Asking For A Friend

E253: Biblical Counseling, Mental Health, and a Book Review

Tue, 12 May 2026 05:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason and Duffey discuss BBC's counseling ministry. Jason provides updates over the last few months and discusses a book he has been reading and enjoying titled, Lies My Therapist Told Me by Greg Gifford. They also discuss mental health difficulties relating to counseling.

E252: Book Club #9, Spurgeon the Pastor, Conclusion

Tue, 05 May 2026 05:30:00 -0600

Jason and Duffey discuss a book on the pastoral life and theology of the nineteenth-century English Baptist pastor, Charles Haddon Spurgeon. This mini-series will be an on-going series in "book club" style. They will read a chapter and discuss it on an episode each month.

This episode covers Chapters 8-10.

If you'd like to read along, you may purchase a copy here:

Geoff Chang, Spurgeon The Pastor

E251: Systematic Theology, Christology, Pt 1 (The Person of Christ)

Tue, 28 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason and Duffey dive back into discussions surrounding systematic theology. This time, they engage the subject of christology. Christology is the study of the person and work of Christ. This epsiode is limited to the "person" of Christ. Here they discuss questions like:

Who exactly is Jesus?
Is Jesus truly God?
What is Jesus' relationship to the Father and Holy Spirit?
Where was Jesus before He became incarnate?
Is Jesus merely a god-like man, or someone far greater?

More online recommended resources:

Stephen Nichols - "Is Jesus Divine?" https://youtu.be/yRBtJnJZJHs?si=UsNuNc98AIZXiZSR
Kyle Claunch - "Did Jesus diminish his divine power to become human?" https://youtu.be/REo1RBUFKwA?si=rM2pxUFKHMA7q2V_
James Dolezal - "Jesus and His Attributes Divine and Human" https://youtu.be/VtBf-0GLfPI?si=sUz_ensc5FLf1SOd
Steven Duby - "Jesus and Divine Attributes" https://youtu.be/p_pm1fyx-eU?si=153Peua92E-0r0fn

E250: Who is John Cotton? (with Dr. Stephen Yuille)

Tue, 21 Apr 2026 04:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason and Duffey are pleased to have intervied Stephen Yuille of Reformation Heritage Books on the subject of the puritan public figure and minister, John Cotton. Cotton's legacy is closely tied to the founding of America in the 17th century and his leadership had a cast a wide scope of influence both in early America and in Europe.

To purchase the newly published collected works of Cotton, follow this link: https://heritagebooks.org/products/the-works-of-john-cotton-5-volumes.html?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21619799276&gbraid=0AAAAAClRuhv5hQbjx528topiJoo702Fz-&gclid=CjwKCAjwnZfPBhAGEiwAzg-VzK7rIDxUHvHlqWuCKrPK8FKIiiaA8fd-k7_MFCVVx3xrS3iIkC4qnhoCwyMQAvD_BwE

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Speaker Bio:

Dr. Yuille serves as Professor of Church History in the School of Theology. Prior to his service at Southwestern, Dr. Yuille was the Vice President of Academics and Academic Dean of College at Heritage Baptist College and Seminary in Cambridge, Ontario. Additionally, he was Associate Professor of Biblical Spirituality at Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. Dr. Yuille is the author and editor of numerous books and book chapters on the Puritan theologians William Perkins, George Swinnock, John Flavel, and Thomas Manton. He has published journal articles in Themelios, Puritan Reformed Journal, and the Journal of Spiritual Formation and Soul Care. He is a member of the Evangelical Theological Society and the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors.

E249: How can I win the battle against bitterness?

Tue, 14 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason and Duffey get practical as they discuss the unfortunate situation when relationships go sour, and conflict arises. All too often emotions and passions win the day and anger or bitterness results. How should we think better about our tendencies toward anger and bitterness? This episode seeks to offer encouraging and practical counsel for these types of situations.

Resources mentioned on the episode:

Additional Puritan resource:

https://heritagebooks.org/products/the-cure-for-unjust-anger-downame.html?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21619799276&gbraid=0AAAAAClRuhsqCohR1UuDV-TNqkH-ZT_bS&gclid=CjwKCAjw1tLOBhAMEiwAiPkRHtMnaV5mES_qtpBMwIS9rsLfSiyVoMAL-fjNmROTF6rPLGypLInrJxoCFMoQAvD_BwE

E248: Book Club #8, Spurgeon the Pastor (Chap 7)

Tue, 07 Apr 2026 06:00:00 -0600

This episode covers Chapter 7 (pp. 173-193).

If you'd like to read along, you may purchase a copy here:

Geoff Chang, Spurgeon The Pastor

E247: Spring Puritan Conference

Tue, 31 Mar 2026 06:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason and Duffey discuss BBC's upcoming spring Puritan Conference on April 18, 2026. Listen to this episode for a sneak-peak at what to expect from our guest, Dr. Stephen Yuille.

Biographical information about Dr Yuille: https://swbts.edu/staff/j-stephen-yuille/ ; https://thecbcd.org/dr-stephen-yuille

E246: The Ordinary Means of Grace with J. Ryan Davidson

Tue, 24 Mar 2026 06:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Duffey has a conversation with Dr. J. Ryan Davidson (Associate Professor of Pastoral Theology, I.R.B.S.) about his book entitled 'Green Pastures.' His book his a primer on the ordinary means of grace. The purpose of this episode is to provide an introduction to the subject for those who may unfamiliar. The main topics covered are preaching, the Lord's Supper, baptism, and prayer.

For the video version of this conversation, see this YouTube link: https://youtu.be/ma8QydMTthY

You may purchase Ryan's book here: https://brokenwharfe.com/product/green-pastures-the-ordinary-means-of-grace/

E245: Systematic Theology, Mankind and Sin

Tue, 17 Mar 2026 06:00:00 -0600

This episode continues a mini series in systematic theology. For this episode, Duffey is joined by Jason to discuss questions on "Mankind and Sin" like:

Did God create mankind in a perfect state?
Did mankind stay in that perfect state?
Did mankind fall from that state?
What is sin?
What is the seriousness of sin?
What is the state of mankind after the fall?
What is original sin?
What is actual sin?

