Let‘s Talk About Sex with Lynn and Jen

Shades of Abuse: Ep. 5 of 5 –Abuse Prevention

Thu, 03 Aug 2023 20:16:00 -0700

Psychiatrist Lynn Ponton and therapist Soy Kim discuss the ways in which abusive behavior can be prevented.

Shades of Abuse: Ep. 4 of 5 – Treating Abusers

Thu, 27 Jul 2023 20:14:00 -0700

Dr. Lynn Ponton and therapist Soy Kim discuss treatment options for individuals who have abused.

Shades of Abuse: Ep. 3 of 5 – Sibling Abuse

Thu, 20 Jul 2023 20:14:03 -0700

Psychiatrist Lynn Ponton MD and Soy Kim LMFT discuss sibling abuse in this episode of their five-part series.

Shades of Abuse: Ep. 2 of 5 – Grooming

Fri, 07 Jul 2023 08:46:41 -0700

In this second episode of the series, Dr. Lynn Ponton and LMFT Soy Kim discuss the role of grooming within abuse.

Shades of Abuse: Ep. 1 of 5

Thu, 29 Jun 2023 22:52:04 -0700

Lynn Ponton and Soy Kim discuss abuse and complicity in this five-episode series.

Unmasked – Covid and Depression

Wed, 13 Jul 2022 08:53:36 -0700

Lynn and Jen wrap up their podcast with the series finale on COVID and depression, featuring guests Soy and Val. Recorded on Feb. 25, 2022.

Unmasked – Psychological Effects of COVID

Wed, 23 Feb 2022 08:47:56 -0800

Dr. Lynn Ponton and Jennifer Wong discuss the emotional impact of COVID with guests Soy and Val.

Social Media Readiness, ep. #3

Fri, 28 Jan 2022 09:47:00 -0800

Following our first episodes, Lynn and Jenn have a conversation with guests Soy and Valerie about social media readiness for teens.

Social Media Readiness, ep. #2

Fri, 21 Jan 2022 11:52:00 -0800

Social Media Readiness, ep. #1

Fri, 14 Jan 2022 09:17:06 -0800

Lynn and Jen discuss social media readiness for teens, part one.

Unmasked: A Focus on Sexual Harassment and Bill Cosby

Fri, 26 Nov 2021 10:46:00 -0800

16 July 2021. Several epidemics coincide in America. Lynn and Jen discuss the ongoing epidemics of sexual harassment and COVID. How do these epidemics affect each other?

Unmasked: Focus on Afghanistan

Wed, 24 Nov 2021 10:42:33 -0800

23 August 2021: Lynn and Jen discuss women's plight in Afghanistan focusing on the book Dancing in the Mosque by Homeria Qaderi. During the current American evacuation of Afghanistan women are suffering in unique ways. Survival strategies and ways to assist are focused on.

Unmasked: Between Fantasy and Delusion

Fri, 28 May 2021 12:27:00 -0700

What does it mean when an individual is entrenched in a belief that is not true? In this episode of Unmasked, Lynn and Jen reflect think about thinking and consider when our fantasies are protective or problematic.

Unmasked: Pandemic Burnout

Wed, 26 May 2021 09:00:00 -0700

It's not just you feeling like you're running out of steam, in this episode of Unmasked, Lynn and Jen discuss pandemic burnout and what you can do to cope and thrive.

Unmasked: Observations from a Year of Distance

Sun, 23 May 2021 12:20:57 -0700

Lynn and Jen reflect on one year of COVID and bring together themes across Unmasked.

Unmasked: Friendships

Sun, 23 May 2021 12:19:41 -0700

In this trying time our friends are needed more than ever, and yet COVID has placed unique strains our close relationships. Lynn and Jen give advice on how to maintain friendships.

Unmasked: The Emotions of Flexibility

Fri, 05 Feb 2021 08:03:29 -0800

In the middle of pandemic, the need for flexibility has become evermore apparent in the face of uncertainty. As parents, partners, professionals, and feeling people, how do we work through the emotions of flexibility?

Unmasked: Supporting Others, Caring for Ourselves

Wed, 03 Feb 2021 09:03:36 -0800

Lynn and Jenn discuss what it means to be a therapist in pandemic. How can clinicians hold space for clients while also doing that for themselves? How can we deal with the personal when so much focus is on supporting others?

Unmasked: Post-Traumatic Growth

Wed, 03 Feb 2021 08:56:49 -0800

What potential is there for growth after trauma? Lynn and Jen explore the idea of personal development with the possibilities of 2021.

Unmasked: Stress, Trauma, and COVID

Fri, 22 Jan 2021 08:40:00 -0800

How can those with existing mental health issues from pre-COVID times be supported? In this episode Lynn and Jenn discuss strategies they have been using in their practices to address stress, trauma, and challenging family dynamics.

Unmasked: The End of 2020

Fri, 15 Jan 2021 19:33:00 -0800

Lynn and Jen reflect at the end 2020: What does celebration look like in the midst of loss and separation? What can we learn from this year and take into 2021?

Unmasked: Teens, Trump, and Covid

Mon, 16 Nov 2020 09:00:00 -0800

As teen mental health experts, Lynn and Jen explore how adolescents have been coping during Covid times and in a Trump worlds. This episode is the third in a special series, Unmasked.

