Casual Swinger - A Sex Positive, Swinging Lifestyle Podcast

The Great Divide - Can You Grow Apart In The Lifestyle?

Mon, 19 Jan 2026 01:25:40 -0500

Join hosts Mickey and Mallory as they kick off Season 7 with a deep dive into one of the most challenging aspects of lifestyle relationships: when partners have different play styles, needs, and desires. In this candid episode, they explore "The Great Divide" - what happens when couples grow in different directions within the lifestyle, and how to navigate these differences without letting them destroy your relationship.

Topics Covered:

Understanding why couples grow apart (lifestyle and vanilla)
The difference between DTF and connection-based play styles
Navigating polyamory vs. swinging dynamics within one relationship
Solo travel and independent play in committed relationships
Finding four-way connections when you have different needs
Communication strategies for bridging lifestyle divides
Why keeping score destroys relationships
The importance of "pebbling" and giving each other flowers

Plus: Whiskey of the Month returns with Wild Turkey Rare Breed - the bourbon that changed barrel-proof whiskey forever!

Upcoming Events Mentioned:

Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II (March 14-21, 2026)
Groove Cruise 2027
Cap d'Agde, France adventure

This podcast contains adult content and is intended for mature audiences. The Casual Swinger is a variety show covering lifestyle topics, travel, events, and real talk about non-monogamy.

Show Notes:

[00:00] - Introduction & Season 7 Reboot

New music, new episode art, fresh start
Why Season 6 didn't go as planned
Getting back to their roots

[03:30] - Recent Adventures

X Club Toronto: New Year's Eve & Jake's birthday celebration
Mickey's DJing journey ("the new midlife crisis")
Mallory's solo trip to Be Better at Being Bad (Naughty Gym's event)
The transformative power of solo travel in the lifestyle

[15:00] - Upcoming Events

Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II (March 14-21, 2026) - casualswingerweek.com
Cate's Miami event (Memorial Day weekend)
Cate's Scottsdale event (October, Mickey's birthday)
Groove Cruise 2026 & 2027
Cap d'Agde, France
Toronto X Club return

[20:00] - THE GREAT DIVIDE: Main Topic

What is The Great Divide?

How people grow apart in relationships (55% of divorces over 50 are due to "irreconcilable differences")
The lifestyle version: when play styles, desires, and needs diverge
Why this isn't about divorce - it's about navigation

Common Lifestyle Divides:

DTF vs. connection-based players
Polyamory-aligned vs. swinging-focused partners
Different levels of sexual adventurousness
Kink/fetish compatibility issues
The "real unicorn": finding genuine four-way connections

Healthy vs. Unhealthy Backfilling:

✅ Good: Replacing flaky vanilla friends with lifestyle friends who value your time
✅ Good: Choosing workouts and self-care over passive activities
❌ Bad: Seeking physical touch from lifestyle friends because you don't get it at home
❌ Bad: Complaining about your partner to others for validation
❌ Bad: Using drugs, alcohol, or attention-seeking to fill emotional voids

How to Navigate The Divide:

Find mutual ground
- Focus on what you agree on, not just differences
Don't keep score
- Quid pro quo thinking destroys relationships
Practice "pebbling"
- Give each other flowers and little wins to stay connected
Communicate honestly
- Even when it's uncomfortable
Allow for parallel roads
- You don't always need to be on the same path, just alongside each other
Take time and space
- Sometimes you need to pause and process before continuing the conversation
Seek outside resources
- Therapy, podcasts, books, community support

Key Insights:

"Do I need to follow you there, or can I be on a parallel road alongside you?"
The hardest person to say "no" to is someone you care about
If you're keeping score, you're already at a deficit
Solo experiences can strengthen your primary relationship
Different doesn't mean doomed - it means you need to communicate more

[55:00] - Clarification on "DTF"

Addressing feedback from previous episode
DTF isn't disparaging - it's just a different play style
Some people have more "gates" to go through before feeling sexy/safe
Neither approach is better or worse

[60:00] - Whiskey of the Month: Wild Turkey Rare Breed

The History:

Rippy Distillery origins (1869)
Survived Prohibition through medicinal whiskey license
The hunting trip that named Wild Turkey (1940)
Jimmy Russell's legacy (Master Distiller since 1967)

Why Rare Breed Changed Everything:

First mass-produced barrel-proof bourbon (1991)
Released during bourbon's "dark ages" when everyone was watering down whiskey
No water added, no chill filtration, no compromises
Paved the way for today's barrel-proof category

Tasting Notes:

High rye content = spicy
Deep char (Level 4)
Long, warm finish with "Kentucky hug"
Intentionally unpolished
Not for bourbon beginners

Jimmy Russell's Philosophy: "We don't make it for people who don't like bourbon."

[70:00] - Wrap-Up & How to Connect

Find The Casual Swinger Podcast:

Website: casualswinger.com
Email: podcast@casualswinger.com
Instagram, YouTube, X, TikTok: @casualswinger
Community: connectcasual.com (FREE for Casual Swinger Week attendees!)

Casual Swinger Week Details:

March 14-21, 2026 at Hedonism II
Limited rooms remaining
Book at: casualswingerweek.com
Includes 1-year free access to Connect Casual community ($50/person value)

#SwingersLifestyle #LifestylePodcast #EthicalNonMonogamy #PolyamoryVsSwinging #RelationshipAdvice #CouplesTherapy #OpenRelationship #HedonismII #WhiskeyReview #WildTurkey #BarrelProofBourbon #LifestyleTravel #SwingersOver40 #CommunicationInRelationships #SoloTravel #XClubToronto #GrooveCruise

A Racoon Named Desire - Mickey & Mallory's Romantic Wildlife Expedition

Mon, 20 Oct 2025 08:36:33 -0400

Welcome to another wild ride with Mallory and Mickey on the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this episode, "A Raccoon Named Desire," your favorite hosts take you on their first-ever trip to Desire Riviera Maya, sharing honest, hilarious, and insightful stories from their lifestyle vacation in Mexico.

Episode Highlights:

Desire Riviera Maya Review: Get the inside scoop on the newly renovated resort, from the stunning Eden building to the not-so-stunning beach. Mallory and Mickey break down the vibe, amenities, and what makes Desire unique compared to their beloved Hedonism II in Jamaica.
Lifestyle Travel Tips: Hear about the differences between resort stays, hotel takeovers, and house parties. The duo discusses how Desire caters to both newbies and seasoned swingers, and why it might be the perfect fit for your next adventure.
Wildlife Encounters: You won’t want to miss the infamous raccoon story that inspired this episode’s title! Find out how a cheeky raccoon (and some other local critters) made their mark on the trip—literally.
Community & Events: Learn about upcoming events like Casual Swinger Week (March 14–21, 2026), how to join the Connect Casual community, and why staying connected year-round is so important.
Real Talk: Honest reflections on swinging, making connections, and why sometimes you just need a vacation from your vacation.

Key Takeaways:

Desire RM offers a more relaxed, boutique experience compared to the high-energy, week-long party at Hedo.
The resort is ideal for couples new to the lifestyle, with approachable staff, beautiful grounds, and a variety of room options.
Not everything goes as planned—sometimes, the most memorable moments involve wildlife and waffles!
Community is everything: connect with like-minded friends before, during, and after your trip.

Links & Resources:

Book your spot for Casual Swinger Week: casualweek.com
Join the Connect Casual community: connectcasual.com
Follow Casual Swinger on social: Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, YouTube

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But wait...there's more!

If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share with your friends! Got questions or want to join the conversation? Visit casualswinger.com or connectcasual.com for the community, or you can with us on social media.

Tune in for laughs, real talk, and all the sexy, silly, and surprising moments that make the lifestyle unforgettable. You’ve been listening to Casual Swinger!

One Size Fits All?

Wed, 03 Sep 2025 15:56:28 -0400

One Size Fits All?

Navigating Lifestyle Events, House Parties, Clubs & Takeovers – with Wanderlust Swinger's own Cate!

Description: Welcome to Season 6, Episode 5 of the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this candid and entertaining episode, hosts Mickey and Mallory are joined by the ever-popular Wanderlust Cate for a deep dive into the world of lifestyle events. Whether you’re a seasoned swinger or new to the scene, this episode is packed with real talk, hilarious stories, and practical advice on navigating everything from meet & greets and house parties to clubs, hotel takeovers, and full-blown resort events.

We break down the pros and cons of each event type, discuss the importance of setting expectations, and share personal experiences—both the wild and the awkward. Learn how to find the right event for your vibe, what red flags to watch for, and how to make the most of your lifestyle journey. Plus, get the inside scoop on Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, and how to connect with the community year-round.

Keywords: Swinger podcast, lifestyle events, house parties, swingers clubs, hotel takeovers, resort takeovers, Wanderlust Cate, Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, lifestyle community, swinging advice, adult podcast, open relationships, event etiquette, lifestyle travel

Episode Highlights:

[00:00] Intro & Warnings: Mickey and Mallory welcome listeners and introduce special guest Wanderlust Cate.
[03:00] House Party Recap: Behind-the-scenes of their epic three-day house party, including hilarious mishaps and lessons learned.
[10:00] Community & Connection: The value of year-round lifestyle communities like Casual Connect and Libertine Connect.
[15:00] Booking Casual Swinger Week: Updates, booking tips, and why it’s not sold out!
[20:00] Meet & Greets: What to expect, etiquette, and how to spot red flags.
[30:00] House Parties: The difference between social and DTF (down to fun) parties, setting boundaries, and the importance of clear communication.
[40:00] Swingers Clubs: Club culture in the US vs. Europe, pros and cons, and how to find your fit.
[55:00] Hotel & Resort Takeovers: Investment, expectations, and how to choose the right event for you.
[1:10:00] Age, Vibe & Finding Your People: Why “average age” questions matter, and how to connect with like-minded folks.
[1:20:00] Final Thoughts & Resources: How to research events, ask the right questions, and set yourself up for success.

Special Guest:

Wanderlust Cate – Host of Wanderlust Swingers Podcast and founder of Libertine Events. Find her at wanderlustswingers.com and libertineevents.com.

Resources & Links:

Casual Swinger Community: casualswinger.com
Casual Swinger Week: casualswingerweek.com
Libertine Events: libertineevents.com
Connect with Us: Instagram, YouTube, X (Twitter), SLS, SDC, Kasidie

Contact:

Email: podcast@casualswinger.com

Support the Show:

Join the Casual Connect community for exclusive events and resources.

Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review!

Adults Only - The AVS Legislation You Should Care About!

Fri, 01 Aug 2025 18:45:45 -0400

Podcast Title:
Casual Swinger Season 6 Episode 4 – Adults Only: The AVS Legislation You Should Care About

SEO-Optimized Description:
Join hosts Mallory and Mickey Gordon for a candid, entertaining, and insightful episode of the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this adults-only show, the duo dives deep into the controversial Age Verification Service (AVS) legislation sweeping across the United States and beyond. Discover how these new laws impact not just the adult industry, but your personal freedoms, privacy, and access to online content.

With over 18 years in the lifestyle community, Mallory and Mickey blend humor, real-life stories, and expert commentary to break down what AVS means for content creators, sex workers, and everyday adults. Plus, get the latest updates on Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II, hilarious dating misadventures, and the much-anticipated Whiskey of the Month!

Whether you’re a lifestyle veteran, sex-positive advocate, or just curious about the latest in adult legislation, this episode is packed with must-know information, laughs, and resources to keep you informed and empowered.

Keywords:
AVS legislation, age verification, adult content laws, lifestyle podcast, sex-positive, privacy, online freedom, content creators, sex work, Hedonism II, Casual Swinger Week, whiskey of the month, podcast show notes, adult industry news

Show Notes:

00:00 – Intro & Disclaimer
Mallory and Mickey welcome listeners, share a quick disclaimer, and set the tone for an adults-only, fun, and informative episode.

03:00 – Life Updates & Dating in the Lifestyle
The hosts catch up on recent adventures, the challenges of dating as busy event hosts, and the realities of chemistry and connection in the lifestyle.

12:00 – Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II
Announcing the next Casual Swinger Week in Jamaica! Details on dates, booking, and what makes this event unique.

20:00 – Main Topic: AVS Legislation Explained
Deep dive into Age Verification Service laws, how they’re affecting the adult industry, content creators, and your access to online content.

What is AVS?
Which states are affected?
The impact on privacy, free speech, and sex work
International implications (UK, EU, etc.)

40:00 – The Real-World Impact
Discussion on VPN usage, piracy, and how restrictive laws often backfire.

Parallels to Prohibition and the War on Drugs
The rise of non-compliant and pirated sites

55:00 – Sex Education, Parenting, and Personal Responsibility
Why open conversations and device-level controls matter more than legislation.

