Key Timestamps: 00:01 – Introduction 00:23 – Meet Romi Schwartz 00:31 – Journey into Family Law 01:42 – Passion for Law and People 02:20 – Experience in Legal Aid 03:21 – Handling Domestic Violence Cases 04:13 – Importance of Safety Plans 05:03 – Team Approach at Nelson Law Group 05:59 – Advice for Women in Law 07:08 – Gender and Advocacy in Family Law 07:53 – Lessons from Client Transitions 08:32 – Closing Thoughts on Empathy

About the Show: Counsel and Community is a podcast dedicated to providing practical legal insights and personal growth strategies. Hosted by Lisa Mosbey and the Nelson Law Group team, the show explores various legal challenges and offers tips for financial well-being and personal development. With a focus on clarity and empathy, each episode aims to empower listeners with the knowledge and tools they need to navigate life's complexities. Whether you're facing a legal issue or seeking personal growth, Counsel and Community delivers valuable content to help you thrive.

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Key Timestamps: 00:01 – Introduction 00:11 – Meet Sarah Green: Her Journey 00:50 – From Foster Care to Divorce Coaching 02:12 – Role of a Divorce Coach 03:31 – Emotional Regulation in Divorce 04:29 – Importance of Sleep in Emotional Management 05:51 – Co-Parenting and Blended Families 07:26 – Mediation Process Explained 08:39 – Creative Mediation Solutions 09:10 – Financial Awareness for Women 10:18 – Key Takeaways from Divorce Coaching

About the Show: Counsel and Community is a podcast that bridges the gap between legal insights and real-life impact. Designed for individuals navigating legal changes, the show offers practical guidance on personal growth and financial well-being. Each episode features experts from the Nelson Law Group, who share their knowledge and experiences to help listeners make informed decisions. With a focus on clarity and actionable advice, Counsel and Community aims to empower its audience to face life's challenges with confidence and resilience.

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In this episode, the Nelson Law Group discusses the detrimental effects of unnecessary legal battles on individuals and families. From the financial toll to the emotional and physical health consequences, the episode emphasizes the importance of avoiding court battles whenever possible. The discussion highlights how conflicts can escalate due to emotional factors and unrealistic expectations, leading to long-lasting negative impacts on relationships and children.

Key Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction

00:23 – Why fighting in court may not be worth it

01:17 – Understanding the costs of conflict

02:41 – Factors drawing people into unnecessary litigation

04:13 – Examples of benefits from avoiding court battles

05:33 – Personal experiences shaping views on avoiding conflict

07:10 – Strategies to help clients avoid unnecessary conflict

08:07 – Red flags indicating an attorney fueling conflict

08:38 – Importance of compromise and seeking solutions

09:48 – Encouraging mindful decision-making in legal disputes

About the Show:

*Counsel and Community* is a podcast where legal insights intersect with real-life impact. Join the Nelson Law Group team as they provide practical guidance for navigating legal challenges while offering tips for personal growth and financial well-being.

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In this episode, the Nelson Law Group team dives into the evolution of client care in the legal field, emphasizing the importance of addressing emotional and mental health aspects during legal proceedings. Discover how a value-based approach has transformed post-COVID client interactions, focusing on providing emotional support and practical guidance alongside legal representation.

Key Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction

00:23 – Addressing emotional and mental health in legal proceedings

01:00 – Evolution of client care post-COVID

02:05 – Putting people first in legal roles

02:38 – Understanding clients on a deeper level for better service

03:04 – Community involvement as a reflection of core values

03:39 – Importance of being active in community service

04:22 – Mindful moment: Prioritizing important relationships

About the Show:

*Counsel and Community* is a podcast dedicated to providing practical guidance on legal challenges while fostering personal growth and financial well-being. Join the Nelson Law Group team as they share insights on navigating legal complexities with a human-centric approach.

