our Special Guest, Bronwyn Schweigerdt: Bronwyn Schweigerdt is a psychotherapist, speaker, author, and host of the podcast Angry at the Right Things. Her approach to anger is powerful, provocative, and life-changing. She believes that anger is not something to be fixed or avoided, but rather a signpost leading us toward clarity, boundaries, and emotional freedom.

Podcast: https://angryattherightthings.com/

Social Media:

https://www.facebook.com/bronwyn.schweigerdt/

https://www.instagram.com/schweigerdtbronwyn/

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How to Spot the Red Flags of Financial Abuse in Divorce with Top Forensic Accountant, Tracy Coenen
Conscious Coupling: Are Pre-Nups the Secret to a Happy Marriage? with Leading Attorney, Monica Mazzei
You Won’t Believe All the Ways that a Private Investigator Can Help You in Your Divorce with the Barefoot P.I., Jan Barefoot

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Discovery Demystified: Why Fact-Finding is the Most Important Step in Your Divorce with Susan Guthrie on Divorce & Beyond #377

Mon, 03 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0600

The discovery process is one of the most critical phases of divorce—it directly impacts your settlement and the final outcome. In this episode, host Susan Guthrie breaks down what discovery is, why it matters, what to expect, and how to prepare for it.

You’ll also hear some of the complex issues that can arise in high-asset cases and the key professionals you may need to bring in to support you along the way. By the end of this episode, you'll have a clearer understanding of how to navigate discovery and why it can be both a powerful tool and a major stumbling block in your divorce.

You’ll Discover in This Episode:

Why discovery is all about transparency—it ensures that both parties have the financial information needed to reach a fair settlement.
How to stay organized and work closely with your attorney to provide accurate and timely responses.
What to do if your case is complex: don’t hesitate to bring in experts to uncover hidden assets or analyze business finances.

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Behind the Scenes in High-Stakes Co-Parenting Cases with Robin Sax on Divorce & Beyond #376

Mon, 24 Feb 2025 05:00:00 -0600

Co-parenting is never easy, but when high stakes are involved—whether due to legal complexities, a history of domestic violence, or deep-seated conflict—it becomes even more challenging. Navigating these situations requires a unique blend of legal expertise and emotional intelligence, and that’s exactly what today’s guest, Robin Sax, brings to the table.

Robin is both an attorney and a clinical therapist, with over 15 years as a prosecutor specializing in domestic violence and child advocacy. Now, she dedicates her career to helping families navigate high-conflict co-parenting situations with a focus on resolution and stability.

In this episode, Robin shares her behind-the-scenes experiences working on some of the toughest co-parenting cases. She offers invaluable insights into the mistakes parents often make in high-conflict situations and how to avoid them. She also breaks down the critical role of communication, revealing common pitfalls and offering practical strategies to foster a healthier co-parenting relationship—even when tensions run high.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

Why co-parenting is a team sport and how the right professionals can help you and your kids thrive.
How your communication style with your co-parent can make or break your case.
The power of the pause—why a delayed response can be the best way to de-escalate conflict.
How self-awareness can transform your co-parenting relationship and create lasting change.

More About Our Special Guest, Robin Sax: Robin Sax is both an attorney and a clinical therapist, offering a truly one-of-a-kind practice that seamlessly blends legal and therapeutic skills. While her legal practice primarily focuses on the criminal justice system, Dear Co-Parent is where Robin’s distinctive approach shines.

Through Dear Co-Parent, Robin serves as a co-parenting therapist, behind-the-scenes coach, mediator, and parenting plan coordinator, helping families navigate high-conflict situations with both legal precision and therapeutic insight. Many professionals transition from law to therapy or vice versa, but Robin uniquely integrates both disciplines at once, providing a holistic, solution-oriented approach to co-parenting challenges.

Robin’s expertise is rooted in more than 15 years as a prosecutor, specializing in domestic violence, child abuse, sexual assault, and stalking. This background gives her a deep understanding of family dynamics, conflict resolution, and the legal complexities that often entangle co-parents. With Dear Co-Parent, Robin doesn’t just mediate—she strategically guides parents toward healthier communication, effective decisionmaking, and sustainable parenting solutions.

Her approach is not just about agreements—it’s about outcomes that truly serve children and families.

Websites:
http://dearcoparent.com, http://robinsax.com

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Insider Tips that Divorce Lawyers Wish Their Clients Knew from Susan Guthrie on Divorce & Beyond #375

Mon, 17 Feb 2025 05:00:00 -0600

Susan Guthrie shares insider tips from her 35+ years of experience to help you work smarter with your attorney—saving time, money, and stress. These are the strategies divorce lawyers wish their clients knew, giving you the knowledge to navigate the process more efficiently and confidently.

In this solo episode, Susan pulls back the curtain on what every divorcing person needs to know—like why your attorney isn’t your therapist (and why treating them like one will cost you big), how to communicate so your lawyer can advocate for you, and why keeping your eyes on the future is the best strategy you can have.

Here Are Just Some of the Insider Tips You’ll Discover in This Episode:

Lean on the right expert for the right job – Your attorney is there for legal strategy, not emotional support.
Clear communication is everything – Your lawyer can’t fight for what they don’t know. Be upfront about your goals and priorities.
Stay future-focused – Where you’re headed matters more than what you’re leaving behind.
A great attorney aims for resolution – Litigation should be the last resort, not the first step.

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Dating Again? Bela Gandhi Answers the Questions You Wish You Could Ask! on Divorce & Beyond #374

Mon, 10 Feb 2025 05:00:00 -0600

If dating after divorce feels like uncharted territory or downright overwhelming, get ready for some game-changing advice. Bela Gandhi is back to answer the questions about dating after divorce that you wish you could ask!

That’s right, Susan Guthrie welcomes back one of your all-time favorite guests—America’s Favorite Dating Coach and the Fairy Godmother of Love herself—Bela Gandhi!

Bela is the founder of Smart Dating Academy and has helped thousands find love after divorce. She’s been featured on Good Morning America, The Today Show, The Kelly Clarkson Show, and more. And here’s something incredible—her clients who have gotten married after working with her? ZERO divorces. That’s right, Bela has cracked the code on finding the right match!

In this special Valentine’s Day week episode, Susan is putting Bela in the hot seat to answer the questions you REALLY want to ask but might be too afraid to. Whether you’re back in the dating pool or just thinking about it, this conversation is full of wisdom, encouragement, and real-world advice to help you navigate love after divorce.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

How to know if you’re actually ready to date again
Whether online dating is a necessary evil or if you can meet someone in real life
The secret to avoiding past relationship mistakes
How to handle intimacy and sex after divorce (without the pressure!)

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Divorce Without the Drama: The Power of Custom Solutions for Families with Charmaine Panko on Divorce & Beyond #373

Mon, 03 Feb 2025 05:00:00 -0600

Susan Guthrie welcomes Charmaine Panko, a King’s Counsel, collaborative lawyer, mediator, arbitrator, and trainer based in Saskatchewan, Canada. Charmaine specializes in helping families navigate separation in a way that preserves relationships, protects children, and creates a strong foundation for the future.

This conversation explores how customized divorce agreements empower individuals to take control, protect their legacy, and prioritize their family’s unique needs. From high-net-worth cases to complex family dynamics, Charmaine shares strategies for making informed decisions that align with personal values.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

One-size-fits is not the only option in divorce
Why self-determination is key to a successful divorce
How tailored agreements benefit children and maintain stability
The impact of timing and emotional readiness in decision-making
Strategies for protecting privacy and legacy in high-stakes divorces

More About Our Special Guest, Charmaine Panko: Charmaine Panko is King's Counsel, a collaborative lawyer, mediator, arbitrator and trainer based in Saskatchewan, Saskatchewan, Canada. She has a passion for transforming how families experience separation and divorce. She also seeks to empower other professionals who work with families to use non-adversarial approaches that have a future focus and recognize that separation is simply a reconfiguration of the family system - it doesn't mean the family is broken. Just because the spousal relationship is ending doesn't meaning the family is.

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The Business of Co-Parenting: How Neuroscience and Mindset Coaching Are Transforming Conflict into Collaboration with Trina Nudson on Divorce & Beyond #372

Mon, 27 Jan 2025 05:00:00 -0600

Susan Guthrie welcomes Trina Nudson, creator of the groundbreaking BeH2O™ program, to explore how neuroscience, business leadership principles, and mindset coaching can be brought together and applied to the concept of co-parenting. For parents immersed in the cycle of conflict, Trina's approach offers a pathway to transform challenging dynamics into collaborative partnerships that benefit their children.

From setting boundaries to embracing accountability and shifting your mindset, this episode is packed with actionable insights for parents navigating the challenges of co-parenting. Whether you're in the midst of a conflict or simply looking for ways to improve communication, this conversation will leave you inspired and empowered to create a healthier dynamic for your family.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

How to use mindset shifts to model positive values for your children
The benefits of treating co-parenting like a business with clear boundaries and accountability
The power of embracing your unique strengths and letting go of resentment
Tools to manage high-conflict situations and stay grounded

More About Our Special Guest, Trina Nudson: Trina Nudson is a dedicated advocate for children and families, committed to safeguarding childhoods and fostering transformative growth. As the founder of THE LAYNE PROJECT, she empowers parents, professionals, and families to navigate the challenges of co-parenting with resilience and purpose through her BeH2O™ program. Grounded in neuroscience, business leadership, and mindset coaching, Trina’s innovative approach inspires lasting mindset shifts and meaningful change.

In addition to her work with THE LAYNE PROJECT, Trina is the owner of My Child Advocate, PA, where she gives children a voice in the courtroom and supports families in creating healthier dynamics. Her work emphasizes gratitude, growth, and the belief that every challenge holds a valuable lesson.

A certified coach and lifelong learner, Trina integrates cutting-edge research into her programs, helping others unlock their potential and remain grounded in their “why.” She is passionate about empowering families and professionals to embrace their journey with clarity and purpose.

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Run Like Hell: Practical Tips as You Start to Break Free from a Toxic Relationship with Dr. Nadine Macaluso on Divorce & Beyond #371

Mon, 20 Jan 2025 05:00:00 -0600

Susan Guthrie welcomes Dr. Nadine Macaluso (Dr. Nae), a renowned therapist specializing in trauma healing, to tackle a transformative topic for January, known as “Divorce Month.” As the real-life inspiration for Naomi in The Wolf of Wall Street, Dr. Nae blends her personal journey of escaping a trauma bond with her professional expertise to help you recognize, escape, and heal from toxic relationships.

This episode offers a roadmap for understanding trauma bonds, preparing your exit safely, and embracing a healthier future. Whether you're just beginning to see the dynamics of your relationship or are ready to take your next steps, Dr. Nae’s practical strategies and insights will empower you to reclaim your life.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

How to prepare to leave safely, the importance of having a strategy, and why “never let them see you coming” matters.
How awareness leads to empowerment by understanding trauma bonds as the first step to breaking them.
The role of trusted professionals, including therapists, attorneys, and divorce coaches, in assembling your wraparound team.

More About Our Special Guest, Dr. Nadine Macaluso: Affectionately known as Dr. Nae, Dr. Nadine Macaluso is a therapist specializing in trauma healing and personal transformation. Her life inspired the character Naomi Belfort in The Wolf of Wall Street. After overcoming personal challenges, she earned a Master's in counseling and a Ph.D. in somatic psychotherapy. Dr. Macaluso helps individuals recover from trauma bonds, C-PTSD, and shame. She is also the author of Run Like Hell: A Therapist's Guide to Recognizing, Escaping, and Healing From Trauma Bonds.

Website: https://drnae.com/

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When Divorce Gets Messy: Why Litigation Is Sometimes the Only Answer with Leading Attorney, Marc Garelick on Divorce & Beyond #370

Mon, 13 Jan 2025 05:00:00 -0600

Susan Guthrie sits down with Marc Garelick, a highly sought-after family law litigator, to explore what happens when a divorce case reaches the point where settlement isn’t possible, and litigation becomes the only path forward. While most divorces avoid the courtroom, situations involving high-conflict personalities, contentious custody disputes, or complex financial matters often require judicial intervention.

Marc brings a strategy-focused, results-driven approach to these challenging cases, sharing invaluable insights on how to prepare, what to expect, and how the right team can make all the difference in high-stakes litigation.

If your case feels stuck or you’re unsure whether litigation is the answer, this episode provides clarity and direction to help you move forward.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

Why 95% of divorce cases settle and what makes the other 5% head to court
The critical importance of strategy in litigation, from evidence preparation to courtroom dynamics
How to identify when litigation is the necessary next step in your divorce
Why working with a skilled litigator can make or break your case

More About Our Special Guest, Marc Garelick: Orange County family law attorney Marc H. Garelick has extensive experience in high-conflict custody, child and spousal support, paternity and complex characterization and valuation proceedings in contentious and sophisticated family law matters. He manages the Orange County law firm office in Irvine.

Website: https://www.molmfamlaw.com/

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Divorce: Day One - What You Need to Know and the Tech That Can Help with Tamara Rowles on Divorce & Beyond #369

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 05:00:00 -0600

Susan Guthrie welcomes accomplished attorney Tamara Rowles, creator of the Divorce Wave app, to discuss navigating the complexities of divorce. As we step into January, often recognized as Divorce Month, this episode dives into what you need to know about riding the waves of divorce, starting with day one.

Tamara introduces vital insights on the initial steps to take when considering a divorce, how to handle the emotions that inevitably come with it, and the tech that can help. Whether you’re contemplating divorce or already in the thick of it, this episode provides actionable advice to help you ride the waves and move toward your beyond.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

Why the tone you set on day one of your divorce journey is crucial
How emotional “waves” impact decision-making and ways to manage them
The Four Noble Truths of Divorce and their role in personal growth
Strategic advice on showing up with clarity, integrity, and empowerment
An overview of the Divorce Wave app and how it supports your journey

More About Our Special Guest, Tamara Rowles: Tamara Rowles, Esq is a licensed attorney, real estate agent, certified mediator, and executive conflict consultant who helps spouses navigate family transitions through her boutique practice Truce Resolutions. She is also the creator and host of the first 24/7 on demand divorce coaching app, Divorce Wave. Tamara is dedicated to helping clients conquer both the legal and emotional challenges of divorce and separation. She "walks the walk" as a collaborative co-parent and mother of two children.

Website: https://divorcewave.com

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Archive Episode: Resolve to Be Happy in the New Year with Steffani LeFevour on Divorce and Beyond

Mon, 30 Dec 2024 05:00:00 -0600

Susan Guthrie welcomes you to the final episode of our special holiday archive series (new episodes will return in early 2025!)! As we gear up for a fresh start in the New Year, today’s episode is all about embracing hope, joy, and a renewed sense of purpose.

This episode features the world’s #1 Happiness Coach, Steffani LeFevour. Steffani, a best-selling author, international speaker, and master of manifesting, shares powerful insights and actionable strategies for creating happiness—even through life’s toughest moments.

Steffani reveals her three steps to finding happiness, her formula for changing your thoughts, and her secrets to manifesting the life you desire. If you’re looking to step into the New Year with a fresh perspective, positivity, and a clear sense of purpose, this is the episode you don’t want to miss!

What You Will Discover in This Episode:

Steffani’s three steps to finding happiness
A powerful formula for changing your thoughts
Secrets to manifesting the life you want
Tips for starting the New Year with a renewed sense of joy and purpose

Read this week's Blog Article: 5 Proven Tips to Make Your New Year’s Resolutions Stick

More About Our Special Guest Steffani LeFevour: Steffani LeFevour is the world’s top Happiness Coach, best-selling author, international speaker, and master at manifesting. She is also a student of quantum physics, an amateur biohacker/athlete/wellness guru, and a wife and mother to two crazy kids.

Her passion is to help women find more daily happiness and custom design a soul-happy life that they’re crazy about. She’s personally crazy about the enneagram, the Byron Katie work, limiting belief work, the law of attraction, manifesting, and creating community. When we get happy, and healthy and own our soul experience, anything truly is possible.

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Archive Episode: Singing Single Bells This Holiday? Surviving the Solitary Season with Jenny Stevens on Divorce and Beyond

Mon, 23 Dec 2024 05:00:00 -0600

If you're singing "Single Bells" this season or just need some tips on how to take better care of yourself during the holiday rush, this episode is for you! Jenny Stevens, founder of Create Change Consultants, shares insights on how to navigate the challenges of the season and make your holidays the best they can be.

As part of our special holiday archive series, we're resharing this episode to help you navigate the season with strength and resilience. If you're feeling the weight of solitude this holiday season, Jenny's advice will help you create a holiday experience that’s filled with joy, meaning, and self-compassion.

What You Will Discover in This Episode:

How to handle feelings of loneliness and find joy during the holidays
Tips for prioritizing self-care and emotional well-being during stressful times
Practical strategies for making the most of the season on your own terms
Ways to set boundaries and manage family expectations during holiday gatherings
Jenny’s advice for cultivating meaningful moments and celebrating yourself

More About Our Special Guest Jenny Stevens: Jenny Stevens is a licensed clinical professional counselor and a Personal and Professional Coach, known for her honest, approachable, and no-nonsense style. With a deep passion for helping others, Jenny empowers her clients to create the changes they've always wanted but didn't have the right roadmap to make happen. Drawing on her extensive background in counseling and coaching, she provides the clarity and tools needed to navigate personal and professional challenges with confidence and ease.

Jenny holds a Master's in Professional Counseling from Argosy Chicago and a B.A. in Health and Fitness Promotion from Texas Christian University. She also completed Mediation Skills Training at Northwestern University and is a licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in the state of Illinois. In 2023, Jenny was honored as a Fellow in Collaborative Divorce, further expanding her expertise in helping individuals through complex life transitions.

With a wealth of experience and a heartfelt commitment to her clients, Jenny is dedicated to helping them achieve lasting transformation and success.

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Archive Episode: Happy Holidays? How Co-Parents Can Avoid Holiday Nightmares with Christina McGhee on Divorce and Beyond

Mon, 16 Dec 2024 05:00:00 -0600

As part of our holiday archive series, we’re revisiting timeless episodes packed with practical tips to make your season less stressful and more joyful.

We’re featuring “Happy Holidays? How Co-Parents Can Avoid Holiday Nightmares” with renowned parenting expert and co-parenting coach Christina McGhee. This episode is full of invaluable advice to help co-parents navigate the holiday season with ease.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

How to set boundaries and manage holiday expectations.
Collaborate with your co-parent to create a joyful experience for your kids.
Focus on what truly matters during this often challenging time of year.

Get ready to embrace a more peaceful holiday season with Christina McGhee’s expert insights.

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More About Our Special Guest, Christine McGhee: Christina McGhee, MSW, is an internationally recognized divorce parenting expert, speaker, and author.

While splitting up is undeniably hard, Christina believes divorce doesn't have to equal devastation for families. She feels with the right kind of information and support, parents can be a child's absolute best resource when families change.

Throughout her career, she has educated parents and professionals on how to minimize the impact of divorce on children. In her book, PARENTING APART: How separated and divorced parents can raise happy and secure kids, Christina offers parents valuable strategies for dealing with the "real-life" everyday challenges of co-parenting.

One of her core beliefs is that divorce doesn't make you a bad parent. It makes you a parent going through a bad time.

Because she is passionate about helping parents get through that bad time, Christina also maintains an active coaching practice that allows her to work with Moms and Dads all over the world.

Christina has also leveraged her broad range of experience to create the unique multidisciplinary Co-Parenting Specialist™ Training Program. It teaches divorce professionals how to use a "child-centered" approach to engage with co-parents more effectively, deepen their understanding of how divorce impacts families, and use that knowledge to help co-parents craft better parenting plans and agreements. SPECIAL OFFER for D&B Listeners: Use Code "SUSAN100" and receive $100 off the cost of registration!

Additionally, Christina offers customized trainings for family lawyers, collaborative professionals, divorce coaches, mental health professionals, and mediators designed to be interactive, engaging, and thought-provoking. Her programs focus on creating a comfortable space for practicing essential skills that maximize learning while providing strategies participants can use right away.

As a content creator of quality resources for separating families, she has contributed to several other media projects as a featured expert, a content consultant, and a writer/producer.

Christina serves as the Education and Training Director for the SPLIT Outreach Project, a non-profit organization that produced SPLIT: The EARLY Years and SPLIT UP: The TEEN Years. These two compelling films let kids know they're not alone while normalizing the many feelings and experiences children and teens encounter when parents part. The SPLIT documentaries also provide a powerful experience and a wealth of insight for separating parents and the professionals who work with them.

Website: https://divorceandchildren.com

Book: Parenting Apart: How Separated and Divorced Parents Can Raise Happy and Secure Kids

Co-Parenting Specialist Program: https://coparentingspecialist.com (Use code "SUSAN100" and receive $100 off the cost of registration!)

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Archive Episode: It’s All About #GettingtheGift with Lisa McGregor on Divorce and Beyond

Mon, 09 Dec 2024 05:00:00 -0600

Feeling the holiday stress while navigating divorce or separation? Susan Guthrie is here to help you find moments of peace and joy with her timeless holiday episodes. This week, she revisits an inspiring conversation with Co-Parenting Coach Lisa McGregor, sharing insights on holiday gift-giving and co-parenting with grace.

In this episode, Lisa shared practical strategies and heartfelt advice on how to help your children celebrate their other parent with a thoughtful gift, even when emotions make it tough. She addressed common co-parenting dilemmas, like what to do if your ex doesn’t reciprocate or refuses to accept gifts.

Her insights are all about putting your child’s needs first, honoring their connection with both parents and creating positive holiday experiences.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

Gift-giving for a co-parent isn’t about you—it’s about supporting your child as they show love and strengthen their relationship with their other parent.
Addressing the “Yeah, buts” that co-parents often face when navigating gift-giving challenges.
Exploring the subtle nuances of helping your children celebrate their other parent—or respecting their decision to skip giving a gift.
Share what you are doing with your kids this holiday season and use the hashtag #Gettingthegift

More About Our Special Guest, Lisa McGregor: Lisa McGregor is a Co-Parenting Coach who is helping women to embrace their new role of part-time parenting. For nearly two decades, Lisa has been motivating women to help them improve their lives by learning to love their bodies through diet and exercise. The first 17 years of her career were spent in the fitness industry, but after going through a divorce in 2017 and struggling to accept this unplanned chapter of part-time parenting, she felt called to show how she was able to embrace this journey and began to see this adjustment as a gift. Lisa quickly garnered a community of women who resonated and were ready to use their co-parenting journey as a catalyst to a richer life. Lisa empowers Moms to leverage their time away to turn less into more. Lisa has shared her story on several podcasts & across multiple social media platforms and helps women put it all into action as a Life & Hypno Breath Work Coach.

Connect with Lisa

Social Media:

http://instagram.com/lisamcgregor.ig

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Prenups and Beyond: The Ultimate Guide to Remarrying After Divorce with Amanda Singer on Divorce & Beyond #368

Mon, 02 Dec 2024 05:00:00 -0600

In this eye-opening episode of Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie welcomes Amanda Singer, a family mediator, California-licensed attorney, CDFA, and founder of West Coast Family Mediation. Together, they explore the complexities of remarrying after divorce, a topic that has surprisingly never been covered on the show before. Whether you're already in a new relationship or still unsure about love after divorce, this conversation is packed with valuable insights that could reshape how you approach your next chapter.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

Why remarrying after divorce requires unique emotional and financial preparation.
The critical role of premarital mediation in fostering stronger partnerships.
How prenuptial agreements can protect your future while building trust.
Key considerations for blending families, including estate planning and alimony.
Expert tips for navigating parenting dynamics in a new marriage.

Take the guesswork out of remarrying with Amanda's expert advice!

More About Our Special Guest, Amanda Singer: Amanda D. Singer, Esq., MDR, CDFA® is a professional family mediator and founder of West Coast Family Mediation. She is a California licensed attorney and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst. Amanda leads West Coast Family Mediation’s team of mediators working with clients all throughout California to help families improve communication, solve problems and reach agreements while staying out of court. In addition to divorce mediation, Amanda has a focus and interest on premarital mediation as well as educating and training others on the benefits of premarital mediation. She was the past Vice President of the Academy of Professional Family Mediators and was the awardee of the 2022 APFM Outstanding Professional Family Mediator Award. Amanda lives in San Diego with her Husband, almost 1-year-old daughter, and rescue dog. They enjoy hiking, cooking and traveling.

Website: http://westcoastfamilymediation.com

Social Media:

https://www.linkedin.com/company/west-coast-family-mediation-center/

https://www.instagram.com/westcoast_mediators/

https://www.facebook.com/westcoastfamilymediation

https://x.com/Divorce_CA

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Beyond the Couch: Unlocking True Healing with a Holistic Approach with Dawn Wiggins, LMFT, on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #367

Mon, 25 Nov 2024 05:00:00 -0600

In this transformative episode of Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie dives deep into the world of holistic healing with special guest Dawn Wiggins, a licensed marriage and family therapist who has reimagined what it means to recover, grow, and thrive. Dawn explains why traditional therapy, while helpful, is often not enough on its own and reveals how her integrative methods address the gaps left by conventional approaches.

What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

Why talk therapy often falls short of creating lasting change.
The limitations of traditional modalities and how to move beyond them.
How a holistic, mind-body-spirit approach can unlock true healing.
The concept of "similar suffering" and its transformative potential in recovery.
Practical tools to break free from old patterns and embrace a new path forward.

Step Beyond the Couch with us in this powerful episode. Listen now and start your journey to true healing!

More About Our Special Guest, Dawn Wiggins: Divorce recovery coach and therapist Dawn Wiggins helps people tear down their walls and build back their confidence. Challenging the status quo of therapy, she integrates multiple modalities from EMDR Therapy to EFT tapping, immersive journaling, and homeopathy, embracing remedies that heal both the mind and body. She also has her own Podcast, Dear Divorce Diary, which has recently been ranked globally as a top 3% show.

Website: https://mycoachdawn.com/divorce-podcast/

Social Media:

https://www.instagram.com/dawnwiggins/

https://www.facebook.com/MyCoachDawn/

Special Free Resource for Listeners:

Dawn is offering her exclusive Post-Divorce Roadmap—a 21-day immersive journaling program—for FREE this holiday season! This resource includes:

Guided journaling prompts to explore and heal.
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A curated musical playlist to support balance and growth.
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Who Keeps the Dog and Other Pet Issues in Divorce with Karis Nafte on Divorce and Beyond #366

Mon, 18 Nov 2024 05:00:00 -0600

Susan Guthrie welcomes Karis Nafte, Pet Custody Mediator and Certified Dog Behavior Consultant, to explore the complexities of pet custody in divorce.

With the legal landscape around pets evolving, the topic of pet custody has become increasingly relevant for divorcing couples. Karis, founder of Who Keeps the Dog?, sheds light on the unique challenges of navigating custody for your furry family members and shares insights from her new book, Who Keeps the Dog: Navigating Pet Custody During Divorce.

In this conversation, Karis explains how divorce can impact your beloved pets and provides practical strategies to ensure their well-being throughout the process.

What You'll Hear:

Why pets are no longer treated as mere property in divorce
How the changing legal landscape impacts pet custody decisions
Key considerations for creating a pet custody agreement
Tips for minimizing stress for your pets during separation

Golden Nuggets:

“ You can't make the decision on the dog's future based on your hurt feelings or your negative emotions. You're not considering your dog. You're not seeing the situation through their eyes. And that's really hard, but you can do it. The most correct decision for the dog is there, if you dig for it.”
“ Your dog will be fine. Dogs are so much more adaptable than we think they are. Don't imagine that your dog will be as upset as you are. I know that's hard to hear. It's harder for us than it is for dogs.”
“ How do we look after our pets during divorce where we're really focusing on what's best for the dog? It's hard to do that when emotions do what they do in divorce.”

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About this week's special guest: Karis Nafte

Karis Nafte is the founder of Who Keeps the Dog, Pet Custody Mediation. A Certified Dog Behaviour Consultant & Accredited Family Mediator, she brings 25 years professional experience as a dog behaviour expert into her work of dogs and divorce. A global pioneer in her work, in addition to seeing her own clients, Karis teaches the first accredited pet custody education course for divorce professionals.

An author with a unique background, Karis has presented on the subject pet custody for the American Bar Association, the Association of Professional Family Mediators, The Ontario Association of Family Mediators, The South Africa Association of Mediators, the Kentucky Bar Association, The Multnomah Bar Association, International Mediation Week and many others. Her work has been featured in the Washington Post, the Associated Press, Scripps News, The New York Post, VICE News, ABC News and Australian Dog Lover Magazine.

Karis’ book: Who Keeps the Dog? Navigating Pet Custody During Divorce

Divorce and Beyond Listeners - Enjoy 10% off Karis’ Pet Custody Course. To get this special offer, simply email karis@whokeepsthedog.com and mention this special Divorce and Beyond promo.

Karis on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karis-nafte-cdbc-b4b9b81a6/

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Going through a divorce is tough, and self-care can easily get overlooked. Something that helped me was creating a cozy space to relax.

I found Parachute Home—bedding and home goods that bring real comfort. Imagine ending your day wrapped in the softest sheets or a warm blanket.

If you're looking to add a bit of peace to your home, visit divorcebeyond.com/parachute. When you shop through my link, it supports the podcast, and I appreciate it.

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold-standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their careers.

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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Secrets from a Top Realtor: Mastering the Real Estate Side of Divorce with Kathy Clark The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #365

Mon, 11 Nov 2024 05:00:00 -0600

Selling or buying a home during a divorce? Susan Guthrie brings in expert realtor Kathy Clark to shed light on the real estate journey for divorcing couples. With 13 years of experience in Southern California’s mortgage and real estate industry, Kathy shares essential strategies for navigating property sales, avoiding common pitfalls, and setting yourself up for a successful transition into your next home.

Kathy’s insights will help you avoid unnecessary stress and find the right realtor to guide you through mastering the real estate side of the divorce process.

Featured Topics:

The unique challenges of selling a home during a divorce, including differing goals with your soon-to-be-ex and when to consider selling
How to find a realtor who genuinely understands divorce and real estate—questions to ask before signing on with anyone
The ins and outs of realtor commissions and what to expect in today’s market
Common mistakes divorcing individuals make when buying a new home—and how to avoid them
Disclosure dilemmas: What to share (or not) with realtors and buyers about your divorce

Golden nuggets:

“Everything has a value and everything has a cost. I encourage people to go into it open-minded and make sure their agent knows what they need.”
“We have a fiduciary responsibility not to share what you don't want to be shared. You tell us ‘It's fine. Go ahead. It's amicable.’ There's got to be an expectation of how you're going to do things. I don't think it serves you well to disclose to everyone that there is a divorce. But I also don't think that you can hide it.”
“Every house is not the same. Finding the right realtor who has the expertise in your particular home is something worth spending a little bit of time on.”

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About this week's special guest: Kathy Clark

Kathy Clark is a long-time Orange County resident with a passion, and career that has been centered on the Southern California Real Estate Industry. First as a homeowner, then investor, both experiences lead her to explore home lending opportunities. With over 13 years in the mortgage industry, Kathy understands the real estate cycles and has adapted to the changing real estate and lending environments. This wisdom allows Kathy to strategize and structure a transaction in a way that allows her clients to meet their real estate needs and portfolio requirements.

Kathy’s experience in the mortgage industry sets her apart with a deep understanding of all facets of the real estate market. As a seasoned broker who has helped clients with numerous “out-of-the-box” purchase transactions, Kathy is committed to presenting the best options to her clients.

Contact Kathy:

Website: https://harcourtsna.com/Blue-Water/agents/Kathy-Clark-Brenna-Van-Hoogenstyn

Phone: (949) 283-2833

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kathy-clark-707a29133/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KathyClarkRealtor

Also mentioned in this episode:
Mortgage Must-Knows for Divorce from Tami Wollensak, CDLP

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Going through a divorce is tough, and self-care can easily get overlooked. Something that helped me was creating a cozy space to relax.

I found Parachute Home—bedding and home goods that bring real comfort. Imagine ending your day wrapped in the softest sheets or a warm blanket.

If you're looking to add a bit of peace to your home, visit divorcebeyond.com/parachute. When you shop through my link, it supports the podcast, and I appreciate it.

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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Making Divorce a Disaster? The Misguided Fight to Repeal No-Fault Divorce with Professor Marcia Zug on Divorce & Beyond #364

Mon, 04 Nov 2024 12:31:59 -0600

Susan Guthrie welcomes special guest Marcia Zug, a family law expert and law professor, to discuss the move to repeal no-fault divorce laws. As reform proposals emerge across several states, this conversation explores what a shift back to fault-based divorce could mean for individuals, families, and the legal system.

Marcia offers insights into the history of no-fault divorce, the forces behind this legislative push, and the potential impacts on personal freedom, safety, and family dynamics. Tune in for an eye-opening look at the fight to preserve no-fault divorce and the disastrous implications for your rights and future.

Featured Topics:

Understanding the difference between fault divorce and no-fault divorce and what each requires
The origins of no-fault divorce laws and how California became the first state to pass them in 1969
The impact of repealing no-fault divorce, including its wider social and political implications
The future of no-fault divorce, the momentum behind repeal efforts, and whether there are movements to protect or expand these laws

Golden nuggets:

“If we want more people to get married, I think they need to understand both what marriage does for them and how it might be beneficial, but also not scare them by locking them into a marriage that they could never get out of.”
“By forcing people to rehash all of the horrible things that have gone on in the marriage, it brings a lot of animosity to the divorce and makes negotiation and compromises much, much harder.”
“ Even though cruelty was grounds for divorce, it wasn't protecting victims of violence in marriages. No-fault was seen as a solution to that. States reluctantly accepted it, not because they liked divorce, but because they recognized that it was needed because divorce to fault grounds was deadly, particularly to women.”

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About this week's special guest: Marcia Zug

Marcia Zug is a Family Law professor at the Jospeh F. Rice School of law at the University of South Carolina. Her latest book, You'll Do: A History of Marrying for Reasons Other than Love explores the instrumental use of marriage and the role of marriage in modern society.

Marcia’s book: You'll Do: A History of Marrying for Reasons Other Than Love

Mentioned in this episode:
Uxoricide / Marticide: When a spouse kills their spouse.
Beyond Divorce: Healing the Invisible Scars of Domestic Abuse with Beverly Price

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Make sure to visit turnsoutpodcast.com and keep an eye out for our launch drop! You won’t want to miss these inspiring stories, and you might even hear some familiar voices.

Stay tuned, and remember, Turns Out... life has so much more in store than we ever imagined!

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Going through a divorce is tough, and self-care can easily get overlooked. Something that helped me was creating a cozy space to relax.

I found Parachute Home—bedding and home goods that bring real comfort. Imagine ending your day wrapped in the softest sheets or a warm blanket.

If you're looking to add a bit of peace to your home, visit divorcebeyond.com/parachute. When you shop through my link, it supports the podcast, and I appreciate it.

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SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!!

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Fighting the Financial Fears of Divorce with Catherine Shanahan and Karen Chellew on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #363

Mon, 28 Oct 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Few things are scarier than finances and divorce. In this special Halloween episode, Susan welcomes back financial experts Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan of My Divorce Solution! Together they offer tips and insights for overcoming your spookiest financial fears during divorce.

This episode dives into where financial fears come from, and how to overcome them and shares cautionary tales with powerful takeaways. You'll learn how taking control of your finances can help you conquer fear and uncertainty, and why it's essential to create a clear financial portrait to help you make important and difficult decisions.

Featured Topics:

The most common financial fears like the fear of letting go (of information, assets, or the financial life you were used to)
Your financial portrait is the centerpiece—knowing the full picture is crucial
Why a team approach to divorce leads to a quicker, smoother, more cost-effective process with less conflict
The power of advocating for yourself and recognizing how your financial choices shape your future

Golden nuggets:

“Turn your fear into focus. That focus becomes on the knowledge that the financial portrait gives to you. That's invaluable and is a life-changing confidence builder.”
“ Getting your financial portrait done ahead of time helps you understand what kind of attorney or what kind of mediator you will hire in the first place.”

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About this week's special guests: Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan

Karen Chellew, Legal Liaison: For over 30 years, Karen has worked in the legal field as a paralegal and business manager. During her career, she served as an affiliated member of the Pennsylvania Bar Association and President Elect of the ALA (Association of Legal Administrators). Karen now serves clients and the professional team in her role as legal liaison. She is also a certified QDRO Administrator, Founder and President of Sisters U Foundation, and an Auditor of East Rockhill Township. As the mom of three children and two granddaughters, Karen is extremely passionate about helping women in all that she does.

Catherine Shanahan, CDFA: After 30 years in the financial industry, having raised five children and endured her own experience with divorce, Catherine became a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) and trained mediator. A Professional Daily Money Manager (PDMM), Catherine is also a member of the Bucks County Collaborative Law Group, American Association of Daily Money Managers (AADMM) the Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts, and the Association of Divorce Financial Planners (ADFP).

My Divorce Solution: https://mydivorcesolution.com/

We Chat Divorce Podcast: https://mydivorcesolution.com/we-chat-divorce-podcast/

My Divorce Solution on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mydivorcesolution

My Divorce Solution on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mydivorcesolution/

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Make sure to visit turnsoutpodcast.com and keep an eye out for our launch drop! You won’t want to miss these inspiring stories, and you might even hear some familiar voices.

Stay tuned, and remember, Turns Out... life has so much more in store than we ever imagined!
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Going through a divorce is tough, and self-care can easily get overlooked. Something that helped me was creating a cozy space to relax.

I found Parachute Home—bedding and home goods that bring real comfort. Imagine ending your day wrapped in the softest sheets or a warm blanket.

If you're looking to add a bit of peace to your home, visit divorcebeyond.com/parachute. When you shop through my link, it supports the podcast, and I appreciate it.

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SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

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Who Let the Dogs Out? A Hilarious and Touching Tale of Dating After Divorce with Jackie Pilossoph on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #362

Mon, 21 Oct 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie welcomes returning guest Jackie Pilossoph, Founder of Divorced Girl Smilin, to share insights from her latest book, Who Let the Dogs Out? a hilarious and heartfelt dive into dating after divorce.

Jackie brings her journey to life, revealing the complexities and joys of dating after divorce. This episode combines humor with profound insights, providing listeners with a realistic yet optimistic view of dating post-divorce. You’ll walk away with actionable advice and a fresh outlook on what it means to find connection again.

Featured Topics:

Jackie breaks down the unique way she uses different dog breeds to describe the men she dated post-divorce.
Self-discovery is the hidden gem in the dating process
how pursuing your passion with like-minded people can lead to meaningful connections—and maybe even love.
Practical advice on how to spot red flags early in a relationship.
Maintaining a sense of self and independence even while navigating the dating world

Golden nuggets:

“When you’re dating - you are really learning about yourself.”
“Even if you stay with the wrong person for too long, you realize later, ‘wow, I deserve better than this.’”

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About this week's special guest: Jackie Pilossoph

Jackie Pilossoph is the creator and editor-in-chief of Divorced Girl Smiling, the media comprises a website, podcast, mobile app, and a list of divorce professionals you can trust! A former broadcast news journalist and features reporter for the Chicago Tribune, Pilossoph was also the author of Love Essentially, her weekly column in the Chicago Tribune. She was also a Huffington Post Divorce Blogger for five years. Pilossoph holds a Masters's degree in journalism from Boston University, and oh, she's divorced.

