Ralph began studying Bitcoin in 2013, when it was increasingly being used to bypass anti-money laundering (AML) laws and financial regulations. Since then, he has dedicated his career to tracing stolen digital assets, helping fraud victims seek justice, and educating the public about the risks of cryptocurrency scams.

During the conversation, Ralph explains how crypto fraud affects real people, why recovery is so difficult, and why only 2–5% of cases result in recovered funds. He also walks through how blockchain tracing actually works, from transaction “hops” to AI-powered forensic tools used to follow funds across wallets and exchanges.

Chris and Ralph discuss:

• How investigators trace cryptocurrency across blockchains • Why law enforcement often struggles to pursue crypto cases • The rise of romance scams, tech-support scams, and AI impersonation fraud • The global networks behind modern financial crime • The risks of Bitcoin ATMs with high fees and weak identity verification • Emerging regulations designed to protect victims • Practical steps anyone can take to avoid becoming a fraud victim

If you’ve ever wondered whether crypto is truly anonymous—or how investigators recover stolen digital assets—this episode offers an inside look at the world of blockchain forensics and financial crime investigations.

Episode Timestamps

00:00 Podcast Introduction 00:35 Meet Ralph Dahm 02:50 Early Bitcoin Origins 04:08 Victims and Law Enforcement 06:27 Romance Scam Story 07:43 Subpoenas and Recovery 10:20 First Call With Victims 12:04 Fake Recovery Firms 13:26 Tracing on the Blockchain 14:37 AI and Old Cases 16:03 Explaining Blockchain Evidence 17:20 Working With Law Firms 17:53 AI Voice Scam Example 18:48 Justice for Scam Victims 21:07 Bitcoin ATM Fraud 23:15 Career Advice and Fraud Red Flags 25:22 Resources and Prevention Tips 28:03 Closing and Call to Action

About Ralph Dahm

Ralph Dahm is a Certified Financial Crimes Investigator (CFCI) with more than 30 years of experience in technology, financial crime investigations, and executive recruiting.

He is the Founder of Twin Oaks Holdings, President of IT Audit Search, and Executive Managing Director at Smart Ballots, where he focuses on blockchain technology, election security, and fraud investigation.

Ralph works at the intersection of blockchain forensics, cryptocurrency fraud recovery, and financial crime prevention, helping victims, law firms, and law enforcement agencies trace stolen digital assets and pursue justice.

His professional network includes 10,000+ contacts across law enforcement, blockchain, and financial crime communities, and he frequently writes and speaks about the evolving risks of crypto fraud and digital asset security.

Connect with Ralph: • https://ralphdahm.com • https://twinoakscrs.com • https://linkedin.com/in/ralphdahm

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In this episode of Beyond the Numbers, fiduciary financial planner Chris Everett sits down with Sean Patton — former U.S. Army Special Forces (Green Beret) commander, Novus Global executive coach, keynote speaker, entrepreneur, and author of A Warrior’s Mindset: Six Keys to Greatness.

Sean breaks down why real leadership isn’t a checklist — it’s a way of being. From West Point to combat deployments to building businesses after leaving the military, Sean shares the hard-earned lessons behind self-leadership, identity, resilience, and the long game of success.

You’ll hear:

• Why self-leadership comes before leading anyone else • How trust is built through vulnerability and modeled feedback (not “open door” policies) • The reality of transitioning from military purpose to civilian uncertainty • Sean’s honest story of over-leverage, burnout, bankruptcy — and rebuilding • Why wealth without purpose still feels empty • How to align vision, strategy, and mindset — including money decisions • A practical way to reframe limiting beliefs by weighing the short-term payoff vs long-term cost • How to start building legacy today, not someday

If you’re a leader, entrepreneur, veteran, or anyone trying to build a life that actually works — this conversation will challenge you in the best way.