Unmasked: Anger in Covid Times

Sun, 15 Nov 2020 20:42:14 -0800

In their second episode of a special COVID-19 series, Lynn and Jen explore topics related to anger. Are you feeling more prone to anger during this challenging time? The LTAS duo analyzes the many dimensions of anger and offers solutions to regulate and reframe this intense feeling.

Unmasked: Work and Mental Health in Covid Times

Fri, 16 Oct 2020 09:00:55 -0700

Lynn and Jen are back with a special series on mental health during the COVID-19 epidemic. In this first episode, thy explore topics related to work. With work occupying such a central part of our lives and identity, how are individuals coping while work changes in a socially-distant world?

Spotlight on Sex 38. COVID-19

Fri, 13 Mar 2020 10:03:12 -0700

With COVID-19 on everyone's minds, LTAS is back with a spotlight on the psychology of epidemics. How do we understand our natural desire for safety and control in the midst of uncertainty? Lynn and Jen unpack strategies for managing fears, staying grounded, and making decisions in stressful situations.

52. Abusive Systems

Tue, 04 Feb 2020 08:51:22 -0800

This week, Lynn and Jen talk about how abusive systems are created and maintained, explaining the different roles each member in the system takes. Whether in families, government, or culture, these structures are insidious and hard to see, but with awareness, can be broken.

51. The Five Love Languages

Wed, 04 Dec 2019 08:15:44 -0800

This week on LTAS, Lynn and Jen discuss how using the five love languages can help improve couples' communication with each other.

Here's a link to take the quiz to find out your love language:
https://www.5lovelanguages.com/

50. Sexting and Revenge Porn

Tue, 19 Nov 2019 09:06:32 -0800

In this episode, Lynn and Jen revisit their conversation around sexting as revenge porn has become more obtrusive.

Instead of shaming sexting, how do we promote consent in this new way of relating?

37. Spotlight on Sex: Women Leaders

Tue, 05 Nov 2019 08:45:21 -0800

It's election day 2019!

Inspired by Elizabeth Warren's running for president in 2020, Lynn and Jen dive right into the challenges women in positions of power face in our patriarchal culture.

What are some of the challenges you have faced as a woman while in positions of power, whether that be at work, within your social circles, at home, etc.? Let us know!

Spotlight on Sex 35. Homelessness and Navigation Centers

Tue, 22 Oct 2019 09:02:36 -0700

In this spotlight episode, Lynn and Jen talk about the impacts of homelessness on individuals and their sexuality, and what we can do as a community to provide support.

Make sure to check in with your local navigation centers to see what you can do to help!

49. Erotic Transference

Tue, 08 Oct 2019 09:41:56 -0700

Have you ever felt a sense of love or longing towards your therapist and couldn't figure out why? Or have you wondered how it happens?

This week, Lynn and Jen talk about when a client develops loving feelings towards their therapist--in psychology, this is called erotic transference. We hope that with this episode, we can shed some light on what it is and keep the conversation going.

To find out more about, you can visit: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-therapy/201206/clients-guide-transference

Spotlight on Sex 34. What the Heck is Sugar Dating?

Tue, 24 Sep 2019 09:02:43 -0700

After a recent session with a teen client telling Jen about sugar dating, Jen wondered, "What the heck is sugar dating?!" Turns out, this has been around: We've heard of "sugar daddies" and "sugar babies," and apparently this relationship is "sugar dating."

Are these relationships sexual? Are young people being exploited in these relationships? Or is it better to have explicit knowledge of these exchanges? Are these dynamics circumventing vulnerability? What about sugar mama's and how does this dynamic affect traditional gender norms?

48. The Cougar

Tue, 10 Sep 2019 08:46:34 -0700

As Lynn and Jen were discussing "sugar dating" and "sugar mama's," as some of you may have heard in our previous episode, it got us questioning the dynamics of older women and younger men who date. And often the women in these relationships are called "cougars." But unlike what is portrayed in the media, research shows that couples with this structure are in intimate, fulfilling relationships. In this same study, differences were found in how older women met their partners. They also note that as women age, mothers and grandmothers are seen as incompatible with having sexual desires.

Jen shares about being married to a younger man and Lynn shares how older women and younger men were more common in Canada.

Spotlight on Sex 36. Abuse? Is it so black and white?

Tue, 20 Aug 2019 09:51:10 -0700

This week on LTAS, Lynn and Jen take a deep dive into the complex dynamics of sex trafficking, breaking away from the idea of the roles of victim and perpetrator being mutually exclusive. This is how the media portrays abuse:

Jeffrey Epstein - "The Monster"

Ghislaine Maxwell - "The Accomplice"

Cyntoia Brown - "The Hero" (now)

We believe all three have suffered from abuse, but the difference is in how they choose to cope with their trauma.

47. Sexual Junctures and Learning "Gender Rules"

Tue, 06 Aug 2019 08:55:30 -0700

"The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else."