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Jackie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorced_girl_smiling/

Jackie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jackie-pilossoph-0851814/

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Finding Yourself on the Road: How Solo Travel Can Help You Rebuild After Divorce with Megan Grant of Cherish Tours on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #361

Mon, 14 Oct 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie sits down with Megan Grant, the Founder & Chief Memory Creator of Cherish Tours, to explore the transformative power of travel, especially for those navigating the journey of divorce. Join us as we unpack the many ways solo travel can be a tool for healing and growth.

Megan shares her insights on how travel can positively impact mental health and offers practical tips for those looking to travel solo after a divorce. We’ll discuss how to prioritize travel amidst daily responsibilities, manage stressful travel triggers, and reframe the meaning of solo adventures. Plus, we’ll dive into overcoming decision fatigue to help you plan your next impactful journey.

Tune in for an inspiring conversation that might just spark your next adventure!

Featured Topics:

Travel as a tool for healing: Does it really work?
Managing stressful travel triggers
Prioritizing travel in your daily life
Reframing solo travel and what it could mean for you
Overcoming decision fatigue to create your travel plans

Golden nuggets:

“ You don't have to travel full time or live unconventionally to create a healing experience with travel.”
“ Yes, travel can sometimes be stressful, especially when something doesn't go to plan, but really when you're ripped out of your comfort zone is when you learn the most about yourself and it's a really great way to do a reset.”
“ Solo travel, where it's the most meaningful, is in creating the space for yourself. It's taking and prioritizing the self-care aspects of travel and the healing parts of travel that you can find when you step outside of that comfort zone.”

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About this week's special guest: Megan Grant

Meet Megan, the Founder & Chief Memory Creator for Cherish Tours. With a background in conference planning and a global canvas of world travel experiences, she has become deeply convinced that travel has the power to be transformational, especially for women striving to create a difference in the world. As a dedicated advocate for empowering women globally, Megan's influence extends well beyond her travels to 40 countries, including over 10 solo adventures. Her unique perspective and innovative approach have set her apart, making significant contributions to discussions on sustainable tourism, global women's businesses, the post-pandemic travel surge, women's travel experiences, and travel safety. Megan's experience adds a layer of expertise and vision, making her a compelling voice in the realm of travel and woman empowerment.

Cherish Tours: https://www.gocherishtours.com/

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Cherish Tours on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/cherish-tours-llc

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SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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It’s Time to Swipe Right on a Divorce Financial Professional with Lacy Garcia on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #360

Mon, 07 Oct 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Swipe right to match with your ideal financial pro! In today’s episode, we’re excited to bring you an innovative topic that recognizes the hard part of divorce and makes it easier—gaining financial independence.

Whether navigating divorce or simply looking to take control of your future, our guest Lacy Garcia, Founder & CEO of Willow, introduces a game-changing platform that connects people with trusted fiduciary financial advisors, empowering them to make informed decisions.

Lacy shares her expert insights on finding the right financial advisor and how to safeguard your financial future confidently.

Beyond Divorce: Healing the Invisible Scars of Domestic Abuse with Beverly Price on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #359

Mon, 30 Sep 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Beverly Price reveals the invisible scars that complicate healing during and after divorce for abuse victims in this powerful Domestic Violence Awareness Month episode of Divorce & Beyond.

Susan Guthrie sits down with Beverly Price, a divorce coach and advocate for domestic violence survivors, to uncover the harsh realities of how divorce can re-traumatize victims. Together, they explore how untrained divorce professionals and legal abuse can exacerbate the trauma of domestic violence. Plus, Beverly shares critical advice on creating a safety exit plan, building support systems, and why trauma-informed care is essential.

Alcohol and Divorce: Understanding the Call of the Cocktail with The Hangover Whisperer, Colleen Kachmann on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #358

Mon, 23 Sep 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Divorce and alcohol use disorder often go hand in hand, and in this episode, The Hangover Whisperer herself, Colleen Kachmann, shares her powerful insights on navigating both. With her unique perspective, Colleen offers support to those dealing with disordered drinking during the divorce process, helping listeners understand the deeper emotional roots of overdrinking and how to move toward emotional sobriety.

In This Episode:

The connection between disordered drinking and perfectionism
Recognizing the cycle of overdrinking and how to break free
What emotional sobriety really means—it's not just about quitting alcohol but healing the relationship with yourself

Colleen Kachmann is a Certified Master Life & Recovery Coach using cutting-edge strategies in nervous system regulation, growth mindset, positive psychology, and self-directed neuroplasticity to help women reconnect with a higher sense of purpose so they can feel passionate and powerful again.

Golden Nuggets:

“We all get here because we are doing the best we can with what we think we should be doing.”
“Overdrinking is the symptom of the problem.”
“Emotional sobriety means you’re no longer intoxicated by your own BS—it's about reclaiming the relationship with yourself.”

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About this week's special guests: Colleen Kachmann

Colleen Kachmann is a Certified Master Life & Recovery Coach using cutting-edge strategies in nervous system regulation, growth mindset, positive psychology, and self-directed neuroplasticity to help women reconnect with a higher sense of purpose so they can feel passionate and powerful again.

Colleen founded Recover with Colleen through her own experience with alcoholism and her passion for helping women liberate themselves from the oppressive belief that there is something fundamentally broken or flawed about them so that they can unlock a higher level of purpose, passion, and power.

Colleen holds a Bachelors of Science in education, a Masters of Science in coaching, and a women’s functional and integrative medicine professional certificate.

Colleen’s website: https://www.colleenkachmann.com/

Colleen on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehangoverwhisperer

Colleen on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hangoverwhisperer

Colleen on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RecoverwithColleen

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SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://susaneguthrie.com

Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. If you are a practitioner, professional or entrepreneur, check out Susan's other popular podcast, The Make Money Mediating Podcast, for tips and insights on building and growing the practice of your dreams!

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Members Only Edition: Moving Out: When Should You Leave and Other House Issues in Divorce with Susan Guthrie on Divorce & Beyond

Mon, 16 Sep 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Exclusive Members Only Episode: Moving Out and Handling House Issues in Divorce

In this special Members Only episode, Susan dives deep into one of the biggest and most important topics in divorce—the house. If you and your spouse share a home, whether it’s owned or rented, the decision of when to move out or how to handle the residence is a critical one, with many emotional and legal considerations.

In this episode, you will learn:

The potential risks of moving out of a shared home during divorce—both practical and legal.
How to protect your valuable items and important documents if you leave.
The financial impact of maintaining two households and how it may affect your decisions.
Considerations around children and parenting time when one spouse moves out.
What to do if domestic violence becomes a concern.
Legal implications and questions surrounding home ownership, including whether you can “lose” the home by moving out.
The practicalities and legalities of changing locks or gaining exclusive possession of the marital residence.
How to work with your mediator or attorney to come to agreements that protect your interests.

As a special bonus for listeners, this episode has fewer ad breaks and is focused entirely on giving you the actionable advice you need.

If you’ve enjoyed this special members-only episode and found the information helpful, let me know if there are other topics you’d like to hear me talk about. Divorce is a journey, and I’m here to guide you beyond. Stay tuned for more special episodes coming your way, and be sure to check out the next one on what to do with your house when you jointly own it in a divorce.

Other Episodes About the House to Listen to:

It’s All About the House: What You Need to Think About Before You Decide to Keep It with Tami Wollensak, CDLP

Divorce, Mortgages, and Moving On: What You NEED to Know with Zachary Taylor on Divorce & Beyond

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Mastering Parallel Parenting: Dr. Courtney Evans’ Guide to Surviving High-Conflict Divorce on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #357

Mon, 09 Sep 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Struggling to co-parent in a high-conflict situation? Susan Guthrie is joined by Dr. Courtney Evans to reveal practical strategies that can help you find peace and set healthy boundaries in even the toughest parenting dynamics.

Dr. Courtney Evans is a dedicated divorce and recovery coach with a wealth of experience in managing high-conflict situations. Dr. Courtney shares powerful strategies for reducing conflict, setting healthy boundaries, and protecting your mental health in challenging co-parenting relationships.

Together, Susan and Courtney explore the concept of parallel parenting, when and how to implement it, and practical tips for making the transition smoother for both you and your children. Tune in for valuable insights, personal experiences, and a path to peace beyond the conflict.

Featured topics and Golden Nuggets:

Parallel Parenting: a transformative approach that can help you manage high-conflict situations with greater ease and clarity
“There is no one solution for how to divorce, co-parent or parallel parent or how to recover after. Every situation is unique.”
The difference between counter-parent, co-parent, and parallel parent
Why Courtney likes to refer to parallel parenting as peaceful parenting
How and when to get started with parallel parenting or make the transition

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About this week's special guests: Dr. Courtney Evans

Dr. Courtney is an experienced divorce and co-parenting coach who also holds a DNP. Her two-decade career in the healthcare field has lent to her deep understanding of mental health and the importance of self-care during challenging life transitions.

In 2021, after a traumatic family court journey, she switched gears in her career, determined to turn her experience into a source of healing. She began coursework in Alternate Dispute Resolution strategies. In 2022, Courtney received her Divorce Coach and Recovery Coach certifications from the CDC® International Divorce Coach Certification Program and a specialization in Divorce Conflict from the Divorce Coach Academy®.

Courtney is currently in school working on her MBA as well as continued work in co-parenting and high conflict dispute resolution specializations. She is also currently writing her first book, Uncaged: Redefining Forgiveness out January 13, 2025

Contact Dr. Courtney: TheDivorceCo@gmail.com

Dr. Courtney’s website: www.thedivorceco.org

Dr. Courtney on Instagram: http://instagram.com/thedivorceco

Dr. Courtney on Facebook: http://facebook.com/thedivorceco

Resources mentioned in this episode:

The Parallel Parenting Solution (book)

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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Navigating Conversations with Children About School Shootings with Jenny Stevens on Divorce & Beyond

Fri, 06 Sep 2024 10:47:42 -0500

In this re-released episode, Susan Guthrie revisits an important conversation with Jenny Stevens, originally recorded after the tragic events at Oxford High School in Michigan in December 2021. As communities face similar tragedies, like the recent school shooting at Apalachee High School, the advice and insights Jenny shared remain just as relevant today. This discussion provides essential guidance for parents on how to talk to their children about these harrowing events. Jenny offers her expert advice on managing the conversation around school shootings and helping children process their emotions.

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

Practical steps for initiating conversations about school shootings with children.
Strategies for helping children process their emotions and fears following tragic events.
Insights into the psychological impact of trauma on children and how to address it effectively.
Ways to support children's mental health in the aftermath of a crisis.

Guest Expert: Jenny Stevens, former school counselor and coach, now a dedicated child and family coach. For more information or to connect with Jenny:

Join us in this crucial conversation to better understand and navigate the challenging discussions with our children about violence in schools. Listen, learn, and share this episode to help spread awareness and support for mental health in our communities.

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From the Archive: What You Need to Know About Your Money When You Start a Divorce from Hollis Hardiman, CDFA on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast

Mon, 02 Sep 2024 05:00:00 -0500

We’re reaching into our archives to bring back one of our most popular and insightful episodes featuring Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Hollis Hardiman. This episode has helped countless listeners, and we believe it will be just as valuable to you today!

Divorce can be an emotionally and financially challenging time, and one of the biggest fears many face is the fear of financial instability. In this episode, Hollis shares her top tips for safeguarding your finances if you are considering or currently going through a divorce. With her expertise in financial planning and her personal experience as a child of divorced parents, Hollis brings a compassionate and practical approach to navigating the complexities of divorce finances.

Key Takeaways from the Episode:

Overcoming Financial Fears: Hollis discusses the common fear of "Will I become homeless?" and offers advice on how to secure your financial future, even during this uncertain time.
Avoiding Common Pitfalls: Why relying on friends' divorce stories for financial advice may not be the best idea, and the importance of building a professional support team tailored to your unique situation.
Understanding Your Finances: Learn how to track your spending, understand your lifestyle costs, and take control of your financial situation both during and after your divorce.
Boosting Household Income: Hollis shares her insights on practical steps you can take to increase your income and secure your financial well-being.
Budget Planning Before, During, and After Divorce: Tips on how to create a sustainable budget that adapts to your changing circumstances.

About Hollis Hardiman, CDFA:

Hollis Hardiman is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst specializing in helping individuals navigate major life transitions, including divorce, loss of a spouse, and retirement planning. With certifications in mediation and collaborative divorce, Hollis works closely with clients to help them make informed financial decisions during one of the most challenging times of their lives.

Please Note: Since this is an archive episode, some links and resources mentioned may no longer be available. For the most up-to-date information and resources, please check the show notes below.

Connect with Hollis Hardiman:

Email: hhardiman@meritfa.com
Phone: 203-423-5985
Website: https://www.divorcemediationct.com/

Other Episodes You Might Enjoy:

If you're contemplating divorce or are already in the process, this episode is packed with insights to help you navigate the financial aspects with confidence and clarity. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast to help others find the support and guidance they need!

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Remember: You’re not alone on this journey, and we’re here to help you move through your divorce and onto your bright future!

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Co-Parenting Through the Storm: Coping with Child Illness Post-Divorce with Dr. Stephen Johnston on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #356

Mon, 26 Aug 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie welcomes Dr. Stephen Johnston for a moving conversation about his co-parenting journey, shaped by his son's rare illness and the looming challenge of blindness.

Together with his co-parent, Dr. Johnston has faced the complex realities of their son's condition and the needs of their daughter, all while co-founding A Race Against Blindness Foundation in their quest for a cure. Their remarkable story is not only inspiring but also offers invaluable insights and practical advice for those navigating tough times in their co-parenting adventures.

Tune in for an episode that promises to uplift and equip you with guidance for your co-parenting journey.

Featured topics and Golden Nuggets:

Navigating co-parenting while coping with a child’s illness or diagnosis
Stephen and his co-parent’s journey to co-founding A Race Against Blindness
The effects on extended family or friends in the face of a hard diagnosis
Advice for parents navigating a hard diagnosis, Stephen says, “Focus on your why.”
How we can support A Race Against Blindness

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About this week's special guests: Dr. Stephen Johnston

Stephen Johnston, MD, MBA, is a father, radiologist, non-profit founder, and Ironman athlete. When he found out his nine-year-old son, Luke, was going blind as a result of a rare disease, he founded A Race Against Blindness to fund sight-saving research for his son and thousands of others like him.

Though Stephen is relatively new to the nonprofit world, he’s a man on a mission to raise $1 Million for a clinical trial and taking on challenges like Ironman to raise money and be an example for his son. So far, they’ve raised over six figures, been featured on GoodMorningAmerica.com and the Dan Karaty if I’m Being Honest podcast, and had TV spots in multiple major markets.

Stephen lives outside of Phoenix and spends his spare time training for his next Ironman and traveling with his family to create lifelong sighted memories for Luke.

A Race Against Blindness: https://araceagainstblindness.org

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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From the Archive: Is it Over? Should I Stay? Should I Go? Getting Clarity with Kate Anthony on Divorce & Beyond

Mon, 19 Aug 2024 05:00:00 -0500

In this 'From the Archive' episode of Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie revisits one of the most powerful and popular discussions with the extraordinary Kate Anthony. If you're at a crossroads in your marriage or relationship, this episode is an absolute must-listen.

Kate Anthony is back, right in her wheelhouse, guiding you through one of the most challenging decisions you'll ever face: Is there still hope for your relationship, or is it time to move on? On average, people spend four years agonizing over whether to stay or go. That's four years of wondering, trying, giving up, and trying again. But Kate understands the complexity of this decision, and she’s here to help you navigate it with clarity and confidence.

In this deep and insightful conversation, Susan and Kate explore the emotional and practical aspects of deciding whether to stay in a relationship or move forward. Whether you're dealing with clear signs like abuse, adultery, or addiction, or you're struggling with the slow drip of uncertainty, Kate's wisdom will resonate with you. She not only helps people make this difficult decision but also supports them in crafting a plan for the future if the decision is to go.

If you're questioning the viability of your marriage or relationship, this episode could be the turning point you've been looking for.

About Kate Anthony:

Kate Anthony is the host of the New York Times recommended podcast, The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast, and a divorce coach who helps women (with children, especially) decide if they should stay in or leave their marriages – and then either helps them heal their relationships, or exit with grace. She is also the author of the bestselling book, "The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage"

For the last decade she has worked with hundreds of women all over the world, helping them make the most difficult decision of their lives and transition out of toxic marriages.

Kate is passionate about empowering women to find their strength, passion, and confidence, even in the most disempowering circumstances. She helps them move forward with a solid plan, always keeping their children at the center (but not in the middle) of all their decisions.

In addition to her online programs, Kate works privately with clients around the world. She lives in Los Angeles with her teenage son, whom she lovingly co-parents with her ex-husband, along with their two dogs and a handful of fish.

For more information on Kate’s programs, podcast, and coaching services, visit www.kateanthony.com.

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Betrayed by the System: Family Courts on Trial in New Bestseller by Authors, Amy Polacko and Dr. Christine Cocchiola on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #355

Mon, 12 Aug 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Dr. Christine Cocchiola and Amy Polacko are back, and we couldn't be more excited! These two incredible guests are returning to share insights from their brand-new book, Framed: Women in the Family Court Underworld, now available for pre-order. The book sheds light on the systemic issues within the family court system, particularly how it affects women navigating through cases involving coercive control and post-separation abuse.

In this episode, Amy and Dr. Christine share harrowing real-life stories (straight from their book), highlighting the deep-rooted misogyny and systemic flaws in the current judicial family court process.

Featured topics and Golden Nuggets:

The chilling realities of the family court system: where is the system failing?
Coercive abuse and narcissistic abusers in family court
What is needed to reform the family court system?

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About this week's special guests: Dr. Christine Cocchiola and Amy Polacko

Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW, is a Coercive Control Educator, Researcher, and survivor. She is a tenured college professor teaching social work for the last 20 years. She has been a social justice advocate since 19, volunteering for a local domestic violence/sexual assault agency. Her expertise is in coercive control and the traumatic experiences of adult and child victims, researching and developing training on these topics nationally and internationally.

Amy Polacko is a Freedom Warrior - and is committed to helping women live life on their own terms during/after a toxic relationship or divorce. As a divorced single mom, she is passionate about coaching women one-on-one and founded the empowerment group Strong Savvy Women to provide support, inspiration, and guidance to single women. Amy is also an award-winning journalist who sheds light on women's issues including divorce, domestic abuse, coercive control, and singlehood.

Framed: Women In the Family Court Underworld for more information and workshops!

Framed: Women in the Family Court Underworld on Amazon

Dr. Cocchiola’s website: https://coercivecontrolconsulting.com

Dr. Cocchiola’s Clinician, Attorney, and Coach Training

Amy’s website: https://www.freedomwarrior.info/

Episodes mentioned featuring Amy Polacko and Dr. Christine Cocchiola:

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From the Archive: The Biggest Mistakes People Make When Divorcing a Narcissist with Tracy Malone on Divorce & Beyond

Mon, 05 Aug 2024 05:51:33 -0500

Host Susan Guthrie welcomes back Tracy Malone to discuss some of the mistakes people make when divorcing a narcissist!

Returning guest Tracy Malone is the author of Divorcing Your Narcissist: You Can't Make This Shit Up! Divorcing a narcissist is a hot topic these days, and Tracy’s book is the most comprehensive compilation of tips, insights, case studies, and personal experiences about what it is like to divorce a narcissist.

In this episode, Tracy and Susan explore some of the most common and biggest mistakes made when divorcing a narcissist and share practical advice for avoiding them.

Conversation Golden Nuggets:

The adversarial mindset, “How to BEAT a narcissist” is so harmful. Tracy shares her thoughts on the topic. Instead of “how to fight,” think “how to cope or prepare.”
“Don’t call them a narcissist! It’s going to poke the bear, enrage them more, and set the whole divorce on a different trajectory.”
Check your expectations when it comes to justice in family court and pick your battles!
Make the parenting plan as inclusive as possible and consider the growth of your children.
If you are aware, you can prepare. Plus, why it is important to have a team or support system during your divorce.

Listen to this episode to learn as much as you can about divorcing a narcissist and then move forward with awareness!

About this week's special guest: Tracy Malone

Tracy Malone is an author, speaker, educator, and international emotional resilience coach. She is a surTHRIVER of abuse herself and the founder of Narcissist Abuse Support. Tracy has a popular YouTube channel and podcast that has reached millions of survivors.

Website: narcissistabusesupport.com
Book: DIVORCING YOUR NARCISSIST: You Can't Make This Shit Up!
Red Flag Checklist: Free Red Flag Checklist
Facebook Group: Join the Group
YouTube: Tracy A. Malone
Pinterest: Tracy A. Malone on Pinterest
Twitter: @TracyAMalone
Instagram: @tracyamalone
Podcast: Narcissist Abuse Support

Since this is a replay episode, some of the links mentioned may no longer be valid. Visit the show notes for up-to-date contact information and more. Don't miss this chance to revisit one of our top 10 all-time episodes!

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Don't Let Gray Divorce Ruin Your Finances: The Ultimate Survival Guide with Financial Expert, Jennifer Lee on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #354

Mon, 29 Jul 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Did you know that over one-quarter of divorces in the United States today occur among couples over the age of 50? This is part of the ongoing phenomenon referred to as Gray Divorce.

Susan Guthrie welcomes Financial Expert Jennifer Lee for an enlightening episode on the financial pitfalls of divorcing later in life. Jennifer shares essential strategies to protect yourself and navigate this challenging transition.

Divorcing after building a lifetime together comes with unique challenges and opportunities. Today we'll delve into this trend – why it's happening and what it means for those going through it.

Featured topics and Golden Nuggets:

Some of the major financial hurdles of gray divorce, include asset division, healthcare coverage, and securing retirement savings
Jennifer reveals the importance of the 10-year rule for Social Security Benefits and how it can impact your future
Valuable insights into spousal support and alimony tailored for those navigating divorce later in life
Jennifer introduces her innovative "Love Letter to Your Family" concept, a heartfelt way to communicate your wishes and plans.

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About this week's special guests: Jennifer Lee

Jennifer Lee is the founder of Modern-Wealth, a Sarasota-based financial advising firm helping individuals going through major life events successfully gain control of their finances. She has been in the financial services industry for 26 years; 44 years if you count tagging along with her father to his office. This might not be the norm, but she truly enjoys her work. For her, it’s fulfilling and fun. She enjoys engaging with people, whether they might be experiencing divorce or selling a business, in order to educate and strengthen their relationship with money. Throughout the years of working with clients, she has noticed the growing importance of communicating one's values to the most important people in their lives. This was the driving force for her to write her first book, “Squeeze the Juice: Live With Purpose, then Leave a Legacy.”

Jennifer’s website: https://squeezethejuicebook.com/

Jennifer’s book: https://squeezethejuicebook.com/book/

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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From the Archive: Lying, Cheating and Adultery: How to Heal from Betrayal with the Founder of the PBT Institute, Dr. Debi Silber on Divorce & Beyond

Mon, 22 Jul 2024 05:00:00 -0500

In this special "From the Archive" episode, Susan Guthrie, top family law attorney and mediator, sits down with Dr. Debi Silber, the Founder of the PBT (Post-Betrayal Transformation) Institute, to discuss the trauma caused by betrayal and the path to healing and a better future. Dr. Debi shares her expertise on moving beyond betrayal, the five stages of healing, and offers invaluable tips to start your healing journey.

Highlights from the Episode:

What is betrayal and why is it so devastating?
Why does Dr. Debi say that "even though it happened to you, it's not about you?"
The five stages of betrayal and healing: Where are you?
Three reasons people don't heal from betrayal
How failure to heal can be like an addiction
Top tips to start the healing process

About Our Guest: About Our Guest:

Dr. Debi Silber, Ph.D. is the founder of The PBT® (Post-Betrayal Transformation®) Institute, National Forgiveness Day, and runs a WBENC-Certified WBE company. A holistic psychologist and personal development expert, she authored Trust Again and The Rebuild Roadmap, and hosts the globally ranked podcast From Betrayal to Breakthrough. Her Ph.D. study on betrayal has made groundbreaking discoveries, and she’s dedicated to helping people overcome betrayal and other blocks to achieve health, happiness, and success.

Important Links and Resources:

Dr. Debi Silber's TEDx Talk: Do You Have Post-Betrayal Syndrome?
Take the "Do You Have Post Betrayal Syndrome Quiz": PBT Institute Quiz - Discover if you have PBS, what stage you are in, and receive tips for healing by email.
The PBT (Post-Betrayal Transformation) Institute: PBTInstitute.com

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The Perils of Playing House with Leading Attorney, Susan Myres on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #353

Mon, 15 Jul 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie welcomes leading matrimonial attorney Susan Myres to the show, where she shares the potential pitfalls and legal issues you may face when cohabiting before or instead of getting married.

Together they explore the legal challenges couples face when living together, including property rights, financial agreements, and child custody issues. You’ll hear why education, planning, and potential cohabitation agreements are important and can mitigate the 'perils of playing house.'

Featured topics and Golden Nuggets:

The legal implications of “playing house”
Financial and property considerations: “When romance is involved, we forget to take care of business.”
Without divorce proceedings, you don’t have immediate rights to child support (you will have to go to court) and if you are a father, you may have a harder time fighting for parental access rights
“You can fix most of these perils if you plan ahead.”

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About this week's special guests: Susan Myres

Susan Myres is a distinguished family law attorney with over 30 years of experience in the field. She has made significant contributions to the legal community, notably serving as a past president of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML). Susan is currently practicing law in Houston, Texas, where she continues to provide expert legal services and guidance.

Website: https://www.thehoustondivorcefirm.com/

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susan-myres/

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Susan works with a select clientele of legal and dispute resolution professionals to support them in establishing and growing a successful practice and regularly speaks and trains at industry events around the world. To find out how to work with Susan or have her speak at your event, visit https://susaneguthrie.com

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From the Archive: Understanding Post-Separation Abuse with Dr. Christine Cocchiola on Divorce & Beyond

Thu, 11 Jul 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Diving back into the archive for a replay of Part Two of our special two-part episode with Dr. Christine Cocchiola, a leading expert in Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) that delves into some of the most insidious forms of abuse: coercive control and post-separation abuse.

In part two of this special two-part episode on Domestic Abuse, we delve deeper into a form of intimate partner violence (IPV) that's gaining attention in the media through high-profile cases like those of Kim Kardashian and Kanye West, and Johnny Depp and Amber Heard: Post-Separation Abuse. Dr. Christine Cocchiola, a survivor and advocate, returns to further our understanding of this often covert and insidious form of abuse. While physical abuse is more overt and recognizable, Post-Separation Abuse encompasses tactics of coercive control and emotional manipulation that can continue to affect victims long after a relationship has ended. In part one, Dr. Cocchiola explored coercive control extensively. Now, she educates us on the varied manifestations of Post-Separation Abuse and highlights its dangers, emphasizing the need for awareness and support for those trapped in this destructive cycle.

*** One note, as this is an archive episode, some of the links in the episode may have changed or no longer be in use. For more information on Dr. Christine, visit her website at https://www.coercivecontrolconsulting.com/ ***

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About this week's special guest:

Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, a Coercive Control Advocate, Educator, Researcher, & Survivor has been dedicated to the field of intimate partner violence since her late teens, beginning her career at a local umbrella agency where she continues to volunteer. Dr. Cocchiola is a tenured professor at a Connecticut Community College and an adjunct instructor at NYU, teaching in the Social Work field for over 20 years. Her expertise is in the areas of intimate partner violence including child abuse and trauma, developing and presenting workshops on these topics, both nationally and internationally. She is a Founding Member of the International Coercive Control Conference and on the Board of the National Coalition Against Domestic. Dr. Cocchiola has a small private practice serving individuals and families.

Additional Resources from Dr. Christine Cocchiola:

Ms. Magazine quoted: https://msmagazine.com/2021/10/29/maid-netflix-review-emotional-abuse-coercive-control-domestic-violence/

Co-authored an article on Psychology Today:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/invisible-chains/202201/its-post-separation-legal-abuse-not-high-conflict-divorce

Co-authored an article on Domestic Shelters.org:
https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/post-separation-abuse-harms-children

Find our more about Dr. Christine Cocchiola at https://coercivecontrolconsulting.com

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From the Archive: Understanding Coercive Control with Dr. Christine Cocchiola on Divorce & Beyond

Mon, 08 Jul 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Diving back into the archive for a replay of our special two-part episode with Dr. Christine Cocchiola, a leading expert in Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) that delves into some of the most insidious forms of abuse: coercive control and post-separation abuse.

Abuse between intimate partners comes in many forms. All are destructive, but some are so insidious and pervasive that they are incredibly common, yet vastly unknown by the public and often, in fact, by the victims themselves. With physical violence and abuse, it is very easy to identify that behavior is abusive, but when it comes to coercive control and emotional abuse, it is much harder to identify. Dr. Christine Cocchiola, a survivor herself, is dedicated to educating, supporting and advocating for others suffering in this horrible cycle of abuse. In this episode, you will learn the signs to look for when coercive control is an issue, strategies to extricate yourself and what we as a society need to do to protect victims and stop abusers.

Return on Thursday for Part Two where Dr. Cocchiola discusses the increasing awareness of another form of IPV, Post-Separation Abuse, which is increasingly in the headlines with the ongoing high profile cases of Kim Kardashion and Kanye West and the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard trial.

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About this week's special guest:

Additional Resources from Dr. Christine Cocchiola:

Ms. Magazine quoted: https://msmagazine.com/2021/10/29/maid-netflix-review-emotional-abuse-coercive-control-domestic-violence/

Co-authored an article on Psychology Today:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/invisible-chains/202201/its-post-separation-legal-abuse-not-high-conflict-divorce

Co-authored an article on Domestic Shelters.org:
https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/children-and-domestic-violence/post-separation-abuse-harms-children

Find our more about Dr. Christine Cocchiola at https://coercivecontrolconsulting.com

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It’s Time to Become a Boundary Badass and Change Your Life with Jan and Jillian Yuhas on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #352

Mon, 01 Jul 2024 05:53:57 -0500

Susan Guthrie welcomes Jan and Jillian Yuhas, identical twins, relationship and conflict resolution consultants and co-authors of the book 'Boundary Badass.' Jan and Jillian have a knack for explaining the value of becoming a boundary badass and how to do that in a format we can all process.

In this episode, they discuss their book, methods for setting effective boundaries in various relationships, and delve into how these strategies can specifically help those going through divorce or difficult co-parenting situations.

The episode also explores the importance of collaborative boundary-setting, dealing with high-conflict individuals, and the emotional regulation needed to set and maintain boundaries.

Listen so you too can unlock the power of clear boundaries and learn practical steps to become a boundary badass in an easy-to-understand way.

Featured topics and Golden Nuggets:

Why you need to be a boundary badass and unlock the power of personal limits
When boundaries erode and why setting them is a critical skill
Boundaries vs. ultimatums and understanding the key differences
Recognizing the right time to set boundaries
Navigating divorce and the essential boundaries you need
Collaborative boundary-setting and how to make it work with Jan and Jillian’s acronym: ASAP
Dealing with boundary breakers and what to do when agreements aren’t honored
The fluid nature of boundaries and embracing continuous adaptation

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About this week's special guests: Jan and Jillian Yuhas

Jan Yuhas, M.A., MFT and Jillian Yuhas, M.A., MFT are Relationship, Boundary and Conflict Resolution Consultants, and international best-selling authors of Boundary Badass: A Powerful Method For Elevating Your Value and Relationships. Jan and Jillian have coached highly ambitious executives, companies, and families for more than a decade on building stronger relationships, developing leadership growth, and mastering the art of setting boundaries both personally and professionally. Packed with practical advice and techniques, individuals can navigate challenging conversations with ease and cultivate relationship alignment – with family, romantic partners, colleagues, friends, and more. Their collective wisdom and Boundary Badass Method will create a path toward unlocking success in personal and professional

relationships.

Jan and Jillian’s websites:
JanandJillian.com
DivorceFamilyMediations.com

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Jan and Jillian on Instagram:
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@janandjillian

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From the Archive: What You NEED to Know About Child Support with Top Attorney, Eric Broder on Divorce & Beyond

Mon, 24 Jun 2024 05:00:00 -0500

This week we dive back into one of our most informative discussions from the archives. Join Susan and leading family law attorney Eric Broder as they explore the essentials of child support. Whether you are just beginning your divorce journey or are revisiting child support arrangements, this episode provides crucial insights and advice.

Episode Highlights:

Understanding Child Support: Eric clarifies common misconceptions about what child support actually covers.
Calculating Child Support: Discover how child support is determined based on income rather than cost of living.
Modifiability of Child Support: Learn why and how child support agreements should be adaptable to changes in circumstances.
The Role of Co-Parenting: Eric discusses the benefits of cooperative co-parenting in managing child support and additional expenses like extracurricular activities and educational costs.
Legal Expertise: Gain insights from Eric Broder, a highly respected family law attorney with a track record of providing accessible and effective legal guidance.

Special Guest: Eric J. Broder, Co-Founding Member and Partner at Broder Orland Murray & DeMattie LLC, renowned for his expertise in family law and his dedication to client advocacy.

Resources Mentioned:

Note to Listeners: Since this is a replay of an archive episode, some links may be outdated. For current resources and support, please visit our website at divorceandbeyondpod.com or contact us at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

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Finding Happiness and Purpose as a Mom Who Dares with Jodi Silverman on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #351

Mon, 17 Jun 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie welcomes coach and speaker, Jodi Silverman to the show! Jodi and Susan get to the heart of finding happiness, even when life throws you a curveball.

If you have ever said, “I want to be happy…” but are unsure where to start or don’t really know what it means to be happy for no reason - Jodi has a wealth of insights to share. Jodi has helped thousands of women navigate midlife transitions allowing them to find meaning and fulfillment once again. She has a unique ability to see the gifts even in the messiest of life’s moments.

Tune in to discover practical insights and strategies from Jodi Silverman on finding happiness even in life's toughest moments!

Featured topics and Golden Nuggets:

What it means to be happy for no reason
Your Happiness Set Point - what is it, exactly?
Amazing strategies for raising your Happiness Set Point
A reminder: “You can be angry AND happy.”

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About this week's special guest: Jodi Silverman

Jodi Silverman is a community builder, a mentor, and a coach teaching women how to discover purpose, meaning, and fulfillment during life transitions such as empty nest and midlife.

Jodi believes that “Living Your Daring Life,” challenging oneself outside of their comfort zones, is the most direct route to fulfillment.

Through her public speaking, the Moms Who Dare Membership Community, and her Podcast (Beyond Empty Nest™), Jodi has helped thousands of women navigate midlife transitions allowing them to find meaning and fulfillment once again. She has a unique ability to see the gifts even in the messiest of life’s moments.

With a 20-year track record of transforming ideas into success, Jodi brings her positive high vibes where she challenges women to DARE ON®.

When Jodi is not teaching women how to navigate their ever-changing role of mom in their children’s lives, building their resilience, and finding true inner happiness, she’s hanging out with family, friends, and kicking butt on the tennis court.

Jodi’s website: https://jodisilverman.com

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From the Archive: Your Survival Guide to Co-Parenting with a Narcissist or Other High Conflict Personality with Megan Hunter on Divorce & Beyond

Mon, 10 Jun 2024 05:00:00 -0500

In this special replay episode from the Divorce & Beyond Archives, Susan visits with the CEO of the High Conflict Institute, Megan Hunter, to hear her top tips and insights on co-parenting with a Narcissist or other High Conflict Personality! This is the #3 most listened to episode of all time - for a reason!

Divorce is hard under the best of circumstances, but for most people, it will come to an end and their lives will smooth out and they will go forward with their lives and even co-parent peacefully for the most part, but then there are the high conflict cases. The ones where your ex tries to turn the kids against you, drags you back to court every other week and continues to cause chaos and havoc in your life no matter how long ago the divorce was finalized. How do you survive that High-Conflict Co-Parenting paradigm and more importantly, how do you help your kids through it all?

Megan Hunter, the CEO of The High Conflict Institute with Co-Founder, Bill Eddy, is here to help with her book: The High-Conflict Co-Parenting Survival Guide! Megan shares invaluable advice and practical strategies on ways to manage your anger, stress, fear and worry as you continue to have to maintain a co-parenting relationship with a narcissist or other high conflict person. Listen to this episode and you WILL have HOPE and a game-plan for the future!

*** Please Note: As this is an episode from the archives that originally aired in 2021, some of the information and links mentioned in the episode may no longer be in use. Please visit the Divorce & Beyond website at https://divorceandbeyondpod.com for more information.

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More Information About This Week's Special Guest:

Megan Hunter is The High Conflict Institute's co-founder, Chief Executive Officer and Vice President. As an expert on high conflict disputes and complicated relationships, she has facilitated hundreds of seminars across the U.S. and in seven countries. She provides dynamic keynote presentations based on the concept. She has over 13 years of experience as the Family Law Specialist with the Arizona Supreme Court, and Child Support Manager of the Dawes County Attorney’s Office in Nebraska. She is the founder and publisher of Unhooked Books and has written five books on high conflict situations and people in dating, in the workplace, in the church, at home.

Contact Megan Hunter:

Website www.highconflictinstitute.com www.unhookedmedia.com
Social Media Handles @highconflictinstitute - Instagram

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How to Shut Down the Adult Bullies in Your Life with Bill Eddy on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #350

Mon, 03 Jun 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Susan welcomes back the world’s leading expert on managing high-conflict behaviors, Bill Eddy! Bill shares insights from his newest book, Our New World of Adult Bullies: How to Spot Them ― How to Stop Them.

In this episode, Susan and Bill explore the different forms of bullying, the underlying causes, practical strategies for dealing with bullies, and the role of empathy and communication in resolving these challenging situations. Bullying is happening in almost every area of our lives - whether you have a friend or family member experiencing bullying or have witnessed it in the workplace, this conversation (and Bill’s new book) is essential in helping you shut down these troubling behaviors.

Featured topics and Golden Nuggets:

Why is adult bullying so prevalent today?
Some of the characteristics of bullying behavior
Bill answers, “Are there different types of bullies?”
“When you see polarization, look for a bully.”
Strategies to manage and protect yourself from adult bullies
The real-world consequences of being an adult bull

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About this week's special guest: Bill Eddy

Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq. is the co-founder and Chief Innovation Officer. While pioneering High Conflict Personality Theory (HCP), he was the National Conflict Resolution Center’s Senior Family Mediator for 15 years, a Certified Family Law Specialist for 15 years, and a licensed clinical social worker therapist for over 12 years.

Bill serves on the faculty of the Straus Institute for Dispute Resolution at the Pepperdine University School of Law and is a Conjoint Associate Professor with the University of Newcastle Law School in Australia. He has been a speaker and trainer in over 35 U.S. states and 13 countries. The author or co-author of over 20 books, manuals, and workbooks, he also has a popular blog on the Psychology Today website with over 6 million views.

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WTF is Wrong with Me? The Top 5 Signs You Need a Coach with Jenny Stevens on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #349

Mon, 27 May 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie welcomes back the Champion of Change, Jenny Stevens! Jenny shares her top 5 signs that you need a coach! If you know something needs to change but can’t pinpoint WTF is wrong - tune into this episode for some insight on how working with a coach might just be what you need to motivate you to move forward.

Susan and Jenny explore the power of change, the pitfalls of staying stuck, and the benefits of coaching. Jenny also shares her journey through significant life events, including battling cancer and loss, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and choosing joy.