📌 Learn more about Sean: • Website: NoLimitLeadership.net • Book: A Warrior’s Mindset: Six Keys to Greatness (Amazon) • Podcast: No Limit Leadership • LinkedIn: Sean Patton

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Chapters / Timestamps 00:00 Podcast Mission 00:35 Meet Sean Patton 02:10 West Point Leadership Lessons 03:51 Special Forces Team Trust 06:14 Culture of Feedback 09:11 Leaving the Military 11:38 Identity Beyond the Uniform 15:37 Entrepreneurship Burnout 20:43 Failure Builds Greatness 23:14 Wealth and Fulfillment 24:17 Fulfillment Through Service 25:39 Find Purpose Nearby 27:08 Mission First Business 32:10 Integrity With Money 34:35 Discipline And Patience 37:30 Rewrite Money Beliefs 42:54 Legacy And Next Steps

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What if the “water baby” dunking we see on vacation is actually teaching toddlers something dangerous—like believing an adult will always be there to pull them up for air?

In this episode of Beyond the Numbers, host Chris Everett sits down with Liz Hubbert, leader of the CAST Water Safety Foundation, to share the pivotal poolside moment that changed everything—and launched a mission to help children become aquatic problem solvers.

Liz explains how self-rescue swim instruction (including ISR and similar programs) uses six weeks of daily, private 10-minute lessons to teach even very young kids how to swim, float, find air, and practice fully clothed—skills designed to prevent drowning, the leading cause of death for children ages 1–4, with many incidents occurring during non-swim time.

CAST’s model is equally unique: ✅ Operates under the Innovative Lavin Family Foundation umbrella (connected to the Alberto Culver family) ✅ Works with ~35 partner instructors across the country ✅ Directs 100% of donations to swim lessons + safety education ✅ Offers scholarships for teachers, nurses, first responders, military families, children with special needs, and families with income-based need

Liz also shares CAST’s collaboration with the University of Alabama at Birmingham’s Youth Safety Lab on a published study on 1-year-old water competency, plus practical safety guidance every caregiver should know—like proper pool fencing and checking water first if a child is missing.

Learn more, find programs, and locate instructors: castwatersafety.org

⏱️ Timestamps 00:00 Podcast Intro 00:40 Poolside Wake Up Call 03:12 Discovering ISR Lessons 06:30 Six Weeks to Self Rescue 08:22 From Teacher to Founder 11:50 Lavin Foundation Model 14:46 Aquatic Problem Solvers 17:42 Confidence Beyond Water 20:14 Community of Swim Families 20:52 Scaling Instructor Quality 22:28 Nationwide Team Impact 23:36 Scholarships and Access 24:55 WGN Stories and Awareness 27:46 Balancing Mission and Family 32:16 Community Culture and Growth 35:02 Water Safety Call to Action 38:46 Closing Thanks and Outro

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Brad shares the unlikely origin story that started with him reading the financial section in 7th grade, the moment he realized the industry often prioritizes profits over people, and why he built Market Guard around three pillars: excellence, integrity, and innovation.

You’ll also hear the “cookies” framework behind Brad’s book Cookies and Retirement: A Recipe for Success—a simple way to understand portfolio construction, behavioral risks, and why “time and temperature” matter as much as ingredients.

If you’re an investor who wants clarity, or an advisor evaluating an investment partner, this conversation breaks down what to look for, what questions to ask, and how disciplined downside protection can help clients stay invested when markets get loopy.

🎙️ Guest: Brad Jenkins, CFP® — CIO & CEO, MarketGuard 🎧 Host: Chris Everett — Everett Wealth Solutions

In this episode, we cover: • Why Brad entered wealth management (and what nearly turned him away) • The 3 biggest threats to your money (and why “you” is #1) • What makes Market Guard different: returns with lower volatility • Why “Noah built the ark before it rained” is a risk-management blueprint • How to evaluate a money manager (track record, volatility periods, and skin in the game) • The Mastery Event with leadership strategist & American hero Sean Patton • What’s next: Market Guard’s new index + structured note conversations with major institutions

📌 About the show Beyond the Numbers is where growth-minded professionals talk strategy, legacy, and the financial decisions that shape their future. Hosted by fiduciary financial planner Chris Everett, the podcast explores how people align business growth with personal purpose through intentional wealth-building.

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In this episode of Beyond the Numbers: Where Money Meets Meaning & Purpose, host Chris Everett sits down with authors and former journalists Nonna and Russell Working, a couple whose journey from the Soviet Union to the United States gave them a lived understanding of free speech, censorship, and the real cost of standing on principle.