Tips for parents
The importance of sex-positive education

1:10:00 – Whiskey of the Month
Spotlight on Evan Williams Single Barrel bourbon: tasting notes, history, and why it’s a favorite.

1:20:00 – Resources & How to Get Involved
Links and organizations mentioned:

Free Speech Coalition: https://freespeechcoalition.com/
Age Verification Policy: https://ageverificationpolicy.org/
Contact your representatives

1:25:00 – Connect with Casual Swinger

Website: casualswinger.com
Email: podcast@casualswinger.com
Social: Instagram, YouTube, X (Twitter), SDC, SLS, Cassidy
Event info: casualswingerweek.com

Support the Show:
If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share with your friends! For questions, feedback, or to join us at Hedonism II, reach out via email or social media.

Links & Resources Mentioned:

Free Speech Coalition
Age Verification Policy
Hedonism II
The Hot Wife Next Door Podcast

Disclaimer:
This podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only. The hosts are not licensed professionals. Listener discretion is advised.

Hotwife Homerun - Casual vs Curated

Sat, 14 Jun 2025 14:19:42 -0400

In this episode of Casual Swinger, Mickey and Mallory Gordon are joined by Cate Wanderlust Swingers for an exciting and candid discussion.

Broadcasting from Toronto, the trio dives into an impromptu encounter in Cancun, exploring themes around the spontaneity versus the structured approach in the hot wife lifestyle. They share amusing anecdotes, insights on the dynamics of E&M (ethically non-monogamous) relationships, and how a spontaneous adventure reignited confidence and passion. They also navigate topics like safety, vetting processes, performance anxiety, and the evolving rules of swinging.

With humor and raw honesty, the conversation offers both entertainment and thought-provoking content for listeners looking to understand or relate to the hot wife and swinging experiences.

www.casualswingerweek.com

www.wanderlustswingers.com

www.thexclub.net

www.hedonism.com

www.libertineevents.com

Striking Out - It's Not Just For Boys

Sun, 01 Jun 2025 23:01:07 -0400

In this episode of Casual Swinger, hosts Mallory and Mickey reconnect with listeners from their mobile studio, the 'Rolling Couch.' This episode is filled with comedy and candid recounting of frequently thwarted encounters while out of town.

The discussion starts with a chaotic attempt to record the previous episode at an airport bar surrounded by kids. They delve into the challenges faced organizing hotwifing dates and dealing with flakey and untrustworthy candidates. Mallory highlights her personal struggles with the intricate process in the post-breakup environment while Mickey shares valuable tips on identifying and avoiding red flags in lifestyle dating.

Infused with plenty of humor and honesty, they reflect on balancing rejection, expectations, and the complex emotions involved. Listen in for a blend of fun tales from the field and real insight into navigating the lifestyle's singles scene.

Links

Casual Swinger Week

Libertine Events

The X Club

Breaking Up Is Hard To Do - Casual Swinger 2.0

Tue, 13 May 2025 11:06:39 -0400

Well, it's been a while!

Casual Swinger took a MUCH longer than intended hiatus, and even WE didn't exactly know why. We dig into some of the reasons why we spent 9 months off the air & talk about some of our challenges with a REALLY tough subject...breaking up.

Not with each other! With "our couple," and all of the emotional challenges that came along with it.

Hear all about it and more during our road trip down to Miami for Libertine Events Garden of Hedon!

Hedonism II

Casual Swinger Week

Libertine Events

DarkMatter69 - BDSM Gear

SE05E07 - Hurricane Hedo - Onsite w/ Hedonism II GM David Graham post Hurricane Beryl

Thu, 18 Jul 2024 21:10:41 -0400

Weathering the Storm: Insights and Resilience at Hedonism 2

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In this engaging episode of Casual Swinger, hosts Mallory and Mickey recount their recent adventures, focusing on their time at Casual Swinger Week and PCAP events. They delve into the aftermath of Hurricane Beryl at Hedonism 2 in Jamaica, sharing stories of the remarkable resilience of the locals and the relentless efforts of the resort staff to rebuild. The episode also features an in-depth interview with David Graham, the general manager, who discusses hurricane preparations and recovery efforts.

Additionally, significant renovations at the resort, the economic impact of inflation, upcoming events like Halloween, and a GoFundMe campaign to support affected employees are highlighted, underscoring the dedicated community spirit of Hedonism 2.

00:00 Welcome Back to Casual Swinger

01:26 Life Updates and Travel Adventures

02:05 Recap of Casual Swinger Week

04:39 PCAP and Playroom Highlights

07:56 Hurricane Hedo Experience

17:15 Community Resilience in Jamaica

31:53 Interview with Hedo's General Manager

39:48 Upcoming Plans and Promises

40:28 Casual Swinger Week and Contact Info

41:40 Introduction to David Graham

42:25 Hurricane Experience at Hedonism 2

43:55 Staff Resilience and Recovery Efforts

52:30 Future Plans for Hedonism 2 54:53 Group Experiences at Hedonism 2

56:43 Management Approach and Staff Interaction 01:00:33 Renovations and Economic Challenges

01:04:26 Holiday Celebrations and Special Events

01:15:43 Support for Hedonism 2 Staff

01:18:26 Casual Swinger Week and Final Thoughts

Casual Swinger Week

The Unicorn Swap - Is it the SECRET to adding a third to your bedroom?

Sun, 24 Mar 2024 17:10:33 -0400

People find themselves entering a consensually non-monogamous relationship (aka "The swinging lifestyle") in SO many different ways and for different reasons. One thing is almost universal though, at some point...the boys want a threesome.

Finding a single, willing girl who wants nothing more than to join a married (or attached) couple simply for their pleasure is SO rare she might as well be a mythical creature...aka, a "Unicorn."

In tonight's Casual Swinger we break down a way that everyone can get what they want, and no Unicorns were harmed in the creation of this episode!

Also, more on Podcast-A-Palooza, Revive Parties, Casual Swinger Week, and of course...WHISKEY of the MONTH!

Links:

Casual Toys

XR Brands/Creature Cocks

Blurred Lines - The Land Between Swinging & Polyamory

Fri, 01 Mar 2024 17:18:48 -0500

The swinging lifestyle is fraught with pitfalls and challenges for the strongest of relationships, but one of the biggest challenges (and fears) couples face is the emotional connection that can occur as these relationships deepen. We were joined by Scott & April from Naughty Gym to wade into these dangerous waters for relationships and some of the specific challenges they present...if it's not "lifestyle," and it's not "Poly..." what is it?

Links

Casual Toys
Naughty Gym

Be Better @ Being Bad Week

Casual Swinger Week

Hedonism II Resort

Surprise! - It's my D!CK! - Exploring the d!ck pic culture w/ Expansive Connections

Thu, 15 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0500

Almost nothing is more shocking than opening an email or text message and seeing the stunning visage of someone's glorious phallus throbbing in all of it's majesty...especially when you didn't ask for it.

What's the origin of the d!ck pic? Why do guys keep sending them?
Is it easier or harder on people who actually get paid to look at them? (Pardon the pun)

Whatever the case, we were lucky enough to be joined by two of the amazing staff from Expansive Connections (www.expansiveconnection.com) to discuss not only the pictures themselves, but the motivations, the responses, and the outcomes of sending pictures of your family jewels to unsuspecting recipients.

Dig in and learn more about the almighty d!ck p!c on this week's Casual Swinger!

Bonus!

The whiskey of the month is BACK!
Check out the whiskey of the month this month, I.W. Harper Cabernet Cask Finish!

Links:

Expansive Connection

IW Harper Cabernet Cask Finish @ Total Wine

Contents Under Pressure - Are Content Creators Ruining The Lifestyle?

Wed, 31 Jan 2024 23:59:00 -0500

"Content Creators" are absolutely everywhere these days. The onset of personal content platforms has changed everything from the workplace to social media, right down to subcultures like the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle.

In this return to form, Mickey & Mallory dig into the idea that content creators have irreparably and permanently changed the landscape of the lifestyle from a few different angles:

1) As content creators ourselves
2) As event promoters
3) And finally, as a lifestyle couple

Spoiler alert...we don't agree!

Get in on this debate and hear a bit about what's been going on in our world!

Links:

Be Better @ Being Bad Week @ Hedonism II

Hedonism II

Casual Swinger Week @ Hedonism II

Casual Toys
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A Family is Born - Casual Swinger Week @ Hedonism II Changes Everything

Mon, 08 May 2023 20:21:57 -0400

Casual Swinger Week 2023 was over SIX years in the making...and even we couldn't have predicted what would happen when we brought 130 souls to our favorite place on earth, Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica!

Hear our feelings on the events of the week and some of the amazing experiences from our perspectives before listening to PART TWO, the trip from the attendees perspectives.

A Tale of Two Tails - Whiskey Business Part 2 w/ Limavady CEO Darryl McNally

Sun, 30 Apr 2023 11:48:23 -0400

Back in the saddle!

Limavady CEO Darryl McNally & Whistle Pig Brand Educator Ingrid Rodriguez joined us live in the Casual Bar for a conversation about one of the oldest art forms in the world, making whiskey.

Learn how to make great cocktails with Irish Whiskey & some facts about whiskey you've never heard before on this NEW episode of Casual Swinger!

Make sure to use code CASUALSWINGER for a discount on these great brands!

Limavady Irish Whiskey

Whistle Pig Whiskey

The ”NO” Paradox

Mon, 21 Nov 2022 23:06:03 -0500

Ever wondered why such a little word is SO hard to say?

The Season 5 Premiere of Casual Swinger digs into the word we fear so much that we're afraid to say it...the Voldemort of the lifestyle..."NO."

Also, catch up with us on our goings on, our trip to Hedo with amazing friends, and some of the Christmas specials coming your way at Casual Toys!

We are Casual Swinger - Faces Out & Talking Mental Health w/ The Things We All Carry

Sun, 28 Aug 2022 23:59:00 -0400

It's the Season Finale of Season 4 and we're going all in folks!

Faces out for Season 5 & we're talking about it with the host of another podcast we love that has absolutely NOTHING to do with the lifestyle, "The Things We All Carry." His podcast focuses on the mental health struggles of first responders carrying the traumas from their various rescues over time and how they come to terms with that part of their lives.

We also dig into our experiences at Hedonism II, including our games and our upcoming CASUAL SWINGER WEEK! That's right, in April 2023 we'll be headed to Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica for a week of fun & laughs with our sexy friends you will NOT want to miss!

Current sponsors include:

Shameless Care

YoungCouplesParties.com

More to come!

Check out our website for more information including room availability & rates!

Last up, this month's Whiskey of The Month is: George Dickel Barrel Select!

Notes:

Dickel Barrel Select on Total Wine

The Things We All Carry

Hedonism II

Casual Swinger Week @ Hedonism II

Casual Toys

I Regret Nothing! - Exploring Regret In Lifestyle Relationships w/ The CornFed Swingers

Sun, 31 Jul 2022 11:57:04 -0400

Regret is a funny thing. So often it's better to regret something we HAVE done instead of something we haven't done. However, in the lifestyle, does that still apply? How do we express regret even if it means we're not sorry?

We dig in from the beautiful corn fields of Iowa with the amazing CornFed Swingers to have an honest & open conversation about our experiences...and our hearts on this second-to-last episode of Season 4 on Casual Swinger!

PS - We've launched our Hedonism II trip for April 2023! Join Casual Swinger on the sunny beaches of Negril, Jamaica for an epic vacation you'll never forget!

Casual Toys

Cornfed Swingers on Twitter

Casual Swinger at Hedonism II

Hedonism II

WET Travel

The Size of the Matter - Talking Size w/ Wanderlust Swingers & SoloSwingin

Sun, 10 Jul 2022 20:53:32 -0400

Is size everything? Is it all about male genitalia?

We talk size & all things being self conscious about it on this week's Casual Swinger!

Wanderlust Swingers

Casual Toys

Podcast-A-Palooza

You can take a WHAT but not a compliment? - Examining affirmation in the Lifestyle

Mon, 27 Jun 2022 01:40:42 -0400

Why is it so damned hard to accept a compliment. It's not a gender thing, a professional thing, or even a LIFESTYLE thing. Taking a compliment is WAY harder than it is to give one...but we have to ask?

Why don't we believe the people in our tribe when they tell us the things we HOPE others believe about us? What's it gonna take?

We examine this and more with our friend "The Alabaster Scrotum" in this latest episode of Casual Swinger!

Also: Podcast-A-Palooza and the Casual Cocktail, along with Whiskey of the Month!