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Key Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction 00:22 – Importance of case preparation 01:07 – Proactive approach of the notes in law group team 02:36 – Behind the scenes for a Divorce Care Specialist 03:42 – Emotional support in divorce cases 05:39 – The cost of legal representation 07:15 – Mindful moment: Showing gratitude

About the Show: Counsel and Community provides practical guidance on navigating legal challenges while offering tips for personal growth and financial well-being. Join us for insightful discussions with legal experts and professionals. Apple - https://apps.apple.com/us/app/nelson-law-group-pc/id6738844277 Google Play - https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=app.android.nelsonlaw

Key Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction 00:24 – Contrasting legal approaches 01:13 – Evolution of practice mindset 02:29 – Importance of paralegal support 03:26 – Red flags in hiring legal representation 04:19 – Training team with core values 04:58 – Status of the legal industry 06:13 – Mindful moment: Qualities to seek in an advocate

About the Show: Counsel and Community offers practical guidance on navigating legal challenges, focusing on legal insights with real-life impact. The show provides tips for personal growth, financial well-being, and effective legal solutions.

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Key Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction 00:30 – Emotional attachment to belongings in property division 01:44 – Distinction between community and separate property in Texas 03:32 – Debunking myths about fair asset division in divorce 05:02 – Assumptions about an equal split in divorce 06:19 – Valuing complex assets like retirement accounts and businesses 08:03 – Maintaining emotional distance in handling divorce cases 08:50 – Practical advice on deciding whether to keep the house in a divorce 11:01 – Valuation challenges and solutions for assets like stock options and pensions 12:48 – Mindful approach to property division and decision-making in divorce 13:28 – Closing remarks and advice for viewers

About the Show: *Counsel and Community* provides practical guidance for navigating legal challenges while offering tips for personal growth and financial well-being. The show aims to empower viewers with insights from legal experts to make informed decisions during life's transitions.

In this episode, the attorney and his team delve into the importance of being a credible client in family law cases. They discuss the significance of preparation, clear communication, and emotional regulation in courtroom outcomes. The guests share powerful de-escalation techniques for managing tense exchanges and offer valuable insights on how to show up as your best self in high-stress legal situations.

Key Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction

00:27 – The meaning of being a credible client in family law cases

01:01 – Role of preparation and clear communication in courtroom confidence

01:59 – Significance of emotional regulation in legal outcomes

03:45 – Powerful de-escalation techniques for managing tense exchanges

07:05 – Starting the inner work for personal growth in legal challenges

About the Show:

*Counsel and Community* is a podcast where legal insight meets real-life impact. Join the Nelson Law Group team as they provide practical guidance on navigating legal challenges while offering tips for personal growth and financial wellbeing.

This episode delves into the nuances of pre-marital, post-marital, and cohabitation agreements, shedding light on their importance in safeguarding assets and relationships. The discussion explores the reasons behind creating these agreements, the misconceptions surrounding them, and how they can actually strengthen relationships by providing clarity and accountability.

Key Timestamps:

- 00:00 – Introduction

- 00:34 – Explaining pre-marital and post-marital agreements

- 01:30 – Understanding cohabitation agreements

- 05:02 – Importance of clear property division in agreements

- 06:42 – Approaching conversations about agreements without eroding trust

- 08:59 – Strengthening relationships through agreements

- 10:02 – Choose values you want to protect 

About the Show: 

*Counsel and Community* brings legal insights to everyday life, offering practical guidance on legal challenges while imparting tips for personal growth and financial well-being. Join the Nelson Law Group team as they navigate the complexities of law with a focus on empowering individuals to make informed decisions.

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In this episode, Brett A. Nelson, Founding Attorney of Nelson Law Group, PC, and Sarah Green, Certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach and Certified Advanced Mediator, share insights on how owning a business complicates divorce proceedings. They discuss the importance of accurate record-keeping, determining business valuation, emotional stressors faced by business owners during divorce, and offer advice on balancing the end of a marriage with the future of a business.