Russell, a Pushcart Prize–winning writer and former Chicago Tribune journalist, and Nona, an academic research administrator and author, share firsthand experiences reporting under authoritarian systems, navigating corruption, witnessing state-controlled media, and ultimately choosing meaning over financial optimization. From covering mafia wars and North Korean forced labor to confronting ideological conformity in modern America, this conversation explores how wealth, freedom, and purpose intersect when speaking the truth comes at a price.

This is not a partisan debate—it’s a deep discussion about courage, incentives, personal responsibility, and what happens when people stop protecting comfort and start protecting values.

Timestamps: 00:00 – What Beyond the Numbers is really about 01:36 – Choosing principle over financial optimization 02:29 – Leaving Russia: what was at stake 06:53 – Reporting during the collapse of the Soviet Union 08:20 – Mafia wars, corruption, and forbidden journalism 11:31 – Covering North Korean forced labor in Russia 14:52 – Why English-language journalism mattered 18:06 – Seeing censorship and ideological pressure in America 23:20 – Why communism misunderstands wealth creation 28:43 – Writing The Insurrectionist and challenging modern journalism 35:18 – When journalism turns into activism 40:05 – When should people speak up—even if it costs them? 47:39 – Financial security vs. living by your principles 54:08 – The internal freedom that replaces fear

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From emotional intelligence and brain science to faith, leadership, business, and personal growth, this conversation goes far beyond theory. You’ll hear how emotional disconnection happens, why traditional approaches often fall short, and how simple, practical tools can create profound change in relationships, teams, families, and organizations worldwide. Whether you’re a leader, entrepreneur, spouse, parent, or simply someone who wants deeper connection, this episode offers a powerful lens on what it means to truly understand yourself and others.

Website mentioned: connectioncodes.co

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Welcome to Beyond the Numbers

00:27 – Introducing the episode theme: connection and emotional intelligence

00:55 – Meet Phyllis and Dr. Glenn Hill, founders of Connection Codes

01:47 – How marriage struggles sparked a decade of research

04:00 – Why traditional therapy often misses the mark

07:49 – Shifting the focus from disconnection to connection

08:43 – Faith, emotions, and the brain

12:17 – Growing up with “choose joy” and the cost of suppressing emotion

15:16 – How unprocessed emotions impact the body and performance

18:25 – The origin of the Core Emotion Wheel

20:02 – Why the tool is intentionally simple and time-bound

22:56 – The eight core emotions explained

26:55 – Live demonstration of the Connection Codes

31:42 – Audible listening and why silence can feel painful

33:01 – From marriage tool to universal human framework

35:24 – Global expansion and applications in business and organizations

38:31 – Addressing narcissism and emotional dysregulation

40:54 – The School of Connection and future vision

42:01 – Final reflections on money, meaning, and connection

Everett Wealth Solutions, Inc. is a Registered Investment Adviser in the State of Illinois providing fiduciary financial planning and asset management across the nation.

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Brian reflects on his career journey, the mentors who shaped him, and the values that guided his leadership decisions over time. From personal accountability and operational excellence to the quiet strength of consistency, this discussion highlights the kind of leadership that isn’t flashy — but endures.

Throughout the conversation, Brian emphasizes the importance of trust, preparation, and showing up for people even when it’s uncomfortable. His perspective offers a refreshing reminder that sustainable leadership is built through habits, integrity, and a willingness to take responsibility.

This episode is especially valuable for leaders navigating growth, pressure, and long-term impact.

⏱ Timestamps

00:00 — Welcome and episode introduction

00:44 — Introducing Brian Becker

01:32 — Early career influences and discipline

03:18 — Learning leadership through responsibility

05:07 — Mentorship and earned trust

07:26 — The role of consistency in leadership

09:41 — Decision-making under pressure

12:05 — Accountability without ego

14:22 — Building strong teams over time

16:58 — Lessons learned from failure

19:31 — Leading through uncertainty

22:10 — Why preparation still matters

25:06 — Service-oriented leadership

27:44 — Staying grounded as responsibility grows

30:12 — Advice for emerging leaders

32:20 — Final reflections and closing

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Bob brings a rare blend of deep tax expertise and an educator’s mindset, breaking down complex estate planning strategies into language everyday people can actually understand. From revocable trusts and special needs planning to asset protection and advanced tax-saving vehicles, this conversation goes far beyond documents and dives into why proper planning — and proper funding — makes all the difference.

