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You're Not Crazy, You're Traumatized: What Every Protective Parent Needs to Know Before Entering Family Court with Sarah McDugal

Mon, 29 Jun 2026 05:15:00 -0400

You thought leaving would be the hard part. You didn't know the hard part was what comes after.

In part two of her conversation with Sarah McDugal, Kristin goes deeper into what happens when a woman decides to end a destructive marriage — and the patterns she's been living with follow her directly into family court. What she thought would be a place of vindication often becomes one more arena where the truth doesn't land the way she expects.

Sarah and Kristin cover:

Why family court is not designed for justice — and what it actually is designed to do
The single most dangerous misconception conservative Christian women bring into the courtroom
Why the betrayed parent often looks like the less stable parent — and what to do about it
What "high conflict" really means in court, and why courts misread it almost every time
The three-role team every high-risk custody case needs (and why your lawyer and therapist alone aren't enough)
The High Conflict Court Case Risk Index — how to assess your risk level before you start
Why how you begin the process can save or cost you tens of thousands of dollars
A compassionate word about the fear of leaving your children part of the time — and data that may surprise you

This is hard, important, necessary listening. Both Kristin and Sarah have lived this story. You are not alone in it.

If you're a man who caused this harm and she is now leaving: this episode will show you what she is up against. That matters.

For pastors, counselors, and coaches: This episode includes a segment specifically for people helpers who work with women when reconciliation is no longer possible. Sarah's provider toolkit is linked in the show notes.

Be gentle with yourself as you listen. Pause when you need to. Take a walk.

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Sarah McDugal Resources: 🔗 Freedom Navigator / Wilderness to Wild 🔗 Exposing the Playbook eBook to discover:

- - The three biggest myths that can sabotage your case before it even starts.
  - The 3-step strategy to anticipate their next move before they even make it.
  - The exact tactics abusers use to manipulate the system—and how to fight back.
  - Insider tips to protect your sanity and self-care while navigating family court.

🔗 High-Conflict Court Case Risk Index 🔗 Emotional Armor for Court and Co-parenting 🔗 Provider/Helper Toolkit — for pastors, coaches, and clinicians working with women when reconciliation is no longer possible 🔗 Free 15-min case consult for any protective parent - Click on services, then scroll down to book your call 🔗 Family Court Compass — Ultimate Strategy Guide 🔗 Finding a Lawyer Who Fights eBook 🔗 The Binder — Complete Evidence Organization System 🔗 Inside the Custody Evaluator's Playbook Workshop 🔗 Instant Stress Reset — Body-to-Brain Solution 🔗 Empower Your Child Workshop

Fearless, Free, and Uncontrollable: What Healthy Actually Looks Like — and How to Know When It's Missing with Sarah McDugal

Mon, 15 Jun 2026 05:30:00 -0400

You didn't go into your marriage looking for this conversation. But if you're here, something brought you. Maybe it's a feeling you can't quite name. Maybe it's a pattern you've been explaining away. Maybe you already know — and you just need someone to say it clearly.

In this episode, Kristin sits down with Sarah McDugal — clarity coach, founder of Freedom Navigator and Wilderness to Wild, and a woman who has lived this story herself — to talk about what healthy actually looks like in a marriage, and how to recognize when what you're living in falls short of that.

Sarah and Kristin cover:

The three markers of a healthy relationship — being fearless, free, and uncontrollable — and what it means when those are missing
A clear, workable definition of abuse that avoids both over-defining and under-defining it
Why "is it bad enough?" is the wrong question — and what to ask instead
How entrenched patterns of behavior become visible when you zoom out from the individual moments
What it looks like to move from survival mode toward a more grounded, strategic approach
A word for the men listening — why doing your own work (not controlling her response) is the only thing that transforms a marriage

This episode is part one of a two-part conversation. Part two covers navigating family court when reconciliation is no longer possible.

If you're a pastor, counselor, coach, or people helper: Sarah also has a provider toolkit with resources for the gap no one talks about — what to do when reconciliation is off the table. Link in the show notes.

Take care of your nervous system as you listen. This is heavy. Walking while you listen is a good idea. Sarah McDugal Resources:

🔗 Freedom Navigator / Wilderness to Wild
🔗 Exposing the Playbook eBook to discover:
- - The three biggest myths that can sabotage your case before it even starts.
  - The 3-step strategy to anticipate their next move before they even make it.
  - The exact tactics abusers use to manipulate the system—and how to fight back.
  - Insider tips to protect your sanity and self-care while navigating family court.
🔗 High-Conflict Court Case Risk Index
🔗 Emotional Armor for Court and Co-parenting
🔗 Provider/Helper Toolkit — for pastors, coaches, and clinicians working with women when reconciliation is no longer possible
🔗 Co-Parent Behavior Profile Wizard
🔗 Free 15-min case consult for any protective parent - Click on services, then scroll down to book your call
🔗 Red Flags Videos

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Sacred Attachment with Michael Cusick

Mon, 01 Jun 2026 05:00:00 -0400

What if your relationship with God doesn’t have to feel like a performance review? In this rich conversation, Michael Cary sits down with author and counselor Michael John Cusick — author of Surfing for God and his newest book Sacred Attachment — to explore one of the most liberating ideas in spiritual life: that your connection to God is unbreakable, and you don’t have to earn it. We explore: • What “sacred attachment” actually means and why it changes everything about how we relate to God • How attachment theory (seen, soothed, safe, secure) shapes not just our human relationships but our relationship with God • Why “trust and obey” and “know more, do better” Christianity leaves so many of us exhausted and stuck • The root connection between early attachment wounds and addiction • Michael Cusick’s powerful “Five W’s” framework: wretchedness, weakness, woundedness, warfare, and wiring • The “delta” — the gap between what we know to be true (no condemnation!) and what we actually feel — and why information alone doesn’t close it • What freedom actually is: not the absence of sin, but the presence of your deepest desire • Why transformation doesn’t happen through information — and what actually moves the needle You’ll walk away with: A fresh, grace-soaked understanding of who God is toward you — even on your worst days. Whether you’re in recovery or just weary from trying harder, this episode will help you exhale and come home. Sacred Attachment is not just for people in addiction recovery — it’s for anyone who has ever felt like they’re failing at the Christian life. You can find more resources from Michael Cusick at: https://restoringthesoul.com https://michaeljohncusick.com

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What to Do If He Relapses: Creating a Relapse Safety Plan for Clarity and Stability with Lyschel Burkett

Mon, 18 May 2026 05:00:00 -0400

What would you do if a relapse happened? For many partners walking through betrayal, that question feels overwhelming—or even terrifying. But avoiding it doesn’t create safety. Preparation does. In this episode of The Living Truth Podcast, Kristin sits down with betrayal trauma coach Lachelle Burkett to talk about how creating a relapse safety plan can move you from panic to clarity—so you’re not left scrambling in the moment. You’ll learn:

Why a relapse safety plan actually reduces anxiety (instead of increasing it)
The difference between a “slip” and a “relapse”—and why it matters
How to make decisions ahead of time so you can trust yourself in crisis
The 6 key areas every plan should include (emotional, physical, financial, relational, spiritual, and more)
How this process restores your God-given agency, wisdom, and stability

This conversation is not about expecting the worst, it’s about equipping you with calm, grounded clarity if the unexpected happens. Because even in the midst of betrayal…you still have choices. You still have a voice. And you are not without support. If you’ve ever felt afraid of “what if,” this episode will help you take a steady, empowered step forward. Click Here for a free PDF of Lyschel's Relapse Safety Plan

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Growing Up Emotionally: Why Sexual Sobriety is Not Enough

Mon, 04 May 2026 05:00:00 -0400

If the behavior has stopped… why does the relationship still feel disconnected, fragile, or stuck? In this episode of The Living Truth Podcast, Kristin Cary and Michael Cary explore the often-overlooked gap between sexual sobriety and emotional maturity—and why stopping the behavior is not the same as rebuilding trust, safety, and connection. You’ll gain clarity on:

Why sobriety alone doesn’t restore trust or relational safety
What emotional immaturity can look like in everyday interactions
How unresolved wounds and “younger parts” continue to shape adult patterns
The difference between defensiveness, shutdown, and true emotional growth
Why betrayed partners need safety and stabilization first—not pressure to “move on” or “work on themselves”
How couples can begin moving toward genuine intimacy, not just coexistence

This conversation is especially relevant for:

Women who feel confused or discouraged that things still don’t feel “better” after sobriety
Men who have stopped unwanted behaviors but sense there is still more growth needed
Couples who long for deeper connection but find themselves repeating the same patterns

Sobriety may remove destructive behaviors— but emotional maturity is what allows a relationship to be rebuilt. Growth in this area takes time, humility, and a willingness to stay present in the process. There is no shame in feeling stuck. There is an invitation into something deeper. The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.

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Autonomy & Faith: Reclaiming Your Voice Without Rebellion | Part 2 with Anna Seiple

Mon, 20 Apr 2026 05:30:00 -0400

What happens when blind, unquestioning obedience is expected — and silence is spiritualized? How does a lack of healthy developmental autonomy impact marriages, families, churches, and women navigating betrayal?

Drawing from developmental psychology and research on spiritual trauma, Kristin and licensed counselor AC Seiple unpack:

How shame forms when autonomy is not nurtured in childhood
How spiritual systems can unintentionally cause harm when power is misused
Sexual autonomy inside marriage after betrayal
The cost of fearing relational rupture when we use our voice in marriage, ministry, and faith communities
How humility and healing can restore autonomy in Christ

This conversation is especially meaningful for women navigating betrayal trauma, pastor’s wives, and anyone wrestling with how to exercise their God-given voice without labeling themselves as "rebellious."

Autonomy is not the enemy of faith. What if it is actually one of the ways we love God — and others — most fully?

This episode explores autonomy, shame, spiritual trauma, and sexual betrayal recovery through a trauma-informed Christian lens.

🔗 Connect with Anna Christine Seiple: https://www.acseiple.com/ 📖 Learn more about our programs: https://living-truth.org

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Desire, Differentiation, and the Self We Were Never Allowed to Become - A Conversation with Jay Stringer

Mon, 06 Apr 2026 05:30:00 -0400

What if desire isn’t something to manage, suppress, or fix—but something that reveals who you truly are?

In this episode of The Living Truth Podcast, Michael Cary sits down with Jay Stringer, therapist, speaker, and author of Unwanted and the brand-new release Desire, to explore the deeper architecture of desire—far beyond sex, behavior, or performance.

We talk about the provisional self—the version of us we learned to become in order to survive—and how many people unknowingly build their lives, relationships, and even their faith around it. Jay explains how desire exposes the gaps between who we are and who we were never allowed to be, and why unresolved childhood adaptations often propel people into crisis later in life.

Together, we explore:

Why true intimacy requires differentiation, not fusion or performance
What actually drives people into midlife, relational, or sexual crises
How mapping your childhood helps you recover your true self
Why desire is holistic—shaping identity, intimacy, meaning, and growth
What real intimacy looks like beyond chemistry, compliance, or intensity

For anyone navigating recovery, relational healing, or spiritual formation, this conversation reframes desire as an invitation—not a threat. An invitation to wholeness, honesty, and a life that no longer requires you to disappear to belong. 📖 Learn more about Jay Stringer and his new book Desire at jay-stringer.com

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Surrendered Sexuality: How Knowing Jesus Changes Everything with Dr. Juli Slattery

Mon, 23 Mar 2026 05:30:00 -0400

Sexuality is one of the most powerful — and most misunderstood — parts of our humanity.

In this deeply honest conversation with Julie Slattery, clinical psychologist, author of Surrendered Sexuality, and co-founder of Authentic Intimacy we explore:

• The cultural lies shaping how we think about sex • Why covenant — not consumption — is at the heart of God’s design for sex. • The devastation of betrayal and what it reveals about God’s own covenant love • Four identity traps that keep us stuck in shame, performance, and confusion • Why “just stop” is not a sufficient response to sexual struggles • How trauma, brain science, and community are essential to healing

If you’ve experienced sexual betrayal… If you’re carrying shame for sexual brokenness… If you feel confused about how your faith intersects with your sexuality…

This conversation will remind you that surrender is not about perfection — it’s about bringing your whole, broken self into the light of God’s love.