That's something a 13-year-old said to Jen in a session one day. It made her realize that quite a few young teens that she is working with want to engage in sex, but view it in a very nonchalant manner. This raised some questions: What sexual junctures do young people face when developing their sexual identity? What are the beliefs that shape the rules they are trying to follow? Why is sex ed. only teaching the mechanics of sex? What about the socioemotional piece?

These sexual junctures occur in childhood, teenhood, adulthood, and even in toddlers. Lynn shares the story of her grandson who has now decided that "Nana can't throw me the ball because she's a girl. Only boys can throw me the ball," even though she was the one who taught him how to play ball.

46. Max Landis - Abusive Patterns

Tue, 23 Jul 2019 08:56:06 -0700

Sparked by an article in The Daily Beast, Lynn and Jen discuss patterns of abuse that seem so "normal" in our culture that many people get away with it. Often, the people who are being abused aren't consciously aware that what they have experienced is abuse, and a part of that relies upon predators grooming themselves long before they groom others. Those that do speak up, do so to protect other potential targets of abuse. It's not until the abused come together that they can see the patterns and realize it's not just them.

33. Spotlight on Sex: Genocide of Indigenous Women in Canada

Tue, 09 Jul 2019 08:45:55 -0700

Lynn and Jen talk about the issues surrounding the prejudice against Indigenous women and girls in Canada, where large numbers go missing and murdered. In particular, the released New York Times article summarizes the National Inquiry report which calls this tragedy a genocide. Lynn shares personal experiences from her time working in the Red River area with this population and notes how the system continues to fail them, even when the "proper" procedures are followed.

45. Who's Responsible? Reshaping the Way We Talk about Abortion

Tue, 25 Jun 2019 09:50:00 -0700

Let's reshape the conversation around abortion away from pro-life or pro-choice, towards addressing the root cause--decreasing unwanted pregnancies. Lynn and Jen discuss personal and community responsibility, bringing in ideas by Gabrielle Blair in her controversial Medium article and the book, Women Talking by Miriam Toews.

44. Power and Personal Harassment

Tue, 11 Jun 2019 10:00:00 -0700

Lynn and Jen talk about the many different aspects of the power dynamics--power over vs. power sharing--in our country inspired by Lucy Flores' op-ed about Joe Biden. Lynn also shares a recent personal experience with sexual harassment and the feelings that arose as a result.

Spotlight on Sex 32. Game of Thrones and Gender Roles

Tue, 28 May 2019 09:24:15 -0700

As the beloved series comes to a close with just one episode left, Lynn and Jen talk about the way some of the most popular characters both followed and broke traditional gender roles while navigating their power.

43. Sexual Trauma and the Appetite for Control

Tue, 21 May 2019 11:26:12 -0700

Lynn and Jen talk about how among people who have experienced sexual trauma, there is a high number of people who engage in disordered eating. We advocate that for those who are listening to the stories of survivors of sexual assault to consider exploring whether food is being used as a way to cope with the loss of control. We help listeners understand how the illusion of control is an important link.

Where We've Been, Where We Can Go

Tue, 26 Mar 2019 12:18:25 -0700

Happy (belated) International Women's Day!

In this episode, Lynn and I began by talking about our individual experiences on International Women's Day. As the conversation went on, it became apparent that the policies a culture adopts affects not only society, but our own personal lives as well.

We've seen where we've been, what can we do differently in the upcoming years?

41. Hearing Our Boys and Men

Tue, 12 Mar 2019 12:17:18 -0700

In response to feedback we've received from our previous episodes, today we talk more about the way our society does not hear the full experience of boys and men who have been sexually abused. Thank you to those in our community who have reached out to and educated us. We hope that with the feedback we've received, we can keep the conversation going.

Navigating the Holidays...(You Got This!)

Fri, 21 Dec 2018 08:59:05 -0800

The Holidays are here! While chatting about our respective experiences with the holidays, we discovered that we definitely share some similar struggles with navigating gender, power, family dynamics, and the massive build up of expectations that tend to make the holidays a tricky time for so many. In this Episode, we'll divulge a few of our points of contention (to put it mildly!), and share some tips on how to stay calm, how to remain curious instead of judge-y (where possible), and how to ride out the end of the year in a way that allows you to be present with folks, but also hold firmly onto yourself!

39. Why We Protect Abusers

Wed, 24 Oct 2018 09:38:15 -0700

The idea for this episode's topic started when Jen was driving and heard Ryan Seacrest on the radio. Seacrest had been accused of sexually assaulting his ex-stylist, and that got Jen thinking about how and why society frequently protects abusers. Lynn and Jen also recently had been doing research on grooming by abusive teachers, and in this episode, they share some of their thoughts, reflections, and discoveries.

Spotlight on Sex 31. Getting Personal About the Ford/Kavanaugh Hearings

Tue, 02 Oct 2018 08:32:04 -0700

There are a lot of ways to think and feel through our individual and collective responses to the Ford/Kavanaugh hearings. When things get stirred up, we sometimes put our more scientific and analytic brains down for a nap and just talk from our guts. Here's our version of that. With guest Jesse Hewit.