E243: Book Club #7, Spurgeon the Pastor (Chap 6)

Tue, 03 Mar 2026 06:00:00 -0600

This episode covers Chapter 6 (pp. 145-171).

If you'd like to read along, you may purchase a copy here:

Geoff Chang, Spurgeon The Pastor

E242: Cancer Is Not Your Shepherd with Mike Abendroth

Tue, 24 Feb 2026 06:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason and Duffey are joined by a returning guest to the podcast, Mike Abendroth. This conversation centers around one of his books, Cancer Is Not Your Shepherd. His book is a 31-day devotional with the aim of encouraging and comforting those going through a cancer diagnosis. Mike is a two-time cancer survior, and he now sees one of his ministries as ministering to cancer patients and those suffering with severe illnesses. This conversation is certain to bring comfort and encouragement in Christ.

How should Christians deal with severe illness?
How should Christians deal with suffering in general?
How are Christins to think biblically about cancer and its challenging physical toll?
How are Christians to think about hospitals, medication, and pain relief?
How does the gospel affect a cancer diagnosis?

For the video version of this conversation, see this YouTube link https://youtu.be/GDKfPvY9YrE

You may purchase Mike's book here https://www.amazon.com/Cancer-not-your-shepherd-Suffering/dp/B0CZJ9RYJ8.

E241: Systematic Theology, Creation

Tue, 17 Feb 2026 06:00:00 -0600

This episode continues a mini series in systematic theology. For this episode, Duffey is joined by Jason to discuss questions on "Creation" like:

What is the relationship between God and creation?
What is the creator/creature distinction?
Did God freely create the world?
Is creation eternal?
What about the spiritual realm?
What about angels?

E239: Book Club #6, Spurgeon the Pastor (Chpt 5)

Tue, 03 Feb 2026 06:00:00 -0600

This episode covers Chapter 5 (pp. 123-144).

If you'd like to read along, you may purchase a copy here:

Geoff Chang, Spurgeon The Pastor

E238: Christmas Hymns

Tue, 09 Dec 2025 08:32:58 -0600

In this epsiode, Duffey and Jason discuss two popular Christmas hymns: Joy to the World and Silent Night. They briefly discuss the stories behind each of the songs and then offer comments for further reflection. We hope this epsiode encourages you to give thoughtful consideration of the hymns we sing each Christmas season! Merry Christmas to you!

E237: Book Club #5, Spurgeon the Pastor (Chpt 4)

Tue, 02 Dec 2025 05:30:00 -0600

This episode covers Chapter 4 (pp. 99-121).

If you'd like to read along, you may purchase a copy here:

Geoff Chang, Spurgeon The Pastor

E236: Congregational singing (with Andrew Pressley)

Tue, 25 Nov 2025 05:30:00 -0600

In this episode, Duffey is joined again by Andrew Pressley for a discussion on the importance of congregational singing in the life of thre church. The discuss questions like: What is congregational singing? Is congregational singing an important aspect of Lord's Day worship? How can we think better about congreagtional singing? What are ways we can be encouraged to engage in singing with one another week collectively?

E235: Systematic Theology, Decree & Providence (with Patrick Covington)

Tue, 18 Nov 2025 05:30:00 -0600

This episode continues a mini series in systematic theology. For this episode, Duffey is joined by Patrick Covington to discuss questions like:

What is the divine decree?
How do God's sovereignty and decree function together?
Is God actively involved in every moment of life?
What does it mean for God to exercise His providence?

For further study, see the resources provided below:

Video

R. C. Sproul
- https://youtu.be/gJTqUH9vi3Q?si=aX_30QbferI8bg0v

Special Edition: More Than Forgiven with Justin Perdue (Nov 2025)

Fri, 14 Nov 2025 05:30:00 -0600

In this special edition interview, Duffey and Jason are joined by Justin Perdue of Theocast for a discussion pertaining to his recently published book, More Than Forgiven. This discussion centers around Paul's epistle to the Romans, believer's baptism, union with Christ, and assurance for the believer. Tune in to what we hope is an encouraging conversation for you!

To watch this epsiode on video, see this link https://youtu.be/LifKarwkF-Q

To learn more about our guest Justin Perdue, click this link:

https://covbap.org/leadership/

E234: What is Christian Apologetics?

Tue, 11 Nov 2025 05:30:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason and Duffey offer a brief, concise introduction to the discipline of Christian apologetics. Apologetics is the act of defending the Christian faith from various forms of opposition. Should Christians engage in apologetics? How do apologetics and evangelism correlate with one another? These questions and more are discussed here. Enjoy!

For a helpful online resource, see Wesley Huff's (Duffey's recommended online resource) website https://www.wesleyhuff.com/ and his youtube channel https://www.youtube.com/@WesHuff

E233: Book Club #4, Spurgeon of the Pastor (Chpt 3)

Tue, 04 Nov 2025 05:30:00 -0600

This episode covers Chapter 3 (pp. 73-98).

If you'd like to read along, you may purchase a copy here:

Geoff Chang, Spurgeon The Pastor

E232: Tradition and church music (with Andrew Pressley)

Tue, 28 Oct 2025 05:30:00 -0600

In this epsiode, Duffey is joined again by Andrew Pressley for a discussion on the history of music throughout the ages. This episode is aimed offering a discussion on the role tradition and the church's music. Is tradition good or bad? Should we be anti-traditional? Should we embrace all traditions? How should we evaulate tradition?

E231: BBC Elder Roundtable Discussion

Tue, 21 Oct 2025 05:30:00 -0600

In this epsiode, the elders of Believers' Baptist Church sit around a table and discuss issues pertaining both to their personal lives and the life of the church. This episode was recorded during their Fall Elder Retreat, in October 2025.

Special Edition: Spurgeon the Pastor with Geoff Chang (Oct 2025)

Fri, 17 Oct 2025 05:30:00 -0600

In this epsiode, Duffey and Jason are joined by Dr. Geoff Chang of Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. Here, they discuss Spurgeon's life and convictions as a pastor. This episode was geared toward being a supplement to our monthly book club epsiodes as we go through Chang's recent book titled Spurgeon the Pastor.