✨ Learn more about Dr. Slattery’s work and resources at the links below: www.authenticintimacy.com IG: @authenticintimacy Java with Juli Podcast: https://www.authenticintimacy.com/podcast/ Surrendered Sexuality Book: https://a.co/d/08dxVRpJ

🎧 Listen to the full podcast here: https://LivingTruth61.podbean.com/e/surrendered-sexuality-how-knowing-jesus-changes-everything-with-dr-juli-slattery/?token=468fb7f62ca108c62d9669b8ccbcdc37 📖 Learn more about our programs: https://living-truth.org

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The Hidden Cost of Information Overload in Betrayal Trauma - Finding Deeper Healing Through Safety with Shelley Martinkus

Mon, 09 Mar 2026 05:30:00 -0400

When betrayal trauma shatters your world, it’s natural to search desperately for answers. Podcasts, books, courses, social media—there is more information available today than ever before.

But is there a point when searching for more information actually keeps us stuck?
In this powerful and compassionate conversation, Kristin Cary welcomes Shelley Martinkus, co-founder of Redemptive Living, to explore the difference between knowing facts about betrayal and engaging the complex, embodied process of healing.
Together, they reflect on the early days of their own recovery journeys—when resources were scarce—and contrast that with today’s flood of information, which can unintentionally become a form of emotional anesthesia.

What if healing doesn’t come from finding the “right formula,” but from slowing down, tending to your nervous system, and doing deep relational work—especially within safe community?

You’ll hear honest reflections about: • The difference between “snorkeling” the surface and “scuba diving” into deeper healing • How dopamine, distraction, and over-research can numb pain instead of restoring it • Why betrayal recovery must include the body, heart, and nervous system—not just the mind • The surprising power of trauma-informed groups in restoring belonging, agency, and hope • Why Jesus—not a professional, program, or process—is the true source of lasting healing

If you’ve ever felt exhausted from trying to “do healing right,” this episode offers a gentle invitation to slow down, breathe, and trust that God is still at work—within you and through safe community. Link to Podcast Episode: The Truth Shall Set You Free; How Full Disclosure Can Benefit Couples in Recovery with Dan Drake and Dr. Janice Caudill: https://LivingTruth61.podbean.com/e/the-truth-shall-set-you-free-how-full-disclosure-can-benefit-couples%c2%a0in-recovery-with-dan-drake-and-dr-janice-caudill-1718683847/ 📖 Learn more about our programs: https://living-truth.org

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Shepherding Through Crisis: Pastoral Strategies for Betrayal Recovery with Dr. Barbara Steffens

Mon, 23 Feb 2026 05:30:00 -0500

Kristin Cary welcomes Dr. Barbara Steffens, founder and first president of the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists (APSATS) and one of the pioneering voices who reframed sexual betrayal as trauma rather than codependency.

Together, Kristin and Dr. Steffens explore how ministry leaders, counselors, and pastors can wisely and compassionately walk with betrayed women and struggling couples through the aftermath of sexual sin. They discuss best practices for trauma-informed care, the importance of safety and stabilization, and what it looks like to shepherd hearts with both truth and tenderness.

Gain insight into the multi-dimensional partner trauma model with practical strategies for responding to crisis moments, and a renewed vision for the Church’s role in bringing hope and healing to those navigating the devastating fallout of betrayal.

Whether you’re a pastor, ministry leader, counselor, or simply someone walking alongside a friend in pain, this conversation will equip and encourage you to become a safer and more effective presence of Christ’s love. Previous LT podcast episode mentioned: The Truth Shall Set You Free; How Full Disclosure Can Benefit Couples in Recovery with Dan Drake and Dr. Janice Caudill

Link to Barb & Lyschel's training: https://hoperedefined.org/resources/shepherding-through-crisis-training/ 📖 Learn more about our programs: https://living-truth.org

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The Sacred Art of Slowing Down: Healing Trauma with Your Whole Self

Mon, 09 Feb 2026 05:30:00 -0500

When your life is shattered by trauma, slowing down can feel impossible—even unsafe. In this tender, soul-nourishing conversation, Kristin reconnects with her friend Anna Christine Seiple, a licensed counselor, trauma survivor, and author of The Sacred Art of Slowing Down. Anna shares her profound story of devastation, healing, and rebuilding a life she never imagined possible.

Together, Kristin and Anna explore: ✨ Why slowing down is often forced upon us in seasons of trauma—and how it becomes an unexpected doorway to healing ✨ How the body carries what the mind tries to outrun, and why listening to your body is a deeply biblical practice ✨ The damaging myth in Christian culture that the body is “bad,” and how Scripture actually presents a fully integrated, embodied spirituality ✨ Why healing isn’t linear, logical, or fast—and how God meets us in the mystery ✨ Permission to be human: the messy, cyclical process of grief, anger, hope, and restoration ✨ What it looks like to tend gently to the parts of yourself you’ve long ignored or believed were unworthy of care

If you’re walking through betrayal, chronic stress, unwanted sexual behavior or profound disorientation, this episode will remind you that your body is not your enemy—your body is crying out for compassion. God created you as an integrated whole, and every part of you is worthy of love, safety, and healing.

Anna’s wisdom, vulnerability, and theological depth offer real hope for anyone longing to feel whole again.

Link to Anna’s book: https://a.co/d/dHvaCtF Anna's website: https://www.acseiple.com/

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How Our Power of Influence Grows as we Heal

Mon, 26 Jan 2026 05:30:00 -0500

When betrayal trauma shatters your world, it can feel impossible to imagine anything good emerging from the rubble. In this deeply encouraging conversation, Kristin sits down with Gigi Hopkins, Director of Wives Care at Be Broken Ministries, to explore how the process of healing can lead to expanding your influence, your agency, and your God-given impact on the world around you.

Gigi shares: ✨ Why early healing feels so disorienting—and why that's normal ✨ The difference between control and influence, and how shifting that mindset changes everything ✨ Real ways women regain agency even when life feels out of control ✨ How boundaries, self-care, emotional work, and spiritual grounding open doors for transformation ✨ Honest stories from her own journey and how healing ripples outward into family and future generations

This episode will breathe hope into anyone in the early or ongoing stages of betrayal trauma healing—especially if you feel overwhelmed, powerless, or unsure where to begin. God's restoration is deeper, slower, and more beautiful than we expect…and your healing matters more than you know.

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Broken to Brave: Your Courageous Act of Healing After Intimate Betrayal

Mon, 12 Jan 2026 05:30:00 -0500

Betrayal shatters your world. It leaves you wondering which way is up, how to survive the devastation, and whether you’ll ever feel whole again. Kristin interviews trauma-informed counselor, coach, and author Tammy Gustafson to talk about her new book, Broken to Brave: Your Courageous Act of Healing After Intimate Betrayal (releasing January 27, 2026).

Tammy shares her four-phase framework for healing after intimate betrayal— Reveal, Reorient, Realign, and Rebuild

She offers hope for women at every stage of the journey. Drawing from her own story, her years as a counselor, and her research with over 1,700 betrayed partners, Tammy brings compassion, validation, and practical guidance for anyone walking this painful road.

You’ll hear:

Why betrayal trauma impacts your body as much as your heart
The importance of boundaries, grief, and anger in the healing process
Common stuck points that slow recovery
A vision for post-traumatic growth and a life of beauty and joy beyond betrayal

✨ Don’t miss the FREE Betrayal Healing Conference hosted by Tammy at the end of January each year. Kristin will be one of the speakers, and this is your chance to learn from leading voices in the betrayal trauma field.

📖 Learn more about Tammy and her book: https://livefreecounseling.com/

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Hope in the New Year

Mon, 29 Dec 2025 05:30:00 -0500

In this quiet space between the holidays—or whenever your heart finally slows down enough to feel—Kristin offers a calming, Christ-centered invitation to breathe again. If you’re navigating the devastation of sexual betrayal, the shame of unwanted sexual behavior, or the disorienting waves of grief that erupt long after the crisis, this episode will meet you with compassion and truth. You’ll be guided through: - Simple breathwork to settle your overwhelmed nervous system - Gentle questions to help you reconnect with your body and your needs - Biblical reminders of God’s nearness to the brokenhearted - A powerful visualization to help you encounter Jesus in a place of peace - Hope for the year ahead—not in perfection, but in His faithful presence This is not a “try harder” message. It’s a place to take off the mask, slow down, and remember that you are held by a God who sees, knows, and loves you. If you’re a betrayed partner seeking clarity and support, you’re invited to join Kristin’s free 5-day experience, Operation Restoration. https://living-truth.kit.com/operation-restoration If you’re a man struggling with unwanted sexual behavior, new resources are coming soon through Men in the Battle®.

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Finding the Way Through: Redefining Sobriety & Healing Betrayal

Mon, 15 Dec 2025 05:30:00 -0500

What does true sobriety look like for those battling sex and pornography addiction—and how does recovery move beyond the addict to bring healing to their partners? In this episode, Michael sits down with Tim Stein, co-author of Finding the Way Through: A Workbook for Sex and Pornography Addiction to explore a new framework for recovery. Together, they unpack the workbook’s definition of sobriety, the critical shift from addict thinking to recovery thinking, and the importance of “partner betrayal sensitivity.” With practical tools, raw honesty, and hope for transformation, this conversation equips both addicts and their loved ones with a roadmap for lasting change.

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Spiritual Warfare & Mental Wellbeing with Dr. Natalie Atwell

Mon, 01 Dec 2025 05:30:00 -0500

Let's explore the often-overlooked connection between spiritual warfare & mental health. In this episode, Kristin and Dr. Natalie Atwell—counselor, educator, and long-time advocate for trauma survivors— shine light on the unseen battles many believers face, especially those carrying deep childhood wounds, walking through betrayal trauma, or struggling with destructive sexual patterns.

Dr. Atwell shares the sobering rise she’s seen in her practice of clients entangled in darkness—through trauma, pornography, and even human trafficking—and how these openings can fuel emotional chaos, compulsive behavior, and distorted thinking. She also offers compelling insight into how lies planted in childhood can become spiritual footholds in adulthood… and how Jesus meets us right in those places with truth, power, and freedom.

You’ll hear:

Why spiritual warfare can masquerade as mental-health symptoms
How trauma makes us vulnerable to lies—and how those lies can be broken
The subtle ways the enemy gains influence through culture, coping strategies, and popular practices
How deliverance, counseling, and trauma-informed care work together
What hope looks like for betrayed partners who feel crushed under the enemy’s attempts to steal, kill, and destroy
Why God’s heart is fiercely protective of the vulnerable—and how He restores what darkness tried to ruin

Whether you’re battling unwanted sexual behavior, healing from betrayal, or simply trying to understand the spiritual dynamics beneath today’s struggles, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and deep encouragement.

Jesus is stronger than every force that comes against you—and even in the ashes, He is already rebuilding.

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When the Holidays Hurt (Part 2): Grief and Disorientation After Betrayal

Mon, 17 Nov 2025 05:30:00 -0500

The holidays can stir up overwhelming waves of grief and confusion. The music, the smells, the traditions — they bring back joyful memories and painful reminders of betrayal, leaving many women asking: “What was ever real?”

Learn how to recognize the power and purpose of your anger, the “bargaining” stage of grief, and create safe space to process painful memories. Know that your grief isn’t a setback — it’s a sign of deeper healing.

Grief Questions Kristin mentions in this episode: Set a reasonable goal to regularly process your grief (for example, 10 minutes a day, 5 days a week). Journal out your responses to one question each day, Close your grief processing time with a gratitude list. Pay attention to ways that you see and experience gifts and beauty and enjoy them for a moment. What do I miss? What am I angry about? What am I learning? What do I need now?