Spotlight on Sex 30. How to Talk With Your Kids About the Kavanaugh Allegations

Fri, 28 Sep 2018 08:39:38 -0700

In this episode, we address the difficult questions and potential consequences of talking or not talking about the Kavanaugh allegations with our kids. Many parents have questions about how young is too young to begin conversations with your kids about such difficult issues, what terminology is important to use, and how we can empower our kids take care of themselves and eachother.

37. Life Transitions Part 3: Partnering with Emerging Adults: A time of great uncertainty and possibility

Tue, 28 Aug 2018 09:34:29 -0700

We somehow skipped over posting this episode! It was supposed to be the third piece to our life transitions trilogy. Anyway, here it is now! This one's for the 20-somethings inbetween adolescence and adulthood, and those who live, love and work with them.

Spotlight on Sex 28. Avital Follow-up

Fri, 24 Aug 2018 12:44:36 -0700

We've heard you, and are back discussing the Avital Ronell situation in light of new information that has been released to the public. Thanks for listening and sending us feedback. We love hearing from you!

38. Chloe Dykstra's allegations against Chris Hardwick and the importance of confronting abuse in all forms

Tue, 14 Aug 2018 10:31:32 -0700

Here we discuss this post on Medium, titled Rose-Colored Glasses: A Confession, written by Chloe Dykstra about her relationship with an abusive ex-boyfriend. Readers identified that person as Chris Hardwick, though he was not mentioned by name in the post. We chose to use this opportunity to discuss the importance of confronting abuse.

36. Life Transitions Part 2: The Changing Roles of Grandparenting

Tue, 31 Jul 2018 08:39:48 -0700

Following up on a discussion that was sparked by our last episode, we turn our focus to the other end of the life spectrum--grandparenting. Both of us had grandfathers that were formative to our lives, and we share about those relationships. Lynn is in the early years of being a grandmother and she talks about her experiences with that. How have major societal shifts affected the grandparenting role? Listen to find out!

What are your experiences related to grandparenting? We'd love to hear from you! info@talkingsexpodcast.com

35. Life Transitions Part 1: Parenting Young Children: Childcare Crisis in America

Tue, 03 Jul 2018 11:41:42 -0700

Childcare now costs more than in-state public college tuition in America. Let that sink in for a moment. Lynn and Jen are here to talk about the childcare crisis in America, what we can do about it, and how come it matters even for people who aren't birthing children. Since we're in California, we mostly talk about the California statistics, which you can see here. For those of you in other states, you can find facts here.

Does this resonate with you? How have you dealt with this issue in your life? We'd love to hear your story! info@talkingsexpodcast.com

Spotlight on Sex 27. Avital Ronell and the Letter

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 08:55:13 -0700

It's been a while since we've had a Spotlight on Sex! In this epsiode we share observations and questions that came up for us when we read this blogpost by professor Brian Leiter regarding a letter written in support of professor Avital Ronell, who is apparently the accused in a Title IX investigation at NYU. What are your thoughts? Have we introduced an idea you'd like us to explore in greater depth? Let us know! info@talkingsexpodcast.com

Next week we'll release our regular biweekly episode. The topic: Childcare in America. Stay tuned!

34. Equal Pay Day

Tue, 19 Jun 2018 08:08:00 -0700

Thanks for your patience with us everyone! We've been swamped with work and are finally getting caught up. We recorded this epsiode in April, close to Equal Pay Day 2018, which was April 10th this year. Listen in as we talk about what Equal Pay Day is, and why it matters. If you want more details, you can check out http://www.equalpaytoday.org/equalpaydays/. Thanks for being one of our listeners!

33. The Unwanted Kiss

Tue, 05 Jun 2018 08:30:57 -0700

This audition of Benjamin Glaze for American Idol has been controversial in the era of #MeToo. Lynn and Jen share their views, and discuss questions that have been raised by the public, such as is this sexual harassment? What questions do you have about it? What are your opinions? We'd love to hear from you!

32. Redefining Misogyny

Tue, 15 May 2018 08:16:32 -0700

For a long time misogyny has been defined as a mans's deep-seated hatred of all women, but what if this isn't quite right? It doesn't explain how these men are hostile to some women but not others. In 'Down Girl', Kate Manne introduces a refined definition that does. Listen in as Lynn and Jen discuss what they've learned from the book!

31. The Voices in Our Heads

Tue, 03 Apr 2018 08:51:30 -0700

Dr. Lynn Ponton and Jennifer Wong, LMFT, share their thoughts about the voices we hear in our heads.

30. Complicit

Mon, 19 Mar 2018 16:31:00 -0700

Lynn and Jen are back to unpack what it means to be "complicit".

29. The Toll of Work-Life on Women Doctors

Tue, 06 Mar 2018 00:09:00 -0800

Dr. Lynn and Jen, LMFT, talk about the toll of work-life on women doctors. Share your stories and comments on twitter https://twitter.com/TalkingSexPod or at info@talkingsexpodcast.com

28. Selling Objectification as Empowerment

Mon, 19 Feb 2018 16:16:00 -0800

Dr. Lynn Ponton and Jennifer Wong discuss how Victoria's Secret fashion show is selling objectification as empowerment.