Watch the video edition of this episode on YouTube here:

https://youtu.be/kENrBbUDSpQ

About our guest: Dr. Geoff Chang

https://www.wornallroad.org/ca-1-1

E230: The Fifth Monarchy Men

Tue, 14 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -0600

In this unique epsiode Duffey recounts the story of a small band of radicals in seventeenth-century England. This group is known today as the Fifth Monarchy Men. The Fifth Monarchy Men were Puritans (made up of both Independents and Baptists) who promoted a particular eschatological view of the 'fifth kingdom' of Daniel 2:44 and Daniel 7:26-27. This story recounts some of the Fifth Monarchy Men who became radicalized through the hearing of sermons and the reading of published material, and who saw the imminent need to overthrow the existing government in England through a violent force of arms in order to usher in the millennial kingdom of Christ on earth.

For further reading and study follow the links below:

https://share.google/tUGtJChWkjFjFpahz

https://londonhistorians.wordpress.com/2017/12/15/the-fifth-monarchy-men-and-a-lesser-known-london-uprising/

Another recent podcast episode discussing the Fifth Monarchy Men:

https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-n5xab-193cc0f

E229: Book Club #3, Spurgeon the Pastor (Chpt. 2)

Tue, 07 Oct 2025 06:00:00 -0600

This episode covers Chapter 2 (pp. 43-72).

If you'd like to read along, you may purchase a copy here:

Geoff Chang, Spurgeon The Pastor

E228: Law and Gospel in Counseling (with Tom Hicks)

Tue, 30 Sep 2025 05:30:00 -0600

In this epsiode, Duffey is joined by Pastor Tom Hicks (FBC Clinton, LA) to discuss the Law and Gospel in counseling. The realm of counseling can seem challenging to navigate when viewed in light of the Christian obligation to obey all of God's commands. Within the life of a local church, pastors often find themselves counseling church members or local folks in their neighborhoods and/or towns. There are many issues that pastors (and others) face in the counseling room. But how should the Law of God factor in to these discussions? How should the Gospel inform these conversations? These and other issues are addressed on this podcast.

About our guest: Tom Hicks

https://www.fbcclintonla.com/about-leadership.html

Online articles by Tom Hicks

https://pastortomhicks.com/

https://founders.org/author-name/tom-hicks/

E227: History of Church Music, Pt. 2 (with Andrew Pressley)

Tue, 23 Sep 2025 06:00:00 -0600

In this epsiode, Duffey is joined again by Andrew Pressley for a discussion on the history of music throughout the ages. This is epsiode Part 2 of a 2-part series and considers the music of the Protestant Reformation up to the Modern era. This episode is aimed offering a wide-angle lens on church music history and seeks to provide awareness of the presence of vast differences of style and tradition. They seek to navigate the difficult conversation of what kind of music is appropriate in church settings? How have Christians thought about this issue in the past? How are we today informed by our current cultural millue regarding the conversation surrounding church music?

E226: Systematic Theology, Doctrine of God (with Patrick Covington)

Tue, 16 Sep 2025 06:00:00 -0600

This episode continues a mini series in systematic theology. For this episode, Duffey is joined by Patrick Covington to discuss questions like:

What is the doctrine of God?
Does God exist?
What is God?
Who is God?
What is the trinity?
How can God be both one and three?

For further study, see the resources provided below:

Video

R. C. Sproul
- https://youtu.be/Bj6mZiRRuUU?feature=shared
- https://youtu.be/Sh72wgZEcKk?feature=shared

Articles

Ligonier Ministries
- https://learn.ligonier.org/articles/reformed-doctrine-god
- https://learn.ligonier.org/articles/doctrine-god-recommended-reading

Special Edition: Believers' Baptism with James Renihan (Sept 2025)

Fri, 12 Sep 2025 06:30:00 -0600

In this month's special edition episode, Duffey interviews Dr. James Renihan on the biblical defense for believers baptism. Dr. Renihan has spent much of 2025 travelling to various churches in order to deliver this material over the course of several hours in conference format. In this episode, he offers a condesensed form of his larger presentation.

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James Renihan, PhD
President, Professor of Historical Theology at International Reformed Baptist Seminary

After a ministry of church planting in central Massachusetts, Dr. James Renihan and his family moved to Escondido, CA in 1998 to begin serving as Dean of the newly formed Institute of Reformed Baptist Studies. He led that work for 20 years, and when it became IRBS Theological Seminary in 2018 was appointed the first president. He has served as a pastor of churches in Massachusetts, New York and California. He is a graduate of Trinity Evangelical Divinity School (PhD), Seminary of the East (MDiv), Trinity Ministerial Academy, and Liberty Baptist College (BS). His academic work has focused on the Second London Baptist Confession and the broader Puritan theological context from which it arose.

E225: Biblical thoughts on natural disasters and the recent Kerrville, TX floods

Tue, 09 Sep 2025 06:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason and Duffey discuss the recent flooding in Kerrville, TX which resulted in the loss of many lives (adult and children). How are Christians to rightly think about the destructive nature of natural disasters and the loss of human life? Where is God in times of crisis? Why doesn't God prevent these types of tragic events?

E224: Book Club #2, Spurgeon the Pastor (Chpt. 1)

Tue, 02 Sep 2025 06:30:00 -0600

This episode covers Chapter 1 (pp. 11-41).

If you'd like to read along, you may purchase a copy here:

Geoff Chang, Spurgeon The Pastor

E223: History of Church Music, Pt. 1 (with Andrew Pressley)

Tue, 26 Aug 2025 06:30:00 -0600

In this epsiode, Duffey is joined by Andrew Pressley for a discussion on the history of music throughout the ages. This is epsiode Part 1 and considers the music of the Early Church and into the Middle Ages (the Medieval Church). On this epsiode, they try to address questions and common concerns like:

How can God's people today think well about the music of the church?
How can we think well about form and style of music in the church?
How can we think better about instrumentation and accompaniment in church music today?
Should we use instruments in worship services? If so, which ones?
Should we sing in unison or with harmonies?
Should we sing together (congregationally) or rely upon professionals to do the singing for us?