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When the Holidays Hurt (Part 1): First Steps Toward Healing After Betrayal

Mon, 03 Nov 2025 05:30:00 -0500

The holidays are supposed to be filled with joy and celebration — but after sexual betrayal, they can feel unbearable. In Part 1 of this special series, Michael interviews Kristin about her raw story of her first holiday season after discovery and the first steps betrayed partners need to survive: prioritizing safety, stabilization, boundaries, and connection. If you’re in the early days of betrayal trauma, this episode will remind you that survival is enough — and that you are not alone. Need more support and hope? JOIN Kristin for her free 5 day experience: Holiday Survival Strategies from November 17-21: https://living-truth.kit.com/holiday-survival-strategies

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The Battle Plan with Michael Cary

Mon, 20 Oct 2025 05:30:00 -0400

In this episode of the Living Truth Podcast, Kristin sits down with Michael to unpack the Men in the Battle (MIB) Battle Plan — a practical framework for men pursuing lasting freedom from unwanted sexual behavior. They explore why relationships are the backbone of recovery, how marriage and spiritual connection anchor lasting change, and the role of education, journaling, and mentoring in shaping a man’s heart. Michael also shares why self-care isn’t optional and how simple daily practices can make the difference between relapse and resilience. Whether you’re on your own recovery journey, walking with someone who is, or simply want to understand how men can experience real transformation, this conversation will give you hope, direction, and practical steps to begin your own Battle Plan. Get your PDF copy of the MIB Battle Plan here: https://living-truth.kit.com/battleplan

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You're Crazy if You Don’t Talk to Yourself (with Steve Backlund)

Mon, 06 Oct 2025 05:30:00 -0400

Your words shape your world. In this episode, Steve Backlund unpacks why renewing your mind and speaking truth over yourself is the key to breaking cycles of defeat. We talk about choosing joy in tough seasons, pushing past the awkwardness of declarations, and replacing lies with God’s truth. If you’ve ever felt stuck or hopeless, this conversation will help you move forward with faith, joy, and fresh hope.

You can find Steve's resources at: https://www.ignitinghope.com/ https://www.ignitinghopeacademy.com/ https://www.youtube.com/@IgnitingHopeMinistries

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Healthy Sinners (with Leslie Vernick)

Mon, 22 Sep 2025 05:30:00 -0400

What does it really mean to be a “healthy sinner?” In this eye-opening interview, counselor and author Leslie Vernick helps us unpack the difference between normal struggles and destructive patterns of abuse. Through powerful stories—including a surprising moment in a dressing room and her unforgettable “termites in the basement” analogy—Leslie gives us a fresh perspective on what health and unhealth look like in relationships.

We explore how to recognize abuse, when it’s time to seek help or get out, and what it looks like to pursue emotional, spiritual, and relational wholeness as a follower of Christ. This episode is a lifeline for anyone who feels stuck in an unhealthy relationship and wants clarity, courage, and hope.

You can find more of Leslie's resources at https://leslievernick.com.

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Navigating Divorce with Strength & Strategy with Kim Hansen Petroni

Mon, 08 Sep 2025 05:30:00 -0400

If you’re facing divorce after betrayal—especially from a partner who refuses to change—this conversation is for you.

In this powerful episode, I’m joined by Kim Hansen Petroni, an APSATS coach who specializes in high-conflict divorce. Kim brings not only professional expertise but also lived experience to this tender and complex topic. As the founder of Not a Casserole Widow®, she equips women to move forward with confidence, clarity, and grace. Kim shares essential steps to prepare yourself for a safe and empowered exit—legally, financially, emotionally, and spiritually. Whether you're in the early stages of divorce or actively navigating this path, you'll find practical tools and soul-deep encouragement to help you make wise, well-supported decisions, assured that God is with you through it all.

📥 Free Resources from Kim: – A downloadable PDF with must-ask questions for your attorney: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1czoDTdTgCjsAxV_SK__7-TPmkhChX4o4/view?usp=sharing
🔗 Learn more about Kim’s work: www.notacasserolewidow.com
Mediation Seminar: https://coachinghope4u.as.me/schedule/e0039b4a/appointment/82730551/calendar/6383562
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The Sex Talk You Never Got: Reclaiming the Heart of Masculine Sexuality with Sam Jolman

Mon, 25 Aug 2025 05:30:00 -0400

Most men never received a healthy, honest conversation about sexuality. Instead, we were handed silence, shame, or surface-level advice. In this powerful conversation, therapist and author Sam Jolman unpacks the deeper story behind male sexuality—and why reclaiming it requires more than just behavior management.

Whether you're walking through recovery, mentoring other men, or asking hard questions about your identity and healing, this episode will meet you where you are and call you deeper.

We discuss:

Why white-knuckling your way through recovery doesn't work
How father wounds and emotional neglect shape sexual behavior
What it means to reclaim the heart of your God-given masculinity
The vital role of sexual blessing, initiation, and community
This is the sex talk you never got—but it’s the one you need.

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The 5 Keys to Freedom - Popular Episode Re-Release!

Mon, 11 Aug 2025 05:30:00 -0400

Have you ever wondered what it takes to truly be free from problematic sexual behavior? Have you been trying to stop for years, only to go back to it again and again, feeling more shame and discouragement and wondering why you can’t stop? In this podcast, Michael shares the “5 Keys to Freedom” answering these questions and providing you with a proven method to achieve lasting freedom.

Info mentioned in this podcast:

Click here to register for MIB.

For coach recommendations for men who struggle, email Support+MIB@Living-Truth.org.

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Healing After Betrayal Through Creating Structure with Isabel Williams

Mon, 28 Jul 2025 05:30:00 -0400

When your world falls apart after discovering sexual betrayal, how do you even begin to put the pieces back together?

In this powerful episode, Kristin Cary is joined by trauma-informed coach and Women in the Battle® facilitator Isabel Williams, who shares her deeply personal journey from devastation to post-traumatic growth. Izzy opens up about her initial resistance to group support, the chaos of early trauma, and the turning point that helped her begin to heal—creating structure.

Together, they explore:

Why structure is essential in the aftermath of discovery
How to identify safe people to confide in
Why trauma-informed support (not generic marriage counseling) is critical
The dangers of spiritually misinformed advice
What real self-care looks like (hint: it’s not bubble baths)
How childhood trauma patterns resurface in crisis—and how to start rewriting them

Izzy’s story is a testament to what’s possible when we receive the right kind of support and reconnect with our God-given voice and strength. Whether you’re newly navigating betrayal or further down the road, this episode will offer practical insight, encouragement, and hope.

Enrollment for Women in the Battle® & Men in the Battle® opens August 11th! If you’re ready to stop surviving and start healing, now’s the time to take your next right step. Learn more at living-truth.org.

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The Freedom of Slowing Down: A Conversation with Alan Fadling

Mon, 14 Jul 2025 05:30:00 -0400

In this powerful episode, Michael sits down with Alan Fadling, author of An Unhurried Life: Following Jesus’ Rhythms of Work and Rest. Alan reveals how a hurried life not only drains our energy but fuels the compulsions and false comforts that drive addiction. Together, Michael and Alan unpack how hurry acts as self-avoidance—and how slowing down to the pace of Jesus leads to healing, clarity, and deeper intimacy with God. If you're burned out, stuck in unwanted behaviors, or overwhelmed by life’s demands, this conversation points to a better way: a life rooted in grace, rest, and authentic spiritual formation.

To explore Alan's work further, visit his website: https://www.unhurriedliving.com/ 📖 Learn more about our programs: https://living-truth.org

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The Chaos Inside- How Betrayal and Unwanted Sexual Behavior Impact Your Internal Family System with Molly LaCroix

Mon, 30 Jun 2025 05:30:00 -0400

Life as we know it is shattered when sexual betrayal is exposed in our primary relationship. The pain is profound—for both the betrayed and the one struggling with unwanted sexual behavior. Nothing remains the same, and the aftermath brings intense emotional and spiritual turmoil that calls for compassionate, trauma-informed care. Kristin continues the conversation with Molly LaCroix on how our “internal family” may respond to the chaos and grief following betrayal. If you're unfamiliar with the concept of the Internal Family System (IFS), be sure to listen to the previous episode with Molly LaCroix, LMFT, where she gently introduces this powerful framework and how it helps us understand and befriend the parts of ourselves that are hurting.

To explore Molly’s work further—including her books and free resources—visit her website: https://mollylacroix.com/ 📖 Learn more about our programs: https://living-truth.org

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Understanding Your Internal Family System with Molly LaCroix

Mon, 23 Jun 2025 05:30:00 -0400

We are born with innate qualities that reflect the image of God. As an adaptive response to adversity, we develop protective parts that block true connection with God, ourselves, and others. These protective parts can show up through perfectionism, blame, judgment, and other constrained attitudes and actions. Though we may not like them, these parts of us need our loving awareness and attunement.

In this episode, Kristin sits down with Molly LaCroix, LMFT, to explore how to recognize and gently befriend your internal family through the lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS). This is a grace-filled invitation to begin healing the inner chaos with compassion and curiosity. This conversation continues in the next episode: The Chaos Inside – How Betrayal and Unwanted Sexual Behavior Impact Your Internal Family System with Molly LaCroix.

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Helping Couples Heal from Infidelity and Find Love Again with Carol Juergensen Sheets

Mon, 09 Jun 2025 05:30:00 -0400

Recovering from sexual betrayal can indeed be a messy and complicated journey, filled with emotional ups and downs, but it's incredibly reassuring to know that there's a proven path forward. Understanding this process is crucial for everyone involved, whether you're a couple in recovery, someone helping others through this difficult time, or if you're single or divorced and dealing with the aftermath. Carol Sheets is a true pioneer in the field of helping couples heal from the devastating effects of sexual betrayal, which can include both infidelity and sexual addiction. In this insightful episode, Carol and Michael engage in a deep discussion about her new book, "Helping Couples Heal From Infidelity and Find Love Again," and they explore various important aspects of the recovery process. They delve into the impact of betrayal trauma on the brain, providing valuable insights into how it affects individuals. Additionally, they explain Carol's ERCEM model and AVR, offering a framework for understanding the healing process. Furthermore, they discuss the differences between infidelity and other forms of sexual addiction, as well as the best ways to address these complex issues, providing guidance and hope for those on the path to recovery. For more resources and to order Carol's new book, visit:

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Weaving Couples Together with Stacey Smith - Part 2 of 2

Mon, 26 May 2025 05:30:00 -0400

There is hope for your marriage after betrayal! In this episode, Kristin continues her interview with Stacey Smith, the Chief Clinical Officer of Daring Ventures. After sexual secrets are revealed, there must be a period of repair and amends where the betrayed partner's need for safety is the relational priority. But with humility, hard work, and deepening attunement over time, we can learn to build a new relationship rooted in secure attachment and better than it ever was before. You'll learn principles of secure functioning in marriage & how self protection sabotages connection with your spouse. Using principles of the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy, Stacey brings her expertise as both a CSAT & an APSATs trained clinician to this episode. Learn more about her at https://www.daringventures.com/stacey/ 📖 Learn more about our programs: https://living-truth.org

Weaving Couples Together with Stacey Smith - Part 1 of 2

Mon, 12 May 2025 05:30:00 -0400

There is hope for your marriage after betrayal! In this episode Kristin interviews Stacey Smith, the Chief Clinical Officer of Daring Ventures. After sexual secrets are revealed, there must be a period of repair and amends where the betrayed partner's need for safety is the relational priority. But with humility, hard work, and deepening attunement over time, we can learn to build a new relationship rooted in secure attachment and better than it ever was before. You'll learn principles of secure functioning in marriage & how self protection sabotages connection with your spouse. Using principles of the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy, Stacey brings her expertise as both a CSAT & an APSATs trained clinician to this episode. Learn more about her at https://www.daringventures.com/stacey/ 📖 Learn more about our programs: https://living-truth.org

Overcoming Resentment with Matthew Raabsmith

Mon, 28 Apr 2025 05:30:00 -0400

Resentment is a major factor in the root cause of relapse of any addictive behavior. It's almost always relationally driven and can be quite elusive. What are the ingredients and framework of resentment? Why do we tend to harbor it, and what can be done about it? Listen in as Michael discusses this incredibly important topic with author and coach Matthew Raabsmith. Matthew is a Professional Certified Coach (PCC) through the ICF and a Restoration Coach, serving clients nationwide via telehealth. With over 15 years of experience as a pastoral leader and counselor, he has coached individuals, couples, and teams, specializing in addiction recovery, betrayal trauma, relationship health, leadership development, and professional growth. Link to Matthew’s website: raabsmithteam.com/free The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Post Betrayal Transformation with Dr. Debi Silber

Mon, 14 Apr 2025 05:30:00 -0400

In this episode, Kristin interviews Dr Debi Silber, founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute. Dr. Debi shares her 3 groundbreaking discoveries about the impact of betrayal and the 5 crucial stages of recovery post betrayal. If you continue to struggle despite your betrayal experiences occurring years ago, you may be stuck in stage 3, with mindsets that steal your joy and rob you of your full potential to rebuild a life of purpose and growth. There can be so much more healing for you if you're willing to lean in and move forward. Join Kristin & Dr. Debi in this life giving conversation. Learn more about Dr. Debi Silber's work here: https://thepbtinstitute.co. The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.