Key Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction

01:30 – Common misconceptions about business ownership and divorce

01:15 – Steps for business owners to protect their interests during divorce

02:27 – Determining the value of a business in a divorce case

04:04 – Unique stressors faced by business owners during divorce

05:11 – Advice for balancing the end of a marriage with the future of a business

08:30 - Mindful Moment on business inventory

About the Show:

*Counsel and Community* is a podcast where legal insight meets real-life impact. Join the Nelson Law Group team as they provide practical guidance on navigating legal challenges while offering tips for personal growth and financial well-being.

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Key Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction to helping your attorney help you 01:20 – Why honesty and transparency matter in every case 03:00 – How communication habits affect custody outcomes 05:00 – The importance of being organized and timely with documents 07:10 – Sarah on separating emotions from facts 09:00 – Managing stress and overwhelm during a case 11:00 – Brett on clear communication and realistic expectations 13:00 – Mindful moment: Create a case snapshot for better clarity

About the Show: Counsel and Community brings together experienced attorneys from Nelson Law Group to share practical legal insights and personal growth advice. Each episode helps families navigate divorce, custody, and life’s legal challenges with confidence, clarity, and compassion.

Key Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction to common custody mistakes 01:15 – Why unclear custody orders cause future disputes 03:00 – How vague parenting terms lead to court battles 05:00 – Example of confusion over visitation schedules 06:45 – Sarah explains how children absorb parental conflict 08:30 – The emotional damage of putting kids in the middle 10:00 – Brett’s advice: think long-term and model healthy behavior 12:00 – Mindful moment: Reflect on how your actions affect your child

About the Show: Counsel and Community brings together attorneys from Nelson Law Group to share real-life legal insight and personal growth advice. Each episode offers practical guidance to help families navigate divorce, custody, finances, and life’s toughest transitions with clarity and confidence.

Key Timestamps:

00:00 – Understanding how money affects relationships 01:20 – Why separate bank accounts can lead to problems 03:45 – How financial control can turn into manipulation 06:00 – Sarah shares advice for women to gain financial independence 08:15 – The importance of shared financial responsibility 10:00 – Simple steps to build trust through open communication 12:00 – Mindful moment: Take control of your financial knowledge

About the Show: Counsel and Community brings together experienced attorneys from Nelson Law Group to share real-world legal insights and practical advice for life’s challenges. Each episode is designed to help listeners make informed, confident decisions about their family, finances, and future.

Key Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction to co-parenting during the holidays 01:10 – Common legal issues around holiday visitation 02:30 – Why flexibility matters more than the date itself 04:00 – Importance of including standard possession schedules in decrees 05:20 – How to handle disputes over holiday schedules 07:00 – The power of saying “yes” and prioritizing the children’s needs 08:30 – Reframing the holidays: Sarah on creating new traditions after divorce 09:45 – How kindness and cooperation impact children’s holiday experience 10:30 – Mindful Moment: Brainstorming new family traditions

About the Show: Counsel and Community brings together experienced attorneys from the Nelson Law Group to share practical legal insights and personal growth advice. Each episode offers compassionate guidance on family law, divorce, and co-parenting — helping families move forward with clarity and confidence.

Sarah Green, Certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach and Family Law Non-Attorney Mediator, shares insights on the importance of allowing opportunities to come to us rather than constantly seeking them out. She reflects on her personal journey, including fostering children, transitioning into energy work, navigating divorce, and stepping into a space of receptiveness. Sarah emphasizes the power of rest, receiving, and self-awareness in achieving success and fulfillment.

Key Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction

02:45 – Stepping into fostering and adoption

06:10 – Transitioning into energy work

09:25 – Lessons from divorce and financial independence

13:15 – Challenges of stepmotherhood and seeking help

16:40 – Learning to receive and attract positive outcomes

20:00 – Practicing self-reflection and changing core beliefs

23:30 – Collaborating in family law and mental health

26:15 – Launching the podcast "Counseling Community"

About the Show:

*Counsel and Community* is a platform dedicated to exploring personal growth, professional development, and holistic well-being. Through insightful conversations and practical advice, our guests share valuable perspectives on navigating life's challenges and embracing opportunities for transformation.