Whiskey of the Month on Total Wine

The ”Breast” Episode Ever w/ Dr. David Plank

Sun, 22 May 2022 18:14:29 -0400

Upgrading the twins is a tough decision that we agonized over for months, meeting with doctor after doctor...we told you all about it in our episode, "Thanks for the Mammaries." It was a tough go until we met Dr. David Plank from Mid-Florida Plastic Surgery, then everything changed.

Find out in his own words why his approach is different from many other surgeons in the area and why we enjoyed him so much. Also, why don't doctors have more personality? What happened to Michael Jackson's nose? When should you say when its too much plastic surgery?

Also, The Casual Cocktail, Podcast-A-Palooza, Naughty in Nawlins, and more in this week's Casual Swinger!

Casual Toys

The Casual Cocktail - Join us for a mixology party like no other!

Mid Florida Plastic Surgery

Dr. David Plank - Guess Mallory's hoots!

Whiskey of the Month - Michter's US1 Rye

Podcast-A-Palooza

Naughty in Nawlins

The Casual Swinger...Diaries? - Where are they now w/ Paige & Penn of ”The Swinger Diaries”

Tue, 10 May 2022 22:28:58 -0400

We sat down with the amazing Paige & Penn from the long running adult lifestyle podcast, "The Swinger Diaries," where we found out all about what those amazing people have been doing for the last year since they ended their podcast careers and started flying around the country!

Join us as we broadcast from the mountains of Tennessee (and endured a failed board that crushed our audio quality!) and laughed the weekend away with the likes of Average Swingers, Sapphic Swingers, and of course our friends, The Swinger Diaries!

PCAP

Naughty in Nawlins - Wanderlust's Code

Casual Toys

Casual Swinger on YouTube

The Casual Cocktail

The Red Zone - Nature’s Answer to Your Carefully Laid Plans

Tue, 26 Apr 2022 01:15:40 -0400

Ever spend months planning the perfect outing with your lifestyle friends only to have to reschedule, replan, or completely rework your plans because of your (or your wife's) menstrual cycle?

The reality of "the best laid plans" is that we aren't in control. Hear about some of the disasters, the ridicule, or the challenges we've encountered along the way as we navigate the lifestyle while being human...and not without our faults.

Also, ever wondered what they call "that time of the month" in other countries? Hear some of our favorite euphemisms for "The Red Zone" on this week's Casual Swinger!

BONUS! It's time for WHISKEY OF THE MONTH! Hang around til the end and find out which whiskey won us over with its amazing story this week!

Casual Toys

The Rose Vibrator on Casual Toys

Hedonism Resorts

Euphemisms for Period by Language

Whiskey of The Month

Whiskey of The Month on Total Wine

Podcast-A-Palooza

Slap Happy - Sexuality Isn’t A Joke...So Why Is It?

Sun, 10 Apr 2022 23:59:00 -0400

"The slap heard around the world" happened when actor Will Smith charged the stage at the 2022 Oscars and slapped the hired emcee of the event, Chris Rock, in response to a joke he found distasteful regarding his wife, Jada Pinkett Smith.

Regardless of what you think about his assault on Chris Rock, the aftermath of this interaction is undeniable. The steady stream of memes, jokes, and water cooler conversation happening around America undoubtedly makes the sexuality of the Smiths part of the referendum on Will Smith's behavior.

Join Mickey & Mallory as we dig in on our own personal experiences with some of these jokes, how they made us feel, and how we think these things should be handled moving forward.

Also, more on Podcast-A-Palooza, 30 Days of Lingerie, and a Mallory's Toybox segment on one of our favorite brands, Noir Handmade!

Casual Toys

Podcast A Palooza

Noir Handmade @ Casual Toys

Huffington Post on Masturbating Man

The (Wo)Man in the Mirror - A Confidence Crisis

Mon, 28 Mar 2022 13:45:27 -0400

This follow on to our episode on "The Imposter Syndrome," digs in deeper on the crisis of confidence we sometimes feel and the "quicksand" that occurs when we start to flail. Join us as we open up a bit on our own confidence crisis and sit back and have a long look at the man & woman in the mirror...trying to get to the truth of why we feel the way we do...and how to overcome it.

#Spoiler - all it takes is one great experience to turn things around!

We also catch up on all things Podcast-A-Palooza, Casual Toys, Unique Condoms*, and of course...the MARCH 2022 Whiskey of the Month!

Casual Toys

Podcast-A-Palooza

Elijah Craig Small Batch on Total Wine

The Black & Kinky Podcast

WTFebruary & The Imposter Syndrome

Mon, 14 Mar 2022 23:07:55 -0400

"Am I a swinger?"

"Do I belong here?"

"Am I DOING it wrong?"

We all ask ourselves questions that speak to the "Imposter Syndrome," and yes...even us. Sometimes you just don't feel like you're "doing it right," for reasons that are often out of our own control. Dont' give into fear or peer pressure...join us on this weeks LONG overdue Casual Swinger where we tell you what happened that caused a huge lull in our podcast (most unexpected...COVID! ) and hear us talk about something near and dear to what's been dragging Mickey down for weeks.

Also, Podcast-A-Palooza, Von Payne Whiskey, and of course FEBRUARY's #Whiskeyofthemonth are all in this NEW Casual Swinger!

Von Payne Whiskey

Podcast A Palooza

Casual Toys

Bib & Tucker Bourbon*

Whiskey Business - Understanding the Whiskey Craze in America w/ Whistle Pig Whiskey

Mon, 24 Jan 2022 00:00:00 -0500

Over the last decade, the American whiskey market has seen rocketing sales with bourbon production alone growing by 150% and the number of craft distilleries increasing five fold. US exports of bourbon exceeded 1 billion for the first time and 2013, with that trend increasing year over year ever since.

Ingrid Rodriguez, Whistle Pig* Whiskey's own "Traveling Whiskey Fairy" joined us IN STUDIO to talk about her amazing brand, the whiskey craze in America, and demystifies some of the marketing terms on the bottles we see every day in the liquor store.

Join us this week to get yourself "learned up" on whiskey and the AMAZING Whistle Pig Whiskey brand!

Links

Casual Toys

Whistle Pig Whiskey

Liberator Bedroom Adventure Gear

Motorbunny

Mission “Impossible” - The Struggle of the Married Guy in Open Relationships

Tue, 11 Jan 2022 23:38:24 -0500

Let's face it. When it comes to open relationships, the girls hold ALL the cards. (Especially hotwives!)

As if it wasn't bad enough as a single guy looking for love, once you're a MARRIED guy looking for fun you're tossed in with every bad experience a girl has EVER had in her dating life...and the odds are NOT stacked in your favor.

We talk about this frustrating experience for many guys from the Mickey's perspective when he was in an open marriage and dating, with some tips about how to help yourself be more successful as you navigate these treacherous and challenging waters.

Be prepared, not everyone is going to agree with everything we say here, and we didn't even cover ALL* of it. Get ready for the challenge of a lifetime...Mission Impossible - The Struggle of the Married Guy in an Open Relationship!

Links

A Casual Christmas Carol - Do our past & present decisions impact our future?

Wed, 22 Dec 2021 23:57:39 -0500

It's Christmastime in Casual Swingerland!

Join Mickey & Mallory tonight while we discuss our pasts, how they relate to our relationships today, and how our present behaviors might impact our future. Do it along side us and the three ghosts of "A Christmas Carol" as we're walked down memory lane (among other things) and figure out some answers to some burning questions we've had for years.

This holiday spectacular is our last episode of 2021 and we want to thank all of you, the listeners, our friends, supporters, and anyone who's purchased from Casual Toys this year. Thanks to all the content creators who've paved the way for us to make our silly show and had fun with us along the way.

Casual Toys

Podcast-A-Palooza

Out of Bounds - Rules vs Boundaries in the Lifestyle

Mon, 29 Nov 2021 22:22:37 -0500

So often when we meet folks we click with the conversation turns to “rules,” which often times become a checklist of things we shouldn’t do if we want the other side to continue engaging with us...that feels...wrong?

Is there a better conversation to have other than the “Pretty Woman,” conversation that goes something like this: “I’m pretty much a sure thing, but I never kiss on the mouth.” What are some of our own boundaries & rules we’ve had over the years? What's the DIFFERENCE between a "rule," and a boundary?

Want some sexy things for your stocking?

Want to pick the best bourbon for a stocking STUFFER?

We’ll get into all of it on this week’s Casual Swinger!

Encore & The Big D - Casually invading the sexiest event in the lifestyle

Sun, 14 Nov 2021 22:12:04 -0500

Podcast-A-Palooza is LEGIT.

We traveled to Dallas, Texas (we LOVE Texas!) with over 160 other lifestyle minded folks to learn, network, and connect in the sexiest environment anywhere, the highly curated lifestyle experience we call "Podcast-A-Palooza!"

Content creators from all areas of the lifestyle descended on Dallas to share experiences with fans & friends alike in educational and entertaining sessions designed to expand on each of our journeys personally, sexually, and even professionally.

We laughed, we danced, we broke stuff...find out what's so damned special about this event and why we can't IMAGINE not attending this event every year! We dig into our favorite aspects of the event and even drew in attendees to tell you guys what's so great about PCAP!

Listen in...and join us next time! *

Hotwife Hardship - It‘s Not Me, It‘s DEFINITELY You...or is it?

Sun, 31 Oct 2021 19:01:51 -0400

Mallory's Hotwife journey has been an interesting road already. Hear about some of the challenges she's faced as she gets VERY real discussing her inability to find what she wants, and dealing with one of the worst downsides of disingenuous partners...ghosting.

We cover some of the factors we take into account when talking to a new friend for her and our process for selecting new friends for her while having a few laughs along the way...won't you join us?

Podcast A Palooza

Casual Toys

Bert Kreischer Tour

Kenny Wayne Shepherd Tour

Whiskey of the Month - Blade & Bow

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Role With It - Roleplay Beyond the Costumes w/ Cuckold Couple Jack & Kissy

Sun, 17 Oct 2021 23:05:33 -0400

Fantasy is a big part of every bedroom in America, regardless if you're a swinger or not. Couples have been dressing up & pretending they're everything from the preachers daughter to a college professor since the beginning of time...yet lots of us never get into the practice. Curious?

So are we! So we invited hotwife/cuckold couple powerhouse Jack & Kissy back on to talk about their INTENSE role play game! Hear about some of their favorite characters they play and why this aspect of their sexuality actually improves their luck with couples!

Links

Casual Toys

Podcast-A-Palooza

The Panic Button - When Self-Soothing Fails

Sun, 03 Oct 2021 21:26:01 -0400

In any ethically non-monogamous situation, inevitably we're going to encounter a wave of emotion leftover from the decades we've all been conditioned for monogamous behavior. Be it religion or family dynamics, living an ethically non-monogamous life often runs counter to our upbringing. That emotional wave can rapidly turn to panic and it's incumbent upon us to self-soothe...but what if you CAN'T? What if it hits you like a truck and you don't know what to do?

That doesn't happen to Casual Swinger, does it?

This week we discuss why we need to self soothe, and some tips and tricks for helping yourself cope with that first wave of butterflies before it becomes a hurricane...of razor blades.

Casual Toys - THE shop for adult lifestyle wear & entertainment items

Podcast-A-Palooza

Visit Jamaica

A Friend Like Me - Choosing swingers for your primary friendships

Tue, 07 Sep 2021 22:50:00 -0400

Making friends is hard enough without worrying about them judging you for the things you do in your bedroom...even if they're not involved. Tonight Mickey & Mallory sat down to talk about our own personal experience as we made the decision to prioritize lifestyle & sex positive friendships over traditional vanilla friendships as we established roots in a new state.

Also, we went down to Austin to see Jay & Angie from the Average Swingers Podcast for their annual Austin bar crawl and Angie's birthday! Hear all about it on this week's Casual Swinger!

Casual Toys

Average Swingers

Podcast-A-Palooza

Sex Work Is (A LOT of) Work!

Sun, 22 Aug 2021 22:56:12 -0400

Last week OnlyFans, a British based platform for hosting content & engaging with fans, declared their intent to eliminate adult content from their website effective December 1st, with creators no longer able to upload explicit content after October 1st, 2021.

This decision sent literal shockwaves through the content creator space, sending those creators scattering across the industry looking for other services to host their content and continue providing for themselves and their families safely & securely. Tonight we sat down with two of those creators, OnlyFans top 1% creators "OnlyAndi" and "ASMRMaddy" joined us to discuss how much effort goes into creating content and what this decision by OnlyFans means for them and potentially other, less prepared creators.

Find how how these ladies manage the landscape, their money, and an industry giant made by sex workers that suddenly doesn't want them anymore.