Steps to Successfully Manage Emotional Triggers with Dr. Eddie Capparucci Part 2

Mon, 31 Mar 2025 05:30:00 -0400

In this two part series, Michael interviews Dr. Eddie Capparucci on his revolutionary 6 Steps to Successfully Manage Emotional Triggers. Listen in to understand more about Eddie's Inner Child Model for treating sexual addiction, what exactly are emotional triggers and how they affect you today, how to tell when you are triggered, and what to do about it. The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.

List of counselors who have been trained using Dr. Eddie’s Inner Child Model: View PDF Here

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Steps to Successfully Manage Emotional Triggers with Dr. Eddie Capparucci Part 1

Mon, 17 Mar 2025 05:29:00 -0400

List of counselors who have been trained using Dr. Eddie’s Inner Child Model: View PDF Here

Dr. Capparucci’s Book: Buy on Amazon

Accompanying Workbook: Buy on Amazon

The 5 Keys to Freedom

Mon, 03 Mar 2025 05:30:00 -0500

Info mentioned in this podcast:

Click here to register for MIB.

For coach recommendations for men who struggle, email Support+MIB@Living-Truth.org.

The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.

Grounding Essentials for Recovery with Kristin Cary (part 2)

Mon, 17 Feb 2025 05:30:00 -0500

The long term complex stress associated with recovering from sexual betrayal or unwanted sexual behavior makes it very difficult to stay present. When the war is on between our God given threat and attachment instincts, our body, mind and spirit are often in chaotic upheaval. The part of our brain responsible for impulse control and logic goes offline. We lose our truest selves and it can sometimes feel like we are losing our sanity as a tornado of intrusive thoughts invade our minds. This is TRAUMA. Join Kristin as she shares strategies to help you return to your body in the present moment. The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.

Grounding Essentials for Recovery with Kristin Cary (part 1)

Mon, 03 Feb 2025 05:29:00 -0500

Sexual Intimacy After Betrayal with Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith (part 2)

Mon, 20 Jan 2025 05:30:00 -0500

Unwanted sexual behavior and betrayal always deeply impact a couple's sexual relationship. Kristin interviews Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith, a married therapist/coach duo whose experience through their personal recovery journey only enhances their professional ability to walk couples through the process of healing with empathy & hard won wisdom. In this two part series we unpack the essential elements of healthy sexuality. We discuss creating a healthy process and parameters for sex after betrayal, and we'll unpack how to handle triggers that arise when a couple begins to reintegrate their sexual relationship after laying a foundation of honesty, safety, and trust. The Raabsmiths have a free gift for all of our listeners! Go here to access your gift: https://www.renewingus.com/livingtruthpod. If you're interested in working with Matthew & Joanna one on one or want to experience healing through their couples' groups or retreats visit www.raabsmithteam.com. The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.

Sexual Intimacy After Betrayal with Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith (part 1)

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 05:30:00 -0500

Our Marriage part 2- Michael and Kristin Unplugged

Mon, 23 Dec 2024 05:30:00 -0500

Michael & Kristin reveal the attitudes and behaviors of emotional regression that create cycles of disconnection in marriage. Taking personal responsibility to continue the process of growing in individual maturity & healing our trauma is key. Michael & Kristin share their recent marriage breakthroughs, offering hope for you to pursue joy, connection, and union with God together so that your marriage can grow and thrive. The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & the devastation of sexual betrayal. EFT Therapist search (Emotionally Focused Therapy is an evidence based marriage counseling model Michael & Kristin mention): https://members.iceeft.com/therapist-search/find-an-eft-therapist.php IFS Therapist search (Internal Family Systems is an individual therapy modality Michael & Kristin mention): https://ifs-institute.com/practitioners/all

Our Marriage part 1- Michael and Kristin Unplugged

Mon, 09 Dec 2024 05:30:00 -0500

Marriage can provide an opportunity for our greatest healing. In this episode, Michael & Kristin offer a peak into their marriage and hearts, offering hope that the hard work of marriage is worth it. The Living Truth Podcast: Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & the devastation of sexual betrayal. EFT Therapist search (Emotionally Focused Therapy is an evidence based marriage counseling model Michael & Kristin mention): https://members.iceeft.com/therapist-search/find-an-eft-therapist.php IFS Therapist search (Internal Family Systems is an individual therapy modality Michael & Kristin mention): https://ifs-institute.com/practitioners/all

Embracing True Freedom: Overcoming Spiritual Abuse

Mon, 25 Nov 2024 05:30:00 -0500

When a person misuses their spiritual authority or Scripture to manipulate or control us, the results are devastating. Rather than inspiring a loving and freedom-generating connection with God, these relationships can cause us tremendous confusion, shame, and fear. ICF certified coach Jill Monaco shares her personal and professional experience about learning to recognize spiritual abuse and how to deal with it. Jill shares her passion for helping people listen to the voice of God, discovering the freedom to be who He created us to be. Learn more about the resources Jill offers at www.JillMonaco.com. The Living Truth Podcast: Conversations about the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & sexual betrayal.

Hope for the Holidays with Andrea Rogers

Mon, 11 Nov 2024 05:30:00 -0500

After sexual secrets are exposed in a family, the “most wonderful time of the year” can feel like a nightmare. But there is hope. In this episode, Kristin interviews Coach Andrea Rogers who shares from her early betrayal trauma and holiday experiences. Hearing how Andrea honored her limits and advocated for herself and her kids through the crisis in her family will inspire you. Through financial crisis, overwhelming grief, and a shattered heart, Andrea experienced God’s provision and has emerged with a beautiful resilience. Learn more about Andrea at fullyalivecoachingllc.com. The Living Truth Podcast: Conversations about porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal.

Perseverance, Neurodivergence & Rebuilding a Marriage with Shawna Meek- Part 2

Mon, 28 Oct 2024 05:30:00 -0400

Shawna knew there were missing pieces of the puzzle as she and her husband Kevin sought healing for their marriage after sexual betrayal. Humility and willingness through a long quest for understanding ultimately led them to receive Kevin's Autism diagnosis. Finally, Shawna saw the emotional deprivation she had experienced throughout their marriage through the more accurate lens of his neurodivergence. The accurate diagnosis of co occurring conditions can open a door to receive the right help. Shawna and Kevin's perseverance offers hope for couples that are willing to do the hard work to rebuild their marriage after betrayal. Learn more about Shawna and her book, Determined for More at https://www.livingstonescoaching.com/. The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.

Perseverance, Neurodivergence, & Rebuilding a Marriage with Shawna Meek- Part 1

Mon, 14 Oct 2024 05:30:00 -0400

The Truth Shall Set You Free; How Full Disclosure Can Benefit Couples in Recovery with Dan Drake and Dr. Janice Caudill

Mon, 30 Sep 2024 05:30:00 -0400

When sexual secrets disrupt a marriage there is often a debate: To Tell or Not To Tell. How much does the betrayed spouse need to know in order to heal and rebuild the relationship? Kristin interviews CSATS and Partner Betrayal Specialists Dan Drake & Dr. Janice Caudill about the benefits & best practices of Full Disclosure in this episode! The Living Truth Podcast: conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & the devastation of sexual betrayal.

Empowering Kids to Heal From the Impact of Parental Infidelity (Episode 2)

Mon, 16 Sep 2024 05:30:00 -0400

Unwanted sexual behavior impacts the whole family. Even when kids don't know the nature of the problems their parents are wrestling with, they intuitively feel the impact in their bodies. The ripple effects of betrayal and infidelity on kids are deep and complex but there is hope for recovery for the entire family. In this 2 part series, Kristin interviews Melissa Macomer about her experience growing up with a cheating parent. They discuss ways parents can help their kids heal and share insights into the complex impact of parental infidelity on our relationships. You can learn more about Melissa's research, read an excerpt from her memoir, and find more information about the support groups she runs for young adults on her website: melissamacomber.com. The Living Truth Podcast: Conversations about the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & sexual betrayal.

Empowering Kids to Heal From the Impact of Parental Infidelity (Episode 1)

Mon, 02 Sep 2024 05:30:00 -0400

How the Inner Child Impacts Your Love and Sex Addiction with Eddie Capparucci Episode 2

Mon, 19 Aug 2024 05:30:00 -0400

The struggle with problematic sexual behavior is rooted in our young, emotionally undeveloped parts and their drive to run from discomfort. In order to heal and be set free, we must go deep with our inner child to address the hurts and perceptions we developed when we were young. Kristin interviews Eddie Capparucci, a licensed professional counselor specializing in problematic sexual behaviors. This two part episode addresses problematic sexual behavior in men and women, as well as the impact on the partner. Learn more about Eddie Capparucci: https://abundantlifecounselingga.com/. For more information on Eddie's new book: Going Deeper for Women: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Love and Sex Addiction. Previous podcast where Michael interviews Eddie Capparucci on his book Going Deeper - The Inner Child Model for Treating Problematic Sexual Behavior: https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-e2tuv-13c4968. The Living Truth Podcast: conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & the devastation of sexual betrayal.

How the Inner Child Impacts Your Love and Sex Addiction with Eddie Capparucci. Episode 1

Mon, 05 Aug 2024 05:30:00 -0400

Authentic Brotherhood is a Necessity For True Freedom

Mon, 22 Jul 2024 05:30:00 -0400

Leaning into a recovery group like Men in the Battle unlocks the insight, support, and healing we need to establish freedom from unwanted sexual behavior. True brotherhood, deep inner work, and shame reducing vulnerability are pillars of the Men in the Battle community. Desiring freedom from unwanted sexual behavior may be the starting point that gets men into recovery groups but the healing and restoration available to us goes far deeper than that! Even men who are reluctant to join a community discover that the uncommon brotherhood of MIB an essential part of their path to freedom! New member sign ups open in August! Visit www.living-truth.org and select “Men in the Battle” to sign up for more information. The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing and freedom from porn addiction, sex addiction, & sexual betrayal.

Belonging, Empowerment, & Clarity After Sexual Betrayal

Mon, 08 Jul 2024 05:30:00 -0400

God wired us for connection and belonging but who can you trust after the person you relied on the most has been deceiving and betraying you on the most intimate level? Who can understand your shattering pain and disorienting reality collapse? We can. Women in the Battle is more than just a betrayal trauma recovery community. We are women pursuing a Healing Path together. Belonging, empowerment, validation, and clarity are unlocked in our trauma informed group processes that create the highest potential for healing and thriving. Sign up for Operation Restoration, a free 5 day experience for women seeking hope after sexual betrayal from August 5-9. Visit www.living-truth.org and click on “Women in the Battle” to get more info. The Living Truth Podcast; Conversations that shed light on the deeper issues that unlock healing from porn addiction, sex addiction, and sexual betrayal.