Featured Topics and Some Signs You Need a Coach

You’re stuck and unable to see a way out
The four things people want more of and how a coach can help
Prioritizing non-negotiables and seeking accountability
When it is time to let toxic people in your life go

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About this week's special guest: Jenny Stevens

Jenny Stevens is a licensed clinical counselor turned personal, professional, and divorce coach, specializing in moving through change positively. If you are seeking an energetic expert who can speak about managing change with positivity and personal experience, she is your gal.

Website: http://www.jennystevenscoach.com

Jenny on Instagram: http://instagram.com/jennystevens_coach

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Women and Money: The Struggle is Real with Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #348

Mon, 20 May 2024 05:00:00 -0500

In this episode of Divorce and Beyond, host Susan Guthrie chats with financial expert Rhonda Noordyk about the financial hurdles women often encounter during and after a divorce. They dive into why financial literacy and empowerment are crucial for women to navigate divorce settlements smoothly. The conversation also highlights the importance of having a solid support team, the benefits of financial education, and how strategic decision-making can significantly impact divorce financial results.

Listen to Rhonda Noordyk about how changing your relationship with money can drastically improve your divorce outcome!

Featured topics and Golden Nuggets

Why women seem to struggle with money and finances
The formula for gaining financial confidence
Navigating through financial transparency and decision-making
Rhonda shares the acronym DAM and how these methods impact women’s financial decisions in divorce.
You can never have enough options, even if you need to bring in financial professionals to help guide you.

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About this week's special guest: Rhonda Noordyk

Rhonda is the Founder and CEO and the driving force behind The Women's Financial Wellness Center, where she leads with passion and purpose in empowering women through financial education and support.

As podcast host of Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women, Rhonda brings her expertise and engaging style to discuss topics ranging from overcoming a poverty mindset to navigating financial challenges during divorce.

Rhonda is also a dynamic speaker known for her ability to connect with audiences and provide actionable insights on topics such as financial authenticity and overcoming financial bullying.

Coming soon! Rhonda's new money journal presents an excellent opportunity for collaboration. She's eager to share insights from her journal and discuss actionable strategies to empower women on their financial journey.

Women’s Financial Wellness Center https://wfwcdivorce.com/

Rhonda on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rhonda.noordyk

Rhonda on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rhondanoordyk/

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In this jam-packed, 1-hour session, you will learn the following:

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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You Gotta Let That Sh** Go – But Do You Really? with Jill Sherer Murray on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #347

Mon, 13 May 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Today, embark on a transformative journey with returning guest, Best-Selling Author, TEDx superstar, and Letting Go Expert Jill Sherer Murray. Join Susan and Jill as they explore invaluable insights on what you do and don’t need to let go of before, during, and after your divorce. Most importantly, they discuss how to begin this empowering process.

Featured topics and Golden Nuggets

Letting go is not easy; it’s a process.
Jill shares four stages of the letting go process.
“We get to decide what we keep or what we release.”

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About this week's special guest: Jill Sherer Murray

Jill Sherer Murray is a TEDx speaker, author, influencer, blogger, and coach. She is also the founder of Let Go For It℠ to help women let go of what’s holding them back - so they can have the big wild life that’s waiting for them out there.

Jill is an award-winning journalist and communications leader. Practically every success in her career, love life, and more can be traced to "letting go".

Jill’s website: https://www.letgoforit.com/

Jill’s TEDx Talk: The Unstoppable Power of Letting Go

Jill’s book, Big Wild Love

Jill on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/letgoforit

Jill on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/letgoforit

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In this jam-packed, 1-hour session, you will learn the following:

The Outer Journey: A - Z on what to expect through the 5 Phases of the divorce journey
The Inner Journey: The many ways THEY react and behave will create more chaos and conflict, and a more strategic approach that will increase their effectiveness.
A Key Inner Strategy: How to immediately begin calming the chaos and conflict at home.

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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Is 50/50 Custody the Secret to Happier Kids and Less Stressed Parents After Divorce with Author Emma Johnson on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #346

Mon, 06 May 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie welcomes author Emma Thompson for a compelling conversation about parenting and divorce. Emma sheds light on her groundbreaking efforts in advocating for equal parenting as the best solution for families navigating divorce and separation.

Emma is also the founder of Wealthysinglemommy.com and author of 'The 50/50 Solution', a book that champions equal parenting time. We explore how this model benefits children and transforms parents' roles and responsibilities. Stay tuned as we uncover the transformative power of 50/50 custody!

Featured topics and Golden Nuggets

Why equal-shared parenting is still perceived as new and revolutionary
“Equal parenting, 50/50 schedules, are in the best interest of the children.”
What the research says about the benefits of equal parenting to mothers (like: these mothers actually earn more!)
You have to give your co-parent the room to learn and fail
“The spirit of 50/50 custody”
The benefits to children when it comes to equal parenting time.

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About this week's special guest: Emma Johnson

Emma Johnson is a business journalist, gender equality activist and founder of Wealthysinglemommy. A former newspaper and Associated Press reporter, Emma has been featured as an expert on separated families for The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Elle, CNBC, NPR, TIME, O, The Oprah Magazine, The Doctors, and many more.

As an activist, Emma promotes equal parenting for separated families through the production of media projects, authoring The 50/50 Solution and speaking to groups, including at the United Nations Summit for Gender Equality, at Google and before state legislative bodies.

Emma lives in Richmond, Va., with her son and daughter.

Emma’s book The 50/50 Solution: The Surprisingly Simple Choice that Makes Moms, Dads, and Kids Happier and Healthier after a Split

Emma on Twitter: http://twitter.com/johnsonemma

Emma on Facebook: http://facebook.com/momsforsharedparenting

Moms for Shared Parenting: http://momsforsharedparenting.org

Divorce and Beyond Episodes mentioned:

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The Impact of Divorce on Kids: Insights from the New Film, Split Up: The Teen Years with Christina McGhee and Ellen Bruno

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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Learning to Thrive Beyond Divorce: A Conversation with Marsha Jacobson on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #345

Mon, 29 Apr 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie welcomes Marsha Jacobson, author of The Wrong Calamity, to share her top tips for thriving through and beyond your divorce.

Marsha Jacobson is an esteemed author, teacher, and writing coach. In this episode, she shares her personal journey through two vastly different marriages and divorces and how these experiences shaped her path to recovery and self-discovery. She also shares invaluable insights from her book, The Wrong Calamity, discussing the transformative power of self-communication, the importance of intentional transitions, and innovative strategies for personal growth post-divorce.

This episode offers hope, empowerment, and practical advice for anyone navigating the aftermath of divorce, reaffirming that thriving beyond divorce is possible and within reach.

Featured topics and Golden Nuggets

Marsha shares openly about her two vastly different divorce experiences, and we also discuss the power of sharing our experiences
The power of self-communication and intentional transitions
Some of the insightful and poignant ways in which Marsha took small steps towards thriving after divorce included tiny experiments and crafting personal newspaper headlines

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About this week's special guest: Marsha Jacobson

Marsha Jacobson lives in New York City and is an author, teacher, and writing coach. Her work has appeared in the New York Times; the Visible Ink anthology; and the flash fiction anthology, For Sale: Baby Shoes, Never Worn. Her memoir, The Wrong Calamity, is her debut book. Previously, she was an executive in corporations and nonprofits and a consultant to nonprofits.

Marsha’s website: http://www.marshajacobsonauthor.com

Marsha on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marshajacobsonauthor/

Marsha on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marshajacobsonauthor

Resources for listeners from Marsha:

Out of the Storm podcast - https://www.outofthestorm.website
Kenwood Psychological Services – kenwoodpsych.com
Heartbreak, A Personal and Scientific Journey, by Florence Williams

Giveaways for listeners

Free Kindle-version of The Wrong Calamity, A Memoir, to the first 10 listeners who request one. Contact Marsha through her website, marshajacobsonauthor.com, and mention the Divorce & Beyond podcast.

Marsha will virtually join the bookclub discussion of The Wrong Calamity, A Memoir, for the first 20 listeners who request one. Contact Marsha through her website, marshajacobsonauthor.com, and mention the Divorce & Beyond podcast.

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Not only can you enjoy our episodes on Audible, but also a wide selection of books authored by our expert guests, like Christina McGhee's 'Parenting Apart' and Bill Eddy's 'BIFF' and 'Splitting.'

Say 'Alexa, play The Divorce & Beyond Podcast' and start listening to the podcast on your Amazon-Alexa-supported device!

Check out Divorce and Beyond’s recommended reading. And explore a world of audiobooks and music on Audible for a whole month, absolutely free!

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

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Divorce Reimagined: How Hello Divorce Has Disrupted the Divorce Industry for the Better with Founder and CEO Erin Levine on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #344

Mon, 22 Apr 2024 05:00:00 -0500

This week on the Divorce and Beyond podcast, Susan Guthrie welcomes back Erin Levine! Erin is the visionary Legal Tech Innovator and Divorce Disruptor behind Hello Divorce. Erin shares her insights on how Hello Divorce transforms the divorce landscape through innovative technology and personalized support and simplifies the divorce process, empowering individuals to navigate their journey with confidence and clarity.

Tune in for an enlightening discussion on how Hello Divorce is paving the way for a brighter, more empowering future beyond divorce.

Featured topics and Golden Nuggets

How Hello Divorce offers a fresh approach to divorce, diverging from the adversarial industry norms.
Erin explains how tools and services help individuals simplify and demystify divorce proceedings
Make informed decisions about your marital home during divorce using specialized tools and calculators.
Hello Divorce saves users nearly $13,000 on average compared to traditional divorce proceedings, ensuring a more secure transition into the next phase of life.

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About this week's special guest: Erin Levine

Erin Levine is the Founder and CEO of Hello Divorce. After 16 years as a divorce attorney; Erin knows just how broken, toxic, wildly inefficient and unreasonably expensive the family law system is. Erin set out to revolutionize how consumers interact with the law and provide a kinder, easier and cheaper pathway to divorce. Erin’s access to justice work has been recognized by the legal industry and beyond, with awards and recognition from the likes of Women Founders Network, TechCrunch, Vice, Forbes and the American Bar Association.

Hello Divorce website: https://hellodivorce.com/

Hello Divorce on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hellodivorce/

HomeSplit: http://hellodivorce.com/home

Divorce and Beyond Episodes referenced in this episode:

The FYI on DIY Divorce from the Founder and CEO of Hello Divorce, Erin Levine

Mortgage Must-Knows for Divorce from Tami Wollensak, CDLP

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

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From Married at 16 to the C-Suite in Private Equity: The Keys to Financial Independence with Marika Dzhindhikashvili on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #343

Mon, 15 Apr 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie welcomes Marika Dzhindzhikashvili as she shares her journey from marriage at 16 to a divorced single mom of 2 at 21 to the COO of a $2 plus billion dollar private equity fund. Marika’s journey to financial independence will inspire you.

Marika's story is not just about overcoming adversity but is a testament to the power of perseverance, self-belief, and the importance of financial independence. She shares her experience and discusses her initiative to empower other women through financial education.

This is the kind of “wind beneath my wings” episode we love listeners to hear!

Featured topics and Golden Nuggets

Changing from believing you are incapable to being grateful and believing in yourself.
Marika shares her experience with overcoming adversity and how being drawn to successful people helped her succeed, too.
The role of financial independence, empowerment, and investing in yourself.

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About this week's special guest: Marika Dzhindzhikashvili

Marika Dzhindzhikashvili is a seasoned business development and investor relations professional with a focus on spearheading project origination and Capital Raise at Astor Realty Capital. As the firm’s COO, Ms. Dzhindzhikashvili oversees global investor relations, building and maintaining relationships with corporate and institutional investors while facilitating transparency and information flow between Astor and its institutional clients.

Ms. Dzhindzhikashvili has developed a deep understanding of both domestic and international market dynamics, as well as an extensive network of industry contacts. She is dedicated to creating value for clients by providing customized and comprehensive solutions that help them achieve their business objectives.

Ms. Dzhindzhikashvili is a results-oriented professional with a proven track record of success in business development, investor relations, project management, and team leadership. She possesses a unique combination of strategic thinking and hands-on operational expertise, enabling her to identify opportunities and deliver successful outcomes for Astor and its clients.

Marika on Instagram:

Marika on LinkedIn:
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Email Marika:
marika(at)astorrealtycapital.com

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

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Leading with Light: Making Divorce an Opportunity Part Two with Jennifer Mulholland and Jeff Shuck on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #342

Thu, 11 Apr 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Part 2: Navigating Life's Transitions with 'Leading with Light'

In the second part of our transformative discussion, we continue our exploration into the profound impact of divorce on personal growth and conscious leadership with Jennifer Mulholland and Jeff Shuck. Building on the foundations laid in Part 1, we dive deeper into the 'Four Lights of Conscious Leadership', sharing personal stories and practical advice for anyone on the path of self-improvement and seeking to lead with light through life's transitions.

As we conclude our journey with Jennifer and Jeff, let's carry forward the message that life's challenges, including divorce, can be powerful opportunities for growth and transformation. If you found value in our conversation, please rate, follow, share, and leave a review for our podcast. Your support helps us illuminate the path for others. And, if you're inspired to explore further, be sure to dive into 'Leading with Light' for a comprehensive guide to embracing conscious leadership in your life.

About our Special Guests:

Jennifer Mulholland is an author, strategist, alchemist, executive coach, and co-owner of Plenty Consulting. From a very young age, she's been dedicated to raising the consciousness of people on the planet. For the last decade, she and her business partner, Jeff Shuck, have helped thousands of conscious leaders and businesses grow in revenue, impact, and fulfillment. Before becoming co-owner of Plenty, Jennifer was Chief Innovation Officer at Sungard, a Fortune 500 technology company. She founded several businesses focused on bridging the gap between information and impact in healthcare, technology, and holistic wellbeing. She is a certified Reiki and Theta healer trained in shamanic and energy medicine. She has a B.S. degree in Exercise and Sports Science, Psychology, and Coaching from the University of Utah. She was a two-sport Division I athlete and captain at the University of Delaware, playing both field hockey and lacrosse. She lives in Park City, Utah, where she enjoys an active, outdoor lifestyle in the mountain town she's called home for almost thirty years.

Jeff Shuck is an accomplished leader and entrepreneur with lifelong experience in leadership development, organizational growth strategy, and social impact. Jeff co-owns Plenty Consulting with his business partner and co-author, Jennifer Mulholland. Together, they have helped thousands of for-profit and non-profit leaders and organizations create innovative strategies, grow revenue, increase positive impact, develop new programs, and develop conscious cultures. Before founding Plenty, Jeff was co-founder and CEO of event fundraising firm Event 360, raising nearly a billion dollars for charity over 12 years. Jeff graduated Phi Beta Kappa from the University of Rochester and earned an MBA from Kellogg School of Management and an MS in Predictive Analytics from Northwestern. His expertise in positive change and social impact has been featured in Marketplace, the Wall Street Journal, Fatherly, and the Stanford Social Innovation Review. Jeff is an avid musician, writer, and fitness enthusiast. He lives in Indiana with his wife, four kids, and two dogs.

Find out more about Jeff and Jennifer: Plenty Consulting

Get the Book: Leading with Light: Choosing Conscious Leadership When You are Ready for More

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Your co-parent will test at scheduled times,
Built-in facial recognition confirms their identity,
Tamper sensors flag any attempts to cheat,
The results get sent instantly to your phone, giving you peace of mind that your kids are with a sober parent.

Lay the groundwork for brighter days ahead. Visit www.soberlink.com/susan to learn more and get $50 off your device.

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Chair-Elect of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://susaneguthrie.com

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

Divorce & Beyond on Instagram @divorceandbeyond

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

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Leading with Light: Making Divorce an Opportunity Part One with Jennifer Mulholland and Jeff Shuck on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #341

Mon, 08 Apr 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Transforming Divorce into an Opportunity: Insights from Leading with Light

In this special two-part podcast episode, host Susan Guthrie dives into the concept of viewing divorce as an opportunity for growth and transformation. She is joined by Jennifer Mulholland and Jeff Shuck, founders of Plenty Consulting and co-authors of Leading with Light: Choosing Conscious Leadership When You Are Ready for More. The discussion covers their personal stories of navigating life's challenges, the essence of their book, and practical advice on conscious leadership. With a focus on personal awareness, alignment, and the power of turning challenging moments into opportunities for self-discovery and growth, this podcast offers valuable insights and tools for anyone looking to navigate transitions in life more consciously.

Welcome to the first part of our enlightening discussion where we explore the transformative power of divorce with the founders of Plenty Consulting, Jennifer Mulholland and Jeff Shuck. In this episode, we delve into the heart of personal growth during life's challenging transitions, guided by insights from their groundbreaking book, 'Leading with Light: Choosing Conscious Leadership When You Are Ready for More'. Join us as we uncover how the tumultuous journey of divorce can be a catalyst for profound personal development and a deeper understanding of conscious leadership.

As you come to the end of the first segment of our dialogue, remember that every ending is the beginning of a new chapter filled with potential for growth and enlightenment. Stay tuned for the continuation of our journey with Jennifer and Jeff in Part 2, where we dive deeper into the Four Lights of Conscious Leadership and how to navigate the intricacies of personal development and relationship challenges.

Tune in on Thursday to continue the conversation!

About our Special Guests:

Find out more about Jeff and Jennifer: Plenty Consulting

Get the Book: Leading with Light: Choosing Conscious Leadership When You are Ready for More

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THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:

SOBERLINK

If navigating the beginning of the year has been difficult due to an ex’s alcohol abuse, I have the perfect solution: Soberlink

Soberlink is more than a portable alcohol monitoring tool; it's a pathway to new beginnings and stronger, healthier family dynamics.

How it works is simple:

Your co-parent will test at scheduled times,
Built-in facial recognition confirms their identity,
Tamper sensors flag any attempts to cheat,
The results get sent instantly to your phone, giving you peace of mind that your kids are with a sober parent.

Lay the groundwork for brighter days ahead. Visit www.soberlink.com/susan to learn more and get $50 off your device.

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Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being.

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Chair-Elect of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://susaneguthrie.com

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

Divorce & Beyond on Instagram @divorceandbeyond

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

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Divorce Coaching FAQs: The 5 Questions That Will Open Your Eyes with Debra Doak and Tracy Callahan on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #340

Mon, 01 Apr 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Join host Susan Guthrie for an episode featuring special guests Tracy Callahan and Debra Doak, founders of Divorce Coaches Academy. Susan, Tracy, and Debra tackle the top five questions surrounding divorce coaching. They offer invaluable insights regarding how a divorce coach can assist you and the characteristics that define an ideal client for this transformative process.

You’ll hear the answers to questions like

Why would someone hire a divorce coach instead of a lawyer?
What can a divorce coach help with?
What makes someone an ideal client for divorce coaching?

Don't miss out on this enlightening discussion, where empowerment and resolution take center stage in the journey through divorce and beyond.

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About this week's special guest: Debra Doak and Tracy Callahan

Debra and Tracy are certified divorce coaches, mediators, conflict resolution junkies, impassioned educators and committed advocates for the professional practice of divorce coaching. They are also the co-founders of Divorce Coaches Academy®, an online educational platform dedicated to the certification and ongoing development of professional ADR focused divorce coaches. They believe that while all divorce involves some degree of conflict, transformational work at the individual level is the key to successful resolution of divorce and co-parenting disputes. In addition to working with clients in their private practice and teaching at DCA®, Tracy and Debra are published authors, experienced mentors and group facilitators and they host a weekly podcast.

Divorce Coaches Academy®: Free Save Your Sanity Divorce Summit April 22-26

Divorce Coaches Academy® webiste: https://www.divorcecoachesacademy.com/

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THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:

SOBERLINK

If navigating the beginning of the year has been difficult due to an ex’s alcohol abuse, I have the perfect solution: Soberlink

Soberlink is more than a portable alcohol monitoring tool; it's a pathway to new beginnings and stronger, healthier family dynamics.

How it works is simple:

Your co-parent will test at scheduled times,
Built-in facial recognition confirms their identity,
Tamper sensors flag any attempts to cheat,
The results get sent instantly to your phone, giving you peace of mind that your kids are with a sober parent.

Lay the groundwork for brighter days ahead. Visit www.soberlink.com/susan to learn more and get $50 off your device.

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Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being.

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!!

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Divorce Decoded: Become the CEO of Your Divorce with Amy Polacko on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #339

Mon, 25 Mar 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Join Susan Guthrie as she welcomes back Amy Polacko! Amy shares invaluable insights on how to take control of your divorce journey and become the CEO of your divorce. In fact, understanding divorce's emotional, legal, and financial aspects is crucial to avoid costly mistakes.

In this episode, Amy highlights the common misconceptions surrounding divorce and the role of a divorce attorney. She emphasizes that relying solely on legal counsel may not provide adequate education about the divorce process and advocates for proactive education and empowerment before embarking on the journey.

With her extensive background as a divorced single mom, award-winning journalist, and empowerment coach, Amy Polacko provides invaluable guidance to women seeking independence and empowerment during and after divorce.

You’ll hear:

Why proactive education about divorce processes empowers individuals to navigate their journey effectively.
The divorce attorney's role: Understand the limitations of relying solely on a divorce attorney for comprehensive education.
The importance of acquiring divorce education before or at the onset of the process to mitigate potential pitfalls.
Insights into various divorce education topics for a well-rounded grasp of the process

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About this week's special guest: Amy Polacko

Amy Polacko is a Freedom Warrior - and is committed to helping women live life on their own terms during/after a toxic relationship or divorce. As a divorced single mom, she is passionate about coaching women one-on-one and founded the empowerment group Strong Savvy Women to provide support, inspiration, and guidance to single women. Amy is also an award-winning journalist who sheds light on women's issues including divorce, domestic abuse, coercive control, and singlehood.

Her recent journalistic work has appeared in The Washington Post, Newsweek, NBC News THINK, and Ms. Magazine. After graduating from Columbia University's Graduate School of Journalism, Amy worked as a newspaper reporter for Newsday and was part of the Pulitzer Prize-winning team covering the TWA Flight 800 crash. She then transitioned to television journalism, working as a writer and producer in New York City. Amy was an award-winning on-air reporter in Fargo, ND, where she traveled to Kosovo for a series on the North Dakota National Guard, and in Philadelphia, where she covered the national D.C. Sniper story. She also headed up an investigative reporting unit in Albany, NY, where she uncovered consumer scams, crime, and government corruption as part of her I-Team Investigations -- one of which exposed a loophole in the state's sex offender registry.

Amy has spoken publicly on women's issues, empowerment and entrepreneurship at Yale University, the Women's Forum in Ridgefield, CT, the Women's Center of Greater Danbury, CT, the Hayvn co-working space for women, the Believe Inspire Grow national empowerment organization for women, and many other groups both virtually and in person.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freedomwarriortribe/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/freedomwarriortribe/

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Resources mentioned in this episode:

Recommended Reading and Audible: Divorce & Beyond is now on Audible, and to celebrate, we've got a special offer: One Month Free of Audible Plus!

Not only can you enjoy our episodes on Audible, but also a wide selection of books authored by our expert guests, like Christina McGhee's 'Parenting Apart' and Bill Eddy's 'BIFF' and 'Splitting.'

Say 'Alexa, play The Divorce & Beyond Podcast' and start listening to the podcast on your Amazon-Alexa-supported device!

Check out Divorce and Beyond’s recommended reading. And explore a world of audiobooks and music on Audible for a whole month, absolutely free!

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THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR:

Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being.

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!!

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The Divorce Alternative: How to Create the 2.0 Version of Your Marriage with Sharon Pope on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #338

Mon, 18 Mar 2024 05:00:00 -0500

“We’ve been living like roommates for years.” Does this sound familiar? This week, Susan Guthrie welcomes best-selling author and master relationship coach Sharon Pope! Sharon shares her divorce alternative, which focuses on moving out of relationship limbo to create the 2.0 version of your desired marriage!

Sharon Pope is a Relationship Expert, certified Master Life Coach, seven-time #1 international bestselling author, and the host of the podcast The Loving Truth. She is the relationship coach if you struggle in a lonely and disconnected marriage, seeking confidence and clarity to fix your marriage or move forward without regret.

You’ll hear:

The biggest reason marriages struggle today
“Relationships are living, breathing things; we must re-evaluate and evolve as we move through them.”
Creating the 2.0 version of your marriage: what exactly is the 2.0 version of your marriage, and why is it an alternative to divorce
The most effective relationship tools begin with working on yourself
Communication: How can we improve how we communicate with our partners?

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About this week's special guest: Sharon Pope

Sharon Pope is a Relationship Expert, certified Master Life Coach, seven-time #1 international bestselling author, and the host of the podcast The Loving Truth.

She is the relationship coach for you if you are struggling in a lonely and disconnected marriage, seeking confidence and clarity so you can either fix your marriage or move forward without regret.

Through her coaching and programs she has helped hundreds of thousands of women get the confidence and clarity they need to either fix their marriage or move forward without regret.

Her bestselling book, Stay or Go: How to Find the Confidence & Clarity You Need to Either Fix the Struggles in Your Marriage or Move Forward without Regret, has sold more than 300,000 copies.

Sharon lives in Florida with the loves of her life, her husband, Derrick, and their two pups, Leo and Luna.

Sharon’s website: https://sharonpope.com/

Sharon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sharonpopecoach/

When Marriage Needs An Answer book: https://stayorgobook.com/

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Resources mentioned in this episode:

Recommended Reading and Audible: Divorce & Beyond is now on Audible, and to celebrate, we've got a special offer: One Month Free of Audible Plus!

Not only can you enjoy our episodes on Audible, but also a wide selection of books authored by our expert guests, like Christina McGhee's 'Parenting Apart' and Bill Eddy's 'BIFF' and 'Splitting.'

Say 'Alexa, play The Divorce & Beyond Podcast' and start listening to the podcast on your Amazon-Alexa-supported device!

Check out Divorce and Beyond’s recommended reading. And explore a world of audiobooks and music on Audible for a whole month, absolutely free!

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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A New Chapter for Co-Parented Families: Fiona Kong and the Home Sweet Homes Journey on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #337

Mon, 11 Mar 2024 05:00:00 -0500

On Divorce and Beyond, Susan Guthrie welcomes Fiona Kong, founder of Home Sweet Homes Journal! Explore the transformative power of Home Sweet Homes as Fiona shares her personal story and the innovative features of the journal. In this episode, you’ll also hear how this journal empowers families to navigate through divorce and beyond with grace, resilience, and hope, one shared narrative at a time. Whether you choose to use the journal or not, the power of this simple exercise can transform your child's (and YOUR) experience of divorce and BEYOND!

You’ll hear:

Fiona shares about Home Sweet Homes Journal and how it provides a seamless channel for co-parents and their children to communicate effectively, fostering understanding and cooperation through times of transition.
Engaging in shared activities such as journaling catalyzes the bond between parents and children, fostering trust, and empathy
Fiona answers, “Can the journal work when only one co-parent engages in the activity?”

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About this week's special guest: Fiona King

Fiona Kong is a single mompreneur who turned adversity into opportunity. Following her separation and job loss in 2019, Founder of Home Sweet Homes Journal during the pandemic to support co-parented children, including her own son. It was through processing her own childhood trauma that Fiona recognized the importance of emotional support for children and created journals containing what she needed as a child. The Home Sweet Homes coparenting journal and All About Me, by Us journal (made for any family dynamics), are fostering healthier future generations by emphasizing emotional intelligence, communication, and parent-child connection.

Listeners: Use code "DBPODCAST" to get a free gift with a journal purchase

Home Sweet Homes: https://www.homesweethomesjournal.com/products/home-sweet-homes-journal-planner

All About Us Journal: https://www.homesweethomesjournal.com/products/all-about-me-by-us-made-for-any-family

Fiona on TikTok @homesweethomesjournal

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Resources mentioned in this episode:

Recommended Reading and Audible: Divorce & Beyond is now on Audible, and to celebrate, we've got a special offer: One Month Free of Audible Plus!

Not only can you enjoy our episodes on Audible, but also a wide selection of books authored by our expert guests, like Christina McGhee's 'Parenting Apart' and Bill Eddy's 'BIFF' and 'Splitting.'

Say 'Alexa, play The Divorce & Beyond Podcast' and start listening to the podcast on your Amazon-Alexa-supported device!

Check out Divorce and Beyond’s recommended reading. And explore a world of audiobooks and music on Audible for a whole month, absolutely free!

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THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR:

Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being.

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

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Can You Please Talk to My Trauma? Insights on Healing from Karlee Holden on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #336

Mon, 04 Mar 2024 05:00:00 -0600

Karlee Holden joins Susan Guthrie for a deeply personal and insightful discussion of uncovering, exploring, and healing the trauma bonds that shape us. Karlee is a Trauma Practitioner, helping people with their trauma and mental and physical health for twenty years.

Karlee explains that healing from trauma is not just talking about your problems; it's unwinding the fight-flight response from the nervous system and the body by developing boundaries. In this episode, Susan and Karlee discuss the importance of establishing boundaries, understanding unhealthy relationships and family patterns, and ultimately unwinding what has been holding us back from being our truest selves.

You’ll hear:

Why ignoring trauma only perpetuates its effects and leads to more stress.
Setting healthy boundaries is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships. “Healthy boundaries are essential for our mental and emotional well-being."
How to cultivate awareness of your emotions and triggers, and practice self-regulation to manage stress and anxiety.
"Focus on what you can control. You can't control the external circumstances, but you can control your responses, behaviors, and self-care practices."
Seek support. You can seek support from therapists, counselors, or support groups when dealing with trauma and emotional challenges.

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About this week's special guest: Karlee Holden

Karlee Holden is the Author of the Can You Please Talk To My...Book Series. She is a Trauma Practitioner, helping people with their trauma and mental and physical health for twenty years. Karlee’s passion is to share what she wishes she had known at the height of her trauma and all she has learned.

Karlee’s books:
Can you please talk to my trauma: https://amzn.to/4bTp8lc

Can you please talk to my girlfriend: https://amzn.to/3Tl6E64

Karlee’s website: https://www.karleeholden.com/

Karlee on Instagram: http://instagram.com/Karlee.holden

Karlee on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/karleeholdenpodcast

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Resources mentioned in this episode:

Recommended Reading and Audible: Divorce & Beyond is now on Audible, and to celebrate, we've got a special offer: One Month Free of Audible Plus!

Not only can you enjoy our episodes on Audible, but also a wide selection of books authored by our expert guests, like Christina McGhee's 'Parenting Apart' and Bill Eddy's 'BIFF' and 'Splitting.'

Say 'Alexa, play The Divorce & Beyond Podcast' and start listening to the podcast on your Amazon-Alexa-supported device!

Check out Divorce and Beyond’s recommended reading. And explore a world of audiobooks and music on Audible for a whole month, absolutely free!

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THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR:

Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being.

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SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

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The Great Equalizer: Laura Wasser on Transforming Divorce for the Better on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #335

Mon, 26 Feb 2024 05:00:00 -0600

Susan Guthrie welcomes one of the world’s best-known divorce attorneys, Laura Wasser, to Divorce & Beyond! In this episode, Laura shares her insights into the #1 cause of divorce, why prenup conversations matter, how divorce is and needs to evolve, and the future of the process. The conversation is an enlightening one, so don’t miss a moment!

Laura Wasser is an LA-based attorney specializing in California Family Law. She attended the University of California, Berkeley, and earned a law degree from Loyola Law School. She has two young sons and resides in Malibu, California.

You’ll hear:

Laura’s thoughts on the leading cause of divorce
“Divorce is the great equalizer.”
Critical topics couples should discuss to avoid future disputes
A significant part of a divorce attorney's duty is to resolve issues
Future of Divorce Proceedings: With Laura’s role at Divorce.com, she shares what she sees as the future of divorce evolving

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About this week's special guest: Laura Wasser

She has been named one of the California Daily Journal’s Top 100 Lawyers and Southern California’s Top 50 Women Attorneys every year for the last 10 years (2012-2022). In June 2008, Laura received the Harriet Buhai Center for Family Law Zephyr M. Ramsey Award. In 2011, she was the recipient of the Century City Chamber of Commerce Women of Achievement Award. In 2013 St. Martin’s Press published and released Laura’s book “It Doesn’t Have to Be That Way: How to Divorce Without Destroying Your Family or Bankrupting Yourself.” Laura received the Brady Center Advocate Award and was honored by A Place Called Home at their 2016 Gala For The Children. In 2019 Laura received the Justice award from the Los Angeles Center for Law and Justice.

She has made it her mission to change the face of divorce by serving as the Chief of Divorce Evolution with Divorce.com an online divorce platform which gives divorcing couples an accessible and affordable resource to dissolve their marriage in all 50 states. Laura believes that by simplifying the divorce process online and sharing her vast experience in family law with her audience, couples are empowered to reclaim control over their own destinies.

Visit Divorce.com for divorce resources and information.

It Doesn’t Have to Be That Way: How to Divorce Without Destroying Your Family or Bankrupting Yourself

Laura previously on Divorce and Beyond:
A Conversation with Celebrity Divorce Attorney Laura Wasser

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Resources mentioned in this episode:

Recommended Reading and Audible: Divorce & Beyond is now on Audible, and to celebrate, we've got a special offer: One Month Free of Audible Plus!

Not only can you enjoy our episodes on Audible, but also a wide selection of books authored by our expert guests, like Christina McGhee's 'Parenting Apart' and Bill Eddy's 'BIFF' and 'Splitting.'

Say 'Alexa, play The Divorce & Beyond Podcast' and start listening to the podcast on your Amazon-Alexa-supported device!

Check out Divorce and Beyond’s recommended reading. And explore a world of audiobooks and music on Audible for a whole month, absolutely free!

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THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR:

Divorce in America gets a glow up, April Rubin

Sign up through our exclusive link for free two weeks of Headspace membership. Don't miss out on this opportunity to embrace well-being.

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

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Divorce Gets a Glow Up: The Positive Pivot in Society's Divorce Dialogue with Axios Journalist April Rubin on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #334

Mon, 19 Feb 2024 05:00:00 -0600

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie has a refreshing conversation about divorce, shedding light on its evolving perception in American culture. With guest April Rubin, a breaking news reporter for Axios, they explore Rubin's insightful article, Divorce in America gets a glow up.

Through statistics and anecdotes, they unpack the emerging trend of divorce parties, the normalization of divorce in society, and its positive impact on individuals.

Join Susan and April as they celebrate the notion that divorce can be a transformative opportunity rather than a societal stigma, offering hope and inspiration to those navigating post-divorce life.

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About this week's special guest: April Rubin

April Rubin is a breaking news and general assignment reporter at Axios.

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THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR:

Researchers who have studied over 40,000 couples can predict divorce with 94% accuracy, largely based on this communication error | Fortune Well

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

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Unlocking Love's Lasting Secret with Bela Gandhi: Beyond Profile Pics and Dating Tips on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #333

Mon, 12 Feb 2024 05:00:00 -0600

In this episode of Divorce and Beyond with host Susan Guthrie, we're joined by the amazing Bela Gandhi, a leading relationship expert. Bela shares essential insights on sustainable, loving relationships as we wind down the peak dating season and approach Valentine's Day.

Whether you're navigating the complexities of dating after divorce or seeking to enhance your current relationship, Bela offers invaluable advice and strategies for building lasting relationships. Discovering that perfect match can be akin to finding the lid to your pot. Bela’s insights will illuminate the path forward, empowering you to create meaningful connections and lasting love.

Topics and Golden Nuggets:

The four horsemen of conflict and how they can be predictive of divorce
What makes a relationship have longevity: turning toward each other instead of turning away
Self-awareness can help communication between partners: “Understand yourself and your irritants, then be able to acknowledge and communicate those [to your partner] and have coping strategies too.”
How to counter predictive outcomes of divorce or a breakup
“Lust is nature’s way of tricking you into attachments.”
“Think about all the people who truly love you in your life. And know that number one, you are loved. And number two, you are loved by many people. Bathe in that this Valentine's Day.”

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About this week's special guest: Bela Gandhi

Bela Gandhi of Smart Dating Academy is a nationally acclaimed dating & relationship expert. SDA offers the best tips to start to date smarter to help you find real and lasting love. Bela is a sought-after correspondent and works with all major networks including Good Morning America, Steve Harvey, NBC, Harry Connick Junior, Kelly Clarkson, ABC, FOX, CNN, JET, Essence, Forbes, WGN, and more.

Smart Dating Academy: http://www.smartdatingacademy.com

Smart Dating Academy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/smartdatingacademy/

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Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode:

Listen to Divorce and Beyond’s Top 5 Most Downloaded Episodes of 2023! These episodes have been a beacon of support and guidance for many, and now, you can easily access them, too!

Ready to be inspired? Just head over to https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/top-episodes to listen to these transformative episodes. Don't miss out on these empowering discussions!"

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THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR:

Recommended Reading and Audible: Divorce & Beyond is now on Audible, and to celebrate, we've got a special offer: One Month Free of Audible Plus!

Not only can you enjoy our episodes on Audible, but also a wide selection of books authored by our expert guests, like Christina McGhee's 'Parenting Apart' and Bill Eddy's 'BIFF' and 'Splitting.'

Say 'Alexa, play The Divorce & Beyond Podcast' and start listening to the podcast on your Amazon-Alexa-supported device!

Check out Divorce and Beyond’s recommended reading. And explore a world of audiobooks and music on Audible for a whole month, absolutely free!

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SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

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Disney Dads and Marvel Moms: The Hidden Battle of Parental Competition with Christina McGhee on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #332

Mon, 05 Feb 2024 05:00:00 -0600

Susan Guthrie welcomes back favorite parenting expert Christina McGhee to explore the prevalent "Disney Dads and Marvel Moms" paradigm and its impact on co-parenting dynamics. Christina shares valuable insights on overcoming the competitive mindset to prioritize the well-being of children amidst co-parenting challenges.

Join Susan Guthrie and Christina McGhee as they delve into the intricacies of co-parenting relationships, providing listeners with valuable tools to transcend competition and cultivate environments conducive to the emotional well-being of children.

Topics and Golden Nuggets:

Thoughtful advice for unpacking the emotional baggage of co-parenting
How co-parenting competition undermines family bonds
Real-life examples of co-parenting competition and how it affects children
Practical strategies for co-parents caught in the grip of competition
Addressing competition and insecurities introduced by co-parent significant others

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About this week's special guest: Christina McGhee

Christina McGhee, MSW is an internationally recognized divorce parenting expert, speaker, and author. While splitting up is undeniably hard, Christina believes divorce doesn't have to equal devastation for families. She feels with the right kind of information and support, parents have the ability to be a child's absolute best resource when families change.

Throughout her career, she has educated both parents and professionals on how to minimize the impact of divorce on children. In her book, PARENTING APART: How separated and divorced parents can raise happy and secure kids, Christina offers parents useful strategies for dealing with the “real-life” everyday challenges of coparenting.

One of her core beliefs is that divorce doesn’t make you a bad parent, it makes you a parent going through a bad time. Because she is passionate about helping parents get through that bad time, Christina also maintains an active coaching practice that allows her to work with Moms and Dads all over the world.

Additionally, she has contributed to several other media projects as a featured expert, a content consultant, and a writer/producer. Currently, she serves as a consulting producer and subject matter expert for the documentaries SPLIT: A film for kids and their parents and Split UP: The Teen Years, two compelling films that let kids know they’re not alone and normalize the many feelings and experiences children and teens encounter when parents part.