27. What to Look for in a Therapist

Mon, 05 Feb 2018 16:09:00 -0800

The New Year is a time associated with change, new beginnings, and new commitments to a better quality of life. Are you thinking about finding yourself a therapist? Lynn and Jen discuss what to look for in your search. Therapy is an opportunity to develop a trusting bond with a professional, offering you the security to explore and become your best self. Thanks for being one of our listeners. Happy New Year!

Spotlight on Sex 26. Nassar Trials

Fri, 02 Feb 2018 15:58:00 -0800

Dr. Lynn Ponton and Jennifer Wong, LMFT are talking about Larry Nassar, abuse, and red flags.

Spotlight on Sex 25. Sexual Seduction or Harassment-Aziz Ansari

Fri, 26 Jan 2018 15:46:00 -0800

Lynn and Jen break down the https://babe.net/2018/01/13/aziz-ansari-28355 article about Aziz Ansari to talk about seduction, sexual scripts, and harassment. In a tribune at the "World", a collective of 100 women, including Catherine Millet, Ingrid Caven and Catherine Deneuve, affirms its rejection of a certain feminism that expresses a "hatred of men". http://lemde.fr/2AHboay Finally, another article from a man who pushed the boundaries as a "nice guy". http://bit.ly/2n8ZnWt

26. Dating Men and Sexual Shame

Mon, 22 Jan 2018 17:17:00 -0800

Lynn and Jen get into the topic of sexual shame, sparked by this article "Why Does Dating Men Make Me Feel Like Shit" by Emma Lindsay https://twitter.com/SassyDotLove https://medium.com/@emmalindsay/why-does-dating-men-make-me-feel-like-shit-12c25e539021

25. Backlash Against the Silence Breakers

Mon, 08 Jan 2018 16:25:00 -0800

Time Persons of the Year http://time.com/time-person-of-the-year-2017-silence-breakers/ #MeToo Send your comments to info@talkingsexpodcast.com or head over to Facebook https://www.facebook.com/talkingsexpod/

Spotlight on Sex 24. End of the Year Thank You

Fri, 29 Dec 2017 22:47:00 -0800

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24. Emotional Labor

Mon, 18 Dec 2017 16:45:00 -0800

Dr. Lynn Ponton and Jennifer Wong, LMFT talk about "Emotional Labor" sparked by the article http://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a12780277/emotional-labor-men-respond/ "Men Everywhere Finally Understand Emotional Labor" by Gemma Hartley

Spotlight 23: Alabama Senate Race

Fri, 15 Dec 2017 07:01:00 -0800

Lynn and Jen revisit the issue of the Alabama Senate Race, sexual harassment and abuse amidst political polarization. They shine the spotlight on two women who have chosen to take action.....and of course we had a little bit more to add on after that WIN!!!

Spotlight on Sex 22. The Al Franken problem

Mon, 11 Dec 2017 18:33:00 -0800

Lynn and Jen discuss the resignation of Senator Al Franken, and suggests systems to address this problem going forward. Like us on Facebook.com/talkingsexpod for links they discuss and to share your thoughts about the episode!

Spotlight on Sex 21. Roy Moore

Fri, 08 Dec 2017 17:37:00 -0800

Dr. Lynn and Jennifer, LMFT are talking about Roy Moore, politics, and believing women. Send stories, topic suggestions, and anything else to info@talkingsexpodcast.com Like our page at Facebook.com/talkingsexpod, and leave us a 5-star review wherever you get podcasts.

23. Abuse by Teachers

Mon, 04 Dec 2017 16:13:00 -0800

A surprisingly empowering talk about a dark subject. Get in on the conversation with Lynn and Jen as they discuss signs of abuse in children and adolescents. This is a great episode for parents or teens. Send emails to info@talkingsexpodcast.com

Spotlight on Sex 20: What to do About Sexual Abusers or Harassers We Know

Sat, 02 Dec 2017 16:15:00 -0800

Head over to the Facebook page to check out links mentioned in the episode! www.facebook.com/talkingsexpod and email us to tell us your thoughts on the episode at info@talkingsexpodcast.com. This week's episode started out as a discussion about an article, but grew into examining sexual abuse and harassment from a framework used with alcoholism. Listen in to see what that means.

Spotlight on Sex 19. Holidays: Coping with Challenging Family Members

Thu, 23 Nov 2017 01:01:00 -0800

Lynn and Jen discuss going home for the holidays when you have to deal with challenging family members. They provide coping strategies for you to put to use this holiday season. They make sure to address how to deal with people bringing up controversial topics, including sexual harassment and abuse that is in the news and media.

22. Childhood Sexuality

Mon, 20 Nov 2017 15:59:00 -0800

Dr. Lynn and Jen get into sexuality in regards to children. Check out the Facebook page at www.facebook.com/talkingsexpod Also, subscribe, share, rate, and review in Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts! We're also on Twitter www.twitter.com/talkingsexpod. You can send emails to info@talkingsexpodcast.com or via our Facebook page!