The Intimacy Pyramid with Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith

Mon, 24 Jun 2024 05:30:00 -0400

How do you rebuild your marriage after sexual betrayal? The Intimacy Pyramid is a guide for couples to lay a new foundation and rebuild a relationship that thrives. The Raabsmiths have used the principles of the Intimacy Pyramid to build a strong, joy-filled marriage for themselves AND they share it with the couples they coach and counsel. You can learn more about Matthew & Joanna at www.Raabsmithteam.com & see a visual of the Intimacy Pyramid at http://www.intimacypyramid.com/. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Becoming a King - Morgan Snyder of Wild at Heart Part 3 of 3

Mon, 10 Jun 2024 05:30:00 -0400

Morgan Snyder delivers life-changing truth about the power that God invites men to step into for His Kingdom. Listen as Michael and Morgan crack open some of the deep messages from Morgan's incredible book Becoming A King". Morgan also has some incredible additional resources you can find at BecomingAKing.com. If you are a man, a parent, or anyone who interacts with men and boys, you need to hear this! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Becoming a King - Morgan Snyder of Wild at Heart Part 2 of 3

Mon, 27 May 2024 05:30:00 -0400

Becoming a King - Morgan Snyder of Wild at Heart Part 1 of 3

Mon, 13 May 2024 05:30:00 -0400

Our Personal Healing Journeys Part 2- Michael and Kristin Unplugged

Mon, 29 Apr 2024 05:30:00 -0400

If we are willing, we can continue to develop more maturity, peace, intimacy with God, and the integration of our truest selves for the rest of our lives. Healing is not a one time event, but rather an ongoing process like peeling layers of an onion. Michael and Kristin open up a glimpse of what healing has looked like for each of us as individuals. Doing the hard work AND surrender of recovery has been worth it. The Living Truth Podcast: conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & the devastation of sexual betrayal.

Our Personal Healing Journeys Part 1- Michael and Kristin Unplugged

Mon, 15 Apr 2024 05:30:00 -0400

The Betrayal Bind with Michelle Mays - Part 2 of 2

Mon, 01 Apr 2024 05:30:00 -0400

Kristin interviews Michelle Mays, a CSAT and betrayal trauma specialist whose attachment based approach to healing sheds light on the devastating and disorienting impact of sexual betrayal.

In this 2 part episode, Michelle unpacks principles from new book The Betrayal Bind: How to Heal When the Person You Love the Most Has Hurt You the Worst. She reveals the depth of the devastating dilemma that betrayed partners face when their significant other is unsafe to connect with, yet connection is the key to healing. Learn more about Michelle & her work at Michellemays.com. The Living Truth Podcast explores the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & the devastating impact of sexual betrayal.

The Betrayal Bind with Michelle Mays - Part 1 of 2

Mon, 18 Mar 2024 05:30:00 -0400

Kristin interviews Michelle Mays, a CSAT and betrayal trauma specialist whose attachment based approach to healing sheds light on the devastating and disorienting impact of sexual betrayal. In this 2 part episode, Michelle unpacks principles from her new book The Betrayal Bind: How to Heal When the Person You Love the Most Has Hurt You the Worst. She reveals the depth of the dilemma that betrayed partners face when their significant other is unsafe to connect with, yet connection is the key to healing. Learn more about Michelle & her work at Michellemays.com. The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & sexual betrayal.

Over Spiritualization & Recovery- Michael & Kristin Unplugged Episode #1

Mon, 04 Mar 2024 05:30:00 -0500

Sexual addiction and sexual betrayal trauma are both multidimensional and complex. As Christians, it can feel safer to blame the enemy for our experiences that are actually rooted in many other aspects of how God made us. True and lasting healing are available but we must implement recovery practices to heal the interconnected depths of our body, soul, spirit, heart, mind and will. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. You can find more information about Living Truth MIB and WIB groups and all the resources we offer at Living-Truth.org.

The Power of The Group - Why 2 Successful Women Keep Giving Back at Women in the Battle®

Mon, 19 Feb 2024 05:30:00 -0500

Jen & Brenda are both beautiful, smart, successful professionals whose worlds turned upside down when they discovered sexual betrayal in their marriages. Not one area of their lives was untouched by this crisis. They both helped Kristin start Women in the Battle in 2016 and recorded this episode in the Fall of 2020. Brenda and Jen kept serving betrayed women as peer facilitators because of how strongly they believe in The Power of the Group to transform women’s lives after sexual betrayal. Most women who come to Women in the Battle (including Jen and Brenda) are initially VERY resistant to the idea of going to a group. But well run betrayal trauma groups are such a powerful force of healing for women -leading them from utter devastation to post traumatic transformation. Listen in as Jen & Brenda discuss with Kristin why they keep showing up and serving to give back to newer women long after their own personal crisis has passed! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. You can find more information about Living Truth MIB and WIB groups and all the resources we offer at Living-Truth.org.

The one thing every man who struggles with porn addiction needs

Mon, 05 Feb 2024 05:30:00 -0500

God created us for community and to be fully known. When it comes to unwanted sexual behavior, the healing journey always involves community. For men who struggle, Men in the Battle® fills that void. What is it like walking into a MIB group for the first time? What are the benefits of coming to a MIB Group? How valuable can it be? Why should I attend? Find the answers to these questions as Michael interviews 3 Men in the Battle® facilitators who have been an integral part of leading men to freedom. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. You can find more information about Living Truth MIB and WIB groups and all the resources we offer at Living-Truth.org.

Why Would He Do That? Understanding the Roots of Sex Addiction - Allan Katz & Michele Saffier

Mon, 22 Jan 2024 05:30:00 -0500

In this episode Kristin interviews Allan Katz & Michele Saffier, Certified Sex Addiction Therapists with a combined 35 years of experience. In order to experience lasting change and healing, sexual addicts must address their complex trauma; one of several root issues that drive their compulsive behaviors. Learn what is needed to heal from complex trauma. Understand the deeper meaning behind the common & copious "WHY" questions we ask in early recovery. And experience a moment of mindfulness, an essential practice we need to recover from trauma. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Worthy of Her Trust with Jason Martinkus

Mon, 08 Jan 2024 05:30:00 -0500

What needs to happen in order to rebuild sexual integrity in a marriage which was broken by sexual betrayal? How can someone earn back the trust of their spouse after hurting them in this way? Listen in as. Michael interviews Jason Martinkus on his incredible book, Worthy of Her Trust. You can access the resources mentioned in this podcast at https://WorthyofHerTrust.com and https://redemptiveliving.com. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Immanuel Approach w/ Dr. Karl Lehman part 2

Mon, 25 Dec 2023 05:30:00 -0500

Dr Lehman begins with a deeply moving story of one man with a sexual addiction who did NOT want Jesus to be with him as he entered a strip Club. Jesus’ response is just stunning. Learn more about Dr. Lehman’s pain processing pathway including why trauma isn’t just rooted in false beliefs about what has happened to us, but our feelings of isolation and inadequacy to process what has occurred. Visit Immanuelapproach.com for more information! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Immanuel Approach with Dr. Karl Lehman (Part 1)

Mon, 11 Dec 2023 05:30:00 -0500

Christmas reminds us that JESUS came for us. He is Immanuel, God With Us! To celebrate his coming we're sharing the re-release of this episode from our archives.

The Immanuel approach is a lifestyle of interactive connection with Jesus developed by board certified Psychiatrist, Dr. Karl Lehman. This can be used as a safe and effective inner healing prayer experience. The practice of Jesus’ presence through the Immanuel Approach can help us self regulate when we’re upset and turn the relational circuits of the brain on to build emotional capacity. Kristin has had profound experiences with this inner healing tool personally and has been using it with betrayed partners with incredible results. If you want a deeper connection with God and increased capacity you’ll want to hear Kristin and Dr. Lehman’s dialogue in this episode! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Hope for the Holidays with Andrea Rogers

Mon, 27 Nov 2023 05:30:00 -0500

Elevated Recovery with JK Emezi part2

Mon, 13 Nov 2023 05:30:00 -0500

What motivates someone to recover from addiction? What does it take to fall in love with the process of change and growth? Listen to part 2 of this series as Michael interviews the founder of Elevated Recovery on these and many other topics. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal.

Elevated Recovery with JK Emezi part 1

Mon, 30 Oct 2023 05:30:00 -0400

How does porn addiction start and at what age? How aware is the addicted person about how many people he is hurting? What motivates someone to recover from addiction? Listen to this two part series as Michael interviews the founder of Elevated Recovery on these and many other topics. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal.

Breaking Down Betrayal: What happened in my relationship? Part 2

Mon, 16 Oct 2023 05:30:00 -0400

Kristin & Hope continue unpacking the three behaviors that people who maintain a secret sexual life employ to keep their partner in the dark. You'll better understand the conduct and impact of secret infidelity in intimate relationships. Hope provides insight into what is needed to not just find freedom from unwanted sexual behavior but to build character thats lead to trust and a healthy marriage partnership. Download a free phone background featuring an excerpt from one of Hope’s poems here: www.hoperay.com/livingtruth . The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Breaking Down Betrayal: What happened in my relationship With Hope Ray ? Part 1 of 2

Mon, 02 Oct 2023 05:30:00 -0400

Hope Ray is a CSAT and an APSATS trained therapist. In this episode, she explains the "stay shaming" that many partners experience when they choose to stay with their spouse after betrayal. Hope also describes the layers of Complex Partner Trauma & the impact of not only infidelity but the deceptive conditions that have been used to hide It. Download a free phone background featuring an excerpt from one of Hope’s poems here: www.hoperay.com/livingtruth. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Beyond Sobriety- Living Loved & Free Part 2

Mon, 18 Sep 2023 05:30:00 -0400

Heather's pornography addiction was just the tip of the iceberg. Below the surface lie self hatred, gender dysphoria, and more pain than she could process. When transitioning and living with a male identity did not soothe the ache in her soul, Heather was looking to Jesus for a love and healing that only He could offer. She reclaimed her female identity and stepped closer to the heart of her loving Father who calls her His beloved. Heather's holistic transformation has been soul level deep. Heather is an adopted & beloved member of our family. She speaks about gender & sexuality to parents, ministry leaders, youth groups. She has been featured on many podcasts & in Preston Sprinkle's Christian Sexuality curriculum. Learn more about it HERE: https://christian-sexuality.com/about/. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Beyond Sobriety- Living Loved & Free Part 1

Mon, 04 Sep 2023 05:30:00 -0400

Holding Out Hope For You with Linda & Julie

Mon, 21 Aug 2023 05:30:00 -0400

Betrayal shatters our hearts and lives. But there is TREMENDOUS hope that God can turn the darkest of seasons into a beautiful new life. Julie & Linda are Women in the Battle facilitators who are making a huge impact in binding up broken hearted betrayed partners. They are brave women who were once in the depths of despair due to their betrayal, just like you. Hear their hearts and the hope they offer you on your journey from ashes toward beauty. This episode was recorded in 2021 & is being re-posted. While circumstances have changed, the courage and strength of these two women has not.