Over the years, she has been featured on television, radio, podcasts, and in print around the US and abroad. A few places you may have seen her are TODAY Parents, the BBC, The Times, and Parents Magazine.

Married for over twenty-seven years, Christina and her husband live outside of Houston, Texas. As a mom of four (two bonus and two bio) children, she has acquired extensive on-the-job training as a chauffeur, negotiator, short-order cook, scheduler extraordinaire, and finder of all things lost. To find out more, check her out at divorceandchildren.com

Co-Parenting Specialist Certification Training Program with Christina McGhee:
https://divorceandchildren.com/co-parenting-specialist-training/

Christina’s book Parenting Apart, Christina McGhee

Christina on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/divorceandchildren

Christina on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorceandchildren/

Christina on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christinamcghee

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Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode:

Listen to Divorce and Beyond’s Top 5 Most Downloaded Episodes of 2023! These episodes have been a beacon of support and guidance for many, and now, you can easily access them, too!

Ready to be inspired? Just head over to https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/top-episodes to listen to these transformative episodes. Don't miss out on these empowering discussions!"

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THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR:

Recommended Reading and Audible: Divorce & Beyond is now on Audible, and to celebrate, we've got a special offer: One Month Free of Audible Plus!

Not only can you enjoy our episodes on Audible, but also a wide selection of books authored by our expert guests, like Christina McGhee's 'Parenting Apart' and Bill Eddy's 'BIFF' and 'Splitting.'

Say 'Alexa, play The Divorce & Beyond Podcast' and start listening to the podcast on your Amazon-Alexa-supported device!

Check out Divorce and Beyond’s recommended reading. And explore a world of audiobooks and music on Audible for a whole month, absolutely free!

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SPONSORSHIP OPPORTUNITIES ARE AVAILABLE! https://divorcebeyond.com/Sponsorship-Info

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!!

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Starting Off On the Right Foot Financially in Divorce with Heather Locus, CPA, CFP, CDFA on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #331

Mon, 29 Jan 2024 05:00:00 -0600

Navigating the early stages of divorce or contemplating it can be daunting. Financial concerns often loom large, adding to the overwhelm and confusion.

Financial Professional Heather Locus joins Divorce & Beyond to address these fears head-on this week. Susan and Heather share invaluable insights on protecting your money and starting your divorce on the right financial footing!

Their conversation emphasizes the necessity of proactivity, organization, and knowledge, particularly concerning financial aspects, throughout the divorce process.

Topics and Golden Nuggets:

Why pausing and considering discernment counseling before contacting an attorney can lead to a faster and less costly divorce.
Despite initial fear, learning about finances during divorce can be empowering and manageable.
Heather offers a golden nugget by offering advice about setting up a separate email for divorce communication, exploring mortgage options early
Understanding changes in tax laws regarding alimony and other tax-saving strategies can optimize financial outcomes
Checking credit reports can help you spot outstanding debts or any joint accounts opened without your knowledge.

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About this week's special guest: Heather Locus, CPA, CFP, CDFA

Heather founded the National Divorce Practice Group at Corient to help divorcing individuals consciously navigate their divorce’s emotional and business aspects. From hiring the right fit attorney through their SettleSmart™ analysis, then implementing the divorce decree and auditing it annually, Heather ensures you have the resources you need to start your next chapter on a firm footing.

Heather founded our Women’s Service Team in 2006 to help female executives and business owners, widows, and women transitioning through divorce. After going through her own divorce in 2011, she realized how much more we could do to support divorcing women and men with a practice dedicated to serving their unique needs. Heather is driven by deep empathy to help divorcing individuals have clarity and confidence in finalizing their divorce.

A Forbes “America’s Top Women Advisor,” Heather is a nine-time “Five Star Wealth Manager” according to Chicago magazine, was named an “Influential Women in Business” by The Business Ledger, a “Top 200 Wealth Advisor Mom” by Working Mother, and an InvestmentNews “Woman to Watch.” Heather is an author of two books on divorce and has contributed to leading publications, including The Wall Street Journal, Crain’s Chicago Business, Family Lawyer Magazine, and Divorce Magazine on multiple topics. She is a CPA, CFP® practitioner, and a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®) professional and has completed intensive executive coaching and divorce mediation training.

Heather loves learning from her teenage son and daughter and working with organizations she is passionate about, including After School Matters, The Lilac Tree, Between Friends, and Make-A-Wish Foundation.

Contact Heather:l heather.locus@corient.com.

Financial Issues in Divorce: A Client Handbook: Heather's latest book written for the American Academy of Matrimonial Attorneys.

Listen to Heather's prior episode of Divorce & Beyond:

5 Smart Strategies to Save Money in Your Divorce with Leading Divorce Financial Professional, Heather Locus

Negotiating Your Financial Future: Key Factors to Consider with Leading Divorce Financial Professional Heather Locus

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Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode:

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Day One with a Divorce Coach: First Steps with Kelly Myers on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #330

Mon, 22 Jan 2024 05:00:00 -0600

This week, Susan is joined by Divorce Coach Kelly Myers, shedding light on the immediate benefits a divorce coach can bring to your journey. In this episode, Kelly and Susan delve into the crucial aspect of 'what now' when divorce is on the horizon. Gain valuable insights on how a divorce coach can clarify and guide you through the journey.

Join Susan and Kelly as they explore the transformative power of divorce coaching in this episode filled with valuable topics and golden nuggets for anyone navigating the complex terrain of divorce.

Topics and Golden Nuggets:

How a divorce coach can help bring clarity about your decision to divorce
Selecting the right divorce coach for you: things to consider and questions to ask
The role of divorce coaching in dealing with fear
Curating your very own divorce team
Why it is important to get out of unproductive communication cycles and get on a better path

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About this week's special guest: Kelly Myers

Kelly Myers is a dedicated professional with extensive training in divorce coaching, mediation, and co-parenting. With a passion for helping individuals navigate the challenges of divorce and separation, Kelly has established herself as a trusted advisor and advocate for countless individuals and families. Her expertise lies in providing invaluable guidance, emotional support, and practical solutions during what is often a tumultuous and emotionally charged period.

Kelly is a Certified Divorce Coach, mediator, and co-parenting specialist. She received her mediation training through Northwestern University, the Harvard Program on Negotiation and the acclaimed Mosten Guthrie Academy. Kelly has also been trained by Bill Eddy in High Conflict Mediation and as a New Ways for Families Coach. She is passionate in her advocation of developing balanced co-parenting strategies to build harmony within the new family dynamic and is a part of the Co-Parenting Specialist Certification training team at Mosten Guthrie Academy. Kelly’s a graduate of the University of San Diego and earned her paralegal certificate from USD’s ABA approved paralegal program. Kelly believes that helping people navigate the divorce process through managing their emotions, creating a divorce support team, and getting clarity around positions and interests, allows people to use their divorce to build a strong foundation for their future.

Kelly's website: https://firststepsdivorce.com/

Kelly on Instagram: http://instagram.com/firststeps_divorce

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Positive Beginnings: The Key to Cooperative Co-Parenting in Divorce with Author and Therapist Aurisha Smolarski on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #329

Mon, 15 Jan 2024 05:00:00 -0600

Susan Guthrie welcomes Aurisha Smolarski to Divorce & Beyond! Aurisha shares tips and insights on using attachment theory and styles to find a cooperative way to co-parent during and after your divorce. Tune in to hear why it’s the best approach for your kids!

Topics and Golden Nuggets:

You can change the dynamics of a relationship just by how you engage with it.
Why doing a mindset shift can help you prioritize your child and their needs to get on “team kiddo.”
The basis for cooperation co-parenting is understanding attachment theory/styles
When you operate as a co-parenting team, your child feels safe and secure and simply be a kid.
It only takes one parent to create a secure relationship with your child.

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About this week's special guest:

Aurisha Smolarski, LMFT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist, certified co-parenting coach, mediator, and mother with a clinical practice in Los Angeles, CA. She is the author of Cooperative Co-Parenting for Secure Kids: The Attachment Theory Guide to Raising Kids in Two Homes. She specializes in working with co-parents, couples, and individuals. As a co-parent herself, she is very familiar with the challenges faced by parents raising kids in two households. For over ten years, she has drawn on attachment theory and other modalities to help clients move from conflict to cooperation, make child-centered agreements, and create a secure co-parenting two-home family system. She lives with her 12-year-old daughter and sees clients both virtually and in person.

Aurisha on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cooperativecoparenting/

Aurisha on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cooperativecoparenting

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Unpacking January: Essential Information for Divorce Month from Susan Guthrie on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #328

Mon, 08 Jan 2024 05:00:00 -0600

As we kick off the new year, we dive into a unique phenomenon that January brings to the forefront of the divorce landscape - the "Divorce Month" trend. While resolutions are in the air, so is a notable surge in divorce filings, with studies revealing a 33% increase from January to March.

In this episode, Susan takes us through the early stages of divorce, exploring the immediate aftermath of the pivotal moment when individuals ask themselves, "What now?" As a seasoned divorce attorney with over 30 years of experience, Susan shares her insights and advice on navigating this challenging journey.

Join us throughout the month as we unravel the reasons behind the “Divorce Month” trend, answer your burning questions, and support the emotional and practical challenges that arise during this significant life transition.

Golden Nuggets and Topics:

Understanding some of the reasons January has been dubbed "Divorce Month," one such reason includes New Year’s resolutions, which often involve self-reflection and reevaluating priorities, leading some to confront the truth about their marriage.
Why it is important to give yourself the grace of space, whether you have finally made the ultimate decision or been informed that divorce is in your future, it is important to DO NOTHING except get your feet back under you.
Navigating the Emotional Landscape: “Divorce is a grief process.”
Practical Steps and Preparation: Gathering key documents and creating a parenting.

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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Insights from “The D Word” with Kate Anthony on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #327

Mon, 01 Jan 2024 05:00:00 -0600

Kate Anthony returns to The Divorce and Beyond Podcast with Susan Guthrie. In this episode, Kate helps answer people's questions when deciding whether to stay or go. Tune in to hear insights from her new book – The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage.

Can your marriage be saved? Should you stay together for your kids? Kate answers these questions so much more in this insightful and eye-opening episode for anyone who wants to take control of their lives, either by ending or repairing their marriage.

Topics and Golden Nuggets from this episode:

“Abuse is not a relationship or communication problem. It’s an abuser’s problem. Nothing you say or do can change that.”
If your life isn’t bad, why are you so unhappy?
Why you should NOT stay married for your kids.
What does a healthy relationship even look like? “Healthy relationships should have curiosity.”

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About this week's special guest: Kate Anthony

Kate Anthony is the author of The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage, host of the critically acclaimed and New York Times recommended podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and the creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which helps women make the most difficult decision of their lives using coaching tools, relationship education, geeky neuroscience, community support, and deep self-work.

Kate empowers women to find their strength, passion, and confidence even in the most disempowering of circumstances and helps them move forward with concrete plans set on a solid foundation, putting their children at the center (not in the middle) of all their decisions.

Kate is trained in various coaching modalities with two of the top coach training organizations in the world. Additionally, Kate is certified as a Domestic Violence Victim’s Advocate by the state of California, as a Co-Parenting Specialist by the Mosten Guthrie Academy, and as a High Conflict Divorce Coach by Tina Swithin’s High Conflict Divorce Coaching Certification Program.

In addition to her online programs, Kate works privately with clients worldwide.

Kate lives in Los Angeles with her teenage son, whom she lovingly co-parents with her ex-husband.

Website: http://www.kateanthony.com

Book: https://kateanthony.com/dword/

Kate on Instagram

Kate's Facebook page

Kate’s Facebook group

Kate on TikTok

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

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Breakup Like the Stars: Lessons from Celebrity Splits for the Non-Famous with Celebrity Divorce Attorney Christopher Melcher (Special Two-Part Episode) on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #326

Mon, 25 Dec 2023 05:00:00 -0600

Our Special Double Episode Continues!

Last week marked the premiere of Part One in our special year-end two-part episode series, featuring Christopher Melcher discussing lessons learned from high-profile divorces. In this week's continuation, Christopher and Susan offer valuable insights for navigating divorce.

We strongly recommend tuning in to catch up if you missed last week's Part One. Christopher shares noteworthy takeaways from recent celebrity cases, providing practical advice to enhance your divorce experience.

In Part Two, Susan and Christopher talk about several of the cases you've been reading about lately in the news, always with the idea of pulling out those golden nuggets that will help you have a better divorce.

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About this week's special guest: Christopher C. Melcher

Christopher C. Melcher, CFLS, is a Fellow of the AAML, specializing in complex family law litigation focusing on premarital agreements. He also handles appeals of family law judgments and writ proceedings. His clients include celebrities, tech founders, and executives of public companies. He has presented over 200 continuing legal education programs and published books and articles on family law.

Website: http://www.walzermelcher.com

Christopher on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ccmelcher/

Christopher on X: https://twitter.com/CA_Divorce

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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Breakup Like the Stars: Lessons from Celebrity Splits for the Non-Famous with Celebrity Divorce Attorney Christopher Melcher (Special Two-Part Episode) on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #325

Mon, 18 Dec 2023 05:00:00 -0600

Special Double Episode!

What can celebrity splits teach us about divorce? Host Susan Guthrie is joined by the insightful Attorney Christopher Melcher in this two-part series, where they answer that question and delve into the invaluable lessons from celebrity splits that resonate for non-famous couples navigating divorce.

In Part One, Susan and Christopher unveil essential tips for anyone going through or considering a divorce. Discover the significance of choosing an attorney who prioritizes communication before diving into paperwork and gain critical insights that will reshape your divorce journey.

Golden Nuggets and Topics Include:

Strategic Legal Guidance: Learn why it's crucial to collaborate with an attorney who communicates effectively before making any legal moves.
Celeb Insights: Explore the myth of quick celebrity divorces and unravel every individual's power in choosing the pace of their divorce settlement.
The art of messaging your split to family and friends

Listen to Part One this week, and mark your calendars for a December 25th with Divorce & Beyond!

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About this week's special guest: Christopher C. Melcher

Website: http://www.walzermelcher.com

Christopher on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ccmelcher/

Christopher on X: https://twitter.com/CA_Divorce

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Empowered Advocacy: Effectively Sharing Your Abuse Story and Achieving Justice with Beverly Price on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #324

Mon, 11 Dec 2023 05:00:00 -0600

In this episode of Divorce & Beyond, host Susan Guthrie welcomes returning guest Beverly Price. She shares invaluable tips and insights on effectively communicating your abuse story in court.

Beverly and Susan explore the intricacies of discussing domestic violence in court, offering practical advice on articulating your story and navigating the legal landscape. Discover the keys to crafting a powerful victim impact statement and why meticulous preparation is critical.

Whether you're preparing to share your experience about or supporting someone who is, this episode equips you with the tools to navigate the challenging terrain of the legal system while ensuring your voice is heard.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include

Record-keeping of abuse should include factual information that can be used in court and help a judge recognize the pattern of abuse.
Communication of information is the key. Ensure your victim statement addresses these group areas: emotional, physical, financial, and impact on other relationships.
Why it is essential to find proper support from professionals, including assistance from a trauma-informed therapist
We acknowledge a significant difference between what a victim wants to communicate and what they should communicate.

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About this week's special guest: Beverly Price

Beverly Price, MBA, of Her Empowered Divorce, with her 30+ years’ divorce coaching experience has helped thousands of women by providing knowledge, support, and insight to empower those going through the divorce process before, during and after across the US.

Her process includes extensive preparation, role play, legal and financial education, emotional management, communication skills, self-awareness, and support.

Beverly is also the host of the Her Empowered Divorce Podcast, Her Empowered Divorce and Divorce Coalition Live Radio and TV Shows. She has a personal history with divorce, co-parenting, domestic violence, multiple marriages, being a single working mother and more.

Beverly is also the creator of the Divorce Coalition and along with co-founders Susan Guthrie and Kate Anthony, has created a group of top podcast hosts, bloggers, and divorce professionals to bring understanding, healing, and resilience to the forefront, ending the cycle of abuse one survivor at a time.

Comprehensive Divorce Checklist: https://herempowereddivorce.com/divorcechecklist

Beverly’s Website: https://herempowereddivorce.com/

The Divorce Coalition: http://www.divorcecoalition.com/

Beverly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/her_empowered_divorce/

Beverly on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/beverly-price

Her Empowered Divorce Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/herempowereddivorcetribe

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Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode:

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Episode 106 & 107 of Her Empowered Divorce podcast features Larry and Joni Jones about the Emotional and Legal Preparation for DV Court.

Breaking the Cycle of Shame and Divorce with Beverly Price

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Easy-to-use online forms and guides
A step-by-step walkthrough of the divorce process
Access to experienced divorce professionals for help and support
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SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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How to Navigate the New Normal of Divorce with Professor Kelly Browe Olson on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #323

Mon, 04 Dec 2023 05:00:00 -0600

This week on Divorce & Beyond with Susan Guthrie, Susan welcomes Professor Kelly Browe Olson. Kelly shares actionable tips on navigating both the “new normal” of the divorce process AND the REAL new normal of life after divorce.

Key takeaways include the importance of filtering advice amidst the influx of opinions, the role of professionals in facilitating challenging conversations and boundaries, and the crucial aspect of emotional intelligence during divorce.

Professor Kelly Browe Olson also shares practical insights on improving emotional intelligence and encourages strategic thinking about one's current situation and future aspirations. Join us as we delve into the complexities of divorce with expert guidance for adapting to the ever-changing landscape of your beyond.

Topics and Golden Nuggets includ

Your new normal will include opinions and advice from third parties; therefore, even well-meaning, it is important to filter the information and form your opinions.
A professional can give you the tools to have hard conversations, create boundaries, and divorce your way.
Emotional intelligence (EI) and divorce: EI is essential when going through a divorce; consider how you can be emotionally intelligent around your children, friends, family, and ex while still honoring your emotions. Plus, Kelly shares how to improve your emotional intelligence.
“Thinking about where you are now and where you want to be is important.”

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About this week's special guest: Kelly Browe Olson

Kelly Browe Olson is an Associate Professor and the Mediation Clinic Director at UA Little Rock Bowen School of Law. She teaches Family Law, ADR, Domestic Violence and Mediation and Family Mediation courses. She oversees a state-wide Special Education mediation project and mediates family dissolution cases. She is a frequent speaker and trainer, educating judges, lawyers, and others about dispute resolution, communication, emotional intelligence, family, and children’s legal issues. She is currently co-editing a book on Family Dispute Resolution for Oxford University Press.

She serves on the Arkansas Parent Counsel and Access to Justice Commissions and on the Family Court Review and the ABA Dispute Resolution Magazine editorial boards. She trains and consults for the Arkansas ADR Commission. Professor Browe Olson has a University of Michigan J.D., and an LL.M. in ChildLaw from the Loyola University Chicago. She was awarded the Bowen Faculty Excellence Public Service Award in 2004 and 2013.

Email: mediatingmom@gmail.com

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Sharing is Caring: How Philanthropy Can Help You Heal with Caren Yanis on Divorce and Beyond #322

Mon, 27 Nov 2023 05:00:00 -0600

Welcome to a special episode of Divorce and Beyond!! Airing right after Thanksgiving and just before Giving Tuesday 2023 on November 28th, we're revisiting a powerful episode titled "Sharing is Caring: How Philanthropy Can Help You Heal." In this replay, Susan Guthrie speaks with Caren Yanis, a philanthropy Sherpa, and former Oprah Winfrey Foundation Executive Director. Together, they explore the transformative power of giving, delving into how it can guide us through challenging times, including the complexities of divorce.

This is a heartfelt conversation about how philanthropy intersects with divorce, families, the future, and beyond. Caren, now the principal of Croland Consulting, shares insights on building a culture of purpose and legacy for families, athletes, and celebrities.

Let this episode inspire you to embrace the spirit of generosity on Giving Tuesday.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include

Divorce is a prime time to do something outward-focused with your children, such as giving.
Philanthropy can help you heal from the trauma of a difficult divorce
Engaging in the arts and using the arts to help other people is a fabulous way to elevate everybody

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About this week's special guest: Caren Yanis

Caren is the principal of Croland Consulting, a philanthropic advisory group that guides families, athletes, and celebrities in building a culture of purpose and legacy.

She was Executive Director of the Oprah Winfrey Foundation and Oprah’s Angel Network, (2000-2009) the height of the Oprah Winfrey Show.

She went on to become President of Crown Family Philanthropies in Chicago.

Caren's focus is on deepening intergenerational engagement and social impact using a variety of assets and strategies. Keynotes, podcasts, and panel discussions have included Family Business Magazine’s Legacy and Wealth Conference, Yale’s Philanthropy Conference, and the Society for Trust and Estate Planners annual and regional conferences. She has been a guest on podcasts including The Heart of Giving (Better Business Bureau), Denton’s, Alliance Bernstein, and Family Business Magazine’s Legacy and Wealth Conference.

She is an adjunct professor at Tulane University, the University of Chicago Booth School in their Private Wealth Management program, and at the Spertus Institute where she also mentors graduate students. University speaking engagements include Northwestern Law, NYU, Duke and Johns Hopkins.

Caren chairs the board of The Poetry Foundation (which received a significant bequest from Ruth Lilly in 2002) and has guided it through meaningful organizational and governance change. She is an advisor to the Aubrey and Marla Dan Foundation, and to the (Deepak) Chopra Foundation, is a member of the Board of Visitors at the Lilly Family School of Philanthropy at Indiana University, and the Women’s Philanthropy Institute, a research organization focused on trends in giving.

In her spare time, Caren hosts salons that bring bold thinkers together for meaningful conversations. She has a passion for listening deeply, navigating challenges, and guiding people who have the potential to make the world a better place.

Caren Croland Yanis | Philanthropic Advising: caren@crolandconsulting.com

Caren’s website: CrolandConsulting.com

Caren on Linkedin: http://linkedin.com/in/carenyanis

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Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode:

PoetryMagazine.org/EventsOffer:1 year of Poetry Magazine for $20. Regular price is $35.

Generosity Project: https://www.ted.com/talks/sasha_dichter_the_generosity_experiment

Women’s Philanthropy Institute – The Women’s and Girls Index: https://scholarworks.iupui.edu/bitstream/handle/1805/21010/wgi-infographic.pdf

Women’s Philanthropy Institute -Women as Change Agents:

https://scholarworks.iupui.edu/bitstream/handle/1805/21440/change-agents-infographic.pdf

Women Moving Millions: https://womenmovingmillions.org/

Thresholds  - mental health and breaking the cycle of poverty: https://www.thresholds.org/

Friends of the Children – mentoring high risk children: https://friendschicago.org/about

Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation: theMMRF.org

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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The Divorce Initiation: In the Moment Insights with Hillary Rubin on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #321

Mon, 20 Nov 2023 05:00:00 -0600

This week on Divorce & Beyond with Susan Guthrie, Hillary Rubin, a seasoned master coach and divorcing mom, candidly shares lessons learned as she moves through the divorce process. This episode is a beacon of in-the-moment information designed to reassure you that you are not alone in your experiences.

Facing the disorienting fear of divorce, Hillary sought support, devised a plan, and took the brave step forward. She emerged as a single mother, crafting a new home and life for herself and her son. Now, she shares her wisdom, offering soulful guidance to soon-to-be or newly divorced co-parents.

Join us as Hillary imparts valuable insights on changing mindsets, fostering certainty, and caring for oneself and one's children through the maze of divorce.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include

What Hillary means when she says, “Divorce is an initiation.”
Why flipping the narrative can help you move through challenges you may face
Ask for what you need and seek support - people are around to help you.
Finding a place of calm can be an imperative part of the divorce process
Hillary shares how her son has been her North Star, guiding her through her divorce journey

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About this week's special guest: Hillary Rubin

Hillary Rubin, Master Coach: Shifting the Divorce Narrative Putting Peace & Kids First As You Reclaim Your Life Three years ago, Hillary lived in the same house as her husband, trapped in constant conflict and felt numb with the fear about getting divorced. It was the most disorienting experience of her life. She felt like she failed herself and her son but she made a BRAVE decision.

As a coach who became a stay-at-home mom, she sought support, created a plan, and took the initiative to file for divorce. She found the strength to move out, created a home and started anew as a single mother at 50.

Now she offers common sense soulful guidance around divorce for soon-to-be or newly divorced co-parents seeking to ditch uncertainty & make a plan for their lives keeping their kids as their north star.

She'll show you how to change your mind-set, create certainty as you take care of yourself along with your kids through this challenging time in your lives.

Website: http://www.hillaryrubin.com

Free Training: https://hillaryrubin.com/free-mini-training/

Hillary on Instagram @hillaryrubin

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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Happy Holidays? How Co-Parents Can Avoid Holiday Nightmares with Parenting Expert, Christina McGhee on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #320

Mon, 13 Nov 2023 05:00:00 -0600

This week on Divorce & Beyond with Susan Guthrie, we’re bringing back an episode from the archives that featured invaluable insights from Christina McGhee, America's Favorite Parenting Expert. In this episode, Christina shares her wisdom on how co-parents can create a holiday season that's less stressful and more joyful for their children.

This topic is especially relevant during the holiday season. As the festive lights twinkle and the world seems to sparkle with the holiday spirit, we know this season can also bring a mix of emotions and stress for co-parents.

Whether it's your first holiday after a separation or you've been navigating this season for years, Christina's practical and actionable advice is a gift that keeps on giving. She covers everything from how to communicate with your co-parent about the holidays to managing gifts and family expectations and ensuring your children feel the joy of the season.

So, settle in and revisit these essential strategies and tips with Christina in this special Replay episode.

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About this week's special guest: Christina McGhee

Most recently, Christina launched an online program, Coparenting with Purpose. Designed to provide moms and dads with an easy, convenient way to access critical information, it’s filled with practical tools and solutions for managing the most common coparenting problems. LISTENERS OF DIVORCE & BEYOND GET $100 OFF THE PROGRAM FEE WITH CODE "SUSAN" - Access here: https://divorceandchildren.com/purpose

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Christina on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/divorceandchildren

Christina on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorceandchildren/

Christina on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christinamcghee

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Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode:

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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Starting Over: Reclaiming Your Sex Life After Divorce with Karen Bigman on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #319

Mon, 06 Nov 2023 05:00:00 -0600

Get ready for a red-hot episode of Divorce & Beyond with Susan Guthrie! This week, Karen Bigman returns to share her invaluable insights and tips on reigniting your sex life after divorce, promising to infuse some extra oxytocin into your beautiful beyond.

In this episode, Karen emphasizes the importance of self-discovery and effective communication as the ultimate keys to reclaiming your sex life. We'll explore how communication not only strengthens your relationships but is also essential in the bedroom.

Plus, we'll debunk the myths surrounding menopause and sex, tackle menopause symptoms affecting your sex life, and discuss the vital aspects of self-awareness. Karen will also guide us through that all-important first conversation about sex with a new partner, including the essential topic of addressing STDs and getting tested.

Special guest Karen Bigman is the dynamic hostess of "Taboo to Truth: Unapologetic Conversations of Sexuality in Midlife." With a passion for empowering women and a wealth of knowledge as a Certified Menopause Coach and Menopause & Sexuality Educator, Karen is on a mission to break down barriers and liberate women to engage in open conversations about sexuality in the later stages of life.

Topics and Golden Nuggets includ

Effective communication is the cornerstone of relationships, both in the bedroom and beyond.
Demystify menopause's impact on sex, challenging stigma, addressing symptoms, body image, and self-awareness.
How to initiate candid discussions on sex with new partners, including STD concerns and the importance of pre-sex testing.

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About this week's special guest: Karen Bigman

Karen Bigman is the dynamic hostess of "Taboo to Truth: Unapologetic Conversations of Sexuality in Midlife." With a passion for empowering women and a wealth of knowledge as a Certified Menopause Coach and Menopause & Sexuality Educator, Karen is on a mission to break down barriers and liberate women to engage in open conversations about sexuality in the later stages of life. In September of this year, Karen courageously launched her podcast, "Taboo to Truth," drawing inspiration from her personal journey of divorce and the transformative realization that one's sex life doesn't end with menopause. Through candid and unapologetic discussions, Karen is helping women navigate this often-overlooked aspect of midlife, offering education, support, and a platform for women to embrace their sexuality and rediscover their true selves. With her warmth, expertise, and unwavering dedication, Karen Bigman is changing the narrative around midlife sexuality and encouraging women to embrace their desires and passions without reservation.

Taboo to Truth Podcast: Unapologetic Conversations About Sexuality in Midlife

Instagram: http://instagram.com/taboototruth

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karenbigman/

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Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode:

Taboo Truth, Hot Sex article

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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Domestic Violence Training: Bridging the Gap in Divorce Law with Kate Anthony on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #318

Mon, 30 Oct 2023 05:00:00 -0500

In this week's episode, Susan Guthrie is joined again by the insightful Kate Anthony, host of The Divorce Survival Guide podcast and author of the upcoming book, "The D-Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage." Kate shares her journey of becoming a domestic violence victim's advocate and the crucial insights she's gained.

The conversation delves into the alarming gap in domestic violence awareness and training within the divorce industry. Plus, Kate shares the significance of effective documentation for victims, offering invaluable tips on compiling such evidence.

Kate Anthony's dedication to helping women trapped in relationships scarred by domestic violence shines through. Tune in for an empowering discussion on breaking free from the cycle by raising awareness and taking action.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include

The scarcity of training about domestic violence in the divorce industry.
We explore the need for more experts who comprehend and can testify in court about domestic violence within divorce law.
Kate emphasizes the importance of effective documentation for victims and practical tips on compiling evidence of abuse.
The vital role a divorce coach plays in offering assistance and support throughout your divorce journey.

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About this week's special guest: Kate Anthony

Kate Anthony is the author of The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage, host of the critically acclaimed and New York Times recommended podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast, and the creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which helps women make the most difficult decision of their lives using coaching tools, relationship education, geeky neuroscience, community support, and deep self-work.

No stranger to the camera, Kate spent the first 30 years of her life as an actor, with a career that began with five years on Sesame Street and concluded with five years on Grey's Anatomy.

Kate empowers women to find their strength, passion, and confidence even in the most disempowering of circumstances and helps them move forward with concrete plans, putting their children at the center (not in the middle) of all decisions.

Kate spent 3 years and over 500 hours training in various coaching modalities with two of the top coach training organizations in the world. Additionally, Kate is certified as a Domestic Violence Victim’s Advocate by the state of California, as a Co-Parenting Specialist by the Mosten Guthrie Academy, and as a High Conflict Divorce Coach by Tina Swithin’s High Conflict Divorce Coaching Certification Program, and is widely known as an expert in communication, co-parenting, divorce, and emotional intelligence.

In addition to her private practice, Kate spent three years coaching Fortune 500 executives in communication, presentation skills, and emotional intelligence. Kate lives in Los Angeles with her son, whom she lovingly co-parents with her ex-husband.

Website: http://kateanthony.com

Pre-order Kate’s upcoming book, The D-Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage: https://kateanthony.com/dword/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thedivorcesurvivalguide/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/YourDivorceSurvivalGuide

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Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode:

Why Does He Do That, Lundy Bancroft

Busting the Top 5 Myths of Domestic Abuse with Amy Polacko

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THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:

The Divorce Coalition promotes awareness of both domestic violence and domestic violence recovery. We are here to inspire healing and change. We are the voice of many. The Divorce Coalition comprises all your favorite podcasters, bloggers, influencers, and more. We joined together to raise awareness and provide information and resources to fight the epidemic of domestic abuse in our world.

Founded by Beverly Price of Her Empowered Divorce, Kate Anthony of the Divorce Survival Guide, and Susan Guthrie of Divorce & Beyond. We have gathered together our friends and colleagues to amplify our voices to reach as many people as possible.

Visit the coalition webpage at www.divorcecoalition.com to find resources, including the many podcast episodes and blog articles that are on the topic from all our members, as well as many other ways to help donate and find assistance. Together, we can make a difference, and we can let domestic violence survivors know that they are not alone.

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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Busting the Top 5 Myths of Domestic Abuse with Amy Polacko on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #317

Mon, 23 Oct 2023 05:00:00 -0500

Amy Polacko, Divorce and Empowerment Coach and Investigative Journalist returns to The Divorce & Beyond podcast with Susan Guthrie. Amy is here to help bust the top five myths of domestic abuse. The myths being busted are prominent and often repeated time and again. We must raise awareness so we don’t perpetuate these myths and continue to cause incredible harm.

Amy Polacko is committed to helping women live on their terms during/after a toxic relationship or divorce. As a divorced single mom, she is passionate about coaching women one-on-one and founded the empowerment group Strong Savvy Women to support, inspire, and guide single women. She is also an award-winning journalist highlighting women's issues, including divorce, domestic abuse, coercive control, and singlehood.

Myth Busting and Golden Nuggets includ

Myth #1: “The Hysterical Woman.” Labeling women as "hysterical" diminishes their experiences and allows the cycle of abuse to continue.
Myth #2: “Why didn’t she just leave?” One reason: You need to have a safe exit plan, which takes time and planning.
Myth #3: If there isn’t physical violence, it’s not really abuse. The more we tell stories of domestic abuse, the more aware we can become.
Myth #4: “It only happens in poor families.” Domestic abuse doesn't discriminate and affects people across all socioeconomic backgrounds.
Myth #5: “What happens in someone’s home is a private matter.” Domestic abuse isn't a private issue; it has societal repercussions.
What you can do to help break the cycle of abuse and raise awareness.

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About this week's special guest: Amy Polacko

Get Wise to the Tricks and Traps of Toxic People: Avoiding Narcissists and Sociopaths in Your Life with Former Investigative Journalist and Divorce Coach, Amy Polacko

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freedomwarriortribe/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/freedomwarriortribe/

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Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode:

Special Bonus Episode EMPOWERED: How a New Family Court Law is (and isn’t) Helping Some Victims of IPV with Amy Polacko

Amy’s article: ‘Hysterical’ Women Out for Revenge: Family Court’s Misogynistic Tropes Traumatize Women and Children

Amy’s published Ms. articles

Joan Meier Study: Child Custody Outcomes in Cases Involving Parental Alienation and Abuse Allegations

National Safe Parents Organization

Domestic Abuse Hotline or 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

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THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:

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Easy-to-use online forms and guides
A step-by-step walkthrough of the divorce process
Access to experienced divorce professionals for help and support
And more!

If you're considering getting a divorce, please check out Hello Divorce. It's the best way to get a divorce without breaking the bank.

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Why You Need to Stop Calling Your Ex a Narcissist with Laila Aitken, Founder of Split.fyi on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #316

Mon, 16 Oct 2023 05:00:00 -0500

As we continue our domestic violence month awareness series, Susan Guthrie welcomes Laila Aitken Ali, the founder of Split.fyi. In this episode, Laila explains why it’s not helpful to keep calling your ex a narcissist and how you can regain your power!

Laila Aitken Ali is a passionate advocate for personal empowerment and serves as a dedicated Divorce and Separation Coach. In the role of CEO and Founder of Split.fyi, Laila has established an invaluable platform to support individuals facing the daunting challenges of divorce, breakups, or other significant life transitions. Often referred to as a "Divorce Doula," Laila extends a compassionate and guiding hand throughout the emotional and logistical journey of divorce.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Why you shouldn’t focus on the word “narcissist” to describe or diagnose your ex
How to approach communication and interaction to get closer to the outcome you desire
Processing hard emotions before, during, and after divorce
“Focus on yourself, how you show up, and operate through it all.”

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About this week's special guest: Laila Aitken Ali

Laila Aitken Ali is a passionate advocate for personal empowerment and serves as a dedicated Divorce and Separation Coach. In the role of CEO and Founder of Split.fyi (www.splitfyi.com), Laila has established an invaluable platform to support individuals facing the daunting challenges of divorce, breakups, or other significant life transitions. Often referred to as a "Divorce Doula," Laila extends a compassionate and guiding hand throughout the emotional and logistical journey of divorce.

As a Keynote Speaker, Podcaster, Mentor, and Strategist, Laila is pivotal in helping individuals unearth their inner resilience and map a clear path toward their future. With a steadfast commitment to communication and innovation, she continuously seeks novel approaches to simplify and destigmatize the divorce process.

Beyond entrepreneurship, Laila is a true Believer in Community and the transformative potential of Mentorship. Laila champions those undergoing profound life transitions, offering unwavering guidance and support at every stage of their journey.

Website: http://www.splitfyi.com

Laila on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lailaaitken/

Laila on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesplitcoach/

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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The Subtle Signs of Financial Abuse with Donna LaScala, CDFA, on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #315

Mon, 09 Oct 2023 05:00:00 -0500

This week, Susan Guthrie welcomes Divorce Professional Donna LaScala to Divorce & Beyond! Donna shares real-life stories of financial abuse and trickery to help you break free from the cycle.

You've probably heard the saying, "Knowledge is power." Well, let's talk about another reality: money equals control. In divorce, it's not uncommon to witness one partner using money to control another. With her impressive 30 years of experience in the financial services field, Donna LaScala shares some valuable insights in this episode. She'll guide you on handling your finances during a divorce, spotting signs of financial abuse, and finding a path forward if you are in this difficult situation.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Financial abuse isn’t always overt, and it can take many different forms
There may be reasonable explanations for some financial decisions - but if anything raises a red flag - look into it. Don’t ignore it.
It’s not always about the actual money but a way to manipulate and control
To move forward and get to the post-divorce life, you need a financial professional by your side

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About this week's special guest: Donna LaScala

Donna E. LaScala, CDFA, RFC, CLTC, is the President of Comprehensive Divorce Solutions LLC. and has been in the financial services profession for over 30 years. Holding professional designations of RFC (Registered Financial Consultant) with IARFC Ethics Approved Status, CDFA (Certified Divorce Financial Analyst), and CLTC (Certified in Long-Term Care), Donna is dedicated to providing a personalized approach to meet each client’s needs and individual goals. Donna is a member of the New York State Council on Divorce Mediation, the Long Island Collaborative Divorce Professionals (LICDP), the IACP (International Association of Collaborative Professionals), the NADP (National Association of Divorce Professionals) and the ADFP (Association of Divorce Financial Planners). In this capacity as a CDFP, she assists in the valuation of assets during separation and divorce proceedings including retirement accounts, personal accounts and closely held small businesses. She supports her clients in building a roadmap for their post-divorce financial future and helps mediators and attorneys develop and execute equitable distribution of assets with a personalized client-centered approach. Donna is a frequent contributor to The Divorce Hour with Ilyssa Panitz on CRN Radio, serves on the Board of Directors of the Financial Planning Association of LI and is the President of that organization as well as the Chair of the Women in Finance Committee. Donna was recently named as one of 2022’s Premier Business Women of Long Island by the Long Island Herald and was featured in the 2021 Who’s Who of Women in Financial Services.

Reach out to Donna:
By email compdivorce@gmail.com By phone 516-2347522

Website: https://comprehensivedivorcesolutions.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/donna-la-scala-rfc%C2%AE-cdfa%C2%AE-b42839120/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063234938770

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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The Anatomy of a Coercive Controller with Dr. Christine Cocchiola on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #314

Mon, 02 Oct 2023 05:00:00 -0500

This week’s episode is the first of several that will air during October, Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Susan Guthrie welcomes returning guest Dr. Christine Cocchiola! Dr. Cocchiola previously joined Susan on episodes about Coercive Control and Post-Seperation Abuse. In this episode, Dr. Cocchiola shares the dark underpinnings of a coercive controller and how you can work to protect yourself and your children.