All of these questions, and many more, have been asked since the time of the Apostles and the first century and will continue to be asked as long as the church remains. Tune in for a (hopefully) informative conversation!

E222: Systematic Theology, Introduction (with Patrick Covington)

Tue, 19 Aug 2025 06:30:00 -0600

This episode begins a new mini-series on the importance of systematic theology. For this episode, Duffey is joined by Patrick Covington to discuss questions like:

What is systematic theology?
Why should I care about systematic theology?
Is systematic theology practical and useful?
How can the study of systematic theology serve our spiritual growth in Christ?

For further study, see the resources provided below:

Video

R. C. Sproul https://youtu.be/bIRbcmVC1Q0?feature=shared

Articles

Special Edition: "The Christ Key" with Chad Bird (August 2025)

Fri, 15 Aug 2025 06:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Duffey interviews pastor, author, and theologian Chad Bird. Chad has a growing audience in the social media world through his content dealing with issues in biblical studies, biblical Hebrew, the Old Testement, and a Christ-centered view of the whole Bible. His podcast "40 Minutes in the Old Testament" has a growing audience as well. In this episode, we discuss one of his books titled "The Christ Key" where he helps the reader navigate the Old Testament with Christian eyes.

You may check out Chad's books here: https://shop.1517.org/collections/chad-bird

About our guest:

***Chad Bird is a Scholar in Residence at 1517. He holds master’s degrees from Concordia Theological Seminary and Hebrew Union College. He has served as a pastor, professor, and guest lecturer in Old Testament and Hebrew. Chad has authored several books, speaks regularly at conferences and congregations, and cohosts the popular podcast, “40 Minutes in the Old Testament.” Chad and his wife Stacy make their home in Texas, where they have been blessed with four children and three grandchildren.

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***BBC Disclaimer: Chad is a Lutheran theologian and would differ on some key Baptistic and congregational convictions that are held by Believers' Baptist Church. This podcast is not a wholesale affirmation of Lutheranism.

E221: Why should Christians today be familiar with the Nicene Creed?

Tue, 12 Aug 2025 06:30:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason and Duffey discuss the Council of Nicaea (A.D. 325) and the Nicene Creed. This year marks the 1,700th anniversary of the this church council. What do Christians believe about the doctrine of trinity? What do we believe about the person of Christ? The Nicene Creed serves as the classic statement and the orthodox guideline for biblical teaching on the Christian doctrine of God. After listening to the episode, see below for recommended further listening/study.

Mark Dever, sermon on the Council of Nicaea https://www.capitolhillbaptist.org/sermon/nicea-true-god-from-god/
Gavin Ortlund, exposition of the Nicene Creed https://youtu.be/2KuLiL0Am78?si=_01aAwRZy9TuSLNm
R.C. Sproul, on the Nicene Creed https://youtu.be/9QmeBPHOXLY?si=2hB-0bndvaNq0KXt
Michael Reeves, relevance of the Nicene Creed for today https://youtu.be/xN0I5RocSdM?si=jJg0ngYBcNg7zjF2

E220: Book Club #1, Spurgeon the Pastor

Tue, 05 Aug 2025 06:00:00 -0600

Jason and Duffey begin to discuss a book on the pastoral life and theology of the nineteenth-century English Baptist pastor, Charles Haddon Spurgeon. This mini-series will be an on-going series in "book club" style. They will read a chapter and discuss it on an episode each month.

This episode serves as an introduction to the book club, and it covers the book's "Introduction" (pp. 1-10).

If you'd like to read along, you may purchase a copy here:

Geoff Chang, Spurgeon The Pastor

E219: How should we think about the divorces in Ezra 9 and 10?

Tue, 27 May 2025 06:30:00 -0600

In this epsiode, Jason and Duffey consider a Bible question from the book of Ezra. they discuss questions like:

How should we think about the divorces that were called for by Ezra in chapter 10?
Were they legitimate?
Did God's word demand that these divorces must take place?
Or did Ezra go too far?
Are there implications from this passage that we can draw from today in our 21st century context?

Several online resources that are recommended for further reading by Jason and Duffey are listed below.

E218: What is the weekly service preview?

Tue, 13 May 2025 08:40:38 -0600

In this episode, Jason and Duffey discuss the weekly service preview that is sent to all of BBC's members each Thursday. The service preview is designed and intended to provide a discipleship resource for equipping the saints in order to make the most out of the upcoming Lord's Day worship service.

E217: Local Pastors Talk, The Pastor and Counseling

Tue, 29 Apr 2025 06:30:00 -0600

In this episode of Local Pastors Talk, Jason leads a discussing on the pastor as counselor. For this discussion, he is joined by three other local pastors from the Emory, TX area. Together they cover questions like:

Are pastors obligated to provide counsel to others?
What can pastoral counseling look like in the life a church?
Are there difficulties and/or dangers in pastoral counselling?
Should pastors have connections outside the church for referrals in more extreme cases?
Should pastors cooperate with other local pastors in a given community toward the end of assisting one another in the task of counseling?

Episode guests:

Pastor Robert Burns (Miracle Faith Baptist Church, Emory, TX)
Pastor David Banks (Emory Methodist Church, Emory, TX)
Pastor Richard Kellam (Point Church of Christ, Point, TX)

E216: Depression w/Morris Beene

Tue, 15 Apr 2025 06:00:00 -0600

Our friend Morris Beene is back with us for another episode as we discuss issues relating to biblical counseling within the life of the church. For this conversation, we try to help you think biblically about depression. This episode considers questions like:

What does the Bible say about depression?
How can the Bible help address depression?
Is depression real?
Can depression be overcome?

E215: Informal Counseling w/Morris Beene

Tue, 01 Apr 2025 06:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Duffey and Jason are joined with a returning quest of the podcast, Morris Beene. Here, they discuss informal counseling within the life of the local church. Formal counseling has its place, and is necessary, but all Christians engage other Christians informally all the time in conversation. This episode is aimed at helping us all have more meaningful, intentional conversations with our fellow believers.