OnlyFans bans sexually explicit content to appease banks and payment services

OnlyFans Website May Be Worth $1 Billion After New Startup Funding

Links – MissSykeology

OnlyAndi - https://www.OnlyAndi.com

OnlyAndi OnlyFans Free Page - https://onlyfans.com/onlyandifree

OnlyAndi OnlyFans Premium Page - https://onlyfans.com/daveandandi

OnlyAndi Fansly - https://fansly.com/OnlyAndi/posts

OnlyAndi FanCentro - https://fancentro.com/onlyandi

OnlyAndi ManyVids - https://daveandandi.manyvids.com/

Wanderlust Swingers Blog w/ Alternatives for OnlyFans Creators: http://swingingdownunder.com/onlyfanspurge

Wanderlust Swingers Bonus Episode on OnlyFans Alternatives: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/podcast/alternatives-to-onlyfans/

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Slippery When Wet - Are some lubricants actually bad for you?

Mon, 09 Aug 2021 22:18:29 -0400

Well, we did it again.*

After you guys went crazy for "For Novelty Use Only," our exploration of sex toy materials that could make you sick, some of you asked us to have a look into lubricants. We were just as shocked to find out some of this information as we were for your toys...so we did the research and this week you're going to find out how some lubricants:

Can cause serious infections like bacterial vaginosis
Can cause yeast infections
Can increase your risk of STI/STDs
Can make you sore & irritated
Can prevent you from becoming pregnant

It's time for a Casual Swinger educational minute! Who's ready to sit down & learn!?

Studies Raise Questions About Safety Of Personal Lubricants

Are Lubricants Safe? Potential Hazards of Lubricants for Women

What Is a Body-Safe Lube? Harmful Lube Ingredients to Avoid

Pleasure How to pick a lubricant

Could Your Lube be Hurting You? | Femina PT

Use and procurement of additional lubricants for male and female condoms: WHO/UNFPA/FHI360

6 Lube Ingredients You May Want to Avoid

4 Harmful Lube Ingredients You Should Avoid At All Costs

15 Best Natural Lubes In 2021, According To Gynecologists

15 Best Natural Lubes in 2020 That Feature the Safest Ingredients

Lube Up for Better Lovin'

5 best lubricant alternatives and ones to avoid

Why Some Personal Lubricants Are Not Fertility Friendly

I tried all the bad lubes so you wouldn't have to – SheKnows

Slippery Slope: Potential Hazards of Lubricants for Vaginal Tissue

Osmolality and pH Properties of Some Commercial Lubricants

Could Your Personal Lubricant Increase Your HIV Risk?.

5 Tips to Keep Your Sex Life Toxin-Free — Non Toxic Revolution

Sarah E. Mueller Smitten Kitten - Presentation on lubricant safety

Water-based Lube - What You Should Know

Fifty (First?) Swinger Dates - Booking Dates That Don't Suck

Sun, 25 Jul 2021 18:45:39 -0400

Why is it that when we go on a swinger date, we almost always end up at a restaurant or a bar? Well, part of it is that we have failed...miserably...at trying to find places for GOOD swinger dates elsewhere.

Want to find out what a good place for a date is? How about some bad ones? Listen in to this week's Casual Swinger to find out more about where you should be spending your time with your new favorite couples & singles!

Also, learn about the Casual Creator program on Casual Toys & catch up on "Swingin' In the News," where we talk about Louise Fischer, a Danish journalist who went the extra mile while covering the reopening of a local swingers club by having sex with the guy she was interviewing!

New York Post - Danish Journalist

Casual Toys

Hedonism II

Casual Creators Program

Thanks for the Mammaries

Sun, 11 Jul 2021 22:55:26 -0400

Mickey & Mallory kick off Season 4 with an introduction to her journey into breast augmentation. We cover what we've learned from the FOUR different doctors plus research on the types of breast augmentation, the incisions, the materials, and even the aftercare for your new boobies. *

It's an information heavy episode, but when we're done you'll know everything we know about Mallory's new titties! Are you ready for this journey?

WhoreMoans! - Exploring Hormonal Wellness & It's Impact On Sexual Health w/ Dr. Phillips

Mon, 28 Jun 2021 22:08:00 -0400

Dr. Phillips Center for Wellness

Nutrient Deficiency Warning

Healthline - BioIdentical Hormone Replacement Therapy

Amore Medical - The P Shot

Potential Benefits of Testosterone:

Improved Well-Being

Prostate Cancer Protection

Energy

Strength

Endurance

Improved Body Composition

Bone Density

Erectile Function and Sexual Performance

Decrease in Visceral Fat and Subcutaneous Fat

Maint. of Muscle Mass=Metabolism

Increases Collagen and Skin Thickness

Skin Tone

Decrease wrinkles, fat deposition, cellulite

Lipid and cholesterol parameters

CVD

HTN

Arthritis

Immune response

Healing

Protects Neuro and Vascular system

Decrease IR

Decrease Syndrome X

Improves Metabolism

Potential Benefits of Estrogen:

Protects against Heart Disease

Stroke

Osteoporosis

Vaginal Atrophy

Urinary Incontinence

Macular Degeneration

UTI's

Cataracts

Hot flashes

Potential Benefits of Progesterone:

PMS

Sleep

Osteoporosis

Breast Cancer Protection

Heart Disease

Potential Benefits of DHEA:

Precursor to other hormones

Immune System Stimulation

(Helps Prevent Cancer and Infections)

Sexual Vitality

Improves Erections

Improves Mood

Decreases Cholesterol

Improves Memory

Anti-Depressant

Helps with Sleep

Decreases Visceral Fat

Decrease IR (insulin resistance)

Osteoporosis

Atherosclerosis

Causes of Errectile Dysfunction:

Diabetes

Hypertension

Alchohol

Poor Sleep

Low Testosterone

Advanced Age (decreases Nitric oxide)

Depression

Medication

Stress

Relationship problems

Anxiety

Self Image

Increased Cholesterol

Heart Disease

Hotwife Euphoria (w/ The Monogamish Marriage)

Sun, 13 Jun 2021 21:06:00 -0400

Casual Toys

Überlube on Casual Toys

Podcast-A-Palooza

The Monogamish Marriage

Hedonism II

The Monogamish Shopping Spree on Twitter

ASN Magazine Lifestyle Awards

I would do anything for love...but I won't do that...(Playstyle Dynamics)

Mon, 31 May 2021 23:27:00 -0400

Casual Toys

Podcast A Palooza

Black N Kinky Podcast

The Suite Life Podcast

Swinging Outside The Lines Podcast

Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

Average Swingers Podcast

Palm Power Extreme Wand on Casual Toys

Hey, Jealousy! - The "Big Green Monster" inside us all

Mon, 12 Apr 2021 16:39:00 -0400

Reddit

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For Novelty Use Only? - Your favorite sex toy could be making you sick

Tue, 30 Mar 2021 12:11:00 -0400

Dangerous Lilly's Toxic Toy Guide

Dangerous Lilly's Jar of Melted Sex Toys

MadeSafe.org - Sexual Health Products

What is a Phthalate?

PVC & Your Sexual Health - Medium.com

Mallory's Music Box Links

Country Cover: Sara Evans, “If I can’t have you” (Highly recommend the remix)

Remix:https://youtu.be/paaDCpd7GUE

Album:

Post Malone Covers

Heart-Shaped Box: https://youtu.be/-cGxzWYWLyQ

Baby What You Want Me to Do: https://youtu.be/b2m4GvmNENM

Blue Suede Shoes: https://youtu.be/tjF_iSVMwJo

“Eyes off You” - Eminem, Post Malone, The Weeknd: https://youtu.be/XBDfadWo1uQ

“River” - Eminem feat Ed Sheeran: https://youtu.be/wfWIs2gFTAM

Ed Sheeran Covers

“We Found Love”: https://youtu.be/Lyv_u4pspTY

“Trap Queen”: https://youtu.be/CEM5SXxpmlE

Walk Off the Earth

‘Old Town Road”: https://youtu.be/hRXv_VU35Lw

“Can’t Feel My Face”: https://youtu.be/eJ3H0Njb1As

“Closer”: https://youtu.be/H6wj2weYizI

“Thunderstruck”: https://youtu.be/AB7MwqjnsSw

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Wanderlust...or bust! - Talking Podcast-A-Palooza & More w/ Cate from Wanderlust Swingers

Mon, 15 Mar 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Nobody Wants Mickey's Penis - A Casually Sapphic Mashup of a Swingfession

Mon, 01 Mar 2021 00:23:00 -0500

Average Swingers

Sapphic Swingers

Swingfessions Swinger Comic

DoubleDate Nation

Casual Toys

Oasis On the River

Casual Swinger Lifestyle Meet & Greet @ Oasis on the River

Top Secret Resort of Orlando

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The S!ck D!ck Docs - Longer, Harder, Faster & Stronger w/ Doctors Nicole Eisenbrown & Lane Phillips

Mon, 01 Feb 2021 00:00:00 -0500

Amore Medical on Twitter

Amore Medical in Orlando Florida

Casual Toys

Unique Condoms

Slut Actualization - Exploring Mallory's Secret Hotwife Fantasy

Mon, 18 Jan 2021 00:00:00 -0500

CDC Order - United States Travel

Meet The New Boss & We're Not Talking Santa - ft/ Dermot DeLoughry Hedonism II's NEW GM

Tue, 15 Dec 2020 12:48:00 -0500

We sat down with BRAND new Hedonism* II GM, Dermot DeLoughry on his VERY FIRST DAY on the job!

Find out more about the new boss of our favorite Caribbean destination, Hedonism II! Also, catch up with us on our Christmas goin's on, including a Swingmas Christmas Party, vPCAP, PCAP, and of course our February Hedonism trip!

Stay til the end for a DELICIOUS Cranberry Old Fashioned recipe!

INGREDIENTS

3 ounces quality bourbon whiskey
1 ounce cranberry simple syrup*
3 shakes Angostura bitters
Garnish with orange peel, Ocean Spray® Fresh Cranberries, and rosemary

INSTRUCTIONS

In a serving glass with ice, stir together the bourbon, cranberry simple syrup, and bitters.

Garnish with orange peel, fresh cranberries, and rosemary.

Notes

*Cranberry Simple Syrup - In a saucepan, bring 2 cups of water, 1 cup of sugar, and one cup of fresh cranberries to a boil. Once boiling, cook for 4-5 minutes. Strain with a fine mesh sieve. Cool before serving.

Hedonism II

Casual Toys

Unique Condoms

Liberator Bedroom Adventure Gear

Feels like the first time - Hedonism II Virgins Derek & Jess

Mon, 09 Nov 2020 00:00:00 -0500

Derek & Jess* were Hedo virgins before they met us, and now that they've made it home from their first ever trip to the most notorious resort on earth, Hedonism II, we catch up with them on some of the thought processes they endured before, during, and after their visit to the island of Jamaica and Hedonism II!

This episode was recorded back in February 2020 after our trip with Rachals Rascals. Since so many people were struggling with COVID-19, we didn't want to release this episode out of sensitivity to people struggling with the virus. Today we're BACK at Hedonism II and giving you a window into a new couples world who loved every minute of their first visit to Hedonism II!

The Ghost of Swingers Past - Moving Past Our Experiences In The Lifestyle

Tue, 27 Oct 2020 23:54:00 -0400

The things that happen to us in life shape us. There's almost no getting around it, but is that a good practice in the lifestyle? Hear about some of the things, both negative AND positive, that have happened to us and how we dealt with them, got past them, and moved on together in the lifestyle on this week's Casual Swinger! SPOOOKY BONUS! - We announce the winner of the Womanizer Premium courtesy of Double Date Nation!!

Casual Toys

Double Date Nation - CasualSwinger

Womanizer Global

SDC - CasualSwinger

SLS - CasualSwinger

Kasidie - CasualSwinger

Hedonism II Resort, Negril Jamaica

"The Snip" ft. Dr. Ashley Winter & Comedian Mo Mandel of "The Full Release" Podcast

Mon, 05 Oct 2020 00:00:00 -0400

From Anaconda to Dipstick, from Dong to Family Jewels, from Member to the "Steamin' Semen Roadway*," there are more names for the male genitalia than you can shake a stick at. Guys have so many names for their junk because it's more or less the center of their universe.

Whether they're done having kids or never wanted them in the first place, one option for permanent contraception remains "The Snip," otherwise known as a vasectomy. Many men refuse to go under the knife, however, so we reached out to two of the most hilarious experts on dicks we could think of, the beautiful Dr. Ashley Winter and the hilarious Mo Mandel, both of the "Full Release" Podcast to get the skinny on your jimmy.

Get your questions answered (and some you didn't know you had!) on this week's Casual Swinger!