Dr. Christine Marie Cocchiola, DSW, LCSW, is a Coercive Control Educator, Researcher, and survivor. She is a tenured college professor who has been teaching social work for the last 20 years. She has been a social justice advocate since she was 19, volunteering for a local domestic violence/sexual assault agency. Her expertise is in coercive control and the traumatic experiences of adult and child victims, researching and developing training on these topics nationally and internationally.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Dr. Cocchiola provides a primer on coercive control
The cause of characterological traits of a coercive controller
Why it is important to understand the cycle of coercive control
The role of being the protective parent
How character traits of an abuser impact both the judicial process and, most importantly, further harm adult victims and survivors
Some Golden Nugget tips for victims and words of wisdom: “You never have to carry shame for your experiences. Do what you need to do to protect yourself.”

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About this week's special guest: Dr. Christine Cocchiola

Most importantly, Dr. Cocchiola is a protective parent. Through her clinical expertise, research, and personal experiences, she understands the impact of coercive control on children. She coaches victims and survivors as they navigate parenting their harmed children. She has created programming to educate Allies, including protective parents, clinicians, coaches, and court professionals, on the experiences of children victims of the coercive controller.

Dr. Cocchiola’s website: https://coercivecontrolconsulting.com

Dr. Cocchiola on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.cocchiola_coercivecontrol/

Perfect Prey Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/perfect-prey-podcast/id1704962170

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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What a Tsunami of Hard Times Taught Jenny Stevens About Surfing Life’s Changes on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #313

Mon, 25 Sep 2023 05:00:00 -0500

The Champion of Change, Jenny Stevens, re-joins Susan Guthrie on this week’s episode of Divorce & Beyond! Jenny shares insights and lessons learned from her devastatingly difficult year. She opens up about how she weathered the changes and came out on the other side stronger, happier, and ready to help you navigate your life as it goes in new directions.

Jenny Stevens is a professional clinical counselor and Personal and Professional Coach. Having personally gone through her share of difficult life changes, she has gained tremendous insight into how change affects your life and how to keep moving forward. Her calling is to help people fully realize and design a life they love despite many challenges.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Resistance to change is normal, but you have to learn how to face it
Jenny opens up about the life-altering challenges she faced in 2022
Why Jenny says it is important to allow people to support you and be there for you during difficult times
Some changes do alter the way you move through the world.

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About this week's special guest: Jenny Stevens

Having personally gone through her share of difficult life changes, Jenny Stevens has gained tremendous insight into how change affects your life and how to keep moving forward. Her calling is to help people fully realize and design a life they love despite life’s many challenges. She is a professional clinical counselor and now a Personal and Professional Coach. She brings an honest, approachable, no-BS style to her client interactions. She cares deeply about helping others and supporting her clients to make the changes that they have always wanted but weren’t equipped with the right tools to make happen.

Jenny's credentials include:

Masters in Professional Counseling at Argosy Chicago
B.A. in Health and Fitness Promotion from Texas Christian University
Mediation Skills Training from Northwestern University
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor by the State of Illinois

She is now the owner and founder of Jenny Stevens Coaching, offering personal and professional coaching to individuals looking to make positive change.

Jenny’s website: http://jennystevenscoach.com

Reach out to Jenny at: jenny@jennystevenscoach.com

Jenny on Instagram: http://instagram.com/jennystevenscoach

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Know Your Divorce Options with Attorney Anthony Diaz on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #312

Mon, 18 Sep 2023 05:00:00 -0500

Joining Susan Guthrie on today’s episode of Divorce & Beyond is Attorney Anthony Diaz! Believe it or not, there is more than one way to divorce - litigation is not always the answer. Anthony takes us behind the scenes of a consultation to understand the various divorce process options available. Once you know these options, you can make the best decision for your family and future.

Anthony J. Diaz, Esq, is a Family Law and Collaborative Divorce attorney and Florida Certified Family Law mediator specializing in resolving disputes easily, effortlessly, and amicably. Anthony has been Collaboratively trained since 2009, taken numerous advanced trainings, and collaborated on numerous cases.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

When you go into your divorce consultation, have a summary of where you are and an idea of what life would look like after divorce.
Anthony takes us through out-of-court options with no attorney involvement, some attorney involvement, or attorney + other professional involvement.
Can divorcing couples consult with a divorce attorney together?
The most supportive out-of-court option: Collaborative divorce
The difference between litigation and a collaborative approach to divorce

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About this week's special guest: Anthony Diaz

Anthony J. Diaz, Esq, is a Family Law and Collaborative Divorce attorney and Florida Certified Family Law mediator specializing in resolving disputes easily, effortlessly and amicably. Anthony has been Collaboratively trained since 2009, taken numerous advanced trainings and collaborated numerous cases. He was selected as 1 of 21 participants of the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals Leadership Academy. He is currently co-chair of the Florida Academy of Collaborative Professionals Outreach Committee. In his out of court practice, Anthony is known as The Peacemaker. He is passionate in supporting his clients to do divorce differently with many non-litigation options. As Collaborative attorney and mediator, Anthony utilizes his professional and personal experiences to guide others from pain to peace. He also helps others to resolve conflict with compassion and have relationships with passion and purpose. Anthony is also an international speaker whose passion, mission and purpose is to help those in pain to move on from their divorce with dignity.

Schedule your complimentary 45-minute consultation with Anthony on his website www.AnthonyDiazLaw.com, by email anthony@anthonydiazlaw.com, or by telephone 407-212-7807

Anthony Diaz on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/CollaborativelySpeaking

Anthony Diaz on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/the1peacemaker/

Anthony Diaz on Instagram: http://instagram.com/thecollaborativepeacemaker

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Mortgage Must-Knows for Divorce from Tami Wollensak, CDLP on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #311

Mon, 11 Sep 2023 05:00:00 -0500

This week on the Divorce and Beyond Podcast, Susan Guthrie welcomes back Certified Divorce Lending Professional Tami Wollensak! Tami shares her absolute MUST-KNOW insights about divorce and mortgages. This episode can help you avoid making some truly expensive mistakes!

Tami was previously a guest on the popular episode “It’s All About the House: What You Need to Think About Before You Decide to Keep the House.” She is a licensed mortgage loan originator and a 28+ year industry veteran. She has discovered her passion in helping divorcing individuals navigate their home equity solutions and mortgage options while going through the most challenging time of their lives.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

If you want to keep the house, you must consider what is going to happen to the mortgage
What you need to know about the receipt of income and timelines when it comes to obtaining a new mortgage for the marital home
All income isn’t always qualified income
In some cases, mortgages can be assumable by the spouse who is going to keep the house, but things can get tricky

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About this week's special guest: Tami Wollensack

Tami Wollensak is a licensed mortgage loan originator and a 28+ year veteran of the industry, she has experience working in multiple roles and facets of the industry. She has discovered her true passion in helping divorcing individuals navigate their home equity solutions and mortgage options while going through the most challenging time.

Tami has earned the certiﬁcation as a Certiﬁed Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP®). This specialization provides the ability to identify potential gaps in the agreement that cannot be met during the mortgage process. Tami works with her client’s attorney, coach, mediator, or ﬁnancial advisor to help guide them through all the options available to ensure a successful outcome regarding the divorcing couple’s real estate or future purchase. Tami has been a guest on multiple podcasts, speaks regularly and contributes to many media outlets on divorce mortgage planning and helping divorcing homeowners to make better and more informed decisions when it comes to their real property.

As a Mortgage Loan Originator, Tami’s goal is to educate her clients, take the mystery and anxiety out of the mortgage process, and provide a sense of security and peace to each of them. Tami can lend in all 50 states. (NMLS #1963450)

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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America’s Favorite Dating Expert, Bela Gandhi, on the Hottest Topics in Dating After Divorce on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #310

Mon, 04 Sep 2023 05:00:00 -0500

America’s Favorite Dating Expert, Bela Gandi, returns to the podcast this week! Susan Guthrie welcomes Bela as she shares the three hottest topics in dating right now!

This podcast episode gives listeners a refreshing take on today’s latest dating dynamics - from dating #beigeflags to video dating and everything in between. Bela offers an encouraging perspective about how to approach love with an open heart (and mind), value your time, and prioritize genuine connections over superficial victories.

Bela Gandhi is the founder of Smart Dating Academy and is a nationally acclaimed dating and relationship expert. You’ve seen her on Good Morning America, TODAY, Kelly Clarkson, Steve Harvey, and many more news and media outlets. She has a viral TEDx about love and elevator people. Once you watch it, you will know that Bela is the very best of elevator people. She has been a guest with us many times before, and we’re thrilled that she’s here with us again today to talk all about hot topics in dating.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Bela explains beige flags and addresses whether or not a beige flag can turn into a red flag
Keep an open mind and cast your net out wide, “Love always comes in an unexpected package.”
Why Bela says “butterflies” aren’t typically a good thing in dating.
Back to school, back to love?
Go on a video date first because your time is your most precious commodity. Video dating is an amazing pre-qualifier!
Practice being grateful and gracious when a matchmaking setup is not a fit
The Barbie movie, The Ken Effect, and dating
“We’re not a date to win. We’re on a date to connect.”

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About this week's special guest: Bela Gandhi

Bela’s website, Smart Dating Academy: http://www.smartdatingacademy.com

Also mentioned in this episode:
Susan on Smart Dating Academy Podcast, The Unexpected #1 Relationship Killer: 46% of Divorced Couples Agree!

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SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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Dealing with School Zones from Two Homes with Parenting Expert Christina McGhee on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #309

Mon, 28 Aug 2023 05:00:00 -0500

This week, America’s Favorite Parenting Expert, Christina McGhee, returns to Divorce & Beyond with host Susan Guthrie. Christina shares her insights on how to make back-to-school work for your kids, even amid a divorce!

We are starting a new school year, and challenges for parents, co-parents, and kids come with it. The start of a new school year is stressful and exciting, and if you add family restructuring due to divorce - it can be extremely overwhelming. In this episode, Christina McGhee shares ways to support your kids and encourage openness and connection during back-to-school.

Christina McGhee, MSW, is an internationally recognized divorce parenting expert, speaker, and author. While splitting up is undeniably hard, Christina believes divorce doesn't have to equal devastation for families. She feels with the right kind of information and support, parents can be a child's absolute best resource when families change.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Co-parenting and how to approach the beginning of the new school year
How you can use the start of the school year as a connection point
It may be helpful to give teachers or schools a heads-up about navigating co-parenting transitions, etc. Equally important is to talk to your kids about the changes ahead of time and how that might impact their school experience
Creating a co-parenting code of conduct: Create a plan about how you and your co-parent are going to conduct yourselves when in the presence of your children

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About this week's special guest: Christina McGhee

Co-Parenting Specialist Certification Training Program with Christina McGhee: https://mostenguthrie.com/co-parenting-specialist/

Access Christina’s Co-Parent Resource Guide: http://www.divorceandchildren.com/

Christina’s PDF Article: How to Set Kids Up for Back-to-School Success

Christina’s book Parenting Apart, Christina McGhee

Christina on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/divorceandchildren

Christina on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorceandchildren/

Christina on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christinamcghee

Also mentioned in this episode:

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SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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Expensive Mistakes Made in Complex Property Division Cases with Divorce Financial Professional Nicole Romito on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #308

Mon, 21 Aug 2023 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie welcomes Top Financial Professional Nicole Romito as she shares some of the big issues to look for in a complex property divorce case. This episode can save you big bucks!

We’ve discussed many financial issues that arise during divorce - including whether or not to keep the house, how to find hidden assets and more. In this episode, Nicole Romito will help us dive into the more difficult issues about asset division in divorce. There is no do-over when it comes to the division of assets. You are making life-altering decisions that will impact you for the rest of your life. Knowledge is power when it comes to these complex financial issues, and even more powerful is having a financial professional who knows what they’re doing.

Nicole Romito, CFP, CDFA, is a Partner and Lead Advisor with Private Vista. While she has clients who are in all different cycles of life, she gets an extra boost collaborating with women who are going through a transition and are making life-altering financial decisions. This could be due to divorce, becoming a widow, selling their business, or being able to retire from their corporate executive career.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Why it is so important to have a financial planner on your divorce team
The most common complex investment pitfalls
“It’s a lot easier to come to agreements when it’s a win-win agreement.”
Retirement, pensions, 401ks, and IRAs asset division
What you should be aware of about executive compensation

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About this week's special guest: Nicole Romito

What excites Nicole about what she gets to do each day? Helping women make smart and thoughtful decisions as they navigate an emotionally stressful time. Clients see her as a teacher, advocate, and partner. Having gone through a divorce herself and leaving a 10-year career with a bank to start my own financial planning practice, Nicole understands the stress of being 100% responsible for your financial security. That is why she invests extra time with her clients and their other professionals such as their attorney and CPA to create a plan which takes them from a place of fear and uncertainty to one of clarity and confidence.

Whether it is a proposed divorce settlement, settling an estate or navigating deferred compensation plans and exercising employer stock plans on your way to retirement; her clients are relieved, that together, we create a forward-looking financial plan so they can see what the future may mean for them and their family. Since I walked by their side and never judged, during a very emotional time during which is it common to become flooded and unable to make decisions, they look to me as their ongoing partner to successfully manage their wealth.

Connect with Nicole: https://myprivatevista.com/index.html

Nicole on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicole-romito-cfp-cdfa-993b07/

Nicole on Instagram: http://instagram.com/nicole.romito

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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A Divorce Lawyer’s Top Tips to Save on Attorney Fees with Joy Rosenthal on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #307

Mon, 14 Aug 2023 05:00:00 -0500

This week, Susan Guthrie welcomes attorney Joy Rosenthal to the Divorce & Beyond podcast. Joy shares how you can save money on attorney fees in your divorce. One of the most expensive things about divorce is the lawyers, so this episode is worth its weight in gold!

Compassionate Attorney, Divorce Mediator, and Family Law Educator Joy Rosenthal joins Susan for a topic that will be a popular one - how to save money on divorce attorney fees! Together they get to the heart of what you can do to reduce the high costs of hiring and working with an attorney during your divorce.

Joy S. Rosenthal, Esq. founded Rosenthal Law & Mediation in 2006 to help New York City families with divorce mediation and collaborative law.  Joy teaches family law at the City University of New York School of Law and developed Landing On Your Feet - A Compassionate Lawyer's Guide to Divorce for people experiencing divorce.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Joy answers the question, “Are divorce attorneys outrageously expensive?”
“The more contentious the divorce, the more expensive it will be.”
Look forward, not back, and don’t focus on blame. Focus on the priorities of divorce and your beyond.
The various choices you can make about the process of divorce - mediation as opposed to litigation, for example
Selecting the right attorney: Questions to ask about attorney rates and fees
How hiring and working with other support professionals like a therapist can help reduce your overall costs
When you have unrealistic expectations of what you want or what your attorney can do, you may end up driving up your divorce expenses

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About this week's special guest: Joy Rosenthal

Joy has been a compassionate lawyer and divorce mediator based in New York City. Joy spent 10 years representing children in family court before forming her own firm, Rosenthal Law & Mediation in 2006. She is recognized as a New York City SuperLawyer and is an adjunct professor of family law at the CUNY School of Law.

Joy developed an online course called "Landing On Your Feet - A Compassionate Lawyer's Guide to Divorce" which helps people face divorce with confidence & clarity through legal information, coaching and strategy so they can save time and money for themselves and their families.

Joy’s website: http://joyrosenthal.com/

Joy on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/joymediator/

Joy on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/nycdivorcemediator/

Joy on LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/joyrosenthal/

How to Save Time, Stress, and $ On Your Divorce: https://courses.joyrosenthal.com/webinar-info-page/

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!!

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Dear Parents: What Your Kids Want You to Know About Divorce with Grace Casper on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #306

Mon, 07 Aug 2023 05:00:00 -0500

This week, Susan Guthrie welcomes podcaster and child of divorce Grace Casper to the Divorce & Beyond podcast. Grace shares insights on what your kids wish you knew about how your divorce impacts them.

The scariest part of divorce for parents is how it may negatively impact their kids. In this episode, Grace Casper joins Susan to offer her unique perspective (as a child of divorce) about what kids need, want, think, and feel about divorce and how it affects them. During this conversation and in Grace’s new book, Dear Parents: Notes From a Child of Divorce, Grace shares how you can help your kids through a divorce and have open and ongoing conversations with them.

Grace Casper’s world changed forever when her parents told her that they were getting a divorce. In the wake of this, Grace started writings tips for her younger brother based on what she was learning from her parents’ divorce, trying to help him as they went from house to house. Fourteen years later, Grace began the first draft of the book that would be borne from these tips, writing in the hopes of being able to provide parents with a look into the effects of divorce on their children with first-hand experience. She also runs a page called Divorce Tips From Kids and a podcast called "Divorce: What I Wish My Parents Knew." This podcast allows other children of divorce to share their stories.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Creating a catalyst for conversations with children about divorce - conversations about divorce are not a one-and-done conversation
How to empower your kids (and keep them at the center) - a good place to start is to trial co-parenting schedules and ask them for input
Golden Nugget! Grace’s “suggestion box” approach to parenting during divorce
Teaching your kids to find the good
Find a safe person to share your thoughts and feelings with about divorce that is NOT your children
It is a gift to your child and yourself to be able to be the safe parent

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About this week's special guest: Grace Casper

When she was eight years old, Grace Casper’s world changed forever when her parents told her that they were getting a divorce. In the wake of this, Grace started writings tips for her younger brother based on what she was learning from her parents’ divorce, trying to help him as they went from house to house. Fourteen years later, Grace began the first draft of the book that would be borne from these tips, writing in the hopes of being able to provide parents with a look into the effects of divorce on their children with first-hand experience. She also runs a page called Divorce Tips From Kids and a podcast called "Divorce: What I Wish My Parents Knew". This podcast allows other children of divorce to share their story. Grace Casper is a writer, speaker, podcast host, and full-time elementary school librarian. She lives in Waco, Texas with her tiny Maltipoo, Teddy, and two of her best friends. She graduated from Baylor University, but her hometown in Colorado will always have her heart.

Grace’s website: DivorceTipsFromKids.com

Read the first two chapters of Grace’s book, for free! Visit: https://www.divorcetipsfromkids.com/freebie and enter code: FOR THE KIDS

Grace’s book: Dear Parents: Notes From a Child of Divorce

Grace on Instagram: http://instagram.com/divorcetipsfromkids

Grace on Facebook: http://facebook.com/divorcetipsfromkids

Grace on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@divorcetipsfromkids

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THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:

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If you are terrified that divorce will ruin your child, this course will help you develop a plan that works for your family.
Learn how to create a parenting plan that meets the unique needs of your family.
Understand the terminology of parenting plans and how they are used in the legal process.
Learn strategies for effective communication and conflict resolution with your co-parent.

Get guidance on addressing common challenges and issues that arise in co-parenting.

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After a long day at work helping people to navigate divorce, I like to unwind with a little binge-watching, and currently, Amazon’s Prime Video is my channel of choice.

If you want to try out Prime Video for free, I’ve got a 30-day trial for you! Just go to https://divorcebeyond.com/Prime-Video for your free trial.

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

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How to Make Good Divorce Decisions with Karen Covy on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #306

Mon, 31 Jul 2023 05:00:00 -0500

Today on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie is joined by guest Karen Covy as she shares what you need to know and do to make good decisions. This is especially important during divorce, so listen in!

Divorce is a time when you are going to make important life decisions in a short period. If you don’t know how or don’t do it well, you will kick yourself in the aftermath. When discussing divorce, we don’t typically talk about making sound, reasoned decisions and, more specifically, how to make them. In this episode, Karen takes us through a scientific approach to decision-making. She helps you become the CEO of divorce and learn how to make those big decisions and do it well. You never want to look back and think, I wish I had thought that through more clearly - so be sure to listen and learn!

Karen Covy is a Divorce and Decision Coach, Lawyer, Mediator, Speaker, and Author. She coaches busy professionals and business owners who want to make clear, confident decisions during highly-charged emotional situations. Karen also helps her clients become the CEOs of their divorce so that they can navigate their divorce with less conflict, less expense, and less damage to themselves and their children.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

What the science of decision-making tells us about deciding to divorce - Hint: it’s all emotional.
How to make a big, emotional decision when there’s a lot at stake, and you don’t want to screw up
“A big part of the decision-making process is figuring out what you want and then believing you have the ability to create that thing.”
Where to start when deciding whether you should stay or go
Why it’s important to reality-test your options
“If you don’t take action on a decision, it’s not really a decision.”

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About this week's special guest: Karen Covy

Karen Covy is a Divorce and Decision Coach, Lawyer, Mediator, Speaker and Author. She coaches busy professionals and business owners who want to make clear, confident decisions during highly-charged emotional situations. Karen also helps her clients become the CEOs of their own divorce, so they can navigate through their divorce with less conflict, less expense, and less damage to themselves and their children.

Karen is the author of When Happily Ever After Ends: How to Survive Your Divorce Emotionally, Financially, and Legally. She is also the creator of the online divorce program, The Divorce Road Map 2.0 and the host of the podcast, Off the Fence. You can connect with Karen on Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn and YouTube, as well as on her website at karencovy.com.

D & B Listeners, claim your free Trial Separation Checklist from Karen! Claim your copy here: https://karencovy.com/divorce-and-beyond/

Karen’s website: https://karencovy.com

Karen on Instagram: http://instagram.com/KarenCovylawyer

Karen on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KarenCovy

When Happily Ever After Ends, How to Survive Your Divorce Emotionally, Financially and Legally: https://amzn.to/45l9cVE

Also mentioned in this episode:
Decisive, Chip Heath and Dan Heath

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After a long day at work helping people to navigate divorce, I like to unwind with a little binge-watching, and currently, Amazon’s Prime Video is my channel of choice.

If you want to try out Prime Video for free, I’ve got a 30-day trial for you! Just go to https://divorcebeyond.com/Prime-Video for your free trial.

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

Don't forget to visit the webpage www.divorceandbeyondpod.com and sign up for the free NEWSLETTER to receive a special welcome video from Susan and more!!

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Divorce and Your Health: What You Need to Know with Rebecca Bloom on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #305

Mon, 24 Jul 2023 05:00:00 -0500

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes Rebecca Bloom as she shares about the impact of divorce on your health and what you need to know to protect yourself!

What does your health have to do with divorce? Everything. Often a divorce is impacted by a person’s health journey, or divorce significantly impacts their future health. Rebecca joins Susan for an in-depth conversation about the intersection between health, health law, and divorce.

Rebecca Bloom is a Yale College and New York University School of Law-educated patient and workplace advocate, storytelling coach, editor, content strategist, and writer. Rebecca has written and edited numerous books, including memoirs, cookbooks, workplace manuals, and business books.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Why women are particularly vulnerable when interacting with the healthcare system, especially after divorce
How to think creatively about protecting yourself physically, financially, and emotionally before, during, and after divorce
Creating awareness about how your mental and physical health is impacted during divorce
Why you need a project manager and support team for healing

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About this week's special guest: Rebecca Bloom

As a former workplace and benefits attorney, Rebecca has served nonprofits in the education and women's health space. Her longest and proudest affiliation is with Bay Area Cancer Connections, where she has served as a patient advocate, healthcare, insurance, and workplace advisor for women fighting breast and ovarian cancer for 25 years. Rebecca was a contributing writer and editor for Breast Cancer in the Workplace, published by the Northern California Cancer Center in the early 2000s. The book has recently been updated, expanded, and reissued by the Cancer Prevention Institute of California and is now titled Working with Cancer.

Website: http://www.whenwomengetsick.com/

Rebecca on Instagram: http://instagram.com/whenwomengetsick

Rebecca on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebecca-bloom-0324b833/

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THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:

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Say hello to an easier, kinder, and less expensive divorce.

They can handle almost every divorce without a court for thousands less than hiring a lawyer.

Easy, quick online divorce process
We review, file, and serve for you
Expert legal and financial help as you go

Get more information, resources, and support at hellodivorce.com/beyond and receive $100 off your service with the code BEYOND! Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF!
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After a long day at work helping people to navigate divorce, I like to unwind with a little binge-watching, and currently, Amazon’s Prime Video is my channel of choice.

If you want to try out Prime Video for free, I’ve got a 30-day trial for you! Just go to https://divorcebeyond.com/Prime-Video for your free trial.

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

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The 46 Tools, Tips and Tricks You Need to Have a Good Divorce with Andy Heller on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #304

Mon, 17 Jul 2023 05:00:00 -0500

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq., invites Author Andy Heller to talk about taking the high road in your divorce and how it allows you to divorce with compassion for your family and yourself.

Andy offers a masterful perspective on navigating the divorce process. Andy’s book “Take the High Road, Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family” shares forty-six tools, tips, and strategies. The book is his give back to make the divorce process easier for those considering or on the divorce path.

Andy is a successful businessman, not a divorce professional. While navigating through his own divorce, he read countless support books to help him navigate the process. While helpful, Andy identified a crucial hole in the self-help space for men and women navigating divorce.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

What Andy means by “take the high road” in divorce
“Always tell the truth and avoid playing games.”
How to help your children manage life changes and communication guidelines when your child is with their co-parent
Don’t forget about your own needs when divorcing. Self-care is the most critical when you are going through a stressful time.
Beware of the two categories of advice givers - know who to listen to and who to not listen to!
Healthy dealings with your ex: “Put on an imaginary rubber suit.”

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About this week's special guest: Andy Heller

Andy Heller is a successful businessman and not a divorce professional such as a divorce attorney, mediator, therapist, co-parenting counselor, or the host of other professionals that support and service those going through divorce. Among his professional accomplishments, Andy co-authored two best-selling real estate investment books in the 2000s. While the books were well received, Andy had no interest in writing another book.

That decision changed after his own divorce.

While navigating through his own divorce Andy read countless support books to help him navigate through the process. While helpful, Andy identified a crucial hole in the self-help space for men and women navigating through divorce. Andy’s book “Take the High Road, Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family” is his give back with a stated goal of making the divorce process easier for those who are considering or who are on the divorce path.

Several factors make his book truly groundbreaking. First, Andy brings a businessman’s objective perspective into his counsel. Andy interviewed attorneys, divorcees, therapists, co-parenting counselors, mediators, special masters, and others to arrive at advice and guidance from the leading industry experts. Andy presents the guidance in 46 strategies, tools, and tips that armed with the experience and counsel of these experts, the readers can themselves, hopefully their former spouses, and most importantly their children land in a healthier place in the months and years after the conclusion of their divorces.

Andy’s book: Take the High Road, Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family

Andy on Facebook: https: /www.facebook.com/takethehighroadbook

Andy on Instagram: https: /www.instagram.com/andyhheller/

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THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

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Point C Divorce: Understanding the Impact on Kids with Former Judge Lawrence Jones and Joni Jones, RN on The Divorce and Beyond #303

Mon, 10 Jul 2023 05:00:00 -0500

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes Former Family Court Judge Lawrence Jones and Mental Health professional and RN Joni Jones to explore the unintentional way parents can cause issues for their children during divorce.

In this episode, Lawrence and Joni share their unique perspective on the impact of divorce on children. They also offer tips on supporting your children and avoiding unintentionally hurting them during their divorce journey.

Lawrence R. Jones recently retired from  public service as a New Jersey Superior Court Judge and is presently a member of the Board of Directors of the New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators and a member of the teaching faculty of the Association.  (Correction: At one point in the episode, Susan stated that Lawrence had decades on the bench. In fact, he has decades in the profession and many years on the bench.)

Joni Jones is a registered nurse, board certified in psychiatric and mental health nursing, who retired from the New Jersey State Board of Nursing, serving the public   under two separate Governors (Jon Corzine/Chris Christie). She also served on N.J.  Governor Murphy’s transition team on health-related issues.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Stay focused on what truly is in the best interest of the children
The effects of negative talk about the other co-parent to or in front of your children
What children actually want from their parents during divorce can be vastly different than what parents think their children want
Tips to help reduce the trauma of divorce in children
Why extending an olive branch can help with communication between you and your soon-to-be ex
Take “Yes, but…” and turn it into “Yes, and…”

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About this week's special guests: Larry Jones and Joni Jones

Connect with Larry and Joni AND find their video Point-C Divorce at:
https://pointcdivorce.com.

Lawrence R. Jones recently retired from  public service as a New Jersey Superior Court Judge, and is presently a member of the Board of Directors of the New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators, and a member of the teaching faculty of the Association as well. 

During his years on the Bench, he authored over 60 opinions on novel issues of law, and served as the President of the New Jersey Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges (NJCJFCJ). Following his departure from the Judiciary, he was honored by the New Jersey Law Journal as a Distinguished Leader of the N.J. Bar. In November 2017, he was appointed by Governor-elect Phil Murphy to serve on the gubernatorial transition team relative to legal issues and social justice.

In his post-Judicial career, he authored the 10-part "Settlement Series" for the New Jersey Law Journal, which focuses on techniques for improving the possibility of settling high-conflict cases. Additionally, was also appointed as an adjunct professor at both Monmouth University and Montclair University. He has also continued to present and lecture extensively on multiple legal subjects for the New Jersey State Bar Association, the New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators, the Association of Professional Family Mediators, and other legal and  professional organizations.  He has served  on the New Jersey State Bar Association’s Legal Education Committee and  

has also served as the Vice-Chair of the NJSBA Dispute Resolution Section (DRS). He has also been appointed to the Board of Directors of the New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators. 

Joni Jones is a registered nurse, board certified in psychiatric and mental health nursing, who retired from the New Jersey State Board of Nursing, serving the public   under two separate Governors (Jon Corzine/Chris Christie). She also served on N.J.  Governor Murphy’s transition team on health related issues. In 2013, Joni was the recipient of the Elizabeth Kellogg Award for Excellence in Nursing. Joni is one of the original founders of Parents of Autistic Children (POAC), and has presented before the Autism Society of America and the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts on autism-related issues. She is also a former certified developmental disabilities nurse. 

From 2002-2009, Joni worked with multiple major league baseball teams to create the first-ever "Autism Awareness Day" games hosted by the New York Yankees, Florida Marlins, Pittsburgh Pirates,  and (then) Montreal Expos. In 2002, the National Baseball Hall of Fame in Cooperstown New York honored the Lakewood BlueClaws, minor league affiliate of the Philadelphia Phillies, for hosting pro baseball's first-ever Autism Awareness Day.   Comcast TV won a 2003 Emmy award for its coverage of the event. 

Joni  was previously a certified instructor  in  Mental Health First Aid, and has authored numerous published  articles on mental health-related issues. She received New Jersey certification in crisis intervention as well. 

Joni is the co-author of “10 Basic Principles of Cultural Competency (BCPP): A Starting Point for New Mediators”, which was presented at the 2021 Academy of Professional Mediators program on Mediation and Autism Spectrum Disorder, and again at the 2021 New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators’ inaugural forum on cultural competency. 

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Busting Divorce Myths Mini-Episode #5: In Divorce There’s Always a Bad Guy on Divorce & Beyond

Fri, 07 Jul 2023 05:00:00 -0500

This week on Divorce and Beyond, as we celebrate America's Independence, Susan has created a week-long series of mini-episodes where she will be busting the Top 5 Divorce Myths for you so that you can celebrate your freedom from their misleading and harmful assumptions!

Myth #5: If a Divorce Is Happening, Then Someone Did Something Wrong

Debunking the Blame Game in Divorce – Myth Busting Series Finale with Susan

Does divorce always imply guilt? Must there always be a 'bad guy' for a relationship to end? In the grand finale of our special Divorce Myth Busting series, our host Susan invites you to rethink the narrative around this life-altering decision.

In this episode, Susan disentangles the misconceptions that surround the reasons for divorce, setting the record straight on 'fault' versus 'no-fault' grounds and explaining why 'irreconcilable differences' is more than just a legal catchphrase.

Divorce can be a difficult topic to navigate, and it's not always about finding fault. Join Susan as she navigates through the complex terrain of divorce laws and uncovers the truth that lays hidden behind societal assumptions. This episode is not just about busting myths; it's about understanding that endings can sometimes be new beginnings.

Unravel the truth and rethink divorce with Susan. Because not all endings are failures, and every story has more than one side.

Catch the finale episode of our Divorce Myth Busting series – for a perspective shift you won't want to miss!

Mentioned in this episode:

What a "No-Fault" Divorce Really Means and Why It's Important with Rosemarie Ferrante

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Busting Divorce Myths Mini-Episode #4: Your Kids Will Harmed by the Divorce on Divorce & Beyond

Thu, 06 Jul 2023 05:00:00 -0500

Myth #4: Divorce is Always Harmful for Kids.

Welcome to Day 4 of this captivating episode of our Myth Busting Mini-Episodes series hosted by Susan! Today, Susan challenges the common belief that divorce always has a negative impact on children. Join her as she uncovers the truth behind this myth and explores the real factors that contribute to children's well-being during and after divorce. Through in-depth research and expert insights, Susan reveals that it is not the divorce itself that harms children, but rather the conflict between parents. Discover how effective co-parenting, cooperation, and emotional support can minimize the negative effects of divorce on children. Tune in and gain valuable knowledge from Susan's expertise to navigate the complexities of divorce and create a nurturing environment for your children. Don't miss this eye-opening episode that will reshape your understanding of the impact of divorce on children.

Tune in to today's fourth bonus mini-episode and find out - this episode can change your divorce for the better from day one!

Mentioned in this episode:

Christina McGhee, America's Favorite Parenting Expert, has been a guest many times on Divorce & Beyond. Her episodes can be found here: https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/divorce-and-children

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Busting Divorce Myths Mini-Episode #3: Women ALWAYS Get Alimony, Don’t They? on Divorce & Beyond

Wed, 05 Jul 2023 05:00:00 -0500

Myth #3: Women Always Get Alimony, Don't They? In this third installment of our Myth Busting Mini-Episodes series, Susan tackles the myth surrounding alimony that assumes it is awarded to women only. Susan delves into the reality that alimony, also known as spousal support, can be awarded to either spouse based on a variety of factors. These factors include the length of the marriage, each spouse's income and earning potential, and the standard of living established during the marriage. Join Suan as she debunks this gender bias myth and shed light on the truth behind alimony in divorce cases.

Tune in to today's third bonus mini-episode and find out - this episode can change your divorce for the better from day one!

Mentioned in this episode:

Everything You Need to Know About Support with Susan Guthrie on The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast from Kate Anthony (Part One of the Cross-Over Episode)

Alimony, Why You Want it and Why It's Not All That with Kate Anthony on Divorce & Beyond (Part Two of the Cross-Over Episode)

What Impact Does Your Standard of Living REALLY Have on Your Divorce with Olivia Summerhill on Divorce & Beyond

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Busting Divorce Myths Mini-Episode #2: Moms ALWAYS Get the Kids in Divorce on Divorce & Beyond

Tue, 04 Jul 2023 05:00:00 -0500

Myth #2: Moms Always Get Custody in Divorce. In this special episode of our Myth Busting Mini-Episodes series, Susan tackles the myth that mothers always get custody of the children in a divorce. She explores the reality that, in most cases, both parents have an equal right to custody of their children. Custody arrangements should be based on the best interests of the children, not the gender of the parent. Susan delves into the factors that influence custody decisions and highlights the importance of creating a nurturing environment for children during and after divorce. Join us as Susan debunks this pervasive myth and sheds light on the truth behind child custody in divorce.

Tune in to today's second bonus mini-episode and find out - this episode can change your divorce for the better from day one!

Mentioned in this episode:

Christina McGhee, America's Favorite Parenting Expert: https://divorceandchildren.com

Christina's many episodes on Divorce & Beyond can be found here: https://divorceandbeyondpod.com/divorce-and-children

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Busting Divorce Myths Mini-Episode #1: Divorce Means WAR on Divorce & Beyond

Mon, 03 Jul 2023 05:46:43 -0500

Myth #1: Divorce means WAR! One of the most pervasive myths about divorce is that it means a long, acrimonious and horrible process where the spouses, and their children, are constantly caught in a cycle of conflict. In fact, it is this myth that often prompts people at the beginning of their divorce to hire the meanest attorney they can find and to do things like hide money and service papers immediately. But is this true? Does divorce mean war?

Tune in to today's first bonus mini-episode and find out - this episode can change your divorce for the better from day one!

Mentioned in this episode:

Special Replay Episode: ”We Need to Talk:” How to Have the Most Difficult Conversation of Your Life with Kate Anthony

Eye-Opening Insights on How to Do Divorce Right from Top Attorney Beth McCormack

Can You Really Have an ”Amicable” Divorce? Find Out How with the Founder of the Amicable Divorce Network, Tracy Moore Grant

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What are the Best Interests of the Children with Professor Stephanie Tang on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #302

Sun, 02 Jul 2023 15:06:30 -0500

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Professor Stephanie Tang joins Susan Guthrie Esq. to explain what “in the best interests of the children” really means and why it’s not as simple as you think!

One of the topics listeners have been reaching out about the most lately is “the best interests of the children” standard in family court. Professor Tang joins Susan to share the various factors that go into determining children's best interests and describes the impact of a judge’s discretion. What seems like such a simple topic is truly the most complicated in family court custody hearings.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Where the “best interests of the child” standard originated
Family court considerations of factors related to custody hearings
What judges look at when it comes to a child’s professed wishes
Stephanie answers, “Can a parent request a change to custodial orders over time if they don’t agree with the best interests of children determination?”
Does the bearing of what a parent wants come into play?

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About this week's special guest: Stephanie Tang

Stephanie L. Tang is an Assistant Professor of Law at Baylor Law School, teaching Family Law. Before joining Baylor, Professor Tang was a Partner at a family law firm in Chicago, where she specialized in all areas of family law. She obtained multiple certifications as a mediator, fellow with Collaborative Divorce Illinois, and a Certified Financial Litigator with the American Academy for Certified Financial Litigators. Professor Tang received a B.A. in Psychology and Legal Studies with Honors from Northwestern University in 2012. She then graduated from University of Illinois College of Law in 2015, Magna Cum Laude with pro bono notation. Professor Tang is the current Chair of the Illinois State Bar Association Family Law Section Council.

Learn more about Stephanie: https://www.baylor.edu/law/facultystaff/index.php

Stephanie’s Best Interests of the Child and the Expanding Family article: https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=4390144

Read Stephanie’s other scholarly papers: https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/cf_dev/AbsByAuth.cfm?per_id=2508965

Stephanie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephanie-tang/

Stephanie on Instagram: http://instagram/com/FamilyLawProf

Stephanie on Twitter: http://twitter.com/FamilyLawProf

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Special Replay Episode: ”We Need to Talk:” How to Have the Most Difficult Conversation of Your Life with Kate Anthony on Divorce & Beyond

Mon, 26 Jun 2023 05:00:00 -0500

In today's replay episode of Divorce & Beyond, Kate Anthony, our friend from The Divorce Survival Guide and a top divorce coach, will reveal how to have the most difficult talk of your life - telling your spouse you want a divorce. Tune in to gain invaluable guidance and strategies from this #2 of all-time episode.

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The decision to divorce is hard, and can take a long time, but the next step, telling your spouse, is one of the most critical steps in the process and it is imperative to do it right! Kate Anthony, Susan Guthrie's guru on all things communication, joins her for this episode to help you plan that conversation so that you start things off the best way possible. Trust us, this is truly one of the most important conversations that you will ever have and it pays to put time and effort into doing it the best way possible so that you can, as Kate says in the episode, put your head on the pillow that night knowing you did your best.