What You Will Learn in This Episode:

• Why waiting at least six months before introducing a new partner to children is important
• How to prepare kids emotionally for changes in family structure
• Key conversations couples should have before merging households
• The four stages of step-parenting and how to navigate them
• Why discipline, authority, and parenting roles must be clearly defined
• How cultural stereotypes affect stepmothers and why community support is vital
• The importance of prioritizing children’s well-being over adult desires

Key Timestamps:

00:02 – How soon is too soon to introduce a new partner to children? 00:05 – Preparing kids for change and why their stability comes first 00:07 – Should you tell your children when you start dating again? 00:09 – Key discussions couples need before blending families 00:11 – Why “mom” and “dad” titles should be earned, not forced 00:13 – Sarah’s four stages of step-parenting 00:15 – Discipline, authority, and defining parenting roles 00:17 – Treating stepchildren like your best friend’s kids 00:18 – Sarah’s mindful moment: finding resources and community for blended families

About the Show:

Counsel and Community blends legal insights with practical advice for personal growth, healthy relationships, and financial well-being. Hosted by the Nelson Law Group team, the show offers actionable tips to help couples navigate life’s challenges, strengthen marriages, and make intentional decisions that align with their values.

In this episode, Sarah Green, Certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach and Family Law Non-Attorney Mediator, shares practical and honest insights on dating after divorce. From understanding why rushing into a new relationship often leads to repeated mistakes, to recognizing the importance of self-reflection and value work, Sarah helps listeners understand how to prepare for healthy, long-term relationships. Alongside Brett Nelson, she highlights the legal, emotional, and family considerations of dating too soon, especially when children are involved.

What You Will Learn in This Episode:

• Why dating before your divorce is finalized can create legal and emotional setbacks
• The risks of jumping into a new relationship too quickly
• How self-reflection and value work shape healthier partnerships
• The importance of involving trusted family and friends in your dating decisions
• Common legal challenges parents face when dating post-divorce
• Actionable steps to ensure you’re truly ready for a new relationship

Key Timestamps:

00:01 – Is it okay to date before a divorce is finalized? 00:05 – Typical divorce timelines and why patience is key 00:07 – The importance of reflection and understanding your role in the divorce 00:10 – Sarah’s value-based approach to preparing for dating 00:12 – Why outside input from family and friends matters 00:14 – Legal and custody issues that come with dating too soon 00:16 – The role of self-awareness in moving forward 00:18 – Final takeaways: What to bring into a relationship

About the Show:

Counsel and Community blends legal insights with practical advice for personal growth, healthy relationships, and financial well-being. Hosted by the Nelson Law Group team, the show offers actionable tips to help couples navigate life’s challenges, strengthen marriages, and make intentional decisions that align with their values.

What You Will Learn in This Episode:

• Why “winning” in co-parenting battles is a harmful mindset
• How toxic communication between parents impacts children’s mental health and development
• The role of co-parenting tools and apps in reducing conflict
• Practical strategies to improve communication and focus on the child’s best interest
• How flexibility in custody agreements can benefit both parents and children
• A mindful approach to building positivity toward your co-parent

Key Timestamps:

02:30 – Why the idea of “winning” custody damages families 05:00 – Shifting the focus back to the child’s needs 07:40 – How toxic co-parenting affects children long-term 09:30 – Tools and apps that improve co-parent communication 12:50 – The importance of documenting communication for custody cases 15:00 – Flexibility in custody agreements and why it matters 16:30 – Mindful moment: Finding positives in your co-parent

About the Show:

Counsel and Community blends legal insights with practical advice for personal growth, healthy relationships, and financial well-being. Hosted by the Nelson Law Group team, the show offers actionable tips to help couples navigate life’s challenges, strengthen marriages, and make intentional decisions that align with their values.