Spotlight on Sex 18. Artists Who Abuse

Fri, 17 Nov 2017 16:06:00 -0800

Is it possible to separate the art from the artist? What happens when someone's life is part of the art? Dr. Lynn and Jen, LMFT, open up this spotlight to talk about just that. If you want to share your stories or topic suggestions with the hosts, send an email to info@talkingsexpodcast.com and check us out on Facebook! https://www.facebook.com/talkingsexpod

Spotlight on Sex 17. The Cost of Sexual Shame

Fri, 10 Nov 2017 17:04:00 -0800

This spotlight on sex is discussing the difference between shame and guilt in the sexual realm. Check out the Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/talkingsexpod and Lynn and Jen love hearing from you! Send them an email at info@talkingsexpodcast.com

21. Fighting Fair

Mon, 06 Nov 2017 16:52:00 -0800

Lynn and Jen get into a listener-requested topic this episode. How do you fight fair? Read more about Gottman's Four Horsemen here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-recognizing-criticism-contempt-defensiveness-and-stonewalling/ Don't forget to leave a positive review wherever you get podcasts! Have the best day ever, and don't forget to fight fair. email the hosts at info@talkingsexpodcast.com

Spotlight on Sex 16: Share Your Story - Joni Mitchell & Anthony Rapp

Fri, 03 Nov 2017 16:34:00 -0700

In this Spotlight on Sex, Lynn and Jen discuss current events in the sexual zeitgeist surrounding Anthony Rapp and Kevin Spacey, being a feminist, and pioneers in sexual and emotional revolutions, like Joni Mitchell. All of Joni Mitchell's music is available in iTunes. Read more about Joni Mitchell in The Atlantic https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2017/11/the-unknowable-joni-mitchell/540618/ and in Rolling Stone Magazine http://www.rollingstone.com/music/features/joni-mitchell-19921015 If you wanted more information on the Rapp/Spacey story, you can read more here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/adambvary/anthony-rapp-kevin-spacey-made-sexual-advance-when-i-was-14?utm_term=.dd0RZZa7V#.mcAL99qAQ

Spotlight on Sex 15. Toxic Masculinity Ruins the Party Again

Mon, 16 Oct 2017 16:58:00 -0700

This spotlight episode can't wait until Friday. Over the weekend even more women have shared their stories about sexual abuse on Twitter with the hashtag #MeToo (in regards to the Harvey Weinstein story or about Weinstein himself). Read more about that here: http://www.bbc.com/news/blogs-trending-41633857 * Comedian Owen Benjamin tweeted out over the weekend that he has been dropped by his agent without providing further details. * http://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/features/a12063822/emotional-labor-gender-equality/ to read the Harper's Bazaar article "Women Aren't Nags-We're Just Fed Up". * Send emails to info@talkingsexpodcast.com and on Twitter @talkingsexpod

Spotlight on Sex 14. Observed Cultural Differences of Gender in Japan

Fri, 13 Oct 2017 16:42:00 -0700

Dr. Lynn Ponton went to Japan. Jen and Lynn talk about the cultural differences in this Spotlight on Sex. email: info@talkingsexpodcast.com Twitter: @talkingsexpod

20. Misogyny

Mon, 02 Oct 2017 17:28:00 -0700

Dr. Lynn and Jennifer, LMFT explore misogyny. Share your tales and ask questions at info@talkingsexpodcast.com and on twitter @talkingsexpod

Spotlight on Sex 13: Consent

Fri, 22 Sep 2017 17:07:00 -0700

This Spotlight on Sex is focused on defining consent and sexual pressures facing women and men. Share your stories or topics you'd like covered on a future episode to info@talkingsexpodcast.com and follow the show on Twitter @talkingsexpod

Spotlight on Sex 13 preview

Thu, 21 Sep 2017 01:46:00 -0700

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19. Gender

Mon, 18 Sep 2017 18:39:00 -0700

Lynn and Jennifer talk about the fluidity of gender and what that means for trans kids and adults. Send your stories and questions to info@talkingsexpodcast.com and follow the show on Twitter @Talkingsexpod

Spotlight on Sex 12: Hillary Clinton & What Happened

Fri, 15 Sep 2017 21:26:00 -0700

Dr. Lynn and Jen dig into Hillary Clinton's new book "What Happened", as they dissect what indeed happened. Send questions and comments to info@talkingsexpodcast.com and follow the show on twitter @Talkingsexpod

18. Pregnancy and Abortion

Tue, 05 Sep 2017 16:28:00 -0700

Dr. Lynn and Jen, LMFT are unpacking pregnancy and abortion. Follow the show on Twitter @TalkingSexPod and you can email the hosts at info@talkingsexpodcast.com Please, leave a 5 star review wherever you get podcasts to help others find the show.