They say that you should start as you mean to go and that is never more true than when starting a divorce. How you tell your spouse, will set the stage for how your divorce will unfold and in many ways, how you will continue into your BEYOND so take the time and do it right!

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About this week's special guest: Kate Anthony

Kate Anthony is the host of the critically acclaimed podcast The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast and the creator of the groundbreaking online coaching program, Should I Stay or Should I Go? which helps women make the most difficult decision of their lives using coaching tools, relationship education, geeky neuroscience, community support, and deep self-work.

Kate empowers women to find their strength, passion, and confidence even in the most disempowering of circumstances and helps them move forward with concrete plans set on a solid foundation, putting their children at the center (not in the middle) of all their decisions.

In addition to her online programs, Kate works privately with clients all over the world.

Kate lives in Los Angeles with her teenage son (whom she lovingly co-parents with her ex-husband), their two dogs, and a handful of fish.

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Special Replay Episode: Divorcing a Narcissist or Borderline? How to Protect Yourself with Bill Eddy on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast

Mon, 19 Jun 2023 05:00:00 -0500

This week on Divorce and Beyond, we are replaying the most popular episode of all time with renowned expert Bill Eddy. In this episode, Bill shares vital tips from his book Splitting: How to Protect Yourself When Divorcing a Narcissist or Borderline. Stay tuned for invaluable insights in this special replay episode.

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Are you divorcing someone who is making the process as difficult and drawn out as they possible can? Are they sending you nasty emails, falsifying the truth, putting your children in the middle, abusing you, or abusing the system? Are they “persuasive blamers,” manipulating and fooling court personnel to get them on their side? Then you need the NEW and updated version of Bill Eddy's groundbreaking book, Splitting: How to Protect Yourself When Divorcing a Narcissist or Borderline! Bill returns to Divorce & Beyond to help you understand what you are dealing with and how to best protect yourself, and your children, when caught up in the emotional storm of divorce with a high conflict personality.

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About this week's special guest: Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq.

Bill Eddy is a lawyer, therapist, mediator, best-selling author, co-founder, andAr Chief Innovation Officer of the High Conflict Institute. He pioneered the High Conflict Personality Theory (HCP Theory) and has become an international expert on managing disputes involving high conflict personalities and personality disorders. He provides training to lawyers, judges, mediators, managers, human resource professionals, businesspersons, healthcare administrators, college administrators, homeowners’ association managers, ombudspersons, law enforcement, therapists and others. He has been a speaker and trainer in over 30 U.S. states and 10 countries.

Visit the High Conflict Institute to find out more about Bill, the Institute's wealth of resources for managing high conflict relationships and more of Bill's books! https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/

Listen to Bill's other episode, "Get Ready to BIFF Your High Conflict Co-Parent" on Divorce & Beyond here: https://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-q3hpd-f87a79

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Creating the Love You Want with Intentional Relationship Design with Theresa Beran Kulat on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #304

Mon, 12 Jun 2023 05:00:00 -0500

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes Theresa Beran Kulat, Esq., to share her innovative process of Intentional Relationship Design to help couples who want to create the relationship of their dreams.

In this episode, Theresa Beran Kulat explains how she takes her mediation skills and brings them to space to help people re-create and re-form (instead of end) their relationships. The work she does is truly transformational. If you are entering into a relationship, one that needs some work, or even if it's ending - there will be something in this episode that will be extremely valuable for you.

Theresa Beran Kulat stands for healthy relationships. For over 20 years, she has been helping families heal by working as a divorce mediator and collaborative lawyer. Along the way, she began holding space for couples who didn’t want their marriage to end – but who wanted to create a new marriage. Now, this offering - called “Intentional Relationship Design” - has been expanded and is now available to couples who may not yet be married but want to be conscious of creating their partnership.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

The difference between a litigated divorce and a client-centered divorce
How Theresa’s divorce informed the work she does today
Using intentional relationship design to recreate relationships in a supportive and facilitated environment
“You will have a breakdown in your relationship, the key is how do you negotiate it or navigate it?”
Theresa explains cuddle party rules and how she applies them to work with her clients!

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About this week's special guest: Theresa Beran Kulat, Esq.

Theresa Beran Kulat stands for healthy relationships. For over 20 years, she has been helping families heal through her working as a divorce mediator and Collaborative lawyer. Along the way, she began holding space for couples who didn’t want their marriage to end – but who wanted to create a new marriage. Now, this offering - called “Intentional Relationship Design” - has been expanded and is now available to couples who may not yet be married but want to be conscious in the creation of their partnership.

Theresa received a B.A. in Economics from John Carroll University and her J.D. from the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign. She has mastery level training the TantraNova Institute and Quantum Healing training in The Rowley Method. An astrologer since the 1980s, Theresa enjoys guiding people in the creation of satisfying relationships and provides training and public speaking on a variety of topics.

Theresa’s websites: http://TrinityFamilyLaw.com and http://Tbkulat.com

Theresa on Facebook: http://facebook.com/TeriBeranKulat

Theresa on Instagram: http://instagram.com/t_b_kulat

Theresa on LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/TheresaKulat

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Breaking the Cycle of Shame and Divorce with Beverly Price on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #303

Mon, 05 Jun 2023 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie, Esq, welcomes Beverly Price to share her journey from feeling shame after multiple divorces to finding empowerment and happiness. Tune into this week’s inspiring episode of Divorce & Beyond.

Divorce is never a light-hearted journey; with it comes a flurry of emotions, including the cycle of shame. In this episode, Beverly Price joins Susan for an open-hearted discussion about her multiple divorces and what she learned along the way. For Beverly, the path has been very diverse and difficult. But as you will hear, her experiences are breathtaking, especially as she chooses to live in the space of empowering women going through a divorce.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

How Beverly has taken painful experiences and turned them into her life’s work
Some ideas about why others might be judgmental about your divorce and how to cope
Beverly shares openly how she processed feelings of shame
There is huge power in learning from others' life lessons
Take the time to do the divorce work, explore therapy, and heal

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About this week's special guest: Beverly Price

Beverly Price brings the best of both divorce and empowerment coaching to women. She holds an MBA and certifications in Divorce, Empowerment, Life and Transformational Coaching with 25+ year’s women’s divorce coaching experience and 15+ years as a corporate executive. She provides knowledge, support, and insight to women contemplating divorce, living through a separation in the midst of the legal and financial process and wanting a new and exciting life after divorce. She helps them to prepare for and walk through their emotional and logistical challenges with more knowledge, support, and more self-esteem and with less pain that she did with her divorce.

Research shows that 79% of women aren't confident, 4 out of 5 think they're less than other women, 62% don't believe they’re intelligent, and 1 in 2 don't think they're pretty. Divorced women struggle even more. Divorce and toxic marriages can cause a woman’s self-esteem to plummet. Price provides one-on-one coaching to help women through the ups and downs of the legal and financial process and emotions of divorce, helps them develop the skills necessary to fully participate in their divorce and find their voice and identity as a strong and emerging fulfilled woman.

Beverly’s website: http://www.herempowereddivorce.com

Beverly on Facebook: https: /www.facebook.com/herempowereddivorce

Facebook Group for Women: Women’s Divorce and Empowerment Group:
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Beverly on Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/her_empowered_divorce

Beverly on LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/ierly-price

Meetup Group for Women: http://www.meetup.com/womens-divorce-and-empowerment-group

Susan’s Appearance on Beverly’s Podcast, Her Empowered Divorce: The Biggest Divorce Mistakes!

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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When Your Ex Moves on Immediately with Jackie Pilossoph of Divorced Girl Smiling on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #301

Mon, 22 May 2023 05:00:00 -0500

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes the Founder of Divorced Girl Smiling, Jackie Pilossoph, to talk about how to cope when your ex moves on in a hot minute.

In this episode, Susan and Jackie discuss what happens (and how to cope) when your ex moves on immediately following the divorce. It could be a shock or devastating, even if you were the one who initiated the divorce.

Jackie Pilossoph is the creator and editor-in-chief of Divorced Girl Smiling, celebrating its 10th anniversary, which comprises a website, podcast, mobile app, and a list of divorce professionals you can trust! A former broadcast news journalist and features reporter for the Chicago Tribune, Pilossoph was also the author of Love Essentially, her weekly column in the Chicago Tribune.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

You’re still allowed to grieve, even if you wanted the divorce
Everyone deals with and grieves divorce differently
There are various reasons why an ex may move on quickly
You don’t give yourself a chance to heal or own your part of things by putting a bandaid over it with a new relationship
The work you do following divorce helps you to determine what you do or don’t want in a relationship
When your ex immediately moves in with the person they were having an affair with
What do you need to be happy? Focus on you.

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About this week's special guests: Jackie Pilossoph

Jackie Pilossoph is the creator and editor-in-chief of Divorced Girl Smiling, the media comprises a website, podcast, mobile app, and a list of divorce professionals you can trust! A former broadcast news journalist and features reporter for the Chicago Tribune, Pilossoph was also the author of Love Essentially, her weekly column in the Chicago Tribune. She was also a Huffington Post Divorce Blogger for five years. Pilossoph holds a Masters's degree in journalism from Boston University, and oh, she's divorced.

Jackie’s website: http://divorcedgirlsmiling.com

Jackie’s books, including Divorced Girl, Smiling.

My Ex Moved On Immediately: 3 Seconds After We Got Separated In Fact: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/my-ex-moved-on-immediately-3-seconds-after-we-got-separated-in-fact/

My Ex Is Getting Married And It Hurts Like Hell. How To Handle It: https://www.divorcedgirlsmiling.com/my-ex-is-getting-married-and-it-hurts-like-hell-how-to-handle-it/

Jackie on Twitter: https://twitter.com/divorcedgirlJP

Jackie on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DivorcedGirlSmiling

Jackie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorced_girl_smiling/

Jackie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jackie-pilossoph-0851814/

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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What a No-Fault Divorce Really Means and Why It’s a Good Thing with Rosemarie Ferrante on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #300

Mon, 15 May 2023 05:00:00 -0500

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq, welcomes Rosemarie Ferrante to discuss what a “no-fault divorce” means and why it’s a good thing!

No fault divorce exists for a reason and benefits society in many ways. All 50 states and the District of Columbia have no-fault laws. However, some conservative states, such as Texas, are pushing to repeal them.

Rosemarie Ferrante joins Susan Guthrie, Esq. for an important conversation about no-fault grounds for divorce, what it means, and what the impact would be if it were removed from the law books.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

The benefits of no-fault divorce include the ability to de-escalate conflict.
The difference between no-fault grounds for divorce and fault
Fault does NOT impact the division of assets, nor does it affect custodial rights
If no-fault divorce is revoked, it will have dire impacts
Why Texas legislation that seeks to abolish no-fault divorce is alarming
How to advocate for keeping no-fault divorce in legislation

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About this week's special guests: Rosemarie Ferrante

Rosemarie Ferrante is a family attorney who has been practicing exclusively family law for over 25 years. She focuses her practice on non-adversarial divorce through mediation and the collaborative divorce processes. Rosemarie’s goal is to make a positive impact on the divorce process by giving couples the resources and tools they need to help their family transition smoothly through the restructuring of their family.

Rosemarie founded Divorce Resource CT to provide public education and awareness and support to those contemplating divorce. In partnership with Hollis Hardiman, CDFA, she offers education, support and wellness workshops for individuals not only contemplating divorce, but also for those going through the process, as well as those seeking post-divorce information. The workshops are presented by herself and Hollis and various esteemed mental health professionals and are offered throughout Fairfield County, CT and online.

Rosemarie is Vice President of CCND, The Connecticut Council for Non Adversarial Divorce, the statewide non-profit professional organization of Connecticut mediators and collaborative divorce practitioners. She is a member of the Academy of Professional Family Mediators (APFM) and the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals (IACP). She is a founding chapter leader of the National Association of Divorce Professionals (NADP), the first national organization that unites professionals who serve clients going through all stages of the divorce process. Her bar association memberships include the American Bar Association (Family Law section), the Connecticut Bar Association (CBA), including the Alternate Dispute Resolution (ADR) and Family Law sections, the Danbury Bar Association and the Fairfield County Bar Association.

Rosemarie is a frequent guest on podcasts where she discusses the benefits of an integrative divorce process in which a team of interdisciplinary professionals best suited for the individual family guides the family through the divorce process to ensure a positive post-divorce co-parenting and financial life. She co-edited a book on divorce in Connecticut, “Divorce and Separation, Connecticut Edition” available on Amazon.

She earned her bachelor’s degree from Cornell University in 1993 and her law degree from Brooklyn Law School in 1996, where she was Primary Notes & Comments Editor of the Brooklyn Law Review. She was admitted to the Connecticut Bar in 1996 and the New York Bar in 1997.

Rosemarie’s website: www.divorcemediationct.com

Rosemarie on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/divorcemediationct

Rosemarie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rosemarieferrantedivorceprofessional

Rosemarie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcemediationct

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

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Conflict Resolution Made Easy: Managaing the Five Destructive Behaviors We All Have with Gabrielle Hartley on Divorce & Beyond #299

Mon, 08 May 2023 05:00:00 -0500

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq., author and divorce mediator Gabrielle Hartley, Esq. returns to the show to share the secret to getting along. You’ll hear just how easy it truly can be!

We experience conflict everywhere, including within relationships or at work. Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes returning guest Gabrielle Hartley, Esq., to discuss the five common conflict behaviors exhibited during the divorce process. In this conversation, Gabrielle and Susan help listeners understand what it takes to reframe relationships, work through conflict, and walk away with a greater sense of peace.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

The five destructive behaviors we all have that show up in divorce
“Forgiveness of yourself is the most important part of conflict resolution.”
Finding what behavior(s) you are demonstrating is the first step in working to resolve conflict
Getting along with anyone includes the YES Method, Understanding Your Role, and Shelving Heated Conversations.

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About this week's special guests: Gabrielle Hartley

Gabrielle Hartley is co-chair of the American Bar Association Mediation Committee, a divorce attorney, online mediator, founder of The Private Divorce Solution, and author of "Better Apart: The Radically Positive Way to Separate." Her new book “The Secret to Getting Along and Why It’s Easier Than You Think” will be released this May. She offers a weekly newsletter, The Conflict Code” and hosts The Better Apart Blog and is a frequently quoted media expert in the peaceful divorce realm (The New York Times, Vice, WNYC, Forbes, Psychology Today,etc.) Gabrielle is former court attorney to NYS Supreme Court Judge Jeffrey Sunshine.

While writing her first book, Better Apart; The Radically Positive Way to Separate (HarperCollins2019) she realized that we all need to get along better in all facets of our lives. Gabrielle developed the YES Method based on more than 25 years working as a top divorce lawyer and mediator.

The Secret to Getting Along was recently selected as a Next Big Idea Club must-read and her Tedx Talk on her strategy has been viewed over 62 thousand times.

Gabrielle’s website: www.gabriellehartley.com

Gabrielle on Instagram and Facebook: @gabriellehartleyesq

Gabrielle’s new book, “The Secret to Getting Along and Why It’s Easier Than You Think”: https://gabriellehartley.com/thesecrettogettingalong/

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Check out Gabrielle’s past appearances on Divorce & Beyond:

Is Your Divorce Taking Too Long? BLITZ IT and BE DONE with Gabrielle Hartley

The Best Thing to Happen to Divorce in Ages with Very Special Guest Gabrielle Hartley

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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Find Me the Money! The Top 5 Ways People Hide Money in Divorce with Top Forensic Accountant, Tracy Coenen on Divorce & Beyond #298

Mon, 01 May 2023 05:00:00 -0500

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes back Top Forensic Accountant Tracy Coenen to share the ways people hide money in a divorce. You won’t want to miss this one!

Tracy Coenen returns to talk about the five sneaky ways your spouse may be hiding money in a divorce. Tracy is a leading forensic accountant and has been investigating fraud for more than 25 years. In this episode, she divulges the five techniques people use to conceal finances to avoid splitting assets, paying support, or dividing possessions.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

How to determine if a spouse is or is not depositing their full paycheck into the joint bank account
When a spouse is withdrawing cash often or one who exhibits a change in behavior of cash withdrawals
What you need to know about buying gift cards to cover up spending
The secret credit card

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About this week's special guests: Tracy Coenen

Tracy has been investigating fraud for more than 25 years, but she didn’t always want to be a forensic accountant. With a dream of one day being a prison warden, Tracy went to Marquette University in Milwaukee, WI to get a criminology degree. A class on financial crime investigations reminded her how much she loved Encyclopedia Brown books as a kid. She continued her criminology degree, but added accounting and economics courses so she could sit for the CPA exam… and here Tracy is, finding money in cases of corporate fraud, high net worth divorce, and other financial shenanigans.

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Check out Tracy's previous episode: How to Spot the Red Flags of Financial Abuse in Divorce with Top Forensic Accountant, Tracy Coenen

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Her clients say time and time again that their new photos and profile are the reason why they met their new partner.

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SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

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Eye-Opening Insights on How to Do Divorce Right from Top Attorney Beth McCormack, on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast, #297

Mon, 24 Apr 2023 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes returning guest, billion-dollar divorce attorney Beth McCormack as she shares scenarios from cases that show how to do divorce right! This episode is enlightening!

Beth takes her role in supporting her clients seriously. She focuses on the entire family unit and is a proponent of collaborative divorce. Rather than hearing an episode that shares the benefits of collaborative divorce, Susan invited Beth to share examples from the many cases she has handled, offering concrete ways in which going collaborative has helped families navigate divorce with thoughtfulness and compassion.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

What a collaborative approach to divorce entails
The various members of the collaborative divorce team
Beth shares two stories from high-conflict or complex cases which we resolved through collaborative divorce

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About this week's special guest: Beth McCormack

Beth is an equity partner at Beermann LLC here in Chicago, and her practice focuses on:

highly complex family law matters with vast experience in complex litigation,
mediation and collaborative law.
Beth also represents children, when appointed by the court,
Beth appreciates the sensitivity surrounding high net-worth, high-profile, and child-related matters, with each requiring a very different skill set.

As one of the most influential attorneys in Chicago, Ms. McCormack has naturally become a mentor to many professionals in the legal community. Her peers consistently nominate her as a Best Lawyer, Super Lawyer, and Leading Lawyer. Most recently, Beth was named top 50 women Super Lawyers. Her work ethic and community involvement have earned her accolades within the legal community, and beyond,

Find our more about Beth: https://www.beermannlaw.com

Email: BMcCormack@beermannlaw.com

Instagram: @bethfmccormack

Check out Beth’s previous appearances on Divorce and Beyond:

Lessons from a Billion Dollar Divorce Attorney

GAL AMC OMG – Demystifying the Role of Guardian ad Litem and Attorney for the Minor Children Part One and Part Two

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The Impact of Divorce on Kids: Insights from the New Film, Split Up: The Teen Years with Christina McGhee and Ellen Bruno on Divorce & Beyond #296

Mon, 17 Apr 2023 05:00:00 -0500

This week on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes back Ellen Bruno and Christina McGhee to share some of the deeply impactful takeaways from the new film Split Up: The Teen Years. You won’t look at your kids’ divorce experience the same way after this one.

Parents often wonder, “How is this divorce going to affect our kids?” Split and Split Up: The Teen Years provide a platform for children to share their experiences. Joining Susan for a conversation about the making of and takeaways from Split Up: The Teen Years are Ellen Bruno and Christina McGhee.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Split and Split Up: The Teen Years document what goes on in the hearts and minds of kids as their families change through divorce
The genesis of the second film Split Up: The Teen Years and why it’s a great guide for parents and professionals
How the two movies can be a comfortable starting point for open conversations with your children
The choices we make as parents can frame, define, and influence the experiences our kids have - we can make the road easier for them
“Your children’s story does not start with your divorce.”

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About this week's special guests: Ellen Bruno and Christina McGhee

Ellen Bruno is an award-winning documentary filmmaker based in San Francisco. With a background in international relief work, Ellen’s films have focused on issues at the forefront of human rights.

Christina McGhee, MSW,  is an internationally recognized divorce parenting expert, speaker, and author of the critically acclaimed book PARENTING APART: How separated and divorced parents can raise happy and secure kids and the founder of divorceandchildren.com.

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Split Films
How Kids REALLY Feel About Divorce: A Conversation with Ellen Bruno, the Award-Winning Filmmaker Behind SPLIT

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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What Happens When Your Divorce is Only One of the Difficult Things You Have to Manage with Author Laurie James on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #295

Mon, 10 Apr 2023 05:00:00 -0500

This week, Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes Laurie James, author of Sandwiched: A Memoir of Holding On and Letting Go, to talk about how her divorce wasn’t the only hardship she had to endure during her divorce journey.

In this episode, Laurie shares openly about the path she took from feeling alone most of her life to finding belonging following a very tumultuous time in her life. She walks listeners through managing her parent’s care and caregivers and coming to terms with the ending of her marriage.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Grief and grieving the loss of what you had and practicing self-care
Some of the challenges that were compounded during Laurie’s divorce
“If you are divorcing later in life, it is the largest financial decision you will make in your lifetime. Fight for what you believe you deserve.”
What it’s like to get out into the dating world when you’re in mid-life
“Life can be beautiful after; you just have to endure the storm.”

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About this week's special guest: Laurie James

Laurie James is a mother, divorcée, turned author, and relationship coach. She also oversaw her parent's care for 14 1/2 years. Laurie’s book, Sandwiched: A Memoir of Holding On and Letting Go is about her eight-year journey when she was sent down an unwanted path after her mother had a heart attack and her husband’s lawyer delivered some shocking news. Sandwiched between caring for her parents, managing caregivers, raising four daughters, and a crumbling marriage, she had to reevaluate everything she thought she knew. It’s her story of finding belonging after spending much of her life feeling alone. Laurie is a free spirit and a lover of nature, skiing, sailing, and her adopted husky Lu.

Laurie’s website: https://www.laurieejames.com

Date Differently in Midlife: https://www.laurieejames.com/course

Laurie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurie.james

Sandwiched: A Memoir of Holding On and Letting Go

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From Grief to Joy: What Happens When Adele Crashes Your Divorce Party with Rebecca Feinglos

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Turbo-Charge Your Divorce Recovery with Wendy Sterling on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #294

Mon, 03 Apr 2023 05:00:00 -0500

Today on Divorce & Beyond, Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes Wendy Sterling to discuss her book “Divorce Sucks: Now What?” Together they help to turbo-charge your divorce recovery.

In this episode, returning guest Wendy Sterling shares how her own divorce was a gift and how the divorce process, while difficult, can also be an empowering journey. Wendy is an international best-selling author, leading Divorce Empowerment Coach & Healer, and the founder of The Divorce Rehab™.

If you're going through a divorce or know someone who is, this episode is packed with practical advice and inspiration to help you move forward with confidence and hope.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include

“Nobody walks down the aisle thinking they need a Plan B.”
The divorce process sucks, but it can be an empowering process too. Wendy shares how her divorce was a gift.
Divorce requires a team, not just legal and financial support but emotional support too.
How Wendy’s mom's ovarian cancer diagnosis came on the same day as her husband asking for a divorce, and how it led to a parallel path in faith and love
Three of the biggest steps to jumpstart your divorce recovery: take responsibility, own it, and practice forgiveness
It’s not about changing your ex; it’s about the change within.

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About this week's special guest: Wendy Sterling

Wendy Sterling is an international best-selling author, leading Divorce Empowerment Coach & Healer, and the founder of The Divorce Rehab™. She helps women who are having trouble moving forward and are tired of feeling stuck in pain, fear, resentment, anger, and guilt to find joy, self-worth, and freedom. Wendy is a Certified Professional Co-Active Coach (CPCC), a Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS), an Advanced ThetaHealer®, and a Certified Sound Healer. She hosts her own podcast, The Divorced Woman’s Guide, and has been featured on NBC, The List, Daily Blast Live, and Good Day LA.

Wendy’s website: http://www.wendysterling.net/

Divorce Sucks: Now What?: http://divorcesucksnowwhat.com/

The Divorce Women’s Guide Podcast: https://wendysterling.net/podcast/

Wendy on Instagram/TikTok: @divorcerehabwithwendy

Wendy’s 5-Steps For Divorce Recovery: https://divorcerehab.activehosted.com/f/41

Mentioned in this episode:
Co-Parenting: The Quicksand of Divorce and How to Get Unstuck - A Special Bonus Episode with Wendy Sterling

"Why Divorce Rehab Just Might Be the Kick in the A$$ You Need with THE Divorce Recovery Specialist, Wendy Sterling"

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Living Together, Apart with Vassia Sarantopoulou on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #293

Mon, 27 Mar 2023 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes returning guest Vassia Sarantopoulou to the Divorce & Beyond podcast! Together, Susan and Vassia explore the pros and cons of living apart and the vital need for healthy boundaries to protect our relationships

In this episode, Susan and Vassia discuss the deeper reasons behind the decision to live together, apart; and how to maintain a healthy relationship when doing so. They also delve into the benefits of living apart, such as clear distinctions in the division of labor and personal space. However, they also highlight that living apart may not be beneficial for mental health and the overall health of the relationship.

Tune in to this thought-provoking episode of Divorce & Beyond to gain insights on living apart in relationships and how to maintain a healthy connection with your partner wherever you reside.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include

What it means to "live apart" and its positive and negative effects on a relationship
When living apart is not beneficial to your mental health and the health of a relationship
How to keep a relationship healthy, have open communication, and maintain boundaries without having to live apart

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About this week's special guest: Vassia Sarantopoulou

Vassia Sarantopoulou is the Founder, CEO and Head Psychologist of AntiLoneliness, a company offering mental health services in The Netherlands and also worldwide. She is also a Mental Health Educator, promoting Inner Peace, Mental Strength and Healthy Relationships with others and with our Self. Through AntiLoneliness and her team of psychologists, she offers individual, couples or groups sessions to those who struggle with anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, burnout, loneliness, relationship issues, transition/change, expat life. She is trained in (Group) Schema Therapy and Emotionally Focused Therapy, among other approaches (CBT, ACT, CFT), and she is a member of NIP (Dutch Institute for Psychologists), ICEEFT (International Center of Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy) and ISST (International Society of Schema Therapy). She is an advocate of a life without mental health stigma, with an abundance of kindness and with an undying openness to self-awareness and self-growth, and that’s what she promotes through her services and online courses, and also through her collaboration with universities, companies, and organizations.

Website: https://www.antiloneliness.com/

Vassia on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vassia-sarantopoulou

Vassia on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/antilonelinessproject

Vassia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/antiloneliness/

Vassia on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/AntiLoneliness

Podcast listeners: Get a 30% discount off on Vassia’s relationship courses with the code PODCAST at https://www.antiloneliness.com/

Mentioned in this episode:
Loneliness & Divorce: Why Alone and Lonely Aren’t the Same Thing with Vassia Sarantopoulou, Creator of Antiloneliness.com

The Wife Left, but They’re Still Together

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Divorce, Mortgages, and Moving On: What You NEED to Know with Zachary Taylor on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #292

Mon, 20 Mar 2023 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes Zachary Taylor to the Divorce & Beyond podcast! Learn the facts that you need to know when you are facing divorce and have to deal with one or more mortgages. It’s more complicated than you think, and in this case, knowledge is power.

Did you know mortgages can be one of the most important factors in your divorce? Knowing what to expect will help you move through your divorce (and beyond) with clarity and understanding. In addition, if you have the right mortgage broker, you can make agreements that benefit everybody.

Guest Zachary Taylor is a mortgage lender with 30 years of experience. Over 25% of his business involves people in some phase of the divorce process.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include

Some ways mortgage lending and the lending paperwork are different when facing divorce
When it comes to mortgage loans, if you are receiving custodial or alimony support payments, you must prove that you have been receiving them for six months, NOT that you are supposed to be receiving it
Do not wait until the middle of the divorce process or later to meet with a mortgage lender because you can give yourself more options as you negotiate your divorce if you understand what your borrowing power is
“Information is your superpower.”
Common mortgage and financial mistakes people make during divorce and how to avoid them

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About this week's special guest: Zach Taylor

Zachary Taylor is a mortgage lender with 30 years of experience. Over 25% of his business involves people in some phase of the divorce process.

Zach knows the divorce guidelines and can access programs from his company (Change Home Mortgage) and programs from dozens of other banks, lenders, and Wall Street investment firms. This allows him to achieve his main goals for his clients: Get them the best rate, and one that fits their situation, that can be approved, and that can be closed within the required time-frames.

The division of real estate property in a divorce can be challenging to navigate. Contacting Zach as early in the process as possible helps people to have a more seamless experience. He will determine if you can do a buyout or will have to sell.  He will also determine if you can buy a new property based on your “post-divorce” situation using the buyout or sale proceeds. This can save time and prevent unexpected difficulties  during the settlement process.

Zach has  experience helping people who are going through divorce to better understand and determine the issues involving property and mortgages. Zach shares a common mission with the other professionals in the Carlsbad Hub: to provide information and support so that people can feel confident and have peace of mind with the decisions they make in the divorce process. Zach wants to be a valued resource, whether or not a new mortgage is needed, and can also help address issues about credit as well.

Included in Zach’s 30 years of lending experience is a 98% close ratio from 2008 to the present, which happens to be the tightest lending environment ever! He has closed over 2,000 transactions. His background includes underwriting and approving loans. For 16 years, he was Managing Broker, and Partner is a successful local mortgage company. He is a licensed California Real Estate Broker and passed the Federal and State Mortgage tests with all background checks required for the NMLS license. He is a graduate of U.C. San Diego with a B.A. in Economics.

Phone Zach: 619-813-7908

Email Zach: zach@zachtaylormortgages.com

Mentioned in this episode:
The Nightmare of Shared Expenses for Co-Parents and the Simple Tech Solution That Solves it with the Co-Founder of DComply, Marco Munoz

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Your Parenting Time Does Not Define Your Worth as a Parent with Lisa McGregor on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #291

Mon, 13 Mar 2023 05:00:00 -0500

This week Susan Guthrie, Esq., invites Lisa McGregor back to the show! In this episode, Lisa shares lessons from her personal journey to becoming the best parent that she can be and why it has nothing to do with how much time she has with her child. There is so much we can all learn from this episode!

Lisa McGregor is Co-Parenting Coach who is helping women embrace their new role of part-time parenting. Shared parenting can come with a mixture of emotions, including the fear of being eliminated from your child’s life. Together, Susan and Lisa discuss how parenting time does not quantify your value as a parent. Lisa offers some insightful advice about creating awareness about part-time parenting and shifting your mindset in how you externalize and internalize your worthiness, value, and your child’s time with you. Embraced, celebrated, and experienced differently.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include

Your perception of the time you have with your child does not equate to your value as a parent
Mindset shifts to help you focus on quality over quantity
Giving yourself permission to feel your emotions helps you to move through them faster
Tips for parents to make the most of the time with their child, as well as, how to utilize your time alone to heal

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About this week's special guest: Lisa McGregor

Lisa McGregor is Co-Parenting Coach who is helping women to embrace their new role of part-time parenting. For nearly two decades, Lisa has motivated women to help them improve their lives by learning to love their bodies through diet and exercise. The first 17 years of her career were spent in the fitness industry. Still, after going through a divorce in 2017 and struggling to accept this unplanned chapter of part-time parenting, she felt called to show how she could embrace this journey and began to see this adjustment as a gift. Lisa quickly garnered a community of women who resonated and were ready to use their own co-parenting journey as a catalyst to a richer life. Lisa empowers Moms to leverage their time away to turn less into more. Lisa has shared her story on several podcasts & across multiple social media platforms and helps women put it all into action as a Life & Hypno Breath Work Coach.

Lisa’s website: https://theunplannedchapter.com/

Lisa on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunplannedchapter

Lisa on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theunplannedchapter

The Unplanned Chapter Blog: https://medium.com/@theunplannedchapter

The Unplanned Chapter Private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theunplannedchapter/

Mentioned in this episode:

Parenting Plans Aren't for Parents: How to Create a Plan that Works For Your Kids with Top Parenting Expert, Christina McGhee

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Changing Outcomes for Alienated and Estranged Parents with Coach and Filmmaker, Ginger Gentile on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #290

Mon, 06 Mar 2023 05:00:00 -0600

This week on The Divorce & Beyond podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq, welcomes back Ginger Gentile as she shares her tried and true tips for alienated and estranged parents.

Parental alienation is a silent epidemic affecting families all over the United States (and beyond). Whatever term you choose to use to describe it - parental alienation, estrangement, or parental interference - emotions of alienated and estranged parents are fraught with fear. Often, the experience can be isolating. Parents feel as though there is no recovery, no coming back from this, or they simply don’t know what to do.

In this episode, Ginger Gentile joins Susan to help parents work to reunite with their children after divorce or separation. Together they discuss specific ways to manage emotions and behaviors that will eventually create lasting change and work to heal alienated parents’ relationships with their children.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include

Communication is at the core of how you start reversing parental alienation.
The importance of emotionally detaching and establishing a brief, informative, friendly, but firm communication with the co-parent
Why earlier intervention can lead to better outcomes
Focus on your behavior changes and yourself instead of your children's or ex's behavior
“Changes must come from within. It takes time and work.”

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About this week's special guest: Ginger Gentile

Ginger Gentile is on a mission to save children from the trauma of high-conflict divorce. Her first film on this topic, ERASING DAD, was filmed in Argentina and resulted in joint-custody legislation being enacted. Her latest film, ERASING FAMILY, currently streaming on all major platforms, exposes the trauma children suffer when a loving parent is erased from their lives. This problem affects 22 million families in the US alone.

In her time serving as the Executive Director of the National Parents Organization in 2019, she added six new state affiliates and garnered national press attention for the Shared Parenting Report Card. Now, she is coaching parents suffering from parental alienation to help them reunite with their erased children GingerGentile.com/consulting

Her program for replicating the success of reunited families will soon be a podcast, course, and book.

Ginger’s website: Reversing Parental Alienation

Ginger on Instagram @ErasingFamily

Mentioned in this episode:
Erasing Family: Exploring Parental Alienation with Filmmaker, Ginger Gentile

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SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

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The Map to Conscious Parenting with NY Times Best-Selling Author, Dr. Shefali on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #289

Mon, 27 Feb 2023 05:00:00 -0600

This week on The Divorce & Beyond podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes NY Times Best-Selling Author Dr. Shefali as she shares insights from her newest book, “The Parenting Map”

Dr. Shefali is a clinical psychologist and NY Times best-selling author of three books, including Conscious Parenting and The Awakened Family. She joins Susan to discuss her latest book, The Parenting Map, and the importance of integrating all aspects of ourselves into our parenting.

You’ll also hear why Dr. Shefali emphasizes the need for parents to work on themselves to support their children fully. The conversation touches on the impact of social media on children's development and the importance of being present and attentive as a parent in a world filled with constant stimulation and comparison.

Dr. Shefali offers insight and practical advice on how to best navigate conscious parenting and create deeper connections with our children.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include

Why parents must take responsibility for their growth and transformation to become conscious parents. The focus of parenting needs to be on the PARENT.
A perspective shift for parents to focus on their children's relationship with activities rather than their attachment to the outcome
The importance of integrating our shadow elements and not shaming our children for theirs
The impact of screens and social media on children's development includes a lack of ability to tolerate frustration, decreased attention span, and disconnection from reality and their own feelings.

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About this week's special guest: Dr. Shefali

Dr. Shefali received her doctorate in clinical psychology from Columbia University. Specializing in integrating Western psychology and Eastern philosophy, she brings together the best of both worlds for her clients. She is an expert in family dynamics and personal development, teaching courses around the globe. She has written four books, three of which are New York Times best-sellers, including her two landmark books The Conscious Parent and The Awakened Family. Her latest book, The Parenting Map: Step-by-Step Solutions to Consciously Create the Ultimate Parent-Child Relationship, will be available wherever books are sold on February 28, 2023. You can also preorder it now.

Connect with Dr. Shefali:

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Dr. Shefali onYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/DrShefali

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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From Grief to Joy: What Happens When Adele Crashes Your Divorce Party with Rebecca Feinglos on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #288

Mon, 20 Feb 2023 05:00:00 -0600

This week on the Divorce & Beyond Podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes Rebecca Feinglos as she shares her story of overcoming grief following her divorce and the iconic moment when Adele crashed her Las Vegas Divorce Party. You won’t want to miss this episode!

Grief is a messy and complicated emotion. And while that is the focal point of this episode, it will be one of the happiest episodes you will hear! After the death of her father in 2020 and her marriage ending, Rebecca Feinglos found herself overwhelmed by grief. So, in 2021, she founded Grieve Leave to document and share her journey and help others navigate their grief with humor and compassion.

In this episode, Susan and Rebecca discuss the importance of acknowledging grief and how to navigate it with self-compassion. When we see that grieving doesn’t only have to be about crying - we can move forward, find joy, and even celebrate it too.

Rebecca Feinglos blogs her personal experiences and shares tangible resources and actionable tips for dealing with relationship grief and divorce (with a healthy dose of humor baked in). Most recently, Rebecca went viral for throwing a “divorce party” in Vegas and bringing Adele to tears on stage.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Susan and Rebecca explore the common misconception that grief comes only with death - we grieve all kinds of losses in our lives
How to intentionally grieve after a divorce, and why is it essential to do so
Why we need to stop using the phrase “failed marriage” when we talk about divorce
There will never be a divorce party quite like Rebecca’s divorce party!
How Rebecca is bringing others together through the Grieve Leave community

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About this week's special guest: Rebecca Feinglos

Rebecca Feinglos is a grief educator, advocate, and the founder of online blog and digital community Grieve Leave. After ending her marriage during the fallout of her parents’ deaths, Rebecca quit her job to take a year-long sabbatical to grieve, founding Grieve Leave as an outlet to document her own journey with grief. The Grieve Leave community has grown to one of thousands, where Rebecca blogs her personal experiences and shares tangible resources and actionable tips for dealing with relationship grief and divorce (with a healthy dose of humor baked in).

Rebecca can be found on social media @rfeinglos.

You can keep up with her Grieve Leave journey at www.GrieveLeave.com.

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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When Valentine’s Day Sucks and How to Survive it with Intuitive Healer, Holly Hughes on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #287

Mon, 13 Feb 2023 05:00:00 -0600

This week on The Divorce & Beyond podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes back Intuitive Healer Holly Hughes! Listen in to hear the antidote to the Valentine’s Day blues and how to manage the unrealistic expectations of the Hallmark Holiday!

Valentine’s Day can be hard when you are going through a divorce. In this episode, Susan Guthrie and Holly Hughes discuss tactical ways and tips to honor your feelings and not fall victim to the commercialism or beliefs of what the holiday should or needs to be about.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Why Holly and Susan are NOT wearing red for this Valentine’s Day-focused episode
Create your very own love note jar for YOURSELF
Love is lost in the commercialism of Valentine’s Day, instead of love from a partner focus on things you love (your children, art, music, etc.)
Allow yourself to feel your feelings, wallow in them in fact. Then pull yourself out of that space and you’ll feel a sense of relief
“In order to feel and receive love, you have to have it for yourself first.”
Why it is so important to listen to your inner voice and start recognizing what love actually feels like for you
Joy is love. Bring some joy into your life today

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About this week's special guest: Holly Hughes

Holly is an award-winning author, speaker, and intuitive healer who infuses her unique personal style, intuitive gifts, and personal healing stories to guide clients through a step-by-step process to help them claim their voice, passions, and self-worth. She helps heal your broken heart so the pain from your past stops limiting your future.