E214: How Can Doctrine Assist Our Evangelism?

Tue, 25 Mar 2025 06:00:00 -0600

For the final epsiode in our series on evangelism, Jason and Duffey discuss several theological issues relating to it. Some of the topics they cover are regeneration, conversion, who God is is, and how He works in salvation. This episode is aimed at helping us all to think theologically and biblically about evangelism.

E213: What Is Contact Evangelism?

Tue, 18 Mar 2025 06:00:00 -0600

This episode is another entry in our series on evangelism. Jason and Duffey discuss contact evangelism. They talk about what contact evangelism is and ways that Christians may be more confident in one-on-one evangelistic encounters. They explore answers to common practical questions like:

How should we think rightly about encounters with unbelievers?
How should we think rightly about presenting the gospel to an unbeliever?
What sort of expectations should we have?
Are there helpful strategies for our evangelistic encounters?

E212: What Is The Gospel?

Tue, 11 Mar 2025 06:00:00 -0600

In this mini-series on evangelism, Jason and Duffey discuss the question of what exactly do we mean by "the gospel"? They answer the question by first looking at what is not the gospel. Then they discuss what the gospel is. In sum, "the gospel" is the message of good news about Jesus Christ. So, the aim of this episode is to clear away clutter that so often gets brought into the discussion of the gospel as it pertains to personal evangelism.

E211: What About Evangelism?

Tue, 04 Mar 2025 06:30:00 -0600

In this week's episode, Jason and Duffey discuss the topic of evangelism. Evangelism is an important part of the life of every Christian, but it often comes with feelings of guilt, inadequacy, and even apathy. The purpose of this conversation is to help the listener think through common questions like:

What if I don't feel equipped to evangelize?
What if I don't have a desire to evangelize?
What if I am discouraged in my evangelism?

E210: The Scottish Covenanters w/ Mack Tomlinson

Tue, 18 Feb 2025 06:30:00 -0600

Jason and Duffey are joined by a returning guest to the podcast. Mack Tomlinson is an author and long-time pastor at Providence Chapel, Denton, TX. In this episode he shares about his upcoming book on the sufferings and supernaturalism of the 17th century Scottish Covenanters (soon to be published).

Click the link to read his articles published with Banner Of Truth:

https://banneroftruth.org/us/resource-author/tomlinson-mack/?srsltid=AfmBOoq7hba-3mhTJLBCGKrgidpqCpNn0MaGqfR5PaXQPssPKdecTHwl

E209: 2025 Marriage Conference Promo

Tue, 04 Feb 2025 06:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason and Duffey discuss the upcoming marriage weekender titled "This Momentary Marriage" taking place at Believers' Baptist Church, February 14-15, 2025. Jason introduces and offers an overview of the weekend.

E208: Local Pastors Talk, The Call To Vocational Ministry

Tue, 21 Jan 2025 06:00:00 -0600

In this episode of Local Pastors Talk, Jason discusses the pastor's call to ministry. He is joined by three other local pastors from the Emory, TX area. They cover questions like:

What if am called to the ministry?
How can I know I am called to ministry?
Are there helps in discerning a call to ministry?
What is it like to surrender to a call to ministry?

Episode guests:

Pastor Robert Burns (Miracle Faith Baptist Church, Emory, TX)
Pastor David Banks (Emory Methodist Church, Emory, TX)
Pastor Richard Kellam (Point Church of Christ, Point, TX)

E207: What About Bible Reading Plans?

Tue, 07 Jan 2025 06:00:00 -0600

Jason and Duffey kick off the new year of 2025 with an episode discussing the challenges and benefits of personal Bible reading plans.

E206: Our Sympathetic High Priest, An Implication Of The Incarnation, Pt. 2

Tue, 24 Dec 2024 06:00:00 -0600

In this epsiode, Jason and Duffey discuss the mystery of the incarnation of Christ. What is the significance of the incarnation? What does it mean that God became man? This episode is Part 2 of a 2-Part series.

E205: Our Sympathetic High Priest, An Implication Of The Incarnation, Pt. 1

Tue, 10 Dec 2024 06:00:00 -0600

E204: Respectable Sins, Unthankfulness

Tue, 26 Nov 2024 06:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason and Duffey discuss a chaper from Jerry Bridges' book Respectable Sins; in particular, the sin of unthankfulness. This conversation centers around the Christian's obligation to give God thanks in all circumstances in life.

E203: Respectable Sins, Ungodliness

Tue, 12 Nov 2024 06:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason and Duffey discuss chapter 7 of Jerry Bridges' book, Respectable Sins. This chapter is titled "Ungodliness."

E202: Local Pastors Talk, Grief/Crisis Ministry

Tue, 29 Oct 2024 06:00:00 -0600

In this episode of Local Pastors Talk, Jason and Duffey discuss the pastor's role in ministering to the grieving. They are joined by two other local pastors in the Emory, TX area as they consider the responsibilites and challenges involved.

Episode guests:

Pastor Robert Burns (Miracle Faith Baptist Church, Emory, TX)
Pastor David Banks (Emory Methodist Church, Emory, TX)

E201: Respectable Sins, Intro, Pt. 2

Tue, 15 Oct 2024 06:00:00 -0600

Jason and Duffey further discuss the opening chapters of Jerry Bridges' modern classic, Respectable Sins. Among other things, this episode covers the Holy Spirit's role in sanctification and several practical steps in fighting sin.

E200: 200 Eps.! / Respectable Sins, Introduction

Tue, 01 Oct 2024 06:00:00 -0600

In its 200th episode, Jason and Duffey reminisce about the history of the Asking For A Friend podcast and celebrate God's work in using the podcast to benefit many in our local church and beyond. They also introduce a new segment for Fall 2024 where they will discusss a book by Jerry Bridges titled 'Respectable Sins'.