What You Will Learn in This Episode:

• How to become a foster parent and what the licensing process involves
• Common misconceptions about foster care and adoption
• The real reasons children are removed from homes, including neglect and drug use
• The legal process for adoption and interventions in Texas
• How biological parents’ rights are treated under the “fit parent presumption”
• Ways non-parents, relatives, and step-parents can gain standing in a child’s case
• Practical advice for families considering fostering or adopting
• How community members can support foster children without becoming foster parents

Key Timestamps:

00:02 – How to become a foster parent: licensing, training, and home study 00:04 – Misconceptions about foster parents and financial motives 00:05 – Neglect, drug use, and why most children enter foster care 00:07 – The goal of reunification with biological parents and service plans 00:09 – How fostering impacts families who already have children 00:10 – Legal challenges in adoption and interventions for non-parents 00:13 – Foster parents’ rights after one year of care 00:15 – Ways to support foster care without fostering (respite care, CASA, mentorship) 00:17 – Sarah’s mindful moment: find ways to support underserved youth in your community

About the Show:

Counsel and Community blends legal insights with practical advice for personal growth, healthy relationships, and financial well-being. Hosted by the Nelson Law Group team, the show offers actionable tips to help couples navigate life’s challenges, strengthen marriages, and make intentional decisions that align with their values.

Key Timestamps: 00:00 – Show introduction 01:05 – How parents lose sight of their marriage by prioritizing kids 03:32 – Simple ways to stay intentional in your relationship 06:10 – The importance of valuing the stay-at-home spouse and self-care 09:08 – How misplaced priorities can lead to toxic tolerance in marriage 11:26 – Aligning actions with personal and family priorities 15:15 – Living out priorities that aren’t truly your own 18:22 – A success story: How shifting priorities saved a marriage 24:40 – Adjusting priorities based on your current season of life 28:55 – Creative ways to make time for your relationship (A-to-Z date nights) 33:17 – Why fighting for your marriage is worth it

About the Show: Counsel and Community blends legal insights with practical advice for personal growth, healthy relationships, and financial well-being. Hosted by the Nelson Law Group team, the show offers actionable tips to help couples navigate life’s challenges, strengthen marriages, and make intentional decisions that align with their values.

The conversation explores how focusing solely on children can unintentionally create distance between spouses, why resentment builds when unspoken expectations aren’t met, and how hyper-independence can undermine a marriage. Brett emphasizes the importance of intentional time and respect in a partnership, while Sarah reflects on her own experiences, highlighting the need to allow space for a partner to step up and contribute.

The episode also cautions against venting about your spouse to friends and family, encouraging instead the pursuit of wise counsel and focusing on grace, mutual support, and teamwork. The mindful moment encourages women to intentionally create space for connection with their spouse—even in small, simple ways.

Key Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction to why women initiate divorce more often 01:15 – Top reasons men leave their marriages 03:30 – How focusing solely on children creates distance in a marriage 06:05 – Lack of intimacy and the feeling of disconnection 08:42 – Why respect matters deeply in sustaining a relationship 11:00 – Letting your partner parent: avoiding hyper-independence 14:25 – Resentment, unspoken expectations, and how they lead to disconnect 17:15 – Personal reflections on how actions contribute to divorce 21:00 – The dangers of badmouthing your spouse to others 25:12 – Seeking wise counsel and learning from long-lasting marriages 28:20 – Showing grace for mistakes and embracing teamwork in marriage 31:10 – Mindful moment: creating intentional space for connection 33:05 – Final takeaway: investing time now to avoid costly regret later

About the Show: Counsel and Community blends legal insight with real-life relationship and personal growth advice. Hosted by the Nelson Law Group team, the show offers practical tips for navigating family and legal challenges while fostering stronger, healthier relationships.

The conversation explores how humor and seemingly harmless behaviors can slowly damage relationships over time, why men must embrace a servant’s heart, and how “slow playing” divorce can create space for self-growth and potentially repair a broken relationship. Sarah also offers strategies to reduce reactivity and improve communication, while Brett emphasizes that living an honorable, Christ-centered life can naturally transform a marriage.