SoS 11: The Silencing of Child Victims of Sexual Abuse

Fri, 01 Sep 2017 16:55:00 -0700

Dr. Lynn and Jen, LMFT get into the tough subject of how children who have been sexually abused can be silenced and not believed. Link to the article: http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0022167815604442 Don't forget to rate us 5 stars in iTunes, and send emails to info@talkingsexpodcast.com or interact with the show on twitter @talkingsexpod

17. Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity w/ Sam Judice

Mon, 21 Aug 2017 15:39:00 -0700

Sam Judice is here to talk with Dr. Lynn and Jen, LMFT about sexual orientation and gender identity. Reach Lynn and Jen at info@talkingsexpodcast.com or on Twitter @TalkingSexPod

Spotlight on Sex 10 Taylor Swift's Law Suit & #NotOkay

Fri, 18 Aug 2017 16:02:00 -0700

Regardless of how Lynn says it, we're talking about Taylor Swift http://www.cnn.com/2017/08/10/us/taylor-swift-trial-testimony/index.html To read more about the hashtag #NotOkay http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/notokay-women-share-stories-sexual-assault-article-1.2827132 Leave a 5 star review wherever you get podcasts to help others find the show. email Lynn and Jen at info@talkingsexpodcast.com or interact with the show on Twitter @TalkingSexPod

16. Breakups

Mon, 07 Aug 2017 17:51:00 -0700

Dr. Lynn and Jen, LMFT sit down to talk about pain and rebirth surrounding a breakup. You can email the show at info@talkingsexpodcast.com, leave a 5 star review in iTunes to help others find the show! We're also on twitter @talkingsexpod

Spotlight on sex 9 Transgender, Trump, and Double Speak

Fri, 04 Aug 2017 18:40:00 -0700

Lynn and Jen discuss the latest in Transgender developments in regards to Trump. Clips used: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lrwKxuv42xc Ann Coulter talks Trump tweets, and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cilXJk2qfCE Donald Trump speaks after Pulse nightclub shooting. You can send emails to Lynn and Jen at info@talkingsexpodcast.com Please, leave a 5 star review wherever you get your podcasts to help others find the show. We appreciate your support as we wade through troubling waters. If you would like to share thoughts about the episode on twitter you can reach us @talkingsexpod

15. Attachment Theories and Relationships

Mon, 24 Jul 2017 17:14:00 -0700

Lynn and Jen get into attachment styles and relationships. If you'd like to support the show, leave a 5 star review wherever you listen to podcasts. You can also send in stories or topics you'd like to hear discussed by emailing info@talkingsexpodcast.com or www.twitter.com/talkingsexpod

14. Trauma and Sexuality

Mon, 10 Jul 2017 15:53:00 -0700

Non-sexual trauma and cultivating safety in our sexual lives. Listen as Lynn and Jen begin to unpack this dense issue. If you'd like to share your story, or submit a topic or question, send them to info@talkingsexpodcast.com or to @TalkingSexPod on Twitter.

Spotlight on Sex 8: Why Fathers Leave

Fri, 23 Jun 2017 15:48:00 -0700

This conversation was sparked by Father's Day and an article by David Brooks entitled "Why Fathers Leave Their Children" which you can read here: https://www.nytimes.com/2017/06/16/opinion/why-fathers-leave-their-children.html Don't forget to follow the show on Twitter @TalkingSexPod. You can email the hosts at info@talkingsexpodcast.com. Let Lynn and Jen know how much you love the show by leaving a 5-star review in iTunes!

13. Sexual Abuse of Boys and Men

Mon, 19 Jun 2017 15:44:00 -0700

Lynn and Jen are back to talk about the sexual abuse of boys and men. Email Dr. Lynn and Jen, LMFT at info@talkingsexpodcast.com to submit ideas for topics not yet discussed or to share stories and insight. Leave a five-star review in iTunes. Follow the show on Twitter @talkingsexpod

Spotlight on Sex 7: Beach-Body Expectations

Fri, 16 Jun 2017 16:21:00 -0700

What does it mean to have a "beach body"? How are we inflating the value of thinness? It's a vast subject, but Lynn and Jen are here to talk about it! Leave a 5-star review for the show in iTunes. Don't forget you can email your hosts at info@talkingsexpodcast.com or follow the show on Twitter @talkingsexpod

Spotlight on Sex 6: France, Laws, Body Image, and Photoshop

Fri, 09 Jun 2017 15:58:00 -0700

Does retouching photographs or photoshopping a model or celebrity give unrealistic expectations of body image? France has passed legislation that would require all retouched photos to be labeled as such. What does that mean for the fashion industry and the society that consumes their ideals? Your hosts, Lynn and Jen, are here to talk about it. Let them know what you think of the show by leaving a 5-star review in iTunes, follow the show on twitter @talkingsexpod, or send them an email at info@talkingsexpodcast

12. Misogyny and Masculine Culture w/ guest Peter Boyle

Mon, 05 Jun 2017 19:15:00 -0700

Dr. Lynn Ponton and Jennifer Wong, LMFT have guest, Peter Boyle, to talk about incels, rejection, misogyny, sex, and equality. This is a fantastic episode! Share your thoughts with Lynn and Jen on twitter @talkingsexpod, or email them at info@talkingsexpodcast.com. Give the show a 5-star review on iTunes to let them know you love the show.

Spotlight on Sex 5: Catcalling

Fri, 02 Jun 2017 16:33:00 -0700

Let's talk about catcalls with Lynn and Jen for a spotlight on sex. Send your stories to https://twitter.com/TalkingSexPod or to info@talkingsexpodcast.com We want to hear from you! If you love the show, head over to iTunes, and leave a 5-Star review!