The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

A Marriage From the Brink of Collapse to Restoration

Mon, 07 Aug 2023 05:30:00 -0400

Thomas and Jessica’s marriage as they knew it died when his sexual secrets were exposed. They each jumped into recovery work. After letting the brotherhood & roadmap of Men in the Battle® really saturate his heart, Thomas released his final secrets. That’s when he began to really change. Jessica is astounded and now enjoys the husband and father for their kids she always longed for. Thomas received more than just freedom from unwanted sexual behavior, he has healing and transformation. Jessica can’t imagine going back to who she was before her betrayal either, she has grown & matured in such significant ways! Men in the Battle® and Women in the Battle® groups open for a limited time in August, visit Living-Truth.org for more info and to secure your spot! The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Sexpectations: Helping the Next Generation Navigate Healthy Relationships with Barb Winters

Mon, 24 Jul 2023 05:30:00 -0400

As a teen, Barb's son had a secret pornography addiction. As a pastors wife and homeschool mom, this discovery caused Barb to question her parenting skills, leaving her feeling empty and alone. She was shocked that this struggle could be happening in her home without her knowledge for so long and didn't know where to turn to for help. Her pain has led to a new purpose! Barb has become a Sexual Risk Avoidance Specialist and launched Hopefulmom.net for parents to find support and practical tips for parenting in this digital and over sexualized world. In this episode, Kristin interviews Barb about her new book, Sexpectations: Helping the Next Generation Navigate Healthy Relationships which releases August 2023! The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Why Men Struggle to Love w/ Dr. Eddie Capparucci part 2 of 2

Mon, 10 Jul 2023 05:30:00 -0400

Have you ever wondered why many men struggle to love? What is an emotionally undeveloped man and what causes this phenomenon? What are relational blind spots, and how does one overcome them? Listen in to part two as Michael interviews Dr. Eddie Capparuci on his book entitled "Why Men Struggle to Love: Overcoming Relational Blind Spots" where they discuss these questions and much more in this incredible two-part interview! You can find additional resources on this issue by visiting www.strugglingmen.org or you may email Eddie directly at edcappa@gmail.com. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Why Men Struggle to Love w/ Dr. Eddie Capparucci part 1 of 2

Mon, 26 Jun 2023 05:30:00 -0400

Have you ever wondered why many men struggle to love? What is an emotionally undeveloped man and what causes this phenomenon? What are relational blind spots, and how does one overcome them? Listen in as Michael interviews Dr. Eddie Capparuci on his book entitled "Why Men Struggle to Love: Overcoming Relational Blind Spots" where they discuss these questions and much more in this incredible two-part interview! You can find additional resources on this issue by visiting www.strugglingmen.org or you may email Eddie directly at edcappa@gmail.com. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Family of Origin with Dr. Jake Porter Part 2

Mon, 12 Jun 2023 05:30:00 -0400

How do you define the Family of Origin and how does this concept affect our behavior as an adult? What are the 5 key characteristics of nurturing which every child needs, but none had it delivered perfectly by our parents? Michael welcomes back Dr. Jake Porter to explore these incredibly important issues we all need to learn about as well as provides some next steps on what to do about it (visit DaringVentures.com/FreedomtoMoveForward for information about the intensive offered by Daring Ventures). You can also find Dr. Porter's full webinar on Family of Origin Issues by visiting https://go.daringventuresathome.com/familyoforigin. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Family of Origin with Dr. Jake Porter Part 1

Mon, 29 May 2023 05:30:00 -0400

When He Won’t Change- With Kim Petroni

Mon, 15 May 2023 05:30:00 -0400

What can you do when you pray and wait for change in your husband after sexual betrayal but he continues to act out, lie, or treat you with contempt and disregard? These situations are heartbreaking and yet you are not alone. Kim Petroni has been there too and now coaches betrayed partners, helping them walk in their God given identity and courageously stand for truth. Learn more about Kim at www.coachinghope4u.com. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

The Betrayal Bind with Michelle Mays - Part 2 of 2

Mon, 01 May 2023 05:30:00 -0400

Kristin interviews Michelle Mays, a CSAT and betrayal trauma specialist whose attachment based approach to healing sheds light on the devastating and disorienting impact of sexual betrayal.

The Betrayal Bind with Michelle Mays - Part 1 of 2

Mon, 17 Apr 2023 05:30:00 -0400

Going Deeper - The Inner Child Model for Treating Problematic Sexual Behavior

Mon, 03 Apr 2023 05:30:00 -0400

Ever wonder what is the root cause of porn addiction and other unwanted sexual behavior? Not only can we identify root cause, but understand a model that is powerfully helpful in treating this issue. Michael interviews Dr. Eddie Capparucci, author of the book "Going Deeper - How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction." Listen in as Eddie describes his breakthrough approach on treating the root cause of problematic sexual behavior including the nine "Children" he discusses in the current book as well as two additional "Children" he will be adding in an upcoming revision of this incredible book. You can get more information about Dr. Capparucci and the resources he offers at www.innerchild-sexaddiction.com. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Empowered Boundaries with Tammy Gustafson

Mon, 20 Mar 2023 05:30:00 -0400

Boundaries are essential after sexual betrayal, but few of us know which boundaries to set and how to set them. In fact, many people believe that boundaries are mean. So we end up setting arbitrary boundaries that fall the first time they meet with resistance. In this episode Kristin interviews trauma-informed Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) & coach, Tammy Gustafson. Tammy unpacks why boundaries are a vital part of health and healing, how boundaries start with connecting with yourself, how to identify what you need, how to verbalize your boundary, and what to do when you meet resistance. Learn more about Tammy at www.betrayalhealing.com. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

What happens during a trauma trigger - interview with Dr. Jake Porter

Mon, 06 Mar 2023 05:30:00 -0500

In this fascinating podcast, Dr. Jake Porter of Daring Ventures defines "Trauma Triggers" and teaches on the 5 parts of the brain that are affected in the process. You can take advantage of Dr. Jake's resources by visiting daringventures.com, drjakeporter.com and go.daringventuresathome.com. Another exciting resource is Dr. Jake's Choose Connection Summit, which you can click here to register. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. You can find more information about Living Truth and the resources we offer at Living-Truth.org.

The Power of The Group - Why 2 Successful Women Keep Giving Back at Women in the Battle®

Mon, 20 Feb 2023 05:30:00 -0500

The one thing every man who struggles with porn addiction needs

Mon, 06 Feb 2023 05:30:00 -0500

The Root Cause of Problematic Sexual Behavior with Matt Wenger

Mon, 23 Jan 2023 05:30:00 -0500

Would you like to understand and identify one of the main root causes of problematic sexual behavior? Listen in as Michael unpacks this and more with Matt Wenger, the Clinical Director of Boulder Recovery. You can learn all about the resources Matt's ministry has to offer by visiting https://beginagaininstitute.com/boulder-recovery/. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. You can find more information about Living Truth and the resources we offer at Living-Truth.org.

Culturally Compassionate Recovery with Andrea Rogers

Mon, 09 Jan 2023 05:30:00 -0500

Kristin interviews Professional Life Coach Andrea Rogers about culturally compassionate care for ALL people who need support after unwanted sexual behavior or sexual betrayal. As a black woman, Andrea shares her experience entering the predominantly white recovery community. In this episode, you'll learn more about loving others well, especially when they are from racial & cultural backgrounds different from yours. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes. You can find more information about Living Truth and the resources we offer at Living-Truth.org.

God, Sex, & Your Marriage with Dr. Juli Slattery

Mon, 26 Dec 2022 05:00:00 -0500

God designed sexual intimacy as a beautiful celebration and seal of the covenant of marriage. Clearly the world, the porn industry, and the enemy have decimated this beautiful gift that when misused, causes so much pain and destruction. Dr. Juli Slattery is a Christian Psychologist who busts the manipulative use of scripture to enforce "duty sex" and shares the heart of God for sexual intimacy built on a foundation of faithfulness. You can learn more about Dr Juli at https://www.authenticintimacy.com/ (TRIGGER WARNING: this episode may be painful in early recovery from betrayal trauma.) The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Parenting After Betrayal & Unwanted Sexual Behavior with Stacey Sadler Part 2

Mon, 12 Dec 2022 05:30:00 -0500

The crisis that ensues after sexual secrets are uncovered in a marriage ALWAYS impacts the kids, regardless of their ages or how much detail they know. Kristin interviews Stacey Sadler, an APSATs certified Counselor who has personally endured the pain of parenting after betrayal. How do we help our kids through the aftermath of discovery and through the healing process? The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Parenting After Betrayal & Unwanted Sexual Behavior with Stacey Sadler Part 1

Mon, 28 Nov 2022 05:30:00 -0500

Compassionate Body Awareness For Recovery

Mon, 31 Oct 2022 05:30:00 -0400

Disconnection from the body, gut, & heart is a root issue in all addictions. This disconnection keeps betrayal trauma survivors stuck too. In this episode, Kristin interviews Carrie Holladay, a Somatic Mindfulness Coach specializing in betrayal trauma. She helps us understand WHY we disconnect from ourselves (it's a survival strategy). And, how to use compassionate dual awareness of your body & environment to gently work WITH your nervous system for healing. Somatic mindfulness is a powerful recovery tool to help you process trauma and reset your God given body-mind-heart system. To learn more about Carrie go to sincerelycarriejean.com.The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Becoming A King - Morgan Snyder from Wild at Heart

Mon, 17 Oct 2022 05:30:00 -0400

A fireside chat with Darrell Brazell: Part 2

Mon, 03 Oct 2022 05:30:00 -0400

In this second part of their "Fireside Chat", Michael & Darrell explore compelling topics like, "Once an addict, always an addict", "Brain science", and "The 5 phases of denial." For more information and the resources Darrell offers, visit https://newhope4si.com and https://protectingeve.com. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

A fireside chat with Darrell Brazell Part 1

Mon, 19 Sep 2022 05:30:00 -0400

Listen in as Michael interviews ministry leader and author Darrell Brazell about his journey from addiction to Recovery Ministry leader and Church Pastor. In this "Fireside Chat", Michael & Darrell explore multiple other topics like, "Why wouldn't a church want to approach the topic of unwanted sexual behavior in their church", "What's it like to be the wife of a Pastor who struggles with porn", and "The many fears men who struggle have and what percentage of those fears actually come true." For more information and the resources Darrell offers, visit https://newhope4si.com and https://protectingeve.com. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Emotional Regulation- The Missing Key to Healing & Connection with Matthew & Joanna Raabsmith

Mon, 05 Sep 2022 05:30:00 -0400

All destructive behaviors and unhealthy relational patterns are rooted in emotional pain that we don't know how to regulate. Marriage & Family Therapist and Professional Coach duo, Matthew & Joanna unpack the 4 step process used in Restoration Therapy. Learning to identify your core feelings and the repeat pain cycles we enter into with our spouse are the first steps toward taking our lives and marriages back from the patterns that have kept us stuck! Real change and healing are possible with these tools. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

HOPE After Sex Addiction and Betrayal

Mon, 22 Aug 2022 05:30:00 -0400

Michael, Kristin and Brian (Living Truth Staff) share stories of HOPE from men and women whose lives have been devastated by sexual addiction or sexual betrayal. Your recovery path may be long and require hard work and surrender but it does NOT need to be isolated and filled with shame. Listen in to learn more about how the right guidance and support can completely change the trajectory of your life to be better than it ever was before! The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Navigating Couples in Early Recovery w/ Carol the Coach

Mon, 08 Aug 2022 05:30:00 -0400

Sexual Betrayal can be excruciating. There is hope, however, for the couples who find that pathway to become committed to growth and recovery. There is a way to navigate early Recovery that works. Michael interviews Carol Sheets, aka Carol the Coach, about navigating Couples Early Recovery and her groundbreaking process she calls "ERCEM." You can get more information on Carol and her content at https://sexhelpwithcarolthecoach.com. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

The one thing every man who struggles with porn addiction and unwanted sexual behavior needs

Mon, 11 Jul 2022 05:30:00 -0400

Nothing is Wasted - Davey Blackburn

Mon, 27 Jun 2022 05:30:00 -0400

Years after coming home from the gym and finding his wife lying on the floor having suffered three gunshot wounds, Davey Blackburn answers questions like “where is God in the midst of tragedy?” and “how would I ever have the strength to work through trauma like this?”

Davey shares about his ministry “Nothing is Wasted”, and the resources they offer. As a pastor and ministry leader, Davey also takes an honest look at handling sexual purity issues in the church today. You can learn more at Nothingiswasted.com.

3 Essential Truths About Sex Addiction with Bob & Connie Spiegel

Mon, 13 Jun 2022 05:30:00 -0400

Bob & Connie fervently sought help for the crisis in their marriage brought on by his sexual addiction. The misguided advice they received actually enabled Bob's addiction & Connie's betrayal trauma to grow and fester. Their marriage suffered tremendous damage. But over time, with the right help, they've experienced a healing and restoration they longed for and now their life's work is helping men and women caught in these cycles of pain and destruction.. Bob & Connie are both professional coaches serving with Daring Ventures. You can get in touch with them at Connie@daringventures.comand Bob@daringventures.com. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Where Is God In Our Mess?