You’ll hear why most estate plans fail, the dangers of outdated trusts, the critical role of trust funding, and why estate planning only works when attorneys and financial planners operate as a true team.

If you want to design a legacy that avoids confusion, unnecessary taxes, and missed opportunities, this episode is essential listening.

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – Welcome to Beyond the Numbers

00:27 – Meet your host, Chris Everett

00:35 – Introducing Robert J. Mondo

01:31 – Why Bob approaches law as an educator

02:43 – From tax attorney to estate planning specialist

03:56 – Helping clients truly understand their plans

05:11 – Why most estate plans fall short

06:16 – The danger of form-based and DIY trusts

07:17 – Core estate planning structures explained

08:19 – Why old trusts (pre-2012) can be problematic

09:12 – Reciprocal spousal trusts and hidden risks

10:29 – Step-up in basis explained simply

11:41 – Why simplicity often wins in estate planning

12:30 – Why trusts older than 2012 should be reviewed

13:16 – What a revocable trust actually does

14:20 – Probate avoidance and asset control

15:24 – Asset protection trusts and who really needs them

16:13 – Special needs planning mistakes to avoid

17:41 – Intentionally defective grantor trusts explained

18:56 – Removing assets from taxable estates

20:18 – How promissory notes preserve control

21:41 – When advanced trusts make sense

22:00 – Attorney + financial planner collaboration

23:14 – Retitling assets without triggering taxes

24:36 – Common planning breakdowns

25:21 – A real-world missed planning opportunity

26:46 – Fixing estate problems after death

27:58 – Why transparency matters in planning

28:22 – Current estate tax law considerations

29:34 – Succession planning for solo attorneys

31:04 – Trust funding as part of a fiduciary process

32:17 – Why documents alone aren’t enough

33:27 – Checklists, reminders & accountability

34:35 – The danger of last-minute planning

35:00 – Bob’s law school journey

36:18 – Why tax attorneys collaborate differently

37:39 – Creating proprietary estate planning categories

38:58 – Custom planning vs template documents

40:18 – Why other attorneys notice the difference

41:15 – What to look for in an estate planning attorney

42:09 – Avoiding generalists in complex planning

42:58 – How to research the right attorney

43:36 – How to contact Bob Mondo

45:43 – Building the right financial team

47:16 – Why financial planning comes first

48:18 – Final thoughts & closing

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What started as a struggling marriage and two disconnected businesses turned into a redemption story marked by honesty, vulnerability, faith, and radical authenticity. After years of fear, hidden financial struggles, resentment, and emotional distance, one pivotal moment changed everything — a moment where truth surfaced, fear broke, and healing began.

Their marriage transformed…

And their business followed.

From stagnant revenue and broken trust to explosive growth, 40 employees, expansion into multiple states, and a second business in real estate — their journey proves that sometimes the biggest business problems require a spiritual solution.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in your relationship, your business, or both, this conversation will challenge the way you think about success, partnership, and faith-driven transformation.

Learn more about the company Carlos & Julie run together: https://tmpjanitorial.com/

⏱️ TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – Welcome to Beyond the Numbers