Spotlight on Sex 4

Fri, 26 May 2017 15:04:00 -0700

Another Spotlight on Sex with Dr. Lynn Ponton and Jennifer Wong LMFT to talk about being safe in public spaces. Contact your hosts on Twitter @TalkingSexPod, or you can email them at info@talkingsexpodcast.com

11. Sexual Harassment

Mon, 22 May 2017 17:43:00 -0700

A quick chat between Dr. Lynn and Jennifer, LMFT. They discuss more on power and sexual harassment. Leave a 5 star review on iTunes to let others know you love the show! Send emails to info@talkingsexpodcast.com

10. Sex, Gender, and Power

Mon, 08 May 2017 14:16:00 -0700

Who has the real power in relationships? Lynn and Jen talk about having power, giving it away, and defining sexual power. info@talkingsexpodcast.com or @talkingsexpod on twitter

9. Peer Education with Biz Yoder

Mon, 24 Apr 2017 20:46:00 -0700

Join Dr. Lynn Ponton and Jennifer Wong, LMFT as they talk about peer education with a special guest! Biz Yoder is a peer educator here to talk about her work in the US and abroad. Email topics, questions, stories, or other topics we should cover to info@talkingsexpodcast.com or talking.sex.podcast@gmail.com. Follow the show on twitter https://twitter.com/TalkingSexPod

8. Relationships and Intimacy

Mon, 10 Apr 2017 21:01:00 -0700

What does intimacy mean in a relationship? Let's unpack some of it in this episode. Lynn and Jen are back to talk about relationships and intimacy. Don't forget to follow the show on twitter @TalkingSexPod and email your hosts at info@talkingsexpodcast.com

Spotlight on Sex 3: Why Is Silicon Valley So Awful to Women?

Fri, 24 Mar 2017 14:11:00 -0700

Lynn and Jen sit down to unpack the Spotlight on Sex article of the week: Why Is Silicon Valley So Awful to Women? by Liza Mundy https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2017/04/why-is-silicon-valley-so-awful-to-women/517788/ info@talkingsexpod.com

7. Fairytales for Boys - Adventure Stories

Mon, 20 Mar 2017 14:10:00 -0700

Princess fairytales are for girls, and boys go on adventures. But, what does that script mean for boys and young men? info@talkingsexpod.com and don't forget to follow us on Twitter @talkingsexpod

Spotlight on Sex 2: The Woke Misogynist

Fri, 17 Mar 2017 14:13:00 -0700

Today your hosts are talking about a Nona Willis Aronowitz article called "Poser in a Pussy Hat: Meet the Woke Misogynist". You can find her @Nona on twitter http://fusion.net/story/391391/woke-misogynist/ email the hosts at info@talkingsexpodcast.com and follow the show on twitter https://twitter.com/TalkingSexPod

Spotlights on Sex 1

Fri, 10 Mar 2017 15:50:00 -0800

In this new segment we shine a spotlight on sex in our world, so that you, our listener, can start talking more about sex. Think of it as Current Events - The Sex Edition. Today's spotlights address our current political climate, and how these issues relate to gender: 1. Which bathroom should transgender children and adolescents use? 2. What's up with Marines posting sexual photos of women, including fellow Marines? 3. Which counts more, Ideas or appearance in working women's lives? Please, leave a 5-star review in iTunes for the show, and follow the show on twitter @talkingsexpod!

6. Fairytales for Girls-Romance Stories

Mon, 06 Mar 2017 13:56:00 -0800

We take a look at how fairytales, which are targeted towards girls, shape and are shaped by ideas of romance. What happens when we treat these magical stories as a blueprint for our personal romantic lives?

5. Sex and Risk

Mon, 27 Feb 2017 14:13:00 -0800

Not all risks are bad. Join us as we look at what "Risk" is all about. Don't forget to reach out to us at info@talkingsexpodcast.com Comment, rate, and subscribe wherever you get podcasts!

4. How to Talk About Sex

Mon, 13 Feb 2017 14:07:00 -0800

Here we open up the dialogue about HOW to talk about sex, highlighting the importance of partnering, and encouraging cross-generational conversations. Follow us on Twitter https://twitter.com/TalkingSexPod. Inspired to start your own conversation? How did it go? Email us at info@talkingsexpodcast.com

3. Sex and Social Media

Mon, 30 Jan 2017 17:05:00 -0800

We're back this week discussing aspects of social media. Is social media changing how we interact with others? Does it change how we see ourselves? What's up with the sharing of nudes and dick pics? Get in on the conversation! Follow us on Twitter https://twitter.com/TalkingSexPod and email us at info@talkingsexpodcast.com

2. Inauguration, Election, & Halloween Costumes

Fri, 20 Jan 2017 15:59:00 -0800

It's January 20th, 2017. Join us for this bonus episode as we talk about our thoughts and feelings pre-inauguration and post-election. Follow along as national politics are interwoven with the innocuous-seeming topic of Halloween costumes.

1. Meet Your Hosts

Mon, 16 Jan 2017 02:07:00 -0800

Get to know us, your hosts, Lynn and Jen! Find out why we’re great at talking about sex, how we met, and how our interest in this subject developed. Discover why we think you'll benefit from talking more about sex. Send emails to info@talkingsexpodcast.com and follow the show on Twitter https://twitter.com/TalkingSexPod