Mon, 30 May 2022 05:30:00 -0400

Kathy had done everything she could to salvage her marriage to Conrad but it collapsed, along with her faith. Several years later, through a delicate balance of hard work in recovery AND surrender to God, both Kathy and Conrad became ready for a new relationship built on truth and safety. Their story is filled with HOPE that God is still with us and at work, even in the mess. You'll gain practical wisdom in what you need to lay a new foundation for a stronger, better marriage after sexual betrayal. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Navigating Triggers to Build Connection with Clinton & Charity Muñoz

Mon, 16 May 2022 05:30:00 -0400

In early recovery triggers can seem endless & extremely overwhelming. But this is not a hopeless, unending inevitability! Kristin interviews Clinton & Charity Muñoz about how they navigate triggers to build connection and intimacy in their marriage! Clinton & Charity are the founders of Restored 2 More. They help couple rebuild connection and reflect God’s design for marriage after the impact of pornography and sexual brokenness. You can find them at https://restored2more.com/ The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

The Intimacy Pyramid with Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith

Mon, 02 May 2022 05:30:00 -0400

A Pastor’s Perspective On Dealing With Problematic Sexual Behavior

Mon, 18 Apr 2022 05:30:00 -0400

Sexual secrets & problematic sexual behavior are pervasive even among Christians. Pastor and sexual addiction recovery expert Darrell Brazell and Kristin offer insight into how churches and Christian counselors can point people with sexual secrets and their spouses toward a path of true freedom and real healing. You can reach Darrell at www.newhope4si.com and www.protectingeve.com. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

The Secret Sexual Basement with Darrell Brazell

Mon, 04 Apr 2022 05:30:00 -0400

“The Secret Sexual Basement” is a metaphor developed by Dr. Omar Minwalla that reveals = the concept of a deceptive, compartmentalized, sexual-relational reality (DCSR) that is common among sexual addicts and causes tremendous damage to the spouse and family. Kristin interviews pastor and recovery expert, Darrell Brazell who brings tremendous compassion, insight, and decades of experience serving sexual addicts and their spouses to this conversation. You can reach Darrell at www.newhope4si.com and www.protectingeve.com. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Worthy of Her Trust

Mon, 21 Mar 2022 05:30:00 -0400

Sex is a wonderful gift not a fundamental need!

Mon, 07 Mar 2022 05:30:00 -0500

Digging into the archives, we'd like to replay this incredible episode where Michael interviews author and ministry leader Nate Larkin about his book Samson and the Pirate Monks, his ministry with Samson Society, and his personal story. Listen as they unpack so many fundamental truths about human sexuality and sexual addiction as well as the truth about what it really takes to become free. You can learn more about Nate's ministry at SamsonSociety.com. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Prayers That Heal the Heart

Mon, 21 Feb 2022 05:30:00 -0500

When Jesus stepped to the front of the crowd and announced His ministry, one of the things He said He wanted to do is to bring Healing to the brokenhearted. How do you know you have a heart that is in need of healing? How can you go about receiving the healing Jesus mentioned in the Scriptures? Listen in as Michael interviews Dr Mark Virkler on these life giving topics from his incredible book Prayers That Heal the Heart. Here are the websites referenced during the podcast; CWGMinistries.org, CLUSchooloftheSpirit.com, https://www.cluschoolofthespirit.com/courses/prayers-that-heal-the-heart-revised/, CLUonline.com. The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

How to go directly to God for Counseling

Mon, 24 Jan 2022 05:30:00 -0500

Do you know God as "Wonderful Counselor"? Have you ever went directly to God for counseling? Listen in as Michael interviews Dr Mark Virkler on these life giving topics from his incredible book Counseled by God. Here are the websites referenced during the podcast; CWGMinistries.org, CLUSchooloftheSpirit.com, CLUonline.com. The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

4 Keys to Hearing God‘s Voice

Mon, 10 Jan 2022 05:30:00 -0500

Dr Mark Virkler has taught millions across the globe on how to clearly hear the voice of God on a daily basis. Listen in as Michael interviews Dr Virkler on this incredible life giving podcast episode! Here are the websites referenced during the podcast; CWGMinistries.org, CLUSchooloftheSpirit.com, CLUonline.com. The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Divorce with Dignity- How to heal & rebuild your life after the trauma of divorce (Part Two)

Mon, 15 Nov 2021 05:30:00 -0500

Kristin continues the discussion about Divorce with Dignity with Gaelyn Rae Emerson. When we first get married, nobody imagines that the loss and pain of divorce will become their reality. But when a marriage dies there can still be a redemptive ending for the individual who chooses to fight for their own healing. Gaelyn shares practical ideas for how to process and leverage the grief to emerge into a new dream for your life. You can learn more about Gaelyn at www.womeneverafter.com. The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Divorce with Dignity- How to heal & rebuild your life after the trauma of divorce (Part One)

Mon, 01 Nov 2021 05:30:00 -0400

Kristin discusses Divorce with Dignity with Gaelyn Rae Emerson. When we first get married, nobody imagines that the loss and pain of divorce will become their reality. But when a marriage dies there can still be a redemptive ending for the individual who chooses to fight for their own healing. Gaelyn shares practical ideas for how to process and leverage the grief to emerge into a new dream for your life. You can learn more about Gaelyn at www.womeneverafter.com. The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Equipping People Helpers to Love Women in Destructive Marriages Well with Leslie Vernick

Mon, 18 Oct 2021 05:30:00 -0400

What are the characteristics of an emotionally destructive marriage? How can pastors, counselors, ministry leaders and even friends support a woman in an emotionally destructive relationship? Why do people helpers who come alongside couples in emotionally destructive relationships often recommend a course of action that actually enables the destructive spouse and makes the victim seem like the crazy one? Leslie shares 4 important questions we can ask to help a woman to become more aware of how serious the problems are in her marriage and shed light on what she needs. Listen to the biblical principals that are often misused to keep women stuck in destructive patterns and the truth that sets us free! The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

One Man's Journey from Same Sex Attraction to a Heterosexual Marriage - Part 2 of 2

Mon, 04 Oct 2021 05:30:00 -0400

Is it possible to move from being same sex attracted to not being attracted to the same sex any longer and have a healthy heterosexual marriage? What are the root causes of unwanted sexual behavior? Tune in as Michael interviews Brad Grammer, the author of the book "Examining the Impact of Trauma". You can grab a copy of Brad's incredible book at Amazon or anywhere you purchase books. The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

One Man's Journey from Same Sex Attraction to a Heterosexual Marriage - Part 1 of 2

Mon, 20 Sep 2021 05:30:00 -0400

How We as The Church Respond to the Problem of Pornography

Mon, 06 Sep 2021 05:30:00 -0400

93% of pastors agree that pornography is a problem in their church and yet only 7% of churches have programming in place to address it. Kristin interviews Catherine Etherington, Director of Recovery at the Naked Truth Project (https://thenakedtruthproject.com/) whose mission is to Open Eyes & Free Lives. Kristin will be one of many speakers at their upcoming online conference designed to equip the Church (ministry leaders, parents, recovering addicts & partners alike) to effectively engage this most pervasive problem of pornography, offering real solutions for healing the brokenhearted & setting captives free. The P Word Conference will be September 28th-30th. Learn more at https://www.pwordconference.com/ The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Trauma Brain & Empowerment After Betrayal with Dr. Sheri Keffer

Mon, 23 Aug 2021 05:30:00 -0400

Sexual betrayal is traumatic, causing chronic stress which can alter our brain functions. Dr. Sheri Keffer shares her simple and easy to understand explanation of what is happening in our brains and how we can manage triggers to move from hopelessness into empowerment. Dr. Sheri sheds compassionate light on how both the partner and the addict can manage the chronic stress of unwanted sexual behavior and betrayal. Learn more about Dr. Sheri at www.braveone.com. The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

The Emotionally Destructive Marriage with Leslie Vernick

Mon, 26 Jul 2021 05:30:00 -0400

Hey friends! For this episode, we decided to dig into the archives and post our most downloaded podcast ever!! It is estimated that 1 in 4 Christian women are in an emotionally destructive marriage. Listen as Leslie equips us to break unhealthy patterns so that we can thrive & live the life God intended for us. Learn more about Leslie at https://leslievernick.com/. The Living Truth Podcast sheds light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

The Truth Shall Set You Free; How Full Disclosure Can Benefit Couples in Recovery with Dan Drake and Dr. Janice Caudill

Mon, 28 Jun 2021 05:30:00 -0400

Intimacy Anorexia with Dr. Janice Caudill

Mon, 14 Jun 2021 14:41:54 -0400

Intimacy Anorexia (IA) is the deliberate withholding of emotional, sexual, and/or spiritual intimacy from one’s partner. This deeply painful condition within a marriage is not uncommon but rarely correctly diagnosed as IA is a newly recognized condition that many people helpers don’t yet recognize.. Join Kristin as she interviews Dr. Janice Caudill whose expertise is in working with sexual addiction, partner trauma, and Intimacy Anorexia. Even through the devastation of these three issues there IS hope to overcome and heal! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

A man's journey from porn struggle to freedom from unwanted sexual behavior - Part 2 of 2

Mon, 31 May 2021 05:30:00 -0400

What is the biggest thing that helped in the journey to recovering sexual purity, and what were some of the challenges along the way? What's the best way for a pastor to handle a staff member confessing unwanted sexual behavior? Hear the answers to these questions and many more where Michael interviews Living Truth staff member Brian Mulder. Brian was a worship pastor who struggled with unwanted sexual behavior most of his life. He shares his story with much courage and vulnerability in this incredible two part podcast series! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

A man's journey from porn struggle to freedom from unwanted sexual behavior - Part 1 of 2

Mon, 17 May 2021 05:30:00 -0400

Parentified Kids- The Impact of an Addicted Family System on Kirsten’s Life (part two of two)

Mon, 03 May 2021 05:30:00 -0400

Kirsten was super close to her dad growing up. When she was in college his sex addiction was exposed and her whole world blew up. Kirsten got the help she needed after the trauma of her dad’s betrayal had a head on collision with the stress and pain of years of over-functioning and neglecting her true needs. Often in addictive family systems there are children who take on parental and adult roles and this was certainly the case for Kirsten’s. Listen to the first part of her story full of vulnerability and courage!

Parentified Kids- The Impact of an Addicted Family System on Kirsten’s Life (part one of two)

Mon, 19 Apr 2021 05:30:00 -0400

Erotica, Silence, Shame, Repeat…How a Christian mom walks toward Jesus in the midst of her struggle.

Mon, 05 Apr 2021 05:30:00 -0400

It all started with a dimestore romance novel given to her at the tender age of 13. Intrigued and curious, yet filled with shame at her desire to read more “Anna” unpacks her struggle with erotica (porn in written form). When her youth group’s sex talk for the girls portrayed sexual struggle as just a guys’ issues Anna’s belief that she was dirty, shameful, and better keep her mouth shut about this battle was cemented. But there’s hope….Anna sheds light on some of the deep spiritual work she has done to break the chains! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

John Eldredge -Get Your Life Back

Mon, 22 Mar 2021 05:30:00 -0400

Michael interviews New York Times best-selling author, John Eldredge, in this "1 year anniversary" podcast episode! John shares vital information on why this is such a brutal time to be a human being, as well as life giving tools on how to maintain mental health and connect with God in this technology crazed culture we live in. We thought it so pertinent to share this episode with you again, remixed, as this info is needed now more than ever (although we didn't know we were heading into a pandemic when this was recorded). Thank you, our listeners, for making the dream of a successful podcast. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Taylor- A Daughter in the Battle Episode Two

Mon, 08 Mar 2021 05:30:00 -0500

How does a parent’s unwanted sexual behavior impact their kids? Often the traumatic impact of betrayal on the kids is underrated and very few resources exist to support them. Taylor was only 16 when she first discovered her dad’s use of online dating sites. It horrified her and she began acting out sexually. Nearly 10 years later she was thrust into a major crisis due to dad’s acting out and mom’s betrayal trauma. A few months later Taylor walked into the very first Daughters in the Battle meeting- the safest place for teen and young adult daughters to get the support they desperately need after the impact of sexual betrayal on their family. You’ll learn so much from hearing Taylor honestly share her experience and the relief she found from not having to cope all alone. For more information about Daughters in the Battle which meets over zoom the first Tuesday of every month, subscribe to our email list at living-truth.org

Taylor- A Daughter in the Battle Episode One of Two

Mon, 22 Feb 2021 05:30:00 -0500

Immanuel Approach w/ Dr. Karl Lehman part 2

Mon, 08 Feb 2021 05:30:00 -0500

Immanuel Approach with Dr. Karl Lehman (Part 1)