The Full Release Podcast

The Full Release on YouTube

Casual Toys

Double Date Nation

Ladies of the Lifestyle - Online Dating ft/ Our Naughty Escapades, Double Date Nation, & Average Swingers!

Mon, 28 Sep 2020 00:00:00 -0400

It's LADIES NIGHT* on Casual Swinger! This special bonus episode brings you into a room with Mallory, Nikki from Our Naughty Escapades, Andi from Double Date Nation, and Angie from Average Swingers for the ladies to participate in the first of THREE special episodes for you guys! Tonight the ladies talk online dating, dating during COVID-19, and video dates to keep the swinging spark alive!

Casual Toys

Double Date Nation

Our Naughty Escapades

Average Swingers

Your Cheatin' Heart - Examining infedility in the lifestyle

Sun, 20 Sep 2020 23:56:00 -0400

Ask any married* person if their relationship is perfect...if they're being honest you'll hear something to the tune of "absolutely not." Every relationship has its trials, and as many as 45% of relationships include some kind of infidelity.

Lifestyle relationships are not immune to the allure of infidelity. This week Mickey & Mallory examine the nature of "cheating," how it happens, and how it relates to lifestyle relationships. We get honest about our experiences, and talk about some ways to avoid the pitfalls surrounding infidelity in ANY relationship. Bonus: In the Toybox this week we talk about strap-ons, the different styles of harnesses, and a single pro tip if your guy is into pegging.

New York Times - When a Partner Cheats

Great infographic on cheating - Hernorm.com

Hernorm Infidelity Statistics

Why so many women cheat on their husbands

Casual Toys

Sportsheets - Boy Short Harness

Joque by SpareParts - Harness

Her Royal Harness - CalExotics

Rachals Rascals

Liberator - Bedroom Adventure Gear

Heaven Forbid! - Faith, shame, the evangelical power structure meet the lifestyle

Mon, 07 Sep 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Faith.

Love.

God.

Shame.

Penance.

Persecution.

All these words seem to go together and run contrary to the love we learned in Sunday School, especially when sexuality and faith are at odds in your average evangelical's lifestyle.

The recent dilemma Jerry Falwell Jr. found himself in only serves to illustrate the power of the religious right, the "moral majority," and other institutions whose faith based leadership is called into question when their status as a sexual being is revealed. We sat down with a non-denominational religious leader from 7th Dimension Coaches to talk about these things & more in this week's Casual Swinger: HEAVEN FORBID!

Mercury News - Falwell Jr Liked Watching

The Medium - Comedian John Crist did WHAT?!

The Medium - The Evangelical Femme Fatale

The Medium - How to be a sex positive Christian

7th Dimension Coaches

Talkin' Dirty w/ author Lexi Sylver

Mon, 24 Aug 2020 07:44:00 -0400

"Do you like that?" "Smack my ass!" "Call me a dirty girl..."

How do YOU talk dirty* in the bedroom? Ever wondered how some people are just SO good at it? Ever struggled with what to say in sexy situations? Meet Lexi Sylver, an erotic author and Media Director for SDC, who joins us today to talk about her new book, "Mating Season," and helping you talk better smut in your own bedroom adventures!

About Lexi Sylver

Lexi Sylver is the producer and host of the adult sexual education podcast SDC Presents: Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver. As the Media Director for SDC.com, the world’s largest adult sex education and swingers dating platform, Lexi collaborates with sexuality, health and relationship experts to provide reliable resources for those who seek it. In her work as an advocate, educator and coach for consensual non-monogamy and the swinging lifestyle, she travels frequently to conferences, writes articles for SDC.com, ASN Lifestyle Magazine and Pornhub, and speaks publicly at events like The Montreal Taboo Sex Show (Le Salon de l’Amour et de la Séduction). Lexi wrote and creatively produced nearly 200 movies, series and scenes in the adult entertainment industry and was nominated for an AVN award for Best Screenplay. She is a published erotic author with her new book, a collection of erotic short stories called Mating Season, currently underway. Her mission is to promote empowerment and education by guiding you to shamelessly explore your Lexuality. Find out more at https://lexisylver.com and follow Lexi on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.

Virtual Podcast-A-Palooza

BONUS! - Dating Kinky - What's Wrong w/ "Swinging?" ft. Our Naughty Escapades, Sapphic Swingers, & Monogamish Marriage

Mon, 17 Aug 2020 00:00:00 -0400

BONUS ALERT!*

Another week another special episode for you guys, this one featuring a LIVE recording we did on behalf of Dating Kinky & their "It's Not Cheating" special. In this segment we discuss "What's Wrong w/ Swinging?" and how different viewpoints of what is and is not swinging create conflicts in many areas of Ethical Non-Monogamy. This episode features Our Naughty Escapades, Sapphic Swingers, and the Monogamish Marriage, too!

Dating Kinky

Our Naughty Escapades

Sapphic Swingers

Monogamish Marriage

Casual Toys

Making Love (To The Camera!) w/ Erotic Photography Legend Holly Randall

Mon, 10 Aug 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Holly Randall's Patreon *

Holly Randall Unfiltered

Holly Randall Productions

Holly Randall's Art Patreon

Holly Randall Unfiltered: YouTube

Holly Randall on Twitter

Holly Randall Instagram

The Great Alabaster Scrotum - A Lifestyle AMA

Mon, 27 Jul 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Mickey & Mallory welcome a guest into the Casual Swinger studios to answer his blunt & deep questions on being in the lifestyle. Our guest is so vanilla, so pale, so new, that we coined him the "Great Alabaster Scrotum," and it immediately stuck.

Casual Toys

Fung-King Awesome Interviews from Jamaica - A Casual Swinger Bonus Episode

Mon, 20 Jul 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Club VIP*

Island Charters LTD

Hedonism Resorts

[Rachals Rascals](https://www. rachalsrascals.com)

Casual Toys

"Home" is where the heart is - In Jamaica w/ Hedonism II CEO Harry Lange & More

Mon, 13 Jul 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Hedonism II*

Sun Holiday Transfers Facebook Page

Casual Swinger YouTube Channel

Rachals Rascals

Visit Jamaica

Jamaica COVID Updates

Sex is Funny w/ Comedian Damon Millard

Mon, 18 May 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Damon Millard Website*

Damon Millard - Unicycle on Spotify

Damon Millard - Shame, Pain & Love on Spotify

Groundhog Day

Wed, 29 Apr 2020 22:06:00 -0400

Bijoux de Nip Pearl Tassels

Bijoux de Nip Round Blue Sequin Pasties w- Feathers

Casual Swinger - Playlists that'll make your heart swing!

Casual Swinger - Travel with us!

Casual Swinger - Support us*

Ma Ma Ma My Corona - Music Parodies, Video Chats, & Doc Judy on COVID-19

Mon, 30 Mar 2020 00:00:00 -0400

The reach of the COVID* is strong! We're late to the party with this latest episode, where we catch up on some of the video chats, family time, and music we've been into during this quarantine. Also, we celebrate some of the parodies created by the amazing users on Youtube in response to the COVID-19 crisis.

Doc Judy joins us for a short interview to discuss COVID and it's impact on the lifestyle, and a sweet new cocktail from Mallory on COCKTAIL corner!

All songs are the property of the creators and can be consumed in their entirety on YouTube at the addresses linked below

Links

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

Secrets Hideaway - Our home away from home in Central Florida

Bronze

Tabu Social Club

ASN Lifestyle Magazine

Casual Toys - Because your pleasure is priceless

Podcast A Palooza Event: May 2020

Book your ticket to Podcast-A-Palooza today!

Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica

Desire Resorts

Bliss Cruise

Double Date Nation

Our Naughty Escapades

Euphoria Chronicles

Swinging Downunder

Sapphic Swingers

Links to the AMAZING Youtubers with COVID parody songs:

The Holderness Family - Songs to get you through this

Brent McCollough - Stayin' Inside

Luke Murgatroyd - I think we're alone now

Chris Mann - My Corona

Chris Mann - Stay Home Vogue

Rekording & Chris Franklin - Stay the Fck At Home

Adrian Grimes & Dana Jay Bein - Coronavirus Rhapsody

Talk Kinky to Me - International Kinky Women's Day w/ Dating Kinky

Sun, 01 Mar 2020 00:00:00 -0500

Links*

International Kinky Women's Day

Dating Kinky

Cuckoldress Venus' Blog

Cuckoldress Venus' Podcast

Cuckoldress Venus on Twitter

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

Secrets Hideaway - Our home away from home in Central Florida

Casual Toys - Because your pleasure is priceless

Podcast A Palooza Event: May 2020

Book your ticket to Podcast-A-Palooza today!

Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica

Travel to Hedo with iOS Connections!

Women & Couples - Home of the Hi Massager

Double Date Nation

All Cucked Up - w/ Blogger & Podcaster Cuckoldress Venus

Sun, 16 Feb 2020 18:45:00 -0500

Links*

Cuckoldress Venus' Blog

Cuckoldress Venus' Podcast

Cuckoldress Venus on Twitter

International Kinky Women's Day

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

BHowYou - Sex Therapist Ieshai Bailey

Hotwife Forum featuring Jack & Kissy's Wedding Story

Photos of Jack & Kissy's Wedding Encounter

More Photos of Jack & Kissy's Encounter

Secrets Hideaway - Our home away from home in Central Florida

Casual Toys - Because your pleasure is priceless

Podcast A Palooza Event: May 2020

Book your ticket to Podcast-A-Palooza today!

Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica

Travel to Hedo with iOS Connections!

Women & Couples - Home of the Hi Massager

Double Date Nation

Our Naughty Escapades

Swinging Downunder

Sapphic Swingers

Mixxed Nutzz

The Euphoria Chronicles

Cucking Around - Going deep with Cuckold couple Jack (Boy Blunder) & Kountess Kissy

Fri, 31 Jan 2020 22:30:00 -0500

Links*

Hotwife Forum featuring Jack & Kissy's Wedding Story

Photos of Jack & Kissy's Wedding Encounter

More Photos of Jack & Kissy's Encounter

Secrets Hideaway - Our home away from home in Central Florida

Casual Toys - Because your pleasure is priceless

Podcast A Palooza Event: May 2020

Book your ticket to Podcast-A-Palooza today!

Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica

Travel to Hedo with iOS Connections!

Women & Couples - Home of the Hi Massager

Double Date Nation

Our Naughty Escapades

Swinging Downunder

Sapphic Swingers

Mixxed Nutzz

The Euphoria Chronicles

Is that...POOP? (Definitely POOP...) - Making the best of a crappy situation at a M&G

Sun, 12 Jan 2020 23:28:00 -0500

Links*

Secrets Hideaway - Our home away from home in Central Florida

Casual Toys - Because your pleasure is priceless

Podcast A Palooza Event: May 2020

Book your ticket to Podcast-A-Palooza today!

Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica

Summer Swing featuring iOS Connections!

Women & Couples - Home of the Hi Massager

Double Date Nation

Our Naughty Escapades

Swinging Downunder

Sapphic Swingers

Mixxed Nutzz

The Euphoria Chronicles

Modesto Bee - Hotel guest angry over Swinger's Party on NYE

TechDirt - Civil FOSTA suits start showing up in court

Damn, that was fast! (Our favorite moments from 2019)

Mon, 30 Dec 2019 00:00:00 -0500

Links*

iOS Connections - It's only sex!

Casual Toys - Because your pleasure is priceless

Podcast A Palooza Event: May 2020

Book your ticket to Podcast-A-Palooza today!

Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica

Wanna hit Naughty in Nawlins 2020? Book here!

Summer Swing featuring Casual Swinger with iOS Connections!

Women & Couples - Home of the Hi Massager

Secrets Hideaway - Join us for DOUBLE YOUR PLEASURE in January 2020!

Double Date Nation

Shame on you! - Love, God

Mon, 16 Dec 2019 23:05:00 -0500

Links*

iOS Connections - It's only sex!

Casual Toys - Because your pleasure is priceless

Podcast A Palooza Event: May 2020

Book your ticket to Podcast-A-Palooza today!

Rachals Rascals - Wanna join us in February!?

Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica

Wanna hit Naughty in Nawlins 2020? Book here!

Summer Swing featuring Casual Swinger with iOS Connections!

Women & Couples - Home of the Hi Massager

Secrets Hideaway - Join us for DOUBLE YOUR PLEASURE in January 2020!

Double Date Nation

#BANGOVER & an EXCLUSIVE interview with Hedonism Resorts CEO

Mon, 02 Dec 2019 00:00:00 -0500

Links*

iOS Connections - It's only sex!

Casual Toys - Because your pleasure is priceless

Podcast A Palooza Event: May 2020

Book your ticket to Podcast-A-Palooza today!

Rachals Rascals - Wanna join us in February!?

Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica

Wanna hit Naughty in Nawlins 2020? Book here!

Summer Swing featuring Casual Swinger with iOS Connections!

Women & Couples - Home of the Hi Massager

Secrets Hideaway - Join us for DOUBLE YOUR PLEASURE in January 2020!

Double Date Nation

Wild Thing - you make my heart SWING!

Mon, 11 Nov 2019 00:00:00 -0500

Catch up with Mickey & Mallory as they discuss building your perfect playlist for playtime! Hear what some of our personal favorites are for sexytime, priorities for building our playlists and a BRAND NEW GAME*, one we call "Game of Tones!"

Hear us sing TERRIBLE verses of songs the other should know, with all new lyrics! It's a total riot where we wreck these songs, and each other's vocal prowess in the process!

In Swinging in the News you'll hear a bit about a new article in ASN Magazine where we discuss the Homewrecker Torts and their potential effect on you in the lifestyle!

Links

iOS Connections - It's only sex!

Casual Toys - Because your pleasure is priceless

Podcast A Palooza Event: May 2020

Book your ticket to Podcast-A-Palooza today!

Rachals Rascals - Hedonism Vacations

Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica

Wanna hit Naughty in Nawlins 2020? Book here!

Singapore man charged with rape over threesome without consent

ASN Magazine - Wrecked - An ancient law that could drastically change your view of consent

Double Date Nation

Everything's bigger in Texas (and sheep are FAST...)

Sun, 27 Oct 2019 20:01:00 -0400

Links*

iOS Connections - It's only sex!

Casual Toys - Because your pleasure is priceless

Podcast A Palooza Event: May 2020

Book your ticket to Podcast-A-Palooza today!

Rachals Rascals - Hedonism Vacations

Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica

Wanna hit Naughty in Nawlins 2020? Book here!

The Coolest, Kindest Couple in the Lifestyle: The Average Swingers!

Wade Bowen: Texas Country...don't knock it til ya try it!

Salt Lick BBQ...RIGHTEOUS brisket!

Iron Cactus Saloon: Downtown Austin Tex-Mex

Angel's Envy Whiskey

Milam & Greene Whiskey

Home Slice Pizza - Austin TX

Texas Toy Museum

Backyard Ampitheather - Fredericksburg TX

Highland Lounge - Austin's Largest Gay Bar

Firehouse Hostel & Lounge (Speakeasy!)

290 Wine Castle - Amazing environment for some great wines in the heart of Texas!

Mamacita's Mexican Food, Fredericksburg Texas

Halloween SPOOKtacular - What are you SCARED of in the LS?

Mon, 07 Oct 2019 23:13:00 -0400

Links*

iOS Connections - It's only sex!

Casual Toys - Because your pleasure is priceless

Podcast A Palooza Event: May 2020

Book your ticket to Podcast-A-Palooza today!

Rachals Rascals - Hedonism Vacations

Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica

Wanna hit Naughty in Nawlins 2020? Book here!

Florida Man & Woman Arrested for having sex in a POLICE car?!

Florida Man masturbates & tries on baby clothes

Florida Man storms a WAL-MART in his golf cart

Florida Man arrested & jailed over his bumper sticker..."I EAT ASS."

SingleRARITY - The Single Guy's Perspective

Fri, 20 Sep 2019 23:59:00 -0400

Links*

iOS Connections - It's only sex!

Casual Toys - Because your pleasure is priceless

Podcast A Palooza Event: May 2020

Book your ticket to Podcast-A-Palooza today!

Rachals Rascals - Hedonism Vacations

Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica

Wanna hit Naughty in Nawlins 2020? Book here!

Home of the HI Massager, use code "Casual Swinger for $50 off!

Buy the WOMANIZER on Casual Toys! Find out why it's here by listening to the episode!

SingleRARITY - The Unicorn Perspective

Fri, 20 Sep 2019 00:00:00 -0400

Links*

iOS Connections - It's only sex!

Casual Toys - Because your pleasure is priceless

Podcast A Palooza Event: May 2020

Book your ticket to Podcast-A-Palooza today!

Rachals Rascals - Hedonism Vacations

World Exotic Travel, a full service travel agency

Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica

Wanna hit Naughty in Nawlins 2020? Book here!

Home of the HI Massager, use code "Casual Swinger for $50 off!

Give me FREEDOM and give me SEX! - Going deep on sexual freedom with the NCSF

Tue, 03 Sep 2019 00:00:00 -0400

We catch up on all the latest, a little HURRICANE named Dorian and some big news out of Fort Wayne, Indiana. Susan Wright* of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom joins us to discuss the state of sexual freedoms in America and how the NCSF is working to ensure those rights not only endure, but grow.

Links

The Champage Club in Fort Wayne, Indiana

Casual Toys - Because your pleasure is priceless

Podcast A Palooza Event: May 2019

Book your ticket to Podcast-A-Palooza today!

Sex Down South Conference

More information on Swing Jam, coming in June 2020!

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom - Protecting your right to live and love freely!

Wanna hit Naughty in Nawlins 2020? Book here!

Nawlins...and the sex?! - Two virgins do NIN & a new website!

Sun, 04 Aug 2019 23:14:00 -0400

Mickey & Mallory made the journey to the great city of New Orleans along with 2600 other swingers* from around the world for "Naughty in Nawlins," a huge lifestyle focused conference in the heart of the French Quarter.

We give some tips for first timers checking out this great conference, launch our new toy store (https://www.casualtoys.com), and talk a little about her new toy from Women & Couples...the Hi Massager!

Links

Casual Toys - Because your pleasure is priceless

Podcast A Palooza Event: May 2019

Book your ticket to Podcast-A-Palooza today!

Naughty in Nawlins Schedule

More on the Hi Massager from Women & Couples

Travel to Hedo with Casual Swinger & Rachal's Rascals!

Wanna hit Naughty in Nawlins 2020? Book here!

Hair Today, Gone Tomorrow: A live WAX session with Lake Mary Waxing

Sun, 21 Jul 2019 15:21:00 -0400

Mickey and Mallory invited Stacey* in to help us understand the differences between the different kinds of skin care in a lifestyle world where great grooming is often the difference between a successful hookup and a failure to launch. Sheila hopped in for color commentary and a great wax job.

Of course, the girls decided that Mickey had to get waxed TOO...and his poor, (but still glorious) man parts were sacrificed to the giggling harpies at the end of the table...

Links

Podcast A Palooza Event: May 2019

Book your ticket to Podcast-A-Palooza today!

Naughty in Nawlins Schedule

Book with Lake Mary Waxing Today!

You caught a WHAT? STD survival tactics for your relationship with Dr. Bailey

Wed, 10 Jul 2019 00:00:00 -0400

Getting people to discuss STIs and STDs in the lifestyle is like trying to get someone to discuss their parent's sex life. Right? Hell no.

It gets worse when you actually GET one. Both in your relationship and with the friends and partners we make in the lifestyle, it's SO important to be able to communicate and keep communicating.

Mickey & Mallory took the leap in this week's Casual Swinger when we engaged with lifestyle sex therapist and marriage counselor, Dr. Ieshai Bailey! We talk to the good doctor* about how to help your relationship survive when an STI/STD strikes, how to discuss testing in lifestyle relationships BEFORE one strikes, and coming to terms with it personally when it happens.

"You caught a WHAT!?," is all about you and your relationships. Survive & thrive in a world that isn't safe with a great conscience, perfect communication, and incredible experiences...despite the perils that exist.

Join us this week for the second of a TWO part series... and learn how to ensure your relationship survives if this happens to you!

Links

Podcast A Palooza Event: May 2019

Book your ticket to Podcast-A-Palooza today!

Naughty in Nawlins Schedule

CDC STD Statistics

Dr. Ieshai Bailey Marriage and Sex Therapy

Stop. Talk. Decide. Talking STDs in the lifestyle with Dr. Rick M.D.

Wed, 03 Jul 2019 03:10:00 -0400

Links*:

Podcast A Palooza Event: May 2019
Naughty in Nawlins Schedule
CDC STD Statistics
Dr. Ieshai Bailey Marriage and Sex Therapy

Picture This: Tips for making your own porn...from a porn star

Mon, 24 Jun 2019 02:00:00 -0400

Mickey & Mallory are no strangers to pictures and video, but that's nothing compared to the number of videos and photo shoots our friend Jeff James has been a part of!

We sit down and talk the tech aspects of storing our personal files before being joined by former adult film star Jeff James to talk about angles, lighting, and of course showing your audience what they're there to see!

Join Mickey & Mallory as they kick off Season 2 with a BANG*!!

Links

Secrets Hideaway Orlando
Naughty in Nawlins
Jeff James IMDB
Paranormal Investigations with Jeff James
Lifehacker on encrypting your USB drive (Mac and PC)

Swinger Insurance: Real talk on ED pills and the lifestyle

Wed, 05 Jun 2019 00:00:00 -0400

“Phony Bonies”
“Woodie Pills”
“Rooster Boosters”
“Dickie Do’s”
“18 again…”
“Sextasy”
“Blue bomber”
“Charlie Sheen”
“Dicksafailin”
“Mycoxafloppin”
“Hose Equity Loan”
“Madixadroopin”
“Bro-tein Shake”
“Blue Diamond Phillips”
“Blue Vitamins”
“Aleve…” (We tell the story)
**“SWINGER INSURANCE!!”
**
How many names for erectile* pills can you think of? Mickey & Mallory get real on ED pills with a hilarious story and a drop in from our new contributor, Doctor Rick!

Also, we get caught up on our latest "Pineapple Party" and a trip to Secrets Hideaway!

Links

Liberator Bedroom Adventure Gear

The rise & risk of illicit online pharmacies

Forbes article reveals 77% of online Viagra sales fake, possibly dangerous

TechCrunch article on Men's Health startup, Roman

Roman Online Men's Health

For Hims Online Men's Health

Viagra covered by insurance but not birth control?">

Sex: The mother of invention? An interview with Liberator Bedroom Adventure Gear

Wed, 22 May 2019 00:00:00 -0400

Mickey & Mallory have an awesome sex life. They love their toys, perhaps none of which more than the sex positive furniture from Liberator Bedroom Adventure Gear!

They're joined by Angela Leiben, PR director for Liberator*, to talk about where this innovative company came from, it's headed, and which toys are the coolest for your bedroom and sexy lifestyle adventures!

Intro: 00:00:55

Interview - Liberator Bedroom Adventure Gear: 00:17:25

Checking Out - Use code CASUAL30 for discounts on Liberator! 1:00:33

Links

Liberator Bedroom Adventure Gear

Gettin' Busy (When you're busy!)

Wed, 08 May 2019 00:00:00 -0400

Ever looked around and said..."I feel like I'm living in a hurricane right now!" That's how it's been for Mickey & Mallory, and it shows! Back from a skipped episode break, these guys came back large with news from a Pineapple Party, a new game called "He Said, She Said," and a serious* thirst for a good time.

A listener messaged in for Mailbag with concerns over getting into the lifestyle after a history of abuse, so Mickey and Mallory answered her on air for everyone to chime in and support our listener, Alex!

True Lies - "You're SOOO big," fake orgasms, and more...

Wed, 10 Apr 2019 04:22:00 -0400

Mickey & Mallorysit down and talk about the ins, the outs, and the realities of telling the truth in the bedroom. From masturbation to faking the "big O," we talk about the ups and downs of putting on a show for your partners.

Also, in "Swingin' in the News," there's a club in Clark County, Nevada* who is in danger of being sued by the county for operating an illegal sex club...but that's not all! Their website claims their resort is lauded by major news outlets such as Playboy, Maxim, AOL, and others...despite a lack of readily accessible online evidence. Is this another example of true lies?

News Article on nude resort to be sued by Clark County

Website for "One Love," or "Sea Mountain Inn"

Trip Advisor Reviews for Sea Mountain

Yelp Advisor Reviews for Sea Mountain

Cuck YOU! - Exploring the world of Cuckolds & Hotwives with Cuckoldress Venus!

Wed, 27 Mar 2019 00:00:00 -0400

Mickey & Mallory catch up with celebrated lifestyle blogger Cuckoldress Venus to discuss the intricacies of the Cuckold lifestyle, what it means to be a "Cuckoldress," and the best way to spend a wedding night. Also, we catch up with Jeff James for another edition of "WWJD*," where we discuss some pointers on how to be a great 3rd wheel as a guy and some of the differences between hotwifing in real life vs the movies.