E199: Local Pastors Talk, Friendship

Tue, 17 Sep 2024 06:00:00 -0600

In this episode of Local Pastors Talk, Jason discusses the importance of friendship in the life of the pastor and in the local church. He is joined by three other local pastors in the Emory, TX area as they consider how friendship is a necessary component in the life of every pastor.

Episode guests:

Pastor Robert Burns
Pastor David Banks
Pastor Richard Kellum

E198: Welcome Back! A New Podcast Season Begins (Fall 2024)

Tue, 03 Sep 2024 06:00:00 -0600

Jason and Duffey welcome listeners back after taking a break over Summer 2024. Now, kicking things off for Fall 2024, the guys give a preview of what is to come in future episodes. Stay tuned for more God-honoring content for the local church!

E195: Gideon's Fleece, Pt. 2 (Judges 6)

Tue, 18 Jun 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In part 2 of a 2-part series, Jason and Duffey discuss the story of Gideon in Judges 6. They walk through the story providing commentary and helpful thoughts on how it should be read and understand. Does the story of "Gideon's fleece" warrant the putting out of fleeces before God today? Is this story a helpful guide for Christians today in seeking the will of God for their lives? In this episode, they answer these questions and more.

E194: Gideon's Fleece, Pt. 1 (Judges 6)

Tue, 11 Jun 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In part 1 of a 2-part series, Jason and Duffey discuss the story of Gideon in Judges 6. They walk through the story providing commentary and helpful thoughts on how it should be read and understand. Does the story of "Gideon's fleece" warrant the putting out of fleeces before God today? Is this story a helpful guide for Christians today in seeking the will of God for their lives? In this episode, they answer these questions and more.

E193: Marriage to an Unbelieving Spouse (Biblical Counseling) w/Morris Beene

Tue, 04 Jun 2024 00:00:00 -0600

Morris Beene returns as a guest to discuss biblical counseling and marriage to an unbelieving spouse. Morris has been in the practice of biblical counseling since the 1980s and he brings helpful wisdom to bear on the issue.

E192: Practical Helps in Dealing With Anxiety (Biblical Counseling) w/Morris Beene

Tue, 28 May 2024 04:00:00 -0600

Morris Beene returns as a guest to discuss biblical counseling and anxiety. Morris has been in the practice of biblical counseling since the 1980s and he brings helpful wisdom to bear on the issue.

E191: Practical Helps in Dealing With Anger (Biblical Counseling) w/Morris Beene

Tue, 21 May 2024 05:00:00 -0600

Morris Beene returns as a guest to discuss biblical counseling and anger. Morris has been in the practice of biblical counseling since the 1980s and he brings helpful wisdom to bear on the issue.

E190: The Sufficiency of Scripture (N.M.S., Ep. 10)

Tue, 14 May 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In another episode in the New Members Series, Jason and Duffey discuss BBC's doctrinal distinctive titled, "The Sufficiency of Scripture."

Our church distinctives page can be found here.

E189: Misused Bible Verses, James 5:13-18

Tue, 07 May 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In another epsiode tackling "tough texts," Jason and Duffey discuss James 5:13-18. This passage has caused confusion surrounding the use and purpose of prayer in the life of those who are suffering. Here, they discuss how we can think carefully about this passage, its interpretation, and its application for us today.

E188: A Biblical Perspective on Suffering

Tue, 30 Apr 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason and Duffey discuss what the Bible says about suffering and the life of the Christian. In anticipation of next week's epsiode on James 5, this will serve as helpful biblical context for our following episode, E189.

E187: A Biblical Understanding of Deacons (N.M.S. Ep. 9)

Tue, 23 Apr 2024 07:02:50 -0600

In another episode for our New Members Series, Duffey talks with two of BBC's deacons, Cole Middleton and David Brendle. Here, they discuss the biblical precedent and expectations for deacons within the life of the local church.

E186: More on Congregationalism

Tue, 16 Apr 2024 09:11:40 -0600

In this episode, Jason and Duffey further discuss congregationalism in a follow-up conversation to our previous interview with pastor Michael Lawrence. Here, the guys discuss some common objections to congregationalism and also talk about the church member's "job responsibilities." (Be sure to listen to Ep. 185 before listening to this one for necessary context.)

E185: What is Congregationalism? w/Michael Lawrence

Tue, 09 Apr 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Duffey and Jason interview Dr. Michael Lawrence about "congregationalism." This is an important conversation because Believers' Baptist Church is a congregational church. In this episode, topics discussed are church leadership/government, the congregation's authority, church membership, church discipline, and etc. from a biblical and Baptist perspective.

About our guest:

Michael Lawrence (PhD, University of Cambridge; MDiv, Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary; BA, Duke University) is lead pastor of Hinson Baptist Church in Portland, Oregon, and is a Council member of The Gospel Coalition. He is the author of several books, including Biblical Theology in the Life of the Church, Conversion: How God Creates a People, Ezekiel: A 12-Week Study (Knowing the Bible), and with Mark Dever, It Is Well: Expositions on Substitutionary Atonement. He and his wife, Adrienne, have five children.

E182: 9Marks Weekender for Pastors Recap

Tue, 19 Mar 2024 00:00:00 -0600

Recently, Jason, Kyle, and Duffey went to a 9Marks Weekender Pastors Conference in Austin, TX. It was a blessing for them offering great encouragement and good reminders. Listen in to catch a synopsis of the weekend from Jason and Duffey.

9Marks

https://www.9marks.org/

E181: Misused Bible Verses, Romans 8:28

Tue, 12 Mar 2024 09:55:39 -0600

In this episode, Jason and Duffey discuss a familiar Bible verse that many Christians love and cherish. Romans 8:28 provides much comfort to the Christian in this life that often brings difficulty, pain, and heartache. How should we think rightly about this verse? How does this verse apply to me or others? Who does this verse apply to? The guys consider these questions and more in the episode.

E180: Church Discipline, Pt. 2 (N.M.S. Ep. 8)

Tue, 05 Mar 2024 10:39:44 -0600

In this episode (Part 2), Jason, Duffey, and Kyle discuss church discipline. Church discipline is a biblical practice that is often misunderstood, abused, or rejected altogether. It is also a mark of a biblically healthy church. Here, the guys talk about the biblical basis for it, practical challenges, and member care throughout the process of church discipline when the need arises.