00:02 – What this podcast is REALLY about

00:27 – Meet your host, Chris Everett

00:36 – Introducing Carlos & Julie’s incredible story

01:02 – From $250K to $1.2M…and climbing

01:22 – The real reason their breakthrough happened

01:58 – Five years of separate lives & hidden struggles

02:26 – A moment of surrender, honesty & divine intervention

03:01 – Business grows as the marriage heals

03:31 – Welcoming Carlos & Julie

03:55 – How they all first met

04:23 – Early marriage, separate businesses, disconnect

05:00 – Love at first sight & their early story

06:21 – Carlos hides failures out of fear

07:37 – The moment everything came to light

08:01 – Julie’s surrender and spiritual awakening

09:07 – The emotional toll & the breaking point

10:16 – Fear, control & disconnection

11:29 – The supernatural moment at church

12:25 – The porch conversation that changed everything

13:25 – Confession, repentance & emotional honesty

14:10 – Modeling vulnerability using the Connection Code

17:05 – Fear, guilt, shame, sadness, hurt & joy — in real time

21:31 – Julie responds with honesty, hope & clarity

23:14 – Breakthrough and instant emotional shift

24:37 – Healing: what happened next

25:42 – How surrender changed their business

27:17 – Tripling the business in months

28:04 – Expansion, 40 employees & new businesses

28:34 – Carlos’ 3 commitments in every business meeting

29:34 – How Chris helped transform their financial life

30:02 – A marriage “made in heaven”

30:27 – Childhood roots & the entrepreneurial drive

31:49 – Purpose, impact & business as a tool

32:46 – How employees noticed the change

33:09 – Compassionate leadership & emotional safety

34:11 – Tools that shifted their company culture

34:28 – Working together with humility & vulnerability

35:04 – No longer faking strength — leading with truth

36:11 – Advice for struggling couples

37:15 – Rebuilding trust & emotional safety

37:38 – A message to men about passivity

38:25 – What bravery really looks like

38:45 – The next 5 years: legacy, expansion, community impact

40:25 – The legacy they’re building for their children

41:22 – A reminder that healing is always possible

42:03 – Final reflections & gratitude

42:28 – What TMP stands for

42:51 – Subscribe, rate, review & share

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Whether you're an entrepreneur considering a career change, building an insurance agency, or looking for inspiration on how to turn adversity into opportunity, this conversation delivers actionable insights on business transitions, financial planning, team leadership, and the power of strategic risk-taking. Learn how Sam went from mowing lawns and snow plowing to fund his insurance startup to building a referral-driven agency that prioritizes client education over sales—and why surrounding yourself with people smarter than you is the key to long-term success.

Timestamps

00:00 - Welcome to Beyond the Numbers

01:10 - Introducing Sam Rolph's Journey

04:06 - The Pivot from Aviation to Insurance

07:09 - Getting Started Without a License

09:13 - Mowing Lawns and Snow Plowing to Build a Business

10:00 - The Power of Falling Into Opportunity

10:25 - Leaving the Captive Agency: The $2.5M Decision

14:25 - Underwriting vs. Order Taking: The Erie Difference

16:03 - Projecting $700K, Tracking $1.6M in Year One

17:14 - Growing Up in a Trailer Park: Financial Lessons

19:22 - Taking Care of Your Team Through Transitions

20:18 - Military Service and Turning Down $10K

23:07 - The No Regrets Philosophy

24:13 - Why Sam Called Chris After Hearing Him on Radio

26:08 - Service Mindset: Leaving People with More Knowledge

28:16 - The Circle of Knowledge

30:16 - Building a Barn-dominium on 10 Acres

33:08 - Where Sam Sees Himself in 15 Years

33:57 - Advice for Making a Major Career Shift

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His journey—from coining “digital marketing” in 1995, to authoring bestselling books, to guiding over 5,000 entrepreneurs through his Big Idea framework—offers a masterclass in thinking bigger than your circumstances.

This conversation explores the mindset shifts that transform hot dog stand businesses into gourmet chef empires. Bill breaks down why most founders unknowingly operate inside their “old factory,” how the penguin problem erases differentiation, and why the next era belongs to generalists who can orchestrate value instead of clinging to narrow specialties.

Key Topics

00:00 – The story of a 68-year-young disruptor

02:10 – How a brilliant mother ignited a lifelong mission

05:18 – Why patience (and tennis coaching) shaped Bill’s transformation philosophy

08:44 – Getting unstuck: The hotdog stand trap

12:10 – Think big. Start small. The 11% rule

16:25 – The gourmet restaurant analogy that rewires your approach

21:45 – The Penguin Problem: Why most businesses blend into the crowd

27:02 – Building a $50M “hyper-intelligent building” business

33:40 – AI as a dance partner, not a threat

38:50 – Why wellbeing—not metrics—is the new value proposition

42:10 – The rise of generalists and the death of narrow specialization

47:35 – Education, critical thinking, and fixing the old factory mindset

52:48 – Future-proofing yourself through intention

56:30 – Coaching the next generation of entrepreneurs

1:01:14 – Autonomous cars and finding opportunity inside disruption

1:05:20 – The lobster story that launched a movement

1:10:02 – How to discover your own Big Idea

For entrepreneurs with good intentions and a desire to build meaningful value, this conversation delivers a practical perspective wrapped in future-focused clarity. This isn’t theory—it’s transformation in real time.