Intro: 00:00:48

Interview - Cuckoldress Venus: 00:15:54

WWJD - What would Jeff Do? - Joining a couple as a male in a hotwife situation: 1:03:57

Blog Posts on Cuckolding/Hotwifing

Cuckoldress Venus' Blog
Refinery29 on Hotwifing
Refinery29 on Hotwifing from 2017
Thhe Incidental Hotwife Blog

Climate Swing: From Hedo to the frozen tundra

Wed, 13 Mar 2019 00:00:00 -0400

Mickey & Mallory have been on the road more than they've been home for the last month or so, including Jamaica and the bitter, frozen tundra of the great state of Iowa. They recap an epic first February Rascal's trip and a wedding born of love on the beaches of Jamaica. Also, Mallory finds herself of the wrong end of a waterboarding experience! (Or...the right one. Depends on your point of view.)

In Mallory's Toybox, we talk about Liberator* Bedroom Adventure Gear and some of our favorite toys from this innovative manufacturer of bedroom goodies!

Hedonism II Resort

Rachal's Rascals

Liberator Bedroom Adventure Gear

The Cowgirl Premium Rideable Toy

A living history of Hedonism II: The Swinger In Chief (an interview with Hedonism Resorts CEO Harry Lange)

Wed, 06 Mar 2019 00:00:00 -0500

The culmination of a three-part series on the most notorious resort on the planet, Hedonism II. Mickey & Mallory catch up with Harry Lange, the CEO of Hedonism Resorts to talk all things Hedo and, what it means to be a "Swinger in Chief*."

Find out more about the purchase of the resort, the key upgrades, some of the groups that attend, and what's in the next chapter of the legendary destination in Negril, Jamaica. Don't miss this rare opportunity to hear the latest and greatest from the man himself!

Hedonism II Resort

A living history of Hedonism II: The Winds of Change

Thu, 28 Feb 2019 00:00:00 -0500

The winds of change blew through the expansive property of Hedonism II* just a few years ago. In the face of potential financial ruin, a group of dedicated customers and entrepreneurs led by Jon Gross of Unwind Travel came together to save the place many people call "home." Hear the story of how it happened from the guy himself, and a little more about what makes this place so special.

Unwind Travel: Travel to Hedonism and more

Hedonism II Resort

A living history of Hedonism II: The Ultimate Ambassador

Wed, 27 Feb 2019 00:00:00 -0500

The first in a three part series, Mickey & Mallory sit down with one of the longest tenured guests in the history of Hedonism II! We hear stories spanning 38 years of the most notorious resort, perhaps on Earth!

Howard Harinstein isn't just a customer of Hedonism II*, he's the ultimate ambassador. He runs the Sandy Hook Reunion party in NJ, a Super Bowl Gathering, and spends 6 weeks (minimum) a year at Hedonism II. His efforts to keep people together not just year-round, but OVER the years have made him a celebrity at Hedonism II, and we sat down with him to learn a little more about what he feels are the highlights (and lowlights) of his years as a hedonist.

Don't miss parts two and three, where we interview Jon Gross of the Fluffernutters, who is widely credited with saving the resort, and Harry Lange, the majority owner of the resort! These interviews will give you an insight into the history and dynamics of everyone's favorite resort like you've never had before!

Hedonism Sandy Hook Reunion Facebook Page

What Became of Negril Beach Village Facebook Page

In the Name of Love: Author, Broadcaster, Entrepreneur, Sex Educator...Beth Liebling!

Wed, 13 Feb 2019 00:00:00 -0500

Love, laughter, life, and of course...sex! Mickey & Mallory catch up with one of the most dynamic personalities they've met in their lifestyle journey, an ex-divorce attorney turned sex educator and coach, Beth Liebling! From her podcast to her book, to an ESPN radio show on the same subjects, Beth encourages positivity and sexuality everywhere she goes. She's the founder and owner of "The Darling Way" adult boutique in Houston, Texas and joins us here on Casual Swinger to enlighten and entertain!

Segment One: 00:46

Mickey & Mallory catch up on what's new, a discount code from Darling Way*, and the "taboo" of lifestyle vs other alternative lifestyles

Segment Two: 23:48

"In the name of love..." meet Beth Liebling, proprietor of "The Darling Way," an adult boutique in Houston, TX! Learn what led her down the path to be an Ivy League educated entrepreneur focusing on helping people have happier, better lives...and even BETTER sex!

Segment Three: 77:10

"Swingin' in the news" There's a house in Maple Glen, PA for sale, and EVERYONE is talking about it! This "private sex oasis" went viral last week and the neighbors are NONE too happy about it!

Links

Darling Way Boutique, Houston TX

Twitter Link for Casual Swinger's Crave Vesper Giveaway

Secrets Hideaway Lifestyle Club

Crave Vesper Necklace

"The Sex House" on Redfin

Buzzfeed coverage of "The Sex House"

Vice Coverage of "The Sex House" with great pictures!

Lone Star Spanking Party

Picture of the ORIGINAL "Sex House" listing on Redfin

What the FUD?! - Fear, Uncertainty, and Doubt in the lifestyle

Wed, 30 Jan 2019 00:00:00 -0500

Mickey & Mallory dig into three of the most destructive emotions in the lifestyle; Fear, Uncertainty, and Doubt!
They discuss how those emotions play into common lifestyle interactions, what some of the most common fears are affecting LS couples, and how to overcome some of them.

Then, former adult film star Jeff James* joins us for a new segment we call "WWJD," or "What Would Jeff Do?" We discuss one of the most paralyzing fears in the lifestyle, performance anxiety. How to beat it (no pun intended) and look like a pro!

Hedonism II Resort, Negril Jamaica
Jeff & Aubrie's Art Instagram
Rachals Rascals
Pineapple Parties Jacksonville

What's Up, Doc? Introducing sex positive therapist, Ieshai Bailey!

Fri, 18 Jan 2019 15:57:00 -0500

Mickey & Mallory introduce PhD* candidate and certified sex therapist, Ieshai Bailey. This hyper-qualified, but still sexy and fun professional joins us to talk sex therapy and the lifestyle and some of the ways therapy can help couples exploring the lifestyle.

We also cover a user review from a listener who purchased one of Mallory's recommended toys, the Crave vibe!

Don't miss this episode, it's FULL of great, sex positive information for lifestylers of all experience levels.

Introduction: 00:45

What's Up Doc? : Introducing Ieshai Bailey - 20:20

Mallory's Toybox : Review results on the Crave vibe 76:00

Links:

Therapist Ieshai Bailey's Website
Live Health Online - Telehealth
Therapist Ieshai Bailey's Instagram
Crave Vibrators
Sliquid Lubricant

Hedo, she wrote... (catching up with the author of "The Naked Truth About Hedonism II")

Wed, 02 Jan 2019 01:24:00 -0500

Mickey & Mallory have one of the busiest lifestyle weekends in the history of ever, and catch up with the amazing author of "The Naked Truth About Hedonism II." Learn more about what led this wild child, turned professor, to become a lifelong citizen of the "zoo" and live to write about it! Ring in the New Year in style with Mickey & Mallory!

Chris Santilli is the author of several books, one of the most noteworthy being the definitive guide to the most notorious resort on the planet, Hedonism II. Mickey and Mallory sit down to discuss her book, what drove her to write it, and how the resort has changed over the years and across three revisions of her book.

In "Cocktail Corner," you'll learn how you can grab your very own copy of Chris' list of "Hedo Recipes" where you can make your own Caribbean drinks in the comfort of your own home!

Happy New Year, friends!

Intro: 01:00

Happy New Year! The best date in forever and a house party 03:00

Hedo, She Wrote - An interview with author Chris Santilli 24:00

Cocktail Corner - Get your tropical drinks here! 72:00

Author Chris Santilli's Home Page
Amazon - The Naked Truth About Hedonism II
Secrets Hideaway, Florida

I want a PORN star for XXXmas!

Wed, 19 Dec 2018 00:00:00 -0500

It's CHRISTMAS* in Swingerville!

Mickey & Mallory get together to talk about the things we want to see under our SWINGmas tree and maybe in the new year! We play a game where we go back and forth with our personal lists just for you!

When we're done with the lists, we have a GIFT for our friends out there in our special guest, former adult film star Jeff James! Jeff joins us from California where he teaches seminars, paints, entertains, and is otherwise an active member of the lifestyle around Club FA in Los Angeles. Jeff shares some of his favorite tips on how YOU can *fuck like a porn star!.*

Finally, it's Christmas so naturally, we get into Mallory's TOYBOX! She covers another of her favorite toys, the Crave necklace, a real crowd pleaser! Learn more about this fashion accessory that doubles as a vibrator. Or...is that the other way around?

Segment 1

"Christmas in Swingerville!" Mallory and Mickey exchange their desires for Christmas and the new year as relates to the lifestyle. - 05:55

Segment 2

"I want a PORN star for XXXmas!" Introducing our friend JEFF JAMES! He's a former adult film star, an artist, a teacher, and an active member of the lifestyle. He talks about life, his relationships, and how you can "fuck like a porn star!" 20:00

Segment 3

"Mallory's Toybox" Mallory gets into one of her favorite toys, the CRAVE necklace! 66:53

Links

Crave Adult Toys - Discreet & Sexy
Classy Adult Sexy Gear
Amazon - When all else fails
Jeff the Body Painter IMDB - The Hollywood Database
Club FA - Lifestyle in CA

Talk to me, Goose! Communicating in the lifestyle

Wed, 05 Dec 2018 00:00:00 -0500

Nope, it's not a cheesy 80's movie "quote-along," it's another episode of Casual Swinger!

**Note - We had some funky audio issues* that presented themselves after we recorded this episode. Sorry guys! We'll have it sorted for the next show, but we're definitely aware!**

Today we're getting together to talk about our communication fails in our lifestyle journey and the importance of communication as lifestylers. Whether you're communicating amongst yourselves or with new friends, you'll either pick up some tips for your own adventures or just get a laugh out of us screwing up ours!

Once we're done talking about how wrong we did it, we'll talk about some "exit strategies," or ways to communicate your way out of (or into!) situations in the LS.

Finally, we cover a swing club in Sacramento that doubled as a CHURCH and was recently shut down by city administrators. Persecution or enforcing the law? Find out more about the situation on Swingin' in the news!

Segment 1

Intro & travels - All about our new episode, holiday woes, and what we've been up to since our last podcast, plus what's coming up soon! - 00:46

Segment 2

"Talk to me, Goose!" Communicating in the lifestyle, why we totally sucked at it, and what we learned from the experience. 08:40

Segment 3

Exit Strategies - subtle ways to communicate your wants and needs with your partners in the lifestyle, and the most important things to remember while you're at it. 37:54

Bonus - Swingin' in the news!

A Sacramento lifestyle club gets shut down by authorities, but is everything what it seems? A church, and meeting place, a social club...when is a lifestyle club something else entirely, and is it really cut & dry? We tell you all about it and leave the rest for you to decide. 56:12

Links

Suspected Sex Club Shut Down
Neighbors Outraged Over Sex Club
Tabu Social Club in MD
Naughty in Nawlins

"Get yer finger outta my ass!," and other things we heard on vacation

Wed, 21 Nov 2018 00:00:00 -0500

It's another episode of Casual Swinger!

We're back from our epic vacation to the beautiful Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica! As usual, hilarity was everywhere as we attempted to entertain our friends at Rachal's Rascals and make a few new friends along the way.

Naturally a few swing fails happened, some amazing parties, and an invasion of guests the likes of which the resort has never seen before. This recap of our vacation will undoubtedly not cover it all but we'll do our best!

We made some new friends, the "Average Swingers*" from Texas, and scored some interviews for a new series we'll be working on in the coming weeks.

Segment 1

The faces of Hedonism - Welcome to the sexy freak parade! 04:10

Segment 2

Hedonism II is a box of chocolates...very, very weird chocolates 34:57

Segment 3

Cocktail Corner - The "Dirty" Banana and the Hummingbird 60:07

Links

Hedonism II
Rachal's Rascals
Average Swingers Podcast
Dirty Perv Week
Chris Santilli - Author of "The Naked Truth about Hedonism II"
Travel2Swing - The website for Mark & Carly
The Fluffernutters

The Naked Truth: Raw & Uncensored

Wed, 07 Nov 2018 00:00:00 -0500

Mickey & Mallory jump into their first interview with our friends, Frank and Sheila! They're a new couple with their own experiences in the lifestyle, and LOTS of their own opinions. The TWIST is that we interview everyone TOTALLY ass naked! That's right, the "Naked Truth" is more than just a saying. We tackle a listener question about politics in the lifestyle, and Mallory and Sheila tag-team an installment of "Mallory's Toybox."

Part 1 - 00:50

We're in the final countdown to Hedonism II and our Rascal friends! We can't wait! A quick catchup on the goings-on in our world before we let you guys in on a big piece of news about how you can travel with us, Casual Swinger!