E179: Church Discipline, Pt. 1 (N.M.S. Ep. 7)

Tue, 27 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason, Duffey, and Kyle discuss church discipline. Church discipline is a biblical practice that is often misunderstood, abused, or rejected altogether. It is also a mark of a biblically healthy church. Here, the guys talk about the biblical basis for it, practical challenges, and member care throughout the process of church discipline when the need arises.

E178:"The Indomitable Brainerds" with Mack Tomlinson

Tue, 20 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In light of BBC's annual February missions emphasis, Jason and Duffey interview Pastor Mack Tomlinson about his recent book, The Indomitable Brainerds with Reformation Heritage Books. In his book, Tomlinson recounts the life and legacy of the Brainerd brothers, David and John. These brothers were American missionaries to northern Indian tribes in the mid-1700s.

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Mack Tomlinson was ordained to the gospel ministry in 1977 in his home church of First Baptist Church of Clarendon, Texas. He holds a BA degree in New Testament from Hardin-Simmons University in Abilene, Texas and has done graduate studies in Israel, and through Southwestern Baptist Seminary in Fort Worth and Tyndale Theological Seminary in Fort Worth. His writings include In Light of Eternity: The Life of Leonard Ravenhill and Grace and Truth: The Life of Conrad Murrell, both available through Providence Chapel. Mack also conducts an itinerant preaching ministry around the United States and overseas. He has been married to his wife Linda for 41 years and they have six children and nine grandchildren.

E177: Why should I study church history? (Pt. 2)

Tue, 13 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In this 2-part series, Jason and Duffey discuss how important it is for Christians to be knowledgeable about church history. Church history is the story of God's people, the church, throughout the last 2,000 years and it traces God's providential and preserving hand through it all. So, should you study church history? Yes! Here, in this episode and the next, 6 reasons are given as to why every Christian should study church history.

E176: Why should I study church history? (Pt. 1)

Tue, 06 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0600

E175: The Sovereignty of God in Salvation, Pt. 2 (N.M.S. Ep. 6)

Tue, 30 Jan 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason, Patrick, and Duffey discuss a BBC distinctive titled "The Sovereignty of God in Salvation." (This is part 2 of a 2-part episode.) They raise relevant issues surrounding this topic and treat it from a pastoral point of view. This episode is directed at prospective or new church members and is intended to be a helpful supplement to the New Members' Class.

E174: The Sovereignty of God in Salvation, Pt. 1 (N.M.S. Ep. 5)

Tue, 23 Jan 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason, Patrick, and Duffey discuss a BBC distinctive titled "The Sovereignty of God in Salvation." They raise relevant issues surrounding this topic and treat it from a pastoral point of view. This episode is directed at prospective or new church members and is intended to be a helpful supplement to the New Members' Class.

E173: What is it like growing up as a pastor’s kid?

Tue, 16 Jan 2024 00:00:00 -0600

This episode features two guests of the podcast, Brady and Bree Allie Rolen, pastor Jason's kids. Duffey and Jason facilitate a conversation around what it was like for them growing up as children of a full-time pastor. This is a fun, lively conversation that you don't want to miss!

E172: Misused Bible Verses, Psalm 46:10

Tue, 09 Jan 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Duffey and Jason discuss a commonly misused and misunderstood Bible verse, Psalm 46:10. Here, they discuss the context of Psalm 46 as a unit and then suggest how it can be faithfully interpreted and applied. Tune in for a quick dive into the Word of God!

E170: Misused Bible Verses, Proverbs 22:6

Tue, 21 Nov 2023 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason and Duffey discuss a familiar bible verse as it relates to children, parenting, and family life. Does God promise parents a result of "good children" if parents do their part in training faithfully? Does this verse offer a guarantee or a general principle?

E169: ACBC Recap and BBCC Ministry Update (Pt. 2)

Tue, 14 Nov 2023 09:42:18 -0600

In this episode (Part 2), Duffey, Jason, and Jerod & Whtiney Haygood discuss a recent conference they attended together. They also discuss Believers' Baptist's new Biblical Counseling Center and ways that others may support and be involved in the ministry.

Helpful Links:

For more information about Believers' Baptist Counseling Center, see this link: https://www.bbcemory.org/believersbiblicalcounselingcenter
For information about the Association of Certifed Biblical Counselors, see this link: https://biblicalcounseling.com/

E168: ACBC Recap and BBCC Ministry Update (Pt. 1)

Tue, 07 Nov 2023 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Duffey, Jason, and Jerod & Whtiney Haygood discuss a recent conference they attended together. They also discuss Believers' Baptist's new Biblical Counseling Center and ways that others may support and be involved in the ministry.

Helpful Links:

For more information about Believers' Baptist Counseling Center, see this link: https://www.bbcemory.org/believersbiblicalcounselingcenter
For information about the Association of Certifed Biblical Counselors, see this link: https://biblicalcounseling.com/

E166: Thinking biblically about the recent attack on Israel

Tue, 24 Oct 2023 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason and Duffey briefly discuss a recent current event that has everybody talking: the recent attack on the nation of Israel. Among other things, they discuss biblical worldview as the proper starting point for thinking rightly about all that has happened.

Should we pray for Israel?
How should we pray?
Is this event a "signpost" helping us navigate the "endtimes?"
Is the end near?

Regarding these types of questions, Pastor Jason offers some helpful commentary and thoughts.

E165: Guest Interview, Amy Davison (Mama Bear Apologetics)

Tue, 17 Oct 2023 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Duffey interviews one of the speakers on the Mama Bear Apologetics team, Amy Davison. For information about their ministry, check out their website here: https://mamabearapologetics.com/

E164: Who is Martin Luther? (O.D.G. Ep. 6)

Tue, 10 Oct 2023 12:33:20 -0600

In this edition of the Old Dead Guys Series, Jason and Duffey discuss a key figure from the the sixteenth century Protestant Reformation. Here, we consider the life and legacy of the famous German reformer, Martin Luther.