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In this inspiring episode of Beyond the Numbers, host Chris Everett sits down with Randall Witte — a former punk rock vocalist turned creative director — for a powerful conversation about authenticity, recovery, and redefining success.

From screaming on stage to leading creative teams, Randall’s story proves that the most unconventional paths often lead to the most impactful careers. He shares how “being the weirdo” became his greatest strength — and how embracing who you are can transform your brand, your business, and your life.

⏱ Timestamps

00:00 – Welcome to Beyond the Numbers: Wealth meets meaning and purpose

00:35 – Introducing Randall Witte: From punk rock to branding expert

01:02 – A journey from low-income beginnings to global record deals

02:05 – How punk rock turned pain into purpose

03:13 – Finding belonging in chaos and mentorship in unexpected places

05:14 – The life-changing advice that became Randall’s north star

06:45 – Choosing passion over practicality: From addiction to art school

08:19 – Facing doubt, rejection, and staying the course through adversity

09:49 – The power of authenticity in business and recovery

10:55 – Turning down six figures to stay true to personal values

13:14 – Manifestation, faith, and trusting your inner compass

16:29 – Why authenticity doesn’t always align with corporate definitions of success

17:58 – Keeping commitments even in toxic work environments

19:05 – Teaching authenticity to conservative industries

20:58 – How to vet your brand through storytelling and self-awareness

23:14 – Using your past — trauma, triumph, and truth — as brand power

25:36 – Breaking the rules: What’s holding people back in business

27:32 – Why being yourself is the best marketing strategy

29:57 – The psychology behind money, mindset, and communication

32:34 – The hidden emotional roots of financial behavior

33:54 – Building meaningful relationships in the digital age

35:49 – Authentic love: Why Randall and Holly built a partnership on honesty

37:17 – Recovery, resilience, and the gift of hard work

38:36 – Finding joy in everyday moments — from punk shows to mowing lawns

41:08 – What’s next: Randall’s dream to build a brand agency for trailblazers

43:09 – The story behind the job that changed everything

45:00 – How taking risks can lead to the most unexpected breakthroughs

46:15 – Closing reflections: Live and lead with authenticity

💡 Key Takeaways

• Authenticity is your greatest marketing tool — and your life’s compass.

• Success isn’t about status; it’s about alignment with your values.

• The “weirdos” often build the most relatable brands.

• Vulnerability creates connection — in business and beyond.

• Sometimes, saying no to money means saying yes to yourself.

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Stephen K. De Silva, founder of Prosperous Soul, joins host Chris Everett to explore the intersection of financial success and spiritual fulfillment. From overcoming imposter syndrome to understanding your identity as the foundation of prosperity, this episode challenges everything you thought you knew about wealth.

Key Frameworks Discussed:

The Five Knots of Life:

1. Identity (Who am I?) - Prepositional, attached to God
2. Purpose (Why am I?) - The verb that naturally leaks out of you
3. Vision (What do I see?) - The adjective describing your desired future
4. Strategy (How will I get there?) - Your roadmap across life's realms
5. Tactics (Daily yes/no decisions) - Alignment with everything above

The Capacity Triangle:

• Protection
• Provision
• Identity/Worth

Resources Mentioned:

📖 Book: "Money and the Prosperous Soul" by Stephen K. De Silva (Available on Amazon)

🎯 Free Financial Health Quiz: Get your capacity score and personalized insights here: ProsperousSoul.com/financial-health-quiz

Three Core Programs:

• Prosperous Soul - Education about money and identity
• Purpose Train - The pull system coaching
• Financial Sozo - Exchange of lies for truth tool

Chapters:

0:00 - Welcome to Beyond the Numbers

1:17 - Meet Stephen K. De Silva

1:35 - The Pivot from CPA to Meaning-Maker

2:46 - The Hunger for Purpose in Your 40s

3:43 - Success on the Outside, Empty on the Inside

10:23 - The Imposter Syndrome Story

11:55 - The Pull System Introduction

12:04 - The Rope Metaphor Explained

19:24 - Working Backward from Vision

20:05 - Identity: The Critical Top Knot

22:34 - Adopted vs. Orphaned Identity

24:21 - Stephen's Five Knots Revealed

26:11 - "Beside" - A One-Word Identity Story

28:06 - Purpose as Father (The Verb)

28:54 - Vision: Prosperous

29:27 - Strategy: Three-Generation Company

33:17 - Book: Money and the Prosperous Soul

34:05 - Money as Spiritual Power

35:00 - The Divided Heart Problem

35:24 - Roman, Greek, and Hebrew Lenses

38:20 - The Hebrew/Biblical Perspective

40:44 - Greek Perfection vs. Hebrew Excellence

44:23 - The Insidiousness of Perfection

44:55 - Free Financial Health Quiz

48:36 - The Capacity Triangle Explained

49:32 - Chris's Unique Approach to Financial Planning

50:15 - Closing Thoughts: Think of That Rope

Chris shares her unique approach to wealth management that goes far deeper than spreadsheets and account balances, revealing how understanding the human story behind the numbers creates breakthrough financial outcomes.

What You'll Learn

· Why understanding your relationship with money starts with understanding your story

· The concept of knowing what you don't know (and how it creates breakthroughs)

· How childhood experiences shape our financial behaviors as adults

· The real meaning of building an empire versus just earning money

· Why financial planning should address everything in your life with a dollar sign attached

· Common wealth leaks that sabotage retirement and college planning

Episode Chapters

[00:00] Introduction & Welcome - What Beyond the Numbers is all about and meeting your host Chris Everett

[01:18] What Does "Beyond the Numbers" Mean? - Understanding clients beyond their financial statements and why knowing everything with a dollar sign matters

[03:06] The Circle of Wisdom - Discovering what you don't know you don't know and creating breakthrough moments

[04:30] Empire Building, Not Just Money Making - Understanding what money really means to you and leveraging resources to become who you're meant to be

[06:13] Who This Podcast Is For - Business owners, executives, entrepreneurs, and anyone building a legacy

[07:31] Benefits of Tuning In - Finding someone you can identify with and drawing inspiration from similar experiences

[09:38] The Guests You'll Meet - Business owners, entrepreneurs, multi-generational family businesses, and C-suite professionals

[12:28] Real Client Breakthrough Stories - The couple living high but saving nothing and the unhappy professional trapped by childhood trauma

[17:17] Numbers as Performance Measures - Why you shouldn't worry about the numbers and should focus on performance instead

[18:00] Financial Topics We'll Cover - Retirement planning, college funding, wealth leaks, insurance, tax, and estate planning

[20:21] Getting to Know Chris Everett - From rock and roll dreams to wealth management and early memories that shaped her approach

[23:20] Chris's Journey to Financial Planning - Life as a singer, the insurance agent encounter, and building a comprehensive practice

[26:49] How to Connect & Tune In - Contact information, website, and where to find the podcast

[27:38] Closing Thoughts - The power of action and collective wisdom, plus how to subscribe and share

About Your Host: Chris Everett

Chris Everett didn't take a traditional path to wealth management. A former rock and roll singer who performed five nights a week, Chris discovered her calling when an insurance agent sparked her curiosity about helping people understand the truth about their finances.

With experience spanning insurance, investments, property and casualty, and comprehensive wealth management, Chris brings a unique engineering mindset to financial planning. She describes herself as the CLO—Chief Listening Officer—because she knows that the real breakthroughs come from understanding the person behind the portfolio.

Connect With Chris Everett

Phone: 708-771-7777

Website: EverettWealthSolutions.com

Podcast: Available on all major podcast platforms and YouTube

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personal purpose through intentional wealth-building. It’s a clear-eyed look at what it takes to build a financial life that actually works.

Guests include entrepreneurs, advisors, and industry experts who share how they protect assets, create income streams, and design wealth that lasts. If you’re ready to go beyond profit and build something that matters, this show is for you.