Part 2 - 11:04

Audience, meet Frank and Sheila! We strip down to our bare ass-entials and interview them about their turn ons, their kinks, and of course how they got here.

Part 3 - 48:30

What happens when you find out the couple you've been shagging lives on the other side of the political spectrum? That's a question asked by YOU, our listeners and we found a couple that embodies just that...the far edge of the spectrum. We talked about how they handle it and inject some opinions of our own, all while being respectful and supportive...just like lifestylers should be!

Part 4 - 60:07

Mallory's Toybox* with special guest: Sheila! They cover a BARGAIN of a sextoy that comes in at only 25 bucks! It's legendary in Rascal circles and is a can't miss item!

Links:
Passion Wireless Theraputic Massager
Hedonism II
Motorbunny
Sybian

One time at Hedo: How to shock swingers into silence

Wed, 24 Oct 2018 11:26:00 -0400

Mickey & Mallory are headed back to Hedonism II in November, so they're sharing some of their misadventures with you, along with some highlights of the hottest party in the Caribbean.

Part 1 - 04:30

Dipping our toes into Hedo; Mickey introduces Mallory to Hedo 2* with a book...because he never learns, and they debunk some of the common myths about lifestyler's "home away from home." We cover some of the highlights of the resort and why we think its the best place to spend your vacation!

Part 2 - 16:48

Tales from the zoo; From romance to absurdity, we dig into some of the stories of friends we've met at Jamaica's favorite zoo. Surprise engagements, horny housewives, cross dressing cheerleaders, a surprise lap dance, an attempted human sacrifice, and screwing in the rain...only at Hedo.

BONUS! Part 3 - 29:25

"The pants off, dance off" and "The Italian Job;" Two legendary stories from Hedo with lifelong lessons for lifestylers on the go. 1) Always bring your own rope, and 2) Don't put fireball soaked gummies up your ass. Makes sense, right?

Part 4 - 49:24

Swinging in the news; Lifestyle pioneers Holli and Michael Pockets (Bell) go on live TV in Australia to discuss swinging and being good parents, friends, and representatives of the lifestyle. Learn more about their interview and our take on their awesome segment!

Also, don't put fireball soaked gummy bears up your ass. Just a tip.

Links:

Hedonism II

Rachal's Rascals

Fluffernutters

Holli & Michael on Aussie TV

Hallowswinging and the Great Hotel Party Fail

Tue, 16 Oct 2018 11:13:00 -0400

Mickey & Mallory went lookin' for lovin' on the one day of the year when nobody is what they seem...as if we needed THAT issue in the lifestyle? It left us wondering how folks meet OTHER than on websites, and some of the advantages/disadvantages of each.

Part 1 - 00:30

Our heroes talk about connecting in the lifestyle, the how/where/why and the different methods available to you, getting into each of FOUR ways you can find a good time.

Part 2 - 36:14

Hear how our heroes struck out hard at our first hotel party, surrounded by ghouls, goblins, a very horny villainous duo, and some ponies.

Part 3 - 54:30

COCKtail Corner

Learn more about the "Bourbon Boom," and what's driving the 1.5 billion dollar market for the tasty beverage, and the origin of the "Old Fashioned." Also...a great recipe for this delicious* concoction.

Links:

Basil Hayden Dark Rye

High West Double Rye

Whistle Pig 10 Year

NBC Story on "The Bourbon Boom"

Bourbon of the Day - The Bourbon Boom

Sex Positive Parenting & Why our kids probably need therapy

Mon, 15 Oct 2018 14:46:00 -0400

Being in the lifestyle is a big enough leap for most folks, but when you add in the stresses of work, kids, and friends it's a wonder anyone ever takes their clothes off. Mickey & Mallory dig into some stories about our total fails at parenting while being sex positive and how we found ways to talk our way out of it. We'll also have our first ever "Mallory's Toybox," where she reviews one of her favorites; The WOMANIZER!*

00:30 Part 1 - "I broke a cockring..."

Dating from 1000 miles away presents unique challenges. Finding time to get in on in her deaf Grandmother's house with 25 people on the way over runs the difficulty up to 11. Leave it up to the boy to discover his rings of power and play superhero...

16:18 Part 2 - "This thing is awesome..." and other follies

Few things in life will stop you in your tracks like the sound of a Hitachi Magic Wand running when it shouldn't be. Find out how we, yet again, failed as parents and had to do some quick thinking on our feet.

39:20 Part 3 - Mallory's Toybox: The Womanizer

Mallory digs into her box of goodies to pull out one of her favorite premium sex toys for your enjoyment! Find out the ins, outs, and vibes of "The Womanizer," and how it can help you guys find that special Shangri-La in the bedroom!

The Hitachi Magic Wand - The mother of all vibrators

The Womanizer - Clitoral Stimulator

Are you down with PPP?

Sun, 14 Oct 2018 18:44:00 -0400

Join Mickey & Mallory as they dive into the world of online dating! You'll hear how they failed hard, brought it back together, and what makes a great online profile...hopefully while having a laugh at our expense.

Part 1

Mallory invents the worst screen name in the history of screen names. Naturally, it follows us for 8 years before we let it go.

Part 2

Using PPP to build a great online presence. Pictures, Personality, and Presence.
Find out how we use those things to make a profile stand out from the crowd.

Part 3

Our special segment today is: NOW YOU KNOW!*
We'll talk about the House Resolution 1865 that became the "SESTA-FOSTA Act," or the "Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act - Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act." (I'm really glad they made this an acronym...that's a mouthful.) This act dramatically changed online dating and where we interact, so we'll tell you why it did and why it's a good thing!

VOX Story on SESTA FOSTA and it's potential implications

The Obligatory Origin Story

Sat, 13 Oct 2018 20:59:00 -0400

Join Mickey & Mallory, or in this brief moment...Bonnie & Clyde, as they participate in the age old tradition of "origin stories." Our heroes tell us all about their dive into consensual non-monogamy, from the first time he smoothly introduced her to the lifestyle up through their first visit to a swing club...you'll have as much fun learning about us as we did telling you.

Part 1

We establish the depths of his stupidity as he tells the world how he introduced his lovely bride to "swinging." From there she kindly forgives him and we move onto how we proceeded from there!

Part 2

Our first visit to a swing club couldn't have gone better. We're still chasing the dreams that first night put in her head.

Part 3

Our first special segment, this time its: Lifestyle in the news!*

Huffington Post special writer Spencer Jones writes all about her experiences at monthly swing parties from the perspective of a single girl in New York City. It's a great article, with lots of interesting points...from different perspectives of course!

Huffington Post: "I attend a sex party in NYC"

Swing Lifestyle

Kasidie

TABU Social Club

Casual Swinger - A Sex Positive, Swinging Lifestyle Podcast

The Great Divide - Can You Grow Apart In The Lifestyle?

A Racoon Named Desire - Mickey & Mallory's Romantic Wildlife Expedition

One Size Fits All?

Adults Only - The AVS Legislation You Should Care About!

Hotwife Homerun - Casual vs Curated

Striking Out - It's Not Just For Boys

Breaking Up Is Hard To Do - Casual Swinger 2.0

SE05E07 - Hurricane Hedo - Onsite w/ Hedonism II GM David Graham post Hurricane Beryl

The Unicorn Swap - Is it the SECRET to adding a third to your bedroom?

Blurred Lines - The Land Between Swinging & Polyamory

Surprise! - It's my D!CK! - Exploring the d!ck pic culture w/ Expansive Connections

Contents Under Pressure - Are Content Creators Ruining The Lifestyle?

A Family is Born - Casual Swinger Week @ Hedonism II Changes Everything

A Tale of Two Tails - Whiskey Business Part 2 w/ Limavady CEO Darryl McNally

The ”NO” Paradox

We are Casual Swinger - Faces Out & Talking Mental Health w/ The Things We All Carry

I Regret Nothing! - Exploring Regret In Lifestyle Relationships w/ The CornFed Swingers

The Size of the Matter - Talking Size w/ Wanderlust Swingers & SoloSwingin

You can take a WHAT but not a compliment? - Examining affirmation in the Lifestyle

The ”Breast” Episode Ever w/ Dr. David Plank

The Casual Swinger...Diaries? - Where are they now w/ Paige & Penn of ”The Swinger Diaries”

The Red Zone - Nature’s Answer to Your Carefully Laid Plans

Slap Happy - Sexuality Isn’t A Joke...So Why Is It?

The (Wo)Man in the Mirror - A Confidence Crisis

WTFebruary & The Imposter Syndrome

Whiskey Business - Understanding the Whiskey Craze in America w/ Whistle Pig Whiskey

Mission “Impossible” - The Struggle of the Married Guy in Open Relationships

A Casual Christmas Carol - Do our past & present decisions impact our future?

Out of Bounds - Rules vs Boundaries in the Lifestyle

Encore & The Big D - Casually invading the sexiest event in the lifestyle

Hotwife Hardship - It‘s Not Me, It‘s DEFINITELY You...or is it?

Role With It - Roleplay Beyond the Costumes w/ Cuckold Couple Jack & Kissy

The Panic Button - When Self-Soothing Fails

A Friend Like Me - Choosing swingers for your primary friendships

Sex Work Is (A LOT of) Work!

Slippery When Wet - Are some lubricants actually bad for you?

Fifty (First?) Swinger Dates - Booking Dates That Don't Suck

Thanks for the Mammaries

WhoreMoans! - Exploring Hormonal Wellness & It's Impact On Sexual Health w/ Dr. Phillips

Hotwife Euphoria (w/ The Monogamish Marriage)

I would do *anything* for love...but I won't do that...(Playstyle Dynamics)

Hey, Jealousy! - The "Big Green Monster" inside us all

For Novelty Use Only? - Your favorite sex toy could be making you sick

Wanderlust...or bust! - Talking Podcast-A-Palooza & More w/ Cate from Wanderlust Swingers

Nobody Wants Mickey's Penis - A Casually Sapphic Mashup of a Swingfession

The S!ck D!ck Docs - Longer, Harder, Faster & Stronger w/ Doctors Nicole Eisenbrown & Lane Phillips

Slut Actualization - Exploring Mallory's Secret Hotwife Fantasy

Meet The New Boss & We're Not Talking Santa - ft/ Dermot DeLoughry Hedonism II's NEW GM

Feels like the first time - Hedonism II Virgins Derek & Jess

The Ghost of Swingers Past - Moving Past Our Experiences In The Lifestyle

"The Snip" ft. Dr. Ashley Winter & Comedian Mo Mandel of "The Full Release" Podcast

Ladies of the Lifestyle - Online Dating ft/ Our Naughty Escapades, Double Date Nation, & Average Swingers!

Your Cheatin' Heart - Examining infedility in the lifestyle

Heaven Forbid! - Faith, shame, the evangelical power structure meet the lifestyle

Talkin' Dirty w/ author Lexi Sylver

BONUS! - Dating Kinky - What's Wrong w/ "Swinging?" ft. Our Naughty Escapades, Sapphic Swingers, & Monogamish Marriage

Making Love (To The Camera!) w/ Erotic Photography Legend Holly Randall

The Great Alabaster Scrotum - A Lifestyle AMA

Fung-King Awesome Interviews from Jamaica - A Casual Swinger Bonus Episode

"Home" is where the heart is - In Jamaica w/ Hedonism II CEO Harry Lange & More

Sex is Funny w/ Comedian Damon Millard

Groundhog Day

Ma Ma Ma My Corona - Music Parodies, Video Chats, & Doc Judy on COVID-19

Talk Kinky to Me - International Kinky Women's Day w/ Dating Kinky

All Cucked Up - w/ Blogger & Podcaster Cuckoldress Venus

Cucking Around - Going deep with Cuckold couple Jack (Boy Blunder) & Kountess Kissy

Is that...POOP? (Definitely POOP...) - Making the best of a crappy situation at a M&G

Damn, that was fast! (Our favorite moments from 2019)

Shame on you! - Love, God

#BANGOVER & an EXCLUSIVE interview with Hedonism Resorts CEO

Wild Thing - you make my heart SWING!

Everything's bigger in Texas (and sheep are FAST...)

Halloween SPOOKtacular - What are you SCARED of in the LS?

SingleRARITY - The Single Guy's Perspective

SingleRARITY - The Unicorn Perspective

Give me FREEDOM and give me SEX! - Going deep on sexual freedom with the NCSF

Nawlins...and the sex?! - Two virgins do NIN & a new website!

Hair Today, Gone Tomorrow: A live WAX session with Lake Mary Waxing

You caught a WHAT? STD survival tactics for your relationship with Dr. Bailey

I would do anything for love...but I won't do that...(Playstyle Dynamics)