Find out more about Holly: https://hollyhugesintuitive.com

Get a Holly’s Book: Real, Not Perfect: How to Become Your Happy Authentic Self

Holly on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/holly-hughes-b759a9136/

DM Holly on Instagram for more information on setting up an intuitive session with her: https://www.instagram.com/holly_hughes_intuitive/

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It’s Time for Some Radical Self-Care to Get You Through Your Divorce with Intuitive Healer, Holly Hughes

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As a special for Divorce and Beyond listeners, if you put in the code DB50 when you register, you'll get $50 off the cost of a training or study group.

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Expert legal and financial help as you go

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Visit hellodivorce.com/beyond for $100 OFF!

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

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Behind the Breakup Anthems: Chatting about Shakira and Miley with Michelle Dempsey-Multack on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #286

Mon, 06 Feb 2023 05:00:00 -0600

This week on The Divorce & Beyond podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes back Michelle Dempsey-Multack to discuss their thoughts on empowerment versus bashing and the impact of a victim mentality.

Michelle Dempsey-Multack is back on the show! We know Michelle from her other Guest Appearances on Divorce and Beyond and especially because she is the creator and Host of the Moms Moving On Podcast, the best-selling author of Mom’s Moving On, AND now the creator of the Moms Moving On Method Coaching Training Program.

Michelle joins Susan for a conversation about two of today’s most notable music artists who recently released what may be referred to as “breakup songs.” In January, Shakira released “BZRP Music Sessions #53” and Miley Cyrus released “Flowers”. Together, Susan and Michelle explore how the songs and situations may be similar in some ways but different in others and the lessons and insights that we all can learn to apply to our own lives and situations!

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Inside Shakira’s sweet revenge against ex Gerard Pique - do two wrongs make a right?
Miley’s “Flowers” - is there power in the ability to reclaim your own narrative?
Exploring the difference between what you put out there in the world as a co-parent versus being a childless couple
“Everyone sings about heartbreak, but it hits differently when kids are involved.”

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About this week's special guest: Michelle Dempsey-Multack

Michelle Dempsey-Multack MS, CDS, is a writer, mom, coach, certified divorce specialist (CDS), speaker, and genuine girl power enthusiast. She graduated from Hofstra University with a degree in journalism and communication and then earned a double master's degree in education from Adelphi University. She hosts the weekly podcast Moms Moving On and writes regularly for Parents, Scary Mommy, and others. A former New Yorker, she now lives in Miami with her husband, daughter, and stepdaughter.

Website: https://www.momsmovingon.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichelledempsey

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

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Bonus Episode! The Future of Divorce Coaching with the Founders of the Divorce Coaches Academy, Debra Doak and Tracy Callahan on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #285

Thu, 02 Feb 2023 05:00:00 -0600

In this special Bonus Episode, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes back the founders of The Divorce Coaches Academy, Debra Doak and Tracy Callahan, who share their insights into the biggest mistakes people make in divorce and how a good divorce coach is the antidote!

Divorce coaching is on the rise and for a good reason, they are invaluable in helping you get through but how do you know who to hire? Well, you can start with a certified divorce coach. Someone who has the training and the background to help guide you on your path. Debra and Tracy, both experienced divorce coaches and mediators, are dedicated to helping divorce coaches be the best that they can be to help them ensure that each and every client going through divorce gets the support that they need. To that end they joined together to found the Divorce Coaches Academy (DCA) and are just launching their brand new, innovative 40-Hour Divorce Coaching Certification Course. With an alternative dispute resolution approach to coaching, individuals who complete this training will be ready and able to provide the best services possible and to help their clients navigate divorce in the best way possible.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Why it's important to understand that not everyone who behaves poorly in divorce is a narcissist and how labeling can hurt you.
Why a coach is invaluable in preparing you to deal with conflict so that you can manage your divorce process, and life beyond, using new skills.
How someone who is facing divorce can find the right divorce coach to help them get through the process.
Thinking of becoming a divorce coach? Hear why the new DCA program is the way to get started!

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About The Divorce Coaches Academy and Their 40-Hour Certification Training:

If you’re looking to expand your practice offerings, divorce coaching may be a great fit for you. Divorce Coaches Academy™ is introducing a revolutionary approach to divorce coaching and is now accepting applications for the March Cohort of Certified ADR Divorce Coach training.

Divorce coaching is recognized by the ABA as a method of alternative dispute resolution and DCA™ believes that those who engage the services of a certified, professional divorce coach are more likely to show up as credible, decision-ready clients who have the skills to engage in productive conversation, self-advocate, present proposals, negotiate, and get to agreement.

Divorce Coaches Academy™ is the only organization that trains and certifies divorce coaches who are focused on and grounded in the principles of ADR and has been at the forefront of embracing the shift from litigation to mediation and other ADR processes to help families navigate divorce and co-parenting. DCA™ is committed to providing the formal education and training you need to add effective divorce coaching skills to your toolbox. Working at the individual level, you can have a positive impact on the lives of clients and their families as a trusted resource and compliment to the divorce team.

No other divorce coach training program provides the ADR foundation, conflict resolution skills, structured coaching framework, and professional mentorship you need to confidently step into the world of professional divorce coaching. DCA’s revolutionary training program includes a hybrid of video, workbook, and live learning plus mentor coaching and is:

Aligned with the shift toward ADR practices to help families avoid the cost and stress of litigation
Committed to the belief that emotional management and conflict resolution skills can be learned
Focused on the idea that transformation at the individual level is the key to successful outcomes

If you’ve considered adding divorce coaching to your practice or your skill set, you can learn more at https://www.divorcecoachesacademy.com/pages/divorcecoach

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

You can get in touch with Susan at divorceandbeyondpod@gmail.com.

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Beyond Narcissism: How to Divorce a Sociopath with Attorney, Kerrie Droban on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #284

Mon, 30 Jan 2023 05:00:00 -0600

This week, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes best-selling author and attorney Kerrie Droban to the Divorce & Beyond Podcast. Kerrie helps you dive into the scary world of divorcing a sociopath or worse, a psychopath. Who better than a criminal law attorney who has been there herself to help you get through?

There’s a great deal of information about narcissism available today. In this episode, we go beyond narcissism as Kerrie joins Susan to talk about the rise of the sociopath, anti-social personality disorder, and more. Together they get to the crux of divorcing a sociopath including what to expect and how to protect yourself.

Kerrie Droban is an award-winning author and criminal and family attorney residing in Arizona. With numerous appearances and interviews on national television and radio shows, she has established herself as an expert on the pathology of the criminal mind, motorcycle gangs, and a mentor to new and aspiring true crime writers.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

What is a sociopath, anyway? Plus, how to identify the difference between a narcissist, sociopath, and psychopath
The dangers of being in a relationship with a sociopath
Sociopaths are masters of manipulation - so it is imperative to have a strategy for your divorce, including the need to vet your legal representation and ensure they have experience with sociopathy
How to protect yourself when divorcing a sociopath
Why Kerrie says mediation is a valuable tool when divorcing someone with pathology

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About this week's special guest: Kerrie Droban

Kerrie Droban is an award-winning author and criminal & family attorney residing in Arizona. With numerous appearances and interviews on national television and radio shows, she has established herself as an expert on the pathology of the criminal mind, motorcycle gangs, and a mentor to new and aspiring true crime writers.

Kerrie received a Master's degree from The Johns Hopkins University Writing Seminars, and a Master of Fine Arts and Juris Doctorate from the University of Arizona.

She has been a keynote speaker at gang task force conferences and a national speaker at various writing conferences across the country. She has also appeared on national television on CNBC’s “American Greed: A Widow’s Web,” A&E’s “Gangland: Behind Enemy Lines,” the American Heroes Channel’s “Codes and Conspiracies,” “Investigation ID,” and the Discovery Channel’s “Deadly Devotion.”

Kerrie’s website

Kerrie law firm

Kerrie’s books

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Learn about the event and register at www.yourdivorcesquad.net.

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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We'd really appreciate it if you would give us a 5 Star Rating and tell us what you like about the show in a review - your feedback really matters to us!

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Dear My Future Self: Why a Focus on the Future is the Secret Sauce of Divorce with Alex Beattie on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #283

Mon, 23 Jan 2023 08:53:22 -0600

This week on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast, host Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes back returning guest Alex Beattie. Alex shares her secret sauce for a successful divorce and an even more successful BEYOND!

Alex Beattie returns to the show to talk about divorce and why you should focus on the future rather than constantly examining everything that happened in the past. She also shares an insightful exercise that will help you set intentions as you go through the divorce process. This episode and her exercise will empower you to plan for your beyond.

After navigating her own split, Alex Beattie co-created the Divide & Thrive Divorce Organizer to give people a low-cost way to take control of the divorce process and guide them during a time of uncertainty. Today, Alex is the Founder of The Divorce Planner and Creator of Your Divorce Squad, where she helps people plan in advance of divorce so they save time and money and have peace of mind throughout the process.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Being proactive is always the best position to be in
Rewriting your history can be very empowering
Prioritize what feels good to you and planning practically how you will get there helps to make the journey easier

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About this week's special guest: Alex Beattie

After navigating her own split, Alex Beattie co-created the Divide & Thrive Divorce Organizer to give the consumer a low-cost way to take control of the divorce process and guide them during a time of uncertainty. Today, Alex is the Founder of The Divorce Planner and Creator of Your Divorce Squad, where she helps people plan in advance of divorce so they save time and money and have peace of mind throughout the process..

As a creative producer with twenty plus years of experience, Alex Beattie has developed and produced series and feature films for Showtime, NBC, Paramount, Starz, FOX, Amazon, and more.

Your Divorce Squad

The Divorce Planner

Alex on Instagram @the.divorce.planner

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Navigating Divorce with Parents of Children with Disabilities with Josh Kershenbaum, Part 2 on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #282

Thu, 19 Jan 2023 05:00:00 -0600

Susan Guthrie, Esq. and special guest Josh Kershenbaum, Esq. return for part two of a special two-part episode series on navigating divorce with parents of children with disabilities.

Josh Kershenbaum is one of the nation's top experts in the area of mediation and negotiation for families with children with special needs. In part one of this two-part series, Susan and Josh discussed the issues families face when they're going through divorce or separation, and have children with disabilities. In this episode, they’ll explore solutions to these issues and work to empower parents as they go through the divorce process.

Josh Kershenbaum, Esq., is a dedicated Peacemaker. He earned certifications in Negotiation and Mediation at the Harvard Program on Negotiation and trained in Divorce & Family Mediation at the Mosten Guthrie Academy with Forrest (“Woody”) Mosten and Susan Guthrie.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Why it is imperative to choose the right divorce process that keeps you and your co-parent in the driver’s seat as much as possible. If you’re in an adversarial divorce process, it’s never too late to re-take control.
“A child-centered divorce is crucial. It is the biggest gift you can give yourself and your child.”
The importance of thinking of your divorce as a team process and why you should bring people on your team who have experience working with families who have kids with disabilities
Organize your child’s documents: IEPs, medical records, records of care, and more.

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About this week's special guest: Josh Kershenbaum

Before joining the Law Offices of Jennifer J. Riley as Senior ADR Counsel, Josh earned a national reputation in the field of special education law. He co-founded Pennsylvania’s premier, a boutique firm dedicated to representing children with special needs and their families, and later served as an Adjunct Professor of Law at Temple University’s Beasley School of Law.

Josh brings over 20 years of experience in education and special education law to his peacemaking practice, which focuses on helping parents of people with special needs navigate their divorces through Mediation and Collaborative Practice. He also helps parents, students, and educational institutions resolve conflicts through Mediation.

He earned his JD from Temple University’s Beasley School of Law and his BA from Amherst College.

Josh’s website: http://www.jjrlawfirm.com

Connect with Josh on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshkershenbaum/

Mentioned in this episode:

Navigating Divorce with Parents of Children with Disabilities with Josh Kershenbaum, Part 1

Did You Know That it is NEVER Too Late to Mediate Your Divorce? Insights from Leading Attorney and Mediator Claire Samuels

International Academy of Collaborative Professionals

Academy of Special Needs Planners

National Care Advisors

The Counsel of Parent Attorneys and Advocates (COPAA)

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SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Navigating Divorce with Parents of Children with Disabilities with Josh Kershenbaum, Part 1 on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #281

Mon, 16 Jan 2023 05:00:00 -0600

This week, Susan Guthrie, Esq. is joined by Josh Kershenbaum, Esq. for a special two-part episode series! Together they discuss some of the top issues faced by families in divorce when kids have special needs.

Josh Kershenbaum is one of the nation's top experts in the area of mediation and negotiation for families with children with special needs. This special two-part series will aim to raise awareness about the myriad of different issues that families face when they're going through divorce or separation, and have children with disabilities.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Josh answers, "Is it true that there is an 80% divorce rate among parents of children with special needs?"
Some of the logistical challenges parents of children with special needs face
Those standing at the intersection of divorce and special needs parenting need to know there is a way through. There is hope, the situation is not hopeless.

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About this week's special guest: Josh Kershenbaum

He earned his JD from Temple University’s Beasley School of Law and his BA from Amherst College.

Josh’s website: http://www.jjrlawfirm.com

Connect with Josh on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshkershenbaum/

Mentioned in this episode:

How to Get Your Act Together So that You Can Tackle Your Divorce with Alex Beattie of Divide & Thrive

The Solution for Tackling the Divorce Detour with Storey Jones, Creator of dtour.life

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

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What You Need to Know About Your Money When You Start a Divorce from Hollis Hardiman, CDFA on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #280

Mon, 09 Jan 2023 05:00:00 -0600

This week on the Divorce & Beyond podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes Divorce Financial Analyst, Hollis Hardiman, as she shares her top tips to protect your finances if you are facing a divorce.

January is when many people become divorce curious, decide to start the divorce process or begin to get educated about the next steps to take. Fear is a common emotion that comes up during this time of contemplation. One of the biggest fears around divorce is money. Susan is joined by special guest, Hollis Hardman. Together they discuss what you need to know as you enter the process of divorce and learn how to protect your finances.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

When it comes to divorce, a common concern is “Am I going to become homeless?”
Having a support system in place is so important, but do not rely on your friends’ past divorce experiences for professional advice
Figure out what your lifestyle is costing you - collect receipts and keep a tally. Then, begin to take control in the best way you can
Hollis shares tips and insights about how to increase the income in your household
What to consider when planning your budget before, during, and after divorce

About this week's special guest: Hollis Hardiman, CDFA

Contact Hollis:
Email: hhardiman@meritfa.com
Phone: 203-423-5985
Website: https: /www.meritfinancialadvisors.com/about/locations/bo ynton-beach/

Mentioned in this episode:

It’s All About the House: What You Need to Think About Before You Decide to Keep It with Tami Wollensak

Set Your Kids Up for Success with Back-to-School Tips from Jenny Stevens

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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Resolve to Be Happy in the New Year with the World’s #1 Happiness Coach, Steffani LeFevour on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #279

Mon, 02 Jan 2023 05:00:00 -0600

This week on the Divorce & Beyond podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq., is joined by happiness coach, Steffani LeFevour. Steffani shares her three steps to find happiness and make the New Year your best one ever!

January is nationally known as divorce month. Many going through divorce (or thinknig about it) may believe that happiness is not going to happen for them. Divorce is challenging. In this episode, Susan welcomes Steffani LeFevour, the World’s Top Happiness Coach, best-selling author, and international speaker; to share her thoughts on how to find happiness even when life keeps throwing challenge after challenge your way.

Steffani talks about how to create a soul-happy life, shares her formula for changing your thoughts, and discloses the secret to manifesting!

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Feeling your feelings and practicing compassion is always the pre-work to finding happiness
Focus on the end result of what you do want
Release the situation and give it away to a higher power
Find moments throughout the day that bring you relief or joy
The importance of bringing awareness to recognizing your soul-happy moments
The art of allowing yourself to desire is the hardest part to manifesting what you do want
Desire it, align with it, and step into it

Listen to this episode to bring some happiness into your life as you enter the New Year!

About this week's special guest: Steffani LeFevour

Steffani LeFevour is the world’s top Happiness Coach, best-selling author, international speaker, and a master at manifesting. She is also a student of quantum physics, an amateur biohacker/athlete/wellness guru, and a wife and mother to two crazy kids.

Grab Steffani’s Happy Habits Checklist at: CoachSteffani.com

Steffani on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/steffanilefevour

Steffani on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachwithsteff/

Mentioned in this episode:

Singing ”Single Bells” This Holiday? Surviving the Solitary Season with Special Guest, Jenny Stevens

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

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A Year-End Roundtable of Hope and Inspiration with Four of Your Favorite Guests in a Very Special Episode of The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #278

Mon, 26 Dec 2022 05:00:00 -0600

This week on the Divorce & Beyond podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes back returning guests Bela Gandhi, Beth McCormack, Heather Locus, and Jenny Stevens! They share hope and inspiration as you face divorce, are going through it, or are onto your BEYOND!

That’s right, four of your favorite divorce professionals join Susan for a very special episode! Rock star divorce attorney, Beth McCormack, America's favorite dating expert Bela Gandhi, top mental health expert Jenny Stevens, and one of the country's leading divorce financial experts, Heather Lucas, round out this expert panel.

The goal of this episode is to provide you with hope and inspiration, no matter which phase of divorce you are in. Whether you are thinking about divorce, going through it, or best of all, in your beyond, tune into this episode for insight that will help you go forward into this new year.

Tips and Golden Nuggets include:

Mindset matters: Get the support you need in order to be open to legal advice and come prepared to listen
Ask for help: Reach out to an attorney for information. Reach out for emotional support from a coach or therapist.
Fear about the financial side of divorce: the more financial information you can take to a professional, the more likely you’ll save time, money, and energy
The importance of having the right team: Find the right professionals for you and your family’s unique needs
“So much of divorce is acknowledging what you can’t control and being really thoughtful on those few things you can control.”
Dating: when is the right time to start?
Your beyond: Focus on what you do have, forgive yourself and be your own best friend, give yourself permission to create a new story, and practice integrity and grace.

Plus, don’t miss the end of this episode for your chance to win some fun prizes!

About this week's special guests:

Bela Gandhi is the Founder of the Smart Dating Academy. She has an uncanny sixth sense about people, and what they need. Her intuition has been responsible for several marriages (and children)! The Huffington Post and Steve Harvey call her "The Fairy Godmother of Dating!"

Bela’s website, Smart Dating Academy: http://www.smartdatingacademy.com.

Heather Locus founded the National Divorce Practice Group at BDF Private Wealth to help divorcing individuals consciously navigate their divorce’s emotional and business aspects. From hiring the right fit attorney through their SettleSmart™ analysis, then implementing the divorce decree and auditing it annually, Heather ensures you have the resources you need to start your next chapter on a firm footing.

BDP Private Wealth: https://ria-cipw.com/bdf/

Beth McCormack is an equity partner at Beermann LLC here in Chicago. As one of the most influential attorneys in Chicago, Ms. McCormack has naturally become a mentor to many professionals in the legal community. Her peers consistently nominate her as a Best Lawyer, Super Lawyer, and Leading Lawyer. Most recently, Beth was named top 50 women Super Lawyers. Her work ethic and community involvement have earned her accolades within the legal community, and beyond,

Find out more about Beth: https://www.beermannlaw.com

Jenny Stevens, LCPC (Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor) spent 20 years working with adolescents and families as a school counselor. In 2021, Jenny launched Create Change Consultants to provide counseling for individuals navigating major life events, such as divorce, or those looking to create change within their lives.

Reach out to Jenny and contact her through her website: www.createchangeconsultants.com

Also Mentioned in this episode:

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Amazon Shopping List: https://divorcebeyond.com/Shopping-List

Heather’s Resources mentioned in Episode: https://aaml.org/financial-issues-in-divorce/

Heather’s Top Five Strategies for a Financially Responsible Divorce: https://www.bdfllc.com/webinar/i-do/

The Smart Dating Academy Podcast: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/podcast

Bela’s Tedx Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SIyvhq3zWLg

Tami Wollensak, Certified Divorce Lending Professional

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Avoiding the Divorce Hangover From the Start with Kelly Myers on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #277

Mon, 19 Dec 2022 05:00:00 -0600

This week on the Divorce & Beyond podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq., is joined by Certified Divorce and Mediation Coach, Kelly Myers. Together they discuss how you can start your divorce on the right foot and avoid a divorce hangover!

Kelly Myers’ goal is for individuals to not have any regrets after the divorce is over. She refers to it as the divorce hangover – the if only’s, wouldas, couldas, and shouldas of divorce. In this episode, Kelly shares some of the things she wished she had known or done differently during her divorce.

One of the lessons Kelly learned and shares today: You may not get everything you want from your divorce, but with the right tools, mindset, and professionals, you will know exactly why you made every decision you made, you’ll understand the pros and cons of each choice, and you can move forward with confidence in your vision.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Why it is important to look at your divorce as the opportunity to build the foundation for your future.
You must become your own advocate. You can’t rely on other professionals to do that because they are not an expert in your life. You are.
Create a vision of what you want your post-divorce life to be
Once you have your vision, use it as a tool for creating your support team and convey not only what you need, but why you believe you need it
“How can you use the law as a tool to get what you and your family need, including the ability to move forward and thrive? That’s the goal here.”
The power of organizing your thoughts and fears in a divorce notebook

If divorce is in your future, listen to this episode to gain clarity and build a strong foundation for your beyond!

Get Kelly's FREE "10 Tips for Hiring a Divorce Attorney" Infographic here: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/su/YTRPNSy

About this week's special guest: Kelly Myers

Kelly Myers is a Certified Divorce and Mediation Coach, Co-Parenting Specialist, and mediator. She earned her Divorce Mediation certificate from Northwestern University and has taken multiple Divorce and Family Mediation training with the acclaimed Mosten Guthrie Academy. Kelly has also been trained by Bill Eddy in High Conflict Mediation and as a New Ways for Families Coach.

Kelly is passionate in her advocation of developing balanced co-parenting strategies to build harmony within the new family dynamic and is a part of the Co-Parenting Specialist Certification training team at Mosten Guthrie Academy. Kelly’s a graduate of the University of San Diego and earned her paralegal certificate from USD’s ABA-approved paralegal program. Kelly believes that helping people navigate the divorce process by managing their emotions, creating a divorce support team, and finding clarity on wants and needs allows people to use their divorce to build a strong foundation for their future.

Kelly’s website: https://yourdivorceadvocate.com/

Kelly’s divorce resources: https://yourdivorceadvocate.com/divorce-resources/

Mentioned in this episode:

Tami Wollensak, Certified Divorce Lending Professional

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If you or someone you know could benefit from a complimentary divorce mortgage planning consult, visit TakeorLeavethehouse.com. Mention you heard about Tami on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast.

Soberlink has teamed up with divorce and family law experts to bring you the information you didn't know that can provide peace of mind during the holidays.

Don't miss out on Soberlink’s Free Guide for the upcoming Holiday Season.

Request your free guide today at www.soberlink.com/susan

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MEET OUR CREATOR AND HOST:

SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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Divorce Doesn’t Suck: A View From Beyond with Podcast Host, Wendy Sloane on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast #276

Mon, 12 Dec 2022 05:00:00 -0600

Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes fellow podcast host, Wendy Sloane to the show. Wendy shares the insights she has learned from her divorce and explains why even a bad divorce can be a good thing!

In this episode, podcast host and former television producer Wendy Sloane joins Susan Guthrie to share her personal divorce story. She discusses the good and the bad of divorce and how she is living her best life, today. Yes, divorce is fraught with difficulty and overwhelm. but it doesn’t have to suck. You can still have your happily ever after divorce.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Give yourself the grace of space: take your time during the divorce process, you don’t need to hire the first attorney you speak to nor do you need to hire an attorney immediately
The decisions you make about who is going to support you in your divorce and the process you choose (mediation, litigation, etc) informs how your divorce and life after are going to unfold
Technology can be helpful, especially if there is a conflict between co-parents
What we mean when we say, “Divorce is hard when you are in it, so keep your kids out of it.”

If you are going through the hard parts of divorce right now, we hope this episode makes things a bit easier!

About this week's special guest: Wendy Sloane

Wendy Sloane is a former TV producer turned founder and host of the popular talk series podcast What’s Up With Wendy. The show indulges listeners with an in-depth conversation between Wendy Lowy Sloane and her special guests. Wendy's ability to connect with her guests has led to many repeat appearances from popular celebrities including Eric Stonestreet, Monica Potter, Nate Berkus, Lori Laughlin, Paul Reiser, and James Van Praagh. Wendy is also the co-host of the podcast Divorce Doesn’t Suck, which explores every aspect of divorce, including kids, finances, dating, sex, starting over, and more. Co-host Daniel Herrold and Wendy share their experiences and fresh perspectives on their divorces, and how they were able to move forward and focus on the future.

Wendy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whatsupwithwendy/

Divorce Doesn’t Suck Podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/show/divorce-doesnt-suck/

What’s Up with Wendy: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/966-whats-up-with-wendy-30301431

Susan on Divorce Doesn’t Suck podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/user/whatsupwithwendy/susandds

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Conscious Coupling: Are Pre-Nups the Secret to a Happy Marriage? with Leading Attorney, Monica Mazzei on Divorce & Beyond #275

Mon, 05 Dec 2022 05:00:00 -0600

Today on The Divorce & Beyond podcast, host Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes leading attorney Monica Mazzei! Together they explore how pre-nuptial agreements can help partners prepare for their marriage and beyond.

In this episode, Susan Guthrie and her guest, Monica Mazzei focus not on divorce, but instead on marriage and partnerships. They encourage you to think about how a pre-martial agreement can be a collaboration and bring you together, rather than used as a plan for what happens if you part.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

Conscious coupling is very different from conscious uncoupling
Why the stigma around having a pre-marital agreement is waning
Monica shares insights on the ideal time to start the conversation about a prenup
What happens during pre-marital agreement planning
“Nobody wants to talk about money, divorce, or death. But these are the things you need to talk about.”
Prenups should be a collaborative and transparent process, and agreements should be balanced and fair
In the event of a divorce, prenups lead to less cost, less time, and less stress because you already worked through these issues
“This is your opportunity to ask for what you want while you still like each other. Try doing this ten years from now when you can’t stand each other, it’s a lot harder.”

About this week's special guest: Monica Mazzei

Monica Mazzei is a Certified Family Law Specialist representing clients in the Bay Area, with a concentration in San Francisco and Silicon Valley, as well as Los Angeles. She represents high-net-worth clients throughout the litigation process and in mediation. Monica has been named a California Super Lawyer from 2015-2019 and has been recognized in the international Chambers High Net Worth 2017-2019 guide for Family/Matrimonial Law.

Monica specializes in dissolution actions involving complicated valuation and financial matters, complex community property and support issues, including international issues, and dissolutions involving hedge funds, private equity, venture capital, and privately held businesses. Monica drafts and negotiates cohabitation agreements, and pre-marital and post-marital agreements for her clients.

Monica also mediates pre-marital agreements. As a mediator, Monica helps to identify the thoughts and concerns of both parties in a non-confrontational setting. Mediation helps clients discuss difficult topics which allow Monica to create a financial structure that works for both parties.

Monica takes a modern approach to the practice of family law – addressing various needs for her clients related and unrelated to their family law cases. Monica has relationships with top professionals in the Bay Area such as forensic accountants, mental health professionals, real estate agents, financial advisors, and business valuation experts. She also works closely with estate planning attorneys to come up with creative solutions for her clients and ensure their agreements reflect their current objectives.

Monica is a frequent lecturer and speaker on family law matters and a staunch advocate against domestic abuse in her pro bono work.

Monica Mazzei - Sideman Bancroft, LLP: https://www.sideman.com/professionals/monica-mazzei/

Monica on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/monica-mazzei-5029432/

Email Monica: mmazzei@sideman.com

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Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Sharing is Caring: How Philanthropy Can Help You Heal with Caren Yanis on Divorce and Beyond #274

Mon, 28 Nov 2022 05:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Susan Guthrie, Esq. is joined by philanthropist Caren Yanis who shares the many ways that being generous and sharing with others can actually help you heal after divorce.

Being philanthropic is not just about money. We have social capital, intellectual capital, time or the ability to be purposeful with lots of different tools. Whether someone has millions of dollars or is on a shoestring budget, being able to give, in some way, can make a difference.

Caren Yanis joins Susan Guthrie for a conversation about philanthropy as it intersects with divorce, families, your future, and the beyond. There is power in giving. It can help you heal, be an outlet for your children during divorce, and make the world a better place to live.

Caren Yanis is the principal of Croland Consulting, a philanthropic advisory group that guides families, athletes, and celebrities in building a culture of purpose and legacy.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include

Divorce is a prime time to do something with your children that is outward-focused, such as giving
The benefit of having a philanthropic advisor or sherpa to create a long view goals of giving
Philanthropy can help you heal from the trauma of a difficult divorce
Examples of women who come at philanthropy not with a lot of financial resources but with energy and attention, and do amazing things
Engaging in the arts and using the arts to help other people is a fabulous way to elevate everybody

Whether you have billions of dollars or zero dollars, we all have something to give and to benefit others.

About this week's special guest: Caren Yanis

Caren is the principal of Croland Consulting, a philanthropic advisory group that guides families, athletes, and celebrities in building a culture of purpose and legacy.

She was Executive Director of the Oprah Winfrey Foundation and Oprah’s Angel Network, (2000-2009) the height of the Oprah Winfrey Show.

She went on to become President of Crown Family Philanthropies in Chicago.

Caren Croland Yanis | Philanthropic Advising: caren@crolandconsulting.com

Caren’s website: CrolandConsulting.com

Caren on Linkedin: http://linkedin.com/in/carenyanis

Also mentioned in this episode:

PoetryMagazine.org/EventsOffer:1 year of Poetry Magazine for $20. Regular price is $35.

Generosity Project: https://www.ted.com/talks/sasha_dichter_the_generosity_experiment

Women’s Philanthropy Institute – The Women’s and Girls Index: https://scholarworks.iupui.edu/bitstream/handle/1805/21010/wgi-infographic.pdf

Women’s Philanthropy Institute -Women as Change Agents:

https://scholarworks.iupui.edu/bitstream/handle/1805/21440/change-agents-infographic.pdf

Women Moving Millions: https://womenmovingmillions.org/

Thresholds  - mental health and breaking the cycle of poverty: https://www.thresholds.org/

Friends of the Children – mentoring high risk children: https://friendschicago.org/about

Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation: theMMRF.org

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SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career.

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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It’s All About #GettingtheGift with Lisa McGregor on Divorce and Beyond #273

Mon, 21 Nov 2022 05:00:00 -0600

As we head into the holiday season and Black Friday shopping, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes Lisa McGregor of The Unplanned Chapter to the show! Lisa shares support and wisdom about gift-giving, your kids, and your ex this holiday season.

After divorce, there is a desire to separate lives between you and your ex. However, if you are co-parenting, you and your ex will always be connected through your child in one way or another. So when it comes to gift-giving around the holidays or special celebrations, co-parents often struggle with helping their child buy a gift for the other parent. When it comes down to it, it's not about you, it's about your child and Lisa knows from personal experience.

Lisa McGregor joins Susan Guthrie for a conversation about how to help your children purchase a gift for the other parent in their lives; even if the other parent: doesn’t help your child/children get a gift for you or refuses to accept anything from you.

Lisa McGregor is Co-Parenting Coach who is helping women to embrace their new role of part time parenting. For nearly two decades, Lisa has been motivating women to help them improve their lives by learning to love their bodies through diet and exercise.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include

Gift-giving for a co-parent is not about you. It’s about your child and helping them show their love and foster a relationship with a co-parent.
Some of the “Yeah, but’s” co-parents struggle when it comes to gift-giving
The subtle nuances of helping your children celebrate their other parent and/or honor their choice to forgo giving a gift
Share what you are doing with your kids this holiday season and use the hashtag #Gettingthegift
On gift-giving: “The biggest payout of all is seeing the joy in your child’s eyes. Allow that to be the drive to do it again in the future. ”

This episode is a reminder that gift-giving is not about you. It’s always about your child. Give your child permission to celebrate with their parent and help them in whatever way you can!

About this week's special guest: Lisa McGregor

Lisa McGregor is Co-Parenting Coach who is helping women to embrace their new role of part-time parenting. For nearly two decades, Lisa has been motivating women to help them improve their lives by learning to love their bodies through diet and exercise. The first 17 years of her career were spent in the fitness industry, but after going through a divorce in 2017 and struggling to accept this unplanned chapter of part-time parenting, she felt called to show how she was able to embrace this journey and began to see this adjustment as a gift. Lisa quickly garnered a community of women who resonated and were ready to use their own co parenting journey as a catalyst to a richer life. Lisa empowers Moms to leverage their time away to turn less into more. Lisa has shared her story on several podcasts & across multiple social media platforms and helps women put it all into action as a Life & Hypno Breath Work Coach.

Lisa’s website: https://theunplannedchapter.com/

Lisa on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunplannedchapter

Lisa on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theunplannedchapter

The Unplanned Chapter Blog: https://medium.com/@theunplannedchapter

The Unplanned Chapter Private Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theunplannedchapter/

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Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career.

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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The Divorce and Beyond November Headlines Roundup with Susan Guthrie #272

Thu, 17 Nov 2022 05:00:00 -0600

It's time for the next installment of our monthly Bonus Divorce & Beyond Headlines Round Up episode with our host and one of the top divorce attorneys in the country, Susan Guthrie!

It's a mixture of celebrity headlines and high profile cases involving some more ordinary people with some out-of-the-ordinary problems and issues. Interestingly, there are two cases involving transgender people and the legal issues that can make things even more complicated. Basketball Superstar, Dwayne Wade's petition to change his daughter's name and gender is being opposed by his ex-wife while Tommy Dorfman and her husband have finalized their divorce, perhaps as a result of her recent coming out as transgender. Other cases in the headlines involve one woman's ongoing court battle to use a frozen embryo created with her ex to have another child over his objection, the crazy financial differences between couples that drove them to divorce and Cheryl Burke and Joey Lawrence's ongoing custody battle over their dog which is headed to trial in Janaury.

There is something to think about and learn from in each of these media stories so listen in as Susan breaks them down and helps you find the message behind the headlines!

In this month's Headline Round-up Susan discusses:

The legal name of Dwyane Wade's daughter is at the center of a court battle
Dwyane Wade is trying to legally change his transgender daughter's name and gender. But his ex-wife, Siohvaughn Funches, is asking the court to stop him.

Read in NPR: https://apple.news/AWlFkUHOgSiSLaJNfwZbTf
Divorced couple fights over frozen embryo: She wants another baby. He doesn't.
An egg from a woman's sister that was fertilized by her ex-husband is at the center of a post-divorce legal fight.

Read in USA TODAY: https://apple.news/AmWxpAcT2SeS3RA3Ll7oEug
Cheryl Burke Cozies Up To Dog Ysabella As Grueling Custody Battle With Ex-Husband Matthew Lawrence Rages On
Despite finalizing their divorce in September, Cheryl Burke and Matthew Lawrence are still battling over the custody of their dog.

Read in OK!: https://apple.news/AQMr2RpSDTR6GsOOd1h09Xw
People Who "Divorced Over Money" Are Sharing The Breaking Point That Ended Their Marriage, And It’s Wild
"My ex refused to work, even when I begged him to. We lived on my salary alone, and it was so hard. Eventually, I just snapped and asked for a divorce. It’s been six months since I filed, and I already have more savings than we ever had as a couple."
Read in BuzzFeed: https://apple.news/ADyXS7f9GR362rgNHqSWqAw
Tommy Dorfman and Ex Peter Zurkuhlen Agree to Divorce Terms 9 Months After Filing
Zurkuhlen filed for divorce in February, months after the _13 Reasons Why_ alum came out as transgender

Read in People: https://apple.news/ANxGwdyKtSIS_SGP0xxsKiw

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Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 20,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career.

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Help Your Teachers Help Your Kids During Divorce with Claudia Brown Coulter on Divorce & Beyond #271

Mon, 14 Nov 2022 05:00:00 -0600

Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes former teacher turned mediator Claudia Brown Coulter to share insider knowledge on how your child’s teachers can be one of their biggest support systems during divorce and beyond!

You may not realize it, but your child’s teachers and school faculty can tell when something is going on at home. Maybe they see a behavior shift or grades start to suffer. Oftentimes, during divorce, parents don’t make the school aware of this major life change. They are leaving a helpful resource untapped.

Today, Susan invites Claudia to talk about the school resources available to children and parents during times of big (or little) stress. In this episode, Susan and Claudia discuss how to talk to your child’s school about your divorce, how to form an allyship between you and your child’s teacher, and other ways schools can support both children and parents through divorce. This is such an important episode, we hope you tune in.

Claudia Brown Coulter was a teacher in public education for 21 years. The transition to mediation was a natural one as colleagues and administrators kept coming to her to help them settle disputes between themselves and with their parents.

Some topics that Claudia and Susan discuss:

School is a safe place for children because there is predictability in their day and therefore it is often where they act out or express their emotions
What kind of information is helpful to share with the school when opening up about an ongoing divorce or separation
Teachers are your child’s ally, they will be compassionate and understanding
Some ways parents and schools can support your children
Bonus topic! Holiday gift ideas for teachers

Transcript of the Episode

About this week's special guest: Claudia Brown Coulter

Claudia was a teacher in public education for 21 years. The transition to mediation was a natural one as colleagues and administrators kept coming to her to help them settle disputes between themselves and with parents. So she decided to make it official and enrolled at Pepperdine Law where she learned the art and science of mediation. She loves mediating online, especially since it means clients don’t have to sit in the same room with their ex or battle LA traffic. It’s a win-win.

Connect with Claudia:

https://brownieculture.com

https://www.facebook.com/Brownie-Culture-100942371388718

https://www.instagram.com/brownieculture/

Also mentioned in this episode:

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SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career.

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

Susan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susaneguthrie/

Susan on Instagram @susanguthrieesq

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Special Bonus Episode EMPOWERED: How a New Family Court Law is (and isn’t) Helping Some Victims of IPV with Amy Polacko on Divorce and Beyond #270

Thu, 10 Nov 2022 05:00:00 -0600

As November is Family Court Awareness Month which closely follows on the heels of Domestic Violence Awareness month in October, Susan Guthrie, Esq. brings you a special Bonus Episode where the two topics are joined. Susan chats again with Investigative Journalist and Coach, Amy Polacko to shine a light on what the laws do and do not do to protect victims of intimate partner violence and coercive control, what has been done and what more needs to be done.

Amy Polacko recently wrote a revealing article for Ms. Magazine entitled, "Empowered: Women Tell Family Court Judges of Experiences With Coercive Control Using New Domestic Abuse Law" that received a great deal of attention from women and survivors of domestic abuse. As outlined in the article, one year ago, Connecticut enacted Jennifers' Law, which added coercive control to the definition of domestic violence for those seeking relief, becoming one of only 5 states to pass such protections. Amy's article looks at how the law has impacted domestic violence victims since the passing of the law, highlighting the benefits but also the many shortcomings and difficulties in applying the law in a court of law.

In this episode, Amy shares her insights from speaking directly with the women who have been in the legal trenches, those who continue to struggle with litigation abuse and some tips for managing if you find yourself in this dangerous situation. This is incredibly important information for everyone to hear as domestic violence rips at the fabric of our society.