Key Timestamps: 00:00 – Show introduction and topic overview 01:15 – Common misunderstandings men have about marriage partnerships 04:40 – How listening without fixing can transform a relationship 08:12 – The importance of small gestures: the coffee cup story 11:50 – Why humor at your spouse’s expense can quietly damage a marriage 15:03 – Learning to recognize and manage reactivity in relationships 18:25 – The concept of “slow playing” divorce and working on yourself 22:18 – Changing expectations vs. changing reality in marriage 25:05 – Living with a servant’s heart and its impact on relationships 28:10 – Mindful moment: practicing unseen acts of service

About the Show: Counsel and Community brings together the Nelson Law Group team to share practical legal insights alongside personal growth strategies. From navigating complex family law issues to improving communication and building healthier relationships, the show helps listeners approach life’s challenges with clarity, compassion, and confidence.

Key Timestamps: 00:00 – Show introduction 00:42 – Emotional considerations before deciding to divorce 02:36 – Financial realities and the true cost of divorce 04:10 – Co-parenting challenges and increased communication needs 07:28 – How adversarial divorce impacts trust and communication 09:35 – The role of new partners and their influence on children 12:45 – When staying together is more harmful than separating 15:22 – Breaking generational cycles of dysfunction 17:40 – Mindful moment: Practical ways to appreciate your partner

About the Show: Counsel and Community combines practical legal guidance with real-life wisdom to help individuals navigate complex family and financial challenges. Each episode offers actionable insights to support healthier relationships, better decision-making, and long-term personal growth.

In this insightful episode of Counsel and Community, Brett A. Nelson, Founding Attorney of Nelson Law Group, PC, and Sarah Green, Certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach and Family Law Non-Attorney Mediator, discuss the concept of "earning your way out" of a marriage before deciding on divorce. They explore the importance of perspective, communication, and self-reflection in marital challenges. The episode provides valuable guidance on considering all aspects of a relationship before making the life-changing decision to divorce.

Key Timestamps:

00:01 - Show Introduction

00:36 - Topic Introduction: "Have you earned your way out?"

01:07 - Brett explains the concept of earning your way out

02:44 - Discussion on communication problems in marriages

03:25 - Examining relationship perspectives and intimacy issues

05:18 - Self-reflection and personal responsibility in relationships

07:19 - Success story of marriage reconciliation

09:42 - Importance of finding the right counselor

11:30 - Seeking advice from long-term married couples

13:02 - Mindful moment: Service challenge

About the Show:

Counsel and Community is a podcast where the Nelson Law Group team shares practical guidance on navigating legal challenges while offering tips for personal growth and financial well-being. Hosted by Kevin Rosenquist, featuring Brett Nelson (founding partner of Nelson Law Group) and Sarah Green (divorce care specialist).

In this inaugural episode, Brett A. Nelson, Founding Attorney of Nelson Law Group, PC and Sarah Green, Certified High-Conflict Divorce Coach and Family Law Non-Attorney Mediator, discuss the unique approach of Nelson Law Group, which combines legal expertise with mental health support. Brett shares his personal journey from being a child of divorce to founding a law firm that prioritizes holistic client care. The episode explores how the firm integrates mental health professionals to provide comprehensive support during legal proceedings while protecting client confidentiality.

Key Timestamps:

00:01 - Show Introduction

00:46 - Beginning of Nelson Law Group story

01:08 - Brett's personal background and motivation

03:28 - Discussion on serving clients through legal process

05:43 - Explanation of client confidentiality and mental health services

07:46 - Introduction to litigation consultant role

13:20 - Impact stories and client outcomes

16:44 - Mindful Moment segment

17:17 - Information about Nelson Law Group app and resources

About The Show:

Counsel and Community is a podcast where legal insights meet real-life impact. Hosted by Kevin Rosenquist, the show features practical guidance on navigating legal challenges while offering tips for personal growth and financial well-being.