Mon, 25 Jan 2021 05:30:00 -0500

The Immanuel approach is a lifestyle of interactive connection with Jesus developed by board certified Psychiatrist, Dr. Karl Lehman. This can be used as a safe and effective inner healing prayer experience facilitated by any lay person with training in basic Immanuel Approach principles. The practice of Jesus’ presence through the Immanuel Approach can help us self regulate when we’re upset and turn the relational circuits of the brain on to build emotional capacity. Kristin has had profound experiences with this inner healing tool personally and has been using it with betrayed partners with incredible results. If you want a deeper connection with God and increased capacity you’ll want to hear Kristin and Dr. Lehman’s dialogue in this episode! The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Your sexual brokenness is not a life sentence to shame or addiction, it is a roadmap to healing with Jay Stringer

Mon, 11 Jan 2021 05:30:00 -0500

Has anyone ever said to you, "You should be ashamed of yourself!" If so, did it help you identify and change an unwanted behavior? Or did it just make you feel guilty and defeated? Jay Stringer, author of the incredible book, Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing, shares with us a new approach to the conversation around sexual brokenness. Traditionally most approaches to unwanted sexual behavior are about suppressing desire or removing the shame associated with your choices. But neither of these truly lead to freedom. Jay offers a third approach, based on years of research, which shows that unwanted sexual behaviors are not random. These behaviors were both shaped and predicted by the parts of our story that remain unaddressed. The implication is that if you want to find freedom, you need to identify the unique reasons that bring you to it in the first place. Instead of trying to escape shame, let's look right at it and let it teach us. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Finding Clarity and Connection After the Crisis of Porn Addiction, Sex Addiction or Betrayal with Michael & Kristin Cary

Mon, 28 Dec 2020 05:30:00 -0500

Exciting upgrades to our recovery programs for men and women are upon us! Listen in as Michael & Kristin unveil how their years of experience in the trenches has led to the development of The Living Truth Together Community! Men in the Battle® & Women in the Battle® are expanding in depth and impact with our creation of 6 months of custom curriculum, more options for recovery small groups, and more congruent messaging for couples working these programs at the same time! Take your recovery to the next level with us! Sign ups begin January 2nd for existing members and January 5th for new members. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

The Power of The Group - Why 2 Successful Women Keep Giving Back at Women in the Battle®

Mon, 14 Dec 2020 05:30:00 -0500

Trauma Informed Care For the Sexually Betrayed Partner with Donna Dixon

Mon, 16 Nov 2020 05:30:00 -0500

Sexual betrayal causes ongoing complex trauma. How can we effectively walk alongside betrayed partners? Donna Dixon has developed trauma informed training and certification for peer led partner betrayal groups (she trains all of our Women in the Battle leaders!) In this episode, Donna and Kristin reflect on the incredible healing power of simply bearing witness to another’s pain... to just be with them in it. Donna's tender heart and wise insight sheds light on the effects of betrayal trauma on partners. She challenges us to grow in our view of suffering as a normal part of the human experience in a broken and fallen world and compassionately normalizes the crisis of faith that so many traumatized people experience. This episode can offer profound hope for the broken…that their faith in the goodness and power of God can actually be deconstructed and reconstructed. The result of this rebuilding can be an utter masterpiece! So many partners emerge from their betrayal trauma recovery work with hearts of greater compassion, removal of judgement, and tender authenticity that reflect Jesus like never before!

The Questions You’ve Always Wondered About - A Women’s Panel Discussion Part 3 of 3

Mon, 19 Oct 2020 05:30:00 -0400

What is the best way to rebuild trust after sexual betrayal? What does it mean to make amends? What advice would you give a single person struggling with unwanted sexual behavior? Find the answers to these questions and many more as Michael interviews his wife and 2 other women - all three of these professionals work full time helping women who have experienced sexual betrayal. We believe all of our listeners will benefit from listening to this 3 part series!

The Questions You’ve Always Wondered About - A Women’s Panel Discussion Part 2 of 3

Mon, 12 Oct 2020 05:30:00 -0400

The Questions You’ve Always Wondered About - A Women’s Panel Discussion Part 1 of 3

Mon, 05 Oct 2020 05:30:00 -0400

How Can a Godly Woman Break Unhealthy Patterns in Her Marriage with Leslie Vernick

Mon, 21 Sep 2020 05:30:00 -0400

Kristin interviews counselor, coach, & author Leslie Vernick. In this episode Leslie unpacks the difference between a disappointing marriage, a difficult marriage & a destructive marriage. She explains why Christian women tend to be more vulnerable to emotionally destructive relationships and what they can do to overcome these unhealthy patterns. With biblical truth & grace, Leslie offers insight into the difference between true biblical headship and spiritual oppression and she dismantles the oft cited scriptures that get misused to keep women trapped in destructive patterns in their marriage. You can learn more about Leslie and her resources at https://leslievernick.com.

What our Sexual Fantasies Tell us About Ourselves with Shannon Ethridge

Mon, 07 Sep 2020 05:30:00 -0400

Sexuality is woven into the fabric of our humanity and one of the enemy’s prime targets. How do we overcome our past sexual trauma? Learn incredible truths about sexual fantasies and listen to practical tips on developing healthy sexuality too! In this episode, Kristin discusses these topics and more with Shannon Ethridge, an award-winning author of 22 books including the best-selling Every Woman’s Battle series. She is a certified life coaching and loves to help people make PEACE with their sexual past and cultivate RICH and REWARDING romantic relationships. Learn more about her at www.shannonethridge.com.

An incredible process that can change your marriage and relationships!

Mon, 10 Aug 2020 05:30:00 -0400

Have you ever found yourself getting defensive and retreating in the face of conflict, especially in marriage? In this episode, Michael interviews Dr. Jacob Porter of Daring Ventures about an incredible process that could change your life if you use it. Jake was a pastor for 13 years before issues surfaced in his own life leading him to become a professional counselor and creating many life changing tools such as the one discussed in this podcast. After listening, you will likely want to dive even deeper into this subject by watching Jake’s in depth webinar which can be found at http://daringventuresathome.com/makingsaves. Jake also offers a 50% off coupon code for this webinar toward the end of this podcast. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Regulate your mind and your body to change your reactions to stress!

Mon, 27 Jul 2020 05:30:00 -0400

Julie St Onge is a Professional Life Coach specializing in betrayal trauma, sexual addiction, and wholistic health. She also leads Women in the Battle in New Hampshire. Julie spent 20 years as a nurse, working primarily in Labor and Delivery. Her her professional experience with coaching women through the physical pain of birth laid a foundation for how she walks women through the excruciating emotional pain of betrayal. Having personally walked the road of betrayal trauma recovery through a Women in the Battle group, Julie knows the power of recovery community to reduce our shame and bring us back to life! In this episode Julie leads us through "top down" and "bottom up" strategies to calm the brain and body that have gone into overdrive due to severe stress. You’ll walk away with some helpful tools and a perspective shift in how you treat yourself as you walk through difficulty!

What it takes to help kids walk away from porn

Mon, 13 Jul 2020 05:30:00 -0400

Kristin talks with Sally Groff who runs a large Christian counseling practice in Indianapolis and has years of experience doing therapy with children. Sally shares how pornography impacted her own life as a child. She also gives invaluable insight into how a parent can respond when they find out their child has been viewing pornography. With grace and a focus on the heart, Sally offers wise counsel on how to connect with our kids and help them develop internal longing to pursue what they truly need. Her insights will inspire and encourage you in your own journey toward wholeness as well! Learn more about Sally’s counseling practice at https://groffandassociates.com/. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Porn and Marriage Don’t Mix

Mon, 15 Jun 2020 05:30:00 -0400

In March, 2020, Michael & Kristin spoke at The Marriage Mastery Summit; an online Summit geared toward helping people develop a deeper and more meaningful marriage. We believe you will benefit from listening as Anne Nelson from Fully Thriving interviews us about the damaging affect of porn and infidelity on marriage, and the path to healing, redemption and restored intimacy. The summit was held at https://themarriagemasterysummit.fullythriving.com/summit-welcome. You can find more information about Anne Nelson and the resources she offers at FullyThriving.com.

Sex is a wonderful gift not a fundamental need!

Mon, 01 Jun 2020 05:30:00 -0400

Michael interviews author and ministry leader Nate Larkin about his book Samson and the Pirate Monks, his ministry with Samson Society, and his personal story. Listen as they unpack so many fundamental truths about human sexuality and sexual addiction as well as the truth about what it really takes to become free. You can learn more about Nate's ministry at SamsonSociety.com. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction, sex addiction, & help for those enduring the devastation of sexual betrayal this causes.

Women Struggle with Lust and Broken Sexuality Too!

Mon, 20 Apr 2020 05:30:00 -0400

Kari’s pursuit of online sexual encounters & pornography began in 2015. When she realized the level of self destruction she was headed for, Kari got help. Here, she vulnerably shares her struggles with sexual integrity as a Christian woman . As Kari discovered, “acting out sexually is one common symptom of unresolved pain and insecurity”. Listen in as Kristin & Kari explore insights into the keys to freedom and healing in this episode! If you are a woman struggling in this area, please contact Kristin at KristinC@Living-Truth.org for additional help and resources. Men, please contact Michael at MichaelC@Living-Truth.org.

Empathy for the Betrayed Spouse with Carol the Coach

Mon, 06 Apr 2020 05:30:00 -0400

In this episode, Kristin interviews Carol Juergensen Sheets (aka Carol the Coach). Carol is the only Certified Sex Addiction Therapist in the Indianapolis area. She also has the heart and understanding to help betrayed partners through the trauma model. Carol has seen first hand which couples survive and even thrive after sexual betrayal. And empathy is a key element! In this podcast Carol shares why is it so difficult for spouses with problematic sexual behavior to demonstrate empathy and why partners are often afraid to trust that empathy. She sheds light on how long it takes to see actual trust being rebuilt for a better marriage than ever before! Carol is the author of Help Her Heal, and the host of three Podcasts; Sex Help With Carol the Coach, Sexual Addiction:Strength/Hope/Recovery and Betrayal Recovery Radio. For more information or to contact Carol, visit her website: Carolthecoach.com

An Unexpected Podcast

Mon, 23 Mar 2020 05:30:00 -0400

In the midst of the global medical crisis caused by Coronavirus COVID-19, everything in our lives has been disrupted, including our originally planned Podcast schedule. We believe you will find this conversation with Michael & Kristin Cary helpful and relatable, with some ideas on how to cope during this stressful time, especially for those who are in recovery. You can get more info on our ministry and the resources we offer at Living-Truth.org including links to Men in the Battle® and Women in the Battle®. Many God grant you grace & peace along with protection during the unprecedented time.

When The Church Shoots Its Wounded- Spiritual Trauma & The Betrayed Spouse

Mon, 16 Mar 2020 05:30:00 -0400

The two most important covenants Corri made, to marriage and to full-time ministry, were pulled out from under her in 2014 when she discovered ongoing addiction in her marriage, sought help from her leadership, and was fired. While Corri’s heart and marriage have been resurrected, the journey of belonging again after spiritual trauma is ongoing. The marginalization she experienced at the hands of the body of Christ, due to common misunderstandings about sexual addiction and betrayal trauma, continue for others in ministry and church communities. Corri and Kristin unpack their personal and professional experiences with grace and truth regarding this pandemic affecting the church and they give tangible advice for how to love someone reeling from the devastation of betrayal.

Michael Cary conversation with John Eldredge

Mon, 02 Mar 2020 05:30:00 -0500

Michael interviews New York Times Bestselling author John Eldredge about his new book Get Your Life Back. John is the President of Ransomed Heart (RansomedHeart.com) and is the author of numerous books such as Wild at Heart, Waking the Dead, Walking with God and Love and War. The discussion includes why we need to slow down and some practices that help us connect with God and others better. John also speaks on some of his childhood experiences with his mother and how he came to decide to write this book. I am sure this podcast will benefit everyone who is reading this!

Living Truth Intro Podcast

Sun, 16 Feb 2020 08:53:06 -0500

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