Further resources:

Luther Documentary

"Here I Stand" / Luther Biography by Roland Bainton

"The Unquenchable Flame" / Introduction to the Reformation by Michael Reeves

E163: What does it mean to ”grieve the Holy Spirit?”

Tue, 03 Oct 2023 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Duffey and Jason consider an interesting passage taken from Ephesians 4:30. They seek to bring clarity to the Apostle Paul's warning to Christians not to "grieve the Holy Spirit."

E161: Biblical Eldership (N.M.S. Ep. 4)

Tue, 19 Sep 2023 00:00:00 -0600

In this edition of the New Members Series, Patrick Covington and Kyle Slaymaker sit down with Duffey to discuss another of Believers' Baptist Church's theological distinctives: Biblical eldership. This episode is designed to supplement the new members class held twice per year for prospective members desiring church membership at BBC.

E160: Who is Martyn Lloyd-Jones? (O.D.G. Ep. 5)

Tue, 12 Sep 2023 00:00:00 -0600

In this latest edition of the Old Dead Guys Series, Jason and Duffey discuss the life and legacy of Dr. Martyn Lloyd-Jones. Lloyd-Jones, a native of Wales, pastored at the famous Westminster Chapel in London, England throughout the 1940s-1960s. His preaching and teaching ministry had a global impact and he remains an important figure even today.

To listen to Lloyd-Jones' sermon audio archive, click the link below:

https://www.mljtrust.org/

To watch the wonderful documentary entitled "Logic on Fire" click the link below:

https://www.mediagratiae.org/logic-on-fire

E159: What is the crown of life?

Tue, 05 Sep 2023 00:00:00 -0600

Season 4 of the Asking For A Friend podcast kicks off with a "Bible Question" from James 1:12. In this episode, Jason and Duffey discuss the question "What is the crown of life?"

E158: Guest Interview, Dr. James R. White

Tue, 04 Jul 2023 00:00:00 -0600

In this edition of our "Interview Series," we are priviledged to have Dr. James R. White on to discuss several topics. Dr. White is Founder and Director of Alpha & Omega Ministries, a global apologetics ministry celebrating 40 years in 2023.

To learn more about Alpha & Omega Ministries, click here: https://www.aomin.org/aoblog/

E157: Truth or Territory - A Guest Interview with Pastor Jim Osman

Tue, 20 Jun 2023 00:00:00 -0600

In this unique episode, Duffey interviews pastor Jim Osman about one his recent books entitled "Truth or Territory". This book makes the case for the application of the sufficiency of Scripture in the life a believer regarding spiritual warfare. Pastor Osman tackles tricky issues like:

What is spiritual warfare?
How should we think rightly about Satan and his tactics?
Is what the Bible teaches us sufficient for engaging in spiritual warfare?
Have we missed the point of Paul's illustration of the "armor of God" in Ephesians 6?

We hope this episode is helpful to you. Below are some helpful links:

Book information and where to purchase a copy

https://jimosman.com/books/truth-or-territory/

Jim's church's website https://kootenaichurch.org/

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E156: Israel Trip Recap

Tue, 06 Jun 2023 00:20:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason Rolen and Linda Brindle talk about the recent BBC trip to Israel.

E155: What is the Lord’s Supper? (N.M.S. Ep. 3)

Tue, 30 May 2023 08:51:42 -0600

In this new mini-series-- the "New Members Series"-- within the life of the podcast, the fundamentals of the faith along with the distinctives of Believers' Baptist Church will be discussed. The purpose of the series is to provide content specifically for new Christians as well as prospective or new members to our own congregation.

For further listening, we recommend this podcast from the *Theocast Podcast:

https://theocast.org/what-happened-to-communion/ (There are even more resources on the Theocast page if you follow the link.)

*Disclaimer: We are indebted to the faithful work of Jon Moffitt and Justin Perdue of Theocast.org along with their episodes on the sacraments. Any apparent plagerism of content is unintended and all credit goes to Theocast where they are quoted and not cited.

E154: What is Baptism? (N.M.S. Ep. 2)

Tue, 23 May 2023 00:00:00 -0600

In this new mini-series-- the "New Members Series"-- within the life of the podcast, the fundamentals of the faith along with the disctinctives of Believers' Baptist Church will be discussed. The purpose of the series is to provide content specifically for new Christians as well as prospective or new members to our own congregation.

For further listening, we recommend this podcast from the *Theocast Podcast: https://theocast.org/what-happened-to-baptism/

E153: Who is Charles H. Spurgeon? (O.D.G. Ep. 4)

Tue, 16 May 2023 00:00:00 -0600

In another installment of "The Old Dead Guys Series," Jason and Duffey discuss renowned 19th century English Baptist preacher, Charles Haddon Spurgeon.

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E152: What is Biblical Womanhood?

Tue, 09 May 2023 00:00:00 -0600

In this round-table discussion, we cover womanhood from a biblical perspective. Three BBC members--Linda Brendle, Natalie Slaymaker, and Trisha Alexander--join Duffey for this important and much needed conversation. This episode is recorded in light of the upcoming Mother's Day 2023.

E151: Thinking Better About the National Day of Prayer

Tue, 02 May 2023 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Jason and Duffey discuss the annual National Day of Prayer and how Christians can think better about it. They consider questions like:

Should Christians pray for a revival in America?
Does God promise to bring a national revival?
How should we pray for our country and its leadership?

E150: 25 Years of God’s Faithfulness

Tue, 25 Apr 2023 00:00:00 -0600

In this special episode, Pastor Jason Rolen gives a brief history of the first 25 years of Believers' Baptist Church's history. This episode marks the week of Believers' 25th Anniversary!

All glory to God for His faithfulness!

E149: Passion Week According To The Plan

Thu, 20 Apr 2023 12:02:56 -0600

In this follow-up episode, continuing on themes surrounding Easter, Tyler Milliken discusses specific Old Testament prophecies fullfied in the "Passion Week" of Jesus. Key texts considered in this episode are the Upper Room Discourse in John's gospel account, Psalm 34, and Exodus 12.

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