About this week's special guest: Amy Polacko

Her recent journalistic work has appeared in The Washington Post, Newsweek, NBC News THINK, and Ms. Magazine. After graduating from Columbia University's Graduate School of Journalism, Amy worked as a newspaper reporter for Newsday and was part of the Pulitzer Prize-winning team covering the TWA Flight 800 crash. She then transitioned to television journalism, working as a writer and producer in New York City. Amy was an award-winning on-air reporter in Fargo, ND, where she traveled to Kosovo for a series on the North Dakota National Guard, and in Philadelphia, where she covered the national D.C. Sniper story. She also headed up an investigative reporting unit in Albany, NY, where she uncovered consumer scams, crime, and government corruption as part of her I-Team Investigations -- one of which exposed a loophole in the state's sex offender registry.

Domestic Abuse Part One: Understanding Coercive Control with Dr. Christine Cocchiola on Divorce & Beyond #237

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freedomwarriortribe/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/freedomwarriortribe/

Also mentioned in this episode:

Dr. Christine Cocchiola's Episodes:

Domestic Abuse Part Two: Turning the Focus to Post-Separation Abuse with Dr. Christine Cocchiola on Divorce & Beyond #238

Tina Swithin Episodes:

How One Mom‘s Battle is Changing the Face of High Conflict Divorce with Tina Swithin on Divorce & Beyond #206

The Incredible Tale of One Mom’s Successful 10-Year Battle to Be Free of a Narcissist with Tina Swithin on Divorce & Beyond #257

Get Tina's Book: Divorcing a Narcissist: One Mom’s Battle

CT Protective Moms: https://www.connecticutprotectivemoms.org/

Tindler Swindler
Bad Vegan

Maid

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Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 18,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career.

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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Anything Can Happen in Paris: How Divorce, Death, and Astrology Helped Her Find Love with Best-Selling Author, Natasha Sizlo on Divorce & Beyond #269

Mon, 07 Nov 2022 05:00:00 -0600

In this week’s episode, Susan Guthrie, Esq., welcomes best-selling author Natasha Sizlo to the show! Together, they discuss Natasha’s journey to Paris searching for her soulmate and how that helped her to find true love, friendship, and more.

Natasha Sizlo is the author of All Signs Point to Paris: A Memoir of Love, Loss, and Destiny. She is a former journalist and a well-known realtor at the firm The Agency. Yes, the real estate firm from The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills and Million Dollar Listing Los Angeles, where Natasha has appeared on many episodes. You will also be seeing her on the brand new Netflix show, Buying Beverly Hills which premiered on November 4th!

In addition to talking about Natasha’s book, this conversation explores the topics of friendship, family, manifestation, going for it, and finding your soulmate. Natasha’s journey will make you laugh, cry, and inspire you.

Topics and Golden Nuggets include

A reminder to be open to new experiences or possibilities.
Awakening to the love of friendship and the support of friends and other women.
The power of thinking about what you want your life to look like.
“It’s so easy to forget about all the love that we have in our lives. Not all of it is obvious and not all of it is loud. It’s quiet, it’s in the corners, and it’s in the tiny spaces.”
Natasha talks about reclaiming the magic of childhood and believing that anything is possible.

About this week's special guest: Natasha Sizlo

Natasha Sizlo is a writer based in Los Angeles. She grew up in California and has a B.A. from the University of California, Santa Barbara. Natasha started her career writing for magazines including Variety, Cosmopolitan, Shape Magazine, Santa Barbara Magazine, and Ray Gun among others. In 1998, she moved to Detour Magazine where she worked as Senior Editor managing an editorial team and working as a staff writer covering celebrity, fashion, and tech. After Detour, she continued writing for fashion brands and blogs, composing press releases and online copy, and eventually transitioning to real estate where she currently works at The Agency (Yes, the real estate firm from The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills and Million Dollar Listing Los Angeles, where Natasha has appeared on many episodes). Her astrologer told her that her Point of Destiny is to tell a story, so now she’s doing that.

Get Natasha’s Book: All Signs Point To Paris: A Memoir of Love, Loss, and Destiny

Natasha’s website: https://natashasizlo.com/

Natasha on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/02Novembre1968

Natasha on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/natashasizlo/

Natasha Sizlo, Estates Agent: https://www.theagencyre.com/agent/natasha-sizlo

Also mentioned in this episode:

Moms Moving On Method - Apply Today for Michelle Dempsey-Multack’s Training for Divorce Coaches Program

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SUSAN GUTHRIE®, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond® Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country. Susan is the Vice Chair of the American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution and is a sought-after keynote speaker, business and practice consultant, coach and trainer. You can find out more about Susan and her services here: https://neon.page/susanguthrie

Internationally renowned as one of the leading experts in online mediation, Susan created her Learn to Mediate Online® program and has trained more than 25,000 professionals in how to transition their practice online. Susan recently partnered with legal and mediation legend, Forrest "Woody" Mosten to create the Mosten Guthrie Academy which provides gold standard, fully online training for mediation and collaborative professionals at all stages of their career.

Follow Susan Guthrie and THE DIVORCE AND BEYOND PODCAST on social media for updates and inside tips and information:

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What You NEED to know about Child Support with Leading Divorce Attorney, Eric Broder on Divorce & Beyond #268

Mon, 31 Oct 2022 05:00:00 -0500

Today on The Divorce & Beyond Podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes back Attorney Eric Broder to break down the ins and outs of child support!

Many facets of divorce can be overwhelming, especially when finances are involved. One of the most common financial matters that come up in divorce is child support and along with it comes a whole lot of questions:

How is it calculated?
What happens if a spouse’s income changes?
What things aren’t covered under child support?

Child support can be hard or even confusing for many people. Eric joins Susan to offer an essential primer on child support. He has a way of describing legal concepts that is accessible which is why we are sure you’ll find this conversation helpful and full of insight.

Eric Broder is a Leading Family Law Attorney and Co-Founding Member and Partner at Broder Orland Murray & DeMattie LLC.

Conversation Topics and Golden Nuggets:

There is a big misunderstanding of what funds from child support cover. Eric shares what child support does and does not cover
How child support is calculated - it’s a function of income and not cost of living
Child support should always be modifiable - for example, children’s needs change or a parent’s income may change
The children win when co-parents can come to an agreement over child support and payment for extracurricular activities like sports or music classes or future education
The impact of the amount of time a child is with each parent on child support

Listen to hear great tips on making child support agreements that will keep you out of the courtroom!

About this week's special guest: Eric Broder

Eric J. Broder is a Co-Founding Member and Partner at Broder Orland Murray & DeMattie LLC. He is an AV Preeminent™ rated attorney by Martindale-Hubbell®, the highest possible rating in both legal ability and ethical standards, earned through a strenuous peer and judicial review procedure. He is also a Past President of the Fairfield County Bar Association.

Website: https://www.ctfamilylaw.com/

Also mentioned in this episode:

Thinking About Divorce? Your Top 5 FAQs Answered by Leading Divorce Attorney, Eric Broder

Your Favorite Guest Experts Share Their Most-Memorable Divorce Cases Part One

“The Nightmare of Shared Expenses for Co-Parents and the Simple Tech Solution That Solves it with the Co-Founder of DComply, Marco Munoz

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Navigating Holiday Hassles: How to Handle the Hard Stuff with America’s Favorite Parenting Expert, Christina McGhee #267

Thu, 27 Oct 2022 05:00:00 -0500

With the flurry of holidays right around the corner, it's time for a Special Bonus Episode to help you handle those Holiday Hassles and deal with all the hard stuff when it comes to your children and divorce. Susan is joined again but America's Favorite Parenting Expert and Best-Selling Author, Christina McGhee for deep dive into what really matters for your kids as you navigate two homes as a family. The episode tackles the really tough stuff that includes having to practice radical acceptance of what is as well as facing the fact that in some instances, well-meaning parents can actually bring additional strain on their children at what is supposed to be the happiest time of year.

Christina shares so many Golden Nuggets in this episode that it is hard to narrow it down to just a few but some key points she makes are:

Start with the question, "what needs to stay the same and what needs to change?"
Don't forget what it feels like to be a child during the holidays - it is easy to get caught up in our own feelings of loss but what is truly important?
Remember that when you emphasize being "fair" about the timeshare during holidays, kids can feel like a commodity.
Sometimes we have to accept that it is what it is and focus on making what we do have the best that it can be.
Different doesn't have to mean devastating.
Why the term "for now" needs to be your mantra.

This is THE episode that will help you face and deal with all the hard stuff about the holiday season head on so that you and your kids CAN have a happy holiday season!

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About this week's special guest: Christina McGhee

Christina McGhee is a speaker and divorce parenting expert who believes divorce doesn't have to equal devastation for families.

While splitting up is undeniably hard, with the right kind of information and support, she thinks parents can be children's absolute best resource as life changes.

As a coach with 20+ years of experience, Christina is dedicated to providing parents with the tools and practical support they need to get it right for their kids.

She is also the author of the highly acclaimed book, Parenting Apart: How separated and divorced parents can raise happy and secure kids.

As a child of divorce and as a bonus mom (aka step-mom), Christina gets plenty of opportunities to practice what she preaches.

Together she and her husband have four “adultish” children (2 bonus, 2 bio), an ever-growing community of rescue dogs/cats, and an obscene number of chickens. You can nd out more about her at divorceandchildren.com

Website: www.divorceandchildren.com

Co-Parenting Specialist (CoPS) Certification Training with Mosten Guthrie Academy: https://mostenguthrie.com/co-parenting-specialist

Parenting Apart: How Separated and Divorced Parents Can Raise Happy and Secure Kids:

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Instagram: http://instagram.com/divorceandchildren

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/divorceandchildren

Also mentioned in this episode:

Christina's previous holiday episode with MORE great advice for a happy holiday season: https://divorcebeyond.com/Avoid-Holiday-Mistakes

Bella Duncan's Episode: https://divorcebeyond.com/Kid-with-Two-Homes

Ellen Bruno's Episode on Split: The Film: https://divorcebeyond.com/How-Kids-Feel

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Your Post-Divorce Honeymoon is the Trip of a Lifetime with Sadie Marie on Divorce & Beyond #266

Mon, 24 Oct 2022 05:00:00 -0500

On this week’s episode of the Divorce & Beyond Podcast, Susan Guthrie, Esq. welcomes Sadie Marie, creator and Host of Sadie’s Divorced and Happy Podcast. Together, Susan and Sadie take you on a journey through your post-divorce honeymoon – this is the trip of a lifetime!

Throughout our lives we have many kinds of celebrations - when there is the birth of a baby, we celebrate with baby showers, or for birthdays, we celebrate with parties. When we get married, one way we celebrate is by going on a honeymoon with our new spouse. And guess what? There is also a honeymoon phase you can experience after your divorce!

In this episode, fellow podcast host, Sadie Marie, joins Susan for a conversation about some of the ways to transition from experiencing grief over your divorce to a celebratory phase and beyond. You’ll hear ways how to achieve happiness, find yourself, and more.

Sadie Marie is the host of Sadie's Divorced and Happy podcast, a spicy, playful, out-of-the-box look at life after divorce.

Conversation Topics and Golden Nuggets:

The “honeymoon phase” of divorce is about experiencing, learning about, and loving yourself
There is a huge part that grief plays in letting go of what you thought you had or who you thought you were
How to transition from experiencing grief to this celebratory phase of divorce
Stepping into and feeling your most “spicy”
Do something different! Divorce is a great season to do something out-of-the-bo
“The biggest gift my honeymoon phase gave to me was just how happy I could be.”
Celebrate the small wins!

About this week's special guest: Sadie Marie

Since her divorce, Sadie Marie recognizes more than ever the value of being fierce in determination, desire, and, most of all, self-love. She’s also learned to put her focus on being relentless and resilient in pursuing happiness for herself and her family. As the host of Sadie’s Divorced and Happy Podcast, Sadie welcomes the opportunity to share her insights and ideas as well as learn from her listeners and guests.

Website: http://www.divorcedandhappy.net

Instagram: http://instagram.com/sadiesdivorcedandhappy

Facebook: http://facebook.com/sadiesdivorcedandhappy

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sadiesdivorcedandhappy

YouTube: http://youtube.com/sadiesdivorcedandhappy

Podcast: https://www.divorcedandhappy.net/podcast

Also mentioned in this episode:

Sometimes Too Much is Just Enough Part One with Laura Friedman Williams, Author of "Available"

Sometimes Too Much is Just Enough Part Two with Laura Friedman Williams, Author of "Available"

Anything is Possible: Bonus Author Update with Laura Friedman Williams, Author of ”Available”

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The Divorce and Beyond October Headlines Roundup with Special Guest, Bela Gandhi, America’s Favorite Dating Expert #265

Thu, 20 Oct 2022 06:05:04 -0500

Bela Gandhi, America's Favorite Dating Coach, joins Susan this month for a dive into the next installment of our Bonus Divorce & Beyond Headlines Round Up Monthly episode!

Starting with reported hot new couple, Emily Ratajkowski and Brad Pitt, Susan and Bela touch on all the biggest headlines from the past few weeks including a couple of Real Housewives (aren't there always a couple of Real Housewives?), Brian Austin Green and Vanessa Marcil's IG spat, Sly and Jennifer's reconciliation and of course, the $650 million divorce of Tom Brady and Gisele!

Susan and Bela share the latest on these cases as well as some insights that might apply to your divorce. Think you have nothing in common with these celebrity divorces? Think again! Stars are people too!

In this month's Headline Round-up Susan discusses:

Emily Ratajkowski and Brad Bitt Dating amid her divorce: https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/emily-ratajkowski-single-divorce-b2203150.html
Brad Pitt on Dealing with Divorce “Misery:" https://pagesix.com/2022/10/13/brad-pitt-on-dealing-with-misery-after-angelina-jolie-split/
Giselle and Tom Brady Divorce: https://pagesix.com/article/tom-brady-and-gisele-bundchens-net-worth-a-full-breakdown/
Lisa Hochstein explodes over Lenny’s girlfriend in ‘RHOM’ Season 5 trailer: https://pagesix.com/2022/10/16/rhom-season-5-trailer-lisa-hochstein-cries-over-divorce/
Brian Austin Green slams ex Vanessa Marcil over alleged custody claims: https://apple.news/AlyIhdUCuRLCUtIYVp0tcBA
Sylvester Stallone & Wife Jennifer Flavin Attend Ralph Lauren Runway Show After Calling Off Divorce: https://apple.news/ApabQhm_tQmm4tPqCBAJW4Q
RHOC Star Shannon Beador Says She Was 'Not Surprised' by Ex-Husband David Beador's Divorce Drama: https://apple.news/AbbiSBVInQJSvlSl8BlNnRQ

Listen in and you will never look at the Headlines and Divorce the same way again!

Mentioned in this Episode:

Over 50 Love Lab with Bela: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/dating-over-50-love-lab
The Smart Dating Academy Podcast: https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/podcast
Susan on the Smart Dating Academy Podcast: https://audioboom.com/posts/8006156
Bela on Divorce and Beyond: How to Fix Your Picker and Find Love with Bela Gandhi https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/fqkxak/D_and_B_BelaGandhi-Jan2022.mp3

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More about Bela Gandhi:

Bela has been connecting people all of her life. Prior to founding the Smart Dating Academy, Bela worked for 12 years as a top global executive for Akzo Nobel, a large multinational corporation. Bela has two degrees from The University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign (Finance & German), and has been happily married for 20 years with 2 children.

You can find out more about Bela, her date coaching services and her FREE GIFT the 7 Clues You are in a Relationship with a Narcissist Quiz at www.smartdatingacademy.com.

Follow Bela on Instagram @smartdatingacademy and be sure to join her on Thursday nights at 7pm ET for her famous Instagram Lives!

Podcast Transcript Available: https://share.descript.com/view/yVErsLd7pka

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Susan on Twitter @guthrielaw

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The Biggest Mistakes People Make When Divorcing a Narcissist with Tracy Malone on Divorce & Beyond #264

Mon, 17 Oct 2022 05:00:00 -0500

Host, Susan Guthrie welcomes back Tracy Malone to discuss some of the mistakes people make when divorcing a narcissist!

Returning guest Tracy Malone is the author of Divorcing Your Narcissist: You Can't Make This Shit Up! Divorcing a narcissist is a hot topic these days. In fact, there is so much information that is clickbaity or based on myths about it. Tracy’s book is the most comprehensive compilation of tips, insights, case studies, and personal experiences about what it is like to divorce a narcissist.

In this episode, Tracy and Susan explore some of the 14 common and biggest mistakes of divorcing a narcissist that Tracy has compiled and share practical advice for avoiding them.

Tracy Malone is an author, speaker, educator, and international emotional resilience coach.

Conversation Golden Nuggets:

The adversarial mindset, “How to BEAT a narcissist” is so harmful. Tracy shares her thoughts on the topic. Instead of “how to fight,” think “how to cope or prepare”
“Don’t call them a narcissist! It’s going to poke the bear, enrage them more, and set the whole divorce on a different trajectory.”
Check your expectations when it comes to justice in the family court and pick your battles!
Make the parenting plan as inclusive as possible and considers the growth of your children
If you are aware, you can prepare. Plus, why it is important to have a team or support system during your divorce

Listen to this episode to learn as much as you can about divorcing a narcissist and then move forward with awareness!

About this week's special guest: Tracy Malone

Tracy Malone Author, Speaker, Educator, and International emotional resilience coach. She is a surTHRIVER of abuse herself and the founder of Narcissist Abuse Support.com. Tracy has a popular YouTube channel and podcast that has reached millions of survivors.

Website: https://narcissistabusesupport.com

Book: DIVORCING YOUR NARCISSIST: You Can't Make This Shit Up!

Red Flag Checklist: https://narcissistabusesupport.com/free-red-flag-checklist/

Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/188681268196044/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/TracyAMalone

Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/tracyamalone

Twitter: https://twitter.com/TracyAMalone

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tracyamalone/

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/podcast-narcissist-abuse-support/id1244854330?mt=2

Also mentioned in this episode:

What to Expect When Divorcing a Narcissist: If You Are Aware, Then You Can Prepare with Tracy Malone

The FYI on DIY Divorce from the Founder and CEO of Hello Divorce, Erin Levine

Changing Divorce Lawyers Midstream – Your Rights – Vulnerabilities – The Process – Susan Guthrie

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It’s All About the House: What You Need to Think About Before You Decide to Keep It with Tami Wollensak on Divorce & Beyond #263

Mon, 10 Oct 2022 05:00:00 -0500

On this week’s episode of Divorce & Beyond, Host, Susan Guthrie, is joined by Certified Divorce Lending Professional, Tami Wollensak. Together they discuss creative solutions around what you can and can’t do with the marital home in a divorce!

So you want to keep the house in your divorce? You’re not alone. The marital home and what is going to happen with it is one of the first questions soon-to-be-divorced couples ask when meeting with a divorce attorney or professional. The home is often one of the biggest assets and the mortgage is one of the biggest debts of divorce.

In this episode, Susan and Tami explore solutions around the marital home, discuss some of the things you need to consider before keeping it, what you need to know about lending options, and other difficulties or situations that may arise.

Tami Wollensak is a licensed mortgage loan originator and a 25+ year veteran of the industry, she has experience working in multiple roles and facets of the industry. She has discovered her true passion in helping divorcing individuals navigate their home equity solutions while going through the most challenging time of their life.

Conversation Golden Nuggets:

Divorce mortgage planning provides options to help you make a more informed decision about the marital home
Defining what the equity/value of a home is at the time of a divorce
If you are awarded the home, you will probably need to refinance and take out a new mortgage
Property taxes and homeowner insurance become your responsibility, the cost of these may change once you refinance
If you keep the house, the mortgage is not your only responsibility! Tami shares why getting a home inspection can help you decide if you wish to pursue keeping the marital home or not

If keeping the home post-divorce is something you are considering, this episode is a must-listen!

About this week's special guest: Tami Wollensak

Tami has earned the certification as a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP™). This specialization provides her the ability to identify potential gaps in the agreement that cannot be met during the mortgage process. Tami works with her client’s attorney, mediator, or nancial advisor to help guide them through all the options available to ensure a successful outcome regarding the divorcing couple’s real estate.

As a Mortgage Loan Originator, Tami’s goal is to educate her clients, take the mystery and anxiety out of the mortgage process, and provide a sense of security and peace to each of them.

Book a Meeting with Tami: https://go.thryv.com/site/TamiW/online-scheduling

Website: http://www.tamiwollensak.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tamiwollensakcdlp

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamiwollensak

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamiwollensakcdlp

Also mentioned in this episode:

AnnualCreditReport.com

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Let’s Get Radical: Deep-Dive Self-Care to Get You Through Your Divorce with Intuitive Healer, Holly Hughes, on Divorce & Beyond #262

Mon, 03 Oct 2022 05:00:00 -0500

On this week’s episode, Host, Susan Guthrie, welcomes Holly Hughes, an Intuitive Healer, to discuss tips for taking your self-care to the next level when facing divorce or any significant struggle!

Most people going through divorce feel numb or devastated. It’s also not uncommon to lose sight of who you are or were as your marriage comes to an end. While there are many answers to help you heal, sometimes the answer is in the form of self-care.

Holly Hughes joins Susan Guthrie for an enlightening conversation about self-care and how it starts with being aware of your own needs. You can’t take care of anyone else (your children, for example) if you aren’t taking care of yourself first.

In this episode, Holly and Susan take a deep dive into many forms of self-care. Self-care does not need to be an insurmountable task - it can look like coloring, listening to music, or dancing, - simply take small steps in your day to make yourself feel better.

Holly Hughes is an intuitive energy healer, speaker, and author of the book, “Real Not Perfect: How to Become Your Happy Authentic Self.”

Conversation Golden Nuggets include:

When you create a pattern of self-care, those who love you and see the benefit, for you and for them, will encourage it
Experiencing a moment of joy may help you define what is hurting and needs healing
Part of self-care includes putting your phone down!
Start your day with kindness to yourself
Sometimes, self-care requires you to say, “No,” to certain people or things in your life
Crying is good. Wallowing, however, is not.

Self-care can be simple and yet still have a lasting impact. Listen to this episode to hear how to take small steps towards radical self-care, today!

About this week's special guests: Holly Hughes

Get a Holly’s Book: Real, Not Perfect: How to Become Your Happy Authentic Self

Holly on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/holly-hughes-b759a9136/

Holly on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/holly_hughes_intuitive/

Also mentioned in this episode:

Rainbows For All Children

Did You Know That it is NEVER Too Late to Mediate Your Divorce? Insights from Leading Attorney and Mediator Claire Samuels

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Set Yourself Free with Forgiveness with Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, “The Divorce Doctor” on Divorce & Beyond #261

Mon, 26 Sep 2022 05:00:00 -0500

The Divorce Doctor, Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, returns to the Divorce & Beyond podcast! Join Dr. Elizabeth and Susan Guthrie, Esq., for a conversation about the greatest gift that you can give to yourself – forgiveness.

Forgiveness is a topic that everyone, divorce or not, needs to know more about because it is so powerful, yet so misunderstood. When the topic comes up, it can often sound like nails on a chalkboard. But, did you know that there are demonstrable mental health benefits to forgiveness? It has been shown to elevate mood, and guard against anger, stress, or even depression. Also, when you seek to forgive, it can have positive effects on all facets of your life.

Dr. Elizabeth joins Susan for an impactful conversation about how to forgive yourself (and others), let go of resentment, embrace compassion, and create a new beginning. Forgiveness helps you let go of a past that no longer serves you, and helps you move toward a more joyful future.

Dr. Elizabeth Cohen is the CEO and founder of the online divorce course and membership Afterglow: The Light at the Other Side of Divorce.

Golden Nuggets from Dr. Elizabeth Cohen include:

Dr. Elizabeth shares the amazing story about forgiveness that inspired this episode
Forgiving is a process - it’s not linear, it’s not fast; it is work
Stay away from JADE: Justify, Argue, Defend, and Explaining
Forgiveness and resentment are not about the OTHER person, they are about YOU. You have the power to shift how you feel about the other person
We acknowledge there are some things that are not forgivable - such as criminal acts or sexual assault
You don’t have to forgive a perpetrator - but you may be able to release the power of resentment in your life
Forgiveness is about your future

This episode is an invitation to give yourself a chance to live anger or resentment free. Listen to give the gift of forgiveness to yourself today!

About this week's special guests: Dr. Elizabeth Cohen

Dr. Elizabeth Cohen is the CEO and founder of the online divorce course and membership Afterglow: The Light at the Other Side of Divorce. This 14-week course teaches women how to heal, grow and thrive after divorce no matter how difficult the process has been. Dr. Cohen also offers a monthly membership program. Dr. Cohen is also the CEO and Director of Dr. Elizabeth Cohen and Associates, a group private practice in the heart of New York City serving children, adolescents, and adults.

Get more information on Dr. Elizabeth's Online Program: AFTERGLOW: The Light on the Other Side of Divorce here: https://drelizabethcohen.com/afterglow/

GET HER BEST-SELLING BOOK "The Light on the Other Side of Divorce on AMAZON! You can also purchase the book on the "Beyond Reading" page of the divorceandbeyondpod.com website which has links to ALL of Susan's recommended reading!

Dr. Elizabeth's Podcast - https://drelizabethcohen.com/podcast/

Dr. Elizabeth’s Website: http://www.drelizabethcohen.com

Dr. Elizabeth on Instagram: http://instagram.com/thedivorcedoctor

Dr. Elizabeth on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ElizabethCohenPhD

Also mentioned in this episode:

Rainbows For All Children
The Divorce Doctor is in the House: Dealing with the Emotions of Divorce

The Perfect Storm: What You Need to Know About Anxiety, Depression, Divorce, and COVID with Dr. Elizabeth Cohen

TOXIC MASCULINITY: The Untold Cost For Men AND Women with Dr. Elizabeth Cohen

Relationships One Year of Covid: Dealing with Difficult Anniversaries with Dr. Elizabeth Cohen Cohen Light on the Other Side of Divorce from Dr. Elizabeth Cohen

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The Divorce & Beyond September Headlines Roundup with Susan Guthrie #260

Wed, 21 Sep 2022 18:39:00 -0500

Ready to dive into the next installment of our Bonus Divorce & Beyond Headlines Round Up Monthly episode? Of course we had to touch on the cheating scandal surrounding Adam Levine that just broke yesterday. We also share some insights into Valerie Bertinelli's sale of her wedding rings and shoes and the finalization of Dancing with the Stars, Cheryl Burke and Matthew Lawrence's divorce. The ongoing ugly custody battle between Jesse Williams and his ex rounds out our cases as the battling exes are at it again. Susan shares the latest on these cases as well as some insights that might apply to your divorce. Think you have nothing in common with these celebrity divorces? Think again! Stars are people too!

This month, Host and Leading Divorce Attorney, Susan Guthrie reviews some of the top stories from recent headlines and news about divorce, parenting, relationships, adultery and cheating, post-divorce co-parenting, high-conflict and more and shares some insights and lessons that you can learn from, and use, in your journey though divorce and BEYOND!

Get a behind the scenes look at some celebrity splits, high profile break ups and the stories behind the headlines from the Voice You Can Trust.

In this month's Headline Round-up Susan discusses:

Listen in and you will never look at the Headlines and Divorce the same way again!

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Uncovering Buried Treasure: Finding Hidden or Missed Assets in Divorce with Financial Professional, Olivia Summerhill on Divorce & Beyond #259

Mon, 19 Sep 2022 05:00:00 -0500

Top financial expert Olivia Summerhill joins Susan Guthrie, Esq, on The Divorce & Beyond podcast. Together they discuss how to dig up the “buried treasure” of divorce and find those hidden or forgotten assets! This is the episode that will pay you back for listening!

Many people have items in their homes that are taken for granted. When was the last time you took an inventory of what you own? There might be items you never considered that end up being marital assets.

Financial expert Olivia Summerhill returns to the podcast to share insight, information, and tips on how to search for the buried treasure of divorce. She invites you to hop on board her treasure-hunting boat and cruise the shoreline (and beyond) to find not only hidden assets but assets that may have been overlooked or forgotten.

Susan and Olivia also discuss why you should disclose all assets and liabilities before and during divorce, and explore how working with a professional divorce team can help you find valuable items sitting around or in plain sight.

Some of the Golden Nuggets from Olivia include:

Forgotten or hidden assets are usually right in front of you! Take photos around your house to jog your memory of what you have or were given
Easily forgotten assets can include IRAs, season sport event tickets, gift cards, and even airline miles!
Why you should know if there is equity in your home
Today, there is more opportunity to hide assets AND more resources to help you find them
What to know about cryptocurrency as a possible hidden asset
Trust your “Spidey” sense! You know more than you think you do.
What you need to know and consider about bank accounts for your children
Be aware! Who may be involved in actively hiding assets
Why you want to disclose all assets before and during divorce

This is an episode you’ll want to listen to more than once. Tune in to hear valuable information about how to uncover easily forgotten or hidden assets!

About this week's special guests: Olivia Summerhill

Olivia Summerhill is the founder of a financial consulting company called The Summerhill Firm. She helps affluent women maintain their lifestyles and thrive post-divorce by educating and empowering them financially.

Her niche serves famous and high-profile women who need help navigating the financial complexities of divorce. Having a decade of experience in wealth management and private banking, Olivia dedicates her time to protecting women. She consults with financial advisors and works with their clients to help them avoid divorce mistakes.

Among numerous other designations in finance, Olivia is a Certified Financial Planner, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Certified Divorce Specialist, and Certified Money Coach.

Olivia is often highlighted in Forbes, US News, MSN, and other media. She hosts a money coaching podcast called 'Divorce for Wealthy Women.' And currently, she is training for an Ironman to raise money for a non-profit that helps women take control of their finances.

Website: https://www.summerhillfirm.com/

Divorce for Wealthy Women Podcast: https://www.summerhillfirm.com/resources/

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Also mentioned in this episode:

Rainbows For All Children
What Impact Does Your ”Standard of Living” REALLY Have On Your Divorce with Top Divorce Financial Expert, Olivia Summerhill
Your Favorite Guest Experts Share Their Most-Memorable Divorce Cases Part Two

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Why Divorcing with Respect is Your Key to a Better BEYOND with CCND’s Deborah Noonan and Jennifer Luise Champagne of CCND on Divorce & Beyond #258

Mon, 12 Sep 2022 05:00:00 -0500

It’s Divorce with Respect Week! Attorney Deb Noonan and Therapist, Jennifer Luise Champagne of CCND join Susan Guthrie, Esq. to share insights into why divorcing with respect is essential to your BEYOND!

As families move through the divorcing process, parents are often focused on their emotions over their soon-to-be ex. Respect and kindness are the furthest things from their minds. Yet, the reality of divorce is that it’s not just about what is happening today. It’s also about looking toward the future. How you divorce today will have so much to do with how you live your life beyond divorce.

Leading divorce professionals from The Connecticut Council for Non-Adversarial Divorce join Susan for this impactful conversation about respect, integrity, and divorce. Deborah Noonan, JD, is an experienced family law attorney who for the past 20 years has limited her practice to divorce mediation and Collaborative Divorce. Jennifer Luise Champagne, MA, is a licensed professional counselor whose career has been devoted to the emotional and parenting issues of divorce.

Respectful insights from this episode include:

Deb and Jennifer share their thoughts about what a respectful divorce looks like
The challenges of maintaining respect during divorce
Re-establishing integrity with your ex-partner and co-parent after separation
Some helpful interventions or tools for when parties are having a hard time remaining respectful
What you can expect from Divorce with Respect week from CCND, including online events and workshops

Respect can be in short supply throughout the divorce process. But, it is possible to obtain. Listen to this episode to hear how to divorce in a respectful and dignified way!

Access Episode Transcript: https://share.descript.com/view/003WnBcyxZ0

About this week's special guests: Deborah Noonan, JD, and Jennifer Luise Champagne, MA

Deborah Noonan, JD is an experienced family law attorney who for the past 20 years has limited her practice to divorce mediation and Collaborative Divorce. After spending a number of years litigating divorces, and witnessing firsthand the harm contentious divorces cause families, especially children, Deborah decided to focus her family law practice on alternative methods of dispute resolution. As a mediator and collaborative attorney, Deborah works with clients to assist them in working out a settlement agreement in a cooperative and mindful problem-solving process that places great emphasis on reducing conflict, keeping children the focus, and empowering the parties to control the outcome of their divorce. Deborah helps clients create quality solutions to meet their and their family’s individualized needs, bringing outside professionals, such as therapists and divorce financial specialists, into the process to promote a more holistic result. Deborah has had extensive mediation and Collaborative Divorce training and has presented on both topics at seminars and conferences.

Website: http://divorcemediatect.com

The Connecticut Council for Non-Adversarial Divorce: https://gooddivorcect.com

CCND’s Divorce with Respect Week: https://gooddivorcect.com/divorce-with-respect-week/

Jennifer Luise Champagne, MA is a licensed professional counselor whose career has been devoted to the emotional and parenting issues of divorce. Over the past 35 years, she has focused her work with parents as they address the changing needs of their family; coaching parents as they share the decision to divorce with their children, creating parenting plans for the time of separation, and addressing communication challenges that impact parents and their children. Jennifer has received extensive training in mediation and collaborative divorce, as well as in co-parenting and parenting coordination. She is in private practice with offices in Shelton and on the shoreline in Madison and is an adjunct professor at Quinnipiac University School of Law. Jennifer is the current president of the Connecticut Council for Non-Adversarial Divorce and belongs to several collaborative practice groups within the state.

Website: http://www.jenniferluisechampagne.com

The Connecticut Council for Non-Adversarial Divorce: https://gooddivorcect.com

CCND’s Divorce with Respect Week: https://gooddivorcect.com/divorce-with-respect-week/

Also mentioned in this episode:
Rainbows For All Children

GAL – AMC – OMG! Demystifying the Role of a Guardian ad Litem or Attorney for the Minor Child Part One with Leading Attorney, Beth McCormack, Part 1

GAL – AMC – OMG! Demystifying the Role of a Guardian ad Litem or Attorney for the Minor Child Part Two with Leading Attorney, Beth McCormack, Part 2

Parent Coordination Primer Part One of a Two-Part Episode with Attorney/Mediator, Carolyn Kalos
Parent Coordination Primer Part Two: Navigating the Process with Carolyn Kalos on Divorce & Beyond #241

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Recommended by divorce attorneys, mediators, AND financial advisors, the easy-to-use planner helps you address the emotional AND business sides of divorce, and create your best next chapter.

Check out www.divideandthrive.net for reviews and a peek inside the planner. Use the code SUSAN22 for 20% off!

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The Incredible Tale of One Mom’s Successful 10-Year Battle to Be Free of a Narcissist with Tina Swithin on Divorce & Beyond #257

Mon, 05 Sep 2022 05:00:00 -0500

This week, Tina Swithin, author of Divorcing a Narcissist: One Mom’s Battle, re-joins Susan Guthrie, Esq. on The Divorce & Beyond podcast. Tina shares her 10-year journey to protect herself and her daughters from an abusive ex-husband and her mission to help other women do the same!

In this episode, Susan highlights the value of Tina’s books, work, and journey. There are so many lessons to be learned from her ten-year battle in a high-conflict divorce. One of the most enduring lessons was how hard it was to protect her children’s safety and best interests in the family court system. But with tenacity and creativity in bringing proof about her ex-husband to the court, she was able to finally end her court battle and have a positive outcome.

Tina Swithin is the author of Divorcing a Narcissist (series), founder of One Mom’s Battle, and the High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification Program. Tina continues to champion children’s rights through her family court advocacy. Tina is working to raise awareness of the issues in the family court system and to educate the general public on post-separation abuse and narcissistic abuse. Tina is remarried and resides in San Luis Obispo, California with her husband and two daughters.

Golden Nuggets and takeaways from this episode include:

It only takes one person to create a high conflict case
Children are often the abuser’s pawns during a divorce
Some of the most challenging times for Tina were when she had to learn the system, play nice while trying to maintain boundaries, and have her voice heard
In family court, it’s not what you say, but what you can prove. Tina shares how she was able to prove one of her ex’s lies while they were both under oath
The paradigm of being the safe parent and handling the sometimes explosive feelings and emotions your children express in your presence
The power is in understanding the narcissist’s patterns so that you can manage their behaviors

Tune into this episode to hear Tina’s amazing journey and for examples of how you can promote child safety advocacy in custody decisions!

About this week's special guest: Tina Swithin

Tina Swithin survived a “Category Five Divorce Hurricane” while acting as her own attorney in a high-conflict custody battle that turned her family’s life upside down for over a decade. While divorces are never easy, Tina quickly learned that divorcing a narcissist or other high-conflict individual escalates family law cases to levels that few can comprehend. During her ten year journey through the family court system in pro per, Tina went through a two-day trial, over 40 court dates and two full child custody evaluations. During this time, minor’s counsel was appointed, over twelve police reports were generated and a total of three child welfare reports determined that her ex-husband was a “moderate risk” yet did nothing to protect her children. In 2020, Tina Swithin founded, “Family Court Awareness Month.” Tina is the author of Divorcing a Narcissist (series) and founder of the High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification Program. Tina Swithin has been awarded honors such as the “Top 20 Professionals Under 40” and the “Top 40 Professionals Under 40” in several regional California newspapers. Tina resides in San Luis Obispo, California with her husband and her two daughters.

Website: http://tinaswithin.com

Books: https://www.onemomsbattle.com/tinas-books

Instagram: http://instagram.com/onemomsbattle

Twitter: http://twitter.com/onemomsbattle

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/onemomsbattle

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tinaswithin

National Safe Parents Organization: https://www.nationalsafeparents.org/

Also mentioned in this episode:
Rainbows For All Children
How One Mom‘s Battle is Changing the Face of High Conflict Divorce with Tina Swithin

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Get Wise to the Tricks and Traps of Toxic People: Avoiding Narcissists and Sociopaths in Your Life with Former Investigative Journalist and Divorce Coach, Amy Polacko #256

Mon, 29 Aug 2022 05:00:00 -0500

Susan Guthrie, Esq. is joined by Freedom Warrior and Divorce Coach Amy Polacko on this episode of The Divorce & Beyond podcast. Together they discuss critical information you need to know about the dangers that exist as you look for love.

Amy Polacko is on a mission to teach women about the dangers of online dating and about the devastation toxic relationships can cause. The goal of this episode is to help listeners avoid toxic relationships, know the signs if you are in one, take steps to escape the toxicity and get to a place of healing. Susan and Amy also discuss how to be your own investigative reporter when dating; including resources and strategies, you can use to research new potential partners and spot red flags.

Amy Polacko is a Freedom Warrior committed to helping women live life on their own terms during/after a toxic relationship or divorce. As a divorced single mom, she is passionate about coaching women one-on-one and founded the empowerment group Strong Savvy Women to provide support, inspiration, and guidance to single women. Amy is also an award-winning journalist who sheds light on women's issues including divorce, domestic abuse, coercive control, and singlehood.

Golden Nuggets from this episode include:

There is a growing awareness of toxic personalities and relationships depicted in today’s media
Gaslighting: what it is and what it looks like in relationships
Amy shares several red flags of a toxic relationship or personality
Distinguishing between love bombing versus someone trying their best
The importance of being your own investigative reporter when dating online
Why boundary setting is an essential step in protecting yourself
If you need some love bombing in your life, “Love bomb yourself.”

This episode will help you avoid toxic people, use your intuition, and be your own pitbull investigative reporter in love and in life!

About this week's special guest: Amy Polacko