Better Than That: Beyond the Facade

BTT: Beyond the Facade (Episode Four)

Mon, 26 Oct 2026 10:06:27 -0600

Welcome back to Better Than That: Beyond the Facade. "Thanks for joining the show. I know you don't have to listen to me talk—but it's my mic, and my zone, so let's get into it." In this episode, we build on our discussion of betrayal by looking backward at the recurring patterns in past unhealthy relationships. From stepping into the default caretaker role as a child to navigating manipulative friendships, overbearing authority figures, career passivity, and high-anxiety moments, we break down what happened, how it happened, and the essential growth lessons taken from each experience. In this episode, we cover: • 00:00 - Intro & My Mic, My Zone • 03:30 - Segment 1: Family Dynamics & The Default Caretaker Role • 12:15 - Segment 2: Childhood Friends, Manipulation & Unexpected Grief • 22:00 - Segment 3: Authority Figures & The "Better Than That" Pressure • 32:45 - Segment 4: Navigating Boundaries, Mentors & Fixations • 43:10 - Segment 5: Institutional Pressure, Career Passivity & Personal Integrity • 53:00 - Segment 6: Unlearning Vulnerability, Insecurity & The Turning Point • 1:02:15 - Overall Episode Takeaway & Call to Action Important Support Resource: If you or someone you know is going through a difficult time or struggling with mental health, please know that support is available. Reach out to the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988 (Available 24/7, free, and confidential). Disclaimer: All personal names of non-family members in this episode have been changed or removed to protect privacy. Connect & Follow: 🌐 Website: https://www.bttbeyondfacade.com 📲 Socials: @BTTBeyondFacade If this episode spoke to you, please drop a like, leave a comment with your thoughts, and subscribe to join us in the zone every week! #BeyondTheFacade #BTT #Podcast #RelationshipPatterns #SelfGrowth #MentalHealthSupport #988Lifeline #Boundaries #UnfilteredTruth

BTT: Beyond the Facade (Episode Three)

Sun, 18 Oct 2026 19:32:18 -0600

Welcome back to Better Than That: Beyond the Facade. "Thanks for joining the show. I know you don't have to listen to me talk—but it's my mic, and my zone, so let's get into it." In this episode, we tackle the heavy, unfiltered realities of relational betrayal, gaslighting, and the hidden tax of keeping quiet to keep the peace. When the polished surface of a relationship cracks, how do we piece together subtle clues? And why do we so often choose self-sacrifice over confronting the uncomfortable truth? IConnect & Follow: 🌐 Website: https://www.bttbeyondfacade.com 📲 Instagram/Socials: @BTTBeyondFacade If this episode resonated with you or helped you navigate your own journey, please like, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs to hear it. #BeyondTheFacade #RUBTT #URBTT #Podcast #Deconstruction #SelfSacrifice #MentalHealth

BTT: Beyond the Facade (Episode Two)

Sun, 18 Oct 2026 19:29:06 -0600

Thanks for joining the show. I know you don't have to listen to me talk—but it's my mic, and my zone, so let's get into it. In Episode 2 of Better Than That: Beyond the Facade, we’re unpacking a lifetime of "going through the motions" inside the LDS Church and what actually happens when the whole foundation crumbles. From playing the system for maximum points to standing in a BYU bathroom, splashing cold water on my face, and realizing I couldn't pretend anymore—we’re holding nothing back. We cover religious trauma, forced expectations, unanswered questions about church history and inclusion, sexuality, and the step-by-step deconstruction from belief to where I stand today. Heavy topics, handled without kid gloves, but always aimed at helping anyone else processing their own unspoken journey. 🔔 SUBSCRIBE & FOLLOW Subscribe to the YouTube channel to get notified the second new episodes drop: / @bttbeyondfacade Follow along across social media: @BTTBeyondFacade Got a story, feedback, or thoughts to share? Email me directly: BTTBeyondFacade@gmail.com #BetterThanThat #BeyondTheFacade #Episode2 #NewPodcast #SubscribeNow #RUBTT #URBTT #RealTalk #NoKidGloves #MyMic #MyZone

BTT: Beyond the Facade (Episode (One)

Fri, 09 Oct 2026 11:01:18 -0600

For my entire life—family, school, church, work—mediocrity was never an option. I was always expected to be "better than that." But keeping up that impossible standard behind the scenes was slowly destroying me. We’re changing that.